id	sid	tid	token	lemma	pos
29899	1	1	Marriage	marriage	NN
29899	1	2	Enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	1	3	Retreats	Retreats	NNPS
29899	1	4	Story	Story	NNP
29899	1	5	of	of	IN
29899	1	6	a	a	DT
29899	1	7	Quaker	Quaker	NNP
29899	1	8	Project	Project	NNP
29899	1	9	By	by	IN
29899	1	10	David	David	NNP
29899	1	11	and	and	CC
29899	1	12	Vera	Vera	NNP
29899	1	13	Mace	Mace	NNP
29899	1	14	Friends	Friends	NNPS
29899	1	15	General	General	NNP
29899	1	16	Conference	Conference	NNP
29899	1	17	1520	1520	CD
29899	1	18	Race	Race	NNP
29899	1	19	Street	Street	NNP
29899	1	20	Philadelphia	Philadelphia	NNP
29899	1	21	,	,	,
29899	1	22	Pennsylvania	Pennsylvania	NNP
29899	1	23	,	,	,
29899	1	24	19102	19102	CD
29899	1	25	About	about	IN
29899	1	26	the	the	DT
29899	1	27	Maces	Maces	NNPS
29899	1	28	David	David	NNP
29899	1	29	and	and	CC
29899	1	30	Vera	Vera	NNP
29899	1	31	Mace	Mace	NNP
29899	1	32	have	have	VBP
29899	1	33	spent	spend	VBN
29899	1	34	almost	almost	RB
29899	1	35	forty	forty	CD
29899	1	36	years	year	NNS
29899	1	37	making	make	VBG
29899	1	38	a	a	DT
29899	1	39	vital	vital	JJ
29899	1	40	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	1	41	of	of	IN
29899	1	42	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	1	43	own	own	JJ
29899	1	44	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	1	45	,	,	,
29899	1	46	and	and	CC
29899	1	47	,	,	,
29899	1	48	because	because	IN
29899	1	49	of	of	IN
29899	1	50	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	1	51	inherent	inherent	JJ
29899	1	52	sense	sense	NN
29899	1	53	of	of	IN
29899	1	54	purpose	purpose	NN
29899	1	55	,	,	,
29899	1	56	consequently	consequently	RB
29899	1	57	have	have	VBP
29899	1	58	enriched	enrich	VBN
29899	1	59	the	the	DT
29899	1	60	lives	life	NNS
29899	1	61	and	and	CC
29899	1	62	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	1	63	of	of	IN
29899	1	64	innumerable	innumerable	JJ
29899	1	65	persons	person	NNS
29899	1	66	in	in	IN
29899	1	67	some	some	DT
29899	1	68	sixty	sixty	CD
29899	1	69	countries	country	NNS
29899	1	70	around	around	IN
29899	1	71	the	the	DT
29899	1	72	world	world	NN
29899	1	73	.	.	.
29899	2	1	David	David	NNP
29899	2	2	Mace	Mace	NNP
29899	2	3	's	's	POS
29899	2	4	first	first	JJ
29899	2	5	degree	degree	NN
29899	2	6	was	be	VBD
29899	2	7	in	in	IN
29899	2	8	science	science	NN
29899	2	9	from	from	IN
29899	2	10	the	the	DT
29899	2	11	University	University	NNP
29899	2	12	of	of	IN
29899	2	13	London	London	NNP
29899	2	14	.	.	.
29899	3	1	Earlier	early	JJR
29899	3	2	family	family	NN
29899	3	3	influence	influence	NN
29899	3	4	led	lead	VBD
29899	3	5	him	-PRON-	PRP
29899	3	6	on	on	IN
29899	3	7	to	to	IN
29899	3	8	Cambridge	Cambridge	NNP
29899	3	9	University	University	NNP
29899	3	10	,	,	,
29899	3	11	a	a	DT
29899	3	12	degree	degree	NN
29899	3	13	in	in	IN
29899	3	14	theology	theology	NN
29899	3	15	,	,	,
29899	3	16	and	and	CC
29899	3	17	work	work	VB
29899	3	18	in	in	IN
29899	3	19	a	a	DT
29899	3	20	mission	mission	NN
29899	3	21	church	church	NN
29899	3	22	in	in	IN
29899	3	23	the	the	DT
29899	3	24	slums	slum	NNS
29899	3	25	of	of	IN
29899	3	26	London	London	NNP
29899	3	27	.	.	.
29899	4	1	Vera	Vera	NNP
29899	4	2	,	,	,
29899	4	3	already	already	RB
29899	4	4	in	in	IN
29899	4	5	youth	youth	NN
29899	4	6	work	work	NN
29899	4	7	,	,	,
29899	4	8	joined	join	VBD
29899	4	9	him	-PRON-	PRP
29899	4	10	after	after	IN
29899	4	11	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	4	12	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	4	13	in	in	IN
29899	4	14	the	the	DT
29899	4	15	work	work	NN
29899	4	16	of	of	IN
29899	4	17	the	the	DT
29899	4	18	mission	mission	NN
29899	4	19	church	church	NN
29899	4	20	.	.	.
29899	5	1	From	from	IN
29899	5	2	that	that	DT
29899	5	3	point	point	NN
29899	5	4	on	on	IN
29899	5	5	theirs	-PRON-	PRP
29899	5	6	was	be	VBD
29899	5	7	a	a	DT
29899	5	8	partnership	partnership	NN
29899	5	9	which	which	WDT
29899	5	10	focused	focus	VBD
29899	5	11	on	on	IN
29899	5	12	counselling	counsel	VBG
29899	5	13	persons	person	NNS
29899	5	14	in	in	IN
29899	5	15	trouble	trouble	NN
29899	5	16	.	.	.
29899	6	1	Later	later	RB
29899	6	2	,	,	,
29899	6	3	a	a	DT
29899	6	4	PhD.	phd.	NN
29899	7	1	in	in	IN
29899	7	2	sociology	sociology	NN
29899	7	3	for	for	IN
29899	7	4	David	David	NNP
29899	7	5	and	and	CC
29899	7	6	a	a	DT
29899	7	7	Masters	Masters	NNP
29899	7	8	degree	degree	NN
29899	7	9	with	with	IN
29899	7	10	a	a	DT
29899	7	11	thesis	thesis	NN
29899	7	12	on	on	IN
29899	7	13	Christian	christian	JJ
29899	7	14	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	7	15	for	for	IN
29899	7	16	Vera	Vera	NNP
29899	7	17	,	,	,
29899	7	18	moved	move	VBD
29899	7	19	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	7	20	into	into	IN
29899	7	21	full	full	JJ
29899	7	22	time	time	NN
29899	7	23	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	7	24	guidance	guidance	NN
29899	7	25	work	work	NN
29899	7	26	.	.	.
29899	8	1	(	(	-LRB-
29899	8	2	Two	two	CD
29899	8	3	children	child	NNS
29899	8	4	,	,	,
29899	8	5	a	a	DT
29899	8	6	war	war	NN
29899	8	7	causing	cause	VBG
29899	8	8	forced	force	VBN
29899	8	9	separation	separation	NN
29899	8	10	for	for	IN
29899	8	11	a	a	DT
29899	8	12	time	time	NN
29899	8	13	,	,	,
29899	8	14	and	and	CC
29899	8	15	a	a	DT
29899	8	16	pacifist	pacifist	NN
29899	8	17	stand	stand	NN
29899	8	18	by	by	IN
29899	8	19	David	David	NNP
29899	8	20	which	which	WDT
29899	8	21	also	also	RB
29899	8	22	made	make	VBD
29899	8	23	life	life	NN
29899	8	24	more	more	RBR
29899	8	25	difficult	difficult	JJ
29899	8	26	,	,	,
29899	8	27	only	only	RB
29899	8	28	strengthened	strengthen	VBD
29899	8	29	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	8	30	in	in	IN
29899	8	31	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	8	32	life	life	NN
29899	8	33	's	's	POS
29899	8	34	purpose	purpose	NN
29899	8	35	.	.	.
29899	8	36	)	)	-RRB-
29899	9	1	Before	before	IN
29899	9	2	leaving	leave	VBG
29899	9	3	Britain	Britain	NNP
29899	9	4	permanently	permanently	RB
29899	9	5	in	in	IN
29899	9	6	1949	1949	CD
29899	9	7	,	,	,
29899	9	8	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	9	9	had	have	VBD
29899	9	10	set	set	VBN
29899	9	11	up	up	RP
29899	9	12	more	more	JJR
29899	9	13	than	than	IN
29899	9	14	one	one	CD
29899	9	15	hundred	hundred	CD
29899	9	16	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	9	17	guidance	guidance	NN
29899	9	18	centers	center	NNS
29899	9	19	and	and	CC
29899	9	20	achieved	achieve	VBD
29899	9	21	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	9	22	goal	goal	NN
29899	9	23	of	of	IN
29899	9	24	recognition	recognition	NN
29899	9	25	for	for	IN
29899	9	26	the	the	DT
29899	9	27	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	9	28	Guidance	Guidance	NNP
29899	9	29	Council	Council	NNP
29899	9	30	.	.	.
29899	10	1	It	-PRON-	PRP
29899	10	2	would	would	MD
29899	10	3	be	be	VB
29899	10	4	impossible	impossible	JJ
29899	10	5	to	to	TO
29899	10	6	enumerate	enumerate	VB
29899	10	7	specifically	specifically	RB
29899	10	8	here	here	RB
29899	10	9	all	all	PDT
29899	10	10	the	the	DT
29899	10	11	activities	activity	NNS
29899	10	12	of	of	IN
29899	10	13	teaching	teaching	NN
29899	10	14	,	,	,
29899	10	15	published	publish	VBN
29899	10	16	writing	writing	NN
29899	10	17	,	,	,
29899	10	18	training	training	NN
29899	10	19	seminars	seminar	NNS
29899	10	20	and	and	CC
29899	10	21	travels	travel	VBZ
29899	10	22	the	the	DT
29899	10	23	Maces	mace	NNS
29899	10	24	have	have	VBP
29899	10	25	shared	share	VBN
29899	10	26	.	.	.
29899	11	1	Theirs	-PRON-	PRP
29899	11	2	has	have	VBZ
29899	11	3	been	be	VBN
29899	11	4	a	a	DT
29899	11	5	life	life	NN
29899	11	6	of	of	IN
29899	11	7	richly	richly	RB
29899	11	8	varied	varied	JJ
29899	11	9	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	11	10	and	and	CC
29899	11	11	shared	share	VBN
29899	11	12	responsibilities	responsibility	NNS
29899	11	13	.	.	.
29899	12	1	From	from	IN
29899	12	2	1960	1960	CD
29899	12	3	-	-	SYM
29899	12	4	67	67	CD
29899	12	5	the	the	DT
29899	12	6	Maces	Maces	NNPS
29899	12	7	served	serve	VBD
29899	12	8	as	as	IN
29899	12	9	joint	joint	JJ
29899	12	10	Executive	Executive	NNP
29899	12	11	Directors	Directors	NNPS
29899	12	12	of	of	IN
29899	12	13	the	the	DT
29899	12	14	American	American	NNP
29899	12	15	Association	Association	NNP
29899	12	16	of	of	IN
29899	12	17	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	12	18	Counsellors	Counsellors	NNPS
29899	12	19	.	.	.
29899	13	1	At	at	IN
29899	13	2	present	present	JJ
29899	13	3	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	13	4	are	be	VBP
29899	13	5	members	member	NNS
29899	13	6	of	of	IN
29899	13	7	Summit	Summit	NNP
29899	13	8	Friends	Friends	NNPS
29899	13	9	Meeting	Meeting	NNP
29899	13	10	in	in	IN
29899	13	11	New	New	NNP
29899	13	12	Jersey	Jersey	NNP
29899	13	13	,	,	,
29899	13	14	currently	currently	RB
29899	13	15	living	live	VBG
29899	13	16	in	in	IN
29899	13	17	Winston	Winston	NNP
29899	13	18	-	-	HYPH
29899	13	19	Salem	Salem	NNP
29899	13	20	,	,	,
29899	13	21	North	North	NNP
29899	13	22	Carolina	Carolina	NNP
29899	13	23	,	,	,
29899	13	24	where	where	WRB
29899	13	25	David	David	NNP
29899	13	26	Mace	Mace	NNP
29899	13	27	is	be	VBZ
29899	13	28	Professor	Professor	NNP
29899	13	29	of	of	IN
29899	13	30	Family	Family	NNP
29899	13	31	Sociology	Sociology	NNP
29899	13	32	at	at	IN
29899	13	33	the	the	DT
29899	13	34	Behavioral	Behavioral	NNP
29899	13	35	Sciences	Sciences	NNPS
29899	13	36	Center	Center	NNP
29899	13	37	,	,	,
29899	13	38	Bowman	Bowman	NNP
29899	13	39	Gray	Gray	NNP
29899	13	40	School	School	NNP
29899	13	41	of	of	IN
29899	13	42	Medicine	Medicine	NNP
29899	13	43	.	.	.
29899	14	1	David	David	NNP
29899	14	2	Mace	Mace	NNP
29899	14	3	delivered	deliver	VBD
29899	14	4	the	the	DT
29899	14	5	1968	1968	CD
29899	14	6	Rufus	Rufus	NNP
29899	14	7	Jones	Jones	NNP
29899	14	8	Lecture	Lecture	NNP
29899	14	9	,	,	,
29899	14	10	_	_	NNP
29899	14	11	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	14	12	As	as	IN
29899	14	13	Vocation	Vocation	NNP
29899	14	14	_	_	NNP
29899	14	15	.	.	.
29899	15	1	This	this	DT
29899	15	2	pamphlet	pamphlet	NN
29899	15	3	and	and	CC
29899	15	4	the	the	DT
29899	15	5	project	project	NN
29899	15	6	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	15	7	presents	present	VBZ
29899	15	8	is	be	VBZ
29899	15	9	an	an	DT
29899	15	10	outgrowth	outgrowth	NN
29899	15	11	of	of	IN
29899	15	12	that	that	DT
29899	15	13	experience	experience	NN
29899	15	14	.	.	.
29899	16	1	"	"	``
29899	16	2	How	how	WRB
29899	16	3	important	important	JJ
29899	16	4	is	be	VBZ
29899	16	5	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	16	6	that	that	WDT
29899	16	7	Quakers	quaker	NNS
29899	16	8	should	should	MD
29899	16	9	have	have	VB
29899	16	10	good	good	JJ
29899	16	11	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	16	12	,	,	,
29899	16	13	and	and	CC
29899	16	14	what	what	WP
29899	16	15	should	should	MD
29899	16	16	Friends	Friends	NNP
29899	16	17	General	General	NNP
29899	16	18	Conference	Conference	NNP
29899	16	19	be	be	VBP
29899	16	20	doing	do	VBG
29899	16	21	about	about	IN
29899	16	22	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	16	23	?	?	.
29899	16	24	"	"	''
29899	17	1	This	this	DT
29899	17	2	question	question	NN
29899	17	3	was	be	VBD
29899	17	4	asked	ask	VBN
29899	17	5	at	at	IN
29899	17	6	a	a	DT
29899	17	7	gathering	gathering	NN
29899	17	8	of	of	IN
29899	17	9	ten	ten	CD
29899	17	10	married	married	JJ
29899	17	11	couples	couple	NNS
29899	17	12	,	,	,
29899	17	13	all	all	DT
29899	17	14	of	of	IN
29899	17	15	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	17	16	Friends	friend	NNS
29899	17	17	,	,	,
29899	17	18	representing	represent	VBG
29899	17	19	both	both	CC
29899	17	20	the	the	DT
29899	17	21	U.S.	U.S.	NNP
29899	17	22	and	and	CC
29899	17	23	Canada	Canada	NNP
29899	17	24	.	.	.
29899	18	1	What	what	WP
29899	18	2	brought	bring	VBD
29899	18	3	these	these	DT
29899	18	4	couples	couple	NNS
29899	18	5	together	together	RB
29899	18	6	was	be	VBD
29899	18	7	the	the	DT
29899	18	8	common	common	JJ
29899	18	9	bond	bond	NN
29899	18	10	that	that	WDT
29899	18	11	all	all	DT
29899	18	12	had	have	VBD
29899	18	13	been	be	VBN
29899	18	14	leading	lead	VBG
29899	18	15	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	18	16	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	18	17	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	18	18	at	at	IN
29899	18	19	which	which	WDT
29899	18	20	six	six	CD
29899	18	21	to	to	TO
29899	18	22	eight	eight	CD
29899	18	23	couples	couple	NNS
29899	18	24	,	,	,
29899	18	25	all	all	RB
29899	18	26	with	with	IN
29899	18	27	stable	stable	JJ
29899	18	28	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	18	29	,	,	,
29899	18	30	spent	spend	VBD
29899	18	31	an	an	DT
29899	18	32	intensive	intensive	JJ
29899	18	33	weekend	weekend	NN
29899	18	34	sharing	share	VBG
29899	18	35	marital	marital	JJ
29899	18	36	growth	growth	NN
29899	18	37	around	around	IN
29899	18	38	the	the	DT
29899	18	39	theme	theme	NN
29899	18	40	"	"	''
29899	18	41	communications	communication	NNS
29899	18	42	-	-	HYPH
29899	18	43	in	in	IN
29899	18	44	-	-	HYPH
29899	18	45	depth	depth	NN
29899	18	46	about	about	IN
29899	18	47	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	18	48	-	-	HYPH
29899	18	49	in	in	IN
29899	18	50	-	-	HYPH
29899	18	51	depth	depth	NN
29899	18	52	.	.	.
29899	18	53	"	"	''
29899	19	1	The	the	DT
29899	19	2	project	project	NN
29899	19	3	of	of	IN
29899	19	4	which	which	WDT
29899	19	5	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	19	6	had	have	VBD
29899	19	7	been	be	VBN
29899	19	8	a	a	DT
29899	19	9	part	part	NN
29899	19	10	dates	date	VBZ
29899	19	11	back	back	RB
29899	19	12	to	to	IN
29899	19	13	the	the	DT
29899	19	14	1968	1968	CD
29899	19	15	Rufus	Rufus	NNP
29899	19	16	Jones	Jones	NNP
29899	19	17	Lecture	Lecture	NNP
29899	19	18	,	,	,
29899	19	19	_	_	NNP
29899	19	20	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	19	21	as	as	IN
29899	19	22	Vocation	Vocation	NNP
29899	19	23	_	_	NNP
29899	19	24	.	.	.
29899	20	1	[	[	-LRB-
29899	20	2	A	a	NN
29899	20	3	]	]	-RRB-
29899	20	4	The	the	DT
29899	20	5	impact	impact	NN
29899	20	6	of	of	IN
29899	20	7	the	the	DT
29899	20	8	Lecture	Lecture	NNP
29899	20	9	and	and	CC
29899	20	10	the	the	DT
29899	20	11	weekend	weekend	NN
29899	20	12	following	follow	VBG
29899	20	13	resulted	result	VBD
29899	20	14	in	in	IN
29899	20	15	the	the	DT
29899	20	16	Religious	Religious	NNP
29899	20	17	Education	Education	NNP
29899	20	18	Committee	Committee	NNP
29899	20	19	of	of	IN
29899	20	20	Friends	Friends	NNP
29899	20	21	General	General	NNP
29899	20	22	Conference	Conference	NNP
29899	20	23	sponsoring	sponsor	VBG
29899	20	24	a	a	DT
29899	20	25	project	project	NN
29899	20	26	to	to	TO
29899	20	27	train	train	VB
29899	20	28	couples	couple	NNS
29899	20	29	selected	select	VBN
29899	20	30	by	by	IN
29899	20	31	Yearly	Yearly	NNP
29899	20	32	Meetings	Meetings	NNPS
29899	20	33	to	to	TO
29899	20	34	lead	lead	VB
29899	20	35	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	20	36	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	20	37	programs	program	NNS
29899	20	38	in	in	IN
29899	20	39	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	20	40	own	own	JJ
29899	20	41	regions	region	NNS
29899	20	42	.	.	.
29899	21	1	The	the	DT
29899	21	2	first	first	JJ
29899	21	3	group	group	NN
29899	21	4	was	be	VBD
29899	21	5	trained	train	VBN
29899	21	6	in	in	IN
29899	21	7	1969	1969	CD
29899	21	8	,	,	,
29899	21	9	the	the	DT
29899	21	10	second	second	JJ
29899	21	11	in	in	IN
29899	21	12	1971	1971	CD
29899	21	13	,	,	,
29899	21	14	and	and	CC
29899	21	15	,	,	,
29899	21	16	as	as	IN
29899	21	17	the	the	DT
29899	21	18	majority	majority	NN
29899	21	19	of	of	IN
29899	21	20	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	21	21	met	meet	VBD
29899	21	22	again	again	RB
29899	21	23	the	the	DT
29899	21	24	consensus	consensus	NN
29899	21	25	grew	grow	VBD
29899	21	26	that	that	IN
29899	21	27	this	this	DT
29899	21	28	project	project	NN
29899	21	29	had	have	VBD
29899	21	30	been	be	VBN
29899	21	31	sufficiently	sufficiently	RB
29899	21	32	tested	test	VBN
29899	21	33	to	to	TO
29899	21	34	provide	provide	VB
29899	21	35	the	the	DT
29899	21	36	basis	basis	NN
29899	21	37	for	for	IN
29899	21	38	a	a	DT
29899	21	39	more	more	RBR
29899	21	40	extensive	extensive	JJ
29899	21	41	movement	movement	NN
29899	21	42	within	within	IN
29899	21	43	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	21	44	fellowship	fellowship	NN
29899	21	45	.	.	.
29899	22	1	A	a	DT
29899	22	2	number	number	NN
29899	22	3	of	of	IN
29899	22	4	concerns	concern	NNS
29899	22	5	emerged	emerge	VBD
29899	22	6	that	that	WDT
29899	22	7	can	can	MD
29899	22	8	best	best	RB
29899	22	9	be	be	VB
29899	22	10	expressed	express	VBN
29899	22	11	as	as	IN
29899	22	12	questions	question	NNS
29899	22	13	:	:	:
29899	22	14	Do	do	VB
29899	22	15	Friends	friend	NNS
29899	22	16	reaffirm	reaffirm	VB
29899	22	17	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	22	18	traditional	traditional	JJ
29899	22	19	belief	belief	NN
29899	22	20	in	in	IN
29899	22	21	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	22	22	and	and	CC
29899	22	23	the	the	DT
29899	22	24	family	family	NN
29899	22	25	as	as	IN
29899	22	26	the	the	DT
29899	22	27	foundation	foundation	NN
29899	22	28	unit	unit	NN
29899	22	29	of	of	IN
29899	22	30	the	the	DT
29899	22	31	Meeting	Meeting	NNP
29899	22	32	?	?	.
29899	23	1	Do	do	VBP
29899	23	2	Friends	friend	NNS
29899	23	3	believe	believe	VB
29899	23	4	that	that	IN
29899	23	5	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	23	6	mission	mission	NN
29899	23	7	to	to	TO
29899	23	8	spread	spread	VB
29899	23	9	love	love	NN
29899	23	10	and	and	CC
29899	23	11	peace	peace	NN
29899	23	12	in	in	IN
29899	23	13	the	the	DT
29899	23	14	world	world	NN
29899	23	15	begins	begin	VBZ
29899	23	16	with	with	IN
29899	23	17	the	the	DT
29899	23	18	practice	practice	NN
29899	23	19	of	of	IN
29899	23	20	love	love	NN
29899	23	21	and	and	CC
29899	23	22	peace	peace	NN
29899	23	23	in	in	IN
29899	23	24	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	23	25	own	own	JJ
29899	23	26	primary	primary	JJ
29899	23	27	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	23	28	?	?	.
29899	24	1	Are	be	VBP
29899	24	2	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	24	3	Meetings	meeting	NNS
29899	24	4	doing	do	VBG
29899	24	5	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	24	6	utmost	utmost	NN
29899	24	7	to	to	TO
29899	24	8	make	make	VB
29899	24	9	use	use	NN
29899	24	10	of	of	IN
29899	24	11	modern	modern	JJ
29899	24	12	knowledge	knowledge	NN
29899	24	13	and	and	CC
29899	24	14	experience	experience	NN
29899	24	15	in	in	IN
29899	24	16	the	the	DT
29899	24	17	preparation	preparation	NN
29899	24	18	for	for	IN
29899	24	19	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	24	20	of	of	IN
29899	24	21	those	those	DT
29899	24	22	for	for	IN
29899	24	23	whom	whom	WP
29899	24	24	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	24	25	accept	accept	VBP
29899	24	26	responsibility	responsibility	NN
29899	24	27	?	?	.
29899	25	1	Are	be	VBP
29899	25	2	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	25	3	Meetings	Meetings	NNPS
29899	25	4	satisfied	satisfied	JJ
29899	25	5	with	with	IN
29899	25	6	what	what	WP
29899	25	7	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	25	8	are	be	VBP
29899	25	9	doing	do	VBG
29899	25	10	for	for	IN
29899	25	11	the	the	DT
29899	25	12	care	care	NN
29899	25	13	and	and	CC
29899	25	14	support	support	NN
29899	25	15	of	of	IN
29899	25	16	the	the	DT
29899	25	17	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	25	18	of	of	IN
29899	25	19	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	25	20	members	member	NNS
29899	25	21	,	,	,
29899	25	22	and	and	CC
29899	25	23	that	that	IN
29899	25	24	divorces	divorce	NNS
29899	25	25	that	that	WDT
29899	25	26	occur	occur	VBP
29899	25	27	could	could	MD
29899	25	28	not	not	RB
29899	25	29	have	have	VB
29899	25	30	been	be	VBN
29899	25	31	prevented	prevent	VBN
29899	25	32	by	by	IN
29899	25	33	any	any	DT
29899	25	34	means	mean	NNS
29899	25	35	that	that	WDT
29899	25	36	lay	lie	VBD
29899	25	37	in	in	IN
29899	25	38	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	25	39	power	power	NN
29899	25	40	?	?	.
29899	26	1	Would	Would	MD
29899	26	2	Friends	friend	NNS
29899	26	3	in	in	IN
29899	26	4	positions	position	NNS
29899	26	5	of	of	IN
29899	26	6	leadership	leadership	NN
29899	26	7	be	be	VBP
29899	26	8	willing	willing	JJ
29899	26	9	to	to	TO
29899	26	10	demonstrate	demonstrate	VB
29899	26	11	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	26	12	support	support	NN
29899	26	13	for	for	IN
29899	26	14	this	this	DT
29899	26	15	project	project	NN
29899	26	16	by	by	IN
29899	26	17	participating	participate	VBG
29899	26	18	in	in	IN
29899	26	19	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	26	20	at	at	IN
29899	26	21	which	which	WDT
29899	26	22	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	26	23	can	can	MD
29899	26	24	examine	examine	VB
29899	26	25	with	with	IN
29899	26	26	others	other	NNS
29899	26	27	the	the	DT
29899	26	28	potentialities	potentiality	NNS
29899	26	29	for	for	IN
29899	26	30	growth	growth	NN
29899	26	31	of	of	IN
29899	26	32	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	26	33	own	own	JJ
29899	26	34	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	26	35	?	?	.
29899	27	1	Those	those	DT
29899	27	2	who	who	WP
29899	27	3	met	meet	VBD
29899	27	4	at	at	IN
29899	27	5	Pendle	Pendle	NNP
29899	27	6	Hill	Hill	NNP
29899	27	7	were	be	VBD
29899	27	8	not	not	RB
29899	27	9	in	in	IN
29899	27	10	a	a	DT
29899	27	11	position	position	NN
29899	27	12	to	to	TO
29899	27	13	answer	answer	VB
29899	27	14	any	any	DT
29899	27	15	of	of	IN
29899	27	16	these	these	DT
29899	27	17	questions	question	NNS
29899	27	18	in	in	IN
29899	27	19	a	a	DT
29899	27	20	definitive	definitive	JJ
29899	27	21	way	way	NN
29899	27	22	.	.	.
29899	28	1	It	-PRON-	PRP
29899	28	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	28	3	clear	clear	JJ
29899	28	4	that	that	IN
29899	28	5	answers	answer	NNS
29899	28	6	would	would	MD
29899	28	7	vary	vary	VB
29899	28	8	from	from	IN
29899	28	9	one	one	CD
29899	28	10	Friend	friend	NN
29899	28	11	to	to	IN
29899	28	12	another	another	DT
29899	28	13	and	and	CC
29899	28	14	from	from	IN
29899	28	15	one	one	CD
29899	28	16	Meeting	Meeting	NNP
29899	28	17	to	to	IN
29899	28	18	another	another	DT
29899	28	19	.	.	.
29899	29	1	They	-PRON-	PRP
29899	29	2	felt	feel	VBD
29899	29	3	,	,	,
29899	29	4	however	however	RB
29899	29	5	,	,	,
29899	29	6	that	that	IN
29899	29	7	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	29	8	would	would	MD
29899	29	9	be	be	VB
29899	29	10	appropriate	appropriate	JJ
29899	29	11	and	and	CC
29899	29	12	timely	timely	JJ
29899	29	13	for	for	IN
29899	29	14	these	these	DT
29899	29	15	questions	question	NNS
29899	29	16	to	to	TO
29899	29	17	be	be	VB
29899	29	18	more	more	RBR
29899	29	19	widely	widely	RB
29899	29	20	considered	consider	VBN
29899	29	21	.	.	.
29899	30	1	Moreover	moreover	RB
29899	30	2	,	,	,
29899	30	3	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	30	4	own	own	JJ
29899	30	5	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	30	6	of	of	IN
29899	30	7	marital	marital	JJ
29899	30	8	growth	growth	NN
29899	30	9	,	,	,
29899	30	10	resulting	result	VBG
29899	30	11	from	from	IN
29899	30	12	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	30	13	sharing	sharing	NN
29899	30	14	with	with	IN
29899	30	15	other	other	JJ
29899	30	16	married	married	JJ
29899	30	17	couples	couple	NNS
29899	30	18	,	,	,
29899	30	19	had	have	VBD
29899	30	20	been	be	VBN
29899	30	21	so	so	RB
29899	30	22	rich	rich	JJ
29899	30	23	and	and	CC
29899	30	24	rewarding	rewarding	JJ
29899	30	25	that	that	IN
29899	30	26	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	30	27	felt	feel	VBD
29899	30	28	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	30	29	had	have	VBD
29899	30	30	"	"	``
29899	30	31	good	good	JJ
29899	30	32	news	news	NN
29899	30	33	"	"	''
29899	30	34	to	to	TO
29899	30	35	pass	pass	VB
29899	30	36	on	on	RP
29899	30	37	,	,	,
29899	30	38	and	and	CC
29899	30	39	were	be	VBD
29899	30	40	constrained	constrain	VBN
29899	30	41	to	to	TO
29899	30	42	do	do	VB
29899	30	43	so	so	RB
29899	30	44	.	.	.
29899	31	1	[	[	-LRB-
29899	31	2	B	b	NN
29899	31	3	]	]	-RRB-
29899	31	4	THE	the	DT
29899	31	5	PLAN	plan	NN
29899	31	6	Yearly	Yearly	NNP
29899	31	7	Meetings	Meetings	NNPS
29899	31	8	throughout	throughout	IN
29899	31	9	the	the	DT
29899	31	10	United	United	NNP
29899	31	11	States	States	NNP
29899	31	12	were	be	VBD
29899	31	13	invited	invite	VBN
29899	31	14	to	to	TO
29899	31	15	select	select	VB
29899	31	16	with	with	IN
29899	31	17	care	care	NN
29899	31	18	a	a	DT
29899	31	19	married	married	JJ
29899	31	20	couple	couple	NN
29899	31	21	for	for	IN
29899	31	22	a	a	DT
29899	31	23	weekend	weekend	NN
29899	31	24	of	of	IN
29899	31	25	training	training	NN
29899	31	26	at	at	IN
29899	31	27	Pendle	Pendle	NNP
29899	31	28	Hill	Hill	NNP
29899	31	29	,	,	,
29899	31	30	the	the	DT
29899	31	31	Quaker	Quaker	NNP
29899	31	32	study	study	NN
29899	31	33	center	center	NN
29899	31	34	near	near	IN
29899	31	35	Philadelphia	Philadelphia	NNP
29899	31	36	.	.	.
29899	32	1	During	during	IN
29899	32	2	the	the	DT
29899	32	3	six	six	CD
29899	32	4	months	month	NNS
29899	32	5	following	follow	VBG
29899	32	6	the	the	DT
29899	32	7	training	training	NN
29899	32	8	each	each	DT
29899	32	9	couple	couple	NN
29899	32	10	would	would	MD
29899	32	11	have	have	VB
29899	32	12	the	the	DT
29899	32	13	opportunity	opportunity	NN
29899	32	14	to	to	TO
29899	32	15	conduct	conduct	VB
29899	32	16	a	a	DT
29899	32	17	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	32	18	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	32	19	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	32	20	arranged	arrange	VBN
29899	32	21	by	by	IN
29899	32	22	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	32	23	Yearly	Yearly	NNP
29899	32	24	Meeting	Meeting	NNP
29899	32	25	.	.	.
29899	33	1	Then	then	RB
29899	33	2	all	all	PDT
29899	33	3	the	the	DT
29899	33	4	couples	couple	NNS
29899	33	5	would	would	MD
29899	33	6	reassemble	reassemble	VB
29899	33	7	at	at	IN
29899	33	8	Pendle	Pendle	NNP
29899	33	9	Hill	Hill	NNP
29899	33	10	to	to	TO
29899	33	11	share	share	VB
29899	33	12	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	33	13	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	33	14	.	.	.
29899	34	1	The	the	DT
29899	34	2	project	project	NN
29899	34	3	would	would	MD
29899	34	4	be	be	VB
29899	34	5	evaluated	evaluate	VBN
29899	34	6	,	,	,
29899	34	7	and	and	CC
29899	34	8	further	further	JJ
29899	34	9	action	action	NN
29899	34	10	would	would	MD
29899	34	11	depend	depend	VB
29899	34	12	on	on	IN
29899	34	13	whatever	whatever	WDT
29899	34	14	judgment	judgment	NN
29899	34	15	was	be	VBD
29899	34	16	reached	reach	VBN
29899	34	17	.	.	.
29899	35	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	35	2	two	two	CD
29899	35	3	were	be	VBD
29899	35	4	asked	ask	VBN
29899	35	5	to	to	TO
29899	35	6	lead	lead	VB
29899	35	7	the	the	DT
29899	35	8	two	two	CD
29899	35	9	training	training	NN
29899	35	10	weekends	weekend	NNS
29899	35	11	.	.	.
29899	36	1	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	36	2	decision	decision	NN
29899	36	3	was	be	VBD
29899	36	4	to	to	TO
29899	36	5	begin	begin	VB
29899	36	6	with	with	IN
29899	36	7	an	an	DT
29899	36	8	actual	actual	JJ
29899	36	9	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	36	10	for	for	IN
29899	36	11	the	the	DT
29899	36	12	group	group	NN
29899	36	13	of	of	IN
29899	36	14	couples	couple	NNS
29899	36	15	since	since	IN
29899	36	16	this	this	DT
29899	36	17	experience	experience	NN
29899	36	18	would	would	MD
29899	36	19	,	,	,
29899	36	20	in	in	IN
29899	36	21	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	36	22	judgment	judgment	NN
29899	36	23	,	,	,
29899	36	24	provide	provide	VB
29899	36	25	the	the	DT
29899	36	26	best	good	JJS
29899	36	27	training	training	NN
29899	36	28	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	36	29	could	could	MD
29899	36	30	give	give	VB
29899	36	31	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	36	32	.	.	.
29899	37	1	PREMISES	premise	NNS
29899	37	2	FROM	from	IN
29899	37	3	EARLIER	earlier	RB
29899	37	4	EXPERIENCES	experience	NNS
29899	37	5	In	in	IN
29899	37	6	1962	1962	CD
29899	37	7	Joe	Joe	NNP
29899	37	8	and	and	CC
29899	37	9	Edith	Edith	NNP
29899	37	10	Platt	Platt	NNP
29899	37	11	,	,	,
29899	37	12	a	a	DT
29899	37	13	Quaker	Quaker	NNP
29899	37	14	couple	couple	NN
29899	37	15	who	who	WP
29899	37	16	helped	help	VBD
29899	37	17	run	run	VB
29899	37	18	a	a	DT
29899	37	19	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	37	20	center	center	NN
29899	37	21	called	call	VBN
29899	37	22	Kirkridge	Kirkridge	NNP
29899	37	23	,	,	,
29899	37	24	invited	invite	VBD
29899	37	25	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	37	26	to	to	TO
29899	37	27	conduct	conduct	VB
29899	37	28	a	a	DT
29899	37	29	weekend	weekend	NN
29899	37	30	for	for	IN
29899	37	31	married	married	JJ
29899	37	32	couples	couple	NNS
29899	37	33	.	.	.
29899	38	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	38	2	were	be	VBD
29899	38	3	at	at	IN
29899	38	4	that	that	DT
29899	38	5	time	time	NN
29899	38	6	joint	joint	JJ
29899	38	7	Executive	Executive	NNP
29899	38	8	Directors	Directors	NNPS
29899	38	9	of	of	IN
29899	38	10	the	the	DT
29899	38	11	American	American	NNP
29899	38	12	Association	Association	NNP
29899	38	13	of	of	IN
29899	38	14	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	38	15	Counselors	Counselors	NNPS
29899	38	16	,	,	,
29899	38	17	so	so	CC
29899	38	18	this	this	DT
29899	38	19	was	be	VBD
29899	38	20	a	a	DT
29899	38	21	challenge	challenge	NN
29899	38	22	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	38	23	could	could	MD
29899	38	24	hardly	hardly	RB
29899	38	25	evade	evade	VB
29899	38	26	.	.	.
29899	39	1	Although	although	IN
29899	39	2	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	39	3	had	have	VBD
29899	39	4	been	be	VBN
29899	39	5	involved	involve	VBN
29899	39	6	in	in	IN
29899	39	7	many	many	JJ
29899	39	8	lectures	lecture	NNS
29899	39	9	and	and	CC
29899	39	10	conferences	conference	NNS
29899	39	11	about	about	IN
29899	39	12	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	39	13	,	,	,
29899	39	14	and	and	CC
29899	39	15	plenty	plenty	NN
29899	39	16	of	of	IN
29899	39	17	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	39	18	counseling	counseling	NN
29899	39	19	,	,	,
29899	39	20	a	a	DT
29899	39	21	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	39	22	for	for	IN
29899	39	23	married	married	JJ
29899	39	24	couples	couple	NNS
29899	39	25	was	be	VBD
29899	39	26	a	a	DT
29899	39	27	new	new	JJ
29899	39	28	venture	venture	NN
29899	39	29	.	.	.
29899	40	1	However	however	RB
29899	40	2	,	,	,
29899	40	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	40	4	accepted	accept	VBD
29899	40	5	the	the	DT
29899	40	6	invitation	invitation	NN
29899	40	7	,	,	,
29899	40	8	conducted	conduct	VBD
29899	40	9	the	the	DT
29899	40	10	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	40	11	to	to	IN
29899	40	12	the	the	DT
29899	40	13	best	good	JJS
29899	40	14	of	of	IN
29899	40	15	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	40	16	ability	ability	NN
29899	40	17	,	,	,
29899	40	18	and	and	CC
29899	40	19	learned	learn	VBD
29899	40	20	a	a	DT
29899	40	21	great	great	JJ
29899	40	22	deal	deal	NN
29899	40	23	in	in	IN
29899	40	24	the	the	DT
29899	40	25	process	process	NN
29899	40	26	.	.	.
29899	41	1	There	there	EX
29899	41	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	41	3	no	no	DT
29899	41	4	need	need	NN
29899	41	5	at	at	IN
29899	41	6	this	this	DT
29899	41	7	point	point	NN
29899	41	8	to	to	TO
29899	41	9	go	go	VB
29899	41	10	into	into	IN
29899	41	11	detail	detail	NN
29899	41	12	about	about	IN
29899	41	13	the	the	DT
29899	41	14	procedures	procedure	NNS
29899	41	15	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	41	16	followed	follow	VBD
29899	41	17	for	for	IN
29899	41	18	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	41	19	improved	improve	VBD
29899	41	20	on	on	IN
29899	41	21	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	41	22	considerably	considerably	RB
29899	41	23	later	later	RB
29899	41	24	as	as	IN
29899	41	25	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	41	26	gained	gain	VBD
29899	41	27	further	further	JJ
29899	41	28	experience	experience	NN
29899	41	29	.	.	.
29899	42	1	The	the	DT
29899	42	2	first	first	JJ
29899	42	3	Kirkridge	Kirkridge	NNP
29899	42	4	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	42	5	was	be	VBD
29899	42	6	successful	successful	JJ
29899	42	7	enough	enough	RB
29899	42	8	to	to	TO
29899	42	9	encourage	encourage	VB
29899	42	10	the	the	DT
29899	42	11	Platts	Platts	NNP
29899	42	12	to	to	TO
29899	42	13	ask	ask	VB
29899	42	14	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	42	15	to	to	TO
29899	42	16	come	come	VB
29899	42	17	again	again	RB
29899	42	18	and	and	CC
29899	42	19	again	again	RB
29899	42	20	.	.	.
29899	43	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	43	2	then	then	RB
29899	43	3	began	begin	VBD
29899	43	4	to	to	TO
29899	43	5	receive	receive	VB
29899	43	6	other	other	JJ
29899	43	7	requests	request	NNS
29899	43	8	as	as	IN
29899	43	9	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	43	10	became	become	VBD
29899	43	11	known	known	JJ
29899	43	12	that	that	IN
29899	43	13	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	43	14	were	be	VBD
29899	43	15	available	available	JJ
29899	43	16	for	for	IN
29899	43	17	this	this	DT
29899	43	18	kind	kind	NN
29899	43	19	of	of	IN
29899	43	20	leadership	leadership	NN
29899	43	21	,	,	,
29899	43	22	most	most	JJS
29899	43	23	of	of	IN
29899	43	24	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	43	25	being	be	VBG
29899	43	26	under	under	IN
29899	43	27	religious	religious	JJ
29899	43	28	auspices	auspex	NNS
29899	43	29	.	.	.
29899	44	1	The	the	DT
29899	44	2	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	44	3	generally	generally	RB
29899	44	4	began	begin	VBD
29899	44	5	on	on	IN
29899	44	6	Friday	Friday	NNP
29899	44	7	evening	evening	NN
29899	44	8	and	and	CC
29899	44	9	ended	end	VBD
29899	44	10	with	with	IN
29899	44	11	Sunday	Sunday	NNP
29899	44	12	lunch	lunch	NN
29899	44	13	.	.	.
29899	45	1	One	one	CD
29899	45	2	,	,	,
29899	45	3	for	for	IN
29899	45	4	Methodist	Methodist	NNP
29899	45	5	ministers	minister	NNS
29899	45	6	and	and	CC
29899	45	7	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	45	8	wives	wife	NNS
29899	45	9	,	,	,
29899	45	10	lasted	last	VBD
29899	45	11	five	five	CD
29899	45	12	days	day	NNS
29899	45	13	,	,	,
29899	45	14	and	and	CC
29899	45	15	proved	prove	VBD
29899	45	16	to	to	TO
29899	45	17	be	be	VB
29899	45	18	the	the	DT
29899	45	19	inauguration	inauguration	NN
29899	45	20	of	of	IN
29899	45	21	a	a	DT
29899	45	22	nation	nation	NN
29899	45	23	-	-	HYPH
29899	45	24	wide	wide	JJ
29899	45	25	program	program	NN
29899	45	26	now	now	RB
29899	45	27	being	be	VBG
29899	45	28	run	run	VBN
29899	45	29	by	by	IN
29899	45	30	the	the	DT
29899	45	31	United	United	NNP
29899	45	32	Methodist	Methodist	NNP
29899	45	33	Church	Church	NNP
29899	45	34	under	under	IN
29899	45	35	the	the	DT
29899	45	36	title	title	NN
29899	45	37	"	"	``
29899	45	38	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	45	39	communication	communication	NN
29899	45	40	labs	lab	NNS
29899	45	41	.	.	.
