teach ANT Ss y 0 « oe. ¥ * Kyi ry : Sina hy ? 17 jeg ci | gn Mt 2 +, 5 Gises a Ab) . rally a , i Rett a - A oi eC : y x LL alee oe" SR ( ) AAA (> AR (> -ARAD ( ) CERN ( ) -ERRD-( SRD ( ) ERNE: ) ARID ( ) CARER () + eae (92% Christianity and Divorce we Frank H. Norcross EE) RD ) ED (1 () RR |) SRE (> SR 1) SE ( 2 a ti : i - “7 ¢ xj 4, , : a i 4 * Lie an ey ma a: * Fo) 0) 0 A NE) place of those of the Mosaic code. Had he pursued that course we would expect to find him changing the laws respecting slav- ery, polygamy, concubinage and numerous others. He knew that before statutes could , be changed, a change would first have to occur in the hearts and minds of men. He knew that when the golden rule and his commandment ‘‘that ye love one another’’ » should be accepted, statutes would change to conform. ‘Ts it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?’’ (Matt. XIX, 3) was the blunt question put by the Pharisees to Christ. The Scriptures say they asked the question ‘‘tempting him’’ (Mark V, 2). Why did they wish to tempt him? Mani- festly to have him make the same statement [15] CHRISTIANITY AND DivorcE that they doubtless had heard he had made to his disciples that they might ‘‘accuse him’’ of repudiating the Mosaic law, as they believed it to be. What chance, thought © the Pharisees, would Christ have to answer the charge of disloyalty when the great Hillel was against him and popular male sentiment was overwhelming for the liberal construction? Christ first replied to the Pharisees pre- cisely in the same general way that he did in other cases where their purpose in ques- tioning him was the same. The Pharisees “ eglaimed to be strict observers of the law and believers in the writings and traditions of the Old Testament. Instead of immedi- ately giving a direct answer to these Phar- isees, whom he had likened unto ‘‘ whitened sepulchres,’’ he propounded the counter question which he knew would put them to confusion—‘‘Have ye not read that He which made them at the beginning made them male and female?’’ Christ immedi- ately followed this question by quoting the words attributed to Adam in the second [16] CHRISTIANITY AND Divorce chapter of Genesis, after Eve had been made from his rib—‘‘For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife and they twain shall be one flesh.’’ Then followed the statement: ‘“Wherefore, they are no more twain but one flesh. What therefore, God hath joined together let not man put asunder’’ (Matt. XIX, 5, 6)° The tables were now turned on the Phar- isees. Christ was the interrogator and no matter how they answered the question they were defeated. They could not deny the Scriptures without stultifying their professions of faith. They did the only thing they could do—tried to reverse the situation again by propounding the further question to Christ—‘‘ Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?’’ (Id. 7). The answer, according to St. Matthew, was: ‘‘ Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, suf- fered you to put away your wives; but from the beginning it was not so’’ (Id. 8). Ac- cording to St. Mark, the answer was: ‘‘ For [17] a) CHRISTIANITY AND DrvorRoEk the hardness of your hearts he wrote you this precept’? (Mark X, 5). No reference appears at all in St. Luke of an answer or statement of this kind having been made by Christ. It is very probable that on ac- count of the lapse of years which occurred before St. Matthew or St. Mark undertook to record the sayings of Christ, they were subject to the same defects of memory which is common to all humans. 3 It will be observed that St. Matthew does not quote Christ as saying that Moses wrote such a law because of the hardness of their hearts, but rather that he suffered them to disregard it. There is convincing evidence that neither St. Matthew nor St. Mark remembered the precise language of Christ in this particular case or else that they confused it with some other expres- sion. There were no Pharisees in the time of Moses and hence neither could a law have been written for their benefit nor could they have been suffered to violate a written statute. But more impressive than this is the character of Moses himself. He was [18] CHRISTIANITY AND Divorce not the man to write a law for the con- venience of any particular class nor to temporize enforcement. The place of Moses among the few really great of the earth is . not dimmed by special favors to the hard hearted. The man who had the courage to slay the Egyptian oppressor of one of his people would not temporize for the accom- modation of the unworthy. It is, of course, inconceivable that Christ so spoke as to put Moses in such a wrong light. Upon the contrary, Christ is recorded as fearlessly closing his remarks to the Pharisees with the same statement of what the law was that he had previously made to his dise}- ples (Matt. XIX, 9). The fact that St. Luke, who wrote later than either St. Matthew or St. Mark and had the benefit of their gospels, omitted any reference to this latter statement as having been made by Christ, indicates that he may have no- ticed the error. The asserted ‘‘divine prohibition’’ con- struction finds its basis in what the words ‘‘What, therefore’’ relate to. They refer to [19] CHRISTIANITY AND DivorcE - the allegorical legend of the creation as it appears in the second chapter of Genesis— ‘¢ And the Lord caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept; and he took one _ of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof. And the rib which the Lord God had taken from man made he a woman and brought her unto the man. And Adam said, this is now bone of my bone, and flesh of my flesh... . Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh’’ (Gen. II, 21-24). It is no longer dangerous heresy to say that the Biblical story of the creation is not literally true. Science has unfolded the true story which reveals the glory, power and omnipotence of God to a degree in- comparably greater than that attempted to be portrayed by the poetical genius who conceived the legend of the Garden of Hiden. When it is considered that great. solar systems exist hundreds of light years distant from this little planet of ours, all moving in perfect harmony pursuant to [20] BRP CHRISTIANITY AND Divorce natural law, how impotent is man even now to pen an adequate description of the crea- tion. Christ knew that the accounts of the creation were merely allegorical. He was particular not to say they were to be taken as literal truth, but instead only asked the Pharisees if they had not read them—they professing at least to believe them. It can- not be conceived that Christ intended to ” base a fundamental law upon so unstable a foundation. The unknown author of the legend of the Garden of Eden and the crea- tion of Adam and Eve was particular to incorporate in his account conclusive evi- dence of its legendary character. The na- tions of Assyria and Ethiopia were in existence when the legend was written and are mentioned by name. The Kuphrates River was known and the land of Havilah is described ‘‘where there is gold, bedel- lium and the onyx stone.”’ Unnumbered centuries had elapsed from ‘‘the begin- ning’’ before mankind had developed in the = _ » slow progress towards civilization to the stage when language had been perfected; [21] CHRISTIANITY AND Divorce appreciation acquired of the value of gold for money or ornament; the onyx stone to adorn man’s palaces and peoples to have become organized into nations. The tran- scriber of the legend, that of necessity had its origin in imagination and had come down through the centuries, did not assume ¥ to say that God said that marriage made the parties thereto ‘‘one flesh.’? At most the expression is but imaginary words put in the mouth of a mythical man by an un- known author. If we discard reason, accept fiction for truth, and fetter our minds with literal interpretation, what results? Because Hive was made from Adam’s rib she became bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh. ‘‘Therefore, shall a man—cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh.’’ To put it more clearly: Because the legendary first woman was made from the rib of the legen- dary first man, all men and women who thereafter marry become of one flesh. If, / therefore, the rib story fails the ‘‘one flesh’’ corollary, which is the basis of the [22] CHRISTIANITY AND DIvoRoE asserted ‘‘divine prohibition”’ fails with it. If sanctity at all is to be given to the legendary accounts of the creation, then the account in the first chapter of Genesis wherein man and woman were created at the same time—‘‘male and female created he them’’—is entitled to equal considera- tion, and it has the added charm of what we conceive of divinity—fairness and jus- tice. ‘‘Clearly,’’ said the Rev. John White _ Chadwick, ‘‘the legend of Hive, if not the ~ Genesis narration, is dominated by a spirit of hostility towards womankind.’’ This _ *hostility’’ later appears in 1 Timothy II, 11-15, wherein it is written: ‘‘Let the women learn in silence with all subjection ... for Adam was first formed, then Eve, and Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. ’’ There is not a recorded expression of Christ to the effect that he held woman to ~ be an inferior being. While the ‘‘one flesh’’ conception of marriage rests only in an_ allegorical legend, it may be accepted as true and that [23] CHRISTIANITY AND DIVORCE marriage constitutes a joining together by God and that man may not put the same asunder, yet that does not even imply that ¥ the state may not dissolve the union with- out violating divine command. The injunc- tion applying to man specifically operates to exclude the power of the state from the inhibition. That is in accordance with a fundamental rule of construction. The construers of Christ’s expressions upon divorce appear never to have taken into account the law of Moses upon the subject or else have accepted the Hillel interpretation as expressing the Mosaic law. For illustration, Dr. Theodore Dwight Woolsey, in his ‘‘Hissay on Divorcee,’’ here- tofore referred to, says that Christ ‘‘criti- cises a provision of the Mosaic law, and taxes it with imperfection.’’ Continuing, the learned Doctor further says: ‘‘His in- terest is moral, his views are general and human, not Jewish and Mosaieal. What then does he (Christ) lay down? His rules may be all comprised in the fol- lowing propositions: First: that the man [24] CHRISTIANITY AND Divorce who in conformity with the permission or sufferance of the law puts away his wife by a bill of divorcement—‘saving for the cause of fornication’—and marries another commits adultery. Second: that the man who thus puts away his wife causes her to commit adultery. Third: that the man who marries her who has thus been put away commits adultery. Fourth: that the woman who puts away her husband and is married to another commits adultery.”’ Here we have one of the greatest schol- ars of his time giving a perfectly correct _ interpretation of the effect of the law of Moses without knowing that he was so doing; calling it a new law laid down by Christ and saying that Christ criticised the Mosaic law and taxed it with imperfection. The only mistake he made in a correct con- struction of the law of Moses was in his expression ‘‘permission or sufferance of the law.’’ There was no permission or suf- ferance of the law except in the case of the ~ one specific cause therein named. [25] CHRISTIANITY AND DIvoRcE The following is the Mosaic law on the subject of divorce as the translation from the original Hebrew appears in modern Bibles: ‘‘When a man hath taken a wife and married her and it come to pass that she find no favor in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her, then let him write her,a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. And when she is departed out of his house she may go and be another man’s wife”’ (Deut. XXIV, 1). The expressions of Christ, as they ap- pear in St. Matthew’s Gospel, read: ‘Tt hath been said, ‘Whosoever shall put away his wife let him give her a writing of divorcement.’ But I say unto you, that whosoever shall put away his wife save for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. . . . Whosoever shall put away his wife except for the cause of fornication [26] CHRISTIANITY AND DrIvoRcE and shall marry another, committeth adultery’’ (Matt. V, 31, 32; XIX, 9). If, as will hereafter be shown, the words used by Moses and translated ‘‘unclean- ness’’ and the word or expression used by Christ and translated ‘‘fornication’’ mean the same thing, namely, some act or con- duct akin to or indicating adultery,—then it follows as a necessary conclusion that Christ instead of promulgating a new moral law simply correctly construed the Mosaic code and precisely stated the effect of its violation. The conclusion follows for the reason that if a modern court were con- struing a similar law, it would declare that if a husband gave his wife a bill of divorce- ment for any other cause than that pre- scribed in the statute, and such husband should thereafter marry another wife, and such wife should thereafter marry another husband, all the parties to such subsequent marriages would commit adultery for the reason the original divorce would be void. Precisely the same result would now [27] CHRISTIANITY AND Divorce follow if a court of one of our states, New York for example, which permits an abso- lute divorce only for adultery, should nev- ertheless assume to grant a divorce to either of the spouses for a ground like cruelty or desertion, and the parties to such proceedings would thereafter marry other persons. The decree of divorce being void because the court was without juris- | diction to enter it, the parties would re- main married, notwithstanding the decree. The subsequent marriages would likewise be void and all the parties thereto would commit adultery because there had been in fact no valid divorce. It becomes important then to determine just what the Mosaic code provided. The ~ word ‘‘uncleanness’’ used in the transla- tion, is erroneous. If the word meaning uncleanness, as that word appears fre- quently throughout the Mosaic law, had been used, then a husband could divorce his wife for a great number of trivial but innocent causes, even including that of motherhood itself, for the wife was ‘‘un- [28] CHRISTIANITY AND DivorcE clean’’ for a certain period following child- birth (Lev. XII). Such a law would be so unjust that it is inconceivable that Moses‘ would have ever become a party to it. What is given as a more literal transla- tion of the Hebrew words ‘‘erwath dabar”’ used by Moses in the law in question is ‘‘nakedness’’ or ‘‘matter of nakedness.’’ The words are so translated in numerous passages in the Old Testament where it is clear that the meaning is conduct indicat- ing incest or adultery (Lev. XVIII, 6-19; XX, 12, 17-21; Hizek. XVI, 36). For example, and an interesting illustra- tion, it is written: ‘ solves the ‘‘one flesh’’ idea to a basis of ° i carnal knowledge that could multiply itself / indefinitely. The great debt which the world owes to St. Paul for his incompar- able work in the spread of Christianity will be the better paid if it is frankly admitted 7 that in his great zeal for a supreme cause — he was still human and subject to error. * In his Epistle to the Romans VII, 1-3, is found this expression: ‘‘Know ye _ not brethren (for I speak to them that know the law) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath a husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed | [35] CHRISTIANITY AND Divorce from the law of her husband. So then, if while her husband liveth she be married to another man, she shall be called an adul- teress; but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law, so that she is no adul- teress, though she be married to another man.’’ St. Paul is here assuming to speak of the law. Later in the same Epistle he says: ‘Moses described the righteousness which is of the law.’’ Whether he was assuming to give the law of Moses or interpreting the expressions of Christ in respect to divoree, his statement, without material modifica- tion, is clearly erroneous. Both the law of Moses and the statement of Christ ex- pressed one cause for which a husband could by his own act put away his wife and © if she married again she would not become an adulteress, though the very cause for putting away comprehended the possible or even probable commission of the offense _ of adultery. St. Paul also failed to take - into consideration the power of the state [36] CHRISTIANITY AND DIVORCE speaking through its judges, which Moses declared was the judgment of God. The expressions of St. Paul in reference to divorce not only reflect a misunderstand-_ ing of Christ’s remarks upon the subject,” but it would seem that they may also re- flect somewhat the peculiar personal views of the great evangelist in respect to mar- riage and the place of women in society. St. Paul was a Pharisee and his conversion to Christianity did not change entirely his prejudices in a number of particulars. Concerning marriage he wrote: ‘‘I would that all men were even as I myself... . I say, therefore, to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide evenas lI... . He that giveth her in mar- riage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better’? (1 Cor. VII). Concerning his idea of the subor- dination of woman to man, among other similar expressions, he wrote: ‘‘Let your women keep silence in the churches, for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience [37] CHRISTIANITY AND DrvorcE as also saith the law. And if they will learn anything, let them ask their husbands at home, for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.’’ It is needless to say that these expressions are not in keeping with modern Christian civilization. The limitation of divorce to the one ground of adultery, upon the mistaken as- sumption that such was the teaching of Christ, has been the cause of more misery in the world than is possible for the human mind to conceive. There is no cruelty more lingering, nor slavery more galling, than the consciousness that one is linked for life in the closest of all human relationships to another whom the mind can only contem- plate with deepest abhorrence. Such misinterpretation has placed innu- merable thousands, who have had legally , dissolved an unfortunate union for causes other than the one erroneously said to be alone sanctioned by Christ, and who there- after have contracted a happy union, in the position of living in adultery according to asserted divine law. Worse than all, pos- [38] CHRISTIANITY AND DtvorcE sibly, it amounts to saying that marriages which violate the laws of God written in the eternal Book of Nature; which shock the human conception of what the marital relation should be, the issue of which, in ~ some instances, can only be defective be- ings, burdens to themselves and to society, may not be dissolved without violating divine command. Under a proper interpre- tation of Christ’s words, it ought rather to be regarded as blasphemy to say that God ° joined together the parties to such unions. Divorce may be abused as the rite or right of marriage ofttimes has been and doubtless will continue to be abused. To say that many legal marriages are but travesties is but to say what every one knows to be true. To say that the dissolu- tion of such misalliances is harmful to society is like saying that the surgeon’s knife is essentially a baneful instrument. $§t. Paul gave the admonition: ‘‘Hus- bands love your wives, and be not bitter against them.’’ But what of the wives whose husbands failed to regard that ad- [39] CHRISTIANITY AND DIvoRcE monition? In Proverbs it is written: ‘‘A foolish son is the calamity of his father and the contentions of a wife are a con- tinual dropping. It is better to dwell in the wilderness than with a contentious and angry woman.’’ The father’s calamity oft- times becomes an even greater cal Ay to a good wife. Christ did not declare a doctrine so un- reasonable that a husband’s only alterna- tive was the wilderness for relief from a ‘‘continual dropping’’ that in time wears out the spirit; nor that a wife must endure the bitterness of a cruel husband with no other hope of relief but the grave. St. Paul also wrote: ‘‘He that loveth his wife loveth himself, for no man ever yet hated his own flesh’? (Eph. V, 28, 29). But men do some- times grow to hate their wives, and, if that be so, then it must be that they cease to be of their own flesh. Christ well knew the debasing position that was the common lot of the women of his time, due in part to the misinterpreta- tion of the law respecting the power of the [40] CHRISTIANITY AND DiIvorcE husband to put away his wife ‘‘for every cause.’’ His statement of what the law was and his effort to reach the mind of the Pharisees who were not only its chief of- fenders but were the main stumbling block in the way of the spread of his new cove- nant, ought not forever to be construed to mean that one spouse must suffer barbar- ous cruelties at the hands of the other with- out hope of relief except in defiance of him who was the embodiment of love, truth and justice. Christ made no utterance susceptible of a construction to the effect that civilized society, represented in the state and ac- knowledging the supremacy of God, might ’ not dissolve the union of a man and a woman when such union by the action of one or both of the spouses becomes intoler- able, and its existence a travesty upon the marital relation. To construe such an in- tent into the words used by the Master not only does violence to the rules of construc- tion which the wisdom of centuries have found most certain to determine the true [41] CHRISTIANITY AND Divorce intent of the law maker, but contravenes the very spirit of Christ’s teachings gener- ally. The basis of true marriage is love, mutual respect, helpfulness and forbear- ance. 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