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LONDON : Printed for Thomas Cockerill , at the Three Legs in the Poultrey , over-against the Stocks-Market . 1683. To the Right Honourable , John Earl of Kildare , and Baron of Ophalia . My Lord , THose whom the indulgent Providence of God has favour'd with great Riches and Honours , as it has your Lordship , are under a great necessity to have their minds well accomplisht with Vertue , Wisdom and Piety . No man can use an high Fortune well , to his comfort and honour in this life , or his happiness in the next ( which in some measure depends upon this too ) , but he that is a wise and good man. The more of these outward things any person has in possession , the greater degrees of inward endowments are necessary to direct him in the use of them ; for greater service to God , and more good to men , is expected by the Donor from him : and he is exposed to the more and the stronger temptations to evil . Great Fortunes are like mighty Engines , which if they are wisely and carefully managed , will perform great and useful effects : But if not , instead of serving their end , they may dash out the brains of him that uses them . They usually serve to make men the best , or the worst of Mankind ; either the most glorious instances of Vertue and Religion , or the most enormous sinners . To some unhappy men that want these inward Endowments , their great Possessions are only the Instruments of wickedness : They serve to gratifie and cherish foolish and hurtful Lusts . So the Possessors of them become the slaves of sin , and miserable Captives to the Devil . The mistaken men , grosly imposed upon by his subtil and malicious arts , are brought into a sordid and pernicious bondage , whilst they fancied themselves enjoying an uncontrolled liberty . Thus also these men unfit themselves for all good and heroick enterprizes and performances : They blast their own glory , and interrupt and prevent the praise and renown which they might obtain . It is often their fate to see themselves neglected as useless , whilst meaner persons , better accomplisht , and more fit for great trusts , are preferred to them . Such men spend a few years in a wild extravagant jollity , having the most of their pleasures forced , and so the less pleasant : And the rest of their days they commonly wast , perhaps in shame and poverty ; sometimes in pain and sickness too ; and with these , under the lashes of an angry Conscience . And if that becomes so stupid and hard , as to scruple nothing that is wild and wicked , they make the more haste to a miserable death , and hurry to an endless perdition . Thus Riches become the hurt of the owner for whom they are kept , which was one of the Vanities that Solomon long ago observed in the World. And surely a great one it is , that a man should make himself miserable by those things that might yeild him comfort in this life , and subserve his eternal happiness : That he should thus defeat all the wise care , and tender kindness of those friends that gather'd , or preserved his Riches for him . 'T is a sad and deplorable thing , to see men throw away the happiness which they might enjoy , and wilfully run into those miseries that might be avoided . But I hope , and heartily wish for a better fate to your Lordship , to whom I account my self much obliged , and to whom therefore I am very desirous to be in some way serviceable . My Lord , It was to assist your Lordship , as well as my weak abilities could , upon your lanching into a dangerous World , your own Pilot , that you might not thus make shipwrack of a good Conscience , a good Reputation , a large Estate , and a noble Soul , that I first composed this Discourse , and delivered it in your hearing . And for the same purpose I do now , upon the desire of some of your Lordships very Honourable Relations , humbly present it thus again . If it is in it self such as may be serviceable towards Piety and Vertue , it may now be the more serviceable to your Lordship , having this advantage , that it may be deliberately consider'd , and the reason and importance of the Rules it contains , may be better discern'd , than from a transient delivery . I presume it will be acceptable to your Lordship's Prudence in this publick way , if it be useful to so honest and good a design , both for your own , and other mens sakes , who , with your Lordship , may receive some advantage thereby . And I humbly conceive it will be acceptable also to your Lordship's great and condescending Goodness , as a Testimony of my unfeigned desire of your Lordship's Honour and Interest ; and my thankfulness for the great Obligations which your Lordship has been pleased to lay upon , My LORD , Your Lordship 's most Obedient , Affectionate , and Humble Servant , THEOPHILUS DORRINGTON . PREFACE to the RICH. Gentlemen , TO apply a helping hand towards the reformation of a prophane and licentious Age , is an act of Charity , like that of endeavouring to quench a raging fire . Vice and wickedness , like that devouring Element , ruin the private Families where they are entertained ; and when they break out upon the publick , and become general , they turn all the glory of a Nation , into the ashes of confusion , if a general reformation does not prevent . And you are the persons as from whom our Vices , and our Ruin do ever chiefly flow ( pardon the severe truth ) : so also at whom we must always begin effectually to reform . Whatever else may be imputed to me for thus joyning my endeavour towards this , I hope you will also impute a good will and love to my Country , and suffer that , in your opinion , to expiate the rest . There are Two things the usual causes of your miscarriage and ruin : one is thewant of an early government of desire ; the other , the insinuations of flatterers . Because those that are rich , have a large ability to gratifie their desires , they are apt to indulge these ; to let them run without due controul and restraint : and so their Riches prove a temptation and incitement , as well as an instrument of wickedness . For ungoverned desires will soon grow extravagant and unlawful , and then push men to unlawful practises . Unless you are accustomed to early and resolute denials of concupiscence , to moderate your very desires by the Rules of Religion , you are in a dangerous likelihood to fall into the worst degrees of folly and wickedness . What men do at first allow themselves but to desire , intending to stop at wishes , that in a little time they commonly proceed to practice . And from lesser sins in practice , they proceed to greater , one sin making way for another . But there is nothing that you who are rich and great , are more exposed to , than flattery ; nor can any thing be more fatal and mischievous , than that usually is , if you have not a great deal of wisdom to defend you from the mischief of it . Flatterers are a sort of Vermine which the poor are happily free from : They mostly haunt the houses of the rich ; and especially those where a great Fortune is , under the management of an unthinking head , or strong vicious inclinations . Where such a carcass is , thither will these Eagles be gather'd : There they obtain the easiest admittance ; they have greatest success , and do the most mischief . This worst sort of men , while they please an easie person , by raising and maintaining in him a high , tho groundless conceit of himself , obtain to be reputed great friends , and the honestest , kindest men of his acquaintance . They set themselves only to applaud and commend , to extenuate the grossest Vices , and put the names of Vertues on the lesser that are in him they flatter ; to represent whatever little and defective goodness there is in him , as perfect and eminent . Thus they hinder him that is so unhappy as to give them regard , from all endeavour to improve in goodness , or to amend what is amiss . A true friend would always please by commending ; but if he sees reason for the contrary , he will sometimes reprove , tho it should displease , rather than do harm to him he loves , or than not endeavour to do him good . It was an argument of great wisdom in Agesilaus ( which Xenophon reports of him ) , That he was always wont to receive kindly the commendations and applauses only of those who he had observed would upon some occasions reprove and blame him . He well knew and consider'd , that no man can always deserve to be commended ; that the very best are not without some defects and errors . A wicked flatterer ( and wicked such men most commonly are ) will urge you to the gratifying inferior and wicked appetites ; he takes the part of Vice against right Reason and Vertue . He will encourage you in the sins you are inclined to , and strive to justifie them , and harden you against the checks of Conscience . Such an one is also usually very officious and serviceable to any wickedness , to assist and contrive for the commission of it , and then to hide and conceal it : But in things that are good and brave , in the projects of Vertue , he is not forward to be imploy'd . He will perhaps industriously tempt a man to some sin wherein he can assist , that himself may be the more necessary , and may get the more by the cursed imployment . Behold , Reader , how young and rich persons are led to their ruin ! By these arts do mischievous flatterers allure weak men into their power , and under their government , either to make them a prey to their avarice or necessity , or else a Tool to their crafty and wicked designs . Thus it often comes to pass , that a great Estate , which might be used with a great deal of honour , and after left to Posterity , is wasted upon the scum and abject part of mankind ; upon Pimps , Bawds , Whores , Players , Fidlers , and Buffoons : A Tribe scarce fit to be named in these Papers , much less to be the ordinary companions of Nobility and Gentry . 'T is impossible that any man should live in good repute , or illustrate his life with any great and vertuous actions , who gives himself up to the conduct of such vile wretches as have no Vertue nor Honour . Now to prevent the mischievous effects of these Two causes , Every man must know , how duty to God obliges him to behave himself in the use of his gifts : He must be convinced what is for his true interest , and what it becomes him in point of true honour to do in this matter , to obtain approbation from God and good men . He must also be perswaded , so to desire , and so to practise . This ( Reader ) I have endeavour'd to suggest in the following sheets . I have given you in the several parts of the Discourse , by piece-meal , I think almost a perfect character of the pitiable and lamentable Object , a debaucht Gentleman ; and also on the contrary , that of one well accomplisht with those great and true Ornaments that illustrate a high Birth and Fortune . I must leave the Reader to chuse which he likes best , tho I have endeavour'd to perswade him to that which is so . I intend not to trouble the Reader with Apology for any defects or failings in the Discourse ; not because I think it needs-none , but because I judg it would be vain and useless . Whatever real defects it has , it would be said they ought to have been amended , not excused . And all the Apology in the World , cannot prevent , but there would be may seeming ones , becuse of the many different apprehensions and opinions of men . This I am sure of , That whoever are inclin'd to find fault , they would do it after all the excuses that could be made ; and such as are candid , and inclin'd to favour me , will over-look and pardon the defects , and satisfie themselves with what is good and useful . And they will excuse me to themselves and others . 1 COR. VII . 31. And they that use this World as not abusing it , for the fashion of this World passes away . THE great God who was the Creator of all things , is the supream Disposer and Governour of all . 'T is his Providence that distributes to every person in the World that portion of present goods which he enjoyes ; and he has appointed Rules , according to which every man ought to govern himself in the use of that Portion . Creation gives him an unquestionable right to Government , and we are indispensably oblig'd to obey him that made us . We are further obliged to obey him in the use of present enjoyments , because they are all his Gifts ; who can have more right in all things to rule us , than he from whom we derive our being , and all that we enjoy ? Further , 't is as necessary as it is just and equitable , that some Rules should be given men in this affair : For how wild and extravagant are they that only follow the dictates of ungovern'd inclination ; they live as without God in the World , they forget all the obligations of gratitude and homage to him ; they are useless at least to Mankind , fit for no good or great employment ; they apply themselves to nothing that is good , but follow their own Pleasure ; to gratifie their exorbitant Lusts , they will ruine the Innocent , grind the faces of the Poor , rob any that they can of their just Right by fraud or violence , they will despise the limitations of the Laws of men , and good order , which are the strength and glory of Communities : The unlimited obedience to inclination and appetite , has been the overthrow of mighty Kingdoms , it has been the ruine of ancient and flourishing Families ; it has often brought particular persons from greatness , riches and prosperity , to a contemptible meanness , a miserable Poverty , to painful Distempers and a hasty Death . Nor is the Remedy in this case provided , worse than the Disease : The Rules prescribed are as excellent and good in themselves , as they are justly and necessarily prescribed ; they tend directly to prevent these mischiefs and Calamities , without having any tendency to cause other , without imposing upon us any thing that is unbecoming or truly prejudicial . The rules that God has given are certainly the fittest for us , they enjoin nothing unnatural , for they are adapted by Infinite Wisdom ; They are , we may assure our selves , as indulgent to us , as they can be and be good ; they prohibit nothing but what is hurtful ; they cannot be supposed to confine the use of Gods gifts within too narrow and needless limits , because they are enjoined by infinite Goodness . 