THE address OF SOME Ministers of Christ IN THE Isle of Wight, & County of Southampton, To the People of their respective Charges, by way of EXHORTATION, to Discharge their parts of those two Great and Necessary DUTIES Private Conference AND CATECHISING. Prov. 22. 6. Train up (or catechise) a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Gen. 18. 19 I know Abraham, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the Lord. London, Printed by J. H. for J. Rothwell at the Fountain in Goldsmiths-row in Cheapside. 1658. The address of some Ministers of Christ in the Isle of Wight, and County of Southampton, to the People of their respective Charges, by way of Exhortation, to discharge their parts of those two great and necessary Duties, Private Conference & Catechising. Dearly Beloved, THat the good tidings which the glorious Gospel of Jesus Christ brings to sinners, was first heard at Jerusalem, was a mercy, Luc. 24 47. a great mercy to the Jews: That it was not confined to them alone, but ordered to pass among all other Nations, was a gracious, a very exceeding gracious dispensation to us sinners of the Gentiles. That it found out this obscure Angle of the world, where we live, so early, that our priority before many Countries in the enjoyment of so invaluable a blessing, is justly accounted amongst the highest of our Prerogatives, was an evidence of the Lord's peculiar goodness to our Progenitors; and we are not so regardless of the Land of our Nativity, nor so forgetful of the rock from whence we were hewn, and the hole of the Pit from whence we were digged, as not to think ourselves enough concerned in their mercies, to bless God for them. And as the God of our mercies did so seasonably prevent us, so hath his goodness and mercy all along followed us in affording means of light and life to us, from one generation to another. If we remember the days of old, Deut. 32. 7, 10. and consider the years of many generations: if we ask our fathers they will show us, and our Elders they will teach us, in what a deplorable condition of Ignorance, Idolatry, and atheism, and how deeply plunged in all Imaginable Abominations, the Lord found us, when he sent us by his Gospel Jesus Christ the Light of the world, with means enough to direct us out of darkness and the shadow of Death, and to guide our feet into the ways of peace. And though the interposition of our sins betwixt heaven and us hath not suffered the Sun of the Gospel for many ages to break out upon us, in its full glory, yet hath it not at any time been able totally to eclipse it, since first it arose upon the Nation. And this we mention upon no other account than to remember you of our being brought forth in a Land of Blessings, which we think it our duty to look back upon as a providence too full of goodness to be despised. But (as in which our own concernments are more specially wrapped up) we desire most of all to spend our serious considerations upon the Lord's gracious dealing, as to Gospel mercies, with this Nation, in our days. That holy arm which scattered among us means of Conversion and life in former times, clothed, is now made bare, those compassions that did then flow from divine bowels, but at an ordinary rate, are now advanced. God that commanded the clouds from above to let fall drops then, hath now opened the windows of Heaven, and raineth down large and plentiful showers of his gospel into our bosoms▪ our blessings have prevailed above the blessings of our progenitors. When, or where did the King of Saints ever ride up and down, in his ordinance of preaching the Gospel in so much Glory and Triumph, as in this Age and Nation! This blessing is doubled, is multiplied upon us, in respect of other times and places, whether we look backward or round about us, we are presented with a necessity of acknowledging that the light of the Moon, with us, is as the light of the sun, Isa. 30. 26. and the light of the sun, as the light of seven days. And as we desire to look upon these gracious outgoings of the Lord towards us with thankful and glad hearts, as they are a plentiful provision of means to bring us to the great ends we ought to aim at, the service and eternal enjoyment of himself, who is alone the creatures best and greatest both master and wages; so when we do on the other hand consider how disproportionable we are in our returns, how unanswerable in our principles and practices to such mercies, how few attain the ends but now mentioned, how many are grossly ignorant even of the Principles of that Religion they think to be saved by, how many who have the droppings, the rain of the Sanctuary, coming often upon them, do bring forth nothing but thorns and briars, and what a lamentable propensity too many do discover to be led away by the error of the wicked, our hearts begin to gather blackness, and are seized upon with fear, lest these sweet mercies should be swift witnesses against us, and in stead of converting us to Jesus Christ, our deliverer from the wrath to come, should be converted by us into such aggravations of our sins, as will leave us in a less tolerable condition than Sodom and Gomorrah, at the day of judgement; and we are very well assured, it is every good man's duty, to prevent (as much as in him lies) so sad an issue of such invaluable blessings. The Duty, we say, of all good men, but specially of Ministers, whose office i● is to lay out themselves in a constant attendance upon the