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Copyright, 1921
THE UNIVERSITY SOCIETY INC.
JUN -7 iy2i
5CU617263
THE EDITORIAL BOARD
OF
THE HOME KINDERGARTEN MANUAL
General Editor: William Byron Forbusii, Ph.D., Litt.D.
Author of "The Manual of Play" and "The Boy Problem in the Home"
Associate Editor:
MRS. MINNETTA SAMMIS LEONARD,
Formerly Director of the Model Kindergarten, State
Normal School, Milwaukee ; Mother
Music Editor:
WiNTON James Baltzell, A.B., Mus.Bac.
Secretary of the National Academy of Music,
Associate Editor:
MRS. BERTHA PAYNE NEWELL,
Recently Head of the Department of Kindergarten
Education, University of Chicago ; Mother
Assistant Office Editor:
Mary V. Worstell
Author, Editor, and Lecturer
New York
Office Editor: Jennie Ellis Burdick
Editor of "The Children's Own Library"
CONTRIBUTING EDITORS
MRS. ELIZABETH HUBBARD BONSALL,
Formerly of Wellesley College; Mother
GRACE L. BROWN,
Teacher of Kindergarten Education, Teachers Col-
lege, Columbia University
JOSEPHINE BROWNSON,
Of the University of Detroit; Author of "To the
Heart of a Child"
MRS. EUNICE BARSTOW BUCK,
Mother
MRS. RHEA SMITH COLEMAN,
Formerly of Western Reserve University ; Mother
EDNA E. HARRIS,
Primary Teacher in Public School Number 60,
Brooklyn
MRS. ELSIE L.<\VERNE HILL,
Formerly of Oberlin College ; Mother
JESSIE SCOTT HIMES,
Teacher of Nature Study, Oneonta State Normal
School
MRS. MADELINE DARRAGH HORN,
Of the State University of Iowa: Mother
WILLIAM A. McKEEVER, LL.D.,
Head of Department of Child Welfare, University
of Kansas
M. V. O'SHEA,
Professor of Education, University of Wisconsin
LUELLA A. PALMER,
Assistant Supervisor of Kindergartens,
New York City
MARY E. PENNELL,
Director of the City Normal School, Richmond, Va.
MARY E. RANKIN,
Superintendent of the Kindergarten, Union School of
Religion, New York City
MRS. ALICE CORBIN SIES,
Recently Associate Professor of Childhood Educa-
tion, University of Pittsburgh ; Mother
MRS. ROSE BARLOW WEINMAN,
Mother
PARTIAL LIST OF AUTHORS REPRESENTED IN THE HOME
KINDERGARTEN MANUAL BY SELECTIONS FROM
THEIR WRITINGS
JULIA \V. ABBOTT,
Kindergarten Specialist, United States Bureau of
Education
MARY ADAIR,
Teacher in the Philadelphia Normal School
FATHER ALEXANDER, O.F.M..
Author of "The Catholic Home"
CAROLYN SHERWTN BAILEY,
Author of "Montessori Children" and "For the
Children's Hour"
HENRY TURNER BAILEY,
Director of the Cleveland School of Art and John
Huntington Polytechnic Institute, Cleveland
WADE CRAWFORD BARCLAY, D.D.,
Editorial Secretary of the Methodist Episcopal Church
A. B. BARNARD,
Author of "The Home Training of Children"
FREDERICA BEARD,
Author of "The Beginners' Worker and Work"
KATHERINE BEEBE,
Author of "The Home Kindergarten"
MRS. THEODORE W. BIRNEY,
Founder of the National Congress of Mothers
SUSAN E. BLOW,
Author of "Letters to a Mother on the Philosophy
of Froebel"
PRUDENCE BRADISH,
Author of "Mother-Love in Action"
MAUD BURNHAM,
Author of "Rhymes for Little Hands"
MRS. CAROLINE BENEDICT BURRELL,
Editor of "The Mother's Book"
CALVIN B. CADY,
Director of the Music Education Association
MRS. HELEN Y. CAMPBELL,
Author of "Practical Motherhood"
SUSAN CHENERY,
Author of "As the Twig is Bent"
KATE S. CHITTENDEN,
President of the Metropolitan College of Music,
New York City
PERCIVAL CHUBB,
Leader of the Ethical Society, St. Louis ; author of
"Teaching of English in Elementary and
Secondary Schools"
HON. PHILANDER P. CLAXTON, Litt.D.,
LL.D.,
United States Commissioner of Education
HENRY F. COPE, D.D.
Secretary of the Religious Education Association ;
Author of "Religious Education in the Family"
LUCILE C. DEMING,
Bureau of Educational Experiments, New York City
JOHN DEWEY, Ph.D., LL.D.,
Professor of Philosophy, Columbia University
ELLA VICTORIA DOBBS,
Professor in the University of Wisconsin
MRS. DOROTHY CANFIELD FISHER,
Author of "The Montessori Mother"
ARNOLD L. and BEATRICE C. GESELL,
Author of "The Normal Child and Primary
Education"
MABEL R. GOODLANDER,
Teacher in tlie Ethical Culture School, New York
City
KENNETH GRAHAME,
Author of "Dream Days" and "The Golden Age"
RABBI LOUIS GROSSMAN, D.D.,
Professor of Ethics, Theology and Pedagogics,
Hebrew Union College, Cincinnati
MRS. SIDONIE MATZNER GRUENBERG,
Author of "Sons and Daughters"
LEONARD GEORGE GUTHRIE, M.D., F.R.C.P.,
Author of "Functional Nervous Diseases in
Childhood"
G. STANLEY HALL, Ph.D., LL.D.,
President of Clark University
ELIZABETH HARRISON,
President of the National Kindergarten College,
Chicago
MRS. HARRIET HICKOX HELLER,
President of the Portland (Ore.) Kindergarten
Council
PATTY SMITH HILL,
Head of the Department of Kindergarten Education.
Teachers College, Columbia University
MRS. BERTHA HOFNER-HEGNER,
Head of the Pestalozzi-Froebel Training School,
Chicago
CAROLINE LOUISA HUNT,
Author of "Home Problems from a New Standpoint"
PARTIAL LIST OF AUTHORS REPRESENTED— Continued
CLARA WHITEHILL HUNT,
Author of "What Shall We Read to the Children?"
JEAN LEE HUNT,
Secretary, Department of Information, Bureau of
Educational Experiments, New York City
BERTHA JOHNSTON,
Editor of tlie Kindergarten-Primary Magazine
WILLIAM HEARD KILPATRICK, Ph.D.,
Author of "Froebel's Kindergarten Principles
Critically Examined"
ALICE M. KRACKOWIZER,
Author of "Projects in the Primary Grades"
JOSEPH LEE,
Author of "Play in Education"
MRS. DELLA THOMPSON LUTES,
Editor of "To-day's Housewife"
WILLIAM McANDREW, Ph.D.,
Assistant Superintendent of Schools, New York City
FRANK MORTON McMURRY, Ph.D.,
Professor of Elementary Education, Teachers
College, Columbia University
DAVID R. MAJOR, Ph.D.,
Author of "First Steps in Atental Growth"
JENNY B. MERRILL, Pd.D.,
Formerly Supervisor of Kindergartens,
New York City
MRS. ALICE MEYNELL,
Author of "The Children"
COLUMBUS NORMAN MILLARD,
Author of "A Parent's Job"
IRVING ELGAR MILLER,
Head of the Department of Education and Psychol-
ogy, State Normal School, Bellingham, Wash.
GRACE E. MIX,
Head of Kindergarten Department, State Norma!
School, Farmville, Va.
MARIA MONTESSORI, M.D.,
Prominent Educator and Founder of the Montessori
Houses of Childliood
ANNIE E. MOORE,
Primary Teacher, Teachers College, Columbia
University
ERNEST CARROLL MOORE, Ph.D.,
Author of "W'hat is Education?"
MARGARET W. MORLEY,
Author of "The Renewal of Life"
CARRIE S. NEWMAN,
Author of "The Kindergarten in the Home"
MRS. ANNA G. NOYES,
Author of "How I Kept My Baby Well"
EMILIE POULSSON,
Author of "Love and Law in Child Training"
CAROLINE PRATT,
Director of the City and Country School,
New York City
MARY L. READ,
Author of "The Mothercraft Manual"
WALTER SARGENT,
Professor of Art Education in the University of
Chicago
CHARLES B. SCOTT,
Author of "Nature Study and the Child"
ELEANOR SMITH,
Author of "Songs for Little Children"
NORA ARCHIBALD SMITH,
Author of "The Home-Made Kindergarten"
FRANK N. SPINDLER, Ph.D.,
Author of "The Sense of Sight"
JAMES SULLY, LL.D.,
Author of "Studies of Childhood"
ALICE TEMPLE,
Director Kindergarten- Primary Department,
University of Chicago
EDWARD LEE THORNDIKE, Ph.D..
Professor of Educational Psychology, Teachers
College, Columbia University
NINA CATHARINE VANDEWALKER
Author of "The Kindergarten in American
Education"
HATTIE A. WALKER,
Teacher in the Francis W. Parker School, Chicago
ADDIE GRACE WARDLE, Ph.D.,
Author of "Handwork in Religious Education"
ZELIA M. WATERS,
Author of "First Lessons in Child Training"
H. G. WELLS,
Novelist; Author of "Joan and Peter," "God the
Invisible King," etc.
MRS. MAX WEST,
Author of "Pre-natal Care"
LUCY WHEELOCK,
Head of the Wheelock Kindergarten Training School,
Boston
KATE DOUGLAS WIGGIN,
Co-Author of "Kindergarten Principles and Practice,"
"Froebel's Gifts," "Froebel's Occupations," etc.
WOODROW WILSON,
Twenty-eighth President of the United States
MRS. FLORENCE HULL WINTERBURN,
Author of "The Mother in Education"
MRS. MARY WOOD-ALLEN, M.D.,
Author of "Making the Best of Our Children"
REAL MOTHERS WHOSE EXPERIENCE WE ARE USING
TO THE FIRST BIRTHDAY
MRS. MADELINE DARRAGH HORN MRS. HELEN Y. CAMPBELL
MRS. ANNA G. NOYES
FRO.M THE FIRST TO THE SECOND BIRTHDAY
MRS. MADELINE DARRAGH HORN MRS. ANNA G. NOYES
MRS. RHEA SMITH COLEMAN MRS. HARRIET HICKOX HELLER
MRS. MINNETTA SAMMIS LEONARD MRS. HARRIET AYERS SEYMOUR
MRS. EUNICE BARSTOW BUCK MRS. MAX WEST
FROM THE SECOND TO THE THIRD BIRTHDAY
MRS. ALICE CORBIN SIES MRS. JEAN N. BARRETT
MRS. ELSIE LaVERNE HILL MRS. RHEA SMITH COLEMAN
MRS. PRESTON F. GASS MRS. CAROLINE BENEDICT BURRELL
FROM THE THIRD TO THE SIXTH BIRTHDAY
MRS. BERTHA PAYNE NEWELL MRS. MINNETTA SAMMIS LEONARD
MRS. BERTHA BELLOWS STREETER MRS. ROSE BARLOW WEINMAN
MRS. ELIZABETH HUBBARD BONSALL MRS. HARRIET HICKOX HELLER
MRS. EUNICE BARSTOW BUCK MRS. LOUISE H. PECK
MRS. MARGARET W. MORLEY MRS. DORA LADD KEYES
MRS. BERTHA LEWIS
FROM THE SIXTH TO THE EIGHTH BIRTHDAY
MRS. SIDONIE MATZNER GRUENBERG MRS. BERTHA P.\YNE NEWELL
MRS. DOROTHY CANFIELD FISHER MRS. FLORENCE HULL WINTERBURN
vi
CONTENTS
TO THE FIRST BIRTHDAY
PRELIMINARY PAPERS
PACK
Educating the Baby Before It is Born The Editors ^
How I Learned to Take Care of My Baby .... Mrs. Madeline Darragh Horn . . c
THE COURSE OF TRAINING
Looking Forward Through the Year William Byron Forbush .
My First Year with John Mrs. Madeline Darragh Horn
13
17
Charts 25, 26, 27
29
37
WHAT TO EXPECT THE FIRST YEAR
The First Year in a Baby's Life William Byron Forbush . . .
The First Three Months Mrs. Alice Corbin Sies . . .
My Baby Month by Month Mrs. Anna G. Noyes 3's
Landmarks in a Baby's Progress Mrs. Helen Y. Campbell .... 39
WHAT TO DO THE FIRST YEAR
Some Beginnings The Editors 41
Play and Games for the First Year Luella A. Palmer 45
Finger-Plays and Other Action-Plays The Editors 46
SUMMARY AND FORECAST
Getting Acquainted with Tom and Sarah .... Williain Byron Forbush .... 49
INDEX TO SUBJECTS Facing 54
INDEX TO OCCUPATIONS Facing 54
FROM THE FIRST TO THE SECOND BIRTHDAY
THE COURSE OF TRAINING
Looking Forward Through the Year William Byron Forbush .... c.y
John's Development and Training the Second Year . Mrs. Madeline Darragh Horn . . 59
Charts 70, 72, 73
WHAT TO EXPECT THE SECOND YEAR
My Little Boy Month By Month Mrs. Anna G. Noyes ...... 75
How the Senses Develop The Editors ^ . 75
vij
CONTENTS
WHAT TO DO THE SECOND YEAR
Playthings for the Second Year
Playthings, Homemade
Some Nursery Arts and Crafts
Sense-Play with Margaret
Plays, and Games for the Second Year .
A Child's First Interest in Pictures ....
Music for the Babies
Traditional Finger-Plays and Imitative Plays .
Preparations for Handwork
Differences Between Infant and Adult Memory
Habit-Training of Little Children ....
"Baby-Talk" and Speech Defects ....
The Gift of Tongues
The Use 'of Mother Goose
Reasoning in Early Childhood
How a Spoiled Child Begins
Teaching Self-Control
Mary L. Read
Mrs. Dorothy Canficld Fisher
Mrs. Harriet Hickox Heller
Mrs. Rhea Smith Coleman .
Liiella A. Palmer ....
The Editors
I^Irs. Harriet Ayer Sevmour
77
78
79
81
84
85
87
I[Irs. Minnctta Sammis Leonard. . 89
David R. Major, Ph.D 91
Mi's. Eunice Barstoiv Buck ... 93
M. V. O'Shea 98
Mary Adair 100
The Editors 102
John Dewey, LL.D 105
Katherine Beehe 106
Mrs. Mar.y Wood-Allen, M.D. . . 107
SUMMARY AND FORECAST
The Second Year with Tom and Sarah
INDEX TO SUBJECTS
•INDEX TO OCCUPATIONS
William Byron Forbnsh .... 109
Facing 114
Facing 114
FROM THE SECOND TO THE THIRD BIRTHDAY
THE COURSE OF TRAINING
Looking Forward Through the Year
A Child's Development and Training the Third Year .
Charts
What an Average Child May Be Able to Do By the
End of This Year
William Byron Forhush
Mrs. Alice Corbin Sics
138, 139.
WHAT TO DO THE THIRD YEAR
Plays and Games for the Third Year
The Baby Yard
Self-Expression During the Third Year .
Big Tools for Small Hands ....
Playthings Which the Father Can Make
Memory-Work with Margaret
'Pictures, a Fairyland
Stories to Tell This Year
Music During the Third Year
Companionship : How to Furnish It .
Getting Obedience Through Understanding
Jessie's Beginnings in Helpfulness
Orderliness and Tidiness
Three-Year-Old Virtues
Luclla A. Palmer ....
Mrs. Dorothy Canficld Fisher
Mary L. Read
M. V. O'Shea
William A. McKcevcr, LL.D.
Mrs. Rhea Smith Coleman .
Mrs. Rhea Smith Coleman .
The Editors
Mrs. Jean N. Barrett .
Mrs. Preston F. Gass
Mrs. Delia Thompson Lutes
Mrs. Elsie LaV erne Hill . .
Mrs. Caroline Benedict Burrell
Mary L. Read ....
117
119
140
141
143
144
146
148
149
151
152
153
15s
157
159
161
165
166
CONTENTS ix
SUMMARY AND FORECAST ,^„
The Third Year with Tom and Sarah William Byron Forbush .... 169
INDEX TO SUBJECTS Facing 172
INDEX TO OCCUPATIONS Facing 172
FROM THE THIRD TO THE SIXTH BIRTHDAY
"The Kindergarten Period"
THE COURSE OF TRAINING
Looking Forward Through This Period William Byron Forbush .... 177
A Child's Development and Training the Fourth, Fifth.
and Sixth Years Mrs. Bertha Payne Newell . . . 183
Charts . . . 256, 258, 259
What an Average Child May Be Able to Do By the
End of this Period 260
A 'Round-the-Year Program The Committee on Curriculum of
the International Kindergarten
Union 260
WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THE THIRD TO THE SIXTH BIRTHDAY
Richard's Day
The Fifth Year
\\'hat a Child is Like the Sixth Year
Frederica Beard 267
. Mar.y L. Read 268
Mary L. Read 271
The Dawn of Independence Alma S. Sheridan 274
WHAT TO DO FROIM THE THIRD TO THE SIXTH BIRTHDAY
Our Home Gymnasium
Gymnastic Plays for this Period .
Lively Imitative Plays
Plays and Games for the Fourth Year .
Aims and Methods in Constructive Play
Beginnings in Handivork
The Importance of Setf-Help
Collecting Nature Materials
Bead- Stringing
"The Holy Gift of Color"
Suggestions for Color-Play
The Music Needs of the Kindergarten ....
Music for the Early Years
Some Play-Devices in Beginning Music
How to Tell Stories
The Selection of Stories for Kindergarten Children
Fifty Best Kindergarten and Primary Stories .
Mrs. Elizabeth Hubbard Bonsall . 277
'Mrs. Harriet Hickox Heller. . . 282
The Editors 284
Luclla A. Palm-er 285
The Committee on Curricidum of
the International Kindergarten
Union 287
Mrs. Minnetta Sammis Leonard . 288
Maria Montessori, M.D. . . . 294
Katherine Beebe 295
Mrs. Carrie S. Newman .... 298
Elizabeth Harrison 300
The Editofis 302
Calvin B. Cady 305
Mary E. Pennell 308
Mrs. Elizabeth Hubbard Bonsall . 319
Mary L. Read 326
Annie E. Moore 326
328
CONTENTS
The Poetry Habit
Answering Questions About Sex ....
The Religious Nurture of a Little Child
The Religious Education of a Catholic Child
The Religious Education of a Jewish Child
Plays and Games for the Fifth Year .
Self-Making
Constructive Play
Things to Make Out of Newspapers
The Beginnings of Art for Little Children
How the Child May Express Himself Through
Pictures for the Home
Learning to Use Language
Art
Mother, Father, and Child — Partners Three
The Home Play- Yard
Playthings Which the Father Can Make
Plays and Games for the Sixth Year
Play with Dolls
An Litroduction to Nature Study
Betty's Nature Friends . . . .
Play with Neglected Senses
Clara UliitchUl Hunt . .
Margaret IV. Morlcy
ll'illiain Byron Forhtisli .
Josephine Brozvnson .
Mrs. Rose Barloiv JVcinman
Lnella A. Palmer ....
.Susan B. Blow ....
Grace L. Brown ....
Mrs. Louise H. Peck
Walter Sargent ....
The Committee on Curriculum of
tlie International Kindergarten
Union
Julia Wade Abbott
Tlic Committee on Curriculum- of
the International Kindergarten
Union
Maud Burnham
Mrs. Dora Ladd Keyes ....
Il'illiam A. McKeez'er. LL.D.. and
Jean Lee Hunt
Lnella A. Palmer
The Editors
Jessie Scott Himcs
Mrs. Elizabeth Hubbard Bonsall .
The Editors
329
331
332
338
341
349
354
355
364
365
366
369
371
373
374
375
2,77
382
384
391
401
William Bvron Forbush
SUMMARY AND FORECAST
Tom and Sarah During the Kindergarten Years
What Should a Child Know When He Enters the
First Grade? H. G. irdls ....
At the School Door Elizabeth J. Woodward .
405
409
412
SUPPLEMENTAL ARTICLES
Home Correctives for the Kindergarten
The Kindergarten Years
Freedom of Experiment in the Kindergarten
The Trend of the Kindergarten To-day
The Kindergarten at Horace Mann School. Teachers
College
Froebel and the Kindergarten To-day
What Has the American Kindergarten to Learn from
Montessori ?
Making the Original Nature of the Child Into Some-
thing Else
W'hat is the Value of Play?
Experiment, Imitation, Repetition, and Purpose .
Ten Useful Purposes in Kindergarten Training
Maximilia)! E. P. Groszmann. Pd.D. 417
Irving E. Miller. Ph.D 419
Frank M. McMurry. Ph.D. . 422
Patty Smith Hill 425
./()/;;/ Walker Harrington
G. Stanley Hall. LL.D. . . .
William Heard Kilpatrick. Ph.D.
Edward L. Thorndike. Ph.D. .
Luclla A. Palmer
Luella A. Palmer
Luclla A. Palmer
427
429
432
434
435
436
437
INDEX TO SUBJECTS Facing 440
INDEX TO OCCUPATIONS Facing 440
CONTENTS
XI
FROM THE SIXTH TO THE EIGHTH BIRTHDAY
THE COURSE OF TRAINING p^ce
A Look Forward Through This Period William Byron Forhush .... 445
A Child's Development and Training the Seventh and Mrs. Bertha Payne Newell, Edna E.
Eighth Years Harris, and Others .... 450
Charts 500, 502, 503
What an Average Child May Be Able to Do by the
End of This Period 504
A 'Round-the-Year Program Hattic A. Walker 504
WHAT TO DO FROM THE SIXTH TO THE EIGHTH BIRTHDAY
Ella Victoria Dobbs 509
The Editors 511
'The Editors 512
Ella Victoria Dobbs 513
The Editors 516
Florence Hull Wintcrburn . . . 518
Tlie Editors 521
523
Home Opportunities in English The Editors 530
Methods in Beginning Reading Arnold L. Gesell, Ph.D 534
Reading Journeys for Primary Children .... The Editors 537
How Barbara Began Writing Wilson Follett 538
Home Opportunities in Number The Editors 541
How I Taught John Number and Reading .... Mrs. Bertha Bellows Strceter . . 542
Early Music-Teaching in School Eleanor Smith 544
Plays and Games for the Seventh Year Luella A. Palm-cr 545
Plays and Games for the Eighth Year Luella A. Palmer 549
The Transformed Primary School
Materials Used in the New Primary School
Home Opportunities in Practical Science .
Primary Handwork
Stories of Geography, Primitive Life, and History.
Cultivating Observation
Walks and Talks in Hometown
A Study of a Rabbit Charles B. Scott, Ph.D
Plays for Sharpening the Wits Mrs. Elisabeth Hubbard Bonsall
SUMMARY AND FORECAST
Tom and Sarah the Seventh Year and Beyond
SUPPLEMENTAL ARTICLES
The First Day of School
Bridging Over from the Kindergarten to- Schooldays .
The City and Country School, New York . . . .
The Experimental Primary Class in the Ethical Cul-
ture School
Teachers College Playground
The First Three Grades in School
The Three Kinds of Modern Schools
At What Age Should the Child Learn to Read? . .
On Teaching History to Children
How to Help the Memory
First Experiences with French
Early Training in Thrift
The Child's First Collections
Education in Clan Spirit
William B\
Forbush .
55 =
Helen Campbell 571
Nina C. Vandezualker. .... 572
Caroline Pratt 574
Mabel R. Goodlander .... 577
Lucile C. Deming 579
Columbus N. Millard .... 582
Ernest Carroll Moore, Ph.D. . . 591
Ed. Claparede 593
Eva March Tap pan, Ph.D. . . . 594
The Editors 595
Mrs. Eliaabeth Hubbard Bonsall . 595
The Editors 598
The Editors 599
The Editors 600
INDEX TO SUBJECTS
INDEX TO OCCUPATIONS
Facing 600
Facing 600
CONTENTS
MESSAGES OF INSPIRATION AND INFORMATION FOR THE
HOME KINDERGARTEN
MESSAGES FROM THE MASTERS
Some Hopes and Fears for tlie Kindergarten of the
Future Patty Smith Hill ....
Real Activities and the Kindergarten Bertha Hofner-Hcgncr . .
Books for Children Mrs. Kate Douglas Wiggin .
Why Kindergartens? Philander P. Claxton, LL.D.
What's in a Name ? Luck Wheelock ....
Froebel Had the American Spirit Jenny B. Merrill, Pd.D. . .
What We May Learn from John Dewey .... William Byron Forbiish . .
603
607
608
610
611
612
612
GOOD CHEER FOR THE MOTHER-TEACHER
The Advantages of the Mother-Teacher ....
The Mother as Artist
The Joy of Teaching
How a Mother Can Get More Out of Life . . .
The Mother's Harvest
Dad
What We Do Not Understand We Do Not Possess
The Editors
615
Mrs. Ella Lyman Ca
bot .
618
William McAndr^iv,
Ph.D.
621
Caroline L. Hunt .
622
Susan Chenery
625
Henry Turner Bail
-y .
626
Frank Crane, D.D.
626
REMEMBERED CHILDHOODS
The Olympians Kenneth Grahamc
The Playing Child in the Garden of Verses . . . . iniliam- Byron Forbush
Fellow-Travelers with a Bird l^lrs. Alice Meynell .
The Child in the House Jl'alter Pater . . .
Why I Wanted to Learn to Read George Borrozv .
"Una Mary" William Byron Forbush
"Emmy Lou" WiUiam Byron Forbush
The Children in Kensington Gardens lames Douglas
The Dark Joan Ardcn . . .
Memoirs of a Child: People Annie Steger. Winston
Recreative Readings for Mothers about Remembered
Childhoods The Editors
629
630
632
^34
637
639
640
641
642
644
646
DIVERS TYPES OF CHILDREN
The Nervous Child ....
The Contrary Child ....
The Unstable Child ....
The Obstinate Child ....
The Passionate Child ....
The "Cross" Child . . '. .
The Fearful Child
The Forgetful Child ....
The Impudent Child ....
The Lazy Child
Imaginative Child ....
Precocious Child ....
The
The
The Motor Child and the Bookish Child
Leonard Guthrie, M.D., F.R.S.C.P. 647
M. V. O'Shea 652
Cyril Burt 653
Ellen Chine Buttemveiser, Ph.D. . 664
Angeline W. Wrav 670
M.'V. O'Shea . '. 673
^frs. Theodore W. Birnev ■ . . 674
M. V. O'Shea . . . .' . . .676
Ji'illiam Byron Forbush .... 677
.Sidonie Mafcner Grucnberg . . . 678
Harriet Frances Carpenter . . . 679
Leonard Guthrie, M.D 681
M. V. O'Shea 685
CONTENTS
Xlll
PLAY AND PLAYTHINGS
The Early Impulses
How Children Play at Each Age
Education for Play
A Graded Guide to Toys for Children
Suggested Play Outfit for the Home .
How to Make and Use Gesso
A List of Games ....
rAGE
The Editors 68g
Liiella A. Palmer 690
Percival Chubb 694
Mary L. Read 697
Mrs. Newell, Mrs. Sies, Mrs. Horn,
Mrs. Leonard, Mrs. Coleman,
Miss Brown, and Professor Patty
Smith Hill, in Conference with
Dr. Forbnsh 699
John T. Lemos 704
The Editors 707
MORAL AND RELIGIOUS EDUCATION
The Beginnings of Religious Training Mary E. Rankin 711
How to Interest Children in the Bible Jidia Brown 719
The Catholic Mother and Her Child Father Alexander, O.F.M. ... 721
The Kindergarten in the Religious School Rabbi Louis Grossman, D.D. . . 725
Lessons for Beginners in Sunday-School Wade Crawford Barclay, D.D. . . 728
Teaching the Bible by Handwork Addie Grace Wardle 729
Learning to Serve Henry F. Cope. D.D 731
The Program of Service of a Religious School .... 734
The New Era and the Child 735
Obedience Mrs. Elisabeth Hubbard Bonsall . 727
Right Ways to Punish Rita S. Hale 738
Golden Texts of Child Discipline Mrs. Gertrude H. Campbell . . . 739
Habits A. B. Barnard 740
Tantrums Prudence Bradish 741
Truthfulness Mrs. Zelie M. Water.s .... 743
Training the Will Carolyn Sherwin Bailey . . . 747
Character Through Personal Example U'oodrow Wilson 749
A Small Library of Moral and Religious Education . . 752
APPENDIX
Self-directed Work and Play
Jennie Ellis Bendick, Bonnie E.
Siiozv, Mary Lena Wilson. Dawti
Powell Gousha, and others . . 755
GENERAL INDEX
"All powers be yours. He saith,
Over my little ones;
The power of life and death;
The power of cloud and suns;
The power of weal and harm
Be yours to have and hold.
"Lord of the skies and lands.
Take pity on Thy dust;
Strengthen our mortal hands
Lest we betray Thy trust."
— Katherine Tynan.
THE PLAN
'TpHIS handbook is planned to be simple enough and adequate enough for the
education of a child by his own mother from his birth until he is well along
in his schooldays.
Because of its simplicity, thoroughness, and practicalness it will also be of
the greatest usefulness to teachers who are training children of these ages.
The best possible way to guide a mother effectually is to take up each ad-
vancing year in turn. While children differ somewhat in the rapidity of their
development, they pass along very much the same roadway of progress; and it is
wise to put down things in order.
The plan for each year is the same. It is based upon the main principle of
the book, which is this:
The Way to Educate Is to Build on the Interests and Capabilities
OF the Child, and Not Upon What We Think He Ought to Learn.
This Manual centers in the Child rather than in a Curriculum.
So the discussion for each year is in this order:
First. What is the child attempting this year?
Second. What is he trying to express by his endeavors?
Third. What will help him most?
Each year we try to study our child, and then, according to our best vmderstand-
ing of him, help him to help himself.
As for the authorship, it was determined early that each year's work
should be written by a mother who has children of the age in question and who
has also had the training and successful experience of a teacher. So we have
here the actual methods of real mothers who are competent, both by technical
knowledge and practiced service, to give us guidance. They are not women of
wealth; some of them do their own housework; all of them represent what we
may regard as the average domestic condition, with this exception, that they
are trained for their task. Other fathers and mothers have supplemented these
papers, until the experience of more than forty parents has been here assembled.
Important supplemental articles have also been especially prepared or reprinted
by special permission of some of the leading educators of America.
The writers of the leading articles were chosen at the suggestion of Profes-
sor Patty Smith Hill, Director of the Department of Kindergarten Education at
Teachers College, Columbia University, and many of the practical devices sug-
gested have been either suggested or approved by several of the teachers in the
well-known kindergarten of the Horace Mann School at Teachers College, co-
workers with Miss Hill.
The entire manuscript has been carefully read and revised by Mrs. Bertha
Payne Newell, formerly head of the Department of Kindergarten Education at
the University of Chicago, and by Mrs. Minnetta Sammis Leonard, formerly
Director of the Model Kindergarten at the State Normal School, Milwaukee,
both of whom are mothers.
Many of the manuscripts when completed have been copied and sent to other
mothers, to criticise and to try out the suggestions to see if they were practicable.
Nothing has been neglected to make The Home Kindergarten Manual
serviceable to the utmost for the average mother and in the ordinary home.
MATERIALS REQUIRED
The majority of the materials desirable for a little child's play and action
are to be found in the home equipment. The old formal kindergarten "gifts"
and "occupations" have of late been receding into the background in education,
since they do not represent the most important play-interests of the average
small American. The Montessori apparatus finds its equally useful counterparts
in many of the things that are in daily use about the house. Mechanical toys
have little place in a child's life. How much more sensible that the child should,
in companionship with his mother, make or adapt his playthings than that he
should be furnished with an artificial and needlessly costly imported environ-
ment !
A few articles, because of their accurate measurements, or because they
are useful for design or color, or because they have peculiar educational value,
are recommended to be purchased, a few at a time, perhaps at Christmas, to
supplement the home stock.
Much more important than the materials for handwork are the stories,
the pictures, the songs and other rhythms, and the games and occupations for
the intellectual and spiritual awakening of the child. With these helps many
a home has not had the foresight or the opportunity to equip itself. The pub-
lishers have made a collection of these treasures for the mother's use. From
a multitude of sources a rich and carefully chosen compilation has been made,
which not even the most fortunate home could expect, by any wisdom or ex-
penditure, to provide for itself. This collection, called the Boys and Girls
Bookshelf, is not only supplementary to The Home Kindergarten Manual
but constitutes in itself a standard foundation library for children. All through
xvi K.M.— 1
The Manual references are made to these resources as they are needed in the
instruction and inspiration of children.
The Manual, the pioneer in its field, is understandable and practical, and
any mother who loves her children enough to study it will make it her constant
and prized companion.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
The thanks of the Publishers and Editors are hereby extended to all those
who have cooperated with them to make The Manual a success.
The Editors, in preparing the manuscript for these volumes, have endeav-
ored, in all cases where material has been used which has previously appeared
in print, to give credit to author, publisher, and book, and to any other to whom
such acknowledgment was due. If they have failed to do so in any particular
case, it has been an oversight for which the Publishers are not responsible, as
their instructions on this point were definite, and for which the Editors express
their regrets. Future editions will offer an opportunity for the correction,
which will be gladly made.
KM-
"Play is the symbol and interpreter of liberty. . . . God
has purposely set the beginning of the natural life in a mood
that foreshadows the last and highest chapter of immortal
character." — Horace Bushnell,
A WORD TO THE MOTHER
"l^T'HIT.E the careful study of this Manual as a textbook from beginning to
* ^ end will be most profitable, either for the mother, the normal school
student, or the professional teacher, the best way for the mother to make it
immediately useful will be to turn to the year represented by the age of her
child and read the material for that year.
The arrangement for each year is as follows : First comes an article, writ-
ten by the General Editor, and entitled "A Look Forward Through the Year."
This outlines the teaching-work for the year. It tells the mother what to ex-
pect in her child and what to do. It interprets the main Course of Study for
the year, prepared by the teacher-mother who wrote upon that year. It shows
the relation of the shorter articles to the principal ones and how they supple-
ment or confirm it. This "Look Forward" is the key to the whole year, and is
to be read carefully, no matter what else may be omitted.
Then follow the Course of Study and the other articles.
It is a good idea to look over the whole of the material for the year
rapidly within the first few days, making notes of what seems especially or
immediately important, and then to read it all again gradually and slowly.
For this more thorough reading a "Reading Journey" is suggested in each
"Look Forward."
At the end of each year's material are two indexes for the year. One is
an Index to Occupations. Every occupation, play, or employment, named in
the articles, is listed so that the mother may find it at a glance. The other is
an Index of Subjects. Here the suggestions are classified under such impor-
tant headings as Art, Music, Physical Training, Nature Study, Reading, Sto-
ries, Moral Training, etc. These indexes are for the purpose of helping the
mother to lay her hands at once upon the method of using or satisfying a ten-
dency or impulse she has noticed in the child.
In each year's course there are articles connecting the present year with
the previous one and the one that follows, so that the mother may feel the
continuity of her child's development, and if her child is slightly backward or
precocious may have appropriate help. These connecting articles also call to
the mother's attention devices and methods which, though classified in a particu-
lar year, are good for a number of years.
The material in the rest of The Manual, after the Courses of Study year
by year, is referred to by cross-references in the yearly work. Many of these
articles also will be looked up by the reader, in special needs, by turning to the
General Index at the end of the set.
"Mighty the Wizard
Wlio found iiie at sunrise
Sleeping, and woke me
And learn'd me Magic!
Great the Master,
And sweet the Magic."
— Tennyson
A WORD TO THE TEACHER
PJ^OR the multitude of Kindergarten and primary teachers, who beheve their
task is that of making hves and not of merely teaching school, this Manual
has a large message.
First, it gives them a new and better Child Study. Instead of telling
them about the child simply as he appears to-day, it goes back to the begin-
ning and traces the wonderful way a child develops from his babyhood. The
only way to understand the kindergarten child's impulses and responses is to
know the seeds from which they grew.
Second, it gives teachers the home background. We see children too much
as affected by schoolroom discipline. We tend to forget that the largest and
best part of their education is given them by their mothers. This Manual
not only shows what the better homes may do and are doing to prepare their
children for the kindergarten, but it enables the kindergartner to work better
with the mothers as they try to supplement the kindergarten. It is safe to
say that in any community where this Manual is possessed by any consid-
erable number of young mothers, it is indispensable for all the elementary
teachers.
Third, it gives teachers the right principles by which to do their work.
Whether or not she be fresh from the normal school, every teacher needs to
be reminded constantly that there is a New Education that is sound, effective,
and becoming triumphant. It insists, as almost every page of this Manual
reminds us, that education is not memorizing, nor mere knowing, nor burnish-
ing the mind, but learning to use the mind. It is not something formal and
bookish, but it is "organizing experience in terms of vital need." Contact with
the delightful, sensible, informal methods used in The Manual will freshen
the whole atmosphere of the teacher's daily work. It will get her away from
"the grindstone method" of sharpening children's minds, and help her every
day to realize that knowledge is a craft, that children learn by doing and not
by merely being told. The Manual is based upon what is done to-day in the
best kindergartens, and here are the latest and best ways of project-teaching.
By the use of The Manual in the homes and kindergartens of any com-
munity the little children of that community will live enriched and abundant
and growing lives.
"If we know we die not, but live on
We should live worthier of Thy love.
So, help Thy little ones to know and live
That, 38 a shadow which goes reaching forth.
Longer and longer as the sun goes down.
The soul may stretch forth toward the great Unseen
Until the solemn, sacred starlight comes,
Gathering our individual shadows in its own."
TO THE FIRST BIRTHDAY
CONTENTS
Preliminary Papers ^^^^
Educating the Baby Before It is Born The Editors 3
How I Learned to Take Care of My Baby Mrs. Madeline Darrayh Horn 5
The Course of Training
Looking Forward Through the Year William Byron Porbush 13
My First Year with John Mrs. Madeline Darrayh Horn 17
Charts 25, 26, 27
What to Expect the First Year
The First Year in a Baby's Life William Byron Forbush 29
The First Three Months Mrs. Alice Corbin Sies 37
My Baby Month by Month A/ri. Anna G. Noyes 38
Landmarks in a Baby's Progress Mrs. Helen Y. Campbell 39
What to Do the First Year
Some Beginnings The Editors
Plays and Games for the First Year Luella A. Palmer
Finger- Plays and Other Action-Plays The Editors
41
45
46
Summary and Forecast
Getting Acquainted with Tom and Sarah William Byron Porbush 49
Index to Subjects facing 54
Index to Occupations ■. facing 54
PRELIMINARY PAPERS
EDUCATING THE BABY BEFORE IT IS BORN
BY
TPIE EDITORS
"Recurved and close lie the little feet and hands, close as in the attitude of sleep folds the head,
the little lips arc hardly parted ;
"The living mothcr-flcsh folds round in darkness, the mother's life is an unspoken prayer, her
body a temple of the Holy One.
_ "/ am amazed and troubled, my child — she zvhispers — at the thought of yon; I hardly dare to speak
of it, you are so sacred.
"I will keep my body pure, very pure: the sivcet air will I breathe and pure water drink; I will
stay out in the open, hours together, for vour sake;
"Holy thoughts will I think; I zuill brood in the thought of motherAove. I will fill myself with
beauty; trees and running brooks shall be my companions;
"And I ivill pray that I may become transparent — that the sun may shine and the moon, my
beloi'cd, upon you,
"Even before you are born." — Edward Carpenter : Towards Democracy.
That a mother may shape her child-that-is-to-be
for good or evil while he is yet in her body has
been many a woman's hope or apprehension.
Let us at once remove the dread that gathers
about the now discredited theory of "maternal im-
pressions." The old idea was that if the mother
is injured or observes a deformed person or an
object of horror, the impression made upon her
will cause a corresponding defect in the child.
The truth is that there is no connection between
the mother and the child in the womb by which
nervous impressions can be conveyed. The moth-
er's blood even does not enter the child. It seems
as if Nature had erected a barrier specifically
providing for the protection of the unborn against
such impressions. Most mothers have had dis-
turbing experiences during their pregnancy, and
most babies would be born "marked" if this theory
be true. Many women do not realize until the
sixth or eighth week that they are pregnant, and
as the form of the child is established at the
beginning of the third month, disturbing events
have little time in which to effect impressions.
This is not to say that the mother cannot harm
the coming baby. If a woman neglects the plain
rules of health, or goes through her pregnancy
repining and lamenting, she may rob her child
of the nutrition he needs for his best development.
The puny, wailing baby is, however, usually not
"marked" even by "nervousness"; the nervous-
ness is due to lack of nourishment when the baby
was beginning its growth.
Mother Cannot Will Good Gifts upon her
Baby
On the other hand, we may be equally positive
in declaring that no endowment — physical, mental,
or moral — can be transmitted by will-power. The
brown-eyed mother cannot "will" blue eyes for
her baby. The mother of olden times who "filled
her house with choice flowers and beautiful im-
ages of color and marble, listened often to the
discoursing of sweet music, and walked often in
the gardens, seeking from Nature and from books
inspiration and lofty thought," did not thereby
confer taste or talent upon her unborn child. The
calm truth of science, stated by Guyer, is that
"in spite of all our painstaking efforts toward
self-improvement, we cannot add one jot or tittle
to the native ability of our children." And if
that seem discouraging and fatalistic, we may gain
some cheer by the complementary truth that
"while we are denied advancement through the
efforts of the flesh, we are also largely protected
THE HOME KINDERGARTEN MANUAL
from our misfortunes and follies," since mutila-
tions and personally acquired bad habits are not
inheritable by our offspring.
What then is the use of a mother's efforts at
self-culture during the pre-natal months? In what
sense, if any, may we justify our title, "Educa-
ting the Baby Before it is Born?"
She May Prepare Laid-up Treasures
There are a number of answers. They all
center in this fact, that while we can not com-
municate with the child himself, everything that
we do may indeed benefit him. To educate the
child yet to be born we educate the mother who
is to bear him.
We have spoken of the expectant mother's
physical life. Her attention to food and diges-
tion, to exercise out of doors, to pleasant dis-
tractions that induce a happy view and take the
pressure off the overworked nerves, will directly
assist a successful bringing to birth. Her at-
titude is everything. If she will remember that
pregnancy is not a malady, that old wives' stories
are mostly fables, and that abnormal experiences
are unusual, if in short she will keep her mind
from ingrowing, she will greet her baby on the
day of his birth with the courage and poise and
triumph that will actually assist his digestion,
quiet his nerves, and make his entrance into life
an agreeable event. Developing character her-
self, she will from the start develop his. The
fond mother who thought her caressing strokes
over the surface of the birth-chamber awoke an
affectionate thrill within may have been mis-
taken, for the womb is a chamber of peace, but
there is no doubt her anticipating love had its
answer on that day when the first blast of outer
air, the first contact with the noisy world, the
first rude touches of assisting hands, awoke the
protesting voice and stimulated the ill-directed
rigors of his tiny wrath. Love and tenderness
and even a sense of humor do good to a baby
from the day of his arrival.
The expectant mother who, as Nietzsche said,
"suppress an angry word as though it might dis-
till a drop of evil into the life-chalice of the be-
loved unknown" are wise, for how can they fill
the chalice with sweetness unless they have won
self-control by practice? Truly, every expectant
mother lives, as another has said, "under God's
spotlight."
Effectual Methods of Making the Future
And what of the mothers who hang up fine pic-
tures in their rooms, and live with good music,
and read much in the masters during their days
of waiting? Are they foolish or misguided?
Not at all. These shall be the mothers of princes.
"One must give up much when one becomes a
mother." This is true. It too often means that
the young woman gives up her music, her art, her
pretty clothes, and the care of her person, when it
should mean only that she gives up her foolish
leisure, her petty vices, her wasteful reading.
The day of the baby's birth is not too early to
begin his moral training. Before he is half a
year old, wonders may be wrought in his educa-
tion. It is not too much to say that the voca-
tional guidance of a man ought to be commenced
before he comes to birth.
Music played softly in the room where rests
an unborn child will not "mark" him to become a
Mendelssohn or a MacDowell, but a baby is sensi-
tive to rhythms before he is seven weeks old, and
how shall he have this advantage if his mother
has "given up her music?" Sculpture and art
gazed upon by expectant mothers will not produce
an impression of aesthetics upon the embryo, but
the baby who learns to love form before he is six
months old, and who perceives color soon after he
is a yearling, will not be in the atmosphere of
beauty unless his mother has prepared beauty for
him in her heart and in his home in advance.
And while the fond mother must be slow to ce-
ment even the growing youth into his niche for
life, yet the quiet days before he comes are not
too early to catch a vision of the great tasks of
life and to begin to plan that his shall be no nar-
row, unready, or ignoble lot.
An expectant mother's dreams are holy, and
they are effectual. "Not in utter nakedness, but
trailing clouds of glory" come "from God who is
our home" babies who are conceived in desire and
borne in longing and preparation. Even before
birth the mother may consecrate herself to be-
come not only the first, but the best teacher her
child shall ever know. She may recognize herself
as the transmitter to him, not only of a sweet,
untainted body, but of the wisdom and beauty of
all times. She must understand that by surround-
ing herself with the best life has to give — and
life's best is not wholly bought with gold — she
may bring wise men to his cradle and lift him
up under the benison of the Star.
USEFUL BOOKS FOR EXPECTANT
MOTHERS
SlEmons, J. Morris, M.D. The Prospective
Mother. D. Appleton and Company, New York.
ScHARLiEB, M.'\ry. The Welfare of the Expec-
tant Mother. Funk and Wagnalls, New York.
HOW 1 LEARNED TO TAKE CARE OF MY BABY
MRS. MADELINE DARRAGH HORN
Katharine had just dropped in for one of the
occasional chats we squeezed in between our
numerous home duties. When I tell you that she
was the mother of charming Clo, aged eight
months, and I of Bobby and John, aged six
months and two and one-half years respectively,
you will guess why our conversations never
lagged. We compared notes on the "gooing" of
Clo and Bobby ; Katharine told of Clo's new-
found sport of crawling backward and I described
John's large amount of vitality, with its disregard
of furniture and shoes.
"Do you remember," asked Katharine, "how
yellow John was when he was a week old?"
''Indeed I do. How worried I was I When I
told my fears to the doctor, she said, 'Just wait.'
Sure enough, in a few weeks the yellow color
was gone, and in its place appeared the lovely
pink and white complexion all stories about babies
had led me to believe belonged to them. When
Bobby arrived with the same color-scheme, I did
not waste a minute in worry. The doctor did
ask me to notify her if the jaundice remained too
long."
"Clo escaped having the jaundice," said Kath-
arine, "but she was red, as red as a beet. How-
ever, this soon disappeared, and in its place came
a beautiful shell pink that filled me with delight
every time I looked at her."
Katharine continued:
"Did I ever tell you what Clo's father said when
he first saw her?"
"No, you didn't."
"He said, 'Did we go to all this trouble for
such a homely little bundle ? Even her head is
crooked !' But like the unattractive complexions,
the misshapen head soon disappeared."
Then I confessed.
"Do you know, I imagined a new-born baby
was like a child at least six months old. I thought
my first baby was abnormal because there
seemed so little he could do. He didn't seem to
hear; his eyes often wandered in different direc-
tions; he had no muscular control. His chief
stock in trade were instincts he had brought with
him into this world. He could cry — I should say
he could cry ! He could sneeze, cough, grasp ob-
jects, form his mouth for food, feel warmth and
cold, but cry best of all. Not until I learned
that the human baby, unlike the animal baby, has
a long period of infancy in which fathers and
mothers must care for it, so it can develop to
a high degree, was I satisfied that John was
normal."
Plans for the Future
Katharine's visit took me back to the days of
John's youth — his youngest youth — when he was
but an hour old. His presence had inspired me
to pledge again the future his father and I had
planned for him: —
All the health should be his that loving care
and expert medical attention could give.
We guaranteed life's essentials — food, clothing,
shelter, with as much music and art as we could
afford.
We promised an education with special super-
vision of his reading and experiences. Yes, we
had chosen his college !
Twofold companionship should be his — the
companionship of adults and children. Of course,
I was the most eagerly sought companion among
the grown-ups. I had already forsaken crochet-
ing and embroidering for the reading of good
books, that I might prove worthy of such com-
panionship.
We promised him a home where teamwork
prompted by love should be the constant ex-
ample.
My Education Begins: John's Bath
As you see, like most inexperienced fathers and
mothers, we had thought of John in terms of an
adult who more or less approximated our own
experiences, forgetting, or, rather, not knowing,
those tiny but essential steps that bring a child
safely through babyhood. I did not remain in
ignorance long. My education began in the hos-
pital when I watched my nurse give John his
first bath.
My nurse said: "Giving this daily bath looks
difficult and tiresome, but it helps a great deal in
guaranteeing baby's future health. It keeps the
pores of his skin open by removing waste ; it
keeps the skin in condition, especially where parts
of the body touch; it makes him comfortable,
hence good-natured ; it begins the habit of a daily
bath ; and it gives you a daily opportunity to look
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him over carefully to see that there are no signs
of a coming illness."
The nurse wore her usual spic-and-span and
"good-looking" uniform. Her look of cleanliness
and competence in her regulation suit inspired
me to model my house-dresses on a similar plan.
I was not surprised when she said:
"Wear wash-dresses when caring for your baby.
They can be kept clean."
She also said that if I had a cold. I should pre-
vent my baby's getting it by wearing a cheese-
cloth mask over the lower part of my face.
She took care of John's eyes, ears, nostrils,
mouth, and washed his face, hands, and head, and
cut his finger and toe nails before undressing him.
A summary of what she told me about caring
for the eyes is as follows :
Cleanse a baby's eyes, when they are slightly in-
flamed or sore, with a solution of boric acid. Dis-
solve one teaspoonful of boric acid powder in a
cup of lukewarm water to make the solution. The
boric acid can easily be put into the eye with an
eye-dropper. Never irritate the eyes by rubbing
them. Flush them so the discharge runs to the
outer corner of the eye, where it can be caught
with absorbent cotton. This cleansing should be
done often. Always burn the bits of cotton used
and cleanse the hands. If the discharge is only
in one eye, let the child lie on that side. Take
every precaution to prevent the infection spread-
ing to the well eye. If the discharge is profuse,
a physician must be called to care for it. This
sort of thing is very contagious, so the child
should be kept away from other people and chil-
dren, and the mother must be fastidious in the
care of her hands and clothes.
She carefully made cotton swabs by entirely
covering the blunt end of a toothpick with ab-
sorbent cotton. She dipped these in vaseline
(liquid alboline would do, she said) and gently
cleansed the nostrils. Fresh swabs were used for
each nostril to prevent carrying germs from one
to the other.
There seemed to be bits of yellow wax just
inside the ear canal. She said that if this were
left there was apt to be irritation. She used cot-
ton swabs moistened with water for cleansing
the ears. She turned these swabs gently in the
outer part of the ear. never pushing them into the
ear canal or pulling the external ear.
She cared for the mouth by washing the space
between the gums and cheeks with a large swab
moistened with boiled water. She said that when
John's teeth came to wash his mouth twice a day
with a soft brush or cotton swabs and a solution
of bicarbonate of soda (one teaspoonful to a cup
of water).
She washed the head very gently to avoid any
injury to the soft spot on top which she called
the fontanel.
She examined his toe and finger nails carefully.
She said that if they were allowed to become too
long they were likely to grow back into the flesh ;
and that finger nails scratched the baby's skin
before he learned how to keep his hands from his
face. She cut the nails straight across instead of
following the curve of the finger or toe.
Danger Signals
She then told me how to treat heat-rash. She
said: "In the Summer watch for it carefully.
If rash does appear // ivill probably menu Joint
is dressed too warm. Cover the skin with a soft
linen slip between it and his shirt. Bathe him
with a solution of bicarbonate of soda (one tea-
spoonful to eight ounces of water) or pat his
skin with a paste made of it. Be sure he gets
plenty of boiled water to drink."
"What other danger signals should I watch
for?" I asked.
"A sore buttock should always be cared for
immediately. It may be caused by a number of
things : wet diapers left on too long when the
urine is too concentrated; irritating stools; harsh
material in diapers; diapers not carefully rinsed,
after being washed with strong soap; or any con-
dition that causes redness elsewhere."
"How do I care for such a condition?" I asked.
"Wash baby with oil instead of water. Place
a piece of old linen covered with cold cream or
vaseline between the diaper and skin. Remove
his diapers as soon as they are wet. Give plenty
of boiled water between feedings. If your treat-
ment does not effect a cure, you should consult
your physician."
Equipment for a Baby's Bath
She bathed John on an ordinary table which
had been padded until soft. A six-inch rail sur-
rounded the table to prevent any falls. The
nurse said that she could bathe the baby so much
faster and with much more assurance for baby's
safety than when he was tumbling and squirm-
ing on her lap.
Her list of articles for the bath seemed so com-
plete and helpful that before going home I jotted
them down on paper. I shall pass the list on to
you :
1. The table.
2. Two sets of wash cloths.
One set was made of surgeon's lint, eight
inches square; another of two thicknesses of fine
bleached cheesecloth. One set was used on the
face ; the other on the buttocks. I think her rea-
TO THE FIRST BIRTHDAY
son for using two materials was to prevent using
the same wash-rag on the buttocks as on other
parts of the body. She warned me to shun the
harsh wash-cloths adults use.
When I returned home and made my wash-
cloths, I found I had no surgeon's lint. Since I
did not want to buy any. I tore up an old cheese-
cloth garment into eight-inch squares. To dis-
tinguish my face-cloths from the others, I
marked them with a pink mark in each corner.
3. Bath-thermometer.
(A mother's elbow may be a fairly accurate
substitute.)
4. Soft linen towels for face and body. She
said old linen was excellent for this purpose.
5. Soft bath-towels. She said never to use a
towel so rough that it would irritate the skin.
6. Soft blanket, one and one-half yards square.
A lovely one can be purchased, or Viyella flan-
nel of two thicknesses makes an excellent one.
However, old materials about the house (an old
blanket, for instance) are all right, and save
buying while materials are expensive.
7. Absorbent cotton.
She kept this clean in a container with a hole
in the top.
8. Toothpicks.
She kept these in a covered container.
9. Castile soap and a soap dish.
She said any good white soap would do, but
castile was preferable.
10. Safety pins.
These were stuck on a pincushion nailed by a
tape above the table. Since the hospital days, I
have found it a time-saving device to keep safety
pins in every room where the baby goes.
11. Talcum powder, unscented.
12. Flexible tube of yellow vaseline or cold
cream.
13. A soft baby-brush and comb.
14. A tub.
She said the rubber ones are excellent, but very
expensive. A towel can cover the bottom and
sides of a metal one so it will not touch the baby.
15. A small basin or bowl for the cold splash.
16. A small paper bag to hold waste cotton and
toothpicks.
17. Two covered pails — one for soiled clothing
and one for diapers.
18. A receptacle holding oil.
19. Blunt scissors to cut toe and finger nails.
20. Scales.
She explained that weighing the baby regularly
was the surest indicator the mother had of his
condition. Be sure to use scales that indicate the
weight accurately. She recommended a type that
sits firmly on the table and that has a screw that
can be turned backward from point zero, tlie
weight of the basket (which holds the baby) and
of the clothing, so the nude weight can be ob-
tained even after the baby is dressed. Weighing
the baby while dressed protects him from cold and
drafts. As I watched the nurse, I was sure her
efficiency grew out of much practice and having
everything ready before she began.
My Own Bath-Table
When I returned home from the hospital, I
worked out a bath-table similar to the nurse's
with material I could find about the house. Here
is a description of the result :
I owned and used one of those old-fashioned
washstands which have a lowered top to hold the
bowl and pitcher. This provided my railing. By
removing the top and supporting it at the side
with brackets, I made the shelf to hold my tub
of water. The two-inch board around the lid
prevented any sliding about of the tub of water.
The narrow shelf above held vaseline, cold cream,
boric-acid solution, toothpicks, receptacle for hold-
ing cotton, etc. The rack for the baby's clothes
was placed high to avoid splashings. A pincush-
ion was well filled with pins of various sizes.
The scissors were hung to one side so that there
was no danger of their falling on the baby.
I put a shelf in the middle of the lower part of
the vvashstand to make room to hold John's
clothes, his wash-cloths, and towels.
An oilcloth under the top protected the floor
and padding from water.
The weight-chart was close at hand.
Although I spent hours getting this ready, I
soon saved several times that amount of time.
The Bath Itself
How skillfully the nurse held the baby! She
soaped John from head to foot before putting him
in the tub. She held him in a sitting position in
the tub by slipping her left arm and hand under
his armpits from the right side. In this way
she could hold him securely and have the right
hand free. Any accident must be prevented, as
that would establish a fear of the daily bath.
She washed him gently, going from the neck
downward. She kept him in the water only a
minute or two.
After the cleansing bath, she wrung out a wash-
cloth in cold water and gave John a cold splash
over his chest, back, and under his arms.
She then lifted him to the padded portion of
the table and patted him dry with a soft towel.
She was very careful to get him entirely dry,
especially in folds of the skin.
Then followed the oil-bath. I have found since
8 THE HOME KINDERGARTEN MANUAL
that a continued use of this keeps the skin in ghe Begins to Establish John's Habits
excellent condition. Vaseline may also be used.
She carefully rubbed the skin-surfaces which .^"^ ^^y- '°*'^'''' "'^ "'^ °^ "^^ hospital stay, I
touch, to prevent irritation. She recommended said:
the oil rather than powder, as the latter is likely '^""«' >'°" ^° '^e same thmg to John at the
to form irritating rolls.* s^'"'^ '™^ ^^'^h day."
She gently pushed back the foreskin and re- "^_es,mdeed," she said, "and you will thank
moved any deposit of white material which might "*! i,""" ". "l^"^ ^""^^- ,
become irritating. She applied a little vaseline, /Does it help a great deal?
and brought the prepuce back into position. If J"^' imagine your not being sure you could
the prepuce seemed tight, she said to notify a «"^* ^'^en your meal-time came ! Imagine never
physician being sure you would get your night's sleep or a
To bathe a girl, she said, separate the labia, "^P ' '^'°"'' stomach would rebel, you would
wash gently with cotton balls and tepid water, henpeck your husband, and no doubt you might
and use a downward motion. Never rub. If ^^'^^ ^^ tempted to spank poor, helpless little
there is a tendency toward redness, use a small -^°hn here, when all that was needed was a little
amount of vaseline between the labia, but never regularity m your household."
powder. She continued: "After caring for many babies
Nieht Sponee ^ ^"^ convinced no one thing, besides proper food,
guarantees the health of a normal baby to the
Just before sleepy time at night she sponged extent of regularity of habit."
him off with as little handling as possible. She
also cleansed his nostrils again. I have kept this The Nurse's Three-Hour Schedulef
up, because I found that dirt always collected
in the nostrils during the day. This cleansing ^^'^ '°''^ '"'^ '''^'' '""^ ^'^e first three months or
seemed to insure better breathing at night and ^°' •^^'"'^ °^ '^e physical habits was about all that
hence better rest for him ^^^* needed. At this time babies sleep hours each
So much equipment and so many little things ^^^^ ^"'^ *'^^" ^'^^'^'^ '""^' he kept quiet— not
to watch discouraged me. played with— except for the mother's patting and
"I can never do it without hurting him," I londling.
told the nurse. Here is her schedule for the first three months:
She was most comforting. "Every mother feels 3-OOA. m., early morning feeding,
that way," she said, "and every mother is mis- o.ooa. m., feeding,
tress of the art by the end of the first month." ^-3° a. m.. morning bath followed by the
This is really true 9.00 a.m. feeding and drink of water — luke-
warm.
Excellent Advice my Nurse Gave Me 9oo a. m. to 12.00 m., morning nap.
i,r, T 1^, • • , . 12.00 noon, feeding.
When I was able to sit up in bed once more. 3.00 p. m., feeding - nap between. Drink of
my nurse kept my mind busy by giving me the water
benefit of her experience with many babies 6.00 p. m., feeding-nap between. Put to bed
Would you like to share her wisdom too? f^j. jjj„]^(.
"What," I asked my nurse, "is my safest guide 9.00 pm. feeding
in determining the state of John's health?"
"The weight-chart," she replied, without a bit Changes Made by End of the Sixth Month
r, •,,.,' T 1 J .1 . .1 ■ -I . . While I was still in the hospital, my nurse had
Right there I resolved that this weight-chart ^j.i.i. t -wt, .. r
, -1 u ij u r . J t u suggested that later on I might change to a four-
and pencil should be fastened securely above my , t, j 1 t i-j -.i .1. r ft
,,, ^,, J ,, ,,, ^1. 1 hour schedule. I did, with the following as a
bath-table so I would not be tempted to neglect , . "^
recording John's weight. , ' ... . ^ ..
rr, -^ °, J , J , ^, . , ^ 0.00 A. M. came his earlv morning feeding.
ihe nurse suggested I could record the weight . ,, ,■• t i j 1 • j ' j- j • .
• ,, • f , • ° ° After this, I changed his damp diaper and night-
in this fashion: '^ . . , ^ ,^ , . "
gown, put on a pair of hose, and a kimono or
^"''' Weight sacque, if the room were chilly. I also washed
^/1^/17 (Birth) 7 lbs. 4 oz. i,is face and hands.
9/13/17 7 lbs. 8 oz. a c^ t i, r ^ ui j j t ^ i.-
9/17/17 .. 7 lbs 12 oz After John was comfortably dressed, I set him
9/24/17 .'.' ." .' .' .' .' .' '. '. '. '. '. '. '. '. .8 lbs.' 3 oz!
. . • t It may be that your baby will need to be fed at first on
Cecilia I'arwell, in Volume I., page 207, of "The Child a two-hour schedule; kt your physician advise you on this
Welfare Manual," tells exactly how to give this oil-bath. point. — .'. E. B.
TO THE FIRST BIRTHDAY
up in his crib for his early morning play. Before
he could sit alone I propped him up with pillows.
I kept a box of playthings especially for this
time. From time to time I varied the contents
of the box. Such things as a red harness ring,
a small box, some spools and blocks at this time
were typical contents. A crocheted red ball
hung from his crib; later, I hung a blue ball.
a yellow one, and so on. John soon learned to
look forward to this time with much pleasure.
His little arms would stretch out eagerly as soon
as the box came in sight. This playtime gave
me an opportunity to prepare breakfast. If John
fell asleep, which he usually did, I was careful
to cover him immediately to prevent his taking
cold.
We happened to have a small wicker chair in
the household and it proved invaluable. It had a
soft cushion seat, and, by adding pads to the sides,
we made it comfortable throughout. To prevent
his falling' out, we slipped ordinary sleigh-bell
reins across the front. These bells were a source
of much noise to us and much merriment to John.
He soon learned that he could make the chair
rock by rocking his body back and forth. Until
he learned to crawl, this rock was his favorite
means of getting exercise. From about 8.30 to
9.30 A. M. John would sit in this chair, intermit-
tently rocking, shaking his rattle, or watching
me move about the room.
9.30 — morning bath.
10.00 — came the second morning feeding.
10.00 to i.oo p. M. — he took his nap outdoors,
unless the weather was below zero, or rainy.
Under such conditions, he slept in a room with
the windows wide open. This sleep lasted for
three hours or more.* This long nap gave me
time to wash the dishes, get luncheon, and do the
luncheon dishes. It also gave John's father and
myself one meal during which we could chat
undisturbed. Usually, I managed a wee nap,
too.
2.00 p. M. — came his first afternoon feeding,
followed by activity of some sort after his long
nap. At this time, I massaged his limbs and
played with him for about thirty minutes. I often
called this his "kicking" time. My play was not
of a strenuous sort. I would allow him to kick
his feet against my hands ; I would pat-a-cake his
hands; talk to him; say "Mother Goose Rhymes,"
and so on.
5.30 — came his evening sponge-bath and the
putting on of night clothes.
6.00 P. M. — came a feeding and his going to
bed. I did not rock him, but put him immediately
* Cecilia Farwell, in Volume I., page 187. of "The Child
Welfare Manual," tells how necessary this sleep is.
in his crib. All lights were put out. H^p went to
sleep willingly, leaving a quiet evening for his
father and mother. During the day 1 was care-
ful that he had plenty of boiled water to drink.
Play with his Father
I found it difficult to find a place in John's
schedule for play with his father, as his father
was away during John's waking hours. It took
very little discussion as to whether John should
remain up after his six o'clock feeding to play
with his father, to decide that such a procedure
would be entirely selfish. Consequently, until
John was quite a bit older, his father had to play
wath him on Sundays, holidays, and those rare
occasions when he happened to be home during
John's waking hours.
John Puts On his "Finery"
I was quite disappointed to learn that night-
gowns were the only necessary outside clothing
for the first month. I had looked forward to the
moment when John's first appearance in real
dress-up clothes should make the nurses exclaim,
"How cute he is !"
The nurse was quite as proud of John as I, so
one day she dressed him in his best bib and tucker
and put him on display — at a time when John
was always awake, of course.
How the Nurse Dressed John Easily
She had many little tricks she used in dress-
ing John so he would not get weary in the proc-
ess. She eliminated the putting on of one gar-
ment by slipping the petticoat inside the dress,
then putting them on together.
She warned me against the strain of putting on
clothes which had plackets that were too short.
Ten inches is a good length.
She explained the advantage of the buttoned
shoulder of the Gertrude petticoat. If the petti-
coat becomes soiled, it can be removed by un-
buttoning at the shoulders and slipping off over
the feet without removing the dress. In the same
way, a clean petticoat can be put on.
She said that removing clothing over the feet
did away with that troublesome moment when the
baby loudly objects to having his head wrapped
in clothing.
"Keep safety pins," she said, "in every room.
Tack a pincushion full of them over your bath-
table, so the baby will not be left exposed while
you chase around hunting pins."
She showed me two wire frames — one for dry-
ing shirts and one for drying hose — which
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avoided that shrinkage that often makes the put-
ting on of the woolen garments troublesome.
Amount of Clothing Needed
I asked my nurse to check over my layette to
see if I had missed any clothing John would
need or if I had included superfluous articles.
The following is a liberal allowance for a baby
the first year, according to her report:
1. Three shirts. One the baby is wearing, an-
other kept clean for emergencies, and one drying
on the shirt rack. Wool, wool and cotton, or
wool and silk are suitable materials. She said
to buy size two, as size one was soon outgrown.
Use long sleeves and high neck for winter wear,
and cotton shirts for summer. Medium weight
shirts can be purchased with a tab on the front, to
which the diaper can be pinned.
2. Three pairs of stockings — also of wool, wool
and silk, or wool and cotton. Use cotton hose or
none at all for hot days in Summer. She sug-
gested that I sew a loop at the top of the hose to
run the safety pin through, to hold the stockings
in place without tearing.
3. Flannel bands. Buy a yard of flannel for
this purpose and leave them for your nurse to
* Many medical authorities state that it is desirable to
substitute a hand with shoulder straps for the straight band
as soon as the navel has healed. This may be made to slip
over the head, or it may be open in the back; ill the latter
case each side of the back should be extended with a grad-
ually narrowing width until it will reach around the body
tear, as she needs them, into bands five or six
inches wide. These bands are wrapped about a
baby until the umbilical cord falls off. They are
needed only a few weeks. For this reason, my
nurse said that the old prac-
tice of buying knitted bands
was a needless expense.*
4. Knitted bootees for win-
ter wear, preferably those
which are long, and fit the
curve of the knee. Short
bootees, with a string about
the ankle to hold them on,
are likely to be tied too
tightly and thus retard the
blood circulation. If a moth-
er has short bootees, she can
fasten them on with small
safety pins.
5. Three flannel skirts. The
Gertrude pattern, six months'
size, is a good one. Tapes
or buttons are used at the
back and shoulders. Several
thicknesses of material at the shoulders where
fastened prevents early tearing of the material.
Length, twenty-two inches.
of the bottom edge of the front; this is used for pinning
the diaper in i>lace. There are three important things to
remember about a baby's band: (1) It must never hind, as
the abdominal muscles of a healthy infant need little sup-
port, except possibly in the first few weeks of life, but
rather they need free play in order that they may be
A GERTRUDE
PETTICO.\T
THE OPEN-B.'\CK B.\Nn
BEFORE SEWING
THE SHOULDER SEAMS
PROMT
to* the center of the front — the bottom edge straight and the
upper cut on the slant. There should be a slit cut just back
of the armhole on the right hand side, so that when the
band is put on, the left hack can be drawn smoothly through
it, and thus make a crossing without wrinkles. Little linen
tapes should be sewed to the ends of the back and tied in
the front. A tab should he made and sewed at the center
strengthened in the natural way by the slight exercise the
baby can give them. (2) It must never wrinkle, or the
haby will be unconifortai)le. (3) The width from top to
bottom must neither l)e loo much nor too little; if too much
the movement of the legs will force it to wrinkle, and if
too little the lower edge will cut into the abdomen.
—7. E. B.
TO THE FIRST BIRTHDAY
II
6. Three Gertrude petticoats of a white ma-
terial. I used these only for dress-up occasions.
If a mother wanted to use them daily, she would
need at least half a dozen. These should be
twenty-two inches in length also.
7. Six outing-flannel nightgowns. These are
twenty-seven inches in length, to give warmth to
bare feet at night. Avoid nightgowns with
draw-strings at the feet, as they may restrict the
baby's movements and make him uncomfortable.
Describing a baby's nightgown as being warm,
reminds me of my friend without babies who
asked : "Why don't you make the nightgowns
of soft, lovely nainsook instead of that coarse
heavy outing flannel ?"
8. Two kimonos.
9. Several warm sacques — flannel or knitted.
These help to keep a baby at an even tempera-
ture when one lives in a drafty old house that
is always too warm or too cold.
10. Six white dresses. Size, six months. A
baby so soon outgrows the very tiny baby clothes
that it seems a waste of time, money, and energy
to make a small set and then a larger one in six
months. Tucks can be taken at the shoulder of
the six-months' dresses until the baby grows into
them.
These dresses should be twenty-two inches
long. The warmth a baljy is supposed to get
from very long clothes is not needed with warm
stockings and bootees. Long clothes restrict the
movement of the legs.
Make the wristbands of the dresses six inches
wide, and the neckbands twelve.
A dress with kimono sleeves has the advantage
of being easily ironed. However, after John
was eight months old, I found his lively getting
about soon tore these sleeves, while the set-in
sleeves remained intact.
Buttons and tapes should be used to fasten the
slips, but never pins. Can you imagine how cross
you would be if a well-meaning but all-powerful
person made you lie on a pin just because you
couldn't move or tell her what was the matter?
11. Two sleeping bags.* These bags insure a
protected baby at night and during out-of-door
naps, no matter how strenuously he kicks or how
cold the weather.
Eiderdown is a lovely material for them. I
felt that I could not afford to buy new material
for these bags, so I made one by sewing my two
baby blankets together, and another by cutting
an old eiderdown cape into shape.
Two bags are necessary to insure freshness if
the baby wears them at night.
* Cecilia Farwell, in Volume I., page 187. of "The Child
Welfare Manual," tells how to make these bags.
K.N.— 3
Such a bag, with sleeves and flaps to cover the
hands, a hood attached, and a flap that buttons
over the feet, makes an excellent coat.
12. Out-of-door garments consist of long draw-
ers of cotton or wool, or leggings, sweater, cap,
mittens, or the bag just mentioned.
13. Winter and summer clothing. A typical
winter outfit for indoors consists of a wool shirt,
wool hose, flannel petticoat, cotton dress, long
bootees, cotton diaper. The kimono or sacque
furnishes extra warmth when needed.
14. Diapers. Three dozen 18 by 36 inches;
and two dozen 22 by 44 inches.
Bulky materials should be avoided for diapers.
Large bunches of cloth constantly between the
legs tend to deform them. Cotton birdseye is a
good material.
The old way of folding the diaper leaves an
uncomfortable lump between the legs, keeps the
legs bent out and pulls at the front. A better
way is to fold the diaper and lap over the cor-
ners like a pair of drawers, pinning the upper
edges to each other and the vest and the lower
together and to the stockings. In this way the
diapers may conveniently be let down at the back
at tlie stool.
15. Summer clothing will vary with the section
of the country in which one happens to live. In
the warm southern States much less clothing will
be needed throughout the Summer, while in our
northern States there may be only a few very
warm days.
When these very warm days come, a diaper and
cotton dress are usually enough. Sometimes a
cotton shirt is needed. If there is evidence of
stomach trouble, the flannel band should be used
until the baby is well.
In choosing the baby's clothing, mothers must
use that good old standby, common sense, and
never follow a rule blindly. If the baby's hands
and feet are warm, his stools normal, if he looks
bright and happy, you can be pretty sure he has
on about the correct amount of clothing.
The question of clothing is tied up with the
child's physical development. He must have
clothes that are attractive but do not bind him.
When John was a year old, I made him a half
dozen pairs of dark blue chambray overalls, com-
ing just below the knee, that could be put on as
needed.
I often wonder if the custom of dressing chil-
dren up in the afternoon, and insisting that they
keep clean, is a wise one. It seems so foreign
to the natural tendencies of a child to remain
quiet enough to keep as clean as mothers would
like. Why not bathe them, and put on a clean
pair of overalls, and let them go on with the same
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play activities? Dressing children up and ask-
ing them to keep clean every afternoon always
seemed to me the imposition of an adult attitude
on the poor child. There are times when he can
be dressed up and be expected to keep clean.
Such times are at Sunday school, parties, and the
like. If you have nothing around your house
with which a child can get dirty, your equipment
is lacking. Where is your sand pile, water to
play with, and grass to roll on?
Shall I Have My Baby Circumcised?
When John was two days old, my nurse asked:
"Will you have John circumcised while you are
still in the hospital?"
I confessed I had not thought of it at all.
"Should I ?"
While a baby is small the operation is very easy.
If you have it done while your nurse is still with
you, the penis will heal before she leaves.
"Do you think it necessary?" I asked.
"It might be that your baby could get along
without circumcision. On the other hand, your
baby might be one of the number who fret for
months before anyone discovers that a tight fore-
skin is making all the trouble. The custom is
growing among the doctors to circumcise while
the child is still in the hospital, and thus obliter-
ate all possibility of future uncomfortable days."
Defects Noticed During the First Year
We all know the appearance of a bow-legged
child. Often this can be prevented by not allow-
ing the child to walk until his legs are strong
enough. If the initiative is left to a normal child,
there is no danger ; but we often get restless and
try to make a child walk before he is ready to
do so.
If there are indications of pains in the joints, a
mother should see a doctor immediately, to avoid
lameness of any kind.
Swinging a child by hands or feet is unforgiv-
able. Their little legs and arms can not stand
the strain. A child showing signs of having a
club foot should be taken to the physician im-
mediately. It seems that such things are more
easily corrected when the child is small.
Falls, of course, must be guarded against.
Usually a child falls more easily than an adult,
but once in a while falls are fatal, and therefore
we do not want to take chances on any falls. I
put gates to my porch and at the bottom and top
of my stairs. Then, when John was two years
old, having no fence around the yard, I had a
large space fenced in for his play-yard. It seems
that, in these days of the automobile and other
modern inventions, we mothers must be very care-
ful in keeping our children away from danger.
"His flesh is angels' flesh, all alive. All day, hetween his
three or four sleeps, he coos like a pigeon-house, sputters and
spurs and puts on his faces of importance; and when he
fasts, the little Pharisee fails not to sound his trumpet before
him. By lamplight he delights in shadows on the wall; by
daylight, in yellow and scarlet. Carry liim outdoors — he is
overpowered by the light and by the extent of natural objects,
and is silent. Then presently begins the use of his fingers,
and he studies power, the lesson of his race."
— Ralph Waldo Emerson.
THE COURSE OF TRAINING
LOOKING FORWARD THROUGH THE YEAR
I
To All Child-Lovers:
The keynote of The Home Kindergarten Manual is in this sentence
from WilHam Herbert Perry Faunce, president of Brown University :
"There are some ways in which we can play on an instrument and some ways in
which we can not. Instead of planning the instrument, we had better learn the stops.''
I believe that statement to be so important that I have put it on the title-page of
two books that I have written, and if I did not expect to repeat it to you more
than once I would put it on the title-page of this one.
You, or any mother, can learn to play on the beautiful instrument of a little
child's life, and evoke lovely music, if you understand the instrument on which
you are trying to play.
It is your child you need to study, not some elaborate work on pedagogy.
To me, the most wonderful fact in education is that you can trust the child's
own impulses and responses. These teach you what to teach him.
And what is this mysterious Child Study? Simply this. All there is to a
child's life is a series of situations and a series of responses to those situations.
If you will carefully notice how your child responds to each situation, from
these responses you will discover what are the best situations that you can
arrange for him. In other words, your principal work is to select your child's
sitnations. or experiences. This year, and every year, you must give him the
most wisely selected experiences, and he will largely educate himself. You
don't have to educate him. You don't even have to furnish him motive-power.
Your task is not to give his boat an engine, but to clear away the barnacles.
This simple preface suggests the first thing I would like to have you do,
namely: First, get yourself a note-book.
A diary or a small blank-book of any kind is enough. You will notice that
this is the first thing Mrs. Horn, our teacher for this year, recommends. Mrs.
Sies, too, who will take us at the third year, makes the same suggestion, and
part of her own first-year record is reprinted in this year's studies.
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What you put down this year may lie short and it may not seem important,
but it will do three things at least: It will enable you to compare your baby
with Mrs. Horn's baby; it will probably suggest some condition or action some
day that will be very useful, and — best of all — it will start this most necessary
habit, of trying to understand your child before you teach him.
Second, if you are an expectant mother, I suggest that you read first
"Educating the Baby Before it is Born."
Third. I would ask every mother to read Mrs. Horn's preliminary article,
"How I Learned to Take Care of My Baby." While she was at work upon her
main article, she prepared, from her own experience, this paper. It is not a
treatise on children's diseases nor an account of how to meet emergencies, but
just a straightforward story of what a mother needs to remember in order to
keep her baby happy and well.
Fourth, I suggest that you read next Mrs. Horn's "My First Year with
John." What you will like about Mrs. Horn's article is that, just as soon as
she has made a point, she follows it up with a "Practical Suggestion," show-
ing how she used that observation in training her baby. At the close of her
article is a "Chart of Child Study and Child Training for the First Year," based
on what she has been saying, which brings out, item by item, in tabulated form,
the point I made at the beginning: that every response a baby makes by mood
or motion suggests how you can arrange some experience that will enable him
to educate himself.
As you read the article just mentioned I would mark in the margins of
the pages whatever strikes your attention as good for further thought. And I
would do some of that further thinking right now. With her suggestions in
your mind, you may begin at once to be a good practicing mother.
You are, I hope, going to use Mrs. Horn's suggestions and the accom-
panying Chart every day. But you are now ready for more thorough reading
and study.
Fifth. I would read the rest of the material for this year — the three sec-
tions : "What to Expect This Year," "What to Do This Year," and "Summary
and Forecast." Then prepare your notebook for keeping a record of your baby's
progress. Now back to the Manual; take up "The First Year of a Baby's Life,"
"The First Three Months," and "My Baby Month by Month" in sections, choos-
ing from each that which corresponds to the age of your baby, and as he grows
older study carefully the next divisions.
Sixth, in the same manner study "My First Year with John," "Some Begin-
nings," and their companion articles. To help you I have prepared:
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A READING JOURNEY
For Things to Do with the Babv
'My First Year zvitli John" "Some Beginnings"
Companion Articles
I. Physical Development
II. Nerves
III. Sense-Life
IV. Curiosity
V. Sociability
VI. Imitation
VII. Emotions
VIII. Habits
IX. Memory
X. Speech
XI. Reasoning
XII. Discipline
XIII. Summary
II. Assisting Body-Control "How I Learned to Take
Care of My Baby"
I. Helping the Senses
V. The Baby's Sociability
III. The Emotional Life
IV. Habit-Forming
"Plays and Games"
"Finger-Plays and Other
Action-Plays"
VI. The Baby's Outlook
"Getting Acquainted with
Tom and Sarah"
Finally, I would, toward the close of the first year in your child's life, read
again the article, "Getting Acquainted with Tom and Sarah." This is just an
informal summary, in story-form, of what has been learned and done during
the year, with a slight forecast to the second year.
You will note, at the end of this year's material, two Indexes. These are
for your convenience in helping you to find instantly any subject that has been
treated or any occupation that has been recommended during the year.
William Byron Forbush.
"The teacher can not begin his work by educating the child,
for the simple reason that he has no clue to the operation.
He must begin by observing the child, and then, when he
knows his material, he can with some hope of success go to
work." — C. Hanford Henderson,
MY FIRST YEAR WITH JOHN
Or, Watching a Baby Grow
BY
MRS. MADELINE DARRAGH HORN
Of all the interesting problems I have worked
on, the most interesting one has been the watch-
ing of John's development. It seemed that every
day something new was evident. And I found
that, after reading what had already been dis-
covered about the way a child grows, the more
interesting and intelligible my problem became to
me. I saw that it saved much pain to know how
other mothers had met similar problems before
I had mine to meet with John. This was es-
pecially true with the physical side of his life,
because such problems were often perplexing.
I found the records I attempted to keep of
John's development helpful. These records con-
sisted principally of the ordinary happenings set
down with patience and accuracy. I tried to make
a complete picture of John's development, but I
think I attempted too much. It would be better
to make a more careful study of one trait ; mem-
ory, for instance, or imagination.
There are a few records that all of us should
keep. The weight-chart is one. This is necessary
because it is the best check we have on the baby's
health.
An accurate record should be kept of all acci-
dents and sicknesses. Such records may explain
peculiar tendencies in later childhood that would
otherwise remain unexplainable.
One habit that helped me in keeping such
records was to have pencil and paper always
handy.
While watching John grow I realized the truth
in Fiske's "Meaning of Infancy." Fiske said,
you remember, that the reason the animal is
born so near to his perfection is because he has
not far to go, and he can make most of the jour-
ney himself. But the baby, who is born so much
more helpless than the animals, has a great
journey to take, and must have time for a long
and slow development. I saw how much more
essential is the place of a human mother than that
of an animal mother. Having learned the many
essentials for living, she must protect and teach
the little life that he in his turn may know and
enjoy all that she is now knowing and enjoying.
I. His Physical Development
It seemed that from the very beginning John
tended to make movements of some sort. At first
he moved his arms in a jerky way, so that he
was quite likely to give his face a disagreeable
"hitch." The third day he knocked the pan of
water off the table where the nurse was bathing
him. Of course, such movements as these had no
conscious effort behind them. Such movements
continued throughout both his first and second
years.*
He learned in time to turn from back to side,
from side to back, and later to roll over on his
stomach : he wiggled his head in all sorts of ways,
he tried to lift his head up. and finally, when his
back grew strong, he could lift himself to a sit-
ting position. At first he had to be propped up
when sitting alone and even then could not always
keep his balance. But finally the pillow was re-
moved and John could sit alone. He worked his
fingers and toes with many fantastic movements,
even accomplishing the feat of putting his toes in
his mouth. When bright and interesting play-
things appeared, he forgot his fingers and toes in
the joys of new toys.
His little fingers seemed to develop wonder-
fully. He could pick up pins, bits of paper, and
quite to my consternation, much enjoyed putting
them in his mouth. It took some time for him to
find the location of his mouth, but when this was
accomplished, all sorts of objects found their way
unerringly to that destination.
After he learned to sit alone, he learned to bal-
ance by physical feats that would be hard for me
to accomplish. Sitting flat on the floor he would
bend his head over until it touched his toes. He
did not do this once but many times. He could
* How different this is irom yourself! Your activities are
for a purpose; the baby*s pleasure is in the activity itself.
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balance himself with his hands and feet on the
floor, bend his head down, and gaze backward
between his legs.
Practical Suggestions
He liked to be "roughed." His father and I
would roll him over and over, much to his delight.
I tried to incite crawling later by making him
lie on his stomach and holding my hands for a
push-board for his feet. I had been told that
this would help John to crawl. He ignored my
teaching by sliding around on his buttocks. This
t3'pe of crawling lasted a couple of months and
then he began the usual way of crawling on his
hands and feet. After he learned this he seemed
to need no incentive to crawl, but was cross when
his crawling was interfered with.
It seemed that I had a twofold mission in this
crawling. I had to see that he was dressed prop-
erly and that he had a safe place in which to
crawl, that is, that there were no pins on the floor.
I found the kiddy-coop helpful. When I had not
had time to go over the floor, I could put him in
his kiddy-coop with its canvas bottom and feel
that he was safe.
By the end of the first year he could easily
stand, holding to an object, and in the same way
take a few steps.
II. I am Careful of John's Nerves
John's nervous system seemed very sensitive
to extremes of any kind, be it a noise, a jerk, or
anything unusual. By the end of his first year I
had learned a number of things that I should
never do if I wanted him to be a calm and happy
baby. Luckily, I had been told that the hearty
laugh that followed tickling a baby was not
normal, so John escaped that agony. In fact,
abnormal laughing for any reason is not good.
Neither is the laughing spell which is too long.
One day I tore a long strip of muslin which
made John cry lustily. His cry came from the
unusual strain on the nerves of the ear.
I soon found out that John's sleeping time
should not be disturbed, even to show him off to
admiring friends, if I wished to keep him well.
I found that too much handling, even in his
waking hours, made him irritable. We have all
seen parents throwing their children high in the
air, or boisterously jumping them on their knees.
This seems to be too strenuous for the baby only
a year old.
Practical Suggestion
I found one general rule that seemed good to
follow the first year. This is it: to let John lead
as quiet a life as possible and only to give him
what might seem excessive playtime when he took
the initiative in wanting it himself.
This rule remained excellent for the second
year. He could do many more things during his
second year and his initiative was also greater.
By following his lead I did not overtax his nerves
and I still provided a sufficient variety of play for
his mental development.
III. John's Sense-Life Develops
The sense-development seemtd very important
during the first and second years. What could
John learn if he couldn't learn to see, or to hear,
or to touch, or to smell, or to taste? It seemed
that one of my chief purposes was to see that John
was given the fullest opportunity to exercise his
senses.
It was clear from the beginning that no one
sense developed alone. If John learned to know
his red ball by sight, he also learned to know it by
touch. If he learned to recognize the sound of
the piano, he also learned to know the instrument
when he saw it.
At birth it was apparent that the organs of sight
were imperfect, and that they would have to de-
velop before John could see things accurately. At
birth his eyes were very sensitive to light. In
fact, I am still careful to protect them from
strong sunlight. At first his eye-movements were
poorly coordinated. One eye might look in while
the other looked out. Sometimes a tendency this
way persists until the second year. If it does,
an eye-physician should be consulted.
His range of vision was limited at first. After
he could control the turning of his head his range
of vision became much larger.
At four months old he seemed searching for
a rattle that had dropped out of sight beside him.
I was sure that it was the rattle that he was
searching for, because of the look of satisfaction
when I restored it to him. This shows the help of
the advent of memory in his sense-development.
Practical Suggestion
Development of the Sense of Sight. — During
the early months, John had all he could do to
learn to see the faces about him and the rooms
in which he lived. Of course, he never learned
to see them perfectly, but for that matter, who of
us sees all that is in a room, even when we stand
in the center with the conscious effort of seeing
all?
Toward the end of the first year I began to
give him a few materials to see. He had balls of
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different colors, a brass teapot, a copper teapot,
etc.
Development of the Sense of Touch. — The
sense of touch seemed one of the senses John first
used. Of course, the sense of touch aided him
greatly in finding his food when he was just a few
tla>s old. Throughout the first year, one of his
chief joys was the handling of all sorts of ob-
jects. It seemed to be a sure way he had of com-
ing to know a new thing.
As with many babies, every object John got
hold of was put into his mouth. This has been
explained, by saying that the sense of touch in the
mouth and lips is higlily developed, and there-
fore is more satisfying to a child than merely
feeling the object with the hands.
Playthings for the Sense of Touch. — The ma-
terials I used at the end of the first year and
during the second year did not vary much. Of
course, I had to be careful always to avoid
sharp objects, pointed ones, breakable ones, those
painted, or those that were too heavy for him to
handle. As a tiny baby he could handle only
rattles, rings of various sorts, soft dolls or stuffed
animals, balls, and the like.
A trip to the toy-stores suggests that there are
toys galore for children, but close inspection
shows that there are reasons why most of them
should be discarded. Often they are so cheap
that a young baby soon breaks them. Sometimes
they have small particles in them that might es-
cape and be swallowed by a child. Examples of
this type are : celluloid rattles filled with pebbles
or bullets; glass eyes in dolls or animals; whistles
in rubber dolls ; pins in toys. Others have sharp
edges that hurt a baby ; still others are made with
machinery that pinches. I remember a doll rid-
ing on an automobile that was given to John that
was always pinching his fingers. There are tops
made with springs that get loose and catch in the
baby's hands. Many toys are colored with paint
that can be sucked off, and hard toys with which
the baby can hit himself should be avoided.
These are the commercial toys I found best
suited to John during his first year : a rattle, of the
right kind; soft stuffed animals with no loose
parts (embroidered eyes can be used in place of
beads) ; a soft "cuddly" doll; a soft ball (I found
a tennis ball pleased John) ; a teddy bear; and a
hard red ring that I bought at a harness shop.
The toys that he liked best were the ordinary
articles I found about the house. For instance,
from the kitchen : spoons, the tea-strainer, pans,
pot-lids, an old bell, muffin-pans and other home
things, such as a white ivory powder-box, a
bright hairpin-box witli something inside to rattle,
and a large bolt.
The following are the materials I gave him as
lie grew older: a sand-pile, a box of stones (too
large to be swallowed), a box of shells (also
large ones), cloth of different textures, fur, velvet,
silk, linen, cotton, wool ; wood to handle and
pound ; large pieces of cloth to fold and put away;
old garters to fasten and unfasten; something to
button and unbutton ; shoes to lace.
John's Hearing Develops. — Authorities disagree
as to whether a baby can hear at birth or not.
This is not especially important. We mothers
know that we must avoid loud sounds throughout
babyhood. The loud slamming of a door or the
ripping of a piece of cloth would make John cry.
As these unusual sounds did irritate him I avoided
them as much as possible.
I tried to let him hear sweet voices and much
music. Some mothers have said that music
quieted their babies. Although John loved the
music very much, when he did cry it was for
something like his bottle or a change of position,
and no matter how lovely the melody, it would
not suffice.
At three months he would sway back and forth
in time to the music. At a year old his brother
Bobby would dance a funny little dance, hopping
up and down in time to the music. They both
loved to sing, even in the first year. Their sing-
ing was the making of queer, funny noises with-
out any tune or time, but which gave them much
satisfaction.*
IV. John is Curious About Many Things
There seemed to be nothing that John saw that
he was not curious about. He wanted to handle
everything. He not only handled things with his
hands, but also felt them with his lips and tongue.
It was quite essential that John handled only
clean objects. Curiosity has been defined as a
tendency to find out the qualities of an object
through its manipulation, either physically or
mentally. I saw, of course, a baby's curiositv
is entirely physical.
Although this is a very aggravating tendency
when, for instance, the magazines are dragged
off the magazine-stand again and again, it is a
most necessary tendency. It makes the baby de-
sire to learn about everything. Where would
any of us get if we were not first imbued with a
desire to learn?
Practical Suggestion
The satisfying of this curiosity is one of the
chief methods of play during the first year. Any
* For a list of tbe songs and pieces used by Mrs. Horn,
see page 62.
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baby can spend many minutes exploring the pots I remember, with much chagrin, the times I have
and pans or examining objects selected by mother yelled at John or handled him roughly, all because
and collected in the tray of the high-chair. of my own nerves.
V. John Likes People
Mothers have claimed very early days for the
first smile — a sign of pleasure with another's
company. It seemed to me that John smiled by
the second month. After the first smile any chirp-
ing noise, wag of the head, in fact any pleasing
movement, brought forth many smiles. By the
third month John had laughed out loud. (It
might be wise to note that the nervous laugh
following tickling is not the contented laugh of
sociability.)
By the end of the first year there were many
evidences that John liked company. He would
crawl to the person in the room to be taken up.
He seemed well satisfied when played with, and
showed it by funny "gooing" sounds. He would
begin to try to imitate sounds older people made,
showing his desire to hold up his end of the con-
versation.
I seemed to be the first and most-sought-for of
John's companions. This is easily explained. It
was I who satisfied most of his primitive longings:
I fed him, I kept him clean, I kept him warm, and
I played with him. The people he liked to be
with next were other members of the family. His
liking for strangers was not evident in the first
year. I have heard other mothers say that their
babies went quite readily to strangers. All moth-
ers seem to agree that the second year shows a
change of attitude in the fact that their children
like to run away to strange places.
Practical Suggestions
Satisfying this longing for company can be car-
ried so far that it is detrimental to both mother
and baby. The baby, if given too much atten-
tion, decides that the mother's sole purpose in life
is to play with him. And if she starts to wash the
dishes, for instance, there immediately follows a
yell. Consequently, for her own good, the mother
must not permit herself to become a slave to the
child's desire for companionship. Too much
companionship hurts the baby because he does
not get the opportunity to learn to find his own
amusements and to enjoy himself. We all know
people who are imhappy if left alone for a few
hours. They seem to lack any means within
themselves for entertainment.
There are a few things to avoid in the home
if one desires that the social atmosphere for the
children be a good one. We mothers must avoid
loud yelling of commands, and crude shovings.
■VI. John Begins to Imitate
The ability to imitate is to all of us an impor-
tant means of learning. For the baby it seems to
be the chief way in which he learns. During the
latter part of the first year John attempted to imi-
tate sounds and movements that attracted his at-
tention. Through imitation we taught him to wave
"by-by," to throw kisses, to smell flowers, to brush
his hair, to wash his face, to attempt to say words,
etc. Even moods were imitated. If he fell and
I was quick enough to laugh before he began to
cry. although his face might be puckered ready
for a weep, he would change it into a smile.
While I saw a few instances in which he imitated
a mood, most of his imitations were confined to
the physical kind.
It is quite evident that if we are going to en-
courage imitation we should have good models.
Practical Suggestions
I found a few rules that seemed sensible even
for the first year: (i) I found my model should
always be the same, to avoid confusing John. In
teaching him to smell a flower, I always went
through the same motions. I had a flower at
hand, said, "Smell," and then held it to John's
nose. (2) If I was consciously trying to teach
him to imitate some act, I let only a small interval
of time elapse between periods of teaching him.
When I wanted to teach him "Pat-a-cake," I did
not teach him one day and then let a month elapse
before trying again. His memory would not be
strong enough to hold the image for so long a
time. I taught him "Pat-a-cake" several times
daily until he had learned it. The learning gave
him such joy that he seemed proud to be able to
respond with clapping his hands whenever I said
"Pat-a-cake." (3) For an older child, I would
add, do not tire him. As for the one-year-old,
he simply stops when he gets tired and can not be
induced to go on. This gives him means within
himself of protection against his own strenuous
activity. (4) I always rewarded his attempts to
imitate, if only with a smile or word of approval.
(5) When John began to imitate large movements
like walking, I gave him plenty of space in which
to move about.
Suggestion aids imitation greatly. A mother
can so influence a one-year-old that certain physi-
cal positions in seeing certain objects will always
evoke certain responses. For instance, being laid
in his bed at night meant it was time for John
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to go to asleep. Being put in his kiddy-coop
meant that he was to play there by himself. Be-
ing put on his chair meant that he was to have his
stool.
VII. John's Emotional Life
Sounds of anger come very early. When John
was three months old he was sick and conse-
quently received a great deal of attention. When
this attention was withdrawn upon his recovery
he showed real signs of anger. Again, when he
wanted his bottle and was given a plaything in-
stead he threw his plaything on the floor and was
as angry as he could be. During this first year
and through his second year these fits of temper
passed quickly and were of no harm to anyone
but himself, but in the third year, when his anger
took the form of pushing over his baby brother, it
had to be curbed with a strong hand.
Although John as a baby was funny to look at
when he grew red with anger and threw some-
thing with all his might, still I could think of no
adult who would consciously incite such anger for
the fun of seeing John get mad. Our negative
emotions are hard enough to control without un-
necessarily making them a customary thing.
John SIiozvs Signs of Being Afraid. — There
seem to be a few things of which every baby
is afraid. P.sychologists have enumerated such
things, as large dark moving objects, the feeling
of fur, loud noises, etc. The two instances I had
of John's showing signs of fear were these : one
was when a thin smoke began to fill the sitting-
room, coming from something which was burning
in the kitchen. When John saw the smoke com-
ing through the door he cried and ran to my arms.
This fear came from no knowledge of a past ex-
perience. As it seemed to be innate within the
child I called it an instinctive fear. John's other
sign of fear was when he felt that he was going
to fall. Unlike the smoke-experience, fear did
not arise the first time this occurred, but one fall
off the bed was sufficient to arouse fear whenever
that sensation seemed imminent.
Bobby soon learned to be afraid of his older
brother. His brother could not come near him
without Bobby's yelling to some older person to
come and protect him. This warning cry always
reminded me of the funny noise the hen gives her
chickens when there is a hawk nearby.
I felt that fears of these kinds were quite
necessary to the babies' welfare. It was their
way of keeping them from being hurt.
I tried to avoid exciting fear unnecessarily. It
is an unpleasant emotion for adults. And how
much worse must be its reaction on a little baby.
VIII. Forming Habits the First Year
Did you ever wonder how we would manage
to go through an.y day and reach the evening
smiling if we had to stop and think how to take
each step? And did you ever consider what in
our mental make-up relieves- us of consciously
planning these details? Doubtless you have, and
know before I say it, that it is habit. Habit, de-
fined quite simply, is the ability, gained from past
experiences, to perform an act without the aid of
conscious effort. What toiling, cumbersome crea-
tures we would be without it !
Habits' during the first year are mainly of the
physical sort and are almost wholly dependent on
the mother for their development. It is she who
establishes them or prevents -them, and insists
upon the regularity of the good ones.
Practical Suggestions
I found during the first year of John's life that
his habits were chiefly tied up with four processes,
namely :
1. Sleeping
2. Eating
3. Cleanliness
4. Habits of elimination.
The following rules I laid down in regard to
John's habits, and followed unless something
beyond my control interfered. This seldom
happened.
I. His naps in the daytime, and his sleeping
hours at night, were at the same time each day. If
his afternoon nap were encroaching on his feed-
ing time, I gently woke him up. By not allowing
him to sleep longer than usual, he was ready for
his bedtime at night. This procedure gave me
a few hours I could count on as mine in which to
have a time of relaxation from the baby. It
would surprise, you to know how soon John be-
came a regular clock.
■ 2. His food was given at the same time each
day without a variance of fifteen minutes. John
soon proved to be a clock in this respect too.
When feeding time came, he began to show signs
of restlessness. Discontentment with this rigid
regularity will come only if the baby is not getting
enough to eat. This, of course, is an immediate
problem for your physician.
Habits as to what to eat can be established in
the first year. If a mother never begins the cus-
tom of feeding a baby bits from the table, he will
not expect it. It certainly is not good for any
baby's diet. If sugar is used not at all or very
scantily, a mother will never have to refuse the
insistent demands of her child for more sugar.
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3. I gave John a bath and put on clean cloth-
ing daily. Once in a great while a day came when
Jolm must miss his bath. It was always a rest-
less day. I was glad it was, because it indicated
that John was forming a habit of wishing to feel
clean each day, and that was exactly what I
wanted.
4. I put John on his stool the same time each
day, for these reasons; This regularity helped
prevent constipation; I saved myself much dis-
agreeable labor through the use of his chair.
Having a stated time to do this permitted no
lapse of memory on my part, and I could not say
at the end of a day, "I can't remember whether
baby had a stool to-day or not."
Tlutmb-Sucking. — The first year of a baby's
life is the time to stop this very harmful habit.
Watching my two babies has convinced me of
this. \\'itli John I noticed that this habit was be-
coming stronger instead of disappearing at the
end of the first year. When at that time I began
to break the habit, I found the mistake I had
made. / had not rcaliced that to permit a habit to
ronfiniie for several months, even when the habit
luas not very noticeable, meant that that habit
zvould be z'cry difficult to break. I put thumb-
stalls on the guilty fingers, tried covering the
hand with a whole mitten, put on adhesive tape,
talked, threatened, and to this day — John is now
two and a half — his fingers go to his mouth as he
goes to sleep. I learned my lesson. When John's
brother Bob, at the age of three months, showed
a tendency to put his fingers in his mouth. I
immediately put on thumb-stalls. It took three
months to break him completely, but it was time
well spent.
A woman who had had five children asked why
I worried over John's sucking his thumb. "All
my children," said she, "sucked their thumbs until
they were three ; then I broke them easily by
talking to them." Don't let any mother of the
past generation convince you of the wisdom or
success of such a procedure. We, as mothers,
wish to give our children the best possible physi-
cal equipment. Who of us likes to see a big child
running about with his thumb in his mouth? It
intimates tliat somebody's mother was careless or
ignorant.
If this habit has already been established, NOW
is the time to break it. It will mean a crying baby
for a few days, and a worn-out mother, but it
will pay in the end by giving added comfort to '
both.
As for pacifiers — they are dirty, inelegant, un-
necessary, and harmful. The continual use of
them deforms the mouth; also teeth, nose, and
throat may be affected. A baby does not even
desire them unless the haliit is allowed to be
formed.
A child often sucks his thumb because he has
nothing else to do. Therefore, it devolves on
us mothers to see that we do not leave our babies
after they need mental development without some-
thing to satisfy that need. If I wished John to
sit in his cab happily for a time, I gave him some-
thing with which to play. If I wanted him to
play in his kiddy-coop, I gave him things with
which to play. A bright copper coffee-pot in-
variably excited his senses of sight and touch, and
even of hearing, when he hit it with his hand, and
left no desire for thumb-sucking.
Holding the Baby. — Another habit that I found
should be avoided the first year, was holding John
too much. Monday was always more or less a
disappointment to John because mother could not
hold him as much as the family had on Sunday.
John liked to be where I was. But I found that
John was more comfortable, and I could work
better, by giving him playthings to play with on
the floor. More physical development can be at-
tained through movements on the floor than in the
more or less cramped position on a mother's lap.
Rocking a baby to sleep is the same type of
habit. I never began this with John, so never
had to break the habit. The time after supper or
dinner, as you happen to call it in your house-
hold, really belongs to the husband who has been
away all day. The baby has had his share of
the mother's company and at this time comes the
father's turn. A mother's arms are not the most
comfortable cradle. What could be a sweeter
way to put baby to sleep than to make him all
comfortable and clean and then lay him in a bed
equally fresh and sweet.
The second year brings its own problems, its
own habit-formations. So let's establish the good
habits the first year, that we may at least begin
the second year with a good start.
IX. Can John Remember During His First
Year?
During the first month John came to recognize
the feel of the nipple of his bottle as it touched
his lips. He soon knew my face and the way I
held him ; and in a few months knew all the
faces of our immediate household. He showed
delight in going to his parents; this was replaced
by reluctance when strangers wanted to take him.
\\'hen taken to explore a new room, he evidenced
unfamiliarity by staring about. When eight
months old, he visited a strange home, and, of
course, had a strange crib for his bed. He pro-
tested against the crib, room, and people with loud
shrieks. Only my holding him and reassuring
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him with my voice until he fel! asleep comforted
him.
Psychologists seem to disagree as to just what
memory is. But as I watched John during his
first year, there was no doubt in my mind as to the
kind of memory he possessed at that time. His
memory consisted in being familiar with all sorts
of objects that he had a chance to taste, feel,
smell, hear, etc. I know we would all agree that
. such a thought as this would never occur to him :
"Oh, yes ! I remember seeing an apple yesterday
for the first time !" However, by becoming fami-
liar with all the homely objects about the house
— faces, clocks, beds, dogs, chairs, cat, rattle— he
was storing up memory-images that would be
used constantly. By his third year, he could con-
sciously remember a ferry-boat he had ridden on
only once when twenty months old. When seeing
a picture of a ferry-boat at the age of three he
said, "Daddy and I rode on a boat like that once."
I don't believe there is anything I could or
should have done to help John's memory that first
year. So many new and wonderful things just
naturally forced themselves into his notice daily
that he had quite all he could manage.
X. We are Anxious for John to Begin to
Talk
At about eight months old John began an in-
cessant babbling which seemed to prophesy that
he would soon talk. We were very anxious to
have him reach the stage where he could say a
few words. We did not realize that we could
really have helped John at this time to learn to
talk. We just listened and soon, to our dismay,
the babbling almost ceased and real talking did
not come till John was almost two years old.
Howeyer, the average baby begins to talk some
time near the age of a year and a half.
Practical Suggestions
When the babbling stage of talking came to
Bobby I outlined a few methods by which I could
help him.
First, I found that I could get the baby to as-
sociate a few of his babbling sounds with real
objects. There seem to be a few words that all
babies say at the very first which have no mean-
ing to them but which are really words to the
adult. The two most common of these words are
"dada" and "by-by." By saying "daddy" and
pointing to Bobby's father each time he said
"dada" his word "dada" soon had meaning for
him and soon developed into a queer pronuncia-
tion of "daddy." And by always using the word
"by-by" in connection with the departure of a
person and the waving of a hand, this word came
to have meaning to him.
Second, one of the best things a mother can do
toward the end of a first year is to give the child
meanings of words even though he c'an not pro-
nounce them. I found I could do this with both
John and Bobby by pointing to an object and
clearly saying its name. It seems easier for a
child to acquire nouns at first.
Third, I found that the easiest words for John
to acquire at first were very short words and
words with a repetition of syllables, as "mamma,"
"daddy," "by-by."
Fourth, I decided it was best to avoid trying
to teach the word unless the object about which
we were talking were near at hand. It seemed
too much to expect John to recall the word by
using his memory.
XI. The Basis of Reasoning Begins with
John
The ability to reason, as we adults think of it.
did not seem to exist in John's first year. The
building up of concepts is essential to reasoning;*
and many associations must be made before the
concepts can be built up. A few words defining
what we mean by "concept" will make sure that
we are all talking about the same thing. We have
a "concept" of anything when we can place it in
its class, because we know the characteristics that
define that special thing. The concept "man" to
us adults means a certain shaped object with
arms, legs, head, etc., while to the baby the con-
cept "man" means only what his father looks like
to him. As more men come within the baby's
experience he gradually has the same concept for
"man" that an adult has.
It seemed to me that John was beginning to
make the associations leading up to correct con-
cepts during his first year. He was comparing
my face with that of his grandmother, with that
of the maid, and with those of the neighbors that
he saw quite often. Such comparisons were the
means of his forming a correct concept of the
word "face."
.\nother example is this : John must some day
learn the concept "doll." "Doll" at first, to John,
meant his rag-doll. It was soft, it was a nice size
to hold in his arms, and it was something he liked
to take to bed with him. The coming of his- rub-
ber doll enlarged his experience. It looked some-
• In other words, John did not come fitted out with a
lot of pre-conceived or pre-experienced notions of his own.
.All he has had have been a lot of vague experiences, and
he is making his notions out of his experiences, building
them together, as Mrs. Horn suggests, until they become
sound, tested ideas of facts.
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what like his rag-doll, it was soft, but it was not
so big and it made a squeaking noise when
squeezed. Later on, he acquired another doll that
also had eyes and ears and nose, was a little bit
soft, but woi-e clothes that could be taken off and
put on. So John's concept for the word "doll"
grew and grew over a period of years. Although
the building up of the concept took a number
of years, still we see that the 'beginning of his
associations began as soon as he found out about
his rag-doll.
Practical Suggestion
I found that I must be careful not to form as-
sociations that I did not want to continue to exist.
For instance, I found that it would not be fair to
John to form the association of taking him up
when he cried, and then expecting him not to cry
when I could not take him up.
XIL John Seems to Have a Mind of His
Own
One instance occurred after John had been sick
a few days. Because of his illness he had been
permitted to rest on my lap at times he was not
ordinarily allowed to do so. When the time
came again to use his crib, he voiced his objec-
tions by loud and prolonged yelling.
At another time, an irregularity in the house-
hold permitted his staying up an hour later than
usual. The next night, he insisted his bedtime to
be at least this one hour later, and would not have
objected to making it several hours later. His
health demanded that he be put to bed at his
usual hour. It was done, but with kicking and
weeping.
As I watched such instances with John, certain
characteristics seemed obvious during this first
year. They were as follows :
1. The things on which John set his heart to the
extent of weeping were most often things that in-
volved the companionship of someone, usually
myself, who satisfied his small needs.
2. It seemed to me that he was easily diverted.
His one crying spell, when he wanted to be held,
seemed quite enough to convince him that it could
not be, so thereafter he appeared quite happy to
be put immediately in his crib.
I tried to make one ruling for John and myself
in regard to such manifestations. The dis-
cipline was truly as much mine as John's. For
instance, it would have been much easier for me
to continue holding John that one hour he spent
crying so hard than to ignore him. My rule- was
this : To allow John to have the things he wanted
unless they interfered with his own well-being or
that of some one in the family. When a time
came that he wanted what he should not have, I
just let him "cry it out."
I might say that I have found it helpful to think
of our expression of "will power" as the ability to
fix one's attention on a goal for a period of time.
Considering it in this way, I always thought of a
so-called "will power" as an asset to John, rather
than something to be "broken" or dreaded — the
attitude I have heard grandmothers take.
It seemed to me that the first thing to remem-
ber when John was a tiny baby was that, if I
played my part of the game fair and square, there
would be no need of discipline. That is, if I
never rocked John to sleep, I would never have to
punish him if he were put to bed unrocked. How-
ever, when he began to crawl, and consequently
began to meet situations that were new to him, I
found that there was need of discipline of some
sort. When he found the magazines under the
library table, he wanted to pull them off and tear
them to pieces. I tried saying, "No, no," but it
seemed to mean nothing to John. I solved the
problem by giving his hands a slight stinging tap
and by also saying, "No, no." When the words
"No, no" came to mean. "You must not touch it,"
to John, the saying of the words without the tap
was sufficient to cause him to leave the thing
alone, unless it held some striking attraction for
him.
Practical Suggestions
I followed the principle of always making some-
thing disagreeable follow the thing John should
not do and something pleasant follow the doing
of something of which I approved.
I saw no time in the first year in which such a
thing as a whipping could be justified. How could
anyone expect a small baby to know enough to do
anything so wrong that it would deserve a whip-
ping? We can be sure that, when a baby is
whipped, the one taking care of him either has
an ungovernable temper, or knows nothing about
the development of a baby.
Xni. John's Stock-in-Trade at the End of
the First Year
The development of John from his first year
into his second year was so gradual that only by
marking the calendar could I definitely say that
his first year had ended, and that lys second year
had begun. However, I could look back to John's
first month and see that he had made wonderful
progress. At first, he seemed a little bundle of
impulses, reflexes, and instincts. Very soon, sen-
sations reached his brain and he began to perceive
the life about him. With these first sensations
and perceptions began his memory. At first, his
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memory was only the mark left by these sensa- in all conceivable ways, making himself strong
tions on his brain. Later, he began to form real for walking and handling new objects. He was
memory-images. Having memory to use, greatly uttering queer babbling sounds in preparation for
facilitated his mental development. Now he could his talking of the second year. I found this year
compare his past and present experiences, of the time to form good physical habits. I found it
course, very crudely. I saw him use imitation a time when he was forming many associations.
a great deal as a means to learn. He was most I found him all ready and eager to begin the
active. He moved his hands and legs and body second year. *
* The main landmarks of an average baby's development are usually somewhat as follows:
First three months Silence, sleep and semi-darkness, with reflexive movements when awake
Third to fifth month Sense-play alone
From the fifth month Susceptible to gentle play with others
From the sixth month Active handling-period
From the ninth month Combination of arm and leg-movements, imitation of others, gestures, understanding of a few
words, endeavors to creep.
Toward the twelfth month.. More varied play, creeping, climbing and perhaps walking, ability to pick out objects in
pictures. — IV. B. F.
A CHART OF CHILD STUDY AND CHILD TRAINING
FOR THE FIRST YEAR
BASED ON "MY FIRST YEAR WITH JOHN," BY MRS. MADELINE DARRAGH HORN
THE BABY'S RESPONSES
He is ever busy in apparently purposeless move-
ments.
He acts as if he wanted to move about.
He begins to focus and direct his eyes.
He grasps things and puts them in his mouth.
He is sensitive to noises and rhythms.
He not only handles things, but seems to like to
search and find other things.
He likes to be with people.
He imitates.
He is easily frightened.
Whatever he has done a number of times he
tends to repeat easily and constantly.
He babbles as if he would like to talk.
He likes to do some things that involve destruc-
tiveness.
WHAT THEY SUGGEST
If we put various objects in his way his attention
may be caught and he may gradually learn to
grasp and handle them.
If we push against his legs we may stimulate a
creeping motion.
Bright or glittering- objects placed close to him
may help.
If we select a variety of safe objects he will thus
learn their shape, feeling, size, and weight.
We may let him take articles that will make a
noise if pounded together, and we may sing
and play on the piano to hiin.
We may put things in boxes and drawers and on
trays for him, and place things just beyond
his reach without moving.
We should let him watch us at our work, and
should talk to him.
We should always do what he may safely imitate
slowly and in the same way, so he may copy.
We should be careful not to startle him.
We must be careful never to let him do more
than once what we do not desire him to do
often. We should drill him in doing the right
thing regularly.
We may use the name of a person or thing over
and over, until he at least understands it,
and may try to say it. If we can use one
of his own syllables that has a real meaning,
so much the better.
We may make him like what we wish by seeing
that doing it always has an agreeable result,
and vice versa.
Tlu
'A CH4RT OF CHILD DEVELOPMENT
FIRST YEAR (From Birth to the First Birthday)
references suggest helpful expUiiuitory passages in "The Child Welfare Manual"
PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT
[I. 204-211]
Movements: at birth, undirected; 2d month, hand
to mouth, Hfting head: 3d month, supporting
head, conscious grasping: 3d to 4th months,
sitting efforts; Sth month, handHng objects;
6fh to 9th months, sitting unsupported; 6th
to 7th months, standing efforts; 7th to Sth
months, creeping; 9th to 10th months, stand-
ing; 12th to 18th months, walking [I. 210],
In general, motion centers first about the
mouth, then the hands and feet, first to get
things where he can observe them, and then
to get to where they are.
Proportions: at birtli, head great, chest small,
abdomen prominent, arms and legs short,
legs bowed [I. 204],
Weight: at birth 5 to 10 pounds; average 7 to
7J4: boys heavier than girls; at 1 year, boys
1 pound heavier [I. 204],
Height: at birth, 16 to 22 inches; at 1 year, aver-
age 27 inches [I. 382].
Respiration: abdominal, 40 down to 30. Pulse,
150 down to 120, with variations [I. 283].
Temperature: 99 down to 98 [I. 204, 284].
Dentition: 1st teeth, Sth to 9th months; 2d group,
Sth to 12th months; 3d, 12th to 18th months
[I. 209],
PHYSICAL SUGGESTIONS
[I. 177-220]
Sleep: to 3d month. 22 hours; to 6th month, 20
hours; to 12th month, 16 hours [I. 186-188,
203].
Hygienic protection: furnish cleanliness, fresh air,
sunlight, warmth [I. 188-192, 194, 203]; keep
regular records of temperature, weight,
height, food, bowel movements, etc. [I. 204-
211]; shortened garments for creeping, 6tli
month [I. 189, 190].
Food: mother's milk, if possible [I. 166-169], fol-
lowed by prescriptions of mi.xed foods bv
physician [I. 177-186].
Exercise: change position from 1st day; seat the
child upright with support, 3d to 4th months;
offer toys to encourage stretching, reaching,
grasping, leg and trunk motions, and creep-
ing [I. 190, 207], 4th month; give standing
exercises from Sth month [I. 209] ; help
walking, from 11th month [I. 210],
Habits: all the above with regularity [II. 10];
avoid sucking habits, pacifiers, emotional
tricks [I. 206, 209].
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MENTAL DEVELOPMENT
[I. 169-171]
Sense development: sense of contact and tem-
perature soon after birth; touch soon grows
out of first; sight, or light-consciousness,
1st to 3d days; directing and fixing eyes,
about 6lh week; hearing, 1st to 4th days —
signs indicating hearing often come in first
hours; taste and smell last of senses to de-
velop, time varies during 1st weeks; con-
sciousness of rhythm, 2d montli; of musical
tones, about 12th month; distinguishing color,
10th to 12th months [II. 33, 34].
Emotions: emotional crying, 3d or 4th months
[I. 205, 206]; varied emotions, 10th to 11th
months; crowing, 2d to 3d months; laughing,
3d to Sth months [IL 135-137, 169-171],
Memory: recognition of mother, at 3d month; of
others, 4th to Sth months; of experiences, 6th
to 12th months. All memory transient and
held for a few days only [II. 170].
Understanding: tones (in voice of mother), 3d to
Sth months; signs, Sth to 9th months; words,
about 9th month.
Speech: cooing, 3d month; vowel sounds, 6th
month; a few words, 12th to 15th months.
Mental activities: trial and success, about 10th
week; sense of place and direction, Sth to
7th months; development of active curiosity
and interest in things and persons, 4th to Sth
months.
Imitation of acts of others, from 7th month;
pleasure in showing off, 10th to 12th months
[11.171].
Comparison of objects noticeable, during second
half of year.
Instincts: anger, 1st month [II. 137]; fear, 2d
month; curiosity, Sth month; play, Sth to 6th
months.
MENTAL SUGGESTIONS
[II. 33-37]
Avoid jolting, loud noises and over-stimulation,
from the first [II. 170].
Play: to stimulate curiosity, trial, and success,
from Sth month; to encourage imitation and
memory, from 7th month; to teach vowel
sounds and meaning of words, Sth to 9th
months; in general, self-amusement and self-
directed play, from Sth month. Give few
simple little toys; play with mother, from Sth
to 6th months; with others, Sth month
[I. 207],
Sense training: use varied objects to exercise
touch and sight, from 2d month; bright ob-
jects, from 4th month; lullabies and soft
music, from 2d month; colors, toward close
of year [II. 34-37].
By frequent repetitions, help to understand simple
words, from 4th month. Begin to try to get
child to say a few words, end of year.
A CHART OF CHILD DEVELOPiMENT
FIRST YEAR (From Birth to the First Birthday)
These references suggest helpful explanatory passages in "The Child Welfare Manual"
SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT
Consciousness of touch of mother, 1st to 3d
weeks; recognition of others, 3d to Stii
months.
Sociability (beginning of), Sth month.
Affection, aversion, and imitation first shown, 3d
to Sth months.
Dependence and sympathy evident, 7th month
and after.
Realization of the approbation of others, 4th to
Sth months.
Individualist throughout the year; influenced by
others, but self-centered, 9th to 10th months.
In general the pre-social stage.
SOCIAL SUGGESTIONS
MORAL DEVELOPMENT
No moral sense.
Sense of comfort or discomfort [II. 9], leading to
Pleasure and displeasure.
Docility, with some tendency to oppose condi-
tions rather than persons, toward end of
period.
Impressibility by the will of others.
Trustfulness in others.
Dependence.
Desire to please, Sth to 6th months, forming basis
of
Obedience.
MORAL SUGGESTIONS
Give watchful companionship of mother from 1st
month [II. 33, 34].
Carry baby to sunUght, about room, etc., from
2d month.
Talk to the child from 3d to Sth months.
Cooperative play from 7th month.
Give example of calmness in speech, quietness in
manner, cheerfulness, self-control, from tlie
first. Avoid anger by absence of provoca-
tion, by solitude and quiet [I. 207].
Make expressions of affection and sympathy,
especially in second half of year.
Play simple games after Sth month, with parents
and children of family. Not with others.
Games: "How Big Is the Baby?" "Pat a
Cake," "This Little Pig Went to Market," etc.
Teach to recognize kindred, by repeating their
names, and later he will repeat them himself.
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Fix regular, simple habits as to eating, sleeping,
dressing, plaving [II. 11]. No sucking habits
or pacifiers [I. 203, 206, 209, 307].
Train for obedience through habits of regularity,
submission and self-control.
Drill to understand signs and simple commands
and to obey them.
Give room for free action whenever possible
within limit set by parent and understood by
child.
Allow no emotional tricks by which the baby
tries to "rule the roost."
A dreary place would be this earth,
Were there no little people in it;
The song of life would lose its mirth
Were there no people to begin it.
No babe within our arms to sleep.
No little feet toward slumber tending,
No little knee in prayer to bend,
Or lips the sweet words lending.
The sterner souls would grow more stern.
Unfeeling natures more inhuman.
And man to stoic coldness turn,
And woman would be less than woman.
Life's song, indeed, would lose its charm
Were there no babies to begin it;
A doleful place this world would be,
Were there no little people in it.
—J. G. Whittier.
WHAT TO EXPECT THE FIRST YEAR
THE FIRST YEAR IN A BABY'S LIFE
WILLIAM BYRON FORBUSH
"To unanointed eyes, zvhat is he? Just a Utile red. squirming thing, zvifh eyes shut for the most part, with
tight-clenched fists, ivith a toothless, suching mouth, a hairless head, much too large for his body, — an impu-
dent little thing n'ho makes the whole adult household stand around, and imposes his oivn laius upon every one,
regardless of their preferences; a frail little thing, tcho has to he handled in ways so mysterious that the
uninitiated flee from the attempt ; and only one of millions and millions of others, just like himself !
"This to the unanointed. To the mother zvhose eyes have received the chrism from mighty Nature, he is
one of the immortals, laid in her all-unworthy arms. She knows herself a responsible human being, with one
of Cod's children lent to her — a child for zvhose body, mind, and soul she is to render an account."
— Marion Foster Washburne.
The Baby at Birth
A NEW-BORN baby has little beauty that anybody
should desire him. A baby regarded as "hand-
some" from the doctor's point of view can be
recognized as such by a layman only through an
acquired sense of beauty or a sense of humor.
Proportions. — In comparison with the adult, the
most immediately noticeable points are the exag-
gerated head and abdomen, the shorter legs, the
unfinished nose and the shortened neck. The
new-born baby appears to be considerably un-
finished. "Indeed," as Sully so truly says, "he
resembles for all the world a public building
which has to be opened by a given day, and is
found, when the day arrives, to be in a humiliat-
ing state of incompleteness."
Helplessness. — The complete helplessness of a
new-born child has been described as follows :
"Unable to stand, much less to wander in search
of food, nearly deaf, all but blind, well nigh in-
discriminating as to the nature of what is pre-
sented to its mouth, utterly unable to keep itself
clean, yet highly susceptible to the effects of dirt,
able to indicate its needs only by alternately turn-
ing its head, open-mouthed, from side to side,
and then crying; possessed of an almost lu-
dicrously hypersensitive interior, unable to fast
for more than two or three hours, yet having
the most precise and complicated dietetic require-
ment; needing the most carefully maintained
warmth, easily injured by draughts, — where is to
be found a more complete picture of helpless
dependence ?"
It is this helplessness which has been the im-
memorial appeal to mother-love, to which the
innate chivalry of the mother-heart has always
responded. It is this response which carries the
baby through the crisis of its first hours of life.
The incompleteness and helplessness are, we
know, not final. It is the very attention of the
mother to them which first stimulates the un-
folding of the marvelous development of the
body, the senses, and the mind.
The Baby's Movements
The first thing that anybody notices about a
new-born baby probably is its movements. All
these movements are "set off by some outside
action on the senses, as a gun is set off by a touch
on the trigger," and not by any inner impulse.
Crying. — The first of these movements is a cry.
There is a difference of opinion as to the nature
of a child's first cry. Kant considered that it was
a cry of wrath, Schwartz a shout of joy, while
Sully humorously hints that it is highly sug-
gestive of a cynical contempt for its new sur-
roundings. "It is," says Mrs. Meynell, "a hasty,
huddled outcry, loud and brief, rather deep than
shrill in tone. Man does not weep at beginning
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this world. He simply lifts up his new voice."
This first cry, unmistakably monotonous and
dismal, is apparently a response to a certain
measure of discomfort felt by this tiny "wrecked
seaman" on reaching shore. This is probably
occasioned by a number of causes : the first ex-
perience of breathing, the first effect of light, the
jar of vibrations, and the possible pain of the first
contact of the skin with the air, the hands of the
nurse, and the touch of clothing.
None of his movements can be restrained by the
infant himself. It is amusing to note that a new-
born babe sneezes, coughs, and chokes, quite un-
consciously to itself and without control and
without discomfort.
From the first the mother will notice many
spontaneous and random movements of almost
every part of the body. These movement-j are
caused from internal conditions and changes, and
consequent outflow of energy. They tend toward
the pre-natal position.
The Baby's Senses
Touch. — The first of the senses which seems
to awake is that of touch. This might be called
the parent of all the other senses. It is partly
passive, as when the lips feel the breast. It
is partly active, as when the infant immediately
clasps the filiger which is brought into the hollow
of its tiny hand.
These two acts of sucking and clasping already
suggest what are to become the first two means
of the infant's education, as the sensitive nerve-
ends of the lips, the tongue, and the fingers bring
the child into contact with its new world.
Sight. — The new-born baby is practically blind,
not because he has not the organs of eyesight, but
because he can not as yet see things, in the proper
sense of the word. The earliest sense of sight
seems to be the recognition of the difference
between light and darkness. Several report the
turning of the head toward the light during the
first week. Babies seem conscious very early of
any large dark mass that interrupts the light.
The eyes, however, at the beginning are attracted
to nothing and fixed on nothing. They do not
wink, there is no change of focus, and they do not
always even move in unison. As Miss Shinn *
says, "Some extraordinary and alarming contor-
tions result." A baby very early shows discom-
fort at too much light.
Hearing. — A baby hears nothing within the first
hours. The middle ear is stopped up with fluid.
It seems that babies are more responsive to jars
* Millicent W. Shinn, author of "The Biography of a
Baby."
than to noises, and they have been known to make
startled movements at sudden jars, even upon the
first day.
Other Senses. — The senses of taste and smell
are present from the beginning, but can be excited
only by strong artificial stimuli. What we used
to call "the sense of feeling," is now regarded,
not as a single sense, but as a group, called "the
skin senses." The baby from the first is aware
when he is touched or patted, and is very sensi-
tive to cold touches, but not to surface-pains.
While the skin is not so sensitive as the lips, the
nostrils, and the finger-tips, it responds to a gen-
eral sense of comfort or discomfort. Another
sense is that of equilibrium or motion. Babies
have been known, even from the first, to make
convulsive movements when held in a position
which implied that they might be dropped.
Hunger. — The senses of hunger and thirst are
at the beginning practically one, and are apparent
from the first. There is soon a marked differ-
ence in tone between the cry caused by pain and
that occasioned by hunger. The sense of thirst
is very active. The baby's body is largely com-
posed of water, and the evaporation from the
loose texture of the skin is very great. Many
of the distresses of a child, which seem to the
parent to indicate colic or natural depravity, are
satisfied by a spoonful of cold water.
There are, no doubt, certain conditions which
are composite of several senses. A baby some-
times feels discomfort, caused by the pressure of
clothes and the constraint in the muscles and
circulation, because of being kept in a single posi-
tion too long. Since a baby can not move a limb
at will, it is necessary for relief that these changes
of position be produced by another person.
Summary of the New-Born Baby
Miss Shinn sums up all that we have been say-
ing, as follows :
"Here is the conception I gathered of the dim
life on which the little creature entered at birth.
She took in with a dull comfort the gentle light
that fell on her eyes, seeing without any sort of
attention or comprehension the moving blurs of
darkness that varied it. She felt motions and
changes; she felt the action of her own muscles;
and, after the first three or four days, disagree-
able shocks of sound now and then broke through
the silence or, perhaps, through an unnoticed
jumble of faint noises. She felt touches on her
body from time to time, but without the least
sense of the place of the touch; and steady slight
sensations of touch from her clothes, from arms
that held her, from cushions on which she lay,
poured in on her.
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"From time to time sensations of hunger, thirst,
and once or twice of pain, made themselves felt
through all the others, and mounted till they be-
came distressing; from time to time a feeling of
heightened comfort flowed over her, as hunger
and thirst were satisfied, or release from clothes,
and the effect of the bath and rubbing on her
circulation increased the net sense of well-being.
She felt slight and unlocated discomforts from
fatigue in one position, quickly relieved by the
watchful nurse. For the rest, she lay empty-
minded, neither consciously comfortable nor un-
comfortable, yet on the whole pervaded with a
dull sense of well-being. Of the people about her,
of her mother's face, of her own existence, of
desire or fear, she knew nothing.
"Yet this dim dream was flecked all through
with the beginnings of later comparison and
choice. The light was varied with dark ; the feel-
ings of passive motion, of muscular action, of
touch, of sound, were all unlike each other ; the
discomforts of hunger, of pain, of fatigue, were
different discomforts. The baby began from the
first moment to accumulate varied experience,
which before long would waken attention, in-
terest, discrimination, and vivid life."
This little creature is unripe, it is true, but
he is "all there." In the normal infant no senses
or potentialities are lacking; and he is not a
merely inert mass. He is responsive, and in that
responsiveness exists our ability to communicate
with him and his whole capability of education.
The human presence of a mother, touching, hand-
ling, caressing, protecting, stimulating, guiding,
loving — this is the link between the helplessness
of the baby and all his future.
It is the divine task of mothers to earn con-
tact between herself and the little mite who is
so far unconscious of her very being. For the
baby now, as Elizabeth Barrett Browning so won-
derfully says :
"Lifted up and separated on the hand of God he lies.
In a sweetness beyond touching, held in cloistral
sanctities."
The First Month
Sight. — After the first two weeks the eyes of a
baby cease to wander altogether helplessly and
begin to "stop and cling" to bright surfaces.
Professor Sully thinks that the ability to do this
indicates that the eyes hold this attitude under
the stimulus of pleasure. It is certainly true that
pleasure and attention increase the power of con-
trolling the muscles, and help the child to seek
the same paths it has used before. By the end
of this month. Miss Shinn observed that a baby
not only moved its eyes, but threw its head back
to see better, and seemed to gaze with a sort of
dim eagerness. Soon after, the child showed the
ability to follow a moving object with the eyes.
Up to this time the baby's world of vision was
"probably still only patches of light and dark,
with bits of glitter and motion." In connection
with the ability to follow with the eyes came the
desire to lift the head. Probably this was not
done by any real effort, but the child soon learned
that to lift its head helped in bet.ter seeing.
Preyer thinks this is the first real act of will in
a child's mind. Miss Shinn noticed toward the
end of the first month that a baby seemed to at-
tend to the new impression she was getting with
an awakening look, apparently expressive of
wonder or intelligence.
Memory. — By the end of this month it has been
noticed that a baby seems to be able to form some
associations. A baby crying with hunger would
hush as soon as she was taken in the arms in the
position used in nursing. She could not have
remembered nor expected anything as yet, but she
was beginning to show a clear instance of the
working of that great law of association which
was later to develop into memory. This law
seems to be that, when experiences have repeat-
edly been had together, the occurrence of one of
them tends to bring up the others. This power
Miss Shinn calls "habit-memory."
Hearing.- — The infant seems to be conscious
of jars before it is of noises. By the last of the
month a baby may be hushed by the sound of
chords struck upon a piano, and soon after this
it seems to be soothed by being talked or sung to.
The mother, of course, looks early for the
baby's first smile. The first real smile, as an ex-
pression of pleasure, is no doubt caused by the
touch of some adult's finger upon the lip. The
lips are the first source of touch-sensations.
Companionship. — A baby, even before it is a
month old, recognizes the difference between be-
ing alone and being in companionship. This can
not be entirely caused by hearing, but is probably
chiefly occasioned by a sense of comfort, pro-
duced by being held in the lap and given the
exercise of changes of position.
Miss Shinn emphasizes the fact that the moth-
er's face and presence are the ideal earliest means
of education to a baby. The mother's face hover-
ing over the child suggests variations of light and
shadow, as it is touched by the sunshine or as it
intervenes between the baby's eyes and the light.
Singing and talking give comfort to the awaken-
ing sense of hearing. The patting and cuddling
delight the sense of touch in the lips, the fingers,
and the skin. The loving fondling by the mother
gives the little body the changes of position which
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furnish both rest and exercise. One important
reason why orphanage babies die is because no-
body "nestles" them.
Touch. — "Touch," says Mrs. Washburne, "is
especially the love-sense, and we who can not yet
make the little children understand our words, can
tell them, through our hands, how dear they are
to us and how tenderly we care for them."
The Second Month
The baby's smile becomes more constant now,
and it is usually at human faces. "It wiles the
very heart out of one;" but as Miss Shinn says,
"The baby means little enough by it."
Sight. — Babies are now beginning to be car-
ried out into the air. They like the sense of
motion in a baby carriage, perhaps also the
fresher air; but at first they are troubled by the
dazzling light, and they must be protected care-
fully from the glare. Babies can not have too
much sunshine, but their eyes, just opening like
those of other folk, must not face strong lights
either indoors or out. They now insist upon be-
ing held up so that they can see things, they turn
their eyes especially toward persons, and they be-
gin to focus them for different distances. Some-
time during this month come the first tears.
"Wide-open eyes," says Mrs. Washburne,
"show a high degree of pleasurable feeling. This
may be observed when the baby is brought near
his mother's breast, or is put in the warm bath.
It is as if, as one observer remarks, the eyes
laughed."
Fears. — The sense of hearing begins to sharpen
now, and perhaps the first fear (most primitive
of instincts) will come from some sudden sound.
The fright of course is not because of anticipated
danger, but it is shown by the pathetic grimace
of crying and perhaps by a sharp cry. The in-
fant may be soothed now, even when hungry, by
chords on the piano. Tracy * thinks there are two
chief sources of pleasure in music : the time and
the tune. He thinks infants usually enjoy both
during the first few weeks of life. He says that
"from six or seven weeks onward, and especially
in the latter half of the first year, the child's
pleasure in music is often shown by a sort of ac-
companying muscular movements, which he seems
unable to repress. The mother's song of lullaby
is keenly appreciated, and somewhat later is even
given back by the child in a most charming infant
warble."
The baby's own sounds now begin to differ.
Since the monotonous cry of birth there have
* Frederick Tracy, author of "Psychology of Childhood."
been fretting noises, now this cry of fright, later
"cooing murmurs" and even a sudden crow.
Muscles. — The infant begins to control his
muscles. Not only does he make fewer random
movements and turn his head and lift his neck,
but he props himself with his knees and engages
in various pulling and pushing motions, which are
at first accidental, but soon become voluntary.
Miss Shinn emphasizes the putting out and draw-
ing back of the tip of the tongue between the
pursed lips as evidence that the baby is trying
to use two means of touch at once. The whole
"plot of the story," in Miss Shinn's words, is
going to turn mainly on the combination of
muscle-sense with sight and of muscle-sense with
touch. In other words, the baby is not going to
stop with the passive feeling of having things
passed over its lips or fingers, but is going to try
active touch-e.xperiments of its own.
Will. — "The order of development," says Mrs.
Washburne, "seems to be this ; First, the baby
tastes things; next, he sees them; later, he sees
and desires to taste. Then he tastes, and again
desires, more than before. Thereupon he sees,
seizes, and tastes. You notice the increase in de-
sire and the increase in the number of senses and
faculties that work toward the gratification of
this desire. This is will, taking greater and
greater possession of the human body.''
Feelings. — The emotional life begins to awaken,
as is shown by the fright, by a look of surprise
at his own crowing, by unprecedented content
when held nearly erect upon a pillow. Sully
thinks anger shows itself even earlier than fear,
and if the vexation of disappointment be re-
garded as the germ of wrath, claims to have
noted it as early as the third week.
Still, the baby sleeps most of the time, in long
naps of six or seven hours. It is noticeable that,
after some new attainment, an unusually bright
day or a prolonged waking period, the child sleeps
soundly for a longer period than usual. Evidently
he is easily wearied with any rush of impressions.
Thus he draws to the close of what Sully calls
"the vegetable period."
The Third Month
Grasping. — So far the tongue has been the
active agent of touch. It is brought into active
contact with the lips or with the cheeks of friends.
Now the fingers become active. The finger-tips
may be held together. The fingers, which had
unconsciously found the mouth since the begin-
ning, seem now to search for it. Thumb-sucking
begins to be agreeable. The fingers also carry
everything possible to the mouth. It is difficult
to say whether this is to test them by the sense of
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touch or that of taste, since, as Perez * says,
"Pretty to look at and good to eat mean the
same thing." Grasping now becomes more like
conscious holding, and for the first time the thumb
is opposed to the fingers. It is well to place safe
objects, like spools, rings, etc.. within reach, even
before the time for conscious holding comes. "To
wait till he knows how to grasp before giving
him things to practice on is," says Miss Shinn,
"like keeping a boy out of water till he knows how
to swim." During these vague endeavors to relate
the two sources of touch-sensations by trying to
carry something from the hand to the mouth,
there is no knowledge yet that the eyes can help
in the endeavor.
Memory seems to appear. A face is recognized,
probably simply by means of the high lights upon
it, and often, as Sullyf says, chiefly as "a bearded
plaything." Even an absent or departing presence
is searched for with the eyes. A room is ex-
amined object by object, and there is a restless-
ness that can be satisfied by being taken into an-
other room. The limit of vision now is probably
about twenty-five feet. Miss Shinn thought that
during this month her sister's baby smiled less
often and more often looked with seriousness or
wonder, as if her world were growing complex
and required more study.
Sitting up. — The most distinctly conscious act
of will in this direction of self-education may be
the effort to sit upright, either aided or alone.
The Fourth Month
Reaching. — Miss Shinn brightly describes the
growing consciousness of self which the baby at-
tains by this time, confined, however, chiefly to
her own face, by saying that "Her feeling of
herself must have been like that of a conventional
cherub — all but her head dissolved away into one-
ness with the outside world." It may not be till
well on in this month that the baby comes to
realize that what she sees is the same thing as
what she feels. Now for the first time she may
see an object, and then definitely and directly
reach for it, as the result, with her hands. Even
then she is likely to reach with her mouth before
she does with her hands, sometimes bobbing the
whole head forward in the attempt to do so.
Sight. — Miss Shinn thinks that now a baby be-
gins to notice alterations in the room, that she is
first puzzled by the apparent changes of size in
approaching and departing forms and by the
alterations of appearance when persons and
* Bernard Perez, author of "First Three Years of Child-
hood.**
t James Sully, author of "Children's Ways,'* "Outlines of
Psychology," "Studies of Childhood," etc.
things are turned around. Sully noted about this
time that an effect of shock showed itself when
something in the familiar scene was transmuted.
His child was quite upset when his mother donned
a red jacket in place of the usual flower-spotted
dress. "He was just proceeding to take his
breakfast when he noticed the change, at the
discovery of which all thoughts of feasting de-
serted him, his lips quivered and he only became
reassured of his whereabouts after taking a good
look at his mother's face." It was during this
month, in Miss Shinn's observation, that her sis-
ter's baby was first frightened when awaking in
the dark.
Fears. — There are, Tracy thinks, two kinds of
fear in young children : Hereditary fears, that
are independent of the memory of hurtful experi-
ences, and fears that are produced by mental
images of danger. Babies often cry when it
thunders ; they shrink up at the sense of falling,
before they have ever fallen ; they tremble at the
sight of large and majestic objects like the ocean.
Early, they seem more afraid of sounds than of
sights. Eye-fears and touch-fears soon develop,
and the objects that arouse fear are often un-
accountable. These must all be classed as heredi-
tary or instinctive fears, and some of them have
been explained — such as the fear of falling, as a
relic of the tree-stage of human existence ; the
fear of fur, a reminiscence of primeval contact
with wild beasts. There is really a third class
of fears — those caused by suggestion. The fear
of thunder, for instance, perhaps not so early as
this, but at a very early stage, is often the imita-
tion of the shrinking of the mother.
Memory of faces seems to be getting clear, and
an accidental splash in the water is followed the
next day by a voluntary one. A pleasant or a
striking occurrence tends to fix itself in the mind.
The emotional life expresses itself in delight at
tumbling and being tumbled about gently, in fre'
quent smiles and vocal sounds, and in facial ex-
pressions, not only of wonder, but of desire.
