* PRINCETON, N. J. ^> Shelf.... BV 4501 .G55 1865 Gilroy, Clinton G. Inner life; or. The joys of my Father's house, designe ■J::: '4^ d to be overflowing: AND VICTORIES WON. 99 with love to God, and to all around him ; and in this state of mind he continued to the last moment of his life. At six o'clock on Friday evening, January 6, 1860, (and only a few seconds before his departure for his heavenly home,) he said, " Mother, my dear mo ," and then reclining in his father's arms, and fixing his eyes on the ceiling of the room, his features beaming with happiness, he gently breathed his last, and Clinton's spirit flew to meet his Saviour's embrace, and join his little brothers in the happy land. A week before Clinton's departure, he requested to be left alone with his sister — then in the twelfth year of her age, when he spoke to her in these words : " My dear sister, the doctor says I cannot live two days, and I wish to say a few words to you before I die. My dear sister, give your heart to God in your early days. Your brother will soon be at home, and you won't have any brother to talk to or play with any more. Now, my dear sister, if you don't give your heart to God you will go to hell, and never see your brothers in heaven. Now mind what I have told you, or you will be sorry for it when you come to die.'' The parting scene between Clinton and his parents was exceedingly affecting. To his father, he said, "Kiss me, my dear father, * * * — farewell, my dear father, — don't be discouraged, but be of good cheer; — stand up for Jesus, — fight the good fight, and meet me in heaven. Your three sous will be waiting your arrival on the heavenly shore." To his mother, he said, "Kiss 100 BATTLES FOUGHT me, my dear mother. Oh, my Saviour, bless my dear mo- ther ! Oh, my dear mother, I must now leave you ! * * * — farewell, my dear mother : meet me in heaven," To his sister he said, " Kiss me, my dear sister Mary Elizabeth, * * * — Oh, my Saviour, bless my dear sister, and keep her from the evil that is in the world. Forsake her not, nor leave her; but grant, O my blessed Lord, that she may meet me in heaven, — farewell, my dear sister, — meet me in heaven." Here, turning to the wall, he thanked God for having strengthened him in this last farewell scene. Many deeply interesting articles on religious subjects were found among Clinton's papers, all written in his own hand. Some of them bore the following titles : — " On Prayer;" " On the Family Altar;" "On Private Prayer;" " On the Presence of God;" " On Obedience to Parents ;" " Lines to my Mother," &c. The lines to his mother he had arranged to suit his own case, from some printed verses in his possession, as follows : — ■ CLINTON TO HIS MOTHER. My mother, my mother ! let me depart ! Your tears and your pleadings are swords to my heart. I hear gentle voices, that chide my delay ; I see lovely visions, that woo me away. My prison is broken, my trials are o'er ! mother, my mother, detain me no more. And will you then leave us, my brightest, my best, And will you run nestling no more to my breast? AND VICTORIES WON. 101 The summer is coming to sky and to bower; The tree that you planted will soon be in flower ; You loved the soft season of song and of bloom ; Oh, shall it return and find you in your tomb? Yes, mother, I loved in the sunshine to play, And to talk of the birds and the blossoms all day ; But sweeter the songs of the spirits on high. And brighter the glories that shine in the sky! I see them, I hear them, they pull at my heart ; My mother, my mother, 0, let me depart! Oh, do not desert us ! Our hearts will be drear, Our home will be lonely when you are not here. Your little sister will sigh 'mid her playthings, and say, I wonder dear Clinton so long can delay. That foot like the wild wind, that glance like a star, — Oh, what would this world be when they are afar ? This world, dearest mother ! 0, live not for this ! No, press on with me to the fulness of bliss ! And, trust me, whatever bright fields I may roam. My heart will not wander far from you or from home. Believe me still near you on pinions of love ; Expect me to hail you when soaring above. MOTHER. Well go, my beloved ; the conflict is o'er ; My pleas are all selfish, I urge them no more. Why chain yovtr bright spirit down here to the clod. So thirsting for freedom, so ripe for its God ? Farewell, then, farewell, till we meet at the throne : There love fears no parting and tears are unknown. 102 BATTLES FOUGHT AND VICTORIES WON. glory ! glory ! what music ! what light ! What wonders break in on my heart, on my sight ! 1 come, blessed spirits ! I hear you from high ! O frail, faithless nature, can this be to die ? So near ! what, so near to my Saviour and King ! 0, help me, ye angels, His praises to sing. A few moments before he expired, Edmund Auger said to a friend, "Do you see that assembly who await my arrival ? Do you hear that sweet music with which those holy men invite me ?" — " Let me go ! — I must go !" "How hard it is to die !" remarked a friend to an ex- piring believer. " O, no, no !" he replied ; " easy dying, blessed dying, glorious dying ! 0, I never thought that such a poor worm as I could come to such a glorious death !" Another dying saint said, " All is well. My sky is clear. I am not afraid to die. Hark ! — I hear singing! how sweet ! how delightful ! — Don't you hear it ?" Just as the dying saint had uttered these words, he ap- peared to be serenaded by invisible musicians with the sweetest strains that ever delighted mortal ears. The har- monious echo seemed to pass from room to room, till it came into his chamber, where, after a short space, it sunk away in a gentle cadence. The dear Christian friends that were around his dying bed felt that his obsequies were now sung. CHAPTER V. PRAYER. Prayer the life-breath of true religion— What God says of prayer— What the saiuts of old did— The prayers of David and Daniel— "What prayer did for Joshua, Elijah, Hezekiah, and other men of God — Amazing power of faithful prayer — Faith: definitions of it — Wrestling with God in prayer — Jacob's prayer— Praying "with strong crying and tears" — A dying father's last prayer for his daughter — Tears— The Lord despises all human strength in prayer — The proud praying lions flung aside to rot —"When I am weak, then am I strong" — Family worship— Dutiful children blessed — A dying father's last gift to his daughter — Its immense falue. Prayer is the very life-breath of true religion. It is one of the first evidences that a man is born again. " Behold," said the Lord to Ananias, in the day he sent him to Saul, " Behold, he prayeth." Acts ix. 11. Prayer was the distinguishing mark of God's people in the day that there began to be a separation between them and the world. " Then began men to call upon the name of the Lord." Without prayer to God, no soul can be spiritually united to him. Prayer is the power God has placed in our hands to raise our souls to heaven. It is the power we must use in every trouble. Without prayer — fervent, heartfelt prayer, there is no salvation. " Call upon Me in the day of trouble, and I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorifv me." Psalm 1. 15. " Who- (103) 104 PRAYER. soever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be de- livered." Joel ii. 32. "This poor man cried, and the Lord heard him, and saved him out of all his troubles." Tsalm xxxiv. 6 ; Isaiah Ixvi. 2. And so it will be with every praying soul. " Surely I know that it shall be well with them that fear God, which fear before him ; but it shall not be w^ell with the wicked," Eccles. viii. 12, 13. "He shall judge the poor of the people, he shall save the children of the needy, and shall break in pieces the oppressor. He shall deliver the needy when he crieth ; the poor also, and him that hath no helper. He shall spare the poor and needy, and shall save the souls of the needy ;" (that is to say, of the poor and needy who pray to him in spirit and in truth, and love him with the whole heart ;) "he shall redeem their soul from deceit and violence : and precious shall their blood be in his sight." Psalm Ixxii. 14; Prov. xxii. 23. "He that toucheth them toucheth the apple of his eye." When a true Soldier of the Cross stretches forth his hands to his Father in heaven, in that moment he leaves behind him all terrestrial pursuits, and traverses on the beams of Jesus' love the realms of light. Eph. iii. 18, 19; Psalm xxxvi. 9.. He who can pray truly, though languishing in deepest poverty, is immensely rich ; (2 Cor. vi. 9, 10 ; Rev. ii. 9, 10 ;) while the wretch who never bowed the knee in prayer to God, though proudly seated as monarch of nations, is of all men the most destitute. Jer. ix. 23, 24; Rev. iii. H, 18. The day is coming when such men will say to the moun- PRAYER. 105 tains and rocks, " Full on us and hide us from the face of Him that sitteth on the throne, and from the wrath of the Lamb." In that fearful day, " The wicked shall be turned into hell, and all the nations that forget God." Psalm ix. 17; xi. .G ; Thess. i. 7-9. In that day the Lord will place an impassable barrier " between him that serveth God and him that serveth him not." Those who are saved, are saved by prayer ; and those who are damned, are lost because they would not pray. It is useless to say you " have no convenient place to pray in." Any person can find a place private enough, if he is so disposed. The Lord Jesus prayed on a moun- tain ; Peter on the house-top ; Isaac in the field ; Na- thaniel under the fig-tree ; Jonah in the whale's belly. Daniel had all the affairs of a kingdom on his hands, and yet he prayed " three times a day." His prayer on be- half of himself and his oppressed and afflicted brethren, the children of Israel, is comprehensive and beautiful. David was ruler over a mighty nation, and he says, " Evening, morning and at noon will I pray." Psalm Iv. 17 ; cxix. 62-75. " Oh that men would praise the Lord for his goodness, for his wonderful works to the children of men ! for he satisfieth the longing soul, and filleth the hungry soul with goodness. Such as sit in darkness and the shadow of death, being bound in affliction and iron; because they rebelled against the words of God, and con- temned the counsel of the Most High : therefore he brought down their heart with labor; they fell down, and there was none to help. Then they cried unto the 106 PRAYER. Lord in their trouble, and he saved them out of their distresses ; he brought them out of darkness and the shadow of death, and brake their bands in sunder." Psalm evii. 8-14. When David himself was in trouble, he prayed as follows : — " Oh Lord God of my salvation, I have cried day and night be- fore thee ; let my prayer come before thee ; incline thine ear unto my cry ; for my soul is full of troubles : and my life draweth nigh unto the grave. I am counted with them that go down into the pit: I am as a man that hath no strength : free among the dead, like the slain that lie in the grave, whom thou rememberest no more : and they are cut off from thy hand. Thou hast laid me in the lowest pit : in darkness: in the deeps. Thy wrath lieth hard upon me, and thou hast afflicted me with all thy waves. Thou hast put away mine acquaintance far from me ; thou hast made me an abomination unto them: I am shut up, and I cannot come forth. Mine eye mourneth by reason of affliction: Lord, I have called daily upon thee, I have stretched out my hands unto thee. Wilt thou shew wonders to the dead? shall the dead arise and praise thee? Shall thy loving kindness be declared in the grave? or thy faithfulness in destruction ? Shall thy wonders be known in the dark? and thy righteousness in the land of forgetfulness ? But unto thee have I cried, Lord ; in the morning shall my prayer prevent thee. Lord, why castest thou off my soul? why hidest thou thy face from me ? I am afflicted and ready to die from my youth up : while I suffer thy terrors I am distracted. Thy fierce wrath goeth over me ; thy terrors have cut me off. They came round about me daily like water ; they compassed me about together. Lover and friend hast thou put far from me, and mine accyiaintance into darkness." Psalm Ixxxviii ; Job xix. 6-19; Lam. iii. 1-21. In another place, speaking of the prosperity of the wricked, his soul is so full of the dying love of his blessed Lord, that he exclaims in rapture, " Whom have I in heaven but thee ? and there is none upon earth that I PRAYER. 107 desire beside thee. My flesh and my heart faileth ; but God is the strength of my heart, and my portion forever.'' Nothing seems to be too great, or too difficult for prayer to accomplish. It has obtained things that seemed utterly unattainable. It has won victories over fire and water. It has even made the sun and moon stand still until the enemies of God were destroyed. Here is the record : " And the men of Gibeon sent nnto .Joshua to the camp of Gil- gal, saying. Slack not tliy hand from thy servants ; come up to us quickly, and save us and help us : for all the kings of the Amorites that dwell in the mountains are gathered together against us. So .Toshua ascended from Gilgal, he, and all the peo- ple of war with him, and all the mighty men of valour. And tlie Lord said unto .Joshua, Fear them not ; for I have delivered them into thine hand ; there shall not a man of them stand before thee. Joshua therefore came unto them suddenly, and went up from Gilgal all night, and the Lord discomfited them before Israel, and slew them with a great slaughter at Gibeon, and chased them along the way that goeth up to Beth-horon, and smote them to Azekah, and unto Makkedah. And it came to pass as they fled from before Israel, and were in the going down to Beth- horon, that the Lord cast down great stones from heaven upon them unto Azekah, and they died ; they were more which died with hailstones than they whom the children of Israel slew with the sword. Then spake Joshua to the Lord in the day when the Lord delivered up the Amorites before the children of Israel, and he said in the sight of Israel, Sun, stand thou still upon Gibeon, and thou Moon, in the valley of Ajalon. And the sun stood still, and the moon stayed, until the people had avenged themselves upon their enemies. Is not this written in the book of Jasher? So the sun stood still in the midst of heaven, and hasted not to go down about a whole day." Prayer brought fire from the sky to consume Elijah's sacrifice : " And it came to pass at the time of the offer- 108 PRAYER. ing of the evening sacrifice, that Elijah the prophet came near and said, Lord God of Abraham, Isaac, and of Is- rael, let it be known this day that thou art God in Israel, and that I am thy servant, and that I have done all these things at thy word. Hear me, Lord, hear me, that this people may know that thou art the Lord God, and that thou hast turned their heart back again. Then the fire of the Lord fell, and consumed the burnt-sacrifice, and the wood, and the stones, and the dust, and licked up the water that was in the trench ; and when all the people saw it, they fell on their faces : and they said, The Lord, he is the God ; the Lord, he is the God. And Elijah said unto them, Take the prophets of Baal ; let not one of them escape. And they took them : and Klijah brought them down to the brook Kishon, and slew them there." " Take God into thy counsel," says Gurnall, " heaven overlooketh hell. God can at any moment see what plots are hatching there against thee." Psalm xli. 11; • Prov. xvi. 7. Prayer turned the counsel of Ahithophel into foolishness. Prayer overthrew the army of Senna- cherib. Hezekiah's prayer on that occasion is brief, but comprehensive : — "And Hezekiah prayed before the Lord and said, Lord God of Israel, which dwelleth between the cherubims, thou art the God, even thou alone, of all the kingdoms of the earth ; thou hast made heaven and earth. Lord, bow down thine ear and hear: open, Lord, thine eyes, and see : and hear the words of Senna- cherib, which hath sent him to reproach the living God. Of a truth, Lord, the kings of Assyria have destroyed the nations and their lands, and have cast tlieir gods into the fire: for tliey PRAYER. 109 were no gods, but the work of men's liands, wood and stone: therefore they have destroyed them. Now therefore, Lord our God, I beseech thee, save thou us out of his hand, that all the kingdoms of the earth may know that thou art the Lord God, even thou only." " Then Isaiah the son of Amoz sent to Hezekiah, say- ing. Thus saith the Lord of Israel, That which thou hast prayed to me against Sennacherib, king of Assyria, I have heard. And it came to pass that night, that the angel of the Lord went out, and smote in the camp of the Assyrians an hundred four score and five thousand men." Like the leaves of the forest, when summer is green, That host with their banners at sunset were seen ; Like the leaves of the forest, when autumn is flown. That host on the morrow lay withered and strewn. For the angel of death spread his wings on the blast, — And breathed in the face of the foe as he passed; And the breath of the sleepers grew deadly and chill, And their hearts but once heaved, and forever were still. Prayer saved Asa and his little army, when Zerah, the Ethiopian, with a million of men, and three hundred chariots, came against them. But Asa's faith in God was unwavering, and he put the army in array : — *'And Asa cried unto the Lord his God, and said. Lord, it is nothing with thee to help, whether with many, or with them that have no power: help us, Lord our God; for we rest on thee, and in thy name we go against this multitude. Lord, thou art our God ; let no man prevail against thee." " So the Lord smote the Ethiopians before Asa, and before Judah ; and the Ethiopians fled, and Asa and the people that were with him pursued them unto Gerar ; and the Ethiopians were overthrown, that they could not 10 110 PRAYER. recover themselves ; for they were destroyed before the Lord," On another occasion, Samuel the prophet " cried unto the Lord for Israel, and the Lord heard him," and "thundered that day upon the Philistines." Prayer healed the sick. We have a remarkable in- stance of this in the case of Hezekiah, king of Israel. " In those days Hezekiah was sick unto death, and Isa- iah the prophet, the son of Amoz, came unto him, and said unto him. Thus saith the Lord, Set thine house in order : for thou shalt die and not live. Then Hezekiah turned toward the wall, and prayed unto the Lord, and said, "Remember now, Lord, I beseech thee, how I have walked before thee in truth and with a perfect heart, and have done that which is good in thy sight. And Hezekiah wept sore." " Then came the word of the Lord to Isaiah, saying, Go and say to Hezekiah, Thus saith the Lord, the God of David thy father, I have heard thy prayer, I have seen thy tears : behold, I will add unto thy days fifteen years. And I will deliver thee and this city out of the hand of the king of Assyria: and I will defend this city. And this shall be a sign unto thee from the Lord, that the Lord will do this thing that he hath spoken ; Behold I will bring again the shadow of the degrees, which is gone down in the sun-dial of Ahaz ten degrees backward. So the sun returned ten degrees, by which degrees it was gone down." Prayer raised the dead. We have most heart-cheering evidence of this in the cases of the widow's son and the PRAYER. HI Shunammitu's child. In the case of the widow's son, wo read, " Eiijjili cried unto tlie Lord, and said, Lord my God, hast thou also broujilit evil upon the widow with whom I sojourn, by sla^'ing her son ? And he stretched himself upon the child three times, and cried unto the Lord, and said, Lord my God. I pray thee let this cliild's soul come into him again. And the Lord heard the voice of Elijah; and the soul of the child came into him again, and he revived." In the case of the Shunammite's son, it is said that " when the child was grown, it fell on a day, that it went out to his father to the reapers, and he said unto his father, My head, my head. And he said to a lad. Carry him to his mother ; and when he had taken him, and brought him to his mother, he sat on her knees until noon, and then died, and she went up and laid him on the bed of the man of God, and shut the door upon him, and went out. And she called unto her husband, and said, Send me, I pray thee, one of the young men, and one of the asses, that I may run to the man of God, and come again, and he said. Wherefore wilt thou go to him to-day ? it is neither new moon nor Sabbath. And she said. It shall be well." "And when Elisha was come into the house, behold, the child was dead, and laid upon his bed, he w^ent in therefore, and shut the door upon them twain, and prayed unto the Lord. And he went up, and lay upon the child, and put his mouth upon his mouth, and his eyes upon his eyes, and his hands upon liis hands : and he stretched himself upon the child ; and the flesh of the child waxed warm. Then he returned 112 PRAYER. and walked in the house to and fro ; and went up and stretched himself upon him : and the child sneezed seven times, and the child opened his eyes. And he called Gehazi, and said, Call this Shunammite. So he called her. And when she was come unto him, he said. Take up thy son. Then she went in, and fell at his feet, and bowed herself to the ground, and took up her son, and went out." And he was then her beautiful — her own ; Living, and smiling on her, with his arms Folded about her neck, and his warm breath Breathing upon her lips, and in her ear, The music of his gentle voice once more. Nothing seems impossible when a man has the spirit of adoption. " Let Me alone," is the remarkable saying of the Lord to Moses, when Moses was about to inter- cede for the children of Israel. The Chaldee version has it, " Leave off praying." Ex. xxxii. 10. So long as Abraham asked mercy for Sodom, the Lord went on giving. He never ceased to give till Abraham ceased to pray. wondrous power of faithful prayer. What tongue can tell th' Almighty grace? God's hands bound or open are, As Moses or Elijah prays : Let Moses in the Spirit groan, And God cries out — "Let me alone!" Let me alone, that all my wrath May rise, the wicked to consume ; While justice hears thy praying faith, It cannot seal the sinner's doom: My Son is in my servant's power, And Jesus forces nie to spare. PRAYER. 118 " Whosoever hIiiiH call upon the name of the Lord «hall be saved." Rom. x. 13. ''Behold, I stand at the door and knock : if any man hear My voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup v^^ith him, and he with me ;" " and I will raise him up at the last day." Eev. iii. 20 ; John vi. 40. " If any man lack wis- dom," says St. James, "let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not ; and it shall be given him. But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea, driven with the wind and tossed. For let not that man think that he shall receive anything of the Lord. Elias w^as a man subject to like passions as we are, and he prayed earnestly that it might not rain : and it rained not on the earth for the space of three years and six months. And he prayed again and the heavens gave rain, and the earth brought forth her fruit." James i. 5-7 ; v. lY, 18; 1 Kings xviii. 41-46. The church at Jerusalem made prayer without ceasing for Peter in prison ; but when the prayer was answered they would hardly believe it. Acts xii. 15 ; xvi. 25-34. A certain good man's wife was once taken with a fatal sickness. He was very poor, and her sickness crushed him. He could not pay his rent. His landlord procured a writ, and sent a sheriff to seize his goods. It was a moment of overwhelming sorrow. His dying wife wept bitter tears. His own heart was breaking. What could he do ? His landlord professed reTigion ; would he not relax his grasp and let the woman die in peace ? 