id	sid	tid	token	lemma	pos
_003376541	1	1	learning	learn	VERB
_003376541	1	2	to	to	PART
_003376541	1	3	live	live	VERB
_003376541	1	4	together	together	ADV
_003376541	1	5	by	by	ADP
_003376541	1	6	charles	charles	PROPN
_003376541	1	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	1	8	rita	rita	PROPN
_003376541	1	9	strubbe	strubbe	NOUN
_003376541	1	10	5	5	NUM
_003376541	1	11	finances	finance	NOUN
_003376541	1	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	1	13	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	1	14	to	to	PART
_003376541	1	15	budget	budget	VERB
_003376541	1	16	by	by	ADP
_003376541	1	17	robert	robert	PROPN
_003376541	1	18	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	1	19	helen	helen	PROPN
_003376541	1	20	cissell	cissell	VERB
_003376541	1	21	18	18	NUM
_003376541	1	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	1	23	importance	importance	NOUN
_003376541	1	24	of	of	ADP
_003376541	1	25	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	1	26	by	by	ADP
_003376541	1	27	john	john	PROPN
_003376541	1	28	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	1	29	anne	anne	PROPN
_003376541	1	30	kane	kane	PROPN
_003376541	1	31	..	..	PUNCT
_003376541	2	1	28	28	NUM
_003376541	2	2	your	your	PRON
_003376541	2	3	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	2	4	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	2	5	by	by	ADP
_003376541	2	6	linus	linus	NOUN
_003376541	2	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	2	8	mary	mary	PROPN
_003376541	2	9	maino	maino	PROPN
_003376541	2	10	.....	.....	PROPN
_003376541	2	11	36	36	NUM
_003376541	2	12	copyright	copyright	NOUN
_003376541	2	13	1961	1961	NUM
_003376541	2	14	by	by	ADP
_003376541	2	15	all	all	DET
_003376541	2	16	rights	right	NOUN
_003376541	2	17	reserved	reserve	VERB
_003376541	2	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	3	1	this	this	DET
_003376541	3	2	booklet	booklet	NOUN
_003376541	3	3	may	may	AUX
_003376541	3	4	not	not	PART
_003376541	3	5	be	be	AUX
_003376541	3	6	reproduced	reproduce	VERB
_003376541	3	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	3	8	by	by	ADP
_003376541	3	9	any	any	DET
_003376541	3	10	means	mean	NOUN
_003376541	3	11	in	in	ADP
_003376541	3	12	whole	whole	ADJ
_003376541	3	13	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	3	14	part	part	NOUN
_003376541	3	15	without	without	ADP
_003376541	3	16	prior	prior	ADJ
_003376541	3	17	permission	permission	NOUN
_003376541	3	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	4	1	second	second	ADJ
_003376541	4	2	printing	printing	NOUN
_003376541	4	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	4	4	1962	1962	NUM
_003376541	4	5	2	2	NUM
_003376541	4	6	foreword	foreword	VERB
_003376541	4	7	happiness	happiness	NOUN
_003376541	4	8	in	in	ADP
_003376541	4	9	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	4	10	is	be	AUX
_003376541	4	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	4	12	popular	popular	ADJ
_003376541	4	13	item	item	NOUN
_003376541	4	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	4	15	conversation	conversation	NOUN
_003376541	4	16	these	these	DET
_003376541	4	17	days	day	NOUN
_003376541	4	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	5	1	even	even	ADV
_003376541	5	2	books	book	NOUN
_003376541	5	3	are	be	AUX
_003376541	5	4	written	write	VERB
_003376541	5	5	on	on	ADP
_003376541	5	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	5	7	subject	subject	NOUN
_003376541	5	8	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	6	1	so	so	ADV
_003376541	6	2	few	few	ADJ
_003376541	6	3	talk	talk	NOUN
_003376541	6	4	about	about	ADP
_003376541	6	5	goodness	goodness	NOUN
_003376541	6	6	in	in	ADP
_003376541	6	7	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	6	8	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	7	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	7	2	happy	happy	ADJ
_003376541	7	3	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	7	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	7	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	7	6	very	very	ADV
_003376541	7	7	desirable	desirable	ADJ
_003376541	7	8	person	person	NOUN
_003376541	7	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	7	10	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	7	11	it	it	PRON
_003376541	7	12	is	be	AUX
_003376541	7	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	7	14	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	7	15	priest	priest	NOUN
_003376541	7	16	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	7	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	7	18	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	7	19	doctor	doctor	NOUN
_003376541	7	20	that	that	PRON
_003376541	7	21	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	7	22	of	of	ADP
_003376541	7	23	us	us	PROPN
_003376541	7	24	admire	admire	NOUN
_003376541	7	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	8	1	we	we	PRON
_003376541	8	2	are	be	AUX
_003376541	8	3	more	more	ADV
_003376541	8	4	impressed	impressed	ADJ
_003376541	8	5	by	by	ADP
_003376541	8	6	priestly	priestly	ADJ
_003376541	8	7	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	8	8	professional	professional	ADJ
_003376541	8	9	talents	talent	NOUN
_003376541	8	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	8	11	wisely	wisely	ADV
_003376541	8	12	used	use	VERB
_003376541	8	13	in	in	ADP
_003376541	8	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	8	15	service	service	NOUN
_003376541	8	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	8	17	others	other	NOUN
_003376541	8	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	8	19	than	than	ADP
_003376541	8	20	by	by	ADP
_003376541	8	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	8	22	gaiety	gaiety	NOUN
_003376541	8	23	of	of	ADP
_003376541	8	24	the	the	DET
_003376541	8	25	men	man	NOUN
_003376541	8	26	involved	involve	VERB
_003376541	8	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	9	1	perhaps	perhaps	ADV
_003376541	9	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	9	3	therefore	therefore	ADV
_003376541	9	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	9	5	it	it	PRON
_003376541	9	6	is	be	AUX
_003376541	9	7	about	about	ADP
_003376541	9	8	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	9	9	we	we	PRON
_003376541	9	10	ceased	cease	VERB
_003376541	9	11	looking	look	VERB
_003376541	9	12	upon	upon	SCONJ
_003376541	9	13	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	9	14	as	as	ADP
_003376541	9	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	9	16	continuing	continue	VERB
_003376541	9	17	romantic	romantic	ADJ
_003376541	9	18	fog	fog	NOUN
_003376541	9	19	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	9	20	remember	remember	VERB
_003376541	9	21	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	9	22	it	it	PRON
_003376541	9	23	is	be	AUX
_003376541	9	24	a	a	DET
_003376541	9	25	sacred	sacred	ADJ
_003376541	9	26	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	9	27	serious	serious	ADJ
_003376541	9	28	work	work	NOUN
_003376541	9	29	requiring	require	VERB
_003376541	9	30	proficiency	proficiency	NOUN
_003376541	9	31	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	9	32	application	application	NOUN
_003376541	9	33	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	10	1	successful	successful	ADJ
_003376541	10	2	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	10	3	no	no	PRON
_003376541	10	4	more	more	ADV
_003376541	10	5	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	10	6	naturally	naturally	ADV
_003376541	10	7	than	than	ADP
_003376541	10	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	10	9	priesthood	priesthood	NOUN
_003376541	10	10	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	11	1	couples	couple	NOUN
_003376541	11	2	must	must	AUX
_003376541	11	3	prepare	prepare	VERB
_003376541	11	4	f	f	PROPN
_003376541	12	1	o	o	X
_003376541	12	2	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	12	3	it	it	PRON
_003376541	12	4	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	12	5	keep	keep	VERB
_003376541	12	6	working	work	VERB
_003376541	12	7	at	at	ADP
_003376541	12	8	it	it	PRON
_003376541	12	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	12	10	perhaps	perhaps	ADV
_003376541	12	11	more	more	ADV
_003376541	12	12	in	in	ADP
_003376541	12	13	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	12	14	then	then	ADV
_003376541	12	15	elsewhere	elsewhere	ADV
_003376541	12	16	because	because	SCONJ
_003376541	12	17	two	two	NUM
_003376541	12	18	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	12	19	sexes	sex	NOUN
_003376541	12	20	are	be	AUX
_003376541	12	21	involved	involve	VERB
_003376541	12	22	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	12	23	with	with	ADP
_003376541	12	24	all	all	PRON
_003376541	12	25	of	of	ADP
_003376541	12	26	the	the	DET
_003376541	12	27	possibilities	possibility	NOUN
_003376541	12	28	of	of	ADP
_003376541	12	29	failure	failure	NOUN
_003376541	12	30	which	which	PRON
_003376541	12	31	this	this	DET
_003376541	12	32	situation	situation	NOUN
_003376541	12	33	contains	contain	VERB
_003376541	12	34	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	13	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	13	2	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	13	3	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	13	4	has	have	VERB
_003376541	13	5	three	three	NUM
_003376541	13	6	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	13	7	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	13	8	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	13	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	13	10	discipline	discipline	NOUN
_003376541	13	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	13	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	13	13	god	god	PROPN
_003376541	13	14	's	's	PART
_003376541	13	15	grace	grace	NOUN
_003376541	13	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	14	1	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	14	2	pushes	push	VERB
_003376541	14	3	you	you	PRON
_003376541	14	4	on	on	ADP
_003376541	14	5	to	to	PART
_003376541	14	6	do	do	VERB
_003376541	14	7	what	what	PRON
_003376541	14	8	otherwise	otherwise	ADV
_003376541	14	9	you	you	PRON
_003376541	14	10	would	would	AUX
_003376541	14	11	find	find	VERB
_003376541	14	12	repugnant	repugnant	ADJ
_003376541	14	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	15	1	our	our	PRON
_003376541	15	2	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	15	3	had	have	VERB
_003376541	15	4	little	little	ADJ
_003376541	15	5	romance	romance	NOUN
_003376541	15	6	in	in	ADP
_003376541	15	7	their	their	PRON
_003376541	15	8	lives	life	NOUN
_003376541	15	9	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	15	10	lots	lot	NOUN
_003376541	15	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	15	12	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	15	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	16	1	they	they	PRON
_003376541	16	2	developed	develop	VERB
_003376541	16	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	16	4	keen	keen	ADJ
_003376541	16	5	sense	sense	NOUN
_003376541	16	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	16	7	duty	duty	NOUN
_003376541	16	8	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	17	1	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	17	2	why	why	SCONJ
_003376541	17	3	are	be	AUX
_003376541	17	4	you	you	PRON
_003376541	17	5	doing	do	VERB
_003376541	17	6	it	it	PRON
_003376541	17	7	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	17	8	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	17	9	might	might	AUX
_003376541	17	10	have	have	AUX
_003376541	17	11	been	be	AUX
_003376541	17	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	17	13	question	question	NOUN
_003376541	17	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	18	1	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	18	2	it	it	PRON
_003376541	18	3	's	be	AUX
_003376541	18	4	my	my	PRON
_003376541	18	5	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	18	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	18	7	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	18	8	always	always	ADV
_003376541	18	9	was	be	AUX
_003376541	18	10	their	their	PRON
_003376541	18	11	answer	answer	NOUN
_003376541	18	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	19	1	they	they	PRON
_003376541	19	2	probably	probably	ADV
_003376541	19	3	liked	like	VERB
_003376541	19	4	what	what	PRON
_003376541	19	5	they	they	PRON
_003376541	19	6	were	be	AUX
_003376541	19	7	doing	do	VERB
_003376541	19	8	too	too	ADV
_003376541	19	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	19	10	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	19	11	their	their	PRON
_003376541	19	12	likes	like	NOUN
_003376541	19	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	19	14	dislikes	dislike	NOUN
_003376541	19	15	were	be	AUX
_003376541	19	16	not	not	PART
_003376541	19	17	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	19	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	19	19	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	19	20	they	they	PRON
_003376541	19	21	developed	develop	VERB
_003376541	19	22	a	a	DET
_003376541	19	23	real	real	ADJ
_003376541	19	24	competence	competence	NOUN
_003376541	19	25	that	that	PRON
_003376541	19	26	should	should	AUX
_003376541	19	27	make	make	VERB
_003376541	19	28	present	present	ADJ
_003376541	19	29	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	19	30	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	19	31	psychologists	psychologist	NOUN
_003376541	19	32	very	very	ADV
_003376541	19	33	humble	humble	ADJ
_003376541	19	34	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	20	1	of	of	ADP
_003376541	20	2	course	course	NOUN
_003376541	20	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	20	4	they	they	PRON
_003376541	20	5	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	20	6	like	like	ADP
_003376541	20	7	so	so	ADV
_003376541	20	8	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	20	9	couples	couple	NOUN
_003376541	20	10	today	today	NOUN
_003376541	20	11	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	20	12	did	do	AUX
_003376541	20	13	not	not	PART
_003376541	20	14	work	work	VERB
_003376541	20	15	alone	alone	ADV
_003376541	20	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	21	1	they	they	PRON
_003376541	21	2	talked	talk	VERB
_003376541	21	3	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	21	4	acted	act	VERB
_003376541	21	5	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	21	6	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	21	7	god	god	PROPN
_003376541	21	8	was	be	AUX
_003376541	21	9	in	in	ADP
_003376541	21	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	21	11	next	next	ADJ
_003376541	21	12	room	room	NOUN
_003376541	21	13	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	21	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	21	15	more	more	ADV
_003376541	21	16	often	often	ADV
_003376541	21	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	21	18	right	right	ADV
_003376541	21	19	beside	beside	ADP
_003376541	21	20	them	they	PRON
_003376541	21	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	22	1	w	w	ADP
_003376541	22	2	h	h	PROPN
_003376541	22	3	e	e	PROPN
_003376541	22	4	n	n	ADP
_003376541	22	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	22	6	old	old	ADJ
_003376541	22	7	body	body	NOUN
_003376541	22	8	got	get	VERB
_003376541	22	9	tired	tired	ADJ
_003376541	22	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	22	11	3	3	NUM
_003376541	22	12	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	22	13	looked	look	VERB
_003376541	22	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	22	15	little	little	ADJ
_003376541	22	16	black	black	ADJ
_003376541	22	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	22	18	they	they	PRON
_003376541	22	19	often	often	ADV
_003376541	22	20	asked	ask	VERB
_003376541	22	21	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	22	22	got	get	VERB
_003376541	22	23	a	a	DET
_003376541	22	24	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	22	25	l	l	NOUN
_003376541	23	1	i	i	PRON
_003376541	23	2	f	f	PROPN
_003376541	23	3	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	23	4	f	f	X
_003376541	24	1	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	24	2	o	o	NOUN
_003376541	24	3	m	m	VERB
_003376541	24	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	24	5	angels	angel	NOUN
_003376541	24	6	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	25	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	25	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	25	3	why	why	SCONJ
_003376541	25	4	they	they	PRON
_003376541	25	5	are	be	AUX
_003376541	25	6	remembered	remember	VERB
_003376541	25	7	so	so	SCONJ
_003376541	26	1	f	f	PROPN
_003376541	26	2	o	o	PROPN
_003376541	26	3	n	n	PROPN
_003376541	26	4	d	d	X
_003376541	26	5	l	l	X
_003376541	26	6	y	y	PROPN
_003376541	26	7	by	by	ADP
_003376541	26	8	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	26	9	h	h	NOUN
_003376541	26	10	e	e	X
_003376541	26	11	i	i	PRON
_003376541	26	12	r	r	VERB
_003376541	26	13	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	26	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	26	15	certainly	certainly	ADV
_003376541	26	16	by	by	ADP
_003376541	26	17	god	god	PROPN
_003376541	26	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	27	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	27	2	this	this	DET
_003376541	27	3	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	27	4	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	27	5	romance	romance	NOUN
_003376541	27	6	substitutes	substitute	VERB
_003376541	27	7	f	f	X
_003376541	27	8	o	o	X
_003376541	27	9	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	27	10	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	27	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	27	12	convenience	convenience	NOUN
_003376541	27	13	is	be	AUX
_003376541	27	14	more	more	ADV
_003376541	27	15	desirable	desirable	ADJ
_003376541	27	16	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	27	17	h	h	NOUN
_003376541	27	18	a	a	DET
_003376541	27	19	n	n	NOUN
_003376541	27	20	sacrifice	sacrifice	NOUN
_003376541	27	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	27	22	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	27	23	the	the	DET
_003376541	27	24	third	third	ADJ
_003376541	27	25	p	p	NOUN
_003376541	27	26	a	a	DET
_003376541	27	27	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	27	28	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	27	29	n	n	NOUN
_003376541	27	30	e	e	NOUN
_003376541	27	31	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	27	32	in	in	ADP
_003376541	27	33	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	27	34	is	be	AUX
_003376541	27	35	too	too	ADV
_003376541	27	36	often	often	ADV
_003376541	27	37	locked	lock	VERB
_003376541	27	38	out	out	ADP
_003376541	27	39	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	27	40	it	it	PRON
_003376541	27	41	is	be	AUX
_003376541	27	42	consoling	console	VERB
_003376541	27	43	to	to	PART
_003376541	27	44	see	see	VERB
_003376541	27	45	married	married	ADJ
_003376541	27	46	couples	couple	NOUN
_003376541	27	47	struggling	struggle	VERB
_003376541	27	48	earnestly	earnestly	ADV
_003376541	27	49	to	to	PART
_003376541	27	50	maintain	maintain	VERB
_003376541	27	51	the	the	DET
_003376541	27	52	goodness	goodness	NOUN
_003376541	27	53	of	of	ADP
_003376541	27	54	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	27	55	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	27	56	working	work	VERB
_003376541	27	57	even	even	ADV
_003376541	27	58	f	f	PROPN
_003376541	27	59	o	o	NOUN
_003376541	27	60	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	27	61	greater	great	ADJ
_003376541	27	62	domestic	domestic	ADJ
_003376541	27	63	spirituality	spirituality	NOUN
_003376541	27	64	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	27	65	h	h	NOUN
_003376541	27	66	a	a	DET
_003376541	27	67	n	n	NOUN
_003376541	27	68	their	their	PRON
_003376541	27	69	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	27	70	ever	ever	ADV
_003376541	27	71	enjoyed	enjoy	VERB
_003376541	27	72	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	28	1	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	28	2	be	be	AUX
_003376541	28	3	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	28	4	at	at	ADP
_003376541	28	5	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	28	6	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	28	7	is	be	AUX
_003376541	28	8	j	j	PRON
_003376541	28	9	u	u	PROPN
_003376541	28	10	s	s	NOUN
_003376541	28	11	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	28	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	28	13	n	n	NOUN
_003376541	28	14	o	o	NOUN
_003376541	28	15	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	28	16	h	h	NOUN
_003376541	28	17	e	e	NOUN
_003376541	28	18	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	28	19	evidence	evidence	NOUN
_003376541	28	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	28	21	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	28	22	h	h	NOUN
_003376541	28	23	a	a	DET
_003376541	28	24	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	28	25	striving	striving	NOUN
_003376541	28	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	29	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	29	2	kanes	kane	NOUN
_003376541	29	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	29	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	29	5	cissells	cissell	NOUN
_003376541	29	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	29	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	29	8	mainos	mainos	PROPN
_003376541	29	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	29	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	29	11	strubbes	strubbe	NOUN
_003376541	29	12	have	have	AUX
_003376541	29	13	expended	expend	VERB
_003376541	29	14	countless	countless	ADJ
_003376541	29	15	hours	hour	NOUN
_003376541	29	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	29	17	their	their	PRON
_003376541	29	18	married	married	ADJ
_003376541	29	19	lives	life	NOUN
_003376541	29	20	t	t	X
_003376541	29	21	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	30	1	y	y	PROPN
_003376541	30	2	i	i	PRON
_003376541	30	3	n	n	ADP
_003376541	30	4	g	g	NOUN
_003376541	30	5	to	to	PART
_003376541	30	6	enrich	enrich	VERB
_003376541	30	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	30	8	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	30	9	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	30	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	30	11	others	other	NOUN
_003376541	30	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	31	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	31	2	t	t	PROPN
_003376541	31	3	u	u	PROPN
_003376541	31	4	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	31	5	n	n	PROPN
_003376541	31	6	god	god	PROPN
_003376541	31	7	has	have	AUX
_003376541	31	8	blessed	bless	VERB
_003376541	31	9	them	they	PRON
_003376541	31	10	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	32	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	32	2	particular	particular	ADJ
_003376541	32	3	value	value	NOUN
_003376541	32	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	32	5	these	these	DET
_003376541	32	6	f	f	PROPN
_003376541	32	7	o	o	PROPN
_003376541	32	8	u	u	NOUN
_003376541	32	9	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	32	10	chapters	chapter	NOUN
_003376541	32	11	is	be	AUX
_003376541	32	12	their	their	PRON
_003376541	32	13	down	down	ADP
_003376541	32	14	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	32	15	to	to	ADP
_003376541	32	16	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	32	17	earth	earth	NOUN
_003376541	32	18	wisdom	wisdom	NOUN
_003376541	32	19	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	32	20	christian	christian	ADJ
_003376541	32	21	simplicity	simplicity	NOUN
_003376541	32	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	33	1	may	may	AUX
_003376541	33	2	they	they	PRON
_003376541	33	3	be	be	AUX
_003376541	33	4	read	read	VERB
_003376541	33	5	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	33	6	reread	reread	ADJ
_003376541	33	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	33	8	discussed	discuss	VERB
_003376541	33	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	33	10	acted	act	VERB
_003376541	33	11	upon	upon	SCONJ
_003376541	33	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	33	13	because	because	SCONJ
_003376541	33	14	it	it	PRON
_003376541	33	15	is	be	AUX
_003376541	33	16	only	only	ADV
_003376541	33	17	in	in	ADP
_003376541	33	18	doing	do	VERB
_003376541	33	19	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	33	20	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	33	21	h	h	NOUN
_003376541	33	22	a	a	DET
_003376541	33	23	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	33	24	thinking	thinking	NOUN
_003376541	33	25	good	good	NOUN
_003376541	33	26	finds	find	VERB
_003376541	33	27	its	its	PRON
_003376541	33	28	value	value	NOUN
_003376541	33	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	34	1	very	very	ADV
_003376541	34	2	rev	rev	PROPN
_003376541	34	3	.	.	PROPN
_003376541	34	4	msgr	msgr	PROPN
_003376541	34	5	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	35	1	george	george	PROPN
_003376541	35	2	a.	a.	PROPN
_003376541	35	3	kelly	kelly	PROPN
_003376541	35	4	director	director	PROPN
_003376541	35	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	35	6	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	35	7	life	life	PROPN
_003376541	35	8	bureau	bureau	NOUN
_003376541	35	9	archdiocese	archdiocese	NOUN
_003376541	35	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	35	11	new	new	PROPN
_003376541	35	12	york	york	PROPN
_003376541	35	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	36	1	msgr	msgr	PROPN
_003376541	36	2	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	37	1	george	george	PROPN
_003376541	37	2	a.	a.	PROPN
_003376541	37	3	kelly	kelly	PROPN
_003376541	37	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	37	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	37	6	author	author	NOUN
_003376541	37	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	37	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	37	9	catholic	catholic	ADJ
_003376541	37	10	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	37	11	handbook	handbook	NOUN
_003376541	37	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	37	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	37	14	catholic	catholic	ADJ
_003376541	37	15	youth	youth	NOUN
_003376541	37	16	's	's	PART
_003376541	37	17	guide	guide	NOUN
_003376541	37	18	to	to	ADP
_003376541	37	19	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	37	20	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	37	21	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	37	22	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	37	23	the	the	DET
_003376541	37	24	catholic	catholic	ADJ
_003376541	37	25	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	37	26	manual	manual	NOUN
_003376541	37	27	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	37	28	all	all	PRON
_003376541	37	29	published	publish	VERB
_003376541	37	30	by	by	ADP
_003376541	37	31	random	random	ADJ
_003376541	37	32	house	house	NOUN
_003376541	37	33	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	38	1	n	n	ADV
_003376541	38	2	i	i	PRON
_003376541	38	3	h	h	VERB
_003376541	38	4	i	i	PRON
_003376541	39	1	l	l	PROPN
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_003376541	39	3	b	b	PROPN
_003376541	39	4	s	s	X
_003376541	39	5	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	39	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	39	7	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	39	8	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	39	9	j	j	NOUN
_003376541	39	10	o	o	PROPN
_003376541	39	11	h	h	PROPN
_003376541	39	12	n	n	PROPN
_003376541	39	13	l	l	PROPN
_003376541	39	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	39	15	reedy	reedy	PROPN
_003376541	39	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	39	17	c	c	PROPN
_003376541	39	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	40	1	s	s	X
_003376541	40	2	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	41	1	c	c	PROPN
_003376541	41	2	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	42	1	censor	censor	VERB
_003376541	42	2	d	d	NOUN
_003376541	42	3	e	e	PROPN
_003376541	42	4	p	p	NOUN
_003376541	42	5	u	u	PROPN
_003376541	42	6	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	42	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	42	8	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	42	9	u	u	NOUN
_003376541	42	10	s	s	VERB
_003376541	43	1	i	i	PRON
_003376541	43	2	m	m	VERB
_003376541	43	3	p	p	NOUN
_003376541	43	4	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	43	5	i	i	PRON
_003376541	43	6	m	m	VERB
_003376541	43	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	43	8	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	43	9	u	u	NOUN
_003376541	43	10	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	43	11	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	43	12	®	®	PROPN
_003376541	43	13	most	most	ADV
_003376541	43	14	rev	rev	PROPN
_003376541	43	15	.	.	PROPN
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_003376541	43	17	a.	a.	PROPN
_003376541	43	18	pursley	pursley	PROPN
_003376541	43	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	43	20	d	d	PROPN
_003376541	43	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	44	1	d	d	PROPN
_003376541	44	2	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	45	1	bishop	bishop	PROPN
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_003376541	45	3	f	f	PROPN
_003376541	45	4	o	o	X
_003376541	45	5	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	45	6	t	t	PROPN
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_003376541	45	8	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	45	9	south	south	PROPN
_003376541	45	10	bend	bend	NOUN
_003376541	45	11	october	october	PROPN
_003376541	45	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	45	13	1961	1961	NUM
_003376541	45	14	4	4	NUM
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_003376541	45	16	e	e	NOUN
_003376541	45	17	s	s	VERB
_003376541	45	18	t	t	NOUN
_003376541	46	1	i	i	PRON
_003376541	46	2	d	d	NOUN
_003376541	46	3	m	m	AUX
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_003376541	46	5	to	to	PART
_003376541	46	6	live	live	VERB
_003376541	46	7	together	together	ADV
_003376541	46	8	by	by	ADP
_003376541	46	9	charles	charles	PROPN
_003376541	46	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	46	11	rita	rita	PROPN
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_003376541	46	13	you	you	PRON
_003376541	46	14	're	be	AUX
_003376541	46	15	in	in	ADP
_003376541	46	16	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	46	17	!	!	PUNCT
_003376541	47	1	you	you	PRON
_003376541	47	2	ca	can	AUX
_003376541	47	3	n't	not	PART
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_003376541	47	5	without	without	ADP
_003376541	47	6	each	each	DET
_003376541	47	7	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	47	8	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	48	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	48	2	there	there	PRON
_003376541	48	3	is	be	VERB
_003376541	48	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	48	5	gray	gray	ADJ
_003376541	48	6	little	little	ADJ
_003376541	48	7	worm	worm	NOUN
_003376541	48	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	48	9	doubt	doubt	NOUN
_003376541	48	10	gnawing	gnaw	VERB
_003376541	48	11	at	at	ADP
_003376541	48	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	48	13	back	back	NOUN
_003376541	48	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	48	15	your	your	PRON
_003376541	48	16	minds	mind	NOUN
_003376541	48	17	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	48	18	can	can	AUX
_003376541	48	19	you	you	PRON
_003376541	48	20	live	live	VERB
_003376541	48	21	with	with	ADP
_003376541	48	22	each	each	DET
_003376541	48	23	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	48	24	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	49	1	you	you	PRON
_003376541	49	2	'd	would	AUX
_003376541	49	3	climb	climb	VERB
_003376541	49	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	49	5	well	well	ADV
_003376541	49	6	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	49	7	known	know	VERB
_003376541	49	8	highest	high	ADJ
_003376541	49	9	mountain	mountain	NOUN
_003376541	49	10	for	for	ADP
_003376541	49	11	her	she	PRON
_003376541	49	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	49	13	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	49	14	she	she	PRON
_003376541	49	15	ca	can	AUX
_003376541	49	16	n't	not	PART
_003376541	49	17	cook	cook	VERB
_003376541	49	18	like	like	ADP
_003376541	49	19	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	49	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	50	1	you	you	PRON
_003376541	50	2	'd	would	AUX
_003376541	50	3	cater	cater	VERB
_003376541	50	4	to	to	ADP
_003376541	50	5	his	his	PRON
_003376541	50	6	every	every	DET
_003376541	50	7	whim	whim	NOUN
_003376541	50	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	50	9	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	50	10	you	you	PRON
_003376541	50	11	'll	will	AUX
_003376541	50	12	bet	bet	VERB
_003376541	50	13	he	he	PRON
_003376541	50	14	leaves	leave	VERB
_003376541	50	15	his	his	PRON
_003376541	50	16	clothes	clothe	NOUN
_003376541	50	17	strewn	strew	VERB
_003376541	50	18	around	around	ADP
_003376541	50	19	on	on	ADP
_003376541	50	20	the	the	DET
_003376541	50	21	bedroom	bedroom	NOUN
_003376541	50	22	floor	floor	NOUN
_003376541	50	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	51	1	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	51	2	conquers	conquer	NOUN
_003376541	51	3	all	all	PRON
_003376541	51	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	51	5	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	51	6	can	can	AUX
_003376541	51	7	it	it	PRON
_003376541	51	8	survive	survive	VERB
_003376541	51	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	51	10	daily	daily	ADJ
_003376541	51	11	wear	wear	NOUN
_003376541	51	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	51	13	petty	petty	ADJ
_003376541	51	14	annoyances	annoyance	NOUN
_003376541	51	15	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	51	16	differences	difference	NOUN
_003376541	51	17	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	52	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	52	2	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	52	3	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	52	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	52	5	can	can	AUX
_003376541	52	6	you	you	PRON
_003376541	52	7	adjust	adjust	VERB
_003376541	52	8	yourself	yourself	PRON
_003376541	52	9	to	to	ADP
_003376541	52	10	married	married	ADJ
_003376541	52	11	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	52	12	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	53	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	53	2	adjustments	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	53	3	in	in	ADP
_003376541	53	4	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	53	5	!	!	PUNCT
_003376541	54	1	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	54	2	i	i	PRON
_003376541	54	3	've	've	AUX
_003376541	54	4	heard	hear	VERB
_003376541	54	5	so	so	ADV
_003376541	54	6	much	much	ADV
_003376541	54	7	about	about	ADP
_003376541	54	8	adjustments	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	54	9	in	in	ADP
_003376541	54	10	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	54	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	54	12	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	54	13	wrote	write	VERB
_003376541	54	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	54	15	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	54	16	lady	lady	NOUN
_003376541	54	17	at	at	ADP
_003376541	54	18	a	a	DET
_003376541	54	19	recent	recent	ADJ
_003376541	54	20	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	54	21	study	study	NOUN
_003376541	54	22	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	54	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	54	24	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	54	25	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	54	26	i	i	PRON
_003376541	54	27	'm	be	AUX
_003376541	54	28	worried	worried	ADJ
_003376541	54	29	about	about	ADP
_003376541	54	30	them	they	PRON
_003376541	54	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	55	1	are	be	AUX
_003376541	55	2	they	they	PRON
_003376541	55	3	really	really	ADV
_003376541	55	4	that	that	ADV
_003376541	55	5	hard	hard	ADJ
_003376541	55	6	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	55	7	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	56	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	56	2	questions	question	NOUN
_003376541	56	3	are	be	AUX
_003376541	56	4	endless	endless	ADJ
_003376541	56	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	56	6	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	56	7	with	with	ADP
_003376541	56	8	variety	variety	NOUN
_003376541	56	9	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	57	1	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	57	2	can	can	AUX
_003376541	57	3	i	i	PRON
_003376541	57	4	face	face	VERB
_003376541	57	5	adjustments	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	57	6	to	to	ADP
_003376541	57	7	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	57	8	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	58	1	which	which	DET
_003376541	58	2	one	one	NOUN
_003376541	58	3	is	be	AUX
_003376541	58	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	58	5	most	most	ADV
_003376541	58	6	difficult	difficult	ADJ
_003376541	58	7	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	59	1	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	59	2	long	long	ADV
_003376541	59	3	does	do	AUX
_003376541	59	4	it	it	PRON
_003376541	59	5	take	take	VERB
_003376541	59	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	59	7	get	get	VERB
_003376541	59	8	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	59	9	adjusted	adjust	VERB
_003376541	59	10	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	59	11	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	60	1	who	who	PRON
_003376541	60	2	makes	make	VERB
_003376541	60	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	60	4	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	60	5	adjustments	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	60	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	60	7	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	60	8	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	60	9	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	60	10	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	61	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	61	2	questions	question	NOUN
_003376541	61	3	always	always	ADV
_003376541	61	4	possess	possess	VERB
_003376541	61	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	61	6	common	common	ADJ
_003376541	61	7	denominator	denominator	NOUN
_003376541	61	8	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	61	9	an	an	DET
_003376541	61	10	attitude	attitude	NOUN
_003376541	61	11	on	on	ADP
_003376541	61	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	61	13	part	part	NOUN
_003376541	61	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	61	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	61	16	questioners	questioner	NOUN
_003376541	61	17	ranging	range	VERB
_003376541	61	18	from	from	ADP
_003376541	61	19	apprehension	apprehension	NOUN
_003376541	61	20	to	to	ADP
_003376541	61	21	actual	actual	ADJ
_003376541	61	22	dread	dread	NOUN
_003376541	61	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	62	1	for	for	ADP
_003376541	62	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	62	3	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	62	4	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	62	5	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	62	6	realize	realize	VERB
_003376541	62	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	62	8	it	it	PRON
_003376541	62	9	is	be	AUX
_003376541	62	10	this	this	DET
_003376541	62	11	failure	failure	NOUN
_003376541	62	12	to	to	PART
_003376541	62	13	adjust	adjust	VERB
_003376541	62	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	62	15	each	each	PRON
_003376541	62	16	to	to	ADP
_003376541	62	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	62	18	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	62	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	62	20	which	which	PRON
_003376541	62	21	underlies	underlie	VERB
_003376541	62	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	62	23	ultimate	ultimate	ADJ
_003376541	62	24	failure	failure	NOUN
_003376541	62	25	of	of	ADP
_003376541	62	26	many	many	DET
_003376541	62	27	a	a	DET
_003376541	62	28	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	62	29	begun	begin	VERB
_003376541	62	30	with	with	ADP
_003376541	62	31	high	high	ADJ
_003376541	62	32	hopes	hope	NOUN
_003376541	62	33	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	62	34	tender	tender	ADJ
_003376541	62	35	feelings	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	62	36	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	62	37	lofty	lofty	ADJ
_003376541	62	38	goals	goal	NOUN
_003376541	62	39	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	63	1	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	63	2	for	for	ADP
_003376541	63	3	each	each	DET
_003376541	63	4	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	63	5	which	which	PRON
_003376541	63	6	fails	fail	VERB
_003376541	63	7	spectacularly	spectacularly	ADV
_003376541	63	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	63	9	there	there	PRON
_003376541	63	10	are	be	VERB
_003376541	63	11	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	63	12	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	63	13	in	in	ADP
_003376541	63	14	which	which	PRON
_003376541	63	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	63	16	flame	flame	NOUN
_003376541	63	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	63	18	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	63	19	sputters	sputter	NOUN
_003376541	63	20	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	63	21	wanes	wane	NOUN
_003376541	63	22	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	63	23	where	where	SCONJ
_003376541	63	24	mediocrity	mediocrity	NOUN
_003376541	63	25	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	63	26	a	a	DET
_003376541	63	27	kind	kind	NOUN
_003376541	63	28	of	of	ADP
_003376541	63	29	armed	armed	ADJ
_003376541	63	30	truce	truce	NOUN
_003376541	63	31	replace	replace	VERB
_003376541	63	32	the	the	DET
_003376541	63	33	warmth	warmth	NOUN
_003376541	63	34	of	of	ADP
_003376541	63	35	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	63	36	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	63	37	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	64	1	no	no	DET
_003376541	64	2	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	64	3	person	person	NOUN
_003376541	64	4	in	in	ADP
_003376541	64	5	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	64	6	wants	want	VERB
_003376541	64	7	to	to	PART
_003376541	64	8	accept	accept	VERB
_003376541	64	9	this	this	PRON
_003376541	64	10	as	as	ADP
_003376541	64	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	64	12	probable	probable	ADJ
_003376541	64	13	future	future	NOUN
_003376541	64	14	to	to	ADP
_003376541	64	15	his	his	PRON
_003376541	64	16	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	64	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	65	1	hence	hence	ADV
_003376541	65	2	his	his	PRON
_003376541	65	3	great	great	ADJ
_003376541	65	4	concern	concern	NOUN
_003376541	65	5	over	over	ADP
_003376541	65	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	65	7	importance	importance	NOUN
_003376541	65	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	65	9	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	65	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	65	11	keeping	keep	VERB
_003376541	65	12	his	his	PRON
_003376541	65	13	married	married	ADJ
_003376541	65	14	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	65	15	strong	strong	ADJ
_003376541	65	16	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	65	17	beautiful	beautiful	ADJ
_003376541	65	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	66	1	what	what	PRON
_003376541	66	2	does	do	AUX
_003376541	66	3	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	66	4	mean	mean	VERB
_003376541	66	5	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	67	1	what	what	PRON
_003376541	67	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	67	3	meant	mean	VERB
_003376541	67	4	by	by	ADP
_003376541	67	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	67	6	term	term	NOUN
_003376541	67	7	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	67	8	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	67	9	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	67	10	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	68	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	68	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	68	3	so	so	ADV
_003376541	68	4	simple	simple	ADJ
_003376541	68	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	68	6	process	process	NOUN
_003376541	68	7	that	that	PRON
_003376541	68	8	we	we	PRON
_003376541	68	9	do	do	VERB
_003376541	68	10	it	it	PRON
_003376541	68	11	all	all	PRON
_003376541	68	12	our	our	PRON
_003376541	68	13	lives	life	NOUN
_003376541	68	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	69	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	69	2	person	person	NOUN
_003376541	69	3	adjusts	adjust	VERB
_003376541	69	4	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	69	5	he	he	PRON
_003376541	69	6	adapts	adapt	VERB
_003376541	69	7	himself	himself	PRON
_003376541	69	8	to	to	ADP
_003376541	69	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	69	10	situation	situation	NOUN
_003376541	69	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	69	12	conforms	conform	VERB
_003376541	69	13	to	to	ADP
_003376541	69	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	69	15	pattern	pattern	NOUN
_003376541	69	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	69	17	rearranges	rearrange	VERB
_003376541	69	18	his	his	PRON
_003376541	69	19	habits	habit	NOUN
_003376541	69	20	to	to	PART
_003376541	69	21	suit	suit	VERB
_003376541	69	22	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	69	23	surroundings	surrounding	NOUN
_003376541	69	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	70	1	some	some	PRON
_003376541	70	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	70	3	these	these	DET
_003376541	70	4	adjustments	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	70	5	are	be	AUX
_003376541	70	6	voluntary	voluntary	ADJ
_003376541	70	7	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	70	8	others	other	NOUN
_003376541	70	9	are	be	AUX
_003376541	70	10	forced	force	VERB
_003376541	70	11	upon	upon	SCONJ
_003376541	70	12	us	we	PRON
_003376541	70	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	71	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	71	2	we	we	PRON
_003376541	71	3	decide	decide	VERB
_003376541	71	4	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	71	5	we	we	PRON
_003376541	71	6	prefer	prefer	VERB
_003376541	71	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	71	8	warm	warm	ADJ
_003376541	71	9	climate	climate	NOUN
_003376541	71	10	to	to	ADP
_003376541	71	11	blizzard	blizzard	NOUN
_003376541	71	12	winters	winter	NOUN
_003376541	71	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	71	14	we	we	PRON
_003376541	71	15	move	move	VERB
_003376541	71	16	to	to	ADP
_003376541	71	17	southern	southern	PROPN
_003376541	71	18	california	california	PROPN
_003376541	71	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	72	1	we	we	PRON
_003376541	72	2	must	must	AUX
_003376541	72	3	make	make	VERB
_003376541	72	4	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	72	5	changes	change	NOUN
_003376541	72	6	•	•	NOUN
_003376541	72	7	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	72	8	type	type	NOUN
_003376541	72	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	72	10	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	72	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	72	12	clothing	clothing	NOUN
_003376541	72	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	72	14	diet	diet	NOUN
_003376541	72	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	72	16	neighbors	neighbor	NOUN
_003376541	72	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	72	18	work	work	NOUN
_003376541	72	19	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	72	20	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	72	21	we	we	PRON
_003376541	72	22	adapt	adapt	VERB
_003376541	72	23	ourselves	ourselves	PRON
_003376541	72	24	to	to	ADP
_003376541	72	25	these	these	DET
_003376541	72	26	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	72	27	situations	situation	NOUN
_003376541	72	28	willingly	willingly	ADV
_003376541	72	29	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	72	30	because	because	SCONJ
_003376541	72	31	we	we	PRON
_003376541	72	32	have	have	AUX
_003376541	72	33	achieved	achieve	VERB
_003376541	72	34	our	our	PRON
_003376541	72	35	goal	goal	NOUN
_003376541	72	36	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	72	37	a	a	DET
_003376541	72	38	sunny	sunny	ADJ
_003376541	72	39	environment	environment	NOUN
_003376541	72	40	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	73	1	anyone	anyone	PRON
_003376541	73	2	who	who	PRON
_003376541	73	3	inherits	inherit	VERB
_003376541	73	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	73	5	million	million	NUM
_003376541	73	6	dollars	dollar	NOUN
_003376541	73	7	has	have	VERB
_003376541	73	8	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	73	9	adjustments	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	73	10	to	to	PART
_003376541	73	11	make	make	VERB
_003376541	73	12	in	in	ADP
_003376541	73	13	his	his	PRON
_003376541	73	14	mode	mode	NOUN
_003376541	73	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	73	16	living	living	NOUN
_003376541	73	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	74	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	74	2	they	they	PRON
_003376541	74	3	are	be	AUX
_003376541	74	4	mostly	mostly	ADV
_003376541	74	5	joyous	joyous	ADJ
_003376541	74	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	74	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	74	8	he	he	PRON
_003376541	74	9	is	be	AUX
_003376541	74	10	eager	eager	ADJ
_003376541	74	11	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	74	12	impatient	impatient	ADJ
_003376541	74	13	to	to	PART
_003376541	74	14	begin	begin	VERB
_003376541	74	15	this	this	DET
_003376541	74	16	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	74	17	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	74	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	75	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	75	2	should	should	AUX
_003376541	75	3	be	be	AUX
_003376541	75	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	75	5	basic	basic	ADJ
_003376541	75	6	attitude	attitude	NOUN
_003376541	75	7	toward	toward	ADP
_003376541	75	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	75	9	whole	whole	ADJ
_003376541	75	10	question	question	NOUN
_003376541	75	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	75	12	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	75	13	in	in	ADP
_003376541	75	14	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	75	15	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	75	16	we	we	PRON
_003376541	75	17	welcome	welcome	VERB
_003376541	75	18	each	each	DET
_003376541	75	19	change	change	NOUN
_003376541	75	20	in	in	ADP
_003376541	75	21	us	we	PRON
_003376541	75	22	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	75	23	bringing	bring	VERB
_003376541	75	24	our	our	PRON
_003376541	75	25	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	75	26	closer	close	ADV
_003376541	75	27	to	to	ADP
_003376541	75	28	its	its	PRON
_003376541	75	29	ideal	ideal	NOUN
_003376541	75	30	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	75	31	its	its	PRON
_003376541	75	32	image	image	NOUN
_003376541	75	33	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	75	34	the	the	DET
_003376541	75	35	union	union	NOUN
_003376541	75	36	of	of	ADP
_003376541	75	37	christ	christ	PROPN
_003376541	75	38	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	75	39	his	his	PRON
_003376541	75	40	church	church	NOUN
_003376541	75	41	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	76	1	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	76	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	76	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	76	4	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	76	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	76	6	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	76	7	freely	freely	ADV
_003376541	76	8	chosen	choose	VERB
_003376541	76	9	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	76	10	for	for	ADP
_003376541	76	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	76	12	rest	rest	NOUN
_003376541	76	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	76	14	our	our	PRON
_003376541	76	15	lives	life	NOUN
_003376541	76	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	76	17	we	we	PRON
_003376541	76	18	will	will	AUX
_003376541	76	19	live	live	VERB
_003376541	76	20	in	in	ADP
_003376541	76	21	an	an	DET
_003376541	76	22	association	association	NOUN
_003376541	76	23	so	so	ADV
_003376541	76	24	complete	complete	ADJ
_003376541	76	25	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	76	26	so	so	ADV
_003376541	76	27	intimate	intimate	ADJ
_003376541	76	28	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	76	29	it	it	PRON
_003376541	76	30	holds	hold	VERB
_003376541	76	31	for	for	ADP
_003376541	76	32	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	76	33	of	of	ADP
_003376541	76	34	us	we	PRON
_003376541	76	35	the	the	DET
_003376541	76	36	fullest	full	ADJ
_003376541	76	37	measure	measure	NOUN
_003376541	76	38	of	of	ADP
_003376541	76	39	happiness	happiness	NOUN
_003376541	76	40	in	in	ADP
_003376541	76	41	this	this	DET
_003376541	76	42	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	76	43	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	77	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	77	2	essential	essential	ADJ
_003376541	77	3	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	77	4	to	to	PART
_003376541	77	5	be	be	AUX
_003376541	77	6	made	make	VERB
_003376541	77	7	in	in	ADP
_003376541	77	8	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	77	9	is	be	AUX
_003376541	77	10	simple	simple	ADJ
_003376541	77	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	78	1	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	78	2	we	we	PRON
_003376541	78	3	marry	marry	VERB
_003376541	78	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	78	5	we	we	PRON
_003376541	78	6	cease	cease	VERB
_003376541	78	7	at	at	ADP
_003376541	78	8	that	that	DET
_003376541	78	9	moment	moment	NOUN
_003376541	78	10	to	to	PART
_003376541	78	11	be	be	AUX
_003376541	78	12	two	two	NUM
_003376541	78	13	separate	separate	ADJ
_003376541	78	14	individuals	individual	NOUN
_003376541	78	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	78	16	with	with	ADP
_003376541	78	17	personal	personal	ADJ
_003376541	78	18	dreams	dream	NOUN
_003376541	78	19	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	78	20	aspirations	aspiration	NOUN
_003376541	78	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	79	1	we	we	PRON
_003376541	79	2	two	two	NUM
_003376541	79	3	become	become	VERB
_003376541	79	4	one	one	NUM
_003376541	79	5	in	in	ADP
_003376541	79	6	body	body	NOUN
_003376541	79	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	79	8	mind	mind	NOUN
_003376541	79	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	79	10	heart	heart	NOUN
_003376541	79	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	80	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	80	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	80	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	80	4	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	80	5	unity	unity	NOUN
_003376541	80	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	80	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	80	8	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	80	9	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	80	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	80	11	with	with	ADP
_003376541	80	12	common	common	ADJ
_003376541	80	13	goals	goal	NOUN
_003376541	80	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	80	15	goods	good	NOUN
_003376541	80	16	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	80	17	what	what	PRON
_003376541	80	18	is	be	AUX
_003376541	80	19	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	80	20	for	for	ADP
_003376541	80	21	one	one	NUM
_003376541	80	22	is	be	AUX
_003376541	80	23	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	80	24	for	for	ADP
_003376541	80	25	the	the	DET
_003376541	80	26	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	80	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	81	1	indeed	indeed	ADV
_003376541	81	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	81	3	this	this	PRON
_003376541	81	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	81	5	easy	easy	ADJ
_003376541	81	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	81	7	say	say	VERB
_003376541	81	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	81	9	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	81	10	it	it	PRON
_003376541	81	11	profoundly	profoundly	ADV
_003376541	81	12	affects	affect	VERB
_003376541	81	13	our	our	PRON
_003376541	81	14	whole	whole	ADJ
_003376541	81	15	personality	personality	NOUN
_003376541	81	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	81	17	all	all	PRON
_003376541	81	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	81	19	our	our	PRON
_003376541	81	20	thoughts	thought	NOUN
_003376541	81	21	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	81	22	actions	action	NOUN
_003376541	81	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	82	1	virtues	virtue	NOUN
_003376541	82	2	that	that	PRON
_003376541	82	3	make	make	VERB
_003376541	82	4	it	it	PRON
_003376541	82	5	easier	easy	ADJ
_003376541	82	6	since	since	SCONJ
_003376541	82	7	such	such	DET
_003376541	82	8	an	an	DET
_003376541	82	9	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	82	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	82	11	from	from	ADP
_003376541	82	12	being	be	AUX
_003376541	82	13	two	two	NUM
_003376541	82	14	individuals	individual	NOUN
_003376541	82	15	to	to	PART
_003376541	82	16	becoming	become	VERB
_003376541	82	17	one	one	NUM
_003376541	82	18	unity	unity	NOUN
_003376541	82	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	82	20	can	can	AUX
_003376541	82	21	not	not	PART
_003376541	82	22	take	take	VERB
_003376541	82	23	place	place	NOUN
_003376541	82	24	in	in	ADP
_003376541	82	25	a	a	DET
_003376541	82	26	matter	matter	NOUN
_003376541	82	27	of	of	ADP
_003376541	82	28	moments	moment	NOUN
_003376541	82	29	nor	nor	CCONJ
_003376541	82	30	even	even	ADV
_003376541	82	31	of	of	ADP
_003376541	82	32	months	month	NOUN
_003376541	82	33	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	82	34	certain	certain	ADJ
_003376541	82	35	virtues	virtue	NOUN
_003376541	82	36	are	be	AUX
_003376541	82	37	particularly	particularly	ADV
_003376541	82	38	helpful	helpful	ADJ
_003376541	82	39	to	to	ADP
_003376541	82	40	the	the	DET
_003376541	82	41	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	82	42	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	82	43	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	82	44	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	83	1	not	not	PART
_003376541	83	2	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	83	3	adjustments	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	83	4	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	83	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	83	6	need	need	NOUN
_003376541	83	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	83	8	virtue	virtue	NOUN
_003376541	83	9	are	be	AUX
_003376541	83	10	exclusively	exclusively	ADV
_003376541	83	11	marital	marital	ADJ
_003376541	83	12	characteristics	characteristic	NOUN
_003376541	83	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	84	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	84	2	every	every	DET
_003376541	84	3	human	human	ADJ
_003376541	84	4	relationship	relationship	NOUN
_003376541	84	5	there	there	PRON
_003376541	84	6	must	must	AUX
_003376541	84	7	be	be	AUX
_003376541	84	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	84	9	harmonious	harmonious	ADJ
_003376541	84	10	give	give	NOUN
_003376541	84	11	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	84	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	84	13	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	84	14	take	take	NOUN
_003376541	84	15	between	between	ADP
_003376541	84	16	individuals	individual	NOUN
_003376541	84	17	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	84	18	each	each	PRON
_003376541	84	19	must	must	AUX
_003376541	84	20	adapt	adapt	VERB
_003376541	84	21	to	to	ADP
_003376541	84	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	84	23	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	84	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	85	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	85	2	same	same	ADJ
_003376541	85	3	characteristics	characteristic	NOUN
_003376541	85	4	which	which	PRON
_003376541	85	5	make	make	VERB
_003376541	85	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	85	7	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	85	8	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	85	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	85	10	a	a	DET
_003376541	85	11	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	85	12	parent	parent	NOUN
_003376541	85	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	85	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	85	15	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	85	16	employee	employee	NOUN
_003376541	85	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	85	18	a	a	DET
_003376541	85	19	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	85	20	employer	employer	NOUN
_003376541	85	21	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	85	22	a	a	DET
_003376541	85	23	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	85	24	neighbor	neighbor	NOUN
_003376541	85	25	will	will	AUX
_003376541	85	26	make	make	VERB
_003376541	85	27	him	he	PRON
_003376541	85	28	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	85	29	her	her	PRON
_003376541	85	30	a	a	DET
_003376541	85	31	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	85	32	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	85	33	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	85	34	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	85	35	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	86	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	86	2	so	so	ADV
_003376541	86	3	intimate	intimate	ADJ
_003376541	86	4	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	86	5	allpervasive	allpervasive	ADJ
_003376541	86	6	is	be	AUX
_003376541	86	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	86	8	marital	marital	ADJ
_003376541	86	9	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	86	10	that	that	PRON
_003376541	86	11	some	some	DET
_003376541	86	12	qualities	quality	NOUN
_003376541	86	13	are	be	AUX
_003376541	86	14	uniquely	uniquely	ADV
_003376541	86	15	helpful	helpful	ADJ
_003376541	86	16	in	in	ADP
_003376541	86	17	a	a	DET
_003376541	86	18	prospective	prospective	ADJ
_003376541	86	19	spouse	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	86	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	87	1	there	there	PRON
_003376541	87	2	is	be	VERB
_003376541	87	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	87	4	story	story	NOUN
_003376541	87	5	illustrative	illustrative	NOUN
_003376541	87	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	87	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	87	8	patience	patience	NOUN
_003376541	87	9	that	that	PRON
_003376541	87	10	both	both	DET
_003376541	87	11	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	87	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	87	13	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	87	14	must	must	AUX
_003376541	87	15	bring	bring	VERB
_003376541	87	16	to	to	ADP
_003376541	87	17	their	their	PRON
_003376541	87	18	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	87	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	88	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	88	2	newly	newly	ADV
_003376541	88	3	we	we	VERB
_003376541	88	4	d	d	ADJ
_003376541	88	5	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	88	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	88	7	charily	charily	ADV
_003376541	88	8	biting	bite	VERB
_003376541	88	9	into	into	ADP
_003376541	88	10	his	his	PRON
_003376541	88	11	bride	bride	NOUN
_003376541	88	12	's	's	PART
_003376541	88	13	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	88	14	attempt	attempt	NOUN
_003376541	88	15	at	at	ADP
_003376541	88	16	baking	bake	VERB
_003376541	88	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	88	18	remarked	remark	VERB
_003376541	88	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	88	20	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	88	21	you	you	PRON
_003376541	88	22	sure	sure	ADV
_003376541	88	23	do	do	AUX
_003376541	88	24	n't	not	PART
_003376541	88	25	make	make	VERB
_003376541	88	26	bread	bread	NOUN
_003376541	88	27	like	like	ADP
_003376541	88	28	my	my	PRON
_003376541	88	29	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	88	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	88	31	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	89	1	to	to	PART
_003376541	89	2	which	which	PRON
_003376541	89	3	she	she	PRON
_003376541	89	4	retorted	retort	VERB
_003376541	89	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	89	6	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	89	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	89	8	you	you	PRON
_003376541	89	9	do	do	AUX
_003376541	89	10	n't	not	PART
_003376541	89	11	make	make	VERB
_003376541	89	12	dough	dough	NOUN
_003376541	89	13	like	like	ADP
_003376541	89	14	my	my	PRON
_003376541	89	15	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	89	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	89	17	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	90	1	as	as	ADP
_003376541	90	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	90	3	matter	matter	NOUN
_003376541	90	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	90	5	fact	fact	NOUN
_003376541	90	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	90	7	they	they	PRON
_003376541	90	8	should	should	AUX
_003376541	90	9	have	have	AUX
_003376541	90	10	considered	consider	VERB
_003376541	90	11	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	90	12	this	this	PRON
_003376541	90	13	was	be	AUX
_003376541	90	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	90	15	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	90	16	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	90	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	90	18	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	90	19	for	for	ADP
_003376541	90	20	each	each	PRON
_003376541	90	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	91	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	91	2	bride	bride	NOUN
_003376541	91	3	needs	need	VERB
_003376541	91	4	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	91	5	to	to	PART
_003376541	91	6	become	become	VERB
_003376541	91	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	91	8	proficient	proficient	ADJ
_003376541	91	9	housekeeper	housekeeper	NOUN
_003376541	91	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	91	11	especially	especially	ADV
_003376541	91	12	in	in	ADP
_003376541	91	13	these	these	DET
_003376541	91	14	days	day	NOUN
_003376541	91	15	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	91	16	she	she	PRON
_003376541	91	17	probably	probably	ADV
_003376541	91	18	works	work	VERB
_003376541	91	19	for	for	ADP
_003376541	91	20	at	at	ADV
_003376541	91	21	least	least	ADJ
_003376541	91	22	a	a	PRON
_003376541	91	23	while	while	NOUN
_003376541	91	24	after	after	ADP
_003376541	91	25	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	91	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	92	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	92	2	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	92	3	usually	usually	ADV
_003376541	92	4	needs	need	VERB
_003376541	92	5	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	92	6	until	until	SCONJ
_003376541	92	7	he	he	PRON
_003376541	92	8	can	can	AUX
_003376541	92	9	provide	provide	VERB
_003376541	92	10	for	for	ADP
_003376541	92	11	them	they	PRON
_003376541	92	12	both	both	PRON
_003376541	92	13	in	in	ADP
_003376541	92	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	92	15	manner	manner	NOUN
_003376541	92	16	that	that	PRON
_003376541	92	17	her	her	PRON
_003376541	92	18	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	92	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	92	20	more	more	ADV
_003376541	92	21	secure	secure	ADJ
_003376541	92	22	financially	financially	ADV
_003376541	92	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	92	24	supported	support	VERB
_003376541	92	25	her	she	PRON
_003376541	92	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	93	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	93	2	groom	groom	NOUN
_003376541	93	3	's	's	PART
_003376541	93	4	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	93	5	is	be	AUX
_003376541	93	6	more	more	ADV
_003376541	93	7	experienced	experienced	ADJ
_003376541	93	8	than	than	ADP
_003376541	93	9	his	his	PRON
_003376541	93	10	bride	bride	NOUN
_003376541	93	11	at	at	ADP
_003376541	93	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	93	13	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	93	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	93	15	running	run	VERB
_003376541	93	16	a	a	DET
_003376541	93	17	house	house	NOUN
_003376541	93	18	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	93	19	the	the	DET
_003376541	93	20	bride	bride	NOUN
_003376541	93	21	's	's	PART
_003376541	93	22	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	93	23	makes	make	VERB
_003376541	93	24	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	93	25	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	93	26	than	than	ADP
_003376541	93	27	her	her	PRON
_003376541	93	28	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	93	29	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	93	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	94	1	what	what	PRON
_003376541	94	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	94	3	called	call	VERB
_003376541	94	4	for	for	ADP
_003376541	94	5	is	be	AUX
_003376541	94	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	94	7	genuine	genuine	ADJ
_003376541	94	8	patience	patience	NOUN
_003376541	94	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	94	10	a	a	DET
_003376541	94	11	willingness	willingness	NOUN
_003376541	94	12	to	to	PART
_003376541	94	13	bear	bear	VERB
_003376541	94	14	each	each	DET
_003376541	94	15	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	94	16	's	's	PART
_003376541	94	17	shortcomings	shortcoming	NOUN
_003376541	94	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	94	19	to	to	PART
_003376541	94	20	help	help	VERB
_003376541	94	21	each	each	DET
_003376541	94	22	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	94	23	in	in	ADP
_003376541	94	24	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	94	25	tasks	task	NOUN
_003376541	94	26	for	for	ADP
_003376541	94	27	the	the	DET
_003376541	94	28	mutual	mutual	ADJ
_003376541	94	29	good	good	NOUN
_003376541	94	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	95	1	patience	patience	NOUN
_003376541	95	2	will	will	AUX
_003376541	95	3	be	be	AUX
_003376541	95	4	needed	need	VERB
_003376541	95	5	all	all	DET
_003376541	95	6	your	your	PRON
_003376541	95	7	married	married	ADJ
_003376541	95	8	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	95	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	95	10	surely	surely	ADV
_003376541	95	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	95	12	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	95	13	especially	especially	ADV
_003376541	95	14	at	at	ADP
_003376541	95	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	95	16	outset	outset	NOUN
_003376541	95	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	96	1	for	for	ADP
_003376541	96	2	patience	patience	NOUN
_003376541	96	3	holds	hold	VERB
_003376541	96	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	96	5	tongue	tongue	NOUN
_003376541	96	6	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	96	7	controls	control	VERB
_003376541	96	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	96	9	anger	anger	NOUN
_003376541	96	10	while	while	SCONJ
_003376541	96	11	each	each	PRON
_003376541	96	12	is	be	AUX
_003376541	96	13	learning	learn	VERB
_003376541	96	14	his	his	PRON
_003376541	96	15	role	role	NOUN
_003376541	96	16	in	in	ADP
_003376541	96	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	96	18	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	96	19	union	union	NOUN
_003376541	96	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	96	21	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	96	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	97	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	97	2	companion	companion	NOUN
_003376541	97	3	virtue	virtue	NOUN
_003376541	97	4	for	for	ADP
_003376541	97	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	97	6	successful	successful	ADJ
_003376541	97	7	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	97	8	is	be	AUX
_003376541	97	9	that	that	PRON
_003376541	97	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	97	11	unselfishness	unselfishness	NOUN
_003376541	97	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	98	1	there	there	PRON
_003376541	98	2	is	be	VERB
_003376541	98	3	in	in	ADP
_003376541	98	4	every	every	DET
_003376541	98	5	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	98	6	just	just	ADV
_003376541	98	7	so	so	ADV
_003376541	98	8	much	much	ADJ
_003376541	98	9	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	98	10	to	to	PART
_003376541	98	11	be	be	AUX
_003376541	98	12	spent	spend	VERB
_003376541	98	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	98	14	so	so	ADV
_003376541	98	15	much	much	ADJ
_003376541	98	16	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	98	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	98	18	so	so	ADV
_003376541	98	19	much	much	ADJ
_003376541	98	20	effort	effort	NOUN
_003376541	98	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	99	1	whose	whose	DET
_003376541	99	2	interests	interest	NOUN
_003376541	99	3	will	will	AUX
_003376541	99	4	be	be	AUX
_003376541	99	5	pursued	pursue	VERB
_003376541	99	6	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	100	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	100	2	she	she	PRON
_003376541	100	3	likes	like	VERB
_003376541	100	4	ballet	ballet	NOUN
_003376541	100	5	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	100	6	he	he	PRON
_003376541	100	7	likes	like	VERB
_003376541	100	8	bowling	bowling	NOUN
_003376541	100	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	100	10	on	on	ADP
_003376541	100	11	which	which	PRON
_003376541	100	12	shall	shall	AUX
_003376541	100	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	100	14	entertainment	entertainment	NOUN
_003376541	100	15	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	100	16	be	be	AUX
_003376541	100	17	spent	spend	VERB
_003376541	100	18	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	101	1	whose	whose	DET
_003376541	101	2	folks	folk	NOUN
_003376541	101	3	are	be	AUX
_003376541	101	4	invited	invite	VERB
_003376541	101	5	for	for	ADP
_003376541	101	6	dinner	dinner	NOUN
_003376541	101	7	next	next	ADJ
_003376541	101	8	sunday	sunday	PROPN
_003376541	101	9	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	102	1	who	who	PRON
_003376541	102	2	helps	help	VERB
_003376541	102	3	with	with	ADP
_003376541	102	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	102	5	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	102	6	's	's	PART
_003376541	102	7	chores	chore	NOUN
_003376541	102	8	after	after	ADP
_003376541	102	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	102	10	particularly	particularly	ADV
_003376541	102	11	hard	hard	ADJ
_003376541	102	12	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	102	13	at	at	ADP
_003376541	102	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	102	15	office	office	NOUN
_003376541	102	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	102	17	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	102	18	a	a	DET
_003376541	102	19	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	102	20	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	102	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	102	22	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	102	23	is	be	AUX
_003376541	102	24	especially	especially	ADV
_003376541	102	25	fretful	fretful	ADJ
_003376541	102	26	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	103	1	certainly	certainly	ADV
_003376541	103	2	in	in	ADP
_003376541	103	3	any	any	DET
_003376541	103	4	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	103	5	7	7	NUM
_003376541	103	6	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	103	7	both	both	DET
_003376541	103	8	mates	mate	NOUN
_003376541	103	9	must	must	AUX