'T is inconsistent with that goodness which has bestowed these things on Mankind for use and delight , to hinder him by any rules from using and delighting in them so far as is good and convenient for him : Upon which accounts it becomes every man to endeavour , first , to know the rules by which God expects he should guide himself in the use of his enjoyments ; and after that to observe them . This Verse that I have read , is part of a sentence which begins at the 29 th . Verse of the Chapter ; which is an exhortation to men , to regard with great indifferency the things of this present Life : It remains ( sayes the Apostle ) that they which have Wives , be as thô they had none ; and they that weep , as thô they wept not ; and they that rejoyce as thô they rejoyced not ; and they that buy , as thô they possessed not ; and they that use this World , as not abusing it . Let not your Passions be much moved by any thing here , that you may not abuse it while you enjoy , nor be uneasie with discontent or grief for the loss or want of it . And he begins and closes the sentence with a fit argument to enforce the Exhortation , The time is short , and the fashion of this World passes away ; as if he should say , 'T is but a little while that we shall live in this world , and all things here are lyable to change , there is no Condition but is of uncertain continuance , whether it be prosperous or adverse . Therefore let all men keep themselves as indifferent to these things as they can , and endeavour to use wisely and innocently whatever Portion God bestows on them while they enjoy it . These words afford to our Meditation this instruction . It ought to be the Care of all persons to make a regular and good use of those outward enjoyments which the Providence of God affords them . The following Discourse on this , I shall divide into these two parts . 1. To show you how a man may use this World , so as not to abuse it . 2. To illustrate the motives to this , that are included in the Apostles argument , that the fashion of this World passes away . To know in the first place wherein the right use of these things does consist , let us observe that summary of every mans Duty which the Apostle layes down under Three Heads in 2 Tit. 12. where he directs men to live soberly , righteously and godly in this present World : Thus ought we to guide our selves in the use of what we enjoy , to take care that we do not contradict in this , that reverence and pious homage which is due to God ; nor that Justice and Good-will towards other men , which we may desire to find in their carriage towards us ; nor that good and wise Government which best becomes , and is most advantageous for our selves . These three Heads include all the rules that are to be observed in this matter , I shall therefore under these range them . 1. He that would rightly use his Portion in this Life , must not suffer himself to be transported thereby to the neglect or contradiction of those Duties of Piety which he owes to God : Which includes these following Rules : ( 1. ) Take heed that you do not love your present Enjoyments more than God : This is actual abuse of them , as well as it disposes us to further abuse , for they were never made nor bestow'd to draw our chiefest Affection to them ; God is our chiefest good , and does deserve the highest Interest in our Affections : He has made the mind of man capable to Contemplate and admire himself , to Love him and apprehend his Love to us , and be delighted therewith ; to place then the chief affection of so noble a being upon any thing below the Supream good ; is to abuse both that and our selves ; 't is to content our selves with that low thing as our Happiness , which was never intended to be so , and is in its nature unfit for it . Again , whatever thing has the greatest share of our Affections , 't is thereby in the place of a God to us , that will have most influence and power in the whole government of us ; the homage of mind and body will be paid to it : An ardent Love , let the object be what it will , prejudices the Judgment , inclines the Will , leads all the rest of the affections , and so all the thoughts , the words and the actions , or the most of them shall be most readily employed with some relation to that . If any Creature then is thus lov'd , it becomes the Idol of a mans heart , and we revive the absurd Idolatry of the Aegyptians , who made every good thing a Deity : But did the true God ever intend that his Creatures should be thus exalted into a competition with himself , for the adoration of Mankind ? or can we imagine that he made these things Servants to us , with a purpose that we should serve them , and live negligent of our Duty to him . Since all our enjoyments are the free gifts of a bountiful and gracious God , 't is reasonable they should kindle in us the Love of Him : The better and more delightful these are for kind , and the larger Portion he bestowes , we are the more bound thereby to love him : Do not imagine that you can fix your affections in a great degree on your present enjoyments , and yet highly Love God too ; these two dispositions are like heat and cold , which cannot consist in an intense degree in the same Subject . This is that the Apostle means in 1 Joh. 2. 15. where he sayes , If any man loves the World , the love of the Father is not in him : As the one of these encreases , the other does proportionably decrease ; if you much love the things of this World , you love them too much , and God too little . Now this errour and abuse is practised in the following instances . 1. To have the thoughts and affections wholly employed about the things of this Life , and limited within the narrow bounds of this sublunary World ; to take delight only in considering and enjoying the Creatures here below ; to have no flights of mind , no aspirings towards God ; to have him seldom in our thoughts , and but very transiently when he is ; when the mind does never fix for a few moments upon him ; to think of God without any affection , without any desire or delight ; this is evidently to love the things of this World more than him : If the Judgment did esteem him the chief good , and were convinced of his excellencies , and were acquainted how suitable he is to the Capacities of happiness in man ; if the Will did thereupon choose and fix upon him as the center of its desires , as its ultimate end , and beyond whom it neither needs nor inclines to seek further for a full content ; this were really to Love him , and suitably to him and our selves ; and then the Meditations on him would be sweet , as they were to holy David , as he sayes in Psal . 104. and then they would often return and abide with you ; they would be the gratefullest thoughts , obtain the easiest admittance , and entertain you longer than any without weariness : Then would your concern to have an Interest in God be stronger than the delight in what you enjoy at present ; you would more ardently desire this , 'till you could obtain the assurance of it , and that when obtained , would afford the greatest delight and satisfaction ; the disposition of your Soul would be the same with that of the Psalmist , when he said , Whom have I in Heaven but thee , and there is none on earth that I can desire besides thee , Psal . 73. 25. 2. Again , They are certainly lovers of Pleasure , more than lovers of God , who allow themselves in unlawful delights ; who follow those Pleasures which he forbids , and will rather break his commands than not gratifie their extravagant desires . 'T is the inseparable property of Love to God to endeavour the observance of his Commands . John 14. 21. This would make a man deny himself , and resist and mortifie his irregular inclinations . Those wild and lawless men that pursue their pleasures without any regard to what is lawful , or what is sinful , are under no influence or power either from the love or fear of God. He that had so true apprehensions of God as to love him , would understand that his Law allows all the Liberty that 't is fit for us to take in the enjoyment of these things . He would give himself leave deliberately to consider upon how many accounts 't is unreasonable to go further , and thus he would be fortified against Lust and Temptation . 3. Moreover , That man whose Estate is dearer to him than his Religion , who is not ready to forsake all his most pleasant enjoyments rather than abandon his Duty , he loves this World more than God. The question in this case put to him is , whether he will chuse and content himself with Earth or Heaven ? Whether he will retain the possession of present goods , or the unfailing hopes of better ? whether he will have God or the Creature for his portion ? And he in deserting his Religion refuses the happiness it would bring him to . He le ts go the hopes of an eternal happiness , to retain for a few moments an uncertain and temporal one : he preferrs the Creature before the Creator , and the shallow Streams before the infinite Fountain of Bliss . 'T is the enjoyment of God which constitutes the Felicity of Heaven , and 't is no less thing than this is slighted , when you desert the way that leads to Heaven . Our Saviour has told us , that he who does not forsake all present contentments to follow him , if there be necessity for it , is not worthy of him . Without this you have no interest in his Blood , in his Merits or Intercession . If we are ashamed or afraid of the Cross of Christ , we shall never wear the Crown of Glory . The Glories and Honours which he has provided for the Saints will be possess'd only by those that continue such to the end of their lives . The most advantageous use we can make of our present possessions , is to lose them for righteousness sake ; this is to transferr our treasures from Earth to Heaven , to change them from uncertain and perishing , to durable and eternal Riches . ( 2. ) Another rule of Piety to be observed is , That you put your confidence only in God , and acknowledge your dependance to be upon him : Those to whom the Divine Bounty has bestow'd a plentiful portion of outward goods , are apt to terminate all their hopes and expectations upon that for the support and comfort of their Lives ; to forget that they derive from him all their enjoyments , that his Blessing and concourse gives them all their sufficiency and goodness . Our Saviour gives us an exact Character of this folly in Luke 12. beginning at the 16. v. where in a Parable he introduces a man whose Wealth encreases to abundance , and he takes care to dispose of it to the best advantage for security and use , but we find no expression to signifie that he owns it to come from God , he is not sensible of a Providence in the case , that this happens to him by the disposal of Heaven ; accordingly he contents himself in it , applauds and rejoices in his felicity , upon the account of his Wealth , but is still unsensible of his dependance upon God ; and thus the mistaken Fool flatters himself in the 19 th . v. Soul take thine ease , eat , drink , and be merry , for thou hast goods laid up for many years : Much pleasure and content he promises himself from his enjoyments , without seeking to God for it : What ( sayes such an one ) shall I want ? my yearly revenue will allow me to provide my self whatever I desire , and it is enough to last all my dayes in the maintenance of a pleasant life ; I will live free from care and trouble , I will banish Business , banish sorrow from my thoughts , and please my self 'till I dye . The rich mans Wealth ( says Solomon ) is his strong City , and as an high wall in his own Conceit ; he promises himself from hence a lasting and impregnable happiness , but God is not in his thoughts . The sensual minds of men are wont to take notice only of sensible things , and because the concourse and power of God is excercised unseen towards their support , they are apt to take no notice of it : What they do immediately , and to the apprehension of sense derive support and satisfaction from , to that they ascribe it ; these men enjoy the gifts of God , without making acknowledgments that they are his gifts , without owning that they depend upon him for their virtue and sufficiency ; they cover themselves every day with rich and convenient Cloaths , but without lifting one thankful thought to the kind donour for them ; they make the Provision of their Tables , as nourishing and pleasant , and plentiful as they please , and then sit down to it as a Swine comes to his trough , with as little acknowledgment of their dependance upon God ; they express no thankfulness to him for having afforded so excellent Provision , nor implore his Blessing to make it wholsome and nourishing . Consider , Man does not live by Bread alone , but by the vertue which Gods Blessing gives it . Every thing in nature depends upon a perpetual concourse both in its being and operation ; you can derive nothing from any Creature , but what the first cause enables it to afford ; the best Food cannot nourish , the most delicate cannot delight , no cloaths will give you warmth , nor can you find ease on the softest Bed , the largest Estate will not content the mind , nor any of your enjoyments serve the end for which you use them , unless the all-sufficient God gives them Vertue and Power ; ought not this to be acknowledged then ? should we not Pray to him for the comfort and continuance of our Lives ? should we not render thanks to him for all the happiness we enjoy ? Consider too , that he bestows every good thing which you enjoy ; and own that he has made you rich , he has exalted you in the world : It was in his Power to have put you in a mean place , to have cloathed you with rags , you might have trotted in the dirt and dust for a poor livelyhood among common men , you might have been in that Beggars condition who stands hungry and cold at your Gate , and he might have been in your warm Parlour , at your plenteous Table , still the Providence of God can make such an alteration . Let him then be owned as the Author of all good , let him alone be trusted in . Charge them ( sayes the Apostle Paul to Timothy ) that are rich in this World , that they do not trust in uncertain . Riches , but in the living God , who gives us all things richly to enjoy , 1 Tim. 6. 17. ( 3. ) Another Instance of of Piety which great and rich persons ought to charge themselves with , is Humility towards God. The Apostle Paul thought it necessary that such should be admouished not to be high-minded , as we see in that place last quoted . Pride is a vice to which Mankind is so much addicted , that it oft arises from things that are real disparagements . We may sometimes hear men boasting of their follies and sins . Riches and Honours are things generally , though not very deservedly much esteemed and admired in the World ; these must therefore be very apt to elevate the minds of those that possess them , beyond a true and modest Opinion of themselves ; and if they have such effect , it will appear in the behaviour both towards God , and towards men . It is but too necessary then to urge such persons to the practice of Humility towards both . In this place I shall mention what Humility towards God requires , and hereafter how it must be exprest in our behaviour towards men . To demean your selves in such an humble manner towards God as you ought , do not forget to acknowledge that you are sinners in his sight : Own that you are derived from the fallen Adam , and are of the Apostate , guilty race , however honourable in the World a few of your Ancestors may have been : know that no greatness of birth can exempt from the real and common pollution ; that you derive a stain'd , infected nature of whomsoever you are born ; that you are by nature Children of Wrath as well as others ; are born Heirs of Gods displeasure , whatever heaps of Treasure , large tracts of Land , stately Houses , or lofty titles you are born to . 