id sid tid token lemma pos _005197353 1 1 why why SCONJ _005197353 1 2 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 1 3 fail fail VERB _005197353 1 4 : : PUNCT _005197353 1 5 a a DET _005197353 1 6 scientific scientific ADJ _005197353 1 7 study study NOUN _005197353 1 8 based base VERB _005197353 1 9 on on ADP _005197353 1 10 7,000 7,000 NUM _005197353 1 11 case case NOUN _005197353 1 12 histories history NOUN _005197353 1 13 digitized digitize VERB _005197353 1 14 by by ADP _005197353 1 15 the the DET _005197353 1 16 internet internet NOUN _005197353 1 17 archive archive NOUN _005197353 1 18 in in ADP _005197353 1 19 2016 2016 NUM _005197353 1 20 httpjs httpjs PROPN _005197353 1 21 : : PUNCT _005197353 1 22 //archive.org //archive.org PROPN _005197353 1 23 / / SYM _005197353 1 24 details detail NOUN _005197353 1 25 / / SYM _005197353 1 26 whymarriagesfailooobrqo whymarriagesfailooobrqo NOUN _005197353 2 1 i i PRON _005197353 2 2 * * PUNCT _005197353 2 3 why why SCONJ _005197353 2 4 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 2 5 fail fail VERB _005197353 2 6 a a DET _005197353 2 7 scientific scientific ADJ _005197353 2 8 study study NOUN _005197353 2 9 based base VERB _005197353 2 10 on on ADP _005197353 2 11 7,000 7,000 NUM _005197353 2 12 case case NOUN _005197353 2 13 histories history NOUN _005197353 2 14 by by ADP _005197353 2 15 john john PROPN _005197353 2 16 a. a. PROPN _005197353 2 17 o’brien o’brien PROPN _005197353 2 18 , , PUNCT _005197353 2 19 ph.d ph.d PROPN _005197353 2 20 . . PUNCT _005197353 3 1 ave ave PROPN _005197353 3 2 maria maria PROPN _005197353 3 3 press press PROPN _005197353 3 4 notre notre PROPN _005197353 3 5 dame dame PROPN _005197353 3 6 , , PUNCT _005197353 3 7 indiana indiana PROPN _005197353 3 8 nihil nihil PROPN _005197353 3 9 obstat obstat PROPN _005197353 3 10 — — PUNCT _005197353 3 11 john john PROPN _005197353 3 12 l. l. PROPN _005197353 3 13 reedy reedy PROPN _005197353 3 14 , , PUNCT _005197353 3 15 g.s.g g.s.g PROPN _005197353 3 16 . . PUNCT _005197353 3 17 censor censor PROPN _005197353 3 18 deputatus deputatus PROPN _005197353 3 19 imprimatur imprimatur NOUN _005197353 3 20 — — PUNCT _005197353 3 21 gg gg PROPN _005197353 3 22 most most ADV _005197353 3 23 rev rev VERB _005197353 3 24 . . PROPN _005197353 4 1 john john PROPN _005197353 4 2 f. f. PROPN _005197353 4 3 noll noll PROPN _005197353 4 4 , , PUNCT _005197353 4 5 d.d d.d PROPN _005197353 4 6 . . PROPN _005197353 4 7 archbishop archbishop PROPN _005197353 4 8 - - PUNCT _005197353 4 9 bishop bishop PROPN _005197353 4 10 of of ADP _005197353 4 11 fort fort NOUN _005197353 4 12 wayne wayne NOUN _005197353 4 13 august august PROPN _005197353 4 14 31 31 NUM _005197353 4 15 , , PUNCT _005197353 4 16 1954 1954 NUM _005197353 4 17 all all DET _005197353 4 18 rights right NOUN _005197353 4 19 reserved reserve VERB _005197353 4 20 . . PUNCT _005197353 5 1 this this DET _005197353 5 2 pamphlet pamphlet NOUN _005197353 5 3 may may AUX _005197353 5 4 not not PART _005197353 5 5 be be AUX _005197353 5 6 reproduced reproduce VERB _005197353 5 7 by by ADP _005197353 5 8 any any DET _005197353 5 9 means mean NOUN _005197353 5 10 in in ADP _005197353 5 11 whole whole ADJ _005197353 5 12 or or CCONJ _005197353 5 13 in in ADP _005197353 5 14 part part NOUN _005197353 5 15 ' ' PUNCT _005197353 5 16 without without ADP _005197353 5 17 prior prior ADJ _005197353 5 18 permission permission NOUN _005197353 5 19 . . PUNCT _005197353 6 1 why why SCONJ _005197353 6 2 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 6 3 fail fail VERB _005197353 6 4 * * PUNCT _005197353 6 5 edithe edithe ADJ _005197353 6 6 and and CCONJ _005197353 6 7 bert bert PROPN _005197353 6 8 were be AUX _005197353 6 9 married marry VERB _005197353 6 10 just just ADV _005197353 6 11 eight eight NUM _005197353 6 12 months month NOUN _005197353 6 13 when when SCONJ _005197353 6 14 their their PRON _005197353 6 15 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 6 16 blew blow VERB _005197353 6 17 up up ADP _005197353 6 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 7 1 they they PRON _005197353 7 2 came come VERB _005197353 7 3 to to ADP _005197353 7 4 me i PRON _005197353 7 5 seeking seek VERB _005197353 7 6 a a DET _005197353 7 7 way way NOUN _005197353 7 8 out out ADV _005197353 7 9 . . PUNCT _005197353 8 1 they they PRON _005197353 8 2 wanted want VERB _005197353 8 3 to to PART _005197353 8 4 call call VERB _005197353 8 5 it it PRON _005197353 8 6 “ " PUNCT _005197353 8 7 quits quit VERB _005197353 8 8 , , PUNCT _005197353 8 9 ” " PUNCT _005197353 8 10 get get VERB _005197353 8 11 an an DET _005197353 8 12 annulment annulment NOUN _005197353 8 13 so so SCONJ _005197353 8 14 they they PRON _005197353 8 15 could could AUX _005197353 8 16 be be AUX _005197353 8 17 free free ADJ _005197353 8 18 to to PART _005197353 8 19 look look VERB _005197353 8 20 for for ADP _005197353 8 21 other other ADJ _005197353 8 22 partners partner NOUN _005197353 8 23 who who PRON _005197353 8 24 might might AUX _005197353 8 25 bring bring VERB _005197353 8 26 them they PRON _005197353 8 27 the the DET _005197353 8 28 happiness happiness NOUN _005197353 8 29 they they PRON _005197353 8 30 had have AUX _005197353 8 31 failed fail VERB _005197353 8 32 so so ADV _005197353 8 33 miserably miserably ADV _005197353 8 34 to to PART _005197353 8 35 find find VERB _005197353 8 36 in in ADP _005197353 8 37 this this DET _005197353 8 38 union union NOUN _005197353 8 39 . . PUNCT _005197353 9 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 9 2 what what PRON _005197353 9 3 ’s ’ VERB _005197353 9 4 the the DET _005197353 9 5 trouble trouble NOUN _005197353 9 6 ? ? PUNCT _005197353 9 7 ” " PUNCT _005197353 10 1 i i PRON _005197353 10 2 asked ask VERB _005197353 10 3 . . PUNCT _005197353 11 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 11 2 he he PRON _005197353 11 3 ’s ’s VERB _005197353 11 4 inconsiderate inconsiderate ADJ _005197353 11 5 and and CCONJ _005197353 11 6 mean mean VERB _005197353 11 7 , , PUNCT _005197353 11 8 ” " PUNCT _005197353 11 9 sobbed sobbed PROPN _005197353 11 10 edithe edithe NOUN _005197353 11 11 , , PUNCT _005197353 11 12 “ " PUNCT _005197353 11 13 even even ADV _005197353 11 14 cruel cruel ADJ _005197353 11 15 . . PUNCT _005197353 12 1 always always ADV _005197353 12 2 wants want VERB _005197353 12 3 his his PRON _005197353 12 4 own own ADJ _005197353 12 5 way way NOUN _005197353 12 6 . . PUNCT _005197353 12 7 ” " PUNCT _005197353 13 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 13 2 she she PRON _005197353 13 3 ’s ’ VERB _005197353 13 4 impossible impossible ADJ _005197353 13 5 , , PUNCT _005197353 13 6 ” " PUNCT _005197353 13 7 snapped snap VERB _005197353 13 8 bert bert NOUN _005197353 13 9 , , PUNCT _005197353 13 10 “ " PUNCT _005197353 13 11 still still ADV _005197353 13 12 tied tie VERB _005197353 13 13 to to ADP _005197353 13 14 auntie auntie PROPN _005197353 13 15 ’s ’s PART _005197353 13 16 apron apron PROPN _005197353 13 17 strings strings PROPN _005197353 13 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 14 1 rushes rush VERB _005197353 14 2 home home ADV _005197353 14 3 to to ADP _005197353 14 4 auntie auntie NOUN _005197353 14 5 every every DET _005197353 14 6 time time NOUN _005197353 14 7 we we PRON _005197353 14 8 have have VERB _005197353 14 9 a a DET _005197353 14 10 little little ADJ _005197353 14 11 tiff tiff NOUN _005197353 14 12 , , PUNCT _005197353 14 13 does do AUX _005197353 14 14 n’t not PART _005197353 14 15 know know VERB _005197353 14 16 what what PRON _005197353 14 17 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 14 18 is be AUX _005197353 14 19 all all ADV _005197353 14 20 about about ADP _005197353 14 21 . . PUNCT _005197353 14 22 ” " PUNCT _005197353 15 1 as as SCONJ _005197353 15 2 they they PRON _005197353 15 3 bandied bandy VERB _005197353 15 4 accusations accusation NOUN _005197353 15 5 back back ADV _005197353 15 6 and and CCONJ _005197353 15 7 forth forth ADV _005197353 15 8 , , PUNCT _005197353 15 9 i i PRON _005197353 15 10 could could AUX _005197353 15 11 see see VERB _005197353 15 12 the the DET _005197353 15 13 customary customary ADJ _005197353 15 14 elements element NOUN _005197353 15 15 shaping shape VERB _005197353 15 16 up up ADP _005197353 15 17 into into ADP _005197353 15 18 a a DET _005197353 15 19 pattern pattern NOUN _005197353 15 20 which which PRON _005197353 15 21 is be AUX _005197353 15 22 so so ADV _005197353 15 23 * * ADJ _005197353 15 24 reprinted reprint VERB _005197353 15 25 , , PUNCT _005197353 15 26 from from ADP _005197353 15 27 st st PROPN _005197353 15 28 . . PROPN _005197353 15 29 joseph joseph PROPN _005197353 15 30 magazine magazine PROPN _005197353 15 31 , , PUNCT _005197353 15 32 april april PROPN _005197353 15 33 , , PUNCT _005197353 15 34 1954 1954 NUM _005197353 15 35 . . PUNCT _005197353 16 1 copyright copyright NOUN _005197353 16 2 by by ADP _005197353 16 3 mt mt PROPN _005197353 16 4 . . PROPN _005197353 16 5 angel angel PROPN _005197353 16 6 abbey abbey PROPN _005197353 16 7 , , PUNCT _005197353 16 8 inc inc PROPN _005197353 16 9 . . PROPN _005197353 16 10 , , PUNCT _005197353 16 11 1954 1954 NUM _005197353 16 12 . . PUNCT _005197353 17 1 3 3 NUM _005197353 17 2 familiar familiar ADJ _005197353 17 3 to to ADP _005197353 17 4 every every DET _005197353 17 5 experienced experienced ADJ _005197353 17 6 family family NOUN _005197353 17 7 counselor counselor NOUN _005197353 17 8 . . PUNCT _005197353 18 1 entering enter VERB _005197353 18 2 into into ADP _005197353 18 3 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 18 4 with with ADP _005197353 18 5 high high ADJ _005197353 18 6 hopes hope NOUN _005197353 18 7 of of ADP _005197353 18 8 enduring endure VERB _005197353 18 9 love love NOUN _005197353 18 10 and and CCONJ _005197353 18 11 happiness happiness NOUN _005197353 18 12 , , PUNCT _005197353 18 13 like like ADP _005197353 18 14 many many ADJ _005197353 18 15 newlyweds newlywed NOUN _005197353 18 16 they they PRON _005197353 18 17 had have AUX _005197353 18 18 worked work VERB _005197353 18 19 out out ADP _005197353 18 20 no no DET _005197353 18 21 plan plan NOUN _005197353 18 22 of of ADP _005197353 18 23 dealing deal VERB _005197353 18 24 with with ADP _005197353 18 25 the the DET _005197353 18 26 little little ADJ _005197353 18 27 differences difference NOUN _005197353 18 28 which which PRON _005197353 18 29 inevitably inevitably ADV _005197353 18 30 arise arise VERB _005197353 18 31 . . PUNCT _005197353 19 1 neither neither CCONJ _005197353 19 2 had have AUX _005197353 19 3 they they PRON _005197353 19 4 received receive VERB _005197353 19 5 any any DET _005197353 19 6 pre pre ADJ _005197353 19 7 - - ADJ _005197353 19 8 marriage marriage ADJ _005197353 19 9 counseling counseling NOUN _005197353 19 10 concerning concern VERB _005197353 19 11 the the DET _005197353 19 12 booby booby NOUN _005197353 19 13 traps trap NOUN _005197353 19 14 and and CCONJ _005197353 19 15 the the DET _005197353 19 16 hidden hide VERB _005197353 19 17 mines mine NOUN _005197353 19 18 with with ADP _005197353 19 19 which which PRON _005197353 19 20 virtually virtually ADV _005197353 19 21 every every DET _005197353 19 22 marital marital ADJ _005197353 19 23 path path NOUN _005197353 19 24 is be AUX _005197353 19 25 strewn strew VERB _005197353 19 26 . . PUNCT _005197353 20 1 the the DET _005197353 20 2 result result NOUN _005197353 20 3 was be AUX _005197353 20 4 that that SCONJ _005197353 20 5 the the DET _005197353 20 6 fragile fragile ADJ _005197353 20 7 castle castle NOUN _005197353 20 8 of of ADP _005197353 20 9 their their PRON _005197353 20 10 dreams dream NOUN _005197353 20 11 came came AUX _005197353 20 12 tumbling tumble VERB _005197353 20 13 down down ADP _005197353 20 14 about about ADP _005197353 20 15 their their PRON _005197353 20 16 heads head NOUN _005197353 20 17 : : PUNCT _005197353 20 18 they they PRON _005197353 20 19 were be AUX _005197353 20 20 still still ADV _005197353 20 21 in in ADP _005197353 20 22 love love NOUN _005197353 20 23 but but CCONJ _005197353 20 24 could could AUX _005197353 20 25 see see VERB _005197353 20 26 no no DET _005197353 20 27 way way NOUN _005197353 20 28 of of ADP _005197353 20 29 bridging bridge VERB _005197353 20 30 the the DET _005197353 20 31 differences difference NOUN _005197353 20 32 which which PRON _005197353 20 33 cropped crop VERB _005197353 20 34 up up ADP _005197353 20 35 only only ADV _005197353 20 36 after after SCONJ _005197353 20 37 the the DET _005197353 20 38 rice rice NOUN _005197353 20 39 had have AUX _005197353 20 40 been be AUX _005197353 20 41 thrown throw VERB _005197353 20 42 . . PUNCT _005197353 21 1 root root NOUN _005197353 21 2 of of ADP _005197353 21 3 trouble trouble NOUN _005197353 21 4 a a DET _005197353 21 5 little little ADV _005197353 21 6 friendly friendly ADJ _005197353 21 7 probing probing NOUN _005197353 21 8 disclosed disclose VERB _005197353 21 9 the the DET _005197353 21 10 root root NOUN _005197353 21 11 of of ADP _005197353 21 12 the the DET _005197353 21 13 trouble trouble NOUN _005197353 21 14 . . PUNCT _005197353 22 1 edithe edithe PROPN _005197353 22 2 was be AUX _005197353 22 3 an an DET _005197353 22 4 orphan orphan NOUN _005197353 22 5 , , PUNCT _005197353 22 6 raised raise VERB _005197353 22 7 by by ADP _005197353 22 8 a a DET _005197353 22 9 spinster spinster NOUN _005197353 22 10 aunt aunt NOUN _005197353 22 11 from from ADP _005197353 22 12 whom whom PRON _005197353 22 13 she she PRON _005197353 22 14 got get VERB _005197353 22 15 the the DET _005197353 22 16 notion notion NOUN _005197353 22 17 that that SCONJ _005197353 22 18 the the DET _005197353 22 19 conjugal conjugal ADJ _005197353 22 20 relation relation NOUN _005197353 22 21 was be AUX _005197353 22 22 something something PRON _005197353 22 23 nasty nasty ADJ _005197353 22 24 and and CCONJ _005197353 22 25 degrading degrading ADJ _005197353 22 26 . . PUNCT _005197353 23 1 she she PRON _005197353 23 2 had have AUX _005197353 23 3 permitted permit VERB _005197353 23 4 it it PRON _005197353 23 5 only only ADV _005197353 23 6 a a DET _005197353 23 7 half half ADJ _005197353 23 8 dozen dozen NOUN _005197353 23 9 times time NOUN _005197353 23 10 and and CCONJ _005197353 23 11 always always ADV _005197353 23 12 with with ADP _005197353 23 13 reluctance reluctance NOUN _005197353 23 14 as as ADP _005197353 23 15 a a DET _005197353 23 16 necessary necessary ADJ _005197353 23 17 condescension condescension NOUN _005197353 23 18 to to ADP _005197353 23 19 the the DET _005197353 23 20 animalistic animalistic ADJ _005197353 23 21 male male NOUN _005197353 23 22 . . PUNCT _005197353 24 1 this this PRON _005197353 24 2 had have AUX _005197353 24 3 led lead VERB _005197353 24 4 to to ADP _005197353 24 5 tensions tension NOUN _005197353 24 6 during during ADP _005197353 24 7 which which PRON _005197353 24 8 bert bert PROPN _005197353 24 9 had have AUX _005197353 24 10 lost lose VERB _005197353 24 11 his his PRON _005197353 24 12 temper temper NOUN _005197353 24 13 and and CCONJ _005197353 24 14 said say VERB _005197353 24 15 some some DET _005197353 24 16 sharp sharp ADJ _005197353 24 17 things thing NOUN _005197353 24 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 25 1 arguments argument NOUN _005197353 25 2 ensued ensue VERB _005197353 25 3 , , PUNCT _005197353 25 4 feelings feeling NOUN _005197353 25 5 were be AUX _005197353 25 6 hurt hurt VERB _005197353 25 7 and and CCONJ _005197353 25 8 thus thus ADV _005197353 25 9 they they PRON _005197353 25 10 had have AUX _005197353 25 11 come come VERB _005197353 25 12 to to ADP _005197353 25 13 what what PRON _005197353 25 14 they they PRON _005197353 25 15 thought think VERB _005197353 25 16 was be AUX _005197353 25 17 the the DET _005197353 25 18 parting parting NOUN _005197353 25 19 of of ADP _005197353 25 20 the the DET _005197353 25 21 ways way NOUN _005197353 25 22 . . PUNCT _005197353 26 1 the the DET _005197353 26 2 root root NOUN _005197353 26 3 of of ADP _005197353 26 4 the the DET _005197353 26 5 trouble trouble NOUN _005197353 26 6 was be AUX _005197353 26 7 first first ADV _005197353 26 8 laid lay VERB _005197353 26 9 4 4 NUM _005197353 26 10 bare bare NOUN _005197353 26 11 . . PUNCT _005197353 27 1 then then ADV _005197353 27 2 it it PRON _005197353 27 3 was be AUX _005197353 27 4 explained explain VERB _005197353 27 5 to to PART _005197353 27 6 edithe edithe VERB _005197353 27 7 that that PRON _005197353 27 8 , , PUNCT _005197353 27 9 far far ADV _005197353 27 10 from from ADP _005197353 27 11 being be AUX _005197353 27 12 something something PRON _005197353 27 13 evil evil ADJ _005197353 27 14 , , PUNCT _005197353 27 15 the the DET _005197353 27 16 conjugal conjugal ADJ _005197353 27 17 relation relation NOUN _005197353 27 18 was be AUX _005197353 27 19 divinely divinely ADV _005197353 27 20 ordained ordain VERB _005197353 27 21 as as ADP _005197353 27 22 the the DET _005197353 27 23 means mean NOUN _005197353 27 24 not not PART _005197353 27 25 only only ADV _005197353 27 26 of of ADP _005197353 27 27 procreation procreation NOUN _005197353 27 28 but but CCONJ _005197353 27 29 also also ADV _005197353 27 30 of of ADP _005197353 27 31 deepening deepen VERB _005197353 27 32 mutual mutual ADJ _005197353 27 33 affection affection NOUN _005197353 27 34 and and CCONJ _005197353 27 35 binding bind VERB _005197353 27 36 the the DET _005197353 27 37 partners partner NOUN _005197353 27 38 more more ADV _005197353 27 39 closely closely ADV _005197353 27 40 together together ADV _005197353 27 41 in in ADP _005197353 27 42 the the DET _005197353 27 43 mighty mighty ADJ _005197353 27 44 bond bond NOUN _005197353 27 45 of of ADP _005197353 27 46 deathless deathless ADJ _005197353 27 47 love love NOUN _005197353 27 48 . . PUNCT _005197353 28 1 a a DET _005197353 28 2 new new ADJ _005197353 28 3 and and CCONJ _005197353 28 4 enchanting enchanting ADJ _005197353 28 5 vista vista PROPN _005197353 28 6 opened open VERB _005197353 28 7 to to ADP _005197353 28 8 them they PRON _005197353 28 9 and and CCONJ _005197353 28 10 they they PRON _005197353 28 11 left leave VERB _005197353 28 12 , , PUNCT _005197353 28 13 hand hand NOUN _005197353 28 14 in in ADP _005197353 28 15 hand hand NOUN _005197353 28 16 , , PUNCT _005197353 28 17 determined determine VERB _005197353 28 18 to to PART _005197353 28 19 make make VERB _005197353 28 20 a a DET _005197353 28 21 go go NOUN _005197353 28 22 of of ADP _005197353 28 23 the the DET _005197353 28 24 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 28 25 which which PRON _005197353 28 26 in in ADP _005197353 28 27 their their PRON _005197353 28 28 callow callow ADJ _005197353 28 29 inexperience inexperience NOUN _005197353 28 30 they they PRON _005197353 28 31 had have AUX _005197353 28 32 nearly nearly ADV _005197353 28 33 wrecked wreck VERB _005197353 28 34 . . PUNCT _005197353 29 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 29 2 happiness happiness NOUN _005197353 29 3 , , PUNCT _005197353 29 4 ” " PUNCT _005197353 29 5 remarked remark VERB _005197353 29 6 edithe edithe NOUN _005197353 29 7 , , PUNCT _005197353 29 8 “ " PUNCT _005197353 29 9 was be AUX _005197353 29 10 knocking knock VERB _005197353 29 11 at at ADP _005197353 29 12 our our PRON _005197353 29 13 door door NOUN _005197353 29 14 and and CCONJ _005197353 29 15 i i PRON _005197353 29 16 did do AUX _005197353 29 17 n’t not PART _005197353 29 18 have have VERB _005197353 29 19 sense sense NOUN _005197353 29 20 enough enough ADJ _005197353 29 21 to to PART _005197353 29 22 let let VERB _005197353 29 23 it it PRON _005197353 29 24 in in ADP _005197353 29 25 . . PUNCT _005197353 29 26 ” " PUNCT _005197353 30 1 in in ADP _005197353 30 2 that that DET _005197353 30 3 incident incident NOUN _005197353 30 4 there there PRON _005197353 30 5 are be VERB _005197353 30 6 mirrored mirror VERB _005197353 30 7 the the DET _005197353 30 8 disappointments disappointment NOUN _005197353 30 9 , , PUNCT _005197353 30 10 headaches headache NOUN _005197353 30 11 and and CCONJ _005197353 30 12 heartaches heartache NOUN _005197353 30 13 which which PRON _005197353 30 14 approximately approximately ADV _005197353 30 15 a a DET _005197353 30 16 million million NUM _005197353 30 17 people people NOUN _005197353 30 18 suffer suffer VERB _005197353 30 19 each each DET _005197353 30 20 year year NOUN _005197353 30 21 as as SCONJ _005197353 30 22 their their PRON _005197353 30 23 marital marital ADJ _005197353 30 24 barks bark NOUN _005197353 30 25 hit hit VERB _005197353 30 26 the the DET _005197353 30 27 rocks rock NOUN _005197353 30 28 of of ADP _005197353 30 29 recurrent recurrent ADJ _005197353 30 30 estrangement estrangement NOUN _005197353 30 31 , , PUNCT _005197353 30 32 legal legal ADJ _005197353 30 33 separation separation NOUN _005197353 30 34 and and CCONJ _005197353 30 35 divorce divorce