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A SERMON PREACHED at the FUNERAL OF THE RIGHT HONOURABLE ANNE , Lady-Dowager BROOK . Who was Buried at Breamor , the 19th day of February , 1690 / 1. By the Right Reverend Father in God , GILBERT , Lord Bishop of SARUM . LONDON : Printed for Ric. Chiswell , at the Rose and Crown in St. Paul's Church-Yard . MDCXCI . PROV . xxxi . 30 , 31. Favour is deceitful , and beauty is vain : but a Woman that feareth the Lord , she shall be praised . Give her of the fruit of her hands , and let her own works praise her in the gates . THE General Lamentations which the sad Occasion of this present Assembly has raised over this whole Countrey , as in a common Calamity , where every one bears a share , because so many do feel it , have so far prevented me in all that can be said to the praise of her , whose Remains are now to be laid up in the belief of the Resurrection of the Iust , at which time they are to be restored to her again , that I am very sensible it is not necessary to say any thing concerning her , for the raising among you the esteem that is due to her Memory , which is , and must be long very dear to you all . But as there is some disadvantage in speaking what is proper on this Subject , before those who knew her well , and so will think that I am as reserved in commending her , as she her self was in hiding her own Worth , and in concealing those Works which do now praise her ; yet on the other hand I speak with the more assurance , because it is in the Countrey where she spent so many of her years . I should be afraid to say all that I have resolv'd on , if it were in the Audience of such as had been Strangers to the Course of her Life : It is a nice and tender thing to praise , especially in this Vicious and corrupted Age , in which so many are concerned to keep themselves in Countenance , and to decry a Virtue that must needs make their Vices shew more foul and odious ; and who cannot bear what is due to others , because they know that it does not belong to themselves . And it must be confessed , that excessive Commendations on these Occasions , in compliance with Custom , and the tenderness that seems then decent , where Flattery is thought more excusable , because the Person commended does not receive it ; these , I say , have given but too much reason to disregard what is said in discourses of this kind , in which it passes for a sort of rudeness not to exceed , and for an unkindness to the Friends of the Dead , not to praise out of measure . But I am less in pain to enlarge upon this Subject , when I have so many Vouchers before me , and when I am to speak of things that have been so long the Observation of all these parts . I will use as little art in Speaking , as She did in Living ; and will study to dress up a Memorial for her , with such a decent Simplicity , as she used in the dressing her Person , which as she did in haste , so I will be as short as may be . I will for some time interrupt my speaking of her , and consider the Text I have read to you , that so I may return with the more advantage to prosecute what I have now begun . This Chapter is a Poetical Composure ; it is an Accrostick in the Hebrew , according to the Custom of that time , for the help of the Memory . Every Verse , from the 10th to the end , begins with a new Letter of the Alphabet in their order . It is to little purpose to examine , whether the King , called Lemuel , to whom it is addressed , be Solomon under a disguised designation , or not ; and whether it was a Poem made by his Mother , directing him how to chuse a Wife , and giving him a full Character of the Excellencies of a good one , suitable to the Simplicy of those Ages and Places , in which Women of the highest Rank , and even Queens themselves , managed their own Domestick Concerns ; or if it was a Composition of Solomon's , setting forth , with many enlargements of Poesy , the Advices that his Mother had given him ; or if he only brings in the Person of his Mother , to make his Poetry look more Natural . It is to very little purpose to enquire into all this , and not possible to determine any part of it : Certain it is , that we have here a very noble and Elegant Description , of a faithful and affectionate , a discreet and an industrious Wife ; who as she applied her chief care to the concerns of her Husband and Children , so neglected not any of her Houshold-Affairs ; she rise early , and sate up late ; wrought with her own hands , and looked to the ways of her Houshold ; she took care that her whole Family should be well imployed ; she was an honour as well as a help to her Husband : Her whole behaviour was both prudent and obliging ; She opened her mouth with wisdom , not to evil speaking , nor idle talking ; and in her tongue was the law of kindness ; an exact , but engaging decency . All this is concluded with a short song , in which her Husband and Children should celebrate her Praises , which , as it is probable , was to be sung among them by turns , according to the way of the Eastern Musick : The first might begin , Many daughters