good of Souls: upon which accoun● we the unworthy Ministers of Christ, whose Names are under-written, having through mercy been stirred up to improve our Talents, to the uttermost, for the advancement of the kingdom and Interest of our dear Redeemer, and the eternal welfare of you● immortal souls, who are respectively committed to our Charge, and having waited upon God in a way of earnest prayer, and solemn humiliation, for directions to that purpose, have jointly agreed to communicate our thoughts, desires, and purposes unto you, by this Paper, hoping that we shall find it a very good expedient to ●●●●itate so great a work. Brethren! we have seriously considered, not so much the necessity of Knowledge to salvation, (for who is not convinced of this, that is convinced of any thing?) but, how little, or no ac●●aintance many of our people have with the things of God, how unhappy a qualification this is for any thing that is evil, and what unavoidable advantages the devil hath against those poor souls, whom he is sure to set upon in the dark. Though we are constrained to believe, that some are very well able to digest their convictions, and have light enough to see themselves wallowing in the pollutions of the world; yet can we not but be persuaded of very many, that both the Mother & Nurse of their miscarriages is their ignorance, being never yet possessed of so much illumination, as throughly to perceive the filthy and damnable nature of sin, Rom. 6. 23 Acts 4. 12. Heb. 12. 14. the necessity of an interest in Christ, and of that work of grace by his Spirit upon their souls, without which no man shall see the Lord. Our Charity prevailing with us, at least to think that if the generality of men were able to see the wrath of God, and the torments of hell in every sin, Acts 5. 31. they would not dote upon it; and to see Christ exalted to be a Prince, to give repentance and remission of sins, they would not by their wilful impieties send so many messages to him every day that they will not have this man to reign over them. If they knew more, Luk. 19 14. they would live better, if they did not see so little, they would not sin so much; they would not so constantly go out of their way, did they not go in the dark. Yourselves, Brethren, are our witnesses, that in the course of our Ministry, we have made it much of our business to inform men's judgements, being very sure of this, that unless we could have a knowing people, we should never have a gracious people; as we are to bless God for any the least success of his Gospel to this purpose, we are also deeply to be humbled that it hath been no more, that very many are ignorant still, and not able to evidence themselves owners of so much knowledge, as may be presumed to let in Christ by Faith into their souls; our deep sense of which hath brought us together, put us upon our prayers to God, and a mutual contribution of advice and council to one another, what further course to take, that by the blessing of God, might promote your edification at a better rate, be a way to a speedier implantation of Light and Grace in your souls, and make room in your heads and hearts for the Gospel of Jesus Christ in our public preaching. To which end and purpose, for every one of us to revive and constantly to practise the too long neglected duties of Private Conference and catechising in our respective Charges, is a course which we have apprehended to promise us the most comfortable success. We have therefore unanimously agreed and resolved, to add to our more public ministerial labours, the faithful serious and constant discharge of these duties, that by laying out our talents as many ways as they may possibly be improvable, for the good of all, we may, by the grace of Christ going along with us, be instrumental in saving some. Now our endeavours shall be to instruct By 1. Chatechizing, all within our respective Charges that are under the Government of others. 2. Private Conference, all the rest. Not that we would be understood to exclude any that are reducible to either of these ranks from the benefit of both, or (so much as an intimation) to mean it, not to be the duty of all, to submit to both; but have thus propounded it, out of a condescension to that weakness (of too much force upon most men's Spirits) which suggesteth it to be a matter of shame, for persons that are aged to be catechised; but never inclineth them to so much as the least blushing that they have need of it. So yourselves being able to testify, that we are in a manner necessitated to this method, we shall beg the conjunction of your prayers with ours, for a blessing from Heaven upon it, and (in as few words as we conveniently may) bespeak your compliance with us in it. And First as to the catechising of all that are under the Government (we mean the domestical Government) of others. We have a request to make To 1 The Governing party. 2 The Governed. 1. To Masters, Mistresses, and such as have the care of others in their families committed to them; our earnest desire is, that no neglect of yours may bring upon you the guilt of accessaries to the obstruction of so good a work, which you will by no means be able to prevent, but by contributing what you can to the promotion of it, by teaching your children and servants the grounds and principles of Religion at home, that they may at least remember them; and by causing them to come under our public examination at the Church, that we may see whether they do, and give them further instructions that they may profitably understand them. That the means of bringing persons to Christ and heaven is to bring them to the knowledge of the Truth, 1 Tim. 2. 