10* 11-i PRAYER. No ; his religion was nothing but profession, for he turned the pleading husband from his door with words of stone. What next ? Hear the poor husband's story. He says : " I went to my God. I knew he felt for me." (1 Pet. V. Y; Jas. ii. 13.) " I laid the whole affair before him with many a speechless tear. " What then ? God an- swered that cry by sending a friend to the pleader, who told him to tell the state of his affairs to a Mr. . He did so, and Mr. replied : " Do not be troubled about it. I will help you, and pay your rent too." This poor man cried, and the Lord delivered him out of all his trouble. Ps. xxxiv. 6; cxlvii. 3; 1 Cor. iii. 21-23; 2 Cor. v. 9, 10. Without faith it is impossible to please God. Heb. xi. 6; Deut. xxxii. 20; Habak. ii. 4. "The object," says Baillie, "on which faith fixes its eye, is not the heart's ever-varying frames, but the never-varying Christ." " The soul," says Flavel, " is the life of the bod}- . Faith is the life of the soul. Christ is the life of faith." The Christian's faith, like the world, should hang on nothing but the word of God, and have no other support but that; and he himself, like the stars, should float on the ether of confidence, needing nothing to uphold him but the right hand of the God of Abraham. Those who wrestle the hardest in supplication will hold the angel the longest. Jacob obtained the blessing, but how ? Why, he wrestled till break of day; that is, as the prophet explains it in Hosea xii. 14, " he wept and made supplicsption unto Him." He was importunate in his request ; could take no denial ; but offered one plea, I'KAYER. 115 and then unullier, until he had power witli God, and Jesus blessed him there. Gen. xxxii. 24-30. Beautiful in its simplicity and earnestness is Jacob's pr^vjer : *'0 God of my father, Abraham, and God of my father, Isaac, the Lord which saidst unto me, Return unto thy country, and to thy kindred, and I will deal well with thee : I am not worthy of the least of all thy mercies and of all thy truth, which thou hast showed unto thy servant: for with my staff I passed over this Jordan, and now I am become two bands. Deliver me, I pray thee, from the hand of Esau, for I fear him, lest he will come and smite me, and the mother with the children. And thou saidst, I will surely do thee good, and make thy seed as the sand of the sea, which cannot be numbered for multitude." Jacob wrestled with the Angel of Jehovah's presence. He agonized with none other than the incarnate God. He laid hold of the strength of the Lord's Anointed, that he might be at peace with him. "And He said, let me go, for the day breaketh." No — this can never be — to let go now is to lose all. Still, though halting and weary, he clings to his " Friend" — and cries out, " 1 will not let thee go except thou bless me !" That is the cry of faith, importunate, fervent faith, that will take no denial. This ended the conflict. " And He said unto him. What is thy name ? And he said, Jacob. And He said. Thy name shall no more be called Jacob, but Israel ; for as a prince hast thou power with God, and hast prevailed. And Jacob asked him and said. Tell me, I pray thee, thy name ? And He said, Wherefore is it that thou dost ask after my name ? And He blessed him there. And Jacob called the name of that place Penuel, for I have seen God face to face and my life is preserved. 116 PRAYER. And as he passed over Penuel, the sun rose upon him, and he halted upon his thigh." Gen. xxxii. 14-24. Esau is appeased. Instead of lifting his arm in anger against his brother he "ran to meet him, and embraced him, and fell on his neck and kissed him ; and they wept." When a man weeps for sin, it shows that he has strength of mind ; nay, more, that he has strength im- parted by the Holy Spirit, which enables him to amend his ways and turn to God with full purpose of heart. And there are other tears of might too, the tears of tender sympathy ; they are the children of strong affec- tion. St. Paul, in his charge to the elders of the Church of Ephesus, says, " Therefore watch, and remember, that by the space of three years I ceased not to warn every one night and day with tears." Acts xx. 19-31 ; 2 Cor. ii. 4. Alas ! how unlike is this to many of our supplica- tions I It is written of the Lord JeSus himself, that " in the days of his flesh, he offered up prayers and supplica- tions with strong crying and tears." Heb. v. Y. Look at him at the grave of Lazarus, and at the gate of Nain ! The prayers of David, the sweet singer of Israel, bear unmistakable evidence of having been "offered up with strong crying and tears." Hear him : " Lord, rebuke me not in thy wrath, neither chasten me in thy hot displeasure. For thine arrows stick fast in me, and thy hand presseth me sore. There is no soundness in my flesh be- cause of thine anger; neither if; there any rest in my bones because of my sins. For mine iniquities have gone over mine head : as an heavy burden they are too heavy for me. My wounds stink and are corrupt because of my foolishness. I am troubled ; I am bound down greatly ; I go mourning all the day long. For PRAYER. 117 my loins are fired with loathsome disease; and there is no sound- ness in my tiesh. I am feeble and sore broken: I have roared by reason of the disquietness of my heart. Lord, all my desire is before thee ; and my groaning is not hid from thee. My heart panteth, my strength faileth me : as for the liglit of mine eyes, it is also gone from me. My lovers and my friends stand aloof from my sore ; and my kinsmen stand afar off. They also that seek after my life lay i^nares for me : and they that seek my hurt speak mischievous things, and imagine deceits all the day long. But I, as a deaf man, heard not ; and I was as a dumb man that openeth not his mouth. Thus I was as a man that heareth not, and in whose mouth are no reproofs. For in thee, Lord, do I hope : thou wilt hear, Lord my God. For I said. Hear me, lest other- wise they should rejoice over me: when my foot slippeth they magnify themselves against me. For 1 am ready to halt, and my sor- row is constantly before me. For I will declare mine iniquities : I will be sorry for my sins. But mine enemies are lively, and they are strong: and they that hate me wrongfully are multiplied. They also that render evil for good are mine adversaries; because I follow the thing that good is. Forsake me not, Lord God; my God, be not far from me. Make haste to help me, Lord my salvation." Words, looks, actions, may bear evidence of the feel- ings, but a tear comes from the heart, and speaks at once the language of truth, nature, and sincerity. Be assured when you see a tear on the cheek of any man that his heart is touched, and do not behold it with coldness or insensibility. Tears are the unequivocal language of the heart ; they are the unpassioned eloquence of woe, before which the pomp and gloss of speech fade as the orient pearly dew-drop before the morning sun. It must be a stony heart indeed in which the responsive chord of sympathy does not vibrate with the tears of a fellow- man in distress. When the believer is weakest, then is he the strongest. 118 PRAYER. The child that knows most its utter feebleness, intrusts itself most completely into its mother's arms. The young eagle that knows, by many a fall, its own inability to fly, yields itself to be carried on its mother's wings : when it is weak, then it is strong. And just so the be- liever, when he has found out, by repeated falls, his own utter feebleness, clings with simplest faith to the Sa- viour, — leans on his Beloved, coming up out of the wilderness, and hears with joy the words, " My grace is sufficient for thee," and he exclaims, " Thanks be unto God, which always causeth us to triumph in Christ." 2 Cor. ii. 14; 1 Cor. xv. 61. The Lord despises all human strength, and will not have it. Zech. iv. 6 ; Jer. xxiii. 29 ; 1 Cor. viii. 2, 3. Therefore he breaks the bones of the lion and flings him aside into the field to rot, and then, after a little while, meat comes forth from the eater, and sweetness from the strong. Rejoice, therefore, ye " weak" ones ! for the Lord says to you, "Take hold of My strength." Isaiah xxvii. 5; Jer. xvi. 19. ''He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might He increaseth strength. Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall, but they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength ; they shall mount up with wiugs as eagles ; they shall run, and not be weary, and they shall walk, and not faint." Isaiah xl. 29-3L "When I am weak, then am I strong," says St. Paul; and if there be any- thing paradoxical to reason, it is this saying. But in the spiritual life of the Christian it has its root struck PRAYER. 119 through and through, and its most profound and im- portant meaning-. While we are strong or self-sufficient in ourselves, there is no help for us. But when the lamentation, " Lord, save or we perish!" bursts out from the distressed and melting heart, then the day begins to dawn. Prayer — earnest, heart-felt prayer — is the silver trum- pet God commands us to sound in every necessity, and it is the cry he has promised always to regard, even as a loving mother the voice of her child. " Though heaven be His throne, and the earth His footstool," and " though the heaven of heavens cannot contain Him," (1 Kings viii. 27,) he looks to. He dwells with the man who is humble, who trembles at His word. " Thus saith the high and lofty One that inhabiteth eternity, whose name is Holy; I dwell in the high and holy place, with him also that is of a contrite and humble spirit, to revive the spirits of the humble, and revive the heart of the contrite ones." Isaiah Ivii. 15; Psalm cxlvii. 3-12; John xiv. 21-23; 1 Peter v. 5-10. Not one humble, praying soul ever prayed in vain. No, not one, however guilty and despised in this world, ever went, in the name of Jesus, to the throne of grace, and departed unheard and unblest. Oh, what an honor for poor mortal men, to be admitted to a direct and immediate intercourse with " the Lord of glory," to open to him our hearts, to unfold to him our wants, and to speak to him as a child does to his father 1 " Like as a father pitieth his children, so the Lord pitieth 120 PRAYER. them that fear him." Psahii ciii. 13; Deut. viii. 5. "Blessed are they that keep His testimonies, and seek Him with the whole heart." Psalm cxix. 2. Ah, yes; and blessed is that father who can in the day of trouble call his family around him, and lifting his heart to hea- ven, with humble faith and holy love, say : "0 God, Avlio madest earth and sky, The darkness and the day, Give ear to this thy family, And help us when we pray, — For wild the waves of bitterness Around our vessel roar. And heavy grows th« pilot's heart, To view the rocky shore. The Cross our Master bore for us, For Him we fain would bear; But mortal strength to weakness turns, And courage to despair. Have mercy on our failings. Lord ; Our sinking faith renew ; And when thy sorrows visit us, send thy patience too." Prayer is, of all habits, the one which we recollect the longest. Many a grey-headed man could tell you how his father or his mother, or both, used to make him pray in the days of his childhood. Other things have passed from his memory and left no mark behind, but not so with his first prayers. He will often be able to tell you where he knelt, and what he was taught to say, and even how lovingly his parents looked while he raised his infant voice to heaven. It will come up as fresh before his mind's eye as if it were yesterday. Noble and beautiful indeed is the example of that PRAYER. 121 youth who truly loves his parents, and manifest that love by promoting their enjoyments and lightening their cares and burdens. "My dear Mary Elizabeth," said a dying father to his only child, " read to me once more our Lord's last prayer for his disciples." Mary lighted a lamp, and read to him the nth Chapter of St. John. "Now, raise me a little, my dear child," said her father, " and bring me the Bible." Mary put the precious Volume in his hands. "Listen, my dear child," he said, "to the last prayer I oflTer for you." With a trembling voice, and marking the passage in the Bible with his finger as he spoke, he prayed as follows : — "0, my Lord and Saviour, thou art calling me to leave this world, and I must leave my dear cLild alone in it. But let her not be alone : be thou with her. May I go to thee, to be with thee where thou art, my Saviour ! and do thou preserve my child. I do not ask thee to take her out of this world till thou seest it best: but, 0, I beseech thee, do thou keep her from the evil that is in the world. Sanctify her, I pray thee, by thy truth — thy Word is truth. Thou gavest her, Lord, to my care in this world, and I have tried as far as I could to devote her to thee. If we must part now, grant that we may meet — Avith those * gone on before' — at thy throne, to be with thee forever and ever, and to behold thy glory ; for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen." With a throbbing heart and a faltering voice, Mary whispered, "Amen." "Yes, my dear child," continued her father, " I trust that we shall meet again where there will be no more grief, no more sorrow, no more painful separations. When your three brothers died, I suffered very deeply. My soul seemed dried up 11 122 PKAYER. within me. I was broken up and furrowed, as you have seen the earth in time of drought ; yet, after a time, the Lord sent the abundant and refreshing dew of his con- solations, and revived my thirsty soul, and I felt the benefit of the aflQictions ; for, by these and other sore trials, he weaned me more and more from earthly things, and helped me to set my affections on things above." The "poor" man (Rev. ii. 9 ; 2 Cor. vi, 9, 10 ; Jer. ix. 23, 24,) now fell back on his pillow exhausted ; he could speak no more for some time, and Mary stood by his side in silence. The Bible was still grasped in his hands. After he had rested a few minutes, he revived a little, and said, " I thank you once more, my darling child, for all your care and kindness to me in my long illness. You have been truly a dutiful child, and God will bless you. I leave you to his care, and to the care of these Christian friends around my dying bed. Trust in Him, my dear child, and he will provide for you, though I have but little to leave you but my blessing and this sacred Book. I know that you will esteem both more than any wo^'ldly thing. This Bible only cost a few shillings, and yet it is a richer treasure than gold or silver. It is a better legacy than gold or jewels, for it is the Word of God ; and by it we learn to know that heavenly wisdom which is better than rubies. (Prov. iii. 13-18; viii, 4-36; Job xxviii. 12-28: Bom. i. 16, 11.) 'Thou truest Friend that man e'er knew, Thy constancy I've tried ; Where all were false I've found thee true, My Counselor and Guide ! PKAYER. 123 The mines of earth no treasure give That could this Volume buy ; In teaching me the way to live, It taught me how to die.' Take this precious Book, my beloved child, as your father's last gift. Keep it as a remembrance of me. However busy you may be, do not let any morning or evening pass without reading a small portion of it. Try and fix a verse or two in your memory, to think of and meditate on through the day and evening, when your hands are busy. If you do not understand any passage, pray to God to grant you his Holy Spirit to enlighten you. God himself, and he only, can open your eyes and make you see wonderful things in this glorious Yolume. (Psalm cxix. 18-1T ; Jer. xxxiii. 3.) And if you pray to him be will do this, and will give you day by day more knowledge of himself. Each verse, meditated upon with prayer, will become a fresh treasure of heavenly wisdom. 1 have learned more from these few words, ' Consider the lilies of the field,' than I learned in my youth from many a volume. These simple words have been the origin of my purest enjoyments ; and in many an afflic- tion, when 1 was ready to faint under the weight of the trial, they have revived my courage, strengthened my faith, and restored peace to my soul." It is recorded as the character of the wicked, that "they call not upon the Lord." 1 Peter i. 17; 1 Cor. i. 2; Psalm xiv. 4. "They spend their days in wealth, and in a moment go down to the grave. Therefore they say unto God, Depart from us, for we desire not the 124 PRAYER. knowledge of thy ways. What is the Almighty, that we should serve him ? and what profit should we have, if we pray unto him ? Lo, their good is not in their hand: the counsel of the wicked is far from me." Job. xxi. 13-16 ; xxvii. 8-22. It is said of the backsliding Israel- ites, " Your words have been stout against me, saith the Lord. Yet ye say, What have we spoken so much against thee ? Ye have said. It is a vain thing to serve God ; and what profit is it that we have kept his ordi- nances, and that we have walked mournfully before the Lord of hosts ? and now we call the proud happy ; yea, they that work wickedness are set up ; yea, they that tempt God are even delivered. " Then they that feared the Lord spake often one to another : and the Lord hearkened and heard it, and a book of remembrance was written before him for them that feared the Lord, and that thought upon his name. And they shall be mine, saith the Lord of hosts, in that day when I make up my jewels ; and I will spare them as a man spareth his own son that serveth him. Then shall ye return and discern between the righteous and the wicked, between him that serveth God and him that serveth him not." Malachi iii. 13-18 ; Joel ii. 32. " Then shall the righteous shine forth as the sun in the kingdom of their Father." Matt. xiii. 43 ; Dan. xii. 3. Their Sun shall no more go down ; neither shall their moon with- draw itself: for the Lord shall be their everlasting light, and the davs of their mourning shall be ended. CHAPTER VI. PRAYER, CONTINUED. The Bible— Its amazing value — What David and Daniel thought of it — What the veterans of the Cross say — Dr. Arnold's remarks — " Praying with all prayer" hateful to the Devil — His devices — The weapons he uses — What the Christian must do — How to distinguish the true disciples of Christ from mere professors or " reprobates" — Sweet hour of prayer — Prayer within the reach of all — Ignorance or want of education no ex- cuse — What every true soldier of Christ does — What David said of " filthy rags" or self-righteousness — The power of Satan — His depths — His perfidious cruelty — Tries to delude, degrade, and ruin the Christian — His lying and detestable character — His last resource to destroy the Christian — The warnings of the fathers against his deceptions — What provokes Christ most — The recording Angel ever present — Unguarded moments — What the erring Christian must do — What broke Petei-*s heart — The Lord's last prayer fur his disciples, and for all who come to him. Xo man can become truly religious without a close study of the Bible. A prayerful contemplation of its glorious pages fills the soul with emotions of love and tenderness, and lifts the heart in anthems of praise to its glorious Author. Daniel was pondering over the writ- ings of Jeremiah when he was stimulated to present that effectual prayer, in answer to which Gabriel was sent a ministering spirit, to assure him of being " greatly be- loved," and to give him skill and understanding. The sweet singer of Israel took great delight in the perusal 11* (125) 126 PRAYER. of God's word, and pronounced it to be more precious " than gold, yea, than much fine gold : sweeter also than honey and the honey-comb." " A man's love of the Bible at the beginning of a religious course," says Dr. Arnold, "is such as makes the praise which older Chris- tians give in its behalf seem exaggerated ; but, after thirty, forty, or fifty years of a religious life, such praise always sounds inadequate : its glories seem so much more full than they did at first." And this experience of the inexhaustibleness of the Bible grows with the perusal. The more we read it, the more we desire to read, and the more we find to read. After all our delv- ing there are profounder depths to be sounded ; after all our soaring, there are still loftier heights to be scaled. Psalm cxix. 18; Jer. xxxiii. 3; Deut. xvii. 18, 20. Hail, glorious Gospel ! heavenly light whereby We live with comfort and with comfort die ; And view beyond this gloomy scene, the tomb, A life of endless happiness to come. It is said by the biographer of the Rev. Joseph Al- leine, author of the " Alarm to the Unconverted," that he rose at four o'clock in the morning, and employed the time till eight in meditation and prayer ; and considers that as the principal means of Mr. Alleine's high attainments in the Divine life, and his glowing zeal for God, love to souls, and extensive usefulness as a minister of the Gos- pel. It is said by the biographer of the Rev. John Flet- cher, that " at one period of his life, he was brought into such an intricate situation, that he was whollv at a loss PRAYER. 127 to discover what God required at his hands. And such was the dilliculty before him, that the opinions of his most experienced Christian friends could afford him but little light with respect to it. In this state, for three months successively, he spread the intricacies of his case before God, entreating that he would direct the course of his conduct by the order of his providence and the in- fluence of his Spirit. His request was continued till an answer was obtained. It is written of the Lord Jesus Christ himself, that he often withdrew from Company and prayed alone. " In the morning, rising up a great while before day, he went out and departed into a soli- tary place, and there prayed." Mark i. 35. On another occasion, " He went into a mountain to pray, and con- tinued all night in prayer to God." He hath thus left us an example that we should follow in his footsteps. The devil will do all he can to keep us from our closets, embarrass our minds, and hinder us in our ap- proaches to the throne of grace. He knows that "pray- ing with all prayer," is an essential part of the Chris- tian's armor ; and that the feeblest soldier of the cross, if he give himself unto prayer, shall more than conquer. Eph. vi. 10-19; Isaiah xl. 29-31. He will, therefore, exercise his craft and exert his power to draw or drive us from the duty ; and will avail himself of every circumstance and occurrence favorable to his diabolical purposes ; and will adapt his temptations to our natural disposition and temperament, and take advantage of all our weaknesses. Hence the hinderances to prayer 128 PRAYER. are many and various. If we give place to the devil by fostering pride, discontent, distrust of Divine Providence, self-will, or any other wrong temper toward God, we grieve the Holy Spirit, and become indisposed for secret intercourse with Him who "is of purer eyes than to be- hold iniquity." Envy, revenge, censoriousness, evil- speaking, or any other temper contrary to the love of " the brethren," will have the same effect. Unkindness toward those who have a high and holy claim to our sympathy and affection is painfully cruel. We are all creatures of sympathy. We share each other's life, and have the power to render each other happy or unhappy. The wound inflicted by the sword is no more painful than the wound inflicted by a cruel tale-bearing and slanderous tongue. Psalm xli. 6 ; Prov. xi. 9 ; Jer. ix. 3-8 ; xviii. 