have done vertuously ; and to this another might answer , But thou excellest them all : Then one might sing , Favour is deceitful ; another , Beauty is vain : And both together , But the woman that feareth the Lord , she shall be praised . Then one might sing , Give her , and another answer , of the fruit of her hands ; and then both together , and Let her own works praise her in the gates . There is a plain Intimation given of the custom that was among the Jews to sing this Song by turns , on two of their great Solemnities in the Misna * . By Favour , is to be meant all that is insinuating in a Womans Humour , Manner , and Conversation , by which a Husband may be charmed : This is often deceitful , and under it a great deal of Disloyalty and Treachery is both hid and managed ; these Arts being so many Practices upon the easie Husband , to deceive and blind him , to impose any thing upon him , and to obtain every thing from him . Therefore , tho a lively Air , a graceful Behaviour , a soft Manner , a Pleasantness of Humour , and an entertaining Conversation , are very valuable Qualities , and have Powerful Charms in them , yet all this may be deceitful ; much baseness and falshood may be under them ; so that this singly cannot make a good Character . Beauty is vain ; this which strikes the eye , as the other does the Imagination , is yet slighter , it is often false , especially in the East where beauty is as oft the work of Art , as of Nature , and it had been well if that practice had remained in the East still , and had not come into these Western parts ; but suppose the Beauty to be both true and exact , it is vain in many other respects : It does not always lodge a pure Soul , which does often contract the more deformity , because it dwells within a beautiful Figure , that but too often feeds pride , and is set off with Vanity , which both draws admiration and delights in it : it does insensibly dissolve the mind into voluptuousness , and in the end intangle it into many snares , and expose it to much Sin. It is Vain in another respect , it is subject to many accidents which may blast it , and if it escapes these , yet it must yield at last and fade with Age , if by the precipitated wastings of Nature and other disorders , it does not fall sooner . These words run thus in the Hebrew , Favour , Falshood , Beauty , Vanity , and perhaps every one of these was to be sung by turns as the answer to the other . These are the two things by which that Sex is chiefly recommended to those who make slight and hasty Judgments , and that do often perceive their error when it is too late to correct it : but that upon which a true one can only be formed , lies in the words that follow — But the woman that feareth the Lord , she shall be praised . The fear of a discovery , and of shame ; the fear of a Husband , and the apprehensions of his displeasure , are but feeble principles : they may restrain one at some times , and from some temptations , but it is only the fear of God that subdues the heart , that shoots its influence into the secretest springs of our actions , that overcomes the strongest inclinations , even in their first and invisible motions : this sets a Law , not only to one's actions , but to his very thoughts : The conduct of the outward part of life , when that is contradicted by the wishes and desires which are allowed a free range within , is but a constraint , and the acting of a part which is not natural ; and nothing that is an affected force upon Nature can be either easy or lasting . Nature will be always at some time or other too hard for Rule and Form. And even a Firm Resolution will soon grow heavy and will at last be forgotten , if there are not principles formed within , that give it a root , and afford it nourishment : therefore Vertue can have no settled basis nor foundation , unless its bottom be the true fear of God , a secret sence of a supream and perfect mind , that sees all we do , and that will judge us at last according to all that we have done . When this is lodged in the most retired corners of our Hearts ; when the sense of it returns often upon us , to acquit or to condemn us ; when we measure our selves and all our actions by our conformity to this Eternal Being ; when we reckon it our supreme and only happiness , to become like unto it , and accepted of it ; when no exercises become more delighting to us , than our Meditating of its Perfections , and of all the discoveries that it has made of it self ; and when upon these Contemplations the mind grows to love and adore that Being , and to prostrate it self often before it , and dedicate it self entirely to serve and please it in all things , Then Virtue has a true fastning within , to which it cleaves , and which will support and strengthen it : And indeed Virtue , and the Fear of God do so mutually maintain one another , that these who are equally Enemies to both , know that the rooting out the one , will soon draw the other after it . The Prophane Tribe of Libertines does chiefly hate Religion , because Virtue does ever accompany it ; they find it