Capstone Integration 4/29/22 Capstone Integration The Best Version of Myself I view my responsibilities to others as being kind, respectful, and uplifting. I strive to respond to the suffering of others with compassion and to be of help to others when they need it. I never want to be close-minded toward others, and I will always strive to be joyful and grateful in every aspect of my life ( Writing a Personal Mission Statement Activity - Moreau FYE Week Thirteen) As a part of my mission statement, I strive to be someone who can enjoy the present moment. Week one’s Ted Talk, “Why we need to slow down our lives” by Pico Iyer gave me a moment of reflection in which I realized that I need to allow myself more time to relax and not be so stressed out ("Why we need to slow down our lives" by Pico Iyer - Moreau FYE Week One). Oftentimes when I am in the present moment, I find myself overthinking about other things instead of enjoying the moment. I have often struggled with allowing myself to be in the moment without overthinking what I should be doing instead, so this Ted Talk helped me realize how important it is to allow myself to be in the moment. In relation to this goal, in Week four of this class, the quote “The only way to know more about yourself is to test the waters - just get out and experience life!” really resonated with me ("Navigating Your Career Journey” Meruelo Family Center for Career Development - Moreau FYE Week Four). This quote emphasized to me the importance of living in the moment and being open to new experiences. Especially at a place like Notre Dame with countless opportunities, I have tried my best to make the most of every moment. Another aspect of my mission statement is that I strive to be someone that builds everyone around me up and brings joy into my life as well as others. I never want to be someone who is envious of others or brings others down through my negative attitude. As Hesburgh said, “We don’t prove anything by burning something down, we prove something by building it up” ("Hesburgh" Produced by Jerry Barca and Christine O'Malley - Moreau FYE Week Two). Furthermore, in Week 3 of this Moreau Course, we discussed key questions that help to discern whether we are headed in the right direction in life. The questions asked were: “Is this a source of joy? Is this something that taps into your talents and gifts—engages all of your abilities—and uses them in the fullest way possible? Is this a genuine service to those around you?” ("Three Key Questions" adapted from Fr. Michael Himes - Moreau FYE Week Three). Thinking about these questions made me realize that what I value most about where I end up in life is how much it positively impacts not only me but also those around me. I hope that I use the opportunities that I have been given to help others and make a difference, which we discussed the importance of in week twelve of this course (“Constitutions of the Congregation of Holy Cross” - 2: Mission, paragraphs 9-14 - Moreau FYE Week Twelve). Another aspect of my mission statement is that I strive to be someone that strays away from judgment and treats everyone with kindness and inclusion. In the interview assigned for Week 5 of this course, I asked my mom “What do you think I value and desire in life? 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In Week 7 of this Moreau course, we were assigned a reading that further emphasized to me the importance of not being judgmental towards others. As written, “We have a chance, sometimes, to create a new jurisdiction, a place of astonishing mutuality, whenever we close both eyes of judgment and open the other eye to pay attention” ("Chapter 8: Jurisdiction" Fr. Greg Boyle, S.J., Tattoos on the Heart - Moreau FYE Week Seven). One aspect of my life that has clearly emphasized inclusion is my time spent at Notre Dame. While at Notre Dame, the community has been so inclusive and welcoming. In “The Spirit of Inclusion at Notre Dame”, inclusion on our campus was highlighted in the diversity and inclusion that Notre Dame uplifts (“The Spirit of Inclusion at Notre Dame” - Moreau FYE Week Ten). Everyone on our campus is unique in their own way, and we all have something to offer and give to the larger community, therefore inclusiveness is always a priority. I never want to be someone that is close-minded towards others because of differing opinions, so it is important to me to strive to be as open-minded and welcoming as possible. As discussed in week eleven of this course, if we refuse to surround ourselves with people who differ from us in various ways, we will never grow as individuals (“How to Avoid an Echo Chamber” Dr. Paul Blaschko, ThinkND - Moreau FYE Week Eleven). In addition to this, a large part of how I pursue a life well-lived is by trying my best to have a positive outlook on life. In Week 6 of this Moreau course, I was prompted to reflect on all of the things that I am grateful for in my life. In the article titled “The right way to be introspective”, I learned about ways to self-reflect with a positive mindset and not be so entrapped in negative thoughts. The article talked about how asking yourself “what” questions are more productive than asking yourself “why” questions because “what” questions force us to name our emotions and “why” questions lend themselves more to negative responses in our minds (“The Right Way to be Introspective (Yes, There’s a Wrong Way)” Tasha Eurich, TED Conferences - Moreau FYE Week Six). In addition to this, I was able to reflect on how I strive to pursue a life well lived through defining a life well-lived in my Integration Three for this course (Integration Three - Moreau FYE Week Eight). In writing this reflection, I was able to clearly organize my thoughts on how I want to live a life that I am proud of. Ultimately, my conclusion from reflecting on this topic was that pursuing a life well-lived for me is about impacting others in a positive way and using my abilities to help others. One reading and quote regarding this topic that specifically resonated with me was from an article by Professor Steve Reifenburg. In the article he wrote about his service trip to Chile, and discussed how when he arrived in Chile, he assumed he was the one helping through his service projects with the kids in the community, when in actuality, the kids ended up helping him and accompanying him just as much.“It is a reciprocal relationship. One cannot accompany without being accompanied, in the same way someone cannot be a good friend without being open to friendship” wrote Professor Steve Reifenburg (“Teaching Accompaniment: A Learning Journey Together” Professor Steve Reifenberg - Moreau FYE Week Nine). I really enjoyed Steve https://canvas.nd.edu/courses/40250/modules/items/145958 https://canvas.nd.edu/courses/40250/modules/items/145958 https://canvas.nd.edu/courses/40250/modules/items/145929 https://canvas.nd.edu/courses/40250/modules/items/168041 https://canvas.nd.edu/courses/40250/modules/items/168041 https://dulac.nd.edu/university-mission-and-vision/spirit-of-inclusion/ https://dulac.nd.edu/university-mission-and-vision/spirit-of-inclusion/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GaIVxQcqnLs&t=1s&ab_channel=ThinkND https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GaIVxQcqnLs&t=1s&ab_channel=ThinkND https://canvas.nd.edu/courses/40250/modules/items/145974 https://canvas.nd.edu/courses/40250/modules/items/145974 https://canvas.nd.edu/courses/40250/modules/items/146007 https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hZbSdVImfn2hZDqMrdL96dZCNOtHuf6C-lg3sH-Rs30/edit?usp=sharing https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hZbSdVImfn2hZDqMrdL96dZCNOtHuf6C-lg3sH-Rs30/edit?usp=sharing 4/29/22 Capstone Integration Reifenburg’s outlook that to accompany is to be accompanied. I liked the perspective that helping someone is never a one-sided task, which we often tend to view it as.