S ina bUSY LIFE N AUTOBIOGRAPHY 1 LIBRARY OF CONGRESS. (Sipp ©opjrig^i^ Shelf ..B.S £.A3 L UNITED STATES OF AMERICA. ^L<^ A^C(^) INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIKE. AN AUTOBIOGRAPHY BY ASA BULLARD, /out*— J BOSTON AND CHICAGO: Congregational Sunoao-Srijoal ano publtsijmtj Soctetg. Copyrighted, 1888, By Congregational Sunday-School and Publishing Society. TBI LIBRARY |Or C ONG RESS ' WASHINGTON Electrotyped and Printed by Stanley 6f l r sAer, iji Devonshire Street, Boston, Afus m TO ALL, OF EVERY AGE, WHO HAVE IN ANY WAY BEEN INTERESTED IN MY LIFE-WORK FOR THE YOUNG, THIS VOLUME IS AFFECTIONATELY DEDICATED. CONTENTS. I. My Parentage = . . n II. My Early Years 15 III. Our Neighborhood and Homestead 38 IV. How we Children were Trained 42 V. My Religious Experiences 60 VI. My Last Winter in the Public School .... 72 VII. My First Experience in Keeping School ... 83 VIII. Preparatory and College Course 88 IX. A Year in Augusta, Maine 99 X. Two Years at Andover Theological Seminary . 106 XI. Three Years in Sabbath-school Work, in Maine iio XII. Connection with the Congregational Sunday- school and Publishing Society 128 XIII. Three Tours Through the West 151 XIV. Some Excursions 161 XV. My Visit Abroad 168 XVI. The Chestnut Story 180 XVII. Incidents in Home Life . 189 XVIII. In Memoriam 213 INTRODUCTION. Mr. Bullard has kindly asked me to write a few words which may accompany the book which he now sends into the world. An introduc- tion seems superfluous. Very few men are better known in the churches and homes of New England than the revered author of these personal sketches. Far beyond the bounds of the states in which his life has, for the most part, been spent, and beyond the shores of our country, his name and face and work are familiar. He has had the great advantage of coming to us in our childhood when the mind readily gains impressions which do not pass away. Into my own boyhood, as I recall it, comes the recollection of the tall man with his white hair and sunny face, his genial voice and winning manner, with the wise lessons which he taught and illustrated in a way which was all his own. He had the faculty of saying things so that they stayed where he placed them, and not only preserved the memory of the man, but made his words a living force in the young life. Now, in the fullness of years, he still walks among the churches, and children are listening to a man whom their grandfathers and grandmothers knew and admired. Mr. Bullard has already written a valuable book upon Sabbath-schools, their history and methods ; a book rich in information and suggestion. It seems fitting that he should add to that another work which should give more of the man himself. Many will be glad to know of his childhood, of the things which happened to him when he was a boy, of the varied incidents which have had their place in a life which has been long and industrious and successful. All this can be found in the modest pages of this book. The man thinks aloud, and changes his recollections into words. The story is told in his own manner. Every one who knows the tones of his voice will hear them as he reads. Mr. Bullard always knew how to tell a story, and he has well used his gift in his own biography. All this will be manifest to those who turn these leaves. As I have this humble part in sending the book on its errand of love, I am sure that I express the feeling of a great company of men and women in thanking the author for all he has done for generations of boys and girls and in asking for him many years of the same service. ALEXANDER McKENZIE. Cambridge, June, 1887. PREFACE. The fact that the special work of my life has been in behalf of the young, and has been continued through a kind providence an excep- tional length of time, rather than any thing of marked interest in my personal history, it is thought may justify the publication of this narra- tive. The incidents here given, it is also believed, will illustrate a somewhat busy life. When my work commenced there were few persons who were laboring especially for the young. There were certainly but few who were hon- ored with the title of " the Children's Minister." Then there were but few children's periodicals like The Sabbath-School Visitor and The Well- Spring. The latter was published every week, and came, as some chil- dren used to say, "Just as often as father's paper does." For years The Well-Spring had a circulation of over sixty thousand copies a week. From two to three hundred copies were taken in several of the larger cities of California and other western states. Of course all this interest in behalf of the young, then so new, made a great impression on the minds of the children and youth of those times. Those children and youth are the men and women of the pres- ent day ; and the impressions of their early life are now constantly seen, and oftentimes in a manner to me very touching. I am frequently met at public meetings, and in my visits to the churches on the Sabbath, by many a one, even of gray hairs, who, with a beaming countenance and in animated tones, says : " When I was quite little I heard you at " : or, " I always took The Well-Spri7igy So that my presence, and even my name, is associated with the early life of many, and recalls scenes of their childhood. The following extract from an article published in a Providence paper will illustrate this : — In looking over the Sunday notices, I read that Rev. Asa Bullard would address one of the Sunday-schools in our city on the following day, and I resolved at once to see and hear him. For the moment I gave myself up to the recollections which IO PREFACE. for long years have clustered in my mind around his name. Sweet, tender memo- ries, with hallowed influences, brought smiles and tears alternately. More than forty years ago, Mr. Bullard went to a little country town in Massachusetts to spend the Sabbath, and was entertained at my father's house. The little girl of the family, who had just passed her third birthday, sat upon his knee and listened with the others to his magnetic words. ... I have never seen him since, but so clear and dis- tinct was memory's picture, that I half-fancied I should know him on the morrow ; and unlike most of my childhood's heroes, and despite the forty years, I recognized him instantly. Now may not the following simple narrative of my own early days, and especially of the work of my life for the young, also recall, to all who may read it, memories of their childhood and youth ? In 1876 I published "Fifty Years with the Sabbath-schools," a vol- ume of 336 pages. This was not intended, as is stated in the preface of that book, to be an autobiography, only so far as related to my con- nection with Sabbath-schools. "All that it attempts," it was there said, "is to give some brief sketches of the earlier schools ; the modes of conducting them ; some of the changes that have taken place, and to present such incidents and illustrations as have fallen under my observa- tion in regard to the various departments and agencies of the Sabbath- school work, as will be likely to aid and quicken all who are in any way interested in the right training of the young, or in promoting the more earnest study of the Word of God." That volume and this, therefore, do not, to any great extent, cover the same ground. My most earnest hope is that some of the little incidents, even of my earlier days, here given may afford, especially to the young of the present time, lessons of both interest and profit. These incidents will show them that I was once a boy, just like other boys, only, perhaps, in some things a little more so. And then, when I have passed away, may it not through this little volume be said of the author as it is of Abel, " Being dead he yet speaketh "? Under these circumstances may I not hope that my numerous Sabbath-school friends, and also a considerate public, will judge kindly as to the propriety of publishing this humble volume? ASA BULLARD. " SUNNYBANK," CAMBRIDGE. INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. CHAPTER I. MY PARENTAGE. THE following account of my parents is gathered mostly from a genealogical sketch of the Bullard family, written some years ago for the " History of the Town of Sutton," by my nephew, William Sumner Barton, Esq., of Worcester. My father, Dr. Artemas Bullard, was born in Holliston, Mass., December 8, 1768. He was the only one of his father's children who received a professional education. In August, 1794, with a small stock of medicines costing twelve pounds, and under a debt of like amount, he commenced the practice of his profession in Northbridge, Worcester County, Mass. While he was studying his profession at Oxford he became acquainted with his first wife, Maria Waters, daughter of Ebenezer Waters, Esq., of Sutton. They were married in Sutton, February 17, 1796. His wife died without issue about two years after their marriage. December 6, 1798, he married for his second wife Lucy White, daughter of Deacon Jesse White, of Northbridge, by whom he had ten children, three daughters and seven sons. Although during his residence of several years in I 2 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. Northbridge he had established an extensive practice, he was induced by the father of his first wife, Ebenezer Waters, Esq., to purchase his large and beautiful farm in West Sutton. In 1805, accordingly, he removed to Sutton, and thereafter his attention was divided between his profession and his farm. He was about this time appointed, by Governor Strong, surgeon of the then local infantry regiment ; and in 18 14 he was elected a fellow of the council of the Massachusetts Medical Society. He might have gained an eminent position in his profession had he given exclusive attention to it. As to person, my father has been described as " some- what above the ordinary stature ; of light, florid com- plexion, light-blue eyes, nose strictly aquiline, and, in short, as his contemporaries have said, a fine-looking man. He possessed ardent feelings and great energy of char- acter united with a sound judgment. His integrity was proverbial, always doing exact justice to others, and expecting the same from them." My father's death was occasioned