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PUNCT _003394133 4 1 what what PRON _003394133 4 2 they they PRON _003394133 4 3 ask ask VERB _003394133 4 4 about about ADP _003394133 4 5 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 4 6 by by ADP _003394133 4 7 monsignor monsignor PROPN _003394133 4 8 j. j. PROPN _003394133 4 9 d. d. PROPN _003394133 4 10 c c PROPN _003394133 4 11 o o PROPN _003394133 4 12 n n X _003394133 4 13 w w X _003394133 4 14 a a DET _003394133 4 15 y y PROPN _003394133 4 16 ( ( PUNCT _003394133 4 17 author author NOUN _003394133 4 18 of of ADP _003394133 4 19 : : PUNCT _003394133 4 20 what what PRON _003394133 4 21 they they PRON _003394133 4 22 ask ask VERB _003394133 4 23 about about ADP _003394133 4 24 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 4 25 ) ) PUNCT _003394133 4 26 a a DET _003394133 4 27 v v NOUN _003394133 4 28 e e PROPN _003394133 4 29 maria maria PROPN _003394133 4 30 press press PROPN _003394133 4 31 notre notre PROPN _003394133 4 32 dame dame PROPN _003394133 4 33 , , PUNCT _003394133 4 34 indiana indiana PROPN _003394133 4 35 nihil nihil PROPN _003394133 4 36 obstat obstat PROPN _003394133 4 37 : : PUNCT _003394133 4 38 john john PROPN _003394133 4 39 l. l. PROPN _003394133 4 40 reedy reedy PROPN _003394133 4 41 , , PUNCT _003394133 4 42 c.s.c c.s.c PROPN _003394133 4 43 . . PUNCT _003394133 5 1 censor censor VERB _003394133 5 2 deputatus deputatus PROPN _003394133 5 3 imprimatur imprimatur NOUN _003394133 5 4 : : PUNCT _003394133 5 5 j j PROPN _003394133 5 6 ® ® PROPN _003394133 5 7 most most ADV _003394133 5 8 rev rev PROPN _003394133 5 9 . . PROPN _003394133 5 10 leo leo PROPN _003394133 5 11 a. a. PROPN _003394133 5 12 pursley pursley PROPN _003394133 5 13 , , PUNCT _003394133 5 14 d.d d.d PROPN _003394133 5 15 . . PROPN _003394133 5 16 apostolic apostolic ADJ _003394133 5 17 administrator administrator NOUN _003394133 5 18 of of ADP _003394133 5 19 the the DET _003394133 5 20 diocese diocese NOUN _003394133 5 21 of of ADP _003394133 5 22 ft ft PROPN _003394133 5 23 . . PROPN _003394133 5 24 wayne wayne PROPN _003394133 5 25 , , PUNCT _003394133 5 26 indiana indiana PROPN _003394133 5 27 march march PROPN _003394133 5 28 28 28 NUM _003394133 5 29 , , PUNCT _003394133 5 30 1956 1956 NUM _003394133 5 31 this this DET _003394133 5 32 pamphlet pamphlet NOUN _003394133 5 33 is be AUX _003394133 5 34 reprinted reprint VERB _003394133 5 35 from from ADP _003394133 5 36 w w PROPN _003394133 5 37 h h PROPN _003394133 5 38 a a DET _003394133 5 39 t t NOUN _003394133 5 40 t t NOUN _003394133 5 41 h h NOUN _003394133 5 42 e e NOUN _003394133 5 43 y y PROPN _003394133 5 44 ask ask VERB _003394133 5 45 about about ADP _003394133 5 46 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 5 47 , , PUNCT _003394133 5 48 by by ADP _003394133 5 49 monsignor monsignor PROPN _003394133 5 50 j. j. PROPN _003394133 5 51 d. d. PROPN _003394133 5 52 conway conway PROPN _003394133 5 53 . . PUNCT _003394133 6 1 fides fide NOUN _003394133 6 2 publishers publisher NOUN _003394133 6 3 : : PUNCT _003394133 6 4 chicago chicago PROPN _003394133 6 5 19 19 NUM _003394133 6 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 6 7 iii iii PROPN _003394133 6 8 . . PUNCT _003394133 6 9 copyright copyright PROPN _003394133 6 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 6 11 1955 1955 NUM _003394133 6 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 7 1 printed print VERB _003394133 7 2 with with ADP _003394133 7 3 permission permission NOUN _003394133 7 4 . . PUNCT _003394133 8 1 cover cover VERB _003394133 8 2 photograph photograph NOUN _003394133 8 3 : : PUNCT _003394133 8 4 fides fide NOUN _003394133 8 5 publishers publisher NOUN _003394133 8 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 8 7 chicago chicago PROPN _003394133 8 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 8 9 111 111 NUM _003394133 8 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 9 1 fifth fifth ADJ _003394133 9 2 edition edition PROPN _003394133 9 3 — — PUNCT _003394133 9 4 april april PROPN _003394133 9 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 9 6 1961 1961 NUM _003394133 9 7 all all DET _003394133 9 8 rights right NOUN _003394133 9 9 reserved reserve VERB _003394133 9 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 10 1 this this DET _003394133 10 2 pamphlet pamphlet NOUN _003394133 10 3 may may AUX _003394133 10 4 not not PART _003394133 10 5 be be AUX _003394133 10 6 reproduced reproduce VERB _003394133 10 7 by by ADP _003394133 10 8 any any DET _003394133 10 9 means mean NOUN _003394133 10 10 in in ADP _003394133 10 11 whole whole ADJ _003394133 10 12 or or CCONJ _003394133 10 13 in in ADP _003394133 10 14 part part NOUN _003394133 10 15 without without ADP _003394133 10 16 prior prior ADJ _003394133 10 17 permission permission NOUN _003394133 10 18 . . PUNCT _003394133 11 1 deachsfed deachsfe VERB _003394133 11 2 / / SYM _003394133 11 3 ¡ ¡ NOUN _003394133 11 4 r r NOUN _003394133 11 5 % % NOUN _003394133 11 6 lf lf ADP _003394133 11 7 speow speow ADJ _003394133 12 1 i i PRON _003394133 12 2 ] ] PUNCT _003394133 13 1 i i PRON _003394133 13 2 . . PUNCT _003394133 14 1 t t NOUN _003394133 14 2 collections collection NOUN _003394133 14 3 i i PRON _003394133 14 4 j j DET _003394133 14 5 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 14 6 ... ... PUNCT _003394133 14 7 breaking break VERB _003394133 14 8 it it PRON _003394133 14 9 off off ADP _003394133 14 10 — — PUNCT _003394133 14 11 the the DET _003394133 14 12 d d PROPN _003394133 14 13 a a DET _003394133 14 14 t t NOUN _003394133 14 15 e e NOUN _003394133 14 16 •was •was AUX _003394133 14 17 set set VERB _003394133 14 18 — — PUNCT _003394133 14 19 conduct conduct NOUN _003394133 14 20 of of ADP _003394133 14 21 eng eng PROPN _003394133 14 22 a a DET _003394133 14 23 g g PROPN _003394133 15 1 e e PROPN _003394133 15 2 d d NOUN _003394133 15 3 couples couple NOUN _003394133 15 4 . . PUNCT _003394133 16 1 q. q. NOUN _003394133 16 2 two two NUM _003394133 16 3 people people NOUN _003394133 16 4 were be AUX _003394133 16 5 engaged engage VERB _003394133 16 6 to to PART _003394133 16 7 be be AUX _003394133 16 8 married marry VERB _003394133 16 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 16 10 one one NUM _003394133 16 11 a a DET _003394133 16 12 catholic catholic NOUN _003394133 16 13 , , PUNCT _003394133 16 14 one one NUM _003394133 16 15 not not PART _003394133 16 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 17 1 due due ADP _003394133 17 2 to to ADP _003394133 17 3 urgent urgent ADJ _003394133 17 4 pressure pressure NOUN _003394133 17 5 of of ADP _003394133 17 6 the the DET _003394133 17 7 catholic catholic NOUN _003394133 17 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 17 9 the the DET _003394133 17 10 other other ADJ _003394133 17 11 person person NOUN _003394133 17 12 reluctantly reluctantly ADV _003394133 17 13 decided decide VERB _003394133 17 14 to to PART _003394133 17 15 take take VERB _003394133 17 16 instructions instruction NOUN _003394133 17 17 . . PUNCT _003394133 18 1 then then ADV _003394133 18 2 after after ADP _003394133 18 3 a a DET _003394133 18 4 while while NOUN _003394133 18 5 the the DET _003394133 18 6 catholic catholic NOUN _003394133 18 7 broke break VERB _003394133 18 8 the the DET _003394133 18 9 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 18 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 19 1 this this DET _003394133 19 2 catholic catholic NOUN _003394133 19 3 is be AUX _003394133 19 4 very very ADV _003394133 19 5 conscientious conscientious ADJ _003394133 19 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 19 7 and and CCONJ _003394133 19 8 did do AUX _003394133 19 9 not not PART _003394133 19 10 make make VERB _003394133 19 11 light light NOUN _003394133 19 12 of of ADP _003394133 19 13 the the DET _003394133 19 14 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 19 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 19 16 and and CCONJ _003394133 19 17 now now ADV _003394133 19 18 feels feel VERB _003394133 19 19 responsible responsible ADJ _003394133 19 20 that that SCONJ _003394133 19 21 the the DET _003394133 19 22 non non ADJ _003394133 19 23 - - ADJ _003394133 19 24 catholic catholic ADJ _003394133 19 25 may may AUX _003394133 19 26 not not PART _003394133 19 27 join join VERB _003394133 19 28 the the DET _003394133 19 29 church church NOUN _003394133 19 30 . . PUNCT _003394133 20 1 i i PRON _003394133 20 2 think think VERB _003394133 20 3 it it PRON _003394133 20 4 is be AUX _003394133 20 5 a a DET _003394133 20 6 grace grace NOUN _003394133 20 7 from from ADP _003394133 20 8 god god PROPN _003394133 20 9 that that PRON _003394133 20 10 has have AUX _003394133 20 11 given give VERB _003394133 20 12 the the DET _003394133 20 13 catholic catholic NOUN _003394133 20 14 the the DET _003394133 20 15 ability ability NOUN _003394133 20 16 to to PART _003394133 20 17 break break VERB _003394133 20 18 the the DET _003394133 20 19 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 20 20 now now ADV _003394133 20 21 . . PUNCT _003394133 21 1 the the DET _003394133 21 2 catholic catholic NOUN _003394133 21 3 feels feel VERB _003394133 21 4 that that SCONJ _003394133 21 5 a a DET _003394133 21 6 great great ADJ _003394133 21 7 injustice injustice NOUN _003394133 21 8 is be AUX _003394133 21 9 being be AUX _003394133 21 10 done do VERB _003394133 21 11 , , PUNCT _003394133 21 12 but but CCONJ _003394133 21 13 would would AUX _003394133 21 14 it it PRON _003394133 21 15 not not PART _003394133 21 16 be be AUX _003394133 21 17 a a DET _003394133 21 18 greater great ADJ _003394133 21 19 injustice injustice NOUN _003394133 21 20 to to PART _003394133 21 21 go go VERB _003394133 21 22 ahead ahead ADV _003394133 21 23 and and CCONJ _003394133 21 24 marry marry VERB _003394133 21 25 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 22 1 would would AUX _003394133 22 2 there there PRON _003394133 22 3 be be AUX _003394133 22 4 any any DET _003394133 22 5 guilt guilt NOUN _003394133 22 6 on on ADP _003394133 22 7 the the DET _003394133 22 8 catholic catholic NOUN _003394133 22 9 's 's PART _003394133 22 10 part part NOUN _003394133 22 11 if if SCONJ _003394133 22 12 the the DET _003394133 22 13 other other ADJ _003394133 22 14 person person NOUN _003394133 22 15 did do AUX _003394133 22 16 not not PART _003394133 22 17 continue continue VERB _003394133 22 18 the the DET _003394133 22 19 instructions instruction NOUN _003394133 22 20 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 23 1 would would AUX _003394133 23 2 not not PART _003394133 23 3 the the DET _003394133 23 4 non non ADJ _003394133 23 5 - - ADJ _003394133 23 6 catholic catholic ADJ _003394133 23 7 party party NOUN _003394133 23 8 if if SCONJ _003394133 23 9 interested interested ADJ _003394133 23 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 23 11 or or CCONJ _003394133 23 12 believing believe VERB _003394133 23 13 the the DET _003394133 23 14 catholic catholic ADJ _003394133 23 15 church church NOUN _003394133 23 16 to to PART _003394133 23 17 be be AUX _003394133 23 18 the the DET _003394133 23 19 true true ADJ _003394133 23 20 church church NOUN _003394133 23 21 , , PUNCT _003394133 23 22 go go VERB _003394133 23 23 ahead ahead ADV _003394133 23 24 and and CCONJ _003394133 23 25 continue continue VERB _003394133 23 26 the the DET _003394133 23 27 instructions instruction NOUN _003394133 23 28 and and CCONJ _003394133 23 29 join join VERB _003394133 23 30 the the DET _003394133 23 31 church church NOUN _003394133 23 32 , , PUNCT _003394133 23 33 regardless regardless ADV _003394133 23 34 of of ADP _003394133 23 35 the the DET _003394133 23 36 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 23 37 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 24 1 a. a. NOUN _003394133 25 1 i i PRON _003394133 25 2 do do AUX _003394133 25 3 not not PART _003394133 25 4 want want VERB _003394133 25 5 to to PART _003394133 25 6 offend offend VERB _003394133 25 7 you you PRON _003394133 25 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 25 9 because because SCONJ _003394133 25 10 you you PRON _003394133 25 11 say say VERB _003394133 25 12 nice nice ADJ _003394133 25 13 things thing NOUN _003394133 25 14 about about ADP _003394133 25 15 the the DET _003394133 25 16 question question NOUN _003394133 25 17 box box NOUN _003394133 25 18 in in ADP _003394133 25 19 your your PRON _003394133 25 20 letter letter NOUN _003394133 25 21 . . PUNCT _003394133 26 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 26 2 you you PRON _003394133 26 3 do do AUX _003394133 26 4 make make VERB _003394133 26 5 your your PRON _003394133 26 6 3 3 NUM _003394133 26 7 questions question NOUN _003394133 26 8 long long ADJ _003394133 26 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 26 10 complicated complicated ADJ _003394133 26 11 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 26 12 whereas whereas SCONJ _003394133 26 13 these these DET _003394133 26 14 characteristics characteristic NOUN _003394133 26 15 are be AUX _003394133 26 16 supposed suppose VERB _003394133 26 17 to to PART _003394133 26 18 belong belong VERB _003394133 26 19 to to ADP _003394133 26 20 the the DET _003394133 26 21 answers answer NOUN _003394133 26 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 27 1 by by ADP _003394133 27 2 careful careful ADJ _003394133 27 3 avoidance avoidance NOUN _003394133 27 4 of of ADP _003394133 27 5 pronouns pronoun NOUN _003394133 27 6 you you PRON _003394133 27 7 have have AUX _003394133 27 8 successfully successfully ADV _003394133 27 9 confused confuse VERB _003394133 27 10 us we PRON _003394133 27 11 as as ADP _003394133 27 12 to to ADP _003394133 27 13 whether whether SCONJ _003394133 27 14 male male ADJ _003394133 27 15 or or CCONJ _003394133 27 16 female female NOUN _003394133 27 17 broke break VERB _003394133 27 18 the the DET _003394133 27 19 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 27 20 . . PUNCT _003394133 28 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 28 2 you you PRON _003394133 28 3 do do AUX _003394133 28 4 not not PART _003394133 28 5 conceal conceal VERB _003394133 28 6 a a DET _003394133 28 7 certain certain ADJ _003394133 28 8 personal personal ADJ _003394133 28 9 bias bias NOUN _003394133 28 10 in in ADP _003394133 28 11 favor favor NOUN _003394133 28 12 of of ADP _003394133 28 13 the the DET _003394133 28 14 status status NOUN _003394133 28 15 quo quo NOUN _003394133 28 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 29 1 i i PRON _003394133 29 2 hope hope VERB _003394133 29 3 you you PRON _003394133 29 4 did do AUX _003394133 29 5 not not PART _003394133 29 6 exert exert VERB _003394133 29 7 undue undue ADJ _003394133 29 8 influence influence NOUN _003394133 29 9 on on ADP _003394133 29 10 the the DET _003394133 29 11 catholic catholic PROPN _003394133 29 12 party party NOUN _003394133 29 13 to to PART _003394133 29 14 produce produce VERB _003394133 29 15 said say VERB _003394133 29 16 status status NOUN _003394133 29 17 . . PUNCT _003394133 30 1 said say VERB _003394133 30 2 party party NOUN _003394133 30 3 seems seem VERB _003394133 30 4 a a DET _003394133 30 5 bit bit NOUN _003394133 30 6 nostalgic nostalgic ADJ _003394133 30 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 31 1 of of ADP _003394133 31 2 course course ADV _003394133 31 3 no no DET _003394133 31 4 catholic catholic ADJ _003394133 31 5 party party NOUN _003394133 31 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 31 7 male male ADJ _003394133 31 8 or or CCONJ _003394133 31 9 female female ADJ _003394133 31 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 31 11 should should AUX _003394133 31 12 continue continue VERB _003394133 31 13 an an DET _003394133 31 14 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 31 15 to to PART _003394133 31 16 get get VERB _003394133 31 17 the the DET _003394133 31 18 other other ADJ _003394133 31 19 party party NOUN _003394133 31 20 to to PART _003394133 31 21 continue continue VERB _003394133 31 22 instructions instruction NOUN _003394133 31 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 32 1 i i PRON _003394133 32 2 would would AUX _003394133 32 3 be be AUX _003394133 32 4 a a DET _003394133 32 5 bit bit NOUN _003394133 32 6 wary wary ADJ _003394133 32 7 of of ADP _003394133 32 8 this this DET _003394133 32 9 conversion conversion NOUN _003394133 32 10 anyway anyway ADV _003394133 32 11 . . PUNCT _003394133 33 1 there there PRON _003394133 33 2 seems seem VERB _003394133 33 3 , , PUNCT _003394133 33 4 according accord VERB _003394133 33 5 to to ADP _003394133 33 6 your your PRON _003394133 33 7 story story NOUN _003394133 33 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 33 9 to to PART _003394133 33 10 have have AUX _003394133 33 11 been be AUX _003394133 33 12 too too ADV _003394133 33 13 much much ADV _003394133 33 14 urgent urgent ADJ _003394133 33 15 pressure pressure NOUN _003394133 33 16 on on ADP _003394133 33 17 one one NUM _003394133 33 18 side side NOUN _003394133 33 19 and and CCONJ _003394133 33 20 too too ADV _003394133 33 21 much much ADJ _003394133 33 22 reluctance reluctance NOUN _003394133 33 23 on on ADP _003394133 33 24 the the DET _003394133 33 25 other other ADJ _003394133 33 26 side side NOUN _003394133 33 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 34 1 it it PRON _003394133 34 2 is be AUX _003394133 34 3 true true ADJ _003394133 34 4 that that SCONJ _003394133 34 5 instructions instruction NOUN _003394133 34 6 begun begin VERB _003394133 34 7 under under ADP _003394133 34 8 such such ADJ _003394133 34 9 circumstances circumstance NOUN _003394133 34 10 often often ADV _003394133 34 11 lead lead VERB _003394133 34 12 to to ADP _003394133 34 13 interest interest NOUN _003394133 34 14 and and CCONJ _003394133 34 15 conviction conviction NOUN _003394133 34 16 and and CCONJ _003394133 34 17 faith faith NOUN _003394133 34 18 . . PUNCT _003394133 35 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 35 2 if if SCONJ _003394133 35 3 they they PRON _003394133 35 4 are be AUX _003394133 35 5 not not PART _003394133 35 6 continued continue VERB _003394133 35 7 when when SCONJ _003394133 35 8 the the DET _003394133 35 9 " " PUNCT _003394133 35 10 urgent urgent ADJ _003394133 35 11 pressure pressure NOUN _003394133 35 12 " " PUNCT _003394133 35 13 is be AUX _003394133 35 14 removed remove VERB _003394133 35 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 35 16 then then ADV _003394133 35 17 the the DET _003394133 35 18 pressure pressure NOUN _003394133 35 19 - - PUNCT _003394133 35 20 exerter exerter NOUN _003394133 35 21 should should AUX _003394133 35 22 have have VERB _003394133 35 23 no no DET _003394133 35 24 regrets regret NOUN _003394133 35 25 or or CCONJ _003394133 35 26 qualms qualm NOUN _003394133 35 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 36 1 in in ADP _003394133 36 2 other other ADJ _003394133 36 3 words word NOUN _003394133 36 4 , , PUNCT _003394133 36 5 unless unless SCONJ _003394133 36 6 your your PRON _003394133 36 7 daughter daughter NOUN _003394133 36 8 is be AUX _003394133 36 9 convinced convince VERB _003394133 36 10 that that SCONJ _003394133 36 11 she she PRON _003394133 36 12 really really ADV _003394133 36 13 wants want VERB _003394133 36 14 to to PART _003394133 36 15 marry marry VERB _003394133 36 16 this this DET _003394133 36 17 man man NOUN _003394133 36 18 , , PUNCT _003394133 36 19 that that SCONJ _003394133 36 20 she she PRON _003394133 36 21 really really ADV _003394133 36 22 loves love VERB _003394133 36 23 him he PRON _003394133 36 24 , , PUNCT _003394133 36 25 and and CCONJ _003394133 36 26 that that SCONJ _003394133 36 27 he he PRON _003394133 36 28 will will AUX _003394133 36 29 make make VERB _003394133 36 30 her she PRON _003394133 36 31 an an DET _003394133 36 32 ideal ideal ADJ _003394133 36 33 husband husband NOUN _003394133 36 34 , , PUNCT _003394133 36 35 then then ADV _003394133 36 36 she she PRON _003394133 36 37 should should AUX _003394133 36 38 maintain maintain VERB _003394133 36 39 the the DET _003394133 36 40 status status NOUN _003394133 36 41 quo quo NOUN _003394133 36 42 , , PUNCT _003394133 36 43 and and CCONJ _003394133 36 44 let let VERB _003394133 36 45 him he PRON _003394133 36 46 follow follow VERB _003394133 36 47 his his PRON _003394133 36 48 unpressured unpressured ADJ _003394133 36 49 conscience conscience NOUN _003394133 36 50 about about ADP _003394133 36 51 the the DET _003394133 36 52 instructions instruction NOUN _003394133 36 53 . . PUNCT _003394133 37 1 ( ( PUNCT _003394133 37 2 there there PRON _003394133 37 3 i i PRON _003394133 37 4 go go VERB _003394133 37 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 37 6 using use VERB _003394133 37 7 personal personal ADJ _003394133 37 8 pronouns pronoun NOUN _003394133 37 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 37 10 making make VERB _003394133 37 11 presumptions presumption NOUN _003394133 37 12 , , PUNCT _003394133 37 13 by by ADP _003394133 37 14 reading read VERB _003394133 37 15 between between ADP _003394133 37 16 lines line NOUN _003394133 37 17 . . PUNCT _003394133 37 18 ) ) PUNCT _003394133 38 1 q. q. PROPN _003394133 38 2 is be AUX _003394133 38 3 a a DET _003394133 38 4 catholic catholic ADJ _003394133 38 5 girl girl NOUN _003394133 38 6 doing do VERB _003394133 38 7 wrong wrong NOUN _003394133 38 8 if if SCONJ _003394133 38 9 she she PRON _003394133 38 10 decides decide VERB _003394133 38 11 not not PART _003394133 38 12 to to PART _003394133 38 13 marry marry VERB _003394133 38 14 a a DET _003394133 38 15 catholic catholic ADJ _003394133 38 16 young young ADJ _003394133 38 17 man man NOUN _003394133 38 18 after after SCONJ _003394133 38 19 plans plan NOUN _003394133 38 20 had have AUX _003394133 38 21 been be AUX _003394133 38 22 made make VERB _003394133 38 23 and and CCONJ _003394133 38 24 the the DET _003394133 38 25 date date NOUN _003394133 38 26 set set VERB _003394133 38 27 for for ADP _003394133 38 28 their their PRON _003394133 38 29 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 38 30 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 39 1 a. a. NOUN _003394133 39 2 that that PRON _003394133 39 3 depends depend VERB _003394133 39 4 on on ADP _003394133 39 5 her her PRON _003394133 39 6 motives motive NOUN _003394133 39 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 40 1 if if SCONJ _003394133 40 2 she she PRON _003394133 40 3 is be AUX _003394133 40 4 honest honest ADJ _003394133 40 5 with with ADP _003394133 40 6 herself herself PRON _003394133 40 7 and and CCONJ _003394133 40 8 the the DET _003394133 40 9 young young ADJ _003394133 40 10 man man NOUN _003394133 40 11 , , PUNCT _003394133 40 12 she she PRON _003394133 40 13 is be AUX _003394133 40 14 not not PART _003394133 40 15 doing do VERB _003394133 40 16 wrong wrong NOUN _003394133 40 17 . . PUNCT _003394133 41 1 if if SCONJ _003394133 41 2 she she PRON _003394133 41 3 now now ADV _003394133 41 4 finds find VERB _003394133 41 5 her her PRON _003394133 41 6 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 41 7 was be AUX _003394133 41 8 a a DET _003394133 41 9 mistake mistake NOUN _003394133 41 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 41 11 she she PRON _003394133 41 12 is be AUX _003394133 41 13 obliged oblige VERB _003394133 41 14 to to PART _003394133 41 15 break break VERB _003394133 41 16 it it PRON _003394133 41 17 . . PUNCT _003394133 42 1 she she PRON _003394133 42 2 can can AUX _003394133 42 3 change change VERB _003394133 42 4 her her PRON _003394133 42 5 mind mind NOUN _003394133 42 6 up up ADP _003394133 42 7 to to ADP _003394133 42 8 the the DET _003394133 42 9 moment moment NOUN _003394133 42 10 of of ADP _003394133 42 11 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 42 12 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 42 13 but but CCONJ _003394133 42 14 not not PART _003394133 42 15 after after ADP _003394133 42 16 that that DET _003394133 42 17 moment moment NOUN _003394133 42 18 . . PUNCT _003394133 43 1 she she PRON _003394133 43 2 must must AUX _003394133 43 3 be be AUX _003394133 43 4 fair fair ADJ _003394133 43 5 with with ADP _003394133 43 6 the the DET _003394133 43 7 young young ADJ _003394133 43 8 man man NOUN _003394133 43 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 43 10 but but CCONJ _003394133 43 11 she she PRON _003394133 43 12 must must AUX _003394133 43 13 not not PART _003394133 43 14 let let VERB _003394133 43 15 herself herself PRON _003394133 43 16 be be AUX _003394133 43 17 influenced influence VERB _003394133 43 18 by by ADP _003394133 43 19 what what PRON _003394133 43 20 the the DET _003394133 43 21 neighbors neighbor NOUN _003394133 43 22 may may AUX _003394133 43 23 say say VERB _003394133 43 24 . . PUNCT _003394133 44 1 the the DET _003394133 44 2 church church NOUN _003394133 44 3 law law NOUN _003394133 44 4 recognizes recognize VERB _003394133 44 5 that that SCONJ _003394133 44 6 an an DET _003394133 44 7 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 44 8 to to PART _003394133 44 9 marry marry VERB _003394133 44 10 4 4 NUM _003394133 44 11 involves involve VERB _003394133 44 12 a a DET _003394133 44 13 certain certain ADJ _003394133 44 14 obligation obligation NOUN _003394133 44 15 in in ADP _003394133 44 16 conscience conscience NOUN _003394133 44 17 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 44 18 it it PRON _003394133 44 19 is be AUX _003394133 44 20 a a DET _003394133 44 21 mutual mutual ADJ _003394133 44 22 promise promise NOUN _003394133 44 23 , , PUNCT _003394133 44 24 solemnly solemnly ADV _003394133 44 25 made make VERB _003394133 44 26 , , PUNCT _003394133 44 27 about about ADP _003394133 44 28 a a DET _003394133 44 29 serious serious ADJ _003394133 44 30 matter matter NOUN _003394133 44 31 . . PUNCT _003394133 45 1 however however ADV _003394133 45 2 , , PUNCT _003394133 45 3 changed change VERB _003394133 45 4 circumstances circumstance NOUN _003394133 45 5 can can AUX _003394133 45 6 relieve relieve VERB _003394133 45 7 the the DET _003394133 45 8 engaged engaged ADJ _003394133 45 9 person person NOUN _003394133 45 10 of of ADP _003394133 45 11 his his PRON _003394133 45 12 moral moral ADJ _003394133 45 13 obligation obligation NOUN _003394133 45 14 . . PUNCT _003394133 46 1 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 46 2 is be AUX _003394133 46 3 infinitely infinitely ADV _003394133 46 4 more more ADV _003394133 46 5 serious serious ADJ _003394133 46 6 than than ADP _003394133 46 7 the the DET _003394133 46 8 promises promise NOUN _003394133 46 9 he he PRON _003394133 46 10 made make VERB _003394133 46 11 . . PUNCT _003394133 47 1 the the DET _003394133 47 2 church church NOUN _003394133 47 3 wants want VERB _003394133 47 4 people people NOUN _003394133 47 5 to to PART _003394133 47 6 be be AUX _003394133 47 7 entirely entirely ADV _003394133 47 8 free free ADJ _003394133 47 9 up up ADP _003394133 47 10 to to ADP _003394133 47 11 the the DET _003394133 47 12 moment moment NOUN _003394133 47 13 of of ADP _003394133 47 14 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 47 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 48 1 so so ADV _003394133 48 2 she she PRON _003394133 48 3 will will AUX _003394133 48 4 not not PART _003394133 48 5 permit permit VERB _003394133 48 6 a a DET _003394133 48 7 person person NOUN _003394133 48 8 to to PART _003394133 48 9 be be AUX _003394133 48 10 forced force VERB _003394133 48 11 into into ADP _003394133 48 12 a a DET _003394133 48 13 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 48 14 merely merely ADV _003394133 48 15 because because SCONJ _003394133 48 16 of of ADP _003394133 48 17 an an DET _003394133 48 18 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 48 19 . . PUNCT _003394133 49 1 q. q. PROPN _003394133 49 2 i i PRON _003394133 49 3 am be AUX _003394133 49 4 twenty twenty NUM _003394133 49 5 years year NOUN _003394133 49 6 old old ADJ _003394133 49 7 and and CCONJ _003394133 49 8 for for ADP _003394133 49 9 a a DET _003394133 49 10 year year NOUN _003394133 49 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 49 12 a a DET _003394133 49 13 half half NOUN _003394133 49 14 i i PRON _003394133 49 15 have have AUX _003394133 49 16 been be AUX _003394133 49 17 going go VERB _003394133 49 18 steady steady ADJ _003394133 49 19 with with ADP _003394133 49 20 a a DET _003394133 49 21 man man NOUN _003394133 49 22 seven seven NUM _003394133 49 23 years year NOUN _003394133 49 24 older old ADJ _003394133 49 25 than than ADP _003394133 49 26 myself myself PRON _003394133 49 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 50 1 we we PRON _003394133 50 2 plan plan VERB _003394133 50 3 to to PART _003394133 50 4 marry marry VERB _003394133 50 5 just just ADV _003394133 50 6 as as ADV _003394133 50 7 soon soon ADV _003394133 50 8 as as SCONJ _003394133 50 9 all all DET _003394133 50 10 arrangements arrangement NOUN _003394133 50 11 are be AUX _003394133 50 12 complete complete ADJ _003394133 50 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 51 1 we we PRON _003394133 51 2 love love VERB _003394133 51 3 each each DET _003394133 51 4 other other ADJ _003394133 51 5 very very ADV _003394133 51 6 much much ADV _003394133 51 7 and and CCONJ _003394133 51 8 have have VERB _003394133 51 9 deep deep ADJ _003394133 51 10 respect respect NOUN _003394133 51 11 for for ADP _003394133 51 12 each each DET _003394133 51 13 other other ADJ _003394133 51 14 . . PUNCT _003394133 52 1 i i PRON _003394133 52 2 know know VERB _003394133 52 3 from from ADP _003394133 52 4 religious religious ADJ _003394133 52 5 teachings teaching NOUN _003394133 52 6 that that PRON _003394133 52 7 " " PUNCT _003394133 52 8 petting pet VERB _003394133 52 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 52 10 " " PUNCT _003394133 52 11 passionate passionate VERB _003394133 52 12 embracing embrace VERB _003394133 52 13 and and CCONJ _003394133 52 14 kissing kissing NOUN _003394133 52 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 52 16 are be AUX _003394133 52 17 sinful sinful ADJ _003394133 52 18 and and CCONJ _003394133 52 19 should should AUX _003394133 52 20 not not PART _003394133 52 21 be be AUX _003394133 52 22 done do VERB _003394133 52 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 53 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 53 2 i i PRON _003394133 53 3 would would AUX _003394133 53 4 like like VERB _003394133 53 5 to to PART _003394133 53 6 ask ask VERB _003394133 53 7 this this DET _003394133 53 8 question question NOUN _003394133 53 9 : : PUNCT _003394133 53 10 how how SCONJ _003394133 53 11 can can AUX _003394133 53 12 two two NUM _003394133 53 13 people people NOUN _003394133 53 14 in in ADP _003394133 53 15 love love NOUN _003394133 53 16 see see VERB _003394133 53 17 one one NUM _003394133 53 18 another another DET _003394133 53 19 two two NUM _003394133 53 20 or or CCONJ _003394133 53 21 three three NUM _003394133 53 22 times time NOUN _003394133 53 23 a a DET _003394133 53 24 week week NOUN _003394133 53 25 and and CCONJ _003394133 53 26 not not PART _003394133 53 27 find find VERB _003394133 53 28 themselves themselves PRON _003394133 53 29 passionate passionate VERB _003394133 53 30 towards towards ADP _003394133 53 31 each each DET _003394133 53 32 other other ADJ _003394133 53 33 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 54 1 if if SCONJ _003394133 54 2 i i PRON _003394133 54 3 never never ADV _003394133 54 4 kissed kiss VERB _003394133 54 5 the the DET _003394133 54 6 man man NOUN _003394133 54 7 i i PRON _003394133 54 8 am be AUX _003394133 54 9 going go VERB _003394133 54 10 to to PART _003394133 54 11 marry marry VERB _003394133 54 12 , , PUNCT _003394133 54 13 how how SCONJ _003394133 54 14 would would AUX _003394133 54 15 i i PRON _003394133 54 16 know know VERB _003394133 54 17 i i PRON _003394133 54 18 loved love VERB _003394133 54 19 him he PRON _003394133 54 20 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 55 1 when when SCONJ _003394133 55 2 i i PRON _003394133 55 3 do do AUX _003394133 55 4 embrace embrace VERB _003394133 55 5 him he PRON _003394133 55 6 it it PRON _003394133 55 7 does do AUX _003394133 55 8 n't not PART _003394133 55 9 seem seem VERB _003394133 55 10 cheap cheap ADJ _003394133 55 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 55 12 sinful sinful ADJ _003394133 55 13 to to ADP _003394133 55 14 me i PRON _003394133 55 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 56 1 if if SCONJ _003394133 56 2 these these DET _003394133 56 3 things thing NOUN _003394133 56 4 seemed seem VERB _003394133 56 5 really really ADV _003394133 56 6 wrong wrong ADJ _003394133 56 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 56 8 i i PRON _003394133 56 9 would would AUX _003394133 56 10 n't not PART _003394133 56 11 do do VERB _003394133 56 12 them they PRON _003394133 56 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 57 1 an an DET _003394133 57 2 impure impure NOUN _003394133 57 3 touch touch NOUN _003394133 57 4 or or CCONJ _003394133 57 5 thought think VERB _003394133 57 6 seems seem VERB _003394133 57 7 wrong wrong ADJ _003394133 57 8 ( ( PUNCT _003394133 57 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 57 10 i i PRON _003394133 57 11 know know VERB _003394133 57 12 they they PRON _003394133 57 13 are be AUX _003394133 57 14 ) ) PUNCT _003394133 57 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 57 16 so so ADV _003394133 57 17 we we PRON _003394133 57 18 make make VERB _003394133 57 19 every every DET _003394133 57 20 effort effort NOUN _003394133 57 21 to to PART _003394133 57 22 keep keep VERB _003394133 57 23 from from ADP _003394133 57 24 doing do VERB _003394133 57 25 them they PRON _003394133 57 26 . . PUNCT _003394133 58 1 we we PRON _003394133 58 2 never never ADV _003394133 58 3 kissed kiss VERB _003394133 58 4 one one NOUN _003394133 58 5 another another DET _003394133 58 6 for for ADP _003394133 58 7 over over ADP _003394133 58 8 a a PRON _003394133 58 9 year year NOUN _003394133 58 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 59 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 59 2 i i PRON _003394133 59 3 love love VERB _003394133 59 4 him he PRON _003394133 59 5 now now ADV _003394133 59 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 59 7 and and CCONJ _003394133 59 8 it it PRON _003394133 59 9 does do AUX _003394133 59 10 n't not PART _003394133 59 11 seem seem VERB _003394133 59 12 wrong wrong ADJ _003394133 59 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 60 1 please please INTJ _003394133 60 2 tell tell VERB _003394133 60 3 me i PRON _003394133 60 4 the the DET _003394133 60 5 attitude attitude NOUN _003394133 60 6 to to PART _003394133 60 7 take take VERB _003394133 60 8 on on ADP _003394133 60 9 these these DET _003394133 60 10 matters matter NOUN _003394133 60 11 , , PUNCT _003394133 60 12 as as SCONJ _003394133 60 13 it it PRON _003394133 60 14 is be AUX _003394133 60 15 important important ADJ _003394133 60 16 to to ADP _003394133 60 17 both both PRON _003394133 60 18 of of ADP _003394133 60 19 us we PRON _003394133 60 20 . . PUNCT _003394133 61 1 i i PRON _003394133 61 2 want want VERB _003394133 61 3 to to PART _003394133 61 4 live live VERB _003394133 61 5 and and CCONJ _003394133 61 6 act act VERB _003394133 61 7 as as SCONJ _003394133 61 8 my my PRON _003394133 61 9 god god PROPN _003394133 61 10 wants want VERB _003394133 61 11 me i PRON _003394133 61 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 62 1 a. a. NOUN _003394133 63 1 no no DET _003394133 63 2 answer answer NOUN _003394133 63 3 of of ADP _003394133 63 4 mine mine PRON _003394133 63 5 could could AUX _003394133 63 6 possibly possibly ADV _003394133 63 7 be be AUX _003394133 63 8 as as ADV _003394133 63 9 inspiring inspiring ADJ _003394133 63 10 as as ADP _003394133 63 11 your your PRON _003394133 63 12 question question NOUN _003394133 63 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 64 1 no no DET _003394133 64 2 counsel counsel NOUN _003394133 64 3 of of ADP _003394133 64 4 mine mine NOUN _003394133 64 5 could could AUX _003394133 64 6 possibly possibly ADV _003394133 64 7 improve improve VERB _003394133 64 8 on on ADP _003394133 64 9 your your PRON _003394133 64 10 attitude attitude NOUN _003394133 64 11 toward toward ADP _003394133 64 12 your your PRON _003394133 64 13 courtship courtship NOUN _003394133 64 14 , , PUNCT _003394133 64 15 love love NOUN _003394133 64 16 and and CCONJ _003394133 64 17 future future ADJ _003394133 64 18 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 64 19 . . PUNCT _003394133 65 1 no no DET _003394133 65 2 statement statement NOUN _003394133 65 3 of of ADP _003394133 65 4 moral moral ADJ _003394133 65 5 principles principle NOUN _003394133 65 6 could could AUX _003394133 65 7 provide provide VERB _003394133 65 8 a a DET _003394133 65 9 better well ADV _003394133 65 10 practical practical ADJ _003394133 65 11 5 5 NUM _003394133 65 12 solution solution NOUN _003394133 65 13 of of ADP _003394133 65 14 love love NOUN _003394133 65 15 's 's PART _003394133 65 16 problems problem NOUN _003394133 65 17 , , PUNCT _003394133 65 18 than than ADP _003394133 65 19 that that PRON _003394133 65 20 which which PRON _003394133 65 21 you you PRON _003394133 65 22 have have AUX _003394133 65 23 con con ADV _003394133 65 24 - - PUNCT _003394133 65 25 scientiously scientiously ADV _003394133 65 26 found find VERB _003394133 65 27 for for ADP _003394133 65 28 yourself yourself PRON _003394133 65 29 . . PUNCT _003394133 66 1 my my PRON _003394133 66 2 only only ADJ _003394133 66 3 advice advice NOUN _003394133 66 4 to to ADP _003394133 66 5 you you PRON _003394133 66 6 is be AUX _003394133 66 7 to to PART _003394133 66 8 forget forget VERB _003394133 66 9 your your PRON _003394133 66 10 worries worry NOUN _003394133 66 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 66 12 fears fear NOUN _003394133 66 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 67 1 certainly certainly ADV _003394133 67 2 , , PUNCT _003394133 67 3 at at ADP _003394133 67 4 this this DET _003394133 67 5 stage stage NOUN _003394133 67 6 of of ADP _003394133 67 7 your your PRON _003394133 67 8 courtship courtship NOUN _003394133 67 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 67 10 not not PART _003394133 67 11 every every DET _003394133 67 12 kiss kiss NOUN _003394133 67 13 or or CCONJ _003394133 67 14 embrace embrace NOUN _003394133 67 15 means mean VERB _003394133 67 16 sin sin NOUN _003394133 67 17 or or CCONJ _003394133 67 18 impurity impurity NOUN _003394133 67 19 . . PUNCT _003394133 68 1 they they PRON _003394133 68 2 are be AUX _003394133 68 3 honest honest ADJ _003394133 68 4 signs sign NOUN _003394133 68 5 of of ADP _003394133 68 6 your your PRON _003394133 68 7 affection affection NOUN _003394133 68 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 68 9 which which PRON _003394133 68 10 properly properly ADV _003394133 68 11 demonstrate demonstrate VERB _003394133 68 12 and and CCONJ _003394133 68 13 increase increase VERB _003394133 68 14 your your PRON _003394133 68 15 love love NOUN _003394133 68 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 69 1 they they PRON _003394133 69 2 are be AUX _003394133 69 3 a a DET _003394133 69 4 legitimate legitimate ADJ _003394133 69 5 test test NOUN _003394133 69 6 of of ADP _003394133 69 7 temper temper NOUN _003394133 69 8 and and CCONJ _003394133 69 9 attraction attraction NOUN _003394133 69 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 69 11 a a DET _003394133 69 12 sane sane NOUN _003394133 69 13 preparation preparation NOUN _003394133 69 14 for for ADP _003394133 69 15 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 69 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 70 1 you you PRON _003394133 70 2 are be AUX _003394133 70 3 normal normal ADJ _003394133 70 4 , , PUNCT _003394133 70 5 decent decent ADJ _003394133 70 6 people people NOUN _003394133 70 7 in in ADP _003394133 70 8 love love NOUN _003394133 70 9 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 70 10 not not PART _003394133 70 11 bloodless bloodless ADJ _003394133 70 12 spirits spirit NOUN _003394133 70 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 71 1 you you PRON _003394133 71 2 have have VERB _003394133 71 3 instincts instinct NOUN _003394133 71 4 and and CCONJ _003394133 71 5 emotions emotion NOUN _003394133 71 6 and and CCONJ _003394133 71 7 you you PRON _003394133 71 8 will will AUX _003394133 71 9 soon soon ADV _003394133 71 10 use use VERB _003394133 71 11 them they PRON _003394133 71 12 properly properly ADV _003394133 71 13 to to PART _003394133 71 14 establish establish VERB _003394133 71 15 a a DET _003394133 71 16 family family NOUN _003394133 71 17 and and CCONJ _003394133 71 18 give give VERB _003394133 71 19 glory glory NOUN _003394133 71 20 to to ADP _003394133 71 21 god god PROPN _003394133 71 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 72 1 meanwhile meanwhile ADV _003394133 72 2 you you PRON _003394133 72 3 realize realize VERB _003394133 72 4 that that SCONJ _003394133 72 5 these these DET _003394133 72 6 instincts instinct NOUN _003394133 72 7 must must AUX _003394133 72 8 be be AUX _003394133 72 9 guided guide VERB _003394133 72 10 by by ADP _003394133 72 11 reason reason NOUN _003394133 72 12 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 72 13 and and CCONJ _003394133 72 14 that that SCONJ _003394133 72 15 these these DET _003394133 72 16 emotions emotion NOUN _003394133 72 17 must must AUX _003394133 72 18 be be AUX _003394133 72 19 kept keep VERB _003394133 72 20 under under ADP _003394133 72 21 restraint restraint NOUN _003394133 72 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 73 1 your your PRON _003394133 73 2 intentions intention NOUN _003394133 73 3 are be AUX _003394133 73 4 perfect perfect ADJ _003394133 73 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 73 6 but but CCONJ _003394133 73 7 you you PRON _003394133 73 8 know know VERB _003394133 73 9 that that SCONJ _003394133 73 10 good good ADJ _003394133 73 11 intentions intention NOUN _003394133 73 12 are be AUX _003394133 73 13 no no DET _003394133 73 14 proof proof NOUN _003394133 73 15 against against ADP _003394133 73 16 indiscretion indiscretion NOUN _003394133 73 17 , , PUNCT _003394133 73 18 without without ADP _003394133 73 19 reason reason NOUN _003394133 73 20 and and CCONJ _003394133 73 21 will will AUX _003394133 73 22 , , PUNCT _003394133 73 23 and and CCONJ _003394133 73 24 prayer prayer NOUN _003394133 73 25 and and CCONJ _003394133 73 26 grace grace NOUN _003394133 73 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 74 1 surely surely ADV _003394133 74 2 god god PROPN _003394133 74 3 loves love VERB _003394133 74 4 you you PRON _003394133 74 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 74 6 and and CCONJ _003394133 74 7 is be AUX _003394133 74 8 pleased pleased ADJ _003394133 74 9 with with ADP _003394133 74 10 your your PRON _003394133 74 11 love love NOUN _003394133 74 12 for for ADP _003394133 74 13 each each DET _003394133 74 14 other other ADJ _003394133 74 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 75 1 that that DET _003394133 75 2 love love NOUN _003394133 75 3 has have AUX _003394133 75 4 developed develop VERB _003394133 75 5 normally normally ADV _003394133 75 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 75 7 honestly honestly ADV _003394133 75 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 75 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 75 10 properly properly ADV _003394133 75 11 . . PUNCT _003394133 76 1 you you PRON _003394133 76 2 can can AUX _003394133 76 3 be be AUX _003394133 76 4 proud proud ADJ _003394133 76 5 of of ADP _003394133 76 6 your your PRON _003394133 76 7 courtship courtship NOUN _003394133 76 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 76 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 76 10 thank thank VERB _003394133 76 11 god god PROPN _003394133 76 12 for for ADP _003394133 76 13 his his PRON _003394133 76 14 grace grace NOUN _003394133 76 15 which which PRON _003394133 76 16 has have AUX _003394133 76 17 guided guide VERB _003394133 76 18 it it PRON _003394133 76 19 . . PUNCT _003394133 77 1 you you PRON _003394133 77 2 have have AUX _003394133 77 3 laid lay VERB _003394133 77 4 the the DET _003394133 77 5 best good ADJ _003394133 77 6 possible possible ADJ _003394133 77 7 foundation foundation NOUN _003394133 77 8 for for ADP _003394133 77 9 married married ADJ _003394133 77 10 happiness happiness NOUN _003394133 77 11 . . PUNCT _003394133 78 1 courtship courtship NOUN _003394133 78 2 and and CCONJ _003394133 78 3 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 78 4 are be AUX _003394133 78 5 right right ADJ _003394133 78 6 and and CCONJ _003394133 78 7 necessary necessary ADJ _003394133 78 8 . . PUNCT _003394133 79 1 they they PRON _003394133 79 2 provide provide VERB _003394133 79 3 the the DET _003394133 79 4 soil soil NOUN _003394133 79 5 for for ADP _003394133 79 6 love love NOUN _003394133 79 7 's 's PART _003394133 79 8 growth growth NOUN _003394133 79 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 80 1 they they PRON _003394133 80 2 give give VERB _003394133 80 3 you you PRON _003394133 80 4 a a DET _003394133 80 5 deeper deep ADJ _003394133 80 6 knowledge knowledge NOUN _003394133 80 7 and and CCONJ _003394133 80 8 understanding understanding NOUN _003394133 80 9 of of ADP _003394133 80 10 each each DET _003394133 80 11 other other ADJ _003394133 80 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 81 1 you you PRON _003394133 81 2 learn learn VERB _003394133 81 3 to to PART _003394133 81 4 be be AUX _003394133 81 5 at at ADP _003394133 81 6 ease ease NOUN _003394133 81 7 with with ADP _003394133 81 8 each each DET _003394133 81 9 other other ADJ _003394133 81 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 82 1 you you PRON _003394133 82 2 come come VERB _003394133 82 3 to to PART _003394133 82 4 know know VERB _003394133 82 5 each each DET _003394133 82 6 other other ADJ _003394133 82 7 's 's PART _003394133 82 8 likes like NOUN _003394133 82 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 82 10 aversions aversion NOUN _003394133 82 11 , , PUNCT _003394133 82 12 faculties faculty NOUN _003394133 82 13 and and CCONJ _003394133 82 14 foibles foible NOUN _003394133 82 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 82 16 aims aim NOUN _003394133 82 17 and and CCONJ _003394133 82 18 ambitions ambition NOUN _003394133 82 19 , , PUNCT _003394133 82 20 hopes hope NOUN _003394133 82 21 and and CCONJ _003394133 82 22 habits habit NOUN _003394133 82 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 83 1 you you PRON _003394133 83 2 began begin VERB _003394133 83 3 with with ADP _003394133 83 4 a a DET _003394133 83 5 surface surface NOUN _003394133 83 6 attraction attraction NOUN _003394133 83 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 83 8 maybe maybe ADV _003394133 83 9 a a DET _003394133 83 10 bit bit NOUN _003394133 83 11 of of ADP _003394133 83 12 infatuation infatuation NOUN _003394133 83 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 84 1 you you PRON _003394133 84 2 came come VERB _003394133 84 3 to to PART _003394133 84 4 know know VERB _003394133 84 5 and and CCONJ _003394133 84 6 appreciate appreciate VERB _003394133 84 7 spiritual spiritual ADJ _003394133 84 8 qualities quality NOUN _003394133 84 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 84 10 to to PART _003394133 84 11 evaluate evaluate VERB _003394133 84 12 properties property NOUN _003394133 84 13 of of ADP _003394133 84 14 intellect intellect NOUN _003394133 84 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 84 16 to to PART _003394133 84 17 develop develop VERB _003394133 84 18 mutual mutual ADJ _003394133 84 19 interests interest NOUN _003394133 84 20 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 84 21 and and CCONJ _003394133 84 22 you you PRON _003394133 84 23 have have AUX _003394133 84 24 found find VERB _003394133 84 25 much much ADJ _003394133 84 26 in in ADP _003394133 84 27 common common ADJ _003394133 84 28 in in ADP _003394133 84 29 your your PRON _003394133 84 30 social social ADJ _003394133 84 31 and and CCONJ _003394133 84 32 cultural cultural ADJ _003394133 84 33 backgrounds background NOUN _003394133 84 34 and and CCONJ _003394133 84 35 religious religious ADJ _003394133 84 36 convictions conviction NOUN _003394133 84 37 . . PUNCT _003394133 85 1 you you PRON _003394133 85 2 have have AUX _003394133 85 3 developed develop VERB _003394133 85 4 deep deep ADJ _003394133 85 5 respect respect NOUN _003394133 85 6 for for ADP _003394133 85 7 each each DET _003394133 85 8 other other ADJ _003394133 85 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 86 1 you you PRON _003394133 86 2 are be AUX _003394133 86 3 solidly solidly ADV _003394133 86 4 and and CCONJ _003394133 86 5 sincerely sincerely ADV _003394133 86 6 in in ADP _003394133 86 7 love love NOUN _003394133 86 8 . . PUNCT _003394133 87 1 you you PRON _003394133 87 2 have have AUX _003394133 87 3 contemplated contemplate VERB _003394133 87 4 life life NOUN _003394133 87 5 's 's PART _003394133 87 6 problems problem NOUN _003394133 87 7 together together ADV _003394133 87 8 . . PUNCT _003394133 88 1 you you PRON _003394133 88 2 know know VERB _003394133 88 3 that that SCONJ _003394133 88 4 you you PRON _003394133 88 5 are be AUX _003394133 88 6 suited suit VERB _003394133 88 7 to to ADP _003394133 88 8 each each DET _003394133 88 9 other other ADJ _003394133 88 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 88 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 88 12 can can AUX _003394133 88 13 be be AUX _003394133 88 14 happy happy ADJ _003394133 88 15 together together ADV _003394133 88 16 through through ADP _003394133 88 17 the the DET _003394133 88 18 years year NOUN _003394133 88 19 . . PUNCT _003394133 89 1 your your PRON _003394133 89 2 courtship courtship NOUN _003394133 89 3 has have AUX _003394133 89 4 been be AUX _003394133 89 5 normal normal ADJ _003394133 89 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 89 7 frank frank PROPN _003394133 89 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 89 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 89 10 honest honest ADJ _003394133 89 11 . . PUNCT _003394133 90 1 you you PRON _003394133 90 2 laid lay VERB _003394133 90 3 the the DET _003394133 90 4 foundation foundation NOUN _003394133 90 5 of of ADP _003394133 90 6 love love NOUN _003394133 90 7 first first ADV _003394133 90 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 90 9 in in ADP _003394133 90 10 beautiful beautiful ADJ _003394133 90 11 , , PUNCT _003394133 90 12 steady steady ADJ _003394133 90 13 compan6 compan6 NOUN _003394133 90 14 ionship ionship NOUN _003394133 90 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 90 16 and and CCONJ _003394133 90 17 then then ADV _003394133 90 18 let let VERB _003394133 90 19 it it PRON _003394133 90 20 develop develop VERB _003394133 90 21 naturally naturally ADV _003394133 90 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 91 1 you you PRON _003394133 91 2 did do AUX _003394133 91 3 not not PART _003394133 91 4 rush rush VERB _003394133 91 5 it it PRON _003394133 91 6 or or CCONJ _003394133 91 7 anticipate anticipate VERB _003394133 91 8 it it PRON _003394133 91 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 92 1 you you PRON _003394133 92 2 did do AUX _003394133 92 3 not not PART _003394133 92 4 use use VERB _003394133 92 5 courtship courtship NOUN _003394133 92 6 as as ADP _003394133 92 7 an an DET _003394133 92 8 excuse excuse NOUN _003394133 92 9 for for ADP _003394133 92 10 thrill thrill NOUN _003394133 92 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 92 12 passion passion NOUN _003394133 92 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 93 1 you you PRON _003394133 93 2 did do AUX _003394133 93 3 not not PART _003394133 93 4 resort resort VERB _003394133 93 5 to to ADP _003394133 93 6 seduction seduction NOUN _003394133 93 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 94 1 your your PRON _003394133 94 2 first first ADJ _003394133 94 3 kiss kiss NOUN _003394133 94 4 and and CCONJ _003394133 94 5 embrace embrace NOUN _003394133 94 6 were be AUX _003394133 94 7 not not PART _003394133 94 8 false false ADJ _003394133 94 9 or or CCONJ _003394133 94 10 deceptive deceptive ADJ _003394133 94 11 , , PUNCT _003394133 94 12 but but CCONJ _003394133 94 13 full full ADJ _003394133 94 14 of of ADP _003394133 94 15 meaning meaning NOUN _003394133 94 16 , , PUNCT _003394133 94 17 honest honest ADJ _003394133 94 18 , , PUNCT _003394133 94 19 sincere sincere ADJ _003394133 94 20 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 94 21 not not PART _003394133 94 22 artificially artificially ADV _003394133 94 23 sought seek VERB _003394133 94 24 , , PUNCT _003394133 94 25 but but CCONJ _003394133 94 26 naturally naturally ADV _003394133 94 27 responsive responsive ADJ _003394133 94 28 . . PUNCT _003394133 95 1 courtship courtship NOUN _003394133 95 2 without without ADP _003394133 95 3 physical physical ADJ _003394133 95 4 thrill thrill NOUN _003394133 95 5 or or CCONJ _003394133 95 6 emotion emotion NOUN _003394133 95 7 offers offer VERB _003394133 95 8 no no DET _003394133 95 9 promise promise NOUN _003394133 95 10 of of ADP _003394133 95 11 married married ADJ _003394133 95 12 happiness happiness NOUN _003394133 95 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 96 1 it it PRON _003394133 96 2 is be AUX _003394133 96 3 more more ADV _003394133 96 4 decent decent ADJ _003394133 96 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 96 6 certainly certainly ADV _003394133 96 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 96 8 but but CCONJ _003394133 96 9 hardly hardly ADV _003394133 96 10 more more ADV _003394133 96 11 hopeful hopeful ADJ _003394133 96 12 than than ADP _003394133 96 13 the the DET _003394133 96 14 vulgar vulgar ADJ _003394133 96 15 and and CCONJ _003394133 96 16 venereal venereal ADJ _003394133 96 17 wrestling wrestling NOUN _003394133 96 18 of of ADP _003394133 96 19 the the DET _003394133 96 20 wastrel wastrel NOUN _003394133 96 21 wolf wolf PROPN _003394133 96 22 and and CCONJ _003394133 96 23 his his PRON _003394133 96 24 limousine limousine NOUN _003394133 96 25 louse louse NOUN _003394133 96 26 . . PUNCT _003394133 97 1 purity purity NOUN _003394133 97 2 is be AUX _003394133 97 3 an an DET _003394133 97 4 attitude attitude NOUN _003394133 97 5 toward toward ADP _003394133 97 6 sex sex NOUN _003394133 97 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 98 1 it it PRON _003394133 98 2 is be AUX _003394133 98 3 not not PART _003394133 98 4 an an DET _003394133 98 5 insensibility insensibility NOUN _003394133 98 6 . . PUNCT _003394133 99 1 it it PRON _003394133 99 2 avoids avoid VERB _003394133 99 3 selfish selfish ADJ _003394133 99 4 seeking seeking NOUN _003394133 99 5 of of ADP _003394133 99 6 sensation sensation NOUN _003394133 99 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 100 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 100 2 it it PRON _003394133 100 3 is be AUX _003394133 100 4 not not PART _003394133 100 5 fearful fearful ADJ _003394133 100 6 . . PUNCT _003394133 101 1 purity purity NOUN _003394133 101 2 is be AUX _003394133 101 3 perfectly perfectly ADV _003394133 101 4 concordant concordant ADJ _003394133 101 5 with with ADP _003394133 101 6 true true ADJ _003394133 101 7 love love NOUN _003394133 101 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 101 9 as as SCONJ _003394133 101 10 you you PRON _003394133 101 11 have have AUX _003394133 101 12 kept keep VERB _003394133 101 13 it it PRON _003394133 101 14 in in ADP _003394133 101 15 concord concord PROPN _003394133 101 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 102 1 it it PRON _003394133 102 2 recognizes recognize VERB _003394133 102 3 that that SCONJ _003394133 102 4 physical physical ADJ _003394133 102 5 expressions expression NOUN _003394133 102 6 of of ADP _003394133 102 7 love love NOUN _003394133 102 8 have have VERB _003394133 102 9 their their PRON _003394133 102 10 proper proper ADJ _003394133 102 11 place place NOUN _003394133 102 12 and and CCONJ _003394133 102 13 proportion proportion NOUN _003394133 102 14 . . PUNCT _003394133 103 1 they they PRON _003394133 103 2 sometimes sometimes ADV _003394133 103 3 present present VERB _003394133 103 4 danger danger NOUN _003394133 103 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 103 6 but but CCONJ _003394133 103 7 danger danger NOUN _003394133 103 8 is be AUX _003394133 103 9 not not PART _003394133 103 10 sin sin NOUN _003394133 103 11 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 103 12 and and CCONJ _003394133 103 13 in in ADP _003394133 103 14 your your PRON _003394133 103 15 love love NOUN _003394133 103 16 and and CCONJ _003394133 103 17 plans plan NOUN _003394133 103 18 for for ADP _003394133 103 19 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 103 20 , , PUNCT _003394133 103 21 you you PRON _003394133 103 22 have have VERB _003394133 103 23 ample ample ADJ _003394133 103 24 reason reason NOUN _003394133 103 25 to to PART _003394133 103 26 face face VERB _003394133 103 27 the the DET _003394133 103 28 danger danger NOUN _003394133 103 29 . . PUNCT _003394133 104 1 nothing nothing PRON _003394133 104 2 i i PRON _003394133 104 3 have have AUX _003394133 104 4 here here ADV _003394133 104 5 written write VERB _003394133 104 6 applies apply VERB _003394133 104 7 to to ADP _003394133 104 8 juvenile juvenile ADJ _003394133 104 9 dates date NOUN _003394133 104 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 104 11 or or CCONJ _003394133 104 12 offers offer VERB _003394133 104 13 excuse excuse NOUN _003394133 104 14 for for ADP _003394133 104 15 libidinous libidinous ADJ _003394133 104 16 liberties liberty NOUN _003394133 104 17 . . PUNCT _003394133 105 1 kissing kiss VERB _003394133 105 2 and and CCONJ _003394133 105 3 caressing caressing NOUN _003394133 105 4 on on ADP _003394133 105 5 the the DET _003394133 105 6 first first ADJ _003394133 105 7 date date NOUN _003394133 105 8 are be AUX _003394133 105 9 not not PART _003394133 105 10 matter matter NOUN _003394133 105 11 of of ADP _003394133 105 12 courtship courtship NOUN _003394133 105 13 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 105 14 they they PRON _003394133 105 15 pertain pertain VERB _003394133 105 16 to to ADP _003394133 105 17 the the DET _003394133 105 18 art art NOUN _003394133 105 19 of of ADP _003394133 105 20 seduction seduction NOUN _003394133 105 21 . . PUNCT _003394133 106 1 seeking seek VERB _003394133 106 2 a a DET _003394133 106 3 sexual sexual ADJ _003394133 106 4 sensation sensation NOUN _003394133 106 5 is be AUX _003394133 106 6 seriously seriously ADV _003394133 106 7 sinful sinful ADJ _003394133 106 8 . . PUNCT _003394133 107 1 petting petting NOUN _003394133 107 2 , , PUNCT _003394133 107 3 defined define VERB _003394133 107 4 as as ADP _003394133 107 5 physical physical ADJ _003394133 107 6 contact contact NOUN _003394133 107 7 for for ADP _003394133 107 8 pleasure pleasure NOUN _003394133 107 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 107 10 is be AUX _003394133 107 11 simply simply ADV _003394133 107 12 fooling fool VERB _003394133 107 13 with with ADP _003394133 107 14 frustrated frustrated ADJ _003394133 107 15 fornication fornication NOUN _003394133 107 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 108 1 its its PRON _003394133 108 2 aim aim NOUN _003394133 108 3 is be AUX _003394133 108 4 sensation sensation NOUN _003394133 108 5 and and CCONJ _003394133 108 6 stimulation stimulation NOUN _003394133 108 7 of of ADP _003394133 108 8 desire desire NOUN _003394133 108 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 109 1 it it PRON _003394133 109 2 is be AUX _003394133 109 3 seldom seldom ADV _003394133 109 4 honest honest ADJ _003394133 109 5 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 109 6 usually usually ADV _003394133 109 7 selfish selfish ADJ _003394133 109 8 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 109 9 generally generally ADV _003394133 109 10 artificial artificial ADJ _003394133 109 11 . . PUNCT _003394133 110 1 it it PRON _003394133 110 2 may may AUX _003394133 110 3 be be AUX _003394133 110 4 serious serious ADJ _003394133 110 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 110 6 absorbing absorbing ADJ _003394133 110 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 110 8 fascinating fascinating ADJ _003394133 110 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 110 10 compelling compelling ADJ _003394133 110 11 . . PUNCT _003394133 111 1 it it PRON _003394133 111 2 may may AUX _003394133 111 3 breed breed VERB _003394133 111 4 infatuation infatuation NOUN _003394133 111 5 and and CCONJ _003394133 111 6 beget beget VERB _003394133 111 7 a a DET _003394133 111 8 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 111 9 ceremony ceremony NOUN _003394133 111 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 112 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 112 2 it it PRON _003394133 112 3 seldom seldom ADV _003394133 112 4 fosters foster VERB _003394133 112 5 true true ADJ _003394133 112 6 love love NOUN _003394133 112 7 or or CCONJ _003394133 112 8 sane sane NOUN _003394133 112 9 mating mating NOUN _003394133 112 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 112 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 112 12 never never ADV _003394133 112 13 develops develop VERB _003394133 112 14 virtue virtue NOUN _003394133 112 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 113 1 q. q. PROPN _003394133 113 2 i i PRON _003394133 113 3 have have AUX _003394133 113 4 been be AUX _003394133 113 5 hearing hear VERB _003394133 113 6 frequently frequently ADV _003394133 113 7 about about ADP _003394133 113 8 solemn solemn ADJ _003394133 113 9 engagements engagement NOUN _003394133 113 10 and and CCONJ _003394133 113 11 formal formal ADJ _003394133 113 12 betrothals betrothal NOUN _003394133 113 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 114 1 are be AUX _003394133 114 2 these these PRON _003394133 114 3 something something PRON _003394133 114 4 new new ADJ _003394133 114 5 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 115 1 i i PRON _003394133 115 2 never never ADV _003394133 115 3 saw see VERB _003394133 115 4 either either PRON _003394133 115 5 of of ADP _003394133 115 6 them they PRON _003394133 115 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 115 8 and and CCONJ _003394133 115 9 did do AUX _003394133 115 10 not not PART _003394133 115 11 hear hear VERB _003394133 115 12 about about ADP _003394133 115 13 them they PRON _003394133 115 14 until until ADP _003394133 115 15 recently recently ADV _003394133 115 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 116 1 a. a. NOUN _003394133 116 2 a a DET _003394133 116 3 solemn solemn ADJ _003394133 116 4 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 116 5 is be AUX _003394133 116 6 a a DET _003394133 116 7 sincere sincere ADJ _003394133 116 8 and and CCONJ _003394133 116 9 formal formal ADJ _003394133 116 10 promise promise NOUN _003394133 116 11 of of ADP _003394133 116 12 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 116 13 mutually mutually ADV _003394133 116 14 exchanged exchange VERB _003394133 116 15 between between ADP _003394133 116 16 a a DET _003394133 116 17 man man