29899	45	42	"	"	''
29899	46	1	These	these	DT
29899	46	2	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	46	3	brought	bring	VBD
29899	46	4	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	46	5	into	into	IN
29899	46	6	close	close	JJ
29899	46	7	touch	touch	NN
29899	46	8	with	with	IN
29899	46	9	many	many	JJ
29899	46	10	"	"	``
29899	46	11	normal	normal	JJ
29899	46	12	"	"	''
29899	46	13	married	married	JJ
29899	46	14	couples	couple	NNS
29899	46	15	.	.	.
29899	47	1	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	47	2	practice	practice	NN
29899	47	3	was	be	VBD
29899	47	4	to	to	TO
29899	47	5	insist	insist	VB
29899	47	6	that	that	IN
29899	47	7	the	the	DT
29899	47	8	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	47	9	were	be	VBD
29899	47	10	_	_	NNP
29899	47	11	not	not	RB
29899	47	12	_	_	NNP
29899	47	13	for	for	IN
29899	47	14	couples	couple	NNS
29899	47	15	with	with	IN
29899	47	16	problems	problem	NNS
29899	47	17	,	,	,
29899	47	18	but	but	CC
29899	47	19	for	for	IN
29899	47	20	those	those	DT
29899	47	21	who	who	WP
29899	47	22	considered	consider	VBD
29899	47	23	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	47	24	had	have	VBD
29899	47	25	satisfactory	satisfactory	JJ
29899	47	26	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	47	27	and	and	CC
29899	47	28	wanted	want	VBD
29899	47	29	to	to	TO
29899	47	30	explore	explore	VB
29899	47	31	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	47	32	potential	potential	NN
29899	47	33	for	for	IN
29899	47	34	further	further	JJ
29899	47	35	growth	growth	NN
29899	47	36	.	.	.
29899	48	1	As	as	IN
29899	48	2	counselors	counselor	NNS
29899	48	3	,	,	,
29899	48	4	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	48	5	had	have	VBD
29899	48	6	previously	previously	RB
29899	48	7	dealt	deal	VBN
29899	48	8	only	only	RB
29899	48	9	with	with	IN
29899	48	10	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	48	11	in	in	IN
29899	48	12	trouble	trouble	NN
29899	48	13	.	.	.
29899	49	1	Now	now	RB
29899	49	2	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	49	3	found	find	VBD
29899	49	4	that	that	IN
29899	49	5	many	many	JJ
29899	49	6	of	of	IN
29899	49	7	these	these	DT
29899	49	8	"	"	``
29899	49	9	normal	normal	JJ
29899	49	10	"	"	''
29899	49	11	couples	couple	NNS
29899	49	12	were	be	VBD
29899	49	13	settling	settle	VBG
29899	49	14	for	for	IN
29899	49	15	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	49	16	that	that	WDT
29899	49	17	were	be	VBD
29899	49	18	far	far	RB
29899	49	19	short	short	JJ
29899	49	20	of	of	IN
29899	49	21	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	49	22	inherent	inherent	JJ
29899	49	23	potential	potential	NN
29899	49	24	.	.	.
29899	50	1	Some	some	DT
29899	50	2	exhibited	exhibit	VBD
29899	50	3	the	the	DT
29899	50	4	same	same	JJ
29899	50	5	self	self	NN
29899	50	6	-	-	HYPH
29899	50	7	defeating	defeat	VBG
29899	50	8	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	50	9	patterns	pattern	NNS
29899	50	10	which	which	WDT
29899	50	11	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	50	12	were	be	VBD
29899	50	13	accustomed	accustomed	JJ
29899	50	14	to	to	IN
29899	50	15	finding	find	VBG
29899	50	16	in	in	IN
29899	50	17	couples	couple	NNS
29899	50	18	with	with	IN
29899	50	19	"	"	``
29899	50	20	problems"--but	problems"--but	NNP
29899	50	21	either	either	CC
29899	50	22	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	50	23	had	have	VBD
29899	50	24	accepted	accept	VBN
29899	50	25	these	these	DT
29899	50	26	poor	poor	JJ
29899	50	27	patterns	pattern	NNS
29899	50	28	as	as	IN
29899	50	29	inevitable	inevitable	JJ
29899	50	30	,	,	,
29899	50	31	or	or	CC
29899	50	32	the	the	DT
29899	50	33	conflicts	conflict	NNS
29899	50	34	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	50	35	caused	cause	VBD
29899	50	36	had	have	VBD
29899	50	37	not	not	RB
29899	50	38	yet	yet	RB
29899	50	39	reached	reach	VBN
29899	50	40	crisis	crisis	NN
29899	50	41	proportions	proportion	NNS
29899	50	42	.	.	.
29899	51	1	Matching	match	VBG
29899	51	2	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	51	3	observation	observation	NN
29899	51	4	of	of	IN
29899	51	5	these	these	DT
29899	51	6	couples	couple	NNS
29899	51	7	with	with	IN
29899	51	8	some	some	DT
29899	51	9	of	of	IN
29899	51	10	the	the	DT
29899	51	11	research	research	NN
29899	51	12	findings	finding	NNS
29899	51	13	on	on	IN
29899	51	14	marital	marital	JJ
29899	51	15	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	51	16	,	,	,
29899	51	17	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	51	18	arrived	arrive	VBD
29899	51	19	at	at	IN
29899	51	20	four	four	CD
29899	51	21	important	important	JJ
29899	51	22	conclusions	conclusion	NNS
29899	51	23	:	:	:
29899	51	24	1	1	CD
29899	51	25	.	.	.
29899	52	1	Only	only	RB
29899	52	2	a	a	DT
29899	52	3	small	small	JJ
29899	52	4	proportion	proportion	NN
29899	52	5	of	of	IN
29899	52	6	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	52	7	came	come	VBD
29899	52	8	anywhere	anywhere	RB
29899	52	9	near	near	RB
29899	52	10	to	to	IN
29899	52	11	realizing	realize	VBG
29899	52	12	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	52	13	full	full	JJ
29899	52	14	potential	potential	NN
29899	52	15	.	.	.
29899	53	1	Lederer	Lederer	NNP
29899	53	2	and	and	CC
29899	53	3	Jackson[C	Jackson[C	NNP
29899	53	4	]	]	-RRB-
29899	53	5	suggest	suggest	VBP
29899	53	6	that	that	IN
29899	53	7	the	the	DT
29899	53	8	proportion	proportion	NN
29899	53	9	of	of	IN
29899	53	10	"	"	``
29899	53	11	stable	stable	JJ
29899	53	12	-	-	HYPH
29899	53	13	satisfactory	satisfactory	JJ
29899	53	14	"	"	''
29899	53	15	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	53	16	in	in	IN
29899	53	17	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	53	18	culture	culture	NN
29899	53	19	does	do	VBZ
29899	53	20	not	not	RB
29899	53	21	exceed	exceed	VB
29899	53	22	5	5	CD
29899	53	23	-	-	SYM
29899	53	24	10	10	CD
29899	53	25	percent	percent	NN
29899	53	26	.	.	.
29899	54	1	2	2	LS
29899	54	2	.	.	.
29899	55	1	Most	Most	JJS
29899	55	2	married	married	JJ
29899	55	3	couples	couple	NNS
29899	55	4	desire	desire	VBP
29899	55	5	,	,	,
29899	55	6	and	and	CC
29899	55	7	hope	hope	VB
29899	55	8	for	for	IN
29899	55	9	,	,	,
29899	55	10	the	the	DT
29899	55	11	achievement	achievement	NN
29899	55	12	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	55	13	have	have	VBP
29899	55	14	called	call	VBN
29899	55	15	"	"	``
29899	55	16	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	55	17	-	-	HYPH
29899	55	18	in	in	IN
29899	55	19	-	-	HYPH
29899	55	20	depth	depth	NN
29899	55	21	.	.	.
29899	55	22	"	"	''
29899	56	1	Early	early	RB
29899	56	2	in	in	IN
29899	56	3	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	56	4	married	married	JJ
29899	56	5	life	life	NN
29899	56	6	,	,	,
29899	56	7	however	however	RB
29899	56	8	,	,	,
29899	56	9	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	56	10	find	find	VBP
29899	56	11	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	56	12	growth	growth	NN
29899	56	13	together	together	RB
29899	56	14	blocked	block	VBN
29899	56	15	by	by	IN
29899	56	16	interpersonal	interpersonal	JJ
29899	56	17	conflicts	conflict	NNS
29899	56	18	which	which	WDT
29899	56	19	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	56	20	either	either	CC
29899	56	21	can	can	MD
29899	56	22	not	not	RB
29899	56	23	understand	understand	VB
29899	56	24	or	or	CC
29899	56	25	are	be	VBP
29899	56	26	not	not	RB
29899	56	27	prepared	prepared	JJ
29899	56	28	to	to	TO
29899	56	29	make	make	VB
29899	56	30	the	the	DT
29899	56	31	effort	effort	NN
29899	56	32	to	to	TO
29899	56	33	resolve	resolve	VB
29899	56	34	.	.	.
29899	57	1	They	-PRON-	PRP
29899	57	2	settle	settle	VBP
29899	57	3	for	for	IN
29899	57	4	a	a	DT
29899	57	5	series	series	NN
29899	57	6	of	of	IN
29899	57	7	compromises	compromise	NNS
29899	57	8	,	,	,
29899	57	9	resulting	result	VBG
29899	57	10	in	in	IN
29899	57	11	a	a	DT
29899	57	12	superficial	superficial	JJ
29899	57	13	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	57	14	.	.	.
29899	58	1	3	3	LS
29899	58	2	.	.	.
29899	59	1	As	as	IN
29899	59	2	time	time	NN
29899	59	3	passes	pass	VBZ
29899	59	4	,	,	,
29899	59	5	the	the	DT
29899	59	6	couple	couple	NN
29899	59	7	either	either	CC
29899	59	8	accepts	accept	VBZ
29899	59	9	this	this	DT
29899	59	10	unsatisfactory	unsatisfactory	JJ
29899	59	11	situation	situation	NN
29899	59	12	,	,	,
29899	59	13	or	or	CC
29899	59	14	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	59	15	becomes	become	VBZ
29899	59	16	progressively	progressively	RB
29899	59	17	intolerable	intolerable	JJ
29899	59	18	.	.	.
29899	60	1	They	-PRON-	PRP
29899	60	2	are	be	VBP
29899	60	3	usually	usually	RB
29899	60	4	so	so	RB
29899	60	5	"	"	``
29899	60	6	locked	lock	VBN
29899	60	7	into	into	IN
29899	60	8	"	"	``
29899	60	9	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	60	10	self	self	NN
29899	60	11	-	-	HYPH
29899	60	12	defeating	defeat	VBG
29899	60	13	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	60	14	pattern	pattern	NN
29899	60	15	that	that	IN
29899	60	16	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	60	17	are	be	VBP
29899	60	18	quite	quite	RB
29899	60	19	unable	unable	JJ
29899	60	20	to	to	TO
29899	60	21	change	change	VB
29899	60	22	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	60	23	by	by	IN
29899	60	24	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	60	25	own	own	JJ
29899	60	26	unaided	unaided	JJ
29899	60	27	efforts	effort	NNS
29899	60	28	.	.	.
29899	61	1	Some	some	DT
29899	61	2	seek	seek	VBP
29899	61	3	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	61	4	counseling	counseling	NN
29899	61	5	,	,	,
29899	61	6	but	but	CC
29899	61	7	often	often	RB
29899	61	8	too	too	RB
29899	61	9	late	late	JJ
29899	61	10	for	for	IN
29899	61	11	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	61	12	to	to	TO
29899	61	13	be	be	VB
29899	61	14	effective	effective	JJ
29899	61	15	.	.	.
29899	62	1	4	4	LS
29899	62	2	.	.	.
29899	63	1	This	this	DT
29899	63	2	tragedy	tragedy	NN
29899	63	3	of	of	IN
29899	63	4	undeveloped	undeveloped	JJ
29899	63	5	potential	potential	NN
29899	63	6	could	could	MD
29899	63	7	be	be	VB
29899	63	8	avoided	avoid	VBN
29899	63	9	in	in	IN
29899	63	10	many	many	JJ
29899	63	11	instances	instance	NNS
29899	63	12	if	if	IN
29899	63	13	married	married	JJ
29899	63	14	couples	couple	NNS
29899	63	15	had	have	VBD
29899	63	16	a	a	DT
29899	63	17	clearer	clear	JJR
29899	63	18	concept	concept	NN
29899	63	19	of	of	IN
29899	63	20	the	the	DT
29899	63	21	task	task	NN
29899	63	22	of	of	IN
29899	63	23	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	63	24	and	and	CC
29899	63	25	did	do	VBD
29899	63	26	not	not	RB
29899	63	27	have	have	VB
29899	63	28	to	to	TO
29899	63	29	struggle	struggle	VB
29899	63	30	in	in	IN
29899	63	31	almost	almost	RB
29899	63	32	total	total	JJ
29899	63	33	isolation	isolation	NN
29899	63	34	from	from	IN
29899	63	35	other	other	JJ
29899	63	36	couples	couple	NNS
29899	63	37	going	go	VBG
29899	63	38	through	through	IN
29899	63	39	the	the	DT
29899	63	40	same	same	JJ
29899	63	41	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	63	42	.	.	.
29899	64	1	The	the	DT
29899	64	2	potential	potential	NN
29899	64	3	of	of	IN
29899	64	4	married	married	JJ
29899	64	5	couples	couple	NNS
29899	64	6	for	for	IN
29899	64	7	giving	give	VBG
29899	64	8	each	each	DT
29899	64	9	other	other	JJ
29899	64	10	mutual	mutual	JJ
29899	64	11	help	help	NN
29899	64	12	and	and	CC
29899	64	13	support	support	NN
29899	64	14	is	be	VBZ
29899	64	15	very	very	RB
29899	64	16	great	great	JJ
29899	64	17	;	;	:
29899	64	18	but	but	CC
29899	64	19	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	64	20	is	be	VBZ
29899	64	21	unable	unable	JJ
29899	64	22	to	to	TO
29899	64	23	function	function	VB
29899	64	24	because	because	IN
29899	64	25	of	of	IN
29899	64	26	an	an	DT
29899	64	27	unrecognized	unrecognized	JJ
29899	64	28	taboo	taboo	NN
29899	64	29	in	in	IN
29899	64	30	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	64	31	culture	culture	NN
29899	64	32	.	.	.
29899	65	1	This	this	DT
29899	65	2	taboo	taboo	NN
29899	65	3	,	,	,
29899	65	4	hitherto	hitherto	NNP
29899	65	5	unrecognized	unrecognized	JJ
29899	65	6	as	as	IN
29899	65	7	such	such	JJ
29899	65	8	,	,	,
29899	65	9	prevents	prevent	NNS
29899	65	10	married	married	JJ
29899	65	11	couples	couple	NNS
29899	65	12	from	from	IN
29899	65	13	sharing	share	VBG
29899	65	14	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	65	15	intramarital	intramarital	JJ
29899	65	16	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	65	17	with	with	IN
29899	65	18	other	other	JJ
29899	65	19	couples	couple	NNS
29899	65	20	.	.	.
29899	66	1	In	in	IN
29899	66	2	many	many	JJ
29899	66	3	settings	setting	NNS
29899	66	4	married	marry	VBN
29899	66	5	couples	couple	NNS
29899	66	6	form	form	VBP
29899	66	7	friendships	friendship	NNS
29899	66	8	with	with	IN
29899	66	9	each	each	DT
29899	66	10	other	other	JJ
29899	66	11	,	,	,
29899	66	12	enjoy	enjoy	VB
29899	66	13	social	social	JJ
29899	66	14	contacts	contact	NNS
29899	66	15	,	,	,
29899	66	16	even	even	RB
29899	66	17	work	work	VBP
29899	66	18	together	together	RB
29899	66	19	on	on	IN
29899	66	20	projects	project	NNS
29899	66	21	;	;	:
29899	66	22	but	but	CC
29899	66	23	there	there	EX
29899	66	24	is	be	VBZ
29899	66	25	always	always	RB
29899	66	26	a	a	DT
29899	66	27	tacit	tacit	JJ
29899	66	28	understanding	understanding	NN
29899	66	29	that	that	WDT
29899	66	30	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	66	31	do	do	VBP
29899	66	32	not	not	RB
29899	66	33	reveal	reveal	VB
29899	66	34	to	to	IN
29899	66	35	each	each	DT
29899	66	36	other	other	JJ
29899	66	37	,	,	,
29899	66	38	further	further	RB
29899	66	39	than	than	IN
29899	66	40	is	be	VBZ
29899	66	41	unavoidable	unavoidable	JJ
29899	66	42	,	,	,
29899	66	43	what	what	WP
29899	66	44	is	be	VBZ
29899	66	45	going	go	VBG
29899	66	46	on	on	RP
29899	66	47	in	in	IN
29899	66	48	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	66	49	husband	husband	NN
29899	66	50	-	-	HYPH
29899	66	51	wife	wife	NN
29899	66	52	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	66	53	.	.	.
29899	67	1	Complex	complex	JJ
29899	67	2	mechanisms	mechanism	NNS
29899	67	3	for	for	IN
29899	67	4	evasion	evasion	NN
29899	67	5	and	and	CC
29899	67	6	mutual	mutual	JJ
29899	67	7	defense	defense	NN
29899	67	8	exist	exist	VBP
29899	67	9	.	.	.
29899	68	1	Some	some	DT
29899	68	2	of	of	IN
29899	68	3	these	these	DT
29899	68	4	are	be	VBP
29899	68	5	familiar	familiar	JJ
29899	68	6	,	,	,
29899	68	7	strong	strong	JJ
29899	68	8	hostility	hostility	NN
29899	68	9	in	in	IN
29899	68	10	one	one	CD
29899	68	11	partner	partner	NN
29899	68	12	when	when	WRB
29899	68	13	the	the	DT
29899	68	14	other	other	JJ
29899	68	15	appears	appear	VBZ
29899	68	16	to	to	TO
29899	68	17	be	be	VB
29899	68	18	revealing	reveal	VBG
29899	68	19	too	too	RB
29899	68	20	much	much	RB
29899	68	21	;	;	:
29899	68	22	making	make	VBG
29899	68	23	jokes	joke	NNS
29899	68	24	to	to	TO
29899	68	25	relieve	relieve	VB
29899	68	26	tension	tension	NN
29899	68	27	when	when	WRB
29899	68	28	some	some	DT
29899	68	29	inner	inner	JJ
29899	68	30	secret	secret	NN
29899	68	31	of	of	IN
29899	68	32	the	the	DT
29899	68	33	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	68	34	accidently	accidently	RB
29899	68	35	breaks	break	VBZ
29899	68	36	to	to	IN
29899	68	37	the	the	DT
29899	68	38	surface	surface	NN
29899	68	39	;	;	:
29899	68	40	silence	silence	NN
29899	68	41	or	or	CC
29899	68	42	withdrawal	withdrawal	NN
29899	68	43	when	when	WRB
29899	68	44	"	"	``
29899	68	45	outsiders	outsider	NNS
29899	68	46	"	"	``
29899	68	47	appear	appear	VBP
29899	68	48	to	to	TO
29899	68	49	be	be	VB
29899	68	50	probing	probe	VBG
29899	68	51	too	too	RB
29899	68	52	deeply	deeply	RB
29899	68	53	.	.	.
29899	69	1	These	these	DT
29899	69	2	defense	defense	NN
29899	69	3	systems	system	NNS
29899	69	4	work	work	VBP
29899	69	5	so	so	RB
29899	69	6	well	well	RB
29899	69	7	that	that	IN
29899	69	8	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	69	9	is	be	VBZ
29899	69	10	not	not	RB
29899	69	11	unusual	unusual	JJ
29899	69	12	when	when	WRB
29899	69	13	a	a	DT
29899	69	14	couple	couple	NN
29899	69	15	begins	begin	VBZ
29899	69	16	divorce	divorce	NN
29899	69	17	proceedings	proceeding	NNS
29899	69	18	for	for	IN
29899	69	19	others	other	NNS
29899	69	20	in	in	IN
29899	69	21	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	69	22	circle	circle	NN
29899	69	23	of	of	IN
29899	69	24	acquaintance	acquaintance	NN
29899	69	25	to	to	TO
29899	69	26	express	express	VB
29899	69	27	astonishment	astonishment	NN
29899	69	28	in	in	IN
29899	69	29	such	such	JJ
29899	69	30	terms	term	NNS
29899	69	31	as	as	IN
29899	69	32	"	"	``
29899	69	33	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	69	34	are	be	VBP
29899	69	35	amazed	amazed	JJ
29899	69	36	!	!	.
29899	70	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	70	2	had	have	VBD
29899	70	3	no	no	DT
29899	70	4	idea	idea	NN
29899	70	5	that	that	IN
29899	70	6	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	70	7	were	be	VBD
29899	70	8	having	have	VBG
29899	70	9	trouble	trouble	NN
29899	70	10	!	!	.
29899	70	11	"	"	''
29899	71	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	71	2	could	could	MD
29899	71	3	speculate	speculate	VB
29899	71	4	about	about	IN
29899	71	5	the	the	DT
29899	71	6	reasons	reason	NNS
29899	71	7	for	for	IN
29899	71	8	this	this	DT
29899	71	9	taboo	taboo	NN
29899	71	10	:	:	:
29899	71	11	a	a	DT
29899	71	12	protection	protection	NN
29899	71	13	against	against	IN
29899	71	14	public	public	JJ
29899	71	15	humiliation	humiliation	NN
29899	71	16	,	,	,
29899	71	17	since	since	IN
29899	71	18	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	71	19	all	all	DT
29899	71	20	want	want	VBP
29899	71	21	others	other	NNS
29899	71	22	to	to	TO
29899	71	23	feel	feel	VB
29899	71	24	that	that	IN
29899	71	25	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	71	26	can	can	MD
29899	71	27	manage	manage	VB
29899	71	28	competently	competently	RB
29899	71	29	such	such	PDT
29899	71	30	a	a	DT
29899	71	31	basic	basic	JJ
29899	71	32	undertaking	undertaking	NN
29899	71	33	as	as	IN
29899	71	34	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	71	35	;	;	:
29899	71	36	a	a	DT
29899	71	37	safeguard	safeguard	NN
29899	71	38	against	against	IN
29899	71	39	exploitation	exploitation	NN
29899	71	40	,	,	,
29899	71	41	since	since	IN
29899	71	42	a	a	DT
29899	71	43	discontented	discontented	JJ
29899	71	44	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	71	45	partner	partner	NN
29899	71	46	offers	offer	VBZ
29899	71	47	fair	fair	JJ
29899	71	48	game	game	NN
29899	71	49	to	to	IN
29899	71	50	a	a	DT
29899	71	51	predatory	predatory	JJ
29899	71	52	third	third	JJ
29899	71	53	person	person	NN
29899	71	54	;	;	:
29899	71	55	a	a	DT
29899	71	56	link	link	NN
29899	71	57	with	with	IN
29899	71	58	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	71	59	sexual	sexual	JJ
29899	71	60	taboos	taboo	NNS
29899	71	61	,	,	,
29899	71	62	since	since	IN
29899	71	63	difficulties	difficulty	NNS
29899	71	64	in	in	IN
29899	71	65	marital	marital	JJ
29899	71	66	adjustment	adjustment	NN
29899	71	67	often	often	RB
29899	71	68	have	have	VBP
29899	71	69	a	a	DT
29899	71	70	sexual	sexual	JJ
29899	71	71	component	component	NN
29899	71	72	,	,	,
29899	71	73	and	and	CC
29899	71	74	any	any	DT
29899	71	75	suggestion	suggestion	NN
29899	71	76	of	of	IN
29899	71	77	sexual	sexual	JJ
29899	71	78	incompetence	incompetence	NN
29899	71	79	is	be	VBZ
29899	71	80	deeply	deeply	RB
29899	71	81	wounding	wound	VBG
29899	71	82	to	to	IN
29899	71	83	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	71	84	pride	pride	NN
29899	71	85	.	.	.
29899	72	1	It	-PRON-	PRP
29899	72	2	could	could	MD
29899	72	3	reflect	reflect	VB
29899	72	4	the	the	DT
29899	72	5	traditional	traditional	JJ
29899	72	6	tendency	tendency	NN
29899	72	7	to	to	TO
29899	72	8	regard	regard	VB
29899	72	9	the	the	DT
29899	72	10	family	family	NN
29899	72	11	as	as	IN
29899	72	12	a	a	DT
29899	72	13	closed	close	VBN
29899	72	14	"	"	``
29899	72	15	in	in	IN
29899	72	16	-	-	HYPH
29899	72	17	group"--an	group"--an	NN
29899	72	18	attitude	attitude	NN
29899	72	19	not	not	RB
29899	72	20	without	without	IN
29899	72	21	advantages	advantage	NNS
29899	72	22	for	for	IN
29899	72	23	its	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	72	24	strength	strength	NN
29899	72	25	and	and	CC
29899	72	26	stability	stability	NN
29899	72	27	.	.	.
29899	73	1	What	what	WP
29899	73	2	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	73	3	are	be	VBP
29899	73	4	concerned	concerned	JJ
29899	73	5	about	about	IN
29899	73	6	,	,	,
29899	73	7	however	however	RB
29899	73	8	,	,	,
29899	73	9	is	be	VBZ
29899	73	10	that	that	IN
29899	73	11	this	this	DT
29899	73	12	taboo	taboo	NN
29899	73	13	is	be	VBZ
29899	73	14	being	be	VBG
29899	73	15	maintained	maintain	VBN
29899	73	16	with	with	IN
29899	73	17	a	a	DT
29899	73	18	strictness	strictness	NN
29899	73	19	that	that	WDT
29899	73	20	goes	go	VBZ
29899	73	21	far	far	RB
29899	73	22	beyond	beyond	IN
29899	73	23	its	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	73	24	usefulness	usefulness	NN
29899	73	25	in	in	IN
29899	73	26	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	73	27	changing	change	VBG
29899	73	28	society	society	NN
29899	73	29	.	.	.
29899	74	1	It	-PRON-	PRP
29899	74	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	74	3	depriving	deprive	VBG
29899	74	4	married	married	JJ
29899	74	5	couples	couple	NNS
29899	74	6	of	of	IN
29899	74	7	help	help	NN
29899	74	8	and	and	CC
29899	74	9	support	support	NN
29899	74	10	from	from	IN
29899	74	11	each	each	DT
29899	74	12	other	other	JJ
29899	74	13	,	,	,
29899	74	14	at	at	IN
29899	74	15	a	a	DT
29899	74	16	time	time	NN
29899	74	17	when	when	WRB
29899	74	18	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	74	19	has	have	VBZ
29899	74	20	become	become	VBN
29899	74	21	much	much	RB
29899	74	22	more	more	RBR
29899	74	23	difficult	difficult	JJ
29899	74	24	and	and	CC
29899	74	25	demanding	demanding	JJ
29899	74	26	than	than	IN
29899	74	27	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	74	28	was	be	VBD
29899	74	29	in	in	IN
29899	74	30	the	the	DT
29899	74	31	past	past	NN
29899	74	32	.	.	.
29899	75	1	Indeed	indeed	RB
29899	75	2	,	,	,
29899	75	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	75	4	believe	believe	VBP
29899	75	5	that	that	IN
29899	75	6	with	with	IN
29899	75	7	the	the	DT
29899	75	8	emergence	emergence	NN
29899	75	9	of	of	IN
29899	75	10	the	the	DT
29899	75	11	nuclear	nuclear	JJ
29899	75	12	family	family	NN
29899	75	13	as	as	IN
29899	75	14	the	the	DT
29899	75	15	norm	norm	NN
29899	75	16	in	in	IN
29899	75	17	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	75	18	Western	western	JJ
29899	75	19	culture	culture	NN
29899	75	20	,	,	,
29899	75	21	the	the	DT
29899	75	22	individual	individual	JJ
29899	75	23	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	75	24	has	have	VBZ
29899	75	25	been	be	VBN
29899	75	26	deprived	deprive	VBN
29899	75	27	of	of	IN
29899	75	28	the	the	DT
29899	75	29	supports	support	NNS
29899	75	30	derived	derive	VBN
29899	75	31	from	from	IN
29899	75	32	the	the	DT
29899	75	33	extended	extended	JJ
29899	75	34	family	family	NN
29899	75	35	of	of	IN
29899	75	36	the	the	DT
29899	75	37	past	past	NN
29899	75	38	precisely	precisely	RB
29899	75	39	at	at	IN
29899	75	40	a	a	DT
29899	75	41	time	time	NN
29899	75	42	when	when	WRB
29899	75	43	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	75	44	rising	rise	VBG
29899	75	45	expectations	expectation	NNS
29899	75	46	of	of	IN
29899	75	47	highly	highly	RB
29899	75	48	rewarding	rewarding	JJ
29899	75	49	interpersonal	interpersonal	JJ
29899	75	50	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	75	51	are	be	VBP
29899	75	52	subjecting	subject	VBG
29899	75	53	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	75	54	to	to	IN
29899	75	55	demands	demand	VBZ
29899	75	56	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	75	57	is	be	VBZ
29899	75	58	often	often	RB
29899	75	59	unable	unable	JJ
29899	75	60	to	to	TO
29899	75	61	meet	meet	VB
29899	75	62	.	.	.
29899	76	1	In	in	IN
29899	76	2	the	the	DT
29899	76	3	larger	large	JJR
29899	76	4	family	family	NN
29899	76	5	groupings	grouping	NNS
29899	76	6	of	of	IN
29899	76	7	the	the	DT
29899	76	8	Orient	Orient	NNP
29899	76	9	,	,	,
29899	76	10	despite	despite	IN
29899	76	11	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	76	12	hierarchical	hierarchical	JJ
29899	76	13	structure	structure	NN
29899	76	14	,	,	,
29899	76	15	a	a	DT
29899	76	16	great	great	JJ
29899	76	17	deal	deal	NN
29899	76	18	of	of	IN
29899	76	19	help	help	NN
29899	76	20	and	and	CC
29899	76	21	support	support	NN
29899	76	22	can	can	MD
29899	76	23	become	become	VB
29899	76	24	available	available	JJ
29899	76	25	to	to	IN
29899	76	26	the	the	DT
29899	76	27	individual	individual	JJ
29899	76	28	couple	couple	NN
29899	76	29	in	in	IN
29899	76	30	times	time	NNS
29899	76	31	of	of	IN
29899	76	32	trouble	trouble	NN
29899	76	33	from	from	IN
29899	76	34	those	those	DT
29899	76	35	with	with	IN
29899	76	36	whom	whom	WP
29899	76	37	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	76	38	share	share	VBP
29899	76	39	a	a	DT
29899	76	40	common	common	JJ
29899	76	41	corporate	corporate	JJ
29899	76	42	life	life	NN
29899	76	43	.	.	.
29899	77	1	It	-PRON-	PRP
29899	77	2	may	may	MD
29899	77	3	well	well	RB
29899	77	4	be	be	VB
29899	77	5	that	that	IN
29899	77	6	the	the	DT
29899	77	7	new	new	JJ
29899	77	8	"	"	``
29899	77	9	life	life	NN
29899	77	10	styles	style	NNS
29899	77	11	"	"	''
29899	77	12	being	be	VBG
29899	77	13	experimented	experiment	VBN
29899	77	14	with	with	IN
29899	77	15	today	today	NN
29899	77	16	--	--	:
29899	77	17	mate	mate	NN
29899	77	18	-	-	HYPH
29899	77	19	swapping	swap	VBG
29899	77	20	,	,	,
29899	77	21	multilateral	multilateral	JJ
29899	77	22	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	77	23	,	,	,
29899	77	24	and	and	CC
29899	77	25	group	group	NN
29899	77	26	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	77	27	,	,	,
29899	77	28	for	for	IN
29899	77	29	example	example	NN
29899	77	30	--	--	:
29899	77	31	represent	represent	VBP
29899	77	32	attempts	attempt	NNS
29899	77	33	to	to	TO
29899	77	34	enable	enable	VB
29899	77	35	the	the	DT
29899	77	36	individual	individual	JJ
29899	77	37	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	77	38	to	to	TO
29899	77	39	break	break	VB
29899	77	40	out	out	IN
29899	77	41	of	of	IN
29899	77	42	its	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	77	43	isolation	isolation	NN
29899	77	44	and	and	CC
29899	77	45	to	to	TO
29899	77	46	gain	gain	VB
29899	77	47	better	well	JJR
29899	77	48	communication	communication	NN
29899	77	49	,	,	,
29899	77	50	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	77	51	and	and	CC
29899	77	52	needed	need	VBD
29899	77	53	support	support	NN
29899	77	54	from	from	IN
29899	77	55	other	other	JJ
29899	77	56	marital	marital	JJ
29899	77	57	units	unit	NNS
29899	77	58	.	.	.
29899	78	1	A	a	DT
29899	78	2	striking	striking	JJ
29899	78	3	illustration	illustration	NN
29899	78	4	of	of	IN
29899	78	5	this	this	DT
29899	78	6	trend	trend	NN
29899	78	7	toward	toward	IN
29899	78	8	deep	deep	JJ
29899	78	9	sharing	sharing	NN
29899	78	10	between	between	IN
29899	78	11	married	married	JJ
29899	78	12	couples	couple	NNS
29899	78	13	has	have	VBZ
29899	78	14	come	come	VBN
29899	78	15	to	to	IN
29899	78	16	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	78	17	notice	notice	NN
29899	78	18	from	from	IN
29899	78	19	an	an	DT
29899	78	20	unexpected	unexpected	JJ
29899	78	21	quarter	quarter	NN
29899	78	22	.	.	.
29899	79	1	Two	two	CD
29899	79	2	married	married	JJ
29899	79	3	couples	couple	NNS
29899	79	4	from	from	IN
29899	79	5	a	a	DT
29899	79	6	conservative	conservative	JJ
29899	79	7	Christian	christian	JJ
29899	79	8	background	background	NN
29899	79	9	decided	decide	VBD
29899	79	10	to	to	TO
29899	79	11	meet	meet	VB
29899	79	12	and	and	CC
29899	79	13	talk	talk	VB
29899	79	14	together	together	RB
29899	79	15	,	,	,
29899	79	16	with	with	IN
29899	79	17	complete	complete	JJ
29899	79	18	detailed	detailed	JJ
29899	79	19	frankness	frankness	NN
29899	79	20	,	,	,
29899	79	21	about	about	IN
29899	79	22	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	79	23	sexual	sexual	JJ
29899	79	24	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	79	25	.	.	.
29899	80	1	A	a	DT
29899	80	2	series	series	NN
29899	80	3	of	of	IN
29899	80	4	such	such	JJ
29899	80	5	meetings	meeting	NNS
29899	80	6	was	be	VBD
29899	80	7	held	hold	VBN
29899	80	8	,	,	,
29899	80	9	the	the	DT
29899	80	10	conversations	conversation	NNS
29899	80	11	taped	tape	VBN
29899	80	12	,	,	,
29899	80	13	and	and	CC
29899	80	14	subsequently	subsequently	RB
29899	80	15	published	publish	VBN
29899	80	16	in	in	IN
29899	80	17	book	book	NN
29899	80	18	form	form	NN
29899	80	19	.	.	.
29899	81	1	[	[	-LRB-
29899	81	2	D	d	NN
29899	81	3	]	]	-RRB-
29899	81	4	The	the	DT
29899	81	5	couples	couple	NNS
29899	81	6	,	,	,
29899	81	7	after	after	IN
29899	81	8	careful	careful	JJ
29899	81	9	consideration	consideration	NN
29899	81	10	,	,	,
29899	81	11	decided	decide	VBD
29899	81	12	not	not	RB
29899	81	13	to	to	TO
29899	81	14	hide	hide	VB
29899	81	15	behind	behind	IN
29899	81	16	a	a	DT
29899	81	17	cloak	cloak	NN
29899	81	18	of	of	IN
29899	81	19	anonymity	anonymity	NN
29899	81	20	,	,	,
29899	81	21	but	but	CC
29899	81	22	to	to	TO
29899	81	23	use	use	VB
29899	81	24	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	81	25	real	real	JJ
29899	81	26	names	name	NNS
29899	81	27	and	and	CC
29899	81	28	disclose	disclose	VB
29899	81	29	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	81	30	identity	identity	NN
29899	81	31	.	.	.
29899	82	1	Confronted	confront	VBN
29899	82	2	with	with	IN
29899	82	3	this	this	DT
29899	82	4	new	new	JJ
29899	82	5	trend	trend	NN
29899	82	6	,	,	,
29899	82	7	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	82	8	take	take	VBP
29899	82	9	the	the	DT
29899	82	10	view	view	NN
29899	82	11	that	that	IN
29899	82	12	the	the	DT
29899	82	13	taboo	taboo	NN
29899	82	14	against	against	IN
29899	82	15	the	the	DT
29899	82	16	sharing	sharing	NN
29899	82	17	of	of	IN
29899	82	18	husband	husband	NN
29899	82	19	-	-	HYPH
29899	82	20	wife	wife	NN
29899	82	21	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	82	22	between	between	IN
29899	82	23	one	one	CD
29899	82	24	married	married	JJ
29899	82	25	couple	couple	NN
29899	82	26	and	and	CC
29899	82	27	other	other	JJ
29899	82	28	married	married	JJ
29899	82	29	couples	couple	NNS
29899	82	30	can	can	MD
29899	82	31	with	with	IN
29899	82	32	impunity	impunity	NN
29899	82	33	be	be	VB
29899	82	34	relaxed	relax	VBN
29899	82	35	in	in	IN
29899	82	36	appropriate	appropriate	JJ
29899	82	37	situations	situation	NNS
29899	82	38	with	with	IN
29899	82	39	benefit	benefit	NN
29899	82	40	to	to	IN
29899	82	41	all	all	DT
29899	82	42	concerned	concern	VBN
29899	82	43	.	.	.
29899	83	1	Between	between	IN
29899	83	2	such	such	JJ
29899	83	3	couples	couple	NNS
29899	83	4	the	the	DT
29899	83	5	development	development	NN
29899	83	6	of	of	IN
29899	83	7	great	great	JJ
29899	83	8	warmth	warmth	NN
29899	83	9	,	,	,
29899	83	10	empathy	empathy	NNP
29899	83	11	,	,	,
29899	83	12	mutual	mutual	JJ
29899	83	13	understanding	understanding	NN
29899	83	14	and	and	CC
29899	83	15	support	support	NN
29899	83	16	,	,	,
29899	83	17	can	can	MD
29899	83	18	contribute	contribute	VB
29899	83	19	significantly	significantly	RB
29899	83	20	to	to	IN
29899	83	21	the	the	DT
29899	83	22	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	83	23	and	and	CC
29899	83	24	growth	growth	NN
29899	83	25	of	of	IN
29899	83	26	the	the	DT
29899	83	27	individual	individual	JJ
29899	83	28	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	83	29	involved	involve	VBN
29899	83	30	.	.	.
29899	84	1	This	this	DT
29899	84	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	84	3	essentially	essentially	RB
29899	84	4	what	what	WP
29899	84	5	happens	happen	VBZ
29899	84	6	in	in	IN
29899	84	7	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	84	8	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	84	9	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	84	10	.	.	.
29899	85	1	COMPARISON	comparison	NN
29899	85	2	WITH	with	IN
29899	85	3	THERAPY	THERAPY	NNS
29899	85	4	AND	and	CC
29899	85	5	ENCOUNTER	encounter	NN
29899	85	6	GROUPS	group	NNS
29899	85	7	"	"	``
29899	85	8	How	how	WRB
29899	85	9	do	do	VBP
29899	85	10	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	85	11	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	85	12	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	85	13	groups	group	NNS
29899	85	14	differ	differ	VBP
29899	85	15	from	from	IN
29899	85	16	group	group	NN
29899	85	17	marital	marital	NN
29899	85	18	therapy	therapy	NN
29899	85	19	on	on	IN
29899	85	20	the	the	DT
29899	85	21	one	one	CD
29899	85	22	hand	hand	NN
29899	85	23	,	,	,
29899	85	24	and	and	CC
29899	85	25	from	from	IN
29899	85	26	encounter	encounter	NN
29899	85	27	groups	group	NNS
29899	85	28	on	on	IN
29899	85	29	the	the	DT
29899	85	30	other	other	JJ
29899	85	31	?	?	.
29899	85	32	"	"	''
29899	86	1	These	these	DT
29899	86	2	questions	question	NNS
29899	86	3	are	be	VBP
29899	86	4	raised	raise	VBN
29899	86	5	by	by	IN
29899	86	6	many	many	JJ
29899	86	7	people	people	NNS
29899	86	8	.	.	.
29899	87	1	What	what	WP
29899	87	2	are	be	VBP
29899	87	3	the	the	DT
29899	87	4	answers	answer	NNS
29899	87	5	?	?	.
29899	88	1	Group	group	NN
29899	88	2	therapy	therapy	NN
29899	88	3	for	for	IN
29899	88	4	married	married	JJ
29899	88	5	couples	couple	NNS
29899	88	6	is	be	VBZ
29899	88	7	now	now	RB
29899	88	8	widely	widely	RB
29899	88	9	available	available	JJ
29899	88	10	,	,	,
29899	88	11	and	and	CC
29899	88	12	its	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	88	13	effectiveness	effectiveness	NN
29899	88	14	has	have	VBZ
29899	88	15	been	be	VBN
29899	88	16	established	establish	VBN
29899	88	17	.	.	.
29899	89	1	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	89	2	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	89	3	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	89	4	groups	group	NNS
29899	89	5	differ	differ	VBP
29899	89	6	from	from	IN
29899	89	7	therapy	therapy	NN
29899	89	8	groups	group	NNS
29899	89	9	in	in	IN
29899	89	10	three	three	CD
29899	89	11	important	important	JJ
29899	89	12	respects	respect	NNS
29899	89	13	.	.	.
29899	90	1	First	first	JJ
29899	90	2	,	,	,
29899	90	3	marital	marital	JJ
29899	90	4	therapy	therapy	NN
29899	90	5	is	be	VBZ
29899	90	6	undertaken	undertake	VBN
29899	90	7	with	with	IN
29899	90	8	couples	couple	NNS
29899	90	9	who	who	WP
29899	90	10	have	have	VBP
29899	90	11	serious	serious	JJ
29899	90	12	problems	problem	NNS
29899	90	13	,	,	,
29899	90	14	often	often	RB
29899	90	15	because	because	IN
29899	90	16	the	the	DT
29899	90	17	individuals	individual	NNS
29899	90	18	concerned	concern	VBN
29899	90	19	suffer	suffer	VBP
29899	90	20	from	from	IN
29899	90	21	personality	personality	NN
29899	90	22	disorders	disorder	NNS
29899	90	23	.	.	.
29899	91	1	When	when	WRB
29899	91	2	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	91	3	are	be	VBP
29899	91	4	not	not	RB
29899	91	5	stable	stable	JJ
29899	91	6	a	a	DT
29899	91	7	good	good	JJ
29899	91	8	deal	deal	NN
29899	91	9	of	of	IN
29899	91	10	pathology	pathology	NN
29899	91	11	may	may	MD
29899	91	12	emerge	emerge	VB
29899	91	13	in	in	IN
29899	91	14	the	the	DT
29899	91	15	course	course	NN
29899	91	16	of	of	IN
29899	91	17	group	group	NN
29899	91	18	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	91	19	.	.	.
29899	92	1	Severe	severe	JJ
29899	92	2	conflict	conflict	NN
29899	92	3	between	between	IN
29899	92	4	husband	husband	NN
29899	92	5	and	and	CC
29899	92	6	wife	wife	NN
29899	92	7	may	may	MD
29899	92	8	have	have	VB
29899	92	9	to	to	TO
29899	92	10	be	be	VB
29899	92	11	permitted	permit	VBN
29899	92	12	to	to	TO
29899	92	13	surface	surface	VB
29899	92	14	and	and	CC
29899	92	15	be	be	VB
29899	92	16	handled	handle	VBN
29899	92	17	openly	openly	RB
29899	92	18	by	by	IN
29899	92	19	the	the	DT
29899	92	20	therapist	therapist	NN
29899	92	21	.	.	.