by an accidental fall in his barn, and was probably instantaneous. It occurred May 6, 1842, at the age of 73. My mother was born in Northbridge, May 5, 1778. She was a direct descendant, on her mother's side, of the sixth generation from her noted ancestor, " Sampson Mason, the Baptist and dragoon of Oliver Cromwell's army." Her great-grandfather, Hezekiah Mason, died in. Thompson, Conn., at the advanced age of 103 years. My mother died at the house of her eldest daughter, Mrs. Judge Barton, in Worcester, December 15, 1869, aged ninety-one years, seven months and ten days. Her son-in-law, the late Rev. Henry Ward Beecher, at her funeral thus spoke of her : — MY PARENTAGE 13 To this joyful coronation our beloved mother has come. All the days of her appointed years — years full of labor and duty — are accom- plished ; all her doubts are dispelled, all her anticipations realized ; all she hoped for in her long and noble life, and far more than human hope can ever aspire to, is now her portion. We come to shed no bitter tears ; we celebrate a triumph, not a defeat; a life perfected. Her children are gathered here with her more immediate friends and neighbors, to pay the last honors to her lifeless form. How sturdily, how nobly she lived ! Feeble, tender, but how enduring ! Never strong, no one would have marked her for a long life. Well do I remember her as first I saw her. I was then a lad in college. Even then I was struck by the energy of her character. I remember my impression then that she was weak in body, and liable to meet an early death. Who would have thought that she would survive that stalwart man, Dr. Bullard, of Sutton, so full of the capital for a long and sturdy life? In body, as in mind, she was evenly organized. Hers was the strength of tenderness and gentleness, but underlaid by a quiet persist- ence of wonderful force. She was firm and steadfast for the right, wherever principle was involved ; mild and loving, but with fixed habits of belief and thought, which kept her firm and true, even to sternness when occasion required. God taught her ! With her vigor of character it would have been easy for her to make shipwreck of happiness, linked as she was with that strong nature, her husband. It would have been easy for her to purchase peace by self-abnegation, by sinking herself, but she did neither. She made herself a power in her home, but she ruled by submission and love. She made her home a happy one ; and a greater compliment can be paid to no woman. She elevated the name of wife and mother, by showing in herself what it was possible for woman to be. Early was I struck with her devoutness, by the depth, the richness, and the reality of her religious emotions. The church was always her care. She remembered the pastor and his household, the school and the Sabbath-school. To the latter she was deeply attached, and often in the still hours of the night, when all the household were asleep, upon her knees frequently, and always reverently, did she study the portion of God's Word which was to be the lesson on the morrow. Well do I remember, in a great revival in Sutton, when the last of her class of thirteen rose to ask for prayers. All had been prayed into the kingdom, and by her. We had a gospel in our home. Her presence was a long benediction. If each one of her children, those 14 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. gone before and those now living, could gather with us to-day and speak of her life, each would bear me witness that however much we may owe to the school, to the church, to the seminary, to ordaining elders, to the counselors of our riper years, yet the secret, the root, the fullness of each life was in the teaching, the counsel, the example of this mother. As age withdrew her from active duties of life, her piety became brighter and her conversation more heavenly. God calls some away in the midst of their usefulness ; some he calls in what men say is "just the right time ; " and sometimes he keeps people here just as we keep pictures in our dwellings, to look at and admire, for whole neighbor- hoods to look at and see what it is possible for life to become. That is the best man who carries his boyhood farthest into life with him. And that is the best woman who can take her girlhood farthest into middle life and old age. This our mother did. Herself a vener- able matron, she stood as a child among her grandchildren ; she stood as a loving child in her Father's home ^ all whom she saw, or felt, or received, were God's gifts. She lived in the liberty of love — a child, in the great house of her Father. CHAPTER II. MY EARLY YEARS. I WAS born in Northbridge, Worcester County, Massa- chusetts, March 26, 1804. I was the third of my parents' ten children. When I was one year old, the family — my parents with their three children — moved to Sutton, the town adjoining Northbridge on the west. This was afterwards our home till, one after another, we left the paternal roof. My parents, when they first established the family, erected the family altar, which was faithfully sustained to the end. The influence of that daily reading of the Scripture and prayer, generally both morning and evening, and the asking of a blessing and the returning of thanks at every meal, was most indelible. All these services of prayer and grace at the table were performed with all the family standing. To be sure, when we were very young they were sometimes, especially in the evening, rather wearisome to us little ones, and I well remember how I used to wonder to whom my father was talking, as he stood up there before the tall clock in the corner, with his hands on the back of the chair and his face turned away from all of us. Then, in the morning, my father would read, some- times, a whole chapter in Scott's Family Bible, with the Notes and Practical Observations. This, while we were quite young, was not a little tiresome. Scott's Commen- tary was then issued in large folio numbers. I can well 15 1 6 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY II FE. remember how each of those large magazines looked, as one number after another, once a month or once a quarter, came to our home, and with what eagerness we all used to look over each new number. I now have them all bound in six large volumes of from six hundred and fifty to nine hundred pages. And I reverence them highly as associated with my early home, my now sainted parents, and the sacred family altar. We were all trained, from very early life, to attend church. As we resided over three miles from the center of the town where was our place of public worship, father obtained a famous two-horse coach or carriage " for going to meeting." It had two wide seats and was open in front. And every Sabbath, rain or shine, summer and winter, this carriage, with father and two children on the front seat and mother and two on the back seat, and one or two packed away somewhere inside, would be seen on the way " to meeting." And how well I can recall many of the scenes in the church, which would be very strange to young and old of the present day. The square pews with the plain board seats on hinges, which were raised when we " stood up " in time of prayer, and at the close were let down with such a startling crash and rattle all over the house. Then the ice-cold house in the winter, with no fire except the foot-stoves of the women. There were always two services, with an intermission of about an hour. One of the older children, by turns, boys and girls, remained at home to take care of the little ones and have dinner ready when the rest returned. And we all learned to get a repast that the hungry ones were sure to relish. Among the things connected with "going to meeting" in those early days that made a great impression on my MY EARLY YEARS. I J young mind were those of the old stone horse-block, standing near the meeting-house. There was such an appendage to most of the country meeting-houses at that time. Many of the people came to meeting on horse- back, the husband and his wife, or a brother and sister mounted on the same horse. And the horse-block was for the special convenience of the women in mounting and dismounting. The old stone horse-block to which I am now referring consisted of a flat stone, six or eight feet long and per- haps three wide, elevated several feet by smaller stones,, and ascended by three or four stone steps. On and around this horse-block most of the men and boys, professors and non-professors, and even the deacons, in the warm season and on pleasant Sabbaths, passed their morning between the services. The time was spent in free and lively conversation. All the men took part in the talk without distinction of rank or learning, and none seemed to feel the slightest embarrassment. Men who never could speak in the prayer-meeting found no difficulty here. Till I was twelve or thirteen years old, as there was no Sabbath-school, I attended, what I have since called, this " horse-block class for conversation," and the scenes there witnessed are more vivid in my memory than are any of those I have since witnessed in the Sabbath-school. I do not remember that the sermon or the subject of religion in any manner was ever made the topic of conversation. The news of the day, the cattle and farms, the state and prospects of the crops, the weather, the prices of various articles of produce, the character of neighbors, politics, the approaching election, etc. ; — these were the themes upon which the older members of the " class," church members and the uncon- 1 8 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. verted, usually conversed. Never can I forget the surprise and wonder those scenes produced on my youth- ful mind. Such conversation on the Sabbath day ! How could any good impressions follow the services of the house of God ? Towards night, or in the early evening of the Sabbath, we children all recited the catechism and passages of Scripture or hymns. Now, wearisome as sometimes these Sabbath services were, I would not for the life of me lose the associations of " going to meeting " on that holy day. Among the many little incidents of my early life which may be of more or less interest, especially to any young friends who may read these pages, may be mentioned the following : — The Blacksmith Shop. My father had a blacksmith shop ; and sometimes when not called away on professional duties, he would do little jobs in this shop in the evening. One evening, when I was a very little boy, I asked him to let me go with him and see him make nails. He said I would get sleepy and cry to come back. I thought I should n't ; and so was permitted to go with him. He fixed me a nice seat on the forge, where I could see him blow the bellows, heat the nail-rod red hot, and then hammer out the nails. It was real fun to watch him for some time. By-and-by I began to grow tired and sleepy ; and then I wished I was back at the house and in bed ; but I did not dare to say any thing about it. At length father looked up, and seeing that I was very sleepy and ready to cry, he asked : — MY EARLY YEARS. 