s&s&icni- * Digitized by the Internet Archive in 2012 with funding from ■Prmceton TheologicaL Seminary Library http://www.archive.org/details/afflictedmanOOwill IS* AFFLICTED MAN'S COMPANION 5 or, a DIRECTORY FOR FAMILIES AND PERSONS AFFLICTED WITH SICKNESS OR ANY OTHER DISTRESS. WITH Wivttitow$ to lit S^:» BOTH UNDER AND i^FTER THEIR AFFLICTION ; ALSO TO THE FRIENDS OF THE SICK, AND OTHERS WHO VISIT THEM: AND LIKEWISE TO ALL, HOW TO PREPARE-BOTH FOR SICKNESS AND DEATH, AND HOW TO BE EXERCISED AT THE TIME OF DYING. WITH A COLLECTION OF THE DYING WORDS OF MANY CHOICE AND EMINENT SAINTS, NECESSARY FOR FAMILIES. TO WHICH ARE ADDED, THE DYING WORDS OF THE AUTHOR, * Written by Himself, and found among his Papers after-Ms Death. By the Rev. Mr. JOHN WILLISON, LATE MINISTER OF THE GOSPEL AT DUNDEE. Job xiii. 15. — Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him. GLASGOW: PRINTED BY KHULL, BLACKIE, AND CO. AND ARCHIBALD FCLLARTON AND CO. EDINBURGH. 1821. TO THE HEADER, H^HE subject of this book, however melancholy it ||- may appear to some, yet it is necessary unto all; seeing the word of God, and our own experience do assure us, that (i Man who is born of a woman, is of few days, and full of trouble;" and that he <« is born to trouble as the sparks fly upward." Nay, God's dearest children are not exempted from this common fate. We see what is the character God givetli his church, Isa. liv. 11. "O thou afflicted, tossed with tempest, and not comforted !" . * . If in this world then we must look for tribulation, it is highly necessary for every man to seek direction how to provide for it, and behave under it, so as he imay glorify God, edify others, and attain to eternal happiness at last. The tribulations we have to look for here are manifold; but among these that are outward, I know none about which men ought to be more thoughtful and concerned, than bodily sickness, that usual harbinger of death, and which ushers the way to judgment. This is a subject not much handled in public ser- mons, which are delivered only to them that are in health, the sick being incapable to attend them. iv To the Header, . Wherefore it seems the more necessary to handle it in writing, that so the afflicted may have a book in their houses, and at their bedsides, as a monitor to preach to them in private, when they are restrained from hearing sermons in public. And though sometimes ministers' sermons may be very suitable to the case of the sick and afflicted ; yet, alas ! the most part are careless and forgetful hearers of these things while they are in health and prosperi- ty, as reckoning the evil day at some distance from them. A book then, such as the following Directory, being with them in time of sickness and affliction, may, by the divine blessing, be useful to bring to their re- membrance these counsels and admonitions which they very much neglected in the time of their health. Again, ministers of the gospel, though ever so much inclined to attend the sick, yet by reason of dis- ability and multiplicity of other work, cannot be al« ways with them, to direct, resolve, and comfort them. But such a book as this they may have still at hand to consult with. And in regard, the afflicted, for the most part, are out of case to read for themselves, it would be a most charitable work for friends or neighbours that attend them, to lay hold on proper seasons for reading such a book as this in their hearing, and especially such chapters or directions as they judge most suitable for them. Thus you might be helped in some measure to exoner your consciences, and do your last offices of kindness to your sick and dying friends, when you can serve them no longer in the world. I might have brought in, and handled some contro- versies (had I been fond of them) in the ensuing trea- tise, about the administration of the Lord's supper to the sick, and about extreme unction, which some also begin to plead for, and thence have taken occasion to touch at some other new usages, such as the middle state, prayers for the dead, and other Popish errors, that some (called Protestants) would have revived To the Header. v and introduced among us. But I have industriously shunned what is controversial, and kept close to what is practical, and owned by all true Christians. For preventing the growth of these and other errors, (from which this nation hath been much longer free than others), I wish all ranks among us would closely observe the sacred rule of faith, God's word, and remember the solemn and national engagements we of this land are under, to maintain the pure truths of God therein contained, in opposition to all sorts of errors, whether Popish, Pelagian, Arian, Antin.omian, &c. And may we ever abhor the doctrine that would teach us to break these bands asunder ! Have we not ground this day to suspect that Satan is carrying on a deep and subtle plot for shaking our covenanted reformation, and weakening a Protestant interest ? when, upon the one hand, some are begin- ning openly to advance and propagate the old abjured Popish doctrines, which our Reformers did throw out, and with axes and hammers would go at once to cut down all the carved work; and at the same time, on the other hand, some would be at breaking down the excellent fences of our Reformation, viz. our Cove- nants, Confessions, the Magistrate's power, &c. For this end, papers are spread and positions advanced, impugning the warrantableness of our national cove- nants and confessions, and the obligation thereof; reflecting also upon our worthy Reformers and ances- tors, as unenlightened, who framed and took them, or died adhering thereunto ; and also denying the magistrate's power circa sacra, (for the support of the truth, and suppressing of heresies,) acknowledged by the word of God, and our Confession of Faith; and all this, forsooth, to make way for a toleration of ail errors and sects among us ; though they cannot but know, that tolerating of false religions, is expressly ranked among the sins forbidden in the second com- mandment according to the exposition of our Larger Catechism; and is also condemned by the twenty- third a 3 vi To the Header, chapter of our Confession: in both which we may see the clear scripture texts cited by the Assembly, for refuting and condemning any such toleration. Ah f what joy may all this cause at Rome ! therefore tell it not in Gath, &c. As the Lord did signally countenance our Refor- mers' practice, in entering into solemn and national covenants with God, and among themselves, for reli- gion and reformation, by the pouring out of his Spirit from on high, for bringing in of many souls to him- self, and fov overturning idolatry and superstition, and advancing reformation to a great pitch, in spite of all the enemies and difficulties that were in the way; so their practice of national covenanting even under the New Testament dispensation, is sufficiently warranted both by the light of nature, and by the word of God, and that in both Testaments. And this will appear, if we consider the scripture precedents, together with the promises and prophecies of the Old Testament relating to gospel times, and compare them with the New ; and especially these which foretel the unchurch- ing of the Jewish nation, and the ingrafting of the Gentile nations into their room; and that thereupon 'the national church state and privileges of the Jews were to be transferred to Christian nations, and parti- cularly this of being nationally in covenant with God; — which prophecies are to have their special and full accomplishment at Babylon's downfall. For illus- trating these points, and applying the scripture texts relative thereto, I might expatiate in several sheets of paper, if it were proper here. I shall only at this time cite some of the texts that may be well improven to the foresaid purposes; which the reader may turn to, and consider at his leisure, such as Isa. xix. 18, 21, 23, 24, 25. Isa. xlv. 23. Jer. 1. 4, 5. the lx. lxi. and lxii. chapters of Isaiah throughout. Isa. lv. 3, 4, 5. Micah iv. 1, 2. Zech. viii. 21, 22, 23. Rev. ii. 15. Rom. xi. 17, 19. Rom. x. 12, 19. Matth. iii. 5, 6. Acts viii. 6. 12. 2 Cor. viii. 5. Matth. xxi. 43. Rom. ix. 24, 25, 26. To the Reader, vii compared with Hos. i. 9, 10, 11. Hos. ii. 23. Likewise I might cite several prophecies with respect to the islands, and utmost ends of the earth, which were peopled by Japhet, that have a very peculiar and favourable aspect in this covenanted land. Besides all which, it is evident from the first and great command of $he law, which is directed to Israel as a nation, and is obligatory under the New Testa- ment as well as the Old, that it is a moral duty universally and perpetually binding upon nations and societies, as well as single persons, to choose, acknow- ledge, and avouch the Lord to be their God, to walk in his ways, and keep his statutes. This is required in the first commandment, according to the exposition of our Larger Catechism ; and is there confirmed by these texts, that warrant and exemplify the practice of national covenanting, such as Deut. xxvi. 16, 17. Josh. xxiv. 22. In such a national way did our fathers of old acknowledge and avouch the Lord to be their God, and devote themselves and their posterity to the Lord. And blessed be the Lord our God, who did many ways declare himself to be well pleased with the bargain, and especially by filling the temple with his glory. As the prophets and godly Jews were at great pains to convey to posterity historical accounts of the won- derful deliverances God wrought for Israel at the Red Sea, and in rescuing them from Egypt, Babylon, and other enemies ; so it would be useful to fortify our reformation, if we were careful to hand down to the rising generation a sense of God's distinguishing mercies to this land, in delivering us from spiritual Babylon, and in rescuing us from time to time, from these captains that have sought to lead us back thither. Many a time hath he delivered us, when we have been brought very low. By many instances it bath appeared that the glori- ous Jehovah hath not been ashamed to own his cove- nant relation to this sinful and unworthy land. God viii To the Beaddr. forbid that we of this age should be ashamed to own our covenant relation to him. This hath been both our glory and our safety ; and I hope there will still be found a remnant to own it, and plead it with God in the time of danger. Surely it is not time now to disclaim it, when the enemies of our Zion are com- bining together, and seeking to raze her to the foun- dation. Let all her lovers cry mightily to her cove- nanted Lord in her behalf, in these shaking times: let them join to put up that prayer of the Psalmist, Psalm Ixviii. 28. " Strengthen, O God, that which thou hast wrought for us ;" and that of Habakkuk, Hab. iii. 2. " O Lord, revive thy work in the midst of the years." May 27, 1727. N. B. The foresaid digression in the preface to the first edition was occasioned by the broaching of some Sectarian notions, which introduced great reelings and shakings in this corner, and other parts of this church; since which time, alas ! she hath^enjoyed little peace within her walls, or prosperity within her palaces; but, instead thereof, she hath been tossed with tempests and troubles of various kinds, whereby the children of Zion have been brought and still lie under great distress and affliction. The first impression of this book being disposed of, and a second called for, I have the more readily con- sented to it, at this time of general calamity and dis- tress, seeing the book is intended as a directory to Christians under affliction, whatever sort it be. It can- not but be obvious to every serious observer, that the Lord's judgments are in the earth at this day, and that the inhabitants of this land are generally visited with calamities of divers kinds, both spiritual and temporal; which makes a Directory how to manage and carry under them the more seasonable and necessary. Ah ! the Lord's hand is visibly lifted up against us To the Reader. ix at this day, and hath been for some years past, in shut- ting up the church's womb, blasting gospel ordinances, and withdrawing his Spirit from the assemblies of his * people, and from our judicatories. The floodgate is opened for error, infidelity, and looseness to over- spread the land; so that the gospel of Christ, the holy scriptures, and all revealed religion, are contemned and ridiculed by many. " The anger of the Lord hath divided us both in church and state, and hath mingled a perverse spirit in the midst of us;" yea, hath made such woful breaches amongst godly minis- ters and Christians, who are aiming at the same things, that no balm can be found for healing then*. There is a way opened for a carnal self-seeking minis- try to get into the vineyard, when faithful labourers are thrust out, and godly preachers and students are discouraged from entering in. Not a few Christian congregations, who lately were harmonious and united in partaking of gospel ordinances, are now so mi- serably rent and scattered, through mournful intru- sions and dividing courses, that they cannot worship Ood together ; and many of them are wandering like sheep having no shepherd, exposed to beasts of prey, and liable to perish in a state of ignorance or negli- gence. Likewise, the Lord's hand is remarkably lifted up against us, in the variety of temporal judgments and calamities brought upon us within a very short time bypast. Sometimes the Lord sends forth his stormy winds with extraordinary violence, so as to carry terror and destruction alongst with them both by sea and land, and even threaten to bury us in the ruins of our houses. Sometimes he sends such long continued rains in time of harvest, as threaten to destroy the whole crop before our eyes. Sometimes such extra- ordinary storms of frost and snow, as to bind up the waters and mills, that food cannot be prepared for us, and we are ready to famish in the midst of plenty* Sometimes he sends such destructive storms of light* X To the Reader. ning and thunder from heaven, and kindles such violent fires on earth, that whole cities with their in- habitants are like to be consumed therewith. Upon our neighbouring countries dreadful inundations have been sent of late, for destroying the inhabitants with their cattle and effects. Again, God hath visited us with long continued drought, cold, and unnatural storms in the spring, and sometimes with frost in the midst of summer, which have brought on extraordi- nary scarcity and dearth of victual ; so that there are great disorders committed in the land by riots and tumults for want of food, and multitudes of families are dissolved, and forced to wander begging their bread; and the cattle also are famished for want of grass and food to sustain them. In the mean time we are engaged in war with cruel enemies, who seize our ships, carry our countrymen captive, throw them into dungeons and noisome prisons, where they use them barbarously; yea, much of their blood is shed, and many valuable lives lost in our defence. And besides our other calamities, we suffer greatly through decay of trade and merchandise, and penury of money: in many places merchants, tradesmen, and artificers want business; there is no work nor hire for labourers, and for those who would use honest industry for bread, whether men or women: so that want is " come upon us as one that travaileth, and poverty like an armed man;" and many are reduced to extreme misery, and starving circumstances for lack of bread. By all which proceedings it appears that God hath a peculiar controversy with Scotland, and threatens to punish her remarkably for her heinous sins and provo- cations. The Lord's hand hath been long lifted up against us, and now it is higher lifted than ever; and the higher it is lifted up, the blow is like to be the severer when given. He hath sent many lesser strokes and judgments upon us, as fore-runners and warnings of greater, which he hath still in reserve for us, if we repent not ; for his magazine is far from being To the Header, xi exhausted. As there are many causes for these cala- mities of ours, so I think there is a principal one men- tioned, Matth. xxiv. 12. « Iniquity doth abound, and the love of many is waxed cold." Infidelity, immo- rality, and contempt of the gospel, are come to a pro- digious height: our hearts are become cold and frozen to Christ and his interest, to his people and holy laws ; for which cause God is provoked to send such judicial cold and frosts upon our land and the fruits of the earth, so as to mar and diminish our crops, and reduce both men and beasts to the greatest straits. And yet so great is our irapenitency and perverseness, that we will not see the Lord's hand, nor be reformed by all these judgments. It might be well expected, when the Lord's judg- ments are so visible in the earth, that not only his people by profession, but even the inhabitants of the world, would learn righteousness, according to Isa. xxvi. 9. But alas ! so perverse are we in walking contrary to God, that neither the inhabitants of the world, nor these who profess to be separated from the world, will alter their course, nor learn righteousness; nay, instead of that, many are learning still more wickedness. " Shall I not visit for these things? saith the Lord: and shall not my soul be avenged on such a nation as this ?" Alas ! hath he not been provoked to say con- cerning us, as he did concerning his ancient people, Lev. xxvi. 23, 24. «« If ye will not be reformed by all these things, but will walk contrary unto me; then will I also walk contrary unto you, and will bring seven times more plagues upon you, according to your sins." And likewise to say unto us, as unto them, « When ye spread forth your hands, I will hide mine eyes from you; and when ye fast, and make many prayers, I will not hear; but I will consume you with the sword^ with the famine, and with the pestilence," as in Isa. % A3. Jer. xiv. 12. The sward, famine, and pestilence, are God's three mortal arrows, which he commonly threatens to shoot xii Ta the Bender. against impenitent and incorrigible offenders. Two of these are already shot against us: the sword is drawn, and much of our countrymen's blood is already shed; and what further streams of it may flow before it be put up in its sheath, God only knows. The evil arrow of famine (as God calls it, Ezek. v. 16.) is let fly against us at the same time; and famine is the arrow which is the sorest of the three. When it was put to David's choice which of the three he would be the butt of, he would not choose famine. The prophet Joel doth bewail and deprecate this judgment in the most pathetic manner, and calls the whole land to fasting and prayer for removing it, Joel i. 10, 14. And we see, when God is most angry, and threatens to send his arrows upon a guilty people, he begins with the arrow of famine, as the sorest, as in Deut. xxxii. 23, 24. " I will spend mine arrows upon them ; they shall be burnt with hunger." And we see what the Spirit of God saith of these who die by this arrow, Lam. iv. 9. " They that be slain with the sword are better than they that be slain with hunger ; for these pine away, stricken through for want of the fruits of the field," and therefore their death is most lingering and miserable. Likewise famine useth to bring on the most noisome and mortal diseases, and frequently the pestilence doth follow upon the back of famine. Is it not high time, then, for our land to take the alarm, when God begins to shoot his evil arrows? When the lion roars, it becomes us to fear, yea, to humble ourselves in the dust, and mourn for our iniquities, which kindle the fire of his wrath. Let us search and try our ways, and turn again to the Lord, from whom we have deeply revolted : and particularly, let us mourn for, and turn from these sins which the word of God points out as bringing on famine; such as, 1. Ascribing our earthly comforts and blessings to other things than God, the true author. This sin we find threatened with scarcity and To the Reader. xm famine, Jer. xliv. 17, 26, 27. Hos. ii. 5, 9. 2. Per- verting of plenty to luxury and prodigality, sensuality and excess, revellings and dancings, balls, and assem- blies. We see how these are threatened, Isa. v. 11, 12, 13. Amos vi. 4, 6, 7. 3. Rejecting the bread of life, and despising the food of our souls. God useth to punish men for this sin, by depriving them of bread for their bodies, Jer. xi. 21, 22. 4. Men's mind- ing their own things, more than the things of God, and neglecting to build his house and put respect up- on his ordinances. Upon such accounts God brings on scarcity and famine Hag. i. 9, 10, 11. 