_003376541	103	10	be	be	AUX
_003376541	103	11	frequently	frequently	ADV
_003376541	103	12	ready	ready	ADJ
_003376541	103	13	to	to	PART
_003376541	103	14	help	help	VERB
_003376541	103	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	103	16	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	103	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	103	18	to	to	PART
_003376541	103	19	work	work	VERB
_003376541	103	20	together	together	ADV
_003376541	103	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	103	22	to	to	PART
_003376541	103	23	laugh	laugh	VERB
_003376541	103	24	together	together	ADV
_003376541	103	25	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	103	26	to	to	PART
_003376541	103	27	relax	relax	VERB
_003376541	103	28	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	103	29	rejoice	rejoice	VERB
_003376541	103	30	together	together	ADV
_003376541	103	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	104	1	each	each	PRON
_003376541	104	2	must	must	AUX
_003376541	104	3	be	be	AUX
_003376541	104	4	eager	eager	ADJ
_003376541	104	5	to	to	PART
_003376541	104	6	serve	serve	VERB
_003376541	104	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	104	8	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	104	9	's	's	PART
_003376541	104	10	wants	want	NOUN
_003376541	104	11	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	104	12	desires	desire	NOUN
_003376541	104	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	104	14	to	to	PART
_003376541	104	15	be	be	AUX
_003376541	104	16	there	there	ADV
_003376541	104	17	for	for	SCONJ
_003376541	104	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	104	19	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	104	20	to	to	PART
_003376541	104	21	lean	lean	VERB
_003376541	104	22	on	on	ADP
_003376541	104	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	104	24	to	to	PART
_003376541	104	25	offer	offer	VERB
_003376541	104	26	encouragement	encouragement	NOUN
_003376541	104	27	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	104	28	comfort	comfort	NOUN
_003376541	104	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	105	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	105	2	sort	sort	NOUN
_003376541	105	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	105	4	generosity	generosity	NOUN
_003376541	105	5	which	which	PRON
_003376541	105	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	105	7	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	105	8	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	105	9	has	have	AUX
_003376541	105	10	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	105	11	instinctively	instinctively	ADV
_003376541	105	12	from	from	ADP
_003376541	105	13	both	both	DET
_003376541	105	14	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	105	15	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	105	16	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	105	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	106	1	genuine	genuine	ADJ
_003376541	106	2	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	106	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	106	4	transcending	transcend	VERB
_003376541	106	5	human	human	NOUN
_003376541	106	6	wants	want	NOUN
_003376541	106	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	106	8	needs	need	NOUN
_003376541	106	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	106	10	makes	make	VERB
_003376541	106	11	it	it	PRON
_003376541	106	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	106	13	most	most	ADV
_003376541	106	14	natural	natural	ADJ
_003376541	106	15	thing	thing	NOUN
_003376541	106	16	in	in	ADP
_003376541	106	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	106	18	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	106	19	for	for	SCONJ
_003376541	106	20	each	each	PRON
_003376541	106	21	to	to	PART
_003376541	106	22	think	think	VERB
_003376541	106	23	first	first	ADV
_003376541	106	24	of	of	ADP
_003376541	106	25	the	the	DET
_003376541	106	26	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	106	27	in	in	ADP
_003376541	106	28	every	every	DET
_003376541	106	29	situation	situation	NOUN
_003376541	106	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	107	1	remember	remember	VERB
_003376541	107	2	o.	o.	PROPN
_003376541	107	3	henry	henry	PROPN
_003376541	107	4	's	's	PART
_003376541	107	5	short	short	ADJ
_003376541	107	6	story	story	NOUN
_003376541	107	7	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	107	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	107	9	gift	gift	NOUN
_003376541	107	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	107	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	107	12	magi	magi	NOUN
_003376541	107	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	107	14	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	108	1	briefly	briefly	ADV
_003376541	108	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	108	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	108	4	poor	poor	ADJ
_003376541	108	5	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	108	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	108	7	newly	newly	ADV
_003376541	108	8	married	married	ADJ
_003376541	108	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	108	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	108	11	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	108	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	108	13	faced	face	VERB
_003376541	108	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	108	15	penniless	penniless	NOUN
_003376541	108	16	christmas	christma	NOUN
_003376541	108	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	109	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	109	2	pawned	pawn	VERB
_003376541	109	3	his	his	PRON
_003376541	109	4	one	one	NUM
_003376541	109	5	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	109	6	possession	possession	NOUN
_003376541	109	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	109	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	109	9	gold	gold	NOUN
_003376541	109	10	watch	watch	NOUN
_003376541	109	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	109	12	to	to	PART
_003376541	109	13	buy	buy	VERB
_003376541	109	14	her	she	PRON
_003376541	109	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	109	16	beautiful	beautiful	ADJ
_003376541	109	17	comb	comb	NOUN
_003376541	109	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	110	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	110	2	sold	sell	VERB
_003376541	110	3	her	her	PRON
_003376541	110	4	luxuriant	luxuriant	ADJ
_003376541	110	5	hair	hair	NOUN
_003376541	110	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	110	7	buy	buy	VERB
_003376541	110	8	him	he	PRON
_003376541	110	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	110	10	handsome	handsome	ADJ
_003376541	110	11	watch	watch	NOUN
_003376541	110	12	fob	fob	ADV
_003376541	110	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	111	1	without	without	ADP
_003376541	111	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	111	3	magic	magic	NOUN
_003376541	111	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	111	5	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	111	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	111	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	111	8	story	story	NOUN
_003376541	111	9	would	would	AUX
_003376541	111	10	have	have	AUX
_003376541	111	11	been	be	AUX
_003376541	111	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	111	13	masterpiece	masterpiece	NOUN
_003376541	111	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	111	15	irony	irony	NOUN
_003376541	111	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	112	1	with	with	ADP
_003376541	112	2	it	it	PRON
_003376541	112	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	112	4	each	each	PRON
_003376541	112	5	succeeded	succeed	VERB
_003376541	112	6	in	in	ADP
_003376541	112	7	giving	give	VERB
_003376541	112	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	112	9	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	112	10	a	a	DET
_003376541	112	11	priceless	priceless	ADJ
_003376541	112	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	112	13	precious	precious	ADJ
_003376541	112	14	gift	gift	NOUN
_003376541	112	15	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	112	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	112	17	devotion	devotion	NOUN
_003376541	112	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	112	19	a	a	DET
_003376541	112	20	selfless	selfless	ADJ
_003376541	112	21	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	112	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	113	1	this	this	DET
_003376541	113	2	unity	unity	NOUN
_003376541	113	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	113	4	spirit	spirit	NOUN
_003376541	113	5	reflects	reflect	VERB
_003376541	113	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	113	7	unity	unity	NOUN
_003376541	113	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	113	9	christ	christ	PROPN
_003376541	113	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	113	11	his	his	PRON
_003376541	113	12	church	church	NOUN
_003376541	113	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	113	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	113	15	unselfish	unselfish	PROPN
_003376541	113	16	love	love	PROPN
_003376541	113	17	christ	christ	PROPN
_003376541	113	18	has	have	VERB
_003376541	113	19	for	for	ADP
_003376541	113	20	his	his	PRON
_003376541	113	21	members	member	NOUN
_003376541	113	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	114	1	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	114	2	he	he	PRON
_003376541	114	3	loved	love	VERB
_003376541	114	4	them	they	PRON
_003376541	114	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	114	6	he	he	PRON
_003376541	114	7	devoted	devote	VERB
_003376541	114	8	his	his	PRON
_003376541	114	9	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	114	10	to	to	ADP
_003376541	114	11	their	their	PRON
_003376541	114	12	good	good	NOUN
_003376541	114	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	115	1	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	115	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	115	3	members	member	NOUN
_003376541	115	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	115	5	christ	christ	PROPN
_003376541	115	6	's	's	PART
_003376541	115	7	mystical	mystical	ADJ
_003376541	115	8	body	body	NOUN
_003376541	115	9	are	be	AUX
_003376541	115	10	united	unite	VERB
_003376541	115	11	in	in	ADP
_003376541	115	12	purpose	purpose	NOUN
_003376541	115	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	115	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	115	15	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	115	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	115	17	christ	christ	PROPN
_003376541	115	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	116	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	116	2	like	like	ADP
_003376541	116	3	fashion	fashion	NOUN
_003376541	116	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	116	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	116	6	married	married	ADJ
_003376541	116	7	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	116	8	consistently	consistently	ADV
_003376541	116	9	wish	wish	VERB
_003376541	116	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	116	11	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	116	12	's	's	PART
_003376541	116	13	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	116	14	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	116	15	physical	physical	ADJ
_003376541	116	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	116	17	material	material	NOUN
_003376541	116	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	116	19	mental	mental	ADJ
_003376541	116	20	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	116	21	spiritual	spiritual	ADJ
_003376541	116	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	117	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	117	2	christian	christian	ADJ
_003376541	117	3	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	117	4	there	there	PRON
_003376541	117	5	is	be	VERB
_003376541	117	6	no	no	DET
_003376541	117	7	room	room	NOUN
_003376541	117	8	for	for	ADP
_003376541	117	9	selfishness	selfishness	NOUN
_003376541	117	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	117	11	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	117	12	only	only	ADV
_003376541	117	13	wanting	want	VERB
_003376541	117	14	everything	everything	PRON
_003376541	117	15	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	117	16	for	for	ADP
_003376541	117	17	your	your	PRON
_003376541	117	18	spouse	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	117	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	117	20	flesh	flesh	NOUN
_003376541	117	21	of	of	ADP
_003376541	117	22	your	your	PRON
_003376541	117	23	flesh	flesh	NOUN
_003376541	117	24	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	117	25	one	one	NUM
_003376541	117	26	in	in	ADP
_003376541	117	27	christ	christ	PROPN
_003376541	117	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	118	1	8	8	NUM
_003376541	118	2	problems	problem	NOUN
_003376541	118	3	common	common	ADJ
_003376541	118	4	to	to	ADP
_003376541	118	5	all	all	DET
_003376541	118	6	marriages	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	118	7	so	so	ADV
_003376541	118	8	f	f	X
_003376541	118	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	118	10	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	118	11	we	we	PRON
_003376541	118	12	have	have	AUX
_003376541	118	13	n't	not	PART
_003376541	118	14	talked	talk	VERB
_003376541	118	15	about	about	ADP
_003376541	118	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	118	17	actual	actual	ADJ
_003376541	118	18	adjustments	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	118	19	of	of	ADP
_003376541	118	20	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	118	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	118	22	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	118	23	about	about	ADP
_003376541	118	24	the	the	DET
_003376541	118	25	approach	approach	NOUN
_003376541	118	26	one	one	PRON
_003376541	118	27	needs	need	VERB
_003376541	118	28	to	to	ADP
_003376541	118	29	them	they	PRON
_003376541	118	30	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	118	31	the	the	DET
_003376541	118	32	qualities	quality	NOUN
_003376541	118	33	a	a	DET
_003376541	118	34	spouse	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	118	35	needs	need	NOUN
_003376541	118	36	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	119	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	119	2	next	next	ADJ
_003376541	119	3	obvious	obvious	ADJ
_003376541	119	4	question	question	NOUN
_003376541	119	5	is	be	AUX
_003376541	119	6	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	119	7	what	what	PRON
_003376541	119	8	are	be	AUX
_003376541	119	9	those	those	DET
_003376541	119	10	problems	problem	NOUN
_003376541	119	11	common	common	ADJ
_003376541	119	12	to	to	ADP
_003376541	119	13	all	all	DET
_003376541	119	14	marriages	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	119	15	which	which	PRON
_003376541	119	16	require	require	VERB
_003376541	119	17	a	a	DET
_003376541	119	18	conforming	conforming	NOUN
_003376541	119	19	of	of	ADP
_003376541	119	20	oneself	oneself	PRON
_003376541	119	21	to	to	ADP
_003376541	119	22	something	something	PRON
_003376541	119	23	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	119	24	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	119	25	an	an	DET
_003376541	119	26	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	119	27	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	120	1	certainly	certainly	ADV
_003376541	120	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	120	3	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	120	4	major	major	ADJ
_003376541	120	5	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	120	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	120	7	uppermost	uppermost	ADV
_003376541	120	8	in	in	ADP
_003376541	120	9	every	every	DET
_003376541	120	10	newlywed	newlywed	NOUN
_003376541	120	11	's	's	PART
_003376541	120	12	mind	mind	NOUN
_003376541	120	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	120	14	is	be	AUX
_003376541	120	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	120	16	physical	physical	PROPN
_003376541	120	17	union	union	NOUN
_003376541	120	18	in	in	ADP
_003376541	120	19	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	120	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	121	1	to	to	ADP
_003376541	121	2	moral	moral	ADJ
_003376541	121	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	121	4	chaste	chaste	ADJ
_003376541	121	5	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	121	6	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	121	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	121	8	this	this	PRON
_003376541	121	9	represents	represent	VERB
_003376541	121	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	121	11	greatest	great	ADJ
_003376541	121	12	change	change	NOUN
_003376541	121	13	in	in	ADP
_003376541	121	14	their	their	PRON
_003376541	121	15	personal	personal	ADJ
_003376541	121	16	relationship	relationship	NOUN
_003376541	121	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	122	1	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	122	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	122	3	them	they	PRON
_003376541	122	4	await	await	VERB
_003376541	122	5	it	it	PRON
_003376541	122	6	with	with	ADP
_003376541	122	7	eagerness	eagerness	NOUN
_003376541	122	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	122	9	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	122	10	they	they	PRON
_003376541	122	11	should	should	AUX
_003376541	122	12	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	122	13	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	122	14	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	122	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	122	16	particularly	particularly	ADV
_003376541	122	17	women	woman	NOUN
_003376541	122	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	122	19	have	have	VERB
_003376541	122	20	their	their	PRON
_003376541	122	21	anticipation	anticipation	NOUN
_003376541	122	22	tinged	tinge	VERB
_003376541	122	23	with	with	ADP
_003376541	122	24	fear	fear	NOUN
_003376541	122	25	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	122	26	confused	confuse	VERB
_003376541	122	27	by	by	ADP
_003376541	122	28	stories	story	NOUN
_003376541	122	29	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	122	30	notions	notion	NOUN
_003376541	122	31	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	122	32	false	false	ADJ
_003376541	122	33	attitudes	attitude	NOUN
_003376541	122	34	which	which	PRON
_003376541	122	35	they	they	PRON
_003376541	122	36	have	have	AUX
_003376541	122	37	absorbed	absorb	VERB
_003376541	122	38	from	from	ADP
_003376541	122	39	previous	previous	ADJ
_003376541	122	40	generations	generation	NOUN
_003376541	122	41	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	123	1	along	along	ADP
_003376541	123	2	with	with	ADP
_003376541	123	3	this	this	PRON
_003376541	123	4	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	123	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	123	6	natural	natural	ADJ
_003376541	123	7	excitement	excitement	NOUN
_003376541	123	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	123	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	123	10	weariness	weariness	NOUN
_003376541	123	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	123	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	123	13	prenuptial	prenuptial	ADJ
_003376541	123	14	preparations	preparation	NOUN
_003376541	123	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	123	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	123	17	strangeness	strangeness	NOUN
_003376541	123	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	123	19	being	be	AUX
_003376541	123	20	transformed	transform	VERB
_003376541	123	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	123	22	in	in	ADP
_003376541	123	23	a	a	DET
_003376541	123	24	moment	moment	NOUN
_003376541	123	25	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	123	26	from	from	ADP
_003376541	123	27	a	a	DET
_003376541	123	28	single	single	NOUN
_003376541	123	29	to	to	ADP
_003376541	123	30	a	a	DET
_003376541	123	31	married	married	ADJ
_003376541	123	32	person	person	NOUN
_003376541	123	33	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	124	1	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	124	2	achieve	achieve	VERB
_003376541	124	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	124	4	successful	successful	ADJ
_003376541	124	5	relationship	relationship	NOUN
_003376541	124	6	in	in	ADP
_003376541	124	7	spite	spite	NOUN
_003376541	124	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	124	9	these	these	DET
_003376541	124	10	hurdles	hurdle	NOUN
_003376541	124	11	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	125	1	so	so	ADV
_003376541	125	2	goes	go	VERB
_003376541	125	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	125	4	earnest	earnest	ADJ
_003376541	125	5	plea	plea	NOUN
_003376541	125	6	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	126	1	first	first	ADV
_003376541	126	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	126	3	all	all	PRON
_003376541	126	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	126	5	it	it	PRON
_003376541	126	6	is	be	AUX
_003376541	126	7	extremely	extremely	ADV
_003376541	126	8	difficult	difficult	ADJ
_003376541	126	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	126	10	convince	convince	VERB
_003376541	126	11	those	those	PRON
_003376541	126	12	about	about	ADP
_003376541	126	13	to	to	PART
_003376541	126	14	be	be	AUX
_003376541	126	15	married	marry	VERB
_003376541	126	16	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	126	17	natural	natural	ADJ
_003376541	126	18	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	126	19	comfortable	comfortable	ADJ
_003376541	126	20	they	they	PRON
_003376541	126	21	will	will	AUX
_003376541	126	22	feel	feel	VERB
_003376541	126	23	from	from	ADP
_003376541	126	24	the	the	DET
_003376541	126	25	moment	moment	NOUN
_003376541	126	26	of	of	ADP
_003376541	126	27	their	their	PRON
_003376541	126	28	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	126	29	vows	vow	NOUN
_003376541	126	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	127	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	127	2	it	it	PRON
_003376541	127	3	is	be	AUX
_003376541	127	4	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	127	5	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	127	6	so	so	ADV
_003376541	127	7	much	much	ADJ
_003376541	127	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	127	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	127	10	imagined	imagine	VERB
_003376541	127	11	tension	tension	NOUN
_003376541	127	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	127	13	constraint	constraint	NOUN
_003376541	127	14	disappear	disappear	VERB
_003376541	127	15	from	from	ADP
_003376541	127	16	then	then	ADV
_003376541	127	17	on	on	ADV
_003376541	127	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	128	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	128	2	sacramental	sacramental	ADJ
_003376541	128	3	grace	grace	NOUN
_003376541	128	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	128	5	already	already	ADV
_003376541	128	6	at	at	ADP
_003376541	128	7	work	work	NOUN
_003376541	128	8	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	129	1	nevertheless	nevertheless	ADV
_003376541	129	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	129	3	ignorance	ignorance	NOUN
_003376541	129	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	129	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	129	6	role	role	NOUN
_003376541	129	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	129	8	sex	sex	NOUN
_003376541	129	9	in	in	ADP
_003376541	129	10	god	god	PROPN
_003376541	129	11	's	's	PART
_003376541	129	12	plan	plan	NOUN
_003376541	129	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	129	14	its	its	PRON
_003376541	129	15	personal	personal	ADJ
_003376541	129	16	significance	significance	NOUN
_003376541	129	17	to	to	ADP
_003376541	129	18	those	those	PRON
_003376541	129	19	in	in	ADP
_003376541	129	20	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	129	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	129	22	is	be	AUX
_003376541	129	23	a	a	DET
_003376541	129	24	natural	natural	ADJ
_003376541	129	25	enemy	enemy	NOUN
_003376541	129	26	to	to	ADP
_003376541	129	27	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	129	28	physical	physical	ADJ
_003376541	129	29	enjoyment	enjoyment	NOUN
_003376541	129	30	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	129	31	happy	happy	ADJ
_003376541	129	32	sexual	sexual	ADJ
_003376541	129	33	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	129	34	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	130	1	each	each	PRON
_003376541	130	2	must	must	AUX
_003376541	130	3	understand	understand	VERB
_003376541	130	4	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	130	5	while	while	SCONJ
_003376541	130	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	130	7	sex	sex	NOUN
_003376541	130	8	act	act	NOUN
_003376541	130	9	has	have	VERB
_003376541	130	10	as	as	ADP
_003376541	130	11	its	its	PRON
_003376541	130	12	primary	primary	ADJ
_003376541	130	13	purpose	purpose	NOUN
_003376541	130	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	130	15	procreation	procreation	NOUN
_003376541	130	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	130	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	130	18	race	race	NOUN
_003376541	130	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	130	20	it	it	PRON
_003376541	130	21	also	also	ADV
_003376541	130	22	has	have	VERB
_003376541	130	23	profound	profound	ADJ
_003376541	130	24	meaning	meaning	NOUN
_003376541	130	25	to	to	ADP
_003376541	130	26	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	130	27	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	130	28	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	130	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	131	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	131	2	must	must	AUX
_003376541	131	3	be	be	AUX
_003376541	131	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	131	5	to	to	ADP
_003376541	131	6	them	they	PRON
_003376541	131	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	131	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	131	9	outward	outward	ADJ
_003376541	131	10	sign	sign	NOUN
_003376541	131	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	131	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	131	13	deeper	deep	ADJ
_003376541	131	14	inward	inward	ADV
_003376541	131	15	mental	mental	ADJ
_003376541	131	16	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	131	17	spiritual	spiritual	ADJ
_003376541	131	18	unity	unity	NOUN
_003376541	131	19	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	131	20	it	it	PRON
_003376541	131	21	must	must	AUX
_003376541	131	22	come	come	VERB
_003376541	131	23	to	to	PART
_003376541	131	24	be	be	AUX
_003376541	131	25	a	a	DET
_003376541	131	26	means	means	NOUN
_003376541	131	27	of	of	ADP
_003376541	131	28	strengthening	strengthen	VERB
_003376541	131	29	that	that	DET
_003376541	131	30	oneness	oneness	NOUN
_003376541	131	31	of	of	ADP
_003376541	131	32	soul	soul	NOUN
_003376541	131	33	which	which	PRON
_003376541	131	34	every	every	DET
_003376541	131	35	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	131	36	seeks	seek	VERB
_003376541	131	37	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	132	1	each	each	PRON
_003376541	132	2	must	must	AUX
_003376541	132	3	learn	learn	VERB
_003376541	132	4	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	132	5	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	132	6	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	132	7	making	making	NOUN
_003376541	132	8	is	be	AUX
_003376541	132	9	an	an	DET
_003376541	132	10	active	active	ADJ
_003376541	132	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	132	12	outward	outward	ADJ
_003376541	132	13	giving	giving	NOUN
_003376541	132	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	132	15	self	self	NOUN
_003376541	132	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	132	17	to	to	PART
_003376541	132	18	express	express	VERB
_003376541	132	19	ineffable	ineffable	ADJ
_003376541	132	20	joy	joy	NOUN
_003376541	132	21	at	at	ADP
_003376541	132	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	132	23	height	height	NOUN
_003376541	132	24	of	of	ADP
_003376541	132	25	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	132	26	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	132	27	to	to	ADP
_003376541	132	28	g	g	PROPN
_003376541	133	1	i	i	PRON
_003376541	133	2	w	w	ADP
_003376541	133	3	encouragement	encouragement	NOUN
_003376541	133	4	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	133	5	problems	problem	NOUN
_003376541	133	6	weigh	weigh	VERB
_003376541	133	7	heavy	heavy	ADJ
_003376541	133	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	133	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	133	10	solace	solace	VERB
_003376541	133	11	in	in	ADP
_003376541	133	12	sorrow	sorrow	NOUN
_003376541	133	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	134	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	134	2	every	every	DET
_003376541	134	3	mood	mood	NOUN
_003376541	134	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	134	5	in	in	ADP
_003376541	134	6	every	every	DET
_003376541	134	7	circumstance	circumstance	NOUN
_003376541	134	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	134	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	134	10	physical	physical	ADJ
_003376541	134	11	union	union	NOUN
_003376541	134	12	reflects	reflect	VERB
_003376541	134	13	a	a	DET
_003376541	134	14	hand	hand	NOUN
_003376541	134	15	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	134	16	in	in	ADP
_003376541	134	17	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	134	18	hand	hand	NOUN
_003376541	134	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	134	20	soul	soul	NOUN
_003376541	134	21	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	134	22	to	to	ADP
_003376541	134	23	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	134	24	soul	soul	NOUN
_003376541	134	25	oneness	oneness	NOUN
_003376541	134	26	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	134	27	a	a	DET
_003376541	134	28	means	means	NOUN
_003376541	134	29	of	of	ADP
_003376541	134	30	discovering	discover	VERB
_003376541	134	31	the	the	DET
_003376541	134	32	beauty	beauty	NOUN
_003376541	134	33	of	of	ADP
_003376541	134	34	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	134	35	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	134	36	of	of	ADP
_003376541	134	37	carrying	carry	VERB
_003376541	134	38	its	its	PRON
_003376541	134	39	crosses	crosse	NOUN
_003376541	134	40	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	135	1	knowledge	knowledge	NOUN
_003376541	135	2	like	like	ADP
_003376541	135	3	this	this	DET
_003376541	135	4	dispels	dispel	NOUN
_003376541	135	5	fears	fear	NOUN
_003376541	135	6	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	135	7	hesitancy	hesitancy	NOUN
_003376541	135	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	135	9	making	make	VERB
_003376541	135	10	both	both	DET
_003376541	135	11	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	135	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	135	13	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	135	14	eager	eager	ADJ
_003376541	135	15	to	to	PART
_003376541	135	16	share	share	VERB
_003376541	135	17	this	this	DET
_003376541	135	18	magnificent	magnificent	ADJ
_003376541	135	19	expression	expression	NOUN
_003376541	135	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	135	21	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	135	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	136	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	136	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	136	3	knowledge	knowledge	NOUN
_003376541	136	4	must	must	AUX
_003376541	136	5	become	become	VERB
_003376541	136	6	actual	actual	ADJ
_003376541	136	7	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	136	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	136	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	136	10	living	live	VERB
_003376541	136	11	part	part	NOUN
_003376541	136	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	136	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	136	14	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	136	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	137	1	for	for	ADP
_003376541	137	2	this	this	PRON
_003376541	137	3	we	we	PRON
_003376541	137	4	need	need	VERB
_003376541	137	5	patience	patience	NOUN
_003376541	137	6	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	137	7	unselfishness	unselfishness	NOUN
_003376541	137	8	to	to	ADP
_003376541	137	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	137	10	high	high	ADJ
_003376541	137	11	degree	degree	NOUN
_003376541	137	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	138	1	learning	learn	VERB
_003376541	138	2	to	to	PART
_003376541	138	3	express	express	VERB
_003376541	138	4	one	one	PRON
_003376541	138	5	's	's	PART
_003376541	138	6	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	138	7	takes	take	VERB
_003376541	138	8	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	138	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	138	10	familiarity	familiarity	NOUN
_003376541	138	11	with	with	ADP
_003376541	138	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	138	13	wishes	wish	NOUN
_003376541	138	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	138	15	one	one	NUM
_003376541	138	16	's	's	PART
_003376541	138	17	partner	partner	NOUN
_003376541	138	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	139	1	patience	patience	NOUN
_003376541	139	2	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	139	3	while	while	SCONJ
_003376541	139	4	each	each	PRON
_003376541	139	5	slowly	slowly	ADV
_003376541	139	6	learns	learn	VERB
_003376541	139	7	to	to	PART
_003376541	139	8	speak	speak	VERB
_003376541	139	9	in	in	ADP
_003376541	139	10	this	this	DET
_003376541	139	11	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	139	12	language	language	NOUN
_003376541	139	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	139	14	involving	involve	VERB
_003376541	139	15	his	his	PRON
_003376541	139	16	entire	entire	ADJ
_003376541	139	17	being	being	NOUN
_003376541	139	18	!	!	PUNCT
_003376541	140	1	thoughtfulness	thoughtfulness	NOUN
_003376541	140	2	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	140	3	while	while	SCONJ
_003376541	140	4	each	each	PRON
_003376541	140	5	seeks	seek	VERB
_003376541	140	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	140	7	pleasure	pleasure	NOUN
_003376541	140	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	140	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	140	10	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	140	11	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	140	12	finds	find	VERB
_003376541	140	13	his	his	PRON
_003376541	140	14	joy	joy	NOUN
_003376541	140	15	in	in	ADP
_003376541	140	16	that	that	PRON
_003376541	140	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	140	18	his	his	PRON
_003376541	140	19	companion	companion	NOUN
_003376541	140	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	141	1	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	141	2	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	141	3	making	making	NOUN
_003376541	141	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	141	5	an	an	DET
_003376541	141	6	art	art	NOUN
_003376541	141	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	141	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	141	9	technique	technique	NOUN
_003376541	141	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	141	11	which	which	PRON
_003376541	141	12	can	can	AUX
_003376541	141	13	not	not	PART
_003376541	141	14	be	be	AUX
_003376541	141	15	learned	learn	VERB
_003376541	141	16	from	from	ADP
_003376541	141	17	a	a	DET
_003376541	141	18	book	book	NOUN
_003376541	141	19	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	141	20	for	for	ADP
_003376541	141	21	it	it	PRON
_003376541	141	22	is	be	AUX
_003376541	141	23	as	as	ADV
_003376541	141	24	personal	personal	ADJ
_003376541	141	25	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	141	26	unique	unique	ADJ
_003376541	141	27	as	as	ADP
_003376541	141	28	each	each	DET
_003376541	141	29	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	141	30	itself	itself	PRON
_003376541	141	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	142	1	with	with	ADP
_003376541	142	2	tender	tender	ADJ
_003376541	142	3	patience	patience	NOUN
_003376541	142	4	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	142	5	unselfish	unselfish	ADJ
_003376541	142	6	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	142	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	142	8	it	it	PRON
_003376541	142	9	becomes	become	VERB
_003376541	142	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	142	11	skill	skill	NOUN
_003376541	142	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	142	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	142	14	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	142	15	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	142	16	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	142	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	142	18	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	142	19	its	its	PRON
_003376541	142	20	meaning	meaning	NOUN
_003376541	142	21	becomes	becomes	AUX
_003376541	142	22	enriched	enrich	VERB
_003376541	142	23	by	by	ADP
_003376541	142	24	the	the	DET
_003376541	142	25	years	year	NOUN
_003376541	142	26	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	142	27	experiences	experience	NOUN
_003376541	142	28	they	they	PRON
_003376541	142	29	share	share	VERB
_003376541	142	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	143	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	143	2	genuine	genuine	ADJ
_003376541	143	3	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	143	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	143	5	often	often	ADV
_003376541	143	6	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	143	7	generously	generously	ADV
_003376541	143	8	expressed	express	VERB
_003376541	143	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	143	10	leads	lead	VERB
_003376541	143	11	to	to	ADP
_003376541	143	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	143	13	wonderful	wonderful	ADJ
_003376541	143	14	companionship	companionship	NOUN
_003376541	143	15	in	in	ADP
_003376541	143	16	a	a	DET
_003376541	143	17	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	143	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	144	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	144	2	this	this	PRON
_003376541	144	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	144	4	in	in	ADP
_003376541	144	5	turn	turn	NOUN
_003376541	144	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	144	7	requires	require	VERB
_003376541	144	8	another	another	DET
_003376541	144	9	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	144	10	for	for	ADP
_003376541	144	11	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	144	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	144	13	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	144	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	145	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	145	2	companionship	companionship	NOUN
_003376541	145	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	145	4	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	145	5	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	145	6	has	have	VERB
_003376541	145	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	145	8	mutual	mutual	ADJ
_003376541	145	9	exclusiveness	exclusiveness	NOUN
_003376541	145	10	about	about	ADP
_003376541	145	11	it	it	PRON
_003376541	145	12	which	which	PRON
_003376541	145	13	can	can	AUX
_003376541	145	14	not	not	PART
_003376541	145	15	be	be	AUX
_003376541	145	16	shared	share	VERB
_003376541	145	17	with	with	ADP
_003376541	145	18	others	other	NOUN
_003376541	145	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	146	1	newlyweds	newlywed	NOUN
_003376541	146	2	are	be	AUX
_003376541	146	3	often	often	ADV
_003376541	146	4	overwhelmed	overwhelmed	ADJ
_003376541	146	5	with	with	ADP
_003376541	146	6	their	their	PRON
_003376541	146	7	enjoyment	enjoyment	NOUN
_003376541	146	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	146	9	each	each	DET
_003376541	146	10	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	146	11	's	's	PART
_003376541	146	12	personality	personality	NOUN
_003376541	146	13	at	at	ADP
_003376541	146	14	every	every	DET
_003376541	146	15	level	level	NOUN
_003376541	146	16	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	146	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	146	18	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	146	19	months	month	NOUN
_003376541	146	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	146	21	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	146	22	have	have	VERB
_003376541	146	23	a	a	DET
_003376541	146	24	unique	unique	ADJ
_003376541	146	25	quality	quality	NOUN
_003376541	146	26	of	of	ADP
_003376541	146	27	discovery	discovery	NOUN
_003376541	146	28	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	146	29	a	a	DET
_003376541	146	30	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	146	31	language	language	NOUN
_003376541	146	32	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	147	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	147	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	147	3	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	147	4	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	147	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	147	6	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	147	7	year	year	NOUN
_003376541	147	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	147	9	before	before	SCONJ
_003376541	147	10	too	too	ADV
_003376541	147	11	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	147	12	domestic	domestic	ADJ
_003376541	147	13	problems	problem	NOUN
_003376541	147	14	accumulate	accumulate	VERB
_003376541	147	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	147	16	can	can	AUX
_003376541	147	17	seem	seem	VERB
_003376541	147	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	147	19	closest	close	ADJ
_003376541	147	20	to	to	ADP
_003376541	147	21	heaven	heaven	PROPN
_003376541	147	22	that	that	DET
_003376541	147	23	man	man	NOUN
_003376541	147	24	will	will	AUX
_003376541	147	25	reach	reach	VERB
_003376541	147	26	before	before	ADP
_003376541	147	27	death	death	NOUN
_003376541	147	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	148	1	however	however	ADV
_003376541	148	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	148	3	this	this	DET
_003376541	148	4	coin	coin	NOUN
_003376541	148	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	148	6	companionship	companionship	NOUN
_003376541	148	7	has	have	VERB
_003376541	148	8	another	another	DET
_003376541	148	9	side	side	NOUN
_003376541	148	10	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	148	11	we	we	PRON
_003376541	148	12	are	be	AUX
_003376541	148	13	social	social	ADJ
_003376541	148	14	beings	being	NOUN
_003376541	148	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	148	16	too	too	ADV
_003376541	148	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	148	18	with	with	ADP
_003376541	148	19	a	a	DET
_003376541	148	20	responsibility	responsibility	NOUN
_003376541	148	21	toward	toward	ADP
_003376541	148	22	community	community	NOUN
_003376541	148	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	148	24	parish	parish	NOUN
_003376541	148	25	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	148	26	employment	employment	NOUN
_003376541	148	27	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	148	28	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	148	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	149	1	yet	yet	CCONJ
_003376541	149	2	at	at	ADP
_003376541	149	3	times	time	NOUN
_003376541	149	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	149	5	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	149	6	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	149	7	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	149	8	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	149	9	resents	resent	VERB
_003376541	149	10	any	any	DET
_003376541	149	11	intrusion	intrusion	NOUN
_003376541	149	12	upon	upon	SCONJ
_003376541	149	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	149	14	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	149	15	's	's	PART
_003376541	149	16	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	149	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	149	18	whether	whether	SCONJ
_003376541	149	19	the	the	DET
_003376541	149	20	intruder	intruder	NOUN
_003376541	149	21	be	be	AUX
_003376541	149	22	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	149	23	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	149	24	next	next	ADJ
_003376541	149	25	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	149	26	door	door	NOUN
_003376541	149	27	neighbor	neighbor	NOUN
_003376541	149	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	150	1	this	this	DET
_003376541	150	2	jealousy	jealousy	NOUN
_003376541	150	3	is	be	AUX
_003376541	150	4	regarded	regard	VERB
_003376541	150	5	by	by	ADP
_003376541	150	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	150	7	immature	immature	NOUN
_003376541	150	8	as	as	ADP
_003376541	150	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	150	10	sign	sign	NOUN
_003376541	150	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	150	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	150	13	depth	depth	NOUN
_003376541	150	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	150	15	their	their	PRON
_003376541	150	16	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	150	17	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	150	18	it	it	PRON
_003376541	150	19	is	be	AUX
_003376541	150	20	instead	instead	ADV
_003376541	150	21	a	a	DET
_003376541	150	22	warning	warning	NOUN
_003376541	150	23	signal	signal	NOUN
_003376541	150	24	of	of	ADP
_003376541	150	25	insecurity	insecurity	NOUN
_003376541	150	26	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	150	27	a	a	DET
_003376541	150	28	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	150	29	step	step	NOUN
_003376541	150	30	to	to	ADP
_003376541	150	31	friction	friction	NOUN
_003376541	150	32	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	151	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	151	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	151	3	an	an	DET
_003376541	151	4	area	area	NOUN
_003376541	151	5	in	in	ADP
_003376541	151	6	which	which	PRON
_003376541	151	7	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	151	8	is	be	AUX
_003376541	151	9	sorely	sorely	ADV
_003376541	151	10	needed	need	VERB
_003376541	151	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	152	1	newlyweds	newlywed	NOUN
_003376541	152	2	must	must	AUX
_003376541	152	3	realize	realize	VERB
_003376541	152	4	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	152	5	they	they	PRON
_003376541	152	6	married	marry	VERB
_003376541	152	7	whole	whole	ADJ
_003376541	152	8	persons	person	NOUN
_003376541	152	9	who	who	PRON
_003376541	152	10	have	have	VERB
_003376541	152	11	10	10	NUM
_003376541	152	12	relationships	relationship	NOUN
_003376541	152	13	with	with	ADP
_003376541	152	14	others	other	NOUN
_003376541	152	15	involving	involve	VERB
_003376541	152	16	duties	duty	NOUN
_003376541	152	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	152	18	interests	interest	NOUN
_003376541	152	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	153	1	these	these	PRON
_003376541	153	2	can	can	AUX
_003376541	153	3	not	not	PART
_003376541	153	4	be	be	AUX
_003376541	153	5	highhandedly	highhandedly	ADV
_003376541	153	6	excluded	exclude	VERB
_003376541	153	7	from	from	ADP
_003376541	153	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	153	9	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	153	10	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	153	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	154	1	instead	instead	ADV
_003376541	154	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	154	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	154	4	partners	partner	NOUN
_003376541	154	5	adapt	adapt	VERB
_003376541	154	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	154	7	each	each	PRON
_003376541	154	8	to	to	ADP
_003376541	154	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	154	10	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	154	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	154	12	respecting	respect	VERB
_003376541	154	13	individual	individual	ADJ
_003376541	154	14	talents	talent	NOUN
_003376541	154	15	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	154	16	activities	activity	NOUN
_003376541	154	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	155	1	as	as	ADV
_003376541	155	2	much	much	ADV
_003376541	155	3	as	as	ADP
_003376541	155	4	possible	possible	ADJ
_003376541	155	5	must	must	AUX
_003376541	155	6	be	be	AUX
_003376541	155	7	shared	share	VERB
_003376541	155	8	in	in	ADP
_003376541	155	9	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	155	10	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	155	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	155	12	interests	interest	NOUN
_003376541	155	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	155	14	one	one	NUM
_003376541	155	15	should	should	AUX
_003376541	155	16	at	at	ADP
_003376541	155	17	least	least	ADJ
_003376541	155	18	vicariously	vicariously	ADV
_003376541	155	19	be	be	AUX
_003376541	155	20	part	part	NOUN
_003376541	155	21	of	of	ADP
_003376541	155	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	155	23	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	155	24	's	's	PART
_003376541	155	25	fabric	fabric	NOUN
_003376541	155	26	of	of	ADP
_003376541	155	27	living	living	NOUN
_003376541	155	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	156	1	baseball	baseball	NOUN
_003376541	156	2	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	156	3	ballet	ballet	NOUN
_003376541	156	4	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	157	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	157	2	makes	make	VERB
_003376541	157	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	157	4	effort	effort	NOUN
_003376541	157	5	to	to	PART
_003376541	157	6	understand	understand	VERB
_003376541	157	7	baseball	baseball	NOUN
_003376541	157	8	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	157	9	golf	golf	NOUN
_003376541	157	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	157	11	to	to	PART
_003376541	157	12	appreciate	appreciate	VERB
_003376541	157	13	her	her	PRON
_003376541	157	14	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	157	15	's	's	PART
_003376541	157	16	score	score	NOUN
_003376541	157	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	158	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	158	2	familiarizes	familiarize	VERB
_003376541	158	3	himself	himself	PRON
_003376541	158	4	with	with	ADP
_003376541	158	5	her	her	PRON
_003376541	158	6	favorite	favorite	ADJ
_003376541	158	7	concert	concert	NOUN
_003376541	158	8	music	music	NOUN
_003376541	158	9	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	158	10	ballet	ballet	NOUN
_003376541	158	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	159	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	159	2	learns	learn	VERB
_003376541	159	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	159	4	little	little	ADJ
_003376541	159	5	about	about	ADP
_003376541	159	6	his	his	PRON
_003376541	159	7	work	work	NOUN
_003376541	159	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	159	9	becomes	become	VERB
_003376541	159	10	an	an	DET
_003376541	159	11	intelligent	intelligent	ADJ
_003376541	159	12	listener	listener	NOUN
_003376541	159	13	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	159	14	he	he	PRON
_003376541	159	15	takes	take	VERB
_003376541	159	16	pride	pride	NOUN
_003376541	159	17	in	in	ADP
_003376541	159	18	her	her	PRON
_003376541	159	19	latest	late	ADJ
_003376541	159	20	recipe	recipe	NOUN
_003376541	159	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	160	1	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	160	2	for	for	ADP
_003376541	160	3	both	both	PRON
_003376541	160	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	160	5	them	they	PRON
_003376541	160	6	grows	grow	VERB
_003376541	160	7	richer	rich	ADJ
_003376541	160	8	through	through	ADP
_003376541	160	9	this	this	DET
_003376541	160	10	sharing	sharing	NOUN
_003376541	160	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	161	1	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	161	2	perhaps	perhaps	ADV
_003376541	161	3	most	most	ADV
_003376541	161	4	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	161	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	161	6	all	all	PRON
_003376541	161	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	161	8	each	each	PRON
_003376541	161	9	will	will	AUX
_003376541	161	10	see	see	VERB
_003376541	161	11	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	161	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	161	13	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	161	14	has	have	VERB
_003376541	161	15	access	access	NOUN
_003376541	161	16	to	to	ADP
_003376541	161	17	moments	moment	NOUN
_003376541	161	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	161	19	privacy	privacy	NOUN
_003376541	161	20	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	161	21	solitude	solitude	VERB
_003376541	161	22	to	to	PART
_003376541	161	23	meditate	meditate	VERB
_003376541	161	24	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	161	25	to	to	PART
_003376541	161	26	dream	dream	VERB
_003376541	161	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	162	1	still	still	ADV
_003376541	162	2	another	another	DET
_003376541	162	3	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	162	4	necessary	necessary	ADJ
_003376541	162	5	in	in	ADP
_003376541	162	6	every	every	DET
_003376541	162	7	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	162	8	is	be	AUX
_003376541	162	9	to	to	ADP
_003376541	162	10	what	what	PRON
_003376541	162	11	is	be	AUX
_003376541	162	12	universally	universally	ADV
_003376541	162	13	known	know	VERB
_003376541	162	14	as	as	ADP
_003376541	162	15	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	162	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	162	17	in	in	ADP
_003376541	162	18	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	162	19	law	law	NOUN
_003376541	162	20	problem	problem	NOUN
_003376541	162	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	162	22	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	163	1	truly	truly	ADV
_003376541	163	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	163	3	man	man	NOUN
_003376541	163	4	leaves	leave	VERB
_003376541	163	5	his	his	PRON
_003376541	163	6	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	163	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	163	8	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	163	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	163	10	cleaves	cleave	NOUN
_003376541	163	11	to	to	ADP
_003376541	163	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	163	13	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	163	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	163	15	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	163	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	163	17	two	two	NUM
_003376541	163	18	become	become	VERB
_003376541	163	19	one	one	NUM
_003376541	163	20	flesh	flesh	NOUN
_003376541	163	21	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	163	22	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	163	23	in	in	ADP
_003376541	163	24	some	some	DET
_003376541	163	25	aspects	aspect	NOUN
_003376541	163	26	it	it	PRON
_003376541	163	27	seems	seem	VERB
_003376541	163	28	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	163	29	the	the	DET
_003376541	163	30	spouse	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	163	31	is	be	AUX
_003376541	163	32	acquiring	acquire	VERB
_003376541	163	33	not	not	PART
_003376541	163	34	only	only	ADV
_003376541	163	35	a	a	DET
_003376541	163	36	mate	mate	NOUN
_003376541	163	37	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	163	38	a	a	DET
_003376541	163	39	second	second	ADJ
_003376541	163	40	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	163	41	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	164	1	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	164	2	with	with	ADP
_003376541	164	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	164	4	second	second	ADJ
_003376541	164	5	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	164	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	164	7	he	he	PRON
_003376541	164	8	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	164	9	she	she	PRON
_003376541	164	10	is	be	AUX
_003376541	164	11	at	at	ADP
_003376541	164	12	least	least	ADJ
_003376541	164	13	doubling	double	VERB
_003376541	164	14	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	164	15	problems	problem	NOUN
_003376541	164	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	165	1	conflicts	conflict	NOUN
_003376541	165	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	165	3	backgrounds	background	NOUN
_003376541	165	4	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	165	5	interests	interest	NOUN
_003376541	165	6	multiply	multiply	VERB
_003376541	165	7	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	166	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	166	2	america	america	PROPN
_003376541	166	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	166	4	especially	especially	ADV
_003376541	166	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	166	6	there	there	PRON
_003376541	166	7	are	be	VERB
_003376541	166	8	frequent	frequent	ADJ
_003376541	166	9	instances	instance	NOUN
_003376541	166	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	166	11	marriages	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	166	12	between	between	ADP
_003376541	166	13	individuals	individual	NOUN
_003376541	166	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	166	15	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	166	16	national	national	ADJ
_003376541	166	17	origins	origin	NOUN
_003376541	166	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	167	1	each	each	DET
_003376541	167	2	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	167	3	may	may	AUX
_003376541	167	4	have	have	VERB
_003376541	167	5	customs	custom	NOUN
_003376541	167	6	it	it	PRON
_003376541	167	7	regards	regard	VERB
_003376541	167	8	as	as	ADV
_003376541	167	9	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	167	10	-t^	-t^	SCONJ
_003376541	167	11	almost	almost	ADV
_003376541	167	12	sacrosanct	sacrosanct	ADJ
_003376541	167	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	168	1	even	even	ADV
_003376541	168	2	where	where	SCONJ
_003376541	168	3	there	there	PRON
_003376541	168	4	is	be	VERB
_003376541	168	5	no	no	DET
_003376541	168	6	nationality	nationality	NOUN
_003376541	168	7	difference	difference	NOUN
_003376541	168	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	168	9	this	this	DET
_003376541	168	10	hurdle	hurdle	NOUN
_003376541	168	11	may	may	AUX
_003376541	168	12	arise	arise	VERB
_003376541	168	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	169	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	169	2	newly	newly	ADV
_003376541	169	3	we	we	PRON
_003376541	169	4	d	d	ADJ
_003376541	169	5	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	169	6	has	have	VERB
_003376541	169	7	to	to	PART
_003376541	169	8	make	make	VERB
_003376541	169	9	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	169	10	adjustments	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	169	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	169	12	from	from	ADP
_003376541	169	13	culinary	culinary	ADJ
_003376541	169	14	tastes	taste	NOUN
_003376541	169	15	to	to	ADP
_003376541	169	16	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	169	17	holidays	holiday	NOUN
_003376541	169	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	170	1	shall	shall	AUX
_003376541	170	2	we	we	PRON
_003376541	170	3	have	have	AUX
_003376541	170	4	standing	stand	VERB
_003376541	170	5	rib	rib	NOUN
_003376541	170	6	roast	roast	NOUN
_003376541	170	7	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	170	8	wheat	wheat	NOUN
_003376541	170	9	germ	germ	NOUN
_003376541	170	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	170	11	yogurt	yogurt	NOUN
_003376541	170	12	for	for	ADP
_003376541	170	13	dinner	dinner	NOUN
_003376541	170	14	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	171	1	shall	shall	AUX
_003376541	171	2	we	we	PRON
_003376541	171	3	celebrate	celebrate	VERB
_003376541	171	4	christmas	christmas	PROPN
_003376541	171	5	with	with	ADP
_003376541	171	6	your	your	PRON
_003376541	171	7	folks	folk	NOUN
_003376541	171	8	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	171	9	mine	mine	NOUN
_003376541	171	10	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	172	1	questions	question	NOUN
_003376541	172	2	like	like	ADP
_003376541	172	3	those	those	PRON
_003376541	172	4	seem	seem	VERB
_003376541	172	5	unimportant	unimportant	ADJ
_003376541	172	6	weighed	weigh	VERB
_003376541	172	7	in	in	ADP
_003376541	172	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	172	9	balance	balance	NOUN
_003376541	172	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	172	11	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	172	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	172	13	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	172	14	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	172	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	172	16	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	172	17	have	have	AUX
_003376541	172	18	come	come	VERB
_003376541	172	19	to	to	ADP
_003376541	172	20	tears	tear	NOUN
_003376541	172	21	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	172	22	recriminations	recrimination	NOUN
_003376541	172	23	over	over	ADP
_003376541	172	24	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	172	25	problems	problem	NOUN
_003376541	172	26	rooted	root	VERB
_003376541	172	27	in	in	ADP
_003376541	172	28	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	172	29	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	172	30	backgrounds	background	NOUN
_003376541	172	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	173	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	173	2	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	173	3	thing	thing	NOUN
_003376541	173	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	173	5	to	to	PART
_003376541	173	6	realize	realize	VERB
_003376541	173	7	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	173	8	with	with	ADP
_003376541	173	9	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	173	10	vows	vow	VERB
_003376541	173	11	11	11	NUM
_003376541	173	12	we	we	PRON
_003376541	173	13	become	become	VERB
_003376541	173	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	173	15	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	173	16	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	173	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	174	1	as	as	ADP
_003376541	174	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	174	3	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	174	4	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	174	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	174	6	we	we	PRON
_003376541	174	7	must	must	AUX
_003376541	174	8	begin	begin	VERB
_003376541	174	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	174	10	establish	establish	VERB
_003376541	174	11	our	our	PRON
_003376541	174	12	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	174	13	customs	custom	NOUN
_003376541	174	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	174	15	our	our	PRON
_003376541	174	16	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	174	17	feasts	feast	NOUN
_003376541	174	18	to	to	PART
_003376541	174	19	be	be	AUX
_003376541	174	20	celebrated	celebrate	VERB
_003376541	174	21	in	in	ADP
_003376541	174	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	174	23	privacy	privacy	NOUN
_003376541	174	24	of	of	ADP
_003376541	174	25	our	our	PRON
_003376541	174	26	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	174	27	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	174	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	175	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	175	2	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	175	3	laws	law	NOUN
_003376541	175	4	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	175	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	175	6	both	both	DET
_003376541	175	7	families	family	NOUN
_003376541	175	8	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	175	9	must	must	AUX
_003376541	175	10	be	be	AUX
_003376541	175	11	given	give	VERB
_003376541	175	12	due	due	ADJ
_003376541	175	13	recognition	recognition	NOUN
_003376541	175	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	175	15	respect	respect	NOUN
_003376541	175	16	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	175	17	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	175	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	175	19	primary	primary	ADJ
_003376541	175	20	loyalty	loyalty	NOUN
_003376541	175	21	of	of	ADP
_003376541	175	22	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	175	23	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	175	24	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	175	25	now	now	ADV
_003376541	175	26	belongs	belong	VERB
_003376541	175	27	to	to	ADP
_003376541	175	28	each	each	DET
_003376541	175	29	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	175	30	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	175	31	not	not	PART
_003376541	175	32	to	to	ADP
_003376541	175	33	his	his	PRON
_003376541	175	34	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	175	35	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	175	36	her	her	PRON
_003376541	175	37	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	175	38	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	176	1	one	one	NUM
_003376541	176	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	176	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	176	4	most	most	ADV
_003376541	176	5	virulent	virulent	ADJ
_003376541	176	6	examples	example	NOUN
_003376541	176	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	176	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	176	9	sick	sick	ADJ
_003376541	176	10	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	176	11	is	be	AUX
_003376541	176	12	that	that	PRON
_003376541	176	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	176	14	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	176	15	mama	mama	PROPN
_003376541	176	16	's	's	PART
_003376541	176	17	boy	boy	NOUN
_003376541	176	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	176	19	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	177	1	fairly	fairly	ADV
_003376541	177	2	common	common	ADJ
_003376541	177	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	177	4	his	his	PRON
_003376541	177	5	attitude	attitude	NOUN
_003376541	177	6	can	can	AUX
_003376541	177	7	be	be	AUX
_003376541	177	8	summed	sum	VERB
_003376541	177	9	up	up	ADP
_003376541	177	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	177	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	177	12	saccharine	saccharine	NOUN
_003376541	177	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	177	14	nauseating	nauseate	VERB
_003376541	177	15	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	177	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	177	17	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	177	18	i	i	PRON
_003376541	177	19	can	can	AUX
_003376541	177	20	get	get	VERB
_003376541	177	21	another	another	DET
_003376541	177	22	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	177	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	177	24	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	177	25	i	i	PRON
_003376541	177	26	'll	will	AUX
_003376541	177	27	have	have	VERB
_003376541	177	28	only	only	ADV
_003376541	177	29	one	one	NUM
_003376541	177	30	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	177	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	177	32	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	178	1	these	these	DET
_003376541	178	2	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	178	3	reveal	reveal	VERB
_003376541	178	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	178	5	first	first	ADV
_003376541	178	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	178	7	all	all	PRON
_003376541	178	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	178	9	an	an	DET
_003376541	178	10	obsessively	obsessively	ADV
_003376541	178	11	possessive	possessive	ADJ
_003376541	178	12	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	178	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	178	14	who	who	PRON
_003376541	178	15	probably	probably	ADV
_003376541	178	16	doted	dote	VERB
_003376541	178	17	on	on	ADP
_003376541	178	18	her	her	PRON
_003376541	178	19	offspring	offspring	NOUN
_003376541	178	20	to	to	ADP
_003376541	178	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	178	22	neglect	neglect	NOUN
_003376541	178	23	of	of	ADP
_003376541	178	24	her	her	PRON
_003376541	178	25	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	178	26	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	178	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	179	1	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	179	2	they	they	PRON
_003376541	179	3	show	show	VERB
_003376541	179	4	us	we	PRON
_003376541	179	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	179	6	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	179	7	who	who	PRON
_003376541	179	8	does	do	AUX
_003376541	179	9	not	not	PART
_003376541	179	10	understand	understand	VERB
_003376541	179	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	179	12	importance	importance	NOUN
_003376541	179	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	179	14	grandeur	grandeur	NOUN
_003376541	179	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	179	16	marital	marital	ADJ
_003376541	179	17	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	179	18	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	179	19	has	have	AUX
_003376541	179	20	never	never	ADV
_003376541	179	21	cut	cut	VERB
_003376541	179	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	179	23	silver	silver	NOUN
_003376541	179	24	cord	cord	NOUN
_003376541	179	25	of	of	ADP
_003376541	179	26	his	his	PRON
_003376541	179	27	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	179	28	's	's	PART
_003376541	179	29	smothering	smothering	NOUN
_003376541	179	30	devotion	devotion	NOUN
_003376541	179	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	180	1	somewhat	somewhat	ADV
_003376541	180	2	rarer	rarer	ADV
_003376541	180	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	180	4	there	there	PRON
_003376541	180	5	is	be	VERB
_003376541	180	6	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	180	7	daddy	daddy	NOUN
_003376541	180	8	's	's	PART
_003376541	180	9	girl	girl	NOUN
_003376541	180	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	180	11	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	180	12	who	who	PRON
_003376541	180	13	makes	make	VERB
_003376541	180	14	an	an	DET
_003376541	180	15	equally	equally	ADV
_003376541	180	16	poor	poor	ADJ
_003376541	180	17	mate	mate	NOUN
_003376541	180	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	181	1	many	many	DET
_003376541	181	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	181	3	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	181	4	has	have	AUX
_003376541	181	5	foundered	founder	VERB
_003376541	181	6	on	on	ADP
_003376541	181	7	these	these	DET
_003376541	181	8	shoals	shoal	NOUN
_003376541	181	9	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	181	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	181	11	son	son	NOUN
_003376541	181	12	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	181	13	daughter	daughter	NOUN
_003376541	181	14	who	who	PRON
_003376541	181	15	has	have	AUX
_003376541	181	16	not	not	PART
_003376541	181	17	outgrown	outgrow	VERB
_003376541	181	18	this	this	DET
_003376541	181	19	attitude	attitude	NOUN
_003376541	181	20	is	be	AUX
_003376541	181	21	a	a	DET
_003376541	181	22	poor	poor	ADJ
_003376541	181	23	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	181	24	bet	bet	NOUN
_003376541	181	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	182	1	one	one	NUM
_003376541	182	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	182	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	182	4	adjustments	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	182	5	that	that	PRON
_003376541	182	6	normally	normally	ADV
_003376541	182	7	mature	mature	VERB
_003376541	182	8	couples	couple	NOUN
_003376541	182	9	should	should	AUX
_003376541	182	10	be	be	AUX
_003376541	182	11	able	able	ADJ
_003376541	182	12	to	to	PART
_003376541	182	13	take	take	VERB
_003376541	182	14	in	in	ADP
_003376541	182	15	their	their	PRON
_003376541	182	16	stride	stride	NOUN
_003376541	182	17	is	be	AUX
_003376541	182	18	to	to	PART
_003376541	182	19	put	put	VERB
_003376541	182	20	each	each	DET
_003376541	182	21	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	182	22	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	182	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	182	24	their	their	PRON
_003376541	182	25	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	182	26	second	second	ADJ
_003376541	182	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	183	1	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	183	2	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	183	3	they	they	PRON
_003376541	183	4	have	have	VERB
_003376541	183	5	their	their	PRON
_003376541	183	6	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	183	7	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	183	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	183	9	their	their	PRON
_003376541	183	10	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	183	11	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	183	12	second	second	ADJ
_003376541	183	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	183	14	their	their	PRON
_003376541	183	15	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	183	16	third	third	ADV
_003376541	183	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	184	1	for	for	ADP
_003376541	184	2	it	it	PRON
_003376541	184	3	is	be	AUX
_003376541	184	4	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	184	5	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	184	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	184	7	bond	bond	NOUN
_003376541	184	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	184	9	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	184	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	184	11	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	184	12	is	be	AUX
_003376541	184	13	stronger	strong	ADJ
_003376541	184	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	184	15	closer	close	ADJ
_003376541	184	16	than	than	ADP
_003376541	184	17	any	any	DET
_003376541	184	18	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	184	19	human	human	ADJ
_003376541	184	20	relationship	relationship	NOUN
_003376541	184	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	185	1	for	for	ADP
_003376541	185	2	this	this	PRON
_003376541	185	3	we	we	PRON
_003376541	185	4	have	have	VERB
_003376541	185	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	185	6	word	word	NOUN
_003376541	185	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	185	8	christ	christ	PROPN
_003376541	185	9	himself	himself	PRON
_003376541	185	10	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	186	1	12	12	NUM
_003376541	186	2	mixed	mixed	ADJ
_003376541	186	3	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	186	4	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	186	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	186	6	greater	great	ADJ
_003376541	186	7	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	186	8	one	one	NUM
_003376541	186	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	186	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	186	11	most	most	ADV
_003376541	186	12	difficult	difficult	ADJ
_003376541	186	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	186	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	186	15	more	more	ADV
_003376541	186	16	unfortunate	unfortunate	ADJ
_003376541	186	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	186	18	adjustments	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	186	19	is	be	AUX
_003376541	186	20	that	that	PRON
_003376541	186	21	which	which	PRON
_003376541	186	22	must	must	AUX
_003376541	186	23	be	be	AUX
_003376541	186	24	made	make	VERB
_003376541	186	25	in	in	ADP
_003376541	186	26	a	a	DET
_003376541	186	27	mixed	mixed	ADJ
_003376541	186	28	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	186	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	187	1	for	for	ADP
_003376541	187	2	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	187	3	grave	grave	ADJ
_003376541	187	4	reasons	reason	NOUN