often in their way , and wish there were as little of it in the World , as they feel in their own Breasts : but it were too barefaced a thing to endeavour to strike both at Virtue and Religion at once . There is a sound in Vertue that carries Majesty with it , and commands the esteem of the whole World , so such as hate it , know that they must take care not to discover that too soon , lest they should draw a general Indignation upon themselves . But Religion they think may be more safely struck at ; the diversities about it , the scandals given by many that have pretended to it , the Invisible objects to which it relates ; the distance we live at from the Ages in which the Miracles that confirmed it were wrought , and the many Impostures that have been put upon weak and credulous Multitudes , do all afford some plausible appearances , which set off with Boldness and Scorn , and served up with Mirth and Gaiety , have been fatally successful in Poysoning weak minds that cannot lay many things together , and cannot distinguish between Truth and the Varnish of it . But while these do thus undermine Religion , they seem to be mightily in love with Virtue , and pretend that it has had great force on Minds upon whom Religion had none at all ; and that it may maintain its power very well in the Souls of Men , tho they were not over-awed with secret Terrours . Whereas in truth , they only hate Religion for the sake of that Virtue , which it commands and secures : and they could well look on , and let Religion bear full sway in the world , if it consisted only in some dark Speculations , and outward Performances , and contented with these , left men at liberty to do what they pleased ; they know , and all the World has observed it too often , That as soon as the Impressions of Religion are defaced , the strength of Virtue is gone : for why should Men restrain their Inclinations , bridle their Passions , and deny themselves any pleasures or advantages , if there is no sovereign Mind over us , to whom Obedience is due , who will reckon with us , and reward or punish us eternally according as we lead that course of life here , which he has assigned us as our passage to Eternity . If there is nothing in Virtue , but decency , interest , or humour , as these are all weak Principles , not able to bear much weight on them ; so when both pleasure and advantage are in the other Scale , they will certainly downweigh them . Hence it is , that all those who go off from a Religious Education , and from the Principles and Practises that must support it , do soon forsake all the strictness of Virtue . The fear of God is that Principle alone that can sanctify and perfect our Nature ; the having our Minds full of high and sublime thoughts of that Supream Being that made and governs the World , together with a just sense of his Authority over us , of our obligation to obey all his Laws , and to conform our very thoughts to his Nature and Will , and the framing our whole Lives , and the laying out our whole time , so as we may be ever accepted of by him , is the just and true notion of the fear of God. If any imagine that it consists only in the having some terrible thoughts of God , and of Sin , the performing some duties to God as a homage that will please him , and the looking over past Sins with some sad thoughts ; and when that is done , if men return to them , and continue in them , and are only now and then a little troubled when they reflect on them , which is all the Notion that the greatest part , even of those who pass in the World for Religious , entertain of it , it is no wonder that great advantages are taken to decry Religion it self , when this is believed to be all the effect and power that it has . But the true fear of God is a much deeper Principle , and has a more noble effect on all the powers of the Soul ; it charms as well as reforms them , and elevates as well as it fortifies them ; it follows a man to his Retirements , and there if at any time it humbles him , it does quickly raise him up again : it gives him solid joys , when he perceives that he carries God's Image upon him , and is reconciled to him ; it follows him through the whole business , and even through the diversions of Life : It governs his Mind , and guides his Actions , and though the sound of the Word Fear carries terror in it , yet how severe soever the operation of it must be upon some occasions , it generally gives it such a noble sense of the goodness , as well as of the greatness of God , that it becomes a Fear of Reverence tempered with Love , and not a Dread full of Guilt that strikes Horror . Those good Minds that give up themselves to the Conduct of this Fear , and come under its Discipline , feel both a Strength in it to govern them , and a Calm in it to settle them . If they do truly fear God , it exalts them above all base and dispiriting Fears ; So that they fear nothing else ; all the Accidents of Life and Death it self can give no Terror , where this has once had its true Effect . For a Man that fears God , and feels himself to be so governed by this Fear , that