29899	93	1	The	the	DT
29899	93	2	second	second	JJ
29899	93	3	important	important	JJ
29899	93	4	difference	difference	NN
29899	93	5	is	be	VBZ
29899	93	6	that	that	IN
29899	93	7	therapy	therapy	NN
29899	93	8	groups	group	NNS
29899	93	9	generally	generally	RB
29899	93	10	continue	continue	VBP
29899	93	11	meeting	meet	VBG
29899	93	12	,	,	,
29899	93	13	on	on	IN
29899	93	14	a	a	DT
29899	93	15	weekly	weekly	JJ
29899	93	16	or	or	CC
29899	93	17	bi	bi	JJ
29899	93	18	-	-	JJ
29899	93	19	weekly	weekly	JJ
29899	93	20	basis	basis	NN
29899	93	21	,	,	,
29899	93	22	over	over	IN
29899	93	23	a	a	DT
29899	93	24	long	long	JJ
29899	93	25	period	period	NN
29899	93	26	of	of	IN
29899	93	27	time	time	NN
29899	93	28	--	--	:
29899	93	29	as	as	RB
29899	93	30	long	long	RB
29899	93	31	as	as	IN
29899	93	32	a	a	DT
29899	93	33	year	year	NN
29899	93	34	in	in	IN
29899	93	35	some	some	DT
29899	93	36	cases	case	NNS
29899	93	37	.	.	.
29899	94	1	Moreover	moreover	RB
29899	94	2	,	,	,
29899	94	3	individual	individual	JJ
29899	94	4	couples	couple	NNS
29899	94	5	may	may	MD
29899	94	6	also	also	RB
29899	94	7	undergo	undergo	VB
29899	94	8	counseling	counseling	NN
29899	94	9	(	(	-LRB-
29899	94	10	individually	individually	RB
29899	94	11	,	,	,
29899	94	12	conjointly	conjointly	RB
29899	94	13	,	,	,
29899	94	14	or	or	CC
29899	94	15	both	both	DT
29899	94	16	)	)	-RRB-
29899	94	17	in	in	IN
29899	94	18	association	association	NN
29899	94	19	with	with	IN
29899	94	20	the	the	DT
29899	94	21	group	group	NN
29899	94	22	therapy	therapy	NN
29899	94	23	either	either	CC
29899	94	24	before	before	IN
29899	94	25	being	be	VBG
29899	94	26	admitted	admit	VBN
29899	94	27	to	to	IN
29899	94	28	the	the	DT
29899	94	29	group	group	NN
29899	94	30	or	or	CC
29899	94	31	concurrently	concurrently	RB
29899	94	32	with	with	IN
29899	94	33	the	the	DT
29899	94	34	group	group	NN
29899	94	35	experience	experience	NN
29899	94	36	.	.	.
29899	95	1	The	the	DT
29899	95	2	third	third	JJ
29899	95	3	difference	difference	NN
29899	95	4	is	be	VBZ
29899	95	5	in	in	IN
29899	95	6	the	the	DT
29899	95	7	leadership	leadership	NN
29899	95	8	pattern	pattern	NN
29899	95	9	.	.	.
29899	96	1	Therapy	therapy	NN
29899	96	2	groups	group	NNS
29899	96	3	are	be	VBP
29899	96	4	led	lead	VBN
29899	96	5	by	by	IN
29899	96	6	professionally	professionally	RB
29899	96	7	qualified	qualified	JJ
29899	96	8	persons	person	NNS
29899	96	9	--	--	:
29899	96	10	psychiatrists	psychiatrist	NNS
29899	96	11	,	,	,
29899	96	12	clinical	clinical	JJ
29899	96	13	psychologists	psychologist	NNS
29899	96	14	,	,	,
29899	96	15	social	social	JJ
29899	96	16	workers	worker	NNS
29899	96	17	,	,	,
29899	96	18	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	96	19	counselors	counselor	NNS
29899	96	20	.	.	.
29899	97	1	They	-PRON-	PRP
29899	97	2	play	play	VBP
29899	97	3	a	a	DT
29899	97	4	fairly	fairly	RB
29899	97	5	directive	directive	JJ
29899	97	6	role	role	NN
29899	97	7	.	.	.
29899	98	1	The	the	DT
29899	98	2	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	98	3	are	be	VBP
29899	98	4	often	often	RB
29899	98	5	male	male	JJ
29899	98	6	and	and	CC
29899	98	7	female	female	JJ
29899	98	8	co	co	NNS
29899	98	9	-	-	NNS
29899	98	10	therapists	therapist	NNS
29899	98	11	,	,	,
29899	98	12	but	but	CC
29899	98	13	are	be	VBP
29899	98	14	seldom	seldom	RB
29899	98	15	husband	husband	NN
29899	98	16	and	and	CC
29899	98	17	wife	wife	NN
29899	98	18	.	.	.
29899	99	1	The	the	DT
29899	99	2	role	role	NN
29899	99	3	model	model	NN
29899	99	4	aspect	aspect	NN
29899	99	5	of	of	IN
29899	99	6	the	the	DT
29899	99	7	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	99	8	group	group	NN
29899	99	9	,	,	,
29899	99	10	as	as	RB
29899	99	11	well	well	RB
29899	99	12	as	as	IN
29899	99	13	the	the	DT
29899	99	14	participatory	participatory	NN
29899	99	15	aspect	aspect	NN
29899	99	16	,	,	,
29899	99	17	are	be	VBP
29899	99	18	therefore	therefore	RB
29899	99	19	much	much	RB
29899	99	20	less	less	RBR
29899	99	21	pronounced	pronounced	JJ
29899	99	22	and	and	CC
29899	99	23	the	the	DT
29899	99	24	group	group	NN
29899	99	25	is	be	VBZ
29899	99	26	less	less	RBR
29899	99	27	free	free	JJ
29899	99	28	to	to	TO
29899	99	29	find	find	VB
29899	99	30	and	and	CC
29899	99	31	follow	follow	VB
29899	99	32	its	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	99	33	own	own	JJ
29899	99	34	direction	direction	NN
29899	99	35	.	.	.
29899	100	1	An	an	DT
29899	100	2	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	100	3	group	group	NN
29899	100	4	consists	consist	VBZ
29899	100	5	of	of	IN
29899	100	6	several	several	JJ
29899	100	7	married	married	JJ
29899	100	8	couples	couple	NNS
29899	100	9	not	not	RB
29899	100	10	in	in	IN
29899	100	11	need	need	NN
29899	100	12	of	of	IN
29899	100	13	therapy	therapy	NN
29899	100	14	meeting	meeting	NN
29899	100	15	on	on	IN
29899	100	16	an	an	DT
29899	100	17	intensive	intensive	JJ
29899	100	18	basis	basis	NN
29899	100	19	but	but	CC
29899	100	20	for	for	IN
29899	100	21	a	a	DT
29899	100	22	limited	limited	JJ
29899	100	23	time	time	NN
29899	100	24	period	period	NN
29899	100	25	.	.	.
29899	101	1	In	in	IN
29899	101	2	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	101	3	opinion	opinion	NN
29899	101	4	such	such	JJ
29899	101	5	groups	group	NNS
29899	101	6	need	nee	MD
29899	101	7	not	not	RB
29899	101	8	be	be	VB
29899	101	9	led	lead	VBN
29899	101	10	by	by	IN
29899	101	11	professional	professional	JJ
29899	101	12	therapists	therapist	NNS
29899	101	13	;	;	:
29899	101	14	although	although	IN
29899	101	15	,	,	,
29899	101	16	other	other	JJ
29899	101	17	things	thing	NNS
29899	101	18	being	be	VBG
29899	101	19	equal	equal	JJ
29899	101	20	,	,	,
29899	101	21	that	that	DT
29899	101	22	is	be	VBZ
29899	101	23	of	of	IN
29899	101	24	course	course	NN
29899	101	25	a	a	DT
29899	101	26	decided	decide	VBN
29899	101	27	advantage	advantage	NN
29899	101	28	.	.	.
29899	102	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	102	2	have	have	VBP
29899	102	3	come	come	VBN
29899	102	4	to	to	IN
29899	102	5	the	the	DT
29899	102	6	conclusion	conclusion	NN
29899	102	7	,	,	,
29899	102	8	however	however	RB
29899	102	9	,	,	,
29899	102	10	that	that	IN
29899	102	11	effective	effective	JJ
29899	102	12	leadership	leadership	NN
29899	102	13	can	can	MD
29899	102	14	be	be	VB
29899	102	15	given	give	VBN
29899	102	16	by	by	IN
29899	102	17	lay	lay	JJ
29899	102	18	couples	couple	NNS
29899	102	19	if	if	IN
29899	102	20	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	102	21	are	be	VBP
29899	102	22	carefully	carefully	RB
29899	102	23	selected	select	VBN
29899	102	24	and	and	CC
29899	102	25	trained	train	VBN
29899	102	26	.	.	.
29899	103	1	The	the	DT
29899	103	2	encounter	encounter	NN
29899	103	3	group	group	NN
29899	103	4	,	,	,
29899	103	5	a	a	DT
29899	103	6	general	general	JJ
29899	103	7	descriptive	descriptive	JJ
29899	103	8	term	term	NN
29899	103	9	,	,	,
29899	103	10	is	be	VBZ
29899	103	11	intended	intend	VBN
29899	103	12	to	to	TO
29899	103	13	include	include	VB
29899	103	14	many	many	JJ
29899	103	15	variants	variant	NNS
29899	103	16	.	.	.
29899	104	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	104	2	have	have	VBP
29899	104	3	participated	participate	VBN
29899	104	4	in	in	IN
29899	104	5	such	such	JJ
29899	104	6	groups	group	NNS
29899	104	7	,	,	,
29899	104	8	studied	study	VBD
29899	104	9	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	104	10	procedures	procedure	NNS
29899	104	11	,	,	,
29899	104	12	and	and	CC
29899	104	13	adapted	adapt	VBD
29899	104	14	some	some	DT
29899	104	15	of	of	IN
29899	104	16	these	these	DT
29899	104	17	to	to	IN
29899	104	18	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	104	19	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	104	20	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	104	21	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	104	22	.	.	.
29899	105	1	Couples	couple	NNS
29899	105	2	who	who	WP
29899	105	3	have	have	VBP
29899	105	4	been	be	VBN
29899	105	5	involved	involve	VBN
29899	105	6	in	in	IN
29899	105	7	encounter	encounter	NN
29899	105	8	groups	group	NNS
29899	105	9	adjust	adjust	VBP
29899	105	10	quickly	quickly	RB
29899	105	11	and	and	CC
29899	105	12	easily	easily	RB
29899	105	13	to	to	IN
29899	105	14	the	the	DT
29899	105	15	methods	method	NNS
29899	105	16	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	105	17	use	use	VBP
29899	105	18	in	in	IN
29899	105	19	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	105	20	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	105	21	,	,	,
29899	105	22	are	be	VBP
29899	105	23	generally	generally	RB
29899	105	24	very	very	RB
29899	105	25	cooperative	cooperative	JJ
29899	105	26	,	,	,
29899	105	27	and	and	CC
29899	105	28	an	an	DT
29899	105	29	asset	asset	NN
29899	105	30	to	to	IN
29899	105	31	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	105	32	groups	group	NNS
29899	105	33	.	.	.
29899	106	1	There	there	EX
29899	106	2	are	be	VBP
29899	106	3	two	two	CD
29899	106	4	significant	significant	JJ
29899	106	5	respects	respect	NNS
29899	106	6	in	in	IN
29899	106	7	which	which	WDT
29899	106	8	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	106	9	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	106	10	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	106	11	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	106	12	differ	differ	VBP
29899	106	13	from	from	IN
29899	106	14	encounter	encounter	NN
29899	106	15	groups	group	NNS
29899	106	16	.	.	.
29899	107	1	First	first	RB
29899	107	2	,	,	,
29899	107	3	encounter	encounter	NN
29899	107	4	groups	group	NNS
29899	107	5	are	be	VBP
29899	107	6	composed	compose	VBN
29899	107	7	of	of	IN
29899	107	8	individuals	individual	NNS
29899	107	9	,	,	,
29899	107	10	while	while	IN
29899	107	11	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	107	12	groups	group	NNS
29899	107	13	are	be	VBP
29899	107	14	confined	confine	VBN
29899	107	15	to	to	IN
29899	107	16	,	,	,
29899	107	17	and	and	CC
29899	107	18	led	lead	VBN
29899	107	19	by	by	IN
29899	107	20	,	,	,
29899	107	21	married	married	JJ
29899	107	22	couples	couple	NNS
29899	107	23	.	.	.
29899	108	1	This	this	DT
29899	108	2	distinction	distinction	NN
29899	108	3	calls	call	VBZ
29899	108	4	for	for	IN
29899	108	5	different	different	JJ
29899	108	6	approaches	approach	NNS
29899	108	7	.	.	.
29899	109	1	There	there	EX
29899	109	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	109	3	a	a	DT
29899	109	4	greater	great	JJR
29899	109	5	complexity	complexity	NN
29899	109	6	in	in	IN
29899	109	7	the	the	DT
29899	109	8	leadership	leadership	NN
29899	109	9	,	,	,
29899	109	10	and	and	CC
29899	109	11	a	a	DT
29899	109	12	greater	great	JJR
29899	109	13	complexity	complexity	NN
29899	109	14	in	in	IN
29899	109	15	the	the	DT
29899	109	16	group	group	NN
29899	109	17	itself	-PRON-	PRP
29899	109	18	.	.	.
29899	110	1	The	the	DT
29899	110	2	encounter	encounter	NN
29899	110	3	group	group	NN
29899	110	4	is	be	VBZ
29899	110	5	confined	confine	VBN
29899	110	6	to	to	IN
29899	110	7	interactions	interaction	NNS
29899	110	8	between	between	IN
29899	110	9	separate	separate	JJ
29899	110	10	individuals	individual	NNS
29899	110	11	and	and	CC
29899	110	12	usually	usually	RB
29899	110	13	these	these	DT
29899	110	14	individuals	individual	NNS
29899	110	15	have	have	VBP
29899	110	16	not	not	RB
29899	110	17	known	know	VBN
29899	110	18	each	each	DT
29899	110	19	other	other	JJ
29899	110	20	before	before	IN
29899	110	21	joining	join	VBG
29899	110	22	the	the	DT
29899	110	23	group	group	NN
29899	110	24	and	and	CC
29899	110	25	probably	probably	RB
29899	110	26	will	will	MD
29899	110	27	not	not	RB
29899	110	28	continue	continue	VB
29899	110	29	association	association	NN
29899	110	30	afterwards	afterwards	RB
29899	110	31	.	.	.
29899	111	1	By	by	IN
29899	111	2	contrast	contrast	NN
29899	111	3	,	,	,
29899	111	4	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	111	5	have	have	VBP
29899	111	6	at	at	RB
29899	111	7	least	least	RBS
29899	111	8	three	three	CD
29899	111	9	kinds	kind	NNS
29899	111	10	of	of	IN
29899	111	11	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	111	12	:	:	:
29899	111	13	between	between	IN
29899	111	14	individuals	individual	NNS
29899	111	15	within	within	IN
29899	111	16	the	the	DT
29899	111	17	group	group	NN
29899	111	18	,	,	,
29899	111	19	between	between	IN
29899	111	20	couples	couple	NNS
29899	111	21	(	(	-LRB-
29899	111	22	including	include	VBG
29899	111	23	the	the	DT
29899	111	24	leading	lead	VBG
29899	111	25	couple	couple	NN
29899	111	26	)	)	-RRB-
29899	111	27	within	within	IN
29899	111	28	the	the	DT
29899	111	29	group	group	NN
29899	111	30	,	,	,
29899	111	31	and	and	CC
29899	111	32	between	between	IN
29899	111	33	husband	husband	NN
29899	111	34	and	and	CC
29899	111	35	wife	wife	NN
29899	111	36	within	within	IN
29899	111	37	the	the	DT
29899	111	38	marital	marital	JJ
29899	111	39	unit	unit	NN
29899	111	40	.	.	.
29899	112	1	This	this	DT
29899	112	2	multidimensional	multidimensional	JJ
29899	112	3	aspect	aspect	NN
29899	112	4	of	of	IN
29899	112	5	the	the	DT
29899	112	6	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	112	7	group	group	NN
29899	112	8	not	not	RB
29899	112	9	only	only	RB
29899	112	10	makes	make	VBZ
29899	112	11	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	112	12	more	more	RBR
29899	112	13	complex	complex	JJ
29899	112	14	,	,	,
29899	112	15	but	but	CC
29899	112	16	also	also	RB
29899	112	17	increases	increase	VBZ
29899	112	18	its	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	112	19	potential	potential	NN
29899	112	20	.	.	.
29899	113	1	This	this	DT
29899	113	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	113	3	particularly	particularly	RB
29899	113	4	true	true	JJ
29899	113	5	after	after	IN
29899	113	6	the	the	DT
29899	113	7	experience	experience	NN
29899	113	8	is	be	VBZ
29899	113	9	over	over	RB
29899	113	10	.	.	.
29899	114	1	From	from	IN
29899	114	2	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	114	3	knowledge	knowledge	NN
29899	114	4	of	of	IN
29899	114	5	encounter	encounter	NN
29899	114	6	groups	group	NNS
29899	114	7	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	114	8	are	be	VBP
29899	114	9	aware	aware	JJ
29899	114	10	of	of	IN
29899	114	11	the	the	DT
29899	114	12	problems	problem	NNS
29899	114	13	encountered	encounter	VBN
29899	114	14	by	by	IN
29899	114	15	the	the	DT
29899	114	16	individual	individual	NN
29899	114	17	who	who	WP
29899	114	18	,	,	,
29899	114	19	after	after	IN
29899	114	20	experiencing	experience	VBG
29899	114	21	a	a	DT
29899	114	22	new	new	JJ
29899	114	23	and	and	CC
29899	114	24	invigorating	invigorate	VBG
29899	114	25	openness	openness	NN
29899	114	26	and	and	CC
29899	114	27	warmth	warmth	NN
29899	114	28	in	in	IN
29899	114	29	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	114	30	with	with	IN
29899	114	31	others	other	NNS
29899	114	32	returns	return	VBZ
29899	114	33	home	home	RB
29899	114	34	to	to	IN
29899	114	35	an	an	DT
29899	114	36	atmosphere	atmosphere	NN
29899	114	37	in	in	IN
29899	114	38	which	which	WDT
29899	114	39	a	a	DT
29899	114	40	similar	similar	JJ
29899	114	41	quality	quality	NN
29899	114	42	of	of	IN
29899	114	43	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	114	44	can	can	MD
29899	114	45	not	not	RB
29899	114	46	be	be	VB
29899	114	47	sustained	sustain	VBN
29899	114	48	unless	unless	IN
29899	114	49	there	there	EX
29899	114	50	are	be	VBP
29899	114	51	already	already	RB
29899	114	52	friends	friend	NNS
29899	114	53	and	and	CC
29899	114	54	associates	associate	NNS
29899	114	55	at	at	IN
29899	114	56	home	home	NN
29899	114	57	who	who	WP
29899	114	58	have	have	VBP
29899	114	59	had	have	VBN
29899	114	60	the	the	DT
29899	114	61	benefit	benefit	NN
29899	114	62	of	of	IN
29899	114	63	earlier	early	JJR
29899	114	64	encounter	encounter	NN
29899	114	65	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	114	66	.	.	.
29899	115	1	In	in	IN
29899	115	2	the	the	DT
29899	115	3	case	case	NN
29899	115	4	of	of	IN
29899	115	5	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	115	6	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	115	7	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	115	8	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	115	9	,	,	,
29899	115	10	the	the	DT
29899	115	11	experience	experience	NN
29899	115	12	is	be	VBZ
29899	115	13	not	not	RB
29899	115	14	gained	gain	VBN
29899	115	15	by	by	IN
29899	115	16	an	an	DT
29899	115	17	isolated	isolate	VBN
29899	115	18	individual	individual	NN
29899	115	19	,	,	,
29899	115	20	but	but	CC
29899	115	21	by	by	IN
29899	115	22	a	a	DT
29899	115	23	preexisting	preexist	VBG
29899	115	24	social	social	JJ
29899	115	25	unit	unit	NN
29899	115	26	,	,	,
29899	115	27	so	so	IN
29899	115	28	that	that	IN
29899	115	29	new	new	JJ
29899	115	30	levels	level	NNS
29899	115	31	of	of	IN
29899	115	32	openness	openness	NN
29899	115	33	and	and	CC
29899	115	34	warmth	warmth	NN
29899	115	35	which	which	WDT
29899	115	36	the	the	DT
29899	115	37	couple	couple	NN
29899	115	38	have	have	VBP
29899	115	39	experienced	experience	VBN
29899	115	40	in	in	IN
29899	115	41	the	the	DT
29899	115	42	group	group	NN
29899	115	43	can	can	MD
29899	115	44	continue	continue	VB
29899	115	45	to	to	TO
29899	115	46	be	be	VB
29899	115	47	maintained	maintain	VBN
29899	115	48	after	after	IN
29899	115	49	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	115	50	return	return	NN
29899	115	51	home	home	RB
29899	115	52	.	.	.
29899	116	1	This	this	DT
29899	116	2	would	would	MD
29899	116	3	suggest	suggest	VB
29899	116	4	that	that	IN
29899	116	5	the	the	DT
29899	116	6	"	"	``
29899	116	7	casualty	casualty	NN
29899	116	8	rates	rate	NNS
29899	116	9	"	"	''
29899	116	10	for	for	IN
29899	116	11	couples	couple	NNS
29899	116	12	would	would	MD
29899	116	13	not	not	RB
29899	116	14	be	be	VB
29899	116	15	nearly	nearly	RB
29899	116	16	so	so	RB
29899	116	17	high	high	JJ
29899	116	18	as	as	IN
29899	116	19	for	for	IN
29899	116	20	individuals	individual	NNS
29899	116	21	.	.	.
29899	117	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	117	2	know	know	VBP
29899	117	3	of	of	IN
29899	117	4	no	no	DT
29899	117	5	precise	precise	JJ
29899	117	6	study	study	NN
29899	117	7	that	that	WDT
29899	117	8	has	have	VBZ
29899	117	9	investigated	investigate	VBN
29899	117	10	this	this	DT
29899	117	11	,	,	,
29899	117	12	but	but	CC
29899	117	13	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	117	14	general	general	JJ
29899	117	15	impressions	impression	NNS
29899	117	16	would	would	MD
29899	117	17	seem	seem	VB
29899	117	18	to	to	TO
29899	117	19	confirm	confirm	VB
29899	117	20	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	117	21	.	.	.
29899	118	1	The	the	DT
29899	118	2	second	second	JJ
29899	118	3	significant	significant	JJ
29899	118	4	difference	difference	NN
29899	118	5	between	between	IN
29899	118	6	encounter	encounter	NN
29899	118	7	and	and	CC
29899	118	8	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	118	9	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	118	10	groups	group	NNS
29899	118	11	raises	raise	VBZ
29899	118	12	a	a	DT
29899	118	13	somewhat	somewhat	RB
29899	118	14	controversial	controversial	JJ
29899	118	15	question	question	NN
29899	118	16	.	.	.
29899	119	1	Encounter	encounter	NN
29899	119	2	groups	group	NNS
29899	119	3	are	be	VBP
29899	119	4	more	more	RBR
29899	119	5	ready	ready	JJ
29899	119	6	to	to	TO
29899	119	7	evoke	evoke	VB
29899	119	8	negative	negative	JJ
29899	119	9	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	119	10	between	between	IN
29899	119	11	participants	participant	NNS
29899	119	12	,	,	,
29899	119	13	while	while	IN
29899	119	14	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	119	15	place	place	VBP
29899	119	16	major	major	JJ
29899	119	17	emphasis	emphasis	NN
29899	119	18	upon	upon	IN
29899	119	19	positive	positive	JJ
29899	119	20	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	119	21	.	.	.
29899	120	1	If	if	IN
29899	120	2	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	120	3	judgment	judgment	NN
29899	120	4	of	of	IN
29899	120	5	encounter	encounter	NN
29899	120	6	groups	group	NNS
29899	120	7	is	be	VBZ
29899	120	8	in	in	IN
29899	120	9	this	this	DT
29899	120	10	respect	respect	NN
29899	120	11	inaccurate	inaccurate	JJ
29899	120	12	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	120	13	are	be	VBP
29899	120	14	open	open	JJ
29899	120	15	to	to	IN
29899	120	16	correction	correction	NN
29899	120	17	.	.	.
29899	121	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	121	2	have	have	VBP
29899	121	3	,	,	,
29899	121	4	however	however	RB
29899	121	5	,	,	,
29899	121	6	gained	gain	VBD
29899	121	7	the	the	DT
29899	121	8	impression	impression	NN
29899	121	9	from	from	IN
29899	121	10	many	many	JJ
29899	121	11	sources	source	NNS
29899	121	12	that	that	IN
29899	121	13	an	an	DT
29899	121	14	important	important	JJ
29899	121	15	technique	technique	NN
29899	121	16	used	use	VBN
29899	121	17	in	in	IN
29899	121	18	these	these	DT
29899	121	19	groups	group	NNS
29899	121	20	is	be	VBZ
29899	121	21	to	to	TO
29899	121	22	provide	provide	VB
29899	121	23	opportunities	opportunity	NNS
29899	121	24	for	for	IN
29899	121	25	the	the	DT
29899	121	26	participants	participant	NNS
29899	121	27	to	to	TO
29899	121	28	secure	secure	VB
29899	121	29	cathartic	cathartic	JJ
29899	121	30	release	release	NN
29899	121	31	of	of	IN
29899	121	32	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	121	33	pent	pen	VBN
29899	121	34	-	-	HYPH
29899	121	35	up	up	RP
29899	121	36	hostilities	hostility	NNS
29899	121	37	,	,	,
29899	121	38	including	include	VBG
29899	121	39	hostilities	hostility	NNS
29899	121	40	engendered	engender	VBN
29899	121	41	by	by	RB
29899	121	42	,	,	,
29899	121	43	or	or	CC
29899	121	44	projected	project	VBN
29899	121	45	upon	upon	IN
29899	121	46	the	the	DT
29899	121	47	group	group	NN
29899	121	48	leader	leader	NN
29899	121	49	or	or	CC
29899	121	50	one	one	CD
29899	121	51	or	or	CC
29899	121	52	more	more	JJR
29899	121	53	of	of	IN
29899	121	54	its	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	121	55	members	member	NNS
29899	121	56	.	.	.
29899	122	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	122	2	recognize	recognize	VBP
29899	122	3	that	that	IN
29899	122	4	many	many	JJ
29899	122	5	people	people	NNS
29899	122	6	in	in	IN
29899	122	7	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	122	8	culture	culture	NN
29899	122	9	are	be	VBP
29899	122	10	pregnant	pregnant	JJ
29899	122	11	with	with	IN
29899	122	12	suppressed	suppress	VBN
29899	122	13	hostility	hostility	NN
29899	122	14	or	or	CC
29899	122	15	rage	rage	NN
29899	122	16	,	,	,
29899	122	17	and	and	CC
29899	122	18	that	that	IN
29899	122	19	the	the	DT
29899	122	20	provision	provision	NN
29899	122	21	of	of	IN
29899	122	22	properly	properly	RB
29899	122	23	controlled	control	VBN
29899	122	24	opportunities	opportunity	NNS
29899	122	25	for	for	IN
29899	122	26	its	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	122	27	release	release	NN
29899	122	28	may	may	MD
29899	122	29	constitute	constitute	VB
29899	122	30	a	a	DT
29899	122	31	commendable	commendable	JJ
29899	122	32	service	service	NN
29899	122	33	;	;	:
29899	122	34	and	and	CC
29899	122	35	since	since	IN
29899	122	36	the	the	DT
29899	122	37	group	group	NN
29899	122	38	members	member	NNS
29899	122	39	are	be	VBP
29899	122	40	generally	generally	RB
29899	122	41	strangers	stranger	NNS
29899	122	42	who	who	WP
29899	122	43	will	will	MD
29899	122	44	not	not	RB
29899	122	45	be	be	VB
29899	122	46	personally	personally	RB
29899	122	47	and	and	CC
29899	122	48	socially	socially	RB
29899	122	49	involved	involve	VBN
29899	122	50	later	later	RB
29899	122	51	,	,	,
29899	122	52	no	no	DT
29899	122	53	entangling	entangle	VBG
29899	122	54	complications	complication	NNS
29899	122	55	are	be	VBP
29899	122	56	likely	likely	JJ
29899	122	57	to	to	TO
29899	122	58	follow	follow	VB
29899	122	59	.	.	.
29899	123	1	For	for	IN
29899	123	2	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	123	3	married	married	JJ
29899	123	4	couples	couple	NNS
29899	123	5	,	,	,
29899	123	6	the	the	DT
29899	123	7	situation	situation	NN
29899	123	8	is	be	VBZ
29899	123	9	different	different	JJ
29899	123	10	.	.	.
29899	124	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	124	2	do	do	VBP
29899	124	3	not	not	RB
29899	124	4	mean	mean	VB
29899	124	5	that	that	IN
29899	124	6	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	124	7	do	do	VBP
29899	124	8	not	not	RB
29899	124	9	have	have	VB
29899	124	10	hostile	hostile	JJ
29899	124	11	feelings	feeling	NNS
29899	124	12	toward	toward	IN
29899	124	13	each	each	DT
29899	124	14	other	other	JJ
29899	124	15	.	.	.
29899	125	1	They	-PRON-	PRP
29899	125	2	often	often	RB
29899	125	3	do	do	VBP
29899	125	4	,	,	,
29899	125	5	and	and	CC
29899	125	6	this	this	DT
29899	125	7	comes	come	VBZ
29899	125	8	out	out	RP
29899	125	9	clearly	clearly	RB
29899	125	10	and	and	CC
29899	125	11	unmistakably	unmistakably	RB
29899	125	12	.	.	.
29899	126	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	126	2	do	do	VBP
29899	126	3	not	not	RB
29899	126	4	mean	mean	VB
29899	126	5	,	,	,
29899	126	6	either	either	RB
29899	126	7	,	,	,
29899	126	8	that	that	IN
29899	126	9	healthy	healthy	JJ
29899	126	10	discharge	discharge	NN
29899	126	11	of	of	IN
29899	126	12	these	these	DT
29899	126	13	feelings	feeling	NNS
29899	126	14	might	may	MD
29899	126	15	not	not	RB
29899	126	16	be	be	VB
29899	126	17	good	good	JJ
29899	126	18	for	for	IN
29899	126	19	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	126	20	--	--	:
29899	126	21	in	in	IN
29899	126	22	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	126	23	therapeutic	therapeutic	JJ
29899	126	24	work	work	NN
29899	126	25	with	with	IN
29899	126	26	individual	individual	JJ
29899	126	27	couples	couple	NNS
29899	126	28	in	in	IN
29899	126	29	conjoint	conjoint	NN
29899	126	30	interviews	interview	NNS
29899	126	31	,	,	,
29899	126	32	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	126	33	make	make	VBP
29899	126	34	full	full	JJ
29899	126	35	use	use	NN
29899	126	36	of	of	IN
29899	126	37	such	such	JJ
29899	126	38	controlled	control	VBN
29899	126	39	opportunity	opportunity	NN
29899	126	40	for	for	IN
29899	126	41	cathartic	cathartic	JJ
29899	126	42	release	release	NN
29899	126	43	with	with	IN
29899	126	44	ensuing	ensue	VBG
29899	126	45	interpretation	interpretation	NN
29899	126	46	.	.	.
29899	127	1	It	-PRON-	PRP
29899	127	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	127	3	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	127	4	considered	consider	VBN
29899	127	5	opinion	opinion	NN
29899	127	6	,	,	,
29899	127	7	however	however	RB
29899	127	8	,	,	,
29899	127	9	that	that	IN
29899	127	10	in	in	IN
29899	127	11	the	the	DT
29899	127	12	particular	particular	JJ
29899	127	13	context	context	NN
29899	127	14	of	of	IN
29899	127	15	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	127	16	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	127	17	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	127	18	,	,	,
29899	127	19	unrestrained	unrestrained	JJ
29899	127	20	discharge	discharge	NN
29899	127	21	of	of	IN
29899	127	22	hostile	hostile	JJ
29899	127	23	feelings	feeling	NNS
29899	127	24	should	should	MD
29899	127	25	in	in	IN
29899	127	26	general	general	JJ
29899	127	27	not	not	RB
29899	127	28	be	be	VB
29899	127	29	encouraged	encourage	VBN
29899	127	30	.	.	.
29899	128	1	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	128	2	reasons	reason	NNS
29899	128	3	?	?	.
29899	129	1	One	one	CD
29899	129	2	,	,	,
29899	129	3	the	the	DT
29899	129	4	shortness	shortness	NN
29899	129	5	of	of	IN
29899	129	6	the	the	DT
29899	129	7	available	available	JJ
29899	129	8	time	time	NN
29899	129	9	might	may	MD
29899	129	10	not	not	RB
29899	129	11	permit	permit	VB
29899	129	12	the	the	DT
29899	129	13	proper	proper	JJ
29899	129	14	resolution	resolution	NN
29899	129	15	of	of	IN
29899	129	16	such	such	JJ
29899	129	17	episodes	episode	NNS
29899	129	18	.	.	.
29899	130	1	Two	two	CD
29899	130	2	,	,	,
29899	130	3	a	a	DT
29899	130	4	couple	couple	NN
29899	130	5	who	who	WP
29899	130	6	have	have	VBP
29899	130	7	openly	openly	RB
29899	130	8	discharged	discharge	VBN
29899	130	9	rage	rage	NN
29899	130	10	against	against	IN
29899	130	11	each	each	DT
29899	130	12	other	other	JJ
29899	130	13	may	may	MD
29899	130	14	well	well	RB
29899	130	15	react	react	VB
29899	130	16	later	later	RB
29899	130	17	with	with	IN
29899	130	18	deep	deep	JJ
29899	130	19	feelings	feeling	NNS
29899	130	20	of	of	IN
29899	130	21	humiliation	humiliation	NN
29899	130	22	that	that	WDT
29899	130	23	are	be	VBP
29899	130	24	not	not	RB
29899	130	25	easily	easily	RB
29899	130	26	assuaged	assuage	VBN
29899	130	27	.	.	.
29899	131	1	Three	three	CD
29899	131	2	,	,	,
29899	131	3	coping	cope	VBG
29899	131	4	with	with	IN
29899	131	5	this	this	DT
29899	131	6	kind	kind	NN
29899	131	7	of	of	IN
29899	131	8	explosive	explosive	JJ
29899	131	9	emotional	emotional	JJ
29899	131	10	discharge	discharge	NN
29899	131	11	could	could	MD
29899	131	12	be	be	VB
29899	131	13	alarming	alarming	JJ
29899	131	14	for	for	IN
29899	131	15	lay	lay	JJ
29899	131	16	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	131	17	not	not	RB
29899	131	18	accustomed	accustom	VBN
29899	131	19	,	,	,
29899	131	20	as	as	IN
29899	131	21	the	the	DT
29899	131	22	therapist	therapist	NN
29899	131	23	is	be	VBZ
29899	131	24	,	,	,
29899	131	25	to	to	IN
29899	131	26	the	the	DT
29899	131	27	expression	expression	NN
29899	131	28	of	of	IN
29899	131	29	deep	deep	JJ
29899	131	30	feelings	feeling	NNS
29899	131	31	which	which	WDT
29899	131	32	normally	normally	RB
29899	131	33	are	be	VBP
29899	131	34	not	not	RB
29899	131	35	displayed	display	VBN
29899	131	36	in	in	IN
29899	131	37	public	public	NN
29899	131	38	.	.	.
29899	132	1	Four	four	CD
29899	132	2	,	,	,
29899	132	3	other	other	JJ
29899	132	4	members	member	NNS
29899	132	5	of	of	IN
29899	132	6	the	the	DT
29899	132	7	group	group	NN
29899	132	8	could	could	MD
29899	132	9	be	be	VB
29899	132	10	similarly	similarly	RB
29899	132	11	disturbed	disturb	VBN
29899	132	12	and	and	CC
29899	132	13	diverted	divert	VBN
29899	132	14	from	from	IN
29899	132	15	full	full	JJ
29899	132	16	participation	participation	NN
29899	132	17	in	in	IN
29899	132	18	the	the	DT
29899	132	19	main	main	JJ
29899	132	20	purpose	purpose	NN
29899	132	21	of	of	IN
29899	132	22	the	the	DT
29899	132	23	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	132	24	.	.	.
29899	133	1	This	this	DT
29899	133	2	complaint	complaint	NN
29899	133	3	has	have	VBZ
29899	133	4	actually	actually	RB
29899	133	5	been	be	VBN
29899	133	6	made	make	VBN
29899	133	7	,	,	,
29899	133	8	and	and	CC
29899	133	9	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	133	10	think	think	VBP
29899	133	11	justly	justly	RB
29899	133	12	,	,	,
29899	133	13	by	by	IN
29899	133	14	participating	participate	VBG
29899	133	15	couples	couple	NNS
29899	133	16	in	in	IN
29899	133	17	a	a	DT
29899	133	18	group	group	NN
29899	133	19	where	where	WRB
29899	133	20	a	a	DT
29899	133	21	violent	violent	JJ
29899	133	22	and	and	CC
29899	133	23	prolonged	prolonged	JJ
29899	133	24	emotional	emotional	JJ
29899	133	25	episode	episode	NN
29899	133	26	took	take	VBD
29899	133	27	place	place	NN
29899	133	28	.	.	.
29899	134	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	134	2	have	have	VBP
29899	134	3	been	be	VBN
29899	134	4	criticized	criticize	VBN
29899	134	5	for	for	IN
29899	134	6	taking	take	VBG
29899	134	7	this	this	DT
29899	134	8	position	position	NN
29899	134	9	,	,	,
29899	134	10	but	but	CC
29899	134	11	have	have	VBP
29899	134	12	not	not	RB
29899	134	13	been	be	VBN
29899	134	14	persuaded	persuade	VBN
29899	134	15	to	to	TO
29899	134	16	change	change	VB
29899	134	17	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	134	18	considered	consider	VBN
29899	134	19	opinion	opinion	NN
29899	134	20	.	.	.
29899	135	1	That	that	DT
29899	135	2	opinion	opinion	NN
29899	135	3	is	be	VBZ
29899	135	4	reinforced	reinforce	VBN
29899	135	5	by	by	IN
29899	135	6	another	another	DT
29899	135	7	conclusion	conclusion	NN
29899	135	8	,	,	,
29899	135	9	namely	namely	RB
29899	135	10	,	,	,
29899	135	11	that	that	IN
29899	135	12	when	when	WRB
29899	135	13	genuine	genuine	JJ
29899	135	14	positive	positive	JJ
29899	135	15	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	135	16	is	be	VBZ
29899	135	17	promoted	promote	VBN
29899	135	18	,	,	,
29899	135	19	negative	negative	JJ
29899	135	20	emotion	emotion	NN
29899	135	21	,	,	,
29899	135	22	even	even	RB
29899	135	23	when	when	WRB
29899	135	24	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	135	25	is	be	VBZ
29899	135	26	strong	strong	JJ
29899	135	27	and	and	CC
29899	135	28	intense	intense	JJ
29899	135	29	,	,	,
29899	135	30	tends	tend	VBZ
29899	135	31	to	to	TO
29899	135	32	dissolve	dissolve	VB
29899	135	33	and	and	CC
29899	135	34	wither	wither	VB
29899	135	35	away	away	RB
29899	135	36	.	.	.
29899	136	1	Couples	couple	NNS
29899	136	2	have	have	VBP
29899	136	3	told	tell	VBN
29899	136	4	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	136	5	how	how	WRB
29899	136	6	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	136	7	fierce	fierce	JJ
29899	136	8	hate	hate	NN
29899	136	9	melted	melt	VBN
29899	136	10	in	in	IN
29899	136	11	the	the	DT
29899	136	12	atmosphere	atmosphere	NN
29899	136	13	of	of	IN
29899	136	14	warm	warm	JJ
29899	136	15	and	and	CC
29899	136	16	loving	loving	JJ
29899	136	17	support	support	NN
29899	136	18	engendered	engender	VBN
29899	136	19	in	in	IN
29899	136	20	the	the	DT
29899	136	21	group	group	NN
29899	136	22	,	,	,
29899	136	23	and	and	CC
29899	136	24	with	with	IN
29899	136	25	the	the	DT
29899	136	26	stirring	stirring	NN
29899	136	27	of	of	IN
29899	136	28	compassion	compassion	NN
29899	136	29	within	within	IN
29899	136	30	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	136	31	,	,	,
29899	136	32	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	136	33	began	begin	VBD
29899	136	34	to	to	TO
29899	136	35	see	see	VB
29899	136	36	each	each	DT
29899	136	37	other	other	JJ
29899	136	38	in	in	IN
29899	136	39	a	a	DT
29899	136	40	new	new	JJ
29899	136	41	light	light	NN
29899	136	42	.	.	.
29899	137	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	137	2	are	be	VBP
29899	137	3	inclined	inclined	JJ
29899	137	4	to	to	IN
29899	137	5	the	the	DT
29899	137	6	view	view	NN
29899	137	7	,	,	,
29899	137	8	after	after	IN
29899	137	9	hearing	hear	VBG
29899	137	10	such	such	JJ
29899	137	11	testimonies	testimony	NNS
29899	137	12	,	,	,
29899	137	13	that	that	IN
29899	137	14	in	in	IN
29899	137	15	deploying	deploy	VBG
29899	137	16	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	137	17	therapeutic	therapeutic	JJ
29899	137	18	armament	armament	NN
29899	137	19	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	137	20	have	have	VBP
29899	137	21	given	give	VBN
29899	137	22	short	short	JJ
29899	137	23	shrift	shrift	NN
29899	137	24	to	to	IN
29899	137	25	the	the	DT
29899	137	26	power	power	NN
29899	137	27	of	of	IN
29899	137	28	love	love	NN
29899	137	29	not	not	RB
29899	137	30	only	only	RB
29899	137	31	to	to	TO
29899	137	32	cast	cast	VB
29899	137	33	out	out	RP
29899	137	34	fear	fear	NN
29899	137	35	,	,	,
29899	137	36	but	but	CC
29899	137	37	also	also	RB
29899	137	38	to	to	TO
29899	137	39	turn	turn	VB
29899	137	40	away	away	RB
29899	137	41	wrath	wrath	NN
29899	137	42	.	.	.
29899	138	1	LAY	LAY	NNP
29899	138	2	LEADERSHIP	leadership	VB
29899	138	3	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	138	4	decision	decision	NN
29899	138	5	to	to	TO
29899	138	6	train	train	VB
29899	138	7	lay	lay	JJ
29899	138	8	couples	couple	NNS
29899	138	9	for	for	IN
29899	138	10	leadership	leadership	NN
29899	138	11	was	be	VBD
29899	138	12	not	not	RB
29899	138	13	hastily	hastily	RB
29899	138	14	made	make	VBN
29899	138	15	.	.	.
29899	139	1	In	in	IN
29899	139	2	fact	fact	NN
29899	139	3	in	in	IN
29899	139	4	the	the	DT
29899	139	5	early	early	JJ
29899	139	6	years	year	NNS
29899	139	7	during	during	IN
29899	139	8	which	which	WDT
29899	139	9	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	139	10	were	be	VBD
29899	139	11	leading	lead	VBG
29899	139	12	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	139	13	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	139	14	knew	know	VBD
29899	139	15	of	of	IN
29899	139	16	no	no	DT
29899	139	17	other	other	JJ
29899	139	18	couples	couple	NNS
29899	139	19	who	who	WP
29899	139	20	were	be	VBD
29899	139	21	doing	do	VBG
29899	139	22	so	so	RB
29899	139	23	.	.	.
