ADVICE TO PARENTS and CHILDREN. The Sum of a few SERMONS, Contracted, and Published at the request of many Pious Hearers.  
By DANIEL BURGESS, Minister of the Gospel.  He shall turn the Heart of the Fathers unto the Children, and the Heart of the Children unto the Fathers, lest I come and smite the Earth with a curse, Mal. iv. 6. 
LONDON, Printed by J. R. for Tho. Parkhurst at the Bible and Three Crowns in Cheapside; and J. Lawrance at the Angel in the Poultry. 1690.   

To the Flock Committed to my Care. Especially those whose Importunity Extorted this Publication.  
Brethren,  
YOu would not Excuse, you must therefore Accept this small Labour. Were it not for the Writing, I would not Name it a Labour. The Meditation and Delivery of it were very Pleasure to me. He knows it, who knoweth what my Heart feels in my Hopes of Benefiting you; and in my Discernments thereof.  
I have contracted it; and the rather, because my late Sermon of Early Conversion is gotten into many of your Hands I presume.  
Under the Law, he that built a new House was to make a Battlement for the Roof of it; lest any walking on the Roof, should through their Imprudence fall from it. Deut. 22.8. God was not satisfied, to have Householders only forbear Pushing Men down. But Commanded them to make Provision against their own falling down. So that no Man should easily come unto hurt in their Families. None should slip, if he would not wilfully leap down headlong, over the Battlements. Believe it, my dearest Friends, the Law is still in force. God is not content that your Children be not by you put upon sinful courses. He Commands that they be by you kept from them. That you set up such Spiritual Battlements in your Houses, as shall make it hard for a Child to fall into them. I have directed you how to make those Battlements. If you set them up, and your children will leap over them into Hell, yet your own Souls are delivered. If you do not set them up, their Blood will be required at your Hands. To prevent their Perdition and your Sorrow thence, I have prepared for them, that which I must trust you to deliver unto them.  
My Life is spent in Prayers and Pains for you and them. I hope, I do not Live a day, wherein I have not the help of your Holy Prayers. You do by this time know my need, and my desire also.  
May every of you be Blessed in your children, and your children in you. May all the Graces of the Blessed Spirit, all the Promises of the Gospel-Covenant, and all the Joys of the Heavenly Mansions, be the Lot of your Inheritance, and of theirs. I am  
Your very Affectionate PASTOR, DAN. BURGESS.   


An Introduction into the Discourse intended; sc. In six memorable Positions concerning second Table Duties: Or, Duties toward Man.  
THey are not few, whose highest Aim and Business is to cultivate Moral Virtues. Speaking but seldom and but little of the Holy Ghosts supernatural Operations, and Gospel Graces. But, as its every where seen, they are the death of Morality where they come. And by setting it up in opposition unto Evangelical Obedience, they do, (eventually, however undesignedly,) depose both of them. They that desire no more, do not possess so much as true Morality. They that aspire not to be Godly, do reach but unto counterfeit Honesty. Men wise unto Salvation do know the difference, between true Pearls produced by the beams of the Sun of Righteousness; and the false ones, that are form by the smoky heat of depraved Reason.  
But they are also too many, who sin on the contrary hand: Who, it may be do affect, and certainly do account themselves to be very Saints, not being so much as Men. Yea, and wanting nothing more of Bruits than their Innocence. Neglecting Duties toward Man, as though they had never been required by God. Or, as though, being of the lower Hemisphere, they were unworthy of their Thoughts and Care. But who has bewitched the one and the other? that they should not discern the monstrousness of unregenerate Morality, and of immoral, yea unnatural Piety. Of the two, it must be confessed, this latter is the most visible monster. Moralists, void of God's Holy Spirit, are poisonous Snakes, but with fairly painted Skins on their backs. Whereas Saints in Profession, not having natural Affection and reasonable Conversation, are Naked without any fig-leaf. Are Devils in black, without their cloven foot hid. Sepulchers, not painted, nor so much as covered. In a word; the Plant called the sensitive one, hath no more sense than the lowest Vegetable, but has a little faint resemblance of it! Graceless men of the most refined Morals, are as truly dead in sin as the most lewd men are; but they have a shadow of gracious Life. And that shadow itself, is more than is attainable by your utmost Fasting and Prayer unto God, while you lead a course of Injustice and Uncharitableness unto Men.  
To prepare you for the Duties I am to commend, I premise these six Memorandums. I would have their Fire heat your Iron before I strike.  
Pos. 1. Duty unto Man, is required just so as Duty unto God himself is. I mean, as immediate duty unto God is required. The same God made the Law for both: And also wrote with his own hand the Law for that and for this. And caused the Law for both to be alike preserved in the Ark. Nor are the three Motives prefixed in the preface unto the Law, restrictly put to urge us unto the observance of the Commands of the first Table only. No, but to engage our performance of those of the second Table also, the Lord declares; (1.) He is Jehovah, and therefore to be Obeyed. (2.) He is the God of his People's Choice and Covenant, and therefore to be Obeyed. (3.) He is their Redeemer and Disembondager, and therefore to be Obeyed.  
Pos. 2. Duty unto Man, is in like sort explicated in the word as Duty unto God immediately is. The four general Precepts of Duty unto God, are notably explicated in numberless Texts of Scripture. And so are the six Precepts of Duty unto Man. I will instance but in four, noted to my hand by Mr. Durham on the Decalogue, p. 311, 312. Mat. 22.39. We are bid to Love our Neighbours as ourselves. Which teaches that our Duty unto Men, aught to be discharged with warmth of Affection. Mat. 7.12. We are told we should do unto all men, as we (regularly) would that men should do unto us. Which instructs us unto impartiality and extent of affection. Phil. 2.4. We are charged, not to look (singly) at our own interests, but at others. Which gives us to understand, that our Duty unto Men stands not only in Affection and good Wishes. No, but Consideration and Action too are required. 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉, etc. Rom. 12.10. Be kindly affectioned one to another with Brotherly Love, in honour preferring one another. Which extraordinary words signify to us, that our Duty unto Man is to be paid with naturally free inclination, 
〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉, etc.  and very inward esteem of him.  