'T is all one in this respect to have been first wrapt in Raggs , or Purple ; to have been nursed in the stately Chambers of the great , or carried about upon the shoulders of a Beggar . Acknowledge too the actual Transgressions of your lives ; that you have sinn'd in thought , in word , in deed , in every condition of life , in every Age , in every place that you have been in , that your Iniquities are more in number than the Hairs of your head . Acknowledge the aggravations which your sins have received from the circumstances wherein they were committed : as that they have many times been contrary to the knowledge and actual checks of Conscience , contrary to the wise and good instructions given you in your education , contrary to the intreaties of your best Friends : they have been committed upon or little or no temptation , or upon your wilful and needless exposing your self to temptation ; that having had the more opportunity and ability to transgress by having a great Estate , you have been perhaps actually the worse , and so have answered the greater kindness of God with greater affront . And upon the apprehension of these great and true disparagements , you should entertain the meanest thoughts of your selves , be vile in your own eyes , and own that you may justly be so in Gods ; that if he should abhor , and condemn and reject you into eternal punishment , he were righteous . Let not the greatness of outward Prosperity hinder you from apprehending the greatness of that wrath which is due for your sin ; believe the greatest to be due . Look upon your Riches as an unprofitable possession , which can be no advantage in the day of his wrath ; which cannot redeem the guilty Soul from the eternal Prison , to which if you die impenitent you must be confin'd . Look upon your Honours as mean and contemptible things , which can procure no respect from the great and righteous God. Lament the ingratitude of your sins as they regard God , and the folly of them as they respect yourselves ; that you have behaved your selves so unworthily towards him , and have so little consulted your own true interest . In a sense of the wretchedness of your condition , fly to the hope set before you , and depend upon the satisfaction and merits of the Redeemer alone , to find favour and acceptance with God. 'T is not below the greatest man to repent , but it is so to transgress . The commission of sin degrades and debases man , the Repentance for it , if true , raises him up again , to humble our selves before God is the way to rise in his esteem . While we complain , and lament for our sins , he pities us ; while we judge and condemn our selves , he acquits and pardons ; While with deep resentment we own our selves polluted , he will cleanse and sanctifie us . 2. Again you must express your Humility towards , God by magnifying all the exercises of his Goodness towards you , and if you are very sensible of your sin and unworthiness , you will have a very grateful sense of his mercy . The least gifts of his bounty will be thankfully received , and ought to be so ; the smallest portion , the narrowest Fortune , will keep out discontent from the humble Soul , and he will praise the God that bestows any thing where nothing is deserved . Ascribe it to the mercy of God , and the merits of the Redeemer , that you are suffered to live , that you were nourisht and brought up though born in blood and pollution ; though you had the infection of Enmity against God wrought into your natures , though you were conceived in sin , and brought forth in Iniquity . Much admire that when you had forfeited the least favours , the goodness of God should be liberal to you , and load you with a rich plenty of the good things of this life . Bless him especially for spiritual mercies , and the care that he has taken for your happiness in Eternity . Admire the goodness which ordered your Baptism , and pray that it may prove the Laver of Regeneration . It was unspeakable mercy , when he might have thrown you away into misery , that he should take you into the bosom of his Church in order to bring you to everlasting life . Adore the mercy that gave you by Parents , or Tutors , such instructions as direct to a wife , happy , and honourable course of life ; and especially have an high esteem of the favour , if these instructions have made any impression upon you ; if you are formed thereby so as to live regularly , and practise the Rules . Say , Lord what is man that thou art mindful full of him , and the Son of man that thou thus visitest him ? 3. Testifie your Humility further , by a ready submission to the Divine Commands . Do not think you can be so great as to be exempted from the obligation of his Laws who is Soveraign over all things ; or that the obligation of Obedience is less strict or indispensable upon you , than upon others , when you are beholden to him for greater gifts . A Humble mind will not quarrel at any of the Commands of God , nor account any course too strict which he enjoyns : He will say with the great pattern of Humility , the blessed Jesus , Lord , not my will , but thine be done . 4. Again , you must also quietly submit to every dispensation of Gods Providence : own his Justice in every affliction he layes upon you , and command your minds in Patience . 'T is unreasonable as well as vain to murmure against God , and 't is madness to rage and blaspheme because he chastises you . This is like the wild Scythians , to shoot Arrows against the Thunder , which will return upon your heads , and take vengeance for the bold impiety in your destruction . By a patient submission under Chastisement , we obtain the Compassion of the Father of mercies : This proves like a soft answer which turns away wrath . 5. Express your Humility towards God , by a modest Reverence in his Worship , and an honourable esteem of his Ordinances ; to meddle with these in a slight unserious manner , is to profane things that are Sacred . Your Prayers ought to be altogether serious and devout , without the least allowed Vanity of the Mind , or wandering of the Eyes , Thoughts or Affections : Is it not most agreeable and just that we should behave our selves with all possible solemnity , when we are upon our knees , begging of the great disposer of all things for what is necessary to our Happiness , or rendering due Praise for abundant and free mercy ? Again , your attention to the Holy Word of God , ought to be very reverent and serious , such as is due to divine Oracles . The Holy Scriptures and what is dictated from them , deserve to be regarded as divine Revlations , as a Message or a Voice from Heaven : The Commands are of divine Authority , the Promises , the Threatnings are made by the Infinite and Eternal God ; and the greatness of him from whom these things first come , should strike an aw , and beget a reverence to them in the minds of all men , thô the Messenger from whom they immediately receive them be their inferiour . Reverence and esteem the Word of God as the appointed means of Salvation ; he has determined , By the foolishness of Preaching to save them that believe ; thô the matter of it may seem foolish to the ignorant and prejudiced World , and thô the Preachers may seem despicable to the Proud , yet the effects of Preaching are glorious upon them that believe , upon such as receive the instructions that in this way are given to them : By so mean an Instrument . God accomplishes the great effect of the Salvation of men ; what words then can express the madness and folly of those men that despise this Ordinance of God ? they have neither any Reverence for him who instituted it , nor care for their own Happiness . That you may not lightly and carelesly engage in the Worship of God , consider you have therein immediate concern with an Infinite being , you present your selves before the awful Majesty whom all the Angels humbly adore ; who is King of Kings , and Lord of Lords , the God before whom the Nations of the Earth are as nothing ; who is in Heaven as on a Throne of unconceivable Glory , and thou art on Earth as at his Foot-stool . What is the highest of men that he should forget to behave himself with reverence in his addresses to Heaven . Thô you are a little elevated among men , and stand higher than some others of them , yet you are infinitely below the Deity . 6. Further , let your Humility be exercised in having a very modest Opinion of your best actions . Do not think highly of your deserts upon the account of any good that you have done : consider it was the giver of every good and perfect gift that gave the ability to do well ; he excited the Will to it , and his Providence presented the opportunity . Acknowledge the unhappiness of mankind is such , that no action can be performed by any man that is perfect , and does not in some respect or other want a pardon . At the best you have but paid a debt in what you have done , and answered an obligation laid upon you . The best man ought to expect his reward for the best service of his life , meerly from the mercy of God in Christ . 4. Another Duty of Piety which those that are rich ought to reckon themselves obliged to perform , is to promote Religion as much as they can in the World ; to endeavour God may be generally honour'd , since he has graciously exalted them . Those whom he has lifted above their Neighbours , have greater opportunity to serve him in this kind than others : but something is expected from all men , and every man may help towards the increase of Religion , whether he be in a publick or a private station . And to promote Religion , is the noblest and the most useful kind of service that you can perform ; 't is not below the greatest of men to set himself industriously to it . Religion is the End of the rational Creature ; that for which we are men , and endowed with reason . To promote this , is to endeavour that God may receive his just rights from men : till they become Religious , they are so many Traitors and Rebels against the common Soveraign . This World , if it were without Religion , would be a Wilderness , a Confusion , without peace or order . This is the Glory of mankind , the Beauty , the Strength , the Happiness of any Society where it obtains : It is a sure foundation of Wealth , and Renown , and Stability , to any Community of men . And on the contrary , no Greatness can be raised or maintained without it . Wickedness and Irreligion have overthrown many well-establisht Empires , and Combinations , but could never raise one . Air , Fire , and Water , are not more universally useful and necessary to mankind than Religion . They can as well breath without Air , be warm in the perpetual absence of the Sun , or quench thirst without Water , as they can be happy without Religion prevailing amongst them . Consider too , that almost the whole world lies in Wickedness ! And how little Religion is there remaining amongst us ! Alas ! to how great a degree is that Glory departed from our Israel ! This loudly proclaims what need there is that every one do endeavour according to his place , and power , to encrease and spread it . 1. You that are great , that have many eyes upon you , should promote Religion by a good and pious Example . You are more largely known in your persons than common men , and yet more known by Name and Report ; and as far as this goes , your Example may do good or hurt to Religion . There is a great propensity in mankind to imitate those whom they respect , their Superiors : if you practise Religion , you give it esteem and repute in the World ; and if you neglect it , 't is exposed to contempt and scorn : 't is you that must bring it into fashion , and retrieve it from the too general contempt that it now lies under . Consider , that you do not only disparage your selves by a vicious conversation , but you infect others too ; you contract to your selves much guilt from the sins of other men ; from all those which your bad example does encourage : And if you are bad men , you are the Pests of the World , great causes of sin , and consequent misery . How much more are those liable to the blame of other mens sins , and the infection of the World , who tempt others to wickedness , who promote the kingdom and interest of the Devil , and subserve the grand Apollyon in his design of destroying mankind ? they may be reckon'd a sort of inferior , incarnate Devils , who strive to introduce vertuous and sober persons into the wicked practices and customs of the Age. 2. Further , Private persons may promote Religion ▪ by the well ordering of their own Families . So far they may command , and they ought to command the practice of this . The greater any of these are , the further may he that is the head of it promote Religion : your Children and Servants will help to debauch , and infect the rest of the World , if they are not religious : for men will take their Examples from the families of great men , as well as from their Persons : Keep up the constant Worship of God in your Families , in Prayers , in reading the Holy Scriptures , in singing Psalms , and in a strict observation of the Sabbath . Are those Families fit to be called assemblies of Christians , where there is no constant Worship of God maintain'd ? how can you expect any Blessing upon your Society , unless you Worship God together ? The happiness of a Family lyes in the Love , the Suitableness , the Faithfulness , the Serviceableness of all the Members of it towards one another , and these things he alone can bestow . The Governour of the Family cannot know whether those under him do Worship God at all or not , if they do it not together . If you would have those of your own Family Religious , you must be so your self ; thus far at least your Example will have great influence ; it will have greater influence upon your Domesticks either towards good or ill , than any other can : The Poet speaks a great deal of truth in that sentence , — Velocius & citius nos Corrumpunt vitiorum exempla domestica magnis Cum subeant animos autoribus . The Examples of Vice which we dwell with , if they are in our Superiours too , do corrupt us sooner than any . The nearness and daily converse with you , is added to your Superiority , to make your bad example fatal to those of your own House . The sharpest Rebuke that can be exprest in words , is due to the folly of those Parents who take no care how they behave themselves before their Children ; who after they have given them a Nature infected and disposed to ill , that they may not fail to ruine them , give them a bad Example too . Again , to make your Family Religious , you must restrain those under you from all manner of Wickedness , by reproving the least errours , and punishing others . Give them also encouragement to do well , let this alwayes purchase your manifest favour and good-will . But further , to effect this , you should carefully Instruct your Children and Servants in the matters that concern their Salvation ; if you do not betimes take care to possess your Children with good and vertuous principles , the adversary of their Souls will early sow in their minds the tares of Vices ; and should you be less industrious for the happiness of your own flesh and blood , than the malicious Devil is for their destruction ? should any one hate them more than you Love them , they will have cause to curse you hereafter for having given them being , if they mi●carry through your neglect ; Train up a Child in the way wherein he should go , and when he is old he will not depart from it , Prov. 22. 