LA 1 , ^J L JUiJL^ , M* — MEMO MOIRS OF MISS HENRIETTA B.MILLER LATE TEACHER OF FAIRVIEW SCHOOL, WHO DIED AT WAYNESBORO, PENNA. DECEMBER 23, 1874. The Amiable Friend. The Advocate of Education. The Model Teacher. The Real Christian. WAYNESBORO, PA. PUBLISHED BY THE AUTHOR. 1877. ^ To be had by addressing the Rev. Henry Miller, Waynesboro, Pa. I O °[? FROM THE PRESS OF THE INQUIRER F. & P. COMPANY, LANCASTER, PA. TO THE MEMBERS OF THE JfqanMin (ftotmtij tpeacheqs' Institute ; AS A GRATEFUL ACKNOWLEDGMENT OF THE ENCOMIUM ON HER LIFE, PASSED BY THE INSTITUTE ONE YEAR AFTER HER DEATH. PEEFAOE. To record the achievements of illustrious statesmen or valiant heroes would be patri- otic and win applause; but to record the early culture of a bright-eyed little girl, and show how she was nurtured in childhood, and how her mind was gradually expanded and matured, as well as the growth of the body, until she became an object of admira- tion and qualified for extensive usefulness, may serve as examples to those who have the in- struction of youth, and prove a greater bless- ing to society than a recital of the heroic deeds of warriors and statesmen. The Bible says, " The righteous shall be held in everlasting remembrance," and it is incumbent to preserve the incidents of a use- VI PREFACE. ful life and of a happy death, for the benefit of those who may come after us. Such considerations influenced the writer of the following pages, which are dedicated to the members of the Franklin County Teach- ers' Institute, with whom the subject of the memoirs associated several years with much cordiality, and for whose interest she mani- fested a special regard, and whose annual meeting she attended within three weeks of her death. CONTENTS. CHAPTER I. PAGE. Parentage and place of Nativity — Early Life at Troy — Death of Two Sisters — Removal to Tur- butville... 9 CHAPTER II. Early Fondness for Reading — Home Training — Importance of Parental Instruction and Exam- ple — A Mother's Influence 16 CHAPTER III. Removal to Chulasky — Benevolent Enterprise of Samuel R. Wood, etc 28 CHAPTER IV. Rapid Intellectual Development — Proficiency in Music — Interest in Sabbath-school and Religious Literature — Systematic Bible Reading 47 CHAPTER V. Removal to Phoenixville — Joins German Reform- ed Church — Enters Linden Cottage Seminary — Removal to Adamstown — Becomes a Teacher — Removal to Waynesboro, etc 56 (7) 6 CONTENTS. CHAPTER VI. PAGE. Failing Health — Christmas Festival — Last Illness — Not Afraid to Die — Dying to Live Again — Funeral Serv ices , , 67 CHAPTER VII. Tributes to Her Memory — Resolution of Teachers' Institute — Letters of Condolence — Death of Two of her Friends — Dying Words of Pious Women — Love for the Dead — Early Intellectual De- velopment the Result of Parental Care 81 CHAPTER VIII. Training of Children — Study of Languages — Val- ue of Elementary Instruction — Growth of the Scholastic Profession — Rewards of the Faithful Teacher 98 MISCELLANEOUS ADDENDA. Paternal Care — Studies Suitable for Young Ladies — Works to be Read — Miss Miller's Favorite Hymns and Poems Alice Cary's Dying Hymn 109-169 MEMOIR OF MISS HENRIETTA B. MILLER. CHAPTER I. Parentage and Place of Nativity — Early life at Troy — Death of Two Sisters — Removal to Turbutville. MISS HENRIETTA BREWSTER MIL- LER was the third daughter of the Rev. Henry and Sarah T. Miller. The first two daughters, Victoria and Vandalia, were born at Tarlton, Pickaway county, Ohio ; the former in 1838, the latter in 1841, while their father was minister of the German Reformed Church of that place. Owing to providential occur- rences in the family, Mr. M. was induced to relinquish his charge in 1841, and to return to the place of the nativity of Mrs. M., at 2 (9) IO MEMOIRS OF Troy, Bradford county, Pa., that she might have the care of two sisters whose health had failed beyond the prospect of recovery ; and where, in a pleasant rural abode, Mr. M. would find a home congenial to literary pursuits ; and especially favorable, on account of its healthfulness and beautiful surroundings, whereat to rear those first-born lovely little girls — the joy of fond parents, the embodiment of health, beauty and loveliness. The long journey of five hundred miles was performed in a one-horse carriage. The high hills had not then been brought low, nor little valleys exalted by the construction of railroads, or cars conveyed by the iron-horse at rapid speed, as now. Hence three weeks were con- sumed by steady, patient toil over mountain, hill and dale, which, by a propitious provi- dence, was successfully accomplished, all in good health, without any accident to mar the enjoyment of the journey. Having thus re- HENRIETTA B. MILLER. II turned to the home of Mrs. M. 