Pos. 3. Duty unto Man, is a fruit of Duty unto God. Of Flattery and Pageantry, I do not speak; but very Duty, and such Duty unto Man, as is acceptable unto God. This, all of it, grows from Duty unto God, as its root. Our Duty unto God, is double: First, Submission unto his Authority; Secondly, Expression Practical of that Submission. Now, till we submit to his Authority, and own him to be what he is unto us; we cannot be rightly affected unto ourselves or unto any other Creature. And till we set ourselves to express our submission to his Power, by observance of his Precepts, we cannot square aright one action toward them or ourselves. But when we subject ourselves to the divine Power, and conform our ways to the divine Precepts, what followeth? Why then, our Lunacy is over. Owning him our Head, we own every fellow Member too. And being by him governed, every just office to him and to our fellow Creatures is introduced. His Authority is sufficient to oblige unto both; and his Laws are extant, obliging unto them, Wherefore, rendering unto God the things that are Gods, we necessarily render unto Man the things that are Mans. Whereas, while we are Rebels unto God we are Devils to ourselves, and unto one another. And must needs be so; being that so long as we are in the state of Rebellion, we are deserted by the Spirit of all good; and are acted by the clean contrary Spirit. Blind they are therefore, that see not the Nobility of second Table duty in its Heavenly Descent. It cometh from first Table-Duty; and therefore must needs partake of its Dignity and Excellence. It is very observable, that, according to what is said, all second Table-Duties are pressed from the consideration of the first. As those of Subjects unto the Higher Powers, Rom. 13.1. Let every Soul be subject to the Higher Powers. For there is no power but of God: the powers that be, are ordained of God. Of Wives to Husbands, Eph. 5, 22. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own Husbands, as unto the Lord. Of Children to Parents, Eph. 6, 1. Children, obey your Parents in the Lord: for this is right. Of People unto their Ministers, 1 Thess. 5, 12. And we beseech you, Brethren, to know them which Labour among you, and are over you in the Lord, and admonish you. Of Servants to Masters, Colos. 3, 22. Servants, obey in all things your Masters according to the flesh; not with eye-service, as men-pleasers, but in singleness of heart, fearing God. The one Agument unto all, is Conscience of the first Commandment. Which, as the Great Luther well said, Is in every Commandment to be understood,  
Pos. 4. Duty unto Man, is a very great Mean of Duty unto God. I have read of a Tree growing in a hot and dry Country, whose Leaves do drop a Liquor that excellently moistens and maintains the Root. Duty to God, is indeed the Root of Duty to Man: But Duty to Man is that whose influences do greatly contribute to the Life and Liveliness of that Root. A Truth so bright, that it needs no proof, nor meets with any denial. Leu. 19.3. Reverence unto Parents, seemeth called for as a mean of the Sanctification of Sabbaths. And 2 Tim. 1.2. We are plainly bid to do our great Duty to Kings and all in Authority, yea and to all Men; for this very end, that we may lead quiet Lives in all Godliness and Honesty. In a word, it is the Holy Spirits pleasure, ever to verify this memorable saying; All Graces and Duties be mutually Mother and Daughter unto each other. Love of God, and his Service, brings forth Love and Serviceableness unto Man. And Love and Serviceableness unto Man, brings a like Love and Service of God. He that would not Love and Serve Men for their own sakes, should do both for the sake of the Love and Service of God. A Duke would Court the Friendship of a Beggar, if that would half so much promote his Friendship with the King.  
Pos. 5. Duty unto Man is the only convincing proof of sincerity and Duty unto God. Duties toward God, are, for the most part Spiritual and Invisible. When you are true therein, who but God and Conscience can see your Truth? The Duties toward God, that are Bodily and Visible, are now in the Gospel-day, all, very easy and cheap. Very Hypocrites do not begrudge them, and unfeigned Friends of God can never be known by them. 'Tis otherwise as to Duties toward Men. They are naked and open to men's Eyes. Their Light as the Sun, shineth before all Men. And few will question your Piety, if they see your Universal and Exquisite Honesty. For this reason it seemeth, that in the day of Judgement Christ insisteth upon Christians Duties of the Second Table. Mat. 25.35. Because they are the most sensible Discoveries of Faith and Holiness, and fittest to justify Saints before the World. The Servants of God, are obliged to show abroad who their Master is. But they have no way to do it without that which is foresaid. Therefore is it that the World so hardly believeth us Christ's Disciples, because we so little Love one another. They will acknowledge us his Servants, when they see more of his Livery, which is Love, among us.  
Pos. 6. Duty to man hath Promises of Reward, as well as Duty unto God. Wonderful, yet most certain this is. The Fifth Command is known to be called the first with Promise. Eph. 6.2. The Second, hath but a general Promise made to the Keepers of the whole Law: The Fifth hath a particular Promise made to the Keepers of that single Commandment. Let it never be doubted therefore, but that it shall be richly Rewarded by God, whatever at his Command you perform toward Man. Even toward the poorest Child. The Gift of a Cup of Water, shall be as truly rewarded as Martyrdom itself. And be it known unto you Parents and Children, that of all Duties between Man and Man, the greatest are those between you. The Fifth Commandment seemeth the Hinge of both Tables. And, by its place, to speak thus much. sc. That in order to the Knowledge and Obedience of all the other Commandments, it is highly necessary that the Fifth be well Known and Obeyed. It is true, Natural Parents are not all that be meant therein. All true Governors are included. But Parents only are mentioned, as being the first Governors we have; some years before Kings take notice of us. And as being the Principal Governors to whom we are most obliged, as the Authors of our Being's: and those whose Government is not founded in Choice and Contract, as others is, but in Nature itself. Which being considered, I proceed.   

Parents Advised to their more Genearl and Particular Duties. And pressed with Motives thereto.  
The Duty of Parents to Children, is employed and concluded in the Fifth Commandment. It thus summarily expressed in the Westminster Assemblies Larger Catechism. It is required of Superiors, according to that power they receive from God, and that relation wherein they stand, to love, pray for, and bless their Inferiors; to instruct, counsel, and admonish them; countenancing, commending, and rewarding such as do well; discountenancing, reproving, and chastising such as do ill; protecting and providing for them all things necessary for soul, and body; and by grave, wise, holy, and exemplary carriage, to procure Glory to God, honour to themselves, and so to preserve that Authority which God hath put upon them. I will transcribe no more of our many Summaries. But propose these particulars which I take to be comprehensive. And such that God will judge all the neglecters of; and not hold them guiltless, however full they be of excuses. Knowing the Terror of the Lord, I thus instruct and persuade every Christian Parent,  
1. Be Exemplary in Universal Duty. Ill Example, is the rankest Poison in the World. Parents ill Example, is the worst that Children can have. I know not what God hath forbid or required, if he forbids not ill, and requires not good Example. Good Example, for Duty foresaid. Wouldst be a good Parent? Thou canst not, till thou dost understandly, affectionately, and practically keep the Gospel-Covenant. Owning the Engagement of thy Holy Baptism, renewing it at the Lords Supper, observing it in all thy ways towards God, other Men, and thyself. You that do not this, ye bid your Children not to do it: In practice, ye bid 'em. And ye who bid them, not to do this, ye bid them (virtually) be Atheists and Devils and Rebels, to God and to yourselves. As little as ye think of it, this ye do. God, and Godly Men, count you so to do. Parents, Parents, con ye well Job 22, 21, 22, 23. Job is advised to Acquaint himself with God, to receive and lay up God's Word in his Heart, to return unto the Almighty: (that is, to do all I have here foresaid:) And for his encouragement he is then told, his relative Duties will come on with their Blessings. He shall be built up, that is, he shall have more Children. And he shall put away Iniquity far from his Tabernacles; that is, he shall be a good Father and Master, and remove the Iniquity of his Children and Servants; and promote Family-Godliness. Which, without that course prescribed, he could not expect to do. Preceptive Teaching alone, is a little more than, a cipher; 'tis practical Teaching is the Figure. The Language that God binds Parents and all Teachers to use, is this. Come with me, unto this and that Duty. Fly with me, from this and that Sin. Mourn with me, for this and that Omission and Commission sinful. Delight with me, in this and that Holy Service. And be it written on all our Walls, They that are not Patterns to their Children be plagues to their Children. They who give them not good Example, give them nothing good; at least, nothing like to do them good. For a grain of bad Example doth an hundred times more hurt, than a pound of good Counsel (ordinarily) doth good.  