18 ; James iii. 6. How- careful, then, should we be in all our words, looks, and acts, lest we pain the heart of a fellow-being. In the strength of our selfishness we too often forget the harsh- ness of our words, and the coldness or bitterness of our looks. We care not for the deep and bleeding incisions which they have left behind them. " It was not an enemy," says the Psalmist, " that reproached me; then I could have borne it: neither was it he that hated me that did magnify himself against me ; then I would have hid myself from him : but it was thou, a man mine equal, my guide, and mine acquaintance. We took sweet counsel together, and walked unto the house of God in company." Psalm Iv. 12-14 ; Jer. ix. 4, 5. " These PKAYEli. liiy » are the things that ye shall do : Speak ye every man the truth to his neighbor; exeeute the judgment of truth and peace in your gates : and let none of you imagine evil in your hearts against his neighbor ; and love no false oath: for all these are things that I hate, saith the Lord." Unwatchfulness and levity of spirit are also great hinderances to prayer. While we shudder at the idea of committing open sin, we may unawares slide into a care- less and trifling spirit, and its natural attendant, trifling conversation ; by which the mind is disqualified for the spiritual exercises of the religion of the glorious Gospel of Christ. Cheerfulness becomes a Christian ; and if tempered with discretion and deep piety, makes religion appear amiable to "the world," and conducive to our own happiness. But trifling and levity are unbecoming the Christian character, and unfit the mind for prayer. St. Paul ranks " foolish talking" and "jesting" with fornication, uncleanness, covetousness, and filthiness. Listen : " But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covet- ousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints ; neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks. For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. Let no man deceive you with vain words : for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience. Be not ye therefore partakers with 130 PRAYER. them." Eph. v. 3-t ; 2 Peter ii. 8-10. " These are they who separate themselves, sensual, having not the Spirit. But ye beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost, keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life." Sweet hour of prayer ! sweet hour of prayer ! That calls me from a world of care, And bids me at my Father's throne Make all my wants and wishes known; In seasons of distress and grief, INIy soul has often found relief; And oft escaped the tempter's snare By thy return, sweet hour of prayer. Sweet hour of prayer ! sweet hour of prayer ! Thy wings shall my petition bear, To Him whose truth and faithfulness, Engage the waiting soul to bless; 7\nd since he bids me seek his face, Believe his word, and trust his grace, I'll cast on him my every care. And wait for thee, sweet hour of prayer. Sweet hour of prayer! sweet hour of prayer! May I thy consolation share ; Till from Mount Pisgah's lofty height, I view my home, and take my flight: This robe of flesh I'll drop, and rise To seize the everlasting prize ; And shout, while passing through the air, Farewell, farewell, sweet hour of prayer. Prayer is within the reach of all, — the sick, the aged, the infirm, the paralytic, the blind, the poor, the un- learned, all can pray. It avails us nothing to plead want of memory or want of learning, or want of books, or PRAYER. 131 want of scholarship in this matter. Acts iv. 1.3; Luke xviii. 13, 14 ; Rom. viii. 2G, 27 ; Psalm xxv. 14. " Some- times, perhaps," says Gurnall, "thou hearest another Christian pray with much freedom and fluency, whilst thou canst hardly get out a few broken words. Hence, thou art ready to accuse thyself and to admire him ; as if the gilding of the key made it open the door." Gifts have their root in nature, but grace has its roots in Christ. Lip-service amounts to nothing. God looks at the heart, and knows the imaginations of the thoughts. ] Chron. xxviii. 9; Job xlii. 1; Psalm cxxxix. 4-12; Hosea vii. 2 ; John i. 48, 49. It was not the eloquent proud-praying Pharisee that " went down to his house justified," but the poor publican who " smote on his breast, saying, God be merciful to me a sinner." Inward life does not consist in a life of morbid security, arising from the recollection of having once received the forgiveness of sins. Where a real spiritual life exists, there will be unceasing striving against sin, repeated humiliation before God, and renewed experience of his favor. Were it otherwise, w^hy should the Lord put into his children's lips the daily petition, "Forgive us our trespasses." The true Soldier of the Cross does not feel lifted up by the view of what he has already spirit- ually attained, but humbled, because he is still so far short of w^hat he w^ould like to be. He knows that Christ is "all" in his salvation, and that he is nothing. He knows that his own righteousness is but "filthy rags" before God ; that he is nothing, and that he can 182 PRAYEK. do nothing meritorious to procure salvation from God ; for whatever he does, and whatever he can give, are ah-eady God's property. Luke xvii. 10 ; Deut viii. 10-19. So that he is still led to look up to God, as David did, when he thus disclaims the possibility of creature merit : " All things come of Thee, and of thine own have we given thee." 1 Chron. xxix. 14-16 ; Psalm 1. 12. We must tear in pieces the dress of our imaginary righteous- ness, power, and wisdom. Jer. ix. 23, 24 ; Prov. xxviii. 26. We must not conceal our nakedness, nor seek to hide our shame under the cover of the forgiveness we obtained years ago. We must always come before God as poor sinners and poverty-stricken mendicants, if we wish to recommend ourselves to him. All self-exaltation is an abomination in his sight. The frequency and earnestness with which holy men of God, who spoke as they were moved by the Holy Ghost, warn the Church against the wiles of Satan, prove how absolutely necessary it is, on the part of the Chris- tian soldier, to "watch and pray," to be continually upon his guard. The devil to them was not "the principle of evil," but a terrible malevolent, personal reality — "a roaring lion, going about seeking whom he may devour." 1 Peter iv. 8; Luke xxii. 31. Or disguised as " an angel of light," seeking whom he may deceive. 2 Cor. xi. 14, 15; Rev. ii. 24. "Hell" and the "Devil" were not "figments of the imagination" with them, but horri- ble, ever-present actualities, that inspired them with unspeakable earnestness in warning saint and sinner not r RAVER. 133 to listen to the latter, and to hasten to Christ that they might escape the former. This realization of the unseen and eternal, both in their infernal and celestial aspects, was one of the great elements of their power. This is also true of every man who shines or has shone in the pulpit department of ministerial usefulness. Had Lu- ther not thrown the inkstand at the devil, or John Wes- ley heard of the strange noises and the mysterious movements in the parsonage of Epworth, or John Bun- van been favored with such visions of the invisible world in Bedford jail, or Stoner and Smith, or Payson and M'Cheyne been in such intimate relations with the spiritual, they never could have preached or written with such marvelous, self-forgetful, incisive, penetrating clearness and force as they did. In intellect, in strength, in powers of perception, in subtlety, in all the faculties which make a malignant foe formidable, Satan towers above the hosts of darkness, who obey and follow him as their leader and prince. The titles ascribed to him in the Scriptures all illustrate his malignity and power. They imply that he is desti- tute of every good principle — that he falters not in view of any expedient which may help him to consummate his schemes of ruin. He is to be deterred by no sug- gestions of pity; a stranger alike to truth and love, he lies in wait to deceive, and by all the devices of infernal cunning, he toils, tasking his mighty energies to the utmost, in order to delude, degrade, and ruin the victims of his perfidious cruelty. Gen. iii. 1-4; Isaiah lix. 19; 12. 184 PRAYER. 2 Cor. ii. 11 ; 1 Tim. iii. 6 ; 2 Tim. ii. 24-20 ; 1 Teter v. 8-10 ; James iv. T. In the New Testament he is spoken of as "the Devil," or "the Caluminator," because be is " the accuser of the brethren ; " as " the Tempter," as " a Liar and a Murderer from the beginning ; " as " the Old Serpent, Avho deceived Eve," and as "the Deceiver." John viii. 44 ; 2 Cor. iv. 3, 4 ; Eph. ii. 2 ; Rev. xii. 9-12. He is represented in Kevelations as "the Great Dra- gon," — as "the Angel of the Bottomless Pit, whose name is, in Hebrew, Abaddon, and in the Greek, Apol- lyon, the Destroyer." The apostle Paul styles him "the Prince of the power of the air," and "the god of this world." These are the principal titles ascribed to the devil in the Scriptures, and sufficiently indicate his cha- racter and power. The wrath of Satan is directed to the two-fold object of rendering the lives of men miserable upon earth, and of blasting their hope and prospect of eternal life in hea- ven. He dwells in the wicked, and leads them captive at his will. Eph. ii. 2 ; 2 Tim. ii. 26. When he cannot lure the Christian from the path of God's testimonies, when despite of all his artifices he holds fast the truths of the Gospel, he stirs up the passions of the wicked in whom he rules, and who hate the oracles of God, because they have pleasure in unrighteousness. In the calami- ties entailed upon the house of Israel by their repeated backslidiugs and apostacies from God, we behold the traces of Satan's power and malice as "the Destroyer." He inflames men to the utmost pitch of blasphemy PRAYER. 135 against God, in thu hope that they may Ije suddenly cut oft" and driven away in their wickedness. He blinds the minds of men, and hardens their hearts by strong delu- sions, that they may believe a lie and be damned. 2 Cor. iv. 3, 4 ; 1 Peter ii. 1-8 ; Jude lG-19. Christ is never more wounded in the house of his friends, than when they murmur; nothing seemed so much to overcome his forbearance with the Israelites. Murmuring is a mercy-embittering sin, a mercy-souring sin. As the sweetest things put into a sour vessel sours them, or put into a bitter vessel embitters them, so nmr- muring puts gall and wormwood into every cup of mercy that God gives into the Christian's hands. It is calcu- lated that not less than one million of the children of Israel died in the wilderness by God's judgments for their murmurings. Oh, if men would remember that the recording Angel is always near them, how different w^ould their conversa- tion and conduct be. Listen : '' Wo unto them that seek to hide deep their counsel from the Lord, and their works are in the dark, and they say, Who seeth us ? and who knowethus?" Isaiah xxix. 19. "Suffer not thy mouth to cause thy flesh to sin ; neither say* thou before the Angel, it was an error : wherefore should God be angry at thy voice, and destroy the work of thine hands ?" " Curse not the king, no, not in thy thought, and curse not the rich in thy bed-chamber; for a bird of the air shall carry the voice, and That which hath wings shall tell the matter." Eccles. v. G ; x. 20 ; 2 Kings vi. 12; 136 PRAYER. 1 Cor. iv. 9. " The Lord searcheth all hearts, and un- derstandeth all the imaginations of the thoughts." 1 Chron. xxviii. 9 ; Job xlii. 1. " There is not a word in my tongue, but, lo, Lord, thou knowest it altogether." Psalm cxix. 4 ; Matt. xii. 36 ; 2 Cor. v. 10 ; Heb. iv. 13. Unguarded moments occur, in which the Christian in- cautiously thinks, speaks, or does that which is improper, and is again guilty of unfaithfulness, although against his will ; for only the devil and his seed sin wilfully. The man's "walk" is polluted. What is now to be done? Two paths present themselves, and not unfrequently one of them is taken. The individual either gives himself up to an excessive feeling of his guilt — openly cries out, "Unclean, unclean!" like one who is excluded from the fellowship of the pure, — regards himself as fallen from grace, — considers the bond of union with the Lord as rent asunder, and cries out with Peter, " Lord, not my feet only, but also my hands and my head !" Or else he takes his transgressions too easily, — persuades him- self that the faults he has committed are of no import- ance, — soothes his conscience with the rash and vain idea that the iniquity belongs to the multitude of sins which have been-atoncd for and annihilated by the blood of Christ, and thus unconcernedly proceeds on his way ! In each of these cases there is a deviation, the one to the right, and the other to the left of the line of truth. In the former, the man gives way unnecessarily to an excessive idea of the fault he has committed, and as- cribes it to an influence over his entire state of grace, PRAYER. 137 which according to the Scriptures it docs not exercise. The child of the family of God is not suddenly turned out doors, like a servant or a stranger. The seed of the new birth remains in him, " He that is washed," says Jesus, "is clean every whit; and ye are clean but not all." Who does not understand this speech? Its meaning is, he that has truly become a partaker of the blood of sprinkling and of the baptism of the Holy Ghost — that is, of the twofold grace of absolution from the guilt of sin, and of the regeneration to newness of life, — is, as regards the inmost germ of his being, a thoroughly new man, who has eternally renounced sin, and whoso inmost love, desire^ and intention is direct to God and divine things. When such a man, from weakness, is " overtaken by a fault," as St. Paul expresses it, he has no need of an entirely new transformation, but only a cleansing. He must let his feet be washed. Let this be duly considered by those who are in a state of grace, and let them *' re- sist the devil," "the accuser of the brethren," lest he gain an advantage over them by his boundless accusa- tions. Hold up the blood of the Lamb as a shield against him, and do not suffer your courage and confidence to be shaken. Rev. xii. 9-11. But you must beware of cloak- ing or underestimating your unfaithfulness. No fault is too trifling or inconsiderable. You must suffer the Judge in your breast to perform his office without hinderance, and not refuse to listen to his convictions. You must draw near to God as grieved, but not as a despairing 138 PRAYEll. child, and sincerely confess your faults. Let your lan- guage be as follows: — " Lord, my God, I have sinned against thee afresh, anxl am grieved at it. I judge and condemn myself; but thy mercy is great, and therein do I trust. Sprinkle my conscience with the blood of atonement, and enable me by faith, to appropriate, for this my fault, the suffering thy dear Son endured for me!^' Let the humble and contrite heart pray thus, and the Lord will graciously incline to it, and impart forgiveness to the soul by hisHoly Spirit, and the peace of the soul with the consciousness of adoption will remain undisturbed in the blood of the Lamb. And 0, how do we feel our- selves again united to the Lord, and strengthened anew to fight against Satan, the world, and our own flesh and blood; and how does the joyful confidence bloom afresh in our minds, that we really possess *' a Friend that sticketh closer than a brother," after such a renewed ex- perience of His faithfulness ! Then we arrive again at Penuel, and exultingly say with Jacob, " I have seen the Lord face to face, and my life is preserved ;" and join, with deep emotion, in the words of David, " Re- turn unto thy rest, my soul ! for the Lord hath dealt bountifully with thee!" My God is reconciled; his pard'ning voice I hear; He owns me for his child; I can no longer fear; With confidence I now draw nigh, And Father, Abba, Father, cry. It is said of Peter, that the remembrance of his fall never left him for a moment; and in the degree in which it kept him low, it sharpened his spiritual vision for the PRAYER. 189 mystery of the cross and of salvation by grace. This is abundantly evident, especially in his first epistle. He there comforts believers with the cheering assurance that they are " Kept by the power of God, through faith unto salvation." He calls upon them to " hope to the end for the grace that shall be revealed." Pie impressively reminds them of the weakness and evanescent nature of everything human. He speaks of " the precious blood of Christ as a Lamb without spot," with a fervor which immediately indicates him as one who had deeply ex- perienced its healing power. It is he who addresses the warning to us, " Be sober, be vigilant, for your adversary the devil goeth about as a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour." It was not simply the crowing of the cock that raised Peter from his fall. Nor did the turning of the Lord tow^ard him produce the desired effect. A third and more powerful means was added. What was it ? A word, a call, an exhortation? — No; a look which the eye of "the Keeper of Israel" cast upon his now un- happy disciple, who w^as staggering on the brink of des- truction. This look did wonders. "The Lord turned, and looked upon Peter." What a look must that have been ! What divine sorrow and love must it have ex- pressed ! and how accompanied by the eflfulgence of the Spirit of divine grace ! It struck like destroying light- ning, and at the same time expanded itself in refreshing dew. The Lord's look did not fail of its effect upon Peter. No sooner did the fallen disciple's eyes meet his, than the magic b?nd which held him is dissolved, the UO PKAYEK. Satanic intoxication dispelled, his ears opened, and re- flection returns — nay, sin is acknowledged — his heart is melted — the snare is broken and the bird has escaped Luke xxii. Gl, G2 ; Psalm cxxiv. 7. " The Lord knew that Peter would fall, and his chief care was lest he should despair after his fall ; and that, at the proper time, he should take courage to return to him. Hence, he said, with the kindest forethought, "And when thou art con- verted, strengthen thy brethren." Thus hath the faith which the Holy Spirit produces in every true Soldier of the Cross, a pledge of endurance in his Lord's interces- sion. It may be assaulted, tried and shaken, but can not be extinguished or annihilated. Peter was given to know this, in order that he might be in possession of a sufficient weapon when assailed. But in case of his succumbing, this consciousness was to serve him as a staff, by means of which he might successfully leap over the abyss of despair. " I have prayed for thee," says the Lord, "that thy faith fail not." how the Lord loved his " little flock," when he took their sins with him into judgment, and cast himself into the fire which their transgressions had kindled 1 How he loved them, Avhen his own blood did not seem to him too dear a price to be paid for them, although it was they who were the transgressors 1 He loved them to the end ; and to this day he loves them that are his in similar manner. Listen: "Neither pray I for these alone, but (or them also which shall believe on me through their word. 'J'hat they may all be one, as thou, Father, art in Me, and I in Tlit'i/' CHAPTER VII. OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. What God said in Abraliam's praise — The example of Christ — W:irn. iugs to parents — "I won't" — Job and Solomon on Wisdom — The happy child — A man shall be known in his children — The life speaks — Every action has a tongue — Ahaziah and his wicked mother — Their fearful end — What a properly brought up child hates — What wicked children do — What the Scriptures say of th«m and their wicked parents — The drunk- ard and profane swearer — Who is responsible — " Am I my brother's keeper?" — God commands a disobedient drunken son to be stoned to death by his parents. Obedience to parents has all Scripture on its side. It is said in Abraham's praise, not merely he will train his family, but " he will command his children and his house- hold after him." Gen. xviii. 9 It is said of the Lord Jesus himself, that when he was young he was subject to Mary and Joseph, as a child of their family, until he was thirty years of age ; and forgot not when nailed to the cross, and undergoing the most dreadful of deaths, to provide an effectual support and protection for his mother. See how Isaiah speaks of it as an evil thing when "the child shall behave himself proudly against the ancient." Isaiah iii. 5; Levit. xix. 32. Mark how St. Paul names disobedience to parents as one of the bad signs of the latter days: "This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be Oil) 142 OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce ; despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady, high minded, lovers of pleasure more than lovers of God; having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.''' " But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them ; and that from a child thou hast known the holy Scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus." Rom. iii. 1-5; Heb. iv. 12, 13; 2 Chron. xxxiv. 3; 1 Kings xiv. 13. Notice how he singles out this grace as one that should adorn a Christian minister, "A bishop must be one that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection Avith all gravity. For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the Church of God?" Again, "Let the deacons rule their children and their own house well." And again, "An elder must be one having faithful children, not accused of riot or unruly." lie who resorts to human means, and humnn wisdom only, in the training of his family, and adopts the world's cold and lifeless morality, instead of the living and powerful word of the glorious Gospel of Christ, is sow- ing tares instead of wheat; and the crop will be tares, and nothing but tares. Ever}^ parent, every person that has a child under his care, ought to feel that such child is OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. 143 God's, committed to him for the express purpose of being trained up for God, for the service and enjoyment of God, in time and in eternity; and at his liands will that child be required, if through neglect and mismanagement, it should perish eternally. " Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." Prov. xxii. G ; Deut. viii. 5. Think what it is to have a promise like this. Promises were the only lamp of hope which cheered the hearts of the Patriarchs before the Bible was written. Enoch, Noah, Al)raham, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, — all lived on a few promises, and prospered in their souls. Happy the child who finds the grace, The blessing of God's chosen race, The wisdom coming from above, The faith that sweetly works by love. By the time a child is two years of age, he ought to be in the habit of cheerful submission to w^hatever he knows to be the will of his parents. Be assured if your child says to any of 3^our requirements, " I won't," or sets up resistance in the way of crying and pouting, there is a radical error in your management, that threat- ens shipwreck to the w^hole business of education. Be- sides, a ready, cheerful obedience from the early dawn of reason, while it greatly facilitates every part of after- education, is of essential use to counteract the self-will, the obstinacy, and bad temper of a child, before they are confirmed and strengthened by indulgence. The parent should plant himself on this ground : " ^ly child's will 144 OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. must yield to mine;' not sim})ly to gratify me, but from principle, because God requires it ; and also for his own sake, it being impossible oiT any other condition that he can be prosperous and happy." Let the child render implicit obedience to this great statute of heaven. Every parent ought to be fully aware, that it is in the early part of childhood, more especially, that a corrective can be applied to those evil passions whose dominion in manhood will be certain ruin. " He that spareth his rod hateth his son ; but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes." Prov. xiii. 24. "Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying." Prov. ix. 18. " Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child ; but the rod of correction shall drive it from him." Prov. xxii. 15. " Withhold not correction from the child, for if thou beatest him with the rod he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod and deliver his soul from hell." Prov. xxiii. 