_003376541	187	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	187	6	both	both	PRON
_003376541	187	7	spiritual	spiritual	ADJ
_003376541	187	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	187	9	psychological	psychological	ADJ
_003376541	187	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	187	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	187	12	church	church	NOUN
_003376541	187	13	is	be	AUX
_003376541	187	14	opposed	oppose	VERB
_003376541	187	15	to	to	ADP
_003376541	187	16	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	187	17	unions	union	NOUN
_003376541	187	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	188	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	188	2	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	188	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	188	4	in	in	ADP
_003376541	188	5	spite	spite	NOUN
_003376541	188	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	188	7	all	all	DET
_003376541	188	8	cautions	caution	NOUN
_003376541	188	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	188	10	such	such	DET
_003376541	188	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	188	12	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	188	13	occurs	occur	VERB
_003376541	188	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	188	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	188	16	religious	religious	ADJ
_003376541	188	17	difference	difference	NOUN
_003376541	188	18	will	will	AUX
_003376541	188	19	cause	cause	VERB
_003376541	188	20	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	188	21	situations	situation	NOUN
_003376541	188	22	demanding	demand	VERB
_003376541	188	23	tact	tact	NOUN
_003376541	188	24	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	188	25	understanding	understanding	NOUN
_003376541	188	26	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	188	27	adaptability	adaptability	NOUN
_003376541	188	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	189	1	first	first	ADV
_003376541	189	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	189	3	each	each	DET
_003376541	189	4	spouse	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	189	5	must	must	AUX
_003376541	189	6	always	always	ADV
_003376541	189	7	respect	respect	VERB
_003376541	189	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	189	9	belief	belief	NOUN
_003376541	189	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	189	11	religious	religious	ADJ
_003376541	189	12	customs	custom	NOUN
_003376541	189	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	189	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	189	15	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	189	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	190	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	190	2	catholic	catholic	PROPN
_003376541	190	3	party	party	PROPN
_003376541	190	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	190	5	further	far	ADV
_003376541	190	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	190	7	must	must	AUX
_003376541	190	8	be	be	AUX
_003376541	190	9	deeply	deeply	ADV
_003376541	190	10	aware	aware	ADJ
_003376541	190	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	190	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	190	13	fact	fact	NOUN
_003376541	190	14	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	190	15	his	his	PRON
_003376541	190	16	partner	partner	NOUN
_003376541	190	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	190	18	without	without	ADP
_003376541	190	19	the	the	DET
_003376541	190	20	aid	aid	NOUN
_003376541	190	21	of	of	ADP
_003376541	190	22	regular	regular	ADJ
_003376541	190	23	reception	reception	NOUN
_003376541	190	24	of	of	ADP
_003376541	190	25	the	the	DET
_003376541	190	26	sacraments	sacrament	NOUN
_003376541	190	27	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	190	28	may	may	AUX
_003376541	190	29	have	have	AUX
_003376541	190	30	a	a	DET
_003376541	190	31	more	more	ADV
_003376541	190	32	difficult	difficult	ADJ
_003376541	190	33	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	190	34	in	in	ADP
_003376541	190	35	the	the	DET
_003376541	190	36	practice	practice	NOUN
_003376541	190	37	of	of	ADP
_003376541	190	38	virtue	virtue	NOUN
_003376541	190	39	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	190	40	in	in	ADP
_003376541	190	41	living	live	VERB
_003376541	190	42	up	up	ADP
_003376541	190	43	to	to	ADP
_003376541	190	44	the	the	DET
_003376541	190	45	ideals	ideal	NOUN
_003376541	190	46	of	of	ADP
_003376541	190	47	a	a	DET
_003376541	190	48	holy	holy	ADJ
_003376541	190	49	christian	christian	ADJ
_003376541	190	50	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	190	51	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	191	1	so	so	ADV
_003376541	191	2	it	it	PRON
_003376541	191	3	is	be	AUX
_003376541	191	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	191	5	catholic	catholic	NOUN
_003376541	191	6	who	who	PRON
_003376541	191	7	must	must	AUX
_003376541	191	8	pray	pray	VERB
_003376541	191	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	191	10	harder	hard	ADJ
_003376541	191	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	191	12	who	who	PRON
_003376541	191	13	must	must	AUX
_003376541	191	14	make	make	VERB
_003376541	191	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	191	16	more	more	ADV
_003376541	191	17	generous	generous	ADJ
_003376541	191	18	effort	effort	NOUN
_003376541	191	19	to	to	PART
_003376541	191	20	live	live	VERB
_003376541	191	21	unselfishly	unselfishly	ADV
_003376541	191	22	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	191	23	devotedly	devotedly	ADV
_003376541	191	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	192	1	to	to	PART
_003376541	192	2	achieve	achieve	VERB
_003376541	192	3	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	192	4	marital	marital	ADJ
_003376541	192	5	union	union	NOUN
_003376541	192	6	in	in	ADP
_003376541	192	7	such	such	DET
_003376541	192	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	192	9	case	case	NOUN
_003376541	192	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	192	11	there	there	PRON
_003376541	192	12	is	be	VERB
_003376541	192	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	192	14	need	need	NOUN
_003376541	192	15	for	for	ADP
_003376541	192	16	a	a	DET
_003376541	192	17	tremendous	tremendous	ADJ
_003376541	192	18	psychological	psychological	ADJ
_003376541	192	19	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	192	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	193	1	since	since	SCONJ
_003376541	193	2	there	there	PRON
_003376541	193	3	can	can	AUX
_003376541	193	4	be	be	AUX
_003376541	193	5	no	no	DET
_003376541	193	6	absolute	absolute	ADJ
_003376541	193	7	spiritual	spiritual	ADJ
_003376541	193	8	union	union	NOUN
_003376541	193	9	in	in	ADP
_003376541	193	10	such	such	DET
_003376541	193	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	193	12	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	193	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	193	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	193	15	deep	deep	ADJ
_003376541	193	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	193	17	basic	basic	ADJ
_003376541	193	18	loneliness	loneliness	NOUN
_003376541	193	19	must	must	AUX
_003376541	193	20	be	be	AUX
_003376541	193	21	accepted	accept	VERB
_003376541	193	22	as	as	ADP
_003376541	193	23	part	part	NOUN
_003376541	193	24	of	of	ADP
_003376541	193	25	such	such	DET
_003376541	193	26	a	a	DET
_003376541	193	27	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	193	28	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	193	29	more	more	ADV
_003376541	193	30	so	so	ADV
_003376541	193	31	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	193	32	the	the	DET
_003376541	193	33	catholic	catholic	ADJ
_003376541	193	34	partner	partner	NOUN
_003376541	193	35	takes	take	VERB
_003376541	193	36	his	his	PRON
_003376541	193	37	religion	religion	NOUN
_003376541	193	38	seriously	seriously	ADV
_003376541	193	39	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	194	1	extra	extra	ADJ
_003376541	194	2	emphasis	emphasis	NOUN
_003376541	194	3	will	will	AUX
_003376541	194	4	have	have	VERB
_003376541	194	5	to	to	PART
_003376541	194	6	be	be	AUX
_003376541	194	7	placed	place	VERB
_003376541	194	8	on	on	ADP
_003376541	194	9	emotional	emotional	ADJ
_003376541	194	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	194	11	mental	mental	ADJ
_003376541	194	12	harmony	harmony	NOUN
_003376541	194	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	194	14	although	although	SCONJ
_003376541	194	15	this	this	PRON
_003376541	194	16	can	can	AUX
_003376541	194	17	never	never	ADV
_003376541	194	18	completely	completely	ADV
_003376541	194	19	fill	fill	VERB
_003376541	194	20	the	the	DET
_003376541	194	21	gap	gap	NOUN
_003376541	194	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	195	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	195	2	problem	problem	NOUN
_003376541	195	3	much	much	ADV
_003376541	195	4	more	more	ADV
_003376541	195	5	universal	universal	ADJ
_003376541	195	6	in	in	ADP
_003376541	195	7	our	our	PRON
_003376541	195	8	generation	generation	NOUN
_003376541	195	9	is	be	AUX
_003376541	195	10	that	that	PRON
_003376541	195	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	195	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	195	13	working	work	VERB
_003376541	195	14	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	195	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	196	1	regardless	regardless	ADV
_003376541	196	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	196	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	196	4	fact	fact	NOUN
_003376541	196	5	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	196	6	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	196	7	authorities	authority	NOUN
_003376541	196	8	decry	decry	VERB
_003376541	196	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	196	10	trend	trend	NOUN
_003376541	196	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	196	12	realism	realism	NOUN
_003376541	196	13	requires	require	VERB
_003376541	196	14	recognition	recognition	NOUN
_003376541	196	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	196	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	196	17	fact	fact	NOUN
_003376541	196	18	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	196	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	196	20	wisely	wisely	ADV
_003376541	196	21	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	196	22	not	not	PART
_003376541	196	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	196	24	over	over	ADP
_003376541	196	25	90	90	NUM
_003376541	196	26	per	per	NOUN
_003376541	196	27	cent	cent	NOUN
_003376541	196	28	of	of	ADP
_003376541	196	29	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	196	30	wives	wife	NOUN
_003376541	196	31	work	work	VERB
_003376541	196	32	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	196	33	at	at	ADP
_003376541	196	34	least	least	ADJ
_003376541	196	35	until	until	SCONJ
_003376541	196	36	the	the	DET
_003376541	196	37	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	196	38	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	196	39	arrives	arrive	VERB
_003376541	196	40	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	197	1	space	space	NOUN
_003376541	197	2	does	do	AUX
_003376541	197	3	not	not	PART
_003376541	197	4	permit	permit	VERB
_003376541	197	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	197	6	detailed	detailed	ADJ
_003376541	197	7	analysis	analysis	NOUN
_003376541	197	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	197	9	all	all	DET
_003376541	197	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	197	11	conflicts	conflict	NOUN
_003376541	197	12	involved	involve	VERB
_003376541	197	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	197	14	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	197	15	some	some	DET
_003376541	197	16	attention	attention	NOUN
_003376541	197	17	can	can	AUX
_003376541	197	18	be	be	AUX
_003376541	197	19	directed	direct	VERB
_003376541	197	20	at	at	ADP
_003376541	197	21	some	some	DET
_003376541	197	22	areas	area	NOUN
_003376541	197	23	of	of	ADP
_003376541	197	24	stress	stress	NOUN
_003376541	197	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	198	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	198	2	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	198	3	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	198	4	most	most	ADV
_003376541	198	5	obvious	obvious	ADJ
_003376541	198	6	point	point	NOUN
_003376541	198	7	is	be	AUX
_003376541	198	8	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	198	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	198	10	newlyweds	newlywed	NOUN
_003376541	198	11	are	be	AUX
_003376541	198	12	both	both	PRON
_003376541	198	13	assuming	assume	VERB
_003376541	198	14	two	two	NUM
_003376541	198	15	tasks	task	NOUN
_003376541	198	16	at	at	ADP
_003376541	198	17	once	once	ADV
_003376541	198	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	199	1	they	they	PRON
_003376541	199	2	may	may	AUX
_003376541	199	3	be	be	AUX
_003376541	199	4	accustomed	accustom	VERB
_003376541	199	5	to	to	ADP
_003376541	199	6	working	working	NOUN
_003376541	199	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	199	8	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	199	9	not	not	PART
_003376541	199	10	to	to	PART
_003376541	199	11	simultaneously	simultaneously	ADV
_003376541	199	12	working	work	VERB
_003376541	199	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	199	14	trying	try	VERB
_003376541	199	15	to	to	PART
_003376541	199	16	learn	learn	VERB
_003376541	199	17	their	their	PRON
_003376541	199	18	respective	respective	ADJ
_003376541	199	19	roles	role	NOUN
_003376541	199	20	in	in	ADP
_003376541	199	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	199	22	establishment	establishment	NOUN
_003376541	199	23	of	of	ADP
_003376541	199	24	a	a	DET
_003376541	199	25	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	199	26	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	199	27	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	199	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	200	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	200	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	200	3	an	an	DET
_003376541	200	4	immediate	immediate	ADJ
_003376541	200	5	problem	problem	NOUN
_003376541	200	6	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	200	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	200	8	few	few	ADJ
_003376541	200	9	days	day	NOUN
_003376541	200	10	for	for	ADP
_003376541	200	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	200	12	wedding	wedding	NOUN
_003376541	200	13	trip	trip	NOUN
_003376541	200	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	200	15	then	then	ADV
_003376541	200	16	back	back	ADV
_003376541	200	17	to	to	ADP
_003376541	200	18	work	work	NOUN
_003376541	200	19	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	200	20	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	200	21	to	to	ADP
_003376541	200	22	dinner	dinner	NOUN
_003376541	200	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	201	1	not	not	PART
_003376541	201	2	to	to	ADP
_003376541	201	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	201	4	13	13	NUM
_003376541	201	5	dinner	dinner	NOUN
_003376541	201	6	all	all	PRON
_003376541	201	7	prepared	prepare	VERB
_003376541	201	8	by	by	ADP
_003376541	201	9	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	201	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	201	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	201	12	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	201	13	in	in	ADP
_003376541	201	14	order	order	NOUN
_003376541	201	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	201	16	an	an	DET
_003376541	201	17	evening	evening	NOUN
_003376541	201	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	201	19	relaxation	relaxation	NOUN
_003376541	201	20	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	201	21	either	either	ADV
_003376541	201	22	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	201	23	although	although	SCONJ
_003376541	201	24	some	some	DET
_003376541	201	25	newlyweds	newlywed	NOUN
_003376541	201	26	obviously	obviously	ADV
_003376541	201	27	just	just	ADV
_003376541	201	28	postpone	postpone	VERB
_003376541	201	29	the	the	DET
_003376541	201	30	problem	problem	NOUN
_003376541	201	31	by	by	ADP
_003376541	201	32	boarding	board	VERB
_003376541	201	33	with	with	ADP
_003376541	201	34	one	one	NUM
_003376541	201	35	set	set	NOUN
_003376541	201	36	of	of	ADP
_003376541	201	37	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	201	38	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	202	1	both	both	DET
_003376541	202	2	mates	mate	NOUN
_003376541	202	3	must	must	AUX
_003376541	202	4	be	be	AUX
_003376541	202	5	willing	willing	ADJ
_003376541	202	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	202	7	help	help	VERB
_003376541	202	8	in	in	ADP
_003376541	202	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	202	10	unaccustomed	unaccustomed	ADJ
_003376541	202	11	roles	role	NOUN
_003376541	202	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	202	13	shopper	shopper	NOUN
_003376541	202	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	202	15	cook	cook	PROPN
_003376541	202	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	202	17	house	house	NOUN
_003376541	202	18	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	202	19	cleaner	cleaner	NOUN
_003376541	202	20	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	202	21	dishwasher	dishwasher	NOUN
_003376541	202	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	203	1	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	203	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	203	3	these	these	PRON
_003376541	203	4	are	be	AUX
_003376541	203	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	203	6	major	major	ADJ
_003376541	203	7	responsibilities	responsibility	NOUN
_003376541	203	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	203	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	203	10	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	203	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	203	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	203	13	it	it	PRON
_003376541	203	14	is	be	AUX
_003376541	203	15	ideal	ideal	ADJ
_003376541	203	16	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	203	17	she	she	PRON
_003376541	203	18	can	can	AUX
_003376541	203	19	devote	devote	VERB
_003376541	203	20	full	full	ADJ
_003376541	203	21	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	203	22	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	203	23	all	all	DET
_003376541	203	24	her	her	PRON
_003376541	203	25	skill	skill	NOUN
_003376541	203	26	to	to	ADP
_003376541	203	27	them	they	PRON
_003376541	203	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	204	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	204	2	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	204	3	her	her	PRON
_003376541	204	4	help	help	NOUN
_003376541	204	5	is	be	AUX
_003376541	204	6	needed	need	VERB
_003376541	204	7	by	by	ADP
_003376541	204	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	204	9	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	204	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	204	11	his	his	PRON
_003376541	204	12	task	task	NOUN
_003376541	204	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	204	14	supporting	support	VERB
_003376541	204	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	204	16	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	204	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	204	18	then	then	ADV
_003376541	204	19	his	his	PRON
_003376541	204	20	must	must	AUX
_003376541	204	21	be	be	AUX
_003376541	204	22	given	give	VERB
_003376541	204	23	just	just	ADV
_003376541	204	24	as	as	ADV
_003376541	204	25	thoughtfully	thoughtfully	ADV
_003376541	204	26	to	to	ADP
_003376541	204	27	her	she	PRON
_003376541	204	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	205	1	neither	neither	CCONJ
_003376541	205	2	can	can	AUX
_003376541	205	3	expect	expect	VERB
_003376541	205	4	to	to	PART
_003376541	205	5	come	come	VERB
_003376541	205	6	home	home	ADV
_003376541	205	7	from	from	ADP
_003376541	205	8	his	his	PRON
_003376541	205	9	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	205	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	205	11	relax	relax	VERB
_003376541	205	12	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	205	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	205	14	second	second	ADJ
_003376541	205	15	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	205	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	205	17	for	for	ADP
_003376541	205	18	both	both	PRON
_003376541	205	19	of	of	ADP
_003376541	205	20	them	they	PRON
_003376541	205	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	205	22	is	be	AUX
_003376541	205	23	the	the	DET
_003376541	205	24	making	making	NOUN
_003376541	205	25	of	of	ADP
_003376541	205	26	the	the	DET
_003376541	205	27	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	205	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	206	1	great	great	ADJ
_003376541	206	2	aches	ache	NOUN
_003376541	206	3	from	from	ADP
_003376541	206	4	little	little	ADJ
_003376541	206	5	rubs	rub	NOUN
_003376541	206	6	so	so	ADV
_003376541	206	7	far	far	ADV
_003376541	206	8	in	in	ADP
_003376541	206	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	206	10	question	question	NOUN
_003376541	206	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	206	12	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	206	13	we	we	PRON
_003376541	206	14	have	have	AUX
_003376541	206	15	discussed	discuss	VERB
_003376541	206	16	major	major	ADJ
_003376541	206	17	problems	problem	NOUN
_003376541	206	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	206	19	easily	easily	ADV
_003376541	206	20	defined	define	VERB
_003376541	206	21	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	206	22	with	with	ADP
_003376541	206	23	definite	definite	ADJ
_003376541	206	24	effects	effect	NOUN
_003376541	206	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	207	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	207	2	for	for	ADP
_003376541	207	3	one	one	NUM
_003376541	207	4	person	person	NOUN
_003376541	207	5	to	to	PART
_003376541	207	6	adjust	adjust	VERB
_003376541	207	7	fully	fully	ADV
_003376541	207	8	to	to	ADP
_003376541	207	9	another	another	PRON
_003376541	207	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	207	11	to	to	PART
_003376541	207	12	conform	conform	VERB
_003376541	207	13	to	to	ADP
_003376541	207	14	another	another	PRON
_003376541	207	15	's	's	PART
_003376541	207	16	ways	way	NOUN
_003376541	207	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	207	18	habits	habit	NOUN
_003376541	207	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	207	20	calls	call	VERB
_003376541	207	21	for	for	ADP
_003376541	207	22	daily	daily	ADJ
_003376541	207	23	adaptation	adaptation	NOUN
_003376541	207	24	to	to	ADP
_003376541	207	25	his	his	PRON
_003376541	207	26	temperament	temperament	NOUN
_003376541	207	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	208	1	less	less	ADJ
_003376541	208	2	than	than	ADP
_003376541	208	3	earth	earth	NOUN
_003376541	208	4	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	208	5	shaking	shake	VERB
_003376541	208	6	questions	question	NOUN
_003376541	208	7	are	be	AUX
_003376541	208	8	involved	involve	VERB
_003376541	208	9	here	here	ADV
_003376541	208	10	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	208	11	matters	matter	NOUN
_003376541	208	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	208	13	neatness	neatness	NOUN
_003376541	208	14	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	208	15	tardiness	tardiness	NOUN
_003376541	208	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	208	17	for	for	ADP
_003376541	208	18	instance	instance	NOUN
_003376541	208	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	209	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	209	2	these	these	PRON
_003376541	209	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	209	4	by	by	ADP
_003376541	209	5	their	their	PRON
_003376541	209	6	constant	constant	ADJ
_003376541	209	7	presence	presence	NOUN
_003376541	209	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	209	9	can	can	AUX
_003376541	209	10	produce	produce	VERB
_003376541	209	11	great	great	ADJ
_003376541	209	12	friction	friction	NOUN
_003376541	209	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	210	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	210	2	becomes	become	VERB
_003376541	210	3	an	an	DET
_003376541	210	4	almost	almost	ADV
_003376541	210	5	unbearable	unbearable	ADJ
_003376541	210	6	strain	strain	NOUN
_003376541	210	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	210	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	210	9	neat	neat	ADJ
_003376541	210	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	210	11	orderly	orderly	ADJ
_003376541	210	12	housewife	housewife	NOUN
_003376541	210	13	to	to	PART
_003376541	210	14	live	live	VERB
_003376541	210	15	with	with	ADP
_003376541	210	16	a	a	DET
_003376541	210	17	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	210	18	whose	whose	DET
_003376541	210	19	habits	habit	NOUN
_003376541	210	20	are	be	AUX
_003376541	210	21	woefully	woefully	ADV
_003376541	210	22	slipshod	slipshod	ADJ
_003376541	210	23	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	210	24	his	his	PRON
_003376541	210	25	work	work	NOUN
_003376541	210	26	disorganized	disorganize	VERB
_003376541	210	27	to	to	ADP
_003376541	210	28	the	the	DET
_003376541	210	29	point	point	NOUN
_003376541	210	30	of	of	ADP
_003376541	210	31	chaos	chaos	NOUN
_003376541	210	32	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	211	1	for	for	ADP
_003376541	211	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	211	3	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	211	4	it	it	PRON
_003376541	211	5	is	be	AUX
_003376541	211	6	equally	equally	ADV
_003376541	211	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	211	8	cross	cross	NOUN
_003376541	211	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	211	10	be	be	AUX
_003376541	211	11	always	always	ADV
_003376541	211	12	on	on	ADP
_003376541	211	13	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	211	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	211	15	only	only	ADV
_003376541	211	16	to	to	PART
_003376541	211	17	be	be	AUX
_003376541	211	18	kept	keep	VERB
_003376541	211	19	waiting	wait	VERB
_003376541	211	20	by	by	ADP
_003376541	211	21	a	a	DET
_003376541	211	22	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	211	23	seemingly	seemingly	ADV
_003376541	211	24	incapable	incapable	ADJ
_003376541	211	25	of	of	ADP
_003376541	211	26	measuring	measure	VERB
_003376541	211	27	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	211	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	212	1	little	little	ADJ
_003376541	212	2	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	212	3	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	212	4	yes	yes	INTJ
_003376541	212	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	212	6	they	they	PRON
_003376541	212	7	can	can	AUX
_003376541	212	8	be	be	AUX
_003376541	212	9	amusing	amusing	ADJ
_003376541	212	10	for	for	ADP
_003376541	212	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	212	12	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	212	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	213	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	213	2	unless	unless	SCONJ
_003376541	213	3	they	they	PRON
_003376541	213	4	are	be	AUX
_003376541	213	5	recognized	recognize	VERB
_003376541	213	6	as	as	ADP
_003376541	213	7	faults	fault	NOUN
_003376541	213	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	213	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	213	10	unless	unless	SCONJ
_003376541	213	11	each	each	DET
_003376541	213	12	partner	partner	NOUN
_003376541	213	13	honestly	honestly	ADV
_003376541	213	14	strives	strive	VERB
_003376541	213	15	to	to	PART
_003376541	213	16	conform	conform	VERB
_003376541	213	17	to	to	ADP
_003376541	213	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	213	19	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	213	20	's	's	PART
_003376541	213	21	better	well	ADJ
_003376541	213	22	standards	standard	NOUN
_003376541	213	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	213	24	unhappiness	unhappiness	NOUN
_003376541	213	25	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	213	26	bickering	bickering	NOUN
_003376541	213	27	may	may	AUX
_003376541	213	28	shortly	shortly	ADV
_003376541	213	29	result	result	VERB
_003376541	213	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	214	1	there	there	PRON
_003376541	214	2	are	be	VERB
_003376541	214	3	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	214	4	attitudes	attitude	NOUN
_003376541	214	5	which	which	PRON
_003376541	214	6	may	may	AUX
_003376541	214	7	demand	demand	VERB
_003376541	214	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	214	9	compromise	compromise	NOUN
_003376541	214	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	214	11	an	an	DET
_003376541	214	12	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	214	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	214	14	on	on	ADP
_003376541	214	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	214	16	part	part	NOUN
_003376541	214	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	214	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	214	19	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	214	20	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	214	21	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	214	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	215	1	so	so	ADV
_003376541	215	2	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	215	3	questions	question	NOUN
_003376541	215	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	215	5	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	215	6	as	as	ADP
_003376541	215	7	place	place	NOUN
_003376541	215	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	215	9	type	type	NOUN
_003376541	215	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	215	11	recreation	recreation	NOUN
_003376541	215	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	215	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	215	14	vacations	vacation	NOUN
_003376541	215	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	215	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	215	17	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	215	18	night	night	NOUN
_003376541	215	19	out	out	ADV
_003376541	215	20	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	215	21	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	215	22	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	215	23	to	to	PART
_003376541	215	24	spend	spend	VERB
_003376541	215	25	available	available	ADJ
_003376541	215	26	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	215	27	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	215	28	where	where	SCONJ
_003376541	215	29	to	to	PART
_003376541	215	30	live	live	VERB
_003376541	215	31	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	215	32	to	to	ADP
_003376541	215	33	each	each	PRON
_003376541	215	34	of	of	ADP
_003376541	215	35	these	these	DET
_003376541	215	36	each	each	DET
_003376541	215	37	partner	partner	NOUN
_003376541	215	38	brings	bring	VERB
_003376541	215	39	strong	strong	ADJ
_003376541	215	40	preferences	preference	NOUN
_003376541	215	41	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	215	42	convictions	conviction	NOUN
_003376541	215	43	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	216	1	yet	yet	ADV
_003376541	216	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	216	3	for	for	ADP
_003376541	216	4	harmonious	harmonious	ADJ
_003376541	216	5	living	living	NOUN
_003376541	216	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	216	7	these	these	DET
_003376541	216	8	opinions	opinion	NOUN
_003376541	216	9	must	must	AUX
_003376541	216	10	be	be	AUX
_003376541	216	11	tempered	temper	VERB
_003376541	216	12	by	by	ADP
_003376541	216	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	216	14	wishes	wish	NOUN
_003376541	216	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	216	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	216	17	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	216	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	216	19	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	216	20	there	there	PRON
_003376541	216	21	will	will	AUX
_003376541	216	22	be	be	AUX
_003376541	216	23	no	no	DET
_003376541	216	24	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	216	25	joy	joy	NOUN
_003376541	216	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	217	1	14	14	NUM
_003376541	217	2	there	there	PRON
_003376541	217	3	is	be	VERB
_003376541	217	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	217	5	whole	whole	ADJ
_003376541	217	6	paradoxical	paradoxical	ADJ
_003376541	217	7	nature	nature	NOUN
_003376541	217	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	217	9	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	217	10	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	217	11	we	we	PRON
_003376541	217	12	give	give	VERB
_003376541	217	13	in	in	ADP
_003376541	217	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	217	15	we	we	PRON
_003376541	217	16	adapt	adapt	VERB
_003376541	217	17	to	to	PART
_003376541	217	18	suit	suit	VERB
_003376541	217	19	our	our	PRON
_003376541	217	20	partner	partner	NOUN
_003376541	217	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	217	22	we	we	PRON
_003376541	217	23	relinquish	relinquish	VERB
_003376541	217	24	what	what	PRON
_003376541	217	25	we	we	PRON
_003376541	217	26	once	once	ADV
_003376541	217	27	thought	think	VERB
_003376541	217	28	was	be	AUX
_003376541	217	29	imperative	imperative	ADJ
_003376541	217	30	for	for	ADP
_003376541	217	31	our	our	PRON
_003376541	217	32	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	217	33	pleasure	pleasure	NOUN
_003376541	217	34	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	217	35	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	217	36	we	we	PRON
_003376541	217	37	find	find	VERB
_003376541	217	38	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	217	39	we	we	PRON
_003376541	217	40	are	be	AUX
_003376541	217	41	happier	happy	ADJ
_003376541	217	42	now	now	ADV
_003376541	217	43	in	in	ADP
_003376541	217	44	the	the	DET
_003376541	217	45	happiness	happiness	NOUN
_003376541	217	46	of	of	ADP
_003376541	217	47	the	the	DET
_003376541	217	48	one	one	NOUN
_003376541	217	49	we	we	PRON
_003376541	217	50	love	love	VERB
_003376541	217	51	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	218	1	one	one	NUM
_003376541	218	2	more	more	ADV
_003376541	218	3	essential	essential	ADJ
_003376541	218	4	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	218	5	must	must	AUX
_003376541	218	6	be	be	AUX
_003376541	218	7	made	make	VERB
_003376541	218	8	by	by	ADP
_003376541	218	9	every	every	DET
_003376541	218	10	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	218	11	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	218	12	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	218	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	219	1	they	they	PRON
_003376541	219	2	learn	learn	VERB
_003376541	219	3	to	to	PART
_003376541	219	4	live	live	VERB
_003376541	219	5	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	219	6	roles	role	NOUN
_003376541	219	7	in	in	ADP
_003376541	219	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	219	9	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	219	10	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	220	1	no	no	ADV
_003376541	220	2	longer	long	ADV
_003376541	220	3	merely	merely	ADV
_003376541	220	4	members	member	NOUN
_003376541	220	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	220	6	families	family	NOUN
_003376541	220	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	220	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	220	9	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	220	10	becomes	become	VERB
_003376541	220	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	220	12	head	head	NOUN
_003376541	220	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	220	14	one	one	NUM
_003376541	220	15	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	220	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	220	17	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	220	18	its	its	PRON
_003376541	220	19	heart	heart	NOUN
_003376541	220	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	221	1	any	any	DET
_003376541	221	2	real	real	ADJ
_003376541	221	3	adaptation	adaptation	NOUN
_003376541	221	4	to	to	PART
_003376541	221	5	marriage	marriage	VERB
_003376541	221	6	as	as	ADP
_003376541	221	7	christ	christ	PROPN
_003376541	221	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	221	9	human	human	ADJ
_003376541	221	10	nature	nature	NOUN
_003376541	221	11	intended	intend	VERB
_003376541	221	12	it	it	PRON
_003376541	221	13	to	to	PART
_003376541	221	14	be	be	AUX
_003376541	221	15	involves	involve	VERB
_003376541	221	16	this	this	DET
_003376541	221	17	bringing	bringing	NOUN
_003376541	221	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	221	19	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	221	20	into	into	ADP
_003376541	221	21	proper	proper	ADJ
_003376541	221	22	position	position	NOUN
_003376541	221	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	221	24	giving	give	VERB
_003376541	221	25	each	each	DET
_003376541	221	26	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	221	27	member	member	NOUN
_003376541	221	28	his	his	PRON
_003376541	221	29	primary	primary	ADJ
_003376541	221	30	role	role	NOUN
_003376541	221	31	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	221	32	responsibility	responsibility	NOUN
_003376541	221	33	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	222	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	222	2	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	222	3	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	222	4	must	must	AUX
_003376541	222	5	grow	grow	VERB
_003376541	222	6	in	in	ADP
_003376541	222	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	222	8	image	image	NOUN
_003376541	222	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	222	10	christ	christ	PROPN
_003376541	222	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	222	12	exercising	exercise	VERB
_003376541	222	13	an	an	DET
_003376541	222	14	authority	authority	NOUN
_003376541	222	15	tempered	temper	VERB
_003376541	222	16	always	always	ADV
_003376541	222	17	with	with	ADP
_003376541	222	18	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	222	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	223	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	223	2	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	223	3	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	223	4	reflects	reflect	VERB
_003376541	223	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	223	6	role	role	NOUN
_003376541	223	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	223	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	223	9	church	church	NOUN
_003376541	223	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	223	11	christ	christ	PROPN
_003376541	223	12	's	's	PART
_003376541	223	13	bride	bride	NOUN
_003376541	223	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	223	15	bringing	bring	VERB
_003376541	223	16	devotion	devotion	NOUN
_003376541	223	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	223	18	service	service	NOUN
_003376541	223	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	223	20	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	223	21	always	always	ADV
_003376541	223	22	love	love	VERB
_003376541	223	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	224	1	each	each	PRON
_003376541	224	2	helps	help	VERB
_003376541	224	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	224	4	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	224	5	in	in	ADP
_003376541	224	6	this	this	DET
_003376541	224	7	transformation	transformation	NOUN
_003376541	224	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	224	9	sanctifies	sanctifie	NOUN
_003376541	224	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	224	11	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	224	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	224	13	so	so	SCONJ
_003376541	224	14	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	224	15	their	their	PRON
_003376541	224	16	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	224	17	can	can	AUX
_003376541	224	18	mirror	mirror	VERB
_003376541	224	19	the	the	DET
_003376541	224	20	divine	divine	PROPN
_003376541	224	21	union	union	PROPN
_003376541	224	22	of	of	ADP
_003376541	224	23	christ	christ	PROPN
_003376541	224	24	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	224	25	the	the	DET
_003376541	224	26	church	church	NOUN
_003376541	224	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	225	1	ultimately	ultimately	ADV
_003376541	225	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	225	3	that	that	PRON
_003376541	225	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	225	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	225	6	reason	reason	NOUN
_003376541	225	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	225	8	all	all	DET
_003376541	225	9	adjustment	adjustment	NOUN
_003376541	225	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	225	11	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	225	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	226	1	we	we	PRON
_003376541	226	2	are	be	AUX
_003376541	226	3	not	not	PART
_003376541	226	4	interested	interested	ADJ
_003376541	226	5	in	in	ADP
_003376541	226	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	226	7	mere	mere	ADJ
_003376541	226	8	surface	surface	NOUN
_003376541	226	9	harmony	harmony	NOUN
_003376541	226	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	226	11	in	in	ADP
_003376541	226	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	226	13	comfortable	comfortable	ADJ
_003376541	226	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	226	15	complacent	complacent	ADJ
_003376541	226	16	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	226	17	in	in	ADP
_003376541	226	18	which	which	PRON
_003376541	226	19	two	two	NUM
_003376541	226	20	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	226	21	have	have	AUX
_003376541	226	22	managed	manage	VERB
_003376541	226	23	to	to	PART
_003376541	226	24	fit	fit	VERB
_003376541	226	25	each	each	DET
_003376541	226	26	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	226	27	's	's	PART
_003376541	226	28	personalities	personality	NOUN
_003376541	226	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	227	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	227	2	christian	christian	PROPN
_003376541	227	3	in	in	ADP
_003376541	227	4	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	227	5	wants	want	VERB
_003376541	227	6	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	227	7	to	to	PART
_003376541	227	8	make	make	VERB
_003376541	227	9	him	he	PRON
_003376541	227	10	one	one	NOUN
_003376541	227	11	with	with	ADP
_003376541	227	12	his	his	PRON
_003376541	227	13	spouse	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	227	14	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	227	15	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	227	16	through	through	ADP
_003376541	227	17	this	this	DET
_003376541	227	18	union	union	NOUN
_003376541	227	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	227	20	to	to	PART
_003376541	227	21	lead	lead	VERB
_003376541	227	22	him	he	PRON
_003376541	227	23	to	to	ADP
_003376541	227	24	christ	christ	PROPN
_003376541	227	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	228	1	all	all	DET
_003376541	228	2	changes	change	NOUN
_003376541	228	3	in	in	ADP
_003376541	228	4	himself	himself	PRON
_003376541	228	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	228	6	all	all	DET
_003376541	228	7	lessons	lesson	NOUN
_003376541	228	8	to	to	PART
_003376541	228	9	be	be	AUX
_003376541	228	10	learned	learn	VERB
_003376541	228	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	228	12	he	he	PRON
_003376541	228	13	assumes	assume	VERB
_003376541	228	14	eagerly	eagerly	ADV
_003376541	228	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	228	16	for	for	ADP
_003376541	228	17	through	through	ADP
_003376541	228	18	this	this	DET
_003376541	228	19	purification	purification	NOUN
_003376541	228	20	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	228	21	growth	growth	NOUN
_003376541	228	22	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	228	23	happiness	happiness	NOUN
_003376541	228	24	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	228	25	enduring	endure	VERB
_003376541	228	26	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	228	27	tremendous	tremendous	ADJ
_003376541	228	28	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	228	29	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	228	30	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	228	31	mutual	mutual	ADJ
_003376541	228	32	holiness	holiness	NOUN
_003376541	228	33	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	229	1	15	15	NUM
_003376541	229	2	do	do	AUX
_003376541	229	3	's	be	AUX
_003376541	229	4	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	229	5	do	do	AUX
_003376541	229	6	n't	not	PART
_003376541	229	7	's	be	AUX
_003376541	229	8	for	for	ADP
_003376541	229	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	229	10	happy	happy	ADJ
_003376541	229	11	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	229	12	1	1	NUM
_003376541	229	13	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	229	14	in	in	ADP
_003376541	229	15	your	your	PRON
_003376541	229	16	morning	morning	NOUN
_003376541	229	17	'	'	PART
_003376541	229	18	prayers	prayer	NOUN
_003376541	229	19	each	each	DET
_003376541	229	20	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	229	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	229	22	renew	renew	VERB
_003376541	229	23	your	your	PRON
_003376541	229	24	promise	promise	NOUN
_003376541	229	25	to	to	ADP
_003376541	229	26	god	god	PROPN
_003376541	229	27	to	to	PART
_003376541	229	28	love	love	VERB
_003376541	229	29	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	229	30	honor	honor	NOUN
_003376541	229	31	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	229	32	cherish	cherish	VERB
_003376541	229	33	the	the	DET
_003376541	229	34	helpmate	helpmate	NOUN
_003376541	229	35	he	he	PRON
_003376541	229	36	has	have	AUX
_003376541	229	37	given	give	VERB
_003376541	229	38	you	you	PRON
_003376541	229	39	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	230	1	2	2	X
_003376541	230	2	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	230	3	never	never	ADV
_003376541	230	4	speak	speak	VERB
_003376541	230	5	to	to	ADP
_003376541	230	6	him	he	PRON
_003376541	230	7	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	230	8	her	she	PRON
_003376541	230	9	in	in	ADP
_003376541	230	10	anger	anger	NOUN
_003376541	230	11	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	230	12	do	do	AUX
_003376541	230	13	not	not	PART
_003376541	230	14	answer	answer	VERB
_003376541	230	15	angry	angry	ADJ
_003376541	230	16	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	230	17	in	in	ADP
_003376541	230	18	kind	kind	NOUN
_003376541	230	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	231	1	3	3	X
_003376541	231	2	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	231	3	respect	respect	VERB
_003376541	231	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	231	5	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	231	6	's	's	PART
_003376541	231	7	personal	personal	ADJ
_003376541	231	8	likes	like	NOUN
_003376541	231	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	231	10	dislikes	dislike	NOUN
_003376541	231	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	231	12	preferences	preference	NOUN
_003376541	231	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	231	14	tastes	taste	NOUN
_003376541	231	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	232	1	if-—place	if-—place	VERB
_003376541	232	2	your	your	PRON
_003376541	232	3	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	232	4	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	232	5	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	232	6	before	before	ADP
_003376541	232	7	in	in	ADP
_003376541	232	8	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	232	9	laws	law	NOUN
_003376541	232	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	232	11	all	all	DET
_003376541	232	12	others	other	NOUN
_003376541	232	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	233	1	5	5	X
_003376541	233	2	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	233	3	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	233	4	alcohol	alcohol	NOUN
_003376541	233	5	presents	present	VERB
_003376541	233	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	233	7	danger	danger	NOUN
_003376541	233	8	to	to	ADP
_003376541	233	9	either	either	ADV
_003376541	233	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	233	11	let	let	VERB
_003376541	233	12	both	both	PRON
_003376541	233	13	abstain	abstain	VERB
_003376541	233	14	from	from	ADP
_003376541	233	15	it	it	PRON
_003376541	233	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	234	1	6	6	X
_003376541	234	2	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	234	3	agree	agree	VERB
_003376541	234	4	together	together	ADV
_003376541	234	5	on	on	ADP
_003376541	234	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	234	7	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	234	8	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	234	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	234	10	observe	observe	VERB
_003376541	234	11	it	it	PRON
_003376541	234	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	235	1	7	7	X
_003376541	235	2	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	235	3	avoid	avoid	VERB
_003376541	235	4	all	all	DET
_003376541	235	5	petty	petty	ADJ
_003376541	235	6	nagging	nagging	ADJ
_003376541	235	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	235	8	selfishness	selfishness	NOUN
_003376541	235	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	235	10	jealousy	jealousy	NOUN
_003376541	235	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	236	1	8	8	X
_003376541	236	2	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	236	3	give	give	VERB
_003376541	236	4	frequent	frequent	ADJ
_003376541	236	5	signs	sign	NOUN
_003376541	236	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	236	7	your	your	PRON
_003376541	236	8	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	236	9	through	through	ADP
_003376541	236	10	thoughtful	thoughtful	ADJ
_003376541	236	11	actions	action	NOUN
_003376541	236	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	236	13	gestures	gesture	NOUN
_003376541	236	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	236	15	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	236	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	237	1	9	9	X
_003376541	237	2	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	237	3	make	make	VERB
_003376541	237	4	every	every	DET
_003376541	237	5	effort	effort	NOUN
_003376541	237	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	237	7	share	share	VERB
_003376541	237	8	your	your	PRON
_003376541	237	9	spouse	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	237	10	's	's	PART
_003376541	237	11	interests	interest	NOUN
_003376541	237	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	237	13	hobbies	hobby	NOUN
_003376541	237	14	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	237	15	invite	invite	VERB
_003376541	237	16	him	he	PRON
_003376541	237	17	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	237	18	her	she	PRON
_003376541	237	19	to	to	PART
_003376541	237	20	share	share	VERB
_003376541	237	21	yours	yours	PRON
_003376541	237	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	238	1	10	10	NUM
_003376541	238	2	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	238	3	love	love	VERB
_003376541	238	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	238	5	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	238	6	god	god	PROPN
_003376541	238	7	sends	send	VERB
_003376541	238	8	you	you	PRON
_003376541	238	9	as	as	ADP
_003376541	238	10	his	his	PRON
_003376541	238	11	gift	gift	NOUN
_003376541	238	12	to	to	ADP
_003376541	238	13	you	you	PRON
_003376541	238	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	238	15	as	as	ADP
_003376541	238	16	your	your	PRON
_003376541	238	17	gift	gift	NOUN
_003376541	238	18	to	to	ADP
_003376541	238	19	each	each	DET
_003376541	238	20	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	238	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	239	1	11	11	NUM
_003376541	239	2	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	239	3	pray	pray	VERB
_003376541	239	4	together	together	ADV
_003376541	239	5	each	each	DET
_003376541	239	6	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	239	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	239	8	knowing	know	VERB
_003376541	239	9	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	239	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	239	11	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	239	12	that	that	PRON
_003376541	239	13	prays	pray	VERB
_003376541	239	14	together	together	ADV
_003376541	239	15	stays	stay	VERB
_003376541	239	16	together	together	ADV
_003376541	239	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	240	1	16	16	NUM
_003376541	240	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	240	3	recommended	recommend	VERB
_003376541	240	4	reading	reading	NOUN
_003376541	240	5	list	list	NOUN
_003376541	240	6	caffarel	caffarel	NOUN
_003376541	240	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	240	8	h.	h.	PROPN
_003376541	240	9	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	240	10	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	240	11	is	be	AUX
_003376541	240	12	holy	holy	ADJ
_003376541	240	13	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	240	14	fides	fide	NOUN
_003376541	240	15	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	240	16	$	$	SYM
_003376541	240	17	3.75	3.75	NUM
_003376541	240	18	hildebrand	hildebrand	NOUN
_003376541	240	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	240	20	dietrich	dietrich	PROPN
_003376541	240	21	von	von	PROPN
_003376541	240	22	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	240	23	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	240	24	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	240	25	longmans	longman	NOUN
_003376541	240	26	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	240	27	$	$	SYM
_003376541	240	28	2.25	2.25	NUM
_003376541	240	29	leclercq	leclercq	PROPN
_003376541	240	30	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	240	31	jacques	jacques	PROPN
_003376541	240	32	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	240	33	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	240	34	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	240	35	a	a	DET
_003376541	240	36	great	great	ADJ
_003376541	240	37	sacrament	sacrament	NOUN
_003376541	240	38	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	240	39	macmillan	macmillan	PROPN
_003376541	240	40	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	240	41	$	$	SYM
_003376541	240	42	1.95	1.95	NUM
_003376541	240	43	newland	newland	PROPN
_003376541	240	44	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	240	45	mary	mary	PROPN
_003376541	240	46	reed	reed	PROPN
_003376541	240	47	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	240	48	we	we	PRON
_003376541	240	49	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	240	50	our	our	PRON
_003376541	240	51	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	240	52	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	240	53	kenedy	kenedy	PROPN
_003376541	240	54	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	240	55	$	$	SYM
_003376541	240	56	3.50	3.50	NUM
_003376541	240	57	perkins	perkin	NOUN
_003376541	240	58	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	240	59	mary	mary	PROPN
_003376541	240	60	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	240	61	mrs	mrs	PROPN
_003376541	240	62	.	.	PROPN
_003376541	240	63	ryan	ryan	PROPN
_003376541	240	64	):	):	PUNCT
_003376541	240	65	beginning	begin	VERB
_003376541	240	66	at	at	ADP
_003376541	240	67	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	240	68	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	240	69	liturgical	liturgical	ADJ
_003376541	240	70	press	press	NOUN
_003376541	240	71	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	240	72	$	$	SYM
_003376541	240	73	.90	.90	NUM
_003376541	240	74	sheen	sheen	NOUN
_003376541	240	75	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	240	76	fulton	fulton	PROPN
_003376541	240	77	j.	j.	PROPN
_003376541	240	78	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	240	79	three	three	NUM
_003376541	240	80	to	to	PART
_003376541	240	81	get	get	AUX
_003376541	240	82	married	marry	VERB
_003376541	240	83	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	240	84	appleton	appleton	PROPN
_003376541	240	85	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	240	86	crofts	crofts	PROPN
_003376541	240	87	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	240	88	$	$	SYM
_003376541	240	89	3.50	3.50	NUM
_003376541	240	90	carre	carre	NOUN
_003376541	240	91	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	240	92	companions	companion	NOUN
_003376541	240	93	for	for	ADP
_003376541	240	94	eternity	eternity	NOUN
_003376541	240	95	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	240	96	fides	fide	NOUN
_003376541	240	97	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	240	98	$	$	SYM
_003376541	240	99	.65	.65	NUM
_003376541	240	100	firkel	firkel	NOUN
_003376541	240	101	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	240	102	eva	eva	PROPN
_003376541	240	103	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	240	104	woman	woman	NOUN
_003376541	240	105	in	in	ADP
_003376541	240	106	the	the	DET
_003376541	240	107	modern	modern	ADJ
_003376541	240	108	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	240	109	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	240	110	fides	fide	NOUN
_003376541	240	111	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	240	112	$	$	SYM
_003376541	240	113	3.50	3.50	NUM
_003376541	240	114	geissler	geissler	NOUN
_003376541	240	115	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	240	116	eugene	eugene	PROPN
_003376541	240	117	s.	s.	PROPN
_003376541	240	118	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	240	119	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	240	120	of	of	ADP
_003376541	240	121	the	the	DET
_003376541	240	122	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	240	123	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	240	124	fides	fide	NOUN
_003376541	240	125	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	240	126	$	$	SYM
_003376541	240	127	1.25	1.25	NUM
_003376541	240	128	plus	plus	NOUN
_003376541	240	129	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	240	130	raoul	raoul	PROPN
_003376541	240	131	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	240	132	christ	christ	PROPN
_003376541	240	133	in	in	ADP
_003376541	240	134	the	the	DET
_003376541	240	135	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	240	136	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	240	137	pustet	pustet	NOUN
_003376541	240	138	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	240	139	$	$	SYM
_003376541	240	140	4.25	4.25	NUM
_003376541	240	141	caffarel	caffarel	NOUN
_003376541	240	142	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	240	143	h.	h.	PROPN
_003376541	240	144	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	240	145	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	240	146	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	240	147	grace	grace	NOUN
_003376541	240	148	in	in	ADP
_003376541	240	149	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	240	150	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	240	151	fides	fide	NOUN
_003376541	240	152	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	240	153	$	$	SYM
_003376541	240	154	3.25	3.25	NUM
_003376541	240	155	oraison	oraison	NOUN
_003376541	240	156	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	240	157	marc	marc	PROPN
_003376541	240	158	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	240	159	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	240	160	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	240	161	constraint	constraint	VERB
_003376541	240	162	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	241	1	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	241	2	kenedy	kenedy	PROPN
_003376541	241	3	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	241	4	$	$	SYM
_003376541	241	5	3.75	3.75	NUM
_003376541	241	6	suenens	suenen	NOUN
_003376541	241	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	241	8	leon	leon	PROPN
_003376541	241	9	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	241	10	joseph	joseph	PROPN
_003376541	241	11	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	241	12	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	241	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	241	14	control	control	NOUN
_003376541	241	15	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	241	16	newman	newman	PROPN
_003376541	241	17	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	241	18	$	$	SYM
_003376541	241	19	3.75	3.75	NUM
_003376541	241	20	weyergans	weyergan	NOUN
_003376541	241	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	241	22	franz	franz	PROPN
_003376541	241	23	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	241	24	the	the	DET
_003376541	241	25	long	long	ADJ
_003376541	241	26	adventure	adventure	NOUN
_003376541	241	27	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	241	28	regnery	regnery	NOUN
_003376541	241	29	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	241	30	$	$	SYM
_003376541	241	31	3.50	3.50	NUM
_003376541	241	32	17	17	NUM
_003376541	241	33	finances	finance	NOUN
_003376541	241	34	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	241	35	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	241	36	to	to	PART
_003376541	241	37	budget	budget	VERB
_003376541	241	38	by	by	ADP
_003376541	241	39	robert	robert	PROPN
_003376541	241	40	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	241	41	helen	helen	PROPN
_003376541	241	42	cissell	cissell	VERB
_003376541	241	43	to	to	PART
_003376541	241	44	give	give	VERB
_003376541	241	45	our	our	PRON
_003376541	241	46	students	student	NOUN
_003376541	241	47	in	in	ADP
_003376541	241	48	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	241	49	economics	economic	NOUN
_003376541	241	50	a	a	DET
_003376541	241	51	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	241	52	idea	idea	NOUN
_003376541	241	53	of	of	ADP
_003376541	241	54	the	the	DET
_003376541	241	55	extent	extent	NOUN
_003376541	241	56	to	to	PART
_003376541	241	57	which	which	DET
_003376541	241	58	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	241	59	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	241	60	is	be	AUX
_003376541	241	61	a	a	DET
_003376541	241	62	business	business	NOUN
_003376541	241	63	today	today	NOUN
_003376541	241	64	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	241	65	we	we	PRON
_003376541	241	66	have	have	VERB
_003376541	241	67	them	they	PRON
_003376541	241	68	work	work	VERB
_003376541	241	69	out	out	ADP
_003376541	241	70	a	a	DET
_003376541	241	71	monthly	monthly	ADJ
_003376541	241	72	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	241	73	for	for	ADP
_003376541	241	74	a	a	DET
_003376541	241	75	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	241	76	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	242	1	besides	besides	SCONJ
_003376541	242	2	facts	fact	NOUN
_003376541	242	3	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	242	4	figures	figure	NOUN
_003376541	242	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	242	6	this	this	DET
_003376541	242	7	problem	problem	NOUN
_003376541	242	8	sometimes	sometimes	ADV
_003376541	242	9	reveals	reveal	VERB
_003376541	242	10	unusual	unusual	ADJ
_003376541	242	11	attitudes	attitude	NOUN
_003376541	242	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	243	1	one	one	NUM
_003376541	243	2	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	243	3	man	man	NOUN
_003376541	243	4	turned	turn	VERB
_003376541	243	5	in	in	ADP
_003376541	243	6	his	his	PRON
_003376541	243	7	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	243	8	with	with	ADP
_003376541	243	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	243	10	monthly	monthly	ADJ
_003376541	243	11	allowance	allowance	NOUN
_003376541	243	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	243	13	$	$	SYM
_003376541	243	14	10	10	NUM
_003376541	243	15	for	for	ADP
_003376541	243	16	candy	candy	NOUN
_003376541	243	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	244	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	244	2	explained	explain	VERB
_003376541	244	3	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	244	4	he	he	PRON
_003376541	244	5	had	have	AUX
_003376541	244	6	done	do	VERB
_003376541	244	7	his	his	PRON
_003376541	244	8	homework	homework	NOUN
_003376541	244	9	with	with	ADP
_003376541	244	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	244	11	help	help	NOUN
_003376541	244	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	244	13	his	his	PRON
_003376541	244	14	girl	girl	NOUN
_003376541	244	15	friend	friend	NOUN
_003376541	244	16	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	244	17	every	every	DET
_003376541	244	18	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	244	19	he	he	PRON
_003376541	244	20	put	put	VERB
_003376541	244	21	in	in	ADP
_003376541	244	22	a	a	DET
_003376541	244	23	carton	carton	NOUN
_003376541	244	24	of	of	ADP
_003376541	244	25	cigarettes	cigarette	NOUN
_003376541	244	26	for	for	ADP
_003376541	244	27	himself	himself	PRON
_003376541	244	28	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	244	29	she	she	PRON
_003376541	244	30	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	244	31	a	a	DET
_003376541	244	32	nonsmoker	nonsmoker	NOUN
_003376541	244	33	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	244	34	insisted	insist	VERB
_003376541	244	35	on	on	ADP
_003376541	244	36	a	a	DET
_003376541	244	37	box	box	NOUN
_003376541	244	38	of	of	ADP
_003376541	244	39	candy	candy	NOUN
_003376541	244	40	for	for	ADP
_003376541	244	41	herself	herself	PRON
_003376541	244	42	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	245	1	modern	modern	ADJ
_003376541	245	2	couples	couple	NOUN
_003376541	245	3	run	run	VERB
_003376541	245	4	into	into	ADP
_003376541	245	5	enough	enough	ADJ
_003376541	245	6	troubles	trouble	NOUN
_003376541	245	7	trying	try	VERB
_003376541	245	8	to	to	PART
_003376541	245	9	keep	keep	VERB
_003376541	245	10	up	up	ADP
_003376541	245	11	with	with	ADP
_003376541	245	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	245	13	neighbors	neighbor	NOUN
_003376541	245	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	245	15	without	without	ADP
_003376541	245	16	competing	compete	VERB
_003376541	245	17	with	with	ADP
_003376541	245	18	each	each	DET
_003376541	245	19	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	245	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	246	1	pages	page	NOUN
_003376541	246	2	20	20	NUM
_003376541	246	3	-	-	SYM
_003376541	246	4	21	21	NUM
_003376541	246	5	have	have	VERB
_003376541	246	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	246	7	list	list	NOUN
_003376541	246	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	246	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	246	10	principal	principal	ADJ
_003376541	246	11	items	item	NOUN
_003376541	246	12	for	for	ADP
_003376541	246	13	which	which	PRON
_003376541	246	14	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	246	15	families	family	NOUN
_003376541	246	16	spend	spend	VERB
_003376541	246	17	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	246	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	247	1	any	any	DET
_003376541	247	2	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	247	3	considering	consider	VERB
_003376541	247	4	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	247	5	will	will	AUX
_003376541	247	6	benefit	benefit	VERB
_003376541	247	7	from	from	ADP
_003376541	247	8	filling	fill	VERB
_003376541	247	9	in	in	ADP
_003376541	247	10	this	this	DET
_003376541	247	11	list	list	NOUN
_003376541	247	12	with	with	ADP
_003376541	247	13	estimates	estimate	NOUN
_003376541	247	14	for	for	ADP
_003376541	247	15	their	their	PRON
_003376541	247	16	particular	particular	ADJ
_003376541	247	17	case	case	NOUN
_003376541	247	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	248	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	248	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	248	3	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	248	4	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	248	5	on	on	ADP
_003376541	248	6	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	248	7	items	item	NOUN
_003376541	248	8	you	you	PRON
_003376541	248	9	can	can	AUX
_003376541	248	10	make	make	VERB
_003376541	248	11	only	only	ADV
_003376541	248	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	248	13	guess	guess	NOUN
_003376541	248	14	at	at	ADP
_003376541	248	15	this	this	DET
_003376541	248	16	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	248	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	249	1	even	even	ADV
_003376541	249	2	so	so	ADV
_003376541	249	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	249	4	an	an	DET
_003376541	249	5	evening	evening	NOUN
_003376541	249	6	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	249	7	two	two	NUM
_003376541	249	8	facing	face	VERB
_003376541	249	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	249	10	economic	economic	ADJ
_003376541	249	11	realities	reality	NOUN
_003376541	249	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	249	13	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	249	14	can	can	AUX
_003376541	249	15	be	be	AUX
_003376541	249	16	interesting	interesting	ADJ
_003376541	249	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	249	18	profitable	profitable	ADJ
_003376541	249	19	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	249	20	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	249	21	probably	probably	ADV
_003376541	249	22	a	a	DET
_003376541	249	23	bit	bit	NOUN
_003376541	249	24	sobering	sobering	ADJ
_003376541	249	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	250	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	250	2	your	your	PRON
_003376541	250	3	folks	folk	NOUN
_003376541	250	4	have	have	AUX
_003376541	250	5	been	be	AUX
_003376541	250	6	meeting	meet	VERB
_003376541	250	7	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	250	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	250	9	your	your	PRON
_003376541	250	10	needs	need	NOUN
_003376541	250	11	up	up	ADP
_003376541	250	12	to	to	ADP
_003376541	250	13	now	now	ADV
_003376541	250	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	250	15	this	this	PRON
_003376541	250	16	will	will	AUX
_003376541	250	17	look	look	VERB
_003376541	250	18	like	like	ADP
_003376541	250	19	a	a	DET
_003376541	250	20	long	long	ADJ
_003376541	250	21	list	list	NOUN
_003376541	250	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	251	1	the	the	PRON
_003376541	251	2	sooner	soon	ADV
_003376541	251	3	you	you	PRON
_003376541	251	4	learn	learn	VERB
_003376541	251	5	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	251	6	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	251	7	involves	involve	VERB
_003376541	251	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	251	9	lot	lot	NOUN
_003376541	251	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	251	11	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	251	12	matters	matter	NOUN
_003376541	251	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	251	14	the	the	PRON
_003376541	251	15	better	well	ADJ
_003376541	251	16	will	will	AUX
_003376541	251	17	be	be	AUX
_003376541	251	18	your	your	PRON
_003376541	251	19	chances	chance	NOUN
_003376541	251	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	251	21	avoiding	avoid	VERB
_003376541	251	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	251	23	financial	financial	ADJ
_003376541	251	24	troubles	trouble	NOUN
_003376541	251	25	that	that	PRON
_003376541	251	26	wreck	wreck	VERB
_003376541	251	27	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	251	28	marriages	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	251	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	252	1	we	we	PRON
_003376541	252	2	suggest	suggest	VERB
_003376541	252	3	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	252	4	you	you	PRON
_003376541	252	5	aim	aim	VERB
_003376541	252	6	higher	higher	ADV
_003376541	252	7	than	than	ADP
_003376541	252	8	just	just	ADV
_003376541	252	9	avoiding	avoid	VERB
_003376541	252	10	fighting	fight	VERB
_003376541	252	11	over	over	ADP
_003376541	252	12	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	252	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	252	14	although	although	SCONJ
_003376541	252	15	there	there	PRON
_003376541	252	16	are	be	VERB
_003376541	252	17	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	252	18	couples	couple	NOUN
_003376541	252	19	who	who	PRON
_003376541	252	20	would	would	AUX
_003376541	252	21	be	be	AUX
_003376541	252	22	satisfied	satisfied	ADJ
_003376541	252	23	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	252	24	they	they	PRON
_003376541	252	25	could	could	AUX
_003376541	252	26	get	get	VERB
_003376541	252	27	that	that	PRON
_003376541	252	28	far	far	ADV
_003376541	252	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	253	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	253	2	you	you	PRON
_003376541	253	3	tackle	tackle	VERB
_003376541	253	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	253	5	business	business	NOUN
_003376541	253	6	side	side	NOUN
_003376541	253	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	253	8	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	253	9	properly	properly	ADV
_003376541	253	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	253	11	you	you	PRON
_003376541	253	12	can	can	AUX
_003376541	253	13	make	make	VERB
_003376541	253	14	economics	economic	NOUN
_003376541	253	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	253	16	bond	bond	NOUN
_003376541	253	17	that	that	PRON
_003376541	253	18	will	will	AUX
_003376541	253	19	strengthen	strengthen	VERB
_003376541	253	20	your	your	PRON
_003376541	253	21	union	union	NOUN
_003376541	253	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	254	1	thus	thus	ADV
_003376541	254	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	254	3	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	254	4	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	254	5	management	management	NOUN
_003376541	254	6	can	can	AUX
_003376541	254	7	mean	mean	VERB
_003376541	254	8	more	more	ADV
_003376541	254	9	than	than	ADP
_003376541	254	10	making	make	VERB
_003376541	254	11	ends	end	NOUN
_003376541	254	12	meet	meet	VERB
_003376541	254	13	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	254	14	having	have	VERB
_003376541	254	15	nice	nice	ADJ
_003376541	254	16	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	254	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	255	1	18	18	NUM
_003376541	255	2	before	before	SCONJ
_003376541	255	3	you	you	PRON
_003376541	255	4	plan	plan	VERB
_003376541	255	5	your	your	PRON
_003376541	255	6	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	255	7	before	before	SCONJ
_003376541	255	8	you	you	PRON
_003376541	255	9	work	work	VERB
_003376541	255	10	out	out	ADP
_003376541	255	11	your	your	PRON
_003376541	255	12	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	255	13	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	255	14	for	for	ADP
_003376541	255	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	255	16	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	255	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	255	18	two	two	NUM
_003376541	255	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	255	20	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	255	21	do	do	VERB
_003376541	255	22	two	two	NUM
_003376541	255	23	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	255	24	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	255	25	first	first	ADV
_003376541	255	26	read	read	VERB
_003376541	255	27	this	this	DET
_003376541	255	28	chapter	chapter	NOUN
_003376541	255	29	for	for	ADP
_003376541	255	30	practical	practical	ADJ
_003376541	255	31	suggestions	suggestion	NOUN
_003376541	255	32	based	base	VERB
_003376541	255	33	on	on	ADP
_003376541	255	34	our	our	PRON
_003376541	255	35	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	255	36	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	255	37	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	255	38	ideas	idea	NOUN
_003376541	255	39	gained	gain	VERB
_003376541	255	40	from	from	ADP
_003376541	255	41	teaching	teach	VERB
_003376541	255	42	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	255	43	economics	economic	NOUN
_003376541	255	44	to	to	ADP
_003376541	255	45	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	255	46	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	255	47	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	255	48	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	256	1	then	then	ADV
_003376541	256	2	talk	talk	VERB
_003376541	256	3	to	to	ADP
_003376541	256	4	your	your	PRON