2. Be as full of prayer, as St. Austin's Mother. That Holy Creature got her Son and her Husband Converted by her Prayer. But not by slight and sleepy Prayer. Think of this, Parents! As their greatest Wickedness makes not Prayer hopeless, so your greatest Sanctity makes not Prayer useless. Our Redeemer, whose Obedience is Meritorious, he himself asks, before God gives. Nor will God give, till in his Name ye ask. Ordinarily, he will not. But if ye ask not amiss, ye can never miss of what ye ask. And I will be allowed to say; Prayer for our Children is that Duty to them, without which we can discharge none. We must be joined to God in the Covenant of Grace, before we can rightly Pray. And we must Pray, before we can expect to benefit our selves or our Children by any means possible. Gen. 17.18, 20. Abraham prayed for Ishmael, and that warmly. And what says the Text? God said, and as for Ishmael I have heard thee, behold I have blessed him and will make him Fruitful, and will multiply him exceedingly: twelve Princes shall he beget, and I will make him a great Nation. David prayed hard for Solomon his Son. O Lord God of Abraham, Isaac, and of Israel our Fathers, give to Solomon my Son a perfect heart to keep thy Commandments and thy Statutes 1 Chron. 22, 12, 1 Chron. 29, 18, 19 The seventy second Psalm is David's Prayer for his Solomon, Parents; Of all things be not niggardly of your prayers for your Children! Rather deny them Victuals and Drink. For many can give them both, that cannot put up prayers for them. And the same may be said of the will as of the power of most. I know few do think it, but 'tis true, a stock of prayers is a richer Child portion, than a stock of broad Gold,  
3. Be Catechizers through the whole compass of the words of Eternal Life. Suffer not thy Child to say, there is one Truth, or one Grace, or one Duty necessary to Salvation, that thou knewest but never taughtest him. Who ever doubted, but if a Man had a blind Child, he was bound to use all the likely means he could come by, to recover its sight. I am very confident that Adam, Seth, Noah, and Sem, were, all, Catechisers. From the Cradle, the Church was still kept up by Catechising. Of Abraham, God speaks plainly, Gen. 18. 19 For I know him, that he will command his Children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the Lord, to do Justice and Judgement; that the Lord may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him. David and Bathsheba too Catechised Solomon sound. 1 Kings 2.2, 3. I go the way of all the Earth: be thou strong therefore, and show thyself a Man. And keep the charge of the Lord thy God, to walk in his ways, to keep his Statutes and his Commandments and his Judgements and his Testimonies, as it is written in the Law of Moses, that thou mayest prosper in all that thou dost, and whithersoever thou turnest thyself. 1 Chron. 28.9. And thou, Solomon my Son, know thou the God of thy Father, and serve him with a perfect heart, and with a willing mind: for the Lord searcheth all hearts, and understandeth all the imaginations of the thoughts: if thou seek him, he will be found of thee; but if thou forsake him, he will cast thee off for ever. Prov. 31.1. The words of King Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught him. Lois and Eunice are praised on this account. 2 Tim. 1.5, 3, 15. When I call to remembrance the unfeigned Faith that is in thee, which dwelled first in thy Grandmother Lois, and thy Mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that in thee also. And that from a Child thou hast known the holy Scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto Salvation, through Faith which is in Christ Jesus. After the death of the Apostles, the Churches had Officers for the single work of Catechising. Clemens, Origen, Cyril, successively held that work at Alexandria. And truly Parents, you had need take it up yourselves now. For you are your children's first Ministers, as well as their Guides and Rulers. And an uncatechising Parent is a non-preaching Minister; which is so bad a Creature, that one hath said, He thought Hell was paved with their Skulls. This forget not, I beseech you; every prayer you make for your Children, that is not followed with your pains with them, is a very mocking of God and of them.  
4. Be as kind as ever you can with good Conscience. Never provoke 'em, or by unnecessary hard looks, words, or acts, discourage them. Col. 3, 21. Ephes. 6.4. God expressly forbids you. But catch at every opportunity to encourage them to begin and go on to do well. This God commandeth you to do toward all, and especially, your own Children, I trow. It was wickedly that Saul called his Son Jonathan, Son of the perverse and wicked Woman; and more wickedly that he threw a Javelin at him: which caused him to rise up in fierce anger, which was very contrary to the Reverence of a Parent. 1 Sam. 20.30, 33, 34. And as wicked were the blind man's cow-hearted Parents, who shrunk from his defence and left him to shift for himself, saying, he was of age, forsooth. Jo. 9.21. Praise worthily, Joash stood by his Son Gideon in the contest, Judg. 6.29, 30, 31, But in brief: the Holy Ghost supposeth good Fathers to brook what may be born in their Children. Mal. 3.17. As a Father spareth his Son. For Mothers, see Isai. 66.13. As one whom his mother comforteth. Convince your Children, if it be possible, that you love them as the apple of your eyes. And do pray and labour to make sweet their Time and Eternity. Ruling them but as God doth, drawing them with the Cords of a Man, the Bonds of Love. Showing them by the likeness of your Government, that 'tis in God's stead that you do Rule over them. Even the God who is Love. And whose severity is as rare as Thunder, while his Benignity is as common as the day Light. Flints will break upon Wool, that will not upon Iron. But,  
5. Abhor David 's kindness unto Adonijah. It is said, That David had not displeased him at any time, in saying, why hast thou done so? 1 Kings 1.6. This kindness is the bloodiest Cruelty. God pronounceth such Parent's Haters of their Children. Prov. 13.24. He that spareth his rod, hateth his son; he carries it mischievously towards his son, as tho' he did hate him. David found it so, when Adonijah was in Rebellion. Isaac found it so, when his son Esau, whom he had suffered to sport out his time in Hunting, came to grieve his heart and his Wives. Gen. 25.27. Gen. 26.35. Eli found it so, when, for the indulged sins of his coldly rebuked Children, he was sentenced terribly by God, and his whole Family also. His Hophni and Phineahs' being both doomed to die in a day. 1 Sam. 2. Government, is a high Talon; Dominion maketh like unto God. Foolish fondness prostitutes unto contempt. And exposes to scorn any Governor, yea the God for whom he Governeth. A wickedness, that, I think, God never let's go unrevenged in this World itself. A wickedness, that many at the Gallows have said, was the cause of their perishing thereon. A wickedness, that slays more of the Children of the Nobility, Gentry and Commonalty, than any other appears to do. Parents, as you value your children's Souls, be sure to abhor Tyranny on one hand, and Anarchy on the other. Be not so Cruel as to give them their wills in no thing, or to deny them their wills in any thing that is good. Nor so much more Cruel, as to give them their wills in every thing, or in any one sinful thing. Prov. 29.15. The Rod and Reproof give Wisdom, but a Child left to himself bringeth his Mother to shame. Apes be not the only Bruits that hug their Whelps to death. Be it remembered that I say: Brutish is that Parent that ever corrects a Child but when 'tis necessary, or ever doth it not to the subduing of his Spirit when it is necessary. When it comes unto a contest, he that lets his Child outbrave him, doth shame himself, and (in a sense) murder and damn his Child. Prov. 23.13, 14. If thou beatest him with the rod he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from Hell.  