he has all Reason to conclude he is in his Favour , and under his Protection , is thereby raised far above all other Depressions ; nothing can disturb him but his apprehensions of having offended that Goodness which he fears : and sometimes a great Tenderness of Mind , joyned with a deep Sence of Duty , will raise sad Reflections in those who have the justest Cause of rejoycing always in God. But such cloudy Thoughts , though they may at sometimes disquiet them a little , yet have a good Effect on them ; they oblige them to great watchfulness , and beget in them a particular application to their Duty : and that very Anxiety which was the Effect of their Tenderness , and that raised some melancholly distrust in them concerning their own Condition , shews plainly how deep a Root this Fear has in them , when such apprehensions prove so painful . These are the happy Souls that rise above the World , and all its vain Hopes and Fears , and settle their Minds on God , whom they fear and serve with their whole Hearts . A Woman that fears the Lord , has in her Constitution and Method of Life , some advantages that help her forward to this Disposition of Mind ; and she hath at the same time other things that ballance this in her . The Affections of that Sex are more tender , they are less hardy and bold ; they are under a greater Regularity of Form ; Decency and Modesty are great Defences : They are not so much exposed to the Temptations that are in the World ; they live at home , and do not range abroad ; their Children , especially those of their own Sex , give them a constant Entertainment , and do commonly carry away much of their Hearts and Time ; so that they are out of that loose Ramble , which is the great Corruption of Mankind . But to ballance all this , their Education is not so studied , nor so laboured , that thereby great Notions , and strong Reasonings may be formed in them , which give a Foundation to Knowledge and Religion ; all which is more commonly laid in the Youth of our Sex. The Affections of Women are laid deep in their Natures , so that the common Afflictions of Life , especially of a Married State , from the Loss of Children , or of their Husbands , go farther into their Minds , and sink , and shake them more violently ; to which the Decencies of their Griefs , that do , as it were , stake them down to it , contribute not a little ; which do not allow them the Diversions to which Custom gives Men a freer and earlier admittance . These are the Advantages and Disadvantages that they have , with Relation to a Religious Course of Life . Upon the whole Matter , it must be acknowledged , from the Observation of all Ages , that this Sex has produced the Eminentest , the most Exact , and unblemished , the most Charitable and Bountiful , and the most Serious and Devout Fearers and Servers of God , that the World has yet had , and that Religion has never shined brighter than in their whole Deportment . And therefore such Women , especially if they happen to be in an Age in which Libertinism and Impiety has not only corrupted our Sex , but has even broke through the Modesty of theirs , and almost made a Rape upon it ; and in which all the Exactness of Vertue , and the Strictness of a Regular Life , has been laughed at , and despised , as the Stiffness of Form. I say , in such an Age as ours , Women of Rank and Birth , of Quality and Fortune , that in spite of a Torrent of Vice , that had got Credit by Great Examples , and had lost the Sense of Shame by the Multitude of those that went into it , will still own and practice Religion and Vertue in the strictest and exactest manner ought to be celebrated with just Praises : And if the Example is set by them in such a manner , as not to frighten any from Religion , by the mixture of morose Sourness , or by the affectation of singular or superstitious Practices : If it , on the contrary , is shewed in Instances that must needs recommend Religion by the excellent Effects it has , and by the soft and gentle manner with which it is managed , then the Memory of such a Woman ought to be precious , it ought to be honoured with such deserved Commendations , as are one part , though it be indeed one of the smallest , of the Rewards that are due unto Vertue . When this is so done , that it is visible Flattery has no share in it , that it cannot corrupt the Person that is praised , into Vanity or Haughtiness of Mind , and when the chief Intent of such Praises is to set forth to the World a fresh Instance of the Power of Religion , and of its happy Influence upon whole Neighbourhoods , for the incouragement and instruction of such as chuse to follow good Patterns , then such Commendations as they , are a piece of Natural Equity and Justice ; So they may give occasion to a Noble Emulation , and may offer a more familiar and sensible Direction than can be given in Rules or Precepts . I need not add to all this , That no Custom has been more ancient , nor more universal among all Civilized Nations than the setting forth the Praises of the Dead at their Funerals : But indeed these have been generally given