_003376541	256	5	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	256	6	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	256	7	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	256	8	married	married	ADJ
_003376541	256	9	couples	couple	NOUN
_003376541	256	10	to	to	PART
_003376541	256	11	get	get	VERB
_003376541	256	12	ideas	idea	NOUN
_003376541	256	13	from	from	ADP
_003376541	256	14	them	they	PRON
_003376541	256	15	as	as	ADP
_003376541	256	16	to	to	ADP
_003376541	256	17	what	what	PRON
_003376541	256	18	it	it	PRON
_003376541	256	19	costs	cost	VERB
_003376541	256	20	for	for	ADP
_003376541	256	21	various	various	ADJ
_003376541	256	22	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	256	23	items	item	NOUN
_003376541	256	24	in	in	ADP
_003376541	256	25	your	your	PRON
_003376541	256	26	locality	locality	NOUN
_003376541	256	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	257	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	257	2	you	you	PRON
_003376541	257	3	are	be	AUX
_003376541	257	4	still	still	ADV
_003376541	257	5	not	not	PART
_003376541	257	6	convinced	convince	VERB
_003376541	257	7	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	257	8	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	257	9	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	257	10	is	be	AUX
_003376541	257	11	big	big	ADJ
_003376541	257	12	business	business	NOUN
_003376541	257	13	moneywise	moneywise	NOUN
_003376541	257	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	257	15	consider	consider	VERB
_003376541	257	16	just	just	ADV
_003376541	257	17	one	one	NUM
_003376541	257	18	fact	fact	NOUN
_003376541	257	19	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	257	20	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	257	21	your	your	PRON
_003376541	257	22	average	average	ADJ
_003376541	257	23	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	257	24	is	be	AUX
_003376541	257	25	$	$	SYM
_003376541	257	26	5,000	5,000	NUM
_003376541	257	27	a	a	DET
_003376541	257	28	year	year	NOUN
_003376541	257	29	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	257	30	not	not	PART
_003376541	257	31	an	an	DET
_003376541	257	32	unusual	unusual	ADJ
_003376541	257	33	amount	amount	NOUN
_003376541	257	34	today	today	NOUN
_003376541	257	35	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	258	1	you	you	PRON
_003376541	258	2	will	will	AUX
_003376541	258	3	have	have	AUX
_003376541	258	4	made	make	VERB
_003376541	258	5	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	258	6	spent	spend	VERB
_003376541	258	7	$	$	SYM
_003376541	258	8	125,000	125,000	NUM
_003376541	258	9	by	by	ADP
_003376541	258	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	258	11	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	258	12	your	your	PRON
_003376541	258	13	silver	silver	ADJ
_003376541	258	14	anniversary	anniversary	NOUN
_003376541	258	15	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	258	16	around	around	ADV
_003376541	258	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	259	1	such	such	DET
_003376541	259	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	259	3	sum	sum	NOUN
_003376541	259	4	would	would	AUX
_003376541	259	5	be	be	AUX
_003376541	259	6	budgeted	budget	VERB
_003376541	259	7	with	with	ADP
_003376541	259	8	care	care	NOUN
_003376541	259	9	even	even	ADV
_003376541	259	10	by	by	ADP
_003376541	259	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	259	12	large	large	ADJ
_003376541	259	13	corporation	corporation	NOUN
_003376541	259	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	260	1	careful	careful	ADJ
_003376541	260	2	planning	planning	NOUN
_003376541	260	3	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	260	4	wise	wise	ADJ
_003376541	260	5	buying	buying	NOUN
_003376541	260	6	are	be	AUX
_003376541	260	7	much	much	ADV
_003376541	260	8	more	more	ADV
_003376541	260	9	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	260	10	where	where	SCONJ
_003376541	260	11	not	not	PART
_003376541	260	12	only	only	ADV
_003376541	260	13	solvency	solvency	NOUN
_003376541	260	14	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	260	15	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	260	16	happiness	happiness	NOUN
_003376541	260	17	depends	depend	VERB
_003376541	260	18	on	on	ADP
_003376541	260	19	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	260	20	the	the	DET
_003376541	260	21	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	260	22	is	be	AUX
_003376541	260	23	managed	manage	VERB
_003376541	260	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	261	1	essential	essential	ADJ
_003376541	261	2	for	for	ADP
_003376541	261	3	successful	successful	ADJ
_003376541	261	4	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	261	5	management	management	NOUN
_003376541	261	6	is	be	AUX
_003376541	261	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	261	8	realization	realization	NOUN
_003376541	261	9	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	261	10	it	it	PRON
_003376541	261	11	is	be	AUX
_003376541	261	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	261	13	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	261	14	for	for	ADP
_003376541	261	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	261	16	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	261	17	working	work	VERB
_003376541	261	18	together	together	ADV
_003376541	261	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	262	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	262	2	means	mean	VERB
_003376541	262	3	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	262	4	both	both	PRON
_003376541	262	5	should	should	AUX
_003376541	262	6	be	be	AUX
_003376541	262	7	fully	fully	ADV
_003376541	262	8	informed	inform	VERB
_003376541	262	9	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	263	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	263	2	there	there	PRON
_003376541	263	3	is	be	VERB
_003376541	263	4	any	any	DET
_003376541	263	5	engaged	engaged	ADJ
_003376541	263	6	girl	girl	NOUN
_003376541	263	7	reading	read	VERB
_003376541	263	8	this	this	PRON
_003376541	263	9	who	who	PRON
_003376541	263	10	does	do	AUX
_003376541	263	11	not	not	PART
_003376541	263	12	know	know	VERB
_003376541	263	13	what	what	PRON
_003376541	263	14	her	her	PRON
_003376541	263	15	flaneé	flaneé	VERB
_003376541	263	16	is	be	AUX
_003376541	263	17	making	make	VERB
_003376541	263	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	263	19	this	this	PRON
_003376541	263	20	will	will	AUX
_003376541	263	21	give	give	VERB
_003376541	263	22	her	she	PRON
_003376541	263	23	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	263	24	reason	reason	NOUN
_003376541	263	25	to	to	PART
_003376541	263	26	find	find	VERB
_003376541	263	27	out	out	ADP
_003376541	263	28	without	without	ADP
_003376541	263	29	seeming	seem	VERB
_003376541	263	30	nosy	nosy	NOUN
_003376541	263	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	264	1	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	264	2	can	can	AUX
_003376541	264	3	she	she	PRON
_003376541	264	4	be	be	AUX
_003376541	264	5	expected	expect	VERB
_003376541	264	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	264	7	take	take	VERB
_003376541	264	8	over	over	ADP
_003376541	264	9	much	much	ADJ
_003376541	264	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	264	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	264	12	financial	financial	ADJ
_003376541	264	13	management	management	NOUN
_003376541	264	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	264	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	264	16	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	264	17	firm	firm	NOUN
_003376541	264	18	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	264	19	she	she	PRON
_003376541	264	20	does	do	AUX
_003376541	264	21	not	not	PART
_003376541	264	22	know	know	VERB
_003376541	264	23	what	what	PRON
_003376541	264	24	she	she	PRON
_003376541	264	25	will	will	AUX
_003376541	264	26	have	have	VERB
_003376541	264	27	to	to	PART
_003376541	264	28	work	work	VERB
_003376541	264	29	with	with	ADP
_003376541	264	30	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	265	1	while	while	SCONJ
_003376541	265	2	both	both	CCONJ
_003376541	265	3	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	265	4	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	265	5	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	265	6	should	should	AUX
_003376541	265	7	be	be	AUX
_003376541	265	8	completely	completely	ADV
_003376541	265	9	informed	inform	VERB
_003376541	265	10	on	on	ADP
_003376541	265	11	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	265	12	matters	matter	NOUN
_003376541	265	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	265	14	there	there	PRON
_003376541	265	15	will	will	AUX
_003376541	265	16	be	be	AUX
_003376541	265	17	a	a	DET
_003376541	265	18	division	division	NOUN
_003376541	265	19	of	of	ADP
_003376541	265	20	labor	labor	NOUN
_003376541	265	21	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	265	22	it	it	PRON
_003376541	265	23	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	265	24	to	to	ADP
_003376541	265	25	carrying	carry	VERB
_003376541	265	26	out	out	ADP
_003376541	265	27	details	detail	NOUN
_003376541	265	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	266	1	large	large	ADJ
_003376541	266	2	purchases	purchase	NOUN
_003376541	266	3	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	266	4	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	266	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	266	6	car	car	NOUN
_003376541	266	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	266	8	furnishings	furnishing	NOUN
_003376541	266	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	266	10	appliances	appliance	NOUN
_003376541	266	11	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	266	12	should	should	AUX
_003376541	266	13	be	be	AUX
_003376541	266	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	266	15	joint	joint	ADJ
_003376541	266	16	decision	decision	NOUN
_003376541	266	17	after	after	ADP
_003376541	266	18	careful	careful	ADJ
_003376541	266	19	consideration	consideration	NOUN
_003376541	266	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	266	21	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	266	22	needs	need	NOUN
_003376541	266	23	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	266	24	resources	resource	NOUN
_003376541	266	25	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	266	26	shopping	shop	VERB
_003376541	266	27	for	for	ADP
_003376541	266	28	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	266	29	buys	buy	NOUN
_003376541	266	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	267	1	routine	routine	ADJ
_003376541	267	2	purchases	purchase	NOUN
_003376541	267	3	may	may	AUX
_003376541	267	4	well	well	ADV
_003376541	267	5	become	become	VERB
_003376541	267	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	267	7	primary	primary	ADJ
_003376541	267	8	responsibility	responsibility	NOUN
_003376541	267	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	267	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	267	11	one	one	NOUN
_003376541	267	12	best	well	ADV
_003376541	267	13	qualified	qualified	ADJ
_003376541	267	14	to	to	PART
_003376541	267	15	handle	handle	VERB
_003376541	267	16	them	they	PRON
_003376541	267	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	268	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	268	2	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	268	3	families	family	NOUN
_003376541	268	4	this	this	PRON
_003376541	268	5	will	will	AUX
_003376541	268	6	mean	mean	VERB
_003376541	268	7	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	268	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	268	9	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	268	10	will	will	AUX
_003376541	268	11	buy	buy	VERB
_003376541	268	12	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	268	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	268	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	268	15	groceries	grocery	NOUN
_003376541	268	16	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	268	17	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	268	18	's	's	PART
_003376541	268	19	clothing	clothing	NOUN
_003376541	268	20	while	while	SCONJ
_003376541	268	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	268	22	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	268	23	is	be	AUX
_003376541	268	24	responsible	responsible	ADJ
_003376541	268	25	for	for	ADP
_003376541	268	26	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	268	27	items	item	NOUN
_003376541	268	28	as	as	ADP
_003376541	268	29	car	car	NOUN
_003376541	268	30	maintenance	maintenance	NOUN
_003376541	268	31	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	268	32	insurance	insurance	NOUN
_003376541	268	33	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	269	1	regardless	regardless	ADV
_003376541	269	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	269	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	269	4	final	final	ADJ
_003376541	269	5	division	division	NOUN
_003376541	269	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	269	7	responsibility	responsibility	NOUN
_003376541	269	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	269	9	it	it	PRON
_003376541	269	10	should	should	AUX
_003376541	269	11	be	be	AUX
_003376541	269	12	one	one	NUM
_003376541	269	13	that	that	PRON
_003376541	269	14	is	be	AUX
_003376541	269	15	mutually	mutually	ADV
_003376541	269	16	agreeable	agreeable	ADJ
_003376541	269	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	270	1	also	also	ADV
_003376541	270	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	270	3	each	each	PRON
_003376541	270	4	should	should	AUX
_003376541	270	5	know	know	VERB
_003376541	270	6	enough	enough	ADJ
_003376541	270	7	about	about	ADP
_003376541	270	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	270	9	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	270	10	's	's	PART
_003376541	270	11	specialty	specialty	NOUN
_003376541	270	12	to	to	PART
_003376541	270	13	take	take	VERB
_003376541	270	14	over	over	ADP
_003376541	270	15	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	270	16	necessary	necessary	ADJ
_003376541	270	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	271	1	19	19	NUM
_003376541	271	2	planning	plan	VERB
_003376541	271	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	271	4	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	271	5	salary	salary	NOUN
_003376541	271	6	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	271	7	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	271	8	monthly	monthly	ADJ
_003376541	271	9	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	271	10	food	food	NOUN
_003376541	271	11	used	use	VERB
_003376541	271	12	at	at	ADP
_003376541	271	13	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	271	14	•	•	PROPN
_003376541	271	15	meals	meal	VERB
_003376541	271	16	out	out	ADP
_003376541	271	17	rent	rent	NOUN
_003376541	271	18	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	271	19	mortage	mortage	NOUN
_003376541	271	20	payments	payment	NOUN
_003376541	271	21	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	271	22	insurance	insurance	NOUN
_003376541	271	23	on	on	ADP
_003376541	271	24	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	271	25	property	property	NOUN
_003376541	271	26	taxes	taxis	NOUN
_003376541	271	27	repairs	repair	NOUN
_003376541	271	28	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	271	29	upkeep	upkeep	VERB
_003376541	271	30	on	on	ADP
_003376541	271	31	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	271	32	fuel	fuel	NOUN
_003376541	271	33	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	271	34	utilities	utility	NOUN
_003376541	271	35	furnishings	furnishing	NOUN
_003376541	271	36	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	271	37	insurance	insurance	NOUN
_003376541	271	38	on	on	ADP
_003376541	271	39	furnishings	furnishing	NOUN
_003376541	271	40	household	household	NOUN
_003376541	271	41	supplies	supply	NOUN
_003376541	271	42	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	271	43	's	's	PART
_003376541	271	44	clothing	clothing	NOUN
_003376541	271	45	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	271	46	's	's	PART
_003376541	271	47	clothing	clothing	NOUN
_003376541	271	48	laundry	laundry	NOUN
_003376541	271	49	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	271	50	cleaning	clean	VERB
_003376541	271	51	medical	medical	ADJ
_003376541	271	52	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	271	53	dental	dental	ADJ
_003376541	271	54	care	care	NOUN
_003376541	271	55	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	271	56	health	health	NOUN
_003376541	271	57	insurance	insurance	NOUN
_003376541	271	58	2	2	NUM
_003376541	271	59	0	0	NUM
_003376541	271	60	monthly	monthly	ADJ
_003376541	271	61	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	271	62	total	total	ADJ
_003376541	271	63	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	271	64	medicines	medicine	NOUN
_003376541	271	65	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	271	66	drugs	drug	NOUN
_003376541	271	67	automobile	automobile	NOUN
_003376541	271	68	carfare	carfare	NOUN
_003376541	271	69	church	church	NOUN
_003376541	271	70	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	271	71	charity	charity	NOUN
_003376541	271	72	gifts	gift	NOUN
_003376541	271	73	dues	due	NOUN
_003376541	271	74	recreation	recreation	NOUN
_003376541	271	75	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	271	76	reading	read	VERB
_003376541	271	77	material	material	NOUN
_003376541	271	78	tobacco	tobacco	NOUN
_003376541	271	79	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	271	80	beverages	beverage	NOUN
_003376541	271	81	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	271	82	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	271	83	candy	candy	NOUN
_003376541	271	84	personal	personal	ADJ
_003376541	271	85	care	care	NOUN
_003376541	271	86	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	271	87	insurance	insurance	NOUN
_003376541	271	88	social	social	ADJ
_003376541	271	89	security	security	NOUN
_003376541	271	90	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	271	91	tax	tax	NOUN
_003376541	271	92	miscellaneous	miscellaneous	ADJ
_003376541	271	93	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	271	94	classes	class	NOUN
_003376541	271	95	of	of	ADP
_003376541	271	96	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	271	97	for	for	ADP
_003376541	271	98	your	your	PRON
_003376541	271	99	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	271	100	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	271	101	as	as	ADP
_003376541	271	102	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	271	103	hobbies	hobby	NOUN
_003376541	271	104	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	271	105	school	school	NOUN
_003376541	271	106	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	271	107	etc	etc	X
_003376541	271	108	.	.	X
_003376541	271	109	savings	saving	NOUN
_003376541	271	110	total	total	NOUN
_003376541	271	111	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	271	112	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	271	113	buying	buying	NOUN
_003376541	271	114	techniques	technique	NOUN
_003376541	271	115	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	271	116	which	which	PRON
_003376541	271	117	are	be	AUX
_003376541	271	118	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	271	119	in	in	ADP
_003376541	271	120	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	271	121	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	271	122	management	management	NOUN
_003376541	271	123	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	271	124	can	can	AUX
_003376541	271	125	be	be	AUX
_003376541	271	126	acquired	acquire	VERB
_003376541	271	127	by	by	ADP
_003376541	271	128	study	study	NOUN
_003376541	271	129	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	271	130	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	271	131	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	272	1	even	even	ADV
_003376541	272	2	more	more	ADV
_003376541	272	3	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	272	4	than	than	ADP
_003376541	272	5	techniques	technique	NOUN
_003376541	272	6	are	be	AUX
_003376541	272	7	right	right	ADJ
_003376541	272	8	attitudes	attitude	NOUN
_003376541	272	9	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	273	1	you	you	PRON
_003376541	273	2	should	should	AUX
_003376541	273	3	start	start	VERB
_003376541	273	4	your	your	PRON
_003376541	273	5	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	273	6	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	273	7	with	with	ADP
_003376541	273	8	these	these	PRON
_003376541	273	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	273	10	hold	hold	VERB
_003376541	273	11	fast	fast	ADV
_003376541	273	12	to	to	ADP
_003376541	273	13	them	they	PRON
_003376541	273	14	in	in	ADP
_003376541	273	15	spite	spite	NOUN
_003376541	273	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	273	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	273	18	pressure	pressure	NOUN
_003376541	273	19	of	of	ADP
_003376541	273	20	advertising	advertising	NOUN
_003376541	273	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	273	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	273	23	neighbor	neighbor	NOUN
_003376541	273	24	's	's	PART
_003376541	273	25	conspicuous	conspicuous	ADJ
_003376541	273	26	consumption	consumption	NOUN
_003376541	273	27	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	273	28	your	your	PRON
_003376541	273	29	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	273	30	wants	want	NOUN
_003376541	273	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	274	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	274	2	best	good	ADJ
_003376541	274	3	basis	basis	NOUN
_003376541	274	4	we	we	PRON
_003376541	274	5	have	have	AUX
_003376541	274	6	found	find	VERB
_003376541	274	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	274	8	forming	form	VERB
_003376541	274	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	274	10	set	set	NOUN
_003376541	274	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	274	12	right	right	ADJ
_003376541	274	13	attitudes	attitude	NOUN
_003376541	274	14	goes	go	VERB
_003376541	274	15	back	back	ADV
_003376541	274	16	to	to	ADP
_003376541	274	17	st	st	PROPN
_003376541	274	18	.	.	PROPN
_003376541	274	19	thomas	thomas	PROPN
_003376541	274	20	aquinas	aquinas	PROPN
_003376541	274	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	275	1	before	before	SCONJ
_003376541	275	2	you	you	PRON
_003376541	275	3	dismiss	dismiss	VERB
_003376541	275	4	this	this	DET
_003376541	275	5	13th	13th	ADJ
_003376541	275	6	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	275	7	century	century	NOUN
_003376541	275	8	theologian	theologian	NOUN
_003376541	275	9	as	as	ADP
_003376541	275	10	knowing	know	VERB
_003376541	275	11	nothing	nothing	PRON
_003376541	275	12	about	about	ADP
_003376541	275	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	275	14	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	275	15	problems	problem	NOUN
_003376541	275	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	275	17	a	a	DET
_003376541	275	18	modern	modern	ADJ
_003376541	275	19	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	275	20	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	275	21	take	take	VERB
_003376541	275	22	a	a	DET
_003376541	275	23	look	look	NOUN
_003376541	275	24	at	at	ADP
_003376541	275	25	his	his	PRON
_003376541	275	26	logical	logical	ADJ
_003376541	275	27	division	division	NOUN
_003376541	275	28	of	of	ADP
_003376541	275	29	material	material	NOUN
_003376541	275	30	goods	good	NOUN
_003376541	275	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	276	1	what	what	PRON
_003376541	276	2	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	276	3	first	first	ADV
_003376541	276	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	276	5	second	second	ADJ
_003376541	276	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	276	7	third	third	ADJ
_003376541	276	8	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	277	1	first	first	ADV
_003376541	277	2	there	there	PRON
_003376541	277	3	are	be	VERB
_003376541	277	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	277	5	absolute	absolute	ADJ
_003376541	277	6	necessities	necessity	NOUN
_003376541	277	7	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	277	8	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	277	9	as	as	ADP
_003376541	277	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	277	11	basic	basic	ADJ
_003376541	277	12	food	food	NOUN
_003376541	277	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	277	14	clothing	clothing	NOUN
_003376541	277	15	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	277	16	shelter	shelter	NOUN
_003376541	277	17	required	require	VERB
_003376541	277	18	to	to	PART
_003376541	277	19	live	live	VERB
_003376541	277	20	decently	decently	ADV
_003376541	277	21	as	as	ADP
_003376541	277	22	a	a	DET
_003376541	277	23	human	human	ADJ
_003376541	277	24	being	being	NOUN
_003376541	277	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	278	1	these	these	PRON
_003376541	278	2	come	come	VERB
_003376541	278	3	first	first	ADV
_003376541	278	4	in	in	ADP
_003376541	278	5	your	your	PRON
_003376541	278	6	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	278	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	278	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	278	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	278	10	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	278	11	should	should	AUX
_003376541	278	12	not	not	PART
_003376541	278	13	marry	marry	VERB
_003376541	278	14	until	until	SCONJ
_003376541	278	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	278	16	man	man	NOUN
_003376541	278	17	's	's	PART
_003376541	278	18	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	278	19	is	be	AUX
_003376541	278	20	adequate	adequate	ADJ
_003376541	278	21	to	to	PART
_003376541	278	22	provide	provide	VERB
_003376541	278	23	these	these	PRON
_003376541	278	24	for	for	ADP
_003376541	278	25	two	two	NUM
_003376541	278	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	279	1	let	let	VERB
_003376541	279	2	no	no	DET
_003376541	279	3	one	one	NOUN
_003376541	279	4	kid	kid	VERB
_003376541	279	5	you	you	PRON
_003376541	279	6	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	279	7	it	it	PRON
_003376541	279	8	does	do	AUX
_003376541	279	9	cost	cost	VERB
_003376541	279	10	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	279	11	for	for	ADP
_003376541	279	12	two	two	NUM
_003376541	279	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	280	1	next	next	ADV
_003376541	280	2	come	come	VERB
_003376541	280	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	280	4	conditioned	condition	VERB
_003376541	280	5	necessities	necessity	NOUN
_003376541	280	6	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	280	7	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	280	8	needed	need	VERB
_003376541	280	9	for	for	SCONJ
_003376541	280	10	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	280	11	to	to	PART
_003376541	280	12	carry	carry	VERB
_003376541	280	13	out	out	ADP
_003376541	280	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	280	15	duties	duty	NOUN
_003376541	280	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	280	17	their	their	PRON
_003376541	280	18	state	state	NOUN
_003376541	280	19	in	in	ADP
_003376541	280	20	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	280	21	according	accord	VERB
_003376541	280	22	to	to	ADP
_003376541	280	23	the	the	DET
_003376541	280	24	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	280	25	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	280	26	place	place	NOUN
_003376541	280	27	in	in	ADP
_003376541	280	28	which	which	PRON
_003376541	280	29	they	they	PRON
_003376541	280	30	live	live	VERB
_003376541	280	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	281	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	281	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	281	3	what	what	PRON
_003376541	281	4	makes	make	VERB
_003376541	281	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	281	6	st	st	PROPN
_003376541	281	7	.	.	PROPN
_003376541	281	8	thomas	thomas	PROPN
_003376541	281	9	approach	approach	VERB
_003376541	281	10	to	to	ADP
_003376541	281	11	budgeting	budget	VERB
_003376541	281	12	so	so	ADV
_003376541	281	13	modern	modern	ADJ
_003376541	281	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	282	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	282	2	relates	relate	VERB
_003376541	282	3	your	your	PRON
_003376541	282	4	spending	spending	NOUN
_003376541	282	5	plan	plan	NOUN
_003376541	282	6	to	to	ADP
_003376541	282	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	282	8	needs	need	NOUN
_003376541	282	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	282	10	your	your	PRON
_003376541	282	11	vocation	vocation	NOUN
_003376541	282	12	in	in	ADP
_003376541	282	13	1961	1961	NUM
_003376541	282	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	283	1	examples	example	NOUN
_003376541	283	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	283	3	conditioned	condition	VERB
_003376541	283	4	necessities	necessity	NOUN
_003376541	283	5	for	for	ADP
_003376541	283	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	283	7	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	283	8	today	today	NOUN
_003376541	283	9	are	be	AUX
_003376541	283	10	some	some	DET
_003376541	283	11	household	household	NOUN
_003376541	283	12	appliances	appliance	NOUN
_003376541	283	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	283	14	books	book	NOUN
_003376541	283	15	for	for	ADP
_003376541	283	16	school	school	NOUN
_003376541	283	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	283	18	a	a	DET
_003376541	283	19	car	car	NOUN
_003376541	283	20	for	for	ADP
_003376541	283	21	business	business	NOUN
_003376541	283	22	purposes	purpose	NOUN
_003376541	283	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	284	1	again	again	ADV
_003376541	284	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	284	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	284	4	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	284	5	is	be	AUX
_003376541	284	6	not	not	PART
_003376541	284	7	economically	economically	ADV
_003376541	284	8	ready	ready	ADJ
_003376541	284	9	for	for	ADP
_003376541	284	10	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	284	11	unless	unless	SCONJ
_003376541	284	12	there	there	PRON
_003376541	284	13	is	be	VERB
_003376541	284	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	284	15	reasonable	reasonable	ADJ
_003376541	284	16	chance	chance	NOUN
_003376541	284	17	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	284	18	they	they	PRON
_003376541	284	19	will	will	AUX
_003376541	284	20	be	be	AUX
_003376541	284	21	able	able	ADJ
_003376541	284	22	to	to	PART
_003376541	284	23	afford	afford	VERB
_003376541	284	24	the	the	DET
_003376541	284	25	conditioned	condition	VERB
_003376541	284	26	necessities	necessity	NOUN
_003376541	284	27	for	for	ADP
_003376541	284	28	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	284	29	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	284	30	on	on	ADP
_003376541	284	31	the	the	DET
_003376541	284	32	man	man	NOUN
_003376541	284	33	's	's	PART
_003376541	284	34	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	284	35	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	285	1	finally	finally	ADV
_003376541	285	2	come	come	VERB
_003376541	285	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	285	4	luxuries	luxury	NOUN
_003376541	285	5	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	285	6	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	285	7	not	not	PART
_003376541	285	8	needed	need	VERB
_003376541	285	9	for	for	ADP
_003376541	285	10	either	either	DET
_003376541	285	11	decent	decent	ADJ
_003376541	285	12	living	living	NOUN
_003376541	285	13	as	as	ADP
_003376541	285	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	285	15	human	human	ADJ
_003376541	285	16	being	being	NOUN
_003376541	285	17	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	285	18	maintaining	maintain	VERB
_003376541	285	19	a	a	DET
_003376541	285	20	wholesome	wholesome	ADJ
_003376541	285	21	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	285	22	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	285	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	286	1	applying	apply	VERB
_003376541	286	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	286	3	st	st	PROPN
_003376541	286	4	.	.	PROPN
_003376541	286	5	thomas	thomas	PROPN
_003376541	286	6	budget	budget	PROPN
_003376541	286	7	is	be	AUX
_003376541	286	8	simple-—in	simple-—in	ADJ
_003376541	286	9	theory	theory	NOUN
_003376541	286	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	286	11	at	at	ADP
_003376541	286	12	least	least	ADJ
_003376541	286	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	287	1	you	you	PRON
_003376541	287	2	make	make	VERB
_003376541	287	3	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	287	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	287	5	your	your	PRON
_003376541	287	6	purchases	purchase	NOUN
_003376541	287	7	on	on	ADP
_003376541	287	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	287	9	priority	priority	NOUN
_003376541	287	10	basis	basis	NOUN
_003376541	287	11	that	that	PRON
_003376541	287	12	follows	follow	VERB
_003376541	287	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	287	14	above	above	ADJ
_003376541	287	15	order	order	NOUN
_003376541	287	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	288	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	288	2	practice	practice	NOUN
_003376541	288	3	you	you	PRON
_003376541	288	4	will	will	AUX
_003376541	288	5	find	find	VERB
_003376541	288	6	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	288	7	22	22	NUM
_003376541	288	8	will	will	AUX
_003376541	288	9	power	power	NOUN
_003376541	288	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	288	11	common	common	ADJ
_003376541	288	12	sense	sense	NOUN
_003376541	288	13	are	be	AUX
_003376541	288	14	necessary	necessary	ADJ
_003376541	288	15	to	to	PART
_003376541	288	16	make	make	VERB
_003376541	288	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	288	18	theory	theory	NOUN
_003376541	288	19	work	work	NOUN
_003376541	288	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	289	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	289	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	289	3	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	289	4	feel	feel	VERB
_003376541	289	5	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	289	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	289	7	color	color	NOUN
_003376541	289	8	television	television	NOUN
_003376541	289	9	is	be	AUX
_003376541	289	10	an	an	DET
_003376541	289	11	absolute	absolute	ADJ
_003376541	289	12	necessity	necessity	NOUN
_003376541	289	13	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	289	14	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	289	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	289	16	boat	boat	NOUN
_003376541	289	17	has	have	VERB
_003376541	289	18	priority	priority	NOUN
_003376541	289	19	over	over	ADP
_003376541	289	20	necessary	necessary	ADJ
_003376541	289	21	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	289	22	appliances	appliance	NOUN
_003376541	289	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	289	24	they	they	PRON
_003376541	289	25	should	should	AUX
_003376541	289	26	not	not	PART
_003376541	289	27	expect	expect	VERB
_003376541	289	28	to	to	PART
_003376541	289	29	have	have	VERB
_003376541	289	30	an	an	DET
_003376541	289	31	economically	economically	ADV
_003376541	289	32	satisfactory	satisfactory	ADJ
_003376541	289	33	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	289	34	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	289	35	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	290	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	290	2	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	290	3	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	290	4	should	should	AUX
_003376541	290	5	start	start	VERB
_003376541	290	6	simply	simply	ADV
_003376541	290	7	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	291	1	they	they	PRON
_003376541	291	2	should	should	AUX
_003376541	291	3	not	not	PART
_003376541	291	4	start	start	VERB
_003376541	291	5	housekeeping	housekeep	VERB
_003376541	291	6	with	with	ADP
_003376541	291	7	all	all	DET
_003376541	291	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	291	9	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	291	10	it	it	PRON
_003376541	291	11	has	have	AUX
_003376541	291	12	taken	take	VERB
_003376541	291	13	their	their	PRON
_003376541	291	14	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	291	15	25	25	NUM
_003376541	291	16	years	year	NOUN
_003376541	291	17	to	to	PART
_003376541	291	18	accumulate	accumulate	VERB
_003376541	291	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	292	1	combine	combine	VERB
_003376541	292	2	simplicity	simplicity	NOUN
_003376541	292	3	with	with	ADP
_003376541	292	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	292	5	st	st	PROPN
_003376541	292	6	.	.	PROPN
_003376541	292	7	thomas	thomas	PROPN
_003376541	292	8	order	order	NOUN
_003376541	292	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	292	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	292	11	you	you	PRON
_003376541	292	12	have	have	VERB
_003376541	292	13	a	a	DET
_003376541	292	14	sound	sound	ADJ
_003376541	292	15	foundation	foundation	NOUN
_003376541	292	16	on	on	ADP
_003376541	292	17	which	which	PRON
_003376541	292	18	to	to	PART
_003376541	292	19	build	build	VERB
_003376541	292	20	the	the	DET
_003376541	292	21	business	business	NOUN
_003376541	292	22	side	side	NOUN
_003376541	292	23	of	of	ADP
_003376541	292	24	your	your	PRON
_003376541	292	25	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	292	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	293	1	you	you	PRON
_003376541	293	2	will	will	AUX
_003376541	293	3	have	have	VERB
_003376541	293	4	no	no	DET
_003376541	293	5	trouble	trouble	NOUN
_003376541	293	6	deciding	decide	VERB
_003376541	293	7	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	293	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	293	9	balanced	balanced	ADJ
_003376541	293	10	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	293	11	with	with	ADP
_003376541	293	12	its	its	PRON
_003376541	293	13	peace	peace	NOUN
_003376541	293	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	293	15	security	security	NOUN
_003376541	293	16	is	be	AUX
_003376541	293	17	a	a	DET
_003376541	293	18	lot	lot	NOUN
_003376541	293	19	more	more	ADV
_003376541	293	20	desirable	desirable	ADJ
_003376541	293	21	than	than	ADP
_003376541	293	22	an	an	DET
_003376541	293	23	expensive	expensive	ADJ
_003376541	293	24	car	car	NOUN
_003376541	293	25	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	293	26	exclusive	exclusive	ADJ
_003376541	293	27	neighborhood	neighborhood	NOUN
_003376541	293	28	with	with	ADP
_003376541	293	29	resulting	result	VERB
_003376541	293	30	high	high	ADJ
_003376541	293	31	interest	interest	NOUN
_003376541	293	32	charges	charge	NOUN
_003376541	293	33	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	293	34	living	live	VERB
_003376541	293	35	continually	continually	ADV
_003376541	293	36	on	on	ADP
_003376541	293	37	the	the	DET
_003376541	293	38	brink	brink	NOUN
_003376541	293	39	of	of	ADP
_003376541	293	40	financial	financial	ADJ
_003376541	293	41	disaster	disaster	NOUN
_003376541	293	42	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	294	1	successful	successful	ADJ
_003376541	294	2	businesses	business	NOUN
_003376541	294	3	have	have	VERB
_003376541	294	4	accounting	accounting	NOUN
_003376541	294	5	systems	system	NOUN
_003376541	294	6	that	that	PRON
_003376541	294	7	enable	enable	VERB
_003376541	294	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	294	9	management	management	NOUN
_003376541	294	10	to	to	PART
_003376541	294	11	know	know	VERB
_003376541	294	12	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	294	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	294	14	firm	firm	NOUN
_003376541	294	15	is	be	AUX
_003376541	294	16	doing	do	VERB
_003376541	294	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	295	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	295	2	same	same	ADJ
_003376541	295	3	is	be	AUX
_003376541	295	4	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	295	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	295	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	295	7	well	well	ADV
_003376541	295	8	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	295	9	run	run	VERB
_003376541	295	10	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	295	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	296	1	here	here	ADV
_003376541	296	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	296	3	however	however	ADV
_003376541	296	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	296	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	296	6	records	record	NOUN
_003376541	296	7	can	can	AUX
_003376541	296	8	be	be	AUX
_003376541	296	9	simple	simple	ADJ
_003376541	296	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	296	11	an	an	DET
_003376541	296	12	exact	exact	ADJ
_003376541	296	13	balance	balance	NOUN
_003376541	296	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	296	15	while	while	SCONJ
_003376541	296	16	nice	nice	ADJ
_003376541	296	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	296	18	is	be	AUX
_003376541	296	19	not	not	PART
_003376541	296	20	absolutely	absolutely	ADV
_003376541	296	21	necessary	necessary	ADJ
_003376541	296	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	297	1	for	for	ADP
_003376541	297	2	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	297	3	records	record	NOUN
_003376541	297	4	you	you	PRON
_003376541	297	5	can	can	AUX
_003376541	297	6	use	use	VERB
_003376541	297	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	297	8	printed	print	VERB
_003376541	297	9	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	297	10	book	book	NOUN
_003376541	297	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	298	1	we	we	PRON
_003376541	298	2	prefer	prefer	VERB
_003376541	298	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	298	4	spiral	spiral	ADJ
_003376541	298	5	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	298	6	bound	bind	VERB
_003376541	298	7	notebook	notebook	NOUN
_003376541	298	8	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	299	1	across	across	ADP
_003376541	299	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	299	3	top	top	NOUN
_003376541	299	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	299	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	299	6	double	double	ADJ
_003376541	299	7	page	page	NOUN
_003376541	299	8	you	you	PRON
_003376541	299	9	put	put	VERB
_003376541	299	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	299	11	column	column	NOUN
_003376541	299	12	headings	heading	NOUN
_003376541	299	13	for	for	ADP
_003376541	299	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	299	15	common	common	ADJ
_003376541	299	16	classes	class	NOUN
_003376541	299	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	299	18	expenditures	expenditure	NOUN
_003376541	299	19	in	in	ADP
_003376541	299	20	your	your	PRON
_003376541	299	21	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	299	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	300	1	after	after	SCONJ
_003376541	300	2	you	you	PRON
_003376541	300	3	fill	fill	VERB
_003376541	300	4	in	in	ADP
_003376541	300	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	300	6	monthly	monthly	ADJ
_003376541	300	7	estimates	estimate	NOUN
_003376541	300	8	in	in	ADP
_003376541	300	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	300	10	table	table	NOUN
_003376541	300	11	in	in	ADP
_003376541	300	12	this	this	DET
_003376541	300	13	article	article	NOUN
_003376541	300	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	300	15	you	you	PRON
_003376541	300	16	will	will	AUX
_003376541	300	17	have	have	VERB
_003376541	300	18	a	a	DET
_003376541	300	19	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	300	20	idea	idea	NOUN
_003376541	300	21	of	of	ADP
_003376541	300	22	column	column	NOUN
_003376541	300	23	headings	heading	NOUN
_003376541	300	24	that	that	PRON
_003376541	300	25	will	will	AUX
_003376541	300	26	serve	serve	VERB
_003376541	300	27	as	as	ADP
_003376541	300	28	a	a	DET
_003376541	300	29	starting	starting	NOUN
_003376541	300	30	point	point	NOUN
_003376541	300	31	for	for	ADP
_003376541	300	32	your	your	PRON
_003376541	300	33	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	300	34	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	301	1	down	down	ADP
_003376541	301	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	301	3	side	side	NOUN
_003376541	301	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	301	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	301	6	page	page	NOUN
_003376541	301	7	you	you	PRON
_003376541	301	8	list	list	VERB
_003376541	301	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	301	10	days	day	NOUN
_003376541	301	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	301	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	301	13	month	month	NOUN
_003376541	301	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	302	1	that	that	PRON
_003376541	302	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	302	3	all	all	PRON
_003376541	302	4	there	there	PRON
_003376541	302	5	is	be	VERB
_003376541	302	6	to	to	ADP
_003376541	302	7	it	it	PRON
_003376541	302	8	except	except	SCONJ
_003376541	302	9	remembering	remember	VERB
_003376541	302	10	to	to	PART
_003376541	302	11	enter	enter	VERB
_003376541	302	12	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	302	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	303	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	303	2	such	such	DET
_003376541	303	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	303	4	book	book	NOUN
_003376541	303	5	you	you	PRON
_003376541	303	6	can	can	AUX
_003376541	303	7	keep	keep	VERB
_003376541	303	8	records	record	NOUN
_003376541	303	9	for	for	ADP
_003376541	303	10	several	several	ADJ
_003376541	303	11	years	year	NOUN
_003376541	303	12	for	for	ADP
_003376541	303	13	easy	easy	ADJ
_003376541	303	14	reference	reference	NOUN
_003376541	303	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	304	1	simple	simple	ADJ
_003376541	304	2	records	record	NOUN
_003376541	304	3	will	will	AUX
_003376541	304	4	be	be	AUX
_003376541	304	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	304	6	great	great	ADJ
_003376541	304	7	value	value	NOUN
_003376541	304	8	to	to	ADP
_003376541	304	9	you	you	PRON
_003376541	304	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	304	11	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	304	12	ways	way	NOUN
_003376541	304	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	305	1	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	305	2	tax	tax	NOUN
_003376541	305	3	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	305	4	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	305	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	305	6	you	you	PRON
_003376541	305	7	will	will	AUX
_003376541	305	8	have	have	VERB
_003376541	305	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	305	10	record	record	NOUN
_003376541	305	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	305	12	everything	everything	PRON
_003376541	305	13	that	that	PRON
_003376541	305	14	can	can	AUX
_003376541	305	15	be	be	AUX
_003376541	305	16	claimed	claim	VERB
_003376541	305	17	as	as	ADP
_003376541	305	18	deductions	deduction	NOUN
_003376541	305	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	306	1	should	should	AUX
_003376541	306	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	306	3	internal	internal	ADJ
_003376541	306	4	revenue	revenue	NOUN
_003376541	306	5	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	306	6	call	call	VERB
_003376541	306	7	you	you	PRON
_003376541	306	8	in	in	ADP
_003376541	306	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	306	10	discuss	discuss	VERB
_003376541	306	11	your	your	PRON
_003376541	306	12	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	306	13	tax	tax	NOUN
_003376541	306	14	report	report	NOUN
_003376541	306	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	306	16	your	your	PRON
_003376541	306	17	records	record	NOUN
_003376541	306	18	may	may	AUX
_003376541	306	19	make	make	VERB
_003376541	306	20	this	this	PRON
_003376541	306	21	a	a	DET
_003376541	306	22	less	less	ADV
_003376541	306	23	unpleasant	unpleasant	ADJ
_003376541	306	24	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	306	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	307	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	307	2	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	307	3	get	get	VERB
_003376541	307	4	out	out	ADP
_003376541	307	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	307	6	line	line	NOUN
_003376541	307	7	with	with	ADP
_003376541	307	8	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	307	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	307	10	records	record	NOUN
_003376541	307	11	will	will	AUX
_003376541	307	12	help	help	VERB
_003376541	307	13	you	you	PRON
_003376541	307	14	find	find	VERB
_003376541	307	15	leaks	leak	NOUN
_003376541	307	16	that	that	PRON
_003376541	307	17	can	can	AUX
_003376541	307	18	be	be	AUX
_003376541	307	19	plugged	plug	VERB
_003376541	307	20	to	to	PART
_003376541	307	21	get	get	VERB
_003376541	307	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	307	23	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	307	24	back	back	ADV
_003376541	307	25	on	on	ADP
_003376541	307	26	a	a	DET
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_003376541	307	28	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	307	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	308	1	budgeting	budgeting	NOUN
_003376541	308	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	308	3	much	much	ADV
_003376541	308	4	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	308	5	than	than	ADP
_003376541	308	6	record	record	NOUN
_003376541	308	7	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	308	8	keeping	keeping	NOUN
_003376541	308	9	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	309	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	309	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	309	3	also	also	ADV
_003376541	309	4	23	23	NUM
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_003376541	309	6	ahead	ahead	ADV
_003376541	309	7	by	by	ADP
_003376541	309	8	using	use	VERB
_003376541	309	9	past	past	ADJ
_003376541	309	10	records	record	NOUN
_003376541	309	11	as	as	ADP
_003376541	309	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	309	13	guide	guide	NOUN
_003376541	309	14	to	to	ADP
_003376541	309	15	future	future	ADJ
_003376541	309	16	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	309	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	310	1	anticipate	anticipate	VERB
_003376541	310	2	large	large	ADJ
_003376541	310	3	fixed	fix	VERB
_003376541	310	4	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	310	5	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	310	6	as	as	ADP
_003376541	310	7	insurance	insurance	NOUN
_003376541	310	8	premiums	premium	NOUN
_003376541	310	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	310	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	310	11	then	then	ADV
_003376541	310	12	prorate	prorate	VERB
_003376541	310	13	them	they	PRON
_003376541	310	14	on	on	ADP
_003376541	310	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	310	16	monthly	monthly	ADJ
_003376541	310	17	basis	basis	NOUN
_003376541	310	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	311	1	your	your	PRON
_003376541	311	2	objective	objective	NOUN
_003376541	311	3	should	should	AUX
_003376541	311	4	be	be	AUX
_003376541	311	5	to	to	PART
_003376541	311	6	have	have	VERB
_003376541	311	7	enough	enough	ADJ
_003376541	311	8	cash	cash	NOUN
_003376541	311	9	on	on	ADP
_003376541	311	10	hand	hand	NOUN
_003376541	311	11	to	to	PART
_003376541	311	12	meet	meet	VERB
_003376541	311	13	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	311	14	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	311	15	without	without	ADP
_003376541	311	16	having	have	VERB
_003376541	311	17	to	to	PART
_003376541	311	18	resort	resort	VERB
_003376541	311	19	to	to	ADP
_003376541	311	20	costly	costly	ADJ
_003376541	311	21	credit	credit	NOUN
_003376541	311	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	312	1	after	after	SCONJ
_003376541	312	2	you	you	PRON
_003376541	312	3	get	get	VERB
_003376541	312	4	an	an	DET
_003376541	312	5	estimate	estimate	NOUN
_003376541	312	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	312	7	your	your	PRON
_003376541	312	8	average	average	ADJ
_003376541	312	9	monthly	monthly	ADJ
_003376541	312	10	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	312	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	312	12	divide	divide	VERB
_003376541	312	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	312	14	annual	annual	ADJ
_003376541	312	15	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	312	16	on	on	ADP
_003376541	312	17	which	which	PRON
_003376541	312	18	you	you	PRON
_003376541	312	19	can	can	AUX
_003376541	312	20	depend	depend	VERB
_003376541	312	21	by	by	ADP
_003376541	312	22	12	12	NUM
_003376541	312	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	312	24	should	should	AUX
_003376541	312	25	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	312	26	exceed	exceed	VERB
_003376541	312	27	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	312	28	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	312	29	check	check	VERB
_003376541	312	30	your	your	PRON
_003376541	312	31	work	work	NOUN
_003376541	312	32	sheet	sheet	NOUN
_003376541	312	33	for	for	ADP
_003376541	312	34	possible	possible	ADJ
_003376541	312	35	economies	economy	NOUN
_003376541	312	36	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	313	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	313	2	your	your	PRON
_003376541	313	3	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	313	4	does	do	AUX
_003376541	313	5	not	not	PART
_003376541	313	6	balance	balance	VERB
_003376541	313	7	on	on	ADP
_003376541	313	8	paper	paper	NOUN
_003376541	313	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	313	10	do	do	AUX
_003376541	313	11	not	not	PART
_003376541	313	12	expect	expect	VERB
_003376541	313	13	it	it	PRON
_003376541	313	14	to	to	PART
_003376541	313	15	work	work	VERB
_003376541	313	16	out	out	ADP
_003376541	313	17	somehow	somehow	ADV
_003376541	313	18	in	in	ADP
_003376541	313	19	practice	practice	NOUN
_003376541	313	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	314	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	314	2	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	314	3	cost	cost	NOUN
_003376541	314	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	314	5	credit	credit	NOUN
_003376541	314	6	over	over	ADP
_003376541	314	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	314	8	long	long	ADJ
_003376541	314	9	run	run	NOUN
_003376541	314	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	314	11	one	one	NUM
_003376541	314	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	314	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	314	14	best	good	ADJ
_003376541	314	15	ways	way	NOUN
_003376541	314	16	to	to	PART
_003376541	314	17	save	save	VERB
_003376541	314	18	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	314	19	is	be	AUX
_003376541	314	20	to	to	PART
_003376541	314	21	operate	operate	VERB
_003376541	314	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	314	23	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	314	24	finances	finance	NOUN
_003376541	314	25	on	on	ADP
_003376541	314	26	a	a	DET
_003376541	314	27	cash	cash	NOUN
_003376541	314	28	basis	basis	NOUN
_003376541	314	29	in	in	ADP
_003376541	314	30	so	so	ADV
_003376541	314	31	f	f	PROPN
_003376541	314	32	a	a	DET
_003376541	314	33	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	314	34	as	as	ADP
_003376541	314	35	possible	possible	ADJ
_003376541	314	36	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	315	1	doing	do	VERB
_003376541	315	2	this	this	PRON
_003376541	315	3	may	may	AUX
_003376541	315	4	seem	seem	VERB
_003376541	315	5	odd	odd	ADJ
_003376541	315	6	in	in	ADP
_003376541	315	7	times	time	NOUN
_003376541	315	8	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	315	9	being	be	AUX
_003376541	315	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	315	11	debt	debt	NOUN
_003376541	315	12	is	be	AUX
_003376541	315	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	315	14	accepted	accepted	ADJ
_003376541	315	15	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	315	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	315	17	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	315	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	316	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	316	2	odd	odd	ADJ
_003376541	316	3	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	316	4	not	not	PART
_003376541	316	5	it	it	PRON
_003376541	316	6	is	be	AUX
_003376541	316	7	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	316	8	business	business	NOUN
_003376541	316	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	316	10	will	will	AUX
_003376541	316	11	result	result	VERB
_003376541	316	12	in	in	ADP
_003376541	316	13	your	your	PRON
_003376541	316	14	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	316	15	not	not	PART
_003376541	316	16	only	only	ADV
_003376541	316	17	being	be	AUX
_003376541	316	18	more	more	ADV
_003376541	316	19	secure	secure	ADJ
_003376541	316	20	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	316	21	happy	happy	ADJ
_003376541	316	22	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	316	23	also	also	ADV
_003376541	316	24	able	able	ADJ
_003376541	316	25	to	to	PART
_003376541	316	26	afford	afford	VERB
_003376541	316	27	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	316	28	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	316	29	than	than	ADP
_003376541	316	30	the	the	DET
_003376541	316	31	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	316	32	that	that	PRON
_003376541	316	33	is	be	AUX
_003376541	316	34	continually	continually	ADV
_003376541	316	35	in	in	ADP
_003376541	316	36	debt	debt	NOUN
_003376541	316	37	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	317	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	317	2	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	317	3	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	317	4	knew	know	VERB
_003376541	317	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	317	6	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	317	7	cost	cost	NOUN
_003376541	317	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	317	9	credit	credit	NOUN
_003376541	317	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	317	11	there	there	PRON
_003376541	317	12	would	would	AUX
_003376541	317	13	be	be	AUX
_003376541	317	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	317	15	lot	lot	NOUN
_003376541	317	16	less	less	ADJ
_003376541	317	17	living	live	VERB
_003376541	317	18	on	on	ADP
_003376541	317	19	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	317	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	318	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	318	2	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	318	3	source	source	NOUN
_003376541	318	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	318	5	credit	credit	NOUN
_003376541	318	6	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	318	7	table	table	NOUN
_003376541	318	8	given	give	VERB
_003376541	318	9	below	below	ADV
_003376541	318	10	will	will	AUX
_003376541	318	11	give	give	VERB
_003376541	318	12	you	you	PRON
_003376541	318	13	an	an	DET
_003376541	318	14	idea	idea	NOUN
_003376541	318	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	318	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	318	17	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	318	18	cost	cost	NOUN
_003376541	318	19	of	of	ADP
_003376541	318	20	using	use	VERB
_003376541	318	21	credit	credit	NOUN
_003376541	318	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	319	1	source	source	NOUN
_003376541	319	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	319	3	credit	credit	NOUN
_003376541	319	4	common	common	ADJ
_003376541	319	5	rates	rate	NOUN
_003376541	319	6	insurance	insurance	NOUN
_003376541	319	7	policies	policy	NOUN
_003376541	319	8	4	4	NUM
_003376541	319	9	6	6	NUM
_003376541	319	10	%	%	NOUN
_003376541	319	11	credit	credit	NOUN
_003376541	319	12	unions	union	NOUN
_003376541	319	13	9	9	NUM
_003376541	319	14	-12	-12	SPACE
_003376541	319	15	%	%	NOUN
_003376541	319	16	commercial	commercial	ADJ
_003376541	319	17	banks	bank	NOUN
_003376541	319	18	12	12	NUM
_003376541	319	19	-18	-18	SPACE
_003376541	319	20	%	%	NOUN
_003376541	319	21	automobile	automobile	NOUN
_003376541	319	22	finance	finance	NOUN
_003376541	319	23	companies	company	NOUN
_003376541	319	24	12	12	NUM
_003376541	319	25	-24	-24	SPACE
_003376541	319	26	%	%	NOUN
_003376541	319	27	licensed	licensed	ADJ
_003376541	319	28	small	small	ADJ
_003376541	319	29	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	319	30	loan	loan	NOUN
_003376541	319	31	companies	company	NOUN
_003376541	319	32	24	24	NUM
_003376541	319	33	-42	-42	SPACE
_003376541	319	34	%	%	NOUN
_003376541	319	35	installment	installment	NOUN
_003376541	319	36	sellers	seller	NOUN
_003376541	319	37	12	12	NUM
_003376541	319	38	-25	-25	SPACE
_003376541	319	39	%	%	NOUN
_003376541	319	40	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	319	41	up	up	ADP
_003376541	319	42	!	!	PUNCT
_003376541	320	1	loan	loan	NOUN
_003376541	320	2	sharks	shark	VERB
_003376541	320	3	120	120	NUM
_003376541	320	4	-1200	-1200	NOUN
_003376541	320	5	%	%	NOUN
_003376541	320	6	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	320	7	up	up	ADV
_003376541	320	8	!	!	PUNCT
_003376541	321	1	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	321	2	we	we	PRON
_003376541	321	3	teach	teach	VERB
_003376541	321	4	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	321	5	economics	economic	NOUN
_003376541	321	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	321	7	we	we	PRON
_003376541	321	8	have	have	VERB
_003376541	321	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	321	10	students	student	NOUN
_003376541	321	11	go	go	VERB
_003376541	321	12	out	out	ADP
_003376541	321	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	321	14	get	get	VERB
_003376541	321	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	321	16	credit	credit	NOUN
_003376541	321	17	terms	term	NOUN
_003376541	321	18	for	for	ADP
_003376541	321	19	something	something	PRON
_003376541	321	20	in	in	ADP
_003376541	321	21	which	which	PRON
_003376541	321	22	they	they	PRON
_003376541	321	23	are	be	AUX
_003376541	321	24	24	24	NUM
_003376541	321	25	interested	interested	ADJ
_003376541	321	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	322	1	then	then	ADV
_003376541	322	2	they	they	PRON
_003376541	322	3	figure	figure	VERB
_003376541	322	4	out	out	ADP
_003376541	322	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	322	6	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	322	7	rate	rate	NOUN
_003376541	322	8	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	323	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	323	2	one	one	NUM
_003376541	323	3	case	case	NOUN
_003376541	323	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	323	5	boy	boy	NOUN
_003376541	323	6	said	say	VERB
_003376541	323	7	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	323	8	he	he	PRON
_003376541	323	9	was	be	AUX
_003376541	323	10	ahead	ahead	ADV
_003376541	323	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	323	12	us	we	PRON
_003376541	323	13	on	on	ADP
_003376541	323	14	this	this	DET
_003376541	323	15	assignment	assignment	NOUN
_003376541	323	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	324	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	324	2	had	have	AUX
_003376541	324	3	just	just	ADV
_003376541	324	4	purchased	purchase	VERB
_003376541	324	5	something	something	PRON
_003376541	324	6	on	on	ADP
_003376541	324	7	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	324	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	324	9	would	would	AUX
_003376541	324	10	not	not	PART
_003376541	324	11	have	have	VERB
_003376541	324	12	to	to	PART
_003376541	324	13	go	go	VERB
_003376541	324	14	shopping	shop	VERB
_003376541	324	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	325	1	so	so	ADV
_003376541	325	2	we	we	PRON
_003376541	325	3	made	make	VERB
_003376541	325	4	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	325	5	even	even	ADV
_003376541	325	6	simpler	simple	ADJ
_003376541	325	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	325	8	him	he	PRON
_003376541	325	9	by	by	ADP
_003376541	325	10	taking	take	VERB
_003376541	325	11	his	his	PRON
_003376541	325	12	data	datum	NOUN
_003376541	325	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	325	14	working	work	VERB
_003376541	325	15	out	out	ADP
_003376541	325	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	325	17	problem	problem	NOUN
_003376541	325	18	as	as	ADP
_003376541	325	19	an	an	DET
_003376541	325	20	example	example	NOUN
_003376541	325	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	326	1	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	326	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	326	3	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	326	4	rate	rate	NOUN
_003376541	326	5	came	come	VERB
_003376541	326	6	out	out	ADP
_003376541	326	7	to	to	ADP
_003376541	326	8	over	over	ADP
_003376541	326	9	90	90	NUM
_003376541	326	10	per	per	NOUN
_003376541	326	11	cent	cent	NOUN
_003376541	326	12	he	he	PRON
_003376541	326	13	wished	wish	VERB
_003376541	326	14	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	326	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	326	16	assignment	assignment	NOUN
_003376541	326	17	had	have	AUX
_003376541	326	18	come	come	VERB
_003376541	326	19	a	a	DET
_003376541	326	20	little	little	ADJ
_003376541	326	21	earlier	early	ADV
_003376541	326	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	327	1	thus	thus	ADV
_003376541	327	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	327	3	while	while	SCONJ
_003376541	327	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	327	5	rates	rate	NOUN
_003376541	327	6	in	in	ADP
_003376541	327	7	this	this	DET
_003376541	327	8	chart	chart	NOUN
_003376541	327	9	are	be	AUX
_003376541	327	10	typical	typical	ADJ
_003376541	327	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	327	12	individual	individual	ADJ
_003376541	327	13	cases	case	NOUN
_003376541	327	14	can	can	AUX
_003376541	327	15	be	be	AUX
_003376541	327	16	much	much	ADV
_003376541	327	17	higher	high	ADJ
_003376541	327	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	328	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	328	2	you	you	PRON
_003376541	328	3	are	be	AUX
_003376541	328	4	thinking	think	VERB
_003376541	328	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	328	6	buying	buy	VERB
_003376541	328	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	328	8	necessity	necessity	NOUN
_003376541	328	9	on	on	ADP
_003376541	328	10	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	328	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	328	12	we	we	PRON
_003376541	328	13	suggest	suggest	VERB
_003376541	328	14	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	328	15	you	you	PRON
_003376541	328	16	check	check	VERB
_003376541	328	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	328	18	rate	rate	NOUN
_003376541	328	19	very	very	ADV
_003376541	328	20	carefully	carefully	ADV
_003376541	328	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	329	1	you	you	PRON
_003376541	329	2	will	will	AUX
_003376541	329	3	find	find	VERB
_003376541	329	4	great	great	ADJ
_003376541	329	5	differences	difference	NOUN
_003376541	329	6	in	in	ADP
_003376541	329	7	interest	interest	NOUN
_003376541	329	8	charges	charge	NOUN
_003376541	329	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	329	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	329	11	you	you	PRON
_003376541	329	12	might	might	AUX
_003376541	329	13	as	as	ADV
_003376541	329	14	well	well	ADV
_003376541	329	15	get	get	VERB
_003376541	329	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	329	17	least	least	ADV
_003376541	329	18	expensive	expensive	ADJ
_003376541	329	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	330	1	better	well	ADJ
_003376541	330	2	yet	yet	ADV
_003376541	330	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	330	4	pay	pay	VERB
_003376541	330	5	cash	cash	NOUN
_003376541	330	6	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	330	7	use	use	VERB
_003376541	330	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	330	9	charge	charge	NOUN
_003376541	330	10	account	account	NOUN
_003376541	330	11	on	on	ADP
_003376541	330	12	which	which	PRON
_003376541	330	13	there	there	PRON
_003376541	330	14	is	be	VERB
_003376541	330	15	no	no	DET
_003376541	330	16	carrying	carry	VERB
_003376541	330	17	charge	charge	NOUN
_003376541	330	18	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	330	19	paid	pay	VERB
_003376541	330	20	within	within	ADP
_003376541	330	21	a	a	DET
_003376541	330	22	certain	certain	ADJ
_003376541	330	23	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	330	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	331	1	not	not	PART
_003376541	331	2	only	only	ADV
_003376541	331	3	will	will	AUX
_003376541	331	4	you	you	PRON
_003376541	331	5	save	save	VERB
_003376541	331	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	331	7	lot	lot	NOUN
_003376541	331	8	on	on	ADP
_003376541	331	9	interest	interest	NOUN
_003376541	331	10	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	331	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	331	12	buyer	buyer	NOUN
_003376541	331	13	with	with	ADP
_003376541	331	14	cash	cash	NOUN
_003376541	331	15	can	can	AUX
_003376541	331	16	sometimes	sometimes	ADV
_003376541	331	17	get	get	VERB
_003376541	331	18	a	a	DET
_003376541	331	19	substantial	substantial	ADJ
_003376541	331	20	discount	discount	NOUN
_003376541	331	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	332	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	332	2	professional	professional	ADJ
_003376541	332	3	buyers	buyer	NOUN
_003376541	332	4	for	for	ADP
_003376541	332	5	business	business	NOUN
_003376541	332	6	look	look	NOUN
_003376541	332	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	332	8	these	these	DET
_003376541	332	9	ways	way	NOUN
_003376541	332	10	to	to	PART
_003376541	332	11	save	save	VERB
_003376541	332	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	333	1	your	your	PRON
_003376541	333	2	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	333	3	will	will	AUX
_003376541	333	4	benefit	benefit	VERB
_003376541	333	5	from	from	ADP
_003376541	333	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	333	7	same	same	ADJ
_003376541	333	8	sound	sound	NOUN
_003376541	333	9	practices	practice	NOUN
_003376541	333	10	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	334	1	25	25	NUM
_003376541	334	2	earn	earn	NOUN
_003376541	334	3	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	334	4	by	by	ADP
_003376541	334	5	not	not	PART
_003376541	334	6	working	work	VERB
_003376541	334	7	now	now	ADV
_003376541	334	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	334	9	before	before	SCONJ
_003376541	334	10	you	you	PRON
_003376541	334	11	are	be	AUX
_003376541	334	12	married	married	ADJ
_003376541	334	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	334	14	is	be	AUX
_003376541	334	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	334	16	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	334	17	to	to	PART
_003376541	334	18	start	start	VERB
_003376541	334	19	building	build	VERB
_003376541	334	20	up	up	ADP
_003376541	334	21	a	a	DET
_003376541	334	22	cash	cash	NOUN
_003376541	334	23	reserve	reserve	NOUN
_003376541	334	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	335	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	335	2	you	you	PRON
_003376541	335	3	ca	can	AUX
_003376541	335	4	n't	not	PART
_003376541	335	5	do	do	VERB
_003376541	335	6	it	it	PRON
_003376541	335	7	now	now	ADV
_003376541	335	8	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	335	9	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	335	10	are	be	AUX
_003376541	335	11	low	low	ADJ
_003376541	335	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	335	13	perhaps	perhaps	ADV
_003376541	335	14	you	you	PRON
_003376541	335	15	are	be	AUX
_003376541	335	16	both	both	PRON
_003376541	335	17	working	work	VERB
_003376541	335	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	335	19	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	335	20	are	be	AUX
_003376541	335	21	you	you	PRON
_003376541	335	22	going	go	VERB
_003376541	335	23	to	to	PART
_003376541	335	24	make	make	VERB
_003376541	335	25	it	it	PRON
_003376541	335	26	later	later	ADV
_003376541	335	27	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	335	28	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	335	29	are	be	AUX
_003376541	335	30	up	up	ADV
_003376541	335	31	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	335	32	you	you	PRON
_003376541	335	33	are	be	AUX
_003376541	335	34	operating	operate	VERB
_003376541	335	35	on	on	ADP
_003376541	335	36	one	one	NUM
_003376541	335	37	pay	pay	NOUN
_003376541	335	38	check	check	NOUN
_003376541	335	39	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	336	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	336	2	you	you	PRON
_003376541	336	3	get	get	VERB
_003376541	336	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	336	5	impression	impression	NOUN
_003376541	336	6	from	from	ADP
_003376541	336	7	this	this	PRON
_003376541	336	8	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	336	9	we	we	PRON
_003376541	336	10	favor	favor	VERB
_003376541	336	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	336	12	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	336	13	's	's	PART
_003376541	336	14	working	work	VERB
_003376541	336	15	at	at	ADP
_003376541	336	16	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	336	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	336	18	you	you	PRON
_003376541	336	19	are	be	AUX
_003376541	336	20	right	right	ADJ
_003376541	336	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	337	1	not	not	PART
_003376541	337	2	only	only	ADV
_003376541	337	3	is	be	AUX
_003376541	337	4	there	there	PRON
_003376541	337	5	plenty	plenty	ADJ
_003376541	337	6	for	for	SCONJ
_003376541	337	7	her	she	PRON
_003376541	337	8	to	to	PART
_003376541	337	9	do	do	VERB
_003376541	337	10	there	there	ADV
_003376541	337	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	337	12	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	337	13	she	she	PRON
_003376541	337	14	does	do	VERB
_003376541	337	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	337	16	topnotch	topnotch	NOUN
_003376541	337	17	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	337	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	337	19	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	337	20	management	management	NOUN
_003376541	337	21	she	she	PRON
_003376541	337	22	may	may	AUX
_003376541	337	23	in	in	ADP
_003376541	337	24	the	the	DET
_003376541	337	25	long	long	ADJ
_003376541	337	26	run	run	NOUN
_003376541	337	27	contribute	contribute	VERB
_003376541	337	28	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	337	29	to	to	ADP
_003376541	337	30	the	the	DET
_003376541	337	31	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	337	32	's	's	PART
_003376541	337	33	real	real	ADJ
_003376541	337	34	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	337	35	than	than	SCONJ
_003376541	337	36	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	337	37	she	she	PRON
_003376541	337	38	took	take	VERB
_003376541	337	39	a	a	DET
_003376541	337	40	routine	routine	ADJ
_003376541	337	41	factory	factory	NOUN
_003376541	337	42	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	337	43	office	office	NOUN
_003376541	337	44	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	337	45	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	338	1	by	by	ADP
_003376541	338	2	real	real	ADJ
_003376541	338	3	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	338	4	we	we	PRON
_003376541	338	5	mean	mean	VERB
_003376541	338	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	338	7	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	338	8	goods	good	NOUN
_003376541	338	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	338	10	services	service	NOUN
_003376541	338	11	which	which	PRON
_003376541	338	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	338	13	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	338	14	needs	need	VERB
_003376541	338	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	339	1	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	339	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	339	3	these	these	PRON
_003376541	339	4	can	can	AUX
_003376541	339	5	be	be	AUX
_003376541	339	6	purchased	purchase	VERB
_003376541	339	7	with	with	ADP
_003376541	339	8	cash	cash	NOUN
_003376541	339	9	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	339	10	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	339	11	be	be	AUX
_003376541	339	12	provided	provide	VERB
_003376541	339	13	by	by	ADP
_003376541	339	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	339	15	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	339	16	at	at	ADP
_003376541	339	17	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	339	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	340	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	340	2	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	340	3	may	may	AUX
_003376541	340	4	mean	mean	VERB