NOUN _003394133 116 18 and and CCONJ _003394133 116 19 woman woman NOUN _003394133 116 20 — — PUNCT _003394133 116 21 or or CCONJ _003394133 116 22 a a DET _003394133 116 23 boy boy NOUN _003394133 116 24 and and CCONJ _003394133 116 25 girl girl NOUN _003394133 116 26 . . PUNCT _003394133 117 1 in in ADP _003394133 117 2 order order NOUN _003394133 117 3 to to PART _003394133 117 4 be be AUX _003394133 117 5 valid valid ADJ _003394133 117 6 in in ADP _003394133 117 7 church church NOUN _003394133 117 8 law law NOUN _003394133 118 1 it it PRON _003394133 118 2 must must AUX _003394133 118 3 7 7 NUM _003394133 118 4 be be AUX _003394133 118 5 made make VERB _003394133 118 6 in in ADP _003394133 118 7 writing writing NOUN _003394133 118 8 and and CCONJ _003394133 118 9 signed sign VERB _003394133 118 10 by by ADP _003394133 118 11 both both DET _003394133 118 12 parties party NOUN _003394133 118 13 and and CCONJ _003394133 118 14 by by ADP _003394133 118 15 the the DET _003394133 118 16 pas pas PROPN _003394133 118 17 - - PUNCT _003394133 118 18 tor tor NOUN _003394133 118 19 , , PUNCT _003394133 118 20 or or CCONJ _003394133 118 21 bishop bishop NOUN _003394133 118 22 — — PUNCT _003394133 118 23 or or CCONJ _003394133 118 24 by by ADP _003394133 118 25 two two NUM _003394133 118 26 witnesses witness NOUN _003394133 118 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 119 1 these these DET _003394133 119 2 requirements requirement NOUN _003394133 119 3 for for ADP _003394133 119 4 a a DET _003394133 119 5 valid valid ADJ _003394133 119 6 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 119 7 are be AUX _003394133 119 8 set set VERB _003394133 119 9 forth forth ADV _003394133 119 10 m m PROPN _003394133 119 11 canon canon NOUN _003394133 119 12 1017 1017 NUM _003394133 119 13 of of ADP _003394133 119 14 the the DET _003394133 119 15 code code NOUN _003394133 119 16 of of ADP _003394133 119 17 canon canon NOUN _003394133 119 18 law law NOUN _003394133 119 19 , , PUNCT _003394133 119 20 and and CCONJ _003394133 119 21 there there PRON _003394133 119 22 are be VERB _003394133 119 23 special special ADJ _003394133 119 24 provisions provision NOUN _003394133 119 25 for for ADP _003394133 119 26 the the DET _003394133 119 27 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 119 28 of of ADP _003394133 119 29 those those DET _003394133 119 30 parties party NOUN _003394133 119 31 who who PRON _003394133 119 32 can can AUX _003394133 119 33 not not PART _003394133 119 34 write write VERB _003394133 119 35 . . PUNCT _003394133 120 1 a a DET _003394133 120 2 valid valid ADJ _003394133 120 3 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 120 4 creates create VERB _003394133 120 5 a a DET _003394133 120 6 certain certain ADJ _003394133 120 7 obligation obligation NOUN _003394133 120 8 in in ADP _003394133 120 9 the the DET _003394133 120 10 conscience conscience NOUN _003394133 120 11 of of ADP _003394133 120 12 the the DET _003394133 120 13 parties party NOUN _003394133 120 14 to to PART _003394133 120 15 fulfill fulfill VERB _003394133 120 16 the the DET _003394133 120 17 promises promise NOUN _003394133 120 18 they they PRON _003394133 120 19 have have AUX _003394133 120 20 made make VERB _003394133 120 21 m m PROPN _003394133 120 22 honesty honesty NOUN _003394133 120 23 and and CCONJ _003394133 120 24 good good ADJ _003394133 120 25 faith faith NOUN _003394133 120 26 . . PUNCT _003394133 121 1 however however ADV _003394133 121 2 the the DET _003394133 121 3 church church NOUN _003394133 121 4 law law NOUN _003394133 121 5 does do AUX _003394133 121 6 not not PART _003394133 121 7 permit permit VERB _003394133 121 8 any any DET _003394133 121 9 legal legal ADJ _003394133 121 10 action action NOUN _003394133 121 11 for for ADP _003394133 121 12 the the DET _003394133 121 13 enforcement enforcement NOUN _003394133 121 14 of of ADP _003394133 121 15 this this DET _003394133 121 16 obligation obligation NOUN _003394133 121 17 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 121 18 it it PRON _003394133 121 19 does do AUX _003394133 121 20 permit permit VERB _003394133 121 21 a a DET _003394133 121 22 " " PUNCT _003394133 121 23 breach breach NOUN _003394133 121 24 of of ADP _003394133 121 25 promise promise NOUN _003394133 121 26 " " PUNCT _003394133 121 27 suit suit NOUN _003394133 121 28 however however ADV _003394133 121 29 for for ADP _003394133 121 30 the the DET _003394133 121 31 collection collection NOUN _003394133 121 32 of of ADP _003394133 121 33 damages damage NOUN _003394133 121 34 — — PUNCT _003394133 121 35 in in ADP _003394133 121 36 cases case NOUN _003394133 121 37 where where SCONJ _003394133 121 38 real real ADJ _003394133 121 39 damages damage NOUN _003394133 121 40 result result VERB _003394133 121 41 from from ADP _003394133 121 42 one one NUM _003394133 121 43 party party NOUN _003394133 121 44 's 's PART _003394133 121 45 failure failure NOUN _003394133 121 46 to to PART _003394133 121 47 keep keep VERB _003394133 121 48 the the DET _003394133 121 49 promises promise NOUN _003394133 121 50 made make VERB _003394133 121 51 in in ADP _003394133 121 52 solemn solemn ADJ _003394133 121 53 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 121 54 . . PUNCT _003394133 122 1 at at ADP _003394133 122 2 first first ADJ _003394133 122 3 glance glance NOUN _003394133 122 4 it it PRON _003394133 122 5 may may AUX _003394133 122 6 seem seem VERB _003394133 122 7 strange strange ADJ _003394133 122 8 that that SCONJ _003394133 122 9 church church NOUN _003394133 122 10 law law NOUN _003394133 122 11 does do AUX _003394133 122 12 not not PART _003394133 122 13 permit permit VERB _003394133 122 14 a a DET _003394133 122 15 person person NOUN _003394133 122 16 to to PART _003394133 122 17 be be AUX _003394133 122 18 forced force VERB _003394133 122 19 into into ADP _003394133 122 20 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 122 21 even even ADV _003394133 122 22 though though SCONJ _003394133 122 23 he he PRON _003394133 122 24 has have AUX _003394133 122 25 solemnly solemnly ADV _003394133 122 26 obligated obligate VERB _003394133 122 27 himself himself PRON _003394133 122 28 by by ADP _003394133 122 29 formal formal ADJ _003394133 122 30 contract contract NOUN _003394133 122 31 to to PART _003394133 122 32 enter enter VERB _003394133 122 33 that that DET _003394133 122 34 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 122 35 . . PUNCT _003394133 123 1 however however ADV _003394133 123 2 , , PUNCT _003394133 123 3 when when SCONJ _003394133 123 4 we we PRON _003394133 123 5 stop stop VERB _003394133 123 6 and and CCONJ _003394133 123 7 think think VERB _003394133 123 8 we we PRON _003394133 123 9 realize realize VERB _003394133 123 10 that that SCONJ _003394133 123 11 such such ADJ _003394133 123 12 force force NOUN _003394133 123 13 might might AUX _003394133 123 14 make make VERB _003394133 123 15 the the DET _003394133 123 16 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 123 17 contract contract NOUN _003394133 123 18 invalid invalid ADJ _003394133 123 19 , , PUNCT _003394133 123 20 because because SCONJ _003394133 123 21 free free ADJ _003394133 123 22 consent consent NOUN _003394133 123 23 is be AUX _003394133 123 24 required require VERB _003394133 123 25 to to PART _003394133 123 26 make make VERB _003394133 123 27 a a DET _003394133 123 28 real real ADJ _003394133 123 29 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 123 30 . . PUNCT _003394133 124 1 and and CCONJ _003394133 124 2 even even ADV _003394133 124 3 if if SCONJ _003394133 124 4 the the DET _003394133 124 5 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 124 6 were be AUX _003394133 124 7 valid valid ADJ _003394133 124 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 124 9 it it PRON _003394133 124 10 might might AUX _003394133 124 11 turn turn VERB _003394133 124 12 out out ADP _003394133 124 13 to to PART _003394133 124 14 be be AUX _003394133 124 15 very very ADV _003394133 124 16 unfortunate unfortunate ADJ _003394133 124 17 , , PUNCT _003394133 124 18 because because SCONJ _003394133 124 19 coercion coercion NOUN _003394133 124 20 would would AUX _003394133 124 21 surely surely ADV _003394133 124 22 create create VERB _003394133 124 23 resentment resentment NOUN _003394133 124 24 , , PUNCT _003394133 124 25 which which PRON _003394133 124 26 might might AUX _003394133 124 27 degenerate degenerate VERB _003394133 124 28 into into ADP _003394133 124 29 hatred hatred NOUN _003394133 124 30 . . PUNCT _003394133 125 1 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 125 2 is be AUX _003394133 125 3 such such DET _003394133 125 4 a a DET _003394133 125 5 sacred sacred ADJ _003394133 125 6 and and CCONJ _003394133 125 7 important important ADJ _003394133 125 8 thing thing NOUN _003394133 125 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 125 10 involving involve VERB _003394133 125 11 such such ADJ _003394133 125 12 tremendous tremendous ADJ _003394133 125 13 obligations obligation NOUN _003394133 125 14 , , PUNCT _003394133 125 15 and and CCONJ _003394133 125 16 decisions decision NOUN _003394133 125 17 so so ADV _003394133 125 18 critical critical ADJ _003394133 125 19 for for ADP _003394133 125 20 the the DET _003394133 125 21 happiness happiness NOUN _003394133 125 22 of of ADP _003394133 125 23 this this DET _003394133 125 24 life life NOUN _003394133 125 25 and and CCONJ _003394133 125 26 eternity eternity NOUN _003394133 125 27 that that SCONJ _003394133 125 28 it it PRON _003394133 125 29 is be AUX _003394133 125 30 highly highly ADV _003394133 125 31 desirable desirable ADJ _003394133 125 32 for for SCONJ _003394133 125 33 the the DET _003394133 125 34 contracting contracting NOUN _003394133 125 35 parties party NOUN _003394133 125 36 to to PART _003394133 125 37 have have VERB _003394133 125 38 all all DET _003394133 125 39 the the DET _003394133 125 40 freedom freedom NOUN _003394133 125 41 possible possible ADJ _003394133 125 42 . . PUNCT _003394133 126 1 so so ADV _003394133 126 2 the the DET _003394133 126 3 church church NOUN _003394133 126 4 recognizes recognize VERB _003394133 126 5 that that SCONJ _003394133 126 6 an an DET _003394133 126 7 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 126 8 — — PUNCT _003394133 126 9 no no ADV _003394133 126 10 matter matter ADV _003394133 126 11 how how SCONJ _003394133 126 12 solemn solemn ADJ _003394133 126 13 and and CCONJ _003394133 126 14 sincere sincere ADJ _003394133 126 15 — — PUNCT _003394133 126 16 can can AUX _003394133 126 17 be be AUX _003394133 126 18 broken break VERB _003394133 126 19 at at ADP _003394133 126 20 any any DET _003394133 126 21 time time NOUN _003394133 126 22 by by ADP _003394133 126 23 mutual mutual ADJ _003394133 126 24 agreement agreement NOUN _003394133 126 25 of of ADP _003394133 126 26 the the DET _003394133 126 27 parties party NOUN _003394133 126 28 , , PUNCT _003394133 126 29 without without ADP _003394133 126 30 any any DET _003394133 126 31 other other ADJ _003394133 126 32 reason reason NOUN _003394133 126 33 than than ADP _003394133 126 34 their their PRON _003394133 126 35 own own ADJ _003394133 126 36 wishes wish NOUN _003394133 126 37 , , PUNCT _003394133 126 38 and and CCONJ _003394133 126 39 that that SCONJ _003394133 126 40 with with ADP _003394133 126 41 sufficient sufficient ADJ _003394133 126 42 justifying justifying NOUN _003394133 126 43 reason reason NOUN _003394133 126 44 it it PRON _003394133 126 45 can can AUX _003394133 126 46 properly properly ADV _003394133 126 47 be be AUX _003394133 126 48 broken break VERB _003394133 126 49 by by ADP _003394133 126 50 one one NUM _003394133 126 51 party party NOUN _003394133 126 52 in in ADP _003394133 126 53 spite spite NOUN _003394133 126 54 of of ADP _003394133 126 55 the the DET _003394133 126 56 unwillingness unwillingness NOUN _003394133 126 57 of of ADP _003394133 126 58 the the DET _003394133 126 59 other other ADJ _003394133 126 60 . . PUNCT _003394133 127 1 neither neither CCONJ _003394133 127 2 the the DET _003394133 127 3 canon canon NOUN _003394133 127 4 law law NOUN _003394133 127 5 nor nor CCONJ _003394133 127 6 the the DET _003394133 127 7 ritual ritual NOUN _003394133 127 8 of of ADP _003394133 127 9 the the DET _003394133 127 10 church church NOUN _003394133 127 11 provides provide VERB _003394133 127 12 for for ADP _003394133 127 13 any any DET _003394133 127 14 religious religious ADJ _003394133 127 15 ceremonies ceremony NOUN _003394133 127 16 to to PART _003394133 127 17 accompany accompany VERB _003394133 127 18 a a DET _003394133 127 19 solemn solemn ADJ _003394133 127 20 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 127 21 . . PUNCT _003394133 128 1 however however ADV _003394133 128 2 it it PRON _003394133 128 3 is be AUX _003394133 128 4 most most ADV _003394133 128 5 fitting fitting ADJ _003394133 128 6 that that SCONJ _003394133 128 7 the the DET _003394133 128 8 promises promise NOUN _003394133 128 9 be be AUX _003394133 128 10 made make VERB _003394133 128 11 more more ADV _003394133 128 12 sacred sacred ADJ _003394133 128 13 by by ADP _003394133 128 14 pronouncing pronounce VERB _003394133 128 15 them they PRON _003394133 128 16 in in ADP _003394133 128 17 church church NOUN _003394133 128 18 , , PUNCT _003394133 128 19 before before ADP _003394133 128 20 the the DET _003394133 128 21 8 8 NUM _003394133 128 22 altar altar NOUN _003394133 128 23 , , PUNCT _003394133 128 24 and and CCONJ _003394133 128 25 that that SCONJ _003394133 128 26 the the DET _003394133 128 27 engaged engage VERB _003394133 128 28 couple couple NOUN _003394133 128 29 receive receive VERB _003394133 128 30 the the DET _003394133 128 31 blessing blessing NOUN _003394133 128 32 of of ADP _003394133 128 33 the the DET _003394133 128 34 priest priest NOUN _003394133 128 35 and and CCONJ _003394133 128 36 join join VERB _003394133 128 37 him he PRON _003394133 128 38 in in ADP _003394133 128 39 fervent fervent ADJ _003394133 128 40 prayer prayer NOUN _003394133 128 41 for for ADP _003394133 128 42 god god PROPN _003394133 128 43 's 's PART _003394133 128 44 grace grace NOUN _003394133 128 45 and and CCONJ _003394133 128 46 assistance assistance NOUN _003394133 128 47 that that SCONJ _003394133 128 48 their their PRON _003394133 128 49 period period NOUN _003394133 128 50 of of ADP _003394133 128 51 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 128 52 may may AUX _003394133 128 53 be be AUX _003394133 128 54 a a DET _003394133 128 55 sound sound ADJ _003394133 128 56 and and CCONJ _003394133 128 57 holy holy ADJ _003394133 128 58 preparation preparation NOUN _003394133 128 59 for for ADP _003394133 128 60 happy happy ADJ _003394133 128 61 married married ADJ _003394133 128 62 life life NOUN _003394133 128 63 . . PUNCT _003394133 129 1 the the DET _003394133 129 2 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 129 3 ring ring NOUN _003394133 129 4 would would AUX _003394133 129 5 usually usually ADV _003394133 129 6 be be AUX _003394133 129 7 blessed bless VERB _003394133 129 8 as as ADP _003394133 129 9 part part NOUN _003394133 129 10 of of ADP _003394133 129 11 such such DET _003394133 129 12 a a DET _003394133 129 13 ceremony ceremony NOUN _003394133 129 14 , , PUNCT _003394133 129 15 and and CCONJ _003394133 129 16 the the DET _003394133 129 17 parties party NOUN _003394133 129 18 might might AUX _003394133 129 19 then then ADV _003394133 129 20 assist assist VERB _003394133 129 21 at at ADP _003394133 129 22 mass mass NOUN _003394133 129 23 and and CCONJ _003394133 129 24 receive receive VERB _003394133 129 25 holy holy ADJ _003394133 129 26 communion communion NOUN _003394133 129 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 130 1 the the DET _003394133 130 2 custom custom NOUN _003394133 130 3 of of ADP _003394133 130 4 entering enter VERB _003394133 130 5 solemn solemn ADJ _003394133 130 6 legal legal ADJ _003394133 130 7 engagements engagement NOUN _003394133 130 8 has have AUX _003394133 130 9 never never ADV _003394133 130 10 been be AUX _003394133 130 11 common common ADJ _003394133 130 12 in in ADP _003394133 130 13 our our PRON _003394133 130 14 country country NOUN _003394133 130 15 — — PUNCT _003394133 130 16 as as SCONJ _003394133 130 17 it it PRON _003394133 130 18 has have AUX _003394133 130 19 in in ADP _003394133 130 20 others other NOUN _003394133 130 21 — — PUNCT _003394133 130 22 but but CCONJ _003394133 130 23 in in ADP _003394133 130 24 recent recent ADJ _003394133 130 25 years year NOUN _003394133 130 26 a a DET _003394133 130 27 formal formal ADJ _003394133 130 28 betrothal betrothal NOUN _003394133 130 29 , , PUNCT _003394133 130 30 with with ADP _003394133 130 31 religious religious ADJ _003394133 130 32 ceremonies ceremony NOUN _003394133 130 33 or or CCONJ _003394133 130 34 blessings blessing NOUN _003394133 130 35 , , PUNCT _003394133 130 36 has have AUX _003394133 130 37 become become VERB _003394133 130 38 more more ADV _003394133 130 39 frequent frequent ADJ _003394133 130 40 . . PUNCT _003394133 131 1 grailville grailville PROPN _003394133 131 2 publications publication NOUN _003394133 131 3 of of ADP _003394133 131 4 loveland loveland PROPN _003394133 131 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 131 6 ohio ohio PROPN _003394133 131 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 131 8 has have VERB _003394133 131 9 a a DET _003394133 131 10 pamphlet pamphlet NOUN _003394133 131 11 of of ADP _003394133 131 12 such such ADJ _003394133 131 13 ceremonies ceremony NOUN _003394133 131 14 , , PUNCT _003394133 131 15 promised promise VERB _003394133 131 16 in in ADP _003394133 131 17 christ christ PROPN _003394133 131 18 . . PUNCT _003394133 132 1 it it PRON _003394133 132 2 is be AUX _003394133 132 3 taken take VERB _003394133 132 4 from from ADP _003394133 132 5 the the DET _003394133 132 6 translation translation NOUN _003394133 132 7 of of ADP _003394133 132 8 " " PUNCT _003394133 132 9 the the DET _003394133 132 10 roman roman ADJ _003394133 132 11 ritual ritual ADJ _003394133 132 12 , , PUNCT _003394133 132 13 " " PUNCT _003394133 132 14 volume volume NOUN _003394133 132 15 1 1 NUM _003394133 132 16 , , PUNCT _003394133 132 17 by by ADP _003394133 132 18 father father PROPN _003394133 132 19 philip philip PROPN _003394133 132 20 j. j. PROPN _003394133 132 21 weller weller PROPN _003394133 132 22 ( ( PUNCT _003394133 132 23 bruce bruce PROPN _003394133 132 24 , , PUNCT _003394133 132 25 milwaukee milwaukee PROPN _003394133 132 26 ) ) PUNCT _003394133 132 27 . . 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PUNCT _003394133 135 1 difference difference NOUN _003394133 135 2 in in ADP _003394133 135 3 a a DET _003394133 135 4 g g NOUN _003394133 135 5 e e NOUN _003394133 135 6 — — PUNCT _003394133 135 7 proper proper ADJ _003394133 135 8 a a DET _003394133 135 9 g g NOUN _003394133 135 10 e e NOUN _003394133 135 11 — — PUNCT _003394133 135 12 for for ADP _003394133 135 13 a a DET _003394133 135 14 y y PROPN _003394133 135 15 o o PROPN _003394133 135 16 u u PROPN _003394133 135 17 n n ADP _003394133 135 18 g g X _003394133 135 19 l l X _003394133 135 20 a a X _003394133 135 21 d d PROPN _003394133 135 22 y y PROPN _003394133 135 23 — — PUNCT _003394133 135 24 putting put VERB _003394133 135 25 off off ADP _003394133 135 26 m m PROPN _003394133 135 27 a a DET _003394133 135 28 r r NOUN _003394133 135 29 r r NOUN _003394133 135 30 i i NOUN _003394133 135 31 a a DET _003394133 135 32 g g NOUN _003394133 135 33 e e NOUN _003394133 135 34 — — PUNCT _003394133 135 35 no no DET _003394133 135 36 children child NOUN _003394133 135 37 . . PUNCT _003394133 136 1 q. q. PROPN _003394133 136 2 i i PRON _003394133 136 3 am be AUX _003394133 136 4 in in ADP _003394133 136 5 love love NOUN _003394133 136 6 with with ADP _003394133 136 7 a a DET _003394133 136 8 man man NOUN _003394133 136 9 25 25 NUM _003394133 136 10 years year NOUN _003394133 136 11 my my PRON _003394133 136 12 senior senior ADJ _003394133 136 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 137 1 i i PRON _003394133 137 2 am be AUX _003394133 137 3 assured assure VERB _003394133 137 4 that that SCONJ _003394133 137 5 he he PRON _003394133 137 6 loves love VERB _003394133 137 7 me i PRON _003394133 137 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 137 9 too too ADV _003394133 137 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 137 11 but but CCONJ _003394133 137 12 my my PRON _003394133 137 13 parents parent NOUN _003394133 137 14 object object VERB _003394133 137 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 138 1 i i PRON _003394133 138 2 am be AUX _003394133 138 3 in in ADP _003394133 138 4 my my PRON _003394133 138 5 early early ADJ _003394133 138 6 twenties twenty NOUN _003394133 138 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 139 1 do do AUX _003394133 139 2 n't not PART _003394133 139 3 tell tell VERB _003394133 139 4 me i PRON _003394133 139 5 to to PART _003394133 139 6 forget forget VERB _003394133 139 7 him he PRON _003394133 139 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 139 9 as as SCONJ _003394133 139 10 this this PRON _003394133 139 11 is be AUX _003394133 139 12 not not PART _003394133 139 13 an an DET _003394133 139 14 infatuation infatuation NOUN _003394133 139 15 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 139 16 it it PRON _003394133 139 17 has have AUX _003394133 139 18 endured endure VERB _003394133 139 19 several several ADJ _003394133 139 20 years year NOUN _003394133 139 21 . . PUNCT _003394133 140 1 it it PRON _003394133 140 2 is be AUX _003394133 140 3 love love NOUN _003394133 140 4 beyond beyond ADP _003394133 140 5 the the DET _003394133 140 6 ordinary ordinary ADJ _003394133 140 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 140 8 and and CCONJ _003394133 140 9 i i PRON _003394133 140 10 doubt doubt VERB _003394133 140 11 that that SCONJ _003394133 140 12 i i PRON _003394133 140 13 could could AUX _003394133 140 14 be be AUX _003394133 140 15 happy happy ADJ _003394133 140 16 with with ADP _003394133 140 17 anyone anyone PRON _003394133 140 18 my my PRON _003394133 140 19 own own ADJ _003394133 140 20 age age NOUN _003394133 140 21 after after ADP _003394133 140 22 being be AUX _003394133 140 23 with with ADP _003394133 140 24 him he PRON _003394133 140 25 . . PUNCT _003394133 141 1 a. a. NOUN _003394133 141 2 being be AUX _003394133 141 3 a a DET _003394133 141 4 question question NOUN _003394133 141 5 box box NOUN _003394133 141 6 editor editor NOUN _003394133 141 7 has have VERB _003394133 141 8 its its PRON _003394133 141 9 thrills thrill NOUN _003394133 141 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 142 1 opening open VERB _003394133 142 2 the the DET _003394133 142 3 morning morning NOUN _003394133 142 4 mail mail NOUN _003394133 142 5 becomes become VERB _003394133 142 6 exciting exciting ADJ _003394133 142 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 143 1 you you PRON _003394133 143 2 can can AUX _003394133 143 3 never never ADV _003394133 143 4 tell tell VERB _003394133 143 5 what what PRON _003394133 143 6 people people NOUN _003394133 143 7 will will AUX _003394133 143 8 ask ask VERB _003394133 143 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 144 1 in in ADP _003394133 144 2 answering answer VERB _003394133 144 3 your your PRON _003394133 144 4 question question NOUN _003394133 144 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 144 6 i i PRON _003394133 144 7 am be AUX _003394133 144 8 inclined inclined ADJ _003394133 144 9 to to PART _003394133 144 10 address address VERB _003394133 144 11 you you PRON _003394133 144 12 as as ADP _003394133 144 13 " " PUNCT _003394133 144 14 my my PRON _003394133 144 15 dear dear ADJ _003394133 144 16 little little ADJ _003394133 144 17 girl girl NOUN _003394133 144 18 , , PUNCT _003394133 144 19 " " PUNCT _003394133 144 20 but but CCONJ _003394133 144 21 then then ADV _003394133 144 22 i i PRON _003394133 144 23 wonder wonder VERB _003394133 144 24 if if SCONJ _003394133 144 25 it it PRON _003394133 144 26 might might AUX _003394133 144 27 not not PART _003394133 144 28 be be AUX _003394133 144 29 more more ADV _003394133 144 30 appropriate appropriate ADJ _003394133 144 31 to to PART _003394133 144 32 call call VERB _003394133 144 33 you you PRON _003394133 144 34 " " PUNCT _003394133 144 35 my my PRON _003394133 144 36 crazy crazy ADJ _003394133 144 37 mixed mix VERB _003394133 144 38 - - PUNCT _003394133 144 39 up up ADP _003394133 144 40 kid kid NOUN _003394133 144 41 . . PUNCT _003394133 144 42 " " PUNCT _003394133 145 1 when when SCONJ _003394133 145 2 we we PRON _003394133 145 3 catholics catholic VERB _003394133 145 4 speak speak VERB _003394133 145 5 of of ADP _003394133 145 6 mixed mixed ADJ _003394133 145 7 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 145 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 145 9 we we PRON _003394133 145 10 usually usually ADV _003394133 145 11 refer refer VERB _003394133 145 12 to to ADP _003394133 145 13 difference difference NOUN _003394133 145 14 of of ADP _003394133 145 15 religion religion NOUN _003394133 145 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 146 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 146 2 great great ADJ _003394133 146 3 difference difference NOUN _003394133 146 4 of of ADP _003394133 146 5 age age NOUN _003394133 146 6 makes make VERB _003394133 146 7 a a DET _003394133 146 8 mixed mixed ADJ _003394133 146 9 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 146 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 146 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 146 12 you you PRON _003394133 146 13 have have VERB _003394133 146 14 to to PART _003394133 146 15 be be AUX _003394133 146 16 a a DET _003394133 146 17 bit bit NOUN _003394133 146 18 mixed mixed ADJ _003394133 146 19 up up ADP _003394133 146 20 already already ADV _003394133 146 21 to to PART _003394133 146 22 want want VERB _003394133 146 23 to to PART _003394133 146 24 get get VERB _003394133 146 25 mixed mix VERB _003394133 146 26 up up ADP _003394133 146 27 in in ADP _003394133 146 28 one one NUM _003394133 146 29 . . PUNCT _003394133 147 1 11 11 NUM _003394133 147 2 great great ADJ _003394133 147 3 differences difference NOUN _003394133 147 4 of of ADP _003394133 147 5 religion religion NOUN _003394133 147 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 147 7 age age NOUN _003394133 147 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 147 9 size size NOUN _003394133 147 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 147 11 nationality nationality NOUN _003394133 147 12 , , PUNCT _003394133 147 13 wealth wealth NOUN _003394133 147 14 , , PUNCT _003394133 147 15 interests interest NOUN _003394133 147 16 , , PUNCT _003394133 147 17 education education NOUN _003394133 147 18 , , PUNCT _003394133 147 19 or or CCONJ _003394133 147 20 social social ADJ _003394133 147 21 position position NOUN _003394133 147 22 present present ADJ _003394133 147 23 special special ADJ _003394133 147 24 problems problem NOUN _003394133 147 25 in in ADP _003394133 147 26 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 147 27 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 147 28 and and CCONJ _003394133 147 29 just just ADV _003394133 147 30 ordinary ordinary ADJ _003394133 147 31 normal normal ADJ _003394133 147 32 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 147 33 usually usually ADV _003394133 147 34 has have VERB _003394133 147 35 enough enough ADJ _003394133 147 36 problems problem NOUN _003394133 147 37 of of ADP _003394133 147 38 its its PRON _003394133 147 39 own own ADJ _003394133 147 40 . . PUNCT _003394133 148 1 minor minor ADJ _003394133 148 2 age age NOUN _003394133 148 3 differences difference NOUN _003394133 148 4 are be AUX _003394133 148 5 negligible negligible ADJ _003394133 148 6 . . PUNCT _003394133 149 1 it it PRON _003394133 149 2 is be AUX _003394133 149 3 quite quite DET _003394133 149 4 the the DET _003394133 149 5 usual usual ADJ _003394133 149 6 thing thing NOUN _003394133 149 7 for for SCONJ _003394133 149 8 the the DET _003394133 149 9 husband husband NOUN _003394133 149 10 to to PART _003394133 149 11 be be AUX _003394133 149 12 three three NUM _003394133 149 13 or or CCONJ _003394133 149 14 four four NUM _003394133 149 15 years year NOUN _003394133 149 16 older old ADJ _003394133 149 17 than than ADP _003394133 149 18 the the DET _003394133 149 19 wife wife NOUN _003394133 149 20 , , PUNCT _003394133 149 21 and and CCONJ _003394133 149 22 differences difference NOUN _003394133 149 23 up up ADP _003394133 149 24 to to PART _003394133 149 25 ten ten NUM _003394133 149 26 years year NOUN _003394133 149 27 or or CCONJ _003394133 149 28 so so ADV _003394133 149 29 might might AUX _003394133 149 30 be be AUX _003394133 149 31 encountered encounter VERB _003394133 149 32 without without ADP _003394133 149 33 much much ADJ _003394133 149 34 fear fear NOUN _003394133 149 35 . . PUNCT _003394133 150 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 150 2 25 25 NUM _003394133 150 3 years year NOUN _003394133 150 4 is be AUX _003394133 150 5 a a DET _003394133 150 6 quarter quarter NOUN _003394133 150 7 of of ADP _003394133 150 8 a a DET _003394133 150 9 century century NOUN _003394133 150 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 151 1 where where SCONJ _003394133 151 2 were be AUX _003394133 151 3 you you PRON _003394133 151 4 while while SCONJ _003394133 151 5 he he PRON _003394133 151 6 was be AUX _003394133 151 7 flirting flirt VERB _003394133 151 8 with with ADP _003394133 151 9 the the DET _003394133 151 10 flappers flapper NOUN _003394133 151 11 of of ADP _003394133 151 12 the the DET _003394133 151 13 29 29 NUM _003394133 151 14 's 's PART _003394133 151 15 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 152 1 why why SCONJ _003394133 152 2 did do AUX _003394133 152 3 n't not PART _003394133 152 4 one one NUM _003394133 152 5 of of ADP _003394133 152 6 them they PRON _003394133 152 7 nab nab VERB _003394133 152 8 him he PRON _003394133 152 9 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 153 1 how how SCONJ _003394133 153 2 old old ADJ _003394133 153 3 will will AUX _003394133 153 4 you you PRON _003394133 153 5 be be AUX _003394133 153 6 when when SCONJ _003394133 153 7 he he PRON _003394133 153 8 becomes become VERB _003394133 153 9 a a DET _003394133 153 10 senile senile ADJ _003394133 153 11 old old ADJ _003394133 153 12 codger codger NOUN _003394133 153 13 in in ADP _003394133 153 14 his his PRON _003394133 153 15 70 70 NUM _003394133 153 16 's 's PART _003394133 153 17 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 153 18 who who PRON _003394133 153 19 will will AUX _003394133 153 20 do do VERB _003394133 153 21 the the DET _003394133 153 22 bunny bunny NOUN _003394133 153 23 - - PUNCT _003394133 153 24 hop hop NOUN _003394133 153 25 with with ADP _003394133 153 26 you you PRON _003394133 153 27 then then ADV _003394133 153 28 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 154 1 i i PRON _003394133 154 2 think think VERB _003394133 154 3 you you PRON _003394133 154 4 need need VERB _003394133 154 5 to to PART _003394133 154 6 psychoanalyze psychoanalyze VERB _003394133 154 7 yourself yourself PRON _003394133 154 8 a a DET _003394133 154 9 bit bit NOUN _003394133 154 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 155 1 ask ask VERB _003394133 155 2 yourself yourself PRON _003394133 155 3 some some DET _003394133 155 4 blunt blunt ADJ _003394133 155 5 questions question NOUN _003394133 155 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 155 7 and and CCONJ _003394133 155 8 give give VERB _003394133 155 9 yourself yourself PRON _003394133 155 10 plain plain ADJ _003394133 155 11 , , PUNCT _003394133 155 12 honest honest ADJ _003394133 155 13 answers