The Fifth Month
Touch. — Miss Shinn calls this "the era of han-
dling things." As the eye had been busy the pre-
vious month in learning how objects look from
different sides, so now the child for the first time
uses sight and touch and muscle feeling together,
to discover the shapes of things. At first he is
unable to do this by sight alone, and for a brief
time will endeavor to pick pictures from a page or
shadows from the floor. Meantime, the process
goes on of watching people in motion, and a child
will forget food and sleep in the eager following
of the drama of a roomful of lively people.
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Miss Shinn noted how the baby whom she
studied learned the difference between active and
passive feeling by bumping the back of her head.
Though she had been touched upon that spot by
the pillow and by human hands, and though the
bumping experience was not pleasant, she kept
trying to reproduce the feeling, apparently in
order to help realize that the back of her head
belonged to herself.
Playthings. — As the baby continued the proc-
ess of learning to know the shape and qualities
of objects brought within its grasp, Miss Shinn
noted a preference for bright, hard, and rattling
things, and so she advises that the earliest play-
things should not be soft, but definite to the
touch, varied in form, glittering rather than
brightly colored, and made, for safety, of rubber,
bone and, perhaps, aluminum.
During tlijs month the child may become able
to sit in a chair unsupported : he may roll over
and squirm into a variety of positions, some of
them prophetic of creeping.
The child has now learned to discriminate be-
tween faces and, probably, between voices. He
reaches out his hands toward a friend, he varies
his sounds to include a call for attention and even
a pleading to be taken up, distinctly more sociable
than the earlier solitary cry of hunger or pain.
The Sixth Month
Purpose. — Miss Shinn considers the sixth
month to be the transition between two great
development periods — that of learning the senses,
which is passing, and that of learning to carry
the body, which is to come. She finds this month
significant as the one in which a baby notably
begins to use means for ends.
The special instance which Miss Shinn men-
tions is that of putting the toe in the mouth, an
act "that most people find it most impossible to
regard with scientific seriousness." Miss Shinn,
however, shows how deeply educative it is. In
the first place, the child has to learn to conquer
the refractoriness of the toe, which tries to fly off
just as it is being grasped, first by using muscular
force in his arms, and later by restraining the
muscular activity of his own leg. Not only does
this act help the little one to discover himself from
head to toe, but it seems to encourage him to feel
of his head and ears and the rest of his body and
to annex them to himself as his own. Dr. R. W.
Hastings * urges that the diapers be not allowed
to hamper the action of the knees and legs, and
♦ Robert W. Hastings, author of "Health of the School
Child."
several have suggested that it is good as well as
healthy to let a baby squirm about nude each day
in a room that is properly heated and protected
from currents of air.
Curiosity. — The way a child seems to learn to
do things is to execute them accidentally and then
endeavor deliberately to repeat the process.
In almost every instance the impelling force
behind the accident that leads to experiment is
surprise.
So surprise leads on into curiosity, and the ex-
ercise of curiosity is the chief industry of any
baby as soon as he acquires any means of
locomotion.
Curiosity once excited, the child pursues its
leading with extraordinary persistence and pa-
tience, especially where it is possible to do so by
any manual activity. Certain movements of limbs
or vocal organs are produced over and over for
several days, then a new one is practiced for a
while. Various combinations of movements are
made, and the muscles and the senses are thus
exercised and associated in countless ways.
Memory. — The ability to recognize an incident
and to repeat an act appears earlier than most
of us suppose.
"The little child," says Tracy, "is capable of
memories long.before he has learned to speak. A
little boy, six months old, whose hand had been
slightly burned by a hot vase, shrank back at the
sight of this article a few days after." Miss
Shinn found that associative memory was more
strongly developed now than before. After beg-
ging for a spoon, the child was unsatisfied until
it was filled with milk, as it had been before.
She knew what the baby carriage was for. She
knew what kind of frolic to expect from each
individual in the home.
Speech. — There seemed to Miss Shinn to be a
development of sign-language during this month.
The baby indicated by a series of actions her desire
to repeat the creeping experiment upon the table.
She reached out of a baby carriage and called
to her aunt. She had a special sound ("a sort of
little bleating," Darwin called it) when coaxing
for a frolic, and there were distinctly understood
variations when she wished to be taken up into her
mother's arms or in asking for an object out of
reach. She now showed unexplainable signs of
repulsion for certain strangers ; and on the other
hand seemed, by soft caresses bestowed only upon
her favorites, to indicate a dawning affection.
She once searched in vain for her mother during
a prolonged absence, then settled into a pitiful,
steady crying, and for several days after seemed
to watch her mother rather anxiously, as if she
might again forsake her.
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Sympathy. — Just how much we are to make of
these first signs of a humane feeling will de-
pend upon the feelings of the observer. Sully
tells us how his child of a little over six months
responded to the father's pretense of crying by
bending his own head down and pawing his
father's face. He did this again when the father's
act was repeated. "A smile on the termination
of the crying completed the curious little play.
Who would venture to interpret that falling of
the head and that caressing movement of the
hand? The father saw here something of a
divine tenderness." Do you question his inter-
pretation?
Miss Shinn sums up the story of the first half
year as follows : "The breathing automaton had
become an eager and joyous little being, seeing
and hearing and feeling much as we do, know-
ing her own body somewhat, and controlling it
throughout to a certain extent, laughing and
frolicking, enjoying the vision of the world with
a delicious zest, clinging to us not so much for
physical protection as for human companionship,
beginning to show a glimmer of intelligence, and
to cross over with sign and sound the abyss be-
tween spirit and spirit."
The Remainder of the First Year
It has seemed well to go into considerable detail
as to the first six months of the baby's life, so
that the mother who reads this may know what
to watch for and to enjoy in the rapidly unfold-
ing little being ; but from this time, when the
progress of babies differs, it will be better to trace
the general steps of progress up to the end of the
first year.
Getting about. — The baby, whose chief delight
has now become handling things, comes by this
time to feel the need of getting to them when
they are out of reach. He manages to do this
in a number of ways. Perhaps a normal history
of locomotion would consist of various hitching-
along movements by the seventh month, followed
by an apparently aimless rolling, which, however,
will bring the various objects on the floor in the
track of the explorer. There may be great joy
in rolling, to the same end. Creeping, which
often occurs in the ninth month, may start with
moving backward, perhaps, because the arms are
stronger than the legs, but it almost immediately
becomes purposeful and effective in pursuing the
objects of play. At once there seems to be an
instinct to stand, and the child soon pulls himself
up by low objects, totters feebly near his sup-
port, sits down gently or forcefully and then tries
again. Climbing, too, seems instinctive by the
tenth month, and Miss Tanner * thinks the art is
an inheritance and one to be encouraged, with
proper cautions, much more than is the wont of
mothers. At about this same time a baby will
usually begin to edge along, while standing with
the support of a chair, and will probably discover
the delightful ability to push a chair across the
room. By the end of the year the baby may take
a step from one chair across a small gap to an-
other, or walk from the wall a step to a waiting
pair of hands. Sometimes these experiments
satisfy, and the child makes no further progress
in locomotion for several v.'eeks; or he may
suddenly take a step or two alone, and in a day
or two be vi'alking comfortably about. In the
case of a healthy child there need be no anxiety
if he does not establish an early walking record
for the neighborhood.
Muscles. — As to the exact progress which the
baby has made in muscle control, Kirkpatrickf
speaks as follows :
"The muscles first brought under control are
the larger ones of the whole arm, while the space
in which control is first e.xercised is directly in
front and near the level of the mouth.
"Other movements than those of the hand come
under voluntary control in a similar way; first
the eyes and head in turning toward sights and
sounds, then the body in sitting, then the hands
in grasping, and finally, near the close of the
first year, the legs in creeping, standing and
walking, and the vocal organs in repeating
sounds."
Babies seem, from their comparative indiffer-
ence to bumps and bruises, to have small skin-
sensitiveness. They cry rather from nervous
fright and from conscious need of sympathy. A
baby, when he is hurt, rarely cries unless there
is someone near to hear him.
Sight. — After a baby learns to creep and walk
he displays an increasing reluctance to be held,
and his waking hours are entirely happy if spent
upon the floor or upon the grass in summer, ex-
ploring his world and rejoicing that it is "so full
of a number of things. Especially now does out
of doors, with its pleasant breezes, its moving
sights and his own possibility of activity, engage
the young child, who by this time has learned to
lift up his voice in an abandon of ecstasy. Animal
pets, that have earlier been feared, now become
entrancing, with their soft fur, their lively actions
and their elusive way of escaping when they have
been imposed upon by baby's grasping fingers.
• .Amy Eliza Tanner, author of "The Child: His Thinking,
Feeling, and Doing."
t Edward -Asbury Kirkpatrick, author of "Fundamentals of
Child Study," "Individual in the Making," etc.
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It has been estimated that the baby's world has
now a radius of a hundred feet of vision, in which
objects are possibly beginning to differentiate in
color as they already have in size and distance.
Imitation. — It seems to be generally agreed that
imitation begins during the second half of the
first year. Tracy cites a child who at seven
months endeavored to copy the movements of the
head and lips, laughing, and the like by adults ; at
nine months he imitated crying; at ten months
he copied movements and sounds of all sorts. A
little girl of eleven months would reproduce with
her doll some of her own experiences, such as
giving it a bath, kissing it, and singing it to sleep.
Understanding. — Now it becomes entrancing to
watch the increase of the baby's power of under-
standing. By the seventh month he connects
names with persons, he learns by imitation to do
such tricks as waving his hand at parting, he
watches things fall that he has dropped. A little
later he understands what is meant by "no" and
responds to brief commands of which he seems
to recognize either certain words or their ac-
companying suggestive gestures. By the ninth
month he may learn the joyous game of peekaboo,
understand some additional com.mands and per-
form a few more manual accomplishments.
During the tenth month Miss Shinn noted that
her niece learned how to point as well as to look
in a given direction, and used this gesture con-
stantly as an indication of wants and an answer
to questions. In the eleventh month Miss Shinn
found that the little one understood eighty-four
different words, both alone and in combinations.
She was convinced too that she used at least
three sounds to express her own feelings: one a
sign for pointing, dist^overing, exulting, another
an expression of refusal or protest, and a third an
indication of desire for attention.
Emotions. — The larger scope and more varied
expression of emotions that comes by this time
is natural. As Perez says: "In my opinion, a
child of ten months who does not weep or cry
at least four or five times a day, who is not
amused, and who is not irritated, like a savage or '
a young animal, by a mere trifle, is lacking in
intelligence, and will, no doubt, be lacking in
cliaracter."
We can not yet claim for the baby a moral
sense, or any capacity for penitence. As for
sympathy, while he may make imitative move-
ments that look like our own adult ways of ex-
pressing pity, v/e must confess that he is so far
so absorbed in his own personal needs, and has
so little experience by which to interpret the ex-
periences of others, that we can not count much
on it.
Memory. — The enlarged scope of the intelligent
life is shown before the year closes by memories
that last for several days and are expressed by
repeated actions or expectancy of repeated ex-
periences, by imitations of the ways of elders and
by an increasing delight in learning and in re-
citing his little lessons.
Once more we are indebted to Miss Shinn as
she sums up the achievements of the year:
"And so the story of the swift, beautiful year
is ended, and our wee, soft, helpless baby has
become this darling thing, beginning to toddle,
beginning to talk, full of a wide-awake baby
intelligence, and rejoicing in her mind and body ;
communicating with us in a vivid and sufficient
dialect, and overflowing with the sweet selfish-
ness of baby coaxings and baby gratitude.
"We are eager, as the little one herself is, to
push on to new unfoldings; it is the high spring-
time of babyhood — perfect, satisfying, beautiful."
Summary
The First Month. — The baby moves his eyes and
head and seems to follow bright objects. He makes
the simplest associations, which constitute a sort of
"habit memory." He is sensitive to jars rather than
to noises. He smiles in response to touch. He
knows the difference between company and solitude,
but is most responsive to his mother's face.
The Second Month. — He likes the sense of mo-
tion. He opens his eyes wider when outdoors. He
is frightened now by hearing all sorts of sounds
and begins to appreciate rhythm. His cries grow
more varied. He moves in order to peer about.
He uses his lips and tongue together. He is subject
to a greater variety of feelings. Still, he sleeps
most of the time.
The Third Month. — His fingers grow active and
he is busy in grasping. He searches about with his
eyes and tries to sit up so as to see better.
The Fourth Month. — He reaches for things. He
notices alterations in the room. He is frightened at
the dark.
The Fifth Month. — This is the era for handling
things. He prefers bright objects and begins to
distinguish faces.
The Sixth Month. — Now comes the transition
between learning to use his senses and learning to
use his body. Now he uses means for ends. He
brings his toes to his mouth. Accidents lead to
planned actions. Surprise and curiosity stimulate
him to practice. He indulges in sign language and
shows evidences of humane feeling.
The Remainder of the Year. — This is the era of
increasing locomotion. He pulls himself up, he
climbs, he creeps, finally he walks. Now he controls
bis full body, loves to be out of doors, and his range
of vision is wider. He begins to imitate. He under-
stands many words and he plays his first games.
He really begins to think and reason, he feels larger
emotions, but not yet emotions of sympathy and
penitence.
TPIE FIRST THREE MONTHS
BY
MRS. ALICE CORBIN SIES
Note. — Here is the transcript of an actual record kept of a little boy's first three months by his
mother. Although given without comment, it will be found most instructive, both as suggesting what
to look for and in comparing it with the other two records that follow.
The First Month
1. Interesting things I noticed the first week:
My first glimpse of baby
What he accomplished the first day: breathing,
crying, yawning, sneezing, etc.
Usual position of arms and legs
Expression of face
Movement-plays : rolling of head, eyes, sucking,
scratching.
2. Second Week :
What I noticed as the child endeavored to con-
trol nursing; face, muscles, etc.
Effect on baby of jars, ticking of watch, etc.
Eyes not sensitive to bright light
Enjoys erect position
Thumb-sucking
Smiling, an instinctive response to getting food
Holds head toward light and people, with cling-
ing stare.
3. Third Week:
What baby did in response to different sounds
Baby's movements: turning of head, stiffening
body, bracing feet
Sight: eyes follow candle; open when nursing
Hands : feel for breast and clasp with thumb
or finger
Cry more expressive ; new end sought.
4. Fourth Week:
Smile more constant
Head lifted when supported
Recognized direction of sound
Eyes follow candle, rest on faces, fires, windows
Displeasure at bath.
The Second Month
5. Fifth Week:
Stopped incessant movement to listen to boat-
whistles
Crying from colic; what I did; how he cried
next day to be held likewise
Sensitiveness to sound when asleep
Association of steps with attention (sense of
comfort dimly felt).
6. Sixth Week:
■Response to name
Turning head to meet my gaze
Does not recognize breast and bottle by sight,
but by touch
Response to music when annoyed ; how I played
different kinds.
7. Seventh Week :
Staring at red ribbon, colored ball, mirror
Shoving and pushing movements in bed; turn-
ing head from wall to me
How I let him kick
Held head erect a few seconds
First enjoyment of bath
Passing of his glance from me to grandma
Voice-play after full meal; how I responded:
his sounds
Noticed breast ; groped for it
Tensing body almost to erect position when
supported
Laughed out loud
Crying when hungry, he stopped when held in
feeding position
Attentive to sudden changes in scenery; turns
head about when carried from room to room.
8. Eighth Week :
Sound: Turning head toward piano; his re-
sponse to music
Sight : Stopped crying to look at electric light
Muscular development : When back is sup-
ported, he pulls himself erect on my lap;
also holds head erect a few seconds without
support
Touch-plays : rubbing back, patting, etc.
Lullabies
Sleep and quiet : protection from hurry, stiinu-
lating sights, sounds, colors, etc.
Incessant movement of arms and legs in crib;
keeps uncovered
Seems to recognize father, mother and grand-
mother
Associates discomfort with lying d6wn, cries;
comfort at being taken up.
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The Third Month
9. Ninth Week :
Attention to loud sounds, even when nursing
Coordination of hand and arm; extends fingers
when nursing
Attempt to rise in bath by pushing
Sensations of temperature in water
First nap out of doors, two months old
Head held erect in wobbly fashion a good deal ;
rests after 30 seconds
Grasped coverlet and pulled away to see my
face ; eye and hand work together
Finger-play: opens and shuts fingers rhythmi-
cally while nursing.
10. Tenth Week:
Sight: seemed to see his own image in mirror
Stopped fretting to watch my movements in
room ; cried when I passed out of sight
Stops crying when music is played
Nursing warm water from bottle is quieting
and less stimulating than milk
When crying at night for food he cries harder
as soon as I approach; means of communi-
cating
Can direct fists to eyes; rubs eyes when sleepy
Holds fist up and turns it around ; looking
pleased
Eye-play: his eye followed me from living
room to third step (thirteen feet)
Sound-plays and what they denote.
11. Eleventh Week:
Active touch-e.xploration
Grasps my dress while nursing
Extends hands and shuts them on bottle, feeling
about it
Preference for erect position grows
Shows no surprise to be tossed in father's
arms. (Danger of overstimulation in such
play)
Amount of sleep: all night (except when nurs-
ing) and one and one-half hours after each
feeding, except from 7 to 10 a. m.
Showed signs of noticing new environment
when taken into grandma's room for first
time in month
Muscular development : when laid on stomach
raised body to creeping position on hands
Continues to smile in engaging way
Color of eyes changing from blue to brown
Nursing-time : hands are released from clasp
to fingers extended
Taste : likes sugar
Ability to hold images; before when bottle was
removed to stop rapid feeding he cried ;
gradually learning that bottle will return
Voice-play : talks to me when first awake in
morning. When a visitor sang to him he
answered back similar tones
Grasping: held rattle placed in hands two
minutes.
12. Twelfth Week:
Response to color: gazed at red, orange, violet,
and blue bows of crepe paper hung one by
one over bed. Even stopped nursing
Sample of voice-play with father : reward for
new sounds
Waking accompanied by gurgles and stretching
when not hungry
Hunger-cry
Enjoys observing sights in sitting position
Gazed at violet bow five feet away; I changed
it to red and he appeared equally pleased
Turning of head from wall to light opposite (a
difficult muscular feat) and stared at red bow
Shows pleasure in having legs rubbed (gurgles)
Distinctly grasped my dress with fingers of
right hand when nursing
Enjoyment of being wheeled.
MY BABY MONTH BY MONTH
MRS. ANNA G. NOYES
Thk following is the order in which, and the
dates when, the activities were mastered :
First Month:
Lying on the stomach, he held up his head.
Second Month :
Held up head more steadily.
Third Month:
Smiled
Laughed aloud.
Fourth Month:
Sat up alone for about two minutes
Found his hands, after several days' trial
* From "How I Kept My Bahy Well," by Anna G. Noyes, inililished hy Warwick & York, Baltimore. Ust-d liy permis-
sion of Dr. Guy M. Whipple.'editor.
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I held him up by his feet
Reached out and caught hold of scales
Held him suspended by his arms.
Fifth Month:
Laughed heartily when his toes were put into
his mouth
I held him up by his hands and he put his feet
on my chest
Rode cock-horse
Greeted us with a smile and gurglings
Tried to raise himself up by propping himself
on one elbow. Later tried to pull himself up
by pulling on the horizontal bar in his basket
Again, lying on the bed, he grasped his father's
fingers and after three attempts pulled him-
self up to a sitting position
Kicked hard against the bar (broom-handle) in
his basket. Laughed heartily when I pinched
and slapped. Holding, slapped. Holding on
to a stick which I held out to him he raised
himself up several times from a lying to a
sitting position.
Sixth Month :
Sat alone for from three to five minutes
First ride out of doors in carriage. Sat up
straight for an hour.
Pulled himself up whenever he could get hold
of my fingers
Kicked and splashed in his tub.
Seventh Month:
Lying on his back, he kicked a tin pan almost
steadily for an hour
Stood alone by his basket
Seized every opportunity to try to pull himself
up on his feet
Pulled himself up alone to a standing position
Moved, by rolling on the floor, a distance of
three feet.
Eighth Month:
Took steps when supported
Walked, by grasping moving things
With the assistance of a chair, pulled himself
up from a sitting position to a standing
position.
Ninth Month:
Got up on his feet at every opportunity
Managed his baby-tender very well
Held his own weight, hanging from a stick or
clothes line.
Tenth Month:
At home on his feet, but had to grasp something
to keep his balance.
Eleventh Month :
Took three steps alone twice
Took about fifty steps, holding my hand
Took five steps, holding my apron
Walked behind his carriage, pushing it
Walked from one person to another a few feet
away. Took several long walks while I held
his jacket and he balanced himself with his
clenched fists
Walked to me (five feet away) when I was not
expecting him to come.
Twelfth Month:
Walked all about, assisting himself by people
or furniture, growing more and more ven-
turesome, and having many hard tumbles
Finally, while walking from another person to
me, and being chased, in his haste he gave
up his support and ran into my arms. After
this, he walked other distances alone
As he walks up to things, instead of grabbing
hold tight for support, he only touches them
lightly and walks on.
LANDMARKS IN A BABY'S PROGRESS*
BY
MRS. HELEN Y. CAMPBELL
It is well for the mother, at each weighing of the
baby, to review in her mind the various factors
which sum up the life of a healthy infant, and
the several points in his progress.
1. Is he gaining at least four ounces a week in
weight ?
2. Is his skin soft, pink, elastic, and fragrant ;
* From "Practical Motherhood," by Helen Y. Campbell.
Ushers, New York.
and are his lips rosy, and cheeks a healthy pink
color?
3. Are his limbs, especially the thighs, plump
and rounded?
4. Are his movements vigorous, and does he
use each of his limbs well ; and are his joints and
back supple and freely and easily moved?
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5. Is he satisfied after he feeds?
6. Does he retain all his feedings, except per-
haps two or three mouthfuls, returned immedi-
ately afterward?
7. Does he cry seldom except when he is hun-
gry ; and is he comfortable and free from con-
stant wind or colic?
8. Does he pass two or three very soft and
smooth yellow stools in the twenty- four hours?
9. Are his feet and hands always warm?
10. Is his head dry, as a general rule?
11. How much does he sleep by day and by
night ?
12. Is he good-natured and happy?
Again: The order of the average healthy
baby's achievements is usually something like the
following, but some babies advance more quickly
and others more slowly :
During the first few weeks: The baby sleeps
for a considerable part of the time more or less
curled up. He stretches a good deal, and
"strikes attitudes" with his head, limbs, and back,
when awake and undressed. He shows most in-
telligence and pleasure in association with his
feedings.
Second to Third Month: He makes the first
attempts to hold up his head. He begins to kick
freely and to wave his arms. He recognizes his
mother's face and voice, and smiles. He follows
a bright light or brilliant color or moving object
with his eyes.
Fourth to Fifth Month : He makes attempts to
raise himself into a sitting position. He tries to
grasp things. He turns his head around and tries
to localize a sound. He often begins to recognize
strangers and to distrust them.
Sixth Month: He cuts his first tooth. He
uses all his muscles and his voice very actively;
dances up and down on his mother's lap, and
sprawls and turns himself over on the bed. He
laughs and crows loudly when he is pleased, and
screams with rage and impatience when he is
displeased.
Seventh Month : He sits up alone.
Eighth Month : He feels his feet, and may be-
gin to creep.
Twelfth Month: He imitates such actions as
waving and kissing the hand, shaking the head,
and pointing the finger.
Fifteenth Month : He takes his first unaided
steps. He expresses his wishes pretty clearly by
gestures, and short sounds which are generally
intended to represent words.
Eighteenth Month : The soft spot on the top
of his head (or fontanel) has quite disappeared.
He uses little words.
HOW TO FORECAST A CHILD'S FUTURE
"Suppose that when he leaves school we wish to forecast
a lafPs future. What shall we try to find out about him?
No doubt we shall ask what he knows, but this would not
be by any means the main thing. His skill would interest
us, and so would the state of his health. But what we should
ask, first and foremost, is this: Whom does he love? Whom
does he admire and imitate? What does he care about? It
is only when answers to these questions are satisfactory that
we can think hopefully of his future; and it is only in so
far as the school has tended to make the answers satisfactory
that it deserves our approval." — R. H. Quick.
SOME BEGINNINGS
BY
THE EDITORS
During the first three months, the two important
things a baby has to do are to eat and sleep. Dr.
Griffith says that "up to the age of five or si.x
months the baby should not be played with at all,
and even later all playing before the hour for
sleep must be avoided." The earliest habit to be
formed by a baby is the sleep-habit. The ab-
sence of stimulus when sleep is due is as neces-
sary as its presence when the child is awake. Not
only must the sleepy baby be protected from jars
and sudden noises, but we must be careful that
violent play does not interfere with his sleep and
digestion. When we remember that the full limit
of consecutive attention possible to a baby a year
old is less than five minutes, we see how easy it is
to overtire a young child. When a baby cries
after he has been played with, it is a good sign
that be has been overstrained. "The baby," says
iVIrs. Washburne. "ought to be treated almost like
a sprouting plant, and kept at first in darkness,
warmth, and silence."
I. Helping the Senses
During the first five months a baby is chiefly
learning to use his senses.
It is Gesell * who teaches us that the sense of
touch, the oldest of human experiences save pos-
sibly hunger, is the first one in importance to de-
velop. He quotes Helen Keller's poem, in which
she says :
"This daylight in ray heart.
Thou blind, loving, all-prying touch.
Thou openest the book of life to me."
The first method of the mother in thus opening
tlie book of life through touch is when she offers
* Arnold Lucius Gesell and Beatrice Chandler Gesell, joint
authors of "Normal Child and Primary Education."
her baby the breast, touches lightly its cheeks, puts
her fingers in its tiny grasp, cuddles its whole
body, dresses and undresses it, gives it the bath,
carries it from room to room on a pillow or in her
arms. Thus she makes active those sense-tips
that exist in lips and tongue and fingers and in
the sensitive skin of the whole body.
Next come the varied touch-sensations that are
e.xperienced from objects — soft, hard, smooth,
rough, light, heavy, warm, cold. Among the
things for this purpose are smooth stones, sticks,
spools, keys, spoons, tin dishes.
Next comes the sense of sight. Mothers who
are wise protect the eyes of their babies from
glare and from bright lights, particularly at night,
from the very beginning. While it is probably
true that the baby has little sense of color before
he is a year old, he is evidently well pleased with
objects that glitter.
II. Sense-Training
Nothing educates the baby as does the human
presence. "Here Nature herself has provided the
best education. The mother, bending over the
child with constant care, with instinctive prattle
and gentle touch, is bringing the senses into in-
telligent cooperation more swiftly and surely than
any possible system of forms and motions dis-
played before his uncomprehensive eye could do.
It is a matter of easy observation that the baby
who is left lying on the bed alone a great deal,
no matter how well cared for physically, does not
develop so brightly, and learn to use his senses
so happily, as soon as the baby that is cooed over
and played with."
Soon special means are used. A bright object
is hung above the cradle to induce reaching, a bell
is sewed to the stocking to induce pulling, paper
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is suspended above the feet to induce kicking.
Paper is put within reach to he mussed or torn,
and in tlie latter half of the year the old games
of "This Little Pig Went to Market," "Creep
Mouse" and "Pat a Cake," help develop the con-
sciousness of the whole body, the sensations of
touch and sight, and the general joyfulness of life.
The early sensitiveness of a baby to musical
sounds and to harsh noises suggests that we may
do something to educate the sense of hearing and
even that of rhythm and melody during the first
year. Even babies a month old are soothed by
soft chords upon the piano and by lullabies ; they
respond by lively muscular actions before they
are two months old, and it is probable that the
preference for music to noise may begin through
the proper environment in this period. In the
meantime, things that rattle and ring and squeak,
like a bunch of keys, a bell, a baby's rattle, and a
rubber doll, but nothing that makes a violent con-
cussion, are enjoyed in turn. The child himself
soon likes to beat with his spoon on his tin plate
or to drop metal things for the sake of hearing
them strike the floor.
The senses are educated not separately but to-
gether. As the parts of the brain become con-
nected and the different sense-perceptions be-
come associated, we have the task of helping
the baby to use eyes, ears, and hands together.
Aside from putting a variety of objects within
the baby's reach, our duty here is very much that
of letting him alone. As Kirkpatrick * tells us :
"As soon as he can move his hands he should
not be amused wholly by what others do, but
rather by what he can do, to objects and with
them. Others may do things that lead the child
to discover new possibilities in objects, but they
should not long at a time manipulate objects for
his amusement. By so doing they interfere with
his own educative play-activity and hinder his
finding out the real qualities of objects and his
own powers in relation to them. The principle of
novelty should be made much of at this time.
None of the child's playthings should be with him
all of the time, but those not in use should be
placed out of his sight for awhile, as soon as he
loses interest in them, then restored to him again
when they will arouse his interest anew."
Some of the articles which Johnson names as
very helpful in learning the ways to use means
for ends in the exercise of a baby's sense-powers
are a celluloid bail, rubber animals, boxes, bottles,
blocks. Says Mrs. Washburne:
"The right toys are those that the baby digs
out for himself, from such of the household
^ See footnote on page 35.
utensils and belongings as can be spared for his
use. A bit of chain, some old dominoes, a pair of
scissors stuck in an empty spool, a lot more spools,
some cards, an old magazine that he can tear, a
biscuit-cutter, some little tin dishes, an old clean
purse tasting of leather, a small wooden box with
a cover that slides in and out — such are the things
that he picks out for himself and that a wise
mother will preserve for him. If she provides a
table or bureau drawer in which they can be kept,
and then lets him pull out the drawer and rum-
mage to his heart's content, she will find him
pretty well satisfied with his toys.
"Out of doors, nothing is so good as a sand-
pile with a pail and shovel. The baby who can
only sit up when he is propped will love to sit in
the warm sand, in a little nest, and fill and empty
his pail, and ply his little spade with wabbly fin-
gers, daily growing stronger with exercise."
III. Assisting Body-Control
The latter half of the year is largely spent in
getting control of the body and its members.
Adults may be of much judicious help here. When
the baby begins to indicate by pushing and pull-
ing and the attempt to lift his head, the first im-
pulse toward bodily control, the mother must sup-
port the head and the back, offer her fingers to
the baby's grasp as handles and her lap as lever-
age for the tiny feet and knees. Especially is
kicking to be encouraged.
Creeping is encouraged by seeing that the
diapers do not bind the knees, and all the motions
toward bodily control are facilitated if the baby
is allowed a little time daily, in a warm space free
from draughts, to scramble naked. The climb-
ing instinct is believed to be important and is to be
encouraged, of course with watchful backing.
There is no hurry to make a baby walk, and
he should seldom support his body upon his little
legs until he learns to do so himself. Says Miss
Shinn : "None of these movements should be
urged and hastened. The baby should not be al-
lowed to bear his own weight, in sitting, standing,
or walking, till he is unmistakably able to; nor
is it desirable to urge a feat of balancing upon
a timid child, even when he is plainly capable of
it, lest he get fixed associations of fear with it,
and be actually held back in progress. But where
a child has become discouraged, or has been held
back a long time by timidity, a little cautious coax-
ing past the sticking-point may be the wisest
thing."
Some of the other appropriate activities are
splashing in the water, tearing, pulling, pushing,
rocking, "playing" the piano, lifting lightly, and
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toward the close of the year nodding and making
simple gestures.
IV. The Emotional Life
During the first year the emotional life of the
baby develops with his senses, but in such a
primitive fashion that it is hard from our adult
standpoint always to interpret it clearly. The
baby's feelings seem to be of about three sorts.
There are pleasant feelings, when he is comfort-
able, has what he wants, or is enjoying himself
experimenting. There are unpleasant feelings,
when he is uncomfortable, has not what he wants,
or receives a shock of fright. There are also
times when he is suddenly acted upon by a number
of stimuli at once, to which his response is that of
paralyzed astonishment. The way the baby tries
to tell us how he feels is by his instinctive acts
and his cries. The mother soon learns to dis-
criminate the cry of fright, of pain, of disappoint-
ment, of loneliness, and she finds out, through
her reading and experience, how to localize
bodily distresses.
In general, the mother endeavors to adjust cir-
cumstances so that the 'child will in the main have
pleasant feelings, but she can not always do so.
There will be enough internal disturbances and
mental disappointments so that every baby will do
every day the amount of hearty crying which is
requisite to expand the lungs.
V. Habit-Forming
At this point comes in the necessity of establish-
ing, by discipline, habits that shall be healthful
both to the body and the future morals of the
child. Says Kirkpatrick :
"The mother, like the trainer of animals, should
do things in the same way every time, that there
may be the same signs as a condition or signal,
when the child is being fed, dressed, or put to
sleep, and thus he will readily form habits of
having things done to him, and of doing the right
thing at the right time without any fuss.
"More complex habits that are really elemen-
tary acts of politeness, such as waiting quietly
for food or to be taken up, may also be formed
if care is used. If the expression 'in a minute'
is employed, and is at first followed very quickly
by food or attention, a beginning is made and the
time of waiting may gradually be prolonged. If,
however, the interval is too long at first, crying
may ensue and the expression become a signal that
starts the child to crying for food or attention,
instead of waiting quietly for it. The child may
also be taught to give up things quietly and to
allow himself to be taken where one wishes, or he
may learn to make a scene in all such cases. He
is not consciously either good or bad during
this period, any more than are animals, but he is
forming habits that will have important effects
upon the conscious self that develops during the
next period, and that will be likely to have some
influence upon his ultimate character."
If we were asked what is the one virtue for a
year-old baby, we should answer. The forming
of right habits.
A word ought to be said here about the matter
of sleep-habits in particular. The question arises
as to the relation of sleep and waking from sleep
to the whole emotional life of the child. There is
often a marked resistance on the part of babies
to embark on the voyage to dreamland. This is
no doubt partly due to the irresistible desire of
father, upon his return at night, to frolic with
his child. It seems to be partly explained by the
fact that the baby's nervous system often responds
to fatigue with fretfulness rather than drowsiness.
Not until late in the first year is there often any
terror of the dark, but many babies are made rest-
less by the nearness of too much light and noise.
In general, it seems best for the general welfare
of the child that the day should close with a
diminishing of excitement and play, cadencing
with quieting employments or attitudes that lead
to the gates of slumber. Most babies during their
first year, however, require an individual method
of being put to sleep. Doctors are relenting
somewhat from their dictum as to "no rocking,"
but they are as stern as ever as to "no churning"
of the infant body.
"Froebel," says Mrs. Washburne, "makes a
strong plea for the right of the child to have
his own mother put him to sleep. He says that
the child's last impression on falling to sleep, and
his first on awaking, should be of a loving voice
and face. Thus will the tender emotions be
developed in him, and his power of affectionate
response be increased. This accords well with the
modern understanding of the law of suggestion,
which has made us aware that the brain, on going
to sleep, is in a relaxed and impressionable condi-
tion, and that impressions received then, work into
the very centers of being and later produce their
inevitable effect. On waking, too, the brain is
similarly impressionable, only in this state its im-
pressions tend to bear fruit in conscious acts. If
we wish, then, to have our children loving and
sympathetic, their last impressions on going to
•sleep must be of love and sympathy. If we wish
them to be peaceful and contented, they must fall
asleep in quiet bliss. The instinct which leads
a mother to pray over her sleeping child, and to
kiss him as he sleeps, is a true instinct, implanted
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in her heart by the Father who sees that His little
ones receive what they need."
Miss Shinn believes that the manner of waking
from sleep is more important and neglected than
the manner of going to sleep. As soon as the
fourth month, evidences of panic upon arousing
have been noted ; by the tenth month these have
been interpreted as the evidence of a struggle to
get back to self-consciousness, and many believe
that some vague sort of dream occasionally haunts
even the infant's mind. Here, evidently, a sooth-
ing and interpreting presence is indicated, and
Miss Shinn thinks the mother does more to win
her baby's love 'by being always at hand when he
awakes than by any other single act.
VI. The Baby's Sociability
Although a baby does not seem to care whether
we approve of his own conduct or not, he is cer-
tainly sensitive to ours. A mother's irritated dis-
position will reflect itself within a few moments
in the behavior of her child. Babies are usually
better off if they are not played with too much,
but most babies suffer from not being talked to
enough. It is not necessary that they should be
able to understand what we say to them, but they
seem to be pleasantly stimulated if we talk while
we play with them. As the old nurses used to say,
"They want to be noticed."
The sociability of a baby has a definite educa-
tional purpose. It helps him to learn by imitating.
It seems a fair generalization to say that during
the first half of the year the baby learns chiefly
by trial-and-success and during the second half
by trial-and-success coupled with imitation.
It is a moot question whether affection is an
emotion that appears during the first year. Scien-
tists may say, no; but mothers will persist in say-
ing, yes. The .tenderness of a baby no doubt
arises in selfishness, as the result of being cared
for, and it demands innumerable hostages of
proof. But who can doubt that love is always
contagious, and that mother-love soon finds its
reward in clinging hands that express a heart,
little but overflowing?
VII. The Baby's Outlook at the End of
his First Year
The studies that have been made of individual
babies show that by the time a child is a year old,
his world consists of a space with a radius of about
a hundred feet from his eyes, within which he has "
examined the shape and size of all the objects •
within reach, to which he has brought himself
in contact by creeping, walking, or climbing; that
he has learned to distinguish himself from other
people ; that he knows a few people by name, and ■
can understand simple commands and can com-
municate by simple calls of his own ; that he has
considerable memory and the elements of imagina-
tion. He has, if he has been trained to regular
habits and to response to command, a pleasant
docility, while his will is manifest in his growing
persistence of action and in an occasional resist-
ance of adult authority, sometimes the expression
of physical discomfort, sometimes of self -assertion.
It will be safe to quote Miss Shinn's advice that
"The secret of happy and wholesome develop-
ment in the early years seems to be mainly in giv-
ing the largest possibility of free action" if we
remember the qualification that she gives: "The
remarkable hatred of restraint, the intense joy in
free activity, the busy energy with which, when
left to himself, the child would pursue his own
education — all show Nature, up to a certain point,
doing better with the development of senses,
muscle, and mind than any outsider could do.
. . . To secure to a child the largest freedom
of activity possible is a different thing from sim-
ply letting him run, uncared for ; it sometimes
involves more trouble than restricting him nar-
rowly; he must be companioned, cooperated with,
'lived with,' incessantly. But the results are
worth it."
VIII. Summary
What a Baby Should Learn the First Half
Year. — The baby chiefly learns during the first year
to use his senses. The first and most important is
that of touch. The next in importance is that of
sight.
Helping the Senses. — He must learn to use his
senses not only separately, but together. In order
to do this we must help him, especially by stimulating
him to see what he can do rather than to allow him
to be completely passive.
Assisting Body-Control. — The baby learns to
handle his members successively. In this process he
must be unhindered so long as he does not hurt him-
self. He must not be hastened, because if he is nor-
mal, he will get control as soon as he is strong
enough. Parents must devise helpful activities to
exercise the various parts of the body.
The Emotional Life. — Most of the baby's feelings
are pleasant, and, naturally, parents wish them all to
be so, but sometimes the little child must learn, for
his own protection, to do or suffer things which are
not immediately pleasant.
Habit-Forming. — In order to help the baby form
good habits we must regularly do the same things
every time in the same way. He must even form
the habit of learning to wait. Regularity in sleep
and waking is of the greatest importance.
The Baby's Outlook. — By the end of the first
year the baby sees a radius of one hundred feet from
himself, within which he examines all objects he can
reach ; he learns to know other people, to understand
simple commands and to communicate in a simple
way. He has considerable memory and the elements
of imagination. He is pleasantly docile, but his
growing will is manifest. The great thought in his
education at this time is that of free action. This
does not mean that he is to be uncared for. but that
he is to be wisely guided in every safe self-activity.
PLAYS AND GAMES FOR THE FIRST YEAR*
LUELLA A. PALMER
Note. — The little plays and games of childhood seem very trivial, yet it is through these that a
child learns many things about his world and gains control over his own body. Mother-love is con-
stantly devising ways to make baby laugh and grow strong. The plays and games here outlined for
different years (other articles by Miss Palmer follow) suggest ways in which the mother's instinct-
ive responses that give 4ier child joy may change as he grows and help him to develop.
Sense-Plays
Baby sense-plays are very simple. They con-
sist of the mere activities of seeing, hearing,
touching; yet they are very important, because it
is at this period that the most rapid progress is
made in sense-train-ing.
Fumbling hands should be supplied with articles
smooth and pleasantly rough, soft, and even hard
though light, like a celluloid ball. (Care must be
taken with celluloid toys, as they are very in-
flammable.) These may be fastened by cords to
the edge of the baby basket or top of the carriage,
or to the edge of the stocking, so that they will be
within easy reach to be grasped and pulled.
Although direct sunlight or bright light of any
kind should be kept out of the child's eyes, as
soon as he seems to notice a candle it may be
moved a few times from side to side to induce
him to follow it with his eyes. A shiny object
such as a watch may be held within reach until
the little one becomes proficient in grasping it;
then it can be slowly swung. This is training
in marksmanship as much as the later shooting
at a target ; it requires coordination of eye and
hand, and also perseverance.
Different pleasing sounds with bell or piano
can be made and repeated when a child begins to
show a tendency to pay attention to them. Adults
must devise a patent muffler for their ears, as a
baby should be allowed to pound with a spoon or
other object upon wood, tin, or some resounding
substance. Opportunities might be given to notice
contrasts. Occasionally, when baby is striking the
floor with his rattle, push a pie-plate within range
and watch the sudden attention.
Movement-Plays
A little baby should pull and push, scratch and
tear, or catch a swinging object.
Many rhythmic movements, of the limbs or
whole body, delight baby and help in strengthening
his muscles and mind. "The child's first practice
in the direction of future walking is found in
kicking, which is so essential to muscular de-
velopment." -j-
Froebel's "Play with the Limbs" X is well
known. In the picture which accompanies it is
seen a mother bracing her hands against the
kicking feet of the laughing baby. The mother's
response makes baby feel her sympathy; the tones
of her voice convey it too as she sings or chants :
"So this way and that,
With a pat-a-pat-pat.
And one, two, three,
For each little knee ;" §
or the well-known one :
"Shoe the horse and shoe the mare,
Let the little colt go bare.
Tread the grass and tread the ground,
Soon he'll scamper round and round."
Kicking against a newspaper gives a double
pleasure from the exercise of the legs and the re-
sulting sound.
For exercising the arms, chant :
"Pump, pump, pump,
Water, water, come.
Here a rush, there a gush,
Done, done, done."
For turning the whole arm round :
"Pinwheel twirl around so fast.
Twirl, twirl, twirl."
Let the whole body sway down and up:
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Down — Up
Repeat many times and finish with:
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or
Down
* Rearranged and revised by Miss Palmer for this book from her "Play Life in the First Eight Years," by special
permission of the publishers, Ginn & Company, Boston.
t Groos, "The Play of Man," page 79. t Susan E. Blow, ".Songs and Games of Froebel's Mother Play," page 3.
§ Emily Huntington Miller.
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Ball-Plays *
Baby's earliest plaything is the ball. It can
easily be grasped with both hands, fits the shape
of the hands, and presents no hurtful corners.
These first balls should be of rubber, as they
should be soft, easily sterilized, and not harmful
when carried to the mouth. Harder balls, wooden
or celluloid, might be provided when an older per-
son is near to protect the baby from the result of
the spasmodic motions of hand and arm. The play
of grasping strengthens the muscles and gains
added interest if the object resists.
A bright-colored ball, swung slowly at the end
of a string, incites a baby to follow the rhythmic
motion with his eyes, and this aids him to gain
control over them. Care must be taken not to
strain the eyes by either too rapid or too pro-
longed exercise.
Attach a white celluloid ball by a string to a
soft-toned bell and place it within baby's reach.
The child by accident may grasp the ball and will
instinctively pull it toward his mouth. This action
will ring the bell. After a few repetitions baby
listens for the results. When this little play is
well learned, two strings may be provided, with
white and red balls, only one of which rings the
bell. The child will be surprised when no sound
follows pulling the string. After a few trials he
will learn to select the right ball.
FINGER-PLAYS AND OTHER ACTION-PLAYS
BY
THE EDITORS
A GOOD deal has been said in kindergarten litera-
ture about finger-plays. By finger-plays is meant,
not plays which involve the handling of things
with the fingers, but plays by means of which the
child learns to control his fingers and to imitate
human activhies.t In other words, they are
* Long before baby could talk she knew the little play
for the fingers, "Here's a Ball for Baby.'*
"Here's a ball for Baby,
Big and soft and round!
Here is Baby's hammer —
O, how he can pound*
Here is Baby's music —
Clapping, clapping so!
Here are Baby's soldiers.
Standing in a row!
"Here's Baby's trumpet,
Toot-too-too. Too-too!
Here's the way that Baby
Plays at 'Peep-a-boo!'
Here's a big umbrella —
Keep the Baby dry!
Here's the Baby's cradle —
Rock-a-baby by!"
— Emilie Poulssott.
The ball is made with the two hands rounded together;
the hammer, by doubling up the hands and pounding, one
on top of the other. Baby's soldiers are made by holding
all the fingers up straight. The hands are clapped together
for the music, and doubled up, one in front of the other,
for a trumpet. For pecp-a-boo the fingers are spread in
front of the eyes so that baby can see between them. The
umbrella is made by placing the palm of one hand on the
index finger of the other, and the cradle by putting the
two hands together, insides of the palms touching and outer
sides open.
As I said the words of this little play and made the
motions, baby would try to make the motions, too. She
also knew "Five Little Squirrels." "Good Mother Hen."
and "Little Squirrel Living Here." Of course, she could
not play them perfectly, but she loved them and wanted me
to play them for her over and over.
— Mrs. Isabel S. Wallace.
t To illustrate how Froebel's philosophy helps the mother
to train her child, let us consider the pat-a-cake play. You
plays for mental awakening. For example, when
a mother takes hold of the separate fingers of the
child's hand and repeats the familiar rhyme which
begins, "This is the mother, good and dear/' al-
most any child will spontaneously, after its repeti-
tion, hold up the other hand. The child seems to
smile and say, "Why, all mothers play pat-a-cake with their
babies; that is nothing new." Yes, mothers have played
pat-a-cake for ages and ages, but if they want to know why
they play it, let them turn to Froebel, who points out that
the reason the little game is so widely known is because
"Simple mother-wit never fails to link the initial activities
of the child with the every-day life about him." He also
says:
"The bread or, butter still, the little cake which the child
likes so well, he receives from his mother; the mother in
turn receives it from the baker. So far, so good. We
have found two links in the great chain of life and service.
Let us beware, however, of making the child feel that these
links complete the chain. The baker can bake no cake if
the miller grinds no meal; the miller can grind no meal if
the farmer brings him no grain; the farmer can bring no
grain if his field yields no crop; the field can yield no crop
if the forces of nature fail to work together to produce it;
the forces of nature could not conspire together were it not
for the all-wise and beneficent Power who incites them to
their predetermined ends."
It is because we mothers have felt perhaps dimly and un-
consciously the lesson which the pat-a-cake play teaches of
dependence on one another, and the gratitude each owes to
all, that we have played this little game from ancient times.
I start to play pat-a-cake with my baby when he is six
months old. It aflfords him great satisfaction to exercise his
arms and to direct his movements so that both little dimpled
hands meet together. When he is about eighteen months
or two years old I begin to show him the picture of pat-a-
cake found in Froebel's "Mother-Play." Through this means
I gradually and easily lead him to see that "for his bread
he owes thanks not only to his mother, to the baker, the
miller, the farmer, but also and most of all to the Heavenly
Father, who, through the instrumentality of dew and rain,
sunshine and darkness. Winter and Summer, causes the earth
to bring forth the grain."
It is only after having studied the picture thoroughly
and read the chapter on pat-a-cake in the "Mottoes and
Commentaries" and committed to memory the verses and
tune in the "Songs and Music" of Froebel's "Mother-Play,"
that I am ready to teach pat-a-cake to my baby; and, as I
have shown, I do not teach it all at once, but refer to it
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crave the repetition of these sensations in all his
fingers and to desire to identify each finger from
his brain center. Again, wlien the mother repeats
the rhyme, "This pig went to market," and touches
the toes, the child not only desires this exercise
for both feet, but also bends over and grasps his
own toes, thus connecting the sense of touch in
the hands with that of the feet.
Many finger-plays are given in Volume I of the
Bookshelf. There are also several among the
exercises for the second year in this Manual.
There are simple nursery plays, given herewith,
in which especially fathers may e.xercise their
little ones. Each of these plays develops not only
the child's muscles, as the father plays more
vigorously than the mother, but also has its own
special influence upon the emotions and will. In
tossing-plays, for example, "the baby is scarcely
out of the father's hands before he is caught and
held in them again ; but in that one instant's sepa-
ration, that one instant's aloneness, the baby feels
the strong shock of surprise, if not of fear, and
the father must be careful always to follow this
shock immediately with the comforting clasp of
the baby in his strong arms so as to reassure him.
If he does this, not only will the baby's joy in
the play be increased, but a feeling of trust in
his father's strength be aroused, and peace in his
father's enfolding love will be fostered in the
baby's heart." In jumping-plays the father puts
the baby on some relatively high place, and stand-
ing at a suitable distance with open arms, invites
the child to jump into them. Such jumping-plays
foster, as do the tossing-plays, the germs of faith
and trust in just the small degree that is effica-
cious in babyhood. Picka-back plays encourage
bodily activity, furnish repeated mental impres-
sions, appeal to the latent power of attention, and
give opportunities, as the child throws his arms
about the father's neck, for expressions of love.
Romping on the floor gives opportunity for
startled surprise, which yields immediately to
laughter and trustful love.
A few "Riding Songs for Father's Knee" are
given herewith. Additional ones, together with
again and again, perhaps when we are out working in the
garden on a sunny day, or in the house watching the rain.
When my child is old enough to be interested in such
things, we go into a bakery shop, and to the astonishment
of the baker ask if we may see his ovens. We often pass
a mill, and I tell my child that this is the place where the
farmer brings his grain. Thus the lesson of pat-a-cake goes
on for a long time before it is first played in babyhood. It
teaches us to be ever thankful, and baby learns to say
"Thank you, dear mamma," "Thank you, dear baker,"
"Thank you, dear God."
There are many other songs and games in Froebel's
"Mother-Play" which I give to my children long before the
kindergarten age. In all of these they take the greatest
delight. I begin early to sing the songs and play the finger-
games which nourish the instinct of love for the members
of the family and affection for animals.
— Mrs. Princess B. Trowbridge,
many finger-plays and other action-plays and ac-
tion-songs, will be found in the Boys and Girls
Bookshelf, Volume I, pages 1-22, and Volume
VI. pages 15-32.
Riding Songs for Father's Knee
To Market Ride the Gentlemen
To market ride the gentlemen,
So do we, so do we ;
Then comes the country clown,
Hobbledy gee, Hobbledy gee :
First go the ladies, nim, nim, nim :
Xext come the gentlemen, trim, trim, trim :
Then come the country clowns, gallop-a-trot.
Ride a Cock-Horse
Ride a cock-horse to Charing Cross,
To see a young lady jump on a white horse.
With rings on her fingers, and bells on her toes,
She shall have music wherever she goes.
Here Goes My Lord
Here goes my lord —
A trot ! a trot ! a trot ! a trot !
Here goes my lady —
A canter ! a canter ! a canter ! a canter !
Here goes my young master —
Jockey-hitch ! jockey-hitch ! jockey-hitch !
jockey-hitch !
Here goes my young miss —
An amble ! an amble ! an amble ! an amble !
The footman lags behind.
And goes gallop, a gallop, a gallop,
to make up his time.
How They Ride
This is the way the ladies ride —
Saddle-a-side, saddle-a-side !
This is the way the gentlemen ride —
Sitting astride, sitting astride !
This is the way the grandmothers ride —
Bundled and tied, bundled and tied !
This is the way the babykins ride —
Snuggled inside, snuggled inside !
This is the way, when they are late —
They all fly over a five-barred gate !
rWilliam Canton.
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A Farmer Went Trotting
A farmer went trotting upon his gray mare;
Bumpety, bimipety. bump !
With his daughter behind him, so rosy and fair;
Lumpety, lumpety, lump !
A raven cried croak ! and they all tumbled down ;
Bumpety, bumpety, bump !
The mare broke her knees, and the farmer his
crown ;
Lumpety, lumpety, lump !
The mischievous raven flew laughing away;
Bumpety, bumpety, bump !
And vowed he would serve them the same the
next day ;
Lumpety, lumpety, lump !
Here We Go
Here we go up, up, up !
Here we go down, down, down !
Here we go backwards and forwards
And here we go round and round !
To Market, To Market
To market, to market,
To buy a plum bun ;
Home again, home again.
My journey is done.
Ride Away, Ride Away
Ride away, ride away,
Johnny shall ride,
And he shall have pussy-cat
Tied to one side ;
And he shall have little dog
Tied to the other.
And Johnny shall ride
To see his grandmother.
Up To THE Ceiling
Lip to the ceiling, down to the ground.
Backward and forward, round and round ;
Dance, little baby, and mother will sing.
With the merry chorus, ding, ding, ding !
A Good Child
H you are a good child.
As I suppose you be.
You'll never laugh nor never smile
When tickled on the knee.
See-Saw Sacradown
See-saw sacradown.
Which is the way to London town?
One foot up and the other down,
And that is the way to London town.
Nothing is surer than that a certain gayety of heart and
mind constitute the most wholesome climate for young chil-
dren. "The baby whose mother has not charmed him in his
cradle with rhyme and song has no enchanting dreams; he
is not gay and he will never be a great musician," so rims
the old Swiss saying. — Kate Douglas Wiggin.
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SUMMARY AND FORECAST
GETTING ACQUAINTED WITH TOM AND SARAH
WILLIAM BYRON FORBUSH
"What are you going- to name the baby?" Frank
Howard's father-in-law asked him, soon after he
learned of the expected arrival.
"Tom, if it's a boy," Howard responded
promptly; "Sarah, if it's a girl. Tom for you, sir,
and Sarah for my mother."
"Thank you both for the compliment," said Mr.
Spencer, with a pleased smile. "As a grand-
father, I must try to live up to it."
Mr. Spencer was out of town when the good
news came.
"It's a boy!" was the happy word that he got
by long distance telephone.
"Good !" he exclaimed.
"Wait !" cried the voice of his son-in-law.
"Better yet — it's a girl, too. Tom and Sarah, if
you please."
"Hurrah for twins!" called the excited grand-
father, as he ran downstairs to tell his wife.
"The more the merrier."
Of course Frank Howard was proud, very
proud. At the bank, in the hotel corridor, on
the street, he received a good many congratula-
tions. "It's only reflected glory," he confessed,
as he looked fondly at his wife, so girlish, so
happy, among the pillows, with the tiny mites, one
beribboned with blue and one with pink, asleep
side by side in the adjoining crib. "Hereafter
I expect to be known merely as 'Tom and Sarah
Howard's father.' By the way, they're not so
little, after all. The nurse tells me that seven
pounds apiece isn't at all bad for twins, and how
tall do you think they are, Mary?"
"Why, they're not tall, at all, at all, are they,
Frank?" asked Mary, who has a bit of the endear-
ing Irish.
"Twenty inches, madam, if you please, apiece,"
said Frank, with pride, "or forty for the pair."
"How in the world did you find out?" Mary
inquired.
"Well, it was a bit bothersome to get them out
straight — they seem curled up so, but that's what
they answered to the tapeline. And I found out
another thing, too."
"What is it?"
"They're all out of proportion."
"Oh, Frank! Is it anything serious?"
"No, dear ; the nurse says we're all born so, but
it was a new one to me. You remember in col-
lege I used to do the measuring in the gym. You
know, a man's head is about one-seventh of his
whole length. But I noticed right off that these
youngsters of ours, undressed, looked quite
different. Why, their heads are a quarter the
length of their bodies. Some 'big head,' all right.
And they're really funny altogether. No necks
— unfinished noses^ — legs like fins and "
"I thuik my babies are just beautiful !" Mary
exclaimed, almost with a sob.
Frank put up his tape-measure, seated himself
on the bed and put his arm gently around her.
"So do I — ^honest. But I confess, they look to me
a bit unfinished."
Is There a Father-Instinct?
Frank was really mightily interested. Maybe
the instinct of fatherhood is not so prompt and
potent as that of motherhood, which waits with
outstretched arms the coming to harbor of these
little ships of life. But pride does something, and
curiosity does something more. And one Sunday
when Frank was sitting by the window, with the
afternoon sunlight sifting across, with a baby
snuggled against each arm, he felt a thrill run-
ning through his whole being that he had never
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known before, and tears were running down his
cheeks, — tears that he could not wipe away.
"I thought my arm was asleep," he said, when
his wife found him so, "but I guess it was —
something else."
Still, like all fathers, Frank felt a bit left out.
He did not seem to be as much needed as before.
The babies depended wholly upon Her — they did
not really need him at all. And all those tender
and delicate operations in the way of care, he
knew how clumsily he performed them. And
as for understanding what was in those little
minds "I can weigh and measure them and
buy the little shoes and teething-rings," he said one
day, jealously. "In fact, the mathematics of babies
is about all I'm good for. How in the world do
you know what to do for them? You seem to
understand just what they want whenever they
cry, but all their cries sound about alike to me.
Is it mother-instinct?"
"Partly, maybe," said Mary, thoughtfully. "The
nurse has told me a lot, and both our mothers are
so helpful. But these little ones of ours are too
precious to be brought up by impulse and hearsay.
I determined as soon as we were married that if
my profession was going to be that of a wife and
mother I would have the tools for it, just as you
have for the law. You used to laugh at my
'library,' Frank, but I tell you it has saved my
life and that of our babies already. I am not as
wise as you are" — (Did Mary really mean it?)
— "but I know enough not to bring up my children
by guess-work."
Mary's Library
They moved together over to the little case of
books that stood beside the bassinet. Frank took
down one of the dignified volumes, noted the
pencil-marks in the margin, and then turned re-
spectfully to the index.
"Not so very exciting reading," he commented,
"but it looks to be all there, and where you can
find it."
"You spoke about crying," Mary continued.
"Do you know there are at least eleven reasons
why a baby cries?"
"Eleven at once, do you mean?" Frank asked,
with a grin. "I can well believe it."
"Look here," Mary commanded. She took up
a notebook and opened to one of its pages. "I
found this article so helpful that I have made
from it for myself a 'Crying Chart,' and I turn
to it a dozen times a day."
"What is this book, anyhow? I never saw it
before, did I ?
, "No, and if you dare to laugh at it, you're
never going to see it again. It is my Baby
Record."
After Frank had read every word carefully, he
said, with conviction: "Mary, I'll have to hand it
to you; if I prepared all my cases as carefully
as you have these two, I'd win them all. Why,
this is superb ! You've got it all down. Whose
idea was this — yours?"
"No, I got that out of my 'library,' too. I don't
think it is very scientific, but I did want to know
just how they were coming along. I thought I
would better understand what was coming if I
had set something down to go by."
"You're just right, my dear! How interesting
it all is ! It must have been a lot of work. Do
you write something down every day?"
"Not every day, but when I get time I try to
write it up for the days I missed. You see, it is
a sort of diary, but it is more than that — it is a
study, too. Every little while I take some one
fact that I am interested in, go over my record,
and make a summary that will try to show just
how the children are coming along in that par-
ticular field."
"I don't believe I understand," said Frank.
How Mary Made Her Records
"Let me read you something. Our five senses
are important, aren't they?"
"I should think they are!"
"Here is my little study of the way our young-
sters are- developing in this one respect:
" 'The first of our babies' senses that I noticed was
the sense of touch. It seems combined with a mus-
cle-sense. Each of the babies the day it was born
would clasp my finger when I put it into the hollow
of a tiny hand. The other way I noticed the use
of the sense of touch was in sucking, which the chil-
dren knew how to do from the beginning.
"'The babies. were born practically blind '"
"What I" asked Frank. "Is that so?"
" ' — not because they did not have eyesight, but
because they can not see things in our sense of the
word. The first use of sight seems to be in discern-
ing the difference between light and darkness. Dur-
ing the first week I thought Sarah turned her head
toward the light, and Tom did soon after. I was
surprised to discover that little babies do not wink.
" 'I am sure the babies did not hear anything at
first. I noticed that they seemed to be more sensitive
to jars than to noises, and I was surprised that they
made convulsive movements when they were held in
a position which implied that they might be dropped.
As they never have been dropped, I wonder if this
is a special sense.' "
As Mary read on, Frank grew more and more
absorbed.
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51
"How old are they now ?"
"Eighteen weeks, yesterday."
"What you say about color — is that true? Why,
I supposed we were all born with a sense for
color, and yet you say here that no child begins
to discern any colors before he is many months
old. Do we have to teach it, like letters and
numbers?"
Why Babies Should be Kept Quiet
"We certainly do. And here's another thing.
You complain sometimes that I keep the babies
away from you, and do not let you toss them
about. Don't you see why, now? You begin to
realize how sensitive and how helpless they are;
how easy it is to upset their nervous systems, and
how important it is that they be played with only
for a few moments at a time."
"When do I begin to come in?" Frank asked,
with a grieved expression.
"By the time they are five months old you can
commence to teach them, so you might as well be
putting in your time now learning to be their
tutor. Do you know what you are to teach first?"
"Why — er, Mary, I suppose — most anything —
rattles, and marbles, and baseball, "
"Baseball, the first year? When they can't
walk yet?"
"You tell mc," Frank replied, humbly.
"Now, Frank, don't think for a minute that I
pose as a doctor. Of course there were certain
regular food and sleep habits that nobody but a
mother could control. I am trying to teach them
to wait quietly until it is really time to be fed,
to go to sleep regularly without being rocked or
trotted or walked, and to keep from sucking their
thumbs. I guess that's about all, so far. The
story of a baby's first year, as I understand it,
is in two chapters. During the first half of the
year he is specially busy learning the parts of his
body and how to use them ; during the second
half, in locomotion, scrambling, creeping, and
perhaps learning to walk. Another thing: during
the first half they learn everything by trial and
success — they don't care what we think of them,
and they don't imitate what we do. But during
the second half they imitate. So then is when
fathers 'come in.' "
"Thank you. This is just as new to me as the
North Pole, or the geography of heaven. But it
sounds real and it looks reasonable. This al! ap-
peals to me, because it means System. You have
)'our work cut out for you in advance, and you
know just what to do in the nick of time."
" 'Nick of time' is good, Frank. I have been
reading that there are many things that it is good
to begin to teach a baby, even before he seems old
enough to appreciate them. For instance, chil-
dren seldom recognize a tune before they are
two years old, but they are sensitive to rhythm
much earlier. That is why I began to play softly
and regularly on the piano when they were a few
weeks old. and why I sing them lullabies already.
Even if they can not know color yet, they seem to
like things that glitter, and I am going to hang
red balls and ribbons to-morrow, so that these
will be ready for them as soon as they begin to
know red from gray."
The upshot of this talk was that Frank agreed
that, whatever else happened, the twins were to
be kept quiet and not exhibited so often or for
so long a time to admiring visitors. "We won't
have them thrown or churned around, or given
any more sudden shocks, or let Sam Browne try
any of his monkey-shines with them," Frank said.
"And if what you say about early training is so
important, and I believe it is, let's go to it. Of
course I'm not home much when they are awake,
except Sundays, but I'm with you on all this, too.
We want our youngsters to be as smart and wide-
awake as the next ones, and I can see that we've
both got to make a business of it."
"I am glad to hear you say this, Frank," Mary
sighed, with contentment. "I appreciate that,
while the children are little at least, they are
mostly 'up to me,' and I do want to be a good
mother. Whether it is on account of my banker-
father or not, I believe in System, and when I
read in my books on child-training that there is
such a thing as 'a Plan' for bringing up children,
I want to know about it. It seems to me that if
there are definite facts known about how children
develop each year of their lives, there ought to be
work that we can lay out ahead each year to help
this development. I believe my note-books are
going to help me to understand when these new
phases come on, and, with the help of the best
information I can get, I propose to 'fight it out
along this line.' "
"Bravo!" cried Frank.
Father Begins to Play with the Twins
Mary Howard was as good as her word. When
the twins were half a year old she "let her hus-
band in," as he had craved, on their training.
"I have been studying a little more about the
babies' senses," she told her husband, "and es-
pecially about this muscle-sense and the way the
little babies come to use their muscles. It seems
that they get active with their fingers about theili
mouths first, then with their hands in feeling and
grasping, then with their feet, and finally with all
of them together."
"Yes, I noticed that Sarah had one of her toes
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in her mouth this morning. That was 'all to-
gether,' wasn't it? Well, what does 'this fable
teach,' for instance?"
"Did you ever hear of finger-plays, Frank?"
"On the piano?"
"No. of course not. I don't suppose you can
remember when your mother used to count things
off on your fingers and thumbs and say rhymes
as she did so?"
"Oh, you mean, 'Thumbkin says "I'll dance",'
and 'This is the father, kind and dear'?"
"Why, you do remember, don't you?"
"Well, hardly, because this was when I was ten
months old. But our friend, Mrs. Corbin, was
doing it the other night in the firelight when I
dropped in to execute a mortgage for Jim. Where
do we get these charming exercises and poems?"
"I have some here in my 'library' — enough to
give us a good start. And I am sure we can make
up some more, if we need any."
It was a fascinating sight, the next few even-
ings, to watch Frank Howard, with a twin poised
on each knee, first doing a finger-play out of a
book, and then, after he had entered into the spirit
of the play, making up motions and rhymes as he
went along. His wife thought they were quite
as clever as any that had been written by Froebel
and the kindergartners.
From these it was but a step to "Peep a Boo" and
"Creep Mouse" and other old-fashioned plays that
exercised the whole bodies of these lithe and
laughing youngsters, and had to be interrupted
only so that they should not get too excited for
the twins ever to get to sleep. Father by this
time was having as much fun as the youngsters.
One- Year-Old Baseball
"Now for the baseball," he announced one even-
ing. Knowing his afliinity for the national game,
Mary Howard was somewhat alarmed until she
saw him draw from his pocket a soft kinder-
garten ball and blow it up. He circled it about
the table, he bounced it up and down, and rolled
it to the babies in turn ; and while they were some-
what aimless in their responses, he could find
no fault with their enthusiasm. "We evidently
haven't any Ty Cobbs in the family, but I can
see that they are going to be good sports."
By this time Frank was getting self-confidence.
"What they need is more fun for their fingers,"
he said one evening. "I have been reading about
the Montessori system in one of your books.
They won't be ready for that for a year or two,
but there is no reason why they shouldn't be get-
ting a chance to fumble around a bit and see what
they can do. I believe there are enough things
about the house to keep them busy." Mary was
tactful enough not to suggest that Frank was un-
consciously echoing another article that he had
read about home-made kindergarten materials,
but when he produced in turn a bottleful of
beans, a bunch of keys, a nest of boxes, and a
tiny cabinet of drawers that had been used by a
deceased great-aunt for a jewel-box, she properly
commended his ingenuity.
And the twins liked it all. True, they were not
very skillful yet, and they soon got tired. But
they were developing one trait that was very use-
ful to a busy mother-of-two, self-amusement; and
by varying the playthings from day to day, they
were always happily busy.
They Take a Baby Inventory
"Let's just see where we are now," Frank
said on the evening of the twin's first birthday.
He had out his tapeline, and he carried Tom
and Sarah gently to the bathroom door and held
each one, wriggling, while he took their stature.
"Won't it be fun to watch the two little ladders
of height go climbing up the marks on the door !"
mother said. "Which is the taller to-night?"
"Tom. of course," replied father; "by a mere
hair, though. Twenty-seven inches and a frac-
tion. And as for weight, Mary, they've trebled in
a )-ear. If they keep on at this rate, we'll be feed-
ing two white elephants. But height and weight
aren't much. Think of where they were a year
ago to-night." By this time both the babes were
in their cribs and Frank was seated in his Morris
chair and Mary in her rocker by his side. "Let me
get the Record, Mary. I'll warrant you have been
making up your trial-balance already, you little
bookkeeper, and you have got down all the chil-
dren's assets and liabilities."
"I did make a special entry to-day," acknowl-
edged Mary.
"Well, where are we now?" Frank repeated.
"You remember we have talked a good deal
about the way the children's senses develop?
^\'ould you care to hear what I have written
down about this ?"
"Certainly."
"I went back through tlie notebook, and here
is what I found:
" 'Active looking about : Tom and Sarah. 4th week
Active touch : Tom, 7th week, Sarah, 6th week
Consciousness of rhythm : both, 2nd month
Exploring with their eyes : both, 16th week-
Voluntary sounds : Tom, 4th month, Sarah, 18th
week
Range of vision, now : both, about 100 feet
Distinguishing color: Tom, now, 3 colors, Sarah,
4 •"
"Yes, but what can they doF" Tom asked, a
little impatiently.
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53
"I have a record of that, too.
equal in these items :
They are about
"'Lifting head: 2nd month
Active grasping with fingers : 10th week
Sitting efforts: Sth month
Sitting unsupported : 7tli month
Standing efforts : 7th month
Creeping : Sth month
Standing: 9th month
Walking alone; lltli month, Sarah '"
"Yes, but Tom would be walking, too, by now
if he wasn't so much heavier," Frank insisted,
stoutly. "That's a pretty good record, I think.
It sums up somewhat like this : that a year ago
they were more helpless than any of the animals,
their motions were wholly random, they could
neither see, hear, smell, nor understand, they
were so dependent upon you that they would have
died in a day without your care. To-day they
have made a growth greater than they will ever
make again in their whole lives. They have
learned the parts of their bodies and can get
about. Their senses are acute, they understand
most all that we say, and they know how to make
us understand most of their wants. They are
perfectly healthy. They know how to play hap-
pily by themselves. They obey implicitly. They
are good-natured and affectionate. In fact,
they've already got the whole animal world beaten
by a mile, and they know more already than half
the folks I do business with."
"Don't you exaggerate?"
"Well, that's a lawyer's business, isn't it? But,
honestly. Mary, I'm glad you kept that Record.
It is going to be invaluable to us next year. You
ask the average mother what she knows about her
young child, and she just goes off into a scale
of superlatives — all emotion and no information."
Mary glowed at her husband's praise.
"And it wasn't so much work, either. I did
a little now and then at it. Of course I was
guided as to what to put down and what to
expect."
"People may laugh at Child Study all they
please," Frank continued, "but as for me, I'm
mighty thankful that the twins have a book-
taught mother. You mix your mother-love with
brains, Mary."
They stood side by side and looked down on the
sleeping children.
"Somehow," Mary hesitated. "I didn't get it all
down in the Record-book, did I ?"
"How could you?" boasted Frank. "They're
the sweetest children in Hometown."
The child should make knowledge, not receive it.
"He is learning not to live in the world, but to live the
world.'"— rjErreest Carroll Moore.
MAXIMS FOR A MOTHER
A few maxims to hang up over the kitchen sink and read
over while the dishes are being washed:
1. Little children wish and need to be doing something
with their bodies and hands every minute they are awake.
2. They need a frequent change of occupation.
3. If I provide them with interesting things to do, they
will not have time to be fretful or to do naughty things.
4. When I see my children harmlessly occupied and using
their hands or bodies, I may be sure that they are educating
themselves even if I can not understand the pleasure they
take in their occupation.
5. When a child has a great desire to do something incon-
venient, let me ask myself, "Why does he want to do it?"
and try to understand and meet the real need which is apt
to underlie his unreasonable request.
— Dorothy Canfield Fisher.
INDEX TO SUBJECTS
To the First Birthday
Baby at birth, 29
Baby's bands. 10
Baby's bath, 5, 7
Baby's fears, 21
Baby's movements, 29
Baby's nerves, 18
Baby's proportions, 29
Baby's records, 17, 50
Baby's sleep, 18
Bath-table. 7
Books for expectant mothers, 4
Bowlegs, 12
Care of a baby, 5
Chart of child development, 26, 27
Chart of child study and child training, 25
Circumcision. 12
Cleanliness. 21
Clothing, 10
Companionship, 31
Crying, 29
Curiosity, 19, 34
Danger signals, 6
Defects of babies, 12
Dressing a baby, 9
Eating, 21
Elimination, 21
Emotional life, 21
Emotions. 36
Equipment for bath, 6
Fears, 32. 33
Feelings, 32
Fifth month, The, 33
First month. The, 31. 37
First year. The, 29
Fourth month. The, 33
Grasping, 32
Habits. 8, 21
Hearing. 30, 31
Heat-rash, 6
Helplessness of babies, 29
Holding the baby, 22
Hunger, 30
Imitation, 36
Imitation by babies, 20
Independence of babies, 24
Landmarl -n 1 J «» • shown because of the necessity of protecting
IV. Johns Books and Music .. • i, . ^r t i . .• r .u
•■ their beauty. You see, Johns conception of the
Better muscular control now facilitated John's right treatment of books was very badly formed
sight. He could walk, and hence do much in- as yet. The books that he could handle were
vestigation of his own accord. He had better those linen books mothers all know, with bright
control of his neck-muscles, so his head could be pictures. He also had a seed catalogue and a
easily moved as his eye directed. The muscles catalogue from a mail-order house with which to
of the eye itself could coordinate his eye-move- play at will. The books we showed him were
ments to a better advantage. illustrated by such artists as Arthur Rackham,
He was able to take longer trips, both in his Kate Greenaway and Jessie Willco.K Smith,
buggy and the automobile, so his experience of The songs I sang to John were divided into two
things to see increased. We helped him on these classes :
I. Those I expected John to learn to sing:
1. I found two books of old folk-songs (English), very beautifully illustrated, that were always a
joy to both of us.
(a) "Our Old Nursery Rhymes," harmonized by H. Moffat; illustrated by H. Willebeek Le
Mair, David McKay, Philadelphia. Some of our favorites in this book were :
"Pussy cat, pussy cat"; "Three Little kittens"; "O,' where is my little dog gone?" "Little
Miss Muffet"; "Oranges and lemons"; "Humpty, dumpty"; "Here we go round the mul-
berry bush."
(b) "Little Songs of Long Ago"; same illustrator and publisher. The favorites in this book
were:
"Young lambs to sell"; "Little Polly Flinders"; "The north wind"; "Little jumping Joan";
"There came to my window"; "Simple Simon"; "Four and twenty tailors"; "Little Tom
Tucker"; "Sleep, baby, sleep."
2. The following book has songs for beginners: "The Progressive Music Series," Book 1; Silver
Burdett & Co., New York, Boston, Chicago; 1914. This book has songs about subjects that
interest little children, as the clover, circus, moon, raindrops, etc.
3. This book has a few songs little children like very much: "Small Songs for Small Singers,"
by W. H. Neidlinger ; illustrated by Walter Bobbett ; G. Schirmer, New York. The favorites
are :
"The kitten and the bow-wow"; "The bunny"; "The chicken"; "The snow man"; "Little
Yellowhead"; "Tick-tock."
4. This book has some very short songs, only a line long, that children like. They always were
very easy for John to learn, and some of them greatly appealed to his sense of humor. The
book also contains some rhythms that can be used with the first dances. "Child-Land in Song
and Rhythm" ; words by Harriet Blanche Jones ; music 'by Florence Newell Barbour ; The
Arthur P. Schmidt Co., Boston, Leipzig, and New York. The favorites were :
"The cow"; "Piggy-wig"; "The rooster"; "The hen"; "The farmyard."
n. Those I sang to him and did not expect him to be able to learn for several years.
1. The following book is one I thought full of things beautiful to sing to John: "The Song
Primer" ; Alys E. Bentley ; A. S. Barnes & Co., New York. Some favorites were :
"Song of the seasons"; "The fiddle"; "Who has seen the wind"; "Jack Frost"; "The dream
man."
2. Songs from "Ballads the Whole World Sings"; D. Appleton & Co., New York: "Cradle
Song" ; Johannes Brahms. "The Dustman" ; J. L. Molloy.
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3. "Songs of Scotland" ; Jerome H. Remick & Co., New York and Detroit ; our favorite songs
were :
"The Campbells are comin'"; "O, Charlie is my darling"; "Hush ye, my bairnie"; "In win-
ter when the rain rain'd cauld."
4. Standard Folk Songs; Ginn & Co., New York, Boston, Chicago. Contains the beautiful Welsh
folk song: "All through the night." This is found in many collections.
5. "Negro Spirituals." John's father sang these to him. His father learned them from hearing
the negroes sing them. Almost any collection of negro songs contains some a child likes.
6. "Grammar School Songs" ; Charles H. Farnsworth ; Charles Scribner's Sons, New York,
Chicago, Boston. Some favorites were :
"The tailor and the mouse"; "Baby's play song"; "Rainy days"; "Wee, wee"; "The tree in
the wood"; "Churning song"; "The frog and the mouse"; "Swing low, sweet chariot."
V. John Is More Sociable
If for any reason John is held during a meal,
he wishes to be held every meal thereafter. He
would like to be all the time exactly where the
family are, and, to be more accurate, on his
mother's or father's lap. He seems to like strang-
ers, even. Many babies do not seem to like people
they do not know.
His liking for pets has increased. He pets the
cat, the dog, and tries to catch the bunny in his
play-yard. He has a shelf outside the kitchen win-
dow to hold crumbs for the birds. He likes to
watch them eat here and to watch them splash
in their concrete bath in the yard. Our yard is
full of squirrels that give him much pleasure as
they hop about among the trees.
His growing desire to play games shows his
increasing sociability. At first these games are
very simple and played only by mother and John.
But later he can play a game like "Ring-around-
the-rosy" with the whole family.
One type of game he loves is the "Finger-plays."
A number of these are found on page 88 of this
Manual. Here is a list of the "Finger-plays"
that John liked :
"This little pig went to market,"
"Here is a bee-hive,"
"Thumbkin says, I'll dance,"
"This is the mother, so kind and dear,"
"O where are the merry, merry little men?"
"Dance to your daddy."
John's chief desire seemed to be to be able to
fit into the adult scheme of things. He would
laugh when we laughed, although he saw no joke.
He tried to sing when we sang. He also jabbered
when we talked.
He was quite willing to include the neighbors
in his sociability by running away. This ten-
dency seemed a natural one that must be satisfied.
I could not allow him to play truant, as there are
too many dangers in these days of modern im-
provements. I had to punish him for running
away, but made it up to him l)y giving him a
broader experience in taking him visiting myself,
inviting children to our house, and taking him on
trips downtown and into the country.
VI. John Is an Imitator
For the mother who has a genuine interest in the
development of her child, the keeping of baby-
records is of much interest to her personally.
And for the mother who does not have this
special interest, the keeping of such records might
seem worth while, if she would realize that by
doing so she might really aid in collecting a mass
of data that psychologists could assemble and
from which they could deduce laws that would
be of much value to every mother.
Take the imitativeness of little children. The
following are some of the points a mother might
note :
1. When did you see the first attempt to imitate?
2. Describe in detail this attempt.
3. Keep a record of all other instances of imita-
tion during the first and second years.
4. When did your child first imitate a mood?
5. Keep a record of your process in teaching your
child to imitate one definite act, bearing in
mind these points :
(a) Age of child when you began to teach
this act.
(&) Correct description of the model held
before the child.
(c) Did you keep the model constant?
(rf) Amount of time required until the
child began to attempt imitation of the
act, and the amount of time necessary
for him to perfect it.
Such a record could be kept as to the imitation
of a physical act and of a mood.
John's imitation in the second year continued
to be chiefly physical. His most noticeable model
of imitation was of speech. A correct model in
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enunciating words helped very much at this time.
Such models meant that although his imitation
of a word might be poor, it was not because he
was given an incorrect model, but that his vocal
chords were still too undeveloped to say the word
properly. It meant that as soon as he gained
proper control of his vocal chords and had a cor-
rect speaking-image of the word, he would speak
it correctly.
It seemed to me that .the imitation of attitudes
could be _ cultivated further in the second year.
By suggesting smiles instead of cries, his crying
became limited. It also seemed to me that I could
begin a consistently cheerful attitude in him
toward everything by being cheerful with John
myself as different situations arose.
Practical Suggestions
I found that suggesting a definite thing to do
rather than saying "Don't" was the best way to
manage John. I must confess that my ability
to do this became strained as John grew older.
He is now in his third year, doing innumerable
things that immediately call for a "Don't." I
have to keep myself in excellent training to have
new interests to suggest, instead of calling out
the objectionable "Don't."
Dr. Tanner* says that imitation is dependent on
three things: (i) The absence of conflicting
ideas, which in turn is dependent on {2) atten-
tion and (3) the number of associations one
already has with the idea. Reasoning from this,
it would seem that our best way of getting a
child to imitate quickly and well would be, first
to gain his undivided attention, and second to
choose something that we want him to imitate
that he already knows something about. For
instance, if I want to teach John to roll a ball
to me, I get all other playthings out of sight, so
that his attention is not distracted by a string of
spools, a green wagon, or a red harness. And
then in the second place, let him play with the
ball by handling it. In this way he builds up a
number of ideas about that particular ball and
hence about balls in general. He learns that his
ball is round, is soft, and that it will roll as it
slips from his hand.
VII. John's '"Work"
There was a time when mothers and fathers
believed that it was not good for a child to spend
too much time in play. Now, if anything, the
pendulum has swung the other way, and all people
believe that a child becomes educated through
play, and some people even seem to believe that
* .\my Eliza Tanner, author of "The Child: His Thinking,
Feeling, and Doing."
a child should not be made to do anything that he
does not wish to do. With John I have found
that his play was educative, but that it helped
him to have a few duties labeled "Work." I
found that if he never did anything he did not
want to, he came to suppose that life was built
up around John. I felt that it was not fair to
him to permit him to grow up with such an idea
when it would be so far from the truth.
Practical Suggestions
Of course John had no work to do the first
year. It took all his powers to help himself grow.
By the end of the second year there were a few
tilings I could insist upon. I taught him to pick
up his own playthin.gs; to hang his bib on the
back of the chair when through eating; to hang
up his wraps after play out of doors; to hang
up his towel and wash-rag, etc. I wanted him to
learn that every one in the household must con-
tribute to its smooth running.
He was interested in imitating household ac-
tivities in a very crude way. I permitted him to
dust the furniture, to help me make the beds, to
make a little pie when I baked, to sweep with
his broom, and to iron with a sn->all iron. These
are only a few of the activities in which he
participated.
VIII. John's Emotions
Jealousy did not seem to be a part of John's
make-up during the first year. But toward the
end of the second year, when his brother Bobby
arrived, there were many signs of jealousy. The
attention that had been devoted to John now had
to be divided between the boys. John resented
this very much, and showed it by being very
hateful to Bobby, and by trying all sorts of means
for keeping our attention on himself. One day
I became aware of the fact that I was unfairly
centering my display of affection on the baby.
I had just said to Bobby, "You're such a sweet
boy," when John said, "I'm a sweet boy too.
Mamma." I learned my lesson. Thereafter
when I had both children with me I was careful
to praise them both and to give them both the
same amount of aft'ection. In this way I avoided
situations that incited jealousy.
There are things which I had to teach John
to be afraid of in his second year. He must not
play around the stove, he must not play aiout the
fender of the automobile, he must not handle
sharp objects. I had tried to teach John to leave
such things alone by saying "no, no," and, if
necessary, giving his hand a sharp pat.
Of course, I never invented any unnecessary
fears, as fear of the dark, and of the "bogey-
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man." It is cruel to impose such baseless fears
on little children.
Under "Memory" I have stated a few facts re-
garding the harmful effects of childhood-fears
that are long remembered.*
IX. John's Good and Bad Habits
I tried to keep up the regular habits as to eating
and sleeping that I began with John in his first
year. I found it just as easy as I did when he was
a small iboy.
I found that the second year began to offer
a small-opportunity to begin habits of good man-
ners. Although I could not teach John at once
to have the best of manners himself, I was care-
ful that he should see good models. He learned
to say "Please," and when prompted would say
"Thank you."
Practical Suggestiotis
So far as I know these* are the means mothers
usually use for breaking the thumb-sucking habit :
1. Thumb-stalls. I think that these are effective
only with very young children. I tried break-
ing John with thumb-stalls after he was a
year old, but he would pull them off as fast
as I could put them on. However, I used
them with Bobby at three months old and
they were quite effective.
2. Adhesive tape. This is all right when the habit
is not very well formed, but otherwise the
child sucks the tape, finger, and all.
3. Home-made mittens. These might have been
satisfactory with John had they been sewed
into a waist of some sort, but pinned to the
sleeves they were too destructive of clothing.
4. Aluminum mitts. These have been found to
break the habit in the ordinary child. Of
course, their use must not be in a haphazard
fashion, but continued until the habit is
broken.
♦ So few mothers stop to realize that older people may be
the cause of transmitting the fear of thunder-storms and
wind to children. Whether these fears come to the child
without suggestion or not. they do cause so much suffering
that grown people who understand all this should see to it
that no expression of fear by an adult ever reaches a child.
These fears are of no use and are of great harm. The least
expression of fear on the part of a child may be turned to
wonder, if the adult only controls his own feelings, while
commenting upon the wonder and beauty of the storm. At
least, the mother can ignore it and turn away the child's
attention by some absorbing work or story. The mother and
older sister of a child of five, usually very sensible, behaved
foolishly during a thunder-storm. The little child, by imita-
tion, became almost wild whenever a storm approached. The
writer, while visiting at their house during a fearful storm,
took little Margaret with her to another room, talked about
the storm as an ordinary affair, and finally suggested that
they watch out of the window to see the lightning. The
child's fear soon disappeared and she became absorbed in
finding out various familiar objects outside that they could
see only by the lightning's flash. — M. S. L.
5. A continual reminder with a slight shock. (By
a shock I mean calling to him in an unusual
tone of voice to "Stop it!") The trouble
with this method is that most mothers are
too busy to be with the child every minute
to remind him to take his finger out of his
mouth. One must be careful how such a
method is used with a nervous child.
6. Unpleasant Consequences. When the habit has
continued until the child is three, four, and
five years old, extreme measures are per-
missible. Then an unpleasant consequence
should always follow the act. Personally, I
believe slapping on the hands is legitimate
under such circumstances. A mother must
be careful to be consistent. The child must
not be allowed to suck his thumb unnoticed
one minute, and be slapped for it the next.
There are all kinds of cries, and a mother must
learn to distinguish between them. When the
particular cry is heard that may safely be ignored,
the mother should not notice it. If the mother
does take the baby up every time he gives this
cry, there will be absolutely no peace in the
family. She will be rocking him when he should
be in bed asleep; she will be holding him at the
table when she should be eating in peace ; she
will be trying to sew with a baby crying and
squirming at her feet. All this can be avoided
by having special play-times, and at other times
letting the baby amuse himself.
If, by chance, you have allowed this habit to
become established, the breaking of it may cause
an awful scene. The baby will yell and kick for
a half hour at least, if his cries are not answered.
But if he is a healthy baby, the crying will not
hurt him. I remember well letting John have
his first long weep when he wanted to be taken
up at an impossible time. However, the one
experience was all that was needed to make him
understand that crying did not get him what he
wanted.
X. John's Better Memory
It seemed to me that during this second year
John not only became familiar with surround-
ings, but at times was conscious of having seen
things before. John was so slow in learning to
talk that never during his second year did he
say. "I remember that lady." I imagine that
mothers who have children who talk well in their
second year find that toward the end of that time
their children begin to "'member" things in words.
We must not confuse, however, the ability to talk
with the ability to remember, as the layer with
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many children comes much earlier than the
former.
Mr. Colvin* says there are two I_)asal elements
in memory: impression and association. Impres-
sion "is to be thought of as that capacity in the
nervous system for receiving and retaining e.x;-
periences." Association "relates to the manner
in which the elements in memory are linked
together, so that they may be subsequently re-
called." The former activity can not be changed,
but mothers can do a great deal to help their
children form accurate and lasting associations.
Practical Suggestions
I followed a few simple rules during this second
year:
1. I let John experience an object in every pos-
sible way. The first piece of fur he saw, I
let him look at, feel, stroke, smell, lift. I
could have let him merely look at it : then
associations would have been formed through
sight only. By stroking it against his cheek,
he formed associations of touch, possibly
of weight, and certainly of warmth. Smell-
ing it formed the association of smell. This
takes time, of course, but makes life much
more intelligible to a two-year-old.
2. I brought new objects to him to experience. I
decided this could not be overdone, as a child
quickly casts aside anything he is weary of.
By bringing things to him I helped him to
become familiar with many objects early, so
that his memory would have many materials
to work with.
Memory for speech is necessary, as speech
develops during this year. I tried to help John
in this particular, by making the associations be-
tween the object and its name, clearly and often.
For example, each day as he was dressed for an
out-door airing, I said "cap" and pointed to it.
In a very short time he knew what the word "cap"
meant, and very soon he was saying it. I found
I had to be careful always to call an object
by the right and same name.
Memory as a general faculty, we are told, does
not exist. We simply have memories for specific
groups of things. This has been a very encourag-
ing thought to me. I can start a fund of memory-
images for John — one about birds, another of
stories, another of beautiful songs, and so on.
These groups of images that I start will gather
more similar images to themselves, sometimes con-
* Stephen Sheldon Colvin, Professor of Educational Psy-
chology, Brown University,
sciously, sometimes unconsciously, throughout his
life. In short, he will never be poor in beautiful
things.
XI. John Begins to Talk
Usually by the end of the second year a baby
has a vocabulary big enough to use for demanding
his most common needs, and as far as under-
standing is concerned, without being able to
pronounce the words, he has a very large vocab-
ulary.
John and I used to play a game by which he
could get drill in catching meanings to words
and pronouncing these words. At the table, I
would say, "Where is the knife?" and so on
around the list of table-furnishings, and in
answer John would point to the object I asked
about. I would also say, "What is this ?" pointing
to some object, and John would answer by giving
the name of the object. If his pronunciation
were incorrect I enunciated the word very clearly
after him, but did not insist on drill that would
be tiring.
I avoided "baby-talk" entirely. I do not mind
hearing a baby talking this way, but it is disgust-
ing to hear a child four or five years old still
mispronouncing his words. What a mother really
does ■ when she permits "baby-talk" is to teach
her child a list of inaccurate symbols of things
at a time vi^hen it is easiest for him to learn the
correct symbol. After having learned these
symbols incorrectly, the child must again learn
them all over. It is so unnecessary to burden a
child with this extra work merely for the adult
pleasure of hearing him talk "cutely" when a
baby.
His mental life seemed to grow active as he
grew physically, and especially after he learned
to talk. Then he began to ask many questions
which showed that he was trying hard to under-
stand the workings of the world about him. At
first I tried to answer every question, but I found
that he was coming to believe that his questions
were the most important talking that could be
done. As soon as he learned that adult conversa-
tion must be respected, his questions assumed their
proper place.
I kept a record of John's vocabulary. I always
had an alphabetic book and pencil handy, and as
soon as John acquired a new word I immediately
wrote it down.
Mothers might ask what would be the value of
such a record. I think the chief value to mothers
would be the fun of comparing the vocabularies
of the different children of the family.
The chief value, however, is to the psychologist.
It is possible that, with a sufficient number of
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such records, psychologists might discover laws
of learning with which we are now unfamiliar.
XII. How John Reasons
Reasoning, like all mental development, grows
gradually from year to year. The associations
begun in the first year only multiply and enlarge
in the second year. It seemed to me that any
reasoning done in the second year was still very
simple. John knew that bringing his bottle meant
something to eat very soon. He knew that being
put to bed meant that he should go to sleep. He
knew that the presence of his father meant a frolic
of some sort.
The acquiring of language facilitated his
reasoning very much. It meant that he could
classify things more quickly, could ask for in-
formation, and that he would have tools with
which to handle his thinking. The acquisition
of language has been the means of the same rapid
development to the child that it has been to the
race.
I found that laughing at John's queer associa-
tions, even in his second year, confused and
embarrassed him. We mothers should never be
guilty of this. I also found that repeating in his
hearing funny associations that John had made
retarded his desire to try to build up concepts.
Practical Suggestions
1 could help him best by helping him to classify
objects. For instance, until he knew the birds,
I would say: "This is the robin red-breast; this is
a wren bird; this is a blue jay bird." Or I
would say, "There goes a big yellow dog; there
goes a little white dog," etc.
I would gather together materials about the
house which were different but belonged to the
same class. I would give him big spoons and
little spoons, bright spoons and dull spoons, spoons
with long handles, spoons with short handles,
wooden spoons, silver spoons, tin spoons, with
which to become familiar. In short, I tried to
get together all sorts of materials belonging to the
same class that he might handle them, make noises
with them, see them, and thus begin to form cor-
rect concepts, and to clearly reason.
John's smiles the first year, I think, were noth-
ing more than signs of feeling good. But by
the end of the second year a few things seemed
to appeal to him as funny. Of course these repre-
sented a crude sort of humor, but it seemed to me
that such situations were worth cultivating. The
dog's chasing his tail, funny shakes of my head,
repeated noises, caused him to laugh.
By the third year his sense of humor really
took on some of the earmarks of adult humor.
XIII. What Imagination Is and Does
I can remember when I understood "imagina-
tion" to be an ability to place myself in unusually
pleasant and impossible situations. I would find
riiyself doing miraculous things as queen of a
delightful fairyland; I would take fanciful trips
to all parts of the world; often I rubbed a
charmed ruby, found myself dressed in fur,
among Eskimos, living as they live. Other times
I fancied myself hopping about the jimgle, enjoy-
ing and understanding the chattering and noises
of the monkeys and their friends.
This kind of imagination afforded me many
pleasant hours, and was not to be regretted. But
the reading of articles by men who had gone deep
into the subject gave me a correct conception
of it, and a clearer idea of how to make it a
working force in my life and in the lives of my
children. I learned that there are two kinds:
reproductive and productive.
To-day I visited an old home I would like very
much to own. As I write, I can see many details.
It has a large porch on the front with pillars.
Flagstones make an extension to the porch of
about six feet, where they end in a low stone
wall with stone steps leading down to a terrace.
On each side of the steps are pines — the tallest
I have ever seen.
Another porch, also with pillars, faces the
east. Beyond are lilies-of-the-valley, tulips, daf-
fodils, a large hickory tree, and a damson plum
tree.
The porch at the west also has pillars. It faces
the_ fruit orchard — cherries, apples, plums; and
a garden of small fruits — gooseberries, rasp-
berries, currants, etc.
This ability to recall such definite and true
images as that of the old house is called "repro-
ductive" imagination.
My old house offers many possibilities for im-
provement. I can sit here, reconstruct my house,
retaining many of its present features, and adding
many new ones. Around the yard I build a white
picket fence to insure privacy; over the porch I
start a vining rose; I add to the flower garden
on the east, hollyhocks, sweet williams, old-
fashioned pinks, bachelor's-buttons, marigolds,
etc.
My interior I almost rebuild. I open the old
fireplaces, fill with "smelly" pine on a chilly
evening— and, yes, really I see us all popping
corn over coals. I throw a dark, back parlor in-
to a front living-room and have one large, light,
livable room. I add baths. I put in steam heat;
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I lay hardwood floors. I even imagine a day
when I shall add an upper story. I dream
away an hour with my old house. Although
the house may never be mine to rebuild, still I
had experienced the real pleasure of rebuilding it
in my mind.
This kind of imagination is called "productive"
imagination. In this instance, it is my ability to
add to the real images of the house other images
I have gathered here and there with a house I
have never seen as the result, but one quite satis-
fying and possible.
This example of being able to recall the old
house so clearly, illustrates the value of being
able to make clear and accurate images. I can
shut my eyes and see the working plan of the
house before me although I am two miles away.
My ability to reconstruct the place shows how
valuable is "productive" imagination. With this
ability, I am able to convert the old house into a
livable and beautiful habitation. This example
of "productive" imagination also shows that my
original idea of imagination was a very limited
one.
We often hear it said of a person that he is
successful because of the gift of imagination.
The speaker refers to the "productive" imagina-
tion. He means that a man can make clear
images of his business or profession as it is, and
add improvements that enhance it.
To-day when I visited the old house, I also
went to the machine shop to get my Ford. Other
cars were being repaired — a Velie, Moline,
Dodge, Oldsmobile. I have just tried to recall
the appearance of these cars in the same amount
of detail I did the old house, but I can not.
Evidently something has happened in my make-
up to make it possible clearly to image houses
and not to image cars.
I have found that the same qualities that help
me form clear images of my old house are the
qualities needed when I wish John to see some-
thing clearly. No one has the same degree of
imagination for all things. I began early to help
John form clear images because when I was not
at hand he would need them.
Interest assures clearer images and more of
them. I am interested in all sorts of old homes,
but my interest in a car ends in its ability to get
me where I want to go. Consequently, my repro-
ductive images of old houses are excellent, while
those of cars are very poor.
I wanted John to know birds, so I began to
call his attention to them. I had him listen to the
early morning song of the cardinal. When we
saw one, I pointed out the crest on its head. I
called its color "red." I told him that it often
stayed through our cold winters. I taught him
the call of the pee-wee and showed him pictures
of the bird; now we are hoping to see the bird
near. We saw our first robin. We talked about
the color of its breast, its song, etc. This interest
I am starting in birds will create clear images of
them. These images will be like rolling stones :
they will add knowledge of the birds year by year,
until, I hope, bird-life will always be a pleasure
to John. I saw to it that this interest was sus-
tained. We mothers often begin to instruct a
child in some interesting field, and then permit him
to forget it.
By calling John's attention to these birds, I
assure Iiim clearer images. Interest and attention
go hand in hand. As John gives more attention
to bird-life, his interest increases, and as his
interest increases he notices their characteristics
more and more.
Practical Suggestions
The question arises: Shall I help John see
most through his eyes, or his ears, or his nose,
etc.? Authorities seem to disagree as to which
type should be cultivated. As a mother of one
and two-year-old babies, I feel this problem can
be ignored. It seems to me that any outstanding
quality of a bird, for instance, should be empha-
sized, and all thought as to how the image was
received might be ignored.
The problem of imaginary playmates troubles
many a mother, but it seldom begins after the
second year. I know one two-year-old who plays
he is another child. Children I have known who
had imaginary playmates, used them for a while
and then forgot them. It always seemed to me
that no interference, either by encouragement or
discouragement, was the attitude for mothers to
take. Children forget these imaginary playmates
when something better takes their place.
John, now in his third year, has no imaginary
playmates, but he has an imaginary office that he
shifts to suit his daily needs. Yesterday he taught
children music at this office, and to-day he manu-
factured shoes.
I feel this office will soon be forgotten. I see
no harm in permitting him to indulge this fancy.
He knows he really has no office, and knows that
we know it.
The greatest difference I saw in the development
of John's images the first and second year was
in the number of things of which he formed
images.
The first year he had to formulate very clear
images of very ordinary objects — mother, father,
chair, bottle, dogs, cats, etc.
The second year he increased his list greatly
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69
and still remained within a scope that seems very
obvious to aduhs.
Practical Suggestion
The coming of language in the second year
was a help. Learning the name of an object
called John's attention to it and gave it a "handle"
whereby to make the object more familiar.
XIV. The Disciplining of John
Most of us prefer to avoid disagreeable situa-
tions, and so I found in John's second year that
it was easier for all of us to "manage" John than
to discipline him. When I saw a situation was
arising in which discipline would be necessary, I
even removed the coveted object or substituted
one of more interest to John.
I found that I must be consistent in always
punishing a forbidden act. This is often very
hard to do, but we mothers must do it if we do
not want to confuse the baby-mind.
I made this motto, "Never punish when angry."
I felt that I could not trust my judgment at such
times.
There was no time in John's second year that
a whipping would have been justified. However,
when, in his third year, he threw an iron at his
baby brother, I felt that severe punishment was
necessary.
I did not find the handling of John's will so
easy in the second year. Such evidences of "will
power" occurred oftener with more attention fixed
on the desired goal, and with greater disappoint-
ment if the goal was not to be had — and often
the goal seemed to be somewhat unexplainable.
I remember John's taking, one day, with appar-
ently no reason for it at all, a notion he did not
want to be dressed.
During this year I changed my method of
handling such situations. John was still too young
to reason with, so whenever possible I suggested
as an alternative something else he liked and could
have. In the case of not wanting his clothes put
on, I said, "John, would you like to be dressed,
then go with mother to the basement to build the
fire?"
"Basement" and "fire" were two magic words.
He immediately acquiesced to having his clothes
put on and went with me — a very happy boy —
to watch me build the fire.
In the second year the acquirement of meanings
of words helped me to handle these situations. If
he had not known the meanings of the words
"fire" and "basement," my innocent device for
getting on his clothes would not have worked.
Practical Suggestions
I found that John's father and I must agree on
our procedure in discipline, because John realized
very early when either parent was an avenue of
escape from what he was wanted to do. His
father and I decided that when one or the other
handled the situation in a way the other did not
approve, we would not criticise the method used
before John, but wait and talk it over when John
was absent.
I found it useless to give many "whys" during
the first and second years. John did not even
understand when I gave them. I believe — but I
am sure that many mothers will not agree with
me — that it is more important that John learn
to obey immediately than to understand the "whys
and wherefores" of his obedience. I might add
that, in the past, I have so often unnecessarily
explained the "why" that John's tendency for
prompt obedience has been hampered. I am try-
ing to reform. From my experience, I found
that too prolonged explanations gave John a dis-
torted idea of his importance in our household.
He was fast coming to believe that he should do
nothing he did not want to do until convinced —
or very often not convinced — by a long and elabo-
rate explanation. How we all dislike the person
who insists upon being the center of the stage
all the time ! John was fast coming to believe
that such was his place in life.
I found that I need not expect noble qualities
in John during his first and second years. I could
not expect, if he were angry, to secure self-
control. I could not expect him to share a
coveted plaything with others voluntarily. This
sort of thing seemed left for the years to come.
John is now in his third year, with an increas-
ing ability to hold his attention to a desired goal
and a determination to "compromise" rather than
to obey. So I find a new stimulus to this particu-
lar problem ; I have found a few new solutions,
and am searching for more and better ones.
XV. John Begins to Consider Himself a
Real Person
As John was nearing his third year, he began
to think of himself as a separate person with his
own belongings, as mother and father were people
with their belongings. I encouraged this feel-
ing by giving him first rights over certain things
and places. A corner of my study was his to
play in when he wished ; he had a box all his own
in which to keep his playthings; he had a chest
for his clothing ; he had his own bed. I was glad
to help him grow in this idea of self, hoping that
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the ideals he built up for himself, and any respect
I could instil in regard to his personal property,
would ripen properly as he matured.
Only tales of children who have been unceas-
ingly contrary when little and have grown to
have beautiful dispositions later, give me any hope
in regard to John. Now, in his third year, the
usual thing is to wish to do just the opposite of
what he ought to do. U I say, "John, won't you
come upstairs?" more than likely he prefers to
stay downstairs. The only way I can explain
this is, that John is enjoying the ability to assert
himself as a real person. I have decided that I
have not ignored this sufficiently, but have chal-
lenged him whenever he wished to do the opposite
of what I asked him. I am going to try the
method of ignoring his "contrariness" during the
coming months and see how it works. I am also
going to be careful not to give unnecessary
commands.
CHART OF CHILD STUDY AND CHILD TRAINING
FOR THE SECOND YEAR
BASED ON "JOHN'S DEVELOPMENT AND TRAINING THE SECOND YEAR"
BY MRS. MADELINE DARRAGH HORN
THE BABY'S RESPONSES
He is ever active, climbing, pulling, walking, and
making use of the larger muscles of the arms
and hands.
He takes an increased pleasure in colors, odors,
tastes, and touch-sensations.
He enjoys musical tones and himself engages in
tuneless chanting.
He begins to understand and enjoy pictures.
He likes to be with people and to do things with
them.
He tries to imitate the physical actions of others.
Their ideas make slight appeal.
He develops certain lively fears.
WHAT THEY SUGGEST
If we see that he has comfortable clothing and
has large playthings and articles to handle,
he may increase in muscular strength and
control.
If we offer him a variety of sense-impressions,
particularly things of different sizes, weights,
colors, feeling, and taste, for experiment, we
not only enlarge his experiences, but if we
name each article as he uses it we give him
definite concepts and increase his vocabulary.
If we select simple and beautiful songs and in-
strumental selections, and sing and play them
to him, we shall give him a good musical
atmosphere, develop his taste and encourage
him soon to sing and to wish that he himself
might play.
If we show him picture-books with clearly-drawn
illustrations in black-and-white or strong
color of subjects within his field of interest,
we shall enlarge his experiences still more.
If we plan action-plays, such as finger-plays,
jumping-plays, running- and chasing-plays,
we will give him wholesome exercise and
encourage his sociability.
If we give him good models and execute what
we do slowly, he should soon learn many
acts that will be useful to himself, and he
may even begin to share in little tasks that
will be helpful.
If we ourselves are calm and reassuring at un-
necessary terrors, we shall eliminate these
from his mind. We would do well to let
him continue to be careful of real perils.
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THE BABY'S RESPONSES
He tends to develop a few undesirable habits.
He occasionally shows that he recalls a preced-
ing experience.
He tries very hard to talk, by imitating.
He begins to associate things and acts when he
sees them together often, and so does a little
reasoning.
He begins to show a little imagination in his
play, by pretending that one thing is some-
thing else.
He shows a tendency to rebel against doing (or
to stop doing) what he is told.
He likes to feel that he owns his individual pos-
sessions.
WHAT THEY SUGGEST
If we always cause undesirable acts to have un-
pleasant consequences and vice versa, we
build for good habits. Good examples also
are now necessary.
If we will let him have his experiences by a
variety of sense-impressions, by touch, feel-
ing, sight, etc., we shall tend to fi.x these
impressions. If we link new experiences to
old ones, we increase his number of associa-
tions.
If we enunciate slowly, and point to things by
name, using good language and not "baby-
talk," he will widen his knowledge and im-
prove his mastery of speech.
If we will bring together things of the same
class, he will learn how to classify them. If
we always associate certain actions of his
with what he should do next, we establish
desirable habits.
Since imagination is built out of images, the more
images, facts, words he possesses the more
he has to build with.
Most of such emergencies we can avoid by fore-
sight and distraction. Often we may aiiford
a pleasant alternative. Since the child can
reason little, "whys and wherefores" are use-
less. Gentle firmness is necessary. Corporal
punishment is usually senseless.
If we furnish a special play-place and something
in which to keep his belongings, we foster
this desirable sense of personality.
One of the essential thoughts in childhood education to-
day is that the child's own purposeful acts are the chief
feature in his development. — Grace E. Mix.
A CHART OF CHILD DEVELOPMENT
SECOND YEAR (From the First to the Second Birthday)
These references suggest helpful explanatory passages in "The Child Welfare Manual"
PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT
Movements: climbing and pulling first of the
year; walking, 12th to 14th months; running
alone, 18th month; in play, larger muscular
movements of arms and hands [L 210].
Activities: increasing dexterity and control of
hands; experimentation with objects; mimic
play-
Weight: beginning of year, average 21 pounds,
end of year, 27 pounds [I. 148, 382].
Height: beginning, average 27 inches, end, 31
■ inches.
Proportions becoming normal [I. 322].
Respiration, about 28.
Pulse, 120, down to 110 [I. 283, 284].
Temperature, as of adults [I. 284, 288, 289].
Dentition: at ly^, 12 teeth, at 2, 16 [L 209].
PHYSICAL SUGGESTIONS
Sleep: 12 hours at night and a 2 to 4 hours' nap.
Hygienic protection, as before [I. 211].
Food: milk as the staple, broadening into an ex-
tended dietary [I. 251]. Teach to feed him-
self.
Exercise: regular outdoor periods and sleeping;
opportunities for climbing, pulling, walking,
running, lifting, punching, manipulating, etc.,
especially for large muscles [I. 279, 280, 386].
Shoes: great care in selection of shoes (child is
flat-footed) [I. 266].
Habits: regularity in sleep, exercise and play, the
same things always done in the same way and
at the same time [I. 349, 350].
. MENTAL DEVELOPMENT
Senses: increasing mastery of colors, pleasure in
colored pictures; sense of distance of near-by
objects; sense of direction improving; sense
of form, solidity, and roughness increasing
during the year; pleasure in musical tones
common by 18th month, tuneless chanting
not unusual then; sensitiveness to pain and
temperature and to taste and smell noticeable
toward close of year. (It is not easy to state
definite months as to when these mental
powers begin to be manifest, as experience
and natural gifts vary.)
Speech: duritig 1st half of year, phrases; 2d half,
sentences. Average number of words used
by end of year, 200-250.
Emotions: traces of personal temperament
shown; moods, affected by teething; gen-
erally increasing joy in life, if health is good;
pleasure in physical sensations, color, and
play noticeable [II. 139].
Memory strengthening but not continuous; vol-
untary recollection not possible.
Imitation of literal acts of adults.
Reasoning develops through experience.
Instincts: fears many and lively [II. 140-142];
anger explosive; curiosity as to causes [II.
95]; play in transition from learning by han-
dling to learning by imitating [II. 132].
Mental activities: passion for hand-touch and ex-
perimenting; imitative, not imaginative play;
sense of self appears and with it self-asser-
tion, self-will, better self-amusement, more
will power.
MENTAL SUGGESTIONS
Sense training: give all sorts of touch-experiences
and opportunities to "do like mother"; let the
child listen always to low speaking-voices and
gentle singing and playing; have excursions
for seeing, hearing, and touching [II. 36, 37].
Teach correct speech by example — no "baby talk"
[II. 83-86].
Guard from unnecessary terrors [I. 308], and do
not show fear yourself; avoid seasons of tem-
per bv good health and not allowing teasing
[IL 143, 144].
Drill in memory by inviting child to recall experi-
ences; use action-drills, jingles, and motion-
songs.
Give simple toys for child's own experimentation,
and enlarge intelligence by picture-books
[II. 36].
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A CHART OF CHILD DEVELOPMENT
SECOND YEAR (From the First to the Second Birthday)
SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT
Likes companionship of adults, but does not care
for children of same age as playmates.
Develops sense of self, so that he likes ownership
of his own things [II. 248], and is capable of
more self-amusement with them, but likes to
watch adults and imitate them, talking, sing-
ing, working.
Spontaneous affection to kindred, but usually
shyness with strangers.
SOCIAL SUGGESTIONS
Increase expressions of approbation and affection.
Do more things with the child, but encourage
reasonable persistence and concentration in
his doing things alone [II. 236].
Do not encourage play with children except those
of the home — this to be of non-stimulating
nature and not too frequent. Insist that they
carry out your own ideas of quietness, agree-
ableness and cooperation [I. 387].
MORAL DEVELOPMENT
What is approved by adults is right to the child.
Tendency to selfishness and jealousy alternates
with generous giving and affection, toward
close of the year [I. 103-106].
MORAL SUGGESTIONS
[L 91-93; II. 10-14]
Habituate to a few simple requirements, without
exceptions [I. 349-350, 355].
State clearly, first, what is required and be un-
moved by entreaty, lament, or temper [II.
176-178].
Teach self-control by helping child to refrain
from crying, teasing, willfulness, temper, and
by giving him time to make up his mind to
obey. Don't drag him to a duty.
Teach:
Gentleness, by soft-speaking, and calmness
of manner [II. 2].
Politeness, by never-failing courtesy to child
as well as to adults, and by showing him
what courteous words and acts are [I. 91,
92-93, 104; II. 187].
Sympathy, by expressions of interest. Some-
times encourage expression of pity, but be
careful of too much emotional excitement
in this [II. 139].
Unselfishness, by always accepting child's
offer to "share" any special delicacy. Also
by example.
Emulation, by "showing how" [II. 139, 183].
Orderliness, by having corner, box, or drawer
for child's tovs. and letting him put them
away [I. 334; IL 10-11, 170, 173, 194].
Obedience, by gentle firmness, never by im-
patient demand or catching up child and
"putting him into place" [I. 355; II. 13, 42,
171].
Helpfulness, by sending him on little errands.
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"Do you know how the naturahst learns all the secrets of
the forest, of plants, of birds, of beasts, of reptiles, of fishes,
of the rivers and the sea? When he goes into the woods,
the birds fly before him and he finds none; when he goes to
the river bank, the fish and the reptile swim away and leave
him alone. His secret is patience; he sits down, and sits still;
he is a statue; he is a log. These creatures have no value for
their time, and he must put as low a rate on his. By dint of
obstinate sitting still, reptile, fish, bird, and beast, which all
wish to return to their haunts, begin to return. He sits still;
if they approach, he remains passive as the stone he sits upon.
They lose their fear, they have curiosity too about him. By
and by the curiosity masters the fear, and they come swim-
ming, creeping, and flying toward him; and as he is still
uninovable, they not only resume their haunts and their
ordinary labors and manners, show themselves to him in
their workday trim, but also volunteer some degree of ad-
vances toward fellowship and good understanding with a
biped who behaves so civilly and well. Can you not baffle
the impatience and passion of the child by your tranquillity?
"Can you not wait for him, as Nature and Providence do?
Can you not keep for his mind and ways, for his secret, the
same curiosity you give to the squirrel, snake, rabbit, and the
sheldrake and the deer? He has a secret; wonderful methods
in him; he is, — every child, — a new style of man; give him
time and opportunity." — Ralph Waldo Emerson.
WHAT TO EXPECT THE SECOND YEAR
MY LITTLE BOY MONTH BY MONTH*
MRS. ANNA G. NOYES
Thirteenth Month:
Ran as well as walked. Climbed up and down
stairs, holding my hand
Climbed upstairs on his hands and knees alone.
Fourteenth Month:
Walked more, ran more, climbed more stairs
On favorable days (February) walked in
Riverside Park
Dug up his first shovelful of dirt in Riverside
Got up and down from a sitting or lying posi-
tion to his feet without assistance of chair or
person.
Fifteenth and Sixteenth Months:
Increased facility in all achievements.
Seventeenth Month :
Climbed onto dining table by means of a chair,
without assistance or disaster.
Eighteenth Month :
Climbed everything climbable.
Nineteenth Month :
Climbed all about the park benches
Hammered nails and hit them straight on the
head most of the time
Walked all the way up and down six flights of
stairs, holding my hand and the banister
Climbed to fourth step of a ladder alone
Tried to jump while walking
Twentieth Month:
Ran and climbed, went up and down stairs with
increasingly greater ease, fed himself and did
not spill much.
Twenty-first Month :
Increased facility in all achievements.
Twenty-second Month :
More vigorous and sure in his activities.
Twenty-third Month :
Sprayed his own nose and throat while I „tood
by to assist.
Twenty-fourth Month :
Blew his own nose
Walked downstairs, holding to the banister, but
pushing my hand away
Helped mother about the house; carried dishes,
manipulated broom and sweeper and carpet-
beater, broke up maccaroni, and did several
little errands for her
Held absorbent cotton over his own eyes while
mother dropped menthol in his nose.
HOW THE SENSES DEVELOP
BY
THE EDITORS
Seeing
Before a child is a year old he begins to increase
in his power of recognizing objects of very small
size. By the twelfth month with some children,
as much as a year later with others, printed letters
* From "How I Kept My Baby Well,'
mission of Dr. Guy M. Whipple, editor.
KJJ.— 7
begin to be sought out and recognized, the letter
"O," of course, being the most easily discovered.
Differences of form in plane figures have been
noticed as early as the eighteenth month.
The understanding of pictures as being repre-
Used by per-
by Anna G. Noyes, published by Warwick & York, Baltimore,
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sentations of faces and of other objects lias been
noted by different observers as early as the eighth
or tenth month. The recognition of faces in
photographs seems to come at about the fifteenth
month. Details, such as the eyes and feet, have
been recognized at about the same time. The in-
terest in the story which may be connected with
a picture has been marked at various periods
from the middle of the second year to the begin-
ning of the third.
The recognition of distance does not come quite
so early. By the second half of the second year,
a child has been known to think that the moon
floated just beyond the reach of her arm, and
that a tall man a hundred feet away seemed to be
a boy much nearer. It has been estimated that
the space around a child to which he attributes
ideas of distance and size is now perhaps a mile.
The conception of real sisc comes between the
sixteenth month and the end of the second year,
that being the range of time in which children
learn to know the difference between the words
"big" and "little." It seems true to say that small
children feel a complete indifference to size in
identifying objects.
Young children do not feel much interest in
solidity. They feel surfaces over for their text-
ure, they like to feel them move under their hands
and to work some change upon them, but have
no curiosity as to their form. They may be
taught by the end of the second year the principal
solid figures. Through play they learn, also,
some of the fundamental laws of physics. Some
objects will stand, others will fall, others roll,
some may be crushed, others not. Some, such as
liquids, run freely and cannot be grasped, while
others are immovable.
Children are much later in recognizing color
than we usually suppose. No proof has yet been
shown that they have any color discrimination
before the last half of the second year. Some
time between the fifteenth and the eighteenth
months they learn to name the difference between
dark and liglit objects. At about the middle of
the second year they are apt to make a sudden
color discrimination, red, yellow, green, lud blue
probably being the colors first distinguisl d, while
violet, pink, and brown are among the la . Pleas-
ure in colors at this time seems to depen on their
light-richness and their warmth.
Hearing
The child of two months was found to be sen-
sitive to musical notes. By the middle of the
second year he finds occasional delight in tune-
playing. This pleasure probably does not become
continuous until about the end of the third year.
Children are capable of keeping time, some of
them as early as the twelfth month, others not
until they are nearly three years old. Rhythm
seems to impress earlier than melody. Rhymes
and jingles please by their rhythm. The earliest
period of recognizing a tune seems to be from the
twentieth to the twenty-fifth month. Young chil-
dren differ very much as to their capacity for
taking the correct pitch. Some have done so as
early as the eighth month, others not until the
fourth year. Nearly all young children, from
about the middle of the second year throughout
early childhood, amuse themselves with a sort of
"tuneless chanting or crooning of syllables."
Many of them through their happy hours sing
constantly. This crooning begins with a mono-
tone, but by the third year it grows more varied,
rhythmic, and modulated, until, while without
any tune, it has a pleasing and musical effect.
Sounds coming in vertical directions are located
with difficulty and those coming horizontally with
ease, even when they are distant.
The ear comes into an importance which is
destined to outstrip that of the eye as soon as the
child begins to associate a given vocal sound
with an object. The second year is the great
period for the acquisition of language through
imitation.
Feeling
Sensibility to pain remains low during the
second year, and though it increases during the
third, seems less than in an adult. The transitori-
ness of the distress is remarkable. It is possible
to distract a child easily by mental interests from
pain, and in the gratification of curiosity he will
undergo pain-feelings which seem to us moder-
ately severe.
The sense of temperature, too, seems to develop
slowly. Children are. of course, sensitive to even
moderate heat and cold, but they do not seem to
remark them as tested by the hand until toward
the end of the second year.
Tasting
The sense of taste is not careful during the first
two years. There seem to be no violent dislikes
during this period. Children do not begin to be
very particular until about the middle of the third
year.
Smelling
The progress of the sense of smell is less rapid
than is the case with the other senses. While
from six months onward children evince a lively
enjoyment of the scent of flowers, they often ap-
pear totally unaffected by odors which are offen-
sive to adults.
WHAT TO DO THE SECOND YEAR
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PLAYTHINGS FOR THE SECOND YEAR
BY
MARY L. READ
The material for sense-training tlirough this
second year should he very like that of the first
year. It should include a wide range of objects
that he can handle, of different shapes, sizes,
hardness, softness, the simple spectrum of colors.
There should be noise-making toys, as given for
the first year, and as much music as the family
can afford. There is a stage when he delights in
crumpling and tearing paper.
If possible, provide at this stage the largest-
size sheets of colored paper, in the spectrum col-
ors, that can be purchased at any kindergarten
supply-house. When the days arrive that he
delights to take out and put in, the wooden insets
such as Montessori uses will be a useful toy; or
the wooden nests of boxes sold at the toy counter.
A large milk bottle and objects small enough to
be dropped into it — but too large for him to swal-
low or put up his nose — will be useful. Such ob-
jects may well include some of the colored wooden
beads — about one-inch size. At about eighteen
months he will delight in spending hours filling a
bottle with sand, using a large spoon. This is
valuable training in motor coordination.
During this year play with building blocks be-
gins. It will require some care to provide blocks
of the best educational value, and some searching
to find them. They should preferably be plain
cubes and brick-shapes, the cubes not less than
two inches and the bricks not less than 1x2x2,
some of them being 1x2x4. These utilize the
hand and forearm muscles. A still larger size
can be cut and planed smooth by the carpenter ;
this will utilize the trunk, back, and upper arm
muscles. These can be made as large as paving
bricks. A set of blocks in graduated sizes are
also useful during this and the succeeding year.
Some of the blocks can be stained or painted in
the spectrum tones, to cultivate the observation
and enjoyment of color.
The sense of rhythm can be cultivated by hold-
ing baby's hands and clapping in time to music, or
swaying his body gently backward and forward
or to right or left while he sits on the edge of a
table, or swinging his feet while he sits on a table
or chair. Care must be taken to do this only a
few minutes at a time, in order to avoid fatigue.
The arm and leg exercise may be dispensed
with now, and games or play and free space for
his own activities may take their place. During
this year the child who is wheeled about in a car-
riage, instead of being allowed to creep, roll,
walk, climb, is being greatly handicapped. When
the ground is wet or cold, the porch or an open-
air room, with ample sunlight, should be utilized.
During this, and during the first year, the floor
of the porch, room, or pen should be covered
with a clean blanket to protect the child from
dust and germs, and in cool weather from the
cold surface and floor drafts. If wraps are
needed, a sweater and knitted leggings give
greater freedom than a coat. For the same rea-
son rompers are preferable to dresses.
Some time during this year the child begins to
climb up and down stairs. If the steps are broad
and not too high for him to manage easily, and
if they are not laid with dusty coverings, he can
be taught how to go down — backwards — and up
without falling. To spend an hour a day for a
week in teaching him how to do this, until he has
gained facility and confidence, will be valuable
physical and moral training. If the stairs are too
narrow, steep, or long, then he must be denied this
pleasure, for the sake of his neck, and the stairs
protected from his invasion by a gate or other
secure blockade.
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Apparatus for this year may advantageously
include the following:
A swing with a broad seat, having the corners
rounded, placed low enough for him to climb in
and out of it himself with ease. Until he has
gained facility in climbing in and out. a rug should
be placed beneath it to minimize bruises when he
falls.
A low stile or winding stair, having three to six
steps about three inches deep and two inches high,
adapted to the dimensions of little people.
A low ladder, firmly nailed against a support,
having two to five rungs at six-inch intervals.
Even at the beginning of this year the child is
able to play some very simple games, and this
tendency should be cultivated, not only for the
fun, but also because it means training of the will
and of concentration, even for the five or ten
minutes that his capacity now permits. He can
roll the ball and catch it as it is rolled to him on
the floor. When able to stand steadily he can
throw the big football, which requires both arms.
He can play at hiding, although it will be in his
fourth or fifth year before he has sufficient con-
trol to stay hidden until he is found.
He can be taught obedience and courtesy by
little games, handing over whatever is in his hand
when requested to. "Give it to mother." or "Give
it to father." He can be taught some of the sim-
plest finger-plays, such as the old nursery classic,
"Knock at the door." or the kindergarten delight,
"Here's a ball for baby."
Some toys are injurious for children. Espe-
cially so are toys that are germ-carriers, such
as whistles, woolly dogs, rag-dolls, or other un-
painted toys not waterproof, unwashable toys, or
those made in sweatshops and unsanitary fac-
tories. Live cats and dogs carry germ diseases,
especially in the city. Little carts or pushers that
make constant clanging and musical toys with a
harsh, metallic sound, are a strain on his nerves.
Pictures that are rude and ugly and coarse like-
wise distort his sense of truth and of beauty.
Flimsy toys, soon broken, weaken his sense of
property values.
Give him simple, washable toys, such as dolls
with good faces and animals of wood, celluloid,
or natural rubber ; toys that he can do things
with, as balls, plain blocks, sand molds, and large
wooden beads.
PLAYTHINGS. HOMEMADE
BY
MRS. DOROTHY CANFIELD FISHER
So MANY of our American farmhouses are situ-
ated in very rigorous climates that a good many
mothers will not think the out-of-doors a pos-
sible playground in winter time. This is less
true than they are apt to think. On almost any
sunny day in Winter, little children, if warmly
dressed, will benefit far more by a brisk, romping,
active half-hour's running and jumping than city
babies do in their swathed, motionless outing in
a baby carriage. And when really bad weather
drives them in, as it should do very seldom, the
country mother has a great advantage in space
over the city one. For there is about a farm
nearly always some corner, a woodshed, a corner
of the barn, an attic, or an unused room, where
little folks may romp and play actively. If neces-
sary the sacred spare room is better used for
this purpose than kept in idle emptiness. And all
the varieties of handwork are resources for rainy
days.
For, as the children advance beyond real baby-
hood and the mere need for constant romping and
climbing and running like little animals, their
instinctive desire to use their hands increases, and
this is an instinct which should be encouraged in
every possible way. Just as the wise mother sees
to it that they are provided when babies with
ample chance to roll and kick and tumble, so when
they are older she is never more pleased than
when they are doing something with their hands;
and she has all around her ample material for be-
ginning this handwork. A pan of beans or shelled
corn, with a wide-mouthed Ijottle and a spoon, will
keep a two- or three-year-old happy and absorbed
for a long time. A pack of cards to be shuffled
or used to build houses is another "plaything"
which does not need to be specially bought. A
pan of bran and a handful of clothespins occupy
even a baby of fourteen months, as he pushes
the clothespins into the bran and pulls them
out. I
A big rag doll, the size of a small child, is
easy to make and stuff with cotton. The most
rudimentary scratches serve to indicate the eyes, |
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nose, and month, and the lips and cheeks can be
colored realistically with any red jelly. All chil-
dren love a big doll of this sort, and delight to
dress it and undress it in their own clothes.
They learn in this way to handle buttons and but-
tonholes, and to master the difficulties of shoes
and belts and sleeves. A new corn-cob pipe and
a small bowl of soapsuds mean harmless fun for
the five-year-old, which is always watched yith
rapture by the littler ones.
And then there are blocks, perennial blocks,
which need not at all be bought from a store. A
father with a plane and a saw can plane a couple
of two-by-four stocks and in about half an hour
make as many square or oblong blocks (2x4x6
inches is a good size) as any child needs for his
play. These large blocks not only cost practically
nothing, but are much better for the little chil-
dren to use than the smaller, expensive kinds that
are sold; and the set will outlast a large family of
strenuous children.
A collection of empty spools of different sizes
is a treasure for the child of three who will re-
joice in stringing them on a cord passed through
a bodkin. When he is a little older and has
learned skill in this exercise he may graduate to
stringing buttons with a real needle and thread.
On baking day a small lump of dough (made less
sticky by working more flour into it) which can
be rolled and played with on a bit of smooth board
is great fun for little folks; and let the mother
constantly remember that any fun which is se-
cured by using the hands not only makes the child
happy, but is of educational value.
On washing-day a basin of soapy water and
some bits of cloth to be washed out will fill many
happy minutes. The oilcloth apron is as in-
dispensable for this play as for the outdoor water
play and for clay modeling. This last is perhaps
the most eternally interesting of the indoor oc-
cupations for little children. If the clay is kept
on a bit of oilcloth on a low table, it is not an
untidy element in a kitchen.
If dried peas are soaked for a few hours they
are soft enough to be pierced by a needle and can
be strung by four- and five-year-olds into neck-
laces and bracelets, or they can be put together
with wooden toothpicks into many fascinating
shapes. Dried watermelon and sunflower seeds
can be used in the same way. A box of dried
corncobs can convert a free corner of the floor
into a farm with log-cabin house, rail fences, and
barns. Trees can be simulated by twigs stuck
into bits of clay to hold them upright, and farm
animals can be rudely fashioned out of clay,
dusted over with domestic coloring material to
make them realistic — flour for sheep, cocoa for
brown horses and cows, charcoal for black ani-
mals, and then baked in the kitchen oven to make
them firm.
A rag-bag into which the children may dive
and delve is a resource for rainy hours, and if
the mother is at hand to keep an eye on the proc-
ess and tell what colors and materials are. to sug-
gest matching those colors and stuffs which are
identical and to make agreeable combinations with
others, rag-bag hour is as educational as any
exercise in a carefully run modern school. The
country mother has here again a great advantage
over many city mothers in that her work is always
at home, and of a nature which allows her to
supervise the children's play without giving up
all her time to them.
Provision should be made in the case of little
children for their desire to handle all sorts of
objects; the desire which makes them enjoy so
greatly a tumbling over of mother's workbasket.
There is no need to let them upset that when
there are in every country house such a vast
number of other articles which are not hurt by
baby hands — spoons, tin pans, boxes, tongs,
clothes baskets, and darning eggs. Furthermore,
instead of being told "Don't touch!" they should
be encouraged to learn how neatly and competently
to perform such ordinary operations as opening
and shutting drawers and doors and boxes and
gates, screwing the tops on cans, hanging up
clothes, and taking off rubbers.
SOME NURSERY ARTS AND CRAFTS
MRS. HARRIET HICKOX HELLER
Before the baby is a year old, he will, of course,
have grown quite active and be pleased with
variations of "Hide-and-seek," of which "Peek-
a-boo," being played by the mother from beiiind
her hand, is perhaps the first to attract his at-
tention. Later he will like to hide behind the
handkerchief, still later his pillow, and then come
into the ordinary forms of the game. "Pat a
cake" is quite an achievement, and when the time
comes that he can bring his hands together when
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mother says the words, he has made an important
step in the correlation of mind and body. He
can point to his head and his feet, and revels in
"Chin-chopper." The folk games of "Shoe the
old horse" and "Ride a cock-horse" have their
place in his experience about this time.
The Value of a Baby-Pen
A "pen" is especially important to a child
through the second year of his life, and to the
very active child it is valuable somewhat earlier
than this. In some particulars this second year is
one that is especially trying. The sense of power
is developing within the small citizen who has
learned but little as to ways and means of ex-
pressing himself. Of the effect of his own
strength he is ignorant. He strikes like a pugi-
list and annihilates ruthlessly. If he goes directly
from his nursery-bed to his "own little pen," it is
an extension of space, and he feels in it no re-
striction, since he never has had the full range
of the room or house. Here he is safe at the
time when children begin to drag off table covers
and bring upon themselves unforeseen catastro-
phies. He soon learns to pull himself up by hold-
ing on to the little fence, but no sooner than his
natural inclination and strength make him ready
for this achievement. He will teach himself to
walk inside his railing and will gain much of the
knowledge which it is necessary for him to learn
with reference to material things by the experi-
ments which he makes with the toys.
His mother must help him to interpret life
through a few blocks with which he can pound
and hammer. He will, of course, hurt himself,
but not seriously, and he must learn. A very
strong little two-wheeled cart which is pulled by
a string (not a tongue) will give him amusement.*
The stuffed toys, teddy bears, dogs, and dolls help
him to grow. A rubber ball too large to roll from
under the enclosure would be worth while. Toys
that a child of this age can possibly break should
be used only on occasions when they can be
guarded. A tin pan and a big spoon are some-
* A card-board box with a string tied through one end
makes a fine wagon. — 7. E. B,
times very amusing. Later on in the year two
pans, partially full of sawdust or bran, will some-
times keep a child of this age busy for a long
time. He will dip material from one pan to the
other and then back. A sheet placed on the floor
may be picked up by the four corners when the
game is over, and thus all the muss may be carried
away. You can always tell when the game is
over, because, instead of putting ingredients from
one pan into the other, he will begin to put it on
the floor or throw it about aimlessly.
Educational Experience
It is a valuable experience for a child of this
age to play in his bath water. He will spend
some time in dipping the liquid from one recep-
tacle to another. Bright colored objects, among
them a prism, should be in sight of this little chap,
and he should be able to handle them when he
wants to do so. He should be allowed to touch
everything that he sees and desires if it can pos-
sibly be arranged without injury to him. Even
the proverbial "looking-glass and hammer" may
be inspected, separately, under proper supervision.
Highly colored pictures can be placed, at first out
of his reach, but low enough so that he can look
at them. As his interest grows, he might have
the pictures in hand to "look at." He will not
tear books as long as he is interested in a picture.
When his interest ceases, it might be again placed
out of reach.
A "little teeter" may be made as a part of the
Dutch pen equipment by fastening to each end of
a somewhat flexible board, cleats about three
inches in height. He can stand on this, hold to
his fence and get the benefit of the spring when
he has reached the stage where he needs some-
thing else to do. A little chair and table may be
used and removed on occasions. Baby will be
learning new games during this year. "Hide-and-
seek" will grow a better game. If he talks early,
he may perhaps have the first Mother Goose
rhymes and will enjoy some romping plays. This
second year is the Ijest time for the real finger-
play which follows the familiar folk games men-
tioned (on page 46) with the first year.
SENSE-PLAY WITH MARGARET
BY
MRS. RHEA SMITH COLEMAN
There is, in my opinion, no training so important
as sense-training, and yet none so simple, inex-
pensive and altogether pleasurable. Do you not
know that the success of the man in his business
or profession depends very largely upon the
ready response of his senses to the things about
him ? And yet we find that in nine cases out of
ten, yes, ninety-nine cases out of a hundred, the
man whose senses are keen and alert is the one
who in early childhood has been trained to make
the best use of them.
Touch-and-Learn
The first sense to be developed in the baby is
that of touch. You are familiar with the marvel-
ous way in which Helen Keller's sense of touch
was trained. It would scarcely be worth while
for us to develop one sense to such a high point
of efficiency when our boys and girls have ears
and eyes with which they can gain knowledge.
Yet I believe they would be more efficient in later
life if we gave more time to the training of this
particular sense.
When Margaret was a little baby, I recited
such verses to her as, "Creep-a-Mouse," "This
Little Pig Went to Market," "Eye Winker, Tom
Tinker," suiting the action to the word. These
develop the sense of touch in the different parts
of the body. Later on, when she began to reach
for things, I put near her objects of different
form and surface.
After Margaret was a year old, I began to col-
lect a box of articles of various sizes, shapes,
quality, etc. There were pieces of celluloid,
aluminum, mirrors, and stones, to teach smoothness
of surface; sandpaper, rough stones, unplaned
pieces of wood to teach roughness of surface;
pieces of wood and steel for hardness; cotton
flannel, wool, and fur for softness; and long and
short pieces of wood, string, and cardboard;
large and small clothespins, balls, and nuts; sharp
and blunt pins and pencils ; straight and crooked
pieces of wire; heavy and light weights; round,
square, oblong, cubical, and cylindrical objects.
It might be well to add that some of these ob-
jects were for use at first only when an older
person was present. Margaret has always en-
joyed playing with these things. She put her
hands into the box, drew out an object, felt it,
and then told whether it was rough or smooth,
hard or soft, long or short, round or square, etc.
"Don't Touch"
These words are seldom heard in our home.
On the contrary, Margaret has been encouraged to
handle things about her. Our home is first of all
for her education, and, though the windows and
doors may have finger-marks and the books and
sofa-cushions become somewhat soiled, they are
hers to handle and, by so doing, gain knowledge.
This privilege has been a wonderful help in de-
veloping her sense of touch. She has been taught
that she must be very careful when she handles
anything that does not belong to her, and that
when in another's home she must not handle any-
thing unless given permission to do so. For the
sake of discipline, I purchased some plants which
she was not allowed to touch. I explained to her
that to touch them would blight them and make
them less beautiful, but that she might help me
water them and watch them grow.
"He That Hath Ears to Hear Let Him
Hear"
The sense of hearing develops very early. My
first efforts at training Margaret's sense of hear-
ing began when she was but a few weeks old. I
made it possible for her to hear much sweet, soft
music, sang songs to her, and took her often where
she could hear the sounds and songs of Mother
Nature.
When but a few months old, my baby would lie
very quiet when she heard soft music, but when
a loud, fast tune was played she would kick and
wave her hands in an effort to keep time with
the music. I seldom used the loud, fast pieces,
because they had a tendency to overstimulate her,
while the quiet music was soothing to her nervous
system. At the age of eight months, Margaret
would be so rejoiced at the sound of the Victrola
that she would pat a cake with the music.
When my little girl was three months old I
secured some small bells of dift'erent tones (such
as one can purcliase at the five-and-ten-cent
store) and hung them over her bed. She would
raise her hands and strike them. In this way
she learned to recognize different tones.
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After Margaret was a year old I continued the
use of the bells, having dressed them in red, yel-
low, green, and blue skirts. She soon learned
that the blue one sounded different from the red
one, the yellow from the green, etc. Through
the second year there were few days that I did
not play the Victrola. I chose such records as
"Mother Goose Songs," sung by Elizabeth
Wheeler ; Riley's "There, Little Girl, Don't Cry,"
sung by Evan Williams ; "The Star-Spangled
Banner,"' by Pryor's Band; "Rockin' Time," and
"Dusk Baby," to the tune of Dvorak's "Hu-
moresque," sung by Olive Kline. The tune and
rhythm of these are simple, and the words Mar-
garet quickly learned. The continued repetition
of these melodies made them become a very
part of her little life, so that I was not surprised
to find her, before the age of two, swinging her
dolly back and forth in her arms, as she said,
"Putting baby doll to sleep" in perfect time with
"Rockin' Time" as it was played on the Victrola.
Margaret's Musical Activities
Now that she had grasped the meaning of
rhythm in music, I used every means to develop it.
I would dance with her, helping her to keep step
with the music. I would clap my hands in time
with the music and she would pat a cake in imita-
tion of me. Whenever I played a record, I would
say, "This is march-music, one, two, three, four,"
or "Waltz time, one, two, three," or "A lullaby to
put the baby to sleep."* At about two years of
age, Margaret began to memorize little pieces and
songs, and the first ones learned were those we
had played so often. Now she sings several little
songs with the Victrola and keeps not only the
time but the tune as well. At the age of three
she recognizes a number of selections as well as
the voices of the singers: "Santa Lucia," sung
by Hamlin; "Caro Nome," "Thou Brilliant Bird,"
and "Romeo and Juliet," sung by Galli-Curci ;
"Listen to the Mocking Bird," sung by Alma
Gluck, and others.
A short time ago, after much coaxing on the
part of Margaret, we taught her to operate the
Victrola, and it has increased her interest many
fold. She thinks she is a big girl because she can
change the records, put on the needle and even
wind the machine alone. This privilege with its
added interest has sharpened her ear, so that in-
variably she knows when the last bars of the
music have been reached and will run toward the
machine in order to be there when the record is
finished.
* Note the parallel suggestions in Mrs. Seymour's article
on "Music for the Babies," page 87.
Margaret's Mother Sings to Her
Then again, I have always sung many songs to
my little girl, and with the possible exception of
story-telling, I think there has been no one thing
that has drawn us so close together. She often
says to me, "I love you. Mamma, because you sing
to me." A song will so often remove the pout
and bring the smile we all love to see. I have
not had a piano, and, as I am not able to get the
tune of a piece of music without hearing it, I
have in many cases made up tunes of my own. A
mother can often compose music which suits her
boy's or girl's voice better than that written by
more accomplished musicians. I sing to Margaret
many of the "Mother Goose Songs," Einilie Pouls-
son's "Finger-Plays," Stevenson's "Swing Song,"
"Jesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam," "Oh, Sun-
shine," "Farmer in the Dell," "Did you Ever See
a Lassie," and "The Star-Spangled Banner." I
sing these songs when I am about my work and
Margaret is playing around me, when we are on
walks, or at any and all times.
I have taught Margaret to hear and love the
sounds and music of Nature. We were happily
located on the edge of a suburb of Pittsburgh,
so that we have had ready access to the country.
Every day when the weather is at all favorable
we take our walk to the woods or hills. I often
say to Margaret, "Stop and listen." Then I ask
her what she has heard. If there are sounds which
she hasn't heard, I call her attention to them ; and
now she talks to me of the rippling of the brook,
the singing of the birds, the rustling of the leaves,
and the "woo-woo" of the wind. She enjoys the
rumble of the thunder and notes the contrast be-
tween it and the soft patter of the rain on the
window-pane. This music of Nature is each day
teaching her the harmony of notes, the sweetness
of tone, and the contrast of sounds, when Nature
is at peace and when she is disturbed by storm,
which no other training could give.