_003376541	340	5	so	so	ADV
_003376541	340	6	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	340	7	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	340	8	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	340	9	for	for	ADP
_003376541	340	10	food	food	NOUN
_003376541	340	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	340	12	clothing	clothing	NOUN
_003376541	340	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	340	14	taxes	taxis	NOUN
_003376541	340	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	340	16	transportation	transportation	NOUN
_003376541	340	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	340	18	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	340	19	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	340	20	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	340	21	connected	connect	VERB
_003376541	340	22	outlays	outlay	NOUN
_003376541	340	23	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	340	24	the	the	DET
_003376541	340	25	goods	good	NOUN
_003376541	340	26	purchased	purchase	VERB
_003376541	340	27	by	by	ADP
_003376541	340	28	the	the	DET
_003376541	340	29	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	340	30	's	's	PART
_003376541	340	31	net	net	ADJ
_003376541	340	32	cash	cash	NOUN
_003376541	340	33	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	340	34	are	be	AUX
_003376541	340	35	less	less	ADJ
_003376541	340	36	in	in	ADP
_003376541	340	37	value	value	NOUN
_003376541	340	38	than	than	ADP
_003376541	340	39	the	the	DET
_003376541	340	40	real	real	ADJ
_003376541	340	41	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	340	42	that	that	PRON
_003376541	340	43	would	would	AUX
_003376541	340	44	result	result	VERB
_003376541	340	45	from	from	ADP
_003376541	340	46	her	she	PRON
_003376541	340	47	doing	do	VERB
_003376541	340	48	a	a	DET
_003376541	340	49	better	well	ADJ
_003376541	340	50	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	340	51	at	at	ADP
_003376541	340	52	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	340	53	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	341	1	besides	besides	SCONJ
_003376541	341	2	being	be	AUX
_003376541	341	3	handy	handy	ADJ
_003376541	341	4	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	341	5	you	you	PRON
_003376541	341	6	go	go	VERB
_003376541	341	7	shopping	shop	VERB
_003376541	341	8	for	for	ADP
_003376541	341	9	furnishings	furnishing	NOUN
_003376541	341	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	341	11	appliances	appliance	NOUN
_003376541	341	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	341	13	your	your	PRON
_003376541	341	14	cash	cash	NOUN
_003376541	341	15	reserve	reserve	NOUN
_003376541	341	16	will	will	AUX
_003376541	341	17	be	be	AUX
_003376541	341	18	a	a	DET
_003376541	341	19	tremendous	tremendous	ADJ
_003376541	341	20	help	help	NOUN
_003376541	341	21	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	341	22	you	you	PRON
_003376541	341	23	are	be	AUX
_003376541	341	24	in	in	ADP
_003376541	341	25	the	the	DET
_003376541	341	26	market	market	NOUN
_003376541	341	27	for	for	ADP
_003376541	341	28	a	a	DET
_003376541	341	29	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	341	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	342	1	here	here	ADV
_003376541	342	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	342	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	342	4	legitimate	legitimate	ADJ
_003376541	342	5	use	use	NOUN
_003376541	342	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	342	7	credit	credit	NOUN
_003376541	342	8	for	for	ADP
_003376541	342	9	families	family	NOUN
_003376541	342	10	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	343	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	343	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	343	3	interest	interest	NOUN
_003376541	343	4	costs	cost	NOUN
_003376541	343	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	343	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	343	7	longterm	longterm	NOUN
_003376541	343	8	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	343	9	loan	loan	NOUN
_003376541	343	10	are	be	AUX
_003376541	343	11	almost	almost	ADV
_003376541	343	12	unbelievable	unbelievable	ADJ
_003376541	343	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	344	1	for	for	ADP
_003376541	344	2	example	example	NOUN
_003376541	344	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	344	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	344	5	$	$	SYM
_003376541	344	6	10,000	10,000	NUM
_003376541	344	7	loan	loan	NOUN
_003376541	344	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	344	9	not	not	PART
_003376541	344	10	at	at	ADV
_003376541	344	11	all	all	ADV
_003376541	344	12	uncommon	uncommon	ADJ
_003376541	344	13	today	today	NOUN
_003376541	344	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	344	15	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	344	16	it	it	PRON
_003376541	344	17	is	be	AUX
_003376541	344	18	made	make	VERB
_003376541	344	19	at	at	ADP
_003376541	344	20	six	six	NUM
_003376541	344	21	per	per	NOUN
_003376541	344	22	cent	cent	NOUN
_003376541	344	23	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	344	24	paid	pay	VERB
_003376541	344	25	off	off	ADP
_003376541	344	26	over	over	ADP
_003376541	344	27	20	20	NUM
_003376541	344	28	years	year	NOUN
_003376541	344	29	will	will	AUX
_003376541	344	30	have	have	VERB
_003376541	344	31	total	total	ADJ
_003376541	344	32	interest	interest	NOUN
_003376541	344	33	charges	charge	NOUN
_003376541	344	34	of	of	ADP
_003376541	344	35	$	$	SYM
_003376541	344	36	7,194	7,194	NUM
_003376541	344	37	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	345	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	345	2	30	30	NUM
_003376541	345	3	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	345	4	year	year	NOUN
_003376541	345	5	loan	loan	NOUN
_003376541	345	6	at	at	ADP
_003376541	345	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	345	8	same	same	ADJ
_003376541	345	9	rate	rate	NOUN
_003376541	345	10	will	will	AUX
_003376541	345	11	result	result	VERB
_003376541	345	12	in	in	ADP
_003376541	345	13	interest	interest	NOUN
_003376541	345	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	345	15	$	$	SYM
_003376541	345	16	11,584	11,584	NUM
_003376541	345	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	346	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	346	2	these	these	DET
_003376541	346	3	figures	figure	NOUN
_003376541	346	4	shock	shock	VERB
_003376541	346	5	you	you	PRON
_003376541	346	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	346	7	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	346	8	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	347	1	let	let	VERB
_003376541	347	2	's	us	PRON
_003376541	347	3	hope	hope	VERB
_003376541	347	4	they	they	PRON
_003376541	347	5	shock	shock	VERB
_003376541	347	6	you	you	PRON
_003376541	347	7	enough	enough	ADV
_003376541	347	8	to	to	PART
_003376541	347	9	get	get	VERB
_003376541	347	10	you	you	PRON
_003376541	347	11	to	to	PART
_003376541	347	12	avoid	avoid	VERB
_003376541	347	13	unnecessary	unnecessary	ADJ
_003376541	347	14	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	347	15	now	now	ADV
_003376541	347	16	in	in	ADP
_003376541	347	17	favor	favor	NOUN
_003376541	347	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	347	19	saving	save	VERB
_003376541	347	20	for	for	ADP
_003376541	347	21	a	a	DET
_003376541	347	22	down	down	ADJ
_003376541	347	23	payment	payment	NOUN
_003376541	347	24	on	on	ADP
_003376541	347	25	a	a	DET
_003376541	347	26	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	347	27	that	that	PRON
_003376541	347	28	will	will	AUX
_003376541	347	29	substantially	substantially	ADV
_003376541	347	30	reduce	reduce	VERB
_003376541	347	31	these	these	DET
_003376541	347	32	interest	interest	NOUN
_003376541	347	33	charges	charge	NOUN
_003376541	347	34	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	348	1	another	another	DET
_003376541	348	2	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	348	3	to	to	PART
_003376541	348	4	reduce	reduce	VERB
_003376541	348	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	348	6	cost	cost	NOUN
_003376541	348	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	348	8	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	348	9	owning	owning	NOUN
_003376541	348	10	is	be	AUX
_003376541	348	11	to	to	PART
_003376541	348	12	shop	shop	VERB
_003376541	348	13	for	for	ADP
_003376541	348	14	credit	credit	NOUN
_003376541	348	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	349	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	349	2	you	you	PRON
_003376541	349	3	were	be	AUX
_003376541	349	4	to	to	PART
_003376541	349	5	get	get	VERB
_003376541	349	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	349	7	above	above	ADJ
_003376541	349	8	loan	loan	NOUN
_003376541	349	9	at	at	ADP
_003376541	349	10	five	five	NUM
_003376541	349	11	per	per	ADP
_003376541	349	12	cent	cent	NOUN
_003376541	349	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	349	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	349	15	interest	interest	NOUN
_003376541	349	16	charge	charge	NOUN
_003376541	349	17	for	for	ADP
_003376541	349	18	a	a	DET
_003376541	349	19	20	20	NUM
_003376541	349	20	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	349	21	year	year	NOUN
_003376541	349	22	loan	loan	NOUN
_003376541	349	23	would	would	AUX
_003376541	349	24	be	be	AUX
_003376541	349	25	$	$	SYM
_003376541	349	26	5,839	5,839	NUM
_003376541	349	27	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	349	28	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	349	29	for	for	ADP
_003376541	349	30	a	a	DET
_003376541	349	31	30	30	NUM
_003376541	349	32	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	349	33	year	year	NOUN
_003376541	349	34	loan	loan	NOUN
_003376541	349	35	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	349	36	$	$	SYM
_003376541	349	37	9,329	9,329	NUM
_003376541	349	38	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	350	1	still	still	ADV
_003376541	350	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	350	3	lot	lot	NOUN
_003376541	350	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	350	5	interest	interest	NOUN
_003376541	350	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	350	7	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	350	8	for	for	ADP
_003376541	350	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	350	10	26	26	NUM
_003376541	350	11	20	20	NUM
_003376541	350	12	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	350	13	year	year	NOUN
_003376541	350	14	loan	loan	NOUN
_003376541	350	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	350	16	saving	saving	NOUN
_003376541	350	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	350	18	$	$	SYM
_003376541	350	19	1,355	1,355	NUM
_003376541	350	20	over	over	ADP
_003376541	350	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	350	22	six	six	NUM
_003376541	350	23	per	per	NOUN
_003376541	350	24	cent	cent	NOUN
_003376541	350	25	value	value	NOUN
_003376541	350	26	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	350	27	for	for	ADP
_003376541	350	28	the	the	DET
_003376541	350	29	30	30	NUM
_003376541	350	30	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	350	31	year	year	NOUN
_003376541	350	32	loan	loan	NOUN
_003376541	350	33	a	a	DET
_003376541	350	34	savings	saving	NOUN
_003376541	350	35	of	of	ADP
_003376541	350	36	$	$	SYM
_003376541	350	37	2,255	2,255	NUM
_003376541	350	38	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	351	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	351	2	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	351	3	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	351	4	two	two	NUM
_003376541	351	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	351	6	shopping	shopping	NOUN
_003376541	351	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	351	8	credit	credit	NOUN
_003376541	351	9	is	be	AUX
_003376541	351	10	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	351	11	well	well	ADV
_003376541	351	12	spent	spend	VERB
_003376541	351	13	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	351	14	it	it	PRON
_003376541	351	15	results	result	VERB
_003376541	351	16	in	in	ADP
_003376541	351	17	savings	saving	NOUN
_003376541	351	18	like	like	ADP
_003376541	351	19	these	these	PRON
_003376541	351	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	352	1	speaking	speak	VERB
_003376541	352	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	352	3	saving	save	VERB
_003376541	352	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	352	5	we	we	PRON
_003376541	352	6	would	would	AUX
_003376541	352	7	like	like	VERB
_003376541	352	8	to	to	PART
_003376541	352	9	put	put	VERB
_003376541	352	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	352	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	352	12	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	352	13	word	word	NOUN
_003376541	352	14	for	for	ADP
_003376541	352	15	little	little	ADJ
_003376541	352	16	savings	saving	NOUN
_003376541	352	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	353	1	since	since	SCONJ
_003376541	353	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	353	3	nickel	nickel	NOUN
_003376541	353	4	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	353	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	353	6	dime	dime	NOUN
_003376541	353	7	buys	buy	VERB
_003376541	353	8	so	so	ADV
_003376541	353	9	little	little	ADJ
_003376541	353	10	these	these	DET
_003376541	353	11	days	day	NOUN
_003376541	353	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	353	13	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	353	14	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	353	15	wonder	wonder	VERB
_003376541	353	16	why	why	SCONJ
_003376541	353	17	bother	bother	VERB
_003376541	353	18	with	with	ADP
_003376541	353	19	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	353	20	small	small	ADJ
_003376541	353	21	savings	saving	NOUN
_003376541	353	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	354	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	354	2	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	354	3	up	up	ADP
_003376541	354	4	particularly	particularly	ADV
_003376541	354	5	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	354	6	we	we	PRON
_003376541	354	7	talk	talk	VERB
_003376541	354	8	about	about	ADP
_003376541	354	9	food	food	NOUN
_003376541	354	10	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	355	1	food	food	NOUN
_003376541	355	2	will	will	AUX
_003376541	355	3	probably	probably	ADV
_003376541	355	4	be	be	AUX
_003376541	355	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	355	6	biggest	big	ADJ
_003376541	355	7	single	single	ADJ
_003376541	355	8	item	item	NOUN
_003376541	355	9	in	in	ADP
_003376541	355	10	your	your	PRON
_003376541	355	11	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	355	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	356	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	356	2	there	there	PRON
_003376541	356	3	will	will	AUX
_003376541	356	4	still	still	ADV
_003376541	356	5	be	be	AUX
_003376541	356	6	no	no	DET
_003376541	356	7	chances	chance	NOUN
_003376541	356	8	for	for	ADP
_003376541	356	9	spectacular	spectacular	ADJ
_003376541	356	10	savings	saving	NOUN
_003376541	356	11	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	356	12	is	be	AUX
_003376541	356	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	356	14	case	case	NOUN
_003376541	356	15	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	356	16	you	you	PRON
_003376541	356	17	get	get	VERB
_003376541	356	18	a	a	DET
_003376541	356	19	major	major	ADJ
_003376541	356	20	appliance	appliance	NOUN
_003376541	356	21	at	at	ADP
_003376541	356	22	a	a	DET
_003376541	356	23	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	356	24	price	price	NOUN
_003376541	356	25	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	356	26	use	use	VERB
_003376541	356	27	a	a	DET
_003376541	356	28	large	large	ADJ
_003376541	356	29	down	down	ADJ
_003376541	356	30	payment	payment	NOUN
_003376541	356	31	to	to	PART
_003376541	356	32	save	save	VERB
_003376541	356	33	hundreds	hundred	NOUN
_003376541	356	34	of	of	ADP
_003376541	356	35	dollars	dollar	NOUN
_003376541	356	36	in	in	ADP
_003376541	356	37	interest	interest	NOUN
_003376541	356	38	on	on	ADP
_003376541	356	39	your	your	PRON
_003376541	356	40	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	356	41	loan	loan	NOUN
_003376541	356	42	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	357	1	you	you	PRON
_003376541	357	2	save	save	VERB
_003376541	357	3	on	on	ADP
_003376541	357	4	food	food	NOUN
_003376541	357	5	in	in	ADP
_003376541	357	6	terms	term	NOUN
_003376541	357	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	357	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	357	9	nickel	nickel	NOUN
_003376541	357	10	here	here	ADV
_003376541	357	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	357	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	357	13	dime	dime	NOUN
_003376541	357	14	there	there	ADV
_003376541	357	15	by	by	ADP
_003376541	357	16	taking	take	VERB
_003376541	357	17	advantage	advantage	NOUN
_003376541	357	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	357	19	specials	special	NOUN
_003376541	357	20	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	357	21	buying	buy	VERB
_003376541	357	22	in	in	ADP
_003376541	357	23	quantity	quantity	NOUN
_003376541	357	24	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	357	25	using	use	VERB
_003376541	357	26	leftovers	leftover	NOUN
_003376541	357	27	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	357	28	so	so	ADV
_003376541	357	29	on	on	ADV
_003376541	357	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	358	1	suppose	suppose	VERB
_003376541	358	2	you	you	PRON
_003376541	358	3	save	save	VERB
_003376541	358	4	only	only	ADV
_003376541	358	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	358	6	nickel	nickel	NOUN
_003376541	358	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	358	8	meal	meal	NOUN
_003376541	358	9	per	per	ADP
_003376541	358	10	person	person	NOUN
_003376541	358	11	by	by	ADP
_003376541	358	12	managing	manage	VERB
_003376541	358	13	well	well	ADV
_003376541	358	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	359	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	359	2	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	359	3	to	to	ADP
_003376541	359	4	over	over	ADP
_003376541	359	5	$	$	SYM
_003376541	359	6	100	100	NUM
_003376541	359	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	359	8	year	year	NOUN
_003376541	359	9	for	for	ADP
_003376541	359	10	just	just	ADV
_003376541	359	11	two	two	NUM
_003376541	359	12	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	359	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	360	1	with	with	ADP
_003376541	360	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	360	3	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	360	4	working	work	VERB
_003376541	360	5	outside	outside	ADP
_003376541	360	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	360	7	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	360	8	this	this	PRON
_003376541	360	9	works	work	VERB
_003376541	360	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	360	11	reverse	reverse	NOUN
_003376541	360	12	with	with	ADP
_003376541	360	13	apparently	apparently	ADV
_003376541	360	14	small	small	ADJ
_003376541	360	15	additional	additional	ADJ
_003376541	360	16	costs	cost	NOUN
_003376541	360	17	for	for	ADP
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_003376541	360	19	dinners	dinner	NOUN
_003376541	360	20	resulting	result	VERB
_003376541	360	21	in	in	ADP
_003376541	360	22	large	large	ADJ
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_003376541	360	24	increases	increase	NOUN
_003376541	360	25	in	in	ADP
_003376541	360	26	food	food	NOUN
_003376541	360	27	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	360	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	361	1	now	now	ADV
_003376541	361	2	with	with	ADP
_003376541	361	3	these	these	DET
_003376541	361	4	general	general	ADJ
_003376541	361	5	principles	principle	NOUN
_003376541	361	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	361	7	guide	guide	VERB
_003376541	361	8	you	you	PRON
_003376541	361	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	361	10	all	all	DET
_003376541	361	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	361	12	specific	specific	ADJ
_003376541	361	13	information	information	NOUN
_003376541	361	14	you	you	PRON
_003376541	361	15	can	can	AUX
_003376541	361	16	get	get	VERB
_003376541	361	17	from	from	ADP
_003376541	361	18	friends	friend	NOUN
_003376541	361	19	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	361	20	relatives	relative	NOUN
_003376541	361	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	361	22	plan	plan	VERB
_003376541	361	23	your	your	PRON
_003376541	361	24	monthly	monthly	ADJ
_003376541	361	25	budget	budget	NOUN
_003376541	361	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	362	1	on	on	ADP
_003376541	362	2	some	some	DET
_003376541	362	3	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	362	4	you	you	PRON
_003376541	362	5	can	can	AUX
_003376541	362	6	make	make	VERB
_003376541	362	7	only	only	ADV
_003376541	362	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	362	9	rough	rough	ADJ
_003376541	362	10	estimate	estimate	NOUN
_003376541	362	11	now	now	ADV
_003376541	362	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	363	1	on	on	ADP
_003376541	363	2	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	363	3	items	item	NOUN
_003376541	363	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	363	5	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	363	6	as	as	ADP
_003376541	363	7	taxes	taxis	NOUN
_003376541	363	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	363	9	insurance	insurance	NOUN
_003376541	363	10	premiums	premium	NOUN
_003376541	363	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	363	12	you	you	PRON
_003376541	363	13	can	can	AUX
_003376541	363	14	come	come	VERB
_003376541	363	15	quite	quite	ADV
_003376541	363	16	close	close	ADJ
_003376541	363	17	to	to	ADP
_003376541	363	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	363	19	final	final	ADJ
_003376541	363	20	monthly	monthly	ADJ
_003376541	363	21	figure	figure	NOUN
_003376541	363	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	364	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	364	2	any	any	DET
_003376541	364	3	case	case	NOUN
_003376541	364	4	you	you	PRON
_003376541	364	5	will	will	AUX
_003376541	364	6	be	be	AUX
_003376541	364	7	well	well	ADV
_003376541	364	8	started	start	VERB
_003376541	364	9	on	on	ADP
_003376541	364	10	a	a	DET
_003376541	364	11	really	really	ADV
_003376541	364	12	businesslike	businesslike	ADJ
_003376541	364	13	management	management	NOUN
_003376541	364	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	364	15	your	your	PRON
_003376541	364	16	affairs	affair	NOUN
_003376541	364	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	365	1	you	you	PRON
_003376541	365	2	will	will	AUX
_003376541	365	3	have	have	VERB
_003376541	365	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	365	5	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	365	6	idea	idea	NOUN
_003376541	365	7	whether	whether	SCONJ
_003376541	365	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	365	9	standard	standard	NOUN
_003376541	365	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	365	11	living	living	NOUN
_003376541	365	12	you	you	PRON
_003376541	365	13	expect	expect	VERB
_003376541	365	14	to	to	PART
_003376541	365	15	maintain	maintain	VERB
_003376541	365	16	is	be	AUX
_003376541	365	17	reasonable	reasonable	ADJ
_003376541	365	18	for	for	ADP
_003376541	365	19	the	the	DET
_003376541	365	20	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	365	21	you	you	PRON
_003376541	365	22	will	will	AUX
_003376541	365	23	have	have	VERB
_003376541	365	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	366	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	366	2	not	not	PART
_003376541	366	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	366	4	there	there	PRON
_003376541	366	5	is	be	VERB
_003376541	366	6	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	366	7	to	to	PART
_003376541	366	8	do	do	VERB
_003376541	366	9	something	something	PRON
_003376541	366	10	before	before	SCONJ
_003376541	366	11	you	you	PRON
_003376541	366	12	are	be	AUX
_003376541	366	13	hopelessly	hopelessly	ADV
_003376541	366	14	over	over	ADP
_003376541	366	15	your	your	PRON
_003376541	366	16	head	head	NOUN
_003376541	366	17	in	in	ADP
_003376541	366	18	debt	debt	NOUN
_003376541	366	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	367	1	go	go	VERB
_003376541	367	2	back	back	ADV
_003376541	367	3	over	over	ADP
_003376541	367	4	your	your	PRON
_003376541	367	5	figures	figure	NOUN
_003376541	367	6	until	until	SCONJ
_003376541	367	7	you	you	PRON
_003376541	367	8	have	have	AUX
_003376541	367	9	found	find	VERB
_003376541	367	10	workable	workable	ADJ
_003376541	367	11	ways	way	NOUN
_003376541	367	12	to	to	PART
_003376541	367	13	bring	bring	VERB
_003376541	367	14	expenses	expense	NOUN
_003376541	367	15	into	into	ADP
_003376541	367	16	line	line	NOUN
_003376541	367	17	with	with	ADP
_003376541	367	18	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	367	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	368	1	your	your	PRON
_003376541	368	2	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	368	3	happiness	happiness	NOUN
_003376541	368	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	368	5	not	not	PART
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_003376541	368	7	to	to	PART
_003376541	368	8	depend	depend	VERB
_003376541	368	9	on	on	ADP
_003376541	368	10	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	368	11	much	much	ADJ
_003376541	368	12	you	you	PRON
_003376541	368	13	make	make	VERB
_003376541	368	14	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	368	15	on	on	ADP
_003376541	368	16	whether	whether	SCONJ
_003376541	368	17	your	your	PRON
_003376541	368	18	net	net	ADJ
_003376541	368	19	balance	balance	NOUN
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_003376541	368	23	is	be	AUX
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_003376541	368	25	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	368	26	minus	minus	NOUN
_003376541	368	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	369	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	369	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	369	3	possible	possible	ADJ
_003376541	369	4	to	to	PART
_003376541	369	5	be	be	AUX
_003376541	369	6	happy	happy	ADJ
_003376541	369	7	on	on	ADP
_003376541	369	8	a	a	DET
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_003376541	369	10	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	369	11	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	369	12	miserable	miserable	ADJ
_003376541	369	13	on	on	ADP
_003376541	369	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	369	15	large	large	ADJ
_003376541	369	16	one	one	NUM
_003376541	369	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	370	1	27	27	NUM
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_003376541	370	4	of	of	ADP
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_003376541	370	6	by	by	ADP
_003376541	370	7	john	john	PROPN
_003376541	370	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	370	9	anne	anne	PROPN
_003376541	370	10	kane	kane	PROPN
_003376541	370	11	after	after	ADP
_003376541	370	12	25	25	NUM
_003376541	370	13	years	year	NOUN
_003376541	370	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	370	15	married	married	ADJ
_003376541	370	16	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	370	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	370	18	average	average	ADJ
_003376541	370	19	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	370	20	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	370	21	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	370	22	must	must	AUX
_003376541	370	23	have	have	AUX
_003376541	370	24	whispered	whisper	VERB
_003376541	370	25	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	370	26	spoken	speak	VERB
_003376541	370	27	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	370	28	perhaps	perhaps	ADV
_003376541	370	29	even	even	ADV
_003376541	370	30	shouted	shout	VERB
_003376541	370	31	millions	million	NOUN
_003376541	370	32	of	of	ADP
_003376541	370	33	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	370	34	at	at	ADP
_003376541	370	35	each	each	DET
_003376541	370	36	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	370	37	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	371	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	371	2	some	some	PRON
_003376541	371	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	371	4	this	this	PRON
_003376541	371	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	371	6	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	371	7	sometimes	sometimes	ADV
_003376541	371	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	371	9	great	great	ADJ
_003376541	371	10	deal	deal	NOUN
_003376541	371	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	371	12	this	this	PRON
_003376541	371	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	371	14	may	may	AUX
_003376541	371	15	have	have	AUX
_003376541	371	16	been	be	AUX
_003376541	371	17	talking	talk	VERB
_003376541	371	18	at	at	ADP
_003376541	371	19	instead	instead	ADV
_003376541	371	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	371	21	with	with	ADP
_003376541	371	22	each	each	DET
_003376541	371	23	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	371	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	372	1	just	just	ADV
_003376541	372	2	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	372	3	much	much	ADJ
_003376541	372	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	372	5	it	it	PRON
_003376541	372	6	was	be	AUX
_003376541	372	7	actual	actual	ADJ
_003376541	372	8	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	372	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	372	10	spouses	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	372	11	themselves	themselves	PRON
_003376541	372	12	can	can	AUX
_003376541	372	13	gauge	gauge	VERB
_003376541	372	14	by	by	ADP
_003376541	372	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	372	16	number	number	NOUN
_003376541	372	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	372	18	misunderstandings	misunderstanding	NOUN
_003376541	372	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	372	20	quarrels	quarrel	NOUN
_003376541	372	21	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	372	22	serious	serious	ADJ
_003376541	372	23	disagreements	disagreement	NOUN
_003376541	372	24	that	that	PRON
_003376541	372	25	have	have	AUX
_003376541	372	26	resulted	result	VERB
_003376541	372	27	from	from	ADP
_003376541	372	28	their	their	PRON
_003376541	372	29	inability	inability	NOUN
_003376541	372	30	to	to	PART
_003376541	372	31	communicate	communicate	VERB
_003376541	372	32	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	373	1	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	373	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	373	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	373	4	complex	complex	ADJ
_003376541	373	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	373	6	complicated	complicated	ADJ
_003376541	373	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	373	8	sometimes	sometimes	ADV
_003376541	373	9	confusing	confusing	ADJ
_003376541	373	10	process	process	NOUN
_003376541	373	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	374	1	even	even	ADV
_003376541	374	2	between	between	ADP
_003376541	374	3	spouses	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	374	4	deeply	deeply	ADV
_003376541	374	5	in	in	ADP
_003376541	374	6	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	374	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	374	8	long	long	ADV
_003376541	374	9	united	unite	VERB
_003376541	374	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	374	11	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	374	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	374	13	complete	complete	ADJ
_003376541	374	14	mutual	mutual	ADJ
_003376541	374	15	understanding	understanding	NOUN
_003376541	374	16	is	be	AUX
_003376541	374	17	not	not	PART
_003376541	374	18	always	always	ADV
_003376541	374	19	achieved	achieve	VERB
_003376541	374	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	375	1	at	at	ADP
_003376541	375	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	375	3	risk	risk	NOUN
_003376541	375	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	375	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	375	6	cliché	cliché	NOUN
_003376541	375	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	375	8	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	375	9	is	be	AUX
_003376541	375	10	a	a	DET
_003376541	375	11	two	two	NUM
_003376541	375	12	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	375	13	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	375	14	street	street	NOUN
_003376541	375	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	376	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	376	2	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	376	3	speaker	speaker	NOUN
_003376541	376	4	's	's	PART
_003376541	376	5	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	376	6	provide	provide	VERB
_003376541	376	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	376	8	stimulus	stimulus	NOUN
_003376541	376	9	for	for	ADP
_003376541	376	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	376	11	listener	listener	NOUN
_003376541	376	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	376	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	376	14	his	his	PRON
_003376541	376	15	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	376	16	her	her	PRON
_003376541	376	17	response	response	NOUN
_003376541	376	18	becomes	become	VERB
_003376541	376	19	a	a	DET
_003376541	376	20	stimulus	stimulus	NOUN
_003376541	376	21	for	for	ADP
_003376541	376	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	376	23	original	original	ADJ
_003376541	376	24	speaker	speaker	NOUN
_003376541	376	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	377	1	technically	technically	ADV
_003376541	377	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	377	3	this	this	PRON
_003376541	377	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	377	5	called	call	VERB
_003376541	377	6	social	social	ADJ
_003376541	377	7	interaction	interaction	NOUN
_003376541	377	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	377	9	is	be	AUX
_003376541	377	10	by	by	ADP
_003376541	377	11	no	no	DET
_003376541	377	12	means	mean	NOUN
_003376541	377	13	limited	limit	VERB
_003376541	377	14	to	to	ADP
_003376541	377	15	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	377	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	378	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	378	2	actually	actually	ADV
_003376541	378	3	means	mean	VERB
_003376541	378	4	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	378	5	one	one	NUM
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_003376541	378	7	what	what	PRON
_003376541	378	8	is	be	AUX
_003376541	378	9	said	say	VERB
_003376541	378	10	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	378	11	done	do	VERB
_003376541	378	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	378	13	responds	respond	VERB
_003376541	378	14	to	to	ADP
_003376541	378	15	what	what	PRON
_003376541	378	16	is	be	AUX
_003376541	378	17	said	say	VERB
_003376541	378	18	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	378	19	done	do	VERB
_003376541	378	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	379	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	379	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	379	3	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	379	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	379	5	person	person	NOUN
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_003376541	379	7	may	may	AUX
_003376541	379	8	not	not	PART
_003376541	379	9	be	be	AUX
_003376541	379	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	379	11	exclusive	exclusive	ADJ
_003376541	379	12	result	result	NOUN
_003376541	379	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	379	14	what	what	PRON
_003376541	379	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	379	16	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	379	17	person	person	NOUN
_003376541	379	18	said	say	VERB
_003376541	379	19	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	379	20	did	do	VERB
_003376541	379	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	380	1	each	each	DET
_003376541	380	2	one	one	NUM
_003376541	380	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	380	4	us	we	PRON
_003376541	380	5	attempts	attempt	VERB
_003376541	380	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	380	7	interpret	interpret	VERB
_003376541	380	8	stimuli	stimulus	NOUN
_003376541	380	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	380	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	380	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	380	12	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	380	13	we	we	PRON
_003376541	380	14	respond	respond	VERB
_003376541	380	15	depends	depend	VERB
_003376541	380	16	on	on	ADP
_003376541	380	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	380	18	meaning	meaning	NOUN
_003376541	380	19	we	we	PRON
_003376541	380	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	381	1	extract	extract	VERB
_003376541	381	2	from	from	ADP
_003376541	381	3	them	they	PRON
_003376541	381	4	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	382	1	just	just	ADV
_003376541	382	2	so	so	ADV
_003376541	382	3	this	this	PRON
_003376541	382	4	does	do	AUX
_003376541	382	5	n't	not	PART
_003376541	382	6	sound	sound	VERB
_003376541	382	7	too	too	ADV
_003376541	382	8	esoteric	esoteric	ADJ
_003376541	382	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	382	10	let	let	VERB
_003376541	382	11	's	us	PRON
_003376541	382	12	take	take	VERB
_003376541	382	13	a	a	DET
_003376541	382	14	simple	simple	ADJ
_003376541	382	15	28	28	NUM
_003376541	382	16	example	example	NOUN
_003376541	382	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	382	18	a	a	DET
_003376541	382	19	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	382	20	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	382	21	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	382	22	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	382	23	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	382	24	conversation	conversation	NOUN
_003376541	382	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	383	1	john	john	PROPN
_003376541	383	2	makes	make	VERB
_003376541	383	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	383	4	simple	simple	ADJ
_003376541	383	5	statement	statement	NOUN
_003376541	383	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	383	7	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	383	8	mary	mary	NOUN
_003376541	383	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	383	10	please	please	INTJ
_003376541	383	11	pass	pass	VERB
_003376541	383	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	383	13	salt	salt	NOUN
_003376541	383	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	383	15	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	384	1	of	of	ADP
_003376541	384	2	course	course	NOUN
_003376541	384	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	384	4	mary	mary	PROPN
_003376541	384	5	knows	know	VERB
_003376541	384	6	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	384	7	her	her	PRON
_003376541	384	8	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	384	9	wants	want	VERB
_003376541	384	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	384	11	salt	salt	NOUN
_003376541	384	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	384	13	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	384	14	mary	mary	PROPN
_003376541	384	15	also	also	ADV
_003376541	384	16	wants	want	VERB
_003376541	384	17	to	to	PART
_003376541	384	18	know	know	VERB
_003376541	384	19	why	why	SCONJ
_003376541	384	20	he	he	PRON
_003376541	384	21	wants	want	VERB
_003376541	384	22	it	it	PRON
_003376541	384	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	385	1	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	385	2	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	385	3	she	she	PRON
_003376541	385	4	passes	pass	VERB
_003376541	385	5	it	it	PRON
_003376541	385	6	she	she	PRON
_003376541	385	7	may	may	AUX
_003376541	385	8	say	say	VERB
_003376541	385	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	385	10	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	385	11	what	what	PRON
_003376541	385	12	's	be	AUX
_003376541	385	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	385	14	matter	matter	NOUN
_003376541	385	15	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	386	1	did	do	AUX
_003376541	386	2	n't	not	PART
_003376541	386	3	i	i	PRON
_003376541	386	4	season	season	VERB
_003376541	386	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	386	6	food	food	NOUN
_003376541	386	7	well	well	ADV
_003376541	386	8	enough	enough	ADV
_003376541	386	9	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	386	10	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	387	1	john	john	PROPN
_003376541	387	2	simply	simply	ADV
_003376541	387	3	replies	reply	VERB
_003376541	387	4	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	387	5	he	he	PRON
_003376541	387	6	would	would	AUX
_003376541	387	7	like	like	VERB
_003376541	387	8	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	387	9	salt	salt	NOUN
_003376541	387	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	387	11	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	387	12	mary	mary	NOUN
_003376541	387	13	launches	launch	VERB
_003376541	387	14	into	into	ADP
_003376541	387	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	387	16	discussion	discussion	NOUN
_003376541	387	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	387	18	why	why	SCONJ
_003376541	387	19	one	one	PRON
_003376541	387	20	should	should	AUX
_003376541	387	21	n't	not	PART
_003376541	387	22	use	use	VERB
_003376541	387	23	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	387	24	salt	salt	NOUN
_003376541	387	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	388	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	388	2	full	full	ADV
_003376541	388	3	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	388	4	blown	blow	VERB
_003376541	388	5	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	388	6	argument	argument	NOUN
_003376541	388	7	could	could	AUX
_003376541	388	8	follow	follow	VERB
_003376541	388	9	from	from	ADP
_003376541	388	10	john	john	PROPN
_003376541	388	11	's	's	PART
_003376541	388	12	simple	simple	ADJ
_003376541	388	13	request	request	NOUN
_003376541	388	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	389	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	389	2	such	such	DET
_003376541	389	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	389	4	situation	situation	NOUN
_003376541	389	5	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	389	6	described	describe	VERB
_003376541	389	7	here	here	ADV
_003376541	389	8	actually	actually	ADV
_003376541	389	9	occurred	occur	VERB
_003376541	389	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	389	11	it	it	PRON
_003376541	389	12	could	could	AUX
_003376541	389	13	probably	probably	ADV
_003376541	389	14	be	be	AUX
_003376541	389	15	explained	explain	VERB
_003376541	389	16	by	by	ADP
_003376541	389	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	389	18	emotional	emotional	ADJ
_003376541	389	19	set	set	NOUN
_003376541	389	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	389	21	mary	mary	NOUN
_003376541	389	22	at	at	ADP
_003376541	389	23	that	that	DET
_003376541	389	24	moment	moment	NOUN
_003376541	389	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	390	1	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	390	2	involves	involve	VERB
_003376541	390	3	not	not	PART
_003376541	390	4	merely	merely	ADV
_003376541	390	5	thinking	think	VERB
_003376541	390	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	390	7	facial	facial	ADJ
_003376541	390	8	expressions	expression	NOUN
_003376541	390	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	390	10	a	a	DET
_003376541	390	11	tone	tone	NOUN
_003376541	390	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	390	13	voice	voice	NOUN
_003376541	390	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	390	15	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	390	16	also	also	ADV
_003376541	390	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	390	18	emotional	emotional	ADJ
_003376541	390	19	state	state	NOUN
_003376541	390	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	390	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	390	22	speaker	speaker	NOUN
_003376541	390	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	391	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	391	2	interpretation	interpretation	NOUN
_003376541	391	3	we	we	PRON
_003376541	391	4	place	place	VERB
_003376541	391	5	upon	upon	SCONJ
_003376541	391	6	another	another	PRON
_003376541	391	7	's	's	PART
_003376541	391	8	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	391	9	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	391	10	acts	act	NOUN
_003376541	391	11	is	be	AUX
_003376541	391	12	colored	color	VERB
_003376541	391	13	by	by	ADP
_003376541	391	14	our	our	PRON
_003376541	391	15	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	391	16	emotional	emotional	ADJ
_003376541	391	17	feeling	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	391	18	at	at	ADP
_003376541	391	19	that	that	DET
_003376541	391	20	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	391	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	392	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	392	2	one	one	NUM
_003376541	392	3	psychological	psychological	ADJ
_003376541	392	4	experiment	experiment	NOUN
_003376541	392	5	subjects	subject	NOUN
_003376541	392	6	under	under	ADP
_003376541	392	7	hypnosis	hypnosis	NOUN
_003376541	392	8	were	be	AUX
_003376541	392	9	put	put	VERB
_003376541	392	10	into	into	ADP
_003376541	392	11	happy	happy	ADJ
_003376541	392	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	392	13	critical	critical	ADJ
_003376541	392	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	392	15	anxious	anxious	ADJ
_003376541	392	16	moods	mood	NOUN
_003376541	392	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	393	1	after	after	ADP
_003376541	393	2	being	be	AUX
_003376541	393	3	brought	bring	VERB
_003376541	393	4	out	out	ADP
_003376541	393	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	393	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	393	7	trance	trance	NOUN
_003376541	393	8	they	they	PRON
_003376541	393	9	were	be	AUX
_003376541	393	10	shown	show	VERB
_003376541	393	11	pictures	picture	NOUN
_003376541	393	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	393	13	social	social	ADJ
_003376541	393	14	situations	situation	NOUN
_003376541	393	15	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	393	16	asked	ask	VERB
_003376541	393	17	to	to	PART
_003376541	393	18	explain	explain	VERB
_003376541	393	19	what	what	PRON
_003376541	393	20	they	they	PRON
_003376541	393	21	saw	see	VERB
_003376541	393	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	394	1	those	those	PRON
_003376541	394	2	in	in	ADP
_003376541	394	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	394	4	happy	happy	ADJ
_003376541	394	5	mood	mood	NOUN
_003376541	394	6	made	make	VERB
_003376541	394	7	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	394	8	remarks	remark	NOUN
_003376541	394	9	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	394	10	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	394	11	it	it	PRON
_003376541	394	12	looks	look	VERB
_003376541	394	13	like	like	ADP
_003376541	394	14	fun	fun	NOUN
_003376541	394	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	394	16	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	394	17	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	394	18	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	394	19	the	the	DET
_003376541	394	20	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	394	21	are	be	AUX
_003376541	394	22	having	have	VERB
_003376541	394	23	a	a	DET
_003376541	394	24	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	394	25	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	394	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	394	27	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	395	1	those	those	PRON
_003376541	395	2	who	who	PRON
_003376541	395	3	were	be	AUX
_003376541	395	4	in	in	ADP
_003376541	395	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	395	6	critical	critical	ADJ
_003376541	395	7	mood	mood	NOUN
_003376541	395	8	stated	state	VERB
_003376541	395	9	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	395	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	395	11	situation	situation	NOUN
_003376541	395	12	was	be	AUX
_003376541	395	13	pretty	pretty	ADV
_003376541	395	14	horrible	horrible	ADJ
_003376541	395	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	395	16	while	while	SCONJ
_003376541	395	17	those	those	PRON
_003376541	395	18	in	in	ADP
_003376541	395	19	whom	whom	PRON
_003376541	395	20	an	an	DET
_003376541	395	21	anxiety	anxiety	NOUN
_003376541	395	22	mood	mood	NOUN
_003376541	395	23	had	have	AUX
_003376541	395	24	been	be	AUX
_003376541	395	25	created	create	VERB
_003376541	395	26	tended	tend	VERB
_003376541	395	27	to	to	PART
_003376541	395	28	say	say	VERB
_003376541	395	29	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	395	30	something	something	PRON
_003376541	395	31	bad	bad	ADJ
_003376541	395	32	may	may	AUX
_003376541	395	33	happen	happen	VERB
_003376541	395	34	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	395	35	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	395	36	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	395	37	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	395	38	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	395	39	you	you	PRON
_003376541	395	40	never	never	ADV
_003376541	395	41	know	know	VERB
_003376541	395	42	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	395	43	tragedy	tragedy	NOUN
_003376541	395	44	will	will	AUX
_003376541	395	45	occur	occur	VERB
_003376541	395	46	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	395	47	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	396	1	without	without	ADP
_003376541	396	2	benefit	benefit	NOUN
_003376541	396	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	396	4	any	any	DET
_003376541	396	5	psychological	psychological	ADJ
_003376541	396	6	experimentation	experimentation	NOUN
_003376541	396	7	every	every	DET
_003376541	396	8	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	396	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	396	10	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	396	11	know	know	VERB
_003376541	396	12	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	396	13	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	396	14	one	one	NUM
_003376541	396	15	spouse	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	396	16	returns	return	NOUN
_003376541	396	17	in	in	ADP
_003376541	396	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	396	19	evening	evening	NOUN
_003376541	396	20	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	396	21	tired	tired	ADJ
_003376541	396	22	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	396	23	discouraged	discouraged	ADJ
_003376541	396	24	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	396	25	frustrated	frustrated	ADJ
_003376541	396	26	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	396	27	his	his	PRON
_003376541	396	28	reaction	reaction	NOUN
_003376541	396	29	even	even	ADV
_003376541	396	30	to	to	ADP
_003376541	396	31	the	the	DET
_003376541	396	32	most	most	ADV
_003376541	396	33	pleasant	pleasant	ADJ
_003376541	396	34	greeting	greeting	NOUN
_003376541	396	35	is	be	AUX
_003376541	396	36	apt	apt	ADJ
_003376541	396	37	to	to	PART
_003376541	396	38	be	be	AUX
_003376541	396	39	something	something	PRON
_003376541	396	40	less	less	ADJ
_003376541	396	41	than	than	ADP
_003376541	396	42	pleasant	pleasant	ADJ
_003376541	396	43	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	397	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	397	2	needs	need	VERB
_003376541	397	3	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	397	4	to	to	PART
_003376541	397	5	allow	allow	VERB
_003376541	397	6	his	his	PRON
_003376541	397	7	original	original	ADJ
_003376541	397	8	mood	mood	NOUN
_003376541	397	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	397	10	disappear	disappear	VERB
_003376541	397	11	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	397	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	397	13	better	well	ADJ
_003376541	397	14	one	one	NUM
_003376541	397	15	to	to	PART
_003376541	397	16	replace	replace	VERB
_003376541	397	17	it	it	PRON
_003376541	397	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	398	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	398	2	same	same	ADJ
_003376541	398	3	is	be	AUX
_003376541	398	4	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	398	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	398	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	398	7	course	course	NOUN
_003376541	398	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	398	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	398	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	398	11	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	398	12	who	who	PRON
_003376541	398	13	after	after	ADP
_003376541	398	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	398	15	trying	try	VERB
_003376541	398	16	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	398	17	responds	respond	VERB
_003376541	398	18	to	to	ADP
_003376541	398	19	a	a	DET
_003376541	398	20	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	398	21	's	's	PART
_003376541	398	22	happy	happy	ADJ
_003376541	398	23	greeting	greeting	NOUN
_003376541	398	24	with	with	ADP
_003376541	398	25	something	something	PRON
_003376541	398	26	less	less	ADJ
_003376541	398	27	than	than	ADP
_003376541	398	28	enthusiasm	enthusiasm	NOUN
_003376541	398	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	399	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	399	2	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	399	3	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	399	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	399	5	moods	mood	NOUN
_003376541	399	6	get	get	VERB
_003376541	399	7	in	in	ADP
_003376541	399	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	399	9	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	399	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	399	11	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	399	12	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	399	13	unless	unless	SCONJ
_003376541	399	14	both	both	DET
_003376541	399	15	parties	party	NOUN
_003376541	399	16	appreciate	appreciate	VERB
_003376541	399	17	this	this	DET
_003376541	399	18	fact	fact	NOUN
_003376541	399	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	399	20	misunderstanding	misunderstand	VERB
_003376541	399	21	results	result	NOUN
_003376541	399	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	400	1	29	29	NUM
_003376541	400	2	what	what	PRON
_003376541	400	3	are	be	AUX
_003376541	400	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	400	5	barriers	barrier	NOUN
_003376541	400	6	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	401	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	401	2	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	401	3	themselves	themselves	PRON
_003376541	401	4	are	be	AUX
_003376541	401	5	very	very	ADV
_003376541	401	6	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	401	7	in	in	ADP
_003376541	401	8	facilitating	facilitate	VERB
_003376541	401	9	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	401	10	inhibiting	inhibit	VERB
_003376541	401	11	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	401	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	402	1	stuart	stuart	PROPN
_003376541	402	2	chase	chase	PROPN
_003376541	402	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	402	4	author	author	NOUN
_003376541	402	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	402	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	402	7	tyranny	tyranny	NOUN
_003376541	402	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	402	9	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	402	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	402	11	has	have	AUX
_003376541	402	12	pointed	point	VERB
_003376541	402	13	out	out	ADP
_003376541	402	14	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	402	15	there	there	PRON
_003376541	402	16	are	be	VERB
_003376541	402	17	two	two	NUM
_003376541	402	18	kinds	kind	NOUN
_003376541	402	19	of	of	ADP
_003376541	402	20	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	402	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	403	1	one	one	NUM
_003376541	403	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	403	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	403	4	word	word	NOUN
_003376541	403	5	which	which	PRON
_003376541	403	6	has	have	VERB
_003376541	403	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	403	8	specific	specific	ADJ
_003376541	403	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	403	10	objective	objective	ADJ
_003376541	403	11	meaning	meaning	NOUN
_003376541	403	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	403	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	403	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	403	15	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	403	16	is	be	AUX
_003376541	403	17	a	a	DET
_003376541	403	18	weasel	weasel	NOUN
_003376541	403	19	word	word	NOUN
_003376541	403	20	which	which	PRON
_003376541	403	21	really	really	ADV
_003376541	403	22	has	have	VERB
_003376541	403	23	only	only	ADV
_003376541	403	24	a	a	DET
_003376541	403	25	vague	vague	ADJ
_003376541	403	26	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	403	27	relative	relative	ADJ
_003376541	403	28	meaning	meaning	NOUN
_003376541	403	29	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	403	30	is	be	AUX
_003376541	403	31	emotionally	emotionally	ADV
_003376541	403	32	loaded	load	VERB
_003376541	403	33	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	404	1	just	just	ADV
_003376541	404	2	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	404	3	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	404	4	weasel	weasel	NOUN
_003376541	404	5	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	404	6	may	may	AUX
_003376541	404	7	be	be	AUX
_003376541	404	8	involved	involve	VERB
_003376541	404	9	in	in	ADP
_003376541	404	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	404	11	conversation	conversation	NOUN
_003376541	404	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	404	13	any	any	DET
_003376541	404	14	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	404	15	depends	depend	VERB
_003376541	404	16	upon	upon	SCONJ
_003376541	404	17	them	they	PRON
_003376541	404	18	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	404	19	their	their	PRON
_003376541	404	20	experiences	experience	NOUN
_003376541	404	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	405	1	however	however	ADV
_003376541	405	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	405	3	certain	certain	ADJ
_003376541	405	4	kinds	kind	NOUN
_003376541	405	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	405	6	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	405	7	are	be	AUX
_003376541	405	8	likely	likely	ADJ
_003376541	405	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	405	10	be	be	AUX
_003376541	405	11	emotionally	emotionally	ADV
_003376541	405	12	laden	laden	ADJ
_003376541	405	13	in	in	ADP
_003376541	405	14	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	405	15	families	family	NOUN
_003376541	405	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	406	1	among	among	ADP
_003376541	406	2	these	these	PRON
_003376541	406	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	406	4	oddly	oddly	ADV
_003376541	406	5	enough	enough	ADV
_003376541	406	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	406	7	would	would	AUX
_003376541	406	8	be	be	AUX
_003376541	406	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	406	10	word	word	NOUN
_003376541	406	11	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	406	12	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	406	13	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	406	14	as	as	ADV
_003376541	406	15	well	well	ADV
_003376541	406	16	as	as	ADP
_003376541	406	17	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	406	18	money	money	NOUN
_003376541	406	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	406	20	cheap	cheap	ADJ
_003376541	406	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	406	22	expensive	expensive	ADJ
_003376541	406	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	406	24	cruel	cruel	ADJ
_003376541	406	25	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	406	26	nasty	nasty	ADJ
_003376541	406	27	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	406	28	pleasant	pleasant	ADJ
_003376541	406	29	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	406	30	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	406	31	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	406	32	unpleasant	unpleasant	ADJ
_003376541	406	33	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	406	34	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	407	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	407	2	clarence	clarence	NOUN
_003376541	407	3	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	407	4	's	's	PART
_003376541	407	5	play	play	NOUN
_003376541	407	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	407	7	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	407	8	with	with	ADP
_003376541	407	9	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	407	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	407	11	whenever	whenever	SCONJ
_003376541	407	12	an	an	DET
_003376541	407	13	argument	argument	NOUN
_003376541	407	14	occurred	occur	VERB
_003376541	407	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	407	16	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	407	17	always	always	ADV
_003376541	407	18	ended	end	VERB
_003376541	407	19	up	up	ADP
_003376541	407	20	by	by	ADP
_003376541	407	21	telling	tell	VERB
_003376541	407	22	her	her	PRON
_003376541	407	23	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	407	24	he	he	PRON
_003376541	407	25	did	do	AUX
_003376541	407	26	n't	not	PART
_003376541	407	27	love	love	VERB
_003376541	407	28	her	she	PRON
_003376541	407	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	408	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	408	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	408	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	408	4	course	course	NOUN
_003376541	408	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	408	6	felt	feel	VERB
_003376541	408	7	he	he	PRON
_003376541	408	8	did	do	VERB
_003376541	408	9	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	408	10	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	408	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	408	12	problem	problem	NOUN
_003376541	408	13	was	be	AUX
_003376541	408	14	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	408	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	408	16	word	word	NOUN
_003376541	408	17	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	408	18	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	408	19	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	408	20	had	have	VERB
_003376541	408	21	a	a	DET
_003376541	408	22	somewhat	somewhat	ADV
_003376541	408	23	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	408	24	meaning	meaning	NOUN
_003376541	408	25	in	in	ADP
_003376541	408	26	the	the	DET
_003376541	408	27	context	context	NOUN
_003376541	408	28	of	of	ADP
_003376541	408	29	each	each	DET
_003376541	408	30	person	person	NOUN
_003376541	408	31	's	's	PART
_003376541	408	32	notion	notion	NOUN
_003376541	408	33	of	of	ADP
_003376541	408	34	it	it	PRON
_003376541	408	35	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	409	1	since	since	SCONJ
_003376541	409	2	so	so	ADV
_003376541	409	3	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	409	4	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	409	5	disagreements	disagreement	NOUN
_003376541	409	6	center	center	NOUN
_003376541	409	7	about	about	ADP
_003376541	409	8	financial	financial	ADJ
_003376541	409	9	aspects	aspect	NOUN
_003376541	409	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	409	11	it	it	PRON
_003376541	409	12	is	be	AUX
_003376541	409	13	scarcely	scarcely	ADV
_003376541	409	14	surprising	surprising	ADJ
_003376541	409	15	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	409	16	what	what	PRON
_003376541	409	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	409	18	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	409	19	considers	consider	VERB
_003376541	409	20	cheap	cheap	ADJ
_003376541	409	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	409	22	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	409	23	may	may	AUX
_003376541	409	24	consider	consider	VERB
_003376541	409	25	expensive	expensive	ADJ
_003376541	409	26	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	409	27	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	409	28	vice	vice	NOUN
_003376541	409	29	versa	versa	ADV
_003376541	409	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	410	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	410	2	pleasant	pleasant	ADJ
_003376541	410	3	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	410	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	410	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	410	6	ballet	ballet	NOUN
_003376541	410	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	410	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	410	9	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	410	10	may	may	AUX
_003376541	410	11	be	be	AUX
_003376541	410	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	410	13	trying	try	VERB
_003376541	410	14	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	410	15	for	for	ADP
_003376541	410	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	410	17	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	410	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	411	1	fortunately	fortunately	ADV
_003376541	411	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	411	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	411	4	meaning	meaning	NOUN
_003376541	411	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	411	6	these	these	DET
_003376541	411	7	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	411	8	is	be	AUX
_003376541	411	9	not	not	PART
_003376541	411	10	completely	completely	ADV
_003376541	411	11	divorced	divorced	ADJ
_003376541	411	12	from	from	ADP
_003376541	411	13	reality	reality	NOUN
_003376541	411	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	411	15	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	411	16	in	in	ADP
_003376541	411	17	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	411	18	cases	case	NOUN
_003376541	411	19	spouses	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	411	20	will	will	AUX
_003376541	411	21	come	come	VERB
_003376541	411	22	near	near	ADV
_003376541	411	23	to	to	ADP
_003376541	411	24	an	an	DET
_003376541	411	25	agreement	agreement	NOUN
_003376541	411	26	upon	upon	SCONJ
_003376541	411	27	them	they	PRON
_003376541	411	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	412	1	on	on	ADP
_003376541	412	2	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	412	3	occasions	occasion	NOUN
_003376541	412	4	they	they	PRON
_003376541	412	5	will	will	AUX
_003376541	412	6	be	be	AUX
_003376541	412	7	talking	talk	VERB
_003376541	412	8	at	at	ADP
_003376541	412	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	412	10	same	same	ADJ
_003376541	412	11	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	412	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	412	13	two	two	NUM
_003376541	412	14	very	very	ADV
_003376541	412	15	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	412	16	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	412	17	so	so	ADV
_003376541	412	18	far	far	ADV
_003376541	412	19	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	412	20	the	the	DET
_003376541	412	21	meanings	meaning	NOUN
_003376541	412	22	to	to	ADP
_003376541	412	23	them	they	PRON
_003376541	412	24	are	be	AUX
_003376541	412	25	concerned	concern	VERB
_003376541	412	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	413	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	413	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	413	3	not	not	PART
_003376541	413	4	difficult	difficult	ADJ
_003376541	413	5	to	to	PART
_003376541	413	6	understand	understand	VERB
_003376541	413	7	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	413	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	413	9	same	same	ADJ
_003376541	413	10	word	word	NOUN
_003376541	413	11	can	can	AUX
_003376541	413	12	have	have	VERB
_003376541	413	13	two	two	NUM
_003376541	413	14	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	414	1	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	414	2	sometimes	sometimes	ADV
_003376541	414	3	almost	almost	ADV
_003376541	414	4	opposite	opposite	ADJ
_003376541	414	5	meanings	meaning	NOUN
_003376541	414	6	to	to	ADP
_003376541	414	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	414	8	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	414	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	414	10	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	414	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	415	1	first	first	ADV
_003376541	415	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	415	3	there	there	PRON
_003376541	415	4	is	be	VERB
_003376541	415	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	415	6	barrier	barrier	NOUN
_003376541	415	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	415	8	sex	sex	NOUN
_003376541	415	9	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	416	1	even	even	ADV
_003376541	416	2	today	today	NOUN
_003376541	416	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	416	4	with	with	ADP
_003376541	416	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	416	6	wholesale	wholesale	ADJ
_003376541	416	7	emphasis	emphasis	NOUN
_003376541	416	8	upon	upon	SCONJ
_003376541	416	9	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	416	10	togetherness	togetherness	NOUN
_003376541	416	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	416	12	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	416	13	there	there	PRON
_003376541	416	14	is	be	VERB
_003376541	416	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	416	16	man	man	NOUN
_003376541	416	17	's	's	PART
_003376541	416	18	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	416	19	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	416	20	there	there	PRON
_003376541	416	21	is	be	VERB
_003376541	416	22	a	a	DET
_003376541	416	23	woman	woman	NOUN
_003376541	416	24	's	's	PART
_003376541	416	25	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	416	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	417	1	during	during	ADP
_003376541	417	2	30	30	NUM
_003376541	417	3	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	417	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	417	5	his	his	PRON
_003376541	417	6	working	working	NOUN
_003376541	417	7	days	day	NOUN
_003376541	417	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	417	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	417	10	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	417	11	is	be	AUX
_003376541	417	12	associated	associate	VERB
_003376541	417	13	with	with	ADP
_003376541	417	14	his	his	PRON
_003376541	417	15	occupational	occupational	ADJ
_003376541	417	16	colleagues	colleague	NOUN
_003376541	417	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	417	18	male	male	ADJ
_003376541	417	19	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	417	20	female	female	NOUN
_003376541	417	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	418	1	they	they	PRON
_003376541	418	2	think	think	VERB
_003376541	418	3	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	418	4	talk	talk	VERB
_003376541	418	5	about	about	ADP
_003376541	418	6	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	418	7	matters	matter	NOUN
_003376541	418	8	which	which	PRON
_003376541	418	9	he	he	PRON
_003376541	418	10	does	do	AUX
_003376541	418	11	not	not	PART
_003376541	418	12	share	share	VERB
_003376541	418	13	with	with	ADP
_003376541	418	14	his	his	PRON
_003376541	418	15	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	418	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	418	17	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	418	18	for	for	ADP
_003376541	418	19	no	no	DET
_003376541	418	20	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	418	21	reason	reason	NOUN
_003376541	418	22	than	than	SCONJ
_003376541	418	23	to	to	PART
_003376541	418	24	avoid	avoid	VERB
_003376541	418	25	shop	shop	NOUN
_003376541	418	26	talk	talk	NOUN
_003376541	418	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	419	1	even	even	ADV
_003376541	419	2	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	419	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	419	4	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	419	5	does	do	AUX
_003376541	419	6	attempt	attempt	VERB
_003376541	419	7	to	to	PART
_003376541	419	8	explain	explain	VERB
_003376541	419	9	in	in	ADP
_003376541	419	10	detail	detail	NOUN
_003376541	419	11	to	to	ADP
_003376541	419	12	his	his	PRON
_003376541	419	13	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	419	14	some	some	PRON
_003376541	419	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	419	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	419	17	occurrences	occurrence	NOUN
_003376541	419	18	at	at	ADP
_003376541	419	19	work	work	NOUN
_003376541	419	20	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	419	21	he	he	PRON
_003376541	419	22	discovers	discover	VERB
_003376541	419	23	it	it	PRON
_003376541	419	24	is	be	AUX
_003376541	419	25	likely	likely	ADJ
_003376541	419	26	to	to	PART
_003376541	419	27	be	be	AUX
_003376541	419	28	a	a	DET
_003376541	419	29	long	long	ADJ
_003376541	419	30	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	419	31	painstaking	painstaking	ADJ
_003376541	419	32	effort	effort	NOUN
_003376541	419	33	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	419	34	rarely	rarely	ADV
_003376541	419	35	accompanied	accompany	VERB
_003376541	419	36	by	by	ADP
_003376541	419	37	entire	entire	ADJ
_003376541	419	38	success	success	NOUN
_003376541	419	39	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	420	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	420	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	420	3	not	not	PART
_003376541	420	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	420	5	matter	matter	NOUN
_003376541	420	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	420	7	his	his	PRON
_003376541	420	8	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	420	9	's	's	PART
_003376541	420	10	intelligence	intelligence	NOUN
_003376541	420	11	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	420	12	interest	interest	NOUN
_003376541	420	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	420	14	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	420	15	rather	rather	ADV
_003376541	420	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	420	17	fact	fact	NOUN
_003376541	420	18	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	420	19	her	her	PRON
_003376541	420	20	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	420	21	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	420	22	by	by	ADP
_003376541	420	23	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	420	24	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	420	25	experiences	experience	NOUN
_003376541	420	26	are	be	AUX
_003376541	420	27	quite	quite	ADV
_003376541	420	28	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	420	29	from	from	ADP
_003376541	420	30	his	his	PRON
_003376541	420	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	421	1	women	woman	NOUN
_003376541	421	2	have	have	VERB
_003376541	421	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	421	4	similar	similar	ADJ
_003376541	421	5	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	421	6	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	421	7	they	they	PRON
_003376541	421	8	attempt	attempt	VERB
_003376541	421	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	421	10	detail	detail	VERB
_003376541	421	11	for	for	ADP
_003376541	421	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	421	13	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	421	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	421	15	happenings	happening	NOUN
_003376541	421	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	421	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	421	18	neighborhood	neighborhood	NOUN
_003376541	421	19	that	that	DET
_003376541	421	20	afternoon	afternoon	NOUN
_003376541	421	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	422	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	422	2	may	may	AUX
_003376541	422	3	consider	consider	VERB
_003376541	422	4	it	it	PRON
_003376541	422	5	trivia	trivium	NOUN
_003376541	422	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	422	7	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	422	8	he	he	PRON