4. or that it's your duty to endeavour the bringing of your families by the same way, to the same end. We will not be so uncharitable as to think you have any need to have it proved, and what fitter way can you attempt the discharge of this duty in, then by catechising them? If you were to fill, ('tis an old, a common, but very pertinent similitude, and perhaps may stick by you) a company of exceeding narrow mouthed Glasses, the likeliest way to do it, is by taking them singly in your hands, and dropping into each by little and little, as it will go down, and not by setting them altogether, and throwing great quantities of water upon them But, this together with your duty about it, and the many arguments you have to discharge it, we shall offer you more at large in these following Considerations, which we shall crave leave to press, as the Duty concerns your 1. Whole family. 2. Children. 3. Servants. 1. In relation to your whole family. 1. Consider. Whether God hath not committed unto you a guardianship over the souls of your families, and it be not upon that account your duty to take care for the discharge of theirs? 'tis a comprehensive instance which you have in Exod. Exod. 20. 10. 20 10. That your sons, daughters, men and maidservants keep the Sabbath holy, is an injunction laid immediately upon you; you must remember that they do sanctify it, and this is not done, but by spending the whole time in the private and public exercises of God's worship and service. And how many principles of Religion must be known, before this can be done? and we cannot doubt of your easy grant of this consequence, that if you must see your families do those duties, which they can never do except they be instructed, then must you be their instructors, unless you can suppose, there may lie a strict obligation upon you to accomplish such an end, which leaves you under no engagement at all to use the means. 2 Consider. How special an eye of favour God carries towards those Heads of families, who lay out their care that all under their roof may know and serve him. Friendship with God is the choicest evidence of his favour, communication of secrets the highest declaration of friendship, and this will the Lord bestow upon Abraham a peculiar share in, being a person that would command his household to keep the way of the Lord, Gen. 18. 19 And from hence do learned men collect, that it was, in that age, the holy practice of such as feared God to catechise their families, and instruct them, concerning the Creation of the world, fall of man, destruction of the old world, God's providence, the Messiah to be revealed, everlasting life to come, and such like. If you neglect Abraham's practice, you are never like to come to Abraham's Honour, who was called The friend of God, James 2. 23. 3 Consider. What care the Spirit of God takes to keep alive their memories to all generations, who have planted religion in their families. Aquila and Priscilla had a Church in their house, 1 Cor. 16. 19 Nymphas and Philemon had Churches in their houses, Coloss. 4. 15. Philem. 2. not only in that they were hospitable to the believers, and entertained them in their houses, or that the meetings of Christians for the worship of God was wont to be in their houses, but also in regard of the piety of their families, each household might be called a Church, a company taught to know God, and to serve him. And Cornelius, was a man that feared God with all his house, Act. 10. 2. These are mentioned with Honour, and have been so near sixteen hundred years already, and shall be so as long as the Sun and moon endureth. 4 Consider. The proneness of youth to every thing that is evil. If you doubt what the inexperience, rashness, heat, pride, ignorance, and confidence, which most in their youth have a sufficient stock of, may put them upon, look back upon what you were yourselves. When David asketh wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? Psal. 119. 9 is it not an intimation that his way is ordinarily thorough the pollutions of the world? And when David prays, Remember not the sins of my youth, Psal. 25. 7. do ye think there be very many in the world, that in their age, have no need to go to the Throne of Grace, in the same errand? And when Job complains, Thou makest me to possess the sins of my youth, Job 13. 26. we think 'twill follow that Jobs youthful time was his worst time. 'tis reported of Bellarmine, that when the Priest came to absolve him, he could not remember any particular sin to confess, till he went back in his thoughts as far as his youth; either the Cardinal's memory failed him, or youth will be sinful, though no age else be; 'tis doubtless the worst season of the best men, and for gross and scandalous miscarriages, most commonly, of the worst too. Now, wherewithal shall these young ones cleanse their ways? what means must be pitched upon to mortify youthful lusts, but the word of God? Psal. 119. 