's youth, to the joy of her aged mother and her sisters, there was much to flatter the anticipation of a pleas- ant abode. As month glided after month, enhancing attachment to the place, and bright- ening prospects for the future, nothing added to the delights of home so much as those pledges of heaven — those two little cherubs, that by their peculiar sprightliness attracted the admiration of all who saw them. But, alas, how uncertain are the events of life! How often the fond hopes of parents are cross'd ! How oft the bud is nipt by the frost, When those which are cherished, and dearly beloved, Are transplanted to bloom in the garden above ! The scarlet fever became epidemic. Each of these little girls encountered a virulent at- tack that baffled the skill of two eminent phy- sicians, with the best of nursing. They both fell victims; and on the day that completed 12 MEMOIRS OF the year of starting on the journey from Tarl- ton, Vandalia was borne to the silent grave ! Victoria survived eleven days, when her mortal remains were deposited there likewise, on June 16, 1842. They were strongly attached to each other while living, and were not long separated by death. A marble tablet, with appropriate inscrip- tion, marks the place of their repose in the cemetery one mile east of Troy — Yet, again we hope to meet them, When the days of life are fled ; There, in heaven, with joy to greet them, Where no farewell tear is shed. Thus, a house was left desolate, and other bereavements, in quick succession, followed, until, in the course of six years, Mrs. M.'s mother, two sisters, a brother, and other rela- tives, with intimate friends of the vicinity, were called to their eternal home ! HENRIETTA B. MILLER. 1 3 But amidst these chequered scenes of joy and grief, there was one more added to the family. Henrietta, the subject of this narrative, was born January 25, 1847, an d became the object of strong attachment and regard, and seemed to be a pledge of happy days to come. Perhaps there is no situation more unstable than that of a minister of the gospel; being frequently induced to change localities for professional considerations, or subject to the fluctuations of the times, impelled by prospects of greater good. Hence, while pursuing this narrative, we will follow the family through several removals. From Troy to Turbutville, in 1848 ; thence to Chulasky, in 1850; back to Turbutville, in 1852; thence to Shirleysburg, in 1858; thence to Phcenixville, in 1861; thence to Adams- town, in 1867; and finally to Waynesboro, in 1872. Mr. M. was offered some property as 14 MEMOIRS OF a residence in Turbutville, and induced to move there with the view of establishing a select school. The inducements were not very flattering, but the wants were evident. The village then consisted of twenty-nine tenements, nearly all frame buildings, that had been erected in the early part of the pre- sent century; with an old log church that would seat about 300 persons, owned con- jointly by the German Reformed and Luther- ans, and occupied by each on successive Sab- baths with a German sermon ; each of which had about 200 communicant members, kept up according to the common custom of the Germans, of catechising the youth annually, and confirming as many of the catechumens as were deemed worthy. There was at the time no other house of worship in all that township, though remarka- bly wealthy; and a part of which not inappro- priately called Paradise, -with Adam and Eve HENRIETTA B. MILLER. 15 living in it. A venerable pair, Adam Schuy- ler and his wife Eve. It was rarely the case that there was an English sermon preached there, and no meetings at night. An attempt had been made to have a singing school at night ; but it was so much annoyed by the rowdies that they were obliged to meet in the office of the 'Squire of the town. Where there was so little light of the gospel, it would hardly be expected to find much lib- erality in patronizing a select school; and yet even there, there were individuals who ex- pressed a special desire for such. Mr. M., accordingly, fitted up a building adjoining his residence for the purpose, and made the ex- periment, which was well received and tolerably well patronized. The place has much im- proved since then, containing three times as many inhabitants now, with four spacious brick churches, and the preaching all in Eng- lish — except, occasionally, in German. CHAPTER II. Eat^y Fondness for Reading — Home Training — Im- portance of Parental Instruction and Example — A Mother's Influence. HERE Henrietta became familiar with the exercises of the school-room. Be- ing adjacent to the dwelling, and under the fostering care of parents who cherished so- licitude for her welfare, she imbibed a fond- ness for books that aided her in the acquisition of knowledge. She learned to read when not more than four years old, and at five years she astonished superior judges by the accuracy of her reading. Some may startle at the thought of having a child learn to read so young, and conjecture that the discipline must have been rigid, or that she must have been possessed of extraor- dinary talents. With regard to the first, it is ( 16 ) HENRIETTA B. MILLER. 