19 " What is the matter, Asa ? " I said : — " I wish I was never made ! " Father drew the hot nail-rod out of the fire and raised it as though he was going to strike me, when I exclaimed : " I don't want to be killed, now I am made ! " Then, with a hearty laugh, he took me home to mother. The Big Cupboard. Between the kitchen and the dining, or sitting, room, there was a short passage-way. On the right hand, five or six feet high, there were two cupboards, a small and a large one, with doors. The small one was about a foot wide, with two or three shelves,, where small tools and all sorts of things were kept. The large one extended quite a distance back of the chimney. The door was about two feet square, with a small, heart-shaped hole near the top. Into this great space were thrown all sorts of larger things, boot-jacks, hammers, boxes, etc. It was a catch- all for every thing that any one wished to put out of the way. One day the roguish little Asa had done some mischief, when his father took him up and put him into the big cupboard and shut the door. A loud outcry was expected, but there was not a lisp. The parents and the other children waited and waited for some evidence that the little prisoner would understand that he was in solitary confinement as a punishment. But there was no complaint heard. By-and-by the father opened the prison-door, and there the little rogue was, having the nicest time with all the " playthings " he found around him ! But when the light was cut off from the hole at the top of the door, the little prisoner began to beg to be pardoned out. 20 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. The Catcher Caught. The warm sun of early spring had begun to disrobe the earth of her winter mantle. Here and there around our home, in the yard and the fields, the snow had disappeared, and the fresh grass was just starting to view. The time of the singing of birds, too, had come, and many a red- breast, on every sunny spot, was seeking his food and fill- ing the air with his merry chirpings and sweet spring carolings. These welcome harbingers of coming verdure and flowers attracted my attention. I watched them ; but instead of making myself happy with their lovely exhibi- tion of happiness, I began to devise plans for catching them. With my little bow and arrow, and my sling and stones, I pursued them from spot to spot, and from field to field ; and many a poor, timid red-breast did I terribly frighten. By-and-by my roguish ingenuity hit upon a plan by which I was sure I could catch them. My plan was, to set a small fish-hook, expecting that the unwary bird would pick up the bait, and in a moment be safe in my hands. This cruel device no sooner entered my mind, than I hastened to try it. I obtained a small fish-hook, and began to fasten to it a little string. In order to secure it tightly I used my teeth. In this dangerous operation the string slipped, and in an instant the sharp, barbed hook, which I was preparing for the mouth of poor robin, was fast caught in my own. It entered into the soft and ten- der flesh inside of my under lip. The catcher was now caught, sure enough — caught, too, in his own snare, which he was setting for another ! What was I to do ? I could not remove the cruel hook. The barb, intended on MY EARLY YEARS. 21 purpose to fasten it tightly in the mouth of the innocent fish or bird that should swallow it, was firmly fastened in my lip. With great pain and fear, both increased by the con- sciousness that I was receiving only a just desert for my intended cruelty, I hastened to my mother. She tried to remove it, but in vain. I then went to my father, with whose sharp surgical instruments I was painfully familiar. Those frightful instruments — the very sight of which made me turn pale and tremble anew with fear — father now took out and laid upon the table. After much suffer- ing, the hook was at length removed, leaving in my lip a deep wound ; but a deeper impression was left upon my mind. Years have passed away since that wound was healed ; but the impression on my mind remains like the deep lines of the sculptor's chisel upon the marble. I then regarded this occurrence, and I still regard it, as a deserved punish- ment for my intended cruelty. I learned, by my own sad experience, that what was to be sport to me would have been, had I succeeded in my cruel purpose, pain and suffering to those innocent and beautiful songsters of spring. I trust this story of my early days may be a warning to all my young friends against indulgence in cruelty towards any of God's creatures. My Spreading-stick. % About the time of the above event, when four or five years old, in hay-time, I begged my father to make me a spreading-stick. After frequent importunities my request was granted. The spreading-stick was made of a small sapling, three or four feet long, which had two branches 2 2 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. at the top. These were cut off five or six inches from the stick, making two tines, like those of a fork. With my coveted spreading-stick I went proudly into the fields, and followed the men who were cutting down the tall grass into swathes, and spread the new-mown hay in every direction, as I had seen others do. And didn't I feel smart as I made the hay fly ! I was doing a man's work. Well, many a boy knows that what is at first a play may become work. It was not long before I began to find it so with my spreading-stick. When it was found that I could spread hay, and be made useful, and save some of the time the men had to give in doing this work, I had to spread the hay. It was no longer play ; it was work. And many a time, when my little arms and legs became tired in this labor, I wished I had never asked for the spreading-stick. And yet, this early learning to work and be useful has been a great benefit to me in my after life. There was one very curious event in connection with my spreading-stick. My Grandfather Waters, of Boston, used occasionally to visit his old home in Sutton. In hay-time, almost every year, he would come; and he seemed to find pleasure in assisting in the hay-field. One day when father was absent, grandfather went into the field with the men to rake up the hay. This was soon after I had my spreading-stick, and I was on hand spreading the swaths, By-and-by I went to the windrow grandpa was raking up, and began to spread the hay out again. Grandpa saw me and said I must not do it. But my memory was very short, and soon I was spreading out the hay after grandpa. He then told me if I did it again he should have to shake me. It was not long before — MY EARLY YEARS. 23 boy fashion — I was repeating the mischief. Grandpa saw me and started towards me, when the wicked little rogue threw his spreading-stick at him and then ran. But grandpa soon overtook me and gave me a shaking — not a hard one, but enough to cause me to go crying to the house. The good old man was troubled lest I should go with a complaint to my mother, and she might think he had assumed improper authority over her child. But that child, young as he was, knew better than to go to his mother with any such complaint. He kept his grief to himself. At dinner grandfather told mother about the affair, which I had not ventured to mention. Then to show her that he was not severe, he arose from the table and took me from my chair and shook me again ! That second shaking I did not soon forget. It hurt my feelings more than it did my body. Some months after this, grandfather died in Boston, and his body was brought to Sutton and laid in his family tomb, about a mile from our home. One Sabbath, after the family returned from meeting, and had dined, father and mother and one or two of us children went to the tomb. They opened the lid of the coffin to see the face of the departed. Father lifted me up and said that was my " Grandpa Waters." I asked if it was the grandpa that shook me. And when told that it was, I said : — " Well, I guess he won't shake me again." That shows how badly I felt, though I so richly deserved the shaking. Sad Influence of a Profane Man. In my early boyhood I was a bundle of nerves, — all life and spirits, — scarcely still an instant, except when asleep. 2 4 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY II FE. I was always doing something ; and of course frequently things I ought not to do ; so from my earliest days my life has been a very busy one. My grandfather would lose his patience when he found every thing he wanted out of place, or rather when it was not to be found at all. He used to say : — " Asa will make something or nothing ; " meaning that I would not be one of your halfway characters. Should I live long enough, that saying may prove true. Although I was always so full of mischief, yet some- how I always had friends. My little pranks and constant glee seemed to attract the notice and win the affection of most of those in my father's employ from time to time. About the time of which I am speaking my father erected a new building, and among the men engaged in the work, was a man from a neighboring town whom I will call Mr. Pierson. Very soon I attracted his atten- tion and gained his love ; and, in return, I thought there was nobody like my new friend. Every moment of rest and leisure Mr. Pierson was frolicking with me. Such was the mutual attachment between us, that his influence over me was almost unbounded. And it was a dreadful influence. Mr. Pierson was a man of no religious princi- ples. Without exception he was the most profane man I ever knew. He would hardly utter a word without an oath. His habit of profanity had become so inveterate that it seemed almost as involuntary as his breathing. The wife of a clergyman, for whom he was working at one time, reproved him, when he pleasantly replied : — " Why, madam, I don't mean any thing when I swear, any more than you do when you pray." My attachment to Mr. Pierson and my confidence in him were so great that the influence of all the instruc- MY EARLY YEARS. 