answer NOUN _003394133 155 14 . . PUNCT _003394133 156 1 just just ADV _003394133 156 2 why why SCONJ _003394133 156 3 do do AUX _003394133 156 4 you you PRON _003394133 156 5 want want VERB _003394133 156 6 to to PART _003394133 156 7 marry marry VERB _003394133 156 8 this this DET _003394133 156 9 old old ADJ _003394133 156 10 gentleman gentleman NOUN _003394133 156 11 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 157 1 are be AUX _003394133 157 2 your your PRON _003394133 157 3 reasons reason NOUN _003394133 157 4 emotional emotional ADJ _003394133 157 5 or or CCONJ _003394133 157 6 economic economic ADJ _003394133 157 7 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 158 1 or or CCONJ _003394133 158 2 both both PRON _003394133 158 3 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 159 1 are be AUX _003394133 159 2 you you PRON _003394133 159 3 looking look VERB _003394133 159 4 for for ADP _003394133 159 5 social social ADJ _003394133 159 6 position position NOUN _003394133 159 7 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 160 1 are be AUX _003394133 160 2 you you PRON _003394133 160 3 , , PUNCT _003394133 160 4 maybe maybe ADV _003394133 160 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 160 6 infatuated infatuate VERB _003394133 160 7 with with ADP _003394133 160 8 the the DET _003394133 160 9 thrill thrill NOUN _003394133 160 10 of of ADP _003394133 160 11 conquest conquest NOUN _003394133 160 12 , , PUNCT _003394133 160 13 where where SCONJ _003394133 160 14 assorted assorted ADJ _003394133 160 15 others other NOUN _003394133 160 16 failed fail VERB _003394133 160 17 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 161 1 what what PRON _003394133 161 2 part part NOUN _003394133 161 3 does do VERB _003394133 161 4 flattery flattery NOUN _003394133 161 5 play play NOUN _003394133 161 6 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 161 7 he he PRON _003394133 161 8 has have AUX _003394133 161 9 known know VERB _003394133 161 10 many many ADJ _003394133 161 11 women woman NOUN _003394133 161 12 , , PUNCT _003394133 161 13 of of ADP _003394133 161 14 two two NUM _003394133 161 15 generations generation NOUN _003394133 161 16 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 161 17 but but CCONJ _003394133 161 18 he he PRON _003394133 161 19 has have AUX _003394133 161 20 chosen choose VERB _003394133 161 21 you you PRON _003394133 161 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 162 1 do do AUX _003394133 162 2 you you PRON _003394133 162 3 have have VERB _003394133 162 4 any any DET _003394133 162 5 measure measure NOUN _003394133 162 6 of of ADP _003394133 162 7 pity pity NOUN _003394133 162 8 for for ADP _003394133 162 9 the the DET _003394133 162 10 poor poor ADJ _003394133 162 11 old old ADJ _003394133 162 12 fellow fellow NOUN _003394133 162 13 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 163 1 is be AUX _003394133 163 2 there there PRON _003394133 163 3 an an DET _003394133 163 4 element element NOUN _003394133 163 5 of of ADP _003394133 163 6 gratitude gratitude NOUN _003394133 163 7 mixed mix VERB _003394133 163 8 in in ADP _003394133 163 9 your your PRON _003394133 163 10 emotions emotion NOUN _003394133 163 11 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 164 1 do do AUX _003394133 164 2 you you PRON _003394133 164 3 possibly possibly ADV _003394133 164 4 have have VERB _003394133 164 5 a a DET _003394133 164 6 " " PUNCT _003394133 164 7 parent parent NOUN _003394133 164 8 attachment attachment NOUN _003394133 164 9 " " PUNCT _003394133 164 10 to to ADP _003394133 164 11 him he PRON _003394133 164 12 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 165 1 is be AUX _003394133 165 2 he he PRON _003394133 165 3 a a DET _003394133 165 4 sort sort NOUN _003394133 165 5 of of ADP _003394133 165 6 parent parent NOUN _003394133 165 7 substitute substitute NOUN _003394133 165 8 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 166 1 how how SCONJ _003394133 166 2 much much ADJ _003394133 166 3 of of ADP _003394133 166 4 " " PUNCT _003394133 166 5 hero hero NOUN _003394133 166 6 worship worship NOUN _003394133 166 7 " " PUNCT _003394133 166 8 enters enter VERB _003394133 166 9 the the DET _003394133 166 10 picture picture NOUN _003394133 166 11 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 167 1 how how SCONJ _003394133 167 2 much much ADJ _003394133 167 3 " " PUNCT _003394133 167 4 rationalizing rationalize VERB _003394133 167 5 " " PUNCT _003394133 167 6 have have AUX _003394133 167 7 you you PRON _003394133 167 8 done do VERB _003394133 167 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 167 10 emphasizing emphasize VERB _003394133 167 11 to to ADP _003394133 167 12 yourself yourself PRON _003394133 167 13 the the DET _003394133 167 14 reasons reason NOUN _003394133 167 15 why why SCONJ _003394133 167 16 a a DET _003394133 167 17 husband husband NOUN _003394133 167 18 should should AUX _003394133 167 19 be be AUX _003394133 167 20 older old ADJ _003394133 167 21 than than ADP _003394133 167 22 the the DET _003394133 167 23 wife wife NOUN _003394133 167 24 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 168 1 then then ADV _003394133 168 2 you you PRON _003394133 168 3 might might AUX _003394133 168 4 psychoanalyze psychoanalyze VERB _003394133 168 5 him he PRON _003394133 168 6 a a DET _003394133 168 7 little little ADJ _003394133 168 8 . . PUNCT _003394133 169 1 why why SCONJ _003394133 169 2 does do AUX _003394133 169 3 he he PRON _003394133 169 4 want want VERB _003394133 169 5 to to PART _003394133 169 6 marry marry VERB _003394133 169 7 you you PRON _003394133 169 8 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 170 1 of of ADV _003394133 170 2 course course ADV _003394133 170 3 , , PUNCT _003394133 170 4 you you PRON _003394133 170 5 are be AUX _003394133 170 6 young young ADJ _003394133 170 7 and and CCONJ _003394133 170 8 beautiful beautiful ADJ _003394133 170 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 170 10 lively lively ADJ _003394133 170 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 170 12 desirable desirable ADJ _003394133 170 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 171 1 he he PRON _003394133 171 2 could could AUX _003394133 171 3 n't not PART _003394133 171 4 help help VERB _003394133 171 5 loving love VERB _003394133 171 6 you you PRON _003394133 171 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 172 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 172 2 why why SCONJ _003394133 172 3 does do AUX _003394133 172 4 he he PRON _003394133 172 5 want want VERB _003394133 172 6 to to PART _003394133 172 7 marry marry VERB _003394133 172 8 you you PRON _003394133 172 9 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 173 1 i i PRON _003394133 173 2 take take VERB _003394133 173 3 it it PRON _003394133 173 4 that that SCONJ _003394133 173 5 he he PRON _003394133 173 6 is be AUX _003394133 173 7 not not PART _003394133 173 8 just just ADV _003394133 173 9 a a DET _003394133 173 10 silly silly ADJ _003394133 173 11 old old ADJ _003394133 173 12 fool fool NOUN _003394133 173 13 who who PRON _003394133 173 14 has have VERB _003394133 173 15 an an DET _003394133 173 16 emotional emotional ADJ _003394133 173 17 fixation fixation NOUN _003394133 173 18 for for ADP _003394133 173 19 teen teen NOUN _003394133 173 20 - - PUNCT _003394133 173 21 agers ager NOUN _003394133 173 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 174 1 he he PRON _003394133 174 2 could could AUX _003394133 174 3 hardly hardly ADV _003394133 174 4 have have AUX _003394133 174 5 reached reach VERB _003394133 174 6 that that DET _003394133 174 7 senile senile ADJ _003394133 174 8 regression regression NOUN _003394133 174 9 in in ADP _003394133 174 10 which which PRON _003394133 174 11 he he PRON _003394133 174 12 seeks seek VERB _003394133 174 13 to to PART _003394133 174 14 regain regain VERB _003394133 174 15 his his PRON _003394133 174 16 own own ADJ _003394133 174 17 lost lose VERB _003394133 174 18 youth youth NOUN _003394133 174 19 and and CCONJ _003394133 174 20 to to PART _003394133 174 21 re re VERB _003394133 174 22 - - VERB _003394133 174 23 live live VERB _003394133 174 24 his his PRON _003394133 174 25 early early ADJ _003394133 174 26 loves love NOUN _003394133 174 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 175 1 if if SCONJ _003394133 175 2 he he PRON _003394133 175 3 were be AUX _003394133 175 4 these these DET _003394133 175 5 things thing NOUN _003394133 175 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 175 7 would would AUX _003394133 175 8 you you PRON _003394133 175 9 love love VERB _003394133 175 10 him he PRON _003394133 175 11 so so ADV _003394133 175 12 much much ADV _003394133 175 13 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 176 1 ask ask VERB _003394133 176 2 yourself yourself PRON _003394133 176 3 seriously seriously ADV _003394133 176 4 , , PUNCT _003394133 176 5 anyway anyway ADV _003394133 176 6 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 176 7 such such ADJ _003394133 176 8 things thing NOUN _003394133 176 9 are be AUX _003394133 176 10 entirely entirely ADV _003394133 176 11 possible possible ADJ _003394133 176 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 177 1 is be AUX _003394133 177 2 he he PRON _003394133 177 3 , , PUNCT _003394133 177 4 maybe maybe ADV _003394133 177 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 177 6 moved move VERB _003394133 177 7 by by ADP _003394133 177 8 flattery flattery NOUN _003394133 177 9 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 178 1 your your PRON _003394133 178 2 choice choice NOUN _003394133 178 3 of of ADP _003394133 178 4 him he PRON _003394133 178 5 assures assure VERB _003394133 178 6 him he PRON _003394133 178 7 of of ADP _003394133 178 8 virility virility NOUN _003394133 178 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 178 10 strength strength NOUN _003394133 178 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 178 12 mature mature ADJ _003394133 178 13 attractiveness attractiveness NOUN _003394133 178 14 . . PUNCT _003394133 179 1 12 12 NUM _003394133 179 2 he he PRON _003394133 179 3 is be AUX _003394133 179 4 no no DET _003394133 179 5 callow callow ADJ _003394133 179 6 youth youth NOUN _003394133 179 7 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 179 8 but but CCONJ _003394133 179 9 his his PRON _003394133 179 10 middle middle ADJ _003394133 179 11 - - PUNCT _003394133 179 12 aged aged ADJ _003394133 179 13 manliness manliness NOUN _003394133 179 14 attracts attract NOUN _003394133 179 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 179 16 wins win NOUN _003394133 179 17 , , PUNCT _003394133 179 18 and and CCONJ _003394133 179 19 holds hold VERB _003394133 179 20 . . PUNCT _003394133 180 1 it it PRON _003394133 180 2 's be AUX _003394133 180 3 a a DET _003394133 180 4 delightful delightful ADJ _003394133 180 5 illusion illusion NOUN _003394133 180 6 . . PUNCT _003394133 181 1 and and CCONJ _003394133 181 2 finally finally ADV _003394133 181 3 , , PUNCT _003394133 181 4 ask ask VERB _003394133 181 5 yourself yourself PRON _003394133 181 6 : : PUNCT _003394133 181 7 why why SCONJ _003394133 181 8 did do AUX _003394133 181 9 he he PRON _003394133 181 10 not not PART _003394133 181 11 get get AUX _003394133 181 12 married marry VERB _003394133 181 13 before before ADV _003394133 181 14 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 182 1 is be AUX _003394133 182 2 there there PRON _003394133 182 3 something something PRON _003394133 182 4 wrong wrong ADJ _003394133 182 5 with with ADP _003394133 182 6 him he PRON _003394133 182 7 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 183 1 was be AUX _003394133 183 2 he he PRON _003394133 183 3 not not PART _003394133 183 4 desirable desirable ADJ _003394133 183 5 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 184 1 what what PRON _003394133 184 2 kind kind NOUN _003394133 184 3 of of ADP _003394133 184 4 bachelor bachelor NOUN _003394133 184 5 life life NOUN _003394133 184 6 has have AUX _003394133 184 7 he he PRON _003394133 184 8 led lead VERB _003394133 184 9 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 185 1 ( ( PUNCT _003394133 185 2 in in ADP _003394133 185 3 all all DET _003394133 185 4 this this PRON _003394133 185 5 i i PRON _003394133 185 6 am be AUX _003394133 185 7 presuming presume VERB _003394133 185 8 that that SCONJ _003394133 185 9 he he PRON _003394133 185 10 is be AUX _003394133 185 11 eligible eligible ADJ _003394133 185 12 to to PART _003394133 185 13 marry marry VERB _003394133 185 14 — — PUNCT _003394133 185 15 and and CCONJ _003394133 185 16 also also ADV _003394133 185 17 that that SCONJ _003394133 185 18 he he PRON _003394133 185 19 is be AUX _003394133 185 20 not not PART _003394133 185 21 a a DET _003394133 185 22 widower widower NOUN _003394133 185 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 185 24 ) ) PUNCT _003394133 186 1 and and CCONJ _003394133 186 2 then then ADV _003394133 186 3 having having AUX _003394133 186 4 studied study VERB _003394133 186 5 yourself yourself PRON _003394133 186 6 and and CCONJ _003394133 186 7 him he PRON _003394133 186 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 186 9 you you PRON _003394133 186 10 should should AUX _003394133 186 11 look look VERB _003394133 186 12 into into ADP _003394133 186 13 the the DET _003394133 186 14 future future NOUN _003394133 186 15 discerningly discerningly ADV _003394133 186 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 187 1 what what PRON _003394133 187 2 problems problem NOUN _003394133 187 3 are be AUX _003394133 187 4 you you PRON _003394133 187 5 likely likely ADJ _003394133 187 6 to to PART _003394133 187 7 face face VERB _003394133 187 8 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 188 1 parental parental ADJ _003394133 188 2 opposition opposition NOUN _003394133 188 3 you you PRON _003394133 188 4 have have AUX _003394133 188 5 indicated indicate VERB _003394133 188 6 . . PUNCT _003394133 189 1 public public ADJ _003394133 189 2 opinion opinion NOUN _003394133 189 3 will will AUX _003394133 189 4 be be AUX _003394133 189 5 critical critical ADJ _003394133 189 6 and and CCONJ _003394133 189 7 comments comment NOUN _003394133 189 8 stinging sting VERB _003394133 189 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 190 1 oan oan INTJ _003394133 190 2 you you PRON _003394133 190 3 take take VERB _003394133 190 4 it it PRON _003394133 190 5 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 191 1 who who PRON _003394133 191 2 will will AUX _003394133 191 3 be be AUX _003394133 191 4 your your PRON _003394133 191 5 friends friend NOUN _003394133 191 6 and and CCONJ _003394133 191 7 companions companion NOUN _003394133 191 8 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 192 1 veterans veteran NOUN _003394133 192 2 of of ADP _003394133 192 3 the the DET _003394133 192 4 first first ADJ _003394133 192 5 world world NOUN _003394133 192 6 war war NOUN _003394133 192 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 192 8 or or CCONJ _003394133 192 9 those those PRON _003394133 192 10 of of ADP _003394133 192 11 the the DET _003394133 192 12 korean korean ADJ _003394133 192 13 conflict conflict NOUN _003394133 192 14 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 193 1 dowdy dowdy ADJ _003394133 193 2 bridgeclub bridgeclub NOUN _003394133 193 3 dowagers dowager NOUN _003394133 193 4 , , PUNCT _003394133 193 5 or or CCONJ _003394133 193 6 your your PRON _003394133 193 7 recent recent ADJ _003394133 193 8 college college NOUN _003394133 193 9 classmates classmate NOUN _003394133 193 10 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 194 1 what what PRON _003394133 194 2 is be AUX _003394133 194 3 common common ADJ _003394133 194 4 in in ADP _003394133 194 5 your your PRON _003394133 194 6 tastes taste NOUN _003394133 194 7 and and CCONJ _003394133 194 8 interests interest NOUN _003394133 194 9 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 195 1 what what PRON _003394133 195 2 will will AUX _003394133 195 3 be be AUX _003394133 195 4 your your PRON _003394133 195 5 recreations recreation NOUN _003394133 195 6 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 196 1 dancing dance VERB _003394133 196 2 will will AUX _003394133 196 3 tax tax VERB _003394133 196 4 his his PRON _003394133 196 5 heart heart NOUN _003394133 196 6 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 196 7 you you PRON _003394133 196 8 will will AUX _003394133 196 9 find find VERB _003394133 196 10 dominoes domino NOUN _003394133 196 11 dull dull ADJ _003394133 196 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 197 1 can can AUX _003394133 197 2 you you PRON _003394133 197 3 enjoy enjoy VERB _003394133 197 4 acting act VERB _003394133 197 5 as as ADV _003394133 197 6 old old ADJ _003394133 197 7 as as ADP _003394133 197 8 he he PRON _003394133 197 9 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 198 1 can can AUX _003394133 198 2 he he PRON _003394133 198 3 stand stand VERB _003394133 198 4 being be AUX _003394133 198 5 as as ADV _003394133 198 6 young young ADJ _003394133 198 7 as as ADP _003394133 198 8 you you PRON _003394133 198 9 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 199 1 he he PRON _003394133 199 2 will will AUX _003394133 199 3 probably probably ADV _003394133 199 4 patronize patronize VERB _003394133 199 5 you you PRON _003394133 199 6 lovingly lovingly ADV _003394133 199 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 200 1 in in ADP _003394133 200 2 many many ADJ _003394133 200 3 ways way NOUN _003394133 200 4 you you PRON _003394133 200 5 will will AUX _003394133 200 6 be be AUX _003394133 200 7 a a DET _003394133 200 8 daughter daughter NOUN _003394133 200 9 instead instead ADV _003394133 200 10 of of ADP _003394133 200 11 a a DET _003394133 200 12 wife wife NOUN _003394133 200 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 201 1 he he PRON _003394133 201 2 will will AUX _003394133 201 3 hardly hardly ADV _003394133 201 4 trust trust VERB _003394133 201 5 a a DET _003394133 201 6 mere mere ADJ _003394133 201 7 child child NOUN _003394133 201 8 like like ADP _003394133 201 9 you you PRON _003394133 201 10 to to PART _003394133 201 11 manage manage VERB _003394133 201 12 the the DET _003394133 201 13 household household NOUN _003394133 201 14 , , PUNCT _003394133 201 15 or or CCONJ _003394133 201 16 make make VERB _003394133 201 17 decisions decision NOUN _003394133 201 18 . . PUNCT _003394133 202 1 and and CCONJ _003394133 202 2 he he PRON _003394133 202 3 might might AUX _003394133 202 4 get get VERB _003394133 202 5 impatient impatient ADJ _003394133 202 6 of of ADP _003394133 202 7 your your PRON _003394133 202 8 youthful youthful ADJ _003394133 202 9 vagaries vagary NOUN _003394133 202 10 and and CCONJ _003394133 202 11 inexperience inexperience NOUN _003394133 202 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 203 1 you you PRON _003394133 203 2 can can AUX _003394133 203 3 never never ADV _003394133 203 4 become become VERB _003394133 203 5 a a DET _003394133 203 6 full full ADJ _003394133 203 7 partner partner NOUN _003394133 203 8 with with ADP _003394133 203 9 him he PRON _003394133 203 10 in in ADP _003394133 203 11 all all PRON _003394133 203 12 of of ADP _003394133 203 13 his his PRON _003394133 203 14 life life NOUN _003394133 203 15 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 203 16 half half PRON _003394133 203 17 of of ADP _003394133 203 18 it it PRON _003394133 203 19 was be AUX _003394133 203 20 lived live VERB _003394133 203 21 before before SCONJ _003394133 203 22 you you PRON _003394133 203 23 were be AUX _003394133 203 24 born bear VERB _003394133 203 25 . . PUNCT _003394133 204 1 even even ADV _003394133 204 2 the the DET _003394133 204 3 more more ADV _003394133 204 4 intimate intimate ADJ _003394133 204 5 phases phase NOUN _003394133 204 6 of of ADP _003394133 204 7 your your PRON _003394133 204 8 life life NOUN _003394133 204 9 together together ADV _003394133 204 10 may may AUX _003394133 204 11 be be AUX _003394133 204 12 unsatisfactory unsatisfactory ADJ _003394133 204 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 205 1 physical physical ADJ _003394133 205 2 and and CCONJ _003394133 205 3 emotional emotional ADJ _003394133 205 4 adjustments adjustment NOUN _003394133 205 5 could could AUX _003394133 205 6 be be AUX _003394133 205 7 a a DET _003394133 205 8 problem problem NOUN _003394133 205 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 206 1 maybe maybe ADV _003394133 206 2 now now ADV _003394133 206 3 you you PRON _003394133 206 4 want want VERB _003394133 206 5 to to PART _003394133 206 6 escape escape VERB _003394133 206 7 some some PRON _003394133 206 8 of of ADP _003394133 206 9 the the DET _003394133 206 10 physical physical ADJ _003394133 206 11 realities reality NOUN _003394133 206 12 of of ADP _003394133 206 13 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 206 14 . . PUNCT _003394133 207 1 how how SCONJ _003394133 207 2 will will AUX _003394133 207 3 you you PRON _003394133 207 4 feel feel VERB _003394133 207 5 about about ADP _003394133 207 6 senile senile ADJ _003394133 207 7 ineffectiveness ineffectiveness NOUN _003394133 207 8 fifteen fifteen NUM _003394133 207 9 years year NOUN _003394133 207 10 from from ADP _003394133 207 11 now now ADV _003394133 207 12 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 208 1 women woman NOUN _003394133 208 2 live live VERB _003394133 208 3 longer long ADV _003394133 208 4 than than ADP _003394133 208 5 men man NOUN _003394133 208 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 208 7 you you PRON _003394133 208 8 know know VERB _003394133 208 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 209 1 so so ADV _003394133 209 2 prospects prospect NOUN _003394133 209 3 are be AUX _003394133 209 4 that that SCONJ _003394133 209 5 after after ADP _003394133 209 6 years year NOUN _003394133 209 7 of of ADP _003394133 209 8 caring care VERB _003394133 209 9 for for ADP _003394133 209 10 a a DET _003394133 209 11 grumpy grumpy ADJ _003394133 209 12 old old ADJ _003394133 209 13 man man NOUN _003394133 209 14 , , PUNCT _003394133 209 15 you you PRON _003394133 209 16 will will AUX _003394133 209 17 end end VERB _003394133 209 18 up up ADP _003394133 209 19 a a DET _003394133 209 20 youthful youthful ADJ _003394133 209 21 widow widow NOUN _003394133 209 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 210 1 too too ADV _003394133 210 2 young young ADJ _003394133 210 3 to to PART _003394133 210 4 be be AUX _003394133 210 5 content content ADJ _003394133 210 6 with with ADP _003394133 210 7 a a DET _003394133 210 8 dog dog NOUN _003394133 210 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 210 10 a a DET _003394133 210 11 parrot parrot ADJ _003394133 210 12 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 210 13 too too ADV _003394133 210 14 old old ADJ _003394133 210 15 to to PART _003394133 210 16 start start VERB _003394133 210 17 a a DET _003394133 210 18 new new ADJ _003394133 210 19 life life NOUN _003394133 210 20 . . PUNCT _003394133 211 1 and and CCONJ _003394133 211 2 in in ADP _003394133 211 3 case case NOUN _003394133 211 4 there there PRON _003394133 211 5 should should AUX _003394133 211 6 be be AUX _003394133 211 7 any any DET _003394133 211 8 children child NOUN _003394133 211 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 211 10 how how SCONJ _003394133 211 11 will will AUX _003394133 211 12 you you PRON _003394133 211 13 provide provide VERB _003394133 211 14 for for ADP _003394133 211 15 their their PRON _003394133 211 16 care care NOUN _003394133 211 17 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 212 1 to to PART _003394133 212 2 sum sum VERB _003394133 212 3 it it PRON _003394133 212 4 up up ADP _003394133 212 5 : : PUNCT _003394133 212 6 we we PRON _003394133 212 7 have have VERB _003394133 212 8 only only ADV _003394133 212 9 one one NUM _003394133 212 10 life life NOUN _003394133 212 11 to to PART _003394133 212 12 live live VERB _003394133 212 13 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 212 14 he he PRON _003394133 212 15 has have AUX _003394133 212 16 already already ADV _003394133 212 17 lived live VERB _003394133 212 18 most most ADJ _003394133 212 19 of of ADP _003394133 212 20 his his PRON _003394133 212 21 . . PUNCT _003394133 212 22 13 13 NUM _003394133 212 23 q. q. NOUN _003394133 212 24 what what PRON _003394133 212 25 is be AUX _003394133 212 26 the the DET _003394133 212 27 proper proper ADJ _003394133 212 28 age age NOUN _003394133 212 29 for for ADP _003394133 212 30 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 212 31 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 213 1 a. a. NOUN _003394133 213 2 i i PRON _003394133 213 3 imagine imagine VERB _003394133 213 4 adam adam PROPN _003394133 213 5 and and CCONJ _003394133 213 6 eve eve PROPN _003394133 213 7 debated debate VERB _003394133 213 8 that that DET _003394133 213 9 question question NOUN _003394133 213 10 as as SCONJ _003394133 213 11 their their PRON _003394133 213 12 sons son NOUN _003394133 213 13 and and CCONJ _003394133 213 14 daughters daughter NOUN _003394133 213 15 were be AUX _003394133 213 16 growing grow VERB _003394133 213 17 up up ADP _003394133 213 18 . . PUNCT _003394133 214 1 cain cain PROPN _003394133 214 2 and and CCONJ _003394133 214 3 abel abel PROPN _003394133 214 4 probably probably ADV _003394133 214 5 had have VERB _003394133 214 6 their their PRON _003394133 214 7 own own ADJ _003394133 214 8 ideas idea NOUN _003394133 214 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 214 10 too too ADV _003394133 214 11 , , PUNCT _003394133 214 12 not not PART _003394133 214 13 quite quite ADV _003394133 214 14 in in ADP _003394133 214 15 agreement agreement NOUN _003394133 214 16 with with ADP _003394133 214 17 the the DET _003394133 214 18 old old ADJ _003394133 214 19 folks folk NOUN _003394133 214 20 . . PUNCT _003394133 215 1 the the DET _003394133 215 2 debate debate NOUN _003394133 215 3 still still ADV _003394133 215 4 goes go VERB _003394133 215 5 on on ADP _003394133 215 6 . . PUNCT _003394133 216 1 the the DET _003394133 216 2 law law NOUN _003394133 216 3 of of ADP _003394133 216 4 the the DET _003394133 216 5 church church NOUN _003394133 216 6 absolutely absolutely ADV _003394133 216 7 forbids forbid VERB _003394133 216 8 a a DET _003394133 216 9 young young ADJ _003394133 216 10 man man NOUN _003394133 216 11 to to PART _003394133 216 12 marry marry VERB _003394133 216 13 before before SCONJ _003394133 216 14 he he PRON _003394133 216 15 is be AUX _003394133 216 16 16 16 NUM _003394133 216 17 and and CCONJ _003394133 216 18 a a DET _003394133 216 19 young young ADJ _003394133 216 20 lady lady NOUN _003394133 216 21 before before SCONJ _003394133 216 22 she she PRON _003394133 216 23 is be AUX _003394133 216 24 14 14 NUM _003394133 216 25 . . PUNCT _003394133 217 1 that that PRON _003394133 217 2 is be AUX _003394133 217 3 the the DET _003394133 217 4 minimum minimum NOUN _003394133 217 5 and and CCONJ _003394133 217 6 it it PRON _003394133 217 7 applies apply VERB _003394133 217 8 to to ADP _003394133 217 9 everyone everyone PRON _003394133 217 10 from from ADP _003394133 217 11 fiji fiji PROPN _003394133 217 12 to to PART _003394133 217 13 eskimo eskimo PROPN _003394133 217 14 . . PUNCT _003394133 218 1 there there PRON _003394133 218 2 is be VERB _003394133 218 3 no no DET _003394133 218 4 upper upper ADJ _003394133 218 5 age age NOUN _003394133 218 6 - - PUNCT _003394133 218 7 limits limit NOUN _003394133 218 8 . . PUNCT _003394133 219 1 so so ADV _003394133 219 2 the the DET _003394133 219 3 proper proper ADJ _003394133 219 4 age age NOUN _003394133 219 5 must must AUX _003394133 219 6 be be AUX _003394133 219 7 somewhere somewhere ADV _003394133 219 8 between between ADP _003394133 219 9 14 14 NUM _003394133 219 10 and and CCONJ _003394133 219 11 93 93 NUM _003394133 219 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 220 1 the the DET _003394133 220 2 ancient ancient ADJ _003394133 220 3 philosophers philosopher NOUN _003394133 220 4 were be AUX _003394133 220 5 fond fond ADJ _003394133 220 6 of of ADP _003394133 220 7 a a DET _003394133 220 8 latin latin ADJ _003394133 220 9 phrase phrase NOUN _003394133 220 10 which which PRON _003394133 220 11 might might AUX _003394133 220 12 be be AUX _003394133 220 13 literally literally ADV _003394133 220 14 translated translate VERB _003394133 220 15 as as ADP _003394133 220 16 " " PUNCT _003394133 220 17 virtue virtue NOUN _003394133 220 18 stands stand VERB _003394133 220 19 in in ADP _003394133 220 20 the the DET _003394133 220 21 middle middle NOUN _003394133 220 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 220 23 " " PUNCT _003394133 221 1 neither neither CCONJ _003394133 221 2 too too ADV _003394133 221 3 young young ADJ _003394133 221 4 nor nor CCONJ _003394133 221 5 too too ADV _003394133 221 6 old old ADJ _003394133 221 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 222 1 not not PART _003394133 222 2 a a DET _003394133 222 3 t t NOUN _003394133 222 4 16 16 NUM _003394133 222 5 or or CCONJ _003394133 222 6 17 17 NUM _003394133 222 7 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 222 8 such such ADJ _003394133 222 9 marriages marriage NOUN _003394133 222 10 keep keep VERB _003394133 222 11 our our PRON _003394133 222 12 diocesan diocesan ADJ _003394133 222 13 matrimonial matrimonial ADJ _003394133 222 14 courts court NOUN _003394133 222 15 busy busy ADJ _003394133 222 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 223 1 usually usually ADV _003394133 223 2 not not PART _003394133 223 3 at at ADP _003394133 223 4 such such ADJ _003394133 223 5 advanced advanced ADJ _003394133 223 6 ages age NOUN _003394133 223 7 as as ADP _003394133 223 8 31 31 NUM _003394133 223 9 or or CCONJ _003394133 223 10 35 35 NUM _003394133 223 11 , , PUNCT _003394133 223 12 because because SCONJ _003394133 223 13 the the DET _003394133 223 14 field field NOUN _003394133 223 15 of of ADP _003394133 223 16 choice choice NOUN _003394133 223 17 is be AUX _003394133 223 18 narrower narrow ADJ _003394133 223 19 , , PUNCT _003394133 223 20 and and CCONJ _003394133 223 21 selfishness selfishness NOUN _003394133 223 22 has have AUX _003394133 223 23 become become AUX _003394133 223 24 congealed congeal VERB _003394133 223 25 . . PUNCT _003394133 224 1 accordingly accordingly ADV _003394133 224 2 , , PUNCT _003394133 224 3 church church NOUN _003394133 224 4 law law NOUN _003394133 224 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 224 6 while while SCONJ _003394133 224 7 allowing allow VERB _003394133 224 8 marriages marriage NOUN _003394133 224 9 to to PART _003394133 224 10 be be AUX _003394133 224 11 valid valid ADJ _003394133 224 12 after after ADP _003394133 224 13 the the DET _003394133 224 14 minimum minimum ADJ _003394133 224 15 ages age NOUN _003394133 224 16 of of ADP _003394133 224 17 14 14 NUM _003394133 224 18 and and CCONJ _003394133 224 19 16 16 NUM _003394133 224 20 , , PUNCT _003394133 224 21 directs direct VERB _003394133 224 22 the the DET _003394133 224 23 pastors pastor NOUN _003394133 224 24 of of ADP _003394133 224 25 souls soul NOUN _003394133 224 26 that that PRON _003394133 224 27 they they PRON _003394133 224 28 keep keep VERB _003394133 224 29 young young ADJ _003394133 224 30 people people NOUN _003394133 224 31 from from ADP _003394133 224 32 marrying marry VERB _003394133 224 33 until until SCONJ _003394133 224 34 they they PRON _003394133 224 35 reach reach VERB _003394133 224 36 the the DET _003394133 224 37 age age NOUN _003394133 224 38 sanctioned sanction VERB _003394133 224 39 by by ADP _003394133 224 40 the the DET _003394133 224 41 customs custom