29899	140	1	After	after	IN
29899	140	2	seven	seven	CD
29899	140	3	years	year	NNS
29899	140	4	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	140	5	felt	feel	VBD
29899	140	6	that	that	IN
29899	140	7	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	140	8	knew	know	VBD
29899	140	9	what	what	WP
29899	140	10	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	140	11	were	be	VBD
29899	140	12	doing	do	VBG
29899	140	13	.	.	.
29899	141	1	Although	although	IN
29899	141	2	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	141	3	expected	expect	VBD
29899	141	4	criticism	criticism	NN
29899	141	5	from	from	IN
29899	141	6	some	some	DT
29899	141	7	of	of	IN
29899	141	8	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	141	9	professional	professional	JJ
29899	141	10	colleagues	colleague	NNS
29899	141	11	this	this	DT
29899	141	12	has	have	VBZ
29899	141	13	not	not	RB
29899	141	14	developed	develop	VBN
29899	141	15	to	to	IN
29899	141	16	any	any	DT
29899	141	17	significant	significant	JJ
29899	141	18	degree	degree	NN
29899	141	19	,	,	,
29899	141	20	and	and	CC
29899	141	21	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	141	22	are	be	VBP
29899	141	23	now	now	RB
29899	141	24	entirely	entirely	RB
29899	141	25	satisfied	satisfied	JJ
29899	141	26	that	that	IN
29899	141	27	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	141	28	were	be	VBD
29899	141	29	justified	justify	VBN
29899	141	30	in	in	IN
29899	141	31	taking	take	VBG
29899	141	32	such	such	PDT
29899	141	33	a	a	DT
29899	141	34	calculated	calculate	VBN
29899	141	35	risk	risk	NN
29899	141	36	.	.	.
29899	142	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	142	2	know	know	VBP
29899	142	3	of	of	IN
29899	142	4	no	no	DT
29899	142	5	case	case	NN
29899	142	6	where	where	WRB
29899	142	7	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	142	8	lay	lay	JJ
29899	142	9	couples	couple	NNS
29899	142	10	have	have	VBP
29899	142	11	encountered	encounter	VBN
29899	142	12	crisis	crisis	NN
29899	142	13	situations	situation	NNS
29899	142	14	which	which	WDT
29899	142	15	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	142	16	were	be	VBD
29899	142	17	unable	unable	JJ
29899	142	18	to	to	TO
29899	142	19	handle	handle	VB
29899	142	20	with	with	IN
29899	142	21	wisdom	wisdom	NN
29899	142	22	and	and	CC
29899	142	23	skill	skill	NN
29899	142	24	.	.	.
29899	143	1	STRUCTURING	structure	VBG
29899	143	2	THE	the	DT
29899	143	3	RETREAT	retreat	NN
29899	143	4	These	these	DT
29899	143	5	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	143	6	require	require	VBP
29899	143	7	a	a	DT
29899	143	8	minimum	minimum	NN
29899	143	9	of	of	IN
29899	143	10	organization	organization	NN
29899	143	11	and	and	CC
29899	143	12	structure	structure	NN
29899	143	13	,	,	,
29899	143	14	but	but	CC
29899	143	15	that	that	DT
29899	143	16	minimum	minimum	NN
29899	143	17	must	must	MD
29899	143	18	be	be	VB
29899	143	19	firmly	firmly	RB
29899	143	20	insisted	insist	VBN
29899	143	21	upon	upon	IN
29899	143	22	.	.	.
29899	144	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	144	2	strongly	strongly	RB
29899	144	3	favor	favor	VBP
29899	144	4	the	the	DT
29899	144	5	residential	residential	JJ
29899	144	6	weekend	weekend	NN
29899	144	7	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	144	8	,	,	,
29899	144	9	although	although	IN
29899	144	10	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	144	11	have	have	VBP
29899	144	12	met	meet	VBN
29899	144	13	with	with	IN
29899	144	14	groups	group	NNS
29899	144	15	of	of	IN
29899	144	16	couples	couple	NNS
29899	144	17	for	for	IN
29899	144	18	separate	separate	JJ
29899	144	19	evening	evening	NN
29899	144	20	sessions	session	NNS
29899	144	21	spaced	space	VBN
29899	144	22	out	out	RP
29899	144	23	over	over	IN
29899	144	24	four	four	CD
29899	144	25	to	to	TO
29899	144	26	six	six	CD
29899	144	27	weeks	week	NNS
29899	144	28	.	.	.
29899	145	1	This	this	DT
29899	145	2	approach	approach	NN
29899	145	3	was	be	VBD
29899	145	4	found	find	VBN
29899	145	5	to	to	TO
29899	145	6	be	be	VB
29899	145	7	less	less	RBR
29899	145	8	effective	effective	JJ
29899	145	9	,	,	,
29899	145	10	but	but	CC
29899	145	11	decidedly	decidedly	RB
29899	145	12	better	well	JJR
29899	145	13	than	than	IN
29899	145	14	nothing	nothing	NN
29899	145	15	for	for	IN
29899	145	16	couples	couple	NNS
29899	145	17	who	who	WP
29899	145	18	can	can	MD
29899	145	19	not	not	RB
29899	145	20	get	get	VB
29899	145	21	away	away	RB
29899	145	22	from	from	IN
29899	145	23	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	145	24	homes	home	NNS
29899	145	25	.	.	.
29899	146	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	146	2	would	would	MD
29899	146	3	regard	regard	VB
29899	146	4	five	five	CD
29899	146	5	or	or	CC
29899	146	6	six	six	CD
29899	146	7	couples	couple	NNS
29899	146	8	as	as	IN
29899	146	9	the	the	DT
29899	146	10	optimum	optimum	JJ
29899	146	11	number	number	NN
29899	146	12	,	,	,
29899	146	13	but	but	CC
29899	146	14	seldom	seldom	RB
29899	146	15	have	have	VBP
29899	146	16	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	146	17	enjoyed	enjoy	VBN
29899	146	18	this	this	DT
29899	146	19	luxury	luxury	NN
29899	146	20	.	.	.
29899	147	1	Usually	usually	RB
29899	147	2	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	147	3	have	have	VBP
29899	147	4	had	have	VBN
29899	147	5	to	to	TO
29899	147	6	accept	accept	VB
29899	147	7	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	147	8	upper	upper	JJ
29899	147	9	limit	limit	NN
29899	147	10	of	of	IN
29899	147	11	nine	nine	CD
29899	147	12	couples	couple	NNS
29899	147	13	,	,	,
29899	147	14	in	in	IN
29899	147	15	addition	addition	NN
29899	147	16	to	to	IN
29899	147	17	ourselves	-PRON-	PRP
29899	147	18	,	,	,
29899	147	19	making	make	VBG
29899	147	20	a	a	DT
29899	147	21	total	total	JJ
29899	147	22	group	group	NN
29899	147	23	of	of	IN
29899	147	24	twenty	twenty	CD
29899	147	25	.	.	.
29899	148	1	Often	often	RB
29899	148	2	more	more	JJR
29899	148	3	couples	couple	NNS
29899	148	4	apply	apply	VBP
29899	148	5	than	than	IN
29899	148	6	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	148	7	can	can	MD
29899	148	8	take	take	VB
29899	148	9	,	,	,
29899	148	10	and	and	CC
29899	148	11	the	the	DT
29899	148	12	organizers	organizer	NNS
29899	148	13	plead	plead	VBP
29899	148	14	with	with	IN
29899	148	15	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	148	16	to	to	TO
29899	148	17	accept	accept	VB
29899	148	18	the	the	DT
29899	148	19	maximum	maximum	JJ
29899	148	20	number	number	NN
29899	148	21	because	because	IN
29899	148	22	family	family	NN
29899	148	23	crises	crisis	NNS
29899	148	24	can	can	MD
29899	148	25	compel	compel	VB
29899	148	26	couples	couple	NNS
29899	148	27	to	to	TO
29899	148	28	drop	drop	VB
29899	148	29	out	out	RP
29899	148	30	at	at	IN
29899	148	31	the	the	DT
29899	148	32	last	last	JJ
29899	148	33	moment	moment	NN
29899	148	34	.	.	.
29899	149	1	Two	two	CD
29899	149	2	couples	couple	NNS
29899	149	3	short	short	JJ
29899	149	4	at	at	IN
29899	149	5	a	a	DT
29899	149	6	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	149	7	planned	plan	VBN
29899	149	8	for	for	IN
29899	149	9	five	five	CD
29899	149	10	couples	couple	NNS
29899	149	11	would	would	MD
29899	149	12	leave	leave	VB
29899	149	13	only	only	RB
29899	149	14	three	three	CD
29899	149	15	.	.	.
29899	150	1	Therefore	therefore	RB
29899	150	2	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	150	3	normal	normal	JJ
29899	150	4	procedure	procedure	NN
29899	150	5	has	have	VBZ
29899	150	6	been	be	VBN
29899	150	7	to	to	TO
29899	150	8	ask	ask	VB
29899	150	9	for	for	IN
29899	150	10	six	six	CD
29899	150	11	to	to	TO
29899	150	12	eight	eight	CD
29899	150	13	couples	couple	NNS
29899	150	14	.	.	.
29899	151	1	Although	although	IN
29899	151	2	the	the	DT
29899	151	3	selection	selection	NN
29899	151	4	of	of	IN
29899	151	5	the	the	DT
29899	151	6	couples	couple	NNS
29899	151	7	has	have	VBZ
29899	151	8	been	be	VBN
29899	151	9	left	leave	VBN
29899	151	10	to	to	IN
29899	151	11	the	the	DT
29899	151	12	organizers	organizer	NNS
29899	151	13	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	151	14	insist	insist	VBP
29899	151	15	that	that	DT
29899	151	16	husband	husband	NN
29899	151	17	and	and	CC
29899	151	18	wife	wife	NN
29899	151	19	both	both	DT
29899	151	20	undertake	undertake	VBP
29899	151	21	to	to	TO
29899	151	22	come	come	VB
29899	151	23	together	together	RB
29899	151	24	,	,	,
29899	151	25	which	which	WDT
29899	151	26	means	mean	VBZ
29899	151	27	that	that	IN
29899	151	28	if	if	IN
29899	151	29	one	one	PRP
29899	151	30	has	have	VBZ
29899	151	31	to	to	TO
29899	151	32	drop	drop	VB
29899	151	33	out	out	RP
29899	151	34	,	,	,
29899	151	35	both	both	DT
29899	151	36	do	do	VBP
29899	151	37	so	so	RB
29899	151	38	;	;	:
29899	151	39	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	151	40	insist	insist	VBP
29899	151	41	that	that	IN
29899	151	42	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	151	43	come	come	VBP
29899	151	44	only	only	RB
29899	151	45	on	on	IN
29899	151	46	condition	condition	NN
29899	151	47	that	that	IN
29899	151	48	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	151	49	both	both	DT
29899	151	50	continuously	continuously	RB
29899	151	51	participate	participate	VBP
29899	151	52	in	in	IN
29899	151	53	the	the	DT
29899	151	54	entire	entire	JJ
29899	151	55	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	151	56	,	,	,
29899	151	57	from	from	IN
29899	151	58	beginning	begin	VBG
29899	151	59	to	to	IN
29899	151	60	end	end	NN
29899	151	61	.	.	.
29899	152	1	No	no	DT
29899	152	2	requirements	requirement	NNS
29899	152	3	regarding	regard	VBG
29899	152	4	age	age	NN
29899	152	5	,	,	,
29899	152	6	race	race	NN
29899	152	7	,	,	,
29899	152	8	vocation	vocation	NN
29899	152	9	,	,	,
29899	152	10	education	education	NN
29899	152	11	,	,	,
29899	152	12	or	or	CC
29899	152	13	socio	socio	JJ
29899	152	14	-	-	HYPH
29899	152	15	economic	economic	JJ
29899	152	16	status	status	NN
29899	152	17	are	be	VBP
29899	152	18	made	make	VBN
29899	152	19	.	.	.
29899	153	1	There	there	EX
29899	153	2	are	be	VBP
29899	153	3	advantages	advantage	NNS
29899	153	4	in	in	IN
29899	153	5	having	have	VBG
29899	153	6	a	a	DT
29899	153	7	homogeneous	homogeneous	JJ
29899	153	8	group	group	NN
29899	153	9	of	of	IN
29899	153	10	couples	couple	NNS
29899	153	11	,	,	,
29899	153	12	but	but	CC
29899	153	13	there	there	EX
29899	153	14	are	be	VBP
29899	153	15	also	also	RB
29899	153	16	advantages	advantage	NNS
29899	153	17	in	in	IN
29899	153	18	a	a	DT
29899	153	19	heterogenous	heterogenous	JJ
29899	153	20	group	group	NN
29899	153	21	.	.	.
29899	154	1	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	154	2	groups	group	NNS
29899	154	3	have	have	VBP
29899	154	4	included	include	VBN
29899	154	5	one	one	CD
29899	154	6	engaged	engage	VBN
29899	154	7	couple	couple	NN
29899	154	8	and	and	CC
29899	154	9	one	one	CD
29899	154	10	honeymooning	honeymoon	VBG
29899	154	11	couple	couple	NN
29899	154	12	who	who	WP
29899	154	13	came	come	VBD
29899	154	14	straight	straight	RB
29899	154	15	from	from	IN
29899	154	16	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	154	17	wedding	wedding	NN
29899	154	18	as	as	RB
29899	154	19	well	well	RB
29899	154	20	as	as	IN
29899	154	21	couples	couple	NNS
29899	154	22	old	old	JJ
29899	154	23	enough	enough	RB
29899	154	24	to	to	TO
29899	154	25	be	be	VB
29899	154	26	retired	retire	VBN
29899	154	27	.	.	.
29899	155	1	They	-PRON-	PRP
29899	155	2	have	have	VBP
29899	155	3	included	include	VBN
29899	155	4	highly	highly	RB
29899	155	5	qualified	qualified	JJ
29899	155	6	professionals	professional	NNS
29899	155	7	and	and	CC
29899	155	8	blue	blue	JJ
29899	155	9	-	-	HYPH
29899	155	10	collar	collar	NN
29899	155	11	workers	worker	NNS
29899	155	12	,	,	,
29899	155	13	PhD.s	PhD.s	NNP
29899	155	14	.	.	.
29899	156	1	and	and	CC
29899	156	2	high	high	JJ
29899	156	3	school	school	NN
29899	156	4	drop	drop	NN
29899	156	5	-	-	HYPH
29899	156	6	outs	out	NNS
29899	156	7	.	.	.
29899	157	1	Couples	couple	NNS
29899	157	2	coming	come	VBG
29899	157	3	to	to	IN
29899	157	4	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	157	5	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	157	6	should	should	MD
29899	157	7	have	have	VB
29899	157	8	what	what	WP
29899	157	9	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	157	10	consider	consider	VBP
29899	157	11	to	to	TO
29899	157	12	be	be	VB
29899	157	13	reasonably	reasonably	RB
29899	157	14	good	good	JJ
29899	157	15	and	and	CC
29899	157	16	stable	stable	JJ
29899	157	17	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	157	18	since	since	IN
29899	157	19	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	157	20	purpose	purpose	NN
29899	157	21	is	be	VBZ
29899	157	22	not	not	RB
29899	157	23	to	to	TO
29899	157	24	provide	provide	VB
29899	157	25	group	group	NN
29899	157	26	therapy	therapy	NN
29899	157	27	,	,	,
29899	157	28	but	but	CC
29899	157	29	to	to	TO
29899	157	30	foster	foster	VB
29899	157	31	marital	marital	JJ
29899	157	32	growth	growth	NN
29899	157	33	.	.	.
29899	158	1	The	the	DT
29899	158	2	reason	reason	NN
29899	158	3	for	for	IN
29899	158	4	this	this	DT
29899	158	5	requirement	requirement	NN
29899	158	6	is	be	VBZ
29899	158	7	that	that	IN
29899	158	8	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	158	9	do	do	VBP
29899	158	10	not	not	RB
29899	158	11	believe	believe	VB
29899	158	12	that	that	IN
29899	158	13	group	group	NN
29899	158	14	marital	marital	NN
29899	158	15	therapy	therapy	NN
29899	158	16	can	can	MD
29899	158	17	be	be	VB
29899	158	18	attempted	attempt	VBN
29899	158	19	on	on	IN
29899	158	20	a	a	DT
29899	158	21	short	short	JJ
29899	158	22	-	-	HYPH
29899	158	23	term	term	NN
29899	158	24	basis	basis	NN
29899	158	25	,	,	,
29899	158	26	and	and	CC
29899	158	27	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	158	28	is	be	VBZ
29899	158	29	not	not	RB
29899	158	30	the	the	DT
29899	158	31	purpose	purpose	NN
29899	158	32	in	in	IN
29899	158	33	these	these	DT
29899	158	34	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	158	35	.	.	.
29899	159	1	Many	many	JJ
29899	159	2	couples	couple	NNS
29899	159	3	come	come	VBP
29899	159	4	to	to	IN
29899	159	5	these	these	DT
29899	159	6	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	159	7	with	with	IN
29899	159	8	a	a	DT
29899	159	9	good	good	JJ
29899	159	10	deal	deal	NN
29899	159	11	of	of	IN
29899	159	12	apprehension	apprehension	NN
29899	159	13	,	,	,
29899	159	14	and	and	CC
29899	159	15	some	some	DT
29899	159	16	have	have	VBP
29899	159	17	told	tell	VBD
29899	159	18	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	159	19	that	that	IN
29899	159	20	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	159	21	would	would	MD
29899	159	22	not	not	RB
29899	159	23	have	have	VB
29899	159	24	come	come	VBN
29899	159	25	at	at	RB
29899	159	26	all	all	RB
29899	159	27	had	have	VBD
29899	159	28	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	159	29	not	not	RB
29899	159	30	been	be	VBN
29899	159	31	assured	assure	VBN
29899	159	32	that	that	IN
29899	159	33	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	159	34	was	be	VBD
29899	159	35	definitely	definitely	RB
29899	159	36	not	not	RB
29899	159	37	for	for	IN
29899	159	38	"	"	``
29899	159	39	problem	problem	NN
29899	159	40	couples	couple	NNS
29899	159	41	.	.	.
29899	159	42	"	"	''
29899	160	1	Despite	despite	IN
29899	160	2	all	all	DT
29899	160	3	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	160	4	efforts	effort	NNS
29899	160	5	,	,	,
29899	160	6	couples	couple	NNS
29899	160	7	with	with	IN
29899	160	8	severe	severe	JJ
29899	160	9	marital	marital	JJ
29899	160	10	problems	problem	NNS
29899	160	11	do	do	VBP
29899	160	12	get	get	VB
29899	160	13	in	in	RP
29899	160	14	occasionally	occasionally	RB
29899	160	15	under	under	IN
29899	160	16	the	the	DT
29899	160	17	wire	wire	NN
29899	160	18	and	and	CC
29899	160	19	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	160	20	found	find	VBD
29899	160	21	no	no	DT
29899	160	22	way	way	NN
29899	160	23	of	of	IN
29899	160	24	avoiding	avoid	VBG
29899	160	25	this	this	DT
29899	160	26	.	.	.
29899	161	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	161	2	are	be	VBP
29899	161	3	often	often	RB
29899	161	4	asked	ask	VBN
29899	161	5	to	to	TO
29899	161	6	provide	provide	VB
29899	161	7	preparatory	preparatory	JJ
29899	161	8	material	material	NN
29899	161	9	for	for	IN
29899	161	10	the	the	DT
29899	161	11	participants	participant	NNS
29899	161	12	,	,	,
29899	161	13	including	include	VBG
29899	161	14	books	book	NNS
29899	161	15	to	to	TO
29899	161	16	read	read	VB
29899	161	17	,	,	,
29899	161	18	but	but	CC
29899	161	19	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	161	20	do	do	VBP
29899	161	21	not	not	RB
29899	161	22	think	think	VB
29899	161	23	there	there	EX
29899	161	24	is	be	VBZ
29899	161	25	any	any	DT
29899	161	26	way	way	NN
29899	161	27	to	to	TO
29899	161	28	"	"	``
29899	161	29	prepare	prepare	VB
29899	161	30	"	"	''
29899	161	31	for	for	IN
29899	161	32	this	this	DT
29899	161	33	kind	kind	NN
29899	161	34	of	of	IN
29899	161	35	experience	experience	NN
29899	161	36	;	;	,
29899	161	37	and	and	CC
29899	161	38	recommending	recommend	VBG
29899	161	39	books	book	NNS
29899	161	40	to	to	TO
29899	161	41	read	read	VB
29899	161	42	might	may	MD
29899	161	43	convey	convey	VB
29899	161	44	the	the	DT
29899	161	45	impression	impression	NN
29899	161	46	that	that	IN
29899	161	47	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	161	48	are	be	VBP
29899	161	49	going	go	VBG
29899	161	50	to	to	TO
29899	161	51	engage	engage	VB
29899	161	52	in	in	IN
29899	161	53	intellectual	intellectual	JJ
29899	161	54	discussion	discussion	NN
29899	161	55	,	,	,
29899	161	56	which	which	WDT
29899	161	57	is	be	VBZ
29899	161	58	not	not	RB
29899	161	59	the	the	DT
29899	161	60	case	case	NN
29899	161	61	.	.	.
29899	162	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	162	2	ourselves	-PRON-	PRP
29899	162	3	do	do	VBP
29899	162	4	not	not	RB
29899	162	5	"	"	``
29899	162	6	prepare	prepare	VB
29899	162	7	"	"	''
29899	162	8	for	for	IN
29899	162	9	the	the	DT
29899	162	10	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	162	11	and	and	CC
29899	162	12	do	do	VBP
29899	162	13	not	not	RB
29899	162	14	ask	ask	VB
29899	162	15	the	the	DT
29899	162	16	couples	couple	NNS
29899	162	17	to	to	TO
29899	162	18	do	do	VB
29899	162	19	so	so	RB
29899	162	20	either	either	RB
29899	162	21	.	.	.
29899	163	1	It	-PRON-	PRP
29899	163	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	163	3	an	an	DT
29899	163	4	adventure	adventure	NN
29899	163	5	in	in	IN
29899	163	6	sharing	sharing	NN
29899	163	7	into	into	IN
29899	163	8	which	which	WDT
29899	163	9	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	163	10	all	all	DT
29899	163	11	move	move	VBP
29899	163	12	together	together	RB
29899	163	13	,	,	,
29899	163	14	ready	ready	JJ
29899	163	15	to	to	TO
29899	163	16	take	take	VB
29899	163	17	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	163	18	as	as	IN
29899	163	19	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	163	20	comes	come	VBZ
29899	163	21	.	.	.
29899	164	1	[	[	-LRB-
29899	164	2	E	e	NN
29899	164	3	]	]	-RRB-
29899	164	4	This	this	DT
29899	164	5	does	do	VBZ
29899	164	6	not	not	RB
29899	164	7	mean	mean	VB
29899	164	8	,	,	,
29899	164	9	however	however	RB
29899	164	10	,	,	,
29899	164	11	that	that	IN
29899	164	12	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	164	13	sessions	session	NNS
29899	164	14	are	be	VBP
29899	164	15	totally	totally	RB
29899	164	16	"	"	``
29899	164	17	unstructured	unstructured	JJ
29899	164	18	.	.	.
29899	164	19	"	"	''
29899	165	1	A	a	DT
29899	165	2	timetable	timetable	NN
29899	165	3	is	be	VBZ
29899	165	4	worked	work	VBN
29899	165	5	out	out	RP
29899	165	6	by	by	IN
29899	165	7	the	the	DT
29899	165	8	group	group	NN
29899	165	9	,	,	,
29899	165	10	not	not	RB
29899	165	11	imposed	impose	VBN
29899	165	12	upon	upon	IN
29899	165	13	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	165	14	.	.	.
29899	166	1	Obviously	obviously	RB
29899	166	2	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	166	3	has	have	VBZ
29899	166	4	to	to	TO
29899	166	5	be	be	VB
29899	166	6	planned	plan	VBN
29899	166	7	in	in	IN
29899	166	8	relation	relation	NN
29899	166	9	to	to	IN
29899	166	10	the	the	DT
29899	166	11	place	place	NN
29899	166	12	and	and	CC
29899	166	13	the	the	DT
29899	166	14	circumstances	circumstance	NNS
29899	166	15	of	of	IN
29899	166	16	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	166	17	meeting	meeting	NN
29899	166	18	.	.	.
29899	167	1	INTRODUCTION	introduction	NN
29899	167	2	TO	to	IN
29899	167	3	THE	the	DT
29899	167	4	FRIENDS	friend	NNS
29899	167	5	'	'	POS
29899	167	6	EXPERIENCE	experience	NN
29899	167	7	In	in	IN
29899	167	8	the	the	DT
29899	167	9	living	living	NN
29899	167	10	room	room	NN
29899	167	11	of	of	IN
29899	167	12	"	"	``
29899	167	13	Waysmeet	Waysmeet	NNP
29899	167	14	,	,	,
29899	167	15	"	"	''
29899	167	16	the	the	DT
29899	167	17	house	house	NN
29899	167	18	at	at	IN
29899	167	19	Pendle	Pendle	NNP
29899	167	20	Hill	Hill	NNP
29899	167	21	in	in	IN
29899	167	22	which	which	WDT
29899	167	23	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	167	24	held	hold	VBD
29899	167	25	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	167	26	first	first	JJ
29899	167	27	training	training	NN
29899	167	28	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	167	29	,	,	,
29899	167	30	there	there	EX
29899	167	31	was	be	VBD
29899	167	32	just	just	RB
29899	167	33	room	room	NN
29899	167	34	for	for	IN
29899	167	35	ten	ten	CD
29899	167	36	couples	couple	NNS
29899	167	37	to	to	TO
29899	167	38	sit	sit	VB
29899	167	39	in	in	IN
29899	167	40	a	a	DT
29899	167	41	wide	wide	JJ
29899	167	42	circle	circle	NN
29899	167	43	.	.	.
29899	168	1	"	"	``
29899	168	2	What	what	WP
29899	168	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	168	4	are	be	VBP
29899	168	5	going	go	VBG
29899	168	6	to	to	TO
29899	168	7	do	do	VB
29899	168	8	here	here	RB
29899	168	9	,	,	,
29899	168	10	"	"	``
29899	168	11	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	168	12	explained	explain	VBD
29899	168	13	,	,	,
29899	168	14	"	"	``
29899	168	15	is	be	VBZ
29899	168	16	to	to	TO
29899	168	17	experience	experience	VB
29899	168	18	together	together	RB
29899	168	19	a	a	DT
29899	168	20	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	168	21	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	168	22	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	168	23	.	.	.
29899	169	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	169	2	hope	hope	VBP
29899	169	3	this	this	DT
29899	169	4	experience	experience	NN
29899	169	5	will	will	MD
29899	169	6	be	be	VB
29899	169	7	meaningful	meaningful	JJ
29899	169	8	to	to	IN
29899	169	9	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	169	10	all	all	DT
29899	169	11	personally	personally	RB
29899	169	12	,	,	,
29899	169	13	quite	quite	RB
29899	169	14	apart	apart	RB
29899	169	15	from	from	IN
29899	169	16	the	the	DT
29899	169	17	fact	fact	NN
29899	169	18	that	that	IN
29899	169	19	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	169	20	will	will	MD
29899	169	21	be	be	VB
29899	169	22	learning	learn	VBG
29899	169	23	how	how	WRB
29899	169	24	to	to	TO
29899	169	25	conduct	conduct	VB
29899	169	26	a	a	DT
29899	169	27	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	169	28	yourselves	yourself	NNS
29899	169	29	after	after	IN
29899	169	30	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	169	31	return	return	VBP
29899	169	32	home	home	RB
29899	169	33	.	.	.
29899	170	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	170	2	know	know	VBP
29899	170	3	of	of	IN
29899	170	4	no	no	DT
29899	170	5	better	well	JJR
29899	170	6	way	way	NN
29899	170	7	to	to	TO
29899	170	8	train	train	VB
29899	170	9	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	170	10	than	than	IN
29899	170	11	to	to	TO
29899	170	12	let	let	VB
29899	170	13	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	170	14	go	go	VB
29899	170	15	through	through	IN
29899	170	16	first	first	RB
29899	170	17	what	what	WP
29899	170	18	others	other	NNS
29899	170	19	will	will	MD
29899	170	20	later	later	RB
29899	170	21	go	go	VB
29899	170	22	through	through	RB
29899	170	23	under	under	IN
29899	170	24	your	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	170	25	leadership	leadership	NN
29899	170	26	.	.	.
29899	171	1	"	"	``
29899	171	2	However	however	RB
29899	171	3	,	,	,
29899	171	4	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	171	5	shall	shall	MD
29899	171	6	be	be	VB
29899	171	7	working	work	VBG
29899	171	8	together	together	RB
29899	171	9	at	at	IN
29899	171	10	two	two	CD
29899	171	11	levels	level	NNS
29899	171	12	.	.	.
29899	172	1	At	at	IN
29899	172	2	any	any	DT
29899	172	3	point	point	NN
29899	172	4	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	172	5	can	can	MD
29899	172	6	break	break	VB
29899	172	7	off	off	RP
29899	172	8	and	and	CC
29899	172	9	examine	examine	VB
29899	172	10	together	together	RB
29899	172	11	,	,	,
29899	172	12	objectively	objectively	RB
29899	172	13	,	,	,
29899	172	14	what	what	WP
29899	172	15	has	have	VBZ
29899	172	16	been	be	VBN
29899	172	17	happening	happen	VBG
29899	172	18	to	to	IN
29899	172	19	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	172	20	subjectively	subjectively	RB
29899	172	21	.	.	.
29899	173	1	You	-PRON-	PRP
29899	173	2	can	can	MD
29899	173	3	ask	ask	VB
29899	173	4	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	173	5	as	as	IN
29899	173	6	your	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	173	7	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	173	8	any	any	DT
29899	173	9	questions	question	NNS
29899	173	10	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	173	11	wish	wish	VBP
29899	173	12	,	,	,
29899	173	13	about	about	IN
29899	173	14	what	what	WP
29899	173	15	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	173	16	are	be	VBP
29899	173	17	doing	do	VBG
29899	173	18	,	,	,
29899	173	19	or	or	CC
29899	173	20	why	why	WRB
29899	173	21	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	173	22	are	be	VBP
29899	173	23	doing	do	VBG
29899	173	24	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	173	25	.	.	.
29899	174	1	"	"	``
29899	174	2	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	174	3	goal	goal	NN
29899	174	4	is	be	VBZ
29899	174	5	very	very	RB
29899	174	6	simple	simple	JJ
29899	174	7	and	and	CC
29899	174	8	very	very	RB
29899	174	9	clear	clear	JJ
29899	174	10	.	.	.
29899	175	1	As	as	IN
29899	175	2	married	married	JJ
29899	175	3	couples	couple	NNS
29899	175	4	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	175	5	are	be	VBP
29899	175	6	here	here	RB
29899	175	7	to	to	TO
29899	175	8	engage	engage	VB
29899	175	9	together	together	RB
29899	175	10	in	in	IN
29899	175	11	communication	communication	NN
29899	175	12	-	-	HYPH
29899	175	13	in	in	IN
29899	175	14	-	-	HYPH
29899	175	15	depth	depth	NN
29899	175	16	about	about	IN
29899	175	17	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	175	18	-	-	HYPH
29899	175	19	in	in	IN
29899	175	20	-	-	HYPH
29899	175	21	depth	depth	NN
29899	175	22	.	.	.
29899	176	1	Everything	everything	NN
29899	176	2	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	176	3	do	do	VBP
29899	176	4	will	will	MD
29899	176	5	be	be	VB
29899	176	6	done	do	VBN
29899	176	7	with	with	IN
29899	176	8	the	the	DT
29899	176	9	intention	intention	NN
29899	176	10	of	of	IN
29899	176	11	sharing	share	VBG
29899	176	12	with	with	IN
29899	176	13	each	each	DT
29899	176	14	other	other	JJ
29899	176	15	the	the	DT
29899	176	16	directions	direction	NNS
29899	176	17	in	in	IN
29899	176	18	which	which	WDT
29899	176	19	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	176	20	want	want	VBP
29899	176	21	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	176	22	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	176	23	to	to	TO
29899	176	24	grow	grow	VB
29899	176	25	.	.	.
29899	177	1	How	how	WRB
29899	177	2	far	far	RB
29899	177	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	177	4	travel	travel	VBP
29899	177	5	will	will	MD
29899	177	6	be	be	VB
29899	177	7	decided	decide	VBN
29899	177	8	not	not	RB
29899	177	9	by	by	IN
29899	177	10	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	177	11	as	as	IN
29899	177	12	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	177	13	,	,	,
29899	177	14	but	but	CC
29899	177	15	by	by	IN
29899	177	16	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	177	17	as	as	IN
29899	177	18	a	a	DT
29899	177	19	group	group	NN
29899	177	20	.	.	.
29899	178	1	No	no	DT
29899	178	2	one	one	NN
29899	178	3	will	will	MD
29899	178	4	be	be	VB
29899	178	5	put	put	VBN
29899	178	6	under	under	IN
29899	178	7	pressure	pressure	NN
29899	178	8	to	to	TO
29899	178	9	do	do	VB
29899	178	10	anything	anything	NN
29899	178	11	he	-PRON-	PRP
29899	178	12	does	do	VBZ
29899	178	13	not	not	RB
29899	178	14	wish	wish	VB
29899	178	15	to	to	TO
29899	178	16	do	do	VB
29899	178	17	,	,	,
29899	178	18	or	or	CC
29899	178	19	to	to	TO
29899	178	20	say	say	VB
29899	178	21	anything	anything	NN
29899	178	22	he	-PRON-	PRP
29899	178	23	does	do	VBZ
29899	178	24	not	not	RB
29899	178	25	wish	wish	VB
29899	178	26	to	to	TO
29899	178	27	say	say	VB
29899	178	28	.	.	.
29899	179	1	"	"	``
29899	179	2	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	179	3	function	function	NN
29899	179	4	as	as	IN
29899	179	5	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	179	6	is	be	VBZ
29899	179	7	to	to	TO
29899	179	8	be	be	VB
29899	179	9	'	'	``
29899	179	10	participant	participant	JJ
29899	179	11	facilitators	facilitator	NNS
29899	179	12	.	.	.
29899	179	13	'	'	''
29899	180	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	180	2	are	be	VBP
29899	180	3	in	in	IN
29899	180	4	every	every	DT
29899	180	5	sense	sense	NN
29899	180	6	members	member	NNS
29899	180	7	of	of	IN
29899	180	8	the	the	DT
29899	180	9	group	group	NN
29899	180	10	,	,	,
29899	180	11	and	and	CC
29899	180	12	will	will	MD
29899	180	13	fully	fully	RB
29899	180	14	share	share	VB
29899	180	15	all	all	PDT
29899	180	16	the	the	DT
29899	180	17	group	group	NN
29899	180	18	's	's	POS
29899	180	19	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	180	20	.	.	.
29899	181	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	181	2	do	do	VBP
29899	181	3	not	not	RB
29899	181	4	wish	wish	VB
29899	181	5	to	to	TO
29899	181	6	be	be	VB
29899	181	7	treated	treat	VBN
29899	181	8	as	as	IN
29899	181	9	experts	expert	NNS
29899	181	10	or	or	CC
29899	181	11	authorities	authority	NNS
29899	181	12	.	.	.
29899	182	1	The	the	DT
29899	182	2	only	only	JJ
29899	182	3	way	way	NN
29899	182	4	in	in	IN
29899	182	5	which	which	WDT
29899	182	6	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	182	7	shall	shall	MD
29899	182	8	exercise	exercise	VB
29899	182	9	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	182	10	role	role	NN
29899	182	11	as	as	IN
29899	182	12	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	182	13	is	be	VBZ
29899	182	14	to	to	TO
29899	182	15	help	help	VB
29899	182	16	the	the	DT
29899	182	17	group	group	NN
29899	182	18	to	to	TO
29899	182	19	achieve	achieve	VB
29899	182	20	its	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	182	21	goal	goal	NN
29899	182	22	,	,	,
29899	182	23	or	or	CC
29899	182	24	to	to	TO
29899	182	25	tell	tell	VB
29899	182	26	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	182	27	if	if	IN
29899	182	28	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	182	29	think	think	VBP
29899	182	30	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	182	31	is	be	VBZ
29899	182	32	not	not	RB
29899	182	33	taking	take	VBG
29899	182	34	the	the	DT
29899	182	35	best	good	JJS
29899	182	36	direction	direction	NN
29899	182	37	toward	toward	IN
29899	182	38	that	that	DT
29899	182	39	goal	goal	NN
29899	182	40	.	.	.
29899	183	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	183	2	make	make	VBP
29899	183	3	no	no	DT
29899	183	4	claim	claim	NN
29899	183	5	to	to	TO
29899	183	6	be	be	VB
29899	183	7	infallible	infallible	JJ
29899	183	8	.	.	.
29899	184	1	If	if	IN
29899	184	2	at	at	IN
29899	184	3	any	any	DT
29899	184	4	point	point	NN
29899	184	5	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	184	6	do	do	VBP
29899	184	7	n't	not	RB
29899	184	8	agree	agree	VB
29899	184	9	with	with	IN
29899	184	10	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	184	11	,	,	,
29899	184	12	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	184	13	is	be	VBZ
29899	184	14	your	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	184	15	duty	duty	NN
29899	184	16	to	to	TO
29899	184	17	say	say	VB
29899	184	18	so	so	RB
29899	184	19	.	.	.
29899	185	1	If	if	IN
29899	185	2	in	in	IN
29899	185	3	any	any	DT
29899	185	4	situation	situation	NN
29899	185	5	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	185	6	do	do	VBP
29899	185	7	n't	not	RB
29899	185	8	know	know	VB
29899	185	9	what	what	WP
29899	185	10	to	to	TO
29899	185	11	do	do	VB
29899	185	12	next	next	RB
29899	185	13	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	185	14	shall	shall	MD
29899	185	15	say	say	VB
29899	185	16	so	so	RB
29899	185	17	frankly	frankly	RB
29899	185	18	and	and	CC
29899	185	19	ask	ask	VB
29899	185	20	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	185	21	to	to	TO
29899	185	22	help	help	VB
29899	185	23	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	185	24	.	.	.
29899	186	1	"	"	``
29899	186	2	Now	now	RB
29899	186	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	186	4	are	be	VBP
29899	186	5	ready	ready	JJ
29899	186	6	to	to	TO
29899	186	7	begin	begin	VB
29899	186	8	.	.	.
29899	187	1	The	the	DT
29899	187	2	first	first	JJ
29899	187	3	thing	thing	NN
29899	187	4	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	187	5	must	must	MD
29899	187	6	do	do	VB
29899	187	7	is	be	VBZ
29899	187	8	to	to	TO
29899	187	9	get	get	VB
29899	187	10	to	to	TO
29899	187	11	know	know	VB
29899	187	12	each	each	DT
29899	187	13	other	other	JJ
29899	187	14	as	as	IN
29899	187	15	couples	couple	NNS
29899	187	16	.	.	.
29899	188	1	The	the	DT
29899	188	2	sooner	soon	RBR
29899	188	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	188	4	get	get	VBP
29899	188	5	well	well	RB
29899	188	6	acquainted	acquaint	VBN
29899	188	7	,	,	,
29899	188	8	the	the	DT
29899	188	9	faster	fast	RBR
29899	188	10	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	188	11	can	can	MD
29899	188	12	move	move	VB
29899	188	13	toward	toward	IN
29899	188	14	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	188	15	goal	goal	NN
29899	188	16	.	.	.
29899	188	17	"	"	''
29899	189	1	Most	Most	JJS
29899	189	2	of	of	IN
29899	189	3	the	the	DT
29899	189	4	first	first	JJ
29899	189	5	evening	evening	NN
29899	189	6	is	be	VBZ
29899	189	7	devoted	devote	VBN
29899	189	8	to	to	IN
29899	189	9	the	the	DT
29899	189	10	process	process	NN
29899	189	11	of	of	IN
29899	189	12	getting	get	VBG
29899	189	13	to	to	TO
29899	189	14	know	know	VB
29899	189	15	each	each	DT
29899	189	16	other	other	JJ
29899	189	17	.	.	.
29899	190	1	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	190	2	favorite	favorite	JJ
29899	190	3	method	method	NN
29899	190	4	is	be	VBZ
29899	190	5	to	to	TO
29899	190	6	ask	ask	VB
29899	190	7	the	the	DT
29899	190	8	couples	couple	NNS
29899	190	9	to	to	TO
29899	190	10	volunteer	volunteer	VB
29899	190	11	in	in	IN
29899	190	12	turn	turn	NN
29899	190	13	to	to	TO
29899	190	14	be	be	VB
29899	190	15	freely	freely	RB
29899	190	16	questioned	question	VBN
29899	190	17	by	by	IN
29899	190	18	the	the	DT
29899	190	19	group	group	NN
29899	190	20	.	.	.
29899	191	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	191	2	usually	usually	RB
29899	191	3	volunteer	volunteer	VBP
29899	191	4	first	first	RB
29899	191	5	,	,	,
29899	191	6	and	and	CC
29899	191	7	make	make	VB
29899	191	8	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	191	9	clear	clear	JJ
29899	191	10	that	that	IN
29899	191	11	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	191	12	are	be	VBP
29899	191	13	prepared	prepared	JJ
29899	191	14	to	to	TO
29899	191	15	answer	answer	VB
29899	191	16	the	the	DT
29899	191	17	most	most	RBS
29899	191	18	personal	personal	JJ
29899	191	19	questions	question	NNS
29899	191	20	.	.	.
29899	192	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	192	2	indicate	indicate	VBP
29899	192	3	at	at	IN
29899	192	4	this	this	DT
29899	192	5	point	point	NN
29899	192	6	that	that	IN
29899	192	7	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	192	8	would	would	MD
29899	192	9	like	like	VB
29899	192	10	to	to	TO
29899	192	11	be	be	VB
29899	192	12	called	call	VBN
29899	192	13	by	by	IN
29899	192	14	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	192	15	first	first	JJ
29899	192	16	names	name	NNS
29899	192	17	,	,	,
29899	192	18	and	and	CC
29899	192	19	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	192	20	hope	hope	VBP
29899	192	21	the	the	DT
29899	192	22	others	other	NNS
29899	192	23	will	will	MD
29899	192	24	agree	agree	VB
29899	192	25	to	to	TO
29899	192	26	do	do	VB
29899	192	27	the	the	DT
29899	192	28	same	same	JJ
29899	192	29	.	.	.
29899	193	1	The	the	DT
29899	193	2	questions	question	NNS
29899	193	3	then	then	RB
29899	193	4	begin	begin	VBP
29899	193	5	,	,	,
29899	193	6	and	and	CC
29899	193	7	when	when	WRB
29899	193	8	there	there	EX
29899	193	9	are	be	VBP
29899	193	10	no	no	RB
29899	193	11	more	more	JJR
29899	193	12	,	,	,
29899	193	13	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	193	14	ask	ask	VBP
29899	193	15	another	another	DT
29899	193	16	couple	couple	NN
29899	193	17	to	to	TO
29899	193	18	volunteer	volunteer	VB
29899	193	19	.	.	.
29899	194	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	194	2	prefer	prefer	VBP
29899	194	3	not	not	RB
29899	194	4	to	to	TO
29899	194	5	go	go	VB
29899	194	6	round	round	VB
29899	194	7	the	the	DT
29899	194	8	circle	circle	NN
29899	194	9	in	in	IN
29899	194	10	order	order	NN
29899	194	11	,	,	,
29899	194	12	or	or	CC
29899	194	13	take	take	VBP
29899	194	14	names	name	NNS
29899	194	15	alphabetically	alphabetically	RB
29899	194	16	.	.	.