25 tions of my pious parents was neutralized, so that I felt that whatever my friend did or said must be right and proper. It was Mr. Pierson's greatest pleasure to witness my cunning tricks, and he was constantly encouraging me on to deeds of mischief; and this was not the worst of his influence. He would prompt me to some wrong act, and then teach me to deny it, always presenting himself as a witness — a false witness — in my favor, so as to shield me from correction. Many a time did I, through this wicked influence, and supported by the false testimony of this wicked man, cast my faults upon my elder brother, who had to suffer the reproof which I alone deserved. This cruel, wicked conduct I should never have been guilty of, had I not been led on by one in whom I had reposed entire confidence — centered my warmest affection. Through the influence of that false friend I " was made to sin," as " Jeroboam made Israel to sin." There was only one occasion in which I ever used pro- fane language. The time and the spot are indelibly en- graven on my mind. I was returning from school with my elder brother and sister, and was near home. All at once I began to utter a string of the most dreadful, wicked words, such as I had heard Mr. Pierson use. They were put together in all sorts of ways. My brother and sister were filled with astonishment and terror, and cried out : — " Why, Asa ! you will certainly go to the place of the wicked if you use such awful words ! " But I only replied : " I don't care ! Mr. Pierson will go there too ; and I want to go where he does." On reaching home mother was told what I had been doing. And never shall I forget the sad and painful ex- pression of that dear mother's face. She did not scold me — she never did that — but oh ! how tenderly and 2 6 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. solemnly she spoke of the sinfulness of what I had done. And she warned me and entreated me never again to use such wicked words. How fearful the effect upon me of that profane and wicked man ! The mischief of his influence for those few weeks it took months and months of instruction and reproof and prayer to counteract. Oh, the guilt of making others to sin ! The habit of falsehood, formed under the influence of Mr. Pierson, continued til] I was about seven years of age. I also grew fretful and would cry at every trifle. I thus became a trial and grief to my father and mother. When about seven years old, I came into the house one day and said to my mother : — " There ! I am going to stop crying and lying." And my mother, years after, told me that she never detected me in a falsehood afterwards. That shows that even chil- dren know when they do wrong ; and that they can, if they will, " cease to do evil and learn to do well." Fifteen or twenty years passed away, and Mr. Pierson became a reformed man — a vessel of the grace of God. Yes, this blasphemer was brought in penitence to the foot of the cross. His breath, so long spent in oaths, was now spent in prayer and praise. The remembrance of his influence over me — that he had made me to sin — was to him a source of the most bitter sorrow and remorse. He often expressed a desire, as I was told, once more to see me ; but we have never met, nor shall we meet again, till we meet at the judgment bar. Many years ago he finished his earthly course. The Famous Wind-mill. My father had a large head of cattle, oxen, cows, horses, sheep, etc. It was no small affair to pump all the water MY EARL Y YEARS. 27 these thirsty creatures needed. One of us boys always had to go home from school at noon in the winter three quarters of a mile to pump that huge trough full of water. It used to take about half an hour of the most laborious pumping to fill it. And this had to be done at least three times every day. The subject of some easier way of doing this was often discussed. The plan finally adopted was to place on the barn, directly over the pump, a wind-mill. It was a most thoroughly made piece of machinery, with six large arms. Most of the time, when set to work, it performed its task admirably, just like a thing of life. With an ordinary .wind it would fill the trough in a few minutes. Then the handle of the pump, to which the distaff was attached, was chained down, and the mill was quietly at rest. But when there was a brisk wind, it would often throw the water from the top of the pump to the top of the barn, and pump the well dry in a few moments. And sometimes it was not an easy thing to chain the giant. Father would have to go up a ladder on the barn, get upon the trundle-head, and by means of the weather- board turn the mill round against the wind and chain one of the arms. This was a somewhat daring and dangerous business. We were often not a little frightened at the furious antics of this monster ; but no measures were taken to abate the cause of our alarm till after the great gale on the seventeenth of September, 181 5. In that gale the mill broke loose, broke off the distaff connected with the pump-handle, and then, for hours, whirled with the most frightful velocity, throwing off one board after another from the arms. The people in the village, half a mile distant, could see the barn swaying back and forth, and expected every moment that mill and 2 8 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY IIFE. barn and all would go to ruin. Father went into the stable right under the wind-mill, to get out a horse, when a board from one of the arms of the mill dashed through the barn directly over his head. The next summer, in mowing one of the fields an eighth of a mile distant, boards were found driven into the ground, thrown off from the windmill. Had it not been for the heavy rain that accompanied the gale, the velocity of the mill, it was thought, would have set the barn on fire. This was the death-struggle of the famous wind-mill. It was taken down ; and we boys were quite willing to go back to the old hand-pumping, rather than risk any more such occasions of terror. Stricken Down by Lightning. In my early boyhood, one sultry summer day, there was a fearful thunder-shower. The lightning struck several times near our house. By-and-by there was a terrific bolt that ran down a conductor, tearing up the flag-stones at the back side of the house. My mother and myself were prostrated by the shock. The effect of that scene was such that, till I left my home for college and got away from the associations of that event, I trembled with fear on the approach of a thunder-shower, and, during its continuance, would hide away in some corner and cover my head and quake with terror. And even through life I have felt much as the little girl did, who was told that the " thunder was God's voice ; " she put her hands to her ears and, looking up imploringly, said : " Dear Father, please do not speak quite so loud." I can sympathize with the little boy who said, after the earthquake in Charleston, that he was " afraid of the sky- quakes ! " MY EARL Y YEARS. 2 9 And then, the great gale on the seventeenth of Septem- ber, 181 5, when I was about eleven years old (referred to in the preceding incident), so frightened me that I have always rejoiced that my lot was not cast in those places so often visited with cyclones and blizzards and earth- quakes. I often say: "The thunder-showers I like best are those that rain on us — and thunder somewhere else." An Alarm. In my boyhood I was, as it is called, very "unfortunate." Many were my disasters and " hairbreadth 'scapes." My accidents and injuries were so frequent that I seemed to become accustomed to wounds and bruises. And my mother used to say : " It does n't seem to hurt Asa to be hurt, as much as it does other boys." When I was perhaps twelve years of age, my elder brother and I had just returned from school at night, and were attending to our usual duties at the barn. I was running along the stone walk by the side of the barn, to open a stable door, when a lazy old ox, for once quicken- ing his pace to escape the sharp horns that pursued him, ran upon the walk, crushing me between himself and the barn. As soon as I was free I turned and ran a few steps across the yard towards the house, and fell prostrate upon my face. My brother, not suspecting I was injured, called to me : " Come, Asa, get up, and not try to frighten me by 'making believe' that you are hurt." But I did not stir nor speak. My brother then took hold of me to lift me up ; and who can tell his alarm when he saw the blood running from my mouth, and found my muscles all relaxed, and that I had ceased to breathe ? He hastened to the window of the room where 3■: Z : ."»Sfj ;'j. Z •= Z Z O o "g, 8 . I * . 'ssn n a 1 1 a I 9 i £ •! I b g s •= § ' = S 5 < •= ? i 1 " 5 : ! ° S = 5 .ti fi^S ft -"2 if if i 5 "1 2" "1 -£.