-/ .3.0^ V' .wo. « ^ PRINCETON, N. J. ^4f, Presented by C^TX v:S .lJ\ V^r\ (D\ a. (3tvAU O^ BX^119 .A33 1863 Aids to prayer .i ' >♦. ». H N X • » ►%> (U/^,^^^^X^ '^ 13V w y Aids to Prayer. " More things are wrought by prayer Than this world dreams of. For what are men better than sheep or goats, That nourish a bUnd life within the brain, If, knowing God, they lift not hands of prayer Both for themselves and those who call them friend ? For so the whole round earth is every way Bound by gold chains about the feet of God." Tesnvson. NrbD-gcrk : DEALER IX RELIGIOUS BOOKS, 6S3 BROADWAY. 1863. COISlTElfTS. PAGB INTRODUCTION, 5 OUR FATHER, 15 GOD'S TENDER MERCY, . . . . 33 THE REASON OF PRAYER, .... 51 THE GREAT EXEMPLAR. . . . . .77 " COME BOLDLY TO THE THRONE," . . 91 THE SCOPE OF PRAYER, 113 THE AID OF THE SPIRIT, . . . .125 HUMILITY BEFORE GOD, 139 THE PRAYER-MEETING, . . . .147 THE PRAYERLESS LIFE, . . . . .159 APPENDIX, In Kntrotruction, Acts xvii. 25-28. " He giveth to all life, and breath, and all things ; and hath made of one blood all nations of men for to dwell on all the face of the earth ; and hath determined the times before appointed, and the bounds of their habitation ; that they should seek the Lord, if haply they might feel after him, and find him, though he be not far from every one of us : for in him we live, and move, and have our being ; as certain also of your own poets have said, For we are also his off- spring." 1 Thess. v. 17. " Pray without ceasing." 1 Tim. ii. S. " I will therefore that men pray every where, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting.*' ISA. Iv. 6-7. " Seek ye the Lord while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near. Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts : and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him : and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon." Ps. xxxiv. 10. " The young lions do lack, and suffer hunger : but they Uiat seek the Lord shall not want any good thing." *' My God ! is any hour so sweet, From blush of morn to evening star, As that which calls me to Thy feet, The hour of prayer ? " Blest is the tranquil hour of morn, And blest that hour of solemn eve, When, on the wings of prayer upborne, The world I leave. " Then is my strength by Thee renewed ; Then are my sins by Thee forgiven ; Then dost thou cheer my solitude With hopes of heaven. " No words can tell what sweet relief There for my every want I find ; What strength for warfare, balm for grief, What peace of mind. •' Hushed is each doubt, gone every fear My spirit seems in heaven to stay ; And e'en the penitential tear Is wiped away. ** Lord ! till I reach that blissful shore No privilege so dear shall be, As thus my inmost soul to pour In prayer to Thee." Charlotte Elliott. )Inttot»uction, WE have always been affected by the *'^ petition of the disciples to the Sav- iour, "Lord, teach us how to pray." How many yet would fain address the same request, with simplicity and con- scious Y/ant, to Christ ! If the first moments of the morning, the very first thoughts of the day are given to prayer, it wdll be found, at least in many cases, to give direction to the feelings of the whole day. The keynote of the day is struck early. And, simple as it may seem, we have forced a few moments in the morning to hold the day to its course, as a rudder does the ship. Some persons, we suspect, fail of interest in prayer by attempting to pray by the clock. They have been taught that a 8 INTRODUCTION. regular time and an appointed place are eminently beneficial. They liave tried the time with so many failures, that the place, by association and memory of ill success, becomes disgustful. We are not about to say that punctuality and rega- larit}^ are not good, but only that they are not alike good for all ; and that when experience shows that they hinder and do not lielp, Christians are under no law to the clock. Persons of regulated feel- ings, of methodical habits, and of uniform occupations, find great advantage in stated hours of prayer. People of mer- curial dispositions, who live without spe- cial arrangement and system, will find, on the contrary, that such attempts at punctuality will not help them, except as an exercise in method and regularity. If a man should insist upon wallowing in the sand when the tide was out, be- cause he had made up his mind to bathe in one place and at one hour, he would not be much unlike him who prays when INTR OB UCTIOK 9 his watch, and not when his heart, tells him the time. Christians are to remem- ber that they are children of liberty. They are not bound up, as the Jews