NOUN _005197353 30 36 . . PUNCT _005197353 31 1 in in ADP _005197353 31 2 sharp sharp ADJ _005197353 31 3 contrast contrast NOUN _005197353 31 4 to to ADP _005197353 31 5 america america PROPN _005197353 31 6 ’s ’s PART _005197353 31 7 technological technological ADJ _005197353 31 8 preeminence preeminence NOUN _005197353 31 9 among among ADP _005197353 31 10 the the DET _005197353 31 11 nations nation NOUN _005197353 31 12 , , PUNCT _005197353 31 13 flooding flood VERB _005197353 31 14 the the DET _005197353 31 15 world world NOUN _005197353 31 16 , , PUNCT _005197353 31 17 as as SCONJ _005197353 31 18 she she PRON _005197353 31 19 does do VERB _005197353 31 20 , , PUNCT _005197353 31 21 with with ADP _005197353 31 22 mechanical mechanical ADJ _005197353 31 23 and and CCONJ _005197353 31 24 electrical electrical ADJ _005197353 31 25 gadgets gadget NOUN _005197353 31 26 , , PUNCT _005197353 31 27 is be AUX _005197353 31 28 the the DET _005197353 31 29 pathetic pathetic ADJ _005197353 31 30 spectacle spectacle NOUN _005197353 31 31 of of ADP _005197353 31 32 falling fall VERB _005197353 31 33 apart apart ADV _005197353 31 34 at at ADP _005197353 31 35 her her PRON _005197353 31 36 own own ADJ _005197353 31 37 domestic domestic ADJ _005197353 31 38 seams seam NOUN _005197353 31 39 . . PUNCT _005197353 32 1 no no DET _005197353 32 2 other other ADJ _005197353 32 3 people people NOUN _005197353 32 4 are be AUX _005197353 32 5 paying pay VERB _005197353 32 6 so so ADV _005197353 32 7 ghastly ghastly ADV _005197353 32 8 a a DET _005197353 32 9 toll toll NOUN _005197353 32 10 as as ADP _005197353 32 11 ours ours PRON _005197353 32 12 and and CCONJ _005197353 32 13 in in ADP _005197353 32 14 a a DET _005197353 32 15 domain domain NOUN _005197353 32 16 where where SCONJ _005197353 32 17 happiness happiness NOUN _005197353 32 18 is be AUX _005197353 32 19 so so ADV _005197353 32 20 desperately desperately ADV _005197353 32 21 craved crave VERB _005197353 32 22 , , PUNCT _005197353 32 23 and and CCONJ _005197353 32 24 where where SCONJ _005197353 32 25 stability stability NOUN _005197353 32 26 is be AUX _005197353 32 27 of of ADP _005197353 32 28 such such ADJ _005197353 32 29 paramount paramount ADJ _005197353 32 30 importance importance NOUN _005197353 32 31 . . PUNCT _005197353 33 1 it it PRON _005197353 33 2 is be AUX _005197353 33 3 of of ADP _005197353 33 4 little little ADJ _005197353 33 5 use use NOUN _005197353 33 6 simply simply ADV _005197353 33 7 to to PART _005197353 33 8 lament lament VERB _005197353 33 9 the the DET _005197353 33 10 fact fact NOUN _005197353 33 11 . . PUNCT _005197353 34 1 what what PRON _005197353 34 2 is be AUX _005197353 34 3 needed need VERB _005197353 34 4 is be AUX _005197353 34 5 to to PART _005197353 34 6 lay lay VERB _005197353 34 7 bare bare ADJ _005197353 34 8 the the DET _005197353 34 9 causes cause NOUN _005197353 34 10 of of ADP _005197353 34 11 the the DET _005197353 34 12 domestic domestic ADJ _005197353 34 13 malady malady NOUN _005197353 34 14 and and CCONJ _005197353 34 15 to to ADP _005197353 34 16 ap5 ap5 NOUN _005197353 34 17 ply ply VERB _005197353 34 18 remedial remedial ADJ _005197353 34 19 measures measure NOUN _005197353 34 20 . . PUNCT _005197353 35 1 more more ADJ _005197353 35 2 than than ADP _005197353 35 3 thirty thirty NUM _005197353 35 4 years year NOUN _005197353 35 5 of of ADP _005197353 35 6 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 35 7 counseling counseling NOUN _005197353 35 8 have have AUX _005197353 35 9 convinced convince VERB _005197353 35 10 me i PRON _005197353 35 11 that that SCONJ _005197353 35 12 we we PRON _005197353 35 13 can can AUX _005197353 35 14 render render VERB _005197353 35 15 young young ADJ _005197353 35 16 couples couple NOUN _005197353 35 17 planning plan VERB _005197353 35 18 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 35 19 two two NUM _005197353 35 20 great great ADJ _005197353 35 21 services service NOUN _005197353 35 22 : : PUNCT _005197353 35 23 1 1 X _005197353 35 24 . . X _005197353 35 25 disclose disclose VERB _005197353 35 26 the the DET _005197353 35 27 booby booby NOUN _005197353 35 28 traps trap NOUN _005197353 35 29 and and CCONJ _005197353 35 30 the the DET _005197353 35 31 hidden hide VERB _005197353 35 32 mines mine NOUN _005197353 35 33 in in ADP _005197353 35 34 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 35 35 — — PUNCT _005197353 35 36 the the DET _005197353 35 37 cause cause NOUN _005197353 35 38 of of ADP _005197353 35 39 marital marital ADJ _005197353 35 40 strife strife NOUN _005197353 35 41 and and CCONJ _005197353 35 42 failure failure NOUN _005197353 35 43 . . PUNCT _005197353 36 1 2 2 X _005197353 36 2 . . X _005197353 36 3 provide provide VERB _005197353 36 4 them they PRON _005197353 36 5 with with ADP _005197353 36 6 a a DET _005197353 36 7 technique technique NOUN _005197353 36 8 for for ADP _005197353 36 9 the the DET _005197353 36 10 handling handling NOUN _005197353 36 11 of of ADP _005197353 36 12 these these DET _005197353 36 13 hazards hazard NOUN _005197353 36 14 and and CCONJ _005197353 36 15 of of ADP _005197353 36 16 the the DET _005197353 36 17 differences difference NOUN _005197353 36 18 which which PRON _005197353 36 19 are be AUX _005197353 36 20 sure sure ADJ _005197353 36 21 to to PART _005197353 36 22 arise arise VERB _005197353 36 23 . . PUNCT _005197353 37 1 why why SCONJ _005197353 37 2 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 37 3 fail fail VERB _005197353 37 4 why why SCONJ _005197353 37 5 , , PUNCT _005197353 37 6 then then ADV _005197353 37 7 , , PUNCT _005197353 37 8 do do AUX _005197353 37 9 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 37 10 fail fail VERB _005197353 37 11 ? ? PUNCT _005197353 38 1 i i PRON _005197353 38 2 ’ve ’ve AUX _005197353 38 3 sat sit VERB _005197353 38 4 at at ADP _005197353 38 5 the the DET _005197353 38 6 bench bench NOUN _005197353 38 7 with with ADP _005197353 38 8 judges judge NOUN _005197353 38 9 and and CCONJ _005197353 38 10 listened listen VERB _005197353 38 11 to to ADP _005197353 38 12 the the DET _005197353 38 13 testimony testimony NOUN _005197353 38 14 of of ADP _005197353 38 15 witnesses witness NOUN _005197353 38 16 in in ADP _005197353 38 17 numerous numerous ADJ _005197353 38 18 cases case NOUN _005197353 38 19 in in ADP _005197353 38 20 the the DET _005197353 38 21 domestic domestic ADJ _005197353 38 22 courts court NOUN _005197353 38 23 of of ADP _005197353 38 24 new new PROPN _005197353 38 25 york york PROPN _005197353 38 26 and and CCONJ _005197353 38 27 chicago chicago PROPN _005197353 38 28 . . PUNCT _005197353 39 1 but but CCONJ _005197353 39 2 the the DET _005197353 39 3 specific specific ADJ _005197353 39 4 causes cause NOUN _005197353 39 5 are be AUX _005197353 39 6 usually usually ADV _005197353 39 7 camouflaged camouflage VERB _005197353 39 8 under under ADP _005197353 39 9 such such ADJ _005197353 39 10 vague vague ADJ _005197353 39 11 legal legal ADJ _005197353 39 12 generalities generality NOUN _005197353 39 13 that that SCONJ _005197353 39 14 the the DET _005197353 39 15 investigator investigator NOUN _005197353 39 16 gets get VERB _005197353 39 17 little little ADJ _005197353 39 18 aid aid NOUN _005197353 39 19 from from ADP _005197353 39 20 this this DET _005197353 39 21 source source NOUN _005197353 39 22 . . PUNCT _005197353 40 1 thus thus ADV _005197353 40 2 nearly nearly ADV _005197353 40 3 half half NOUN _005197353 40 4 of of ADP _005197353 40 5 all all DET _005197353 40 6 divorces divorce NOUN _005197353 40 7 are be AUX _005197353 40 8 granted grant VERB _005197353 40 9 on on ADP _005197353 40 10 the the DET _005197353 40 11 grounds ground NOUN _005197353 40 12 of of ADP _005197353 40 13 cruelty cruelty NOUN _005197353 40 14 . . PUNCT _005197353 41 1 cruelty cruelty NOUN _005197353 41 2 is be AUX _005197353 41 3 , , PUNCT _005197353 41 4 however however ADV _005197353 41 5 , , PUNCT _005197353 41 6 an an DET _005197353 41 7 umbrella umbrella NOUN _005197353 41 8 term term NOUN _005197353 41 9 which which PRON _005197353 41 10 covers cover VERB _005197353 41 11 a a DET _005197353 41 12 spacious spacious ADJ _005197353 41 13 territory territory NOUN _005197353 41 14 . . PUNCT _005197353 42 1 when when SCONJ _005197353 42 2 to to ADP _005197353 42 3 cruelty cruelty NOUN _005197353 42 4 is be AUX _005197353 42 5 added add VERB _005197353 42 6 the the DET _005197353 42 7 adjective adjective ADJ _005197353 42 8 “ " PUNCT _005197353 42 9 mental mental ADJ _005197353 42 10 , , PUNCT _005197353 42 11 ” " PUNCT _005197353 42 12 the the DET _005197353 42 13 term term NOUN _005197353 42 14 then then ADV _005197353 42 15 can can AUX _005197353 42 16 cover cover VERB _005197353 42 17 almost almost ADV _005197353 42 18 any any DET _005197353 42 19 factor factor NOUN _005197353 42 20 making make VERB _005197353 42 21 for for ADP _005197353 42 22 the the DET _005197353 42 23 failure failure NOUN _005197353 42 24 of of ADP _005197353 42 25 the the DET _005197353 42 26 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 42 27 . . PUNCT _005197353 43 1 studies study NOUN _005197353 43 2 of of ADP _005197353 43 3 divorce divorce NOUN _005197353 43 4 records record NOUN _005197353 43 5 show show VERB _005197353 43 6 that that SCONJ _005197353 43 7 the the DET _005197353 43 8 terms term NOUN _005197353 43 9 cruelty cruelty NOUN _005197353 43 10 or or CCONJ _005197353 43 11 mental mental ADJ _005197353 43 12 cruelty cruelty NOUN _005197353 43 13 were be AUX _005197353 43 14 used use VERB _005197353 43 15 to to PART _005197353 43 16 cover cover VERB _005197353 43 17 such such ADJ _005197353 43 18 varied varied ADJ _005197353 43 19 items item NOUN _005197353 43 20 as as ADP _005197353 43 21 beating beat VERB _005197353 43 22 one one NUM _005197353 43 23 ’s ’s NOUN _005197353 43 24 wife wife NOUN _005197353 43 25 , , PUNCT _005197353 43 26 adultery adultery NOUN _005197353 43 27 , , PUNCT _005197353 43 28 coming come VERB _005197353 43 29 home home ADV _005197353 43 30 late late ADV _005197353 43 31 at at ADP _005197353 43 32 night night NOUN _005197353 43 33 or or CCONJ _005197353 43 34 trumping trump VERB _005197353 43 35 the the DET _005197353 43 36 husband husband NOUN _005197353 43 37 ’s ’s PART _005197353 43 38 ace ace NOUN _005197353 43 39 . . PUNCT _005197353 44 1 6 6 NUM _005197353 44 2 in in ADP _005197353 44 3 southern southern PROPN _005197353 44 4 california california PROPN _005197353 44 5 a a DET _005197353 44 6 young young ADJ _005197353 44 7 bride bride NOUN _005197353 44 8 sued sue VERB _005197353 44 9 her her PRON _005197353 44 10 husband husband NOUN _005197353 44 11 , , PUNCT _005197353 44 12 a a DET _005197353 44 13 football football NOUN _005197353 44 14 coach coach NOUN _005197353 44 15 , , PUNCT _005197353 44 16 for for ADP _005197353 44 17 divorce divorce NOUN _005197353 44 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 45 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 45 2 on on ADP _005197353 45 3 what what DET _005197353 45 4 grounds ground NOUN _005197353 45 5 ? ? PUNCT _005197353 45 6 ” " PUNCT _005197353 45 7 asked ask VERB _005197353 45 8 the the DET _005197353 45 9 judge judge NOUN _005197353 45 10 . . PUNCT _005197353 46 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 46 2 mental mental ADJ _005197353 46 3 cruelty cruelty NOUN _005197353 46 4 , , PUNCT _005197353 46 5 ” " PUNCT _005197353 46 6 she she PRON _005197353 46 7 replied reply VERB _005197353 46 8 . . PUNCT _005197353 47 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 47 2 just just ADV _005197353 47 3 what what PRON _005197353 47 4 was be AUX _005197353 47 5 the the DET _005197353 47 6 cruelty cruelty NOUN _005197353 47 7 ? ? PUNCT _005197353 47 8 ” " PUNCT _005197353 47 9 persisted persist VERB _005197353 47 10 the the DET _005197353 47 11 judge judge NOUN _005197353 47 12 . . PUNCT _005197353 48 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 48 2 he he PRON _005197353 48 3 diagramed diagram VERB _005197353 48 4 , , PUNCT _005197353 48 5 ” " PUNCT _005197353 48 6 she she PRON _005197353 48 7 said say VERB _005197353 48 8 , , PUNCT _005197353 48 9 “ " PUNCT _005197353 48 10 the the DET _005197353 48 11 plays play NOUN _005197353 48 12 of of ADP _005197353 48 13 his his PRON _005197353 48 14 football football NOUN _005197353 48 15 team team NOUN _005197353 48 16 on on ADP _005197353 48 17 the the DET _005197353 48 18 nice nice ADJ _005197353 48 19 fluffy fluffy ADJ _005197353 48 20 biscuits biscuit NOUN _005197353 48 21 i i PRON _005197353 48 22 baked bake VERB _005197353 48 23 for for ADP _005197353 48 24 his his PRON _005197353 48 25 breakfast breakfast NOUN _005197353 48 26 . . PUNCT _005197353 48 27 ” " PUNCT _005197353 49 1 if if SCONJ _005197353 49 2 the the DET _005197353 49 3 judge judge NOUN _005197353 49 4 had have AUX _005197353 49 5 not not PART _005197353 49 6 happened happen VERB _005197353 49 7 to to PART _005197353 49 8 push push VERB _005197353 49 9 his his PRON _005197353 49 10 inquiry inquiry NOUN _005197353 49 11 , , PUNCT _005197353 49 12 the the DET _005197353 49 13 silly silly ADJ _005197353 49 14 triviality triviality NOUN _005197353 49 15 mentioned mention VERB _005197353 49 16 would would AUX _005197353 49 17 have have AUX _005197353 49 18 remained remain VERB _005197353 49 19 hidden hide VERB _005197353 49 20 under under ADP _005197353 49 21 the the DET _005197353 49 22 misleading misleading ADJ _005197353 49 23 mask mask NOUN _005197353 49 24 of of ADP _005197353 49 25 mental mental ADJ _005197353 49 26 cruelty cruelty NOUN _005197353 49 27 . . PUNCT _005197353 50 1 to to PART _005197353 50 2 get get VERB _005197353 50 3 at at ADP _005197353 50 4 the the DET _005197353 50 5 real real ADJ _005197353 50 6 cause cause NOUN _005197353 50 7 of of ADP _005197353 50 8 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 50 9 failure failure NOUN _005197353 50 10 , , PUNCT _005197353 50 11 then then ADV _005197353 50 12 , , PUNCT _005197353 50 13 one one PRON _005197353 50 14 must must AUX _005197353 50 15 penetrate penetrate VERB _005197353 50 16 beyond beyond ADP _005197353 50 17 the the DET _005197353 50 18 vague vague ADJ _005197353 50 19 generalities generality NOUN _005197353 50 20 mentioned mention VERB _005197353 50 21 in in ADP _005197353 50 22 the the DET _005197353 50 23 divorce divorce NOUN _005197353 50 24 petitions petition NOUN _005197353 50 25 to to ADP _005197353 50 26 personal personal ADJ _005197353 50 27 conferences conference NOUN _005197353 50 28 with with ADP _005197353 50 29 both both DET _005197353 50 30 parties party NOUN _005197353 50 31 . . PUNCT _005197353 51 1 to to PART _005197353 51 2 be be AUX _005197353 51 3 significant significant ADJ _005197353 51 4 and and CCONJ _005197353 51 5 representative representative ADJ _005197353 51 6 , , PUNCT _005197353 51 7 the the DET _005197353 51 8 findings finding NOUN _005197353 51 9 must must AUX _005197353 51 10 be be AUX _005197353 51 11 based base VERB _005197353 51 12 on on ADP _005197353 51 13 thousands thousand NOUN _005197353 51 14 of of ADP _005197353 51 15 cases case NOUN _005197353 51 16 and and CCONJ _005197353 51 17 hence hence ADV _005197353 51 18 usually usually ADV _005197353 51 19 beyond beyond ADP _005197353 51 20 the the DET _005197353 51 21 experience experience NOUN _005197353 51 22 of of ADP _005197353 51 23 any any DET _005197353 51 24 one one NUM _005197353 51 25 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 51 26 counselor counselor NOUN _005197353 51 27 . . PUNCT _005197353 52 1 reconciliation reconciliation NOUN _005197353 52 2 court court NOUN _005197353 52 3 thousands thousand NOUN _005197353 52 4 of of ADP _005197353 52 5 failing fail VERB _005197353 52 6 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 52 7 are be AUX _005197353 52 8 brought bring VERB _005197353 52 9 to to ADP _005197353 52 10 the the DET _005197353 52 11 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 52 12 reconciliation reconciliation NOUN _005197353 52 13 court court NOUN _005197353 52 14 established establish VERB _005197353 52 15 by by ADP _005197353 52 16 the the DET _005197353 52 17 authorities authority NOUN _005197353 52 18 of of ADP _005197353 52 19 a a DET _005197353 52 20 large large ADJ _005197353 52 21 catholic catholic ADJ _005197353 52 22 archdiocese archdiocese NOUN _005197353 52 23 with with ADP _005197353 52 24 more more ADJ _005197353 52 25 than than ADP _005197353 52 26 a a DET _005197353 52 27 million million NUM _005197353 52 28 members member NOUN _005197353 52 29 . . PUNCT _005197353 53 1 before before ADP _005197353 53 2 a a DET _005197353 53 3 couple couple NOUN _005197353 53 4 files file NOUN _005197353 53 5 suit suit NOUN _005197353 53 6 for for ADP _005197353 53 7 legal legal ADJ _005197353 53 8 separation separation NOUN _005197353 53 9 or or CCONJ _005197353 53 10 divorce divorce NOUN _005197353 53 11 they they PRON _005197353 53 12 are be AUX _005197353 53 13 asked ask VERB _005197353 53 14 to to PART _005197353 53 15 submit submit VERB _005197353 53 16 their their PRON _005197353 53 17 case case NOUN _005197353 53 18 to to PART _005197353 53 19 expert expert VERB _005197353 53 20 7 7 NUM _005197353 53 21 counselors counselor NOUN _005197353 53 22 who who PRON _005197353 53 23 investigate investigate VERB _005197353 53 24 every every DET _005197353 53 25 angle angle NOUN _005197353 53 26 . . PUNCT _005197353 54 1 each each DET _005197353 54 2 party party NOUN _005197353 54 3 tells tell VERB _005197353 54 4 his his PRON _005197353 54 5 story story NOUN _005197353 54 6 with with ADP _005197353 54 7 frankness frankness NOUN _005197353 54 8 and and CCONJ _005197353 54 9 in in ADP _005197353 54 10 detail^ detail^ NOUN _005197353 54 11 knowing know VERB _005197353 54 12 that that SCONJ _005197353 54 13 the the DET _005197353 54 14 counselor counselor NOUN _005197353 54 15 must must AUX _005197353 54 16 have have VERB _005197353 54 17 the the DET _005197353 54 18 real real ADJ _005197353 54 19 facts fact NOUN _005197353 54 20 before before SCONJ _005197353 54 21 he he PRON _005197353 54 22 will will AUX _005197353 54 23 act act VERB _005197353 54 24 . . PUNCT _005197353 55 1 every every DET _005197353 55 2 effort effort NOUN _005197353 55 3 is be AUX _005197353 55 4 then then ADV _005197353 55 5 made make VERB _005197353 55 6 either either CCONJ _005197353 55 7 to to PART _005197353 55 8 remove remove VERB _005197353 55 9 the the DET _005197353 55 10 booby booby NOUN _005197353 55 11 trap trap NOUN _005197353 55 12 or or CCONJ _005197353 55 13 to to PART _005197353 55 14 show show VERB _005197353 55 15 the the DET _005197353 55 16 couple couple NOUN _005197353 55 17 how how SCONJ _005197353 55 18 they they PRON _005197353 55 19 can can AUX _005197353 55 20 walk walk VERB _005197353 55 21 warily warily ADV _005197353 55 22 around around ADP _005197353 55 23 it it PRON _005197353 55 24 . . PUNCT _005197353 56 1 as as ADP _005197353 56 2 a a DET _005197353 56 3 result result NOUN _005197353 56 4 thousands thousand NOUN _005197353 56 5 of of ADP _005197353 56 6 couples couple NOUN _005197353 56 7 are be AUX _005197353 56 8 reconciled reconcile VERB _005197353 56 9 and and CCONJ _005197353 56 10 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 56 11 headed head VERB _005197353 56 12 for for ADP _005197353 56 13 the the DET _005197353 56 14 divorce divorce NOUN _005197353 56 15 courts court NOUN _005197353 56 16 are be AUX _005197353 56 17 salvaged salvage VERB _005197353 56 18 , , PUNCT _005197353 56 19 to to ADP _005197353 56 20 the the DET _005197353 56 21 immense immense ADJ _005197353 56 22 benefit benefit NOUN _005197353 56 23 of of ADP _005197353 56 24 the the DET _005197353 56 25 husband husband NOUN _005197353 56 26 and and CCONJ _005197353 56 27 wife wife NOUN _005197353 56 28 , , PUNCT _005197353 56 29 the the DET _005197353 56 30 children child NOUN _005197353 56 31 and and CCONJ _005197353 56 32 society society NOUN _005197353 56 33 . . PUNCT _005197353 57 1 where where SCONJ _005197353 57 2 the the DET _005197353 57 3 case case NOUN _005197353 57 4 is be AUX _005197353 57 5 absolutely absolutely ADV _005197353 57 6 hopeless hopeless ADJ _005197353 57 7 , , PUNCT _005197353 57 8 arrangements arrangement NOUN _005197353 57 9 are be AUX _005197353 57 10 then then ADV _005197353 57 11 made make VERB _005197353 57 12 to to PART _005197353 57 13 secure secure VERB _005197353 57 14 legal legal ADJ _005197353 57 15 separation separation NOUN _005197353 57 16 or or CCONJ _005197353 57 17 divorce divorce NOUN _005197353 57 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 58 1 here here ADV _005197353 58 2 then then ADV _005197353 58 3 , , PUNCT _005197353 58 4 if if SCONJ _005197353 58 5 ever ever ADV _005197353 58 6 , , PUNCT _005197353 58 7 we we PRON _005197353 58 8 can can AUX _005197353 58 9 get get VERB _005197353 58 10 at at ADP _005197353 