£>■ S SP^-=£ = S, & 5 ;ii?!f€itS gal' = = ! '° ,! - ! S 1 || 11 111 ft 1 li = fill 1 ill %Slf | g S|»'ft 1 i-s J.:i I "i"-i |a * I ■; j | S 4 | ! | °1"f 2 a.s i! I| S = ^ S "" S°.:^ J 2 * =o2E = = S°-=-5 = IjlJl E -i 1 11 Ie & then under the pastoral care of the late Rev. Daniel Crosby. During a long illness of the pastor, Mr. Curtis and myself took charge of the prayer-meetings ; and at this time there was unusual religious interest among the people. The invalid pastor, in a very humble and submis- sive tone of voice, said : — " How mysterious it is that the Lord should thus visit my people when I am shut off from my work ! " But we were only entering into his work. He had been most faithfully sowing the good seed of the Word, and we were now permitted to help gather in some of the harvest. This year the eldest of our children now living was born. We now felt that it was best to establish a home of our own. One day I said to Mrs. Bullard : — " I have been to look at a house in the city I saw adver- tised to let. " Well/' she inquired, " what do you think of it ? " " The house is a good-looking one and pleasantly 189 1 90 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. located, but I do not think we can afford to take it. The rent is two hundred dollars more than my salary ! We should have to live very economically to get along, under those circumstances." So little we understood in regard to this part of the expense of housekeeping in the city ! We finally obtained a house in Barton Street, in the extreme western part of the city. Here we resided for five years ; and here two of our other children were born. Then we kept house five years in Poplar Street, Boston. And here our youngest child was born. In full view of our home was the fine building of the Massachusetts General Hospital. At first it was regarded as quite an attraction to our limited city prospect. But when we came to learn what a hospital meant, — that it is constantly the scene of suffering and pain ; that here the surgeon's instruments are in almost daily use, — much of the attraction vanished. We looked upon the massive structure with a very different sensation. One day a nurse in one of the wards of the hospital, who was a member of Bowdoin Street Church, then under the pastoral care of the late Rev. Hubbard Winslow, and to which church we had removed our church relations, sent for me to visit one of her patients, a young woman who was in an inquiring state of mind. I visited her and gave her such instruction as her case seemed to require and prayed with her. On leaving I was urged, both by the patient and her nurse, to call again. In a few days the visit was repeated. The same request, still more urgently, was made. After a few visits more, it appeared that the nurse and patient — and, indeed, several other patients in that and two or three other wards that I had visited — were anticipating the visits more and more, and were disappointed if many clays passed without any. To INCIDENTS IN HOME LIFE. 1 9 I obviate this state of things, the officials of the hospital kindly arranged for my visit each week, on a day when general visitors were not admitted. After this, for a year or two, I visited five or six wards every week, when my official duties did not call me from the city. I went from ward to ward, spoke a few words to every patient, trying to cheer the desponding and guide and direct the minds of the inquiring as best I was able. Then I read a few verses of Scripture and offered a short prayer. It was often very affecting to see how the countenances of the patients, the convalescent and also those most severely ill, even those who had but recently passed through the most painful operation, would brighten up as I entered the ward. Many of these patients were Catho- lics, but all seemed interested to hear the few sweet words of the blessed Book and the voice of prayer. It was thought that several of the patients, in connec- tion with these services, were led to trust in the Great Physician, and that not a few who had learned to put their trust in him were cheered and comforted. This hour or more, in which so many short services were crowded, was very fatiguing, but the interest mani- fested made it an occasion of great personal enjoyment and spiritual good to myself. As my early years were passed in the country and on the farm, and as I had learned to love every green thing and every living creature, the confinement amid the brick walls, narrow streets, and limited views of the city became more and more oppressive, and we finally de- cided to seek a residence in some rural place in the vicinity. My first visit of inspection was in Cambridge. After I 92 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. some inquiries in different parts of the town, — it was not then a city, — I came to a man on Dana Hill, just opposite Centre Street. He was fixing a gate. To the inquiry if there was any house in the neighborhood either to let or to sell, he replied that he did not know of any. After a few moments of general conversation he said : — " There is a man down there in Centre Street getting into his wagon, wno does let and sell houses." I had just time to hail him. And that house out of which he had come has been our " Sunnybank " home for forty years ! What important events were suspended on that brief moment of time ! An instant more and that man would have been beyond my call. Then where would have been our home ? How different, in many respects, might have been my life and that of my family \ Here, at Harvard University, a son obtained his collegiate and much of his medical education ; and here three daughters obtained their education in a high school that is equal to almost any, if not indeed to any, academy in the land. Here, too, in a location with all that is desirable in rural life, we are within easy access to the city and the place of my official labors. Our Present Home and How We Paid for It. Our dwelling is on a lot of about one third of an acre. As it stands on an elevated terrace, where the sun always shines,, when it shines at all, and as we try to have it always shine inside, we call it " Sunnybank." When we took possession of this new home, we found every tree and vine and shrub on the place had heen neg- lected, and weeds had general possession. For the mere pleasure of work and of seeing the improvement that would follow it, as well as for the needed exercise, for INCIDENTS IN HOME LIFE. 193 many years, through all the seasons for such labor, I spent from two to three hours before breakfast nearly every morning in earnest labor on these neglected grounds. They soon showed the effect of this labor. An Irish gardener, in passing, often looked with great interest on this early labor, and noticed the magical changes that were constantly going on. One morning, a little after four o'clock, he stopped and watched the quick and energetic motions of this gentleman laborer for a moment, and then exclaimed : — " Ye 're the only gintleman in Cambridge ! " I said in reply that if all the gentlemen in town did their own gardening in that way, he would probably sing another song. At the end of two years the place was so improved that, with the advice of friends, it was purchased. Only about one quarter of the cost was paid down ; the rest was encumbered by the ornament which the little girl said her father was going to put on his house next week — a mortgage ! Now there was a new motive for economy in the house- hold, and for the adoption of every suitable measure, not only to pay the interest, but also to lessen the principal. The interest was only about one quarter what the rent would have been most of the next twenty years ; and by the small sums, from time to time endorsed on the note, this was yearly growing less and less. At the end of about twenty years the mortgage was canceled and the homestead was free ! No one who has not experienced it can conceive the joy and gladness with which the whole household hailed that important event. On reckoning up the original cost and interest, includ- ing also some two thousand dollars for additional and 1 94 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. various improvements to the house and the grounds, and also the expense for necessary repairs, shingling, painting, etc., it was found that they amounted to just about the same the rent for those years would have done ; but had I been paying rent, I should have had no homestead. That is the way I obtained our homestead, which is now worth much more than it was when purchased. Besides, the amount of comfort the family have had in the thought that it was our own, or would be erelong, has been worth more than all the economy, careful contrivance, and even sacrifice, it has cost to secure it. In a place where real estate promises to increase rather than diminish in value I would advise all professional men with any fair prospect of permanency in their location to purchase a home at the outset. If the whole must be mortgaged, the interest will not equal the rent. Concentrated Labor. From my experience on my little plat of land I have been led to think much upon the importance of concen- trated labor. It seems to me that most farmers in New England have too much land. Their labor and their fertil- izers are extended over too many acres. At the west, where fertilizers are not needed, where taxes upon lands are small, and where agriculture is engaged in on a large scale and almost every part of it done by machinery, it is different. There one farmer may have his thousands of acres of corn and wheat and make a profitable business of it. But with us here in New England, if the labor, manure, fencing, etc., that are now expended on many a farm were concentrated from one third to one half, or even more, the results, it is believed, would be greater than now. At the same time much INCIDENTS IN HOME LIFE. 195 expense for fencing and taxes would be saved, and the better cultivation of the land would make all the labor easier and in every way more satisfactory. It is truly wonderful how much labor may be usefully expended on a small piece of land, and what large results will follow. The following illustration of the effects of concentrated labor of this kind may be interesting to some New England farmers, and especially to some small land-owners. The farm on which this labor has been performed con- tains about one third of an acre. The house and barn, the walks, grass-plats, borders and beds for shrubbery and flowers, take about one half of the lot. On the remaining seven thousand feet there are three cherry-trees, four apple-trees, seven peach-trees, forty pear-trees (of some thirty different kinds, some of the trees having two or more kinds), one hundred grape-vines of eighteen different varieties (many of these vines are on trellises around the house and barn), one hundred hills of currants between the trees and between the rows of trees (yielding last year three bushels of currants), fifty hills of raspberries between the rows of trees, and a few dozen hills of tomatoes. Almost all these trees, vines, and bushes are in bearing condition and yield abundantly. From this little spot there has been gathered this season at least sixty bushels of fruit. The cost for enriching this small spot of land has been but little beyond the cost of the few loads of loam each autumn for the compost heap, as most of the dressing has been made on the place of coal ashes. And there has been but little expense for hired labor except for a few days in the spring and autumn for spading the ground and getting out the dressing. 