13, 14. "The rod and reproof give wisdom ; but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame. Correct thy son and he shall give thee rest, yea, he shall give delight to thy soul." After the establishment of authority over the infant mind, must commence the effort of storing it with know- ledge. "Wisdom," says Solomon, "is the principal thing; therefore, get wisdom." It is, indeed, the prin- cipal thing ; as, without it, nothing valuable can be acquired. Job, speaking of its value, says, " It cannot be gotten for gold, neither shall silver be weighed for the price thereof. It cannot be valued with the gold of OBEDIEXCE TO PARENTS. 145 Opiiir, with the precious onyx or the sapphire. The gold and crystal cannot equal it: and the exchange of it shall not be for jewels of fine gold. No mention shall be made of coral, or of pearls : for the price of wisdom is above rubies. The topaz of Ethiopia shall not equal it, neither shall it be valued with pure gold." Job xxviii. 15-19; Prov. xv. 33; xxiv. 7; Coloss. ii. 3. "Happy is the man that findeth wisdom, and the man that getteth understanding: for the merchandise of it is better than the merchandise of silver, and the gain thereof than fine gold. She is more precious than rubies : and all the things thou canst desire are not to be compared unto her. Length of days is in her right hand ; and in her left hand riches and honour. Her ways are ways of pleasantness, and all her paths are paths of peace. She is a tree of life to them that lay hold upon her: and happy is every one that retaineth her. The Lord by wisdom hath founded the earth; by understanding hath he established the heavens. By his knowledge the depths are broken up, and the clouds drop down the dew. My son, let them not depart from thine eyes : keep sound wisdom and discretion: so shall they be life unto thy soul, and grace to thy neck. Then shalt thou walk in thy way safely, and thy foot shall not stumble. When thou liest down, thou shalt not be afraid; yea, thou shalt lie down, and thy sleep shall be sweet." It is remarkable that all the promises of God to his people are formally and avowedly extended to their children as well as to themselves. This was a funda- 13 146 OBEDIENCE TO PAKENTS. mental idea in his covenant with Abraham : " I will establish my covenant between me and thee, and thy seed after thee, in their generations, for an everlasting covenant, to be a God unto thee and to thy seed after thee. And I will give unto thee and thy seed a/ter thee the land wherein thou art a stranger, all the land of Canaan, for an everlasting possession, and I will be their God. This is my covenant between me and you, and thy seed after thee : Every man-child among you shall be circumcised." A foresight of Abraham's faithfulness and success in training up his children religiously was the ground of God's especial confidence in him : " Shall I hide from Abraham the thing which I do? — For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the Lord, to do judgment and justice." Let the impression dwell upon your heart, and stimulate your every-day's effort, that in proportion that you make your child wise, wise in the possession of every useful kind of knowledge, but especially the knowledge of " the living and true God, and Jesus Christ whom he hath sent," you bring within his reach the means of every kind of usefulness and comfort, here and hereafter ; while, without it, there can be nothing but degradation and wretchedness in time, and, through eternity, everlasting perdition, from that God who hath pronounced on the people of " no understanding," " that the God who made them will not have mercy on them ; he that formed them will show them no favor." OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. 147 The most unwearied diligence is to be used in coni- niunicating this instruction, especially as it regards re- ligious knowledge. As God himself has commanded, *' Ye shall teach them your children, speaking of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou w^alkesi by the way, when thou liest down, and when thou risest up ; and thou shalt write them upon the door-posts of thine house, and upon thy gates." Deut. xi. 19, 20; 1 Sam. iii. 13. Let those who have failed in training up their children to wisdom and piety, inquire whether their diligence has been, from the early dawn of reason, any- thing like what is here required. It is said of Eli, that he honored his sons above God ; and what was the end of Eli and his depraved sous ? He lived to hear of the death of both his sons, and his grey hairs were brought down with sorrow to the grave. 1 Sam. ii. 29; iv. 18. In addition to this, the Lord pronounced the following sentence against his house : — "And the Lord called Samuel again the third time; and he arose and went to Eli, and said, Here am I ; for thou didst call nip. And E!i perceived that the Lord had called the child. There- fore, Eli said unto Samuel, Go, lie down: and it shall be, if He call thee, that thou shalt say, Speak, Lord, for thy servant heareth. So Samuel went and lay down in his place. And the Lord came and cnlled as at other times, Samuel, Samuel. Then Samuel answered, Speak, Lord, for thy servant heareth. And the Lord said to Samuel, Behold, I will do a thing in Israel, at which both the ears of every one that heareth it shall tingle. In that (lay will I perform against Eli all things which I have spoken con- cerning his house : when I begin I will also make an end. For I have told him that I will judge his house for ever for the iniquity which he knoweth ; because his sons made themselves vile, and 148 OBEDIENCE TO PAEENTS. he restrained them not. And therefore I have sworn unto the house of Eli, that the iniquity of Eli's house shall not be purged with sacrifice nor offering for ever." Virtuous youth gradually brings forward accomplished and flourishing manhood ; and such manhood passes of itself, without uneasiness, into respectable and tranquil old age. But when nature is turned out of its regular course, disorder takes place in the moral just as in the vegetable world. As, in the succession of the seasons, each, by the invariable laws of Nature, affects the pro- ductions of what is next in course ; so, in human life, every period of our age, according as it is well or ill spent, influences the happiness of that which is to follow. If the spring put forth no blossoms, in summer there will be no beauty, and in autumn no fruit. So, if youth be trifled away without improvement, manhood Avill be contemptible, and old age miserable. If the beginnings of life have been " vanity," its latter end can be no other than "vexation of spirit." By cool Siloam's shady rill How sweet the lily grows ! How sweet the breath, beneath the hill, Of Sharon's dewy rose ! Lo ! such the child whose early feet The paths of peace have trod — Whose secret heart, with influence sweet, Is upward drawn to God. By cool Siloam's shady rill The lily must decay ; The rose that blooms beneath the hill Must shortly fade away. A man shall be known in his children. Ecclesiasticus OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. 149 xi. 28: Jor. xxxv. 18, 19; Ezek. xvi, 44; Hosca iv. 0. Children, in the first instance, learn almost evcrythint!; by imitation. It seems to be a law of their nature to do what they see others do. Hence the fact so univer- sally observed, that the children grow up to be like those with whom they are reared. Just in proportion to the depravity of the society among whom they dwell, is the difficulty and danger in training up a family for God. Kegard it, then, as essential to j^our success, that you should be before your children, what you would have them to be. Teach them to be wise, by acting wisely in their presence. Teach them love, and faith, and humility, and godly fear, and other Christian graces, by habitually acting those graces before their eyes. Keeping your children much with yourself, taking them daily to the throne of grace, and exemplifying in simplicity and godly sincerity, the true Christian character before them, it will be marvellous indeed, if, in due time, you have not the unspeakable happiness of seeing " some good thing toward the Lord" in them. Example is a living lesson. The life speaks. Every action has a tongue. Happy the cliild wlio wisdom gains; Thrice happy who his Guest retains lie owns, and shall forever own, Wisdom, and Christ, and heaven are one. Xuthing can be more certain than that impious or pro- fane thoughts, uttered by a parent, makes an impression on the young heart which nothing can efface. Such a parent may be a member of church, or even a preacher 18* 150 OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. of the Gospel, and pra}^ and sing, night and morning, but this will only add to his guilt, " For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unright- eousness." " If God spared not the angels that sinned, but cast them down to hell," and spared not the old world, and destroyed the people of Sodom and Gomorrha, on account of their " filthy conversation and unlawful deeds," will he spare parents whose filthy conversation and unlawful deeds lead their children to hell ? No ; he will not spare them, for he declares that he will tear them in pieces. Psalm 1. 22 ; Rev. xxi. 2t. There is none upon earth more desperately wicked than the parent who neglects, or refuses, to train up his children for useful- ness and heaven. Indeed he is infinitely more guilty than a common murderer, inasmuch as he destroys the souls of his own children ; and through their vile exam- ple, the souls of other children. It is said of Ahaziah, king of Israel, that he walked in the ways of the house of Ahab, for Athaliah, " his mo- ther, was his counsellor to do wickedly ; '' and that this led "to his destruction." It is written of the sons of this wicked woman, that they " had broken up the house of God ; and also all the dedicated things of the house of the Lord did they bestow upon Baalim." But a dreadful doom overtook them and their wicked mother. (See the 22d and 23d, and 24th Chapters of 2 Chronicles.) The parent is the natural guardian of the in-tellect and heart of his child, and God will hold him responsible OBEBIEXCK TO PARENTS. 151 who deputt's his duties to auother. The father reiire- sents the divine Lawgiver, whose vicegerent he is for carrying out the gracious designs of an infinite benevo- lence, in the establishment of upright principles, and the formation of a pure, virtuous character. Almost every- thing depends on preoccupying the soul with right habits, of which none is so intimately connected with favorable religious developments, as the habit of obedience to legi- timate authority. This is a strictly fundamental principle in the Christian religion, and should be the first object in family government. Every parent who fails in estab- lishing this unquestioned dominion over his child, does in the same degree entail upon him a curse of fearful omen. It may be laid down as a Christian axiom, that the rebellious spirit which refuses obedience to parents, will be the last to render it to God. Dr. Johnson gave this advice to parents : "Accustom your children to a strict attention to truth, even in the most minute particulars. If a thing happen at one win- dow, and they when relating it say that it happened at another, do not let it pass, but instantly check them ; you do not know where deviation from truth will end. It is more from carelessness about truth than from inten- tional lying that there is so much falsehood in the world." The evil and injustice of lying appear, 1. From its b, ing a breach of the natural and universal right of mank 'd to truth in the intercourse of speech. 2. From its being a violation of God's sacred law. Phil. iv. 8 ; Levit. xix. 11; Col. iii. 9. 3. The faculty of speech was 152 OBEDIKXCE TO PARENTS. bestowed as an instrument of knowledge, not of deceit ; to communicate our thoughts, not to hide them. 4. It is esteemed a reproach of so heinous and hateful a na- ture for a man to be called a liar, that sometimes the life and blood of the slanderer have paid for it, 5. It has a tendency to dissolve all society, and to indispose the mind to religious impressions. 6. The punishment of it is, the loss of credit, the hatred of those whom we have deceived, and an eternal separation from God. Rev. xxi. 8 ; xxii. 15 ; Psalm ci. 7 ; Jer. ix. 3 ; Amos ii. 4 ; Zech. viii. Ifi, n. A properly brought up child is always obedient to his parents, and hates idleness and lying, because he knows that while the one " shall clothe a man with rags," the other wnll bring him to shame, and sink his soul in eter- nal ruin. Prov. xxiii. 21 ; Rev. xxi. 8. He never takes the name of God in vain, or utters any oath or degrading expression, because he knows that all blasphemers, sw^earers, liars, and filthy talkers are children of the devil, and will be with him, in his " own place," when they die. Levit. xxiv. 10-lG ; Zech. v. 3, 4; John viii. 44 ; Eph. ii. 2 ; 2 Peter ii. 4-8 ; Rev. xxi. 8 ; xxii. 11, 15. He never throws stones at other children, or at animals, or birds, because he knows that none but the most de- praved children are ever guilty of such ungodly and un- neighborly conduct. He is cleanly and neat in person, and mannerly, and learns his lessons cheerfully, .because he loves God, and his parents, and hopes to become a useful and respected member of Christian society. He OBEDIENCE TO PxVREXTS. 153 not only reiuk'r.s cheerful obedience to his parents, but makes them repositories of all his secrets. There is nothing clandestine in his movx'ments. He takes no step without consulting them, lie tells them all his })lans and all his troubles, and seeks their advice in everything. He is not smitten or carried away with the attention of strangers, for he knows "not the voice of strangers." He allows no human being to alienate his interest from his parents ; nor does he set up a separate interest under the idea of personal independence. He goes with his parents to the Sanctuary, unites his re- ligious sympathies with theirs, and listens to the truth as it is in Jesus, — as it is in the Evangelical or New Testament churches. Principle, not fashion or caprice, governs his movements in these respects. His likes and dislikes are all sacrificed on the altar of filial affection. He knows if he is led hither and thither as fashion or caprice or self-indulgence may prompt, he will find ere many years are passed over his head, that his course, like that of Esau, may bring upon him consequences which he will have reason to deplore whilst yet there is left no space for repentance. Heb. xii. IG, 17; Prov. i. 24-28; Levit. xix. 3; Deut. v. IG. Thrice happy is the youth, Who, morning, noon, and night, Reads the blest page of sacred truth. And makes it his delight; — He loves the hour of prayer, And takes delight in praise: The Lord to bless him will be near With sanctifying grace. 15^ OBEDIEXCE TO PARENTS. Uiidutif'ul or vile children, fill the minds of all good men with loathing and horror; and they are objects of still more abhorrence to God than men. Deut. xxi. 18- 21 ; 1 Sam. ill. 10-14 ; 2 Kings ii. 23, 24. It is written of the parents of such children, as well as the children tluuiiselves, that " The shew of their countenance doth witness against them ; and they declare their sin as Sodom, they hide it not." Isaiah iii. 9 ; Ezek. xvi. 19; 2 Peter ii. Y, 8. When wicked behaviour, or irreligious practices, have gained such headway as to destroy the beauty of the countenance, what must be the condition of the soul of such a person ? But, thanks be to God, the religion of the glorious Gospel of Jesus Christ is able to change the boldness of the most repulsive face, and make it shine with beams of heavenly beauty. Eccles. viii. 1 : Prov. xx. 11 ; Matt. vii. 16. By these never- failing indications we are able to distinguish the children of Light from the children of darkness. The parents of the latter " hate him that rebuketh in the gate, and they abhor him that speaketh uprightly." Like the children of Belial in the days of Jeremiah the prophet, they say, " Come, let us smite him with the tongue, and not give heed to any of his words." The Psalmist, speaking of this class of men, says, " Hide me from the secret coun- sel of the wicked ; from the insurrection of the workers of iniquity : who whet their tongue like a sword, and bend their bows to shoot their arrows, even bitter words: that they may shoot in secret at the perfect: suddenly do they shoot at him, and fear not. They encourage Ol^EDIEXCE TO PARENTS. 165 theiuselvoy in an evil matter: they conuuune of laying snares privily ; they say, Who shall see them ?" A dreadful doom awaits such men. Deut. xxxii. 35 ; Job xxi. 30, 31 ; Psalm xi. 6 ; Matt. xxv. 41-4G ; 2 Peter ii. 4-12: Jude 5-8; Rev. xxi. 8. There is one clear and distinct ground upon which we mtiy limit the application of a precept that is couched in absolute language — the unlaw^fulness, in any given con- jecture, of obeying it. " Submit yourselves to every ordinance of man." 1 Peter ii. 13. This, literally, is an unconditional command. But if we were to obey it un- conditionally, we should sometimes comply with human, in opposition to Divine laws. In such cases, then, the obligation is clearly suspended ; and this distinction the teachers of Christianity recognized in their practice. When "an ordinance of man" required them to forbear the promulgation of the doctrines of the New Testament, thev refused obedience ; and urged the befitting expostu- lation — "Whether it be right in the sight of God to hearken unto you more than unto God, judge ye." Acts iv. 19. They accordingly "entered into the temple early in the morning and taught;" and when, subsequently, they were again brought before the council and interro- gated, they replied, " We ought to obey God rather than men;" and notwithstanding the renewed command of the council, " daily in the temple and in every house, they ceased not to teach and preach Jesus Christ." Acts V. 29, 42. So, too, with the filial relationship : " Children, obey your parents in all things." Col. iii. 20. But a pa- 156 OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. rent may require his child to go to the rum-shop for liquor; to lie, steal, or go with him to an infidel meeting, the theatre, dance-house, or some other place of debauch- ery, and therefore when a parent requires obedience in such things his authority ceases, and the obligation to obedience is taken away by the moral law itself The precept is virtually this : Obey your parents in all things, unless disobedience is required by the will of God ; and that is so clearly set forth in the Bible, that " w^ayfaring men, though fools, shall not err therein." All human authority ceases at the point w^here obedience becomes criminal. We have clear illustrations of this in the fol- lowing passages of Scripture : — " If thy Li'other, the son of thy mother, or thy son, or thy daughter, or the wife of thy bosom, or thy friend, which is as thine own soul, entice thee, saying. Let us go and serve other gods, which thou hast not known, thou, nor thy fathers ; namely, of the gods of the people which are round about you, nigh unto thee, or far from thee, from the one end of the earth even unto the other end of the earth ; thou shalt not consent unto him, nor hearken unto him ; neither shall thine eye pity him, neither shalt thou spare, neither shalt thou conceal him : but thou shalt surely kill him ; thine hand shall be first upon him to put him to death, and afterward the hand of all the people. And thou shalt stone him with stones, that he die ; because he hath sought to thrust thee away from the Lord thy God, which brought thee out of the land of Egypt, from the house of bondage. And all Israel shall hear, and fear, and shall do no more any such wickedness as this among you." (Deut. xiii. 0-11 ; Jer. xvii. 5.) Again, "He that loveth father or mother more than Me is not worthy of me : and he that loveth son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of me. And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after Me is not worthy of me." OBEDIEXCE TO PARENTS. 157 God manifests his abhorrence of wicked children in these words : "If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them, then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him, and bring him out unto the elders of his city, and unto the gate of his place ; and they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice ; he is a glutton, and a drunkard. And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones that he die : so shall thou put evil away from among you ; all Israel shall hear, and fear." Deut. xxi. 18-21 ; Prov. xxii. 6 ; Eccles. iv. 13. The Scriptures declare that no drunkard or profane swearer shall inherit the kingdom of God. There is no limitation to this edict, — it is absolutely positive. How- then shall w^e estimate the nature of those vices, which doom their perpetrators to hell ? The man w^ho takes my little son, whom I love as I love myself, and strikes into his throbbing heart an assassin's knife, and draws it forth reeking with his innocent blood, and hurls in my face the murdered child and the fatal weapon with which the murderous blow was inflicted, commits a deed which causes every impulse and sensibility of my nature to re- coil in agony far too intense for language to describe. The eye turns instinctively from it as something too horrible to be seen, and it is enough to madden any fond parent's brain. But the man who seduces this same 14 158 OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS, child into the haunts of vice — who leads him into the path of moral obliquity from God — who puts to his lips the poisoned chalice, drugged with spiritual death, and constrains or induces him to drink it — that man perpe- trates a deed, in the sight of God, far more hideous in its natui'e than the other — far more revolting to the pious parent's heart — far more ruinous in its consequences. He is a murderer of deeper dye, for he is a murderer of the soul. Far better that my dear child had perished by the vile assassin's hand — far better that I had felt the delirium of agony over his mangled, bleeding remains, and enjoyed the conviction that his spirit had gone, re- deemed by Christ, to his heavenly Father, than that I should be compelled to witness him a moral suicide, " without God and without hope in the world." The late celebrated Benjamin Rush, M. D., of Phila- delphia, speaking of the effects of ardent spirits upon the human body and mind, said, " This odious disease of drunkenness — for by that name it should be called — appears with more or less of the following symptoms, and most commonly in the order in which I shall enumerate them : 1. Unusual garrulity. 2. Unusual silence. 3. Captiousness, or a disposition to find fault and quarrel. 4. Uncommon good-humor, and an insipid simpering or laugh. 5. Profane swearing and cursing. OBEDIENCE TO PAKEXTS. 159 6. A dirtclo.sure of their own and other people's secrets. T. A rude disposition to tell those persons in company whom they know, their faults. 8. Certain immodest actions. 9. Clipping of words. 