58 11 the the DET _005197353 58 12 actual actual ADJ _005197353 58 13 specific specific ADJ _005197353 58 14 causes cause NOUN _005197353 58 15 of of ADP _005197353 58 16 marital marital ADJ _005197353 58 17 failure failure NOUN _005197353 58 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 59 1 through through ADP _005197353 59 2 the the DET _005197353 59 3 kind kind ADJ _005197353 59 4 cooperation cooperation NOUN _005197353 59 5 of of ADP _005197353 59 6 the the DET _005197353 59 7 counselors counselor NOUN _005197353 59 8 of of ADP _005197353 59 9 the the DET _005197353 59 10 reconciliation reconciliation NOUN _005197353 59 11 court court NOUN _005197353 59 12 i i PRON _005197353 59 13 was be AUX _005197353 59 14 privileged privileged ADJ _005197353 59 15 to to PART _005197353 59 16 study study VERB _005197353 59 17 the the DET _005197353 59 18 records record NOUN _005197353 59 19 . . PUNCT _005197353 60 1 in in ADP _005197353 60 2 addition addition NOUN _005197353 60 3 each each PRON _005197353 60 4 of of ADP _005197353 60 5 the the DET _005197353 60 6 four four NUM _005197353 60 7 counselors counselor NOUN _005197353 60 8 drew draw VERB _005197353 60 9 up up ADP _005197353 60 10 a a DET _005197353 60 11 list list NOUN _005197353 60 12 of of ADP _005197353 60 13 the the DET _005197353 60 14 ten ten NUM _005197353 60 15 chief chief ADJ _005197353 60 16 causes cause NOUN _005197353 60 17 of of ADP _005197353 60 18 marital marital ADJ _005197353 60 19 disruption disruption NOUN _005197353 60 20 in in ADP _005197353 60 21 all all DET _005197353 60 22 the the DET _005197353 60 23 cases case NOUN _005197353 60 24 assigned assign VERB _005197353 60 25 for for ADP _005197353 60 26 his his PRON _005197353 60 27 mediation mediation NOUN _005197353 60 28 . . PUNCT _005197353 61 1 recently recently ADV _005197353 61 2 , , PUNCT _005197353 61 3 dr dr PROPN _005197353 61 4 . . PROPN _005197353 61 5 john john PROPN _005197353 61 6 l. l. PROPN _005197353 61 7 thomas thomas PROPN _005197353 61 8 , , PUNCT _005197353 61 9 assistant assistant NOUN _005197353 61 10 director director NOUN _005197353 61 11 of of ADP _005197353 61 12 the the DET _005197353 61 13 institute institute PROPN _005197353 61 14 of of ADP _005197353 61 15 social social ADJ _005197353 61 16 order order NOUN _005197353 61 17 , , PUNCT _005197353 61 18 st st PROPN _005197353 61 19 . . PROPN _005197353 61 20 louis louis PROPN _005197353 61 21 university university PROPN _005197353 61 22 , , PUNCT _005197353 61 23 subjected subject VERB _005197353 61 24 7,000 7,000 NUM _005197353 61 25 of of ADP _005197353 61 26 these these DET _005197353 61 27 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 61 28 failures failure NOUN _005197353 61 29 to to ADP _005197353 61 30 painstaking painstaking ADJ _005197353 61 31 study study NOUN _005197353 61 32 and and CCONJ _005197353 61 33 analysis analysis NOUN _005197353 61 34 to to PART _005197353 61 35 get get VERB _005197353 61 36 at at ADP _005197353 61 37 their their PRON _005197353 61 38 real real ADJ _005197353 61 39 causes cause NOUN _005197353 61 40 . . PUNCT _005197353 62 1 since since SCONJ _005197353 62 2 dr dr PROPN _005197353 62 3 . . PROPN _005197353 62 4 thomas thomas PROPN _005197353 62 5 is be AUX _005197353 62 6 an an DET _005197353 62 7 experienced experienced ADJ _005197353 62 8 research research NOUN _005197353 62 9 scholar scholar NOUN _005197353 62 10 in in ADP _005197353 62 11 this this DET _005197353 62 12 field field NOUN _005197353 62 13 and and CCONJ _005197353 62 14 uses use VERB _005197353 62 15 objective objective ADJ _005197353 62 16 standards standard NOUN _005197353 62 17 for for ADP _005197353 62 18 the the DET _005197353 62 19 appraisal appraisal NOUN _005197353 62 20 of of ADP _005197353 62 21 the the DET _005197353 62 22 importance importance NOUN _005197353 62 23 of of ADP _005197353 62 24 the the DET _005197353 62 25 numerous numerous ADJ _005197353 62 26 factors factor NOUN _005197353 62 27 criss8 criss8 PROPN _005197353 62 28 crossing cross VERB _005197353 62 29 in in ADP _005197353 62 30 nearly nearly ADV _005197353 62 31 every every PRON _005197353 62 32 case case NOUN _005197353 62 33 , , PUNCT _005197353 62 34 the the DET _005197353 62 35 results result NOUN _005197353 62 36 of of ADP _005197353 62 37 his his PRON _005197353 62 38 analysis analysis NOUN _005197353 62 39 are be AUX _005197353 62 40 of of ADP _005197353 62 41 special special ADJ _005197353 62 42 significance significance NOUN _005197353 62 43 . . PUNCT _005197353 63 1 he he PRON _005197353 63 2 began begin VERB _005197353 63 3 by by ADP _005197353 63 4 separating separate VERB _005197353 63 5 for for ADP _005197353 63 6 special special ADJ _005197353 63 7 treatment treatment NOUN _005197353 63 8 the the DET _005197353 63 9 obviously obviously ADV _005197353 63 10 non non ADJ _005197353 63 11 - - ADJ _005197353 63 12 typical typical ADJ _005197353 63 13 cases case NOUN _005197353 63 14 where where SCONJ _005197353 63 15 the the DET _005197353 63 16 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 63 17 was be AUX _005197353 63 18 contracted contract VERB _005197353 63 19 under under ADP _005197353 63 20 circumstances circumstance NOUN _005197353 63 21 that that PRON _005197353 63 22 placed place VERB _005197353 63 23 unusual unusual ADJ _005197353 63 24 roadblocks roadblock NOUN _005197353 63 25 in in ADP _005197353 63 26 the the DET _005197353 63 27 way way NOUN _005197353 63 28 of of ADP _005197353 63 29 its its PRON _005197353 63 30 stability stability NOUN _005197353 63 31 and and CCONJ _005197353 63 32 success success NOUN _005197353 63 33 . . PUNCT _005197353 64 1 these these PRON _005197353 64 2 included include VERB _005197353 64 3 “ " PUNCT _005197353 64 4 war war NOUN _005197353 64 5 marriages/ marriages/ SPACE _005197353 64 6 ’ ' PUNCT _005197353 64 7 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 64 8 in in ADP _005197353 64 9 which which PRON _005197353 64 10 the the DET _005197353 64 11 bride bride NOUN _005197353 64 12 was be AUX _005197353 64 13 pregnant pregnant ADJ _005197353 64 14 at at ADP _005197353 64 15 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 64 16 , , PUNCT _005197353 64 17 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 64 18 in in ADP _005197353 64 19 which which PRON _005197353 64 20 children child NOUN _005197353 64 21 were be AUX _005197353 64 22 absolutely absolutely ADV _005197353 64 23 excluded exclude VERB _005197353 64 24 from from ADP _005197353 64 25 the the DET _005197353 64 26 beginning beginning NOUN _005197353 64 27 , , PUNCT _005197353 64 28 and and CCONJ _005197353 64 29 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 64 30 of of ADP _005197353 64 31 widows widow NOUN _005197353 64 32 and/or and/or CCONJ _005197353 64 33 widowers widower NOUN _005197353 64 34 . . PUNCT _005197353 65 1 subsequent subsequent ADJ _005197353 65 2 analysis analysis NOUN _005197353 65 3 disclosed disclose VERB _005197353 65 4 that that SCONJ _005197353 65 5 these these DET _005197353 65 6 categories category NOUN _005197353 65 7 contain contain VERB _005197353 65 8 cases case NOUN _005197353 65 9 which which PRON _005197353 65 10 present present VERB _005197353 65 11 their their PRON _005197353 65 12 own own ADJ _005197353 65 13 distinct distinct ADJ _005197353 65 14 patterns pattern NOUN _005197353 65 15 of of ADP _005197353 65 16 disintegration disintegration NOUN _005197353 65 17 . . PUNCT _005197353 66 1 they they PRON _005197353 66 2 are be AUX _005197353 66 3 not not PART _005197353 66 4 therefore therefore ADV _005197353 66 5 representative representative NOUN _005197353 66 6 of of ADP _005197353 66 7 the the DET _005197353 66 8 normal normal ADJ _005197353 66 9 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 66 10 which which PRON _005197353 66 11 is be AUX _005197353 66 12 not not PART _005197353 66 13 saddled saddle VERB _005197353 66 14 from from ADP _005197353 66 15 the the DET _005197353 66 16 very very ADJ _005197353 66 17 beginning beginning NOUN _005197353 66 18 with with ADP _005197353 66 19 such such ADJ _005197353 66 20 hazards hazard NOUN _005197353 66 21 . . PUNCT _005197353 67 1 the the DET _005197353 67 2 nontypical nontypical ADJ _005197353 67 3 cases case NOUN _005197353 67 4 just just ADV _005197353 67 5 mentioned mention VERB _005197353 67 6 constituted constitute VERB _005197353 67 7 about about ADV _005197353 67 8 20 20 NUM _005197353 67 9 per per ADP _005197353 67 10 cent cent NOUN _005197353 67 11 of of ADP _005197353 67 12 the the DET _005197353 67 13 7,000 7,000 NUM _005197353 67 14 cases case NOUN _005197353 67 15 . . PUNCT _005197353 68 1 an an DET _005197353 68 2 analysis analysis NOUN _005197353 68 3 of of ADP _005197353 68 4 the the DET _005197353 68 5 remaining remain VERB _005197353 68 6 80 80 NUM _005197353 68 7 per per NOUN _005197353 68 8 cent cent NOUN _005197353 68 9 revealed reveal VERB _005197353 68 10 the the DET _005197353 68 11 nine nine NUM _005197353 68 12 chief chief ADJ _005197353 68 13 factors factor NOUN _005197353 68 14 which which PRON _005197353 68 15 stymied stymie VERB _005197353 68 16 the the DET _005197353 68 17 hopes hope NOUN _005197353 68 18 and and CCONJ _005197353 68 19 ambitions ambition NOUN _005197353 68 20 of of ADP _005197353 68 21 the the DET _005197353 68 22 couples couple NOUN _005197353 68 23 for for ADP _005197353 68 24 domestic domestic ADJ _005197353 68 25 peace peace NOUN _005197353 68 26 and and CCONJ _005197353 68 27 happiness happiness NOUN _005197353 68 28 . . PUNCT _005197353 69 1 chief chief ADJ _005197353 69 2 culprit culprit NOUN _005197353 69 3 the the DET _005197353 69 4 chief chief ADJ _005197353 69 5 culprit culprit NOUN _005197353 69 6 proved prove VERB _005197353 69 7 to to PART _005197353 69 8 be be AUX _005197353 69 9 drink drink VERB _005197353 69 10 . . PUNCT _005197353 70 1 it it PRON _005197353 70 2 brought bring VERB _005197353 70 3 misery misery NOUN _005197353 70 4 and and CCONJ _005197353 70 5 disaster disaster NOUN _005197353 70 6 to to ADP _005197353 70 7 more more ADJ _005197353 70 8 couples couple NOUN _005197353 70 9 than than ADP _005197353 70 10 any any DET _005197353 70 11 other other ADJ _005197353 70 12 single single ADJ _005197353 70 13 factor factor NOUN _005197353 70 14 , , PUNCT _005197353 70 15 being be AUX _005197353 70 16 responsible responsible ADJ _005197353 70 17 for for ADP _005197353 70 18 29.8 29.8 NUM _005197353 70 19 per per ADP _005197353 70 20 cent cent NOUN _005197353 70 21 of of ADP _005197353 70 22 the the DET _005197353 70 23 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 70 24 failures failure NOUN _005197353 70 25 . . PUNCT _005197353 71 1 these these PRON _005197353 71 2 do do AUX _005197353 71 3 not not PART _005197353 71 4 include include VERB _005197353 71 5 the the DET _005197353 71 6 cases case NOUN _005197353 71 7 wherein wherein SCONJ _005197353 71 8 excessive excessive ADJ _005197353 71 9 drinking drinking NOUN _005197353 71 10 occurred occur VERB _005197353 71 11 9 9 NUM _005197353 71 12 only only ADV _005197353 71 13 after after ADP _005197353 71 14 dissatisfaction dissatisfaction NOUN _005197353 71 15 with with ADP _005197353 71 16 the the DET _005197353 71 17 union union NOUN _005197353 71 18 developed develop VERB _005197353 71 19 . . PUNCT _005197353 72 1 in in ADP _005197353 72 2 such such ADJ _005197353 72 3 cases case NOUN _005197353 72 4 it it PRON _005197353 72 5 is be AUX _005197353 72 6 more more ADV _005197353 72 7 properly properly ADV _005197353 72 8 considered consider VERB _005197353 72 9 a a DET _005197353 72 10 “ " PUNCT _005197353 72 11 symptom symptom NOUN _005197353 72 12 ” " PUNCT _005197353 72 13 and and CCONJ _005197353 72 14 not not PART _005197353 72 15 a a DET _005197353 72 16 causal causal ADJ _005197353 72 17 factor factor NOUN _005197353 72 18 in in ADP _005197353 72 19 the the DET _005197353 72 20 breakdown breakdown NOUN _005197353 72 21 . . PUNCT _005197353 73 1 here here ADV _005197353 73 2 are be AUX _005197353 73 3 included include VERB _005197353 73 4 only only ADV _005197353 73 5 those those DET _005197353 73 6 cases case NOUN _005197353 73 7 in in ADP _005197353 73 8 which which PRON _005197353 73 9 the the DET _005197353 73 10 excessive excessive ADJ _005197353 73 11 use use NOUN _005197353 73 12 of of ADP _005197353 73 13 alcohol alcohol NOUN _005197353 73 14 appears appear VERB _005197353 73 15 to to PART _005197353 73 16 have have AUX _005197353 73 17 been be AUX _005197353 73 18 the the DET _005197353 73 19 major major ADJ _005197353 73 20 factor factor NOUN _005197353 73 21 in in ADP _005197353 73 22 the the DET _005197353 73 23 maladjustment maladjustment NOUN _005197353 73 24 . . PUNCT _005197353 74 1 it it PRON _005197353 74 2 is be AUX _005197353 74 3 worth worth ADJ _005197353 74 4 noting note VERB _005197353 74 5 that that SCONJ _005197353 74 6 drinking drink VERB _005197353 74 7 as as ADP _005197353 74 8 such such ADJ _005197353 74 9 never never ADV _005197353 74 10 appears appear VERB _005197353 74 11 alone alone ADV _005197353 74 12 : : PUNCT _005197353 74 13 it it PRON _005197353 74 14 brings bring VERB _005197353 74 15 in in ADP _005197353 74 16 its its PRON _005197353 74 17 train train NOUN _005197353 74 18 many many ADJ _005197353 74 19 other other ADJ _005197353 74 20 evil evil ADJ _005197353 74 21 consequences consequence NOUN _005197353 74 22 , , PUNCT _005197353 74 23 notably notably ADV _005197353 74 24 , , PUNCT _005197353 74 25 financial financial ADJ _005197353 74 26 difficulties difficulty NOUN _005197353 74 27 . . PUNCT _005197353 75 1 alcohol alcohol NOUN _005197353 75 2 has have AUX _005197353 75 3 become become VERB _005197353 75 4 one one NUM _005197353 75 5 of of ADP _005197353 75 6 the the DET _005197353 75 7 most most ADV _005197353 75 8 expensive expensive ADJ _005197353 75 9 items item NOUN _005197353 75 10 humans human NOUN _005197353 75 11 consume consume VERB _005197353 75 12 and and CCONJ _005197353 75 13 a a DET _005197353 75 14 frequent frequent ADJ _005197353 75 15 companion companion NOUN _005197353 75 16 in in ADP _005197353 75 17 misery misery NOUN _005197353 75 18 to to ADP _005197353 75 19 it it PRON _005197353 75 20 is be AUX _005197353 75 21 nonsupport nonsupport NOUN _005197353 75 22 of of ADP _005197353 75 23 the the DET _005197353 75 24 family family NOUN _005197353 75 25 . . PUNCT _005197353 76 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 76 2 joe joe PROPN _005197353 76 3 seems seem VERB _005197353 76 4 to to PART _005197353 76 5 have have VERB _005197353 76 6 a a DET _005197353 76 7 hole hole NOUN _005197353 76 8 in in ADP _005197353 76 9 his his PRON _005197353 76 10 pocket pocket NOUN _005197353 76 11 , , PUNCT _005197353 76 12 ” " PUNCT _005197353 76 13 remarked remark VERB _005197353 76 14 his his PRON _005197353 76 15 wife wife NOUN _005197353 76 16 . . PUNCT _005197353 77 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 77 2 his his PRON _005197353 77 3 week week NOUN _005197353 77 4 ’s ’s PART _005197353 77 5 wages wage NOUN _005197353 77 6 slip slip VERB _005197353 77 7 through through ADP _005197353 77 8 it it PRON _005197353 77 9 so so ADV _005197353 77 10 fast fast ADV _005197353 77 11 that that SCONJ _005197353 77 12 he he PRON _005197353 77 13 brings bring VERB _005197353 77 14 but but CCONJ _005197353 77 15 little little ADJ _005197353 77 16 home home NOUN _005197353 77 17 for for ADP _005197353 77 18 the the DET _005197353 77 19 family family NOUN _005197353 77 20 . . PUNCT _005197353 77 21 ” " PUNCT _005197353 78 1 a a DET _005197353 78 2 little little ADJ _005197353 78 3 probing probing NOUN _005197353 78 4 quickly quickly ADV _005197353 78 5 disclosed disclose VERB _005197353 78 6 that that SCONJ _005197353 78 7 it it PRON _005197353 78 8 poured pour VERB _005197353 78 9 out out ADP _005197353 78 10 of of ADP _005197353 78 11 joe joe PROPN _005197353 78 12 ’s ’s PROPN _005197353 78 13 pocket pocket NOUN _005197353 78 14 as as ADV _005197353 78 15 fast fast ADV _005197353 78 16 as as SCONJ _005197353 78 17 he he PRON _005197353 78 18 poured pour VERB _005197353 78 19 liquor liquor NOUN _005197353 78 20 down down ADP _005197353 78 21 his his PRON _005197353 78 22 gullet gullet NOUN _005197353 78 23 . . PUNCT _005197353 79 1 another another DET _005197353 79 2 frequent frequent ADJ _005197353 79 3 companion companion NOUN _005197353 79 4 , , PUNCT _005197353 79 5 or or CCONJ _005197353 79 6 rather rather ADV _005197353 79 7 by by ADP _005197353 79 8 - - PUNCT _005197353 79 9 product product NOUN _005197353 79 10 , , PUNCT _005197353 79 11 of of ADP _005197353 79 12 drinking drinking NOUN _005197353 79 13 is be AUX _005197353 79 14 irritableness irritableness ADJ _005197353 79 15 , , PUNCT _005197353 79 16 belligerency belligerency NOUN _005197353 79 17 , , PUNCT _005197353 79 18 cruel cruel ADJ _005197353 79 19 and and CCONJ _005197353 79 20 abusive abusive ADJ _005197353 79 21 treatment treatment NOUN _005197353 79 22 of of ADP _005197353 79 23 wife wife NOUN _005197353 79 24 and and CCONJ _005197353 79 25 even even ADV _005197353 79 26 of of ADP _005197353 79 27 the the DET _005197353 79 28 children child NOUN _005197353 79 29 . . PUNCT _005197353 80 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 80 2 bob bob PROPN _005197353 80 3 was be AUX _005197353 80 4 always always ADV _005197353 80 5 pleasant pleasant ADJ _005197353 80 6 and and CCONJ _005197353 80 7 considerate considerate ADJ _005197353 80 8 before before SCONJ _005197353 80 9 he he PRON _005197353 80 10 began begin VERB _005197353 80 11 to to PART _005197353 80 12 drink drink VERB _005197353 80 13 excessively excessively ADV _005197353 80 14 , , PUNCT _005197353 80 15 ” " PUNCT _005197353 80 16 said say VERB _005197353 80 17 evelyn evelyn PROPN _005197353 80 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 81 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 81 2 now now ADV _005197353 81 3 when when SCONJ _005197353 81 4 he he PRON _005197353 81 5 comes come VERB _005197353 81 6 home home ADV _005197353 81 7 , , PUNCT _005197353 81 8 he he PRON _005197353 81 9 gives give VERB _005197353 81 10 a a DET _005197353 81 11 little little ADJ _005197353 81 12 peck peck NOUN _005197353 81 13 at at ADP _005197353 81 14 my my PRON _005197353 81 15 cheek cheek NOUN _005197353 81 16 , , PUNCT _005197353 81 17 says say VERB _005197353 81 18 ‘ ' PUNCT _005197353 81 19 hello hello INTJ _005197353 81 20 ’ ' PUNCT _005197353 81 21 to to ADP _005197353 81 22 the the DET _005197353 81 23 kids kid NOUN _005197353 81 24 , , PUNCT _005197353 81 25 and and CCONJ _005197353 81 26 then then ADV _005197353 81 27 pours pour VERB _005197353 81 28 himself himself PRON _005197353 81 29 out out ADP _005197353 81 30 four four NUM _005197353 81 31 stout stout ADJ _005197353 81 32 martini martini NOUN _005197353 81 33 cocktails cocktail NOUN _005197353 81 34 . . PUNCT _005197353 82 1 10 10 NUM _005197353 82 2 after after ADP _005197353 82 3 downing down VERB _005197353 82 4 these these PRON _005197353 82 5 he he PRON _005197353 82 6 becomes become VERB _005197353 82 7 sullen sullen ADJ _005197353 82 8 and and CCONJ _005197353 82 9 disagreeable disagreeable ADJ _005197353 82 10 . . PUNCT _005197353 83 1 he he PRON _005197353 83 2 flies fly VERB _005197353 83 3 into into ADP _005197353 83 4 a a DET _005197353 83 5 rage rage NOUN _005197353 83 6 when when SCONJ _005197353 83 7 the the DET _005197353 83 8 children child NOUN _005197353 83 9 get get VERB _005197353 83 10 a a DET _005197353 83 11 bit bit NOUN _005197353 83 12 noisy noisy ADV _005197353 83 13 and and CCONJ _005197353 83 14 we we PRON _005197353 83 15 are be AUX _005197353 83 16 all all ADV _005197353 83 17 on on ADP _005197353 83 18 edge edge NOUN _005197353 83 19 — — PUNCT _005197353 83 20 wondering wonder VERB _005197353 83 21 upon upon SCONJ _005197353 83 22 whom whom PRON _005197353 83 23 his his PRON _005197353 83 24 wrath wrath NOUN _005197353 83 25 is be AUX _005197353 83 26 next next ADJ _005197353 83 27 to to PART _005197353 83 28 fall fall VERB _005197353 83 29 . . PUNCT _005197353 84 1 it it PRON _005197353 84 2 ’s ’s AUX _005197353 84 3 ruining ruin VERB _005197353 84 4 our our PRON _005197353 84 5 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 84 6 . . PUNCT _005197353 84 7 ’ ' PUNCT _005197353 84 8 ’ ' PUNCT _005197353 84 9 a a DET _005197353 84 10 third third ADJ _005197353 84 11 evil evil ADJ _005197353 84 12 consequence consequence NOUN _005197353 84 13 of of ADP _005197353 84 14 excessive excessive ADJ _005197353 84 15 drinking drinking NOUN _005197353 84 16 is be AUX _005197353 84 17 that that SCONJ _005197353 84 18 it it PRON _005197353 84 19 occasionally occasionally ADV _005197353 84 20 leads lead VERB _005197353 84 21 to to ADP _005197353 84 22 association association NOUN _005197353 84 23 with with ADP _005197353 84 24 doubtful doubtful ADJ _005197353 84 25 characters