1 96 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. This is a specimen of the results of concentrated labor. It is doubtful if the same amount of labor and fertilizers expended over several acres of the same kind of land would have given as good results. An Hour in a Garden. Some of my most pleasant and perhaps profitable medi- tations have occurred while working in my little garden. I seldom prune my vines without thinking of that beautiful saying of our Saviour : "I am the vine, and ye are the branches." A single hour of labor and care in a garden — how wondrous its results ! With pruning-knife and shears and matting, how soon an ill-shaped, unsightly tree or shrub is changed into an object of symmetry and grace ! An hour among the vines, properly arranging them on the trellis, and checking their too luxuriant growth so that their vital forces may be employed in developing the luscious clusters — how marked its influence ! A brief season of care among the flowers and plants, giving to the weak and drooping the needed support, removing the hurtful insects and weeds, loosing the hardened soil about the roots, and by judicious pinching and pruning bringing them to forms of come- liness and beauty — how it pays, and how satisfactory as we look at the effects ! And then, as with hoe and rake we pass through the paths and walks, and among the trees and shrubs and plants, what a transformation it produces ! And how smooth and velvety the lawn over which has passed the mower ! Such are the effects of an hour, now and then, of thoughtful care and labor in the garden and grounds that grace and beautify and cheer our dwellings. The more frequent these seasons, INCIDENTS IN HOME LIFE. 197 the less labor and care it will require to keep all in perfect order, while only a few omissions will show to every passer-by the evidences of neglect. How sad that any — when it costs so little time and labor — should, through sloth, want of taste, thought- lessness, or indifference, leave their surroundings to be- come unsightly, overgrown with noxious weeds, and a confused mass of tangled vines and shrubbery. And an. hour of labor and care in the garden of the heart is not less wondrous in its effects than in the natural garden. How a season spent in earnest communion with the Scriptures or some devotional book, in meditation, self-examination, and prayer, helps to give vigor and beauty to all the Christian graces ! How it checks the growth of worldliness, and pride, and love of ease, and selfishness, and directs the forces of the soul to the growth and development and sweetness of all the fruits of the Spirit — love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance ! How such a season helps to remove doubts and fears, and to strengthen and support a weak and trembling hope and a wavering faith ! Without such seasons of labor and care, how soon all the avenues of the spiritual garden become unsightly, and every hurtful weed springs up to choke the delicate plants of righteousness, and the whole scene becomes a waste — no beautiful flowers or luscious fruits or pleas- ant objects appear. Frequent seasons of watchfulness and care are more needful here than in our natural gardens. Every good plant in the heart is an exotic, requiring much watch- fulness and protection, while the hurtful ones that we have to destroy are in their native soil. They spring I98 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY II FE. up spontaneously, and grow up without culture. The scorching sun, the withering drought, the desolating hail, the sweeping tempest, the noxious insect., seldom injures them. They are as tenacious of life as are the vexatious purslane and witch-grass that again and again we root up from our flower-beds. Nothing but the most persistent efforts can check and eradicate them. And yet we can have more certainty of success in the culture of the heart than in that of the most favored garden spot on earth. Every hour we spend there we can have divine help. The great Gardener will give us his aid. He will send the dew and the sunshine and the gen- tle rain, if we faithfully watch over and care for the plants > that will insure their growth and fruitfulness. Let us only be as regular and earnest in the care of our hearts as most lovers of ^nature are of their gardens, and the north wind will awake, and the south wind will come and blow upon them, that the spices thereof may flow out, and He whom our souls love will come into his garden and eat his pleasant fruit. Silver Wedding. The twenty-fifth anniversary of our wedding occurred May 16, 1857. This anniversary we had known was called in some countries in Europe the " silver wedding." We had never heard of the celebration of this anniversary under that name in New England. It seemed to us proper that the event should be recog- nized, and so we issued cards of invitation to a large number of our friends and acquaintances to call on us at our " Sunnybank " home in Cambridge on that occasion. On the corner of the card of invitation were the words "Silver Wedding," to indicate the event the gathering was to celebrate. INCIDENTS IN HOME LIFE. 199 Many of the papers, secular and religious, gave very- pleasant accounts of the occasion. It will interest at least our special friends — and it may not be improper — to give some specimens of these notices. The Boston Journal spoke thus of it : — We know of no person who can rejoice in the possession of the deep and heartfelt affection of a larger number of friends , of all ages — from the little child barely able to lisp the Lord's Prayer, to the aged saints ready to enter upon the bliss of heaven — and scattered all over New England, than the Rev. Asa Bullard, the devoted and beloved Secretary of the Massachusetts Sabbath-School Society. There are very few persons who have been connected with any Congregational Sabbath-school in Massachuetts during the last twenty years, who can not recall the kind words of counsel and instruction to which they have listened with eager interest as they fell from his lips, and the good resolutions which they have aided in forming or strengthening. This great multitude of friends will be pleased to know that last Saturday was the twenty-fifth anniversary of the marriage of Mr. Bullard, and at this event, the silver wedding, as it is termed, was commemorated by a social gathering of his friends in this vicinity at his residence in Cambridge last evening. Notwithstanding the un- pleasant weather, there was a general response to the invitations sent out, the visitors filling the house to overflowing, and a more happy assemblage we have never seen. The evening was spent in social conversation and congratulations. About nine o 'clock a bounteous collation was provided. At a season- able hour the company retired, with the sincere and heartfelt wish that their beloved friend and host, and his excellent and worthy companion, with their children, may all be spared to celebrate a golden wedding. A number of the Cambridge friends of Mr. and Mrs. Bullard, desirous that the celebration of the silver wedding should be something more than a mere social gathering for an hour, placed upon their parlor table a rich and beautiful silver tea-set appropriately inscribed. Other friends contributed other gifts. Three "little friends " of Mr. Bullard added a fine copy of Gray's Poems. These testimonials of affection were as gratifying as they were unexpected to the recipients. 200 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. As many parents who were present expressed a wish that their children might have enjoyed the occasion, on Independence Day, July 4, we invited the members of the Sabbath-schools of the Shepard Church, of which the late Rev. J. A. Albro, d.d., was pastor, and of the Prospect Street Church, of which Rev. C. W. Gilman was then pas- tor, to spend the afternoon at our home. The Boston Journal gave the following account of that gathering : — One of the most pleasant gatherings of the day took place in Cambridge Saturday afternoon, at the residence of Rev. Asa Bullard, the Secretary of the Massachusetts Sabbath-School Society. It was a kind of sequel to the silver wedding of this most estimable man, an account of which we gave a few weeks ago. At that gathering, which was composed entirely of adults, the question was asked why the children were not present. The best answer was that there was not room for them then. Their kind friend, Mr. Bullard, had not, however, forgotten them, and was looking forward to Independence Day, when he hoped to meet them in the beautiful grounds attached to his residence. Accordingly an invitation was last Sunday extended to the scholars connected with the two Congregtional Sabbath-schools in Cambridge, to meet their friend and the "children's friend 11 at his house, on Saturday afternoon. The invitation was heartily responded to, and about four o ^lock bright-eyed happy-faced little ones began to assemble, and kept coming until there were four or five hundred of them present. Several of the boys and girls brought beautiful bouquets of flowers and handed them to Mr. Bullard as he greeted them on their entrance. A delegation of girls from Rev. Dr. Albro's school were dressed in white, and had their heads wreathed in flowers. As they entered they handed Mr. Bullard two neat cases, which were found to contain a splendid silver pie-knife and other articles of silver ware, which were inscribed: "Shepard Sabbath-school, Cambridge, to Rev. Asa Bullard. 