1 7 asserted there was nothing rigid, and no harsh- ness employed . The ways of wisdom are ways of pleasantness, and all her paths are paths of peace. It is a mistake to suppose that harshness or severity is necessary or admissible, either in the nursery or in the school-room. Those parents or teachers who practice either will never thus make good scholars nor philanthro- pists. On the other hand, impartial observa- tion will show that it is gentleness and kind- ness, with judicious system and uniformity, that is needed in the cultivation and training of the youthful mind. It is not claimed that she was possessed of any extraordinary talents — although her in- tellectual faculties ranked very high. But it was owing to the wise, seasonable and kind parental attention that every parent might practice with equal happy results, that devel- oped her faculties, qualified her for usefulness, 1 8 MEMOIRS OF and secured for her so much honor and ad- miration. It is said that Martin Luther's mother taught him the ten commandments and the Lord's prayer from the tiles on the fire-place, and so did the mother of Dr. Dod- ridge, while they were quite small; and yet that early culture did not make dull boys or them; but rather, by giving an early start to the growth of their minds before their intel- lects were stultified by indolence and gross habits, the intellectual gained an ascendency over the bodily faculties, and they became re- nowned for the vigor of their minds and for their superior intelligence and piety. Experience and observation has shown that it is easier to train up a child right, than to train it up wrong; or, according to Solo- mon's injunction, "Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it." Those who train up children according to HENRIETTA B. MILLER. 1 9 Christian culture and the improved methods of modern plans of governing schools, receive the divine assistance and the cordial sanction of the pupils. The child will appreciate kind instruction, and will become enraptured with intellectual rather than with bodily exercises, and thus make ample returns for all attention given to it, and God will bless the effort. Never was there a cross word or angry look given to Henrietta. Hence as Paul said to Timothy, ' ' From a child thou hast known the Holy Scriptures ;" so, from the early instruc- tion kindly communicated at the family altar, she soon showed much of the character of the real Christian, being amiable in deportment, and upright and noble in all her aspirations. Never, from childhood, was she averse to obey her parents, but always manifested a cordial compliance with their instruction. And thus a mutual delight was experienced both by the parent or teacher and the pupil. The teacher 20 MEMOIRS OF delighted to teach the pupil, and that pupil delighted to be taught. As in the case of Milton, who said, "When I was yet a child few childish plays to me were pleasing ; but I ever was intent to learn and know, and do some useful thing ;" so with Henrietta, she was not so much fascinated with levity as with rational conviviality or with true rational cheerfulness; and accom- plished more during her short life than others have in many years. Turning from boister- ous mirth, she gave a preference to the sedative and intellectual, instead of the romp or lounge. She passed her time in acquiring knowledge, or industriously performing some useful part, and seldom passed an hour that was not usefully and honorably employed. Hence she usually attracted the attention and won the esteem of the better classes, especially of those who were her seniors in years. Here we pause in our narrative, to state HENRIETTA B. MILLER. 21 that the education of children depends mainly on the mother. Hence the Rev. James Pat- terson, Capt. John Newton, Henry Martin, Col. Gardiner, and many other distinguished men, acknowledged that they owed their con- version and all their eminence to the early in- struction of their mothers. If mothers were judicious and faithful in their attentions to their children, they might early give such direction to their habits as greatly to alleviate their anxieties, and find them a source of real gladness from childhood, rather than worri- ment, grief and shame through life. The mother who neglects her child until it is im- pelled by weariness and the suffering impulses of nature, will thus make it fretful and turbu- lent. It will become disobedient and resent- ful, and thus occasion much discomfort during its childhood, and shame and sorrow in its mature years. If the proper moral and mental culture of children is neglected by parents, 2 2 MEMOIRS OF the devil and wicked men will very likely ef- fect their ruin. By the neglect of parents, the dispositions of children become perverted and the faculties of their minds greatly im- paired. Thus we learn the importance of mothers especially giving kind maternal and cheerful at- tention to their children from early childhood : Professor Wickersham has said the best part of education is given before the child is five years old. By this we don't mean silly dalliance, or stuffing them with sweetmeats. We think children, as well as adults, should be treated rationally, as rational beings; and to treat them (as some do) in a silly, babyish manner, will make simpletons, and not wise and good persons of them. To feed them too much confectionery, is like allowing men to use too much whiskey, while experience has shown that it is better to take none at all, except as medicine, when really needed. But the HENRIETTA B. MILLER. 