character NOUN _005197353 84 26 of of ADP _005197353 84 27 the the DET _005197353 84 28 opposite opposite ADJ _005197353 84 29 sex sex NOUN _005197353 84 30 — — PUNCT _005197353 84 31 the the DET _005197353 84 32 “ " PUNCT _005197353 84 33 bar bar NOUN _005197353 84 34 - - PUNCT _005197353 84 35 flies fly NOUN _005197353 84 36 ” " PUNCT _005197353 84 37 and and CCONJ _005197353 84 38 the the DET _005197353 84 39 “ " PUNCT _005197353 84 40 b b PROPN _005197353 84 41 ” " PUNCT _005197353 84 42 girls girl NOUN _005197353 84 43 who who PRON _005197353 84 44 are be AUX _005197353 84 45 paid pay VERB _005197353 84 46 to to PART _005197353 84 47 stimulate stimulate VERB _005197353 84 48 patrons patron NOUN _005197353 84 49 to to PART _005197353 84 50 squander squander VERB _005197353 84 51 their their PRON _005197353 84 52 money money NOUN _005197353 84 53 in in ADP _005197353 84 54 excessive excessive ADJ _005197353 84 55 drinking drinking NOUN _005197353 84 56 . . PUNCT _005197353 85 1 some some PRON _005197353 85 2 of of ADP _005197353 85 3 these these DET _005197353 85 4 tavern tavern ADJ _005197353 85 5 envoys envoy NOUN _005197353 85 6 do do AUX _005197353 85 7 not not PART _005197353 85 8 hesitate hesitate VERB _005197353 85 9 to to PART _005197353 85 10 increase increase VERB _005197353 85 11 their their PRON _005197353 85 12 earnings earning NOUN _005197353 85 13 by by ADP _005197353 85 14 leading lead VERB _005197353 85 15 their their PRON _005197353 85 16 inebriates inebriate NOUN _005197353 85 17 into into ADP _005197353 85 18 actions action NOUN _005197353 85 19 which which PRON _005197353 85 20 violate violate VERB _005197353 85 21 their their PRON _005197353 85 22 vow vow NOUN _005197353 85 23 of of ADP _005197353 85 24 conjugal conjugal ADJ _005197353 85 25 fidelity fidelity NOUN _005197353 85 26 . . PUNCT _005197353 86 1 men man NOUN _005197353 86 2 — — PUNCT _005197353 86 3 chief chief ADJ _005197353 86 4 offenders offender NOUN _005197353 86 5 in in ADP _005197353 86 6 but but CCONJ _005197353 86 7 a a DET _005197353 86 8 few few ADJ _005197353 86 9 cases case NOUN _005197353 86 10 was be AUX _005197353 86 11 the the DET _005197353 86 12 wtife wtife NOUN _005197353 86 13 guilty guilty ADJ _005197353 86 14 of of ADP _005197353 86 15 excessive excessive ADJ _005197353 86 16 drinking drinking NOUN _005197353 86 17 . . PUNCT _005197353 87 1 the the DET _005197353 87 2 social social ADJ _005197353 87 3 stigma stigma NOUN _005197353 87 4 attached attach VERB _005197353 87 5 to to ADP _005197353 87 6 women woman NOUN _005197353 87 7 who who PRON _005197353 87 8 indulge indulge VERB _005197353 87 9 excessively excessively ADV _005197353 87 10 is be AUX _005197353 87 11 much much ADV _005197353 87 12 greater great ADJ _005197353 87 13 than than ADP _005197353 87 14 that that DET _005197353 87 15 incurred incur VERB _005197353 87 16 by by ADP _005197353 87 17 men man NOUN _005197353 87 18 and and CCONJ _005197353 87 19 doubtless doubtless NOUN _005197353 87 20 serves serve NOUN _005197353 87 21 as as ADP _005197353 87 22 at at ADP _005197353 87 23 least least ADJ _005197353 87 24 a a DET _005197353 87 25 partial partial ADJ _005197353 87 26 deterrent deterrent NOUN _005197353 87 27 . . PUNCT _005197353 88 1 then then ADV _005197353 88 2 , , PUNCT _005197353 88 3 too too ADV _005197353 88 4 , , PUNCT _005197353 88 5 the the DET _005197353 88 6 frequentation frequentation NOUN _005197353 88 7 of of ADP _005197353 88 8 taverns tavern NOUN _005197353 88 9 by by ADP _005197353 88 10 single single ADJ _005197353 88 11 women woman NOUN _005197353 88 12 is be AUX _005197353 88 13 frowned frown VERB _005197353 88 14 upon upon SCONJ _005197353 88 15 much much ADV _005197353 88 16 more more ADV _005197353 88 17 seriously seriously ADV _005197353 88 18 than than ADP _005197353 88 19 in in ADP _005197353 88 20 the the DET _005197353 88 21 case case NOUN _005197353 88 22 of of ADP _005197353 88 23 men man NOUN _005197353 88 24 . . PUNCT _005197353 89 1 the the DET _005197353 89 2 finding finding NOUN _005197353 89 3 of of ADP _005197353 89 4 dr dr PROPN _005197353 89 5 . . PROPN _005197353 89 6 thomas thomas PROPN _005197353 89 7 that that SCONJ _005197353 89 8 excessive excessive ADJ _005197353 89 9 drinking drinking NOUN _005197353 89 10 is be AUX _005197353 89 11 the the DET _005197353 89 12 leading lead VERB _005197353 89 13 factor factor NOUN _005197353 89 14 in in ADP _005197353 89 15 the the DET _005197353 89 16 disruption disruption NOUN _005197353 89 17 of of ADP _005197353 89 18 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 89 19 was be AUX _005197353 89 20 confirmed confirm VERB _005197353 89 21 by by ADP _005197353 89 22 the the DET _005197353 89 23 analysis analysis NOUN _005197353 89 24 of of ADP _005197353 89 25 the the DET _005197353 89 26 four four NUM _005197353 89 27 counselors counselor NOUN _005197353 89 28 at at ADP _005197353 89 29 the the DET _005197353 89 30 reconciliation reconciliation NOUN _005197353 89 31 court court NOUN _005197353 89 32 . . PUNCT _005197353 90 1 judge judge PROPN _005197353 90 2 john john PROPN _005197353 90 3 a. a. PROPN _005197353 90 4 11 11 NUM _005197353 90 5 sharbaro sharbaro NOUN _005197353 90 6 of of ADP _005197353 90 7 chicago chicago PROPN _005197353 90 8 , , PUNCT _005197353 90 9 who who PRON _005197353 90 10 has have AUX _005197353 90 11 heard hear VERB _005197353 90 12 thousands thousand NOUN _005197353 90 13 of of ADP _005197353 90 14 divorce divorce NOUN _005197353 90 15 cases case NOUN _005197353 90 16 and and CCONJ _005197353 90 17 has have AUX _005197353 90 18 made make VERB _005197353 90 19 serious serious ADJ _005197353 90 20 efforts effort NOUN _005197353 90 21 to to PART _005197353 90 22 penetrate penetrate VERB _005197353 90 23 to to ADP _005197353 90 24 the the DET _005197353 90 25 underlying underlie VERB _005197353 90 26 causes cause NOUN _005197353 90 27 , , PUNCT _005197353 90 28 was be AUX _005197353 90 29 recently recently ADV _005197353 90 30 asked ask VERB _005197353 90 31 by by ADP _005197353 90 32 a a DET _005197353 90 33 news news NOUN _005197353 90 34 reporter reporter NOUN _005197353 90 35 : : PUNCT _005197353 91 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 91 2 what what PRON _005197353 91 3 , , PUNCT _005197353 91 4 judge judge NOUN _005197353 91 5 , , PUNCT _005197353 91 6 in in ADP _005197353 91 7 your your PRON _005197353 91 8 experience experience NOUN _005197353 91 9 is be AUX _005197353 91 10 the the DET _005197353 91 11 most most ADV _005197353 91 12 frequent frequent ADJ _005197353 91 13 cause cause NOUN _005197353 91 14 of of ADP _005197353 91 15 divorce divorce NOUN _005197353 91 16 ? ? PUNCT _005197353 91 17 ” " PUNCT _005197353 91 18 without without ADP _005197353 91 19 a a DET _005197353 91 20 moment moment NOUN _005197353 91 21 ’s ’s PART _005197353 91 22 hesitation hesitation NOUN _005197353 91 23 the the DET _005197353 91 24 judge judge NOUN _005197353 91 25 replied reply VERB _005197353 91 26 : : PUNCT _005197353 91 27 “ " PUNCT _005197353 91 28 drink drink VERB _005197353 91 29 . . PUNCT _005197353 91 30 ” " PUNCT _005197353 92 1 it it PRON _005197353 92 2 is be AUX _005197353 92 3 high high ADJ _005197353 92 4 time time NOUN _005197353 92 5 that that PRON _005197353 92 6 the the DET _005197353 92 7 danger danger NOUN _005197353 92 8 which which PRON _005197353 92 9 excessive excessive ADJ _005197353 92 10 drinking drinking NOUN _005197353 92 11 offers offer VERB _005197353 92 12 to to ADP _005197353 92 13 the the DET _005197353 92 14 success success NOUN _005197353 92 15 of of ADP _005197353 92 16 a a DET _005197353 92 17 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 92 18 be be AUX _005197353 92 19 frankly frankly ADV _005197353 92 20 recognized recognize VERB _005197353 92 21 . . PUNCT _005197353 93 1 no no DET _005197353 93 2 useful useful ADJ _005197353 93 3 purpose purpose NOUN _005197353 93 4 is be AUX _005197353 93 5 served serve VERB _005197353 93 6 by by ADP _005197353 93 7 assigning assign VERB _005197353 93 8 such such ADJ _005197353 93 9 vague vague ADJ _005197353 93 10 terms term NOUN _005197353 93 11 as as ADP _005197353 93 12 cruelty cruelty NOUN _005197353 93 13 or or CCONJ _005197353 93 14 uncongeniality uncongeniality NOUN _005197353 93 15 to to ADP _005197353 93 16 the the DET _005197353 93 17 chief chief ADJ _005197353 93 18 villain villain NOUN _005197353 93 19 in in ADP _005197353 93 20 the the DET _005197353 93 21 domestic domestic ADJ _005197353 93 22 drama drama NOUN _005197353 93 23 when when SCONJ _005197353 93 24 it it PRON _005197353 93 25 is be AUX _005197353 93 26 plain plain ADV _005197353 93 27 old old ADJ _005197353 93 28 - - PUNCT _005197353 93 29 fashioned fashioned ADJ _005197353 93 30 drunkenness drunkenness NOUN _005197353 93 31 . . PUNCT _005197353 94 1 some some DET _005197353 94 2 writers writer NOUN _005197353 94 3 are be AUX _005197353 94 4 inclined incline VERB _005197353 94 5 to to PART _005197353 94 6 dismiss dismiss VERB _005197353 94 7 rather rather ADV _005197353 94 8 flippantly flippantly ADV _005197353 94 9 such such ADJ _005197353 94 10 factors factor NOUN _005197353 94 11 as as ADP _005197353 94 12 drinking drinking NOUN _005197353 94 13 and and CCONJ _005197353 94 14 even even ADV _005197353 94 15 adultery adultery NOUN _005197353 94 16 as as ADP _005197353 94 17 merely merely ADV _005197353 94 18 symptomatic symptomatic ADJ _005197353 94 19 and and CCONJ _005197353 94 20 seek seek VERB _005197353 94 21 for for ADP _005197353 94 22 “ " PUNCT _005197353 94 23 causal causal ADJ _005197353 94 24 ” " PUNCT _005197353 94 25 factors factor NOUN _005197353 94 26 in in ADP _005197353 94 27 the the DET _005197353 94 28 depths depth NOUN _005197353 94 29 of of ADP _005197353 94 30 the the DET _005197353 94 31 individual individual ADJ _005197353 94 32 ’s ’s NOUN _005197353 94 33 personality personality NOUN _005197353 94 34 . . PUNCT _005197353 95 1 but but CCONJ _005197353 95 2 sociologists sociologist NOUN _005197353 95 3 , , PUNCT _005197353 95 4 psychologists psychologist NOUN _005197353 95 5 and and CCONJ _005197353 95 6 psychiatrists psychiatrist NOUN _005197353 95 7 are be AUX _005197353 95 8 in in ADP _005197353 95 9 the the DET _005197353 95 10 widest wide ADJ _005197353 95 11 disagreement disagreement NOUN _005197353 95 12 in in ADP _005197353 95 13 their their PRON _005197353 95 14 views view NOUN _005197353 95 15 on on ADP _005197353 95 16 depth depth NOUN _005197353 95 17 psychology psychology NOUN _005197353 95 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 96 1 hence hence ADV _005197353 96 2 the the DET _005197353 96 3 “ " PUNCT _005197353 96 4 causal causal ADJ _005197353 96 5 ” " PUNCT _005197353 96 6 factor factor NOUN _005197353 96 7 which which PRON _005197353 96 8 each each DET _005197353 96 9 advances advance NOUN _005197353 96 10 turns turn VERB _005197353 96 11 out out ADP _005197353 96 12 to to PART _005197353 96 13 be be AUX _005197353 96 14 little little ADV _005197353 96 15 more more ADJ _005197353 96 16 than than ADP _005197353 96 17 a a DET _005197353 96 18 reflection reflection NOUN _005197353 96 19 of of ADP _005197353 96 20 his his PRON _005197353 96 21 own own ADJ _005197353 96 22 particular particular ADJ _005197353 96 23 theory theory NOUN _005197353 96 24 of of ADP _005197353 96 25 personality personality NOUN _005197353 96 26 — — PUNCT _005197353 96 27 behaviorism behaviorism NOUN _005197353 96 28 , , PUNCT _005197353 96 29 freudianism freudianism NOUN _005197353 96 30 , , PUNCT _005197353 96 31 cultural cultural ADJ _005197353 96 32 determinism determinism NOUN _005197353 96 33 or or CCONJ _005197353 96 34 an an DET _005197353 96 35 eclectic eclectic ADJ _005197353 96 36 hodge hodge NOUN _005197353 96 37 - - PUNCT _005197353 96 38 podge podge NOUN _005197353 96 39 of of ADP _005197353 96 40 all all DET _005197353 96 41 these these PRON _005197353 96 42 . . PUNCT _005197353 97 1 the the DET _005197353 97 2 safer safe ADJ _005197353 97 3 course course NOUN _005197353 97 4 we we PRON _005197353 97 5 all all PRON _005197353 97 6 know know VERB _005197353 97 7 what what PRON _005197353 97 8 drunkenness drunkenness NOUN _005197353 97 9 is be AUX _005197353 97 10 , , PUNCT _005197353 97 11 even even ADV _005197353 97 12 12 12 NUM _005197353 97 13 though though SCONJ _005197353 97 14 we we PRON _005197353 97 15 may may AUX _005197353 97 16 not not PART _005197353 97 17 be be AUX _005197353 97 18 able able ADJ _005197353 97 19 to to PART _005197353 97 20 trace trace VERB _005197353 97 21 out out ADP _005197353 97 22 its its PRON _005197353 97 23 causal causal ADJ _005197353 97 24 roots root NOUN _005197353 97 25 . . PUNCT _005197353 98 1 that that PRON _005197353 98 2 ’s ’ VERB _005197353 98 3 a a DET _005197353 98 4 task task NOUN _005197353 98 5 now now ADV _005197353 98 6 engaging engage VERB _005197353 98 7 the the DET _005197353 98 8 attention attention NOUN _005197353 98 9 of of ADP _005197353 98 10 an an DET _005197353 98 11 army army NOUN _005197353 98 12 of of ADP _005197353 98 13 research research NOUN _005197353 98 14 scientists scientist NOUN _005197353 98 15 . . PUNCT _005197353 99 1 it it PRON _005197353 99 2 is be AUX _005197353 99 3 sufficient sufficient ADJ _005197353 99 4 for for SCONJ _005197353 99 5 our our PRON _005197353 99 6 purpose purpose NOUN _005197353 99 7 to to PART _005197353 99 8 point point VERB _005197353 99 9 out out ADP _005197353 99 10 that that SCONJ _005197353 99 11 excessive excessive ADJ _005197353 99 12 drinking drinking NOUN _005197353 99 13 can can AUX _005197353 99 14 lead lead VERB _005197353 99 15 , , PUNCT _005197353 99 16 and and CCONJ _005197353 99 17 is be AUX _005197353 99 18 now now ADV _005197353 99 19 actually actually ADV _005197353 99 20 leading lead VERB _005197353 99 21 , , PUNCT _005197353 99 22 to to ADP _005197353 99 23 the the DET _005197353 99 24 disintegration disintegration NOUN _005197353 99 25 of of ADP _005197353 99 26 thousands thousand NOUN _005197353 99 27 of of ADP _005197353 99 28 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 99 29 . . PUNCT _005197353 100 1 it it PRON _005197353 100 2 is be AUX _005197353 100 3 the the DET _005197353 100 4 worst bad ADJ _005197353 100 5 enemy enemy NOUN _005197353 100 6 of of ADP _005197353 100 7 a a DET _005197353 100 8 young young ADJ _005197353 100 9 couple couple NOUN _005197353 100 10 launching launch VERB _005197353 100 11 their their PRON _005197353 100 12 bark bark NOUN _005197353 100 13 on on ADP _005197353 100 14 the the DET _005197353 100 15 matrimonial matrimonial ADJ _005197353 100 16 seas sea NOUN _005197353 100 17 . . PUNCT _005197353 101 1 wherever wherever SCONJ _005197353 101 2 either either CCONJ _005197353 101 3 one one NUM _005197353 101 4 of of ADP _005197353 101 5 the the DET _005197353 101 6 couple couple NOUN _005197353 101 7 has have AUX _005197353 101 8 found find VERB _005197353 101 9 from from ADP _005197353 101 10 previous previous ADJ _005197353 101 11 experience experience NOUN _005197353 101 12 that that SCONJ _005197353 101 13 drinking drink VERB _005197353 101 14 is be AUX _005197353 101 15 a a DET _005197353 101 16 danger danger NOUN _005197353 101 17 that that PRON _005197353 101 18 threatens threaten VERB _005197353 101 19 to to PART _005197353 101 20 gain gain VERB _005197353 101 21 the the DET _005197353 101 22 upper upper ADJ _005197353 101 23 hand hand NOUN _005197353 101 24 , , PUNCT _005197353 101 25 it it PRON _005197353 101 26 is be AUX _005197353 101 27 advisable advisable ADJ _005197353 101 28 for for SCONJ _005197353 101 29 both both DET _005197353 101 30 parties party NOUN _005197353 101 31 to to PART _005197353 101 32 eschew eschew VERB _005197353 101 33 liquor liquor NOUN _005197353 101 34 entirely entirely ADV _005197353 101 35 . . PUNCT _005197353 102 1 indeed indeed ADV _005197353 102 2 , , PUNCT _005197353 102 3 it it PRON _005197353 102 4 is be AUX _005197353 102 5 safer safe ADJ _005197353 102 6 for for ADP _005197353 102 7 every every DET _005197353 102 8 young young ADJ _005197353 102 9 couple couple NOUN _005197353 102 10 who who PRON _005197353 102 11 wants want VERB _005197353 102 12 to to PART _005197353 102 13 get get VERB _005197353 102 14 the the DET _005197353 102 15 most most ADJ _005197353 102 16 out out ADP _005197353 102 17 of of ADP _005197353 102 18 their their PRON _005197353 102 19 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 102 20 to to PART _005197353 102 21 underwrite underwrite VERB _005197353 102 22 its its PRON _005197353 102 23 stability stability NOUN _005197353 102 24 and and CCONJ _005197353 102 25 success success NOUN _005197353 102 26 by by ADP _005197353 102 27 the the DET _005197353 102 28 avoidance avoidance NOUN _005197353 102 29 of of ADP _005197353 102 30 alcohol alcohol NOUN _005197353 102 31 in in ADP _005197353 102 32 every every DET _005197353 102 33 form form NOUN _005197353 102 34 . . PUNCT _005197353 103 1 it it PRON _005197353 103 2 is be AUX _005197353 103 3 an an DET _005197353 103 4 unnecessary unnecessary ADJ _005197353 103 5 , , PUNCT _005197353 103 6 costly costly ADJ _005197353 103 7 and and CCONJ _005197353 103 8 dangerous dangerous ADJ _005197353 103 9 indulgence indulgence NOUN _005197353 103 10 and and CCONJ _005197353 103 11 this this DET _005197353 103 12 study study NOUN _005197353 103 13 spells spell VERB _005197353 103 14 out out ADP _005197353 103 15 the the DET _005197353 103 16 headaches headache NOUN _005197353 103 17 and and CCONJ _005197353 103 18 the the DET _005197353 103 19 heartaches heartache NOUN _005197353 103 20 it it PRON _005197353 103 21 brings bring VERB _005197353 103 22 to to ADP _005197353 103 23 thousands thousand NOUN _005197353 103 24 . . PUNCT _005197353 104 1 adultery adultery NOUN _005197353 104 2 ranks rank VERB _005197353 104 3 second second ADV _005197353 104 4 , , PUNCT _005197353 104 5 accounting account VERB _005197353 104 6 for for ADP _005197353 104 7 24.8 24.8 NUM _005197353 104 8 per per ADP _005197353 104 9 cent cent NOUN _005197353 104 10 of of ADP _005197353 104 11 the the DET _005197353 104 12 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 104 13 failures failure NOUN _005197353 104 14 . . PUNCT _005197353 105 1 in in ADP _005197353 105 2 four four NUM _005197353 105 3 out out ADP _005197353 105 4 of of ADP _005197353 105 5 every every DET _005197353 105 6 five five NUM _005197353 105 7 cases case NOUN _005197353 105 8 the the DET _005197353 105 9 husband husband NOUN _005197353 105 10 was be AUX _005197353 105 11 the the DET _005197353 105 12 guilty guilty ADJ _005197353 105 13 partner partner NOUN _005197353 105 14 . . PUNCT _005197353 106 1 with with ADP _005197353 106 2 the the DET _005197353 106 3 numerous numerous ADJ _005197353 106 4 opportunities opportunity NOUN _005197353 106 5 for for ADP _005197353 106 6 infidelity infidelity NOUN _005197353 106 7 afforded afford VERB _005197353 106 8 by by ADP _005197353 106 9 modem modem PROPN _005197353 106 10 society society NOUN _005197353 106 11 , , PUNCT _005197353 106 12 especially especially ADV _005197353 106 13 in in ADP _005197353 106 14 large large ADJ _005197353 106 15 urban urban ADJ _005197353 106 16 communities community NOUN _005197353 106 17 , , PUNCT _005197353 106 18 individuals individual NOUN _005197353 106 19 of of ADP _005197353 106 20 a a DET _005197353 106 21 weak weak ADJ _005197353 106 22 character character NOUN _005197353 106 23 or or CCONJ _005197353 106 24 with with ADP _005197353 106 25 a a DET _005197353 106 26 low low ADJ _005197353 106 27 moral moral ADJ _005197353 106 28 code code NOUN _005197353 106 29 easily easily ADV _005197353 106 30 succumb succumb VERB _005197353 106 31 . . PUNCT _005197353 107 1 ranking rank VERB _005197353 107 2 this this DET _005197353 107 3 cause cause NOUN _005197353 107 4 in in ADP _005197353 107 5 second second ADJ _005197353 107 6 place place NOUN _005197353 107 7 squares square VERB _005197353 107 8 13 13 NUM _005197353 107 9 likewise likewise ADV _005197353 107 10 with with ADP _005197353 107 11 the the DET _005197353 107 12 findings finding NOUN _005197353 107 13 of of ADP _005197353 107 14 paul paul PROPN _005197353 107 15 j. j. PROPN _005197353 107 16 bicksler bicksler PROPN _005197353 107 17 , , PUNCT _005197353 107 18 a a DET _005197353 107 19 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 107 20 counselor counselor NOUN _005197353 107 21 with with ADP _005197353 107 22 years year NOUN _005197353 107 23 of of ADP _005197353 107 24 experience experience NOUN _005197353 107 25 . . PUNCT _005197353 108 1 it it PRON _005197353 108 2 can can AUX _005197353 108 3 not not PART _005197353 108 4 be be AUX _005197353 108 5 emphasized emphasize VERB _005197353 108 6 too too ADV _005197353 108 7 strongly strongly ADV _005197353 108 8 that that SCONJ _005197353 108 9 the the DET _005197353 108 10 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 