9 and what fitter expedient for the application of that remedy to this disease, then to let it into their Heads and Hearts by catechising? by infusing those Scriptures that do assert the damnable nature of sin, the necessity of regeneration, the Tendency of the course they are in, to their everlasting destruction, &c. 5 Consider. On the other Hand, that if ever you mean, your families shall learn the ways of God, you lose (at least) the fairest probability of success, if you fall not upon teaching them in their younger years. Let us crave liberty to lay, and leave before you, but these Observations. 1 Observe the fitness of that season to receive instruction; that (besides our original pollution) we are very early capable of sinning, may be discovered even in little children every day. I know not (saith Augustine) the sins I committed in my infancy, yet I know that then I sinned, and he knew it from hence, that he had observed anger and envy in sucking children; he was (he confesseth) a little child, and a great-sinner: and Gregory gives us an account of horrid blasphemies by a child of five years old: we will not say that goodness hath so timely, or so easy an entertainment as sin hath, we know reasons to the contrary; you will how ever receive no damage by beginning seasonably, you were better lose some labour than any Time. We have read of some that have been ordained to the office of public Readers in the Church at eight years old, of some suffering Martyrdom at thirteen, of others discovering a capacity of learning what ever you would take the pains to teach them very betime. We beseech you not to pretend such a disproportion between the intellectuals of these, and of the young ones in your families, as is enough to excuse a neglect of catechising them, till you have tried; and when you have, let it not serve your turn, for a neglect of this duty to the rest that are of understanding enough to learn other things in their younger years (as we said) you have hopes of fastening upon them the Things of God. Prepossession is a great matter; the more time you give sin and vanity to grow upon them, the less hopes you have of planting in them the mysteries of Religion. 2 Observe, How few there be, whose youth hath been suffered to pass in ignorance, that are brought to the saving knowledge of God in Christ in their elder days. Habits are difficultly removed, and how long will a vessel savour of the first liquour you season it with? If ever you mean to meet your families in Heaven, guide them thitherward at their first setting out. 6 Consider. How much Religion is concerned in this duty of catechising; set it up, you provide abundantly for the welfare of it, you go the way to supply her with professors, knowing, solid, settled, such as do espouse her because they love her, and love her because they know her; neglect it, and you contribute to the ruin of it, if she have any other followers, than such as are profane, ignorant, ungrounded, unstable, carried about with every wind of Doctrine, such as she will be ashamed to own for her children, and who had not owned her, but that it was the first they lighted upon, she will have no cause in the world to thank you for it. This is so necessary a course to settle people in what they first take in, that the Jesuits boast themselves the Grand Conservators of the Romish Religion, in that they are Catechizers, and they have formerly stirred up one another to all possible diligence in this work by the example of the Protestants. We are sorry and ashamed, that if for divers years last past the Jesuits had wanted a provocation to catechising from the example of Protestants, they would not have been able to have fetched it hence. We beseech you Brethren, let not our Religion have occasion to complain from any neglect of yours, that she cannot take up this confessed advantage against her enemy, nor profaneness, ignorance, popery, errors, heresies, and blasphemies, to acknowledge, that they owe their planting, watering and increase, amongst us, to nothing more, then that we have not seasoned the younger years of our respective families, with better things. Now 2. In relation to your Children. Though what we have said of catechising, as a duty to your whole family, we know you will conclude, doth concern the fruit of your own bodies, the choicest part of it, yet we shall crave leave to press it more particularly, and to beseech you again to lay it to Heart. 1. How expressly God lays it upon you as a duty. 2. How many Engagements there be upon you, conscientiously to discharge it. For the former, because what we are desiring of you, is a duty consisting of two branches. 1. To catechise them yourselves. 2. To send them being thus prepared, to be further instructed and taught to understand the grounds of Religion, unto us; we are willing to let you see both parts of the duty. 1. For your catechising them at home, we shall add to what hath been said already, 1. Those precepts of the Scripture, where this charge is laid upon parents in express terms; we shall but name the places, and leave them to your meditation, and practice, Deut. 4. 9, 10. and Chap. 6. 6, 7. and Chap. 11. 19 Exod. 12. 24, 26, 27. Exod. 13. 8, 14, 15. Josh. 4. 6, 7, 21, 22. Psal. 78. 5, 6. Joel 1. 3. Eph. 6 4. Pro. 22. 6. 2. The Example of parents fearing God, whose practice of this duty is upon record; as Abraham, Gen. 18. 19 David, 1 Chron. 28. 9 which we hope you will believe, was written for your Instruction. And lest you that are Mothers should think yourselves excused, we beseech you to consider, that as a child must receive the instruction of his father, so he must not forsake the Law of his mother, Pro. 1. 