6. Lay out, and lay up for your Children. They have Bodies as well as Souls. God commits to you the care of both. And requires that, next to their Souls, you be of all things most kind to their Bodies. That you lay out upon them what is meet; for Comfort, and Ornament, as well as Necessity: Though abhorring superfluity; into which extreme most Parents do run. It is an odious sight, when Children are Apparelled, Fed, and Lodged very poorly, though the Parents are all richly. It shows that the Parents are Monsters, and it tempts the Children to be Vipers. He that is greedy of gain, in this way as well as others, troubleth his house, Prov. 15.27. This unnatural vicious niggardice unto Children, makes a Wasps nest of a Family. Laudable was Jesse's liberal care for his Sons: 1 Sam. 17.17. Jesse said unto David his Son, take now for thy Brethren an Epha of this parched Corn, and these ten Loaves, and run to the Camp to thy Brethren. 
An Epha contained about ten Pottles, a sufficient allowance for a days food.  And carry these ten Cheeses to their Captain, and look how thy Brethren far, and take their pledge. jacob's care for his Sons was alike lovely; Gen. 37.14. He said to Joseph, Go I pray thee, see whether it be well with thy Brethren. and well with their Flocks, and bring me word again. But whatever you lay out upon your Children, you are obliged also to lay up for them. 2 Cor. 12.14. Prodigals, that spend all their income, (unnecessarily, I mean;) are horrid Felons. And rob their Children of their due. Parents ought to exercise together great Diligence, and great Frugality, with an eye to their children's needs. Their needs of charge to the setting of them in proper and comfortable Callings; and afterward to the disposing of them in convenient Matches. In which a wise Man would take the most curious care, next to the Salvation of his Child's Soul. But it need not be said, how little the greatest care useth to do in either their Callings or Matches, without a provided stock of that which answers all things. jacob's question is therefore every faithful Parents: Gen. 30.30. And now when shall I provide for my own house? They Conscientiously consider, if they provide not for them, they are worse than Infidels. 1 Tim. 5.8. Parents, lay to heart what I tell you: If our Children be without Callings, they be outlaws from God's Kingdom. If they be in bad ones, they are in continual Temptations. If we lay not up what we (innocently) can for them, they are not like to have good ones. If through our Sloth, Prodigality, or Covetousness, they do miss of good ones, what an action have they against us? It would cut the heart of a gracious Parent to have his Children say, as Laban's Daughters said, Gen. 31.14, 15. Is there yet any portion for us in our Father's house? Are we not counted of him strangers? And hath he not quite devoured also our money. Neither are your Children, Angels. It is your duty to provide, seasonably, for their disposal in Marriage. Some delay it, looking after a Match more rich than yet offers: Others delay, as loath to part with so much of their Riches as is requisite. But commonly you pay dear for your delays. Lot delayed to dispose of his Daughters, and he deeply suffered for it. Gen. 19.30, 31, 32. Judah delayed; suffered for it, and confessed it, Gen. 38.26. Tamar (that played the Harlot) hath been more righteous than I, because that I gave her not to Shelah my Son. Unto this delay of Parents must be ascribed, the invincible Melancholy, the Distraction, the Debauchery, the temporal Ruin and Infamy of thousands of English Children. History tells us of many that have conspired and got their Parents murdered, for crossing them in their Matches. I would that Religious Parents could but look into the hearts of all the Children that they cross herein, and see the resentments of them. But I add this word only more; Forbidding to marry is a doctrine of Devils, among Papists; and seems to be a practice of Devils among many Protestants.  
I proceed unto some more particular Counsels. Calculated for the greatest number of Parents, who do need them. Those, more rare ones, that do not, may overlook them. I exhort those who are weak enough to want, and humble enough to accept these Lines, as followeth.  
1. Understand and lament your children's sin and misery. Know and consider what their natural unrenewed state is. Till you do so, you will neither incline nor understand how to do your Duties. For you are without your Motive and your Rule. I often think and say; Original sin must be more learned, before Parent's duties be better practised. Did you know your Children to be sick, and know their disease too; I do persuade myself you would not so generally neglect their cure.  
2. Begin their Education very early. The Twig greenest, bends easiest. They that tame Lions, or convert very many Sinners, break them when they are very young. Stubbornness of will, ruins the World: But young Stomaches are most easy to be pulled down. Besides, God is honoured by your haste to make your Child honour him. And most commonly he honoureth and blesseth that haste. The sooner you are doing, the more and better you are like to do.  
3. Employ them constantly. Keep them out of Idleness, as you would out of the Fire, or out of the Thames. Hold them always Musing, Hearing, or Doing. Rather make them sweep the House, then stand idle in it. Find some good work or innocent for all their time, if ye would have them do good in a good manner at any time. Neither Children, nor Men, can refrain from evil, any longer then employed in good.  
4. Keep them from bad Company. That is Pitch; and if we let them touch it, they must be defiled. Their Playfellows worst words and ways; get into the best of them, very soon. And your own, and their Master's best words and blows will not so soon get them out. Who knows it not? Company is one of the most powerful means of Grace, or the contrary. It opens the doors of the Soul, more than any, unto Good or unto Evil.  
5. Make them neither too Bold with you, nor too Fearful of you. Not too Bold; they be not Equals. Nor too Fearful; they be not your mere Servants neither. Familiarity will bring them to contemn you, and your Government. Fear will make them to hate both. Children be reasonable Creatures, they love themselves, and love those that love them. You must give them such freedom with you, as may speak your love of them. For the sense of that, will make it a pain to them to displease you; and a pleasure to gratify you. But you must not give them such a Liberty, as doth directly carry them to Licentiousness. For alas, poor things, if you will make them as bold as Equals, they (before ever they are ware of it,) will make themselves as bold as Superiors. In a word: You must neither make them too timorous to look upon you, not too audacious to be awed by a look of yours. Let them love to see you, and fear to let you see aught but what you like in them.  
6. Let the doctrine of God and of his Covenant word, be first, and most taught them. The sixteen things concerning God which I have Printed for your use, may be leisurely dropped into very young Minds. So may my short account of the Covenant of Grace. Till they are learned, I know not what can be profitably learned. And when they are, all Religion is more easily learned. Early and frequently, and mostly inculk upon them; How great and good God is, what a Covenant his Gospel presents, what an Engagement and Encouragement Holy Baptism is. Happy be the Scholars who are set to learn first things in the first place. Order gives Perspicuity, and Perspicuity makes Affection and Memory.  
7. Speak of holy things in their Presence, with the greatest reverence possible. Poor Creatures, their honour of you is the highest they have. They take you for wiser than all the World. They believe best and loveliest what they see you take to be so. And they will shrewdly guests by your Speech and Carriage, what it is you take for best, and what for worst. Now a sight of your preferring God and Covenant duty to him above all things; and a sight of your hating and dreading sin and God's displeasure more than Pain or Death; what doth it on them? Truly, more good for aught I know, then is done by all things else to be named. Yea, and their hearing you speak of Holy things but as of Common; and their smelling out your low esteem of them, is the greatest bane of them that can be invented. If any thing more strengthens their Original Corruption, 'tis somewhat that I have not yet understood.  
8. Show them by Words and Deeds your Love of best Ministers and People, and your loathing of trifling Ministers and vain People. By this will they be brought to love the one and loath the other, before they understand them. And be forengaged to Harken to the best, and to be Deaf to the worst. A benefit very great! And one whose influence is often seen to last throughout the Lives of Men and Women. As is also the power of the contrary. I mean; when the cursed example of Parents bringeth Children to mock at God's Prophets and People; and to esteem as the pleasantest Company, such as make a God of this World, and make but a jest of Religion. And this before they know themselves, who are the best and wisest, and who the most miserable people and foolish. Scarcely one of an hundred is ever reduced, from the fatal error so early swallowed and blindly.  