108 11 contract contract NOUN _005197353 108 12 rests rest VERB _005197353 108 13 upon upon SCONJ _005197353 108 14 a a DET _005197353 108 15 vow vow NOUN _005197353 108 16 pledging pledge VERB _005197353 108 17 mutual mutual ADJ _005197353 108 18 fidelity fidelity NOUN _005197353 108 19 . . PUNCT _005197353 109 1 it it PRON _005197353 109 2 begets beget VERB _005197353 109 3 not not PART _005197353 109 4 merely merely ADV _005197353 109 5 a a DET _005197353 109 6 legal legal ADJ _005197353 109 7 but but CCONJ _005197353 109 8 a a DET _005197353 109 9 moral moral ADJ _005197353 109 10 and and CCONJ _005197353 109 11 a a DET _005197353 109 12 religious religious ADJ _005197353 109 13 obligation obligation NOUN _005197353 109 14 . . PUNCT _005197353 110 1 all all DET _005197353 110 2 the the DET _005197353 110 3 sanctions sanction NOUN _005197353 110 4 of of ADP _005197353 110 5 morality morality NOUN _005197353 110 6 and and CCONJ _005197353 110 7 religion religion NOUN _005197353 110 8 stand stand VERB _005197353 110 9 behind behind ADP _005197353 110 10 it it PRON _005197353 110 11 . . PUNCT _005197353 111 1 where where SCONJ _005197353 111 2 faith faith NOUN _005197353 111 3 and and CCONJ _005197353 111 4 trust trust NOUN _005197353 111 5 are be AUX _005197353 111 6 undermined undermine VERB _005197353 111 7 , , PUNCT _005197353 111 8 love love NOUN _005197353 111 9 can can AUX _005197353 111 10 not not PART _005197353 111 11 long long ADV _005197353 111 12 survive survive VERB _005197353 111 13 . . PUNCT _005197353 112 1 irresponsible irresponsible ADJ _005197353 112 2 and and CCONJ _005197353 112 3 immature immature ADJ _005197353 112 4 irresponsibility irresponsibility NOUN _005197353 112 5 is be AUX _005197353 112 6 the the DET _005197353 112 7 third third ADJ _005197353 112 8 most most ADV _005197353 112 9 frequent frequent ADJ _005197353 112 10 factor factor NOUN _005197353 112 11 , , PUNCT _005197353 112 12 accounting account VERB _005197353 112 13 for for ADP _005197353 112 14 the the DET _005197353 112 15 breakup breakup NOUN _005197353 112 16 of of ADP _005197353 112 17 12.4 12.4 NUM _005197353 112 18 per per ADP _005197353 112 19 cent cent NOUN _005197353 112 20 of of ADP _005197353 112 21 the the DET _005197353 112 22 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 112 23 . . PUNCT _005197353 113 1 it it PRON _005197353 113 2 means mean VERB _005197353 113 3 the the DET _005197353 113 4 failure failure NOUN _005197353 113 5 to to PART _005197353 113 6 shoulder shoulder VERB _005197353 113 7 the the DET _005197353 113 8 basic basic ADJ _005197353 113 9 obligations obligation NOUN _005197353 113 10 of of ADP _005197353 113 11 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 113 12 . . PUNCT _005197353 114 1 some some PRON _005197353 114 2 prefer prefer VERB _005197353 114 3 to to PART _005197353 114 4 label label VERB _005197353 114 5 this this DET _005197353 114 6 trait trait NOUN _005197353 114 7 “ " PUNCT _005197353 114 8 immaturity immaturity NOUN _005197353 114 9 . . PUNCT _005197353 114 10 ” " PUNCT _005197353 115 1 it it PRON _005197353 115 2 represents represent VERB _005197353 115 3 a a DET _005197353 115 4 strange strange ADJ _005197353 115 5 attitude attitude NOUN _005197353 115 6 : : PUNCT _005197353 115 7 the the DET _005197353 115 8 individual individual NOUN _005197353 115 9 seems seem VERB _005197353 115 10 to to PART _005197353 115 11 consider consider VERB _005197353 115 12 himself himself PRON _005197353 115 13 entitled entitle VERB _005197353 115 14 to to ADP _005197353 115 15 all all DET _005197353 115 16 the the DET _005197353 115 17 privileges privilege NOUN _005197353 115 18 of of ADP _005197353 115 19 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 115 20 but but CCONJ _005197353 115 21 curiously curiously ADV _005197353 115 22 free free ADJ _005197353 115 23 from from ADP _005197353 115 24 most most ADJ _005197353 115 25 of of ADP _005197353 115 26 its its PRON _005197353 115 27 responsibilities responsibility NOUN _005197353 115 28 . . PUNCT _005197353 116 1 a a DET _005197353 116 2 core core NOUN _005197353 116 3 of of ADP _005197353 116 4 unadulterated unadulterated ADJ _005197353 116 5 selfishness selfishness NOUN _005197353 116 6 runs run VERB _005197353 116 7 through through ADP _005197353 116 8 the the DET _005197353 116 9 person person NOUN _005197353 116 10 ’s ’s PART _005197353 116 11 make make NOUN _005197353 116 12 - - PUNCT _005197353 116 13 up up NOUN _005197353 116 14 . . PUNCT _005197353 117 1 typical typical ADJ _005197353 117 2 of of ADP _005197353 117 3 such such ADJ _005197353 117 4 individuals individual NOUN _005197353 117 5 is be AUX _005197353 117 6 the the DET _005197353 117 7 common common ADJ _005197353 117 8 practice practice NOUN _005197353 117 9 of of ADP _005197353 117 10 deserting desert VERB _005197353 117 11 the the DET _005197353 117 12 wife wife NOUN _005197353 117 13 when when SCONJ _005197353 117 14 the the DET _005197353 117 15 onset onset NOUN _005197353 117 16 of of ADP _005197353 117 17 pregnancy pregnancy NOUN _005197353 117 18 causes cause VERB _005197353 117 19 her she PRON _005197353 117 20 to to PART _005197353 117 21 lose lose VERB _005197353 117 22 her her PRON _005197353 117 23 job job NOUN _005197353 117 24 or or CCONJ _005197353 117 25 the the DET _005197353 117 26 birth birth NOUN _005197353 117 27 of of ADP _005197353 117 28 a a DET _005197353 117 29 child child NOUN _005197353 117 30 makes make VERB _005197353 117 31 new new ADJ _005197353 117 32 demands demand NOUN _005197353 117 33 upon upon SCONJ _005197353 117 34 the the DET _005197353 117 35 husband husband NOUN _005197353 117 36 . . PUNCT _005197353 118 1 frequently frequently ADV _005197353 118 2 he he PRON _005197353 118 3 was be AUX _005197353 118 4 raised raise VERB _005197353 118 5 as as ADP _005197353 118 6 “ " PUNCT _005197353 118 7 mama mama PROPN _005197353 118 8 ’s ’s ADJ _005197353 118 9 boy boy NOUN _005197353 118 10 , , PUNCT _005197353 118 11 ” " PUNCT _005197353 118 12 waited wait VERB _005197353 118 13 on on ADP _005197353 118 14 hand hand NOUN _005197353 118 15 and and CCONJ _005197353 118 16 foot foot NOUN _005197353 118 17 , , PUNCT _005197353 118 18 and and CCONJ _005197353 118 19 never never ADV _005197353 118 20 trained train VERB _005197353 118 21 to to PART _005197353 118 22 think think VERB _005197353 118 23 of of ADP _005197353 118 24 others other NOUN _005197353 118 25 or or CCONJ _005197353 118 26 to to ADP _005197353 118 27 14 14 NUM _005197353 118 28 the the DET _005197353 118 29 reasons reason NOUN _005197353 118 30 why why SCONJ _005197353 118 31 catholic catholic ADJ _005197353 118 32 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 118 33 fail fail VERB _005197353 118 34 cause cause VERB _005197353 118 35 per per ADP _005197353 118 36 cent cent NOUN _005197353 118 37 1 1 NUM _005197353 118 38 . . X _005197353 119 1 excessive excessive ADJ _005197353 119 2 drinking drink VERB _005197353 119 3 29.8 29.8 NUM _005197353 119 4 2 2 NUM _005197353 119 5 . . PUNCT _005197353 119 6 unfaithfulness unfaithfulness VERB _005197353 119 7 24.8 24.8 NUM _005197353 119 8 3 3 NUM _005197353 119 9 . . PUNCT _005197353 120 1 irresponsibility irresponsibility NOUN _005197353 120 2 12.4 12.4 NUM _005197353 120 3 4 4 NUM _005197353 120 4 . . NUM _005197353 120 5 difference difference NOUN _005197353 120 6 of of ADP _005197353 120 7 temperament temperament NOUN _005197353 120 8 12.1 12.1 NUM _005197353 120 9 5 5 NUM _005197353 120 10 . . PUNCT _005197353 120 11 in in ADP _005197353 120 12 - - PUNCT _005197353 120 13 law law NOUN _005197353 120 14 trouble trouble NOUN _005197353 120 15 7.2 7.2 NUM _005197353 120 16 6 6 NUM _005197353 120 17 . . PUNCT _005197353 120 18 sex sex NOUN _005197353 120 19 maladjustments maladjustment NOUN _005197353 120 20 5.4 5.4 NUM _005197353 120 21 7 7 NUM _005197353 120 22 . . NUM _005197353 120 23 mental mental ADJ _005197353 120 24 illness illness NOUN _005197353 120 25 3.0 3.0 NUM _005197353 120 26 8 8 NUM _005197353 120 27 . . NUM _005197353 121 1 religious religious ADJ _005197353 121 2 differences difference NOUN _005197353 121 3 2.9 2.9 NUM _005197353 121 4 9 9 NUM _005197353 121 5 . . NUM _005197353 121 6 financial financial ADJ _005197353 121 7 difficulties difficulty NOUN _005197353 121 8 0.7 0.7 NUM _005197353 121 9 10 10 NUM _005197353 121 10 . . PUNCT _005197353 122 1 miscellaneous miscellaneous ADJ _005197353 122 2 1.7 1.7 NUM _005197353 122 3 15 15 NUM _005197353 122 4 shoulder shoulder NOUN _005197353 122 5 responsibility responsibility NOUN _005197353 122 6 of of ADP _005197353 122 7 any any DET _005197353 122 8 kind kind NOUN _005197353 122 9 . . PUNCT _005197353 123 1 the the DET _005197353 123 2 result result NOUN _005197353 123 3 is be AUX _005197353 123 4 he he PRON _005197353 123 5 remains remain VERB _005197353 123 6 emotionally emotionally ADV _005197353 123 7 immature immature ADJ _005197353 123 8 , , PUNCT _005197353 123 9 self self NOUN _005197353 123 10 - - PUNCT _005197353 123 11 centered center VERB _005197353 123 12 and and CCONJ _005197353 123 13 socially socially ADV _005197353 123 14 irresponsible irresponsible ADJ _005197353 123 15 . . PUNCT _005197353 124 1 more more ADJ _005197353 124 2 than than ADP _005197353 124 3 50 50 NUM _005197353 124 4 per per ADP _005197353 124 5 cent cent NOUN _005197353 124 6 of of ADP _005197353 124 7 these these DET _005197353 124 8 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 124 9 broke break VERB _005197353 124 10 up up ADP _005197353 124 11 in in ADP _005197353 124 12 the the DET _005197353 124 13 first first ADJ _005197353 124 14 five five NUM _005197353 124 15 years year NOUN _005197353 124 16 and and CCONJ _005197353 124 17 an an DET _005197353 124 18 additional additional ADJ _005197353 124 19 25 25 NUM _005197353 124 20 per per NOUN _005197353 124 21 cent cent NOUN _005197353 124 22 in in ADP _005197353 124 23 the the DET _005197353 124 24 next next ADJ _005197353 124 25 five five NUM _005197353 124 26 - - PUNCT _005197353 124 27 year year NOUN _005197353 124 28 span span NOUN _005197353 124 29 . . PUNCT _005197353 125 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 125 2 clarence clarence NOUN _005197353 125 3 , , PUNCT _005197353 125 4 ” " PUNCT _005197353 125 5 reported report VERB _005197353 125 6 his his PRON _005197353 125 7 wife wife NOUN _005197353 125 8 , , PUNCT _005197353 125 9 “ " PUNCT _005197353 125 10 was be AUX _005197353 125 11 always always ADV _005197353 125 12 running run VERB _005197353 125 13 to to ADP _005197353 125 14 mama mama PROPN _005197353 125 15 with with ADP _005197353 125 16 every every DET _005197353 125 17 problem problem NOUN _005197353 125 18 that that PRON _005197353 125 19 came come VERB _005197353 125 20 up up ADP _005197353 125 21 . . PUNCT _005197353 126 1 we we PRON _005197353 126 2 could could AUX _005197353 126 3 n’t not PART _005197353 126 4 sit sit VERB _005197353 126 5 down down ADP _005197353 126 6 and and CCONJ _005197353 126 7 talk talk VERB _005197353 126 8 it it PRON _005197353 126 9 over over ADP _005197353 126 10 together together ADV _005197353 126 11 . . PUNCT _005197353 127 1 he he PRON _005197353 127 2 would would AUX _005197353 127 3 have have VERB _005197353 127 4 to to PART _005197353 127 5 ask ask VERB _005197353 127 6 mama mama PROPN _005197353 127 7 what what PRON _005197353 127 8 we we PRON _005197353 127 9 were be AUX _005197353 127 10 to to PART _005197353 127 11 do do VERB _005197353 127 12 . . PUNCT _005197353 128 1 i i PRON _005197353 128 2 scarcely scarcely ADV _005197353 128 3 knew know VERB _005197353 128 4 whether whether SCONJ _005197353 128 5 i i PRON _005197353 128 6 was be AUX _005197353 128 7 married married ADJ _005197353 128 8 to to ADP _005197353 128 9 him he PRON _005197353 128 10 or or CCONJ _005197353 128 11 to to ADP _005197353 128 12 his his PRON _005197353 128 13 mother mother NOUN _005197353 128 14 . . PUNCT _005197353 129 1 to to PART _005197353 129 2 top top VERB _005197353 129 3 it it PRON _005197353 129 4 all all PRON _005197353 129 5 , , PUNCT _005197353 129 6 he he PRON _005197353 129 7 could could AUX _005197353 129 8 n’t not PART _005197353 129 9 hold hold VERB _005197353 129 10 any any DET _005197353 129 11 job job NOUN _005197353 129 12 and and CCONJ _005197353 129 13 had have VERB _005197353 129 14 no no DET _005197353 129 15 sense sense NOUN _005197353 129 16 of of ADP _005197353 129 17 obligation obligation NOUN _005197353 129 18 to to PART _005197353 129 19 help help VERB _005197353 129 20 me i PRON _005197353 129 21 make make VERB _005197353 129 22 both both DET _005197353 129 23 ends end NOUN _005197353 129 24 meet meet VERB _005197353 129 25 . . PUNCT _005197353 129 26 ” " PUNCT _005197353 130 1 he he PRON _005197353 130 2 is be AUX _005197353 130 3 a a DET _005197353 130 4 typical typical ADJ _005197353 130 5 example example NOUN _005197353 130 6 of of ADP _005197353 130 7 the the DET _005197353 130 8 social social ADJ _005197353 130 9 unawareness unawareness NOUN _005197353 130 10 and and CCONJ _005197353 130 11 curious curious ADJ _005197353 130 12 immaturity immaturity NOUN _005197353 130 13 which which PRON _005197353 130 14 characterizes characterize VERB _005197353 130 15 those those PRON _005197353 130 16 in in ADP _005197353 130 17 this this DET _005197353 130 18 category category NOUN _005197353 130 19 . . PUNCT _005197353 131 1 sometimes sometimes ADV _005197353 131 2 it it PRON _005197353 131 3 is be AUX _005197353 131 4 the the DET _005197353 131 5 wife wife NOUN _005197353 131 6 who who PRON _005197353 131 7 is be AUX _005197353 131 8 tied tie VERB _005197353 131 9 to to ADP _005197353 131 10 mama mama PROPN _005197353 131 11 ’s ’s PROPN _005197353 131 12 apron apron PROPN _005197353 131 13 strings string NOUN _005197353 131 14 . . PUNCT _005197353 132 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 132 2 during during ADP _005197353 132 3 world world PROPN _005197353 132 4 war war PROPN _005197353 132 5 ii ii PROPN _005197353 132 6 , , PUNCT _005197353 132 7 ” " PUNCT _005197353 132 8 said say VERB _005197353 132 9 a a DET _005197353 132 10 broken break VERB _005197353 132 11 - - PUNCT _005197353 132 12 hearted hearted ADJ _005197353 132 13 husband husband NOUN _005197353 132 14 to to ADP _005197353 132 15 me i PRON _005197353 132 16 recently recently ADV _005197353 132 17 , , PUNCT _005197353 132 18 “ " PUNCT _005197353 132 19 i i PRON _005197353 132 20 was be AUX _005197353 132 21 stationed station VERB _005197353 132 22 for for ADP _005197353 132 23 a a DET _005197353 132 24 while while NOUN _005197353 132 25 in in ADP _005197353 132 26 australia australia PROPN _005197353 132 27 . . PUNCT _005197353 133 1 there there ADV _005197353 133 2 i i PRON _005197353 133 3 met meet VERB _005197353 133 4 dora dora PROPN _005197353 133 5 and and CCONJ _005197353 133 6 married marry VERB _005197353 133 7 her she PRON _005197353 133 8 . . PUNCT _005197353 134 1 i i PRON _005197353 134 2 brought bring VERB _005197353 134 3 her she PRON _005197353 134 4 here here ADV _005197353 134 5 , , PUNCT _005197353 134 6 established establish VERB _005197353 134 7 a a DET _005197353 134 8 nice nice ADJ _005197353 134 9 home home NOUN _005197353 134 10 and and CCONJ _005197353 134 11 soon soon ADV _005197353 134 12 our our PRON _005197353 134 13 baby baby NOUN _005197353 134 14 came come VERB _005197353 134 15 . . PUNCT _005197353 135 1 dora dora PROPN _005197353 135 2 was be AUX _005197353 135 3 always always ADV _005197353 135 4 talking talk VERB _005197353 135 5 about about ADP _005197353 135 6 her her PRON _005197353 135 7 mother mother NOUN _005197353 135 8 and and CCONJ _005197353 135 9 pined pine VERB _005197353 135 10 for for ADP _005197353 135 11 her she PRON _005197353 135 12 . . PUNCT _005197353 136 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 136 2 we we PRON _005197353 136 3 went go VERB _005197353 136 4 back back ADV _005197353 136 5 for for ADP _005197353 136 6 a a DET _005197353 136 7 six six NUM _005197353 136 8 months month NOUN _005197353 136 9 ’ ' PUNCT _005197353 136 10 visit visit NOUN _005197353 136 11 but but CCONJ _005197353 136 12 my my PRON _005197353 136 13 business business NOUN _005197353 136 14 and and CCONJ _005197353 136 15 our our PRON _005197353 136 16 livelihood livelihood NOUN _005197353 136 17 were be AUX _005197353 136 18 in in ADP _005197353 136 19 the the DET _005197353 136 20 united united PROPN _005197353 136 21 states states PROPN _005197353 137 1 so so SCONJ _005197353 137 2 i i PRON _005197353 137 3 had have VERB _005197353 137 4 to to PART _005197353 137 5 return return VERB _005197353 137 6 . . PUNCT _005197353 138 1 dora dora PROPN _005197353 138 2 promised promise VERB _005197353 138 3 to to PART _005197353 138 4 follow follow VERB _005197353 138 5 me i PRON _005197353 138 6 back back ADV _005197353 138 7 in in ADP _005197353 138 8 a a DET _005197353 138 9 month month NOUN _005197353 138 10 . . PUNCT _005197353 139 1 16 16 NUM _005197353 139 2 but but CCONJ _005197353 139 3 over over ADP _005197353 139 4 a a DET _005197353 139 5 year year NOUN _005197353 139 6 has have AUX _005197353 139 7 gone go VERB _005197353 139 8 by by ADP _005197353 139 9 now now ADV _005197353 139 10 and and CCONJ _005197353 139 11 she she PRON _005197353 139 12 refuses refuse VERB _005197353 139 13 to to PART _005197353 139 14 return return VERB _005197353 139 15 . . PUNCT _005197353 140 1 she she PRON _005197353 140 2 says say VERB _005197353 140 3 she she PRON _005197353 140 4 loves love VERB _005197353 140 5 me i PRON _005197353 140 6 but but CCONJ _005197353 140 7 ca can AUX _005197353 140 8 n’t not PART _005197353 140 9 leave leave VERB _005197353 140 10 her her PRON _005197353 140 11 mama mama NOUN _005197353 140 12 . . PUNCT _005197353 140 13 ” " PUNCT _005197353 141 1 though though SCONJ _005197353 141 2 26 26 NUM _005197353 141 3 years year NOUN _005197353 141 4 old old ADJ _005197353 141 5 , , PUNCT _005197353 141 6 dora dora X _005197353 141 7 is be AUX _005197353 141 8 emotionally emotionally ADV _005197353 141 9 immature immature ADJ _005197353 141 10 : : PUNCT _005197353 141 11 the the DET _005197353 141 12 psychological psychological ADJ _005197353 141 13 counterpart counterpart NOUN _005197353 141 14 of of ADP _005197353 141 15 the the DET _005197353 141 16 umbilical umbilical ADJ _005197353 141 17 cord cord NOUN _005197353 141 18 had have AUX _005197353 141 19 never never ADV _005197353 141 20 been be AUX _005197353 141 21 severed sever VERB _005197353 141 22 and and CCONJ _005197353 141 23 she she PRON _005197353 141 24 refuses refuse VERB _005197353 141 25 to to PART _005197353 141 26 shoulder shoulder VERB _005197353 141 27 the the DET _005197353 141 28 normal normal ADJ _005197353 141 29 responsibility responsibility NOUN _005197353 141 30 of of ADP _005197353 141 31 a a DET _005197353 141 32 wife wife NOUN _005197353 141 33 and and CCONJ _005197353 141 34 mother mother NOUN _005197353 141 35 . . PUNCT _005197353 142 1 difference difference NOUN _005197353 142 2 of of ADP _005197353 142 3 temperament temperament NOUN _005197353 142 4 the the DET _005197353 142 5 fourth fourth ADJ _005197353 142 6 factor factor NOUN _005197353 142 7 is be AUX _005197353 142 8 radical radical ADJ _005197353 142 9 difference difference NOUN _005197353 142 10 of of ADP _005197353 142 11 temperament temperament NOUN _005197353 142 12 , , PUNCT _005197353 142 13 which which PRON _005197353 142 14 causes cause VERB _005197353 142 15 12.1 12.1 NUM _005197353 142 16 per per ADP _005197353 142 17 cent cent NOUN _005197353 142 18 of of ADP _005197353 142 19 the the DET _005197353 142 20 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 142 21 to to PART _005197353 142 22 fail fail VERB _005197353 142 23 . . PUNCT _005197353 143 1 where where SCONJ _005197353 143 2 there there PRON _005197353 143 3 is be VERB _005197353 143 4 a a DET _005197353 143 5 basic basic ADJ _005197353 143 6 incompatibility incompatibility NOUN _005197353 143 7 of of ADP _005197353 143 8 disposition disposition NOUN _005197353 143 9 , , PUNCT _005197353 143 10 character character NOUN _005197353 143 11 and and CCONJ _005197353 143 12 temperament temperament NOUN _005197353 143 13 , , PUNCT _005197353 143 14 there there PRON _005197353 143 15 is be VERB _005197353 143 16 little little ADJ _005197353 143 17 to to PART _005197353 143 18 hold hold VERB _005197353 143 19 a a DET _005197353 143 20 couple couple NOUN _005197353 143 21 together together ADV _005197353 143 22 . . PUNCT _005197353 144 1 the the DET _005197353 144 2 thread thread NOUN _005197353 144 3 of of ADP _005197353 144 4 sexual sexual ADJ _005197353 144 5 attraction attraction NOUN _005197353 144 6 wears wear VERB _005197353 144 7 exceedingly exceedingly ADV _005197353 144 8 thin thin ADJ _005197353 144 9 under under ADP _005197353 144 10 the the DET _005197353 144 11 irritating