"Eyes and No Eyes"
You are, no doubt, familiar with this book,
edited by O'Shea, in which he describes the wealth
of pleasure and knowledge that was opened up
to the boy William on a walk through the country,
because he was ever alert to see and his mind
open to understand ; while to Robert, whose sense-
life seemed unawakened, it was uninteresting and
meaningless. We contrast the attitude of the
boys, and yet don't you agree with me that the
difference was because one mother had trained
her boy from the time he was a babe in her arms
to use his eyes, while the other had neglected this
all-important duty?
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63
Before Margaret was a year old I began to
teach her to distinguish objects and to select one
particular object from a group. I used blocks,
bells, papers, etc., of different colors, and when
she played with a red bell, I called it a red bell;
the same with the blue, yellow, and green, until
she soon learned to select the color I would ask
for and hand it to me. *
The objects with which she was surrounded and
played were never just "playthings" to her. They
were individualized. I would name them as she
played with them. Often I carried her about the
room and pointed out different objects. A picture
of Sir Galahad was Sir Galahad to her, and not
just one of the pictures on the wall; a dog was a
dog, not just an animal ; a bluebird was a bluebird,
not just a bird; therefore, at the age of one year,
Margaret would hand or point out to me any one
of seventy-five or more objects. She distinguished
between the pictures of six different birds, several
animals, and knew the primary colors.
We Take a Walk Together
I will describe to you an afternoon walk through
Eden Park in Cincinnati, Ohio, during the early
part of Margaret's second year, which will give
you an idea of how her sense of sight was de-
veloped at this period. The top of her carriage
was down, so that she could look about without
changing her position. We were just started
when Margaret said, "See baby. Mamma." She
had spied a baby across the street. A little farther
on she noticed a horse, a dog, then an automobile,
* The child must not only learn to feel color differences,
but also intellectually to perceive and recognize each color,
and then learn the name and associate the color name with
the color. This is all very difficult and requires much ex-
perience. The colors that seem to be first distinguished are
red and yellow. The child's eyes seem to be impressed by
the heavy and powerful ether waves of the red and yellow
lights, while the faster and lighter green and blue waves
are probably seen by him as gray. The child, like the sav-
age, is first attracted by the bright colors and broad contrasts,
and only slowly learns to distinguisli the more delicate shades.
The world to him must be one grand mosaic of colors until
he learns that these different masses of color are different
objects at different points in space.
From the world of colors the child passes to the discrimi-
nation of tlie world of form. He first must distinguish color,
then different areas of color or surfaces. After differences
of the areas of surfaces are discriminated, he begins to per-
ceive different objects. He begins to get knowledge of the
outer world. He begins to see a world in space and grad-
ually to learn the names of objects and take attitudes toward
them.
The child should first be led to distinguish between differ-
ent objects, forms, and colors. Contrasts should be presented
together, discrimination developed — bright and striking color
contrasts first, then fine shades; widely different objects, then
those more alike. Drawing, clay modeling, building with
blocks, all these help in learning form, and always there
should be close observation and contact with the varied and
irregular forms of nature.
Before the child is introduced to books and book learning
he should^ have a subprimary course to train his senses and
develop his motor powers. He must learn to see the world
before he can imagine it from books — first the seen objects,
then the imagined world. — Frank W. Shindler, Ph.D., in "The
Sense of Sight"; tised by permission of the publishers,
Moffat, Yard &■ Company, New York.
etc. Each time I stopped, allowed her to look at
the object as long as she wished, and at the same
time talked to her about it. We passed by a lawn
where there were some beautiful flowers. She
did not notice them, so I stopped, called her at-
tention to them and spoke of their color. We
went on and soon entered the park. The first thing
of note was a beautiful concrete bridge, to which
I called Margaret's attention; then to the pond
with its water-lilies; to the river far below with
its boats. Then, beneath the bridge, to the con-
servatory of flowers, the reservoir, the Art
Museum. Some of these things she noticed and
others I called to her attention. Each day she
noticed some new things and always something
which I had pointed out to her on the last trip.
One caution must be observed. Do not point
out too many things on one trip. One or two is
enough. How often we see the mother out with
her baby who during the entire walk will not call
his attention to a single thing or even appear
•interested when he makes discoveries that mean
so much to the development of his senses. It is
nothing short of a crime against his babyhood.
Such trips as these became much more valu-
able and interesting after Margaret's second
birthday, when the carriage was dispensed with,
and we went walking together. She then, as well
as I, was eager to push aside the bushes and find
the nests of the birds and to see whether there
were eggs or birdies in them. Then Margaret
would look well at the mother-bird, who no doubt
would be scolding because we were near her
babies, and give to her her proper name. In this
way my little girl learned where the different
birds built their nests, the color and number of
eggs they lay and many of their habits. With
equal diligence and interest she sought the frogs
and fishes in the brook ; pushed aside the grass to
find the strawberries; and looked into the trees
to discover the red, yellow, and green apples.
Margaret and I enjoy looking at the sky. We
talk together about the black rain-clouds and the
fleecy white ones. We try to see who is first to
find the moon as it rises, and how many colors we
can distinguish in the summer sunset. The stars,
too, are our friends, and very soon I am going to
begin to teach Margaret their different arrange-
ments in the constellations.
While on shopping trips downtown, on visits to
the Zoo, the Museum, or calls upon friends, we
are ever watchful that nothing of interest may
escape us. In our own home Margaret has grown
familiar with the arrangements of pictures, fur-
niture, etc., and if the position of anything is
changed during her absence, she notices it im-
mediately upon entering the room. I have also
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taught her to observe people's dress, and she will
invariably notice if her daddy comes down in the
morning wearing a necktie she hasn't seen for
several days.
A very pleasurable play-hour that Margaret and
I often pass, which has borne abundant fruit in
developing for her an observing eye, is the game of
Little Sharp-Eyes
which we play in a number of ways. We take
such pictures as those found in the "Most Popular
Mother Goose Songs," with illustrations by Mabel
Betsy Hill, or any picture in which there are a
number of objects, but in which each object is
distinct, and see who can find the most object.?.
Then we count the things in store windows or
along the road or street.
Smell and taste, though less important senses,
can be developed with no loss of time. I en-
courage Margaret to smell flowers, perfumes, and
spices, and compare their fragrance. I likewise
help her to note the different taste of foods by
telling her as she tastes them that sugar is sweet,
lemon sour, aloes bitter. A good play for de-
veloping these senses is to arrange a number of
things of different odors and tastes. Allow a
certain lengtli of time, and have a number of chil-
dren try to see, by smelling and tasting, who can
correctly name the greatest number.
PLAYS AND GAMES FOR THE SECOND YEAR
LUELLA A. PALMER
During this year baby directs his greatest energy
toward creeping and walking. He knows the
best way to develop his body and mind is by the
use of his arms and legs to find new toys and new
scenes of action.
Sense Games
A child in his second year is interested in see-
ing, hearing, feeling, and tasting, and all the ob-
jects within reach become possible material for
sense-training.
Besides the furniture, spoons, and other familiar
things which the child delights to use in his search
for knowledge, he can be supplied with toys, such
as a red and a blue ball, a wooden ball and a soft
ball, a gong and a hammer, a bottle with flaked
rice and, later, a box with stones. These two lat-
ter articles will afford endless amusement if the
children are allowed to empty and refill and shake
them. A newspaper is a very good plaything if
an adult is watching: a baby likes to hear and feel
the tearing. Only a few toys are necessary, as
sliding a bureau drawer in and out, dropping a
toothpick through a cane-seated chair, or folding
and unfolding a towel, will play-educate a child
of this age.
Movement Plays
For the principal movement-play during tliis
year, mother may supply steady chairs and a clean
pair of stairs, also a protecting hand. Patience
is about the most important adult help needed for
exercise. Let the child pull himself up and walk
as much as -he will without urging. Most chil-
dren are so proud of their accomplishment and
their muscles are pleading for so much exercise
that the little ones will easily overtax themselves
if persuasion is used. Lead a child to find out
what he can do and then supply opportunities to
do it, is a fairly safe rule, when applied with
mother-sense.
A child enjoys repeating the same plays over
and over, but he also enjoys varying a familiar
one. Father often trots the baby on his knee;
this little play may gradually gain variety by
changing it in the following way :
The first play and chant may be :
"Walking, walking, walking.
Go. pony, go.
Walking, walking, walking,
Whoa, pony, whoa."
When baby has become sure of his balance,
father may increase the speed of the pony:
"Trotting, trotting, trotting,
Go. pony, go ;
Trotting, trotting, trotting,
Whoa, pony, whoa."
Weeks later the child will be delighted to find
that another change can be made by making the
pony gallop. The completed play would be in
five acts:
1. Walking.
2. Trotting.
3. Galloping.
4. Trotting.
5. Walking.
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85
The arm-stretching can be accompanied with an
interpretative rhyme :
"So big is the darling baby,
She seems like a giant tall,
And now she's so very tiny.
She's a little fairy small.
"And now she's a shadow growing
So big and so straight and slim,
And now she's a darling girlie.
For kisses to nestle in."
The play of "Down, Up" used in the first year
can become more vigorous and end with a toss:
"There was an old woman
Tossed up to the moon,
She scattered the stars
With her own little broom."
Tossing and twirling can be combined, accom-
panied with the Mother Goose rhyme :
"Dance little baby, dance so high.
Never mind, baby, mother is nigh.
Crow and caper, caper and crow.
There, little baby, up there you go.
Up to the ceiling and down to the ground.
Backward and forward, around and around.
Dance, little baby, and mother will sing.
With a sweet little song, ding, ding, ding."
Children of this age like to "hustle tilings
about" for the sake of proving their power. They
like to roll over and over and to move in all the
different ways that they can invent.
When bathing is found tedious, small floating
toys, such as boats, sticks, sponges, frogs, ducks,
will help to pass the time away. (Older children
can make these by pasting cut forms on button-
molds.)
Dramatic Play
Mothers know many simple little actions that
baby enjoys and that really are the beginning of
dramatic play. She says, "Wash your face," "Go
to sleep," "Comb your hair," "Put on your hat,"
and baby makes the appropriate motions. W^hen
he is a little older she will say "Bow like a gentle-
man," "Take off your hat to the lady," "Rock the
baby to sleep."
Ball Plays
The child one year old delights in seeing the
ball roll, and it excites him to see it roll in his
direction. Toward the latter part of this year he
can control his movements enough to attempt to
return it, although his aim is very poor.
Let the little one have a large ball to grasp with
the arms, to carry about, and to roll. This will
strengthen the arms as a small ball does the
hands.
Hang a soft ball at the end of a cord. This
may be used to swing, to drag, to twirl, to pound.
As the baby makes one of these motions the
mother may sing as long as it is repeated:
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Swing, Bwmg, swing, swing
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Twirl- ing, twirl - ing, twirl - ing, twirl - iog, twirl
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Pound, poond
When the child understands the rhythm and
words, the mother may add to the play by singing
one of these directions when she gives the ball to
the baby, so that he for a moment follows the
suggestion of the word.
A CHILD'S FIRST INTEREST IN PICTURES
BY
THE EDITORS
"He hasn't got him yet !" was the little boy's de-
lighted daily report after looking in his nursery
book and discovering that the crocodile in the pic-
ture had not yet caught up with the pickaninny
that he had been chasing.
"Why don't they get to church?" was another
youngster's inquiry after he had for several weeks
turned to Boughton's "Pilgrinis Going to Church,"
and wondered why they did not arrive.
A third child put his hand protectingly over the
figure of a kid to protect it from an eagle, in a
picture. A child of kindergarten age has been
known to try to feed a pictured animal.
At first. Dr. Amy Eliza Tanner* tells us, the
baby acts like an animal with regard to represen-
tations of objects. He thinks the reflection in the
* .\niy Eliza Tanner, author of "Child:
Feeling, and Doing."
His Thinking,
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glass is a real thing, as the animal does the well-
painted picture, and as the savage thinks that his
reflection in the water is his spirit-double.
These remarks suggest the rather surprising
fact that pictures to a small child are not symbols,
but are a part of his living world. At the begin-
ning he notes the similarity between the house-
hold pet and the pictured cat more than the differ-
ence, and it is a long time before he grasps the
idea that the latter is only a symbol.
Predominant Interest in Persons and
Animals
Children often develop very strong but, as a
rule, transient preferences for pictures of differ-
ent kinds — much as they do for toys and play-
things. At first, a child will pass by all pictures
except those of people. A year later, a picture
of a cat may be the same child's favorite ; and
still later, a picture of a large monkey wearing a
gown, glasses, and a cap affords greatest delight.
Miss Shinn* says that her niece's interest in pic-
tures (middle of nineteenth month) "narrowed to
an almost exclusive desire for pictures of birds,
which was for some days a passion; and for
weeks to 'see birdy in book' was a frequent ap-
peal." Dr. David R. Major's record f contains
many statements like that just quoted from Miss
Shinn. "At first, pictures of human beings, es-
pecially babies and children, were R.'s favorites.
Later, pictures of animals — cats, dogs, cows, ele-
phants, and elk with great horns — pictures of
locomotives, and certain Mother Goose pictures —
the cow jumping over the moon was one — each
had their weeks or months when they were fre-
quently called for, pored over, and 'talked' to
with great pleasure by the half hour."
Ninety-nine per cent of the first drawings of
children are said to include the human face. Their
affections for ready-made pictures soon become
evident; they like living creatures, folks, and ani-
mals and birds, and they like them best in action.
They like only story-pictures.
Little Attention to Details
A number of observers have remarked that chil-
dren are indifferent to the positions of the pic-
tures they are handling or examining, that they
do not mind whether a picture is right side up or
wrong. Sullyt quotes from a friend, a psychol-
ogist, "that his little girl, aged three and a half,
does not mind whether she looks at a picture the
right way up or the wrong; she points out what
• Millicent W. Shinn, author of "The Biography of a
Baby."
t "First Steps in Mental Growth.'*
t James Sully, author of "Children's Ways," "Outlines of
Psychology," * Studies of Childhood," etc.
you ask for — eyes, feet, hands, tail, and so forth —
about equally well whichever way up the picture
is, and never asks to have it put right that she
may see it better."
In general, they are not curious as to details.
They will not notice that a figure is armless, and
as we know so well, their own first drawings often
have two eyes or ears on the same side of a face.
Yet they do seem to single out the eye as an ob-
ject of peculiar interest. Did you ever have your
two-year-old try to stick his forefinger in your
eye ? Little children often attempt the same with
a pictured eye.
One who had not attended to the matter would
say oft'hand, very likely, that children would pre-
fer colored pictures to uncolored ones. Obser-
Tation shows, however, that, generally speaking,
children under two and a half or three show no
decided preference either way. At first, the child
is interested in pictures merely as objects; then
later, in the observed similarity between pictures
and objects — persons, animals, machines — which
they represent, and not in the color. Color is
subordinate in point to subject. Later they ex-
hibited an interest in bright, crude colors.
No Esthetic Taste Yet
Michael Vincent 0'Shea§ found that the chil-
dren, as a rule, cared nothing for the reproductions
of classics. Colored pictures, even the crudest
chromos, and "cunning" pictures — little children
and animals playing — were always chosen, except
■when Santa Claus or the Mother and Child were
present. In many cases, when asked what pic-
tures were in their schoolrooms, the children
would be able to name only one or two out of a
large number. The others, apparently, had made
no impression upon them. They were over their
heads figuratively as well as literally. If this is
true of children generally, the problem of room-
decoration is hardly as simple as many people
think.
We need not lower our standard of the
esthetic, but simply change our subjects, accord-
ing to the interests of the children. It is per-
haps a bit disheartening to us adults, to whom pic-
tures have opened a world of beauty, to realize
that it is their usefulness and not their beauty
that appears to children, up to at least six or
seven years of age. They are to them simply
something to play with. They like to have them
little (as in the very cheap prints) so that they
can handle them better. For any practical end
they do not differ distinguishably from their dolls.
§ .Author of "First Steps in Child Training," "Linguistic
Development and Education," etc.
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87
What Pictures to Choose
The educational lessons that we learn from
these primitive tastes are plain.
Since to a small child a picture is "the real
thing" we should select his pictures, as we do his
other toys, to be a part of his little world of ex-
perience. They should represent the kind of
people and pets that he should love, engaged in
activities that he can understand.
Little incidents, playful, cunning, jolly, and un-
selfish, should be our choice, without reference to
their esthetic purpose.
While we need not strive to select great art, we
may choose clear, strong color and simple, well-
drawn action.
Most of all, each picture should suggest a good
story, and we should give the picture with the
story.
These four considerations have been strongly
borne in mind in the selection of the illustrations
for the volumes of the Boys and Girls Bookshelf.
MUSIC FOR THE BABIES*
BY
MRS. HARRIET AYER SEYMOUR
"No vmtter hoiv completely a zvoman has 'given up music,' she will some day find herself singing when
she holds her baby in her amis. As she recites Mother Goose and the fairy and folk-tore tales, .ihe moves
through the path of man's tipuvrd progress, led by a child, but with the life and understanding of adult years.
As she tvalks with her child in the garden and in the fields, she is driven to a now interpretation of the world
of nature." — Earl Barnes.
Teach the children to listen to birds and to
remember their calls.
Sing "Come and be washed," instead of saying
it. Here is a little tune spontaneously sung by a
child of six: "Something ever, ever sings." The
little child was right, but the trouble is most of
us do not listen.
Ask your question in song, Mother, and soon
you will be answered by a cheerful singing re-
ply. "Baby, where are you?" sung on a simple
ascending scale wall soon bring a musical reply
from a hidden child of "I am hiding here."
Play softly, sing gently, and listen.
During the day take some familiar tune and
swing the rhythm with the arms. Let the chil-
dren "step it," finding out where slow and quick
steps come. Afterward, have them draw lines
on the blackboard to show this duration, thus
. Let them find in
which direction the tune goes, up or down, and
make pictures of it, either denoting the direction
with a sweep of the hands or drawing a sweeping
line on the blackboard.
Singing, swinging, stepping, and making pitch
and duration pictures, the children live in music
as fish in water or birds in the air.
If there are quarrels and tears, play something
pretty and think the word liarmony. See how
this calms the atmosphere. The mother I speak
* This article should be read in connection with that portion of Mrs. Coleman's in which she tells just how she made
a musical atmosphere for her little daughter (page 81).
I KNOW a mother with four children who made up
her mind that her home should be a very heaven.
To her, music was God's special gift to mothers
and children, and so she began singing regularly
with each of her babies.
There are many lovely songs which a mother
can learn, and the best of all are the folk-songs
of different countries.
A gay song for baby as he eats his breakfast
and a quiet one as he lies down to go to sleep —
these will sink in deep and form a wonderful
foundation for the music of his life.
With the older babies have a regular singing
time. Five o'clock is a good hour. The children
of whom I speak had a "singing party" every day
at five, and sometimes the neighbors came in and
sang with them. Their mother grew to be such
a strong influence in the community that many
persons came to her for advice and refreshment.
Nagging is often simply a lack of something
better to do. A friend of this woman in speaking
of her home life said, "She has substituted singing
for nagging."
Joy is the best tonic there is, and happiness
creates health. The children's song-hour will af-
fect the atmosphere of the whole house.
Any mother who has had the regulation music
lessons can play simple songs and can learn to
guide her children into a singing life.
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of controlled her children almost entirely through
the power of constructive thougV. and music.
They easily yielded to the word peace sung gently
over and over.
Mothers, if they only knew it, have the making
of a new world of love, and music is a torch to
light them on their way.
To a mother who does not know any music, I
say, if you can, get someone to come for an hour
every day to sing with your children at twilight.
See to it that the words of the songs are con-
structive and beautiful and learn to sing a little
yourself. Everyone can sing a little.
Join the community chorus and if there isn't
one, start one.
"A singing army is a winning army." A sing-
ing family is a spiritually growing family, and
music the link that brintrs heaven to earth.
TRADITIONAL FINGER-PLAYS AND
IMITATIVE PLAYS*
THE FINGERS
This is little Tommy Thumb,
Round and smooth as any plum.
This is busy Peter-Pointer;
Surely he's a double-jointer.
This is mighty Toby-Tall;
He's the biggest one of all.
This is dainty Reuben Ring ;
He's too fine for anything.
And this little wee one, maybe,
Is the pretty Finger-Baby.
All the five we've counted now,
Busy fingers in a row.
Every finger knows the way.
How to work and how to play;
Yet together they work best.
Each one helping all the rest.
PUTTING THE FINGERS TO SLEEP
By Harriet Hickok Hei.ler
Go to sleep, my little Thunibkins,
Go to sleep.
Cuddle down, my Pointer Finger,
Quiet keep.
Come, my tallest Middle Finger,
Where's the sun ?
Slipping down behind the hill top —
Day is done.
Now, my timid Ring-man Finger,
See the west !
Oh, you tiny Baby Finger,
Rest is best !
BABY'S TOES
This little pig went to market;
This little pig stayed at home;
This little pig had roast beef;
This little pig had none;
This little pig said, "Wee. wee !
I can't find my way home."
* Other plays will be fuund in the Bovs and Girls Bookshelf,
THE FIVE LITTLE FAIRIES
By Maud Burn ham
Said this little fairy,
"I'm as thirsty as can be."
Said this little fairy,
"I'm hungry, too, dear me !"
Said this little fairy,
"Who'll tell us where to go?"
Said this little fairy,
"I'm sure that I don't know !"
Said this little fairy,
"Let's brew some Dew-drop Tea !"
So they sipped it and ate honey
Beneath the maple tree.
'JOHNNY SHALL HAVE
BONNET"
A NEW
Johnny shall have a new bonnet.
And Johnny shall go to the fair,
And Johnny shall have a blue ribbon
To tie up his bonny brown hair.
And why may not I love Johnny.
And why may not Johnny love me ?
And why may not I love Johnny
As well as another body?
And here's a leg for a stocking,
And here's a foot for a shoe ;
And he has a kiss for his daddy
And one for his mammy, I trow.
And why may not I love Johnny,
And why may not Johnny love me?
And why may not I love Johnny,
As well as another body ?
'ol. I., pages 1-22.
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89
TO LEARN ABOUT ONE'S FACE
Ring the bell,
Knock at the door,
Lift the latch,
And walk in.
{Chuck the chin)
\Pidl the front locks)
(Knock on forehead)
(Lift the nose)
(Mouth opens.)
Brow bender,
Eye peeper,
Nose smeller,
Mouth eater,
Chin chopper !
Chippety, chippety, chippety, chin !
Here sits the Lord Mayor (forehead).
Here sit his two men (eyes).
Here sits the cock (right cheek),
Here sits the hen (left cheek).
Here sit the little chickens (tip of nose),
Here they run in (mouth) ;
Chinchopper, chinchopper,
Chinchopper, chin! (chuck the chin).
BOW, WOW, WOW
Bow-wow-wow !
Whose dog art thou ?
Little Tom Tinker's dog,
Bow-wow-wow !
WHAT THEY SAY
"Bow-wow," says the dog;
"Mew-mew," says the cat;
"Grunt-grunt," goes the hog;
And "Squeak," goes the rat.
"Too-hoo," says the owl ;
"Caw-caw," says the crow ;
"Quack-quack," says the duck;
And "Moo," says the cow.
PAT A CAKE
Pat a cake, pat a cake, baker's man.
So I do, master, as fast as I can.
Pat it, and prick it, and mark it with T,
And then it will serve for Tommy and me.
PEASE PORRIDGE
Pease porridge hot.
Pease porridge cold,
Pease porridge in the pot.
Nine days old.
Some like it hot,
Some like it cold.
Some like it in the pot,
Nine days old.
FOR THE HURT HAND
Pat it, kiss it.
Stroke it, bless it;
Three days' sunshine, three days' rain.
Little hand all well again.
FOR COLD HANDS
Warm, hands, warm, daddy's gone to plow ;
If you want to warm hands, warm hands now.
THE BARNYARD
When the farmer's day is done,
In the barnyard, ev'ry one.
Beast and bird, politely say,
"Thank you for my food to-day."
The cow says, "Moo !"
The pigeon, "Cool"
The sheep says, "Baa !"
The lamb says, "Maa !"
The hen, "Cluck ! Cluck !"
"Quack !" says the duck.
PREPARATIONS FOR HANDWORK*
MRS. MINNETTA SAMMIS LEONARD
While children differ greatly in their develop- The first period shows almost nothing that
ment, they are enough alike to make it safe to could be called handwork, but it is a most impor-
divide the first four years into two periods; the tant time of getting ready. Then the baby gets
first two years, preparation, and the years from control of his body, learns to use the large mus-
two to four, beginnings. cles, to focus his eyes, and to exercise his newly
• This is the first of a series by Mrs. Leonard on Handwork. -Another article on "Beginnings in Handwork" will be
found in the Course for next year.
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awakened senses. He must begin to know the
world of things about him — how they look, how
they act, and what he can do with them.
Full and free opportunity to accomplish well
the work of these first two years is essential, and
the mother should begin early to watch and help.
She should hang bright-colored objects for him to
swing, handle, and throw. He needs objects con-
trasting in size, shape, color, weight — things that
move and things that stand still ; noisy, hard, soft,
warm, cold, rough, smooth ; things round and
things square. He needs toys to pound with, to
pull and push, pour in and out of pans and spoons,
and so on — anything to experiment with which
can not hurt him.
With the toys ought to be given real freedom
to get all the "juice" from them. Mothers have
an abnormal fear of a baby's getting a little hurt;
and if we were perfectly honest with ourselves
many of us would find, if our actions are the test
of what we value, that we love the "cute, dainty
baby-things" more than the baby itself.
Sanitation May Go Too Far
I used to pity a dear little girl we watched in
the park, and my pity turned to indignation with
her elders when I heard her, one day, humiliated
and blamed for what was not her fault. Helen
with her father stopped to admire a little twenty-
months-old baby who ran, climbed, and rode
her kiddie-car with rollicking glee. As they
moved away I heard her father say, "For shame,
Helen, that baby isn't nearly as old as you, and
see how smart she is !" Poor Helen, not only
robbed of her desires, but blamed for her result-
ing backwardness ! For she took her daily airing
securely strapped in a carriage, safe from "horrid
germs, dirt, and falls," where she could watch
the other youngster, dressed in a warm gray suit,
getting all the health, joy, and exercise the parks
could give. For though the parents of this other
youngster too were not unaware of the danger
from the dirt and germs of the city, they realized
that, since this was the best playground they could
give her, she had to get all the good it offered.
These parents knew that development of strength
and general body-control as well as self-confidence
and judgment are the background of all later
work. It was in this early freedom that she gained
the caution and poise of body and mind conspic-
uous in her actions and handwork to-day.
With our own child not only did we give
her a chance to experiment with things, but we
encouraged her to get herself out of all difficulties
and to do things herself, so that her earliest crow
of delight was, "See, Baba do it self." And "do
it self" became her name for the building-cans
when she was about twenty-one months old. This
pride in self-accomplishment is most essential in
character-building.
Companionship with Mother's Work
Our baby, of course, liked to see me cook. She
was never permitted to reach up to the table,
but might always pull up a box or chair to stand
on so that she could watch me. This not only
prevented serious accidents, but brought develop-
ment to her in handling big things and in plan-
ning often how to make steps up to the top of a
table or trunk. I had some convenient wooden
boxes and a strong suitcase that she could always
use. While watching and handling materials in
the kitchen, she found cornmeal and flour lovely
things to sift through the fingers and to pour.
But as these couldn't be washed after her play
and as I couldn't then get her sand, I substituted
rice. Sitting on a clean sheet on the floor, she
played a great deal with the rice, until in the
Summer we went to the country where she could
have a sand-box.* This turned out to be a real
nurse-girl, for safe from danger, she played by
the hour, pouring, sifting, and piling the sand.
All I could get to hold the sand was a dry-goods
box with high sides; but, after all, I found this
box the best I could have had, because she dis-
covered that, by fixing her chair outside and a
small box inside, she could climb over into the
sand. This gave her the great pleasure of
climbing up and down, carrying masses of sand to
put on her table for "dinner." The sand proved
so valuable that I had a box installed on the
porch when we returned to the city, and on rainy
days even let her play with sand in the house,
as she had formerly played with the rice.
Blocks Are the First Handwork Tools
Very early she enjoyed large blocks. I had to
search through all the best toy-stores for even
medium-sized, simple building-blocks, with no
success other than a twenty-five cent set of A B C
* A good size for the box is five by ten feet. First remove
the sod from an area of those dimensions, and if the natural
drainage is poor, replace the top layer of soil with gravel.
Procure two boards fifteen feet long and eight inches wide,
a few nails, and a joist, two by three inches and eight feet
long. Saw the joist into pieces two feet long, sharpen the
ends, and drive them into the ground sixteen inches at the
points tliat are to be the corners of the box. From each
board cut a piece five feet long for the ends of the box.
Nail the boards to the corner posts so as to form the sides
and ends and, if you wish, bevel the tops.
The apparatus is complete when you have hauled in the
load of sand, preferably of the grade known to dealers as
"tine beach." Be sure it is free from earth. It should be
changed at the first suggestion of foulness. To keep out
stray cats and dogs, it is well to place a woven wire fence
four feet high about the box.
To make a sand table, construct one or more boxes, eight
inches deep, of any desired size, preferably not over three
by six feet. Build a strong table to support the boxes, about
twelve inches above the ground. See note on page 60.
PREPARATIONS FOR HANDWORK
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91
blocks and some cheap oblongs with ludicrous
circus pictures. I used these, but also had a
carpenter make a set of oblong blocks from the
hardest sort of soft wood. I wanted them large,
because not only did she use the large muscles to
handle them, but had to exercise her whole body.
Besides, she found uses for these in making things
for herself which she never thought of with the
small ones. However, in this earliest period she
did little "making" with them. She loved to
arrange in rows whatever she happened to be
playing with — blocks, dolls, spoons, clothespins —
and then cover them over "to take a nap." She
spent much time and effort trying to wrap up odd-
shaped things. Dominoes to put in and out of the
bo.x, a cart and wheelbarrow to load with dirt
and stones, a little broom, a doll-cradle and car-
riage, a tub of water out of doors, and a pan, —
these were her chief playthings the Summer
she was two years old, and she learned to use all
of them fairly well.
Most of the play at this time is just to get new
experiences. To the adult it often looks like a
passion for destroying things. But gradually the
baby finds that he can make things which he
names, and be begins to value them enough to
repeat the attempt another time. He is now ready
to enter a new period, and the mother may do
much to encourage him and help him to turn
destructive energy into constructive channels.
DIFFERENCES BETWEEN INFANT AND ADULT
MEMORY*
BY
DAVID R. MAJOR, Pii.D.
We may well consider the difference between the
memory of the infant and that of the adult.
First, we may speak of the lack of continuity,
the so-called weakness of the infant's memory.
When we speak of the adult's memory as being
stronger and as having greater continuity than
that of the infant, we mean that the mental im-
pressions of the adult are retained for a longer
period — for weeks, months, years, or to the end
of his days; whereas, the baby remembers for
only a moment or a few seconds. We say that
the impressions on the infant's mind fade away
almost the instant the stimulus ceases. The ex-
l)lanation of the fleeting character of the infant's
mental impressions is found in the fact that the
associations which are formed are weak and un-
substantial. The bonds of association are like
ropes of sand: unless they are continually rebuilt
they fall away.
How early may we find associations which per-
sist beyond the moment and which endure al-
though they are not continually renewed? My
own observations on this point, though far from
being as thorough as one wishes, still will serve
to indicate the directions in which one might look
for answers in the case of an individual child.
On R.'s 411th day (fourteenth month) he was
playing with a ball, rolling it. crawling after it,
and so on. After awhile the ball rolled under
a couch out of easy reach and he went about
other play. A half hour later, in order to see
whether he would remember where he had last
seen the ball, I said to him, "Get the ball, R."
He at once crawled to the couch, got down on his
stomach and struggled until he fished the ball
out. This was the first time we noticed that he re-
membered anything for more than a few seconds,
though there must have been earlier instances
not noted. Compayref quotes from Egger's:}: rec-
ord a similar observation: "At that age (fifteen
months) Emile seizes a toy that he has left or
hidden under a chair; a quarter of an hour after-
ward I asked him for it; he goes straight to the
object and brings it to me." Two notes made in
R.'s eighteenth month show that he remembered
interesting plays for periods of twenty-four hours,
or more. A note from the record for the nine-
teenth month shows the child's ability to remem-
ber places. The child's memory for names heard
once was also increasing. On a certain evening
in the latter part of the nineteenth month, I
pointed out and named the moon for him. Three
evenings after, he accidentally caught sight of
the moon, reached toward it, and cried "moom."
The name "moon" was remembered during the
interval of three days.
* From "First Steps in Mental Growth," by David R. Major, published by the Macmillan Company, New York. Used
by permission of the publishers.
t Tules Gabriel Compa-yre, author of "The Intellectual and Moral Development of the Child."
j Emile Egger, a French scholar, author of "Observations et reflexions sur le developt'ement de I'intelligence €t du lan-
gagc chez les e^fattts."
K.X.— 8
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In the cases of remembering just cited we may
suppose that the associations had not been re-
newed since they were first formed; that the child
had reached the age when impressions and asso-
ciations persisted for several days, even when
they were not renewed in the interval. It is per-
haps unnecessary to follow the record farther
month by month. It shows that an increasing
number of experiences were selected and remem-
bered for longer and longer periods. Of course,
it is not to be supposed that the child remembered
all things' — names, actions, where playthings were
left, where people lived, persons he had seen,
whether food was good, and so forth ; in fact,
the things he did not remember far outnumbered
those which he did, and his failure to remember
some things and persons was as striking as was
his ability to remember others.
Another characteristic of a little child's mem-
ories is that, as a rule, they are not accurately
localized in time and space as are probably most
adult memories. As Compayre observes, "The
picture is engraved on his memory, but the set-
ting has vanished. He remembers distinctly the
things he has seen, but he can not tell where or
when he saw them." It must be remembered
that the ideas of time and space are not equally
difficult of acquirement : space-relations are noted
and remembered much earlier than time-relations.
The idea of time is clearly harder; it requires
a wider sweep of imagination, a higher process
of analysis and discrimination to master the
ideas of "now," "to-morrow," "yesterday," "long
ago," "next summer," than to understand "far"
and "near," "on" and "under." "in front," "be-
hind," "inside," "outside," and the like.
Another difference between the memories of
the baby and those of the adult is that the former
are sense-excited ; they arise in consciousness
immediately and directly at the suggestion of a
sense-stimulus, while most of the memories of the
developed mind appear in connection with other
memories, images revived by other images.
It may be said generally that during the first
year the child's memory-images are revived by
some sort of sense-impression. At any rate, this
was true of R.'s first year. His memory-images
were called up by sensory stimuli ; the name of
an object was heard and the image of the object
appeared in consciousness; a doll in the hand
suggested squeezing it to hear it squeak.
(From the fifteenth month on, Dr. Major's inter-
esting studies show that his child began to have ideas
"pop into" his mind that did not seem to be suggested
by anything he saw, heard, or felt at the moment.)
Another notable difference between the baby's
mind and the adult's, a difference very closely
related to that just considered, is the absence in
the former of what are called "trains of imagery."
In the developed mind, most of the images which
flow into consciousness are called there in the
train of other images. An idea appears in con-
sciousness, the first calls up a second, the second
a third, the second and third may revive new
ideas, and we have what we call a train of
imagery, often uninterrupted by outside stimuli.
For example, one glances up from his work and
notes a spring shower which suggests returning
leaves on the trees, blossoms, flowers, Easter-day,
church, a certain minister, missionaries, a certain
friend in South America. The train of ideas from
the sight of the spring shower to the South
American friend flows on independently of out-
side influences — in the head, as we say. Trains
of imagery are unknown, probably, to the child
under two. He hears the word "ball," or "clock,"
or "hat," the idea of the object comes to his mind
and there the process ends, unless the child hap-
pens to want the object named; while in the
mature mind any one of these words is likely to
start of train of images. "Ball" may suggest the
shape of the earth or a game of ball, and these
in turn may call up any one of a number of other
ideas; so with the words "clock" and "hat." The
child's memory-images do not call up others for
the reason that the "others" are not in the mind
to be called up, and because the habit which ideas
get of going in pairs or in series has not been
formed.
During the first year and a half — probably
during the first two years — the baby lacks what
in popular speech is known as the power of
"voluntary recollection." He makes no conscious
efforts to recall past experiences, such as the
adult makes when trying to recall a name which
for the moment is forgotten. In infancy and
early childhood, recollections and recognitions of
former experiences are accidental, apparently ;
that is, they occur without conscious effort on
the child's part.
In considering this fact, the question arose,
at what age do children begin to make an "eflfort
to recall" past experiences? How early do they
try to recall, for example, where they leave
favorite toys, or names which are well known,
but which for the moment are forgotten ? My
observations were begun when the child was in
his eighteenth month, and continued until there
was unmistakable evidence that the child did
make efforts to recall forgotten things — until
"trying to remember" some forgotten thing came
to be a frequent occurrence. The first observed
instance of "effort to recall" appeared in the early
davs of the twentv-eighth month.
HABIT-TRAINING OF LITTLE CHILDREN
BY
MRS. EUNICE BARSTOW BUCK
It is ensy to find in books and articles on child-
training directions for remedying faults, but the
problems we mothers of very little people face
first are tif prevention, rather than of cure. If
we could only know just how, it would be so
much easier to influence a child to be generous
than to try to correct one that had become selfish;
for there is some virtue to cultivate in place of
every fault. We want, then, to mold good chil-
dren, not to remodel naughty ones ; and even this
seems a challenge to far distant action as a new-
born baby is laid in our arms. When we read
that the first two and a half years are those
essentially of habit-formation, we are given a
starting-point, however, and matters of discipline
assume an important place in the household at
once.
Perhaps there is no one thing that helps so
much during the first few months of a baby's
life as complete cooperation between father and
mother, and a very definite idea on the part of
both as to what habits the child is to form.
Before Sister came, her father and I read, studied,
and discussed everything on child-training we
could find, and when the wee lady arrived a
whole new set of theories awaited her — theories
gleaned from 'many sources, sifted, assorted, and
sprinkled with the best common sense we could
achieve. While a few have been changed or
modified with constant nursery use, in the main
they have worked wonderfully well with our little
people — Sister, who is now just past six, and four-
and-a-half-year-old Brother.
Sleep and Quietness
Habits formed regarding physical care have
far more influence on the development of will
power and self-control than at first thought seems
possible. Regularity is the keynote here — regu-
lar hours for bathing and exercise, eating and
sleeping.
One of the earliest of nursery laws is that
healthy babies shall go to sleep alone at the
appointed hours, and Sister put us through a
course of vigorous training before she would
accept the idea. If we had not been assured by
both doctor and nurse that the wails were far
more painful to us than to her we never could
have stood it ! They said that she was spunky
and strong-willed — that she was not uncom-
fortable was proved by the fact that she always
stopped crying when picked up and was content
as long as held — but I think the real explanation
lay in the fact that she had a very tense, high-
strung mother. We did not handle or fuss over
her, and since baby-days she has been a very
calm, happy child. Brother dropped asleep quite
happily from the first — a delightful disappoint-
ment after nerving ourselves for another siege.
The results of this habit have been most pleas-
ing. The children have never had to be "put
to sleep," and as they expect to stay in their
beds when once tucked in. our evenings have been
free. If a tooth or a bit of pain does wake them
during the night, when we have attended to the
physical need of the moment we can slip back
to our own beds at once. Brother has had two
or three short illnesses, serious enough to make
a trained nurse a necessity for a few days. He
proved an unusually easy patient to take care of,
for he did not expect entertainment when lying
in his little bed.
Occasionally each of the children has wanted
the light in the hall left on and the door ajar.
This has always been at a time of nervous unrest,
and we found it best to do as they desired, with-
out comment, for two or three nights ; then when
we were sure that they were feeling quite well
and happy again, we shut the door as a matter of
course. Trouble was not likely to follow, but if
it did and we were sure that conditions were
normal, "baby"' had to cry it out (not a lengthy
process if going to bed in the dark has been a
life-habit), and the child, who was old enough
to understand, was helped only by happy sug-
gestions as to the friendly dark and perhaps an
extra drink of water. If mother downstairs can
play and sing during such small crises, it helps
both little people and big.
Keeping quiet until getting-up time is another
habit that may be acquired by a very small child,
and we have proved most conclusively that it is
not necessary for the whole household to be roused
at an unearthly hour just because there is a baby
in the family. Both children when tiny were
always put back in their beds after their early
morning feeding, and soon learned that they must
stay there until mother was dressed and had had
her breakfast. Sister was inclined to be restless,
and toys were a necessity at this time, but Brother
found his pink hands quite amusing enough. Now
when we wake in tlie morning we hear them
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singing and talking to themselves, each in his
own room, and they get up and begin to dress
when the seven o'clock whistles blow, whether we
are about or not.
The Habit of Happiness
The habit of happiness must be cultivated all
the time, and we found non-interference on our
part one of the secrets of success. A short time
ago I called on a friend who has a dear little
girl three months old. The baby, who was lying
contentedly on the living-room couch when I
arrived, was picked up to be introduced to me.
Her mother held her and played with her for a
few minutes and then laid her down, only to
pick her up again when another caller arrived.
That time the wee lady objected to being put back
on the couch, and soon her wails had increased
until conversation was quite impossible. The
mother apologized as we were leaving by saying,
"Poor baby has so much wind in her stomach."
A few days later I chanced to be at the home
of another friend whose little one was a few
weeks older. Nothing was in sight .to indicate
that there was a baby in the house, and when I
inquired for him his mother responded radiantly,
"He is doing just splendidly and is so good. Would
you like to peek at -him?" We went quietly up-
stairs and "peeked." The boy, who was lying in
his crib stretching his wee legs and arms about
and grunting and gurgling in the happiest fashion,
greeted us with a smile of welcome, then his
attention returned to the waving hands, and after
watching in silent delight for a few minutes we
slipped away again. You see, a good child is
sometimes far more a matter of mother-training
than of child-training!
The rule, "Avoid minor problems of discipline
by never disturbing unnecessarily a contented
child," should be posted in every nursery. When
the wee baby lies in his bed kicking and crowing
we must let him alone; when the little creeper
is busy investigating corners we must let him
alone; when the small toddler stands gazing out
into the blackness of an early winter evening
we must let him alone. The true way to enjoy
4 little child is by watching with silent sympathy
his natural development, and we find that the
little one whose baby-thoughts are not interrupted
will have a serene poise and a power of concen-
tration which we grown-ups may well envy.
Obedience
Before one realizes it, the time for the forma-
tion of the habit of obedience is at hand. We
tried to make as few rules as possible and then
insisted absolutely that those few should be kept.
The very first in our family concerned Mother's
glasses, and every time the little hands ventured
near they were gently withdrawn with a quiet,
"No, no," and attention called to something else.
In a very short time the babies learned what that
"No, no" meant in regard to Mother's glasses and
later to other things, and it grew to be almost
instinctive to withdraw the hand from any object
at the words. When we were sure that there
was no lack of understanding, wee fingers were
snapped if the child did not heed.
Slapping I dislike intensely — with a spirited
child it altogether too often degenerates later into
something like a free fight. By using the fingers
as in the game of carroms, however, a quick,
sharp sting results, which helps tiny memories
in a remarkable way, and — it just can't be done
in haste or anger. Of course, it is unpleasant to
have to inflict pain of any sort or degree, but for
the sake of the child's physical safety, as well
as of his moral development, at times we must
have instant obedience. Since we parents are
not omnipresent, we must know that certain
things will not be touched when we are not
present, and a very little child must be reached
through the senses rather than the intellect.
If we are to be just to our children, two things
must be remembered as to commands and re-
quests. Commands must be few and really neces-
sary ; and once given they must be carried out,
no matter what the consequences. But unwilling-
ness to accede to a mere request can not be called
naughty.
To be a successful commander requires real
skill. We mothers often bewilder our children
completely by the many and varied ways in which
we word our orders. We cry, "No, no! Don't
do that ! Put it down ! Drop it ! Haven't I told
you not to touch that?" and then are puzzled
and angry because Baby simply stands and stares.
Men in the army know and obey only certain
definitely worded commands. Surely we can not
e.xpect more of children in the nursery. By think-
ing things over carefully we mothers can make
out a list for use with our children. This will
begin with a simple "No, no!" — useful and
necessary all through early childhood — meaning
"The present action, no matter what it is, must
be stopped at once." Perhaps the next will be
"Come !" and then "Wait." Before the end of
the third year these will be followed by the .more
explicit. "Hands off" and "Put it back," "Come to
Mother," "Run to ," "Stand still," "Come
back," and a few military commands, "Halt,"
"Forward march," etc. These, being quite thrill-
ing, will sometimes save the day when mutiny
threatens.
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With some children it is a very great help, in
making obedience to these commands habitual and
almost instinctive, to use them in a merry game.
When Brother was in his happiest mood I
would hold out my arms and call firmly but smil-
ingly "Come," and when he had almost reached
me hold up one hand and say "Wait," then again
"Come quickly," and he would throw himself
into my arms for a big bear hug. Then "Go
back," "Turn around," "Come," etc. In such a
mood he was sure to obey. Why should not
drill be as useful to children as to soldiers? Then
when it is no game, but deadly earnest — as when
he starts to cross the street in front of an auto-
mobile — his response to a quick, firm, "Wait"
(to get attention), "Come back quickly" is almost
automatic.
Since it is habit we are striving for, with a
very little person if is often best to force good-
ness, rather than precipitate a crisis which is
trying to both nerves and morals. For instance,
if a baby hesitates and turns as though to run
away when the order "Come" is given, if some
one can take his hand and start him in the right
direction, with a merry word to drive contrary
thoughts out of the little mind, the atmosphere
remains unclouded, and next time it will be easier
to turn about-face at once.
Things that Mustn't Be Touched
We have spoken of rules. There are certain
objects in every house which, for the safety and
comfort of everybody, must not be handled by
the very small child. The instinct to touch is
very strong in normal children and should not
entirely be repressed. They must learn much
through their senses, and that of touch is as im-
portant as any. A nursery, where everything
within reach belongs to the children and may be
handled by them, we have found to be almost
essential. If this is impossible, a pen in which
Baby can play with his own toys away from
temptation helps greatly.
Sister began to get about the floor when only
eight or nine months old. We tried to keep deli-
cate articles out of reach as much as possible
when she played in the living-rooms, but the
waste-basket was not removed, and she had to
learn not to touch that. Later everything on
the tables was forbidden. Since this was an un-
varying rule, its enforcement was not difficult,
and Brother learned by example as well as by
precept. Because we had no little meddlers about,
much needless friction was avoided at home, and
Brother and Sister have always been welcome
guests at the homes of our friends.
Unfortunate Habits
There is one bad habit which many of us have
to deal with — thumb-sucking. Sister had a slight
case, but when she was fourteen months old we
stopped it entirely by a thorough "course" of
mittens. If she had been like a wee neighbor of
ours, sucking day and night, we would have
applied the treatment when she was a tiny baby,
but she never used the comfort much until teeth
began to bother, and then only when tired and
unhappy. The habit grew slowly but surely, how-
ever, and finally I made thumbless mittens of thin
cotton cloth and kept them on her hands night
and day for two weeks, and during that time she
was not once allowed to get the little thumb to her
mouth. The first two or three nights I stayed with
her until she was asleep, and we tried to keep
her happily occupied during all her waking hours.
At the end of two weeks the mittens were re-
moved during the day and her hands given a
snap that really stung if they went to her mouth.
This only happened a few times — the habit was
broken. She wore mittens at night until she
was three j-ears old.
The secret of success with a method like this
is to prevent a single lapse, and of course a joke
should never be made of the matter. It is wiser
to prevent a child's forming this habit at all than
to break it at any period. Thumbless aluminum
mitts may be bought for tiny babies, which they
really enjoy watching wave about, and these can
be used for a short time if symptoms appear.
As they can be so easily kept clean they are per-
haps more sanitary than cloth mittens. They
would be a real hardship to an older child. I
tliink, for toys could not be handled as is possible
with the soft cloth, but they could be used at
night.
It is hard to keep mittens of any kind on a
child of over a year and a half. If the habit
has not been overcome by this time, surgeon's
plaster wrapped about the offending member and
soaked with something harmless but bitter may
be helpful. At this age rewards may be used
and soon pride may be appealed to. One child
of my acquaintance stopped when told that it
would make her mouth very ugly, and another
was impressed only when her playmates mimicked
her. It did look silly and babyish.
Common Sense
As the children begin really to think things
out we can find more and more ways to make
unpleasantness follow naturally in the wake of
wrongdoing. The child w-ho is careless with
books or in the use of pencil, scissors, or anything
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else is e\idently too young to use them. We
never have time to fuss with a child who hinders
when being helped to dress, and, if he interferes
in any way or is naughty, he must wait until
our next task is completed, and we are again
free to help him. Of course the smaller the per-
son the less severe must be the penalties. Sister
and Brother play generally together most hap-
pily, but when the rare times of wrath do come,
a temporary separation works like magic. Of
course, if children can not play happily together
they must play alone — it's just common sense.
It is in little ways such as these that we can
teach our boys and girls to look before they leap —
or rather to think before they act — surely one of
the most desirable habits that can be formed in
childhood.
Happy Companionship
Where two children are "near of an age" there
is always a more or less trying period when the
younger first gets about. He can not yet handle
all toys correctly and is pretty sure to interfere
with their use by the older one. Mother-instinct
began to grow in Sister's womanly little heart
when she was only a baby herself, and she was
always very patient and never seemed to resent
Brother's interference, even when treasured pos-
sessions were damaged. If she built a beautiful
house and he knocked part of it down she'd smile
■ — and sigh — perhaps finish the destruction her-
self and try another game. She adapted her
ideas to his understanding in quite a remarkable
way, and before he was two years old they were
the happiest of chums. Things would not have
gone quite so smoothly had he been the elder, for
he had far less patience and self-control, and
was a willful wee lad always.
Helpful Play
If a normal child is unduly mischievous, one
of two things is the matter. He has no proper
place to play where he can handle and experi-
ment with interesting things — and this is abso-
lutely necessary if he is to develop as he should —
or he is suffering from lack of directed play.
Mother forgets that if she has to say "Don't do
that" she must always add "Do this." Indeed,
if she can keep him supplied with "Do's" there
will be no need of "Don'ts."
Directed play is the solution of many a nursery
problem. If we can keep a baby busy he is sure
to be happy and good. We can find many things
for tiny people to do and be, and with just a word
here and there, it is easy to keep little imagi-
nations working. Nursery dramatics are easily
supervised, and Mother can go right on sewing
while Jack jumps over the candle-stick or he and
his sister Jill climb the fateful hill. Toys are
much more interesting if Mother is near, and so
many "really truly" grown-up things are delight-
ful playthings.
Before we know it we have real helpers who
are happiest when running errands about the
house, pushing the carpet-sweeper, wiping spots
off the bath-room wall, beating eggs and stirring
flour on baking-day, or polishing silver. All
these things and many more can be done by the
two-year-old. We've always been able just to
see virtue grow behind the glowing faces when
it has been possible to say to Daddy at the dinner-
table, "We had such dear little helpers this morn-
ing," and can add a list of accomplishments per-
haps; "They tidied the nursery, washed their
own socks (how children do love water!) and
Sister wiped down the stairs while Brother dusted
the chairs."
Self-Control
Temper-tantrums were among the things we
decided not to have in our family. When Sister
was almost sixteen months old she had a terrible
one, for which I was entirely to blame. She had
been playing quietly beside me for a long, long
time, and when she finally became restless I should
have suggested a new game or given her another
toy. I was too "busy," however, and paid no at-
tention to her when she began to wander aimlessly
about the room. Soon she stumbled over a rug and
fell. Without raising my eyes I said, "Up she
comes," and she regained her feet and continued
her journeying. A minute later she stepped on a
bead and went down again, and I answered her
wail by saying absently, "Oh, that didn't hurt.
Hop up."
Then the last straw came; she started for my
lap for comfort and fell over my extended foot,
and — her self-control was gone. She tlung her-
self upon her face and screamed and kicked, and
kicked and screamed, until I was really frightened
and she was completely exhausted.
For days after that, when things annoyed her,
Sister's little hands and feet began to fly, and it
was only by the greatest care on our part that
a repetition of the experience was avoided. Since
then we have tried never to be too busy to suggest
a task for little fingers or really to sympathize
with childish troubles. We have never allowed
anyone to tease Sister — 'that would have been
fatal — and we never laugh at her. Too many
times I have seen people make a joke of the be-
ginnings of temper, and before they realized it
the tantrum-habit had been formed, and it is an
extremely difficult one to break. [
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Brother, who is entirely different in disposition,
has many a time flown into a baby rage, over in
a few minutes, but acute while it lasted. We
ignore it entirely, or, if it is directed against a
person or thing, hold his hands quietly but firmly
until it is past. These have never been frequent
and have now ceased almost entirely. When
nobody laughs and nobody cries and it seems to
cause no excitement at all, it doesn't pay to relieve
his feelings in such a strenuous fashion.
Prevention is far better than cure, and with
tact and patience and forethought on the part
of us parents, occasions for outbursts of any kind
are few and far between. When we know that
the children are tired we try to make very few
demands upon them and to be perhaps a bit blind
to faults that might otherwise need correction.
We mean always to give a few minutes' warning
before time to put away a toy or game, and never
to interrupt a busy child unless absolutely neces-
sary.
Unselfishness
We read that a child is natural!}- a selfish little
animal, but we have not found that to be true.
From babyhood our two have been generous, and
jealousy has always been an unknown iniquity.
When Brother first began to talk, if we asked
him if he wanted a walk or a toy or dinner he
would always nod and say, "Teti (Sister) too,"
and at the prospect of any pleasure Sister would
ask, "And can Brother do it?" If one was left
out there was never any grieving, however.
Sometimes when one baby received a caress the
other would run up saying, "Love me, too !" and
then we would have a big three-cornered bear-
hug. No doubt this spirit is in some small part
due to our happy home atmosphere ; but I am
sure the roots must always be there, ready for
cultivation.
We have had no trouble about playthings. Toys
for which personal affection is felt, such as dolls
and animals, have been owned by the individual
child, and each has a place of his own in which
to keep things dear to him. Of course, we try
to see that the families are of about the same
size. Building material and things of that sort
we find best owned by the children together ; for
common ownership must foster a feeling of
community interest and responsibility which is
wholesome, wliile at the same time encouraging
cooperative work and play.
Manners
Before the children were three years old they
could feed themselves very nicely and were begin-
ning to wash and dress themselves. They under-
stood that hands and faces must be clean before
meals, asked for and used a handkerchief, and
were gradually learning to act on the principle,
"A proper place for everything and everything in
its place." (We're still learning, but patience and
perseverance are going to win out in the end.)
Such little habits as self-reliance and orderliness
we hope will appear instinctive later, when the
children realize their value, for their minds will
be more free for efficient thinking if the details
of right doing have been prearranged auto-
matically.
"Please" is quite naturally and properly one of
the first spoken words, and when once learned
it should accompany all requests. Sometimes it
was — and is still — necessary to prompt our little
people, but we find courtesy very catching, and
as we are particular ourselves we have had sur-
prisingly little difficulty. "Thank you" and
"Excuse me," the latter preceded by "I'm sorry,"
and other courtesies came easily and naturally.
If our sons and daughters are to rise when an
older person enters the room, give the most com-
fortable chair to another, return wandering
property, and so forth, we must do these things
ourselves. It is sometimes a bit hard to remem-
ber to ask pardon when we inadvertently inter-
fere with the activities of a tiny child and to
apologize for a cough or sneeze when no one
except the baby is near. It is by example rather
than precept that such things must be taught,
however, and we parents can not be too careful
in the presence of the younger generation.
We want our children to be polite to our
friends, though this is sometimes a bit hard to
manage. Brother never found it difficult to say,
"How do!" quite cordially, but Sister has always
been very shy and it often seems a real ordeal
for her to speak to strangers. At such times we
have not tried to insist on words, but have had
her shake hands, if necessary giving invisible
assistance to the halting right arm. We found,
however, that if we knew guests were coming we
could plan in a way that made events happy for
all. If she was told that a certain friend of
Mother's was coming and would want to see a
block-house or a freshly dressed doll, she would
forget herself in her busy preparation and later
in the thought that she was really giving pleasure.
Fortitude
Of course, we have always encouraged the
children to be brave in the face of failure, dis-
appointment, or physical pain. They learned, "If
at first you don't succeed, try and try again," as
soon as they could talk, and "The world is so full
of a number of things, I am sure we should all
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be as happy as kings." even if plans have to be
changed and pleasures postponed or rearranged.
Of course there is always something just as nice
to do if we can only find it.
Slight bumps are kissed and forgotten, while
with bigger ones, unless they are serious, diver-
sion proves better than witch-hazel. Perhaps
with a very tiny child we look to see if there
is a hole in the floor before we look to see if there
is broken skin, and you know there is always
something funny about a tumble. Once a quick,
"There goes Hunipty Dumpty," brought a laugh
instead of tears, when a very small Brother fell
from the steps onto the crushed-rock drive, and
nonsense about the absence of the king's horses
and men and what they would have thought had
they been there, kept the little mind occupied
during a rather painful cleansing and bandaging
operation.
Self-control in matters large and sincere means
a disciplined will and a morally sturdy child — and
surely that is what we all want.
"BABY-TALK" AND SPEECH DEFECTS
BY
M. V. O'Shea
"There is something very cheerful and courageous in the setting-out of a child on a journey of speech
zvilh so small baggage and with so much confidence. He goes free, a simple adventurer." — Alice Meynell.
The first sound a child utters may be indicated
by the vowel a. In the beginning he can not utter
any consonant sound: one can hear nothing but
vowel sounds from him for several months.
Why? Because the vowels are easily uttered.
They require no coordination of the lips, teeth,
tongue, and palate.
The first articulate word is something like
via-ina. The next is apt to be pa-pa and the next
ha-ha. The consonants in these words are made
in a simple way. The child is always uttering
the a sound during his waking moments, and when
he is feeding or indulging in voice play he un-
consciously modifies the stream of a sound by the
lips, which results in the ma-ma that infants re-
peat over and over again in voice play. Then
again as the child is playing vocally in his cradle
he puff's and puffs and produces something like
pa-pa by modifying the stream of a sound, by
blowing against the opening lips. In the same
way while he is indulging in vocal gymnastics he
produces a sound that resembles ha-ha. In due
course other consonants appear and they are
joined with the original a sound; and in time
other vowels are developed ; thus the range of
sound combinations is continually enlarged.
By the time any normal child is twelve months
of age, he begins to imitate some of the words
spoken by his father, mother, brothers, and sis-
ters, but he never reproduces any word with
complete accuracy. He mutilates every word
more or less, because he avoids the more difl^cult
sounds, either eliminating them altogether or sub-
stituting other sounds for them. Very rarely.
if ever, would a twelve-months-old child say
"milk," giving the full and exact sound of the
/ and the k. Sometimes young children will omit
all the consonant sounds, and "milk" will be sim-
ply '"t." More often it is "mi" with the I and k
omitted.
Cause of Speech Defects
A six-months-old child can not control the tips
of his fingers in coordination with one another so
that he can perform delicate tasks such as thread-
ing a needle. Neither can he control the tip of
his tongue in relation to the teeth and the palate
so that he can produce difficult consonantal
sounds. This is why he mutilates words. Most
children of eighteen months and even older will
omit the sound of g on the ends of all words
ending in ing. They will substitute other sounds
for th. fl. sp, and so on, or omit them altogether.
Thus "that" will be "dat" ; "spot" will be "pot";
"flowers" will be "fowers"; "run" may be "glun"
or simply "un" ; "drink" may be "ding" or "dink";
"Christmas" is likely to be "ismas" or "Kismas";
"hold" may be "ho"; "let" may be "'et"; "come"
may be simply "cu" ; "through" is likely to be
"f rough." The "th" in "either" will probably be
changed to "v," and the word will be pronounced
"eiver." A hard word like "scissors" will be
likely to be simply "si." One might go on with
these instances to any length.
By the time the child has reached his third
birthday all these mutilations should have dis-
appeared, if he develops normally. If he still
retains his "baby talk" it is an indication that he
is not gaining mastery of speech in quite the
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right way, and he should be given some special
attention. The first thing to do is to avoid using
"baby talk" in speaking to him. A parent should
always prevent people from using mutilated
words in talking to his child. The next thing to
do is to look into the child's physical condition.
Does he have adenoids? Is he tongue-tied?
Does he have enlarged tonsils or enlarged glands?
Is his palate properly formed? Are the nasal
passages open, or are they obstructed by con-
gested conditions or misplaced bony structures?
In some cases the tongue is so thick that the child
seems to be unable to use it to make the more
difficult consonant sounds.
The chances are that a child who is normal
physically will grow through the period of speech-
mutilation, and will reproduce correctly all the
sounds in the language without special instruction.
But occasionally a child is found who is normal
physically and mentally, but who persists in using
mutilated words. With such children special in-
struction is desirable. These children must be
taught how to place the vocal apparatus in making
the sounds which give trouble. Take the th
sound, for instance. A parent can help a normal
three-year-old child by showing it how the vocal
organs are placed in sounding th in "through."
for example, or in "this" or "that." A one-year-
old child can not imitate the position of the vocal
apparatus in making particular sounds, but a typi-
cal three-year-old child can do it.
Precise Articulation
The sounds that are made in the front of the
mouth, so to speak, so that the child can see the
position of the tongue, teeth, and lips, can be more
easily imitated than sounds that are made in the
back of the mouth; but even these latter sounds,
as, for instance, g in "pudding," can be taught
to a normal three-year-old child who habitually
omits it, but can not be effectively taught simply
by pronouncing it. The child must see the vocal
organs in position and in action. If necessary,
he must feel them with his fingers so that he will
have something definite to imitate. A child can
not imitate the mere sound of a word as readily
as the movement of the vocal apparatus which
he can see and feel.
This principle is recognized to-day in teaching
adults a foreign language. Every good teacher
now gives phonic lessons at the beginning of the
study of a foreign language. The student ac-
quires the sounds of the language largely by
observing the placement and imitating the move-
ments of the vocal organs of his teacher. He
may never get the more subtle sounds of the
foreign language, as ich in German, if the teacher
simply pronounces them and depends upon his
pupil to imitate them through hearing alone.
If the readers of these lines, who have not
thought of these matters, will try themselves to
imitate the speech of a foreigner whose language
they do not speak, they will quickly realize that
it is practically impossible to reproduce strange
words that are heard merely. In the language of
psychology, one can not get a clear auditory image
of words with which he is unfamiliar. Not
until he has had experience in speaking such
words will the ear give clear auditory images of
them.
It is good training for all children between the
ages of three and six or seven to have exercises
in precise articulation. However, the majority of
children will in time articulate correctly without
special training, provided they hear language
spoken correctly about them. But if they hear
slovenly speech they may never learn to articulate
precisely, which will prove a serious handicap in
life. Clear, precise articulation will prove a valu-
able asset to anyone.
A particular cause of speech-defect remains to
be mentioned. Observations have been made
upon left-handed children who have been urged
to use their right hand during the first two or
three years, and they develop slowly in the
mastery of speech ; but when permitted to use
the left hand freely, they have progressed more
rapidly. There have not been enough investiga-
tions made to enable one to say that this is the
rule, but it is undoubtedly true in a large propor-
tion of cases. If, then, a parent has a left-handed
child whom he is trying to make right-handed,
and if the child is arrested in his speech develop-
ment, it would seem wise to let the child follow
nature's course and use his left hand if he chooses
to do so.
THE GIFT OF TONGUES
BY
MARY ADAIR
It may seem unnecessary, in these days of in-
tensive education, to stress tlie baby's babblings
as of extreme importance to the race, or to give
a word of warning to the eager world that "Art
is long," and that it is the littlest child, who says
nothing about it, who is the first victim of the
high cost of superior education.
The modern scientific mother feeds carefully
her baby's body, then weighs and measures for re-
sults; but strangely enough she attempts to weigh
and measure his intellectual and spiritual gain, or
in other words his human growth, without re-
membering that the feeding must antedate the
testing.
The race-mother, perhaps because she was such
a child herself, babbled her sing-song to the baby,
and took, in Nature's own way, the path to soul-
culture. The modern mother slights the original
plan, apparently supposing that 'her child will be
a new biological path-breaker and leap lightly
through time, landing safely upon the First-Grade
Reader and Hans Christian Andersen. So it hap-
pens that we have a generation of young people
who know not Joseph or Daniel, who might
scoff at the "handwriting upon the wall," who
sit in smothering swarms to see others play or
sing, but have little art of play or song for them-
selves.
Sir J. A. Thompson, who is credited with the
latest word in biology, says: "For various rea-
sons biologists take a strange interest in the play of
animals, and of children. . . . Play is no mere
safety-valve for overflowing animal spirits, it is
a rehearsal without responsibilities of some es-
sential activities of adult life — but it is more,
it affords both scope and stimulus for variation.
The playing organisms are the most educable."
For the first education of the baby through
stories, three types are useful. These are The
Croon, Body-Stories, and Egoistic Stories. For
the beginnings of story and of story-telling, one
had need to rub a lamp or question the Sphinx.
So elemental is the first story that it seems only
a voice, a deep calling unto deep ; as people who
pass give the sign, and the countersign is given
in return, so mother and child call to and answer
each other.
Brooding motherhood sings The Croon as
the earliest story, the embryo of literature so to
speak. It is the unutterable made vocal, the age-
long story of love that slumbers not nor sleeps.
To be sure, it happens that in the present over-
sophisticated moment mothers do not croon to
their babies, but happily the lapse is only for a
moment; presently Nature will bestir herself and
some dear old "bye bye" will come to life again.
Mother Goose is a wise old bird ; she will know
what's what, and when's when, for no doubt
Nature senses the psychological moment better
than we think.
The Croon
The croon of my babyhood was a weird one
enough :
"Hush ye, hush ye, little pet ye —
The Black Douglas will iiae get ye,"
but still across the span of time I hear it now as
saying only, "My darling, my darling, you are a
precious jewel in a golden casket within a fortified
castle surrounded by a moat across which no evil
may pass. So sleep, my little one."
Wherever she learned it, the Southern Mammy
is the star performer in this first "story hour."
An ancient croon is illustrated in one of the pres-
ent popular songs, "The .A.labama Lullaby"' :
"Little Pickaninny, close yo' eyes an' go to sleep,
Moon am swingin' low and spooky shadows gin to
creep."
Miss Emma Delancy, also Miss Lucine Finch,
have, each in her own way. made the Southern
croon famous.
Body-Stories
After the croon — what? The baby would say,
"Oh, some story with movement and human touch,
as well as sing-song." Therefore, Body-.Stories
seem to be the logical form. These are played
as they are rhymed, and may be grouped into
whole-body plays, riding-plays, knee-plays, foot-
plays, face-plays, ear-plays, nose-plays, hand-and-
finger plays.
"The first of the whole-body plays is the bur-
rowing game, in which a gentle hand or maybe
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a head fumbles about in the pit of baby's stomach
and a growly voice says "Boo-oo," or
"See the little mousie creeping up the stair,
Looking for a warm nest — there, oh, there !"
In this game the climax occurs with the fum-
bling in the hollow of baby's neck. These stories
always demand an encore.
Riding-Games
The thrill enters at this stage. Well-known
games are: "Ride a Cock-Horse," etc., from
Mother Goose.
"The baby goes riding away and away.
Goes riding to hear what the dog has to say," etc.
— From "Father and Baby Plays" — Emilic PouUson.
"All the pretty little horses.
Black and brown and gray and white and bay,
All the pretty little horses
You shall see some day, some day,"
"Gallop and gallop and gallop away.
See how my baby can gallop to-day."
Knee-Games
"What do I see? Baby's knee — •
Tickily, tickily, tic, tac, tee ;
One for a penny, two for a pound,
Tickily, tickily, round and round."
"One, two, three, away goes she,
Sliding down father's knee."
Foot-Plays
"Up, down — up, down.
One foot up and one foot down.
All the way to London town,
Tra la la la la la." — Mother Goose.
"Shoe the old horse and shoe the old mare,
But let the little colt go bare. Rap-a-tap."
— Mother Goose.
"Blacksmith. Blacksmith, fellow fine.
Can ye shoe this horse o' mine?" etc.
— Mother Goose.
"Pitty, Patty, Polt,
Shoe the wild colt.
Here a nail, there a nail —
Pitty, Patty, Polt."— Mo//u'r Goose.
"Kick about, kick about, farmer's man.
Thresh the corn as fast as you can :
Kick it and stick it and pick it with glee.
And put in the barn for Tommy and me."
— .-Idapted from "Pat a Cake."
Ear-Game
"What's here?
Baby's ear.
Click-clack.
Put it back."
Nose-Game
"What's here? Baby's nose.
Click, clack, on it goes."
{Making believe to take off and hastily to put
it on again.)
Hand-and-Finger Stories
These are so numerous, it is only necessary to
suggest the types. Other contributors have dis-
cussed these.
"Pat a cake, Pat a cake," etc.
— Mother Goose.
"This little pig went to market."
— Mother Goose.
"Thumbkin, Pointer, Middleman big,
Sillyman, Weeman, rig-a-jig-jig,"
"This is mother, this is father, this is brother tall.
This is sister, gay and happy, this the baby small."
"Here's my Father's knives and forks,
Here's my Mother's table.
Here's my Sister's looking-glass,
And here's the baby's cradle."
"Here is the church and here is the steeple,
Open the door and see all the people."
"Thicken man build the barn.
Thinner man spool the yarn,
Longen man stir the brew,
Gowden man make a shoe,
Littlen man all for you."
— Old Norse Game.
Face-Plays
{Indicating the parts by a light touch)
1. "Knock at the door, peep in.
Lift up the latch and walk in."
2. "Here sits the Lord Mayor," etc.
• — Mother Goose.
3. "Forehead, eyes, nose, mouth.
Dearest baby. North or South.'
— Emilic Poulsson.
These may be continued indefinitely as to
sources, developing later into cat's-cradle play and
object-stories.
Egoistic Stories *
There is a third group of baby stories of great
educational importance. These are usually in
• The mother, in the article on "The Second Year with
Tom and Sarah," makes even more clear the value of these
"egoistic'* stories.
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prose-form and frequently incidental, the chief
educational value being the emphasis upon a
child's interest in himself, his name, his posses-
sions, his comings and goings, etc.
A few formal illustrations from this popular
group might include :
Making Calls
"Click-clack, click-clack,
Off we go on horse's back.
Ride and ride a mile or more
Till we come to Grandma's door.
Whoa ! now, Dobbin dear.
Grandma, see who's here."
— Einitic Pouiss
In "Child-Stories and Rhymes" Miss Poulsson
has stories of baby's spoon, baby's pillow, and
other endless possessions.
An adaptation from Tagore's "Crescent Moon"
gives charming illustrations of egoistic tales.
One represents the child talking — he says:
"Mother, you are riding in your palanquin and
I am riding beside you on my red horse (his
toy-horse). You will not be afraid, Mother; I
will take care of you," etc.
These tales represent the germinal form of the
biographical-autobiographical and personal-his-
tory-tales of great persons in great literature;
hence their importance and the responsibility of
mothers to understand the significance of begin-
nings.
THE USE OF MOTHER GOOSE*
BY
THE EDITORS
"No, no, my melodies will never die.
While nurses sing or babies cry."
Mother Goose was the first musical comedy.
When you ask yourself why children in all
ages and many lands have enjoyed these infantile
rhymes, there seems to be no better reason than
that given by Joseph Lee ;t "We like it because
we are tuned to like it."
But who is Mother Goose? Since the higher
criticism has destroyed the legend of an English
Mrs. Vergoose or a French Mere L'Oye or even
a real Mother Goose who used to sing these
rhymes to her grandchildren, we have to acknowl-
edge that this nursery classic does not trace its
origin to any individual author.
What, then, is Mother Goose? A Mother
Goose rhyme is a short verse with a rhythmical
beat that almost, or quite, makes sense. The
verses of William Blake do not belong to the
Mother Goose category, because they are too
sophisticated; neither do those of Robert Louis
Stevenson, because they are too beautiful.
They Satisfy the Instinct of Rhythm
The strength of Mother Goose is that her
rhymes are rhythmical. The baby's ga-a, ga-a is
rhythmical and so is even his kicking. The sound
is more important than the sense. Such rhymes
as "Heigh diddle, diddle," "See-saw, Margery-
Daw," and "Ding-dong bell," so Joseph Lee says,
' This article is an introduction to the Mother Goose songs
SHELF. t Author of "Play in Education."
"give the children the freedom of the world of
rhythm, teach him the first paces of the mind,
the varying gaits of thought and action — to
understand, with Touchstone, who time ambles
withal, who time trots withal, and who he gallops
withal, and how it feels to have hiin do it."
These rhythms are accompanied by action.
"Pat a cake" combines rhythm — the rhythm of
sound — and the action of patting together the
baby hands: "Swing, swong. the days are long"
is a melody to which little children are tossed up
and down upon the parental knee. Through
action-plays the child enjoys the imaginary ad-
venture of being chased, of traveling, or of fall-
ing. He feels as deeply as is possible all that
these little melodramas enact.
Rhythms Run Into Action
There is almost no limit to the dramatic possi-
bilities of Mother Goose:
"Pitty, Patty, Polt,
Shoe the wild colt.
Here a nail, and there a nail —
Pitty Patty Polt.
is used while the baby is being dressed.
"One, two,
Buckle my shoe,"
and stories in the first volume of the Boys and Girls Book-
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for the same occasion, is also serviceable to
count by. "Here we go 'roimd the mulberry
bush," is excellent for running,
"Dance to your daddy,
My little babby,"
is the earliest known encouragement to solo-danc-
ing. "Pease Porridge Hot" and "Dance, Thumb-
kin, Dance," are excellent finger-plays.
"A farmer went trotting upon his gray mare,
Bumpety, bumpety, bump,"
is an enticing combination of actioii and humor,
while "Diddle, diddle, dumpling, my son John,"
is an excellent soporific.
These action-plays pass insensibly into count-
ing-out rhymes. *
Probably the most famous and delightful of
all counting-out rhymes is the one that dainty
little maiden. Marjorie Fleming, taught to Sir
Walter Scott before his open fire:
"Wonery. twoery, tickery. seven;
Alibi, crackaby. ten and eleven ;
Pin, pan, Musky-Dan ; — "
"He used to say," Dr. John Brown tells us,
"that when he came to 'Alibi Crackaby,' he broke
down, and "Pin, pan. Musky-Dan, Tweedle-um,
Twoddle-um, made him roar with laughter. He
said Musky-Dan especially was beyond endurance,
bringing up an Irishman and his hat fresh from
the Spice Islands and odoriferous Ind."
Rhymes that Please the Senses
Little children are very fond of stories that in-
volve sense-impressions. They like tales about
houses built of ginger-bread and rivers that run
with milk. Mother Goose has such a lyric that
appeals to the sense of taste — it is about Queen
Pippin's hotel :
"The walls were of sugar, as white as the snow,
.\nd jujube windows were placed in a row;
The columns were candy, and all very tall.
And a roof of choice cakes was spread over all."
Similarly the children enjoy rhymes that appeal
to the sense of sound, particularly those that are
imitative of the familiar animals, such as "Bow,
wow, wow," and
"The girl in the lane that can't speak plain,
Cried. Gobble, gobble, gobble."
* See the counting-out rhymes in the fourth volume of
the Bnvs AND Girls Bookshelf.
What the Baby's Sense of Humor is Like
This leads us to say that a baby's sense of
humor always has a physical quality. This may
consisf merely of an amazing conglomeration of
sounds, such as the familiar quotation :
"With a rowley, powley. gammon and spinach,
Heigho, says Anthony Rowley."
Such humor may be expressed in vigorous rhyme,
as the following :
"As I was going up and down,
I met a little dandy,
He pulled my nose, and with two blows,
I knocked him down right handy."
Or, it may consist simply of such an incident as
the following:
"Said my mother to your mother.
It's a chop-a-nose day,"
which is followed of course immediately by the
appropriate action.
A calmer kind of humor is expressed in the
following pleasant adventure :
"Little Tommy Grace had a pain in his face,
So bad that he could not learn a letter ;
When in came Dicky Long, singing such a funny
song.
Then Tommy laughed, and found his lace much
better."
The First Animal-Stories
It is interesting to note that the adventure-
stories in Mother Goose may be divided into
two sorts. One kind has to do with the familiar
animals, such as the tragi-comedy of the three
little kittens who lost their mittens, while the
other is drama, such as a little cock-sparrow and
the boy who missed him: — •
"Oh, no," said the sparrow, "I won't make a stew,"
And he flapped his wings and away he flew.
Children like action-stories of animal-adventure
long before they are old enough for Uncle Re-
mus, such as
"Dog ! dog ! bite pig ;
Piggy won't go over the stile ;
And I shan't get home to-night."
Or, again, the fox who went out in a hungry
plight, closing with the denouement so satisfac-
tory to the children :
"And the little ones picked the bones, O."
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Grandmother-Stories
The other kind of adventure-story familiar to
Mother Goose is, strange to say, concerned with
old people. The predominance of old women in
these stories can be explained only, I suppose, by
the loving presence of so many grandmothers who
assist in carrying down these nursery traditions
from generation to generation. There is Old
Mother Hubbard, the Old Woman who lived in
a shoe, the Old Woman who was tossed up in a
basket, the Old Woman who had her skirts cut
of¥ up to her back, and Old King Cole.
In fact, all the people in Mother Goose were
either very old or very young. Aside from the
elderly individuals whom you chance to remember,
we have Little Miss MufTet, Little Polly Flinders,
Little Boy Blue, Little Johnnie Green, Jack
Horner, Little Tommy Tucker, and Simple Simon.
These little folk are much more real to our nur-
sery comrades than Washington, Lincoln, and
Roosevelt, and are twice as familiar as Aloses,
Solomon, David, and Paul.
The Unmorality of Mother Goose
I suppose one of the reasons why little chil-
dren enjoy Mother Goose is because these are
stories without a moral ; they are, as children
themselves are said to be, unmoral, rather than
immoral. Aside from the occasional savagery,
the tone is usually that of pleasantness:
"What are little girls made of?
Sugar and spice and all that's nice !"
"And why may not I love Johnny,
And why may not Johnny love me?
And why may not I love Johnny
As well as another body?"
" 'Coo !' said the little doves,
'Coo !' said she ;
And they played together kindly
In the dark pine tree."
There is occasionally a moral situation, like the
story of the kittens who
"First began to quarrel, and then to fight"
with the sequel :
"They found it was better, that stormy night.
To lie down to sleep than to quarrel and fight."
The only rhyme that occurs to us with a direct
moral lesson is :
"Come when you're called.
Do what you're bid;
Shut the door after you,
Never be chid."
Just after the Revolution, an edition of Mother
Goose was published in New England by a man
named Thomas, who fitted out fifty-one of the
Mother Goose rhymes with what was then thought
appropriate "morals." For example :
"Dickery, Dickery, Dock,
The mouse ran up the clock"
suggests the lesson: "Time stays for no man."
"Hey diddle, diddle.
The cat and the fiddle,
The cow jumped over the moon;
The little dog laughed
To see such craft,
And the dish ran away with the spoon."
This verse suggests the highly moral deduction
that "It must have been a little dog that laughed,
for a great dog would be ashamed to laugh at
such nonsense."
To the rhyme
"Up, down — up, down,
One foot up and one foot down
All the way to London town,
Tra la la la la la"
the author appends :
of the earth."
"Or to any town on the face
"Hush-a-bye, baby, in the tree-top"
may serve, he thinks, "as a warning to the proud
and ambitious, who climb so high that they
generally fall at last." Fortunately, the edition
is out of print — the children would have none of it.
The Graded Use of Mother Goose
The golden age for the use of Mother Goose
rhymes is for the years from one to six. These
rhymes are useful to babies because they indulge
their sense of rhythm, give them exciting experi-
ences at second-hand, and open to them the gates
of story. They are useful to the older ones be-
cause they may be employed in their singing
games, their counting-out games, and their games
of running and chasing.
REASONING IN EARLY CHILDHOOD*
BY
JOHN DEWEY
There is not any reasoning of early childhood
which is different from the reasoning of later
childhood, adolescence, or adults. There is rea-
soning in little children, just as there may be in
a grown-up man or woman, but there is not rea-
soning of early childhood if you mean by that
"of," something which as reasoning can be marked
off definitely from reasoning somewhere else.
The ends which a young child has are different
from those of the grown-up ; and the materials,
means, and habits which he is able to fall back
upon are different, but the process — one involv-
ing these three factors — is exactly the same.
There is a difference which needs to be men-
tioned because it is so important practically. Just
because the child's ends are not so complex and
not so remote in the future, the tendency to put
every idea in immediate action is stronger with
the child. His dramatic instinct or his play im-
pulse is markedly more active, more urgent and
intense. Adults use words and other symbols as
the media for selection and arrangement, but
words are not dramatic enough for the thinking
of the child in a great many situations. He wants
to reach his end with his whole body instead of
doing it with the muscles of the throat and tongue
alone. Adults carry on a constant physical activity
of a suppressed kind; to get a remote and far-
reaching end, they employ minute and invisible
kinds of expression. A child wants to bring into
play, in an active and overt way, his hands and
arms and legs.
How We Dissipate Reasoning Power
While native rational power can hardly be im-
proved to any great extent, if at all, it can easily
be allowed to decrease. A child can be sur-
rounded with conditions which cause the power
to be dissipated and rendered ineffective. If a
jChild is bright, the power can be drafted off in all
kinds of futile and irrelevant ways which result
in mind-wandering, inability to control the atten-
tion or center the mind on a topic around which
the selecting and arranging of materials are to
be carried on.
This dissipation may take place in three ways :
1. Plain frittering away of time. It is called
frittering away of time or wasting time, but this
is merely another phrase for fooling away in-
tellectual energy. This comes from not having
any purpose in view. "Amusing." in the w'orst
sense of amusing, means that there is no recrea-
tive element, but only dissipation of energy. It
is not enough to catch a child's attention ; it must
be used, and this implies an end. The mind
should be carried on to something new.
2. Another thing which makes for retrogression
is the amount of purely dictated work that the
individual has to do. Undoubtedly the best way
to train animals — horses and dogs — to do their
stunts is to assign a specific thing to be done, dic-
tate it, and give a reward w'hen that particular
thing is accomplished — and something else when
it is not done. Children are animals, too. It may
be that physical habits are most readily formed
by a process which is largely dictation; but it
must be borne in mind that in the latter case,
w-hile the physical habit will have intellectual
meaning to us, to the child it will be senseless,
and hence his mental capacity may be reduced.
3. The third thing which has a detrimental
effect upon the child is presenting ready-made,
finished formula: upon the basis of which he is to
act. Since there should be reaching out for some-
thing new, the process should be more or less a
process of trying this or that to see how it will
work, then retaining the things that carry toward
the end and dropping the other things. Con-
scientious teachers are prone perhaps to fail here
more than at any other point. They want to fore-
stall all failures. They want to dig the little plant
up by the roots to see that the roots are growing —
and growing in the right direction. It is quite
safe to say that no two grown persons get the
same result by the same method unless the situa-
tion is an exceedingly simple one.
Let Him Get His Own Results
The orderly method is good, but it comes as a
result and often comparatively late. What might
seem to a grown-up person to be disorder might
seem to a child's mind, order, in the way he se-
* Stenographic report of a paper presented before the Department of Kindergarten Education, Teachers College Alumni
Conference. Used by special permission of Patty Smith Hill, head of the Department.
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lects and arranges things. The mere fact that
a certain order of thinking does not fall into the
teacher's schedule of thinking means that a child
is one person and the teacher another. Yet we
imagine that there is just one right way to think,
and if another person does not get results in the
same way that we do, we conclude that there is
something wrong.
Perhaps the most difficult thing to get is in-
tellectual sj'mpathy and intellectual insight that
will enable one to provide the conditions for an-
other person's thinking and yet allow that other
person to do his thinking in his own way and not
according to some scheme which we have prepared
in advance.
Handwork and Fellowship
There is one point which has not been touched
— the question of the materials appropriate for the
thinking of young children. This matter can not
be easily anticipated or cleared up in advance of
actual contact with actual children. But we may
ask what ends occupy the attention of most chil-
dren. They will be found to fall under two
heads :
I. The very small child has as his chief end the
adjusting of one of his physical organs to another.
He has to learn what the lower animals have to
start with. He has to work out by practical ex-
perimentation how to make his hand and eyes
work together, his ears and eyes work together,
how to manage and manipulate physical materials
by means of his own organs. Here we have one
of the great reasons, on the physiological side, for
the success of the kindergarten movement. In
various ways it has secured a large opportunity
for direct muscular adjusting, and for manipula-
tion of various kinds of objects. If the young
child has an end which he wants to reach and has
sufficient freedom in choice and arrangement of
materials to work out for liimsdf the end he is
after, there is sure to be a genuine keeping-going
of the thinking process.
2. The "other great problem for a little child
is to get along with other people. He has the
definite occupation of adjusting his conduct, in a
real give-and-take of intercourse to that of others.
He needs to make other people realities to him-
self, while he gets the power to make himself real
to them. There is an adjustment of behavior
which includes a good deal more than that of out-
ward or muscular acts. The questions arising
from the groupings of persons are the most
perplexing problems of life even for grown-up
people ; but for the children, the problem is es-
pecially acute, owing to their dependence upon
others and their inability to make their way physi-
cally and industrially.
Material selected then from situations of physi-
cal control and social adaptation (especially from
the two in connection with one another) is most
appropriate in maintaining the mental acuteness,
flexibility, and open-mindedness, the dominant in-
terest in the new and in reaching ahead that are
at once such marked traits of the life of child-
hood and such essential factors of thinking.
HOW A SPOILED CHILD BEGINS
BY
KATHERINE BEEBE
When the new group comes to school in Septem-
ber its members can at once be roughly classified
into two divisions : the trained and the untrained.
The former are the teacher's delight, the latter
her problem. The former can be led onward and
upward by means of a normal and joyous ac-
tivity without friction or loss of time. The
latter must be worked over, wept over, experi-
mented with, disciplined, and led as far along
the road as their unfortunate variety of handi-
caps will permit.
The child whose everyday education has been
a matter of conscious and conscientious effort is,
at five years old, wide awake mentally, interested,
active, self -controlled, obedient, sometimes well
mannered, and always reasonable and teachable.
The untrained child is unawakened, often slow
of perception, uninteresting, self-conscious, fool-
ishly unreasonable and lacking in self-control and
the spirit of cooperation. His mother usually as-
scribes these characteristics to nervousness, and
justly so, for the lack of training is apt to cause»
this condition.
Now what has happened at home to two such
little creatures equally endowed at birth? What
is the reason for this unhappy difiference? Tlie
answer is in the fact that the mother of the one
child, from the first intimation of his existence,
has consciously and constantly reasoned with
herself in some such way as this: "This little
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new life will come to me possessed with a growing
body, an expanding mind, a developing soul. Dur-
ing the first years his growth will be so rapid
and so vigorous that what he learns will set the
tendencies for his whole future. He will get in
proportion more education in the first five years
than in the twenty which follow, and this edu-
cation will be an everyday education. During
all his waking hours he will be learning, observ-
ing, absorbing. Everything he sees, everything
he hears, everything he does, will count. If I
want him' to be strong, alert, wise, and good I
must begin at the beginning and carry on ; I must
learn from the best authorities how to care for
his precious body ; I must take counsel with ex-
perts in child-training for the sake of his open-
ing mind; I must talk to him, walk with him, play
with him, read to him ; I must provide for him a
place in which to play as well as to eat and sleep;
I must see that he has playmates ; I must teach
him to play alone, to entertain himself; he must
learn to love to work, first by helping me and
later by having set tasks; I must know where he
is and what he is doing all the time, and we two
must be loving, sympathetic, intimate friends."
And that other mother — what does she say to
herself conscioitsly or subconsciously? Let us be
honest and face the facts, for judging by her
results it is something like this: "It is lovely to'
have this darling baby, and I am just going to en-
joy him in my own way; I don't believe that peo-
ple who make such a fuss about training children
get on any better than those of us who don't
bother about alf this modern highbrow stuiT. A
mother knows best what to do for her own child.
Of course I will take good care of his body, for
I want him to be well, but for the first few years
I am going to let him be a happy little animal. I
don't like to play with children anj'way, and read-
ing to them is a bore. Besides, I am too busy.
He can just play around as other children do and,
when the time comes, go to kindergarten and to
school and be taught there. While he is at home
and while he is my baby, I am going to do just
as I want to with him. Being my child, he will,
of course, come out all right in the end."
Now sometimes he does, but in spite of home
influences rather than because of them. Thanks
to his teachers, his companions, and the sharp
lessons of experience, he often manages to grow
up a fairly decent man. But, oh, what he has
missed ! And alas for the powers of mind and
soul which never unfolded, for the spiritual de-
velopment unpossessed which might have been
his!
On the other hand, often he doesn't develop
well, and in view of this fact, how does any
mother dare to take chances ? For from the ranks
of the so-called and well-called, "spoiled children"
come the fretful, fractious, screaming, unhappy
babies ; the shy, self-conscious, and uncontrolled
kindergarten children; the irresponsible scatter-
brains of the public school, whose school life is
one long series of adjustments between parents
and teachers; those high-school students who ar-
rive in college with no powers of work or con-
centration; the girl who is "boy crazy"; the boy
who goes wrong. From this class are recruited
those children whom every teacher knows ; who
have perverted ideas of the facts of life and bad
physical habits; those youths and maidens whose
lives are blighted on the threshold; those cases
of adolescents which furnish newspaper articles
sometimes with large headlines. In the light of
the fact that these things are all about us, how
does any mother dare to neglect that all-important
thing — her child's everyday education?
TEACHING SELF-CONTROL*
MRS. MARY WOOD-ALLEN, M.D.
Mrs. Clayton is a young mother, inexperienced
in the care of infants, but, having paid much at-
tention to the study of psychology of childhood,
she has some foundation principles upon which
she intends to build the superstructure of her
child's character. He is a strong, active little
fellow, with a brain ever on the alert, and it will
* From "Makine: the Best of Our Children,'
publishers, Chicago.
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take much patience and skill for her to direct his
developing energies in right channels.
One of her especially strong points is her belief
that the child must have an opportunity to get
acquainted with himself, and this for many months
will be his principal occupation: therefore she
does not thrust her presence upon him continually.
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He is allowed to He upon the bed or on the floor,
to study his little hands and to make the aimless
movements which are acquainting him with his
own powers. His feet are left free to kick, and
so he is getting acquainted with himself and the
world. He spends his infancy generally within
sight and hearing of the mother, and sometimes
in closer and dearer companionship, which, be-
cause not constant, has for him all the delight
of a visit. By this plan she is left free a greater
part of the time to attend to her household duties.
As he grows old enough to sit in his high-chair,
he is sometimes placed at the table, that he may
have the companionship of his parents: but he is
not fed at this time, because he has his own
regular meals of especially prepared foods at
stated intervals. He thus early learns the lesson
that his parents may eat things which are not per-
mitted to him. At first Mrs. Clayton gave him a
spoon with which to amuse himself while papa and
mamma were eating. The first time he dropped
the spoon upon the floor, she instinctively re-
turned it to him ; he took it and at once threw it
down upon the floor, watching it with apparent
pleasure.
"Ah," said Mrs. Clayton, ''he has made a dis-
covery. He has learned that he can drop things.
Now he must make another discovery — that
things which he drops do not come back to him."
So no attention was paid to his pleading that the
spoon should be restored. A few such e.xperi-
ences told him, better than slapped fingers and
impatient words, that if he desired to retain an
article as a plaything when he was up in the high-
chair, he must not throw it upon the floor.
When he grew old enough so that his dinner-
time came at the same hour as that of his par-
ents, Mrs. Clayton thought it a good thing that
he should begin to learn table-manners in com-
pany with other people. So he was permitted to
take his dinner with them; but this did not mean
that he was to eat of everything placed upon
the table. There were certain articles of food
which his parents might eat which were forbid-
den to him. For example, he was not allowed
potatoes, Mrs. Clayton having learned that these
starchy foods are not the best for little children.
When first he made request that potatoes should
be given him, he was pleasantly told that "pota-
toes were for papa and mamma and not for
Freddy." As he was not accustomed to rebelling
against the decisions of his parents, he accepted
the statement as law and cheerfully abided by it.
Sometimes when there were guests in the family
a little spirit of mischief would seem to possess
him, and he would ask for potatoes. When he
would receive the usual reply, he would sing in
apparently high glee, "Tatoes for papa and mam-
ma, not for Freddy."
"I do not see how you can refuse to give your
child the food which you put before him on the
table and which you yourself eat," guests would
sometimes say. Mrs. Clayton would reply:
"All through life he will be obliged to see many
things which he can not appropriate to himself;
the sooner and the more happily he learns this
lesson, the better it will be for him. I deny him
nothing that is not hurtful, and I am sure that he
knows that, just as far as possible, I give him the
things he wants."
Certainly it would seem as if this were the
case, for the little fellow seemed to find it no hard-
ship to refuse candies, fruits, and cake when of-
fered him by neighbors, with the simple words,
"Why, I don't eat cake," or "My mamma doesn't
• allow me to eat between meals," which to him
seemed a sufficient reason for not accepting the
proffered gifts.
When he was a baby, Mrs. Clayton did not
carry him constantly in her arms as she went
about her work. He was accustomed to seeing
her go in and out of the room without being con-
sulted in the matter. As he grew older she used
to say to him, if she knew she would be absent
from the room for some time, "Now mamma is
going upstairs to make the beds": or "Mamma is
going down cellar after potatoes." Very fre-
quently she would permit him to accompany her,
but always as a favor to him. He might, for ex-
ample, take his little tin pail and go with her to
the cellar and bring up a couple of apples for
himself, which were then put in a pan and baked
for his dinner ; but if the mother was too busy
to allow him this privilege, he learned that it
was no use to tease. And so, while in the first
place, her plan of management took rather more
time than to have yielded to his wishes, in the
end it secured for him more happiness, for her
more leisure, and for the whole family far more
peace.
SUMMARY AND FORECAST
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QOD
THE SECOND YEAR WITH TOM AND SARAH
BY
WILLIAM BYRON FORBUSH
Grandfather and Grandmother Spencer were
abroad part of the twins' second year. As soon
as they reached home they hurried over to see the
babies.
The first interview was a trifle disappointing.
Before Grandpa went away he had sat for hours
with one child on each arm, talking to them while
they smiled at him, or holding them while they
slept. But upon this occasion Sarah gave one
wild yell as soon as she came in contact with
his gray beard, while Tom struggled wildly to
escape, and then surveyed the visitor suspiciously
from a crouching position under the table. Mr.
Spencer was evidently hurt.
"Don't you think the kids have come on finely ?"
their father asked with pride, when he entered the
room. Grandma smiled, and Grandpa said noth-
ing but, "I would not have known them."
"What's the matter?" Frank insisted, seeing
that there was a slight rift within the lute. "Cer-
tainly, Mary hasn't spoiled them — yet?"
"They don't seem so affectionate, somehow,"
Mr. Spencer confessed, "and I don't get used to
this perpetual motion. Do they run all the time,
and squirm every time you try to take them up?"
"I guess they do. That's what they've been do-
ing lately, isn't it, Mary? Don't your books say
it's the normal thing to expect?"
"They do. Mother, Frank is laughing at me
again. The other day he picked out this sentence
in my library: 'A baby sanctifies home, and gives
the doctor a chance to look wise.' He sometimes
tells me these child-study doctors would have to
write their books over if they once spent a week-
end with the twins. But he had to confess, as he
went on, that one of them, at least, showed pretty
good sense, after all. I think I must tell you what
he said, Father, since you have become critical of
my babies."
Mr. Spencer held up a deprecatory hand.
The Twins Prove that They Have Brains
"Well," the mother continued, "it is like this:
The twins can not always be babes- in arms ; we
know that, and none of us would have them so.
Now, what is the next step? My charts tell me
that this second year is a great 'getting-about'
year. The babies are so strong and agile that I
have seen both of them, toward the end of a long
day, when they had been on their feet most of the
time, jump up and down, just out of excess of
vitality. Of course they don't seem so affection-
ate or cuddlesome, and they are much harder to
take care of. But here is where one of those
wise 'doctors' helped me. William James says they
are beginning to "unlock their energies with ideas.'
Isn't that a happy expression? If I thought they
were banging about, simply to put my nerves on
edge, as I did for a while. I couldn't stand it
much longer; but when I realize that they really
have brains and are getting ideas, I am quite jolly
about it."
"Well you may be," remarked Grandfather, with
a more contented look. "But what makes you so
sure that they are 'getting ideas,' as you say?"
"By the way they play. Naturally, I try to
supply them with playthings that 'go,' because
they are on the go so much themselves. They
both like to roll a ball, though they can neither
guide nor catch it. They try to build up blocks,
though they like to knock them down better. But
these are not their favorites. You will laugh
when I tell you what they like to play with most:
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a little broom, some hooks and hangers, and — the
coal-hod."
Grandmother smiled reminiscently.
"They don't seem to care for little toys at all,"
Mary said, turning in her direction. "I suppose
because their finer muscles aren't developed yet."
"But you. haven't told us yet how they play,"
Mr. Spencer insisted.
"Oh, yes. I read one day, in an article on 'Self-
Amusement,' this :
" 'Children know how to enjoy life better than
their parents, but their way is not our way, nor their
thoughts as our thoughts. A little child is a creature
of one idea.'
"So I began to say to myself, 'What is the twins'
one idea'? As I carefully watched them and then
looked back in my little notebook that I keep I
made up my mind that it is this: They are bound
to learn by imitating. Last year they learned by
handling. They grasped everything, they held it
fast, they turned it over, looked at it, felt of it,
put it in their mouths. They still do this with
anything that is new. but that is not enough now.
They are interested in action ; they want to do
something with it; they want to know what it is
for."
Their Dogged Imitativeness
"Tell Father how patient they are."
"Yes, Frank is very proud of this. I said they
were interested in action. They never seem to
tire of trying anything that they have seen either
of us do. One day I put Sarah's spoon in her
hand, partly filled it with oatmeal, and carried the
spoon and her hand up toward her mouth. This
gave her a new idea, and instantly she dashed the
spoon down into the dish again and lifted it to
her mouth, empty of course. Will you believe it,
that child has tried this movement three times a
day ever since for five months, and it was not
until last week that she really got a good spoon-
ful into her mouth."
"Here's another thing," Frank broke in again,
"both Sarah and Tom imitate me much more
readily than they do Mary." Frank sat back and
beamed with satisfaction.
"It's the novelty, of course," Mary explained.
"They don't see Frank as much as they do me, and
the things he does are more unusual. Still, day
in and day out, there is nothing that they re-
spond to more joyfully than the suggestion to
'do like mamma,' and I am looking forward to its
meaning that they will very soon really be quite
helpful. Already they 'sweep' with their little
brooms; they never tire of hanging up father's
hat and coat, and I'm sure they would 'carry coal'
all day if I could afford to wash their rompers
every night. I think I see in this the opportunity
for the beginning of orderliness and tidiness. If
I accustom them to pick up their playthings now
when they are through with them, and if I have
the hooks and shelves and boxes where they can
reach them, I do not see why they should ever
know that disorderliness is possible."
"Remember that one of them is a boy," was
Grandma's reminder.
How Much Do Two-Year-Olds Remember?
"Do they have any memory yet?" inquired Mr.
Spencer.
"In spots," was the rejoinder. "Here is an
illustration to show how they are coming on : A
year ago every time one of them squeezed a rub-
ber doll and it squeaked, it was a fresh surprise.
Now each of them will hunt up the doll in order
to squeeze it. You haven't heard them talk yet,
but the other day Tom pointed to the kitchen
floor and said, 'Ya, ya. Mamma, IMamma, fa', fa','
quite excitedly. He evidently remembered that
the morning before I had slipped at that spot on
a potato peel, and he was trying to tell the story
of the adventure. Of course they don't carry
what we call 'a train of memory' yet."
"No," said Frank, "their cars are not all
coupled. Can anything be done about it ?"
"What do you think?" Mary appealed to her
mother.
"Why, you still sing to them, don't you, and
repeat little rhymes, as you did before we went
away?"
"Yes, and Frank and I both teach them finger-
plays and little action-games, and I have even
begun stories — that is, I call them stories; I try
to tell in very simple language something that
has happened to themselves very recently. Once
or twice they have tried to tell it back to me."
The Grandparents Approve the New
Notions
"Mary has a good head," was her father's
comment, as he walked home with his wife that
evening.
"Yes, I am very much pleased with the thought-
fulness she shows about the children. It is so dif-
ferent from what it was in our day. In the old
times we believed what we called 'mother-instinct'
would work miracles. And yet I was only a
half-mature girl just out of finishing school when
Mary was born. Of course I loved her and I
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bought a 'doctor's book' that was good for its
day. I kept her well and knew enough not to
feed her soothing-syrups, but nobody then thought
a child needed anything but bodily care. 'Let it
grow up a healthy animal,' was the notion, and
it would come out all right. I do remember that
the second year was a difficult year, but why it
was difficult and what to do about it was beyond
us. We just stuck it through, using the best
sense we had. The difference is just this : I
used to find out what to do when it ^was almost
too late, but Mary, with her reading and studying,
knows in advance what is likely to happen, and
is all ready for it. And how much more im-
portant it is to know what to do for their little
minds and souls than for their bodies !"
"You are quite right," Mr. Spencer said, with
conviction. "Frank and I used to make fun of
Mary's 'charts.' 'The wind bloweth where it
listeth, and so does a child, and no two of them
are alike,' I used to tell her. But I declare, there
do seem to be certain main-traveled roads that
they all follow, and even if they don't all pass
the stations on time, I guess they do pass them
after a while and in pretty much the same order."
Why the Youngsters Were So Shy
"Do you think Father and Mother were sat-
isfied ?" Mary Howard asked Frank after her
parents were gone.
"With you, but evidently not with the children."
"Yes; what was the matter with them to-night?
Both of them acted frightened to death, and they
didn't either of them really get reconciled during
the whole evening."
"What do the books say?"
"Let's look this up and find out."
"One of my 'weather prophets,' as you call my
Charts, says : 'Fears many and lively,' and the
other says, 'Protect from fears and teasing,' so
evidently this phase is not unusual. I remember
now realizing that, since babies of this age haven't
any imagination yet, they are frightened princi-
pally by sudden things and by shocks. I guess
just as soon as they get used to Grandpa again
they won't be afraid of him, but I don't believe
he will ever be able again to hold them still, unless
he learns to tell them stories."
"I'll warrant the old gentleman will be a good
one at that."
"There is one good thing about these fears of
theirs — it teaches them Trust. They do believe
in us implicitly, Frank. They think you are so
strong and I am so wise. It makes me tremble
to feel how much they expect. I do pray that
they may never lose this confidence, and some-
how I hope that it may be through this that we
may, when it is possible, lead them to trust in
God."
"I hope so," Frank said, soberly.
Even a Baby Is Reasonable
"There was one thing I forgot to tell Father,"
Mary remarked suddenly.
"What is that?"
"About the reasonableness of the children."
Frank laughed out loud. "I believe almost
everything you say, Mary, but that is beyond my
grasp. Of all the irrational, unreasoning objects
in this world, if it is not babies "
"Listen, Frank. Who is the best-known edu-
cator in America to-day?"
"John Dewey, I should say."
"Perhaps you will listen to him," Mary re-
sponded quietly, taking a volume down from her
shelf.
"'There is not any reasoning of early childhood
which is different from the reasoning of later child-
hood, adolescence, or adults. I have come to believe
that reasoning itself, the capacity or ability to reason,
is not capable of being improved.' "
Mary looked up triumphantly.
"John Dewey says so. Now prove it," said
Frank.
"Of course the twins do not know so much or
understand so much as we do. They think about
different things than we do and "
"I should think they did!"
"But they follow the same sort of line of
thought from cause to efifect. You ask me to
prove it. How do the twins prove things? If
I tell them that fire burns, that is not enough
for them. They must reason it out, and they
do it in just the same order we would, if this
truth were a new idea to us : namely. Flame,
touch, burn„ pain, 'Don't !' "
"All right. Tell that to Father."
"What I wanted to tell Father was that 'this
noisy, restless activity' of theirs, which tires him
so, is mostly the exercise of curiosity."
"The animated 'why,' as it were."
"Yes. All day long they are experimenting,
proving anew what are to us the old facts and
truths ; in other words, using their reason."
"Is this use of their reason what we might call
'moral reasonableness'? Take it in obeying, for
example. Are the children reasonable about
that?"
"Of course, obedience is to them so far mostly
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the habit of submission, of coming when they
are called and of doing what they are told. But
surely whenever they carry out a new command
they have to use some reason and reasonableness,
too, about it. 1 am the one who has to try hardest
to be reasonaljle, so far."
Why Little William Couldn't Talk
Just before the children were two years old
Helen Walker, Mary Howard's old schoolmate,
dropped in one day, on her way back to her dis-
tant home, to renew old associations. Of course
the babies were the chief center of interest,
especially because Mrs. Walker had a little one
of her own, a boy a month older than the twins.
"The most wonderful thing to me about your
children," exclaimed her friend, "is the way they
talk ! Why, they put whole phrases and sen-
tences together, but my young William hardly
says a word."
"No doubt he puts up a lot of thinking, though,"
kindly suggested Frank, for they were all at the
supper-table.
"I certainly hope so, Mr. Howard. But. Mary,
you don't think he is incurably backward, do
you?"
"Not at all, Helen. Many children do not be-
gin to talk until they are three years old. Of
course, ours are twins and no doubt they inspire
each other, but perhaps you can help, too. How
does little William spend the day?"
"Mostly in a big clothes-basket that I keep in
his little nursery and bedroom. I pile him and
his playthings into it and he stays there alone
nearly all the time. Sidney, my husband, you
know, is quite ingenious, and when he found the
baby was trying to learn to stand up by leaning
against the sides, he weighted it some way with
iron bars on the bottom, so he can't topple over."
"Does he walk very much?"
"Not nearly so well as your twins do. There
isn't much room in the basket to get about. But
when he was little my doctor told me to keep
him quiet and away from company, so his nerves
would have a chance to get strong."
"But, Helen Walker, he didn't tell you to keep
William there all his life, did he? What he said
about the baby's nerves was very important — for
the first six or eight months, and you are quite
right not to expose him often to strangers. But
I do believe that the reason little William Walker
is dumb is because he doesn't get enough con-
versation."
"What do you mean ? What is the use of talk-
ing to him when be doesn't understand?"
"This is the way to make him understand :
When the twins were but a few months old I
made it a rule never to hand them anything with-
out giving its name out loud. Often I would put
it in the form of a question : 'Do you want your
bottle? Do you want your rubber doll?' and I
would always wait until they responded in some
way, even if no more than by reaching for it,
to be sure they were attentive and understood.
After a while I would say gently: 'Now, say
"bottle," say "doll,",' and even though they did
not seem to try at once, after a while they caught
the idea, and I am sure this helped them forward.
Later I would withhold the thing they wanted
until they tried to say the name of it."
No Need for Baby-Talk
"Isn't this interesting? What were the words
they spoke first?"
"Papa, of course," Frank interrupted.
"Fathers always make that claim, don't they?
Really, I think the first thing he said was 'da,'
which they always did when they were pointing,
and which I suppose later grew to be our excla-
mation, 'There.' Perhaps after repeating it when
one of us was present it grew to mean 'Mamma'
or 'Papa.' I don't know. At any rate, I know
this: nouns were the first words they used, such
as 'Papa,' 'milk,' 'doll.' and so on; then they added
'da,' meaning 'there' 3.nd 'don,' meaning 'gone,'
and 'no. no.' Now they have a few adjectives,
like 'hot,' 'nice,' and 'good' — and I guess that's
pretty nearly their whole stock in trade."
"But I notice that they don't use any baby-
talk. Didn't they ever make up any?"
"Of course they did, and such funny words,
too. Sarah called her dress a 'desh' and a biscuit
a 'bittitch' and butter 'bup.' I put all these down
in my diary, but I didn't ever use them, for what
is the good of letting them have so many things
to unlearn, when the kids have a whole hard
language to learn anyhow? Frank did try to
spoil them by teaching them some impossible
words, just to see what they would make of
them."
"Oh, do tell me."
"I just taught them a few trifles, like 'hippo-
potamus,' 'Mesopotamia,' and 'kangaroo'," Frank
replied quietly.
"And what happened?"
"The little beggars tried every one "
"So patiently," Mary added.
" 'Hippopotamus' came out as 'ippepotany,'
'kangaroo' was 'kooglegfoo' and 'Mesopotamia'
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was just — a 'mes.' But I thought it was fine
practice for them.''
"Perhaps it was," their mother granted.
"Well," said Helen Walker on departing, "I
am going right home and teach William the
English language. He shall go hungry until he
speaks up for his breakfast, hereafter."
"The better way," suggested Mary Howard
pleasantly, "to get him to talk will be to make life
interesting to him."
Milestones of the Second Year
When Mr. and Mrs. Howard sat down together
to make their review of the second year, they
were quite impressed with the results.
"I would never have believed," exclaimed
Frank, "that a baby's year could tell such a defi-
nite story. With us who are older, one year is
about like another, but this second year stands
out just as distinctly from last year as an angle on
a chart or a compartment in a cabinet."
"I wouldn't go so far as that," his wife re-
sponded cautiously. "It seems to me more like
a winding road with mile-stones, or a stream with
special points of interest on the bank. I mean
that it is not something still and stiff like a box,
but more like a river — it flows. What we see this
year comes out of last year, and I suppose it will
pour on into next year."
"I believe you are right." the father acknowl-
edged. "But what I meant to emphasize is that
what we can learn from your records is so defi-
nite that it is most helpful in understanding the
children and knowing how to meet their problems.
I don't see how mothers can get along without
making some such careful study as yours."
"I don't think they can — very well."
"Here it is in a nutshell," Frank added, picking
up the notes they had jotted down together that
very evening. "This year has been a 'getting
about' year. They have learned to walk, to run,
to exercise, and to explore, constantly. The next
thing I notice is the way their senses have de-
veloped. They are much more quick to notice
rhythm when you play the piano, and they both
enjoy musical sounds."
"And they try to make them, too."
"With the tin pan ! And they like bright colors
now, and they enjoy pictures, and they can pick
out a 'dog' and a 'cat' and a 'motor' and so on,
and they understand stories when told with the
pictures. They know the difference between
rough and smooth, solid and light, round and
square. They recognize half a dozen of the let-
ters, and they can count "
''Up to two," Mary added, laughing.
"But of course the big thing is that they have
begim to talk; they understand almost every-
thing we say. This means that from now on
we can really teach them, so that next year ought
to be a splendid one for all of us."
"I think so. There's one more thing to be
added : they have learned to help Mother, and I
do believe that is going to mean more, not only
in keeping them good and kind, but in educating
them, than anything else. For if they are with
me about my work, then my teaching won't be
formal, like a classroom, but every moment will
be useful to learn in."
"There are persons from whom we always expect fairy-
tokens. Let us not cease to expect them."
— Ralph Waldo Emerson,
CHILD AND MOTHER
Mother-My-Love, if you'll give me your hand,
And go where I ask you to wander,
1 will lead you away to a beautiful land— ^
The Dreamland that's waiting out yonder.
We'll walk in the sweet posie garden out there.
Where moonlight and starlight are streaming.
And the flowers and the birds are filling the air
With the fragrance and music of dreaming.
There'll be no little tired-out boy to undress.
No questions or cares to perplex you;
There'll be no little bruises or bumjjs to caress.
Nor patching of stockings to vex you.
For I'll rock you away on a silver-dew stream.
And sing you to sleep when you're weary;
And no one shall know of our beautiful dream
But you and your own little dearie.
And when I am tired I'll nestle my head
In the bosom that's soothed me so often ;
And the wide-awake stars shall sing in my stead
A song which our dreaming shall soften.
So, Mother-My-Lovc, let me take your dear hand.
And away through the starlight we'll wander,
Away through the mist to the beautiful land —
The Dreamland that's waiting out yonder.
• — Author Unknown,
INDEX TO SUBJECTS
From the First to the Second Birthday
Affectionateness, 109
Animal stories, 103
Articulation, 99
Associations, 66, 67
Baby carriages, 59
Baby talk, 66. 98, 112
Bed wetting, 98
Bird songs, 61, 68
Charts, 70, IZ
Clothing, 59
Color, 68, 76, 83
Companionship, 106
Conduct, 69
Crying, 65
Curiosity, 111
Details, Attention to, 86
Discipline, 69, 94
Distance, 76
"Do," not "don't," 64
Dressing, 69
Emotional development, 64
Esthetic taste. 86
Experience, 66, 80
Father, 69
Fears, 64
Feeling, 76
Feet, Care of. 59
Form, 76
Fortitude, 97
Getting about year, 109, 113
Habit of happiness, 94
Habit training, 65, 93, 9.'*
Habits, 65
Hearing, 76, 81
Helpfulness, 64, 113
High chairs, 59
Humor, 67
Imagination. 67
Imitation, 63, 110
Impression, 66
Interest, 68
Jealousy, 64
Manners, 97, 108
Memory, 65, 66, 91, 110
Mother Goose, 102
Mother's songs, 82
Nature, 82
Obedience, 94
Pens. 77, 80
Personality, 69
Physical development, 58
Picture books, 62
Pictures. 76
Punishment, 69
Quiet, 93
Reasoning, 67, 105, 111
Records, 63
Regularity, 93
Sanitation, 90
Seeing, 82
Self-control, 96, 107
Self-reliance. 105
Sense development, 78, 113
Shyness. Ill
Sight, 75
Sleep, 93
Smell, 61, Id, 84
Sociability. 63
Solidity. 76
Speech. 66, 67, 100, 112
Speech defects, 98
Spoiled child, 106
Stories, 100, 101, 111
Taste, 76. 84
Temper. 96
Thumb-sucking, 65, 95
Touch, 81, 95
Trips, 83
Unselfishness, 97
Vocabulary of second year, 66
'"Whys," 69
Will, The, 69
INDEX TO OCCUPATIONS
Ball plays, 78, 85
Bells, 82
Blocks. 60. 77. 79. 80, 90
Books for second year, 62
Bottles. 77, 78
Classifying objects, 67
Clay, 60
Climbing, 75, 77
Clothes-pins, 60
Crooning, 76, 100
Directed play, 96
Dolls. 78
Dramatic play. 85
From the First to the Second Birthday
Movement plays. 85
Music for second year, 62, 76, 82, 87
Odds and ends, 60
Pictures, 60, 80, 86
Plasticine, 60
Playmates,
Plays of the senses, 85
Playthings for second year, 59, 11, 78, 84, 110
Rag-bag, 79
Rhymes, 103
Rhvthm, 76, 77, 102
Ribbons, 60
Riding games, 101
Exercises, 77
Finger plays for second year, 63, 88, 101
Games for second year, 79
Handiwork, 89, 106
Handling things, 61, 79
Imaginary playmates, 68
Imaginative play, 66, 69
Imitative plays, 63, 64, 88
Kitchen playthings, 61, 67, 79
Laces, 60
Matching samples, 61
Montessori apparatus, 60, 11
Sand-pile, 60, 90
Sense games, 89
Sight-seeing, 83
Songs, 82
Sounds, 61
Speech plays, 66
Sports, 79
Stairs, 78
Swings, 60, 178
Talking,
Teeters, 80
Toys, see Playthings
Walking, 75, 83
■V\^ater, 79
"What is that" game, 61
Work for second year, 64
J
FROM THE
SECOND TO THE THIRD
BIRTHDAY
CONTENTS
The Course of Training page
Looking Forward Through the Year William Byron Forbush 117
A Child's Development and Training the Third Year. ... Mrs. Alice Corbin Sics 119
Charts 138, 139, 140
What an Average Child May Be Able to Do By the
End of This Year Mrs. Elsie LaVcrne Hill 141
What to Do the Third Year
Plays and Games for the Third Year Luella A. Palmer 143
The Baby Yard Mrs. Dorothy Canficld Fisher 144
Self-Expression During the Third Year Mary L. Read 146
Big Tools for Small Hands M. V. O'Shca 148
Playthings Which the Father Can Make H'iUiam A. McKeever, LL.D 149
Memory-Work with Margaret .1/;-^. Rhea Smith Coleman 151
Pictures, a Fairyland Mrs. Rhea Smith Coleman 152
Stories to Tell This Year The Editors 153
Music During the Third Year Mrs. Jean N. Barrett. 155
Companionship : How to Furnish It Mrs. Preston F. Gass 157
Getting Obedience Through Understanding hfrs. Delia Thompson Lutes 159
Jessie's Beginnings in Helpfulness .Mrs. Elsie LaVcrne Hill 161
Orderliness and Tidiness Mrs. Caroline Benedict Burrell 165
Three-Year-Old Virtues Mary L. Read 166
Summary and Forecast
The Third Year with Tom and Sarah William Byron Forbush 169
Index to Subjects Facing 172
Index to Occupations Facing 172
ii6
THE COURSE OF TRAINING
LOOKING FORWARD THROUGH THE YEAR
Dear Mother:
"Playmates and fellow teachers," a phrase out of Mrs. Sies's first article.
is the keynote of this year. She believes that the way to know one's child is
to be his playmate, and that he is to teach her as much as she is to teach him.
Mrs. Sies was, before her marriage, a professor of Childhood Education.
The same careful, precise methods' that she used to employ in the laboratory
she uses in trying to understand her child. Do^ not try merely to skim
through her studies, but read them slowly, over arid over, take up each one,
as indicated, and become this year — this year when the child is becoming more-
active, intelligent, and imaginative — his playmate and fellow-teacher.
The other readings, both in child study and on method, are arranged, as
before, to be companions of, and to supplement, the .main course of training.
Read and try out Mrs. Sies's suggestion, and then take the article mentioned
in the second column and carry the suggestion a little farther.
"A Child's Development and Training the Third Companion Articles
Year"
Mother and Child as Playmates and Fellow-Teachers "Plays and Games for the Third Year."
"The Baby Yard."
I. Physical Records and Physical Care "Self-Expression During the Third >'ear."
II. Physical Activities and Instruction "Big Tools for Small Hands."
III. Equipment and Material for Home Play "Playthings which the Father Can Make."
IV. Records of Mental Development "Memory-Work with Margaret."
V. Methods of Childish Experiment
VI. Education through walks
VII. Pictures, Stories, and Poems i!!^''^*"''"- V^n "■^u-'^'C -
^"Stones to Tell This Year.
VIII. Speech and Language
IX. Rhythm "Music During the Third Year."
X. Dramatic Plays
XI. Records of Social Development "Companionship: How to Furnish It."
XII. Training ill Obedience "Getting Obedience through Understanding."
XIII. Training in Sympathy
XIV. Training in Affections
XV. Training in Unselfishness "Jessie's Beginnings in Helpfulness."
XVI. Training in Orderliness "Orderliness and Tidiness."
XVII. The Development of Conscience "Three- Year-Old Virtues."
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In last year's "Look Forward" we made a condensed statement of the
attainments for the second year in a normal child's life, which we may compare
with a similar forecast for the present (third) year.
ATTAINMENTS OF THE SECOND YEAR ATTAINMENTS OF THE THIRD YEAR
Increased body-control Greater control and much use of trunk-muscles
Better grasping and handling Better manipulation of toys and tools
More trial-and-success Trial now not blind, but to find out how things act
More literal imitation Imitation now not only of literal acts but of pur-
poses
Use of all the senses Keener susceptibility of the senses
Speech; broken phrases Speech; sentence-forming
Occasional memory Voluntary memory, but not continuous
Primitive reasoning Actions based on more thorough reasoning
Self-assertion beginning Self-assertion develops into contrariness
Curiosity constant, expressed by incessant questions
Play more resourceful and self-directed
Imagination now constructive and fanciful
Noticeable affection and sympathy.
Perhaps the two most noticeable developments of this year are likely to be,
the distinct sense of Self and a snddcn "breaking-into" imaginativeness. (Com-
pare the "New Things in Tom and Sarah" in the last article of this year's Course. )
This year we can foresee that, without any formal lessons as yet, we at least
shall be more conscious that we are really teaching and that the child is learn-
ing; when we give him playthings he will not only handle them better, but his
plav will be more self-propelling and independent; he will get more ovit of his
toys, and will have distinct purposes in their use and in his imitation of our
activities ; he will also be ready for the simplest sort of stories and for little
home responsibilities.
May I quote from my "Guide-Book to Childhood" seven main needs which
nobody but you can supply your child this year:
1. Food for the hungry senses. 5. Large opportunity for communication and
2. Means for the legitimate exercise of his expression.
muscles. 6. Large opportunity for the wliolesome develop-
3. Right environment and right models for imi- ment of imagination.
tation. 7. Right beginnings in "habit-formation,
4. Large opportunity for free experimentation
with many objects. WiLLIAM ByRON ForbUSII.
Oh, Mirth and Innocence! Oh, Milk and Water!
Ye happy mixtures of more happy days.
— Lord Byron.
A CHILD'S DEVELOPMENT AND TRAINING
THE THIRD YEAR
BY
MRS. ALICE CORBIN SIES
MOTHER AND CHILD AS PLAYMATES AND FELLOW-TEACHERS
One day a mother sat by a window mending,
her sewing-table piled high with clothes which
must be repaired that afternoon. A child nearly
three years old pressed constantly against her
knee, unconsciously seeking, in her companion-
ship, a human playmate who would respond, in
loving understanding and in miraculous ways, to
his questions, requests, and endearments. While
the mother watched her child's happy play, her
imagination swept back to her own childhood.
As in a kaleidoscope she saw shifting scenes of
happy playtimes with her own busy mother.
She was awakened from her reveries by the
child touching her arm, saying, "Do you need
a cake of ice?" She smiled back into his eager
eyes, and replied, "Yes, darling! I do need a cake
of ice. Here is ten cents for it." Happily the
little boy yielded the block of ice to her keeping,
extending his hand eagerly for the pretended coin.
"Now. my motor truck is going to the Mississippi
River !" he exclaimed. Sliding along* the floor
on one knee and the tip of the opposite toe, he
soon reached a corner of the room where blocks
lay scattered about in confusion. Filling his
motor truck full of blocks of ice, he made a tour
of the room, calling from one chair to another,
"Ice ! Ice !" The mother silently looked on,
seeing in her child's play the human link con-
necting the achievements of one generation with
the succeeding one.
Soon the play lagged. Again .the child pulled
at his mother's knee. "I want to get up," he
said, attempting to climb upon her lap. The
mother glanced hurriedly at her mending, then
suggested, "Bring your Mother Goose and sit
here on the stool beside me." The boy seated
himself beside her and turned the pages slowly,
his eyes resting upon the bright patches of color
just long enough to wrest from each picture its
meaning. "Bye Baby Bunting" was gently sung
by the mother, while together they repeated some
of the other rhymes. "Hot Cross Buns" was the
boy's achievement alone. Many of the bright-
colored pictures suggested action stories to the
boy. "Here's a little girl talking to her doll !
This girl is going to the cupboard right here."
By the time the book had been thoroughly gone
over, the sun had come out after a rain and the
mother bundled her boy up for a play on the in-
closed porch. From where she sat she could
watch the boy's slow muscular achievements, as
he struggled to pull an elephant on wheels around
corners. As the mother observed his movements,
ideas for new play-materials suited to her child's
needs occurred to her. She remembered some
iron wheels in the cellar. Yes, these wheels
could be fastened on a soap-box by means of iron
rods which could be purchased at a foundry. The
boy would then have a street-car to operate.
Some low boxes would make a fine elevated
track and would suggest both constructive and
dramatic play. Playmates and fellow-teachers.
she said to herself as she folded the clothes away
and put on her hat and coat for a romp with the
boy on the porch. "You get in my street-car!"
said the boy as he made room for her on his
low coaster — "Ding! dong!" and away they sped
to Play-Land, where mothers are children and
children are teachers and all journey onward
together.
I. PHYSICAL RECORDS AND PHYSICAL CARE
We muthers become so used to the peculiarities
in the structure of our children's bodies during
infancy — the long trunk, short neck, and small
leg — that we sometimes fail to notice the gradual
change toward adult proportions. How queer an
adult would look built upon these same lines !
The human figure would be scarcely recogniz-
able. I noticed that by the end of the third year
our boy's trunk was not quite so long in pro-
portion to his legs. Most authorities place the
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length of the trunk at three years as 62 per cent,
of the body as compared with 65 per cent, at
birth.
Advantages of a Large Trunk
The trunk is the center of growth during the
first three years of life. In the following years
the legs and arms develop most rapidly. The
large, heavy trunk in infancy and childhood pro-
vides plenty of room for the internal organs and
muscles to undergo a period of pure growth. The
lungs, stomach, intestines, liver, kidneys, etc.,
have a big work to do, and they have an advan-
tage during these early years because of their
size and area. Your child must not only grow
more rapidly than you ; he must produce more
heat and energy because his body has about twice
the radiating surface that yours has. The in-
ternal organs are the great machines which re-
ceive food and air, converting them into body-
tissue, heat, and energy. The food must be
nourishing, the air pure, in order to get the best
results. Your child breathes rapidly. I noticed
our little boy took from thirty-five to forty breaths
a minute as compared with eighteen of mine
taken in the same time. The lungs have an im-
portant work to perform. The heart, too, although
small in proportion to the arteries, is busy keep-
ing up a rapid circulation of the blood.
Another advantage your child reaps from the
large trunk is seen in the development of the
muscular system. The muscles form a large part
of a child's weight during infancy and childhood.
I once kept a list of the movements our boy made
in the course of an hour during the third year.
A large part of his movements called into play
the heavy muscles of his trunk, shoulders, and
legs. They were big, heavy movements involv-
ing reaching, pulling, and walking.
I early discovered that loose clothing, and
shoes providing the toes room for growth, aided
free movements; while tight shirts or drawers,
a tight waist or collar-band, restricted movement.
Changes in Height and Weight
I noticed, of course, a change in height and
weight during the year. The average child weighs
about 25 pounds at two years, and gains about 5
pounds during the year. The increase in weight
is less than the preceding year. The tremendous
growth in weight during these first three years
is seen when we find the weight has increased
nearly five-fold. The increase in height is also
marked: from 2oJ.4 inches at birth to 35 inches
at three years. The importance of allowing the
child proper rest, food, and clothing, on which this
tremendous growth depends, can scarcely be
overestimated. Children who are undernourished
and shut out from air and sunshine ma}' regain
their losses later, but very infrequently do so.
The Food-Problem as Related to Growth
It seems to me one of the first preparations for
motherhood should be a year's course in cooking,
followed by food-study. It is a well-known fact
that the child's stomach is not completely adapted
to adult food until the tenth year. Even with
some knowledge of food-study, many mothers
have children whose food-requirements differ so
greatly from normal that expert advice is needed.
Until our boy was three years old I called in a
baby-specialist about every three months and
followed his plan of diet carefully, preparing all
the foods myself. I found I could not trust even
the preparation of cereals to a maid. The wis-
dom of this was apparent when I saw that two
departures from the regular diet brought on in-
digestion and a couple of days of poor health, the
only days during these three years when the boy
was not well and strong.
How children may differ in food-requirements
is illustrated by the following story related to me
by a prominent physician. He was called to a
home where an infant lay white and ill on the
bed. He found by examination that acute indi-
gestion was the cause of the illness. Noticing
a bowl of bread and milk on the table, he left
instructions for an altered diet. Upon his return
the next day he found the child dead. Pointing
to another cup of bread and milk on the table near
by, he said to the foster-mother, "You are the
murderer of that child !" The woman broke down
and protested, saying she had brought up nine
healthy children on bread and milk.
It is a well-known fact that growth is the chief
business of childhood and that carefully chosen
food, well digested and assimilated, is one of the
prime necessities of growth. Proper feeding not
only supplies the child's present requirements, but
fortifies him against nervous instability in later
life. Yet, just as food and good digestion are
necessary to produce good blood, so are health-
ful interests and occupations an aid in digestion.
A child who is not pleasantly occupied often
works himself into a nervous state which affects
both his appetite and his digestion.
Sleep as Related to Growth
During the third year I noticed that our boy
was just as dependent upon regular hours of
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121
undisturbed sleep as in early infancy. Twelve
hours, from seven at night until seven in the
morning, he lay in his crib in restful quiet, even
though he did not sleep the full time.
In the afternoon our boy took a nap of two
hours. Most authorities agree that about an hour
after the hearty noon-dinner is the best time for
a child's afternoon nap. The blood is at this
time rich in nutritive material for building up
brain and the body-tissue. I often stole in to
watch our boy as he slegt. When his sleep was
perfect I noticed almost entire absence of move-
ment.
If he tossed about I bent down to see if he was
too warm, or too cold, or I looked to see if the
circulation of the air in the room was good.
Children are more, sensitive to dampness and to
impure air than are adults. Finding the matter
of heat, cold, and fresh air satisfactory, I next
turned my thoughts to his night-feeding. Since
it was fairly regular and uniform in amount and
variety, there was seldom restlessness because of
indigestion. Absence of movement during sleep
means brain rest ; during the hours spent in sleep
the blood is circulating freely in the brain,
nourishing it throughout. After one of his usual
restful nights of sleep our boy would awake sing-
ing, move actively about, and be full of play.
Likewise I noticed the adverse efifect of too little
sleep in a poorly ventilated room. One night we
were traveling in a Pullman where the room was
particularly hot and stufTy. In the morning the
boy was sleepy, did not move about actively while
I was dressing him. and sat quietly eating his
breakfast with little or no chatter.
Personally I learned by experience that to
awaken a child quickly or to hurry his dressing
generally brought on a nervous condition attended
by irritability. Both mornings and afternoons I
found it best to enter our boy's room quietly,
draw up the curtain, then busy myself about the
room until he gradually came to his senses. Some
physicians claim the brain needs a few minutes
for recovering its full activity, and for the cir-
culation to return to normal.
Regularity in Establishing Physical Habits
It seems wise to have a regular time in which
to bathe a child and to cleanse his teeth properly.
Milk teeth dentition is complete at the third year,
and the importance of the care of the mouth and
teeth can not be overestimated. Our boy early
delighted in having his teeth brushed, because
after I had cleansed them properly he was allowed
to finish all by himself.
The regular time for sitting on the nursery-
chair may be made pleasurable. I found our boy
resisted this experience until I planned some defi-
nite occupation. Sometimes I gave him a tray
containing a small pitcher of water and his set
of dishes. He enjoyed pouring the water into
the different utensils and emptying the water back
again into the pitcher. Other times I gave him
crayons and blunt scissors and paper, or picture
books.
Exercise in the Open Air
On warm sunny days as soon as the child has
breakfasted, and has had his teeth and toilet at-
tended to, he should play out of doors. He soon
grows accustomed to this play-period and looks
forward to it, if he has an abundance of things
to do.
During the third year it is still necessary to
keep an active lookout from the window on all
of his activities. A busy mother can do her
kitchen work or mend by the window while watch-
ing this outdoor play. If a mother wishes to have
some time_ absolutely free for reading, study-
ing, marketing, and the like, this seems about the
best time to leave her child in the care of a reliable
helper. He needs more mechanical attention
and less discipline and guidance during this hour
or two than at any other during the day. He is
fresh and resourceful in his play. This was the
time I felt most free to leave my boy in the care
of a reliable maid. He would run in frequently
after toys and playthings as the need arose, and
would call her or me out to see what he was
playing.
On cold days it seems best to place a shorter
outdoor play-period just before the noon-meal.
On the very coldest days I accompanied our boy
in his outdoor play. We would run actively about,
shovel and sweep snow, or go sled-riding. In
this way I saw that the boy kept actively exercised
and did not stand or sit in the cold. In the after-
noon a child should play out of doors again, after
he has awakened from his nap. It seems a good
time for even a busy mother to accompany her
child on walks. I noticed that our boy would
come in from these walks in high spirits and that
he showed an improved physical condition. His
activities in the fresh air had improved his heart
action and increased the circulation of blood.
Irritability, Fatigue, and Fidgetiness
Even a healthy child becomes fidgety when
hungry and tired, or if he is confined too long
in poorly ventilated rooms. This is especially
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true of bright, active children having a nervous
temperament. Some children are naturally quick
and nervous. They make a larger number of
spontaneous movements than slow children and
become nervously exhausted more quickly.
I made a good many mistakes in disciplining
our boy just before the noon-meal before I dis-
covered my error. He would start a large num-
ber of plays, get out all of his toys, run about
aimlessly, and become cross and peevish if left
to his own devices, or become positively ill-
tempered if disciplined for his mistakes. Gradu-
ally I learned to read the signs of irritability and
fatigue some time after his mid-morning lunch
and to avoid situations involving irritability and
discipline. I usually found it best to speak quietly
and firmly and to provide some interesting occu-
pation which called into play the large, funda-
mental muscles, such as scrubbing the floor with
water and a brush, painting the kitchen furniture
with water and a large brush, or assisting me in
some housework. After such play his body would
relax and he would come to his noon-meal pleas-
ant and with a good appetite.
A Daily Time-Table
Summing up, then, the fundamental needs of a
two-to-three-year-old child's play, we get a plan
somewhat like the following:
6 :3a- 7 :30
Dressing and breakfast.
7 :30- 8 :00
Toilet preparations.
8:00- 9:00
or 8 :30 flay in house while mother
works.
9:00-10:30
Outdoor play.
10:30-10:45
Lunch.
10:45-12:30
Play out of doors or with mother in-
doors.
12:30- 1:00
Dinner.
1 :00- 2 :00
Stories, pictures, or play about house.
2 :0O- 4 :00
Afternoon nap.
4 :00- 5 :00
Outdoor walk.
5 :0O- 5 :30
Play with mother; pictures and songs
and stories.
5 :30- 6 :30
Supper and bedtime stories.
6:30
Bed.
n. PHYSICAL ACTIVITIES AND INSTRUCTION
Quiet children often give little trouble, while
active ones disturb the peace and order of the
home, until their spontaneous actions are brought
under control. Yet as soon as this is accom-
plished the active child very often proves superior
to the stolid, less active one.
We mothers learn to fear those quiet or ner-
vously active periods which accompany fatigue
or illness. It is natural for a child to move about
actively when refreshed, finding pleasure in move-
ment ; and as natural to be annoyed when we
place restrictions on his spontaneous movements.
Whenever we see children running about freely,
hopping, skipping, and jumping, we hear childish
laughter and see evidences of health and spirits.
After a child has passed through an illness or
a period of prolonged fatigue, we notice a lack
of spontaneous movements, a loss of balance in
walking, and less vigorous play.
Like other normal children, our boy was in
constant motion during his waking hours. While
I dressed or undressed him he would move about
a good deal, reaching out for playthings, kicking
his legs aimlessly about, or bobbing up and down
in irrepressible motion. I early learned the futil-
ity of telling him to keep quiet. At the begin-
ning of the second year I learned, as most moth-
ers doubtless do, to put on clothes during these
activities; to cleanse the teeth while he was dab-
bling in water; and to brush his hair in the midst
of frolicsome movements. Soon I noticed that
he was gradually gaining the power to control
these movements when his thoughts were cen-
tered upon a pleasing rhyme or story. By the
end of the third year he would sit or stand quietly
listening to stories while I dressed or undressed
him. This indicated a new control of the brain
centers having to do with movement.
Spontaneous Movements
At the beginning of the third year I noticed
that the movements our boy used most frequently
were those which involved reaching, pulling, haul-
ing, lifting,, throwing, crawling, climbing, walking,
and running. He liked to run rapidly from one
end of the house to another, shouting gayly as he
reached the end of his course. Climbing and
jumping was a daily pastime. He would climb
from one step to another or jump from low boxes
as far as he dared, laughing loudly when he
descended in a sitting position. On cold, snowy
days he liked to sweep or to shovel snow. In the
fall he derived great pleasure from sweeping
leaves into a pile with his tiny broom. On warm
days he would play in his sand-pile. I noticed
he would reach far over his sand-pile with a
spoon and deposit the sand outside. Piling up
stones and arranging them in rows was another
activity in which I noticed good bending and
reaching movements. Pulling toys on wheels
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over smooth cement walks and throwing stones
at a target were favorite outdoor pastimes. In-
doors he would crawl over the floor on all fours,
push engines along tracks, and carefully steer
animals on wheels. At the seashore he greatly
enjoyed throwing stones into the water, improv-
ing during the Summer in the force and accuracy
of his throw as well as his aim. Here he enjoyed
jumping from rocks to the soft sand below, wad-
ing and splashing in the shallow water, and push-
ing a board or a boat about in the water. He
seemed never to tire of these free, active plays
in sand and water. His muscles toughened and
strengthened, his breathing improved; I noticed
a better coordination of muscles and an almost
perfect poise accompanied by a new bodily grace.
Nursery Instruction
At the close of the third year most children
have accomplished with little training the move-
ments necessary for gross control of the body.
We know little about the order of development
of the muscles of the trunk, arms, and legs, but
most authorities claim the trunk is the most ad-
vanced at birth and up to the third year; that
the arms are in advance of the legs, although
the legs grow more rapidly during childhood.
At four we see a shifting of growth from the
trunk to the legs; while the muscles of the trunk
and the trunk movements continue to be of prime
importance, the legs gain considerably.
Fond parents often imagine that they teach
their children to walk approximately between
the first and second years. What the parent
really accomplishes is to aid the child to exercise
an inborn tendency to walk. That most of the
bodily movements so essential in childhood and
adult life, such movements as sitting, standing,
walking, running, stooping, jumping up, lying
down, rolling, climbing, etc., are accomplished
in childhood by trial and success, through some
imitation of elders, seem probable to most psy-
chologists. I had the feeling that there was little
for me to do at first. Our physician instructed
me not to try to teach or to encourage our boy
to walk early, because of a slight tendency to
bowlegedness, and I knew that I did not have
it within my power to teach the other gross
body-movements.
I soon discovered, however, that I was kept
very busy in providing the right environment in
which the boy could exercise his God-given
capacities — plenty of space and air to move about
in, an abundance of crude toys to handle, wagons
and blocks and boards, to lift and manipulate.
Above all I was kept busy in watching the daily
growth. We do not need to wait until our chil-
dren speak to know whether they are playing
profitably. We learn through watching and read-
ing how to interpret through the face, gestures,
movements, and poise of body, whether they are
building up the necessary movements for genuine
health and vigor in later childhood.
III. EQUIPMENT AND MATERIAL FOR HOME PLAY
It seems especially important during the third
year to keep the child's environment rich in op-
portunities for free, unrestricted movement. The
city no longer afifords the child unlimited space
in which to roam, to climb fences, and to slide
down cellar doors. Some place must be found
to give the child space for development and
growth. Our boy was quick to find substitutes.
Play Apparatus
A smooth table-leaf placed against a window-
seat made an excellent slide for R. Before he
was two years old he would beg to be lifted upon
the board and would slide down with evident
enjoyment. Soon he learned to climb up himself
and then slide down unassisted. Before he was
three years old he would slide down a ten-foot
grassy embankment in our backyard, and would
fearlessly coast down a still higher stone balus-
trade on the front of the terrace. Because these
natural slides are so hard on clothes, we mothers
soon learn it is best to provide a smooth, hard-
wood plank, mounted on a low stepladder with
firm, spreading base. Climbing a strong step-
ladder was especially enjoyed by our boy during
the last half of his third year.
For jumping, I provided boxes of different
heights. On rainy days we brought those boxes
into the house for indoor play. All during the
third year our boy enjoyed walking on curbings
or along the lowest boards of rail-fences. In the
city playgrounds, six-inch-wide planks, raised
three inches from the ground, are often provided.
Children from two to three years old enjoy walk-
ing along these planks, and from this practice gain
poise and balance in walking.
After the mechanics of walking have been per-
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fected, the child's energ-y seeks another outlet.
He delights to pull or push toys on wheels. Coast-
ing is also enjoyed. Before our boy was two
and a half years old he could coast down a hill
a block long, controlling the speed of his wagon
by occasionally touching his feet to the ground,
and steering exceptionally well by the use of the
handle-bars. This achievement came after a
week's use of a low-wheeled coaster, but was
probably prepared for by several months' use
of the kiddie-car. Some mothers question the
advisability of a kiddie-car at this age. To me
it seems to be one of the cheapest and most
valuable toys for locomotion during the third
year. Sitting on the seat the child exercises the
muscles of his legs, while at the same time the
weight of his heavy trunk is largely supported by
the seat. Such exercise ought to afford a relief
from the exertion of bearing the trunk about on
legs small in proportion to their burden.