out so lavishly , and often so unjustly , that all Discourses of this kind appear with great Prejudices against them , and therefore they ought to be severely weighed . The following Words in my Text give such measures , that if these be observed , all Errors and Excesses will be prevented . — Give her the Fruit of her own Hands ; That is , let her not be praised by a pompous setting forth of those things that were not her own , such as her Birth and Fortune , which are only the Distinctions of Divine Providence , by which Persons of Noble Minds are set in a higher Sphere , and are made capable of giving a more conspicuous Example , and of being a more general and publick Good to Mankind . Therefore the shewing what were the real Instances , and the good Effects of her Religion , is the most proper way of praising her : and the less Pomp of Eloquence , or Art of Disposition and Expression , that accompanies such a Description , it comes the nearer the Rules that are here given — Let her own Works praise her in the Gates . Among the Jews , their Courts of Judicature , and other Solemn Assemblies , were at their Gates : It being judged much safer for a City , that the chief place of Concourse should rather be at and about its Gates , than in its Heart and Center : So that by Gates we are to understand the gathering of the People ; and there it was that her Works were to praise her , every one having somewhat to say , that had either fallen under his own Observation , or that had come to his Knowledg : There was no need of an Orator to recite them , of a Poet to adorn them , or of Hired Mourners to sing them out in doleful Tunes , which were the Methods of those Times : All these might well be spared , when the Universal Sense of the Town , and the Groans of the Neighbourhood agreed in the same Character , and that a General Lamentation followed a Common Loss . This is a Panegyrick that can never be suspected ; for no Man misdoubts those Tears that fall upon a real Loss . When the Widows came to mourn over Dorcas , who had been full of good Works , and Alms-Deeds , and shewed the Coats and Garments , which she had not only given them ' but had made for them while she was with them : Here was a more powerful Strain of Rhetorick than the most studied Composures . The reciting the Names , the Vertues and the Sufferings of the Primitive Christians and Martyrs , was in the First Ages of Christianity a great part even of the Office of the Communion it self ; and the striking the Names of any out of those Registers and Memorials , was reckoned to be one of the severest Acts of the Discipline of the Church . It is true , the Abuses that were ushered in by this , do well excuse us , though in this particular we do not conform our selves to so ancient a Custom ; yet when singular Instances come in our way , as we ought to rejoice to see that Religion has not yet lost its force , but can even in this degenerate Age , give Noble Instances of the Power it has , and of the Effects that follow it , so we ought to set it out in its True and Natural Colours . We are not indeed to follow the Steps of a Church , that as she is made up of Lies , so lies more impudently in nothing than in dressing up the Legends , and setting forth the Excellencies of those who have contributed to her enriching , or to her Exaltation , and that does plainly shew no regard either to what is true , or to what is so much as likely in the Lives , or rather the Fables that are given out of her Saints : In which it is visible , that no Care is had to tell things truly as they were , but as they think they ought to have been done ; and that is managed in such a manner , as may most powerfully work on the Credulity or Superstition of the Age in which they write : They varying the Performances of their Saints according to the Taste of the several Ages in which they happen to write ; and by these means they serve their Ends of deceiving the World by this Exchange of Sophisticated Ware , for the wealth and advantages that it brings to them . But we have not so learned Christ , we know no other Arts but the plain Simplicity of the Gospel ; we dare not lye for God , and much less for the best Person upon Earth . And now I am brought back to the Subject with which I began . If we have here before us the earthly Tabernacle of a Woman that feared the Lord , then it is just and reasonable for us to praise Her ; but in the praising Her , I shall strictly observe the Direction of my Text , I will only give her those Commendations that are due to Her , that are the Fruit of her Hands , and will set before you some of Her Works , and leave them to praise Her by an Eloquence , that will have more Force and Beauty in it , than can be possibly put in Words . I will say nothing but that which I have good reason to believe to be true : for though I had not the honour of so particular a Knowledge of Her , as to be able to form out of it an entire Character , yet what I saw in Her , shewed so sincere and so profound a Piety , so severe and scrupulous a Vertue , so pure a Conscience , and such an exact