were, to times and seasons, to places and methods. Prayer may become a yoke of superstition, instead of the wings of liberty. It ma}^ be briefly said, take notice of the times when prayer is refreshing. Learn from your own experience how and when praj^er is best for you. You are under bonds to no man, be he minister or lay- man. We think that one may very much aid himself, by taking a few moments of his brightest hours for silent prayer. The Jews were taught to present their best fruits for offerings. We should not choose refuse hours, good for nothing else, to pray in. No matter where you are, nor what you are doing, send a glance God ward from the top of every exalted hour — as from a hill-top, a 1 INTR OD UCTIOK child, going home, would strive to catch a glimpse of his father's house. In this manner, after a little, the soul would lay up remembrances of many sweet and noble experiences, and would fight dis- couragements by hope drawn from past success. We suspect that many persons mar this enjoyment by very erroneous ideas of quantity. They read of eminent Christians who pray by the hour, they hear sermons upon the wrestling of Jacob with the angel, and, above all, they are told that Christ prayed all niglit. They, therefore, attempt immense prayer. Of course, they fail. A man might as well attempt to imitate the old prophets ^who ate in preparation of forty days' fast. If a man is moved to pray only five min- utes, it is bis duty to stop there. If he is moved to pray an hour, he is at liberty to do so. But in every case prayer is to be regulated by your own inward want, and not from the outside by somebody's ex- INTRODUCTION. 11 ample. Indeed, we meet every day witli persons who would be injured b}^ long- praying. Tliey have but little to say. If Christ were on earth, and they were disciples, they would listen rather than speak. There is communion by think- ing as well as speaking. There is unut- tered prayer as well as vocal. Thoughts that roll silently are more significant, often, than those which can clothe them- selves in words. It is possible to pray too much. That is always too much which is beyond your real want or de- sire. Christians bring themselves into trou- ble by very false ideas of prayer. They select impassioned prayers as models, and judge themselves to be praying in pro- portion as they approach these examples. But what if your wants are few, your feelings tranquil, your thoughts simple, and your whole mind and exiDerience formed upon a diflPerent basis ? Is pray- er some objective exercise to be copied ? 12 introduction: or is it the presenting before Grod of just wliat you think, feel, or need ? One single sentence is a sufficient praj^- er. There is no one who can not com- mand his thouo-hts lonsj enou2:h for that. If your thoughts wander, the probability is that you are trying to pray too much. Be shorter. Say just as much as there is in you to say. If there is nothing, say nothing ; if little, say little ; silence is bet- ter than mockery. Consider the Lord's Prayer — how short, how simjole ! It contains the whole world's want, and yet a little child can use it. Accept prayer as liberty, and not a bondage. Use it in any manner that will be of profit. Go often and tarr}^ but a little, or go and tarry all night, if you will, upon the mount. You pray, if there is but one sentence — Grod be mer- ciful to me a sinner — 'just as freely as if there were a thousand besides. *' Lord, what a change within us one short hour Spent in Thy presence will prevail to make, What heavy burdens from our bosoms take, What parched grounds refresh, as with a shower ! We kneel, and all around us seems to lower ; We rise, and all the distant and the near, Stands forth in sunny outline, brave and clear ; We kneel, how weak ! — we rise, how full of power ! Why, therefore, should we do ourselves this wrong. Or others — that we are not always strong, That we are ever overborne with care. That we should ever weak or heartless be, Anxious or troubled, when with us is prayer, And joy, and strength, and courage are with Thee ?"' The Dean of Westminster. " What wondrous grace ! who knows its full extent ? A creature, dust and ashes, speaks with God- Tells all his woes — enumerates his wants — Yea, pleads with Deity, and gains relief. 