Other Toys and Play-Materials
A list of other play-materials which I found
especially useful during this year is here given.
Those mentioned in the first list are especially
good for developing the large fundamental
muscles of the trunk, arms, and legs. Those in
the second list appeal more to the manipulating
tendency, involving muscles concerned with finer
muscular adjustments as well as those concerned
in bending and reaching.*
1. For swinging and climbing. A rope knotted
at intervals and suspended from the ceiling
by a closed iron hook.
2. For climbing and sliding. A nine-foot maple
slide, either constructed at home or pur-
chased ready-made.
3. A wide-seated chair-swing, suspended by ropes
from a wooden standard.
4. For pushing and pulling and coasting. A
wagon or a box mounted on wheels ; or a
coaster or pushraobile made as directed in the
Bovs AND Girls Bookshelf, Vol. IV, pages
246 and 264.
5. For building, reaching, and lifting. Soap and
starch-boxes, also long and short boards for
building. A set of Schoenhut-Hill blocks
may be used to supplement this building
material.
6. For locomotion. A kiddie-car, doll-carriage,
and toys on wheels.
7. For walking-experimentation. A walking board
or joist.
8. For throwing and kicking. A No. J4 Spalding
football, rubber balls, and a large box with
circular hole into which beanbags can be
thrown.
9. For pounding and sawing. A dull toy saw, a
tiny hammer, large nails, and soft boards into
which nails can be pounded.
10. For digging. A shovel, rake, and broom.
1. For manipulation. A nest of blocks, also a
collection of paper boxes of cylindrical
shape, and tin cans and boxes of varying
size and shape.
2. A collection of stones, pebbles, shells, buttons,
ntits, etc.
3. A Noah's ark set.
4. Embroidery hoops for rolling and twirling.
5. One-inch-size wooden beads and shoestrings
for stringing. To be purchased at a kinder-
garten supply-house.
6. Some bath-room tiles in colors.
7. Spoons, dishes, a toy stove, and a laundry set.
8. Dolls and a few clothes, also a few pieces of
simple furniture.
IV. RECORDS OF MENTAL DEVELOPMENT
A MOTHER once said to me : "I feel sure my
child is developing well physically. I can weigh
and measure his growth. But I don't know how
to look for signs of mental development." I re-
plied that although we can not observe the brain,
we can see it working in our children's busy
chatter and in the number and variety of move-
ments they make. A feeble-minded child does not
have the poise of body and the power to make con-
trolled movements that a normal child possesses.
* See Dr. McKeever's directions for making these play-
things, page 149.
Someone has said that all mental action is
expressed in movement. The significance of at
least some movements children make is easily in-
terpreted by mothers. When our boy was in his
third year I noticed he was very active, both
physically and mentally. I felt this was a sure
sign of healthy mental growth. He gained con-
siderably in poise of body and in muscular de-
velopment during the two months we spent at
the seashore in the Summer. This was to be
expected, since growth in Summer invariably
exceeds growth in the Winter, if conditions are
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favorable, and the brain grows with the body,
responding favorably to good physical conditions.
During the Summer I noticed our boy developed
a more vigorous walk, a free, open stride, broken
frequently by a forward leap. I observed also
that he jumped actively about on the rocks, threw
stones into the water with a strong arm-movement
and a sure aim; and poured water steadily from
his little pail into the sand-wells he so liked to
dig.
The brain has a tremendous amount of work to
do before the end of the third year. By this time
the greater part of its growth must be completed,
for at four years in normal childhood nine-tenths
of the brain-growth has been accomplished. Be-
cause of this, the importance of physical health
and of freedom from strain can scarcely be over-
estimated. Not only does the brain have to grow ;
it has to perfect new functions or uses. The
child must see, hear, taste, smell, and touch ade-
quately, in order to become used to the objects
and people in the world about him. The develop-
ment of the senses and of the muscles is most
important during the third year. One writer has
compared the mature parts of the brain to islands.
Physical cables must be laid to connect these
islands before any real thinking can be done.
The brain-cells must bud and branch out like the
leaves of a tree. This means a period of pure
growth followed by a period of exercise for the
parts matured. To neglect your child's sensory
or motor-development when it needs the most
attention in order to train his intellect along lines
which are easier to train later, is poor economy.
Your child's thinking depends upon laying the
cables firm and strong for a good sensory and
motor development.
The Danger of Strain
Anything that brings a strain upon our children
at this tender age, when their minds and bodies
are undergoing the wear and tear of rapid growth,
is bound to lead to a one-sided development. It
is not wise for us mothers to be too ambitious
and stimulate our children constantly or force
them to think along lines of our own choosing.
It is, of course, possible to teach a child to read
a little to impart some knowledge about a good
many school-subjects during his third yeai". So
far as this teaching grows out of our children's
natural interest in connection with play about the
home, there is little danger. In my own ex-
perience I found no desire on the part of our
boy during his third year to learn any of the
things fond parents sometimes recount as childish
achievements. Yet I discovered boundless oppor-
tunities to suggest new things in connection with
plays, with blocks, animals, engines, sand, water,
etc., and to develop new ideas about favorite
books, rhymes, poems, and music.
Isn't it safer and more wholesome to teach
fundamental habits in connection with the simple,
homely life and with toys, than to strain after an
intellectual knowledge the child's brain is not
fitted to grasp? We mothers can more safely
dress up a child in a man's clothing and expect
him to be physically comfortable than force him
to participate in uitellectual experiences beyond
his years and grow strong in so doing. Emotional
strain, too, is especially to be avoided. This is
brought on by injudicious disciplining, by keep-
ing a child up late at night, or by submitting him
constantly to stimulating sights and sounds in the
street or at public entertainments.
Development in Attention
Beginning with the end of the second year I
noticed that our boy's power of attention to pic-
tures, people, or toys had developed considerably.
He would listen to Mother Goose songs or stories
for a half hour, with an occasional break in at-
tention. By the end of the third year he would
look at pictures for perhaps an hour, provided I
sat near to interpret the pictures and supply oc-
casionally rhymes and stories. At two-and-a-half
years he would play in water and sand or with an
engrossing toy, such as a wagon or engine, for
an hour at a time. When he was three years old,
play with a toy engine engrossed most of his
attention. It was, however, varied play; he would
push his iron engine actively about, or make a
long train of cars, build bridges for the train to
pass under, and switch it back and forth on lines
on the carpet. Before the third year his atten-
tion had flitted rapidly from one play or toy to
another; so much so that a house guest once
suggested I ought to teach him concentration. I
did not follow the advice, for I felt the brain had
to grow at its own pace and that concentration
could not be imposed from without.
Memory
One thing of interest to me during the third
year was our boy's growth in power to recall
objects, impressions, and scenes, and to use the
knowledge at some later time. Very often I would
see him dramatize an event that had occurred
some time before. He showed ability to observe,
with some degree of accuracy, the things, people,
and events about him. One day I saw him go
to the kitchen drawer for a hammer and insert
the forked end between the boards of a crate.
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Again, I noticed he applied the kitchen can-opener,
point down, on the circular groove of a can.
At two and a half years, after a ten weeks'
absence from home, he remembered where the
various objects in the house were kept. At the
close of the third year I returned from an or-
chestral concert and told him I had heard a band
play. He replied, "I heard a band in Iowa." Upon
questioning him I discovered that he remembered
where he had seen the band and who took him
there. So far as my knowledge goes, this fact
was remembered three months without being re-
called before. At the beginning of the year I
had thought it interesting that the sight of new
kid gloves reminded him of taking lunch down-
town with me two weeks earlier. Now I saw
the ability to store up ideas several months and
to use them again.
Imagination
Imagination also grows apace. It was through
watching our boy's dramatic plays that I dis-
covered the common, everyday stuff with which
imagination works. We sometimes remark upon
children's vivid imaginations, forgetful of the fact
that their minds are only working in normal ways
with the materials they pick up in everyday life.
A mother has a wonderful opportunity to see this,
for she is constantly with her child and knows
what his mental pictures are. One day when we
were out walking our boy exclaimed, "See the
moon !" at the same time pointing to a crescent-
shaped piece of metal in the cement sidewalk. I
recalled that he had several times seen the moon
as a bright crescent in the sky above. So what
seemed a far-fetched comparison to me was but
the normal exercise of imagination to him.
Reason and Judgment
Adults often say a child has no power to reason
or to form judgments. We sometimes think this
because of the incongruous ideas children get.
During the influenza epidemic I was out walk-
ing with our boy when he attempted to em-
brace a strange child. Quickly I pulled him away
saying, "Oh, no; the baby has a cold." The boy
replied, "He not cold; he warm!" And then I
realized that while we were both reasoning and
forming judgments, my judgments were abstract
ones, and the boy's dealt with facts as he saw
them through the senses.
Perhaps the following illustration shows still
better what an everyday fact judgment is. One
day when our boy was two and a half years old
he wished to look out of a window just beyond
his reach. I placed a book under his feet. After
standing a few minutes to get a good view out
of the window, he turned to me and said, "I need
a big book. Muz." Had he not considered facts
of sense in such a way that he had arrived at a
conclusion in which the significance of big and
little books had a direct bearing on the problem
of e.xtending his height to get a good view from
the window?
We hear sometimes that a child possesses little
foresight of consequences and makes "snap judg-
ments." Here again we are likely to misjudge
the child's reasoning ability by refusing to recog-
nize judgments related to sense-objects and things.
The following example will perhaps illustrate my
meaning: One time when we were living at the
seashore I was tucking the boy in bed when he
exclaimed, "Write, Muz ! Sew !" I realized that
his mind had conceived the pleasant state of going
to sleep with me near. His busy brain had
devised a means to accomplish his end.
This mental act partakes almost of the nature
of strategy in adult life, as does the following:
I had often forbidden R. to walk out on the pier
at the shore, exclaiming, "Captain D. says you
must not go out there ; it is dangerous for little
boys." One day as we were approaching the
shore R. exclaimed, "Captain D. says to go out
on the pier, Muz !" Realizing some authority
higher than mine concerning the possibility of
walking on the pier, he had applied this knowledge
to further his own personal ends.
The Question of Method in Mental
Development
We have spoken of the danger of becoming
too ambitious in training a child along lines of
our own choosing. This does not mean that we
mothers should leave our children unguided in
their play. We must learn the natural method
of education. To do this we must start with our
children as we find them, as Nature leaves them
in our midst. Mothers of large families often
say, "Every one of my children is different from
the others ! What I do for one is out of place with
another." Even a mother of one child recognizes
this if she supervises the play of her own child
with other children.
I learned most about our boy during the third
year from direct observation of his actions when
alone with me and when playing with other chil-
dren. I soon discovered how his nature differed
from that of other children of his age, and
learned some of the ways in which he needed the
most help by imitation and suggestion.
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V. METHODS OF CHILDISH EXPERIMENT
I EARLY learned to start with the boy's interests.
For example, if I wished to interpret to him the
life of birds, ducks, or chickens, I told stories con-
nected with something he had known about them in
actual experience : how a dog barked to get into
the house; how the duck hunted water to swim in;
how the birds flew from the tree to the ground in
search of food, etc. I started always with some-
thing the boy was interested in; I finished some-
times with a dog or bird or duck story that had
no immediate relation to what he knew, yet which
was of vital human interest. Often a poem was
useful in putting some of these experiences into a
form which was to be a permanent possession.
For example, one morning the boy looked out of
the window on a white world. He noticed the
falling snow and remarked that the wind was
blowing it about. He asked to catch a snowflake,
so we went outdoors and caught some on our
hands and coats and felt them on our faces. When
we came in we stood by the window and the boy
told me everything the snow had covered. After
that he was delighted to hear the little poem,
"Snow, snow, everywhere," and would correct me
if I forgot to mention "roofs or window panes."
Starting with something the child himself con-
tributes is an absolute necessity to the mother or
teacher who would assist children in mental de-
velopment. And now comes the question of
mctltod.
Shall the mother leave the child to experimenta-
tion and let him profit by the trial-and-error
method?
Shall she use imitation and suggestion a good
deal?
Shall she aim to make her child independent
enough to form "free ideas," by which we mean
applying past experiences in new and novel
ways ?
It seems to me most of us mothers learn quite
unconsciously to use all three methods. In my
own experience I obtained best results when play-
ing directly with our boy. rather than in sitting
aloof and making suggestions. Any mother has
a few odd minutes each day in which she can
play with her child. Our boy would urge "Come,
play with me on the floor !" Since he had two
engines I would run mine about, doing pretty
nearly what he did. After he tired of running
the engine under a bridge, I would make my
engine do something different — run around a
circular track or over an elevated bridge. Often
I would say, "Let's make our engines do what
those engines did the other day." Then we would
switch them back and forth, unload the cars, coal
up the engines, etc. R. once said, "The whistle
is going to blov:' ! Hear the bell ring !" Then with
a quick change of thought and no feeling of in-
consistency, he said, "The colored porter says
for all to get off and they (meaning people) are
going to eat now on the train." The colored
porter and eating on a train were experiences
three months off, while the whistle and bell of an
engine were heard frequently on our daily walks.
In another minute he himself would be the en-
gine and steam off with a "Ding, dong," and a
"Chu, chu." The play described above involves
all three methods.
We sometimes fail to notice the important re-
sults of this developing method. First it involves
a recognition on the mother's part that her child
contributes something of importance. His natural
powers of observation and his interests are taken
into account. The mother selects something he
is interested in and lets him take his first mental
steps alone. He explores, observes, and tells her
his results either through actions or words. She
goes on his journeys of learning with him and
adds a little either by actions or words. She
takes him a little farther than he could go alone
in his wanderings. She supplies things he hungers
and thirsts to get but can not quite reach unaided.
The gratitude a child shows when a mother meets
his needs in this way is quite wonderful to behold.
His whole being expands with delight and
pleasure as a new world opens up before him,
and he feels united, melted almost into one being
with the person who shares these experiences
with him. Surely these moments are among the
priceless possessions of parents and teachers.
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VI. EDUCATION THROUGH WALKS*
From the time our ^boy was able to toddle alone
he delighted in being taken on walks, if only to
the corner and back. When he was two years
old he had learned the different roads leading to
points of interest — to a neighbor's hennery, to the
street-car tracks, and to a hill down which he
sometimes coasted on his kiddie-car. I found
it best to walk slowly, to stop with him when he
wished to pick flowers, gather stones, or watch
birds and passing vehicles. In the winter months
we waded through snow, slid on icy walks, made
snowballs and ran about, chasing each other.
Sometimes, comine home at dusk, we would
notice the street lights and R. would point to the
moon overhead. In summer we climbed the grassy
slopes of a hill nearby, picked dandelions and
daisies and watched birds. Occasionally we
would go to a large park, where we saw engines,
airplanes, fish, rabbits, etc. Upon arriving home
R. would relate to us what he had seen and I
would make up simple fact-stories concerning
the objects that had interested him — how the
rabbits jumped about in the grass, how the little
squirrels ran up and down the trees, how people
rode on trains, and how fish swam through the
water.f
VII. PICTURES, STORIES, AND POEMS
During the third year, pictures are stories in
themselves. Gradually words describing them
arise spontaneously. Our boy enjoyed especially
the colored pictures in "The Real Mother Goose,"
illustrated so beautifully by Blanche Fisher
Wright; he was also fond of "The Most Popular
Mother Goose Songs," illustrated by Mabel B.
Hill. As I turned the pages he would exclaim,
"Baby get bathed!" "See the man with a cane!"
He had a way, too, of pointing to pictures, silently
begging for stories describing them; and would
make disapproving gestures if I turned the pages
without giving simple fact-stories concerning the
* Read again Mrs. Coleman's description of her walks with
Margaret in the Course for the second year.
t I he following outlines, taken by permission from Helen
Y. Campbell's ''Complete Motherhood," may be useful to the
mother in preparing these fact-stories. Be sure, however,
that such stories do not precede the child's own observations
and questions. If they do, they will be likely to deaden
rather than quicken interest.
.\fter telling a story, get the child to retell it to you, and
then follow it up by further observation. For instance, after
telling about bread, visit a bakery with the child, and then a
pastry -shop. After seeing honey on the table, visit a hive.
After finding a horseshoe, go to a blacksmith's shop.
A Piece of Bread. — Plowing the fields, sowing the seed,
watching the yellow fields, reaping the grain, threshing the
wheat-grains away from the straw, winnowing the husks or
chaff away from the grain, the miller and the windmill,
crushing the grains in the mill, and sifting the white flour
away from the bran, the baker and his oven, the baker's
shop, and the pastry-cook's,
A Horseshoe. — The horse, his hoof and mane, the black-
!imilh and his forge, the horse's harness, his food, and his
house, his intelligence and uses, his breaking-in, his paces,
wild horses, lassoing, the cart-horse, the cab-horse, the race
horse, the circus-horse and his feats, the long-legged colts,
the farm pony, the shaggy Shetland pony.
A Piece of Coal, or the Fire Burning in the Grate. — Tell
the child the ori(j:in of coal from the plants of the marshy,
buried forests of long ago. How these plants, which we
often see pictures of on the coal, had no pretty flowers, and
were chiefly giant mosses and ferns, etc., though the sun
pictures he pointed to. I described the actions
of people or animals and related simple facts
about objects in a few telling words, thus giving
him verbal word-pictures to form a nucleus for
a good vocabulary. Colored pictures consisting
of bright splashes of red, green, blue, and yellow
made the strongest appeal. I noticed R. did not
recognize some of the finely drawn figures in
black and white, although he liked big poster-
effects in black and white.
I had often read that children never tired of
Mother Goose rhymes and songs. Our boy would
plainly show his dislike if they were too often
shone on them. How these plants worked to store up some-
thing, with the help of the sunbeams playing over them, and
kept it to be useful to the world long after they were dead.
Tell the child about the coal-mines underground, the miner,
his lamp, his pick and shovel; how the coal burns in the
nursery grate, and yields the gas to light the room, to cook
our food, and to drive our engines.
A Spoonful of Honey. — The bees' nest or hive; the Queen
Bee and the fat lazy drones, her guard of honor. The
active little working bees, who build the comb with wax from
their "wax pockets," clean the hive, and mend it with gum
from the plants, then cool it by fanning with their wings.
Why they fly forth to the flowers and return laden with
honey in their "honey bags," and pollen in the "pollen
baskets" on their little hind-legs; why they have stings to
secure them from interference with their important work and
enable them to drive away enemies and robbers from the
hive. The nurse-bees, who hollow out the waxy cell-cradles
for the bee-babies, and feed them with honey and pollen-
dust, and then use up the pollen left over to make the dark
"bee bread" and store it for the Winter. The babies (laid by
the Queen as little white eggs in the cell-cradles) who turn
into grubs, and when they have grown fat on the nice food
prepared by the nurses, put on silk robes and go to sleep,
while the nurses cover their cradles with wax. and when
they wake, eat a hole In their cradles and crawl out with a
striped brown velvet dress, and wings like the grown-up
bees; the swarming away to form a new colony of the
<_)iieen Bee and her drones, and many of the workers, on a
bright day. when a princess is born, whom the nurses feed on
a special sweet jelly; the use of bees to the flowers in
helping them to make their seeds.
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repeated. Some songs he had especially enjoyed
at first, finally became distasteful, although later
his liking seemed partly to return.
It seemed to me that from the time R. was two
and a half years old, I told stories on every
occasion. When dressing and undressing him,
while preparing his food, and at odd times during
the day, would come the request "Tell me about
this!" I showed him pictures selected to meet
his interests (a large number of which I gathered
from old magazines and pasted into scrapbooks).
As soon as R. became thoroughly familiar with
the pictures and their meaning, he would sit alone,
turning the pages and repeating the things he
knew about each picture.
I hunted up rhymes as well as stories related
to a child's interests. A few of Christina Ros-
setti"s poems, one or two of Stevenson's, and a
large number of rhymes and songs from such
kindergarten song-books as the following, I sung
or recited frequently to him :
PouLssoN, Emilie. Finger Plays. Lothrop, Lee &
Shepard Co., Boston.
Riley. Alice Cushing. and Gaynor, Jessie L. Songs
of the Child's World, Nos. 1 and 2. The John
Church Co., Cincinnati, O.
Bentley, Alys E. The Song Primer. A. S. Barnes
& Co., New York.
Walker. Gertrude E., and Jenks, Harriet S. Songs
and Games for Little Ones. Oliver Ditson Co.,
Boston.
VIII. SPEECH AND LANGUAGE
My own records of our boy's language-develop-
ment show that he acquired a large part of his
vocabulary during the third year through imitat-
ing our own speech. At two years he had acquired
the habit of saying simple words and phrases
after us just as soon as he heard them. "See
that?" "Baby ride," are examples of what I
mean. I realized the importance of speaking
slowly and plainly and of being careful in the
selection of words. I did not greatly simplify
my speech, however. I used words and sentences
which would have a permanent place in his
vocabulary. R. had a habit of pointing to an
object when he wanted it. By paying no atten-
tion to these inaudible requests I forced him to
ask for it verbally.
At twenty-seven months R. could make fairly
good, sentences, such as "Daddy, please put bath-
tub away." At that age he invariably accom-
panied his actions with words, "Go downstairs
with me !" "Sweep floor !" "Wash face !" being
samples of what I mean. Later he did not so
describe his actions.
During the last half of the third year language
was acquired very rapidly. On walks I found much
to talk about with R., and his vocabulary grew
apace through the natural widening of his ex-
periences.
Stories and pictures gave him a permanent
vocabulary. The stories he wished repeated again
and again, and the words became permanent in his
memory. I encouraged him to relate to me after-
wards what he had seen upon walks and to retell
familiar stories. In relating these stories, the
words would be almost exactly what I had used
in telling stories to him.*
IX. RHYTHM
I FOUND that rhythmic movements developed
quite naturally and spontaneously in unexpected
ways. WHien running, R. would give an occa-
sional leaping movement which fell quite naturally
into schottish rhythm. Once I saw him experi-
ment in walking by taking little mincing steps
about the house. I sat down at the piano and
played "Tiptoe" music, but found the music inter-
fered with the rhythm of his movements. It was
not until our boy was in his fourth year that
* A recent authority, tabulating the common mistakes of
children, lists only about twenty-five as being very frequent.
This is an encouraging fact. It suggests that if we isolate
these few for special treatment, conceutrating our attention
upon them, we may eliminate them one by one. In doing
this it is important to name the incorrect expression as
seldom as possible, lest the very effort at correction only
serve to fi.x the wrong form. I would suggest that you take
up these imperfect expressions one by one and offer some
small reward each time the right phrase is used.
haven't no
seen, had saw
ain't
done, for did
got, haven't got
I and my brother
kin, jist, git, etc.
ain't, for haven't
Fred and me
is, for are
them, for those
learn, for teach
can, for may
my mother she
that there
it was me
went, for gone
come, for came
drawed, throwed, etc.
lay for lie
all two
readin', writin*, singin*,
et, for ate
set, for sit
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music enhanced his pleasure in free rhythmic
movement. Walking sideways rhythmically was
acquired in the third year through playing ring-
around-the-rosy with me. Galloping movements,
with one foot leading, occurred during running
plays. After I noticed this, we would take hold
of hands and gallop together when out on walks.
Two books possessing a variety of rhythmic activ-
ities suited to a child's development a little later
than the third year are: Volume H of "Music
for the Child's World," by Hofer; "Folk Dances
and Games," by Crawford.
X. DRAMATIC PLAYS
SoMEONi: has said that a child builds up his
personality, under certain limitations, by copying
the actions, temper, and emotions of those who
are his companions. We mothers often see our-
dispositions as well as our actions reflected in the
children playing about us. If rude and uncultured
servants are employed in the home, it is easy to
detect their habits and actions in the play of the
children. I once observed a child who had been
for a week continuously associated with a servant.
This child had taken on certain rude actions
copied from the servant. He indulged in such
expressions as "Get out of my way!" "I'm in a
hurry !" "Don't bother me !" when but a week
earlier, "Excuse me !" and "Please let me pass !"
had been commonplace remarks.
What the Child Imitates
During the third year we see children imitating
almost any action or event which appeals to their
interest. The most familiar experiences are not
always the ones first acted out, although this
is likely to be the case if the commonplace ex-
periences appeal to the active life the child leads.
Before our boy entered upon his third year I saw
him struggle to envelop a baby doll in a diaper.
He then placed the doll on a couch and covered
it up, sticking safety pins about in the bedclothes
with an idea of somehow fastening the doll in.
He often made a trip to the bathroom to secure
a washcloth with which to wash his doll. This
kind of play seemed simple, but it involved a defi-
nite plan of action and was a step in advance of
such simple dramatic plays as scrubbing the floor
with a brush he happened to find, or dusting the
furniture when someone else was dusting.
When a two-year-old child plays at dusting,
sweeping, or cleaning, he is learning something
about each act he imitates. If we observe care-
lessly, the play may seem on about the same level
for several months, but if we look more care-
fully, we will see how the acts change. For
example, as our boy continued the play of putting
his doll to bed he observed more closely the pnt-
ting-to-hcd act and learned to adjust the bed-
clothes and pins more nearly as I did.
The Capacity for Make-Believe or Illusion
One day when R. was twenty-six months old
he placed a paper plate on his head, a market-
basket on his arm, and with a cane in his hand
strutted about the house, chanting in a tuneless
fashion at the top of his voice. He was arrayed
to look like me when I start to market, with the
addition of a cane, which symbolized Daddy's
festive walking occasions. In some way he
achieved a sense of importance by the addition
of hat, cane, and basket. He did not deceive
himself into believing that he was really going
to market or out for a walk.
This sense of illusion or pretense seems to give
children a great deal of pleasure even as early
as the third year. About this time R. derived
considerable pleasure in eating imaginary meals
from a spoon and empty dish, knowing quite well
he was not partaking of food, but enjoying the
pretense, nevertheless. This enjoyment of pre-
tense extends so far as to make even disagree-
able acts pleasurable. One of R.'s favorite plays
during this third year was pretending to go to
bed, while really going to bed was rather a matter
to be endured. When being put to bed he would
sometimes say, "But I don't want to sleep so
much," but playing bedtime was a different mat-
ter. It was a self-planned activity, hence it could
be terminated at will.
The Development of Dramatic Plays
During the last part of the third year children
dramatize pretty nearly everything that strikes
their fancy. Shaving like father, running like
horses, hopping like frogs, flying like birds,
cravi'ling to represent mice, cats, etc., barking to
represent dogs, are part and parcel of the day's
play. When using blocks or toys, these inanimate
objects are made to perform events seen or heard
of in stories. Ideas suggested through pictures
are also incorporated in dramatic play. One day
while R. was playing I saw a train run under a
bridge and a sailor boy stand on top of the bridge,
looking down upon the swift-moving train. Pretty
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soon a man appeared on top of one of the cars.
I remembered just where R. had seen these
things. But soon the play became unlike his own
actual observation. A motor truck passed over
the bridge with a lady doll on the seat. Suddenly
a story was remembered. "I want a cat to jump
on her lap," I heard R. exclaim. A wooden block
became a cat and jumped into the lady's lap. Then
a dog (another block) appeared and chased the
cat up a tree. And so several jumbled-up facts
from different stories were remembered and in-
corporated into a play which had started as a
dramatization of a real experience.
Just after the close of the third year I noticed
that the plots of dramatic plays became more
true. At that time Santa Claus was the en-
grossing subject. The plot changed from day to
day, yet nevef exceeded the bounds of stories
and pictures connected with Santa Claus. Some-
times Santa "propelled" himself over the floor
in a large pan. Again, he strutted about with a
pack over his back and insisted upon my closing
ray eyes while he deposited toys at my feet. At
another time a chair became the tiny reindeer,
and, perched upon an improvised seat in a clothes-
basket, R. slapped his reins and speeded on his
journey o'er the snow.
One day I attempted to use the chair which
had a short time before played the part of "the
tiny reindeer." R. resisted with a vigorous pro-
test, "Oh, don't ! It's my reindeer !" This Santa
Claus play almost dominated the boy's person-
ality for several months. "I'm Santa Claus!"
he would exclaim before he had even partaken
of breakfast, and all during the day, off and
on, the Santa personality dominated his actions.
When people asked him his name he invariably
and quite seriously replied, with no thought of
being amused, "Santa Claus !"
The Educational Significance of Dramatic
Plays
Considering the facts brought out in the dis-
cussion of dramatic plays, it is a commonplace
to attempt to point out the educational signifi-
cance of such plays. They are the very stuff of
life itself. We can control the kind of play only
by controlling the conditions of life. If our lives
with our children abound in rich experiences
which set good copies, we need have no fear of
what the child will dramatize. Within certain
limits parents can enrich the significance of dra-
matic games b}' playing with their children, being
careful, of course, not to usurp leadership or to
suggest a content to the play which is quite
foreign to the child's genuine interpretation. Dur-
ing the third year, also, a parent can greatly en-
hance the content of dramatic plays by descrip-
tive songs and stories. For this purpose I found
facf-stories relating to animals and activities in
which the boy was interested more appropriate
during the third year than stories in books. Dur-
ing the fourth year I could use longer stories,
but during the third year only Mother Goose
rhymes and the simple fact-rhymes found in
kindergarten song-books.
XI. RECORDS OF SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT
Every child inherits naturally a desire for com-
panionship with children his own age, as well as
with grown-ups. Both are necessary. Compan-
ionship with children gives one kind of social
training; companionship with adults, another.
In observing the dift'erence in the results when
our boy played constantly with me, and when he
enjoyed the companionship of children his own
age, I stumbled upon some interesting facts. First,
I noticed that he became elated and that his per-
sonality seemed expanded when he was playing
with children his own age. There was not per-
haps the swift and sure flow of sympathy and
ready speech that I noticed when with me. But
his personality became different ; he developed
new attitudes and new ways of doing things. It
seemed quite evident that he was changing in
ways I was powerless to make him change be-
cause of the fact that I was adult. One day I
heard him beg a little neighbor to come over and
play in his sand-pile. His beseeching tones made
no impression upon the little lady, who busied her-
self in her garden without any sign of interest
except to answer "No!" R. looked heartbroken,
and running to me for sympathy, cried out,
"Mother, she won't come over !" As he hid his
face against mine I realized that what he craved
and needed was another little personality feeling
as he felt, acting as he acted, and even at times
behaving in quite new and unexpected ways. And
I, his mother, although I had spent years in com-
panionship with children, could not hope fully
to supply this need.
Limitations in Adult Companionship
It was at one time possible for me to observe
daily, for a considerable period, the behavior of
an only child who had been alone a great deal
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with her mother. Because of the refinement of
her mother's personality, this child appeared su-
perior and more attractive than children usually
do. Yet, placed with children her own age, she
appeared at a disadvantage. She did not know
how to defend herself against their aggressions,
nor was she trained to cooperate with them in
their play. She had not developed the social
weapons of defense and offense necessary in
group play.
Children Learn How to Act by the Way
their Acts are Received
Our boy learned, early in his third year, that
little friends went home if he pushed them about
or monopolized the toys. It was in play with other
children that he found it did not pay to hit or
strike. The early appearance of this tendency had
troubled me not a little. I tried holding his hands
after such acts, taking him away from the group,
and other forms of discipline. Finally I in-
structed a child two years older to hit him back.
I shall never forget the look on his face when
this particular playmate did hit back. And I
saw at once the effectiveness of this swift, just,
sudden judgment. Not long afterwards when I
was dressing R. he struck at me playfully with
considerable force. I devised a hand-tagging
game which interested for awhile. Still the im-
pulse persisted, returning again and again. Re-
membering the effect of the child's return blow
I paused and said quietly, "It hurts; I'll show you
how it feels !" And I administered one swift
blow, smiling and saying, "Do you like it?" He
looked surprised and put both arms about my
neck, dropping his head on my shoulder. Some-
how I had assisted him to see the social result
of this purely playful yet socially harmful act.
Even during the third year he would start to
strike, so strong was the natural tendency in this
particular child, then hold his hand suspended in
the air as reason told him to stop.
We mothers are often too protective in our
attitude toward our children. Because we be-
lieve them to be immature we shield them from
the consequences of their mistakes and often
make it impossible for them to learn by experi-
ence. Play with other children is invaluable in
showing up these prime necessities of behavior.
I once saw a fond parent playing "Pussy-wants-
a-corner" with his little daughter and three or
four other children. He schemed to give his little
daughter unfair advantages, and thus helped her
to change places successfully. If limited to his
companionship, what chance had this little girl to
learn through play how to be fair, and to win
honestly the points of the game?
Adult Interference in Children's Play
During the third year I found that my super-
vision was very necessary if play with other
children was to prove profitable. Not that I
needed to interfere constantly, but I found it best
to be near enough to see that sudden conflicts in
the possession of the toys did not lead to throw-
ing toys and blocks about promiscuously. A child
of this age is too young to be told to count ten
before he acts, as we adults sometimes do. In
childhood many instincts pull for dift'erent kinds
of behavior. A child usually acts in the direction
toward which the strongest and quickest instinct
pulls him. Often we mothers can attract a child's
attention away from the object of his wrath and
thus give him a chance to get himself under
control before he wreaks vengeance on property
and playmates. This does not mean that we
should protect our children from the effects of
their misdemeanors. Nothing could be more
harmful than to prevent them from learning by
experience. Where neither property nor life is
threatened it seems safest to let our children act
naturally, and learn by their little mistakes how
to act differently. Sometimes a warning is suffi-
cient.
When I saw our boy monopolizing a treas-
ured toy I sometimes suggested that his little friend
would go home if he kept the toy to himself,
then left him free to decide what to do. And
he soon learned that it paid to be generous and to
cooperate in play. When I played with him I de-
manded my turn and fair play. R. soon learned
that I expected this kind of treatment and gave it.
He would often offer me a treasured iron engine
as an inducement to play, keeping a less highly
prized wooden engine for his own use.
In conclusion, it was the result of my own ob-
servations that if I wished our boy to have a
happy, all-around development, he must play with
other children. I therefore decided to accept the
inevitable drawbacks seen in certain undesirable
habits copied from other children, as well as to
accept the advantages such play afforded.
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XII. TRAINING IN OBEDIENCE
Obedience begins with the first touch of a hu-
man hand, the first sound of a human voice.
Wlien you place your baby in his first nursing
position and hold him there ; when you darken
the room for his scheduled naps ; when you
change and bathe him, you are giving him his
first lessons in obedience to law and order. When
your baby responds to your cooing, your cuddling,
and fondling, you are deepening the roots of
sympathy and understanding out of which obedi-
ence will grow and flower.
Training for Obedience
It is a much-discussed question among mothers
how important obedience is among the social
habits their children must acquire during the
early years of life. Obedience means submission
to the will of another. Most of us in adult life
do not practice occupations or engage in work
which requires an instant, unqualified obedience
to the commands of a superior. Most of us prefer
work in which we are called upon to judge for
ourselves and to bear the responsibilities of our
choices. Yet we are ever subject to a series of
authoritative demands in the home, city, state,
and nation ; we are subject, also, to the authorita-
tive voice of conscience. It is evident a child is in
a different situation as regards obedience. Until
he arrives at an age when he has gained the ex-
perience to choose the right action, he can not
be held responsible for his choices ; indeed, he
needs to be saved from himself — from pursuing
the whims and caprices that appeal for the mo-
ment. He seems happiest and best in childhood if
given the moral support of a firm hand and heart.
His life runs smoothest if he is conscious of no
choice about essentials. Yet he must be gradu-
ally trained to make choices and bear the conse-
quences.
Even in the third year I began to say to our
boy, "You may play out on the front sidewalk
with your sled or you may go for a walk." And
once the choice was made, I expected him to abide
by the consequences. It required some experience
and judgment on his part to decide whether one
course or the other afforded the most satisfaction
and enjoyment. Yet I did not say to him, "You
may or may not eat your spinach for dinner," or
"You may or may not take your daily nap." The
spinach and nap were looked upon as a matter
of course ; without a thought or question they
were a part of his life. And so with other neces-
sary requirements : the child should be led to con-
form without question, not realizing that he is
obeying the will of another. Habit avoids much
friction in childhood.
The Social Significance of Obeying
It is an open question whether a child who
obeys unquestioningly his father's and mother's
commands is going to develop into a youth who
responds well to the dictates of a social order or
who acquires a deep and lasting sense of obedi-
ence to the warnings of conscience. This is a
question about which careful thinkers are rightly
skeptical. In my own experience I have seen
children who were disobedient at home show a
real sense of responsibility to the demands of
good teachers and employees. Somehow, despite
the defects of early training, they responded to
authority. Unless we are willing to grant a trans-
fer of the habit of obedience from a trained re-
sponse to a parent's command to the response to
the demands of society in adult life, we must
content ourselves with requiring the kind of
obedience necessary for the preservation and
happiness of the family group. Good habits in
eating, sleeping, and playing -with toys and other
children will eliminate the necessity of many
commands for obedience, yet the child must come
when he is called and he must respond to a com-
mand of his parents, in order to avoid loss of
property and danger to life itself.
Requiring Unnecessary Obedience
Perhaps we may simplify the question of how
much obedience to require by agreeing to de-
mand less, but to insist upon obedience once
asked for. This course requires us to think twice
before asking our children to do explicitly as
we request. I once saw a child engaged in
happy play jump up suddenly at the sound of his
mother's voice requesting him to put away his
toys at once. The mother seemed to have no
particular reason for interrupting her child's
play other than that it was approaching lunch
_ time. A little forethought on her part would
have led this mother to break more gently the
happy bond of thought that was carrying her
child's life into really creative channels.
I learned the relation of obedience to creative
play by an equally unfortunate mistake. Coming
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upstairs one day with my mind bent on other
things I forgot to obsecve that R. was busy play-
ing with his engine. Taking him by the hand
I said, "Time for bed!" Immediately I had vio-
lent opposition — "I don't want to go to bed!"
R. protested, stiffening his limbs and growing red
in the face — "I want to play with my engine!"
Seeing my mistake, I said, "Here comes the en-
gine to get coaled up at the station !" His limbs
relaxed and his face took on a happy look. "Here
comes the engine !" he repeated, wheeling it after
us. We played a minute or two, then I began to
undress him, keeping his mind on the engine, and
before he realized it he was ready for bed, and
the engine had been coaled up and placed on a
chair beside the bed. Some mothers may say,
"But I haven't time for all this — I am too busy!"
To this I can only reply that I haven't time for
the other kind of procedure, which involves a
wear and tear of nerves and an ultimate loss of
time.
Coming When Called
We will all grant, I am sure, that it is abso-
lutely necessary for a child to come when his
mother or father calls him. Yet to bring about
this habit with all children is not an easy thing.
A child of little initiative in play is more quickly
trained in this than one who is constantly finding
himself in the midst of interesting and absorbing
activities. With our boy I did not find it easy to
establish this habit. There were always so many
interesting things which he wished to do. When
he was in his second year I found it best to use
pain — a spatting of the little hands. In the third
year, when he failed to comply with my request
to come, I used other kinds of punishment, grow-
ing out of the situation. Feeling that the habit of
obedience was necessary, I did not coax by saying,
"Come to get ready for a walk!" or "Come here.
Mother has something nice for you !" But if he
failed to come at once to lunch, I withheld des-
sert, or if it was to take a walk I had called him,
I left him home while I went out. And the third
year was well on before I could count absolutely
on obedience to this kind of pressure. I think this
slow development in this particular child was due
to the fact that by nature he particularly resented
interference, and that experience was necessary
to establish the fact that obedience was to be
demanded and required: also that obedience paid.
Other children I have known are so responsive
that they obey unquestioningly almost from the
first. I observed another case of a child who
resisted interference more than is usual. His
mother, feeling she must demand immediate
obedience, rewarded him by giving him bits of
candy when he came if called. This child would
not come if others called him, for he had no re-
ward by so doing.
XIII. TRAINING IN SYMPATHY
It is easy to believe that a little child is sympa-
thetic; he appears to feel with us, to laugh when
we laugh, and to cry when we cry. A good many
of these acts are the result of imitation. I re-
member when our boy was two and a half years
old he would shout gleefully when a crowd of
adults laughed or clapped their hands, and he
would cry almost instantly if I puckered up my
face and uttered a distressing sound. This was
a mere unthinking response. Real sympathy
occurs only when a child feels as zve feel: his
mmd must recognize our feelings as akin to some-
thing he has felt in his own experience. Real
sympathy, then, depends upon a growth in experi-
ence, in which clear thinking upon the results
of experience plays a large part.
We can hardly expect a child of three to
sympathize with us when we are ill unless he has
quite recently gone through some privations be-
cause of illness ; nor can we hope for his sympa-
thy when we are nervous or unstrung. Yet if
we bump our heads or burn our fingers his mind
instantly grasps our mental state. I have known
instances where a child cried in sympathy with
his mother on such occasions. Our boy cried out
in terror when a visitor at our home pretended
to throw Chine, his beloved doll, downstairs.
With this growth in the power to imagine his
doll passing through an experience he had him-
self found harmful, came a power of projecting
his thoughts and feelings into other people's acts.
I once heard him cry out that Chine was hungry
and needed oatmeal. And after the growth of
this type of understanding I never saw him handle
his dolls or toys roughly. Often if I dropped a
rubber doll he would exclaim solicitously, "You
hurt my sailor man !" I once knew a small child
who had such power of imagination that he
rebelled when his mother picked pansies. He
went quickly toward her and began to strike her
by way of protest, saying, "You are hurting
my pansies !" But this, of course, is not a normal
exercise of imagination and sympathy.
Children differ so much in their natural
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capacity to project their minds into the experi-
ences of another that training does not always
reap a rich harvest. Then, too, a child reacts to
example. In rare cases it seems to be an un-
fortunate coincidence that mother and child may
be tuned to a different pitch and that sympathy
between them is not perfectly natural and spon-
taneous.
Usually, however, there is a generous give
and take sympathy between the cliild and his
parents. Nature apparently intends this to be so.
In the rare and happy environment of a con-
genial home the child learns easily and naturally
the give and take of a sympathetic relationship.
By example and training he develops kind and
gentle ways, unselfishness, and other qualities
which form the atmosphere in which sympathetic
behavior thrives best.
XIV. TRAINING IN AFFECTIONS
It is a well-known fact that a mother's out-
pouring of affection upon her child is a part of
her motherly nature. Nature planned that she
should bestow her affections spontaneously upon
her offspring. It is not so readily recognized,
however, that in the provisions of Nature the
mother must earn her child's love by sympathetic,
tactful, and wise training. Our children, unless
trained to render love and service to the family,
are as likely to bestow it in a hit-or-miss fashion.
This seems to me to be one reason why we
mothers should think twice before surrendering
our right to be our children's chief companions
in childhood. And it is in the first daily routine
of baby-tending that habits of dependence and
sympathetic behavior are first established. In
giving physical care to our children we lay the
cables for spiritual as well as physical depend-
ence.
The third year brings a wealth of affection to
the loving, sympathetic mother. This affection is
expressed not only in her child's loving caresses
and endearing words, but in his desire to be con-
stantly in her presence. My own little boy of
three years seldom left the room when I was
there. And I soon learned to watch particularly
happy moods and to exact some act of service.
Not that I needed the service rendered, but that
I wished to establish a happy bond of helpfulness
between us. "Will you help Mother set the
table ?" or "Run your engines around the other
way so that I may work here !" "Mother wishes
a handkerchief from upstairs." Doing things
for and with me became just a part of the give
and take between us.
And I soon learned to make ever greater de-
mands. I found it possible to appeal to both
his reason and affection when it was necessary
to leave him. He would naturally not wish me
to leave. Sometimes he would say, "But I don't
wish you to go to-day!" To my explanation
"Mother would like to get some from the
store," or "Mother would like to go to a party
to-day," he would generally answer, "All right, I
want you to go !" and wave cheerfully as I passed
out of sight. I tried always to render some
happy service in return, without of course promis-
ing it or mentioning it. On my return we would
have a particularly happy playtime on the floor
with the toys, or I would get out some unexpected
treasure in books or pictures. And so affection
grew with the little demands made upon it.
XV. TRAINING IN UNSELFISHNESS
It is perhaps a wise provision of Nature that a
child should think first in terms of what he can
secure for himself. On the whole it is of advan-
tage to him that he secure for himself the most
he can, the best toys, biggest apples, and pleasant-
est occupations. If the love of serving others
were natural to children, they would never secure
the personal development which is necessary in
order that they render really efficient service in
adult life. So instead of making a foolish and use-
less appeal to unselfish motives in childhood, it
seems best to help the child to form necessary
habits of unselfishness, without at first paying
much attention to the motive back of it. Let him
run errands for Mother because he has fun in so
doing, and get Father's slippers because he wins
praise and romps for the performance of such
favors. He soon learns that the performance of
useful acts for others brings surprises and favors
in return. Thus habits of service become es-
tablished happily without much thought.
However, as the child's mind expands and
grows, he may be led to a more rational kind
of thoughtfulness toward others. Our little boy
of three was particularly fond of lady-fingers,
yet when told that taking an extra one would de-
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prive Daddy of one of his, he no longer asked for
it. One day he refused a coveted candy because
he thought it belonged to "Daddy." He could
only be persuaded to eat it when I assured him
Daddy did not wish it that day.
A good many habits of selfishness about shar-
ing toys and goodies seem to me to result from
a lack of experience in sharing and sharing alike.
Selfishness with toys is perhaps natural at first.
It seems best that each child should feel his toys
are his own, and that the desire to share them
should grow out of the understanding and knowl-
edge that by so doing he gains companionship.
The mutual advantages of sharing must be
brought to his mind and attention. Life is to a
large extent made up of service rendered in pay-
ment for benefits received, and we must not expect
a little child to blossom out prematurely into a
knowledge that it is more blessed to give than to
receive. This ideal of mutual service and mutual
benefit in sharing toys seems to me a safe and sane
road lo follow in the early days of childhood.
XVL TRAINING IN ORDERLINESS
A NUMBER of failures in getting toys put away
without friction led me to sit down and ponder
upon the times I had happy results and the times
I did not. Usually the times when friction
occurred were those in which I was in a hurry
and failed to work upon the imagination by sug-
gesting some pleasant reward, such as "Put your
toys away quickly and help Mother beat up this
cake," or "As soon as your toys are put away
you may have lunch" — naming the good things
to be set upon the table, or again, "Mother has
time for a story as soon as you have put your
toj's away." From failures to get results in form-
ing prompt habits of orderliness I learned to use
more of imagination in my efforts. I made use
of a mental propulsion from within the child in-
stead of physical propulsion from without. We
can not always expect our little ones to rejoice
in accomplishing each routine task, but we may
so kindle their minds with interesting ideas that
the performance of these tasks goes on in a happy
frame of mind.
In regard to toys, different homes present dif-
ferent problems. Some children have a nursery,
others a corner in a room, and unhappily other
children have no place which they may call their
own. Because I liked to observe and to guide our
boy's play, I encouraged him to play wherever I
happened to be. In fact, he needed no encourage-
ment in this habit. The engine would steam
upstairs after me and descend again as I came
down. I tried to steel my mind against a- natural
distaste to having the floor strewn with toys, for
I discovered one toy enhanced the play with an-
other. Yet we never sat down to lunch or went
to bed before the toys were safely put away in
their right places. There were shelves for horses,
blocks, engines, and other toys, and drawers for
smaller objects. Low shelves were reserved for
books, paints, crayons, and pencils.
XVII. THE DEVELOPMENT OF CONSCIENCE
We have come to believe that the so-called con-
science is not a gift of the spirit bestowed upon
us without effort or labor, but is the result of
training and environment. We must work to
attain a high sense of duty, unselfishness, and the
power to cooperate with others for great ends.
A little child starts out neither moral nor immoral.
He builds up his ideas of right and wrong by
acting and seeing the result of his acts. At first
he acts mainly from impulse and from habit. He
grabs food if hungry, sleeps when tired, and cries
when things go wrong. And our ways of receiv-
ing his actions make pain and pleasure follow
his natural 'behavior. If we allow a child to eat
at any time, and to cry in order that he may get
what he wants, he will form a habit of so doing,
and an attitude which regards these actions as de-
sirable. If, on the other hand, we interest him
in other things, and thus inhibit the desire to eat
until the regular time to eat has arrived, we bring
habit to his assistance. We inhibit this natural
impulse. He soon learns it is better to wait.
Sometimes during the third year our little boy
would want to eat at irregular times. I found it
easy to assist him to put aside this desire, which
would lead to disastrous consequences, by sug-
gesting that we look at pictures, or paint, play
horse, etc. ; that is, I made it pleasant for him to
wait. Had I allowed him to fret, or look long-
ingly at food, I should have made it disagreeable
for him to wait and should have hindered the
possibility of his doing the right thing. In the
example of striking, discussed in connection with
companionship, I allowed pain to follow the im-
FROM THE SECOND TO THE THIRD BIRTHDAY
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pulse to strike, thus gradually leading to the con-
trol of the act.
Make It Pay to Do Right
If we analyze our own conduct, or turn to his-
tory to study the development of conscience, we
see that in the main people perform good acts
because it pays to be good. Even the altruist per-
forms good deeds because he is happy in so doing:
that is, he is paid for being good by attaining a
sense of having done well. We can hardly ex-
pect a child to start out with high motives and
unselfish acts. We can call his attention, how-
ever, to some acts as good and others as bad by
seeing that pleasure follows the performance of
good acts and pain bad ones. It rests with us as
parents to see that he acquires this discrimination.
But, even before he learns to discriminate, he
must be led to build up habits of good action.
The sooner he learns to eat at proper times
and to sleep the required amount, the less it is
necessary to inflict pain for wrong acts connected
with eating and sleeping. I have known parents
who fed a child the instant he became fretful or
unoccupied, and let remaining up at night be-
come so pleasant that in later life the habit of
regularity in regard to eating and sleeping was
most difficult to acquire.
The Place of Rewards
By rewarding good actions we do not mean
giving a child a bigger cookie when he divides
his with us, or calling him "Mother's good boy"
if he quite unthinkingly comes to us when we
call him. Rather should we make him experience
real happiness when he enjoys his cookie with
us, and feel the reward of obedience by partici-
pating in our happy greeting and silent approval
of his act. I once knew a mother of uncommonly
high motives who habitually appealed to high
motives in her child, motives that did not appeal
to him, and she expected him to respond. For
example, she once said to her two-and-a-half-year
boy : "Come, go to bed because sleep will make
you strong!" And the boy quite naturally re-
plied, "I don't want to be strong! I want to play
horse !" How much better it would have been to
appeal to the lower motive, which he quite under-
stood, and to have said quite finally, "Now it's
bedtime ! We'll drive the horse upstairs, feed
him, put him in the stable," etc. In the latter case
going to bed was rewarded by a pre-play period.
The child gained something he desired as well as
learned the necessity of going to bed when the
right time came.
Doing Disagreeable Things
One of the ways in which we parents have a
great responsibility in training our children is in
teaching them to do disagreeable things. We all
know the type of man or woman who puts off
doing disagreeable things by doing pleasant things
first. No occupation or profession in life is with-
out its drudgery, or should be, in the best state
of society. In our present state of society we
find organized labor striving to adjust this very
thing by securing for each worker a proper
amount of leisure to offset drudgery. We must
begin very early in childhood to help our children
to form habits of doing disagreeable things in
order to earn pleasant things.
In my own experience with children I have
found it quite possible to use anticipation of
pleasant things to come after a bit of drudgery is
performed to lighten the drudgery: to put the
emphasis on the pleasure to come rather than
on the disagreeable task to be performed. In
helping teachers to organize playroom activities
I suggested that toys be carefully put away in
order to make room for all to play some favorite
game, or to listen to stories. The busy hum of
voices and the eager tramping of feet showed
plainly that the little minds were focused on the
happy event to come. In such groups of chil-
dren one can easily pick out those who have been
led to avoid disagreeable tasks at home. Such
children often stand about, letting other children
do all the tasks, and have to be deprived of the
pleasure they did not earn in order to see the
necessity of each doing a part of the drudgery.
Summary
The development of conscience, then, consists
in rewarding good deeds and in punishing bad
deeds. Good and bad should not be judged from
the adult standpoint, but from the child's own
experience. Good habits must be ingrained in the
child's nature before he is required to choose and
decide in view of his reward or punishment.
A CHART OF CHILD DEVELOPMENT
THIRD YEAR (from the Second to the Third Birthday)
These references suggest helpful explanatory passages in "The Child Welfare Manual"
PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT
Movements: running, riding and swinging; in-
creased activity in manipulating toys and
tools.
Muscular control better developed.
Physical resistance to disease good.
Weight: 27 pounds, increasing to an average of
iZ pounds [L 148].
Height: 31 inches, increasing to 35 inches.
Respiration, about 25.
Pulse, 110, down to 96.
Dentition: 20 teeth; complete by 2;1. years
[I. 209].
PHYSICAL SUGGESTIONS
[I. 251-25S]
Sleep: 12 hours, and 4 to 2 hours' rest.
Food, as second year [I. 251, 252].
Exercise, as second year, with larger range for
running; train to undress self [I. 253-255].
Arrange for sand-pile play if possible [II. 233-
240].
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MENTAL DEVELOPMENT
Instincts: fears of an imaginative sort appear
[I. 308, 334] ; curiosity is more active and be-
gins to take form of questions [II. '21, 22, 96];
play is more resourceful and becomes imagi-
native by middle of year [I. 52; II. 14].
Emotions, more stable [II. 135-140].
Memory, more particular, but not yet continuous;
voluntary recollection begins.
Understanding: of the simpler properties of mat-
ter and the way things act, more definite.
Continued interest in handling things to find
out about them.
Speech: larger vocabulary and more accura.te use
of words. While individuals diflfer, most chil-
dren use short sentences freely by end of
year.
Mental activities: imagination now enables child
to imitate not only literal acts of mother but
also her purposes; actions therefore more
purposeful and planned; motives become
more individual and personal; reasoning still
direct, though crude. Interest in stories, par-
ticularly of experiences with the bodily
senses, that involve one's self, and include
some little fancy [II. 122].
Likes to express self through crudest "drawings."
MENTAL SUGGESTIONS
[II. 243-255]
Further drill in recollection and attention [II. 108-
113].
Exercises in sentence forming, and care in protec-
tion from slang, dialects, and vulgarity [II.
83-86].
Teach: simplest constructive use of blocks, spools,
etc.; use of pencil; use of dull-pointed scis-
sors [II. 233-236].
Provide playthings for exercising the imagina-
tion, such as blocks to be houses, dolls to be
babies, etc. Encourage self-directed play of
this sort [II. 17].
Answer questions plainly when child is attentive
[II. 243, 244].
Tell fairv stories to develop imagination, but no
gruesome ones [II. 23, 251-253, 270-275]. Use
illustrated fairy-tale books.
Train the senses: variety of food to encourage lik-
ings of taste; odors of flowers for smell; more
homely toys and playthings for touch; piano,
phonograph, and singing for hearing; bright
colors to enjoy [II. 229-230, 240].
A CHART OF CHILD DEVELOPMENT
THIRD YEAR (from the Second to the Third Birthday)
SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT
Distincter idea of self, with more self-assertion
and real individuality of his own [II. 164].
Increased sympathy with others through imagina-
tive sharing of their experiences, toward end
of year. Also new antipathies.
Increased affection and desire for approbation,
with first attempts to set will against an-
other's.
In general, the imitative and socializing stage
comes to fruition.
Development of social feelings, of courtesy, in-
terest in others, kindness, lovingness, gentle-
ness, slowly increases.
SOCIAL SUGGESTIONS
Continue expressions of affection and approba-
tion, especially because of the increased sen-
sitiveness.
Handle obstinacy calmly [II. 222].
Cultivate an interest in the child's imaginative
plav and suggest methods as you play with
the" child [II. 17].
Do not encourage too many playmates.
Protect the child's sense of property rights.
Encourage spirit of helpfulness in easy tasks.
Teach table manners and special courtesies [I. 99-
103].
MORAL DEVELOPMENT
Conscience depends on approval of others, espe-
cially of mother.
Contrariness toward end of year — result of new
self-consciousness.
Self-direction increases.
Obedience now decided by own choice and mo-
tive.
Courage grows out of conquered fears.
Self-control develops through obedience and re-
straint.
Play and fancy not distinguished from fact and
truth.
Loyalty develops through simple responsibilities.
Orderliness develops through care of toys, per-
sonal clothing, etc.
MORAL SUGGESTIONS
[II. 172-184]
Continue last year's methods.
Emphasize obedience, for sake of safety. Make
commands few, clear, complete.
Encourage self-direction in work, play, and kind-
nesses [II. 164-167].
Teach table manners and courteous expressions,
by word, by example, by playful exercises.
Do not collide unnecessarily with the child, but
foil contrariness, by almost military and un-
questioning submission.
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A CHART OF CHILD STUDY AND CHILD TRAINING
FOR THE THIRD YEAR
BASED ON THE FOREGOING ARTICLES BY MRS. ALICE CORBIN SIES
THE CHILD'S RESPONSES
He is developing his trunk and larger muscles.
His movements of running, jumping, climbing,
and handling things are incessant and under
better control.
He has greater and longer power of attention.
He shows occasional power of voluntary recall
of past experiences.
From his meager store of facts he begins to
draw proper conclusions.
Along the lines of his interests he makes vari-
ous experiments, with varying success.
When he goes to walk he makes many but frag-
mentary observations denoting interest.
Every picture and nearly every experience sug-
gests to him that it has its story.
His vocabulary, through imitation and questions,
grows by leaps and bounds.
He gets the power of make-believe in his play.
He craves playmates of his own age, and is sur-
prised that they do not always understand
him and agree with him.
He shows self-assertion and an occasional ten-
dency to disobey.
WHAT THEY SUGGEST
If we are careful of his food, exercise, 'and sleep,
we shall conserve his energy for this period
of rapid and trying growth.
We do not need to teach his muscles how to act,
but to provide playthings for them to act
upon. These should be of two kinds: those
for body-movements and those for handling.
It is more important now that he have interest-
ing things to attend to than that we insist
upon persistence and concentration.
Reminiscent conversation should be helpful, and
suggestive questioning.
Let us not ridicule his reasonings, but try to re-
member how little he has by which to form
his judgments, and give him more material.
We may sometimes let him try-and-fail or try-
and-succeed: we may sometimes suggest or
give models to imitate; we may sometimes
encourage him to move out independently.
Any one of these methods alone would be
unsatisfactory.
Simple fact-stories explaining what he has seen
will be useful.
TuDi all facts into stories; make stories to fit
pictures; gather picture-scrapbooks of the
familiar things he sees.
Ask him to tell and retell frequently what he
knows. Correct incorrect e.xpressions on tlie
spot.
If we give rich experiences, then dramatic play
will be rich in meaning, beauty, and variety.
A little rough-and-tumble now will tend to cure
him of being self-centered.
L'nnecessary obedience is not to be demanded.
The criterion of wise obedience is the wel-
fare and happiness of all concerned. For
his own safety, however, he must at all costs
be drilled to come when he is called.
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THE CHILD'S RESPONSES
WHAT THEY SUGGEST
He shows curious alternations of sympatliy and He can not sympathize broadly until he has had
callousness. broader experiences. By imitation he can at
least learn kindly ways.
His affection shows itself in his desire to be in We may deepen this by frequently asking for
the presence of those he loves. little acts of service.
He wants his own things, and does not willingly He must be taught to think more clearly about
share them. what is his fair share and about the advan-
tages of generous companionship.
He dislikes to put his things away.
Try imaginative and playful methods and help
him, remembering that often he is tired.
His sense of right and wrong is irregular and At first we shall have to appeal to the lower
imperfect. motives of advantage and of tlie approval
of those he loves.
WHAT AN AVERAGE CHILD MAY BE ABLE TO DO
BY THE END OF THIS YEAR
ARRANGED LARGELY FROM DATA BY MRS. ELSIE LaVERNE HILL
1. Walk between the rungs and along the rail of
a ladder laid along the ground.
2. Do a lot of jumping.
3. Dig in the sand vigorously.
4. Use hammer and nails with increasing ac-
curacy.
5. Use large pencil for sweeping "drawings" and
"letters."
6. Listen to simplest incidents to be related in
story-form.
7. Enjoy jingles and the many catchy little verses
among the Mother Goose rhymes, and try to repeat
them.
8. Learn to open bed, hang up clothes, and pick
up playthings.
9. March to beat of piano-music.
10. Learn to undress self.
11. Run little errands for Mother.
12. Feed self without spilling.
13. Use short sentences freely.
"Trying to get a boy to use his toothbrush is a serious,
amusing, and interesting subject," says Gerald Stanley Lee.
"All one has to do is to get enough of the boy in."
OPINIONS OF EDUCATORS ON THE VALUE OF
FAIRY-STORIES AND OTHER IMAGINATIVE
LITERATURE TO CHILDREN
"A fairy-story is not a lie, nor is it the truth. It is greater
than the truth; it is the ideal. The child looks from these
stories into the great truths that he will be called upon to
battle for in future years. The hard-hearted man is often a
man who has not had his imagination developed in child-
hood, and consequently has not the power to put himself in
another's place." — Walter S. Athearn.
"The idea is to enrich the child's imagination, stock its
mind with allusions, perform its ideas of right and wrong,
and these are essentials." — G. Stanley Hall.
'"There are the old fairy-tales. Such stories as these
should not merely be read once to the child, but should
make a part of his equipment and a background for his
life."' — Eleanore R. Price.
"The use of fairy-stories is invaluable. Imaginative liter-
ature is the best training that a child's abstract sense can
receive to fit it for understanding the religious idea."
— Isabel Margcsson.
"Stories from epic fairy-tales best supply what a child
needs." — Herbart.
"Children who are talked to by Mother Goose and fairy-
story tellers learn to talk more quickly than others, and have
more vivacity of mind." — Elizabeth P. Peabody.
"We must include in our repertory some well-selected
myths, fairy-stories which are pure and spiritual in tone, and
a fable now and then." — Nora A. Smith.
"When I have something important to tell a person I ad-
dress him in a language he will understand. Little people
are living in the wonder age, when the language surest of
appeal to their hearts is the language of fancy."
— Clara Whitehall Hunt.
"Fairy-tales appeal to the children through yet another
characteristic. This is the easy, natural relation existing be-
tween animals and human beings. Folk tales may well foster
whatever there is of truth in the feeling."
— John Harrington Cox.
WHAT TO DO THE THIRD YEAR
PLAYS AND GAMES FOR THE THIRD YEAR
LUELLA A. PALMER
When a child has reached his second birthday-
he begins to invent little plays of his own. These
are very simple ; generally they are imitations of
the activities of people and things around him.
Sense-Plays
More difficult contrasts should be presented:
big. medium-sized, little ; heavy, light ; high, low.
The toy shelf should contain, besides the balls,
dolls, etc., several two-inch and four-inch cubes.
It will require quite a little dexterity on the
part of a two-year-old child to pile these on top
of one another. A few larger cubes or wooden
boxes, about eight inches each way, will lend
themselves to many different uses in play and are
a good size to strengthen the arm clasp.
Special toys are really not needed. Tearing
paper into small bits is excellent, and these should
be picked up and put into a pocketbook for
"money," or into a bag for "buttons." A narrow-
necked bottle and puffed rice make an educative
toy: the eye and hand control and the persever-
ance needed to put the flakes into the bottle are
very valuable. The child should not be helped
or interrupted in such play. Boxes with stones,
toothpicks, or shells make good playthings. Nests
of boxes give contrasts and education in size. A
paper bag with potatoes or beans will amuse — and
educate — for hours. Opening and shutting doors
and drawers, sticking twigs in a cane-seat chair,
playing in sand — all such simple pastimes help in
hand development and, consequently, mind de-
velopment. Sand especially gives excellent play
exercise.
Movement Plays
The child likes to test his power of walking
on the edges of curbstones or going in and out
between the palings of a fence. He wants to
throw the hall and then run after it and grasp it.
He wants to walk and run, climb and jump, most
of his waking hours. He wants to roll on floor or
grass. The best education for the child is the
opportunity to be as active as he wishes, except
in the case of a nervous child who needs quieting
rather than stimulation.
The child imitates many of the actions he sees
around him ; he drums with his hands, waves a
hand for a flag, bends his body up and down, and
twirls around in his efforts to dance. He runs
like a horse or dog, and waves his arms when he
sees a flying bird. All these plays, although only
crudely interpretative, help the child to observe,
to develop his desire to imitate, and to gain con-
trol over his body.
A little rhyme for bending the head and closing
the eyes is the following:
"Niddy. noddy, niddy, noddy.
Winking, blinking in the light,
Niddy, noddy, niddy, noddy,
Close your eyes and say good-night."
Ball Plays
Quicker activity, more imagination, and inter-
pretation through language mark the ball games of
this period. A child now wishes to roll the ball
and then run after it. He likes to have another
person roll the ball so that he may race with it.
Give names to the large and small balls. Let
him feel that they are his playfellows. Hide them
for him to find. Play "come to visit" with them.
Once in a while dress them in handkerchiefs or
towels, and let him play they are dolls. Let him
play that the one on a string is a little dog which
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he is leading. In the ball plays, say or sing some
simple stanza such as, for rolling game :
ROLLING THE BALL*
"Roll over, come back here,
So merry and free,
My playfellow dear,
Who shares in my glee."
PUSSIES AND PONIES t
For soft and hard balls, say or sing:
"This is little kitty,
Running round and round,
She has cushions on her feet,
And never makes a sound.
"This is little pony,
Running round and round.
He has hoofs upon his feet,
And stamps upon the ground."
Dramatic Play
About this time the activities of others begin
to attract the baby. The occupations of the house-
hold are familiar and interesting. He will play
sweeping, dusting, scrubbing. He will imitate
father walking with a cane or reading the paper.
"Brother" will be played by writing an imaginary
lesson. If the dog and cow are well known, their
cries will be imitated. As this is the period
when control grows over rapid locomotion, dra-
matic expression will naturally turn in this chan-
nel after the action has become easy. The child
will imitate the trotting of the horse and the chug
of the railroad train, the jumping of other chil-
dren, etc.
Action-Plays
Plays with the fingers or other parts of the body
are really dramatic plays, for children of this age.
Here is a story for mothers to use when she is
washing a chubby face :
"Round the house, try the keyhole, east
door, west door (ears), windows closed (eyes),
front door closed (mouth), flower beds blooming
(cheeks), footpaths all swept up (neck)."
Great care should be taken of the first teeth.
A little story about the white horses or the fol-
lowing jingle will tide over the time when ob-
jections are raised:
"See the white sheep all in the pink clover ;
Stand still little lambkins, all in a row;
Scrub them and wash them over and over;
Now trot away, lambkins, white as the snow."
BABY'S HOUSE
"Knock at the door of a little white house (fore-
head), —
I wonder who lives inside, —
Peep in here at a window bright (eyes).
Now don't you try to hide !
Lift the latch with a cautious hand (nose)
Or somebody'll turn the key.
Then walk in through the doors ajar (mouth),
But don't you stay to tea ;
For the little white dogs that live inside
Might gobble you up, you see."
THE BABY YARD
MRS. DOROTHY CANFIELD FISHER
A wKLi.-KNOWN doctor has suggested that every
person, once in his life, should be prevented by
force from drinking a drop of water for twenty-
four hours, in order that thereafter he might
appreciate what free access to water means for
health and comfort. On the same principle it
might be a good thing if every country mother
should be obliged to spend a month with her
* Set to inusic in "Merry Songs and Gaines," by Clara B.
Hubbard. Balmer & Weber Music House Company, St.
Louis.
t Set to music in "Songs for Little Children." Part 11, by
Eleanor Smith. Milton Bradley Company, Springfield.
young children in the city, so that she might
thereafter appreciate what splendid opportunities
lie all about her country home. For the poorest,
busiest country mother can easily have conditions
and materials for which many a highly trained
kindergarten teacher sighs in vain.
Perhaps the greatest of her privileges is the
wonderful resource' of having all outdoors, but
this is a privilege which the mother of young
children is apt to neglect. She herself must be
in the kitchen or near it during much of the day,
and she must have her babies where they are
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within sight. It often follows that country little
folks spend almost as much time hanging drearily
around a kitchen, where they are in the way and
where the air is not good, as do the city cousins.
What else can the busy mother do?
Little Folks Need Pens More Than
Chicks Do
She can apply to her children the lore she
has learned about little chicks. Her men-folk,
hardened to fencing long stretches of field and
meadow, would laugh at the ease with which a
little square of yard outside the kitchen door can
be inclosed.
Fencing which is not good enough for chickens
will keep the little children safe from automobile-
haunted roads, from wandering cows, from run-
ning out of sight of their mother's eyes. And
there is no farm in the country where there is not
enough discarded fence material of one kind or
another lying about to inclose a spot, say twenty
feet square, though it might be larger to ad-
vantage. It is better if there is a tree to furnish
some shade for hot days, but if there is none near
enough to the house, a piece of old paper roofing,
or a section of old corrugated iron roofing, or
some old boards with odds and ends of shingles
put over them, will furnish shade in a corner of
the baby yard for hot days, as well as protection
from the rain during summer showers.
The Necessity of Constant Activity
Now with her little ones foot free and yet in
security, out from under her feet in the kitchen,
and yet close at hand within sight and hearing
as she steps about her daily work, the country
mother can take counsel what to do next. The
very next thing to do is to learn by heart a short
and simple maxim, and to repeat it to herself until
she has absorbed the essence of it into her very
bones. The maxim is: "Little children wish and
need to be doing something with their bodies and
hands every minute they are awake." The prob-
lem faced by every mother is to provide them
every minute with something to do which can
not hurt them, which will help them to grow
and which will not be too upsetting to the regu-
larity of the family life.
Now the country mother has at hand a dozen
easy and satisfactory answers to this problem for
every one which is available to the city mother.
To begin with, if a load of sand is dumped in
one corner of the baby yard, and some old spoons
and worn-out pails contributed from the kitchen,
there vvill be many hours of every day during
which the fortune of a millionaire could give the
little folks no more happiness. Such a child-yard
with sand-pile in it costs almost nothing in time,
money, or effort, and no words can express the
degree to which it lightens the labors and anxie-
ties of the mother. And yet one can drive a
hundred miles in rural and village America with-
out seeing an example of it.
Now this plain, bare provision for perfectly
untrammeled running about is in itself a better
fate than befalls the average child under five, and
this much can be attained by any country mother
with less effort and expense than a yard for
poultry. But this can be varied and improved in
innumerable inexpensive ways until conditions are
almost ideal for little children. A piece of planed
board can be nailed upon four stout sticks driven
into the ground and another on higher sticks put
before it, and the little folks will have a bench
and table which cost, perhaps, twenty cents, and
are as serviceable as the pretty kindergarten
painted ones which cost ten times as much.
Potter's clay can be bought for a few cents a
pound, and for a variation from sand-pile plays
young children turn gladly to clay modeling. If
the mother has time and ability to supervise this
carefully, so much the better, but if she is so busy
that she can only call out from the kitchen stove
or wash-tub a cheerful suggestion to make some
little cups and saucers, or a bird's nest and eggs,
this will serve very well, as a beginning. If the
clay is kept where it can be obtained easily, it is
possible that one or more of the children may
show some stirrings of native ability and begin
to try to reproduce the animal life of the country.
Play with Water
If the country mother has followed these sug-
gestions she has now, with small trouble to her-
self, put at the disposal of her children the two
great elements of air and earth. There is another
one, almost as eternally fascinating as sand, and
that is water. If four strips of wood are nailed
in the form of a square at one end of the little
table and a pan half full of water is set securely
down into this square so that it will not tip over,
another great resource is added to the child yard.
With an apron of oilcloth, a spoon, and an assort-
ment of old tin cups, odd jelly glasses and bottles,
it is an ahnormal child who is not happy and
harmlessly busy for a long time every day. Any
ordinary child over fourteen months of age loves
to play with water in this way and learns steadi-
ness of hand and sureness of eye which go a long
way toward insuring agreeable table manners at
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an early age. As he grows older, a fleet of boats
made of bits of wood or walnut shells vary the
fun. A little apron can be manufactured in a
few minutes out of ten-cents' worth of table oil-
cloth. H the mother is very busy she can fasten it
together at the shoulder and back with safety
pins. A single apron should last through the en-
tire babyhood of a child.
Materials for Exercise
Children under four, often those under five, are
too small to "play house" as yet, but they delight
in climbing, and, if possible, provision should be
made for that. A wooden box can be set a little
down in the ground, so that it will not tip over,
and the edges padded with a bit of old comforter
so that the inevitable bumps are not too severe.
The smallest of the little playmates, even the baby
who can not walk, will rejoice endlessly to pull
himself up over the edge and clamber down into
the box, thereby exercising every muscle in liis
body.
Little children can not coordinate their muscles
quickly enough to play ball with much pleasure,
but if a large soft ball is suspended by a long
cord, they can swing it back and forth to each
other with ever-increasing skill, and they should
have a rubber ball to roll to and fro on the ground.
A small wooden box with one side knocked out
makes the best seat for a swing for small children.
The three remaining sides make a high back and
sides and keep the child from falling.* H this is
swung on long poles instead of ropes there will
be no side-to-side movement and little children
will be safeguarded from falling out sideways.
If the support for a see-saw is made very low.
even children under five can enjoy it and benefit
by it in acquiring poise.
If a two-by-four board is laid on the ground
the little folks will find much fun in trying to
walk along it and acquire thus a considerable ad-
dition to their ability for walking straight and
managing their bodies. A bit of hanging rope
with the loose end within easy reach will mean a
great many self-invented exercises in balancing,
and will give a certainty of muscular action which
will save the child from many a tumble later. A
short length of board, perhaps four feet long,
propped up on a stone or bit of wood, with one
end fastened to the ground, furnishes a baby
spring-board which will delight the child. A pile
of hay or straw to jump into will save the little
gymnasts from bumps and bruises, and marsh hay
will answer just as well as the best timothy. This
simple set of apparatus may be completed by a
short, roughly built ladder, with the rungs a short
distance apart, set up against the house, with a
soft pile of hay under it. This furnishes the little
folks the chance to indulge their passion for climb-
ing on things which is so dangerous when directed
toward the kitchen table or bedroom bureau.
Nothing in this baby yard need cost a family
more than a few cents, nor take but very little
time and almost no carpentering skill. And yet
the suggestions made cover a very complete outfit
for the outdoor exercises of children under five
or six. Any mother who secures the simple ap-
paratus here described may be sure not only that
her own little children will pass numberless happy
hours, but that they will never lack for playmates,
because their play-yard will be sought out by all
the little folks in the neighborhood.
SELF-EXPRESSION DURING THE THIRD YEAR
MARY L. READ
During this year the child begins to run and
jump and to develop what almost seems an obses-
sion for several years — to walk along a coping or
rail. For this stage Montessori provides a rail,
like a railroad track rail, of wood. A long six-
inch plank, fastened securely a foot above the
ground, will provide a "bridge" that will furnish
hours of fun, while it is training in finer coordi-
nations.
* Strips of iron bent to a right angle should be fastened
over the corners of the box to keep it from spreading. —
J. E. B.
For jumping, a pit of sand, sawdust, hay. or
straw is advantageous, as it breaks the jar of the
alighting. Teach the child how to jump correctly
and train him until this has become a habit. The
knees should be bent, and he should land on the
balls of the feet, not upon the whole foot or the
heels.
At this period of a child's life, his walk is
marked by an easy natural grace in every motion
of his body that ought to be encouraged by suit-
able exercise. Otherwise, every vestige of his
.desirable natural gait will soon be destroyed by
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the gradual stiffening of his muscles and the
changes in his body produced by clothing and
shoes.
To know what is best for a child of this age
involves a study of the life and habits of primitive
man whom he resembles in so many ways. When
running, for example, a child's instinctive motions
show the inherited tendency to lean and fall for-
ward, which was the way primitive man learned
to run.
If left to his own devices, much of the play-
time will be spent in digging, building with his
blocks, playing with his dolls, toy animals, and
wagons. He still enjoys taking out and putting
in, and should be able to use all the wooden insets
of the Montessftri series correctly. Manipulating
soft material is now a joyous pastime, but the
little hands are not always strong enough to wield
the clay or plasticine. There is nothing better
now than dough from the bread and cookie-mak-
ing; the material is soft and clean, and is thrown
away at the end of the day.
If a child wants to hammer during this year —
and he probably does — a wooden mallet, some
large iron nails, and a cake of laundry soap into
which he may hammer the nails, will fill his
heart with joy and be a valuable exercise in
coordination of eye and hand. Any child of this
age who can strike at a nail and hit it, one strike
out of five, and not strike his fingers has a more
normal accomplishment than one who can say
.the alphabet, which is an abnormal accomplish-
ment, tabooed in the modern nursery.
For Color-Play
To meet the desire for painting and using a
pencil, provide a small brush such as house-
painters use. This is a size adapted to the hands
at this age. No paint is necessary, for the two-
year-old is quite satisfied to play at painting the
house and all the furniture. A blackboard and
dustless crayon meets some of the requirements
for drawing but does not express color well. The
colored crayons do not show well under the light
pressure of little hands, and the colored dust is
the ruination of clothes and furniture.
For color-expression, the large, colored mark-
ing pencils should be used, during this and the
succeeding year. These are as thick as a man's
thumb, and come in all the spectrum colors.
Cheap, plain, soft paper — manila, gray, or straw-
color — is best for present use. Plenty of mate-
rial for marking upon should be provided. Any
thoughtless vandalism in marking upon walls or
furniture should be promptly made a matter for
discussion and discipline.
For Music "Practice" *
If the rhythmic exercises, marching and clap-
ping, have been practiced, and the hearing of
music regularly provided, the child will sing
little snatches of song that he improvises or at-
tempts to imitate. If he desires it, he should be
allowed from now on to improvise in his own
way upon the piano, without any effort for a
year or so to teach him what to do or how to do.
Of course he should learn always to wash his
hands before he touches the piano, and misuse,
as in thumping, should not be permitted.
Small toy pianos, with small keys and one or
two scales, with musical quality of tone, can now
be purchased at from ten to twenty-five dollars.
They will save the wear upon the family piano,
while cultivating the child's love of music. The
metallic, unmusical, cheap toy pianos should be
kept away from the child as carefully as. cheap
street songs and ragtime.
Books and Pictures
Pictures and picture-books should be selected
with care. Children love pictures with vivid color,
strong lines and action. They show a special
preference for pictures of children and animals.
The pictures should be large size with strong
lines, in order not to tax the eyes. They should
be true to Nature in their coloring. If placed on
the walls, which is best, they should be put low,
within the level of the eyes.
Toward the end of this year the interest in
nonsense words and rhymes develops. Mother
Goose contains numerous rhymes that satisfy this
need. At this stage the child is ready for the
many animal stories and some of the nonsense
verses of Edward Lear. It is a mistaken notion
that young children can understand things only
in words of one syllable, or that this is the ca-
pacity of their intelligence. As soon as they can
speak in a sentence, they can pronounce long
words. This provides good mental gymnastics
as well as furnishing humor for them.
* .See also "Music During the Third Year," by Mrs. Jean
N. Barrett, on page 355.
BIG TOOLS FOR SMALL HANDS
BY
M. V. O'SHEA
Some parents provide very small, fragile toys
and tools for their youngest children. For the
older ones they provide comparatively large dolls,
blocks, and so on. They act on the theory that
the small hand of the young child is suited to
manage only small, delicate objects, while the
larger hand of the youth is adapted to the manipu-
lation of big things.
The young child can manage his biceps better
than he can the tips of his fingers. The part of
the brain that controls the biceps is better de-
veloped in a very young child than the part that
controls the adjustment of the thumb and fingers
to and with each other. The infant can not ad-
just his thumb to his fingers so as to perform a
fine task. This is why we say that an infant's
fingers are all thumbs. Observe the hand of an
infant, and see how crude an instrument it is
when he attempts to perform a precise ta.sk with
it. The large, coarse, brawny hand of the man
is much more delicate and coordinated than the
hand of the year-old child when considered with
regard to the execution of precise tasks, such as
threading a needle.
Observe a six-months-old child trying to pick
up a pin or raveling on the floor. The thumb and
fingers will be coordinated in a crude, awkward
way, so that many children of this age can not
pick up any small object. The two-year-old can
do this better than the six-months-old child. If
the child develops normally, he can at the age of
five so control the fingers in relation to the thumb
that he can thread a needle, say, though if it has
a small eye, he will have a good deal of difficulty
with it. The typical two-year-old child can not
perform this task because his nervous system is
not developed so that such highly coordinated
actions can be executed.
One sometimes hears a mother say, "My three-
year-old child can not sew because he hasn't
strength enough." He has strength and plenty
of it, but he can not use it properly in the per-
formance of fine, precise tasks. He can not ar-
ticulate difficult vocal combinations, but he has a
superabundance of crude vocal strength. He can
make plenty of noise, as any parent will testify.
If he tries to perform a delicate task, he thinks
he must use a lot of energy, when what he needs
to do is simply to coordinate his fingers in a way
which requires but very little energy. So he
over-exerts himself, as when he tries to write
with a fine-pointed pen — he bears on.
A wise mother will always surround a young
child at the table with an area of rubber cloth,
because she will realize that he fan not carry a
spoonful of milk to his mouth without spilling
it. He has enough strength to do this, but he
can not control its use so as to perform so deli-
cate a task. No mother would let a two-year-old
handle a sharp razor. He may realize that he
should be careful or he will cut himself, but he
lacks the fine control or coordination necessary to
use edged tools with precision. Numberless illus-
trations of this principle might be cited.
Feeble-minded persons never develop a high
degree of coordination. A man may be thirty
years of age physically, but he may have a hand
that is crude, uncoordinated, and incapable of exe-
cuting any precise task. He may be as strong as
an ox in his biceps, but as incoordinated and non-
precise as an infant in his actions. Control of the
hand, so that a great variety of delicate adjust-
ments may be made, is impossible without full
development of the nervous system and of the
intelligence. To some extent the development of
the mind and the development of the coordination
of the hand go together.
It is significant to note that when a man be-
comes drunk he loses the coordination of his
fingers and his tongue. Alcohol attacks the high-
est nervous centers first, those that control the
most coordinated or accessory muscular activities.
The drunken man may have his biceps and fist
under control so that he can fight as well as ever,
but he may not be able to hold a pen in his fingers
so that he can write, As he is getting drunk he
spills his whiskey, because he can not coordinate
his fingers so that he can hold his glass securely.
He falls back speedily to the uncoordinated con-
dition of infancy.
In order that the child may develop coordina-
tion properly, he should not be crowded too fast
in the manipulation of small tools of any sort,
those demanding precise adjustments. A child
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of four or even five or six years who is required
to thread a needle frequently vifill probably be
overtaxed by it. Observe him and you will notice
undue strain and tension in his face and body.
There is evidence to show that children who are
made to sew very much at the age of four or
five are injured in their nervous development. It
will be better for a young child to use a hammer
or a saw or a plane, or to be running, jumping,
throwing, and the like, than to be sewing or weav-
ing with raffia or anything of the kind.
When children begin school at the age of
five, teachers sometimes have them write with
pens or hard pencils. This is likely to injure
them. If nothing worse, it will waste their
nervous energy, because they always overdo a
task of this kind. Young children can write with-
out strain with chalk in large, free movements
from five to ten times as long as they can write
with a pen or a hard lead-pencil.
Often parents provide penholders with small
metal grips for their children. Observe a young
child using such a pen, and you will see that he
can manage it only with strain and tension. He
will soon become fatigued because the task de-
mands too great coordination. It would be better
for him if he did not attempt to write with a pen
until his seventh or eighth year, and even then
he should use one with a large cork grip and a
blunt point.
Children who are required to read books with
very fine print are apt to waste nervous energy,
and they may develop eye-strain. The use of a
microscope for hours each day by high-school
pupils is likely to overtax the muscles of accom-
modation. The principle is universal in its appli-
cation, that whatever requires the child or the
youth to coordinate beyond his stage of develop-
ment frequently and for long periods will be
likely to injure him.
The moral is : A young child should use large
tools and toys and perform only general, rela-
tively incoordinated actions. As he develops let
his tools and his activities become smaller and
more precise until by the time he reaches maturity
he should be able to use accurately implements
requiring a high degree of coordination and pre-
cise adjustments.
PLAYTHINGS WHICH THE FATHER CAN MAKE
WILLIAM A. McKEEVER, LL.D.
TiiR ordinary busy father may easily find time to
make a set of simple playthings for his children.
He may thus also find a new avenue to the heart
of the little ones. It will not be necessary to make
many of these things at once, as two or three will
be enough to satisfy the demands of the childish
nature for change and variety. As these devices
accumulate, some of them may be put aside for a
while and brought out again later, to interest and
delight the growing mind.
Home-made playthings, even though crude, are
usually preferable to the highly finished shop toys.
With the simpler ones it is easier to fit the in-
dividual needs of the child and to leave him some
opportunity for initiative and adaptation. When-
ever practicable, he should have a small part in
cutting out and making his own playthings.
In the adaptation of the child to his home-made
toys two or three matters should be carefully ob-
served: first, to encourage initiative and indepen-
dence — not to do all the playing for him ; and
second, to make the playthings a basis of fellow-
ship between himself and others of his grade, and
not a bone of contention.
Finally, remember that the play of children is
not to be considered as mere fun and amusement,
but as a necessary means of satisfactory growth
and development of character.
The Baby Ladder
It is necessary to indulge the childish instinct
for climbing, and in order to do so one may easily
make a simple ladder. The little one using the
ladder will fall a few times, to be sure, but this
■will illustrate Nature's best mode of instruction:
that is, trial and error. The ladder is constructed
out of two light white pine strips 1x2 inches and
5 feet long, for the sides, and other strips the
same size and 14 inches long for the rungs. Nail
together firmly and remove all splinters. The
three-year-old will obtain much pleasure from this
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light device and will carry it far and wide in the
course of his play.*
The Nailing Block
Secure a pine block 6x6 inches and about 2 feet
long, also a small hammer to suit the size of the
child and a quantity of sharp-pointed shingle
nails. Show the baby learner how to use these,
starting him right from the first. Both boys and
girls enjoy the benefits of this interesting and
instructive device. After the child has acquired
ability to wield the hammer with considerable
ease, various figures may be marked on the block
for him to trace out by driving nails upon the
lines. Have him print his name thus.
The Building Blocks
Building blocks never cease to interest the baby
and to develop the infant ingenuity as well. They
may be used indoors or out and they fit well into
the play about the sand-box. In order to make
the blocks most convenient for symmetrical struc-
tures, cut them in two lengths, a third or more of
them being exactly one-half of the length of the
others.t A strip of white pine i x 2 inches and
cut as suggested above, say, in 4-inch and 8-inch
•"The ladder has been great fun for her. We had a
very long stout one built for shingling the barn roof. This
we laid out on the grass, and she spends hours walking the
rungs. She is learning to balance while walking on the
side pieces. We have to hold one hand when she is walk-
ing there. Next to the sand-pile, this is her best entertainer.
At first she stepped over the rungs. After a week she
walked on the rungs, at first in her bare feet, by which she
could cling, and now with sandals. We have been help-
ing her walk on the sides for a week now, and she is able
to go three feet all by herself."
— Mrs. Elsie LaVerne Hill.
t Mr. H. G. Wells, in his book, "Floor Games," gives
the following as the proper sizes for such blocks: Whole
blocks, 4'/'X2;4xl>S inches; half blocks, 2!4x 2^x15^
inches; and quarters made Ijy sawing the latter in two. Al-
most any wood may be used to make these blocks except that
which is likely to split or splinter or that which readily
warps. In the northern and western States, maple and birch
are usually available; in the South, short-leaf pine and yel-
low poplar; and in the Far West, the sugar pine or western
white pine. Basswood, beech, or sycamore may be used,
ijlocks of hardwood, like oak, may be passed down from one
generation to another. A box or chest to keep them in is
almost a necessity. In addition to the blocks — from which
no end of tilings can be constructed — Mr. Wells likes to
have some play boards of the same wood. 18 x 9, 9 x 9, and
9 X 4'/^ inches. These boards make oceans, islands. States,
counties, platforms, stages, and may serve also as roofs,
walls, tents, and targets. There can hardly be too many
of the blocks, but a hundred will make a fair start.
'^Editors,
lengths, will serve the purpose well. See that all
are planed smooth and are free from splinters.
The Chair-Swing
The child never ceases to love the swing. But
to be useful the swing must have character, must
fit the child nature and indulge the impulses prop-
erly. In making a swing for the little one, there-
fore, observe these directions carefully :
1. Suspend the swing on a beam that is both
firm and level. If the beam sags, the child will
quickly tire.
2. Spread the ropes or chains fully twice as
wide apart at the top as they are at the bottom,
and thus insure a steady, even, to-and-fro move-
ment. Otherwise the swing will wabble and so
spoil half its value.
3. Make the seat broad, comparatively firm, and
suspend it just high enough for the child to catch
with his toes and swing himself. If the feet are
not thus put into service, the child will become
dependent, or angry because he can not make the
thing go.
Make the chair-swing as follows :
The seat one foot square — the end of an egg-
box will do. Bore five-eigbth-inch holes in each I
of the four corners. I
Cut four wooden strips i x i inch and i foot
long and bore holes in both ends of these to match
those in the seat, so they may be used for sides,
front, and back.
Secure four 4-inch tube insulators, to stand
under the four strips described above, and keep
them up as supports for the child.
Cut a 25-foot length of quarter-inch rope into
two equal parts, each to support one side of the
swing. Pass the ends of each piece of rope down
through the holes in the side strips, the tubes and
the seat below, tying a firm knot underneath.
Now pick up the two rope loops, hang them
on two hooks of equal height, press the seat down
level, and notice where the hooks dent the ropes.
From that point flatten the two diverging strands
together downward and loop them into a knot.
Finally, hang the swing again, and level the seat
by readjusting the two knots.
This swing may be hung outside, may be car-
ried on picnic trips, may be suspended in a double
doorway, or even in a common doorway.
MEMORY-WORK WITH MARGARET
MRS. RHEA SMITH COLEMAN
You will, of course, recognize that memory-train-
ing goes hand in hand with sense-training. In
fact, it goes hand in hand with almost every form
of development. Differentiation of sounds, ob-
jects, and colors is all "memory," as well as sense-
training. When we return home from walks,
trips to the city, or calls upon friends, I ask
Margaret to tell me what she has seen and heard.
In this way she remembers what she has learned,
and on the next trip she will recall the things
which impressed themselves upon her mind the
last time. When shopping with her I call her
attention to a few things rather than have her get
but a hazy idea of many. For instance, we go to
buy a pair of shoes, a coat and a doll. When
she reaches home she is able to tell her Daddy
where each thing was purchased and what she
has seen in each special store.
Margaret will often tell me a story of her play
with little friends; with whom, where, and what
they played. If, for example, they have played
house, she will come home and tell me some such
a story as this : "Mamma, we have been playing
house under the big apple tree. Betty was the
mamma, Jane the big sister. I was little sister
and my dolly, Florence Nightingale, the little
baby. We had a tea-party and I spilled my milk.
Mamma rocked me to sleep. The baby was sick
and Jane went for Doctor Billy. He came and
took the baby's temperature. It was 102 degrees.
He said Mamma should give her castor oil and
make her stay in bed."
The Story-Hour Helps the Memory
Our story-hour has also been a valuable mem-
ory-drill, for after I have told a story to Margaret
a number of times, she will tell it to me. Some of
our favorite stories are : "The Three Bears," "Old
Woman and Her Pig," "Death and Burial of Cock
Robin," "House that Jack Built," "Mother Hub-
bard and Her Wonderful Dog," from O'Shea's
"Nursery Classics;" "Babes in the Wood," "B'rer
Rabbit and B'rer Fox," "Child Charity," "Cinder-
ella and the Glass Slipper," "Little Goody Two-
Shoes," "Miss Dolly and Captain Blue," "Peter
Pan," "The Snow Girl," "The Three Little Pigs,"
"Tom Thumb," "Brave Little Dog of the Wood,"
"The First Apple Dumpling," "Story of Florence
Nightingale," "Story of Grace Darling." Bible
stories and stories from American Motherhood
and Little Folk's Magazine are very good.
At the age of one year I began to sing Emilia
Poulsson's "Finger-Plays" to Margaret, at the
same time teaching her to make the motions with
her own hands as I sang. She readily learned
these gestures. Later on, when she began to learn
poetry, she seemed to grasp the whole of the little
songs at once, and mafiy of them have eight verses
of four lines each. Unconsciously the words had
been impressed upon her little mind, so that when
she could express herself she was able to give
them verbatim.
About 'Verbal Memorizing
And this brings me to the subject which is gen-
erally taken as the criterion of our children's
memory, namely, the ability to recite many rhymes
and verses. I think this is not an altogether fair
estimate, for I have a friend whose little girl
seems to have a very good memory for things, if
allowed to tell them in her own words, but who
doesn't seem to want to learn verses word for
word. On the other hand, some children are
able to recite any number of verses of poetry and
yet not recall happenings. The ideal, to be sure,
is ability to do both. My method with Margaret
in training her to relate events in her own words
I have already described to you. Now I shall tell
you how I have taught her to memorize rhymes
and poetry.
First of all, don't force your Betty to learn
rhymes ; don't cram them into her little head, and
don't attempt to teach them to her line by line.
As I have already mentioned, from the time Mar-
garet was a small baby I have sung and recited
to her many songs and poems. Before she was a
year old, and still more in the second year, I re-
cited Mother Goose rhymes to her, at the same
time showing her the pictures. Now I recite to
her poems of several verses, but I always choose
those about things she knows and can under-
stand. If there are lines she doesn't understand,
I explain them to her through an object-lesson.
Then again, I always recite and sing poems when
there is occasion for them. Stevenson's "Swing
Song" is given when swinging; "My Shadow"
when Margaret discovers her shadow ; "My Ship
and I" when sailing her toy-boat at bath-time;
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Riley's "There, Little Girl, Don't Cry" when the
dolly or other plaything is broken; Kingsley's
"Lost Doll" when dolly is lost; "Jesus Bids Us
Shine," as well as the popular "Smiles," when my
little girl cries ; Tennyson's "What Does Little
Birdie Say" in the Spring when the baby-birds are
in the nest; George Cooper's "The Leaves and the
Wind," which tells of the falling of the leaves, on
our walks in the Autumn ; Holland's "Christmas
Carol" just before and during the Christmas sea-
son ; little songs from the Victrola records when
the records are being played or when occasion
calls for them, as in the case of the charming
little song sung by Olive Kline:
" 'Pretty little blue-bird.
Why do you go? ,
Come back, come back to me.'
'I go,' said the bird.
As he flew on high,
'To see if my color
Matches the sky.' "
"Twinkle. Twinkle, Little Star" we say while
looking at the stars; "The Moon," by Eliza Follen,
when it shines in the nursery window at bed-
time, and for good-night poems and songs, Riley's
"Raggedy Man," Field's "Wynken, Blynken, and
Nod" and Tennyson's "Sweet and Low."
I have recited poems to my little girl times with-
out number, but I rarely request her to say them
for me. Often, when occasion arises for some
particular poem, she will recite the entire poem,
perhaps for the first time. In this way she
has learned over seventy-five poems without the
slightest strain upon her mind or nerves. She
has no recollection of having been compelled to
learn anything, but only pure joy in having a
story in verse which she can tell, about many
things she knows and loves.
Then, again, I never urge Margaret to recite
for guests. If she cares to help Mother entertain,
very well and good, but she never feels that she
is "showing off." There are many of my friends
who are skeptical when I tell them Margaret
knows seventy-five poems, because, as they say,
"she has never recited them for me." But I am
training my daughter not to be a "stage star,"
but that she may get from life the best and fullest
that life has to offer.
PICTURES, A FAIRYLAND
MRS. RHEA SMITH COLEMAN
Every baby loves a picture-book, but alas, most
of them are left to "love it alone," when a little
time and interest on the part of the mother would
open up to it a world of appreciation of beauty
and of art. Interest, too, must be supplemented
by good judgment in the choice of pictures, just
as truly as in the selection of books for the older
boy or girl. Small children love pictures of fa-
miliar objects, particularly when these objects are
in action. Margaret's first pictures were those of
animals and birds, of babes and little children, and
of the easier Mother Goose rhymes. The picture
of a dog chasing a cat or of a bird sitting on a
limb beside its nest delighted her much more than
one of a bird or dog alone.
Until the age of eighteen months I would point
out any little matter of interest in the pictures,
as the color of a bird, or the baby reaching for
an apple. After that time I began to show her
classic pictures and tell her stories about them,
pointing out the objects as I talked of them. I
exercised great care in the selection of these
pictures. Portraits of men and women do not in-
terest any child. Margaret is very fond, however,
of portraits of children, such as Van Dyck's
"Baby Stuart," Reynolds' "Age of Innocence"
and "Simplicity." She greatly enjoys naming
the features and parts of the body and notes the
dress and the position of hands and feet. "Sir
Galahad" has always been a delight to her, and
now that she can understand the story, she loves
the picture more. She compares it to a picture
of Joan of Arc clad in armor, standing beside her
horse ; in fact, she sometimes mistakes the one
for the other.
Margaret spends many happy hours with her
collection of pictures. She knows the names of
about seventy-five classic pictures, can relate the
stories of many of them and knows some of the
painters. Some of her favorites are:
AMERICAN ART
"My Mother," by Whistler.
"The Greatest American and His Flag," by Ferris.
"Putting the Stars on the First American Flag,"
by Ferris.
"The Liberty Bell's First Note," by Ferris.
"Home-Keeping Hearts are Happiest," by Taylor.
"Spring," by Cox.
"Mother Goose," and other pictures, by Jessie
Willcox Smith.
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ITALIAN ART
"Madonna and Child," by Botticelli.
"Sistine Madonna," by Raphael.
"Holy Night," by Correggio.
FRENCH ART
"The Broken Pitcher," by Greiize.
"Mother and Daughter," by Lellrun.
"The Angeliis," by Millet.
"Feeding Her Birds," by Millet.
"The First Step," by Millet.
"The Horse Fair," by Rosa Bonheur.
"Joan of Arc," by Bastien-Lepage.
FLEMISH ART
"Baby Stuart," by Van Dyck.
"Repose in Egypt," by Van Dyck.
SPANISH ART
"Immaculate Conception," by Murillo.
"Divine Shepherd," by Murillo.
DUTCH ART
"Sheep," by Mauve.
GERMAN ART
"In the Temple with the Doctors," by Hofmann.
"The Good Shepherd," by Plockhorst.
BRITISH ART
"Angel Heads," by Reynolds.
"Age of Innocence." by Reynolds.
"Penelope Boothby," by Reynolds.
"Simplicity," by Reynolds.
"Stag at Bay," by Landseer.
"Sir Galahad," by Watts.
You may wonder where I secured my collection
of pictures. By being on the alert to preserve
every good picture I found in magazines and
books. Many of you, who have taken the Ladies'
Home Journal, will remember that for four years
each number had two or three classic pictures
from the leading private collections. I pasted
these on heavy cardboard, so that they could be
handled and not be torn. These are especially
valuable because they are colored. In addition,
I have a number of Perry pictures. If you can
use the brush and water-colors, you can add much
to the value of these pictures by coloring them
in their original colors.
Thus have I tried to train my little daughter
to use her senses and mind and to appreciate art.
There is much that I have thought and visualized
that I have been unable to accomplish, because of
the many handicaps that most of us have ; the
many household duties, the little economies that
we of moderate means must ever practice, and a
limited amount of strength, which in many of us
falls far below par. But I have been able to
accomplish something, because I have ever put
Margaret's training and development ahead of
everything else. It has been my first duty, my
first responsibility. My house, many times, has
been neglected for her sake. I believe 'many
mothers are prone to put house-care above child-
care, for which the children must surely suffer.
Margaret has always been made to feel that the
home has been made for her, as indeed it has been
from its very foundation.
STORIES TO TELL THIS YEAR
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I saw a ship a-sailing
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Goosey, goosey, gander
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Once I saw a little bird
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The wind
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Ring-a-ring-a-roses
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Cross patch
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Happy let us be
26
The old woman in the basket
26
The fox and the old gray goose
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Jack and Jill
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Willy boy
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Bonny lass
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Oh, where are you going
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Bobby Shaftoe
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Ding-dong-bell
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Green gravel
Old Mother Hubbard
Little Bo-Peep
Come out to play
Little Robin Redbreast
Little Boy Blue
Beggars are come to town
Blow, wind, blow
Bye, Baby Bunting
Three little kittens
Tom was a piper's son
Daffy -do wn-dilly
Billy Boy
Three wise men of Gotham
Little Tommy Tucker
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Pussy and the mice
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When I was a httle boy
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Little fat boy
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A finger test
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Pussy cat, pussy cat
45
Little Boy Blue
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Hickory, dickory, dock
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How many miles to Babylon
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Hark, hark
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There was an old woman
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Humpty Dumpty
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The queen of hearts
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One misty, moisty morning
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Old King Cole
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Pussy sits beside the fire '
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The north wind doth blow
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I had a little husband
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There was a man in our town
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See saw, sacaradown
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Sing a song o' sixpence
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I love little pussy
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The Horner brothers
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A little old man
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Jingles
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A most wonderful sight
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Sailing
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An up-to-date pussy-cat
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Misery in company
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Court news
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A message to Mother Goose
1 65
The sleepy-time story
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The go-sleep story
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The wake-up story
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About six little chickens
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"Trade-last"
1 88
Philip's horse
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The kitten that forgot how to mew
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What could the farmer do
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Fledglings
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"Time to get up"
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Maggie's very own secret
100
The good little piggie and his friends
102
Baby's paradise
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For a little girl of three
108
A funny family
1 109
Little by little
110
The house that Jack built
1 111
Giant Thunder Bones
1 112
The house that Jill built
1 116
The old woman and her pig
1 119
The lambikin
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The cat and the mouse
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Henny-penny
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Three goats in the ryefield
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Teeny Tiny
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Song of the pear tree
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Cock-alu and Hen-alie
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There is the key of the kingdom
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Tommy and his sister and their new pony-
cart
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Timothy Trundle
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A dream of glory
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Tiny Hare and the wind ball
173
How Tiny Hare met cat
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The wee hare and the red fire
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The good king
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Early and late
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The little pink pig and the big road
185
Juggerjook
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The little gray kitten
194
Pussy's wheels
197
The small gray mouse
198
The rabbit, the turtle and the owl
200
Homes
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The fine good show
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Gay and Spy
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The three bears
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The little bear's story
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I like my cat
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Do you like cats
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Fox and dog and cat
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Cat and kittens
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Five little birds
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The little girl and her sheep
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The little boy and the little girl and the
donkey
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Where
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Good-night
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Polly, put the kettle on
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Some things to guess
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Some things to find
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The -dancing class
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Fly, little bird
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Birds
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The jay and the dove
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The bird in the tree
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"We'll go to the wood," says Richard to
Robin
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The clouds
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A story
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Another story
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The crooked family
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Mary's cat
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The little red hen and the grain of wheat
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The story of the three little pigs
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MUSIC DURING THE THIRD YEAR
BY
MRS. JEAN N. BARRETT
Happy the child whose lot is cast in a joyous
musical atmosphere ! There is thus implanted in
his inner being a something which will help him
to go through many trials with a brave heart and
an unconquerable hope and faith that this is,
after all. a good world.
We constantly hear mothers say, "No, my chil-
dren have no talent for music and I shall not
bother to have them learn anything about it."
If I could feel that I had in all my life made a
few mothers, a few teachers, understand the dif-
ference between music as a performance and
music as a life element, and thereby gained for
a few children this power which more than any
other stirs the vital forces by which we live, I
should feel that my share of life's troubles were
a small price to pay.
A like misapprehension in the domain of art
would banish from home and school the beautiful
pictures and art forms which awaken a love of all
that wonderful world of beauty revealed to the
seeing eye and the appreciative mind because, per-
force, so very, very few children have any talent
for drawing, painting, or modeling.
One of the first steps in rousing a feeling for
music is to lead a child to listen. How much
stress is laid in our scheme of education upon
teaching a child to observe, to see ; how little upon
teaching him to hear. The eye is made dominant
in all things and we lose much enjoyment which a
trained sense of hearing might bring us. God
made the birds beautiful, but He also gave them
songs, so tender, so thrilling that the very breath
stops that we may listen, as we sit at twilight near
the home of wood thrush or song sparrow.
To the open ear is not the gentle, silvery mur-
mur of the brook as it calls through the forest as
keen a delight as is its crystal shimmer in a set-
ting of green, when we have followed its call and
found its home?
Let us not forget that the morning stars sang
together, and that He who created them meant
His children to hear their music in the melodies
and harmonies of all His great creation.
Even the City Has Its Music
The child brought up in the city hasn't the
beautiful sounds of Nature from which to get
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his first lessons in listening, but mother and kin-
dergartner can make use of what they have.
Even the scissors-grinder and ragman help us
out here.*
One of my little pupils, the daughter of musical
parents, gained her first idea of imitating sounds
correctly from a ragman's call. As we were hav-
ing our lesson one day we heard this song come —
I was going to say float, in at the window, but the
ragman's tones were rather too strenuous to be
called floating tones : "Rags, rags, rags ; any old
rags or bolt's." The tune can be written thus:
"Do si la sol sol sol do do," but no words can
describe the quality of the tones. At once I imi-
tated the theme, and little Frances, to my great
surprise, imitated me exactly, whereas before this
she had hardly been able to get one single note
correctly. His "tune" was unique and it appealed
to her.
Musical Sounds in the Home
Lead the children to listen in every way you
can think of.f Tap on different substances, wood,
glass, silver. You may find a lampshade that
gives forth a definite musical pitch. Play tunes
on tumblers, tuning them to musical pitches by
varying the quantity of water in them and strik-
ing lightly with silver knife or spoon. This de-
vice I found most useful in arousing interest in
music in a boy who seemed to have no musical
instinct whatever.
A writer says: "The greater part of children's
time is spent in elaborate impersonation and make-
believe, and the entire basis of their education is
acquired through this directly assimilative fac-
ulty." This applies most forcibly to music and
gives to those who have the care of children
almost unlimited opportunity for developing
musical expression.
A lullaby song at the child's bedside at night is
a benediction beyond estimate.
* .\n .^olian harp can be made on a long, thin pine
box, about four or six inches deep. Fasten to each end
of the box little bridges, like those on a violin, and stretch
across them thin strings of catgut. At one end fasten the
strings to the box itself, and at the other to screw-pins.
By this means the strings can be tightened or loosened at
will. Place the harp in a current of air, and very sweet
soft notes may be obtained.
t It is a pretty idea to imitate the striking of the hours
and quarters by a chime-clock on the home piano.
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Using Music for Home Harmony
A few instances of what lias been done in some
homes through the power of music will, I know,
tell you more than the mere advancement of
theories.
A little girl who was very miserable and man-
aged to make Mother or nurse most unhappy
all through the process of hairdressing and get-
ting into bothersome clothes, would submit most
graciously if Mother sang
"My mother bids me bind my hair
With knot of fairest hue;
Tie up my sleeves with ribbon rare,
And lace my bodice blue ;
For why, she says, sit still and weep
While others are at play?"
using an adaptation of Haydn's beautiful air.
Another mother learned to help her little boy
work off some of his stormy fits of temper by
going to the piano and playing some stormy, im-
My sister remembers that even as a child she
recognized this power of music to bring sweet-
ness out of temper. She was very angry one day
with a sense of some injustice done her and in
tliis mood started to play her beloved piano. As
she did this she realized that if she played she
would soon cease to be angry, and not being ready
to give up her resentful mood, she rejected the
gentle ministry of music and went to her room
to nurse her unhappiness.
As an incitement to bravery, music has often
been used in the home. A little boy much afraid
of the dark would go upstairs to a dark room for
mother when she played a strong march for him
as he went.
li mothers could realize how many times a bit of
music would be of greater service than even the
kindest remonstrance, they would have crashing
chords ready for the angry boy, nonsense song to
drive scowls from the face of little daughter, and
Very slowly. ^
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A quarter past the hour! Half pastl
A quarter beforel
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The clock strikes ninel
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The hour approaches!
petuous bit like Schumann's "Wild Rider.** The
boy did not know why this was done, but he felt
the mood of the music because it exactly fitted his
own, and he would career around the room like
a veritable wild pony, until his emotion, which
might have worked harm to himself and others,
had spent itself in this harmless way.
* The talking machine is most helpful here. Descriptive
music, music which is imitative, or which tells a definite
story helps to develop the power of attention in little chil-
dren.
An excellent phonograph record of descriptive music is
"In a Clock Store" (Victor 35324). Tell the following
story: "In a small shop on a busy street are kept ever
so many kinds of clocks — cuckoo clocks, grandfather clocks,
alarm clocks, small clocks, and ordinary -sized clocks. A
very happy boy works in this shop. He comes early in
the morning, and as he sweeps and dusts, the people pass-
ing by hear him whistle a merry tune. Sometimes the
clatter of his wooden shoes is heard above the ticking and
the striking of the clocks on the shelves. The clocks in
this store are real clocks — they tick and strike, they run
down and need to be wound up; the cuckoo clock tells the
hour of the day; even the alarm clocks are not silent. The
little boy works all day long until the clocks strike four.
Then he locks the store, runs home to play, and doesn't
return until the next day." Play the record and ask the
children to listen for the story, but do not expect them
to get it all the first time they hear it. Little people enjoy
telling this story, in their own words, to family friends not
familiar with the music.
The "Toy Maker's Shop'* (Victor 55054) and "The
Whistler and His Dug" (A 2654 C or Victor 17380) are
5-#- -#- -#- -•-S#^ MP^ ^ -•-i-y long and
patient building up of the system.
Oftentimes plain stubbornness is an inherited
trait of disposition, and yet the very parent who
has transmitted it as a part of himself will not
recognize it as a part of himself and try to train
it out, but will be irritated at the will which op-
poses his own and try to beat it out.
The best way to get obedience is to study the
child and find out what method will best obtain
with him. And do not demand too much. Too
many commands, particularly commands which
infringe upon the child's individuality — arouse
opposition. Nagging, fretting, constant ordering
about, "don'ting" — all frustrate the desired end,
shatter respect, and succeed only in disrupting
order.
There are a good many little things occurring
in a child's daily life which it is best to overlook
rather than constantly to nag for obedience. If
you want your child to be an individual rather
than an automaton, you can't keep at him con-
stantly to "do and don't." Better to give a few
commands, give them cheerfully, firmly, and ex-
pectantly, than a lot of commands in "why-don't-
you-but-I-don't-expect-you-to" tone of voice.
Who Is to Blame for Unlovable Children?
Children must be taught certain things for their
own good, and in order to make them pleasant,
lovable companions, as they ought to be. There's
nothing much more irritating, wearing, and disa-
greeable than a rude, unmannerly child, a child
who constantly interrupts anybody and everybody
that happens to be talking so long as his own
voice is heard above theirs ; a child that is allowed
to monopolize a conversation, to listen with ears
and eyes to what a group of older people are say-
ing, and interrupt with a continual, "Who, Mam-
me?" "What, Mamma?" a child who is permitted
to pounce upon any guest or caller, whether in-
vited or not, and literally ride him until he wishes
obligation never demanded his presence again.
Children who are allowed to eat noisily and with-
out neatness ; children who never are known to
obey until, after an hour's continual "Come, now,
do as I tell you ," "Go on now, and mind,"
"Why don't you mind Mother?" and other like
vain and useless admonitions, the exasperated
parent gets up and forces obedience — getting it
that time only, and after an unpleasant scene and
wearying exertion- — such children, of course, are
not loved by any except their own people, and yet
— the children are not to blame. Firmness in the
very beginning, few commands rigidly obeyed,
quiet, pleasing, and courteous manners insisted
upon from babyhood up, would bring the desired
result without friction and with pleasure and
advantage to all concerned.
Study Your Child, and— Study Yourself
If your own self-control is lacking there can
be no control of others. Study your own manner
of speech with your children. If you speak with
hesitancy, lack of firmness, assuming at the be-
ginning that they are going to pay no attention,
you are pretty sure to get such results. Children
are the most sensitive of mechanisms, reflecting
instantly the spirit of the one who attempts gov-
ernment over them.
Use tact, firmness, justice, decision, cheerful
and assured expectancy, and in nine cases out of
ten obedience will result without the necessity for
coercion of any sort.
JESSIE'S BEGINNINGS IN HELPFULNESS
BY
MRS. ELSIE LaVERNE HILL
The busy mother may be surprised to learn that
her children between the ages of one and three
are aught but a constant care. Yet even at this
early age they may begin to practice the gracious
art of helpfulness, and gradually develop into
really indispensable "assistants." Tiny hands can
labor and at the same time keep out of mischief.
The mother will need a large amount of pa-
tience in order to teach her children many tasks.
She should remember in taking up every new les-
son that the children do not know what they are
expected to do nor how to do it. Therefore, the
mother must explain every detail very carefully,
and show her children "just how Mother does it"
many times until the clumsy little hands have ac-
quired the knack. In the first few lessons their
very eagerness will make them awkward. But
each day the fingers will grow more nimble and
as they become accustomed to handling the house-
hold tools they will become more dexterous in
using them. Old accomplishments should be gone
over every day that they may not be forgotten
while new ones are being mastered. So much
repetition becomes very tedious to the mother,
but the time and effort which seems to be lost
will be more than made up later.
A child at this age is not old enough to engage
in much imaginative play, but tasks which would
be drudgery to an older person are delightful play
to him. Thus day by day new duties are added
to the list until the result surpasses all expectation.
If tliere is more than one child in a family the
problem is much simplified for the younger chil-
dren, as they will imitate, as much as possible, the
actions of others, especially of their older broth-
ers or sisters. Example is infectious, consequently
if the older ones are trained correctly they will
actually educate those following them.
Children vary greatly in their capabilities. If
one child rapidly acquires skill in doing a particu-
lar task it does not necessarily follow that others
of the same age will either learn as rapidly or as
well. I know one little tot of two and a half
years who, when her baby brother cries for a
bottle, will carry it from the kitchen to him, prop
it up conveniently on the pillow, and see that he
drinks it all ; yet we need not expect all children
of this age to exercise as much concern and care
as she.
From the beginning we have taught our little
girls, Mary, "half past one," and Jessie, "half
past two." to help in every way possible. Of
course, on some days they do not do as much as
on others, yet in the course of several days they
do the things which for convenience we have
grouped as one day's tasks.
All in the Day's Work
The first thing in the morning, both children
take their blankets from their beds and spread
them on a nearby rack to air. They take their
clothes from the rack, on which they were hung
the night before, and carry them in to Mother,
who is ready to help with the dressing. Jessie
is able to put on all of her clothes in the proper
order, while Mother buttons them up and t'es the
shoelacings. Mary can put on her shirt, dress,
and stockings, but needs assistance with every-
thing else.
Just before dressing both children go to the
bathroom, pull chairs to the wash-basin, and wash
their faces and hands. Jessie manages both the
cold and hot water faucets. Next comes the
"toothbrush drill" and brushing of hair, which
Jessie does most vigorously for both little heads.
Then while Mother prepares the food for break-
fast, Jessie puts the cups and saucers, plates, and
other dishes at their proper places on the table,
while Mary is busy laying the silverware. She
can do this best if the knives, forks, and spoons
are kept within her reach in a drawer which is
divided into sections for each article. While
Mary is pulling the chairs to the table, Jessie puts
on the toast, butter, and jam (which Mother hands
her). Then, together, they run to call Father,
lessie hurrying back ahead of him that she may
have time to climb into her high-chair.
* The reader may at first he impressed that this mother either has some extraordinarily industrious children or that they
are being worked to death. Notice, however, that the writer emphasizes the fact that all these activities are not performed
regularly, but that this is simply an exposition of the large variety of things even little children can do to help, arranged
for convenience as a day's program. I know these children, and they are no more dependable or regular than any other
little ones, but I know it to be a fact that they have done all these tasks described, and that as they grow older they do them
oftener. — IV. B. F.
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After breakfast, work begins in earnest. Mary
carries the silverware to the sink, while Jessie
clears off the plates and saucers, scraping any re-
mains of food into the garbage-pail. Then she
piles the dishes into the dishpan. After Mother
wipes the silverware Mary puts it back into the
proper places. Jessie dries the tin dishes and puts
them on the back of the stove. She also dries
plates and larger pieces of crockery — if Mother
does not treasure them too highly. She draws her
chair up to the sink, where she cleans the milk
bottles (though of course they must be scalded
later), and when all dishes are done, carefully
washes the sink. And then, since all children de-
light to paddle in water, allow them both to play
there for a treat.
Dish-towels are now neatly hung on a rack to
dry and the entire family turns to tidying up.
Mary gets the dustpan and Jessie brings the broom
to Mother. With her own small broom she very
carefully sweeps all the dust out of the corners
of the room, and from under the chairs and stove.
Mary meanwhile busies herself by brushing all
dirt from the porch and steps. After Mother has
all the dirt collected into little piles Jessie holds
the dustpan for her, moving it the least bit back
as required, and holding it at the proper angle
to allow the dirt to be swept into it. Of this
accomplishment she is very proud, for it was
acquired only after two weeks of earnest effort.
She then carries the dustpan to whatever recep-
tacle is provided and empties the contents therein.
She follows this by dusting the chairs thoroughly,
and with another cloth wipes off the bottom of the
stove. With a pail and small shovel she is able
to remove the ashes from the stove and to empty
them into the ash-barrel. After feeding and water-
ing the cat and dog, both children bring some
small wood for the wood-box, and what Mother
needs at any time they carry from the wood-box
to her.
Jessie then returns to her housecleaning, runs,
under Mother's supervision, the vacuum-cleaner
over the rugs and cleans any spots from the paint
on the floor and wainscoting. Mary meanwhile
takes the soiled clothes to the laundry-room,
empties the library wastepaper basket, and helps
Jessie straighten all the books in the bookcases,
and the papers on the table.
The Baby's Toilet
Perhaps baby brother is now in need of some
immediate attention. Mother decides it is time
for his bath, so Jessie goes to his drawer and
brings out what clothes he may need, and such
articles for his bath as soap, towel, powder, and
wash-cloth. Then they watch eagerly for the
time when they can powder him. They probably
will spill some on the floor, but the doing of it
makes baby's bath-time a happy event in the day's
routine.
The next chore is to go to the yard, where they
clean up all chips, papers, or other articles small
enough for them to carry, Mary wishing the
while that she could rake like her older sister.
Afterwards Jessie helps Mother in preparing
the dinner by going to the garden to assist in
bringing back the vegetables, in washing them,
and in setting the table.
In this fashion half the day has passed pleas-
antly for all. Instead of Mother being obliged
constantly to stop her work and provide new play-
things for her children, or to prevent Jessie from
annoying her sister, she has kept both children
busy and has saved herself many steps and no
little time.
After dinner the children take their naps and
upon waking go to their play. When much romp-
ing or playing with water and dirt makes a
general clean-up necessary, they hang up their
own hats and coats, put away their rubbers, and
get ready to have their baths. These tub-baths
they take by themselves. Mother coming only to
wash their faces and ears.
Supper is a repetition of breakfast to the lit-
tle ones, who soon afterwards, exhausted by
their long day of work and play, are ready for
their beds. As fast as Mother can unbutton their
clothes they take them off, hang them on the rack,
and slipping into their nighties, tumble into bed.
Work for Special Days
On special work-days, such as washing, clean-
ing, or baking days, they are of still greater as-
sistance. On Mondays Jessie vigorously lifts and
drops the handle of the vacuum-washer, hands
Mother the clothes, straightens them out as they
come from the wringer, and takes great pleasure
in having the duty of washing out some articles,
such as stockings, all by herself. She helps to
carry the clothes to the line, passes them up to
Mother one by one, as Mary hands up the clothes-
pins from the bag. Later in the afternoon Jes-
sie assists in taking in the laundry and sprinkles
those garments that need it.
On cleaning-days the girls like to take the rugs
oufdoors and help beat them, to straighten them
later on the floors, to go over the floors with the
dry mop, to wipe down the stairs, and to wipe
Bon Ami from the windows. On bake-days they
"grind the dough" in th^ bread-mixer and hand
me such articles as will' -be needed in the cook-
ing. Later Jessie puts the mixing-bowls to soak
in cold water.
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Outdoor Work
These children are fortunate enough to live on
a farm, so there is a host of pleasant things they
can do which are denied to their city cousins.
Mary can carry the mail to and from the R. F. D.
box if a step of convenient size is placed for her;
she can pick up apples and small potatoes ; carry
written messages or a cool drink to Father in the
fields ; and run many errands between the house
and barn. Jessie can feed the chickens and help
bed-down the little calves, which nerhaps are her
"truly own."
"All Work and No Play Makes Jack a
Dull Boy"
Even if these tasks were scattered over a num-
ber of days, the girls would soon tire of them if
Mother did not introduce a number of things to
brighten up the hours and make the work jolly
and happy. Songs, stories, and conversations are
the best enliveners, though of course, if a child is
really tired, a nap must be substituted, and when
interest wanes new things taken up. Mother
Goose rhymes have always proved a great help
with our children, and we have special ones to
go with almost every task. For instance, when
calling the children in the morning I repeat :
"Early to bed, early to rise
Makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise,"
or
And at bath-times we use :
"Rub-a-dub-dub,
Three men in a tub.
And who do you think they be?
The butcher, the baker.
The candle-stick maker;
Turn 'em out! knaves all three!"
These "knaves," of course, are the specks
that surprise and alarm us all if we don't get
thoroughly clean.
Songs also may be freely introduced to tunes
that we make up to go with a Mother Goose
rhvnie. "Polly put the kettle on." "Little Miss
Muffet," "Old King Cole," "Old Mother Hub-
bard," "Little Jack Horner," "Hi-diddle-diddle."
are good to sing while getting the meals ready, or
"Run and set the plates for lunch.
Knives and forks are in a buncli."
And a good one for dish-washing time is:
"Wash the dishes, wipe the dishes.
Ring the bell for tea ;
Three good wishes, three good kisses,
I will give to thee."
If the children are to help Mother while she
tidies up the house, she may repeat:
"Dolly's things are such a sight.
Put the bureau drawers to rights,"
"Come, come, my dear children,
L'p is the sun.
Birds are all singing
And morn has begun."
While putting on their shoes we use:
"One, two, buckle your shoe,"
or
"Shoe the old horse.
Shoe the old mare.
Put a nail here.
Put a nail there.
Let the little colt
Go bare, bare, bare."
As they wash their faces and hands I say:
"There's a neat little clock.
In the play-room it stands.
And it points to the time
With its two little hands,
And may we, like the clock,
Keep a face clean and bright,
With hands ever ready
To do what is right."
"Work while you work.
Play while you play,
And you'll be happy.
The livelong day."
For special tasks there are such rhymes as:
"The old woman must stand at the tub, tub, tub,
The dirty clothes to rub, rub, rub,
And when they are clean, and fit to be seen.
She'll dress like a lady, and dance on the green,
for washing; "Pat a cake" for baking, and for
looking after the baby, "Rock-a-by, baby," "Sweet
and low," "Bye, Baby Bunting," and
"Hush, be still as any mouse.
There's a baby in the house.
Not a dolly, not a toy.
But a great big bouncing boy."
Then always there are a number to put the
children to bed by. such as "Deedle, deedle, dump-
ling, my son John," "Twinkle, twinkle, little star,"
and "There was an old woman who lived in a
shoe."
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Telling stories also helps to entertain children
at their work. Though any familiar fairy stories
are good, it is nice to make the story fit the task
in hand; such as telling "The Three Bears" while
putting things to rights, "Little Red Riding-
Hood" before sending them on an errand, and
•'The Little Red Hen" when preparing the meals.
Although the connection is very slight, the child
soon requests the same story while doing the
same task.
Praise and Games as Rewards
A child is very sensitive to praise, and even
when the performance of any work has grown
to be a habit, it is always wise frequently to ex-
press surprise at the fact that they can do it so
well and to praise them highly for any new
accomplishment.
Other means of appreciation might be the wear-
ing of a certain pin or ribbon as long as some
piece of work is done successfully, the placing
of a gold star on a calendar for a helpful day,
or the wearing of a necklace or other ornament.
We even give the Oberlin College yell for Jessie
when she is surprisingly quick with her tasks.
Often the attention of the children may be held
by making work into play. We like to play "the
game of Fairy." For instance, if I am sweeping
and have forgotten to bring in the dustpan, I say,
"I wish a little fairy would put the dustpan at
my feet." Immediately two little feet scamper
softly into the kitchen and back, so that when I
turn round the dustpan is lying before me. No-
body is to be seen, but if I look around two shin-
ing eyes will be peeking at me from some corner
or other. Then, of course, I exclaim in deep
surprise at the work of the fairy.
Tools
Whenever it is practicable, we provide for the
children tools of the regular size for both work
and play instead of the miniature ones. These
seem to be more satisfactory to handle and have
the added advantage of not getting "out of kilter"
as quickly as the smaller ones, which are often
poorly made. Jessie prefers to sift flour or sand
in a sifter "just like Mother's," or to mix with a
big spoon, and she takes great pride in her row
of bright and shining implements. The only
small tools they have are a broom, rake, wash-
board, and iron.
Some Difficulties
There are difficulties met with in securing help-
fulness, such as fatigue, dallying, quarreling, etc.,
which are likely to come up at any time. Real
fatigue indicates the need of a nap or sometimes
a rest for all in the big chair, with a story and
perhaps a glass of milk or a slice of bread and
iDutter. Dallying is often forgotten in a race to
see who will get her task done first. Then, again.
Mother will hurry through her work to help Mary
pick up the papers, so we can all go to the barn
to see the baby calf, or go for a walk to the
woods. Although the girls can not tell time yet,
we sometimes try to get our work done before
the big hand gets around to a certain point. We
have tried to eliminate quarreling as to which
should do each task by always assigning definite
tasks to each and then alternating each day. For
instance, Jessie dries and puts away the kettles
on the day that Mary puts away the silverware ;
then the next day they "swap" jobs.
Everybody Is Somebody
We have tried to instill into the lives of the
little tots the habit of helpfulness. Everybody is
somebody at our house, and we all must have a
share in the work as well as in the play. An im-
portant factor is a regular program for the day's
chores. The children know they are expected to
do their part, and are eager to do it. This does
not mean that they become drudges. Instead, the
admirable tendency that almost every small child
has of wanting to help Mother in everything is
directed, and the sometimes troublesome and mis-
chief-making little hands are kept busy.
We believe our children are going to grow up
into more loving and lovable women because they
have always been compani')ns and fellow-workers
with Mother.
The childhood shows the man
As morning shows the day. — John Milton.
ORDERLINESS AND TIDINESS
BY
MRS. CAROLINE BENEDICT BURRELL
The natural child is an untidy little being. One
is not conscious of this fact while he is a mere
baby, for until he is several years of age he has
had someone to keep him clean and to put his
belongings in order, and has. therefore, had little
opportunity to show his tendencies toward or
against tidiness. But it is to be doubted if the
average child under nine years of age cares a
whit if he be clean or dirty, unless upon special
occasions. For instance, when "company is com-
ing," he is glad to be washed and dressed so that
he may be looked at approvingly or admiringly
by the expected guest. But when there are only
"home people" present he would, unless he be an
exception to the general rule, be entirely willing
to eat with dirty hands and face, and to wear
the same soiled and tumbled clothing from morn-
ing to night. Nor would he mind how "messy"
h'is room was so long as he was allowed to play
there undisturbed.
Orderly Habits to Be Formed Early
A very small child will strew his playthings
over the nursery floor, and when told to pick them
up and put them away, very often will rebel. This
is usually because it is growing toward the end
of the day and he is tired ; the quantity of things
looks enormous to him, and his little body aches
at the very thought of the task. Still, with tact
he can be helped over the difficulty. It is better
not to let so many things get about, but when one
set of playthings is finished with, it can be put
away in some easily reached place, and some-
thing else taken out. A large covered box close
at hand, or the lower part of a cupboard, makes a
good place for toys. Then, too, if someone will
help put things away, that assists wonderfully ;
or he may be told that Father is coming, and the
room must all be in order for him, for he will
be sorry to see it upset. At all events, in some
such way order should be taught, even to a very
little child.
Playmates are very thoughtless in helping cover
the room with toys and then going home, leaving
the little host to pick up ; this should not be al-
lowed, but the mother should stop the play half
an hour before time for the visitors to go home
and all together the children should put things
away, even at the risk of seeming inhospitable.
The child taught in his own home that this is the
riglit thing will, when he in his turn goes visiting,
help to dispose of the toys at the neighbors'.
Care of the Person and the Room
So with the child's own room; here from the
first he must learn to keep things in order. He
can always 'put his nightgown on a chair, even if
he cannot hang it up in the closet; he can set the
bureau top to rights, put things in the drawers
and stand his shoes in an orderly row. When the
bed is being made, he can help, and dust, and
straighten the curtains. Really, he will enjoy the
feeling of importance in doing all this if it is
done cheerfully, not considered a task so much as
a pleasure. If from his childhood he knows the
duty of orderliness in his own room, he will prob-
ably never become that selfish being, a man who
lets his sister or his wife pick up and put away
his things, carelessly strewn everywhere. It is
only right that he should feel that he is respon-
sible for everyt'ning which belongs to him, and he
must keep each thing in its place.
Personal neatness is really orderliness, and this,
too, cannot be taught too early. Children natur-
ally resent having their faces and hands washed
too frequently, and it is absurd and wrong to
expect them to be always clean and tidy; when
they are playing they should not be bothered by
having such things insisted on ; at the same time,
there are hours when they should be tidy as a
matter of course, especially when they come to
the table for their meals. Then a mother must
insist on having the hands washed and the hair
smooth. This is always a trouble for both parent
and child, but it need not be so difficult, if the
child who comes clean gets the larger helping of
dessert, and the one who has been forgetful gets
but a small one. It is a lesson in orderliness not
soon forgotten, and one far better taught in this
way than by perpetual talking.
As to training a child to keep the house in or-
der outside his own room. that. too. must be en-
forced. One has no right to throw down a cap,
an armful of books, a pair of muddy rubbers,
for someone else to put away, no matter if that
someone is perfectly willing to do it. He has a
duty to help keep the home attractive. But chil-
dren are far too apt to think the common living-
room theirs in the peculiar sense of disorder, and
find it hard to remember to put away their be-
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longings. Parents, too, are sometimes thought-
less in not providing places which are convenient
for out-of-door clothes and books. These places
must be at hand — a closet with low hooks, a shelf
for story-books, a box for rubbers, and something
resembling the hymn-ibook rack at church, on some
wall, for the books. Then after all these are
ready the child must use them.
One of the best ways to teach order here is to
have it a good-natured rule that such things out
of place will disappear. A lost cap will be found
hidden in some out-of-the-way corner; a book
will be discovered tucked under a chair-cushion,
and so on. When one must take precious mo-
ments to hunt up such things, it is probable that
next time they will go where they belong. Here,
as in one's own room, a mother should dwell on 1
the selfishness of keeping the house in disorder, I
and teach a child that he has no right to be
careless.
THREE-YEAR-OLD VIRTUES
>l
MARY L. READ
EoRTUNATE now the child whose parents have the
good sense to enjoy his prattlings and little tricks
without yielding to the temptation to "show him
off" before friends and neighbors. The sensitive
child usually refuses to show off, and is made yet
more self-conscious, shy, and bashful by the teas-
ing, or threatening, or scolding, because of his
refusal. The bolder child is made more aggres-
sive, priggish, and intolerable by the applause and
adulation shown him. which is as stimulating and
wholesome for his soul as lollipops and soda-
water for his body.
During this year his program of motor-develop-
ment, sense-training, habit-training, is to be con-
tinued and made more definite; his exploration,
experimenting, examining are to have a yet wider
range; his speech is to be developed into sen-
tences; he is to be drilled in orderliness and
courtesy, in further stages of self-dependence, in
dressing and feeding, in a sense of modesty, the
observation of reverence, the practice of giving
and the expression of gratitude.
Training in Courage
During the year fears often develop, of ani-
mals, the dark, of imaginary monsters, of vague
but horrifying dangers. Sometimes these are the
direct result of tales told during this third year
of ogres and monsters that will "eat him up" if
he isn't good, of bogey men and cruel policemen.
Such fears commonly leave their impression
through life, and produce neurasthenia in adult-
hood, when the definite childhood experience has
been consciously forgotten. It is an unpardon-
able offense thus to arouse fear in a little child.
Once the damage has been done, it can never
be undone. Parents can not be too careful for
themselves and the associates that they permit
with the child during these early years. Punish-
ing a child by putting him in a dark closet or
room, or threatening to do so, is a direct culti-
vation of terror and fear. In the course of his
life he will need all the courage and nervous
vitality he can muster, and its cultivation can not
begin too early.
Bogeys, ogres, and villains are to be omitted
from stories under six years, at least. He is to
be taught the true purpose of the policeman, to
protect him and his home from any harm. Pun- j
ishment is to take some other and more natural i
form.
No suggestions of fear are to be made. Con- '
stant cautions of "Be careful," "Take care," "You |
will hurt yourself," all suggest fear. Tumbles
and bumps and bruises will come, of course, but
instead of pitying him, asking him if he is hurt,
calling him "Poor baby," teach him to be a brave
child, not to cry, to be courageous like Father,
and find something else to do so he will forget it.
Training in Self-Reliance
Self-reliance is also gained through his efforts
to wait on himself. By two years he should be
handling his cup neatly, learning to hold his bread
or cracker over his tray so that the floor is not
littered with crumbs, not handling his spoon with
clumsiness and mishaps, but acquiring neatness
even with this at the end of this year.
He is now quite old enough to open his own
bed to air, after his nap or in the morning, to put
his shoes neatly together when they are taken off,
hang up his hat, put his mittens away in his coat
pocket or bureau, hang up his nightgown, lay
his clothes neatly when undressed, put away his
toys. This, of course, necessitates low hooks and
shelves and a bureau drawer within his reach, a
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place for everything, a box or shelves for the
toys. He can make efforts at washing his face
and hands and brushing his teeth, not with the
expectation that he can do it efficiently, but to
cultivate the habit of doing for himself. He can
put on his own clothes, although his fingers do
not yet enable him to fasten them.
Training in Modesty
Personal modesty can be developed during this
year. If this trait has been inherent in the per-
sonality of his attendants up to this time, he has
already absorbed it. Nudity in dressing and in
bathing should always be treated sensibly, with-
out self-consciousness, ridicule, or reproach. All
the functions and processes of the body should
be spoken of naturally and with respect.
Children brought up with care are normally
wholesome and innocent in their thought, and
without sex consciousness. They can be kept so
with even a modicum of wholesomeness and com-
mon sense on the part of their elders. There are
sometimes silly, shortsighted people who tease
even little children about "beau.x" and "girls," and
by their own foolish, simpering manner suBtly
pervert the child's naturalness and cultivate pre-
maturely and abnormally the child's sex con-
sciousness. In all their games and play, their
marching and dancing, their attention should not
be called to sex differences, but they should be
allowed to play and choose partners naturally.
They should be taught to be equally courteous
and helpful to all their playmates.
Training in the Social Virtues
If the children have the daily example of har-
mony and courtesy between their mother and
father, if they see that Father works hard to take
care of them and Mother, and that Mother works
hard to make them and Father comfortable and
happy, they are already receiving their greatest
lesson in the meaning of motherhood and father-
hood — its social and spiritual meaning and its
acceptance of responsibility in their care. Of
course, they will not always analyze or con-
sciously think this until many years later, but —
far more important — it is becoming part of their
subconscious ideal for their own lives.
Father should never become to them the
dreaded judge who will mete out wrath for child-
ish wrongdoings. "I'll tell your father" should
never become a threat. Rather reserve it for
pleasant tales of good deeds, of discoveries and
new accomplishments. Let them make something
as a gift for Father because of all the things
Father does for them all day. Let them bring
Father's slippers, put a flower at his plate, bring
him the paper. Teach them always to place a
high value on Father's words of approval. Teach
them to look up to him as their model and their
best companion.
From now; on the child enjoys greatly being
with other children. Not that he begins playing
games with them until four or five years. Not
that he gets on peaceably with them, for quarrels
and teasing may often develop. But he enjoys
the social companionship, a colleague to talk with
and share with. He needs this for his own soul's
development. He should not have a crowd — that
is too hard on his nerves until six or seven years.
If there are no other young children in the family,
some arrangement should be made for providing
such companionship with one or two, at least
during a few hours of each week, if not as a
constant member of the household.
Your strange task is so to act on your cliild as to make
him think for himself.
"Knowledge is organizing experience in terms of vital
need." — Ernest Carroll Moore,
THE TOYS
My little Son, who look'd from tlioiiglitful eyea
And moved and spoke in grown-up wise.
Having my law the seventh time disobeyed,
I struck him, and dismiss'd
With hard words and unkiss'd.
His Mother, who was patient, being dead.
Then fearing lest his grief should hinder sleep,
I visited his bed.
But found him slumbering deep.
With darken'd eyelids, and their lashes yet
From his late sobbing wet.
And I with a moan.
Kissing away his tears left others of my own:
For, on a table drawn beside his head,
He had put, within his reach,
A piece of glass abraded by the beach
And six or seven shells,
A bottle with bluebells
And two French copper coins, ranged there with careful art,
To comfort his sad heart.
So when that night I pray'd
To God, I wept and said:
Ah, when at last we lie with tranced breath.
Not vexing Thee in death.
And Thou rememberest of what toys
We made our joys,
How weakly understood,
Thy great commanded good.
Then fatherly not less
Than I whom Thou last molded from the clay,
Thou'lt leave Thy wrath, and say,
"I will be sorry for their childishness."
— Coventry Patmore.
SUMMARY AND FORECAST
THE THIRD YEAR WITH TOM AND SARAH
WILLIAM BYRON FORBUSH
"heredity on both
Probably it's their
What are the new
"I AM just discouraged," acknowledged Mary
Howard, sinking flatly into her sewing-chair.
"Don't be downhearted," chirruped her hus-
band. "What seems to be the trouble?"
"The twins have broken loose and I can't seem
to manage them. And they used to be such angel-
children," she meditated.
"Well," Frank suggested,
sides has to show some time,
father cropping out in them,
symptoms ?"
"They get tired of their playthings, and they
simply tag me around, and they're both stubborn
as mules," was her breathless summary.
"That last, of course, comes from the other side
of the house !"
"But I'm getting all tired out with them," she
said wearily.
"Now, Mary," soothingly suggested Mr. How-
ard, "let me take hold a bit. If the 'system' is
going to break down, suppose I spank them both."
Just then the twins ran in and Sarah climbed
up on one side of his chair, while Tom was ask-
ing to be kissed, on the other. Their father's
hard heart relented.
"They don't seem to need a spanking just
this minute," he confessed. "What do you want,
Sarah ?"
"Dada — play," was the instant response. So
Father went into the library, gave them each a
brisk ride on his knee, quieted them down with a
basso profundo lullaby, undressed them awk-
wardly and got them into bed.
"Now, Mother," he said, in half an hour, "you
can do the rest."
"Thank you, Frank," she answered gratefully,
and went into the bedroom and did — whatever
mothers do to help two rollicking youngsters to
want to go to sleep. She came back with better
courage.
"It is hard to hate them when they are in their
nightgowns," was her husband's greeting.
"Yes, it is," she granted. "Frank, I am to
blame. I have been going ahead blindly lately,
not realizing just how fast the children are de-
veloping. While you were so kindly putting them
to bed I took down my neglected charts again
and did a little reading. It seems that ours are
no worse than the neighbor's children "
"I should say not" — with conviction.
"And no different. You see, the twins are still
in what somebody calls the vegetative stage "
"Does that mean the 'vegetable' stage?"
"Something like that. In other words, they
haven't much imagination. They are not re-
sourceful. They can't think up anything to do,
and they never invent anything new to do with
the old things. Then they are growing more
sensitive to praise and blame and more dependent
upon my sympathy. So they follow me around
for ideas and company."
"Does this last forever?"
"No. It seems that some time during this very
year we may expect them to "break into' imagi-
nativeness. Then I guess they'll be easier to take
care of."