Conduct , that from thence I have good reason to believe other Particulars , which I have received from those who have been long the nearest Witnesses to the whole Course of Her Life . This I must say , and you all know it to be true , that both in the Neighbouring City , which is the chief Part of my Care , and in this whole Countrey , She hath had this Character , to have been the greatest Example , and the Instrument of the most Good , of any Person that has been in these Parts within the Memory of Man. I will not lessen what I am to say concerning Her , by any account of Her Birth , of the Nobleness of her own Family , or of that into which She married , nor of the Greatness of the Fortune that descended to Her ; if I should speak of these , I should not give her the Fruit of her own Hands ; only it is no small part of a Character , that such things can neither swell a Mind to Pride , nor dissolve it into Vanity or Sensuality : Her descending to the concerns of the meanest Persons ; Her going so oft about to the poorest Houses , where Her Charity or Assistance was necessary ; Her constant care of the Sick ; Her supplying them so plentifully with Medicines from that vast Store that She provided for them ; Her sending oft for Physicians and Surgeons to them ; Her frequent handling and dressing their Sores Herself , when Surgeons could not be had , which as She never affected to do , so She never declined it where it was necessary ; Her kneeling so oft down , and treating Ulcers which were so loathsome , that no Charity less than Hers , could have endured so odious a Sight ; Her not being afraid even of contagious Diseases , except that of the small Pox , in which Her care of Her Children obliged her to more Caution : All these Particulars of which I appeal to you that are before me , how many Instances you have seen and known , do fully shew that Her Rank and Fortune were only considered by Herself as so many Engagements upon Her , to be rich in good Works , and to be cloathed with Humility . But to give you her Character in that which according to my Text gives a just Title to praise , She feared the Lord greatly , she had so deep a sense of Religion , that she spent a great part of her time both in studying the Holy Scriptures , which she had laid well up in her Memory , and in reading Books both of Devotion and of Instruction in Matters of Religion , which she did carefully : those who have attended on her many Years , have assured me , that she would not lose quite that time which was set off for her Dressing , and which the far greatest part make to be a studied and lengthened Vanity , but she used then , either to read herself , or imploy another to do it , that so her Mind might have some share of that Time , and that it might not go all to her Person . She made Extracts out of many Books , but in short-hand , since they were only intended for her own or her Childrens use ; she also used her short-hand in taking the edifying Parts of Sermons , which she went over in private afterwards with her Children ; she was frequent and constant in secret Prayer , which had been , as she owned to me , the chief Joy and Support of her Life ; in that it was that she found Strength to bear the loss of Six Sons , one after another , all she ever had , and a dear Husband that was more than all : who was so dear to her , that with this single Consideration she quieted her Mind , after the loss of one Son which happened soon after her Lord had recovered of a great Sickness , that she could not complain of any thing which God did to her after he had granted her so great a Blessing . She was a Religious Observer of the Lord's-Day , but without Superstition or Affectation ; she never fail'd in a Course of many Years while in Health , to lay hold of every opportunity of receiving the Sacrament , and was always retired a day or two before it , and did rise ever very early on Communion-days , that she might be for a considerable time retir'd before she went to Church : She observed the daily Returns of religious Performances in her Family in a most regular manner , the Prayers of the Church being never discontinued , nor so much as put off . She was constant in the Communion of our Church , and had so hearty an affection to it , that when she saw the danger of our being over-run with Popery , she exprest her sense of it in the tenderest manner , and told her Children that she had much rather go with them to a Stake , than see them defile themselves with the Idolatry of the Mass ; yet her Zeal for her Religion did not transport her to any uncharitable Excesses , and therefore she had a due regard to Vertue and Goodness wheresoever she saw it . But though all about her saw how much Religion possessed her Thoughts , yet she shewed it as little as was possible , except where the Obligations of a Mother , or of a Mistress of a Family required it . She took care to have all her Family know and fear God , such as could not read , she allowed them both Time and Books , and other necessary Helps for it , and she furnished all about her , not only those of her Houshold , but of the Countrey quite round her , with such Books as might instruct and direct them ; and as her Modesty made that she would not assume to herself to be a Reprover of those that were not under her Authority , so the way she took , where she saw any occasion for it , was to send them such Books , in which they might find the Reproofs that they needed . When she reproved her Servants , those who have been twenty Years about her , have assured me she never did it in words of Reproach or Anger , but in the way that she believed was the most proper to have a good effect on them . She said , she was naturally passionate ; but she came to be early under the Power of Religion , and broke herself so entirely from it , that those who have known her the longest , do affirm they never saw her at any one time under the Power of it : She was more particularly gentle to those who were immediately about her , so that neither her Grief for those great Afflictions , with which it pleased God to visit her , nor the sharp Pains , nor lingring Disease of which she died , ever drew an indecent Expression from her . Her Religion as it gave her much Joy , so it gave her some Trouble , while by an exactness that carried her into too scrupulous a Jealousy of her self ; she was too apt to censure her own Defects and Coldnesses . She chose a proper Guide , to whom she gave frequently an account of the various Scenes of Thoughts that passed in her Mind ; her choice of one of my Reverend Brethren shewed how well she could judg of a Person fit for such a Confidence , and she had found , as she told me , great Benefit and Comfort in his Conduct . Her Soul was so wholly dedicated to God , that she seemed to have no other concern upon her , but how to know and to do her Duty upon all Occasions ; and it made even the Burden of her Sickness a redoubled Affliction to her , because it depressed her Spirits , so that she could not raise them up to God , with that Chearfulness and Joy that she had felt on other Occasions ; and that she did not fly towards Death with so entire a willingness , as had often formerly inflamed her Thoughts : she thought that even the desire of seeing the last part of her Care setled and entred into the World , was a concern below that Elevation of Soul with which a Christian ought to entertain the Approaches of Death . With all this deep Sense of Religion she had no sort of Affectation , Singularity , Censoriousness , or Sourness of Temper ; she had all the decent chearfulness about her that became her , tho always governed with a stay'd Gravity , she affected nothing that made any extraordinary shew , so that in all indifferent things she lived like those of her Rank . She never placed Religion in little and assumed Severities , but studied in the whole Course of her Life , to practise that pure Religion and undefiled with God and the Father , which is to visit the Widows and the Fatherless in their Affliction , and to keep her self unspotted from the World. She was free from that Spirit of Censoriousness , to which even good People are too prone ; perhaps through the sharpness of their Zeal against Sin : but when the occasions of observing the Evil that was in the World came in her way , she made the right use of them in proper Reflections on them , to those who were under her Care. She loved the Privacies of the Countrey , much more than the Diversions and Disorders of the Town : She loved to be at quiet , and to be either improving her own Mind , or to be doing good to others : She had attained to a great understanding in the matters of Religion , and the Scriptures ; and was not only conversant in the practical , but even in the speculative parts of it . So much study as she used , with so true a Judgment as she had , carried her a great way : next to that she studied Physick most ; as that by which she found she had the greatest opportunities of doing the most good ; and in this she set no bounds to her Care and Labour , and to the expence it drew with it : and in her later Years the extent of her Charity and the Zeal and Tenderness of it grew upon her very sensibly ; She had observed one constant Practice , upon any special Blessing that she received from God , to make a particular Largess of Charity , besides her ordinary Givings : but this of late encreased to great Sums , that walked round the Jayls of London , as well as amongst the miserable in these Parts ; besides that Riches of her Liberality with which she relieved the French and Irish Protestants : So that she seemed to be making haste to do all the good that was possible for her , as if she had had a secret Intimation that there was but a small Portion of time now before her . A slow Decay came to seize on her , while she was yet a great way from Old Age , being but Fifty when she died . She quickly apprehended that it would make an end of her , and so she set her self diligently to prepare for it . I must add one part of her Character , which I think so bright a one , that I am not afraid to rank it among those I have already mentioned : She had so great a sense of the