NOUN _003394133 224 42 of of ADP _003394133 224 43 each each DET _003394133 224 44 country country NOUN _003394133 224 45 . . PUNCT _003394133 225 1 what what PRON _003394133 225 2 is be AUX _003394133 225 3 the the DET _003394133 225 4 age age NOUN _003394133 225 5 sanctioned sanction VERB _003394133 225 6 by by ADP _003394133 225 7 our our PRON _003394133 225 8 customs custom NOUN _003394133 225 9 here here ADV _003394133 225 10 in in ADP _003394133 225 11 the the DET _003394133 225 12 u.s u.s PROPN _003394133 225 13 . . PROPN _003394133 225 14 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 226 1 certainly certainly ADV _003394133 226 2 not not PART _003394133 226 3 16 16 NUM _003394133 226 4 or or CCONJ _003394133 226 5 17 17 NUM _003394133 226 6 . . PUNCT _003394133 227 1 some some DET _003394133 227 2 marriages marriage NOUN _003394133 227 3 are be AUX _003394133 227 4 contracted contract VERB _003394133 227 5 at at ADP _003394133 227 6 that that DET _003394133 227 7 age age NOUN _003394133 227 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 227 9 but but CCONJ _003394133 227 10 they they PRON _003394133 227 11 are be AUX _003394133 227 12 usually usually ADV _003394133 227 13 runaway runaway ADJ _003394133 227 14 affairs affair NOUN _003394133 227 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 227 16 frowned frown VERB _003394133 227 17 upon upon SCONJ _003394133 227 18 by by ADP _003394133 227 19 parents parent NOUN _003394133 227 20 and and CCONJ _003394133 227 21 neighbors neighbor NOUN _003394133 227 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 228 1 our our PRON _003394133 228 2 american american ADJ _003394133 228 3 way way NOUN _003394133 228 4 of of ADP _003394133 228 5 life life NOUN _003394133 228 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 228 7 our our PRON _003394133 228 8 educational educational ADJ _003394133 228 9 standards standard NOUN _003394133 228 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 228 11 our our PRON _003394133 228 12 economic economic ADJ _003394133 228 13 requirements requirement NOUN _003394133 228 14 , , PUNCT _003394133 228 15 and and CCONJ _003394133 228 16 our our PRON _003394133 228 17 social social ADJ _003394133 228 18 habits habit NOUN _003394133 228 19 demand demand VERB _003394133 228 20 a a DET _003394133 228 21 greater great ADJ _003394133 228 22 maturity maturity NOUN _003394133 228 23 from from ADP _003394133 228 24 both both DET _003394133 228 25 man man NOUN _003394133 228 26 and and CCONJ _003394133 228 27 woman woman NOUN _003394133 228 28 before before SCONJ _003394133 228 29 they they PRON _003394133 228 30 enter enter VERB _003394133 228 31 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 228 32 . . PUNCT _003394133 229 1 if if SCONJ _003394133 229 2 they they PRON _003394133 229 3 ignore ignore VERB _003394133 229 4 these these DET _003394133 229 5 demands demand NOUN _003394133 229 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 229 7 their their PRON _003394133 229 8 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 229 9 may may AUX _003394133 229 10 be be AUX _003394133 229 11 wrecked wreck VERB _003394133 229 12 by by ADP _003394133 229 13 emotional emotional ADJ _003394133 229 14 instability instability NOUN _003394133 229 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 229 16 domestic domestic ADJ _003394133 229 17 insecurity insecurity NOUN _003394133 229 18 and and CCONJ _003394133 229 19 financial financial ADJ _003394133 229 20 worries worry NOUN _003394133 229 21 and and CCONJ _003394133 229 22 wants want VERB _003394133 229 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 230 1 finally finally ADV _003394133 230 2 , , PUNCT _003394133 230 3 the the DET _003394133 230 4 law law NOUN _003394133 230 5 of of ADP _003394133 230 6 the the DET _003394133 230 7 church church NOUN _003394133 230 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 230 9 in in ADP _003394133 230 10 canon canon NOUN _003394133 230 11 1034 1034 NUM _003394133 230 12 , , PUNCT _003394133 230 13 directs direct VERB _003394133 230 14 pastors pastor NOUN _003394133 230 15 to to PART _003394133 230 16 try try VERB _003394133 230 17 to to PART _003394133 230 18 keep keep VERB _003394133 230 19 young young ADJ _003394133 230 20 people people NOUN _003394133 230 21 from from ADP _003394133 230 22 marrying marry VERB _003394133 230 23 before before SCONJ _003394133 230 24 they they PRON _003394133 230 25 are be AUX _003394133 230 26 21 21 NUM _003394133 230 27 , , PUNCT _003394133 230 28 without without ADP _003394133 230 29 the the DET _003394133 230 30 knowledge knowledge NOUN _003394133 230 31 or or CCONJ _003394133 230 32 consent consent NOUN _003394133 230 33 of of ADP _003394133 230 34 their their PRON _003394133 230 35 parents parent NOUN _003394133 230 36 . . PUNCT _003394133 231 1 this this PRON _003394133 231 2 can can AUX _003394133 231 3 probably probably ADV _003394133 231 4 be be AUX _003394133 231 5 taken take VERB _003394133 231 6 as as ADP _003394133 231 7 a a DET _003394133 231 8 good good ADJ _003394133 231 9 norm norm NOUN _003394133 231 10 of of ADP _003394133 231 11 the the DET _003394133 231 12 church church NOUN _003394133 231 13 's 's PART _003394133 231 14 attitude attitude NOUN _003394133 231 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 232 1 she she PRON _003394133 232 2 does do AUX _003394133 232 3 not not PART _003394133 232 4 forbid forbid VERB _003394133 232 5 the the DET _003394133 232 6 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 232 7 of of ADP _003394133 232 8 minors minor NOUN _003394133 232 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 232 10 but but CCONJ _003394133 232 11 she she PRON _003394133 232 12 is be AUX _003394133 232 13 very very ADV _003394133 232 14 careful careful ADJ _003394133 232 15 about about ADP _003394133 232 16 it it PRON _003394133 232 17 and and CCONJ _003394133 232 18 wants want VERB _003394133 232 19 the the DET _003394133 232 20 counsel counsel NOUN _003394133 232 21 and and CCONJ _003394133 232 22 advice advice NOUN _003394133 232 23 of of ADP _003394133 232 24 their their PRON _003394133 232 25 parents parent NOUN _003394133 232 26 . . PUNCT _003394133 233 1 14 14 NUM _003394133 233 2 q. q. NOUN _003394133 233 3 at at ADP _003394133 233 4 what what DET _003394133 233 5 age age NOUN _003394133 233 6 should should AUX _003394133 233 7 a a DET _003394133 233 8 young young ADJ _003394133 233 9 lady lady NOUN _003394133 233 10 marry marry NOUN _003394133 233 11 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 234 1 a. a. NOUN _003394133 234 2 a a DET _003394133 234 3 definite definite ADJ _003394133 234 4 answer answer NOUN _003394133 234 5 to to ADP _003394133 234 6 this this DET _003394133 234 7 question question NOUN _003394133 234 8 is be AUX _003394133 234 9 so so ADV _003394133 234 10 nearly nearly ADV _003394133 234 11 impossible impossible ADJ _003394133 234 12 that that SCONJ _003394133 234 13 i i PRON _003394133 234 14 recur recur VERB _003394133 234 15 to to ADP _003394133 234 16 the the DET _003394133 234 17 popular popular ADJ _003394133 234 18 refuge refuge NOUN _003394133 234 19 of of ADP _003394133 234 20 all all DET _003394133 234 21 answer answer NOUN _003394133 234 22 - - PUNCT _003394133 234 23 men man NOUN _003394133 234 24 . . PUNCT _003394133 235 1 it it PRON _003394133 235 2 depends depend VERB _003394133 235 3 upon upon SCONJ _003394133 235 4 personalities personality NOUN _003394133 235 5 and and CCONJ _003394133 235 6 circumstances circumstance NOUN _003394133 235 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 236 1 if if SCONJ _003394133 236 2 routed route VERB _003394133 236 3 there there ADV _003394133 236 4 , , PUNCT _003394133 236 5 i i PRON _003394133 236 6 can can AUX _003394133 236 7 safely safely ADV _003394133 236 8 resort resort VERB _003394133 236 9 to to ADP _003394133 236 10 truism truism NOUN _003394133 236 11 : : PUNCT _003394133 236 12 it it PRON _003394133 236 13 should should AUX _003394133 236 14 be be AUX _003394133 236 15 neither neither CCONJ _003394133 236 16 too too ADV _003394133 236 17 early early ADV _003394133 236 18 , , PUNCT _003394133 236 19 nor nor CCONJ _003394133 236 20 yet yet ADV _003394133 236 21 too too ADV _003394133 236 22 late late ADJ _003394133 236 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 237 1 yet yet ADV _003394133 237 2 must must AUX _003394133 237 3 i i PRON _003394133 237 4 scorn scorn VERB _003394133 237 5 timorous timorous ADJ _003394133 237 6 evasion evasion NOUN _003394133 237 7 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 238 1 so so ADV _003394133 238 2 , , PUNCT _003394133 238 3 fortified fortify VERB _003394133 238 4 by by ADP _003394133 238 5 prayer prayer NOUN _003394133 238 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 238 7 and and CCONJ _003394133 238 8 appealing appeal VERB _003394133 238 9 to to ADP _003394133 238 10 canon canon NOUN _003394133 238 11 law law NOUN _003394133 238 12 to to PART _003394133 238 13 support support VERB _003394133 238 14 me i PRON _003394133 238 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 238 16 i i PRON _003394133 238 17 f f VERB _003394133 238 18 a a DET _003394133 238 19 r r NOUN _003394133 238 20 e e NOUN _003394133 238 21 forth forth ADV _003394133 238 22 with with ADP _003394133 238 23 fellow fellow ADJ _003394133 238 24 fools fool NOUN _003394133 238 25 and and CCONJ _003394133 238 26 bid bid VERB _003394133 238 27 the the DET _003394133 238 28 angels angel NOUN _003394133 238 29 bide bide NOUN _003394133 238 30 . . PUNCT _003394133 239 1 canon canon NOUN _003394133 239 2 law law NOUN _003394133 239 3 can can AUX _003394133 239 4 give give VERB _003394133 239 5 no no DET _003394133 239 6 absolute absolute ADJ _003394133 239 7 answer answer NOUN _003394133 239 8 applicable applicable ADJ _003394133 239 9 to to ADP _003394133 239 10 the the DET _003394133 239 11 entire entire ADJ _003394133 239 12 world world NOUN _003394133 239 13 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 239 14 but but CCONJ _003394133 239 15 it it PRON _003394133 239 16 does do AUX _003394133 239 17 provide provide VERB _003394133 239 18 a a DET _003394133 239 19 clue clue NOUN _003394133 239 20 and and CCONJ _003394133 239 21 a a DET _003394133 239 22 directive directive NOUN _003394133 239 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 240 1 canon canon NOUN _003394133 240 2 1067 1067 NUM _003394133 240 3 establishes establish VERB _003394133 240 4 the the DET _003394133 240 5 minimum minimum ADJ _003394133 240 6 ages age NOUN _003394133 240 7 at at ADP _003394133 240 8 which which PRON _003394133 240 9 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 240 10 is be AUX _003394133 240 11 legally legally ADV _003394133 240 12 possible possible ADJ _003394133 240 13 anywhere anywhere ADV _003394133 240 14 : : PUNCT _003394133 240 15 14 14 NUM _003394133 240 16 years year NOUN _003394133 240 17 for for ADP _003394133 240 18 the the DET _003394133 240 19 female female NOUN _003394133 240 20 of of ADP _003394133 240 21 the the DET _003394133 240 22 species specie NOUN _003394133 240 23 , , PUNCT _003394133 240 24 16 16 NUM _003394133 240 25 for for ADP _003394133 240 26 her her PRON _003394133 240 27 counterpart counterpart NOUN _003394133 240 28 . . PUNCT _003394133 241 1 these these DET _003394133 241 2 ages age NOUN _003394133 241 3 seem seem VERB _003394133 241 4 scandalously scandalously ADV _003394133 241 5 low low ADJ _003394133 241 6 to to ADP _003394133 241 7 us we PRON _003394133 241 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 241 9 but but CCONJ _003394133 241 10 not not PART _003394133 241 11 so so ADV _003394133 241 12 to to ADP _003394133 241 13 the the DET _003394133 241 14 dusky dusky ADJ _003394133 241 15 native native ADJ _003394133 241 16 of of ADP _003394133 241 17 the the DET _003394133 241 18 congo congo NOUN _003394133 241 19 , , PUNCT _003394133 241 20 or or CCONJ _003394133 241 21 the the DET _003394133 241 22 premature premature ADJ _003394133 241 23 maiden maiden NOUN _003394133 241 24 of of ADP _003394133 241 25 melanesia melanesia PROPN _003394133 241 26 . . PUNCT _003394133 242 1 the the DET _003394133 242 2 second second ADJ _003394133 242 3 paragraph paragraph NOUN _003394133 242 4 of of ADP _003394133 242 5 the the DET _003394133 242 6 same same ADJ _003394133 242 7 canon canon NOUN _003394133 242 8 shows show VERB _003394133 242 9 the the DET _003394133 242 10 mind mind NOUN _003394133 242 11 of of ADP _003394133 242 12 the the DET _003394133 242 13 church church NOUN _003394133 242 14 : : PUNCT _003394133 242 15 " " PUNCT _003394133 242 16 even even ADV _003394133 242 17 though though SCONJ _003394133 242 18 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 242 19 may may AUX _003394133 242 20 be be AUX _003394133 242 21 validly validly ADV _003394133 242 22 contracted contract VERB _003394133 242 23 after after ADP _003394133 242 24 these these DET _003394133 242 25 specified specify VERB _003394133 242 26 ages age NOUN _003394133 242 27 , , PUNCT _003394133 242 28 the the DET _003394133 242 29 pastors pastor NOUN _003394133 242 30 of of ADP _003394133 242 31 souls soul NOUN _003394133 242 32 shall shall AUX _003394133 242 33 take take VERB _003394133 242 34 care care NOUN _003394133 242 35 to to PART _003394133 242 36 divert divert VERB _003394133 242 37 young young ADJ _003394133 242 38 people people NOUN _003394133 242 39 from from ADP _003394133 242 40 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 242 41 before before ADP _003394133 242 42 the the DET _003394133 242 43 age age NOUN _003394133 242 44 sanctioned sanction VERB _003394133 242 45 by by ADP _003394133 242 46 the the DET _003394133 242 47 accepted accept VERB _003394133 242 48 customs custom NOUN _003394133 242 49 of of ADP _003394133 242 50 their their PRON _003394133 242 51 own own ADJ _003394133 242 52 country country NOUN _003394133 242 53 . . PUNCT _003394133 242 54 " " PUNCT _003394133 243 1 custom custom PROPN _003394133 243 2 the the DET _003394133 243 3 law law NOUN _003394133 243 4 is be AUX _003394133 243 5 clear clear ADJ _003394133 243 6 . . PUNCT _003394133 244 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 244 2 what what PRON _003394133 244 3 is be AUX _003394133 244 4 the the DET _003394133 244 5 age age NOUN _003394133 244 6 sanctioned sanction VERB _003394133 244 7 by by ADP _003394133 244 8 the the DET _003394133 244 9 accepted accept VERB _003394133 244 10 customs custom NOUN _003394133 244 11 of of ADP _003394133 244 12 our our PRON _003394133 244 13 country country NOUN _003394133 244 14 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 245 1 the the DET _003394133 245 2 average average ADJ _003394133 245 3 age age NOUN _003394133 245 4 of of ADP _003394133 245 5 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 245 6 has have AUX _003394133 245 7 gone go VERB _003394133 245 8 down down ADV _003394133 245 9 sharply sharply ADV _003394133 245 10 since since SCONJ _003394133 245 11 the the DET _003394133 245 12 war war NOUN _003394133 245 13 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 245 14 the the DET _003394133 245 15 kiplinger kiplinger NOUN _003394133 245 16 washington washington PROPN _003394133 245 17 letter letter NOUN _003394133 245 18 for for ADP _003394133 245 19 dec dec PROPN _003394133 245 20 . . PROPN _003394133 245 21 23 23 NUM _003394133 245 22 , , PUNCT _003394133 245 23 1949 1949 NUM _003394133 245 24 , , PUNCT _003394133 245 25 indicates indicate VERB _003394133 245 26 the the DET _003394133 245 27 present present ADJ _003394133 245 28 average average ADJ _003394133 245 29 ages age NOUN _003394133 245 30 as as ADP _003394133 245 31 22 22 NUM _003394133 245 32 for for ADP _003394133 245 33 the the DET _003394133 245 34 women woman NOUN _003394133 245 35 , , PUNCT _003394133 245 36 and and CCONJ _003394133 245 37 24 24 NUM _003394133 245 38 for for ADP _003394133 245 39 the the DET _003394133 245 40 men man NOUN _003394133 245 41 . . PUNCT _003394133 246 1 we we PRON _003394133 246 2 do do AUX _003394133 246 3 not not PART _003394133 246 4 conclude conclude VERB _003394133 246 5 from from ADP _003394133 246 6 this this PRON _003394133 246 7 that that SCONJ _003394133 246 8 pastors pastor NOUN _003394133 246 9 are be AUX _003394133 246 10 required require VERB _003394133 246 11 by by ADP _003394133 246 12 law law NOUN _003394133 246 13 to to PART _003394133 246 14 try try VERB _003394133 246 15 to to PART _003394133 246 16 keep keep VERB _003394133 246 17 all all DET _003394133 246 18 the the DET _003394133 246 19 young young ADJ _003394133 246 20 women woman NOUN _003394133 246 21 of of ADP _003394133 246 22 their their PRON _003394133 246 23 parishes parish NOUN _003394133 246 24 from from ADP _003394133 246 25 marrying marry VERB _003394133 246 26 until until SCONJ _003394133 246 27 they they PRON _003394133 246 28 are be AUX _003394133 246 29 22 22 NUM _003394133 246 30 years year NOUN _003394133 246 31 old old ADJ _003394133 246 32 . . PUNCT _003394133 247 1 average average ADJ _003394133 247 2 age age NOUN _003394133 247 3 is be AUX _003394133 247 4 not not PART _003394133 247 5 minimum minimum ADJ _003394133 247 6 age age NOUN _003394133 247 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 247 8 but but CCONJ _003394133 247 9 it it PRON _003394133 247 10 does do AUX _003394133 247 11 provide provide VERB _003394133 247 12 a a DET _003394133 247 13 norm norm NOUN _003394133 247 14 for for ADP _003394133 247 15 judgment judgment NOUN _003394133 247 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 248 1 and and CCONJ _003394133 248 2 the the DET _003394133 248 3 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 248 4 is be AUX _003394133 248 5 definitely definitely ADV _003394133 248 6 obliged oblige VERB _003394133 248 7 by by ADP _003394133 248 8 law law NOUN _003394133 248 9 to to PART _003394133 248 10 try try VERB _003394133 248 11 to to PART _003394133 248 12 keep keep VERB _003394133 248 13 his his PRON _003394133 248 14 young young ADJ _003394133 248 15 teen teen NOUN _003394133 248 16 - - PUNCT _003394133 248 17 agers ager NOUN _003394133 248 18 from from ADP _003394133 248 19 marrying marry VERB _003394133 248 20 before before ADP _003394133 248 21 the the DET _003394133 248 22 age age NOUN _003394133 248 23 which which PRON _003394133 248 24 our our PRON _003394133 248 25 society society NOUN _003394133 248 26 approves approve VERB _003394133 248 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 249 1 the the DET _003394133 249 2 church church NOUN _003394133 249 3 law law NOUN _003394133 249 4 furnishes furnish VERB _003394133 249 5 another another DET _003394133 249 6 indication indication NOUN _003394133 249 7 of of ADP _003394133 249 8 attitude attitude NOUN _003394133 249 9 in in ADP _003394133 249 10 canon canon NOUN _003394133 249 11 1034 1034 NUM _003394133 249 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 250 1 again again ADV _003394133 250 2 the the DET _003394133 250 3 legislation legislation NOUN _003394133 250 4 is be AUX _003394133 250 5 directed direct VERB _003394133 250 6 at at ADP _003394133 250 7 the the DET _003394133 250 8 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 250 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 251 1 15 15 NUM _003394133 251 2 he he PRON _003394133 251 3 must must AUX _003394133 251 4 make make VERB _003394133 251 5 strenuous strenuous ADJ _003394133 251 6 effort effort NOUN _003394133 251 7 to to PART _003394133 251 8 keep keep VERB _003394133 251 9 minors minor NOUN _003394133 251 10 ( ( PUNCT _003394133 251 11 under under ADP _003394133 251 12 21 21 NUM _003394133 251 13 years year NOUN _003394133 251 14 oi oi ADP _003394133 251 15 age age NOUN _003394133 251 16 ) ) PUNCT _003394133 251 17 from from ADP _003394133 251 18 contracting contract VERB _003394133 251 19 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 251 20 without without ADP _003394133 251 21 their their PRON _003394133 251 22 parents parent NOUN _003394133 251 23 ' ' PART _003394133 251 24 knowledge knowledge NOUN _003394133 251 25 or or CCONJ _003394133 251 26 consent consent NOUN _003394133 251 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 252 1 maturity maturity NOUN _003394133 252 2 all all DET _003394133 252 3 serious serious ADJ _003394133 252 4 students student NOUN _003394133 252 5 of of ADP _003394133 252 6 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 252 7 problems problem NOUN _003394133 252 8 are be AUX _003394133 252 9 agreed agree VERB _003394133 252 10 that that SCONJ _003394133 252 11 cnudren cnudren PROPN _003394133 252 12 should should AUX _003394133 252 13 not not PART _003394133 252 14 marry marry VERB _003394133 252 15 before before SCONJ _003394133 252 16 they they PRON _003394133 252 17 are be AUX _003394133 252 18 grown grow VERB _003394133 252 19 up up ADP _003394133 252 20 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 252 21 is be AUX _003394133 252 22 for for ADP _003394133 252 23 adults adult NOUN _003394133 252 24 . . PUNCT _003394133 253 1 it it PRON _003394133 253 2 presents present VERB _003394133 253 3 life life NOUN _003394133 253 4 's 's PART _003394133 253 5 most most ADV _003394133 253 6 serious serious ADJ _003394133 253 7 obligations obligation NOUN _003394133 253 8 . . PUNCT _003394133 254 1 reasonable reasonable ADJ _003394133 254 2 maturity maturity NOUN _003394133 254 3 is be AUX _003394133 254 4 required require VERB _003394133 254 5 for for ADP _003394133 254 6 their their PRON _003394133 254 7 responsible responsible ADJ _003394133 254 8 acceptance acceptance NOUN _003394133 254 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 254 10 fulfillment fulfillment NOUN _003394133 254 11 . . PUNCT _003394133 255 1 what what PRON _003394133 255 2 is be AUX _003394133 255 3 maturity maturity NOUN _003394133 255 4 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 256 1 age age NOUN _003394133 256 2 is be AUX _003394133 256 3 a a DET _003394133 256 4 factor factor NOUN _003394133 256 5 in in ADP _003394133 256 6 it it PRON _003394133 256 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 256 8 and and CCONJ _003394133 256 9 a a DET _003394133 256 10 general general ADJ _003394133 256 11 norm norm NOUN _003394133 256 12 f f PROPN _003394133 256 13 o o X _003394133 256 14 r r NOUN _003394133 256 15 measuring measure VERB _003394133 256 16 it it PRON _003394133 256 17 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 256 18 but but CCONJ _003394133 256 19 age age NOUN _003394133 256 20 is be AUX _003394133 256 21 not not PART _003394133 256 22 maturity maturity NOUN _003394133 256 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 257 1 we we PRON _003394133 257 2 can can AUX _003394133 257 3 distinguish distinguish VERB _003394133 257 4 various various ADJ _003394133 257 5 aspects aspect NOUN _003394133 257 6 of of ADP _003394133 257 7 human human ADJ _003394133 257 8 development development NOUN _003394133 257 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 258 1 most most ADV _003394133 258 2 obvious obvious ADJ _003394133 258 3 is be AUX _003394133 258 4 the the DET _003394133 258 5 physical physical ADJ _003394133 258 6 . . PUNCT _003394133 259 1 next next ADV _003394133 259 2 in in ADP _003394133 259 3 ease ease NOUN _003394133 259 4 of of ADP _003394133 259 5 measurement measurement NOUN _003394133 259 6 is be AUX _003394133 259 7 mental mental ADJ _003394133 259 8 growth growth NOUN _003394133 259 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 260 1 obvious obvious ADJ _003394133 260 2 , , PUNCT _003394133 260 3 but but CCONJ _003394133 260 4 rather rather ADV _003394133 260 5 imponderable imponderable ADJ _003394133 260 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 260 7 is be AUX _003394133 260 8 emotional emotional ADJ _003394133 260 9 maturity maturity NOUN _003394133 260 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 261 1 and and CCONJ _003394133 261 2 hardly hardly ADV _003394133 261 3 inseparable inseparable ADJ _003394133 261 4 are be AUX _003394133 261 5 those those DET _003394133 261 6 numerous numerous ADJ _003394133 261 7 traits trait NOUN _003394133 261 8 which which PRON _003394133 261 9 make make VERB _003394133 261 10 up up ADP _003394133 261 11 personality personality NOUN _003394133 261 12 , , PUNCT _003394133 261 13 and and CCONJ _003394133 261 14 adapt adapt VERB _003394133 261 15 the the DET _003394133 261 16 individual individual NOUN _003394133 261 17 to to PART _003394133 261 18 adult adult VERB _003394133 261 19 life life NOUN _003394133 261 20 in in ADP _003394133 261 21 modern modern ADJ _003394133 261 22 society society NOUN _003394133 261 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 262 1 with with ADP _003394133 262 2 due due ADJ _003394133 262 3 reverence reverence NOUN _003394133 262 4 for for ADP _003394133 262 5 the the DET _003394133 262 6 grace grace NOUN _003394133 262 7 of of ADP _003394133 262 8 god god PROPN _003394133 262 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 262 10 and and CCONJ _003394133 262 11 proper proper ADJ _003394133 262 12 respect respect NOUN _003394133 262 13 for for ADP _003394133 262 14 true true ADJ _003394133 262 15 love love NOUN _003394133 262 16 , , PUNCT _003394133 262 17 there there PRON _003394133 262 18 is be VERB _003394133 262 19 probably probably ADV _003394133 262 20 no no DET _003394133 262 21 single single ADJ _003394133 262 22 factor factor NOUN _003394133 262 23 so so ADV _003394133 262 24 important important ADJ _003394133 262 25 to to ADP _003394133 262 26 a a DET _003394133 262 27 successful successful ADJ _003394133 262 28 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 262 29 as as ADP _003394133 262 30 maturity maturity NOUN _003394133 262 31 . . PUNCT _003394133 263 1 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 263 2 by by ADP _003394133 263 3 its its PRON _003394133 263 4 essential essential ADJ _003394133 263 5 nature nature NOUN _003394133 263 6 demands demand VERB _003394133 263 7 physical physical ADJ _003394133 263 8 maturity maturity NOUN _003394133 263 9 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 263 10 but but CCONJ _003394133 263 11 that that PRON _003394133 263 12 generally generally ADV _003394133 263 13 comes come VERB _003394133 263 14 early early ADV _003394133 263 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 264 1 mental mental ADJ _003394133 264 2 growth growth NOUN _003394133 264 3 in in ADP _003394133 264 4 modern modern ADJ _003394133 264 5 children child NOUN _003394133 264 6 is be AUX _003394133 264 7 rapid rapid ADJ _003394133 264 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 264 9 but but CCONJ _003394133 264 10 modern modern ADJ _003394133 264 11 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 264 12 requires require VERB _003394133 264 13 higher high ADJ _003394133 264 14 mental mental ADJ _003394133 264 15 development development NOUN _003394133 264 16 than than ADP _003394133 264 17 formerly formerly ADV _003394133 264 18 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 264 19 so so ADV _003394133 264 20 mental mental ADJ _003394133 264 21 maturity maturity NOUN _003394133 264 22 still still ADV _003394133 264 23 lags lag VERB _003394133 264 24 behind behind ADP _003394133 264 25 the the DET _003394133 264 26 physical physical NOUN _003394133 264 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 265 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 265 2 the the DET _003394133 265 3 emotional emotional ADJ _003394133 265 4 elements element NOUN _003394133 265 5 are be AUX _003394133 265 6 usually usually ADV _003394133 265 7 last last ADJ _003394133 265 8 to to PART _003394133 265 9 ripen ripen VERB _003394133 265 10 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 265 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 265 12 they they PRON _003394133 265 13 are be AUX _003394133 265 14 supremely supremely ADV _003394133 265 15 important important ADJ _003394133 265 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 266 1 childish childish ADJ _003394133 266 2 emotional emotional ADJ _003394133 266 3 reactions reaction NOUN _003394133 266 4 probably probably ADV _003394133 266 5 ruin ruin VERB _003394133 266 6 more more ADJ _003394133 266 7 marriages marriage NOUN _003394133 266 8 than than ADP _003394133 266 9 any any DET _003394133 266 10 other other ADJ _003394133 266 11 factor factor NOUN _003394133 266 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 267 1 sacrifice sacrifice VERB _003394133 267 2 the the DET _003394133 267 3 married married ADJ _003394133 267 4 person person NOUN _003394133 267 5 is be AUX _003394133 267 6 supposed suppose VERB _003394133 267 7 to to PART _003394133 267 8 give give VERB _003394133 267 9 up up ADP _003394133 267 10 all all DET _003394133 267 11 the the DET _003394133 267 12 attitudes attitude NOUN _003394133 267 13 , , PUNCT _003394133 267 14 habits habit NOUN _003394133 267 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 267 16 and and CCONJ _003394133 267 17 reactions reaction NOUN _003394133 267 18 of of ADP _003394133 267 19 childhood childhood NOUN _003394133 267 20 , , PUNCT _003394133 267 21 and and CCONJ _003394133 267 22 to to PART _003394133 267 23 live live VERB _003394133 267 24 a a DET _003394133 267 25 grown grow VERB _003394133 267 26 - - PUNCT _003394133 267 27 up up ADP _003394133 267 28 life life NOUN _003394133 267 29 of of ADP _003394133 267 30 love love NOUN _003394133 267 31 and and CCONJ _003394133 267 32 procreation procreation NOUN _003394133 267 33 and and CCONJ _003394133 267 34 adaptation adaptation NOUN _003394133 267 35 , , PUNCT _003394133 267 36 of of ADP _003394133 267 37 sacrifice sacrifice NOUN _003394133 267 38 and and CCONJ _003394133 267 39 selfcontrol selfcontrol NOUN _003394133 267 40 and and CCONJ _003394133 267 41 persistent persistent ADJ _003394133 267 42 industry industry NOUN _003394133 267 43 . . PUNCT _003394133 268 1 life life NOUN _003394133 268 2 must must AUX _003394133 268 3 be be AUX _003394133 268 4 faced face VERB _003394133 268 5 frankly frankly ADV _003394133 268 6 and and CCONJ _003394133 268 7 resolutely resolutely ADV _003394133 268 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 268 9 with with ADP _003394133 268 10 neither neither DET _003394133 268 11 papa papa NOUN _003394133 268 12 's 's PART _003394133 268 13 purse purse NOUN _003394133 268 14 nor nor CCONJ _003394133 268 15 mama mama NOUN _003394133 268 16 's 's PART _003394133 268 17 arms arm NOUN _003394133 268 18 as as ADP _003394133 268 19 childish childish ADJ _003394133 268 20 refuge refuge NOUN _003394133 268 21 . . PUNCT _003394133 269 1 married married ADJ _003394133 269 2 people people NOUN _003394133 269 3 must must AUX _003394133 269 4 adapt adapt VERB _003394133 269 5 themselves themselves PRON _003394133 269 6 to to ADP _003394133 269 7 each each DET _003394133 269 8 other other ADJ _003394133 269 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 269 10 to to ADP _003394133 269 11 16 16 NUM _003394133 269 12 their their PRON _003394133 269 13 children child NOUN _003394133 269 14 , , PUNCT _003394133 269 15 to to ADP _003394133 269 16 society society NOUN _003394133 269 17 , , PUNCT _003394133 269 18 and and CCONJ _003394133 269 19 to to ADP _003394133 269 20 the the DET _003394133 269 21 intransigent intransigent ADJ _003394133 269 22 realities reality NOUN _003394133 269 23 of of ADP _003394133 269 24 the the DET _003394133 269 25 economic economic ADJ _003394133 269 26 world world NOUN _003394133 269 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 270 1 only only ADJ _003394133 270 2 grownups grownup NOUN _003394133 270 3 can can AUX _003394133 270 4 do do VERB _003394133 270 5 so so ADV _003394133 270 6 . . PUNCT _003394133 271 1 the the DET _003394133 271 2 mature mature ADJ _003394133 271 3 woman woman NOUN _003394133 271 4 has have VERB _003394133 271 5 a a DET _003394133 271 6 reasonable reasonable ADJ _003394133 271 7 view view NOUN _003394133 271 8 oi oi ADP _003394133 271 9 life life NOUN _003394133 271 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 271 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 271 12 of of ADP _003394133 271 13 the the DET _003394133 271 14 world world NOUN _003394133 271 15 and and CCONJ _003394133 271 16 her her PRON _003394133 271 17 position position NOUN _003394133 271 18 in in ADP _003394133 271 19 it it PRON _003394133 271 20 . . PUNCT _003394133 272 1 she she PRON _003394133 272 2 knows know VERB _003394133 272 3 her her PRON _003394133 272 4 place place NOUN _003394133 272 5 in in ADP _003394133 272 6 society society NOUN _003394133 272 7 and and CCONJ _003394133 272 8 adapts adapt VERB _003394133 272 9 herself herself PRON _003394133 272 10 to to ADP _003394133 272 11 it it PRON _003394133 272 12 , , PUNCT _003394133 272 13 conforming conform VERB _003394133 272 14 herself herself PRON _003394133 272 15 to to ADP _003394133 272 16 law law NOUN _003394133 272 17 and and CCONJ _003394133 272 18 convention convention NOUN _003394133 272 19 . . PUNCT _003394133 273 1 she she PRON _003394133 273 2 faces face VERB _003394133 273 3 a a DET _003394133 273 4 reality reality NOUN _003394133 273 5 devoid devoid ADJ _003394133 273 6 of of ADP _003394133 273 7 fairies fairy NOUN _003394133 273 8 and and CCONJ _003394133 273 9 fancies fancy NOUN _003394133 273 10 she she PRON _003394133 273 11 is be AUX _003394133 273 12 willing willing ADJ _003394133 273 13 and and CCONJ _003394133 273 14 able able ADJ _003394133 273 15 to to PART _003394133 273 16 cooperate cooperate VERB _003394133 273 17 in in ADP _003394133 273 18 the the DET _003394133 273 19 economic economic ADJ _003394133 273 20 role role NOUN _003394133 273 21 of of ADP _003394133 273 22 life life NOUN _003394133 273 23 , , PUNCT _003394133 273 24 and and CCONJ _003394133 273 25 to to PART _003394133 273 26 be be AUX _003394133 273 27 a a DET _003394133 273 28 homemaker homemaker NOUN _003394133 273 29 . . PUNCT _003394133 274 1 she she PRON _003394133 274 2 does do AUX _003394133 274 3 not not PART _003394133 274 4 expect expect VERB _003394133 274 5 something something PRON _003394133 274 6 for for ADP _003394133 274 7 nothing nothing PRON _003394133 274 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 274 9 or or CCONJ _003394133 274 10 believe believe VERB _003394133 274 11 that that SCONJ _003394133 274 12 the the DET _003394133 274 13 world world NOUN _003394133 274 14 owes owe VERB _003394133 274 15 her she PRON _003394133 274 16 a a DET _003394133 274 17 living living NOUN _003394133 274 18 — — PUNCT _003394133 274 19 o o NOUN _003394133 274 20 r r NOUN _003394133 274 21 that that PRON _003394133 274 22 her her PRON _003394133 274 23 husband husband NOUN _003394133 274 24 will will AUX _003394133 274 25 provide provide VERB _003394133 274 26 it it PRON _003394133 274 27 without without ADP _003394133 274 28 her her PRON _003394133 274 29 help help NOUN _003394133 274 30 . . PUNCT _003394133 275 1 she she PRON _003394133 275 2 is be AUX _003394133 275 3 reasonably reasonably ADV _003394133 275 4 independent independent ADJ _003394133 275 5 of of ADP _003394133 275 6 her her PRON _003394133 275 7 parents parent NOUN _003394133 275 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 275 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 275 10 weaned wean VERB _003394133 275 11 from from ADP _003394133 275 12 pouting pouting NOUN _003394133 275 13 and and CCONJ _003394133 275 14 tantrums tantrum NOUN _003394133 275 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 276 1 playing play VERB _003394133 276 2 house house NOUN _003394133 276 3 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 277 1 the the DET _003394133 277 2 earlier early ADJ _003394133 277 3 a a DET _003394133 277 4 girl girl NOUN _003394133 277 5 marries marry VERB _003394133 277 6 the the DET _003394133 277 7 more more ADV _003394133 277 8 likely likely ADJ _003394133 277 9 it it PRON _003394133 277 10 is be AUX _003394133 277 11 that that PRON _003394133 277 12 sex sex NOUN _003394133 277 13 and and CCONJ _003394133 277 14 physical physical ADJ _003394133 277 15 attraction attraction NOUN _003394133 277 16 have have AUX _003394133 277 17 swept sweep VERB _003394133 277 18 her she PRON _003394133 277 19 off off ADP _003394133 277 20 her her PRON _003394133 277 21 infantile infantile ADJ _003394133 277 22 feet foot NOUN _003394133 277 23 , , PUNCT _003394133 277 24 to to PART _003394133 277 25 suspend suspend VERB _003394133 277 26 her she PRON _003394133 277 27 perilously perilously ADV _003394133 277 28 above above ADP _003394133 277 29 the the DET _003394133 277 30 jagged jagged ADJ _003394133 277 31 rocks rock NOUN _003394133 277 32 of of ADP _003394133 277 33 reality reality NOUN _003394133 277 34 ! ! PUNCT _003394133 278 1 she she PRON _003394133 278 2 has have AUX _003394133 278 3 hardly hardly ADV _003394133 278 4 had have VERB _003394133 278 5 time time NOUN _003394133 278 6 to to PART _003394133 278 7 make make VERB _003394133 278 8 careful careful ADJ _003394133 278 9 choice choice NOUN _003394133 278 10 of of ADP _003394133 278 11 mate mate NOUN _003394133 278 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 279 1 she she PRON _003394133 279 2 may may AUX _003394133 279 3 have have AUX _003394133 279 4 simply simply ADV _003394133 279 5 launched launch VERB _003394133 279 6 herself herself PRON _003394133 279 7 to to ADP _003394133 279 8 the the DET _003394133 279 9 first first ADJ _003394133 279 10 overwhelming overwhelming ADJ _003394133 279 11 surge surge NOUN _003394133 279 12 of of ADP _003394133 279 13 romance romance NOUN _003394133 279 14 . . PUNCT _003394133 280 1 the the DET _003394133 280 2 true true ADJ _003394133 280 3 object object NOUN _003394133 280 4 of of ADP _003394133 280 5 her her PRON _003394133 280 6 love love NOUN _003394133 280 7 may may AUX _003394133 280 8 well well ADV _003394133 280 9 be be AUX _003394133 280 10 love love NOUN _003394133 280 11 itself itself PRON _003394133 280 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 281 1 if if SCONJ _003394133 281 2 a a DET _003394133 281 3 girl girl NOUN _003394133 281 4 marries marry VERB _003394133 281 5 too too ADV _003394133 281 6 early early ADV _003394133 281 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 281 8 her her PRON _003394133 281 9 only only ADJ _003394133 281 10 readiness readiness NOUN _003394133 281 11 to to PART _003394133 281 12 bear bear VERB _003394133 281 13 children child NOUN _003394133 281 14 may may AUX _003394133 281 15 be be AUX _003394133 281 16 biological biological ADJ _003394133 281 17 . . PUNCT _003394133 282 1 emotionally emotionally ADV _003394133 282 2 her her PRON _003394133 282 3 child child NOUN _003394133 282 4 replaces replace VERB _003394133 282 5 her her PRON _003394133 282 6 doll doll NOUN _003394133 282 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 283 1 as as ADP _003394133 283 2 a a DET _003394133 283 3 homemaker homemaker NOUN _003394133 283 4 she she PRON _003394133 283 5 is be AUX _003394133 283 6 still still ADV _003394133 283 7 playing play VERB _003394133 283 8 house house NOUN _003394133 283 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 284 1 and and CCONJ _003394133 284 2 the the DET _003394133 284 3 callow callow ADJ _003394133 284 4 youth youth NOUN _003394133 284 5 who who PRON _003394133 284 6 shares share VERB _003394133 284 7 her her PRON _003394133 284 8 kindergarten kindergarten NOUN _003394133 284 9 may may AUX _003394133 284 10 well well ADV _003394133 284 11 blanch blanch VERB _003394133 284 12 and and CCONJ _003394133 284 13 falter falter VERB _003394133 284 14 before before ADP _003394133 284 15 the the DET _003394133 284 16 sudden sudden ADJ _003394133 284 17 realities reality NOUN _003394133 284 18 of of ADP _003394133 284 19 rent rent NOUN _003394133 284 20 and and CCONJ _003394133 284 21 grocery grocery NOUN _003394133 284 22 bills bill NOUN _003394133 284 23 and and CCONJ _003394133 284 24 obstetric obstetric ADJ _003394133 284 25 fees fee NOUN _003394133 284 26 . . PUNCT _003394133 285 1 the the DET _003394133 285 2 demands demand NOUN _003394133 285 3 of of ADP _003394133 285 4 modern modern ADJ _003394133 285 5 society society NOUN _003394133 285 6 are be AUX _003394133 285 7 complex complex ADJ _003394133 285 8 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 285 9 but but CCONJ _003394133 285 10 they they PRON _003394133 285 11 can can AUX _003394133 285 12 not not PART _003394133 285 13 be be AUX _003394133 285 14 ignored ignore VERB _003394133 285 15 or or CCONJ _003394133 285 16 flaunted flaunt VERB _003394133 285 17 . . PUNCT _003394133 286 1 are be AUX _003394133 286 2 youngsters youngster NOUN _003394133 286 3 able able ADJ _003394133 286 4 to to PART _003394133 286 5 m m VERB _003394133 286 6 a a DET _003394133 286 7 i i NOUN _003394133 286 8 n n NOUN _003394133 286 9 t t X _003394133 286 10 a a DET _003394133 286 11 i i NOUN _003394133 286 12 n n NOUN _003394133 286 13 acceptable acceptable ADJ _003394133 286 14 standards standard NOUN _003394133 286 15 of of ADP _003394133 286 16 living living NOUN _003394133 286 17 , , PUNCT _003394133 286 18 provide provide VERB _003394133 286 19 education education NOUN _003394133 286 20 and and CCONJ _003394133 286 21 opportunities opportunity NOUN _003394133 286 22 for for ADP _003394133 286 23 children child NOUN _003394133 286 24 , , PUNCT _003394133 286 25 and and CCONJ _003394133 286 26 avoid avoid VERB _003394133 286 27 despair despair NOUN _003394133 286 28 of of ADP _003394133 286 29 future future ADJ _003394133 286 30 security security NOUN _003394133 286 31 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 287 1 youngsters youngster NOUN _003394133 287 2 are be AUX _003394133 287 3 easily easily ADV _003394133 287 4 adaptable adaptable ADJ _003394133 287 5 . . PUNCT _003394133 288 1 since since SCONJ _003394133 288 2 they they PRON _003394133 288 3 are be AUX _003394133 288 4 not not PART _003394133 288 5 yet yet ADV _003394133 288 6 grown grow VERB _003394133 288 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 288 8 they they PRON _003394133 288 9 may may AUX _003394133 288 10 grow grow VERB _003394133 288 11 together together ADV _003394133 288 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 289 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 289 2 they they PRON _003394133 289 3 may may AUX _003394133 289 4 also also ADV _003394133 289 5 grow grow VERB _003394133 289 6 apart apart ADV _003394133 289 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 290 1 later later ADV _003394133 290 2 regrets regret VERB _003394133 290 3 it it PRON _003394133 290 4 sounds sound VERB _003394133 290 5 slightly slightly ADV _003394133 290 6 pagan pagan ADJ _003394133 290 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 290 8 but but CCONJ _003394133 290 9 emotionally emotionally ADV _003394133 290 10 the the DET _003394133 290 11 youngster youngster NOUN _003394133 290 12 is be AUX _003394133 290 13 17 17 NUM _003394133 290 14 not not PART _003394133 290 15 monogamous monogamous ADJ _003394133 290 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 291 1 maturity maturity NOUN _003394133 291 2 brings bring VERB _003394133 291 3 constancy constancy NOUN _003394133 291 4 , , PUNCT _003394133 291 5 fidelity fidelity NOUN _003394133 291 6 and and CCONJ _003394133 291 7 stability stability NOUN _003394133 291 8 . . PUNCT _003394133 292 1 too too ADV _003394133 292 2 early early ADJ _003394133 292 3 marriages marriage NOUN _003394133 292 4 provide provide VERB _003394133 292 5 fertile fertile ADJ _003394133 292 6 opportunity opportunity NOUN _003394133 292 7 for for ADP _003394133 292 8 later later ADV _003394133 292 9 regrets regret NOUN _003394133 292 10 and and CCONJ _003394133 292 11 recriminations recrimination NOUN _003394133 292 12 over over ADP _003394133 292 13 lost lose VERB _003394133 292 14 opportunities opportunity NOUN _003394133 292 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 292 16 sacrificed sacrifice VERB _003394133 292 17 education education NOUN _003394133 292 18 , , PUNCT _003394133 292 19 and and CCONJ _003394133 292 20 restricted restrict VERB _003394133 292 21 horizons horizon NOUN _003394133 292 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 293 1 postponing postpone VERB _003394133 293 2 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 293 3 proposes propose VERB _003394133 293 4 problems problem NOUN _003394133 293 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 293 6 certainly certainly ADV _003394133 293 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 294 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 294 2 any any DET _003394133 294 3 goal goal NOUN _003394133 294 4 worth worth ADJ _003394133 294 5 achieving achieve VERB _003394133 294 6 requires require VERB _003394133 294 7 time time NOUN _003394133 294 8 and and CCONJ _003394133 294 9 planning planning NOUN _003394133 294 10 and and CCONJ _003394133 294 11 sacrifice sacrifice NOUN _003394133 294 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 295 1 to to PART _003394133 295 2 advocate advocate VERB _003394133 295 3 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 295 4 as as ADP _003394133 295 5 an an DET _003394133 295 6 easy easy ADJ _003394133 295 7 solution solution NOUN _003394133 295 8 of of ADP _003394133 295 9 juvenile juvenile ADJ _003394133 295 10 temptations temptation NOUN _003394133 295 11 is be AUX _003394133 295 12 a a DET _003394133 295 13 myopic myopic ADJ _003394133 295 14 reversal reversal NOUN _003394133 295 15 of of ADP _003394133 295 16 values value NOUN _003394133 295 17 , , PUNCT _003394133 295 18 substituting substitute VERB _003394133 295 19 permanent permanent ADJ _003394133 295 20 problems problem NOUN _003394133 295 21 for for ADP _003394133 295 22 temporary temporary ADJ _003394133 295 23 ones one NOUN _003394133 295 24 , , PUNCT _003394133 295 25 and and CCONJ _003394133 295 26 dragging drag VERB _003394133 295 27 children child NOUN _003394133 295 28 into into ADP _003394133 295 29 the the DET _003394133 295 30 midst midst NOUN _003394133 295 31 of of ADP _003394133 295 32 the the DET _003394133 295 33 turmoil turmoil NOUN _003394133 295 34 . . PUNCT _003394133 296 1 at at ADP _003394133 296 2 best well ADV _003394133 296 3 , , PUNCT _003394133 296 4 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 296 5 may may AUX _003394133 296 6 defer defer VERB _003394133 296 7 the the DET _003394133 296 8 temptations temptation NOUN _003394133 296 9 until until SCONJ _003394133 296 10 the the DET _003394133 296 11 second second ADJ _003394133 296 12 or or CCONJ _003394133 296 13 third third ADJ _003394133 296 14 child child NOUN _003394133 296 15 is be AUX _003394133 296 16 born bear VERB _003394133 296 17 into into ADP _003394133 296 18 stern stern ADJ _003394133 296 19 economic economic ADJ _003394133 296 20 exigency exigency NOUN _003394133 296 21 . . PUNCT _003394133 297 1 fortitude fortitude VERB _003394133 297 2 vital vital ADJ _003394133 297 3 adolescent adolescent ADJ _003394133 297 4 problems problem NOUN _003394133 297 5 must must AUX _003394133 297 6 be be AUX _003394133 297 7 faced face VERB _003394133 297 8 with with ADP _003394133 297 9 such such ADJ _003394133 297 10 fortitude fortitude NOUN _003394133 297 11 as as SCONJ _003394133 297 12 youth youth NOUN _003394133 297 13 may may AUX _003394133 297 14 receive receive VERB _003394133 297 15 from from ADP _003394133 297 16 the the DET _003394133 297 17 grace grace NOUN _003394133 297 18 of of ADP _003394133 297 19 god god PROPN _003394133 297 20 . . PUNCT _003394133 298 1 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 298 2 is be AUX _003394133 298 3 not not PART _003394133 298 4 a a DET _003394133 298 5 fire fire NOUN _003394133 298 6 escape escape NOUN _003394133 298 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 299 1 it it PRON _003394133 299 2 is be AUX _003394133 299 3 for for ADP _003394133 299 4 life life NOUN _003394133 299 5 , , PUNCT _003394133 299 6 and and CCONJ _003394133 299 7 for for ADP _003394133 299 8 future future ADJ _003394133 299 9 generations generation NOUN _003394133 299 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 299 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 299 12 it it PRON _003394133 299 13 must must AUX _003394133 299 14 be be AUX _003394133 299 15 planned plan VERB _003394133 299 16 as as ADP _003394133 299 17 such such ADJ _003394133 299 18 , , PUNCT _003394133 299 19 long long ADJ _003394133 299 20 and and CCONJ _003394133 299 21 prayerfully prayerfully ADV _003394133 299 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 300 1 we we PRON _003394133 300 2 all all PRON _003394133 300 3 like like VERB _003394133 300 4 to to PART _003394133 300 5 cite cite VERB _003394133 300 6 our our PRON _003394133 300 7 own own ADJ _003394133 300 8 experience experience NOUN _003394133 300 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 301 1 my my PRON _003394133 301 2 years year NOUN _003394133 301 3 as as ADP _003394133 301 4 judge judge NOUN _003394133 301 5 of of ADP _003394133 301 6 the the DET _003394133 301 7 matrimonial matrimonial ADJ _003394133 301 8 court court NOUN _003394133 301 9 have have AUX _003394133 301 10 provided provide VERB _003394133 301 11 me i PRON _003394133 301 12 no no DET _003394133 301 13 ready ready ADJ _003394133 301 14 statistics statistic NOUN _003394133 301 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 301 16 but but CCONJ _003394133 301 17 constant constant ADJ _003394133 301 18 observation observation NOUN _003394133 301 19 has have AUX _003394133 301 20 produced produce VERB _003394133 301 21 a a DET _003394133 301 22 firm firm ADJ _003394133 301 23 conviction conviction NOUN _003394133 301 24 that that SCONJ _003394133 301 25 the the DET _003394133 301 26 earliest early ADJ _003394133 301 27 marriages marriage NOUN _003394133 301 28 break break VERB _003394133 301 29 up up ADP _003394133 301 30 the the DET _003394133 301 31 earliest early ADJ _003394133 301 32 . . PUNCT _003394133 302 1 if if SCONJ _003394133 302 2 no no DET _003394133 302 3 girls girl NOUN _003394133 302 4 married marry VERB _003394133 302 5 at at ADP _003394133 302 6 16 16 NUM _003394133 302 7 or or CCONJ _003394133 302 8 17 17 NUM _003394133 302 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 302 10 our our PRON _003394133 302 11 total total NOUN _003394133 302 12 of of ADP _003394133 302 13 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 302 14 cases case NOUN _003394133 302 15 would would AUX _003394133 302 16 be be AUX _003394133 302 17 appreciably appreciably ADV _003394133 302 18 lowered lower VERB _003394133 302 19 . . PUNCT _003394133 303 1 however however ADV _003394133 303 2 — — PUNCT _003394133 303 3 do do AUX _003394133 303 4 n't not PART _003394133 303 5 wait wait VERB _003394133 303 6 too too ADV _003394133 303 7 long long ADJ _003394133 303 8 to to PART _003394133 303 9 marry marry VERB _003394133 303 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 304 1 after after ADP _003394133 304 2 your your PRON _003394133 304 3 early early ADJ _003394133 304 4 twenties twenty NOUN _003394133 304 5 your your PRON _003394133 304 6 field field NOUN _003394133 304 7 of of ADP _003394133 304 8 choice choice NOUN _003394133 304 9 narrows narrow NOUN _003394133 304 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 304 11 you you PRON _003394133 304 12 begin begin VERB _003394133 304 13 to to PART _003394133 304 14 get get AUX _003394133 304 15 set set VERB _003394133 304 16 in in ADP _003394133 304 17 your your PRON _003394133 304 18 solitary solitary ADJ _003394133 304 19 ways way NOUN _003394133 304 20 , , PUNCT _003394133 304 21 and and CCONJ _003394133 304 22 you you PRON _003394133 304 23 tend tend VERB _003394133 304 24 to to PART _003394133 304 25 develop develop VERB _003394133 304 26 the the DET _003394133 304 27 attitude attitude NOUN _003394133 304 28 , , PUNCT _003394133 304 29 temperament temperament NOUN _003394133 304 30 and and CCONJ _003394133 304 31 status status NOUN _003394133 304 32 of of ADP _003394133 304 33 an an DET _003394133 304 34 old old ADJ _003394133 304 35 maid maid NOUN _003394133 304 36 . . PUNCT _003394133 305 1 education education NOUN _003394133 305 2 if if SCONJ _003394133 305 3 you you PRON _003394133 305 4 have have VERB _003394133 305 5 the the DET _003394133 305 6 opportunity opportunity NOUN _003394133 305 7 of of ADP _003394133 305 8 college college NOUN _003394133 305 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 305 10 plan plan VERB _003394133 305 11 to to PART _003394133 305 12 finish finish VERB _003394133 305 13 your your PRON _003394133 305 14 studies study NOUN _003394133 305 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 305 16 by by ADP _003394133 305 17 all all DET _003394133 305 18 means mean NOUN _003394133 305 19 . . PUNCT _003394133 306 1 it it PRON _003394133 306 2 may may AUX _003394133 306 3 delay delay VERB _003394133 306 4 your your PRON _003394133 306 5 career career NOUN _003394133 306 6 as as ADP _003394133 306 7 wife wife NOUN _003394133 306 8 and and CCONJ _003394133 306 9 mother mother NOUN _003394133 306 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 306 11 but but CCONJ _003394133 306 12 it it PRON _003394133 306 13 will will AUX _003394133 306 14 greatly greatly ADV _003394133 306 15 enhance enhance VERB _003394133 306 16 your your PRON _003394133 306 17 proficiency proficiency NOUN _003394133 306 18 in in ADP _003394133 306 19 that that DET _003394133 306 20 career career NOUN _003394133 306 21 , , PUNCT _003394133 306 22 which which PRON _003394133 306 23 seeks seek VERB _003394133 306 24 happiness happiness NOUN _003394133 306 25 for for ADP _003394133 306 26 life life NOUN _003394133 306 27 and and CCONJ _003394133 306 28 for for ADP _003394133 306 29 eternity eternity NOUN _003394133 306 30 , , PUNCT _003394133 306 31 for for ADP _003394133 306 32 yourself yourself PRON _003394133 306 33 and and CCONJ _003394133 306 34 your your PRON _003394133 306 35 husband husband NOUN _003394133 306 36 and and CCONJ _003394133 306 37 your your PRON _003394133 306 38 children child NOUN _003394133 306 39 . . PUNCT _003394133 307 1 18 18 NUM _003394133 307 2 q. q. NOUN _003394133 307 3 is be AUX _003394133 307 4 it it PRON _003394133 307 5 a a DET _003394133 307 6 sin sin NOUN _003394133 307 7 for for SCONJ _003394133 307 8 a a DET _003394133 307 9 woman woman NOUN _003394133 307 10 to to PART _003394133 307 11 put put VERB _003394133 307 12 off off ADP _003394133 307 13 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 307 14 so so SCONJ _003394133 307 15 that that SCONJ _003394133 307 16 she she PRON _003394133 307 17 will will AUX _003394133 307 18 be be AUX _003394133 307 19 up up ADV _003394133 307 20 in in ADP _003394133 307 21 years year NOUN _003394133 307 22 and and CCONJ _003394133 307 23 not not PART _003394133 307 24 able able ADJ _003394133 307 25 to to PART _003394133 307 26 bear bear VERB _003394133 307 27 children child NOUN _003394133 307 28 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 308 1 a. a. NOUN _003394133 308 2 there there PRON _003394133 308 3 might might AUX _003394133 308 4 be be AUX _003394133 308 5 some some DET _003394133 308 6 sin sin NOUN _003394133 308 7 of of ADP _003394133 308 8 selfishness selfishness NOUN _003394133 308 9 or or CCONJ _003394133 308 10 shirking shirk VERB _003394133 308 11 involved involve VERB _003394133 308 12 , , PUNCT _003394133 308 13 but but CCONJ _003394133 308 14 it it PRON _003394133 308 15 is be AUX _003394133 308 16 a a DET _003394133 308 17 bit bit NOUN _003394133 308 18 hard hard ADJ _003394133 308 19 to to PART _003394133 308 20 pin pin VERB _003394133 308 21 it it PRON _003394133 308 22 down down ADP _003394133 308 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 309 1 if if SCONJ _003394133 309 2 she she PRON _003394133 309 3 leads lead VERB _003394133 309 4 a a DET _003394133 309 5 good good ADJ _003394133 309 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 309 7 virtuous virtuous ADJ _003394133 309 8 life life NOUN _003394133 309 9 up up ADP _003394133 309 10 to to ADP _003394133 309 11 the the DET _003394133 309 12 time time NOUN _003394133 309 13 of of ADP _003394133 309 14 her her PRON _003394133 309 15 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 309 16 , , PUNCT _003394133 309 17 she she PRON _003394133 309 18 can can AUX _003394133 309 19 hardly hardly ADV _003394133 309 20 be be AUX _003394133 309 21 accused accuse VERB _003394133 309 22 of of ADP _003394133 309 23 serious serious ADJ _003394133 309 24 sin sin NOUN _003394133 309 25 . . PUNCT _003394133 310 1 maybe maybe ADV _003394133 310 2 it it PRON _003394133 310 3 is be AUX _003394133 310 4 n't not PART _003394133 310 5 a a DET _003394133 310 6 choice choice NOUN _003394133 310 7 with with ADP _003394133 310 8 her she PRON _003394133 310 9 anyway anyway ADV _003394133 310 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 311 1 maybe maybe ADV _003394133 311 2 she she PRON _003394133 311 3 just just ADV _003394133 311 4 could could AUX _003394133 311 5 n't not PART _003394133 311 6 hook hook VERB _003394133 311 7 her her PRON _003394133 311 8 man man NOUN _003394133 311 9 sooner soon ADV _003394133 311 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 312 1 maybe maybe ADV _003394133 312 2 she she PRON _003394133 312 3 has have VERB _003394133 312 4 good good ADJ _003394133 312 5 reason reason NOUN _003394133 312 6 for for ADP _003394133 312 7 not not PART _003394133 312 8 having have VERB _003394133 312 9 children child NOUN _003394133 312 10 : : PUNCT _003394133 312 11 physical physical ADJ _003394133 312 12 difficulties difficulty NOUN _003394133 312 13 , , PUNCT _003394133 312 14 hereditary hereditary ADJ _003394133 312 15 defects defect NOUN _003394133 312 16 , , PUNCT _003394133 312 17 or or CCONJ _003394133 312 18 the the DET _003394133 312 19 fear fear NOUN _003394133 312 20 of of ADP _003394133 312 21 not not PART _003394133 312 22 being be AUX _003394133 312 23 able able ADJ _003394133 312 24 to to PART _003394133 312 25 raise raise VERB _003394133 312 26 children child NOUN _003394133 312 27 properly properly ADV _003394133 312 28 . . PUNCT _003394133 313 1 if if SCONJ _003394133 313 2 she she PRON _003394133 313 3 has have VERB _003394133 313 4 no no DET _003394133 313 5 good good ADJ _003394133 313 6 reason reason NOUN _003394133 313 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 313 8 she she PRON _003394133 313 9 is be AUX _003394133 313 10 very very ADV _003394133 313 11 unwise unwise ADJ _003394133 313 12 to to PART _003394133 313 13 thus thus ADV _003394133 313 14 deprive deprive VERB _003394133 313 15 herself herself PRON _003394133 313 16 of of ADP _003394133 313 17 woman woman NOUN _003394133 313 18 's 's PART _003394133 313 19 greatest great ADJ _003394133 313 20 privileges privilege NOUN _003394133 313 21 : : PUNCT _003394133 313 22 the the DET _003394133 313 23 hopeful hopeful ADJ _003394133 313 24 , , PUNCT _003394133 313 25 youthful youthful ADJ _003394133 313 26 love love NOUN _003394133 313 27 of of ADP _003394133 313 28 an an DET _003394133 313 29 ardent ardent ADJ _003394133 313 30 husband husband NOUN _003394133 313 31 , , PUNCT _003394133 313 32 the the DET _003394133 313 33 joys joy NOUN _003394133 313 34 of of ADP _003394133 313 35 married married ADJ _003394133 313 36 life life NOUN _003394133 313 37 while while SCONJ _003394133 313 38 they they PRON _003394133 313 39 still still ADV _003394133 313 40 have have VERB _003394133 313 41 meaning meaning NOUN _003394133 313 42 and and CCONJ _003394133 313 43 ecstasy ecstasy NOUN _003394133 313 44 in in ADP _003394133 313 45 them they PRON _003394133 313 46 , , PUNCT _003394133 313 47 the the DET _003394133 313 48 souls soul NOUN _003394133 313 49 of of ADP _003394133 313 50 her her PRON _003394133 313 51 own own ADJ _003394133 313 52 children child NOUN _003394133 313 53 whom whom PRON _003394133 313 54 she she PRON _003394133 313 55 would would AUX _003394133 313 56 help help VERB _003394133 313 57 god god PROPN _003394133 313 58 create create VERB _003394133 313 59 for for ADP _003394133 313 60 eternity eternity NOUN _003394133 313 61 , , PUNCT _003394133 313 62 and and CCONJ _003394133 313 63 the the DET _003394133 313 64 security security NOUN _003394133 313 65 of of ADP _003394133 313 66 their their PRON _003394133 313 67 filial filial ADJ _003394133 313 68 love love NOUN _003394133 313 69 in in ADP _003394133 313 70 her her PRON _003394133 313 71 old old ADJ _003394133 313 72 age age NOUN _003394133 313 73 . . PUNCT _003394133 314 1 in in ADP _003394133 314 2 place place NOUN _003394133 314 3 of of ADP _003394133 314 4 these these DET _003394133 314 5 genuine genuine ADJ _003394133 314 6 joys joy NOUN _003394133 314 7 she she PRON _003394133 314 8 has have AUX _003394133 314 9 courted court VERB _003394133 314 10 frustration frustration NOUN _003394133 314 11 through through ADP _003394133 314 12 her her PRON _003394133 314 13 fruitful fruitful ADJ _003394133 314 14 years year NOUN _003394133 314 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 314 16 developed develop VERB _003394133 314 17 her her PRON _003394133 314 18 selfishness selfishness NOUN _003394133 314 19 and and CCONJ _003394133 314 20 artificial artificial ADJ _003394133 314 21 self self NOUN _003394133 314 22 - - PUNCT _003394133 314 23 sufficiency sufficiency NOUN _003394133 314 24 , , PUNCT _003394133 314 25 run run VERB _003394133 314 26 the the DET _003394133 314 27 danger danger NOUN _003394133 314 28 of of ADP _003394133 314 29 being be AUX _003394133 314 30 left leave VERB _003394133 314 31 to to ADP _003394133 314 32 a a DET _003394133 314 33 lonely lonely ADJ _003394133 314 34 and and CCONJ _003394133 314 35 senile senile ADJ _003394133 314 36 maidenhood maidenhood NOUN _003394133 314 37 , , PUNCT _003394133 314 38 and and CCONJ _003394133 314 39 chosen choose VERB _003394133 314 40 too too ADV _003394133 314 41 late late ADV _003394133 314 42 for for ADP _003394133 314 43 complete complete ADJ _003394133 314 44 adjustment adjustment NOUN _003394133 314 45 the the DET _003394133 314 46 flaccid flaccid ADJ _003394133 314 47 companionship companionship NOUN _003394133 314 48 of of ADP _003394133 314 49 some some DET _003394133 314 50 graying gray VERB _003394133 314 51 , , PUNCT _003394133 314 52 arthritic arthritic ADJ _003394133 314 53 bachelor bachelor NOUN _003394133 314 54 . . PUNCT _003394133 315 1 i i PRON _003394133 315 2 am be AUX _003394133 315 3 not not PART _003394133 315 4 even even ADV _003394133 315 5 considering consider VERB _003394133 315 6 the the DET _003394133 315 7 possibility possibility NOUN _003394133 315 8 that that SCONJ _003394133 315 9 she she PRON _003394133 315 10 has have AUX _003394133 315 11 been be AUX _003394133 315 12 engaged engage VERB _003394133 315 13 , , PUNCT _003394133 315 14 or or CCONJ _003394133 315 15 stringing string VERB _003394133 315 16 along along ADP _003394133 315 17 some some DET _003394133 315 18 doddering doddering ADJ _003394133 315 19 dolt dolt NOUN _003394133 315 20 all all DET _003394133 315 21 her her PRON _003394133 315 22 youthful youthful ADJ _003394133 315 23 years year NOUN _003394133 315 24 . . PUNCT _003394133 316 1 that that DET _003394133 316 2 situation situation NOUN _003394133 316 3 offers offer VERB _003394133 316 4 too too ADV _003394133 316 5 many many ADJ _003394133 316 6 possibilities possibility NOUN _003394133 316 7 of of ADP _003394133 316 8 sins sin NOUN _003394133 