6. Let them be accustomed to do well . The constant exercise of Piety and Vertue from tender years , will make it easie and familiar ; Instruct them in the matter of their Duty , and labour to convince them of the reasons that perswade to the practice of it ; tell them how honourable it is to be good and holy , what a lustre and beauty it has in the eyes of men ; that this is approved beyond any thing even in a wicked World ; no man is so universally commended and esteemed , as he that is stedfastly and strictly vertuous ; tell them what a fragrant odour it leaves behind , how it embalms the memory of the dead ; with what applause the Histories of all Ages do mention brave and good men . The most partial Histories do never offer to commend any man without ascribing true Vertues to him : The Memory of the just is blessed , Prov. 10. 7. Learn them to put a high value upon the esteem of wise and good men ; let them account it mean and base to be valued only amongst those whose Vices make them the Scum of the Earth , who will only applaud Confidence and Wit in doing foolish and shamefull things ; there is no applause of any men worthy to be valued , but that of such men who are themselves worthy of Praise . Learn them to stand in great awe of their Creator , to remember him in their Youth , to be more concern'd to please him than men , to be most ambitious of his approbation in what they do : Let them know that his pure Omniscience does continually observe them , that no darkness , no secrecy can hide them from his view ; that 't is of no advantage to conceal their crimes from the Friends that would reprove them , since the righteous Judge of all the World observes , and will at one time or other severely reprove them : They only hinder themselves by secrecy , from enjoying that admonition which might be a means to cure their follies . Thus endeavour to convince their reason that they must be good , endeavour by all great and good allurements , as they grow capable to apprehend them , to perswade and incline their wills to Religion . Be not contented only with your restraining them from wickedness , but learn them as much as may be , to restrain themselves ; fasten in their minds such Principles as may have power to keep them regular . As the observation of the Lords day is one part of our duty towards God , so 't is a practice that highly conduces towards our performance of all other Duties ; 't is alwayes observable , that the best men are those that most strictly devote this day to Religion . You cannot possibly have a religious Family , unless you keep those that are under you to the publick and private exercises of religious Worship on the Sabbath . This is to give up one day in seven to the consideration of divine things , and 't is consideration which must give them impression and force upon the minds of men ; those most important things revealed from Heaven , will have no influence upon us , if we do not allow them a serious contemplation : On other dayes other lawful and necessary employments will often interrupt you in doing this . Take then the appointed time , and improve it as well as you can for this purpose ; give your Servants as little other imployment on that day as you can , and keep them as close as you can to this ; spend the time that remains , besides what the publick Worship will take up , in some private exercises of Religion in the Family . 3. Further , Those that are great and rich men , thô not in the Magistracy , may promote Religion among their Tenants and poor Neighbours , by encouraging and countenancing those that incline to it , protecting them from Injuries , preferring them to your Service , and by frequent commendation of them in the hearing of others . You that have so many Tenants , have perhaps so many Families that are in some dependance upon you , whom you have opportunity to oblige , and can encourage or discourage ; so many will value your favour or displeasure , and may therefore be influenced to the outward practice and profession of Religion at least , by your carriage towards them : 'T is an useful exercise of Charity towards the promoting Religion , when you ▪ will give Bibles and good Books among your poor Neighbours , and to assist them in the Education of their Children ; such as are very poor , set their Children at the best to work , as soon as they are able to do any Service , that they may earn somewhat towards their own maintenance ; and they can neither afford them time , nor spare any cost towards the teaching them so much as to read ; and so do many poor Souls live and dye in a miserable ignorance of those things which concern their Salvation : Oh pity these Wretches , and endeavour that as many as you can , may have at least this Instruction . 4. You may yet more largely serve the Interest of Religion , by endeavouring as far as in you lies , that there may be a learned and pious Ministry : It were a very publick Service and benefit if you should chuse some poor Lad , that appears to have a very good Wit and sober Inclinations , and send him to the School and the University ; you may entertain in your Family a deserving person , 'till he can obtain a more publick employment : you may out of your abundance spare some yearly allowance to assist and encourage a man of mean fortunes , who with good assistance you have reason to think , might be very useful in the service of Religion . You may add to the Revenues of small Benefices , for the encouragement of an able Minister . 5. When persons are admitted to a part in the Government , 't is certain that they have great opportunity to promote Religion ; they can force men to at least an outward practice of it ; they can punish Vice and Profaneness , and make it uneasie to Men ; they can make it ashamed of its self when 't is grown bold , or prevent its growing so ; they can reward , protect and countenance effectually those that will be good Men ; they can command a general and strict observation of the Sabbath , and force men to assemble to one or other of the places of publick Worship , whereby they will be under the means to make them good men ; 't is in their power to restrain , at least from appearing in publick , that profane liberty of Fancy , so much affected under the name of Wit ; which lies in finding out improbabilities in the clearest and most important truths , and matter of ridicule in the gravest rules of Morality and Religion ; a practice which tends to make men Scepticks and Atheists , to overthrow Religion , and civil Order and Government . Good Principles are the foundation of good Order , and this humour destroyes all Principles in the minds of Men , and leaves no foundation at all , whereon to build Virtue or Piety in them : This destroyes the power of Conscience , serves to justifie the grossest wickednesses , and hardens Men in their sins . 'T is much in the Power of the Magistrate to procure an able faithful Ministry , to protect them from Injury and Contempt , and encourage them in their work : But I desire to be understood to intend these things only for a little direction to those young Persons that may hereafter be Magistrates . Thus I have given you a brief account of those Duties towards God , which are required of all men to be regarded in their use of present enjoyments . 2. Further to show wherein the right use of the things of this World consists , I proceed in the next place to suggest , The Duties towards men which this requires , included under the name of Righteousness : And this includes all the Duties of the second Table of the Divine Law , required to be observed in our carriage towards our Neighbours ; it commands both Justice and Mercy in that 2 chap. of Tit. To do to others as we would be done by , which is the great rule of Righteousness , is a rule both of Equity and Charity ; he that exercises Charity to the Poor , and shews Mercy to the miserable , does to them what he himself would desire that others should do for him , if he were in their Condition : But I shall not mention all the particulars under this Head , because I study brevity , but only will lay down a few general rules , which shall include all the particulars . ( 1 ) Let every man endeavour to be of some good use to the Community he lives in : It should be the hopes of a young man , that he may in the time of his Life be able , and have opportunity to do some good service to Mankind : 'T is generosity and good nature to be unwilling to live to himself alone . Prepare and fit your self for employment , and then readily accept it when it offers it self ; thô 't is not wisdom for a man hastily to rush into publick business , before he is well accomplisht , and rightly called to it , yet when he is so called and fitted , he ought not to decline or refuse it ; unless the circumstances happen to be such , as that you cannot with a safe Conscience undertake it : 'T is too great selfishness to consider the trouble , danger , cost or pains of an employment , wherein you may do great service to the publick , so as to be thereby discouraged from undertaking it : There is nothing great and glorious , that is not hazardous and painful , and the more difficulties and dangers attend any good Office , 't is the more honourable . I cannot chuse but transcribe those two Stanza's so full of sense , to this purpose in one of our English Poets . Be good , and then in pity soon be great , For virtuous men should toil to compass Power , Lest when the bad possess Dominions seat , We vainly weep for those whom they devour . Our virtue without power but harmless is ! The good who lazily are good at home , And safely rest in doing not amiss , Flie from the bad for fear of Martyrdome . A good man will not seek an Office for the meer honour of it , but to have opportunity to do good in the World ; but such men ought to seek and receive in the right way any Offices conferr'd upon them , because otherwise bad men who are ambitious will possess and abuse them ; he is not worthy to live in a Society , by and in which he enjoyes Riches or Honour , who will not deny himself in his own ease and interest to serve the publick safety and Prosperity : The damage and inconvenience which you may sustain in a publick employment , ought not in case of necessity to be regarded , unless it would be so great as utterly to disable you for performing the Duties of the place . A man ought not indeed to undertake what he is not able to manage , for this would be a great prejudice to the publick : What unprofitable and worthless wretches are those who give up themselves to an idle enjoyment of their own Pleasures , to live in Ease and Luxury , without any concern to do any good ! they are the abject , the reffuse things of nature , differing from the whole Creation besides ; every Creature besides serves to some use and purpose , and they live to none at all . There are publick employments suitable to the several ranks and degrees of men , and every man should be fit for some or other of the employments that commonly belong to the men of his rank , and readily apply himself to it . There are several good Offices that great men may do to the publick in a private condition , as I have in part shown already ; you may further help by your Intercession with the Magistrate to protect the Innocent , to obtain favour and promotion to men of Wisdom and Honesty , to right those that have been wronged , and relieve the Oppressed ; you may vindicate those that may be misrepresented and falsely accused . You may be instrumental to recover or maintain Peace among the Members of the same Society , which is an Office expresly and particularly blest in the Sacred Writ , Mat. 5. 9. 'T is an Office exceeding beneficial to Mankind , and therefore highly pleasing to God , to endeavour the promoting Peace among men : Peace cherishes Societies , and makes them flourish in Arts , Trade and Religion : Love is the band that tyes multitudes of men together , to the strength , safety and happiness of the whole Combination . You may perhaps find out wayes to employ many Poor , so to keep them from Idleness , and enable them to maintain their Families , and subsist without dependance on Charity . When you are called into any Authority , assure your selves that you are raised by Divine Providence , more for the publick good than your own Honour ; think it glorious to be in such a place a publick Benefit , 't is to resemble the Deity in a high and noble manner , who is over all , and good to all , who has power to do harm , and only does good : consider how much the happiness of all those that are within the Sphear of your Authority , does depend upon your wise and just management of your Office ; let a generous pity make you loath to cause the misery of many of your fellow Creatures ; 't is a barbarous thing to contrive and delight in the misery of others , and 't is ignominious and shameful to cause it by your neglect ; let it be your care therefore , that those who are in some measure at your mercy , may have no reason to lament that they are so . ( 2. ) Another rule of Righteousness by which men should govern themselves in the use and enjoyment of the things of this World , is , To wrong no man of what is his due , to take or withhold from no person what he has right to , for maintenance of your own pleasure : Accustom your selves to exact Justice , and do not desire liberty to transgress the bounds of it in any measure ; desire no Pleasure which is a wrong to your meanest Neighbour , in Person , Estate or Reputation . It makes the Societies of men acquainted with more Wildness and Cruelty than the Wilderness it self , when the greater will please themselves to the hurt and damage of the less ; while a Beast of Prey devours to serve his necessity , a lawless voluptuous man spoils his Neighbour to serve the extravagance of wanton desires , and is the most inhumane of the two : they are certainly very unrighteous , who to enjoy their Pleasure beyond all bounds , and to maintain their prodigal expences , do contract vast debts which they know themselves unable to pay , or take no care to do so ; this is to Riot at the cost of other men , to abuse and rob perhaps him that loves you , and from that Love opened his Purse to your desires : You carelesly scatter that which it may be your Creditor took a great deal of pains to scrape together ; the Comfort which he promised himself to take in what he had gathered , you disappoint him of ; you take the Bread as it were from the mouths of him and his Family , perhaps to throw it to your Dogs , and they must goe ragged and thin cloathed , that your meanest Servants may be extravagantly fine . Again , 't is a most cruel and unnatural Injustice which they are guilty of , that wast the Estate upon their own pleasures , which should provide for a Wife and Children ; and there never was any Age so barbarous in this respect as ours ; some spend in superfluity and needlesly upon themselves , while they suffer their Family to want the things that are necessary ; some wast their Estates in the Company of Strangers , and their own flesh and blood do hardly partake of them ; some are so monstrously cruel as to give away the affection due to a Wife , a person it may be of Honour and great Virtue , with the Patrimony which she brought them , to another woman that is base in Birth , or at least in Lewdness ; as if they only took care to be vexatious , and to leave her no Comfort : Some are negligent of making a treasure for their Children , thô the Providence of God has put them in a way to do it , out of a prodigal and voluptuous humour that spends at least all that comes in : And some neglect this out of a base unnatural Envy , which would not have their own Children live as comfortably as they have attained to do , without enduring ( thô it might not be necessary ) the same pains and hardships ; He that provides not for those of his own House , ( sayes the Scripture ) is worse than an Infidel , 1 Tim. 5. 