Tom and Sarah "Break Into" Imagina-
tiveness
The "break" occurred as suddenly as had been
prophesied and rather earlier than Mrs. Howard
expected. The family were over to Grandfather's
to dinner one Sunday. After a time the children
were missing. Mother went anxiously to hunt
them up. She returned eagerly.
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"Do come, everybody," she cried excitedly, "and
see what Tom and Sarah are doing !"
Everybody followed her out to the barn. The
children were found, seated side by side on a box,
covered partly with a blanket and each one hold-
ing the end of a rein that dangled down from the
harness that hung against the wall. They had
often been allowed to "help Grandpa drive" when
seated beside him in his carriage, and now they
were carrying out the idea by themselves.
"Smart youngsters !" was Grandfather's satis-
fied comment.
From that time forward, as Mrs. Howard had
prophesied, the children became more resourceful
and were easier to look after. All their play was
not imaginative, even if it was inventive. Mrs.
Howard was wise in furnishing only one toy at a
time, and in trying to choose that one so as to
have it within the reach of her children's interests
and capacities, the playroom was simple almost
to bareness, but it was a scene of much active
endeavor.
One day her neighbor, Caroline Walton, came
in to call. She brought her daughter Jean, who
was a few months older than the twins. Jean was
a nervous creature, much overdressed, and very
uncomfortable.
"Jean is such a trouble to me," the mother com-
plained, in her daughter's presence. "She requires
so much looking after, and it is so hard to keep
her clean."
Just then the twins burst into the room, dressed
in new rompers, with their small red hands sticky
with mud and scattered islands of the same ma-
terial on their cheeks. Mrs. Howard led them
to the wash-basin.
"I am afraid, Caroline, that I don't try as hard
as I ought to keep mine clean. You know the old
saying that dirt is healthy, and the other one to
the effect that you have to eat so much of it be-
fore you die. I am sure the twins are fed up
with their allotment already."
"Have they been playing out in the yard?"
asked Mrs. Walton.
"No; it looked so rainy this morning that I have
had them in the house. Come into the nursery
and let's see what they have been doing."
The two ladies went into the playroom, a sunny
place, with prettily figured wall paper and bright
pictures hung low where the children could look
into them. The floor had a dull filling, and in the
center, on a square of oil-cloth, was a pile of mud.
Mud-Pies in the Nursery
"Playing with mud — in the house? Well, I
never !" Mrs. Walton e.-cclaimed with uplifted
hands. "Mary Howard, what are you thinking
of?"
"Why not?" Mrs. Howard asked calmly. "It
is a warm day, and the mud isn't cold."
"But it doesn't seem very — what shall I say? —
ladylike," she said, with a glance from her Jean
to Sarah's muddy nose.
"No. Sarah isn't a lady — yet. She is only a
little girl. I think she has a right to her child-
hood as much as Tom, and so — " firmly — "I guess
she's going to play in mud for a while. Just see
what they are doing," she added more pleasantly.
Already the youngsters, forgetful of their "com-
pany," were squatted down on either side of the
pile, making lines in the soft mud with their
fingers, then patting it smooth again, sticking in
stones and examining the patterns that they
made, and so on. repeating their tasks with the
deepest absorption.
"How long have they been doing this?"
"Ever since breakfast."
"And now it's eleven o'clock. Why, I don't
believe Jean ever played so long with anything in
her life. Come, Mary," she said impulsively, "tell
me all about it. Maybe I am on the wrong track.
I just want to know what you are up to."
Mrs. Howard knew that Mrs. Walton, though
as decided in her views as herself, was just as
earnest in her longing to bring up her only little
one successfully, and she recognized too that she
had a candid mind. So the two ladies sat down
together in the adjoining dining-room, where they
could keep near the children.
"My books tell me," Mrs. Howard began, "that
these are the j'ears of childhood for building up a
good body, that children need a lot of air and
sunshine and the freest kind of exercise. They
tell me that they need to use the big muscles. So
I dress them nearly all day in clothes that dirt
won't hurt, and I keep them out whenever it is at
all pleasant. They are fond of doing all sorts of
things to get command of their hands and feet.
I can see this because when I don't think up some-
thing for this kind of activity they do themselves.
They were the ones who thouglit of the mud and
of the ladder."
The Mysterious Charm of Ladders
"The ladder? What ladder?"
"Why, Frank happened to leave our long ladder
lying on the lawn, and for days the children have
spent hours walking up and down between the
rungs, and last week they both began to try to
walk along the squared sides. It has been just
the finest thing to help them in balancing their
bodies. But the funniest was the rolling down
hill."
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"Rolling down hill? I never heard of such a
thing!"
"Neither did I. Tom started it, as he generally
starts things. One morning he was sitting or
lying on the ground by the syringa bush at the
top of the little incline by the front door. Per-
haps he lost his balance, but at any rate the ne.xt
he knew he was rolling toward the bottom. At
first he didn't know whether to cry or laugh, but
after a moment he seemed to think it was worth
trying again, and now it is the first regular morn-
ing exercise for both of them."
"They certainly are two healthy-looking chil-
dren, more so than Jean. I wonder what she
would say if I should offer her a mud-pie."
Mrs. Walton did not need to wonder, for when
she looked into the playroom half an hour later,
her cherished daughter was in the mud up to her
elbows and her hitherto spotless dress was a sight.
She looked up in mingled glee and terror when
she saw her mother, and her look was so funny
that her mother, who was fortunate in having a
sense of humor, burst out laughing.
"I guess I have found a prescription for Jean,"
she said, turning to Mrs. Howard, "and a better
one than a doctor's, too."
The Little Girl that Spanking Doesn't
Improve
"Stubborn as mules," had been Mrs. Howard's
verdict of her children early in the year. Before
it drew to its close she often reiterated her state-
ment, and usually added, "and oh, how they hate
to obey."
"But I notice that they generally do," her
mother allowed.
"I am grateful if you do notice it," was the
daughter's response. "Almost every week now
I have a regular tussle with their wills — or rather,
their 'won'ts' — their contrariness. It is mostly, at
least on Sarah's part, in wanting what Tom has,
or in being unwilling to give up what she has
more than her share of. The point seems to me
to be to get her to give rather than to have to
seize from her. I have waited as long as ten
minutes — vi'hich is an age to a child — for her to
decide to give something up."
"Isn't there any quicker way?"
"Of course there is — now. But would it be in
the end? Every time I have spanked her I have
declared that I would never do it again. It seems
to rouse the worst passions in both of us. I don't
believe I was made to spank righteously, and I
am sure she wasn't made to be spanked to any-
body's profit. With Tom it is different."
"Have you ever tried giving just her fingers a
quick snap with your middle finger? I don't be-
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lieve it would irritate you or her, either, and when
you were a baby it was very effective."
"Thank you for that suggestion."
Mrs. Howard had discovered that obedience
was largely a matter of habit, and she practiced
daily, not only in this field, but in many others,
William James's famous "five laws" of habit-get-
ting. Of these she considered the greatest to be,
"Suffer no exceptions.'' She believed that if her
children were never permitted to suppose that any
way was possible but the right way, they would
not only walk that way but prefer to walk it. Of
course she appreciated that obedience is really
only a temporary virtue, for the sake of the chil-
dren's safety, but she was certain that they could
not be safe unless they were dependable.
■Watching the Moral Thermometer
"I have been reading," she told her mother,
"what Dorothy Canfield Fisher says about 'moral
thermometers.' She thinks we parents ought to
keep a sliding scale of our children's offenses,
ranging from those that are devilish all the way
up the scale through those that are partly bad,
partly mistaken, and partly well-meaning, up to
those that are good and perfect. / think we ought
also to have a thermometer for the children them-
selves — a scale of their condition as well as their
conduct, because I am sure there are some days
that even the good Lord doesn't count against
them."
"Why, Mary, what do you mean?''
"Days when they are just tired, or languid, or
are coming down with something. I quite agree
with that wise mother who determined that she
would never ask anything hard after four o'clock
in the afternoon. It seems to me that there are
two kinds of misbehavior that are likely to hap-
pen when the children are out-of-sorts — one is
carelessness and the other is what Frank calls
'cussedness'; one is because they are too tired to
start and the other is because they are too tired
to stop."
"Very good !" exclaimed Mrs. Spencer. "I well
remember both kinds. But what you have been
saying reminds me, Mary, of something I wanted
to ask you. You know our neighbor Mrs. Colwell,
and you know how insistent she is upon what she
calls 'unquestioning, implicit obedience.' I know
you are pretty particular when a real issue comes
up to see that Tom and Sarah mind, but I have
never heard you harping upon these particular
adjectives."
"Mother, you have struck a sort of sore spot
with me. I don't know just what I do think aliout
that. If a child always obeys implicitly, and with-
out question, wouldn't you think there was some-
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thing the matter with him? Mustn't he be anemic
or weak-minded or weak-willed or something? I
remember that Charlotte Perkins Oilman once
said that such a child, grown up, would be per-
fectly valueless as a citizen. Now Tom and
Sarah have this year begun to seem to have in-
dividualities of their own ; you can see that in the
way each one begins to cling to his own posses-
sions and to want his own way. For the present
they obey me, when I am firm and careful, be-
cause I insist upon it and because it is a good
habit with them, but if I am not mistaken, the time
is going to come, and come pretty soon, when they
will asR questions — and have a right to ask them,
too."
"What will you do then, my dear?"
"Answer them, I suppose, if I have breath
enough."
"If you have the answers, don't you mean?"
"Yes, Mother, that is what I do mean. I can
see that in requiring obedience even now I must
be reasonable even when I don't have to gk'c
reasons, but it won't be long before they will
ask for reasons, and if I want their obedience to
be intelligent and cheerful, I must have good
^reasons to give."
The Year's Inventory
When Frank and Mary sat down to make their
annual "Inventory," Frank took the pencil, be-
cause, as he said, "you can think it up, and I can
put it down."
"Let's take the old things first."
"All right. Where shall we begin?"
"With health."
" 'Health — fine. Good resistance to disease.'
Is that correct?"
"Very good. Now the senses."
Frank scribbled down a list :
Sight
Taste
Smell
Hearing
Touch
After some discussion this was the way the
schedule was filled out:
"Sight — range greater.
Taste — more sensitive.
Smell — ditto.
Hearing — can recognize a tune.
Touch — keen ; great delight in handling things."
"Now let's take up some of the new things,"
suggested Frank.
To make the story short, they finally made out
this list, which, if miscellaneous, was, neverthe-
less, suggestive, and, as they both agreed, en-
couraging:
New Things in Tom and Sarah
1. Voluntary recollection.
2. Accurate use of words.
3. Real purpose in their actions.
4. Resourcefulness in their play.
5. Self-assertion (mighty!).
6. Contrariness (by spells).
7. Courage.
8. Loyalty to little "responsibilities."
"A house of dreams untold.
That looks out over the whispering treetops
And faces the setting sun."
— Edward MacDowell.
INDEX TO
From the Second to
Adult interference, 131
Affection, 135
Art. 152
Attainments. 118. 141
Attention, 125
Baby's toilet. 162
Companionship. 119. 128. 131. 157
Conscience. 136
Consequences, 132
Coordination of muscle, 148
Courage, 166
Daily time-table. 122. 161
Discipline, 122
Drudgery, 137
Experiment. 127
Father's handicraft. 149
Fatigue. 120
Fidgetiness, 121
Food, 120
Growth. 120, 121
Habits. 121. 125. 165
Height. 120
Helpfulness. 161
Home-made playthings. 149
Imaginativeness, 118, 126, 130, 169
Imitation. 130
Interest. 127
Irritability, 122
Judgment, 126
Language, 129
Make-believe, see Imaginativeness
Memory. 125. 151
Mental development, 124
Modesty, 167
SUBJECTS
the Third Birthday
Moral thermometer. 171
Mother. The. 119
Motive. 159
Muscular development, 120, 148
Needs of third year, 118
Nursery instruction, 123
Nursery school, 158
Obedience, 122, 134. 159
Orderliness. 136. 165
Outdoor life, 145
Pens. 145
Physical development. 120, 121
Play apparatus, 123, 149
Playmates. 119
Praise. 164
Reason. 126
Records. 124
Rewards. 137. 164
Sand box. The. 145
Self. 118
Self-expression. 146
Self-reliance. 166
Selfishness. 132
Sleep. 120
Social development, 131. 167
Spanking. 171
Strain. 125
Structure of the child. 120
Talks, 128
Third-year inventory, 172
Tidiness, 136. 165
Unlovable children. 160
Unselfishness. 132. 135
Virtues of third year, 166
Weights, 120
INDEX TO OCCUPATIONS
From the Second to the Third Birthday
Action plays, 144
^olian harp, 156
Baby yard. The. 144
Ball plays, 124, 143
Blocks, 124, 150
Books, 147
Boxes, 124
Building, 124
Chimes, 156
Clay, 145
Cleanings, 162
Climbing, 124
Color play, 147
Digging, 25
Dramatic plays, 130, 144
Dressing, 161
Exercise, 121, 145
Experimenting, 127
Games, 143
Kiddie-car, 124
Ladders, 149
Manipulation, 124
Memorizing, 152
Movement play, 122, 143
Mud pies, 170
Music, 147, 155
Neighborhood nursery, 158
Outdoor play, 121
Outdoor work, 163
Physical activities, 122, 123
Pictures, 128, 147, 152
Play with water, 145
Plays, 122, 124, 127, 143, 146, 170
Plays of the senses, 143
Playthings, 123, 146
Poems, 128
Preparing breakfast, 163
Retelling stories, 129
Rhymes, 128, 147, 152, 163
Rhythm, 129
Sell-directed play, 122, 124, 127, 146, 170
Sense plays, 143
Songs, 156
Speech, 129
Stories, 128, 151, 153
Swinging, 124, ISO
Talking machine. 156
Tools, 148, 164
Toys, see Playthings
Walking, 123
Walks, 128
Washing dishes, 162
Work, 161, 162
Writing, 148
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'nr^HE so-called "regular kindergarten gifts" and "ocaipations" are a dozen in
number. They consist chiefly of certain blocks of wood in geometrical forms,
such as the sphere, the cylinder, the cube, the divided cube, the divided cylinder,
parquetry tablets, sticks for stick-laying in patterns, and papers for drawing, per-
forating, embroidering or sewing. In Froebel's philosophy, which was an intricate
one, these gifts and occupations were symbols of correspondences in the world of
thought and material things; they were introductions to the mastery of geometrical
forms, and they were also playthings. To-day even the most loyal Froebelian is
careful not to overemphasize their value as compared with the greater values of free
play and constructive handicraft, while the modern kindergartner is somewhat im-
patient with a philosophy which has meaning to the teacher rather than to the child
and with "gifts" that are needless symbols of real objects and occupations that are
right at hand, available for use, and that as playthings are nowhere as good as
other playthings for the child's development. Some of the "gifts" are also objec-
tionable as requiring eye-strain and the use of finer manipulations than are desirable
for small fingers. The blocks, somewhat enlarged, are still retained, and are con-
stantly referred to in The Manual, though not mentioned as formal "gifts."
The books of such careful interpreters of Froebel as the late Susan E. Blow
iare still available to mothers who are wiUing to master the Froebelian psychology
and terminology and method, but for the mother's purpose it has seemed better
to present here that which is permanent and universal in Froebel— his love for and
sympathy with children, his insistence that they must be studied and companioned
with if we are to understand and guide them aright, and his hearty purpose that
they should not only be brought close to the world of work and action but that they
should enter that world with the intent and will to make it a more lovely and friendly
world. The articles in The Manual upon kindergarten ideals and practice, as they
are read, will make even more clear to the reader that Froebel still has his place at
the heart of the kindergarten movement, but that another age and another land and
other teachers have immensely enriched and enlarged the kindergarten. It is an
interesting and perhaps a significant fact that not in Germany, which country has
never adopted its own homeborn kindergarten into its official educational system,
but in America has the kindergarten become the very foundation stone of child
training.
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CONTENTS
The Course of Training p^^..
Looking Forward Through This Period William Byron Fnrhush 177
A Child's Development and Training the Fourth, Fifth,
and Sixth Years Mrs. Bertha Payne Xewell 183
Charts ". 256, 257, 258, 259
What an Average Child May Be Ahle to Do by the
End of This Period Naomi Norsworthy 260
A 'Round-the-Year Program The Committee on Curriculum of the In^
tcrnational Kindergarten Union 260
What to Expect from the Third to the Sixth Birthhav
Richard's Day fredcrica Beard 267
The Fifth Year Mary L. Read ~ . . 268
What a Child is Like the Sixth Year Mary L. Read 271
The Dawn of Independence 4lma S. Sheridan 274
What to Do from the Third to the Sixth Birthday
Our Home Gymnasium Mrs. Elizabeth Hubbard Bonsall 277
Gymnastic Plays for This Period Mrs. Harriet Hickox Heller 282
Lively Imitative Plays The Editors 284
Plays and Games for the Fourth Year Luella A. Palmer 285
Aims and Methods in Constructive Play The Committee on Curriculum of the In-
ternational Kindergarten Union 287
Beginnings in Handwork Mrs. Minnetta Sammis Leonard 288
The Importance of Self-Help Maria Montessori 294
Collecting Nature Materials Katherine Beebe 295
Bead-Stringing Mrs. Carrie S. Newman 298
"The Holy Gift of Color" Elizabeth Harrison 300
Suggestions for Color- Play The Editors 302
The Music Needs of the Kindergarten Calvin B. Cady 305
Music for the Early Years Mary E. Pennell 308
Some Play-Devices in Beginning Music Mrs. Elizabeth Hubbard Bonsall 319
How to Tell Stories Mary L. Read 326
The Selection of Stories for Kindergarten Children Annie E. Moore 326
Fifty Best Kindergarten and Primary Stories 328
The Poetry Habit Clara Whitehill Hunt 329
Answering Questions About Sex Margaret W. Morlcy 331
The Religious Nurture of a Little Child William Byron Forbush 332
The Religious Education of a Catholic Child Josephine Brozmson 338
Tlie Religious Education of a Jewish Child Mrs. Rose Barlow Weinman 341
Plays and Games for the Fifth Year Luella A. Palmer 349
Self-Making Susan E. Blow 354
Constructive Play Grace L. Brown 355
Things to Make Out of Newspapers Mrs. Louise H. Peck 364
The Beginnings of Art for Little Children Walter Sargent 365
How the Cliild May Express Himself Through Art The Committee on Curriculum of the In-
ternational Kindergarten Union 366
Pictures for the Home Julia Wade Abbott 369
Learning to Use Language The Committee on Curriculum of the In-
ternational Kindergarten Union 370
Mother, Father, and Child— Partners Three Maud Burnham 373
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The Home Play-Yard Mrs. Dora Ladd Keyes 374
Playthings Which the Father Can Make William A. McKeever, LL.D., and Jean
Lee Hunt 375
Plays and Games for the Sixth Year Ltiella A. Palmer 377
Play with Dolls The Editors 382
An Introduction to Nature Study Jessie Scott Himes 384
Betty's Nature Friends Mrs. Elizabeth Hubbard Bonsall 391
Play with Neglected Senses The Editors 401
Summary and Forecast
Tom and Sarah During the Kindergarten Years William Byron Forhush
What Should a Child Know When He Enters the
First Grade ? //• G. Wells
At the Schoolhouse Door Elisabeth J. Wood-ward .
405
409
412
Supplemental Articles
Home Correctives for the Kindergarten Maximilian E. P. Gros=mann, Pd.D 417
The Kindergarten Years Irving E. Miller 419
Freedom of Experiment in the Kindergarten Frank M. McMurry. Ph.D 422
The Trend of the Kindergarten To-day Patty Smith Hill 425
The Kindergarten at Horace Mann School, Teachers
College John Walker Harrington 427
Froebel and the Kindergarten of To-day G. Stanley Hall, LL.D 429
What Has the American Kindergarten to Learn from
Montessori? William Heard Kilpatrick, Ph.D 432
Making the Original Nature of the Child into Some-
thing Else Edward L. Thorndike. Ph.D 434
What is the Value of Play? Luella A. Palmer 435
Experiment, Imitation, Repetition and Purpose Luella A. Palmer 436
Ten Useful Purposes in Kindergarten Training Luella A. Palmer 437
Index to Subjects Facing 440
Index to Occupations Facing 440
■i^
THE COURSE OF TRAINING |
LOOKING FORWARD THROUGH THIS PERIOD
Dear Mothers and Teachers:
Mrs. Bertha Payne Newell, who was formerly at the head of the Depart-
ment of Kindergarten Education at the University of Chicago, and who is one
of the most eminent elementary teachers in this country, meets us for the first
time this year and takes us along with her for the next few years of our journey.
Her suggestions have been worked out with her own children and her neigh-
bors' children, as well as in the schoolroom.
As you glance through the Table of Contents, showing the rich resources
placed at your disposal for this important period, you need perhaps to be reminded
that you do not have to read or use the whole of it at one time. The next few sen-
tences will show you just how to proceed.
How TO Master the Course for This Period
You wall note that this period comprises three years, and that in the special
Contents on the preceding page the articles for the period are divided into three
sections, one for each year. You, of course, have to do with only one year at a
time, but as some children are more advanced than others, it seemed wise to group
the three years so that no mother would miss any of this valuable material. Some
of the material applies to all the three years. For example, no mother will wish
to omit the important articles on religious education, which are classified in the
fourth year.
Your best method will be to proceed as follows:
First, read Mrs. Newell's chapters, and those by the editors and others
which are in the same series, one by one from the beginning to the end. Get
the viewpoint. Make the earnest effort to decide about where your own child
is to be graded, mentally, and which of the suggestions are best suited to his
development.
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Second, go over carefully the "Round-the-Year Program," and make up
roughly a similar one for your own work, season by season, modifying it later
according to circumstances.
Third, "Plan your Work and Work your Plan." Having made your pro-
gram and having decided just how Mrs. Newell is to guide you, use this Reading
Journey below as the basis of your work. Whenever you make use of one of
the articles in the first column, take up the other readings in the columns
opposite.
A Child's Di'Z'clopment and
Training the Fourth, Fifth,
and Sixth Years
THE FOURTH YEAR
I. The Physical Life in
the Fourth Year
II. How the Child Plays
the Fourth Year
III. Building-Plays
IV. Making Cakes and
Other Models
V. Playing in Sand
VI. The Montessori Meth-
ods in the Home. (By
M. V. O'Shea)
VH. The Instinct for Col-
lecting
VIII. Stringing Beads
IX. Drawing and Coloring
X. Music and Rhythm
Companion Articles in this Manual
"Richard's Day"
"Our Home Gymnasium"
"Gymnastic Plays for This Period"
"Lively Imitative Plays"
"Plays and Games for the Fourth Year"
"Aims and Methods in Constructive Play"
"Beginnings in Handwork"
"Beginnings in Handwork"
"The Importance of Self-Help"
"Collecting Nature-Materials"
"Bead-Stringing"
"The Holy Gift of Color"
"Suggestions for Color-Play"
"Beginnings in Handwork"
"The Music-Needs of the Kindergarten"
"Some Play-Devices in Beginning Music"
XI. Literature for Kinder-
garten Children. (Ar-
ranged by the Edi-
tors)
XII. When the Children Ask
Questions. (By the
Editors)
XIII. The Religion of a Lit-
tle Child
"How to Tell Stories"
"The Selection of Stories for Kindergarten
Children"
"The Poetry Habit"
"Answering Questions about Sex"
"The Religious Nurture of a Little Child"
'Religious Education of a Catholic Child"
"Religious Education of a Jewish Child"
Companion Articles in the
"Boys and Girls Bookshelf"
Indoor Games, vol. IV, page 3
Outdoor Sports, vol. IV, page
65
Color — Design — Drawing, vol.
IV, page 171
Play and Work for the Sum-
mer Vacation, vol. IV, page
291
Color — Design — Drawing, vol.
IV, page 171
Nursery Songs and Mother
Goose, vol. VI, page IS
Play Songs, vol. VI, page 33
Songs of a Young Child's
Day, vol. VI, page 49
Folk Songs, vol. VI, page 71
Nature Songs, vol. VI, page
105
Stories in vols. I, II, and III
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179
A Child's Development and
Training the Fourth, Fifth,
and Sixth Years
THE FIFTH YEAR
XIV. Developments dur-
ing the Fifth Year
XV. How the Child
Plays the Fifth
Year
Companion Articles in this Manual
"The Fifth Year"
"The Dawn of Independence"
"Plays and Games for the Fifth Year"
XVI. Building-Plays
XVII. Hammer and Nails
XVIII. Making Things Out
of Paper
XIX. Modeling
XX. Pictures and Paint-
ing
XXI. Talking with and
Helping Mother
XXII. Outdoor Life. Pets,
and Gardening
THE SIXTH YEAR
XXIII. Developments dur-
ing the Sixth
Year
XXIV. Making Doll-Furni-
ture
XXV. Weaving
XXVI. Making Doll-Dress-
es
XXVII. Modeling
XXVIII. Nature Study
XXIX. More Easy Con-
structive Play
XXX. Festivals
XXXI. Governing Childreti
(By Mrs. Eunice
Barstow Buck)
"Self- Making"
"Constructive Play"
"Things to Make Out of Newspapers"
"The Beginnings of Art for Little Chil-
dren"
"Outlines for Early Art Study"
"How Children May Express Themselves
Through Art"
"Constructive Play"
"Pictures for the Home"
"Learning to Use Language"
"Mother, Father and Child-
Partners Three"
"The Home Play-Yard"
"Playthings Which the Father Can
Make"
"What a Child is Like the Sixth Year"
"Plays and Games for the Sixth Year"
"Plavs with Dolls"
"Plays with Dolls"
"An Introduction to Nature Study"
"Betty's Nature Friends"
"Play with Neglected Senses"
"Constructive Play"
Companion Articles in the
"Boys and Girls Bookshelf"
Indoor Games, vol. IV, page .3
Puzzles and Problems, vol. IV,
page 19
Riddles, Charades, and Conun-
drums, vol. IV, page 39
Outdoor Sports, vol. IV, page
■ 65
Woodwork, vol. IV, page 215
Paper-craft, vol. IV, page 155
Picture Stories, vol. VI, page
177
The Garden, vol. IV, page 135
Pets and How to Care for
Them, vol. VIII, page 7
Dolls and Costumes of Many
Nations, vol. IV, page 110
The Little Mother's Work-
basket, vol. IV, page 75
Little Nature Lessons, vol.
VII, page 1
Stories of the Seasons, vol.
VII. page 15
Lurking to Look About You,
vol. VII, page 33
Woodwork, vol. IV, page 215
Happy Days All 'Round the
Year, vol. IV, page 268
"Tom and Sarah During the Kindergarten
Year"
"What Should a Child Know When He
Enters the First Grade?"
"At the Schoolhouse Door"
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\Vc wish to direct the attention of our readers also to the very valuable
series, practically a year's course in itself, entitled "Around the Year with Caro-
lyn Sherwin Bailey," in the second volume of our Child Welfare Manual.
Miss Bailey is one of our best known story-tellers and writers on kindergarten
methods.
Remember, in all your teaching, that you are to be guided most of all not
by what even so wise a woman as Mrs. Newell has found useful, but by your
own child's interests. Look up the "Chart of Child Study and Child Training"
on page and note how it is arranged. The first column is headed "The
Child's Responses," the second, "What They Suggest." You will find here
many of your own child's responses interpreted for you. You will discover
in yovir own child other responses, and this chart will help you think out
what they suggest for you to do.
For the mother who wishes something more than playful devices, who
desires to know why she does what she is doing and how she may do it better,
the Editors have selected with considerable care the following short articles by
leading educational authorities of to-day, which they hope will be read, early
and often, by the mothers whose children are in the kindergarten years.
SUPPLEMENTAL READINGS
The Kindergarten Years Irving E. Miller, Pli.D.
Freedom of Experiment in the Kindergarten Frank M. McMnrry, Ph.D.
The Trend of the Kindergarten To-Day Patty Smith Hill
The Kindergarten at Horace Mann School John Walker Harrington
Froebel and the Kindergarten of To-Day G. Stanley Hall, LL.D.
Home Correctives for the Kindergarten Maximilian E. P. Groszmann. Pd.D.
What Has the American Kindergarten to Learn from Montessori? William Heard Kilpatrick, Ph.D.
Making the Original Nature of the Child into Something Else Edward L. Thorndike, Ph.D.
\^'hat is the Value of Play? Luella A. Palmer
Experiment, Imitation, Repetition and Purpose Luella A. Palmer
Ten Useful Purposes of Kindergarten Training Luella A. Palmer
These experts have expressed themselves with remarkable simplicity. It is
suggested that the mother read with pencil in hand, underlining each statement
that strikes her as significant, and even copying phrases that she desires to
recall.
Dr. Miller gives us a comprehensive view of the whole period, which binds
together the scattered studies of Mrs. Newell, Miss Read, and others.
The next three articles furnish the viewpoints of those who are doing"
such suggestive work in the kindergarten of the Horace Mann School at Teach-
ers College, Columbia University, work that means more to the practicing
mother just now than that of any other institution in the country.
President G. Stanley Hall shows us how the new connects with the old,
how the modern kindergarten is true to Frocbel's principles, yet is liberated
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from much that was unimportant or useless that has been added by some of his
disciples. Dr. Groszmann goes even a step farther, and shows how a mother in
her home-teaching may avoid some of those cramping methods that have crept
into many public kindergartens.
Dr. Kilpatrick explains what that much-exploited modern educational philos-
opher, Doctor jNIontessori, has given us, and also explains what we are not
to learn from her example.
The last four papers are thoughtful discussions of the philosophy of child-
teaching; they tell us why we are doing what we do. These epigrammatic
sentences are like nuggets of gold, which the mother must beat into shape for
rich use in her daily teaching and companionship with her children.
Readings in Religious Education
During these years, when the child is sensitive to and curious about religious
matters, and in the course of which the majority of children begin to attend
Sunday-school, it will be wise to read, gradually and in order, all the articles
in the series entitled "Moral and Religious Education," at the end of the
Manual. These will have especial cogency if studied in close connection with
the three papers on religious education in this division.
What to Expect During This Period
In contrasting the attainments of this period with those of the third year,
two things are to be remembered: all children do not develop alike, and some of
these statements may apply to your child earlier or later than as indicated in
one of the columns below :
ATTAINMENTS OF THE THIRD YEAR ATTAINMENTS OF THE FOURTH TO SIXTH YEAR
Greater control and much use of the trunk muscles. Firmer muscular control; possible tendency to fa-
tigue before sixth year.
Better manipulation of toys and tools. Definite constructive ideas, but no ability yet to
handle fine tools ; interest in the action more
than the result.
Trial now not blind, but to find out how things Trial not only to find how things act, but to recon-
act. struct and change them.
Imitation now not only of literal acts but of pur- Imitation now of other children fully as much as
poses of others. of adults.
Keener susceptibility of the senses. Sense-susceptibility complete, and giving place to
• motor-interests.
Speech ; sentence-forming. Large vocabulary, and understanding of many
words he does not use himself.
Voluntary memory, but not continuous. Memory now voluntary and continuous.
Actions based on more thorough reasoning. Actions based constantly on reasoning from cause
to eiifect.
Self-assertion develops into contrariness. Contrariness may extend even to rebelliousness.
Curiosity constant, expressed by incessant ques- Curiosity expressed still by questions, and also by
tions. all sorts of experiments.
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ATTAINMENTS OF THE THIRD YEAR ATTAINMENTS OF THE FOURTH TO SIXTH YEAR
Play more resourceful and self-directed. Play, still self-directed, but not now so solitary;
enjoyment of playmates.
Imagination now constructive and fanciful. Imagination even more lively, both passive, in en-
joying fairy stories, and active, in dramatic
play-
Noticeable aftection and sympathy. Affection less demonstrative, but for more persons.
Influenced now by persons outside his home ; be-
ginnings of hero-worship.
Spontaneous and lively religious feelings.
All the statements in the second column suggest that your child now has
passed definitely and fully into the Individual Stage, the period when he is
strongly independent, often wilful, and is capable of being trained to express his
own nature as never before. The responses that he now makes to every situa-
tion are more significant than ever of what he can do and be, and in every sug-
gestion that Mrs. Newell and others make, we are to remember that we are
dealing with our child, and not Mrs. Newell's children, and our child may
answer where hers were silent, or refuse to respond where she obtained
responses from hers. In other words, personality may now be discovered. We
are beginning to discover what are the strong points possessed by our offspring.
Let us watch carefully. Is he reticent but determined? Or impulsive and self-
revealing? Is he likely to express himself best through his fingers, or his voice.,
or his general energy? Does he seem to need many suggestions, or is he
resourceful? Have we oversuggested, and do we need to bring him into situa-
tions that will call forth his self-reliance? Or have we neglected to watch his
impulses, and do we now need to furnish him with more materials and oppor-
tunities and suggestions for bringing out his latent powers? "These are some of
the questions that should be in our minds throughout this important kinder-
garten period.
Whether he goes to a public kindergarten or is wholly trained at home, we
shall find that for the first time our child needs and desires playmates of his
own age, and is influenced by them even more than by ourselves. This yield-
ing to outside impressions, of course, broadens his character and ability, but
brings its own special anxieties and requires special safeguards.
William Byron Forbush.
PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT, FOURTH TO FIFTH YEAR
A CHILD'S DEVELOPMENT AND TRAINING THE
FOURTH, FIFTH, AND SIXTH YEARS
MRS. BERTHA PAYNE NEWELL
n
FOURTH YEAR
I. THE PHYSICAL LIFE IN THE FOURTH YEAR
The three-year-old is in the full swing of his
play-life. His pliysical activity is incessant:
running, climbing, leaping, crawling, rolling,
tumbling, balancing. He needs ample oppor-
tunity for this kind of exercise. He simply
must let off the surplus energy in these ways.
It is as important for his mental as for his bodily
vigor. A child who is not abounding in activity
at this age is in some way below par and needs
attention.
Further, this is the method Nature prompts for
giving him control of his body.
One of the first requisites is space, and freedom
to use it, be it only a porch or a small yard.
Incentives to definite and varied exercises
come next. Some of the best are : a ladder or
tree with low branches to climb, a seesaw, a
swing, a trapeze for swinging by the arms, a
large ball or bean-bag for throwing. A scantling
or a "two-by-four" laid upon the ground or on
bricks gives a balancing exercise similar to '"rail-
walking."
One must not be too cautious nor foolhardy in
allowing climbing and other feats. I remember
the effort with which I restrained my fears when
my three-year-old was discovered half way up a
twelve-foot ladder that leaned against an oak tree.
She went carefully to the top and down again, not
aware of her mother's anxiety. Children who are
allowed to do these things are more sure because
they have measured their own strength and they
gain skill that prevents accidents. Some of the
worst falls come from sudden access of timidity
in a child who has not tested his power often
enough.
Climbing a slanting ladder is good exercise for
the muscles of back, arms, and legs. Children at
this age are still heavy-bodied in proportion to
the length of arms and legs ; this makes them able
to climb and swing where both arms and legs are
employed. Crawling and creeping, too, divide
the body-weight between legs and arms, and are
good exercise. On the other hand, the shortness
of legs and weight of body and head makes a
long walk or continued standing very fatiguing
to two and three-year-old children. We can not
measure their effort by our own, or by the length
of time consumed in walking. What is a short
walk for the light-bodied, long-legged adult re-
quires much greater muscular effort in proportion
from the differently proportioned child.
Games that are good for older children are
for the same reason not always good for the
three-year-old. Few three-year-old children, for
example, can skip on both feet alternately ; a skip
on the right and a long step with the left is the
approach they make to it. Walking and run-
ning, jumping and skipping in short periods are
good.
Frequent change of position is a necessity.
Long-continued sitting even in well-adapted kin-
dergarten chairs is wearisome. I have found no
place so good as the floor for all kinds of play,
where they can sprawl, kneel, sit cross-legged or
lie on face or back at will. Here they can build,
model, draw, or cut as long as the spirit wills.
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II. HOW THE CHILD PLAYS DURING THE FOURTH YEAR
The approach of the third birthday brings a
change in the character of a child's play that
has already been recognized by Mrs. Sies, and
provided for by heT in suggestions for the com-
panionship of mother and child in play. This
change marks the entrance of a child to the real
play-period of growth. Before it began, objects
were of interest for their sensory qualities and
for what could he done with them: hats were to
put on heads, sticks were to strike with, pans to
put things in or to make a noise when beaten,
and so on. When the objects have become fa-
miliar, and the child has learned how they behave
under his manipulations, he begins to find a new
world in them, a world of his own creation.
A hat is now turned into a cradle for a doll,
the stick becomes a galloping horse, the pan is a
boat sailing on a carpet sea. The changes re-
quired demand little or nothing in the -way of
making over. Some likeness is discovered and
seized upon. Things acquire different meanings.
These discoveries, exploited, constitute play.
From now on, play becomes the vital engrossing
activity of a little child's waking hours.
Play Demands Recognition and
Companionship
These discoveries of new meanings and uses
in old things are so vivid that children must share
their pleasure in them with others. Mother is
called on fifty times a day to see some wonderful
adaptation of "something old to something new."
Since it all means the e.xpansion of ideas, we are
glad to welcome this play of ideas and to leave
our work for minutes or half hours to join in the
fun. And yet "fun" does not describe a child's
feeling for this creative play; to him it is serious,
more like the scientist's quiet joy in finding a new
specimen.*
Mothers sometimes complain that their children
at this age do not play so much with their toys as
with other things not meant for toys. One mother
said her boy of three preferred above all things
the kitchen utensils, probably for the reason that
they offered such fine suggestions for this kind
of play.
Dramatic Play Keeps Pace with
Physical
"Papers?" The call comes in a high treble. I
turn to the door and see Billy in his brother's cap
• Tn connection with these statements it will be helpful to
read Dr. Irving E. Miller's longer article on "The Kinder-
garten Years," page 419 of this Manual.
carrying a pack of old newspapers under his arm.
Of course, I buy a paper, paying for it with an
imaginary coin ; but the paper must actually
change hands, no pretense will do. I tell him he
may sell one to my neighbor next door. When
he returns the idea has undergone a change.
Stumbling over the little wagon suggests that
this be substituted, and so the round begins again.
On the table stands a call-bell — now a new idea
enters and takes command. The wagon no longer
carries papers. The bell becomes a clanging gong
and I am ordered to "get out of the way quick,
the fire-wagon is coming!"
Acting is as natural a mode of expressing
ideas to children at this age as talking. Often
it can express what he has no words to tell. Be
interlocutor for him at times. Play the part, and
voice what he is trying to embody. Be the "other
fellow" of all dramas, saying not too much, to
usurp the creator's chief part, and yet enough to
give reality to the scene.
Change of Plays
Play is now so much a matter of responding to
the suggestiveness of things that the play lasts
often but a short time and is supplanted by an-
other, as just indicated. This shifting of subject
is perhaps Nature's way of keeping the immature
brain from being overworked. One set of cells
is fatigued by the activity involved in one kind of
action, just as one set of muscles is in gymnastic
play. A ready response to new suggestions means
that a different set is brought into action, both
of brain-cells and muscles. The older child is
capable of more sustained action and his periods
of attention to one thing are notably longer.
If you watch a three-year-old child at play you
will notice this shifting of attention, sometimes
to entirely different plays, and sometimes to a
different way of dealing with his toy or subject.
Play is "Just Choosing"
I wonder how many people realize, as they
watch children at play, what a large part choosing
has in the charm. I remember seeing a little niece
roll a small matting rug, and holding it in her
arms, say to her mother, "See, Mamma, my baby."
Then, unrolling it with a swift shake, "Now baby
is gone: this is my rug." She seemed to be en-
joying the consciousness that she was the maker
of that doll-creature and could unmake as well as
make. Moreover, this power of doing and un-
doing must be exhibited and win its proper social
FROM THE THIRD TO THE SIXTH BIRTHDAY
i8s
recognition. What artist is there who can long
live his art alone ?
So the power of choice is the element in real
play .that makes it different and gives it value to
the player. Perhaps that explains a puzzling act
of which this is an illustration. A pupil of mine
in the Normal School said, "Why is it that a little
farm-boy who has to plow all day will amu,=.e him-
self by driving a stick-horse or another boy when
his day's work is over?" Choice and illusion were
cramped all day, and at nightfall they cut loose,
as it were, in the very field in which they had
been held prisoners.
Play Extends Meanings
Probably the sense of being a creator is as vivid
in a little child who discovers a swinging ham-
mock handkerchief, or a cook-stove in a box,
as the dressmaker in her art of changing a few
yards of satin and chiffon into a "creation."
The dignity of this consciousness is revealed to
us when we realize that it is the same power to
see new meanings in familiar things that makes
the poet and the reformer. The latter, inspired
with a purpose to make the new better than the old,
sweeps clean the alleys, giving "beauty for ashes."
Movement a Large Element of Play
At the very beginning of the establishment of
playgrounds, in the last decade of the nineteenth
century, a group of worr>en equipped a public-
school yard with a few loads of cedar blocks and
sand. One of these women lived opposite the
school and watched the play from her windows
all Summer long. She noticed the way in which
children of different ages used the blocks. The
older children built ambitious houses with rooms
and towers ; the younger ones merely made en-
closures, while the youngsters hustled them about.
All day long groups of babies might be seen lug-
ging the big blocks from one part of the yard to
another. At the end of one day they would all
be piled at one corner of the yard. The next
day, like busy ants carrying their loads, the pro-
cession would be headed for another place, where
again they would pile them in a huddle. \Miat
they were making no one knew, but at least they
were on the move and accomplishing a mighty
work.
Much of play at three years is like this in that
it is making things more. Many of the plays
mentioned by Mrs. Sies and Miss Palmer for the
earlier years are still in place after the third
birthday. They serve an excellent purpose as
long as their charm lasts.
I watched a little nephew for three days at play
with a toy of his own making. It was merely
a small metal wheel tied to the end of a long
string. He threw the wheel as high and as far
as he could, aiming it to go over the telephone
wire. When he had it dangling over the wire,
the game continued by running it down the slant
of the wire to -its lowest point, when it would be
jerked down and the process repeated. This with
variations was the favored play for the time.
Wheels, balls, velocipedes, wagons, are all fa-
vorites. Something to push, pull, roll, throw,
ride ; something to carry things in, to drag about,
all give the desired and valuable thing, bodily
exercise of a vigorous sort, and varied exercise,
too, which is as important, and a definite point
to be reached.
Progress in Play
Somewhere along this line of inventive play
real construction, or making, begins. Two things
are put together to make a third, quite new and
different. The box that served as a stove is seen
to need a pipe, when the pencil lying near invites
itself to be thrust in for that purpose. This is
a distinctly higher step beyond that of imagining
the box a stove without changing it outwardly.
A handkerchief swung between the hands is a
hammock, but when it is tied to two chairs with
a piece of string and a doll swung in it, real
making has begun. The simple adaptation of a
thing to a new use has grown into adjusting parts
to make a new whole. This involves more think-
ing and more skill in handling. Just here, if there
is a line at all, the line may be drawn marking off
what we might call "the kindergarten age" as dis-
tinct from "the nursery age."
Constructive play is the best descriptive term
for this particular activity. From about the mid-
dle of the fourth year on it takes a high place,
and continues to develop without ceasing, if given
intelligent direction and scope, into all forms of
artistic production.
The same impulse, to complete ideas by making
them take shape in material form, leads children
to make plays about the life which surrounds
them, and of which they are eager witnesses.
The doings of people are unfolding before them
like an open book. Sooner or later the novelty
of an act or its repetition will attract their atten-
tion and become part of their stock of material,
to be developed in play.
Through these plays we may see ourselves as
others see us, rrwre often to the tickling of our
humor than of our vanity. For this is the mode
of character-study that children u-se. Our mo-
tives are being probed, and our idiosyncrasies
mercilessly laid bare.
It would be difficult to over-emphasize the im-
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portant part played by imitative learning at this
age. There is no sphere of action in which your
child is not an imitative learner. Your tones,
voice, gesture, language, are all models which he
copies both unconsciously and consciously. Soon
he will absorb, in the same way, your attitudes
toward many things — toward servants, animals,
and inanimate things. Your animosities and fears
will be adopted as quickly as your likes and pref-
erences. It is a fine discipline for a mother to
hide and control her fears of snakes, thunder, and
burglars, that her little ones may not live under
bondage of fear; and father has been known to
stop the use of an untoward expression after he
has heard it repeated by his child.
So, in plays of physical action, of making, and
of impersonation, our children are "putting them-
selves through school." The only school appro-
priate to their age makes chief use of these
instinctive modes of play.
Social Play
Most children of this age play alone content-
edly for a large part of the time, but they love
companions'hip and are the better for having those
near their own age with whom to associate in play.
It affords them the discipline they need in giving
up to others of like age and interests. It gives
them the chance to learn from each other as well,
to learn leadership and following.
Where there are no other children in the family,
it is a good plan to invite outsiders in to share
the playroom and its equipment, especially if there
is no kindergarten to which they can be sent.
This might be done when the mother or some
older person can be near enough to give the occa-
sional word or decision that is often necessary
when friction arises or the play needs guidance.
The Mother as Kindergartner
It is not to be supposed that this incidental
supervision is all that will be needed. Other
matters will often have to be set aside, for periods
of careful supervision. I know this is not easy.
One merely has to make a choice of what to
leave undone. Something must be left, if this
unutterably precious planting-season of childhood
is to be given the care it needs. Meals must be
planned, poss-ibly cooked as well, rooms dusted,
marketing done, and the basket is piled high with
mending; the day is so full that the little child is
likely to be left to himself as long as he is quiet
and good.
What is the secret of this "goodness"? In nine
cases out of ten it lies in occupation. The mother
who has not merely the supervision of her house
but the actual work as well will find she must be
willing to leave her baking or her dishwashing,
to make paste; or find a piece of string; or cut
a sail for a boat ; or in some such way help the
little worker out of some difficulty that stands
between him and the accomplishment of a cher-
ished project.
Should any mother be discouraged by this pro-
gram, let her take heart of grace, for not only
are the rewards great beyond all counting, but,
happily, it is a fine principle to "let well enough
alone." Just as long as a child is happily ab-
sorbed in play, it is better to let him work it out
in his own way than to meddle in the attempt to
improve upon his self-assigned business.*
Preservation of Initiative
When any occupation fits a child's capacity and
interests, he will need the minimum of oversight
and direction.
"Let me do it myself" is one of the sayings
oftenest heard when v/e try to help a child out
of some difficulty in his play. The main duty
for us is to provide play-materials with enough
variety to hold interest, and not so many as to
confuse the child.
This is one great advantage of the Montessori
material. It offers something definite to do, and
invites handling. Children can see their own
errors when they have not made the thing that
the material was designed to make. For example,
in one of the pieces of apparatus there are cylin-
■ ders of dift'erent heights to be fitted into corre-
sponding cylindrical holes. If the short piece is
dropped into the deep hole it reveals to the little
worker that he has made an error and just what
the error is.
Much of the earlier kindergarten work was
weak at this point. The ends to be reached were
not within a child's power of self-correction; they
required too constant direction by an older head.
Children who are helped too much to do work
that they can not see into become dependent.
Primary teachers often complained that children
from certain kindergartens were "always wanting
someone at their elbows to help."
It is only fair to state that many times the
fault lay as much with the primary teacher, who
received a child brimming with energy from a
kindergarten and had no active employments to
offer him.
The progressive kindergartner selects, from the
kindergarten materials as originally planned, those
* In this connection it will be Iielpful to read Miss Palmer's
article on "E.\perinient, Imitation, Kepetition, and Purpose,"
page 436.
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that experience has proved most rich in resources
for a child's own inventive play.
Plays Grow Out of Immediate Surroundings
It is fortunate for the mother who must be
kindergartner as well, that the plays of children
are founded on things near to them. All that
goes on in the house or out becomes grist for
his mill. To build a little range with blocks,
kindle an imaginary fire, cook delicious food in
a make-believe pan, and serve it piping hot to
an appreciative parent, this is living !
Then, presto ! The scene changes ; an acci-
dental shift reveals in the stove an automobile, and
mother is bidden to ride in the park ; now it turns
out to be a delivery wagon, and she must be
ready to receive the supply of groceries. Or, a
train loaded with coal from the mine in the pantry
is unloaded at the coal-yard under the table.
Why is all this imitative-making so full of
charm? In addition to the reasons already given
there is the lure of mystery. Wagons come from
somewhere and depart again — where? To the
young child there is mystery in the sources and
destiny of the commonest things. And mystery
to the child, as to us, is a lure, beckoning on to
further explorations.
III. BUILDING PLAYS
Suitable play-material should be one of the chief
concerns of a mother who wants her child's play
to help him grow. We would not dream of send-
ing an older child to school without supplying
him- with the necessary books, paper, pencils, and
what not. Yet most of us give scanty attention
to the playthings of the younger ones.
Most of them have toys enough, some too many
and too elaborate ones. Many of them do not
satisfy the desire to "make something." Material
for "putting things together," to make something,
is highly important, so are materials for drawing
and coloring. In the nursery, with its blocks,
crayons, paper, scissors, modeling clay, sand, peb-
bles, seeds, and sticks, the little experimenter
works diligently. This is his laboratory in which
he finds out things; his studio in which he draws;
his workshop in which he plans and makes.
The Little Builder
One of the most vivid memories of my early
childhood is of being called by my father to go
down to the. barnyard and -pick up some ends of
boards left by the carpenter when he mended the
gate. Among them were some that I foresaw
would be good to build with. How greedily I
gathered them into my apron, and how ardently
I wished there were more gates to be mended
that I might have more of these wonderful blocks !
They were rough and ill-fitting compared to those
we have now, but they were all I ever had, and
met, if they did not fill, a want.
All children love to play house. In one form
or another, it makes the theme for most of their
play throughout childhood. The play varies with
the kind of material that comes to hand; if blocks,
they build houses ; if clay, they make cakes ; if
dolls, they are dressed and undressed, fed, put
to bed, and taken to ride.
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Blocks are particularly suitable at this age,
when children's ideas are fleeting, quickly chang-
ing from one thing to another. The blocks respond
readily to the changes of purpose.
The best blocks are plain cubes and bricks in
proportionate sizes, with a few long blocks for
bridges and roofing. They should be large
enough to handle easily — cubes two inches square ;
bricks 2x1x4. The old-style kindergarten
one-inch blocks are much too small. To place
them was a strain on the nerves, requiring too
accurate movements. I have seen little children
exasperated into fits of nervous temper in the
effort to make the little blocks stay in place.
It is a good plan to begin with either cubes
or bricks alone, until they get acquainted with
their possibilities.
With cubes alone, houses, trains, and furniture
are always suggested. When an older person
takes a hand in the play she can remind the
children 'o-f objects related to the ones they have
made; for example, a child makes a table and
stops there ; Mother suggests chairs to put around
it, gives him acorn cups for dishes. Mary makes
a bed, is delighted with it; Mother makes a
bureau to go with it. Mother says, "See if you
can make a chair, or table, or wash-stand to put
in your bedroom."
Jack makes a train, shoves it up and down.
Mother says, "Where does your train start
from?" or, "Where is it going?" "What is it
carrying?" "Do you want to load it with coal?"
"or corn?" Mother gets something that he can
really put en his cars, such as he sees on real
trains. Or she may say, "Can you build a de-
pot?" Perhaps she will add her skill to his by
building a depot herself. When the trains begin
to stop at the freight-house or lumber-yard to
unload, the play grows more interesting, because
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there is "something doing." Now is the time to
propose the question of bridges and viaducts.
"How do people get over the tracks safely?"
"Is there a flagman? A viaduct (overhead
bridge)?" "Do you want to make a long one?
Here are some long blocks." Little penny-dolls
to walk over the viaduct help to make the need
of these structures vivid.
As this is all play, the suggestions can be taken
by the youngster or left, as he chooses, for the
essence of play is spontaneity.
Let us see what can be done with bricks alone.
After playing with the rather clumsy cubes the
bricks seem much more usable. There are so
many more things one can do with them. They
lend themselves to making long tracks, sidewalks,
and enclosures.
Barnyard fences can be built in which any
little toy animals may be safely kept, such as
those found in Noah's ark. The furniture,
crudely built already with cubes, can be made in
better proportion and more detail.
Yards may be planted with flowers stuck in
spools, or furnished with seesaws made of sticks
and spools.
Another exercise that children enjoy is to
stand the blocks in a row near enough together
for a block to touch the next one in falling. A
slight tap given to a block at one end sends the
others down in a delightfully rattling row.
Here is a good one for eye and hand training :
Place a brick on its broad face, lay another
across it at right angles, at the middle of the
first. Repeat until all the blocks are piled.
Take them down and repeat, with this varia-
tion : place the bricks on their long, narrozv faces.
Take down and repeat, placing the bricks on
their smallest faces.
Language-Training
The game described above illustrates the train-
ing in the use of definite descriptive terms that
a child gets when an older person, playing with
him, takes pains to use and emphasize them in
the right connection ! As we play we naturally
talk about what vi^e are going to do, and how
we are going to do it.
The terms are usually learned instantly, be-
cause they are used at a time when his interest
centers in getting something definite done, such
as balancing a brick on its narrow face.
In these two balancing exercises the terms
"long," "narrow," "broad," "front to back," etc.,
describe the dimensions of the blocks that one
must notice to get the building to stand properly.
Number-terms are learned similarly. We say,
"Give me four more blocks." "Put two here and
three there" (suiting action to word). The eye
sees the number, the hand feels it, while the
mother names it.
My little four-year-old neighbor, Patty, runs
in and out of the house many times a day. Each
time she tries to make conversation, apparently
imitating the topics discussed by the callers in
her mother's parlor, and, sad to say, talking in
consequence about nothing at all. This meaning-
less talk was so noticeable that one day I invited
her to sit at a little table near me and build with
some bricks. She merely huddled them together
aimlessly. The next time she came in I sat down
to build with her. Again she tried, but could
make nothing. So I built a house with steps
leading to it. Then I built a part of another
house and left her to finish it, which she did by
adding roof and steps. After looking at it with
distinct pleasure she said timidly, "May I take it
down?" I said "Yes, of course. You can build
another, can't you ?"
As she took it apart, a few blocks left together
resembled a bed. She called my attention to it,
and I said, "Sure enough; can you finish that?"
This she did quite successfully. Then I went into
another room, from which she called me again
and again, to see something new each time. And
each time she had some interesting thing to tell
me about what she had made.
Gone was restlessness and gone the mean-
ingless chatter. As I write she sits beside me.
She is not only gaining in the power to picture
things with the blocks, but she has something
worth while to talk about.
When children are at work happily, they natur-
ally chatter to themselves or each other of their
doings. This spontaneous talk is necessarily
checked in a large group in the kindergarten or
primary school, because the confusion and noise
resulting from forty children "expressing them-
selves freely" becomes unbearable. It is a pity
that it must be so, as the imposed silence is not
natural, and it causes a loss of the use of lan-
guage where it would' be most helpful to the
talker. "Free speech" is one of the advantages
of a small group in the kindergarten or at home.
The Oneness of Constructive and
Dramatic Play
As a child builds he often acts to complete his
imagery, because the vjvidness of his ideas com-
pels him to live them out in gesture and speech
as well as in construction. He impersonates
successively and with no strain of imagination
the puffing of the locomotive, the ding-donging
of the bell, the call of "tickets" of the conductor
and the offering of the imaginary bit of paste-
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board by the passenger, when as conductor he
solemnly collects the fares. As a "lightning-
change artist" he is quite sufficient unto himself
for many parts in many plays ; again and again,
throughout an entire morning* he calls on you
to keep a character, while he takes another.
The best thing you can do for a child's educa-
tion at this stage is to supply him with such
material as blocks, balls, boxes, wheels, sticks,
toy-wagons, boats, dolls, and similar time-honored
playthings, and then keep in the liackground until
such time as he needs help, emerging from your
retirement to be whatever is needed, whether
audience, spectator, sympathizer, or helper over
some difficulty that has proved too much for the
little experimenter.
Too much can not be said of this freedom
which Montessori calls "liberty." It is the very
breath of life to the little struggler, trying to
find himself through play.
IV. MAKING CAKES AND OTHER MODELS
Most people are able to recall, among their vivid
recollections of childhood, certain happy hours
spent in a warm and fragrant kitchen, when
baking was on hand and a bit of dough, begged
from the cook or Mother, was patted and rolled
and pinched first into this shape and then into
that, and finally, after a few mishaps, deposited
in a pan and escorted to the oven, a shade darker,
but infinitely sweeter than the larger loaves.
These excursions into cookery were not so
much in the nature of domestic science as ex-
periments in the plastic art of modeling. Days
when the painter w'as puttying panes of glass
were made memorable, if he proved good-natured,
by the weird animals and men we evolved from
lumps of the delightfully responsive stuff, begged
from him.
One red-letter day stands out in my memory
by reason of a discovery of a particularly smooth
clay on the banks of the brook that ran through
our pasture. We spent a long summer afternoon
there, shaping a tea-set of tiny cups and saucers,
which we put on a board to dry, with many glee-
ful anticipations of the tea-party we should have
when they should have baked in the sun. But
alas ! when the dinner dishes were washed and
put away the next day, and we ran to the brook,
what was our grief to find the little tea-set had
been trampled in the soft mud by vandal boys
or stupid cows. This minor tragedy, with its
swift succession of feelings, the pleasure of mak-
ing, the glow of anticipation, and the bitter sense
of loss, has helped me many a time to understand
the value children put upon their own creations
and plans, no matter how trivial they seem to
grown-ups. And it has stood in my mind ever
since as an interpretation of the charm of plastic
making.
The modeling clay or its substitutes, plasticine
or plasteline, should be in every home where
there are children. They may be had of the
shops that sell kindergarten supplies. Clay dries
out quickly. These substitutes have the advan-
tage of staying soft indefinitely. (Where hard
objects are desired, without baking in a kiln,
permodello is recommended.)
No occupation furnishes a better training in
representing form and in leading children to
observe the forms of objects. They are keen to
notice the shapes of those things that they have
tried to model. Little children do not appear to
study the shape of an object while modeling.
They do their studying afterward.
It used to be my despair as a young kinder-
gartner, in charge of the "baby group" of a large
kindergarten, to try to secure any results on
modeling days. The three- and four-year-olds
would do nothing but pat and pound and roll the
clay, regardless of my blandishments and invita-
tions to "make a pretty round apple." They went
on their own sweet way, pinching and pounding,
until the clay dried in their hot little palms and
crumbled into bits.
Soon I saw that I might as well make a virtue
of necessity, realizing that a certain amount of
this kind of purely motor-play would have to go
on until the children fou.4 out for themselves
that they could make the soft lump take on the
likenesses of familiar things. I learned to seize
the fortunate moment when some child had acci-
dentally happened to make his clay look like
something, and to encourage him to do coil-
scioiisly what had been done at first without pur-
pose.
In watching them I found there were three
fundamental motions that all children seemed to
make, just for the pleasure of feeling the clay
move and yield under their hands. These were
rolling, patting, and pinching; and the products
were long rolls, thin cakes, and pinched-off bits.
These bits became the clues by which they could
be led into discovery of likenesses and into con-
scious shaping of the clay.
Accordingly I began to look for opportunities
of helping the children to work through these
motions to real representation. As this was in
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the days of the kindergarten program that called
for certain things to be made as prescribed for
the day, I had to proceed with some circumspec-
tion, knowing that I was not working in accord-
ance with the plans of the head kindergartner,
but flying straight in the face of Recognized
Authority and Established Principle. However,
I concluded I might as well have a good time
with the children, and follow their lead for the
present, little knowing that I was doing quite
the right and psychological thing.
So, when some cliild held up to view a fine,
long, round "worm," I would suggest that he
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"APPLES And BANANAS
FIRST MODELINGS
cut it into little rolls; to be put on the doll's plate.
Or, again, I would take one of the little rolls
and shape it into a batiana. Soon the whole group
would be manufacturing rolls and bananas at an
alarming rate.
Fruit and rolls called for dishes to put them
in. These were almost ready in the patty-cakes
that some of the children always had on hand.
A little pinching off of irregularities and we soon
had plates enough for everyone. Then the little
pinched-off bits were rolled into candies or berries
to add to our feast.
The next time the clay came on the table they
began where they had left off, with definite ideas
of things full of meaning that they could make.
Soon they were ready to be shown how to get
rounder cakes by rolling the clay round and round
between the curving palms, and then gently pat-
ting this ball into a disk about one-third of an inch
thick. Sometimes, to keep them from pounding
it too thin, we would make a game of patting in
unison. We would lay our balls on the table and
pat "One, two, three on one side, then "One, two,
three, on the other side." This was quite effective
in concentrating their attention on the effort to
make a smooth disk of even thickness.
I have dwelt on this in much detail, thinking
it may help someone else to lead children out of
the babylike use of motor-play to a discovery of
the possibility of making things that "look like"
something. Soon all the varieties of dishes can
be evolved from the round
disk above described. They
find out that pinching up the
edge keeps marbles from roll-
ing out; that a "worm" added
to a plate makes a fruit dish
or basket. Curving the sides
of a disk upward in the
curved palm of the hand
makes a deep dish. Rough-
ened a little, it looks like a
nest, for which the tiny pel-
lets or balls they are always
making become the eggs.
The baskets may be filled
with bananas or fruits of
roundish shape and contrib-
uted to a fruit-store which
the older brothers and sisters
might make of building blocks
or boxes.
When a mother or some
older person sits down to play with the children
more features are added to the play. After the
children have rolled little balls, she may model a
pea-pod, and the balls can be fitted in it. Or she
may find a piece that the balls can be threaded on,
and lo, a string of beads appears ! Another time
she may show them how to color their beads with
water-colors after they have dried. Or she may
suggest the decoration of their larger cakes with
tiny balls, like candies on a birthday cake. What
fun it would be for them if she let them stick
burnt matches all round the edge for candles.
I have illustrated a principle that I believe
holds good with almost all other materials, name-
ly, that of letting them get acquainted with a
material and what it is good for, freely using
it in their own way until they are ready to
welcome help.
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V. PLAYING IN SAND
Nothing offers a more constant source of em-
ployment than a box of clean sand. We all love
to thrust our fingers deep into it and feel it pour
through them. It is something of the primitive
left under the veneer of civilization, this delight
in sheer touch and movement-sensations. Even
the high-school girl and boy are sent to a pan
of sand to work out the modeling of river-basins,
continental outlines and mountain ranges, and
find profit not unmixed with pleasantness in the
task.
An educator, prominent in the councils of the
good and great, said recently to a group of moth-
ers interested in promoting public playgrounds in
their town, that when the homes could show a
sand-pile in the yard there would be no difficulty
in raising money for public playgrounds. Ex-
planation followed; that when parents felt the
importance of play enough to make that simple
provision at home for play, and to play zvith
their children, there would be the conviction that
would cause public sports and recreation to be
provided as well.
A sand-bed with a removable cover of wire
netting to keep out undesirable visitors is a great
resource in a family of children. If there is no
yard, a sand-table can be placed on a porch or
even in a playroom. It may be made of a strong
kitchen table with a rim of four boards six inches
wide nailed to it. It will be necessary to give
the table one or two good coats of floor or deck
paint to keep the dampness from swelling the
wood. The legs should be cut off to make it low
enough for the younger children to stand at it
and play easily. A smooth wooden cover can be
put over it, converting it into a table for other
purposes when not needed in this way.
I remember one such table that stood under an
old apple tree in a city yard. From her kitchen
window the mother of the family used to watch
the children at play while she kneaded her bread
or washed her dishes. All Summer long they
staged their dramas here, with a cotton rabbit, an
elephant, and a china dog and cat as chief actors,
and now and then a doll or two. For them moun-
tains reared their heads, with caves of dreadful
significance. Stream courses were laid out. chasms
were spanned with bridges. The goat was hunted
up and down mountains and was known to take
marvelous leaps down precipitous crags. One play
evolved out of another. Often the inspiration of
a new one v^-as found in some story read to them
by their mother. At other times the life that went
on at the harbor was repeated, for this was one of
the ports on the Great Lakes. Piers were built of
blocks and ships came and went, taking on or
discharging cargoes.
A three-year-old would not carry on a highly
organized play like any of these, but would use
it much as indicated in the section on clay-model-
ing. The little ones will exploit the sand, pour it
through their fingers, heap it into mounds, bury
their hands in it, playing a game of hide-and-seek
with these members. They will pat it smooth and
mark it over with tracks.
Some day the mound will be seen as a little
house with a door to go in and come out of. The
finger-marked furrows become roads on which
toy wagons come and go, or railways for pufiing
locomotives. Sticks stuck upright in the sand
fence in gardens, and twigs from the bushes are
planted in dooryards.
Mother may take a hand here by offering sug-
gestions that often give the invention a fresh
start. She helps the children perhaps by propos-
ing that they use the shells or acorns that they
have picked up on their walks to outline flower-
beds, which they can plant with dandelions, sweet-
clover, violets, or with flowers from the garden.
Thus she helps them turn their often-repeated
plays to new channels, or, as the school phrase
runs, "to organize their activity."
It does not make so much dift'erence what is
done, sooner or later the little builder will repre-
sent something out of his surroundings that has
meaning for him. Eventually his play becomes
a mirror held up to the outside world, bringing
it to view in related pictures. Homes have gar-
dens. They stand on streets, where other houses
stand also. Sidewalks lead from one house to an-
other. Flowers grow in the yards. For all this
the sand offers a background, a relating medium.
But of this more later.
Pretty-shaped dishes and shells may be em-
bedded in damp sand and when removed leave
hollow prints that children enjoy. Or they can
fill these hollow forms with sand and turn them
out on a board, like molded desserts ready for the
table — glorified mud-pies.
But the invention of the children and their
mothers can be trusted to evolve plays without
further suggestion.
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VI. THE MONTESSORI METHODS IN THE HOME*
BY M. V. O SHEA
Doctor Montessori is a physician as well as a
teacher. She first became interested in teaching
in her efforts to educate feeble-minded children.
She found that little or nothing could be accom-
plished with them unless their work was based on
the use of their senses and their hands. She could
make no headway with them when she tried to
have them learn from books. She had such suc-
cess in the use of concrete sense and manual
methods in training the feeble-minded that she
concluded these same methods, enriched and am-
plified, would be of value for normal children; so
she extended what she found to be of service
with the feeble-minded to the education of normal
children.
In the "Houses of Childhood" the children are
always doing; they do not sit in seats and learn
words. They work at buttoning and lacing frames,
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performing the actions which they need to per-
form in buttoning and unbuttoning their own
clothes and in lacing and unlacing their own
shoes. They build towers with blocks of varying
sizes. They match colored spools. They use their
fingers to trace letters or geometrical figures or
to measure distances. They use their muscles to
estimate the relative weight of different objects.
They are often blindfolded and are required to
fit geometrical insets into their proper forms,
and in this way they must discover through feel-
ing the characteristics and relations of various
forms. They learn to read, in part, by construct-
ing words from letters cut out of cardboard.
They learn to write by tracing words on the sand
or the floor or the blackboard.
The History of the Montessori System
The Montessori system is based on the principle
that the child can learn only through sense-activity
and motor action. Doctor Montessori did not
discover this fundamental principle of learning.
Every student of childhood and education, from
Locket to the men of our own day, has emphasized
it. Doctor Montessori has applied the principle
skillfully in devising her apparatus, which trains
the senses and stimulates constructive muscular
activities. She is not a "discoverer" or a
"wonder-worker :" she is simply a clever and
resourceful teacher who is familiar with what
many investigators have done and many teachers
have accomplished; and she has made some ad-
vance upon what others have achieved in the
training of very young children.
Doctor Montessori developed her system ir.
Rome. The teaching in the regular schools there
had always been based on memory work and rigid
discipline, which took little account of individual
needs or interests. The children learned from
books; they did not use their senses in dealing
with objects and they did not do anything with
their hands. So when the Montessori methods
began to attract attention, they were in such con-
trast to the methods in vogue in most Italian
schools that they appeared to be a brand-new
discovery. As a matter of fact, the schools in
America have for many decades been practicing
to a greater or less extent the principles upon
which the Montessori system is based.
Characteristics of the System
Doctor Montessori's views on the social train-
ing and the discipline of children have attracted
attention as well as her work in intellectual train-
ing. The Montessori children are trained to help
one another. They serve each other at luncheon-
time, for instance. They cooperate in all their
work. They assist in taking care of their
school-room, and in 'doing everything else that
is necessary in order to make their life and their
work agreeable. They do not have servants wait
on them; they are self-helpful and self-reliant.
* Mrs. Newell has spoken with approval of the self-correcting feature in Montessori play, and it has also found
praise because it incites little children to persist in solving problems. We have asked Professor O'Shea to describe for
us its advantages and disadvantages, and show how it may be used in the home. For the sake of continuity, his article
is inserted in the Course at this point, where Mrs. Newell turns from simple hand-plays to plays involving, as does
Montessori iilay. the trainincr of the senses. — The Editors.
t John Locke, English philosopher, lived 1632 to 1704.
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Self-activity is a cardinal principle in all Montes-
sori schools.
Again, the Montessori children are given free-
dom to do whatever interests them at any moment.
Theoretically, in a school-room of twenty chil-
dren, each one may be doing something different
from everyone else. But as it works out, the
children are usually all interested at any given
time in what the teacher has planned for that
time, and so they will all be working or playing
together. But if any child does not wish to do
what his fellows are doing, the teacher permits
him to follow his own choice. It is a fundamental
article of the Montessori creed that if children
be provided with opportunities to do useful and
educative things, they need not be coerced into
any special thing at any particular time. "Let
each one do what he wants to do," says Doctor
Montessori, "and he will do what is best for him-
self."
The Apparatus in the Home
How may mothers make use of the Montessori
methods? The apparatus* would be found of
value in any home where there are very young
children. It is, however, not absolutely necessary
to have this apparatus in order to apply the Mon-
tessori principles. The typical home could quite
easily be equipped and conducted so as to af-
ford children all the varied sensory and manual
training that can be gained from the Montessori
apparatus. This apparatus is designed to give
children experience in doing most of the im-
portant things they will need to do in early life
and to train them to observe and discriminate
carefully through all the senses. Any ordinary
home could provide many of the opportunities
for sense training and manual activities which
the apparatus provides, if a child would be al-
lowed to use the home equipment, and if the
mother would suggest uses for the kitchen uten-
sils, his own clothes, and so on, which he will
not think of. In the majority of homes probably
the parents could without much inconvenience
make its resources available for the use of the
child. He shourd be allowed and encouraged to
dress and undress himself, to help sweep the
house, to put the kitchen utensils in their place,
and so on.
If a mother can give her child from three to
five years of age considerable freedom in the use
of objects in the home, and if he can be with her
in the kitchen and elsewhere and participate in
her activities, he will gain the sort of e.xperience
that he is expected to get by the use of the
Montessori apparatus. Further, if he has a sand-
* The Montessori materials can be obtained from the
House of Childhood, 103 West 14th Street, New York City.
pile, and a collie dog. and tools such as a hamirier
and saw and the like, with a place to use them,
and a few pieces of gymnastic apparatus such as
a rope ladder and a trapeze, he will gain broader
experience than he could get if he should be
limited to the Montessori apparatus.
The chief deficiency in the Montessori system
is that it is restricted to more or less formal and
mechanical apparatus. Everything is prepared
for the child, though he must be self-active in the
use of all the apparatus. The child does not have
a chance for very much originality in its use.
There is not so good an opportunity to cultivate
his initiative and imagination as would be possible
with a sand-pile, or with tools, or a collie dog, or
a train of cars, or a hoop, or a set of dishes, and
so on, all of which can be provided in the typical
home.
Helping the Sense of Hearing
Of course a young child will not wholly, unaided,
use the objects around him to greatest advantage
in promoting his own mental development. He
will accomplish something on his own account,
but his parents must cooperate by leading him to
make discriminations among objects which he
would not otherwise make, and to use these ob-
jects for constructive purposes. Parents who are
resourceful will find almost unlimited opportuni-
ties in. the home to awaken the child's senses and
to make him original and creative in using fa-
miliar objects always in new ways, either to
construct new designs with them or to derive
new sensations from them. A parent who is in-
terested in the activities of a child's -mind and is
keen in directing his attention so that he will
constantly discover new characteristics in objects,
will find even a meager equipment in the home of
immense value in stimulating the child's intel-
lectual development.
Take the sense of hearing, for instance. The
Montessori sound-boxes are designed to stimulate
SOUND BOXES
the child to discriminate between different sounds.
The view is that the greater the number of dis-
criminations he can make, and the slighter the
differences he can detect, the greater will be the
development of the sense of hearing. The mother
can cultivate auditory discrimination, beginning
with even a very young child. The child can be
blindfolded or, if he dislikes to be blindfolded, he
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can turn his back while the mother strikes a note
on the piano. The child listens and must tell
whether the note is struck at the left of the mid-
dle of the keyboard or at the right of it. With a
three-year-old child it is enough that the general
location of the sounds shall be discriminated.
If the child is unable to tell, then he will look
while the sounds are made, and he will see that
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a sound is different when it is made in one part
of the keyboard from what it is when made in a
dififerent part. Then he must close his eyes and
attempt to locate each sound by ear alone. He
must continue this experience until he gains some
power in holding his attention to soimds.
The piano affords an opportunity to train dis-
crimination for a great variety of sounds. With
a very young child the sounds must be easily
distinguished in order that he may discriminate
them; but every day that he makes discrimina-
tions his concentration of attention to situations
of this sort will increase and his range of dis-
criminations will be enlarged. Incidentally, the
child will be gaining experience which will be
useful to him later in the study of pitch and
harmony in music.
There are a vast number of opportunities in a
typical home to cultivate discrimination through
hearing. The child is blindfolded and the mother
touches different dishes on the table. The child
must discriminate the sound of each dish. He
may not be able to do this at the outset, but when
he can not tell, he will open his eyes and associate
the object struck with its peculiar tone. Again,
the mother touches the glasses on the table that
contain different quantities of water, and each
will give forth a characteristic tone, according
to the quantity of water it contains. This test
affords excellent training in noting minute dif-
ferences in sounds. A child can not make the
discrimination unless he can attend in a concen-
trated way through the ear. Of course, this test
would not be suitable for a two- or three-year-old,
but it is fine training for a six-, seven-, or eight-
year-old.
Helping the Sense of Smell
The Montessori system does not offer exercises
for training the sense of smell as fully as the
other senses; but this sense is of vital importance
n life, and the young child should have experience
in discriminating a large variety of odors. The
first thing that will occur to the mother will be
to blindfold the child and see if he can discrimi-
nate an apple and an orange, or a peach and a
pear, or a cherry and a plum, or any other com-
bination of these fruits. Older children should
have experience in attempting to discriminate
varieties of apples by odors, perhaps also varieties
of other fruits, though the discrimination required
to detect varieties of oranges, say, are so subtle
that the typical five-, six-, or seven-year-old child
can not make them. Most adults can not make
these discriminations.
Flowers and blossoms afford admirable oppor-
tunities for cultivating olfactory discriminations.
It should be possible for a five-year-old child to
discriminate all the familiar flowers and blos-
soms by the sense of smell, though probably most
children who have had no training at all in
discrimination through smell can not give concen-
trated attention to any stimulus coming through
this sense. There are greater opportunities in
the kitchen than any place to cultivate sensitive-
ness in discriminating through the sense of smell.
The various kinds of meats, cakes, breads, vege-
tables, and so on, give forth characteristic odors
at different stages in the process of cooking. A
mother who could devote a moment once in a
while to a test could blindfold her child and have
him tell what is cooking in the oven or on the
stove, or what has been freshly cooked and put
in the pantry. One could not over-emphasize the
importance of cultivating this sensitiveness to
odors of cooking food. Expert chefs determine
the quality of food and its condition in cooking
largely by the olfactory sense.
Helping the Sense of Touch
It will at once occur to the observant mother
that the home affords opportunities for cultivat-
ing discriminations through the sense of touch. A
quite young child should be able to discriminate
the "feel" of an orange from that of an apple.
The older he grows the finer discriminations he
should be al)le to make, until when he is seven or
eight he should be able to discriminate varieties
of oranges and of apples and of other fruits by
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the sense of touch. The petals of every variety
of blossom anil flower have a characteristic feel.
It is a fine experience for a child to learn to dis-
criminate the various touch impressions afforded
by flovifers. The same is true of leaves and of
grasses. When it comes to clothing, the oppor-
tunities are almost infinite to discriminate kinds
of clothing, and especially varieties of cloth, by
the sense of touch. There are persons who can
discriminate different colored yarns by the sense
of touch, but this is very unusual and a mother
should not expect any young child to make such
minute discriminations.
Helping the Sense of Sight
The sense of sight has been left to the last
because it is the most important of them all. A
child can be encouraged to make discriminations
between colors by grouping different colored ob-
jects. In the kindergarten and in the Montessori
schools the children classify various colored
yarns. They have six or seven or eight shades
of each of the important colors. These are mixed
up and the child must group them properly. In
respect to forms, he is given a number of objects
of different forms and he classifies them just as
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he does the colors. He puts the spheres together,
and the cylinders together, and the cubes to-
gether, and so on. Again, he may be given a
boxful of objects, such as buttons, beads, rice,
beans, and the like. He must classify these, put-
ting the pearl buttons in one cup, the lima beans
in another cr.p, the navy beans in still another
cup, and so on. There is hardly any limit to the
variety of objects that could be included in the
pile; and the parent, watching the child make his
discriminations, will have boundless opportunities
to assist him to concentrate his attention upon the
objects with which he is dealing and note their
essential characteristics.
In the Montessori schools the children have a
good deal of experience in discriminating geo-
metrical forms, not only by the sense of sight
but also by the sense of touch. They look at a
triangular form, for instance, and they must put
this in its proper place in the frame from which
it has been removed. A parent could easily cut
out a variety of geometrical forms from a thin
board, and his child could have excellent ex-
perience in attempting to insert each form in its
proper place; first by the sense of sight, then by
the sense of touch. The value of this exercise
may be greatly extended as the child grows older,
by giving him blocks of various forms and sizes
and guiding him to construct objects, as a bridge
or a doll house or what not, using blocks of
particular forms and sizes for each part of his
structure.
The Apparatus Has No Supernatural
Powers
Some disciples of the Montessori system object
to the use of any of the apparatus in the home.
They say that an untrained parent can not com-
prehend the subtle properties of the apparatus.
They speak as though there were some hidden,
mysterious value about the buttoning or lacing
frames, or the geometrical insets, or the cylinders,
or the sound-boxes, which the layman can not
appreciate.
All enthusiasts are likely to regard the thing
which arouses their enthusiasm in a reverential
light. Kindergartners sometimes speak of the
gifts in a mystical way, as though a child who
used the sphere or cylinder or cube in the kin-
dergarten gained a peculiar spiritual benefit which
he could not secure by using balls or blocks or
various forms outside of the kindergarten. Froe-
bel was a mystic, and he taught his followers that
the kindergarten gifts were keys to all knowledge
and deep spiritual experience, and to this day one
can hear some kindergartners maintain that a
child of five who works with the gifts acquires
a philosophical understanding of the universe
which could not be gained in any other way. Of
course, most kindergartners have abandoned this
view and they now look upon the gifts simply as
useful materials with which to occupy a young
child and give him experience with the character-
istics of different geometrical forms and with their
use in constructive activities. Kindergartners who
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take a rational view of kindergarten work very
well realize that a child may gain all the ex-
perience, insight, and knowledge in his home that
he could gain from the gifts in any kindergarten,
if he had guidance from a parent or brother or
sister who understood how to lead him to ap-
preciate the characteristics and possibilities of the
objects with which he came in contact.
In the same way Montessori teachers who have
recovered from the first feeling of reverence for
the Montessori apparatus realize that there is
nothing supernatural about it. It does not pos-
sess peculiar and mystical value which the ob-
jects of daily life do not possess. A child who
is using the buttoning frame in a Montessori
school is not gaining an)' deeper knowledge of
the world or any clearer spiritual insight than he
would gain if he were buttoning and unbuttoning
his own clothes in his home. When he is testing
different weights in order to develop the kines-
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thetic sense, he is not gaining anything different
from what he would gain in his own home if he
had similar objects and if he were led by his
mother to become sensitive to slight differences
in weight. And so with all the Montessori ap-
paratus ; there is no reason why it should not be
of value in the home and why it can not be used
by a mother to keep her children occupied in an
interesting and profitable manner; to assist them
in gaining ideas of form and weight and color
and to acquire skill in execution, as in buttoning,
lacing, tying bowknots, and so on.
Needless to say, the more skillful the mother
is in leading the child to perceive the precise
characteristics of any form with which he is
working, or to discriminate slight differences in
weight or in color or in sound, the greater will
be the value for the child. The same principle
holds in a Montessori school. Montessori teachers
differ in their ability to use the apparatus to ad-
vance the mental development of their children.
Some are keen students of psychological pro-
cesses and they can assist a child to make fine
discriminations which another teacher who is not
so good a psychologist could not accomplish. So
in the home, some mothers can use the appa-
ratus to greater advantage than others ; but every
mother, no matter how little skill she may possess
in analyzing her child's mental processes and as-
sisting him to gain clear and accurate impressions
of anything with which he is working, would find
the Montessori apparatus of greater value than
not to have anything like it in the home.
What the Real Value Is in the System
A parent who becomes familiar with the Mon-
tessori system of education gives his children
larger freedom to work out their own plans than
he would naturally do. Most parents interfere
too much with their children's activities. They do
too many things for them.* Normal children
wish to do everything possible for themselves;
but parents often think they are so small they
need help, or they take so much time to do any-
thing that they can not wait for them, or they
make such a "mess" of much that they try to do
that it will save time and worry and trouble to
do it for them. The Montessori philosophy is
diametrically opposed to all this. It maintains
that the only way a child can learn is to be self-
active. Parents often proceed as if, should they
prevent their children from doing anything while
they are children, they will somehow acquire
knowledge and ability and resourcefulness when
they become mature. This is the chief defect in
parental methods of training children.
• If they have not yet been read, the two articles. "The
Importance of Self-Help," by Dr. Montessori, page 294, and
"Seif-Making," by Susan E. Blow, page 354, may be read
now. -Mso Dr. Kilpatrick's article. "What Has the .Ameri-
can Kindergarten to Learn from Montessori?" page 432.
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VII. THE INSTINCT FOR COLLECTING
The love of repetition, that children at this age
show in the folk-rhymes and tales that have been
nursery favorites for generations, is shown as
well in their love of accumulating like objects of
all sorts. It is shown also in their self-made
games in which some movement is repeated over
and over again.
This tendency is seen most clearly in the baby
days, when all sorts of clutching, shaking, reach-
ing, dropping, and picking up is playfully prac-
ticed. This "try-try-again" play is as necessary
for getting control of the body now as it was in
earlier infancy, but in more developed and com-
plicated ways.
Nature takes this way of giving the little human
being a control of his movements, and still further
of acquiring a stock of ideas as to how things
behave as they are shaken, dropped, and banged.
Occupations for the three-year-old must allow for
this tendency and utilize it. The stringing of the
colored wooden beads is one method. It is fasci-
nating to a child to see the bead glide down the
string, his color sense is satisfied, and he can
choose the color or form that he wants. The
repetition is Jike a game ; -the string grows longer
and longer through his own industry.
I remember the intense desire my little girl
had at three years for "more" of everything. I
noticed it first in her wish for more and yet more
spools. I hunted up all I could find, begged some
from a friend, and finally a sympathetic aunt not
only gathered a great stock of them but stained
them in bright colors as well, sending them with
this inscription, "In order that Olive's desire for
'a collection' may be satisfied." For a long time
these were the favorites among her playthings.
She built fences, chimneys, and houses of dit^er-
ent colors.
A similar joy came from a box of porcelain
tiles in red, green, and white, left from a mantel.
A kindergartner found a bo.x; of small square tiles
in two colors just as attractive to the large group
of babies in her public kindergarten. These were
such as are used in tiled floors. They are not
as breakable as porcelain and so are much better.
So strong was this feeling for collecting in my
own daughter's mind that she seldom acquired a
cast-off bottle-stopper, cork, box, button, or like
piece of "junk" without immediately wondering
where she could find more of the same kind. The
word "more," which was almost the first one she
learned, came to be an index .to her dominating
desire at one period until she came to be known
by her father as "Oliver Twist."
We made use of the instinct in our walks in
the grove, where we picked up acorns, pebbles,
rock fragments, pretty bits of moss, leaves, and
empty snail shells. The finding of one was al-
ways the incentive to look for more. I always
gave her the correct name for each treasure.
For example, our soil abounded in both mica and
quartz. Some of the latter was in bits of the
shape and color of bacon, known on this account
as "bacon quartz." This name gave her a great
deal of pleasure, as she recognized the likeness.
As for the mica, we were pleased with its shini-
ness and flakiness, and were rivals -in finding a
bigger and yet bigger piece, accumulating finally
a bo.x of it.
Her interest may be imagined when two years
later we passed an old mica mine on the road
and clambered a little way down this hole, where
we broke off great chunks of the mineral in
enormous plates.
What to do with these collections is the next
question. If a shelf can be given up to them,
they may be sorted in boxes, to be used whenever
they fit into a larger play. Bits of looking-glass
serve as lakes in the sand-table. Moss makes
good doll beds. Smooth round pebbles are good
for cakes on the doll-table, and to outline flower
beds, heaped and rounded on the sand-table;
round oak balls make play footballs on the mimic
playground that is arranged by Mother and kiddie
at some time when Mother can give herself up to
playing for a few minutes. We found that a
bit of pine bark could be easily bored through
with a bodkin, and then a little stick set up in
the hole made of it a boat. The curving pieces
made doll cradles.
A flock of pigeons dropped so many wing-
feathers in our path from time to time that we
gathered enough to sew on a band for an Indian
head-dress. In these and many other ways we
made the interest in collections contribute to other
occupations.*
* Whenever the child begins to be interested in the things
which he has "made," it is well to stretch a piece of canvas
from the picture molding to the mop-board in some conven-
ient s|>ace in the nursery. A strip of new muslin would per-
haps answer the purpose. When space is extremely limited,
it is possible to mount the cloth on a window-shade roller,
or even use a window-shade as the cloth. The roller should
be mounted on brackets on a door, if necessary, and the
entire surface can be rolled up and be quite inconspicuous,
if not entirely removed, when not in use.
A few square feet of blackboard-cloth can be attached to
this canvas or shade, and is very useful, not only in giving
children occupation, but as a means of development. This
is a space on which may be pinned things which the child
wishes to keep: for instance, when with a blunt pair of scis-
sors a child first begins to cut out pictures, a creditable
effort may be fastened here. This pleases the little one and
acts as an encouragement.
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VIII. STRINGING BEADS
Did you ever string popcorn and cranberries for
Christmas-tree decoration? Or make daisy and
sweet-clover chains, or fragile necklaces of pine-
needles?
These are traditional with children. Bead-
stringing is in the same class. It is provided for
in the kindergarten supply- stores, by wooden
beads in three shapes— balls, cubes, and cylin-
ders. They are painted in the six prismatic
colors. Shoestrings serve to string them on.
Many different arrangements may be made: on
the basis of form, all balls first, then all of an-
other shape, then the third. Or, you may make
a number-grouping, two of each, or three of each
kind.
Stringing by color is usually done 'best by hav-
ing the children sort the beads into different
boxes by color, and then choose an arrangement,
such as two red, two blue, two red, two blue. Or
they may use three colors or more. The string
can be worn as a necklace for a while and then
unstrung, ready for another time.
By far the prettiest necklaces, although more
sober in tone, are those made of seeds.
Corn — red, yellow, white, black Mexican — is
really gay. Pumpkin, squash, and melon-seeds
are pretty in shape. Alternated with red rose-
hips they are gay, too. Corn, peas, and apple-
seeds need to be soaked in warm water a while
to make them soft enough to pierce with the
needle.
Yellow oat-straw may be soaked and cut into
half-inch lengths to alternate with any of these.
I have seen curtains made for windows by
hanging these strings close together. It is nec-
essary to help the children find the way to put
the needle through the seed at the best point.
Then, with a strong thread and needle not too
large, they will be happy alone.
One of the good features of this play is the
study of the seeds in gathering them, cleaning
them, and noticing how they are borne on the
mother stalk. Corn is in rows, beans are in a
pod, melon and pumpkin-seeds are in the heart,
attached by long strands to the inside of the
glowing globe. Let them help you dean and
dry them.
Strips of paper about a third of an inch wide
pasted into rings and looped together have always
been an occupation for the youngest children in
the kindergarten. It has been "overworked"
there, but I would not condemn it on that account.
We made the links of the chain this year in gold
and red to trim our tree, in place of tinsel.
IX. DRAWING AND COLORING
All children go through a scribble stage in draw-
ing. In it the enjoyment, like that of their play
in blocks, sand, clay, and cuttings, is largely
pleasure in their own movement. Their joy in
the marks made has not much to do with picture-
making. By and by it dawns upon them that the
moving arm makes the trailing line go in certain
differing directions, round and round, back and
forth, up and down.
The next step is like the one already described
in modeling; an accidental picture is made. Then
he tries to get the resemblance again and again.
Not very successful, nevertheless he is started on
a new road, that of choosing certain movements
to get certain results which he foresees.
He has learned that the wonderful things that
others draw for him are not the results of some
mysterious hocus-pocus, but are produced by some
such purposeful guidance of the pencil as he
himself is now striving after. Gradually he
learns to tell his ideas of things in simple out-
lines: a circle with two downward strokes for
legs is a man, a "peaky" roof and two downright
lines are a house. The four-year-old is usually
in this stage of the drawing art.
Do not he afraid to exercise your own slender
skill for your children. It will be a great incen-
tive to them to try their own. Suppose you have
told them the old tale of the Three Little Pigs.
Draw for them the straw house, the brush house,
and the brick house ; or the three beds of the
three bears, for which three lines each will suf-
fice. Remember it is the story aspect of the pic-
tures that a child delights in. Let your pencil
talk, saying, for instance, "Here is a man, here
is a dog following him. Here is a bone the dog
finds. Now they are going over this bridge.
Here is their house," etc. In this you will en-
large his power of representing what he has seen
in lines, just as you improved his speech through
imitation.
Other Steps in Drawing
After the simplest outline stage, the third stage
in drawing is in added detail. Bodies now inter-
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vene where earlier the legs sprouted directly from
the head. Buttons on coats, eyes and mouths in
faces, fingers on ends of arms, hats on heads,
chimneys on houses, and similar details are signs
of progress.
It will be noticed that these items are all con-
nected with use. Buttons fasten coats, hands are
to grasp with. Steps lead up and one enters
houses by them, and so on. But still we, as the
children themselves, should not be too fastidious
in our demands for grace or likeness in their
productions.
Materials for Practice in Drawing
Nothing is so productive of freedom in the
use of line as blackboard drawing. The arm
swings freely across it. The eyes and fingers
are not strained by too fine motions. It is easy
to get a blackboard in a toy or department store.
School and kindergarten supply-stores carry
them, and also slated canvas to tack on the wall.
A green prepared board is to be had that is much
more pleasant to the eye than black. This may
be bought by the square foot.
Since the free-arm movement is the easiest,
the surest, and the one demanded by most writ-
ing teachers, it is important to begin with it, not
with a finger-movement that will have to be un-
learned in schools. So, Mother, give your young-
ster large, soft pencils and large sheets of cheap
paper, or better, a blackboard, and see that he
does not grip crayon or pencil with tense finger
muscles.
I used to enjoy the babies of the kindergarten
at play with the chalk and blackboard. Francis
used to amuse himself while waiting for his
mother to come for him by traveling the length
of the long board, leaving "trolley wires" in his
wake. Then he drew up-and-down marks at in-
tervals, which I interpreted to be poles; later he
added more horizontal lines for tracks. So far
he was partly enjoying his power of making long
lines, and exercising his legs in walking back and
forth. One day this ceased and he toilsomely
drew an oblong on one of the lower lines and
carefully traced a slanting line to connect it with
the upper line. This was, of course, a trolley-
car. And as his mother and I knew, this was his
first piece of real drawing.
Encourage all such developments ; talk with
children about their drawings, and listen to what
they tell you. Dratv for and zmth them.
Stick-laying has been much used in kindergar-
tens as a kind of drawing. But the sticks were
too small to be handled readily and so light as
to be displaced by even a snee::e. Hasty move-
ments effaced the work and led to irritation, yet
certain results were pleasing and definite in
outline. Long slats may be used in the same way
on the floor to outline tents, houses, fences, and
railroad tracks, or to suggest marching soldiers,
trees, and other things.
This is good for an occasional employment.
Cutting Pictures
One of the constant delights of children is
cutting. Just to see the scissors snip off bit after
bit and to look curiously and see if by chance
each piece may mean something, this is the main
purpose at first. Then it dawns on the cutter
that a turn of the wrist will make a piece of
a certain shape, and the use of scissors as a
picture-making tool begins. The process of draw-
ing with the scissors is described further in the
next section, and as some of the suggestions may
fit in here, the interested reader is referred to it.
Cutting out pictures from the advertising pages
of magazines may be made very delightful, if you
will let the children make a temporary art-gallery
on the nursery-door. A three-year-old nephew
used to do this with a large varnish-brush and a
dish of water as tools. I used to find the door
plastered over, as high as he could reach, with
the pictures that most took his fancy. Of course
they peeled off by bedtime, but that did not mat-
ter. It was the doing that he was after.
The cutting is of course roughly done, and for
that reason it is just as well not to place them
in a scrapbook permanently ; meanwhile the rough
cutting is a training for later, more accurate use
of scissors.
Paper Color-Forms
The three-year-old child is lacking in the mus~
cular control that is needed to manage water-
colors with any degree of skill ; moreover, his
ideas of form are still so undeveloped that simple
drawing answers better to express his picture of
most objects.
But the love of color is strong, and may be
satisfied and trained in other ways. The rather
heavy kindergarten colored papers lend them-
selves to cutting and pasting. Colored crayons
are useful to draw with or to use in coloring
printed pictures.
Here is a device that I have used to good effect.
Give a child a sheet of manila paper and three
strips of brown or black paper, one long and two
shorter of equal length. Ask him if he can lay
a picture of a table with these strips. When this
is done let him paste each strip in position. Give
him some pieces of red, yellow, and orange paper,
on which you have drawn the outlines of apples,
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pears, oranges, and liananas. which are ready to
cut out and put on the table.
A piece of brown wrapping-paper may be cut
in the shape of a dish and the fruit cut out and
pasted in it.
Draw a large tree with brown crayon on a
piece of smooth wrapping pa-per, fasten it to the
wall or door with thumbtacks, or to a drawing
board. Give the children red apples of smaller
size to paste on the tree. Draw or cut a big
basket under the tree and let them "fill" it with
fruit.
When the leaves are turning red and yellow
the same plan could be used for making a picture
of the maple and oak tree. You can cut quanti-
ties of leaves at once on a folded piece of colored
paper.
Cut bluebirds from some model that you may
find in a magazine. Let the children paste these,
as if flying through the sky, hopping on the
ground, perched on a bough of the tree, which
has been drawn for them on a big sheet of paper.
For special occasions, these bluebirds may be
strung on black thread and festooned, as if flying
across the room.
You can outline birds, children, roses, sunflow-
ers, pumpkins, houses, and what not, on wrapping
or straw-colored manila drawing paper and let
the children crayon them. Of course they will
scribble outside the lines, but when they have cut
them out, these blemishes may be snipped away.
A bird-l>ook is a great delight to children be-
cause of the colored plates. They can look these
through before choosing their colors.
Other Pleasant Color-Experiences
Blowing bubbles* is another familiar nursery
occupation that needs only to be named ; the clay
pipe of our own childhood is now replaced by
a fine varnished wooden toy, that in its turn may
easily be replaced by the simple device of a spool,
on one end of which Ivory soap has been rubbed,
to assist the bubbles easily to emerge. An oil-
cloth apron is a good protection for the dress,
and it may be used in clay-modeling as well.
A prism hung in a sunny window gives pure
color. Set it dancing and let the babies try to
catch it. Many a time a kindergarten baby has
come to me with fat hands tightly clasped, sure
that he has it fast, only to find it gone when the
hands were carefully opened.
X. MUSIC AND RHYTHM
Music supplies something that nothing else can
replace. It charms, rests, and invigorates. The
two factors that contribute to a child's musical
sense are his native impulse to croon — to invent
little melodies of his own, and the impulse to
imitate sounds made by others, just as he learns
speech. The teaching of both singing and piano-
music to-day makes use of both these impulses,
invention and imitation.
We would do much to cultivate the musical
sense in children if we would Ijegin early to sing
short phrases, which they can answer like an
echo. Your little girl calls, "Mamma, I want you."
Answer:
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Yes, my dear, Here I am.
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There are scores of these tuneful dialog^ues that
any ordinarily musical person can invent on the
spot. Frequent dropping into these melodious
conversations would make musical phrases as nat-
ural a form of expression as speech alone.
In carrying out this suggestion, use the simplest
scale fragments. If you will think of the octave
as the body of the scale, the first, third, fifth, and
eighth tones are the backbone on which the other
tones depend. These make what is called the
common chord when sounded together. When
sounded successively they make an arpeggio.
Come to me. Come to me.
* The following method of preparing the soapy water is
excellent:
Put into a pint bottle two ounces of best Castile soap, cut
into thin shavings, and fill the bottle with cold water which
has been first boiled and then left to cool. Shake well to-
gether and allow the bottle to stand until the upper part of
the solution is clear. Decant now this clear solution of two
parts, adding one part glycerine, and you will have an ideal
soap-bubble mixture. With some practice, bubbles measuring
eight or ten inches in diameter may be produced and a
stand for them be provided by soaping the edge of a
tumbler. If any woolen material is laid on the floor and
the room divided into halves by a shawl or blanket hung
across, the children may be arranged in two opposing camps
and have a very good match game, devising their own rules
as to size and number of bubbles, whether they shall be kept
in the air by fanning, how much it shall count if a bubble
falls or strays across the line, etc.
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Emphasis on these helps to give a firm grasp of
the foundation of all tunes. They are most easily
heard and reproduced.
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The scale may be broken into two fragments,
each of which is a unit in itself. Practicing on
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A favorite game in some kindergartens is to
sing tones in imitation of chimes. The teacher
leads and the children try to imitate her exactly,
using intervals similar to those given with the
word above. Numbering the tones of the octave
sing, 1-3-5-8 — 8-5-3-1. To the same succession
sing "la-la-la-la-," or "I0-I0-I0-I0-."
The Child-Voice
Children's voices have a narrow range. What
is a comfortable tone for a grown person may
be too high or too low for a child. The average
person pitches a song too low for children. It
is a strain on the vocal cords to sing out of a
comfortable range. Songs that range from mid-
dle C to F above the second C are safe, provided
there are no long-sustained notes at either of
these extremes.
effect on the throat organs. All kinds of vocal
faults show up when it is indulged in. It is
painful to listen to much of the singing in day-
schools and Sunday-schools. It is so harsh and
tense that one is reminded of the Irishman's
reply to someone who asked him if he sang by
note. "Well, no," he replied, "mostly I sings by
main for-rce. '
Exercises in Rhythm
There is nothing deeper, more primitive, in the
range of human instinct than the feeling for
rhythm. The savage's tom-tom sways the line
of dusky dancers : the mother's rocking-chair
soothes both her tired self and her baby; the
weary business man steps alertly when a strain
of martial music drifts down the street. It is a
steadying, a soothing, or an arousing force, ac-
cording to the character of its pulsing. But it is
as an organising influence that it is valuable to
a group of children.
When they have been playing together for a
time, the conflict of plans begins to irritate tired
brains. They find it hard to compromise and
agree. Then it is a great rest to the immature
little citizens to have the burden of self-govern-
ment lifted from them for a space. If you hear
jarring sounds growing louder and more fre-
quent in the nursery or playground, try going to
the piano and playing something in spirited
march time. Then call to them to march, under
the leadership of the one best fitted to be captain,
round the room once or twice, out into the hall,
around the dining-room, and back to you.
They may march on tiptoe, with a change of
music if you can manage it ; then on heels for a
little way. Change to a waltz time for a running
step ; a two-four time will do, but the run is a
little more light to three-four time.
Institute a band and let all be drummers clap-
ping to your music. Change the time from one.
two, three, four, to ONE, two, ONE, two. See
who can clap loud on the strong beat and soft
on the weak beat. Let them play imaginary
bugles to a familiar song, following the tune with
their voices.
Change to a soft lullaby and let them sway to
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the pulsation, like trees in the wind. End with
"Rock-a-by, Baby, in the Tree-top." Hands may
shape nests to swing at the ends of branches —
and here is a good stopping-place, for by this
time the current of their thoughts has been
changed. And a little lesson in rhythm has been
painlessly administered.*
Song-Singing t
The ideal song for a little child is one of but
two or four lines set to a very simple melody.
Most songs are too long. Excellent examples
are found in Neidlinger's "Small Songs for Small
Singers," and in the Primer and First Book of
both the Modern Music Series and the Eleanor
Smith Series of school song-books. An unusually
good collection for home use in the nursery is
the one by Miss Emilie Poulsson and Miss Eleanor
Smith, which is exactly what its title indicates,
"Songs for a Little Child's Day."
No attempts should be made to have a child
sing any song or phrase until he is quite familiar
with it from hearing it sung. Most children will
chime in here and there, when they have been
sung to and have absorbed the musical and ver-
bal ideas. Then it is time to take pains to have
them sing with and after you. Many children
cannot reproduce intonations accurately at this
age, and appear to be tone-deaf, when really the
perception of pitch has not been formed from
lack of hearing enough simple melody. The ap-
preciation of the "Upness and Downness" of
pitch will only come through much hearing of
simple songs simply and clearly sung. This is
one of the most notable lacks in our American
homes to-day. Children are as dependent upon
their elders- for musical language as they are for
a grasp of the spoken word. This mastery of
musical phrases will come only through imitation,
just as speech came.
The pity of this scarcity of true music in the
home is that it leaves children a prey to the fear-
fully meager common music heard on the street,
at the movies often, and alas ! on the phonograph
at home. A revival of folk-songs and folk-
* In vol. VI of the Bookshexf, Mr. Baltzell has taken
considerable pains to show just how to play these simple
action-songs.
t The songs in vol. VI of the Bookshelf for little chil-
dren are based upon a selection made by a special Committee
of the International Kindergarten Union.
singing will be the best means to introduce musi-
cal ideas and lay the foundation for good taste
in the home.
An illustration from our own home shows how
sensitive very little children may be to the spirit
and character of the music they hear often.
I had been accustomed to put our little girl in
a high-chair at the piano from the time she was
eighteen months old, to keep her entertained at
meal-times, as she had no nurse, and this was
the most effective way of disposing of the young
lady. I could watch her through the open door
between the living- and dining-rooms. This was
possible without harm to her musical sense or
the piano either, for she never pounded and had
no love of discord. The result was that she
soon found pleasant little chords and melodies,
and at three would repeat some of them for her
own delight. I paid no attention to teaching her,
merely approving when the result was especially
good. At four years she noticed that she could
find a harmonizing tone with the left hand in the
bass. As she had seen that older people played
with both hands, this gave her a feeling of being
much more real in her imitative way of "playing."
One day she called me to hear what she could
do. Playing grave chord with the right hand with
the proper first and then fifth in the bass in a
slow four-four time, she said, "Listen, Mamma,
this is a church tune." Then changing to a
lively "jig-a- jig-jig, and tum-a-tum-tum," she
turned to me with a radiant face, saying, "Now
do you know what that is ? It's a Sunday-school
song !"
The commentary on the class of music heard
in Sunday-school was as sad as it was true. I
feared for a long time that her taste would be
vitiated by the frequent (weekly) hearing of this
class of music, but fortunately she has had enough
of the antidote to reject the sentimental and
vapid, and in most cases to prefer the best.
Let me repeat, for it can not be too strongly
emphasized, if you would have your children sing,
sing to them; if you would have them love the
best, sing the best. And the best is often found
in the old English, Irish, Scotch, and German
folk-songs, such as we all ought to know. "Afinie
Laurie," "Robin Adair," "Comin' Thro' the Rye,"
"The Low-Backed Car," "The Wearin' o' the
Green," are all fair examples.
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XI. LITERATURE FOR KINDERGARTEN CHILDREN*
ARRANGED BY THE EDITORS
Stories and rhymes are the literature, the art of
language, for children of kindergarten age. To
appreciate good literature means to enjoy one of
the highest products of civilization, a product
which is the result of the high development of
capacities which raise man above the brute — im-
agination and verbal expression.
General Aims
To give pleasure, and in giving pleasure to
develop appreciation of good literature.
To rouse the imagination and the desire to
create through verbal form or through dramatic
representation.
Specific Aims
To develop control of verbal expression by
supplying a choice vocabulary and by giving
a model of art-form.
To suggest lines of action which will appeal to
the child and which he will produce dramatically,
carrying his imagination over into situations
which he has not actually experienced.
To promote high ideals: I. Through stories of
humorous situations. The lower orders of man
enjoy unusual situations, even if these bring dis-
comfort to another. The ideal humor provokes
laughter by harmless surprise.
2. Through stories which interpret a child's ex-
perience. The significant in the child's own expe-
rience can be isolated and emphasized or shown
in its proper relations by means of a story.
3. Through stories of moral purpose which
give models for ways of acting. The moral should
never be stated ; if it is not indicated obviously
enough for the child to interpret for himself, the
story is weak.
Subject-Matter
The real subject-matter of a story is the atti-
tude toward the world which is emphasized by
the activity of the characters in the story; it is
the emotional response evoked in the listener.
Stories may relate very directly to the mood
which is to be roused. "The Night Before Christ-
mas" will be told at Christmas-time, because it is
the interpretation of this experience given in
literary form. "The Old Woman and Her Pig"
typifies the idea of sequence, and should be told
when the children are engaged in activities which
may exemplify the idea of interdependence.
Stories for older children may be classified as
myths, hero-tales, fables, fairy-tales, humorous
and interpretative stories. There are only a few
stories for children of kindergarten age that can
be placed under the first three headings. A sim-
ple myth which may be told is that of "Little
Red Riding Hood." The stories that serve the
same purpose as the hero-tales are simple inter-
pretative stories of good children, such as "Busy
Kitty, or How Cedric Saved His Kitten." In
only a few of the well-known fables is the mean-
ing evident enough to make them interesting at
this age; such are "The Hare and- the Tortoise,"
"The North Wind and the Sun," and "The Lion
and the Mouse."
Most of the stories told in the kindergarten
may be classified under the last three headings —
fairy-tales, humorous stories, and interpretative
stories. The best fairy-stories should be told
often. The child realizes the irresponsibility, the
unreality of the characters, and he enjoys the
play of the unhampered imagination. He does
not take the characters as models upon which to
base his ideals of right and wrong.
The humorous story generally gains its dis-
tinctive character by the unusual response of
some person in a familiar situation, or perhaps
by the change of tone of the story-teller. It
should never involve appreciable discomfo t to
anyone; in the "Gingerbread Boy" the pr( lica-
ment creates humor, because it is the little man
himself who calls out, "I'm all gone !" Such
stories should never be adapted to convey an
ethical meaning: they are intended for pure
humor.
In the stories that deal with situations of
everyday life, there should be no subtle, ethical
complication, but an evident struggle of right
and wrong, with the right always triumphant.
The story which is told for the evident pur-
pose of instruction has small place in any cur-
riculum.
Stories should occasionally be read to the chil-
dren.- A story-teller's dramatic manner aids in
As Mrs. Newell has not treated this suhject, we have found nothing more helpful for this important purpose than to
condense the special report that was made not long ago to the International Kinde.-garten .Xssociation by its Committee on
Subject-Matter and Method. Together with this should be read the list of "Fifty Best Kindergarten and Primary Stories,"
on page 328.
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holding the child's attention, but sometimes his
attention should be centered directly upon the
story itself. At such times the story should be
read, as the personality of the reader is not felt
as much as that of a story-teller. Stories that
depend for much of their attraction on their
peculiar phrasing can be chosen for reading,
good for this purpose.
Choice of Language
The language used in telling a story should be
suitable to the theme of the story. The fable
should be given in concise, terse language, the
fairy-tale in beautiful, flowing language. For
children of kindergarten age there should be
little descriptive detail ; the action should be
rapid. Repetition of rhythmical phrases is much
enjoyed at this time.
The stories from world literature should never
be simplified to any appreciable e.xtent. It is
better to wait until a child is able to appreciate
the thought given, in a style suited to the sub-
ject, rather than to lower its value by omitting
the shades of meaning which are part of its
beauty and strength. There are good stories
well adapted to each age ; so that it is not neces-
sary to give a weak version of what will later
be enjoyed in a perfect form. Stories sometimes
weakened to adapt them to kindergarten children
are "Siegfried," "King Arthur," "Persephone,"
"The Golden Touch."
Good Form
Stories should have a definite plot, with intro-
duction, complication, climax, and ending. The
principal characters should stand out distinctly
and all the rest be merely a setting. Little chil-
dren enjoy particularly the repetition of a plot
showing the principal characters in contrast, as
in "Little One Eye, Two Eyes, and Three Eyes."
THE LITTLE RED APPLE
Once upon a time a little girl was walking under
the trees in the orchard when she saw a round rosy
apple hanging on the bough just over her head.
"Oh, please, rosy apple, come down to me," she
called, but the apple never moved. A little bird
flew through the green leaves and lighted on the
branch where the rosy apple hung. "Please, little
robin, sing to the apple and make it come down to
me," called the little girl. The robin sang and sang,
but the apple never moved. "I'll ask the sun to help
me," thought the little girl. "Please, Mr. Sun. shine
on the rosy apple and make it come down to me,"
she called. The sun shone and shone, he kissed it
first on one cheek and then on the other; but the
apple never moved. Just then a boisterous wind
came blustering by. "Oh, please, Mr. Wind, shake
the rosy apple and make it come down to me," called
the little girl. The wind swayed the tree this way
and that, and down fell the rosy apple right in the
little girl's lap.
Methods in Story-Telling
The number of stories told will depend upon
the development of the children. As a general
rule, some story should be'giveii every day, but
the well-known and well-loved "best literature"
stories should be repeated until the children can
correct if one word is misplaced. In this way
the stories are absorbed and made a vital part
of the child's life, of his imagination, and his
expression.
Children should be encouraged to re-tell the
simpler stories and to reproduce others dramat-
ically. If the children do not readily recall a
story, it is better to re-tell it than to drag the
details from the children.
Children should be encouraged to tell original
stories. These may be very crude, but power
to control imaginative thought and give it verbal
expression comes gradually through e.xercise.
Interpretation of pictures helps the child to de-
velop creative power in story-telling. The fol-
lowing was told by a boy of four, about Millet's
picture entitled "First Step":
Once there was a papa, and mamma, and a baby.
The papa worked all day. and by and by mamma said,
"Papa's coming," Papa took baby up, and they went
in the house and had dinner.
This simple tale follows the laws of good lit-
erary form.
Illustrations, preferably in paper-cutting, may
be made by the children for the stories, songs,
and rhymes. If these are bound together in book-
form, the children will repeat the song or story
to the family.
A story-teller's manner has much to do with
the interest of the story. One who e.xpects to
impress her hearers must believe that the story
is worth telling, that she is giving the highest
and best of the world's thought, and that it can
be imparted in no other way. She must believe
that she can tell it so that the listeners will get
the full value of the story. She must know the
story well, not just memorize the words, but
visualize it clearly. She must know why she
tells it, must know the main point and how to
emphasize it. She must feel and enjoy the story
so much that she will be expressive in tone, face,
and manner.
"My mother has the prettiest tricks
Of words and words and words.
Her talk comes out as smooth and sleek
As breasts of singing birds.
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"She shapes her speech all silver fine,
Because she loves it so ;
And her own eyes begin to shine
To hear her stories grow.
"And if she goes to make a call.
Or out to take a walk,
We leave our work when she returns
And run to hear her talk.
"We had not dreamed that things were so
Of sorrow or of mirth.
Her speech is as a thousand eyes,
Through which we see the earth."
— Anna Hempstead Branch.
The full value of stories and story-telling is
lost when these faults are committed : Telling a
story in a weak, rambling form ; telling so many
stories that none of them is remembered: telling
so few that a taste for them is not formed ; tell-
ing stories that connect with the topic of the pro-
gram instead of those that relate to the need and
development of the child ; telling too many on
the plane of everyday experience; telling stories
that are adapted to older children.
Attainments to be Expected of the
Children
Appreciation of a good short story.
Ability to re-tell several stories, giving princi-
pal incidents in correct sequence.
Ability to create a simple, imaginative story.
Ability to reproduce dramatically several short
stories.
Poems and Rhymes
Mother Goose rhymes are good poetry for lit-
tle children. Each one arouses the emotional re-
action to some typical situation. Children who
are not familiar with Mother Goose should be
given many of these rhymes.
Phrases, rhymes, stanzas, and poems which are
descriptive of situations and which reveal moods
should be given to the children to interpret their
experiences. The difficulty and length of these
will depend upon the development of the children.
Longer poems should be read to the children.
Single lines and stanzas may often be selected
from children's songs for memorization.
BOOKS OF REFERENCE
Bah-EY, Carolyn Sherwin. For the Children's
Hour. Firelight Stories. For the Story-teller.
Stories and Rhymes for a Child. Milton Bradley
Company, Springfield, Mass.
Boston Collection of Stories. Hammett Company,
Boston.
Bryant, Sara Cone. How to Tell Stories to Chil-
dren. Stories to Tell to Children. Stories for the
Littlest One. Houghton Mifflin Company, Boston.
Harrison. Elizabeth. In Story Land. Central Pub-
lishing Company, Chicago.
Hoxie, Jane L. A Kindergarten Story Book.
Milton Bradley Company, Springfield, Mass.
Jacobs, Joseph. English Fairy Tales. G. P. Put-
nam's Sons, New York.
Keyes. Angela M. Stories and Story-telling. D.
Appleton and Company, New York.
Lang, Andrew. Nursery Rhyme Book. Oak Tree
Fairy Book. Longmans, Green and Company, New
York.
Lansing, M. F. Rhymes and Stories. Ginn and
Company. Boston.
Lindsay, Maud. Mother Stories. More Mother
Stories. Milton Bradley Company, Springfield,
Mass.
. A Story Garden. Lothrop, Lee and Shep-
ard Company, Boston.
Mabie, Hamilton Wright. Fairy Tales Every Child
Should Know. Doubleday, Page and Company,
Garden City, N. Y.
Palmer, Luella A. Play Life in the First Eight
Years. Ginn and Company, Boston.
Poulsson, Emilie. In the Child's World. Mil-
ton Bradley Company, Springfield, Mass.
RicH.\RDS, Laur.\ E. The Golden Windows. Little,
Brown and Company. Boston.
Scudder. Horace. Book of Folk Stories. Houghton
MiiBin Company, Boston.
Stevenson, Robert Louis. A Child's Garden of
\'erses. Charles Scribner's Sons, New York.
Tappan, Eva March. Folk Stories and Tales.
Houghton Mifflin Company, Boston.
Tyndall, Jessie Carr. Memory Gems for Children.
Milton Bradley Company, Springfield, Mass.
Whittier. J. G. Child Life. Houghton Mifflin Com-
pany. Boston.
WiGGiN, Kate Douglas, and Smith, Nora Archi-
bald. The Story Hour. Houghton Mifflin Com-
pany, Boston.
. Pinafore Palace. Doubleday, Page
and Company. Garden City, N. Y.
Posy Ring. Grosset and Dunlap Com-
pany, New York.
Wiltse, Sarah. Kindergarten Stories and Morning
Talks. Ginn and Company, Boston.
"I believe it is our duty to impress upon children 'the
miraculous interestingness' of the common tilings of life. Of
course, we can not do this unless we oxu-selves feel it, and this
is the reason the object lesson usually fails."
— Edna E. Harris.
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XII. WHEN THE CHILDREN ASK QUESTIONS
BY TOE EDITORS
"A question uttered or unexpressed is a prayer for knowledge. The moment when it arises in the soul
should be sacred, almost like that of the hour of visitation of the Holy Ghost to the religious teacher."
— G. Stanley Hall.
A SKILLFUL advertisement, current a few months
ago, pictured a father, seated, tearing his be-
wildered hair, while his children besiege him with
questions. The intimation was that if he would
buy a certain set of books he could forever after
secure^ himself from such a plight. Would that
there were such an assured panacea ! Still bet-
ter would it be if a talking machine could be
invented which, even at the price of a periodic
nickel in the slot, would do the business. Or if
knowledge can be measured like gas, it might be
emitted by the foot. Wisely does Dorothy Can-
field Fisher remark that a "Professional Ques-
tion-Answerer to Children" would make a for-
tune — and earn it, too.
Yours are not the only children who have
driven their parents frantic by questions. In
Doctors Hall and Smith's "Study of Curiosity
and Interest," the following are some of the in-
quiries that were propounded by children under
school age :
"Are black people made of black dust?"
"Where does the stocking go when a hole
comes in it?"
"Am I wound up ? \\'ill I ever run down ?"
"What is inside us that makes us laugh ?"
"Shall I be a mamma when I grow up?"
"Why couldn't George Washington tell a lie?
Couldn't he talk?"
"Where is to-morrow?"
"What is the highest number you can possibly
count?"
"When you sneeze, where does the sneeze go
to?"
Questions a Hopeful Sign
Seriously, though, we all know that if a child
could buy answers to his questions out of a slot-
machine, it would be the worse for him.
Asking questions is the most respectable thing
a child ever does. When he is practicing the
habit he should not face a line of retreating backs,
but a group of pleased and commending relatives.
A child asking questions is giving proof of a
number of gratifying qualities.
In the first place, he is proving that he has a
mind. Animals and imbeciles never ask ques-
tions. Human beings that have stopped growing
ask no questions.
He is proving that he is hospitable to ideas.
This is a rarely fine trait.
Questions Are the Way to Life
The best way to understand your child is to
listen to his interrogations. "A shrewd parent
can learn more from a child's questions," Kirt-
ley says, "than the child can learn from his an-
swers." To test this, quietly note down the next
ten inquiries your young hopeful makes about
any given topic. Your guidance of his whole
future vocation may be wrapped up in them.
What to Do with Questions
The first thing to do with a child's questions
is to sort them out. They fall into three classes:
(l) Thoughtless questions, (2) impossible ques-
tions, and (3) real questions.
There are two ways to deal with thoughtless
questions. One is to regard them as the efforts
of a tired or lonely child to be sociable. \\'hen
a child pours out a stream of inquiries without
waiting for one answer before he propounds an-
other question, what he often wants is just a
little notice or some friendly conversation. Under
such circumstances it is better to engage in a
pleasant chat with him or to tell him a story.
Occasionally, however, the listener may note that
he is getting germs of a real question, in which
case he will treat them as such, by methods ex-
plained below.
Impossible questions include questions that are
unsuitable and questions that nobody can answer.
The only questions that are unsuitable for a child
to ask are those which he is too immature to
comprehend. For I would never say "hush" or
act the coward before any question. But I would
postpone certain answers. If the question is one
that nobody can answer, boldly say, "I don't know.
Nobody knows." Yet even in such a case possi-
bly a clue can be given. A child asks, "Who
made God?" Mrs. Edith Mumford, a sensible
English writer, suggests approaching an answe,'
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by calling the attention of the child to the fact
that just as dresses come from cloth and cloth
from the warehouse and the warehouse gets it
from the factory and the factory from the sheep
— and men can not "make" sheep, so always when
we talk of "making" we are really only "chang-
ing" things, and by and by we get back to some-
thing in Nature that we can not make — face to
face with life and growth.
Dealing with Real Questions
Real questions should be carefully collected.
vSometimes they can not be answered at once.
This is unnecessary, if the child recognizes that
they are being saved for him. One mother jots
inquiries down just as she does her grocery-list
and keeps them for Father's return at night. An-
other has an answering-bee on Sunday afternoon.
Still another has them talked over by the entire
family at table.
The real reasons we parents don't answer ques-
tions more genially is, frankly, because zvc do
not know the answers. And this leads us to quote
the sensible words of Dorothy Canfield Fisher as
to the resources for such answers which are right
at our hands, if we weren't too lazy to use them.
"Take the simplest expedient first. It is aston-
ishing how many questions can be answered, how
much information acquired, and how alertness of
mind can be fostered by the use of a fairly large
dictionary. And yet the average family either
does not own a good dictionary, or consults it
only at rare intervals, to ascertain the spelling
of a difficult word. A child hears the main high-
way spoken of by an elderly person as the 'turn-
pike.' 'Why is it called the "turnpike," Aunt
Sarah?' Aunt Sarah doesn't know, she's sure —
never thought of it before — it just is the turn-
pike. Mother doesn't know, either, but, quickly
turning to good account the stirrings of intellec-
tual curiosity of the child, reaches for the dic-
tionary and with the child looks up the word.
The result is not only an interesting bit of in-
formation acquired, but the historical sense of
the little brain has been improved, and (most
important of all) the habit of persistence in the
search for knowledge has been strengthened and
encouraged. Now notice by what simple means
this was accomplished. Almost anybody, even
the busiest -mother, can find a few minutes in
the course of the day to consult a dictionary.
How to Use a Reference-Set
"Of course, an encyclopedia is a bigger store-
house of knowledge than a dictionary, and though
it costs more, it seems to me that a good ency-
clopedia is almost as necessary an article of fur-
niture as a dining-room table in a home where
children are being brought up. Indeed, it is a
sort of dining-room table, on which is spread a
bounteous feast, open to all who will give them-
selves the trouble to sit down and partake. Cer-
tainly an encyclopedia of some sort is more neces-
sary for grov^'ing children than rugs on the floors
or curtains at the windows.
"But there is only one variety of encyclopedia
that will do. I mean a used set ! Except in its
first newness, a clean, fresh-looking book of ref-
erence is a shame to any family. .\ thumbed,
dog's-eared encyclopedia that opens with a meek
limpness and lies flat open at any page with
broken-back submission is the kind I mean."
Answering One's Own Questions
While clear, intelligible answers are always a
child's due, it is usually better to get the child
to help answer his own questions. Even when
you give a reply, ask the question back to see if
he understands well enough to put his knowledge
into words. The dictionary habit and the ency-
clopedia habit are indispensable to form early, if
one is to keep a questioning child.
But, concludes Mrs. Fisher, although books
are precious mines of information, "they are not
the only, or even the best, educational material
available for the question-answerer at home.
There is much talk nowadays about 'nature-study'
and the value of going straight with the child to
original sources for such study. This is all true.
The excellence of studying trees, flowers, and
insects at first hand can scarcely be exaggerated.
"The principle of question-answering as a
means of education applies to nearly all the ele-
ments of everyday life. Instead of breathing a
sigh of relief when a child's question can be
stifled and silenced by the blanket-answer, 'Oh,
that's the nature of it,' his mother ought to re-
gard each query as another thread in the clue
which, held firmly in his- little hand, will lead him
through the labyrinth of indifference and mental
sloth to conquer and slay the monster, Ignorance.
The Results of Question-Answering
"There are several delightful by-products to
this system of question-answering. One is that
the average mother will find it almost as satis-
factory as the child to gain a knowledge of the
genesis of many of the articles she so commonly
uses and about which she is so ignorant. Another
is the growth on the child's part of a disposition
to use his holidays and leisure time in a rational
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way, wliich will give him lasting satisfaction, in-
stead of always turning instinctively to the idle,
exciting, and profitless frequenting of so-called
places of amusement. Still another, is the habit
of steady and purposeful observation, which is
insensibly acquired by attention given at once
to any chance phenomenon.
"But perhaps the most important result, when
the mother voluntarily assumes the role of pro-
fessional question-answerer, is the intimacy with
her children which is engendered by the habit.
If, hand in hand with them, she has sought out
the reason why milkweed seeds have down on
them, and why a three-legged stool will stand
firmly on uneven ground, it is most likely that
when the moinent comes for an inquiry into the
darker mysteries and disappointments of life, she
may have the poignant satisfaction of feeling her
child's hand reach out instinctively and grasp
hers in the hour of trial. And no greater reward
than this can crown the efforts of a mother's
life."
XIII. THE RELIGION OF A LITTLE CHILD
It has taken the race thousands of years to ar-
rive at the religious ideas that are found in the
highest form in Christianity. We can not expect
to transplant them, as adults apprehend them,
into the minds of little children.
What are they prepared to understand? When
is the right time to teach a child about God?
What can we teach children that will not have
to be unlearned as his mind matures?
These are some of the questions that we have
to face in the religious training of home and
Sunday-school. We know that a wonderful order
reigns throughout the universe. It holds the
stars in their places and governs the form and
growth of every living thing. It is no evasion
of the truth to teach that this ruling Force is
God.
The One Religious Truth to Teach a Child
He who made cares for what He made. He
is wise. He both loves and knows. We are His
children. He loves us. Children love and trust
their fathers. They leave many things to his
judgment and love, knowing he will do what is
best for his children. In like manner, many
things are left to the Heavenly Father, trusting
that He knows, cares, and works.
This is the religious philosophy of a grown
person, stated in childli'.ve terms. It is the best
interpretation of God, that of a loving father to
his children. It is one that can be filled in and
modified as a child grows in knowledge and power
to think. Moreover, it is one that enlists feeling.
Teaching a Little Child to Pray
Prayer is talking to God. It is asking Him
for what we need, and thanking Him for His
gifts to us. It is a natural conception for a child
who both asks and thanks its earthly father.
Children imitate and participate in what grown
people do. This holds true for prayer. It would
be hard for a mother or father to teach a child
to be reverent without at the same time being an
example of reverence.
Mrs. A. wished the thought of God to come to
her little girl in a natural way. The occasion
came when Olive was not yet three years old.
They were visiting, and bedtime had come. Mrs.
A. put Olive to bed, and left her alone as usual,
but when the electric light was switched off, it
left her in sudden and unaccustomed darkness,
for at home there was a gas-jet turned down
burning in the hall throughout the evening. Olive
cried out to her mother that she was afraid to
stay alone in the dark. Her mother told her
there was nothing to be afraid of and left her.
Olive heard dogs barking in the distance, and
called her mother again, giving as a reason for
wanting company that she was afraid the dogs
would get in and bite her. Hearing a train puff-
ing, she was afraid the engine might come in
the house, etc.
No argument would drive away her fears.
Finally Mrs. A. said, "But }-ou are never alone.
Someone is always with you." The baby's inter-
est was excited at once. "Who is it ?" she asked.
Then Mrs. A. told her a story of Someone who
made many things that Olive loved. She re-
minded her of the birds and squirrels that lived
in the trees about their summer cottage, of the
trees themselves, of the flowers that grew about
it, of the grass on which she rolled and played,
and told her that this God, this Heavenly Father,
made them and loved them all. Moreover, he
made Olive and her father and mother, and every
one in the wide world.
The child was absorbed in the story, and at
the end. when her mother said. "He would not let
anything harm you. when He made and loves
you," she seemed satisfied. Then her mother
said, "I can ask Him to take care of you while
I am away. Shall I ?" Olive said, "Yes, ask
Him." After her mother had asked, in a short
prayer, she left the child content.
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The next night when the light was turned
off Olive said, "Talk to God again. Mother."
This was the beginning of the nightly prayers,
followed after a time by the little girl's own pe-
titions for what she wished, and still later by
thanks for her pleasures.
It is good for the mother to thank God in
simple words for things that her child has en-
joyed. God, as the Inspirer of good deeds and
right feelings, can be approached in the same
way; first by the mother, and later the child
herself can make her own prayer. In this way
the prayer becomes not something formal and
artificial, but sincere and natural.*
In addition to these spontaneous prayers in
original wording, there are choice forms of
prayer to be found, some of which follow.
A GRACE AT TABLE
Lord Jesus, be our Holy Guest,
Our morning Joy, our evening Rest;
And with our daily bread impart
Thy love and peace to every heart.
• This simple discussion is supplemented by other papers
in the section on "Moral and Religious Training," in volume
II of this Manual.
MORNING PRAYER
God, Our Father, hear me.
Keep me safe all day.
Let me grow like Jesus,
In the narrow way.
Make me good and gentle.
Kind and loving too.
Pleasing God in all things
That I say or do.
All that makes me happy
Comes from God above ;
So I thank Thee, Father,
For Thy care and love.
EVENING PRAYER
Now I lay me down to sleep,
I pray thee. Lord, my soul to keep.
When in the morning light I wake.
Help me the path of love to take,
And keep the same for Thy dear sake.
A CHILD'S PR.\YER
Be beside me in the light.
Close beside me all the night.
Make me gentle, kind, and true,
Do what mother bids me do,
Help and cheer me when I fret,
And forgive when I forget.
"It makes very little difference what people think about
God if they do not know God." — Una Hunt.
"Where superstitious servants take more interest in the
child's religious hfe than do his parents, we have the child
whose life is darkened by the fear of an omnipotent ogre.
The life of the spirit can not be trusted to the hireling."
— Henry F. Cope.
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XIV. DEVELOPMENTS DURING THE FIFTH YEAR
Physical Development
Although the period of most rapid increase in
weight and height is from birth to two years,
yet each year brings a great accession in growth.
Also the proportions are changing somewhat, the
body being somewhat more slender and the legs
and arms slightly longer in proportion to the
trunk and head than in the earlier years. This
change makes children more agile on their feet
and more disposed to dancing-steps in games.
The growth of fibers of connection in the brain
causes an increase in the power of coordinating
movements, such as are called for in skipping,
which is now easily mastered.
Hurdle-leaping is a game much enjoyed in our
home. The children personate horses in a cir-
cus. An older child or grown person holds a
long stick like a cane horizontally and low enough
for the children to leap over easily and r-aises
it slightly for each successive round until the
limit is, reached. Different gaits are used also,
walking, running, cantering, and trotting (run-
ning with short steps on tiptoe).
Throwing-games with balls and bean-bags are
good fun and good exercise. Tie a barrel-hoop
to swing from the limb of a tree and see who
can throw the ball or bean-bag through it. Place
a box within easy throwing distance and see
how many balls or bags can be thrown in with-
out missing. A football is a splendid plaything
now for both kicking and throwing. A large
ball of denim stuffed with clipped rags is good
for indoor play. A large rubber ball lends it-
self to bouncing against the wall and on the floor.
All that is said of climbing, swinging, and
balancing plays for the three-year-olds holds
good still. The reader is referred again to the
use of simple homemade apparatus, such as the
seesaw, rail for walking, slanting ladder and
horizontal ladder, swing and trapeze, all of which
can be managed in a small yard, porch, or play-
room. (See "Our Home Gymnasium," page 277,
and "Playthings Which the Father Can Make,"
pages 149 and 375,)
Thinking and Questioning
Children at this age are making great efforts
to piece together the unrelated and to get ex-
planations for the puzzling breaks in meanings,
and many mysterious occurrences. Each new
experience has to be fitted in with something
familiar to which it seems drawn. Things must
be made to "square up."
Said four-year-old Francis while taking his
bath, "Mother, why does this water take the
shape of the tub? I lie in it and I don't take
its shape?"
Harlow at the same age leaned a meditative
head on hand when some reference was made
to "last summer," and said
"Was I here last summer?"
"Yes."
"Was I here the summer before that?"
"Yes, you were here then."
"Was I here the summer before that?"
"Yes, that summer too."
"Was there a time when I wasn't here ?"
"Yes."
"Where was I when I wasn't here?"
"Were yon here then ?"
"Was there a time when yo}i were not here?"
"What was here then?"
"Was there a time when God wasn't here?"
This is an example of logical questioning.
Harlow really was curious to know. Questioning
of three-year-old children has no such motive.
They merely question to get an answer, and any
answer will do,. This is the time for stories with
sequence and repetition, like "The Old Woman
and her Pig," and others of the "Little Stories
That Grow Big," in the first volume of the
Bookshelf.
This hunger for knowing more about the mean-
ing of things makes of the child a ceaseless ques-
tioner. He asks questions, not as often as in the
previous year, to get "any answer at all," but out
of a real curiosity. For this reason they deserve
to be answered as clearly as possible.
Keep curiosity alive. It is a great asset. Pity
the child in whom it has been stunted. It is the
source of knowledge.
I have been concerned about a fifteen-year-old
boy in whom it is. to say the least, unawakened,
or perhaps "stunted" would be the right word.
He came from a country home where he had few
if any books or pictures, no stimulus to think or
study, and very little variety in occupation. He
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has never voluntarily looked at a book or picture
since he came to town. Yet there are plenty of
them — current magazines, stories of adventure,
and a wealth of material. But what is more
serrous, he a^ks no questions. Yet he is sur-
rounded by things -th^t are new to him. Even
on long rides into the mountains, which he never
before saw, he gives no signs of wonder.
I tell this to emphasize the enormous advantage
a child has in being a companion of adults who
respond to his questions by answering them or
by asking him some that will make him observe
and think. Children have a right to short cuts to
knowledge from the experiences of older people.
Imitative Learning
Just as in the previous year, the child is "trying
on" the attitudes of those who surround him,
speaking their speech, acting as they act, adopting
as far as he can grasp them the ideas and feelings
of grown people. Let us take ■home this lesson
again, that v,'-e must furnish the best possible
models of courtesy, friendliness, cheerfulness, and
self-control, as well as the more obvious ways
of good English, good enunciation, pleasant voice,
and correct carriage. For nothing escapes the
child's keen observation and the innate tendency to
reproduce.
XV. HOW THE CHILD PLAYS DURING THE FIFTH YEAR
I.N' the previous section we noted a development
in imaginative play. We saw the three-year-old
using a great variety of objects as symbols of
other things, and expanding .these ^suggestions
into plays repeated over and over again. We
also noted the beginnings of constructive play,
in which these chance likenesses are improved
upon by some slight change to make the resem-
blance to the real thing closer.
When this kind of inventiveness becomes
marked, the real kindergarten age of constructive
play has begun. The imagination did all the
transformation in the earlier stage; the tiling was
not changed: now the thing itself is worked upon
by the little player and is outwardly changed to
make it fit more closely his image of the other
thing he sees in it.
Materials need to be chosen now to give this
new power scope. Children are often frustrated
in their attempts to do things by a lack of easily
workable material. "The reach exceeds the
grasp." Tears and temper follow upon the dis-
appointment when failure ends a cherished pur-
suit. Now is the time when a certain degree of
manual skill is a means to an end eagerly sought.
It is a time when knots must be tied and untied,
when scissors are wanted to shape particular,
definite forms, when paste is needed to stick
things together, and now and then bits of cloth
must be sewed together to make a string for an
apron, or to put two pieces of cloth together
for a tent, or for some such purpose.
It is worth while to take a little time here
to teach children to tie knots, lace shoes or
blouses, to hold scissors easily (with the trick of
turning the paper to cut in curves), to hold the
hammer by the end to get more weight in the
blow, to hold a big pencil and swing it round in
curves, to get round effects easily with a big
sweep ; in short, to help children to get control
of the technique of some of the acts that are
needed daily in their attempts to carry on inde-
pendent play-constructions.
Yet in all their work, beware of fine move-
ments that strain the nerves which govern the
movements of eyes and fingers; let us have no
sewing of pricked kindergarten cards, no sewing
with any but big needles, no pinching of small
pencils.
Exactness must not be expected.
The same materials are desirable that were
recommended for the fourth year, but these chil-
dren in the fifth year use them so much more
definitely that additional suggestions are now
made for play with blocks, clay, sand, cutting,
drawing, and painting, as well as making things
from the materials commonly found in every
household.
Companionship, material, and opportunity for
constructive play, these are the great needs of
this period.
Restlessness, mischievousness, fretfulness, all
disappear as if by magic when these conditions
are provided.
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XVI. MORE BUILDING PLAYS
We need offer no apology for continuing the
subject of building as a constant employment for
children throughout the kindergarten age, and
even beyond. Its charm may wane for a sea-
son, but it inevitably returns. One memory re-
mains vivid, of our residence in a junior college
dormitory, when Olive was three years old and
her favorite occupation of building went on often
in her father's study. The big boys who came
for interviews with the President remained to
play with the tiny child and her attractive heap
of blocks. I have often come in to find a couple
of them sprawled upon the floor, vying with each
other in producing the most wojiderful structures,
and lingering until the Presidentess was forced
to shoo them off to study hour.
"What a kindergartner I would have made !"
exclaimed the scholarly professor of mathematics
as he gazed pridefully on a church-belfry adorned
with tower and turret, built from these same
blocks, forgetting that the kindergartner is an
artist in children more than in architecture. For
this is the art of it, — to give the touch here and
there that will direct, without seeming to dictate,
the activity of a little child into the way that
will lead him farther on his voyage of discovery.
And of course the same is true of the mother,
whose teaching is of necessity (what it should be
ideally) incidental.
What Blocks to Select
The plain cubes, bricks, and long slats of the
three-year-old's play-chest should be supplemented
by more shapes and a larger quantity of blocks.
Cubes cut in halves diagonally and cubes cut in
halves vertically give triangular blocks for gable-
roofing, and square table-like blocks fill in chinks
in many places, while the bricks cut in half along
their length give the square post, column, or
square prism, according as you choose to name
it. It is important to the fitness and fittingncss
of the building that these blocks be exactly pro-
portioned to each other, else they will not sup-
port and maintain the structures evenly, a point
as necessary in building for education as it is
for the contractor's trade.
The wooden peg-lock blocks are good material,
though few four-year-old children have the logic
and foresight needed to adapt them to house-
building. Using the pegs to hold them fast, they
can utilize them in simple structures, merely lay-
ing them like other blocks. They have the good
quality, spoken of in the preceding paragraph, of
being well proportioned.
Happy the child who can possess a chest of
Hennessy blocks, or a couple of boxes of the
enlarged fifth and si.xth kindergarten gifts, which
contain the shapes mentioned above in sufficient
quantity to give two or three children scope in
building at the same time. For, as we know to
our perplexity, the tool or toy that one child
has chosen becomes at that moment the one and
only thing that will satisfy little brother or sister
or visitor of tender years, so strong is the force
of suggestion.
If the nursery can have an outfit of the Hill
blocks, it will be royally equipped with building
material for children of all ages. These last-
named have the advantage of being large and
heavy, and give a distinct weight to be lifted.
This not only affords real muscular exercise, but
makes houses, barns, stores, and what not, large
and stable enough to be lived in by the builders.
Other Building Material
The sense of reality is vastly increased if chil-
dren have other material that, like this, will
make good-sized buildings. Children always love
a little enclosed and roofed-in shelter in which
they can creep. Our home in the foothills has
been the scene of many varieties of such shelters.
Caves have been dug out of side hills, now and
then falling in on the occupants, who emerged
with ears and hair full of clay, but unhurt and
undaunted; huts have been built of brush in the
laurel thickets; gypsy tents have been patched up
from sacking; and just now a large shelter is
being erected from packing-cases and bits of
board. "Real rooms, Mother, one for each of
us," says Olive.
Pieces of wood from three to four feet long
may be laid on one another, pig-pen or corncob
fashion, like an open log-house, and roofed over.
This will not only satisfy the children's desire
to have a house large enough to get into, but will
be invaluable for the physical exercise employed.
Stooping, rising, lifting, arm-stretching, the work
involved gives the finest of muscular training.
Moreover, it has this advantage over ordinary
gymnastics in which the exercise is often half-
hearted: this is done with mind alert and spirits
buoyant. Enthusiasm is high in feeling that
something is being done that is worth while. In
short, the child's whole self is at work.
■When Mother Takes a Hand at Building
"Please come play, too. Mother." It did seem
as if I could not spare the time, but the appeal
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was too heartfelt. So down I dropped, thinking,
"Now we'll see if Mother's one-time kindergart-
ner's skill in showing children better types of
building than they would have found is all we
used to claim for it."
"Let's see if we can make a porch like the one
on the big school building," I said, and I began
to lay the porch floor of bricks, preparatory to
setting up the column-shaped blocks for pillars.
"You pick out enough of the square prisms to
go across this for pillars, and — " "Oh, no,
Mother, not that way. I want to do it another
way. I know exactly what I want to do now."
"But I thought you wanted some help," said I.
"Well, I did, but now I can do this, thank you
just the same." The last remark evidently meant
to soothe Mother's wounded feelings, if so be
she had any.
