Journal OF A Young Lady of Virginia ' 1782. Printed and Published For the Benefit of the Lee Memorial Association of Richmond , By John Murphy and Company, No. 182 Baltimore Street, BALTIMORE. 1 8 7 1. ,075 Entered, according to Act of Congress, in the year 1871, by EMILY V. MASON, in the Office of the Librarian of Congress, at Washington. M£» THE following pages contain a fragment of the Journal of a young lady of Virginia of the last century. It seems to have been written by her while on a visit to her relatives, the Lees, Washingtons, and other families of Lower Virginia, mentioned in her Journal. The friend for whom it was intended was Miss Polly Brent, also of Virginia. The manuscript was found torn, and discolored by age, in an old desk at the country place in Maryland, to which Polly Brent carried it, upon her marriage into one of the old families of that State. The Lees, of whom so much mention is made in the Journal — "Nancy," "Molly," "Hannah," and "Harriet" — were the daughters of Richard Henry Lee, of Chantilly. Molly married W. A. Washington, and Hannah was — at the time of the Journal — the wife of Corbin Washington. Their grandson, John A. Washington, was the last occupant of Mount Vernon. Harriet married the son of Mrs. Turberville, the "old lady" spoken of in the manuscript. Ludwell Lee, a son of Richard Henry Lee, married the "Flora" of this chronicle. She was a daughter of Philip Ludwell Lee, of Stratford, and sister of Matilda Lee, the first VI PREFACE. t wife of " Cplonel Henry Lee ; " whose little boy is mentioned as so "fine" a "child." Colonel Henry Lee was none other than "Light-horse Harry;" the "little boy," his eldest son Henry, half-brother to General Robert E. Lee. It is believed the publication of this Journal will be well re- ceived, at a period when everything relating to the family of General Lee is of peculiar interest. It presents, also, a curious picture of the life and manners of that day. There will be found in it many errors, and some antiquities of orthography, which it has not been deemed advisable to cor- rect. It is believed that the Journal will be more entertaining in its original state than it would be with the aid of any amend- ments that we might make. It is certainly the work of a very clever girl, and possesses all that freedom of style and charming simplicity which is so pleasing and so rare. Had the writer anticipated any criticism more searching than that of her amiable Polly, her style and orthography would doubtless have been more correct, and her Journal quite as commonplace as most of those that find their way into print. The proceeds of the sale of this little volume will be devoted to the "Lee Memorial Association of Richmond," which must further commend it to the favor of the public. January, 1S71. £^-£-x~> l'r~*~*-&s^~y/L^ ^^ 1*s^ts\ . A-^^ h^ " 1 J \ 119 JOURNAL OF A YOUNG LADY OF VIRGINI A. FROM LUCINDA TO MARCIA. The Wilderness, September 16. T HEAR you say, "The Wilder- *- ness ! where in the world is that, Lucy ? " It is the name of this place. I can't say I was much struck with the situation of the House; but they are as kind, good People as I ever saw. To-day is Sunday. Old Mrs. Gor- don lives in sight of this [placej. One of her Daughters is just come — Lucy Gordon 1782. Sept. 16. " Wilder- ness" Residence of John Grymes, Esq., who married Miss Fitz- hugh, of Eagle's Nest. One of this family was Gen. Robert Lee's grand- mother. JOURNAL OF A YOUNG 1782. Sept. 17. Gordon — very clever, though not a Beauty. A Mr. Spotswood and his Lady are come to dine here. I must dress, of course. They are gone. Mrs. Spotswood, I think, is very Af- fable and agreeable, though not hand- some. She has invited us to see her, and we shall go day after to-morrow. I have spent the day pretty agree- ably. Lucy Gordon is to stay with me to-night. I have spent the morning in read- ing; and, much to my satisfaction, old Mrs. Gordon is just come to spend the day here. Lucy Gordon and myself are just returned from walk- ing out. I was delighted : we walked to a river — they call it here ; but it is very narrow. The banks of it are beautiful, covered with moss and wild flowers ; LADY OF VIRGINIA. flowers ; all that a romantic mind could form. I thought of my Pol- ly, and thought how delighted she would have been had she been a Spectater of the scene ; and how much more pleased would your Lucy have been, how more delighted if she could have had her Polly to point out the Beauties too, and make her observations : but her dear Company was denied. Lucy Gordon is a truly good Girl, but nothing of the romance in her. So much the better, say I; she is much happier without. I wish to Heaven I had as little. Colonel Ball dined here to-day : a very clever man. To-day we return Mrs. Spots- wood's visit. I have to crape my hair, which, of all things, is the most disagreeable. Adieu, my Polly, till my return. Well, my dear, I am returned ; and much 1782. Sept. 17. Col. Ball, probably the aide and kinsman of Gen. Washing- ton : his second wife was Frances Washing- ton, niece and legatee of Gen. Washing- ton. Sept. 18. 