9 Make their Recreations to deserve their name. I mean, to be such only, as do indeed Recreate, and Whet, and Sharpen. Such as do make for Health of Body and for Cheerfulness of Mind; and leave them more fit, and not less fit for Business, than they found them. One of our Holy Martyrs, repent his having played at Chess. Bishop Usher betimes left the use of Cards, as finding them an ensnaring Game. All I say is this; Games that do not exercise the Body, and do much stretch the sinews of the Mind, and do exhausted great sums of Time, these do bear the Superscription of Satan. For in them, Play becomes a very work. And the Gamester doth as a Mower, who should spend all the day in whetting his .  
10. Observe carefully each Child's peculiar Temper. The difference is very great. And the need to know it is great. For how shall you else suit your deal unto it? You must never expect to obtain your end by unsuited means. If you are very rough with some Children, you frighten them not unto their duties but out of their wits. Others, will scarcely learn any thing unless they be taught like the men of Succoth, with briers and thorns. And only a middle way, with sweetness and severity immixed, will reach others. Besides, as every Man, so every Child has some one or other supreme sin; that supports all the rest; and being deposed, the rest would soon be mortified. Now the Child's temper being found, this King-sin of his would not be long to seek. And this being well watched and resisted, great would be the hopes of the Child's desired Salvation.  
I conclude with a few Motives, or moving Considerations. Do but remember them, and neglect what is foresaid if ye dare?  
C. 1. Your Children are Gods Children by Creation and Redemption; and committed to your Tuition. O think what you would do for the King's Child, if you had one of his to educate.  
C. 2. Your Children are yourselves. Very parts of yourselves. And is it no shame for you that are Men and Christians, to neglect or but slightly care for yourselves.  
C. 3. You are Baptised, and have had your Children Baptised, and at their Baptism you engaged to do all this. In your Baptism you were bound to do all I have named. You saw your. Children in their Baptism, bound to obey the whole Gospel. And you then Promised to do all you could to help them to do it. Is all this very nothing?  
C. 4. You have more Advantages to do all, than all the World beside hath. You best love, and are best beloved by your Children. You are nighest to them. You have greatest power over them.  
C. 5. Your Honour, Pleasure and Profit, is most concerned in your children's good. More than other men's is. More than your own is in aught beside, except your own Souls Salvation.  
C. 6. You are they that have done your Children most hurt. You propagated or derived Adam's sin to them; through you they received the Infection: And by your own sins, you make sad work for them too. Who should help to save them if not you?  
C. 7. You know too, (do you not,) that 'tis by ill Education, next to Original Corruption, that the World is made such a Hell as ' 'tis. And will you nevertheless give your Children no better Education?  
Oh be not so unmerciful! You begat them not Beasts; oh do not breed them as such. Mercy, mercy, have mercy on the Souls that must be Blessed or Miserable for ever. And whose Life or Death seems next to Gods own hand, in yours. Help, oh help poor Babes so weak. And do not stay, till your Help is nothing worth, or much less than now. To murder Souls and your own children's, is fit work for Devils then for you. O lay not out Pounds for their Bodies, for every Penny you lay out for their Souls. O Pray, O Labour, O Wait, till God say to each of you, I will pour my Spirit upon thy Seed, and my Blessing upon thy Offspring. They shall spring up as among the Grass, as Willows by the water courses. One shall say, I am the Lords; and another shall call himself by the name of Jacob; and another shall subscribe with his hand unto the Lord, and surname himself by the name of Israel. Isa. 44.3, 4, 5. Be it known to as many as will not thus do, they are notorious enemies of God, the Church, and the World, And of their rotting names their Children will be forced to speak Lies, or Nothing, or Evil things. The Speeches, Laws, and Actions of many Heathens, (which I may not here repeat,) shall one day shame them. But I conclude with Prayer. O God turn the Hearts of English Fathers to the Children, and do not come and smite us with thy Curse!   

Children exhorted to their Duties unto their Parents. General Duties, and Particular. Motives to both.  
In Prisons and upon the Gallows, poor Miscreants do often exclaim, that their ruin began in disobedience unto Parents. Nor can it be doubted, but Hell rings with the same complaint. Hear the words of your Life, dear Children! Read ye these Lines, as though they had been written with the finger of God before your eyes. And you were called to by name in every Paragraph. As sure as they are any words they are God's word. And his word unto you; to all and every one of you. And his word designed and qualified to help you keep all his whole word. The fifth Command is a directory for keeping all, of both Tables.  
1. Love your Parents most dearly. Honour imports Love. When Husbands are bid to give Honour to Wives as weaker Vessels, they are bid to be tenderly affectionate towards them. All do so construe it, 1 Pet. 3.7. And when you are bid to Honour your Parents, you are bid to Love them. And so Love them, as those to whom you are most engaged next to God himself. You must love God, much more. If they put you upon any thing displeasing to God, you must then show, that in comparison of God, you do hate them. Luke 14.26. That for God's sake you can forget your Father's House, leave it and be glad to be out of it. Psal. 45.10. That in God's Cause, you have Levi's courage; read it, Deut. 33.9. You must equally Love your Mothers and Fathers. Father's are put first, Exod. 19 Mother's are put first, Leu. 19.2. Ye shall fear every Man his Mother and his Father. Both must be Loved best. The Mother, is the Father's Inferior, some ways; but she is his equal as to their Children. She is a Parent as well as he; and much more painfully so. God commands that she should have the same Love as he. And the selfsame Reward is promised to the Love of Mothers as of Fathers, and all Duty towards them. You must Love your Parents constantly, sincerely, and eminently. Your Father must not be despised when poor, nor your Mother when she is old, Prov. 23.22. Nor either of them, when they rebuke you for sin. Pro. 29. Your Love must be pure, and not mercenary for gain from them. As Absolom's was, for all his Flattery, 2 Sam. 14. And it must be eminent. 'Tis unnatural to Love a Father or Mother no more than we Love the most beneficial of our Friends in the World. Nature and Justice give Parents the Pre-eminence.  
2. Honour your Parents most highly. Next unto God, most highly. In your Thoughts, Words, and Behaviours, Honour them. Fear to think an ill thought of them. Their faults forget and cover, this is praiseworthy. Shem and Japhet, are Blessed, and Cain's posterity Cursed. Gen. 9.22. to 28. Let every Speech unto your Parents be expressly Reverend. Rachel's to Laban was so, Let not my Lord be displeased. Gen 31.35. 'Tis unnatural when it is not so. Mal. 1.6. A Son honoureth his Father: that is, naturally Sons do. Break a bone as soon as omit to bow it to your Parents. Irreverent gestures of body are wicked, most scandalously. Solomon bowed to his Mother. 1 Kings 2.19. Joseph bowed himself with his Face to the Earth, unto his Father; Gen. 41.12. Where I see not this threefold Reverence in you to your Parents, I cannot think you other than ignorant despisers of God and your Parents.  