8. Does he that ruines her who committed her self and Fortunes to his Mercy , upon the Vows and Protestations of his Love , perform those Vows , or is he not false and forsworn ? does he well and faithfully discharge the trust that was put in him ? does he kindly requite the Love that laid the greatest possible obligation upon him ? No , there is no gratitude , no faithfulness in that man. If one falls into the hands of savage Thieves , he may be stript and robb'd , and be glad to escape without further harm ; but to be thus used by a man , who by great pretences of kindness has allur'd me into his Power , must be the highest baseness in him , and the greatest trouble and vexation to me . What thanks do your Children owe you , who have begot them to Sorrow and Misery , when your extravagant Lusts devour what should afford them a good Education , and comfort them after your Death ? Certainly 't is the provision that Parents make for their Children , or their endeavour to provide well for them , the care and pains they take to render them wise , good and useful to the World , and to enable them to subsist without a precarious dependance , if they can , which is the thing that layes the great obligation upon Children to Love and reverence their Parents : 't is for the most part meerly accidental that they are born , and 't is a great unkindness and prejudice to give them being , without taking what care you can for their Happiness ; have you natural affection , who to enjoy unlawful and excessive Pleasures , will leave them in a condition that can have none at all . I cannot chuse but wonder at those men who inherit an Estate , which has kept up the grandeur perhaps of a long race of honourable Ancestors , and by their folly and extravagance do spend it , and leave their Children Beggars : They leave perhaps a bare Title to their Children or other Relations , without any Riches to procure it respect and esteem : If these men had any thing of a noble Spirit , they would scorn to bring either their own Posterity , or their Name and Title down into the dirt ; such are the disgrace , the ignominy of the Family ; they will be remembred with hatred , as long as they are remembred by Posterity ; I wonder that such men are not afraid , lest the Ghost of some departed Ancestor should disturb them at those midnight revels , which wast the Estate , and bring the Honour which they purchased with great Labour and hazard , into contempt and disgrace . ( 3. ) Another rule of Righteousness may be , To practice all requisite Humility in your carriage towards men ; this is the Justice of requiring no more respect from others than is due to us , and of giving to others all the respect that is due to them ; Let no man arrogate to himself those excellencies which he really has not , nor desire the respect due to them whilst he is without them : There can be nothing more ridiculous , than to see a rich Fool conceit himself wise , to think his mind is full of Wisdom , because his Baggs are full of Gold and Silver ; or for him who bears a Title , to think himself upon that account an Oracle : 'T is too often seen , that they who have these things in eminence above others , are ready to conceit that they have Wit , Vertue or Beauty above them too , and accordingly they expect to be Honoured ; or if they do not conceit they have every excellency in them , yet they put too high an esteem upon those they have ; they think nothing comparable to a great Estate or a Title of Honour ; and all the respect of Mankind , they account due to themselves . Thô the useless Creatures live as Cyphers in the Universe , and only serve to encrease the number of men ; they are dogmatical in their most foolish and mistaken Opinions , and most peremptory and stiff in all their unreasonable humours and purposes . They are deaf to advice , and offended at reproofs , and will not receive any the most useful Instruction , because that implies they wanted it . They hate the most important advice that is given them , under the notion of Controll , and cannot distinguish between obedience to the good Rules , and obedience to those that give them : They despise the dictates of right Reason and vertue , if suggested by an Inferiour , from an apprehension that to regard them is to submit to that Inferiour ; thus their Pride infatuates them to a willingness rather to be ruined than directed . Be not too desirous of your own Commendation , nor too much elevated when you hear it ; those who are much delighted with their own Praise , do usually not much care to hear any mens Commendation but their own ; but Humility will not envy other men their just Commendation , nor blot it with detraction . Do not despise him that is inferiour to you in any thing , he may perhaps excell you in another : God seldom gives all sorts of excellency to one man ; And as you would not have him despise you for your want of that wherein he excells , do not you despise him for his want of that wherein you excell . The wise Providence of God has thus variously distributed his Gifts , that all men might be useful , acceptable , necessary to one another ; every man ought to be respected for his particular endowment , and according as the nature of it does deserve : Indeed no man should be despised , for if there be nothing else in him , he is a man , a Creature capable of reason , and bears some impresses of the Divine Creators Image . A humble mind will not despise the love and offer'd Services of the meanest person , but will account himself under obligation to requite them with kindness and good Offices ; he will neither refuse them , nor take them as so much due to him as to deserve no acknowledgment . So far as honesty and the advantage of others will permit , a humble man will endeavour to render himself easie and pleasant to all in a company , or in his neighbourhood ; he will not so stiffly gratifie and humour himself , as not to deny his own inclination sometimes to gratifie another , which is the common error of those that are new Gentlemen , or such as have gotten a great Estate , but have not had a genteel Spirit infused by Education : The civility of the World and that which we rightly call a genteel Carriage , is nothing else but a humble deportment towards all that we converse with . The richest , the noblest , that are not Magistrates , must content themselves to submit to Magistrates , and give to each of them the respect which is due to the place he holds . 'T is a Pride that tends to confusion and all disorder , when such despise and affront those Officers of the State , who out of their Office are meaner persons than themselves : They ought to be respected in the exercise of their Authority , out of reverence to the supream Authority which is over every man in the State , and from whence they derive theirs . He that affronts the meanest Authority , does in effect affront the highest , and is in a preparation to slight the Authority of all Laws too . Such things are never practised , but when Law and Order begin to give way to the lusts of men : If the Cobweb be broken by Wasps and Hornets , little flies will escape through the holes which they make . ( 4 ) Exercise all the Mercy and Charity towards the Poor and Miserable , which the Providence of God affords you ability and opportunity for . Imitate the Father of Mercies , and be ye merciful as he is . He makes every Creature partake of his goodness : The highest sort have their dependance upon it , and the meanest are not overlookt or neglected . It is pleasing to the infinite Fountain , to be alwayes flowing . And 't is a high and noble imitation of him , for you to take all occasions of communicating , as you have power , to those that are indigent . Freely you have received from God , and should therefore freely give . As you have been your selves beholden to Mercy , you ought to exercise it , or you prove your selves unworthy of it . What you give to the Poor , is treasur'd in the hands of God , from whence it will return in due time with a most plenteous Encrease . Thus you put your superfluities to a good use , and shall obtain in reward of thus spending them , many necessary blessings . 'T is a large and comprehensive encouragement to this excellent duty , which the wise man gives in a few words , in 3 Prov. 3 , 4. Let not mercy and truth forsake thee , bind them about thy neck , write them upon the Table of thine heart , so shalt thou find favour and good understanding in the sight of God and men . Let the Precepts and Rules of Sincerity and Charity be fastned in thee , let them abide with thee as if written upon thy heart : Let them also appear in thy Practice , and adorn thy Conversation as an Ornament of Gold about thy neck . And then thou shalt be favoured and esteemed both by God and men . Perhaps there is no one sort of good Works more acceptable and pleasing to God than this . How high an account he sets on it , appears , in that he deems the contrary to it a reproach to himself , and the practice an honour . 14 Prov. 31. Our Saviour pronounces an express Blessing to this also , Mat. 5. 7. and makes the greatest Promise that can be imagined or desired , to encourage men to it . Blessed are the merciful , for they shall find mercy . They shall further partake of the divine goodness Mercy in general is promised ; which gives us leave to expect all the various exercises of it ; to expect whatever is necessary to our Souls , and future Happiness , and what is necessary to the continuance and Comfort of this present Life . Yea , the Mercy of God does not stop at him that is merciful , but descends upon his Posterity too , and his Seed is Blessed , Prov. 37. 26. Among Men it procures a general Approbation and esteem , every one almost will love him that appears to love every one ; it possesses the Minds of Men so much in a mans favour , as it conceals a great many faults , and expiates the rest . Thô every man may have some Enemies , the charitable man shall have the fewest of any : The unjust Accusations and Detractions of bad men , will provoke more to the hatred of themselves than of him ; And on the contrary , there is nothing does so much raise the envy of the World against Riches and greatness , as to see all the Advantages of them terminate in the Possessors ; to see them seeking nothing else but their own ease and Pleasure , and neglecting that good which they might do to others without any prejudice to themselves : self-love is a vice as generally hated , as 't is practised among men . He that allows it in himself , will yet condemn it in another . He that seeks only his own advantage , will seek it alone . In the Exercise of your Charity , observe the following Rules . 1. All sorts of men that are able , must reckon themselves bound to give some Alms of that which is their own . Those that labour for what they have , are not wholly exempted from this Duty . But are commanded to make it one end of their Labour , to purpose and design this , that they may be able to afford some relief to those that are in want . 2. The ordinary measure of your Charity ought to be taken from your ability , as is directed , 1 Cor. 9. 6 , 7. Every man may commonly consider and allow for his own necessity , convenience and the decency of his condition , and of his Childrens after him , and what remains after a moderate Provision for these , he can properly spare . But in extream necessity of an Object presented , you ought sometimes to enlarge your Charity beyond these bounds . 3. Every man that wants , is a fit Object of Charity ; except such who make themselves indigent by Idleness and Wickedness . And 't is most Charity to them to leave them without help , that necessity may cure them . A Good man ought to be preferred before a bad one , to receive your Charity , because this will encourage Religion , and he is likely to make the best use of what you give . But you should not easily entertain any hard thoughts of a poor Neighbour , nor excuse your selves from assisting him by groundless suspicions . A Soul truly Charitable is not forward to think evil , as the Apostle intimates , 1 Cor. 13 , 5. 4. Do not give your Alms in a proud and contemptuous manner ; 't is more unkind to disdain and scorn , than 't is a kindness to relieve : You should do it with a sense that the Providence of God might have made you the Receiver , and him the Giver ; and as you would wish to be treated in that case , you ought so to use him . To give in a courteous and humble manner , adds a great lustre and beauty to the action , and doubles the benefit : When you have bestow'd a Gift , you ought not to insist much upon the obligation , nor expect that he who has been beholden to you , should in every thing answer your humour , and be wholly at your devotion : This looks as if you sold your Gift for his Liberty ; as if you made a bargain , instead of doing an act of Charity . If what you gave , did at first proceed from kindness , you do in effect call it back again , or require him to pay for it , perhaps more than it was worth . 