316 9 of of ADP _003394133 316 10 various various ADJ _003394133 316 11 kinds kind NOUN _003394133 316 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 317 1 q. q. PROPN _003394133 317 2 do do AUX _003394133 317 3 you you PRON _003394133 317 4 think think VERB _003394133 317 5 a a DET _003394133 317 6 girl girl NOUN _003394133 317 7 of of ADP _003394133 317 8 18 18 NUM _003394133 317 9 should should AUX _003394133 317 10 marry marry VERB _003394133 317 11 a a DET _003394133 317 12 college college NOUN _003394133 317 13 boy boy NOUN _003394133 317 14 who who PRON _003394133 317 15 is be AUX _003394133 317 16 not not PART _003394133 317 17 working work VERB _003394133 317 18 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 318 1 they they PRON _003394133 318 2 would would AUX _003394133 318 3 not not PART _003394133 318 4 be be AUX _003394133 318 5 able able ADJ _003394133 318 6 to to PART _003394133 318 7 have have VERB _003394133 318 8 children child NOUN _003394133 318 9 for for ADP _003394133 318 10 three three NUM _003394133 318 11 years year NOUN _003394133 318 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 319 1 a. a. PROPN _003394133 319 2 permit permit VERB _003394133 319 3 me i PRON _003394133 319 4 to to PART _003394133 319 5 phrase phrase VERB _003394133 319 6 your your PRON _003394133 319 7 question question NOUN _003394133 319 8 differently differently ADV _003394133 319 9 : : PUNCT _003394133 319 10 do do AUX _003394133 319 11 i i PRON _003394133 319 12 think think VERB _003394133 319 13 that that SCONJ _003394133 319 14 a a DET _003394133 319 15 girl girl NOUN _003394133 319 16 of of ADP _003394133 319 17 18 18 NUM _003394133 319 18 should should AUX _003394133 319 19 agree agree VERB _003394133 319 20 to to PART _003394133 319 21 live live VERB _003394133 319 22 in in ADP _003394133 319 23 sin sin NOUN _003394133 319 24 with with ADP _003394133 319 25 a a DET _003394133 319 26 boy boy NOUN _003394133 319 27 for for ADP _003394133 319 28 three three NUM _003394133 319 29 years year NOUN _003394133 319 30 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 320 1 the the DET _003394133 320 2 answer answer NOUN _003394133 320 3 is be AUX _003394133 320 4 no no DET _003394133 320 5 . . NOUN _003394133 320 6 19 19 NUM _003394133 320 7 preparation preparation NOUN _003394133 320 8 for for ADP _003394133 320 9 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 320 10 ... ... PUNCT _003394133 321 1 p p NOUN _003394133 321 2 a a DET _003394133 321 3 p p NOUN _003394133 321 4 e e NOUN _003394133 321 5 r r NOUN _003394133 321 6 s s NOUN _003394133 321 7 from from ADP _003394133 321 8 the the DET _003394133 321 9 c c NOUN _003394133 321 10 h h NOUN _003394133 321 11 a a X _003394133 321 12 n n NOUN _003394133 321 13 c c X _003394133 321 14 e e X _003394133 321 15 r r PROPN _003394133 321 16 y y PROPN _003394133 321 17 office office NOUN _003394133 321 18 — — PUNCT _003394133 321 19 when when SCONJ _003394133 321 20 to to PART _003394133 321 21 consult consult VERB _003394133 321 22 the the DET _003394133 321 23 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 321 24 — — PUNCT _003394133 321 25 c c PROPN _003394133 321 26 h h X _003394133 322 1 o o INTJ _003394133 322 2 i i PRON _003394133 322 3 c c VERB _003394133 322 4 e e NOUN _003394133 322 5 of of ADP _003394133 322 6 church church NOUN _003394133 322 7 — — PUNCT _003394133 322 8 qualifications qualification NOUN _003394133 322 9 of of ADP _003394133 322 10 priest priest NOUN _003394133 322 11 to to PART _003394133 322 12 instruct instruct VERB _003394133 322 13 — — PUNCT _003394133 322 14 what what PRON _003394133 322 15 h h AUX _003394133 322 16 a a DET _003394133 322 17 s s X _003394133 322 18 to to PART _003394133 322 19 b b NOUN _003394133 322 20 e e NOUN _003394133 322 21 done do VERB _003394133 322 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 323 1 q. q. NOUN _003394133 324 1 how how SCONJ _003394133 324 2 long long ADV _003394133 324 3 does do AUX _003394133 324 4 it it PRON _003394133 324 5 take take VERB _003394133 324 6 to to PART _003394133 324 7 get get VERB _003394133 324 8 arrangements arrangement NOUN _003394133 324 9 completed complete VERB _003394133 324 10 for for ADP _003394133 324 11 a a DET _003394133 324 12 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 324 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 324 14 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 325 1 our our PRON _003394133 325 2 papers paper NOUN _003394133 325 3 have have AUX _003394133 325 4 n't not PART _003394133 325 5 come come VERB _003394133 325 6 back back ADV _003394133 325 7 from from ADP _003394133 325 8 the the DET _003394133 325 9 chancery chancery NOUN _003394133 325 10 office office NOUN _003394133 325 11 . . PUNCT _003394133 326 1 what what PRON _003394133 326 2 shall shall AUX _003394133 326 3 we we PRON _003394133 326 4 do do VERB _003394133 326 5 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 327 1 a. a. NOUN _003394133 327 2 our our PRON _003394133 327 3 diocesan diocesan ADJ _003394133 327 4 regulations regulation NOUN _003394133 327 5 instruct instruct VERB _003394133 327 6 those those DET _003394133 327 7 planning planning NOUN _003394133 327 8 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 327 9 to to PART _003394133 327 10 call call VERB _003394133 327 11 on on ADP _003394133 327 12 their their PRON _003394133 327 13 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 327 14 at at ADV _003394133 327 15 least least ADV _003394133 327 16 one one NUM _003394133 327 17 month month NOUN _003394133 327 18 before before ADP _003394133 327 19 the the DET _003394133 327 20 pro pro ADJ _003394133 327 21 - - ADJ _003394133 327 22 posed pose VERB _003394133 327 23 date date NOUN _003394133 327 24 of of ADP _003394133 327 25 the the DET _003394133 327 26 ceremony ceremony NOUN _003394133 327 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 328 1 in in ADP _003394133 328 2 catholic catholic ADJ _003394133 328 3 marriages marriage NOUN _003394133 328 4 the the DET _003394133 328 5 banns banns NOUN _003394133 328 6 must must AUX _003394133 328 7 be be AUX _003394133 328 8 published publish VERB _003394133 328 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 329 1 that that PRON _003394133 329 2 takes take VERB _003394133 329 3 three three NUM _003394133 329 4 weeks week NOUN _003394133 329 5 of of ADP _003394133 329 6 the the DET _003394133 329 7 month month NOUN _003394133 329 8 . . PUNCT _003394133 330 1 in in ADP _003394133 330 2 mixed mixed ADJ _003394133 330 3 marriages marriage NOUN _003394133 330 4 the the DET _003394133 330 5 non non ADJ _003394133 330 6 - - ADJ _003394133 330 7 catholic catholic ADJ _003394133 330 8 party party NOUN _003394133 330 9 must must AUX _003394133 330 10 take take VERB _003394133 330 11 six six NUM _003394133 330 12 instructions instruction NOUN _003394133 330 13 , , PUNCT _003394133 330 14 the the DET _003394133 330 15 promises promise NOUN _003394133 330 16 must must AUX _003394133 330 17 be be AUX _003394133 330 18 signed sign VERB _003394133 330 19 , , PUNCT _003394133 330 20 and and CCONJ _003394133 330 21 a a DET _003394133 330 22 dispensation dispensation NOUN _003394133 330 23 sought seek VERB _003394133 330 24 from from ADP _003394133 330 25 the the DET _003394133 330 26 bishop bishop NOUN _003394133 330 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 331 1 that that PRON _003394133 331 2 will will AUX _003394133 331 3 require require VERB _003394133 331 4 the the DET _003394133 331 5 whole whole ADJ _003394133 331 6 month month NOUN _003394133 331 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 332 1 no no DET _003394133 332 2 dispensation dispensation NOUN _003394133 332 3 should should AUX _003394133 332 4 be be AUX _003394133 332 5 taken take VERB _003394133 332 6 f f PROPN _003394133 332 7 o o X _003394133 332 8 r r NOUN _003394133 332 9 granted grant VERB _003394133 332 10 — — PUNCT _003394133 332 11 until until SCONJ _003394133 332 12 it it PRON _003394133 332 13 is be AUX _003394133 332 14 granted grant VERB _003394133 332 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 333 1 where where SCONJ _003394133 333 2 there there PRON _003394133 333 3 is be VERB _003394133 333 4 any any DET _003394133 333 5 impediment impediment NOUN _003394133 333 6 to to PART _003394133 333 7 marriage marriage VERB _003394133 333 8 no no DET _003394133 333 9 definite definite ADJ _003394133 333 10 plans plan NOUN _003394133 333 11 should should AUX _003394133 333 12 be be AUX _003394133 333 13 made make VERB _003394133 333 14 . . PUNCT _003394133 334 1 any any DET _003394133 334 2 arrangements arrangement NOUN _003394133 334 3 must must AUX _003394133 334 4 be be AUX _003394133 334 5 tentative tentative ADJ _003394133 334 6 — — PUNCT _003394133 334 7 contingent contingent NOUN _003394133 334 8 on on ADP _003394133 334 9 the the DET _003394133 334 10 dispensation dispensation NOUN _003394133 334 11 . . PUNCT _003394133 335 1 20 20 NUM _003394133 335 2 this this DET _003394133 335 3 one one NUM _003394133 335 4 month month NOUN _003394133 335 5 period period NOUN _003394133 335 6 is be AUX _003394133 335 7 required require VERB _003394133 335 8 for for ADP _003394133 335 9 marriages marriage NOUN _003394133 335 10 without without ADP _003394133 335 11 unusual unusual ADJ _003394133 335 12 complications complication NOUN _003394133 335 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 336 1 your your PRON _003394133 336 2 statement statement NOUN _003394133 336 3 that that SCONJ _003394133 336 4 your your PRON _003394133 336 5 papers paper NOUN _003394133 336 6 have have AUX _003394133 336 7 n't not PART _003394133 336 8 come come VERB _003394133 336 9 back back ADV _003394133 336 10 from from ADP _003394133 336 11 the the DET _003394133 336 12 chancery chancery NOUN _003394133 336 13 office office NOUN _003394133 336 14 makes make VERB _003394133 336 15 me i PRON _003394133 336 16 suspect suspect VERB _003394133 336 17 that that SCONJ _003394133 336 18 there there PRON _003394133 336 19 is be VERB _003394133 336 20 a a DET _003394133 336 21 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 336 22 case case NOUN _003394133 336 23 involved involve VERB _003394133 336 24 . . PUNCT _003394133 337 1 usually usually ADV _003394133 337 2 a a DET _003394133 337 3 dispensation dispensation NOUN _003394133 337 4 is be AUX _003394133 337 5 either either CCONJ _003394133 337 6 granted grant VERB _003394133 337 7 or or CCONJ _003394133 337 8 refused refuse VERB _003394133 337 9 within within ADP _003394133 337 10 a a DET _003394133 337 11 few few ADJ _003394133 337 12 days day NOUN _003394133 337 13 after after SCONJ _003394133 337 14 it it PRON _003394133 337 15 is be AUX _003394133 337 16 requested request VERB _003394133 337 17 . . PUNCT _003394133 338 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 338 2 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 338 3 cases case NOUN _003394133 338 4 ! ! PUNCT _003394133 339 1 they they PRON _003394133 339 2 may may AUX _003394133 339 3 take take VERB _003394133 339 4 years year NOUN _003394133 339 5 . . PUNCT _003394133 340 1 have have AUX _003394133 340 2 one one NUM _003394133 340 3 of of ADP _003394133 340 4 you you PRON _003394133 340 5 been be AUX _003394133 340 6 previously previously ADV _003394133 340 7 married marry VERB _003394133 340 8 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 341 1 then then ADV _003394133 341 2 you you PRON _003394133 341 3 should should AUX _003394133 341 4 be be AUX _003394133 341 5 making make VERB _003394133 341 6 no no DET _003394133 341 7 plans plan NOUN _003394133 341 8 whatsoever whatsoever ADV _003394133 341 9 for for ADP _003394133 341 10 your your PRON _003394133 341 11 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 341 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 342 1 on on ADP _003394133 342 2 all all DET _003394133 342 3 probability probability NOUN _003394133 342 4 you you PRON _003394133 342 5 can can AUX _003394133 342 6 never never ADV _003394133 342 7 marry marry VERB _003394133 342 8 . . PUNCT _003394133 343 1 remember remember VERB _003394133 343 2 , , PUNCT _003394133 343 3 that that SCONJ _003394133 343 4 first first ADJ _003394133 343 5 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 343 6 was be AUX _003394133 343 7 until until ADP _003394133 343 8 death death NOUN _003394133 343 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 344 1 " " PUNCT _003394133 344 2 oh oh INTJ _003394133 344 3 yes yes INTJ _003394133 344 4 , , PUNCT _003394133 344 5 but but CCONJ _003394133 344 6 that that SCONJ _003394133 344 7 first first ADJ _003394133 344 8 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 344 9 was be AUX _003394133 344 10 invalid invalid ADJ _003394133 344 11 , , PUNCT _003394133 344 12 " " PUNCT _003394133 344 13 i i PRON _003394133 344 14 seem seem VERB _003394133 344 15 to to PART _003394133 344 16 hear hear VERB _003394133 344 17 you you PRON _003394133 344 18 say say VERB _003394133 344 19 , , PUNCT _003394133 344 20 or or CCONJ _003394133 344 21 , , PUNCT _003394133 344 22 " " PUNCT _003394133 344 23 but but CCONJ _003394133 344 24 they they PRON _003394133 344 25 were be AUX _003394133 344 26 never never ADV _003394133 344 27 baptized baptize VERB _003394133 344 28 , , PUNCT _003394133 344 29 father father NOUN _003394133 344 30 . . PUNCT _003394133 344 31 " " PUNCT _003394133 345 1 all all ADV _003394133 345 2 right right ADV _003394133 345 3 , , PUNCT _003394133 345 4 maybe maybe ADV _003394133 345 5 there there PRON _003394133 345 6 is be VERB _003394133 345 7 an an DET _003394133 345 8 outside outside ADJ _003394133 345 9 chance chance NOUN _003394133 345 10 ! ! PUNCT _003394133 346 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 346 2 it it PRON _003394133 346 3 must must AUX _003394133 346 4 be be AUX _003394133 346 5 investigated investigate VERB _003394133 346 6 . . PUNCT _003394133 347 1 documents document NOUN _003394133 347 2 , , PUNCT _003394133 347 3 testimony testimony NOUN _003394133 347 4 , , PUNCT _003394133 347 5 and and CCONJ _003394133 347 6 various various ADJ _003394133 347 7 kinds kind NOUN _003394133 347 8 of of ADP _003394133 347 9 proof proof NOUN _003394133 347 10 must must AUX _003394133 347 11 be be AUX _003394133 347 12 obtained obtain VERB _003394133 347 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 348 1 people people NOUN _003394133 348 2 must must AUX _003394133 348 3 be be AUX _003394133 348 4 traced trace VERB _003394133 348 5 and and CCONJ _003394133 348 6 found find VERB _003394133 348 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 349 1 courts court NOUN _003394133 349 2 must must AUX _003394133 349 3 be be AUX _003394133 349 4 convened convene VERB _003394133 349 5 . . PUNCT _003394133 350 1 formalities formality NOUN _003394133 350 2 of of ADP _003394133 350 3 law law NOUN _003394133 350 4 must must AUX _003394133 350 5 be be AUX _003394133 350 6 observed observe VERB _003394133 350 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 351 1 there there PRON _003394133 351 2 may may AUX _003394133 351 3 be be AUX _003394133 351 4 appeals appeal NOUN _003394133 351 5 . . PUNCT _003394133 352 1 the the DET _003394133 352 2 case case NOUN _003394133 352 3 might might AUX _003394133 352 4 have have VERB _003394133 352 5 to to PART _003394133 352 6 be be AUX _003394133 352 7 sent send VERB _003394133 352 8 to to ADP _003394133 352 9 rome rome PROPN _003394133 352 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 353 1 all all DET _003394133 353 2 that that PRON _003394133 353 3 takes take VERB _003394133 353 4 time time NOUN _003394133 353 5 . . PUNCT _003394133 354 1 in in ADP _003394133 354 2 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 354 3 cases case NOUN _003394133 354 4 , , PUNCT _003394133 354 5 beware beware VERB _003394133 354 6 of of ADP _003394133 354 7 anyone anyone PRON _003394133 354 8 who who PRON _003394133 354 9 gives give VERB _003394133 354 10 you you PRON _003394133 354 11 any any DET _003394133 354 12 assurance assurance NOUN _003394133 354 13 of of ADP _003394133 354 14 favorable favorable ADJ _003394133 354 15 results result NOUN _003394133 354 16 before before ADP _003394133 354 17 the the DET _003394133 354 18 final final ADJ _003394133 354 19 decision decision NOUN _003394133 354 20 . . PUNCT _003394133 355 1 meanwhile meanwhile ADV _003394133 355 2 make make VERB _003394133 355 3 no no DET _003394133 355 4 plans plan NOUN _003394133 355 5 . . PUNCT _003394133 356 1 when when SCONJ _003394133 356 2 these these DET _003394133 356 3 papers paper NOUN _003394133 356 4 do do AUX _003394133 356 5 come come VERB _003394133 356 6 back back ADV _003394133 356 7 from from ADP _003394133 356 8 the the DET _003394133 356 9 chancery chancery NOUN _003394133 356 10 office office NOUN _003394133 356 11 they they PRON _003394133 356 12 may may AUX _003394133 356 13 say say VERB _003394133 356 14 no no INTJ _003394133 356 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 357 1 q. q. PROPN _003394133 357 2 i i PRON _003394133 357 3 plan plan VERB _003394133 357 4 to to PART _003394133 357 5 be be AUX _003394133 357 6 married marry VERB _003394133 357 7 this this DET _003394133 357 8 fall fall NOUN _003394133 357 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 358 1 how how SCONJ _003394133 358 2 long long ADV _003394133 358 3 is be AUX _003394133 358 4 it it PRON _003394133 358 5 necessary necessary ADJ _003394133 358 6 to to PART _003394133 358 7 consult consult VERB _003394133 358 8 the the DET _003394133 358 9 priest priest NOUN _003394133 358 10 previous previous ADJ _003394133 358 11 to to ADP _003394133 358 12 our our PRON _003394133 358 13 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 358 14 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 359 1 can can AUX _003394133 359 2 a a DET _003394133 359 3 dispensation dispensation NOUN _003394133 359 4 from from ADP _003394133 359 5 the the DET _003394133 359 6 banns banns ADJ _003394133 359 7 be be AUX _003394133 359 8 obtained obtain VERB _003394133 359 9 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 360 1 could could AUX _003394133 360 2 it it PRON _003394133 360 3 be be AUX _003394133 360 4 possible possible ADJ _003394133 360 5 for for SCONJ _003394133 360 6 us we PRON _003394133 360 7 to to PART _003394133 360 8 marry marry VERB _003394133 360 9 in in ADP _003394133 360 10 advent advent NOUN _003394133 360 11 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 361 1 a. a. NOUN _003394133 361 2 you you PRON _003394133 361 3 should should AUX _003394133 361 4 see see VERB _003394133 361 5 the the DET _003394133 361 6 priest priest NOUN _003394133 361 7 at at ADP _003394133 361 8 least least ADJ _003394133 361 9 a a PRON _003394133 361 10 month month NOUN _003394133 361 11 before before ADP _003394133 361 12 your your PRON _003394133 361 13 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 361 14 , , PUNCT _003394133 361 15 if if SCONJ _003394133 361 16 you you PRON _003394133 361 17 wish wish VERB _003394133 361 18 to to PART _003394133 361 19 avoid avoid VERB _003394133 361 20 disappointment disappointment NOUN _003394133 361 21 and and CCONJ _003394133 361 22 trouble trouble NOUN _003394133 361 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 362 1 it it PRON _003394133 362 2 is be AUX _003394133 362 3 possible possible ADJ _003394133 362 4 to to PART _003394133 362 5 obtain obtain VERB _003394133 362 6 a a DET _003394133 362 7 dispensation dispensation NOUN _003394133 362 8 from from ADP _003394133 362 9 the the DET _003394133 362 10 banns banns NOUN _003394133 362 11 if if SCONJ _003394133 362 12 there there PRON _003394133 362 13 is be VERB _003394133 362 14 good good ADJ _003394133 362 15 reason reason NOUN _003394133 362 16 for for ADP _003394133 362 17 such such ADJ _003394133 362 18 dispensation dispensation NOUN _003394133 362 19 . . PUNCT _003394133 363 1 your your PRON _003394133 363 2 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 363 3 , , PUNCT _003394133 363 4 after after ADP _003394133 363 5 having having AUX _003394133 363 6 made make VERB _003394133 363 7 his his PRON _003394133 363 8 investigations investigation NOUN _003394133 363 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 363 10 will will AUX _003394133 363 11 forward forward ADV _003394133 363 12 your your PRON _003394133 363 13 request request NOUN _003394133 363 14 to to ADP _003394133 363 15 the the DET _003394133 363 16 bishop bishop PROPN _003394133 363 17 , , PUNCT _003394133 363 18 stating state VERB _003394133 363 19 the the DET _003394133 363 20 circumstances circumstance NOUN _003394133 363 21 and and CCONJ _003394133 363 22 reasons reason NOUN _003394133 363 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 364 1 canon canon NOUN _003394133 364 2 1108 1108 NUM _003394133 364 3 , , PUNCT _003394133 364 4 § § PROPN _003394133 364 5 2 2 NUM _003394133 364 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 364 7 states state VERB _003394133 364 8 that that SCONJ _003394133 364 9 the the DET _003394133 364 10 solemn solemn ADJ _003394133 364 11 nuptial nuptial ADJ _003394133 364 12 blessing blessing NOUN _003394133 364 13 is be AUX _003394133 364 14 forbidden forbid VERB _003394133 364 15 during during ADP _003394133 364 16 advent advent NOUN _003394133 364 17 . . PUNCT _003394133 365 1 the the DET _003394133 365 2 third third ADJ _003394133 365 3 paragraph paragraph NOUN _003394133 365 4 of of ADP _003394133 365 5 the the DET _003394133 365 6 same same ADJ _003394133 365 7 21 21 NUM _003394133 365 8 canon canon NOUN _003394133 365 9 says say VERB _003394133 365 10 that that SCONJ _003394133 365 11 the the DET _003394133 365 12 bishop bishop PROPN _003394133 365 13 may may AUX _003394133 365 14 permit permit VERB _003394133 365 15 it it PRON _003394133 365 16 , , PUNCT _003394133 365 17 however however ADV _003394133 365 18 , , PUNCT _003394133 365 19 for for ADP _003394133 365 20 a a DET _003394133 365 21 good good ADJ _003394133 365 22 reason reason NOUN _003394133 365 23 — — PUNCT _003394133 365 24 a a DET _003394133 365 25 " " PUNCT _003394133 365 26 just just ADV _003394133 365 27 cause cause NOUN _003394133 365 28 . . PUNCT _003394133 365 29 " " PUNCT _003394133 366 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 366 2 he he PRON _003394133 366 3 will will AUX _003394133 366 4 restrict restrict VERB _003394133 366 5 the the DET _003394133 366 6 solemnity solemnity NOUN _003394133 366 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 367 1 t t NOUN _003394133 367 2 1 1 NUM _003394133 367 3 ^ ^ PUNCT _003394133 367 4 to to PART _003394133 367 5 arrange arrange VERB _003394133 367 6 your your PRON _003394133 367 7 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 367 8 for for ADP _003394133 367 9 some some DET _003394133 367 10 other other ADJ _003394133 367 11 time time NOUN _003394133 367 12 than than ADP _003394133 367 13 advent advent NOUN _003394133 367 14 if if SCONJ _003394133 367 15 you you PRON _003394133 367 16 simply simply ADV _003394133 367 17 must must AUX _003394133 367 18 have have VERB _003394133 367 19 it it PRON _003394133 367 20 in in ADP _003394133 367 21 advent advent NOUN _003394133 367 22 let let VERB _003394133 367 23 the the DET _003394133 367 24 bishop bishop PROPN _003394133 367 25 know know VERB _003394133 367 26 the the DET _003394133 367 27 reason reason NOUN _003394133 367 28 , , PUNCT _003394133 367 29 through through ADP _003394133 367 30 your your PRON _003394133 367 31 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 367 32 . . PUNCT _003394133 368 1 he he PRON _003394133 368 2 will will AUX _003394133 368 3 decide decide VERB _003394133 368 4 if if SCONJ _003394133 368 5 your your PRON _003394133 368 6 reasons reason NOUN _003394133 368 7 are be AUX _003394133 368 8 sufficient sufficient ADJ _003394133 368 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 369 1 of of ADP _003394133 369 2 course course ADV _003394133 369 3 if if SCONJ _003394133 369 4 you you PRON _003394133 369 5 just just ADV _003394133 369 6 want want VERB _003394133 369 7 to to PART _003394133 369 8 get get VERB _003394133 369 9 married marry VERB _003394133 369 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 369 11 without without ADP _003394133 369 12 any any DET _003394133 369 13 nuptial nuptial ADJ _003394133 369 14 blessing blessing NOUN _003394133 369 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 369 16 you you PRON _003394133 369 17 can can AUX _003394133 369 18 do do VERB _003394133 369 19 it it PRON _003394133 369 20 any any DET _003394133 369 21 time time NOUN _003394133 369 22 of of ADP _003394133 369 23 the the DET _003394133 369 24 year year NOUN _003394133 369 25 good good ADJ _003394133 369 26 catholics catholic NOUN _003394133 369 27 do do VERB _003394133 369 28 n't not PART _003394133 369 29 . . PUNCT _003394133 370 1 q. q. PROPN _003394133 370 2 is be AUX _003394133 370 3 a a DET _003394133 370 4 catholic catholic ADJ _003394133 370 5 couple couple NOUN _003394133 370 6 free free ADJ _003394133 370 7 to to PART _003394133 370 8 choose choose VERB _003394133 370 9 the the DET _003394133 370 10 church church NOUN _003394133 370 11 in in ADP _003394133 370 12 which which PRON _003394133 370 13 to to PART _003394133 370 14 be be AUX _003394133 370 15 married marry VERB _003394133 370 16 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 371 1 a. a. PROPN _003394133 372 1 no no INTJ _003394133 372 2 . . PUNCT _003394133 373 1 the the DET _003394133 373 2 church church NOUN _003394133 373 3 law law NOUN _003394133 373 4 requires require VERB _003394133 373 5 that that SCONJ _003394133 373 6 they they PRON _003394133 373 7 be be AUX _003394133 373 8 married marry VERB _003394133 373 9 in in ADP _003394133 373 10 their their PRON _003394133 373 11 own own ADJ _003394133 373 12 parish parish ADJ _003394133 373 13 church church NOUN _003394133 373 14 by by ADP _003394133 373 15 their their PRON _003394133 373 16 own own ADJ _003394133 373 17 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 373 18 — — PUNCT _003394133 373 19 unless unless SCONJ _003394133 373 20 their their PRON _003394133 373 21 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 373 22 gives give VERB _003394133 373 23 them they PRON _003394133 373 24 permission permission NOUN _003394133 373 25 to to PART _003394133 373 26 be be AUX _003394133 373 27 married marry VERB _003394133 373 28 elsewhere elsewhere ADV _003394133 373 29 , , PUNCT _003394133 373 30 or or CCONJ _003394133 373 31 grave grave ADJ _003394133 373 32 necessity necessity NOUN _003394133 373 33 intervenes intervene NOUN _003394133 373 34 . . PUNCT _003394133 374 1 if if SCONJ _003394133 374 2 bride bride NOUN _003394133 374 3 and and CCONJ _003394133 374 4 groom groom NOUN _003394133 374 5 are be AUX _003394133 374 6 from from ADP _003394133 374 7 different different ADJ _003394133 374 8 parishes parish NOUN _003394133 374 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 374 10 they they PRON _003394133 374 11 should should AUX _003394133 374 12 be be AUX _003394133 374 13 married marry VERB _003394133 374 14 in in ADP _003394133 374 15 the the DET _003394133 374 16 bride bride NOUN _003394133 374 17 's 's PART _003394133 374 18 parish parish NOUN _003394133 374 19 — — PUNCT _003394133 374 20 unless unless SCONJ _003394133 374 21 there there PRON _003394133 374 22 is be VERB _003394133 374 23 a a DET _003394133 374 24 good good ADJ _003394133 374 25 reason reason NOUN _003394133 374 26 to to PART _003394133 374 27 have have VERB _003394133 374 28 the the DET _003394133 374 29 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 374 30 in in ADP _003394133 374 31 the the DET _003394133 374 32 groom groom NOUN _003394133 374 33 's 's PART _003394133 374 34 parish parish NOUN _003394133 374 35 . . PUNCT _003394133 375 1 any any DET _003394133 375 2 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 375 3 can can AUX _003394133 375 4 validly validly ADV _003394133 375 5 assist assist VERB _003394133 375 6 at at ADP _003394133 375 7 any any DET _003394133 375 8 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 375 9 in in ADP _003394133 375 10 his his PRON _003394133 375 11 own own ADJ _003394133 375 12 parish parish NOUN _003394133 375 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 376 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 376 2 he he PRON _003394133 376 3 has have VERB _003394133 376 4 no no DET _003394133 376 5 right right NOUN _003394133 376 6 to to PART _003394133 376 7 marry marry VERB _003394133 376 8 people people NOUN _003394133 376 9 from from ADP _003394133 376 10 outside outside ADP _003394133 376 11 his his PRON _003394133 376 12 parish parish NOUN _003394133 376 13 — — PUNCT _003394133 376 14 unless unless SCONJ _003394133 376 15 he he PRON _003394133 376 16 has have VERB _003394133 376 17 permission permission NOUN _003394133 376 18 from from ADP _003394133 376 19 their their PRON _003394133 376 20 own own ADJ _003394133 376 21 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 376 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 377 1 catholics catholic NOUN _003394133 377 2 who who PRON _003394133 377 3 plan plan VERB _003394133 377 4 to to PART _003394133 377 5 be be AUX _003394133 377 6 married marry VERB _003394133 377 7 outside outside ADP _003394133 377 8 their their PRON _003394133 377 9 own own ADJ _003394133 377 10 parish parish NOUN _003394133 377 11 must must AUX _003394133 377 12 see see VERB _003394133 377 13 their their PRON _003394133 377 14 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 377 15 and and CCONJ _003394133 377 16 obtain obtain VERB _003394133 377 17 his his PRON _003394133 377 18 permission permission NOUN _003394133 377 19 , , PUNCT _003394133 377 20 usually usually ADV _003394133 377 21 in in ADP _003394133 377 22 writing writing NOUN _003394133 377 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 378 1 see see VERB _003394133 378 2 him he PRON _003394133 378 3 in in ADP _003394133 378 4 plenty plenty NOUN _003394133 378 5 of of ADP _003394133 378 6 time time NOUN _003394133 378 7 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 378 8 there there PRON _003394133 378 9 will will AUX _003394133 378 10 be be AUX _003394133 378 11 many many ADJ _003394133 378 12 for for ADP _003394133 378 13 - - PUNCT _003394133 378 14 malities malitie NOUN _003394133 378 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 379 1 q. q. NOUN _003394133 379 2 a a DET _003394133 379 3 priest priest NOUN _003394133 379 4 is be AUX _003394133 379 5 married married ADJ _003394133 379 6 to to ADP _003394133 379 7 the the DET _003394133 379 8 church church NOUN _003394133 379 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 380 1 am be AUX _003394133 380 2 i i PRON _003394133 380 3 right right ADV _003394133 380 4 on on ADP _003394133 380 5 that that PRON _003394133 380 6 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 381 1 i i PRON _003394133 381 2 realize realize VERB _003394133 381 3 that that SCONJ _003394133 381 4 he he PRON _003394133 381 5 knows know VERB _003394133 381 6 the the DET _003394133 381 7 spiritual spiritual ADJ _003394133 381 8 side side NOUN _003394133 381 9 of of ADP _003394133 381 10 life life NOUN _003394133 381 11 but but CCONJ _003394133 381 12 how how SCONJ _003394133 381 13 can can AUX _003394133 381 14 he he PRON _003394133 381 15 be be AUX _003394133 381 16 an an DET _003394133 381 17 authority authority NOUN _003394133 381 18 on on ADP _003394133 381 19 the the DET _003394133 381 20 physical physical ADJ _003394133 381 21 side side NOUN _003394133 381 22 of of ADP _003394133 381 23 life life NOUN _003394133 381 24 , , PUNCT _003394133 381 25 such such ADJ _003394133 381 26 as as ADP _003394133 381 27 