8. She is described to be a virtuous woman, that openeth her mouth with wisdom, Mercer. & Jansen. in Pro. 31. 26. Pro. 31. 26. that teacheth her children their duty both to God and man. Not only did Solomon's father teach him, Pro. 4. 4. but we have the prophecy also that his mother taught him, Pro. 31. 1. Timothy knew the holy Scripture from a child, 2 Tim. 3. 15. and you cannot doubt of the contribution, his mother, yea and his Grandmother afforded to this Timely acquaintance of his with the Things of God, when you read the Character you have of them (Chap. 1. 5.) under the hand of an Apostle. 2 Joh. 1. 4. And that John the Evangelist found of her children walking in Truth, had not so much redounded to the praise of that Elect Lady, to whom he writes his Second Epistle, if she had not instructed them in the way. Augustine writes of his mother Monica, that she planted precepts of life in his mind, by her words, watered them with her tears, and nourished them by her example. You will, we doubt not, look upon these holy women who Trusted in God, as very worthy to be imitated, in so great a duty. 2. For sending your children to us, we shall briefly offer you the duty of it, in these particulars. 1. We are to feed the Lambs of Christ, Joh. 21. 15. as well as his sheep, they are part of our charge, who are to watch over their souls as well as yours. 2. That the Sabbath be sanctified by the children, is by an express Law of God charged as a duty upon the parent, of which already from Exod. 20. 10. 3. A great part of the sanctification of this day is in coming solemnly together to wait upon God in the duties of his worship, and particularly to hear his word, and to be instructed by it, What we ought to believe concerning God, and what duties God requires of us. This your Christianity will not give you leave to doubt of. 4. This duty you cannot discharge as to your children, but by causing them to bear a part in all the public duties of that day which they are capable of, and particularly to be that way instructed, both as to faith and manners, in which they are likeliest to receive most benefit, and we need not tell you again, that this is to be catechised. For the Second; How many Engagements there be upon you to perform this duty? have we any need to say a jot more than this, that they are our children; how many motives doth this dear and tender relation wrap up in it? we had no intention to leave a volume with you, and so shall but consider, 1. The need they have to have this course taken with them; Do they not come into the world with souls, altogether as naked as their bodies? nothing but filth upon the one, Joh. 3. 6. nothing but sin upon the other; Job 25. 4. and the wages even of this sin, is eternal death, Rom. 6. 23. What should not we do, that they may be borne again? Joh. 3. 3, 5. 2. As our children are borne in sin, so 'tis by our means, we are instruments of it; sin is conveyed to them thorough our loins, being sinful ourselves, we beget them (as Adam did Seth) in our own likeness, Gen. 5. 3. after our Image. How prevailingly should this move us to be instrumental in their cure, as we have been in their disease! to direct them to the righteousness of the Second Adam, as we derived unto them the sin of the first; that having begotten them after our own, they may be begotten and borne again, Coloss. 3. 10. after the Image of God, and how great a part of that consisteth in knowledge! and without which Righteousness and True Holiness, Eph. 4. 24. the other parts of it, are hoped for in vain, as long as it is life eternal to know God and Jesus Christ whom he hath sent. Joh. 17. 3. 3. The Ardency and strength of our affections toward our children, and how many other ways we are wont to express it, by our longing for them before we have them (Gen. 15. 2. Gen. 30. 1. 1 Sam 1. 10, 11.) our joy and contentment afterward (Joh. 16. 21.) the inestimable value we set upon them (2 Kings 4. 13, 14, 15, 16) our industrious care to keep them (Gen 42. 36, 38. 2 King's 4. 22, 24, 27, 30. Luc. 8. 41, 42. Joh. 7. 47, 49. 1 King's 14. 4.) our extreme grief when we lose them (Gen. 37. 33, 34, 35. 2 Sam. 18. 33. and Chap. 19 2, 4 Mat 2. 18.) our sympathising with them in all conditions, smarting under their pain, (Mark 9 22. Mat. 15. 22.) and feeling the comfort of their welfare, (Gen. 45. 27, 28.) Look, Beloved, into your bowels, or if you cannot find them there, look into the Scriptures, we have here brought you, and see if these be not the affections of parents towards their children, and if these express themselves at such a rate, so many other ways, Can there be a stronger motive to lay them out the best way? upon their souls? by taking care that they may be instructed unto the Kingdom of God? Let us pause a while, and argue the case with ourselves a little, or if you will let us catechise ourselves upon this point, and ask such Questions as these; Did we long to have children, and shall we now suffer them to perish? Shall we contentedly see them in such a condition, that (if they continue in it) it had been good for them they had never been born? If their souls be not filled with good, Eccles. 6. 3. is not an untimely birth better than they? If our children be not brought to the knowledge of God, and have no provision made them for eternity; will not David's Imprecations concerning wicked men, serve us for wishes concerning them? As a snail which melteth, oh that every one of them had passed away, Psal. 58. 