5. Cove- nant-breaking, and dealing cruelly with the poor, or with strangers that live among us; it was for these sins that God sent a three years' famine upon the lanil of Israel, 2 Sam. xxi. 1. Moreover, let us look upon all these temporal storms and calamities which are come, or coming upon the land, as warnings to prepare for a more awful storm that we must all meet with, namely, the storm of death and judgment; let us stand habitually prepar- ed for that storm, and then other storms will not so much affect us. If it be asked, What we shall do to be safe in time of that trying storm? the answer is, Let us see that we be among the broken in heart, or sincere penitents, who are heartily grieved for all known sin: that we be true believers in Christ, who trust in nothing but his righteousness and merits for justifica- tion and salvation : that we be born again, and made new creatures by a saving change both in heart and life : that it be our great business to clear up our evi- dences of peace with God through Christ, and of our title to the mansions which he hath purchased by his? blood. O that God's judgments when they are in -the earth, were means to awaken us to flee from the wrath to come, to Christ our refuge ! When the floods of great waters are swelling up to the brim, our only safe- ty is to secure a hiding place in Christ's wounds. Let us follow the example of Noah, who, when he b xiv To the Header. saw the flood coming, took warning, and prepared an ark for saving himself, and his household, Heb. xi. 7. JLet us even imitate the Egyptians that feared the Lord; they, when warned of the dreadful storm of hail that was coming on the land, made their servants and cat- tle to flee into the houses, Exod. ix. 20. God hath, in mercy, provided chambers for his people to hide themselves in when the storms are coming, even the chambers of his attributes and promises, and the cham- bers of Christ's wounds and intercession : in these on- ly we can find safety ; let us then enter into them by faith, when he invites us, Isa. xxvi. 20, 21. Seeing in these evil days, we have so many harbin- gers and forerunners of death before our eyes, it will be highly our wisdom to keep ourselves still in a wait- ing posture, always ready and willing to die. What is there in this weary land to tempt us to desire to abide in it? Is it not a land overwhelmed with sin and sor- row? O believers, are you tossed with tempests here ? Seek the wings of a dove that you may flee away, and be at rest. Be habitually desiring to depart, that you may be with Christ. Surely for you to die is gain, yea, infinite gain i What are the imaginary pleasures of this world to the real happiness of the next? Though the struggles of death be grievous to nature, yet the gain of dying should reconcile you to it. You do not stick at the trouble of putting off your clothes at night, to gain a little rest to your bodies; and why should you stick at unclothing yourselves of the garments of flesh at God's call, to gain everlasting rest to your souls, and the fruition of Christ's glorious presence for ever? Let the thought of this gain put you upon using all means to get your hearts weaned from the love of the world, and its comforts. Keep the mantle of earthly enjoy- ments hanging loose about you, especially in those ca- lamitous times, that so it may be easily dropt when death comes to carry you to the eternal world. O for more of the lively faith of that world, and of him that is the Lord and purchaser of it 1 But seeing this sub- To the Reader. xv ject is more largely insisted on in the book itself, I shall add no more here upon it. Only I shall subjoin a collection of some sweet and comfortable texts of scripture, very proper for dying believers to meditate and feed on by faith, to grip to and plead with God, and suck consolation from, when they have a near pros- pect of going through the dark valley, and entering into the unknown regions of eternity. God's word will then be our hope. ( xvi } A COLLECTION OF COMFORTABLE TEXTS FOR DYING BELIEVERS. |^ 8. for Dying Believers. xix The day of death is better than the day of one's birth, Eccles. vii. 1. And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes, and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain; for the former things are passed away, Rev. xxi. 4. This is a faithful saying, and worthy of all accepta* tion, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sin- ners, of whom I am chief, 1 Tim. i. 15. God so loved the world that he gave his only be- gotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life, John iii. 16. For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin ; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him, 2 Cor. v. 21. Thanks be unto God for his unspeakable gift, 2 Cor. ix. 15. . Blessed be the Lord God of Israel, for he hath vi- sited and redeemed his people, and hath raised up an horn of salvation for us in the house of his servant David, Luke i. 68, 69. Them which sleep in Jesus, will God bring with him. Then shall we be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord, I Thess. iv. 14, 17. Unto him that loved us, and washed us from our sins in his own blood, &c. Worthy is the Lamb that was slain, to receive power and glory, Rev. i. 5. and v. 11. We know that we have passed from death unto life, because we love the brethren, 1 John iii. 14. I am persuaded that neither death, nor life, nor an- gels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor any ci- ther creature shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord, Rom. viii. *, 39. I know whom I have believed, and I am persuaded xx Comfortable Texts, fyc. that be is able to keep that which I have committed unto him against that day, 2 Tim. i. 12. I count all things but loss and dung, that I may win Christ, and be found in him, not having mine own righteousness, &c* Phil. iii. 8, 9. Christ Jesus who of God is made unto us wisdom, and righteousness, and sanctification, and redemption, 1 Cor. i. 30. We rejoice in Christ Jesus, and have no confidence, in the flesh, Phil. iii. 3. Giving thanks unto the Father, which hath made us meet to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light, Col. i. 12. Behold he cometh with clouds, and every eye shall see him. Amen. Even so, come, Lord Jesus, Rev. u *7. and xxii. 20. Dundee, 5th June 5 174L THE CONTENTS, Page Collection of comfortable Texts for dying Believ- ers, ~~, *~~ ™~ «~, 16 The Introduction, ~~ — ^i. 25 Chap. I. Containing general directions to all fami- lies and persons under sickness, ,~~ 26 Direct. I. Inquire into the ends and designs for which God sends sickness and affliction, ^ ib. Direct. II. Search for the Achan, or cause of God's controversy with you, ~~, ^« 32 Direct. III. Think seriously upon death, and make diligent preparation for it, ~~» — 36 Direct. IV. Be not anxious for recovery, but leave the issue of thy sickness to God, ^ 40 Direct. V. Bind yourself with purposes to improve health better, if God shall recover you, ^« 42 Direct. VI. Timeously make your wills, and settle your worldly affairs, ^« 43 Chap. II. Containing particular directions to those who are afflicted with sore and long affliction^ 46 Direct. I. Justify God in the greatest afflictions, 48 Direct. II. Be sensible of God's hand, and beware of stupidity under heavy afflictions, ^ 50 Direct. III. Beware of misconstructing God's deal- ings, or charging him foolishly, ^ 52 Direct. IV. Labour to exercise a strong faitb s 53 Direct. V. Labour to bear up with patience, 56 Direct, VI. Do not envy the wicked, when you see them in health and prosperity, „^. KWa 59 xxii CONTENTS. Page Direct. VII. Guard against repinings and murmur- ings against the providence of God, „^ 61 Chap. III. Containing special directions to the Children of God, under sickness or any afflictions^ 70 Direct. I. Guard against fainting or desponding under God's afflicting hand, „^ ^* ib. Direct. II. Study to be exemplary in patience and submissive to God under affliction, 78 Direct, III. Be much in the exercise of praise, 85 Direct. IV. Set about actual preparation for death, 89 Direct. V. Study to glorify God, and edify those a- bout you by your speech and behaviour, ^^ 96 Direct. VI. Shew your concern for advancing the kingdom of Christ in the rising age, •*. 102 Direct. VII. Labour to be fortified against Satan's temptations in time of sickness, , 104* Chap. IV. Containing special directions to the un- regenerate when under sickness and affliction, 109 Direct. I. Consider the miserable condition of a Christless person under sore sickness, „~» ib* Direct. II. Improve sickness as means of conver- sion, ^ -~~ «»*. «~~ 111 Direct. III. Beware of slighting God's voice in the rod, _ ^ ~~ ~~ 113 Direct. IV. Reflect upon the sins of your bypast life, and be deeply humbled for them, — 114r Direct. V. Flee presently to Christ by a true faith, 116 Direct. VI. Call the elders of the church to pray for you, — — ~-~ ~~ H7 Chap. V. Containing directions to God's people, when recQveredfrom siclmess arid distress, 118 Direct. I. Try if affliction hath been sanctified to you, _ ~~ ~~ ~~ to- Direct. II. Offer to Ccd the sacrifice of thanks- giving, ^ ««» ~~- ~~. 120 Direct. III. Beware of forgetting the Lord's kind- ness, — *~~ ~~* — 1*4? Direct. IV. Inquire after these fruits of righte* CONTENTS, xxiii Page onsness, which are the genuine effects of sancti- fied affliction, — — ^ ~~ 125 Direct. V. Be careful to perform these engage- ments which you come under in time of sick- ness, — ,~~ ~~ ~~ 127 Chap. VI. Containing directions to the unregene' rate, when they are recovered from sickness, 130 Direct. I. Examine what are the fruits of your af- fliction, and if it hath not the marks of that which is unsanctified, — w .~ . ib. Direct. II. Consider the danger of not being bet- tered by sickness, — — „„ 132 Direct. III. Admire God's sparing mercy to such heli-deserving sinners, and be thankful for it, 35 Direct. IV. Improve sparing mercy in a right manner, ^~ — ~~ 137 Chap. VIL Containing dneciions to these sick per- sons who are appare?itly in a dying condition, 141 Direct. I. Exert your utmost activity in preparing to meet with death, _^ 142 Direct. II. Continue in the exercise of repentance to the last, _ _ _ _ 155 Direct. III. Be mindful of the acts of justice and charity incumbent on you at this time, 157 Direct. IV. Labour to overcome the love of life and fears of death, that ycu may get willing- ness to die, 159 Direct. V. Imitate the ancient worthies, by dying in faith, _ — 168 Direct. VI. Set the example of other dying saints before you, and study to imitate them in their shining piety and heavenly speeches at their death, _ 171 Many choice sayings of dying saints, ib. Direct. VII. Let dying persons be earnest in pray- er to God, ~~ 201 Some meditations and ejaculations, proper for sick xxiv CONTENTS. Page and dying persons, and especially for a dying believer, _ _ , ^ 203 Some meditations for drooping believers, when death is near, ^ 210 An addition of some further meditations proper for any sick person in the view of death, 214? Chap. VIII. Containing directions to the friends and neighbours of the sick, nsoho are at present in health, «~~ Jj ~~*. 222 Direct. I. Be thankful to God for health, and im- prove it to his glory, _ ^ «^ ib. Direct. II. Make conscience of visiting the sick, 224 Direct. III. Deal faithfully with the sick about their soul, — — _ 226 Direct. IV. Pray with and for the sick, , 232 Petitions for the sick, _ _ 234 Direct. V. Let your sick friends have suitable company and converse, ^ . 236 Direct. VI. Be duly concerned also for the bodies of the sick, — **■ _ 238 Direct. VII. When their sickness doth ensue in death, behave Christianly under the dispensa- tion, *~~ — — ~~~ 239 Direct. VIII. Let the sickness and death of others be a warning to you in time of health, to make due preparation for the time of sickness and of dying which is before your hand, 246 Direct. IX. Let those who are in health set about the work of repentance, and turning to God in Christ timeously and quickly; and beware of delaying this work until the time of sickness, and of dying, _. ^ — 255 Some dying words of the late Rev. Mr. John Wil- lison to his wife and children, found among his papers after his death, «~» ~~*. 265 THE AFFLICTED MAN'S COMPANION; OR, A FOR A FAMILY OR PERSON UNDER AFFLICTION, BY SICKNESS OR OTHERWISE. M- INTRODUCTION, AN, when he first dropped from his Maker's hands, was a holy and innocent creature, pure From sin, and consequently free from sickness and trou- ble, enjoying uninterrupted health and prosperity both in body and soul. But no sooner was he tainted with sin, but he became liable to all sorts of miseries tempo- ral, spiritual, and eternal. His soul being the residence of sins and lusts, his body turned the receptacle of sickness and diseases. And, seeing God's own child- ren have the relics of sin and corruption in them, while in this world, they are not to expect exemption from such afflictions; and the infinitely wise God sees meet to make use of bodily distempers to correct the corruptions, and try the graces of his people, and to promote both their spiritual and eternal advantage. Hence it is said of Lazarus, John xi. 3. M Behold, he whom thou lovest is sick." He was beloved, and yet sick. It is no rare thing for the dearest of God's saints to be put to chatter like cranes, and mourn like doves, by reason of sore sickness.; as Hezekiah did, Isa. xxxviii. 14?. Sanctified and healthy souls may be matched with weak and sickly bodies, as was Gaius, 3 John 2. Not- withstanding the case is sometimes most trying and ex- ercising to the best of God's people; and they are never more ready to question God's love, or quarrel with A 26 Directions to Families and his providence, than under heavy sickness and bodily distress. It is therefore highly the concernment of all, whether families or private persons, to inquire how they ought to behave under or after afflicting sickness; and how they shall provide for such an evil time be- fore it come. And for the help of all that desire in- struction in this matter, I have written the following directory, which for method's sake, I shall divide into several chapters: — I. I shall give some general directions to all families and persons visited with sickness and affliction. II. Some particular directions to those who are sharply afflicted with sore sickness and long trouble. III. Directions to the children of God under sick- ness. IV. Directions to unregenerate persons under sick- ness. V. Directions to the people of God when recovered from sickness. VI. Directions to unrenewed persons recovered from sickness. VII. Directions to those sick persons who are ap- parently in a dying condition. VIII. Directions to the relations, acquaintances, and neighbours of the sick, who are themselves in health for the time. N. B. Let it be remembered, that what I say to those visited with sickness is likewise applicable to all other afflicted persons, whatever their distress be. CHAP. I. CONTAINING GENERAL DIRECTIONS TO ALL FAMILIES AND PERSONS VISITED WITH SICKNESS. Direct. I. Diligently inquire into the ends and de- signs > for 'which usually God sends sickness and af- fliction upon persons. AN infinitely holy and gracious God hath various and wise ends in afflicting the children of men, Direct. I. Persons wider Sickness, 27 whether they be converted or unconverted; which ought to be duly considered by all, and especially by those who are visited with sickness; some whereof I shall instance. I. God visits with sickness, to cause careless sinners bethink themselves concerning their souls' state and condition, who perhaps had never a serious thought about it before. There are many who, when in health and strength, are so intent upon the pleasures and pro- fits of the world, that they mind nothing else: all the warnings, exhortations, and counsels of ministers, teach- ers and friends, are lost upon them: they cannot en- dure to entertain a thought of God, of the soul, of death, of heaven, of hell, or of judgment to come, till God doth cast them into some sickness or bodily dis- tress, and then sometimes they begin with the prodi- gal to come to themselves, and bethink themselves con- cerning their souls and a future life. Now, this is God's design, 1 Kings viii. 47. " If they bethink them- selves in the land whether they are carried captives, and repent," &c. By sickness God gives a man, that before was wholly diverted from soul-matters by busi- ness, company, and pleasures, occasion to bethink himself. The man is now confined to his chamber, is deprived of his former company and diversions, and so gets time and leisure to commune with his own heart, and reflect on his former ways, and to hear what conscience speaks concerning a judgment-day, and a world to come, and the need of a Saviour. And so, by the blessing of God upon such afflictions, not a few have begun their first acquaintance with God and Christ, and serious religion. Nay, the furnace is Christ's usual workhouse, where he has formed the most excellent vessels of honour and praise, Isa. xlviii. 10. " I have chosen thee in the furnace of affliction," Manasseh, the Prodigal, Paul, and the Jailor, were all chosen there. II. God visits us with sickness, in order to instruct and teach us these things we know not, Psal. xcvi. 12. 28 directions to Families and Cfiap. 1. It was a saving of Luther, Schola cruris est schola lu- cts. And indeed the school of affliction is the place where many of Zion's scholars have made good profi- ciency in spiritual and experimental knowledge. Now there are several remarkable lessons which jGrod would teach us by the rod. 1st, The knowledge of God. It is said of Manas- seh, 2 Chron. xxxiii. 12, 13. " When he was brought to affliction, &c. Then Manasseh knew that the Lord he was God." Though Manasseh was well educated, and early taught the knowledge of God, yet till now he knew not the Lord; but now he knew him in his power and greatness, his holiness and hatred of sin^ now he knew God in his goodness and mercy, and wondered that he had kept him so long out of bell. 2<%, Another lesson is the knowledge of ourselves. In time of health and prosperity we are apt to forget ourselves, and our mortality; but sickness causeth us to know that we are but men, and frail men, Psal. ix. 20. that God hath an absolute sovereignty over us, and can as easily crush us as we do a moth. 3dly 9 He teacheth us the emptiness of the world. How vain a help is that, which fails a man in the time of his greatest need ! And ofttimes we see that worldly means and friends can never give the least ease to the bodies, nor comfort to the souls of persons under sick- ness and distress. Mhly, Another lesson is the great evil of sin, which is the cause of all sickness and diseases whatsoever, 1 Cor. xi. 30. " For this cause many are weak and sickly among you." Ah, what a root of bitterness must that be, which brings forth such bitter fruit! 5Mfr/, He sheweth us the preciousness and excel- lency of Christ and his promises; which only can ena- ble a Christian to rejoice in tribulation, and be easy under the greatest pains and diseases. There are many who are indifferent about Christ in time of health, that when sickness comes, do change their note and cry, O for an interest in Christ above all things! Direct. I. Persons under Sickness. 29 III. God sends such trials and distresses, in order to mortify and kill sin in us, Isa. xxvii. 9. " By this shall the iniquity of Jacob be purged, and this is all the fruit to take away his sin." And indeed sickness and affliction, through the blessing of God have a native tendency to weaken and subdue our prevailing sins and lusts. O man, is thy heart turned hard, so as thou art not sensible of thy own sins, or of others sufferings? God sees meet to try the fire of affliction, to see if it will melt thy frozen heart. Hast thou un- dervalued health, and slighted thy mercies? Now God removes them from thee, that, by the want of them, thou mayest know the worth of them. Art thou turn- ed proud and self-conceited? God sends thee a thorn in the flesh to prick the swollen bladder of pride, that thou mayest not be puffed up above measure; God lays thee low upon thy bed, that thou mayest be lowly in thy heart. Doth love to the world prevail in thee? God sends affliction to discover its emptiness, and wean thee from it. Art thou fallen secure, dead and form- al? God sends affliction to awake thee, that thou may- est not sleep the sleep of death. IV. God sends sickness, to awaken in us the spirit of prayer and supplication, and make us more earnest and importunate in our addresses to the throne of grace. There is a great difference betwixt our prayers in health and in sickness, betwixt our humiliations in prosperi- ty and in adversity. In prosperity we pray heavily and drowsily, but adversity adds wings to our desires, Isa. xxvi. 16 " Lord, in trouble have they visited thee, they poured out a prayer when thy chastening was up- on them." Though they were backward enough to pray before, yet they pour it out most freely now. The ve- ry heathen mariners cried loud to God in a storm. What a famous prayer did Manasseh make when he was under his iron-fetters? we find it thrice mentioned, 2 Chron. xxxiii. 