3. Obey your Parents most absolutely. I mean, in the Lord, as the Scripture speaks. Where God forbids not, do what they bid you, and because they bid you: though it be against your own minds and wills. For this is God's most Wise and Holy Will. Col. 3.10. Children obey your Parents in all things, for this is wellpleasing unto the Lord. Where is the honour required in the Fifth Commandment without this? Read Prov. 13.1. Prov. 1.8, 9 Prov. 30.17. Children, Rebecca and Rachel kept Sheep at their Parents command. Gen. 24. Gen. 29. Jesus. Christ himself was subject to Joseph and Mary in their mean employment. Luke 2.57. Matt. 13.15. How wonderoufly yielded Isaac to Abraham, see Gen. 22.9.10. And the Rechabites to their Father, Jer. 35.5, 6, 7, to v. 11. He that says, I will not do what my Parents would have me, he therein saith also, I will not do what God would have me. Unless he can say, therefore do I disobey my Parents because I should otherwise sin against God. A good Child's heart speaks thus: Whatever I can do without sin, let my Parents command, and spare not.  
4. Requite your Parents most Zealously. 1. Tim. 5.4. Let them learn with Piety at home, to requite their Parents: for that is good and acceptable toward God. The Honour in the Fifth Commandment includes Recompense; which is called Honour, Numb 22.37. 1 Tim. 5.17. Children, had you Kingdoms to give your Parents, they would not pay your Debt unto them. You must all your lives long be paying of it; you will never have paid the sum total. Never come out of your Parent's debt. Therefore, always, according to their needs and your abilities, you must be paying your Thank-Offerings. A Child is a servant. Mal. 3.17. As thee his son that serveth him. Phil. 2.22. As a son with the Father hath he served with me. You must ever promptly serve them to your power, in every innocent matter. And if they fall into want, you must supply them readily as ever they supplied you; and as liberally; and more richly too, if you are able. You must in many cases, spare from yourselves to give them. Yea you must lay out the less upon the Worship of God too, to bestow on them. To withdraw from Parents, even for God's Worship, was an abominable fault of the Pharisees, condemned by our Saviour, Mark 7.9, 10, 11, 12, 13. In a word; 'tis not enough if you do nothing to grieve your Parents. You sin, if you omit any thing in the power of your hands to comfort them; and to make their Loins bless you. Blessed are the joseph's that nourish their Parents and Brethren! Gen. 47.12.  
5. Behave yourselves so, that you may be high Honours unto your Parents. I mean, so Holily toward God, so Righteously toward Men, so Temperately toward yourselves. So as may make for the Honour of your Parents. The Honour of their granted prayers and their blessed pains took for you. So as may make both Town and Country have your Parents in more Notice and Reputation for you. This Counsel comprehends all. O what a World should we have, if it were followed? Children come on and begin and set to mend this World. You cannot doubt but this my Counsel is certainly commanded in the Fifth Commandment. You must needs know, he cannot Honour his Father and Mother, that is a reproach and shame to them. Whose whole life casts disgrace on their Persons, Families, and Names. Yet so do theirs do, that observe not this Counsel. See Prov. 17.25. A Foolish son is a grief to his Father, and bitterness to her that bore him. Come, unless you will say plainly, ye will be Atheists; that your Conversion shall never make joy in Heaven; take this day my advice. Say just now, If prayers and pains will prevail, I will make glad my Father and Mother that ever they had me given unto them. I will learn diligently every Truth they teach me, I will pray hard for every Grace they commend. I will perform seriously every Duty they set me. I will resist every Lust and Temptation they warn me of. I will imitate all the good I see in them. God, I will know. His Gospel-Covenant, I will enter, and live by. My Holy Baptism I will know and keep. The Lord's Table I will prepare for and hasten to. Holiness I will industriously perfect, in the fear of God. No Man living, shall say henceforth, that I wrong him wilfully; or do him right unwillingly. And neither of my Parents shall be able with truth to say, that I do so much as seem to forget my debt to them and its depth. When this is truly said, and with full purpose of heart, you than first begin to be good Children, and dutiful. Then you may be called, the Crown and Honour of your Fathers, as Prov. 17.6. and their very Glory, as it is Hos. 9.11. Such as make them not ashamed (but honoured) in the Gate, or in all company; as Psal. 127.4, 5. And until you thus resolve and declare, you are the clean contrary. For you are Fools. And he that begeteth a Fool, doth it to his sorrow, the Father of a Fool hath no joy. 'Tis no joy, save to a Fool, to beget and breed up Slaves for the Devil and Fuel for Hell. And this Holy Parents do know, if you not, sc. That" A wicked Child of Godly Parents is one of Earth's ugliest burdens; and (without wonderful Grace intervening) one of Hell's certainest Firebrands.   

More particularly, I now Exhort You.  
1. Be it for Conscience sake still, that you Honour your Parents. Be sure it be your desire to please, and your fear to offend God, that makes you fear to offend and desire to please your Parents. Read heedfully Leu. 19.3. Ye shall fear every Man his Mother and his Father and keep my Sabbaths. There's the Precept. I am the Lord your God; that is, you else offend me who am God, and your Covenant God. There is the Motive. Charge your Consciences to be your daily Remembrancers of this; that the true Honouring of Parents is a Fruit, whose Root is the true Honour of God.  
2. Be it as you would receive and lay up Gold, that you receive and lay up the Advice your Parents give you. Have, and show that you have as true a pleasure in taking the one as the other from them. Convince their hearts that they do delight you, when they do instruct you. That would be an advantage to them and you too, beyond the expression. Make them to see that what is imparted unto you, is not lost. And that you treasure up their say, as the Sons of Cassius did his Books. When it was threatened their Father's Books should be burnt; they answered, Then must you burn us too; for we have his Books in our hearts. Prov. 6.20, 21. My Son keep thy Father's Commandment, and forsake not the Law of thy Mother. Bind them continually upon thy heart, and tie them about thy neck.  
3. Convince your Parents that you much delight in their presence. That you love to be near them, to hear their Wisdom. Even little Children are tainted, when they like better to be in the Kitchen with the servants, than in the Parlour with their Parents. More grown ones be poisoned, when they think themselves then best, when farthest from holy Parents Observation and Counsel. Neither do love their persons or their piety, if they love not their company. The Prodigal, when he had wandered from his Father's House, is said to have been dead and lost, Luke 15. Holy Joseph bid his Brethren tell Jacob, Thus saith thy Son Joseph, come down unto me, tarry not. Thou shalt be near unto me, thou and thy Children, and thy children's Children. Gen. 45.9, 10. And Ruth, (who lost nothing by it) said to her very Mother in Law, Entreat me not to leave thee, or to return from following after thee: for whither thou goest, I will go, and where thou lodgest I will lodge, where thou diest will I die. Ruth 1.16, 17. God ordered, that the advanced Captive should, for a month's time, bewail the loss of her Father and Mother's converse, Deut. 21.13. But,  
4. Let all the house see, that your Parents Friends be yours, and your choicest ones. That your affection is swayed by theirs; and you cannot but love such as they love. Prov. 27.10. Thy Father's Friends forsake not. In loving my Parents, God and Men do show me love; and my Parents love of both, directs and excites me to the love of both, I am a Child unnatural, If I love not both the better for their loving and being beloved of my Parents. Hear Moses, Exod. 15.2. The Lord is my strength, he is my God, (my own) I will (therefore) prepare him an habitation; my Father's God, and (therefore) I will exalt him. Remember this, Children; and observe ye well; 'tis made an extreme aggravation of your sin, that it is sinned against the God of your Fathers. That is, against the God that was very kind to them, and was by them Honoured and Worshipped. Judg. 2.12. They forsook the Lord God of their Fathers, and the anger of the Lord was hot against them. So Deut. 32.17. 'tis a dreadful charge, They Sacrificed unto Devils, to new Gods that came newly up, whom their Fathers feared not.  