Goodness of God to the Nation in the late happy Revolution , that she said her Nunc dimittis with the more Joy , because she had seen that Salvation which God hath wrought for us : She paid one Tax to the Government , with so hearty a Zeal , in offering up many earnest Prayers to God for its Establishment , that if many made so many Free-Will Offerings of that kind as she did , we might hope for a better account of all the other Taxes ; and a speedy end put to them all : and as she had so true an Affection to this Government her self , so she declared an unalterable Resolution of not bestowing that dear part of her Care , which she did not live to finish , to any but such as she believed were Faithful and Zealous to it . But now the Melancholy part is yet before me , I unwillingly go to it , but as the Discourse leads me , so I may well speak of it , since it was such as agreed with all that had gone before : she felt the Decays of Nature come so fast on her , that she prepared her self to meet her God : She had quite overcome all that unwillingness which so just a desire , as was formerly intimated , had raised in her : She rejoiced in the Will of God , and expressed so much satisfaction and chearfulness even in her Looks , that it plainly appeared all was calm within : She was no more depressed with uneasy Reflections on her self , but had the Joy of a good Conscience , and the Assurance of the Love and Goodness of God through Jesus Christ , to so high a degree , that she felt not now those unjust Censures with which she alone had sometimes punished her self : For she was the only Person , that , as far as I have been informed , ever thought hardly of herself . Since I could never hear that she had an Enemy , or that ever a considerable Injury was done her by any Person ; her prudent , grave and unmedling Temper kept her out of the way of making Enemies , and to this was joyned a special Blessing of God , that preserved her from unjust Malice : Thus for meer want of occasion I could not learn how her Charity would have wrought towards an Enemy that had injured her in any sort : She continued during the Course of her Sickness , not only to have the Prayers of the Church said by her , but was very often , indeed almost constantly , observed to be raising up her Soul to God : She had resolved to fit her self for her last Passage , with the great Viaticum of Christians , but Nature sunk all at once , and so fast that she could only communicate inwardly ; yet though she could not end her Life with that most solemn Act of Church-Communion , She desired that Character of dying in the Churches Peace , that is given in Absolution , which she received with much devout Joy : At last she broke Prison , and left a feeble and exhausted Body , and is now entered into the Joy of her Lord , into that Rest to which she was so long aspiring , and of which she had felt so many ravishing Fore-tastes in her way to it . There she is now , in the Fellowship of Angels , and in the Presence of God , where she will remain , till the restitution of all things , that this her now forsaken Body shall be changed and be made meet for her to return to it , and to dwell in it for ever . And for her Memory , let her own Works praise her , and make her Name to be as Ointment poured forth . May all in these Parts , that have either observed her Deportment , or felt the effects of her Charity , honour her , or rather Religion that made her to be what she truly was , even a publick Blessing to the whole Countrey . Look through all the Companies of the gay Libertines , and see what you can find among them all compared to that which Religion wrought in her , and then acknowledge that This is the Salt of the Earth , and the Light of the World. May all that hear of her , rise up and call her Blessed ; and by a noble Emulation , study to imitate the Vertues that shined so fair in her : May the great Family that is to succeed to her Seat , so far follow her steps , that they may dry up the Tears which do now flow so plentifully for her loss : May her noble Children answer the honour of being hers , and the Obligations that lie on them by the Example that they saw in her , and the Education that they received from her : And may he whom she loved and esteemed so highly , carry still with him so tender a sense of all the excellent Things that he observed and admired in her , that according to her last Words to him , Though they are now parted , since it was the Will of God that it must be so , yet they may meet again never to be separated , but to live eternally happy in that Fulness of Ioy , and in those Pleasures which are for evermore : And in conclusion , May the Example she has set , and the Good she has done , be ever celebrated ; may it recommend true Religion to the World ; Mark the Upright , and behold the Perfect , for their latter End is Peace . To which God in his Mercy bring us all in his good and appointed Time. Amen . FINIS . Notes, typically marginal, from the original text Notes for div A30437-e280 * Treat of ●●sts , c. 4. n. ● . Acts 9. 39. The Lord ●●●●●p of Worcester .