13, 18, 19. And the voice of fervent prayer is what the Lord desires to hear. V. Another end is, to loose our hearts from things of A 3 SO Directions to Families and Chap. L this world, and cause us to look and long for heaven. When we enjoy health and ease in this world, we are apt to say with Peter on the mount, " It is good for us to be here," but when distress cometh, God's people will turn their tongue, and say with the Psalmist, Psal. Ixxiii. 28. $i It is good for me to draw nigh to God.'* When things here go well with us, we are apt to think ourselves at home; but, when trouble ariseth, we be- gin to say, arise let us depart, this is not our rest. Though heaven was much out of sight and out of mind before, yet when afflicting sickness comes, the poor be- liever will sigh, and say with David, Psal. lv. 6. " O that I had wings like a dove! for then would I fly a- way, and be at rest; I would hasten my escape from the windy tempest." VI. God designs to make the world bitter, and Christ sweet to us. By such afflictions he lets men see that the world is nothing but vanity and vexation of spirit^ that riches avail not in the day of wrath; then it is they may see the insufficiency of the world to relieve them, that (as one saith) a velvet slipper cannot cure the gout* a golden cap cannot drive away the head-ach, nor a bed of down give ease in a fever. And as the world turns bitter, so Christ grows sweet to the believer. In time of ease and health, Christ is often very much neglected and forgot. As the disciples, while the sea was calm, suffered Christ to sleep with them in the ship, think- ing they might make their voyage well enough with- out his help; but when they were ready to be drown- ed, then they saw their need of Christ, they awaked him, crying, Master, save us, we perish: so the best of saints, when all is easy about them, are prone to suffer Christ to sleep within them, and so to neglect the lively actings of faith in Christ; but when the storm of affliction begins to arise, and they are ready to be overwhelmed with distress, then they cry, *« None but Christ, none but Christ." VII. God trysts with sickness and distress, in order both to prove and improve his people's graces, Deut. Direct. I. Persons under Sic/cness. 31 viii. 2. Rev. ii. 10. Grace is hereby both tried and strengthened. 1st, Such afflictions do prove both the truth and strength of our graces, as they serve to try if we Jove God for himself, if we. can endure and hold out in serving him, waiting and depending upon him notwithstanding of discouragements. That faith, will suffice for a little affliction, that will not suffice for, a great one. Peter had faith enough to come upon the sea at Christ's call ; but, as soon as the waves began to swell, his faith began to fail, and his feet to sink, till Christ mercifully caught hold of him, saying " O thou of little faith, wherefore didst thou doubt?" Matth. xiv. 31. Little did Peter think his faith was so weak till now. 2dly, They tend to improve our graces also, by quickening and strengthening them. They serve as a whetstone to sharpen faith, so as the soul is made to renounce earthly shelters, and clasp about God, in Christ, as its only refuge and portion. They exite to repentance and serious mourning for sin; for, like the winter frost and snows, they make the fallow- ground of our hearts more tender. They prompt us to heaven ly-mindedness, self-denial, and patient waiting on God. Yea, the experience of God's peo- ple can attest it, that grace is never more lively than under affliction. David never found himself better as to his spiritual state, than when he was persecuted and hunted as a partridge on the mountains; and hence he says, Psal. cxix. 71. " It is good for me that I have been afflicted." VIII. God's aim is, to awaken us to redeem time, to prepare for flitting, and clear up our evidences for heaven. In time ot health we are apt to trifle away time, loiter in our journey, and forget that we are pilgrims on the earth: Wherefore God sends sickness as his messenger to mind us hereof. Now it highly concerns us, when sickness attacks us, to consider and meditate upon these ends for which God brings on distress, and pray earnestly that 32 Directions to Families and Chap. L they may be accomplished in us: And so our sickness shall not be unto death, (spiritual or eternal) but to the glory of God and the good of our souls. Direct. II. Let all w7io are visited xmth sickness and distress, search for the Achan in the camp, and en- quire diligently "what is the ground and cause of God's controversy 'with them, IT hath been the practice of God's people in scrip- ture-times, to inquire into the cause and meaning of God's rods which have been laid upon them. So David, 2 Sam. xxi. when the land of Israel was three years under the stroke of famine, he inquired into the meaning of it. So Job is exceedingly desirous to know why God set him up as a mark for his arrows, Job vii. 20. and hence it is that he makes that petition, Job x. 2. which is most suitable to every man in dis- tress, " Shew me wherefore thou contendest with me." I grant, indeed, that God sometimes visits his peo- ple with affliction for the trial and exercise of their grace, and for their spiritual instruction, more than for the correction of their sin. But, sin being the o- riginal and foundation of all affliction, it is safest when it is our own case, and most acceptable to God to own sin as the procuring cause. Or, if our sins have not immediately procured the present affliction, yet the best of God's children must own that they have at least deserved it; for God never afflicted a perfectly innocent person; there is still just cause for it. We see the sin of the Corinthians is mentioned as the cause of their sickness, 1 Cor. xi. 30. " For this cause many are weak and sickly among you." The Psalm- ist concludes the very same thing, Psal. cvii. 17, 18. " Fools, because of their transgressions and their ini- quities are afflicted: Their soul abhorreth all manner of meat; and they draw nigh unto the gates of death." But ordinarily by sickness the Lord points at some one sin in us more than another, some Jonah in the ship. ! Direct. II. Persons under Sickness. S3 that hath raised the storm, which the Lord would have us to search out, and throw overboard without delay. Quest. But, how shall we discover and find out the particular sin for which God afflicts us with sickness and distress? Ahs. 1st. Study the Lord's word, and the chastise- ments there recorded, which he hath inflicted upon people for their sins, and inquire if you be guilty of the like. Observe what hath been God's mind to his people, and what sin he hath pointed out to them, when they have been brought under such a rod, and so you may learn his rnind to you, Rom. xv. 4. Consider how terrible death will be, if it meets you in an unprepared state, in a Christless and impeni- tent condition. What a fearful change will it bring upon you ? A change from earth to hell, from hope to despair, from pleasure to pain, from comforts to ter- rors: a change from the offers of grace to the revelation of wrath; a change from probabilities to utter impossi- bilities of salvation. Death will cut of all your hopes and expectations of mercy for ever, Job xxvii. 3. There is no coming back to amend what hath been done a- miss here, and there is no work nor device in the grave whether you go. As the tree falls, so will it lie, through all eternity. IL I come to give some advices, in order to the right preparation for death. 1st, Set about self-exa- mination work, Inquire if you be in Christ or not; if you be yet far off from God, or if you be brought near by the blood of Christ, And see that you be impartial in this search, and willing to find out the truth in this important question. Be not foolishly tender of your- self, and apt to believe that you are safe, when it is not so ; for this way thousands do ruin themselves. But be content to know the worst of your case, and thoroughly to understand your soul's danger that you may be moved to take the right way to escape it. B 38 Directions to Families and Chap. L Wherefore take a view of the marks of Christless and unconverted persons, set down in God's word, and judge yourself by them, and consider also the signs of true grace there recorded, and see if they be appli- cable to you or not. Vdly, If after inquiry, you find your state is bad, that you have been a lover of the world more than of God, you have minded your body more than your soul, you have lived in the neglect of precious Christ, allowed youreslf in known sin; O then be convinced of jour inability to help yourself, and your need of Christ to help you. And labour to be deeply humbled before God under a sense of your sin and folly. " Ah, how foolishly, how rebelliously, how unthankfully have I carried 4 I have abused God's mercies, and left undone the work for which I was made, preserved, and enjoy- ed the gospel. O ! I had all my by-past time given me to make preparation for endless eternity, and I have never minded it, till now that sickness, the harbinger of death, is come upon me : and now what shall I do to be saved?" Well then in order, toconvinceand hum- ble you the more, cast back your eyes upon the sins of your nature, and of your by-past life; view them in their number, nature, aggravations and deserts. O, do not so many years sins need a very deep humiliation. O, do you not stand greatly in need of such a person as Christ to be your Saviour and ransomer from such avast number of sins? O but their weight will press you eternally down to the lowest hell, if left jto yourself, and laid upon your back. Sdly, O sinner, art thou deeply humbled, % and de- sirous of mercy upon any terms? Believe then, that thy case is not remediless, but that there is a sacrifice provided for your sins, and an able and all-sufficient Saviour in your offer. Believe that the Lord Jesus Christ is the Son of God, and become flesh, to be a sure- ty for you, that he is both able and willing to save to the uttermost all that come unto God by him. Though your sins, your dangers and your fear3 were ever so Direct. III. Persotis under Sickness. 39 great, yet be is able and willing to save. O flee pre- sently to this refuge city, whose gates are open to re- ceive you. Trust your souls upon Christ's sacrifice and meritorious blood for mercy and salvation. Apply hum- bly to him, that he may teach you the will of God, re- concile you to his Father, pardon your sins, renew you by his Spirit, and save you from eternal wrath. Ukly, Give up yourself to God in Christ, by way of covenant and solemn resignation. Every man doth this sacramentally in baptism ; but you must also re- new it personally and explicitly; and thereby give a cordial and voluntary consent to the covenant of grace. Acquiesce cheerfully in the gospel way of salvation through Christ and his righteousness; and accept of God in Christ, as thy portion. Make choice of God the Father asthy reconciled Father in Christ j and God the Son as thy Redeemer and Saviour; and God the Holy Ghost for thy sanctifier, guide, and comforter. And likewise give up thyself, soul and body, and all thou hast, to be the Lord's ; engaging in Christ's strength, to live for God, and walk with him in newness of life. And study to do all this deliberately, unfeignedly, and cheerfully. Though perhaps you have done this hy- pocritically at former times, you have profaned God's covenant, and behaved unsteadfastly and perfidiously therein ; yet now endeavour to be sincere with God for once. 5thly, Believing daily in the exercise of faith and repentance; renew the acts thereof frequently, in pro- portion to your renewed sins and guiltiness, cleave close to glorious Christ your high priest and surety, and be ever washing in his blood. As long as you are in the world, you'll need to wash your feet, John xii. 10. Come death when it will, let it find you at the fountain, always looking to, and making use of Je- sus Christ. You have great need of Christ every day of your life, more especially in sickness; but most of all at a dying hour. O what need will you have of Christ then as an advocate with God, when the ques- B2 40 Directions to Families and Chap. I. tion is to be determined, where your mansion is to be assigned through all eternity, whether in heaven or hell ? O then be looking always to Christ with the eye of faith. Live in the constant thoughts of this blessed Mediator. Let him be first in your thoughts in the morning, and last in your thoughts at night. 6thly, By striving to mortify every sin and hist, both outward and inward. By dying to sin daily, that so you may not die for sin eternally. O that sin may be daily losing its strength, and dying in you 1 so that it may be certainly dead before you ! Pray earnestly that all your sins may die before you die: for if they die not before you, but outlive the dying body, they will live eternally to sting and torment the never dying soul. Direct. IV. Be not anxious for recovery of healths; but leave the issue of the present sickness to the will and pleasure of the infinitely wise God. .XJEMEMBER, O man, thou art the clay and God -*-* / is the potter ; he is absolute Lord of thy life and times, therefore learn to adore his sovereignty o- ver thee and all thy enjoyments, David doth so, when he says, " Lord, my times are in thy hand," Psal. xxxi. 15. And indeed they are only best in his hand, for he best knows how to dispose of them. The •prophet sailh, Isa. xxx. 18. "The Lord is a God of judgment, blessed are all they that wait for him," judgment there signifies wisdom : the Lord is a God of wisdom, and will order and time all things well; and therefore it becomes us quietly to wait for his pleasure, saying, "The will of the Lord be done." It is taken notice of, as great sin in the Israelites, that they waited not for his counsel, but limited the holy One of Israel, Psal. lxxviii. 41. What unacountable folly and presumption is it, for worms of the earth to seek to stint and limit the Sovereign of heaven to their measures 1 It becomes us at all times, and especi- ally in sickness and afflictions, to have low s-ubmis- Direct. IV. Persons under Sickness. 41 sive thoughts of ourselves, and high exalted thoughts of God's sovereignty, such as Nebuchadnezzar had, Dan. iv. 35. "And all the inhabitants of the earth, are reputed as nothing: And he doth according to his will in the armies of heaven, and among the inhabi- tants of the earth ; and none can stay his hand, or say unto him, what dost thou ?" We should therefore re- fer all to his wise determination, and be willing to die or live, as he shall be pleased to appoint. I re- member I have read of a godly woman, who, in her sickness, being asked by one, whether she was most desirous to die or to live? she answered, " I have no choice in that matter, but refer myself to the will of God." But, said the other, " Suppose God should re- fer it unto you, whether to die or to live? which of them would you choose ? " If God (replied she) should refer it to me, I would even refer it back again to him." It becomes thee, O man, to be entirely resigned to the will of thy Maker, and to stand like a centinal in thy station, ready to move as thy great general and com- mander shall give orders concerning thee. It would be pleasant and acceptable to God, to see thee more desirous to be delivered from sin, than from sickness. O but sin is a far worse disease than any sickness in the world ! Beg importunately, that the great Physician may cure this woeful soul disease, and let him do with the body what he pleaseth. This was David's practice in his affliction, Psal. xxv. 18. "Look upon my afflic- tion and my pain, and forgive all my sins." As for his pains and afflictions, he asks no more but that God would regard them, and look upon them, and do with them as he thought fit; but, as for his sins, no less will satisfy him than a pardon, and blotting them entirely out, so as they might be remembered ao more. a a 4?2 Directions to Families and Chap. I. Direct. V. Bind yourself with holy purposes and re- solutions, in Christ's strength, to be more watchful against sin, more diligent in duly,, and to improve the time of health better, if God shall be pleased to restore it again to you. "IT^THEN God is visiting your iniquities with rods, ^* and pleading a controversy with you for your omissions and slackness in duty, he expects that yon will return from your backslidings, and set about a serious reformation and change of life, Hosea v. 15* " I will go, and return to my place, till they acknow- ledge their offence, and seek my face; in their afflic- tion they will seek me early." See then that you open your ear to discipline: study to answer God*s call and expectation, and in his strength resolve to enter upon a new life. " Surely now it is meet to be said unto God, I have borne chastisement. I will not offend any more. That which I see not, teach thou me : If 1 have done iniquity, I will do so no more," Job xxxiv* 31, 32. Now is the season, you should say with E- phraim, Hos. xiv. 8. Whatever thy sufferings are for the present, yet still believe thy case might be worse. The troubles that light upon the body are nothing so terrible as these that light on the soul, Prov. xviii. 14. "A wounded spirit who can bear?" They are nothing to what thy innocent Saviour suffered upon the cross, yeaj nothing Direct. VII. under sore Affliction. 69 to what some martyrs have endured for the truths of the gospel. Mhly, Get very low thoughts of yourself, and a deep sense of ill deservings for sin. , O \ should a fire-brand of hell murmur for temporal afflictions? 5thlj/ t Be still examining thyself, rather than cen- suring God. Doth God seem to neglect thee, say, alas, it is most just ! Have not I neglected him, and given a deaf ear to his calls many a day? 6thli/, Bear in mind that these troubles will not last, there is a great change near; either they will issue in life or death. If life, you will be ashamed you had no more patience when sick ; if death, then, if you belong to Christ, it will give a finishing stroke to all troubles and complaints, and heaven will make amends for all. But if you be not in Christ, whatever your afflictions be now, troubles a thousand times worse are abiding you in another world, death will turn thy crosses into pure unmixed curses; and then, how gladly wouldst thou return to thy former afflicted state, and purchase it at any rate, were there any possibility of such a re- turn ? You now fly out in a passion, and sayi you are not able to bear what you complain of: but consider, if you will not obediently bear God's rod now: you will then bear more, whether you will or not ; and God will make you able to bear more, when there will never be any hopes of relief. 7thly 9 Study to give vent to thy sorrows in a way of prayer and praise. An oven stopped is the more hot within ; but the breath of prayer or praise gives ease. If we did complain more to God, we should complain less of God. What a mercy is it, that you have still God to go to ? Improve the privilege, confess unwor- thiness, and beg the grace of patience and submission out of Christ's full treasures. Be also praising God for mercies received ; and however bad thy case is, bless God it is not in hell 2 you are in the land of hope. 70 Directions to God's Children Chap. III. CHAP. III. Containing special directions to the children of God, when under sickness or any other affliction. Direct. I. Let Believers especially guard against faint- ing or desponding under God's afflicting hand, FTpHIS is an exhortation which God in a peculiar -■• manner directs unto his children, Heb. xii. 5. ** My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord 5 nor faint when thou art rebuked of him." There are two extremes mentioned, despising and fainting ; I spoke of the first before, in Chap. IT. Direct. II. It is a duty to feel our affliction, but a sin to faint under it. God's people may be said to faint under their trials, when they sink or despond, or give way to fretting or repining under them. In the preceding Direction I spoke of the evil of murmuring in general : here I shall speak of believers' fainting in particular. 1. I shall inquire whence their fainting under afflic- tion doth proceed. 2. Bring some arguments and helps against \his evil. 3. Answer some objections of fainting believers. 