'Tis prayer, yes, 'tis ' efifectual, fervent praj-er,' Puts dignity on worms — proves life divine — Makes demons tremble— breaks the darkest cloud, And with a princely power prevails with God I And shall this privilege become a task ? My God, forbid ! pour out Thy Spirit's grace, Draw me by love, and teach me how to pray. Yea, let Thy holy unction from above, Beget, extend, maintain my intercourse. With Father, Son, and Spirit, Israel's God, Until petitions are exchanged for praise." Irons, (But jFat^cr. Gal. iv. 6. " And because ye are sons, God hath sent forth the Spirit of his Son into your hearts, crying, Abba, Father." :\lATT. vi. 6-13. '* AVhen thou prayest, enter into thy closet ; and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret ; and thy Father, which seeth in secret, shall reward thee openly. But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do : for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking. Be not ye therefore like unto them : for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of before 3'e ask him. After this manner therefore pray ye : Our Father, which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. .\nd lead us not into temptation ; but deliver us from evil : For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, Forever. Amen." Ps. ciii. 13. " Like as a father pitieth his children, so the Lord pitieth theiu that fear him." ' Our God, our Father, with us stay, And make us keep Thy narrow way ; Free us from sin and all its power ; Give us ajoyful dying hour ; DeUver us from Satan's arts, And let us build our hopes on Thee, Down in our very heart of hearts ! O God ! may we true servants be, And serve Thee ever perfectly. Help us, with all Thy children here, To fight and flee with holy fear ; Flee from temptation, and to fight "With Thine own weapons for the right ; Amen, Amen, so let it be ! So shall we ever sing to Thee, Hallelujah !" Martin Luthkr. " Now thank we all our God, With heart and hands and voicfcs, Who wondrous tilings hath done, In whom His world rejoices ; Who from our mother's arms Hath blessed us on our way With countless gifts of love. And stilNs ours to-day. ** Oh may this bounteous God Through all our life be near us, With ever-joyful hearts And blessed peace to cheer us ; And keep us in His grace, And guide us when perplexed, And free us from all ills In tills world and the next. *' All praise and thanks to God The Father now be given, The Son, and Him who reigns With them in highest heaven ; The one Eternal God, Whom earth and heaven adore ; For thus it was, is now, And shall be evermore !" ''(Bnv JFatfjcr/' TN a true Christian's devout aspirations, ^ it is not from instruction or liabit, but from spontaneous impulse, that he ex- claims, " Our Father!"' His thoughts go out after God. His heart yearns for Him. His soul longs, with unutterable longings, for His abiding presence. He comes with, a truly filial spirit before God, and it is perfectly easy and natural for him to say, " Our Father." And he has a right to say it. He is the child of God, and he knows it; for "the Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirits that we are the children of God." Being the child of his Father, and away from his Father s house, he yearns for it, and at times is homesick — as children that are kept at school away from their parents long for 18 ''OUR father:' the day of vacation, that they may go home ; and these yearnings are the testi- mony of the Spirit that we are the child- ren of God. The man who has these feehngs, and has them habitually, need not hesitate to call himself a child of God, or to address God as "Our Father." There are some Christians who always seem to .have entire and unwavering faith in God as their Father. They trust in Him to such a degree as to beheve that whatever may be the happenings of Prov- idence, everything will be for the best, and that they will be taken care of, and never left alone. They are confident in Him, and seem never for a moment to doubt. Their cup always rans over, be- cause they always think it runs over. But, on the other hand, there are others who, while they are blessed abundantly, never see or think that they are blessed at all. And this class comprises the mul- titude of men. They call God '' Our Father," only because the Lord's Prayer ''OUR FATHERr 19 begins so, and not because their own prayer naturally and spontaneously con- fesses that they are His children, and that He is their Father. They have doubts and glooms. They have fightings with- out, and fears within. They allow small things to perplex them, and great things to overwhelm them. They distrust God — not intentionally, but really. They doubt His providence, though they would hardly believe that they doubt. They habitually look on the dark side of things, and excuse themselves for it by saying that they are constitutionally mel- ancholy ; whereas the fault is nothing more nor less than a practical want of faith. It is an