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 381 28 and and CCONJ _003394133 381 29 the the DET _003394133 381 30 emotions emotion NOUN _003394133 381 31 thereof thereof ADV _003394133 381 32 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 382 1 a. a. NOUN _003394133 382 2 he he PRON _003394133 382 3 is be AUX _003394133 382 4 n't not PART _003394133 382 5 an an DET _003394133 382 6 authority authority NOUN _003394133 382 7 on on ADP _003394133 382 8 such such ADJ _003394133 382 9 matters matter NOUN _003394133 382 10 and and CCONJ _003394133 382 11 he he PRON _003394133 382 12 does do AUX _003394133 382 13 n't not PART _003394133 382 14 pre pre VERB _003394133 382 15 - - VERB _003394133 382 16 tend tend VERB _003394133 382 17 to to PART _003394133 382 18 be be AUX _003394133 382 19 . . PUNCT _003394133 383 1 your your PRON _003394133 383 2 question question NOUN _003394133 383 3 is be AUX _003394133 383 4 probably probably ADV _003394133 383 5 inspired inspire VERB _003394133 383 6 by by ADP _003394133 383 7 the the DET _003394133 383 8 fact fact NOUN _003394133 383 9 that that SCONJ _003394133 383 10 the the DET _003394133 383 11 22 22 NUM _003394133 383 12 priest priest NOUN _003394133 383 13 teaches teach VERB _003394133 383 14 you you PRON _003394133 383 15 god god PROPN _003394133 383 16 's 's PART _003394133 383 17 law law NOUN _003394133 383 18 on on ADP _003394133 383 19 married married ADJ _003394133 383 20 life life NOUN _003394133 383 21 and and CCONJ _003394133 383 22 relationships relationship NOUN _003394133 383 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 384 1 when when SCONJ _003394133 384 2 he he PRON _003394133 384 3 does do VERB _003394133 384 4 that that SCONJ _003394133 384 5 he he PRON _003394133 384 6 is be AUX _003394133 384 7 teaching teach VERB _003394133 384 8 you you PRON _003394133 384 9 what what PRON _003394133 384 10 god god PROPN _003394133 384 11 knows know VERB _003394133 384 12 and and CCONJ _003394133 384 13 has have AUX _003394133 384 14 revealed reveal VERB _003394133 384 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 384 16 and and CCONJ _003394133 384 17 what what PRON _003394133 384 18 god god PROPN _003394133 384 19 's 's PART _003394133 384 20 church church NOUN _003394133 384 21 teaches teach VERB _003394133 384 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 385 1 his his PRON _003394133 385 2 personal personal ADJ _003394133 385 3 knowledge knowledge NOUN _003394133 385 4 , , PUNCT _003394133 385 5 authority authority NOUN _003394133 385 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 385 7 or or CCONJ _003394133 385 8 experience experience NOUN _003394133 385 9 does do AUX _003394133 385 10 not not PART _003394133 385 11 enter enter VERB _003394133 385 12 into into ADP _003394133 385 13 the the DET _003394133 385 14 question question NOUN _003394133 385 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 386 1 you you PRON _003394133 386 2 will will AUX _003394133 386 3 surely surely ADV _003394133 386 4 admit admit VERB _003394133 386 5 that that SCONJ _003394133 386 6 god god PROPN _003394133 386 7 knows know VERB _003394133 386 8 something something PRON _003394133 386 9 about about ADP _003394133 386 10 the the DET _003394133 386 11 man man NOUN _003394133 386 12 and and CCONJ _003394133 386 13 woman woman NOUN _003394133 386 14 he he PRON _003394133 386 15 created create VERB _003394133 386 16 and and CCONJ _003394133 386 17 the the DET _003394133 386 18 emotions emotion NOUN _003394133 386 19 he he PRON _003394133 386 20 gave give VERB _003394133 386 21 them they PRON _003394133 386 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 387 1 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 387 2 obligations obligation NOUN _003394133 387 3 are be AUX _003394133 387 4 from from ADP _003394133 387 5 god god PROPN _003394133 387 6 's 's PART _003394133 387 7 law law NOUN _003394133 387 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 387 9 not not PART _003394133 387 10 the the DET _003394133 387 11 priest priest NOUN _003394133 387 12 's 's PART _003394133 387 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 388 1 your your PRON _003394133 388 2 priest priest NOUN _003394133 388 3 has have AUX _003394133 388 4 spent spend VERB _003394133 388 5 years year NOUN _003394133 388 6 studying study VERB _003394133 388 7 philosophy philosophy NOUN _003394133 388 8 and and CCONJ _003394133 388 9 psychology psychology NOUN _003394133 388 10 and and CCONJ _003394133 388 11 social social ADJ _003394133 388 12 and and CCONJ _003394133 388 13 marital marital ADJ _003394133 388 14 problems problem NOUN _003394133 388 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 389 1 he he PRON _003394133 389 2 has have AUX _003394133 389 3 probably probably ADV _003394133 389 4 spent spend VERB _003394133 389 5 many many ADJ _003394133 389 6 years year NOUN _003394133 389 7 in in ADP _003394133 389 8 observing observe VERB _003394133 389 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 389 10 listening listen VERB _003394133 389 11 , , PUNCT _003394133 389 12 in in ADP _003394133 389 13 sympathy sympathy NOUN _003394133 389 14 and and CCONJ _003394133 389 15 understanding understanding NOUN _003394133 389 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 390 1 you you PRON _003394133 390 2 might might AUX _003394133 390 3 be be AUX _003394133 390 4 surprised surprised ADJ _003394133 390 5 how how SCONJ _003394133 390 6 much much ADV _003394133 390 7 he he PRON _003394133 390 8 has have AUX _003394133 390 9 learned learn VERB _003394133 390 10 . . PUNCT _003394133 391 1 but but CCONJ _003394133 391 2 above above ADP _003394133 391 3 all all PRON _003394133 391 4 he he PRON _003394133 391 5 has have AUX _003394133 391 6 learned learn VERB _003394133 391 7 about about ADP _003394133 391 8 god god PROPN _003394133 391 9 's 's PART _003394133 391 10 law law NOUN _003394133 391 11 — — PUNCT _003394133 391 12 and and CCONJ _003394133 391 13 heaven heaven PROPN _003394133 391 14 and and CCONJ _003394133 391 15 hell hell PROPN _003394133 391 16 . . PUNCT _003394133 392 1 q. q. NOUN _003394133 392 2 you you PRON _003394133 392 3 insist insist VERB _003394133 392 4 that that SCONJ _003394133 392 5 people people NOUN _003394133 392 6 who who PRON _003394133 392 7 plan plan VERB _003394133 392 8 to to PART _003394133 392 9 be be AUX _003394133 392 10 married marry VERB _003394133 392 11 should should AUX _003394133 392 12 see see VERB _003394133 392 13 their their PRON _003394133 392 14 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 392 15 a a DET _003394133 392 16 month month NOUN _003394133 392 17 ahead ahead ADV _003394133 392 18 of of ADP _003394133 392 19 time time NOUN _003394133 392 20 . . PUNCT _003394133 393 1 why why SCONJ _003394133 393 2 is be AUX _003394133 393 3 so so ADV _003394133 393 4 much much ADJ _003394133 393 5 time time NOUN _003394133 393 6 necessary necessary ADJ _003394133 393 7 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 394 1 ca can AUX _003394133 394 2 n't not PART _003394133 394 3 we we PRON _003394133 394 4 get get VERB _003394133 394 5 a a DET _003394133 394 6 dispensation dispensation NOUN _003394133 394 7 from from ADP _003394133 394 8 the the DET _003394133 394 9 banns banns NOUN _003394133 394 10 ? ? PUNCT _003394133 395 1 besides besides SCONJ _003394133 395 2 it it PRON _003394133 395 3 only only ADV _003394133 395 4 takes take VERB _003394133 395 5 two two NUM _003394133 395 6 weeks week NOUN _003394133 395 7 to to PART _003394133 395 8 have have VERB _003394133 395 9 the the DET _003394133 395 10 banns banns ADJ _003394133 395 11 published publish VERB _003394133 395 12 three three NUM _003394133 395 13 times time NOUN _003394133 395 14 , , PUNCT _003394133 395 15 and and CCONJ _003394133 395 16 if if SCONJ _003394133 395 17 there there PRON _003394133 395 18 should should AUX _003394133 395 19 be be AUX _003394133 395 20 a a DET _003394133 395 21 holy holy ADJ _003394133 395 22 day day NOUN _003394133 395 23 between between ADP _003394133 395 24 sundays sunday NOUN _003394133 395 25 it it PRON _003394133 395 26 can can AUX _003394133 395 27 all all PRON _003394133 395 28 be be AUX _003394133 395 29 done do VERB _003394133 395 30 in in ADP _003394133 395 31 one one NUM _003394133 395 32 week week NOUN _003394133 395 33 . . PUNCT _003394133 396 1 a. a. NOUN _003394133 396 2 the the DET _003394133 396 3 law law NOUN _003394133 396 4 of of ADP _003394133 396 5 the the DET _003394133 396 6 church church NOUN _003394133 396 7 requires require VERB _003394133 396 8 that that SCONJ _003394133 396 9 the the DET _003394133 396 10 banns bann NOUN _003394133 396 11 be be AUX _003394133 396 12 published publish VERB _003394133 396 13 . . PUNCT _003394133 397 1 the the DET _003394133 397 2 bishop bishop PROPN _003394133 397 3 can can AUX _003394133 397 4 dispense dispense VERB _003394133 397 5 from from ADP _003394133 397 6 this this DET _003394133 397 7 law law NOUN _003394133 397 8 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 397 9 but but CCONJ _003394133 397 10 whether whether SCONJ _003394133 397 11 he he PRON _003394133 397 12 should should AUX _003394133 397 13 do do VERB _003394133 397 14 so so ADV _003394133 397 15 or or CCONJ _003394133 397 16 not not PART _003394133 397 17 is be AUX _003394133 397 18 a a DET _003394133 397 19 question question NOUN _003394133 397 20 left leave VERB _003394133 397 21 to to ADP _003394133 397 22 his his PRON _003394133 397 23 prudent prudent ADJ _003394133 397 24 judgment judgment NOUN _003394133 397 25 . . PUNCT _003394133 398 1 you you PRON _003394133 398 2 may may AUX _003394133 398 3 be be AUX _003394133 398 4 sure sure ADJ _003394133 398 5 that that SCONJ _003394133 398 6 he he PRON _003394133 398 7 will will AUX _003394133 398 8 not not PART _003394133 398 9 dispense dispense VERB _003394133 398 10 unless unless SCONJ _003394133 398 11 there there PRON _003394133 398 12 is be VERB _003394133 398 13 a a DET _003394133 398 14 good good ADJ _003394133 398 15 reason reason NOUN _003394133 398 16 for for ADP _003394133 398 17 it it PRON _003394133 398 18 . . PUNCT _003394133 399 1 you you PRON _003394133 399 2 can can AUX _003394133 399 3 not not PART _003394133 399 4 presume presume VERB _003394133 399 5 it it PRON _003394133 399 6 . . PUNCT _003394133 400 1 there there PRON _003394133 400 2 are be VERB _003394133 400 3 many many ADJ _003394133 400 4 preliminaries preliminary NOUN _003394133 400 5 to to ADP _003394133 400 6 something something PRON _003394133 400 7 as as ADV _003394133 400 8 important important ADJ _003394133 400 9 as as ADP _003394133 400 10 a a DET _003394133 400 11 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 400 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 401 1 first first ADV _003394133 401 2 of of ADP _003394133 401 3 all all PRON _003394133 401 4 , , PUNCT _003394133 401 5 you you PRON _003394133 401 6 will will AUX _003394133 401 7 probably probably ADV _003394133 401 8 want want VERB _003394133 401 9 the the DET _003394133 401 10 ceremony ceremony NOUN _003394133 401 11 on on ADP _003394133 401 12 a a DET _003394133 401 13 certain certain ADJ _003394133 401 14 day day NOUN _003394133 401 15 and and CCONJ _003394133 401 16 at at ADP _003394133 401 17 a a DET _003394133 401 18 certain certain ADJ _003394133 401 19 hour hour NOUN _003394133 401 20 . . PUNCT _003394133 402 1 you you PRON _003394133 402 2 will will AUX _003394133 402 3 require require VERB _003394133 402 4 the the DET _003394133 402 5 services service NOUN _003394133 402 6 of of ADP _003394133 402 7 a a DET _003394133 402 8 priest priest NOUN _003394133 402 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 402 10 and and CCONJ _003394133 402 11 probably probably ADV _003394133 402 12 of of ADP _003394133 402 13 sacristan sacristan NOUN _003394133 402 14 and and CCONJ _003394133 402 15 altar altar ADJ _003394133 402 16 boys boy NOUN _003394133 402 17 , , PUNCT _003394133 402 18 and and CCONJ _003394133 402 19 organist organist NOUN _003394133 402 20 and and CCONJ _003394133 402 21 choir choir PROPN _003394133 402 22 . . PUNCT _003394133 403 1 arrangements arrangement NOUN _003394133 403 2 must must AUX _003394133 403 3 be be AUX _003394133 403 4 made make VERB _003394133 403 5 for for ADP _003394133 403 6 all all DET _003394133 403 7 these these DET _003394133 403 8 things thing NOUN _003394133 403 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 404 1 maybe maybe ADV _003394133 404 2 the the DET _003394133 404 3 priest priest NOUN _003394133 404 4 , , PUNCT _003394133 404 5 and and CCONJ _003394133 404 6 the the DET _003394133 404 7 church church NOUN _003394133 404 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 404 9 and and CCONJ _003394133 404 10 the the DET _003394133 404 11 altar altar NOUN _003394133 404 12 are be AUX _003394133 404 13 already already ADV _003394133 404 14 engaged engage VERB _003394133 404 15 for for ADP _003394133 404 16 that that DET _003394133 404 17 day day NOUN _003394133 404 18 and and CCONJ _003394133 404 19 hour hour NOUN _003394133 404 20 . . PUNCT _003394133 405 1 in in ADP _003394133 405 2 some some DET _003394133 405 3 big big ADJ _003394133 405 4 parishes parish NOUN _003394133 405 5 you you PRON _003394133 405 6 might might AUX _003394133 405 7 have have VERB _003394133 405 8 to to PART _003394133 405 9 make make VERB _003394133 405 10 reservations reservation NOUN _003394133 405 11 many many ADJ _003394133 405 12 months month NOUN _003394133 405 13 ahead ahead ADV _003394133 405 14 of of ADP _003394133 405 15 time time NOUN _003394133 405 16 to to PART _003394133 405 17 get get VERB _003394133 405 18 a a DET _003394133 405 19 choice choice NOUN _003394133 405 20 day day NOUN _003394133 405 21 for for ADP _003394133 405 22 a a DET _003394133 405 23 nuptial nuptial ADJ _003394133 405 24 mass mass NOUN _003394133 405 25 . . PUNCT _003394133 406 1 23 23 NUM _003394133 406 2 then then ADV _003394133 406 3 there there PRON _003394133 406 4 are be VERB _003394133 406 5 investigations investigation NOUN _003394133 406 6 to to PART _003394133 406 7 be be AUX _003394133 406 8 made make VERB _003394133 406 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 407 1 the the DET _003394133 407 2 law law NOUN _003394133 407 3 requires require VERB _003394133 407 4 that that SCONJ _003394133 407 5 the the DET _003394133 407 6 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 407 7 who who PRON _003394133 407 8 is be AUX _003394133 407 9 to to PART _003394133 407 10 assist assist VERB _003394133 407 11 at at ADP _003394133 407 12 a a DET _003394133 407 13 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 407 14 be be AUX _003394133 407 15 certain certain ADJ _003394133 407 16 beforehand beforehand ADV _003394133 407 17 that that SCONJ _003394133 407 18 there there PRON _003394133 407 19 is be VERB _003394133 407 20 nothing nothing PRON _003394133 407 21 to to PART _003394133 407 22 prevent prevent VERB _003394133 407 23 its its PRON _003394133 407 24 valid valid ADJ _003394133 407 25 and and CCONJ _003394133 407 26 licit licit ADJ _003394133 407 27 celebration celebration NOUN _003394133 407 28 . . PUNCT _003394133 408 1 he he PRON _003394133 408 2 must must AUX _003394133 408 3 investigate investigate VERB _003394133 408 4 diligently diligently ADV _003394133 408 5 . . PUNCT _003394133 409 1 he he PRON _003394133 409 2 must must AUX _003394133 409 3 question question VERB _003394133 409 4 the the DET _003394133 409 5 parties party NOUN _003394133 409 6 , , PUNCT _003394133 409 7 and and CCONJ _003394133 409 8 very very ADV _003394133 409 9 often often ADV _003394133 409 10 he he PRON _003394133 409 11 must must AUX _003394133 409 12 question question VERB _003394133 409 13 other other ADJ _003394133 409 14 people people NOUN _003394133 409 15 , , PUNCT _003394133 409 16 as as ADP _003394133 409 17 witnesses witness NOUN _003394133 409 18 , , PUNCT _003394133 409 19 to to PART _003394133 409 20 be be AUX _003394133 409 21 sure sure ADJ _003394133 409 22 that that SCONJ _003394133 409 23 there there PRON _003394133 409 24 is be VERB _003394133 409 25 no no DET _003394133 409 26 impediment impediment NOUN _003394133 409 27 , , PUNCT _003394133 409 28 that that SCONJ _003394133 409 29 the the DET _003394133 409 30 parties party NOUN _003394133 409 31 marry marry VERB _003394133 409 32 freely freely ADV _003394133 409 33 , , PUNCT _003394133 409 34 etc etc X _003394133 409 35 . . X _003394133 410 1 often often ADV _003394133 410 2 this this DET _003394133 410 3 questioning questioning NOUN _003394133 410 4 must must AUX _003394133 410 5 be be AUX _003394133 410 6 done do VERB _003394133 410 7 by by ADP _003394133 410 8 other other ADJ _003394133 410 9 priests priest NOUN _003394133 410 10 in in ADP _003394133 410 11 various various ADJ _003394133 410 12 parts part NOUN _003394133 410 13 of of ADP _003394133 410 14 the the DET _003394133 410 15 country country NOUN _003394133 410 16 , , PUNCT _003394133 410 17 and and CCONJ _003394133 410 18 the the DET _003394133 410 19 results result NOUN _003394133 410 20 sent send VERB _003394133 410 21 through through ADP _003394133 410 22 chancery chancery NOUN _003394133 410 23 offices office NOUN _003394133 410 24 , , PUNCT _003394133 410 25 which which PRON _003394133 410 26 give give VERB _003394133 410 27 appropriate appropriate ADJ _003394133 410 28 endorsements endorsement NOUN _003394133 410 29 . . PUNCT _003394133 411 1 all all DET _003394133 411 2 this this PRON _003394133 411 3 takes take VERB _003394133 411 4 time time NOUN _003394133 411 5 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 411 6 and and CCONJ _003394133 411 7 you you PRON _003394133 411 8 will will AUX _003394133 411 9 have have VERB _003394133 411 10 trouble trouble NOUN _003394133 411 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 411 12 frustrations frustration NOUN _003394133 411 13 if if SCONJ _003394133 411 14 you you PRON _003394133 411 15 try try VERB _003394133 411 16 to to PART _003394133 411 17 hurry hurry VERB _003394133 411 18 it it PRON _003394133 411 19 . . PUNCT _003394133 412 1 then then ADV _003394133 412 2 there there PRON _003394133 412 3 are be VERB _003394133 412 4 documents document NOUN _003394133 412 5 required require VERB _003394133 412 6 . . PUNCT _003394133 413 1 the the DET _003394133 413 2 most most ADV _003394133 413 3 important important ADJ _003394133 413 4 is be AUX _003394133 413 5 a a DET _003394133 413 6 baptismal baptismal ADJ _003394133 413 7 certificate certificate NOUN _003394133 413 8 — — PUNCT _003394133 413 9 a a DET _003394133 413 10 new new ADJ _003394133 413 11 one one NUM _003394133 413 12 , , PUNCT _003394133 413 13 not not PART _003394133 413 14 just just ADV _003394133 413 15 any any DET _003394133 413 16 old old ADJ _003394133 413 17 one one NOUN _003394133 413 18 you you PRON _003394133 413 19 have have AUX _003394133 413 20 had have VERB _003394133 413 21 for for ADP _003394133 413 22 months month NOUN _003394133 413 23 or or CCONJ _003394133 413 24 years year NOUN _003394133 413 25 . . PUNCT _003394133 414 1 then then ADV _003394133 414 2 there there PRON _003394133 414 3 should should AUX _003394133 414 4 also also ADV _003394133 414 5 be be AUX _003394133 414 6 certificate certificate NOUN _003394133 414 7 of of ADP _003394133 414 8 confirmation confirmation NOUN _003394133 414 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 415 1 or or CCONJ _003394133 415 2 if if SCONJ _003394133 415 3 the the DET _003394133 415 4 parties party NOUN _003394133 415 5 have have AUX _003394133 415 6 not not PART _003394133 415 7 been be AUX _003394133 415 8 confirmed confirm VERB _003394133 415 9 , , PUNCT _003394133 415 10 the the DET _003394133 415 11 church church NOUN _003394133 415 12 law law NOUN _003394133 415 13 advises advise VERB _003394133 415 14 that that SCONJ _003394133 415 15 they they PRON _003394133 415 16 should should AUX _003394133 415 17 receive receive VERB _003394133 415 18 this this DET _003394133 415 19 sacrament sacrament NOUN _003394133 415 20 before before ADP _003394133 415 21 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 415 22 — — PUNCT _003394133 415 23 if if SCONJ _003394133 415 24 it it PRON _003394133 415 25 can can AUX _003394133 415 26 be be AUX _003394133 415 27 done do VERB _003394133 415 28 without without ADP _003394133 415 29 serious serious ADJ _003394133 415 30 inconvenience inconvenience NOUN _003394133 415 31 . . PUNCT _003394133 416 1 then then ADV _003394133 416 2 if if SCONJ _003394133 416 3 any any DET _003394133 416 4 doubts doubt NOUN _003394133 416 5 should should AUX _003394133 416 6 arise arise VERB _003394133 416 7 about about ADP _003394133 416 8 the the DET _003394133 416 9 freedom freedom NOUN _003394133 416 10 of of ADP _003394133 416 11 thè thè NOUN _003394133 416 12 parties party NOUN _003394133 416 13 to to PART _003394133 416 14 marry marry VERB _003394133 416 15 the the DET _003394133 416 16 matter matter NOUN _003394133 416 17 must must AUX _003394133 416 18 be be AUX _003394133 416 19 referred refer VERB _003394133 416 20 to to ADP _003394133 416 21 the the DET _003394133 416 22 bishop bishop NOUN _003394133 416 23 . . PUNCT _003394133 417 1 the the DET _003394133 417 2 same same ADJ _003394133 417 3 is be AUX _003394133 417 4 true true ADJ _003394133 417 5 if if SCONJ _003394133 417 6 the the DET _003394133 417 7 parties party NOUN _003394133 417 8 are be AUX _003394133 417 9 without without ADP _003394133 417 10 permanent permanent ADJ _003394133 417 11 residence residence NOUN _003394133 417 12 ; ; PUNCT _003394133 417 13 or or CCONJ _003394133 417 14 if if SCONJ _003394133 417 15 minors minor NOUN _003394133 417 16 want want VERB _003394133 417 17 to to PART _003394133 417 18 get get VERB _003394133 417 19 married marry VERB _003394133 417 20 without without ADP _003394133 417 21 their their PRON _003394133 417 22 parents parent NOUN _003394133 417 23 ' ' PART _003394133 417 24 knowledge knowledge NOUN _003394133 417 25 or or CCONJ _003394133 417 26 consent consent NOUN _003394133 417 27 . . PUNCT _003394133 418 1 and and CCONJ _003394133 418 2 the the DET _003394133 418 3 bishop bishop PROPN _003394133 418 4 's 's PART _003394133 418 5 office office NOUN _003394133 418 6 usually usually ADV _003394133 418 7 becomes become VERB _003394133 418 8 involved involved ADJ _003394133 418 9 when when SCONJ _003394133 418 10 the the DET _003394133 418 11 parties party NOUN _003394133 418 12 are be AUX _003394133 418 13 from from ADP _003394133 418 14 different different ADJ _003394133 418 15 parishes parish NOUN _003394133 418 16 , , PUNCT _003394133 418 17 or or CCONJ _003394133 418 18 especially especially ADV _003394133 418 19 if if SCONJ _003394133 418 20 they they PRON _003394133 418 21 are be AUX _003394133 418 22 from from ADP _003394133 418 23 different different ADJ _003394133 418 24 dioceses diocese NOUN _003394133 418 25 . . PUNCT _003394133 419 1 his his PRON _003394133 419 2 office office NOUN _003394133 419 3 is be AUX _003394133 419 4 always always ADV _003394133 419 5 prompt prompt ADJ _003394133 419 6 and and CCONJ _003394133 419 7 efficient efficient ADJ _003394133 419 8 , , PUNCT _003394133 419 9 but but CCONJ _003394133 419 10 the the DET _003394133 419 11 mails mail NOUN _003394133 419 12 are be AUX _003394133 419 13 apt apt ADJ _003394133 419 14 to to PART _003394133 419 15 be be AUX _003394133 419 16 slow slow ADJ _003394133 419 17 . . PUNCT _003394133 420 1 and and CCONJ _003394133 420 2 maybe maybe ADV _003394133 420 3 no no DET _003394133 420 4 quick quick ADJ _003394133 420 5 decision decision NOUN _003394133 420 6 is be AUX _003394133 420 7 possible possible ADJ _003394133 420 8 . . PUNCT _003394133 421 1 and and CCONJ _003394133 421 2 there there PRON _003394133 421 3 are be VERB _003394133 421 4 instructions instruction NOUN _003394133 421 5 . . PUNCT _003394133 422 1 even even ADV _003394133 422 2 if if SCONJ _003394133 422 3 both both DET _003394133 422 4 parties party NOUN _003394133 422 5 are be AUX _003394133 422 6 catholics catholic NOUN _003394133 422 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 422 8 the the DET _003394133 422 9 law law NOUN _003394133 422 10 requires require VERB _003394133 422 11 that that SCONJ _003394133 422 12 the the DET _003394133 422 13 pastor pastor NOUN _003394133 422 14 make make VERB _003394133 422 15 sure sure ADJ _003394133 422 16 that that SCONJ _003394133 422 17 they they PRON _003394133 422 18 are be AUX _003394133 422 19 sufficiently sufficiently ADV _003394133 422 20 instructed instruct VERB _003394133 422 21 in in ADP _003394133 422 22 their their PRON _003394133 422 23 faith faith NOUN _003394133 422 24 . . PUNCT _003394133 423 1 and and CCONJ _003394133 423 2 besides besides SCONJ _003394133 423 3 that that PRON _003394133 423 4 he he PRON _003394133 423 5 must must AUX _003394133 423 6 actually actually ADV _003394133 423 7 teach teach VERB _003394133 423 8 them they PRON _003394133 423 9 about about ADP _003394133 423 10 the the DET _003394133 423 11 sanctity sanctity NOUN _003394133 423 12 of of ADP _003394133 423 13 the the DET _003394133 423 14 sacrament sacrament NOUN _003394133 423 15 of of ADP _003394133 423 16 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 423 17 , , PUNCT _003394133 423 18 about about ADP _003394133 423 19 their their PRON _003394133 423 20 mutual mutual ADJ _003394133 423 21 obligations obligation NOUN _003394133 423 22 as as ADP _003394133 423 23 husband husband NOUN _003394133 423 24 and and CCONJ _003394133 423 25 wife wife NOUN _003394133 423 26 , , PUNCT _003394133 423 27 and and CCONJ _003394133 423 28 about about ADP _003394133 423 29 the the DET _003394133 423 30 obligations obligation NOUN _003394133 423 31 of of ADP _003394133 423 32 parents parent NOUN _003394133 423 33 toward toward ADP _003394133 423 34 their their PRON _003394133 423 35 children child NOUN _003394133 423 36 . . PUNCT _003394133 424 1 he he PRON _003394133 424 2 will will AUX _003394133 424 3 need need VERB _003394133 424 4 time time NOUN _003394133 424 5 to to PART _003394133 424 6 fit fit VERB _003394133 424 7 all all DET _003394133 424 8 that that PRON _003394133 424 9 into into ADP _003394133 424 10 his his PRON _003394133 424 11 schedule schedule NOUN _003394133 424 12 . . PUNCT _003394133 425 1 a a DET _003394133 425 2 month month NOUN _003394133 425 3 may may AUX _003394133 425 4 be be AUX _003394133 425 5 too too ADV _003394133 425 6 short short ADJ _003394133 425 7 , , PUNCT _003394133 425 8 if if SCONJ _003394133 425 9 you you PRON _003394133 425 10 want want VERB _003394133 425 11 everything everything PRON _003394133 425 12 to to PART _003394133 425 13 go go VERB _003394133 425 14 smoothly smoothly ADV _003394133 425 15 . . PUNCT _003394133 426 1 24 24 NUM _003394133 426 2 © © ADJ _003394133 426 3 ave ave NOUN _003394133 426 4 maria maria PROPN _003394133 426 5 press press PROPN _003394133 426 6 -- -- PUNCT _003394133 426 7 . . PUNCT _003394133 427 1 • • PROPN _003394133 427 2 notre notre PROPN _003394133 427 3 dame dame PROPN _003394133 427 4 , , PUNCT _003394133 427 5 indiana indiana PROPN _003394133 427 6 excellent excellent NOUN _003394133 427 7 for for ADP _003394133 427 8 discussion discussion NOUN _003394133 427 9 groups group NOUN _003394133 427 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 427 11 high high ADJ _003394133 427 12 school school NOUN _003394133 427 13 religion religion NOUN _003394133 427 14 classes class NOUN _003394133 427 15 and and CCONJ _003394133 427 16 home home NOUN _003394133 427 17 libraries library NOUN _003394133 427 18 . . PUNCT _003394133 428 1 12 12 NUM _003394133 428 2 booklets booklet NOUN _003394133 428 3 attractively attractively ADV _003394133 428 4 packaged package VERB _003394133 428 5 in in ADP _003394133 428 6 a a DET _003394133 428 7 shelf shelf NOUN _003394133 428 8 case case NOUN _003394133 428 9 . . PUNCT _003394133 429 1 $ $ SYM _003394133 429 2 1.25 1.25 NUM _003394133 429 3 p p NOUN _003394133 429 4 a a DET _003394133 429 5 y y PROPN _003394133 429 6 m m PROPN _003394133 429 7 e e PROPN _003394133 429 8 n n ADP _003394133 429 9 t t PROPN _003394133 429 10 with with ADP _003394133 429 11 o o NOUN _003394133 429 12 r r NOUN _003394133 429 13 d d NOUN _003394133 429 14 e e NOUN _003394133 429 15 r r X _003394133 429 16 p p X _003394133 429 17 l l X _003394133 429 18 e e NOUN _003394133 429 19 a a DET _003394133 429 20 s s X _003394133 429 21 e e NOUN _003394133 429 22 two two NUM _003394133 429 23 hundred hundred NUM _003394133 429 24 answers answer NOUN _003394133 429 25 to to ADP _003394133 429 26 the the DET _003394133 429 27 most most ADV _003394133 429 28 commonly commonly ADV _003394133 429 29 asked ask VERB _003394133 429 30 questions question NOUN _003394133 429 31 on on ADP _003394133 429 32 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 429 33 . . PUNCT _003394133 430 1 questions question NOUN _003394133 430 2 directed direct VERB _003394133 430 3 to to ADP _003394133 430 4 monsignor monsignor PROPN _003394133 430 5 j. j. PROPN _003394133 430 6 d. d. PROPN _003394133 430 7 conway conway PROPN _003394133 430 8 who who PRON _003394133 430 9 instructs instruct VERB _003394133 430 10 , , PUNCT _003394133 430 11 teaches teach VERB _003394133 430 12 and and CCONJ _003394133 430 13 gives give VERB _003394133 430 14 direction direction NOUN _003394133 430 15 to to ADP _003394133 430 16 thousands thousand NOUN _003394133 430 17 through through ADP _003394133 430 18 his his PRON _003394133 430 19 nationally nationally ADV _003394133 430 20 known know VERB _003394133 430 21 question question NOUN _003394133 430 22 box box NOUN _003394133 430 23 column column NOUN _003394133 430 24 . . PUNCT _003394133 431 1 a a DET _003394133 431 2 miniature miniature ADJ _003394133 431 3 m m NOUN _003394133 431 4 a a DET _003394133 431 5 r r NOUN _003394133 431 6 r r NOUN _003394133 431 7 i i PRON _003394133 431 8 a a DET _003394133 431 9 g g NOUN _003394133 431 10 e e PROPN _003394133 431 11 l l PROPN _003394133 431 12 i i PROPN _003394133 432 1 b b X _003394133 432 2 r r NOUN _003394133 432 3 a a DET _003394133 432 4 r r NOUN _003394133 432 5 y y NOUN _003394133 432 6 0 0 NUM _003394133 432 7 keeping keep VERB _003394133 432 8 company company NOUN _003394133 432 9 0 0 NUM _003394133 432 10 love love NOUN _003394133 432 11 and and CCONJ _003394133 432 12 dating date VERB _003394133 432 13 £ £ ADJ _003394133 432 14 engagement engagement NOUN _003394133 432 15 m m PROPN _003394133 432 16 modesty modesty ADJ _003394133 432 17 , , PUNCT _003394133 432 18 chastity chastity NOUN _003394133 432 19 and and CCONJ _003394133 432 20 morals moral NOUN _003394133 432 21 0 0 NUM _003394133 432 22 mixed mixed ADJ _003394133 432 23 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 432 24 0 0 NUM _003394133 432 25 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 432 26 cases case NOUN _003394133 432 27 • • VERB _003394133 432 28 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 432 29 ( ( PUNCT _003394133 432 30 c c NOUN _003394133 432 31 a a DET _003394133 432 32 t t NOUN _003394133 432 33 h h NOUN _003394133 433 1 o o NOUN _003394133 434 1 l l X _003394133 435 1 i i PRON _003394133 435 2 c c AUX _003394133 435 3 and and CCONJ _003394133 435 4 non non ADJ _003394133 435 5 - - ADJ _003394133 435 6 catholic catholic ADJ _003394133 435 7 ) ) PUNCT _003394133 436 1 * * PUNCT _003394133 436 2 rhythm rhythm NOUN _003394133 436 3 £ £ X _003394133 436 4 birth birth VERB _003394133 436 5 control control NOUN _003394133 436 6 £ £ ADJ _003394133 436 7 divorce divorce NOUN _003394133 436 8 % % NOUN _003394133 436 9 marriage marriage NOUN _003394133 436 10 outside outside ADP _003394133 436 11 the the DET _003394133 436 12 church church NOUN _003394133 436 13 0 0 NUM _003394133 436 14 marital marital ADJ _003394133 436 15 life life NOUN