1. As to the Jlrst, Whence these faintings in be- lievers do proceed, 1st, They proceed from the griev- ousness of their affliction, and the heaviness of their burden, which is ready to amaze and stagger their thoughts, and sink their spirits with fear and despon- dency. Hence did the Psalmist complain, Psalm lx. 3, "Thou hast shewed thy people hard things: thou hast made us to drink the wine of astonishment.' , And Psalm lxix. 2. " I sink in deep mire, where there is no standing ; I am come into deep waters, where the floods overflow me." Vdly, From the smallness of their spiritual strength, and particularly the weakness of their faith, Prov. xxiv. 10. " If thou faint in the day of adversity, thy strength is small." Whence was it that Peter fainted Direct. I. while under Affliction ^1 and began to sink in the waters, but from the weak- oess of his faith, Matth. xiv. 30, 31. We know not our strength till it be tried. Sometimes we have such a conceit of it, that we think, like Peter, we can walk upon a sea of trouble : but in a little, behold some sur- prising blast assaults our confidence; and then we faint and cry out with him, " Help, Lord, or else we perish." Peter reckoned only upon the sea, but did not think of the boisterous wind ; and he looked to his dangers, more than to the power that was to carry him through them. 3dly, From their impatience of delay. When de- liverance is long a coming, it is not easy to wait God's leisure, and to keep the heart from desperate conclu- sions, Psalm xxxi. 22. " 1 said in my haste, I am cut off from before thine eyes." Aithly, From the power of Satan's temptations and furious assaults. When Satan is let loose in time of affliction to throw in his fiery darts, the believer is ready to faint, and say, as Psalm lxxvii. 8. " Is his mercy clean gone for ever ?" &c. 5thly, From their wearisome conflicts with a body of death, and an ill heart. These in time of affliction do add affliction to the afflicted heart. 6tkly 9 From long and great desertions. When God hides his face from the believer in affliction, his soul faints under it, as in Isa. xliv. 15 " Zion hath said the Lord hath forsaken me, my God hath forgotten me. ithly, From the consciousness of their guilt, aud ill deservings before God, upon the account of old sins, abuse of mercies, and untender walking before God. Affliction doth revive old sins, as with Job xiii. 26. "Thou writtest bitter things against me, and makest me to possess the sins of my youth." His old sins, and guilt of his youthful follies, now revived upon him, and sat close to his conscience; which occasioned his fainting under his burden. .Lastly, Great afflictions do frequently cloud the 72 Directions to God's Children, Chap. III. believer's graces and evidences for heaven, and dis- cover their corruptions : whereby they are made to sink under their trial. They see more unbelief, impatience, distrust and enmity to God in them, than they saw before; they see more of the weakness of grace, and of their want of faith and love, than before; where- by they are sometimes tempted to raze the foundation, and say all their former attainments were but delusions, and their professions but hypocrisy. These things make afflictions sometimes very heavy and sinking to the people of God. II. In the next place, for preventing and helping this evil of fainting under affliction ; let believers con- sider, 1st. These heavy trials are all needful for you. Deep waters are not more needful to carry a ship into the haven, than great afflictions are to carry the vessels of our souls into the port of bliss. Strong winds and thunder are frightful, but they are necessary to purge the air. One of the sharpest calamities that ever be- fel Israel was the Babylonish captivity, yet even this was in mercy to them : for the Lord saith, Jer. xxiv. 5. *' I have sent them out of this place into the land of the Chaldeans for their good." Strange ! of free men to be made prisoners, and that in a strange land among the heathen; to be removed far from their own houses, vineyards, friends, nay, and from the temple of God and his ordinances; and yet all this for their good ! Why ? they were hereby effectually weaned and broke off from their darling sin of idolatry. 2dly> Consider, that your affliction, however heavy it be, will soon have an end; Isaiah lvii. 16. "For 1 will not contend for ever, neither will I be always wroth; for the spirits should fail before me, and the souls which I have made." The goldsmith will not let his gold lie longer in the furnace than it is purified. The wicked have a sea of wrath to drink: but, O drooping believer, take comfort ; you have but a cup of afflic- tion, which will soon be exhausted. The time is near Direct. I. while wider Afflictions 73 when all thy trials shall have an end: In heaven there is no cross, no complaint, no tears, nor sorrows for ever. 3<%, Faint not, O child of God, for these afflic- tions are all the hell which thou shall have; thou hast nothing to fear hereafter. Judas had two hells, one in time by terror in his conscience, another after this life which endures to eternity; but all the hell that a believer hath is this light affliction, which is but for a moment. 4///ty, Desponding or murmuring in affliction is e- vil in any, but in none is it so bad as in the children of God. It doth very ill become their covenants, their privileges, their hopes. Have they resigned and giv- en up themselves and all they have to God by a so- lemn covenant, and will they fret when he disposeth of them? Did thou not say, O believer, in the day when thy heart was stung with sin, and the terrors of God made thee afraid, O let me have Jesus Christ for my Saviour and portion, and I will be content, though I should be stricken with boils like Job, or beg my bread with Lazarus? Now, God tries thee if thou wilt stand to thy word: O beware of retracting. Hath not that soul enough, who hath an all-sufficient God for his portion? If God be thine in covenant, that comprehends all things. 5thly, It doth discompose and unfit the soul for any duty. It is ill sailing in a storm, so it is ill praying when the heart is in a storm of disquiet and despon- dency. 6thly, Your fainting under affliction, and carrying as if the consolations of God were s?nall, is enough to stumble others at religion, and make them call the truth of it in question. When they see those that profess religion, and have oft declared that their re-, joicing is in Christ Jesus as their portion, begin to sink and despond under outward afflictions; O may not they be tempted to say, ** Where is the truth of re- ligion? Where are these divine supports and conso- lations we often have heard of?" E 74 Directions to God's Children Chap. III. Lastly, O then seek to get faith revived, and strengthened, and resolve with Job to trust in God, though he should slay you. This would be of noble use to keep the heart from sinking under pressures of affliction, as the Psalmist found it to his sweet experi- ence, Psalm xxvii. IS. "I had fainted, unless I had believed to see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living." III. I come to answer some objections or excuses of fainting believers, which they do commonly allege as the ground of their discouragement in their afflic- tions. Object. I. " O (saith one) my afflictions are not ordi- nary; they are sore pressures I lie under, and of vari- ous kinds too." Ans. 1. O believer, God hath taken the ordering of your lot in his own hand, and he knows what is fittest for you. Should a man be left to carve out his own portion, it would soon appear he would be his own greatest enemy. We would all be for the dainties of pleasure and prosperity, which would not be for our souls' health ; as children think green fruit the best diet, because they please their taste ; but their parents are wiser to keep them from them. 2dly, God may see you have many and strong lusts to be subdued, and that you need many and sore afflic- tions to bring them down. Your pride and obstina^ cy of heart may be strong, your distempers deeply root- ed, and therefore the physic must be proportioned to them; as with the Iraeiites, Psalm cvii. 11, 12. M Be- cause they rebelled against the word of God, and con- temned the counsel of the Most High; therefore, he brought down their hearts with labour." O believer, your God and Father, that hath the mixing of your cup and portion, is a wise and skilful physician, who knows your constitution and your need, 1 Pet. i t 6. »' If need be you are in heaviness through manifold tempta- tions." And as he knows your need, so he understands your strength, 1 Cor. x. 13. " Faithful is he, that will Direct. I. while under Affliction, 75 not suffer you to be tempted above what you are able." 3dh/, God sends great and sore troubles, that you may have the more experience of God's wisdom and mercy in your support and deliverance, Psalm Ixxi. 20. «« Thou which hast shewed me great and sore troubles, shall quicken and bring me up again from the depths of the earth." Object. II. " But (saith one) my affliction is singu- lar ; there was never any in my condition." Ans. 1st, It is very ordinary for every man in great distress to reckon his case singular, because he feels best what is nearest himself, but is a stranger to what his neighbour feels. 2dly, This suggestion is one of Satan's devices, that he might tempt a child of God to question his Father's love; but he is a liar, and not to be credited in what he saith ; for others of your brethren have been afflict- ed in the same kind and degree, if not worse, 1 Pet. v. 9. ** Knowing that the same afflictions are accom- pliahed in your brethren that are in the world." 3dly i Whatever your case be, you must own your sufferings are not so great as your sins. The trials of God's people in Babylon were singular; yet Ezra owns, Ezra ix. 13. " Thou hast punished us less than our iniquities deserve." If our provoked Judge shall in his clemency send us to Babylon instead of hell, we have no cause to complain. Mhlyy But O child of God, however thou complain- est of the singularity of affliction now, all such com- plaints will be taken out of thy mouth ere long, and the time is near when thou shalt be made to wonder at the wisdom of God in guiding so many sons and daugh- ters to glory, through such a variety of trials, exer- cises, afflictions, and temptations: and made to say as these in Mark vii. 37. " He hath done all things well." Object. III. " But (saith one) my affliction is long continued, and I see no outgate ; and how can 1 but faint under it." 76 Directions to God's Children Chap. Ill* Ansxv. 1st, It is not so long as your sins deserve; for in justice it might be for ever, it might be " the worm that never dieth, and the fire that is never quenched." 2dly, Your sufferings on earth are not so long as your reward in heaveiij Rom. viii. 18. '* For I reckon that, the sufferings of this present time, are not wor- thy to be compared with the glory which shall be re- vealed in us." Sc%, No length or continuance of affliction here should hinder a believer's comfort, if we take a view of our head and pattern Jesus Christ, How loirg did his afflictions continue I No end was put to them, till he cried with a loud voice, and gave up the ghost. Though he was the Son of God, yet from the hour of his birth to the moment of his death, from his manger to his cross, his afflictions still increased, and he end- ed his days in the midst of them. Now, Christ is the head of the church, and your great representative, O believers, into a conformity with whom you are pre- destinated : be content then to be like your head and pattern, to have no ease or rest from afflictions till you lie down in the grave; it is " there the wicked cease from troubling, and there the weary be at rest," Job iii. 17. Mhly, Remember that your afflictions are a part of Christ's cross, which your loving Redeemer hath con- trived for your good, and hath appointed you to take up and bear with him. Now love to Christ should keep yon from wearying to bear off a part ol Christ's cross, especially when he himself bears the heaviest end of it, nay, bears you and your cross both. It is said of Jacob; Gen. xxix. 20. that he served seven years lor Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days, for the love he had to her." And, shall not we endure a few years' affliction for our Lord Jesus Christ, who Jived a life of sorrows, and died a cursed death for our sakes? Had we more love to Christ, his cross would not be so tedious to us. Direct. I. while under Affliction. 77 5thly, Should it not be good news to thee, that there is a deliverance for thee at death from ail thy troubles, and that this time is hastening and very near ? Be not anxious for an outgate here in time, for that savours too much of unbelief and love to the world. Doth it not seem to say, that you would be better content to be turned back again to the stormy tumultuous sea of this world, than to be safely and speedily landed at your rest above? That you would be more happy in a few temporal mercies on earth, than to enter upon your eternal inheritance with Christ? Object. IV. " No wonder (saith one) that I faint under my affliction, for I want these consolations and supports which God usetb to reserve for afflicted saints." Ans. 1st, If God be presently chastening you for your sins, you must be content to feel the bitterness pf sin, before you can taste the sweetness of God's con* solations. §dty\ Can you say that your afflictions have duly humbled you, and fitted you for comfort? Have they yet brought you to a willingness to quit and renounce ail your beloved sins? and even to part with all 'your earthly enjoyments and comforts at God's call, and be content with God in Christ alone for your happiness and portion? if this be not done, your afflictions have not had their due effect, to prepare you for comfort, and till then you cannot expect it. You are in the. hands of a wise and skilful physician, who will not too hastily heal and bind up your sores, so as to let them spoil and fester at the bottom. 3c%, Though you have no sensible consolations from God in your present trials, yet you must still labour to keep in the way of duty, and live by faith on his promises. Believe firmly that God is good to them that love him, and that there is forgiveness with him to the penitent sinner. And if all stars withdraw their light whilst you are in God's way, then assure yourself.* the sun is near the rising. 7$ Directions to God's Children Chap. III. Object. V. " But my affliction is such, that it dis- ables me from duty, and makes me useless and unpro- fitable; and this makes me faint under my' burden." Ans. 1st, God sends afflictions never to unfit, but to quicken you for the performance of duty ; to make you repent more thoroughly, pray more fervently, flee to Christ more earnestly ; and mind heaven more in- tensely. Vdly, If it be your duty to others that your affliction incapacitates you for, then remember, if God in his providence disables you for that, it is no longer a duty incumbent on you, and you must not grudge if God take you off: and put others in your room. God is a free and sovereign agent, and will be tied to no mean or instrument whatsoever for carrying on his work. Direct. II. Let the Children of God be exemplary in patience and submission to God under their afflictions. Treated of patience, and gave some motives and helps to it, to all afflicted persons in general, Chap. II. Direct. V. But here I shall bring some special argu- ments to Christian patience and submission proper for believers. You that God hath done so much for be- yond others, ought to shine in this grace of patience, and be examples to others for it, when God chastens you, though with very sore affliction. Is/, Study patience under affliction; for it is the common path and beaten road to heaven, that all the saints have trod, who have gone thither before you : Behold the print of the footsteps of all the cloud of witnesses in this road; and, would ye be singular, and chuse a way of your own? When God solemnly renew- ed his covenant with Abraham, and he had prepared the sacrificf, whereby it was to be ratified and confirm- ed, God made a smoking furnace to pass between the pieces of the sacrifice, Gen. xv, 17. to let him know Direct. II. while under Affliction. 79 that there was a furnace of affliction attending the covenant of grace and peace, and all that entered there- into. God has appointed that all the stones of the spi- ritual and heavenly building shall be hewed and polish- ed by affliction here; and we are not to think that God's ordinary way will be changed for us. We must not think to walk on roses, when so many worthies have marched through briers and thorns to heaven. 2dly, Consider, that the greater afflictions you meet with are consistent with the love of God, nay, spring from his love to you. Every sanctified rod is a gift and royal donation sent by the hand of God to you, Phil. i. 29. '« To you it is given in behalf of Christ, not only to believe on him, but also to suffer far his sake." Now surely, if we look on the cross as a gift, an honour, an advantage, and blessing, we should bear it patiently, Psal. xciv. 12. " Blessed is the man whom thou chastenest, O Lord." O be- liever, thy temporal cross comes from the same love that thy eternal crown comes from, according to Rev. iii. 19, 21. Men will not take pains to correct stub- born servants, but will turn them out of doors ; but love constrains them to chastise their sons. God, out of hatred, lets many a sinner go unpunished in this world ; for, why should he prune or dress the tree which he intends for trie fire? The malefactor escapes scourging that is condemned to the gallows, Job xxu 30. '* The wicked is reserved to the day of destruction, they shall be brought forth to the day of wrath." But it is far otherwise with the children of God. That is a strange word which Job hath, Job vii. 17, 18. " What is man that thou shouldst magnify him? and that thou shouldst set thine heart upon him ? And that thou shouldst visit him every morning, and try him every moment?" Now, if we compare this place with others in the context, we will see how he acknowledged that the most overwhelming distress proceeds from the love and care of God, yea, from his fixing his heart on him, to magnify him, and do him good ; and that 80 Directions to God's Children Chap. III. for this end he doth chasten him every morning, and try him every moment; and that with such afflictions as for the present are so far from being joyous, as that they give the soul no rest, but even make the man weary of his life; as heexpresseth what effect his affliction had on himself'. Yea, it may be observed in the pro- vidence of God from the foundation of the world, that those who have had most afflictions have had most grace, and the most eminent testimonies of ac- ceptance with God: Jesus Christ the Son of God, had the most afflictions of any, and yet the Father al- ways loved him, and was well pleased with him. j Sdli/, Consider the bright examples of patience which God sets before you in his word. Besides that of his dear Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, of whom, I spoke before; consider the patience of Job, when he was stript of all his earthly comforts, and laid under the greatest afflictions, yet he calmly falls down and worships God, Job i. 21. and said, " Naked came I out of my mother's womb, and naked shall I return: The Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away, blessed be the name of the Lord. In all this Job sinned not, nor charged God foolishly." Consider the patience of David, when he was driven from his throne, from his house, and from God's sanctuary, and all this by his own son ; yet, how submissive is he to God? 2 Sam. xv. 26. «' Behold here I am, let him do to me as seem- eth good to him/' And, when Shimei cursed him,, and threw stones at him, he patiently bore it, and would suffer no harm to be done him for it, saying, as in 2 Sam. xvi. 11. '* Let him alone, and let him curse, for the Lord hath bidden him." Consider the patience of holy Eli, when, though he heard such news, as, like a sudden clap of thunder, made the ears of such as heard it to tingle, and their hearts to tremble, yet he calmly and quietly submitted to it, 1 Sam. iii. 18. "It is the Lord, let him do whatseemeth him good." He doth not fly in God's face in a passion, but falls (Jown at his feet in a humble submission. Observe also the wonderful patience of Aaron, when God af- Direct. II. while under Affliction. 81 flicted him very sore, he is silent and submissive un- der the Lord's hand, Lev. x. 3. " And Aaron held his peace." If we consider the greatness of the punishment, we will see the more cause to recommend the great- ness of his patience. 1. Aaron lost his children, not his estate or worldly substance, but his children; these are a part of a man's bowels; other earthly losses are not comparable to this; therefore it was that Satan, that cunning enemy, reserved the loss of Job's chil- dren to the last onset, as his great master piece and sharpest attack. How sadiy did Rachel lament and weep for her children! Matlh. ii. 18. yet Aaron held his peace. 2. Aaron lost both his sons at once ; how pathetically did .David bewail the loss of one son I 2 Sam. xvii. 33. " O my son Absalom, my son, my son," &c. yet Aaron lost both his sons together, and saith not one word : He held his peace. 