irritating NOUN _005197353 144 12 tensions tension NOUN _005197353 144 13 of of ADP _005197353 144 14 clashing clash VERB _005197353 144 15 temperaments temperament NOUN _005197353 144 16 and and CCONJ _005197353 144 17 finally finally ADV _005197353 144 18 snaps snap VERB _005197353 144 19 altogether altogether ADV _005197353 144 20 . . PUNCT _005197353 145 1 the the DET _005197353 145 2 records record NOUN _005197353 145 3 of of ADP _005197353 145 4 cases case NOUN _005197353 145 5 in in ADP _005197353 145 6 this this DET _005197353 145 7 category7 category7 NOUN _005197353 145 8 are be AUX _005197353 145 9 filled fill VERB _005197353 145 10 with with ADP _005197353 145 11 accusations accusation NOUN _005197353 145 12 of of ADP _005197353 145 13 jealousy jealousy NOUN _005197353 145 14 , , PUNCT _005197353 145 15 neglect neglect NOUN _005197353 145 16 , , PUNCT _005197353 145 17 meanness meanness NOUN _005197353 145 18 , , PUNCT _005197353 145 19 mental mental ADJ _005197353 145 20 cruelty cruelty NOUN _005197353 145 21 , , PUNCT _005197353 145 22 “ " PUNCT _005197353 145 23 queemess queemess ADJ _005197353 145 24 , , PUNCT _005197353 145 25 ” " PUNCT _005197353 145 26 insistence insistence NOUN _005197353 145 27 upon upon SCONJ _005197353 145 28 always always ADV _005197353 145 29 having have VERB _005197353 145 30 one one NUM _005197353 145 31 ’s ’s PRON _005197353 145 32 own own ADJ _005197353 145 33 way way NOUN _005197353 145 34 , , PUNCT _005197353 145 35 being be AUX _005197353 145 36 “ " PUNCT _005197353 145 37 ornery ornery ADJ _005197353 145 38 , , PUNCT _005197353 145 39 ” " PUNCT _005197353 145 40 “ " PUNCT _005197353 145 41 just just ADV _005197353 145 42 plain plain ADV _005197353 145 43 mean mean NOUN _005197353 145 44 ” " PUNCT _005197353 145 45 and and CCONJ _005197353 145 46 “ " PUNCT _005197353 145 47 impossible impossible ADJ _005197353 145 48 to to PART _005197353 145 49 live live VERB _005197353 145 50 with with ADP _005197353 145 51 . . PUNCT _005197353 145 52 ” " PUNCT _005197353 146 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 146 2 fred fre VERB _005197353 146 3 ’s ’s NUM _005197353 146 4 jealousy jealousy NOUN _005197353 146 5 , , PUNCT _005197353 146 6 ” " PUNCT _005197353 146 7 complained complain VERB _005197353 146 8 barbara barbara PROPN _005197353 146 9 , , PUNCT _005197353 146 10 “ " PUNCT _005197353 146 11 is be AUX _005197353 146 12 ruining ruin VERB _005197353 146 13 our our PRON _005197353 146 14 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 146 15 . . PUNCT _005197353 147 1 after after ADP _005197353 147 2 every every DET _005197353 147 3 social social ADJ _005197353 147 4 gathering gathering NOUN _005197353 147 5 , , PUNCT _005197353 147 6 there there PRON _005197353 147 7 ’s ’ VERB _005197353 147 8 a a DET _005197353 147 9 scene scene NOUN _005197353 147 10 when when SCONJ _005197353 147 11 we we PRON _005197353 147 12 get get VERB _005197353 147 13 home home ADV _005197353 147 14 . . PUNCT _005197353 148 1 no no ADV _005197353 148 2 matter matter ADV _005197353 148 3 how how SCONJ _005197353 148 4 reserved reserved ADJ _005197353 148 5 i i PRON _005197353 148 6 ’ve ’ve AUX _005197353 148 7 been be AUX _005197353 148 8 , , PUNCT _005197353 148 9 he he PRON _005197353 148 10 accuses accuse VERB _005197353 148 11 me i PRON _005197353 148 12 of of ADP _005197353 148 13 having having AUX _005197353 148 14 smiled smile VERB _005197353 148 15 at at ADP _005197353 148 16 some some PRON _005197353 148 17 of of ADP _005197353 148 18 the the DET _005197353 148 19 men—‘egging men—‘egge VERB _005197353 148 20 them they PRON _005197353 148 21 on on ADP _005197353 148 22 , , PUNCT _005197353 148 23 * * PUNCT _005197353 148 24 he he PRON _005197353 148 25 calls call VERB _005197353 148 26 it it PRON _005197353 148 27 . . PUNCT _005197353 149 1 he he PRON _005197353 149 2 ’s ’s VERB _005197353 149 3 full full ADJ _005197353 149 4 of of ADP _005197353 149 5 suspicions suspicion NOUN _005197353 149 6 and and CCONJ _005197353 149 7 is be AUX _005197353 149 8 always always ADV _005197353 149 9 im17 im17 PROPN _005197353 149 10 agining agine VERB _005197353 149 11 things thing NOUN _005197353 149 12 . . PUNCT _005197353 150 1 it it PRON _005197353 150 2 ’s ’s AUX _005197353 150 3 taken take VERB _005197353 150 4 all all DET _005197353 150 5 the the DET _005197353 150 6 joy joy NOUN _005197353 150 7 out out ADP _005197353 150 8 of of ADP _005197353 150 9 our our PRON _005197353 150 10 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 150 11 and and CCONJ _005197353 150 12 is be AUX _005197353 150 13 making make VERB _005197353 150 14 a a DET _005197353 150 15 nervous nervous ADJ _005197353 150 16 wreck wreck NOUN _005197353 150 17 out out ADP _005197353 150 18 of of ADP _005197353 150 19 me i PRON _005197353 150 20 . . PUNCT _005197353 150 21 ” " PUNCT _005197353 151 1 too too ADV _005197353 151 2 bad bad ADJ _005197353 151 3 that that SCONJ _005197353 151 4 barbara barbara NOUN _005197353 151 5 did do AUX _005197353 151 6 n’t not PART _005197353 151 7 detect detect VERB _005197353 151 8 that that DET _005197353 151 9 trait trait NOUN _005197353 151 10 during during ADP _005197353 151 11 courtship courtship NOUN _005197353 151 12 . . PUNCT _005197353 152 1 the the DET _005197353 152 2 chief chief ADJ _005197353 152 3 purpose purpose NOUN _005197353 152 4 of of ADP _005197353 152 5 keeping keep VERB _005197353 152 6 company company NOUN _005197353 152 7 is be AUX _005197353 152 8 to to PART _005197353 152 9 enable enable VERB _005197353 152 10 young young ADJ _005197353 152 11 people people NOUN _005197353 152 12 to to PART _005197353 152 13 find find VERB _005197353 152 14 congenial congenial ADJ _005197353 152 15 partners partner NOUN _005197353 152 16 with with ADP _005197353 152 17 similar similar ADJ _005197353 152 18 tastes taste NOUN _005197353 152 19 and and CCONJ _005197353 152 20 interests interest NOUN _005197353 152 21 and and CCONJ _005197353 152 22 to to PART _005197353 152 23 screen screen VERB _005197353 152 24 out out ADP _005197353 152 25 those those PRON _005197353 152 26 whose whose DET _005197353 152 27 temperament temperament NOUN _005197353 152 28 and and CCONJ _005197353 152 29 disposition disposition NOUN _005197353 152 30 are be AUX _005197353 152 31 irritating irritate VERB _005197353 152 32 . . PUNCT _005197353 153 1 it it PRON _005197353 153 2 is be AUX _005197353 153 3 folly folly ADJ _005197353 153 4 to to PART _005197353 153 5 imagine imagine VERB _005197353 153 6 that that SCONJ _005197353 153 7 a a DET _005197353 153 8 conflicting conflicting ADJ _005197353 153 9 temperament temperament NOUN _005197353 153 10 will will AUX _005197353 153 11 suddenly suddenly ADV _005197353 153 12 be be AUX _005197353 153 13 changed change VERB _005197353 153 14 by by ADP _005197353 153 15 the the DET _005197353 153 16 wedding wedding NOUN _005197353 153 17 ceremony ceremony NOUN _005197353 153 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 154 1 in in ADP _005197353 154 2 - - PUNCT _005197353 154 3 law law NOUN _005197353 154 4 trouble trouble NOUN _005197353 154 5 the the DET _005197353 154 6 fifth fifth ADJ _005197353 154 7 factor factor NOUN _005197353 154 8 in in ADP _005197353 154 9 disrupting disrupt VERB _005197353 154 10 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 154 11 is be AUX _005197353 154 12 in in ADP _005197353 154 13 - - PUNCT _005197353 154 14 law law NOUN _005197353 154 15 trouble trouble NOUN _005197353 154 16 . . PUNCT _005197353 155 1 although although SCONJ _005197353 155 2 this this DET _005197353 155 3 muchtalked muchtalke VERB _005197353 155 4 - - PUNCT _005197353 155 5 of of ADP _005197353 155 6 problem problem NOUN _005197353 155 7 occurs occur VERB _005197353 155 8 in in ADP _005197353 155 9 some some DET _005197353 155 10 degree degree NOUN _005197353 155 11 or or CCONJ _005197353 155 12 other other ADJ _005197353 155 13 in in ADP _005197353 155 14 many many ADJ _005197353 155 15 , , PUNCT _005197353 155 16 if if SCONJ _005197353 155 17 not not PART _005197353 155 18 in in ADP _005197353 155 19 most most ADJ _005197353 155 20 , , PUNCT _005197353 155 21 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 155 22 , , PUNCT _005197353 155 23 it it PRON _005197353 155 24 turned turn VERB _005197353 155 25 out out ADP _005197353 155 26 to to PART _005197353 155 27 be be AUX _005197353 155 28 the the DET _005197353 155 29 major major ADJ _005197353 155 30 factor factor NOUN _005197353 155 31 of of ADP _005197353 155 32 disruption disruption NOUN _005197353 155 33 in in ADP _005197353 155 34 only only ADV _005197353 155 35 7.2 7.2 NUM _005197353 155 36 per per ADP _005197353 155 37 cent cent NOUN _005197353 155 38 of of ADP _005197353 155 39 marital marital ADJ _005197353 155 40 failures failure NOUN _005197353 155 41 . . PUNCT _005197353 156 1 when when SCONJ _005197353 156 2 it it PRON _005197353 156 3 is be AUX _005197353 156 4 the the DET _005197353 156 5 chief chief ADJ _005197353 156 6 “ " PUNCT _005197353 156 7 bone bone NOUN _005197353 156 8 of of ADP _005197353 156 9 contention contention NOUN _005197353 156 10 , , PUNCT _005197353 156 11 ” " PUNCT _005197353 156 12 however however ADV _005197353 156 13 , , PUNCT _005197353 156 14 its its PRON _005197353 156 15 centrifugal centrifugal ADJ _005197353 156 16 force force NOUN _005197353 156 17 pulls pull VERB _005197353 156 18 the the DET _005197353 156 19 couple couple NOUN _005197353 156 20 apart apart ADV _005197353 156 21 more more ADV _005197353 156 22 rapidly rapidly ADV _005197353 156 23 than than ADP _005197353 156 24 many many ADJ _005197353 156 25 of of ADP _005197353 156 26 the the DET _005197353 156 27 other other ADJ _005197353 156 28 disintegrating disintegrate VERB _005197353 156 29 factors factor NOUN _005197353 156 30 . . PUNCT _005197353 157 1 thus thus ADV _005197353 157 2 more more ADJ _005197353 157 3 than than ADP _005197353 157 4 two two NUM _005197353 157 5 - - PUNCT _005197353 157 6 thirds third NOUN _005197353 157 7 of of ADP _005197353 157 8 the the DET _005197353 157 9 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 157 10 , , PUNCT _005197353 157 11 in in ADP _005197353 157 12 which which PRON _005197353 157 13 this this PRON _005197353 157 14 was be AUX _005197353 157 15 the the DET _005197353 157 16 major major ADJ _005197353 157 17 cause cause NOUN _005197353 157 18 of of ADP _005197353 157 19 trouble trouble NOUN _005197353 157 20 , , PUNCT _005197353 157 21 endured endure VERB _005197353 157 22 less less ADJ _005197353 157 23 than than ADP _005197353 157 24 fiveyears fiveyear NOUN _005197353 157 25 . . PUNCT _005197353 158 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 158 2 when when SCONJ _005197353 158 3 ray ray PROPN _005197353 158 4 ’s ’s PART _005197353 158 5 parents parent NOUN _005197353 158 6 come come VERB _005197353 158 7 to to PART _005197353 158 8 spend spend VERB _005197353 158 9 a a DET _005197353 158 10 few few ADJ _005197353 158 11 days day NOUN _005197353 158 12 with with ADP _005197353 158 13 us we PRON _005197353 158 14 , , PUNCT _005197353 158 15 ” " PUNCT _005197353 158 16 said say VERB _005197353 158 17 peg peg NOUN _005197353 158 18 , , PUNCT _005197353 158 19 “ " PUNCT _005197353 158 20 i i PRON _005197353 158 21 brace brace VERB _005197353 158 22 myself myself PRON _005197353 158 23 for for ADP _005197353 158 24 an an DET _005197353 158 25 ordeal ordeal NOUN _005197353 158 26 . . PUNCT _005197353 159 1 his his PRON _005197353 159 2 father father NOUN _005197353 159 3 is be AUX _005197353 159 4 friendly friendly ADJ _005197353 159 5 and and CCONJ _005197353 159 6 pleasant pleasant ADJ _005197353 159 7 and and CCONJ _005197353 159 8 we we PRON _005197353 159 9 get get VERB _005197353 159 10 along along ADP _005197353 159 11 well well ADV _005197353 159 12 . . PUNCT _005197353 160 1 but but CCONJ _005197353 160 2 his his PRON _005197353 160 3 mother mother NOUN _005197353 160 4 undertakes undertake VERB _005197353 160 5 to to PART _005197353 160 6 tell tell VERB _005197353 160 7 me i PRON _005197353 160 8 how how SCONJ _005197353 160 9 18 18 NUM _005197353 160 10 to to PART _005197353 160 11 run run VERB _005197353 160 12 every every DET _005197353 160 13 detail detail NOUN _005197353 160 14 of of ADP _005197353 160 15 our our PRON _005197353 160 16 home home NOUN _005197353 160 17 — — PUNCT _005197353 160 18 from from ADP _005197353 160 19 how how SCONJ _005197353 160 20 to to PART _005197353 160 21 cook cook VERB _005197353 160 22 to to ADP _005197353 160 23 how how SCONJ _005197353 160 24 to to PART _005197353 160 25 nurse nurse VERB _005197353 160 26 the the DET _005197353 160 27 baby baby NOUN _005197353 160 28 and and CCONJ _005197353 160 29 make make VERB _005197353 160 30 the the DET _005197353 160 31 children child NOUN _005197353 160 32 mind mind VERB _005197353 160 33 . . PUNCT _005197353 161 1 her her PRON _005197353 161 2 visits visit NOUN _005197353 161 3 rub rub VERB _005197353 161 4 me i PRON _005197353 161 5 raw raw ADJ _005197353 161 6 and and CCONJ _005197353 161 7 if if SCONJ _005197353 161 8 they they PRON _005197353 161 9 were be AUX _005197353 161 10 more more ADV _005197353 161 11 frequent frequent ADJ _005197353 161 12 i i PRON _005197353 161 13 ’m ’m VERB _005197353 161 14 afraid afraid ADJ _005197353 161 15 i i PRON _005197353 161 16 just just ADV _005197353 161 17 could could AUX _005197353 161 18 n’t not PART _005197353 161 19 take take VERB _005197353 161 20 it it PRON _005197353 161 21 . . PUNCT _005197353 161 22 ” " PUNCT _005197353 162 1 getting get VERB _005197353 162 2 along along ADP _005197353 162 3 with with ADP _005197353 162 4 in in ADP _005197353 162 5 - - PUNCT _005197353 162 6 laws law NOUN _005197353 162 7 is be AUX _005197353 162 8 usually usually ADV _005197353 162 9 a a DET _005197353 162 10 fine fine ADJ _005197353 162 11 art art NOUN _005197353 162 12 , , PUNCT _005197353 162 13 calling call VERB _005197353 162 14 for for ADP _005197353 162 15 tact tact NOUN _005197353 162 16 and and CCONJ _005197353 162 17 diplomacy diplomacy NOUN _005197353 162 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 163 1 allowance allowance NOUN _005197353 163 2 must must AUX _005197353 163 3 be be AUX _005197353 163 4 made make VERB _005197353 163 5 for for ADP _005197353 163 6 the the DET _005197353 163 7 tendency tendency NOUN _005197353 163 8 of of SCONJ _005197353 163 9 parents parent NOUN _005197353 163 10 to to PART _005197353 163 11 think think VERB _005197353 163 12 of of ADP _005197353 163 13 their their PRON _005197353 163 14 married married ADJ _005197353 163 15 son son NOUN _005197353 163 16 or or CCONJ _005197353 163 17 daughter daughter NOUN _005197353 163 18 as as ADP _005197353 163 19 their their PRON _005197353 163 20 little little ADJ _005197353 163 21 child child NOUN _005197353 163 22 and and CCONJ _005197353 163 23 wish wish VERB _005197353 163 24 to to PART _005197353 163 25 mother mother VERB _005197353 163 26 it it PRON _005197353 163 27 still still ADV _005197353 163 28 . . PUNCT _005197353 164 1 patience patience NOUN _005197353 164 2 , , PUNCT _005197353 164 3 sympathetic sympathetic ADJ _005197353 164 4 understanding understanding NOUN _005197353 164 5 and and CCONJ _005197353 164 6 a a DET _005197353 164 7 capacity capacity NOUN _005197353 164 8 to to PART _005197353 164 9 see see VERB _005197353 164 10 the the DET _005197353 164 11 humorous humorous ADJ _005197353 164 12 aspect aspect NOUN _005197353 164 13 in in ADP _005197353 164 14 such such ADJ _005197353 164 15 tendencies tendency NOUN _005197353 164 16 will will AUX _005197353 164 17 enable enable VERB _005197353 164 18 the the DET _005197353 164 19 bride bride NOUN _005197353 164 20 or or CCONJ _005197353 164 21 groom groom NOUN _005197353 164 22 to to PART _005197353 164 23 keep keep VERB _005197353 164 24 the the DET _005197353 164 25 in in ADP _005197353 164 26 - - PUNCT _005197353 164 27 law law NOUN _005197353 164 28 relationships relationship NOUN _005197353 164 29 on on ADP _005197353 164 30 an an DET _005197353 164 31 even even ADJ _005197353 164 32 keel keel NOUN _005197353 164 33 . . PUNCT _005197353 165 1 it it PRON _005197353 165 2 is be AUX _005197353 165 3 a a DET _005197353 165 4 mistake mistake NOUN _005197353 165 5 to to PART _005197353 165 6 look look VERB _005197353 165 7 upon upon SCONJ _005197353 165 8 in in ADP _005197353 165 9 - - PUNCT _005197353 165 10 laws law NOUN _005197353 165 11 as as ADP _005197353 165 12 rivals rival NOUN _005197353 165 13 for for ADP _005197353 165 14 a a DET _005197353 165 15 mate mate NOUN _005197353 165 16 ’s ’s NOUN _005197353 165 17 affection affection NOUN _005197353 165 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 166 1 filial filial ADJ _005197353 166 2 love love NOUN _005197353 166 3 differs differ VERB _005197353 166 4 vastly vastly ADV _005197353 166 5 from from ADP _005197353 166 6 conjugal conjugal ADJ _005197353 166 7 love love NOUN _005197353 166 8 and and CCONJ _005197353 166 9 in in ADP _005197353 166 10 the the DET _005197353 166 11 heart heart NOUN _005197353 166 12 of of ADP _005197353 166 13 every every DET _005197353 166 14 spouse spouse NOUN _005197353 166 15 there there PRON _005197353 166 16 is be VERB _005197353 166 17 room room NOUN _005197353 166 18 for for ADP _005197353 166 19 both both PRON _005197353 166 20 . . PUNCT _005197353 167 1 big big ADJ _005197353 167 2 - - PUNCT _005197353 167 3 heartedness heartedness NOUN _005197353 167 4 , , PUNCT _005197353 167 5 a a DET _005197353 167 6 willingness willingness NOUN _005197353 167 7 to to PART _005197353 167 8 view view VERB _005197353 167 9 with with ADP _005197353 167 10 tolerant tolerant ADJ _005197353 167 11 understanding understand VERB _005197353 167 12 the the DET _005197353 167 13 well well ADV _005197353 167 14 - - PUNCT _005197353 167 15 meant mean VERB _005197353 167 16 but but CCONJ _005197353 167 17 often often ADV _005197353 167 18 intrusive intrusive ADJ _005197353 167 19 suggestions suggestion NOUN _005197353 167 20 of of ADP _005197353 167 21 in in ADP _005197353 167 22 - - PUNCT _005197353 167 23 laws law NOUN _005197353 167 24 will will AUX _005197353 167 25 yield yield VERB _005197353 167 26 rich rich ADJ _005197353 167 27 dividends dividend NOUN _005197353 167 28 in in ADP _005197353 167 29 domestic domestic ADJ _005197353 167 30 peace peace NOUN _005197353 167 31 and and CCONJ _005197353 167 32 happiness happiness NOUN _005197353 167 33 . . PUNCT _005197353 168 1 it it PRON _005197353 168 2 would would AUX _005197353 168 3 help help VERB _005197353 168 4 matters matter NOUN _005197353 168 5 , , PUNCT _005197353 168 6 too too ADV _005197353 168 7 , , PUNCT _005197353 168 8 if if SCONJ _005197353 168 9 parental parental ADJ _005197353 168 10 in in NOUN _005197353 168 11 - - PUNCT _005197353 168 12 laws law NOUN _005197353 168 13 would would AUX _005197353 168 14 try try VERB _005197353 168 15 to to PART _005197353 168 16 realize realize VERB _005197353 168 17 that that SCONJ _005197353 168 18 their their PRON _005197353 168 19 children child NOUN _005197353 168 20 do do AUX _005197353 168 21 grow grow VERB _005197353 168 22 up up ADP _005197353 168 23 and and CCONJ _005197353 168 24 , , PUNCT _005197353 168 25 when when SCONJ _005197353 168 26 married marry VERB _005197353 168 27 , , PUNCT _005197353 168 28 owe owe VERB _005197353 168 29 their their PRON _005197353 168 30 first first ADJ _005197353 168 31 allegiance allegiance NOUN _005197353 168 32 to to ADP _005197353 168 33 their their PRON _005197353 168 34 mate mate NOUN _005197353 168 35 . . PUNCT _005197353 169 1 sex sex NOUN _005197353 169 2 maladjustments maladjustment NOUN _005197353 169 3 the the DET _005197353 169 4 sixth sixth ADJ _005197353 169 5 factor factor NOUN _005197353 169 6 is be AUX _005197353 169 7 sex sex NOUN _005197353 169 8 maladjustment maladjustment NOUN _005197353 169 9 , , PUNCT _005197353 169 10 accounting account VERB _005197353 169 11 for for ADP _005197353 169 12 5.4 5.4 NUM _005197353 169 13 per per ADP _005197353 169 14 cent cent NOUN _005197353 169 15 of of ADP _005197353 169 16 the the DET _005197353 169 17 failures failure NOUN _005197353 169 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 170 1 although although SCONJ _005197353 170 2 this this DET _005197353 170 3 topic topic NOUN _005197353 170 4 has have AUX _005197353 170 5 been be AUX _005197353 170 6 played play VERB _005197353 170 7 up up ADP _005197353 170 8 in in ADP _005197353 170 9 19 19 NUM _005197353 170 10 recent recent ADJ _005197353 170 11 literature literature NOUN _005197353 170 12 as as ADP _005197353 170 13 the the DET _005197353 170 14 root root NOUN _005197353 170 15 of of ADP _005197353 170 16 virtually virtually ADV _005197353 170 17 all all DET _005197353 170 18 marital marital ADJ _005197353 170 19 unhappiness unhappiness NOUN _005197353 170 20 , , PUNCT _005197353 170 21 