29899	195	1	Everything	everything	NN
29899	195	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	195	3	done	do	VBN
29899	195	4	voluntarily	voluntarily	RB
29899	195	5	as	as	RB
29899	195	6	far	far	RB
29899	195	7	as	as	IN
29899	195	8	possible	possible	JJ
29899	195	9	,	,	,
29899	195	10	to	to	TO
29899	195	11	encourage	encourage	VB
29899	195	12	spontaneity	spontaneity	NN
29899	195	13	.	.	.
29899	196	1	Time	time	NN
29899	196	2	goes	go	VBZ
29899	196	3	quickly	quickly	RB
29899	196	4	as	as	IN
29899	196	5	the	the	DT
29899	196	6	questions	question	NNS
29899	196	7	come	come	VBP
29899	196	8	thick	thick	JJ
29899	196	9	and	and	CC
29899	196	10	fast	fast	JJ
29899	196	11	,	,	,
29899	196	12	and	and	CC
29899	196	13	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	196	14	is	be	VBZ
29899	196	15	usually	usually	RB
29899	196	16	necessary	necessary	JJ
29899	196	17	to	to	TO
29899	196	18	limit	limit	VB
29899	196	19	the	the	DT
29899	196	20	questioning	questioning	NN
29899	196	21	,	,	,
29899	196	22	or	or	CC
29899	196	23	to	to	TO
29899	196	24	ask	ask	VB
29899	196	25	for	for	IN
29899	196	26	brief	brief	JJ
29899	196	27	answers	answer	NNS
29899	196	28	.	.	.
29899	197	1	It	-PRON-	PRP
29899	197	2	should	should	MD
29899	197	3	be	be	VB
29899	197	4	emphasized	emphasize	VBN
29899	197	5	that	that	IN
29899	197	6	the	the	DT
29899	197	7	participants	participant	NNS
29899	197	8	are	be	VBP
29899	197	9	free	free	JJ
29899	197	10	at	at	IN
29899	197	11	any	any	DT
29899	197	12	time	time	NN
29899	197	13	to	to	TO
29899	197	14	ask	ask	VB
29899	197	15	each	each	DT
29899	197	16	other	other	JJ
29899	197	17	personal	personal	JJ
29899	197	18	questions	question	NNS
29899	197	19	;	;	:
29899	197	20	this	this	DT
29899	197	21	understanding	understanding	NN
29899	197	22	creates	create	VBZ
29899	197	23	a	a	DT
29899	197	24	climate	climate	NN
29899	197	25	of	of	IN
29899	197	26	openness	openness	NN
29899	197	27	which	which	WDT
29899	197	28	emphasizes	emphasize	VBZ
29899	197	29	the	the	DT
29899	197	30	goal	goal	NN
29899	197	31	of	of	IN
29899	197	32	communication	communication	NN
29899	197	33	-	-	HYPH
29899	197	34	in	in	IN
29899	197	35	-	-	HYPH
29899	197	36	depth	depth	NN
29899	197	37	.	.	.
29899	198	1	THE	the	DT
29899	198	2	GROUP	GROUP	NNP
29899	198	3	IN	in	IN
29899	198	4	ACTION	ACTION	NNP
29899	198	5	Assembled	assemble	VBN
29899	198	6	again	again	RB
29899	198	7	on	on	IN
29899	198	8	Saturday	Saturday	NNP
29899	198	9	morning	morning	NN
29899	198	10	,	,	,
29899	198	11	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	198	12	begin	begin	VBP
29899	198	13	by	by	IN
29899	198	14	preparing	prepare	VBG
29899	198	15	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	198	16	"	"	``
29899	198	17	rolling	rolling	JJ
29899	198	18	agenda	agenda	NN
29899	198	19	,	,	,
29899	198	20	"	"	''
29899	198	21	as	as	IN
29899	198	22	one	one	CD
29899	198	23	of	of	IN
29899	198	24	the	the	DT
29899	198	25	trainee	trainee	JJ
29899	198	26	couples	couple	NNS
29899	198	27	called	call	VBD
29899	198	28	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	198	29	,	,	,
29899	198	30	in	in	IN
29899	198	31	order	order	NN
29899	198	32	to	to	TO
29899	198	33	keep	keep	VB
29899	198	34	a	a	DT
29899	198	35	record	record	NN
29899	198	36	of	of	IN
29899	198	37	what	what	WP
29899	198	38	the	the	DT
29899	198	39	group	group	NN
29899	198	40	members	member	NNS
29899	198	41	want	want	VBP
29899	198	42	to	to	TO
29899	198	43	talk	talk	VB
29899	198	44	about	about	IN
29899	198	45	.	.	.
29899	199	1	The	the	DT
29899	199	2	aspects	aspect	NNS
29899	199	3	of	of	IN
29899	199	4	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	199	5	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	199	6	want	want	VBP
29899	199	7	to	to	TO
29899	199	8	include	include	VB
29899	199	9	for	for	IN
29899	199	10	discussion	discussion	NN
29899	199	11	before	before	IN
29899	199	12	the	the	DT
29899	199	13	weekend	weekend	NN
29899	199	14	is	be	VBZ
29899	199	15	over	over	IN
29899	199	16	gives	give	VBZ
29899	199	17	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	199	18	clues	clue	NNS
29899	199	19	to	to	IN
29899	199	20	the	the	DT
29899	199	21	issues	issue	NNS
29899	199	22	that	that	WDT
29899	199	23	are	be	VBP
29899	199	24	important	important	JJ
29899	199	25	to	to	IN
29899	199	26	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	199	27	.	.	.
29899	200	1	The	the	DT
29899	200	2	list	list	NN
29899	200	3	with	with	IN
29899	200	4	which	which	WDT
29899	200	5	one	one	CD
29899	200	6	of	of	IN
29899	200	7	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	200	8	trainee	trainee	JJ
29899	200	9	couples	couple	NNS
29899	200	10	started	start	VBD
29899	200	11	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	200	12	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	200	13	was	be	VBD
29899	200	14	:	:	:
29899	200	15	What	what	WP
29899	200	16	is	be	VBZ
29899	200	17	the	the	DT
29899	200	18	state	state	NN
29899	200	19	of	of	IN
29899	200	20	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	200	21	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	200	22	now	now	RB
29899	200	23	?	?	.
29899	201	1	How	how	WRB
29899	201	2	have	have	VBP
29899	201	3	things	thing	NNS
29899	201	4	changed	change	VBN
29899	201	5	as	as	IN
29899	201	6	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	201	7	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	201	8	has	have	VBZ
29899	201	9	grown	grow	VBN
29899	201	10	?	?	.
29899	202	1	What	what	WP
29899	202	2	are	be	VBP
29899	202	3	the	the	DT
29899	202	4	memorable	memorable	JJ
29899	202	5	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	202	6	in	in	IN
29899	202	7	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	202	8	lives	life	NNS
29899	202	9	that	that	WDT
29899	202	10	have	have	VBP
29899	202	11	enriched	enrich	VBN
29899	202	12	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	202	13	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	202	14	?	?	.
29899	203	1	What	what	WP
29899	203	2	have	have	VBP
29899	203	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	203	4	found	find	VBN
29899	203	5	to	to	TO
29899	203	6	be	be	VB
29899	203	7	the	the	DT
29899	203	8	most	most	RBS
29899	203	9	effective	effective	JJ
29899	203	10	ways	way	NNS
29899	203	11	of	of	IN
29899	203	12	handling	handle	VBG
29899	203	13	conflict	conflict	NN
29899	203	14	?	?	.
29899	204	1	What	what	WP
29899	204	2	do	do	VBP
29899	204	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	204	4	feel	feel	VB
29899	204	5	about	about	IN
29899	204	6	a	a	DT
29899	204	7	depth	depth	NN
29899	204	8	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	204	9	between	between	IN
29899	204	10	one	one	CD
29899	204	11	of	of	IN
29899	204	12	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	204	13	and	and	CC
29899	204	14	another	another	DT
29899	204	15	person	person	NN
29899	204	16	outside	outside	IN
29899	204	17	the	the	DT
29899	204	18	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	204	19	?	?	.
29899	205	1	Have	have	VBP
29899	205	2	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	205	3	found	find	VBN
29899	205	4	ways	way	NNS
29899	205	5	of	of	IN
29899	205	6	sharing	sharing	NN
29899	205	7	that	that	WDT
29899	205	8	have	have	VBP
29899	205	9	contributed	contribute	VBN
29899	205	10	to	to	IN
29899	205	11	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	205	12	spiritual	spiritual	JJ
29899	205	13	growth	growth	NN
29899	205	14	?	?	.
29899	206	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	206	2	ask	ask	VBP
29899	206	3	the	the	DT
29899	206	4	group	group	NN
29899	206	5	members	member	NNS
29899	206	6	if	if	IN
29899	206	7	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	206	8	have	have	VBP
29899	206	9	any	any	DT
29899	206	10	"	"	``
29899	206	11	concerns	concern	NNS
29899	206	12	"	"	''
29899	206	13	explaining	explain	VBG
29899	206	14	that	that	IN
29899	206	15	if	if	IN
29899	206	16	members	member	NNS
29899	206	17	of	of	IN
29899	206	18	the	the	DT
29899	206	19	group	group	NN
29899	206	20	feel	feel	VBP
29899	206	21	unhappy	unhappy	JJ
29899	206	22	,	,	,
29899	206	23	or	or	CC
29899	206	24	anxious	anxious	JJ
29899	206	25	,	,	,
29899	206	26	or	or	CC
29899	206	27	angry	angry	JJ
29899	206	28	,	,	,
29899	206	29	about	about	IN
29899	206	30	anything	anything	NN
29899	206	31	that	that	WDT
29899	206	32	has	have	VBZ
29899	206	33	happened	happen	VBN
29899	206	34	,	,	,
29899	206	35	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	206	36	have	have	VBP
29899	206	37	a	a	DT
29899	206	38	duty	duty	NN
29899	206	39	to	to	TO
29899	206	40	share	share	VB
29899	206	41	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	206	42	feelings	feeling	NNS
29899	206	43	with	with	IN
29899	206	44	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	206	45	all	all	DT
29899	206	46	otherwise	otherwise	RB
29899	206	47	the	the	DT
29899	206	48	fellowship	fellowship	NN
29899	206	49	will	will	MD
29899	206	50	be	be	VB
29899	206	51	broken	break	VBN
29899	206	52	.	.	.
29899	207	1	Situations	situation	NNS
29899	207	2	have	have	VBP
29899	207	3	occurred	occur	VBN
29899	207	4	in	in	IN
29899	207	5	which	which	WDT
29899	207	6	someone	someone	NN
29899	207	7	had	have	VBD
29899	207	8	a	a	DT
29899	207	9	concern	concern	NN
29899	207	10	that	that	IN
29899	207	11	another	another	DT
29899	207	12	member	member	NN
29899	207	13	of	of	IN
29899	207	14	the	the	DT
29899	207	15	group	group	NN
29899	207	16	also	also	RB
29899	207	17	had	have	VBD
29899	207	18	and	and	CC
29899	207	19	neither	neither	DT
29899	207	20	was	be	VBD
29899	207	21	expressing	express	VBG
29899	207	22	.	.	.
29899	208	1	As	as	IN
29899	208	2	a	a	DT
29899	208	3	group	group	NN
29899	208	4	can	can	MD
29899	208	5	not	not	RB
29899	208	6	function	function	VB
29899	208	7	effectively	effectively	RB
29899	208	8	without	without	IN
29899	208	9	openness	openness	NN
29899	208	10	to	to	IN
29899	208	11	each	each	DT
29899	208	12	other	other	JJ
29899	208	13	on	on	IN
29899	208	14	the	the	DT
29899	208	15	part	part	NN
29899	208	16	of	of	IN
29899	208	17	its	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	208	18	members	member	NNS
29899	208	19	,	,	,
29899	208	20	neither	neither	CC
29899	208	21	can	can	MD
29899	208	22	a	a	DT
29899	208	23	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	208	24	grow	grow	VB
29899	208	25	without	without	IN
29899	208	26	the	the	DT
29899	208	27	same	same	JJ
29899	208	28	kind	kind	NN
29899	208	29	of	of	IN
29899	208	30	openness	openness	NN
29899	208	31	between	between	IN
29899	208	32	its	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	208	33	partners	partner	NNS
29899	208	34	.	.	.
29899	209	1	This	this	DT
29899	209	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	209	3	what	what	WP
29899	209	4	every	every	DT
29899	209	5	married	married	JJ
29899	209	6	couple	couple	NN
29899	209	7	should	should	MD
29899	209	8	be	be	VB
29899	209	9	doing	do	VBG
29899	209	10	every	every	DT
29899	209	11	day	day	NN
29899	209	12	--	--	:
29899	209	13	raising	raise	VBG
29899	209	14	issues	issue	NNS
29899	209	15	that	that	WDT
29899	209	16	need	need	VBP
29899	209	17	to	to	TO
29899	209	18	be	be	VB
29899	209	19	discussed	discuss	VBN
29899	209	20	,	,	,
29899	209	21	and	and	CC
29899	209	22	being	be	VBG
29899	209	23	honest	honest	JJ
29899	209	24	about	about	IN
29899	209	25	disturbed	disturbed	JJ
29899	209	26	or	or	CC
29899	209	27	negative	negative	JJ
29899	209	28	feelings	feeling	NNS
29899	209	29	.	.	.
29899	210	1	There	there	EX
29899	210	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	210	3	a	a	DT
29899	210	4	sequence	sequence	NN
29899	210	5	of	of	IN
29899	210	6	events	event	NNS
29899	210	7	that	that	WDT
29899	210	8	is	be	VBZ
29899	210	9	typical	typical	JJ
29899	210	10	of	of	IN
29899	210	11	most	most	JJS
29899	210	12	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	210	13	.	.	.
29899	211	1	Nearly	nearly	RB
29899	211	2	always	always	RB
29899	211	3	,	,	,
29899	211	4	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	211	5	begin	begin	VBP
29899	211	6	with	with	IN
29899	211	7	general	general	JJ
29899	211	8	discussion	discussion	NN
29899	211	9	of	of	IN
29899	211	10	some	some	DT
29899	211	11	aspect	aspect	NN
29899	211	12	of	of	IN
29899	211	13	married	married	JJ
29899	211	14	life	life	NN
29899	211	15	.	.	.
29899	212	1	At	at	IN
29899	212	2	this	this	DT
29899	212	3	stage	stage	NN
29899	212	4	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	212	5	are	be	VBP
29899	212	6	testing	test	VBG
29899	212	7	each	each	DT
29899	212	8	other	other	JJ
29899	212	9	,	,	,
29899	212	10	so	so	RB
29899	212	11	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	212	12	take	take	VBP
29899	212	13	refuge	refuge	NN
29899	212	14	in	in	IN
29899	212	15	generalizations	generalization	NNS
29899	212	16	.	.	.
29899	213	1	A	a	DT
29899	213	2	common	common	JJ
29899	213	3	theme	theme	NN
29899	213	4	is	be	VBZ
29899	213	5	the	the	DT
29899	213	6	difficulties	difficulty	NNS
29899	213	7	of	of	IN
29899	213	8	raising	raise	VBG
29899	213	9	children	child	NNS
29899	213	10	.	.	.
29899	214	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	214	2	can	can	MD
29899	214	3	all	all	RB
29899	214	4	commiserate	commiserate	VB
29899	214	5	with	with	IN
29899	214	6	each	each	DT
29899	214	7	other	other	JJ
29899	214	8	about	about	IN
29899	214	9	the	the	DT
29899	214	10	problems	problem	NNS
29899	214	11	of	of	IN
29899	214	12	the	the	DT
29899	214	13	generation	generation	NN
29899	214	14	gap	gap	NN
29899	214	15	for	for	IN
29899	214	16	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	214	17	is	be	VBZ
29899	214	18	"	"	``
29899	214	19	safer	safe	JJR
29899	214	20	"	"	''
29899	214	21	to	to	TO
29899	214	22	talk	talk	VB
29899	214	23	about	about	IN
29899	214	24	parenthood	parenthood	NN
29899	214	25	than	than	IN
29899	214	26	about	about	IN
29899	214	27	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	214	28	.	.	.
29899	215	1	If	if	IN
29899	215	2	the	the	DT
29899	215	3	talk	talk	NN
29899	215	4	_	_	NNP
29899	215	5	does	do	VBZ
29899	215	6	_	_	NNP
29899	215	7	focus	focus	VB
29899	215	8	on	on	IN
29899	215	9	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	215	10	,	,	,
29899	215	11	such	such	JJ
29899	215	12	topics	topic	NNS
29899	215	13	as	as	IN
29899	215	14	working	work	VBG
29899	215	15	wives	wife	NNS
29899	215	16	or	or	CC
29899	215	17	overworked	overwork	VBD
29899	215	18	husbands	husband	NNS
29899	215	19	or	or	CC
29899	215	20	the	the	DT
29899	215	21	sharing	sharing	NN
29899	215	22	of	of	IN
29899	215	23	household	household	NN
29899	215	24	tasks	task	NNS
29899	215	25	can	can	MD
29899	215	26	be	be	VB
29899	215	27	discussed	discuss	VBN
29899	215	28	without	without	IN
29899	215	29	risk	risk	NN
29899	215	30	.	.	.
29899	216	1	The	the	DT
29899	216	2	group	group	NN
29899	216	3	will	will	MD
29899	216	4	move	move	VB
29899	216	5	at	at	IN
29899	216	6	its	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	216	7	own	own	JJ
29899	216	8	pace	pace	NN
29899	216	9	from	from	IN
29899	216	10	the	the	DT
29899	216	11	superficial	superficial	JJ
29899	216	12	testing	testing	NN
29899	216	13	stage	stage	NN
29899	216	14	to	to	IN
29899	216	15	the	the	DT
29899	216	16	deeper	deep	JJR
29899	216	17	sharing	sharing	NN
29899	216	18	.	.	.
29899	217	1	The	the	DT
29899	217	2	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	217	3	can	can	MD
29899	217	4	facilitate	facilitate	VB
29899	217	5	this	this	DT
29899	217	6	process	process	NN
29899	217	7	,	,	,
29899	217	8	but	but	CC
29899	217	9	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	217	10	is	be	VBZ
29899	217	11	n't	not	RB
29899	217	12	helpful	helpful	JJ
29899	217	13	if	if	IN
29899	217	14	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	217	15	try	try	VBP
29899	217	16	to	to	TO
29899	217	17	hurry	hurry	VB
29899	217	18	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	217	19	.	.	.
29899	218	1	"	"	``
29899	218	2	Personalizing	personalize	VBG
29899	218	3	"	"	''
29899	218	4	the	the	DT
29899	218	5	discussion	discussion	NN
29899	218	6	by	by	IN
29899	218	7	using	use	VBG
29899	218	8	such	such	JJ
29899	218	9	questions	question	NNS
29899	218	10	as	as	IN
29899	218	11	"	"	``
29899	218	12	Mary	Mary	NNP
29899	218	13	,	,	,
29899	218	14	did	do	VBD
29899	218	15	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	218	16	raise	raise	VB
29899	218	17	that	that	DT
29899	218	18	subject	subject	NN
29899	218	19	because	because	IN
29899	218	20	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	218	21	's	be	VBZ
29899	218	22	an	an	DT
29899	218	23	issue	issue	NN
29899	218	24	between	between	IN
29899	218	25	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	218	26	and	and	CC
29899	218	27	Tom	Tom	NNP
29899	218	28	?	?	.
29899	218	29	"	"	''
29899	219	1	or	or	CC
29899	219	2	"	"	``
29899	219	3	I	-PRON-	PRP
29899	219	4	wonder	wonder	VBP
29899	219	5	if	if	IN
29899	219	6	any	any	DT
29899	219	7	couple	couple	NN
29899	219	8	could	could	MD
29899	219	9	give	give	VB
29899	219	10	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	219	11	an	an	DT
29899	219	12	example	example	NN
29899	219	13	from	from	IN
29899	219	14	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	219	15	own	own	JJ
29899	219	16	experience	experience	NN
29899	219	17	of	of	IN
29899	219	18	what	what	WP
29899	219	19	Harold	Harold	NNP
29899	219	20	has	have	VBZ
29899	219	21	been	be	VBN
29899	219	22	talking	talk	VBG
29899	219	23	about	about	IN
29899	219	24	?	?	.
29899	219	25	"	"	''
29899	220	1	is	be	VBZ
29899	220	2	helpful	helpful	JJ
29899	220	3	.	.	.
29899	221	1	Once	once	RB
29899	221	2	a	a	DT
29899	221	3	couple	couple	NN
29899	221	4	have	have	VBP
29899	221	5	shared	share	VBN
29899	221	6	some	some	DT
29899	221	7	situation	situation	NN
29899	221	8	in	in	IN
29899	221	9	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	221	10	own	own	JJ
29899	221	11	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	221	12	,	,	,
29899	221	13	one	one	CD
29899	221	14	of	of	IN
29899	221	15	the	the	DT
29899	221	16	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	221	17	can	can	MD
29899	221	18	ask	ask	VB
29899	221	19	"	"	``
29899	221	20	Did	do	VBD
29899	221	21	any	any	DT
29899	221	22	of	of	IN
29899	221	23	the	the	DT
29899	221	24	rest	rest	NN
29899	221	25	of	of	IN
29899	221	26	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	221	27	identify	identify	VBP
29899	221	28	with	with	IN
29899	221	29	Peg	Peg	NNP
29899	221	30	and	and	CC
29899	221	31	Larry	Larry	NNP
29899	221	32	as	as	IN
29899	221	33	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	221	34	were	be	VBD
29899	221	35	talking	talk	VBG
29899	221	36	?	?	.
29899	221	37	"	"	''
29899	222	1	This	this	DT
29899	222	2	will	will	MD
29899	222	3	help	help	VB
29899	222	4	other	other	JJ
29899	222	5	couples	couple	NNS
29899	222	6	to	to	TO
29899	222	7	share	share	VB
29899	222	8	rather	rather	RB
29899	222	9	than	than	IN
29899	222	10	discuss	discuss	VB
29899	222	11	,	,	,
29899	222	12	and	and	CC
29899	222	13	move	move	VB
29899	222	14	the	the	DT
29899	222	15	communication	communication	NN
29899	222	16	to	to	IN
29899	222	17	a	a	DT
29899	222	18	deeper	deep	JJR
29899	222	19	level	level	NN
29899	222	20	.	.	.
29899	223	1	A	a	DT
29899	223	2	phrase	phrase	NN
29899	223	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	223	4	often	often	RB
29899	223	5	use	use	VBP
29899	223	6	is	be	VBZ
29899	223	7	"	"	``
29899	223	8	making	make	VBG
29899	223	9	yourself	-PRON-	PRP
29899	223	10	vulnerable"--an	vulnerable"--an	NN
29899	223	11	act	act	NN
29899	223	12	of	of	IN
29899	223	13	trust	trust	NN
29899	223	14	by	by	IN
29899	223	15	sharing	share	VBG
29899	223	16	a	a	DT
29899	223	17	problem	problem	NN
29899	223	18	about	about	IN
29899	223	19	which	which	WDT
29899	223	20	the	the	DT
29899	223	21	couple	couple	NN
29899	223	22	feels	feel	VBZ
29899	223	23	some	some	DT
29899	223	24	embarrassment	embarrassment	NN
29899	223	25	.	.	.
29899	224	1	The	the	DT
29899	224	2	group	group	NN
29899	224	3	's	's	POS
29899	224	4	response	response	NN
29899	224	5	to	to	IN
29899	224	6	this	this	DT
29899	224	7	is	be	VBZ
29899	224	8	invariably	invariably	RB
29899	224	9	warm	warm	JJ
29899	224	10	and	and	CC
29899	224	11	supportive	supportive	JJ
29899	224	12	with	with	IN
29899	224	13	an	an	DT
29899	224	14	effort	effort	NN
29899	224	15	to	to	TO
29899	224	16	help	help	VB
29899	224	17	by	by	IN
29899	224	18	sharing	share	VBG
29899	224	19	similar	similar	JJ
29899	224	20	problems	problem	NNS
29899	224	21	which	which	WDT
29899	224	22	others	other	NNS
29899	224	23	have	have	VBP
29899	224	24	experienced	experience	VBN
29899	224	25	or	or	CC
29899	224	26	are	be	VBP
29899	224	27	experiencing	experience	VBG
29899	224	28	.	.	.
29899	225	1	Sometimes	sometimes	RB
29899	225	2	a	a	DT
29899	225	3	major	major	JJ
29899	225	4	breakthrough	breakthrough	NN
29899	225	5	is	be	VBZ
29899	225	6	achieved	achieve	VBN
29899	225	7	when	when	WRB
29899	225	8	the	the	DT
29899	225	9	_	_	NNP
29899	225	10	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	225	11	_	_	NNP
29899	225	12	are	be	VBP
29899	225	13	willing	willing	JJ
29899	225	14	to	to	TO
29899	225	15	be	be	VB
29899	225	16	vulnerable	vulnerable	JJ
29899	225	17	.	.	.
29899	226	1	This	this	DT
29899	226	2	process	process	NN
29899	226	3	of	of	IN
29899	226	4	deep	deep	JJ
29899	226	5	sharing	sharing	NN
29899	226	6	must	must	MD
29899	226	7	not	not	RB
29899	226	8	be	be	VB
29899	226	9	seen	see	VBN
29899	226	10	as	as	IN
29899	226	11	an	an	DT
29899	226	12	orgy	orgy	NN
29899	226	13	of	of	IN
29899	226	14	humiliating	humiliating	JJ
29899	226	15	confessions	confession	NNS
29899	226	16	.	.	.
29899	227	1	Not	not	RB
29899	227	2	at	at	RB
29899	227	3	all	all	RB
29899	227	4	.	.	.
29899	228	1	The	the	DT
29899	228	2	areas	area	NNS
29899	228	3	where	where	WRB
29899	228	4	the	the	DT
29899	228	5	growth	growth	NN
29899	228	6	of	of	IN
29899	228	7	a	a	DT
29899	228	8	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	228	9	is	be	VBZ
29899	228	10	blocked	block	VBN
29899	228	11	are	be	VBP
29899	228	12	almost	almost	RB
29899	228	13	always	always	RB
29899	228	14	sensitive	sensitive	JJ
29899	228	15	ones	one	NNS
29899	228	16	which	which	WDT
29899	228	17	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	228	18	tend	tend	VBP
29899	228	19	to	to	TO
29899	228	20	keep	keep	VB
29899	228	21	hidden	hide	VBN
29899	228	22	because	because	IN
29899	228	23	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	228	24	make	make	VBP
29899	228	25	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	228	26	feel	feel	VB
29899	228	27	inadequate	inadequate	JJ
29899	228	28	or	or	CC
29899	228	29	defeated	defeat	VBN
29899	228	30	.	.	.
29899	229	1	It	-PRON-	PRP
29899	229	2	may	may	MD
29899	229	3	well	well	RB
29899	229	4	be	be	VB
29899	229	5	that	that	IN
29899	229	6	a	a	DT
29899	229	7	way	way	NN
29899	229	8	out	out	RB
29899	229	9	is	be	VBZ
29899	229	10	not	not	RB
29899	229	11	really	really	RB
29899	229	12	difficult	difficult	JJ
29899	229	13	to	to	TO
29899	229	14	achieve	achieve	VB
29899	229	15	,	,	,
29899	229	16	but	but	CC
29899	229	17	as	as	RB
29899	229	18	long	long	RB
29899	229	19	as	as	IN
29899	229	20	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	229	21	are	be	VBP
29899	229	22	avoiding	avoid	VBG
29899	229	23	the	the	DT
29899	229	24	whole	whole	JJ
29899	229	25	problem	problem	NN
29899	229	26	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	229	27	are	be	VBP
29899	229	28	not	not	RB
29899	229	29	likely	likely	JJ
29899	229	30	to	to	TO
29899	229	31	find	find	VB
29899	229	32	a	a	DT
29899	229	33	solution	solution	NN
29899	229	34	.	.	.
29899	230	1	Bringing	bring	VBG
29899	230	2	the	the	DT
29899	230	3	issue	issue	NN
29899	230	4	out	out	RP
29899	230	5	in	in	IN
29899	230	6	the	the	DT
29899	230	7	open	open	NN
29899	230	8	,	,	,
29899	230	9	in	in	IN
29899	230	10	the	the	DT
29899	230	11	presence	presence	NN
29899	230	12	of	of	IN
29899	230	13	other	other	JJ
29899	230	14	couples	couple	NNS
29899	230	15	eager	eager	JJ
29899	230	16	to	to	TO
29899	230	17	help	help	VB
29899	230	18	because	because	IN
29899	230	19	of	of	IN
29899	230	20	similar	similar	JJ
29899	230	21	problems	problem	NNS
29899	230	22	may	may	MD
29899	230	23	suddenly	suddenly	RB
29899	230	24	break	break	VB
29899	230	25	the	the	DT
29899	230	26	log	log	NN
29899	230	27	-	-	HYPH
29899	230	28	jam	jam	NN
29899	230	29	and	and	CC
29899	230	30	move	move	VB
29899	230	31	the	the	DT
29899	230	32	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	230	33	along	along	IN
29899	230	34	the	the	DT
29899	230	35	path	path	NN
29899	230	36	to	to	TO
29899	230	37	enrichment	enrichment	VB
29899	230	38	.	.	.
29899	231	1	This	this	DT
29899	231	2	happens	happen	VBZ
29899	231	3	quite	quite	RB
29899	231	4	often	often	RB
29899	231	5	during	during	IN
29899	231	6	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	231	7	,	,	,
29899	231	8	and	and	CC
29899	231	9	the	the	DT
29899	231	10	results	result	NNS
29899	231	11	are	be	VBP
29899	231	12	usually	usually	RB
29899	231	13	decisive	decisive	JJ
29899	231	14	and	and	CC
29899	231	15	lasting	lasting	JJ
29899	231	16	.	.	.
29899	232	1	The	the	DT
29899	232	2	resolution	resolution	NN
29899	232	3	may	may	MD
29899	232	4	come	come	VB
29899	232	5	for	for	IN
29899	232	6	a	a	DT
29899	232	7	particular	particular	JJ
29899	232	8	couple	couple	NN
29899	232	9	when	when	WRB
29899	232	10	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	232	11	are	be	VBP
29899	232	12	alone	alone	JJ
29899	232	13	together	together	RB
29899	232	14	later	later	RB
29899	232	15	reporting	report	VBG
29899	232	16	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	232	17	to	to	IN
29899	232	18	the	the	DT
29899	232	19	others	other	NNS
29899	232	20	;	;	:
29899	232	21	or	or	CC
29899	232	22	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	232	23	may	may	MD
29899	232	24	actually	actually	RB
29899	232	25	come	come	VB
29899	232	26	in	in	IN
29899	232	27	the	the	DT
29899	232	28	supportive	supportive	JJ
29899	232	29	atmosphere	atmosphere	NN
29899	232	30	that	that	IN
29899	232	31	the	the	DT
29899	232	32	group	group	NN
29899	232	33	is	be	VBZ
29899	232	34	able	able	JJ
29899	232	35	to	to	TO
29899	232	36	generate	generate	VB
29899	232	37	.	.	.
29899	233	1	Such	such	JJ
29899	233	2	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	233	3	are	be	VBP
29899	233	4	deeply	deeply	RB
29899	233	5	reassuring	reassure	VBG
29899	233	6	and	and	CC
29899	233	7	rewarding	rewarding	JJ
29899	233	8	for	for	IN
29899	233	9	all	all	PDT
29899	233	10	the	the	DT
29899	233	11	participating	participate	VBG
29899	233	12	couples	couple	NNS
29899	233	13	.	.	.
29899	234	1	FACILITATING	facilitate	VBG
29899	234	2	EXERCISES	exercise	NNS
29899	234	3	The	the	DT
29899	234	4	use	use	NN
29899	234	5	of	of	IN
29899	234	6	simple	simple	JJ
29899	234	7	"	"	``
29899	234	8	exercises	exercise	NNS
29899	234	9	"	"	''
29899	234	10	in	in	IN
29899	234	11	these	these	DT
29899	234	12	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	234	13	has	have	VBZ
29899	234	14	been	be	VBN
29899	234	15	found	find	VBN
29899	234	16	to	to	TO
29899	234	17	be	be	VB
29899	234	18	very	very	RB
29899	234	19	helpful	helpful	JJ
29899	234	20	.	.	.
29899	235	1	What	what	WP
29899	235	2	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	235	3	do	do	VBP
29899	235	4	is	be	VBZ
29899	235	5	to	to	TO
29899	235	6	break	break	VB
29899	235	7	up	up	RP
29899	235	8	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	235	9	stereotyped	stereotyped	JJ
29899	235	10	and	and	CC
29899	235	11	often	often	RB
29899	235	12	rather	rather	RB
29899	235	13	sterile	sterile	JJ
29899	235	14	patterns	pattern	NNS
29899	235	15	of	of	IN
29899	235	16	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	235	17	when	when	WRB
29899	235	18	people	people	NNS
29899	235	19	get	get	VBP
29899	235	20	together	together	RB
29899	235	21	.	.	.
29899	236	1	They	-PRON-	PRP
29899	236	2	are	be	VBP
29899	236	3	simply	simply	RB
29899	236	4	devices	device	NNS
29899	236	5	designed	design	VBN
29899	236	6	to	to	TO
29899	236	7	bring	bring	VB
29899	236	8	about	about	RP
29899	236	9	_	_	NNP
29899	236	10	couple	couple	NN
29899	236	11	_	_	NNP
29899	236	12	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	236	13	--	--	:
29899	236	14	sometimes	sometimes	RB
29899	236	15	for	for	IN
29899	236	16	all	all	PDT
29899	236	17	the	the	DT
29899	236	18	couples	couple	NNS
29899	236	19	in	in	IN
29899	236	20	the	the	DT
29899	236	21	group	group	NN
29899	236	22	together	together	RB
29899	236	23	,	,	,
29899	236	24	sometimes	sometimes	RB
29899	236	25	for	for	IN
29899	236	26	one	one	CD
29899	236	27	couple	couple	NN
29899	236	28	at	at	IN
29899	236	29	a	a	DT
29899	236	30	time	time	NN
29899	236	31	.	.	.
29899	237	1	A	a	DT
29899	237	2	good	good	JJ
29899	237	3	example	example	NN
29899	237	4	is	be	VBZ
29899	237	5	asking	ask	VBG
29899	237	6	each	each	DT
29899	237	7	couple	couple	NN
29899	237	8	to	to	TO
29899	237	9	draw	draw	VB
29899	237	10	a	a	DT
29899	237	11	picture	picture	NN
29899	237	12	of	of	IN
29899	237	13	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	237	14	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	237	15	.	.	.
29899	238	1	Paper	paper	NN
29899	238	2	and	and	CC
29899	238	3	crayons	crayon	NNS
29899	238	4	are	be	VBP
29899	238	5	made	make	VBN
29899	238	6	available	available	JJ
29899	238	7	,	,	,
29899	238	8	and	and	CC
29899	238	9	the	the	DT
29899	238	10	couples	couple	NNS
29899	238	11	scatter	scatter	NN
29899	238	12	about	about	IN
29899	238	13	the	the	DT
29899	238	14	room	room	NN
29899	238	15	and	and	CC
29899	238	16	work	work	VB
29899	238	17	on	on	IN
29899	238	18	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	238	19	pictures	picture	NNS
29899	238	20	.	.	.
29899	239	1	They	-PRON-	PRP
29899	239	2	may	may	MD
29899	239	3	choose	choose	VB
29899	239	4	to	to	TO
29899	239	5	do	do	VB
29899	239	6	this	this	DT
29899	239	7	verbally	verbally	RB
29899	239	8	(	(	-LRB-
29899	239	9	discussing	discuss	VBG
29899	239	10	the	the	DT
29899	239	11	drawing	drawing	NN
29899	239	12	together	together	RB
29899	239	13	as	as	IN
29899	239	14	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	239	15	go	go	VBP
29899	239	16	along	along	RB
29899	239	17	)	)	-RRB-
29899	239	18	or	or	CC
29899	239	19	non	non	NNS
29899	239	20	-	-	JJ
29899	239	21	verbally	verbally	RB
29899	239	22	(	(	-LRB-
29899	239	23	working	work	VBG
29899	239	24	at	at	IN
29899	239	25	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	239	26	together	together	RB
29899	239	27	in	in	IN
29899	239	28	silence	silence	NN
29899	239	29	)	)	-RRB-
29899	239	30	.	.	.
29899	240	1	When	when	WRB
29899	240	2	all	all	DT
29899	240	3	have	have	VBP
29899	240	4	finished	finish	VBN
29899	240	5	,	,	,
29899	240	6	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	240	7	come	come	VBP
29899	240	8	back	back	RB
29899	240	9	to	to	IN
29899	240	10	the	the	DT
29899	240	11	circle	circle	NN
29899	240	12	of	of	IN
29899	240	13	chairs	chair	NNS
29899	240	14	,	,	,
29899	240	15	and	and	CC
29899	240	16	each	each	DT
29899	240	17	couple	couple	NN
29899	240	18	in	in	IN
29899	240	19	turn	turn	NN
29899	240	20	lays	lay	VBZ
29899	240	21	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	240	22	picture	picture	NN
29899	240	23	on	on	IN
29899	240	24	the	the	DT
29899	240	25	floor	floor	NN
29899	240	26	and	and	CC
29899	240	27	explains	explain	VBZ
29899	240	28	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	240	29	to	to	IN
29899	240	30	the	the	DT
29899	240	31	group	group	NN
29899	240	32	.	.	.
29899	241	1	This	this	DT
29899	241	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	241	3	an	an	DT
29899	241	4	activity	activity	NN
29899	241	5	the	the	DT
29899	241	6	couples	couple	NNS
29899	241	7	always	always	RB
29899	241	8	seem	seem	VBP
29899	241	9	to	to	TO
29899	241	10	enjoy	enjoy	VB
29899	241	11	;	;	:
29899	241	12	and	and	CC
29899	241	13	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	241	14	enables	enable	VBZ
29899	241	15	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	241	16	to	to	TO
29899	241	17	learn	learn	VB
29899	241	18	a	a	DT
29899	241	19	good	good	JJ
29899	241	20	deal	deal	NN
29899	241	21	about	about	IN
29899	241	22	each	each	DT
29899	241	23	other	other	JJ
29899	241	24	.	.	.
29899	242	1	The	the	DT
29899	242	2	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	242	3	,	,	,
29899	242	4	of	of	IN
29899	242	5	course	course	NN
29899	242	6	,	,	,
29899	242	7	also	also	RB
29899	242	8	draw	draw	VB
29899	242	9	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	242	10	picture	picture	NN
29899	242	11	,	,	,
29899	242	12	and	and	CC
29899	242	13	display	display	VB
29899	242	14	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	242	15	with	with	IN
29899	242	16	the	the	DT
29899	242	17	others	other	NNS
29899	242	18	.	.	.
29899	243	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	243	2	have	have	VBP
29899	243	3	accumulated	accumulate	VBN
29899	243	4	quite	quite	PDT
29899	243	5	a	a	DT
29899	243	6	collection	collection	NN
29899	243	7	!	!	.
29899	244	1	One	one	CD
29899	244	2	of	of	IN
29899	244	3	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	244	4	trainee	trainee	JJ
29899	244	5	couples	couple	NNS
29899	244	6	introduced	introduce	VBD
29899	244	7	dancing	dance	VBG
29899	244	8	.	.	.
29899	245	1	Lights	light	NNS
29899	245	2	are	be	VBP
29899	245	3	dimmed	dim	VBN
29899	245	4	in	in	IN
29899	245	5	the	the	DT
29899	245	6	room	room	NN
29899	245	7	,	,	,
29899	245	8	a	a	DT
29899	245	9	record	record	NN
29899	245	10	is	be	VBZ
29899	245	11	played	play	VBN
29899	245	12	,	,	,
29899	245	13	and	and	CC
29899	245	14	all	all	PDT
29899	245	15	the	the	DT
29899	245	16	couples	couple	NNS
29899	245	17	dance	dance	NN
29899	245	18	,	,	,
29899	245	19	each	each	DT
29899	245	20	couple	couple	NN
29899	245	21	improvising	improvise	VBG
29899	245	22	whatever	whatever	WDT
29899	245	23	movements	movement	NNS
29899	245	24	express	express	VBP
29899	245	25	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	245	26	mood	mood	NN
29899	245	27	.	.	.
29899	246	1	They	-PRON-	PRP
29899	246	2	then	then	RB
29899	246	3	sit	sit	VBP
29899	246	4	round	round	RB
29899	246	5	and	and	CC
29899	246	6	report	report	VB
29899	246	7	on	on	IN
29899	246	8	what	what	WP
29899	246	9	the	the	DT
29899	246	10	experiment	experiment	NN
29899	246	11	meant	mean	VBD
29899	246	12	to	to	IN
29899	246	13	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	246	14	.	.	.
29899	247	1	Occasionally	occasionally	RB
29899	247	2	when	when	WRB
29899	247	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	247	4	are	be	VBP
29899	247	5	faced	face	VBN
29899	247	6	with	with	IN
29899	247	7	a	a	DT
29899	247	8	controversial	controversial	JJ
29899	247	9	subject	subject	NN
29899	247	10	(	(	-LRB-
29899	247	11	for	for	IN
29899	247	12	example	example	NN
29899	247	13	,	,	,
29899	247	14	"	"	``
29899	247	15	How	how	WRB
29899	247	16	far	far	RB
29899	247	17	are	be	VBP
29899	247	18	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	247	19	prepared	prepared	JJ
29899	247	20	to	to	TO
29899	247	21	allow	allow	VB
29899	247	22	your	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	247	23	partner	partner	NN
29899	247	24	to	to	TO
29899	247	25	go	go	VB
29899	247	26	in	in	IN
29899	247	27	friendships	friendship	NNS
29899	247	28	with	with	IN
29899	247	29	the	the	DT
29899	247	30	opposite	opposite	JJ
29899	247	31	sex	sex	NN
29899	247	32	?	?	.
29899	248	1	")	")	``
29899	248	2	,	,	,
29899	248	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	248	4	might	may	MD
29899	248	5	ask	ask	VB
29899	248	6	all	all	PDT
29899	248	7	the	the	DT
29899	248	8	couples	couple	NNS
29899	248	9	to	to	TO
29899	248	10	discuss	discuss	VB
29899	248	11	this	this	DT
29899	248	12	privately	privately	RB
29899	248	13	together	together	RB
29899	248	14	for	for	IN
29899	248	15	ten	ten	CD
29899	248	16	minutes	minute	NNS
29899	248	17	,	,	,
29899	248	18	and	and	CC
29899	248	19	then	then	RB
29899	248	20	report	report	VB
29899	248	21	to	to	IN
29899	248	22	the	the	DT
29899	248	23	whole	whole	JJ
29899	248	24	group	group	NN
29899	248	25	what	what	WP
29899	248	26	conclusions	conclusion	NNS
29899	248	27	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	248	28	have	have	VBP
29899	248	29	reached	reach	VBN
29899	248	30	.	.	.
29899	249	1	Another	another	DT
29899	249	2	kind	kind	NN
29899	249	3	of	of	IN
29899	249	4	exercise	exercise	NN
29899	249	5	is	be	VBZ
29899	249	6	what	what	WP
29899	249	7	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	249	8	call	call	VBP
29899	249	9	"	"	``
29899	249	10	dialogues	dialogue	NNS
29899	249	11	.	.	.