3. Aaron lost them by a sudden death, of which he had no warn- ing: Sickness usually prepares men for the stroke that is coming by death; but Aaron met with a surprising blow, yet he held his peace. 4?. Aaron's sons were not taken away by an ordinary stroke of God's hand, but by an extraordinary supernatural rod; for it is said < s There went out fire from the Lord, and devoured them, and they died before the Lord," Lev. x. 2. He lost them in such a manner, as might speak forth God's anger: now, a religious father had rather lose all his children in the favour of God, than one child in bis anger; yet, whatever were the bitter ingredients of this cup, Aaron was not impatient against God that mjxed it for him, but held his peace, because God did it. kthly, To engage you to patience under your trials^ do but compare your case with that of others. Do not say, there is none afflicted as you are; for there are many far deeper plunged in the waters of Marah than you are; some are still upon the rack, and spend their whole days and years in continual righting and strug- gling: as in Psaim xxxi. 10. " My life is spent with 82 Directions to God's Children Chap. Ill* grief, and my years with sighing." Have you sore distress in your bodies? others have grievous wounds in their souls. Do you bear the wrath of man? others bear the wrath of God. You have but one single trial, others have many twisted together. Some are stript of all comforts, you have comforts still remaining. You have many sad things in your trial, but you have not ground as yet to complain, as the Psalmist dotb, Psalm xlii. 7. " All thy waves and thy billows are gone over me." Take a view of what the Son of God, what the apostles, and what the martyrs and other worthies have endured. They had trial of "cruel mockings, scourgings, bonds and imprisonments : they wandered in deserts, in mountains, and in dens and caves of the earth, being destitute, afflicted, tormented. They were tempted, they were crucified, stoned to death, sawn asunder, slain with the sword, &c. And yet how well did they take with the cross? saith Paul, <« We glory in tribulation," Rom. v. 3. And what saith James? Jam. i. 2. " My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptatiens." As if he had said, rejoice aye more and more that you are af- flicted : God is magnifying you, he is visiting you; doing you good, taking the more pains on you, and fitting you for glory. 5thly, The consideration of God's former mercies and kindnesses to you, should engage you to patience in trouble, and make you blush to take any thing ill out of God's hand. Thus Job taught his impatient wife, Job ii. 10. " What! shall we receive good at the hand of God,andshall we not receive evil?" 6 believer, let not thy afflictions cause thee to bury thy mercies in oblivion. Has not God brought thee from Satan's family, and put you among his children ; and, will you iorget or undervalue that honour? Hath he struck off thy tetters, taken off thy prison garments,^and set you at liberty; and will you be unthankful?' Hath he given thee Christ for thy treasure and portion, and entitled you to his unsearchable riches; and will you be discontent- Direct. II. while under Affliction. 83 ed? Hath be given you the graces of his Spirit, which are more precious than rubies; and will you quarrel when he smites in some outward things? Hath he made you an heir of glory, and provided eternal mansions above for you ? and will you be fretful for want of gome trifles here? The view Moses had of the recom- pence of reward in heaven, caused him chuse to suffer affliction patiently with the people of God. 6thly t The time of affliction is usually God's graci- ous trysting season with his people, the time of their rarest comforts and sweetest foretastes of heaven, ac- cording to 2 Cor. i. 5. Paul and Silas did never sing more joyfully than when they were laid in the inner prison, with their backs torn with scourges, and their feet fast in the stocks, Acts xvi. 24. And, when was it that Jacob saw the angels of God, ascending and descending upon the ladder that reached betwixt heaven and earth, but at the time when he was in a destitute case, forced to lie in the open field, having no canopy but the heavens, and no pillow but a stone? When -was it that the three children saw Christ in the likeness of the Son of man walking with them, but when they were in the furnace, and that when it was hotter than ordinary? When was it that Ezekiel had a vision of God, but when sitting so- litary by the river Chebar in the land of his captivity? When was it that John got a glorious vision of Christ, but when he was an exile in the Isle of Patmos? And when was it that Stephen saw the heavens opened, and Christ standing at the right hand of God pleading for him; but when they were stoning and bruising him to death ? So that the most remarkable experiences of I God's kindness, that believers get in this world, have | been trysted to the time of affliction : the considera- tion whereof should move every Christian tq wait oti the Lord and bear his cross with patience. 7^/j/, When you are helped to Christian patience and submission under God's hand, it doth contribute much to the credit of religion, and to the conviction^ 84 Directions to God's Children Chap. III. of the world, that there is a certain reality in the truths of the gospel, and a great efficacy in the grace of God, which bears yon up, and carries you through beyond the strength of nature. Lastly, O believer, bear up with patience under the cross, for thou hast not long to bear it. God's wrath on the church abideth but for a moment, yea, a little moment; Isa. xxvi. 20. " Come, my people, en- ter thou into the chambers and shut thy doors about thee, hide thyself as it were for a little moment, until the indignation be overpast." Surely a moment, a little moment; which is the smallest part of time, will soon be over: and wilt thou not have patience for a moment? The Psalmist supported himself with this consideration, Psalm ciii. 9. " He will not always chide, neither will he keep his anger for ever." The time of indignation will soon be overpast, and the time of con- solation will succeed. O believer, the end of all thy trials is near; think on it and look for it. Is it bodily pain or. sickness that is thy affliction? then consider the end of it will be either life. or death? if death, then what thou sufFerest is the last brunt, bear it patiently. These enemies you now see, you will see them again no more. In the mansions above, there is no pain nor crying: the inhabitants there shall never say that they are sick; and one hour with them will make thee forget all thy momentary afflictions. If the issue shall be life, you will be ashamed, when well, that you had no more patience whilst sick. I shall close this direction with the words of the a- postle James, James v. 10, 11, " Take, my brethren, the prophets who have spoken in the name of the Lord, for an example of suffering affliction and of patience. Behold, we count them happy which endure. Ye have heard of the patience of Job, and have seen the end of the Lord; that the Lord is very pitiful, and of tender mercy," A' Direct. III. "while under Affliction. 85 Direct. III. Let believers be much employed hi the praises of God, while they are under affliction by sickness or otherwise. S.we should bless the Lord at all times, and keep up good thoughts of God on' every occasion; so especially in the time of affliction. Hence we are com- manded to glorify the Lord in the fires, Isa. xxiv. 15. And this the three children did in the hottest furnace. So Job blessed God when he had taken away his great- est comforts, Job i. 21. And this is agreeable to that command, 1 Thess.v. 18. "Inevery thing give thanks." I grant indeed, we cannot give thanks for affliction as affliction, but either as it is the means of some good to us or as the gracious hand of God is some way re- markable therein towards us. In this respect, there is no condition on this side of hell, but we have cause to praise God in, even in the greatest calamities. Hence it was that David, when he speaks of his affliction, Psalm cxix. 68. adds presently, " Thou art good, and doest good.'' And he declares, verse 65. " Thou hast dealt well with thy servant, O Lord, according unto thy word." Hence Paul and Silas praised God when they were scourged and imprisoned. Well then, O believer, obey the command of thy God, and imitate his worthies, by praising God under thy affliction. 1. This practice would be very pleas* ant and acceptable to God ; for as music is sweetest on the waters, so praise is most agreeable to God from an afflicted soul on the waters of trouble. It is a sign of a noble and generous spirit, to sing the praises of God's goodness while his hand is afflicting us. Distress and danger will make the wickedest to pray ; but it is a principle of love and gratitude that makes the soul to praise. 2. It would bring credit to religion, to see saints thankful and praising God under the cross; it would make people say, surely they find sweetness in God and his ways that we see not; they have meat to eat the world knows not of. And this would invite strangers to come and try a religious life, The joyful F 86 Directions to God's Children Chap. III. praises of the martyrs at the stakes, and in the flames, made people go home with love to religion in their hearts. 3. If the issue of your affliction should be death, this employment of praise would be a sweet pre- parative to fit and dispose you for the work of heaven. Use yourselves much to this heavenly life, and be often trying to sing the song of Moses and the Lamb in time of sickness and trouble, and this would sweeten the thoughts of death, and make you incline to be there, where praise is their constant work. Quest What should be the subject of a believer's thanksgiving and praise under affliction ? Ans. He hath manifold grounds of praise ; as, 1st, Upon the account of God's mercies to him through the by-past part of his life. His mercies to thee, O believ- er, cannot be numbered; compare thy mercies with thy crosses, and thou wilt soon see thy receivings are far greater than thy sufferings. Thou hast had many days of plenty for one day of scarcity, many days of li- berty for one day of straits, many days of health for one day of sickness. And are not these to be remem- bered with praise ? 2dly t And more particularly, in thy greatest afflic- tion, thou hast ground to praise God, O believer, that thou wast born in a land of light, where thou hadst the means of conversion to God, and acquaintance with Jesus Christ ; and especially that God of his free grace made these means effectual to work a saving change in you, when others were past by. Is not this matter of praise, that he opened your eyes, humbled your soul, and renewed your heart? that he gave you Christ, forgave your sins and adopted you into his family, and made you an heir of heaven ? Oh, what a sad case would it be, if you were yet in your sins, and in the bondage of Satan ; if you had conversion- work to begin to, if you had your faith and justifica- tion and interest in Christ all to seek, and all your pre- parations for heaven to make ; if you had all this to do with a sick and paired body, and a disordered mind, Direct III. while under Affliction, 87 that cannot command x>ne settled thought, with the terrible views of death and eternity before your eyes. This is the case that God in justice might have left you to. Well then, ought you not to praise God, that sent his Holy Spirit in time to determine your heart to close with Christ, and be reconciled to that God you are shortly to appear before ; and that these sins, which now would have been your terror, are all forgiven and washen away through the blood of Jesus Christ ? 3dli/, Is it not matter of praise in thy greatest trouWe, that thou hast a great High-priest that is passed into the heavens to provide a mansion with the Father for thee, and to receive thy soul when separated from the body, "that where he is, there you may be also?'' Athli/i You have cause to bless God, that he sends such suitable harbingers, as sickness and trouble to tell you that death is approaching : and that he should take such pains on you, to wean you from the world, and make you willing to be gone. Many of God's people that have been averse to dying at the beginning of a sickness, by the increase and continuance of it, have been brought to be well satisfied to depart, that they may be with Christ. 5tklt/i You have ground to bless God for timing your afflictions so well, that he sent them not till he saw you stood in need of them; he saw a need- be for them, as 1 Pet. i. 6. and he would not let you want what was needful. 6t/il2/, You ought to praise God, that he mitigates your trials, and proportions your burdens for your back, that when he takes a rod to you, he hath not made it a scorpion ; that when he deprived you of one comfort and enjoyment, he did not strip you of all, and leave you wholly comfortless ; that when you suffer in one thing, he hath not made you to suffer in every thing, in soul, body, estate, relations, and altogether ; that instead of afflicting you for a few days, he hath not madeyour whole life a scene of misery and affliction. Bless God that he punisheth you less, unspeakably 88 Directions to God's Children Chap. III. less than your iniquities deserve; that your sick-bed is not hell, your fever is not everlasting burnings, your pain is not the gnawing of the worm that never dieth. Ithly, You have cause to praise God, that your afflic- tion is not so great as that of some others, and even of some that were very dear to God, and had not grieved him so much as you have done. Remember the trials that some have endured of " whom the world was not worthy," which I mentioned before, as recorded, Heb. xi. Yours are nothing to theirs, nothing to Job's, that eminent servant of God. Observe the difference with thanksgiving and praise. St/ihj, You have reason to bless God for the strength and support he hath given you under affliction. Yon would soon sink and succumb under a small burden, if he did not support you by his grace; but when he bears you up, the heaviest trial shall not sink you. Have you not met with some afflictions, you have thought at a distance you would never be able to bear up under them ? Yet when they have come, you have found them light and portable, by reason of the strength God hath bestowed upon you. Qtfily, You have ground of thanksgiving, that the mercies and blessings which God hath continued with you, are far greater than these he hath taken from you : For though he hath taken this and that temporal bles- sing from you, yet he hath not taken Christ from you, nor his. Holy Spirit from you; hehath not separated you from his love, nor cut you off from all hopes of hea- ven. However great'your trials be, yet still there is a mixture of mercy in your lot, which should be matter of praise. Lastly, You have cause, O believer, to bless God, that all the afflictions he brings on you are in love, and for your profit. All his ways are mercy and truth to you. If he smile, it is in mercy ; and if he smite, it is in mercy. God may change his dispensation towards his children, but never his disposition : his heart is still towards them, and the cords wherewith he Direct. IV. while under Affliction. 89 scourgeth them, are cords of love. Their profit is the great thing he aims at, in all their chastisements, Heb. xii. 10. He designs thereby to reclaim them from their wanderings, cut off provision for their lusts, "make them pant and long for a better state, and cause them mend their pace toward it. Hence David saith, " It is good for me that I was afflicted : for before I was afflicted I went astray, but now I have learned to keep thy word," Psal. cxix. 67, 71. From all which it appears, you have manifold grounds of praise, even in the time of affliction. Direct. IV. Let the children of God when visited with sickness, set about actual preparation for death and eternity. EVERY believer, hath his main work done, and is always in a gracious state, by reason of his union with Jesus Christ, his reconciliation with God through the merit of his blood, and the universal change that is wrought in him by regenerating and sanctifying grace: upon which account every child of God hath habitual preparation for meeting with death. Yet, because frequently when sickness cometh, there are many things out of order with them that make death frightful and undesirable, they must set about actual preparation for death, and seek to have their souls made ready for the Bridegroom's coming. And here I shall shew wherein this actual readiness of believers doth consist, which should be their proper work and exercise in time of sickness, especially when sickness is lingering, and doth not destroy the use of reason. But beware of thinking that this should be delayed till sickness come: No, no; the time of health is the main working season 9 and all should be then put by hand as far as possible. But, seeing even the best generally find much to do at the very last, I shall give the following advices for your actual preparation. F 3 90 Directions to God's Children. Chap. III. Is/, Seeing sickness is a mean appointed of God for his people's good; and particularly for fitting them for a better world ; labour earnestly to reap the benefit of sickness, seek God's blessing upon it, that thereby you may be helped to discover more of the evil of sin, that you may hate and abhor it the more, and that you may see more effectually the vanity and vexation of the world, and get your heart loosed from all the things of time, and brought to a willingness to be dissolved, that you may be with Christ. 2dly, Seeing a time of death and sickness is the time of your greatest need, beg earnestly of God, for your Redeemer's sake, such special assistances, influences,, and operations of his Holy Spirit, as he knows needful for you in your present low and weak condition, in or- der to carry on and complete your actual readiness for meeting with himself at death, and entering into the invisible world, and being fixed unalterably in your everlasting state. Sdly, Renew the exercise of repentance, and of faith in the blood of Christ, for removing all grounds of quar- rel and controversy betwixt God and your sou!. And in order thereto, review your bypast life, and look in- to your heart also, and search out every predominant sin and idol of jealousy ; for if there be any iniquity regarded in your heart, and unrepented of by you, it may occasion no little anguish and bitterness of spirit in a dying hour. Well, when thou hast discovered sin, humbly confess and bewail it before the Lord, and ask forgiveness for it through the blood of Jesus Christ the Son of God, which cleanseth from all sin. Yea, make confession of all thy sins, and particulary reflect upon the fountain and spring df them, viz. Thy origi- nal sin. Know the plague of thy own heart and mourn over it; mourn for the loss and mispending of much precious time. Mourn for the uprofitableness of thy life. Now, when the axe is laid to the root of the tree by sickness, it is high time to mourn for your unfruit- Direct. IV. while under Affliction. 