8. or like the untimely birth of a woman, that they had never seen the Sun. Shall we provide ourselves a Temptation, to curse our children's day, as Job cursed his own, Job 3. V. 3, 5, 11, 12. Let the day perish wherein they were born, and the night in which it was said, they are conceived; Let darkness and the shadow of death stain it; let a cloud dwell upon it; let the blackness of the day terrify it; why died they not from the womb? why did they not give up the ghost, when they came out of the belly? why did the knees prevent them? or why the breasts that they should suck? To suffer them to perish for lack of knowledge, may it not put us upon all this? Were we so joyful when we had them, and shall we not tremble to think, that when we shall have them no more the Devil will? and can any thing else be their lot, if for want of instruction they die in no better a condition than they were born? Did the Mother forget all the anguish of her travail for joy that they were borne into this world? and will she not endeavour to provide against the swallowing up of all this joy, by a just fear lest they should die eternally in the next? And for what but a land of darkness, can a condition of darkness qualify them? Do we set so invaluable a rate upon them, and shall not their immortal part be considered in the account? Are we so careful to keep them, that we think no pain, trouble, cost, too much to save their lives? and shall we lay out none of all this to save their souls? Do we grieve at such a rate when we lose them, and shall we not strive to make our loss as easy as we can? that when God doth take them from us, he may take them to himself? And have we any warrant to believe that God will take whom he doth not know? or know those that were never taught to know him? Can we Lament over every misery of theirs else, and not be troubled at the misery of their souls? weep, and pray, and advise, when they are sick, and not afford them a tear, a prayer, an instruction as they are sinful? Do we well to feel the pain of their bodies, which they feel themselves, and to be insensible of the blindness of their souls, which they feel not? Can we rejoice at all other good that betides them, and endeavour the procurement of it, and have we no affections to bestow upon their best good? Are we glad that they have health, and indifferent whether they have Grace? glad they have an interest in the world, indifferent whether they have an interest in Christ? If we seriously catechise ourselves at some such rate as this, and find how unable we are to answer that sin and folly which carries all our love to our children, only to their outward concernments, God might bless it into a diversion of much of it towards their Souls, and if the flame once break out at any rate this way, we will not doubt, but 'twill sufficiently light and warm you in this great duty. 4. The promise you made when your children were baptised, was it not to instruct them in the knowledge of Christ to whom you dedicated them in that ordinance? breach of promise, specially breach of promise, where the interest of Christ, and of precious Souls is so much concerned, is not a sin of an ordinary magnitude. We hope we shall not find one amongst you all that is incorrigibly guilty, and so shall not upon the offer of any child to baptism hereafter be necessitated to demur whether it be not our duty to deny it you, or at least to defer it. 3. In relation to your servants. All that we have said already of the duty you owe to your whole Families, as we have remembered you, how special an interest your children have in it, so we think it expedient to add a little in particular reference to your servants, to prevent any temptation you may have of supposing the care of their souls to be none at all of your concernment. We shall lay what we have here to add, before you in a very few words. 1. 'Tis not for nothing that the title of father is bestowed upon Heads of Families in relation to more persons, than the children of their bodies: they are fathers to their servants, 2 King. 5. 13. you can never make that title good, unless you excercise a fatherly care over them, nor doth any care so well deserve this honourable appellation, as a care of their souls, which you can no way better express, than by causing them to be instructed in the way to Heaven. 2. They are advantageous members of your Families, and in the sweat of their brows do ye eat much of your bread. In the Inventory of men's estates are servants reckoned as a part of their riches, Gen. 12. 16. and 24. 35. and 26. 14. and 30. 43. and 32. 5. 2 King's 5. 26. Eccles. 2. 7. Shall they serve you, and can you be careless whether they serve God or no? that you pay them the wages of their work, what will it profit them, if you endeavour not to bring them to Christ, that they may not receive the wages of their sins? 3. Very much of your interest is wrapped up in their Piety, we mean your interest as to outward things, your affairs will prosper the better in their hands; even wicked masters have found godly servants a great blessing, pray read Gen. 39 2. 3. and Chap. 30. 27. Philemon Ver. 10, 11. and see if all that you have at home and abroad, your Tillage, your Cattle, your Trading, will not fare the better in case you teach your servants how to serve the Lord Christ as well as yourselves. 