29899	249	12	"	"	''
29899	250	1	A	a	DT
29899	250	2	volunteer	volunteer	NN
29899	250	3	couple	couple	NN
29899	250	4	sit	sit	VBP
29899	250	5	in	in	IN
29899	250	6	the	the	DT
29899	250	7	center	center	NN
29899	250	8	on	on	IN
29899	250	9	chairs	chair	NNS
29899	250	10	or	or	CC
29899	250	11	on	on	IN
29899	250	12	the	the	DT
29899	250	13	floor	floor	NN
29899	250	14	facing	face	VBG
29899	250	15	each	each	DT
29899	250	16	other	other	JJ
29899	250	17	,	,	,
29899	250	18	and	and	CC
29899	250	19	talk	talk	VB
29899	250	20	back	back	RB
29899	250	21	and	and	CC
29899	250	22	forth	forth	RB
29899	250	23	on	on	IN
29899	250	24	a	a	DT
29899	250	25	subject	subject	NN
29899	250	26	chosen	choose	VBN
29899	250	27	by	by	IN
29899	250	28	the	the	DT
29899	250	29	group	group	NN
29899	250	30	but	but	CC
29899	250	31	accepted	accept	VBN
29899	250	32	by	by	IN
29899	250	33	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	250	34	.	.	.
29899	251	1	Some	some	DT
29899	251	2	topics	topic	NNS
29899	251	3	have	have	VBP
29899	251	4	been	be	VBN
29899	251	5	"	"	``
29899	251	6	How	how	WRB
29899	251	7	do	do	VBP
29899	251	8	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	251	9	deal	deal	VB
29899	251	10	with	with	IN
29899	251	11	conflict	conflict	NN
29899	251	12	in	in	IN
29899	251	13	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	251	14	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	251	15	?	?	.
29899	252	1	"	"	``
29899	252	2	;	;	:
29899	252	3	"	"	``
29899	252	4	How	how	WRB
29899	252	5	do	do	VBP
29899	252	6	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	252	7	overcome	overcome	VB
29899	252	8	fears	fear	NNS
29899	252	9	of	of	IN
29899	252	10	intimacy	intimacy	NN
29899	252	11	?	?	.
29899	253	1	"	"	``
29899	253	2	;	;	:
29899	253	3	"	"	``
29899	253	4	What	what	WP
29899	253	5	are	be	VBP
29899	253	6	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	253	7	procedures	procedure	NNS
29899	253	8	in	in	IN
29899	253	9	decision	decision	NN
29899	253	10	-	-	HYPH
29899	253	11	making	making	NN
29899	253	12	?	?	.
29899	254	1	"	"	``
29899	254	2	;	;	:
29899	254	3	"	"	``
29899	254	4	How	how	WRB
29899	254	5	do	do	VBP
29899	254	6	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	254	7	meet	meet	VB
29899	254	8	each	each	DT
29899	254	9	other	other	JJ
29899	254	10	's	's	POS
29899	254	11	dependency	dependency	NN
29899	254	12	needs	need	NNS
29899	254	13	?	?	.
29899	254	14	"	"	''
29899	255	1	The	the	DT
29899	255	2	subject	subject	NN
29899	255	3	should	should	MD
29899	255	4	of	of	IN
29899	255	5	course	course	NN
29899	255	6	focus	focus	NN
29899	255	7	on	on	IN
29899	255	8	husband	husband	NN
29899	255	9	-	-	HYPH
29899	255	10	wife	wife	NN
29899	255	11	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	255	12	.	.	.
29899	256	1	It	-PRON-	PRP
29899	256	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	256	3	best	good	JJS
29899	256	4	for	for	IN
29899	256	5	the	the	DT
29899	256	6	interchange	interchange	NN
29899	256	7	between	between	IN
29899	256	8	the	the	DT
29899	256	9	couple	couple	NN
29899	256	10	to	to	TO
29899	256	11	be	be	VB
29899	256	12	slow	slow	JJ
29899	256	13	and	and	CC
29899	256	14	deliberate	deliberate	JJ
29899	256	15	.	.	.
29899	257	1	Indeed	indeed	RB
29899	257	2	,	,	,
29899	257	3	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	257	4	is	be	VBZ
29899	257	5	helpful	helpful	JJ
29899	257	6	for	for	IN
29899	257	7	each	each	DT
29899	257	8	to	to	TO
29899	257	9	allow	allow	VB
29899	257	10	a	a	DT
29899	257	11	period	period	NN
29899	257	12	of	of	IN
29899	257	13	silence	silence	NN
29899	257	14	before	before	IN
29899	257	15	replying	reply	VBG
29899	257	16	to	to	IN
29899	257	17	the	the	DT
29899	257	18	other	other	JJ
29899	257	19	(	(	-LRB-
29899	257	20	learning	learn	VBG
29899	257	21	to	to	TO
29899	257	22	pause	pause	VB
29899	257	23	in	in	IN
29899	257	24	this	this	DT
29899	257	25	way	way	NN
29899	257	26	is	be	VBZ
29899	257	27	a	a	DT
29899	257	28	very	very	RB
29899	257	29	helpful	helpful	JJ
29899	257	30	means	mean	NNS
29899	257	31	of	of	IN
29899	257	32	making	make	VBG
29899	257	33	husband	husband	NN
29899	257	34	-	-	HYPH
29899	257	35	wife	wife	NN
29899	257	36	discussions	discussion	NNS
29899	257	37	more	more	RBR
29899	257	38	effective	effective	JJ
29899	257	39	)	)	-RRB-
29899	257	40	.	.	.
29899	258	1	Sometimes	sometimes	RB
29899	258	2	two	two	CD
29899	258	3	or	or	CC
29899	258	4	three	three	CD
29899	258	5	couples	couple	NNS
29899	258	6	may	may	MD
29899	258	7	volunteer	volunteer	VB
29899	258	8	;	;	:
29899	258	9	all	all	DT
29899	258	10	sit	sit	VBP
29899	258	11	in	in	IN
29899	258	12	the	the	DT
29899	258	13	center	center	NN
29899	258	14	of	of	IN
29899	258	15	the	the	DT
29899	258	16	circle	circle	NN
29899	258	17	(	(	-LRB-
29899	258	18	the	the	DT
29899	258	19	"	"	``
29899	258	20	fishbowl	fishbowl	NN
29899	258	21	,	,	,
29899	258	22	"	"	''
29899	258	23	as	as	IN
29899	258	24	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	258	25	is	be	VBZ
29899	258	26	sometimes	sometimes	RB
29899	258	27	called	call	VBN
29899	258	28	)	)	-RRB-
29899	258	29	and	and	CC
29899	258	30	the	the	DT
29899	258	31	dialogue	dialogue	NN
29899	258	32	is	be	VBZ
29899	258	33	taken	take	VBN
29899	258	34	up	up	RP
29899	258	35	by	by	IN
29899	258	36	each	each	DT
29899	258	37	in	in	IN
29899	258	38	turn	turn	NN
29899	258	39	.	.	.
29899	259	1	While	while	IN
29899	259	2	the	the	DT
29899	259	3	dialogue	dialogue	NN
29899	259	4	is	be	VBZ
29899	259	5	going	go	VBG
29899	259	6	on	on	RP
29899	259	7	,	,	,
29899	259	8	other	other	JJ
29899	259	9	members	member	NNS
29899	259	10	of	of	IN
29899	259	11	the	the	DT
29899	259	12	group	group	NN
29899	259	13	should	should	MD
29899	259	14	not	not	RB
29899	259	15	intervene	intervene	VB
29899	259	16	or	or	CC
29899	259	17	in	in	IN
29899	259	18	any	any	DT
29899	259	19	way	way	NN
29899	259	20	act	act	NN
29899	259	21	as	as	IN
29899	259	22	an	an	DT
29899	259	23	"	"	``
29899	259	24	audience	audience	NN
29899	259	25	.	.	.
29899	259	26	"	"	''
29899	260	1	The	the	DT
29899	260	2	general	general	JJ
29899	260	3	discussion	discussion	NN
29899	260	4	comes	come	VBZ
29899	260	5	afterwards	afterwards	RB
29899	260	6	,	,	,
29899	260	7	and	and	CC
29899	260	8	provides	provide	VBZ
29899	260	9	an	an	DT
29899	260	10	opportunity	opportunity	NN
29899	260	11	for	for	IN
29899	260	12	others	other	NNS
29899	260	13	who	who	WP
29899	260	14	identified	identify	VBD
29899	260	15	with	with	IN
29899	260	16	the	the	DT
29899	260	17	couples	couple	NNS
29899	260	18	in	in	IN
29899	260	19	dialogue	dialogue	NN
29899	260	20	to	to	TO
29899	260	21	share	share	VB
29899	260	22	what	what	WP
29899	260	23	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	260	24	felt	feel	VBD
29899	260	25	.	.	.
29899	261	1	An	an	DT
29899	261	2	interesting	interesting	JJ
29899	261	3	variant	variant	NN
29899	261	4	is	be	VBZ
29899	261	5	to	to	TO
29899	261	6	ask	ask	VB
29899	261	7	if	if	IN
29899	261	8	another	another	DT
29899	261	9	couple	couple	NN
29899	261	10	will	will	MD
29899	261	11	volunteer	volunteer	VB
29899	261	12	to	to	TO
29899	261	13	sit	sit	VB
29899	261	14	with	with	IN
29899	261	15	the	the	DT
29899	261	16	couple	couple	NN
29899	261	17	involved	involve	VBN
29899	261	18	in	in	IN
29899	261	19	dialogue	dialogue	NN
29899	261	20	,	,	,
29899	261	21	and	and	CC
29899	261	22	to	to	TO
29899	261	23	function	function	VB
29899	261	24	as	as	IN
29899	261	25	_	_	NNP
29899	261	26	alter	alter	NN
29899	261	27	egos	ego	VBZ
29899	261	28	_	_	NNP
29899	261	29	(	(	-LRB-
29899	261	30	Latin	Latin	NNP
29899	261	31	for	for	IN
29899	261	32	"	"	``
29899	261	33	other	other	JJ
29899	261	34	selves	self	NNS
29899	261	35	"	"	''
29899	261	36	)	)	-RRB-
29899	261	37	.	.	.
29899	262	1	The	the	DT
29899	262	2	_	_	NNP
29899	262	3	alter	alter	NN
29899	262	4	ego	ego	NN
29899	262	5	_	_	NNP
29899	262	6	on	on	IN
29899	262	7	each	each	DT
29899	262	8	side	side	NN
29899	262	9	listens	listen	VBZ
29899	262	10	carefully	carefully	RB
29899	262	11	to	to	IN
29899	262	12	what	what	WP
29899	262	13	is	be	VBZ
29899	262	14	going	go	VBG
29899	262	15	on	on	RP
29899	262	16	,	,	,
29899	262	17	and	and	CC
29899	262	18	intervenes	intervene	NNS
29899	262	19	from	from	IN
29899	262	20	time	time	NN
29899	262	21	to	to	IN
29899	262	22	time	time	NN
29899	262	23	to	to	TO
29899	262	24	verbalize	verbalize	VB
29899	262	25	deeper	deep	JJR
29899	262	26	levels	level	NNS
29899	262	27	of	of	IN
29899	262	28	communication	communication	NN
29899	262	29	and	and	CC
29899	262	30	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	262	31	that	that	WDT
29899	262	32	are	be	VBP
29899	262	33	not	not	RB
29899	262	34	being	be	VBG
29899	262	35	expressed	express	VBN
29899	262	36	in	in	IN
29899	262	37	words	word	NNS
29899	262	38	.	.	.
29899	263	1	Playing	play	VBG
29899	263	2	the	the	DT
29899	263	3	_	_	NNP
29899	263	4	alter	alter	NN
29899	263	5	ego	ego	NN
29899	263	6	_	_	NNP
29899	263	7	role	role	NN
29899	263	8	requires	require	VBZ
29899	263	9	some	some	DT
29899	263	10	insight	insight	NN
29899	263	11	and	and	CC
29899	263	12	skill	skill	NN
29899	263	13	,	,	,
29899	263	14	but	but	CC
29899	263	15	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	263	16	is	be	VBZ
29899	263	17	highly	highly	RB
29899	263	18	effective	effective	JJ
29899	263	19	when	when	WRB
29899	263	20	well	well	RB
29899	263	21	done	do	VBN
29899	263	22	.	.	.
29899	264	1	Another	another	DT
29899	264	2	exercise	exercise	NN
29899	264	3	for	for	IN
29899	264	4	individual	individual	JJ
29899	264	5	couples	couple	NNS
29899	264	6	is	be	VBZ
29899	264	7	"	"	``
29899	264	8	positive	positive	JJ
29899	264	9	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	264	10	.	.	.
29899	264	11	"	"	''
29899	265	1	A	a	DT
29899	265	2	very	very	RB
29899	265	3	simple	simple	JJ
29899	265	4	device	device	NN
29899	265	5	,	,	,
29899	265	6	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	265	7	is	be	VBZ
29899	265	8	usually	usually	RB
29899	265	9	highly	highly	RB
29899	265	10	effective	effective	JJ
29899	265	11	and	and	CC
29899	265	12	often	often	RB
29899	265	13	deeply	deeply	RB
29899	265	14	moving	move	VBG
29899	265	15	.	.	.
29899	266	1	For	for	IN
29899	266	2	this	this	DT
29899	266	3	reason	reason	NN
29899	266	4	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	266	5	often	often	RB
29899	266	6	make	make	VBP
29899	266	7	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	266	8	the	the	DT
29899	266	9	last	last	JJ
29899	266	10	activity	activity	NN
29899	266	11	on	on	IN
29899	266	12	Saturday	Saturday	NNP
29899	266	13	evening	evening	NN
29899	266	14	.	.	.
29899	267	1	It	-PRON-	PRP
29899	267	2	can	can	MD
29899	267	3	either	either	CC
29899	267	4	be	be	VB
29899	267	5	carried	carry	VBN
29899	267	6	out	out	RP
29899	267	7	by	by	IN
29899	267	8	about	about	RB
29899	267	9	three	three	CD
29899	267	10	volunteer	volunteer	NN
29899	267	11	couples	couple	NNS
29899	267	12	,	,	,
29899	267	13	or	or	CC
29899	267	14	all	all	DT
29899	267	15	couples	couple	NNS
29899	267	16	may	may	MD
29899	267	17	agree	agree	VB
29899	267	18	to	to	TO
29899	267	19	take	take	VB
29899	267	20	turns	turn	NNS
29899	267	21	.	.	.
29899	268	1	The	the	DT
29899	268	2	couple	couple	NN
29899	268	3	sit	sit	VBP
29899	268	4	facing	face	VBG
29899	268	5	each	each	DT
29899	268	6	other	other	JJ
29899	268	7	,	,	,
29899	268	8	holding	hold	VBG
29899	268	9	hands	hand	NNS
29899	268	10	,	,	,
29899	268	11	and	and	CC
29899	268	12	are	be	VBP
29899	268	13	asked	ask	VBN
29899	268	14	to	to	TO
29899	268	15	tell	tell	VB
29899	268	16	each	each	DT
29899	268	17	other	other	JJ
29899	268	18	,	,	,
29899	268	19	simply	simply	RB
29899	268	20	and	and	CC
29899	268	21	directly	directly	RB
29899	268	22	,	,	,
29899	268	23	what	what	WP
29899	268	24	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	268	25	specially	specially	RB
29899	268	26	like	like	VBP
29899	268	27	about	about	IN
29899	268	28	each	each	DT
29899	268	29	other	other	JJ
29899	268	30	,	,	,
29899	268	31	being	be	VBG
29899	268	32	as	as	RB
29899	268	33	specific	specific	JJ
29899	268	34	as	as	IN
29899	268	35	possible	possible	JJ
29899	268	36	.	.	.
29899	269	1	Surprisingly	surprisingly	RB
29899	269	2	,	,	,
29899	269	3	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	269	4	turns	turn	VBZ
29899	269	5	out	out	RP
29899	269	6	that	that	IN
29899	269	7	very	very	RB
29899	269	8	few	few	JJ
29899	269	9	couples	couple	NNS
29899	269	10	have	have	VBP
29899	269	11	ever	ever	RB
29899	269	12	done	do	VBN
29899	269	13	this	this	DT
29899	269	14	before	before	RB
29899	269	15	,	,	,
29899	269	16	and	and	CC
29899	269	17	everyone	everyone	NN
29899	269	18	finds	find	VBZ
29899	269	19	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	269	20	a	a	DT
29899	269	21	heartwarming	heartwarming	JJ
29899	269	22	experience	experience	NN
29899	269	23	.	.	.
29899	270	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	270	2	think	think	VBP
29899	270	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	270	4	have	have	VBP
29899	270	5	encountered	encounter	VBN
29899	270	6	here	here	RB
29899	270	7	another	another	DT
29899	270	8	taboo	taboo	NN
29899	270	9	in	in	IN
29899	270	10	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	270	11	society	society	NN
29899	270	12	--	--	:
29899	270	13	married	married	JJ
29899	270	14	couples	couple	NNS
29899	270	15	spend	spend	VBP
29899	270	16	infinitely	infinitely	RB
29899	270	17	more	more	JJR
29899	270	18	time	time	NN
29899	270	19	telling	tell	VBG
29899	270	20	each	each	DT
29899	270	21	other	other	JJ
29899	270	22	what	what	WP
29899	270	23	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	270	24	_	_	NNP
29899	270	25	do	do	VBP
29899	270	26	n't	not	RB
29899	270	27	_	_	VB
29899	270	28	like	like	UH
29899	270	29	about	about	IN
29899	270	30	each	each	DT
29899	270	31	other	other	JJ
29899	270	32	than	than	IN
29899	270	33	what	what	WP
29899	270	34	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	270	35	_	_	NNP
29899	270	36	do	do	VBP
29899	270	37	_	_	NNP
29899	270	38	like	like	UH
29899	270	39	.	.	.
29899	271	1	Most	Most	JJS
29899	271	2	of	of	IN
29899	271	3	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	271	4	have	have	VBP
29899	271	5	a	a	DT
29899	271	6	strangely	strangely	RB
29899	271	7	inhibited	inhibited	JJ
29899	271	8	self	self	NN
29899	271	9	-	-	HYPH
29899	271	10	consciousness	consciousness	NN
29899	271	11	about	about	IN
29899	271	12	spelling	spell	VBG
29899	271	13	out	out	RP
29899	271	14	in	in	IN
29899	271	15	detail	detail	NN
29899	271	16	what	what	WP
29899	271	17	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	271	18	mean	mean	VBP
29899	271	19	by	by	IN
29899	271	20	"	"	``
29899	271	21	I	-PRON-	PRP
29899	271	22	love	love	VBP
29899	271	23	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	271	24	.	.	.
29899	271	25	"	"	''
29899	272	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	272	2	generally	generally	RB
29899	272	3	conclude	conclude	VBP
29899	272	4	the	the	DT
29899	272	5	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	272	6	with	with	IN
29899	272	7	a	a	DT
29899	272	8	short	short	JJ
29899	272	9	session	session	NN
29899	272	10	of	of	IN
29899	272	11	perhaps	perhaps	RB
29899	272	12	half	half	PDT
29899	272	13	an	an	DT
29899	272	14	hour	hour	NN
29899	272	15	in	in	IN
29899	272	16	which	which	WDT
29899	272	17	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	272	18	share	share	VBP
29899	272	19	with	with	IN
29899	272	20	each	each	DT
29899	272	21	other	other	JJ
29899	272	22	new	new	JJ
29899	272	23	insights	insight	NNS
29899	272	24	and	and	CC
29899	272	25	the	the	DT
29899	272	26	rewarding	rewarding	JJ
29899	272	27	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	272	28	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	272	29	have	have	VBP
29899	272	30	had	have	VBN
29899	272	31	together	together	RB
29899	272	32	.	.	.
29899	273	1	This	this	DT
29899	273	2	may	may	MD
29899	273	3	appropriately	appropriately	RB
29899	273	4	be	be	VB
29899	273	5	followed	follow	VBN
29899	273	6	by	by	IN
29899	273	7	a	a	DT
29899	273	8	Quaker	Quaker	NNP
29899	273	9	meeting	meeting	NN
29899	273	10	for	for	IN
29899	273	11	worship	worship	NN
29899	273	12	.	.	.
29899	274	1	These	these	DT
29899	274	2	exercises	exercise	NNS
29899	274	3	are	be	VBP
29899	274	4	no	no	RB
29899	274	5	more	more	JJR
29899	274	6	than	than	IN
29899	274	7	illustrations	illustration	NNS
29899	274	8	.	.	.
29899	275	1	Leading	lead	VBG
29899	275	2	couples	couple	NNS
29899	275	3	are	be	VBP
29899	275	4	inventing	invent	VBG
29899	275	5	new	new	JJ
29899	275	6	ones	one	NNS
29899	275	7	all	all	PDT
29899	275	8	the	the	DT
29899	275	9	time	time	NN
29899	275	10	,	,	,
29899	275	11	and	and	CC
29899	275	12	there	there	EX
29899	275	13	seems	seem	VBZ
29899	275	14	to	to	TO
29899	275	15	be	be	VB
29899	275	16	no	no	DT
29899	275	17	limit	limit	NN
29899	275	18	to	to	IN
29899	275	19	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	275	20	ingenuity	ingenuity	NN
29899	275	21	.	.	.
29899	276	1	The	the	DT
29899	276	2	books	book	NNS
29899	276	3	by	by	IN
29899	276	4	Herbert	Herbert	NNP
29899	276	5	Otto	Otto	NNP
29899	276	6	and	and	CC
29899	276	7	Gerald	Gerald	NNP
29899	276	8	Smith	Smith	NNP
29899	276	9	,	,	,
29899	276	10	listed	list	VBN
29899	276	11	in	in	IN
29899	276	12	the	the	DT
29899	276	13	bibliography	bibliography	NN
29899	276	14	,	,	,
29899	276	15	are	be	VBP
29899	276	16	full	full	JJ
29899	276	17	of	of	IN
29899	276	18	good	good	JJ
29899	276	19	ideas	idea	NNS
29899	276	20	.	.	.
29899	277	1	In	in	IN
29899	277	2	essence	essence	NN
29899	277	3	,	,	,
29899	277	4	these	these	DT
29899	277	5	were	be	VBD
29899	277	6	the	the	DT
29899	277	7	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	277	8	in	in	IN
29899	277	9	which	which	WDT
29899	277	10	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	277	11	and	and	CC
29899	277	12	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	277	13	nine	nine	CD
29899	277	14	trainee	trainee	JJ
29899	277	15	couples	couple	NNS
29899	277	16	were	be	VBD
29899	277	17	involved	involve	VBN
29899	277	18	during	during	IN
29899	277	19	the	the	DT
29899	277	20	crowded	crowded	JJ
29899	277	21	hours	hour	NNS
29899	277	22	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	277	23	spent	spend	VBD
29899	277	24	together	together	RB
29899	277	25	at	at	IN
29899	277	26	Pendle	Pendle	NNP
29899	277	27	Hill	Hill	NNP
29899	277	28	.	.	.
29899	278	1	Before	before	IN
29899	278	2	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	278	3	took	take	VBD
29899	278	4	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	278	5	departure	departure	NN
29899	278	6	,	,	,
29899	278	7	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	278	8	enjoined	enjoin	VBD
29899	278	9	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	278	10	not	not	RB
29899	278	11	to	to	TO
29899	278	12	try	try	VB
29899	278	13	to	to	TO
29899	278	14	repeat	repeat	VB
29899	278	15	anything	anything	NN
29899	278	16	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	278	17	had	have	VBD
29899	278	18	done	do	VBN
29899	278	19	unless	unless	IN
29899	278	20	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	278	21	could	could	MD
29899	278	22	do	do	VB
29899	278	23	so	so	RB
29899	278	24	entirely	entirely	RB
29899	278	25	naturally	naturally	RB
29899	278	26	and	and	CC
29899	278	27	comfortably	comfortably	RB
29899	278	28	.	.	.
29899	279	1	They	-PRON-	PRP
29899	279	2	would	would	MD
29899	279	3	develop	develop	VB
29899	279	4	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	279	5	own	own	JJ
29899	279	6	patterns	pattern	NNS
29899	279	7	of	of	IN
29899	279	8	leadership	leadership	NN
29899	279	9	,	,	,
29899	279	10	and	and	CC
29899	279	11	these	these	DT
29899	279	12	would	would	MD
29899	279	13	be	be	VB
29899	279	14	more	more	RBR
29899	279	15	effective	effective	JJ
29899	279	16	than	than	IN
29899	279	17	anything	anything	NN
29899	279	18	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	279	19	had	have	VBD
29899	279	20	taught	teach	VBN
29899	279	21	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	279	22	.	.	.
29899	280	1	EVALUATION	EVALUATION	NNS
29899	280	2	AND	and	CC
29899	280	3	REAFFIRMATION	reaffirmation	VB
29899	280	4	The	the	DT
29899	280	5	follow	follow	NN
29899	280	6	-	-	HYPH
29899	280	7	up	up	NN
29899	280	8	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	280	9	at	at	IN
29899	280	10	Pendle	Pendle	NNP
29899	280	11	Hill	Hill	NNP
29899	280	12	was	be	VBD
29899	280	13	much	much	RB
29899	280	14	more	more	JJR
29899	280	15	than	than	IN
29899	280	16	a	a	DT
29899	280	17	reunion	reunion	NN
29899	280	18	or	or	CC
29899	280	19	season	season	NN
29899	280	20	of	of	IN
29899	280	21	rejoicing	rejoice	VBG
29899	280	22	.	.	.
29899	281	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	281	2	undertook	undertake	VBD
29899	281	3	together	together	RB
29899	281	4	an	an	DT
29899	281	5	intensive	intensive	JJ
29899	281	6	evaluation	evaluation	NN
29899	281	7	of	of	IN
29899	281	8	what	what	WP
29899	281	9	had	have	VBD
29899	281	10	been	be	VBN
29899	281	11	experienced	experience	VBN
29899	281	12	.	.	.
29899	282	1	One	one	CD
29899	282	2	couple	couple	NN
29899	282	3	,	,	,
29899	282	4	for	for	IN
29899	282	5	example	example	NN
29899	282	6	,	,	,
29899	282	7	had	have	VBD
29899	282	8	had	have	VBN
29899	282	9	to	to	TO
29899	282	10	cope	cope	VB
29899	282	11	with	with	IN
29899	282	12	a	a	DT
29899	282	13	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	282	14	in	in	IN
29899	282	15	serious	serious	JJ
29899	282	16	conflict	conflict	NN
29899	282	17	so	so	RB
29899	282	18	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	282	19	set	set	VBP
29899	282	20	up	up	RP
29899	282	21	a	a	DT
29899	282	22	role	role	NN
29899	282	23	-	-	HYPH
29899	282	24	playing	play	VBG
29899	282	25	re	re	NN
29899	282	26	-	-	NN
29899	282	27	enactment	enactment	NN
29899	282	28	of	of	IN
29899	282	29	the	the	DT
29899	282	30	situation	situation	NN
29899	282	31	to	to	TO
29899	282	32	serve	serve	VB
29899	282	33	as	as	IN
29899	282	34	a	a	DT
29899	282	35	learning	learning	NN
29899	282	36	experience	experience	NN
29899	282	37	for	for	IN
29899	282	38	the	the	DT
29899	282	39	whole	whole	JJ
29899	282	40	group	group	NN
29899	282	41	.	.	.
29899	283	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	283	2	also	also	RB
29899	283	3	tried	try	VBD
29899	283	4	to	to	TO
29899	283	5	pool	pool	VB
29899	283	6	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	283	7	ideas	idea	NNS
29899	283	8	about	about	IN
29899	283	9	the	the	DT
29899	283	10	best	good	JJS
29899	283	11	way	way	NN
29899	283	12	to	to	TO
29899	283	13	plan	plan	VB
29899	283	14	and	and	CC
29899	283	15	lead	lead	VB
29899	283	16	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	283	17	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	283	18	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	283	19	.	.	.
29899	284	1	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	284	2	agenda	agenda	NN
29899	284	3	covered	cover	VBD
29899	284	4	the	the	DT
29899	284	5	following	follow	VBG
29899	284	6	areas	area	NNS
29899	284	7	:	:	:
29899	284	8	_	_	NNP
29899	284	9	Organizing	organize	VBG
29899	284	10	the	the	DT
29899	284	11	Retreat	Retreat	NNP
29899	284	12	.	.	.
29899	284	13	_	_	NNP
29899	284	14	Time	Time	NNP
29899	284	15	,	,	,
29899	284	16	place	place	NN
29899	284	17	,	,	,
29899	284	18	cost	cost	NN
29899	284	19	,	,	,
29899	284	20	recruitment	recruitment	NN
29899	284	21	of	of	IN
29899	284	22	couples	couple	NNS
29899	284	23	,	,	,
29899	284	24	size	size	NN
29899	284	25	of	of	IN
29899	284	26	group	group	NN
29899	284	27	,	,	,
29899	284	28	preparatory	preparatory	JJ
29899	284	29	materials	material	NNS
29899	284	30	.	.	.
29899	285	1	_	_	NNP
29899	285	2	Methods	Methods	NNPS
29899	285	3	and	and	CC
29899	285	4	Techniques	Techniques	NNPS
29899	285	5	.	.	.
29899	285	6	_	_	NNP
29899	285	7	Introductions	Introductions	NNPS
29899	285	8	,	,	,
29899	285	9	agenda	agenda	NN
29899	285	10	,	,	,
29899	285	11	directing	direct	VBG
29899	285	12	discussion	discussion	NN
29899	285	13	,	,	,
29899	285	14	dividing	divide	VBG
29899	285	15	up	up	RP
29899	285	16	,	,	,
29899	285	17	special	special	JJ
29899	285	18	exercises	exercise	NNS
29899	285	19	,	,	,
29899	285	20	crisis	crisis	NN
29899	285	21	situations	situation	NNS
29899	285	22	,	,	,
29899	285	23	evaluation	evaluation	NN
29899	285	24	.	.	.
29899	286	1	_	_	NNP
29899	286	2	Leadership	Leadership	NNP
29899	286	3	Roles	Roles	NNP
29899	286	4	.	.	.
29899	286	5	_	_	NNP
29899	286	6	Qualifications	Qualifications	NNP
29899	286	7	,	,	,
29899	286	8	goals	goal	NNS
29899	286	9	,	,	,
29899	286	10	training	training	NN
29899	286	11	,	,	,
29899	286	12	couple	couple	NN
29899	286	13	teamwork	teamwork	NN
29899	286	14	,	,	,
29899	286	15	preparation	preparation	NN
29899	286	16	,	,	,
29899	286	17	vulnerability	vulnerability	NN
29899	286	18	,	,	,
29899	286	19	follow	follow	NN
29899	286	20	-	-	HYPH
29899	286	21	up	up	NN
29899	286	22	.	.	.
29899	287	1	_	_	NNP
29899	287	2	Future	Future	NNP
29899	287	3	Plans	Plans	NNPS
29899	287	4	.	.	.
29899	287	5	_	_	NNP
29899	287	6	Further	further	JJ
29899	287	7	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	287	8	,	,	,
29899	287	9	training	train	VBG
29899	287	10	new	new	JJ
29899	287	11	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	287	12	,	,	,
29899	287	13	cooperation	cooperation	NN
29899	287	14	with	with	IN
29899	287	15	other	other	JJ
29899	287	16	groups	group	NNS
29899	287	17	,	,	,
29899	287	18	books	book	NNS
29899	287	19	and	and	CC
29899	287	20	materials	material	NNS
29899	287	21	.	.	.
29899	288	1	_	_	NNP
29899	288	2	Other	Other	NNP
29899	288	3	Areas	Areas	NNPS
29899	288	4	for	for	IN
29899	288	5	Enrichment	Enrichment	NNP
29899	288	6	.	.	.
29899	288	7	_	_	NNP
29899	288	8	Retreats	Retreats	NNP
29899	288	9	for	for	IN
29899	288	10	youth	youth	NN
29899	288	11	,	,	,
29899	288	12	premarital	premarital	JJ
29899	288	13	couples	couple	NNS
29899	288	14	,	,	,
29899	288	15	parents	parent	NNS
29899	288	16	and	and	CC
29899	288	17	teen	teen	NN
29899	288	18	-	-	HYPH
29899	288	19	agers	ager	NNS
29899	288	20	,	,	,
29899	288	21	solo	solo	NN
29899	288	22	parents	parent	NNS
29899	288	23	,	,	,
29899	288	24	senior	senior	JJ
29899	288	25	citizens	citizen	NNS
29899	288	26	,	,	,
29899	288	27	Meeting	Meeting	NNP
29899	288	28	members	member	NNS
29899	288	29	.	.	.
29899	289	1	A	a	DT
29899	289	2	number	number	NN
29899	289	3	of	of	IN
29899	289	4	issues	issue	NNS
29899	289	5	of	of	IN
29899	289	6	particular	particular	JJ
29899	289	7	concern	concern	NN
29899	289	8	to	to	IN
29899	289	9	the	the	DT
29899	289	10	group	group	NN
29899	289	11	were	be	VBD
29899	289	12	extensively	extensively	RB
29899	289	13	discussed	discuss	VBN
29899	289	14	.	.	.
29899	290	1	One	one	CD
29899	290	2	was	be	VBD
29899	290	3	the	the	DT
29899	290	4	distinction	distinction	NN
29899	290	5	between	between	IN
29899	290	6	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	290	7	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	290	8	and	and	CC
29899	290	9	group	group	NN
29899	290	10	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	290	11	counseling	counseling	NN
29899	290	12	on	on	IN
29899	290	13	the	the	DT
29899	290	14	one	one	CD
29899	290	15	hand	hand	NN
29899	290	16	,	,	,
29899	290	17	sensitivity	sensitivity	NN
29899	290	18	training	training	NN
29899	290	19	and	and	CC
29899	290	20	encounter	encounter	NN
29899	290	21	groups	group	NNS
29899	290	22	on	on	IN
29899	290	23	the	the	DT
29899	290	24	other	other	JJ
29899	290	25	.	.	.
29899	291	1	Another	another	DT
29899	291	2	issue	issue	NN
29899	291	3	concerned	concern	VBD
29899	291	4	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	291	5	emphasis	emphasis	NN
29899	291	6	on	on	IN
29899	291	7	positive	positive	JJ
29899	291	8	interaction	interaction	NN
29899	291	9	,	,	,
29899	291	10	and	and	CC
29899	291	11	the	the	DT
29899	291	12	discouragement	discouragement	NN
29899	291	13	,	,	,
29899	291	14	though	though	IN
29899	291	15	not	not	RB
29899	291	16	avoidance	avoidance	NN
29899	291	17	,	,	,
29899	291	18	of	of	IN
29899	291	19	overt	overt	JJ
29899	291	20	expression	expression	NN
29899	291	21	of	of	IN
29899	291	22	negative	negative	JJ
29899	291	23	feelings	feeling	NNS
29899	291	24	between	between	IN
29899	291	25	members	member	NNS
29899	291	26	of	of	IN
29899	291	27	the	the	DT
29899	291	28	group	group	NN
29899	291	29	.	.	.
29899	292	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	292	2	also	also	RB
29899	292	3	discussed	discuss	VBD
29899	292	4	what	what	WP
29899	292	5	causes	cause	VBZ
29899	292	6	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	292	7	to	to	TO
29899	292	8	get	get	VB
29899	292	9	"	"	``
29899	292	10	stuck	stick	VBN
29899	292	11	"	"	''
29899	292	12	so	so	IN
29899	292	13	that	that	IN
29899	292	14	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	292	15	cease	cease	VBP
29899	292	16	to	to	TO
29899	292	17	grow	grow	VB
29899	292	18	.	.	.
29899	293	1	This	this	DT
29899	293	2	led	lead	VBD
29899	293	3	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	293	4	naturally	naturally	RB
29899	293	5	to	to	TO
29899	293	6	consider	consider	VB
29899	293	7	the	the	DT
29899	293	8	limitations	limitation	NNS
29899	293	9	of	of	IN
29899	293	10	lay	lay	JJ
29899	293	11	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	293	12	without	without	IN
29899	293	13	training	train	VBG
29899	293	14	in	in	IN
29899	293	15	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	293	16	counseling	counseling	NN
29899	293	17	,	,	,
29899	293	18	and	and	CC
29899	293	19	how	how	WRB
29899	293	20	to	to	TO
29899	293	21	make	make	VB
29899	293	22	effective	effective	JJ
29899	293	23	referrals	referral	NNS
29899	293	24	to	to	IN
29899	293	25	professionals	professional	NNS
29899	293	26	when	when	WRB
29899	293	27	this	this	DT
29899	293	28	seems	seem	VBZ
29899	293	29	to	to	TO
29899	293	30	be	be	VB
29899	293	31	indicated	indicate	VBN
29899	293	32	.	.	.
29899	294	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	294	2	also	also	RB
29899	294	3	talked	talk	VBD
29899	294	4	about	about	IN
29899	294	5	the	the	DT
29899	294	6	use	use	NN
29899	294	7	of	of	IN
29899	294	8	silence	silence	NN
29899	294	9	,	,	,
29899	294	10	so	so	RB
29899	294	11	natural	natural	JJ
29899	294	12	to	to	IN
29899	294	13	Friends	friend	NNS
29899	294	14	,	,	,
29899	294	15	and	and	CC
29899	294	16	how	how	WRB
29899	294	17	far	far	RB
29899	294	18	non	non	JJ
29899	294	19	-	-	NNS
29899	294	20	Quakers	quaker	NNS
29899	294	21	could	could	MD
29899	294	22	accept	accept	VB
29899	294	23	this	this	DT
29899	294	24	.	.	.
29899	295	1	In	in	IN
29899	295	2	all	all	PDT
29899	295	3	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	295	4	discussions	discussion	NNS
29899	295	5	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	295	6	were	be	VBD
29899	295	7	looking	look	VBG
29899	295	8	forward	forward	RB
29899	295	9	.	.	.
29899	296	1	There	there	EX
29899	296	2	was	be	VBD
29899	296	3	a	a	DT
29899	296	4	confident	confident	JJ
29899	296	5	assurance	assurance	NN
29899	296	6	that	that	IN
29899	296	7	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	296	8	had	have	VBD
29899	296	9	found	find	VBN
29899	296	10	something	something	NN
29899	296	11	of	of	IN
29899	296	12	great	great	JJ
29899	296	13	importance	importance	NN
29899	296	14	that	that	WDT
29899	296	15	must	must	MD
29899	296	16	be	be	VB
29899	296	17	communicated	communicate	VBN
29899	296	18	to	to	IN
29899	296	19	others	other	NNS
29899	296	20	--	--	:
29899	296	21	to	to	IN
29899	296	22	the	the	DT
29899	296	23	Society	Society	NNP
29899	296	24	of	of	IN
29899	296	25	Friends	Friends	NNPS
29899	296	26	generally	generally	RB
29899	296	27	,	,	,
29899	296	28	but	but	CC
29899	296	29	to	to	IN
29899	296	30	the	the	DT
29899	296	31	wider	wide	JJR
29899	296	32	world	world	NN
29899	296	33	as	as	RB
29899	296	34	well	well	RB
29899	296	35	.	.	.
29899	297	1	THE	the	DT
29899	297	2	SECOND	second	JJ
29899	297	3	ROUND	ROUND	VBD
29899	297	4	Another	another	DT
29899	297	5	training	training	NN
29899	297	6	program	program	NN
29899	297	7	was	be	VBD
29899	297	8	organized	organize	VBN
29899	297	9	and	and	CC
29899	297	10	a	a	DT
29899	297	11	second	second	JJ
29899	297	12	group	group	NN
29899	297	13	of	of	IN
29899	297	14	couples	couple	NNS
29899	297	15	were	be	VBD
29899	297	16	invited	invite	VBN
29899	297	17	to	to	IN
29899	297	18	Pendle	Pendle	NNP
29899	297	19	Hill	Hill	NNP
29899	297	20	.	.	.
29899	298	1	On	on	IN
29899	298	2	a	a	DT
29899	298	3	Friday	Friday	NNP
29899	298	4	evening	evening	NN
29899	298	5	in	in	IN
29899	298	6	November	November	NNP
29899	298	7	1971	1971	CD
29899	298	8	,	,	,
29899	298	9	therefore	therefore	RB
29899	298	10	,	,	,
29899	298	11	another	another	DT
29899	298	12	wide	wide	JJ
29899	298	13	circle	circle	NN
29899	298	14	of	of	IN
29899	298	15	married	married	JJ
29899	298	16	couples	couple	NNS
29899	298	17	assembled	assemble	VBN
29899	298	18	in	in	IN
29899	298	19	the	the	DT
29899	298	20	familiar	familiar	JJ
29899	298	21	living	living	NN
29899	298	22	room	room	NN
29899	298	23	at	at	IN
29899	298	24	Pendle	Pendle	NNP
29899	298	25	Hill	Hill	NNP
29899	298	26	;	;	:
29899	298	27	later	later	RB
29899	298	28	went	go	VBD
29899	298	29	forth	forth	RB
29899	298	30	to	to	TO
29899	298	31	conduct	conduct	VB
29899	298	32	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	298	33	arranged	arrange	VBN
29899	298	34	by	by	IN
29899	298	35	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	298	36	Yearly	Yearly	NNP
29899	298	37	Meetings	meeting	NNS
29899	298	38	;	;	:
29899	298	39	and	and	CC
29899	298	40	returned	return	VBD
29899	298	41	triumphantly	triumphantly	RB
29899	298	42	in	in	IN
29899	298	43	April	April	NNP
29899	298	44	1972	1972	CD
29899	298	45	to	to	TO
29899	298	46	report	report	VB
29899	298	47	to	to	IN
29899	298	48	one	one	CD
29899	298	49	another	another	DT
29899	298	50	what	what	WP
29899	298	51	had	have	VBD
29899	298	52	happened	happen	VBN
29899	298	53	.	.	.
29899	299	1	Six	six	CD
29899	299	2	of	of	IN
29899	299	3	these	these	DT
29899	299	4	couples	couple	NNS
29899	299	5	were	be	VBD
29899	299	6	new	new	JJ
29899	299	7	.	.	.
29899	300	1	With	with	IN
29899	300	2	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	300	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	300	4	invited	invite	VBD
29899	300	5	two	two	CD
29899	300	6	experienced	experienced	JJ
29899	300	7	couples	couple	NNS
29899	300	8	from	from	IN
29899	300	9	the	the	DT
29899	300	10	first	first	JJ
29899	300	11	group	group	NN
29899	300	12	of	of	IN
29899	300	13	trainees	trainee	NNS
29899	300	14	.	.	.
29899	301	1	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	301	2	idea	idea	NN
29899	301	3	was	be	VBD
29899	301	4	that	that	IN
29899	301	5	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	301	6	might	may	MD
29899	301	7	help	help	VB
29899	301	8	in	in	IN
29899	301	9	the	the	DT
29899	301	10	training	training	NN
29899	301	11	of	of	IN
29899	301	12	the	the	DT
29899	301	13	other	other	JJ
29899	301	14	six	six	CD
29899	301	15	,	,	,
29899	301	16	and	and	CC
29899	301	17	be	be	VB
29899	301	18	ready	ready	JJ
29899	301	19	then	then	RB
29899	301	20	to	to	TO
29899	301	21	graduate	graduate	VB
29899	301	22	as	as	IN
29899	301	23	trainers	trainer	NNS
29899	301	24	in	in	IN
29899	301	25	later	later	JJ
29899	301	26	regional	regional	JJ
29899	301	27	programs	program	NNS
29899	301	28	.	.	.
29899	302	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	302	2	have	have	VBP
29899	302	3	used	use	VBN
29899	302	4	this	this	DT
29899	302	5	method	method	NN
29899	302	6	in	in	IN
29899	302	7	training	train	VBG
29899	302	8	couples	couple	NNS
29899	302	9	before	before	RB
29899	302	10	,	,	,
29899	302	11	encouraging	encourage	VBG
29899	302	12	a	a	DT
29899	302	13	couple	couple	NN
29899	302	14	conducting	conduct	VBG
29899	302	15	a	a	DT
29899	302	16	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	302	17	for	for	IN
29899	302	18	the	the	DT
29899	302	19	first	first	JJ
29899	302	20	time	time	NN
29899	302	21	to	to	TO
29899	302	22	team	team	VB
29899	302	23	up	up	RP
29899	302	24	with	with	IN
29899	302	25	another	another	DT
29899	302	26	trained	train	VBN
29899	302	27	couple	couple	NN
29899	302	28	,	,	,
29899	302	29	each	each	DT
29899	302	30	supporting	support	VBG
29899	302	31	and	and	CC
29899	302	32	helping	help	VBG
29899	302	33	the	the	DT
29899	302	34	other	other	JJ
29899	302	35	in	in	IN
29899	302	36	shared	shared	JJ
29899	302	37	leadership	leadership	NN
29899	302	38	.	.	.