91 fulness under the means of grace and waterings of the Holy Spirit. Mourn for your sinning against such light and love as have been many days displayed to you in the glorious gospel. And in a special manner mourn for your sins of omission, which commonly are but lit- tle minded by us. Thus mourn for all thy sins till thou dost water thy couch with thy tears. It is most suitable that death should find every man, even every child of God, in the exercise of mourning and repent- ance; for they that thus sow in tears, shall eternally reap in joy. But see that your tears run much in the gospel-channel, and flow from the believing views of a crucified Christ, whom you have pierced by your sins* And, in the midst of your mourning, be still aiming to take faith's grips of the clefts of the rock, for shelter- ing thy soul from the guilt of bypast sins ; say, "Lord Jesus, I have no refuge but thy wounds, no fountain but thy blood, no covert but thy righteousness. And seeing thou freely makest offer of thy merits for my protection, and invitest even the chief of sinners to come unto thee, saying, Look unto me, and be ye saved; Lord I embrace the offer, and flee to thee to cover me." O, believer, do this, not once or twice; but do it an hundred times over; do it as long as thou hast a breath to draw in the world. Be still breathing, to the very last, after a crucified Jesus for relief against the guilt of sin, which thou art always contracting, and will be, till the earthly house of this tabernacle be dis- solved. Athly, In order to your actual readiness to go forth to meet the Bridegroom, when coming to you by death, you must do as the wise virgins, Matth. xxv. 7. "Arise, and trim your lamps." As it is not enough to have a fair lamp of profession, so it is not sufficient to have on- ly the oil of grace in the lamp, nay, or to have it burn- ing in some degree. There is more requisite at this time, that the soul may be actually ready; the lamp must be trimmed, which imports, 1st, A supplying it with more oil ; you must seek to have your grace in- 92 Directions to God's Children Chap. III. creased; tohave by degrees, new strength, and new sup- plies of grace given you from God, to fit you for the last conflict with your spiritual enemies, and especial- ly the last enemy, death. — c 2dly, It imports a -stir- ring up of the oil, and raising the wick some higher: So there must be an excitation of grace, which may be in a low declining condition ; you must endeavour to stir and raise it up to a more lively exercise, and more elevated acts. Stir up the gift that is in thee : make the oil burn clear and shine bright. Bring faith, love, repentance, and holy desires to a lively exercise. — Sdly, This trimming imports the cleansing of the lamp, by taking away the dead ashes that hinder the light, or prevent its burning so clearly as otherwise it would. So you must labour to take away the dead ashes of corruption, that hinder the shining of grace ; remove all unbelief, earthliness, deadness, self and formality, and whatever doth suppress the exercise of faith, love, and heavenly-mindedness. Let all these dead ashes be snuffed away by repentance and mortification. As you ought to strive earnestly against all these heart- evils in time of health, so now labour to give them a dead stroke when death's harbinger gives you a sum- mons. hthlij) Be diligent in gathering and summing up all your evidences for heaven and eternal life, that so you may not venture into the dark valley at an uncertainty. The comfort of dying will much depend on the clear- ness of your evidences; it is therefore your wisdom tc* examine them carefully, and see if you can say, *'I know in whom I have believed ; I have consented with my soul to the method of salvation laid down in the covenant of grace, I am desirous that the glory of it should be eternally ascribed to the free grace of God, and the creature be wholly abased in his sight." I have chosen God for my portion, and Christ for my only Saviour; and the happiness which I aim at, is to enjoy God in Christ for ever. " And in order thereto, I dev pend on the Holy Spirit, to apply the redemption which Direct. IV. while under Affliction. 93 Jesus Christ hath purchased to me, and to sanctify. me perfectly. There is no sin but what I hate and de- sire to part with. I would rather have more holiness than to have health, wealth, and all the pleasures in the world. I earnestly desire the flourishing of Christ's kingdom : and prefer Jerusalem to my chiefest joy," If these your evidences be clear, you may cheerfully take death by the cold hand, and welcome its grim messengers, and long to be gone, that you may be with Christ. You may say as Psalm xxiii. 4. " When I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil : for thou art with me/' You may go off the stage with the Psalmist's words in your mouth, Psalm xxxi. 5. u Into thine hand I commit my spirit; for thou hast redeemed me, O Lord God of truth." Qthly^ Labour earnestly to overcome the love of life and fears of death, so as to be content to part with all things here at God's call. O believer, what is there in this earth to tempt thee to hang back, when God calls thee to depart? While you are here, you may lay your account with many losses, crosses, disappoint- ments, griefs, and calamities of all sorts. "Friends will fail you, enemies will hate you, lusts will molest you, Satan will tempt you, and the world will deceive you. Death is the way that the dearest of God's saints and all the cloud of witnesses, hath gone before you; yea, the Lord Jesus, your Mead, hath trod this path, and hath taken the sting out of death, and hath paved a way through its dark valley, that his people may safely follow him. Hath the Captain of your salvation gone before you, and will any of his soldiers shrink to fol- low him? Art thou content to remain always at the same distance from him, and to enjoy no more of his presence than now you have? Are you satisfied to live for ever with no more knowledge of God, no more love to Christ, nomore holiness or heavenly-mindednessthan at present you have ? Do you not groan under your re- maining ignorance, deadness, wanderings, pride, pas» sion, unbelief, selfishness, worldliness, and other sin* 94< Directions to God's Children Chap. Ill, and lusts that here beset you? And are you not desir- ous to go to the place where you will be eternally free of them all, and where you will never complain of a dull, dead, or senseless frame of heart, or of any heart-wea- riness, nor wandering in duty any more? For the heart shall then be as a fixed pillar in the temple of God, and shall go no more out ; the eternal adoration and prais- es of God shall be the soul's delight and element for e- ver. By such considerations strive to conquer the fears of death, and desires of life, which are often great clogs to the people of God in their preparations for flitting. 7tkly, Be oft meditating upon the heavenly glory which shortly all believers will see and enjoy. Be much in the contemplation of the glorious company above, behold Christ upon his glorious throne at the right hand of God, and Abraham, David, Peter, Paul, and all the rest of the faithful ones, with their crowns of right- eousness, triumphing about their Redeemer. Think, O believer, how happy will that day be, when thou shalt meet with thy father and thy brethren, and when thou shalt see thy elder brother on the throne ready to pass sentence in thy favour ! What melody will that sentence sound in thine ears, " Come, ye blessed of my Father," &c. What frame wilt thou be in, when he sets the crown of glory on thy head ? O eternal free love ! wilt thou cry, " O Saviour, thou didst wear a crown of thorns, that I might wear a crown of glory, thou didst groan on the cross, that I might now sing. Wonderful free love that chused me, when thousands were past by ; that saved me from ruin, when my companions in sin must burn in hell for e- ver." Think, how ravishing it will be to meet with your godly acquaintances in heaven, with whom you prayed, and praised, and conversed here ! Will you not then cry out, { « O, my brethren, what a change is here ! This glorious place js not like the poor dwell- ings we had on earth ; this body, this soul, this state, this place, our clothes, our company, our language, our thoughts, are far unlike those we had then ! The Direct. IV. while under Affliction. 95 bad hearts, the body of death, the corruptions and temptations we then complained of, are all now o-one. We have no more fears of death or hell, no more use for repentance or prayer, faith or hope ; these are now swallowed up in immediate vision, eternal love, joy, and praise." And for thy help, O believer, in medi- tating on these things, read some parts of the book of Revelation, or cause them to be read to you; and sup- pose with yourself, you had been a companion with John in the Isle of Patmos, and had got such a view of the glorious majesty, the bright thrones, the hea- venly hosts, and shining splendour which he saw; the saints in their white robes, with crowns on their heads and palms in their hands, and heard them sink- ing the song of Moses and the Lamb, and trumpeting, forth their eternal hallelujahs : what a heavenly rapture wouldst thou have been in: Well then, O believer thou shalt shortly have clearer and sweeter sights than all these which John or any of the saints, ever saw here upon earth. Surely that heavenly glory is a sub- ject worthy of thy thoughts, and most suitable for thee to meditate on in time of sickness, and when in the view of death. Sthly, It would be also very suitable at this time, in order to your actual readiness for death, to be fre- quently looking out and longing for Christ's coming; as Abraham stood in his tent-door ready to go forth to meet the angels that were sent unto him, so should the believer keep himself in a waiting posture at this time. He should be like the loving wife, that longs and looks for the coming of her absent husband, according to his letters to her : by this time (thinks she) he will be at such a place, and against such a time he will beat an- other place, and so in a few days I shall see him. It is the character of believers, they are such as love his ap- pearing, 2 Tim. iv. 8. They desire his coming, Cant, viii. 14. " Make haste, my beloved, even so, come, Lord Jesus, come quickly." Believers should look upon themselves as pilgrims here, wandering in a wil- 96 Directions to God's Children Chap. III. derness absent from home, and at a distance from their Father's house; and in a time of affliction it is very pro- per for them to be crying, as David doth, P*al. Iv. 6. €t O that I had wings like a dove ! for then would I flee away, and be at rest : I would hasten my escape from the windy tempest." " O when shall the time of my pilgrimage, and the days of my banishment be finished, that I may get home to my country, and friends above? Oh ! my Lord is gone, my Saviour hath left the earth, and entered into his glory ; my friends and brethren are gone to their blessed rest, where they see God's face, and sing his praise for e- ver: and how can I be willing to stay behind when they are gone? Must 1 be sinning here when they are serving God above? Must I be groaning and sigh- ing, when they are triumphing and dividing the spoil ? Surely I will look after them, and cry, O Lord how long ? When shall I be with my Saviour and my God? Direct. V. Let believers in time of sickness endea- vour all they can to glorify God and edify those that are about them, by their speech and behaviour* TF ever a child of God be active to promote the hon- ■*■ our and glory of God, it should be in time of sick- ness ; and when death may be approaching; and there is good reason for it: for, \st> This may be the last op- portunity that ever thou shalt have to do any thing for God, and therefore thou shouldst study to improve it to the utmost. Heaven, to which thou art going, is the place where thou shalt receive thy reward; but thou canst have no access there to advance God's glory, by commending God and Christ and religion to sinners or weak believers. Upon this account, many of God's children have been content to suspend their heavenly happiness for a while, and to stay upon the earth for some longer time. 1 have read of a certain martyr, when going to suffer, who expressed some sorrow, that Direct. V. while under Affliction. 97 he was going thither, where he should do his God no more service, to wit, in the sense above explained. And of another, that saith, if it were possible there could be place for any grief in heaven, it would arise tirom the Christian's considering, that he did so little for God while he was upon the earth. Now is the working season ; O believer, be busy while it lasts, according to the example of thy blessed Saviour, John ix. 4?. " I must work the work of him that sent me while it is day, for the night cometh wherein no man can work." This consideration should make thee bestir thyself with the greatest activity, like Samson before his death, who when he could have no more opportunity to serve God and his church, he cried to God and said, Judges xvi. 28. " O Lord God remem- ber me, I pray thee, and strengthen me this once," And then he bowed himself with all his might, to pull down the pillars of Dagon's temple, being willing to sacrifice his life to the ruin thereof. Vclly, The holy speech and carriage of dying believers may, through the blessing of God, make deep impres- sion upon the hearts of unregenerate men that are wit- nesses to them. These who have derided the people of God for the strictness of their lives, and despised their counsel and reproofs, as proceeding from hu- mour or preciseness ; yet have begun to notice their words and actions, when they have seen them on sick- beds, and on the borders of eternity, and to have o- ther thoughts of religion and holiness than formerly they had. Now they think the man is in good earnest, and speaking the thoughts of his heart; and, if ever he can be believed, it must be now. It is most convin- cing to carnal persons, to see believers bearing up with patience under their sickness; to hear them speaking good of God, commending his ways, and rejoicing in God as their portion, in midst of their sharpest pains: to see them behaving as those that are going to dwell with Christ, smiling and praising God, when friends are sighing and weeping about them. This inclines G 98 Directions to God's Children Chap. III. them to th'nk, surely there must be a reality in reli- gion, there is a difference betwixt the death of the righteous and of the wicked. Hence a wicked Balaam wished to die the death of the righteous and to have his last end like his. It left a conviction upon that young man's conscience, who said to his loose compa- nion, after they had visited godly Ambrose on his death- bed, and saw how cheerful he was, and triumphing over approaching death; O that I might live with thee, and die with Ambrose ! Nay, such sights might draw not only to desire to die the death of the righteous, but also to resolve to live their lives. If carnal men saw believers going off the stage with such confidence and joy, as becomes these that are entering into eter- nal rest with Christ, and these that are going out of a howling wilderness to a glorious Canaan ! it might be a powerful invitation to them to go and seek after the same felicity. 3dli/ 9 This likewise would be very edifying and con*- firming to all that fear God, How much would it con- tribute to establish them in the practice of holiness, and to quicken them in their diligence in serving and glorifying of God in the days of their health, to hear a dying believer say, S5 of all the time which I have lived, I have no comfort now in reflecting upon one hour, but what I spent in the service of God. Were I to begin my life, I would redeem time more careful- ly than ever. One hour in communion with God is far sweeter than many years spent in worldly pleasures. Come here, then, all ye that fear God, and I will tell you what he hath done for my soul, O taste and see that God is good." Whly % Consider the examples of God's children in former ages, how useful and edifying their words have been, at such a time, to all round about them. But this head I intend to insist fully upon afterwards. Quest. But, how shall I behave so as I may glorify God and edify others, when I am sick or dying? I would have some particular directions for it. Direct. V. while under Affliction, 99 Am. 1st, You may do this by your patience under pain, and submission to God's will with respect to the evert, whether life or death. It is stumbling to others, to see believers fretful in trouble, and unwilling to leave the world when God calls them. But it is most convincing and confirming to see them frankly resign- ing themselves to God's disposal, saying, Let God him- self choose for me; he is wise, and knoweth best what is needful and most proper for me; I have no will, but God's will. For any man to desire to live when God calls him to die, or to desire to die when God calls him to live, is equally a sign of cowardice; for he that desires to live is afraid to look death in the face ; and he that desires to die, would flee from some calamity, and take shelter in death. But he is the most valiant man that can die willingly when God would have him die, and live as willingly when God would have him live: this is true Christian valour. 2dh/ 9 By pious exhortations and warnings to these that are about you. It may be the last occasion you may have of glorifying God this way ; O do not lose the season which may be usefully improven for the good of souls. For thus a believer may bring more honour to God, and more advantage to precious souls by his sickness and death, than ever he did by all his health and life in the world ; for their speeches have more weight with people at such a time, than at any other. Hence the Patriarchs, knowing the prevalen- cy of such words, do urge Joseph with Jacob's dying charge, Gen. 1. 16, 17. "And they sent a messenger unto Joseph, saying, thy father did command before he died, saying, so shall ye say unto Joseph, forgive, I pray thee now, the trespass of thy brethren," &c. And as we ought to be ready to give good counsels to all when, we lie on sick-beds, so especially we should be concerned for children and near relations : they are more affected than others with our sickness, and so will they be with our sayings, our admonitions may do them good, when we are rotting in the dust. 100 Directions to God's Children Chap. II L Quest. What ought to be the subject of our discours- es and exhortations to others at such a time ? Ans. 1st, It is very proper to be much in commend- ing the Master you have served, and the excellency of his service, to these that are about you. Tell them of the equity and goodness of these laws which you have obeyed, and of the bounty and faithfulness of that Lord whom you have worshipped, loved and praised ; and of the greatness and eternity of that reward you are going to possess. Let the children of God extol their Father, and his care of them and kindness to them. Let the ransomed of the Lord magnify their Redeemer, and his wonderful love and sufferings to them. Tell others what sweetness and satisfaction you have found in your own experience in attending God's ordinances^ and in secret duties; what comfort you have found in Christ and the promises of his covenant. And thus let your last breath be spent in exalting and commend- ing Christ and religion to others. 2dly 9 - Be warning others of the vanity of the worldj, and of all its wealth and pleasures: tell them that they may see by your case, that these things which people are bewitched with in the days of their health., can signify nothing to a sick or dying man; they cannot ease us of our pains, they can afford no peace to a troub- led soul, they cannot lengthen our lives one hour, and far less can they save from the wrath of an angry God* " Oh, may you say, what a miserable case had I been in at this time, if I had no better portion than this world, and nothing else to look to but its riches and pleasures ? Wherefore, sirs, set not your hearts upon it, but forsake it before you be forsaken by it, and make choice of that which will be supporting to you in the evil day." 3dly 9 Be warning them of the evil of sin, and what mischief and deceitfulness you have found in it. Tell them, that though the devil and the flesh would tempt you to look on sin as a harmless thing, yet the plea- sure will soon be gone a and a sharp sting will be left Direct. V. while under Affliction. 101 behind. Sin will appear no light matter, when the soul is going hence into the awful presence of a holy God. You would give a thousand worlds then for Christ, and the blood of atonement to answer for your sins. Wily, Tell them of the great difference betwixt the godly and the wicked man's choice. The godly man chooseth the better part that cannot be taken from him; he lays up his treasure in heaven where none can reach it, so that it yields him rich supplies when sickness and death come upon him. But O how foolish is the wicked man's choice, that for a moment's fleshly plea- sure, doth lose his immortal soul and everlasting hap^ piness ? Warn them to mind the one thing needful in time, and toot to pamper their bodies for the worms, but to set themselves presently to close in with the offers of Christ, and make sure an interest in his righteousness to cover them in the evil day. Sthh/, Be telling them of the evil of sloth and negli- gence in the work of their salvation; and be exhort- ing them to mind it, and to do*t with all their might. For however some may censure and deride God's peo- ple now for their strictness, diligence, and zeal in the matters of religion ; jet, when they come to die, they will be ready to wish that they had been more diligent .in salvation-work, that they had loved God, fled to Christ, and had sought and served him with all their hearts and souls ; and to cry, O for a little more time, O if God would recover and try us once more with health, how diligent would we be ! And tell them that those who have been most serious and painful in salvation-work, yet, when they come to die, do much lament their sloth and negligence: yea, these that have been most reproached by the world for their diligence and fervency, do often wish at that time, O that we had been a thousand times more diligent and labori- ous in God's service ! Qthhj, Labour to persuade others of the precious- sess of time, the wisdom of improving the time of G 3 102 Directions to God's Children Chap. III. youth, and of health ; and the great folly of delaying repentance and putting it off to a sick-bed. Say to them, "I find now by experience, that a time of sick- ness is a most unfit season to do any thing to purpose for the soul; my mind is so diverted and indisposed for spiritual work by sickness and pain, that I cannot attain to any suitable composure for it. And, how miserable were I, if I had all my work to begin at this time ! O take warning, and improve precious time, and especially the day of the gospel, the time of the Spirit's strivings, and the time of youth, which is the most usual season for the conversion of souls, and of bringing sinners into acquaintance with Jesus Christ.