4. Set before your eyes the practice of the Saints; Abraham had in his Family 318 Servants, Junius in loc. and they are all said to be his trained, or instructed servants, instructed and catechised in matters of Religion, what ever you do for them if you leave out this, do not even Publicans and sinners, yea do not the Heathen which know not God, the very same? yea 5. Set the catechising of your servants in the things of God aside, and do ye more for them than ye do for your beasts? have they victuals from you? so have all your Cattle: have they Clothing? so have your Horses if they want it: have they Lodging? so have your Oxen, yea your very Dogs? do ye endeavour to procure them Remedies when they are sick? so you do for your Swine: and are servants indeed of no more value than these? have they not souls capable of blessedness as well as you? you differ not in stuff but in use, Basil. Doron. l. 2. p. 95. and that only by God's ordinance, from the poorest servant in your Family. Ob. Our servants will not submit, and what then shall we do? Sol. 1. We hope they will; we cannot think that any persons will be so base and low as to serve you, that will by no means be persuaded to serve God, or will submit to learn a Trade to live by, but not to be saved by: we hope at least better things. Sol. 2. Have you tried? have you set it before them, and pressed it seriously, frequently, earnestly upon them as a duty? if you have not, we beseech you now to begin, let them see what they owe to God, Matth. 8. 9 Eph. 6. 5. Coloss. 3. 22. 1 Tim. 6. 1, 2. Titus 2. 9 to their own souls, yea what obedience they owe to you. Take the Scriptures in the margin, and lay them home upon their consciences, and in a way of prayer, from God expect the issue. Sol. 3. What are you wont to do, to make your servants comply in other things? use the same authority in this, if any will tell you, though you have a coercive power over your servants in other matters, yet you have none in this, that you may compel them to learn how you may be served, but not how themselves may be saved, pray take Time to believe them, Gen. 18. 19 till they have told you by what authority Abraham commanded his household to keep the way of the Lord, and whether a civil authority to command without a power to cause obedience, be of any signification? What commission Jacob had to reform his whole family, Gen. 35. 2, 3, 4. or how Josua will be excused from rashness in that resolute undertaking, Josh. 24. 15. that He and his House would serve the Lord? Exod. 20. 10. And until they have offered you an expedient how you shall observe that Law of seeing the Sabbath sanctified by your men servants and maid servants, if God that hath made it your duty, shall account it your sin, to cause it to be put in execution.— But we hope (as we said) you will find no such difficulty in a work of so much consequence; and that you may not, we have a request, 2. To all in our respective Parishes that are under the family-Government of others, children and servants of both sexes, of what age soever, if capable of being instructed; and our request is, for the Lord's sake, for your soul's sake, and as you wi●l answer the contrary at your peril, when the dead both small and great shall stand before God; Apoc. 20. 12. 2 Thes. 1. 8. and Christ shall come in flaming fire to take vengeance on them that do not know him. Isa. 27. 11. When He that made you will have no mercy on you, and He that formed you will show you no favour; in case he find you a people of no understanding: Pro. 13. 13. when every despiser of knowledge shall be eternally destroyed, that you would constantly use all Helps at home, and present yourselves in the method and order we shall appoint you to us your respective Ministers in the Congregation, to be catechised and instructed in the necessary Grounds of Religion. Consider. 1. We are not setting up a New way of Teaching you, but reviving an old one, a way that the Church of God hath walked in, many ages before we were borne, the Church of God both Jewish and Christian: and in the Christian Church, men of the choicest Character for learning and piety, have discharged the office of Catechizers, as, Clemens Alexandrinus, Origen, Optatus, Basil, Augustine, Ambrose, Cyrill, &c. whose names we believe, many of you have heard of, as of men famous in their generations. 2. It's a way of Teaching that Christ himself in his childhood was pleased to Honour with his presence; when he was Twelve years old, his parents found him in the Temple sitting in the midst of the doctors, Chemnit. Har. Evang. 6. 15. Zanch. Vol. 3. Tom. 8. p. 580. both hearing them and asking them Questions, Luc. 2. 46. This, as Learned men observe, was a meeting for catechising; and we will but offer it to your observation, whether the 47 verse (and all that heard him were astonished at his understanding and answers) affordeth not ground enough to believe that Christ himself was catechised, and gave answers to the Questions that were propounded to him. Dare you entertain so much as a d●eame of salvation by this Christ, and yet despise that ordinance which he hath Honoured? E●cles. 12. 1. 3. How Honourable it is to remember your Creator in the days of your youth, to know God betimes. It is mentioned to the great credit of Mnason, Acts 21. 16. that he was an old Disciple, one that had known and followed Christ a long time; 1 King. 18. 12. of Obadiah, that he feared the Lord from his youth; 2 Tim. 3. 15. of Timothy, that he had known the holy Scriptures from a child; Psal. 119. 