the the DET _005197353 170 22 records record NOUN _005197353 170 23 show show VERB _005197353 170 24 that that SCONJ _005197353 170 25 it it PRON _005197353 170 26 is be AUX _005197353 170 27 the the DET _005197353 170 28 major major ADJ _005197353 170 29 factor factor NOUN _005197353 170 30 in in ADV _005197353 170 31 but but CCONJ _005197353 170 32 comparatively comparatively ADV _005197353 170 33 few few ADJ _005197353 170 34 break break NOUN _005197353 170 35 - - PUNCT _005197353 170 36 ups up NOUN _005197353 170 37 . . PUNCT _005197353 171 1 the the DET _005197353 171 2 assumption assumption NOUN _005197353 171 3 running run VERB _005197353 171 4 through through ADP _005197353 171 5 this this DET _005197353 171 6 literature literature NOUN _005197353 171 7 that that PRON _005197353 171 8 so so ADV _005197353 171 9 - - PUNCT _005197353 171 10 called call VERB _005197353 171 11 “ " PUNCT _005197353 171 12 sexual sexual ADJ _005197353 171 13 incompatibility incompatibility NOUN _005197353 171 14 ” " PUNCT _005197353 171 15 is be AUX _005197353 171 16 the the DET _005197353 171 17 cause cause NOUN _005197353 171 18 of of ADP _005197353 171 19 most most ADJ _005197353 171 20 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 171 21 difficulties difficulty NOUN _005197353 171 22 is be AUX _005197353 171 23 a a DET _005197353 171 24 classic classic ADJ _005197353 171 25 example example NOUN _005197353 171 26 of of ADP _005197353 171 27 putting put VERB _005197353 171 28 the the DET _005197353 171 29 cart cart NOUN _005197353 171 30 before before ADP _005197353 171 31 the the DET _005197353 171 32 horse horse NOUN _005197353 171 33 . . PUNCT _005197353 172 1 from from ADP _005197353 172 2 the the DET _005197353 172 3 intimate intimate ADJ _005197353 172 4 nature nature NOUN _005197353 172 5 of of ADP _005197353 172 6 the the DET _005197353 172 7 conjugal conjugal ADJ _005197353 172 8 relationship relationship NOUN _005197353 172 9 it it PRON _005197353 172 10 is be AUX _005197353 172 11 inevitable inevitable ADJ _005197353 172 12 that that SCONJ _005197353 172 13 strains strain VERB _005197353 172 14 and and CCONJ _005197353 172 15 tensions tension NOUN _005197353 172 16 in in ADP _005197353 172 17 other other ADJ _005197353 172 18 areas area NOUN _005197353 172 19 will will AUX _005197353 172 20 be be AUX _005197353 172 21 reflected reflect VERB _005197353 172 22 here here ADV _005197353 172 23 . . PUNCT _005197353 173 1 since since SCONJ _005197353 173 2 the the DET _005197353 173 3 mental mental ADJ _005197353 173 4 attitude attitude NOUN _005197353 173 5 is be AUX _005197353 173 6 of of ADP _005197353 173 7 such such ADJ _005197353 173 8 paramount paramount ADJ _005197353 173 9 importance importance NOUN _005197353 173 10 in in ADP _005197353 173 11 this this DET _005197353 173 12 basic basic ADJ _005197353 173 13 relation relation NOUN _005197353 173 14 , , PUNCT _005197353 173 15 slights slight NOUN _005197353 173 16 , , PUNCT _005197353 173 17 vexations vexation NOUN _005197353 173 18 , , PUNCT _005197353 173 19 and and CCONJ _005197353 173 20 hurts hurt VERB _005197353 173 21 , , PUNCT _005197353 173 22 no no ADV _005197353 173 23 matter matter ADV _005197353 173 24 how how SCONJ _005197353 173 25 carefully carefully ADV _005197353 173 26 repressed repress VERB _005197353 173 27 and and CCONJ _005197353 173 28 hidden hide VERB _005197353 173 29 , , PUNCT _005197353 173 30 here here ADV _005197353 173 31 sound sound VERB _005197353 173 32 their their PRON _005197353 173 33 psychic psychic ADJ _005197353 173 34 repercussions repercussion NOUN _005197353 173 35 and and CCONJ _005197353 173 36 take take VERB _005197353 173 37 their their PRON _005197353 173 38 revenge revenge NOUN _005197353 173 39 . . PUNCT _005197353 174 1 if if SCONJ _005197353 174 2 the the DET _005197353 174 3 tensions tension NOUN _005197353 174 4 and and CCONJ _005197353 174 5 vexations vexation NOUN _005197353 174 6 from from ADP _005197353 174 7 the the DET _005197353 174 8 other other ADJ _005197353 174 9 areas area NOUN _005197353 174 10 of of ADP _005197353 174 11 domestic domestic ADJ _005197353 174 12 life life NOUN _005197353 174 13 are be AUX _005197353 174 14 washed wash VERB _005197353 174 15 out out ADP _005197353 174 16 , , PUNCT _005197353 174 17 the the DET _005197353 174 18 maladjustments maladjustment NOUN _005197353 174 19 in in ADP _005197353 174 20 the the DET _005197353 174 21 sexual sexual ADJ _005197353 174 22 domain domain NOUN _005197353 174 23 quickly quickly ADV _005197353 174 24 vanish vanish VERB _005197353 174 25 . . PUNCT _005197353 175 1 the the DET _005197353 175 2 idea idea NOUN _005197353 175 3 that that SCONJ _005197353 175 4 the the DET _005197353 175 5 human human ADJ _005197353 175 6 race race NOUN _005197353 175 7 , , PUNCT _005197353 175 8 or or CCONJ _005197353 175 9 at at ADP _005197353 175 10 least least ADJ _005197353 175 11 , , PUNCT _005197353 175 12 western western ADJ _005197353 175 13 man man NOUN _005197353 175 14 , , PUNCT _005197353 175 15 had have AUX _005197353 175 16 to to PART _005197353 175 17 wait wait VERB _005197353 175 18 until until SCONJ _005197353 175 19 the the DET _005197353 175 20 middle middle NOUN _005197353 175 21 of of ADP _005197353 175 22 the the DET _005197353 175 23 twentieth twentieth ADJ _005197353 175 24 century century NOUN _005197353 175 25 for for ADP _005197353 175 26 so so ADV _005197353 175 27 - - PUNCT _005197353 175 28 called call VERB _005197353 175 29 “ " PUNCT _005197353 175 30 sexologists sexologist NOUN _005197353 175 31 ” " PUNCT _005197353 175 32 to to PART _005197353 175 33 discover discover VERB _005197353 175 34 the the DET _005197353 175 35 “ " PUNCT _005197353 175 36 right right ADJ _005197353 175 37 ” " PUNCT _005197353 175 38 technique technique NOUN _005197353 175 39 for for ADP _005197353 175 40 the the DET _005197353 175 41 most most ADV _005197353 175 42 fundamental fundamental ADJ _005197353 175 43 relationship relationship NOUN _005197353 175 44 of of ADP _005197353 175 45 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 175 46 is be AUX _005197353 175 47 naive naive ADJ _005197353 175 48 if if SCONJ _005197353 175 49 not not PART _005197353 175 50 ludicrous ludicrous ADJ _005197353 175 51 . . PUNCT _005197353 176 1 • • VERB _005197353 176 2 all all DET _005197353 176 3 the the DET _005197353 176 4 really really ADV _005197353 176 5 scientific scientific ADJ _005197353 176 6 studies study NOUN _005197353 176 7 show show VERB _005197353 176 8 that that SCONJ _005197353 176 9 sexual sexual ADJ _005197353 176 10 adjustments adjustment NOUN _005197353 176 11 are be AUX _005197353 176 12 not not PART _005197353 176 13 automatic automatic ADJ _005197353 176 14 , , PUNCT _005197353 176 15 not not PART _005197353 176 16 dependent dependent ADJ _005197353 176 17 upon upon SCONJ _005197353 176 18 the the DET _005197353 176 19 presence presence NOUN _005197353 176 20 of of ADP _005197353 176 21 some some DET _005197353 176 22 magical magical ADJ _005197353 176 23 “ " PUNCT _005197353 176 24 sex sex NOUN _005197353 176 25 compatibility compatibility NOUN _005197353 176 26 , , PUNCT _005197353 176 27 ” " PUNCT _005197353 176 28 but but CCONJ _005197353 176 29 for for ADP _005197353 176 30 the the DET _005197353 176 31 most most ADJ _005197353 176 32 part part NOUN _005197353 176 33 are be AUX _005197353 176 34 achieved achieve VERB _005197353 176 35 in in ADP _005197353 176 36 time time NOUN _005197353 176 37 through through ADP _005197353 176 38 mutual mutual ADJ _005197353 176 39 understanding understanding NOUN _005197353 176 40 , , PUNCT _005197353 176 41 frankness frankness NOUN _005197353 176 42 , , PUNCT _005197353 176 43 sympathy sympathy NOUN _005197353 176 44 and and CCONJ _005197353 176 45 help help VERB _005197353 176 46 . . PUNCT _005197353 177 1 20 20 NUM _005197353 177 2 indeed indeed ADV _005197353 177 3 , , PUNCT _005197353 177 4 even even ADV _005197353 177 5 where where SCONJ _005197353 177 6 the the DET _005197353 177 7 adjustment adjustment NOUN _005197353 177 8 never never ADV _005197353 177 9 reaches reach VERB _005197353 177 10 the the DET _005197353 177 11 stage stage NOUN _005197353 177 12 of of ADP _005197353 177 13 perfection perfection NOUN _005197353 177 14 , , PUNCT _005197353 177 15 the the DET _005197353 177 16 happiness happiness NOUN _005197353 177 17 of of ADP _005197353 177 18 the the DET _005197353 177 19 couple couple NOUN _005197353 177 20 is be AUX _005197353 177 21 not not PART _005197353 177 22 appreciably appreciably ADV _005197353 177 23 impaired impaired ADJ _005197353 177 24 . . PUNCT _005197353 178 1 the the DET _005197353 178 2 essential essential ADJ _005197353 178 3 happiness happiness NOUN _005197353 178 4 of of ADP _005197353 178 5 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 178 6 lies lie VERB _005197353 178 7 in in ADP _005197353 178 8 a a DET _005197353 178 9 shared share VERB _005197353 178 10 companionship companionship NOUN _005197353 178 11 ; ; PUNCT _005197353 178 12 in in ADP _005197353 178 13 the the DET _005197353 178 14 attainment attainment NOUN _005197353 178 15 of of ADP _005197353 178 16 that that DET _005197353 178 17 goal goal NOUN _005197353 178 18 , , PUNCT _005197353 178 19 social social ADJ _005197353 178 20 , , PUNCT _005197353 178 21 cultural cultural ADJ _005197353 178 22 , , PUNCT _005197353 178 23 psychical psychical ADJ _005197353 178 24 and and CCONJ _005197353 178 25 spiritual spiritual ADJ _005197353 178 26 elements element NOUN _005197353 178 27 play play VERB _005197353 178 28 the the DET _005197353 178 29 dominant dominant ADJ _005197353 178 30 roles role NOUN _005197353 178 31 . . PUNCT _005197353 179 1 mental mental ADJ _005197353 179 2 illness illness NOUN _005197353 179 3 the the DET _005197353 179 4 seventh seventh ADJ _005197353 179 5 factor factor NOUN _005197353 179 6 is be AUX _005197353 179 7 mental mental ADJ _005197353 179 8 illness illness NOUN _005197353 179 9 , , PUNCT _005197353 179 10 accounting account VERB _005197353 179 11 for for ADP _005197353 179 12 3 3 NUM _005197353 179 13 per per NOUN _005197353 179 14 cent cent NOUN _005197353 179 15 of of ADP _005197353 179 16 the the DET _005197353 179 17 breakups breakup NOUN _005197353 179 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 180 1 in in ADP _005197353 180 2 this this DET _005197353 180 3 category category NOUN _005197353 180 4 are be AUX _005197353 180 5 included include VERB _005197353 180 6 only only ADV _005197353 180 7 those those DET _005197353 180 8 cases case NOUN _005197353 180 9 in in ADP _005197353 180 10 which which PRON _005197353 180 11 one one NUM _005197353 180 12 of of ADP _005197353 180 13 the the DET _005197353 180 14 parties party NOUN _005197353 180 15 has have AUX _005197353 180 16 been be AUX _005197353 180 17 institutionalized institutionalize VERB _005197353 180 18 or or CCONJ _005197353 180 19 has have AUX _005197353 180 20 been be AUX _005197353 180 21 judged judge VERB _005197353 180 22 ill ill ADJ _005197353 180 23 by by ADP _005197353 180 24 a a DET _005197353 180 25 psychiatrist psychiatrist NOUN _005197353 180 26 . . PUNCT _005197353 181 1 much much ADJ _005197353 181 2 family family NOUN _005197353 181 3 strife strife NOUN _005197353 181 4 would would AUX _005197353 181 5 be be AUX _005197353 181 6 obviated obviate VERB _005197353 181 7 if if SCONJ _005197353 181 8 a a DET _005197353 181 9 couple couple NOUN _005197353 181 10 would would AUX _005197353 181 11 recognize recognize VERB _005197353 181 12 that that DET _005197353 181 13 illness illness NOUN _005197353 181 14 may may AUX _005197353 181 15 befall befall VERB _005197353 181 16 the the DET _005197353 181 17 mind mind NOUN _005197353 181 18 as as ADV _005197353 181 19 well well ADV _005197353 181 20 as as ADP _005197353 181 21 the the DET _005197353 181 22 body body NOUN _005197353 181 23 , , PUNCT _005197353 181 24 and and CCONJ _005197353 181 25 then then ADV _005197353 181 26 turn turn VERB _005197353 181 27 to to ADP _005197353 181 28 competent competent ADJ _005197353 181 29 psychiatrists psychiatrist NOUN _005197353 181 30 for for ADP _005197353 181 31 assistance assistance NOUN _005197353 181 32 . . PUNCT _005197353 182 1 what what PRON _005197353 182 2 a a DET _005197353 182 3 partner partner NOUN _005197353 182 4 not not PART _005197353 182 5 infrequently infrequently ADV _005197353 182 6 regards regard VERB _005197353 182 7 as as ADP _005197353 182 8 an an DET _005197353 182 9 inconsiderate inconsiderate ADJ _005197353 182 10 or or CCONJ _005197353 182 11 vexing vexing ADJ _005197353 182 12 act act NOUN _005197353 182 13 of of ADP _005197353 182 14 his his PRON _005197353 182 15 mate mate NOUN _005197353 182 16 , , PUNCT _005197353 182 17 stemming stem VERB _005197353 182 18 from from ADP _005197353 182 19 plain plain ADJ _005197353 182 20 meanness meanness NOUN _005197353 182 21 , , PUNCT _005197353 182 22 is be AUX _005197353 182 23 often often ADV _005197353 182 24 the the DET _005197353 182 25 result result NOUN _005197353 182 26 of of ADP _005197353 182 27 a a DET _005197353 182 28 psychic psychic ADJ _005197353 182 29 disorder disorder NOUN _005197353 182 30 that that SCONJ _005197353 182 31 no no DET _005197353 182 32 amount amount NOUN _005197353 182 33 of of ADP _005197353 182 34 arguing arguing NOUN _005197353 182 35 can can AUX _005197353 182 36 remedy remedy VERB _005197353 182 37 . . PUNCT _005197353 183 1 differences difference NOUN _005197353 183 2 over over ADP _005197353 183 3 religion religion NOUN _005197353 183 4 constitute constitute VERB _005197353 183 5 the the DET _005197353 183 6 eighth eighth ADJ _005197353 183 7 factor factor NOUN _005197353 183 8 , , PUNCT _005197353 183 9 embracing embrace VERB _005197353 183 10 2.9 2.9 NUM _005197353 183 11 per per ADP _005197353 183 12 cent cent NOUN _005197353 183 13 of of ADP _005197353 183 14 the the DET _005197353 183 15 failures failure NOUN _005197353 183 16 . . PUNCT _005197353 184 1 this this DET _005197353 184 2 low low ADJ _005197353 184 3 is be AUX _005197353 184 4 probably probably ADV _005197353 184 5 traceable traceable ADJ _005197353 184 6 to to ADP _005197353 184 7 the the DET _005197353 184 8 fact fact NOUN _005197353 184 9 that that SCONJ _005197353 184 10 an an DET _005197353 184 11 understanding understanding NOUN _005197353 184 12 of of ADP _005197353 184 13 mutual mutual ADJ _005197353 184 14 obligations obligation NOUN _005197353 184 15 was be AUX _005197353 184 16 required require VERB _005197353 184 17 in in ADP _005197353 184 18 advance advance NOUN _005197353 184 19 . . PUNCT _005197353 185 1 differences difference NOUN _005197353 185 2 in in ADP _005197353 185 3 religion religion NOUN _005197353 185 4 frequently frequently ADV _005197353 185 5 extend extend VERB _005197353 185 6 to to ADP _005197353 185 7 other other ADJ _005197353 185 8 areas area NOUN _005197353 185 9 of of ADP _005197353 185 10 domestic domestic ADJ _005197353 185 11 life life NOUN _005197353 185 12 and and CCONJ _005197353 185 13 tend tend VERB _005197353 185 14 to to PART _005197353 185 15 21 21 NUM _005197353 185 16 exercise exercise VERB _005197353 185 17 an an DET _005197353 185 18 unstabilizing unstabilizing NOUN _005197353 185 19 influence influence NOUN _005197353 185 20 . . PUNCT _005197353 186 1 money money NOUN _005197353 186 2 troubles trouble NOUN _005197353 186 3 constitute constitute VERB _005197353 186 4 the the DET _005197353 186 5 ninth ninth ADJ _005197353 186 6 factor factor NOUN _005197353 186 7 , , PUNCT _005197353 186 8 accounting account VERB _005197353 186 9 for for ADP _005197353 186 10 .7 .7 NUM _005197353 186 11 per per ADP _005197353 186 12 cent cent NOUN _005197353 186 13 of of ADP _005197353 186 14 the the DET _005197353 186 15 failures failure NOUN _005197353 186 16 . . PUNCT _005197353 187 1 although although SCONJ _005197353 187 2 some some DET _005197353 187 3 disagreement disagreement NOUN _005197353 187 4 over over ADP _005197353 187 5 the the DET _005197353 187 6 use use NOUN _005197353 187 7 of of ADP _005197353 187 8 money money NOUN _005197353 187 9 arises arise VERB _005197353 187 10 at at ADP _005197353 187 11 times time NOUN _005197353 187 12 in in ADP _005197353 187 13 almost almost ADV _005197353 187 14 every every PRON _005197353 187 15 family family NOUN _005197353 187 16 it it PRON _005197353 187 17 seems seem VERB _005197353 187 18 to to PART _005197353 187 19 be be AUX _005197353 187 20 the the DET _005197353 187 21 major major ADJ _005197353 187 22 factor factor NOUN _005197353 187 23 in in ADP _005197353 187 24 the the DET _005197353 187 25 breakup breakup NOUN _005197353 187 26 of of ADP _005197353 187 27 exceedingly exceedingly ADV _005197353 187 28 few few ADJ _005197353 187 29 . . PUNCT _005197353 188 1 it it PRON _005197353 188 2 was be AUX _005197353 188 3 frequently frequently ADV _005197353 188 4 mentioned mention VERB _005197353 188 5 in in ADP _005197353 188 6 cases case NOUN _005197353 188 7 where where SCONJ _005197353 188 8 excessive excessive ADJ _005197353 188 9 drinking drinking NOUN _005197353 188 10 was be AUX _005197353 188 11 involved involve VERB _005197353 188 12 but but CCONJ _005197353 188 13 obviously obviously ADV _005197353 188 14 it it PRON _005197353 188 15 was be AUX _005197353 188 16 the the DET _005197353 188 17 unhappy unhappy ADJ _005197353 188 18 consequence consequence NOUN _005197353 188 19 of of ADP _005197353 188 20 such such ADJ _005197353 188 21 overindulgence overindulgence NOUN _005197353 188 22 . . PUNCT _005197353 189 1 working work VERB _005197353 189 2 out out ADP _005197353 189 3 a a DET _005197353 189 4 family family NOUN _005197353 189 5 budget budget NOUN _005197353 189 6 which which PRON _005197353 189 7 keeps keep VERB _005197353 189 8 the the DET _005197353 189 9 expenditures expenditure NOUN _005197353 189 10 well well ADV _005197353 189 11 within within ADP _005197353 189 12 the the DET _005197353 189 13 income income NOUN _005197353 189 14 , , PUNCT _005197353 189 15 and and CCONJ _005197353 189 16 adhering adhere VERB _005197353 189 17 to to ADP _005197353 189 18 that that DET _005197353 189 19 budget budget NOUN _005197353 189 20 , , PUNCT _005197353 189 21 will will AUX _005197353 189 22 eliminate eliminate VERB _005197353 189 23 many many ADJ _005197353 189 24 financial financial ADJ _005197353 189 25 worries worry NOUN _005197353 189 26 and and CCONJ _005197353 189 27 disagreements disagreement NOUN _005197353 189 28 . . PUNCT _005197353 190 1 in in ADP _005197353 190 2 the the DET _005197353 190 3 tenth tenth ADJ _005197353 190 4 category category NOUN _005197353 190 5 — — PUNCT _005197353 190 6 unclassifiable unclassifiable ADJ _005197353 190 7 miscellaneous miscellaneous ADJ _005197353 190 8 items item NOUN _005197353 190 9 — — PUNCT _005197353 190 10 were be AUX _005197353 190 11 placed place VERB _005197353 190 12 the the DET _005197353 190 13 remaining remain VERB _005197353 190 14 1.7 1.7 NUM _005197353 190 15 per per ADP _005197353 190 16 cent cent NOUN _005197353 190 17 of of ADP _005197353 190 18 the the DET _005197353 190 19 failures failure NOUN _005197353 190 20 . . PUNCT _005197353 191 1 human human ADJ _005197353 191 2 nature nature NOUN _005197353 191 3 is be AUX _005197353 191 4 so so ADV _005197353 191 5 varied varied ADJ _005197353 191 6 that that SCONJ _005197353 191 7 eccentricities eccentricity NOUN _005197353 191 8 shoot shoot VERB _005197353 191 9 out out ADP _005197353 191 10 in in ADP _005197353 191 11 the the DET _005197353 191 12 strangest strange ADJ _005197353 191 13 directions direction NOUN _005197353 191 14 and and CCONJ _005197353 191 15 cause cause VERB _005197353 191 16 complications complication NOUN _005197353 191 17 which which PRON _005197353 191 18 fit fit VERB _005197353 191 19 none none NOUN _005197353 191 20 of of ADP _005197353 191 21 the the DET _005197353 191 22 previously previously ADV _005197353 191 23 mentioned mention VERB _005197353 191 24 categories category NOUN _005197353 191 25 . . PUNCT _005197353 192 1 these these PRON _005197353 192 2 then then ADV _005197353 192 3 are be AUX _005197353 192 4 the the DET _005197353 192 5 nine nine NUM _005197353 192 6 major major ADJ _005197353 192 7 factors factor NOUN _005197353 192 8 which which PRON _005197353 192 9 brought bring VERB _005197353 192 10 disruption disruption NOUN _005197353 192 11 to to ADP _005197353 192 12 the the DET _005197353 192 13 thousands thousand NOUN _005197353 192 14 of of ADP _005197353 192 15 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 192 16 included include VERB _005197353 192 17 in in ADP _005197353 192 18 this this DET _005197353 192 19 painstaking painstaking ADJ _005197353 192 20 study study NOUN _005197353 192 21 . . PUNCT _005197353 193 1 while while SCONJ _005197353 193 2 the the DET _005197353 193 3 disintegrating disintegrate VERB _005197353 193 4 force force NOUN _005197353 193 