11 Mr. Bullard acknowledged the kind gift in a few appropriate words. After the company were all assembled they were allowed an hour to play about the grounds and have a good time. An ample collation was then served out to them, and after thev were satisfied, brief INCIDENTS IN HOME II FE. 201 addresses were made to them by Rev. Mr. Gilman, Rev. Mr. Bullard, Deacon Hosmer, superintendent of the Shepard school, Hon. Charles Theodore Russell, and Rev. Dr. Albro. Before separating, the children gave three hearty cheers as an acknowledgment of their appreciation of the generous hospitality of their kind-hearted friend. The occasion was a delightful one to all who were present. The Cambridge Chronicle, after giving an account of the above gathering, added the following : — The sequel to the whole occurred on Monday evening last, when quite unexpectedly to the recipient, Mr. Bullard was visited by the superintendent and teachers of Rev. Mr. Gilman's Sabbath-school, and received from the superintendent a silken purse containing twenty- five dollars in gold. The purse was of blue, pink, and white, emblem- atic of " friendship, love, and purity," and was bestowed as a token of the love and esteem of the members of the school. The superin- tendent of the infant department, in behalf of her little flock, also presented Mr. Bullard with a beautiful fancy parlor chair, as a token of their regard. "The matter of gifts," The Chronicle says, "is by no means a necessary part of a celebration like the above. If a couple have been spared by a kind providence to walk together in the wedded life twenty-five years, and have honored that sacred and endeared relation by a faithful observance of all the holy vows of the marriage covenant, as sharers of each other's joys, and sympathizers and sup- porters in each other's sorrows, what more appropriate than to invite their friends, or for their friends if they pre- fer, to go uninvited, to celebrate by mutual congratulations such an interesting event ? We sincerely pity all our bachelor friends who are willfully denying themselves all prospect of such joyous occasions." Another Silver Wedding. In The We 11- Spring for February 25, 1859, was pub- lished the following article : — 2 O 2 INC ID EN TS IN A BUSY LIFE. It is not common for such an anniversary — a silver wedding — to occur twice in the life of the same person ; and certainly not twice within two years. But if spared till Monday, March I, 1859, we sna U- have been married just twenty-five years to the Massachusetts Sabbath- School Society. That will be our second silver wedding. Now, if it were a pleasant season of the year, and we could procure a tent large enough, it would give us the greatest pleasure to have another silver wedding levee, and invite all of the two hundred thousand differ- ent boys and girls, young people and men and women, whom we have publicly addressed — and most of them many times — during the past quarter of a century, to come and exchange greetings with the " man who makes The Well-Spring." But as this can not well be done, will all this great number of friends who " remain unto this present" (alas ! what a multitude of them are fallen asleep !) accept our most heartfelt greetings and good wishes ? Many thanks for all the kind interest they have manifested in us and in our labors. . . . Though our labors for the past quarter of a century have been abun- dant, they have been very delightful. Few men have had a more delightful work than ours. Think, young friends, of the pleasure we have enjoyed in preparing this little paper, through which, every week, we have been speaking to more than 150,000 readers — parents, teach- ers, and children. You can not be more happy in your most exciting amusements than we have been in this work. And then all our other duties, of correspondence, making reports, preparing books for the Society, etc., during the week, have also been, as a general thing, pleasant. And then think, too, of our opportun- ities the past twenty-five years, in connection with this Society, and for three years previous, in connection with the Maine Sabbath-school Union, on the Sabbath and at conferences and Sabbath-school conven- tions and festivals, of meeting and addressing these many, many thou- sands of parents and children ! What work can be more delightful? Golden Wedding. Our golden wedding, or the fiftieth anniversary of our marriage, came May 16, 1882. As our friends had done so much for me in connection with my visit abroad, and fear- ing that a special celebration of our jubilee might lead to INCIDENTS IN HOME LIFE. 203 further gifts, it was quietly observed among a few of our relatives. Rev. Daniel D. Tappan wrote to me on the occasion of our golden wedding as follows : — Weld, Maine, April 27, 1882. My Brother Bullard : — I see in The Congregationalist a fraternal suggestion in relation to the " Golden Mile-stone " on the 16th of May; and on the score of long acquaintance send the enclosed lines. We have, as you well know, been more or less acquainted a long time ; indeed, perhaps as long as you have personally known any of the friends who will greet you on that interesting anniversary. I was present, as you may remember, at your ordination in Portland in 1832, and took some small part, I think, in the service. . . . I presume you are both in fair health ; and I opine you will not hasten to feel old, and that the same will not soon occur, unless the " tabernacle " receive some great wrench. Very best wishes for yourself and Mrs. Bullard. Your brother, Daniel D. Tappan, Aged eighty-three years and a half. Thou veteran children's friend, thy years 'Mid tireless cares have sped away ; And times of blended joys and tears Have ushered in this restful day. And this associate at thy side, In worthy deeds and love has shone, Since when, now fifty years, as bride, She linked her fortunes with thine own. The glory His, and grateful love May well remind of sovereign grace, That helped you train, for seats above, Such numbers of the rising race. And now, not in inglorious ease You cease from former robust care ; Yet, young in heart, still aim to please The Master, and for heaven prepare. 204 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. But be your exit soon or late, Its closing scene may Christ illume ; Fit harbinger of bliss so great, Reserved for saints beyond the tomb. D. D. Tappan. The Great Sorrow of my Life. About three years after the above interesting anniver- sary, my beloved wife was stricken with paralysis. After four or five months of almost perfect helplessness, during which she was most patient and never more loving and lovable, and when we felt that she was slowly but surely improving and was to be restored to us in health, on Sab- bath morning, July 19, 1885, without the least warning, she was suddenly taken from us, as if in a moment trans- lated — " a noble woman glorified." We had walked together in this most endearing of all earthly relations fifty-three years and two months. Among the many things for which we had occasion for thankfulness during these months of hope and fear, was the visit of our son, William R. Bullard, m.d., from Helena, Montana. He came sixteen hundred miles, and for two weeks our family was again reunited. We had not seen him for sixteen years. He has a wife and a pair of children thirteen years old, whom we have never seen except in their picture. Religion has never seemed more precious, as connected with the family, than as I contemplate it from my now stricken home. I thus moralize upon it : — Sin has spread a withering blight over all the relations of life. Nowhere has its influence been more destructive than in the various relations of the family. And still, the united, affectionate family — even where the rains and dews INCIDENTS IN HOME LIFE. 205 of divine grace have never fallen — is one of the most verdant spots in our world. Here one common bond of sympathy and love binds all hearts together. The dear names of father and mother, sister and brother, are music to each other's ears. Each helps bear the other's burdens. Envy and selfishness seem to have so far yielded to the power of even natural, unsanctified affection, that the hap- piness of each is to see the others happy. This is, indeed, a comparatively green spot in the midst of a surrounding desert. But let the rains of heaven be shed down upon this spot, and what a change ! A more abundant luxuriance now springs forth on every side, and it is clothed with a far deeper verdure and a far richer beauty. Religion puri- fies and sweetens all the tender and endearing relations of such a family. It adds a silken cord to the bonds of sym- pathy and love. It diffuses a softening, hallowed influence among all its ^members, and makes the good parent, the obedient child, the affectionate brother and sister, the amiable companion, a better parent, a more obedient, loving child, a more affectionate brother or sister, and a more amiable companion. Religion produces such a union of feeling and sentiment that a discordant note seldom mars the harmony of their lives. If one suffer, all suffer alike with him, and if one rejoice, all are made happy. Religion erects, too, in the pious household, an altar around which all the members daily assemble with united and joyful hearts. The priest of the household now opens the Sacred Volume. The world for a little season is dis- missed ; every passion is hushed, every bosom quieted, every mind awake, and every thought is fixed. The words of eternal life fall upon the ear as if from the lips of the Almighty. The song of praise now unites every voice in 206 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. sweet melody ; then all bow in solemn prayer, and offer incense and a pure offering to their Maker. Here, around this altar, their union and love are most perfect and endearing. " Their souls, by love together knit, Cemented, mixed in one, One hope, one heart, one mind, one voice, 'T is heaven on earth begun." If there is here below an emblem of the household of the blest, it surely is the united, affectionate, Christian family. What power there is in that religion that can make such a scene in such a sin-blighted world as this ! And there is efficacy in this religion, could it pervade every heart, to convert every family into such a scene ; to sweeten all the relations of kindred and friendship, and to change earth into heaven. God speed the day when all our homes shall be Christian homes. Cambridge Reserve Guard. Early in