10. Fighting ; a black eye, or a swelled nose. 11. Certain extravagant acts which indicate a tempo- rary fit of madness. These are singing vile ballads or songs, hallooing, roaring, imitating the noises of four- legged brutes, jumping, tearing off clothes, dancing naked, breaking glasses and china, and dashing other articles of household furniture upon the ground or floor. After a while the paroxysm of drunkenness is completely formed. The face now becomes flushed, the eyes project, and are somewhat watery, winking is less frequent than is natu- ral ; the under lip is protruded or stuck out — the head inclines a little to one shoulder — the jaw falls — belching and hiccough take place — the limbs totter — the whole body staggers, and the wretched man soon falls on his seat. He now^ looks around him with a vacant counte- nance, mutters inarticulate sounds to himself, and attempts to rise and walk, but falls upon his side, from which he gradually turns upon his back. He now closes his eyes and falls into a profound sleep, frequently attended with loud snoring, and profuse sweats. In this condition he often lies one, two, three, four, and five days, an object of pity and disgust to his injured family and friends. His recovery from this fit of intoxication is marked with several peculiar appearances He opens 160 OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. his eyes and closes them again — he gapes and stretches his limbs — he rises with difficulty, and staggers to a chair — his eyes resemble balls of fire— his hands tremble — he loathes the sight of food — he calls for a glass of whiskey and a red herring to ' compose ' his stomach ! — now and then he emits a deep-fetched sigh, or groan, from a transient twinge of conscience ; but he more fre- quently scolds, and curses his wife and children, and everything around him. In this stage of languor and stupidity he remains for two or three days, before he is able to resume his work." Thomas Sewall, M. D., Professor of Anatomy and Physiology in the Columbian College, Washington City, D. C, speaking of the effects of ardent spirits upon the human body and mind, said, " On examining the lungs of the drunkard after death, they are frequently found adhering to the walls of the chest ; hepatized, or affected with tubercles. The drunkard dies easily, and from slight causes. A sudden cold, a pleurisy, a fever, a fractured limb, or a slight wound of the skin is often more than his shattered powers can endure. Even a little excess of exertion, an exposure to heat or cold, a hearty repast, or a glass of cold vvater, not unfrequently extinguishes the small remains of the vital principle. Many of those deaths which came under my notice seemed almost spontaneous, and some of them took place in less than one hour from the first symptoms of indisposition." " But time would fail me were I to at- tempt an account of half the pathology of drunkennesa OEEDIEXCE TO PARENTS. 161 And who is the responsible author of all this? 1 appeal to any fellow-citizen. Are not we the authors? The power emanates from us; we delegate it to the consti- tuted authorities, and we say to them, ' Go on ; cast fire- l)rands, arrows, and death ; and let the blood of those that perish be on us and on our children.' Every mem- ber of society is morally and politically constituted, by the relations he sustains, his 'brother's keeper.' To deny this position is to assume grounds with Cain, the first murderer." No human being suffers alone. He is a member of a body politic, and as such, contributes his pains to others, according to the more or less intimate relationship exist- ing between them. If he has submitted himself to be victimized by a ruinous appetite or passion, and falls into sin, he draws others with him to participate in the woes consequent upon his transgressions, though they may not be involved in his personal guilt. Considering the frightful crimes which the sale of intoxicating drinks is the direct or incidental cause, there is not an intelli- gent man who will not declare it the most immoral and demoralizing business that is pursued on earth. The injury it inflicts on the buyer, the seller, and society, is, in fact immeasurable and incalculable. It is wide-spread, overwhelming, appalling. Terms are too weak to express it: the reality far exceeds any epithets wiiich can be employed to describe it. The earth groans under it. Man cries to man and to heaven for deliverance from it. The bodies of some drunkards have been so thoroughly 14* 162 OBEDiEXCE TO PARENTS. Steeped in spirit as literally to take fire aud consume to ashes. There is doubtless far more danger than has been ^ imagined, in a drunkard's bringing his mouth or nose near a lighted taper. The wonder is that instances of combustion are not of daily occurrence. Medical writers cite numerous cases. Ploquet mentions twenty-eight. The family circle are most interested in the reforma- tion of that individual of their number who has become addicted to vice of any description, because they are most directly involved in the evils which such vice produces ; and next to the family circle, the community in which the criminal has his residence are implicated most in the consequences of his crimes, and have the greatest amount of interest in his recovery from his destructive habits. But this is not all. Power to reform is proportionate to the interest involved. The mutual influence, either for good or evil, inherent in the family constitution, is almost omnipotent. If this influence be exerted aright, and perseveringly exerted, for the reformation of the inebriate, it can seldom fail of success. But if the mem- bers of the family circle neglect, or refuse, to exercise the reforming* power with which the}^ have been endowed, then are they responsible for the whole amount of such neglect, or refusal. The same remarks, substantially, are appropriate to the community. It is their duty, as well as their interest, that every member should regard the public laws, and lead a virtuous life. A fearful doom awaits the drunkard aud the profane swearer. They are classed with the abomina])le, with OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. 168 thieves, murderers, whoremongers, and liars. What end does the profane swearer propose to himself? Does he suppose his neighbor will believe him any sooner, because he affirms his word by an oath ? Mistaken man ! He who has so little reverence for God, as to take his name in vain, will not think it dighonoraljle to lie, if he think it will answer his selfish purposes. Does he think it becoming a gentleman to trifle thus with the tremendous name of God ? Alas ! how degraded must be the state of society if profane swearing will add to the dignity of a man's character ! Thank God, it is believed that the generality of men have more exalted ideas of the proper dignity of man, than to suppose that such conduct will elevate him in the estimation of his fellow-citizens. " Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain : for the Lord will not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain." Exod. xx. 7. "And the Lord spake unto Moses, saying, Bring forth him that cursed without the camp; and let all that heard him lay their hands upon his head, and let all the congregation stone him." Levit. xxiv. 13, 14. "Because of swearing the land mourneth." Jer. xxiii. 10; Hosea iv. 23. "As I live, saith the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live : turn ye, turn from your evil ways; for why will ye die?" Ezek. xxxiii. 11; Isaiah i. 18; Prov. i. 24-28; Luke xv. 10. The thoughts of such goodness abused, and such amazing clemency affronted, seem to the awakened sinner almost as insupportable as those of God's wrath and severity ; and 161 OBEDIENCE TO TAREXTS. he exclaims, in the anguish of his soul, ''Oh, whither shall I turn ? I dare not look upward: the sun and stars upbraid me there. If I look downward, the fields and fountains take their Creator's pait, and heaven and earth conspire to ag- gravate my sins. Those common blessings tell me how much I am indebted to thy bounty. Oh, in what delirium has my life been passed ! what have T been doing ! "When I look back on my former days, The only comfort the review aft'ords Is, that they're past. For through their course I cannot recollect One free from sorrow, guilt, or disappointment : Yet heedless still through the same paths I stray, And rashly venture on the dangerous road ; With open eyes, like one asleep I walk, And drink the cup, although I know 'tis poison'd. Why am I led thus captive by my will, While Reason, faithful guide, forever warns My drowsy soul to shun impending danger? This night may be my last; I ne'er again May see the dawning of another morn : Shall I forego the joys of heaven, to soothe A wayward fancy or destructive passion? Ah, no!" " And when he came to himself, he said, How many hired servants of my father's have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger! I will arise and go to my father, and will say unto him. Father, I have sinned against heaven and before thee, and am no more worthy to be called thy son : make me as one of thy hired servants." (See Luke xv. 17-24.) CHAPTEil VIII. O 15 j: U 1 E N C E TO 1' A R E N T S , C N T I i\ U E P . Susceptibility of the young mind to evil impressions — The Christian family — A dying mother's last words to her son — The remembrance of her great love for him brings tears in his eyes — The boy who is " too big" to obey his mother— What Christ, the King of kings and Lord of lords did — The Bible knows no to-morrow — "Thinking about it" — A limit to provocation. The second generation of " badly brought up children" will be invariably worse than the first, for parents who were not, themselves, obedient and properly trained in childhood, however much they may wish to perform their duty toward .their own children, will be impotent to secure obedience, for there is no law more immutable than this, that persons can not govern who have not, themselves, been governed. It is no exaggeration to say, that the developments of right moral and -eligious character is wholly the work of education and religious nurture: meaning, by these terms, not the training of the parent and teacher only, but also the agency of cir- cumstances, — whilst the force of example and association alone, independent of all direct inculcation, is sufficient to impress upon the child's plastic nature, any form of vice and ungodliness. Let him grow up among idolaters, and that circumstance ensures his Ijeing a devotee to (1G5) 166 OBEUIEXCE TO PARENTS. false gods, and the deadly foe of all true piety and virtue. Life among the Fejees would infallibly convert the child of Christian parents into a cannibal. Give your babe to be nursed and trained in an infidel family, and he will, with- out somo, strong remedial or preventing influence from better sources, grow up to be an enemy and a contemner of Christ. Nurtured in a den of thieves, or smugglers, or robbers, he will feel neither horror nor disapprobation of the atrocious crimes with which he is constantly familiar; and to become the most daring and expert of the gang will, in all probability, be the highest aspiration ever felt by his blighted spirit. Without going beyond the limits of our own neighborhood, or perhaps twenty yards from the door of the church where we pay our adoration to God, we may find scores of vile, hardened boys and girls, with whom we could not allow our child to play in the streets, without feeling a certainty that he would become, like them, a reckless vagrant. Such is the susceptibility of the young mind to evil impressions : and it inculcates a Christian lesson upon all parents who have hearts, to care for the immortal destinies of their children, more influential than ten thou- sand arguments. A family where all the members of it live in love and peace, is like a little heaven below. Love and kindness are the tempers which Jesus delights to see us cultivate ; and these are the tempers, too, which the Holy Spirit produces in all who truly love God and keep his com- mandments " Heaven, I know," said a dying Christian OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. 167 mother to her only son, " will Ijless so good a son as you have been to me. You will have that consolation, my son, which visits but few — you will be able to look back upon your past conduct to me, not without pain only, but with a holy joy. * * * Do not be so afflicted, my son, at the loss of me. We are not to part for ever." Poor boy! In after years, speaking of his infant recol- lections, he says : " The mere thougbt, Of her great love for me has often brought Tears in my eyes. Though far away, It seems as it were yesterday. And just as when I looked on high Through the blue silence of the sky, Fresh stars shine out, and more and more Where I could see so few before ; So the more steadily I gaze Upon those far-off misty days, Fresh words, fresh t/ftes, fresh mem'ries start. Before my eyes and in my heart." Ah, yes, the remembrance of the scenes of his youth now appear to him like far visions of happiness. His dear, dear mother died whilst he was yet young. He now looks upon the time, as upon a vision of devotion commingled with love, when he saw her oft upon her knees, in secret prayer. He heard her pray, not for her- self alone, but for him, and sent up his name in earnest supplication to her heavenly Father. She asked — with tears streaming down her cheeks — the God of salvation to bless liim, her then hope and delight, whilst he won- dered to whom his mother was addressing herself, for he 168 OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. saw no one in the room besides himself, and she was not speaking to him, but about him. He now remembers the impressive sight he witnessed, as he entered her death- chamber, — her pale and haggard countenance ; her sickly, failing eye, with which she looked out upon him from her dying pillow, as if from the very confines of the eternal world. He remembers how thin and how pale the hand was w4th which she pressed his, w4ien she bade him a sorrowful adieu ; and how agonizingly anxious that look was with which she gazed into his face, and charged him, in the name of her blessed Lord and Saviour, to wrestle with God day and night for the sal- vation of his soul, and to seek through the blood of Jesus for the pardon of his sins. He remembers that he saw his dear mother die, and go the way of all the earth, and that he attended, with others, her funeral. He saw the newly opened grave, and the coSin, the lid of which hid from his view the changed countenance of his best earthly friend, and he weeps tears of bitter anguish. He remembers also seeing the grave filled up, and the tears of sympathizing friends, who, with him, encircled the grave, and then left his dear, dear mother there in the narrow bed of death. Poor boy ! poor boy ! how we feel for you in your sore bereavement. The boy who is " too big" to obey his mother is in a most dangerous state of mind. Think of Christ, the " King of kings and Lord of lords." When he sat with the learned doctors in the temple at Jerusalem, he was not too old and too wise to obey his mother. Badly OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. 169 brought up children may be known by their rude un- mannerly behaviour to each other, to their neighbors, and to strangers. On the other hand, Christian children are not only civil and mannerly to all, but love God, and their parents. All such children know that " the fear oC the Lord is the beginning of wisdom ;" and that wisdom is more precious than "jewels of fine gold," (Job xxviii. IT, 28; Prov. iii. 13-24; Jer. ix. 23, 24; Colos. ii. 3; Eph. iii. 18, 19;) because it confers happi- ness that all the jewels and gold in the world could not confer: a happiness "which passeth knowledge," — a happiness "unspeakable and full of glory." The mouth of the wicked " is full of cursing and deceit and fraud ; under his tongue is mischief and vanity. He hath said in his heart, God hath forgotten : he hideth his face; he will never see it." Psalm x. 4, T, 11; Eccles. xii. 14. Ah, there is no escape from His all-seeing eye. Psalm cxxxix. 4-12; Luke xii. 2, 3. " Understand, ye brutish among the people ; and ye fools, when will ye be wise ? He that planteth the car, shall he not hear? He that formed the eye, shall he not see?" Psalm xciv. 89; 1 Sam. ix. 15-27; x. 2-16; 1 Chron. xxviii. 9 ; 2 Kings vi. 12 ; Eccles. v. 6 ; x. 20. " Lord, thou hast searched me, and known me. Thou knowest my downsitting and mine uprising; thou under- standest my thought afar off. Thou compasseth my path and my lying down, and art acquainted with all my ways. For there is not a word in my tongue, but, lo, O Lord, thou knowest it altogether." Psalm cxxxix. 1-4 ; 15 170 OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. Job xlii. 1 ; 2 Chron. xvi. 9 ; John i. 48, 49 ; Hebrews iv 13. Father of Spirits, nature's God, Our thoughts are known to thee ; Thou, Lord, canst hear each idle word. And every action see. Could we on morning's swiftest wings. Fly through the trackless air, Or dive beneath deep ocean's springs. Thy presence would he there. In vain may guilt attempt to fly, Conceal'd by darkest night; One glance from thy all-piercing eye Can bring it all to light. In the concerns of the soul the Bible knows of no to- morrow. God's calls are meant at once to be answered. Men are ready every moment of their lives for heaven or hell, and should death overtake them while they are parleying, a fearful doom awaits them. There is no guarantee in the Scriptures, that the invitation will ever be repeated, and eternal ruin will be the just punishment of a single rejection. You put off this most solemn duty, and then protest against and flatter yourself that the excuse is sufficient. But this will not answer. You are bound to resolve this question as soon as it is presented for your consideration. Everything else should be post- poned until it is settled. But perhaps you reply that you " have thought it over, but cannot come to any con- clusion." You are deceived; you are tampering with the salvation of your soul. It is not because you can- not, but because you will not. " Thinking about it," OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. 171 without acting, is easy, for it involves the performance of no duty. Reason and conscience both tell you what you ought to do — but that is unpalatable, and you fail in coming to a conclusion, because you have no real inclination to attain any, and hence upon a false basis over your inability to reach any fixed and definite pur- pose ! Rest assured that all the " thinking" in the world will accomplish nothing. Nothing but the stern resolve to give up all and follow Christ, can avail you. Indecision only begets indecision. The more you "think it over," the more irresolute you are. Serious impres- sions become fainter and fainter as you thus trifle, and you are at last so familiarized with them, that they lose their force, and are the more easily dismissed as unwel- come visitors that disturb your "peace." Isaiah Ivii. 21 ; Prov. i. 24-28. There is a limit to provocation, beyond which the mercy of God does not extend. That limit, once reached, the Lord declares the sinner's doom, in these words, " Because I have called, and ye refused; I have stretched out My hand, and no man regarded ; but ye have set at naught all My counsel, and would none of My reproof: I also will laugh at your calamity ; I will mock when your fear cometh as desolation, and your destruction Cometh as a whirlwind ; when distress and anguish cometh upon you. Then shall they call upon Me, but I will not answer ; they shall seek Me early, but they shall not find me : for they that hated knowledge, and did not choose the fear of the Lord : they would none of My 172 OBEDIENCE TO PAKENTS. counsel: they despised all My reproof. Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices." We see, then, that there is a Yoice pleading against sin in every soul, till it is silenced by persistent disregard and determined transgression. Beside the innate corrup- tion of a wicked heart, there is a malignant power, a seducing and deluding Devil. The existence of the devil is as distinctly affirmed in the Scriptures as the existence of God, and his influences in life are as evident. His name, his nature, his personality, his power, are as posi- tively revealed as the name and personality and power of the Almighty. With an eye that never sleeps, with a foot that never wearies, with a breath that never fails, hungering for the souls of men, he hunts them steadily — a true slow-hound that never bays, but runs silently on the trail with superhuman sagacity. But the devil is not the only foe. This great hunter of souls has innume- rable packs of human hounds. Bad men and bad women, " evil men and seducers," as St. Paul calls them. They swarm everywhere in all the nations of the world ; and, having given up their own souls to the Devil, they de- light to help him to secure others. So completely are such people blinded by their infernal master, that they mistake his operations for the spontaneous movements of their own will! They walk according to "the Prince of the power of the air," and they are not conscious of the fact, — their work is so entirely according to the de- sire of their own hearts. Eph. ii. 2, 3 ; John viii. 42-44. OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. 173 The people of the antediluvian world, and of Sodom and Gomorrah, worshipped at Satan's shrine, until the out- raged patience of heaven would no longer bear their pro- vocations. Gen. vii. 21-23 ; xix. 24-28 ; Ezek. xvi. 49, 50 ; 2 Peter ii. 4-10. The place where the wicked shall be punished, is re- presented in the Scriptures under a variety of figures, expressive of its awfulness. It is called " the bottomless pit," Rev. iii. 20; " a furnace of fire," Matt. xiii. 42, 50; " a lake of fire and brimstone," Rev. xxi. 8 ; " hell," Matt, xxiii. 33 ; Mark ix. 41, 48 ; " outer darkness," Matt, viii. 12 ; Psalm xlix. 19 ; Jer. xiii. 14-16 ; " eternal fire," Jude vii. The misery of the wicked in this place, is described in the strongest terms, and by the most dread- ful figures. The nature of helPs torments is represented not only by the worm that never dieth, but also by the fire that "shall never be quenched." In another place, it is declared, not only that the punishment shall be for- ever, but "forever and ever." Rev. xiv. 11; xx. 10. The expression "forever and ever," must certainly mean an infinite duration of time ; for the Bible contains no higher expression to signify the eternity of God himself, than that of his being "forever and ever." Rev. iv. 9. Oh, the anguish of the wicked when the Lord Jesus shall pronounce the fearful sentence, " Depart from Me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire prepared for the devil and his angels!" Oh, what wailing! what fearful cries! Lost ! lost ! forever and ever ! No more Bibles ! no more Tracts ! no more Sabbaths ! no more Sunday- 15* 174 OBEI)TEN"CE TO PAKENTS. schoolvS ! no more invitations to come to Christ ! no more strivings of the Spirit of God ! no more hopes of heaven! Then shall be brought to pass the saying that is written, " The harvest is past, the summer is ended, and we are not saved.-' Jer. viii. 20; Prov. i. 24-28; 2 Thess. i. 1- 9. In that day, the righteous Judge of all the earth " shall be revealed from heaven with his mighty angels, in flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God, and that obey not the Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ: who shall be punished with everlasting destruc- tion from the presence of the Lord, and from the glory; of his power." Oh, what agonies shall it not cause when parents meet the children on whose souls they had no pity, the children whom they never brought to the Saviour, the children unpraycd for, untaught to pray for themselves ! Who shall describe the meeting of such parents and their children in an eternal hell, with " the devil and his angels," and all the damned since the death of Cain — the first murderer, to that day? Oh, how they will wish they had never been born ! How they will wish to teai out their memories ! They will seek death, but it will flee from them. Oh, how it will pierce their souls to have their children challenge them in that day, and say, to them, one by one : " Had you been as careful to teach me the knowledge of the Lord as I was capable of learning : had you been as forward to instruct me in my duties as I was ready to have hearkened, it had not been with me as it is this day. OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. 