_003376541	422	9	may	may	AUX
_003376541	422	10	be	be	AUX
_003376541	422	11	completely	completely	ADV
_003376541	422	12	uninterested	uninterested	ADJ
_003376541	422	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	423	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	423	2	in	in	ADP
_003376541	423	3	either	either	DET
_003376541	423	4	case	case	NOUN
_003376541	423	5	he	he	PRON
_003376541	423	6	is	be	AUX
_003376541	423	7	likely	likely	ADJ
_003376541	423	8	to	to	PART
_003376541	423	9	irritate	irritate	VERB
_003376541	423	10	his	his	PRON
_003376541	423	11	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	423	12	by	by	ADP
_003376541	423	13	mumbling	mumble	VERB
_003376541	423	14	yes	yes	INTJ
_003376541	423	15	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	423	16	no	no	INTJ
_003376541	423	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	423	18	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	423	19	by	by	ADP
_003376541	423	20	shaking	shake	VERB
_003376541	423	21	his	his	PRON
_003376541	423	22	head	head	NOUN
_003376541	423	23	positively	positively	ADV
_003376541	423	24	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	423	25	negatively	negatively	ADV
_003376541	423	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	424	1	without	without	ADP
_003376541	424	2	considerable	considerable	ADJ
_003376541	424	3	effort	effort	NOUN
_003376541	424	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	424	5	he	he	PRON
_003376541	424	6	finds	find	VERB
_003376541	424	7	it	it	PRON
_003376541	424	8	difficult	difficult	ADJ
_003376541	424	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	424	10	perceive	perceive	VERB
_003376541	424	11	situations	situation	NOUN
_003376541	424	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	424	13	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	424	14	she	she	PRON
_003376541	424	15	does	do	VERB
_003376541	424	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	425	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	425	2	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	425	3	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	425	4	interpret	interpret	VERB
_003376541	425	5	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	425	6	that	that	PRON
_003376541	425	7	are	be	AUX
_003376541	425	8	said	say	VERB
_003376541	425	9	to	to	ADP
_003376541	425	10	them	they	PRON
_003376541	425	11	depend	depend	VERB
_003376541	425	12	upon	upon	SCONJ
_003376541	425	13	what	what	PRON
_003376541	425	14	psychologists	psychologist	NOUN
_003376541	425	15	call	call	VERB
_003376541	425	16	their	their	PRON
_003376541	425	17	reference	reference	NOUN
_003376541	425	18	group	group	NOUN
_003376541	425	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	426	1	we	we	PRON
_003376541	426	2	all	all	PRON
_003376541	426	3	have	have	VERB
_003376541	426	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	426	5	membership	membership	NOUN
_003376541	426	6	group	group	NOUN
_003376541	426	7	-it	-it	SPACE
_003376541	426	8	that	that	PRON
_003376541	426	9	is	be	AUX
_003376541	426	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	426	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	426	12	group	group	NOUN
_003376541	426	13	to	to	PART
_003376541	426	14	which	which	PRON
_003376541	426	15	we	we	PRON
_003376541	426	16	obviously	obviously	ADV
_003376541	426	17	belong	belong	VERB
_003376541	426	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	426	19	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	426	20	as	as	ADP
_003376541	426	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	426	22	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	426	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	426	24	the	the	DET
_003376541	426	25	church	church	NOUN
_003376541	426	26	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	426	27	the	the	DET
_003376541	426	28	club	club	NOUN
_003376541	426	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	427	1	usually	usually	ADV
_003376541	427	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	427	3	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	427	4	not	not	PART
_003376541	427	5	always	always	ADV
_003376541	427	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	427	7	these	these	PRON
_003376541	427	8	are	be	AUX
_003376541	427	9	also	also	ADV
_003376541	427	10	our	our	PRON
_003376541	427	11	reference	reference	NOUN
_003376541	427	12	groups	group	NOUN
_003376541	427	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	428	1	however	however	ADV
_003376541	428	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	428	3	it	it	PRON
_003376541	428	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	428	5	entirely	entirely	ADV
_003376541	428	6	possible	possible	ADJ
_003376541	428	7	to	to	PART
_003376541	428	8	be	be	AUX
_003376541	428	9	considered	consider	VERB
_003376541	428	10	a	a	DET
_003376541	428	11	member	member	NOUN
_003376541	428	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	428	13	one	one	NUM
_003376541	428	14	group	group	NOUN
_003376541	428	15	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	428	16	to	to	PART
_003376541	428	17	use	use	VERB
_003376541	428	18	a	a	DET
_003376541	428	19	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	428	20	group	group	NOUN
_003376541	428	21	as	as	ADP
_003376541	428	22	one	one	PRON
_003376541	428	23	's	's	PART
_003376541	428	24	reference	reference	NOUN
_003376541	428	25	group	group	NOUN
_003376541	428	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	429	1	out	out	ADP
_003376541	429	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	429	3	necessity	necessity	NOUN
_003376541	429	4	husbands	husband	NOUN
_003376541	429	5	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	429	6	wives	wife	NOUN
_003376541	429	7	do	do	AUX
_003376541	429	8	not	not	PART
_003376541	429	9	share	share	VERB
_003376541	429	10	with	with	ADP
_003376541	429	11	each	each	DET
_003376541	429	12	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	429	13	membership	membership	NOUN
_003376541	429	14	in	in	ADP
_003376541	429	15	all	all	DET
_003376541	429	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	429	17	groups	group	NOUN
_003376541	429	18	to	to	PART
_003376541	429	19	which	which	PRON
_003376541	429	20	they	they	PRON
_003376541	429	21	belong	belong	VERB
_003376541	429	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	430	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	430	2	activities	activity	NOUN
_003376541	430	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	430	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	430	5	sewing	sewing	NOUN
_003376541	430	6	circle	circle	NOUN
_003376541	430	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	430	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	430	9	league	league	NOUN
_003376541	430	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	430	11	women	woman	NOUN
_003376541	430	12	voters	voter	NOUN
_003376541	430	13	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	430	14	an	an	DET
_003376541	430	15	afternoon	afternoon	NOUN
_003376541	430	16	bridge	bridge	NOUN
_003376541	430	17	club	club	NOUN
_003376541	430	18	are	be	AUX
_003376541	430	19	not	not	PART
_003376541	430	20	entirely	entirely	ADV
_003376541	430	21	incomprehensible	incomprehensible	ADJ
_003376541	430	22	to	to	ADP
_003376541	430	23	a	a	DET
_003376541	430	24	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	430	25	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	430	26	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	430	27	they	they	PRON
_003376541	430	28	are	be	AUX
_003376541	430	29	almost	almost	ADV
_003376541	430	30	so	so	ADV
_003376541	430	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	431	1	to	to	ADP
_003376541	431	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	431	3	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	431	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	431	5	her	her	PRON
_003376541	431	6	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	431	7	's	's	PART
_003376541	431	8	professional	professional	ADJ
_003376541	431	9	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	431	10	business	business	NOUN
_003376541	431	11	group	group	NOUN
_003376541	431	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	431	13	club	club	NOUN
_003376541	431	14	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	431	15	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	431	16	exclusively	exclusively	ADV
_003376541	431	17	masculine	masculine	NOUN
_003376541	431	18	associations	association	NOUN
_003376541	431	19	do	do	AUX
_003376541	431	20	represent	represent	VERB
_003376541	431	21	something	something	PRON
_003376541	431	22	of	of	ADP
_003376541	431	23	a	a	DET
_003376541	431	24	puzzle	puzzle	NOUN
_003376541	431	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	432	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	432	2	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	432	3	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	432	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	432	5	it	it	PRON
_003376541	432	6	takes	take	VERB
_003376541	432	7	quite	quite	DET
_003376541	432	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	432	9	bit	bit	NOUN
_003376541	432	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	432	11	effort	effort	NOUN
_003376541	432	12	for	for	SCONJ
_003376541	432	13	husbands	husband	NOUN
_003376541	432	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	432	15	wives	wife	NOUN
_003376541	432	16	to	to	PART
_003376541	432	17	communicate	communicate	VERB
_003376541	432	18	adequately	adequately	ADV
_003376541	432	19	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	432	20	each	each	PRON
_003376541	432	21	is	be	AUX
_003376541	432	22	taking	take	VERB
_003376541	432	23	experiences	experience	NOUN
_003376541	432	24	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	432	25	interests	interest	NOUN
_003376541	432	26	from	from	ADP
_003376541	432	27	a	a	DET
_003376541	432	28	membership	membership	NOUN
_003376541	432	29	group	group	NOUN
_003376541	432	30	and/or	and/or	CCONJ
_003376541	432	31	a	a	DET
_003376541	432	32	reference	reference	NOUN
_003376541	432	33	group	group	NOUN
_003376541	432	34	to	to	PART
_003376541	432	35	which	which	PRON
_003376541	432	36	the	the	DET
_003376541	432	37	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	432	38	does	do	AUX
_003376541	432	39	not	not	PART
_003376541	432	40	belong	belong	VERB
_003376541	432	41	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	433	1	31	31	NUM
_003376541	433	2	learning	learn	VERB
_003376541	433	3	each	each	DET
_003376541	433	4	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	433	5	's	's	PART
_003376541	433	6	language	language	NOUN
_003376541	433	7	despite	despite	SCONJ
_003376541	433	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	433	9	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	433	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	433	11	romance	romance	NOUN
_003376541	433	12	that	that	PRON
_003376541	433	13	usually	usually	ADV
_003376541	433	14	characterize	characterize	VERB
_003376541	433	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	433	16	early	early	ADJ
_003376541	433	17	months	month	NOUN
_003376541	433	18	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	433	19	years	year	NOUN
_003376541	433	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	433	21	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	433	22	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	433	23	the	the	DET
_003376541	433	24	two	two	NUM
_003376541	433	25	newlyweds	newlywed	NOUN
_003376541	433	26	may	may	AUX
_003376541	433	27	have	have	AUX
_003376541	433	28	come	come	VERB
_003376541	433	29	from	from	ADP
_003376541	433	30	quite	quite	ADV
_003376541	433	31	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	433	32	backgrounds	background	NOUN
_003376541	433	33	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	434	1	they	they	PRON
_003376541	434	2	may	may	AUX
_003376541	434	3	not	not	PART
_003376541	434	4	have	have	AUX
_003376541	434	5	known	know	VERB
_003376541	434	6	each	each	DET
_003376541	434	7	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	434	8	during	during	ADP
_003376541	434	9	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	434	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	434	11	their	their	PRON
_003376541	434	12	lives	life	NOUN
_003376541	434	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	435	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	435	2	man	man	NOUN
_003376541	435	3	from	from	ADP
_003376541	435	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	435	5	lower	low	ADJ
_003376541	435	6	middle	middle	ADJ
_003376541	435	7	class	class	NOUN
_003376541	435	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	435	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	435	10	girl	girl	NOUN
_003376541	435	11	from	from	ADP
_003376541	435	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	435	13	upper	upper	ADJ
_003376541	435	14	middle	middle	ADJ
_003376541	435	15	class	class	NOUN
_003376541	435	16	have	have	VERB
_003376541	435	17	quite	quite	ADV
_003376541	435	18	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	435	19	systems	system	NOUN
_003376541	435	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	435	21	values	value	NOUN
_003376541	435	22	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	435	23	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	435	24	only	only	ADV
_003376541	435	25	months	month	NOUN
_003376541	435	26	of	of	ADP
_003376541	435	27	patient	patient	ADJ
_003376541	435	28	effort	effort	NOUN
_003376541	435	29	at	at	ADP
_003376541	435	30	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	435	31	will	will	AUX
_003376541	435	32	result	result	VERB
_003376541	435	33	in	in	ADP
_003376541	435	34	understanding	understanding	NOUN
_003376541	435	35	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	436	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	436	2	might	might	AUX
_003376541	436	3	be	be	AUX
_003376541	436	4	called	call	VERB
_003376541	436	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	436	6	social	social	ADJ
_003376541	436	7	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	436	8	class	class	NOUN
_003376541	436	9	barrier	barrier	NOUN
_003376541	436	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	436	11	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	436	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	436	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	436	14	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	436	15	it	it	PRON
_003376541	436	16	exists	exist	VERB
_003376541	436	17	some	some	DET
_003376541	436	18	strange	strange	ADJ
_003376541	436	19	quarrels	quarrel	NOUN
_003376541	436	20	may	may	AUX
_003376541	436	21	result	result	VERB
_003376541	436	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	437	1	helen	helen	PROPN
_003376541	437	2	came	come	VERB
_003376541	437	3	from	from	ADP
_003376541	437	4	an	an	DET
_003376541	437	5	upper	upper	ADJ
_003376541	437	6	middle	middle	ADJ
_003376541	437	7	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	437	8	class	class	NOUN
_003376541	437	9	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	437	10	with	with	ADP
_003376541	437	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	437	12	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	437	13	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	437	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	438	1	tom	tom	PROPN
_003376541	438	2	came	come	VERB
_003376541	438	3	from	from	ADP
_003376541	438	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	438	5	lower	low	ADJ
_003376541	438	6	middle	middle	ADJ
_003376541	438	7	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	438	8	class	class	NOUN
_003376541	438	9	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	438	10	with	with	ADP
_003376541	438	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	438	12	low	low	ADJ
_003376541	438	13	income	income	NOUN
_003376541	438	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	439	1	helen	helen	PROPN
_003376541	439	2	returned	return	VERB
_003376541	439	3	jubilantly	jubilantly	ADV
_003376541	439	4	from	from	ADP
_003376541	439	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	439	6	shopping	shopping	NOUN
_003376541	439	7	trip	trip	NOUN
_003376541	439	8	one	one	NUM
_003376541	439	9	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	439	10	to	to	PART
_003376541	439	11	announce	announce	VERB
_003376541	439	12	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	439	13	she	she	PRON
_003376541	439	14	had	have	AUX
_003376541	439	15	bought	buy	VERB
_003376541	439	16	four	four	NUM
_003376541	439	17	sheets	sheet	NOUN
_003376541	439	18	for	for	ADP
_003376541	439	19	$	$	SYM
_003376541	439	20	24	24	NUM
_003376541	439	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	440	1	her	her	PRON
_003376541	440	2	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	440	3	was	be	AUX
_003376541	440	4	horrified	horrify	VERB
_003376541	440	5	at	at	ADP
_003376541	440	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	440	7	expense	expense	NOUN
_003376541	440	8	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	441	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	441	2	rejoiced	rejoice	VERB
_003376541	441	3	over	over	ADP
_003376541	441	4	what	what	PRON
_003376541	441	5	she	she	PRON
_003376541	441	6	considered	consider	VERB
_003376541	441	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	441	8	bargain	bargain	NOUN
_003376541	441	9	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	442	1	within	within	ADP
_003376541	442	2	their	their	PRON
_003376541	442	3	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	442	4	frames	frame	NOUN
_003376541	442	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	442	6	reference	reference	NOUN
_003376541	442	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	442	8	each	each	PRON
_003376541	442	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	442	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	442	11	course	course	NOUN
_003376541	442	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	442	13	was	be	AUX
_003376541	442	14	right	right	ADJ
_003376541	442	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	443	1	unfortunately	unfortunately	ADV
_003376541	443	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	443	3	their	their	PRON
_003376541	443	4	frames	frame	NOUN
_003376541	443	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	443	6	reference	reference	NOUN
_003376541	443	7	were	be	AUX
_003376541	443	8	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	443	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	443	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	443	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	443	12	minor	minor	ADJ
_003376541	443	13	quarrel	quarrel	NOUN
_003376541	443	14	ensued	ensue	VERB
_003376541	443	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	444	1	every	every	DET
_003376541	444	2	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	444	3	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	444	4	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	444	5	will	will	AUX
_003376541	444	6	immediately	immediately	ADV
_003376541	444	7	recognize	recognize	VERB
_003376541	444	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	444	9	admit	admit	VERB
_003376541	444	10	another	another	DET
_003376541	444	11	trying	try	VERB
_003376541	444	12	barrier	barrier	NOUN
_003376541	444	13	to	to	ADP
_003376541	444	14	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	444	15	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	444	16	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	444	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	445	1	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	445	2	his	his	PRON
_003376541	445	3	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	445	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	445	5	preparing	prepare	VERB
_003376541	445	6	dinner	dinner	NOUN
_003376541	445	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	445	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	445	9	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	445	10	may	may	AUX
_003376541	445	11	take	take	VERB
_003376541	445	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	445	13	opportunity	opportunity	NOUN
_003376541	445	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	445	15	passing	pass	VERB
_003376541	445	16	on	on	ADP
_003376541	445	17	some	some	DET
_003376541	445	18	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	445	19	news	news	NOUN
_003376541	445	20	with	with	ADP
_003376541	445	21	which	which	PRON
_003376541	445	22	each	each	PRON
_003376541	445	23	is	be	AUX
_003376541	445	24	greatly	greatly	ADV
_003376541	445	25	concerned	concerned	ADJ
_003376541	445	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	446	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	446	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	446	3	midst	midst	NOUN
_003376541	446	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	446	5	this	this	DET
_003376541	446	6	serious	serious	ADJ
_003376541	446	7	conversation	conversation	NOUN
_003376541	446	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	446	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	446	10	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	446	11	rushes	rush	VERB
_003376541	446	12	into	into	ADP
_003376541	446	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	446	14	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	446	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	446	16	eager	eager	ADJ
_003376541	446	17	to	to	PART
_003376541	446	18	greet	greet	VERB
_003376541	446	19	daddy	daddy	NOUN
_003376541	446	20	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	446	21	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	446	22	launches	launch	NOUN
_003376541	446	23	into	into	ADP
_003376541	446	24	a	a	DET
_003376541	446	25	long	long	ADJ
_003376541	446	26	monologue	monologue	NOUN
_003376541	446	27	about	about	ADP
_003376541	446	28	daily	daily	ADJ
_003376541	446	29	activities	activity	NOUN
_003376541	446	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	447	1	no	no	DET
_003376541	447	2	32	32	NUM
_003376541	447	3	sooner	soon	ADV
_003376541	447	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	447	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	447	6	interrupted	interrupted	ADJ
_003376541	447	7	conversation	conversation	NOUN
_003376541	447	8	resumed	resume	VERB
_003376541	447	9	than	than	SCONJ
_003376541	447	10	another	another	DET
_003376541	447	11	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	447	12	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	447	13	in	in	ADP
_003376541	447	14	crying	cry	VERB
_003376541	447	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	448	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	448	2	fell	fall	VERB
_003376541	448	3	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	448	4	hurt	hurt	VERB
_003376541	448	5	himself	himself	PRON
_003376541	448	6	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	449	1	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	449	2	aid	aid	NOUN
_003376541	449	3	is	be	AUX
_003376541	449	4	administered	administer	VERB
_003376541	449	5	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	449	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	449	7	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	449	8	is	be	AUX
_003376541	449	9	soothed	soothe	VERB
_003376541	449	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	449	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	449	12	conversation	conversation	NOUN
_003376541	449	13	renewed	renew	VERB
_003376541	449	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	450	1	then	then	ADV
_003376541	450	2	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	450	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	450	4	telephone	telephone	NOUN
_003376541	450	5	call	call	NOUN
_003376541	450	6	from	from	ADP
_003376541	450	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	450	8	older	old	ADJ
_003376541	450	9	daughter	daughter	NOUN
_003376541	450	10	who	who	PRON
_003376541	450	11	is	be	AUX
_003376541	450	12	10	10	NUM
_003376541	450	13	blocks	block	NOUN
_003376541	450	14	away	away	ADV
_003376541	450	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	450	16	has	have	VERB
_003376541	450	17	no	no	DET
_003376541	450	18	transportation	transportation	NOUN
_003376541	450	19	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	450	20	wants	want	VERB
_003376541	450	21	daddy	daddy	NOUN
_003376541	450	22	to	to	PART
_003376541	450	23	pick	pick	VERB
_003376541	450	24	her	she	PRON
_003376541	450	25	up	up	ADP
_003376541	450	26	at	at	ADV
_003376541	450	27	once	once	ADV
_003376541	450	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	451	1	even	even	ADV
_003376541	451	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	451	3	most	most	ADV
_003376541	451	4	articulate	articulate	ADJ
_003376541	451	5	spouses	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	451	6	with	with	ADP
_003376541	451	7	exceptional	exceptional	ADJ
_003376541	451	8	abilities	ability	NOUN
_003376541	451	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	451	10	communicate	communicate	VERB
_003376541	451	11	can	can	AUX
_003376541	451	12	not	not	PART
_003376541	451	13	break	break	VERB
_003376541	451	14	through	through	ADP
_003376541	451	15	this	this	DET
_003376541	451	16	kind	kind	NOUN
_003376541	451	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	451	18	barrier	barrier	NOUN
_003376541	451	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	452	1	for	for	ADP
_003376541	452	2	this	this	DET
_003376541	452	3	reason	reason	NOUN
_003376541	452	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	452	5	while	while	SCONJ
_003376541	452	6	it	it	PRON
_003376541	452	7	is	be	AUX
_003376541	452	8	difficult	difficult	ADJ
_003376541	452	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	452	10	it	it	PRON
_003376541	452	11	is	be	AUX
_003376541	452	12	best	good	ADJ
_003376541	452	13	to	to	PART
_003376541	452	14	delay	delay	VERB
_003376541	452	15	serious	serious	ADJ
_003376541	452	16	conversations	conversation	NOUN
_003376541	452	17	until	until	SCONJ
_003376541	452	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	452	19	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	452	20	are	be	AUX
_003376541	452	21	in	in	ADP
_003376541	452	22	bed	bed	NOUN
_003376541	452	23	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	452	24	at	at	ADP
_003376541	452	25	least	least	ADJ
_003376541	452	26	settled	settle	VERB
_003376541	452	27	down	down	ADP
_003376541	452	28	to	to	ADP
_003376541	452	29	their	their	PRON
_003376541	452	30	evening	evening	NOUN
_003376541	452	31	study	study	NOUN
_003376541	452	32	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	453	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	453	2	with	with	ADP
_003376541	453	3	all	all	DET
_003376541	453	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	453	5	problems	problem	NOUN
_003376541	453	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	453	7	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	453	8	that	that	PRON
_003376541	453	9	do	do	AUX
_003376541	453	10	exist	exist	VERB
_003376541	453	11	between	between	ADP
_003376541	453	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	453	13	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	453	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	453	15	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	453	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	453	17	it	it	PRON
_003376541	453	18	must	must	AUX
_003376541	453	19	also	also	ADV
_003376541	453	20	be	be	AUX
_003376541	453	21	admitted	admit	VERB
_003376541	453	22	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	453	23	with	with	ADP
_003376541	453	24	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	453	25	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	453	26	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	453	27	they	they	PRON
_003376541	453	28	can	can	AUX
_003376541	453	29	learn	learn	VERB
_003376541	453	30	to	to	PART
_003376541	453	31	communicate	communicate	VERB
_003376541	453	32	well	well	ADV
_003376541	453	33	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	454	1	for	for	ADP
_003376541	454	2	instance	instance	NOUN
_003376541	454	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	454	4	within	within	ADP
_003376541	454	5	almost	almost	ADV
_003376541	454	6	every	every	PRON
_003376541	454	7	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	454	8	there	there	PRON
_003376541	454	9	is	be	VERB
_003376541	454	10	what	what	PRON
_003376541	454	11	might	might	AUX
_003376541	454	12	be	be	AUX
_003376541	454	13	called	call	VERB
_003376541	454	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	454	15	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	454	16	vocabulary	vocabulary	NOUN
_003376541	454	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	455	1	these	these	PRON
_003376541	455	2	may	may	AUX
_003376541	455	3	be	be	AUX
_003376541	455	4	expressions	expression	NOUN
_003376541	455	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	455	6	endearment	endearment	NOUN
_003376541	455	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	455	8	special	special	ADJ
_003376541	455	9	phrases	phrase	NOUN
_003376541	455	10	used	use	VERB
_003376541	455	11	with	with	ADP
_003376541	455	12	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	455	13	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	455	14	regarding	regard	VERB
_003376541	455	15	excretion	excretion	NOUN
_003376541	455	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	455	17	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	455	18	just	just	ADV
_003376541	455	19	long	long	ADV
_003376541	455	20	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	455	21	standing	stand	VERB
_003376541	455	22	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	455	23	jokes	joke	NOUN
_003376541	455	24	based	base	VERB
_003376541	455	25	on	on	ADP
_003376541	455	26	mutual	mutual	ADJ
_003376541	455	27	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	455	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	456	1	one	one	NUM
_003376541	456	2	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	456	3	had	have	VERB
_003376541	456	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	456	5	student	student	NOUN
_003376541	456	6	from	from	ADP
_003376541	456	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	456	8	university	university	NOUN
_003376541	456	9	boarding	boarding	NOUN
_003376541	456	10	with	with	ADP
_003376541	456	11	them	they	PRON
_003376541	456	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	457	1	no	no	ADV
_003376541	457	2	matter	matter	ADV
_003376541	457	3	what	what	PRON
_003376541	457	4	was	be	AUX
_003376541	457	5	served	serve	VERB
_003376541	457	6	him	he	PRON
_003376541	457	7	at	at	ADP
_003376541	457	8	dinner	dinner	NOUN
_003376541	457	9	he	he	PRON
_003376541	457	10	inevitably	inevitably	ADV
_003376541	457	11	made	make	VERB
_003376541	457	12	a	a	DET
_003376541	457	13	sandwich	sandwich	NOUN
_003376541	457	14	out	out	ADP
_003376541	457	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	457	16	it	it	PRON
_003376541	457	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	457	18	sometimes	sometimes	ADV
_003376541	457	19	piling	pile	VERB
_003376541	457	20	meat	meat	NOUN
_003376541	457	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	457	22	potatoes	potato	NOUN
_003376541	457	23	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	457	24	vegetables	vegetable	NOUN
_003376541	457	25	within	within	ADP
_003376541	457	26	two	two	NUM
_003376541	457	27	slices	slice	NOUN
_003376541	457	28	of	of	ADP
_003376541	457	29	bread	bread	NOUN
_003376541	457	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	458	1	to	to	ADP
_003376541	458	2	this	this	DET
_003376541	458	3	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	458	4	any	any	DET
_003376541	458	5	large	large	ADJ
_003376541	458	6	sandwich	sandwich	NOUN
_003376541	458	7	is	be	AUX
_003376541	458	8	known	know	VERB
_003376541	458	9	in	in	ADP
_003376541	458	10	this	this	DET
_003376541	458	11	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	458	12	as	as	ADP
_003376541	458	13	a	a	DET
_003376541	458	14	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	458	15	riley	riley	NOUN
_003376541	458	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	458	17	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	458	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	458	19	name	name	NOUN
_003376541	458	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	458	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	458	22	graduate	graduate	NOUN
_003376541	458	23	student	student	NOUN
_003376541	458	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	459	1	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	459	2	experiences	experience	NOUN
_003376541	459	3	facilitate	facilitate	VERB
_003376541	459	4	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	459	5	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	459	6	in	in	ADP
_003376541	459	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	459	8	sense	sense	NOUN
_003376541	459	9	are	be	AUX
_003376541	459	10	practically	practically	ADV
_003376541	459	11	copyrighted	copyright	VERB
_003376541	459	12	by	by	ADP
_003376541	459	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	459	14	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	459	15	which	which	PRON
_003376541	459	16	uses	use	VERB
_003376541	459	17	them	they	PRON
_003376541	459	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	460	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	460	2	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	460	3	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	460	4	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	460	5	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	460	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	460	7	although	although	SCONJ
_003376541	460	8	at	at	ADP
_003376541	460	9	times	time	NOUN
_003376541	460	10	difficult	difficult	ADJ
_003376541	460	11	for	for	SCONJ
_003376541	460	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	460	13	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	460	14	reasons	reason	NOUN
_003376541	460	15	pointed	point	VERB
_003376541	460	16	out	out	ADP
_003376541	460	17	here	here	ADV
_003376541	460	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	460	19	is	be	AUX
_003376541	460	20	by	by	ADP
_003376541	460	21	no	no	DET
_003376541	460	22	means	mean	NOUN
_003376541	460	23	impossible	impossible	ADJ
_003376541	460	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	461	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	461	2	it	it	PRON
_003376541	461	3	does	do	AUX
_003376541	461	4	require	require	VERB
_003376541	461	5	positive	positive	ADJ
_003376541	461	6	effort	effort	NOUN
_003376541	461	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	461	8	particularly	particularly	ADV
_003376541	461	9	patience	patience	NOUN
_003376541	461	10	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	462	1	some	some	DET
_003376541	462	2	conversations	conversation	NOUN
_003376541	462	3	are	be	AUX
_003376541	462	4	merely	merely	ADV
_003376541	462	5	small	small	ADJ
_003376541	462	6	talk	talk	NOUN
_003376541	462	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	462	8	present	present	VERB
_003376541	462	9	no	no	DET
_003376541	462	10	problem	problem	NOUN
_003376541	462	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	463	1	others	other	NOUN
_003376541	463	2	consist	consist	VERB
_003376541	463	3	in	in	ADP
_003376541	463	4	passing	pass	VERB
_003376541	463	5	on	on	ADP
_003376541	463	6	routine	routine	ADJ
_003376541	463	7	information	information	NOUN
_003376541	463	8	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	463	9	asking	ask	VERB
_003376541	463	10	ordinary	ordinary	ADJ
_003376541	463	11	questions	question	NOUN
_003376541	463	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	464	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	464	2	there	there	PRON
_003376541	464	3	are	be	VERB
_003376541	464	4	others	other	NOUN
_003376541	464	5	which	which	PRON
_003376541	464	6	are	be	AUX
_003376541	464	7	quite	quite	ADV
_003376541	464	8	serious	serious	ADJ
_003376541	464	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	464	10	involve	involve	VERB
_003376541	464	11	rather	rather	ADV
_003376541	464	12	weighty	weighty	ADJ
_003376541	464	13	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	464	14	decisions	decision	NOUN
_003376541	464	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	465	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	465	2	danger	danger	NOUN
_003376541	465	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	465	4	misunderstanding	misunderstanding	NOUN
_003376541	465	5	is	be	AUX
_003376541	465	6	greatest	great	ADJ
_003376541	465	7	in	in	ADP
_003376541	465	8	this	this	DET
_003376541	465	9	last	last	ADJ
_003376541	465	10	area	area	NOUN
_003376541	465	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	466	1	therefore	therefore	ADV
_003376541	466	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	466	3	it	it	PRON
_003376541	466	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	466	5	wise	wise	ADJ
_003376541	466	6	for	for	SCONJ
_003376541	466	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	466	8	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	466	9	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	466	10	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	466	11	to	to	PART
_003376541	466	12	assess	assess	VERB
_003376541	466	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	466	14	situation	situation	NOUN
_003376541	466	15	as	as	ADV
_003376541	466	16	well	well	ADV
_003376541	466	17	as	as	ADP
_003376541	466	18	possible	possible	ADJ
_003376541	466	19	before	before	ADP
_003376541	466	20	embarking	embark	VERB
_003376541	466	21	upon	upon	SCONJ
_003376541	466	22	such	such	DET
_003376541	466	23	a	a	DET
_003376541	466	24	conversation	conversation	NOUN
_003376541	466	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	467	1	33	33	NUM
_003376541	467	2	choosing	choose	VERB
_003376541	467	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	467	4	right	right	ADJ
_003376541	467	5	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	467	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	467	7	speak	speak	VERB
_003376541	467	8	bad	bad	ADJ
_003376541	467	9	news	news	NOUN
_003376541	467	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	467	11	it	it	PRON
_003376541	467	12	is	be	AUX
_003376541	467	13	said	say	VERB
_003376541	467	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	467	15	travels	travel	VERB
_003376541	467	16	fast	fast	ADV
_003376541	467	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	468	1	sometimes	sometimes	ADV
_003376541	468	2	it	it	PRON
_003376541	468	3	does	do	AUX
_003376541	468	4	in	in	ADP
_003376541	468	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	468	6	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	468	7	because	because	SCONJ
_003376541	468	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	468	9	moment	moment	NOUN
_003376541	468	10	a	a	DET
_003376541	468	11	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	468	12	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	468	13	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	468	14	see	see	VERB
_003376541	468	15	each	each	DET
_003376541	468	16	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	468	17	toward	toward	ADP
_003376541	468	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	468	19	end	end	NOUN
_003376541	468	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	468	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	468	22	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	468	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	468	24	while	while	SCONJ
_003376541	468	25	dinner	dinner	NOUN
_003376541	468	26	is	be	AUX
_003376541	468	27	in	in	ADP
_003376541	468	28	preparation	preparation	NOUN
_003376541	468	29	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	468	30	the	the	DET
_003376541	468	31	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	468	32	are	be	AUX
_003376541	468	33	still	still	ADV
_003376541	468	34	playing	play	VERB
_003376541	468	35	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	468	36	the	the	DET
_003376541	468	37	bad	bad	ADJ
_003376541	468	38	news	news	NOUN
_003376541	468	39	is	be	AUX
_003376541	468	40	broken	break	VERB
_003376541	468	41	by	by	ADP
_003376541	468	42	one	one	NUM
_003376541	468	43	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	468	44	the	the	DET
_003376541	468	45	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	468	46	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	469	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	469	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	469	3	probably	probably	ADV
_003376541	469	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	469	5	worst	bad	ADJ
_003376541	469	6	possible	possible	ADJ
_003376541	469	7	moment	moment	NOUN
_003376541	469	8	to	to	PART
_003376541	469	9	convey	convey	VERB
_003376541	469	10	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	469	11	news	news	NOUN
_003376541	469	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	470	1	short	short	ADJ
_003376541	470	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	470	3	an	an	DET
_003376541	470	4	immediate	immediate	ADJ
_003376541	470	5	emergency	emergency	NOUN
_003376541	470	6	due	due	ADP
_003376541	470	7	to	to	ADP
_003376541	470	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	470	9	news	news	NOUN
_003376541	470	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	470	11	it	it	PRON
_003376541	470	12	could	could	AUX
_003376541	470	13	be	be	AUX
_003376541	470	14	postponed	postpone	VERB
_003376541	470	15	until	until	ADP
_003376541	470	16	after	after	ADP
_003376541	470	17	dinner	dinner	NOUN
_003376541	470	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	470	19	then	then	ADV
_003376541	470	20	discussed	discuss	VERB
_003376541	470	21	quietly	quietly	ADV
_003376541	470	22	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	470	23	as	as	ADV
_003376541	470	24	unemotionally	unemotionally	ADV
_003376541	470	25	as	as	ADP
_003376541	470	26	possible	possible	ADJ
_003376541	470	27	in	in	ADP
_003376541	470	28	the	the	DET
_003376541	470	29	latter	latter	ADJ
_003376541	470	30	part	part	NOUN
_003376541	470	31	of	of	ADP
_003376541	470	32	the	the	DET
_003376541	470	33	evening	evening	NOUN
_003376541	470	34	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	471	1	furthermore	furthermore	ADV
_003376541	471	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	471	3	some	some	PRON
_003376541	471	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	471	5	these	these	DET
_003376541	471	6	situations	situation	NOUN
_003376541	471	7	do	do	AUX
_003376541	471	8	not	not	PART
_003376541	471	9	look	look	VERB
_003376541	471	10	nearly	nearly	ADV
_003376541	471	11	so	so	ADV
_003376541	471	12	bad	bad	ADJ
_003376541	471	13	after	after	ADP
_003376541	471	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	471	15	pleasant	pleasant	ADJ
_003376541	471	16	dinner	dinner	NOUN
_003376541	471	17	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	471	18	they	they	PRON
_003376541	471	19	do	do	AUX
_003376541	471	20	on	on	ADP
_003376541	471	21	an	an	DET
_003376541	471	22	empty	empty	ADJ
_003376541	471	23	stomach	stomach	NOUN
_003376541	471	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	472	1	rather	rather	ADV
_003376541	472	2	obviously	obviously	ADV
_003376541	472	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	472	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	472	5	best	good	ADJ
_003376541	472	6	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	472	7	to	to	PART
_003376541	472	8	relay	relay	VERB
_003376541	472	9	disconcerting	disconcert	VERB
_003376541	472	10	information	information	NOUN
_003376541	472	11	is	be	AUX
_003376541	472	12	not	not	PART
_003376541	472	13	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	472	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	472	15	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	472	16	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	472	17	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	472	18	is	be	AUX
_003376541	472	19	clearly	clearly	ADV
_003376541	472	20	upset	upset	ADJ
_003376541	472	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	473	1	one	one	NUM
_003376541	473	2	tired	tired	ADJ
_003376541	473	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	473	4	lonely	lonely	ADJ
_003376541	473	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	473	6	traveling	traveling	ADJ
_003376541	473	7	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	473	8	salesman	salesman	NOUN
_003376541	473	9	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	473	10	called	call	VERB
_003376541	473	11	his	his	PRON
_003376541	473	12	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	473	13	long	long	ADJ
_003376541	473	14	distance	distance	NOUN
_003376541	473	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	474	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	474	2	was	be	AUX
_003376541	474	3	probably	probably	ADV
_003376541	474	4	as	as	ADV
_003376541	474	5	lonely	lonely	ADJ
_003376541	474	6	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	474	7	tired	tired	ADJ
_003376541	474	8	as	as	ADP
_003376541	474	9	he	he	PRON
_003376541	474	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	474	11	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	474	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	474	13	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	474	14	news	news	NOUN
_003376541	474	15	she	she	PRON
_003376541	474	16	passed	pass	VERB
_003376541	474	17	on	on	ADP
_003376541	474	18	in	in	ADP
_003376541	474	19	a	a	DET
_003376541	474	20	semihysterical	semihysterical	ADJ
_003376541	474	21	vein	vein	NOUN
_003376541	474	22	was	be	AUX
_003376541	474	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	474	24	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	474	25	today	today	NOUN
_003376541	474	26	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	474	27	the	the	DET
_003376541	474	28	whole	whole	NOUN
_003376541	474	29	back	back	ADV
_003376541	474	30	of	of	ADP
_003376541	474	31	the	the	DET
_003376541	474	32	house	house	NOUN
_003376541	474	33	was	be	AUX
_003376541	474	34	on	on	ADP
_003376541	474	35	fire	fire	NOUN
_003376541	474	36	!	!	PUNCT
_003376541	474	37	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	475	1	momentarily	momentarily	ADV
_003376541	475	2	stunned	stun	VERB
_003376541	475	3	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	475	4	feeling	feel	VERB
_003376541	475	5	helpless	helpless	ADJ
_003376541	475	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	475	7	hundreds	hundred	NOUN
_003376541	475	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	475	9	miles	mile	NOUN
_003376541	475	10	away	away	ADV
_003376541	475	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	475	12	he	he	PRON
_003376541	475	13	anxiously	anxiously	ADV
_003376541	475	14	inquired	inquire	VERB
_003376541	475	15	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	475	16	any	any	PRON
_003376541	475	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	475	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	475	19	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	475	20	had	have	AUX
_003376541	475	21	been	be	AUX
_003376541	475	22	injured	injure	VERB
_003376541	475	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	476	1	reassured	reassure	VERB
_003376541	476	2	about	about	ADP
_003376541	476	3	this	this	PRON
_003376541	476	4	he	he	PRON
_003376541	476	5	began	begin	VERB
_003376541	476	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	476	7	press	press	VERB
_003376541	476	8	for	for	ADP
_003376541	476	9	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	476	10	details	detail	NOUN
_003376541	476	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	477	1	ultimately	ultimately	ADV
_003376541	477	2	he	he	PRON
_003376541	477	3	learned	learn	VERB
_003376541	477	4	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	477	5	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	477	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	477	7	whole	whole	NOUN
_003376541	477	8	back	back	ADV
_003376541	477	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	477	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	477	11	house	house	NOUN
_003376541	477	12	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	477	13	really	really	ADV
_003376541	477	14	meant	mean	VERB
_003376541	477	15	some	some	DET
_003376541	477	16	leaves	leave	NOUN
_003376541	477	17	a	a	DET
_003376541	477	18	hundred	hundred	NUM
_003376541	477	19	yards	yard	NOUN
_003376541	477	20	behind	behind	ADP
_003376541	477	21	his	his	PRON
_003376541	477	22	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	477	23	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	477	24	they	they	PRON
_003376541	477	25	had	have	AUX
_003376541	477	26	become	become	VERB
_003376541	477	27	ignited	ignite	VERB
_003376541	477	28	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	477	29	the	the	DET
_003376541	477	30	trash	trash	NOUN
_003376541	477	31	was	be	AUX
_003376541	477	32	being	be	AUX
_003376541	477	33	burned	burn	VERB
_003376541	477	34	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	478	1	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	478	2	one	one	PRON
_003376541	478	3	might	might	AUX
_003376541	478	4	imagine	imagine	VERB
_003376541	478	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	478	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	478	7	telephone	telephone	NOUN
_003376541	478	8	conversation	conversation	NOUN
_003376541	478	9	did	do	AUX
_003376541	478	10	not	not	PART
_003376541	478	11	end	end	VERB
_003376541	478	12	on	on	ADP
_003376541	478	13	a	a	DET
_003376541	478	14	pleasant	pleasant	ADJ
_003376541	478	15	note	note	NOUN
_003376541	478	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	479	1	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	479	2	husbands	husband	NOUN
_003376541	479	3	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	479	4	wives	wife	NOUN
_003376541	479	5	do	do	AUX
_003376541	479	6	discuss	discuss	VERB
_003376541	479	7	serious	serious	ADJ
_003376541	479	8	matters	matter	NOUN
_003376541	479	9	with	with	ADP
_003376541	479	10	each	each	DET
_003376541	479	11	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	479	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	479	13	each	each	PRON
_003376541	479	14	should	should	AUX
_003376541	479	15	be	be	AUX
_003376541	479	16	certain	certain	ADJ
_003376541	479	17	as	as	ADP
_003376541	479	18	possible	possible	ADJ
_003376541	479	19	to	to	PART
_003376541	479	20	be	be	AUX
_003376541	479	21	clear	clear	ADJ
_003376541	479	22	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	479	23	concise	concise	ADJ
_003376541	479	24	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	479	25	definitely	definitely	ADV
_003376541	479	26	certain	certain	ADJ
_003376541	479	27	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	479	28	the	the	DET
_003376541	479	29	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	479	30	understands	understand	VERB
_003376541	479	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	480	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	480	2	may	may	AUX
_003376541	480	3	take	take	VERB
_003376541	480	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	480	5	bit	bit	NOUN
_003376541	480	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	480	7	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	480	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	480	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	480	10	bit	bit	NOUN
_003376541	480	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	480	12	doing	do	VERB
_003376541	480	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	480	14	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	480	15	it	it	PRON
_003376541	480	16	is	be	AUX
_003376541	480	17	certainly	certainly	ADV
_003376541	480	18	essential	essential	ADJ
_003376541	480	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	481	1	some	some	DET
_003376541	481	2	irritation	irritation	NOUN
_003376541	481	3	may	may	AUX
_003376541	481	4	well	well	ADV
_003376541	481	5	result	result	VERB
_003376541	481	6	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	481	7	one	one	NUM
_003376541	481	8	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	481	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	481	10	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	481	11	feels	feel	VERB
_003376541	481	12	he	he	PRON
_003376541	482	1	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	482	2	she	she	PRON
_003376541	482	3	is	be	AUX
_003376541	482	4	not	not	PART
_003376541	482	5	getting	get	VERB
_003376541	482	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	482	7	message	message	NOUN
_003376541	482	8	across	across	ADP
_003376541	482	9	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	483	1	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	483	2	at	at	ADP
_003376541	483	3	all	all	DET
_003376541	483	4	costs	cost	NOUN
_003376541	483	5	emotion	emotion	NOUN
_003376541	483	6	should	should	AUX
_003376541	483	7	be	be	AUX
_003376541	483	8	ruled	rule	VERB
_003376541	483	9	out	out	ADP
_003376541	483	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	483	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	483	12	conversation	conversation	NOUN
_003376541	483	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	484	1	at	at	ADP
_003376541	484	2	34	34	NUM
_003376541	484	3	least	least	ADJ
_003376541	484	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	484	5	husbands	husband	NOUN
_003376541	484	6	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	484	7	wives	wife	NOUN
_003376541	484	8	should	should	AUX
_003376541	484	9	observe	observe	VERB
_003376541	484	10	with	with	ADP
_003376541	484	11	each	each	DET
_003376541	484	12	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	484	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	484	14	same	same	ADJ
_003376541	484	15	kind	kind	NOUN
_003376541	484	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	484	17	courtesy	courtesy	NOUN
_003376541	484	18	that	that	PRON
_003376541	484	19	both	both	PRON
_003376541	484	20	would	would	AUX
_003376541	484	21	extend	extend	VERB
_003376541	484	22	to	to	ADP
_003376541	484	23	strangers	stranger	NOUN
_003376541	484	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	485	1	sometimes	sometimes	ADV
_003376541	485	2	they	they	PRON
_003376541	485	3	do	do	VERB
_003376541	485	4	n't	not	PART
_003376541	485	5	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	486	1	learning	learn	VERB
_003376541	486	2	to	to	PART
_003376541	486	3	keep	keep	VERB
_003376541	486	4	silent	silent	ADJ
_003376541	486	5	finally	finally	ADV
_003376541	486	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	486	7	there	there	PRON
_003376541	486	8	are	be	VERB
_003376541	486	9	certain	certain	ADJ
_003376541	486	10	topics	topic	NOUN
_003376541	486	11	that	that	PRON
_003376541	486	12	are	be	AUX
_003376541	486	13	best	well	ADV
_003376541	486	14	left	leave	VERB
_003376541	486	15	undiscussed	undiscussed	ADJ
_003376541	486	16	because	because	SCONJ
_003376541	486	17	they	they	PRON
_003376541	486	18	can	can	AUX
_003376541	486	19	not	not	PART
_003376541	486	20	be	be	AUX
_003376541	486	21	resolved	resolve	VERB
_003376541	486	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	487	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	487	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	487	3	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	487	4	does	do	AUX
_003376541	487	5	n't	not	PART
_003376541	487	6	like	like	VERB
_003376541	487	7	her	her	PRON
_003376541	487	8	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	487	9	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	487	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	487	11	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	487	12	law	law	NOUN
_003376541	487	13	's	's	PART
_003376541	487	14	hairdo	hairdo	PROPN
_003376541	487	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	487	16	it	it	PRON
_003376541	487	17	is	be	AUX
_003376541	487	18	futile	futile	ADJ
_003376541	487	19	to	to	PART
_003376541	487	20	complain	complain	VERB
_003376541	487	21	to	to	ADP
_003376541	487	22	her	her	PRON
_003376541	487	23	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	487	24	about	about	ADP
_003376541	487	25	it	it	PRON
_003376541	487	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	488	1	relationships	relationship	NOUN
_003376541	488	2	between	between	ADP
_003376541	488	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	488	4	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	488	5	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	488	6	son	son	NOUN
_003376541	488	7	inevitably	inevitably	ADV
_003376541	488	8	have	have	VERB
_003376541	488	9	emotional	emotional	ADJ
_003376541	488	10	overtones	overtone	NOUN
_003376541	488	11	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	488	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	488	13	any	any	DET
_003376541	488	14	criticism	criticism	NOUN
_003376541	488	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	488	16	his	his	PRON
_003376541	488	17	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	488	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	488	19	even	even	ADV
_003376541	488	20	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	488	21	justified	justify	VERB
_003376541	488	22	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	488	23	is	be	AUX
_003376541	488	24	rarely	rarely	ADV
_003376541	488	25	appreciated	appreciate	VERB
_003376541	488	26	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	488	27	more	more	ADV
_003376541	488	28	rarely	rarely	ADV
_003376541	488	29	accepted	accept	VERB
_003376541	488	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	489	1	sometimes	sometimes	ADV
_003376541	489	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	489	3	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	489	4	's	's	PART
_003376541	489	5	friends	friend	NOUN
_003376541	489	6	are	be	AUX
_003376541	489	7	positively	positively	ADV
_003376541	489	8	disliked	dislike	VERB
_003376541	489	9	by	by	ADP
_003376541	489	10	his	his	PRON
_003376541	489	11	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	489	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	490	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	490	2	mere	mere	ADJ
_003376541	490	3	mention	mention	NOUN
_003376541	490	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	490	5	one	one	NUM
_003376541	490	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	490	7	their	their	PRON
_003376541	490	8	names	name	NOUN
_003376541	490	9	changes	change	VERB
_003376541	490	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	490	11	whole	whole	ADJ
_003376541	490	12	tone	tone	NOUN
_003376541	490	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	490	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	490	15	conversation	conversation	NOUN
_003376541	490	16	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	490	17	renders	render	VERB
_003376541	490	18	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	490	19	impossible	impossible	ADJ
_003376541	490	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	491	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	491	2	wise	wise	ADJ
_003376541	491	3	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	491	4	will	will	AUX
_003376541	491	5	delete	delete	VERB
_003376541	491	6	these	these	DET
_003376541	491	7	names	name	NOUN
_003376541	491	8	from	from	ADP
_003376541	491	9	his	his	PRON
_003376541	491	10	conversation	conversation	NOUN
_003376541	491	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	492	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	492	2	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	492	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	492	4	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	492	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	492	6	situation	situation	NOUN
_003376541	492	7	exists	exist	VERB
_003376541	492	8	on	on	ADP
_003376541	492	9	her	her	PRON
_003376541	492	10	side	side	NOUN
_003376541	492	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	492	12	will	will	AUX
_003376541	492	13	do	do	VERB
_003376541	492	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	492	15	same	same	ADJ
_003376541	492	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	493	1	over	over	ADP
_003376541	493	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	493	3	years	year	NOUN
_003376541	493	4	each	each	DET
_003376541	493	5	spouse	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	493	6	must	must	AUX
_003376541	493	7	learn	learn	VERB
_003376541	493	8	to	to	PART
_003376541	493	9	pick	pick	VERB
_003376541	493	10	up	up	ADP
_003376541	493	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	493	12	cues	cue	NOUN
_003376541	493	13	which	which	PRON
_003376541	493	14	indicate	indicate	VERB
_003376541	493	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	493	16	particular	particular	ADJ
_003376541	493	17	subject	subject	NOUN
_003376541	493	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	493	19	a	a	DET
_003376541	493	20	particular	particular	ADJ
_003376541	493	21	phrase	phrase	NOUN
_003376541	493	22	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	493	23	a	a	DET
_003376541	493	24	particular	particular	ADJ
_003376541	493	25	mood	mood	NOUN
_003376541	493	26	will	will	AUX
_003376541	493	27	make	make	VERB
_003376541	493	28	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	493	29	impossible	impossible	ADJ
_003376541	493	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	494	1	sometimes	sometimes	ADV
_003376541	494	2	these	these	DET
_003376541	494	3	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	494	4	may	may	AUX
_003376541	494	5	be	be	AUX
_003376541	494	6	very	very	ADV
_003376541	494	7	ordinary	ordinary	ADJ
_003376541	494	8	ones	one	NOUN
_003376541	494	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	494	10	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	494	11	they	they	PRON
_003376541	494	12	hold	hold	VERB
_003376541	494	13	an	an	DET
_003376541	494	14	extraordinary	extraordinary	ADJ
_003376541	494	15	connotation	connotation	NOUN
_003376541	494	16	for	for	ADP
_003376541	494	17	one	one	NUM
_003376541	494	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	494	19	the	the	DET
_003376541	494	20	parties	party	NOUN
_003376541	494	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	495	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	495	2	one	one	NUM
_003376541	495	3	case	case	NOUN
_003376541	495	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	495	5	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	495	6	constantly	constantly	ADV
_003376541	495	7	irritated	irritate	VERB
_003376541	495	8	his	his	PRON
_003376541	495	9	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	495	10	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	495	11	he	he	PRON
_003376541	495	12	remarked	remark	VERB
_003376541	495	13	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	495	14	he	he	PRON
_003376541	495	15	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	495	16	had	have	VERB
_003376541	495	17	to	to	PART
_003376541	495	18	put	put	VERB
_003376541	495	19	the	the	DET
_003376541	495	20	slop	slop	NOUN
_003376541	495	21	out	out	ADP
_003376541	495	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	495	23	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	496	1	to	to	ADP
_003376541	496	2	her	she	PRON
_003376541	496	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	496	4	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	496	5	slop	slop	NOUN
_003376541	496	6	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	496	7	meant	mean	VERB
_003376541	496	8	something	something	PRON
_003376541	496	9	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	496	10	than	than	ADP
_003376541	496	11	garbage	garbage	NOUN
_003376541	496	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	496	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	496	14	for	for	ADP
_003376541	496	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	496	16	long	long	ADJ
_003376541	496	17	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	496	18	he	he	PRON
_003376541	496	19	was	be	AUX
_003376541	496	20	puzzled	puzzle	VERB
_003376541	496	21	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	496	22	hurt	hurt	VERB
_003376541	496	23	by	by	ADP
_003376541	496	24	his	his	PRON
_003376541	496	25	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	496	26	's	's	PART
_003376541	496	27	momentary	momentary	ADJ
_003376541	496	28	flare	flare	NOUN
_003376541	496	29	of	of	ADP
_003376541	496	30	anger	anger	NOUN
_003376541	496	31	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	496	32	he	he	PRON
_003376541	496	33	used	use	VERB
_003376541	496	34	the	the	DET
_003376541	496	35	word	word	NOUN
_003376541	496	36	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	497	1	getting	get	VERB
_003376541	497	2	along	along	ADP
_003376541	497	3	well	well	ADV
_003376541	497	4	in	in	ADP
_003376541	497	5	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	497	6	is	be	AUX
_003376541	497	7	so	so	ADV
_003376541	497	8	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	497	9	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	497	10	these	these	DET
_003376541	497	11	sensitive	sensitive	ADJ
_003376541	497	12	areas	area	NOUN
_003376541	497	13	in	in	ADP
_003376541	497	14	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	497	15	must	must	AUX
_003376541	497	16	be	be	AUX
_003376541	497	17	recognized	recognize	VERB
_003376541	497	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	497	19	appreciated	appreciate	VERB
_003376541	497	20	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	497	21	handled	handle	VERB
_003376541	497	22	skillfully	skillfully	ADV
_003376541	497	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	498	1	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	498	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	498	3	effort	effort	NOUN
_003376541	498	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	498	5	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	498	6	will	will	NOUN
_003376541	498	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	498	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	498	9	few	few	ADJ
_003376541	498	10	sensible	sensible	ADJ
_003376541	498	11	ground	ground	NOUN
_003376541	498	12	rules	rule	NOUN
_003376541	498	13	will	will	AUX
_003376541	498	14	facilitate	facilitate	VERB
_003376541	498	15	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	498	16	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	498	17	inhibit	inhibit	VERB
_003376541	498	18	misunderstanding	misunderstanding	NOUN
_003376541	498	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	499	1	there	there	PRON
_003376541	499	2	can	can	AUX
_003376541	499	3	be	be	AUX
_003376541	499	4	no	no	DET
_003376541	499	5	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	499	6	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	499	7	in	in	ADP
_003376541	499	8	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	499	9	without	without	ADP
_003376541	499	10	mutual	mutual	ADJ
_003376541	499	11	understanding	understanding	NOUN
_003376541	499	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	499	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	499	14	mutual	mutual	ADJ
_003376541	499	15	understanding	understanding	NOUN
_003376541	499	16	is	be	AUX
_003376541	499	17	obviously	obviously	ADV
_003376541	499	18	impossible	impossible	ADJ
_003376541	499	19	without	without	ADP
_003376541	499	20	adequate	adequate	ADJ
_003376541	499	21	communication	communication	NOUN
_003376541	499	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	500	1	35	35	NUM
_003376541	500	2	your	your	PRON
_003376541	500	3	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	500	4	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	500	5	by	by	ADP
_003376541	500	6	linus	linus	NOUN
_003376541	500	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	500	8	mary	mary	PROPN
_003376541	500	9	maino	maino	NOUN
_003376541	500	10	all	all	DET
_003376541	500	11	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	500	12	live	live	VERB
_003376541	500	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	500	14	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	500	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	500	16	their	their	PRON
_003376541	500	17	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	500	18	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	500	19	only	only	ADV
_003376541	500	20	once	once	ADV
_003376541	500	21	in	in	ADP
_003376541	500	22	a	a	DET
_003376541	500	23	lifetime	lifetime	NOUN
_003376541	500	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	501	1	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	501	2	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	501	3	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	501	4	makes	make	VERB
_003376541	501	5	three	three	NUM
_003376541	501	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	501	7	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	501	8	will	will	AUX
_003376541	501	9	their	their	PRON
_003376541	501	10	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	501	11	together	together	ADV
_003376541	501	12	be	be	AUX
_003376541	501	13	a	a	DET
_003376541	501	14	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	501	15	blue	blue	ADJ
_003376541	501	16	heaven	heaven	NOUN
_003376541	501	17	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	501	18	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	501	19	just	just	ADV
_003376541	501	20	plain	plain	ADV
_003376541	501	21	blue	blue	ADJ
_003376541	501	22	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	502	1	they	they	PRON
_003376541	502	2	were	be	AUX
_003376541	502	3	two	two	NUM
_003376541	502	4	in	in	ADP
_003376541	502	5	one	one	NUM
_003376541	502	6	flesh	flesh	NOUN
_003376541	502	7	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	502	8	they	they	PRON
_003376541	502	9	are	be	AUX
_003376541	502	10	now	now	ADV
_003376541	502	11	three	three	NUM
_003376541	502	12	in	in	ADP
_003376541	502	13	one	one	NUM
_003376541	502	14	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	502	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	503	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	503	2	flighty	flighty	ADJ
_003376541	503	3	bride	bride	NOUN
_003376541	503	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	503	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	503	6	calm	calm	ADJ
_003376541	503	7	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	503	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	503	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	503	10	nervous	nervous	ADJ
_003376541	503	11	bridegroom	bridegroom	NOUN
_003376541	503	12	is	be	AUX
_003376541	503	13	now	now	ADV
_003376541	503	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	503	15	strong	strong	ADJ
_003376541	503	16	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	503	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	504	1	at	at	ADP
_003376541	504	2	any	any	DET
_003376541	504	3	rate	rate	NOUN
_003376541	504	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	504	5	that	that	PRON
_003376541	504	6	is	be	AUX
_003376541	504	7	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	504	8	it	it	PRON
_003376541	504	9	should	should	AUX
_003376541	504	10	be	be	AUX
_003376541	504	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	505	1	on	on	ADP
_003376541	505	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	505	3	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	505	4	hand	hand	NOUN
_003376541	505	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	505	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	505	7	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	505	8	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	505	9	can	can	AUX
_003376541	505	10	cause	cause	VERB
_003376541	505	11	his	his	PRON
_003376541	505	12	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	505	13	to	to	AUX
_003376541	505	14	regress	regress	NOUN
_003376541	505	15	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	505	16	his	his	PRON
_003376541	505	17	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	505	18	becomes	become	VERB
_003376541	505	19	a	a	DET
_003376541	505	20	little	little	ADJ
_003376541	505	21	girl	girl	NOUN
_003376541	505	22	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	505	23	her	her	PRON
_003376541	505	24	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	505	25	a	a	DET
_003376541	505	26	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	505	27	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	505	28	wonderful	wonderful	ADJ
_003376541	505	29	doll	doll	NOUN
_003376541	505	30	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	505	31	a	a	DET
_003376541	505	32	plaything	plaything	NOUN
_003376541	505	33	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	505	34	a	a	DET
_003376541	505	35	toy	toy	NOUN
_003376541	505	36	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	505	37	his	his	PRON
_003376541	505	38	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	505	39	becomes	become	VERB
_003376541	505	40	a	a	DET
_003376541	505	41	big	big	ADJ
_003376541	505	42	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	505	43	jealous	jealous	ADJ
_003376541	505	44	boy	boy	NOUN
_003376541	505	45	who	who	PRON
_003376541	505	46	also	also	ADV
_003376541	505	47	returns	return	VERB
_003376541	505	48	to	to	ADP
_003376541	505	49	the	the	DET
_003376541	505	50	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	505	51	of	of	ADP
_003376541	505	52	a	a	DET
_003376541	505	53	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	505	54	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	505	55	his	his	PRON
_003376541	505	56	games	game	NOUN
_003376541	505	57	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	505	58	his	his	PRON
_003376541	505	59	male	male	ADJ
_003376541	505	60	companions	companion	NOUN
_003376541	505	61	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	506	1	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	506	2	nothing	nothing	PRON
_003376541	506	3	in	in	ADP
_003376541	506	4	my	my	PRON
_003376541	506	5	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	506	6	ever	ever	ADV
_003376541	506	7	prepared	prepare	VERB
_003376541	506	8	me	i	PRON
_003376541	506	9	for	for	ADP
_003376541	506	10	this	this	DET
_003376541	506	11	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	506	12	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	506	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	506	14	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	506	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	506	16	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	506	17	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	506	18	wailed	wail	VERB
_003376541	506	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	507	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	507	2	was	be	AUX
_003376541	507	3	troubled	trouble	VERB
_003376541	507	4	by	by	ADP
_003376541	507	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	507	6	greatest	great	ADJ
_003376541	507	7	upheaval	upheaval	NOUN
_003376541	507	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	507	9	her	her	PRON
_003376541	507	10	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	507	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	508	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	508	2	had	have	AUX
_003376541	508	3	walked	walk	VERB
_003376541	508	4	into	into	ADP
_003376541	508	5	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	508	6	in	in	ADP
_003376541	508	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	508	8	rosy	rosy	ADJ
_003376541	508	9	glow	glow	NOUN
_003376541	508	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	508	11	romance	romance	NOUN
_003376541	508	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	508	13	unknowing	unknowing	NOUN
_003376541	508	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	508	15	unthinking	unthinking	ADJ
_003376541	508	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	509	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	509	2	had	have	VERB
_003376541	509	3	no	no	DET
_003376541	509	4	idea	idea	NOUN
_003376541	509	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	509	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	509	7	real	real	ADJ
_003376541	509	8	joy	joy	NOUN
_003376541	509	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	509	10	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	509	11	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	509	12	can	can	AUX
_003376541	509	13	bring	bring	VERB
_003376541	509	14	nor	nor	CCONJ
_003376541	509	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	509	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	509	17	pain	pain	NOUN
_003376541	509	18	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	509	19	hurt	hurt	VERB
_003376541	509	20	every	every	DET
_003376541	509	21	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	509	22	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	509	23	must	must	AUX
_003376541	509	24	accept	accept	VERB
_003376541	509	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	510	1	36	36	NUM
_003376541	510	2	there	there	PRON
_003376541	510	3	'll	will	AUX
_003376541	510	4	be	be	AUX
_003376541	510	5	some	some	DET
_003376541	510	6	changes	change	NOUN
_003376541	510	7	made	make	VERB