5. Joy your Parents joys, and grieve their griefs, Let Sympathy show your Unity. Let one joy of theirs, make you forget six troubles and seven of your own. And one sorrow of theirs, unsweeten as many comforts of your own. Jacob's Sons and Daughters, all, rose up to comfort him, 37.35. And Judah professed he was not able to see his Father in superadded trouble; How shall I go up to my Father, and the Lad be not with me? lest peradventure I see the evil that shall come on my Father. Gen. 44.34. q. d. Rather had I be thrown in Irons myself, and live and die in Slavery, than add to the sorrows of my Father's grey hairs. So Reuben, before, when Joseph was lost; in the dread of his Father's sore aching heart, bittterly cries out, The Child is not, and I, whither shall I go? Gen. 37.30. Hark also how Saul speaks, 1 Sam. 9.5. Come let us return, lest my Father take thought for us.  
6. Sleep not under your Parent's displeasure. If you any way raise it, use presently all means to lay it. Be it a just or unjust Flame, show you that 'tis one you are grievously tormented in. Eat not, Drink not, Buy and Sell not, till it be quenched. At least till you have humbly offered all possible means for quenching it. I mean, all that you can do without offending God, for pacifying them. Next to God's wrath, I would deprecate my Parents. And next unto his Blessing, I would desire theirs. Numb. 12.14. If a Father spit in a Child's face, should not the Child be ashamed seven days? Very Esau himself, finding his Father's Blessing gone from him, could not bear it: but cried with tears, Bless me, even me also, O my Father. Gen. 27.13. And as for Heavenly Joseph, when he heard his Father was sick, he makes his utmost speed to him, with his Sons also carried, that he might not miss of his Blessing, Gen. 48.  
7. Bear patiently, and bless God hearty for your Parents rebukes and corrections. Very often do the best Children need both. And it is of pure and greatest kindness that good Parents do give both. Following them with holy prayers for Divine Blessing. Go you therefore as oft as you are chastised, and say to this purpose: O sin, sin, I hate thee. Had I avoided thee, I had escaped this correction. My tender Parents punish themselves in punishing me. Thou, O my sin, hast now troubled them and me. Much rather had they have seen my Duties than heard my Out-cries. God bids them strike, and not spare for my crying. Yea and tells them they hate me if they scourge me not. Prov. 19.18. Prov. 13.24. Children! of all Creatures they are most miserable, that are incorrigible; and most incorrigible, that are impatient of reproof, and most impatient of reproof, that cannot bear it from Parents. See Heb. 12.9.  
8. Make your Parents in all things your Privy-counsellers. Acquaint them with your Secrets which are of any weight. Ask their advice in matters of any difficulty. This will speak your esteem of their Wisdom, Faithfulness, and Affection. And convert all of them unto your use and benefit. O think of Sampson's words! Judg. 14.16. I have not told my Father nor my Mother, and should I tell it thee? As if he had said; Of all Mankind my Parents Breasts be the Treasuries of my thoughts. What I do not communicate unto them, I am not like to communicate to any Souls living. Children! take your Parent's advice, as to your Trades, your Matches, and all things of Moment, And as far as their words do agree with God's word, closely follow them. If ever you repent it, upon me be shame and your curse.  
9 Pray, and beg others prayers, for the conversion of your Parents if they be unregenerate. Abraham did all he could, to help his Father Terah out of his Idolatry. Compare Acts 7.3, 4. with Gen. 11. latter end and 12.1. and Josh. 24.2, 3. In this City I have the request of several pious Children to pray for their profane Parents Conversion. And to send Letters and Books to some of them.  
10. Praise and imitate all that is good in your living Parents, and decently honour them at their death. It is said of the Virtuous Woman, Prov. 31, 28. Her Children rise up, and call her Blessed. Every Godly Parent speaks to his Children, in words much like the Apostles; Phil. 4.9. The things which you have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do; and the God of peace shall be with you. Happy the Children, that obey that charge! Abraham's Sons buried him honourably. Gen. 25.9. So also did Isaac's Sons bury him. Gen. 35.29. As for Jacob; it is said, that Joseph went up to bury his Father, and with him went up all the servants of Pharaoh, the elders of his house, and all the elders of the Land of Egypt. And all the house of Joseph, and his Brethren, and his Father's house: There went up with him both Chariots and Horsemen, and it was a very great company. Gen. 50.7, 8, 9 Some observe that Isaac mourned the space of three years for his Mother Sarahs' death. He is then said to have been comforted against his trouble, when he took Rebecca to Wife; Gen. 24.67. And they make it three years after the death of his Mother, that he Married. In a word; the Children that quickly forget Parents when they are Dead, did never overload them with honour when they were Alive. And 'tis a wonder if they themselves do not both live undesired, and die unlamented.  
Now the Lord make the following Considerations to be indeed Motives: And of good significancy unto as many Children as shall read them.  
C. 1. Parents do most of all represent God unto their Children. Their Generation shadows forth his Creation. Their Education, his Propriety, Government, and Love. To contemn Parents is to contemn God, in his most lively Representatives unto Men.  
C. 2. Parents, are under God, the greatest of Benefactors unto Children. By them God conveys his Spiritual and Temporal Blessings unto Children. Rom. 11.28. The Children are beloved for the Father's sakes. Prov. 20.7. The just man walketh in his integrity, his Children are blessed after him. Undutifulness to Parents, is the lowest pit of ungratitude toward Mortals.  
C. 3. Parents, are next unto God, the principal Owners and Rulers of Children. God the sole Proprietor hath made Children most eminently theirs. He gives his Servants Children for Rewards, Psal. 127.3. God the supreme and universal Rector hath made Parents his special Vicegerents. To Teach, Rule and Judge Children. Whosoever therefore resisteth Parents, resisteth the Ordinance of God; and is most aggravatedly Felon and Traitor.  
C. 4. Sins against Parents are most prolifical sins. Such as do bear all sort of sins against God, Men, and ourselves. If a Child honour not his Father and Mother whom he hath seen, how shall he honour God whom he hath not seen? If he Curse his Father, and do not Bless his Mother, that gave him his being; how shall he, as to others, Bless and Curse not? Ezek. 22.7. In thee, (Jerusalem,) have they set light by Father and Mother. The Hebrew word is directly opposite to that used in the fifth Commandment. The word there used for Honour, signifies weightily, and in extraordinary measure to honour. Here in Ezekiel the word used signifies to lighten, and to abate weight and measure. The fifth Command would be read thus; Load with Honour thy Father and Mother. But it is said here, that in Jerusalem, Children had took off that load. They had made great abatements of the due honour of Parents. Well, and what then? Why then Hell broke lose, than Bloodshed, than Oppression, than Profaneness, then Sabbath-breaking, than Adultery and Fornication, and what not? He that allows himself in sin against Parents, must not pretend to disallow any sin: Or if he does, he must not be believed to be other than an absurd Pretender.  