175 If you had by your own good example, and the use of the rod, restrained me in my wickedness, instead of encouraging me therein, by your filthy conversation, profanity, and unlawful deeds, I had not now stood trembling here in fearful expectation of the eternal doom which is just ready to be passed upon me. It is to you that I must in a great measure owe my everlasting ruin. Unnatural wretch ! that has thus destroyed those whose happiness by so many bonds of duty and affection you were commanded by the Word of God to promote. Be- hold ! the books are now open, and there is not one prayer — one heartfelt prayer — upon record that you ever put up for me ! There is no memorial; no, not so much as one hour that ever was seriously spent to train me up to a sense of God, and to a knowledge of my duty to God ; but, on the contrary, it appears that you have in many ways contrived my misery, and contributed io my ruin, and helped forward my damnation. " Good men often spoke to you about my vile behavior and profanity, and with tears in their eyes implored you to restrain me in my wicked practices, but in vain I You abused and slandered them, because they told you the truth, and the ruin you were bringing upon your child- ren, by your unchristian conduct. You lied, jested and ridiculed sacred things, and so did I. You took the name of God in vain, and so did I. You profaned the Sabbath, and annoyed your Christian neighbors with swearing and cursing, and so did I. You spent your evenings in prowling al)out the streets, and making a 176 OBEDIENCE TO PARENTS. noise like a dog, and so did I. You rejected the Bible, and spent your time and money in the perusal of infidel books and pamphlets, and other lying and filthy publica- tions, and so did I. You vilified Christ and his minis- ters and people, and so did I. You patronized the theatre, the rum-shop, the dance-house, and other places of debauchery, and so did I. Oh, how could you be so cruel, — how could you thus hate your own flesh, and hate your own soul ? Oh, how much better had it been for me, and how much. better for you, that we had never been born! I was ignorant, and you instructed me not; I made myself vile, and you restrained me not ! Why did you not teach me at home, and bring me to the pub- lic ordinances and worship of God, and train me up to the exercise of true piety and devotion ? But you not only neglected and refused to give me good instruction, but y-ou gave me bad example : and lo ! I have followed you to hell, to be an addition to your torments for ever and ever. "My day's forever gone, my sun is set In final darkness, ne'er to rise again ^ My summer's spent, eternal winter's come; The season's past. On me no ray of mercy e'er will shine, No smiling hope will ever rise ; Justice divine, and self-condemning guilt, Consign me to eternal wo." CHAPTER IX. FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. The grave — The Chri.^tian fnmily never grows less — Anxiety of the blest for the safety of their relations and friends — The Indian mother — The withered blossoms will bloom again — The cloud of witnesses — The loved ones of my childhood's days — The true Soldier of the Cross no believer in second causes — E.xtravagant desires — Conflicts and trials — Impatience and murmuring — The changed Cross — The bodies of the saints — Abel and his harp — Sings the song of redeeming love — The faith of the saints of old — The music of Heaven — Unspeakable happiness of the redeemed — "I long to be there" — The Angels: their j^ower and glory — The "house" of "many mansions" in full view — Home at last — The meeting of death-divided friends — The Saviour's amazing love. The grave becomes another and a holier thing to the Christian family, after it has received its first inmate. There is a kind relationship instituted, which tends to remove the repulsion and estrangement which existed before. Heaven has a new attraction to the Christian wife, when it has become the home of her husband or child. Eternity seems a warmer and more cheerful ob- ject of thought, when it has been made a part of home by the removal of part of the family to it. The thought of regaining the companionship of those whom we loved on earth, attaches time to eternity, and this life becomes what it really is, a beginning, and part of another. Dear friends are removed from sight, but they still live and love. (177) 178 FAMILY BEEEAVEMENTS. Ill the view of faith a Christian family never grows less ; nor is its golden chain, though part of it lie under the shadow, ever broken. The departure of those whom we loved on earth, does for us what the departure of the strangers from heaven did to the disciples on the mount of transfiguration, — it leaves us alone with "Jesus only." It turns into deep experience that longing for home con- tained in the Apostle's words, " having a desire to depart and be with Christ, which is far better." Why then should Christian jiarents repine that Jesus takes their " little ones" from their unsafe guardianship, and folds them in the " everlasting Arms" forever ? But it is hard to get any father or mother to subscribe to this Bible doctrine ; they will not believe that a little one of theirs has aught but a bright life before him. Children are often the hands by which the parents take hold of heaven. By these tendrils they grasp it and climb thitherward. And why do they think they are separated from them ? Ah, they never half knew them. " If the rich man," says an able Christian writer, " in the regions of the lost, asked that a messenger might be sent to his •five brethren,' to warn them not to come to that place, may we not with greater reason, believe that the blest in Christ are equally anxious for the safe arrival there of those that they have left behind ? Yes, they plead in the silent eloquence of their love and loveliness." Mr. Kirk, in his " Mother of the Wesleys," says, "Mrs. Wesley's affection for her father was intense and constant. She cherished liis memory and meditated upon his saintly FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS 179 character to hej- latest hour. Sometimes she felt a peculiar nearness to him, as though she held converse with his as- cended spirit. Her son John heard her say that she was frequently as fully persuaded that her father was with her as if she had seen him with her bodily eyes. She left her statement without any explanation; but her real views may be elicited from her writings. "When speaking of the mys- terious noises at Epworth parsonage, she observes, "I am rather inclined to think there would be frequent intercourse between good spirits and us, did not our deep lapse into sen- suality prevent it." (See Rom. viii. 7-13; 1 Cor. ix. 24- 27; 1 Pet. ii. 11; and 1 John ii. 15, IG.) The following remarkable passage in her beautiful and masterly exposition of the Apostles' Creed still more full}- explains her mean- ing: — '• What knowledge the saints in heaven have of things or persons in this world we cannot determine; nor after what manner we hold communion with them, it is not, at present, easy to conceive. That we are all members of the same mystical body, Christ, we are very sure; and do all partake of the same vital influence from the same Head, and so we are united together. And, though we are not actually possessed of the same happiness which they enjoy, yet we have the same Holy Spirit given unto us as an earnest of our eternal felicity with them hereafter. And though their faith is consummated by vision, and their hope by present possession, yet the bond of Christian charity still remains. And as we have great joy and complacency in their society, so, no doubt, they desire and pray for us." Though not prepared to explain the manner in which 180 FAiMILY BEREAVEMENTS. the intercourse is carried on, Mrs, Wesley clearly held the doctrine of spiritual communion with departed saints This theory, so enchanting and soothing to those whose friends have departed hence in the Lord, has been received by many devout and able divines. There are also unmis- takable indications that it was regarded with favor by Mrs. AYesley's gifted sons. After Charles has sung his noble hymns of triumph over tl^e exodus of some of his saintly friends, he is not slow to tell us that, in his public and pri- vate meditations, he felt communion with them. It was John Wesley's constant custom to preach on All Saints' Day — one of his favorite Church festivals — on communion with the heavenly multitude. He declares also that he many times realized such a sudden and lively appre- hension of deceased friends that he turned round to look if they were not actually and visibly present at his side, and "an uncommon affection for them" sprung up in his heart. In his dreams of the night he sometimes held "conversations with them," and doubted not that "they were very near." There is a striking illustration of one of the "conversations" in the following passage from the Life of Mrs. Fletcher: — "Last night I had a powerful sense, in my sleep, of the presence of my dear husband. I felt such sweet communion with his spirit as gave me much peaceful feeling. I had for some days thought that I was called to resist more than I did that strong and lively remembrance of the various scenes, both of his last sickness and many other circumstances which frequently occurred, with much pain. This thought being present to my mind, I looked on FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. 181 him. He said, with a sweet smile, ' It is better to forget.' 'What,' said I, 'my dear love, to forget one another?' He replied, with inexpressible sweetness, ' It is better to forget. It will not be long. We shall not be parted long. We shall soon meet again.' He then signified, though not in words, that all weights should be laid aside." The Apostle Paul tells us that "The natural man re- ceiveth not the things of the Spirit of God; for they are foolishness unto him : neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned. But he that is spiritual judgeth all things, yet he himself is judged of no man." (1 Cor. ii. 14, 15.) In another place, alluding to the glo- ries of heaven, he says, "It is not expedient for me doubt- less to glory. I will come to visions and revelations of the Lord. I knew a man in Christ above fourteen years ago, whether in the body I cannot tell, or whether out of the body I cannot tell; God knoweth: such a one caught up to the third heaven. And I knew such a man, whether in the body, or out of the body, I cannot tell; God knoweth: how that he was caught up into paradise, and heard unspeak- able words, which it is not lawful for a man to utter. Of such a one will I glory; yet of myself I will not glory, but in mine infirmities. For though I would desire to glory, I shall not be a fool ; for I will say the truth : but now I for- bear, lest any man should think of me above that which he seeth me to be, or that he heareth of me." A certain dear soldier of the cross, speaking of his con- flicts with Satan and his emissaries, says, " I was once so severely tempted and tried, that I determined to give up 182 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. the struggle and go back to tlie world. After the first emotions of my grief were over, I fell asleep, and thought I heard a voice, saying, ' Be thou faithful unto death, and I will give thee a crown of life.' These words seemed to encourage and strengthen me. I then fancied I heard sweet melodious sounds, rising by degrees, until the region round was filled with transporting harmony. In the height of these agreeable agitations, as the rosy morning breaks from a cloud, a most lovely Being stood before me. There was something in his aspect so serene and beneficent, such a heavenly sweetness and affability that banished every thought of fear from my heart, and filled my breast with divine tranquillity, and my soul with joy unspeakable and full of glory. After a short pause, he began, with a voice that would have allayed the anguish of death, and charmed the wildest discord into calm attejition; every accent breathed celestial love and harmony, while he de- scribed the joys of his 'Father's house.' But it is impos- sible to paint the beautiful ideas, or imitate the emphasis of his language. All the powers of eloquence sat on his tongue, and commanded all the motions of my soul, which at that blissful period seemed enlarged in its superior facul- ties. Every word was penetrating and significant, his manner perfectly graceful and transporting. In his de- scriptions I saw the glories, I felt the joys, of heaven. In an instant the earth was lost to my view, the sun dimi- nished to a star; innumerable worlds were passed with a speed swifter than a morning ray; the pearly gates of hea- ven now appeared, and at my Guide's command rolled back FAMILI IJEUEAVE.MENTS- 183 on their golden hinges. Oh, what glories were disclosed! No language on earth can describe them. The very foun- dation-walls of the city were garnished with all manner of precious stones! Even the streets were })ure gold! ''Passing from one scene of wonder to another, ardent to pay my homage to my heavenly Father, I pressed forward to the sacred throne. Oh, what amazing wonders! The Supreme Benignity at once beamed forth on me I Oh, what joy unspeakable filled my soul ! Lost in ecstasy, I fell prostrate before my Sovereign; when, with accents that breathed immortal joy and harmony, lie bade me rise to perfect purity and bliss !_ A starry crown w^as placed 0:1 my head, and a golden harp in my hand. I then mingled with the grand assembly, ten thousand times ten thousand, and thousands of thousands — ransomed from all nations, and kindreds, and peoples, and tongues; and with them joined my grateful tribute of praise to Him whose suiFer- ings and death had given me acceptance, victory, and life. Here, with sweet melody, the delightful scene vanished. I awoke at the imaginary music, and found it had left me in a most heavenly state of mind." I would not live alway; I ask not to stay Where storm after storm rises dark o'er the way. The few lurid mornings that dawn on us here Are enough for life's joys, full enough for its cheer. I would not live alway, — no: welcome the tomb I Since Jesus hath lain there, I dread not its gloom : There sweet be my rest till he bid me arise To hail him in triumph descending the skies. 18-i FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. Who, who would live alway, away from his God, — Away from yon heaven, that blissful abode, Where rivers of pleasure flow bright o'er the plains, And the noontide of glory eternally reigns ? There saints of all ages in harmony meet, Their Saviour and brethren transported to greet; While anthems of rapture unceasingly roll And the smile of the Lord is the feast of the soul. Oh, what happiness, what glories, await the faithful sol- dier of Christ ! Oh, how various, how boundless, how trans- porting will the prospect be! (See 1 Cor. ii. 9, 10; Isaiah Ixiv, 4; and Rev. xxi. 7.) He does not fear death, for his blessed Lord and Master has promised to go with him through the dark valley. (Psalm xxiii. 4; Isaiah xliii. 2; Hosea xiii. 14; 1 Cor. xv. 55.) He knows that he shall soon be with the dear Christian friends who have "gone on before," and sing songs of eternal praise unto Him that loved him and washed him from his sins in His own blood." (Rev. i. 5, 6; vii. 14; Matt. xxvi. 26-28.) They only are rightly affected by the sufferings and death of Christ who continue to be rightly affected by it. (G-al. vi. 9; Heb. x. 35-39; Rev. ii. 10.) The thought of his Saviour's crucifixion recurs to the faithful soldier of the cross in all the various periods of his life ; and more par- ticularly in every hour of trial, in every season of tempta- tion, of provocation, of hardship, and of disgrace. (Isaiah 1. 6; 1 Cor. ii. 2; Hcb. xii. 1-4.) Is he sorrowful and forsaken of all his friends? he thinks of the sorrows of his Saviour. , (Isaiah liii. 3-12; Matt. xxvi. 38, 39, 50.) Is FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS, 185 he in pain, contradicted, reviled, and despised? he beholds his Saviour wear'iig a crown of thorns, dressed in an old purple robe, mocked, insulted, struck in the face, spit upon, and then crucified between two thieves, having Barabbas, a murderer, preferred before him ! (Matt. xxvi. 67, 68 ; xxvii. 20, 35; Psalm xxii. 16-18.) Does he meet with shameful treatment in return for all his kindness and benevolence to others? does nobody thank him, though he hya out his whole life in trying to serve them ? he is cheered and kept from sinking when he beholds his Saviour dying for his enemies. Yes, the Redeemer left his throne, His radiant throne on high, — Surprising mercy! love unknown! — To suffer, bleed, and die. He took the dying traitor's place, And suffered in his stead ; For sinful man, — oh, wondrous grace ! — For sinful man he bled. Oh, for this love let rocks and hills Their lasting silence break; And all harmonious human tongues The Saviour's praises speak. Angels assist our mighty joys ; Strike all your harps of gold ; But when you raise your highest notes, His love can n'er be told. The anxiety on the part of the blest for the safety of their relations and friends still on earth, is beautifully illustrated by the case of a dying Indian mother, who, 18(5 FAMILY BEREAVEMEXTS. when her physician sought to restore her to the hope and love of life, exclaimed : " No ! no I my children recall me. I see them by the side of the Great Spirit. They stretch out their arms to me, and are astonished that I do not join them 1 "Hark! heard ye nut a sound Sweeter than wild-bird's note, or minstrel's lay ? I know that music well, for night and day I hear it echoing round. "It is the tuneful chime Of spirit voices! — 'tis my infant band Calling the mourner from this darkened land To Joy's unclouded clime. '* My beautiful, my blest ! I see them there, by the Great Spirit's throne; With winning words, and fond, beseeching tone They woo me to my rest." The Rev. Dr. Chalmers writes beautifully on this sub- ject ; and though the style is somewhat peculiar, the Christian reader will not fail to understand it: "This affords, we think, something more than a dubious glimpse into the question that is often put by a distracted mother when her babe is taken away from her, — when all the converse it ever had^with the world amounted to the gaze upon it of a few months, or a few opening smiles, which marked the dawn of felt enjoyment; and ere it reached, perhaps, the lips of infancy, it, all unconscious of death,- had to wrestle through a period of sickness with its power, and at length to be overcome by it. ! it little knew what an interest it had created in that home FAMILY BEllEAVEMKXTS. 187 where it was 80 passing a visitant, — nor, when carried to its early grave, what a tide of emotion it would raise among the few acquaintances it had left behind it! And should any parent wno hears us, feel softened by the touching remembrance of a light that twinkled a few short days or months under his roof, and at the end of its little period expired, we cannot think that we venture too far when we say, that he has only to persevere in the faith and in following the Gospel, and that very light will again shine upon him in heaven. The blossom which withered here upon its stalk, has been trans- planted there to a place of endurance ; and there it will then gladden that eye Avhich now weeps out the agony of an affection that has been sorely wounded ; and in the name of Him who, if on earth, would have wept along with them, do we bid all believing parents to ' sorrow not even as others which have no hope,' " (1 Thes. iv. 13 ; Prov. xiv. 32,) " but take comfort in the thought of that ' country' where there is no sorrow and no separa- tion." The belief that we are to recognize our friends in heaven, and associate with them for ever there, with the full remembrance of the past, throws the sublimity of eternity over our Christian efforts to establish each other in the faith and in the divine life. Every song which the redeemed in glory sing, commemorating in the praises of eternity the finished w^ork of Jesus and the efficacy of his shed blood, shows that they have a remembrance of the past, that they are in full possession of the faculty 133 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. of memory. Hence tliose ascriptions of praise to Jesus which they raise before the throne : " Thou wast shiin, and hast redeemed us to (Jod by thy blood, out of every kindred and tongue, and people and nation." '" Salvation to our God which sitteth upon the throne, and unto the Lamb." Can the glorified forget what they read in their Bibles about the shedding of Christ's blood upon earth, as they stand with Jesus in white upon the hill of the heavenly Zion ? Do those who stood with the Apos- tle John upon the hill of Calvary, and who saw the blood of Immanuel crimsoning the cross, now forget what they beheld there ? Do all in heaven forget the means which the God of their salvation used through the agency of the Holy Spirit to apply to their consciences and hearts the blood of atonement ? The Rev. Dr. Berg, speaking of the recognition of our Christian friends in heaven, says, " Go where we will we find the sentiment, that friendship is perpetuated be- yond the grave. It is enshrined in the heart of our com- mon humanity. The pure unsophisticated belief of the vast majority of mankind is in union with the yearnings of natural affection, which follows its object through the portals of the- grave into the eternal world. AVhat but this causes the Christian parent, in the dying hour, to charge his children to prepare for a reunion before the throne of the Lamb ? He desires to meet them there, and to rejoice with them in the victory over sin and death. Tell me, ye Christian parents, who have seen the open tomb receive into its bosom the sacred trust 16 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. 180 fonunittc'd to its keeping, in hope of the first resurrec- tion, was not that consolation the strongest which assured you that the departed one, whom God has put from you into darkness, will run to meet you, when you cross the threshhold of immortality. We have lost them for a time, but they have not lost us. As they have gone higher, they have capacities and privileges which we, who are still beneath them, have not; and this may extend to a constant oversight and interest in us. The Old Testament saints are represented as " a cloud of witnesses" around us, like the crowd which bent down from all sides upon the race-ground in the Olympic games. According to this allasion of the Apostle, they are around us, not merely as examples, but interested spectators. In like manner, we have reason, and also intimations of Scripture, to confirm us in the belief that our sainted friends are bending an interesting eye of love over us in all our earthly pilgrimage. Angels are the constant com- panions of the blest in heaven ; and they are also upon earth, " ministering spirits sent forth to minister for them w^ho shall be heirs of salvation," Oh, ye departed spirits of my sires, And ye, the loved ones of my childhood's days, While now I look on yonder heavenly fires, Methinks I hear you tune your seraph lyres, Methinks I see yon bend your pitying gaze On him who still must tread alone earth's gloomy maze! Thou angel spirit, who so oft didst sing My infant cares to sleep upon thy breast. Let me but hear the rustling of thy wing. Around thy child its guardian influence fling! 10) FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. Uh. come tliou from the island of the blest. And bear my weai'y soul up to tliy sainted rest! Can we forget departed friends ? x\h, no ! Within our hearts their memoi-y buried lies; The thought that where they are, we too shall go, Will cast a light o'er darkest scenes of wo ; For to their own blest dwellings in the skies, The souls whom Christ sets free exultingly shall rise. As God is to be regarded both as an aftectionate father and righteous judge, so affliction is presented in Scrip- ture in two lights, in each of which it is compatible with the most perfect benevolence in the divine mind. It is there represented as being partly penal, and partly cor- rective ; while in both it is declared to be the effect of sin. In neither case is it the spontaneous infliction of One who delights in suffering for its own sake ; but the result of principles from which no wise father, or judge, will ever depart. A good father cannot apply the rod to his children for his own pleasure, but only for their profit. Can God then intend the infliction for evil ? Can He who sent his beloved Son to die for us take plea- sure in our misery ? Far be the thought from our minds. Are you a father, and do you feel the tender yearnings of paternal affection ? say, then, did you ever take the rod into 3^our hand from a pleasure you felt in torment- ing your children ? Did the smart it produced ever yield you gratification ? Nay, did you not feel more pain than you inflicted ? Yet you felt it to be imperative not to spare the rod. The infliction was not the result of arbi- trary power, or of a deficiency of kindness, but the evi- FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. 191 donee, the expression of love. It was dictated by affec- tion and a concern for the welfare of your children. You discovered in them evils which required to be corrected, and to have neglected the proper exercise of discipline would have been as ruinous to their interests, as dishon- orable to your own character. Chastisement is not less the effect of God's parental love ; and the conclusion is so much the more decisive, inasmuch as the fathers of our flesh are sinful, whereas God is absolutely and infinitely perfect. He knows the exact measure of discipline of which the Christian soldier stands in need, and the pro- per time of applying it. It is shocking to a true Christian soldier, to hear those who profess to love God, aggravate their trials, and debase their profession, by looking back to this and that and the other circumstance and dwelling upon that as what gave rise to the whole train of misfortunes and afflictions. And yet all the while these murmurers say they believe in God's purposes and decrees, and that he worketh all things after the counsel of his will ! How far is this beneath the Christian ! Have a care of your thoughts, of your w^ords ; insubordination slips in at the door before one is aware. " It is well," is the only soul- quickening response to God's voice of affliction. There is wisdom seen in making contraries work together for good. That which is now your burden might have been your ruin. We may puzzle ourselves about instruments and second causes, but no rest can we have, till we are led to the First. "He performeth the thing appointed for me." 192 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. That settles the soul, but nothing else will do it. Job was well convinced of this truth when he said, "Afflic- tions Cometh not forth of the dust, neither doth trouble spring out of the ground." Job v. 6 ; Amos iii. 6. "Be still, and know that I am God." Psalm xlvi. 10 ; Pro v. XX. 24 ; Jer. x. 23, 24. There is nothing in which Chris- tians show a more unchristian spirit, and yet few sins beset them more easily, than an anxious concern and fretful care about some outward things which have in themselves no power to do good or evil, otherwise than as instruments in God's hand to attain his appointed end. Shall we quarrel with the sword because it suffered itself to be drawn. Isaiah x. 15. There is no such thing as " chance," as it regards God ; for not even a sparrow falls to the ground without his will. Luke xii. 6 ; Matt. X. 29. "The lot is thrown into the lap, but the whole disposing thereof is of the Lord." Prov. xvi. 33. Let the chain of second causes be ever so long, the first link is always in God's hand. "Thus saith the Lord, thy Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel, I am the Lord thy God which teacheth thee to profit, which leadeth thee by the way that thou shouldest go." The following lines will help young soldiers of the cross to a more perfect understanding of these passages of Scripture :— THE CHANGED CROSS. It was a time of sadness, and my heart, Although it knew and loved the better part, Felt wearied with the conflict and the strife, And all the needed discipline of life. 16* FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. 193 And while I thought on these, as given to me, My trial tests of faith and love to be, It seemed as if I never could be sure That faithful to the end I should endure. And thus, no longer trusting to his might Who says, " We walk by faith and not by sight," Doubting, and almost yielding to despair, The thought arose — My cross I cannot bear ! Far heavier its weight must surely be Than those of others which I daily see ; Oh, if I might another burden choose, Methinks I should not fear my crown to lose. A solemn silence reigned on all around, E'en nature's voices uttered not a sound, The evening shadows seemed of peace to tell, And sleep upon my weary spirit fell. A moment's pause — and then a heavenly light Beamed full upon my wondering, raptured sight, Angels on silvery wings seemed everywhere, And angels' music thrill'd the balmy air. Then One more fair than all the rest to see. One to whom all the others bow'd the knee, Came gently to me as I trembling lay, And— "Follow Me," he said, "I am the Way." Then speaking thus, He led me far above, And there beneath a canopy of love, Crosses of divers shape and size were seen, Larger and smaller than mine own had been. And one there was most beauteous to behold, A little one, a little one with jewels set in gold- Ah, this, methought, I can with comfort wear. For it will be an easy one to bear. And so the little cross I quickly took, But all at once my frame beneath it shook; The sparkling jewels, fair were they to see, But far too heavy was their weight to me. 17 194 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. This may not be, I cried — and looked again To see if any there could ease my pain ; But one by one I passed them slowly by, Till on a lovely one I cast my eye. Fair flowers around its sculptur'd form entwin'd, And grace and beauty seemed in it combin'd ; Wondering, I gazed, and still I wonder'd more To think so many should have pass'd it o'er. But oh, that form so beautiful to see. Soon made its hidden sorrows known to me : — Thorns lay beneath those flowers and colors fair; Sorrowing I said, — This cross I may not bear. And so it was with each and all around, Not one to suit my need could there be found ; Weeping, I laid each heavy burden down, As my guide gently said, "No cross, no crown." At length to Him I raised my saddened heart ; He knew its sorrows, bid its doubts depart : "Be not afraid," He said, "but trust in me, My perfect love shall now be shown to thee." And then, with lighten' d eyes and willing feet, Again I turn'd my earthly cross to meet. With forward footsteps turning not aside, For fear some hidden evil might betide. And there, in the prepar'd, appointed way, Listening to hear and ready to obey, A cross I quickly found of plainest form, With only words of love inscribed thereon. With thankfulness I raised it from the rest And joyfully acknowledged it the best, The only one of all the many there, That I could feel was good for me to bear. And while I thus my chosen one confess'd, I saw a heavenly brightness on it rest, And as I bent my burden to sustain, I recognized my own old cross again ! FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. 195 But oh, how different did it seem to be, Now 1 had learned its preciousness to see. No longer could I unbelieving say — Perhaps another is a better way. Ah, no ! henceforth my one desire shall be, That He who knows me best shall choose for me; And so, whate'er his love sees good to send, I'll trust it's best — because he knows the end. Alas ! how unworthily we bear the name of Christians, when that which carried the forefathers of our faith through their fiery trials can not support us under the disappointment of any extravagant desire ! They had such a "respect to the recompense of the reward" as made them cheerfully expose their fame to ignominy, their goods to rapine, their bodies to exquisite tortures, and their lives to death. Heb. xi. 4-38 ; x. 34 ; 1 Cor. ii. 9, 10; Isaiah Ixiv. 4. Yet the same hope cannot work us to any tolerable degree of patience, when we. suffer but the smallest diminution of any of these! What shall we say ? Is heaven grown less valuable, or earth more than it was then? Ah, no; but we are more in- fatuated in oQr estimates. Like Jonah, we sit down sullenly upon the withering of a gourd, never consider- ing that God has provided a better shelter, " a building of God eternal in the heavens." 2 Cor. v. 1 ; John xiv. 2, 3. Indeed, there can be no affliction or temporal destitution so great which such an expectation can not make supportable. "Beloved," says the Apostle Peter, " think it not strange, concerning the fiery trial which is to try vou, as though some strange thing happened unto 196 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. you : but rejoice, inasmuch as ye are partakers of Christ's sufferings; that when his glory shall be revealed, ye may be glad also with exceeding joy. If ye be reproached for the name of Christ, happy are ye ; for the Spirit of glory and of God resteth upon you. On their i):irt he is evil spoken of, but on your part he is glorified." Again, " For what glory is it, if, when ye be buffeted for your faults, ye shall take it patiently? but if, when ye do well, and suffer for it, ye take it patiently, this is accept- able with God. For even hereunto were ye called: because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that we should follow in his steps: who did no sin, neither was guile found in his mouth : who, when he was reviled, reviled not again; when he suffered, he threatened not; but committed himself to Him that judgeth righteously : who his own self bare our sins in his own body on the tree, that we, being dead to sins, should live unto righteousness: by whose stripes ye were healed." 1 Peter ii. 20-24 ; Isaiah liii. 3-12. '' Yea, and all that will live godly in Christ Jesus shall suffer persecution. But evil men and seducers shall wax worse, deceiving, and being deceived." St. Paul, speaking of certain " visions and revelations of the Lord," says: "Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecution, in distresses for Christ's sake : for when I am weak, then am I strong." 2 Cor. xii. 9, 10; 1 Cor. ix. 26, 27; Isaiah xl. FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. 197 29-31. "For unto you it is given in the behalf of Christ, not only to believe on him, but also to suffer for his sake ; having the same conflict which ye saw in me, and now hear to be in me." Phil. i. 29, 30 ; Eph. vi. 12 ; 2 Tim. iv. 7, 8 ; Rev. xxi. 7. With regard to the nature of that change which the bodies of the saints shall experience at the resurrection, the apostle Paul informs us that they shall be raised, in- corruptible, glorious, powerful, and spiritual. 1 Cor. xv. 42-58. They shall be raised in glory. It is sown in dis- honor, it shall be raised in glory, and be fashioned like unto the glorious body of the Redeemer. Phil. iii. 21. The glorified body of Christ will be the model after which the bodies of the saints will be fashioned ; and we know that when Christ appeared to the apostles, on the mount of transfiguration, in his glorified body, "his face did shine as the sun, and his raiment became white and glistening." The bodies of the saints, freed from every deformity and decrepitude to which they were sub- ject in this present sinful state, will then appear arrayed in all the vigor and bloom of perpetual youth, a sweet and heavenly lustre will beam from their countenances; and a glory inexpressible, and suited to their high and exalted condition, will surround them. Abel was the first human being whose body found a grave on earth, — the first whose spirit found a home in heaven. He was there alone ; yet not lonely, for though of men, he was not without society. Those "sons of God," who "shouted for joy" when earth's foundations 17* 198 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. were laid, and wheu man was created in the Divine image to be its occupant, exulted with a new delight on receiving amongst them the first fruits of the scheme of redeeming mercy. Alone he seems, and chants apart, In unexpected notes, A music, where the grateful heart In strains of feeling floats : A beauteous soul! whose seraph brow Is bright with glory's hue, — Lo ! angels pause to hear him now Their harping praise outdo. 45- * * * -X- With such a burst of whelming love As earth's first martyr sang, — When, glory to the Lord above ! The voice of Abel rang. Angelic harps their key-note found In God as great and good. But Abel's heart did beat and bound As only sinner's could. ** Worthy the Lamb who shall be slain ;* Redemption crowns my song ; Ye seraphim, your notes retain. But these to me belong!" * It was Christ who appeared to Abraham. It was Christ who wrestled with Jacob. It was Christ who led Israel out of Egypt, and by the hands of Moses and Aaron, conducted the people to the promised land. It was Christ, who, before he came in the flesh, appeared in these early ages to the Church as her guardian and her God. St. Paul distinctly charges the host in the desert with having tempted Christ. "Neither," says he, "let us tempt Christ, as some of them also tempted, and were destroyed of ser- pents." The benefits of Christ's death were enjoyed before he died ; the legacies of the Will were paid before the demise of the Testator ; for the saints, who lived in the days that preceded his advent, were received to glory, if we may so speak, upon his bond, his promise to pay. FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. lUO Thus might the primal soul who came Forth from its bleeding clay, Kindle the heavens with His bright name Who is our Truth and Way, And with that song of glory blent An humbling depth of tone, Which to the ransom'd harper lent A music all its own. Angels for bliss and being sang Their ecstucies on high ; But how the heavens with wonder rang When man awoke the sky ! But even as a human spirit, Abel was not long alone ; millions of the redeemed sons and daughters of earth are with him now ; and the company is every day in- creasing. There are the patriarchs and prophets. Abra- ham, Isaac, and Jacob are there ; and David, " the sweet singer of Israel" is among them. O how sweet their songs! how bright their crowns! Dan. xii. 3; Mai. iii. 17; Matt. xiii. 43. what inexpressible rapture there must be in that music where the instruments are of the manufacture of "the Lord of glory" himself! and where every voice is a million times richer and sweeter than that of the sweetest and most skilful singer of earth I " Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man," the happiness and glory of that company. 1 Cor. ii. 9, 10 ; Isaiah Ixiv. 4. Sickness, sor- row, and death never enter there ; cares, fears, and anxieties are never felt there ; poverty, privation, and disappoint- ment are never known there. There no idol temples pol- lute the groves and mountain-tops. There no spirit of 200 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. horror broods over ancient battle-fields. There no frightful Golgothas, or places of skulls, waken up remembrances of associations of guilt and death. There no dark spirits rule the air, or dwell amid desolations and tombs. There no ground which once drank the blood of martyrs, or of God's uwn Son. There no serpents hiss under the tree of life, or bruise the heel of those white-robed ones that stray by the fountains of living water. There no foul worms creep forth from the heart of ripening fruit, and no poisonous, softly stealing death revels on the cheek of beauty. Bright, pure, and blessed "country." blissful scene ! — where sever'd hearts Renew the ties most cherish'd, — Where nought tlie mourn'd and mourner parts, — Where grief with life is perish'd. Oh, nought do I desire so well As here to die, and there to dwell ! No cloud ever darkens the sky of that blessed world ; no tempest disturbs the air. Here, the flowers fade with a touch ; but there, beneath a brighter Sun and in a nobler soil, the trees flourish in perpetual verdure, the leaves never wither, the flowers never fade, and every month pro- duces its perfect fruit. And, what is still better, there shall be no more sin. (Rev. xxi. 27; xxii. 15.) "And there shall be no more death, neither sorrow nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain ; for the former things are passed away." (Rev. xxi. 4.) " And there shall be no FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. 201 night there ; and they need no candle, neither light of the sun ; for the Lord God giveth them light, and they shall rei2;n forever and ever." 'S" " happy country I where There entereth not a sin; And Death, who keeps its portals fair, May never once come in. No grief can change their day to night ; The darkness of that land is light: Sorrow and sighing God has sent Far thence to endless banishment. And never more may one dark tear Bedim their burning skies ; For every one they shed while here, In fearful agonies, Glitters a bright and dazzling gem In their immortal diadem," 0, what a revelation I — The map of time disclosed, and every little rill of sorrow, every river of trouble will be seen to have been flowing heavenward. — every " rough blast" to have been sending the bark nearer the heavenly shore. (Isaiah xlviii. 17; John xiii. 7.) 0, what a meeting there of Christian parents and their Christian children, of Christian brothers and sisters, and death- divided Christian friends I what mutual gratulations I what happiness ! and, 0, what joy unspeakable to see Jesus, and get their warmest welcome from the lips of Him who redeemed thciu with his own blood ! and in the aironies of 202 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. His cross, suffered for them more than a mother's pangs, — " the travail of His soul !" Stupendous love ! Can man for this ungrateful prove, Jesus, the Saviour! what rebellious knee Would not a ready homage pay to Thee? The martyrs' glorious train, Thy noble votaries of old, In records of immortal fame enroU'd, Wore on their breasts inscribed Thy mighty name. By this with sacred fortitude inspired. With heavenly zeal and transport fired. They ran upon the pointed spear And leap'd into the flame ; Nor death could in a shape appear But what with open ai'ms they met, Despising all that rage could "do, or proudest tyrant's threats. Not hell itself their constancy could shake ; Its deepest stratagems they brake. Its wildest fury trampled down. And seized with conqu'ring hands the everlasting crown. "Jesus! " the signal for the fight they chose, And gave a glorious onset to their foes. In vain the powers of earth and hell oppose. "Jesus! our conqu'ring chief!" they cried; "Jesus!" aloud the surrounding skies replied. Exalted Name I From Thee the burning seraphs catch their flame. Jesus the God! 'tis they alone can tell What treasures in that title dwell. FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. 2Uo You happy spirits, that feel its emphasis, By this you stand confirmed in bliss. And know what boundless joys are stored In this important word. The glorious subject only suits The high-toned notes of your immortal lutes. Then join the choir, You bright musicians of the skies, And, with a well-proportion'd fire. Instruct us how to rise. Let your bless'd harps the imperfect lay prolong, Complete the bold design, and close th' adveut'rous song. The world has nothing to entertain the faithful soldier of Christ. (1 John ii. 15, 16; Philipp. iii. 7, 8; Psalni Ixxiii. 25, 26.) Death has no terrors for him. (1 Cor. xv. 56, 57; Rev. xiv. 13; Job xix. 25-27; Psalm xxiii. 4; Isaiah ii. 10; Ivii. 1, 2.) The language of his heart is, " O Thou whom unseen I love, by what powerful influence dost Thou attract my soul ? Thou dwellest in the heights of glory to which no human voice can soar, and yet Thou art more near and dear to me than any of the objects of sense." (John xiv. 21-23; 1 Cor. vi. 19; 2 Cor. vi. 16; xiii. 5; Rev. iii. 20 ; Cant. v. 1, 2.) " Oh, where could I be happy remote from Thee ? I love the brethren, — T love my Christian friends; but T love Thee more than all. 'I will arise now, and go about the city in the streets, and in the broad ways I will seek Him whom my soul loveth. I sought Him ; but I found Him not. The watchmen that 204 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. go about the city found me : to whom I said, Saw ye Him whom my soul loveth ? It was but a little that I passed from them, but I found Him whom my soul loveth : I held Him, and would not let Him go, until I had brought Him into my mother's house, and into the chamber of her that conceived me.' ' I sat down under His shadow with great delight, and His fruit was sweet to my taste.' my Be- loved ! ' sweet is Thy voice, and Thy countenance is comely.' ' My Beloved is mine ! and I am His !' ^ I sleep, but my heart waketh : it is the voice of my Beloved that knocketh.' Adieu to all human things! Welcome unutterable delight ! All hail ! ye joys unspeakable and full of glory ! Compared to you, what are worldly plea- sures ? what is all that men of the world call happiness ? Vanish, ye terrestrial scenes ! fly away, ye vain objects of sense ! break my fetters, for I must be gone V Hold on faith : it is but a little while, and your work will be at an end ; but a few more hours, days, or years, and your sighs and tears shall be converted into everlast- ing hallelujahs ; but a few more steps, and the journey of life will be finished. In that happy " moment," the faith- ful soldier of the cross shall be freed from temptation, sin, and sorrow. He "shall obtain joy and gladness, and sor- row and sighing shall flee away." (Isaiah xxxv. 10.) His sun shall no more go down ; neither shall his moon withdraw itself: for the Lord shall be his everlasting light, and the days of his mourning shall be ended. (Isaiah Ix. 20.) In that happy day, the redeemed might well ex- claim, — FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. 205 "Glory to God, all our dangers are o'er; We stand secure on the glorified shore; Glory to God, we will shout evermore. We're home at last, home at last." The faithful soldier of the cross does not fear the grave ; because his Saviour has promised He will never leave nor forsake him. (Heb. xiii. 5; Psalm xxiii. 4.) He takes hold of His strength. (Isaiah xxvii. 5; xl. 29-31.) The breakers will perhaps run mountains high as he goes over the bar; but he does not fear, because Jesus is at the helm. The next wave will float him far beyond the trials and con- flicts of earth. In that blessed " moment" all his labors and sufferings shall close in the everlasting enjoyment of the wealth, the glories, and the joys of his "Father's house." He shall then ''see the King in His beauty; he shall behold the land that is very far off"." (Isaiah xxxiii. 17.) In that day the Lord will rejoice over him with joy; He will rest in his love ; He will joy over him with sing- ing, and wipe away all tears from his eyes. (Zeph. iii. 17; Rev. xxi. 4.) In that blessed land, '' the inhabitant shall not say, I am sick" (Isaiah xxxiii. 