This kind of experience was so often repeated
during the kindergarten stage of our little girl's
childhood that, as her mother saw, a more fit,
shapely, realistic bit of building grow than her
own grown-up invention could have contrived, a
suspicion, entertained long years before, became
deepened into a conviction — namely, that given
material as shapely as these bricks, tablets, and
columns, and plenty of time and freedom, a child
is his own best teacher in the childish form of
the building art.
Of course, cooperation novir and then was help-
ful, such as the start I gave when I suggested
the school porch. Evidently at that particular
moment she needed a stimulus of this sort. But
the start once given by my suggestion, the method
of arriving at the end in view began to shape
itself at once, and she not only needed no adult
advice, she even shook it off as if it irked her
even to think the way might not be left to her
own finding.
Sometimes it is a help to propound problems
to him like in kind to those he sets for himself,
but with the addition of definiteness of statement,
such as the following:
"See if you can make a fence for your chicken-
yard two bricks long on every side."
"Let's build a chicken-run, the longest one you
can make with eight bricks."
"Lay a dancing-floor, using all these bricks,
and make it square."
"Now let's change it to an oblong one."
"Let's build a lot of chimneys (or towers), the
first one the smallest you can make and the next
one bigger, until you get the tallest one that will
stand."
But in the main the problems evolved from a
child's own impulse to represent that with which
he is familiar are those that stimulate the most
vital thinking.*
The child of this age is an individualist and an
egoist, in the sense that his keenest enjoyment
comes from his sense of personal achievement.
He also sees things with a vivid feeling of their
meaning and but little appreciation of their wide
relationships. The porch alluded to in the para-
graph above may serve as an illustration. Most
children at this time will make some such detail
of a house with great pride and delight, quite
satisfied without any house to go with it. A
pair of steps, a doorway, a room, each is suffi-
cient, standing alone. It either seems to his
imagination complete, a meaning in itself, or else
the house is implied in this part of it, which is
a house-symbol, as it were.
Later, we mark a new development which
grows out of the skill acquired in making these
isolated things; this new sign is that of organ-
ization. A child who has discovered, either by
chance or of a purpose, ways to represent these
features of doorway, steps, porch, and room, soon
gets new pleasure from his power to combine
them into a new whole ; that is, he organizes
them. When this power becomes marked, the
child in question is entering the later kinder-
garten period, dealt with at length in the next
section.
Stories Furnish Themes for Building-Plays
Several of the old folk-tales, that ought to be
in the repertoire of every teacher, owe part of
• The grocery store may be made an individual project,
each child building with Froebelian blocks counters and
shelves, adding cans of fruit and vegetables and glasses of
jelly represented by cylinders of the beads, large and small.
Other material may be used with the blocks as the repre-
sentation and play are carried forward and as the children
discover a need for them. Real fruit, vegetables, and grains
may be used, or clay fruit and vegetables may be made and
ainted, and boxes and baskets constructed to hold these,
lioney may be made, a pocketbook to carry it in, and a de-
livery wagon for the goods. At the approach of the Christ-
mas season the grocery store will be transformed into a toy
shop and decorated and equipped with a large variety of
toys. In the Spring the need for new clothing may lead to
the building and equipping of a dry-goods or department
store.
Another project is laying out the farm, building fences,
constructing the farm buildings, such as the farmer's house,
the barn, the shed, the chicken-house. -An e-xcursion will
be made to a farm if it can be provided for. The morning
will be spent in playing in the hay, feeding the chickens,
and getting as much valuable and happy farm experience as
possible. On the following day the toy farm animals may
be brought out and the child may build with blocks to pro-
vide the animals with proper shelter, water troughs, and
barnyards. Fields, gardens, and perhaps an orchard will be
laid out and fenced in, and gradually a miniature farm will
develop in the sand-table or in one corner of the room.
Here, as in the grocery store, other materials may be com-
bined with the blocks to complete the project. If the ex-
cursion to the farm is not possible, and if a farm visit has
not been a part of the experience, less time will be spent
upon the problem, and_ only those phases of it will be re-
produced in manual activity which seem most interesting and
closest to the child's experience; for example, the construc-
tion of the farmer's wagon bringing the produce into the
grocery store, building a shelter for the toy animals, pro-
viding for feeding and watering the toy animals.
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their charm to the suggestions they contain of
housekeeping. They make good themes for rep-
resentation with blocks.
Using cubes, bricks, and long blocks freely to-
gether, let the children see who can make a
house that the old wolf cannot tear down, though
he "huff and puff" as much as he will.
Snow White and the Seven Little Dwarfs lived
in a cottage with fireplace and dresser to be kept
in order, seven little beds to be made, floor to be
strewed daily with "golden sands." Who can
make the dresser in which Snow White put the
dishes after she had washed them? Who can
lay a floor, and who will make seven little beds
to arrange on it?
The old favorite "Three Bears" has three beds,
three chairs, three bowls, all of "big, middle, and
little sizes," to be imitated. Bowls might be
made of plasteline or clay.
All Making is Solving Problems
I never can decide whether to laugh or to cry
when some parent or teacher refers to the pri-
mary - school curriculum as being "work," in
contradistinction to the kindergarten building, cut-
ting, sewing, and making as "play." The im-
plication is that it is all perfectly easy, requiring
no effort, no concentrated attention, and on the
whole just filling in time until the real business
of school begins, which in its turn gets its value
from being a "preparation for life." And when,
pray, I ask, does living begin?
No; the child who is patiently trying, choosing
a brick now, and a half brick then, to fill some
space, or measuring the side of a half-done en-
closure with his eye, and then selecting enough
of the right length of blocks to fill it, is doing
thinking of a high order. He is setting prob-
lems for himself, and then solving them by the
hour, day after day.
An Instance of Self-Building
While I write, a little four-year-old boy sits on
the floor beside me. He wandered in from a
neighbor's home, and I handed him a box of
blocks of a great many sizes and shapes. He
played without interruption for half an hour;
when I turned around he showed me a little
cannon he had made by balancing a long cylin-
drical block on an axle made of a burned match
stuck between two large button molds for wheels.
Near it was a small house, in which he had
utilized several blocks of different dimensions
very cleverly.
We talked a little about these things, and then
I turned back to my typewriter, leaving him no
suggestion as to what to do next. Becoming
absorbed, I forgot all about the little fellow until,
darkness gathering, I looked at my watch and
found three-quarters of an hour had elapsed.
To my surprise, he was still there, contemplating
with satisfaction a structure of some preten-
sions.
I thought it was a church, seeing a fine portal
with square columns, round columns, and roof,
built in front of the large box, which served as
auditorium. I saw rows of seats within, too;
but no, it was a "movie theater."
I could not help wondering at the shapeliness
of the little building, its fitness, and the evidences
it showed of thought and skill. Here was an
illustration to my hand of this text: the right
viatcrial is a stimithts to creating.
This child, like all others in whom a purpose
is born, knew neither fatigue, nor flight of time,
nor loneliness, but was "possessed" by an idea,
completely lost in working it out. The concen-
trated work meant control, will, persistence. The
preliminary handling of
the various blocks served
to make him acquainted
with their possibilities.
After some experimental
building, he made a door-
way, which some inner
sense told him would be
pretty if the round columns
and square columns were
placed in pairs opposite
each other.
This portal probably sug-
gested the movie theater.
Casting about for some-
thing large enough and hollow, his eye fell on the
empty box. This called in turn for seats. Again
a bit of observation and thinking to pick out the
best blocks for these and to adjust them in two
rows, with an aisle between.
Seeing me still busy, he lay back on the floor
and chatted and hummed his satisfaction until I
turned around. I was impressed by the value
to the youngster of the knowledge gained, the
thinking done, the persistence exercised, the pur-
poseful control; yet when all is said, we must
include the training of the affections.
After all, the best the children get out of some
of their imitative plays lies in this last item. We
overlook the fact that in all the things that sur-
round us, there is a kind of "dearness," coming
from association through use, which constitutes
their meaning, and that these playful makings
deepen and define these feelings.
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XVII. HAMMER AND NAILS
Children get a great deal of pleasure in play-
ing carpenter. There is a sense of reality about
the wooden toy that is lacking in the things of
paper. Odds and ends of lumber, the waste from
BEN'CH-STOP
measured lengths, may be bought cheaply at al-
most any lumber yard. We had a load of this
kind put into our cellar for kindling, and Helen
and I picked out the best of it to make still
more furniture for the doll-house.
Tools
We had a hammer, a bit and brace, borrowed
from father's tool-box. and a saw of her own
with a narrow point. It is a Ball saw, made for
BED
this kind of work. We used the back steps for
a work-bench, .^.t first Helen held the boards
steady while I did the sawing, then she took her
T.\BLE
turn at the saw. Then I made a bench-stop like
the diagram. This helped hold the boards firmly
by bracing them against angle D.
CH.\IR
A and B are two blocks 2x2x4 inches. C
is a block 4x4x1 inches. The stop is shown in
the diagram fitting over the bench or table, X.
We used small wire-nails, but the wrought-iron
finishing nails are better, because they do not
bend so easily under ill-aimed blows.
Some of our bits of board were 2 x J'S-inch
stufif. We cut the wider
stuff into two- and five-
inch lengths ; these
worked up into table-
Jops, bottoms of beds,
piano-backs, etc. The
square-ended stutif we
cut into one- and two-
inch lengths for legs.
The furniture was
rather rough and home-
ly, and w-e decided to
use a small plane to
smooth the pieces the
next time. For these
we used coarse sand-
paper. Some we stained mahogany-color, some
oak. White enamel paint would make the bed-
room furniture really pretty.
We planned to go to a carpenter-shop and or-
der poplar stock one-third of an inch thick, and
make some furniture for her little cousins. This
material is soft enough to work easily, and has
a good grain and color.
Wagons
Materials; Cigar box and four flat tape-spools,
bits of leather, and wire-nails with good heads.
Place wheels on side of box with hole over edge
of bo.x-bottom. Drive a nail through a bit of
folded leather, put through hole in spool, and
drive into edge of box-bottom. A screw-eye
screwed into front makes a superior fastening
for the string that pulls the wagon. Large but-
ton molds make good wheels, but empty type-
writer-ribbon spools of metal are the best of all.
Sailboat
Materials: Thin (three-eighths-inch) board about
4 X 10 inches. Dowel-rod eight inches long.
Cloth square, 6x6 inches. Tacks. Small screw-
eye. Glue.
Measure end of board. Find point half way
across and place dot. Measure same distance on
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other end. Measure a like distance from corners
down sides of board and dot. Place ruler from
dot at center of end to dot at side of board.
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DIAGRAM OF SAIL BOAT
Draw a line. Repeat on other side and same at
other end. Saw off these two right-angle tri-
angles. Place ruler from point to point of this
board. Draw a line to bisect the angles and con-
nect them. Place a dot on this line three inches
from one end. Bore a hole. Insert dowel-rod
for mast. Glue it in. Cut square cloth in half,
to make two triangles. Fasten one of the straight
edges of one of the triangles to the mast with its
other straight edge parallel with the Ixiat. Tie a
string to the loose corner, and run the string
through a screw-eye near the back of the boat.
Plant Stand
This would make a good Christmas or birth-
day present for some grown person.
Saw a square from a board 6 inches wide. Saw
four cubes from material one-inch square. Nail
or glue the small pieces to the corners of the large
square, to serve as "feet." Four spools might be
used instead of small cubes.
Spools and Their Uses
One day I took Nancy with me to the Red
Cross rooms, and gave her the empty spools to
play with. The manager said we were welcome
to take them home. They made such good build-
ings that I got paint and turpentine and stained
them in bright colors. Nancy used them for col-
umns, gate posts, and organ pipes. With card-
board for floors and roofs, they made ornamental
houses.
One day she made a cupboard that she wanted
to keep, and I showed her how to use liquid
glue, putting it on the ends of the spools with a
match, and then planting the cardboard on top
of it.
XVIII. MAKING THINGS OUT OF PAPER
One of the most profitable occupations for chil-
dren is found in making things out of the odds
and ends that we throw in the trash-basket.
There is in our house a certain low closet shelf,
where we all go to find string, wrapping-paper,
and empty bo.xes. On the shelf above, nails,
tacks, sandpaper, hammer, and saw are in the com-
pany of the paste tube and glue bottle. Here the
children find the materials and tools for many
little toys and constructions.
The most recent demands made on it were for
the construction of scenery for a puppet theater
that Helen and Sara were fitting up. Big sheets
of brown wrapping-paper were wanted, to be
painted to represent a wooded valley. Pasteboard
dress-boxes were used for side scenes, which
Mother helped them cut like great oak trees.
Small boxes were made into cots and tables, and
the ragbag was rummaged for bits of khaki and
scarlet cloth, by which token you may know this
was to be a Red Cross play.
A match-box made an ambulance with big but-
ton molds for wheels. Paper fasteners were
obtained from father's desk to fasten the top to
the body.
Mother offered her best French crayons to color
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the scenes, and when the boys of the neighbor-
hood came around and saw the girls laying on
the color, they wanted to take a hand, quite sure
they could beat the girls at it. Mother indulged
them in more crayon, and soon David and Tommy
and Jack were lying on the porch floor reveling
in brilliant color effects, partly derived from their
"inner consciousness" and partly from the land-
scapes that Mother got down from the wall for
hints on sky and hills.
The best scene was voted on and then the
boys wandered away, bent on their own schemes.
Next, little Jimmy came pattering up the steps in
search of occupation, and to him was offered the
job of putting the ambulance together. Eight-
year-old Helen very patronizingly explained how
he could put a pencil point through the hole in
each button mold, to mark the place for a hole
on the box, where he might punch it with a
sharp-pointed nail ; and how to thrust the fasten-
ers first through the button, then through the
hole, how to bend the points back, etc., etc.
Great fun for little Jimmy and a piece of routine
work shifted from Miss Helen to someone else.
Meanwhile, Mother sat sewing by the window,
thinking what a blessing was that closet shelf
and offering her advice when asked or unasked.
One aspect of this utilization of common things
is that every little bit of string, or paper, or
cloth, or spool, though apparently worthless in
money, has cost many people weary hours of
toil. Helen and I often think of this when we
make a game of hunting a thing down to its
sources, and noting the many hands and processes
through which it has passed. She has come to
realize that even a shoe-box is no despicable
thing.
Once Mother found the tables turned unex-
pectedly on her when she objected to buying
something Helen wanted, because of the price.
The little girl answered, "Why, Mother, I don't
call that expensive. Just think of the people
that have vi'orked on it — the man who sells it,
the people that wove the cloth and dyed it, and
the sheep the wool grew on, and the farmer
that cut it oft' and took care of it. I don't call
that expensive !"
Match-Box Toys
All children love to make something that will
"go." A shop-made wagon will never quite take
the place of one a child has made. The toys
described below can be planned and made by any
youngster with very little help.
The materials needed are : Large-sized match-
boxes of the kind that push open, a sharp-pointed
bodkin, a hatpin or horseshoe nail for punching
holes, brass paper-fasteners or laundry studs,
button molds or milk-bottle tops, liquid glue, string,
and a wire hairpin.
Doll's Perambulator
Place one match-box inside another at right
angles to it, so that the inside one forms the
hood. Glue in place. Punch holes in centers of
four circles. Lay one on side of body of peram-
bulator at front, one at back. Punch hole through
center of circle and box. Put fastener in hole.
Bend back ends of fastener. Punch holes for
hairpin ends to go through for handle-bar. Bend
hairpin and insert.
Train of Cars
Make a series of wagons and fasten them to-
gether with bent pins for couplers. Make engine
of a box with four wheels and a smaller box
glued to back end for cab; spool in front for
smokestack; tiny spools for sand-box and dome.
Milk Wagon
Use a box for body. Hold another upside
down over it, to see where strips may be fastened
at each corner to secure it. Cut four strips about
four inches long and half an inch wide and
glue on the inside to the body, one at each corner.
Invert the other box and glue strips to its cor-
ners, inside. Fasten string in front to pull by.
IVheclbarroii)
Take out one end of a match-box, cut off two
corners from side next it. Glue two strips of
heavy cardboard along sides of box extending
about two inches in front, for handles. Punch
hole in center of bottle-top, thread it on hair-
pin. Punch two holes in sides of box at the
back. Bend hairpin open. Bend ends at right
angles and push them through these holes.
A Delivery Wagon
An automobile delivery wagon can be made
by using the box for body. Loosen one end at
two sides and open in line with bottom of box.
Loosen opposite end at bottom. Cut it down
middle to make two rear doors. Glue a piece of
pasteboard as wide as the bottom of box and four
inches longer to the bottom and the flap that has
been bent down in front. This stiffens it to
hold a smaller box, which can be glued to it on
top. When this is quite dry fasten one pair of
wheels to the back end of body and one pair to
this engine-box. Stick a match through the bot-
tom, slanting upward, with bottle top stuck on
end for steering-wheel. A tiny square pillbox
will make the driver's seat. This is too hard
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for a four-year-old to think out, but if parts are
made ready he will enjoy putting them together.
Folding and Cutting
The kindergarten folding evolved by Froebel
was a device at first to employ his pupils pleas-
antly on rainy afternoons, when they could not
have their customary excursions afield. Later
he developed it elaborately into a long series of
complicated folds— symmetrical ones that made
little designs, and realistic ones that were called
"life-forms."
The life-forms seem most appropriate to little
children and have been added to since his day.
A few are given here. It will be necessary to
have paper cut in accurate squares at first.
Later, accurately cut oblongs can be used to bet-
ter advantage.
The younger children lack the control of eye
and hand to do much folding, for it requires ex-
actness. The forms given below can be done in
rather heavy paper cut 5x5 or 6x6 inches.
It will be noticed that one form grows out of
the preceding, and leads up to another, which
follows from it with but one slight step added.
This fashion of working is in kindergarten par-
lance "sequence." It is a very helpful method
of leading children to overcome difficulties bit by
bit.
Easy Folding, Scries I
One day a group of four children, the babies
of the School of Education Kindergarten, went
into the garden to pick nasturtiums, to carry to
their mothers. I gave each one a paper and
asked them if they could make something of it
to carry the flowers in, so they would not wilt.
They had been given no folding lessons, so the
problem needed some thinking and experiment
on their part.
Fryar pinched his together at each corner into
a dish-shape and asked for paste to make it fast.
Bessie made hers into a roll, open at each end,
and thought she could tuck the flowers inside.
James made a kind of cornucopia of his and
asked for pins to fasten it. Charles could think
of no way, but decided to make his like James'.
Donald folded his square in the middle, making
it in the shape of a book. I was rather pleased
to see them go to work in such direct and origi-
nal ways to meet the difficulty, for it meant think-
ing to make the means at hand meet the end.
The next day they went into the garden to
gather lettuce, and instead of repeating the work
of the day before, I offered to show them how
to make a little basket with a handle, somewhat
in this fashion ;
"Lay your papers on the table. Take the front
edge (the one next to you) and fold it over till
it touches the back edge and lies on top of it.
Press down on the folded side of your paper till
it lies flat. Now use your thumb-nail for a little
tlatiron and smooth this edge
still flatter. Here are two
little squares. If you will r
fold these in half, as you have ]
done this paper, we can paste
it in at the ends of this book-
shaped paper to close them
up. Here is a strip for a handle
you would paste it."
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Show me where
(See Fig. I.)
In this instance I did not show the children
how to make the article until they had felt the
need of it, and had tried to make something that
would fill it in their own way.
Sometimes I would put a finished thing on the
table and say, "Would you like to make one like
this?" and let them find out how to do it. In
cither case they have to do some thinking, which
is good for them. If the thing to be done is in
the nature of putting parts together, as in the
wagons described in a preceding section, it might
be well to put a finished one before them, and
lay the material down for them to build up one
of their own.
Fig. 2 shows the same sized square
folded into a book. Pictures from
magazines may be pasted in it to make
a doll's scrap-book, or it may be cov-
ered with make-believe writing, or pic-
tures can be outlined in it to be colored
liy the children with crayons. It is
easier than the basket, but we needed
the basket.
Fig. 3 is the lower edge
folded to the upper edge, and
the whole opened. We call
it a window. It might be
made of the semi-transparent
paper that cereal packages
are wrapped in and a frame
of thicker paper strips pasted
around it. ^
Fig. 4 is folded by
laying one corner of
the square on the op-
posite one, making a
triangle. It makes a
good shawl for an old-
**" * lady clothes-pin doll.
It is fun to fringe it by snipping slashes round
the edge.
Figs, sa and 5b show something that suggests a
sailboat. Fold window, shawl, shawl made by two
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other opposite corners put together, open, and fold
one corner to touch center.
64 6 b
Figs. 6a and 6b are steps in making an envelope
into which a letter can be tucked.
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Fig. 7 becomes a valentine when
a picture is pasted in the center.
Figs. 8a and 8b are steps in making a pinvvheel.
Cut in heavy lines and pin corners a, b, c, d to
center. Thrust pin in end of rod, as in 8b.
Easy Folding, Scries 11
(Illustration on page 220)
Fold as in Series I, front edge to back, right
to left, making "window." Open. Fold front edge
to meet the crease that runs from right to left
through the center. Same with back edge ( Fig.
2). Turn over and play with as tunnel; stand on
end for cupboard doors (Figs. 3 and 4). Crease
into square chimney (Fig. 5).
Lay on table, doors down. Fold a short end to
meet middle crease, same with opposite end ( Figs.
6 and 7). Turn over for bridge (Fig. 8).
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Suggestions for Play with These Polils
The cupboard may have straight horizontal
lines drawn on it for shelves, with apples, bottles
of jam, etc., drawn on them. Fig. 6 may be
called a toboggan, and made to slide down a
smooth slanting surface. The tunnel may have
toy cars pushed in and out of it, be put in sand-
table as a bridge used over stream in sand. It
may also serve as a chimney glued to a paper
box for a house.
A Good Barn or House
Fold as for bridge. Open (Fig. 9). Mark the
three creases on two opposite sides with pencil.
Cut in marks. Pinch middle crease and lap the
four free squares over each other, two middle ones
first, then end ones. Fig. 10 shows process. Fig.
1 1 shows barn pasted and doors and w^indows
cut out.
This would be a good model for the children
to work out from your finished one with the
marked paper as a guide.
This same foundation will be used in the sixth
year for a set of furniture.
Paper-Cutting
No "made" toys have ever given us so much
pleasure as we got with blunt-pointed scissors
and colored crayons. They were our resource
on several long journeys. We tucked them into
the handbag with a tube of paste, an old maga-
zine and a newspaper to be spread on the floor
of the car to catch the clippings (not to make
the porter too much trouble). Then with cutting
out pictures, coloring them, folding tents, cutting
soldiers in rows, chicken-coops, chickens, and
what not, the time passed wonderfully.
The advertising matter in magazines is full of
pretty things, many of them done by clever,
artists, that can be colored, cut out, and pasted
into scrap-books. Helen and Sara took some
useless official books that had wide margins and
good bindings, and filled them with pictures for
the children's ward in a hospital.
Old department-store catalogs furnish rugs,
furniture, and kitchen utensils as well as paper
ladies for the paper doll-house.
Free-Hand Cutting
Too much cutting out of pictures sometimes
keeps children from becoming independent in
cutting free-hand. They are afraid to launch
out. But at first it is good training simply to
follow a line.
Four-year old Nancy had a struggle to cut
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paper dolls without amputating a limb. * Yester-
day she showed me a family with pardonable
pride. There was not a cripple among them.
That's the result of frequent cutting-bees under
the superintendence of Helen. Now we want to
see Nancy developing some power to make pic-
tares of her own with the scissors.
It takes a good deal of random snipping to
find out that a turn of the wrist will turn the
I give her a long strip of paper and let her paste
it under the house, it will look, when mounted on
a sheet of dark paper, like a bird-house on a pole.
Scraps like wings can be made into flying birds,
and so the picture grows. The same house, with
a snip cut out for a door, looks like a dog-kennel.
A little triangle is like a chicken-coop. If Nancy
can not cut the biddies, I can. Wlien they
are pasted on the paper, I can give her short
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line at will. To-day we will spread a paper on
the floor and when Nancy comes to call, will let
her snip and sec what pictures she can find in
the scraps. Here will be a shoe and here a tent,
and now something that looks like a house. If
* Before construction can be undertaken, control of the
scissors shouhl be gained. The first cutting will be making
little snips, which can be used to fill a pillow for the dolls;
paper may be fringed for rugs and table runners for the
playhouse; table siircads, rugs, and bedding may be cut, and
napkins cut and folded for the playhouse. By this time the
child should have sufficient >:ontrol of the scissors to cut
successfully from the magazines pictures with straight edges.
Strips to lay on the paper for fence-posts and
long ones to lay across for the boards, and so
we have a picture of a yard with bird-house,
dog-kennel, and chicken-coop.
All this is drawing. We are representing
things as they look in outline. As we look at
what we have done (whether by purpose or acci-
dent) we feel its inaccuracies and want to ob-
serve the real thing more closely the next time
we see it. This is the way all drawing, modeling,
and cutting helps observation ; and is the reason
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why high school students of botany are required
to draw the plant-forms they are studying.
Little children in the nursery are studying in
the same way, with this difference : they are in-
terested in the story aspect of their work, and
not much in its accuracy. Nevertheless, their
drawing is not mere amusement. It is training
the eye to see and the hand to carry out.
Additional Suggestions
Let a square be folded in half. Fold one of
the resulting triangles in half, putting sharp
corners together. Draw for child lines from
TRIANGLE
FOLDED AND
MARKED
CHICKEN COOP
folded edge toward longest edge. Cut out strips
on these lines. Open. Result : Chicken-coop,
slatted.
Chicken: Cut a large and
a small circle. Paste one
half-way over the other.
Draw bill and legs.
Cottages: Cut a square
into four small squares, an-
other into triangles. Let the
triangles be pasted on the
squares, making four cot-
tages in a row.
House: Fold a square
in quarters, fold two ad-
jacent corners to the cen-
ter, making outline of
house with roof. Fold
this through center, divid-
ing peak of roof in half.
Cut out oblong for door.
Unfold. Cut little oblong
to make chimney. Paste
on roof.
Apple: Give child a circle or let him cut one.
Curve in one side a little. Make stem and paste
in depression.
HOUSE OPENED
APPLE
E.SKIMO HOUSE
Eskimo house: Give or cut circle. Fold and
cut in half. Cut tiny opening in middle of
straight edge, for doorway.
FOLDED SQU.\RE
SAME FOLDED AND DOOR
MARKED FOR CUTTING
CRESCENT MOON
Crescent Moon: Use other half to shape by
one curving cut.
Christmas Gifts
Calendars can be made by cutting out small
pictures appropriate to Christmas and pasting
them on a card with a small calendar below. The
school supply-houses carry a line of these small
pictures.
The beauty of these depend on the neatness
of the pasting, the color of card and ribbon or
cord used to hang it, and the spacing of picture
and calendar, width of margins, etc. These are
matters for the mother to call to the children's
attention before pasting. Let them experiment
with the arrangement, and then put pencil-marks
on the card to mark corners of picture.
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Pin-trays: Very small picnic plates can be
bought for a few cents a dozen, for children to
decorate with a band of color done in water-
color about the rim. Pictures can be used for
the center.
Blotters: Get a sheet of blotting-paper and
narrow ribbon to harmonize. Lay on it a stiff
blotter of size desired and let child mark round
it and cut out with scissors. Tie several of these
together with ribbon run through slits or holes
punched through the several blotters. A picture
may be pasted on the top one.
A Ball for the Baby: Cut circle two inches in
diameter from a piece of card. Punch out a hole
one-fourth inch in diameter at center. Thread
darning needle with long, double strand of wool.
Sew through hole, bring over edge of card and in
hole again. Repeat until hole is full and circle
thickly padded. Cut along edge of circle. Push
wool back and, separating the two round pieces of
cardboard, introduce a string between them and
tie it firmly around wool at center of circle.
Tear card away and trim ends of wool off to a
well-shaped ball. Of course many strands will
have to be threaded into needle.
Needle-book : Let child draw around some
circular object on a pretty colored piece of tough
cover-paper. Cut out. Use same measure for
wool cloth, mark with chalk. Cut out. Sew
these leaves to the paper circle at one side or
punch holes and fasten them with ribbon.
Penwiper: Make as above, using old cotton-
cloth or pieces from kid gloves for leaves.
There are many more things that a child of
this age might make, but your own invention will
suggest the ones best suited to his needs and
taste. Whatever is done should be so simple that
the work on it will really be in the main the
child's own. Then it will be honestly done and
given.
XIX. MODELING IN THE FIFTH YEAR
This occupation continues to be of absorbing in-
terest, as it was in the previous year, and it is
such an unrivaled training for the sense of form
that it is well to keep the clay jar always in
readiness, or to have on hand one of the modern
substitutes — plasticine or plasteline.
After the very primitive kind of modeling
described for the fourth year, the children will
begin to discover that they can produce like-
nesses to familiar objects and can improve upon
them by repetition. This tendency to repeat
themselves with variations is as fruitful a process
here as are building, and speech, and all other
forms of mastering particular problems.
A little help is advisable now in showing how
to manipulate this plastic material to get results,
just as you would show the manipulation of the
.scissors for getting results in cutting, or the chalk
in blackboard drawing.
What to Model
The answer to this is easy: anything at all that
a child tries to make is legitimate copy. Some
things are easier than others, as we saw in the
motor-play with the clay described earlier. Some
things are more beautiful in form than others,
but it is doubtful if at this age the aesthetic
qualities of form make a very strong appeal.
Let us get our first cue from movement, as we
did earlier. Taking a small lump of clay (large
enough to fill comfortably the hollow in the
palm), roll it round and round as if between
millstones until it begins to look spherical. Of
course, if it is a good ball somebody else will
want to make one, too. It suggests an apple, an
orange, a man's head. Very well, let's make a
man, perhaps like a snowman, built-up head on
trunk, and extended arms, perhaps a rather
flattened gentleman lying supine with legs as
well as arms too weak to hold him up. Very
likely he will have no body at all, but legs and
arms sprouting from the place where his neck
should be. A question in this case as to where
his own arms spring from, an observation of
Mother's own substantial body, or feeling his
playmate's rounded trunk, might be sufficient
direction to cause him to correct his model. If
not, it does not matter; there is ample time com-
ing for these perceptions to grow in definiteness.
If we could only realize this truth, that growth
itself will bring much that we push and strive
for, our relations with children would be far
happier, and their development be quite as sure
and normal.
The normal reaction from attempting to draw,
model, cut, or make in any material, is to look
sharply at the thing we are trying to reproduce
the next time we see it. This is just as true of
children, though they may not be conscious, as
we are, of the effort to study.
To return to our ball, we find that it needs
just a stem to make it an apple; but if an apple
is felt all over, the dimple for the stem is ap-
parent, and another dimple where the blossom
fell off. Now that the whole range of spherical
objects is opened up, all fruits can be represented.
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With a little extra pinching and rolling of each
end we have a lemon, a plum, or a melon ; by
flattening opposite sides we find a resemblance
to a tomato ; the same grooved from one depres-
sion to the other presents us with a pumpkin or
canteloupe.
Each new resemblance achieved is hailed with
joy. There is no need of any suggestion of
organizing the results into any new whole, like
a fruit-store. That can come later. Simply to
be making, this is enough.
Animal Forms
At the Hull House kindergarten we once had
as a visitor a baby alligator, that was sent from
Florida when the kindergarten opened in the
fall. He was brought in when clay had been
distributed for modeling, and was put on the
table with the suggestion that the children make
his picture in clay.
The children were full of interest in the
sprawling movements and curious legs and jaws
of "de alligate," as the Italian children called
him. But they fumbled vaguely with the masses
of clay, quite unable to give form to it, though
they amiably tried. The results were shapeless
and we dropped the idea. The alligator was
carried off to parts unknown : probably he was
an honored guest in the public school near by.
Six weeks passed, during which the children
played with the clay almost daily. The fruit-
stands on Halsted Street were gay with autumn
fruits, so they modeled these, and made a variety
of inventive discoveries, handling the clay freely
as they chose.
One morning I discovered the alligator in a
back room and brought him in and placed the
pan containing him on the table. Shortly after
I heard an excited call from brown-eyed An-
nunziata : "Teach', teach' ! Come and see de
alligate." I came, supposing he was in some
queer new pose, but no, a rough but telling clay
sketch of the ungainly creature lay on the table
before her. She was wild with delight at her
success and so were the other children, with
whom beautiful Annunziata was a queen. Spurred
with the skill of their favorite, they all bent to
the task and soon the table teemed with swamp
life.
It seemed strange to us that, in the long time
that had elapsed since the children had seen the
queer and unfamiliar creature, their ideas had
grown so definite. We could only lay it to the
training their daily modeling had given their
eyes and fingers.
In the above I have tried to show the order
of a child's development as exhibited in the han-
dling of clay : from purely motor play to dis-
covery that likenesses accidentally achieved can
be reproduced by repeating the movements that
brought forth the form; that the eye follows the
hand, taking note of what it is doing and has
done.
Little dishes continue in high favor. The best
of them can be baked in a hot oven (the hotter
the better) after being dried for several days.
If put in wet they crack and fly in pieces. But
on the whole it is quite as well not to make
permanent these very imperfect models. Many
have served their purposes in the joy of making
and can be quietly disposed of after the little
artist is tucked in bed. I usually let them stand
on display until they are replaced by something
more recent. But let me caution you not to do
injustice by treating these things with either
disrespect or unwise praise.
Children long for recognition and praise and
ought to have it, but let them not get it in such
terms that each one thinks he is the eighth
wonder.
More Play in the Sand-Table
The sand-table continues to be a source of un-
failing joy. The play goes on much as described
for the fourth year. Roads, railroads, hills and
caves, wells and ponds, are made and improved
upon day after day. A fence about it gives the
clue to another range of plays; within its boun-
daries may be at one time a house, a school-
house, a pasture, a chicken-yard. Blocks trans-
ferred to it complete the buildings. Little cotton
Easter chickens may be the stimulus for the
chicken-yard. The chickens need coops, which
can be made of one square of paper folded
into an oblong, set up like a tent, and toothpicks
thrust across, piercing the slanting sides for the
slats.
A flag and some lead soldiers suggest a drill-
ground, for which you might suggest folded tents
of paper.
Any child who has seen a windlass-well or a
windmill-pump will be delighted to reproduce
them. A square box with the sides intact and
bottom removed makes a well-curb: a spool with
a rod or a twig through it makes the windlass; a
string and toy bucket finishes the essentials. For
the windmill tower, blocks laid pigpen fashion
will do. Pin to the top a pinwheel made like the
one on page 219.
A miniature playground will delight any child
and can be made from the contents of his play-
box, — a seesaw from a ruler balanced on a spool,
a swing from a frame made of a short block
balanced on two tall, upright ones, with a string
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tied to the short one in a long loop. Little penny
dolls or paper dolls can swing and teeter. A
swimming-pool is too easily made to need de-
scription. Leave that to the mere suggestion.
But if you will show the children how to fold a
square of paper back and forth, fan-fashion, and
then cut a string of paper children hand in hand
to be dancing in a ring, you will have contributed
a pleasant feature that can be repeated ad in-
finitum.
Children will devise their own scenes with
very little help if they have the toy animals, dolls,
blocks, spools, string, and other materials. Your
part will be in suggesting and encouraging, with
now and then the solution of a knotty problem
too hard for the little head.
XX. PICTURES AND PAINTING
The reader is referred to what has been written
in the previous section on drawing for the three-
year-old. Since drawing is so nearly another
kind of speech to little children, it should be
made as full and free as possible. The way to
do this is to keep drawing-materials of the kind
easiest to handle constantly accessible to children.
To me the blackboard and crayon are ideal,
save for the dust of the crayon in the room.
That, however, is an objection that does not ob-
tain in the home where one or two, not forty,
children are using it. The great advantage of
the blackboard is that the drawings may be
erased and repeated countless times without waste
and with such ease of movement; and perhaps
greater than .this, is the play it gives to the large
arm muscles. Both the psychologist and the
artist say that we cramp the child's powers by
giving him small pencils to grasp, and hard pen-
cils on which he must bear down to get a line.
First-grade teachers say that after a child has
once learned to grip his pencil at home it is next
to impossible to get him to limber up and write
with the loose fingers and easy arm-movement
that is the great nerve-saving habit of modern
writing. Then let us use the blackboard or large
sheets of wrapping-paper and soft wax crayon
or the big marking pencils used by carpenters.
Play-Practice
For getting control of movements needed in
drawing:
Use soft pencils.
Practice a free arm-movement, pencil lightly
held in the fingers, arm- resting on the
table.
Swing round and round in big continuous
"0"s." Make this a picture of a ball of
yarn.
Swing the pencil back and forth from left
to right and make the "ground."
Beginning at the top of the paper, draw long
strokes to the bottom of the paper.
Draw in the same way shorter fence-posts
and cross them with "wire" or "boards."
Right and left strokes.
Christinas Tree: Long, broad stroke from top
to bottom for trunk. Downward sloping branches
made with single strokes.
Poplar Tree: Branches sloping upward.
Elm, Maple, or Oak Tr.ce: Branches slightly
upward sloping, but many times branching into
smaller and smaller branches.
The Object of This Drawing
At this age we are uncritical of the resthetic
side of drawing and painting; the aim is to say
something with the drawing, not to make a
beautiful thing. At first the objects are repre-
sented in an isolated way — a man, a dog, a chair,
a tree. Then these things are used to tell a
story.
The grotesquerie of these drawings should ex-
cite neither comment nor laughter in the presence
of the artist, unless the child sees it as funny
himself, in which case it will not check his ef-
forts to laugh with him. The main thing is to
put nothing in the way of free expression, and
to give encouragement.
Suggestions can be given without concern as
to whether they are adopted or not. Often ques-
tions and suggestions will keep children from
settling down and adopting their own conven-
tions for tree, flower, man, or what not as final,
and will start them on a new track. For in-
stance, in a picture of "Aunt Elsie wheeling her
baby," the dress of "Aunt Elsie" disclosed an
extraordinary length of leg below the triangle
which symbolized the skirt. I asked the little
girl, "Does Aunt Elsie wear such short dresses?"
Whereupon she hastily lengthened the garment
by a scribbled addition. I have often called the
attention of children to the fact that in real life
legs are not visible through petticoats. I have
suggested the addition of hands and feet, and
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SO on, just to keep the attention moving and
ideas growing in detail.
Painting
It is best to take the paints out for very little
children. Use little pans or butter-plates. Dip
the brush in water and wash paint from pan.
putting it from one color into another. Other-
wise the colors will never be pure and brilliant.
One day I sat down beside Robert to show him
how to lay on the strokes for leaves. Uncon-
sciously I dipped the brush loaded with green
into the blue pan. Instantly the reproof came
from the young man, "How can you tell us not
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BRUSH PRINTING
Transfer to plate. Repeat with each color
needed. This saves smearing one color over
another in the box. Red, yellow, and blue are
all the colors they need. They enjoy watching
the mixture of these colors to produce others.
Red and yellow blend to orange, blue and yellow
to green, and red and blue to purple.
Each child should have a bit of old cotton
cloth with which to dab up spots of color that
fall where not wanted.
Teach them to rinse the brush in water before
to do that when you do the very same thing
yourself?" I meekly accepted the correction.
Methods and Devices
Painting is drawing in color. Children go
through about the same period of experimenta-
tion with the new medium that they do with any
new material : first playing with the brush and
color to see what they can do with it. They
usually handle the brush like a scrub-brush,
gripping it in the fist and scrubbing around.
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BRUSH PRINTING
What a gorgeous trail it leaves in its wake !
The brush is plunged in the paint again and the
spot spreads till the paper is awash. "Mine is
done !" says the embryo artist and looks about
for more paper.
This is the time for a little direction. Let him
choose another color, and show him how to sweep
the brush across the paper from left to right, un-
til the long streaks blend, and a wash has tinted
the paper smoothly. These washes, when dry,
can be used for rugs in the doll-house or cut
into paper-doll dresses.
A blue paper may stand for the blue sky over-
head, a green one for the grass plot. Paste the
blue above the green and you discover a land-
scape. To make it more real, reproduce the
effect on one piece of paper, washing the brush
when half-way down the page and laying on
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green. Add life to it by cutting out a bird-house
and pasting on, or a flight of birds across the
sky, or dot yellow daisies in the field as it be-
gins to dry.
This is beginning where a child is and, as some
one has said, "No matter where you're going.
another color. Children call these soap-bubbles.
Try them in all combinations of color.
Little blobs look like beads. Thread them on
a string by a sweep of the brush. Purple blobs
dropped close together look like a bunch of
grapes, red ones like cherries. They grow in
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STREAKING AND SPOTTING
you must start from where you're at." The
washes are just what the teachers in the art
schools teach as preliminary practice.
Call attention to the brown fields, if it is .Au-
tumn, and paint them under the sky. At sunset,
notice the reds, yellows, and orange, and paint
them. This is a good way to teach the blending
of colors. If the sky is yellow above, shading
into orange below, and then into red, let one ftoiv
into the other.
Spotting
While playing with the blending of colors
show the children how to drop spots of one color
into another and watch the shading of one into
the other. Let them make a circle with a round
and round motion of the brush and spot it with
pairs on tiny green stems from a brown branch.
Yellow drops look like black-eyed susans when
brown centers are dropped in them.
With these suggestions, your inventions and
the children's will lead to much delightful play,
full of discoveries as to color and likeness. So
far the pictures have been happened on. Soon
they will try puyposcfiiUy to make pictures.
Brush-Prints: Play and Application
.'V wise old teacher of drawing in London told
me this story: A little girl pupil laid down her
brush full of brown color unintentionally on her
picture, and was distressed at the blot. To com-
fort her, Mr. Cooke said, "Oh, no, that is a
mouse ; see how your brush tip made his sharp
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little nose. Til add this streak, for his tail."
Her distress changed to glee.
Then he began to experiment with the print,
setting his children to see what they coidd repre-
sent with it. They used it for leaves, petals, and
decorations, and found it a great aid to invention.
They arranged prints for leaflets along curving
streaks for stems, and arranged them around
dotted centers. I recommend this plan to you.
Fill the brush — a large one— and press it on
the paper, being sure to let the tip leave the
paper last. The surplus of color left by the tip
makes a pleasing shading.
After much experimental play with the brush,
print; meanwhile the children will find how to
lay the brush down cleanly, and how to lift it
without scattering the paint. They will be ready
to combine the prints into pictures of mice, rab-
bits, beetles, leaves, and flowers. Now if you
will show them how to paint two long parallel
bands across the top of a sheet of paper, they
can fill the space between the bands with pat-
terns. Call their attention to the frieze on wall-
paper, to the borders at the top of book-covers,
and to similar applications of this border-like
design. Paper the doll-houses with these designs.
Another application of these designs that will
be even more suited to their interests and ability
is found in decorating paper picnic-plates that
may be had at any ten-cent store.
Painting in Outlines
After playful practice in washing, streaking,
spotting, and printing, children are ready to paint
within boundaries requiring more muscular con-
trol.
Draw outlines of simple forms, a chicken,
house, apple, leaf, and let them fill it in with
the brush.
Let them draw their own outlines by putting
a tumbler on the paper upside down and drawing
around it. Fill in with color for a balloon. Make
a number of small balloons, and draw or paint
lines from them, meeting below as if held at
one point.
Do the same and float colors over one another.
When color "runs" outside the line, blot it up
with a slightly damp rag.
XXL TALKING WITH AND HELPING MOTHER
LiTTLfi children like to feel that they are sharing
the occupations of grown folks. Often it would
be easier to dispense with the help, but the chil-
dren would be the losers. Every kind of work
has its charm, but cooking, with its delightful
odors, surreptitious tastes of sweets, and chance
for making messes, is chief in attraction.
There were occasions when Helen was only
three years old and Mother had to play nurse
and cook at the same time. Perched on a high
stool she beat the eggs, sifted flour, and creamed
the butter for cake. When the mixing was done
she had a bit of the dough for her own. These
impromptu cooking-lessons acquainted her with
many qualities and processes. Think, for in-
stance, of the transformation of an egg: the
breaking of the frail, brittle shell, the pouring
out of the translucent white, the globular yellow,
the gradual blending of the two in a foamy mass.
Could there be a better lesson in colors, forms,
and textures?
The flour has its qualities to be tested with all
the senses : squeezed in pudgy palms, dusted over
the board, sifted through the wire mesh. How
good its wheaty odor is, how sweet it tastes to
the tongue, and how it flics about ! This all
changes when it is wet. Now it is sticky, cling-
ing to fingers and pan, but with more flour it
becomes soft ; elastic when squeezed and pinched.
How many of us, I wonder, ever think of the
sense-training in such experiences as these?
Quite as desirable is the training in deftness
gained in handling the dishes, sifter, and egg-
beater, and the dish-mop and pan during the
washing up that follows. The soap and water
make shimmering bubbles, just as lovely as
though not made in the course of necessary
work. There is more to be noticed and felt and
done, neatly and deftly. The mixing-bowl is
heavy, demanding all the strength in arms and
wrists to lift and turn it. The wooden rolling-
pin is not so smooth nor as heavy. The egg-
beater makes one wonder what makes it turn so
regularly, and the cog-wheels seem somehow
concerned in the motion. It is all worth while.
Helen seemed to think that if she took a pinch
of this and a spoonful of that, something good
would come from the mixture. She would not
take my word for it that cocoa, salt, flour, and
sand would not make a delectable mess. So I
let her try a few of her own mixtures until she
was ready to take my advice.
Then I let her measure the ingredients for
sweet muffins, in doing which she learned to
measure in cupful, half cupful, tablespoonful,
teaspoonful, as well as the difi^erence between
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level and heaping. It was not cooking in the
real sense, just play, but she was learning, too.
Regular Duties
Mothers find it hard to train children in house-
hold tasks where they keep servants who do not
want children fussing around. One of the com-
pensations for the difficulty in obtaining domestic
help is in the occasion it furnishes for children
to have regular duties. It was one of the sources
of education in the old-fashioned home that "all
were needed by each one."
What can children under five years do? They
can wash silver and the smaller dishes, dry and
put them away on low shelves. They can dust
and polish furniture. Setting the table is another
task within their capacity. When our cook left
I put the dishes used most often on a low shelf
so that Helen could reach them easily.
Then there are errands. How many errands
they can do in the house and out of it !
No work should be too long continued and it
is good to change work occasionally. In all this
the charm will wear off when the novelty is gone
and the lesson then is one of "standing to" and
learning the moral lesson of responsibility.
Habits of Order
It is usually easier to pick up toys and clothes
than to see that children do it for themselves.
But it is one of the things in which we should be
firm with ourselves and hard-hearted with the
children. It is one of the disagreeable necessities
of civilized life, and the sooner we make it habit-
ual in children, the easier it will be for them and
us. Just once disregarding the rule, and the
mischief is to pay. For the secret hope is born
in a child's soul that the omission may occur
again. Then he will have to be followed up —
to his sorrow and ours.
Miss Elizabeth Harrison tells a story of a boy
who for a time came to the table repeatedly with
unwashed hands, and was as often sent away
to wash them. At length his mother said, "Why
do you persist in coming without washing —
you know I never let you stay?" "Oh, yes, you
did once!" the young hopeful replied. "When?"
asked she. It turned out to have been a week
before. The moral is plain.
XXir. OUTDOOR LIFE, PETS, AND GARDENING
The little child who has been the center of care
and attention all his life is innocently selfish.
It is hard to keep him from sensing the fact that
he is a person of importance in the household,
and that his wants are matters of first concern.
What can be done to curb this natural childish
egotism and plant the seeds of consideration?
Consideration is a plant of slow growth. Ex-
ample and precept are helpful in promoting its
growth, but voluntary deeds of service are neces-
sary to put a child in the attitude of one who
cares for others.
A child must have something definite to do
that makes an appeal to him, an appeal for some
service within his powers. Some homes offer
better conditions for these acts of helpfulness
than others. These are the simple homes in which
mothers do their own household work.
We know that children get a kind of social
training at play together that they do not get in
a home where older people regulate all their
dealings from a grown-up standard. With each
other they must make their own rules of con-
duct and administer them. The four-year-old is
still the baby in most groups of playing children,
and matters are adjusted to his whims with a
certain degree of leniency, much as in the home.
So there is still something wanting of discipline
in serving and giving up voluntarily to others.
The Value of Pets
In the presence of the plant and animal world
the child feels himself superior. Here is the
opportunity for cultivating in him a feeling of
tenderness and responsibility. As Froebel said
to the mothers of his time :
"If to a child's sole care is left
Something which of that care bereft
Would quickly pine and fade.
The joy of nurture he will learn ;
A rich experience which will turn
His inner life to aid."
The pet dog, cat, rabbit, bird, are all depend-
ent on some human being for food, drink, and
protection from their natural enemies. When
the pets belong to a child, he should be made to
feel their dependence on him. He appreciates
their appeal for food. His sympathy for their
feelings is a strong motive in remembering their
mealtimes, their signs of enjoyment his reward.
Often he must break away from desirable play
to feed them. All this is a needed offset to the
egotism nourished by fond elders.
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It is not easy for these elders to put up with
the inconveniences of pets. Fido drags bones
to the front porch, where they confront the
caller. He is fond of playing with your rubbers
and not careful to return them to the hall. He
slips in and settles on the living-room couch.
Pussy gets underfoot and is under suspicion of
being a thief. But it is worth while to make the
best of it all, in the light of their unconscious
contribution to the kiddies' training in responsi-
bility.
Plant Life
Plants make a similar if somewhat weaker
appeal for care. Potted plants, if the children's
own, will repay for the attention given them by
marked growth.
In November the city child can visit the local
florist's shop and buy hyacinth and Chinese lily-
bulbs. From the time the latter are first bedded
in a glass bowl among stones and given a foot-
bath, they need little save to have the water kept
half way up the bulb, and they grow so rapidly,
that they are new from day to day. Hyacinths
grow best in earth. Cover them about an inch
deep.
Even in a city flat a child can have a window-
box. All the preparations are full of interest:
going to the grocery to get an empty raisin box,
or to the carpenter shop to order it made ; search-
ing in the backyard or in the woods for suitable
soil : deciding what seeds to plant ; carrying the
soil home; rubbing it fine; filling the box to the
right depth ; making the furrows, and finally,
sprinkling in the seed and patting the earth firmly
above them.
Lettuce, parsley, and chives will be good in
salad and for flavoring soup and also as relish
for the canary. At least enough can be grown
in the window to garnish the meat-platter. Beans
pay best in the exhibition they give of the way
a seed behaves when it begins to make a plant.
Notice the coming up of the bean itself in the
shape of two fat leaves ; the gradual thinning
and withering of these. Someone calls them the
baby plant's nursing bottles, which it sucks dry.
Soak some in a saucer and look at the plantlet
packed between these nourishing leaves.
With spring, real outdoor gardening begins.
Strong hands are needed to spade the plot, but
little rakes can do the smoothing and breaking
of the clods. Teach children to break these to
powder; to rake the surface smooth; to mark
the furrows straight; to make them a certain
depth; to drop the seeds a certain measured dis-
tance apart, one inch or two or whatever is re-
quired; to pat the earth to firmness when seeds
are in.
The italics are to suggest to you the qualities
and their names that children are learning while
working under your direction. How infinitely
more full of meaning they will be than when
toilsomely dwelt upon by a teacher, as I have
seen them in the primary school "observation"
lessons in Germany, where "flat" and "round,"
"rough," "smooth," and the like, were taught ut-
terly apart from any joyous activity.
Children's patience is short-lived. Let them
plant something that matures early, such as let-
tuce, radishes, nasturtiums, and annual phlox.
Let the weeding and watering be done reg-
ularly, making the plants a means of developing
habits of persistence, as well as of sympathetic
acquaintance with plant-ways.
(See also "The Garden" in the Boys and Gikls
Bookshelf, vol. IV, page 1.35.)
ALICE
With little red frock in the firelight, in the lingering April
evening —
(The moonlight over the treetops just beginning to shine in
at the cottage door) —
Her big brown eyes and comical big mouth for very gladness
unresting, like a small brown fairy —
She stands, the five-year-old child.
Then, so gentle, with tiny tripping speech, and with a little
wave of the hand —
"Good-night," she says to the fire and to the moon.
And kissing the elder wearier faces.
Runs off to bed and to sleep in the lap of heaven.
— Edward Carpenter.
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XXIII. DEVELOPMENTS DURING THE SIXTH YEAR
All divisions in the life of a child are only ap-
proximate. A group of children may develop
very differently. Some will have a sense of form
developed very early, showing in the drawings
he makes. Another is forward in speech, and
possibly backward in some other way. Some
children have a very early development of the
feeling for musical intonations. I know one
child who startled a visitor (who knew the baby
could not walk) by singing to herself in perfect
tune and perfect enunciation. Yet, in spite of
all these irregularities, there are certain lines of
growth that mark the changes from one period
to another which can be limited in a general
way by years.
Children in the si.xth year can do more, ob-
serve more, tell more of what they have experi-
enced, than in the fifth year. Walks, rides, pic-
tures, stories, and the overheard conversations
of his elders have given him a larger stock of
ideas on which to draw for his dramatic play.
A year of "making things," of constructive play,
has given definiteness to his power of thinking
things out and putting them together. It has
given control of his brain over his hand as well.
He sees more into the detail of the things he
tries to draw or make.
The four-year-old draws imaginary coal in
his toy cart and dumps it into imaginary cellars.
He ties a string to a shoe-box and is delighted
to have made so fine a wagon of his own. Some-
one shows him how to fasten spools or button-
molds to his cart, and his power of making now
includes that improvement. Hereafter wheels
are within his scope. The five-year-old, given a
hammer, nails, and round wooden disks or spools,
finds he can improve upon the wagon. He has
seen coal-yards and coal-trains, too, and possibly
his play will extend itself into realistic building
with blocks of yard or depot ; and his wagon
carries real coal.
To go farther, the five-year-old has seen pic-
tures and been told stories of mining. He has
another set of conditions to add to the plays of
earlier years. With his playmates he builds a
shaft of packing boxes and dramatizes the life
about the pit and in the mine.
Most five-year-old children can keep rather an
extended play going. In other words, they have
the ideas and persistence to center their play,
day after day, around a central purpose: such
as making a doll-house or representing a farm
scene in the sand-table, adding barns, corn-crib,
chicken-coops, fields, and other features as they
occur to them or are suggested by others.
In working out any such themes they will use
the skill acquired earlier in building, modeling,
cutting, painting, and the like. They will do more
of the same kind of work that they have been do-
ing, but carry it into more detail and relate it
more as a part of a general purpose. That is,
they will do it if you give them the opportunity.
These things make for opportunity : materials
to work with, as in the previous year, and sug-
gestion, in case their own initiative does not
prompt them.
Someone asks, "Why all this emphasis on play,
and especially on constructive play ?"
The answer is that the supreme business of
children at this time is play, and that the best
quality of thinking goes into constructive play.
Through play they are getting the bodily ex-
ercise that they must have.
Through play they are testing their own powers
of strength, of control, of thinking. They are
not only finding them, they are enlarging them
at the same time.
Through dramatic play they are entering into
the social life about them, and are themselves
the characters they see, hear, and that they are
told of in stories. It is making them observant
of the way things are done. In dramatic play
the imagination is obliged to construct a defi-
nite scene or character or plot. Imagination
becomes disciplined, does not spend itself fruit-
lessly. It is the servant of thought.
Through constructive play they are learning
to harness imagination in a different way. They
measure, combine, think out ways of reaching
results that they want. Imagination is again a
tool to shape things as they are wanted. It is
harnessed with tJiinking as a yoke-fellow. Con-
structive play can be made a means of logical
thinking.
Since it is so important, let us give our atten-
tion now to constructive play and work.
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XXIV. MAKING DOLL-FURNITURE
Suppose a child wants to make a paper doll-
bed. You can let the child alone to work at it
in her own way or you can help her in any one
of several ways. Left alone, the problem may
baffle her; in all probability it will if she has no
clue to its solution; that is, if she sees no plan,
imagines no details, of putting together.
You want to help her to see the parts of a bed
in their relation, to see how they go together.
Then they must be shaped, at least, there has
to be some practicable, workable way of making
them stay together. It would be easy to do all
her thinking for her, but that would not help the
next time. In the educational sense it would not
be practical.
You can help her to see that a bed is made of
three main parts — a head, a foot, and a horizontal
part to lie on. The head and foot serve, when
extended, as legs. You might give her a flexible
piece of cardboard or heavy paper, and let her
cut out these three pieces in her own way, and
hold them together the way they belong.
The next step is to find a way of fastening
them together. If she does not think of a way
you might show how you would do it: by folding
up a narrow strip from the end of the main part.
to give a surface to which the head can be glued,
and the same for the foot. A coarse needle and
thread could be used to sew them together if the
paper is soft and tough.
If the result is satisfactory she will probably
want to make many more, as this seems to be
Nature's way of getting children to practice any
new accomplishment. Then there will be other
things wanted to which the same method of think-
ing out and putting together can be applied.
Variations of Method
Then it would be well to try other ways of
getting the paper furniture made. Having seen
the parts in relation to each other and put them
together, it might be a step in advance to propose
getting them all out of one piece of cardboard.
Instead of cutting four strips for table legs and
pasting them at the four corners of a square, the
plan can be drawn on paper, cut out, and the legs
folded at right angles to the top.
Much of this kind of furniture is provided in
the "cut-outs" in popular magazines. A ready-
made thing is really given children in these, which
is well enough in its way and would be all that
might be desired, if it would only lead them to
self-designed things. My observation leads me to
believe that it does not.
After this experimental work has been enjoyed
it will be a satisfaction to most children to make
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changed and adapted to many things. The most
satisfactory one I have ever seen is given below.
The objects made are well-shaped and propor-
tioned, and have a kind of finish that children
appreciate after their
own less stable fur-
niture has been
worked out.
The foundation is
made as in Fig. g in
Easy Folding Series,
No. II, on page 220.
Opened out, it shows
sixteen squares, out-
lined by creases,
Figs. 10 and 1 1 show
the process of getting a barn from this foundation
by a series of clips, folds, and pastings.
To make a bed, table, or square box, the
creases on the inner sides of two corner squares
are cut. These two squares must be on the same
edge of the paper. Then cut in the same way the
creases on the inner sides of two corresponding
squares at the opposite edge of the paper. (See
Fig. I.)
To make a table, fold the row of four uncut
squares at right angles to the rest of the paper.
Repeat this on opposite side. Let small oblongs
between the squares at end stand level to make
end Icaz'cs of tabic. Fold squares next them
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toward each other. Now it is done, save for
bracing. Cut from a paper folded like the
foundation (in sixteen squares) a square 2x2.
Paste it over the two squares at the end of table
and on under side of leaf. This binds "flapping"
squares together and stiffens leaf. Repeat at
other end. (See Fig. 3.)
Bed
Fold and cut exactly like table, but turn small
oblongs at ends up to form head and foot of bed.
Cut 2x2 square as before and paste on the out-
side of head and foot of bed, to strengthen and
make smooth. (See Fig. 2.)
The basket (Fig. 5) and the wagon (Fig. 6)
are modifications of the table, turned upside-down.
Bureau
Fold two squares of paper as before into sixteen
squares. Lay one aside and proceed with the
other as for bed and table, but fold small oblong
flap down over the two flapping squares and
J ■•■ ^ paste. This makes a
square box. Stand
it on one side, to
contain the drawers.
Cut the other folded
square in half, mak-
ing two oblongs.
"* Paste one of them
at the back of the box, to stiffen it and serve as
a mirror.
Take two more squares of paper and fold into
sixteen squares, but first cut a very narrow strip
from two adjacent
sides of each, to
make these squares
slightly smaller than
the ones used before.
After the sixteen
squares have been
folded, open the pa-
per, all but one row
of four squares, leave 5
these folded over. Now fold them with those that
lie on at right angles to the rest of the paper, also
the row of four at the opposite edge. This makes
the paper trough shape. One row of four squares
forms the bottom of the trough. Cut the creases
that run at the sides of each end square of this
row of four. Fold them up at right angles to the
bottom. Slip them inside the pair that are doubled
on the front edge. Now you should have an ob-
long box with one edge doubled and firm. Push
it inside the bureau for the bottom drawer. Re-
peat to make top drawer.
Now the bureau is ready for any trimmings
your little girl wants to put on it, in the shape
of bureau scarf or tinfoil mirror. Small black
laundry-studs make good handles for drawers.
IVashstand
This can be made like bureau with lower back.
Other furniture can be worked out with the
same foundation. You can use your ingenuity
to make sofa, armchair, and dining-room chairs.
They are very pretty made in brown, tan, or green
smooth cover-paper.
Furniture calls for a room, or better yet, a
house. Rooms of shoe or hat boxes are satisfac-
tory. Windows can be cut in the sides and cur-
tained with tissue-paper or muslin. The walls
can be papered with scraps of wall-paper.
Houses of wooden boxes are more durable.
Did you ever make one of an orange crate when
you were a little girl?
A Doll-House
Janet wanted a house, and Mrs. Reed, remem-
bering what fun she had had with them, sug-
gested that they get a fruit-crate from the
grocery. The walls were rough and had to be
covered with paper to make them pleasing in
the doll's eyes. Finding no scraps in the attic,
they tried to buy some last year's samples at the
decorator's, but could not get any. So Mrs. Reed
took some smooth sheets of light-colored wrap-
ping-paper and told Janet if she would cut the
pieces to fit the walls she would help her deco-
rate them. Janet measured the height of the
wall and made a pencil mark to show where it
came on her paper, and then folded it off to that
width. Then she poked this piece into the house
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to see how much she would need to cut off for
the side wall of one room.
Mrs. Reed came in then and suggested that
it would be easier to measure this on the outside
of the wall.
When the pieces were all cut they decided to
make the bedroom a pale green and the down-
stairs living-room a soft orange-color. Mrs.
Reed advised Janet to mix as much paint as she
would need for all the paper for one room at
one time, so it would be exactly the same shade.
would provide them. She cut long strips for the
table, measured them to the same length, and
glued them inside the rim with liquid glue. The
bed legs were cut half as long and glued to the
outside of the box, which was turned upside
down to hold the mattress.
This did not look right, and then she had g,
happy thought. She took the cover of a box^
cut it across into a short and a long piece, fitted
one end of the bed into the long one for the
head and the other into the short one for the
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It took a good deal of mixing and trying to get
it just right.
They fastened the sheets of paper to a draw-
ing-board with thumbtacks, so that it would not
bother them by curling up when wet. First
Janet wet the paper all over with clear water
in a big brush. Then she took up all the extra
moisture with a soft cloth and put on a wash of
green, sweeping the brush from left to right in
long strokes. The wash of clear water made
the color go on without streaking.
When the papers were all tinted they thought
one at least might be decorated with a border of
some kind. Mrs. Reed showed how to draw with
a ruler a line i^ inches from the top, and this
was tinted with two more washes of green to
make it a little darker. The living-room was
measured off in the same way. Mrs. Reed drew
a tiny tulip on a card and cut it out. Then Janet
put it about the ruled line and drew around it
and then again, until a row of tulips blossomed
on the border. These were painted red with
green leaves.
Janet had learned how to make paste after
many experiments. She knew that four tea-
spoonfuls of flour mixed with eight tablespoons-
ful of cold water and cooked until clear would
be thick enough. She put it on with a large
painter's brush, an inch broad, and soon the
house was ready for furniture.
Furniture for the Doll-House
Some empty spool-boxes seemed the best things
at hand to make over into furniture. One served
as a bed and its cover as a table, but both lacked
legs. Janet saw a broken box and knew this
foot. Now it looked very real and inviting to
even a doll of fastidious tastes.
The next morning mother and daughter went to
the nearest dry-goods store to get more spool-
boxes, and happened on a rich find. The clerks
were busy taking inventory of stock, a general
house-cleaning had littered the floor with boxes of
all sizes. Janet joyfully gathered an armful and
carried them home.
The next morning she got her mother to help
her make a bureau to match the spool-box bed.
They took one end out of a box and stripped the
sides loose from it half-way down. These sides
were bent toward each other and glued where
they lapped. This made the back, sides, and mir-
ror of the bureau. The drawers were made by
cutting straight across the end of a box and past-
ing a folded paper over the back to close the
open side.
A wardrobe was the easiest thing to make.
Janet stood a bo.x on end and fastened the top
of a cover to it with paper strap-hinges.
They had the most fun with the drum and
wheel-shaped pasteboard things on which tape and
ribbon had been wound. From these they made
a cake-box, pail, oil-heater, and coal-stove. The
kitchen range was made from a candy-bo.x with
doors cut from the side for oven and fire-pot,
and circles marked on top for pot-holes. A piece
of paper, rolled up, was stuck into a small hole for
the stovepipe.
How We Invented Cornstalk Furniture
One Saturday afternoon in late October Helen
and I invited Sara, Jack, and John to go with
us to a place we had found the week before.
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where a deep ravine with tributary gullies had
washed so deep in the red earth that it seemed
a miniature cafaon. We played Indian and emi-
grant, with exciting adventures, and planned to
come again the next holiday with more of the
older children, to make a real drama and act it
here. Then, tired of climbing up and down and
digging caves, we wandered back into the woods
to see "what we could find to bring home. We
filled our pockets with fine big acorns, to use
for dishes in the doll-house. The little ones
loaded themselves with soft green moss and gray
lichens to carpet their playhouse under the oak
tree at home. Crossing the pasture, we pulled
rushes to weave into baskets, and willow-wands
for the same purpose.
Then our short cut led through a cornfield.
Remembering the cornstalk fiddles my brothers
made for me, I proposed to cut some and take
them to experiment with.
These are some of the things we made at home:
Fiddles.
Tumbling men.
Log houses.
Furniture.
Flutter mill.
Here is how we made the tumbling men : We
melted down some tinfoil in an old iron spoon
over the gas flame and ran it into little pellets.
I cut the stalk into short lengths and the children
hollowed the pith out of one end and put in pellets
of lead, cut circles of white cloth and tied them
over this end to keep the lead in, first padding
the end with a wad of cotton, to make the man's
head. Then they marked features on this with
soft pencils and ink. Set up on the Hght end, the
men turned over instantly.
Jack cut the stalks at each joint and built them
into cob-houses by laying them on the flat sides.
I told him the real log-houses had notches hacked
in the upper sides of the logs where the top log
fitted in to hold them close together. This notch-
ing made them more firm.
Helen got an idea from this of making furni-
ture. She took some of the short pieces and a
card and placed one at each corner for legs. This
was the starting-point for a whole set of parlor
furniture, much needed in the doll-house. I found
some smooth green heavy paper and some pins,
and all were happy for an hour cutting the paper
into different dimensions, some long for shelves,
some broad for table-tops and sofas, and pinning
the legs to them. They looked like rattan, and
made a pretty effect in the parlor.
To make the flutter mill, peel a thick section of
stalk, so that the thick, glassy skin is in strips
FLUTTER MILL
one-fourth inch wide. Cut pith in four-inch
lengths, and covering in two three-inch pieces.
Stick a match in each end of pith. Cut two
slits at center of it, side by side at right angles
to each other. Push the thin strips through these
after sharpening ends.
Hold mill by ends under water tap. Notice
curving face of strips. Let water fall on these.
What happens ? "Why ?
If you have followed the course of this work
you may have noticed that we studied the struc-
ture of the stalk as we worked : its length, taper-
ing toward the top: its joints, ringed strongly;
its pith: its glassy hard covering; the shape of
the sections, which made them good for fiddles,
cylindrical, save for one concave groove. Each
of these features was of use to us, enabling us
to do a special thing. Later, when studying the
science of plant structures, these children will be
ready equipped with a knowledge that will be an
immense advantage.
I have given this illustration to show how
varied and rich are the experiences children have
when encouraged to look about them and play
with what they find. .Also the ways in which
a mother can further their plans, adding her ex-
perience to theirs.
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"The greatest contribution ... is discovering to them
problems which challenge their attention, the solution of
which for them is worth while." — Naomi Norsworthy.
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XXV. WEAVING
A LITTLE piece of oilcloth makes a good covering
for the kitchen floor. We had none, so I told
Helen she might make a play-one by pasting
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heavy paper in oilcloth patterns. I found an old
note-book with a smooth brown cover, and
marked this cover into inch squares, very accu-
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rately. Then I did the same with a piece of heavy
terra cotta (an old pamphlet cover) and let Helen
cut them out. Then she had tablets in two shades,
with which she laid patterns. After she had
played with these a while I told her to cut some
of them in half from corner to corner to make
triangles. These made prettier and more varied
figures. One of these patterns she chose to paste
on a square of cotton cloth for the oilcloth.
For the living-room she raveled a piece of
woolen cloth ; then, as she noticed the threads
going under and over each other at right angles,
I explained that these were named the warp and
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woof of all woven cloth, and told her she could
weave paper like it. The kindergarten mats
would do well here, but as you may not have
them I will give the directions that I used for
making the mat, which answers to the warp, and
the strips, which are the woof, of a paper rug.
A five-year-old child who is used to folding and
cutting and playing with the rectangular blocks
would be able to carry out the directions with
a little help.
Take an oblong of tough cover-paper 5x7
inches.
Place a dot half an inch from each corner on
the edges of the oblong.
Connect opposite dots with a pencil-mark
guided by ruler.
This makes an oblong within the edges of the
paper.
Measure the short edges of this oblong and
dot into one-inch spaces.
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Connect these dots, making three more lines
parallel with the long edges.
Fold short edges of paper together and cut
from folded edge on penciled lines (five of them)
to short edge of penciled oblong. The mat is ready
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for strips. Cut these one inch wide and five inches
long. They can be woven in with the fingers.
Start every strip under the half-inch strip that
forms the frame of the mat. Then let the first
one go over one, under one, and so on. The next
strip alternates with it — under one and over one,
and so on. The third repeats first, the fourth
repeats second, and so on.
Mats may be cut in half-inch strips and woven
in the same way, or patterns varied by altering
the number-arrangement.
For example, the strips may be drawn over and
under two. Another time a mat may be woven
in threes. Another pattern that is easy is :
First strip : over one and under two. Repeat.
Second strip: under one and over two. Repeat.
Third strip: repeats first, etc.
Box Pattern
First strip: over three, under three.
Second strip : over one, under one.
Third strip: over three, under three.
Fourth strip: under three, over three.
Fifth strip: under one, over one.
Si.xth strip: under three, over three.
Seventh: repeats first: eighth repeats second,
and so on through to thirteenth, which repeats
seventh.
Other patterns can be invented indefinitely.
These mats are not only good for doll-rugs but
can be converted into many pretty little articles
for a child's gifts to others. Calendars can be
mounted on them, or one may be lined with pretty
paper and folded corners to center like an en-
velope, a square of cotton wadding enclosed,
with sachet powder or lavender flowers inside,
for a handkerchief sachet.
BOX PATTERN
Pretty as these things are, they are frail, and
the weaving-idea is better carried out in real tex-
tile material, for which a loom is needed.
The Simplest Loom
Draw an oblong on a piece of heavy cardboard
as directed for a paper mat. Mark off the ends
of this oblong in quarter-inch spaces. Punch a
hole in each dot. Use hatpin, darning needle, or
small bodkin for this, if you have no punch.
White twine will do for warp; colored twine
is prettier. Thread a darning needle with it. Put
it through a corner hole. Carry it across to the
opposite hole. Make a short stitch on the re-
verse side of card by putting needle into next
hole. Carry thread across length of card as be-
fore and continue until holes are all filled. You
will have to loosen and pull thread through from
hole to hole as you go on with the sewing, for it
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takes much too long a thread to allow for break-
ing it off as in ordinary darning. Fasten the
thread at the last hole on the wrong side by sew-
ing under and tying to next stitch.
Now the loom is strung and ready for the
woof. For a first rug it is best to use short
lengths of yarn. Different colors may be used,
making "hit and miss" or stripes.
Not all five-year-old children can string the
loom in this way, but where there are older and
younger in the same family or associated in this
work, the older can measure and string the
looms for the younger. It is then a contribution
to the little ones and is pleasing to both parties.
It is fine number-work to do the measuring and
drawing.
Round Rugs
Little circular cards are to be had at the kin-
dergarten supply-houses punched with one hole
in the center and a ring of them around the edge.
WE.WING A ROUND RUG
If you do not care to order them they can be made
at home.
Thread the warp from the outside to the cen-
ter, making short stitches at the edge on one side.
When threaded it looks like the spokes of a
wheel on one side. Thread the darning needle
with as long a piece of yarn as the child can
manage and begin weaving over one, and under
one, continue tying new threads on when neces-
sary until margin is reached. Fasten thread and
cut or tear card from the weaving.
Tarn o' Shanter Cap
To make a cap, thread round loom with long
stitches on both sides. Into center, into marginal
hole, back to center. Weave (or darn) as before.
When one side of card is filled with woof, turn
card over, and go on weaving as before until
size is reached that fits doll's head. Fasten woof-
end. Pass a needleful of thread around the woof
strands at center of circle, tying them tightly
together. Fasten firmly. Cut ends of warp on
reverse side of card and tie in pairs to hold under
side of cap in a firm edge, keeping woof from
fraying out.
Hammock for Doll-House
Take piece of cardboard and mark as for oblong
loom. Fasten curtain ring at middle of each end
of card. There must be a space of three to two
inches between this ring and the oblong that
outlines loom.
Tie a piece of string (warp) in ring. Thread
it through needle. Pass it through a hole at end
of row of holes. Carry it across to end hole
opposite. Put it through and tie to ring at that
end. Take another piece of string of same length
and do same. Repeat until all holes are filled.
Weave as before. Tie ends of yarn that make
woof in pairs all down sides of hammock to hold
firm. Tear card free and tie a long string in
each ring to hang hammock by.
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XXVI. MAKING DOLL-DRESSES
The doll plays a large part in childhood: the
beloved companion of the three-year-old, the
actor in the dramas of the four-year-old, and
L
TWO WAYS OF MAKING A KIMONO
these and more to the older child ; for now a
doll is to be not undressed and left lying in cold
nakedness, as is so often the case earlier. It is
to be dressed as well, and clothes made to order.
For doll's dressmaking
and for acting plays the
small dolls are much the
best.
First, without sewing,
try this pattern shown me
in my childhood by a
young lady who seemed
to me then the most beau-
tiful creature that ever
walked the earth.
That such a being
should condescend to show
me how to improve on my
first attempts at dressing
seemed a miracle. I pass
on the pattern. The glamor
it still holds is my own.
Cut a circle of cloth. Fold it in half, in half
again. Snip off the corner at center. Open and
put doll's head through opening. Cut two tiny
armholes.* Put doll's arms through and tie with
a sash.
Kimono from Half Circle
Cut a half circle of cloth. Wrap it around
doll's shoulders, straight edge at neck. Cross
* We used to make this arm-opening by folding the goods
and cutting a V-shaped notch. This gave the effect of a
sleeve, the apex of the V coming at the doll's wrist and the
wide part at the shoulder. — J. E. B.
over in front and snip armholes. Pin a belt or
tie a sash around the waist.
Kimono Pattern
Fold a sheet of paper in half. Lay doll on it,
neck across folded edge, arms outstretched. Cut
across bottom at ankles, across width at wrists
of doll. Shape out under arms and slope outward
to edge of skirt. Take up doll. Fold pattern in
half, lengthwise. Cut a semicircular hole at angle
on folded edge for neck opening. Cut a slit
downward from this for opening.
It needs a bit of thinking for a child to work
this out in paper and then in old cloth, until she
learns to leave what seems an unnecessarily wide
allowance for sleeve and body widths. She does
not realize how much cloth is taken up in cover-
ing the thickness of these members.
I think it is a good plan to let children try their
own ways of cutting and fitting and fastening
up the dresses, until they have some notion of
the difficulties and have tried their own devices
to meet them. That is the order Nature imposes
on us in all invention. Then after this trying
the patterns are appreciated.
Another way to get at a pattern would be to
let the little girl lay her own kimono out straight
and cut a pattern free-hand in miniature.
Clothespins make good dolls, especially when
many are wanted, as for a party or wedding, or
a procession, or to fill the streets of Sand-Table
Town. With gray skirts and white capes and
circular caps gathered at the outer edge into a
"mobcap," these look like Puritan women. Fea-
tures may be marked in pencil or wax crayon.
Flower Dolls
\\'ho has not made hollyhock ladies? Turn
a blossom upside down. It will stand in spread-
ing skirts. Pin a smaller flower upside down on
the green knob of the calyx. Let them walk two
and two demurely, like boarding-school misses of
the seventies, or dance in a "flowery ring."
So much for the dolls and doll-house. There
is much more that might be said and done, but
let us pass on to another kind of material and
other tools. For each one has its suggestiveness,
its own problems to be encountered, and its own
lessons of resistance and training in muscular
control.
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XXVII. MODELING
This occupation continues to be of absorbing in-
terest and of as great value as in the preceding
year. It is such a splendid training for the sense
of form that it is desirable to have the clay jar
in readiness.
Autumn fruits, nuts, and vegetables, animals
and birds, bowls and dishes, flower-pots, flower-
forms in relief, are all suitable subjects.
In modeling fruits and vegetables it will help
to notice the relation of the thing to be modeled
to a ball and roll the clay in the rounded palms
until it is spherical, then modify it : to a tomato
by flattening a little, or to a pear by rolling more
at one end and then adding more clay, welding
it on by pressing and smoothing and rounding it
with the fingertips. A bit of twig thrust in for
a stem is more satisfactory than to model a stem,
as the latter is too fragile.
Animal-Forms
Begin with something with which the children
are very familiar, such as one of their pet rabbits.
It is well to have the lively model near by, though
the children will not often compare their work
with the object to be copied. They work from
the picture left in the mind by previous acquaint-
ance with the thing.
Notice the general shape of the body. In the
mouse, rabbit, and squirrel it is almost egg-
shaped, from the round of the back, including
haunches, to the tip of the nose. Model this
shape and then add shaping of haunches, nose
and ears and tail.
The little toy animals make good models. The
forms are well done and so small that the chil-
dren can pass their hands over them and fed as
well as see the form.
Toy dishes can be dried awhile and then baked
in the oven of the range. This will make them
a little more lasting, but to be hard as real pot-
tery they need to be fired in a real pottery kiln,
which is not worth while, as they will be making
things in the later years that they will really
want to keep. The main thing in their minds
now is the play of the moment, and in ours the
training in seeing and creating that this work
gives them.
Flower-pots made large enough to hold a bulb
or a few seeds can be made and used for their
spring planting.
Flower Forms in Relief
These figures serve as a record of the beauti-
ful shapes of some of the spring flowers. They
may be used as paper-weights.
Mold a ball about two inches in diameter.
Flatten it by passing on the smooth table, first
on one side and then on the opposite, until it is
about a third of an inch thick.
This makes the plaque or background.
Three-leaf Clover. — Roll three little balls about
half an inch in thickness. Elongate them a little
by rolling and press them out into ovals (not too
thin). Lay them in the center of the plaque in
clover shape. Roll a stem and apply.
Four-pctaled Poppy. — Follow same plan as
above.
Fh'e-pctalcd Flower (apple blossom or rose). —
Notice the cupping of the petals and their nar-
rowing to the point at the center, also the cluster
of stamens that may be simulated by a little ball
planted where the petals meet and stabbed with
a toothpick until it is deeply roughened.
Si.v-pctalcd Flower (daffodil or narcissus or
Chinese lily). — Notice the pointing of the petals
and the ridging in the center. A tiny green ring
in the center surrounds three tiny dots (pistil).
In all modeling remember to have the clay well
worked and soft enough to feel elastic and greasy
as you smooth or press it. Without this the
children can do nothing with it.
Plasticine is to be had at the kindergarten sup-
ply-houses and will not dry out. Plasteline has
a less disagreeable odor, Moldolith hardens, but
may be soaked out soft again. Permodello will
harden as if baked without baking.
XXVIII. NATURE STUDY
Autumn Walks
Autumn is a fine season for rambles afield. It
used to be our regular custom to take the chil-
dren for long tramps on Sunday afternoons espe- nuts, beechnuts, or chestnuts.
cially, when we would come home loaded with
spoils — branches of scarlet oak leaves, stalks of
milkweed pods, cocoons on bare twigs, pockets
weighted with red thorn-apples, acorns, hickory
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241
When we went in the direction of "Mossy
Hill," so named by Nancy, she loaded us all down
with such quantities that we were fairly stagger-
ing under "just this one piece more." This every
southern child knows makes the loveliest moss
houses, built around tree-trunks and kept green
with frequent sprinklings, and it can be furnished
with cobble-stones and twigs, with acorns for
dishes.
The red rose-hips and haws figured as fruit
at doll feasts, and then were strung. The leaves
made the mantel beautiful awhile, and some were
ironed with a flatiron passed over beeswax and
put away for Hallowe'en and Thanksgiving dec-
oration.
The milkweed pods were so beautiful that we
painted their pictures and then used the down
to stuff doll-pillows, with lace casings thin enough
to let the silky down show.
Pretty stones and snail shells were put in our
collections. Crawling caterpillars were great
finds, to be carefully brought home and with them
the plant on which they seemed to be at home
for food. We made homes of shoeboxes, punched
airholes in the lids, set the leaves in a bottle of
water inside, and sometimes were rewarded by
finding that a cocoon had been spun overnight.
Harvesting
In gathering the yield of the home garden we
notice the different kinds of corn, the color, depth
of kernels, and the arrangement in rows on the
cob. We put away sweet corn for parching, pop-
corn for winter-evening poppings, and pumpkins
for their many good uses. Each has its appeal
to the senses, to be felt, weighed in the hands,
smelled, and in good time tasted. A guessing
game is fun. Blindfold each child in turn, and
see if he can distinguish each vegetable by its
odor. Do the same with feeling, which is a good
test for carrots, beets, turnips, salsify, etc.
Special nutting parties make great occasions,
long remembered. We often noticed that some-
one had been before us by the empty shells. When
we examined them, we saw they had not been
broken but gnawed in two. The whisk of a
bushy tail and an angry chatter in the tree over-
head gave a clue to the worker, who expressed
vigorously his opinion of the two-legged invaders
of his premises.
Questions You Can Help Children Think Out
What do squirrels eat?
Do they put away food for winter?
Where do they stay in cold weather?
What other wild animals spend the winter near
us?
Where do the rabbits live? Chipmunks? Go-
phers? Fieldmice?
Tree-Life
Notice twigs from which the leaves have fallen,
leaf-scar, and new bud.
Distinguish by bud, leaf, bark, and color of
bark the common trees, such as maple, hickory,
willow, apple, and cherry.
General Suggestions
All the wealth of seeds, fruits, nuts, falling
leaf, and safely packed bud tells the story of
preparation for Winter and for continuing life
in Spring. Little talks, stories, and songs help
children to see this meaning.
Helping to gather and store fruits and vege-
tables is one of the best ways to impress children
with our dependence on these foods. Where
there is no home garden children may be taken
to a farm or truck-garden, and every city child
can visit markets and fruit-stands.
After such visits let them tell Father, or some-
one who did not go, what they saw, making it
vivid by drawing some of the most interesting
things. This will help hold them in their mem-
ories clearly, and center attention on things that
mean most to them. Expression of some kind
is half the value of such experiences. Take cray-
ons and tablet with you and have a sketching
party on the spot when there is some special trip.
Painting is naturally invited by the gorgeous
colors of Autumn. Trees make splendid splotches
of color seen against blue skies, good subjects for
little fingers just learning to paint in broad
washes.
Play fruit-stand and market, and advertise the
goods on sale in markets by pictures of fruits
and vegetables done on big sheets of manila paper.
It has worked well in my experience where
there are several children, to let each one adopt
his own tree and keep a record of it throughout
the year — in autumn dress, bare in Winter, show-
ing its first tinge of spring color, in blossom,
and last in full green. Twigs can be painted
through the Spring, showing detail of leafage.
The older kindergarten children much enjoyed
looking over these records, which I labeled and
put away for each child and gave them at the
close of school in June.
During late autumn walks abroad you may set
the children to hunting for leaf-mold for their
window boxes and pots. Learn to distinguish
this and loam from clay, by the bits of rotted
leaf, twigs, and rootlets. See the shining par-
ticles of sand mixed with it. Distinguish it by
smelling the earthy odor, let the fingers feel its
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soft crumbliness, and the eyes take in its rich,
brown color. Contrast it with the smooth, hard,
clay texture. Let wet mold and wet clay dry in
the sun and see which one would be the better
for tender roots and thirsty mouths. (Have plants
mouths?)
In digging under the fallen leaves you may
find the brown, dry leaves of the hepatica, or
green ones of the violet. Dig deep and bring
them home with plenty of earth about the roots
and plant in your wildflower garden in a shady
spot. Add to it in springtime the characteristic
woodflowers of your locality. It will be a joy
for countless .succeeding Springs to you as well
as to the children.
In your hunt for roots and mold look out for
insects in winter quarters, under stones, logs, and
the crevices of bark. Count the kinds found.
Winter
While the outside plants are hidden is a good
time for window-gardening. The cook will ap-
preciate a box of chives and parsley, and the
canary a tender lettuce leaf now and then. It
is quite possible.
Winter ice, frost, and snow make sports the
great thing now. The sand-table can be turned
into a miniature skating rink or frozen pond
by imbedding a sheet of glass and sloping the
banks down to it. Cut paper skaters, fold paper
sleds, build little houses on the bank of blocks
or paper. Sprinkle cotton snow over the sand
if you wish.
How does the ice look in making? Notice a
puddle. Ice fingers are shooting across it, like
straight, sharp-pointed spears. How is snow
made? Catch the falling flakes on a dark coat
and look closely. Use a magnifying-glass to see
the wonderful stars. Let the children draw what
they see. Then show them the snow crystals in
the Bookshelf, vol. IX, page 64. Let them fold
and cut crystal forms as pictured in the next
section of this volume.
If you can get mineral crystals, such as quartz,
galena, amethyst, or rock salt, that are very strik-
ing and plain in their angular forms, it would
be a good time to get them out for a feeling-and-
guessing game. Notice how soft coal breaks in
angular chunks. This has a crystal form also.
Make a saturated solution of salt. Pour it in
a saucer and let it evaporate. Lay strings over
the edge of the saucer into the solution and
notice what happens to them.
Spring
Now the seeds collected last Fall can be brought
out and those that need an early start planted
in window-boxes. The bulbs that were put in
their pots before Christmas are brought into the
light and warmth and watered.
Just to see plainly how a seed starts to grow,
put some large lieans to soak in warmish water in
a saucer. Cover with cotton and put near the stove.
Watch the overcoat grow loose and wrinkly.
Then it tightens and two fat halves of the bean
pop out. What a wonder of a tiny plantlet
is packed within ! Just a pair of folded leaves
and a white rootlet that grows so fast you can
almost see it move.
Let each child "take its picture" every morn-
ing, as we took the snapshots of the baby every
few weeks. Of course it must be put to bed in
the earth and watered every morning. Note the
gradual lifting of the earth as the bean-leaves
"back" out of the soil ; the greening and thin-
ning of these storehouses of food. Ask where
the plants get the stuff to make it grow so fast,
and where the children get it? Has the bean
a mouth?
Put some oats on a piece of cheesecloth tied
over the top of a glass of water. Let the cloth
sag into the water until sprouts appear. Note
growth of roots. Where are the mouths likely
to be? Paint the picture of glass and contents
several times.
Cut the tapering root from a carrot, hollow it
out and tie a string to it and hang it stem end
down in a window. Keep water in the hollow,
and watch greenery appear. Paint picture. Keep
record of a bulb's progress in the same way.
Keep a lookout for the first hint of swelling
treebuds. One year I brought twigs of willow,
lilac, and cherry to the kindergarten at Hull
House in February. We sorted them out, each
in its own glass of water, looking well at them
as I named them. Every morning some child
was deputed to keep the water fresh, and we
looked them over. The first hint of green ap-
pearing on the lilac was hailed as an event,
and finally even the cherry bloomed long before
there were any signs of green on the outdoor
twigs.
These city children lived a quarter of a mile
from a tree worthy the name, yet their interest
grew keen in the pet twigs, and in March, when
we made our first pilgrimage to the bare little
square, by courtesy a park, the children scam-
pered ahead and instead of frolicking on the
grassplot, as in former trips, they all clustered
around a forlorn syringa brush, peering into it
as if some wonder hid therein. I thought it must
be nothing less than a bird's nest. "Children,
what have you found?" I called. "We're looking
for the green leaf-buds," they shouted back.
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243
I recognized in the answer an unconscious quo-
tation from a song we sang,
"God sends the bright spring sun,
To melt the ice and snow,
To start the green leaf buds,
And make the flowers grow."
Just a little noticing, watering, an occasional
painting of the twigs, and what a door had been
opened leading to plant-life for Tony, Solly, An-
nunciata, and all the rest I
Finding that trees do blossom, we look later
for blossoms on every tree, and find winged
maple-keys, that flutter down and stick upright
in the soft lawn, shy oak catkins that hide be-
hind leaves of the exact shade of their own
green, pussy willow that changes from gray fur
coat to yellow powdered gown.
Pond Life
When Helen and I sat on the porch one warm
evening in late January we heard a soft croak-
ing from the pond in the pasture lot. Could it
be frogs singing their spring-song thus early?
We must not let the time escape us for taking a
dip-net and hunting for the jelly-like masses of
frog's eggs that I knew would soon after be
found in clusters about the stems of rushes.
A glass jar makes a fair aquarium for a child,
especially if some water weed can be put in it
to supply oxygen for the animal life to breathe.
Snails, tiny minnows, and water-beetles make a
good beginning. Water must be changed daily
by dipping out and gently pouring in fresh of the
same temperature.
Cocoons
Happy is the child who has the privilege of
seeing his own moth from his own cocoon. One
day in April a big brown Polyphemous appeared
on the study-shelf under the cocoon which had
a hole in the end. He was too weak to fly and
his downy velvet wings were wet and crumpled.
We watched him slowly unclose and fan them to
and fro, and at last he made a wavering flight
to the window. A good model, he posed there
for our painting. But he refused to uncurl a long
tongue to suck up the honey as the brown butter-
fly did the drop I placed on my finger-tip last fall.
XXIX. MORE EASY CONSTRUCTIVE PLAY
Paper-folding has some forms that children en- front-to-back edge to make an oblong, opened,
joy and that are easy, if one will only observe and right folded to left-hand edge, making an
one little trick, which is this: after folding the oblong. When this is done, the paper is creased
A SOLDIER C.'\P WITH A COCKADE
diagonals of a square — corner to corner making
triangles — it must be opened into a square and
turned the other side up; then the paper is folded
in such a way that if it is turned one side out
it will fall as in Fig. 3; if turned the other side
out it will take the shape of Fig. 7. It is im-
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possible to make the canning soldier-cap and the
equally fascinating sailboat without observing this
matter of folding the diagonals and then turning
the paper over before folding the diameters.
Fig. 3 shows the first step in making the cap.
It may be fringed across the long edges aiul used
as a candle-shade. A strip of paper rolled serves
11 12
AN UMBRELL.\. A FLOWER, .WD A BOAT
for a candle, an empty spool for candlestick.
The shade is fastened on by a pin run through
the apex of the shade and top of the candle.
Fig. 4 shows one sharp corner folded up to
the right-ang4ed corner and creased. Fig. ,
Fig. 7 is often called an umbrella when a stick
is thrust in for a handle. Fig. 8 shows it turned
with open side up, pasted on a card with a stem
of green paper and green leaves, to make a con-
ventional flower.
Fig. g .i^hows the same with the right angle on
top turned down to tlic opposite one, and I'ig. lo
shows it turned over antl with
the other right-angled corner
turned down. Fig. 1 1 shows
it with this right-angled cor-
iK-r tiiriK-il l),ick. first to the
lop and then to the crease
running across the middle of
the square and the bottom
thick corner folded over to
meet it. Fig. \2 shows the
boat set ready for a good
lilow into the pocket-like sails,
which will send it sailing
across a polished table. If
dipiied in melted paraffine this
or any other pajier boat will
lie ready for real water.
Other forms can be evolved from the flower
shape that precedes this, inchiding a balloon. Can
anyone study it out ?
Snow-Crystal Cutting
Take a circle of thin paper and fold it in half.
Fold this half circle again in half.
SNOW TRVST.NL Ct'TTlNr.
shows this repeated with the otlier sharp corner.
Now there is a triangular cap with a square on
one side split in two triangles. Fig. 6 shows
the right angles of these two small triangles
folded over to the "crack" between them, making
a cockade.
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245
Open into half circle, and notice crease mark-
ing middle of straight edge.
Fold one-half of the straight edge upward un-
til its end touches the curved edge and adjust it
so that a segment is folded over equal to the
one in view (Fig. 2).
Fold the other straight edge backward in the
same way. The half circle should now be in
thirds (Fig. 3).
Crease firmly and cut from corner to corner
in straight line. (See dotted line in Fig. 4.)
Fold this triangle in half, so that the thick
corner is divided in half; draw dotted line par-
allel with one edge and cut in it. (Fig. 5.)
Open. (Fig, 6.)
Fi^s. 7, 8, and 9 show variations made on the
foundation 5.
XXX. FESTIVALS
These take a big place in the life of children,
anticipated so long in advance that they are great
incentives to preparation that can be continued
for a period of days and even weeks. They are
centers in themselves, full of meaning. Around
them cluster tales, songs, games, and each calls
for something to be made or arranged' in which
children can take part with zest.
Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year, Easter,
and the civic birthUays, Washington's, Lincoln's,
Lee's, the Fourth of July, Memorial Day, are all
of them occasions of meaning. Of course Christ-
mas is for children The Great Day of the whole
year, and its preparation, masked in secrecy and
surprise, begins long in advance. Valentine's
Day and Hallowe'en are the children's own, dedi-
cated to merrymaking. May-day, once the day
for young lovers in Merry England, is now the
children's day exclusively.
We owe a debt to childhood for maintaining
joy, poetry, and spring in a tense and weighted
age. Let us pay it by preserving to them their
holidays, each with its full, its best significance,
its poetry and symbolism.
Family birthdays too can be celebrated with
some special treat. Children can make small
gifts, that will have enlisted their most careful
work because it is for someone else. Clean hands
and neatness seem essential when a present is
marred by inattention to these matters.
Let us look at some things that can be made
that will go into some of these celebrations.
Hallowe'en
This festival grew out of All Hallows' Eve. a
religious festival. Nothing of its original mean-
ing remains in this country, save the by-product
of tricksy elf, witch, and ghost, probably a de-
generation of the original belief that the spirits
of the departed came to earth and communed
with the living.
"How long is it to Hallowe'en, Mother?"
"Two weeks from to-night, my dear."
"Goody ! only fourteen days more. Won't you
ask Daddy to take us out in the country where
we can get pumpkins and bring them home to
make Jack-o'-lanterns?"
"What's that about Jack-o'-lanterns?" says
Father, coming into the room at that moment.
"No pumpkins to play with this year, food is too
scarce to waste on playthings."
"Oh, Daddy, please; just one pumpkin?"
"Not one, my dear. It wouldn't be right."
"Never mindj" says Mother. "There are a lot
of cereal boxes I have been saving on the top
pantry shelf. Perhaps you can make lanterns of
them."
And the next time Mother came into the din-
ing-room this is what she saw: a little girl hard
at work drawing nose, eyes, and mouth on the
side of a cylindrical box of heavy pasteboard.
"Please, Mother, may I take your knife?"
"Don't you want me to do it?"
"No, please, I want to do it myself."
When it was cut out she found some black cats
in a magazine which she traced on thin paper,
colored with crayon, and pasted on for decora-
tion. We stuck a large piece of candle in the
bottom with a little melted paraffine. When it
was lighted it glared in a pleasantly terrific way,
and featured largely in the procession of small
white-clad figures that larked about the neigh-
borhood- and wound up at our fireside, where
they popped corn, ate apples, and told elf-tales.
"I believe I like my Jack-o'-Lantern as well as
if it were a real pumpkin," was the final verdict,
echoed' by every child present.
Thanksgiving Day
The celebration of this day, with reminders of
its origin in Puritan New England, is best left
to the older children. For the little ones its
significance is best understood as a harvest fes-
tival. The younger children can learn to make
souvenirs for the dinner-table, little folded dishes
for the salted nuts, and turtles of table-raisins,
with cloves for legs, head, and tail. They can
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assist in the cooking operations, and best of all,
can learn a thanksgiving hymn to be sung as
grace before or after the feast.
Nut Dishes
Fold a square of paper in half diagonally both
ways.
Fold each corner over to touch the center, mak-
ing an envelope shape.
Turn paper the other side up, and repeat last
folds, making a smaller envelope.
Turn paper over and note four small squares.
Tuck back the corners that meet in the center,
each underneath the square of which it is a part,
making four triangles.
Turn paper over again; the other side shows
four stiff triangles which meet in the center.
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Fold these center corners back to outside corners
of square. Press firmly.
Turn over on other side. Put a finger in the
tiny triangular pocket, and with thumb and fore-
finger of other hand pinch it till it doubles in
half. Repeat with other three, and you have a
tiny dish that stands on four tiny triangular feet.
These might be used for saltcellars.
Or, take a six-inch square of paper and fold
it in half diagonally. Fold this triangle in half
again, and once again. Note the right angle.
Fold it down to touch the middle of the opposite
(the longest edge). Fold it back again. Note
crease parallel with long edge. Cut the whole
paper through on this crease.
Open and see cross with arms ending in trian-
gles. Fold each of these triangles toward the
center. Turn paper over and fold each square
arm over the center square. Stand the paper on
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this center square with arms at right angles to
it and triangular tips pointing out.
Punch holes at meeting of arms and tie.
Place-Cards
These might be made of white cards with a
little picture pasted at the left-hand end, such as
would be appropriate to the day. You might
draw a pumpkin on a card and let children color
and cut it out and write names across it. A strip
The taking of the gifts from the teacher and
marching proudly with them to the smiling father
or mother (one could seldom hope to achieve
the presence of both) was a crisis, a triumph
rehearsed in imagination many times in the fore-
going weeks.
We were waiting in the long dressing-room of
a big public school in one of the dreariest,
crowded neighborhoods of one of our ugliest dis-
tricts. The Christmas exercises were over. The
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of Stiff paper pasted to the back will make the.se
stand up in easel fashion. A little Puritan maid,
drawn in silhouette, alternating with a Puritan
man in broad-brimmed hat and full knee-breeches,
would make good place-cards or souvenirs.
Christmas
This climax of all holidays, anticipated tfie
long year through, is a day for giving by even
the youngest. I used to notice in the kinder-
garten that the children were wholly absorbed
in making and giving, without a single thought
of receiving a gift at the kindergarten Christmas
tree. They each made two articles, one for
Father and one for Mother. The moment grew
tense when the time for stripping the tree came.
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mothers. Bohemian, Irish, and German,
were waiting in the hall for the bell
to ring for the dismissal, which would
yield to each her young hopeful from
the line of march. To while away
the minutes, we recited the classic
" 'Twas the Night Before Christmas."
Five-year-old Charlie, son of a rough
saloon-keeper, looked up into my face
and said, "Merry Christmas to all and
to all a good-night. Now Christmas
is over, but next comes Easter. I love
Christmas, and I love Easter. I love
every day in the year, and everybody
in the whole world." Was our kin-
dergarten celebration worth while?
We made a trip to the country this year and
cut down our own tree. It was the prettiest one
we ever had. Helen fancied all the folks who
saw our Ford thus burdened envied our fortune.
Mother made a trip to the stores and announced
there was not a bit of tinsel to be had for trim-
ming.
"Never mind," said Helen. "We can make our
own trimming."
So we got out the box of all kinds of bright
paper, and this is what we made.
Lanterns
Take a square of bright-colored paper.
Measure one-half an inch from each corner on
each edge.
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Connect these dots with lines.
Dot the lines on two opposite edges about one-
quarter of an inch apart.
Fold paper in half to bisect these lines. Cut in
lines.
The result is a "mat" such as we made for
weaving.
Bring edges of mat together so edges lap and
paste. Parallel strips must run up and down.
Attach paper strip for handle.
Cornucopias
Lap two adjacent edges of a square of paper
and paste.
Attach handle.
If these are made of bristol-board or cover-
paper, or of woven paper mats lined with these
papers, they will be strong enough to use for
candy and nuts. Otherwise they will be merely
decorative.
Bells
Make exactly like cornucopia, but paste a little
clapper to one edge and tie a string at the point
to hang it by. These should be quite small and
are a very gay trimming.
Candles
Roll a square of paper, beginning with one
edge, into a cylinder.
Paste securely. A flame-shaped piece of gilt
or yellow paper pasted to the top makes it more
realistic.
Cut a notch in the bottom. Place over a twig
and pin, passing pin through or under twig.
Star
Take a six-inch square of paper and fold in
half to make an oblong. Place ruler along short
edge at left hand, even with long edge.
Place dots one inch and two inches from cor-
ner. (See Fig. i.)
Fold corner d over to dot 2. (See Fig. 2.)
Fold corner e over as far as it will go. (See
Fig. 3-)
Fold edge x — y over to 2 — y.
Cut line 2 — e. (See Fig. 4.)
These may be cut from gilt paper, two thick-
nesses pasted together, with a black thread put
between to hang it by.
With these decorations, and chains of red and
gold rings, our tree was prettier than any we
ever had.
Christmas Presents
Kindergarten sewing on fine perforations is
under the ban because of the strain on eyes. But
there are large cards with punched-out holes far
apart that can be quickly and easily sewed with
colored cotton or zephyr by darning needles, that
are delightful to do and in moderation harmless.
These can be had of the kindergarten supply-
houses. If you use them get the simplest outlines
and never let a child sew more than twenty min-
utes in one period.
Penzviper
Circular card, maple or ivy-leaf design. Sew
round outline once in and out, then round again
to fill gaps.
PENWIPER
Lay card down on old white cotton cloth and
mark around with soft pencil, and cut out several
thicknesses.
Attach to card by stitches through the center.
Needle-Book
Similar to above. Cut flannel leaves. Attach
to edge of card.
Match-Scratchcr
Sew any simple design on oblong or square
card. Glue sandpaper to back. Punch holes in
top and tie ribbon-hanger in.
Block-Printing
This is such a good form of decoration for
Christmas gifts made of paper, that it is given
here, with a description following of a few ar-
ticles to which it can be applied.
Materials : Water-colors, soft-finished paper, or
cotton or linen cloth, and blocks of small size
in different shapes.
Process: Mix plenty of color in a little pan;
dip the end of the block in the color and press
firmly on the paper or other material to be deco-
rated. It takes practice to convey just enough
and not too much fluid, and to press the end of
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the block cleanly down and then lift it without
smudging. A little unevenness in depth of color
in the print is not bad ; sometimes it gives a shaded
effect that is distinctly good. Considerable play
should be had with this new process before at-
tempting any decoration on anything permanent.
Patterns; Practice in pattern-making is delight-
ful play and is best done as a straight border on
cheap print-paper. Try placing squares in differ-
ent relations and positions, such as a part touch-
ing by corners, touching edge and corner alter-
nating, the same overlapping. Then take circles
or oblongs, and experiment with each alone, then
with triangular prints. Then use two shapes to-
gether, alternating them.
Application: One of the simplest uses of this
idea is to frame the Christmas pictures that are
mounted on tinted paper or cards. Plenty of
space should be left between the picture and the
border and a pleasing margin outside the border.
Calendars can be mounted below the picture.
Picnic plates and trays can be decorated or trays
of a child's own making. Some other suggestions
are given below.
Address or Note-Book
Cut square of cover-paper 5x5 inches.
Stamp a small design in each corner, or along
each edge.
Fold into oblong.
Cut several leaves slightly smaller. Fold and
sew, pin, or fasten with paper fasteners into the
decorated cover.
Burnt-Match Holder
Punch two holes with a sharp pointed nail in
the edge of a baking-powder can, opposite each
other.
Cut a rectangle of paper as wide as the height
of can and long enough to wrap round and over-
lap it.
Decorate along top and bottom edges and glue
around can.
Punch holes to match those in can, and pass
ribbon through for hanging.
Tray for Bureau
Take a square of water-color or cover-paper
8x8 inches.
With ruler find and mark points two inches
from corners on each edge.
Using ruler as guide, connect opposite dots.
Draw lines from each intersecting point of
these lines to corner nearest.
Cut on this last line.
Place ruler on one of the lines that outline
square and score lightly with knife-point, and
repeat on other lines.
Bend edges of paper up.
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Let triangular ends of these edges overlap,
punch holes in each pair and tie with ribbon.
Decoration may be printed on rim before tying.
The Easiest Things in Raffia
This material, much used in basketry, is too
hard for children of this age to weave, but there
are many things to be made by winding, a few
of which are described below.
PicUire-Frame
For this a circle-marker will be needed.
Cut a circle five inches in diameter.
Within this draw and cut a circle three inches
in diameter.
Wrap the resulting one-inch circular band with
raffia.
Cut another pasteboard circle slightly smaller,
and glue to back of first, leaving opening at top
through which picture may be slipped.
Punch holes with bodkin and pass ribbon-
hanger through and tie.
Napkin-Ring
For foundation use a circle of pasteboard from
J^ to I inch wide. (This may be had from a
ribbon bolt or cut from the end of a mailing tube.)
Wrap a strand of raffia once round, passing
through center and tie. Continue wrapping until
nearly at end of strand.
Lay end of new strand on ring and wrap old
strand over it until it is firm, then begin wrap-
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ping with new strand, covering end of old strand
firmly. Proceed in this way to end.
When ring is covered, weave end of last strand
in and out on inner surface of ring.
This may be decorated and made more secure
by threading a narrow ribbon into a darning
needle and darning in and out once around ring
at middle and tying in bow.
H this method of lapping new over old strands
does not seem practicable, the two strands may
be tied in such a place that the knot will be on
inside of ring.
Pcn-lP'iper
Cut circular disk of cardboard about three
inches in diameter.
Cut hole in center about one-quarter inch in
diameter.
Wrap, passing strand through center.
Cut two circles slightly smaller from an old
kid glove or cotton cloth and fasten to center
of disk.
Needle-Book
Wrap two disks as above and fasten two circles
of flannel between them at margin and decorate
with ribbon bow.
Trinket-Box
Wrap circular band as for napkin-ring.
Wrap two disks cut to fit ring for top and bot-
tom of box.
Sew one all around for bottom, and attach
other at margin for cover.
Doll's Broom
Take a little round stick for handle.
Cut raffia two inches long, lay a few on end
of stick and wrap and tie with end of long strand.
Continue placing short pieces and wrapping with
long until broom is full enough, fasten end firmly.
In all this work children will need help in
making the firm fastenings necessary until they
have learned how to manage it for themselves.
St. Valentine's Day
The accepted convention of our childhood was
a lace-paper fantasy touched up with gilt and tiny
bouquets, mounted on a folded sheet of paper,
inscribed with a tender sentiment. No other form
of valentine has seemed so resplendent, so prodi-
gal in its promises of unlimited affection. The
first plan offered below is fashioned after the
old model.
Take a square of paper and fold in a triangle.
Fold sharp corners together, making a smaller
triangle.
Repeat, folding one sharp corner over to the
opposite on one side of paper and the other on
the other side.
Cut from one short edge toward the long edge
in a line parallel with opposite short edge of
triangle. Repeat from long side and continue
alternating, never cutting paper clear through to
opposite side. It is best to draw lines to mark
cuts.
Unfold carefully and pull up from center in
''Bird-cage."
Mount this on a square of colored paper, and
put verse on reverse side. Very pretty if done
in thin white paper.
Another Lacy One
Fold as before and cut heart-shaped notches
from the edges that are folded.
This is prettier if long edge is cut in curves
first.
Open and mount on delicate tint of paper by
tiny dabs of paste at corners.
Hearts
Fold square of paper in half and cut a heart
from it. Practice until you have a satisfactorily
proportioned pattern.
Lay this on a red paper, draw around it, and
cut out.
Repeat on white paper, and tie two of these to
back of red one. punching holes in "shoulders of
hearts" for ribbon.
Paste pictures on all three, or, let child select
verse for you to write on one.
Heart-Shaped Doors
Fold paper in half, open and fold two opposite
edges to center crease, double in half on crease
and cut heart, leaving paper united at widest part.
Open and write verse on inner face.
Pictures may decorate heart-shaped doors.
Graduated Hearts
Cut three hearts of graduated sizes and punch
and tie the smaller below the larger. Decorate
. and inscribe.
Easter
Colored eggs and rabbits, lilies and butterflies,
these seem a curious combination of things to be
associated in a child's mind with a church festi-
val. And yet all save the rabbit do symbolize
awakening life from seeming death. He is a
survival of an old German tale explaining in
fanciful terms the origin of the colored eggs.
The story is a good one to tell children of this
> age. The preparation for appreciation of Easter
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as a renewal of life is given in the section on
Nature Study, page 240.
Hand Work for Easter
Outline on cards very simply such flowers as
the tulip, jonquil, and narcissus, and let children
tint them in water-color. If these blossoms have
opened in your own house, the children will be
familiar enough with them to paint them free-
hand, and after a little daily practice of this sort
can put the picture on a card. Even though
crude, it will be all their own work. Outline
pictures for sewing can be ordered from the
kindergarten supply-houses.
Butterflies will be found in color in the
Bookshelf, vol. Mil. page 356, that will make
splendid copy for the children to draw by tracing
through on thin paper and coloring in crayon or
paint. After a good deal of "choosing" one will
be found that can be cut out of the tracing paper
and attached with tiny dabs of paste to a card.
Some of the cards may be decorated with edges
of the water-color gilt, to be had for very little
at drug stores and stationers.
In addition to these gifts, there are nests and
clay eggs to be modeled and hidden in the garden
for other children to find. The eggs should be
thoroughly dried in the room, then in the oven,
and tinted with thick water-color or calcimine.
Let them make nests of dry grass, twigs, string
and paper, in imitation of the birds' nests they
found last fall, and hide them in fence corners,
bushes, and other nooks. If you live in the city
and have no yard, take them to a quiet corner of
the park, inviting other children to the hunt.
When you have developed a good butterfly pat-
tern from studying the pictures, fold it in half
and outline on paper similarly folded ; then cut a
whole flock of butterflies. Tell children about
the migrating butterflies, and propose to let a
swarm loose in the living-room. Cut them in
plain wrapping or manila paper, color, and string
and festoon from light-fixtures to corners, on
black thread. This is decoration for an Easter
party.
Blueprints
These make pretty Easter cards. Get the blue-
print paper at any place where photographer's
goods are sold. It must be kept absolutely away
from the light, or it will darken.
Make a printing-frame of a piece of glass fit-
ting exactly a piece of stiff flat board — binder's
pasteboard will do. Strong rubber bands will
hold the two together.
Make an arrangement of a spray of blossoms
or leaves or a spray of seeds, such as golden-
rod, lay it on an oblong of blueprint paper on
the board. Place the glass over it and clamp
down with rubber bands. Lay it in the bright
sunshine and leave it until the paper turns blue.
Remove print and wash under running water un-
til the blue ceases to run off.
These make pretty decorations for calendars or
other gifts for other seasons as well — blotters,
match-scratchers, note-book covers, and for the
inside and outside of scrap-books.
It is great fun ioT the children to watch and
make the prints, and it directs their attention to
the grace and beauty of flower and leaf forms.
XXXI. GOVERNING CHILDREN*
EY MRS. EUNICE BARSTOW BUCK
ous noise, for instance-
anyway; but whining
Whining and Kindred Ills
Many of the more annoying things which we are
apt to punish hastily — mischievous pranks or riot-
will be outgrown in time
fretfulness, peevishness,
and sulking are germs of real character-disease
which if not checked may infect an otherwise
wholesome life.
If a bit of a whine creeps into a voice we may
say, "If you speak pleasantly I can do it. Whin-
ers never get what they ask for," and we make
it a point to see that they never do. Indeed, we
are sometimes entirely deaf to their unpleasant
tones. If teasing is known not to bring results
other than general unhappiness, it is very seldom
tried. Other symptoms call for pleasant isolation
in a quiet place, always with the privilege of
coming back as soon as happiness returns.
Sometimes we discover when one of the chil-
dren is out of sorts with the world that a cold
is coming on, a tooth coming through, or the di-
gestion a bit out of order; and the treatment
called for is physical rather than mental or moral.
Sometimes there are hours, even days, when
everything goes wrong. Both children are cross.
* Since Mrs. Newell does not deal with this important subject, we have asked Mrs. Buck, whose first sensible article
we hope you have read, to continue. Please read her other article again in this connection. — The Editors.
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disobedient, and "into everytliing," and confusion
reigns. Mother is responsible ! It almost always
means that she is physically or nervously below
par, and that unconsciously her weariness has
crept into her voice and manner, upsetting the
whole household. In such cases a nap — perhaps
even a day in bed or a wee vacation for her —
will restore harmony and peace.
We mothers must do everything in our power,
by example and suggestion and penalty, to make
our children realize that there is no place in the
world for disagreeable people.
Temper
The spirited child has wonderful possibilities if
he can learn self-control and have his energy di-
rected in right channels. We hope that when
Brother is a man certain things will make him
so perfectly furious he will just have to make
them change. Before that we may even be proud
when he fights the school bully, for teasing a
younger child. But such righteous wrath is very
different from the petty irritableness that is ex-
pressed in most nursery quarrels and by the
wilder tempests which rage there.
Quick temper is more or less a matter of nerves
and temperament, and any praise or punishment
for the same when this fact is not considered is
unjust. When Sister is patient and calm under
trying circumstances there is no real virtue — she
is not even tempted to explode. Under similar
provocation. Brother, who is. an intense, high-
strung little fellow, might find it almost impossible
to keep his self-control. Again, if he is nervously
tired, things that at other times would not bother
him at all will arouse a whirlwind of passion.
He has always seemed to need physical pain
occasionally to quiet mental disturbances. Before
he could express his feelings in words at all he
would bang his head on the floor as hard as he
could when things went wrong, and the kiss that
healed the bruise healed the troubled feelings too.
Occasionally now, in certain moods, he will stamp
and scream "no, no," to all suggestions and en-
treaty, but a spanking calmly administered, or
more and more often a warning that one will fol-
low, if he can not stop within a certain number
of counts, brings back our happy little boy.
With some children— perhaps as administered
by some parents — such drastic treatment would
only increase the strength of the storm. It should
never be attempted by a person who has not the
physical strength to handle the child with assur-
ance and dignity should he struggle, and of course
there must be no sign of anger or annoyance.
With our little lad milder methods never bring
as speedy a recovery. He can sometimes be
shocked back to manliness by having hands and
face washed with a very wet cold washcloth, but
if that does not work he is shut up until he is
himself again.
This last method is especially effective when
the passion is directed against a person rather
than against things in general. Once last Winter,
when for several days the weather had prohib-
ited outdoor play. Sister displeased him in some
way and he flew at her, strikirfg and even biting
in an ugly and most uncivilized fashion. We told
him that a wild savage could not be allowed
loose and we must shut him safely away in a
prison. We carried him to the guest-room, which
was farther from the rest of us than any other
available place. After bringing up a small chair,
a book, and his cut-out work, we locked him in.
He screamed and pounded on the door for a
while, but in fifteen or twenty minutes he was
playing quietly and contentedly. At the end of
two hours he was asked if he could be trusted to
behave like a gentleman if we let him play with
us again. He assured us that he could, and we
were all good and happy together the rest of the
day.
What a diild in a temper needs is something
to help him regain self-control in a way that will
make a lasting impression of the undesirability of
his passion.
Obedience
If our training has been properly constructive,
there will be less and less need of commands as
the children grow older. Requests will be gen-
erally cheerfully complied with, and give an
opportunity to decide between two courses of
action. We parents sometimes forget how impor-
tant this is. If a child's will is to grow to be
strong for right-doing he must have the privilege
of free choice whenever possible. We must do
all we can to help him to wish the right and to
make the result of the wrong choice unpleasant.
The other day some of us were discussing an
imaginary situation in regard to Jack and the
door. We all agreed that the ideal would be for
Father to say, "Jack, please shut the door," and
the ideal — and the probable — response would be,
"Certainly, Father," followed by a courteous
"Thank you." If the answers were otherwise
Father should say in answer to, "I'm too busy,"
or any other excuse, "I'm sorry," and leave the
door open or close it himself. Jack's conscience
would be sure to prick, and if he didn't get to
the door ahead of Father he'd resolve to next
time. If, however. Father makes an issue of the
thing by commanding, "Jack, shut that door," and
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Jack says, "I won't," to say, "I will whip you
until you obey me," is unjustifiable, for it gives
Jack's will no opportunity to function. The sug-
gestion was then added that perhaps Father might
put it this way, if he had unduly forced the issue :
"Take your choice. Jack ; shut the door or take
a whipping" — strenuous will-training, perhaps,
but not will-breaking.
The discussion was of course quite theoretical,
and we all realized the unskillfulness of Father
in getting himself unwarily into such a box. Of
course, we none of us mean to get excited about
such unimportant things as doors with children
who are old enough to reason, but the principle
involved is suggestive, whatever the issue. We
must all keep in mind what Henry Clay Trum-
bull expresses so well in "Hints to Child Train-
ing" :
"There is a place for punishment in a child's
training, but punishment is a penalty attached to
a choice. No child ever oug'ht to be punished
unless he understood when he chose to do the
wrong in question that he was thereby incurring
the penalty of that punishment."
When we give a command we can wisely fol-
low the sensible suggestions in Mary L. Read's
"Mothercraft Manual": "Give it distinctly (to
get attention), definitely (to get understanding),
kindly (to get a cooperating spirit), and firmly
(to get action)."
Of course, as the Children grow older, our
punishment for disobedience will more and more
take the form of "natural consequences." The
boy who can not obey is not man enough to have
certain privileges; and the girl who can not do
exactly as she is told can not be trusted to help
Mother with the baking.
Between the ages of tvifo and four, perhaps,
if a child acts like a disobedient little animal he
must be treated like one, and a tingling birch
switch may be a useful addition to the nursery
equipment. This method of discipline seems to
me to have many advantages. In the first place,
it maiies it easy to separate the sin from the
sinner. We can cry, "Mother is so sorry that
the little hands must be hurt," take the small
ofifender into our arms for comfort afterward,
let him know that we are sure he is going to be
good, and then set him happily at work — helping
Mother, if possible. It gives a chance for choice
of action — "Is the pleasure of the misdeed worth
the pain that will surely follow?" The retention
of sympathy makes confession comparatively
easy, and — best of all the incident is closed.
The child really starts afresh. On the other
hand, if we try to "reason" with him and make
him "sorry," he feels vaguely that we are grieved
and disappointed, and he gets nervous and de-
pressed, and his whole day is spoiled.
Such punishment as tj-ing the hands or making
the child sit on a chair do not work in our family.
They cause much shame and sorrow, but leave
us only a child who is conscious of naughtiness
rather than one who is truly resolved to be good;
and the rest of the day is pretty sure to go wrong.
A sensitive little tot is likely to become either
hysterical or defiant when reasoned with, and
the nerve-strain is great on both parent and child.
We have had some amusing experiences. When
Sister was not quite three she learned to say,
"No, I don't want to," and it was then that we
cut our first birch switch. It was only used
twice, and the following conversations took place
on those occasions. The first time:
"Sister, run into the house, quickly."
"Why?"
"You have on socks and there are many mos-
quitoes here in the grass to-night. Run along !"
"No, I don^t want to."
"Why, of course you want to do what Mother
says ! Run along !"
"No, I won't."
"Very well. If the little legs can not run into
the house. Mother will have to get a switch and
switch them."
"Switch them?"
"Yes."
"With a switch?"
"Yes."
"Will it hurt?"
"Very much."
"Do the little girls downtown get their legs
switched when they don't do what their mothers
tell them to?"
"That, or something worse."
".\nd you have a switch right there?"
"Yes."
"Well," with a great sigh, "I guess I'll go in."
The second time she was playing in the water
in the bath-room, and I calied, "Come, Sister,
your hands are clean now. Dry them and come
and play with us."
"No, I don't want to."
"They've been in water long enough. Come!"
"No."
"Sister, if you do not start before Mother
counts five she must use the switch. One, two,
three, four — five — !" And the switch was used.
This happened twice, then — "Sister, come.
Must Mother use the switch again ?" And a calm
little figure appeared at the door.
"Is it there in that room. Mother?"
"Yes."
"Can you reach it?"
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"Yes."
"Are you sure?"
"Yes."
"Well, I'll come."
The decision that obedience was wise and best
seemed to be made for all time, and the switch
was only mentioned to her a few times after
that, and never again used. At three and a half
she had practically outgrown the need of physical
discipline, but Brother will require occasional
doses of Oil of Birch for some time, I fear.
Silence and Disaffection
To-day Sister confessed a fault in the dearest
way, adding, "I'm so sorry I did what I ought not
to. Mother." Of course she was forgiven gladly
and no punishment was needed. Keeping one's
children's confidence, especially as they reach the
age when they must begin to leave the home nest
for sc'hool, is so much more important than the
keeping of any rules and regulations.
It is easy for Brother to "tell Mother all about
it," but Sister is a strange child in some ways.
When she is happy and good she just glows — her
eyes are full of changing lights and her lips are
sweet and eager. When things go wrong, how-
ever, her _face changes into an expressionless
mask and it takes a real effort to reach the little
girl underneath. It would be very easy to lose
her confidence permanently, but we try not to
be harsh with her, and tactful suggestions and
loving correction are increasingly received in the
right spirit.
Once last Winter when things had been harder
than usual for us both, I told her a story of a
little girl who did not like to talk things over
with her mother. Each time she failed to tell
about what had happened, a stone was added to
a wall that began to grow between the two. This
made the mother very unhappy, for she wanted
to be near to her little girl always, and the hor-
rid wall frightened her, but she could not make
the child climb over or knock it down. At last
one day something happened that made the little
girl troubled and sad. She wanted so much
to be comforted, but when she would have gone
to her mother she found that the wall had grown
so high that she could not climb over, and so
strong that she could not knock it down. She
was lonely and so unhappy there on her side ;
and the poor mother was just as lonely and un-
happy on the other side. They found at last that
they could talk a little through a chink in the
wall, and as they talked the chink grew larger
until they could get their hands through. Then
they pulled and pushed and poked, hurting their
hands and making their hearts ache, until there
was a hole big enough for the child to climb
through. Then she sprang into her mother's arms
and told her all about everything that had ever
happened, and the mother told her many wise
things. They lived happily ever after, for that
little girl never let the least bit of a wall grow
between herself and her mother again.
When I said that the little girl did not tell her
mother everything. Sister interrupted to ask shy-
ly, "What was the little girl's name. Mother?"
I said, "Perhaps it was Sally Smith," and went
right on with the story. She listened soberly and
was unusually quiet when I tucked her in that
night. Since then she has really made an effort
to talk more freely about "mistakes," and we
sometimes say during quiet times together,
"We're not going to let any wall grow between
us, are we?"
Lying
The sensitive child is peculiarly susceptible to
the Evasive Lie. As a child I would grieve for
hours if I thought I had displeased anyone, and
the most tragic memory of my own childhood is
of a time when I told a lie to hide a wrongdoing.
I could not bear to face my mother's distress if
she knew what I had done. By the time both
wrongdoing and lie were discovered, the sin had
grown to such proportions in my eyes that I
could not acknowledge even to myself that I had
committed it, and I stuck to the falsehood to the
bitter end. I am glad that the memory of that
suffering remains so vividly in my mind, for it
helps me to understand some of the curious men-
tal processes of my own children.
We sometimes make children lie when we are
tired and nervous by "pouncing." When I said
to Sister the other day in a quick and terrible
voice, "Who turned the gas up?" it was her
natural instinct of self-preservation that prompt-
ed her to say, "I don't know."
A friend told the other day of her husband
calling to her in such a voice, "Are you pounding
that ice in the new sink?" She was, but quick
as a flash she took the bag out and set it on the
floor, and said, "Of course not !" It's human
nature !
When I was sure that Sister had turned up the
gas in spite of her denial, I asked her quite casu-
ally if the beans were boiling when she went
into the kitchen. She answered that they were
not, so she turned up the gas a little. I ex-
plained that she really was not old enough to
manage the stove and must speak to Mother the
next time, adding that it was a big mistake not
to tell Mother the truth when she asked first
about it. Of course, she agreed and was very
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sorry, and I'm sure a bigger impression was
made than if there had been a hasty punishment
on the spot.
The only time when we have been seriously
troubled by untruth was after having a maid in
the house who habitually lied out of things. For a
while both children told the most awful "whoppers"
with perfectly straight faces, and — so unnecessa-
rily ! We cured the acute attack by first eliminating
the source of the contagion, then by avoiding
occasions for stumbling as much as possible, prais-
ing the children for telling things straight when-
ever we could, and by the use of patience and
tact when errors were discovered. Once or twice
we have washed a mouth with soap. In the
extremest cases we have taken the position that
we were unable to believe something of impor-
tance to the child stated by him later, for "You
did not tell me right about so-and-so — how can
I be sure you are telling me right now?"
Brother sometimes relates the wildest, most im-
possible yarns. After listening with interest we
say, perhaps, "How exciting! That's something
you thought might happen, isn't it?" He gen-
erally admitted quite frankly that it was, and we
let it pass with but a word of caution. "He must
be sure," we say, "when he tells stories, that
people understand that he is only playing that the
things happened." Vivid imaginations are great
assets — we want to control, not quench them.
We have never let the children hear the words
"Lie" or "Liar." They are too ugly for boys
and girls who are learning to distinguish and to
tell the truth.
Destructiveness and Mischief
We find practically no tendency to destructive-
ness in the nursery so long as there is plenty of
material for constructive work at hand.' Certain
mechanical toys invite disaster and are better
kept out of well-regulated play-rooms. Broken
articles, unless unusually precious, should be re-
tired at once, for having them about rather en-
courages carelessness.
When Brother was four we gave him a small
saw, a hammer, and a box of nails, with permis-
sion to use any boards he wanted from the pile
left in the cellar when the house was built.
People asked how we dared have so young a child
loose in the house with real tools — didn't he ex-
periment with the furniture and woodwork? Of
course not ! He was so busy using material
legitimately that such a possibility never occurred
to him — and you may be sure that we did not
suggest it.
Of course all children make mistakes some-
times and accidents will happen in the best reg-
ulated families. Where there is confidence be-
tween ourselves and our children, however, a
few words of sympathy, understanding, and sug-
gestion are generally all that is needed to avoid
troublesome mischief.
We had a queer experience ^ith Sister long
after we supposed her to have outgrown such
possibilities. One day she stained her hands in
some way, and in an attempt to get them clean
used a bit of the contents of every bottle in
the medicine cabinet. We tried our best to make
her realize the danger of experimenting with
liquids of which she knew nothing, but she did
not seem to be impressed at all. The very next
day she took my watch, which had stopped, and
opening the back tried to make it go by pushing
the wheels with a pin — with fatal result, of
course. Again we seemed unable to make her
realize that she had done anything seriously
amiss.
Finally, I said, "Sister, I'll have to do some-
thing to make you stop and think whether things
are right or wrong before you do them. What
do you suppose would make you remember?"
She replied quite calmly, "Why, I'm sure I
don't know. Mother!"
"It will have to be something pretty big, I'm
afraid. If I put you to bed now and gave you
just bread and water for supper, would you re-
member next time that it is very wrong to ex-
periment with other people's belongings? Or do
you think that spanking the hands that did the
mischief would do more good?"
"Well, if you don't mind, I'd rather have the
spanking," and she held out her dear pink hands
with a smile of perfect trust.
I had not spanked her for almost three years,
and had certainly never expected to again, and —
oh, it was hard! I found a ruler and made her
■hold her hands out behind her so that I need
not watch that vivid face, and — I did it, good
and hard. Then I held out my arms and she
sprang into them and we cried together. In a
moment I was called to the telephone, and when
I returned she was quite happily watching
Brother's building operations, but with the poor
hands held painfully away from her skirts, and
she smiled lovingly and understandingly as I
passed. Indeed she was more affectionate than
usual for days, and her conscience has worked
satisfactorily ever since.
Sometimes naughty pranks are really very
funny, but of course we must never laligh at
them. Still more important, we must never tell
of them in the child's hearing. Some parents
seem to find it almost impossible to resist the tell-
ing of tales about the cute youngsters whom they
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"just can't do anything with," whether sharp
little ears are present or not. The child then
gets an exaggerated idea of his own cleverness
and comes to feel that Father and Mother are
really proud of the very things they scold about,
and discipline becomes a more and more hope-
less task in the household.
Unpunctuality and Dallying
When things drag in the nursery — when games
are played languidly and it takes forever to put
things away — we often find that the treatment
needed is physical as well as moral. A romp in
the open air may work a miraculous cure, and in
extreme cases physic may be called for.
For a while last Summer Sister was slower than
molasses in January about everything she did.
One afternoon, as an experiment, I took her
temperature and to my astonishment and dismay
found it 102° ! The next morning it was sub-
normal, but late in the afternoon was unpleas-
antly high again. The child was going through
a siege of malaria, and dallying was the only
external symptom besides the fever.
There are many ways in which we can help
our children to work while they work and play
while they play. Recognitions are always more
useful than penalties in this particular field —
a tiny star pasted on a card when a certain task
is done in record time, or some simple treat, or.
best of all, just the joy of hearing Daddy told
how quick and efficient they have been. A race
is always fun. On her si.xth birthday. Sister really
beat me getting dressed.
Timing has a magic which all children love.
"Let's see how many minutes it will take you
to set the table," or "It's now just five minutes
past. Let's see if you can go to the store and
back by half past !" — these appeal especially to the
little person who is just learning to tell time.
When boys and girls first begin to play away
from their own yard it is a very hard thing to
come home at a certain hour. Indeed it is al-
most too much to expect a five or six-year-old
to hear the whistles when absorbed in an exciting
game. Of course they must learn to keep track
of time whatever they are doing; but we try to
be very patient with unpunctuality of this sort,
and as appreciative as possible when Brother and
Sister do come home at the right time.
A Recipe
The ingredients given in a certain recipe for
an ideal nursery atmosphere are "Non-interfer-
ence," "Suggestion," "Substitution," "Tact," and
"Fairness." We find that when we, as well-dis-
ciplined parents, mix these prayerfully and season
well with love, understanding, sympathy, and ap-
preciation, the result is pretty sure to be happy
children who are as "good as gold."
CHARTS OF CHILD STUDY AND CHILD TRAINING
FOR THE KINDERGARTEN PERIOD
BASED ON THE FOREGOING ARTICLES IN THIS SECTION, "THE FIFTH YEAR"
AND "WHAT A CHILD IS LIKE THE SIXTH YEAR," BY MARY L. READ,
AND "THE KINDERGARTEN YEARS," BY IRVING E. MILLER
THE CHILD'S RESPONSES
His ever lively physical life expresses itself in
two main channels : motor-action and construc-
tive activity.
When he tries to make anything that is small or
fine he fumbles.
His immediate surroundings and particularly the
actions of adults start him in all sorts of imita-
tive play.
This constructive and imitative play shows con-
sider'able imagination, and he develops the
power of per.sonating various characters and
activities.
He often makes an ideal world for a time with his
playthings and imaginings.
WHAT THEY SUGGEST
These suggest that we give the first tendency
opportunity through materials to encourage
climbing, sliding, running, etc., and the second
througli materials for building and making.
It is evidently not time for him to do fine work
or careful finish.
We should give him materials, often of a homely
character, that he can use for this purpose.
The wider the experiences we give him the
broader and bigger will such play be, and
stories will tell him of an even larger world.
Here fairy-stories begin to come in to give him
the beautiful background for such play.
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THE CHILD'S RESPONSES
He does a good deai of taking apart and destroy-
ing as well as putting together and building.
He is constantly asking questions.
He begins to put his ideas together now, and they
are more definite than before.
He associates his experiences better, and begins
deliberately to recall and remember.
As he puts his ideas together, he reasons from
them.
Every impulse tends toward immediate action,
which often subsides soon and then swings into
another direction.
In his hand-plays now he seems to be interested
almost wholly in self-expression, and is easily
satisfied with a quick and hasty result.
He is impatient when objects do not comply with
his will.
He is equally impatient with playmates who do
not conform to his wishes.
He is independent, to the point of rebellion at
times.
His religious feelings are spontaneous and lively.
He begins now to idealize persons and try to imi-
tate them, not only as to what th^-'' do, but as to
what they plan and intend.
WHAT THEY SUGGEST
This is curiosity. Let us give him used-up ma-
chinery that he may safely take apart, and take
pains also to show him how things are made.
Many of these, if he is really attentive, we should
answer, but whenever possible we should en-
courage him to find out for himself.
Then let us give him more definite experiences.
The Montessori methods have this advantage.
Offer him more conscious sense-e.xperiences of
smell, taste, sight, color, etc., particularly in
connection with Nature.
This suggests that we can start some sort of a
program wnth him. For example, we can re-
late his play to the seasons and the holidays.
We can encourage collections.
Constructive play, where plans and causes lead
to results, should help here. Exercises like
cooking, clay-work, and doll-dressing should
help.
This warns us of the peril of fatigue. Also this
"motor flow," as Dr. Miller calls it, suggests that
there are golden hours of attention and energy
that we may take advantage of.
Still, if we can show him'how he has accidentally
made a likeness, with his drawing, for example,
we shall often find that he becomes inspired to
see if he can do better. His self-satisfaction
grows less as his ideals get larger.
Sometimes, not always, showing him that the
right technique will bring a better result, will
develop his patience.
He needs more playmates, of his own age and
older, who will not care very much about what
he wants and will show him that he has to be
content with his share.
Much rebelliousness may be provided against by
very early drill in right habits. There is a
strong impulse to do what one has always done,
and if exceptions are never permitted they are
not asked for. Silence, solitude, and certain
firm disciplinary methods are necessary now to
keep this tendency in bounds.
This, united with other impulses already men-
tioned, suggests: letting religious teaching be in
the form of stories, and religious practice con-
sist of the habit of prayer and of spontaneous
helpful and generous activities.
We need to furnish him real heroes, and be such
to him ourselves, and to give him ideal heroes
in stories and verses.
A CHART OF CHILD DEVELOPMENT
FOURTH TO SIXTH YEAR (From the Third to the Sixth Birthday)
These refcrenees suggest helpful explanatory passages in "The Child Welfare Manual"
PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT
[I. 275-280]
General Development:
Rapid growth of body and brain. 4th and 5th
years; retarded before 6th year [I. 383; II.
14].
Resistance to diseases good, 4th and Sth years.
Tendency to early fatigue before end of
period. Retardation common, 6th year [I.
325-326].
Special pleasure in taste, Sth to 6th years [II. 37].
Muscular control gaining in strength and firin-
ness [I. 279, 280].
Physical development toward close of period apt
to be affected by school habits, confinement,
poor sanitation and contagion, if exposed to
such conditions [I. 275, 276, 390].
Weight: at 4 years, average 36 pounds; at 5 years,
average 40 pounds; at 6 years, average 44
pounds [I. 204].
Height: at 4 years, average 37^ inches; at 5
vears. average 40 inches; at 6 years, average
43 inches [I. 382].
Respiration: 20 to 25 [I. 283].
Pulse: 90 to 110 [I. 283].
Dentition: second dentition begins at 6th year
with first four molars [I. 183, 217, 299, 341-
343].
PHYSICAL SUGGESTIONS
Sleep: 13 hours, and rest from 1 to 3 hours [I. 44,
46, 48, 271, 272, 276].
Foods for body-building, and special attention to
nutrition needed from age of five [I. 57-66;
223-238].
Physical examination and vaccination before en-
tering school, with special care of teeth [I.
337-342].
Guard against fatigue and contagion [»I. 288-
330].
Without neglecting the senses [II. 36, 37], the
strong constructive instinct and motor inter-
ests are to be encouraged through tools and
material [II. 253, 254].
Train the child to dress himself, Sth or 6th year.
Physical exercises outdoors, running, jumping and
ball-plav to be encouraged [II. 237, 241-243,
245-247, 261].
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MENTAL DEVELOPMENT
[II. 14-23]
Instincts: curiosity shows itself by perpetual
questioning, also by building [II. 245-247]
and taking things to pieces; play runs out in
two directions: lively motion, such as running,
jumping and rhythmic dancing, and also play
that represents adult activities, with some
slight interest in formal games; both play and
curiosity lead to runnintj away [II, 55, 258-
262],
Emotions, upset by new school conditions, more
changeable [II. 135-140].
Memory more clear, consecutive and voluntary,
as power of attention improves [II. 93, 94].
Understanding, definite ideas about everything;
new notions from school and playmates.
Mental activities: imagination lively, builds a
fairy world in play; love of listening to fairy
tales; attempts to print and represent a little
by drawings; interest in color, 4th year, yields
to new interest in form of things, Sth or 6th
year; interest in play or work is in the activ-
ity itself rather than in the result, and so is
not prolonged or continuous; all his activities
(by the si.xth year) are affected by the fact
that he now has a larger environment than
his home [II. 121-123, 266, 267]. Quick,
eager spontaneousness is his mental keynote.
MENTAL SUGGESTIONS
[II. 44-57, 257]
For home occupation, give materials for weaving,
molding, drawing: blocks, balls and things
for playing house, store, railroad, etc.; plants;
objects to stimulate collections; free play
rather than games [II. 235, 236, 250, 251].
Use the best Montessori and kindergarten ideas
[II. 44-54] to enrich his experience in every
possible way.
For home requirement: telling time, dressing,
singing scale, counting up to 100, simple
knitting, coarse sewing, helping about the
house [II. 256, 257].
Home reading aloud [II. 230-233], singing [II.
261, 292], memorizing [II. 87-90, 280-283].
Home nature study [II. 100, 101, 118].
Stories of fairies, animals and things near home
[II. 270-277, 403-406].
Be a companion in the child's play, interests and
school work [II. 42, 187].
Guard purity of speech [II. 83-86].
Give simple sex-information before entering kin-
dergarten [I. 11-13, 361, 362, 374, 375], and
refute fears and superstitions picked up in
school [II. 68-70].
A CHART OF CHILD DEVELOPMENT
FOURTH TO SIXTH YEAR (From the Third to the Sixth Birthday)
Tlicsc rcfcKiiccs suggest liclpfid explanatory passages in "The Child Welfare Manual"
MORAL DEVELOPMENT
SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT
Imaginary companions common in 4th year [II.
125, 126].
The child now enjoys play with other children
and with pets.
Still selfish and self-assertive.
In general, the individual stage.
SOCIAL SUGGESTIONS
Supervise companionships and play, to supply in-
itiative and prevent quarreling [II. 146-149].
Do not give too much responsibility for care lest
pets suflfer [II. 262-265].
Insist on responsibility for orderliness and special
assigned tasks to teach partnership in home
relations [I. 81-83; II. 249, 250].
Insist on acts of cheerfulness, patience, and polite-
ness. They tend to build the virtues of which
they are the symbols [II. 457-459], and they
are the basis of all his future social life.
Social feeling may be stimulated through appro-
priate stories [I. 73-75; II. 251-256, 270-275],
and dramatizing such stories together [ll.
260, 266-270].
Give confidential companionship to the child,
especially at bedtime and when he craves
sympathy [I. 172-175].
Singing in the home is one of the best ways to
develop the social life of the household [II.
261, 291].
At about 5th year strong independence, some-
times leading to revolt against authority [II.
55, 218, 219].
Imagination, leading to fear, also develops capac-
ity of trust [IL 123-126].
Confused through imaginativeness or fear [II.
123-126].
First hero-worship (father, mother, policeman,
etc.) appears [II. 201, 411-415, 451, 452].
MORAL SUGGESTIONS
[II. 390-397]
Independence must not become disobedience at
home or bullying away from home. Meet by
interested activity.
The child should be trained to see and express
truth clearly and never be scared into lying
[II. 127-132].
Teach:
Truthfulness, by precept and example;
Loyalty, through love [II. 43, 44];
Courage, by storv, example and commenda-
tion [II. 161, 388] ;
Self-confidence, through encouragement of
effort [II. 139];
Self-control, bv phvsical discipline and play
[L 332, 350-354; IL 406];
Caution, by explanation of the lessons of
experience;
Personal reserve, by instruction, and a certain
amount of repression;
Punctuality, by penalty for failure;
Cherfulness, by example, interest, and love
[L 104].