C. 5. Sins against Parents are threatened with the most and worst of Judgements. Disobedient Children are branded for Fools; Prov. 15.5. A Fool despiseth his Father's instruction: but he that regardeth reproof is prudent. And for Bruits; Prov. 12.1. Whoso loveth instruction, loveth knowledge: but he that hateth reproof, is brutish. They are told they shall come to a shameful end, Prov. 20.20. Whoso curseth his Father or his Mother, his Lamp shall be put out in obscure darkness. To an infamous death and terrible; Prov. 30.17. The Eye that mocketh at his Father, and despiseth to obey his Mother, the Ravens of the Valley shall pick it out, and the young Eagles shall eat it. Of old, God commanded the Civil Magistrate to put them to death; Exod. 21.17. And he that curseth his Father, or his Mother, shall surely be put to death. Leu. 20.9. For every one that curseth his Father or his Mother, shall be surely put to death: He hath cursed his Father or his Mother; his blood shall be upon him. 'Tis certain therefore, if ye Honour not your Parents, you Fear not him that is able to destroy both Soul and Body.  
C. 6. Sins against Parents, very long persisted in, are a token of utter Desertion by God. 'Tis seldom they return that long walk in disobedience to Parents. O what words do I read, 1 Sam. 2.25. They harkened not unto the voice of their Father, because the Lord would slay them. Child, Child, stay and read over this ten times together: If God give thee not Grace to hearken obediently unto thy Father, thou must look for nothing from his hands less than slaughter.  
C. 7. children's sins are Parents sorrows, and stains in the World. Prov. 17.25. A foolish Son is bitterness to her that bore him. Parents need no proofs of this. Leu. 21.9. If the Daughter of any Priest profane herself, she profaneth her Father, she shall be burnt with fire. She profanes her Father, that is, she exposes his Person, Ministry, and Religion unto contempt. Hear me, Children: Under the Gospel, true Christians are all and every one of them Priests. And if you are profane, you see what you do. And you may see more; Tit. 1.6. The scandal of riotous Children and unruly, do make a Parent unqualified for the Ministry. If you will be Impious, your poor Parents must be Infamous in a measure with you.  
The Father of Lights clear your Minds from Folly and Ignorance; and cause your Wills to feel the attractive Power of his Blessed Word: And to make a most free and firm Choice of your required Duty, which is your undoubted Interest. Heathens and Mahometans, Jews and Papists, Protestants of all persuasions, agree herein.  
I conclude with this only added unto both PARENTS and CHILDREN. This word, which contains the very reason of my first Preaching, and now Publishing what is presented. Religion is horribly decayed among us. All sensible Christians are still crying, Reformation or Ruin is at our door. And dream ye not that the best King, Lords and Commons, can keep us safe in our sins. The Nation cannot be reform, till the Church is. Nor the whole of the Church, till the parts be so. Nor our Congregational Churches, till their Members be: Which said Members then Reform, and not before, when they come to David's resolution, Psal. 101.2. I will walk within my house with a perfect heart. And Joshua's; Jos. 24.15. As for me and my house we will serve the Lord. Nor is Reformation to be expected but from Family-Piety beginning and promoting it. I mean the Pious discharge of Parent's duties to Children, and theirs unto Parents. For this I Pray and Labour. As in myself most certain, that if the Lord come not, and thus turn the Hearts of the Fathers to the Children, and the Hearts of Children to their Parents, he will surely come and smite our Land with one or other, or many, or all his sorest Curses. Mal. 4.6.  
The God and Father of our Lord Jesus, grant, of his great Grace, better things. Namely, that in our Lands, the Fathers to the Children may make known his Truth. Isa. 38.19. And the Children may obey their Parents in the Lord, in all things; for this is right and well pleasing to the Lord. Eph. 6.1. Col. 3.20. Amen, and Amen!   
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Books lately Published by Mr. Daniel Burgess, and are to be Sold by Thomas Parkhurst, at the Bible and Three Crowns in Cheapside.  
A Call to Sinners, such as are under sentence o Death, and such as are under any prospect of it from the long-suffering, and gracious, but most righteous God.  
Three Questions resolved briefly and plainly, viz. 1. What Conceptions ought we to have of the blessed God? 2. What are those Truths, whereof the Knowledge appeareth most indispensably necessary unto our Salvation; and (therefore) to be first and most learned by us? 3. What is the change wrought in a Man by Gods H. Word and Spirit, before he can safely conclude himself passed from Death to Life? Being the Sum of three Sermons.  
The Christian Temper: Or, the Quiet state of Mind that God's Servants labour for. Set forth in a Sermon at the Funeral of Mrs. Ursula Collins.  
A seasonable Question plainly resolved, (viz.) What are we to judge of their spiritual estate who neglect the Lords Supper.  
And what is that discerning of the Lords Body in it, without which men do Eat and Drink their own Damnation.  
The Christians earnest Expectation and Longing for the Glorious Appearing of the great God and our Saviour Jesus Christ. Set forth in a Discourse occasioned by the Decease of that Excellent Christian and Minister of Christ, Mr. Noah Webb, late of Sandhurst in the County of Berks.   

Some Books sold by John Lawrance at the Angel in the Poultry.  
Gells' Remains, being sundry Pious and Learned Notes and Observations on the New Testament, opening and explaining it; wherein Jesus Christ, as yesterday, to day, and the same for ever, is illustrated; by that Learned and Judicious Man, Dr. R. Gell, late Rector of St. Marry Aldermary, London. In Folio.  
The Jesuits Catechism, according to St. Ignatius Loyola; wherein the Impiety of their Principles, Perniciousness of their Doctrines, and Iniquity of their Practices are declared. Quarto.  
The Privileges and Practices of Parliament in England: Collected out of the Common Laws of the Land. Commended to the High Court of Parliament. Quarto.  
A Vindication of the Reverend Mr. Alexander Osborn, from the aspersions cast upon him in Mr. George Walkers Account of the Siege of Derry, etc. Together with an Historical Narration of the Proceed of the Nonconformists of the North of Ireland. Quarto.  
Monsieur Jurieaus Judgement, with Relation to the Affairs of England, being a Vindication of the present Revolution. Quarto.  
A Discourse of the Nature and Power of the Conventions in the Kingdoms of England and Scotland. Quarto.  
Several Discourses; viz. I. Of Purity and Charity. II. Of Repentance. III. Of seeking first the Kingdom of God; By Hezekiah Burton. D. D. Published by Dean Tillotson. Octavo.  
The Triumphs of Grace: Or, the last words and edifying death of the Lady Margaret de la , a Noble French Lady, who died May 1681. Aged only 16 years. Twelve.  
Clavis Grammatica: Or the ready way to the Latin Tongue, containing most plain demonstrations for the regular Translating of English into Latin, by F. B. Schoolmaster in London. Octavo.  
Orbis Imperantis Tabellae Geographico, Historico, Geneologico, Caronologicae, in quibus Geographiae Epitome Mappis quo fieri potuit exactioribus, descriptio Historica Imperiorum, Regnorum, & Rerum Publicarum, seculorum series a Christo Nato ad hunc usque An. 1685. On Copper Plates. Octavo.  
A Relation of the Conquest of Florida by the Spaniards. To which is added, Two Journeys of the present Emperor of China into Tartary in 1682, 1683. Octavo.  
A Help to true Spelling and Reading, with a Scripture Catechism. By William Scoffin. Octavo.   
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