^ Direct. VI. Let God's Children when sick or dyings he expressing a great concern for the advancement of the kingdom of Christ, and of true religion in the rising generation, ^EAL and public-spiritedness for Christ's interest 4t4 are very becoming his people in all the periods of their life, but more especially at this time. When Christ is ready to take you into his kingdom in heaven, O be not unmindful of his kingdom on earth. It would be acceptable to God, and pleasant in the sight of men, to see you expressing a warm concern for the rising age, and for promoting the welfare of the souls of your children, and others, that survive you: and seeing you can be no longer useful to those who live behind, by your counsels, examples, or prayers, as for- merly, do your utmost for them now. And this con- cern the children of God, in time of sickness, may e- vidence several ways. Is*, By earnest prayers to God, both for the pros- perity of his church, and the flourishing of religion in general ; and also for your children and relations in particular, that they may be a holy seed, and a gene- ration to serve God, and shew forth his praise in the world, when you are gone off the stage. Direct. VI. while under Affliction. 103 2dly, By intrusting the care of your children's e- ducation to such tutors and guardians as will be much concerned for their souls, and will set before them godly examples and instructions in their young and tender years. 3dly, By filling your latter-wills and testaments with many pious advices, and solemn charges to your chil- dren and relations, with respect to their serving God and worshipping him in their families, and in secret; so as they can never look into your testaments, and the legacies left to them, but they will hear something that may be affecting, upstirring, and edifying to their .souls. stilly. By honouring the Lord with your substances and leaving something of what God hath blest you with, to pious uses ; particularly for the religious edu- cation of the children of the poor, for buying Bibles to them, and other good books, and for the propagating of Christian knowledge in ignorant places, such as the Highlands and Islands, by erecting and maintaining of schools therein : which glorious work is happily begun ? and pretty far advanced by that honourable society at Edinburgh, whose treasurer is ready to receive dona- tions from all such as the Lord pleaseth to move to make a free-will offering for promoting that pious de- sign. Many pious persons have contributed already thereto ; and it were desirable that others, whom God hath enabled for it, should mind it before they die: for by fatal experience we may observe, that the most godly parents do not know how their children will em- ploy the estate they leave them, whether as fuel for their lusts, or as oil to feed the lamps in God's sanc- tuary. It is proper for themselves then, before they go offthe stage, to dispose of some part of their substance for the glory and service of that God, who gave it all unto them. 5tklij, It might contribute to promote piety, and to make the deeper impressions upon the minds of your children and friends, if under the warnings of death.. 104? Directions to God's Children Chap. III. you should imitate the example of the prophet Elijah, who in his life-time made a writing which he procur- ed to be delivered to king Jehoram after his death, 2 Chron. xxi. 12. So, in like- manner, you might write letters, and leave them in the hands of your friends and executors, full of advices, charges, admonitions, consolations, or threatenings, to be delivered to your children or friends, upon occasion either of their good Or bad conversation, after your death : which probably would be more regarded by them, than the counsels you gave them in the time of your life; for in some respect they would be received and read by them, as if they were letters from heaven. ^^•W** V<1 ■*.-«. Direct. VII. Let the children of God labour to for- tify themselves what they can against all Satan's temptations and assaidts, which they may expect to meet with in time of sickness and affliction. A Time of affliction is commonly a time for tempta- tion : for the old serpent knows the fittest seasons for assaulting the children of God : and he will not be wanting to improve this opportunity of ad- vantage for setting upon the poor soul. When Pha- raoh heard that the people were entangled in the wil- derness, he pursued them ; so, when Satan sees a soul entangled with distresses and troubles, he thinks it high time to make an attack. He seeks to winnow and sift away the believer's grace, and therefore he comes when the corn is a thrashing by the rod. When Job was smitten in his estate, health, and all other com- forts, then this coward falls upon him, and tempts him to impatience, murmuring, and wrong thoughts of God. At this time, O believer ! you have special need to be on your guard, and look out ; reckon always when sickness or trouble cometh, the prince of this world cometh also. Stand then to your defence, and put on Direct. VI T. "while under Affliction. 105 your armour, especially the shield of faith, that you may be able to quench the fiery darts of the devil You have need at this time to put in practice our Lord's direction. " Watch and pray, that ye en- ter not into temptation." Pray for wisdom and skill to counteract him, and that you may not be ignorant of his devices: and pray particularly for grace to make you proof against all his false representations of God and his providence to you ; for he that durst repre- sent Job falsely to an all-seeing and all- knowing God, will with much boldness represent God falsely to you, who see and know so little. He will be ready to tempt you to think that God is angry with you and dealing with you as an enemy ; thus was Job tempted Job xxxiii. 10, 11. " Behold, he findeth occasions a- gainst me, he counteth me for his enemy ; he putteth rny feet in the stocks, he marketh all my paths," But observe what Elihu answers, "In this thou art not just; God is greater than man. Why dost thou strive against him; for he giveth not account of any of his matters." But seeing I spoke before of the wrong thoughts of God which we are apt to harbour in time of affliction, Chap. II. Direct. III. I shall proceed to speak of some other temptations wherewith Satan doth assault God's people when in distress: and fur- nish some answers thereto. 1. " Saith the tempter, Thou art nothing but a hy- pocrite ; all thy religious performances have been done in hypocrisy, to be seen of men ; thou never hast repented nor believed sincerely in the sight of God." Ans. I acknowledge there hath been much hypo*, crisy in me, but I hope it isnot allowed, and reign- ing hypocrisy; I always wrestled against it; where- fore I am not a hypocrite. I regarded the esteem of men too much, but I hope I valued the esteem of God much more. My faith and repentance are weak, but I hope they are sincere. And, whatever defects and shortcomings have formerly cleaved to these gra- 106 Directions to God's Children Chap, IIL ces in me, I do now unfeignedly repent of all my sins, I look to him that I have pierced and mourn ; I am heartily willing to be justified by the righteousness of Christ alone, and to be cleansed and sanctified by his Spirit ; and here I give up myself to Christ as my on- ly Saviour. And this 1 hope is, through grace, true repenting and believing, which God will accept for Christ's sake, whatever my former defects have been. Tempt, 2 "But saith the tempter, Thy repentance cannot be true; for thy heart is not broken, and thine eyes do not shed tears for sin." Ans. It is my very great burden, and constant complaint to God, that I cannot attain to a greater measure of sorrow and contrition for sin ; but yet it is my comfort that repentance is not to be confined to such degrees and symptoms of sorrow as some do win at, I hope I can say, through grace, that my heart is set against all sins great and small, and I would give all I have in the world to be wholly delivered from sin. Tempt 3. " Saith the tempter, But thy day of grace is past, it is too late for t§iee to think of repenting or believing; God will not accept of thee now." Ans, But I hope it is not so with me, seeing God gives me a heart that pants after God and Christ in the way of commanded duty. The offers of salvation through Christ, are made to all who believe and re- pent ; and late penitents are not excluded from the benefit of these gracious offers more than others. Tempt. 4. " But saith the tempter, Thou art none of God's elect, and, if thou be not chosen to salva- tion thou canst not be saved." Ans, Secret things belong unto God, and it were presumption in me to pry into his secret decrees ; but one thing I am sure of, that every soul that is chosen to faith and repentance, is also chosen to salvation : but I trust God hath chosen me to the former, and therefore to the latter. Tempt, 5. tf But saith the temper, You overvalue Direct. VII. while under Affliction. 10? your graces and duties, and so they cannot be true and real." Ans. But I count them all but loss and dung in comparison of Christ. I desire always to be deeply humbled under a sense of my sinfulness and unwor- thiness, and to abhor every motion that would carry me away from Christ and his righteousness, and would tempt me to rely on my graces or duties, or put them in the least in Christ's room. Tempt. 6. " The issue of thy sickness may be death, and thou art not ready, for thou hast ifo assurance of thy salvation." Ans. A perfect certainty is not to be expected here; there will be still some questionings, some doubts, and fears ; but these I resolve not to indulge now, but to break through all, that I may embrace Christ and be found in him. The desires of my soul are to Christ and the remembrance of his name: and such, I believe, he will not suffer to perish. " I be- lieve, Lord help my unbelief," Tempt. 7. " But thou art a stranger to the invisible world; how wilt thou adventure into that world of spirits, with which thou hast so little acquaintance ?" Ans. But Christ, who is my Head and best friend, is no stranger to it; he is the Lord of that land, and provides mansions for all his people there ; and he will receive every one of them home and lodge them safely. " The spirits of just men made perfect" were once what my spirit now is ; they were strangers to that world before they came to it, as well as I : but their Head being in it, encouraged them to go to it; and now they rejoice in it as the kindly dwelling-place oF all the saints. Tempt. 8. " But thou art vile, and God is infinitely pure and glorious; how canst thou think of approach- ing so near to him ?" Ans. Though a weak eye be not able to look np- on the sun, yet I hope to be fitted and strengthened for that glorious sight. Besides, God doth now ap- 108 Directions to GocTs Children Chap. III. pear to us in his Son Jesus Christ, where his infinite glory is pleasantly vailed, so as saints may behold him. These glorified souls above were once vile as well as others; but their Saviour did cleanse them, and pre- sent them to the Father without spot or wrinkle. And whatever be my unworthiness, I am relieved by con- sidering my union with Christ, and looking on the glory and dignity of my Head. Surely God will not despise the members of his dear Son, nor trample on any that are his flesh and bones. Tempt. 9. " But, what will become of thy wife and children when thou art taken from them?" Am. If I trust God so willingly with my soul, and my eternal concerns, why may I not trust him with my relations also? Have I not seen how wonderfully he hath provided for others? Doth not every thing in the world depend upon his will and pleasure? How easy is it then for God to supply his own ?' Tempt. 10. "But still death is terrible to nature, even the king of terrors." Am. But my Redeemer hath tasted death for me, and taken out its fearful sting; he hath conquered death, and keeps the keys of death and hell. Where-' fore through him will I sing, Ci O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory ?" Tempt. 11. " But it is terrible to think of appearing before God's tribunal to be tried and judged." Am. But my friend and intercessor will be the judge there. Will Christ condemn the members of his own body, and these he hath so often comforted ? But, besides all these, a holy God may sometimes suffer the tempter to assault his own people, in time of their affliction, with his fiery darts and his fiercest battering engines, such as temptations to atheism, blas- phemy, despair, &c. whereby their souls may be ter- ribly shaken and sore amazed. Your relief, in this case, is to look up to your Head, and remember how he was himself buffeted by this enemy, and assaulted with the most odious temptations, Direct. VI. "while under Affliction, 109 that he might thereby get an experimental touch and feeling of your condition, in order to his sympathiz- ing with you, and relieving you from this enemy, whom he hath already conquered in your name. But «'for these things he will be inquired of by the house of Israel." You must act faith on your exalted Head. CHAP. IV. CONTAINING SOME SPECIAL DIRECTIONS, TO UNREGENERATE PER- SONS, WHEN AFFLICTED BY SICKNESS OR OTHERWISE. Direct. I. Take a serious view of the miserable con* dition of a Christless person under sickness or heavy affliction, 1st, CONSIDER the vast difference betwixt your ^ case, and that of a true believer: he hath ground of consolation in the greatest distress, but you have none. However sharp the rod of correction be to him, yet it is in the hand of a father, but you have to do with an angry and sin-revenging God : and who may stand in his sight, if once he be angry ? For he commands both the first and second death, and he can send you both unto the grave and hell at -once, Rev. vi. 8. " Hell followed the pale horse." Death is the king of terrors, but hell is a thousand times more ter- rible. When God afflicts his children, he stands to them in the relation of a loving father; but he deals with you as an incensed judge. Though he sees it necessary for their good to chastise them, yet he doth it with a relenting heart; yea, every stroke goetb, as it were, to his heart, Isa. lxiii. 9. " In all their af- fliction he was afflicted." But, when he ariseth to punish his enemies, he strikes them with hatred and detestation, as a man would do a toad or venemous creature. Though they cry, he hath no pity, Prov. i. 26. " I will laugh at your calamity, and mock when your fear cometh." Idly, If your sickness threaten you with death, what a dark and melancholy prospect must you have H 110 Directions to God's Children Chap. IV. of your approaching change? Why, O Christless soul, it is what you are wholly unprepared for. The old house falls down about your ears, before you have an- other lodging provided. When death casts you to the door, you have not where to lay your head, unless it be on a bed of fire and brimstone. O how surprising and fearful will the change be, that death will make on you ! A change from earth to hell, from light to darkness, from comforts to terrors, from hope to despair, from the offers of grace to the revelation of wrath, a change from the society of the saints on earth, to the company of the damned in hell. Whatever fond hopes of salvation you have now, your hope shall lead you no further than to the king of terrors ; and then " your hope shall be cut off, and your trust like a spider's web," Job viii. 14. Though it cost you much pains to weave and support this web now, it will prove a weak and slender defence to your soul; when death comes with his besom of destruction, and sweeps both you and it away to hell. You will then be tak- en from all the means of grace you have abused, and be for ever deprived of an opportunity of buying oil; your lamp shall go out at death, and never be lighted any more. 3dly, In this extremity, you have no where to look to for comfort. O Christless sinner, what will you do in the day of visitation? to whom will you flee for help? Your houses, your lands, your money, your ho- nours, your companions, your relations, will all be mis- erable comforters to you. Every thing will look black and dismal round about you. If you look without you for help, you may see your friends weeping and lament- ing your case; but this will do nothing but increase your vexation and misery. If you look within you for relief, conscience, that before you would not suffer to speak, will meet you with bitter stings and upbraid- ings. It will bring to your view the sins you had for- got, the time you have mispent, the health you have misimproven, the offers of grace you have refused, the Direct. II. while under affliction. Ill great salvation you have neglected. What folly was it for thee to provoke God and slight Christ, for a lit- tle worldly profit, or a little brutish pleasure? Can these relieve thee, when the arrows of the Almighty stick within thee, and the terrors of God do set them- selves in array against thy soul? In the mean time, the devil, that tempted you to your soul-ruining course, will step in, and represent your sins in the blackest colours and aggravations, to render you altogether hopeless and desperate. O sinner, thou that refusedst rest from Christ in the day of health and grace, shalt find no ease from the creature in the day of sickness and death. Your sickness will allow no rest to your body, and your sins will permit no ease to your soul. You may expect the fulfilling of that threatening, Deut. xxviii. 65. " The Lord shall give thee a trembling heart, and failing of eyes, and sorrow of mind. And thy life shall hang in doubt before thee, and thou shalt have fear day and night. In the morning thou shalt say, would God it were even? and at even thou shalt say, would God it were morning,' , because of the pain of thy body, and anguish of thy spirit. Direct. II. Let unregenerate persons carefully i?n- prove their sickness and affliction as means to far- ther their conversion; and pray that God may bless it for that end. "TyrANY have begun their acquaintance with God -*•**■ and with themselves, in the time of affliction: the furnace is frequently the Spirit's workhouse where he forms his vessels of praise. There are many who, while health and strength continue, mind nothing but vain pleasures; one day they go to their games and sports, another day to their cups and lascivious com- pany, another day to visiting their friends; and thus they spend the whole time of their health and prosperi- ty in sin and vanity. All the warnings, counsels, and exhortations of parents, friends, and ministers do them no good. They cannot endure to entertain a serious 112 Directions to God's Children Chap. IY. thought of God, or Christ, of death, of heaven, of hel) y or judgment to come. But, when God doth cast them into sickness or some great affliction, they (through the blessing of God) begin to come to themselves, like the prodigal, and think of returning again to their father. Several instances to this purpose might be given. The Earl of Rochester is a late one, whose U^ .was notori- ously lewd, profane, and atheistical; and who had wick- edly employed his wit and parts to the ridicule of reli- gion; yet when he was afflicted with pain and sickness, and brought to the gates of death, he began to enteF- tain quite other apprehensions than he had done be- fore; he professed he had serious and reverend thoughts of religion and holiness, which before he laughed at; he most earnestly and affectionately warned others to aban- don their evil courses, and to live religiously and so- berly, and to look upon religion as the greatest reality in the world; he retracted all his impious and profane language, wherewith he used to reflect on the ways of godliness, and willingly attested all this under his hand. Pray then for the divine blessing on your sickness, that it may contribute to the conversion of your soul, which it doth several ways; \st> By opening men's eyes to get a true sight of things, to behold religion in its true shape, and sin in its proper colours; hence the rod is said to give wisdom, Prov. xxix. 15. They who have mocked at religion, and made light of sin all their days, have been taught by bodily sickness to change their tune. Then they begin to have esteem of the Bible, and to value and send for a pious minister, and to desire the prayers of the people of God; now they perceive sin to be bitter as gall and wormwood, they loathe and abhor that which they liked before; now the word of God makes a deep impression on them, and particularly such a word as that, Jer. ii. 19. " Know therefore and see that it is an evil thing and bitter, that thou hast forsaken the Lord thy God." 2c%, Sickness helps to set the word preached home Direct. III. while under Affliction* 118 upon the heart. When God speaks to us in the day of health and prosperity, we oft give him a deaf ear, Jer. xxii. 21. but when distress comes, it brings the words of God and of his ministers to our remembrance, as it brought Joseph's to the remembrance of his brethren, Gen, xlii. 21. 