29899	303	1	This	this	DT
29899	303	2	is	be	VBZ
29899	303	3	a	a	DT
29899	303	4	good	good	JJ
29899	303	5	learning	learning	NN
29899	303	6	process	process	NN
29899	303	7	;	;	:
29899	303	8	and	and	CC
29899	303	9	now	now	RB
29899	303	10	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	303	11	were	be	VBD
29899	303	12	applying	apply	VBG
29899	303	13	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	303	14	at	at	IN
29899	303	15	the	the	DT
29899	303	16	level	level	NN
29899	303	17	of	of	IN
29899	303	18	training	train	VBG
29899	303	19	potential	potential	JJ
29899	303	20	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	303	21	,	,	,
29899	303	22	in	in	IN
29899	303	23	the	the	DT
29899	303	24	expectation	expectation	NN
29899	303	25	of	of	IN
29899	303	26	making	make	VBG
29899	303	27	ourselves	-PRON-	PRP
29899	303	28	dispensable	dispensable	JJ
29899	303	29	.	.	.
29899	304	1	A	a	DT
29899	304	2	movement	movement	NN
29899	304	3	of	of	IN
29899	304	4	this	this	DT
29899	304	5	kind	kind	NN
29899	304	6	should	should	MD
29899	304	7	not	not	RB
29899	304	8	be	be	VB
29899	304	9	allowed	allow	VBN
29899	304	10	to	to	TO
29899	304	11	focus	focus	VB
29899	304	12	on	on	IN
29899	304	13	personalities	personality	NNS
29899	304	14	.	.	.
29899	305	1	It	-PRON-	PRP
29899	305	2	will	will	MD
29899	305	3	prosper	prosper	VB
29899	305	4	best	well	RBS
29899	305	5	by	by	IN
29899	305	6	involving	involve	VBG
29899	305	7	many	many	JJ
29899	305	8	couples	couple	NNS
29899	305	9	in	in	IN
29899	305	10	a	a	DT
29899	305	11	broad	broad	JJ
29899	305	12	sharing	sharing	NN
29899	305	13	of	of	IN
29899	305	14	leadership	leadership	NN
29899	305	15	responsibility	responsibility	NN
29899	305	16	.	.	.
29899	306	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	306	2	might	may	MD
29899	306	3	have	have	VB
29899	306	4	asked	ask	VBD
29899	306	5	ourselves	-PRON-	PRP
29899	306	6	whether	whether	IN
29899	306	7	what	what	WP
29899	306	8	had	have	VBD
29899	306	9	happened	happen	VBN
29899	306	10	in	in	IN
29899	306	11	1969	1969	CD
29899	306	12	-	-	SYM
29899	306	13	70	70	CD
29899	306	14	could	could	MD
29899	306	15	happen	happen	VB
29899	306	16	again	again	RB
29899	306	17	in	in	IN
29899	306	18	1971	1971	CD
29899	306	19	-	-	SYM
29899	306	20	72	72	CD
29899	306	21	.	.	.
29899	307	1	Would	Would	MD
29899	307	2	the	the	DT
29899	307	3	high	high	JJ
29899	307	4	caliber	caliber	NN
29899	307	5	of	of	IN
29899	307	6	the	the	DT
29899	307	7	earlier	early	JJR
29899	307	8	group	group	NN
29899	307	9	of	of	IN
29899	307	10	couples	couple	NNS
29899	307	11	be	be	VB
29899	307	12	sustained	sustain	VBN
29899	307	13	?	?	.
29899	308	1	Would	Would	MD
29899	308	2	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	308	3	again	again	RB
29899	308	4	learn	learn	VB
29899	308	5	quickly	quickly	RB
29899	308	6	enough	enough	RB
29899	308	7	through	through	IN
29899	308	8	the	the	DT
29899	308	9	experience	experience	NN
29899	308	10	of	of	IN
29899	308	11	one	one	CD
29899	308	12	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	308	13	to	to	TO
29899	308	14	function	function	VB
29899	308	15	as	as	IN
29899	308	16	successful	successful	JJ
29899	308	17	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	308	18	?	?	.
29899	309	1	Would	Would	MD
29899	309	2	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	309	3	come	come	VB
29899	309	4	back	back	RB
29899	309	5	with	with	IN
29899	309	6	the	the	DT
29899	309	7	same	same	JJ
29899	309	8	enthusiasm	enthusiasm	NN
29899	309	9	and	and	CC
29899	309	10	delight	delight	NN
29899	309	11	?	?	.
29899	310	1	The	the	DT
29899	310	2	answers	answer	NNS
29899	310	3	to	to	IN
29899	310	4	these	these	DT
29899	310	5	questions	question	NNS
29899	310	6	would	would	MD
29899	310	7	do	do	VB
29899	310	8	a	a	DT
29899	310	9	great	great	JJ
29899	310	10	deal	deal	NN
29899	310	11	to	to	TO
29899	310	12	validate	validate	VB
29899	310	13	the	the	DT
29899	310	14	plan	plan	NN
29899	310	15	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	310	16	had	have	VBD
29899	310	17	adopted	adopt	VBN
29899	310	18	.	.	.
29899	311	1	When	when	WRB
29899	311	2	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	311	3	couples	couple	NNS
29899	311	4	returned	return	VBD
29899	311	5	in	in	IN
29899	311	6	April	April	NNP
29899	311	7	1972	1972	CD
29899	311	8	,	,	,
29899	311	9	the	the	DT
29899	311	10	answers	answer	NNS
29899	311	11	were	be	VBD
29899	311	12	resoundingly	resoundingly	RB
29899	311	13	in	in	IN
29899	311	14	the	the	DT
29899	311	15	affirmative	affirmative	NN
29899	311	16	.	.	.
29899	312	1	In	in	IN
29899	312	2	one	one	CD
29899	312	3	case	case	NN
29899	312	4	,	,	,
29899	312	5	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	312	6	was	be	VBD
29899	312	7	true	true	JJ
29899	312	8	,	,	,
29899	312	9	the	the	DT
29899	312	10	local	local	JJ
29899	312	11	arrangements	arrangement	NNS
29899	312	12	had	have	VBD
29899	312	13	broken	break	VBN
29899	312	14	down	down	RP
29899	312	15	and	and	CC
29899	312	16	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	312	17	had	have	VBD
29899	312	18	not	not	RB
29899	312	19	had	have	VBN
29899	312	20	the	the	DT
29899	312	21	opportunity	opportunity	NN
29899	312	22	yet	yet	RB
29899	312	23	to	to	TO
29899	312	24	conduct	conduct	VB
29899	312	25	a	a	DT
29899	312	26	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	312	27	--	--	:
29899	312	28	but	but	CC
29899	312	29	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	312	30	came	come	VBD
29899	312	31	to	to	IN
29899	312	32	the	the	DT
29899	312	33	reunion	reunion	NN
29899	312	34	just	just	RB
29899	312	35	the	the	DT
29899	312	36	same	same	JJ
29899	312	37	.	.	.
29899	313	1	(	(	-LRB-
29899	313	2	Their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	313	3	opportunity	opportunity	NN
29899	313	4	for	for	IN
29899	313	5	leadership	leadership	NN
29899	313	6	came	come	VBD
29899	313	7	later	later	RBR
29899	313	8	.	.	.
29899	313	9	)	)	-RRB-
29899	314	1	Reports	report	NNS
29899	314	2	from	from	IN
29899	314	3	all	all	PDT
29899	314	4	the	the	DT
29899	314	5	others	other	NNS
29899	314	6	,	,	,
29899	314	7	including	include	VBG
29899	314	8	the	the	DT
29899	314	9	two	two	CD
29899	314	10	"	"	``
29899	314	11	veteran	veteran	NN
29899	314	12	"	"	''
29899	314	13	couples	couple	NNS
29899	314	14	,	,	,
29899	314	15	had	have	VBD
29899	314	16	the	the	DT
29899	314	17	same	same	JJ
29899	314	18	authentic	authentic	JJ
29899	314	19	ring	ring	NN
29899	314	20	of	of	IN
29899	314	21	success	success	NN
29899	314	22	that	that	WDT
29899	314	23	had	have	VBD
29899	314	24	been	be	VBN
29899	314	25	sounded	sound	VBN
29899	314	26	so	so	RB
29899	314	27	unmistakably	unmistakably	RB
29899	314	28	a	a	DT
29899	314	29	year	year	NN
29899	314	30	earlier	early	RBR
29899	314	31	.	.	.
29899	315	1	Quoting	quote	VBG
29899	315	2	from	from	IN
29899	315	3	the	the	DT
29899	315	4	group	group	NN
29899	315	5	:	:	:
29899	315	6	"	"	``
29899	315	7	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	315	8	felt	feel	VBD
29899	315	9	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	315	10	job	job	NN
29899	315	11	was	be	VBD
29899	315	12	to	to	TO
29899	315	13	provide	provide	VB
29899	315	14	some	some	DT
29899	315	15	structure	structure	NN
29899	315	16	to	to	TO
29899	315	17	help	help	VB
29899	315	18	the	the	DT
29899	315	19	experience	experience	NN
29899	315	20	develop	develop	VB
29899	315	21	,	,	,
29899	315	22	and	and	CC
29899	315	23	then	then	RB
29899	315	24	let	let	VB
29899	315	25	people	people	NNS
29899	315	26	sort	sort	VB
29899	315	27	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	315	28	out	out	RP
29899	315	29	for	for	IN
29899	315	30	themselves	-PRON-	PRP
29899	315	31	.	.	.
29899	316	1	Both	both	DT
29899	316	2	of	of	IN
29899	316	3	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	316	4	felt	feel	VBD
29899	316	5	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	316	6	was	be	VBD
29899	316	7	most	most	RBS
29899	316	8	important	important	JJ
29899	316	9	to	to	TO
29899	316	10	ride	ride	VB
29899	316	11	with	with	IN
29899	316	12	the	the	DT
29899	316	13	tone	tone	NN
29899	316	14	of	of	IN
29899	316	15	the	the	DT
29899	316	16	developing	develop	VBG
29899	316	17	situation	situation	NN
29899	316	18	,	,	,
29899	316	19	and	and	CC
29899	316	20	avoid	avoid	VB
29899	316	21	any	any	DT
29899	316	22	use	use	NN
29899	316	23	of	of	IN
29899	316	24	the	the	DT
29899	316	25	more	more	RBR
29899	316	26	aggressive	aggressive	JJ
29899	316	27	techniques	technique	NNS
29899	316	28	of	of	IN
29899	316	29	confrontation	confrontation	NN
29899	316	30	.	.	.
29899	317	1	Stan	Stan	NNP
29899	317	2	was	be	VBD
29899	317	3	worried	worried	JJ
29899	317	4	on	on	IN
29899	317	5	Saturday	Saturday	NNP
29899	317	6	that	that	IN
29899	317	7	the	the	DT
29899	317	8	talk	talk	NN
29899	317	9	was	be	VBD
29899	317	10	too	too	RB
29899	317	11	general	general	JJ
29899	317	12	.	.	.
29899	318	1	Then	then	RB
29899	318	2	one	one	CD
29899	318	3	of	of	IN
29899	318	4	the	the	DT
29899	318	5	wives	wife	NNS
29899	318	6	broke	break	VBD
29899	318	7	through	through	RP
29899	318	8	by	by	IN
29899	318	9	asking	ask	VBG
29899	318	10	if	if	IN
29899	318	11	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	318	12	could	could	MD
29899	318	13	discuss	discuss	VB
29899	318	14	something	something	NN
29899	318	15	"	"	''
29899	318	16	...	...	NFP
29899	318	17	down	down	RB
29899	318	18	here	here	RB
29899	318	19	,	,	,
29899	318	20	where	where	WRB
29899	318	21	I	-PRON-	PRP
29899	318	22	am	be	VBP
29899	318	23	...	...	:
29899	318	24	like	like	IN
29899	318	25	SEX	SEX	NNP
29899	318	26	?	?	.
29899	318	27	"	"	''
29899	319	1	So	so	RB
29899	319	2	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	319	3	got	get	VBD
29899	319	4	there	there	RB
29899	319	5	...	...	.
29899	319	6	"	"	''
29899	319	7	"	"	``
29899	319	8	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	319	9	viewed	view	VBD
29899	319	10	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	319	11	task	task	NN
29899	319	12	as	as	IN
29899	319	13	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	319	14	to	to	TO
29899	319	15	be	be	VB
29899	319	16	one	one	CD
29899	319	17	of	of	IN
29899	319	18	creating	create	VBG
29899	319	19	and	and	CC
29899	319	20	sustaining	sustain	VBG
29899	319	21	an	an	DT
29899	319	22	atmosphere	atmosphere	NN
29899	319	23	in	in	IN
29899	319	24	which	which	WDT
29899	319	25	each	each	DT
29899	319	26	couple	couple	NN
29899	319	27	could	could	MD
29899	319	28	speak	speak	VB
29899	319	29	personally	personally	RB
29899	319	30	concerning	concern	VBG
29899	319	31	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	319	32	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	319	33	.	.	.
29899	320	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	320	2	felt	feel	VBD
29899	320	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	320	4	best	well	RBS
29899	320	5	accomplished	accomplish	VBD
29899	320	6	this	this	DT
29899	320	7	task	task	NN
29899	320	8	when	when	WRB
29899	320	9	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	320	10	participated	participate	VBD
29899	320	11	as	as	IN
29899	320	12	a	a	DT
29899	320	13	couple	couple	NN
29899	320	14	in	in	IN
29899	320	15	the	the	DT
29899	320	16	same	same	JJ
29899	320	17	way	way	NN
29899	320	18	as	as	IN
29899	320	19	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	320	20	urged	urge	VBD
29899	320	21	the	the	DT
29899	320	22	others	other	NNS
29899	320	23	to	to	TO
29899	320	24	participate	participate	VB
29899	320	25	.	.	.
29899	320	26	"	"	''
29899	321	1	"	"	``
29899	321	2	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	321	3	regarded	regard	VBD
29899	321	4	ourselves	-PRON-	PRP
29899	321	5	as	as	IN
29899	321	6	facilitators	facilitator	NNS
29899	321	7	.	.	.
29899	322	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	322	2	tried	try	VBD
29899	322	3	to	to	TO
29899	322	4	be	be	VB
29899	322	5	creative	creative	JJ
29899	322	6	listeners	listener	NNS
29899	322	7	;	;	:
29899	322	8	to	to	TO
29899	322	9	put	put	VB
29899	322	10	questions	question	NNS
29899	322	11	to	to	IN
29899	322	12	the	the	DT
29899	322	13	group	group	NN
29899	322	14	that	that	WDT
29899	322	15	would	would	MD
29899	322	16	help	help	VB
29899	322	17	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	322	18	to	to	TO
29899	322	19	share	share	VB
29899	322	20	personal	personal	JJ
29899	322	21	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	322	22	;	;	:
29899	322	23	to	to	TO
29899	322	24	bring	bring	VB
29899	322	25	about	about	RP
29899	322	26	a	a	DT
29899	322	27	change	change	NN
29899	322	28	of	of	IN
29899	322	29	pace	pace	NN
29899	322	30	when	when	WRB
29899	322	31	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	322	32	sensed	sense	VBD
29899	322	33	this	this	DT
29899	322	34	to	to	TO
29899	322	35	be	be	VB
29899	322	36	necessary	necessary	JJ
29899	322	37	.	.	.
29899	322	38	"	"	''
29899	323	1	"	"	``
29899	323	2	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	323	3	were	be	VBD
29899	323	4	quite	quite	RB
29899	323	5	relaxed	relaxed	JJ
29899	323	6	.	.	.
29899	324	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	324	2	tried	try	VBD
29899	324	3	to	to	TO
29899	324	4	be	be	VB
29899	324	5	perceptive	perceptive	JJ
29899	324	6	of	of	IN
29899	324	7	the	the	DT
29899	324	8	needs	need	NNS
29899	324	9	of	of	IN
29899	324	10	individual	individual	JJ
29899	324	11	couples	couple	NNS
29899	324	12	.	.	.
29899	325	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	325	2	hope	hope	VBP
29899	325	3	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	325	4	did	do	VBD
29899	325	5	n't	not	RB
29899	325	6	talk	talk	VB
29899	325	7	too	too	RB
29899	325	8	much	much	RB
29899	325	9	.	.	.
29899	325	10	"	"	''
29899	326	1	"	"	``
29899	326	2	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	326	3	saw	see	VBD
29899	326	4	ourselves	-PRON-	PRP
29899	326	5	as	as	IN
29899	326	6	equal	equal	JJ
29899	326	7	participants	participant	NNS
29899	326	8	with	with	IN
29899	326	9	the	the	DT
29899	326	10	others	other	NNS
29899	326	11	,	,	,
29899	326	12	and	and	CC
29899	326	13	facilitators	facilitator	NNS
29899	326	14	of	of	IN
29899	326	15	a	a	DT
29899	326	16	process	process	NN
29899	326	17	which	which	WDT
29899	326	18	started	start	VBD
29899	326	19	well	well	RB
29899	326	20	with	with	IN
29899	326	21	frank	frank	NNP
29899	326	22	,	,	,
29899	326	23	meaningful	meaningful	JJ
29899	326	24	conversation	conversation	NN
29899	326	25	.	.	.
29899	327	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	327	2	did	do	VBD
29899	327	3	agenda	agenda	NN
29899	327	4	-	-	HYPH
29899	327	5	building	building	NN
29899	327	6	at	at	IN
29899	327	7	several	several	JJ
29899	327	8	points	point	NNS
29899	327	9	.	.	.
29899	328	1	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	328	2	aim	aim	NN
29899	328	3	was	be	VBD
29899	328	4	to	to	TO
29899	328	5	create	create	VB
29899	328	6	an	an	DT
29899	328	7	atmosphere	atmosphere	NN
29899	328	8	in	in	IN
29899	328	9	which	which	WDT
29899	328	10	defensiveness	defensiveness	NN
29899	328	11	could	could	MD
29899	328	12	be	be	VB
29899	328	13	replaced	replace	VBN
29899	328	14	with	with	IN
29899	328	15	tolerant	tolerant	JJ
29899	328	16	acceptance	acceptance	NN
29899	328	17	,	,	,
29899	328	18	and	and	CC
29899	328	19	trust	trust	NN
29899	328	20	and	and	CC
29899	328	21	confidence	confidence	NN
29899	328	22	could	could	MD
29899	328	23	grow	grow	VB
29899	328	24	as	as	IN
29899	328	25	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	328	26	heard	hear	VBD
29899	328	27	each	each	DT
29899	328	28	other	other	JJ
29899	328	29	and	and	CC
29899	328	30	learned	learn	VBD
29899	328	31	from	from	IN
29899	328	32	each	each	DT
29899	328	33	other	other	JJ
29899	328	34	.	.	.
29899	328	35	"	"	''
29899	329	1	THE	the	DT
29899	329	2	PROBLEM	problem	NN
29899	329	3	OF	of	IN
29899	329	4	UNFELT	UNFELT	NNP
29899	329	5	NEED	NEED	NNP
29899	329	6	"	"	``
29899	329	7	The	the	DT
29899	329	8	underlying	underlying	JJ
29899	329	9	problem	problem	NN
29899	329	10	is	be	VBZ
29899	329	11	the	the	DT
29899	329	12	fact	fact	NN
29899	329	13	that	that	IN
29899	329	14	the	the	DT
29899	329	15	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	329	16	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	329	17	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	329	18	meets	meet	VBZ
29899	329	19	unfelt	unfelt	JJ
29899	329	20	needs	need	NNS
29899	329	21	.	.	.
29899	330	1	People	People	NNS
29899	330	2	do	do	VBP
29899	330	3	n't	not	RB
29899	330	4	feel	feel	VB
29899	330	5	keenly	keenly	RB
29899	330	6	that	that	IN
29899	330	7	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	330	8	need	need	VBP
29899	330	9	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	330	10	.	.	.
29899	331	1	If	if	IN
29899	331	2	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	331	3	think	think	VBP
29899	331	4	your	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	331	5	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	331	6	is	be	VBZ
29899	331	7	sound	sound	JJ
29899	331	8	,	,	,
29899	331	9	you	-PRON-	PRP
29899	331	10	are	be	VBP
29899	331	11	n't	not	RB
29899	331	12	strongly	strongly	RB
29899	331	13	motivated	motivated	JJ
29899	331	14	to	to	TO
29899	331	15	spend	spend	VB
29899	331	16	a	a	DT
29899	331	17	weekend	weekend	NN
29899	331	18	making	make	VBG
29899	331	19	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	331	20	even	even	RB
29899	331	21	sounder	sounder	RBR
29899	331	22	.	.	.
29899	332	1	To	to	TO
29899	332	2	get	get	VB
29899	332	3	the	the	DT
29899	332	4	tingle	tingle	NN
29899	332	5	of	of	IN
29899	332	6	a	a	DT
29899	332	7	potential	potential	JJ
29899	332	8	deepening	deepening	NN
29899	332	9	and	and	CC
29899	332	10	enriching	enriching	NN
29899	332	11	takes	take	VBZ
29899	332	12	emotional	emotional	JJ
29899	332	13	impact	impact	NN
29899	332	14	.	.	.
29899	333	1	This	this	DT
29899	333	2	means	mean	VBZ
29899	333	3	hearing	hear	VBG
29899	333	4	from	from	IN
29899	333	5	someone	someone	NN
29899	333	6	obviously	obviously	RB
29899	333	7	sensible	sensible	JJ
29899	333	8	who	who	WP
29899	333	9	is	be	VBZ
29899	333	10	warmly	warmly	RB
29899	333	11	convinced	convinced	JJ
29899	333	12	about	about	IN
29899	333	13	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	333	14	.	.	.
29899	333	15	"	"	''
29899	334	1	A	a	DT
29899	334	2	number	number	NN
29899	334	3	of	of	IN
29899	334	4	theories	theory	NNS
29899	334	5	were	be	VBD
29899	334	6	developed	develop	VBN
29899	334	7	to	to	TO
29899	334	8	explain	explain	VB
29899	334	9	this	this	DT
29899	334	10	resistance	resistance	NN
29899	334	11	to	to	IN
29899	334	12	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	334	13	project	project	NN
29899	334	14	.	.	.
29899	335	1	In	in	IN
29899	335	2	general	general	JJ
29899	335	3	,	,	,
29899	335	4	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	335	5	is	be	VBZ
29899	335	6	true	true	JJ
29899	335	7	that	that	IN
29899	335	8	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	335	9	takes	take	VBZ
29899	335	10	_	_	NNP
29899	335	11	problems	problem	NNS
29899	335	12	_	_	NNP
29899	335	13	to	to	TO
29899	335	14	motivate	motivate	VB
29899	335	15	married	married	JJ
29899	335	16	couples	couple	NNS
29899	335	17	to	to	TO
29899	335	18	seek	seek	VB
29899	335	19	help	help	NN
29899	335	20	,	,	,
29899	335	21	just	just	RB
29899	335	22	as	as	IN
29899	335	23	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	335	24	takes	take	VBZ
29899	335	25	pain	pain	NN
29899	335	26	to	to	TO
29899	335	27	induce	induce	VB
29899	335	28	many	many	JJ
29899	335	29	people	people	NNS
29899	335	30	to	to	TO
29899	335	31	visit	visit	VB
29899	335	32	a	a	DT
29899	335	33	doctor	doctor	NN
29899	335	34	;	;	:
29899	335	35	and	and	CC
29899	335	36	in	in	IN
29899	335	37	both	both	DT
29899	335	38	cases	case	NNS
29899	335	39	,	,	,
29899	335	40	action	action	NN
29899	335	41	may	may	MD
29899	335	42	prove	prove	VB
29899	335	43	to	to	TO
29899	335	44	be	be	VB
29899	335	45	too	too	RB
29899	335	46	late	late	JJ
29899	335	47	to	to	TO
29899	335	48	be	be	VB
29899	335	49	effective	effective	JJ
29899	335	50	.	.	.
29899	336	1	On	on	IN
29899	336	2	the	the	DT
29899	336	3	other	other	JJ
29899	336	4	hand	hand	NN
29899	336	5	,	,	,
29899	336	6	many	many	JJ
29899	336	7	couples	couple	NNS
29899	336	8	with	with	IN
29899	336	9	basically	basically	RB
29899	336	10	stable	stable	JJ
29899	336	11	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	336	12	are	be	VBP
29899	336	13	wistfully	wistfully	RB
29899	336	14	aware	aware	JJ
29899	336	15	that	that	IN
29899	336	16	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	336	17	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	336	18	falls	fall	VBZ
29899	336	19	short	short	JJ
29899	336	20	of	of	IN
29899	336	21	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	336	22	expectations	expectation	NNS
29899	336	23	.	.	.
29899	337	1	But	but	CC
29899	337	2	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	337	3	takes	take	VBZ
29899	337	4	a	a	DT
29899	337	5	strong	strong	JJ
29899	337	6	stimulus	stimulus	NN
29899	337	7	,	,	,
29899	337	8	in	in	IN
29899	337	9	the	the	DT
29899	337	10	form	form	NN
29899	337	11	of	of	IN
29899	337	12	a	a	DT
29899	337	13	cordial	cordial	JJ
29899	337	14	personal	personal	JJ
29899	337	15	invitation	invitation	NN
29899	337	16	,	,	,
29899	337	17	to	to	TO
29899	337	18	get	get	VB
29899	337	19	them	-PRON-	PRP
29899	337	20	to	to	TO
29899	337	21	take	take	VB
29899	337	22	the	the	DT
29899	337	23	necessary	necessary	JJ
29899	337	24	steps	step	NNS
29899	337	25	to	to	TO
29899	337	26	enroll	enroll	VB
29899	337	27	for	for	IN
29899	337	28	a	a	DT
29899	337	29	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	337	30	.	.	.
29899	338	1	Whatever	whatever	WDT
29899	338	2	the	the	DT
29899	338	3	cause	cause	NN
29899	338	4	of	of	IN
29899	338	5	this	this	DT
29899	338	6	reticence	reticence	NN
29899	338	7	,	,	,
29899	338	8	expressing	express	VBG
29899	338	9	itself	-PRON-	PRP
29899	338	10	on	on	IN
29899	338	11	occasions	occasion	NNS
29899	338	12	as	as	IN
29899	338	13	resistance	resistance	NN
29899	338	14	,	,	,
29899	338	15	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	338	16	seems	seem	VBZ
29899	338	17	an	an	DT
29899	338	18	inappropriate	inappropriate	JJ
29899	338	19	response	response	NN
29899	338	20	to	to	IN
29899	338	21	the	the	DT
29899	338	22	needs	need	NNS
29899	338	23	and	and	CC
29899	338	24	opportunities	opportunity	NNS
29899	338	25	of	of	IN
29899	338	26	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	338	27	day	day	NN
29899	338	28	and	and	CC
29899	338	29	age	age	NN
29899	338	30	and	and	CC
29899	338	31	one	one	CD
29899	338	32	of	of	IN
29899	338	33	the	the	DT
29899	338	34	many	many	JJ
29899	338	35	factors	factor	NNS
29899	338	36	responsible	responsible	JJ
29899	338	37	for	for	IN
29899	338	38	the	the	DT
29899	338	39	alienation	alienation	NN
29899	338	40	between	between	IN
29899	338	41	young	young	JJ
29899	338	42	and	and	CC
29899	338	43	old	old	JJ
29899	338	44	which	which	WDT
29899	338	45	is	be	VBZ
29899	338	46	popularly	popularly	RB
29899	338	47	termed	term	VBN
29899	338	48	the	the	DT
29899	338	49	"	"	``
29899	338	50	generation	generation	NN
29899	338	51	gap	gap	NN
29899	338	52	.	.	.
29899	338	53	"	"	''
29899	339	1	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	339	2	trainees	trainee	NNS
29899	339	3	were	be	VBD
29899	339	4	themselves	-PRON-	PRP
29899	339	5	mainly	mainly	RB
29899	339	6	in	in	IN
29899	339	7	the	the	DT
29899	339	8	second	second	JJ
29899	339	9	half	half	NN
29899	339	10	of	of	IN
29899	339	11	life	life	NN
29899	339	12	,	,	,
29899	339	13	and	and	CC
29899	339	14	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	339	15	well	well	RB
29899	339	16	understood	understand	VBD
29899	339	17	the	the	DT
29899	339	18	"	"	``
29899	339	19	privatism	privatism	NN
29899	339	20	"	"	''
29899	339	21	that	that	WDT
29899	339	22	is	be	VBZ
29899	339	23	a	a	DT
29899	339	24	legacy	legacy	NN
29899	339	25	of	of	IN
29899	339	26	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	339	27	past	past	NN
29899	339	28	.	.	.
29899	340	1	They	-PRON-	PRP
29899	340	2	themselves	-PRON-	PRP
29899	340	3	,	,	,
29899	340	4	however	however	RB
29899	340	5	,	,	,
29899	340	6	had	have	VBD
29899	340	7	lost	lose	VBN
29899	340	8	nothing	nothing	NN
29899	340	9	,	,	,
29899	340	10	and	and	CC
29899	340	11	gained	gain	VBD
29899	340	12	a	a	DT
29899	340	13	great	great	JJ
29899	340	14	deal	deal	NN
29899	340	15	by	by	IN
29899	340	16	the	the	DT
29899	340	17	efforts	effort	NNS
29899	340	18	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	340	19	had	have	VBD
29899	340	20	made	make	VBN
29899	340	21	to	to	TO
29899	340	22	cultivate	cultivate	VB
29899	340	23	greater	great	JJR
29899	340	24	openness	openness	NN
29899	340	25	to	to	IN
29899	340	26	others	other	NNS
29899	340	27	,	,	,
29899	340	28	both	both	DT
29899	340	29	in	in	IN
29899	340	30	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	340	31	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	340	32	and	and	CC
29899	340	33	in	in	IN
29899	340	34	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	340	35	wider	wide	JJR
29899	340	36	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	340	37	,	,	,
29899	340	38	and	and	CC
29899	340	39	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	340	40	would	would	MD
29899	340	41	lovingly	lovingly	RB
29899	340	42	invite	invite	VB
29899	340	43	other	other	JJ
29899	340	44	Friends	friend	NNS
29899	340	45	to	to	TO
29899	340	46	make	make	VB
29899	340	47	the	the	DT
29899	340	48	same	same	JJ
29899	340	49	venture	venture	NN
29899	340	50	.	.	.
29899	341	1	They	-PRON-	PRP
29899	341	2	would	would	MD
29899	341	3	also	also	RB
29899	341	4	plead	plead	VB
29899	341	5	with	with	IN
29899	341	6	Friends	friend	NNS
29899	341	7	to	to	TO
29899	341	8	give	give	VB
29899	341	9	stronger	strong	JJR
29899	341	10	support	support	NN
29899	341	11	to	to	IN
29899	341	12	,	,	,
29899	341	13	and	and	CC
29899	341	14	undertake	undertake	VB
29899	341	15	more	more	RBR
29899	341	16	active	active	JJ
29899	341	17	participation	participation	NN
29899	341	18	in	in	IN
29899	341	19	,	,	,
29899	341	20	a	a	DT
29899	341	21	project	project	NN
29899	341	22	to	to	TO
29899	341	23	provide	provide	VB
29899	341	24	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	341	25	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	341	26	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	341	27	for	for	IN
29899	341	28	the	the	DT
29899	341	29	couples	couple	NNS
29899	341	30	in	in	IN
29899	341	31	the	the	DT
29899	341	32	care	care	NN
29899	341	33	of	of	IN
29899	341	34	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	341	35	Meetings	meeting	NNS
29899	341	36	.	.	.
29899	342	1	Some	some	DT
29899	342	2	views	view	NNS
29899	342	3	were	be	VBD
29899	342	4	expressed	express	VBN
29899	342	5	suggesting	suggest	VBG
29899	342	6	a	a	DT
29899	342	7	special	special	JJ
29899	342	8	reticence	reticence	NN
29899	342	9	among	among	IN
29899	342	10	Friends	friend	NNS
29899	342	11	.	.	.
29899	343	1	There	there	EX
29899	343	2	seemed	seem	VBD
29899	343	3	to	to	TO
29899	343	4	be	be	VB
29899	343	5	some	some	DT
29899	343	6	foundation	foundation	NN
29899	343	7	for	for	IN
29899	343	8	two	two	CD
29899	343	9	theories	theory	NNS
29899	343	10	--	--	:
29899	343	11	first	first	RB
29899	343	12	,	,	,
29899	343	13	that	that	IN
29899	343	14	Quakers	Quakers	NNPS
29899	343	15	tend	tend	VBP
29899	343	16	to	to	TO
29899	343	17	be	be	VB
29899	343	18	very	very	RB
29899	343	19	heavily	heavily	RB
29899	343	20	involved	involved	JJ
29899	343	21	in	in	IN
29899	343	22	social	social	JJ
29899	343	23	projects	project	NNS
29899	343	24	,	,	,
29899	343	25	sometimes	sometimes	RB
29899	343	26	to	to	IN
29899	343	27	the	the	DT
29899	343	28	neglect	neglect	NN
29899	343	29	of	of	IN
29899	343	30	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	343	31	own	own	JJ
29899	343	32	family	family	NN
29899	343	33	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	343	34	;	;	:
29899	343	35	and	and	CC
29899	343	36	second	second	RB
29899	343	37	,	,	,
29899	343	38	that	that	IN
29899	343	39	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	343	40	tend	tend	VBP
29899	343	41	to	to	TO
29899	343	42	be	be	VB
29899	343	43	somewhat	somewhat	RB
29899	343	44	puritanical	puritanical	JJ
29899	343	45	in	in	IN
29899	343	46	the	the	DT
29899	343	47	sense	sense	NN
29899	343	48	that	that	IN
29899	343	49	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	343	50	consider	consider	VBP
29899	343	51	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	343	52	improper	improper	JJ
29899	343	53	to	to	TO
29899	343	54	open	open	VB
29899	343	55	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	343	56	private	private	JJ
29899	343	57	lives	life	NNS
29899	343	58	to	to	IN
29899	343	59	others	other	NNS
29899	343	60	.	.	.
29899	344	1	There	there	EX
29899	344	2	may	may	MD
29899	344	3	be	be	VB
29899	344	4	a	a	DT
29899	344	5	deep	deep	JJ
29899	344	6	dichotomy	dichotomy	NN
29899	344	7	in	in	IN
29899	344	8	attitudes	attitude	NNS
29899	344	9	of	of	IN
29899	344	10	Friends	Friends	NNPS
29899	344	11	here	here	RB
29899	344	12	such	such	JJ
29899	344	13	as	as	IN
29899	344	14	reported	report	VBN
29899	344	15	by	by	IN
29899	344	16	one	one	CD
29899	344	17	couple	couple	NN
29899	344	18	:	:	:
29899	344	19	"	"	``
29899	344	20	vivid	vivid	JJ
29899	344	21	impressions	impression	NNS
29899	344	22	of	of	IN
29899	344	23	honest	honest	JJ
29899	344	24	encounters	encounter	NNS
29899	344	25	between	between	IN
29899	344	26	those	those	DT
29899	344	27	who	who	WP
29899	344	28	regard	regard	VBP
29899	344	29	the	the	DT
29899	344	30	worship	worship	NN
29899	344	31	of	of	IN
29899	344	32	God	God	NNP
29899	344	33	as	as	IN
29899	344	34	a	a	DT
29899	344	35	private	private	JJ
29899	344	36	affair	affair	NN
29899	344	37	,	,	,
29899	344	38	and	and	CC
29899	344	39	those	those	DT
29899	344	40	who	who	WP
29899	344	41	feel	feel	VBP
29899	344	42	the	the	DT
29899	344	43	need	need	NN
29899	344	44	to	to	TO
29899	344	45	reach	reach	VB
29899	344	46	out	out	RP
29899	344	47	to	to	IN
29899	344	48	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	344	49	Meeting	Meeting	NNP
29899	344	50	community	community	NN
29899	344	51	for	for	IN
29899	344	52	personal	personal	JJ
29899	344	53	support	support	NN
29899	344	54	and	and	CC
29899	344	55	a	a	DT
29899	344	56	sense	sense	NN
29899	344	57	of	of	IN
29899	344	58	communion	communion	NN
29899	344	59	which	which	WDT
29899	344	60	includes	include	VBZ
29899	344	61	closer	close	JJR
29899	344	62	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	344	63	with	with	IN
29899	344	64	other	other	JJ
29899	344	65	Friends	friend	NNS
29899	344	66	.	.	.
29899	344	67	"	"	''
29899	345	1	Like	like	IN
29899	345	2	other	other	JJ
29899	345	3	Friends	Friends	NNPS
29899	345	4	,	,	,
29899	345	5	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	345	6	are	be	VBP
29899	345	7	finding	find	VBG
29899	345	8	that	that	IN
29899	345	9	these	these	DT
29899	345	10	experiences	experience	NNS
29899	345	11	can	can	MD
29899	345	12	release	release	VB
29899	345	13	hitherto	hitherto	NNP
29899	345	14	unrealized	unrealized	JJ
29899	345	15	and	and	CC
29899	345	16	untapped	untapped	JJ
29899	345	17	resources	resource	NNS
29899	345	18	of	of	IN
29899	345	19	spiritual	spiritual	JJ
29899	345	20	strength	strength	NN
29899	345	21	and	and	CC
29899	345	22	power	power	NN
29899	345	23	.	.	.
29899	346	1	As	as	IN
29899	346	2	expressed	express	VBN
29899	346	3	by	by	IN
29899	346	4	one	one	CD
29899	346	5	couple	couple	NN
29899	346	6	:	:	:
29899	346	7	"	"	``
29899	346	8	For	for	IN
29899	346	9	two	two	CD
29899	346	10	years	year	NNS
29899	346	11	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	346	12	passed	pass	VBD
29899	346	13	through	through	IN
29899	346	14	a	a	DT
29899	346	15	dark	dark	JJ
29899	346	16	time	time	NN
29899	346	17	in	in	IN
29899	346	18	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	346	19	family	family	NN
29899	346	20	,	,	,
29899	346	21	trying	try	VBG
29899	346	22	to	to	TO
29899	346	23	find	find	VB
29899	346	24	resources	resource	NNS
29899	346	25	to	to	TO
29899	346	26	deal	deal	VB
29899	346	27	with	with	IN
29899	346	28	a	a	DT
29899	346	29	seemingly	seemingly	RB
29899	346	30	insurmountable	insurmountable	JJ
29899	346	31	problem	problem	NN
29899	346	32	.	.	.
29899	347	1	At	at	IN
29899	347	2	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	347	3	first	first	JJ
29899	347	4	retreat	retreat	NN
29899	347	5	,	,	,
29899	347	6	with	with	IN
29899	347	7	the	the	DT
29899	347	8	loving	love	VBG
29899	347	9	support	support	NN
29899	347	10	of	of	IN
29899	347	11	the	the	DT
29899	347	12	group	group	NN
29899	347	13	,	,	,
29899	347	14	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	347	15	were	be	VBD
29899	347	16	able	able	JJ
29899	347	17	as	as	IN
29899	347	18	a	a	DT
29899	347	19	couple	couple	NN
29899	347	20	to	to	TO
29899	347	21	recover	recover	VB
29899	347	22	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	347	23	self	self	NN
29899	347	24	-	-	HYPH
29899	347	25	confidence	confidence	NN
29899	347	26	,	,	,
29899	347	27	sense	sense	NN
29899	347	28	of	of	IN
29899	347	29	worth	worth	JJ
29899	347	30	,	,	,
29899	347	31	and	and	CC
29899	347	32	well	well	RB
29899	347	33	-	-	HYPH
29899	347	34	being	being	NN
29899	347	35	,	,	,
29899	347	36	and	and	CC
29899	347	37	reaffirm	reaffirm	VB
29899	347	38	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	347	39	strengths	strength	NNS
29899	347	40	to	to	IN
29899	347	41	each	each	DT
29899	347	42	other	other	JJ
29899	347	43	.	.	.
29899	348	1	"	"	``
29899	348	2	The	the	DT
29899	348	3	family	family	NN
29899	348	4	problem	problem	NN
29899	348	5	has	have	VBZ
29899	348	6	now	now	RB
29899	348	7	been	be	VBN
29899	348	8	happily	happily	RB
29899	348	9	resolved	resolve	VBN
29899	348	10	,	,	,
29899	348	11	and	and	CC
29899	348	12	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	348	13	have	have	VBP
29899	348	14	found	find	VBN
29899	348	15	extra	extra	JJ
29899	348	16	strength	strength	NN
29899	348	17	to	to	TO
29899	348	18	participate	participate	VB
29899	348	19	fully	fully	RB
29899	348	20	in	in	IN
29899	348	21	the	the	DT
29899	348	22	expression	expression	NN
29899	348	23	of	of	IN
29899	348	24	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	348	25	Quaker	Quaker	NNP
29899	348	26	concerns	concern	NNS
29899	348	27	in	in	IN
29899	348	28	the	the	DT
29899	348	29	larger	large	JJR
29899	348	30	community	community	NN
29899	348	31	.	.	.
29899	349	1	Our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	349	2	Meeting	Meeting	NNP
29899	349	3	did	do	VBD
29899	349	4	much	much	RB
29899	349	5	to	to	TO
29899	349	6	sustain	sustain	VB
29899	349	7	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	349	8	through	through	IN
29899	349	9	the	the	DT
29899	349	10	bleakest	bleak	JJS
29899	349	11	times	time	NNS
29899	349	12	,	,	,
29899	349	13	and	and	CC
29899	349	14	bring	bring	VB
29899	349	15	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	349	16	back	back	RB
29899	349	17	into	into	IN
29899	349	18	clearness	clearness	NN
29899	349	19	and	and	CC
29899	349	20	light	light	NN
29899	349	21	;	;	:
29899	349	22	but	but	CC
29899	349	23	what	what	WP
29899	349	24	helped	help	VBD
29899	349	25	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	349	26	the	the	DT
29899	349	27	most	most	JJS
29899	349	28	to	to	TO
29899	349	29	help	help	VB
29899	349	30	ourselves	-PRON-	PRP
29899	349	31	was	be	VBD
29899	349	32	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	349	33	activities	activity	NNS
29899	349	34	with	with	IN
29899	349	35	the	the	DT
29899	349	36	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	349	37	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	349	38	project	project	NN
29899	349	39	.	.	.
29899	350	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	350	2	continue	continue	VBP
29899	350	3	to	to	TO
29899	350	4	nurture	nurture	VB
29899	350	5	at	at	IN
29899	350	6	home	home	NN
29899	350	7	the	the	DT
29899	350	8	new	new	JJ
29899	350	9	openness	openness	NN
29899	350	10	and	and	CC
29899	350	11	depth	depth	NN
29899	350	12	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	350	13	have	have	VBP
29899	350	14	discovered	discover	VBN
29899	350	15	,	,	,
29899	350	16	and	and	CC
29899	350	17	have	have	VBP
29899	350	18	committed	commit	VBN
29899	350	19	ourselves	-PRON-	PRP
29899	350	20	to	to	TO
29899	350	21	maintain	maintain	VB
29899	350	22	the	the	DT
29899	350	23	healthy	healthy	JJ
29899	350	24	growth	growth	NN
29899	350	25	that	that	WDT
29899	350	26	has	have	VBZ
29899	350	27	been	be	VBN
29899	350	28	made	make	VBN
29899	350	29	possible	possible	JJ
29899	350	30	for	for	IN
29899	350	31	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	350	32	.	.	.