unconscious scepticism of God. Men theoretically extol their faith, but practically deny it. They give way before every trouble, instead of conquer- ing it ; and in every dark hour flee for refuge, not to God, but to themselves. Now, all Christians, whether hopeful or despondent, are sometimes like the 20 ''OUR father:' disciples on tlie Sea of Galilee — driven hither and thither by contrary winds. They toil all the night upon the deep, casting their nets, bnt taking nothing. Kay, oftentimes, their sea is without a Christ walking upon the water, and their ship without a Christ even asleep. Yet when they desire His coming upon the sea, and cry out to Him, they soon see Him walking to them over the waves. When they desire His awakening in the ship, they soon see Him rising to rebuke the wind, saying, "Peace, be still," until there is a great calm. God hides his face only to disclose it again ; and His hidings are oftentimes as full of mercy as His manifested presence. But whether to their feeble-sighted eyes He is present or absent, they may always know that '^ He is not far from them at any time." When there are clouds so that they can not see Him, they may look at Him througli faith, and discern that He is not far off. And as they that go down upon the deep, ''OUR father:' 21 and are overmastered by storms in the darkness of tlie night, knowing not on what strange shores they may be thrown, cast anchor and wait for day, so in the midst of trial and temptation, when the storm is fierce and the night is dark, when the lights are quenched and the signals gone, they may at least cast an- chor ; and if they wait in faith and hope for the ■ day, it will snrely dawn. The darkness will always hide itself, and the light appear. There never was a night so long that the day did not overtake it. There never was a morning without its morning star. There never was a day without its sun. God can reveal himself to His own people as He does not to the world. He can give to every Christian heart, to the timid as well as to the strong, to the sorrowing as well as to the hopeful, those divine intimations, those precious thoughts, those sweet-breathed feelings, which are evidence that His Spirit dwell- 22 ''OUR father:' etli in them. He can inspire the heart with that perfect love which casteth out fear. He can take away all doubts and misgivings, all gloomy misapprehensions, all dreary forebodings of the future. He can make sunshine out of shadow, and day out of midnight. When our fears have been like growing thorns in our side. He can pluck away the thorns, and heal the wounds ; and He can turn every spear which has pierced us into a rod and staff, which, instead of wounding, shall support us ; so that the very things which once cast us down may be made to hold us up. He can so deal with us as to make every yoke easy and every burden light ; so that the heavy laden may come to Him to be relieved of their loads. He can touch the fountains of our sorrow, and make our tears like gems and crj^s- tals, more precious than pearls or dia- monds. Our tears are oftentimes among His most precious treasures. The things that we call treasures He counts as of ''OUR father:' 23 very little worth. The human soul is His treasury, out of which He coins un- speakable riches. Thoughts and feelings, desires and yearnings, faith and hope — these are the most precious things which Grod iinds in us. He can do all things for us, whatsoever we need, and more than we need. We are too slow to believe in His generosity. We do not often enough think that as He has infinite desires to help us, so also He has infinite powers. He is able to carry out all that He can ever wish for us. God is not like man. Our means are limited. With us, wishing to possess is far from possessing ; wishing to do is fl^r from doing; but with Him, the wish and the power are one. His desires are fully equalled by His means. He is " able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we can ask or think." Things that are great to us are small to Him. The fa- vours that we ask of Him seem to us to be large and royal ; yet to Him they are 24 ''OUR FATHERS very little things. The gifts He has power to bestow are not only greater than we ever ask, but ever can ask, or even think. He is always willing to give special grace for special emergency. If men are suddenly brought into trouble. He is "a very present help in time of need." When rich men, by some unexpected re- verse of fortune, are made poor, He can sustain them under their burdens, when without Him they would be utterly crushed. When friends are parted from friends, when families