5. Give your Alms readily and chearfully ; God and men love a chearful Giver ; 'T is a sign of inward goodness , of a powerful inclination to the good you do , when it flows readily and freely from you . When an act of Charity comes slowly from a man , and is unnecessarily delayed , 't is to be suspected that it does not proceed from a Charitable inclination ; 't is the effect perhaps of the indigent persons importunity , and not of the givers goodness ; 't is bestowed for your own ease and quiet , rather than out of compassion to the poor , and is more a deed of Charity to your selves , than to him that hardly obtains it . These are the Rules of Righteousness to be observed in the use of present enjoyments . 3. In the third and last place , We must use these things with Sobriety , if we would use them so as not to abuse them : And this requires a due regard to our selves , to our own interest , and honour , and tranquility , in the use of this World. That men do not gratifie their Appetites , to the prejudice of the mind or body , to the loss and consumption of the Estate and Reputation , or to the neglect of those duties which belong to the place and condition they are in . Every man ought to consider the Circumstances of his condition , whether he is high or low , rich or poor , and have many Children or poor Relations , or but few or none ; and according to these he may allow himself a more or less splendid and plentiful enjoyment of his portion . That measure which is becoming , and in a manner necessary to one man , may to another be extravagant and excessive : Besides , the true end of every Creature that we enjoy is to be considered , and to direct in the use of it ; nothing should be used for any other than the right end , or in such a way as does not promote that , nor to that degree that will contradict or destroy it . These general Rules I have but briefly mentioned by themselves , because I judge it will be most useful to propose them connected and applyed to the particular matters which they ought to direct , since it may consist with designed brevity . I shall therefore shew how Sobriety requires us to regulate our Diet , Apparel and Recreations . ( 1. ) For the right government of your selves in Eating and Drinking : Consider , that the proper end of them is to nourish and strengthen the Body , to maintain it in life , in health and vigour . Meat and drink are as Oyl to the vital flame , which if they be duly administred , cherish it , but if poured on too fast , they put it out : A man may kill himself with excessive using the means of life . 'T is a great abuse of these things , to please a wild Appetite either with the quantity or quality of them , to the prejudice of health ; and he that destroys his health , loses that to which all Pleasures are beholden for their Pleasantness . All the best enjoyments of outward things cannot prevent , but that the life will be a burden where this is wanting : This is the pleasant flavour of Wine , and the necessary Sauce of your Sauces , without which they are all insipid : 'T is a certain folly then to incumber your selves with distempers , which may a long while torment and trouble you , for the sake of so transient a pleasure as that is , which attends the swallowing of pleasant Meats and Drinks , which is enjoyed but in that moment wherein they are passing . A wise man would endeavour to understand by advice and experience , what measure and rule were most conducing to his Health , and would ordinarily observe that . 'T is lawful , and of some use at some times , to enjoy these things a little beyond the measure which is meerly necessary , as on publick or private Festivals , or to express the welcome of Friends ; but to do this often , or without moderation , will excite the sensual inclinations , and make them unruly and extravagant ; and this were to assist an Enemy against our selves , and to cherish those lusts which war against the Soul. The wretch that has steept his brain in the fumes of excessive drinking , exposes himself to the mercy of every temptation . There is no folly so very absurd , no sin so great but he may commit it . Rapes , Murders , Adulteries , have been the too frequent Attendants of Drunkenness . Many a man has done that in his Wine which has been the torment of his Mind , and his disparagement all his dayes . 'T is necessary and useful at least to a healthful and vigorous person , to deny himself sometimes the enjoyment of that measure of these things which is commonly necessary ; to tame the flesh , and keep it in subjection , that he may the better govern himself . They use Meat and Drink beyond Moderation , who enjoy them to that degree , that they stupifie the Mind , and weaken the exercise of Reason . Drinking till Reason is disturbed , thô but in a small degree , is in that degree an excess . Most certain it is , that habitual Gluttony and Drunkenness have made some men almost Fools : Either they have become stupid and dull Fools , or rash and violent ones , drown'd in Phlegm and Sloth , or infatuated with rage and confidence . And in both cases are they fit to be easily imposed upon , and to become a Prey or a Tool to greedy and designing Knaves . But the best of the matter is , that honest men need not much fear any faction that depends upon such reeling Supporters . You must not spend much thought about what you shall eat or drink , nor much of your time in these Pleasures : This is more than is necessary to promote the end of them , and shows the Mind too much in love with the pleasure it self . This is to make the enjoyment of that your End ; and then it will be too much your Business . You will live as if you had nothing else to do but to eat and drink , and had no other Preparation for Death to make , but to fatten a Carkasse for the Worms . The only good that an intemperate Person does in the World , is , that he is industrious to deliver it quickly from an unprofitable burden . There is a just Wo denounced against those swinish Drunkards , that make it their frequent practice to spend whole dayes in drinking , in Isa . 5. 11. Wo unto them that rise up early in the morning , that they may follow strong drink , that continue untill night till the Wine inflames them . Thus is all usefull service to God and men neglected , and the Sinner at length contracts a habit of Idleness , and becomes utterly negligent of his own most important Interests ; he regards not his Trade , nor his Estate , or Salvation . For this sin , because it was to so high a degree become common among the Jews , 't is said in the 13 th verse of the forementioned Chapter , that people were punisht with captivity and hunger and thirst . 'T is not safe nor prudent to contrive , that your Provision be ordinarily very delicate and various : you are the more in danger of excess , and do make your own Table a Snare to you . The affectation of this , when 't is for your own pleasure , shows a wantonness of the Appetite , that ought not to be allowed , and too great a love to the pleasures of the Palate . Or else 't is the effect of former excess , which having glutted and weakned the Appetite , it now wants to be excited . Temperance usually preserves it so well , as to need little assistance from Art. Nature in health wants little of the exercise of Art , and it serves only Luxury and Excess . You must so proportion your expences upon your Diet , as not to neglect any other necessities of your own , or those of the Poor , the Church , or the State. He that is so far a Glutton or a Drunkard , seldom stops there . The extravagant desire encreases the more 't is gratified , and will soon grow beyond his ability to satisfie it ; and then he will rob either God or Man to make himself more able . He will make his Feasts , if he can , with the Spoils of the Church , the necessary maintenance of oppress'd Orphans and Widows , and the fruits of other mens hard labour : And thus he devours his own reputation too , and makes himself odious to all Mankind . ( 2 ) You must order your Apparel also by the direction of Sobriety . The proper ends of cloathing our selves , are to cover our Nakedness , and conceal our shame ; to defend and guard the. frail Body from all unkindnesses of weather ; and to distinguish the several ranks and degrees of men , by suitable Ornament . The sensual minds of men are commonly much influenced by sensible things , and therefore are splendid or grave habits used to procure that respect and veneration which is due to those Persons that wear them . The common abuse of Apparel , and that from which all the Irregularities concerning it do proceed , is too much affectation of Ornament , upon the account of that respect which is commonly paid to it in the world . Those that least understand true excellency , and give the greatest Veneration to external ornament in others , are wont to be most concerned about this for themselves . They take less care to adorn and accomplish their Minds with Knowledge , Wisdom and Vertue , than to adorn their out-side with fine and gaudy Cloaths . Contrary to that advice of the Apostle in this case , which he gives , 1 Pet. 3. 3 , 4. Let your adorning be ( sayes he ) not that of the out-side , of plaiting the hair , and of wearing gold , or of putting on Apparel ; but let it be the hidden man of the heart , in that which is not corruptible , in a meek and quiet Spirit , which in the sight of God is of great value . 'T is of more importance surely to have those excellencies which are in esteem with God , than those which are only valued by the weakest of men . How little must it deserve of time , cost and pains , to obtain the admiration of Fools . A wise man , thô he will not slight altogether this sensual means of procuring respect from the ignorant and vulgar , because that respect may in some cases be necessary to himself , and usefull for them ; yet he will not be much concern'd about ornament , because none but such men will value and respect him at all the more for that . Since this is all that Ornament serves for , he will not to be fine , neglect the necessary defence of his body . He will consider , that the rude Elements pay no respect to a Fashion , and therefore will not expose himself to be hurt by them , for the unprofitable respect of foolish men . He will not think that the matter of dressing can deserve to be the sole business of himself and a servant , for several hours , and to be managed with a curious accuracy and care . 'T is doubtless a great folly for a man to employ a great part of his Estate in the provision of his Apparel . The necessity of the body is served with a small expence ; and if you will value the esteem of men , 't is wisest to obtain by good and generous actions the estimation of the best and wisest men : This is a more valuable reputation than you can purchase by great expences on your Cloathing . He that affects to be fine above his quality and degree , that he may have the greater respect , will find none at all : Some will be as foolish as himself , and strive to be equal to him ; and all others will despise and condemn him , either for his Pride , or Prodigality . Custom is the common Rule that prescribes what it becomes every mans quality and degree to wear . But since alwayes some of every sort are so foolish as to endeavour to equal their Superiours , and in so prodigal an Age as ours is , the Custom allows much more expence upon the Apparel than is just or necessary ; you ought to make those of your own sort your Pattern , who are the most frugal and moderate men . Together with the Custom of the Times , consider your own Circumstances ; what is required by other just occasions of expence , and let the Custom be observed only so far , as Prudence and Justice will permit . Common practice will not justifie any Vice in the sight of God , thô it too often does so in the opinions of men . And if it displeases him , that others spend a great part of their Estates in the Ornament of their Bodies , it will displease him if you do so too . If a great measure of what is spent in this purpose might be spared from this , and better employ'd , it ought to be so , and the giver of it expects that it should be . And when you must render an account how you have used the enjoyments that he gave , you will appear , if you have been Prodigal in this matter , to have been foolish if not unjust Stewards . ( 3. ) Let your Recreations also be regulated by Sobriety . The goodness of God allows men the use of these for the refreshment of body and mind : The powers of both are finite , and may be wearied and wasted with continual labour ; we may divert our selves therefore sometimes from business , to be the better prepared to return to it again ; but 't is quite to alter the nature and design of recreations , to make a business of them , to spend all your time in running from one idle pleasure to another : He that lives in Pleasure , is dead while he lives ; He is as useless to the World as a dead Carkass , and it may be infects others too by a bad example , and he is as bad as dead to himself , in regard that he does nothing towards his own true Interest : He neglects all his most important affairs ; He becomes daily more and more a Slave to the malicious Devil , by virtue of some sins that grow confirm'd and habitual ; he swims down the stream of sensual Pleasures , towards the dead Sea of Pain and Perdition . In this careless kind of Life , he is only busie to destroy himself : He that gives himself up to sensual pleasure , does divert himself indeed , but 't is from Wisdom , from Piety , from Virtue , from everlasting Happiness . Oh consider how unprofitable a life this is ! what advantage have you from past dayes that have been spent in Pleasure ? if you are sick of the folly , and intend to live more wisely for the future , you have gain'd then some advantage by them , but if you are hardened in the mad course , and inclined still to go on , you are much the worse for them . All wise and good men grieve to see a young person wholly addicted to Pleasure , they know the bitter Repentance that will at one time or other follow this ; they foresee the torments of Mind , that early or late it will end in ; they know that every extravagance which you are now guilty of , will one day prove a sharp Sword to stab and wound you . Recreations must not be used as Pastimes , there can be no need of any such thing to us , who have but a little while to live , and much to do ; can you not tell what to do with your time ? is it so easie a matter to conquer vicious inclinations , to wean your affections from their propensity to sensible things , to furnish your minds with every Virtue ; that you can do all this , and have too much time ? if besides this you have any publick business to attend , you have more need to redeem your time than to throw it away ; if you may hereafter have such business , 't is your wisdom to improve the opportunity of your present leisure , for the preparing your self to manage it to your comfort and honour . Let the Recreations you chuse be only such as are lawful ; there are as many allowed as you can want , enow to spend more time about than you can well afford ; do not venture therefore upon any that have certainly sin in them ; Rejoyce not in Iniquity ; make not any sins of other men the matter of your delight or diversion , 't is contrary to the rule of Charity to be pleased with that which is so hurtful and mischievous to the guilty person ; 't is the Pleasure of a Devil to tempt and draw men into sin , and then laugh at them ; do not make your selves merry with sacred things , they are not matters to be jested with , which ought to be reverenced : it is not necessary either to the Mind or the Body , nor certainly safe , and therefore not prudent to use those Recreations , concerning which Divines are in dispute whether they be lawful or no , such as they are which rely wholly upon chance , as Dice and the like : in a doubtful Case , where no necessity compells , 't is too great a boldness not to abstain from such things . Chuse those Recreations that are least offensive to the Pious and Wise , and avoid all that are not of good Report : They I think are justly censur'd , who frequent publick Dancing Schools , and Balls , and especially Masqueraders . 