29899	350	33	"	"	''
29899	351	1	CONCLUSION	conclusion	NN
29899	351	2	What	what	WP
29899	351	3	has	have	VBZ
29899	351	4	been	be	VBN
29899	351	5	described	describe	VBN
29899	351	6	in	in	IN
29899	351	7	this	this	DT
29899	351	8	booklet	booklet	NN
29899	351	9	could	could	MD
29899	351	10	easily	easily	RB
29899	351	11	be	be	VB
29899	351	12	dismissed	dismiss	VBN
29899	351	13	as	as	IN
29899	351	14	a	a	DT
29899	351	15	new	new	JJ
29899	351	16	fad	fad	NN
29899	351	17	that	that	WDT
29899	351	18	will	will	MD
29899	351	19	gain	gain	VB
29899	351	20	limited	limited	JJ
29899	351	21	attention	attention	NN
29899	351	22	for	for	IN
29899	351	23	a	a	DT
29899	351	24	short	short	JJ
29899	351	25	time	time	NN
29899	351	26	and	and	CC
29899	351	27	then	then	RB
29899	351	28	be	be	VB
29899	351	29	forgotten	forget	VBN
29899	351	30	,	,	,
29899	351	31	but	but	CC
29899	351	32	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	351	33	may	may	MD
29899	351	34	instead	instead	RB
29899	351	35	be	be	VB
29899	351	36	the	the	DT
29899	351	37	discovery	discovery	NN
29899	351	38	of	of	IN
29899	351	39	vast	vast	JJ
29899	351	40	untapped	untapped	JJ
29899	351	41	resources	resource	NNS
29899	351	42	that	that	WDT
29899	351	43	can	can	MD
29899	351	44	raise	raise	VB
29899	351	45	primary	primary	JJ
29899	351	46	human	human	JJ
29899	351	47	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	351	48	to	to	IN
29899	351	49	new	new	JJ
29899	351	50	and	and	CC
29899	351	51	higher	high	JJR
29899	351	52	levels	level	NNS
29899	351	53	of	of	IN
29899	351	54	richness	richness	NN
29899	351	55	and	and	CC
29899	351	56	creativity	creativity	NN
29899	351	57	.	.	.
29899	352	1	If	if	IN
29899	352	2	this	this	DT
29899	352	3	should	should	MD
29899	352	4	be	be	VB
29899	352	5	the	the	DT
29899	352	6	case	case	NN
29899	352	7	the	the	DT
29899	352	8	loss	loss	NN
29899	352	9	of	of	IN
29899	352	10	this	this	DT
29899	352	11	great	great	JJ
29899	352	12	opportunity	opportunity	NN
29899	352	13	would	would	MD
29899	352	14	be	be	VB
29899	352	15	tragic	tragic	JJ
29899	352	16	.	.	.
29899	353	1	The	the	DT
29899	353	2	need	need	NN
29899	353	3	of	of	IN
29899	353	4	men	man	NNS
29899	353	5	and	and	CC
29899	353	6	women	woman	NNS
29899	353	7	today	today	NN
29899	353	8	,	,	,
29899	353	9	as	as	IN
29899	353	10	in	in	IN
29899	353	11	all	all	DT
29899	353	12	ages	age	NNS
29899	353	13	,	,	,
29899	353	14	is	be	VBZ
29899	353	15	to	to	TO
29899	353	16	learn	learn	VB
29899	353	17	to	to	TO
29899	353	18	live	live	VB
29899	353	19	together	together	RB
29899	353	20	in	in	IN
29899	353	21	love	love	NN
29899	353	22	and	and	CC
29899	353	23	peace	peace	NN
29899	353	24	--	--	:
29899	353	25	to	to	TO
29899	353	26	build	build	VB
29899	353	27	up	up	RP
29899	353	28	rather	rather	RB
29899	353	29	than	than	IN
29899	353	30	to	to	TO
29899	353	31	tear	tear	VB
29899	353	32	down	down	RP
29899	353	33	,	,	,
29899	353	34	to	to	TO
29899	353	35	cooperate	cooperate	VB
29899	353	36	rather	rather	RB
29899	353	37	than	than	IN
29899	353	38	to	to	TO
29899	353	39	compete	compete	VB
29899	353	40	,	,	,
29899	353	41	to	to	TO
29899	353	42	find	find	VB
29899	353	43	meaning	meaning	NN
29899	353	44	in	in	IN
29899	353	45	life	life	NN
29899	353	46	through	through	IN
29899	353	47	open	open	JJ
29899	353	48	sharing	sharing	NN
29899	353	49	with	with	IN
29899	353	50	others	other	NNS
29899	353	51	rather	rather	RB
29899	353	52	than	than	IN
29899	353	53	through	through	IN
29899	353	54	narrow	narrow	JJ
29899	353	55	self	self	NN
29899	353	56	-	-	HYPH
29899	353	57	seeking	seeking	NN
29899	353	58	.	.	.
29899	354	1	Religion	religion	NN
29899	354	2	has	have	VBZ
29899	354	3	always	always	RB
29899	354	4	striven	strive	VBN
29899	354	5	to	to	TO
29899	354	6	further	further	RB
29899	354	7	these	these	DT
29899	354	8	goals	goal	NNS
29899	354	9	,	,	,
29899	354	10	because	because	IN
29899	354	11	they	-PRON-	PRP
29899	354	12	represent	represent	VBP
29899	354	13	the	the	DT
29899	354	14	spiritual	spiritual	JJ
29899	354	15	development	development	NN
29899	354	16	of	of	IN
29899	354	17	man	man	NN
29899	354	18	.	.	.
29899	355	1	But	but	CC
29899	355	2	again	again	RB
29899	355	3	and	and	CC
29899	355	4	again	again	RB
29899	355	5	the	the	DT
29899	355	6	simple	simple	JJ
29899	355	7	truths	truth	NNS
29899	355	8	spoken	speak	VBN
29899	355	9	by	by	IN
29899	355	10	great	great	JJ
29899	355	11	religious	religious	JJ
29899	355	12	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	355	13	have	have	VBP
29899	355	14	been	be	VBN
29899	355	15	lost	lose	VBN
29899	355	16	in	in	IN
29899	355	17	the	the	DT
29899	355	18	complexity	complexity	NN
29899	355	19	of	of	IN
29899	355	20	elaborate	elaborate	JJ
29899	355	21	institutions	institution	NNS
29899	355	22	and	and	CC
29899	355	23	the	the	DT
29899	355	24	lust	lust	NN
29899	355	25	for	for	IN
29899	355	26	power	power	NN
29899	355	27	.	.	.
29899	356	1	Friends	friend	NNS
29899	356	2	have	have	VBP
29899	356	3	been	be	VBN
29899	356	4	distinctive	distinctive	JJ
29899	356	5	in	in	IN
29899	356	6	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	356	7	stubborn	stubborn	JJ
29899	356	8	resistance	resistance	NN
29899	356	9	to	to	IN
29899	356	10	these	these	DT
29899	356	11	diversions	diversion	NNS
29899	356	12	and	and	CC
29899	356	13	distortions	distortion	NNS
29899	356	14	of	of	IN
29899	356	15	the	the	DT
29899	356	16	simple	simple	JJ
29899	356	17	truth	truth	NN
29899	356	18	that	that	WDT
29899	356	19	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	356	20	must	must	MD
29899	356	21	learn	learn	VB
29899	356	22	to	to	TO
29899	356	23	love	love	VB
29899	356	24	God	God	NNP
29899	356	25	and	and	CC
29899	356	26	man	man	NN
29899	356	27	,	,	,
29899	356	28	and	and	CC
29899	356	29	that	that	IN
29899	356	30	there	there	EX
29899	356	31	is	be	VBZ
29899	356	32	no	no	DT
29899	356	33	other	other	JJ
29899	356	34	path	path	NN
29899	356	35	to	to	IN
29899	356	36	redemption	redemption	NN
29899	356	37	.	.	.
29899	357	1	In	in	IN
29899	357	2	each	each	DT
29899	357	3	new	new	JJ
29899	357	4	age	age	NN
29899	357	5	,	,	,
29899	357	6	Quakers	Quakers	NNPS
29899	357	7	have	have	VBP
29899	357	8	found	find	VBN
29899	357	9	ways	way	NNS
29899	357	10	to	to	TO
29899	357	11	witness	witness	VB
29899	357	12	to	to	IN
29899	357	13	the	the	DT
29899	357	14	way	way	NN
29899	357	15	of	of	IN
29899	357	16	love	love	NN
29899	357	17	and	and	CC
29899	357	18	the	the	DT
29899	357	19	way	way	NN
29899	357	20	of	of	IN
29899	357	21	peace	peace	NN
29899	357	22	.	.	.
29899	358	1	May	May	MD
29899	358	2	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	358	3	be	be	VB
29899	358	4	that	that	IN
29899	358	5	a	a	DT
29899	358	6	central	central	JJ
29899	358	7	calling	call	VBG
29899	358	8	for	for	IN
29899	358	9	Friends	friend	NNS
29899	358	10	today	today	NN
29899	358	11	is	be	VBZ
29899	358	12	to	to	TO
29899	358	13	respond	respond	VB
29899	358	14	to	to	IN
29899	358	15	the	the	DT
29899	358	16	disintegration	disintegration	NN
29899	358	17	of	of	IN
29899	358	18	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	358	19	and	and	CC
29899	358	20	the	the	DT
29899	358	21	alienation	alienation	NN
29899	358	22	of	of	IN
29899	358	23	the	the	DT
29899	358	24	generations	generation	NNS
29899	358	25	by	by	IN
29899	358	26	finding	find	VBG
29899	358	27	in	in	IN
29899	358	28	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	358	29	own	own	JJ
29899	358	30	marriages	marriage	NNS
29899	358	31	,	,	,
29899	358	32	and	and	CC
29899	358	33	in	in	IN
29899	358	34	their	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	358	35	family	family	NN
29899	358	36	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	358	37	,	,	,
29899	358	38	a	a	DT
29899	358	39	new	new	JJ
29899	358	40	quality	quality	NN
29899	358	41	of	of	IN
29899	358	42	creativeness	creativeness	NN
29899	358	43	based	base	VBN
29899	358	44	on	on	IN
29899	358	45	a	a	DT
29899	358	46	deep	deep	JJ
29899	358	47	and	and	CC
29899	358	48	honest	honest	JJ
29899	358	49	sharing	sharing	NN
29899	358	50	of	of	IN
29899	358	51	life	life	NN
29899	358	52	?	?	.
29899	359	1	Can	Can	MD
29899	359	2	love	love	NN
29899	359	3	be	be	VB
29899	359	4	spread	spread	VBN
29899	359	5	abroad	abroad	RB
29899	359	6	in	in	IN
29899	359	7	the	the	DT
29899	359	8	earth	earth	NN
29899	359	9	,	,	,
29899	359	10	if	if	IN
29899	359	11	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	359	12	can	can	MD
29899	359	13	not	not	RB
29899	359	14	be	be	VB
29899	359	15	nurtured	nurture	VBN
29899	359	16	in	in	IN
29899	359	17	the	the	DT
29899	359	18	close	close	JJ
29899	359	19	and	and	CC
29899	359	20	intimate	intimate	JJ
29899	359	21	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	359	22	between	between	IN
29899	359	23	man	man	NN
29899	359	24	and	and	CC
29899	359	25	woman	woman	NN
29899	359	26	,	,	,
29899	359	27	the	the	DT
29899	359	28	nuclear	nuclear	JJ
29899	359	29	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	359	30	where	where	WRB
29899	359	31	love	love	NN
29899	359	32	begins	begin	VBZ
29899	359	33	and	and	CC
29899	359	34	where	where	WRB
29899	359	35	life	life	NN
29899	359	36	begins	begin	VBZ
29899	359	37	?	?	.
29899	360	1	Can	Can	MD
29899	360	2	one	one	CD
29899	360	3	proclaim	proclaim	VB
29899	360	4	peace	peace	NN
29899	360	5	among	among	IN
29899	360	6	the	the	DT
29899	360	7	nations	nation	NNS
29899	360	8	if	if	IN
29899	360	9	unable	unable	JJ
29899	360	10	to	to	TO
29899	360	11	contrive	contrive	VB
29899	360	12	to	to	TO
29899	360	13	live	live	VB
29899	360	14	in	in	IN
29899	360	15	harmony	harmony	NN
29899	360	16	with	with	IN
29899	360	17	those	those	DT
29899	360	18	under	under	IN
29899	360	19	one	one	PRP
29899	360	20	's	's	POS
29899	360	21	own	own	JJ
29899	360	22	roof	roof	NN
29899	360	23	?	?	.
29899	361	1	The	the	DT
29899	361	2	mood	mood	NN
29899	361	3	of	of	IN
29899	361	4	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	361	5	age	age	NN
29899	361	6	is	be	VBZ
29899	361	7	compounded	compound	VBN
29899	361	8	of	of	IN
29899	361	9	hope	hope	NN
29899	361	10	and	and	CC
29899	361	11	despair	despair	NN
29899	361	12	.	.	.
29899	362	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	362	2	have	have	VBP
29899	362	3	achieved	achieve	VBN
29899	362	4	so	so	RB
29899	362	5	much	much	JJ
29899	362	6	,	,	,
29899	362	7	in	in	IN
29899	362	8	terms	term	NNS
29899	362	9	of	of	IN
29899	362	10	technological	technological	JJ
29899	362	11	skill	skill	NN
29899	362	12	and	and	CC
29899	362	13	power	power	NN
29899	362	14	;	;	:
29899	362	15	and	and	CC
29899	362	16	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	362	17	have	have	VBP
29899	362	18	achieved	achieve	VBN
29899	362	19	so	so	RB
29899	362	20	little	little	JJ
29899	362	21	,	,	,
29899	362	22	in	in	IN
29899	362	23	terms	term	NNS
29899	362	24	of	of	IN
29899	362	25	harmonious	harmonious	JJ
29899	362	26	human	human	JJ
29899	362	27	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	362	28	.	.	.
29899	363	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	363	2	have	have	VBP
29899	363	3	created	create	VBN
29899	363	4	the	the	DT
29899	363	5	power	power	NN
29899	363	6	to	to	TO
29899	363	7	make	make	VB
29899	363	8	this	this	DT
29899	363	9	world	world	NN
29899	363	10	,	,	,
29899	363	11	compared	compare	VBN
29899	363	12	with	with	IN
29899	363	13	what	what	WP
29899	363	14	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	363	15	has	have	VBZ
29899	363	16	been	be	VBN
29899	363	17	,	,	,
29899	363	18	a	a	DT
29899	363	19	paradise	paradise	NN
29899	363	20	for	for	IN
29899	363	21	man	man	NN
29899	363	22	to	to	TO
29899	363	23	enjoy	enjoy	VB
29899	363	24	,	,	,
29899	363	25	but	but	CC
29899	363	26	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	363	27	have	have	VBP
29899	363	28	failed	fail	VBN
29899	363	29	to	to	TO
29899	363	30	make	make	VB
29899	363	31	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	363	32	possible	possible	JJ
29899	363	33	for	for	IN
29899	363	34	man	man	NN
29899	363	35	to	to	TO
29899	363	36	enjoy	enjoy	VB
29899	363	37	what	what	WP
29899	363	38	has	have	VBZ
29899	363	39	been	be	VBN
29899	363	40	achieved	achieve	VBN
29899	363	41	.	.	.
29899	364	1	With	with	IN
29899	364	2	the	the	DT
29899	364	3	threat	threat	NN
29899	364	4	of	of	IN
29899	364	5	an	an	DT
29899	364	6	atomic	atomic	JJ
29899	364	7	holocaust	holocaust	NN
29899	364	8	hanging	hang	VBG
29899	364	9	like	like	IN
29899	364	10	the	the	DT
29899	364	11	sword	sword	NN
29899	364	12	of	of	IN
29899	364	13	Damocles	Damocles	NNP
29899	364	14	over	over	IN
29899	364	15	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	364	16	heads	head	NNS
29899	364	17	,	,	,
29899	364	18	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	364	19	know	know	VBP
29899	364	20	beyond	beyond	IN
29899	364	21	doubt	doubt	NN
29899	364	22	that	that	IN
29899	364	23	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	364	24	must	must	MD
29899	364	25	learn	learn	VB
29899	364	26	the	the	DT
29899	364	27	art	art	NN
29899	364	28	of	of	IN
29899	364	29	living	live	VBG
29899	364	30	together	together	RB
29899	364	31	in	in	IN
29899	364	32	love	love	NN
29899	364	33	and	and	CC
29899	364	34	peace	peace	NN
29899	364	35	or	or	CC
29899	364	36	lose	lose	VB
29899	364	37	all	all	DT
29899	364	38	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	364	39	have	have	VBP
29899	364	40	.	.	.
29899	365	1	In	in	IN
29899	365	2	such	such	PDT
29899	365	3	an	an	DT
29899	365	4	hour	hour	NN
29899	365	5	,	,	,
29899	365	6	what	what	WP
29899	365	7	can	can	MD
29899	365	8	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	365	9	do	do	VB
29899	365	10	?	?	.
29899	366	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	366	2	can	can	MD
29899	366	3	make	make	VB
29899	366	4	a	a	DT
29899	366	5	beginning	beginning	NN
29899	366	6	.	.	.
29899	367	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	367	2	can	can	MD
29899	367	3	begin	begin	VB
29899	367	4	at	at	IN
29899	367	5	home	home	NN
29899	367	6	--	--	:
29899	367	7	with	with	IN
29899	367	8	ourselves	-PRON-	PRP
29899	367	9	,	,	,
29899	367	10	and	and	CC
29899	367	11	those	those	DT
29899	367	12	nearest	near	JJS
29899	367	13	and	and	CC
29899	367	14	dearest	dear	JJS
29899	367	15	to	to	IN
29899	367	16	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	367	17	.	.	.
29899	368	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	368	2	can	can	MD
29899	368	3	strive	strive	VB
29899	368	4	to	to	TO
29899	368	5	learn	learn	VB
29899	368	6	the	the	DT
29899	368	7	great	great	JJ
29899	368	8	art	art	NN
29899	368	9	of	of	IN
29899	368	10	living	live	VBG
29899	368	11	in	in	IN
29899	368	12	the	the	DT
29899	368	13	school	school	NN
29899	368	14	that	that	WDT
29899	368	15	has	have	VBZ
29899	368	16	been	be	VBN
29899	368	17	provided	provide	VBN
29899	368	18	for	for	IN
29899	368	19	us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	368	20	.	.	.
29899	369	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	369	2	can	can	MD
29899	369	3	build	build	VB
29899	369	4	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	369	5	-	-	HYPH
29899	369	6	in	in	IN
29899	369	7	-	-	HYPH
29899	369	8	depth	depth	NN
29899	369	9	at	at	IN
29899	369	10	the	the	DT
29899	369	11	foundations	foundation	NNS
29899	369	12	of	of	IN
29899	369	13	human	human	JJ
29899	369	14	society	society	NN
29899	369	15	:	:	:
29899	369	16	for	for	IN
29899	369	17	in	in	IN
29899	369	18	the	the	DT
29899	369	19	last	last	JJ
29899	369	20	resort	resort	NN
29899	369	21	the	the	DT
29899	369	22	quality	quality	NN
29899	369	23	of	of	IN
29899	369	24	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	369	25	in	in	IN
29899	369	26	any	any	DT
29899	369	27	community	community	NN
29899	369	28	can	can	MD
29899	369	29	not	not	RB
29899	369	30	rise	rise	VB
29899	369	31	to	to	IN
29899	369	32	any	any	DT
29899	369	33	higher	high	JJR
29899	369	34	levels	level	NNS
29899	369	35	than	than	IN
29899	369	36	the	the	DT
29899	369	37	quality	quality	NN
29899	369	38	of	of	IN
29899	369	39	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	369	40	in	in	IN
29899	369	41	the	the	DT
29899	369	42	families	family	NNS
29899	369	43	that	that	WDT
29899	369	44	make	make	VBP
29899	369	45	up	up	RP
29899	369	46	the	the	DT
29899	369	47	community	community	NN
29899	369	48	;	;	:
29899	369	49	and	and	CC
29899	369	50	the	the	DT
29899	369	51	quality	quality	NN
29899	369	52	of	of	IN
29899	369	53	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	369	54	in	in	IN
29899	369	55	any	any	DT
29899	369	56	family	family	NN
29899	369	57	can	can	MD
29899	369	58	not	not	RB
29899	369	59	rise	rise	VB
29899	369	60	any	any	DT
29899	369	61	higher	high	JJR
29899	369	62	than	than	IN
29899	369	63	the	the	DT
29899	369	64	quality	quality	NN
29899	369	65	of	of	IN
29899	369	66	relationships	relationship	NNS
29899	369	67	in	in	IN
29899	369	68	the	the	DT
29899	369	69	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	369	70	that	that	WDT
29899	369	71	has	have	VBZ
29899	369	72	brought	bring	VBN
29899	369	73	it	-PRON-	PRP
29899	369	74	into	into	IN
29899	369	75	being	being	NN
29899	369	76	.	.	.
29899	370	1	Yes	yes	UH
29899	370	2	,	,	,
29899	370	3	there	there	EX
29899	370	4	_	_	NNP
29899	370	5	is	be	VBZ
29899	370	6	_	_	NNP
29899	370	7	something	something	NN
29899	370	8	we	-PRON-	PRP
29899	370	9	can	can	MD
29899	370	10	do	do	VB
29899	370	11	to	to	TO
29899	370	12	witness	witness	VB
29899	370	13	to	to	IN
29899	370	14	the	the	DT
29899	370	15	power	power	NN
29899	370	16	of	of	IN
29899	370	17	love	love	NN
29899	370	18	and	and	CC
29899	370	19	peace	peace	NN
29899	370	20	.	.	.
29899	371	1	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	371	2	can	can	MD
29899	371	3	make	make	VB
29899	371	4	a	a	DT
29899	371	5	beginning	beginning	NN
29899	371	6	.	.	.
29899	372	1	Marriage	marriage	NN
29899	372	2	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	372	3	is	be	VBZ
29899	372	4	such	such	PDT
29899	372	5	a	a	DT
29899	372	6	beginning	beginning	NN
29899	372	7	.	.	.
29899	373	1	FOOTNOTES	footnote	NNS
29899	373	2	:	:	:
29899	373	3	[	[	-LRB-
29899	373	4	Footnote	Footnote	NNP
29899	373	5	A	A	NNP
29899	373	6	:	:	:
29899	373	7	Mace	Mace	NNP
29899	373	8	,	,	,
29899	373	9	David	David	NNP
29899	373	10	R.	R.	NNP
29899	373	11	,	,	,
29899	373	12	_	_	NNP
29899	373	13	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	373	14	As	as	IN
29899	373	15	Vocation	Vocation	NNP
29899	373	16	_	_	NNP
29899	373	17	,	,	,
29899	373	18	F.G.C.	F.G.C.	NNP
29899	374	1	1969	1969	CD
29899	374	2	.	.	.
29899	374	3	]	]	-RRB-
29899	375	1	[	[	-LRB-
29899	375	2	Footnote	Footnote	NNP
29899	375	3	B	B	NNP
29899	375	4	:	:	:
29899	375	5	Reprinted	reprint	VBN
29899	375	6	in	in	IN
29899	375	7	slightly	slightly	RB
29899	375	8	revised	revise	VBN
29899	375	9	form	form	NN
29899	375	10	from	from	IN
29899	375	11	Friends	Friends	NNP
29899	375	12	Journal	Journal	NNP
29899	375	13	,	,	,
29899	375	14	December	December	NNP
29899	375	15	15	15	CD
29899	375	16	,	,	,
29899	375	17	1972	1972	CD
29899	375	18	.	.	.
29899	375	19	]	]	-RRB-
29899	376	1	[	[	-LRB-
29899	376	2	Footnote	Footnote	NNP
29899	376	3	C	C	NNP
29899	376	4	:	:	:
29899	376	5	Lederer	Lederer	NNP
29899	376	6	and	and	CC
29899	376	7	Jackson--_The	Jackson--_The	NNP
29899	376	8	Mirages	Mirages	NNPS
29899	376	9	of	of	IN
29899	376	10	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	376	11	_	_	NNP
29899	376	12	,	,	,
29899	376	13	Norton	Norton	NNP
29899	376	14	,	,	,
29899	376	15	1968	1968	CD
29899	376	16	,	,	,
29899	376	17	page	page	NN
29899	376	18	129	129	CD
29899	376	19	.	.	.
29899	376	20	]	]	-RRB-
29899	377	1	[	[	-LRB-
29899	377	2	Footnote	footnote	NN
29899	377	3	D	d	NN
29899	377	4	:	:	:
29899	377	5	Cicero	Cicero	NNP
29899	377	6	and	and	CC
29899	377	7	Fahs--_Conversations	Fahs--_Conversations	NNPS
29899	377	8	on	on	IN
29899	377	9	Sex	Sex	NNP
29899	377	10	and	and	CC
29899	377	11	Love	Love	NNP
29899	377	12	in	in	IN
29899	377	13	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	377	14	_	_	NNP
29899	377	15	,	,	,
29899	377	16	Word	Word	NNP
29899	377	17	Books	Books	NNP
29899	377	18	,	,	,
29899	377	19	1972	1972	CD
29899	377	20	.	.	.
29899	377	21	]	]	-RRB-
29899	378	1	[	[	-LRB-
29899	378	2	Footnote	footnote	NN
29899	378	3	E	e	NN
29899	378	4	:	:	:
29899	378	5	We	-PRON-	PRP
29899	378	6	have	have	VBP
29899	378	7	capitulated	capitulate	VBN
29899	378	8	at	at	IN
29899	378	9	times	time	NNS
29899	378	10	and	and	CC
29899	378	11	have	have	VBP
29899	378	12	prepared	prepare	VBN
29899	378	13	a	a	DT
29899	378	14	brief	brief	JJ
29899	378	15	book	book	NN
29899	378	16	list	list	NN
29899	378	17	.	.	.
29899	379	1	A	a	DT
29899	379	2	larger	large	JJR
29899	379	3	list	list	NN
29899	379	4	appears	appear	VBZ
29899	379	5	in	in	IN
29899	379	6	the	the	DT
29899	379	7	appendix	appendix	NNP
29899	379	8	.	.	.
29899	379	9	]	]	-RRB-
29899	380	1	BOOKS	BOOKS	NNP
29899	380	2	FOR	for	IN
29899	380	3	FURTHER	further	JJ
29899	380	4	READING	read	VBG
29899	380	5	There	there	EX
29899	380	6	is	be	VBZ
29899	380	7	as	as	RB
29899	380	8	yet	yet	RB
29899	380	9	little	little	JJ
29899	380	10	in	in	IN
29899	380	11	the	the	DT
29899	380	12	way	way	NN
29899	380	13	of	of	IN
29899	380	14	literature	literature	NN
29899	380	15	about	about	IN
29899	380	16	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	380	17	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	380	18	.	.	.
29899	381	1	Here	here	RB
29899	381	2	are	be	VBP
29899	381	3	a	a	DT
29899	381	4	few	few	JJ
29899	381	5	books	book	NNS
29899	381	6	which	which	WDT
29899	381	7	have	have	VBP
29899	381	8	been	be	VBN
29899	381	9	found	find	VBN
29899	381	10	useful	useful	JJ
29899	381	11	by	by	IN
29899	381	12	leaders	leader	NNS
29899	381	13	of	of	IN
29899	381	14	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	381	15	.	.	.
29899	382	1	Bach	Bach	NNP
29899	382	2	,	,	,
29899	382	3	G.	G.	NNP
29899	382	4	R.	R.	NNP
29899	382	5	and	and	CC
29899	382	6	Wyden	Wyden	NNP
29899	382	7	,	,	,
29899	382	8	P.	P.	NNP
29899	382	9	,	,	,
29899	382	10	_	_	NNP
29899	382	11	The	the	DT
29899	382	12	Intimate	Intimate	NNP
29899	382	13	Enemy	Enemy	NNP
29899	382	14	_	_	NNP
29899	382	15	.	.	.
29899	383	1	Morrow	Morrow	NNP
29899	383	2	,	,	,
29899	383	3	1969	1969	CD
29899	383	4	,	,	,
29899	383	5	(	(	-LRB-
29899	383	6	available	available	JJ
29899	383	7	in	in	IN
29899	383	8	paperback	paperback	NN
29899	383	9	)	)	-RRB-
29899	383	10	.	.	.
29899	384	1	A	a	DT
29899	384	2	belligerent	belligerent	NN
29899	384	3	but	but	CC
29899	384	4	challenging	challenging	JJ
29899	384	5	book	book	NN
29899	384	6	about	about	IN
29899	384	7	marital	marital	JJ
29899	384	8	conflict	conflict	NN
29899	384	9	.	.	.
29899	385	1	Clinebell	clinebell	RB
29899	385	2	,	,	,
29899	385	3	H.	H.	NNP
29899	385	4	J.	J.	NNP
29899	385	5	and	and	CC
29899	385	6	C.	C.	NNP
29899	385	7	H.	H.	NNP
29899	385	8	,	,	,
29899	385	9	_	_	NNP
29899	385	10	The	the	DT
29899	385	11	Intimate	Intimate	NNP
29899	385	12	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	385	13	_	_	NNP
29899	385	14	.	.	.
29899	386	1	Harper	Harper	NNP
29899	386	2	and	and	CC
29899	386	3	Row	Row	NNP
29899	386	4	,	,	,
29899	386	5	1970	1970	CD
29899	386	6	.	.	.
29899	387	1	Perhaps	perhaps	RB
29899	387	2	the	the	DT
29899	387	3	best	good	JJS
29899	387	4	book	book	NN
29899	387	5	available	available	JJ
29899	387	6	on	on	IN
29899	387	7	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	387	8	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	387	9	.	.	.
29899	388	1	Hastings	Hastings	NNP
29899	388	2	,	,	,
29899	388	3	D.	D.	NNP
29899	388	4	W.	W.	NNP
29899	388	5	,	,	,
29899	388	6	_	_	NNP
29899	388	7	A	A	NNP
29899	388	8	Doctor	doctor	NN
29899	388	9	Speaks	speak	VBZ
29899	388	10	on	on	IN
29899	388	11	Sexual	sexual	JJ
29899	388	12	Expression	expression	NN
29899	388	13	in	in	IN
29899	388	14	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	388	15	_	_	NNP
29899	388	16	.	.	.
29899	389	1	Little	little	JJ
29899	389	2	,	,	,
29899	389	3	Brown	Brown	NNP
29899	389	4	,	,	,
29899	389	5	1966	1966	CD
29899	389	6	.	.	.
29899	390	1	A	a	DT
29899	390	2	reliable	reliable	JJ
29899	390	3	guide	guide	NN
29899	390	4	written	write	VBN
29899	390	5	by	by	IN
29899	390	6	a	a	DT
29899	390	7	psychiatrist	psychiatrist	NN
29899	390	8	and	and	CC
29899	390	9	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	390	10	counselor	counselor	NN
29899	390	11	.	.	.
29899	391	1	Lederer	Lederer	NNP
29899	391	2	,	,	,
29899	391	3	W.	W.	NNP
29899	391	4	J.	J.	NNP
29899	391	5	and	and	CC
29899	391	6	Jackson	Jackson	NNP
29899	391	7	,	,	,
29899	391	8	Don	Don	NNP
29899	391	9	D.	D.	NNP
29899	391	10	,	,	,
29899	391	11	_	_	NNP
29899	391	12	The	the	DT
29899	391	13	Mirages	mirage	NNS
29899	391	14	of	of	IN
29899	391	15	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	391	16	_	_	NNP
29899	391	17	.	.	.
29899	392	1	Norton	Norton	NNP
29899	392	2	,	,	,
29899	392	3	1968	1968	CD
29899	392	4	.	.	.
29899	393	1	A	a	DT
29899	393	2	challenging	challenging	JJ
29899	393	3	and	and	CC
29899	393	4	unusual	unusual	JJ
29899	393	5	book	book	NN
29899	393	6	on	on	IN
29899	393	7	contemporary	contemporary	JJ
29899	393	8	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	393	9	.	.	.
29899	394	1	Mace	Mace	NNP
29899	394	2	,	,	,
29899	394	3	D.	D.	NNP
29899	394	4	R.	R.	NNP
29899	394	5	,	,	,
29899	394	6	_	_	NNP
29899	394	7	Success	Success	NNP
29899	394	8	in	in	IN
29899	394	9	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	394	10	_	_	NNP
29899	394	11	.	.	.
29899	395	1	Abingdon	Abingdon	NNP
29899	395	2	,	,	,
29899	395	3	1958	1958	CD
29899	395	4	.	.	.
29899	396	1	An	an	DT
29899	396	2	easily	easily	RB
29899	396	3	read	read	VBN
29899	396	4	paperback	paperback	NN
29899	396	5	on	on	IN
29899	396	6	the	the	DT
29899	396	7	areas	area	NNS
29899	396	8	of	of	IN
29899	396	9	marital	marital	JJ
29899	396	10	adjustment	adjustment	NN
29899	396	11	.	.	.
29899	397	1	Mace	Mace	NNP
29899	397	2	,	,	,
29899	397	3	D.	D.	NNP
29899	397	4	R.	R.	NNP
29899	397	5	,	,	,
29899	397	6	_	_	NNP
29899	397	7	Getting	get	VBG
29899	397	8	Ready	ready	JJ
29899	397	9	for	for	IN
29899	397	10	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	397	11	_	_	NNP
29899	397	12	.	.	.
29899	398	1	Abingdon	Abingdon	NNP
29899	398	2	,	,	,
29899	398	3	1972	1972	CD
29899	398	4	.	.	.
29899	399	1	A	a	DT
29899	399	2	practical	practical	JJ
29899	399	3	guide	guide	NN
29899	399	4	for	for	IN
29899	399	5	the	the	DT
29899	399	6	couple	couple	NN
29899	399	7	preparing	prepare	VBG
29899	399	8	for	for	IN
29899	399	9	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	399	10	.	.	.
29899	400	1	Mace	Mace	NNP
29899	400	2	,	,	,
29899	400	3	D.	D.	NNP
29899	400	4	R.	R.	NNP
29899	400	5	,	,	,
29899	400	6	_	_	NNP
29899	400	7	Sexual	Sexual	NNP
29899	400	8	Difficulties	difficulty	NNS
29899	400	9	in	in	IN
29899	400	10	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	400	11	_	_	NNP
29899	400	12	.	.	.
29899	401	1	Fortress	Fortress	NNP
29899	401	2	Press	Press	NNP
29899	401	3	,	,	,
29899	401	4	1972	1972	CD
29899	401	5	.	.	.
29899	402	1	A	a	DT
29899	402	2	short	short	JJ
29899	402	3	and	and	CC
29899	402	4	simple	simple	JJ
29899	402	5	explanation	explanation	NN
29899	402	6	of	of	IN
29899	402	7	sexual	sexual	JJ
29899	402	8	inadequacy	inadequacy	NN
29899	402	9	and	and	CC
29899	402	10	the	the	DT
29899	402	11	new	new	JJ
29899	402	12	approaches	approach	NNS
29899	402	13	to	to	IN
29899	402	14	its	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	402	15	treatment	treatment	NN
29899	402	16	.	.	.
29899	403	1	McGinnes	McGinnes	NNP
29899	403	2	,	,	,
29899	403	3	T.	T.	NNP
29899	403	4	,	,	,
29899	403	5	_	_	NNP
29899	403	6	Your	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	403	7	First	first	JJ
29899	403	8	Year	Year	NNP
29899	403	9	of	of	IN
29899	403	10	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	403	11	_	_	NNP
29899	403	12	.	.	.
29899	404	1	A	a	DT
29899	404	2	very	very	RB
29899	404	3	helpful	helpful	JJ
29899	404	4	guide	guide	NN
29899	404	5	for	for	IN
29899	404	6	the	the	DT
29899	404	7	recently	recently	RB
29899	404	8	married	marry	VBN
29899	404	9	couple	couple	NN
29899	404	10	.	.	.
29899	405	1	O'Neill	O'Neill	NNP
29899	405	2	,	,	,
29899	405	3	G.	G.	NNP
29899	405	4	and	and	CC
29899	405	5	N.	N.	NNP
29899	405	6	,	,	,
29899	405	7	_	_	NNP
29899	405	8	The	the	DT
29899	405	9	Open	Open	NNP
29899	405	10	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	405	11	_	_	NNP
29899	405	12	.	.	.
29899	406	1	A	a	DT
29899	406	2	best	good	JJS
29899	406	3	-	-	HYPH
29899	406	4	seller	seller	NN
29899	406	5	on	on	IN
29899	406	6	some	some	DT
29899	406	7	of	of	IN
29899	406	8	today	today	NN
29899	406	9	's	's	POS
29899	406	10	new	new	JJ
29899	406	11	concepts	concept	NNS
29899	406	12	of	of	IN
29899	406	13	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	406	14	.	.	.
29899	407	1	Otto	Otto	NNP
29899	407	2	,	,	,
29899	407	3	H.	H.	NNP
29899	407	4	,	,	,
29899	407	5	_	_	NNP
29899	407	6	More	More	JJR
29899	407	7	Joy	Joy	NNP
29899	407	8	in	in	IN
29899	407	9	Your	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	407	10	Marriage	marriage	NN
29899	407	11	_	_	NNP
29899	407	12	.	.	.
29899	408	1	Cornerstone	Cornerstone	NNP
29899	408	2	Library	Library	NNP
29899	408	3	1969	1969	CD
29899	408	4	.	.	.
29899	409	1	A	a	DT
29899	409	2	book	book	NN
29899	409	3	full	full	JJ
29899	409	4	of	of	IN
29899	409	5	practical	practical	JJ
29899	409	6	ideas	idea	NNS
29899	409	7	for	for	IN
29899	409	8	increasing	increase	VBG
29899	409	9	marital	marital	JJ
29899	409	10	potential	potential	NN
29899	409	11	.	.	.
29899	410	1	Peterson	Peterson	NNP
29899	410	2	,	,	,
29899	410	3	J.	J.	NNP
29899	411	1	A.	A.	NNP
29899	411	2	,	,	,
29899	411	3	_	_	NNP
29899	411	4	Married	Married	NNP
29899	411	5	Love	Love	NNP
29899	411	6	in	in	IN
29899	411	7	the	the	DT
29899	411	8	Middle	Middle	NNP
29899	411	9	Years	Years	NNPS
29899	411	10	_	_	NNP
29899	411	11	.	.	.
29899	412	1	Association	Association	NNP
29899	412	2	Press	Press	NNP
29899	412	3	,	,	,
29899	412	4	1968	1968	CD
29899	412	5	.	.	.
29899	413	1	An	an	DT
29899	413	2	excellent	excellent	JJ
29899	413	3	book	book	NN
29899	413	4	on	on	IN
29899	413	5	a	a	DT
29899	413	6	neglected	neglect	VBN
29899	413	7	subject	subject	NN
29899	413	8	.	.	.
29899	414	1	Rubin	Rubin	NNP
29899	414	2	,	,	,
29899	414	3	T.	T.	NNP
29899	414	4	I.	I.	NNP
29899	414	5	,	,	,
29899	414	6	_	_	NNP
29899	414	7	The	the	DT
29899	414	8	Angry	Angry	NNP
29899	414	9	Book	Book	NNP
29899	414	10	_	_	NNP
29899	414	11	,	,	,
29899	414	12	Macmillan	Macmillan	NNP
29899	414	13	,	,	,
29899	414	14	1969	1969	CD
29899	414	15	.	.	.
29899	415	1	Samuel	Samuel	NNP
29899	415	2	,	,	,
29899	415	3	Dorothy	Dorothy	NNP
29899	415	4	,	,	,
29899	415	5	_	_	NNP
29899	415	6	The	The	NNP
29899	415	7	Fun	Fun	NNP
29899	415	8	and	and	CC
29899	415	9	Games	Games	NNPS
29899	415	10	of	of	IN
29899	415	11	Marriage	Marriage	NNP
29899	415	12	_	_	NNP
29899	415	13	.	.	.
29899	416	1	Word	Word	NNP
29899	416	2	Books	Books	NNP
29899	416	3	,	,	,
29899	416	4	1973	1973	CD
29899	416	5	.	.	.
29899	417	1	Thoughts	thought	NNS
29899	417	2	on	on	IN
29899	417	3	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	417	4	as	as	IN
29899	417	5	a	a	DT
29899	417	6	depth	depth	NN
29899	417	7	relationship	relationship	NN
29899	417	8	,	,	,
29899	417	9	written	write	VBN
29899	417	10	by	by	IN
29899	417	11	one	one	CD
29899	417	12	of	of	IN
29899	417	13	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	417	14	Quaker	Quaker	NNP
29899	417	15	trainees	trainee	VBZ
29899	417	16	.	.	.
29899	418	1	Smith	Smith	NNP
29899	418	2	,	,	,
29899	418	3	G.	G.	NNP
29899	418	4	W.	W.	NNP
29899	418	5	and	and	CC
29899	418	6	A.	A.	NNP
29899	418	7	I.	I.	NNP
29899	418	8	,	,	,
29899	418	9	_	_	NNP
29899	418	10	Me	-PRON-	PRP
29899	418	11	and	and	CC
29899	418	12	You	-PRON-	PRP
29899	418	13	and	and	CC
29899	418	14	Us	-PRON-	PRP
29899	418	15	_	_	NNP
29899	418	16	.	.	.
29899	419	1	Wyden	Wyden	NNP
29899	419	2	,	,	,
29899	419	3	1971	1971	CD
29899	419	4	.	.	.
29899	420	1	A	a	DT
29899	420	2	book	book	NN
29899	420	3	of	of	IN
29899	420	4	exercises	exercise	NNS
29899	420	5	(	(	-LRB-
29899	420	6	47	47	CD
29899	420	7	in	in	IN
29899	420	8	all	all	DT
29899	420	9	)	)	-RRB-
29899	420	10	for	for	IN
29899	420	11	couples	couple	NNS
29899	420	12	seeking	seek	VBG
29899	420	13	marriage	marriage	NN
29899	420	14	enrichment	enrichment	NN
29899	420	15	.	.	.
29899	421	1	Written	write	VBN
29899	421	2	by	by	IN
29899	421	3	a	a	DT
29899	421	4	couple	couple	NN
29899	421	5	who	who	WP
29899	421	6	participated	participate	VBD
29899	421	7	in	in	IN
29899	421	8	one	one	CD
29899	421	9	of	of	IN
29899	421	10	our	-PRON-	PRP$
29899	421	11	earliest	early	JJS
29899	421	12	retreats	retreat	NNS
29899	421	13	at	at	IN
29899	421	14	Kirkridge	Kirkridge	NNP
29899	421	15	,	,	,
29899	421	16	then	then	RB
29899	421	17	went	go	VBD
29899	421	18	into	into	IN
29899	421	19	the	the	DT
29899	421	20	field	field	NN
29899	421	21	as	as	IN
29899	421	22	full	full	JJ
29899	421	23	-	-	HYPH
29899	421	24	time	time	NN
29899	421	25	family	family	NN
29899	421	26	therapists	therapist	NNS
29899	421	27	.	.	.
29899	422	1	West	West	NNP
29899	422	2	,	,	,
29899	422	3	Jessamyn	Jessamyn	NNP
29899	422	4	,	,	,
29899	422	5	_	_	NNP
29899	422	6	Love	Love	NNP
29899	422	7	is	be	VBZ
29899	422	8	Not	not	RB
29899	422	9	What	what	WP
29899	422	10	You	-PRON-	PRP
29899	422	11	Think	think	VBP
29899	422	12	_	_	NNP
29899	422	13	.	.	.
29899	423	1	Harcourt	Harcourt	NNP
29899	423	2	,	,	,
29899	423	3	Brace	Brace	NNP
29899	423	4	,	,	,
29899	423	5	1959	1959	CD
29899	423	6	.	.	.
29899	424	1	Written	write	VBN
29899	424	2	by	by	IN
29899	424	3	a	a	DT
29899	424	4	distinguished	distinguished	JJ
29899	424	5	Quaker	Quaker	NNP
29899	424	6	novelist	novelist	NN
29899	424	7	.	.	.