_003376541	510	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	510	9	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	510	10	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	510	11	means	mean	VERB
_003376541	510	12	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	510	13	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	510	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	510	15	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	510	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	510	17	greatest	great	ADJ
_003376541	510	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	510	19	these	these	PRON
_003376541	510	20	is	be	AUX
_003376541	510	21	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	510	22	change	change	NOUN
_003376541	510	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	510	24	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	510	25	in	in	ADP
_003376541	510	26	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	510	27	than	than	ADP
_003376541	510	28	the	the	DET
_003376541	510	29	obvious	obvious	ADJ
_003376541	510	30	sense	sense	NOUN
_003376541	510	31	of	of	ADP
_003376541	510	32	the	the	DET
_003376541	510	33	word	word	NOUN
_003376541	510	34	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	511	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	511	2	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	511	3	's	's	PART
_003376541	511	4	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	511	5	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	511	6	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	511	7	must	must	AUX
_003376541	511	8	accept	accept	VERB
_003376541	511	9	change	change	NOUN
_003376541	511	10	not	not	PART
_003376541	511	11	only	only	ADV
_003376541	511	12	in	in	ADP
_003376541	511	13	their	their	PRON
_003376541	511	14	routine	routine	NOUN
_003376541	511	15	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	511	16	also	also	ADV
_003376541	511	17	in	in	ADP
_003376541	511	18	themselves	themselves	PRON
_003376541	511	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	512	1	this	this	DET
_003376541	512	2	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	512	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	512	4	as	as	ADP
_003376541	512	5	small	small	ADJ
_003376541	512	6	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	512	7	insignificant	insignificant	ADJ
_003376541	512	8	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	512	9	he	he	PRON
_003376541	512	10	may	may	AUX
_003376541	512	11	seem	seem	VERB
_003376541	512	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	512	13	is	be	AUX
_003376541	512	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	512	15	great	great	ADJ
_003376541	512	16	challenge	challenge	NOUN
_003376541	512	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	513	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	513	2	challenges	challenge	VERB
_003376541	513	3	his	his	PRON
_003376541	513	4	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	513	5	'	'	PART
_003376541	513	6	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	513	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	513	8	him	he	PRON
_003376541	513	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	513	10	each	each	DET
_003376541	513	11	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	513	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	514	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	514	2	challenges	challenge	VERB
_003376541	514	3	their	their	PRON
_003376541	514	4	unselfishness	unselfishness	NOUN
_003376541	514	5	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	515	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	515	2	challenges	challenge	VERB
_003376541	515	3	their	their	PRON
_003376541	515	4	maturity	maturity	NOUN
_003376541	515	5	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	516	1	from	from	ADP
_003376541	516	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	516	3	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	516	4	signs	sign	NOUN
_003376541	516	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	516	6	pregnancy	pregnancy	NOUN
_003376541	516	7	his	his	PRON
_003376541	516	8	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	516	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	516	10	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	516	11	must	must	AUX
_003376541	516	12	face	face	VERB
_003376541	516	13	reality	reality	NOUN
_003376541	516	14	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	516	15	they	they	PRON
_003376541	516	16	are	be	AUX
_003376541	516	17	now	now	ADV
_003376541	516	18	no	no	ADV
_003376541	516	19	longer	long	ADJ
_003376541	516	20	two	two	NUM
_003376541	516	21	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	516	22	they	they	PRON
_003376541	516	23	are	be	AUX
_003376541	516	24	three	three	NUM
_003376541	516	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	517	1	they	they	PRON
_003376541	517	2	must	must	AUX
_003376541	517	3	love	love	VERB
_003376541	517	4	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	517	5	please	please	INTJ
_003376541	517	6	not	not	PART
_003376541	517	7	only	only	ADV
_003376541	517	8	two	two	NUM
_003376541	517	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	517	10	|	|	ADV
_003376541	517	11	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	517	12	three	three	NUM
_003376541	517	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	518	1	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	518	2	this	this	DET
_003376541	518	3	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	518	4	that	that	PRON
_003376541	518	5	they	they	PRON
_003376541	518	6	have	have	VERB
_003376541	518	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	518	8	each	each	DET
_003376541	518	9	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	518	10	now	now	ADV
_003376541	518	11	must	must	AUX
_003376541	518	12	serve	serve	VERB
_003376541	518	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	518	14	demands	demand	NOUN
_003376541	518	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	518	16	one	one	NUM
_003376541	518	17	with	with	ADP
_003376541	518	18	whom	whom	PRON
_003376541	518	19	it	it	PRON
_003376541	518	20	is	be	AUX
_003376541	518	21	impossible	impossible	ADJ
_003376541	518	22	to	to	PART
_003376541	518	23	reason	reason	VERB
_003376541	518	24	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	518	25	frightening	frightening	ADJ
_003376541	518	26	to	to	PART
_003376541	518	27	cope	cope	VERB
_003376541	518	28	with	with	ADP
_003376541	518	29	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	518	30	most	most	ADV
_003376541	518	31	difficult	difficult	ADJ
_003376541	518	32	to	to	PART
_003376541	518	33	keep	keep	VERB
_003376541	518	34	quiet	quiet	ADJ
_003376541	518	35	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	519	1	we	we	PRON
_003376541	519	2	can	can	AUX
_003376541	519	3	be	be	AUX
_003376541	519	4	thankful	thankful	ADJ
_003376541	519	5	for	for	ADP
_003376541	519	6	god	god	PROPN
_003376541	519	7	's	's	PART
_003376541	519	8	wisdom	wisdom	NOUN
_003376541	519	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	519	10	for	for	ADP
_003376541	519	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	519	12	fact	fact	NOUN
_003376541	519	13	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	519	14	he	he	PRON
_003376541	519	15	gave	give	VERB
_003376541	519	16	mothers	mother	NOUN
_003376541	519	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	519	18	fathers	father	NOUN
_003376541	519	19	so	so	ADV
_003376541	519	20	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	519	21	months	month	NOUN
_003376541	519	22	to	to	PART
_003376541	519	23	prepare	prepare	VERB
_003376541	519	24	for	for	ADP
_003376541	519	25	their	their	PRON
_003376541	519	26	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	519	27	's	's	PART
_003376541	519	28	entry	entry	NOUN
_003376541	519	29	into	into	ADP
_003376541	519	30	this	this	DET
_003376541	519	31	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	519	32	by	by	ADP
_003376541	519	33	learning	learn	VERB
_003376541	519	34	to	to	PART
_003376541	519	35	understand	understand	VERB
_003376541	519	36	why	why	SCONJ
_003376541	519	37	this	this	DET
_003376541	519	38	infant	infant	NOUN
_003376541	519	39	is	be	AUX
_003376541	519	40	being	be	AUX
_003376541	519	41	entrusted	entrust	VERB
_003376541	519	42	to	to	ADP
_003376541	519	43	their	their	PRON
_003376541	519	44	care	care	NOUN
_003376541	519	45	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	520	1	from	from	ADP
_003376541	520	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	520	3	point	point	NOUN
_003376541	520	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	520	5	view	view	NOUN
_003376541	520	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	520	7	health	health	NOUN
_003376541	520	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	520	9	there	there	PRON
_003376541	520	10	has	have	AUX
_003376541	520	11	probably	probably	ADV
_003376541	520	12	never	never	ADV
_003376541	520	13	been	be	AUX
_003376541	520	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	520	15	better	well	ADJ
_003376541	520	16	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	520	17	safer	safe	ADJ
_003376541	520	18	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	520	19	to	to	PART
_003376541	520	20	have	have	VERB
_003376541	520	21	a	a	DET
_003376541	520	22	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	520	23	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	520	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	521	1	disease	disease	PROPN
_003376541	521	2	prevention	prevention	PROPN
_003376541	521	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	521	4	nutrition	nutrition	NOUN
_003376541	521	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	521	6	rules	rule	NOUN
_003376541	521	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	521	8	care	care	NOUN
_003376541	521	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	521	10	well	well	ADV
_003376541	521	11	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	521	12	being	being	NOUN
_003376541	521	13	for	for	ADP
_003376541	521	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	521	15	body	body	NOUN
_003376541	521	16	are	be	AUX
_003376541	521	17	available	available	ADJ
_003376541	521	18	to	to	ADP
_003376541	521	19	almost	almost	ADV
_003376541	521	20	everyone	everyone	PRON
_003376541	521	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	522	1	grandmothers	grandmother	NOUN
_003376541	522	2	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	522	3	aunts	aunt	NOUN
_003376541	522	4	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	522	5	friends	friend	NOUN
_003376541	522	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	522	7	boys	boy	NOUN
_003376541	522	8	at	at	ADP
_003376541	522	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	522	10	office	office	NOUN
_003376541	522	11	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	522	12	girls	girl	NOUN
_003376541	522	13	in	in	ADP
_003376541	522	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	522	15	bridge	bridge	NOUN
_003376541	522	16	clubs	club	NOUN
_003376541	522	17	are	be	AUX
_003376541	522	18	all	all	ADV
_003376541	522	19	ready	ready	ADJ
_003376541	522	20	to	to	PART
_003376541	522	21	discuss	discuss	VERB
_003376541	522	22	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	522	23	to	to	PART
_003376541	522	24	prepare	prepare	VERB
_003376541	522	25	for	for	ADP
_003376541	522	26	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	522	27	take	take	VERB
_003376541	522	28	care	care	NOUN
_003376541	522	29	of	of	ADP
_003376541	522	30	a	a	DET
_003376541	522	31	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	522	32	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	523	1	courses	course	NOUN
_003376541	523	2	in	in	ADP
_003376541	523	3	schools	school	NOUN
_003376541	523	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	523	5	health	health	NOUN
_003376541	523	6	centers	center	NOUN
_003376541	523	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	523	8	hospitals	hospital	NOUN
_003376541	523	9	are	be	AUX
_003376541	523	10	telling	tell	VERB
_003376541	523	11	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	523	12	marrieds	married	NOUN
_003376541	523	13	what	what	PRON
_003376541	523	14	to	to	PART
_003376541	523	15	do	do	VERB
_003376541	523	16	until	until	SCONJ
_003376541	523	17	they	they	PRON
_003376541	523	18	find	find	VERB
_003376541	523	19	the	the	DET
_003376541	523	20	right	right	ADJ
_003376541	523	21	page	page	NOUN
_003376541	523	22	in	in	ADP
_003376541	523	23	the	the	DET
_003376541	523	24	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	523	25	manuals	manual	NOUN
_003376541	523	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	524	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	524	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	524	3	area	area	NOUN
_003376541	524	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	524	5	physical	physical	ADJ
_003376541	524	6	care	care	NOUN
_003376541	524	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	524	8	there	there	PRON
_003376541	524	9	is	be	VERB
_003376541	524	10	no	no	DET
_003376541	524	11	lack	lack	NOUN
_003376541	524	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	524	13	opportunity	opportunity	NOUN
_003376541	524	14	to	to	PART
_003376541	524	15	discover	discover	VERB
_003376541	524	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	524	17	needs	need	NOUN
_003376541	524	18	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	524	19	wants	want	VERB
_003376541	524	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	524	21	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	524	22	babies	baby	NOUN
_003376541	524	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	525	1	i	i	PRON
_003376541	525	2	it	it	PRON
_003376541	525	3	seems	seem	VERB
_003376541	525	4	somewhat	somewhat	ADV
_003376541	525	5	more	more	ADV
_003376541	525	6	difficult	difficult	ADJ
_003376541	525	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	525	8	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	525	9	husbands	husband	NOUN
_003376541	525	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	525	11	wives	wife	NOUN
_003376541	525	12	to	to	PART
_003376541	525	13	prepare	prepare	VERB
_003376541	525	14	themselves	themselves	PRON
_003376541	525	15	emotionally	emotionally	ADV
_003376541	525	16	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	525	17	psychologically	psychologically	ADV
_003376541	525	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	526	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	526	2	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	526	3	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	526	4	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	526	5	prospective	prospective	ADJ
_003376541	526	6	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	526	7	usually	usually	ADV
_003376541	526	8	experiences	experience	VERB
_003376541	526	9	very	very	ADV
_003376541	526	10	little	little	ADJ
_003376541	526	11	change	change	NOUN
_003376541	526	12	in	in	ADP
_003376541	526	13	his	his	PRON
_003376541	526	14	habits	habit	NOUN
_003376541	526	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	526	16	living	living	NOUN
_003376541	526	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	526	18	thinking	thinking	NOUN
_003376541	526	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	527	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	527	2	may	may	AUX
_003376541	527	3	37	37	NUM
_003376541	527	4	worry	worry	VERB
_003376541	527	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	527	6	bit	bit	NOUN
_003376541	527	7	about	about	ADP
_003376541	527	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	527	9	raise	raise	NOUN
_003376541	527	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	527	11	salary	salary	NOUN
_003376541	527	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	527	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	527	14	need	need	NOUN
_003376541	527	15	for	for	ADP
_003376541	527	16	a	a	DET
_003376541	527	17	bigger	big	ADJ
_003376541	527	18	house	house	NOUN
_003376541	527	19	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	527	20	where	where	SCONJ
_003376541	527	21	he	he	PRON
_003376541	527	22	will	will	AUX
_003376541	527	23	send	send	VERB
_003376541	527	24	his	his	PRON
_003376541	527	25	son	son	NOUN
_003376541	527	26	to	to	ADP
_003376541	527	27	college	college	NOUN
_003376541	527	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	528	1	(	(	PUNCT
_003376541	528	2	he	he	PRON
_003376541	528	3	knows	know	VERB
_003376541	528	4	it	it	PRON
_003376541	528	5	will	will	AUX
_003376541	528	6	be	be	AUX
_003376541	528	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	528	8	son	son	NOUN
_003376541	528	9	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	528	10	)	)	PUNCT
_003376541	529	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	529	2	assumes	assume	VERB
_003376541	529	3	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	529	4	his	his	PRON
_003376541	529	5	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	529	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	529	7	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	529	8	will	will	AUX
_003376541	529	9	go	go	VERB
_003376541	529	10	on	on	ADV
_003376541	529	11	much	much	ADV
_003376541	529	12	as	as	ADP
_003376541	529	13	before	before	ADV
_003376541	529	14	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	529	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	529	16	morning	morning	NOUN
_003376541	529	17	departure	departure	NOUN
_003376541	529	18	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	529	19	evening	evening	NOUN
_003376541	529	20	return	return	NOUN
_003376541	529	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	529	22	relieved	relieve	VERB
_003376541	529	23	by	by	ADP
_003376541	529	24	an	an	DET
_003376541	529	25	evening	evening	NOUN
_003376541	529	26	of	of	ADP
_003376541	529	27	business	business	NOUN
_003376541	529	28	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	529	29	bowling	bowling	NOUN
_003376541	529	30	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	529	31	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	529	32	an	an	DET
_003376541	529	33	afternoon	afternoon	NOUN
_003376541	529	34	of	of	ADP
_003376541	529	35	golf	golf	NOUN
_003376541	529	36	with	with	ADP
_003376541	529	37	the	the	DET
_003376541	529	38	boys	boy	NOUN
_003376541	529	39	from	from	ADP
_003376541	529	40	the	the	DET
_003376541	529	41	office	office	NOUN
_003376541	529	42	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	530	1	there	there	PRON
_003376541	530	2	will	will	AUX
_003376541	530	3	be	be	AUX
_003376541	530	4	no	no	DET
_003376541	530	5	great	great	ADJ
_003376541	530	6	interruption	interruption	NOUN
_003376541	530	7	in	in	ADP
_003376541	530	8	routine	routine	NOUN
_003376541	530	9	except	except	SCONJ
_003376541	530	10	for	for	ADP
_003376541	530	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	530	12	few	few	ADJ
_003376541	530	13	hours	hour	NOUN
_003376541	530	14	he	he	PRON
_003376541	530	15	may	may	AUX
_003376541	530	16	have	have	VERB
_003376541	530	17	to	to	PART
_003376541	530	18	take	take	VERB
_003376541	530	19	off	off	ADP
_003376541	530	20	for	for	ADP
_003376541	530	21	driving	drive	VERB
_003376541	530	22	his	his	PRON
_003376541	530	23	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	530	24	to	to	ADP
_003376541	530	25	the	the	DET
_003376541	530	26	hospital	hospital	NOUN
_003376541	530	27	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	530	28	buying	buy	VERB
_003376541	530	29	the	the	DET
_003376541	530	30	cigars	cigar	NOUN
_003376541	530	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	531	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	531	2	may	may	AUX
_003376541	531	3	know	know	VERB
_003376541	531	4	about	about	ADP
_003376541	531	5	babies	baby	NOUN
_003376541	531	6	'	'	PART
_003376541	531	7	colic	colic	NOUN
_003376541	531	8	which	which	PRON
_003376541	531	9	keeps	keep	VERB
_003376541	531	10	his	his	PRON
_003376541	531	11	friends	friend	NOUN
_003376541	531	12	up	up	ADP
_003376541	531	13	nights	night	NOUN
_003376541	531	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	531	15	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	531	16	he	he	PRON
_003376541	531	17	quite	quite	ADV
_003376541	531	18	confidently	confidently	ADV
_003376541	531	19	knows	know	VERB
_003376541	531	20	it	it	PRON
_003376541	531	21	will	will	AUX
_003376541	531	22	not	not	PART
_003376541	531	23	happen	happen	VERB
_003376541	531	24	to	to	ADP
_003376541	531	25	his	his	PRON
_003376541	531	26	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	531	27	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	531	28	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	531	29	it	it	PRON
_003376541	531	30	does	do	VERB
_003376541	531	31	he	he	PRON
_003376541	531	32	can	can	AUX
_003376541	531	33	always	always	ADV
_003376541	531	34	tell	tell	VERB
_003376541	531	35	his	his	PRON
_003376541	531	36	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	531	37	what	what	PRON
_003376541	531	38	to	to	PART
_003376541	531	39	do	do	VERB
_003376541	531	40	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	532	1	his	his	PRON
_003376541	532	2	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	532	3	seems	seem	VERB
_003376541	532	4	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	532	5	then	then	ADV
_003376541	532	6	after	after	ADP
_003376541	532	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	532	8	few	few	ADJ
_003376541	532	9	weeks	week	NOUN
_003376541	532	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	532	11	perhaps	perhaps	ADV
_003376541	532	12	halfway	halfway	ADV
_003376541	532	13	through	through	ADP
_003376541	532	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	532	15	pregnancy	pregnancy	NOUN
_003376541	532	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	532	17	a	a	DET
_003376541	532	18	fear	fear	NOUN
_003376541	532	19	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	532	20	uneasiness	uneasiness	NOUN
_003376541	532	21	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	532	22	into	into	ADP
_003376541	532	23	his	his	PRON
_003376541	532	24	consciousness	consciousness	NOUN
_003376541	532	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	533	1	his	his	PRON
_003376541	533	2	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	533	3	seems	seem	VERB
_003376541	533	4	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	533	5	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	534	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	534	2	feels	feel	VERB
_003376541	534	3	he	he	PRON
_003376541	534	4	does	do	AUX
_003376541	534	5	not	not	PART
_003376541	534	6	know	know	VERB
_003376541	534	7	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	534	8	can	can	AUX
_003376541	534	9	not	not	PART
_003376541	534	10	share	share	VERB
_003376541	534	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	534	12	secret	secret	ADJ
_003376541	534	13	joy	joy	NOUN
_003376541	534	14	that	that	PRON
_003376541	534	15	sometimes	sometimes	ADV
_003376541	534	16	shows	show	VERB
_003376541	534	17	in	in	ADP
_003376541	534	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	534	19	bloom	bloom	NOUN
_003376541	534	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	534	21	her	she	PRON
_003376541	534	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	535	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	535	2	notes	note	VERB
_003376541	535	3	an	an	DET
_003376541	535	4	increasing	increase	VERB
_003376541	535	5	clumsiness	clumsiness	NOUN
_003376541	535	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	535	7	movement	movement	NOUN
_003376541	535	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	535	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	535	10	sometimes	sometimes	ADV
_003376541	535	11	circles	circle	NOUN
_003376541	535	12	under	under	ADP
_003376541	535	13	her	her	PRON
_003376541	535	14	eyes	eye	NOUN
_003376541	535	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	536	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	536	2	can	can	AUX
_003376541	536	3	not	not	PART
_003376541	536	4	quite	quite	ADV
_003376541	536	5	get	get	VERB
_003376541	536	6	through	through	ADP
_003376541	536	7	to	to	ADP
_003376541	536	8	her	she	PRON
_003376541	536	9	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	536	10	anticipate	anticipate	VERB
_003376541	536	11	her	her	PRON
_003376541	536	12	strange	strange	ADJ
_003376541	536	13	moods	mood	NOUN
_003376541	536	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	537	1	outwardly	outwardly	ADV
_003376541	537	2	his	his	PRON
_003376541	537	3	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	537	4	goes	go	VERB
_003376541	537	5	on	on	ADP
_003376541	537	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	537	7	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	537	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	537	9	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	537	10	change	change	NOUN
_003376541	537	11	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	537	12	is	be	AUX
_003376541	537	13	beginning	begin	VERB
_003376541	537	14	to	to	PART
_003376541	537	15	be	be	AUX
_003376541	537	16	felt	feel	VERB
_003376541	537	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	538	1	his	his	PRON
_003376541	538	2	approaching	approach	VERB
_003376541	538	3	fatherhood	fatherhood	NOUN
_003376541	538	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	538	5	now	now	ADV
_003376541	538	6	being	be	AUX
_003376541	538	7	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	538	8	experienced	experienced	ADJ
_003376541	538	9	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	538	10	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	539	1	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	539	2	asked	ask	VERB
_003376541	539	3	about	about	ADP
_003376541	539	4	what	what	PRON
_003376541	539	5	it	it	PRON
_003376541	539	6	means	mean	VERB
_003376541	539	7	to	to	PART
_003376541	539	8	have	have	VERB
_003376541	539	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	539	10	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	539	11	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	539	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	539	13	a	a	DET
_003376541	539	14	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	539	15	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	539	16	is	be	AUX
_003376541	539	17	often	often	ADV
_003376541	539	18	reluctant	reluctant	ADJ
_003376541	539	19	to	to	PART
_003376541	539	20	say	say	VERB
_003376541	539	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	540	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	540	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	540	3	not	not	PART
_003376541	540	4	quite	quite	ADV
_003376541	540	5	sure	sure	ADJ
_003376541	540	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	540	7	its	its	PRON
_003376541	540	8	meaning	meaning	NOUN
_003376541	540	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	540	10	is	be	AUX
_003376541	540	11	still	still	ADV
_003376541	540	12	under	under	ADP
_003376541	540	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	540	14	spell	spell	NOUN
_003376541	540	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	540	16	its	its	PRON
_003376541	540	17	mystery	mystery	NOUN
_003376541	540	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	541	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	541	2	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	541	3	that	that	PRON
_003376541	541	4	matter	matter	VERB
_003376541	541	5	most	most	ADV
_003376541	541	6	are	be	AUX
_003376541	541	7	often	often	ADV
_003376541	541	8	too	too	ADV
_003376541	541	9	big	big	ADJ
_003376541	541	10	for	for	ADP
_003376541	541	11	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	541	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	541	13	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	541	14	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	541	15	they	they	PRON
_003376541	541	16	can	can	AUX
_003376541	541	17	be	be	AUX
_003376541	541	18	expressed	express	VERB
_003376541	541	19	they	they	PRON
_003376541	541	20	may	may	AUX
_003376541	541	21	reveal	reveal	VERB
_003376541	541	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	541	23	depths	depth	NOUN
_003376541	541	24	of	of	ADP
_003376541	541	25	his	his	PRON
_003376541	541	26	feelings	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	541	27	about	about	ADP
_003376541	541	28	fatherhood	fatherhood	NOUN
_003376541	541	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	542	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	542	2	group	group	NOUN
_003376541	542	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	542	4	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	542	5	couples	couple	NOUN
_003376541	542	6	taking	take	VERB
_003376541	542	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	542	8	prenatal	prenatal	ADJ
_003376541	542	9	course	course	NOUN
_003376541	542	10	for	for	ADP
_003376541	542	11	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	542	12	were	be	AUX
_003376541	542	13	asked	ask	VERB
_003376541	542	14	what	what	PRON
_003376541	542	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	542	16	coming	come	VERB
_003376541	542	17	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	542	18	meant	mean	VERB
_003376541	542	19	to	to	ADP
_003376541	542	20	them	they	PRON
_003376541	542	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	543	1	one	one	NUM
_003376541	543	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	543	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	543	4	fathers	father	NOUN
_003376541	543	5	said	say	VERB
_003376541	543	6	this	this	PRON
_003376541	543	7	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	543	8	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	543	9	for	for	ADP
_003376541	543	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	543	11	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	543	12	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	543	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	543	14	i	i	PRON
_003376541	543	15	am	be	AUX
_003376541	543	16	putting	put	VERB
_003376541	543	17	something	something	PRON
_003376541	543	18	back	back	ADV
_003376541	543	19	into	into	ADP
_003376541	543	20	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	543	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	544	1	i	i	PRON
_003376541	544	2	have	have	AUX
_003376541	544	3	spent	spend	VERB
_003376541	544	4	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	544	5	than	than	ADP
_003376541	544	6	25	25	NUM
_003376541	544	7	38	38	NUM
_003376541	544	8	years	year	NOUN
_003376541	544	9	'	'	PUNCT
_003376541	544	10	taking	take	VERB
_003376541	544	11	'	'	PUNCT
_003376541	544	12	from	from	ADP
_003376541	544	13	everybody	everybody	PRON
_003376541	544	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	544	15	every	every	DET
_003376541	544	16	situation	situation	NOUN
_003376541	544	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	545	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	545	2	giving	give	VERB
_003376541	545	3	this	this	DET
_003376541	545	4	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	545	5	to	to	ADP
_003376541	545	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	545	7	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	545	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	545	9	i	i	PRON
_003376541	545	10	see	see	VERB
_003376541	545	11	it	it	PRON
_003376541	545	12	as	as	ADP
_003376541	545	13	a	a	DET
_003376541	545	14	little	little	ADJ
_003376541	545	15	bit	bit	NOUN
_003376541	545	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	545	17	'	'	PUNCT
_003376541	545	18	paying	pay	VERB
_003376541	545	19	back	back	ADV
_003376541	545	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	545	21	'	'	PUNCT
_003376541	546	1	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	546	2	in	in	ADP
_003376541	546	3	speaking	speak	VERB
_003376541	546	4	this	this	DET
_003376541	546	5	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	546	6	before	before	ADP
_003376541	546	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	546	8	rest	rest	NOUN
_003376541	546	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	546	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	546	11	group	group	NOUN
_003376541	546	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	546	13	he	he	PRON
_003376541	546	14	brought	bring	VERB
_003376541	546	15	more	more	ADV
_003376541	546	16	forcefully	forcefully	ADV
_003376541	546	17	to	to	ADP
_003376541	546	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	546	19	minds	mind	NOUN
_003376541	546	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	546	21	all	all	PRON
_003376541	546	22	that	that	PRON
_003376541	546	23	a	a	DET
_003376541	546	24	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	546	25	is	be	AUX
_003376541	546	26	not	not	PART
_003376541	546	27	just	just	ADV
_003376541	546	28	marked	mark	VERB
_003376541	546	29	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	546	30	his	his	PRON
_003376541	546	31	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	546	32	hers	her	NOUN
_003376541	546	33	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	546	34	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	546	35	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	546	36	is	be	AUX
_003376541	546	37	an	an	DET
_003376541	546	38	expression	expression	NOUN
_003376541	546	39	of	of	ADP
_003376541	546	40	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	546	41	's	's	PART
_003376541	546	42	giving	give	VERB
_003376541	546	43	back	back	ADV
_003376541	546	44	to	to	ADP
_003376541	546	45	god	god	PROPN
_003376541	546	46	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	546	47	to	to	ADP
_003376541	546	48	the	the	DET
_003376541	546	49	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	546	50	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	547	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	547	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	547	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	547	4	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	547	5	who	who	PRON
_003376541	547	6	faces	face	VERB
_003376541	547	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	547	8	larger	large	ADJ
_003376541	547	9	share	share	NOUN
_003376541	547	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	547	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	547	12	difference	difference	NOUN
_003376541	547	13	in	in	ADP
_003376541	547	14	living	living	NOUN
_003376541	547	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	547	16	thinking	think	VERB
_003376541	547	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	547	18	feeling	feel	VERB
_003376541	547	19	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	547	20	a	a	DET
_003376541	547	21	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	547	22	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	547	23	will	will	AUX
_003376541	547	24	make	make	VERB
_003376541	547	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	548	1	from	from	ADP
_003376541	548	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	548	3	very	very	ADJ
_003376541	548	4	depths	depth	NOUN
_003376541	548	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	548	6	her	she	PRON
_003376541	548	7	being	be	AUX
_003376541	548	8	she	she	PRON
_003376541	548	9	begins	begin	VERB
_003376541	548	10	to	to	PART
_003376541	548	11	discover	discover	VERB
_003376541	548	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	548	13	meaning	meaning	NOUN
_003376541	548	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	548	15	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	548	16	woman	woman	NOUN
_003376541	548	17	with	with	ADP
_003376541	548	18	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	548	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	548	20	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	549	1	where	where	SCONJ
_003376541	549	2	previously	previously	ADV
_003376541	549	3	her	her	PRON
_003376541	549	4	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	549	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	549	6	attention	attention	NOUN
_003376541	549	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	549	8	work	work	NOUN
_003376541	549	9	had	have	AUX
_003376541	549	10	been	be	AUX
_003376541	549	11	regulated	regulate	VERB
_003376541	549	12	by	by	ADP
_003376541	549	13	her	her	PRON
_003376541	549	14	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	549	15	needs	need	NOUN
_003376541	549	16	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	549	17	that	that	PRON
_003376541	549	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	549	19	her	her	PRON
_003376541	549	20	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	549	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	549	22	she	she	PRON
_003376541	549	23	now	now	ADV
_003376541	549	24	finds	find	VERB
_003376541	549	25	she	she	PRON
_003376541	549	26	is	be	AUX
_003376541	549	27	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	549	28	than	than	ADP
_003376541	549	29	living	live	VERB
_003376541	549	30	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	549	31	for	for	SCONJ
_003376541	549	32	there	there	PRON
_003376541	549	33	is	be	VERB
_003376541	549	34	someone	someone	PRON
_003376541	549	35	living	live	VERB
_003376541	549	36	within	within	ADP
_003376541	549	37	her	she	PRON
_003376541	549	38	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	550	1	even	even	ADV
_003376541	550	2	though	though	SCONJ
_003376541	550	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	550	4	woman	woman	NOUN
_003376541	550	5	works	work	VERB
_003376541	550	6	outside	outside	ADP
_003376541	550	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	550	8	home	home	NOUN
_003376541	550	9	during	during	ADP
_003376541	550	10	part	part	NOUN
_003376541	550	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	550	12	her	her	PRON
_003376541	550	13	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	550	14	pregnancy	pregnancy	NOUN
_003376541	550	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	550	16	at	at	ADP
_003376541	550	17	this	this	DET
_003376541	550	18	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	550	19	she	she	PRON
_003376541	550	20	will	will	AUX
_003376541	550	21	find	find	VERB
_003376541	550	22	herself	herself	PRON
_003376541	550	23	with	with	ADP
_003376541	550	24	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	550	25	leisure	leisure	NOUN
_003376541	550	26	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	550	27	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	550	28	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	550	29	on	on	ADP
_003376541	550	30	which	which	PRON
_003376541	550	31	there	there	PRON
_003376541	550	32	is	be	VERB
_003376541	550	33	no	no	DET
_003376541	550	34	demand	demand	NOUN
_003376541	550	35	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	550	36	than	than	ADP
_003376541	550	37	at	at	ADP
_003376541	550	38	any	any	DET
_003376541	550	39	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	550	40	in	in	ADP
_003376541	550	41	the	the	DET
_003376541	550	42	future	future	NOUN
_003376541	550	43	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	551	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	551	2	may	may	AUX
_003376541	551	3	think	think	VERB
_003376541	551	4	she	she	PRON
_003376541	551	5	is	be	AUX
_003376541	551	6	busy	busy	ADJ
_003376541	551	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	551	8	try	try	VERB
_003376541	551	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	551	10	fill	fill	VERB
_003376541	551	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	551	12	days	day	NOUN
_003376541	551	13	with	with	ADP
_003376541	551	14	preparation	preparation	NOUN
_003376541	551	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	551	16	all	all	DET
_003376541	551	17	sorts	sort	NOUN
_003376541	551	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	551	19	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	551	20	the	the	DET
_003376541	551	21	change	change	NOUN
_003376541	551	22	that	that	PRON
_003376541	551	23	the	the	DET
_003376541	551	24	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	551	25	will	will	AUX
_003376541	551	26	make	make	VERB
_003376541	551	27	does	do	AUX
_003376541	551	28	not	not	PART
_003376541	551	29	always	always	ADV
_003376541	551	30	make	make	VERB
_003376541	551	31	itself	itself	PRON
_003376541	551	32	felt	feel	VERB
_003376541	551	33	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	552	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	552	2	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	552	3	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	552	4	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	552	5	subsequent	subsequent	ADJ
_003376541	552	6	ones	one	NOUN
_003376541	552	7	will	will	AUX
_003376541	552	8	place	place	VERB
_003376541	552	9	her	she	PRON
_003376541	552	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	552	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	552	12	different	different	ADJ
_003376541	552	13	role	role	NOUN
_003376541	552	14	with	with	ADP
_003376541	552	15	more	more	ADV
_003376541	552	16	exacting	exact	VERB
_003376541	552	17	human	human	ADJ
_003376541	552	18	demands	demand	NOUN
_003376541	552	19	on	on	ADP
_003376541	552	20	her	her	PRON
_003376541	552	21	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	552	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	553	1	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	553	2	years	year	NOUN
_003376541	553	3	in	in	ADP
_003376541	553	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	553	5	future	future	NOUN
_003376541	553	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	553	7	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	553	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	553	9	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	553	10	have	have	AUX
_003376541	553	11	grown	grow	VERB
_003376541	553	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	553	13	departed	depart	VERB
_003376541	553	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	553	15	she	she	PRON
_003376541	553	16	will	will	AUX
_003376541	553	17	not	not	PART
_003376541	553	18	experience	experience	VERB
_003376541	553	19	this	this	PRON
_003376541	553	20	being	be	AUX
_003376541	553	21	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	553	22	just	just	ADV
_003376541	553	23	herself	herself	PRON
_003376541	553	24	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	553	25	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	553	26	for	for	SCONJ
_003376541	553	27	she	she	PRON
_003376541	553	28	will	will	AUX
_003376541	553	29	have	have	AUX
_003376541	553	30	grown	grow	VERB
_003376541	553	31	into	into	ADP
_003376541	553	32	community	community	NOUN
_003376541	553	33	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	553	34	family	family	NOUN
_003376541	553	35	responsibility	responsibility	NOUN
_003376541	553	36	as	as	ADP
_003376541	553	37	someone	someone	PRON
_003376541	553	38	's	's	PART
_003376541	553	39	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	553	40	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	553	41	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	553	42	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	553	43	grandmother	grandmother	NOUN
_003376541	553	44	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	553	45	widow	widow	NOUN
_003376541	553	46	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	554	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	554	2	must	must	AUX
_003376541	554	3	face	face	VERB
_003376541	554	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	554	5	reality	reality	NOUN
_003376541	554	6	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	554	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	554	8	part	part	NOUN
_003376541	554	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	554	10	her	her	PRON
_003376541	554	11	commitment	commitment	NOUN
_003376541	554	12	to	to	ADP
_003376541	554	13	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	554	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	554	15	to	to	PART
_003376541	554	16	love	love	VERB
_003376541	554	17	is	be	AUX
_003376541	554	18	to	to	PART
_003376541	554	19	abandon	abandon	VERB
_003376541	554	20	her	her	PRON
_003376541	554	21	old	old	ADJ
_003376541	554	22	self	self	NOUN
_003376541	554	23	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	554	24	its	its	PRON
_003376541	554	25	habits	habit	NOUN
_003376541	554	26	so	so	SCONJ
_003376541	554	27	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	554	28	she	she	PRON
_003376541	554	29	may	may	AUX
_003376541	554	30	take	take	VERB
_003376541	554	31	on	on	ADP
_003376541	554	32	with	with	ADP
_003376541	554	33	gladness	gladness	NOUN
_003376541	554	34	the	the	DET
_003376541	554	35	fulfillment	fulfillment	NOUN
_003376541	554	36	of	of	ADP
_003376541	554	37	her	her	PRON
_003376541	554	38	womanhood	womanhood	NOUN
_003376541	554	39	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	555	1	getting	getting	AUX
_003376541	555	2	used	use	VERB
_003376541	555	3	to	to	ADP
_003376541	555	4	this	this	DET
_003376541	555	5	apparent	apparent	ADJ
_003376541	555	6	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	555	7	loss	loss	NOUN
_003376541	555	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	555	9	self	self	NOUN
_003376541	555	10	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	555	11	is	be	AUX
_003376541	555	12	one	one	NUM
_003376541	555	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	555	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	555	15	most	most	ADV
_003376541	555	16	difficult	difficult	ADJ
_003376541	555	17	things	thing	NOUN
_003376541	555	18	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	555	19	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	555	20	women	woman	NOUN
_003376541	555	21	face	face	VERB
_003376541	555	22	in	in	ADP
_003376541	555	23	the	the	DET
_003376541	555	24	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	555	25	pregnancy	pregnancy	NOUN
_003376541	555	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	556	1	their	their	PRON
_003376541	556	2	formal	formal	ADJ
_003376541	556	3	education	education	NOUN
_003376541	556	4	has	have	AUX
_003376541	556	5	prepared	prepare	VERB
_003376541	556	6	them	they	PRON
_003376541	556	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	556	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	556	9	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	556	10	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	556	11	career	career	NOUN
_003376541	556	12	in	in	ADP
_003376541	556	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	556	14	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	556	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	556	16	with	with	ADP
_003376541	556	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	556	18	freedom	freedom	NOUN
_003376541	556	19	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	556	20	sense	sense	NOUN
_003376541	556	21	of	of	ADP
_003376541	556	22	achievement	achievement	NOUN
_003376541	556	23	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	556	24	this	this	PRON
_003376541	556	25	often	often	ADV
_003376541	556	26	brings	bring	VERB
_003376541	556	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	557	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	557	2	spite	spite	NOUN
_003376541	557	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	557	4	studying	study	VERB
_003376541	557	5	about	about	ADP
_003376541	557	6	marriage	marriage	NOUN
_003376541	557	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	557	8	listening	listen	VERB
_003376541	557	9	to	to	ADP
_003376541	557	10	lectures	lecture	NOUN
_003376541	557	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	557	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	557	13	giving	give	VERB
_003376541	557	14	intellectual	intellectual	ADJ
_003376541	557	15	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	557	16	spiritual	spiritual	ADJ
_003376541	557	17	acceptance	acceptance	NOUN
_003376541	557	18	to	to	ADP
_003376541	557	19	the	the	DET
_003376541	557	20	priority	priority	NOUN
_003376541	557	21	of	of	ADP
_003376541	557	22	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	557	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	557	24	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	557	25	mothers	mother	NOUN
_003376541	557	26	are	be	AUX
_003376541	557	27	not	not	PART
_003376541	557	28	prepared	prepared	ADJ
_003376541	557	29	to	to	PART
_003376541	557	30	cope	cope	VERB
_003376541	557	31	with	with	ADP
_003376541	557	32	the	the	DET
_003376541	557	33	personal	personal	ADJ
_003376541	557	34	upheaval	upheaval	NOUN
_003376541	557	35	that	that	PRON
_003376541	557	36	takes	take	VERB
_003376541	557	37	place	place	NOUN
_003376541	557	38	in	in	ADP
_003376541	557	39	their	their	PRON
_003376541	557	40	thinking	thinking	NOUN
_003376541	557	41	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	557	42	feeling	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	557	43	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	558	1	39	39	NUM
_003376541	558	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	558	3	growing	grow	VERB
_003376541	558	4	pains	pain	NOUN
_003376541	558	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	558	6	pregnancy	pregnancy	NOUN
_003376541	558	7	it	it	PRON
_003376541	558	8	is	be	AUX
_003376541	558	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	558	10	continuous	continuous	ADJ
_003376541	558	11	contradiction	contradiction	NOUN
_003376541	558	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	558	13	a	a	DET
_003376541	558	14	mixture	mixture	NOUN
_003376541	558	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	558	16	achievement	achievement	NOUN
_003376541	558	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	558	18	loss	loss	NOUN
_003376541	558	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	558	20	anticipation	anticipation	NOUN
_003376541	558	21	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	558	22	concern	concern	NOUN
_003376541	558	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	558	24	joy	joy	NOUN
_003376541	558	25	with	with	ADP
_003376541	558	26	reluctance	reluctance	NOUN
_003376541	558	27	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	558	28	that	that	PRON
_003376541	558	29	suddenly	suddenly	ADV
_003376541	558	30	seems	seem	VERB
_003376541	558	31	to	to	PART
_003376541	558	32	overwhelm	overwhelm	VERB
_003376541	558	33	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	558	34	at	at	ADP
_003376541	558	35	times	time	NOUN
_003376541	558	36	frighten	frighten	VERB
_003376541	558	37	them	they	PRON
_003376541	558	38	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	559	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	559	2	need	need	AUX
_003376541	559	3	not	not	PART
_003376541	559	4	make	make	VERB
_003376541	559	5	them	they	PRON
_003376541	559	6	ashamed	ashamed	ADJ
_003376541	559	7	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	559	8	inadequate	inadequate	ADJ
_003376541	559	9	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	559	10	it	it	PRON
_003376541	559	11	is	be	AUX
_003376541	559	12	part	part	NOUN
_003376541	559	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	559	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	559	15	growing	grow	VERB
_003376541	559	16	pains	pain	NOUN
_003376541	559	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	559	18	pregnancy	pregnancy	NOUN
_003376541	559	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	560	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	560	2	complexity	complexity	NOUN
_003376541	560	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	560	4	values	value	NOUN
_003376541	560	5	established	establish	VERB
_003376541	560	6	by	by	ADP
_003376541	560	7	our	our	PRON
_003376541	560	8	culture	culture	NOUN
_003376541	560	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	560	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	560	11	inability	inability	NOUN
_003376541	560	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	560	13	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	560	14	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	560	15	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	560	16	to	to	PART
_003376541	560	17	know	know	VERB
_003376541	560	18	which	which	PRON
_003376541	560	19	they	they	PRON
_003376541	560	20	should	should	AUX
_003376541	560	21	40	40	NUM
_003376541	560	22	accept	accept	VERB
_003376541	560	23	only	only	ADV
_003376541	560	24	confuse	confuse	VERB
_003376541	560	25	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	560	26	newlyweds	newlywed	NOUN
_003376541	560	27	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	560	28	for	for	SCONJ
_003376541	560	29	they	they	PRON
_003376541	560	30	are	be	AUX
_003376541	560	31	unsure	unsure	ADJ
_003376541	560	32	of	of	ADP
_003376541	560	33	their	their	PRON
_003376541	560	34	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	560	35	standard	standard	NOUN
_003376541	560	36	of	of	ADP
_003376541	560	37	values	value	NOUN
_003376541	560	38	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	561	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	561	2	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	561	3	woman	woman	NOUN
_003376541	561	4	has	have	AUX
_003376541	561	5	been	be	AUX
_003376541	561	6	conditioned	condition	VERB
_003376541	561	7	to	to	PART
_003376541	561	8	value	value	VERB
_003376541	561	9	physical	physical	ADJ
_003376541	561	10	attractiveness	attractiveness	NOUN
_003376541	561	11	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	561	12	be	be	AUX
_003376541	561	13	aware	aware	ADJ
_003376541	561	14	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	561	15	men	man	NOUN
_003376541	561	16	are	be	AUX
_003376541	561	17	conditioned	condition	VERB
_003376541	561	18	in	in	ADP
_003376541	561	19	the	the	DET
_003376541	561	20	same	same	ADJ
_003376541	561	21	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	561	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	562	1	this	this	DET
_003376541	562	2	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	562	3	desirability	desirability	NOUN
_003376541	562	4	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	562	5	seems	seem	VERB
_003376541	562	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	562	7	be	be	AUX
_003376541	562	8	in	in	ADP
_003376541	562	9	direct	direct	ADJ
_003376541	562	10	proportion	proportion	NOUN
_003376541	562	11	to	to	ADP
_003376541	562	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	562	13	smallness	smallness	NOUN
_003376541	562	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	562	15	her	her	PRON
_003376541	562	16	waistline	waistline	ADJ
_003376541	562	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	562	18	her	her	PRON
_003376541	562	19	statistical	statistical	ADJ
_003376541	562	20	measurements	measurement	NOUN
_003376541	562	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	563	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	563	2	demands	demand	NOUN
_003376541	563	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	563	4	pregnancy	pregnancy	NOUN
_003376541	563	5	must	must	AUX
_003376541	563	6	temporarily	temporarily	ADV
_003376541	563	7	upset	upset	VERB
_003376541	563	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	563	9	measurements	measurement	NOUN
_003376541	563	10	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	564	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	564	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	564	3	subjected	subject	VERB
_003376541	564	4	to	to	ADP
_003376541	564	5	all	all	DET
_003376541	564	6	types	type	NOUN
_003376541	564	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	564	8	comment	comment	NOUN
_003376541	564	9	from	from	ADP
_003376541	564	10	friends	friend	NOUN
_003376541	564	11	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	564	12	relatives	relative	NOUN
_003376541	564	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	565	1	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	565	2	it	it	PRON
_003376541	565	3	's	be	AUX
_003376541	565	4	so	so	ADV
_003376541	565	5	nice	nice	ADJ
_003376541	565	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	565	7	have	have	VERB
_003376541	565	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	565	9	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	565	10	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	565	11	you	you	PRON
_003376541	565	12	're	be	AUX
_003376541	565	13	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	565	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	565	15	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	565	16	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	565	17	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	565	18	do	do	AUX
_003376541	565	19	n't	not	PART
_003376541	565	20	you	you	PRON
_003376541	565	21	think	think	VERB
_003376541	565	22	you	you	PRON
_003376541	565	23	should	should	AUX
_003376541	565	24	have	have	AUX
_003376541	565	25	waited	wait	VERB
_003376541	565	26	until	until	SCONJ
_003376541	565	27	you	you	PRON
_003376541	565	28	had	have	VERB
_003376541	565	29	a	a	DET
_003376541	565	30	chance	chance	NOUN
_003376541	565	31	to	to	PART
_003376541	565	32	know	know	VERB
_003376541	565	33	each	each	DET
_003376541	565	34	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	565	35	better	well	ADV
_003376541	565	36	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	565	37	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	566	1	all	all	DET
_003376541	566	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	566	3	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	566	4	she	she	PRON
_003376541	566	5	listens	listen	VERB
_003376541	566	6	to	to	ADP
_003376541	566	7	those	those	PRON
_003376541	566	8	for	for	ADP
_003376541	566	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	566	10	those	those	PRON
_003376541	566	11	against	against	ADP
_003376541	566	12	she	she	PRON
_003376541	566	13	finds	find	VERB
_003376541	566	14	she	she	PRON
_003376541	566	15	feels	feel	VERB
_003376541	566	16	tired	tired	ADJ
_003376541	566	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	566	18	squeamish	squeamish	ADJ
_003376541	566	19	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	566	20	irritable	irritable	ADJ
_003376541	566	21	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	566	22	she	she	PRON
_003376541	566	23	thought	think	VERB
_003376541	566	24	she	she	PRON
_003376541	566	25	was	be	AUX
_003376541	566	26	supposed	suppose	VERB
_003376541	566	27	to	to	PART
_003376541	566	28	feel	feel	VERB
_003376541	566	29	wonderful	wonderful	ADJ
_003376541	566	30	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	566	31	joyful	joyful	ADJ
_003376541	566	32	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	566	33	thrilled	thrill	VERB
_003376541	566	34	beyond	beyond	ADP
_003376541	566	35	expression	expression	NOUN
_003376541	566	36	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	567	1	on	on	ADP
_003376541	567	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	567	3	days	day	NOUN
_003376541	567	4	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	567	5	she	she	PRON
_003376541	567	6	finally	finally	ADV
_003376541	567	7	does	do	AUX
_003376541	567	8	begin	begin	VERB
_003376541	567	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	567	10	feel	feel	VERB
_003376541	567	11	like	like	ADP
_003376541	567	12	tearing	tear	VERB
_003376541	567	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	567	14	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	567	15	apart	apart	ADV
_003376541	567	16	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	567	17	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	567	18	painting	paint	VERB
_003376541	567	19	the	the	DET
_003376541	567	20	top	top	ADJ
_003376541	567	21	shelves	shelf	NOUN
_003376541	567	22	of	of	ADP
_003376541	567	23	the	the	DET
_003376541	567	24	cupboard	cupboard	NOUN
_003376541	567	25	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	567	26	she	she	PRON
_003376541	567	27	will	will	AUX
_003376541	567	28	find	find	VERB
_003376541	567	29	someone	someone	PRON
_003376541	567	30	who	who	PRON
_003376541	567	31	will	will	AUX
_003376541	567	32	tell	tell	VERB
_003376541	567	33	her	she	PRON
_003376541	567	34	that	that	PRON
_003376541	567	35	is	be	AUX
_003376541	567	36	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	567	37	babies	baby	NOUN
_003376541	567	38	are	be	AUX
_003376541	567	39	born	bear	VERB
_003376541	567	40	prematurely	prematurely	ADV
_003376541	567	41	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	567	42	poisoned	poison	VERB
_003376541	567	43	by	by	ADP
_003376541	567	44	paint	paint	NOUN
_003376541	567	45	fumes	fume	NOUN
_003376541	567	46	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	567	47	just	just	ADV
_003376541	567	48	ruined	ruin	VERB
_003376541	567	49	any	any	DET
_003376541	567	50	old	old	ADJ
_003376541	567	51	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	567	52	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	568	1	until	until	SCONJ
_003376541	568	2	she	she	PRON
_003376541	568	3	establishes	establish	VERB
_003376541	568	4	her	her	PRON
_003376541	568	5	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	568	6	values	value	NOUN
_003376541	568	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	568	8	faces	face	VERB
_003376541	568	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	568	10	reality	reality	NOUN
_003376541	568	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	568	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	568	13	contradictions	contradiction	NOUN
_003376541	568	14	in	in	ADP
_003376541	568	15	thinking	thinking	NOUN
_003376541	568	16	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	568	17	feeling	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	568	18	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	568	19	she	she	PRON
_003376541	568	20	will	will	AUX
_003376541	568	21	be	be	AUX
_003376541	568	22	a	a	DET
_003376541	568	23	victim	victim	NOUN
_003376541	568	24	of	of	ADP
_003376541	568	25	the	the	DET
_003376541	568	26	last	last	ADJ
_003376541	568	27	person	person	NOUN
_003376541	568	28	to	to	PART
_003376541	568	29	whom	whom	PRON
_003376541	568	30	she	she	PRON
_003376541	568	31	has	have	AUX
_003376541	568	32	listened	listen	VERB
_003376541	568	33	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	569	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	569	2	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	569	3	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	569	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	569	5	five	five	NUM
_003376541	569	6	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	569	7	recalling	recall	VERB
_003376541	569	8	her	her	PRON
_003376541	569	9	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	569	10	with	with	ADP
_003376541	569	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	569	12	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	569	13	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	569	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	569	15	said	say	VERB
_003376541	569	16	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	569	17	for	for	ADP
_003376541	569	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	569	19	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	569	20	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	569	21	in	in	ADP
_003376541	569	22	her	her	PRON
_003376541	569	23	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	569	24	she	she	PRON
_003376541	569	25	had	have	VERB
_003376541	569	26	to	to	PART
_003376541	569	27	face	face	VERB
_003376541	569	28	the	the	DET
_003376541	569	29	fact	fact	NOUN
_003376541	569	30	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	569	31	she	she	PRON
_003376541	569	32	was	be	AUX
_003376541	569	33	a	a	DET
_003376541	569	34	very	very	ADV
_003376541	569	35	selfish	selfish	ADJ
_003376541	569	36	person	person	NOUN
_003376541	569	37	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	570	1	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	570	2	i	i	PRON
_003376541	570	3	was	be	AUX
_003376541	570	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	570	5	kindergarten	kindergarten	NOUN
_003376541	570	6	teacher	teacher	NOUN
_003376541	570	7	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	570	8	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	570	9	i	i	PRON
_003376541	570	10	hated	hate	VERB
_003376541	570	11	having	have	VERB
_003376541	570	12	to	to	PART
_003376541	570	13	give	give	VERB
_003376541	570	14	up	up	ADP
_003376541	570	15	my	my	PRON
_003376541	570	16	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	570	17	with	with	ADP
_003376541	570	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	570	19	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	570	20	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	571	1	[	[	X
_003376541	571	2	taking	take	VERB
_003376541	571	3	care	care	NOUN
_003376541	571	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	571	5	her	her	PRON
_003376541	571	6	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	571	7	seemed	seem	VERB
_003376541	571	8	less	less	ADV
_003376541	571	9	desirable	desirable	ADJ
_003376541	571	10	than	than	ADP
_003376541	571	11	teaching	teach	VERB
_003376541	571	12	those	those	PRON
_003376541	571	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	571	14	others	other	NOUN
_003376541	571	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	572	1	]	]	PUNCT
_003376541	572	2	i	i	PRON
_003376541	572	3	was	be	AUX
_003376541	572	4	frightened	frightened	ADJ
_003376541	572	5	to	to	ADP
_003376541	572	6	death	death	NOUN
_003376541	572	7	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	572	8	i	i	PRON
_003376541	572	9	thought	think	VERB
_003376541	572	10	i	i	PRON
_003376541	572	11	would	would	AUX
_003376541	572	12	never	never	ADV
_003376541	572	13	be	be	AUX
_003376541	572	14	able	able	ADJ
_003376541	572	15	to	to	PART
_003376541	572	16	leave	leave	VERB
_003376541	572	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	572	18	house	house	NOUN
_003376541	572	19	after	after	SCONJ
_003376541	572	20	the	the	DET
_003376541	572	21	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	572	22	came	come	VERB
_003376541	572	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	573	1	i	i	PRON
_003376541	573	2	hated	hate	VERB
_003376541	573	3	thinking	think	VERB
_003376541	573	4	i	i	PRON
_003376541	573	5	could	could	AUX
_003376541	573	6	not	not	PART
_003376541	573	7	do	do	VERB
_003376541	573	8	what	what	PRON
_003376541	573	9	i	i	PRON
_003376541	573	10	wanted	want	VERB
_003376541	573	11	to	to	PART
_003376541	573	12	do	do	VERB
_003376541	573	13	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	573	14	i	i	PRON
_003376541	573	15	wanted	want	VERB
_003376541	573	16	to	to	PART
_003376541	573	17	do	do	VERB
_003376541	573	18	it	it	PRON
_003376541	573	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	574	1	[	[	X
_003376541	574	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	574	3	fact	fact	NOUN
_003376541	574	4	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	574	5	she	she	PRON
_003376541	574	6	was	be	AUX
_003376541	574	7	obligated	obligate	VERB
_003376541	574	8	by	by	ADP
_003376541	574	9	her	her	PRON
_003376541	574	10	teacher	teacher	NOUN
_003376541	574	11	's	's	PART
_003376541	574	12	hours	hour	NOUN
_003376541	574	13	never	never	ADV
_003376541	574	14	bothered	bother	VERB
_003376541	574	15	her	she	PRON
_003376541	574	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	574	17	]	]	PUNCT
_003376541	575	1	because	because	SCONJ
_003376541	575	2	jim	jim	PROPN
_003376541	575	3	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	575	4	i	i	PRON
_003376541	575	5	had	have	VERB
_003376541	575	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	575	7	live	live	VERB
_003376541	575	8	far	far	ADV
_003376541	575	9	away	away	ADV
_003376541	575	10	from	from	ADP
_003376541	575	11	our	our	PRON
_003376541	575	12	families	family	NOUN
_003376541	575	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	575	14	i	i	PRON
_003376541	575	15	was	be	AUX
_003376541	575	16	sure	sure	ADJ
_003376541	575	17	we	we	PRON
_003376541	575	18	could	could	AUX
_003376541	575	19	never	never	ADV
_003376541	575	20	find	find	VERB
_003376541	575	21	anyone	anyone	PRON
_003376541	575	22	who	who	PRON
_003376541	575	23	would	would	AUX
_003376541	575	24	properly	properly	ADV
_003376541	575	25	care	care	VERB
_003376541	575	26	for	for	ADP
_003376541	575	27	the	the	DET
_003376541	575	28	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	575	29	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	575	30	even	even	ADV
_003376541	575	31	for	for	ADP
_003376541	575	32	a	a	DET
_003376541	575	33	few	few	ADJ
_003376541	575	34	hours	hour	NOUN
_003376541	575	35	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	576	1	though	though	SCONJ
_003376541	576	2	i	i	PRON
_003376541	576	3	was	be	AUX
_003376541	576	4	used	use	VERB
_003376541	576	5	to	to	ADP
_003376541	576	6	spending	spend	VERB
_003376541	576	7	all	all	DET
_003376541	576	8	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	576	9	with	with	ADP
_003376541	576	10	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	576	11	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	576	12	's	's	PART
_003376541	576	13	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	576	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	576	15	i	i	PRON
_003376541	576	16	dreaded	dread	VERB
_003376541	576	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	576	18	thought	thought	NOUN
_003376541	576	19	of	of	ADP
_003376541	576	20	being	be	AUX
_003376541	576	21	alone	alone	ADJ
_003376541	576	22	with	with	ADP
_003376541	576	23	my	my	PRON
_003376541	576	24	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	576	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	577	1	i	i	PRON
_003376541	577	2	was	be	AUX
_003376541	577	3	sure	sure	ADJ
_003376541	577	4	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	577	5	all	all	DET
_003376541	577	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	577	7	education	education	NOUN
_003376541	577	8	i	i	PRON
_003376541	577	9	had	have	VERB
_003376541	577	10	was	be	AUX
_003376541	577	11	wasted	waste	VERB
_003376541	577	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	577	13	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	578	1	41	41	NUM
_003376541	578	2	another	another	DET
_003376541	578	3	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	578	4	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	578	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	578	6	three	three	NUM
_003376541	578	7	children	child	NOUN
_003376541	578	8	removed	remove	VERB
_003376541	578	9	from	from	ADP
_003376541	578	10	her	her	PRON
_003376541	578	11	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	578	12	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	578	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	578	14	said	say	VERB
_003376541	578	15	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	578	16	during	during	ADP
_003376541	578	17	her	her	PRON
_003376541	578	18	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	578	19	pregnancy	pregnancy	NOUN
_003376541	578	20	she	she	PRON
_003376541	578	21	felt	feel	VERB
_003376541	578	22	lonely	lonely	ADJ
_003376541	578	23	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	578	24	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	578	25	left	leave	VERB
_003376541	578	26	out	out	ADP
_003376541	578	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	578	28	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	579	1	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	579	2	i	i	PRON
_003376541	579	3	should	should	AUX
_003376541	579	4	have	have	AUX
_003376541	579	5	been	be	AUX
_003376541	579	6	very	very	ADV
_003376541	579	7	happy	happy	ADJ
_003376541	579	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	579	9	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	579	10	she	she	PRON
_003376541	579	11	said	say	VERB
_003376541	579	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	580	1	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	580	2	my	my	PRON
_003376541	580	3	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	580	4	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	580	5	i	i	PRON
_003376541	580	6	were	be	AUX
_003376541	580	7	very	very	ADV
_003376541	580	8	much	much	ADV
_003376541	580	9	in	in	ADP
_003376541	580	10	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	580	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	580	12	we	we	PRON
_003376541	580	13	both	both	PRON
_003376541	580	14	had	have	VERB
_003376541	580	15	excellent	excellent	ADJ
_003376541	580	16	health	health	NOUN
_003376541	580	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	580	18	no	no	DET
_003376541	580	19	financial	financial	ADJ
_003376541	580	20	worries	worry	NOUN
_003376541	580	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	581	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	581	2	was	be	AUX
_003376541	581	3	just	just	ADV
_003376541	581	4	this	this	DET
_003376541	581	5	terrible	terrible	ADJ
_003376541	581	6	feeling	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	581	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	581	8	being	be	AUX
_003376541	581	9	removed	remove	VERB
_003376541	581	10	from	from	ADP
_003376541	581	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	581	12	rest	rest	NOUN
_003376541	581	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	581	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	581	15	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	581	16	ha	ha	INTJ
_003376541	581	17	confused	confused	ADJ
_003376541	581	18	sort	sort	NOUN
_003376541	581	19	of	of	ADP
_003376541	581	20	feeling	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	581	21	of	of	ADP
_003376541	581	22	being	be	AUX
_003376541	581	23	a	a	DET
_003376541	581	24	creature	creature	NOUN
_003376541	581	25	'	'	PUNCT
_003376541	581	26	set	set	VERB
_003376541	581	27	apart	apart	ADV
_003376541	581	28	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	581	29	'	'	PUNCT
_003376541	581	30	outside	outside	ADV
_003376541	581	31	of	of	ADP
_003376541	581	32	everything	everything	PRON
_003376541	581	33	yet	yet	ADV
_003376541	581	34	with	with	ADP
_003376541	581	35	an	an	DET
_003376541	581	36	ever	ever	ADV
_003376541	581	37	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	581	38	present	present	ADJ
_003376541	581	39	one	one	NUM
_003376541	581	40	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	581	41	the	the	DET
_003376541	581	42	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	581	43	who	who	PRON
_003376541	581	44	remained	remain	VERB
_003376541	581	45	with	with	ADP
_003376541	581	46	you	you	PRON
_003376541	581	47	even	even	ADV
_003376541	581	48	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	581	49	you	you	PRON
_003376541	581	50	slept	sleep	VERB
_003376541	581	51	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	581	52	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	582	1	one	one	NUM
_003376541	582	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	582	3	her	her	PRON
_003376541	582	4	friends	friend	NOUN
_003376541	582	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	582	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	582	7	girl	girl	NOUN
_003376541	582	8	who	who	PRON
_003376541	582	9	had	have	AUX
_003376541	582	10	received	receive	VERB
_003376541	582	11	postgraduate	postgraduate	NOUN
_003376541	582	12	work	work	NOUN
_003376541	582	13	in	in	ADP
_003376541	582	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	582	15	nursing	nursing	NOUN
_003376541	582	16	profession	profession	NOUN
_003376541	582	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	582	18	who	who	PRON
_003376541	582	19	had	have	AUX
_003376541	582	20	worked	work	VERB
_003376541	582	21	with	with	ADP
_003376541	582	22	hundreds	hundred	NOUN
_003376541	582	23	of	of	ADP
_003376541	582	24	mothers	mother	NOUN
_003376541	582	25	having	have	VERB
_003376541	582	26	their	their	PRON
_003376541	582	27	babies	baby	NOUN
_003376541	582	28	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	582	29	added	add	VERB
_003376541	582	30	this	this	DET
_003376541	582	31	comment	comment	NOUN
_003376541	582	32	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	583	1	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	583	2	somehow	somehow	ADV
_003376541	583	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	583	4	my	my	PRON
_003376541	583	5	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	583	6	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	583	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	583	8	having	have	VERB
_003376541	583	9	a	a	DET
_003376541	583	10	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	583	11	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	583	12	was	be	AUX
_003376541	583	13	not	not	PART
_003376541	583	14	at	at	ADV
_003376541	583	15	all	all	ADV
_003376541	583	16	what	what	PRON
_003376541	583	17	i	i	PRON
_003376541	583	18	expected	expect	VERB
_003376541	583	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	584	1	i	i	PRON
_003376541	584	2	knew	know	VERB
_003376541	584	3	i	i	PRON
_003376541	584	4	could	could	AUX
_003376541	584	5	care	care	VERB
_003376541	584	6	for	for	ADP
_003376541	584	7	it	it	PRON
_003376541	584	8	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	585	1	i	i	PRON
_003376541	585	2	had	have	AUX
_003376541	585	3	been	be	AUX
_003376541	585	4	educated	educate	VERB
_003376541	585	5	to	to	PART
_003376541	585	6	appreciate	appreciate	VERB
_003376541	585	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	585	8	spiritual	spiritual	ADJ
_003376541	585	9	values	value	NOUN
_003376541	585	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	585	11	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	585	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	585	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	585	14	prospect	prospect	NOUN