23 mother who anticipates the wants and reliefs of her infant, who promptly approaches it with cheerful looks and kind words, will soon find how cordially it responds in like manner. It will thus learn to wait patiently, and as reason becomes developed, how cheerfully it will obey through love ! On the other hand, to worry a child by long neglect, and then to terrify it with angry looks, or threats, or blows, the intellect will be stunted, and it will grow up to be a scourge rather than a comfort to those who bore it. Every mother should sing lullabys, with hymns of devotion and familiar instruction, to her children. "Music hath charms to soothe the troubled breast;" and it is remarkable how soon and how accurately children learn to sing — and what a tranquilizing influence on their lives ! There should likewise be an organ, melo- deon, or some other musical instrument, in 24 MEMOIRS OF every house. As a general rule, a musical family is a happy family. No discord nor envy found Where music sends its cheerful sound. Every mother should teach each of her chil- dren to read before it is five years old. It is a shame to think how this is neglected. Some say it is too much trouble; but they take trouble to adorn their bodies by dressing them handsomely, and is not the soul of more worth than the body, and shall there be less attention given to the immortal spirit than to the perish- ing body? Some mothers say they have no time to teach their children to read and sing, or to teach them the catechism, and yet find time to gossip and to lounge. To such we would frankly say, if they neglect and suffer their children to grow up in ignorance and sin they may have to take time to mourn over their vices before they grow old. While we thus particularly set forth the duty HENRIETTA B. MILLER. 25 of the mother to give proper attention to her children, we do not wish to be understood to exempt the father from responsibility. We know there are peculiar and special duties of each, and mutual duties in which each should participate. The father as well as the mother is in duty bound to give much personal atten- tion to the culture and training of their chil- dren. He should co-operate with the mother in giving instruction, and in practicing and advancing them in what the mother has taught them. And it is especially the duty of every man who assumes to be the head of a family, to procure a comfortable habitation for that family. Some men think too lightly of this, and by unfaithfulness and neglect attempt to rear their families in small uncomfortable and unwholesome abodes, where worriment for the wife, and suffering for the children, continu- ally abound. The limits of this volume pre- vent dilating on this particular, but a word 26 MEMOIRS OF to the wise is sufficient. Where parents cor- dially unite in training their children in com- fortable homes, we expect children reared who will prove a comfort and honor to their parents and ornaments of society. But where these prerequisites are not found, and children neg- lected, and in the absence of enjoyment at home left to roam the streets, imbibing vicious principles and contracting evil habits, we ex- pect as a natural consequence they will grow up to be a pest to society and a scourge to their parents. Hence blessed, thrice blessed, are those parents who have trained up their children aright. We ask the indulgence of the reader for this digression, given for the purpose of shows ing the opposite effects of the faithful or negligent parent on the subsequent life of the children and on society. We trace the excellence of the life of Mis- Miller to the enjoyments ot her home under HENRIETTA B. MILLER. 27 the special attention of kind parents, who have never regretted the time, expense and care given to her early culture. CHAPTER III. Removal to Chulasky — Benevolent Enterprise of Sam- uel R. Wood — Every Child of seven years learns to read in Six Months after opening the School — Re- turn to Turbutville — Development of the Public School System — Educational Association of North- ern Pennsylvania. WHEN she was about four years old, her father engaged as teacher and minister at Chulasky Furnace, within three miles of Danville, Pa., established by Samuel R. Wood, who had been included in a constellation of eminent philanthropists of Philadelphia, among whom was Roberts Vaux, Matthew Carey, Al- exander Henry, Revs. Drs. Skinner, Brantly, Ely, Abercrombie, the venerable Bishop White, and others, who distinguished that city by their eminent charitable and beneficent enterprises. Mr. Wood erected a first-class anthracite furnace near Danville, at which he (28) HENRIETTA B. MILLER. 29 employed hands, numbering with their fami- lies, one hundred and fifty souls. The object of this enterprise was not merely to make money and show skill in conducting a large business ; but to rear the offspring of his work- hands to virtue, usefulness and happiness; lamenting the fact that the children at such establishments had hitherto been neglected and suffered to grow up in ignorance and vice. Hence, he did not only have furnaces, shops, ware rooms, store-houses and dwellings erected, but likewise, as most important of all, a church and school-house, supplied with a teacher during the week and preaching on the Sab- bath, without expense to the workmen, and proving to be a strong inducement for virtuous hands to seek employment there. The church was open twice every Sabbath, and the school open all the year, with the exception of two short vacations. Likewise a Sabbath-school with Library, for which Mr. Wood contributed 3