Teach the child to carry his trust of parental and
other human strength over into trust in God
[II. 409, 410, 435, 437-439, 454, 455].
Encourage original expressions of gratitude and
trust in prayer.
Utilize the admirable qualities in the child's he-
roes as examples. Furnish others in stories,
especially the Bible stories [II. 403-406].
Establish habit of attendance at Sunday-school
about 5th year, and church about 6th year
[II. 449-451].
Use his spontaneous feelings toward goodness in
every possible way for kindly, generous ac-
tivities.
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WHAT AN AVERAGE CHILD MAY BE ABLE TO DO
BY THE END OF THIS PERIOD*
TAKEN LARGELY FROM DATA BY THE LATE
NAOMI NORSWORTHY
Note. — The words "he" and "his" wherever used in these lists generally apply to activities appro-
priate to girls as well as boys, unless otherwise indicated.
1. He can attend to and control his bodily
functions.
2. He can perform the simpler courtesies of
good breeding.
3. He can to some extent restrain the impulse
to cry when disappointed or hurt, to kick and
.shriek when angry, to handle what he knows
to be another's property, and can stop sulks,
crossness, and contrariness.
4. He can obey.
5. He can understand simple instructions and
hold them in mind sufficiently well to carry them
out.
6. He can pick out a few colors and express
a preference among them.
7. He will have a vocabulary of from 2,000
to 4.000 words. He will understand more words
than he uses.
8. Rote memory is good.
9. He can build or alter simple forms for use
in play.
10. He can make a rude drawing and perhaps
print a few words.
11. He can tell a simple story, partly of his
own.
12. He can act out a simple story, and pursue
an imaginative play for some time.
13. He is in the midst of the "how" and "why"
period.
14. He is full of spontaneous feelings toward
goodness, which may easily be turned into the
channels of kindly, generous service of others.
A 'ROUND-THE-YEAR PROGRAM t
ARRANGED BY
THE COMMITTEE ON CURRICULUM OF THE INTERNATIONAL
KINDERGARTEN UNION
General Outline for the Year
September, October, November-
1. Life III the Home. The family; care of the
home: preparation of food for the family.
2. Sources of Food. The garden and farm;
the market, the peddler, the dairy; occupations
related to the supply of food; direct attention to
the food products, fruits, vegetables, grains, eggs,
milk, bread, butter, and to some of the simpler
proceses involved in food getting.
3. Seasonal Activities and Interests. Preserv-
ing and canning for Winter ; planting bulbs ;
gathering flowers, leaves, berries, seeds, nuts,
etc.; collecting caterpillars; preparation for and
celebration of Thanksgiving.
December
Preparation for Christmas. "Santa Glaus ;"
the toy-shop; making gifts; the Christinas festi-
val and tree.
January, February, March
I. Life in the Community. Houses for differ-
ent families; streets, walks, street lights; modes
of transportation in the community; public build-
* An excellent outline for the physical and mental examination of a child of this age, just entering school, is Riven
in The Child Welfare Manual, vol I, pages 336-338.
t As the mother reads the suggestions made by Mrs. Newell and all the other wise teachers for this period, she fee.s the
need at once of org.inizing them into some sort of a curriculum, so that she may have a program and plans for every month
of the school year. We have adopted for this purpose the epoch-making report made to the International Kindergarten Union
by its Committee on Curriculum, which is likely to guide our best kindergartners for a number of years to come.
A daily program is hardly practicable, because the conditions in each home vary, and it would hardly be wise, because
if offered, it would tend to bind down both mother and child and exalt a system instead of the needs and impulses of
260
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261
ings needed by the many families; various shops
and stores; post-office; fire department; school;
church.
2. Seasonal Interests. Out - of - door play in
snow and ice ; heating and lighting of homes and
other buildings; celebration of St. Valentine's
Day; recognition of Washington's Birthday; care
of plants now grown from bulbs planted in the
Autumn ; care of pet animals, fish, birds, etc.
April, May, June
1. Occupations Related to Clothing. Making
clothing; buying material at store or shop.
2. Seasonal Activities and Interests. Life in
the park and playground; excursions to observe
signs of Spring, budding of trees, birds return-
ing, coming of wild flowers; out-of-door play
with marbles, tops, etc.; gardening; raising
chickens or doves; celebration of Easter; cele-
bration of May Day.
Explanation of Outline
September, October, November
I. Life in the Home. The necessary work in-
volved in housekeeping, especially that related to
the supply of food for the family, furnishes ex-
cellent subject-matter for the Fall program. It
is all very familiar; the activities involved are
simple and objective, and they are intimately
related to the welfare and happiness of the chil-
dren themselves. (See: "Talking with and Help-
ing Mother," page 228.)
A few well-selected toys, such as a bed, a stove,
a broom, a tub, and some dolls, will suggest the
housekeeping plays. Large floor-blocks may be
used to make more beds, stoves, ovens. Clay
may be used for bread, cookies, cake, etc., to be
baked. Older children may make bedding for
their doll-beds. Paper napkins and doilies will
be needed to carry on the dining-room plays.
Designs developed from berry and seed-stringing
described below are sometimes applied in decorat-
ing the doilies. The art impulse may be con-
served also by attention to the arrangement of
table-furnishing and the effective placing of
flowers on the table. ( See : "Building Plays," page
187; "Making Cakes and Other Models," page
189; "Playing in Sand," page 191; "More Build-
ing Plays," page 212; "Hammer and Nails," page
215; "Making Things Out of Paper," page 216;
"Modeling," page 222 ; "Pictures and Painting,"
page 224; "Beginnings in Handwork," page 288;
"Constructive Play," page 355.)
In order to keep the child's interest and atten-
tion centered on the household activities and to
furnish motive for many of the plays and occupa-
tions, a playhouse may be provided in one corner
of the room by means of a screen. Here the
toys and block constructions may be kept from
day to day, additional furniture and equipment
supplied as need arises, and the life of the family
in the home, their work and their pleasures,
dramatized fully and freely.
The mother may suggest a real luncheon or
tea-party which will necessitate a trip to the
grocery-store, the dairy, or the bakery. A cereal
or some other food easily prepared may be
bought, cooked, and served by the child himself.
(The Bookshelf, vol. IV, "Mother's Cooking-
School.")
A series of plays and occupations of this kind,
developed largely by the child and supplemented
by pictures, stories, and conversation, serves to
bring isolated ideas, experiences, objects, and
processes into their true relation in the child's
thought, and to stimulate to further organization
of experience through play.
2. Sources of Food. The excursion to the
store suggests the desirability of a play-store, and
the child himself. The little study by Miss Beard, "Richard's Day," suggests how a mother may follow the suggestions of
a child's own activities and use them for educational ends.
It is not time yet for formal periods of school-discipline, but there may well be definite occasions each day for con-
scious learning. Every little child feels proud to be big enough to play "school," but he should do this in a way to make
him alwa-ys think of school as a privilege.
The daily experiences of the children will include some interests, impulses to activity, and emotions, which, although
not related to the series of topics which have been selected, should nevertheless be given opportunity for expression. .\
rainy day. with its interesting accompaniment of rubber boots, raincoat, and umbrella, might call for expression through
dramatic play, drawing, or song, which would be much more significant on that day than anything relating to the larger
unit of work or project which was being carried on.
It is most wise to keep a simple record of each day's activities and interests, and to file these, thus connecting one with
another, and using each day's successes and failures to help in planning new projects. The following is the form used at
tlie kindergarten of the Horace Mann School;
D.^Y'S RECORD
1. Material presented 4. How the child responded to the day's plan
2. How far the child is along in the use of it 5. Selection of response worth considering and using to-
morrow
3. Plan for the use of it to-day 6. Suggestion arising in this lesson for future work.
THE HOME KINDERGARTEN MANUAL
this may now become the next project.* It will
call for much experimentation with building
blocks and boards. It can be worked out on a
small scale by the child and later reproduced
with large building materials. To stock this
store furnishes numerous problems for the child
to solve, and affords him excellent experience in
selecting and shaping materials to serve his play-
purposes. (See: "Playing in Sand," page 191;
"How the Child Plays During the Fifth Year,"
page 211; "Building Plays," page 212; "Begin-
nings in Handwork," page 2S8 ; "Constructive
Play," page 355.
The extent to which garden and farm become
centers of interest depends necessarily upon the
child's experiences. A miniature sand-table farm,
showing buildings, fields, farm animals, etc., is
an interesting and valuable play-project for chil-
dren who are familiar with farm life. (See:
"Playing in Sand." page 191 ; "Outdoor Life, Pets,
and Gardening," page 229.)
Play with real fruit, grains, and vegetables in
the grocery-store or in connection with prepar-
ing and serving food in the home will give fn
opportunity for as much emphasis upon the proc-
ess of food-getting as is desirable. The making
of butter is a process which even little children
can carry on successfully, and they may help in
making jelly. Both butter and jelly may be saved
and used at the Thanksgiving festival.
3. Seasonal Activities and Interests. Parallel
with the interest in these domestic and industrial
activities will be interest in the season and some
of its characteristic aspects. Bulbs may be
planted in the Fall for early Spring blossoming.
Seeds, berries, and autumn leaves may be gath-
ered, sorted, and made into chains and wreaths.
As autumn flowers are brought in, the child may
arrange and place them in the room. Interest
in observing the caterpillar spin a cocoon will
be stimulated by taking the child out to find cater-
pillars and helping him to provide some means of
keeping them. (See: "The Instinct for Collect-
ing," page 197; "Nature Study," page 240; "Bet-
ty's Nature Friends," page 391 ; "Collecting Nature
Materials," page 295.)
The program for the season culminates in the
preparation for and celebration of Thanksgiving.
The child had some share in preparing food for
future use in the butter-making and preserving.
He has seen fruits and vegetables in abundance
• It matters little whether we talk ahoiit, sing about, or
dramatize, the policeman in October or in May, the carpenter
in January or in Tune, the birds in September or April, or
whether we take these specific representations at all, so that
we help the child through some representation to see how
his great fundamental needs of food, shelter, clothing, rest,
law, love, are met, that he may grow in relation to the social
whole." — Edna Dean Baker.
in the markets. He has gathered some vegeta-
bles from his own garden. These direct experi-
ences, enriched by pictures, conversation, song,
and story, will help the child to some realization
of the meaning of the harvest season. He may
prepare for Thanksgiving Day by decorating the
dining-room appropriately and beautifully. (See:
"Festivals," page 245.)
Children of kindergarten age can not under-
stand the historical significance of this holiday;
hence it is a mistake to give it to them. The
social significance of the day, however, may be
realized liy the child, through associating it with
the harvest and the pleasure that comes from
sharing good things with the family and friends.
This will lay the foundation for the appreciation
of the spiritual significance of the festival, which
will come to the child at a later period in his
development.
Hallowe'en is a day for the child to enjoy with
other children. It may be made the occasion
for a party. The celebration should emphasize
the wholesome, legitimate humor that is associ-
ated with the Jack-o'-lantern and the antics of
the elves and brownies.
December
Preparation for Christmas. The outline for
December suggests that three weeks of tiiis month
be devoted to work and play related to Christmas.
The little child's associations with this day are
in terms of Santa Claus and toys. The story,
"The Night Before Christmas," recalls all the
joys of the Christmas season. The child should
be given full opportunity to 'reproduce parts ot
the story through materials and in imitative and
dramatic play. The making of a toyshop and
toys will stimulate the child to his best efforts in
construction and supply incentive for further dra-
matic play. Songs and stories which interpret
the activities in which the child is engaged, or
the mood aroused by the experiences he is hav-
ing, will enhance the value of the entire Christ-
mas experience. The song, "Who Will Buy My
Toys?" is an example of a play-activity in poetic
form. "The Shoemaker and the Elves" is a
story closely related to the Christmas experience,
because it deals with the making of gifts and
contains the element of surprise. The spiritual
significance of the festival may be emphasized
by telling the story of the First Christmas.
After such happy experiences as these, the child
will be ready and eager to plan and make gifts
for his parents. This Christmas festival should
be the most beautiful of the year. The work
should be so planned that hurry and strain in
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263
connection with making gifts are avoided. All
preparations should be accompanied with pleas-
ure in doing and joy in anticipation. The gifts
should be carefully wrapped and tied or sealed.
(See: "Festivals," page 245.)
January, February, March
I. Life in the Cotmnunity. Occupations related
to food, clothing, and shelter, represent both home
and community activities in relation to each
other; but the home-life supplies the background
in each case, and the several neighborhood in-
dustries become interesting in connection with
some one or more heeds of the home and family.
(See: "Building Plays," page 212; "Hammer and
Nails," page 215; "Making Things Out of Paper,"
page 216; "Modeling," page 222; "Pictures and
Painting," page 224; "Constructive Play," page
355-)
It is desirable, in addition to these, to empha-
size the needs of and provision for the neighbor-
hood or community as a whole. There are fam-
ilies, represented by children themselves, living
in their several homes; these homes are located
on roads or streets; w'alks and street lights must
be provided so that travel and transportation
may be safe and comfortable. There are numer-
ous stores and shops on the business street of
the neighborhood which supply many of the needs
of the community. Provision is made for the
protection of the people by means of the fire
department and the police service; and for com-
munication through the work of the letter-car-
riers and post-office. There is the school for all
of the children; and the church attended by the
different families.
A miniature community as a project may be
easily developed out of the building of individual
houses on the same street or in the same neigh-
borhood. These structures will be characteristic
of the environment — single houses only, or single
houses, blocks of houses, and apartment build-
ings. As the houses are completed, other neces-
sary buildings of the community suggest them-
selves. The stores and shops of the miniature
community may be distinguished from one an-
other by their window displays. Sidewalks, street
lights, mail-boxes, and vehicles of various sorts
may be added as need for them is felt. In the
early spring the playground and park may be-
come additional projects especially interesting
and significant as the days grow warmer.
Associated with the construction are the plays
in which the children carry out in imitative and
imaginative form the various community activi-
ties. They -play at shopping, visiting, going to
school and church. They play postman, car
driver, policeman, etc. They visit the fire de-
partment and see the firemen and engines. Il-
lustrative drawing and modeling are other forms
of expression used to interpret these different
interesting and important phases of community
life. The play is simple and the products crude,
but they represent a child's method of entering
into the life of which he is a part and learning
something of its interrelations and interdepen-
dencies.
These objective and relatively permanent rep-
resentations of the objects and ideas involved in
the subject-matter hold the children's interest and
attention for several days or weeks.
2. Seasonal Interests. At Christmas time the
use of the holly, mistletoe, and evergreens will
call attention to the trees which keep their leaves
all Winter.
In Winter, if environment favors, the children
will make snowballs and snow-men. The melting
of the snow-men will serve to show the change
of- snow to water under the effect of warm sun-
shine.
During the short winter days attention should
be directed to the moon and stars, while they are
visible, before the children's bedtime; and verse
and song expressive of childlike feelings and
interest in these heavenly bodies may be used to
deepen the children's pleasure in them.
The bulbs planted in the Autumn may be
brought from the cellar and kept where the child
may watch them grow and give them the care
they need.
The planning and making of valentines will
furnish good problems in construction and design,
and this day, like Hallowe'en, may be used to
further the development of social spirit.
Washington's Birthday is a holiday which has
interest and significance for the older children
in the school and for the community in general.
The younger children tend to reflect, without un-
derstanding, a community interest of this kind.
They are, obviously, too young to appreciate the
service of Washington to his country; but they
will be satisfied with the explanation that he was
a great soldier and the first President of the
United States. They may help to celebrate his
birthday by making suitable room decorations and
soldier caps for themselves, by carrying flags
while marching to martial music, and by hearing
and joining in the singing of our national songs.
Thus will pleasurable and right associations be
made by them with the name of George Wash-
ington, a national figure too great to be intro-
duced to children through anything so trivial as
the commonly used cherry-tree stofy.
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THE HOME KINDERGARTEN MANUAL
April. May, June
1. The Need and Supply of Clothing. As oc-
cupations related to the supply of food may be
initiated through suggestive toys, so interest in
clothing and occupations necessary to supply it
may be approached through dolls and doll plays.
Dolls which need garments made of actual cloth
may be used, or paper dolls, or perhaps both
kinds ; in any case the problem is one which will
make a strong appeal to the children. ( See : "Mak-
ing Doll-Furniture," page 232 ; "Weaving," page
-'36; "Making Doll-Dresses," page 239; also in
the Boys and Girls Bookshelf, vol. IV, page
75, "The Little Mother's Work-Basket.")
Material is the first necessity. The children
may go to purchase it themselves. The planning
and making of the garments will follow. This
work will suggest the stores and shops again as
places where not only materials, but also ready-
made garments, may be secured. It may involve
the dry-goods store, or the department store, ac-
cording to the circumstances and environment.
The plays and occupations will bring the chil-
dren in contact with a variety of textile mate-
rials. All occupations related to clothing take on
an added significance in connection with the out-
of-door life of the season. When the subject is
a part of the spring program, the need of cotton
clothing, shade hats, sunbonnets, and parasols may
be emphasized. If it is included in the winter
work, heavy coats, caps, mittens, rubbers, and leg-
gings are necessaries to be provided. In either
case, the merchant as a factor in supplying human
needs becomes a person of special interest.
2. Seasonal Activities and Interests. During
the late Spring and early Summer, when the chil-
dren can be out of doors much more than at any
other time of the year, the central interest of the
program may be selected from the activities and
interests relating directly to the season of the
year. (See: "Nature Study," page 240; "An In-
troduction to Nature Study," page 384; "Betty's
Nature Friends," page 391.)
The playgrounds and parks are being made
ready for summer use. As suggested elsewhere,
the representation of a playground or park in
miniature may be the final project of the work
growing out of the interests in community life.
In the early Spring, the effect of sunshine on
seeds and bulbs planted in the window-boxes will
have been noted. Excursions will be planned in
order that the children may discover signs of
new life as they appear in the grass, leaf buds,
and early wildflowers. Interest in these may be
stimulated through drawing and paper cutting as
well as through language and poetry.
Observation of returning birds should be
encouraged and an effort made through pictures,
conversation, drawing, etc., to help children to
recognize readily a few birds common to tlie
locality. The child may also make a bath for birds
in the yard and keep it filled with water.
In addition to these experiences incidental to
the objects and phenomena of Nature, the activ-
ities of gardening and the care of animals should
be carried on. Children of kindergarten age are
too young to carry gardening activities very far.
They should, however, have the opportunity to
plant some flower and vegetable seeds which will
mature quickly.
Seeds of various kinds planted in pots, bowls, or
boxes, made or decorated by the children, will
help to keep the interest active through appeal
to the ownership instinct. Furthermore, the plant
growing in the little pot on the window-sill is
much more in evidence than the plants growing
in the relatively remote garden. It is worth while,
therefore, to plant seeds in the Spring and bulbs
in the Autumn, both indoors and out. Lettuce and
radishes planted early in May will be ready to
harvest by the time school closes in June. The
seeds of these and other plants may be gathered
in the early Autumn.
Animals which are interesting in their habits
and which may be easily cared for are goldfish,
canary birds, ring doves, rabbits, and a hen and
chicks. In a number of instances kindergartners
have succeeded in raising a brood of little downy
chicks.
Opportunity thus to become intimately ac-
quainted with two or three types of animal life
is far more important for the children than
merely to be introduced to a larger number and
variety of animals, although the aspect of num-
ber and variety need not be neglected.
The festival days of the season, Easter and
May Day, should be recognized in appropriate
fashion. Since Easter comes at the beginning
of Spring, the associations with it should be those
of new life. The season is one of promise.
May Day, like St. Valentine's Day, is a time
for surprises. It should be so celebrated as to
give pleasure to friends and neighbors.
The old custom of hanging baskets of flowers
on neighbors' doors is a charming one to per-
petuate.
Method
In general, the method of using subject-matter
selected from home and community life, or from
Nature study, involves the following:
I. Recall of familiar experience through real
objects, toy representations, pictures, conversa-
tion, or through some closely related experience.
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265
2. Extension or interpretation throug-h excur-
sions, or by means of objects or processes in the
home, etc.
3. Interpretation and organization through one
or more of the several avenues of expression or
forms of play. The third step usually involves
for the child a problem which he will be inter-
ested in solving. For example, suppose the chil-
dren have been shaping cookies of clay. The
question of baking may present itself, and they
then realize that baking tins and ovens are
needed. The first problem for the child may be,
"How can I change this piece of paper into a
pan to hold my cookies?" The next problem
follows, "How can I make an oven in which to
bake this pan of cookies?"
Attainments
The attainments are realized so largely in
terms of the various activities of the program,
handwork, language, drawing, excursions, and
so on, that it is difficult to formulate them apart
from these several activities except in very gen-
eral terms. A year's work as outlined below
should result in the following values for the
children :
I. Attitudes, Interests, Tastes. A broader and
more intelligent interest in those phases of social
and natural environment included.
An eager, receptive attitude toward new expe-
rience resulting in the development of new in-
terests.
2. Habits, Skill. Increased ability to relate and
organize experience.
Increased ability to adjust oneself to social
situations.
Increased power of attention shown in ability
to concentrate on a series of related ideas and
activities.
Increased power to think and work indepen-
dently.
3. Knowledge, Informcfion. A considerable
fund of valuable information concerning the
home and neighborhood activities and natural
objects and phenomena to which attention has
been drawn.
Some realization of the social relationships and
moral values involved in certain of these activi-
ties.
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Dewey, John. Froebel's educational principles. In
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Vol. VII. June, 1913.
Wee Grace, just opposite Nelson, is busily \vTiting answers
to a column of examples. 4-t-2=6, 3 — 3^0. 7 — 2=? Ah!
that is a puzzler! The bro%vn head is shaking sadly. The
brown eyes gaze steadily at the hard problem. The other
children hand in their work. Grace is not ready. Recess
comes. Still she sits there. At last the teacher goes to her
and says, "Let me help you, Gracie." The child lifts her
flushed face and answers bravely, "Mamma tells me to try my
best before I let anyone help me. I think I can do it pretty
soon, thank you."
It is a small incident, yet it speaks volumes for the home
influence exerted upon that child, and when the right answer
is obtained, the teacher, if her insight is keen, will reahze
a little of the sj-mpathetic admiration that will thriU the
mother heart when the story is related to her.
— Angelina W. Wray.
"In her fine contribution to kindergarten literature, "The
Kindergarten in American Education," Miss Nina Vande-
walker gives these four principles which the psychologist of
to-day approves, not for the kindergarten alone, but for all
education: first, education is a process of development rather
than a process of instruction. The child is not an empty
vessel to be filled, but a growing organism with unfolding
power of body, mind, and spirit. Second, play and not work
in the sense of drudgery is the natural means of development
during the early years. Third, that the child's creative activ-
ity must be the main factor in his education. He "learns by
doing" rather than by memorizing facts. Fourth, that his
present interests and needs rather than the demands of the
future should determine the material and the method to be
employed. Instead of selecting subject-matter which as an
adult he might understand and use, we select that which he
can know, enjoy, and use in his play-projects now; for he
who lives the life of the present day of his development most
fully will be most ready for to-morrow."
— Edna Dean Baker.
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WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THE THIRD
TO THE SIXTH BIRTHDAY
RICHARD'S DAY*
A REAL DAY OF A REAL BOY, AGED FIVE, AND LIVIXG IN THE COUNTRY
FREDERICA BEARD
Note. — This little observation is worth the whole of some volumes of child study. It shows how
the mother might have taken advantage of the impulses named in the second column in so many of
the ways Mrs. Newell and others suggest, and helped him carry them just a step farther until they
really meant something toward his development.
Trv making such notes of your own child for to-day, and then to-morrow apply them in your com-
panionship with him.
Time
7:00 A.M.
After
Breakfast
8 :45 A.M
9:15 A.M
10:15 A.M
11:00 A.M
12:00 M.
After
Dinner
4:00 P.M
After
Supper
Events t
Got up singing and continued to sing
while he dressed himself.
He and Sister Barbara (aged three)
played with large "paper dolls"
(really cardboard, of baby size, with
clothes to put on and off).
Went to woods to play in "camp"
that Father made for him out of
pine boughs.
Returned for Barbara.
Brought Barbara home from "camp."
took his cart and went to pine grove
for chips for kindling.
Went with Grandma "down street" to
get potatoes.
Made mud-pies.
Playing in barn with neighbor. More
playing with cart and in mud.
Had to stay on couch because of quar-
reling.
Played "bomb," "pendulum" and
"fish" with rope tied to soft ball.
Undressed himself; teased Grandma
to read a story, which she did.
When in bed he and Barbara talked
for "one solid hour."
Comments
(a) Joyous expression.
(b) Doing for himself.
(a) Desire to "live over" life at home.
(6) Boy cares for dolls (except when ridiculed, in
this case by cousin whose parents have incul-
cated the notion of unmanliness).
(f) Parental instinct as true in boys as girls if not
crushed out.
(o) Desire to represent home life on simpler scale
than house offers.
(6) Interest in nature.
(c) Interest in construction (just beginning).
Desire for companionship.
Play for a purpose, just showing itself at five years.
(Work is anything done for a result: here is
a mixture: the doing for the fun of it — play;
the doing for what comes from it — work.)
Same as above (chips for kindling; going for po-
tatoes), with the interest of going somewhere
with someone.
Easy medium for representation and construction.
Repetition.
(fl) Selfishly overriding Sister, teasing, etc.
(6) Imitating: representing things of motion (ac-
tion),
(f) Imagination.
(a) Eager for story.
(6) Eager for expression.
* From "The Beginner's Worker and Work,'* by Frederica Beard, published by the Abingdon Press, New York,
by permission of the author and publisher.
t Comment of Mother: "I have not told him to do a thing; we never have time to silperintend his play."
Used
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267
THE FIFTH YEAR
BY
MARY L. READ
During this year Mother often wonders why
Jimmie, who has been so docile before, is becom-
ing so disobedient and impudent, and why Katie,
who has been so eager to follow around and
"'help Mother," no longer wants to dust the chairs
or put away the silver, but gets "tired of work-
ing"; and why Henry, who hitherto has been
3greeable with his toys and playmates, is now
so quarrelsome and teasing.
The explanation is practically the same for all
of these manifestations. Jimmie and Katie and
Henry, and any other of the normal four-year-
olds, is developing his own personality and be-
coming more conscious of himself. He has more
of a mind of his own, and it is as natural for
him to express this as it is for a spring of water
to bubble up through the ground, breaking
through the impediments that would hold it down.
This force of personality, initiative, self-con-
fidence, dauntlessness, is a very precious posses-
sion. It is a mainspring of democracy and an
essential for leadership. The wise man who finds
a spring of fresh water on his lands does not at-
tempt to repress it by covering it over with a
heavy plank. Neither does he leave it to seep
through the ground and make bogs. He brings
some stones, so it will collect into a useful and
beautiful pool, or he pipes it into the house, so
that it may be utilized for the benefit of all the
family. Tlie wise parent heeds this parable of
Nature, and neither attempts to crush out this
developing sense of personality by tyranny and
lack of sympathy, nor does he let it run riot
into disobedience, impertinence, rudeness, quar-
relsomeness.
How to Train Personality
The wise parent guards, leads, and directs this
developing force into constructive social expres-
sion, n the child were an idiot he would never
develop this sense of personality. If he were
feeble-minded or a neurasthenic he might need
special stern measures or institutional treatment.
But being a healthy, normal child, he has now
other developing traits that can also be utilized
— the "stones," or "pipes," as it were, for direct-
ing this force.
These other and supplementary traits will vary
somewhat with each child, but most children at
this age have also a keen sense of humor — espe-
cially of the grotesque — a strong imitative ten-
dency and a great desire to be like grown-ups.
They are able to reason with considerable clear-
ness, and they are affectionate.
The mother and father, on their part, must
exercise great control of temper, must keep in
close touch with the child's feelings and his way
of looking at life and experience, must use all
their own sense of humor, common sense, and far-
sightedness, and keep a firm, kindly control.
Does this appear to call for a grasp of com-
plex details, a high degree of personality and a
great deal of personal judgment instead of offer-
ing a simple, specific rule that can be applied in
all cases? Even so. Child-training is indeed a
complex process, and for its efficient practice
calls for fine discrimination, well-trained judg-
ment, ready wit, scientific knowledge, poised per-
sonality.
The sooner we all appreciate this the sooner
s'hall we abandon the present irrational policy of
expecting parents somehow to be endowed from
heaven with miraculous gifts of these qualifica-
tions when a child is born ; the sooner shall we
appreciate the absurd delusion that "anybody can
mind the kid. because he is so little and doesn't
know anything." And then we shall shake off
our inertia and begin to train young people for
these responsibilities as thoroughly and intelli-
gently as for any other responsible and profes-
sional work.
Utilizing Humor
To consider the cases of Jimmie, Katie, and
Henry: Suppose Jimmie has a keen sense of
humor. With his new sense of personality added
to this, he will naturally make a great game —
and to him a most amusing one — of seeing how
much his elders can be made to stand for by way
of inattention, disobedience, and impudence, and
how much he can rufile their tempers. His
parents, if wise, will not "ruffle." Instead they
will play the game his way.
For instance, there is no fun crawling under
the bed, and thus trying to escape being washed
for supper, if your mother will not chase you
and try to reach you with a long stick, nor get
cross and "rave" because you don't come out.
If she just lets you alone, and presently when
you feel inside you that a bowl of cereal and milk
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and baked apple are essential to your comfort
and happiness, and you crawl out to get them —
and find everything put away, and Mother just
smilingly says suppertime is past and that you
can have some plain bread and water if you are
hungry, and all your importunings bring nothing
else — if this is the way you are treated, there
is no fun in it.
Henry, for his part, has not such a rippling
sense of humor, but is full of "make-believe."
According to the dramatic parts he is now inter-
ested in, he will respond heartily to suggestion,
where he would naturally rebel at being ordered
about. When he is galloping around with his
make-believe horse and the time has arrived to
get washed for supper, he will quickly meet the
suggestion that "supper is ready for the pony,"
and will come prancing and neighing to "have
his harness off"; he will come to the "stable"
for his "oats and hay."
Using Imagination
Katie is more prosaic and mature in her part,
but dramatic and imitative. She doesn't want to
stop her doll-play and get ready for supper either,
but the suggestion that "Mrs. White and her
child are coming to have supper with us" falls
upon listening ears, and "Mrs. White" comes glee-
fully and shows her "child" how to have her face
and hands washed for supper ; she graciously
partakes of her evening meal, instead of coming
reluctantly and sulkily.
Obedience must be required. The child must
learn that the parent's word is serious and that
there are social and rational limitations to the
expression of his personality; but it is not neces-
sary that he should be made constantly, con-
sciously — and therefore painfully — aware of
those limitations.
It will require weeks, possibly months, during
this year for the child to learn that Mother and
Father mean exactly what they say ; that atten-
tion is to be given the first time- the child is
spoken to, and that no exception to obedience is
permitted. If a parent is inconsistent, at some
times requiring obedience and at other times let-
ting the matter go by default, then the child is
never certain how far he may go, and there is
constant rebellion, friction, and unhappiness.
Impertinence may develop first in a playful
way, when the child is cautiously feeling how
far his elders will permit him to go in slapping,
pinching, biting, in calling them disrespectful
names or making disrespectful remarks. The
self-respecting parent will not allow himself or
herself to be called "a mean old thing," or be
told to "shut up," or "I'll give you a thrashing,"
even in play; nor will he be drawn into quibbling
and arguing with the child. At this age the child
respects only reasonable and just authority that
allows no arguing, firmness that is also just, and
control of temper that neither explodes nor nags
at him.
Using Tools
Much of this developing personality and energy
can be utilized constructively in play. From now
on there is need of plenty of space and facilities
to run, shout, climb, jump, roll, turn somersaults,
throw balls and stones. Nature has given the
child — let us hope — a superabundance of physical
vitality and energy, in order that through his
inner impetus he shall use his muscles and lungs,
and thereby develop both his body and his mind.
If the child, with all this dynamic energy, be
kept indoors, in crowded quarters, without space,
freedom, liberty, and the apparatus for such ex-
ercise, not only is his natural physical and mental
development being handicapped and retarded, but
there is bound to be many an explosion, many a
spontaneous combustion of vital spirits, constant
frictions. Moreover, the child is frequently,
under such impossible conditions, accused of
being "naughty," "bad." "wicked," "unmanage-
able," when he is perfectly good and normal, and
these epithets really belong to his restricted, un-
natural, abnormal environment.
A box of carefully selected tools and materials
for handiwork is needed now. Nothing should
be included that taxes the eyes and the fingers.
All fine work, such as sewing with a cambric
needle, stringing small beads, straws, papers,
seeds, berries, popcorn, following small dots or
fine lines, is too great a strain on the eyes and
the nerves, which need to be conserved and
strengthened for the heavy demands that civiliza-
tion will put upon them in the oncoming years.
Such fine work must wait until the eyes and fin-
gers and nerves are ready, at si-x or seven or
eight years of age.
The large blocks, in a variety of shapes, and
the sand-box are the most plastic and valuable
materials, and they are naturally put to constant
use now in giving definiteness to the child's ideas
and his expression of his ideas. With the car-
pentry tools he can begin fashioning simple doll
furniture and toys, but his interest is still chiefly
in experimenting with the tools, and he is not
ready for careful workmanship.
What Dawdling Means
One of the usual characteristics of this year
is dawdling, day-dreaming, being dilatory. Some-
times this is- because the child is carrying on an
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imaginative play in his own mind, and he has not
yet learned how to think his own thoughts and
to use his hands at the same time. Sometimes
it is simply that he is not thinking at all.
Part of this dawdling must be expected, over-
looked, or allowed for. Persistent effort, how-
ever, should be made to overcome this in such
necessary processes as dressing, washing, eating.
Sometimes occasion demands that the dressing
process, for instance, must be finished in a few
minutes, and then 'the mother must put on the
child's clothes and wash his face and hands for
him.
There is the temptation to do this work for him
all the time because he takes so long, but this
temptation must yield, at least for some of these
processes every day, to the greater need of his
training in self-reliance, responsibility," attention
to what he is doing, manual ability.
The nervous mother must learn to control her
impatience and refrain from "Hurry up," "Be
quick, now," and similar nagging bromides as
conscientiously as she would refrain from swear
words. The nervous child will be made irritable
and nervous by such nagging, and the stolid child
will soon become so accustomed to it that he
will pay no attention.
Part of the preparation of the child for his con-
centrated attention on these activities, when he
comes to do them himself, is to keep his attention
on them at this time when the mother is doing
them for him. In dressing, for example, as each
garment is put on, she can talk of it: "Here
comes the petticoat," "Now we put the dress on,"
"Here goes the stocking on the left foot," "On
goes the right shoe." Little games can then be
invented to "run a race" with Mother while she
is dressing, or to see which child will be dressed
first, or to be all dressed before the big hand on
the clock is at half-past seven, or to surprise
Father by being dressed and hiding behind his
chair before he comes in for breakfast.
Children's undergarments and their every-day
clothes should be made to fasten in front or on
the shoulder, with easily working buttonholes and
bone buttons of moderate size. By sewing but-
tons of different sizes on a strip of cloth and
making buttonholes to match, a mother can soon
find out experimentally which size the child can
do with least difficulty, and can use that on his
clothing. The large size snap-fasteners are even
easier than buttons. More than one ingenious
mother has thought to train the little fingers for
these processes by cutting the strip of buttons
and buttonholes of a convenient size from an old
garment and putting this with the child's play-
things, or hanging it by a gay ribbon around
his neck, where he can experiment with it inter-
mittently.
Physical Exercise for This Year
All the sliding, plank-walking, jumping, and
climbing and the apparatus for such play are to
be provided this year. The trunk, back, and arm
muscles are better developed for throwing now.
A basket-ball should be provided for tossing to
a partner and also for tossing into a "basket,"
which can easily be made from a barrel hoop
or a piece of heavy wire, and some mosquito
netting, fastened low enough on a wall so the
child can toss the ball up into it, as in playing
the game. Such ball play utilizes both sides of
the body and all the trunk muscles.
Small bags filled with sawdust are as much fun
as bean-bags, and they do not hurt so badly if
they happen to hit a child in the face, as often
happens.
Rhythm and Music
If the rhythm and music previously suggested
have been continued, the child should be able now
to clap or march in time to marching rhythm.
He should also be able to skip and to do some
of the very simple little folk dances. It is not
probable that he can yet carry a tune, but he
loves to sing, and this is to be encouraged and
developed, being very careful that it is done
softly, never shouting nor screeching, which might
seriously injure the vocal cords. Many of the
Mother Goose songs have been set to music.
The natural range of the child's voice at this
age is about from middle D to upper D. A few
minutes with the child at the piano, trying his
range, will discover what his individual compass
is. The songs taught him should then be chosen
within this range. Many songs written for chil-
dren are at fault in this respect.
Pictures and Color
Pictures have a very great attraction at this
age, especially pictures of animals, children,
ships, trains, industries, and funny pictures.
There are many beautiful children's books and
pictures produced by real artists, using the strong
lines, vivid color, and spirit of fun that children
of this age both love and need.
The child's love of color, drawing, and painting
becomes a great enthusiasm during this year, and
should have ample means for expression. In-
stead of a water-color box with a variety of
colors, purchase a box containing only the three
primary colors — red, blue, and yellow — and let
him learn to combine these to make the others.
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Good and Evil Imaginative Imitation
The child has no standard of worth in the
activities he shall imitate, but includes everything
that comes within his observation. He will play
drunken man, villain, funeral, as readily as
wholesome parts. The problem is to supply him
with a wide range of the latter, and if his atten-
tion has been called to the former to divert his
activity by positive suggestions of other things,
letting him forget the unwholesome. In this con-
nection thought must be given to military play.
There is no getting away from the fact that
soldier-play' cultivates in the child an innate ad-
miration for militarism. Unfortunately the tragic
phases are not presented to him — the physical tor-
ture of the soldiers, the heartbreak of the mothers
and wives, the destitution and sorrow of the or-
phaned children. Of the brutality, the sordid-
ness, the vandalism, the lust, the social chaos, the
enmity, he could, of course, have no comprehen-
sion.
There are other examples of bravery, courage,
steadfastness to duty, fine physique, to hold be-
fore him as ideals. The life-savers on the shore,
the firemen, policemen, engineers, divers, explor-
ers, miners, are only a few examples of men
whose work calls for these qualities, and at the
same time is picturesque and constructive. He
can beat his drum and march with them. He
can even fight, if need be, but let it be with beasts
and dragons, with personifications of spiritual
evils and bad habits and faults, and never with his
fellow-men.
WHAT A CHILD IS LIKE THE SIXTH YEAR
BY
MARY L. READ
This is the year when that metamorphosis oc-
curs which gradually changes the babyish little
ones into little men and women. They are be-
coming every day less dependent, their pronun-
ciation and use of the language is almost cor-
rect; they are more self-reliant in thought, with
a growing sense of individuality, more "mind of
their own"; they are able to rim, dance, skip, hop
— all complex accomplishments; many children
can carry a tune ; they are eager to do things
like grown-up people.
Get the Best Out of His Dramatic Play
One of the most marked characteristics of this
year is the dramatic play. A large part of the
child's time is spent in playing he is someone else
— the fireman, a sailor, the grocery boy, Hia-
watha, and a thousand other characters. He is
likely to play he is any person that he has known
about, either through seeing or hearing about
them. Therein lies a great responsibility and
opportunity for his parents.
By providing examples of worthy characters
in the stories they tell him or the persons whom
they bring about him, or the neighborhood in
which they decide to live, they are selecting the
characters he will imitate and like which he will
try to become.
What shall be done when the child chooses an
unworthy character, as, for instance, a drunken
man? One way is to command him to stop and
scold him for doing something wrong, as though
he knew the degradation of such a character.
Another way is to ignore this and let him play
it, thereby letting him carry the impression that
drunkenness is one of the natural and necessary
experiences. An educational way is to start a
more fascinating play so that he drops this, with-
out comment for the time, and then, on some
early occasion, to tell a story of the misfortunes
in the drunkard's family, so that he will of him-
self draw the conclusion that drunkenness is an
evil and disgrace and that the drunken man is
someone to be pitied, not laughed at.
He will find it great fun to play "Eskimo,"
"Indian," "Greek," and a score of other nation-
alities. There are so many good books now pub-
lished giving accurate and concrete accounts of
the ways of living in every country and age, that
such parents as will devote themselves to this
need have no difficulty in finding at the public
libraries all they can possibly utilize, and much
more, for such imitative play. (See volume V of
the Boys and Girls Bookshelf.)
If the child at this stage is getting true pic-
tures of these occupations and peoples and char-
acters, this play becomes of great educational
value; he can not fill in the pictures out of his
own imagination. Such play, too, gives him a
large vision, a large sympathy toward all the peo-
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pies of the world, and lifts him forever out of a
merely petty, selfish attitude toward others.
What Handwork Is Suitable Now
A second marked characteristic is the desire
to make things with his hands. Such materials
and tools as he uses should still be chiefly those
requiring work of the large muscles, and little
demand upon the fingers, the eyes, and the nerves.
So a hammer and saw, and a coping saw are
better for him than a needle; wood and card-
board are better than fine straws, sticks, and
papers. Carpentry, coping saw work, the making
of playhouses out of wooden boxes, the making
of wooden furniture for the dolls, the weaving of
little rugs with inch-wide cloth strips, hold just
as much enjoyment as 'trying to work with tooth-
picks, peas, or paper strips, and they make none of
the strain upon undeveloped muscles and nerves.
Painting, which is one of the chief joys now, be-
cause of the love of color, should be with a large
brush.
As much as possible, the house painter's brush
should still be used, and painting done of play-
houses, play furniture, and fences; for picture
painting, not too fine a brush, and this set in a
handle as big as a carpenter's pencil. All of the
painting should be spontaneous and an expression
of imagination, and there should be nothing that
might cramp this, in the picture given for color-
ing, or the criticisms of work.
Much of the picture painting should be without
a drawn figure. Such figures as are used should
be with simple, firm outlines. Large-sized crayon
and drawing pencils should also be used, and these
put away whenever the child shows by his tight
hold upon them that he is getting tense.
Dealing with Imaginative Lying
About this time many children, perhaps most
of them, begin telling stories which many a
parent condemns as "lies." The child's world at
this age is a strange mixture of the "real" and
the "unreal." His fairy-tales are as "real" to him
as his bread-and-milk world — sometimes more so.
He lives in a world of imagination, as the good
poets and fiction writers do. Parents need to be
very careful, therefore, to judge wisely, not to
accuse the child of lying w^ien he had no inten-
tion of deceiving but was simply telling some
tale that was so vivid to his imagination that to
him it was really true.
If the child is getting too deep in this imagi-
native world, there are subtle ways of letting him
see that you know the game, too; for instance,
after he has told a special "whopper," you may
say, "I know some fairy tales, too," and proceed
to tell one to match his; or a gentle "I guess you
saw that in your dream."
Definite Responsibilities Begin Now
Responsibility is one of the necessary, though
often hard, lessons of this time. It is so much
easier to be waited upon than to do things for
one's self, and we all dream of a fairyland where
personal responsibility for the drudgery of every-
day living no longer takes our time and energy
from the "fun" we would like to have. But life
on this earth is not without these responsibilities,
and so the five-year-old must begin to learn to
take his share.
There should be some definite responsibilities
for every day. Of course he should now be dress-
ing himself, taking care of his own clothes as
they are taken off, keeping his own toys in order,
brushing up crumbs he spills on the floor. He
should also have some other responsibilities in
preparing his food, clearing up after meals, help-
ing sometimes in little ways with the laundering
of his clothes. This is necessary that he may
appreciate what others are doing for him.
There also should be some responsibilities for
others, as well as for his own care. He can help
bring in the wood, water the flowers, dust the
dining-room, bring the milk, or do other little
errands, at least for an hour at intervals during
the day. Thus he will come to appreciate that
he is a part of society, that each member of
society must expect to take some share in work-
ing for others.
Care should be taken to respect his own inter-
ests, and not to interrupt him needlessly in the
midst of some absorbing game. Fortunate the
child brought up in a family without servants !
Beginnings of Thrift
Thrift is a fundamental virtue that should be-
gin at this time, if not earlier. About the great-
est temptation the child at this age has is, as soon
as he gets them, to spend his pennies for temporary
and self-indulgent things — chewing gum and lol-
lipops, jimcracks and moving-picture shows. Not
to mention the injury to his physical health from
such indulgence in sweets, or the flicker of light,
the poor ventilation, the excitement and the preco-
cious mental consequences of such expenditures,
there are the more fundamental consequences of
lack of foresight and planning, the yielding to
self-indulgence, the spendthrift habit.
The child in the country, of course, has fewer
temptations, yet he may be just as intemperate
when opportunity offers. There is a negative
way of controlling the pennies, either by not giving
them or by not permitting the child to spend them
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in these ways. Neither of these, however, is
educational, but merely an exercise of police-
power.
The educational way is to use "the expulsive
power of a new affection." Make something else
so much more interesting and worth while that
he will prefer it to the lollypops and chewing
gum. The child loves pictures and a drum, paints
and tools; he would like to go on some little trip,
or have a pair of red mittens. Keep these before
his iipagination so vividly that they will shut out
the poorer things. Provide a charming little
bank; he can even make one himself and divide
it into sections, so as to apportion and save his
money for the different things he wants.
Stories, Verse, and Pictures
During this year myths and fairy-tales are
food for his mind and soul. Mother Goose is
beginning to be outgrown. The sense of humor
and of the ludicrous is powerful. Instead of
some of the present abominations in humorous
pictures, provide some of the funny pictures of
such masters in the art as Gelett Burgess, Peter
Newell, and the picture books of the English
artists — Caldecott, Leslie Brooke, and Edward
Lear. The nonsense books of Carolyn Wells
and Lewis Carroll are also good.
Verbal memory is now strong, verily like a
sponge. It will absorb whatever is provided,
whether it be trash or of good quality. Rhyme
and rhythm, especially, are learned rapidly and
wellnigh permanently. A child will now absorb
many pages of "Hiawatha" or other poems of
Longfellow, Whittier, Lowell, Wordsworth, Ten-
nyson, that are about subjects interesting to him.
He can learn many hymns and Bible verses and
proverbs that will be of comfort and guidance to
him in later life, and which he but partially
comprehends now. But beware of teaching mere
words.
First Interest in Group-Games
Most children do not care much for group-
games until near the end of this year. They like
to play at throwing the ball, at jumping, running,
or sense games. They have not enough self-con-
trol to play well at hiding or finding. Here are
some suggestions of sense games. Put six ob-
jects on a tray and, while the child hides, take one
object away; let him open his eyes and tell which
one is missing.
Let him be blindfolded when there are several
persons in the room, and let one of these call his
name; he is to guess by the voice which one
called. Have several common objects which he
has seen; blindfold his eyes and let him tell by
feeling with his hands which object is given him.
Strike a note on the piano and let him see if he
can echo it; that is, sing the same note. If there
are several children, let them see who can re-
member the greatest number of things they have
seen when they were out for a walk.
Special Physical Examination Desirable
Now
Special observation should be kept of the teeth,
the eyes, the spine, and the chest development.
The first teeth must be kept from decaying,
otherwise the system will be poisoned from the
decaying matter and the second set will not be so
strong. This means daily responsibility in his
wielding of the toothbrush, a semi-yearly exami-
nation by the dentist, and plenty of hard crusts
which require work of the jaws.
If the child frowns when looking at a picture,
holds his work near his face, or complains of
headaches, his eyes should be examined by a
competent oculist, and, if necessary, glasses worn,
and the use of the eyes in reading and writing
postponed until the oculist says they are ready.
The child who has the handwork that utilizes the
large muscles, and that requires standing rather
than sitting, is less liable to develop a curvature
up to this time; especially if he also has swing-
ing rings or a trapeze among his playtime ap-
paratus.
The child who is kept out of doors and active
will develop a good chest and vital capacity with-
out any further need for attention. It is the part
of wisdom, however, to have a thorough physi-
cal examination at the beginning of this year, by
a physical director or a physician competent for
such examinations, and to be assured that the
child is developing as he should.
If he is in first-class physical condition, half
the troubles of "discipline" will be done away
with. He may be full of mischief, but that is
norm:.' and natural. He will not be "bad" until
his physical condition- or an unnatural environ--
ment cramp and curtail his natural energies and
normal instincts.
With worthy examples in the people about him
for his imitation, he should grow strong and fine
in mind and soul as well as in body.
THE DAWN OF INDEPENDENCE*
ALMA S. SHERIDAN
Allan arrived at Sunday-school quite out of
breath after his long walk through the snow. He
was struggling with his heavy coat when the
teacher spied him and sent one of the other pu-
pils to help him. But Allan refused all assist-
ance. "I'll do it myself !" he said.
Katharine and her mother were out for supper.
The mother was somewhat nervous about her
small daughter's table manners and was trying
to help her in every possible way. This became
very irksome to Katharine, and when the muf-
fins were passed she hastily snatched one and
screamed, "Let me butter it, let me butter it my
own self!"
James was out walking with his nurse. There
were many slippery places on the sidewalk, and
nurse took James by the hand and said, "Give
me your hand, James, or you will fall." James
quickly jerked his hand away. Though he walked
very close to nurse and was evidently trying to
be careful, he would not allow her to hold his
hand.
Do these stories remind j'ou of any instances
from the lives of the children you know?
Sunday-school was over. Above the noise and
clatter of preparations for going home, a loud
scream was heard. In an upper hallway, sur-
rounded by a bewildered group of grown-ups,
Rigby was lying in a heap on the floor. His face
was buried in his hands. He would not speak to
anyone : he would not allow anyone to touch him.
When efforts to rouse him became unpleasant he
screamed again. "What is the matter with Rig-
by?" everyone was asking. But no one seemed
to know. Just a few moments before he had
been loitering in the hall when his nurse had
reproved him, telling him to hurry up and put
on his coat. Rigby declined. The nurse tried
to force him. Rigby struggled. When she made
further efforts he threw himself down in this
way and refused to move or speak.
Allan's independent determination not to ac-
cept help from anyone, and Rigby's violent re-
fusal to act on the nurse's suggestion about put-
ting on his wraps, were indications that both of
these children had reached a stage in child-
development which may come any time after the
third birthday.t
At first he did not even know that his feet and
ears and the other parts of his body were really a
part of himself. He pulled and tugged at them
just as he pulled at his playthings, and he often
hurt himself. Then when he began to think, he
did not know that everyone else did not share his
thoughts.
The "Value and Peril of Independence
But now, since his experience has broadened,
he becomes conscious of the difference between
"mine" and "yours." In the occasional conflict of
wills he discovers that he does not have to sub-
mit to the will of his mother unless he wishes
to do so. He learns that he possesses a person-
ality of his own. When this feeling comes to
a child, it shows itself in his conduct. It does
not come to all children at the same time nor
in the same degree. Thus the acts which tell
us it is present may vary greatly. If the child
is tired or ill, it is probable that he will be dis-
agreeable about it. With some stronger person-
alities the independent spirit will manifest itself
in acts like Rigby's.
This phase of the child's development presents
a serious problem. Parents and teachers are apt
to smile when it is simply a question of the child
insisting on not accepting help. They are, how-
ever, extremely puzzled and even vexed when the
self-assertiveness assumes a more violent and
unpleasant form.
To deal helpfully with either case, a sympa-
thetic understanding of what lies behind the act
is necessary. This is the time for the develop-
ment of individuality. Merely forcefully to re-
press all efforts of self-assertiveness probably
would cause the child to become weak-willed. On
the other hand, there is grave danger of allow-
ing the child whose sense of individuality has
become very prominent to develop into a self-
willed tyrant. If the child is shy and retiring,
he needs to be encouraged in tiis desire to help
himself. If he is extremely self-assertive, while
no attempt should be made to "break his will,"
* From "Life in the Making," published by the Abingdon Press, Cincinnati. Used by permission of Wade Crawford
Barclay, Editor.
t With Mrs. Horn's child, the lirst evidences of this showed a year earlier, and this is not uncommon.
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it is important that he be taught to respect the
wishes of other people.
Each Fresh Problem Suggests Its Question
"Thomas, I can not understand what makes
you ask so many questions. I wish you would
run away and stop bothering me," says an
exasperated mother who is quite too much
absorbed in her household duties to think of the
reason why the stars do not fall out of the sky.
We sympathize with the mother, but what of
Thomas? Is there nothing to be said in his
behalf? Is it simply the desire to be a nuisance
which prompts him to ask his never-ending ques-
tions ? Of course not. Thomas's problems are
very real.
Thomas has just recently discovered that he
and all the other members of his circle are indi-
viduals, each with his own characteristics and
each having a name. Now he wants to know the
name of every person and thing which he en-
counters. His widening experience soon tells
him that most things have causes. He comes in
from his play with his stocking torn. Immedi-
ately he is asked, "How did you tear your stock-
ing?" Mother finds the front porch covered
with gravel, and again the question comes, "Who
put the gravel on the front porch ?" So he be-
gins to ask Iiis questions. Mother considers it
perfectly reasonable for anyone to want to know
how holes come in stockings, and how gravel
gets on the porch, but when it comes to wanting
to know how the stars are held in the sky she
thinks it rather foolish. Perhaps the reason why
she thinks Thomas's question unimportant is be-
cause she long ago satisfied her curiosity about
the stars. When the child is four and five years
old, then is the time that he gets a simple philos-
ophy which forms the basis of all his later
thinking.
Recall the situation he is facing. He has sud-
denly wakened up in a perfectly amazing uni-
verse. Everything is new and strange. He has
just realized, too, his ability to take his place in
that universe. Just as quickly as possible he
wishes to share in the new order of things. So
he asks his never-ending questions. He has
problems which he must have solved. Pretty
soon he will have what is, for him, a fairly sat-
isfactory theory to which he may add later on.
Then he will turn his thoughts to more practical
problems. But just now he must not be scolded
and sent away unanswered. Neither is it wise to
tell him everything. He should be given a cer-
tain amount of information and encouraged to
think other things out for himself.
"Life is so great a possession, so unending a procession
of delightful possibilities, that each day ought to be a new
gladness and every day a veritable holiday. For all the
work that is worth doing, rightly handled, is the greatest
fiui of all the fun there is. Only the work must be worthy,
sturdy, honest toil that you can put your whole heart into
and do just because you would rather do that particular
thing than anything else in the world."
— C. Hanford Henderson.
Mabel had hcarrl, with poHtencss, six histories related
in the gentle, monotonous voice with the accompanying re-
minders, "You see, dear, how kind Emily was," or "From this
you will notice little Emily's unfailing good temper," etc.
At the end of the sixth narrative Mabel sighed and in-
quired :
'"Grandma, do you know many stories about little Em'ly?"
"Yes, indeed," much flattered by the question, "I know a
great many, my dear."
"And is she as good every time as she has been in these
six?"
"Better, darling. Little Emily always did the best thing
possible. You like her ever so much, don't you?"
Mabel sighed again. "Grandma," she said gently, "you
won't feel hurt if I tell you something, will you? I'm so
sick and tired of little Em'ly that I don't know what to do!"
— Angelina W. Wray.
WHAT TO DO FROM THE THIRD TO
THE SIXTH BIRTHDAY
OUR HOME GYMNASIUM
BY
MRS. ELIZABETH HUBBARD BONSALL
Nothing will develop children's muscles so well,
bring color to their cheeks, and give them so
much real fun, as an out-of-door gymnasium.
Perhaps the word "gymnasium" may arouse in
a timid mother visions of accidents and over-
straining, but with simple apparatus on the grass,
placed not more than a foot or two above the
ground, there is no more danger for children
than in ordinary playing. In fact, there is less,
for with it they are learning to control their
muscles.
Starting with One Board
We started our gymnasium last year with a
smooth board and a couple of vi^ooden boxes. I
brought the board from the cellar with the idea
of having it for sliding, and of all its uses I
think that one is the most popular. Our board
is an ideal size, eight feet long and one foot
wide, but a shorter and narrower one will do.
Even the leaf of an old table will serve very well,
provided it is smooth and there are no splinters
or rough edges. .-Mso, one end of it can be placed
upon the side edge of the steps, if it is not con-
venient to use a box.
The children are constantly inventing new
ways of coasting down. First they just sat down
and slid, then they went down sidewise, then on
their stomachs, and finally standing up, with the
board at a low angle. Of course you can't expect
them to wear lace-trimmed or hand-emliroidercd
underclothes while doing this, but it is surprising
how long a pair of bloomers or overalls will keep
respectable.
Then we use our board as a seesaw, by put-
ting it across a narrow box. As Betty is nearly
five and Ann not quite two, I must carefully lial-
ance it for them to start with, but after that
they go up and down by themselves to their
heart's content. I have them put their feet out
straight on the board in front of them, so that
it seems as if they are going higher, as they go
all the way down to the ground.
Betty herself discovered that, by having the
box in the middle, she could stand on the center
of the board, tipping it up and down, and keep-
ing her own balance perfectly. Perhaps this
training will be of service if she takes a trip
overseas ! At any rate, she is gaining in ability
to keep her balance in precarious circumstances.
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We use the board as a springboard by having
one end projecting about a foot over the edge of
a low box. I am always careful to put my foot
on the lower end of the board as Betty is about
to jump, otherwise is might suddenly fly up. And
then we make a lovely bridge by putting the
board across two boxes, over which the children
walk, jumping of¥ at the end.
Betty can do nearly everything herself, and is
gaining considerable skill. Little Ann wants to
try everything that her 'big sister does, and it is
astonishing how much she can do, especially if
I hold her hand.
Boxes and Sand
As we had a quantity of stout wooden boxes
in our cellar, I have been eager to make use of
them. Other people who are not so fortunate
can obtain all they want at any provision store.
Turning them upside down, we place several of
them in a row, fairly close together, and the chil-
dren jump from one to the other, pretending they
are crossing a brook on stepping-stones. Then
by lying on their stomachs across individual
boxes, they are learning the swimming strokes.
I hope it will make real swimming easier for
them next Summer, but at all events it is increas-
ing their lung capacity.
Another most important feature of our gym-
nasium is our sand-box. Under a tree we have
a good-sized one, made from two large soap-
boxes, about five inches deep, nailed together
with the inside partitions removed, making a
large shallow box. A funnel, sifter, and a few
spoons and jars are enough to keep a child happy
for some time, and after more strenuous exercise
forms a very acceptable means of comparative
relaxation, and incidentally gives a busy mother
an excellent opportunity to shell a few beans or
pare potatoes. The children always find plenty
to do in the sand of their own accord, but if you
want to teach them geography, there is no better
way than to make mountains, valleys, and islands.
We also have a couple of smaller sand-boxes,
each made from a single box, which can be
moved about at will, in the sun or shade. During
a continued rainy season, we even moved one of
the boxes to the porch.
For Vaulting and Jumping
Another simple feature which we soon added
was a planed 3 x 4-inch strip of lumber about 8
feet long. After Betty learned to walk across
the board bridge, we let her try this narrow strip
stretched across from box to box, putting it
iiigher as she became more confident. She has
also learned to vault very nicely over it, placing
her two hands close together, and lifting her feet
over with a single jump.
Notliing makes children more agile and graceful
than jumping and running. For broad jumping
only a piece of chalk or a stick is needed to mark
the distance covered, but for high jumping I
would suggest a simple device, similar to ours.
I sawed a clothes-prop in two, and pointed the
ends. Six inches above the ends I drove in a
long row of small finishing nails, half an inch
apart. We drive these sticks into the ground
several feet apart, and measure the jumping ac-
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weighed down at the ends by small stones tied
to it. How hard we work to beat our own rec-
ords ! Even if Betty catches her foot in the
string there is no danger of falling, for the string
simply yields.
Another use for clothes-props, which is not
quite so destructive of their original purpose, is
for pole-vaulting. With a little run, and placing
the stick firmly on the ground, it isn't long before
children can lift themselves quite a distance in
the air. The real fun begins when they try to
go over obstacles, like small boxes, and find how
high they can lift themselves.
Gymnastics
A short ladder adds no end of fun, and such
a lot of exercises can be invented for it. If it
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is placed flat on the ground, even the baby can
step safely from round to round, and if it is
raised about three inches, a little excitement is
added without making it dangerous. When it
is placed against a tree or side of the house, with
the upper end about four feet from the ground,
Betty loves to climb up and drop through. It
also makes a splendid seesaw when placed over
a low box. If you haven't a short ladder, ask
your husband to help you make one. Too often
fathers leave the whole training of the children
to the mothers, and the gymnasium gives a good
opportunity for the whole family to be together.
I wish we had a good place for a long rope
to hang in our yard. I have screwed one up in
the corner of a shed, but we can not swing on
it very far without bumping into obstacles. Of
course we have an ordinary swing with a little
seat, but the hanging rope furnishes an excellent
opportunity to strengthen the arm and leg mus-
cles, as the children cling to it. Our rope can
be used for climbing a short distance, and it
won't be long before Betty will be able to "shinny"
up to the top, if she keeps on as she has started.
Where We Keep Things
Maybe it sounds as if our lawn were littered
from one end to the other with boxes and boards,
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the sliding-board and long bars lying qn their
sides against the house, and the boxes piled neatly
in an inconspicuous corner. We usually take out
only one or two things at a time, so that in a
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mother enjoys doing them every bit as much as
the children, and she is sure her health is the
better for it.
Our Indoor Exercisers
On rainy days, and on stormy days in Winter
we take our exercise indoors with the windows
open. Our first gymnastic device was a strong
rope hung through two large screw-eyes fastened
in the top of the doorway of Betty's bedroom.
I intended it for an ordinary swing, and it is
occasionally used as such, but by far its most
popular use is pulling the ends down, making the
two ropes parallel. Betty and even little Ann
take hold of the rope with their hands, pulling
their bodies from the ground and swinging back
and forth. We always leave the rope in this
position when we are through using it, as it does
not hinder passing through the door. By pulling
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one end of the rope completely up to the top, the
other side makes a nice firm rope for climbing.
We have recently put up a trapeze in Ann's
doorway. The bar across is made from an old
rake-handle, sawed about six inches narrower
than the doorway, and hung by two strong ropes
to screw-eyes in the top of the door-frame, just
high enough so that Betty can reach it by stand-
ing on her tiptoes. Swinging back and forth is
in itself strenuous exercise, and I have been able
already to note an increase in endurance. Betty
hasn't yet mastered the art of pulling herself up
and placing her chin on the bar, though Mother
is glad to say that she herself can still do it.
And even little Ann can hang all alone and
swing, if someone lifts her up and takes her down
when she is tired. There are lots of stunts that
older children can do — sitting on the cross-piece,
and skinning the cat, besides swinging in all sorts
of ways. If you feel safer, you can place the
small part of a mattress under the swing, and
the children will enjoy it just as much. I pull
our trapeze all the way up to the top when I am
tlirough with it, to make a clear passage through
the doorway, and to keep the children from using
it when I am not with them.
An old iron bed, if you are fortunate enough
to have one, furnishes unlimited opportunity for
exercise. Climbing over the foot, walking along
the edge, and jumping up and down in the cen-
ter, supply the basis for many variations which
the children will invent. We have occasionally
brought our sliding board in, and put it against
the side of the bed, letting the children coast
down.
Our Setting-Up Exercises
In general the children seem to get plenty of
exercises from their own play with the apparatus
we give them, but once in a while we have a set-
ting-up drill, which they enjoy immensely. Here
are just a few of the things we do:
1. Raise arms slowly to horizontal position,
breathing in.
Hold breath, and strike chest lightly with
closed fists.
Let out breath and lower arms slowly.
2. Hands on hips, take running steps without
moving from position.
3. Stand straight with heels together.
Bend over and touch the floor without bend-
ing the knees.
4. Sit on the floor with feet straight ahead.
Bend body forward as much as possible.
Our Folk-Dances
We started to learn a few folk-dances when
Betty was two-and-a-half. At that time I was
teaching them to the Camp-Fire Girls, who met
at my home, and Betty joined right in vifith the
rest. She loved them so much that I taught her
several on her own account, simplifying them to
meet our needs. The following are a few which
can he learned by very young children. The
music can be hummed or whistled.
TAILOR'S DANCE
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Partners face each other. Feet together. Place
left hand on hip, and raise right hand as high as
shoulder, hand closed, except second and third
fingers, which are stretched apart, pointing upward,
representing scissors.
1st measure, 1st beat. Place left foot sidewise, heel
touching the ground, and toe in the air.
1st measure, 2d beat. Left foot back to position.
Close fingers.
2d measure. Repeat.
3d and 4th measures. Partners join both hands, ex-
tended sidewise, and change places with four
walking steps.
5th to 8th measures. Repeat all, only placing right
hand on hip and raising left hand.
9th to 16th measures. All the couples join hands,
and skip in a circle.
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Partners face each other, about four feet apart,
arms straight above heads, waving handkerchief in
each hand.
1st measure. Hop on left foot, raising right foot
about twelve inches from the ground, knee stiff.
2d measure. Hop on right foot without moving
forward, raising left foot twelve inches from
the ground, knee stiff.
Continue till 16th measure.
16th to 31st measure. Skip in circle, waving hand-
kerchiefs at height of shoulders.
31st measure. Jump with both feet, handkerchiefs
high in the air.
32d measure. Jump with both feet, handkerchiefs
brought down to side.
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on hips. (If more than five dancers, form two
groups.)
1st measure. All bend forward to pick up flax.
2d measure. Raise it as far as waist.
3d measure. Throw it over right shoulder.
4th measure. Hands again on hips.
5th to 8th measure. Repeat.
9th to 16th measure. The one at the left end places
hands on hips and leads. The rest place hands
on shoulders of the one to the left and follow
with running steps, three steps to a measure,
around in a circle, ending in the same position
at the 16th measure, and finishing by stamping
twice.
1st measure. Dancers bend forward to gather flax.
2d measure. Return to standing position.
3d measure. Reach flax forward, as if to put it
around hackle.
4th measure. Jerk it back from the hackle.
9th to 16th measure. Spinning the flax. Dancers
close in a circle, with right shoulder toward the
center. Reach right arms toward center, join-
ing thumbs, left hands on hips. Run on tiptoes
in a circle, three steps to a measure, for four
measures. Turn around quickly and join left
thumbs, running in circle the opposite way, till
last beat. Let go of thumbs and form original
position.
"The prime end of musical education is to train the sen-
timents, to make chihlren feel nature, religion, country, home,
duty, and all the rest, to guarantee sanity of heart, out of
which are the issues of life." — G. Stanley Hall.
GYMNASTIC PLAYS FOR THIS PERIOD
BY
MRS. HARRIET HICKOX HELLER
The modern nursery must not only be a play-
acting place, but it must partake largely of the
nature of a gymnasium. Especially is this true
of lusty children. The adventuresome little fel-
low early likes to ride on Daddy's shoulder and
will soon learn to walk on his own legs while
holding fast to the firm hands. Many times he
will do this, when at length with a little encour-
agement he will turn himself completely over,
doing a sort of "skin-the-cat" stunt, which I
have known children to enjoy, playing with the
father until at length they had grown too tall to
make the run. It is quite an achievement when
a chap learns to turn a somersault, a real somer-
sault, going clear over and not sideways, and to
be able to turn two or three somersaults in rapid
succession is a worthy nursery achievement.
The hand-spring belongs to the mysteries of
later development.
During the earlier part of the period that a
child is interested in stunts, he enjoys lying flat
on his back and letting his hands lie useless at
his side, and then trying to raise himself to a
sitting posture. It is an excellent exercise for
certain muscles and affords amusement. From
the same position it is well to lift his feet until
the legs are in a vertical position. Many appar-
ently strong children find difficulty in doing this
until they have given it considerable practice.
Then, of course, there is the ordinary little "set-
ting up" exercise, which consists of standing in
a military position; raising the hands high above
the head and bringing the tips of the fingers down
to touch the floor without bending the knees.
These are in imitation of real stunts of larger
people. The number of times a child can hop
on one foot is interesting to him and may be
increased by practice. The effort to be able to
make as many hops with the left foot as with
the right has some value. It is fun to march
"following the leader," and doing all the queer
things that he does. Even little children learn
to skip to a rhythm, and the list of dance games
which may be enjoyed in a spacious nursery is
too long to be enumerated at this time.
Suitable Games
Variations of the game of "Hide and Seek,"
beginning with "Hide the Thimble," or, as the
children say, "Hot Butter Beans," which con-
sists of placing a small object in perfectly plain
sight and guiding the searchers in their quest by
the terms "Warm, warmer," and "Cold, colder,"
as they are near or far from the coveted object,
are enjoyed by children of this age. The send-
ing of a child from the room where a number
of children are at play while the eyes of the
rest are blindfolded is interesting to little folks.
When they do not recall immediately the name
of the child who has gone, they may be aided by
the color of the hair or the eyes or some dis-
tinguishing characteristic. The regular game of
"Hide and Seek," with a goal or "home base," is
appreciated if it is not made too difficult. Some
introductory phases of "Blindman's Buff," if we
may so refer to them, such as "Still pond, no
more moving," where the child walks out with
his eyes shut he comes in contact with the chil-
dren who have become quiet at his command,
and then without opening his eyes tells which one
he has, gives much amusement.
The ball is the great plaything of the world,'
and some little ball-games may be used by folks
under five. Drawing a chalk circle in the middle
of the nursery, it is interesting to try to roll the
ball so gently that it will still remain in this
circle. It requires more skill than at first is
apparent. Placing the waste-basket in the middle
of the ring, children enjoy tossing the ball into
the basket. If there are but two or three chil-
dren, some little count or score will need to be
kept to keep up the interest. If there are many,
the mere clapping of the hands and giving of
another turn will be sufficient. To place a block
of wood in the middle of the circle and roll the
ball, aiming to strike it, also forms a pretty good
game.
The following list of suggestions may be found
helpful. They are recommended by Dr. Mon-
tessori as suitable physical exercises for little
children.
Some Suggestions from Doctor Montessori
I. Hang a heavy, swinging ball from the ceil-
ing. Two children sit in their chairs opposite
each other and push the ball back and forth.
This is an e.xercise for strengthening the arms
and spinal column.
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2. We don't know why children are so amused
by walking on a line, but we do know that it is
good exercise. Draw a chalk line on the floor
or extend a piece of white tape for ten or twelve
feet for a child to walk on. This amusement is
valuable in improving the carriage of the body.
3. Later, walking upon the edge of a plank
supported by standards, takes the place of walking
on fences. The effort is a training in bodily
balance and it also develops courage. Hold the
child's hand at first if he is timid.
4. Jumping is one of Nature's best exercises
for developing strength in the legs and judgment
in coordinating the movements. The eye, too.
is trained in judging distances, and courage
gradually develops. Guard the child at first, but
let him begin to jump from one low step in this
second year. Have a little flight of steps in the
nursery, or use boxes of different heights.
5. Lines may be painted on the floor to meas-
ure child jumps. Jumping in and out of a circle
is another game that children enjoy. Several
circles, diminishing in size, are drawn inside of
a large one. The child stands in the center and
tries to see how far he can jump. Color in these
circles adds to the child's pleasure.
6. The swing is needed for training in rhyth-
mical motion and courage. Dr. Montessori sug-
gests a broad-seated swing to support the legs in
an extended position, the feet to strike a wall.
This strengthens a weak child's knees.
7. Two small rope ladders are hung parallel
to each other for the child to swing between.
Another simple piece of apparatus is like a fence.
A few parallel bars supported by uprights make
such a fence, which gives the child opportunity
to climb; also to walk sideways and even back-
ward on the floor, is quite a feat in a child
and is desirable for the exercise of certain mus-
cles. Every mother knows how a child loves to
play on a gate or a fence and to "saddle" along.
8. The child's legs are much shorter in pro-
portion to the length of his whole body than those
of an adult, and for this reason the child tires
of the erect position, is apt to throw himself
upon the floor, kick out his legs, climb, and
jump, making many movements to strengthen his
legs without knowing why.
9. Simple pieces of apparatus, such as the
fence, the rope ladder, the swing, strengthen the
hand in clasping and holding. Such movements
must precede the finer movements necessary for
writing and drawing and such handwork as sew-
ing and cutting. The rhythmic games in march-
ing, and the ball and bean-bags, kites, hoops and
games of tag are valuable.
10. We should not make young children con-
scious of breathing exercises too soon, but they
imitate deep breathing as a game. Deep breath-
ing in the open air, accompanied by a few simple
arm movements, will develop lung capacity.
11. In addition to the apparatus named, one
may have a tree for the little ones to climb. An
ordinary short stepladder is useful. A horizontal
bar may be fastened in the doorway. Place a
low bar for jumping over, and raise it gradually.
It may be at first supported on the lower rungs
of two chairs.
"Let us bring up our children simply, I had almost said
rudely. Let us entice them to exercise that gives them endur-
ance — even to privations. Let them belong to those who are
better trained to fatigue and the earth for a bed than to the
comforts of the table and couches of luxury. So we shall
make men of them, independent and staunch, who may be
counted on, who will not sell themselves for pottage, and who
will have withal the faculty of being happy."
— Charles Wagner.
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LIVELY IMITATIVE PLAYS
BY
THE EDITORS
Little children are not especially fond of formal
gymnastics, but it takes only a little ingenuity
to arrange imitative plays in such sequence as
to exercise in turn the big body-muscles, the
lungs, the heart, and the abdomen. Some of these
have been suggested by Marion B. Newton.
Mother Goose Exercises
1. "Simple Simon." Two children walk quick-
ly around the room, meeting, touching hands and
passing on. At "the fair" Simple Simon sees —
2. "Yankee Doodle." At this point the chil-
dren pretend to ride on ponies, dancing to the
time of the old rhyme.
3. "Jack be Nimble." They jump over a low
stick as this quatrain is repeated.
4. "Old King Cole." They march in step to
the rhyme and pretend to be fiddling.
5. "Little Boy Blue." They take deep breaths
and blow into a horn, and then lie down and
pretend to sleep.
Circus Plays
1. Trained Dogs. They hop about on two feet,
with knees slightly bent and hands hanging in
front of the chest, jumping up on stools or boxes
and then down.
2. Tight-Rope Walker. They walk along the
top of a narrow plank, such as a 2 x 4.
3. Trapeze Man. They hang from a broom-
stick or other rod fastened into ropes, hanging
from a tree in the yard or in a doorway in the
house.
4. The Strong Man. They swing a heavy
imaginary hammer up and down upon an imag-
inary post, and then throw it far into the air.
5. The Tall Man. They walk about on tiptoe,
with their arms stretched high overhead.
6. At last they play they buy toy balloons, and
blow them up themselves.
Imitating the City Helpers
1. The Policeman walks around, straight and
tall, swinging his club and blowing his whistle.
2. The Fireman climbs a ladder, "rescues" a
doll, and hastily descends.
3. The Street Cleaner makes the motions of
brushing and shoveling.
4. The Messenger Boy runs very fast, deliver-
ing messages.
5. The Bell Ringer leans down and up and
swings his body as he pulls the cluirch bell rope
down and up.
6. The Mounted Policeman gallops and can-
ters on his splendid horse.
7. The Band Master fills his lungs and blows
his trumpet, then swings his hand to the band
and leads off the procession.
Imitating the Home Sights and Events '
1. The Rooster stands on his two feet, throws his
chest forward and his head back and crows sev-
eral times, taking in a full breath before each
crow.
2. The Farmer sows the seed, carrying his
sack of seed under his left arm and moving for-
ward with a large rhythmic movement of his
right arm.
3. The Windmill swings its arms slowly from
the earth in a complete circle through the air.
4. The Rabbits hop about the lawn and nibble
the clover.
5. Greyhounds take long leaps over cushions
on the floor. Puppies frisk about with shorter
steps.
6. Monkeys climb poles and get up into the
lower branches of safe trees.
Many other imitations will suggest themselves
to mother and to child.
"'Bad' chilrlren are simply those with more self-assertion
and initiative than the rest." — Randolph Bourne.
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PLAYS AND GAMES FOR THE FOURTH YEAR
LUELLA A. PALMER
while the thimble is being placed in one of the
well-known places, and then let him try to find it.
As a still later development, place the object in
a new place — at first in plain sight — while the
child is hiding, and then let him try to find it.
A child trained in this way will become a keen
observer. If this is real play it is fair play, for
the adult should take his turn at finding the
thimble.
For ear training use a xylophone, gong, or
piano. Strike notes that are far apart and help
the child to distinguish high from low. If a drum
is too noisy, give him a triangle, so that he may
make a rhythmic sound. A drum is preferable
if the neighbors will not object; its simple res-
onance is more satisfying to the child than instru-
ments with overtones.
Hide a clock when a child is not in the room;
have him find it by listening for the ticking.
Cover some of the child's toys with an apron
or a paper. Let him put his hands under the
cover and feel the objects. After a few trials
he should be able to tell their names before look-
ing at them. Gradually increase the similarity of
the objects; have spools and bottles, buttons and
pennies or stones. Sometimes let the child gather
objects and cover them for the adult to guess.
None of these games needs a special play-
period. The game with the piano can be played
when mother is dusting the parlor; at the end of
the day the toys can be put away, afterward
naming these as unseen objects; the thimble game
can be played in kitchen or sewing-room at any
time.
Movement-Plays
Place three bean-bagsf or three spoons on the
floor a short distance apart. Let the child try
* All Miss Palmer's articles on play and games are specially rearranged by her for us from her useful book, "Play
Life in the First Eight Years," by permission of the publishers, Ginn & Company, Boston.
t Bean-bags should be made of heavy, closely woven material, such as ticking, awning, duck or denim, and should be
from six to twelve inches square when finished. They are stitched around the outer edge (except for a small length through
which the beans are inserted). The bag should then be turned and stitched a second time. Hand-sewing is preferable, as
often better able to stand the strain put upon it. The bag is filled with dried peas or beans. A bag six inches square
should contain one-half pound of these. A larger bag may contain a few more, but the half-pound weight is good for any
sized bag. For little children a six or eight-inch bag is very good. It is desirable to have an equipment of bags made
of two different colors, half of the bags, for instance, being red and the other half blue; or some of striped material and
others of plain. This aids in distinguishing the bags that belong to opposing teams or groups of players. It is ea^ to
improvise a substitute, to be made by placing dried leaves in a square cloth, gathering up the corners and tying them
with a string. — Jessie H. Bancroft.
A THREE-YEAR-OLD child wants to be active during
most of his waking hours. For this reason the
plays that he enjoys are generally those that
involve some bodily activity.
Sense-Plays
Homemade Inset. — An ingenious adult can
make a rudimentary inset case, such as Dr.
Montessori finds educative in having little chil-
dren teach themselves differences in sizes. Select
six or more spools of graded sizes. Cut circular
holes in the cover of a shallow box, so that the
spools will exactly fit in order of size. The child
must get each spool into its proper place or there
will be an odd one left over. Let the child experi-
ment without direction until he has discovered the
right use of his toy. Bottles can be used instead
of spools.
Spools are very good playthings at this time.
Some of them may be colored with paints or
crayons or with the aid of nonpoisonous dyes,
such as are used for clothing. Red, yellow, green,
and blue are usually the first colors to be distin-
guished; later orange and purple might be added.
These can be strung on a cord in many different
color and size arrangements.
Play with running water is valuable as an edu-
cative pastime.
Hide the Thimble. — Let the mother, while the
child is looking, place a thimble or spool in an
unusual place, then let him close his eyes for a
moment ; when he opens them, let him find the
object. This is a memory as well as an observa-
tion test. Repeat this play for several weeks, but
place the object in more and more obscure
corners.
As the next step in this game, persuade the
child to close his eyes, or to stay in another room,
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to jump over them or hop over them. Let him
hop doviTi a pair of steps.
A tricycle gives good exercise at this time, for
the child moves over the ground rapidly as he
delights in doing, yet his weight does not tax
his leg-muscles.
Ball Plays
At about this age a child begins to bounce and
toss the ball without trying to catch it. He is
exerting his power over the ball, but does not feel
the necessity of making it return to him. He will
experiment quite aimlessly at first, but some day
the ball will accidentally come to his hand. Such
added pleasure is gained from the return of the
ball that he will afterward strive to bring such
a climax to his play.
Most of the plays during this year will take
the form of simple experimenting. The worsted
ball with a string will give opportunity for vari-
ous kinds of motion. Let a child have an inclined
board so that the ball may run down. Let him
try to roll it up the incline and have it come back
to him; he will the sooner desire to catcli it when
bounced or tossed.
Dramatic Play
At about three years of age a child begins to
weave the different incidents of home life into a
short plot. His ideas are becoming related to
each other, so that he can play with the thought
of sequence. He now undresses the baby, gives
it a bath, puts it to sleep, and then takes up a
book to read. Or he puts on his hat, goes to
market, returns with the meat, and cooks it for
dinner. These connected stories will be acted
out if nothing interesting happens to distract his
attention. All such efforts should be encouraged
by the adult.
Whenever possible, some question should be
asked or statement made which would lead the
child to add more incidents to his play. If the
train is going round and round, ask at what sta-
tion it stops. Later suggest that while express
trains go past so many stations, locals stop very
often. Generally imply two possible ways of act-
ing when a statement is made ; the necessity of
deciding upon a choice makes the imaginary world
seem very free and yet real.
Finger Plays
THE MARCH
Wave the flag and beat the drum,
Down the street the soldiers come.
NUMBERING THE FINGERS
Go to sleep, little thumb, that's one,
Go to sleep, pointing finger two,
Go to sleep, tall finger three.
Go to sleep, ring finger four,
Go to sleep, baby finger five.
Go to sleep, to sleep, to sleep.
JUST FIVE
The thumb is one, *
The pointer two.
The middle finger three.
Ring finger four.
Little finger five.
And tliat is all you sec.
A Dance
Dance to Your Daddy. Children delight in
dancing as little "Babby" does in Mother Goose
picture books, and will originate dainty steps,
swaying back and forth as little Babby would
do when blown by the wind.
"Dance to your Daddy,
My little Babby,
Dance to your Daddy,
My little lamb.
You shall have a fishy
In a little dishy.
You shall have a fishy
When the boat comes in."
"Blessed are those who play, for theirs is the Kingdom
of Heaven." — Emily Dickinson.
AIMS AND METHODS IN CONSTRUCTIVE PLAY
THE COMMITTEE
PREPARED BY
CURRICULUM OF
ON
KINDERGARTEN
THE
UNION
INTERNATIONAL
General Aims in Construction Play
1. To stimulate a feeling of power which comes
from control over environment.
2. To develop energy, resourcefulness, and per-
sistence in realizing a purpose.
3. To give means of control over surroundings
and means of interpreting processes.
Specific Aims
I. To satisfy the child's desire
to experiment
familiar with
with materials and thus become
their properties.
2. To help the child take the initial steps in art
and industrial processes.
3. To develop ability to work with others
toward common ends.
Methods in Helping the Child
Experimentation with Materials to Discover
Their Characteristics, Properties, and Possible
Uses. Children come to all new materials with
a questioning attitude. Curious and eager to gain
knowledge of and control over their environment,
they find for a time the mastery of material an
absorbing problem. The teacher should not hurry
the children through this period of experimenta-
tion, for what they learn by direct inquiry is of
greater value to them than what they are told by
another, even though a longer time and greater
effort are required for the learning process. If
the materials are wisely chosen and hence adapted
to the present needs and interests of the child,
they should hold the interest for a time without
the presence or efforts of the teacher. While the
child is thus experimenting, however, a mother
who has a thorough knowledge of her child and
of materials may direct his activities.
I. Study the child, making note of his choice of
materials and problems, his natural ways of work-
ing, and rate of progress, in order to make sug-
gestions and to set problems suited to his needs.
2. Guide the child's interests in and uses of
materials to prevent them from becoming habitu-
ally trivial.
3. Help the child to organize his experiments
so that these will be useful and will lead con-
stantly to higher stages of development.
Solving Problems through the Use of Mate-
rials. Educators are to-day seeking to develop
in children initiative and reflective thinking. The
first pre-requisite of productive thinking is a
problem which seems to the child real and worthy
of* solution.
1. Problems initiated by the child: Experience
has shown that children are often capable of set-
ting for themselves worthy problems, the sug-
gestions for which may come from these sources:
(a) Ideas may grow out of the child's handling
of material. Problems are suggested and
formulated because of discoveries of the
possibilities of material.
(b) The child may formulate problems sug-
gested by some present interest or some
past experience.
(c) The child may formulate problems to meet
needs created by some social situation.
2. Problems suggested by the teacher : The
teacher will receive many suggestions for prob-
lems from watching the child during the free-
play periods with material, and will select those
problems which the child shows an interest in
working out or for which he feels a need. Other
problems may grow out of some situation, or be
in line with some seasonal interest.
These problems, suggested by the teacher, must
be so in line with the interests, needs, and expe-
riences of the child that the child will adopt them
readily as his own. and they must seem to the
child real and worth the solving in order to pro-
duce good, productive thinking and interested
effort.
* The value of this brief statement, which is condensed from a report that is likely to affect American kindergartners
for many years to come, is that it clearly states just what the mother ought to have in mind in her endeavor to help the
child in his handwork, what in general should be her methods, and what she has a right to expect in the way of attain-
ment. Mrs. Newell, Mrs. Leonard, and Miss Brown have said most of these things, each in her own way, but here, for
your convenience, is the philosophy of constructive play in one nutshell. — The Editors.
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Imitation, wiiicli helps children to do in a more
effectual way what they are already struggling
to do, and which leads to later independent action
on a higher plane, is a valuable agent of educa-
tion. If the teacher's contribution is not related
to the needs of the child, he may follow the sug-
gestion for the moment, but it produces no efifect
upon his later work unless it is to make him
dissatisfied with his own crude products.
Imitation is often used when the problem is
one of technique, — a better way of holding the
scissors or using the hammer; but when the prol5-
lem is one of expressing ideas the child should,
in the main, be left free to try this or that method
and to select the one which works, since this
is a necessary condition governing the thinking
process.
Attainments to Be Expected
1. Attitudes. Interests, Tastes. Readiness to
attack simple problems in construction, and faith
in power to solve them.
Increased interest in the products of construc-
tion leading to more purposeful work and effort
to secure better form.
Development of the social spirit resulting from
cooperative effort toward common ends.
2. Habits, Skill. Increased control of the ma-
terials and tools which have been used.
Ability to select suitable material and construct
without help a number of simple objects.
3. Knowledge, Information. Acquaintance with
the properties of a variety of objects and mate-
rials.
BEGINNINGS IN HANDWORK*
MRS. MINNETTA SAMMIS LEONARD
It is not an unusual thing to find children of
capable and resourceful mothers more than com-
monly helpless. Unreasoningly we remark, "How
strange it is that Mary can do so little for her-
self; her mother is such a wonderful manager."
Just here lies, probably, the secret of Mary's
helplessness. Her mother is as much in need of
guidance as a friend of ours who remarked the
other day with woeful sigh, "My children will
never do much with their hands ; I don't know
how to teach them." This paper hopes to show
Mary's mother how not to hurt her child through
her own ability.
I would like to make it clear that, however val-
uable these hand activities may be, it is not essen-
tial to have a special training or any special set
of materials to do good work with little children.
We do need, however, to start with a realization
of the importance of handwork for children and
an earnest desire on the mother's part to see that
the child grows as normally and steadily in the
use of his brain and hands as in growth of his
body. Most mothers of to-day are very particular
about proper food and exercise for their babies
and watch carefully to see the eft'ect of diet and
to make proper adjustments to their needs. Much
the same kind of thought and care is needed for
this other growth. The mother should give her
child the right kind of playthings, and he will
appropriate them as readily as he attacks his food.
Then, keeping hands off unless really needed, she
should see what he does with the material. While
waiting and watching him at work, her mind
looks ahead and sees difficulties he is likely to
ifind, and thinks out a reply in case he appeals to
her for aid.
I called recently on a friend who has been
struggling with the problem of employment for
a four-year-old boy. I was met at the door by
mother and child, both joyous over the clever
little suitcase and wagon the boy proudly dis-
played. The mother said, "John was making a
bridge and running his trains under it when it
crashed down. You know how easily John is
discouraged, and I feared he would give up, so
I said, 'Oh, dear, I hope no one was hurt. You'd
better get them to a doctor quick !' He thought
of an ambulance and told me how he could make
one." Together they found a box. He worked
alone some time and then showed a wagon made
by pushing through two sticks from his tinker-
toys and putting on wheels from the same toy.
Then the doctor had to have a surgical case. A
fat box with adhesive tape cut and put on for
hinges, a parcel-carrier handle tied on with
string, and two string-loops which fastened over
two bent pins, made a splendid case, which also
later became useful in a visiting game. After
the paper dolls were made comfortable, the wreck
was cleared away and traffic resumed. The whole
• Mrs. Leonard accepts the theories of the preceding article. Note how simply and sensibly she applies them to your
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morning was gone, and the busy mother had a
chance to get much of her work done while he
was so occupied.
Importance of Handwork for Little Children
There is a vast difference in children, both in
their ability and in their desire to make things
with their hands, but every child should have
his own ability and interest encouraged. There
are values he gets from this that he gets in no
other way. Besides the recognized values of
muscular and nerve development and control, as
preparation for writing, sewing, and other later
work, there are two most important reasons why
the right kind of handwork should begin very
early with children. The first is that, through
his work, the child discovers himself as "a cause
of things happening" — respects himself as a pro-
ducer, a worker. And, because what he has done
is a real thing, he can now form an estimate of
himself. Is there any more joyous cry than the
child's "Oh, see what I made !" It is full of
pride and self-importance. The next four years
belong to handwork, as the following years belong
to reading, writing, etc. It must be fiozv or, it is
most likely, never.
Wrong Kinds of Handwork
When the things for children to make are
mostly suggested by older people and the way
to make them is shown, the wrong sort of hand-
work is being encouraged. This makes for de-
pendence. Whatever makes the child say, "I
can't; you do it," or does not lead to the child's
impatience to do it for himself, is wrong. Too
great devotion of adults frequently makes lazy
youngsters.
Work which is a strain on the eye, hand, or
patience, because too difficult or too small, is
wrong. And, interested as I am in the manual
development of children, I should say that such
interest in handwork as keeps the child indoors
very much, depriving him of exercise and fresh
air, is harmful. Perhaps if a mother has to drive
her child out of doors as I do one of ours, she
may compromise by making a workroom of the
porch, so that even in cold or rain the child
may be working in open air.
Selection of Toys and Play-Material
My experience has taught me that for the very
little child the things about the house, kitchen,
and yard are often the best play-materials. A
thoughtful mother will often find materials by
watching what the child chooses for himself.
She may have to use her superior knowledge
to substitute a better thing for what he dis-
covers, as, for instance, the mother who, when
she found her baby trying to build a tower with
corks which tumbled down repeatedly, making
her cry with vexation, substituted several sizes
of unopened vegetable cans. Children ask for
every bright string or paper which comes into
the house, and they find ways to transform
boards, boxes of all kinds, milk-bottle tops, col-
lar-buttons, newspapers and what not into toys.
Many mothers have learned to value wrapping-
paper for scrapbooks and magazines for pictures
to cut out and paste into them. Not only is it
an economy to learn to use these inexpensive
materials, but much real ingenuity is developed
in trying to use them. Besides, they are always
to be had.
However, as the child grows older he needs a
few other toys, and it requires much thought and
judgment on the part of parents to select wisely,
from the heterogeneous mass displayed in stores,
a few things of real value. It is necessary to
say something here about the selection of toys;
first, because, as little children use materials,
there is no difference between their playthings
and their work-things ; and secondly, because the
sort of toys they have determines largely what
they make or whether they make anything at all.
Here are a few matters to consider when buy-
ing a toy:
One should be sure (i) that the new material
is needed; (2) that the child couldn't by any
possible means make a fair substitute for him-
self; and (3) that the possession of this toy or
material will lead to constructive play or work.
One must see into the future as well as consider
the present desire.
The first point is worth considering because
too many playthings are overwhelming anQ lead
to confusion and fickle fancy and idleness. Even
among the toys a child possesses it is wise from
time to time to put away a few. When the child
gets them again they are like new and suggest
all sorts of possibilities for work and play.
The second point — can a substitute be made
or found by the child? — is also worth thinking
about. The Hallowe'en false face that stayed in
the store window did its work there for my baby,
aged three years and four months. She tried
to make one with paper and was fairly successful.
Then I made her a cardboard pattern which fitted
her face; showed her how to trace around it,
and gave her the needed material. When done,
she used it for dressing up. Making and re-mak-
ing this face, then varying it to a Santa Claus
mask with fringed paper beard, she still, in Feb-
ruary, is occupying some of her time with it.
Closely related to this point is the third consid-
eration I mentioned that the material should
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lead to constructive play or work. Scissors,
paste, clothespins, blocks, papers, invite always
to do something; they are useless without effort
on the part of the child. A doll needs to be fed
at a table and set in a chair or put to bed. H
this furniture is lacking, much good work and
planning is needed to make it. There is no more
fruitful line of growth through months and years
than the making and furnishing of a doll-house,
from the block-furniture in a dry-goods or paste-
board box, to the elaborate home, made perhaps
with hammer and saw by the little girl herself
or her brother, furnished with pasteboard furni-
ture copied from a catalog, and curtains and
rugs made and decorated entirely by the child.
Trains call for bridges to go under and stations
to stop at. To change the first crude objects
into a countryside with villages of cardboard,
farms, and Meccano-bridges, means splendid
growth for the boy, not only in handwork but
in interest in home geography. Thus one, in
choosing toys, may look far into the future as
well as at the immediate present. The furnished
doll-house and the "cute" little store-bought rail-
road station, on the other hand, are the sort of
things not to buy if one wants to develop a good
worker.
By the time he is four, a child should have
gone a long way toward finding out that he him-
self has the power to transform things into play-
things for himself; that the waking day is quite
too short to carry out the things he has planned,
and that he can find employment for himself at
?,ny time ; and he should have learned much about
the nature of many materials and their uses, even
if he is not able yet to use them well.
With the exception of paints, perhaps, all new
materials should first be given to the child to
use as he pleases without any "showing" or di-
rections from parents. It is common for the
father who brings home a new construction toy
to drop down on the floor beside the child and
show him how to use it, and thus rob the child
of all the fun of discovery, as well as of his
confidence in what he can do himself. For the
adult can make so much better and harder things,
and what the little fellow can do himself is so
poor in comparison that he gives up in discour-
agement. Let him get all he can out of it for him-
self before helping him. Then, when the call
for help comes, the parent can help wisely, be-
cause it will be clear just what and how much
help the child needs.
Blocks
Some day. while piling his blocks or shoving
them along the floor, the child discovers some
resemblance to a chimney or a street car. He
names the form and then tries to make it again
or build it more like his idea of the real thing.
He remembers that he made this delightful thing
and starts another day to do it again. He be-
gins to realize that instead of making and then
destroying things, he can get more pleasure in
making and saving them. He finds clothespins
or other things to ride in his cars. Then these
constructions change to a house for the people
to live in, or a bed to sleep in when they get home.
Usually with very little children many other
materials are brought into play. These not only
add interest in the blocks but often lead to better
building, and may be used by the mother to give
criticism. While the young child needs much
praise and encouragement in his work, he ought
also to have some suggestions to help make it
better. When our baby showed me a bed she
had made very well indeed, but too short for the
doll lying in it, I said, "How straight you have
made it ; there are no cracks anywhere. But how
will you keep your baby's feet covered if they
stick out so far?" "Oh, well, I dess I will mate
it bidder." And so she corrected her work.
The large blocks referred to earlier are most
valuable toys. They are so large that they are
used for all sorts of purposes. When B. first
gave doll tea-parties, she seated her family on
boxes, stools, or even a kettle upside down.
These seats lacked backs ; so, soon she had to
hunt out taller objects to place behind. She used
the large blocks to pile up back of the boxes,
until finally she found that she could build the
whole chair with blocks. But even now, at three
years and eight months, she combines block
chairs as far as they go with other chairs or
boxes. We have added to the large oblongs of
the earlier period other forms made on the same
scale. A mother ordering blocks made can
work out her own dimensions, provided she plans
them so that they fit well together. I give specifi-
cations of ours at the end of this paper.
Not only is it fun to build again things made
previously, but it is pleasant to save good things
made to show Daddy when he comes home and
then keep them to start to-morrow's play with.
Our baby always had a place where she could
keep her work. Often the ne.xt day's fun, instead
of beginning all over again, began by making im-
provements or adding new parts. For example,
she was very proud of some "deedledums" she
cleverly reproduced from a set she saw at a
friend's house. These often stayed for days
while she built all sorts of things for these
creatures to use.
All these constructions were naturally crude
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291
and most simple. Now, a year later, she not only
builds much better, but makes a great many quite
elaborate things. She has made greater prog-
ress in blocks than in any other material.
Clay and Plasticine *
Clay and plasticine are great favorites. When
I start getting dinner, out comes the children's
folding table, their little chairs, the oilcloth
table-cover, and one of these materials. The
children attempt almost anything — cakes for
a bakery, vegetables to play fruit-market with
(several of the clay ones were saved to paint
"really" color when dry), animals seen at the
zoo, beads and marbles, even an umbrella.
When they have come to me in distress, I have
shown how to make legs stay on and how to
smooth surfaces. Aside from that, I let all the
work be free and do not attempt to guide it,
except by such indirect suggestions as described
in the work with blocks. These suggestions they
can take or not as they please.
Cutting and Drawing
For a long time a child uses a pencil or crayon
merely to mark or scribble and scissors to snip
with, so that anything which comes in his way
is likely to suffer. He should never be punished
for his first destructive offense, because he has
no idea of doing wrong; it is merely a new ex-
periment. But the wrong should be made clear
to him, and at the same time he should be shown
the newspaper pile or waste-basket and told that
he is welcome at any time to help himself to
what paper he needs. After he understands this,
no offense should go unpunished. It is well to
show from the beginning that the right use of ma-
terials means great freedom.
Drawing is the young child's writing; by it
he tells his pencil stories. At first it is mere
scribbling, but later becomes an attempt to pic-
ture. It is wisest to let him do much of this
with almost no attempt to direct him, even till
well into the next period. Showing children how
to draw prevents their free expression and often
spoils entirely what might be good work. I
should draw only for the child who hasn't yet
gotten any idea of the fun, and only for a starter.
Sometimes the baby tries to cut out a picture.
But the handling of scissors requires so much
skill that during this period I should encourage
almost no line-cutting, but stimulate much free
cutting and snipping, finding ways of using results
so as to make the work constructive. Our child
has filled a box full of paper snow ; she cuts snips
* The value of various modeling materials is discussed in
"A Suggested Play Outfit."
that she called feathers to fill a doll's pillow— a
paper bag pasted at the ends; and yesterday she
made dessert to go in the plasticine gelatine molds
she had made for the dolls' dinner. She cuts or
tears long strips of paper and pastes the ends to-
gether to make links in a paper chain, and cuts
arms and legs for paper-doll heads. At first I
folded papers for her to cut "surprises"; now she
does the whole thing herself. These surprises
never cease to amuse, and we have found a use
for large ones, — to set the luncheon table for the
family, for doll-house rugs, and as valentines with
picture-flowers pasted on them, the whole mounted
on another colored paper. She made valentines
for more friends and relatives than she possesses.
Now, as I write, she is working beside me on
a scrapbook. The pages are cast-off sheets of
this manuscript, which she is sewing together
in her own way, two at a time, with a paper
cover cut from a wall-paper book. She has by
her, to paste in the book when it is done, her
box of post-cards and pictures saved or cut from
catalogs. As I do not wish to encourage the
difficult line-cutting she has picked up from older
children. I am not criticizing the fact that, in
her desire not to cut into the picture, she has
rarely touched the line. When she is surer of her
control she will begin to cut on the line, and
when I am sure that she is able without strain
to do this well, I shall hold her to her best.
In addition to the nervous strain, another rea-
son for not letting children do line-cutting early
is that they become dependent on a pattern in-
stead of cutting pictures themselves. Paper dolls
to cut out and pasteboard patterns to trace
around are good to use occasionally after the
child has learned to cut freely. "But," says the
mother, "how shall I encourage my child to cut
things freely? He is afraid." Watch when he
is cutting and seize upon any likeness you see —
"Why, this would look like a pig if it only had
some legs" — and he will hurriedly paste on
strips for legs. I handed B. a picture of a baby's
head, remarking that it would be a good doll to
dress if it had a body. She disappeared into the
playroom with it, and after a while came back
with a doll with a "stummit" (body) — one paper
strip — and arms and legs of various-sized other
strips, with slashes at the ends for fingers and
toes. Then she made dresses and colored them
with crayon. By and by from this pieced-
together cutting she will learn to see and cut in
larger wholes.
Painting
I made an exception of painting as not an
experimental material. Because paints are ex-
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pensive and easily wasted, and a messed-up paint
box may spoil any more valuable use, it may be
vi'ise to give very early a few simple directions,
such as how to use the brush without spreading
it, how to mix a pan of color for a wash, and
how much water is needed to wet the paint
properly. The painting books, however, so often
displayed in the stores, are not at all good for
beginners. Painting inside such small and com-
plex figures can not possibly be done right during
this period and will establish careless habits.
Large and simple forms are different. Our
youngster traced around a good-sized pan from
her set of doll-dishes, colored the circle, and made
it into a bali to go on her Christmas tree.
We purposely have but a small supply of
colored paper at our house, so that we have to
paint or crayon most of what we need for doll
dresses, bails, strips to make flags and chains,
and other things. B. is finding how to make
colors — that blue and yellow produce green, red
and yellow, orange. She has noticed sunset
colors, and the stained church windows, and is
trying to imitate these. She also has a large
flat painter's brush and helps me do painting and
staining jobs around the house. She can now
make a few large sheets of even color with con-
siderable skill.
Other Ways the Mother Helps
There are tvifo other important ways for a
mother to help. She ought to see to it that
neither she nor anyone else interrupts the busy
child until his work is done, if this can be avoided.
Concentration for him is as important as for his
older brother working at school tasks. She
should also help him to take up and finish any
good thing he has started at another time. I
keep a mental — sometimes a written — list of
such things. When asked, "What shall I do now?"
I recall some of these. Or, when I find time to
give to the child, we pick up and finish some
of these projects, uncompleted perhaps because I
was too busy to help.
Ways That the Busy Mother May Manage
Some mother who does her own work exclaims,
"Mercy, how do you expect me to get my house-
work done !" If she really wants to, the mother
can always find a way. Have stools or high fruit-
baskets to put, inverted, beside the kitchen table
so that she may watch the children while she
cooks or washes dishes ; let the outdoor play-
time come when she has to sweep or clean and
can not be with the children. Then, when they
come in. do sewing or writing in the room near
them. They like to carry their work about the
house, and are wonderfully patient in moving' it
from room to room, if they may be near mother.
And they soon learn to work on newspapers or
large cloths to prevent unnecessary muss that
they must clean up after them. Aside from ths
advance children make under this sort of ar-
rangement, the beautiful atmosphere of trust and
comradeship which grows between mother and
children goes far to help them over the strained
places elsewhere. The joy the mother herself
gets from it lifts her out of the dull atmosphere
of household drudgery.
PLAYTHINGS WHICH SHOULD BE
BOUGHT FOR EVERY CHILD
I. Blocks
At least one good set of blocks, preferably two,
a large and a smaller set :
Here are several block sets to choose from:
Large Blocks
1. The Hennessy Blocks, sold by the Milton
Bradley Company, Springfield, Mass.
These are of various shapes, including the
cylinder; they come in a large hardwood box and
cost from live to eighteen dollars.
2. Blocks made to order by any carpenter, from
two units: (i) oblongs at least as large as a
brick and (2) square blocks the length of the
oblongs ; there should be two or three dozen of
the oblongs and nearly as many square blocks.
(3) A dozen oblongs may be cut from end to end
for posts. (4) Cubes glued together to make
larger cubes than can be made from a single piece
of wood. (5) Two dozen squares cut diagonally
from corner to corner, for large triangular blocks.
(6) One dozen squares cut twice diagonally for
smaller triangles.
Our set is made from oblongs 7x3^/2x154
inches and squares 7 x 7 x l^ inches.
With this set should be included thin boards of
various lengths and widths.
3. Schoenhut's "Hill" Kindergarten Blocks.
The A. Schoenhut Company, Philadelphia, Pa.
These blocks are wonderful in their possibili-
ties and in the muscular development they give.
It is worth while to send to the company for the
circular describing them. The difficulty in having
them for the average family is their expense, and
in most homes the lack of space for using them.
The company sells quarter sets. Where children
from several families play together, a set might
be used in common.
4. Peg-Lock Blocks. The Peg-Lock Block
Company, Fort Lee. New Jersey. All sorts of
forms may be built with them and fastened to-
gether with the pegs.
MIXING COLORS FROM THE THREE PRIMARY COLORS— RED, BLUE, AND YELLOW
Green — 1 part yellow + 1 part blue
Orange — 1 part yellow + 1 part red
V'iolet — 1 part blue + 1 part red
Neutral gray — 1 part yellow + 1 P^rl blue -)- 1 part red
Yellow-green — 3 parts yellow + 1 part blue
Blue-green — 3 parts blue + 1 part yellow
Yellow-orange — 3 parts yellow -|- 1 part red
Red-orange — 3 parts red + 1 P^^t yellow
Blue-violet — 3 parts blue + 1 part red
Red-violet — ■ 3 parts red -j- 1 P^rt blue
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5. The Star-l)uilt Blocks. The Emhossing Com-
pany, Albany, N. Y.
Small Blocks
1. The Frochel Gift Blocks (enlarged). The
Milton Bradley Company, Springfield, Mass.
Each set is of hard maple and comes in a
cherry-wood box.
3d Gift: Eight two-inch cubes.
4th Gift: Eight oblongs 2 .x 4 x i inch.
5th Gift: Twenty-one two-inch cubes.
Six large triangles made from the cubes cut
once diagonally.
Twelve small triangles made from the cubes cut
twice diagonally.
6th Gift: Made by similar divisions of the ob-
longs of the fourth : Eighteen whole oblongs
2 X 4 X I inch.
Six columns — oblongs cut from end to end.
Twelve two-inch squares — oblongs cut cross-
wise.
2. Homemade substitutes for these more ex-
pensive blocks, made from sets found in all toy
stores :
1. From three sets of 12 large ABC cubes at
25 cents each : Two dozen cubes used as they are.
One dozen large triangles — si.x cubes sawed once
diagonally. Two dozen small triangles — six cubes
sawed twice diagonally.
2. From three sets of 12 "circus" oblong blocks
at 25 cents each : Two dozen oblongs used a.s they
are. Twelve posts — si.x oblongs sawed from end
to end. Twelve squared — six oblongs sawed
crosswise.
II. Modeling Material
1. Clay: This may be obtained from any school
supply house or artists' supply store ; in some cities
it may be obtained from a pottery or kiln or tile
works.
2. Plasticine, plastina, or plastiline: materials
always ready to use, and presumably healing to
the skin because of the glycerine in them to keep
them moist. These come in several colors and
may be bought at any artists' supply house, large
toy department, or regular school supply house.
3. Moldolith (Milton Bradley): Looks like
clay, but is a little easier to care for, needing only
to be put away always in a tightly covered jar or
tin can.
4. Permodello (A. S. Barnes Company, New
York) : a plastic material that hardens without
baking.
III. Coloring Material
I. A Good Paint Box: The best and cheapest
are Milton Bradley's and Prang's. These are
carried by the small supply stores for school
children and cost from 25 cents up.
2. A Good Camel's Hair Brush: The brushes
that come in the bo.xes are not good enough for
real use.
3. Scissors: The blunt points are safest, but
those with one sharp point answer more purposes.
4. Crayons : These may be found almost any-
where at 5 or 10 cents a box. Very desirable
large marking crayons may be bought from the
Milton Bradley Company at 35 cents a dozen.
5. Good Paste : The bottled pastes or wall-
paper paste. This latter is convenient, as it can
be got in flour form in pound packages at any
wall-paper house and mixed like flour and water
in small amounts as wanted ; it costs about 80
cents a pound, in any quantity.
6. A Good Blackboard with Colored and White
Crayons: A large slate-board is best, but these
cost more and are breakable. We enjoy most a
large piece of blackboard cloth which can be
rolled to go in a trunk, spread out on floor or
table, or tacked to a large pasteboard and hung
on the wall. Our piece is about a yard wide, and
we bought three-quarters of a yard at a large
stationer's store for 90 cents.
7. A Low, Comfortable Work-Table: This can
be made by a carpenter or from a kitchen table
with legs sawed off. The Milton Bradley Com-
pany have tables of soft green and dark and
light brown with chairs to match. The chair
should be broad-seated and comfortable, low
enough for the child's feet to rest on the floor.
IV. Other Playthings Desirable to Buy
1. Large Manila Drawing Papers — for painting
also : these may be bought at school supply shops.
Or, the yellow typewriter paper which Father uses
so much.
2. Large gray bogus drawing papers for fold-
ing, painting, and drawing — to be had in the same
places.
3. A good supply of tiles such as are used for
floors : these can be bought at a plumbers* sup-
ply store ; they cost about $2 a square foot. As
the half-inch or three-quarter-inch squares are
good, a great many of several colors may be had
in one square foot.
4. Colored Folding Papers in four-inch, five-
inch, and six-inch squares: at Milton Bradley's;
also at some newspaper stands and stationers'
stores.
5. Large Wooden Beads and Shoe Strings for
stringing them : these beads come in natural
wood — red, green, orange, blue, purple, and yel-
low; they are made by Milton Bradley and may
be got of them or in large toy shops.
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6. Carpenters' Tools: a small hammer with
broad head and short handle, a screwdriver, small
stout saw, and a box of assorted nails, tacks, and
screws. More usable tools may be had at small
cost from five-and-ten-cent stores than those in
tool sets for sale in toy stores. The best sets
are those put up for use in schools: a school
supply house can either furnish these or tell where
they may be had.
7. A good paper doll with arms and hands
standing out from the body. This will last longer
if mounted on cloth and cut out.
8. "Wood-Bildo" sets, found at any toy store,
are similar to the Meccano toys, but better
adapted to the small child. The set consists of
various-sized wheels which fit into grooved and
notched strips of wood.
9. "Wonder Blocks," made by Baker & Ben-
nett Company, New York City, and sold in the
toy stores. These are not easily combined with
other sets, but furnish excellent fun and good
training for little children.
10. The Tinker Toy, sold at toy stores: besides
its use as a set of mechanical materials, furnishes
wheels, axles, and rods to use with other things.
V. Useful Articles Found at Home
1. Wooden boxes for houses, wagons, cup-
boards : boxes may be carefully taken apart and
used as building materials, their notched ends fit-
ting together to hold the boards in place. They
make good combinations with building blocks.
2. Fruit-jar lioxes, useful for houses and carts.
3. All sorts and sizes of pasteboard boxes.
4. Small fruit baskets, for furniture and for
hammock swings, with clothespins used as stand-
ards.
5. Bottoms of one-half bushel baskets make
fine wagon wheels.
6. Milk bottle tops, all kinds of circular paste-
board pieces, and spools also serve as wheels,
plates, saucers, and clock faces.
7. Toothpicks, burnt matches, and meat skewers
are valuable in many ways.
8. Brass paper fasteners, collar buttons sent
home from the laundry, and round sticks are use-
ful to fasten on wheels.
9. Button molds serve for wheels and for
stringing along with spools, cranberries, rose hips,
and the like.
10. Spools serve for furniture legs.
11. Clothespins are useful as dolls, legs to
box-furniture, etc.
12. Wrapping papers and pasteboard oblongs
which come home from the laundry in shirt pack-
ages are good substitutes for folding, cutting, and
painting papers, and for pages in scrapbooks.
13. Newspapers are almost unlimited in their
uses.
14. Wallpaper sample-books serve for folding,
cutting, and papering doll houses.
15. Tinfoil.
16. String.
17. Pins — with a cushion for holding them.
18. Magazine and catalog pictures are used
for dolls, for pictures to mount or frame, and for
scrapbook material.
19. Pumpkin seeds and other large flat seeds
are used for stringing and for making outline
pictures.
20. Apples and potatoes, with stick arms and
legs, for making animals and men.
21. The paper caps which some milk-dealers
use over the tops of bottles make good cups and
saucers and other dishes.
22., Bits of cloth and blunt, large-eyed needles.
23. Pasteboard patterns of animals to be traced
around. These may be traced with tissue paper
from picture books and transferred to pasteboard
by using carbon paper and then cutting out.
24. A mother may find packages of home-made
folding squares, cut from wrapping or news-
papers, very handy and much less expensive for
common use than the colored papers.
THE IMPORTANCE OF SELF-HELP*
BY
MARIA MONTESSORI
We habitually serve children : and this is not only
an act of servility toward them, but it is danger-
ous, since it tends to suffocate their useful, spon-
taneous activity. We are inclined to believe that
children are like puppets, and we wash them and
* From "The Montessori Method," by Maria Montessor
Company, New York.
feed them as if they were dolls. We do not stop
to think that the child who does not do, does not
know how to do. He must, nevertheless, do these
things, and Nature has furnished him with the
physical means for carrying on these various
Used by permission of the publishers, Frederick A. Stokes
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activities, and with the intellectual means for
learning how to do them. And our duty toward
him is, in every case, that of helping him to make
a conquest of such useful acts as Nature intended
he should perform for himself. The mother who
feeds her child without making the least effort
to teach him to hold the spoon for himself and to
try to find his mouth with it, and who does not
at least eat herself, inviting the child to look and
see how she does it, is not a good mother. She
ofifends the fundamental human dignity of her
son — she treats him as if he were a doll, when he
is, instead, a man confided by Nature to her care.
Who does not know that to teach a child to feed
himself, to wash and dress himself, is a much
more tedious and difficult work, calling for in-
finitely greater patience, than feeding, washing,
and dressing the child oneself? But the former
is the work of an educator, the latter is the easy
and inferior work of a servant. Not only is it
easier for the mother, but it is very dangerous
for the child, since it closes the way and puts ob-
stacles in the path of the life which is developing.
Another very interesting observation is that
which relates to the length of time needed for the
execution of actions. Children who are under-
taking something for the first time are extremely
slow. Their life is governed in this respect by
laws especially different from ours. Little chil-
dren accomplish slowly and perseveringly various
complicated operations agreeable to them, such as
dressing, undressing, cleaning the room, washing
themselves, setting the table, eating, etc. In all
this they are extremely patient, overcoming all
the difficulties presented by an organism still in
process of formation. But we, on the other hand,
noticing that they are "tiring themselves out" or
"wasting time" in accomplishing something which
we would do in a moment and without the least
effort, put ourselves in the child's place and do it
ourselves. Always with the same erroneous idea,
that the end to be obtained is the completion of
the action, we dress and wash the child, we snatch
out of his hands oljjects which he loves to handle,
we pour the soup into his bowl, we feed him, we
set the table for him.
What would become of us if we fell into the
midst of a population of jugglers, or of lightning-
change impersonators of the variety-hall? What
should we do if, as we continued to act in our
usual way, we saw ourselves assailed by these
sleight-of-hand performers, hustled into our
clothes, fed so rapidly that we could scarcely swal-
low, if everything we tried to do was snatched
from our hands and completed in a twinkling and
we ourselves reduced to impotence and to a
humiliating inertia? Not knowing how else to
express our confusion we would defend ourselves
with blows and yells from these madmen, and
they, having only the best will in the world to
serve us, would call us haughty, rebellious, and
incapable of doing anything. We, who know our
own milieu, would say to those people, "Come into
our countries and you will see the splendid civili-
zation we have established, you will see our won-
derful achievements." These jugglers would ad-
mire us infinitely, hardly able to believe their eyes,
as they observed our world, so full of beauty and
activity, so well regulated, so peaceful, so kindly,
but all so much slower than theirs.
Something of this sort occurs between children
and adults.
COLLECTING NATURE MATERIALS*
BY
KATHERINE BEEBE
"O little feci, amid the grass.
Chasing the shadoifs as they pass.
The river talks beside your icar,
The winds are sweet at dazvn of day,
O little feet."
— Mary T. H. Skrine.
come dulled and blunted if his questions are not
answered and his efforts appreciated. To be
much out-of-doors with the children, to follow
their restless leadings, to be interested where they
are interested, and to be able to lead them into
"fresh fields and pastures new" when they are
* From "Home Occupations for Little Cliildren," by Katherine Beebe, published by the Saalfield Publishing Compan;,
Akron, Ohio. Used by permission of the publishers.
It is a mistake to think that little children, un-
aided, will become observers and lovers of Nature.
We of the present generation have but to look
back to our own childhood to prove that. In
spite of a child's love of outdoor life and his
keen interest in all he sees, that interest will be-
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ready to go, is to "live with our children" as
Froebel hoped we should some day.
Play with Fruits and Nuts
This lover of children laid great stress on
sense-games in his book for mothers. He would
have them train the senses of their children to
acuteness and discrimination by means of play.
In one kindergarten this idea was carried out in
September by means of the fruits so abundant
at that time. A number of these were provided,
the number suited to the ages and abilities of
the children, who named them and counted them,
and also drew them with colored chalk. One
child's eyes being blindfolded, another child hid
one of the fruits. It was then the turn of the
blinded one to guess which fruit was missing, and
if he guessed correctly he was "heartily cheered;"
if his guess was wrong, he tried again another
time. This was played as long as the children
were interested, and on another occasion a game
of guessing, by feeling the fruits, filled a half
hour, while still later they were guessed by smell-
ing and tasting.
Such games as these, when taught to children
and played occasionally with them, ought to set
them going in this particular direction to their
own physical, mental, and spiritual upbuilding.
Older children delight in these simple kinder-
garten games and seldom have the opportunity
they wish to learn and use them. In their play-
ing school or playing kindergarten they could
amuse both themselves and younger brothers and
sisters in this way, for the games can be played
with nuts, leaves, shells, stones, blocks, flowers,
grains, children, and miscellaneous objects.
Nuts, used after this manner, make delightful
playthings, and kindergarten children delight in
playing they are squirrels and hunting the nuts
previously hidden by one of their number, es-
pecially if privileged to eat the nuts at the end of
the game. Hunting nuts in the real woods is a
joy which children should taste oftener than they
usually do, for in these days of railroads and
electric cars, the woods are not so very far off,
and once a year at least there should be a nutting
party in every well-regulated family.
Making Nature Collections
If, in the Indian summer days, after the leaves
are off the trees and the birds have flown, a col-
lection of nests could be made from the woods,
parks, or suburbs, by means of excursions in com-
pany with a boy of tree-climbing age and pro-
pensities, a work worth doing would be wrought
in the minds and hearts of all concerned.
Nothing gives children more pleasure in the
Fall than milkweed pods full of the "dainty milk-
weed babies." Go where these are to be found
in September or October; bring them home and
let them dry in the house ; explain to the chil-
dren why they are furnished with wings and how
the wind plants them ; let them have some pods
to play with out of doors on windy days; and
let them make pretty winter bouquets of dry
clusters of the pods for friends and relatives.
Little girls can make down pillows of the seeds
for their dolls, and an ambitious child could even
collect enough for a down pillow for a real baby.
Thistledown can also be used in this way.
During the Autumn the different kinds of seeds
and seed-pods greatly interest the children, who
would enjoy gathering them if there was any
reason which appealed to them for so doing.
The interest of the older people in such a col-
lection is sufficient oftentimes to stimulate them
to effort, but a real object, such as saving for
next year's garden, making a collection for a
present to somebody, or gathering quantities to
be sent to city relations, or anyone poor or sick,
appeals more to the child. He is a reasonable
little being and does not care to do things which
are not "worth while," any more than we do.
An examination of the seeds with a microscope
will repay anyone, and no child will fail to be
interested in the perfectly formed leaves tucked
up in many seeds all ready for next year.
Play with Leaves and Acorns
When the leaves begin to fall, playthings are
literally showered on those children whose eyes
and hearts true sympathy has opened. It is a
commonly pathetic sight in autumn days to see a
little child gathering the bright leaves with a
wistful what-can-I-do-with-you expression, only
to throw them away. If he brings them into the
house, they are often unnoticed and uncared for,
and the most he can expect is to have them put
into a glass of water and forgotten. The names
can be learned ; guessing games can be played
with them ; they can be traced, drawn, and
painted; beautiful borders and patterns can be
laid with them ; tea-tables can be decorated with
them ; wreaths and festoons can transform* the
child into an autumn picture for his father; they
can also be pressed, varnished, and waxed.
In the great masses of dead rustling leaves are
delightful places to play squirrel and rabbit
games, and for a romp, what material is better
adapted for tossing, rolling, and throwing?
Children will rake leaves patiently, if, when
Father comes home, they can be present at the
bonfire.
Baskets of acorns will be gladly gathered if
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they can be used, and in many a city kindergarten
they would be treasures indeed. The double
acorn cups can be strung by slipping the string
between the two cups. These productions give
much pleasure to the children who have to find
the double acorns and string them, as well as to
the baby brother, sister, or neighbor to whom they
can be presented.
Other Collections
Corncobs in quantity made in olden times, and
still make, charming playthings, and a corn-husk
dolly would be a greater treasure than one from
a store to many an indulged child. Wild cucum-
bers and toothpicks will stock a miniature farm
with bristling pigs, and the vines can be grown
in almost any spot of earth where there is good
soil.
Stones always interest children, but the interest
is a fleeting one for the reason that limitations
are reached so soon. If a place is prepared for
a collection of the most attractive stones, and if
the mother can tell her child a little of their his-
tory, an added stimulus to patient hunting and
sorting is given.
The bright berries of Autumn, the haws,
thorn-apples, and cranberries are beautiful for
stringing purposes, making a pleasant change
from beads and buttons. In season, clover heads,
dandelion heads and the tiny flowers which make
up the lilac's blossom make good material for
stringing, and this industry should be added to the
familiar occupations of making dandelion curls
and chains.
Nature Handicraft
Get a sheet of dark bronze paper on whose
white side flying birds can be traced from a
pattern. The model can be drawn and cut out of
pasteboard, or a picture be made to serve the pur-
pose. Let the children trace and cut out a flock
of these birds; fasten them high up on the nurs-
ery wall, headed south in the Fall, and make
others which can head north in the Spring. Sets
of these can be made for friends and saved for
Christmas and birthday gifts ; for a present which
is not the child's own has little value, as a gift, in
his eyes compared with one which has cost him
effort or sacrifice.
Where children can have the use of hammers
and nails, they can make crude bird-houses in
which real birds will live all Summer, and they
will often spend a half-hour raveling out bits of
coarsely-woven cloth, which, hung on bushes,
trees or fences in the Spring, are to furnish the
birds with nest-building material.
Things that Live and Grow
A globe, or other receptacle, in which fish can
be kept will be a treasure to children old enough
to go about alone or fortunate enough to possess
a grown-up real friend who will take them occa-
sionally where they want to go. It will give a
reason for the collection of frogs' eggs, tadpoles,
tiny minnows, crawfish, and mussels. How chil-
dren love these things, and how seldom is it worth
their while to bring them home. "They are very
interesting, dear," says Mamma, trying to repress
a look of disgust, "but we have no place to keep
such things. Throw them away." A tub in
which water from their own homes and breeding-
places can be placed seems to agree best with
tadpoles, by the way.
To learn the trees by name, to know their
blossoms and seed, is a pursuit in which old and
young may join with mutual pleasure and profit.
The country is full of thriving little seedling
trees which, striving for life in vacant lots, park-
ways and roadsides, will one day become real
trees, if transplanted into an amateur nursery.
Someone once suggested that if, for every child
born, a tree, seedling, or seed were planted, the
forestry problem would be solved.
A miniature fruit farm can be made by plant-
ing apple, peach, plum, pear, cherry, orange, or
lemon seeds, and, while it may never reach a very
advanced state, the planting of the seeds, the
watching for the first shoots, and the observation
of the tiny trees will fill up some of those indus-
trial vacancies for which we are trying to pro-
vide. When we were children there were few
Springs when we did not plant a vegetable garden
in an old dish-pan or cheese-box, using for plant-
ing purposes one potato, one beet, one onion, one
turnip, and one anything else we could get. I
do not remember that there was ever any outcome
to this agricultural enterprise, but I have a very
distinct recollection of the pleasure this tilling of
the soil gave to me. I will add that we lived in
a city and that our backyard was boarded over,
but to the true farmer-spirit all things are
possible.
The collecting of cocoons in the Fall will give
occupation at that time as well as later on when
the moths come out. These are found in both
city and country, and a study of them will prove
most interesting.
More Nature Playthings
Of the small snail shells found on the lake
shore, and in gravel piles, strings can be made,
as they usually have holes in them. A child will
hunt patiently for these treasures even when he
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has not the hope of using them. Babies and
younger children are dehghted recipients of such
gifts as these, and the fact that they so soon tire
of them need not affect either the work or the
satisfaction of the donor.
Drinking-cups can be made of large leaves
pinned together by their stems, and those of us
who read the Rollo books long ago remember that
the backs of the lilac leaves can be used for slates
if pins are the pencils. I have known kindergar-
ten graduates to reproduce their brief educational
experience, using pebbles, twigs, leaves, dande-
lion stems, and burrs for material. The pebbles
were seeds, the twigs sticks, the leaves folding
papers, and the burrs clay. They even wove
coarse grass into mats and did pricking with thin
leaves and stiff grasses.
The burdock's prickly seed-pod can be made,
not only into baskets and nests, but into animals,
furniture, and almost any sort of object. It is
well to protect little hands with old gloves for
this work, for the burrs leave invisible splinters
in the fingers, which are very uncomfortable.
Until one has tried it, one does not know how
lifelike and satisfactory to the children are the
squirrels, rabbits, dogs, cats, and elephants which
can be made of either the green or the brown
burrs. The golden-rod galls can, with a knife
and the addition of grasses or stems, be trans-
formed into tiny vases and dishes. Flower dolls
make beautiful fairies with their pansy, daisy,
or dandelion faces, their leaf shawl and poppy
or morning-glory skirts, and "pea-pod boats with
rose-leaf sails" are delightful possibilities.
Making a Fairyland
I know one child whose delight it was to make
fairylands, filling a shady corner or shallow box
with moss-covered earth in which she planted
miniature trees, flowers, and shrubs, sinking a
saucer, which could be filled with water, into the
ground for a lake.
.On a lakeside or seashore the construction of
hills, mountains, islands, and rivers gives even a
little child at times more satisfaction than his own
rather aimless building of houses. One group
of children made the Michigan fruit farms and
a smaller Lake Michigan, over whose waters
fruit-laden boats sailed to city markets.
Radical as it sounds, water makes a delightful
plaything, but it is seldom used because — it is
too much trouble ! Happy is the child equipped
for play in a fresh puddle left by the rain, or in
a tub of water in the backyard ! Happy is the
cliild who is sometimes dressed for a frolic in
a warm summer shower, who on hot days is
allowed to play in the bath-tub or with the hose !
Happy are those children who, when taken to
shore or beach, are dressed, or undressed, so that
they will not have to be cautioned every other
minute not to get wet ! The old familiar rhyme
beginning "Mother, may I go out to swim?" —
you know the rest — would be appreciated by many
children on lake shore and ocean beach if they
happened to know it.
Mother Nature, with her sunshine, rain, wind,
hail, snow, and various commotions and combina-
tions of the elements, is always ready to play with
the children, and they with her, were they
only allowed to do so. They are not allowed
because of the fear that they will soil or in-
jure their clothes, hurt themselves, take cold, or
be too much trouble to someone, and so they lose
many hours which, through the happiest play,
might bring to them health, courage, freedom,
and joy.
BEAD-STRINGING
MRS. CARRIE S. NEWMAN
Stringing beads has always been a favorite oc-
cupation of little children. It is, we presume, an
instinct inherited from their ancestors, as beads
of stone or metal have been found in the tombs
and caves of many ancient peoples. All primitive
folk have delighted to decorate themselves with
necklaces of various kinds.
But the haphazard material usually supplied
the children has prevented satisfactory results.
and so the interest quickly dies and bears very
little fruit.
To satisfy this instinct and make it of real edu-
cational value, the kindergarten provides large
wooden beads of the six prismatic colors and
the three forms, ball, cube, and cylinder. These
are strung upon shoelaces or stout string, and the
combinations that can be made are simply lim-
itless.
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At first one string alone is used; later, as the
child gains skill of hand and development of
mind, two, three, or even four strings may be
used in one combination, so the work can be
spread over a number of years.
The tiny child of two years is delighted to run
the tag through the hole in the bead and see it
run down the string, and will fill string after
string with a miscellaneous assortment. His joy
is confined to the manual operation, to using his
hands; form and color are as yet meaningless to
him. But little fingers are being trained and
brought under the control of their owner.
Then, just at the right moment, the mother or
an older child suggests that he pick out all those
like sister's red hair ribbon, or the red geranium
in the vase, and a whole new world opens before
his eager eyes as comparison and classification
become factors in his play. His first attempts
will probably result in a mixture of red and
orange, if red is the color chosen, or of blue and
green if blue is what he is seeking, but these dif-
ficulties will soon be overcome. After stringing
red or blue beads he will delight in a game the
object of which is to find all the articles of that
color in a given space, the room, or the garden.
Combination Stringing
Once familiar with the different colors, he can
begin making combinations. Here the uncolored
beads are valuable, as the combinations are more
truly artistic. If Mother or Sister makes a
chain of one red, one white, he will hail it with
delight as prettier than the one color and be eager
to imitate. The next step is to make a different
combination. He has now entered upon a limit-
less source of joy, for it has been calculated that
four hundred different combinations can be made
on single strings and more than a thousand
where several strings are used as one. Of course
this, like other occupations, gives greater pleasure
when several children work together, each aiming
to make the prettiest combination he can im-
agine.
A glass prism hung in a sunny window, so that
a rainbow is thrown on the floor or wall, will
greatly delight the children and lead to the making
of rainbow chains. Soap bubbles will often pro-
vide a similar valuable experience.
A new line of thought may be started by calling
the children's attention to the colors of flowers
and suggesting that they make chains to represent
certain flowers — yellow and green for buttercups,
blue and yellow for forget-me-nots, for instance.
At this time a box of paints and experiences in
mixin? colors will be most valuable.
Laying Beads in Patterns
The beads need not always be strung. Many
games of position and direction may be played,
as the child lays borders of contrasting colors, or
picks out green cubes and arranges them to rep-
resent a lawn and places a border of tulips or
crocuses around it, if such be a part of his en-
vironment.
What a gloriously happy rainy afternoon might
be spent in thus reproducing in miniature his out-
door surroundings ! Would it not be worth while
going to some public park or garden purposely
to get such a setting for his play if there is no
garden at home? Will not such memories be life-
long possessions, lending a charm to picture and
poem in later life? Are not many lives dwarfed
and stunted just for the lack of such experiences
in early childhood ?
Another trip might be taken to drink in the
wealth of color in the market or fruit store in
the Autumn, and the beads used to reproduce it.
Then if Father will lead the little minds to pene-
trate into the wonderful life-history of some of
these children of Xature, he will add to their
lives, and perhaps renew in his own that which
no money could purchase. The natural culmi-
nation of such experiences is of course a song
which embodies these thoughts.
Special attention may be called to the form of
the beads by making such combinations as, three
cubes and one ball ; a ball, a cube, and a cylinder
in one color; or making human beings by placing
a cylinder on a cube and adding a ball for a head.
A string of uncolored cylinders makes a fine
garden-hose, while colored cylinders make fa-
mous jars of jelly for the dollies.
Other Materials for Stringing
But beads are not the only material for string-
ing. Nature provides many suitable objects, such
as nuts, shells, seeds, berries, and haws. And
the gathering of these will help to open the chil-
dren's eyes to the many wonders so generously
strewn about them. To be able to read even a
page or two of Nature's wonderful story-book is
surely a valuable accomplishment. And the time
to begin this study is in early childhood.
A bundle of the artificial straws used in ice-
cream parlors, cut in inch lengths, will be a much-
prized adjunct to the stringing.
Bead-Stringing and Number
In stringing, the child is constantly making use
of different number-combinations and laying up
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information which will be invaluable when he
begins his number work in the primary grade.
He knows the difference between three and five,
two and four, etc., and has a definite impression
to call upon when any simple number is men-
tioned, and so is saved the hiborious work many
a little child goes through.
Colored paper, cut in circles and squares and
Strung with straws, makes a beautiful decora-
tion for nursery or for Christmas tree. Narrow
strips of paper pasted in rings and joined together
make a pleasing variation.
While to our adult eyes these chains may not be
artistic, to the children they are truly beautiful
and a source of intense delight.
Older children may manufacture their own
beads from colored paper, following directions
given in many magazines. A friend has just told
me of a little girl who makes pretty chains by
stringing cloves and glass beads.
'THE HOLY GIFT OF COLOR"*
BY
ELIZABETH HARRISON
"Of all of God's gifts to the sight of man, color
is the holiest, the most divine, the most solemn,"
said John Ruskin.
And yet, wonderful as is the infinite variety
which color presents, the average human eye is
dull to much of its marvelous beauty. Ceaseless
as are the changing emotions which its lights and
shadows awaken, the average human life is poor
and empty, although surrounded on every hand
by these inestimable riches !
Many Young Folks Are "Color-Blind"
I took with me to the country one Summer for
a short vacation a bright and intelligent young
girl. She was sensible, had the average educa-
tion, and was unusually attractive. She was a
good conversationalist, had taught school several
years, and was in many respects far above the
commonplace young woman. Much to my aston-
ishment, I found that she had never taken a walk
before sunrise, and therefore knew nothing of the
silent, mysterious beauty which precedes the birth
of a summer morning.
She was wild with delight over the long shad-
ows on the grass, and the straight yellow rays
sent forth by the upper rim of the coming sun.
A tall row of hollyhocks that glittered like trans-
parent gems as the early sunbeams struck through
their pink and crimson petals were as new to her
as to a child. She had never watched a sunset
across a body of water, and so knew naught of
the thrill that comes as the earth catches the glory
of the heavens and the two become one in a har-
mony that fills and exalts the beholder, much as
great music does the attentive listener. She had
never seen the miracle in which the sunlight
transforms an ordinary chestnut tree into an en-
chanted tree, each leaf of which is outlined with
glittering gold. In fact, she did not know a
chestnut tree from an elm, and listened with won-
der to the story of the rose and carmine, the ru.5-
set and buff blossoms with silken and velvet tex-
ture that adorn the oak and hickory each Spring.
And her pleasure was almost childish when she
learned that the bark, twig, leaf, and blossom
of a tree all harmonized in color, and told of the
same characteristics as did its shape and branch-
ing, its roots and leaf-veins. Day after day, her
evident blindness to the most apparent beauties
of nature became more and more evident, until
at last I exclaimed, "Where were you brought up?
What did you do as a child?" "I lived," she re-
plied, "in a country town all through my child-
hood, but I was a sidewalk child ! I can explain
it in no other way 1"
I liked her frankness and the term she had
coined, "sidewalk child." It exactly describes
hundreds of children who may be seen any day
in our great cities, straggling listlessly along the
streets, or worse still, if they chance to belong
to the so-called better class, being led unwillingly
along by some dull-faced nursery maid.
Even in our smaller towns I have heard the
thoughtless mother give a parting injunction to
her little daughter as she opened the door for her,
"Now. take care of your dress; don't get ofT the
sidewalk and don't play with anything that will
soil your hands !" Such a command — when all
God's world was inviting the child to come and be
* From "Some Silent Teachers,'
by permission of the author.
by Elizabeth Harrison, published by the Sigma Publishing Company, Chicago. Used
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its companion and learn of its secrets and revel in
its beauty !
Show Nature's Colors to Your Child
If a child is so fortunate as to live in close con-
tact with nature, and has free access to the out-
of-door world, it is an easy matter to call his at-
tention to the various aspects of the sky, to teach
him to observe the exquisite tones of gray in the
storm cloud, and the deep blue of a summer day,
as well as the more striking beauties of the sun-
set and sunrise ; the stars of a summer evening
will appeal to his young soul as no words can
hope to do. It is a well-known fact that quiet
moonlight often soothes a fretful infant.
Children delight, when once their attention has
been called to it, to watch from day to day the
yellowing of the branches of the willow, the red-
dening of the twigs of the sumach, the lighter
tones of gray on the oak, as Spring approaches ;
again the slowly changing hues of the hillsides
and the exquisite tints and shades of the catkins
and tender young leaves are a never-ending joy.
Later on, the still richer coloring in the leaves and
blossoms, as the Summer adds its beauty to "the
miracle of the year," brings another whole world
of delight. Then comes Autumn, with its gor-
geous panorama of golden grains, of purpling
grapes, of reds and russets, of yellows and
browns ; even Winter is rich in harmonious color-
ing. Then, again, the rain gives one tone, the
sunshine another, and twilight still another, to
each of these many colors.
Next in order of purity of color comes the
study of the plumage of birds, the wings of in-
sects ; then the hair or fur of animals, and last
in strength of colors, but not least in beauty.
Nature offers a great assortment of colors in her
precious stones and metals; and in minor tones
of more subdued, though no less beautiful colors,
her marbles, agates, carnelians, sandstones, and
granites repeat the wonderful story of her ex-
haustless supply of color harmonies. Thus the
child learns to enjoy the ascending and descend-
ing scale of colors in the world about hiin.
Fill the Home with Color
The nursery walls should, if possible, be of
some warm, cheerful tint. It is far more impor-
tant that these ever-present, silent teachers, the
walls of the room, shall speak of love and har-
mony and cheerfulness than that the crib shall
be made of brass, or the pillows be trimmed with
lace, or the baby carriage be lined with silk. Of
course, such belongings as rugs and curtains and
the like should harmonize with the walls. There
are now so many cheap, pretty textile fabrics that
scarcely any mother is excusable for surrounding
her child with ugly, crude, or dingy colors.
There is as true an art in properly clothing a
child as in carving a statue. There is as true
an art in furnishing a living room as in building
a cathedral. It is but a difference in degree when
results are looked at. Someone has called the
great paintings, statues, and cathedrals of the
world "the autobiographies of great souls." May
we not with equal truthfulness call an harmo-
nious, well-arranged home "the autobiography of
a loving heart"? And upon no one thing does
the beauty and harmony of home appointments
depend so much as upon the right use of color.
Water Colors Among the Playthings
Many mothers do not know the amount of
pleasure and growth that comes to a child by the
free use of good water-color paints. A child of
three or four years may easily be taught not to
waste his colors and may be given only three
cakes of pure paint, carmine (red), gamboge
(yellow), and Prussian blue. Out of these he
can make almost every shade and tone of color,
and will soon revel in reproducing the colors of
all the objects about him, thereby training his eye
to see and his heart to feel color, just as the ear
of a child is trained to rejoice in harmonious
sounds -by being allowed the right use of a piano.
Color-Play in the Nursery
The beautiful coloring which comes from the
sunlight shining through the autumn-tinted leaves
of the forest may be brought to any home, for a
short time at least, by the simple device of fas-
tening well-pressed colored leaves to the window
glas's by means of slender slips of tissue paper.
Sometimes, when artistically arranged, the effect
is that of a costly stained-glass window. A clear
glass paper-weight placed on a sunshiny window-
sill of the children's play-room will throw each
morning a sparkling shower of pure rainbow col-
ors upon the walls and floor, much to the delight
of the children.
Color is a Free, Beautiful Gift
Every earnest mother may not have it in her
power to give her child a knowledge of and a
love for noble and inspiring music, but she can
give to him a perception of and a love for beau-
tiful color, no matter how limited her circum-
stances nor how far removed from the centers of
culture her home may be.
We can not fill a child's life too full of keen
enjoyments, if they are of the right kind. And
this love of color, so accessible and so easily im-
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parted, furnishes hi-m with clean, health iiil rec-
reation during all his after life, for when once
acquired it is never lost. For it seems to be one
of the native languages of the soul, by means of
which the great heart-throbs of the big outside
world are felt by the heart within the child, just
as tears and smiles and tones of the voice are
understood by all children.
I have seen children's faces grow radiant over
the colors brought out by the wetting of some
common pebbles gathered from a neighboring
gravel pit; and a joy beyond words may be
awakened by the gathering of a handful of au-
tumn leaves. Why should we fill their young
lives with coarse and sensual pleasures, such as
fashionable children's parties, visits to exciting
theaters, cheap and tawdry toys, when they are
so easily satisfied by the beauty and the marvels
of Nature's colors?