10 JOURNAL OF A YOUNG 1782. Sept. 18. Sept. 19. much pleased. Mrs. Spotswood is mighty clever in her house. She has a Daughter, about twelve years old (though very large of her age — she is as tall as I am), very agreeable, though not handsome. They are at cards below, and have sent for me to join them, though I had much rather stay and converse with my Polly; yet politeness obliges my obeying the summons. To-day we dine at Old Mrs. Gor- don's : I flatter myself I shall spend this day agreeably. This evening Colonel Ball insisted on our drinking tea with him: we did, and I was much pleased with my visit; his Wife was not at home. I have returned, and am sitting alone, writing to my dearest Polly. I don't think I ever met with kinder, better People in my life; they do everything in LADY OF VIRGINIA. II in their Power to make you happy. I have almost determined not to go to the races this Fall : every one appears to be astonished at [me,] but I am sure there is no sollid happiness to be found in such amusements. I don't think I could answer for myself if you were to go; and then I should only go to be with you. I have no notion of sacri- ficing my own ease and happiness to the Opinion of the world in these mat- ters. They laugh, and tell me, while I am mopeing at home, other girls will be enjoying themselves at races and balls ; but I never will, I am deter- mined, go to one, unless I have an inclination. I would not have you think from this that I pay no regard to the opinion of the World ; far from it : next to that of a good conscience, the opinion of the world is to be regarded. Always pay due regard to that. 2 I have 1782. Sept. 19. 12 JOURNAL OF A YOUNG 1782. Sept. 20. I have spent this morning in read- ing Lady Julia Mandeville, and was much affected. Indeed, I think I never cried more in my life reading a Novel : the stile is beautiful, but the tale is horrid. I reckon you have read it. Some one just comes to tell us A Mr. Masenbird and Mr. Spotswood is come. We must go down, but I am affraid both Sister's and my eyes will betray us. Adieu. I will describe the Gentlemen on my return. Mr. Spotswood is the Gentleman we visited the other day. I think him handsome. Mr. Masenbird is an Englishman, and single, that has set- tled in this part of the World. I had heard he was a very uncouth creature, but he is quite the reverse — very polite, not handsome. Interrupted again. They are come to tell me a Mr. Grimes and his Lady are LADY OF VIRGINIA, 13 are come to wait on us. I must throw aside my pen, and go down to be in- troduced. Adieu. I will write more when we retire to dress. Mrs. Grimes is very handsome, though appears to be a little proud. Sister is almost drest; I shall have but little time to smart . myself. Adieu. My Great-Coat shall be my dress to day. To-day we return Mrs. Grimes's visit. I am going to wear my straw dress and my large hat; Sister wears A blue habit, with a white Sattin scirt. Adieu. I have but little time to dress. I am returned, and was delighted with my visit. They live in a very genteel stile. She is one of the clev- erest Women I have seen for some time. I saw there Miss Betty Lee, and A Miss Judy Roberson ; the first is 1782. Sept. 20. Of the Nicholas family. Sept. 21. 14 JOURNAL OF A YOUNG 1782. Sept. 21. Sept. 22. is homely, though right agreeable — the latter is, I think, rather clever. You can't conceive anything more nice or genteel than everything] was. I never was more pleased in my life. I am summon'd to supper. Adieu, my Polly ; may every blessing attend you ! Lucy Gordon is here, and has been ever since I came. I like her more and more every day. To-day we dine with old Mrs. Gor- don. Lucy and myself are going to walk over now ; Sister and Mrs. Gor- don will not go this hour. Adieu. I will carry my Journal with me. We had a very pleasant walk ; got a number of grapes and nuts in our way. Lucy and myself are going to walk in the Garden, to get some pink- seed I am anxious to have. The Gentlemen dined to-day at Mr. Mas- enbird's. Mrs. Gordon and sister are come : LADY OF VIRGINIA. 