'T is no precise moroseness to censure those who need not disguise or conceal themselves , if they intended to do nothing shameful : You must value and be concerned to maintain a Reputation , or you are lost ; there is little hope of that man , that he will ever be good and truly honourable , who is grown regardless of this ; 't is a wonder if he does not run into all manner of wickedness , when the restraint of Shame is taken off . 'T is great imprudence , to use those Recreations that are dangerous temptations to wickedness . Since our power to resist sin is very weak , and we are naturally more inclined to comply with than resist it ; we ought by flying the temptations and occasions , to seek that safety which our own strength cannot give us . To young persons the description and representation of some sins is a Temptation , especially is it mischievous , when in the representation the guilty person is introduced wittily pleading for his sin , and justifying or extenuating it for thô what is wittily spoken , is not alwayes the truth , yet it is generally apt to impose upon young persons that are inconsiderate , and have not resolutely fixed in themselves good Principles . You cannot say there is no harm in going often to the Play-house , if you become thereby more addicted to sensual Pleasures , which are there represented with all possible advantages to charm and allure ; unhappy Youth is too much inclined to these without such help : You do actually receive hurt by seeing Playes , if Lust be inflamed , or Pride in Apparel encreas'd , or you learn Dissimulation , and become stronger inclined to any of the Vices of the Age ; if you learn there to despise Morality , Government , Laws and Religion , by seeing the errours and defects of Magistrates , and wise and good men represented and derided : Humane nature is in all instances unperfect , and the greatest and best men are not without some faults , but to represent those of Magistrates and Ministers upon a publick Theater , to be scorn'd and laught at , has commonly the mischievous event of making Magistracy and Ministry vile , and the Age licentious . Do not play out of Love to Money , or meerly to win of others ; this is the Trade of common Cheats , and tends to make you such ; this gratifies a covetous humour , and cherishes it , and is a relaxation that binds you faster in the bonds of Iniquity . Avoid too the contrary extream to this , and be not willing to lose more than is convenient : you must not neglect to provide things necessary , and convenient , and decent for your self and your family . Be not so unjust and cruel , as to throw away your Creditors money , your Servants wages , your Childrens bread and Inheritance , or your Wives Portion , to enjoy so small , so unnecessary a pleasure as that of play . How barbarous is he , that will make so many miserable , without any necessity or real advantage to himself . That you may not thô unwillingly , throw away too much at play , it should be your resolution not to venture too much : Venture no more than you may be willing to lose , and if that be gone , command your self at that time to proceed no further . Gaming does often insensibly entice men into excess , in the time they spend at it , and in the Money they expose : If they win , they are encouraged to both these , in hopes that good luck will still favour them : If they lose , they are tempted to go on with hope to turn their fortune , and recover their losses : To recover a great deal at once , they are tempted to expose a great deal more , and so frequently lose more to too much lost already . It requires more wisdom for a man to govern himself well in these matters , than is commonly found in those that are much addicted to them . Take heed that you be not transported with passion in your play . All excess in it may follow , if you have once given the Reins to passion ; and besides , you will be apt if you are crost , to blaspheme God , and quarrel with your Neighbour . That is too dear a recreation , and much more sad in the consequence than it can be pleasant in the enjoyment , wherein you offend God , and hurt your Neighbour and your own Soul. Thus I have finisht the first and chief part of this design , and shown you wherein the right use of the things of this World does consist . I now proceed to the second thing intended ; which is , to urge those Motives included in the Apostles argument here , to perswade you so to use this world as not abusing it : His Argument for this is , The fashion of this World passes away ; and the Motives this includes , are these following . 1. 'T is possible your present enjoyments may fail and be lost , before the end of your life : There is hardly any good thing of this World that men enjoy , which they can be assured to retain in possession all their days . We cannot be certain of the continuance of our Riches . Job , that on one day was the Wealthiest man in all the East Countrey in his time , became by the next , miserably poor . How many like Instances does History present us with ? And how many more might our own observation in a few years tell us , if we make observation ? If you are Rich in Treasures , Thieves may steal them ; if in Ships and Merchandize , the stormy Sea may swallow them , or they may be seized by Pirates or adverse Nations : If in Buildings , or a large stock of rich Goods , Fire may consume them ; if in Lands , they may be wrested from you by Tricks of Law , and the knavery of corrupted Judges and Lawyers . The negligence or imprudence of Servants may ruine the Master , or if they are dishonest and wicked , they may draw from him to enrich themselves ; especially , when the whole management of an Estate is committed to them . The Providence of God may blast a mans Estate , so that it shall wast he knows not how , nor how to prevent it . Riches , which you may hope will be a defence against Adversity , may expose you to it . Some have been miserable , and some have lost their lives by being rich : They are often a Prey to violence and injustice , when poorer Persons are let alone . In the Invasions of Enemies , the Palaces of the great are rifled , while the poor lonely Cottage may stand secure ; and they themselves are chiefly sought for and kill'd , or made Captives , while the Poor of the Land escape by being despised . What constancy is there in the Honours of this World , which depend upon the changeable inclinations and esteem of men ? Has not the World often seen the greatest Favourites of Princes become the Objects of their hatred and scorn ; undermin'd and overthown by the detractions first , and then the accusations of envious men ; who after they have shone a litle while with the borrowed lustre of their Princes favour , have gone down Eclips'd , and blusht perhaps in their own blood at their setting . Stet quicunque volet potens Aulae culmine lubrico . Let him who lists ascend the tottering Seat of Courtly Grandeur , said he , in the person of another , that found it a tottering seat by his own experience : As for popular applause and an honourable esteem among the vulgar , that is gain'd by many actions , and may be lost by one : If a man cannot lose a noble Title while he lives , yet the Respect and Honour due to it , and all the other advantages of it are usually lost when his Estate is thrown away : He that lacks bread , may honour himself , but few besides him will do it . 'T is ingeniously said by one , That Honour without Riches , is like Hops without Poles to support them aloft ; It must creep upon the ground , and is exposed to be trod upon by contempt . Now , if these things are gone away from you while you live , all the Pleasure , the Convenience of them is vanisht too ; and then , what will the wretched man do to be happy , who had set his chief affections on these things ? What will he do for delights , when all that he delighted in is gone ? How burdensome and melancholly will the remaining part of his life be ! How often will he sadly think , how happy he has been , how miserable he is ! Should we trust in uncertain Riches , and not rather in the living God , when they may fail us , he cannot ! Shall we lay any confidence on friends , when the minds of men are so mutable ? Is not this to lean on a broken Reed , which may fail our trust , and would us with disappointment ? What shame and confusion will seize him in an adverse condition , who in his Prosperity behaved himself haughtily towards others ! How uneasie will it be to his lofty Spirit , to see himself the scorn of the meanest abjects ! And yet certainly no man is so likely to meet with contempt in a low condition , as he that practised it in a higher . It should be a provocation to brave actions , to consider ; Perhaps my Fortune may not long continue my advantages for the doing of them . A generous and publick Spirit , a lover of mankind , would say , Since the enjoyment of these things is uncertain , I will do all the good with them to mankind that I can whilst I yet retain them ; I will industriously set my self to this , lest I lose my advantages , and die without doing any good in my time . If a man has exercised much compassion to others in their Misery , he will find much in his own ; if he has been injurious , and an oppressor , every one will retaliate , and the same measure that he gave to others , shall be meted to him again . If by good and virtuous actions a man has acquired the esteem and friendship of good and virtuous men , they will not desert him in his adversity , but will join their assistance to comfort or raise him up ; but if all his Friends and Familiars , and all that esteem him , are men of no virtue , of debaucht Principles and Manners , they will soon forsake him when adversity comes : The cold blasts of that will very easily cool the love of such men ; and thô they crowd his Table with their company while 't is covered with rich plenty , he may eat his morsels in melancholly solitude when they are scanty and course . How uneasie will Poverty be to him that lived in boundless pleasure ; who could deny himself in nothing , but was wont to gratifie every desire , and now has nothing to enjoy ? He is possest with high and raging desires , and has no means to satisfie them . A temperate man will much more easily endure such a change , who has been wont sometimes to cross his own desires , and by that means has kept them moderate . 'T is certainly the most effectual course that you can take , to make Adversity tolerable , to use your Prosperity in Godliness , Justice and Sobriety . ( 2. ) Your death will shortly call you out of this World , and from the enjoyment of present things . Thus the fashion of this World passes away . One Generation goes , and another comes . Who is he that lives , and shall not see death ? ( sayes the Psalmist , ) Psal . 84. 48. The eyes that now read this shall perish , whatever vigour or brightness there may be in them at present : 'T is now your turn to enjoy , perhaps the Riches and Honours which were possest before by your Ancestors : They after a while went off the Stage of this mortal state , and so must you , and leave those things to be enjoy'd by others When a man dies he shall carry nothing away , His glory shall not descend after him : This encreases with respect to us , the uncertainty of the duration of our present condition ; Since all your pleasures fly away with life , who can assure himself any certain continuance of the enjoyment ? It may endure for a few years , perhaps but for a few dayes or hours longer . How many things are able to cut the slender thread of humane life ! How easily is a man kill'd ? A hair , a little bone , a flie , the weakest thing in nature can easily dispatch frail man ! How many ill accidents are we alwaies liable to , besides a multitude of Distempers ! What can be more uncertain than life , which is so weak , and beset with so many Enemies ? If it be suffer'd to continue as long as Nature , not abused , but carefully cherisht , can maintain it , 't is but short : The flower Life quickly withers , if it be not cut down : It must needs be short , when it makes continual hast to its end : when there is never the least stop put to the flying days ; the flying days hurry us upon their rapid wings , with restless speed into Eternity : A part of life flies away every minute , and the remainder grows less ; while you are jovial and careless , your time is wasting , it steals unheeded from you ; precious time , which once gone can never be recall'd ; a life , a year , an hour spent can never be recall'd . Thus are you never far off , and yet alwayes proceeding towards that important period , when you must bid adieu to Greatness and Honour , adieu to Flattery and Complements , to soft Beds , gilt Chambers , plenteous Tables , gawdy Ornaments ; adieu to your stately Houses , beauteous Gardens , large Possessions , shining heaps of Treasure ; adieu to pleasant Musick , to sprightly Wine , jovial Company , brisk Dances , and all the admired Charms of Youth and Beauty : Man goes to his long home , and the Mourners goe about the streets : The gawdy Rooms are hung with melancholy Sable , and his Friends lay aside Ornaments , and cover themselves with black ; he is carried away to the dark silent Grave , to become neglected dust , and a cold unbeautiful Clod ; his place here shall know him