are broken and scattered by death, when the mother loses her child, and weeps because the cradle is no longer to be rocked, and the sweet laugh is hushed in the house, God can give "the oil of joy for mourning.'' Whenever His children suffer disappoint- ment, when clouds cast shadows over their path, when troubles brood heavily before them, when they are in trials of business or in greater trials of bereave- ''OUR FATHERr 25 ment, He can take oft tlie heavy weiglits. He can make tlie rougli places smooth, and the crooked ^YaYS straight. When sorrow comes that seems to forbid all consolation, He can gently wipe away the tears, and bring back joy and hope once more. He is a physician who only waits to be called ; He is a friend who longs to be trusted ; He is a helper who only wants US to ask His aid. But He wants us to ask Him heartily and truthfully. He wishes us to reach up our hand, and take covenant by His hand. He desires us to cast our care upon Him, for He careth for us. He commands us to confide en- tirely in Him. He wants us to have no liesitancy in our faith. And this is reasonable. It is what men ask every day of their own child- ren. A father expects his child to con- fide in him. A child expects to trust freely in his father. And we ought to go to God, being His children, with less 26 ''OUR FATHER." distrust and more confidence. We ought to take Him at His word, and to have faith in His promises. If He has said, " I will never leave thee nor forsake thee," we ought boldly to say, "The Lord is my helper ; I will not fear what man shall do unto me." But when we borrow trouble, and look forward into the future to see what storms are coming, and distress ourselves before they come as to how we shall avert them if they ever do come, we lose our proper trustfulness in God. When we torment ourselves with imaginary dangers, or trials, or reverses, we have already parted with that perfect love which casteth out fear. Mothers some- times fret themselves, and are made mis- erable about the future career of their children — whether they will turn out drunkards or not, whether they will go to the gallows or not, whether they will be a disgrace to their parentage or not. Now, all this is simply an evidence of a ''OUR father:' 27 lack of faith. There are many persons in good health, with all their faculties in active exercise, who, having nothing else to worry about, rob themselves of sleep at night by thinking, '' if they should suddenly be taken awa}^, what would be- come of their families, and who would take care of their children ?" Such dis- trust of God is dishonourable to Cliristian men ; and it is only because of His ex- ceeding patience — which is the most wonderful attribute of the Divine nature — that He does not signally rebuke and punish it whenever it is manifested. When persons are taken sick, they ought to bear it with a good grace ; but nine out of ten, even among Christian men, repine and murmur. When they are visited with any trou- ble, their first thought is apt to be, " How grievously I am afflicted !" though the nobler thought would be, "How gra- ciously I am sustained !" When a cross is laid upon them, they cry out, " What a 28 ''OUR father:] burden I have to carry !" wliereas they might better say, "What a burden Christ carries for me!" A Christian sailor, who lost one of his legs in the battle of Tra- falgar, said that he could very often measure the faith of the people who con- versed with him by the way in which they alluded to his misfortune. Nine out of every ten would exclaim, " What a pity that you lost your leg?" and only one in ten, "What a blessing that the other was preserved !" When God comes into the family and takes away one child, instead of complaining because He has taken one, it would be wiser to thank Him that He has left the rest. Or He may crush a man's business, and strip him of all his worldly wealth, and yet leave untouched and uninvaded what is dearer than all — the cradle of his only child. Would it not be nobler for such a man to be thankful for what God left than to murmur for what He took away ? " The Lord givcth, and the Lord taketh ^'OXm FATREUr 29 away," but He always gives more than He takes away. If God robs a man of bis riches, He leaves bim bis bealtb, wbicb is better than ricbes. If He takes bealtb, He leaves wealth. If He takes both, He leaves friends. And if He takes all these — house, and home, and worldly goods — God's providence is not yet exhausted, and He can make bless- ings out of other things which remain. He never strips a man entirely bare. A man may be left a beggar upon the high- way, and yet be