the late civil war in our country some of the leading citizens in Cambridge were led to organize a mili- tary company for the protection of our public institutions, buildings, etc. The company consisted mostly of men who on account of their age were not liable to be called into the service. The late George Livermore, Esq., one of the most highly respected men in the city, met me one day, mentioned the subject of this company and its special object, and inquired if I would be willing to unite with it. I at once replied " Certainly." The thought that there might by-and-by be a draft, and that some might be inclined to resist and excite mobs, and the exposure of our arsenal and all our public buildings, as INCIDENTS IN HOME LIFE. 207 well as our private dwellings and personal safety, seemed a good reason for every loyal citizen to be ready to organ- ize for protection. At first about one hundred united with the company ; but when we came to organize regularly and to obtain the uniform and other equipments, the number was reduced to about sixty. After meeting a few weeks under a drill-master, the company organized by choice of officers. Very much to my surprise I was chosen first lieutenant. I at once obtained Casey's volumes of infantry tactics, and in my spare moments gave myself to an earnest study. In a short time I was elected captain, and for twenty-two months did not fail to meet my company every Monday evening and drill them for an hour or more. This company was composed of clergymen, lawyers, physicians, merchants, teachers, presidents and cashiers of banks, and of the leading citizens of our part of the city. We aided in recruiting one or two companies and in awakening a general spirit of loyalty to our government and active sympathy with the north. There were several events of interest that may be men- tioned. The most important is that connected with the Cooper Street riot in Boston. Governor Andrew, Adju- tant-general Schouler, and Mayor Richardson of our city one time called upon our company just at night to escort several loads of ammunition from the Cambridge arsenal into Boston, for a regiment just home from the war that was called upon to aid in protecting the city. Our com- pany was under arms fifteen hours and marched ten miles, and we received the hearty thanks of the officials who called for our service. We had a public parade and supper at the end of one year, which was an occasion of great interest. 208 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. The company at another time had a drill in the City Hall, at which there was a large gathering of citizens,, including our lady friends. At this gathering Mayor Raymond, in behalf of the ladies of Cambridgeport, pre- sented to the company a superb silk flag. This was prop- erly acknowledged by an address from the captain, and afterwards suitable resolutions of acknowledgment were passed by the company and sent to the ladies. At the close of the war the company disbanded. Some, months afterwards the mayor of the city requested us to re-organize and aid in receiving two Cambridge companies, which we had helped to recruit. Permission was obtained from the adjutant-general, and the company met a few times to prepare themselves for the service ; and never was there a company of boys that seemed more happy to meet than were the members of the Cambridge Reserve Guard. Four or five years after this, so many of the company had expressed a wish that there could be a reunion, I invited the members to an entertainment at my residence. About forty were present ; and after they had participated in the refreshments provided, they greatly surprised their commander by presenting him, in connection with a neat and felicitous address by the president of the civil organi- zation of the company, with an elegant Waltham watch appropriately inscribed. Thus ended all public gatherings of our company. Some of our most intelligent and worthy citizens have said that there has been no organization in our city,, outside of the church, that did more to promote kind and neighborly feelings among its members than the Cambridge Reserve Guard. No persons in the city meet me more cordially than the members of this company. Some of them, even INCIDENTS IN HOME LIFE. 209 after these years, always address me as "captain," with the military salute. Cambridge Horticultural Society. For several years we had a large and efficient horticul- tural society. There were many very excellent pear- orchards, especially in Cambridgeport. A large portion of the prizes given by the Massachusetts Horticultural Society were obtained by the citizens of Cambridge. This society, some portions of the year, held monthly- exhibitions, which were largely attended. The displays, of fruits and flowers and vegetables were extensive and very fine. Many small prizes were given. One year a. citizen offered prizes to the ladies of the city for the best specimens of bread. One hundred and sixty competitors exhibited two hundred loaves. The committee of two gentlemen and three ladies spent five hours in their exam- ination. A loaf, to receive a prize, must be of good color, well shaped, of fine appearance, without external defect, sweet to the smell and taste, well raised, delicate, tender, and handsome. Outwardly and inwardly each loaf must not only satisfy but please sight, touch, smell, and taste, every sense but hearing, and must be of a specified weight. It was to me a matter of no small satisfaction that the second prize for " fine flour wheaten bread " was awarded to Mrs. Bullard. After some years many of the fruit orchards had given place to house-lots, and as most of the members were connected with the Massachusetts Horticultural Society, it was deemed best to disband the Cambridge society ; and this was done, to my no small regret, when I was its last president. On closing up the institution, a large number of the volumes in the library were given to the 2 I O INCIDENTS IN A BUSY LIFE. Massachusetts Horticultural Society, and the rest were purchased by the individual members of the Cambridge society. We also made a donation of about $500 of the balance on hand to the Avon Street Home in our city. Thus closed an organization which had been quite popular in the city and which had been the means of awakening no small interest in beautifying the grounds of many a home. Sociai Relations in Cambridge. My social relations to the people in Cambridge, of all religious denominations, have ever been pleasant. I have preached in all the evangelical pulpits and addressed the Sabbath-schools. Our military organization, spoken of elsewhere, helped not a little in promoting social inter- course. For fifteen or twenty years we have had a book club of twenty-one families, of which, most of the time, I have been the librarian. For some years we had monthly meet- ings at each other's houses, with a simple entertainment. This, of course, brought all the members of these families together in the most pleasant social intercourse. I have often been brought into a more tender connec- tion with not a few families in their bereavements. In the time of the ministerial vacations, I am often called upon in the absence of the pastors to conduct funeral ser- vices. One vacation, in twelve days I was called upon seven times to perform such services. The First Baptist Church, Cambridgeport, lost two houses of worship by fire within a few years of each other. At' the laying of the corner-stone and at the dedi- cation of each, the society very courteously invited me to be present. INCIDENTS IN HOME LIFE. 2 11 Church Relations in Cambridge. When we took up our residence in Cambridge, about forty years ago, Mrs. Bullard and myself moved our church relations to the Shepard Church, then under the pastoral care of the late Rev. J. A. Albro, d.d. For many years Dr. Albro was an active member of the Board of Mana- gers of our Sabbath-School Society, and one of my tried friends and counselors in my work. For several years Mrs. Bullard was an invalid and unable to attend church, and I was seldom at home on the Sab- bath. Our children were then quite young, and were obliged to go to church and Sunday-school alone. It was not long before it was found that the connections of most of our neighbors were with Cambridgeport rather than with Old Cambridge. All the school children were also in that ward ; with them were all the associates of our own children. They soon found this out, and that they were every Sabbath day sent away from all their associ- ates on the week-days and in the public schools. This they soon took very sorely to heart. They said : " The church and the Sabbath-school were especially for them, and not for their parents, who seldom were with them." This plea we could not long resist. Their application to go to the Prospect Street Church and Sabbath-school — then under the pastoral care of the late Rev. William A. Stearns, d.d., soon after president of Amherst College — seemed to us reasonable, and so we removed our church relations to the Prospect Street, or the " First Evangelical Church of Cam- bridgeport," in November, 1857, where we have since had our church home. A few years ago our church voted to have six instead of four deacons, to hold office three years. They could be 2 I 2 INCIDENTS IN A BUSY II FE. reelected once, but must then be out of office one year before they were again eligible. At the first election two were chosen for three years, two for two years, and two for one year. I was first elected to this office for one year, and then reelected for three. As for a few years at that time I was relieved from my labors on the Sabbath for the Sabbath-School Society, I could perform the duties of the diaconate. Although some thought it hardly appropriate for one of the clerical profession to accept the office of a deacon, it seemed to me proper to accept any position in the church where I could be useful ; and while in that office there was the most fraternal sympathy and coopera- tion among these officers of the church. Our prayer- meeting every Saturday evening before the communion was to us all a hallowed season. I have tried to take my place in all our church work, much of the time serving on some of the committees. DIED APRIL 5, ii