no more for ever ; he goes to Eternity , never , never to return again to time : His Walks , his Houses , his Parks , his Shop , the Exchange , the places of his Business , or his pleasure shall know him again no more for ever ; Oh that men were wise , that they would understand this , and consider their latter end ! Since the enjoyment of these things is transitory , and will be short , should we place our Affections upon them ? Good things are usually of greater or less esteem with us , according to their durableness ; since therefore Life with its Pleasures are not durable , 't is not worthy of a great Value . If we could but frame a lively conception of the shortness of this Life , how should we despise the Pleasures of it ? Vain are the Riches of the World , which are useful no longer than while we live here ; Vain are all the Honours and Applauses of the Age , which cannot rescue us from Deaths dark Prison , nor attend us to the other World : What account would you make of a fine house founded on a Quick-sand ? what account of Mirth and Jollity in a small Cock-boat on the wide Ocean ? what account of a Pleasant Dream ? such alas is all the Prosperity of this World : Open then thine eyes , thou deluded admirer of these things , and take a view of the Eternal Pleasures and Glories of the World to come ; see what Joyes , what delights , what bright Mansions , what a blessed Society do invite thy affections upward ; the Infinite , Eternal , Unchangeable God , thy chief good , invites thy Affections , he offers himself to be thy everlasting Portion , and exceeding great Reward ; set thy affections then on things above , and let thy dearest treasure be in Heaven ; spend thy time more in striving to attain these , than in the enjoyment of present things ; conclude it most absurd , to value things temporal above the eternal , and to chuse the frail pleasures of this life , when they stand in competition with those that are ever lasting . To make your passage out of this world comfortable , you must be secure of Comforts in the other ; you will be glad to leave a Life so allay'd with frequent vexations , as this is , to every man , when you have good hopes to enjoy that Happiness which knows no mixture of trouble : Since Death is a common Necessity which every man must obey , 't is the Wisdom and Interest of every one to provide that he may undergoe it with Comfort . Since the end of all your present Pleasures is certain and near , live piously , righteously , and soberly in the enjoyment of them , that ye may not when that time comes , be troubled with a Guilty Mind . Oh how intolerable will it be to bear at once the loss of all your present Comforts , with the pangs of a painfull death , and the torments of a despairing remorse ! How sad a state will you think your self in , when you are summon'd to depart hence , and a rouzed Conscience presents to your view a long Catalogue of enormous Crimes ! Will you not then wish you had lived a regular Life , when you find your self going to receive what a Life of wickedness has deserved . Oh how ungrateful now will be the remembrance of unlawful Pleasures , of your guilty excesses , and mad carelesness of your immortal Souls ! Now the sting of sinful Pleasures is severely felt , and they wound and torment the Sinner more deep and sensibly than ever they pleased him before ; it torments him to think that for such things he should cast away himself , and incurr the eternal Wrath of God ; and he is seized with dread and horrour , at the thoughts of what is likely for the future to become of him ; he fears he shall be banisht by the angry Justice of God to some dismal abode , where no small Comfort will ever come near him ; that he shall change his merry Companions for the cursed Society of damned Spirits , to dwell among them a weak , scorn'd , abused Stranger , to be vexed without pity by malicious Creatures , whose own Torments encrease their rage ; he would pray it may be for Mercy , but his own remembred Cruelty dashes his hopes ; he show'd no mercy in his Life , but was deaf to the wants and intreaties of the Poor , while he spent his wealth in Riot and Luxury ; he would cry to God to spare his Life a little longer , and try how well he would manage the reprieve , but that he calls to mind how deaf himself has been to the Divine Commands , how he has despised the Promises and Threats of God , and neglected all the warnings and instructions that were sent to him : And indeed , Since he has hated Instruction , and despised Reproof , to the last , God will now laugh at his Calamity , and despise him when these fears come upon him : The season of abused Mercy is at an end , and deserved Vengeance begins and now to have been a holy and a good man , would more avail than to have worn a Crown and wielded a Scepter : Now the greatest of men is rejected , if he be an impenitent Sinner ; nothing but righteousness and holiness can find any favour with the righteous and holy God : Now will he that was injurious to men , find the great Soveraign of the World a severe avenger of all wrongs ; and he that abused his enjoyment of the Creatures and gifts of God , shall be banisht from the Happiness of enjoying God himself ; this is the direful end of a wicked Life , and thus will the Wretch be used at last , who abuses his Portion here . ( 3. ) By the abuse of your present enjoyments , you encrease the mutability of them , at least with respect to your selves : You make your changeable Condition here more liable to change , if you do not use it well ; a man must use a vessel of Glass with more care than he need to do one of Iron : The loss of your enjoyments during Life , or by Death , may be caused or hastened by the abuse of them . That Estate which might afford a man comfort and pleasure through a long life , a few years of extravagant expences will make an end of : the deepest Bag has a bottom ; and you may observe by other men , that the greatest Estate , if it be not wisely and moderately used , may in a little time be thrown away . The Glutton and the Drunkard shall come to Poverty ; and Drowzieness shall cloath a man with Raggs , sayes the wise man , Prov. 23. 21. Again , By means of a whorish Woman a man is brought to a morsel of bread , Prov. 6. 26. He shall be served just as the Prodigal in the Parable ; first gull'd and drawn dry of all his Wealth , and to that purpose may be highly flatter'd , and carefully pleas'd and humour'd , and when he is poor shall be despised as much , and kickt out of Doors , and then like him he may have the honour to serve Swine , or be preferr'd to dine with them . These sins , when a man becomes addicted to them , do naturally bewitch him with a strange carelesness of all his Affairs , and tend to make him most lavishly prodigal . He cannot keep his expence upon them within any other bounds than necessity forces : As long as his own Estate will administer to him , or others will lend , these wild sins can find occasion for expence . The excessive and intemperate use of sensual pleasures , weakens and gluts the Appetite , and he that so uses them , can never have so high a Relish and sense of them as he may that is moderate . Foolish men through their greedy desire of Pleasure , destroy the thing they love : The Rich Glutton cannot take so much delight in his highest delicacies , as the hungry Labourer does in his course fare . By Excess too , men destroy themselves ; they turn food into Poyson , and bring themselves to misery by their pleasures . It blasts the health of their body , and fills them with uneasie distempers ; and hereby their lives are made miserable , and their death is hastened : After a few tedious and groaning years they drop betimes into their Graves . Sobriety and moderation are the most effectual means to cherish the health and life . But a man must begin and practise them from his youth , that they may have this effect : 'T is late to begin it when you have corrupted the blood , and evaporated the spirits , and contracted distempers : the Jewel health is much more easily kept , than recover'd when 't is once lost . Poverty , Sickness and Death , the great Enemies of your Pleasures , are the natural Consequents of the intemperate use of them . But besides , these evils may be expected to follow this , from the just judgment of God. As he is highly offended at every abuse of his gifts , he may testifie that displeasure by taking them away from you , or you from them . Consider , careless Sinner , that you continually provoke the righteous God , to put an end to all your Mirth and Pleasure ; every irregularity you are guilty of deserves this , and perhaps does hasten intended Vengeance : The more you abuse the Patience of God , the more unlikely do you make the continuance of it . Now consider these things but a little , and the folly of a lawless intemperate Life will most plainly appear ; is it not an unparalel'd folly to purchase a little wild Mirth at the dear rate of a miserable remainder of Life , and a hasty Death ? Alas how little of the Pleasures of this Life do you enjoy , who are so soon overtaken by Distempers ! what delight can a Man take in his dainties , when his sick Stomach nauseates them ? what Pleasure is there in Musick when the Head akes , or is affected with a Frenzy or a Lethargy ? what delight has the Sinner in his most pleasant Sins , when he lies languishing in a Bed , his feeble Limbs not able to support him , and there he is rotting alive ? the remembrance of them is rather vexatious than pleasant , whe● the pains he feels were contracted by them . How little of the Pleasures of Life do they enjoy , that soon dye , are cut off in the midst of their dayes , and carried out to be laid in the Dust ? Methinks if there were no other Argument for Temperance , the Love of Pleasure should perswade to it : Consider too how sad and uncomfortable that Death will be , which you are conscious that your selves have hastened ; when you think how many years longer in a course of nature you might have lived , and now are called hastily away from all that you have loved and delighted in . Thus do careless Sinners pursue their own Misery and Vexation , when they allow themselves a boundless gratification of their Lusts , and seem to be only in the pursuit of Pleasure ; let it therefore be your resolution and care , so to use this World as not abusing it . Now I have finisht both the intended parts of this Discourse ; I have shown you how to behave your selves in the use of your present enjoyments towards God , and towards your Neighbour , and your selves ; and the motive which the Spirit of God thought worthy to perswade men thus to use these things , I have illustrated ; what success this Discourse has upon the Reader , I know not , but doubtless the great God observes ; either it will reclaim or withhold thee from the Vices of a mad Age , or make thee more guilty in following them , after having received another Exhortation to the contrary : Thou dost not in tend perhaps to run into the great extravagances mention'd , but yet art unwilling to observe the strictness of Rule ; but consider , that sin is very apt to encrease , that the small degrees of transgression allow'd make way for greater , and they make it just with God , and provoke him to give thee up to such a high degree of sin , as may severely punish its self . Consider , this general Rule which I have explain'd and urg'd , is the Command of Almighty God , thou canst not willingly break it without Offence to him ; 't is of no less consequence to observe or slight it , than to enjoy his favour or incurr his displeasure : Oh think how easily he can crush the bold offending Worm ! think what a danger he is in who stands exposed by his Crimes to the Divine Vengeance ! Dread the invincible thunder of his Wrath ! Think what Vengeance is due from God to him who makes his Advantages to do much good , the means to do much evil ; who contradicts the end of God in the Gifts that he has bestowed on him , and has been only the more wicked , for the Bounty of God towards him ; who to gratifie his own wanton and unnecessary Appetites , has often Offended ; what severe Punishments must such a Sinner deserve ? Consider that this general rule directs you to use your Portion with Credit and Comfort , to make your Life as happy in what you have , as that can make it ; to improve your Portion to the best advantage ; It directs to such a course as will render your passage out of Life easie and chearful , attended with a quiet mind , with the applauses of a good Conscience , and all your good Actions will then afford you comfortable thoughts and reflections ; It directs you so to use your Portion , as to make your Death as much lamented by others , as welcome to your self , so as to embalm your Name , and make your Memory blest and praised to Posterity . This rule directs you to such an use of your present enjoyments , as will be matter of Consolation to you in the other World , matter of eternal satisfaction and joy , when the good deeds which you wrought here , shall there be eternally rewarded . I think then the Reader may easily conclude , I have been pleading with him in his own behalf , for himself and his own interest ; I have been urging nothing but what Self-love together with Wisdom would chuse : Who would think it should be a Presumption in me to imagine , that in such a case I shall prevail with many ? can it be a difficult thing to perswade Men to that which is their own Interest ? but alas , it does too often prove so ! Blinded by Lust and Temptation ; men will not see their true Interest in the clearest discovery that can be made of it . God alone can effectually open the eyes of men to understand that , and incline their Wills to chuse and pursue it ; to him therefore I commit the Reader with this Prayer . O Thou that art the Father of Lights , and who workest in us both to will and to do , according to thy good Pleasure ; grant I beseech thee , that the mighty power of thy Spirit may attend these Instructions , and effectually perswade every person that reads them , to receive and practise them ; do thou teach them to deny all ungodliness and worldly Lusts , and to live Godly , Righteously , and Soberly in this present World : Let these Rules be planted in many Hearts , and from thence be abundantly fruitful in good works , to their Happiness and thy Glory , the great ends of my ambitious but weak endeavours : Grant this , Oh Lord , for the sake of Jesus Christ our Saviour , to whom with the Father and the Spirit be ascribed Kingdom , Power and Glory for ever : Amen . FINIS . Notes, typically marginal, from the original text Notes for div A36377-e420 Deut. 8. 3. Prov. 15. 1. Juv. Satyr . 14. Davenane Gondib. Canto 6. Eph. 4. 28. 1 Tim. 5. 6. 1 Cor. 13. 6. Jer. 52. 16. Seneca Thyest . Act. 2. Chor. Du Moulin of Contentment . Eccles . 1. 4 Psal . 49. 17. Eccl. 12. 5. Prov. 1. 24. to the end ▪