able to give unceasing testimony to God's goodness and grace. If men were to give thanks to God for what He permits them to have, rather than to utter complaints for what He wisely and graciously withholds. He might not unlikely give to them more abundantly, if for no other reason than to increase their gratitude. An old man, who is now without home or friends, a stranger in a strange land, who earns a scanty crust of bread, day by day, by 30 ''OUR FATEERr selling steel-pens and writing-paper from street to street, said the other day, that though he had several times been so re- duced as to be for a period of forty-eight hours and longer without a morsel to eat, he never lost his trust in Providence, and always rebuked himself whenever he complained at his lot ! This man's faith was genuine I He was a hero in rags, greater than many a hero in armour ! God's goodness is large and generous ; only our faith in it is small and mean. He carries the whole globe in His thoughtful providence, easier than a mother carries a babe in her arms. If we cannot see the end from the begin- ning, what matters it so long as He sees it? What have we to do but to seek first the kingdom of God and His right- eousness, and leave the rest in faith to Him? We ought not to forget that an affec- tionate, confiding, tender faith, habitu- ally exercised, would save us half the an- ''OUR father:' 31 noyances of life, for it would lift us up above the reacli of them. If an eagle were to fly low along the ground, every man might aim a dart at it, but when it soars into the clouds, it is above every arrow's reach. And they that trust in God "shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run and not be weary ; and they shall walk and not faint." Christ's invitation is — " Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart; and ye shall find rest unto your soul. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.'' (H^o^i'n rrntrtr JHctrcs. Ps. ciii. S-10. ' The Lord is merciful and gi-acious, slow to anger, and plente- ous in mercy. He will not always chide ; neither will he keep his anger for ever. He hath not dealt with us after our sins, nor rewarded us according to our iniquities." Ps. xxxvi. 7-9. '• IIow excellent is thy loving-kindness, God ! therefore the children of men put their trust under the shadow of thy wings. They shall be abundantly satisfied with the fatness of thy house^; and thou shalt make them drink of the river of thy pleasures. For with thee is the fountain of life : in thy light shall we see light." Ps. xxiii. • The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want. He maketli n.e to lie down in green pastures : he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul : he leadeth me in the patlis of righteousness for his name's sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil : for thou art with me ; thy rod and thy staff they com- fort me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies : thou anointest my head with oil ; my cuji runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life ; and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever." Ps. Lxxxvi. 5, 6. ' For thou. Lord, art good, and ready to forgive ; and plenteous in mercy unto all them that call upon thee. Give ear, Lord, unto my prayer ; and attend.to the voice of my sup- plications." MiCAH vii. IS, 19. ■'"Who is a God like unto thee, that pardoneth inUiuity, and passeth by the transgression of the remnant of his heritage':' he retaineth not his anger for ever, because he delighteth )n me^CJ^ He will turn again, he will have compassion upon us ; he will subdue our iniquities : and thou wilt cas* »U their sins into the depths of the sea." •* What a gracious God have we ! In His gifts of grace how free ! How intent our prayers to hear, And to them that pray how near t How to balmy mercy prone, And to kind compassion ! How regardfully He wakes For His chosen servants' sakes ! How He gives them grace to pray, And then to their suits give way ! How He prompts each good desire. And blows up that spark to fire. He hath set no greater task To obtain of Him but ' Ask.' No e.xacter search to find, But to seek with humble mind ; No more pains heaven to unlock, But with spotless hand to knock — Yet he joys to see man press Him, And to wrestle till He bless him." " Preserve, Lord ! within our hearts The memory of Thy favour, That else insensibly departs. And loses its sweet savour ! Lodge it within ug ! As the power of light Lives inexhaustibly in precious gems Fixed on the front of eastern diadems, go shine our thankfulness for ever bright." WoRDSwoaxa Jcf /cM M W. ^3V lJ3^ ^3^