_003376541	585	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	585	16	giving	give	VERB
_003376541	585	17	a	a	DET
_003376541	585	18	saint	saint	NOUN
_003376541	585	19	to	to	ADP
_003376541	585	20	heaven	heaven	PROPN
_003376541	585	21	as	as	ADV
_003376541	585	22	well	well	ADV
_003376541	585	23	as	as	ADP
_003376541	585	24	a	a	DET
_003376541	585	25	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	585	26	to	to	ADP
_003376541	585	27	the	the	DET
_003376541	585	28	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	585	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	586	1	yet	yet	CCONJ
_003376541	586	2	it	it	PRON
_003376541	586	3	seemed	seem	VERB
_003376541	586	4	it	it	PRON
_003376541	586	5	was	be	AUX
_003376541	586	6	n't	not	PART
_003376541	586	7	'	'	PUNCT
_003376541	586	8	me	i	PRON
_003376541	586	9	'	'	PUNCT
_003376541	586	10	any	any	PRON
_003376541	586	11	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	586	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	587	1	i	i	PRON
_003376541	587	2	began	begin	VERB
_003376541	587	3	to	to	PART
_003376541	587	4	doubt	doubt	VERB
_003376541	587	5	my	my	PRON
_003376541	587	6	capabilities	capability	NOUN
_003376541	587	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	587	8	motherhood	motherhood	NOUN
_003376541	587	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	587	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	587	11	i	i	PRON
_003376541	587	12	worried	worry	VERB
_003376541	587	13	about	about	ADP
_003376541	587	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	587	15	loss	loss	NOUN
_003376541	587	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	587	17	my	my	PRON
_003376541	587	18	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	587	19	's	's	PART
_003376541	587	20	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	587	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	588	1	i	i	PRON
_003376541	588	2	was	be	AUX
_003376541	588	3	sure	sure	ADJ
_003376541	588	4	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	588	5	he	he	PRON
_003376541	588	6	would	would	AUX
_003376541	588	7	eye	eye	VERB
_003376541	588	8	with	with	ADP
_003376541	588	9	pleasure	pleasure	NOUN
_003376541	588	10	every	every	DET
_003376541	588	11	slender	slender	NOUN
_003376541	588	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	588	13	graceful	graceful	ADJ
_003376541	588	14	woman	woman	NOUN
_003376541	588	15	that	that	PRON
_003376541	588	16	passed	pass	VERB
_003376541	588	17	by	by	ADP
_003376541	588	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	588	19	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	589	1	these	these	DET
_003376541	589	2	women	woman	NOUN
_003376541	589	3	expressing	express	VERB
_003376541	589	4	their	their	PRON
_003376541	589	5	feelings	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	589	6	were	be	AUX
_003376541	589	7	not	not	PART
_003376541	589	8	monsters	monster	NOUN
_003376541	589	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	589	10	selfishness	selfishness	NOUN
_003376541	589	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	589	12	vanity	vanity	NOUN
_003376541	589	13	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	589	14	incapability	incapability	NOUN
_003376541	589	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	590	1	they	they	PRON
_003376541	590	2	simply	simply	ADV
_003376541	590	3	reflected	reflect	VERB
_003376541	590	4	an	an	DET
_003376541	590	5	aspect	aspect	NOUN
_003376541	590	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	590	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	590	8	reality	reality	NOUN
_003376541	590	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	590	10	having	have	VERB
_003376541	590	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	590	12	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	590	13	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	590	14	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	591	1	they	they	PRON
_003376541	591	2	were	be	AUX
_003376541	591	3	normal	normal	ADJ
_003376541	591	4	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	591	5	intelligent	intelligent	ADJ
_003376541	591	6	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	591	7	honest	honest	ADJ
_003376541	591	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	591	9	finding	find	VERB
_003376541	591	10	for	for	ADP
_003376541	591	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	591	12	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	591	13	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	591	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	591	15	strange	strange	ADJ
_003376541	591	16	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	591	17	somewhat	somewhat	ADV
_003376541	591	18	frightening	frightening	ADJ
_003376541	591	19	contradictions	contradiction	NOUN
_003376541	591	20	that	that	PRON
_003376541	591	21	are	be	AUX
_003376541	591	22	a	a	DET
_003376541	591	23	part	part	NOUN
_003376541	591	24	of	of	ADP
_003376541	591	25	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	591	26	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	591	27	its	its	PRON
_003376541	591	28	human	human	ADJ
_003376541	591	29	product	product	NOUN
_003376541	591	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	592	1	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	592	2	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	592	3	women	woman	NOUN
_003376541	592	4	who	who	PRON
_003376541	592	5	maybe	maybe	ADV
_003376541	592	6	have	have	AUX
_003376541	592	7	not	not	PART
_003376541	592	8	thought	think	VERB
_003376541	592	9	about	about	ADP
_003376541	592	10	it	it	PRON
_003376541	592	11	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	592	12	are	be	AUX
_003376541	592	13	perhaps	perhaps	ADV
_003376541	592	14	less	less	ADV
_003376541	592	15	honest	honest	ADJ
_003376541	592	16	about	about	ADP
_003376541	592	17	admitting	admit	VERB
_003376541	592	18	it	it	PRON
_003376541	592	19	might	might	AUX
_003376541	592	20	gloss	gloss	VERB
_003376541	592	21	over	over	ADP
_003376541	592	22	these	these	DET
_003376541	592	23	feelings	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	592	24	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	592	25	pretend	pretend	VERB
_003376541	592	26	they	they	PRON
_003376541	592	27	do	do	AUX
_003376541	592	28	not	not	PART
_003376541	592	29	exist	exist	VERB
_003376541	592	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	593	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	593	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	593	3	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	593	4	such	such	ADJ
_003376541	593	5	emotions	emotion	NOUN
_003376541	593	6	are	be	AUX
_003376541	593	7	not	not	PART
_003376541	593	8	universal	universal	ADJ
_003376541	593	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	593	10	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	593	11	they	they	PRON
_003376541	593	12	are	be	AUX
_003376541	593	13	frequent	frequent	ADJ
_003376541	593	14	enough	enough	ADV
_003376541	593	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	594	1	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	594	2	because	because	SCONJ
_003376541	594	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	594	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	594	5	conditioning	conditioning	NOUN
_003376541	594	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	594	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	594	8	past	past	NOUN
_003376541	594	9	they	they	PRON
_003376541	594	10	are	be	AUX
_003376541	594	11	felt	feel	VERB
_003376541	594	12	by	by	ADP
_003376541	594	13	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	594	14	mothers	mother	NOUN
_003376541	594	15	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	594	16	to	to	PART
_003376541	594	17	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	594	18	be	be	AUX
_003376541	594	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	595	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	595	2	fact	fact	NOUN
_003376541	595	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	595	4	their	their	PRON
_003376541	595	5	presence	presence	NOUN
_003376541	595	6	is	be	AUX
_003376541	595	7	neither	neither	CCONJ
_003376541	595	8	shameful	shameful	ADJ
_003376541	595	9	nor	nor	CCONJ
_003376541	595	10	extraordinary	extraordinary	ADJ
_003376541	595	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	596	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	596	2	question	question	NOUN
_003376541	596	3	is	be	AUX
_003376541	596	4	not	not	PART
_003376541	596	5	always	always	ADV
_003376541	596	6	why	why	SCONJ
_003376541	596	7	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	596	8	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	596	9	these	these	DET
_003376541	596	10	feelings	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	596	11	got	get	VERB
_003376541	596	12	there	there	ADV
_003376541	596	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	596	14	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	596	15	what	what	PRON
_003376541	596	16	is	be	AUX
_003376541	596	17	each	each	DET
_003376541	596	18	woman	woman	NOUN
_003376541	596	19	going	go	VERB
_003376541	596	20	to	to	PART
_003376541	596	21	do	do	VERB
_003376541	596	22	about	about	ADP
_003376541	596	23	facing	face	VERB
_003376541	596	24	them	they	PRON
_003376541	596	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	597	1	42	42	NUM
_003376541	597	2	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	597	3	husbands	husband	NOUN
_003376541	597	4	feel	feel	VERB
_003376541	597	5	husbands	husband	NOUN
_003376541	597	6	do	do	AUX
_003376541	597	7	not	not	PART
_003376541	597	8	always	always	ADV
_003376541	597	9	discuss	discuss	VERB
_003376541	597	10	their	their	PRON
_003376541	597	11	feelings	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	597	12	during	during	ADP
_003376541	597	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	597	14	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	597	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	597	16	pregnancy	pregnancy	NOUN
_003376541	597	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	597	18	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	597	19	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	597	20	they	they	PRON
_003376541	597	21	do	do	VERB
_003376541	597	22	they	they	PRON
_003376541	597	23	frequently	frequently	ADV
_003376541	597	24	reveal	reveal	VERB
_003376541	597	25	the	the	DET
_003376541	597	26	contradictions	contradiction	NOUN
_003376541	597	27	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	597	28	they	they	PRON
_003376541	597	29	experience	experience	VERB
_003376541	597	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	598	1	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	598	2	i	i	PRON
_003376541	598	3	never	never	ADV
_003376541	598	4	really	really	ADV
_003376541	598	5	knew	know	VERB
_003376541	598	6	jane	jane	NOUN
_003376541	598	7	until	until	SCONJ
_003376541	598	8	our	our	PRON
_003376541	598	9	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	598	10	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	598	11	came	come	VERB
_003376541	598	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	598	13	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	598	14	explained	explain	VERB
_003376541	598	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	598	16	man	man	NOUN
_003376541	598	17	who	who	PRON
_003376541	598	18	had	have	AUX
_003376541	598	19	been	be	AUX
_003376541	598	20	married	marry	VERB
_003376541	598	21	three	three	NUM
_003376541	598	22	years	year	NOUN
_003376541	598	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	599	1	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	599	2	she	she	PRON
_003376541	599	3	used	use	VERB
_003376541	599	4	to	to	PART
_003376541	599	5	be	be	AUX
_003376541	599	6	so	so	ADV
_003376541	599	7	gay	gay	ADJ
_003376541	599	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	599	9	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	599	10	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	599	11	she	she	PRON
_003376541	599	12	was	be	AUX
_003376541	599	13	carrying	carry	VERB
_003376541	599	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	599	15	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	599	16	i	i	PRON
_003376541	599	17	would	would	AUX
_003376541	599	18	come	come	VERB
_003376541	599	19	home	home	ADV
_003376541	599	20	at	at	ADP
_003376541	599	21	night	night	NOUN
_003376541	599	22	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	599	23	find	find	VERB
_003376541	599	24	her	she	PRON
_003376541	599	25	crying	cry	VERB
_003376541	599	26	over	over	ADP
_003376541	599	27	nothing	nothing	PRON
_003376541	599	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	600	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	600	2	told	tell	VERB
_003376541	600	3	me	i	PRON
_003376541	600	4	it	it	PRON
_003376541	600	5	was	be	AUX
_003376541	600	6	just	just	ADV
_003376541	600	7	because	because	SCONJ
_003376541	600	8	she	she	PRON
_003376541	600	9	was	be	AUX
_003376541	600	10	tired	tired	ADJ
_003376541	600	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	600	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	600	13	i	i	PRON
_003376541	600	14	guess	guess	VERB
_003376541	600	15	it	it	PRON
_003376541	600	16	was	be	AUX
_003376541	600	17	for	for	SCONJ
_003376541	600	18	she	she	PRON
_003376541	600	19	slept	sleep	VERB
_003376541	600	20	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	600	21	of	of	ADP
_003376541	600	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	600	23	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	600	24	three	three	NUM
_003376541	600	25	months	month	NOUN
_003376541	600	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	601	1	i	i	PRON
_003376541	601	2	thought	think	VERB
_003376541	601	3	she	she	PRON
_003376541	601	4	was	be	AUX
_003376541	601	5	glad	glad	ADJ
_003376541	601	6	about	about	ADP
_003376541	601	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	601	8	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	601	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	601	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	601	11	i	i	PRON
_003376541	601	12	could	could	AUX
_003376541	601	13	n't	not	PART
_003376541	601	14	understand	understand	VERB
_003376541	601	15	why	why	SCONJ
_003376541	601	16	she	she	PRON
_003376541	601	17	should	should	AUX
_003376541	601	18	cry	cry	VERB
_003376541	601	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	601	20	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	602	1	jane	jane	NOUN
_003376541	602	2	had	have	AUX
_003376541	602	3	thought	think	VERB
_003376541	602	4	her	her	PRON
_003376541	602	5	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	602	6	was	be	AUX
_003376541	602	7	not	not	PART
_003376541	602	8	happy	happy	ADJ
_003376541	602	9	about	about	ADP
_003376541	602	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	602	11	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	602	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	603	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	603	2	never	never	ADV
_003376541	603	3	seemed	seem	VERB
_003376541	603	4	to	to	PART
_003376541	603	5	want	want	VERB
_003376541	603	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	603	7	discuss	discuss	VERB
_003376541	603	8	her	her	PRON
_003376541	603	9	plans	plan	NOUN
_003376541	603	10	for	for	ADP
_003376541	603	11	it	it	PRON
_003376541	603	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	603	13	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	603	14	seemed	seem	VERB
_003376541	603	15	content	content	NOUN
_003376541	603	16	just	just	ADV
_003376541	603	17	to	to	PART
_003376541	603	18	say	say	VERB
_003376541	603	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	603	20	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	603	21	let	let	VERB
_003376541	603	22	's	us	PRON
_003376541	603	23	wait	wait	VERB
_003376541	603	24	until	until	SCONJ
_003376541	603	25	it	it	PRON
_003376541	603	26	gets	get	VERB
_003376541	603	27	here	here	ADV
_003376541	603	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	603	29	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	604	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	604	2	found	find	VERB
_003376541	604	3	it	it	PRON
_003376541	604	4	even	even	ADV
_003376541	604	5	more	more	ADV
_003376541	604	6	disturbing	disturbing	ADJ
_003376541	604	7	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	604	8	after	after	SCONJ
_003376541	604	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	604	10	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	604	11	came	come	VERB
_003376541	604	12	her	her	PRON
_003376541	604	13	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	604	14	would	would	AUX
_003376541	604	15	do	do	VERB
_003376541	604	16	very	very	ADV
_003376541	604	17	little	little	ADJ
_003376541	604	18	for	for	ADP
_003376541	604	19	the	the	DET
_003376541	604	20	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	604	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	604	22	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	604	23	it	it	PRON
_003376541	604	24	was	be	AUX
_003376541	604	25	not	not	PART
_003376541	604	26	until	until	SCONJ
_003376541	604	27	the	the	DET
_003376541	604	28	infant	infant	NOUN
_003376541	604	29	gave	give	VERB
_003376541	604	30	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	604	31	to	to	ADP
_003376541	604	32	a	a	DET
_003376541	604	33	youngster	youngster	NOUN
_003376541	604	34	who	who	PRON
_003376541	604	35	could	could	AUX
_003376541	604	36	talk	talk	VERB
_003376541	604	37	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	604	38	play	play	VERB
_003376541	604	39	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	604	40	the	the	DET
_003376541	604	41	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	604	42	seemed	seem	VERB
_003376541	604	43	to	to	PART
_003376541	604	44	take	take	VERB
_003376541	604	45	any	any	DET
_003376541	604	46	care	care	NOUN
_003376541	604	47	for	for	ADP
_003376541	604	48	the	the	DET
_003376541	604	49	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	604	50	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	605	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	605	2	then	then	ADV
_003376541	605	3	found	find	VERB
_003376541	605	4	it	it	PRON
_003376541	605	5	very	very	ADV
_003376541	605	6	disconcerting	disconcert	VERB
_003376541	605	7	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	605	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	605	9	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	605	10	preferred	prefer	VERB
_003376541	605	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	605	12	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	605	13	to	to	ADP
_003376541	605	14	him	he	PRON
_003376541	605	15	at	at	ADP
_003376541	605	16	all	all	DET
_003376541	605	17	times	time	NOUN
_003376541	605	18	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	606	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	606	2	doctor	doctor	NOUN
_003376541	606	3	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	606	4	whose	whose	DET
_003376541	606	5	career	career	NOUN
_003376541	606	6	had	have	AUX
_003376541	606	7	been	be	AUX
_003376541	606	8	in	in	ADP
_003376541	606	9	obstetrics	obstetric	NOUN
_003376541	606	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	606	11	said	say	VERB
_003376541	606	12	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	606	13	he	he	PRON
_003376541	606	14	could	could	AUX
_003376541	606	15	never	never	ADV
_003376541	606	16	understand	understand	VERB
_003376541	606	17	why	why	SCONJ
_003376541	606	18	his	his	PRON
_003376541	606	19	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	606	20	thought	think	VERB
_003376541	606	21	it	it	PRON
_003376541	606	22	was	be	AUX
_003376541	606	23	such	such	DET
_003376541	606	24	a	a	DET
_003376541	606	25	unique	unique	ADJ
_003376541	606	26	achievement	achievement	NOUN
_003376541	606	27	to	to	PART
_003376541	606	28	have	have	VERB
_003376541	606	29	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	606	30	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	606	31	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	606	32	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	606	33	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	606	34	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	607	1	she	she	PRON
_003376541	607	2	had	have	AUX
_003376541	607	3	wanted	want	VERB
_003376541	607	4	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	607	5	asked	ask	VERB
_003376541	607	6	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	607	7	he	he	PRON
_003376541	607	8	spend	spend	VERB
_003376541	607	9	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	607	10	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	607	11	with	with	ADP
_003376541	607	12	her	she	PRON
_003376541	607	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	607	14	less	less	ADJ
_003376541	607	15	on	on	ADP
_003376541	607	16	his	his	PRON
_003376541	607	17	after	after	ADP
_003376541	607	18	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	607	19	hours	hour	NOUN
_003376541	607	20	pleasures	pleasure	NOUN
_003376541	607	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	608	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	608	2	thought	think	VERB
_003376541	608	3	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	608	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	608	5	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	608	6	came	come	VERB
_003376541	608	7	she	she	PRON
_003376541	608	8	would	would	AUX
_003376541	608	9	be	be	AUX
_003376541	608	10	so	so	ADV
_003376541	608	11	busy	busy	ADJ
_003376541	608	12	she	she	PRON
_003376541	608	13	would	would	AUX
_003376541	608	14	no	no	ADV
_003376541	608	15	longer	long	ADV
_003376541	608	16	mind	mind	VERB
_003376541	608	17	his	his	PRON
_003376541	608	18	always	always	ADV
_003376541	608	19	being	be	AUX
_003376541	608	20	at	at	ADP
_003376541	608	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	608	22	service	service	NOUN
_003376541	608	23	of	of	ADP
_003376541	608	24	others	other	NOUN
_003376541	608	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	609	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	609	2	found	find	VERB
_003376541	609	3	later	later	ADV
_003376541	609	4	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	609	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	609	6	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	609	7	who	who	PRON
_003376541	609	8	tries	try	VERB
_003376541	609	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	609	10	take	take	VERB
_003376541	609	11	up	up	ADP
_003376541	609	12	all	all	DET
_003376541	609	13	her	her	PRON
_003376541	609	14	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	609	15	caring	care	VERB
_003376541	609	16	for	for	ADP
_003376541	609	17	a	a	DET
_003376541	609	18	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	609	19	is	be	AUX
_003376541	609	20	neither	neither	CCONJ
_003376541	609	21	a	a	DET
_003376541	609	22	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	609	23	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	609	24	nor	nor	CCONJ
_003376541	609	25	a	a	DET
_003376541	609	26	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	609	27	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	609	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	610	1	no	no	ADV
_003376541	610	2	matter	matter	ADV
_003376541	610	3	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	610	4	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	610	5	he	he	PRON
_003376541	610	6	thought	think	VERB
_003376541	610	7	he	he	PRON
_003376541	610	8	was	be	AUX
_003376541	610	9	to	to	ADP
_003376541	610	10	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	610	11	expectant	expectant	ADJ
_003376541	610	12	mothers	mother	NOUN
_003376541	610	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	610	14	he	he	PRON
_003376541	610	15	was	be	AUX
_003376541	610	16	most	most	ADV
_003376541	610	17	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	610	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	610	19	all	all	PRON
_003376541	610	20	to	to	ADP
_003376541	610	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	610	22	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	610	23	of	of	ADP
_003376541	610	24	his	his	PRON
_003376541	610	25	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	610	26	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	610	27	keeping	keep	VERB
_003376541	610	28	it	it	PRON
_003376541	610	29	that	that	DET
_003376541	610	30	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	610	31	was	be	AUX
_003376541	610	32	as	as	ADV
_003376541	610	33	much	much	ADJ
_003376541	610	34	his	his	PRON
_003376541	610	35	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	610	36	as	as	ADP
_003376541	610	37	hers	her	NOUN
_003376541	610	38	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	611	1	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	611	2	couples	couple	NOUN
_003376541	611	3	find	find	VERB
_003376541	611	4	it	it	PRON
_003376541	611	5	difficult	difficult	ADJ
_003376541	611	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	611	7	express	express	VERB
_003376541	611	8	their	their	PRON
_003376541	611	9	feelings	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	611	10	to	to	ADP
_003376541	611	11	each	each	DET
_003376541	611	12	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	611	13	without	without	ADP
_003376541	611	14	being	be	AUX
_003376541	611	15	afraid	afraid	ADJ
_003376541	611	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	611	17	spouse	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	611	18	will	will	AUX
_003376541	611	19	think	think	VERB
_003376541	611	20	they	they	PRON
_003376541	611	21	are	be	AUX
_003376541	611	22	complaining	complain	VERB
_003376541	611	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	612	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	612	2	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	612	3	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	612	4	is	be	AUX
_003376541	612	5	truly	truly	ADV
_003376541	612	6	a	a	DET
_003376541	612	7	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	612	8	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	612	9	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	612	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	612	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	612	12	because	because	SCONJ
_003376541	612	13	they	they	PRON
_003376541	612	14	are	be	AUX
_003376541	612	15	not	not	PART
_003376541	612	16	yet	yet	ADV
_003376541	612	17	used	use	VERB
_003376541	612	18	to	to	ADP
_003376541	612	19	thinking	think	VERB
_003376541	612	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	612	21	themselves	themselves	PRON
_003376541	612	22	in	in	ADP
_003376541	612	23	the	the	DET
_003376541	612	24	43	43	NUM
_003376541	612	25	issue	issue	NOUN
_003376541	612	26	of	of	ADP
_003376541	612	27	misunderstanding	misunderstanding	NOUN
_003376541	612	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	613	1	where	where	SCONJ
_003376541	613	2	there	there	PRON
_003376541	613	3	is	be	VERB
_003376541	613	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	613	5	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	613	6	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	613	7	relationship	relationship	NOUN
_003376541	613	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	613	9	it	it	PRON
_003376541	613	10	can	can	AUX
_003376541	613	11	be	be	AUX
_003376541	613	12	strengthened	strengthen	VERB
_003376541	613	13	by	by	ADP
_003376541	613	14	this	this	DET
_003376541	613	15	sharing	sharing	NOUN
_003376541	613	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	613	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	613	18	deeper	deep	ADJ
_003376541	613	19	thoughts	thought	NOUN
_003376541	613	20	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	613	21	feelings	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	613	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	614	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	614	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	614	3	very	very	ADV
_003376541	614	4	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	614	5	to	to	ADP
_003376541	614	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	614	7	emotional	emotional	ADJ
_003376541	614	8	health	health	NOUN
_003376541	614	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	614	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	614	11	future	future	ADJ
_003376541	614	12	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	614	13	that	that	PRON
_003376541	614	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	614	15	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	614	16	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	614	17	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	614	18	do	do	AUX
_003376541	614	19	not	not	PART
_003376541	614	20	deceive	deceive	VERB
_003376541	614	21	themselves	themselves	PRON
_003376541	614	22	nor	nor	CCONJ
_003376541	614	23	each	each	DET
_003376541	614	24	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	614	25	about	about	ADP
_003376541	614	26	their	their	PRON
_003376541	614	27	true	true	ADJ
_003376541	614	28	reactions	reaction	NOUN
_003376541	614	29	to	to	ADP
_003376541	614	30	this	this	DET
_003376541	614	31	experience	experience	NOUN
_003376541	614	32	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	615	1	44	44	NUM
_003376541	615	2	fears	fear	NOUN
_003376541	615	3	that	that	PRON
_003376541	615	4	must	must	AUX
_003376541	615	5	be	be	AUX
_003376541	615	6	faced	face	VERB
_003376541	615	7	there	there	PRON
_003376541	615	8	may	may	AUX
_003376541	615	9	be	be	AUX
_003376541	615	10	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	615	11	fears	fear	NOUN
_003376541	615	12	associated	associate	VERB
_003376541	615	13	with	with	ADP
_003376541	615	14	a	a	DET
_003376541	615	15	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	615	16	pregnancy	pregnancy	NOUN
_003376541	615	17	that	that	PRON
_003376541	615	18	are	be	AUX
_003376541	615	19	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	615	20	to	to	ADP
_003376541	615	21	both	both	CCONJ
_003376541	615	22	prospective	prospective	ADJ
_003376541	615	23	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	615	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	616	1	one	one	NUM
_003376541	616	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	616	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	616	4	fear	fear	NOUN
_003376541	616	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	616	6	loss	loss	NOUN
_003376541	616	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	616	8	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	616	9	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	616	10	attention	attention	NOUN
_003376541	616	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	616	12	another	another	DET
_003376541	616	13	the	the	DET
_003376541	616	14	economic	economic	ADJ
_003376541	616	15	threat	threat	NOUN
_003376541	616	16	of	of	ADP
_003376541	616	17	living	live	VERB
_003376541	616	18	on	on	ADP
_003376541	616	19	one	one	NUM
_003376541	616	20	pay	pay	NOUN
_003376541	616	21	check	check	NOUN
_003376541	616	22	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	616	23	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	616	24	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	616	25	perhaps	perhaps	ADV
_003376541	616	26	the	the	DET
_003376541	616	27	ever	ever	ADV
_003376541	616	28	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	616	29	present	present	ADJ
_003376541	616	30	one	one	NUM
_003376541	616	31	of	of	ADP
_003376541	616	32	giving	give	VERB
_003376541	616	33	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	616	34	in	in	ADP
_003376541	616	35	the	the	DET
_003376541	616	36	face	face	NOUN
_003376541	616	37	of	of	ADP
_003376541	616	38	threatened	threaten	VERB
_003376541	616	39	universal	universal	ADJ
_003376541	616	40	chaos	chaos	NOUN
_003376541	616	41	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	617	1	as	as	ADP
_003376541	617	2	for	for	ADP
_003376541	617	3	the	the	DET
_003376541	617	4	emotional	emotional	ADJ
_003376541	617	5	one	one	NUM
_003376541	617	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	617	7	loss	loss	NOUN
_003376541	617	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	617	9	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	617	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	617	11	it	it	PRON
_003376541	617	12	can	can	AUX
_003376541	617	13	only	only	ADV
_003376541	617	14	be	be	AUX
_003376541	617	15	suggested	suggest	VERB
_003376541	617	16	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	617	17	a	a	DET
_003376541	617	18	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	617	19	never	never	ADV
_003376541	617	20	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	617	21	causes	cause	VERB
_003376541	617	22	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	617	23	the	the	DET
_003376541	617	24	loss	loss	NOUN
_003376541	617	25	of	of	ADP
_003376541	617	26	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	617	27	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	617	28	attention	attention	NOUN
_003376541	617	29	the	the	DET
_003376541	617	30	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	617	31	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	617	32	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	617	33	may	may	AUX
_003376541	617	34	experience	experience	VERB
_003376541	617	35	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	618	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	618	2	is	be	AUX
_003376541	618	3	used	use	VERB
_003376541	618	4	as	as	ADP
_003376541	618	5	an	an	DET
_003376541	618	6	excuse	excuse	NOUN
_003376541	618	7	for	for	ADP
_003376541	618	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	618	9	deficiency	deficiency	NOUN
_003376541	618	10	in	in	ADP
_003376541	618	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	618	12	quality	quality	NOUN
_003376541	618	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	618	14	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	618	15	that	that	PRON
_003376541	618	16	could	could	AUX
_003376541	618	17	not	not	PART
_003376541	618	18	embrace	embrace	VERB
_003376541	618	19	others	other	NOUN
_003376541	618	20	in	in	ADP
_003376541	618	21	its	its	PRON
_003376541	618	22	sphere	sphere	NOUN
_003376541	618	23	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	618	24	even	even	ADV
_003376541	618	25	its	its	PRON
_003376541	618	26	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	618	27	human	human	ADJ
_003376541	618	28	product	product	NOUN
_003376541	618	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	619	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	619	2	many	many	ADJ
_003376541	619	3	instances	instance	NOUN
_003376541	619	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	619	5	economic	economic	ADJ
_003376541	619	6	fears	fear	NOUN
_003376541	619	7	do	do	AUX
_003376541	619	8	not	not	PART
_003376541	619	9	involve	involve	VERB
_003376541	619	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	619	11	necessities	necessity	NOUN
_003376541	619	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	619	13	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	619	14	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	619	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	619	16	rearranging	rearranging	NOUN
_003376541	619	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	619	18	expenditures	expenditure	NOUN
_003376541	619	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	620	1	again	again	ADV
_003376541	620	2	it	it	PRON
_003376541	620	3	comes	come	VERB
_003376541	620	4	down	down	ADP
_003376541	620	5	to	to	ADP
_003376541	620	6	one	one	PRON
_003376541	620	7	's	's	PART
_003376541	620	8	set	set	NOUN
_003376541	620	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	620	10	values	value	NOUN
_003376541	620	11	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	620	12	is	be	AUX
_003376541	620	13	human	human	ADJ
_003376541	620	14	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	620	15	more	more	ADV
_003376541	620	16	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	620	17	than	than	ADP
_003376541	620	18	houses	house	NOUN
_003376541	620	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	620	20	cars	car	NOUN
_003376541	620	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	620	22	television	television	NOUN
_003376541	620	23	sets	set	NOUN
_003376541	620	24	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	620	25	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	620	26	travel	travel	NOUN
_003376541	620	27	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	621	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	621	2	a	a	DET
_003376541	621	3	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	621	4	can	can	AUX
_003376541	621	5	afford	afford	VERB
_003376541	621	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	621	7	marry	marry	VERB
_003376541	621	8	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	621	9	then	then	ADV
_003376541	621	10	they	they	PRON
_003376541	621	11	can	can	AUX
_003376541	621	12	afford	afford	VERB
_003376541	621	13	that	that	DET
_003376541	621	14	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	621	15	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	621	16	!	!	PUNCT
_003376541	622	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	622	2	beginning	begin	VERB
_003376541	622	3	years	year	NOUN
_003376541	622	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	622	5	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	622	6	are	be	AUX
_003376541	622	7	not	not	PART
_003376541	622	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	622	9	most	most	ADV
_003376541	622	10	expensive	expensive	ADJ
_003376541	622	11	ones	one	NOUN
_003376541	622	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	623	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	623	2	threat	threat	NOUN
_003376541	623	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	623	4	universal	universal	ADJ
_003376541	623	5	chaos	chaos	NOUN
_003376541	623	6	has	have	AUX
_003376541	623	7	been	be	AUX
_003376541	623	8	with	with	ADP
_003376541	623	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	623	10	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	623	11	since	since	SCONJ
_003376541	623	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	623	13	garden	garden	NOUN
_003376541	623	14	of	of	ADP
_003376541	623	15	eden	eden	PROPN
_003376541	623	16	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	624	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	624	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	624	3	days	day	NOUN
_003376541	624	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	624	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	624	6	early	early	ADJ
_003376541	624	7	christians	christian	NOUN
_003376541	624	8	they	they	PRON
_003376541	624	9	must	must	AUX
_003376541	624	10	have	have	AUX
_003376541	624	11	been	be	AUX
_003376541	624	12	concerned	concern	VERB
_003376541	624	13	about	about	ADP
_003376541	624	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	624	15	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	624	16	advisability	advisability	NOUN
_003376541	624	17	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	624	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	624	19	having	have	VERB
_003376541	624	20	a	a	DET
_003376541	624	21	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	624	22	because	because	SCONJ
_003376541	624	23	of	of	ADP
_003376541	624	24	the	the	DET
_003376541	624	25	pagan	pagan	PROPN
_003376541	624	26	persecutions	persecution	NOUN
_003376541	624	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	625	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	625	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	625	3	middle	middle	ADJ
_003376541	625	4	ages	age	NOUN
_003376541	625	5	couples	couple	NOUN
_003376541	625	6	no	no	PRON
_003376541	625	7	doubt	doubt	ADV
_003376541	625	8	experienced	experience	VERB
_003376541	625	9	the	the	DET
_003376541	625	10	same	same	ADJ
_003376541	625	11	threat	threat	NOUN
_003376541	625	12	from	from	ADP
_003376541	625	13	plagues	plague	NOUN
_003376541	625	14	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	625	15	feudal	feudal	ADJ
_003376541	625	16	systems	system	NOUN
_003376541	625	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	626	1	our	our	PRON
_003376541	626	2	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	626	3	ancestors	ancestor	NOUN
_003376541	626	4	could	could	AUX
_003376541	626	5	have	have	AUX
_003376541	626	6	been	be	AUX
_003376541	626	7	very	very	ADV
_003376541	626	8	worried	worried	ADJ
_003376541	626	9	about	about	ADP
_003376541	626	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	626	11	challenge	challenge	NOUN
_003376541	626	12	to	to	ADP
_003376541	626	13	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	626	14	provided	provide	VERB
_003376541	626	15	by	by	ADP
_003376541	626	16	the	the	DET
_003376541	626	17	hardships	hardship	NOUN
_003376541	626	18	of	of	ADP
_003376541	626	19	war	war	NOUN
_003376541	626	20	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	626	21	pioneering	pioneering	ADJ
_003376541	626	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	627	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	627	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	627	3	present	present	ADJ
_003376541	627	4	day	day	NOUN
_003376541	627	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	627	6	threat	threat	NOUN
_003376541	627	7	of	of	ADP
_003376541	627	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	627	9	atom	atom	NOUN
_003376541	627	10	is	be	AUX
_003376541	627	11	as	as	ADV
_003376541	627	12	real	real	ADJ
_003376541	627	13	to	to	ADP
_003376541	627	14	us	we	PRON
_003376541	627	15	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	627	16	their	their	PRON
_003376541	627	17	risks	risk	NOUN
_003376541	627	18	were	be	AUX
_003376541	627	19	to	to	ADP
_003376541	627	20	them	they	PRON
_003376541	627	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	628	1	to	to	PART
_003376541	628	2	live	live	VERB
_003376541	628	3	a	a	DET
_003376541	628	4	fully	fully	ADV
_003376541	628	5	human	human	ADJ
_003376541	628	6	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	628	7	in	in	ADP
_003376541	628	8	any	any	DET
_003376541	628	9	age	age	NOUN
_003376541	628	10	takes	take	VERB
_003376541	628	11	courage	courage	NOUN
_003376541	628	12	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	629	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	629	2	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	629	3	can	can	AUX
_003376541	629	4	take	take	VERB
_003376541	629	5	us	we	PRON
_003376541	629	6	not	not	PART
_003376541	629	7	only	only	ADV
_003376541	629	8	to	to	ADP
_003376541	629	9	this	this	DET
_003376541	629	10	age	age	NOUN
_003376541	629	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	629	12	but	but	CCONJ
_003376541	629	13	takes	take	VERB
_003376541	629	14	our	our	PRON
_003376541	629	15	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	629	16	incarnate	incarnate	ADJ
_003376541	629	17	into	into	ADP
_003376541	629	18	eternity	eternity	NOUN
_003376541	629	19	whenever	whenever	SCONJ
_003376541	629	20	it	it	PRON
_003376541	629	21	may	may	AUX
_003376541	629	22	come	come	VERB
_003376541	629	23	for	for	ADP
_003376541	629	24	him	he	PRON
_003376541	629	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	630	1	perhaps	perhaps	ADV
_003376541	630	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	630	3	greatest	great	ADJ
_003376541	630	4	fear	fear	NOUN
_003376541	630	5	suffered	suffer	VERB
_003376541	630	6	by	by	ADP
_003376541	630	7	all	all	DET
_003376541	630	8	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	630	9	couples	couple	NOUN
_003376541	630	10	is	be	AUX
_003376541	630	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	630	12	very	very	ADV
_003376541	630	13	humiliating	humiliating	ADJ
_003376541	630	14	one	one	NUM
_003376541	630	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	630	16	facing	face	VERB
_003376541	630	17	up	up	ADP
_003376541	630	18	to	to	ADP
_003376541	630	19	their	their	PRON
_003376541	630	20	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	630	21	inadequacies	inadequacy	NOUN
_003376541	630	22	in	in	ADP
_003376541	630	23	parenthood	parenthood	NOUN
_003376541	630	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	631	1	no	no	ADV
_003376541	631	2	matter	matter	ADV
_003376541	631	3	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	631	4	accomplished	accomplish	VERB
_003376541	631	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	631	6	man	man	NOUN
_003376541	631	7	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	631	8	woman	woman	NOUN
_003376541	631	9	may	may	AUX
_003376541	631	10	be	be	AUX
_003376541	631	11	in	in	ADP
_003376541	631	12	work	work	NOUN
_003376541	631	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	631	14	art	art	NOUN
_003376541	631	15	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	631	16	society	society	NOUN
_003376541	631	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	631	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	631	19	feelings	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	631	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	631	21	incompetence	incompetence	NOUN
_003376541	631	22	45	45	NUM
_003376541	631	23	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	631	24	unworthiness	unworthiness	NOUN
_003376541	631	25	before	before	ADP
_003376541	631	26	this	this	DET
_003376541	631	27	mystery	mystery	NOUN
_003376541	631	28	of	of	ADP
_003376541	631	29	new	new	ADJ
_003376541	631	30	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	631	31	is	be	AUX
_003376541	631	32	one	one	NUM
_003376541	631	33	from	from	ADP
_003376541	631	34	which	which	PRON
_003376541	631	35	he	he	PRON
_003376541	631	36	can	can	AUX
_003376541	631	37	not	not	PART
_003376541	631	38	entirely	entirely	ADV
_003376541	631	39	escape	escape	VERB
_003376541	631	40	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	632	1	any	any	DET
_003376541	632	2	small	small	ADJ
_003376541	632	3	excuse	excuse	NOUN
_003376541	632	4	can	can	AUX
_003376541	632	5	sometimes	sometimes	ADV
_003376541	632	6	be	be	AUX
_003376541	632	7	used	use	VERB
_003376541	632	8	to	to	PART
_003376541	632	9	deny	deny	VERB
_003376541	632	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	632	11	responsibility	responsibility	NOUN
_003376541	632	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	632	13	yet	yet	ADV
_003376541	632	14	in	in	ADP
_003376541	632	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	632	16	very	very	ADJ
_003376541	632	17	rationalization	rationalization	NOUN
_003376541	632	18	fears	fear	NOUN
_003376541	632	19	are	be	AUX
_003376541	632	20	proven	prove	VERB
_003376541	632	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	633	1	the	the	DET
_003376541	633	2	most	most	ADV
_003376541	633	3	common	common	ADJ
_003376541	633	4	fear	fear	NOUN
_003376541	633	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	633	6	most	most	ADV
_003376541	633	7	common	common	ADJ
_003376541	633	8	fear	fear	NOUN
_003376541	633	9	is	be	AUX
_003376541	633	10	loss	loss	NOUN
_003376541	633	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	633	12	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	633	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	633	14	the	the	DET
_003376541	633	15	partner	partner	NOUN
_003376541	633	16	expressed	express	VERB
_003376541	633	17	in	in	ADP
_003376541	633	18	this	this	DET
_003376541	633	19	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	633	20	:	:	PUNCT
_003376541	633	21	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	633	22	we	we	PRON
_003376541	633	23	need	need	VERB
_003376541	633	24	more	more	ADJ
_003376541	633	25	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	633	26	to	to	PART
_003376541	633	27	get	get	VERB
_003376541	633	28	used	use	VERB
_003376541	633	29	to	to	ADP
_003376541	633	30	each	each	DET
_003376541	633	31	other	other	ADJ
_003376541	633	32	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	633	33	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	634	1	some	some	PRON
_003376541	634	2	blame	blame	VERB
_003376541	634	3	economics	economic	NOUN
_003376541	634	4	%	%	INTJ
_003376541	634	5	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	634	6	•	•	VERB
_003376541	634	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	634	8	need	need	NOUN
_003376541	634	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	634	10	larger	large	ADJ
_003376541	634	11	living	living	NOUN
_003376541	634	12	quarters	quarter	NOUN
_003376541	634	13	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	634	14	maybe	maybe	ADV
_003376541	634	15	just	just	ADV
_003376541	634	16	a	a	DET
_003376541	634	17	job	job	NOUN
_003376541	634	18	promotion	promotion	NOUN
_003376541	634	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	635	1	these	these	PRON
_003376541	635	2	are	be	AUX
_003376541	635	3	demonstrations	demonstration	NOUN
_003376541	635	4	of	of	ADP
_003376541	635	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	635	6	biggest	big	ADJ
_003376541	635	7	fear	fear	NOUN
_003376541	635	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	635	9	all	all	PRON
_003376541	635	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	635	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	635	12	fear	fear	NOUN
_003376541	635	13	of	of	ADP
_003376541	635	14	self	self	NOUN
_003376541	635	15	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	635	16	it	it	PRON
_003376541	635	17	will	will	AUX
_003376541	635	18	not	not	PART
_003376541	635	19	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	635	20	can	can	AUX
_003376541	635	21	not	not	PART
_003376541	635	22	measure	measure	VERB
_003376541	635	23	up	up	ADP
_003376541	635	24	to	to	ADP
_003376541	635	25	the	the	DET
_003376541	635	26	demands	demand	NOUN
_003376541	635	27	that	that	PRON
_003376541	635	28	are	be	AUX
_003376541	635	29	made	make	VERB
_003376541	635	30	of	of	ADP
_003376541	635	31	it	it	PRON
_003376541	635	32	in	in	ADP
_003376541	635	33	the	the	DET
_003376541	635	34	switch	switch	NOUN
_003376541	635	35	from	from	ADP
_003376541	635	36	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	635	37	just	just	ADV
_003376541	635	38	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	635	39	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	635	40	to	to	ADP
_003376541	635	41	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	635	42	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	635	43	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	635	44	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	635	45	from	from	ADP
_003376541	635	46	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	635	47	just	just	ADV
_003376541	635	48	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	635	49	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	635	50	to	to	ADP
_003376541	635	51	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	635	52	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	635	53	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	635	54	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	636	1	postponing	postpone	VERB
_003376541	636	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	636	3	event	event	NOUN
_003376541	636	4	will	will	AUX
_003376541	636	5	not	not	PART
_003376541	636	6	eliminate	eliminate	VERB
_003376541	636	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	636	8	fear	fear	NOUN
_003376541	636	9	;	;	PUNCT
_003376541	636	10	it	it	PRON
_003376541	636	11	can	can	AUX
_003376541	636	12	only	only	ADV
_003376541	636	13	make	make	VERB
_003376541	636	14	it	it	PRON
_003376541	636	15	grow	grow	VERB
_003376541	636	16	larger	large	ADJ
_003376541	636	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	637	1	a	a	DET
_003376541	637	2	very	very	ADV
_003376541	637	3	real	real	ADJ
_003376541	637	4	concern	concern	NOUN
_003376541	637	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	637	6	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	637	7	marrieds	married	NOUN
_003376541	637	8	is	be	AUX
_003376541	637	9	related	relate	VERB
_003376541	637	10	to	to	ADP
_003376541	637	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	637	12	conduct	conduct	NOUN
_003376541	637	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	637	14	termination	termination	NOUN
_003376541	637	15	of	of	ADP
_003376541	637	16	labor	labor	NOUN
_003376541	637	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	638	1	millions	million	NOUN
_003376541	638	2	of	of	ADP
_003376541	638	3	words	word	NOUN
_003376541	638	4	have	have	AUX
_003376541	638	5	been	be	AUX
_003376541	638	6	written	write	VERB
_003376541	638	7	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	638	8	spoken	speak	VERB
_003376541	638	9	on	on	ADP
_003376541	638	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	638	11	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	638	12	best	good	ADJ
_003376541	638	13	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	638	14	way	way	NOUN
_003376541	638	15	to	to	PART
_003376541	638	16	have	have	VERB
_003376541	638	17	a	a	DET
_003376541	638	18	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	638	19	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	639	1	there	there	PRON
_003376541	639	2	is	be	VERB
_003376541	639	3	much	much	ADJ
_003376541	639	4	divergence	divergence	NOUN
_003376541	639	5	between	between	ADP
_003376541	639	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	639	7	ways	way	NOUN
_003376541	639	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	639	9	old	old	ADJ
_003376541	639	10	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	639	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	639	12	so	so	ADV
_003376541	639	13	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	639	14	called	call	VERB
_003376541	639	15	modern	modern	ADJ
_003376541	639	16	methods	method	NOUN
_003376541	639	17	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	640	1	there	there	PRON
_003376541	640	2	are	be	VERB
_003376541	640	3	militant	militant	ADJ
_003376541	640	4	apostles	apostle	NOUN
_003376541	640	5	of	of	ADP
_003376541	640	6	all	all	DET
_003376541	640	7	types	type	NOUN
_003376541	640	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	640	9	obstetrical	obstetrical	ADJ
_003376541	640	10	procedures	procedure	NOUN
_003376541	640	11	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	641	1	there	there	PRON
_003376541	641	2	are	be	VERB
_003376541	641	3	also	also	ADV
_003376541	641	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	641	5	ones	one	NOUN
_003376541	641	6	who	who	PRON
_003376541	641	7	speak	speak	VERB
_003376541	641	8	in	in	ADP
_003376541	641	9	nostalgic	nostalgic	ADJ
_003376541	641	10	tones	tone	NOUN
_003376541	641	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	641	12	the	the	DET
_003376541	641	13	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	641	14	good	good	ADJ
_003376541	641	15	old	old	ADJ
_003376541	641	16	days	day	NOUN
_003376541	641	17	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	641	18	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	641	19	babies	baby	NOUN
_003376541	641	20	came	come	VERB
_003376541	641	21	in	in	ADP
_003376541	641	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	641	23	fields	field	NOUN
_003376541	641	24	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	641	25	the	the	DET
_003376541	641	26	back	back	ADJ
_003376541	641	27	room	room	NOUN
_003376541	641	28	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	641	29	hardly	hardly	ADV
_003376541	641	30	ever	ever	ADV
_003376541	641	31	interrupted	interrupt	VERB
_003376541	641	32	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	641	33	's	's	PART
_003376541	641	34	daily	daily	ADJ
_003376541	641	35	routine	routine	NOUN
_003376541	641	36	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	641	37	let	let	VERB
_003376541	641	38	alone	alone	ADV
_003376541	641	39	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	641	40	's	's	PART
_003376541	641	41	!	!	PUNCT
_003376541	642	1	we	we	PRON
_003376541	642	2	wonder	wonder	VERB
_003376541	642	3	how	how	SCONJ
_003376541	642	4	these	these	DET
_003376541	642	5	advocates	advocate	NOUN
_003376541	642	6	are	be	AUX
_003376541	642	7	so	so	ADV
_003376541	642	8	sure	sure	ADJ
_003376541	642	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	642	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	642	11	cause	cause	NOUN
_003376541	642	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	642	13	effect	effect	NOUN
_003376541	642	14	relationships	relationship	NOUN
_003376541	642	15	from	from	ADP
_003376541	642	16	which	which	PRON
_003376541	642	17	they	they	PRON
_003376541	642	18	make	make	VERB
_003376541	642	19	their	their	PRON
_003376541	642	20	judgments	judgment	NOUN
_003376541	642	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	643	1	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	643	2	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	643	3	had	have	VERB
_003376541	643	4	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	643	5	on	on	ADP
_003376541	643	6	her	her	PRON
_003376541	643	7	lunch	lunch	NOUN
_003376541	643	8	hour	hour	NOUN
_003376541	643	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	643	10	there	there	PRON
_003376541	643	11	were	be	VERB
_003376541	643	12	no	no	DET
_003376541	643	13	lurking	lurk	VERB
_003376541	643	14	research	research	NOUN
_003376541	643	15	people	people	NOUN
_003376541	643	16	under	under	ADP
_003376541	643	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	643	18	shade	shade	NOUN
_003376541	643	19	of	of	ADP
_003376541	643	20	the	the	DET
_003376541	643	21	same	same	ADJ
_003376541	643	22	old	old	ADJ
_003376541	643	23	tree	tree	NOUN
_003376541	643	24	to	to	PART
_003376541	643	25	interpret	interpret	VERB
_003376541	643	26	her	her	PRON
_003376541	643	27	reactions	reaction	NOUN
_003376541	643	28	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	643	29	measure	measure	VERB
_003376541	643	30	her	her	PRON
_003376541	643	31	pain	pain	NOUN
_003376541	643	32	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	644	1	this	this	PRON
_003376541	644	2	also	also	ADV
_003376541	644	3	seemed	seem	VERB
_003376541	644	4	to	to	PART
_003376541	644	5	have	have	AUX
_003376541	644	6	occurred	occur	VERB
_003376541	644	7	before	before	SCONJ
_003376541	644	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	644	9	feminists	feminist	NOUN
_003376541	644	10	had	have	AUX
_003376541	644	11	persuaded	persuade	VERB
_003376541	644	12	woman	woman	NOUN
_003376541	644	13	she	she	PRON
_003376541	644	14	had	have	VERB
_003376541	644	15	a	a	DET
_003376541	644	16	right	right	NOUN
_003376541	644	17	to	to	PART
_003376541	644	18	express	express	VERB
_003376541	644	19	her	her	PRON
_003376541	644	20	opinion	opinion	NOUN
_003376541	644	21	outside	outside	ADP
_003376541	644	22	the	the	DET
_003376541	644	23	bedroom	bedroom	NOUN
_003376541	644	24	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	644	25	kitchen	kitchen	NOUN
_003376541	644	26	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	645	1	today	today	NOUN
_003376541	645	2	's	's	PART
_003376541	645	3	young	young	ADJ
_003376541	645	4	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	645	5	would	would	AUX
_003376541	645	6	be	be	AUX
_003376541	645	7	wise	wise	ADJ
_003376541	645	8	to	to	PART
_003376541	645	9	leave	leave	VERB
_003376541	645	10	the	the	DET
_003376541	645	11	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	645	12	old	old	ADJ
_003376541	645	13	days	day	NOUN
_003376541	645	14	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	645	15	to	to	ADP
_003376541	645	16	history	history	NOUN
_003376541	645	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	645	18	tradition	tradition	NOUN
_003376541	645	19	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	645	20	romantic	romantic	ADJ
_003376541	645	21	dreams	dream	NOUN
_003376541	645	22	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	646	1	they	they	PRON
_003376541	646	2	should	should	AUX
_003376541	646	3	take	take	VERB
_003376541	646	4	time	time	NOUN
_003376541	646	5	out	out	ADP
_003376541	646	6	to	to	PART
_003376541	646	7	evaluate	evaluate	VERB
_003376541	646	8	themselves	themselves	PRON
_003376541	646	9	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	646	10	their	their	PRON
_003376541	646	11	expectations	expectation	NOUN
_003376541	646	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	646	13	their	their	PRON
_003376541	646	14	potentialities	potentiality	NOUN
_003376541	646	15	for	for	ADP
_003376541	646	16	now	now	ADV
_003376541	646	17	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	646	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	646	19	immediate	immediate	ADJ
_003376541	646	20	future	future	NOUN
_003376541	646	21	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	647	1	in	in	ADP
_003376541	647	2	spite	spite	NOUN
_003376541	647	3	of	of	ADP
_003376541	647	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	647	5	efforts	effort	NOUN
_003376541	647	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	647	7	those	those	PRON
_003376541	647	8	who	who	PRON
_003376541	647	9	might	might	AUX
_003376541	647	10	wish	wish	VERB
_003376541	647	11	it	it	PRON
_003376541	647	12	otherwise	otherwise	ADV
_003376541	647	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	647	14	46	46	NUM
_003376541	647	15	obstetrics	obstetric	NOUN
_003376541	647	16	is	be	AUX
_003376541	647	17	still	still	ADV
_003376541	647	18	a	a	DET
_003376541	647	19	branch	branch	NOUN
_003376541	647	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	647	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	647	22	art	art	NOUN
_003376541	647	23	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	647	24	science	science	NOUN
_003376541	647	25	of	of	ADP
_003376541	647	26	medicine	medicine	NOUN
_003376541	647	27	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	648	1	with	with	ADP
_003376541	648	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	648	3	discoveries	discovery	NOUN
_003376541	648	4	made	make	VERB
_003376541	648	5	in	in	ADP
_003376541	648	6	the	the	DET
_003376541	648	7	field	field	NOUN
_003376541	648	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	648	9	antisepsis	antisepsis	NOUN
_003376541	648	10	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	648	11	antibiotics	antibiotic	NOUN
_003376541	648	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	648	13	anesthesia	anesthesia	NOUN
_003376541	648	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	648	15	the	the	DET
_003376541	648	16	risk	risk	NOUN
_003376541	648	17	of	of	ADP
_003376541	648	18	the	the	DET
_003376541	648	19	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	648	20	of	of	ADP
_003376541	648	21	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	648	22	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	648	23	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	648	24	has	have	AUX
_003376541	648	25	been	be	AUX
_003376541	648	26	greatly	greatly	ADV
_003376541	648	27	diminished	diminish	VERB
_003376541	648	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	649	1	if	if	SCONJ
_003376541	649	2	she	she	PRON
_003376541	649	3	permits	permit	VERB
_003376541	649	4	herself	herself	PRON
_003376541	649	5	to	to	PART
_003376541	649	6	take	take	VERB
_003376541	649	7	advantage	advantage	NOUN
_003376541	649	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	649	9	this	this	DET
_003376541	649	10	type	type	NOUN
_003376541	649	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	649	12	progress	progress	NOUN
_003376541	649	13	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	649	14	there	there	PRON
_003376541	649	15	are	be	VERB
_003376541	649	16	far	far	ADV
_003376541	649	17	fewer	few	ADJ
_003376541	649	18	occasions	occasion	NOUN
_003376541	649	19	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	649	20	she	she	PRON
_003376541	649	21	will	will	AUX
_003376541	649	22	be	be	AUX
_003376541	649	23	asked	ask	VERB
_003376541	649	24	to	to	PART
_003376541	649	25	put	put	VERB
_003376541	649	26	her	her	PRON
_003376541	649	27	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	649	28	at	at	ADP
_003376541	649	29	stake	stake	NOUN
_003376541	649	30	as	as	SCONJ
_003376541	649	31	she	she	PRON
_003376541	649	32	had	have	VERB
_003376541	649	33	to	to	PART
_003376541	649	34	in	in	ADP
_003376541	649	35	the	the	DET
_003376541	649	36	past	past	NOUN
_003376541	649	37	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	650	1	her	her	PRON
_003376541	650	2	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	650	3	has	have	VERB
_003376541	650	4	also	also	ADV
_003376541	650	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	650	6	f	f	X
_003376541	650	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	650	8	r	r	NOUN
_003376541	650	9	greater	great	ADJ
_003376541	650	10	chance	chance	NOUN
_003376541	650	11	of	of	ADP
_003376541	650	12	survival	survival	NOUN
_003376541	650	13	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	651	1	adequate	adequate	ADJ
_003376541	651	2	preparation	preparation	NOUN
_003376541	651	3	for	for	ADP
_003376541	651	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	651	5	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	651	6	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	651	7	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	651	8	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	651	9	means	mean	VERB
_003376541	651	10	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	651	11	the	the	DET
_003376541	651	12	couple	couple	NOUN
_003376541	651	13	know	know	VERB
_003376541	651	14	themselves	themselves	PRON
_003376541	651	15	as	as	ADP
_003376541	651	16	man	man	NOUN
_003376541	651	17	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	651	18	woman	woman	NOUN
_003376541	651	19	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	651	20	husband	husband	NOUN
_003376541	651	21	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	651	22	wife	wife	NOUN
_003376541	651	23	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	652	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	652	2	means	mean	VERB
_003376541	652	3	learning	learn	VERB
_003376541	652	4	a	a	DET
_003376541	652	5	few	few	ADJ
_003376541	652	6	basic	basic	ADJ
_003376541	652	7	facts	fact	NOUN
_003376541	652	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	652	9	prenatal	prenatal	ADJ
_003376541	652	10	care	care	NOUN
_003376541	652	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	652	12	re	re	VERB
_003376541	652	13	-	-	VERB
_003376541	652	14	evaluating	evaluate	VERB
_003376541	652	15	one	one	PRON
_003376541	652	16	's	's	PART
_003376541	652	17	value	value	NOUN
_003376541	652	18	system	system	NOUN
_003376541	652	19	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	652	20	learning	learn	VERB
_003376541	652	21	to	to	PART
_003376541	652	22	look	look	VERB
_003376541	652	23	deep	deep	ADV
_003376541	652	24	into	into	ADP
_003376541	652	25	the	the	DET
_003376541	652	26	meaning	meaning	NOUN
_003376541	652	27	of	of	ADP
_003376541	652	28	life	life	NOUN
_003376541	652	29	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	652	30	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	652	31	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	653	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	653	2	means	mean	VERB
_003376541	653	3	putting	put	VERB
_003376541	653	4	aside	aside	ADP
_003376541	653	5	the	the	DET
_003376541	653	6	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	653	7	oughtto	oughtto	NOUN
_003376541	653	8	's	's	PART
_003376541	653	9	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	653	10	of	of	ADP
_003376541	653	11	thinking	thinking	NOUN
_003376541	653	12	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	653	13	feeling	feeling	NOUN
_003376541	653	14	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	653	15	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	653	16	asking	ask	VERB
_003376541	653	17	the	the	DET
_003376541	653	18	all	all	ADV
_003376541	653	19	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	653	20	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	653	21	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	653	22	do	do	AUX
_003376541	653	23	i	i	PRON
_003376541	653	24	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	653	25	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	654	1	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	654	2	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	654	3	why	why	SCONJ
_003376541	654	4	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	654	5	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	655	1	it	it	PRON
_003376541	655	2	means	mean	VERB
_003376541	655	3	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	655	4	couples	couple	NOUN
_003376541	655	5	put	put	VERB
_003376541	655	6	aside	aside	ADV
_003376541	655	7	the	the	DET
_003376541	655	8	great	great	ADJ
_003376541	655	9	concern	concern	NOUN
_003376541	655	10	about	about	ADP
_003376541	655	11	what	what	PRON
_003376541	655	12	is	be	AUX
_003376541	655	13	going	go	VERB
_003376541	655	14	to	to	PART
_003376541	655	15	happen	happen	VERB
_003376541	655	16	to	to	ADP
_003376541	655	17	them	they	PRON
_003376541	655	18	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	655	19	to	to	ADP
_003376541	655	20	their	their	PRON
_003376541	655	21	lives	life	NOUN
_003376541	655	22	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	655	23	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	655	24	start	start	VERB
_003376541	655	25	thinking	think	VERB
_003376541	655	26	about	about	ADP
_003376541	655	27	the	the	DET
_003376541	655	28	needs	need	NOUN
_003376541	655	29	of	of	ADP
_003376541	655	30	the	the	DET
_003376541	655	31	child	child	NOUN
_003376541	655	32	—	—	PUNCT
_003376541	655	33	the	the	DET
_003376541	655	34	needs	need	NOUN
_003376541	655	35	that	that	PRON
_003376541	655	36	go	go	VERB
_003376541	655	37	beyond	beyond	ADP
_003376541	655	38	vitamins	vitamin	NOUN
_003376541	655	39	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	655	40	calories	calorie	NOUN
_003376541	655	41	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	655	42	comfort	comfort	NOUN
_003376541	655	43	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	655	44	fresh	fresh	ADJ
_003376541	655	45	air	air	NOUN
_003376541	655	46	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	656	1	what	what	PRON
_003376541	656	2	the	the	DET
_003376541	656	3	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	656	4	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	656	5	asks	ask	VERB
_003376541	656	6	what	what	PRON
_003376541	656	7	does	do	VERB
_003376541	656	8	a	a	DET
_003376541	656	9	first	first	ADJ
_003376541	656	10	baby	baby	NOUN
_003376541	656	11	ask	ask	NOUN
_003376541	656	12	of	of	ADP
_003376541	656	13	his	his	PRON
_003376541	656	14	parents	parent	NOUN
_003376541	656	15	?	?	PUNCT
_003376541	657	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	657	2	asks	ask	VERB
_003376541	657	3	first	first	ADV
_003376541	657	4	the	the	DET
_003376541	657	5	acceptance	acceptance	NOUN
_003376541	657	6	of	of	ADP
_003376541	657	7	a	a	DET
_003376541	657	8	wholehearted	wholehearte	VERB
_003376541	657	9	love	love	NOUN
_003376541	657	10	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	658	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	658	2	asks	ask	VERB
_003376541	658	3	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	658	4	there	there	PRON
_003376541	658	5	be	be	VERB
_003376541	658	6	joy	joy	NOUN
_003376541	658	7	whether	whether	SCONJ
_003376541	658	8	he	he	PRON
_003376541	658	9	is	be	AUX
_003376541	658	10	a	a	DET
_003376541	658	11	boy	boy	NOUN
_003376541	658	12	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	658	13	a	a	DET
_003376541	658	14	girl	girl	NOUN
_003376541	658	15	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	658	16	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	658	17	whether	whether	SCONJ
_003376541	658	18	his	his	PRON
_003376541	658	19	coming	coming	NOUN
_003376541	658	20	has	have	AUX
_003376541	658	21	been	be	AUX
_003376541	658	22	easy	easy	ADJ
_003376541	658	23	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	658	24	difficult	difficult	ADJ
_003376541	658	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	659	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	659	2	asks	ask	VERB
_003376541	659	3	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	659	4	he	he	PRON
_003376541	659	5	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	659	6	she	she	PRON
_003376541	659	7	be	be	AUX
_003376541	659	8	permitted	permit	VERB
_003376541	659	9	to	to	PART
_003376541	659	10	be	be	AUX
_003376541	659	11	a	a	DET
_003376541	659	12	person	person	NOUN
_003376541	659	13	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	659	14	not	not	PART
_003376541	659	15	just	just	ADV
_003376541	659	16	a	a	DET
_003376541	659	17	toy	toy	NOUN
_003376541	659	18	who	who	PRON
_003376541	659	19	will	will	AUX
_003376541	659	20	live	live	VERB
_003376541	659	21	the	the	DET
_003376541	659	22	wish	wish	NOUN
_003376541	659	23	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	659	24	wants	want	NOUN
_003376541	659	25	of	of	ADP
_003376541	659	26	the	the	DET
_003376541	659	27	mother	mother	NOUN
_003376541	659	28	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	659	29	father	father	NOUN
_003376541	659	30	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	660	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	660	2	asks	ask	VERB
_003376541	660	3	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	660	4	he	he	PRON
_003376541	660	5	be	be	AUX
_003376541	660	6	permitted	permit	VERB
_003376541	660	7	to	to	PART
_003376541	660	8	be	be	AUX
_003376541	660	9	less	less	ADJ
_003376541	660	10	than	than	ADP
_003376541	660	11	perfect	perfect	ADJ
_003376541	660	12	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	660	13	pi	pi	NOUN
_003376541	660	14	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	660	15	you	you	PRON
_003376541	660	16	will	will	AUX
_003376541	660	17	love	love	VERB
_003376541	660	18	him	he	PRON
_003376541	660	19	whether	whether	SCONJ
_003376541	660	20	his	his	PRON
_003376541	660	21	body	body	NOUN
_003376541	660	22	is	be	AUX
_003376541	660	23	whole	whole	ADJ
_003376541	660	24	or	or	CCONJ
_003376541	660	25	his	his	PRON
_003376541	660	26	mind	mind	NOUN
_003376541	660	27	is	be	AUX
_003376541	660	28	deficient	deficient	ADJ
_003376541	660	29	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	661	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	661	2	asks	ask	VERB
_003376541	661	3	that	that	SCONJ
_003376541	661	4	you	you	PRON
_003376541	661	5	share	share	VERB
_003376541	661	6	with	with	ADP
_003376541	661	7	him	he	PRON
_003376541	661	8	the	the	DET
_003376541	661	9	gifts	gift	NOUN
_003376541	661	10	that	that	PRON
_003376541	661	11	you	you	PRON
_003376541	661	12	give	give	VERB
_003376541	661	13	to	to	ADP
_003376541	661	14	each	each	DET
_003376541	661	15	otherg	otherg	NOUN
_003376541	661	16	-	-	PUNCT
_003376541	661	17	your	your	PRON
_003376541	661	18	attention	attention	NOUN
_003376541	661	19	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	661	20	your	your	PRON
_003376541	661	21	laughter	laughter	NOUN
_003376541	661	22	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	661	23	your	your	PRON
_003376541	661	24	strength	strength	NOUN
_003376541	661	25	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	661	26	your	your	PRON
_003376541	661	27	tears	tear	NOUN
_003376541	661	28	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	662	1	he	he	PRON
_003376541	662	2	asks	ask	VERB
_003376541	662	3	to	to	PART
_003376541	662	4	be	be	AUX
_003376541	662	5	a	a	DET
_003376541	662	6	very	very	ADV
_003376541	662	7	important	important	ADJ
_003376541	662	8	part	part	NOUN
_003376541	662	9	of	of	ADP
_003376541	662	10	your	your	PRON
_003376541	662	11	world	world	NOUN
_003376541	662	12	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	662	13	yet	yet	CCONJ
_003376541	662	14	he	he	PRON
_003376541	662	15	needs	need	VERB
_003376541	662	16	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	662	17	wants	want	VERB
_003376541	662	18	to	to	PART
_003376541	662	19	be	be	AUX
_003376541	662	20	able	able	ADJ
_003376541	662	21	to	to	PART
_003376541	662	22	discover	discover	VERB
_003376541	662	23	his	his	PRON
_003376541	662	24	own	own	ADJ
_003376541	662	25	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	663	1	perhaps	perhaps	ADV
_003376541	663	2	what	what	PRON
_003376541	663	3	he	he	PRON
_003376541	663	4	needs	need	VERB
_003376541	663	5	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	663	6	wants	want	VERB
_003376541	663	7	most	most	ADJ
_003376541	663	8	of	of	ADP
_003376541	663	9	all	all	PRON
_003376541	663	10	is	be	AUX
_003376541	663	11	to	to	PART
_003376541	663	12	be	be	AUX
_003376541	663	13	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	663	14	gift	gift	NOUN
_003376541	663	15	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	663	16	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	664	1	when	when	SCONJ
_003376541	664	2	he	he	PRON
_003376541	664	3	is	be	AUX
_003376541	664	4	come	come	VERB
_003376541	664	5	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	664	6	he	he	PRON
_003376541	664	7	says	say	VERB
_003376541	664	8	to	to	ADP
_003376541	664	9	each	each	DET
_003376541	664	10	parent	parent	NOUN
_003376541	664	11	,	,	PUNCT
_003376541	664	12	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	664	13	let	let	VERB
_003376541	664	14	me	i	PRON
_003376541	664	15	be	be	AUX
_003376541	664	16	your	your	PRON
_003376541	664	17	gift	gift	NOUN
_003376541	664	18	to	to	ADP
_003376541	664	19	god	god	PROPN
_003376541	664	20	and	and	CCONJ
_003376541	664	21	to	to	ADP
_003376541	664	22	your	your	PRON
_003376541	664	23	spouse	spouse	NOUN
_003376541	664	24	.	.	PUNCT
_003376541	664	25	"	"	PUNCT
_003376541	665	1	47	47	NUM