5 of of ADP _005197353 193 6 each each DET _005197353 193 7 factor factor NOUN _005197353 193 8 may may AUX _005197353 193 9 vary vary VERB _005197353 193 10 in in ADP _005197353 193 11 different different ADJ _005197353 193 12 communities community NOUN _005197353 193 13 , , PUNCT _005197353 193 14 there there PRON _005197353 193 15 is be VERB _005197353 193 16 no no DET _005197353 193 17 doubt doubt NOUN _005197353 193 18 that that SCONJ _005197353 193 19 they they PRON _005197353 193 20 are be AUX _005197353 193 21 the the DET _005197353 193 22 principal principal ADJ _005197353 193 23 causes cause NOUN _005197353 193 24 of of ADP _005197353 193 25 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 193 26 failure failure NOUN _005197353 193 27 in in ADP _005197353 193 28 the the DET _005197353 193 29 united united PROPN _005197353 193 30 states states PROPN _005197353 193 31 . . PUNCT _005197353 194 1 they they PRON _005197353 194 2 are be AUX _005197353 194 3 the the DET _005197353 194 4 booby booby ADJ _005197353 194 5 traps trap NOUN _005197353 194 6 and and CCONJ _005197353 194 7 the the DET _005197353 194 8 hidden hide VERB _005197353 194 9 mines mine NOUN _005197353 194 10 which which PRON _005197353 194 11 each each DET _005197353 194 12 year year NOUN _005197353 194 13 wreck wreck VERB _005197353 194 14 the the DET _005197353 194 15 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 194 16 of of ADP _005197353 194 17 about about ADV _005197353 194 18 a a DET _005197353 194 19 million million NUM _005197353 194 20 22 22 NUM _005197353 194 21 people people NOUN _005197353 194 22 , , PUNCT _005197353 194 23 bringing bring VERB _005197353 194 24 misery misery NOUN _005197353 194 25 and and CCONJ _005197353 194 26 unhappiness unhappiness NOUN _005197353 194 27 to to ADP _005197353 194 28 them they PRON _005197353 194 29 and and CCONJ _005197353 194 30 to to ADP _005197353 194 31 their their PRON _005197353 194 32 children child NOUN _005197353 194 33 . . PUNCT _005197353 195 1 there there PRON _005197353 195 2 is be VERB _005197353 195 3 unfortunately unfortunately ADV _005197353 195 4 no no DET _005197353 195 5 method method NOUN _005197353 195 6 of of ADP _005197353 195 7 removing remove VERB _005197353 195 8 these these DET _005197353 195 9 dangers danger NOUN _005197353 195 10 from from ADP _005197353 195 11 the the DET _005197353 195 12 highways highway NOUN _005197353 195 13 of of ADP _005197353 195 14 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 195 15 , , PUNCT _005197353 195 16 no no DET _005197353 195 17 method method NOUN _005197353 195 18 of of ADP _005197353 195 19 throttling throttle VERB _005197353 195 20 their their PRON _005197353 195 21 destructive destructive ADJ _005197353 195 22 violence violence NOUN _005197353 195 23 and and CCONJ _005197353 195 24 fury fury NOUN _005197353 195 25 , , PUNCT _005197353 195 26 for for SCONJ _005197353 195 27 they they PRON _005197353 195 28 are be AUX _005197353 195 29 rooted root VERB _005197353 195 30 in in ADP _005197353 195 31 human human ADJ _005197353 195 32 nature nature NOUN _005197353 195 33 itself itself PRON _005197353 195 34 . . PUNCT _005197353 196 1 but but CCONJ _005197353 196 2 we we PRON _005197353 196 3 can can AUX _005197353 196 4 greatly greatly ADV _005197353 196 5 lessen lessen VERB _005197353 196 6 their their PRON _005197353 196 7 menace menace NOUN _005197353 196 8 by by ADP _005197353 196 9 marking mark VERB _005197353 196 10 off off ADP _005197353 196 11 these these DET _005197353 196 12 areas area NOUN _005197353 196 13 and and CCONJ _005197353 196 14 bidding bid VERB _005197353 196 15 the the DET _005197353 196 16 travelers traveler NOUN _005197353 196 17 to to PART _005197353 196 18 watch watch VERB _005197353 196 19 their their PRON _005197353 196 20 step step NOUN _005197353 196 21 in in ADP _005197353 196 22 these these DET _005197353 196 23 danger danger NOUN _005197353 196 24 zones zone NOUN _005197353 196 25 . . PUNCT _005197353 197 1 to to PART _005197353 197 2 forewarn forewarn VERB _005197353 197 3 is be AUX _005197353 197 4 to to PART _005197353 197 5 forearm forearm VERB _005197353 197 6 . . PUNCT _005197353 198 1 if if SCONJ _005197353 198 2 married married ADJ _005197353 198 3 couples couple NOUN _005197353 198 4 and and CCONJ _005197353 198 5 those those PRON _005197353 198 6 preparing prepare VERB _005197353 198 7 to to ADP _005197353 198 8 we we PRON _005197353 198 9 d d NOUN _005197353 198 10 are be AUX _005197353 198 11 thoroughly thoroughly ADV _005197353 198 12 cautioned caution VERB _005197353 198 13 concerning concern VERB _005197353 198 14 these these DET _005197353 198 15 booby booby NOUN _005197353 198 16 traps trap NOUN _005197353 198 17 and and CCONJ _005197353 198 18 mined mine VERB _005197353 198 19 areas area NOUN _005197353 198 20 of of ADP _005197353 198 21 the the DET _005197353 198 22 domestic domestic ADJ _005197353 198 23 life life NOUN _005197353 198 24 there there PRON _005197353 198 25 is be VERB _005197353 198 26 reason reason NOUN _005197353 198 27 to to PART _005197353 198 28 believe believe VERB _005197353 198 29 that that SCONJ _005197353 198 30 we we PRON _005197353 198 31 can can AUX _005197353 198 32 reduce reduce VERB _005197353 198 33 to to ADP _005197353 198 34 a a DET _005197353 198 35 minimum minimum NOUN _005197353 198 36 the the DET _005197353 198 37 vast vast ADJ _005197353 198 38 number number NOUN _005197353 198 39 of of ADP _005197353 198 40 explosions explosion NOUN _005197353 198 41 now now ADV _005197353 198 42 marking mark VERB _005197353 198 43 the the DET _005197353 198 44 american american ADJ _005197353 198 45 homefront homefront NOUN _005197353 198 46 . . PUNCT _005197353 199 1 what what PRON _005197353 199 2 is be AUX _005197353 199 3 desperately desperately ADV _005197353 199 4 needed need VERB _005197353 199 5 by by ADP _005197353 199 6 every every DET _005197353 199 7 newly newly ADV _005197353 199 8 wedded wed VERB _005197353 199 9 couple couple NOUN _005197353 199 10 is be AUX _005197353 199 11 a a DET _005197353 199 12 technique technique NOUN _005197353 199 13 for for ADP _005197353 199 14 the the DET _005197353 199 15 handling handling NOUN _005197353 199 16 of of ADP _005197353 199 17 the the DET _005197353 199 18 differences difference NOUN _005197353 199 19 which which PRON _005197353 199 20 so so ADV _005197353 199 21 often often ADV _005197353 199 22 lead lead VERB _005197353 199 23 to to ADP _005197353 199 24 such such ADJ _005197353 199 25 explosions explosion NOUN _005197353 199 26 . . PUNCT _005197353 200 1 differences difference NOUN _005197353 200 2 will will AUX _005197353 200 3 inevitably inevitably ADV _005197353 200 4 arise arise VERB _005197353 200 5 but but CCONJ _005197353 200 6 they they PRON _005197353 200 7 can can AUX _005197353 200 8 be be AUX _005197353 200 9 discussed discuss VERB _005197353 200 10 with with ADP _005197353 200 11 calmness calmness NOUN _005197353 200 12 and and CCONJ _005197353 200 13 understanding understanding NOUN _005197353 200 14 and and CCONJ _005197353 200 15 settled settle VERB _005197353 200 16 through through ADP _005197353 200 17 reason reason NOUN _005197353 200 18 tempered temper VERB _005197353 200 19 with with ADP _005197353 200 20 good good ADJ _005197353 200 21 will will NOUN _005197353 200 22 and and CCONJ _005197353 200 23 love love VERB _005197353 200 24 . . PUNCT _005197353 201 1 if if SCONJ _005197353 201 2 these these DET _005197353 201 3 elements element NOUN _005197353 201 4 are be AUX _005197353 201 5 lacking lack VERB _005197353 201 6 , , PUNCT _005197353 201 7 no no DET _005197353 201 8 disagreement disagreement NOUN _005197353 201 9 , , PUNCT _005197353 201 10 no no ADV _005197353 201 11 matter matter ADV _005197353 201 12 how how SCONJ _005197353 201 13 small small ADJ _005197353 201 14 , , PUNCT _005197353 201 15 can can AUX _005197353 201 16 be be AUX _005197353 201 17 composed compose VERB _005197353 201 18 ; ; PUNCT _005197353 201 19 if if SCONJ _005197353 201 20 they they PRON _005197353 201 21 are be AUX _005197353 201 22 present present ADJ _005197353 201 23 , , PUNCT _005197353 201 24 there there PRON _005197353 201 25 is be VERB _005197353 201 26 no no DET _005197353 201 27 difficulty difficulty NOUN _005197353 201 28 , , PUNCT _005197353 201 29 no no ADV _005197353 201 30 matter matter ADV _005197353 201 31 how how SCONJ _005197353 201 32 large large ADJ _005197353 201 33 , , PUNCT _005197353 201 34 for for ADP _005197353 201 35 which which PRON _005197353 201 36 some some DET _005197353 201 37 solution solution NOUN _005197353 201 38 ca can AUX _005197353 201 39 n’t not PART _005197353 201 40 be be AUX _005197353 201 41 found find VERB _005197353 201 42 . . PUNCT _005197353 202 1 the the DET _005197353 202 2 failure failure NOUN _005197353 202 3 to to PART _005197353 202 4 use use VERB _005197353 202 5 such such DET _005197353 202 6 a a DET _005197353 202 7 technique technique NOUN _005197353 202 8 leads lead VERB _005197353 202 9 to to ADP _005197353 202 10 the the DET _005197353 202 11 sorry sorry ADJ _005197353 202 12 substitute substitute NOUN _005197353 202 13 of of ADP _005197353 202 14 the the DET _005197353 202 15 angry angry ADJ _005197353 202 16 word word NOUN _005197353 202 17 , , PUNCT _005197353 202 18 the the DET _005197353 202 19 sarcastic sarcastic ADJ _005197353 202 20 remark remark NOUN _005197353 202 21 , , PUNCT _005197353 202 22 “ " PUNCT _005197353 202 23 blowing blow VERB _005197353 202 24 one one NUM _005197353 202 25 ’s ’s NOUN _005197353 202 26 top top NOUN _005197353 202 27 , , PUNCT _005197353 202 28 ” " PUNCT _005197353 202 29 23 23 NUM _005197353 202 30 mutual mutual ADJ _005197353 202 31 recrimination recrimination NOUN _005197353 202 32 with with ADP _005197353 202 33 inevitable inevitable ADJ _005197353 202 34 wounded wound VERB _005197353 202 35 feelings feeling NOUN _005197353 202 36 and and CCONJ _005197353 202 37 injured injure VERB _005197353 202 38 pride pride NOUN _005197353 202 39 . . PUNCT _005197353 203 1 “ " PUNCT _005197353 203 2 if if SCONJ _005197353 203 3 i i PRON _005197353 203 4 live live VERB _005197353 203 5 to to PART _005197353 203 6 be be AUX _005197353 203 7 a a DET _005197353 203 8 hundred/ hundred/ NUM _005197353 203 9 ’ ' PUNCT _005197353 203 10 said say VERB _005197353 203 11 marjorie marjorie PROPN _005197353 203 12 , , PUNCT _005197353 203 13 “ " PUNCT _005197353 203 14 i i PRON _005197353 203 15 wo will AUX _005197353 203 16 n’t not PART _005197353 203 17 be be AUX _005197353 203 18 able able ADJ _005197353 203 19 to to PART _005197353 203 20 forget forget VERB _005197353 203 21 the the DET _005197353 203 22 name name NOUN _005197353 203 23 bob bob PROPN _005197353 203 24 called call VERB _005197353 203 25 me i PRON _005197353 203 26 during during ADP _005197353 203 27 a a DET _005197353 203 28 spat spat NOUN _005197353 203 29 . . PUNCT _005197353 204 1 i i PRON _005197353 204 2 wake wake VERB _005197353 204 3 up up ADP _005197353 204 4 at at ADP _005197353 204 5 night night NOUN _005197353 204 6 and and CCONJ _005197353 204 7 squirm squirm ADJ _005197353 204 8 in in ADP _005197353 204 9 agony agony NOUN _005197353 204 10 as as ADP _005197353 204 11 its its PRON _005197353 204 12 venomous venomous ADJ _005197353 204 13 echo echo NOUN _005197353 204 14 rattlesnakes rattlesnake NOUN _005197353 204 15 in in ADP _005197353 204 16 my my PRON _005197353 204 17 mind mind NOUN _005197353 204 18 . . PUNCT _005197353 204 19 ” " PUNCT _005197353 205 1 indeed indeed ADV _005197353 205 2 , , PUNCT _005197353 205 3 the the DET _005197353 205 4 lack lack NOUN _005197353 205 5 of of ADP _005197353 205 6 such such DET _005197353 205 7 a a DET _005197353 205 8 technique technique NOUN _005197353 205 9 leads lead VERB _005197353 205 10 the the DET _005197353 205 11 unwary unwary NOUN _005197353 205 12 into into ADP _005197353 205 13 the the DET _005197353 205 14 booby booby NOUN _005197353 205 15 traps trap NOUN _005197353 205 16 which which DET _005197353 205 17 maim maim NOUN _005197353 205 18 and and CCONJ _005197353 205 19 wreck wreck NOUN _005197353 205 20 thousands thousand NOUN _005197353 205 21 of of ADP _005197353 205 22 marriages marriage NOUN _005197353 205 23 . . PUNCT _005197353 206 1 to to PART _005197353 206 2 remind remind VERB _005197353 206 3 couples couple NOUN _005197353 206 4 of of ADP _005197353 206 5 those those DET _005197353 206 6 hazards hazard NOUN _005197353 206 7 and and CCONJ _005197353 206 8 to to PART _005197353 206 9 offer offer VERB _005197353 206 10 detailed detailed ADJ _005197353 206 11 guidance guidance NOUN _005197353 206 12 as as ADP _005197353 206 13 to to ADP _005197353 206 14 methods method NOUN _005197353 206 15 of of ADP _005197353 206 16 avoiding avoid VERB _005197353 206 17 them they PRON _005197353 206 18 and and CCONJ _005197353 206 19 achieving achieve VERB _005197353 206 20 enduring endure VERB _005197353 206 21 peace peace NOUN _005197353 206 22 and and CCONJ _005197353 206 23 happiness happiness NOUN _005197353 206 24 we we PRON _005197353 206 25 have have AUX _005197353 206 26 formulated formulate VERB _005197353 206 27 ten ten NUM _005197353 206 28 commandments commandment NOUN _005197353 206 29 . . PUNCT _005197353 207 1 they they PRON _005197353 207 2 hang hang VERB _005197353 207 3 at at ADP _005197353 207 4 present present NOUN _005197353 207 5 in in ADP _005197353 207 6 thousands thousand NOUN _005197353 207 7 of of ADP _005197353 207 8 homes home NOUN _005197353 207 9 as as ADP _005197353 207 10 mute mute NOUN _005197353 207 11 reminders reminder NOUN _005197353 207 12 that that SCONJ _005197353 207 13 success success NOUN _005197353 207 14 and and CCONJ _005197353 207 15 happiness happiness NOUN _005197353 207 16 in in ADP _005197353 207 17 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 207 18 as as ADP _005197353 207 19 in in ADP _005197353 207 20 life life NOUN _005197353 207 21 come come VERB _005197353 207 22 as as ADP _005197353 207 23 the the DET _005197353 207 24 crowning crown VERB _005197353 207 25 reward reward NOUN _005197353 207 26 of of ADP _005197353 207 27 ceaseless ceaseless NOUN _005197353 207 28 striving striving ADJ _005197353 207 29 and and CCONJ _005197353 207 30 eternal eternal ADJ _005197353 207 31 vigilance vigilance NOUN _005197353 207 32 . . PUNCT _005197353 208 1 perhaps perhaps ADV _005197353 208 2 you you PRON _005197353 208 3 may may AUX _005197353 208 4 find find VERB _005197353 208 5 a a DET _005197353 208 6 place place NOUN _005197353 208 7 for for ADP _005197353 208 8 them they PRON _005197353 208 9 in in ADP _005197353 208 10 your your PRON _005197353 208 11 home home NOUN _005197353 208 12 . . PUNCT _005197353 209 1 24 24 NUM _005197353 209 2 ten ten NUM _005197353 209 3 commandments commandment NOUN _005197353 209 4 for for ADP _005197353 209 5 a a DET _005197353 209 6 happy happy ADJ _005197353 209 7 marriage marriage NOUN _005197353 209 8 1 1 NUM _005197353 209 9 . . PUNCT _005197353 210 1 thou thou DET _005197353 210 2 shalt shalt NOUN _005197353 210 3 make make VERB _005197353 210 4 thy thy PRON _005197353 210 5 promise promise NOUN _005197353 210 6 of of ADP _005197353 210 7 mutual mutual ADJ _005197353 210 8 love love NOUN _005197353 210 9 and and CCONJ _005197353 210 10 loyalty loyalty NOUN _005197353 210 11 a a DET _005197353 210 12 vow vow NOUN _005197353 210 13 to to ADP _005197353 210 14 god god PROPN _005197353 210 15 , , PUNCT _005197353 210 16 binding bind VERB _005197353 210 17 until until ADP _005197353 210 18 death death NOUN _005197353 210 19 . . PUNCT _005197353 211 1 2 2 X _005197353 211 2 . . PUNCT _005197353 212 1 thou thou DET _005197353 212 2 shalt shalt NOUN _005197353 212 3 abstain abstain NOUN _005197353 212 4 from from ADP _005197353 212 5 the the DET _005197353 212 6 angry angry ADJ _005197353 212 7 word word NOUN _005197353 212 8 which which PRON _005197353 212 9 wounds wound VERB _005197353 212 10 more more ADV _005197353 212 11 deeply deeply ADV _005197353 212 12 than than ADP _005197353 212 13 a a DET _005197353 212 14 sword sword NOUN _005197353 212 15 . . PUNCT _005197353 213 1 3 3 X _005197353 213 2 . . PUNCT _005197353 214 1 thou thou DET _005197353 214 2 shalt shalt NOUN _005197353 214 3 respect respect VERB _005197353 214 4 the the DET _005197353 214 5 personality personality NOUN _005197353 214 6 of of ADP _005197353 214 7 thy thy PRON _005197353 214 8 mate mate NOUN _005197353 214 9 and and CCONJ _005197353 214 10 not not PART _005197353 214 11 seek seek VERB _005197353 214 12 to to PART _005197353 214 13 dominate dominate VERB _005197353 214 14 or or CCONJ _005197353 214 15 tyrannize tyrannize VERB _005197353 214 16 . . PUNCT _005197353 215 1 4 4 X _005197353 215 2 . . PUNCT _005197353 216 1 thou thou DET _005197353 216 2 shalt shalt NOUN _005197353 216 3 allow allow VERB _005197353 216 4 no no DET _005197353 216 5 in in ADP _005197353 216 6 - - PUNCT _005197353 216 7 laws law NOUN _005197353 216 8 to to PART _005197353 216 9 interfere interfere VERB _005197353 216 10 with with ADP _005197353 216 11 the the DET _005197353 216 12 running running NOUN _005197353 216 13 of of ADP _005197353 216 14 thy thy PRON _005197353 216 15 home home NOUN _005197353 216 16 . . PUNCT _005197353 217 1 5 5 X _005197353 217 2 . . PUNCT _005197353 218 1 thou thou DET _005197353 218 2 shalt shalt NOUN _005197353 218 3 abstain abstain NOUN _005197353 218 4 from from ADP _005197353 218 5 drink drink NOUN _005197353 218 6 where where SCONJ _005197353 218 7 alcohol alcohol NOUN _005197353 218 8 is be AUX _005197353 218 9 a a DET _005197353 218 10 danger danger NOUN _005197353 218 11 to to ADP _005197353 218 12 either either DET _005197353 218 13 party party NOUN _005197353 218 14 . . PUNCT _005197353 219 1 6 6 X _005197353 219 2 . . PUNCT _005197353 220 1 thou thou DET _005197353 220 2 shalt shalt NOUN _005197353 220 3 make make VERB _005197353 220 4 a a DET _005197353 220 5 family family NOUN _005197353 220 6 budget budget NOUN _005197353 220 7 and and CCONJ _005197353 220 8 observe observe VERB _005197353 220 9 it it PRON _005197353 220 10 . . PUNCT _005197353 221 1 7 7 X _005197353 221 2 . . PUNCT _005197353 222 1 thou thou DET _005197353 222 2 shalt shalt NOUN _005197353 222 3 eschew eschew VERB _005197353 222 4 pettiness pettiness ADV _005197353 222 5 , , PUNCT _005197353 222 6 nagging nagging ADJ _005197353 222 7 selfishness selfishness NOUN _005197353 222 8 , , PUNCT _005197353 222 9 jealousy jealousy NOUN _005197353 222 10 and and CCONJ _005197353 222 11 false false ADJ _005197353 222 12 pride pride NOUN _005197353 222 13 . . PUNCT _005197353 223 1 8 8 X _005197353 223 2 . . PUNCT _005197353 224 1 thou thou DET _005197353 224 2 shalt shalt NOUN _005197353 224 3 grow grow VERB _005197353 224 4 in in ADP _005197353 224 5 consideration consideration NOUN _005197353 224 6 and and CCONJ _005197353 224 7 love love NOUN _005197353 224 8 each each DET _005197353 224 9 day day NOUN _005197353 224 10 and and CCONJ _005197353 224 11 share share VERB _005197353 224 12 thy thy PRON _005197353 224 13 interests interest NOUN _005197353 224 14 and and CCONJ _005197353 224 15 pleasures pleasure NOUN _005197353 224 16 to to ADP _005197353 224 17 a a DET _005197353 224 18 maximum maximum NOUN _005197353 224 19 . . NOUN _005197353 224 20 9 9 NUM _005197353 224 21 . . PUNCT _005197353 225 1 thou thou PRON _005197353 225 2 shalt shalt NOUN _005197353 225 3 love love VERB _005197353 225 4 thy thy PRON _005197353 225 5 children child NOUN _005197353 225 6 as as ADP _005197353 225 7 god god PROPN _005197353 225 8 ’s ’s PART _005197353 225 9 supreme supreme PROPN _005197353 225 10 gift gift PROPN _005197353 225 11 and and CCONJ _005197353 225 12 rear rear VERB _005197353 225 13 them they PRON _005197353 225 14 to to PART _005197353 225 15 be be AUX _005197353 225 16 good good ADJ _005197353 225 17 citizens citizen NOUN _005197353 225 18 with with ADP _005197353 225 19 a a DET _005197353 225 20 sense sense NOUN _005197353 225 21 of of ADP _005197353 225 22 honor honor NOUN _005197353 225 23 , , PUNCT _005197353 225 24 tolerance tolerance NOUN _005197353 225 25 and and CCONJ _005197353 225 26 fair fair ADJ _005197353 225 27 play play NOUN _005197353 225 28 . . PUNCT _005197353 226 1 10 10 NUM _005197353 226 2 . . PUNCT _005197353 227 1 thou thou DET _005197353 227 2 shalt shalt NOUN _005197353 227 3 kneel kneel NOUN _005197353 227 4 together together ADV _005197353 227 5 in in ADP _005197353 227 6 prayer prayer NOUN _005197353 227 7 each each DET _005197353 227 8 night night NOUN _005197353 227 9 , , PUNCT _005197353 227 10 knowing know VERB _005197353 227 11 that that SCONJ _005197353 227 12 the the DET _005197353 227 13 family family NOUN _005197353 227 14 that that PRON _005197353 227 15 prays pray VERB _005197353 227 16 together together ADV _005197353 227 17 stays stay VERB _005197353 227 18 together together ADV _005197353 227 19 . . PUNCT