24 ; Rev. xxi. 4) ; there the eye of the patriarch shall never grow dim again ; there Jacob shall no longer halt, and Lazarus retain no traces of his maladies. No mortal ever conceived of a form so .beautiful and glorious as shall then belong to the saint whose body was the most unlovely and misshapen here ; for it will "be fashioned like unto His glorious body," — '• not having spot or wrinkle, or any such thing." O how 206 FAiMILY BEREAVExMENTS. dazzling ! how divinely fair ! what inexpressible pleasure in every smile ! There the blood-washed millions shall join with che- rubim and seraphim, angels and archangels, thrones and dominions, principalities and powers, to sweep the loud- strung lyre, and roll the melodious anthem along the tide of everlasting ages. Whatever can give delight, whatever can satisfy the soul in all the boundless capacities of joy, will be there. Never did the eyelids of the morning open on such perfection; never did the sun, since first it jour- neyed through the skies, behold such beauty; nor can human fimcy, in its most inspired flights, conceive such glories. Christianity describes them by pronouncing them indescribable. She declares that " Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him." The biographer of Dr. Gordon, speaking of his near ap- proach to death, says, " On awaking after a long sleep, he took the writer's hand, and, grasping it tenderly, said, ' I feel I am hastening away very ropidly to-day. that blessed Saviour ! How I love Ilim ! Preach Him fre- quently, Newman ! Speak of that blessed Book. I must have more of it — read more chapters in John.' " To an- other friend, who expressed surprise at witnessing such composure, he replied, " Confidence in Christ conveys vigor to my heart. Without Him I should be weak indeed. Attribute nothing of it to me. The man who hopes to be saved by his own works, will have no peace of mind. He must think of himself as nothing." (1 Cor. viii. 2, 3; FAMILY IJEREAVEMENTS. 207 Luke xvii. 10.) To the Agent and Secretary of the Tem- perance Society, who told him how deeply he would be regretted in the town, he replied, " I wish to live in the affectionate remembrance of my friends ; but I wish them to have the same enjoyment, and they can only have it by seeking Christ." In conversation with his family, he said, "How can I help loving Him? I seem to see Him with His heavenly countenance smiling on me now. He has pardoned me, washed me, clothed me. I feel I could not rebel against Him. What are men about when, with such a theme, they can preach such sermons as many of them deliver ! There are not only joys to come, but joys in this world. Having Him so near as a companion," (John xiv. 21-23; 1 Cor. vi. 19, 20; 2 Cor. xiii. 5; Colos. i. 27; 1 John iv. 4; Rev. iii. 20; Cant. v. 1, 2,) "it takes from us evil thoughts, an>bition, and avarice. He says, ' If ye love iMe, keep my commandments.' And what are His commandments ? Not grievous. There was He seeking me out first, and not I seeking Him ! And whence came this? By grace we are saved through faith; and not of ourselves: it is the gift of God. (Eph. ii. 8.) Oh, think of Christ. How can any one think of himself?" Another friend remarked, " I remember once thinking it folly to talk of being born again. I knew not what it meant." To this remark Dr. Gordon replied, " But we know now\ It is the strong conviction of the truth of Christianity which gives me peace and blessedness. It has changed my whole nature." The same friend con- tinued, "John Newton, when entangled by skepticism. 208 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. resolved to test the truth of Christianity by seeking the Divine influence promised in answer to prayer, arguing that, if religion were true, the result of such seeking would be the evidence of it." " That is the argument/' said Dr. Gordon, " which weighs with me. No mere rea- son of man could have written the Bible. Reason may find fault with it, but could not have made it. 0, it is a Book ! Bead every word of it, and believe it just as it is." By his own request, the Lord's Supper was adminis- tered in his room. The beautiful hymn of Dr. Watts was sung : " There is a land of pure delight, Where saints immortal reign ; Infinite day excludes the night, And pleasures banish pain." " He then took a most tender farewell of his afflicted wife. To his daughter, who bent over him in great dis- tress, he said, with inexpressible tenderness, ' Bless thee, my child !' ' You love me still, father ?' ' Yes, dearly !' He then opened his hand, which had now almost lost its power of motion, for the purpose of receiving hers, which he tenderly pressed, together with that of the writer. This was the last act. After a pause, he said suddenly, but not without considerable effort, ' Bring them all in, — every- body !' Increased difficulty of breathing was the only dis- tressing symptom. He appeared no longer conscious of what took place around him. He gazed upward, as in rapt vision. No film overspread his eyes. They beamed with an unwonted lustre, and the whole countenance, FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. 2()0 losing the aspect of disease antl pain, with which \vc had been so lon^^ familiar, glowed with an expression of inde- scribable rapture. As we watched in silent wonder and praise, his features, which had become motionless, suddenly yielded for a few seconds to a smile i»f ecsta.sy, which no pencil could ever depict, and which none who witnessed it can ever forget. And when it passed away, still the whole countenance continued to beam and brighten, as if reflect- ing the glory upon which he was gazing." (See Exodus xxxiv. 29, 30; Psahn xxxvi. 9; Isaiah 1. 10, and Acts vi. 15.) " We saw," continues his biographer, " as much as mor- tal eye could see of the entrance of a soul into glory. Nothing more could have been given us, but the actual vision of the separate spirit and its angelic convoy. This glorious spectacle lasted for about a quarter of an hour, — increasing in interest to the last, — during which the soul seemed to be pouring itself forth from the frail tenement which had imprisoned it, into the embrace of its blessed Lord. The breathing now became shorter and shorter; then, after a long pause, one last, gentle heaving of the chest, and without a struggle the soul had fled. Was this dying? All present felt that their departed friend had never been more emphatically alive. * **>};* ^k There was grief, but no gloom, in that chamber. The glory of heaven seemed to illuminate it." His biographer further observes, " I never saw a more decided instance of a person casting away his own right- eousness, and trampling it under foot. Christ was every 210 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. thing to him ; while the breathings of his soul after holi- ness and sanctification of the Ugly Spirit were intense and fervent. To his entire dependence upon his Saviour's merits may be attributed, under God, his uninterrupted enjoyment of spiritual consolation all through his illness. His experience stood out to view as a living elucidation of that beautiful passage of Scripture — ' Thou shalt keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on Thee, because he trustcth in Thee.' " Equally happy was the death-bed scene of the Rev. Dr. Payson, referred to in Chapter 4, p. 91. The following additional particulars arc gleaned from his biography: — To the question, '^Do you feel yourself reconciled?" he replied, "0, that is too cold. I rejoice, I triumph; and this happiness will endure as long as God Himself: for it consists in admiring and adoring Him. I can find no words to express my happiness. I seem to be swimming in a river of pleasure which is carrying me on to the great fountain-head!" * * * "And God is in this room. I see Him ; and, oh, how unspeakably lovely and glorious does He appear — worthy of ten thousand thousand hearts, if we had them. He is here, and hears me pleading with the creatures that He has made. And, oh, how terrible does it appear to me to sin against Him; to set up our own wills in opposition to His !" After a short pause, he con- tinued, " It makes my blood run cold to think how inex- pressibly miserable I should now be without religion." * * * "I find no satisfaction in looking at any thing I have done ; I want to leave all this behind — it is nothinji; FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. 211 — and to fly to Christ to be clothed in His righteousness." * * * ii J i^.^yg douQ nothing myself; I have not fought, but Christ has fought for me ; I have not run, but Christ has carried me : Christ has done all." * * * "0 the loving-kindness of God — His loving-kindness. This afternoon, while I was meditating on it, He seemed to pass by, and proclaim Himself, ' The Lord, the Lord (jod, merciful and gracious.' how gracious!" * * * '' It seemed, this afternoon, as if Christ said to me, 'You have often wondered and been impatient at the way by^ which I have led you; but what do you think of it now?' and I was cut to the heart, when I looked and saw the wisdom and goodness by which I had been guided, that I could ever for a moment distrust His love." (See Isaiah xlviii. 17; John xiii. 7; Deut. viii. 2-5; Psalm cvi. 7-L5, and Jer, xxxi. 3.) To his sister he said, '-0, my sister, my sister, could you but know what awaits the Christian ; could you only know so much as I know, you could not re- frain from rejoicing and even leaping for joy. Labors, trials, troubles, would be nothing; you would rejoice in afflictions and glory in tribulations, and, like Paul and Silas, sing God's praises in the darkest night and in the deepest dungeon. You have known a little of my trials and conflicts, and know that they have been neither few nor small; and I hope this glorious termination of them will serve to strengthen your faith." His bodily suflPerings were exceedingly severe. His right arm and left side lost all power of motion, and the flesh became insensible to external applications, while in- 212 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. ternally he experienced a sensation of burning, wlncli lie compared to a stream of liquid fire pouring through his bones. Speaking of his trials, he said, "God has been depriving me of one blessing after another ] but, as every one was removed, He has come in and filled up the place; and now, when I am a cripple and not able to move, I am happier than I ever was in my life before or ever expected to be; and if I had believed this twenty years ago, I might have been spared much anxiety." On Sunday, ^October 21, 1827, his last agony commenced. Even now he greeted those who approached him with a smile. A little while before he died, he exclaimed, ''Peace! peace! victory! victory!" What are the laurels and trophies of conquerors, com- pared to a triumph like that ? Equally cheering to all who truly love God is the dying testimony of the Rev. William Romaine. About an hour before his departure, a friend said, " I hope, my dear brother, you now find the salvation of Jesus Christ precious to your soul?" He replied, "He is a precious Saviour to me now. 0, how animating is the view I have of death and the hope laid up for me in heaven !" The last words of the Rev. Dr. Doddridge were, " My soul is vigorous and healthy, notwithstanding the decay of this frail and tottering body." On another occa- sion he said, "The most distressing nights to this frail body have been as the beginning of heaven to my soul. God hath, as it were, let heaven down upon me in those nights of weakness and waking. Blessed be His name." The Rev. William Hcrvey exclaimed, in his dying hour. FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS 213 ''0, welcome death! welcome death! thou mayst well be reckoned among the treasures of the Cliristian ! To live is Christ, but to die is gain." A little before his depart- ure, a friend said to the Rev. Charles Simeon, " How gra- cious it is that you should feel so little suffering!" ''Whe- ther I have a little more or a little less," said the dying man, '' it matters not. All is right and well, and just as it should be. I am in a dear Father's hands : all is serene. When I look at Ilim," (here he spoke with peculiar so- lemnity.) " I see nothing but faithfulness, and immortality, and truth; and I have not a doubt or a fear, but the sweet- est peace. But if I look another way, — to the poor creature, to self, — oh, there is nothing — nothing — nothing — (paus- ing) but what is abhorred and mourned over. Yes; I say that — and it is true." A few hours before his death, the deeply pious and learned Dr. Bedell said, " Hear me. I acknowledge my- self to have been a most unprofitable servant, — unprofitable, but not a hypocrite. I find myself to have been full of sin, ignorance, weakness, unfaithfulness, and guilt; but Jesus is my hope: washed in His blood, justified by His righteousness, sanctified by His grace, I have peace with God. Jesus is very precious to my soul, — my all in all; and I expect to be saved by free grace through His atoning blood." Another dying soldier of the cross said, " In body, full of pain; but in mind, full of happiness and heaven. O the boundless love of God ! Volumes could not ex- press what I feel of His love. that precious blood ! Let no one slight it. tell everybody to love Jesus ! — 214 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. to love the Bible. tell everybody ,o love God and keep His commandments^ and He will be with them in death." The last words uttered by Luther were, " my heavenly Father, thou hast revealed to me thy Son, our Lord Jesus Christ. I have preached Him, I have con- fessed Him, I love Him, and I worship Him as my dearest 'Friend' and Redeemer. Into Thy hands I commit my spirit; for Thou hast redeemed my soul, Lord God of truth." Another faithful soldier of the cross exclaimed, " what prospects are before me in the blessed world to which I am going ! Will you not share my joy, and help me to praise Him that I shall soon leave this body of sin and death behind, and enter on the perfection of my spi- ritual nature ? Sweet affliction ! now it worketh glory, glory !" The last words uttered by Mr. Toplady were, " I cannot find words to express the comforts I feel in my soul: they are past expression. The consolations of God are so abundant that He leaves me nothing to pray for. My prayers are all converted into praise. I enjoy a heaven already in my soul." Another dying saint exclaimed, " Behold, I see the heavens opened, and the Son of man standing on the right hand of God." (Acts xvii. 56.) No less cheering to the Christian heart is the dying tes- timony of the Rev. Mr. Hewiston. After drinking a tum- bler of cold water, he said, "What a beautiful emblem of the pure river of life!" "When you reach that river," said a friend, " there will be an end of all your weariness and languor." " And, what is fir better," rejoined Mr FAMILY BEREAVKMLNTS. 215 Ilewiston, ••an end of all possibility of sinning." On an- other occasion he said, " The righteousness of Christ is my stay. That sustained nie in Madeira, in the midst of persecution and difficulties; it has sustained me all through my ministry; and it sustains me now." " It is a great pri- vilege," remarked his friend, " to be enabled to bear the testimony you now do." " And an humbling thing," re- plied Mr. Hewiston : " the more grace, the more self-empty- ing." One night, about two o'clock, he said, " Oh, was not that a most wonderful thing, the agony which Jesus suf- fered in his body for our sins ! And that fearful agony was only an index of what he suffered in his soul." Mr. Hewiston's last words were, " Oh, my people !" President Edwards observes, in his life of the Rev. Mr. Brain erd, that his history shows the right way to success in the work of the ministry. "He sought it as a resolute soldier seeks a victory in a siege or battle, or as a man that runs a race for a great prize." God help every soldier of the cross on earth to pursue the same course. " For we wrestle not against flesh and blood; but against principali- ties, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places." " Brethren," said another dying soldier of the cross, "I see, methinks, celestial Light ahead ! — the shadows are flying ! 0, hallelujah ! hallelujah I 0, glory to the bleed- ing Lamb ! In a few moments I shall see Him as He is." After a brief pause, he added, " I am rather falling into a gentle sleep than dying. I feel but little pain, and all within is peaceful and calm." And then, closing his eyes. 21G FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. with a heavenly smile overspreading his countenance, he repeated these words, and with them resigned his breath : " The angels call, they call me from above, And bid me hasten to the realms of love. My soul with transport hears the happy doom ; I come, ye gentle messengers, I come : Earth flies, with all the charms it has in store, Its snares and gay temptations are no more ; While heaven appears, and the propitious skies Unveil their inmost glories to my eyes. To mortals and their hopes I bid adieu, And ask no more the rising sun to view; For, oh, the Light himself, with rays divine, Breaks in, and God's eternal day is mine." Lady Huntingdon, when asked by Lady Anne Erskine how she felt, replied, " I am well; all is well, well forever. I see, wherever I turn my eyes, whether I live or die, no- thing but victory." On another occasion she said, "I am cradled in the arms of love and mercy. My work is done; I have nothing to do but to go to my Father." (See Isaiah Ixvi. 13; Jer. xxxi. 3, and John xvii. 24.) When near her last struggle, she whispered, joyfully, "I shall go to my Father to-night;" and she did. Hannah More bore this testimony to the love of Christ to her soul: — "What can I do? What can I not do, with Christ helping me? I know that my Redeemer liveth. Happy, happy are those that are expecting to be together in a better world. The thought of that world lifts the mind above itself." When one talked to her of her good deeds, she said, " Talk not so vainly ; I utterly cast them from me, and fall low at FAiMILY BEREAVEMENTS. 217 the foot of the cross/' As the moment of her departure drew near, she smiled, and endeavored to raise herself a little from her pillow; she reached out her arms as if in the act of praise to God, and, while making this effort, she once called, "Patty!" (the name of her last and dearest sister,) very plainly, and exclaimed, " Joy !" In this state of quietness and peace she remained for an hour, and then fell asleep in the arms of her Redeemer, to die no more. '' The cross of Christ," said the dying Mrs. Sherman, " is all my support and hope. that I had a tongue to urge all to seek refuge there ! Is it not a comfort to feel the sting of death removed?" On another occasion, when she heard the voice of her youngest child, she called her, and had her placed for a moment, on her knees. Looking at her with inexpressible tenderness, she said, " Mamma is going to heaven. Will my precious child meet me there ?" The dear little creature replied, with energy, " Yes, mam- ma." The answer awoke strong emotion, and prevented her saying more. Recovering herself, she said, " Read to me about Abraham and his seed, that I may feel encou- raged about my precious children." '• Yes, there is my hope. 'I will be a God to thee and to thy children after thee.' Surely He has been a God to me. Who but lie could have borne with me and helped me till now ?" As she said this, her countenance was lighted with a sweet smile. Taking her husband's hand, she said, " Forgive a wife if with her dying breath she say, Preach Christ and His salvation more fully, more conspicuously, more feel- ni'zh, than ever. It has been your aim, I know, to exalt 218 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. Him all your life ; but let your remaining efforts in the pul- pit extol Him and make Him very high." * * ■■' * "Do not weep; cheer up; Christ your Master will give you strength and grace; we shall meet, after a few short years, to part no more." The last words of Mrs. Sarah Moore were, "Blessed Jesus." The day but one before her departure, she awoke suddenly out of a tranquil sleep, crying out, in rapture, '' Blessing, and honor, and glory, and power, be unto the Lamb, — Hallelujah !" In the evening of the same day, though scarcely able to utter a word, she said to those around her, " Talk of the cross — the blood-stained cross — of the King of love." The Rev. Dr. Berg, speaking of the scenes of his early childhood, says, " I remember well when a child, sepa- rated by the wide ocean, from my parents, among my schoolmates was a little boy, whose father was engaged with mine in preaching the Gospel to the poor Negroes in the West Indies. My heart yearned over him ; he was so modest and guileless ; so amiable and full of art- less affection, and withal so small and delicate, and we were both so far from home that there was to me an un- usual attraction about him ; and I never shall forget how he pined away like a blighted flower, and was taken to ' the sick-room ?' The sickness was unto death — and as he lay, propped with pillows, on his bed, his pale and wasted face — his panting breath — his eyes sparkled with that unearthly light, that gleams through the windows of the soul, like rays from a brighter world, all told FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. 219 plainly that he was * going home.' There was a sudden flush upon his features. He raised his little hand and whispered, * Oh, listen ! What sweet music ! ' Then starting up, his face shining with rapture, he followed with his hands the objects which were before his vision, reneating, ' See ! see those beautiful angels ! Let me go — dre^s me. Oh, let me go with them !' And he did go with them. Is it not of such, that Jesus says, ' Their angels do always behold the face of my Father who is in heaven?' Among the sweetest thoughts of death, which ever filled my heart, from childhood until now, are those which come whispering from the grave of my little friend." I Lave seen A curious child, that dwelt upon a tract Of inland ground, applying to his ear The convolutions of a smooth-lipped shell, To which, in silence hushed, his very soul Listened intently ; and his countenance soon Brightened with joy ; for, murmuring from within Were heard, sonorous cadences ! whereby To his belief the Monitor expret^sed Mysterious union with its native sea — E'en such a shell the universe itself Is to the ear of faith. O blessed eternity! — with what cheerful splendor dost thou dawn on every departed faithful soldier of Christ I With thee come liberty, and peace, and love, and endless felicity ! — pain and sorrow, tumult and death and darkness, vanish before thee. " And I heard a voice from heaven saying unto me, Write, Blessed are the dead which die in 220 FAMILY BEREAVEMENTS. the Lord from henceforth : Yea, saith the Spirit, that they may rest from their labors; and their works do follow them." "0 Death, where is thy boasted conquest now? Where are the frowns and terrors of thy brow ? Thou hast an angel's heavenly form and air: Pleasures and graces in thy train appear." "Harp! lift up thy voice on high — shout, angels, shout! And loudest, ye redeemed ! glory to God, And to the Lamb, who bought us with His blood, From every kindred, nation, people, tongue. And washed, and sanctified, and saved our souls, And gave us robes of linen pure, and crowns Of life, and made us kings and priests to God. Thousands of thousands — thousands infinite — With voice of boundless love, answered, Amen. And God the Father, Son, and Holy Ghost — The One Eternal! smiled superior bliss. And every eye and every face in heaven. Reflecting and reflected, beamed with love." " Blessed be the Lord God of Israel, who only doeth wondrous things. And blessed be his glorious name for- ever; and let the whole earth be filled with his glory. Amen, and Amen." THE END. '^imiw^-:^ mM • si ..T <••-,/< WMm^~. m 1 •#r- :^^- ■■ - ■ ..:.<.:'5'