3dlj/ 9 Sickness contributes to loose a man's heart from the world, and to cool his love thereto; whereby a great hindrance of conversion is removed out of the way, and the man is made to say, " How vain and helpless are the world's comforts to me now ! these things I delighted in formerly are tasteless to me at this time. There is no portion can suit soul's needs, but God himself." 4thly, It spurs a man on to prayer that formerly ne- glected it. When the prodigal is brought to distress, he says, *' I will arise, and go to my father." He for- gat his father before, but now he will address him, Hos. v. 15. " In their affliction they will seek me early." Thus the Lord frequently begins and promotes the con- version of souls to himself. And, O sinner, if this be the fruit of thy sickness, it will not be unto death, but the glory of God. iWtM^WMWi** «l\\M«\\\%\M Direct. III. Be careful to obey God's voice in the rod, and beware of slighting it. TCWERY sickness hath a message from God, and -" his voice you ought to hearken to with reverence and attention, Micah vi. 9. What saith he to you at this time? O sinner, he saith, " Retire from the world, think on death and eternity, abhor these lusts and idols which God is smiting you for, flee speedily to the stronghold," "repent and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out." This is God's voice to you, and consider how provoking it will be to him, if you slight it. +^£st, You will provoke God to slight your voice when p you cry to him, and stop his ear against the voice of your supplications, Zech. vii. 13. H 3 114- Directions to God' s children Chap. IV. 2dly, You will provoke God to cease from being a reprover to you, so that he will speak to you no more. 3dly, You will provoke him to bring heavier judg- ments on you, yea, so to draw his sword of justice a- gainst you, that he will sheathe it up no more, as he threatens, Ezek. xxi. 5. 4tthly, God may break off all intercourse and corres- pondence with you, as with those, Ezek. xx. 31. " As I live, saith the Lord God, I will not be inquired of by you." 5thly, He may seal you up for ever under your sins, hardness and pollutions ; and say to yon, as to some we read of, Ezek. xxii. 13. Hos. iv. 7. Rev. xxi. 11. " Because I have purged thee, and thou wast not purg- ed, thou shalt not be purged from thy filthiness any more, till I have caused my fury to rest upon thee. Ephraim is joined to his idols, let him alone. He that is filthy, let him be filthy still. He that is hardened against the voice of my rods, let him be hardened still." Well then, O sinners, while God is in speaking terms with you, hearken to his voice, and obey it; say, "Lord, what wilt thou have me to do?" kUUWVWt««MMW Direct. IV. Cast back your eyes upon the sins of your by-past life, and labour to be deeply humbled for them before the Lord. QEEING you are summoned to prepare for going to *p the judgment-seat of God, where your soul is to receive its final sentence, labour to prevent the terror of that appearance, by your judging yourself before- hand. And this you must do, by summoning yourself before the bar of conscience, examining narrowly into your state, accusing and condemning yourself for your sins. And see that you be impartial in this work, will- ing to know the truth, and discover the worst of your case. You must see and be duly sensible of your dan- ger, otherwise you cannot think to escape it. Take a narrow view of your sins in their nature, number, ag- Direct. IV. while under Side ness. 115 gravations and deservings. And in order to this, if thou hast any measure of strength for it, let the expo- sition of the ten commandments in our Larger Cate- chism be distinctly read over unto thee. Make a pause upon every question, and say within thyself, " Have I not omitted what is here required by God ? And, have I not committed what is here forbidden by God? How oft have I repeated these sins? How long have I lived in the practice of them ? O ! do not so many years' sins need a very serious repentance, a very deep humiliation? O! doth not such a vile sinner as I, stand greatly in need of Christ to be my cautioner and ran- somer for such a vast number of sins ? Will not their weight press me eternally down to the lowest hell, if they remain unpardoned, and be laid upon my back?' ? Wherefore view them closely, and confess them parti- cularly before God, 1st, In the first place, bewail thy original sin, the fountain of all thy actual transgressions, as did David, Psalm li. 5. " Behold, I was shapen in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me." 2dly, Acknowledge and mourn over the sinful out- breakings of thy life, whereby thou hast dishonoured God, and grieved his Holy Spirit: and especially sins against light. 3dly 9 Be humbled for thy sins of omission, for ne- glecting of commanded duties, particularly for the ne- glect of prayer in secret, and of family- religion. 4tthly 9 Mourn for the loss of precious time. Alas ! for the time of youth misspent, many Sabbath-days trif- led away ! 5iJfh} 9 Lament thy long slighting of Christ, and sal- vation through his righteousness, which so pressingly hath been offered to thee in the gospel. 6thly, Bewail thy stifling the convictions, and quench- ing the motions of the Spirit, and thereby provoking him to depart from you. lthly 9 Mourn for thy unthankfulness to God for mer- cies and deliverances, which might have allured you to repentance and newness of life. 116 Directions to the Unregenerate Chap. IV. Sthly, Confess thy stubbornness under former afflic- tions, which hath provoked God to send new trials upon you. 9thly, Be humbled for thy earthly-mindedness, in that thou hast all thy days been careful and cumbered about many things, and hast neglected the one thing necessary. lOthly, Mourn for the lateness of thy repentance, and thy prodigious folly in delaying so long to bethink thyself, and to turn to the Lord. " Oh how unwisely have I acted, to misspend the time of health, and delay so great a work till now that I am laid on a sick-bed ! And now, if I die before I am converted, I am lost for ever. O Lord, I am ashamed and confounded at my madness and folly, and have no excuse to plead for myself, but must stand afar off, with the poor publican, and smite upon my breast, and cry, « God be merciful to me a sinner." Direct. V. Flee 'presently to Jesus Christ by a true faith, and close with him as offered to you in the gos- pel. A RT thou sensible, O sinner, of thy grievous guilt ■*?*" and ill-deservings before God? Then do not de- spair; for Jesus Christ, who hath offered to divine jus- tice, an all-sufficient sacrifice for sin, is offering himself to thee, saying, O distressed sinner, " Look unto me and be saved. Turn unto me, why will ye die? Come unto me, heavy laden soul, and I will give you rest. He that cometh to me, I will in no wise cast out." Will not such gracious words, such moving calls, melt thy heart within thee, and make thee cry to him, " Lord Jesus, I flee to thee as my refuge for deliver- ance from sin, and protection from the wrath to come; I look to thy wounds, I trust in thy righteousness, I depend on thy merit, I lie at thy feet ; and this I am resolved to do as long as I have breath to draw in the world." Direct. VI. while under Affliction, 117 Direct. VI. Call for the elders of the church, that they may pray over you in your sickness, THIS is the apostle James' directions to the sick, James v. 14. He doth not say if any man be sick, let him send for the physicians, but for the elders or ministers. It is true, physicians are to be called, but not in the first place. It was Asa's fault, that, in his disease, he sought not to the Lord, but to the physicians; and alas, how many follow his example! ministers are only called for in the last place, and very often when time is past, the sick being at the point of death, and scarce capable to speak or hear. But if you desire to reap beni- fit by the instructions and prayers of ministers, call for them timeously, and open your case unto them; seek their counsel, and beg for their prayers. It is their office to teach and pray for you, and they have au- thority to offer salvation to you through Christ, and to minister comfort to them that are cast down: where- fore a blessing may be expected on their ministrations and performances more than others. Hence God said to Abimelech, of Abraham, Gen. xx. 7. " He is a prophet, and he shall pray for thee." And to Job's friends concerning Job, Job xlii. 8. " Go to my ser- vant Job, and he shall pray for you, for him will I ac- cept ; lest that I deal with you after your folly." And Lastly, Remember, that as the apostle James enjoins the sick to call for the elders to pray over them, so at the same time he directs you, James v. 16. to confess your sins one to another, Christian to Christian, one friend to another, the people to their ministers. Not that this gives any warrant for the Pa- pists their auricular confessions, which they force up* on all men, to their priests, as a satisfaction for sin, and whereby they rack their consciences (when they feel no distress) to confess their most secret sins, and to enumerate them all under pain of damnation; and which they use as a politic art to dive into the secrets of 118 Directions to the Unregenerate Chap. V. princes, states, and all private persons: but as Luther, Calvin, Beza, and many other orthodox divines do teach, it is very profitable and necessary for these that are inwardly troubled with a sense of their sins, to ease and disburden their consciences, by confessing them to the faithful ministers of Christ, in order to their receiv- ing suitable counsels and consolations from them, such as Christ hath left in his word for contrite- hearted penitents. Thus let every man in sickness use all appointed means for preparing his soul for a future state. Thy preparation will by no means hasten death, but sweet- en it to you. Death must surely have a most formi- dable aspect to an unprepared sinner; he may salute it, as Ahab did Elijah, " Hast thou found me, O mine enemy?" Why? it brings heavy and doleful tidings to him. But a prepared soul may salute death, Welcome, O my friend! Thou bringest me tidings of great joy: everlasting deliverance from sin, and all the bitter fruits of it. I shall never complain of these any more. ► "V* V» VV%VV»*«V> WV-WV"V"k"W CHAP. V. CONTAINING DIRECTIONS TO THE PEOPLE OF GOD, WHEN THE LORD IS PLEASED TO RECOVER THEM FROM SICKNESS AND DISTRESS. Direct. I. It is very proper, both under sickness and- after it, to examine if the affliction be sanctified to you, and hath come from the love of God. IT would be very comfortable for us to know that the afflictions which God visits us with, are not the pun- ishment of a judge, but the chastisement of a father; that they do not proceed from wrath, but from love; that they are not curses, but blessings to us. Now, the best way of knowing this is by the effects which they work and produce in us, through the blessing of God. 1st, Canst thou say, that thy afflictions hath humbled Direct. I. 'whin recovered from Sickness. 119 thee in the sight of God, and made thee to confess and bewail thy sins and strayings from God as the procur- ing cause thereof? Hath it been like Moses' rod, that smote the rock and fetched out much water? Did you water your couch with tears, and mourn humbly before God for all thy God-provoking sins? Then it is a good sign sickness is sanctified. 2^%, Doth thy affliction drive thee nearer God, and cause thee aim at closer communion with God in duty than formerly, saying, " However careless and over- ly I have been in duty in time past, it is surely good for me now to draw near to God?" Then thy sickness is a blessing to thee. 3dly, Affliction is sanctified, when the corruption and deceitfulness of the heart is the more discovered and laid open to the view of the soul; so as the man is made to abhor himself in dust and ashes, and cry out as the leper, Unclean, unclean, I never could have thought my heart was so wicked as I now see it. 4thly 9 It is a sanctified sickness, that purgeth the heart and changeth the life, and gives a dead stroke to thy sins and idols, and makes thee to loath it and abhor them more than ever, saying with Ephraim, 6i What have I to do any more with idols." 5thly, It is a blessed rod, when grace is more quickened and stirred up thereby, and the man turns more fruitful in holy duties and good works; when it is a budding and blossoming rod like to Aaron's, Numb. xvii. It is recorded there of Aaron's rod, that it brought forth buds, bloomed blossoms, and yielded almonds. So it is happy with us, when our rods and sicknesses do produce in us, not only the buds of a profession, or the blossoms or some begin- nings of a reformation, but even cause us to yield al- monds, fruit savoury to God. Is conscience become more tender with respect to sin ? Are we more jea- lous over our hearts? Are we more fervent in prayer, more lively in praise, more mortified to the world, more desirous of communion with God ? Then may 120 Directions to God's People Chap. V. we say with David, " It is good for us we have been afflicted;" and with Hezekiah, " Thou hast, in love to my soul, delivered it from the pit of destruction." Direct. II. Make conscience of offering to God the sa- crifice of thanksgiving, upon his recovering thee from sickness or any distress, THE Psalmist gives us this direction from God, Psal. 1. 14, 15. and he shews us that it was his own practice in such a case, Psalm cxvi. 16. Psal. ciii. 1, 2, 3, &c. The command is just, let us obey it; the example is excellent, let us imitate it. " Praise is comely for the upright." Here I shall give some mo- tives and advices. 1st, God, who is the author of all thy mercies and deliverances, gives you tongues for this very end, that you may bless and praise him for these mercies, James iii. 9. Hence man's tongue is called his glory above the rest of the creatures, Psal. lvii. 8. There is none in the creation so endued and qualified for praising God as man is. Angels have reason and minds, whereby they adore and admire God's goodness and excellency, but have no tongues to praise him; beasts have tongues, but without speech or reason to use them; but man hath both reason and speech, that he may both admire God's goodness, and with his tongue sound forth God's praise. See then, O believer, that you use your tongue to answer the end of your creation. God'loseth his due rent of praise from the rest of the world, but he expects it from his children, whom he hath formed for this end, and on whom he hath be- stowed many distinguishing favours. 2dly, The sacrifice of thanksgiving is most pleasing and acceptable to God. He loves your tears and pray^ ers, O believer, but much more your praises. How well pleased was our Lord with the poor leper Sama- ritan, that returned and gave him thanks for curing his bodily distemper ! Luke xvii. He dismissed him Direct. II. when recovered from Sickness. 121 with a special blessing, and cured him of his soul's diseases, as well as of his body's. And therefore, Sdly, Consider that thankfulness for any mercy re- ceived is a most profitable course for yourself; for h is the way to get more and better blessings bestowed upon you, according to Psal. Ixvii. 5, 6. * Let the peo- ple praise thee, O God : then shall the earth yield her increase; and God, even our own God, shall bless us." Thanksgiving for former mercies is a kindly way of petitioning for new favours, and God will understand it in this sense. Mhly, God is so well pleased with the duty of thanksgiving, that he honours it to be the eternal work of heaven. Whereas other graces, such as faith, nope, and repentance, will then be melted into love and joy for ever; so other duties of worship, such as reading, hearing, and praying, will then be changed into that of praise and thanksgiving; the glorified com- pany above will never be weary of this work; and shall not we "delight in it now, when God is calling us to it by so many new mercies? In the next place, that thou mayest offer the sacri- fice of thanksgiving to God for thy recovery, with gracious acceptance, I shall lay before you the follow- ing advices. 1. See that your heart be touched with a sense of the greatness of the mercy, and of the goodness of God manifested therein. We must put a due value upon our mercies, and have our hearts affected with. God's kind dealings towards us in them ; if w^would be rightly thankful to God the author of them. Hence it was that David called upon his heart, and all within him to bless the Lord for his benefits, Psal. ciii. 1. and, in Psal. exxxviii. l. he saith, "I will praise thee with my whole heart." As, in an. instrument of music, the more the sound comes out of the belly of it, it is the sweeter; so our prayer is the more accep- table to God, when the heart is full of gracious aff tions. I 122 Directions to God's People Chap. V. 2. Let your praise be the native result of faith and love in your soul, otherwise it will be but an empty sound. Faith is necessary to draw by the vail, and shew us the perfections of the invisible God, who is the spring and author of all our mercies ; love gives a deep sense of his goodness, enlargeth the heart towards God, and opens the lips to shew forth his praises. 3. Study to have a deep sense of your own un wor- thiness and ill-deservings at the Lord's hand, upon the account of your sins and ill improvement of former deliverances, saying with Jacob, Gen. xxxii. 10. "I am not worthy of the least of all thy mercies." 4. Look above instruments and second causes, and do not ascribe your recovery to physicians or outward means, but to the Lord, the prime author of it, whose blessing alone it is that gives efficacy and success to the appointed means, and by whose mercy only we are spared and brought back from the gates of the grave. To this the apostle attributes Epaphroditus his recov- ery, Phil. ii. 27. *' Indeed he was sick nigh unto death, but God had mercy on him." Hence we are told, I Sam. ii. 6. " The Lord bringeth down to the grave, and bringeth up." 5. Observe narrowly the remarkable circumstances of the Lord's goodness, and the sweet ingredients of thy mercies: as for instances, (1.) How discernible the Lord's hand was in thy deliverance, which obligeth thee to say, " Surely this is the finger of God ! This is the Lord's doing and it is marvellous in mine eyes." (2.) How thy deliverance came to thee as the return of prayer, that makes thee say, surely he is a prayer- hearing God. (3.) How deliverances came when there was but little ground to hope for it. See how Hezekiah observed this ingredient in his recovery from sickness, Isa. xxxviii. 10, 11. " I said in the cut- ting off of my days, I shall go to the gates of the grave: I am deprived of the residue of my years. I said I shall not see the Lord, even the Lord in the land of the living: I shall behold man no more with the inhabitants Direct II. when recovered from Sickness. ■ 123 of the world." ver. 15. " What shall I say? He hath both spoken to me, and himself hath done it." Some- times God sends deliverances to his people when they are most hopeless, and saying with the captives in Ba- bylon, Ezek. xxxvii. 1 1. '« Behold, our bones are dried, and our hopes are lost, and we are cut off for our parts." (4.) Remember how the extremity of thy distress was God's opportunity of sending relief. Abraham never forgot the seasonableness of God's appearing for him in his extreme need upon Mount Moriah, when he call- ed the name of the place Jehovah-Jireh, for preserv- ing the memorial of it; w In the mount of the Lord it shall be seen." So doth David, Psal. x-cvi. " I was brought low, and he helped me." 6. Let the present deliverance bring all former mer- cies to thy remembrance, that so thou mayest praise God for them all, whether they be national or person- al mercies, public or private, spiritual or temporal. New mercies should revive the memory of the old, and all of them should come above board at such a time; so doth the Psalmist direct, Psalm cv. 2.