60. of David, that he made haste and delayed not to keep God's Commandments; Rom. 16. 7. of Andronicus and Junia, that they were in Christ before Paul; and it will be your Honour and happiness, to be instructed in the ways of God betimes. Ob. But some of us are very young, and we may stay a while; it will be Time enough to learn what belongs to Relig●on, and the ways of God hereafter. Sol. 1. A child is to be Trained up in the way that he should walk, P●o. 22. 6. Sol. 2. If you that can make this objection be not too young to be damned, you cannot be too young to be catechised; those that are old enough to sin, are old enough to perish; and there's no life eternal, but to know God, and Jesus Christ whom he hath sent, Joh 17. 3. Ob. Some of us are at men and womens' estate, ready to be married, and we are ashamed to come and stand among the little children to be catechised. Sol. 1. If you are ashamed that you have at this age need to be catechised, 'tis a good sign, it proceeds (we hope) from a sense of your ignorance, and a conviction of your sin, in neglecting this means of instruction all this while, and we shall look upon it as an Argument, that you will not go on to sin against your consciences in neglecting it any longer. 2. If you be ashamed to own, and learn the Doctrine of Christ, see what impressions will be upon your spirits after you have laid to heart, that resolution of Christ, which you find recorded, Luke 9 26. Whosoever shall be ashamed of me, and of my words, of him shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he shall come in his own glory, and in his Fathers, and of the holy Angels. 3. Whether do you think it more advisable to go to Hell with graver company, or to Heaven, with children? or do ye believe you shall ever meet them at the end, with whom you are ashamed to be seen in the way? 4. That you are ready to be married, is an Argument that we would borrow of you to persuade you to be the readier to be catechised; will you enter into that relation, and not learn the duties of it? 1 Pet. 3. 7. How will you that are to be a Husband, dwell with your wife according unto knowledge, if you suffer nothing to dwell with yourself but ignorance? And how will you that are to be a wife, Coloss. 3. 18. submit yourself to your own husband, as it is fit in the Lord, if you do not know the Lord? And how will both of you live together, as heirs of the grace of life, when through the ignorance that is in you, you are mere strangers to a life of Grace? Eph. 4. 18. Or how will you teach your children and servants, what you would never be persuaded to learn yourselves? Marriage we know is common to mankind, and Heathens may enter into it, but this we are constrained to let you know, that if persons professing Christianity, expect that we should have any hand in the celebration of it, between such among them as neither know their duty to God, nor to one another, nor will be persuaded to learn it, whether it be a duty incumbent upon us to do it, we must, at least, take Time to consider. Qu. What if we understand the principles of Religion well enough already? Sol. Yet you ought by your Example to encourage others, to let us that are your Ministers know it, that we may bless God for you, propound you as patterns to the rest, and receive from you an Evidence of your fitness for the Lord's Supper, which if duly qualified you ought to partake of, and we to administer. We hope we need not use more arguments, with persons that know they have souls, to prevail with them for a compliance with us in those things that so apparently tend to their salvation. Secondly, For private Conference with the Heads and governors of families, we have seriously and sadly considered the ignorance of many under a long enjoyment of the means of knowledge, and the profaneness of more under as long an enjoyment of the means of Grace. And having nothing to add to our public ministerial labours, as a further means of your proficiency in grace and knowledge, but a more familiar way of personal instruction by Private Conference, we do hereby offer ourselves also to this service of your souls, and in the name of Christ (whose Messengers we are in this errand) beseech you to accept of it, and that it may reach the end that both we and you ought to aim at, we desire, 1. That we may meet you, either at your houses asunder, or a greater number of you together at such Times and places, as we shall appoint for that purpose; or if any inconvenience be found in what we shall offer, you would be pleased to propound a better method yourselves, and we shall readily comply with you in it. ance) shall refuse to be persuaded to the duties we have mentioned, assure yourselves that even this paper shall be a witness against you at the day of Judgement, which is sent you (the Lord knows) to no such purpose, by Yours in the service of the Gospel, Robert Tuchin Minister of Newport. John Barnes Minister of Whippingham. Edward Buckler Minister at Calbourne. Robert Dingley Minister of Brixton. James Creswick Minister of freshwater. John Martin Minister of the gospel at Yarmouth. Vincent spark Minister of Shalfleete. Josh: Tompkins Minister at Brooke. Simon Pole Minister at West Cowes. Tho: clerk Minister of Gods-hill. William Harby Minister of Shanklin. Martin Wells Minister of Yaverland. William Bicknell Minister of the Gospel at Newport. Richard Beminster Minister of Wotton. Matthew Hearne Minister of Lawrence.