15 come : they have proposed cards, and I am called to join them. Adieu. I would have staid to - night with old Mrs. Gordon, but expected to go down to-Morrow. Lucy and myself had a pleasant walk back. The mar- ried folks went on before. We have supped, and the gentlemen are not returned yet. Lucy and myself are in a peck of troubles for fear they should return drunk. Sister has had our bed moved in her room. Just as we were undress' d and going to bed, the Gentlemen arrived, and we had to scamper. Both tipsy! To-day is Sunday. Brother was so worsted by the frolick yesterday, we did not set off to-day. Old Mrs. Gordon dines here to-day. Lucy and myself are going to walk to the river, and get a nosegay of wild flowers. We 1782. Sept. 22. Sept. 2j i6 JOURNAL OF A YOUNG 1782. Sept. 23. Sept. 24. Bettcview. Residence of Thomas Ludwell Lee. We are returned, and was much delighted with our walk. We went to Colonel Ball's, and sat some time in the Porch ; they are from home. Dinner is almost ready, and I have to dress. The children have surrounded me the whole evening, as it is to be the last we stay. We are just going to take our leave of these worthy People: I should like to stay some time longer, if it was convenient. Adieu : the Chariot is ready. Well, my dearest Lavinia, I am arrived at Belleview, a good deal fatigued, where we found Mr. Bush- rod Washington and his lady, on their way down. She is fonder of me than ever; prest me to go with her to Maryland this Winter. Mr. Phil Fitzhugh is likewise here. He said, at supper, he was engaged to dance with LADY OF VIRGINIA. 17 with one of the Miss Brents at a Ball in Dumfries, but that it was only con- ditionally. Mammy has just sent me word she has a letter for me — it is from Nancy, I am sure. Adieu. It was, and one for you enclosed in it. Nancy writes me her Sister Pink- ard is at Chantilly. It must be a great acquisition to her happiness to have so amiable a companion as I have heard she was. The Company is all gone, and I have seated myself to converse with my Polly. Mrs. A. Washington has lent me a new Novel, called Victoria. I can't say I admire the Tale, though I think it prettyly told. There is a verse in it I wish you much to read. I believe, if I a'n 't too Lazy, I will copy it off for you : the verse is not very butifull, but the sense is, I assure you. To-day I have spent in putting my cloaths 1782. Sept. 24. Chantilly. Residence of Richard II. Lee. Sept. 25. Sept. 26. JOURNAL OF A YOUNG 1782. Sept. 26. Sept. 27. Mr. Charles Lee — after- ward At- torney-Gen- eral in Gen. Washing- ton's sec- ond Cabi- net — mar- ried the " Nancy " of the narrative. Sept. 28. cloaths to rights — a dreadful task, you will say. I am going to take a little airing this evening. Adieu: the horses are at the door. I was sitting busy at work, when some one told me Mr. Charles Lee was here. He was from Chantilly ; and I flew out in expectation of a letter. What do you think I felt, when, instead of a letter, he told me my Nancy was very ill ? My Polly, I am sure, will sympathize with me. What would I not give to see her! but that is denied me. I hope to God she is better ! Mr. Lee says they did not apprehend any great danger. This morning Mr. Lee left us. Every time I see him I like him more and more. He has proved himself a truly good Brother. I am very un- easy with regard to Nancy — I wish to Heaven I could hear from her. Mrs LADY OF VIRGINIA. 19 Mrs. Graem, Letty Ball, and Harry G called here to - day. Mrs. Graem, poor creature, appears much distressed at the death. of her Children. When we come to consider, I think it much better for them : but how sel- dom can a Mother reason in this manner ! Cousin Nancy is better, she told me : pray Heaven it may be so. When Mrs. Graem came to-day, some one came running in and said the Richland chariot was coming. You may be assured I flew to the door. Oh, how disappointed I was ! To-day is Sunday, and I am going to church. Brother Aylett is going in the Chariot with me. I am this moment going to crape and dress. I shall wear my Great-Coat and dress Hat. Adieu, till my return. I am returned. Mrs. Brook, Mrs. Selden, and Nancy were all at church 3 in 1782. Sept. 29. Richland. Residence of Daniel Brent, Esq. Sept. 30. 20 JOURNAL OF A YOUNG 1782. Sept. 30. Selvington. Residence of Thomas Selden. Chatham. Residence of William Fitzhugh, grandfather of Mrs. Robert E. Lee. He afterward removed to Havens- worth, in Fairfax Co., when Chatham was occu- pied by his brother, Mr. Philip Fitzhu