"The infinite soul of humanity," says John
Ruskin, "with its divine worship of self-abnega-
tion, has no counterpart in all Nature equal to
the service which color renders to the rest of
the world. How it glorifies and uplifts the com-
monest objects !" No wonder that he has called
color the type and symbol of Love !
SUGGESTIONS FOR COLOR-PLAY
BY
THE EDITORS
"Tzvilight's in the corners, the tivilight and the fire.
As the knights come riding, each attended by his squire:
And you hear the flutter as the silken, pennons flit.
Hear a trumpet fanfare, and you long to folloiv it.
Where broivn-eyed princesses bend from high embattled toilers.
Where in wondrous gardens flame the wondrous Wishing Flozvers."
^Patrick R. Chalmers.
Mankind has always been an incurable fire-wor-
shiper.* Once perhaps his was the worship of
fear, when the flame, untamed, rushed across his
crops, burned his home, or drove him to shelter.
But there is a later, a gentler adoration, the wor-
ship of fire controlled and imprisoned.
This love of the domesticated fire, fire tamed
and friendly, accounts for many things. It ex-
plains why a campfire, seen across a lake at night,
or the light in the home window, looks so exceed-
ingly cozy. There is a familiar remark to the
effect that "Nobody has a right to poke the fire
but the master of the house." This harks back
to the passion for mastering, taming this element.
It explains why children love to play with
matches. Patterson Dubois once wrote quite a
pathetic little story, which he entitled "The Fire
Builders," telling how a father once quarreled
with his little boy, who insisted on getting grimy
• "In the home interior it is commonly some bit of bright
light, especially when it is in movement, which tirst charms
the eye of the novice; the dancing fire-flame, for example,
the play of the sunlight on a bit of glass or a gilded frame, the
great globe of the lamp just created. In some cases it is a
patch of bright color or a gay pattern on the motlier's dress
which calls forth a full vocal welcome in the shape of baby
'talking.' In the out-of-door scene, too, it is the glitter of
the running water, or a meadow all white with daisies, which
captivates the glance. Light, the symbol of life's joy, seems
to be the first language in which the spirit of beauty speaks
to a child,
A feeling for the charm of color comes distinctly later.
The first pleasure from colored toys and pictures is hardly
distinguishable from the welcome of the glad light, the de-
light in mere brightness." — James Sully, LL.D.
while assisting to light the furnace. Of course,
that little boy died, but ever since then the author
has allowed his other children to enjoy this lux-
ury. And, rightly, he advises all other fathers
to do the same. Indeed, to be promoted to be
official fire-lighter for a household has, no doubt,
prevented many a youngster from growing up to
commit arson.
Everybody remembers that happy household in
Edinburgh of which Stevenson sang, where
"We are very lucky, with a lamp before the door.
And Leerie stops to light it as he lights so many
more;
And O! before you hurry by with ladder and with
light,
O Leerie, see a little child and nod to him to-night !"
How natural the aspiration of that same child:
"I, when I am stronger and can choose what I'm
to do,
O Leerie, I'll go round at night and light the
lamps with you."
Fireplace the House Altar
That shrewd student of human nature, St.
James, remarked once that the human tongue is
a fire that no man can tame. I wonder if he ever
sat with his children in front of lighted coals.
For fire not only is tamed, but it is itself a tamer.
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It has such magic that no one can keep his eyes
off it. It softens the mood of all present. It
causes the children to relax muscles and tempers,
forget to tease each other, long to listen to gen-
tle fairy stories, and to accept the most direct
moral advice without flinching. It creates mem-
ories of the sort that can never afterward be
forgotten.
It is not hard to sympathize with those Friends,
called Quakers, who erect no altars, but who go
into their meeting-houses and sit, mostly in si-
lence, and together beside an open fire think of
God.
Here is a suggestion for a perpetual device for
peaceable child-training. Build your home al^out
an open fire. In Summer, the campfire. Perpetu-
ally the fireplace. It may have to be fed with
oil or gas or coal, instead of wood. But it is the
true family altar.
In her "Alemoirs of a Child," Annie Steger
Winston recalls a certain white plaster tower of
her childhood, "something like an un-Leaning
Tower of Pisa, rather more than a foot high and
with rows upon rows of windows, through which
the light would shine when one placed inside a
lighted candle. That made its fascination. See-
ing it so lighted, it was impossible not to think
of it as furnished and inhabited; as full of life,
festivity, and elegance."
Taming Fire
Another recollection of such an outshining of
light from within came from colored Japanese
lanterns or, even more, from home-made, candle-
lit pasteboard boxes, fantastically cut out and
lined with brilliant-hued tissue paper. "There
was joy in the thought," she says, "as one carried
them around after dusk in one's hand, that one
was, in that deliciously careless way, carrying fire
in paper. One would have also a vague feeling
that fire itself had somehow grown tame and
friendly."
The device of hanging Japanese lanterns along
the porch from rubber bands instead of cords, so
that they would dance as well as sway, gave the
children in one household a delightful sensation
of being surrounded by living fires.
Carolyn Sherwin Bailey tells of a mother who,
as the last and prettiest touch for her little
daughter's birthday candle, planned to light for
her the birthday cake. The children had all been
assembled in a darkened room. Quietly the doors
were opened into the dining-room, where the
table, loaded with food and favors, could be seen
under a single light. Then, in the center of the
table, the birthday candles were silently lighted
one by one. As they shone in their fairylike
splendor the little girls clapped their hands, and
one of them spontaneously began to sing softly,
"Nearer, my God, to Thee."
Dr. C. Hanford Henderson calls attention to
the fact that a candle, wherever it is put, makes
the place an altar, whether it be upon a table, be-
side a bed, or in a window.
Simplicities of Light
"How little I myself really need when people
leave me alone," said Walter Pater once. "Even
a few tufts of half-dead leaves, changing color
in the quiet of a room that has but light and
shadow in it ; these, for a susceptible mind, might
well do duty for all the glory of Augustus."
"Put a flower in a glass on her mantelpiece,"
says Ernest Rhys, "and put a candle then below
it, so that it casts a shadow on the wall. Out of
the play of light and shade on a common wall the
child gets at the secret of fantasy. It may be a
door, or a window, or a street lamp, or a star
reflected in a puddle. Any light will do to find
the light."
Shadows, also, are as potent as, and are more
magical than, light.
"You need not stint yourself of shadows," Alice
Meynell says. "It needs but four candles to make
a hanging Oriental ball play the most buoyant
jugglery overhead. Two lamps make of one
palm branch a symmetrical counterchange of
shadows, and here two palm branches close with
one another in shadow, their arches flowing to-
gether and their paler grays darkening. It is
hard that there are many who prefer a 'repeating
pattern.' "
Few people have ever noticed the color and the
progression of shadows. Ask almost anybody of
what color shadows are and he will answer,
"Black." Whereas, there are no black shadows,
except on the moon. It was a good many cen-
turies before painters discovered that fact at all,
and it is only a generation ago that Monet and
the scientific impressionists called attention to the
fact that shadows contain the complementary
colors to what is seen in the adjacent sunlight.
The length of sunrise shadows, the difference
between shadows and reflections, the special qual-
ity of shadows under the moonlight, these are
all observations not likely to be made by chil-
dren unless they are directed.
Mrs. Alice Meynell seems to think that dusk
brings children some faint revival of their prime-
val inheritance of excitement. She says : "When
late twilight comes, there comes also the punctual
wildness. The children will run and pursue, and
laugh for the mere movement — it does so jog their
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spirits. What remembrance does this imply of
the hunt, what of the predatory dark ?"
The Transforming Power of Light
Children often do not notice until directed to
do so what light does to a landscape. This sen-
tence of Walter Pater's is familiar: "A sudden
light transforms a trivia! thing, a weather vane, a
windmill, a winnowing flail, ithe dust in the barn
door: a moment — and the thing has vanished; but
it leaves a relish behind it. a longing that the
accident may happen again."
One household made a New Year's resolution
to enjoy together a year of sunrises. Each mem-
ber agreed to rise in time to witness every sun-
rise of the year, and the arrangement was made
to make daily notes of what was observed. Need-
less to say, the result had a moral as well as an
esthetic influence.
In Stevenson's well-known reminiscence of
"The Lantern-bearers," the boys who used to
carry tin bull's-eye lanterns under their topcoats,
we get a glimpse of the way light and mystery and
adventure conjoined to give an unusual pleasure.
Fishermen, burglars, the police, suggested the
play. "But take it for all in all, the pleasure of
the thing was substantive; and to be a boy with
a bull's-eye lantern under his topcoat was good
enough for us. . . . The essence of this bliss was
to walk by yourself in the dark night, the slide
shut, the topcoat buttoned, not a ray escaping,
whether to conduct your footsteps or to make
your glory public — a mere pillar of darkness in
the dark; and all the while, deep down in the
privacy of your fool's heart, to know you had
a bull's eye at your belt, and to exult and sing
over the knowledge."
Then, of course, there must be the irrepressible
Scot's moral, "Life from without may seem but
a rude mound of mud: there will still be some
golden chamber at the heart of it, in which he
dwells delighted; and for as dark as his path-
way seems to the observer, he will have some kind
of bull's-eye at his belt."
Moderns Have an Enriched Color-Sense
Probably we moderns are capable of the en-
joyment of more varied tints and shades of color
than were men before us. It has been noticed
that the only color distinctly mentioned in the
"Iliad" is red, and possibly yellow. It has been
thought that the primary colors were the only
ones noticed by the ancients. The use of color
in English poetry is comparatively recent. To
Wordsworth the sky was merely blue and the
grass green. Little children are early sensitive
to the primary colors, but respond late to the
secondary ones, such as purple and gray.
"In parts of Georgia and South Carolina,"
William Wells Newell says, "as soon as a group
of girls are fairly out of the house for a morn-
ing's play, one suddenly points the finger at a
companion with the exclamation, 'Green!' The
child so accosted must then produce some frag-
ment of verdure, the leaf of a tree, a blade of
grass, etc., from the apparel, or else pay forfeit
to the first after the manner of 'philopena.' It
is rarely, 'therefore, that a child will go abroad
without a bit of 'green'; the practice almost
amounting to a superstition. The object of each
is to make the rest believe that the required piece
of verdure has been forgotten, and yet to keep it
at hand. Sometimes it is drawn from the shoe,
or carried in the brooch, or in the garter. Nurses
find in the pockets or in the lining of garments
all manner of fragments which have served this
purpose."
This, and other games of color-matching, helps
explain the charm of treasure-strove. The broken
bright shards of pottery, shining shells, things
that are transparent or that have luster or glitter
that we pick up, all these call to have their stories
told or retold. "Una Mary's" narrative is full
of such incidents. A walnut shell that opened,
colored tiles, a Persian rug, certain bright stones,
bits of china, evoked her fancy and even her
adoration. In her sacred tree and upon her
garden altar this lonely, untaught worshiper
sought and found the Divine.
Hers and other experiences suggest how close
vivid sense-experiences of color and smell are in
early childhood to the deep springs of wonder.
Prisms, kaleidoscopes, a paper-weight with its
mysteriously inclosed snowstorm, and old laces
and brasses are among the objects that recall to
some of us strangely beautiful and even holy rec-
ollections and imaginings.
Color-Play in the Home
Let us realize how we may transform the dull
and homely things in the house by the mere magic
of color.
Sealing-wax may be used to change the sim-
plest pieces of glass and chinaware into attractive
vases.
Very common furniture may be made distin-
guished by the use of red china paint or glossy
black.
A dull kitchen may be caused to shine by bring-
ing out and setting up our stock of ruddy copper
kettles, white enameled sheet iron, and aluminum
ware.
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In the dining-room cluster the lights upon the
table, by candles if not otherwise, because the
folks are the center of the picture. Keep other
lights away from the firelight, because the fire-
place, the household altar, is the center of this
picture. For the charm of shadows have no other
illumination in the room than the fireplace. The
library needs little color but the massed reds and
greens of the books on the shelves, cleverly ar-
ranged as a sort of tapestry. A bright red quill
in the inkstand will carry this tone into the cen-
ter of the room.
If you frame your own pictures, try making the
mats out of silk and satin remnants, strips of
birch-bark, sheets of cartridge paper, pieces of
gilt. White mats make holes in the walls.
Countless ways will suggest themselves to
our readers by which even small children may
cooperate in these homely but beautiful tasks of
color-enrichment.
THE MUSIC NEEDS OF THE KINDERGARTEN*
BY
CALVIN B. CADY
The right of the child to be well born is not more
true, not more essential, than his right to be well
nourished.
Good judgment in respect to the choice of ma-
terial for thought is vital, since, after all is said,
it is not the teacher, but the kind and quality of
the mental nourishment we give to the child, that
is the real cultural influence. Pure and nourish-
ing food is as essential to mental as to bodily
growth.
In the development of a cultured language we
see how vital is the influence of the thought and
language with which the child comes in contact
at home. When you meet a young child with a
cultured language it is always the product pri-
marily of the high character and quality of the
ideas that are in common circulation in the fam-
ily and school, and this must hold true, there-
fore, in an equal degree in awakening to conscious
activity the latent germ of music intellection, the
development of conscious music-thinking, expe-
rience, appreciation, and cultured judgment.
In respect to music, the need, therefore, is for
a higher type of music material ; for songs of finer
quality ; for pure music of intrinsic and esthetic
value. Happily, there is a widespread awakening
to this need, and a real effort to meet it. Some
years ago Miss Susan Blow recognized the fact
that the music in Froebel's "Mother Play" was
quite impossible for parents, teachers, or chil-
dren, and she selected and published a number
of songs deemed suitable for modern use. But
her proposed reform did not go far enough, be-
oause it did not start from the basis of a practical
knowledge of the music-education of the child,
and a just conception of the part the kindergarten
should play in its realization. Besides, the preva-
lent notion of music as an adjunct — important,
to be sure — of the program fiction, played too
large a part in the choice of material.
The Music Should Be for Music's Sake, Not
for a Program
The question, therefore, is: In this general
stage of the child's consciousness, when wonder-
worlds within and without begin to dawn upon
him and awaken intense desires and interest, shall
his first glimpse of the wonder-world of music
be primarily song-material adjusted to the various
experiences involved in the day's program? Shall
it not rather be the function of the kindergarten,
as of every school, of every music-teacher, to
choose material which shall center the child's
interest, power of grasp, assimilation, enjoyment
and expression in music itself; to open a new
world of beauty to the child's mind and heart ; to
entice him to enter, to appropriate, and to enjoy
its fruits, through mental and spiritual assimila-
tion ; to treasure in memory, and to find one
more worthy incentive for that self-expression
which is essential to individual growth and the
service of humanity?
Taking this conception as the ideal to be at-
tained, what, in brief, are the specific objects
which shall determine the songs and the purs
music to be used?
Taking for granted that we are all agreed that
songs are the most primary material for our pur-
pose, three primal needs must be considered.
Songs to Sing to Children
I. Above all others I would put the need for
songs to be sung for the children.
These songs have a twofold purpose: (a) to
* Used with the author's permission. Read before the International Kindergarten Union.
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shed sunshine and shower upon the dormant, siib-
conscious germ of music-apprehension, and (&)
to awaken, if may be, some degree of conscious
appreciation and enjoyment through incitement to
active participation in the singing.
Would that our hygienic lawmakers were wise
enough to inject into the minds of mothers a little
of that milk of human motherhood, love which
would bring back the old-fashioned bedtime cus-
tom of taking the children into their arms and
lulling them to slumber with song.
Would that more mothers to-day sang into their
children's minds and hearts at least a few of the
host of melodies great in their childlike simplicity,
pure beauty, and depth of meaning. Songs for
this purpose should be chosen with reference
to intrinsic musical beauty, especially melodic
beauty, though the children may understand and
appreciate little, if any, of the poetic thought.
For the vital purpose is to touch the latent power
of music-perception and appreciation with the
fructifying warmth of music itself; to awaken
and stir to active participation in the esthetic and
spiritual nourishment of truly great melodies —
melodies immortal by reason of a simplicity and
beauty which young and old can apprehend, en-
joy, and treasure in memory.
For this purpose it is not necessary that all
songs should be completely rendered. Here and
there are to be found beautiful strains in songs
which, in their entirety, may not appeal to the
child. For instance, what could be more effective
in waking the latent power of musical apprecia-
tion than the first two strains of "The Linden
Tree," by Schubert? In these strains are to be
found a strength, a simplicity, a beauty, and a
tenderness which can not fail to appeal to the
child-heart of every age. Such strains should
also be included in this repertoire.
For cultural work, so large is the number of
available songs, one is at a loss to choose even
for illustration, but the following, taken at ran-
dom from the song literature of different nations,
are pertinent to our purpose. Among German
songs there is the "Little Dustman," glorified by
Brahms, and a rare "Christmas Song," by Peter
Cornelius. From France, "II etait une bergere."
"The Shepherdess," and "Winds of Evening."
Known to all is the tender old Welsh lyric, "All
Through the Night," and the still more wonder-
ful Irish gem, "O Spirit of the Summertime."
Nor should "Sweet Afton," from Scotland be
forgotten, nor "Where the Bee Sucks," by that
good old English musician, Dr. Arne — a melody
too fine to be omitted. From our own land,
"Suwanee River" no doubt comes to mind; but
I wish to call attention to a group of songs, "Song
Vignettes," from the pen of the late Gcrritt
Smith, than which nothing finer has been brought
forth by any of the previously mentioned writers
of songs for children. It is necessary to cite only
two songs, "Rain Song" and "Peace at Night,"
to reveal the general quality of the collection.
It is not to be inferred from the emphasis laid
uprn melody in bringing to birth and nurturing
a healthy music-consciousness and experience,
that the art of poetry in song and the poetic spirit
of the child are to be neglected. Far from that.
To spur into active life and nurture poetic im-
agination is the high emprise of song. The poetic
spirit of the child, therefore, should also be well
born and nourished.
To accomplish this, besides the songs chosen
primarily for the intrinsic beauty of melody,
which require no help from poetry to carry a_
message to the child-heart, many more should be
sung in which the poetry assumes importance, and
is simple enough to awaken interest, develop
imagination and active appreciation of the poetic
spirit of song.
Songs to Help Music-Thinking
2. The second function of song, for which we
need proper material, is to stimulate active melo-
dic tliinking and expression, and to furnish op-
portunity for that appreciation and culture which
can only result from the interpretative study of
song.
If the latent germ of music-thought were always
easily awakened, or if perceptual and construc-
tive poetic and music imagination were univer-
sally strong and active, the problem of choosing
material for nourishment would be measura-
bly simple ; but material must be chosen to meet
the needs of the children of sluggish or weak
musical ability. For such children, and they are
numerous, ,there is a necessity for short phrase-
songs in which the melodic, as well as the phonic,
elements are extremely simple, and present the
least number of impediments to quick grasp, and
to free vocal expression.
Songs for Larger Musical Culture
3. After the problem of melodic and poetic con-
ception and voice have been measurably solved,
the choice of songs has, for its third purpose,
purely cultural development through interpreta-
tive study and appreciation of many songs, cover-
ing a wide field of poetic and musical imagination.
As an extremely valuable and essential by-product,
such intensive study will result in a memory
richly stored with songs of intrinsic beauty, and
poetic and spiritual significance.
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To summarize: Song material falls into two
general groups;
(i) Songs for children to hear.
(2) Songs for children to sing.
The latter group subdivides into songs which
may serve (a) to awaken conceptual thought, and
to discover pure voice; (b) songs for cultural
purposes — to develop musical thought and appre-
ciation through interpretative singing; and (c)
songs to be treasured in memory.
The practical question that arises is, where is
this rnaterial to be found, and how may it be col-
lected so that it shall be of service.
The field from which to glean is wide. Gems
are to be found in all the folk-song literature of
the world — Slavonic, Scandinavian, Gallic, Celtic,
British, Latin, Teutonic. Indian, American, and
American Indian. Again, there is the domain
of songs written for children ; the art songs which
have sprung from the minds and hearts of the
song-poets of many nations — Brahms, Schumann,
Reinecke, Taubert, Grieg, Schubert, Cornelius,
and in our own country, in particular, Gerritt
Smith.
Beautiful Music Ought to Be Matched by
Beautiful Words
This leads to another point to be noted. In our
song books there are many beautiful and useful
melodies associated with poetry inane in thought
and puerile in language and rhythm; also many
mismated melodies because of poetry foreign to
their character. There are also many exquisite
melodies which should be available, but the poetry
is utterly unsuited to our children. This latter
condition obtains in many very beautiful French
songs. To be sure, many such melodies have been
rescued and supplied with poetry adapted to the
thought of our children. But there are many
more of equal, if not greater, value which the
children should know and sing. For example,
from the Weckerlin collection, "Popular Songs of
France," might be cited a number of such melo-
dies which our children might learn with profit.
These melodies are of rare quality, but the poetry
of the songs is impossible for our children. Mr.
Ralph Seymour, of Chicago, has published one
of the most beautiful of these melodies, substitu-
ting for the French Noel. "Chantons, je vous en
prie," a stirring medieval Christmas hymn which
is in perfect accord with the spirit of the melody.
Martin Luther believed that "the devil should
not have all the good tunes," and forthwith meta-
morphosed popular ditties into good German cho-
rals; and Handel, "that grand old robber," did not
hesitate to make use of love songs as themes of
great choruses in the "Messiah." There is every
reason, therefore, and precedent, if such were
needed, for appropriating to the children's use
melodies, wherever found, that are culturally
adapted to their needs. With a poetic setting be-
fitting its simplicity and tender grace, that ex-
quisite thirteenth century love song which Marion
sings to her lover in Adam de la Hale's Opera
Comique, "Robin et Marion," might emerge from
its obscurity and be added to the gems our chil-
dren could learn to sing, love, and cherish.
On the other hand, there are many worthy
poems sadly mismated, or without adequate musi-
cal interpretation. One such rare gem is Victor
Hugo's poem :
"Good-night, good-night.
Far flies the light;
But still God's love
Shall flame above.
Making all bright;
Good-night, good-night."
As far as I know, this poem is associated with
no melody which adequately voices its inner spirit.
But it is worthy of music which shall enhance the
beauty of its imagery, strengthen its spiritual im-
port, and add to the musical and poetic treasures
of childhood's memories.
In this connection, and out of practical expe-
rience, I should like to suggest that such poems
might be sung in their native language. French
songs, if the poetic thought has cultural value for
our children, offer splendid opportunities for the
initial learning of the language in a most practical
way. Not only may fine diction be obtained, but
the children approach the language from the right
angle — that of art-perception and esthetic enjoy-
ment, for they are privileged to revel in the beau-
ties of the two arts of poetic imagery, and the
rhythm and melody of oral sounds.
Such material it is not necessary to manufac-
ture, and we need no dry technical bones to offer
to the children. Fine melodic material may be
found in abundance in phrases taken from folk-
song literature. The old French cradle song,
"Dor, dor, I'enfant, dor," or the more familiar
German folklied, "Kukuk. Kukuk, ruft aus dem
Wald," are both excellent because of the sim-
plicity of the melodic phrases available for
phrase-songs and the sing-able qualities of the
vowel sounds of the language. Besides, they are
of intrinsic merit musically.
A word, now, concerning the practical work of
investigating and selecting the desired songs.
It must be understood, first of all, that no one
person is prepared to meet all the demands. How-
ever clever and cultured poetically and musically
one may be : however skilled, through long prac-
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tice, in the development of the child mind and
familiarity with the specific needs of the kin-
dergarten, no one individual is_ wise enough to
do full justice to the subject. It demands the
combined wisdom of cultured musicians who have
had practical experience in the musical education
of the little child, and trained kindergartners of
poetic and musical taste and culture.*
MUSIC FOR THE EARLY YEARS t
MARY E. PENNELE
The following suggestions, I hope, will prove
helpful to mothers and teachers of young children
in developing an appreciation and love for music.
The World War made us realize, as never
before, that music is the most universal of all
languages. The soldiers did not understand the
words of the war-songs of other countries, but
they did not fail to understand and respond to
the meaning expressed in them. During the war,
music was one of the most effective means used
for promoting unity of purpose and intercourse
among the peoples of all countries, as it was
among the soldiers. The Community Choruses,
formed in all parts of the United States, played
no incotisiderable part in the success of our war
activities. The development of a love and under-
standing of music will be one of the greatest safe-
guards to our national life in the future. As
leisure hours increase, a definite provision for the
spending of these must be made. A knowledge
and love for music therefore should be developed
in all children through the home and the school.
Music is a Language
Music is the universal language of childhood
as well as that of adults. "Sound and movement
are language to the child long before he has com-
mand of formal speech." He should be early in-
troduced, then, to this means of expression.
Music, as a language, should be learned just
as the mother-tongue is learned. Let us see, then,
how the child learns to speak. A mother con-
stantly talks to her baby, although she knows that
only tones and movements will be her answer.
This, fortunately, does not deter her from talk-
ing to her little one, for if it did, speech would
be long delayed.
The mother talks about everyday things that
the child can see or what they are going to do
* The selection of music for, little children in the sixth volume of the Bookshelf was based upon a special report of
the Music Committee of the International Kindergarten Union, and represents the best recent thought as to what is best
and most worthy for the purpose.
t Here, in a nutshell, is a real little textbook of musical appreciation for the helping of little children, written by one
of the most successful kindergarten sui)ervisors in this country. Material is here for months of work by the mother.
Note how simple and sensible are the suggestions. Miss Pennell brings out the neglected possibilities of the talking
machine and of even humbler musical instruments, and shows how the mother who is not an expert performer herself
may give lier children tlie priceless possession of musical enthusiasm and expression. — The Editors.
together. In this way words come to have a defi-
nite meaning to the child. Soon the child's tones
and meaningless gurglings begin to sound like
words. At once the mother encourages the child
by repeating the words correctly and getting him
to try again.
Can you imagine a mother giving her child
printed words to read before he has learned to
talk? And yet that is what is often attempted
with the musical language. The child is given
symbols of this tone language before it has any
meaning to him, therefore a distaste for music
results. We must remember that "the elements
of the tone-language must be learned through the
ear by imitation, just as the mother-tongue is
learned."
We do not attempt to have a child begin to try
to interpret the printed page until he has a vo-
cabulary of many words. So, also, a child should
be able to interpret many selections and have a
musical vocabulary of many songs before he is
given musical symbols to interpret.
After years of experience with children, I feel
that the value of any method of teaching vocal
or instrumental music which emphasizes the de-
velopment of technical skill rather than apprecia-
tion, interpretation, and creative ability, is to be
questioned. Results can unquestionably be ob-
tained, but they are without sufficient foundation
to endure. Symbols are barren unless they are
"carriers of meaning." The following sugges-
tions are designed to create a love for and ability
to understand music. With this foundation laid
in the first seven years of a child's life, the de-
velopment of technical skill can safely follow.
Create a Musical Environment
The early musical education of children should
be begun by having the children hear good music.
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If we wish children to be able to think and ex-
press themselves through this medium, then we
must surround them with a musical environment.
The use of records makes this possible for moth-
ers and teachers who cannot play or sing. Only
records of the best music should be chosen. A
musical environment can be created in the follow-
ing ways :
I. Form the habit of singing and playing to
your children.
Many musicians rarely, if ever, sing to their
children. Sing to them rather than say "Good-
morning." Sing to them while you are about
your work, not formulated songs but snatches of
melody.
How do you do this morn - ing 1
Have regular times during the day when you
sing or play formulated selections to them. Be
careful, at such times, to choose your selections
wisely. Select them to fit the occasion. At bed-
time do not play dance music, but music which
will create a quiet, restful mood. In the morning
quiet music will not be appropriate, as a child
awakens full of activity. There is a song and
appropriate music for all the experiences in a
child's life, if we only take the trouble to find
them.
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What are you do - ing, my ba - by ?
Lullabies are among the first songs to be sung
to the child. Nature songs, Mother Goose melo-
dies. Hymns, Patriotic Songs, Songs for Festi-
vals and Holidays, Songs of Human Activities,
and Finger-Plays should all be used at appropriate
times. Many of these songs have been sung by
artists and records made.
RECORDS OF LULLABIES AND QUIET
MUSIC
(Note. — Play the selections rather than the rec-
ords if you are a musician. The records, unless
otherwise indicated, are Victor.*)
The Sandman 64220
Berceuse from "locelyn" 3S1SS
Cradle Song 17254
Song Without Words 3S1SS
* Miss Pennell, as well as others of our writers, recom-
mends the talking machine as a valualjle aid to music in the
home. Mrs. Leonard calls attention to the fact that all
machines, even of the same make, are not of even quality,
and that the tone of the phonograph to be purchased should
be as carefully tested as if it were a piano. — The Editors.
Traumcrei 64197
Wynken, Blynken, and Nod 64219
Sleep, Little Baby of Mine I 1721'
Slumber Sea J
Lullaby (Brahms) .' 17181
First Movement, Moonlight Sonata 3S426
Humoresque 17463
Consolation 18119
Evening Star 16813
Melody in F 45096 or 87250
Priere Nocturne 70027
Evening Chimes 18018
Sweet and Low 47%
Slumber Song 17513
Slumber Boat 45075
All Through the Night 74100
LULLABIES TO BE SUNG TO CHILDREN
Little Birdie, Small Songs for Small Singers (Neid-
liiiger).
Rocking Baby, Small Songs for Small Singers
(Neidlinger).
The Moon is Playing Hide and Seek, Small Songs
for Small Singers (Neidlinger).
Cradle Song, Play Songs (Bentley).
The Dream Man, The Song Primer (Bentley).
Cradle Song, Song Stories (Hill).
Baby's Lullaby, Songs and Games (Jenks).
Lullaby, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Hush-a-By-Baby, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
The Moon Boat, Songs of the Child's World (Pouls-
son).
MUSIC FOR JOYOUS MOODS
See List of Music for Rhythms
MOTHER GOOSE SONGS
Baa baa. Black Sheep and others 17937
Mother Goose No. 1 17004
Mother Goose No. 2 35225
Mother Goose No. 3 and 4 18076
(See "Mother Goose Songs to be Taught to Children")
SONGS OF HUMAN ACTIVITIES
Sleighing Song 17869
Little Shoemaker | 170^7
The Blacksmith J ''^■"
Blowing Bubbles ]
Pit a Pat \ 17596
The Sailor J
Boat Song 17210
The Blacksmith, Songs of the Child's World (Gay-
nor).
The Little Shoemaker, Songs of the Child's World
(Gaynor).
Washing and Ironing, Song Stories (Hill).
The Blacksmith's Song, Song Stories (Hill).
The Blacksmith's Song, Songs and Games (Jenks).
(See "List of Songs to be Taught to Children")
NATURE SONGS
Pit a Pat and others 17596
Blue Bird and others 17776
The Bobolink 17686
Bunny 17776
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Canary and Thrush Duet 4S0S8 Thanksgiving Day, Play Songs (Bentley).
Daffodils 18015 Thanksgiving Day, Song Stories ( Hill ) .
Rain Song 17004 (See "Songs to be Taught to Children")
Good-night, Prettv Stars 17282
The Wishing Stone 17210 mwrc-D dt avc
Jack in the Pulpit 17719 FINGER-PLAYS
The Woodpecker and others 17686 i,, r,- tt c- j /- ^ t , -.
Oriole's Nest and Wind Song 17177 ^^ ?'-?f,°'\?''"'f-'- ^""^, ^"^ ."^^T' (J'^"'^^)- '
Violets 17625 ^^^e L.ttle Me.i^ I-mger-Plays ( Poulsson).
Ihe Squirrel, Finger-Plays (Poulsson).
The First Flying Lesson, Small Songs for Small The Counting Lesson, Finger-Plays (Poulsson).
Singers (Neidlinger). Mrs. Pussy's Dinner, Finger-Plays (Poulsson).
Mr. Frog, Small Songs for Small Singers (Neid- How the Corn Grew, Finger-Plays (Poulsson).
linger). (See "Finger-Plays to be Taught to Children")
Mr. Squirrel, Small Songs for Small Singers (Neid-
linger). HYMNS
The Snow Man, Small Songs for Small Singers
(Neidlinger). God's Care of .^.11 Things, Song Stories (Hill).
Jack Frost, Small Songs for Small Singers (Neid- (See "Songs to be Taught to Children")
linger).
Who Has Seen the Wind? Play Songs (Bentley). crM.Tr-c
Winter Song, Play Songs (Bentley). PAlKlUliC bUNGS
Butterflies are Flying. Play Songs (Bentley) . ' ^ S ..^ ^ j ^ Children")
Jack Frost, Play Songs (Bentley). v & & /
Sunshine, Play Songs (Bentley).
Little Jack Frost, First Year in Music (Hollis MISCELLANEOUS
Dann).
Moon Song, Song Stories (Hill). Tick-Tock, Small Songs for Small Singers (Neid-
The Blue Bird, Songs and Games (Jenks). T-u'T'"^b cue t c ,i c-
Over the Bare Hills Far Away, Songs and Games ^he See Saw, Small Songs for Small Singers (Neid-
(Tenks) linger).
Pussy Willow, Songs and Games (Jenks). ^^pple Gray, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann)
Little lack Frost, Songs and Games ( lenks). Jo Baby Land, First Year m Music Hoi is Dann).
Tiny Little Snowflakes, Songs and Games (Jenks). Boating Song, Songs for the Child s World (Pouls-
The New Moon, Songs and Games (Jenks). „,*?"v c- c- , ,,-,•,,.,,•,, /t, ,
Twinkle. Twinkle, Little Star, Songs and Games Sleighing Song, Songs for the Child s W orld (Pouls-
( Jenks) ^°"-*-
The Bird's Nest, Songs of the Child's World (Gay- (See "Songs to be Taught to Children")
nor).
Jack Frost, Songs of the Child's World (Gaynor). Have Children Create Their Own Sonajs
Little Yellow Dandelion, Songs of the Child's World
(Gaynor). Have children sing to you in response to your
Jhe Violet, Songs of the Child's World (Gaynor). greeting, or have them sing the answer to the
The Tulips, Songs of the Child s World (Gaynor). .- ■ i j ^i, 'ru t_ u
questions you have asked them. 1 hey should
SONGS FOR FESTIVALS AND HOLIDAYS early learn to express their thoughts in song.
It is of the utmost importance that you use a
Around the Christmas Tree 17869 ,j j^j gofj head-tone in singing to children and
Holy Night 17842 . ' u . uu *C ^ tl
Christmas Carols 31873 ^^ve them respond with the same tone. The
moment they are allowed to sing loudly the qual-
Christmas Night, Song Stories (Hill). it ^f t^ng jg ruined and the voice becomes
A Wonderful Tree, Songs and Games (Jenks). . ,
Christmas Song, Songs of the Child's World (Gay- stra nea. _
nor). Illustrations:
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Teach Good Songs to Children
Children need not only to create their own
songs but to know simple songs that trained mu-
sicians have composed. The latter will give chil-
dren a standard for their own original songs and
he the means of developing them along right lines.
The formulated songs should supplement, but not
take the place of, songs created by the children
themselves.
In choosing songs to teach children, remember
that "The selection of real things and interests of
the daily life about which to sing is, undoubtedly,
the keynote to the restoration of song as a natural,
rather than a studio art." These interests may
be in relation to Nature, festivals, human activi-
ties and events, poetry and stories.
The songs should not only be about experiences
with which children are familiar and interested,
but they should be expressed in language which
the child can readily understand and reproduce.
The songs should also be short, as a rule, in-
creasing in length as a child gains musical power.
When longer songs are used they should involve
a good deal of repetition, both in melody and
words. The pitch of songs should be high, as
children's voices range from E to F sharp.
The accompaniments to songs should be simple.
Some authorities say that singing with piano-
accompaniment should be the exception rather
than the rule.
Too many songs should not be taught. A few
songs well learned are better than many only
partially learned. The children should sing only
a few songs at a time, lest their voices become
strained. Individual, rather than chorus singing
should be stressed.
What Method Should Be Used?
.\ possible way :
1. Introduce the idea of the story or song.
This introduction should be brief and to the
point, otherwise interest and appreciation
will be lost rather than created.
2. Give the child something to listen for as
you sing, or some motive for learning the
song.*
3. Sing the song to them several times, being
careful to
(1) Have the right pitch.
(2) Have the right quality of voice.
This will be determined by the spirit
of the song.
(3) Phrase well.
(4) Enunciate distinctly but naturally.
4. Have them answer the question you asked
them in regard to the song.
5. Be sure that the children understand and ap-
preciate the meaning of all words used in
the song, otherwise they will be unable to
sing with expression. The words, however,
should not be repeated by the children.
6. Sing the first phrase and then have the
children individually, or as a group, sing it.
Then sing the second phrase, having the chil-
dren repeat this. Put the two phrases to-
gether and have the children sing these.
Use this method until all the phrases have
been developed and the children are able to
sing the whole song.
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the child's experience with it. — M. S. L.
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Illustration of This Method
What spring birds have you seen? Which is
the prettiest one? I saw a bluebird when I was
riding yesterday. When we got near him he flew
way up in the sky. Do you ever wonder where
the birds are going, and why? Listen and find
out what this blue bird told a child who asked
him. Sing "Pretty Little Bluebird."
Where did the bluebird go ? Why was he flying
on high ? What did he mean by, "To see if my
color matches the sky"? Do you think it did?
Now, after I sing what the little child asked the
bluebird. I want you to see if you can sing it
to me.
See if you can sing that part. (Child sings.)
"Pretty little Bluebird, why do you go?
Come back, come back to me :"
Listen while I sing what the bird answered.
"I go," sang the bird, as he flew on high,
"To see if my color matches the sky."
Who can sing that to me? (Child sings.)
Now let me sing the whole song to you, and
then I want you to sing it for me. Perhaps to-
morrow you can sing it to Father.
What Singing Habits Should Be Begun
at Once
1. Wait for the prelude to be finished.
2. Get the right pitch by having the key note
sounded on piano, or by the teacher. It is
sometimes well for the children to sound
this before beginning the song.
3. Begin on the first note.
4. Avoid shouting, sing with soft, light, head
tones.
5. Pronounce the words correctly and distinctly.
6. Have a good sitting or standing position for
singing.
7. Get children to feel the need of improving
a place in the song which they do not sing
well, in order to make it tell a better story.
How can you help a monotone?
1. Never let a child feel that he can not sing
and never let him be embarrassed by other
children.
2. Whenever possible, do not let him sing with
other children, as he influences their tones
and he can not hear the correct tone because
of the sound of his own voice.
3. Let him stand near the piano when singing.
4. The most helpful thing is to give tone plays
to monotones. (See Tone Plays.)
5. When working individually with children
get one who pitches the tone lower to think
a higher tone.
How can you get good tones?
1. One of the best ways to get good tones is
to have children listen to good singing. This
is made possible through the records of the
world's famous artists which the coming of
the phonograph has made possible for all.
The ideal voice for children to hear and imi-
tate is the lyric soprano. Listening to violin
and flute records is equally helpful.
(See suggested list of records.)
2. Require children to use good flexible tones
in speaking. In the child's mind all con-
scious discrimination between the singing
and speaking voice should be eliminated.
3. Clean and open nasal passages are of first
importance.
4. A good sitting or standing position is 'abso-
lutely necessary to get good tones. (But
don't let the matter of position become too
formal or self-conscious. — M. S. L.)
5. Tone plays are helpful.
(a) Let children play they are your echo.
Take the notes, such as singing "00,"
then "o" and "ah." Have children imi-
tate these.
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(b) Have them match tones by tooting like
an engine, imitating street calls, various
kinds of bells and whistles.
(c). Have them imitate various sounds of
Nature, such as the wind, bird-calls,
bees, and calls of animals.
(d) Have them repeat names of children,
prolonging the vowel and thus turning it
into a singing tone.
Ma
ry
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313
Songs to Be Taught to Little Children
GREETING SONGS
Good-Morning to All, Song Stories (Hill).
Good-Morning Song, Song Stories (Hill).
Good-Morning to You, First Year in Music (HoUis
Dann).
Good-Morning Song, Songs and Games for Little
Ones (Jenks).
HYMNS
God's Works, Song Stories (Hill).
Thanks for Daily Blessings, Song Stories (Hill).
Church Bells, Song Stories (Hill).
Morning Hymn, Songs and Games for Little Ones
(Jenks).
The Morning Bright, Songs and Games for Little
Ones (Jenks).
A Song of Thanks, Holiday Songs (Poulsson).
Thank Thee, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
God Sends His Bright Spring Sun, Song Echoes
from Child Land (Jenks).
LULLABIES
Cradle Song, The Song Primer (Bentley).
The Sandman, Holiday Songs (Poulsson).
The Birdie's Song, Songs and Games for Little Ones
( jenks).
Rock the Baby, Small Songs for Small Singers
(Neidlinger).
Lovely Moon, Song Stories (Hill).
The Moon Boat, Songs of the Child's World (Gay-
nor).
NATURE SONGS
Come, Little Leaves, Songs and Games for Little
Ones (Jenks).
The Song of the Rain, Songs and Games for Little
Ones (Jenks).
Jack Frost, Play Songs (Bentley).
Sunshine, Play Songs (Bentley).
Bobby Redbreast, Play Songs (Bentley).
Waiting to Grow, Song Echoes from Child Land
(Jenks).
Snowdrops and Violets, Song Echoes from Child
Land (Jenks).
Autumn Leaves, Song Echoes from Child Land
(Jenks).
The Blue-Bird, Small Songs for Small Singers
(Neidlinger).
The Bunny, Small Songs for Small Singers (Neid-
linger).
Tiddlely Winks and Tiddlely Wee, Small Songs for
Small Singers (Neidlinger).
Mr. Frog, Small Songs for Small Singers (Neid-
linger).
Mr. Duck and Mr. Turkey, Small Songs for Small
Singers (Neidlinger).
The Snow Man, Small Songs for Small Singers
(Neidlinger).
Jack Frost, The Song Primer (Bentley).
Snow Flakes, Song Stories (Hill).
Fly, Little Birdies, Song Stories (Hill).
The White World, First Year in Music (Hollis
Dann ) .
Snowflakes, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Garden Song, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Daffy-Down-Dilly, First Year in Music (Hollis
Dann).
The Seed Baby, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Buttercups, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Winter Time, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
The Moon and I, First Year in Music (Hollis
Dann).
Dandelion, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Jack Frost, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Feeding Birds, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Flakes of Snow, First Year in Music ( HoUis Dann).
The Robin, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
The Dandelion. First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Daisies, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Barnyard Song. Holiday Songs (Poulsson).
Birds in Autumn, Holiday Songs (Poulsson).
SONGS FOR FESTIV.\LS AND HOLIDAYS
Santa Claus, The Song Primer (Bentley).
Santa Claus, Finger Plays (Poulsson).
The First Christmas, Songs and Games for Little
Ones (Jenks).
Shine Out. Oh Blessed Star, Songs and Games for
Little Ones (Jenks).
Carol, Oh Carol, Songs and Games for Little Ones
(Jenks).
At Easter Time, Songs and Games for Little Ones
(Jenks).
Jolly Santa Claus, First Year in Music (Hollis
Dann).
Old English Carol, First Year in Music (Hollis
Dann).
My Valentine, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Jack o' Lantern, Play Songs (Bentley).
Hallowe'en, Play Songs (Bentley).
When You Send a Valentine, Holiday Songs (Pouls-
son).
Nature's Easter Story, Song Stories (Hill).
MOTHER-GOOSE SONGS
Hickory, Dickory Dock, First Year in Music (Hol-
lis Dann).
Little Bo-Peep. First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Tack and Jill, Play Songs (Bentley).
Sing a Song of Sixpence, Play Songs (Bentley).
Mother-Goose Collection (Ethel Crown inshield).
SONGS OF HUMAN ACTIVITIES
The Blacksmith, Songs of the Child's World (Gay-
nor).
The Shoemaker, Songs of the Child's World (Gay-
nor).
The Blacksmith, Songs and Games for Little Ones
(Jenks).
The Carpenter. Play Songs (Bentley).
The Soldier Song, Play Songs (Bentley).
The Little Cobbler, First Year in Music (Hollis
Dann).
The Cobbler, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
PATRIOTIC SONGS
America.
Forward March, Boys, Play Songs (Bentley).
We March Like Soldiers, Songs of the Child's
World (Poulsson).
Marching Song, Songs of the Child's World (Pouls-
son).
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FINGER-PLAYS
Ball for Baby. Finger-Plays (Poulsson).
Good Mother Hen, Finger-Plays (Poulsson).
Making Bread, Finger-Plays (Poulsson).
Making Butter, Finger-Plays (Poulsson).
The Little Plant, Finger-Plays (Poulsson).
Santa Glaus, Finger-Plays (Poulsson).
Mother's Knives and Forks, Songs of the Child's
World (Gaynor).
MISCELLANEOUS
Mv Old Dan, The Song Primer (Bentley). Teachers'
Book.
The Zoo. The Song Primer (Bentley).
Teddy Bear. The Song Primer (Bentley).
The Clock, The Song Primer (Bentley).
Honk, Honk, The Song Primer (Bentley).
The Train, The Song Primer (Bentley).
The Fiddle, The Song Primer (Bentley).
Once I Got Into a Boat, The Song Primer (Bentley).
The Bells, Play Songs (Alys Bentley).
The Bear, Play Songs (Alys Bentley).
The Kitten and the Bow-wow, Small Songs for
Small Singers (Neidlinger).
The See-Saw, Small Songs for Small Singers (Neid-
linger).
Tick Tock, Small Songs for Small Singers (Neid-
linger).
Doll Song, Holiday Songs (Poulsson).
Hop, Hop, Hop, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Dapple Gray, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
The Two Cuckoos, First Year in Music (Hollis
Dann).
The Apple Man, First Year in Music (Hollis Dann).
Winter Coasting, First Year in Music (Hollis
Dann).
Appreciation and Interpretation of
Music
Children should not only be surrounded by a
musical atmosphere, but they should be helped in
the appreciation and interpretation of music. The
following ways have been found' helpful :
I. Have children interpret music through move-
ment.
"The simpler and more primitive form of mu-
sical expression finds its vent in rhythmical
action."
This rhythmical interpretation of music is also
one of the best means of furthering the physical
development of children, as it exercises the large,
fundamental muscles, which crave exercise at this
period.
The children should listen to the music first
and then, when the selection is played the second
time, be ready to do what the music suggests to
them. In this way they create their own rhythms.
This method has secured very much better re-
sults than the imitation and dictation of steps to
be used with certain selections.
■ The music at first should be very simple and
present marked contrasting rhythmic moods, such
as a slow-moving waltz and a gavotte, or a march
and a polonaise. Later, music requiring finer
discrimination can be used. One piece will often
require very different movements. The minuet
has two distinct themes.
Method I :
(a) Have the children listen to a selection,
such as a gavotte.
(b) Let them do what the music makes them
feel like doing.
(c) Have children notice good movements
used by other little ones. If necessary
show them appropriate movements. See
that the children's ability to interpret
music grows.
(d) Follow the gavotte with a slow waltz
• and see if children change their move-
ments.
3iIethod 2:
(a) Have the children listen to a selection
such as "The Dagger Dance," or "In the
Hall of the Mountain King."
(b) Let them interpret the music through
movements.
(c) Tell them something about the meaning
of the selection and let them interpret
the music again.
Care should be taken that the movements are
really expressive of the music and that they do
not become stereotyped. Pictures showing people
dancing have been found to be helpful as a means
of creating ideas of good movements. Formu-
lated rhythms also furnish a standard for good
movements.
Method I :
(a) Play a selection and have the children
do what the music makes them feel like
doing.
(b) Call them to you and show them a pic-
ture of people dancing, using movements
which would be appropriate for the
music you are using.
(c) Let the children interpret the same
music again.
Method 2:
(a) Show the children a picture of people
dancing. (From the Perry pictures or
a magazine.)
(b) Have them describe the kind of music
the people in the picture must have been
hearing.
(c) Have such music played and see if they
can make as pretty movements.
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31S
Method 3:
(a) Have children look at a picture of peo-
ple dancing.
(b) Have two selections played, one appro-
priate to the movements shown in the
picture, one inappropriate.
(c) Let children see if they can select the
appropriate music.
(rf) Let them interpret this music.
PICTURES THAT COULD BE USED IN
THIS WAY
1. "Dance of the Nymohs," Corot.
2. "Apollo and the Muses."
3. "Ring Around the Rosy," Jessie Willcox Smith.
4. Pictures of Esthetic Dancing, often found in
current magazines.
Method 4 :
(a) Play a skipping, running, tiptoe, or
tramping theme, and let children inter-
pret it.
(&) Show the children what movement is
adapted to this music and how it should
he done.
(c) Use the same music for this movement
day after day, working definitely for the
development in the quality and not
variety of movement.
Method 5:
(a) Have the children interpret the music
that is being played.
(b) If good movements do not result, play
one of the formulated rhythms described
in Method 4, which calls for the same
quality of action and have children re-
spond to this.
(f) Let children reinterpret the music and
see if better movements result.
RECORDS FOR RHYTHMS
("C" indicates Columbia Records)
Le Cygne 64046
Dancing Song 17719
Am Springbriinnen 70031
Gavotte 17917
Gavotte 74164
Marche Romaine 17186
Spring Song 16516
Dances from "Henry VIII" 35530
Traumerei 64197
Minuet 17917
Spinning Song 35195
Capricietto 64204
In the Hall of the Mountain 'King, Grieg. . .A5807C
Children's Toy March, Currie A1295C
Marche Militaire, Schubert A5302C
Humoresque 74180
William Tell Overture 35120 and 35121
K.N. — 22
Dagger Dance 70049
Ride of the Valkyries 35369
The Butterfly, Grieg 60048
Scarf Dance 35022
Gavotte 74164
Minuet Waltz 64076
2. Ask Questions that will Stimulate Interest in
the Music.
Method I :
Have children listen to several pieces and
then ask them which they like best and why.
Children also enjoy knowing the composer's
name and being able to identify his picture.
POSSIBLE SELECTIONS
Dance of the Fairies 16048
Voice of the Woods 74395
The Brooklet 17532
Marche Militaire 35493
Method 2:
Have children listen to the music and tell
you what they hear. A hint may be given as
to what will be heard.
POSSIBLE SELECTIONS
Song of a Nightingale 64161
Song of a Nightingale 4S057
Song of a Thrush 45057
Spring Voices 16835
The Mocking Bird 16969
Arrival of the Robins 16094
Song of a Sprosser 45058
Canary and Thrush Duct 45058
Dance of the Song Birds 17521
Birds of the Forest 16835
Hunt in the Black Forest 35324
Santa Claus Patrol A2374C
Santa Claus Workshop A919C
In the Clock Store 35324
Babes in Toyland 55054
Forge in the Forest 17231
Children's Symphony A129S
Children's Toy March A129S
Method 3:
Tell the children that two composers have
written music suggested by the same theme
and have them decide which selection they
like the better. Sometimes tell the children
what the theme is about; sometimes have
them tell you what they think it is.
POSSIBLE SELECTIONS
Spring. Grieg 5844C
Spring, Mendelssohn 6020C
The Butterfly, Chopin 64706
The Butterfly. Grieg 35448
The Cradle Song, Godard 35155
The Cradle Song, Hausen 17254
The Morning, Peer Gvnt Suite, Grieg 35597
At Dawn, William Tefl Overture, Rossini . . . A5765C
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3. Show Pictures that Suggest the Same Mood Spring "I
as the Music. Dance of the Nymphs [ 16516, 60046, 17216
Show two or three pictures full of action but t''°in° Son""" ^'"'"
of very different type, and have children choose Spirit of 76 ) A';302C
appropriate music for each ; later the pictures need Marche Militaire )
not present such marked contrast in moods and
more than two can be used at a time. 4- Use Poems and Nursery Rhymes to Aid in
,, , , the Interpretation of Music.
Method I : ' '
(a) Show two pictures, such as "Rock-a-by- Method i:
Baby," by Jessie Willcox Smith; and (<») Tell two or three nursery rhymes or
"Prince Balthazar," by Velasquez; "A poems such as, "Hickory, Dickory Dock,"
Gust of Wind," by Corot; and "The a"d "Bye, Baby Bunting."
Avenue of Trees," by Corot. (*) Play music fitting the mood of one of
(b) Have the children tell you what they see "^^ rhymes.
in the pictures ^'■^ Have children decide which rhyme the
(c) Have them listen while music appro- music fits,
priate for each picture is played. Method 2:
(d) Have one of the selections played again (a) Tell two nursery rhymes or poems,
and have the chddren tell you which pic- (^,) pjay music fitting the mood of one.
ture IS 'being interpreted. (V) Have children decide which poem the
Method 2: music interprets.
(a) Show two pictures as in Method I. M tl 1 5 •
{h) Have the children imitate the activity
represented in each picture. (°) "^'^'^ °"« nursery rhyme or poem,
(c) Have them listen while music appropri- ^^^ ^'^^ ^^^° selections, one appropriate and
ate for each picture is played. , , °"^ inappropriate. ^ _
,,,, TT r ii 1 .• ,1 • l"^) Let children select appropriate music for
{a) Have one or the selections played again th
and have the children represent the pic-
ture that is being interpreted.
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Method 3:
(a) Show a picture to the children, such as Jlif'^^ Humming-Top ) I445O
•'AC .. c \\j- 1 » u /^ ^ I he Top, Gillette \
A Gu.st of Wind, by Corot. Washington Post March A5^3SC
{b) Tell them the story that the picture
seems to tell you. 5- Have Children Recognize the Tones of Dif-
(c) Tell them that music tells you stories fercnt Instruments.
also and that you are going to play two At first use a record where a single instrument
selections, one of which tells you the P'ays, such as in "Traumerei," while children lis-
same story as this picture and the other ten to the music. The selection may be an old
a very different story. favorite. It may be well to let them interpret the
(d) Play two selections, such as "The rnusic through some medium, then tell them that
Storm," and "The Butterflv." ^ ^''°''" '^ making this beautiful music. Play
(£•) Have them decide which selection tells \&^'". ^"^ ^f ^^^ children listen to the sound of
the same story as the picture. the violin. Use other records in which the violin
IS played and see if children recognize the instru-
POSSIBLE SELECTIONS AND *"<^"'- Use this same method with other instru-
APPROPRIATE PICTURES ments.
Later use a record in which two or more in-
A Hunting Scene ) 35324 struments are played and see if children can
A Hunt m the HIack Forest \ ., .., ., iL, . ,. „ , ,, ■ ,
Bye-Baby-Bye, Jessie Willcox Smith ) 35495 'dentify them. The violin, flute, cello, piano and
Moonlight Sonata j " xylophone should all be familiar to the children.
Pictures of Spring ) \6?,iS Sometimes pictures of instruments, shown
Spring Voices j after a selection in which they have been plaved,
A (just 01 Wind, Corot ( ^^^'>(\ -n 1 1 • ^i •.■ 1 ^^ j-o- ■'
The Storm ( •' P '" *^ recognition of the different tones
The Swan I 64046 produced by various instruments. The Victor
The Swan J ' Company have published large charts in color,
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317
picturing the different instruments,
prove most helpful.
RECORDS THAT COULD BE USED TO
IDENTIFY INSTRUMENTS
The Bee (X'iolin) 64076
Gavotte (\'iolin) 64140
Traumerei (Violin) 64197
At the Brook (Violin) 17600
Gavotte (Violin) 74164
Minuet Waltz (Violin) 64076
Capricietto (Violin) 64204
Distant Voices (Flute) 60029
\\'ind Among the Trees (Flute) 70026
Andalouse (Flute with piano ace.) 60027
Sing. Sweet Bird (Violin, Flute) 16242
Am Springbriinnen (Harp) 70031
Priere (Harp) 7(X)27
Concerto for Harp and Flute 70029
Cradle Song ('Cello) 17254
Spring Song ('Cello) 16516
Berceuse from "Jocelyn" ('Cello) 35155
Evening Chimes (X'iolin, 'Cello, Harp with
Bells) 18018
Humoresque (Violin, 'Cello, Harp) 17454
The Mocking Bird (Xylophone) 16969
Gretchen's Dream Waltz (Xylophone) 17050
William Tell Fantasie (Xylophone) 17120
Gavotte ( Bells and Xvlophone) 17917
Bolero in D Major (Piano) 18396
Minuet (Piano) 16474
Harmonious Blacksmith (Piano) 71041
At the Brook (Violin, 'Cello. Piano) 17600
Christmas Bells (Violin and Harp) 919C
Instruments of the Orchestra 35236
6. Have the Children Use Siinl>le Musical In-
struments to Accompany the Piano-Sclectiois or
the Records.
Blocks of wood covered with sandpaper, drums,
and tambourines (to be beaten) can be used with
forJe (loud) music: triangles, flageolets, hum-
mers, bells, tuberphones, and tambourines (to be
shaken) for the pianissimo (soft) music.
The children should have a chance to experi-
ment with these instrtnnents and find what kind
of music can be made with them. Then ask them
with what kind of music they think they should
use the different instruments.
At first use music with which only one type of
instruments, the loud or the lighter, should be
played. Later use music with marked contrasting
movements, with which, at the appropriate time,
both types of instruments can be played. After
the children have gained considerable ability,
play selections which do not present such marked
contrasts and call also for the modulation of the
different instruments used.
Method i :
I. Play the selection, or the portion of it to
be used, to the children, having them
These would listen to find out what instruments should
be used to accompany this music.
2. Have them tell you their decision.
3. Let them use the instruments with the se-
lection.
4. L^se this same selection many times so that
the children may become able to keep
perfect time with the music.
Method 2:
1. Play a selection with which both types of
instruments should be used at different
times, while the children listen to see
when the different types of instruments
should be played.
2. Play the selection again and let the chil-
dren see if they can play their instru-
ments at the right time.
3. Practice this same selection often until the
children attain a fair degree of skill in
the control of the instruments and in
ability to play them at the proper time.
Method 3 : This method should not be attempted
until the children have gained considerable skill
in music.
1. Develop a selection as in Method i.
2. Play the selection and let the children
listen and see if the music is equally
loud or soft throughout the piece.
3. Let them accompany the selection with
the appropriate instruments, trying to
modulate the tones of their instruments
to correspond to the music.
SELECTIONS TO BE USED WITH LOUD
INSTRUMENTS
March from "Tannhauser."
Marche Militaire (Schubert).
Soldiers' Chorus (Gounod).
.'Xnvil Chorus, "II Trovatore" (Verdi).
Militarv March (Gounod), First Year in Music
(Hollis Dann).
Soldiers' March (Schumann), First Year in Music
(Hollis Dann).
Marche Militaire, Music for the Child World
(Hofer).
Melody in F (Rubinstein).
Carmen, "Toreador Song."
March from "Faust" (Gounod).
The Orgy, "Les Huguenots."
SELECTIONS FOR THE LIGHTER INSTRU-
MENTS
Carmen :
Melody in F (Rubinstein).
Heart Bowed Down. "Bohemian Girl."
Farewell. Summer, "Martha."
Grande Valse de Concert (Mattel).
Rondo (Mozart).
Sonata (Moszkowski).
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SELECTIONS FOR BOTH TYPES OF IN-
STRUMENTS
II Trovatore :
Melody of Love* (Engelman).
Hand in Hand, Arnold's Collection of Rhythms.
Cadets' March. Arnold's Collection of Rhythms.
Review March, Arnold's Collection of Rhythms.
Air du Roi Louis XHI, Music for the Child World
(Hofer).
In the Gypsy Camp, Family Music Book (Behr).
All of the suggestions given in this article can
be used by a mother with one or more children,
and by the teacher with a larger group. No at-
tempt has been made to teach the technique of
music for the reasons previously given. The
author does believe, however, that the best and
safest foundation for later technical training has
been laid.
Music is one of the many bonds that should
unite a mother and her children. It can be used
by the mother as one of the best means of dis-
pelling and creating moods. A nervous child
can be quieted, an angry child soothed, and an
unhappy child made joyous by the right kind of
music.
The attention of the educational world is being
called to the need of instilling in children a love
for the right kind of music. Few people can
create music, but nearly all now have the oppor-
tunity to listen to and enjoy the masterpieces of
music. To be able to listen and enjoy these mas-
terpieces is more necessary in the education of
the youth of our land than the ability to read
foreign languages. It will prove one of the
greatest safeguards to the youth in time of temp-
tation. It will be the means of keeping the
young at home in the evening or attending the
right kind of entertainments. Dr. Woodrow
Wilson says, "The man who disparages music as
a luxury and non-essential is doing the nation an
injury. Music now, more than ever before, is a
present national need."
Mothers should remem'ber that this musical
education should be begun long before the child
enters school. Teachers should not be so inter-
ested in teaching the three R's that the time for
music is shortened. Dr. P. P. Claxton, United
States Commissioner of Education, says: "Sooner
or later we shall not only recognize the cultural
value of music, we shall also begin to under-
stand that after the beginning of reading, writing,
aritlimetic and geometry, music has greater prac-
tical value than any other subject."
"The supreme mission of mechanical music is its direct
educational mission. If people can only hear enough good
music when they are young, without having it forcibly fed to
them, they are almost sure to care for it when they come to
years of discretion."— Robert Haven Schauffler.
"1 want liim to know from his earliest years something
about the development of music and the God-given geniuses
who have flooded our world with glorious melodies and
helped make life beautiful. I want him to love in his heart
the composer whose composition he may be studying, be-
cause I feel sure he will understand and play it so much
better. I also encourage and show my appreciation of his
childish efforts by taking him to musical treats. I want liim
to feel and know what a truly wonderful and beautiful art
music is." — Therese Auerbach.
CHILDREN AND MUSIC
SOME PLAY-DEVICES IN BEGINNING MUSIC*
MRS. ELIZABETH HUBBARD BONSALL
Like most mothers. Mrs. Clark wanted her daugh-
ter Helen to be "musical" ; that is, to appreciate
music and to be able to play the piano or some
otiier instrument for the pleasure it would give
herself and others. And so when Helen was
eleven years old she began to study music and
her mother thought she was starting early. But
when Helen returned from school with lessons
to do at home, Mrs. Clark had difficulty in keep-
ing her indoors any longer to practice at the
piano. Helen would keep putting off her prac-
ticing time, and frequently fifteen or twenty min-
utes were wasted in arguing with her mother
about it. The early lessons in music, with so
many exercises, were dull and uninteresting, when
Helen wanted pretty pieces to play; so after
struggling along for a year or two, the music-
lessons were given up. Now, at nineteen, Helen
is blaming her mother because she did not make
her practice. And Helen is only one of hundreds.
Mrs. Clark thought that she was giving Helen
an early start at eleven years, but if she had
started much earlier she would not have had
some of the problems which confronted her later.
At five years, when Helen was beginning to count
and to learn her letters, her mother could have
taught her a great deal by kindergarten methods,
by spending a few minutes regularly every day,
and Helen would have learned, v.ithout realizing
it, much of the elementary work so tiresome when
she was older. Then at seven or eight years,
when she really started to study music, she would
have been sufficiently far advanced so that the
lessons would have been interesting, and there
would have been no arguments or tears in order
to secure the time for practicing.
It is really astonishing how much can be learned
by little games and devices. Nearly all the mu-
sical terms can be taught, the keyboard under-
stood, the ear trained to observe differences in
rhythm, pitch and expression; the fingers con-
trolled to a certain extent and considerable prog-
ress can be made with reading music written in
large type so that there can be no strain on the
eyes. And incidentally if a mother has had some
ability to play herself, in the past, it gives her a
fine opportunity to work up her own music at
the same time that she is taking care of her
children. Practically all of the following sug-
gestions may be used with only one child, the
mother and child doing the things together.
However, they can be made a bit more inter-
esting if three or four children can be learning
together.
Rhythm
Rhythm seems to be the most fundamental ele-
ment with which to start. Long before five years
of age, most children have gathered some idea of
it from nursery rhymes, such as "Seesaw, Mar-
jorie Daw," so that the idea is not entirely new.
Place the children in a line and march very
slowly, keeping in step and counting "one, two;
one, two," with a decided accent on the one.
The arms can be made to help in keeping time
by clapping the hands together when saying "one"
and placing them down at the sides when saying
"two." After this is learned perfectly, march
faster and then slower, seeing if the children
themselves can detect the change of rhythm.
Finally play a simple piece on the piano, with two
beats to the measure, and let the children find
the rhythm themselves. When the idea of two
beats seems to be grasped, play three and then
four beats to the measure, the children listening
themselves for the rhythm. As they develop, the
children will love simple rhythmic dances like those
shown on page 320.
The first one of Chopin's Preludes, to which a
minuet step can easily be danced. Let the chil-
dren stand in couples, side by side, with the in-
side hands clasped and raised high. Starting with
the inside foot, take three slow steps forward, and
then make a deep curtesy, facing slightly away
from each other. Then starting with the outside
foot, take three steps, curtesying again, facing
slightly toward each other. Repeat to the end.
Polka Step. Dance singly, or with couples fac-
ing each other. Take a sliding step to the right,
with right foot, and bring up the left foot beside
it. Repeat. Then stamp three times, right foot,
left, right. Then slide with the left foot first,
* Appreciation and love of music should come first — real saturation. Next, an itrgent desire by the child to play.
This may, of course, be fostered try the mother. Then, when the background work is done, Mrs. Bonsall's advice as to
how to teach mechanics is in place; but not before, unless we want to make children hate music later. — M. S. L.
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SIMPLE RHYTHMIC DANCES
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beginning with the left foot. Repeat to the end.
The Keyboard
Then start in with the keyboard. Cut out eight
little squares and write a C on each. Place the
first one on middle C and let the children place
the rest on the other positions of C. Then learn
the position of G and after that the other notes
of the scale. We learned them in this order :
E, F, D, A, and B, making sure that the previous
ones were mastered before starting in with any
new ones. After two letters are learned, shuffle
the squares and let the children draw them,
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placing them on the correct note. In a surpris-
ingly short time every note of the scale of C is
learned.
Time-Value of Notes
We have some nice little games for learning
the time-value of notes. As all children love to
crayon I let them go over the notes written on
cards, outlining in bright colors the whole and
half-notes, and filling in solid the quarter- and
eighth-notes. Then we cut them out, each note
in a small square, shuffling them up and taking
turns in drawing them and placing them in piles
in front of us. If I drew a quarter-note from
the pile and someone else had a quarter-note, I
could take his away, and the next person who
drew a quarter-note could take both of mine away
from me. After all the notes are drawn, we count
to see who has the most piles.
After the names of the notes are learned in
this way. we match them up according to time-
value. For example, I hold up a whole note, and
each child draws a note from the pile and must
tell what other note or notes are needed to make
up the value of the whole note. A child having
a half-note would need another half or two quar-
ters. I have written a series of cards showing
the values of the notes as follows:
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We refer to this series in matching up the notes.
On large cards I have written another series of
notes which we learn, counting and tapping them
on the table, and finally the children can play
them on the piano as a special reward for having
learned them. The following series is one which
we have used :
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Music-Symbols
I have found sewing-cards an attractive way
of teaching many of the music-symbols. We
started in with the Sharp. On a stiff piece of
cardboard I drew the figure and punched the holes
in it. While the children were sewing upon it
with bright worsted I told them that a Sharp
made a note go up just a little bit higher and
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when they finished we played on the keyboard the
sharps of all the notes. I then made more cards,
writing Ct, Dt, etc., upon them and we placed
them with our other series of cards containing
the plain letters. Then we learned the Flat and
Natural, making cards for them. And a little
later we made the G clef and five-lined staff. The
values of the notes can also be learned very
readily by the children by making sewing cards
for them also. Sewing the cards as well as
crayoning them furnishes a double means for
learning the time-values.
The Staff
The best way I have found of becoming fa-
miliar with the staff is by a music pegboard. I
bought a small-sized square pegboard with ten
rows of holes each way and painted narrow lines
across every other row of holes, making the staff.
Then we used little colored pegs with rounded
heads to represent the notes, which could be
placed either on the lines or spaces. A person
at all skillful with tools could make a pegboard,
using a piece of wood about seven inches square
and boring the rows of holes with red-hot wire.
The pegs could be made from the good ends of
used matches cut three-quarters of an inch long,
and round heads may be formed by dipping one
end several times in paraffin.
Learning the names of the lines and spaces
is the first step. We say the names of the lines
in unison : E-G-B-D-F. I have these letters
written on little cards and each child takes one
and in turn places the peg upon the staff in the
place indicated by the letter drawn. If it is put
in the wrong place, the child misses his point;
and after each child has had several turns, we
count up to see who has won. Then we learn the
spaces in the same way.
The next step is the game of putting the peg
on the board and finding the corresponding note
on the piano. One child puts the peg anywhere
he wishes on the board, the one next to him must
play that note on the piano. Then the next child
places the peg and the child following plays the
note on the piano.
After the positions of the notes are learned,
more difficult things can be attempted. Two notes
may be placed on the pegboard first like this,
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themselves.
A number of principles of Harmony can be
taught in a simple fashion. If a child can count
he will love to figure out that
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the children can count these intervals perfectly
with the pegs, they may be played on the piano.
Then, by using three pegs, it is easy to show
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notes played above each other in a line, while
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chord are placed one after the other. In teach-
ing these things, let the children themselves fre-
quently place the pegs, telling what they have
made, or correcting one another.
Training the Fingers
It is the actual playing at the keyboard that
makes children feel that they are really studying
music ; and to encourage them, we begin with
a simple duet. I place the child's hands on the
keyboard, with the thumb on C. and the other
fingers resting lightly, each on the note following.
Then I ask the child to play the five notes firmly,
and with the right fingers, one after the other.
It seems like a simple thing to do, but what strug-
gles the little ones have to move the proper
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fingers ! It seems as if all the fingers must move,
or none. The earnest expression on their faces
shows their determination, and finally with what
pride they conquer ! Then the left hand should
be played, and at last both together. Teach the
child to count four for each note, and harmonize
a base like the following:
hands going in opposite directions. Unless a child
himself wants to, I think he is apt to become con-
fused if he tries to play both hands together in
the same direction. The scales of G, D, E, and A
are all within the grasp of a very young child,
if each is thoroughly learned before going on with
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eager for more. Variations can be made by
playing it in the key of G, and A minor.*
When the little fingers gain ability to move
separately, some simple exercises can be given
to develop control like the following:
These scales and exercises are splendid for
teaching control of the finger muscles, -but we
parents like to feel that our children are getting
in touch with -beautiful music. It is foolish to
think that children of five -should -be kept to such
elementary tunes as "Mary had a Little Lamb,"
How school children detest such exercises, for
they seem so dull, but the little folks think that
they are 'beautiful, and are delighted when they
can play 'them. And scales — I remember how I
used to dislike to play them — how I would hurry
on to my pieces, but how my teacher kept me
working at them till I could finger them correctly.
But I have known my little daughter of five, of
her own accord, to work for twenty minutes on
a new scale, trying to get the fingering so that
it would be perfect. When she made a mistake,
instead of giving up in discouragement, back she
would go to the beginning and start all over again.
We began with the scale of C, playing the first
three notes with consecutive fingers, then putting
the thumb under on F and playing four more
notes, placing the thumb under on C again, so
beginning another octave. Then we played the
left hand, starting with the thumb on C and going
and other ^fother Goose melodies. These may
have their place with children of two and three,
but at five years there are many lovely themes
of the great composers which they can easily learn
to play and which they will love more and more
as they grow older. Write .these themes on large
sheets, with the staff lines at least half an inch
apart.
One of the easiest of these themes is the first
two measures of Beethoven's "Fifth Symphony."
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some people think that it represents a knock at
the door, and you can tap the rhythm with your
knutkles on the table.
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learned separately, we played them together, the
* There are many simple duets for teacher and pupil, such
as the book by Low: "Teacher and Pupil," Bk. I.
one of the last that he ever wrote, and as he was
deaf at the time, he never heard it himself.
Another favorite theme is the "Westminster
Chimes." Each phrase represents a quarter
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This lively little phrase by Haydn is full of
fun. It is part of his "Surprise Symphony,"
which he played one time very softly and then
suddenly came a crash to awaken everyone who
had gone to sleep during the performance.
Here is a little phrase from a Musette of
Bach's. The lower hand doesn't change, for it
represents a piece played upon a bagpipe and the
lower notes are held.
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This phrase is from Wagner's opera "Parsi-
fal" and represents the ringing of the church
bells of Montsalvat. Nearly every mother must
know of many similar phrases.
Ear-Training
Some children are born with a much better
"ear" for music than others, but any normal child
can be trained if taken in time. Difference in
pitch is the first thing with which to work. Let
the children close their eyes or turn their backs,
then you play two notes on the piano more than
an octave apart and ask which is higher. Then
bring the notes nearer together and finally a
semitone apart.
Play the scale of C several times to impress it;
then play C followed by a note a little above it
and see if the children can tell what note it is.
Let the children hum notes and try to find them
on the piano.
Then play a simple series and see if the chil-
dren can plaj' it.
The ear-training work that the children will
like the best, and a part which is sadly neglected
by most music teachers, is to have the children
recognize the masterpieces of music. Mothers
have a wonderful opportunity for self-improve-
ment by this means. I have small mounted pic-
tures of nearly all the famous composers, and
when a piece is played, the children select the
writer's picture and place it upon the piano. It
is also an aid in impressing the music if the chil-
dren can act out the spirit of the piece.
For example, if I play Chopin's "Funeral
March," after the children have placed the right
picture on the piano, they place little veils over
their heads and walk around very slowly with
bowed heads. If you could catch a glimpse of
their faces you would see they were smiling, but
their manner is most serious.
A Chopin waltz makes them skip around with
glee, while with Grieg's "Cradle Song" they rock
their dolls to sleep. At the first note of Gounod's
"Soldier's Chorus" they take flags and march
in a most military manner; while with Schu-
mann's "Traumerei." they lean back in their
chairs and fall asleep. Chopin's "Butterfly
Etude" brings them to their feet, fluttering around
and waving their arms to represent wings, while
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Mendelssohn's "Spring Song" sends them skip-
ping to pick flowers.
Study of Musical Instruments
Every musician should be familiar with our
common musical instruments, such as are used
in the symphony orchestras, but there are very
few who are. And right here the paint-brush
can teach a great deal. Catalogs of musical in-
struments are easily obtainable, and the pictures
can be cut out and colored. Also, most large dic-
tionaries contain pictures of instruments, the out-
lines of which can be copied easily or traced,
and the children can fill them in with colors.
While they are painting, you can speak of the
three different ways in which music is made. The
oldest instruments probably were struck, like our
drums, bells, and cymbals, and are called per-
cussion instruments. Then there are the wind
instruments, which are blown, like the bugle, flute,
cornet, bagpipe, and even whistles. And finally
ing children are happier themselves and bring
more happiness to others than ones who do not
know any songs. And here, as elsewhere, it is
foolish to think that children should be kept to
nursery rhymes with insipid tunes. There are
many lieautiful songs for children written by the
very best writers. Often motions can be used
with them which makes them doubly attractive.
Our little ''good-morning" song is written by
Haydn, and Tennyson's "Little Flower in t'he
Crannied Wall," which we often sing, is set to a
theme from Beethoven's "Fifth Symphony."
Both of these songs are taken from a valuable
collection of famous songs for children by Kitty
Cheatham, called "A Nursery Garland."
Indian songs and other folk-songs make a very
strong appeal to children ; there are several rep-
resenting scenes in the life of the Indians by
Neidlinger which are particularly attractive to
children. One portrays a little Indian girl sit-
ting by a wigwam grinding corn and humming
a weird little Indian tune, as follows :
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comc the string instruments, played by vibrating
tight strings of different lengths, such as the vio-
lin, harp, and guitar. It is surprising how easily
children grasp the difference when it is made so
plain, and you can play a little joke on them
by asking what kind of an instrument the piano
is. Usually they will answer "struck" or "per-
cussion." But then take off the front of the
piano, and when they see the strings inside, of
their own accord they will change their opinions.
I let them play a few notes and see how the little
hammers cause the strings to vibrate. We have
a toy piano, and I let them compare the two
instruments and see that the toy piano has no
strings. As the sounds come directly from strik-
ing the plates, it is really a percussion instrument.
Singing
Though I have not said much about singing so
far, it forms a most important part of a child's
life as well as of his musical education. Sing-
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Another, by the same composer, is the song of
the Camp-fire Girls and suggests the flickering
of the flames.
In singing songs the children enjoy taking turns
being the conductor and leading the rest. We
have a little stick for a baton, and all the chil-
dren watch carefully as our conductor stands on
a box for a platform and beats two, three, or four
counts to the measure. It is fine training both for
the leader and the followers and gives the chil-
dren some idea of the problems of the orchestra.
Still more advanced along this line is Haydn's
"Toy Symphony," written for children with a
piano accompaniment : we use the minuet sec-
tion and I divide the children into two groups,
the owls and the cuckoos. The owls say who-o-oo
with a rising inflection and the cuckoos make the
conventional sound. Then I play the piano,
nodding to each group when its turn comes. The
children soon learn to watch very intently for
the signal.
"Children should not be asked to sing unless they feel.
With each vital selection, therefore, should go the story, if
it have one, and those songs that have stories should be
always preferred." — G. Stanley Hall.
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APPENDIX
After the children have learned the letter-
names of the notes they will be helped in ra])id i ijve in
reading and will much enjoy these playful exer-
cises of spelling words out on the staff. These And
are taken by permi*ision from the Introductory
Grade of "The University Course in Music,"
published by the University Society. They were
written by Edith Sanford Tillotson.
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- Edith Sanford TdlutMi
BIRTHDAY PRESENTS
Birthday Fairy, bring to me.
Presents fine as fine can
"V' J I I kitten I can
birdie in a
for all my school-books, too,
with blue,
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Copyright, 1920, by the National Academy of Music, New York
HOW TO TELL STORIES
BY
MARY L. READ
For the person who "can not tell a story," as for
the person who "can not swim," there is one es-
sential : forget yourself and plunge in. and prac-
tice until you have gained confidence.
1. Tell something in which you and the chil-
dren are interested, and keep at it repeatedly until
you feel at ease.
2. Recall stories that interested you at that age.
3. Tell stories the children themselves ask for,
refreshing your memory by reading up a standard
version, or by asking the children to tell it to you.
4. Study Mother Goose, .^sop, and Bible stories
as models of the best story-telling.
5. Live the story as you tell it — see it as pic-
tured in your own mind. Tell it so vividly that
the children can play it out afterward.
6. Use direct speech in telling conversation.
7. Make your picture vivid by a few descriptive
words, especially of colors and sounds ; increase
your vocabulary of adjectives.
8. Beware of making it too long, especially for
very little people.
9. Use perhaps a very few natural gestures, but
do not try to act it out. Children have not the
mental ability to hear narrative and see action
at the same time.
10. Children love the same story repeated, and
they want it told the same way, in order to see
the same pictures; therefore, have your stoi'y
clear in your mind the first time you tell it.
11. If you are telling a classic or standard
story, respect it as it is, just as honestly as you
would an historic or scientific fact. If you do
not wish to tell it that way, don't tell it at all, and
don't tinker it.
12. Do not try to memorize a story, except
possibly the conversations.
13. If a story is clearly told, the child will usu-
ally absorb and discern the ethical principle in-
volved, without any necessity on your part to
obtrusively "point the moral." Sometimes a child
will draw an erroneous or unexpected inference
because his judgment is yet immature or his ethi-
cal experience is elementary or pe;.rverted. Un-
der such a condition, try to tell another story
that will concretely clear his thought.
THE SELECTION OF STORIES FOR KINDERGARTEN
CHILDREN
BY
ANNIE E. MOORE
"O talcs of ogre, knight, and elf!
You make a rainboit.' on our shelf.
Wide store of mirth and magic arts.
You light the sunshine in our hearts!
They are the key to ivi::ard wiles.
The guide-books to enchanted isles.
The grammars Zi'hcnce we understand
The tongue that's talked in Fairyland;
The sum of our inheritance
Of all the wondrous zvorld's romance."
■ — St. John Lucas.
We have available very few records regarding
the particular stories which seem suited to chil-
dren of different ages. Tradition and child-study
both assert with emphasis that children of a cer-
tain age love fairy stories, but we are helped only
slightly by this well-established fact. The ques-
tions of quantity and quality have still to be de-
cided. Just which fairy stories and which ver-
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327
sions of them shall we use? Choice has largely
depended either on tradition or on the individual
likes and dislikes of the mother or teacher.
There is a certain common stock of stories of
which American children are in possession, and an
examination of the titles of this list would show
that they are among the best of the popular folk-
tales. These are the old stories which satisfied
the imagination and fed the spirit of the human
race in its infancy and which are suited to the
young of all races and all times.
A long process of natural selection has been
going on by which the coarse and brutal have
largely been eliminated and those embodying uni-
versal truth and appealing to modern standards
have survived. In the repeated telling and re-
telling these old tales have also been polished in
form so that from the standpoint of perfection
of finish they are well-nigh impossible to imitate.
"Cinderella," "Sleeping-Beauty," "One-eye. Two-
eyes, Three-eyes," "Snow-white and Rose-red"
fulfill perfectly all the requirements of the good
short story.
One principle, such as the ethical value, must
not be allowed to assert itself over all the others,
such as pure enjoyment, cultivation of taste, re-
finement of diction, training of imagination, and
developing power in thinking.
Don't Select Wholly for the "Moral"
The exclusive use of stories having a clear
moral lesson is sure to result in a very narrow
selection and the elimination of much that is of
positive value, or the very questionable practice
of making over and doctoring in accordance with
a certain prescription until all the original beauty
and virility of the story are lost. There is evi-
dence that many kindergartners are dominated
almost exclusively by the purpose of making the
story the vehicle of a moral lesson. For what
other reason would one think of selecting out of
the great body of folk-tales such stories as "Faith-
ful John," or "East o' the Sun and West o' the
Moon" ? They are long and complex, contain
many objectionable features, and are anything
but childlike in their main current of thought.
It would be easy to mention twenty folk-tales
far superior in every way for children except for
the lesson which these are thought to convey.
It is possible to be too exacting regarding liter-
ary beauty and finish. An over-refinement here
may cause one to reject altogether certain types
of stories which, while not measuring up to the
standard of the classic, still appeal to children
and serve to suggest desirable lines of thought
and action. Many realistic stories and bits of
history and biography come in this class, since
we can rarely find such m.aterial in very finished
or perfect form. Here the art ideal must be
partially set aside in favor of something which
is for the time of paramount importance.
Don't Choose Just Because They Are
Seasonal
The seasonal influence often tends to narrow
and circumscribe the choice of stories in the
kindergarten and to set a false valuation upon
many that we use. Take a complete collection
of Hans Andersen's fairy-stories and search for
those best suited to little children. Would any-
one think of selecting "The Little Match Girl"
for kindergarten or first grade were it not for
the fact that it is a Christmas story? I am in-
clined to think that "Persephone" from among the
myths is chosen chiefly for its seasonal signifi-
cance, since its theme is not particularly well fitted
to little children. The use of poor, homemade
stories is accounted for in the same way.
Information Not the Chief Value
Information is not a legitimate element in story
any more than in poetry. Nature fairy-stories are
as much a "fraud on the fairies" as the abuse to
which Dickens referred, that of turning the old
tales into temperance tracts. Nature's phenomena
and processes are quite as marvelous as any fairy-
tale and will, if properly presented, prove quite as
interesting to children, but these wonders can not
be revealed by talking about them or by weaving
fanciful tales about natural events.
There is a truth, deeper than scientific fact and
more significant in the lives of children, contained
in such a story of animal life as that of the squir-
rel mother and the elf, which forms a chapter in
Selma Lagerlof's "The Wonderful Adventures of
Nils." And does not Kipling, in his whimsical
and altogether delightful way. answer to the
entire satisfaction of young minds some of the
whys and wherefores that beset them?
In the class of short, realistic stories for little
children, few writers of real power have made any
contribution. At first this fact seems unaccount-
able when one. considers that writers of ability
have not deemed it beneath them to collect, edit,
and revise folk-material for little children, and
that not a few writers of genius have produced
delightful fai^y stories, fairy plays, and fanciful
tales. In the matter of fairy plays, witness the
noteworthy list of comparatively recent produc-
tions : "Peter Pan," "The Bluebird," "The Good
Little Devil," "Snow-White," "Racketty-Packetty
House." Probably adult mind and child mind
are much more nearly on a plane in the realm of
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fancy, while in the realm of real, everyday child-
life with its small problems and events it is almost
impossible for a grown-up to get down close
enough to see from the child's standpoint. Cer-
tain it is that there is a sad lack of stories of the
realistic type having any claim to literary merit.
It seems very important that teachers should
have a wide range of stories from which to select.
In the use of stories much depends on one's own
taste and temperament, and better results are
obtained where the individual has a large degree
of freedom in the matter of choice.
FIFTY BEST KINDERGARTEN AND PRIMARY STORIES
This list was compiled by the Literature Committee of the International
Kindergarten Union. Forty-four of the secular stories are found in the
volumes of the Bovs and Girls Bookshelf, and the stories from the Bible
are in the companion volume of Bible Stories and Character Building.
KINDERGARTEN STORIES
The Cat and the Mouse.
Henny Penny.
The Elves and the Shoemaker.
The Fox and the Little Red Hen.
The Goats in the Rye Field.
Little Black Sambo'
The Little Red Hen and the Grain of Wheat.
Oeyvind and Marit.
The Old Woman and Her Pig.
Gingerbread Boy.
Scrapefoot.
Three Billy Goats Gruff.
The Three Pigs.
Thumbelina.
Travels of a Box.
Wee Robin's Christmas Song.
Stories from the Bible
Birth of Christ.
Boy Samuel.
Moses in Bulrushes.
STORIES FOR FIRST GR.\DE
Brementovvn Musicians.
Cinderella.
Doll in the Grass.
Fisherman and His Wife.
The Fire-bringer.
Fulfilled.
The Hare and the Hedgehog.
Hashnu, the Stone Cutter.
The Lad Who Went to the North Wind.
The Sheep and Pig Who Set Up Housekeeping.
The Straw Ox.
Taper Tom.
Town Rat and Country Rat.
The Wonderful Iron Pot.
Viggo and Beate.
The Doll Under tlie Briar Rosebush.
The Floating Island.
Stories from the Bible
Birth of Christ.
Daniel in the Lion's Den.
David and Goliath.
STORIES FOR SECOND GR.A.DE
Boots and His Brothers.
Sleeping Beauty.
Hansel and Gretel.
The Flying Ship.
The Jackal and the Camel.
King Midas.
Line of Golden Light.
Princess on the Glass Hill.
Saint Christopher.
Scar-face.
Tar Baby.
The Tiger, the Brahman, and the Jackal.
■Viggo and Beate.
Allarni.
The Black Pond.
Hans, the Old Soldier.
Bingo.
Johnny Bear.
Raggylug.
Stories from the Bible
Birth of Christ.
Gideon, the Warrior.
Joseph and His Brothers.
The Parable of the Good Samaritan.
The Parable of the Prodigal Son.
THE POETRY HABIT*
CLARA WniTEHILL HUNT
When I was a little girl I had the good fortune
to live in a city where there were no bridges,
crushes, and police-patrol gongs, barrack-built
flats and brownstone rows, to frighten away the
birds and crowd out the flowers and play-spaces;
but where fathers, even on moderate salaries,
could own little houses with big piazzas and gen-
erous yards. We boys and girls raised Jack-o'-
lantern pumpkins in those yards, and cheerful
morning-glories and downy chickens. We plucked
juicy plums and cherries and grapes from our own
trees and vines. We played in safe, shady streets
without fear of trolleys or motors; for our city
was so charmingly behind the times that the jin-
gling horse-car did not readily give place to the
clanging electric. In Spring we tapped the maple-
trees in front of our houses, smacking our lips
over the few spoonsful of sap that dripped as
musically into our suspended pails as if this were
a "truly" maple-sugar camp in the country. After
school hours, in the rapidly gathering dusk of
short autumn days, we raked gorgeous leaves
into huge piles and danced wild Indian dances
around bonfires that blazed like beacons up and
down the length of streets unpaved with for-
bidden asphalt. We made snow-forts and snow-
men and Kskimo huts, we wallowed in clean snow-
drifts, we coasted down long, hilly streets on
our big brothers' "bobs."
Yet how all these pleasures of the school year
were as drab to scarlet contrasted with the
radiance of vacations on Grandmother's beautiful
farm ! How we hated to take off our clothes at
night for fear troublesome buttons would make
us miss something in the morning when we woke
far too early to bother poor Mother to help us
dress. How, beneath all the childish, physical
delights of wading and huckleberrying and riding
atop the loaded hay-wagon and playing "I spy"
in the shadowy barn, there flowed the deep cur-
rent of joy in the beauty of earth and sky !
When, barefooted under the willows, we tugged
at heavy rocks which we perspiringly erected
into lighthouses and forts to guard our homes
along the brook — I should say the seashore — we
were only dimly conscious that the song of the
brook and the carpet of dancing light and shade
under our feet, the feel of the flower-scented
breeze on our hot little faces, the murmur and
hum of the insects in the waving meadow grass
over the stone wall, the vivid blue of the sky —
which an old black crow "caw-caw'd" for us
to look up and notice — that all these beauties of
Mother Earth were a deep part of the happiness
of our free play in the outdoors, whose large-
ness was answering to a craving of the child-
soul, that feels the cramp of the city more than
does the adult.
How Prosaic the City Child's Life
To-day I watch the children at play as I walk
to my office along streets of highly respectable
apartment-houses. How cruelly narrow the range
for the imagination of the young child ! The
very "respectability" of a neighborhood — which
exacts a rent that often eats up all country va-
cation money — is against the child. How can a
youngster possibly have a good time if he is not
allowed to muss up the front steps and get his
clothes dirty? Yet it is not the physical handi-
cap of the city child that most stirs my pity, for
his he'alth record is steadily improving. It is the
little one's missing experiences in beauty, it is
the robbery of his imagination, effected by paved
streets, that I deplore.
There is no possible help for these children
except as they shall get their experiences vicari-
ously through Father and Mother and books.
For our comfort we know how marvelously books
can be made to supply what Father's salary can
not. Only we need to remember how and when
to apply the various books. There is a best time
for introducing poetry and myth and heroes of
history; and a lifelong loss may be that child's
whose parents know not when to feed a certain
interest.
Begin in Earliest Babyhood
The baby's first taste of poetry should be given
not later than a month after he alights, trailing
his clouds of glory and with the music of his
heavenly home attuning his ears to a delight in
rhyme and rhythm, long before Mother's songs
convey the word-meanings to his mind. There
* From "What .Shall We Read to the Children" by Clara Whitehill Hunt. Published by Houghton Mifflin Company.
Reprinted by permission of the publishers.
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never was a normal baby born into this world
who did not bring with him a love for poetry;
and the fact that so few adults retain a trace
of this most pure delight points to the need of
conscious effort on the parent's part to foster
the child's natural gift.
So the first book I would put into the baby's
library would be a collection of the loveliest lulla-
bies and hymns and sweet old story-songs. I know
that doctors and nurses frown upon rocking the
baby to sleep, but if I were a young mother I'd
rock and sing to that baby after he waked up !
I would sing Tennyson's "Sweet and Low," and
Holland's "Rockaby, Lullaby, Bees in the Clover,"
and Field's "Wynken, Blynken, and Nod"; the
little German slumber song —
"Sleep, baby, sleep.
The large stars are the sheep ;"
and the Gaelic lullaby —
"Hush, the waves are rolling in
White with foam, white with foam."
I would sing "O Little Town of Bethlehem,"
and "It Came Upon the Midnight Clear." and
"While Shepherds Watched their Flocks by
Night." I would sing the "Crusader's Hymn,"
and Luther's "A Mighty Fortress is Our God,"
and Newman's "Lead, Kindly Light," and Pley-
el's "Children of the Heavenly King," and Bar-
ing-Gould's "Now the Day is Over." I would
sing "Annie Laurie," and "Home, Sweet Home,"
and "Flow Gently, Sweet Afton," and "The
Suwanee River."
Use of Lullabies and Finger-Plays
Choosing songs so beautiful and so appealing
to a child's heart, I should make sure that when
the little one began to try to imitate Mother, he
would sing of winds that ruffle the waves, of dew,
of pleasant banks and green valleys and clear,
winding rills, of the Heavenly Father's care, of
the enduringness of home love. I should know
that, though the words at first called up no clear
mental pictures, they would spell love and beauty
and happy feeling, and that life would, little by
little, unfold to the child the full meanings of
these lovely songs.
Before the baby is a year old he will enjoy
action-rhymes like "This little pig went to
market," "Pat a cake, pat a cake, baker's man."
By the time he is two, he will be trying to repeat
the gay Mother Goose jingles with their irre-
sponsible nonsense and their catching rhyme and
rhythm. \Mien he is three he will be enjoying
Stevenson's "I have a little shadow that goes in
and out with me." and other posies from "The
Child's Garden of Verses."
Use of Story-Telling Poems
Now the important thing is for the baby to
acquire the poetry habit. A few years later, this
child, if he has not listened to verse nearly
every day of his life, may begin to be bored by
the language of poetry, so dear to one who com-
prehends quickly, so tiresome to one who, for
lack of right preparation, must dig out the mean-
ings, as he works at a translation from a dead
language.
At first we need to repeat nursery jingles and
the simplest child verses, because these are the
bottom steps of the "golden staircase" to real
poetry. If. however, we try to get firmly lodged
in mind the fact that children enjoy an infinite
number of things which they do not understand ;
that they understand far more than they can ex-
press ; that their understanding grows by leaps
and bounds if we foolish adults do not inter-
fere — we shall stop trying to stint their active
imaginations by keeping them so long on baby-
rhymes. *
The child will most easily climb the staircase
to real poetry by way of story-telling poems.
Sentimental and martial, merry and sad, the
story-interest and the music of the old English
and Scotch ballads fit them exactly to the liking
of children, little and big. Browning and Tenny-
son, Matthew Arnold and Scott and Longfellow
give to the children "The Pied Piper," "The
Lady of Shalott," "The Forsaken Merman,"
"Jock of Hazeldean," "The Bell of Atri." A
number, almost without end, of stirring romances
in verse will reward a search through our "adult"
poetry Hbrary, after we have exhausted the lovely
children's collections like "The Blue Poetry
Book," "Golden Numbers," "The Golden Stair-
case," and others.
Connecting Poetry with Biography and
History
. Each poem may be made to introduce many
others, if we take advantage of the child's de-
light in the association of ideas he has acquired.
For example, the little one has loved to hear
mother sing "Annie Laurie" and "The Blue
Bells of Scotland" and "The Campbells are
"She read a poem to her child one day.
And added explanations not a few.
But paused a moment at the end to say,
'I wonder, darling, if it's clear to yon.'
"But still he sighed, and slowly shook his head;
She turned the page as if to start again.
When, drawing nearer, 'Mother, dear,* he =aid,
'I'll understand it if you don't explain.' "
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331
Comin'." He has mourned brave Sir Patrick
Spens, has galloped with Lochinvar, and "wi'
Wallace bled" in defense of Scotland's freedom.
Scotland to him has become a land of romance,
dear to his heart. One day, after he has been
lustily singing "The Campbells Are Comin' , Oho !
Oho !" Mother tells him how the dying English,
penned up in Lucknow, sprang to their feet laugh-
ing and crying with joy as they heard, faint and
far away, the bagpipes playing "The Campbells
Are Comin'." Now is the time to read Whit-
tier's "The Pipes at Lucknow," as Bayard Tay-
lor's "Song of the Camp" will touch the children
after they have joined in singing "Annie Laurie."
Taylor's poem, and the bit of explanation about
the Crimean War which it involves, will in-
troduce "The Charge of the Light Brigade,"
another stirring poem of the same war.
A whole cycle of Southern and Civil War
songs and poems may follow the reading of the
L^ncle Remus stories — "Dixie" and "Maryland,
My Maryland," "My Old Kentucky Home,"
"Sheridan's Ride," and "Oh, Captain, My Cap-
tain !" Somehovi'. the child will enter into the
heart of the North and the South, the soldier
and the slave, and he will be a better American
in this reunited country for loving the songs of
both sections that gave their best for what they
believed to be the right.
The Right Poem at the Right Time
Make it an unvarying practice to link poetry
with the children's every happy experience, every
celebration, family or national or religious. Read
the "Concord Hymn" and "Paul Revere's Ride"
on the Fourth of July, "The Landing of the Pil-
grims" at Thanksgiving, "The Flag Goes By"
and "The Commemoration Ode" on Memorial
Day.
Weeks before Christmas begin to read and
sing every beautiful poem and song you can find.
There are so many, we have no excuse for de-
scending to doggerel. On New Year's Eve read
Tennyson's "Death of the Old Year": on a gusty
winter evening read "Old Winter is a Sturdy
One." Before taking a journey, hunt up poems
of places the children will visit. After an ex-
citing trip to the Zoo read Blake's "Tiger, Tiger,
Burning Bright," and Tavlor's "Night with a
Wolf."
When the children have enjoyed the Norse
stories, read them Longfellow's "Skeleton in
Armor." After hearing the stories of Tarpeia
and Curtius and other Roman legends, they will
be ready for Macaulay's "Lays."
Does any father or mother think I am- going
too fast? Prove it by experiment! I am sug-
gesting a poetry course, not for the "exceptional
child," but for real little bread-and-butter boys
and girls of happy birth and home environment.
There are only three rules necessary to follow
if you would delight your soul with watching
your children's poetry taste grow with their
growth. These are :
Begin early.
Read poetry every day.
Read the right poem at the right time. *
ANSWERING QUESTIONS ABOUT SEX t
MARGARET W. MORLEY
'"Where Did I Come From?"
This question the child is bound to ask sooner
or later. There are two ways of answering it.
One way is to evade the question, or answer it
untruthfully, telling the child that the stork
brought him or some such fiction. This is a bad
way, for the child knows it is not true. If, at
first, he does not know it is false, he soon will.
The other way is to tell the truth. One mother
answered the question of her eight-year-old son
with the simple statement, "You came from
Mother, dear. You grew within her body and
lay close to her heart for a long time. She knew
you were coming, and got ready for you, and
thought about you, and loved you even before
you were born." The boy looked at her, threw
his arms about her, and exclaimed, "Oh, Mother !
that is why I love you so." He had been told
the truth, and he instinctively knew it was the
* Read slowly and with full rhythmic swing to eet the swing of it early.
In order to have "right poetry at the right time. ' I find it good to keep marked volumes within easy reach, also our
own "Home Anthology." We copy into this all bits of poetry the children have asked for from Library Books or others
we can't keep. — M. S. L,
fTiiE^CHlLD Welfare Manual has two careful articles showing how to give this important instruction in detail to boys
and to girls.
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truth. He did not have to find out later that his
mother had deceived him.
When any child finds that he has been deceived
by his mother, he naturally loses confidence in
her. Usually he will not ask her any more ques-
tions, but vvfill listen to vile stories from other
people and will think that they are true and that
is why his mother is not willing to be frank with
him.
It is well to anticipate the direct question by
getting ready before the child is old enough to
ask it. How to do this? Begin, perhaps, with
seeds. Show the seed-pods of any plant. The
seeds are«the children of the plant. The plant
gives them protection and feeds them with its
juices. They are part of the plant. The plant
is the mother of the seeds. When the seeds are
ripe, the pod opens and the seeds leave their
mother to live their own separate lives.
Dwell upon the care the mother-plant takes
of her little seed-children, of the beautiful flower
petals she wraps about the tiny pod. Speak often
and reverently of motherhood. Make the little
boy as well as the little girl understand and love
the mother.
In the springtime show birds' nests, if possible.
If not, show pictures and talk about nest-building
and how both parents engage in it. Then show
or tell about the eggs. Explain how the eggs
grew inside the mother-bird. They are a part
of her, just as the seeds are a part of the plant.
When the eggs are ready, the bird lays them in
the pretty nest and sits on them to keep them
warm. The father-bird sings to her and feeds
her. Both birds love the baby birds, and as soon
as they hatch out, father bird and mother bird
feed them and care for them and teach them to
fly. A hen sitting on her eggs can be used to
teach the lesson. The egg grew in the hen. How
wonderful it is that a little egg can change into
a beautiful bird or a cunning little chicken! As
the child grows older, lead him to notice that
the seed grows into a. plant just like the parent,
that the egg becomes a bird like the parents.
Tell the child how important it is for children
to come from good parents. Speak of parents
and children when talking of plants and birds;
this will cause the child unconsciously to connect
the ideas gained about plants and birds with hu-
man life.
When a chance comes to show the child young
kittens or puppies or rabbits, or the young of
any animal, tell him quite frankly, whether he
asks or not, that of course the young ones came
from the mother, that before they were born they
were a part of her. Make it all seem natural to
the child.
Dwell upon the love and care the mother every-
where bestows upon her children. Include father
love wherever it is expressed in the lower life.
When at last the great question comes, the
child will probably answer it himself, "Mamma,
did I come from you?" "Yes, darling, you were
once a part of mother. How mother loves her
little son (daughter) !"
Each mother will think of a way to tell the
story, according to circumstances. Only remem-
ber two things. Tell the story properly before
anybody gets ahead of you and poisons the child's
mind. And tell it in a way to make the child
reverence and love parenthood.
The mother can make her child what she wants
him to be by impressing right ideas and high
ideals upon him when he is very young.
THE RELIGIOUS NURTURE OF A LITTLE CHILD
WILLIAM BYRON FORBUSH
"Lo! Lord. I sit in Thy icide space,
My child upon my knee,
She looketh up into my face.
And I look up to Thee."
— George M.^cDox.^ld.
What shall we teach the little child about
religion? Remembering that he is perfectly
credulous, but also that he is of limited capacity,
naturally we should teach him only what he is
ready for. Instead of volunteering information
upon all sorts of religious topics, our conversa-
tion should be chiefly confined to those things in
which he shows a ready interest; and our religious
replies should be almost entirely to questions that
the child raises himself.
Teaching About God
Most parents teach about God as Jesus did, as
our Father, perhaps unconsciously expecting that
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this thought will be interpreted by human parent-
hood. It may not be wholly sentiment which
causes us to approve of the following anecdote,
which illustrates how the child reads his social
experience with his parents into his thought of
God. The story is told by Dr. Coe. "Mamma,"
said a small boy, "do you know what I'm going
to do the first thing when I get to heaven? I'm
going to run up to the Heavenly Father and give
Him a kiss !"
So near is the child to the animal world that
we can not reach to the depth of his nature un-
less we touch the animal and passional as well
as the spiritual. The child must be made manly
before he can become godlike. In no better way
does the mother reveal the love of God than by
her anxiety so to satisfy the child's physical needs
as to reveal her own love to him. The sense
of perpetual comfort and 'care not only makes
the child feel at home in his world, but makes
him convinced that God is a Person there. The
sharing of the physical life has in it, as Dr. Coe
suggests, the sacredness of incarnation. The es-
sential method of education is the sharing of life
between a higher and a lower person, whereby
the principle of incarnation is carried forward
in each new generation.
This care of the body of the child has another
religious value, too, in that protecting the child
as a good animal is the wholesomest way to pre-
pare him to become a good Christian.
But even this thought of the Fatherhood of
God does not entirely satisfy the child, because
it does not seem to fill the spaces of the universe
with his presence. There is still so much that is
dark and mysterious which the child can not ex-
plain. We may therefore agree with President
Hall, that anything that stimulates the child's
thoughts about the unseen world, which makes
him believe that Nature is alive and friendly, is
truly religious teaching. Whatever fosters the
sense of being at home in the universe, or in any
way teaches the sense of the oneness of it, is lead-
ing toward the desired end.
The first question which suggests to the mother
the necessity of telling the child about God is
generally a question of cause. Dr. George E.
Dawson cites a child, probably his own, who be-
gan with his fourth year and seemed always to be
trying to find out where things came from origi-
nally and who kept the world a-going. "Who
makes the birds ?" "Who made the very first bird ?"
"Who fixed their wings so they can fly?'' "Who
takes care of the birds and rabbits in the Winter,
when snow is on the ground?" "Who makes the
grass grow?" "Who makes the trees?" "Who
makes them shed their leaves and get them back
again ?" "Who made the sand and rocks in Forest
Park?" "Who made the Connecticut River?"
"Who keeps it from running dry?" "Who makes
it thunder?" "Who put the moon in the sky?"
"Who made the whole world?" "Who made peo-
ple?" "Who made me?" "Does God make every-
thing?" "Who made God?" "Was God already
made?" "Is God everywhere?" Such were the
questions asked again and again, with all sorts of
comments in reply to the answers that were given
him. The question of zi'ltaf is the origin of things
was seldom or never asked. It was always ■who;
and when the personal cause he was seeking was
named "God," in connection with numerous ob-
jects he finally generalized by asking if God
makes everything. Earl Barnes cites a four-year-
old girl who asked more definite questions. "What
does God eat? Is it chopped grass? Doesn't
God have any dinner? Did Robinson Crusoe live
before God? Who was before God? Is rain
God's tears running out of the sky? How did
God put the moon in the sky ?"
Mrs. Edith Read Mumford says:
"The romance of fairies, gnomes, and sprites
is, to my mind, full of spiritual truth. Every
flower, every leaf, every object around us, has
a spirit of its own; is fraught with mystery,
they are more than mere material objects ; they
are, as it were, thoughts of the Creative Power
clothed in matter. Can the Spirit of love, of
power, of beauty, of humor, embodied in the
world, be more fitly expressed for the child than
in this undergrowth, as it were, of tiny creatures,
haunting the night, when the 'humans' are asleep;
this world of moral, unmoral, and non-moral
fairy beings?"
Because of the vividness with which children
clothe inanimate things with life we must be
cautious about telling children things which they
may magnify into terrorizing objects. It is cruel
to tell children stories about "The Bad Man,"
"The Big Bear that will catch you," etc. Bolton
suggests that even the good fairies and Santa
Claus should never be represented as dwelling
too near. Let them be the "good men away off."
A child may suffer great mental agony if he
thinks that even dear old Santa Claus lives in
the kitchen chimney.
In teaching about God to little children, Jesus
must be left for the present in their thought, no
matter what be the theological beliefs of the
parents, rather, as Horace Bushnell said, "as
the good Carpenter saving the world" than as
Deity. And we may agree with Dr. Coe, that
the point of contact between Him and the in-
dividual child is "the spirit of loyalty, which
makes the child endeavor to be like some great
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person of whom he has heard and which im-
pels a child to do the right." "You can't do
this, 'because Father or Mother wouldn't like
it," produces similar allegiance, admiration, and
affection for Jesus Christ. To develop such
loyalty in childhood is to render a service of in-
estimable value. It is to do the greatest thing
that can be done for the shaping of character.
Teaching About Duty
The child's conception of duty is always con-
crete: it always takes the form of some definite
thing to be done or to be left undone now.
It consists therefore almost entirely in the
forming of correct habits of doing the customary
things that are to be done and of inhibiting the
things that are customarily not to be done.
Dr. Arthur Holmes puts it even more con-
cretely when he says, "The problem of character-
making with the child from one to twelve years
of age resolves itself into making good habits by
having the child do tilings."
Perhaps the child outgrows this automatic rela-
tion to righteousness sometimes earlier than we
think, owing to his intense personifying of
things ; his sense of loyalty to right may be as
early and as powerful as that of loyalty to per-
sons. Mrs. Dorothy Canfield Fisher says, "I
know a child not yet quite three who, by the
maddeningly persistent interrogations character-
istic of his age, has succeeded in extracting from
a pair of gardening elders an explanation of the
difference between weeds and flowers, and who
has been so struck with this information that
he has, entirely of his own volition, enlisted him-
self in the army of natural-born reformers. He
throws himself upon a weed, uproots it and casts
it away with the righteously indignant exclama-
tion, 'Horrid old weed ! Stop eating the flowers'
dinner !' "
Habits of Prayer
"Children," says Mrs. Mumford, "are not ready
for prayer at any fixed period in their lives. In
some the instinct of affection and gratitude is
late in developing. If they do not greatly love
the father whom they have seen, how can they
love a Father whom they have not seen? And
if they do not love, are they ready to pray? The
first condition of all religion is merging of self-
love into other love. Love goes before faith.
Not to love is not to believe, for it is love which
makes us feel that the object is worthy of our
faith. Bit by bit, in the case of such children,
we need to develop the loving side of their na-
ture and watch for our opportunity to tell them
of God. Some children can truly pray before
they are three ; others not till much later. But
the earlier the better, if the prayer is real. Until
they can pray themselves we must let them see
that we pray for them. But when they begin to
be capable of unselfish love toward those around
them, begin to grow in their power of imagina-
tion — on some specially glad day, when we are
tucking them up at night, we can remind them
of all the glad things in their lives, recall the
joys of that day, the beautiful sunshine, the
flowers in the garden, the romp with Father,
the kisses and the hugs at bedtime, till the little
one glows with conscious joy ! Then we can
ask, 'Who gives you all this joy? Who makes
Father and Mother love you ? Who makes you
love them — the loving that makes you so glad ?'
We can tell them it is God who gives all good
things. Would they like to thank God? If the
children respond, and they will respond if we
have chosen the right moment, with their eyes
shut and hands reverently folded, we let them
say their first spontaneous prayer: 'Thank you
for making me happy ; please make everybody
happy,' is one such first prayer. The form of
prayer may depend upon the child and our sug-
gestions to the child; but we must see that it is
real."
Reverence in Prayer
The Importance of reverent attitudes is that
they readily become to the child the physical ex-
pression of the moral feeling. "The child's first
ideas of prayer," Froebel said, ''come to him
when an infant, by the mother's kneeling beside
his crib in silent prayer; her bowed head and
kneeling body tell of submission to and reverence
for a power greater than herself; her tone of
voice when she speaks of sacred things is far
more effectual with the little listener than the
words she says."
It hardly needs to be said that kneeling in a
cold room is not sacred, and that the necessary
haste to get into bed destroys any sense of rever-
ence. Many young children love to say their
prayers on what William Canton's "W. V."
called mother's "blessed lap of heaven."
We have an opportunity to develop the spirit
of reverence by the child's contact with the world
in which he lives. To bring a little one into a
great church, perhaps a cathedral, eitlicr during
a beautiful service or when the sanctuary is
empty, and teaching him to step softly, to catch
the wonder of the height, the depth or the di-
mensions, and to look up with reverence toward
the Holy Place, is to give the child an emotional
impression that will be far-reaching. Even more
profound is the child's reaction toward darkness
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and starlight. Some children who were afraid to
stay in bed alone have been entirely reassured
by being taken to the window and shown the
hosts of heaven, which seemed to them like
guardian spirits. So tremendous is the impres-
sion of the multitude of stars upon children that
one child, at least, acknowledged, even in woman-
hood, that she was scarcely able then to endure
to look upon their splendor.
How to Teach a Child to Pray
The method of one mother, cited by Susan
Chenery in her "As the Twig Is Bent," is per-
haps typical.
"When Margery was about two," said Helen,
"I taught her to say a little prayer, and had her
repeat it every night on going to bed. 'God bless
Margery'- — that was all at first ; but I showed her
how to kneel, and she understood that the prayer
was always to come before lying down for the
night. Of course, the name God meant nothing
to her, and the three words together nothing at
all. My only idea was to have her begin to pray
so early that it would be second nature to her
to say her evening prayer, and. indeed, that she
should not be able to recall a time when she did
not say it. As she grew older I suggested "God
bless Papa. God bless Mamma. God bless Frank.
God bless Margery.' and this was the form for
some time, but was altered to admit others from
time to time, and often stretches out now into a
long list of friends and relatives.
"Not for a long time did I try to teach her
anything about God ; but it was probably in an-
swer to some questions of hers that I explained,
when she was old enough to be interested, that
God loves us, that He is the Father of all the
people in the world, that He wants everyone to
do what is right, that He sees everything that
happens, that He is glad when we do right and
sorry when we do wrong, and that He has a
home where He takes His children when they
are through with this world."
Perhaps the prayer most commonly taught to
little children in the one that begins. "Now I lay
me." This has been objected to by many parents
because of its entire selfishness and its prominent
suggestion of danger and death. A better ren-
dering is this:
"Now I lay me down to sleep,
I pray Thee, Lord, my soul to keep ;
Tliy love be with me through the night,
And bless me with the morning light."
Mrs. Mary Duncan, many years ago. composed
a rhyming prayer which is thoroughly childlike
and contains many elements of a good prayer :
"Jesus, tender Shepherd, hear me.
Bless Thy little lamb to-night;
Through the darkness be Thou near me :
Keep me safe till morning light.
"All this day Thy hand has led me,
And I thank Thee for Thy care ;
Thou hast warmed me, clothed and fed me ;
Listen to my evening prayer !
"Let my sins be all forgiven ;
Bless the friends I love so well ;
Take us all at last to heaven,
Happy there with Thee to dwell."
Dr. George Hodges gives the following peti-
tion, in which the suggestion of a rhyme assists
the memory : "O Lord, our Heavenly Father,
lead me, guard me. help me, bless me, keep me,
make me pure and brave and true, in all I think
and say and do !"
A Treasury of Prayers
A MORNING PRAYER
"Dear God, I thank Thee for the light and the food
and the love and for all the other good things Thou
hast given me. Please help me to be a good, kind
child to-day and bless and (naming
those he loves). Amen."
A MORNING PRAYER
"Father, we thank Thee for the night,
And for the pleasant morning light ;
For rest and food and loving, care.
And all that makes the day so fair.
"Help us to do the things we should,
To be to others kind and good ;
In all wc do in work or play.
To grow more loving every day."
A MORNING PR,\YER
"Father, dear, I fain would thank Thee
For my long refreshing sleep.
And the watch that Thou didst keep,
While I slumbered soft and deep,
O'er Thy child so lovingly.
"All that I to-day am doing.
Help me. Lord, to do for Thee;
May I kind and helpful be,
Only good in others see,
Try to serve Thee faithfully. Amen."
A GRACE AT TABLE
"Lord Tesus, be our Holy Guest,
Our morning Joy, our evening Rest;
And with our daily bread impart
Thy love and peace to every heart."
A GRACE AT TABLE
"We thank Thee for this bread and meat
And all the good things which we eat ;
Lord, may we strong and happy be.
And always good and true like Thee."
— James Maxon Yard.
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AN EVENING PRAYER
"Now I lay me down to sleep ;
Heavenly Father, wilt Thou keep
Me and those I love all night?
I'or with Thee 'tis always light.
"And. dear Father, while I share
In Thy tender love and care.
Help me every day to be
An obedient child to Thee. Amen."
— Hcnrielta R. Eliot
AN EVENING PRAYER
"In my work and in my play
Thou hast kept me through the day.
While I close my eyes in sleep.
Tender watch above me keep.
Loving Jesus, meek and mild,
Let me be thine own dear child. .\men."
AN EVENING PRAYER
"Father, bless Thy little child to-night ;
Wake me with the morning light.
May I pure and holy be.
Daily growing more like Thee. Amen."
One mother, cited by Kate Upson Clark, met
a special problem in teaching her child to frame
a prayer of his own. She met it wisely, as fol-
lows: "I found it impossible, when my eldest
child became old enough to make up a prayer
for himself, to induce him to do it. He was too
shy and too reserved to do it. He could not
seem to find the words. I meditated upon the
matter, and prayed for light upon it. At last I
saw that, as the most effective instruction is by
means of the object lesson, it was my duty to
offer such a prayer as I thought he ought to,
until he should learn to do it for himself. There-
fore, instead of offering a mere formal and con-
ventional prayer, as I had been used to, I began
to offer such a prayer as I thought he would
want to, using expressions like, 'when I grow up,'
and 'help me to obey my father and mother and
teachers,' just as if he were talking himself.
The prayer is always very short and plain. As
the younger children became old enough to un-
derstand, I adopted the same custom with them.
"That they enjoy this little prayer, so simple
and so short that I am almost ashamed to men-
tion it, is proved by the fact that they often say,
'Don't forget your little prayer. Mamma'; and if
I am going out to dinner, or to any entertain-
ment, they say, 'Why, Mamma, you can't say your
little prayer if you go away and don't get back
until we have gone to sleep.' "
This practice is certainly a beautiful one. and
if the mother does not always succeed in making
her petitions childlike and the little one falls
asleep, it will in later days be a sacred memory
that she used to fall asleep amid her mother's
prayers.
So strong is the imitativeness of little children
that it is often extraordinarily difficult to de-
termine, even in the case of the child of six or'
seven, how far his religion has, even at that age,
become directly personal, or whether God is not
often a Being to whom access is only possible
through someone else. Susan Chenery gives an
illustration in which we seem to watch the growth
of the child into a personal conception of God.
"Margery had been repeating a prayer for a
good many months before she realized the privi-,
leges of prayer. One night she said to me as I
tucked her up for the night, 'Mamma, what do
people do when they want things?' Not quite
understanding her, I yet answered, 'If it is some-
thing to buy, and they have money and know
it is right to buy it, why, they go and get it.'
'But if it isn't to buy with money, and they don't
know how to get it?' 'I'll tell you what I do,
Margery; I ask God to let me have it, if it is
good for me, but that I don't want it if it isn't.'
'How do you ask him?' 'I say, "Oh, God, if it is
best, help me to get this thing, and don't let me
have it if it isn't good for me." 'Oh, yes, now
I know. If I whisper it, can He 'hear?' 'Yes,
indeed, or if you just think it, He will know all
about it.' She told me afterwards what it was
she wanted, and that she had asked for it."
The Little Child and the Bible
The reason why the Bible is the child's first
and best story-book is because the early Israelites
were a child-nation — a nation with its face to-
ward God. If it be true that the little child does
not have an innate God-consciousness, it is never-
theless a fact that, as Mrs. Louise Seymour
Houghton tells us, "There is in all the world
nothing so reasonable to the unsophisticated hu-
man mind as God. The little child, 'made of
dust and the Father's breath,' 'has a bias toward
the faculty of God - consciousness. The Old
Testament is the best of all religious story-books
for the little child, because it is the one book in
the world in which it is assumed that man is in
a divine order. The relations with God, as we
find them in the Old Testament, are the relations
of a child-people with their Heavenly Father."
Even the order of the books of the Bible seems
appropriate to the stages of the child's develop-
ment. It begins with stories of the creation — a
wonder-tale that ajipeals strongly to the mind of
the child who is beginning to ask "Why?" and
"How?" Next comes a period of pastoral life,
affecting the child's out-of-doors interests; then
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the heroic stage, telling of the God of Battles,
the stern and just Lawgiver and Inflictor of
Punishments, like the parent — a narrative full of
wonderful tales, of which the child never tires.
Later comes the story of Jesus, with its spirit
of love and self-sacrifice, especially appealing to
adolescents, but containing in its child episodes
much that touches the affections and sympathies
of the little child.
The parent, of course, tells Bible stories by a
wise selection. The stor}' of the creation, in the
second chapter of Genesis, with its picturesque
details and human interest, is far more effective
than that in the first chapter or that in the Book
of Job. There are, for instance, in the Old
Testament, narratives which wind like a river
under terrible crags, through malarial reaches
and into untraversable bogs. The mother will
forsake these for the sunlit streams and the musi-
cal waterfalls. The exact narrative of the Scrip-
ture must, of course, be freely handled.* Some
even accommodate the Bible >to modern thought
by up-to-date slang. This is scarcely necessary,
but is perhaps a fault in the right direction. It
would certainly not do violence to the spirit of
the Scriptures if the mother should tell a Bible
story about kittens instead of sheep, if the child
were familiar with kittens and did not know any-
thing about sheep. We always have the privilege
of expanding where the original is terse, or em-
phasizing what the original takes for granted,
and of using the imagination, especially in re-
sponse to the little child's questions.
As to the method of Bible stories, perhaps the
best single word to speak is that one should tell
such stories as folklore. Such they really were,
and as such they should be given to the child.
Let the mother, in telling Old Testament stories,
imagine herself an aged Hebrew nurse, handing
down the traditions of her race to a circle of
eager-eyed children. Let her tell such stories as
if she were sitting in a window overlooking the
events that were at that very moment taking
place, of which the children could not possibly
have any knowledge except what she makes clear
to them.
As to the purpose of Bible story-telling to a
child, Mrs. Houghton gives us a wise word when
" The old Bible stories are skillfully told in a collection
entitled "Bible Stories and Character-Building," published
by Tlie University Society.
she says that it is "in order to give a religious
meaning to all the e.xperiences of his early life."
Beginning at about three, the story is to be told
in its simplest possible outline and as much as
may be in the Bible words. At about five, an ele-
mentary unfolding of its spiritual meaning may
come in answer to the child's questions. In the
story of Cain and Abel, for instance, it is pos-
sible to give the narrative a religious meaning
which shall touch the experiences of the Child
in two ways: by showing the interest which God
has in the spirit of love, in the gifts of His chil-
dren and by reminding the little one of the joys
which come from taming the young lion of
hatred before it grows big and strong, and of
the sorrow and pain which follow if this lion
grows strong and cruel.
Church-going and Sunday-school
It would seem to be a wise practice for chil-
dren to begin the habit of church-going at about
the time when they begin to go to public school.
Even before this age most children are eager to
attend. It seems better to keep church-going as
a special privilege and reward for good behavior
until the age of reasonably steady habits. In
many churches the rigor of the long service is
mitigated by a special nursery for little children,
conducted during a part or the whole of the
service. There is no doubt an impressiveness
even in a beautiful service, which the child does
not understand, which becomes a wholesome and
precious influence through life. There are some
children who are so nervous that early church-
going does not seem advisable. Church should
never seem to a child like imprisonment. The
habit should certainly begin as a privilege and
delight and then should become a duty, but not
an unpleasant one.
Many of our religious leaders feel that the
beginning of the fifth year, rather than before,
is the earliest time that a child may wisely attend
Sunday-school. Before that year he is incapable
of class instruction, and the habit of inattention,
formed then, is a barrier to religious education
later. Just as public schools, even the kinder-
garten, prefer not to take children until they
are five, so, perhaps, the Sunday-school will some
day follow their example. Before that time the
child needs individual instruction and should
receive his religious training from his mother.
"The childhood of to-day challenges the Church to pro-
duce its joys." — William E. Gardner.
THE RELIGIOUS EDUCATION
CHILD*
OF A CATHOLIC
JOSEPHINE BROWNSON
"As the twig is bent so the tree will ^fovv" is a
saying as familiar as it is full of truth. Unless,
then, we wish to rear a race of agnostics, how
date we shoulder the responsibility of neglecting
to make the child's religious impressions its
strongest and earliest?
I know of a boy who when five years of
age could discuss an airplane with considerable
intelligence, and yet his mother had not then
taught him the "Our Father." She said that he
was too young to understand sudh things. Now,
as a matter of fact, small children have a natural
aptitude for spiritual truths which is woefully
lacking in some maturer minds.
If a child of five years is unable to speak, how
anxious his parents are ! Should they not be
equally an.xious if at that age he is unable to
speak to his Heavenly Father?
Early Opportunities for Memorizing
Let us see to it that the religious training keeps
pace with the training in other matters. Thus
when we teach words, let the first be the holy
names of Jesus and Mary; when we teach the
child to wave and clap its hands, let us teach the
Sign of the Cross; when we teach the repetition
of a number of words, let us teach gradually the
words of the Our Father and of the Hail Mary ;
when we sing lullabies, let us sing hymns to the
Infant Jesus; when we show pictures of flowers
and birds and call them by their names, let us
show pictures of our Lord, the Blessed Virgin,
St. Joseph, and the Angels, and call them by
their names; when we would read Mother Goose,
let us read Catholic nursery-rhymes; when we
would read fairy-tales, let us read Bible stories.
I remember hearing a little boy, two and a
half years old, recite at a Christmas party the
whole of the rhyme, " 'Twas the Night Before
Christmas." Is it too much to expect a child of
the same age to be able to make the Sign of the
Cross and say the Our Father and the Hail
Mary?
Then let us teach the child to kneel and with
folded hands say its prayers morning and evening.
It will readily assume the attitude of prayer if
it has watched its mother reverently pray. It is
the living lesson of the mother's example that
must precede the effort to train the child. Grad-
ually, we can add these words addressed to its
guardian angel :
"Angel of God, my guardian dear.
To whom His lovo cntnmits me here.
Ever this day be at my side
To light and guard, to rule and guide."
The next prayer might well be the Morning
Offering. We can teach it in some such simple
form as, "Dear Jesus, I give Thee everything
I shall think or say or do or suffer to-day." Per-
haps we can do the child no greater good than
to form in it the habit of transforming its daily
actions into prayers. This the j\Ioming Offering
does, and we can frequently renew it by- say-
ing aloud little aspirations w'hich the child will
readily repeat. Teach it to say in all the events
of its small life, such as a bruise on the head
or a cut on the finger, ".'MI for Thee, my Jesus."
Then, not only for a brief moment morning and
evening, will its childish thought go heavenward,
but its whole life will be made radiant and kept
innocent by being lived in the presence of God.
Another beautiful practice for the children to
learn is the pausing a moment every time the
clock strikes in order to whisper, "Agonizing
Heart of Jesus, have mercy on the dying and the
dead. May the souls of the faithful departed,
through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen."
The First Sacred Observances
All these little practices are powerful helps
for the child to lead a life of faith. Thus the
lighting of a blessed candle and the frequent
making of the Sign of the Cross during times of
special peril teach the child to seek God's help in
danger.
When the child awakes in the morning let us
teach it to look at some picture of the Infant
Jesus we have placed over its bed and to say,
"Good-morning, dear Jesus !" Again, at night.
* This earnest paper, with its emphasis upon reverence and careful teaching, will be found instructive hy niairy non»
Catholic mothers.
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let its last words be, "Good-night, dear Jesus,
good-night !"
In the sixth year, we can begin to teach the
Apostle's Creed and the Act of Contrition. The
Acts of Faith. Hope, and Love can follow.
The smallest child can wear a blessed medal,
and when it is old enough to understand, we can
explain how the scapular stands for the uniform
of our Blessed Mother and that if one wears it
faithfully through life, she will bless and care
for him as her special child.
And how proud a little child will be to have
a gayly colored rosary all his oRvn. He can hang
it on his bed, carry it to church, and, little by
little, learn to use it. During certain seasons of
the church ^-ear we can gather the children for
additional prayer and reciting the rosary aloud,
and thus teach them the beautiful mysteries of
the life of Christ.
Follow the Pathway of the Church Year
The Church fills the life of the smallest child
as well as the life of the greatest philosopher.
What better than to have the children follow her
through the various seasons of her year. Thus
during Advent, we can tell them of the coming
of the little King, teach them to prepare His
crib by acts of self-denial, and to long for Him
by frequently saying. "Come, Lord Jesus, and do
not delay!" Then January is the month of the
Holy Childhood. Give them a desire to imitate
the obedience and truthfulness of the Infant
Jesus, a Child like them.
Lent usually begins in February. We can
speak of the Passion, take them to church to
make the Way of the Cross, teach them to give
up candy and make other small acts of self-
conquest, to be kind and gentle, and to put some
of their pennies in the poor-box. During Holy
\\'eek, let us show them the church draped in
mourning because of grief over the death of
Christ. Then the glory of the Easter, the altar
decked in gold and white, the Paschal candle,
which will be kept near the high altar for forty
days, until the day Christ will go back to His
Heavenly Father.
Nor should we forget dear St. Joseph during
March, w'hen we can teach the children to say
some little prayer in his honor every day and
to beg of him the grace of a happy death.
Then the beautiful month of May, when the
children can gather flowers for our Blessed
Mother's altar and recite together the rosary and
sing a hymn in her honor.
June follows with its lesson of love for the
Sacred Heart of Christ that loves us so much.
July comes with its devotion to the Precious
Blood. August and September take up the won-
derful miracle of Christ's public life.
October is beautiful with its devotion to the
holy angels. Let us speak to the children of their
Guardian Angels and teach each to look upon
his angel as his strongest, best, and dearest life-
long friend and companion. Let us speak of the
purity and beauty of the angels and of the great
care they take of us.
November is sad in its devotion to the Poor
Souls in Purgatory. It will be easy to enlist the
sympathy of the children and to arouse their
longing to send some poor soul onward to Heaven
by their prayers and little sacrifices.
Sacred Symbols in the Home
Let us not forget the power of music. Chil-
dren quickly pick up the songs they hear, and
we all know how snatches of song learned in
babyhood cling to one through life. Why not
have a little selection of hymns that we can sing
to them?
A great stimulus to devotion is the building
and care of a little altar in the home. To attach
a shelf or box to the wall and drape it with
cheesecloth is a simple matter. Have on the
altar one or two pictures and, if possible, a statue
of the Sacred Heart, or of Our Lady, or of the
Blessed Mother holding the divine Infant.
When flowers are in season, the children will
delight in arranging them on the altar. Let them
also keep a little light burning, at least on Fri-
days, in memory of Christ's death, and on Satur-
days in honor of Our Lady, and on great feast
days. Have near the altar a receptable for holy
water and teach them how to g3 to church and
get holy water when the supply gives out.
Gather the children about the altar for morn-
ing and night prayers.
At Christmas, have a miniature Bethlehem.
In a corner of a room, or in an open fireplace,
make rocks of coarse brown paper and sprinkle
them with sparkling snow from the ten-cent store.
Form a cave and place in it a manger holding
the Infant Jesus, and arrange the figures of the
Blessed Virgin, St. Joseph, the Shepherds, etc.
Let the children save their pennies and buy their
own set of figures.
Teach Reverence in God's House
The child can not be too young to be taken to
church for short visits to the Blessed Sacrament.
Even if he can not yet take notice, the blessing
of Christ will be upon him. When two or three
years old. we can show him where Jesus lives,
speak of the sanctuary lamp, etc
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Children will learn reverence for God and holy
things from the carefulness with which we teach
them to make the Sign of the Cross with holy
water before entering the church and to genuflect
before the altar; from the reverence of our atti-
tude in prayer ; from the fact that they must not
turn around or speak in church. We can give
them a love for going to church by letting them
visit the different shrines and there telling them
a word about the saint each one honors, by letting
them walk slowly along the Way of the Cross
while we answer the questions they will surely
propound. They will delight in the music and
incense of Benediction and in watching proces-
sions through the church.
And when the child is old enough to go to
Mass, his curiosity will find food for many ques-
tions. He will be impressed by the lighted can-
dles, the altar-boys, the pouring into the chalice
of the water and the wine, the vestments of the
priest, and the different colors that are used, ac-
cording to the feast or spirit of the Church.
.'\nd then, above all, we can tell of the great
miracle that takes place upon the altar.
The child will learn reverence also (and if we
do not teach him reverence, all our religious in-
struction is in vain) from our manner of speak-
ing of holy things. Are not many of the remarks
of children, which are repeated by their elders as
marvelous examples of originality and intelli-
gence, deplorably lacking in reverence? And is
not the oft'hand, careless manner in which holy
things have been explained to them the cause ?
We say they are so young that no irreverence
can be meant. True, but all unconsciously they
are learning irreverence instead of reverence.
By these various means our children will grow
up in an atmosphere which is as necessary for
their spiritual growth as is air for their physical
growth. And without ever having heard of a
Catechism, their hearts will be prepared to re-
ceive the fuller and more definite knowledge of
their faith which will come with riper years.
Dramatic Play and Nursery Rhymes
The children will show great ingenuity, too,
in dramatizing the Bible stories we read, or better
still, in telling them. How they will enjoy play-
ing David meeting the giant, Judith slaying Holo-
fernes, Daniel discovering footprints in the
ashes, the messengers 'bringing to Job word of
his losses, etc. And they can form tableaux of
Abraham about to sacrifice Isaac, of Joseph tell-
ing Pharaoh the meaning of his dreams, etc.
A valuable asset to the nursery will be a finely
illustrated book of Catholic nursery rhymes.
Thus a mere baby can learn of God and of His
creation and of the birth of Christ, etc., by little
jingles. A single quotation will suffice:
"One cold, starry night,
A long time ago.
From Heaven above
To the earth below.
Came little Lord Jesus
And laid Himself down
On straw in a manger
In Bethlehem town.
"And Mary, His Mother
Did kneel by His side.
And Joseph was there
To guard and to guide;
And angels bowed low
And wondered to see
The great God of Heaven,
A Child so like me!"
The Use of Sacred Pictures in the Home
Nothing makes a stronger appeal to children
than pictures. Have in the nursery pictures of
our Lord, the Blessed Virgin, St. Joseph, and
the Guardian Angel. Have a wall set apart for
these. To place them next to profane pictures
leads to irreverence.
The Brown or Perry penny-pictures are very
beautiful and can 'be easily mounted and framed.
The Birth of Christ, Jesus Blessing Little Chil-
dren, a Madonna and the Crucifi.xion will attract.
Children three years of age, looking at a crucifix,
have expressed love and sympathy we ourselves
could envy. It is a mistake of the present day to
keep away from them all suggestion of pain and
sorrow. This makes for weakness and selfish-
ness. And as nothing can be more beautiful than
a child's grief over the sufferings of Christ, so
nothing can be more potent in beautifying its
character. There is no danger of a normal
child's becoming over-sympathetic.
The silent lesson of the crucifixion on the wall
is a strong factor in the child's religious training.
The penny-pictures are far more beautiful than
many expensive ones, which are too often mere
caricatures. Is it not strange how we show
children a hideous picture and ask them to love
the one it represents ? What would be the result
were it not for their faith and love that pierce
through the mask?
If you can not procure these pictures in your
home town, write for a catalog to George P.
Brown & Co., 38 Lovett Street, Beverly. Mass.
Also, in the front of the little book, "To the Heart
of the Child," published by the Encyclopedia Press
of New York, is a selected list of these pictures
illustrating events in the Old and New Testa-
ments. The numbers are given by which they
can be ordered. Such a list is valuable, for it
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requires much time and experimenting to procure
the desired pictures by means of a catalog alone.
These pictures can be used in various ways.
The children may buy them with their own pen-
nies and make with them valuable scrapbooks.
I have found a loose-leaf cover that holds the set
nicely. The pictures are clamped in. which is
preferable to punching holes. If Father or Mother
explains each night one of these pictures to the
children, the latter will never forget the lessons
so pleasantly given : neither will there be need
for distinct Catechism lessons until the children
are older. All they need to know the pictures
can be made to tell.
Again, these pictures can be used in a radiopti-
con. requiring an electric bulb but no curtain, if
the wall is light. The radiopticon can be used
as a treat, say on the first Friday of the month.
We can show the pictures we have already spoken
about and call on the children to give the story.
Or. at each lesson, we can keep on the screen
the entire time the picture illustrating the story
we are telling. Even though we use these devices
for the older children, the smaller ones will gain
as much as though we appealed directly to them.
We all know how surprisingly little children ab-
sorb what they see and hear. I remember going
to a house to prepare a grown person for Bap-
tism. A tiny, sickly child stayed quietly in the
room. Later, her mother told me how she had
overheard her teaching her doll the lessons I
had given.
Bible Story Telling in the Home
But perhaps the parents themselves would like
to refresh their memory of Bible stories learned
long ago. The Extension Press of Chicago pub-
lishes a book called "Catholic Bible Stories."
These are taken from both the Old and New
Testaments and are filled with illustrations. This
hook is compiled for small children and prepares
them for an early First Confession and First
Holy Communion. Children from five to twelve
years of age will revel in these stories, which are
more thrilling than any others that can be found.
Why not establish a story-hour in the home,
in the late afternoon or evening? Read a story
a day and when you have read them all. read
the favorite ones again. Do not let the children
form the bad habit of always wanting something
new. It is ruinous to their minds, which should
be fed upon the best, oft-repeated.
When the children have outgrown this book.
I would recommend "To the Heart of the Child,"
mentioned above. It will interest them and give
them a deeper, fuller knowledge of their religion.*
THE RELIGIOUS EDUCATION OF A JEWISH CHILD t
BY
MRS. ROSE BARLOW WEINMAN
The poet has said,
"Trailing clouds of glory do we come
From God, who is our home,"
and we Jews would extend the glorious line by
saying. "To God, who is our home," for from
the moment the babe opens his eyes he looks upon
a God-permeated world, or, as one of our sages
of old has put it, "In the beginning, God."
The birth of a child is not only an event of
great happiness, but one linked closely with
religion. For this blessing prayers of gratitude
are uttered, and with gifts the poor and the
Synagogue are remembered. Also, as is well
known, a religious ceremony of profound sig-
nificance, the rite of circumcision, accompanies
the bestowal of a sacred name upon the baby boy.
Keenly yet with great rejoicing do the parents
feel the holy trust, and the Jewish mother, like
Hannah of old. would gladly dedicate her child
to the service of God.
The bud unfolds, and as the little one develops
in health and strength the watchful parents in-
dulge in the thought that he will one day be a
fearless fighter for God; and the mother, as she
guides the first unsteady, tottering footsteps,
thrills with joy, cherishing the hope that the
Heavenly Father may lead her child in the paths
of righteousness for His Name's sake.
Before ever the babe can prattle he knows
about God.
"See the pretty flowers! God made all the
• Now turn to "The Catholic Mother and her Child." on page 721.
t How rich and delightful is the treasury of Jewish traditions and festivals, and how useful for the religious training
of children, will be a surprise to many who read this paper by an unusually intelligent Jewish mother.
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flowers, and the birds, and the trees. He made
the water, the sun and the moon, the rain, the
lightning and the thunder, too. God made every-
thing," we tell him.
A young Jewish mother once related this inci-
dent to me :
"We were enjoying our daily walk along a
shady path," she said, "my baby boy (not quite two
years old), tlie nursemaid, and I, when the maid,
in telling about a little girl of her acquaintance,
exclaimed, 'But she does ask so many questions !
Why, the other day she asked her mother who
made God.' 'Nellie,' I remonstrated, somewhat
startled, 'I wish you had ndt spoken in that way
in the presence of Baby.' But Baby, perhaps in
defense of his beloved nurse, or was it desire to
answer the great question, piped out, 'God made
herself.' To be sure we were amused and sur-
prised, but can you doubt that I was indeed happy
to know that at his tender age he had begun to
realize the power of God?"
"Out of the mouths of babes come wondrous
truths," I answered. "If we could but hear them,
or hearing them, deal with our children in
accordance with the grand simplicity of their
receptive minds."
"Muvvcr," one baby lisped, "when you came
up to Heaven how did j'ou know to pick me out?"
Another little boy whom I knew intimately,
like most children, thrived on rhyme and fairy-
stories, taking great delight in hearing them told
and retold, even incorporating them in his own
conduct and experience.
"A big liear came in my garden and played
with me to-day," he said.
"You dear little boy, are you sure ?" I asked.
"Well, not to-day, but when I were a lady he
did."
From the age of three until after his sixth
birthday, the child's frequent use of that expres-
sion caused much wonderment, and although at
times we were sorely puzzled, we never once
questioned that his words, "When I were a
lady," indicated certain unusual or imagined ex-
perience.
But one day we told him how Adam and Eve
were sent from the Garden of Eden, and that
while an angel guarded the tree of life he showed
the way that they should go.
"He," ci'ied the child in wide-eyed wonder,
"He ! Oh, I thought all angels were ladies." And
he hid his face in shame.
These little ones in their direct and simple way
arrange a world all of their own, and view that
world, to be sure, with their own eyes. To the
Jewish child all the world is Jewish, and no
effort is made or required to connect the God
idea with that of the child's Jewish origin; for
they seem to be inextricably interwoven.
"This thing happened simply of itself.
Just as the night is created when the day goes."
Like a chameleon, he takes the color of his sur-
roundings : now he is the bird in the song, hop-
ping, flying, singing praises to his God on high;
now a fairy, or a lion, or a giant. To-day he is
Noah leading the animals into the ark. Some-
times the animals are naughty and will not walk
in a straight line. Or he may be Jacob sleeping
in the desert on his pillow of stone. Oh, the
wonderful ladder reaching from earth to Heaven
with the beautiful fairy angels on it ! He would
like to play with them.
His mother has told him the story with a sense
of loving ownership, even as it was told to her.
Father also paints the heroes of Israel in glowing
colors. Does he never weary of relating the
battle between David and Goliath — the victory
of Israel over the Philistines? Or the story of
Moses as he led the children of Israel over dry
land in the midst of the Red Sea?
"Jew," "Israel," "God !" These are familiar
words to the Jewish child, words heightened and
colored by love, pride, and a subtle sense of be-
longing.^
God is near. He loves good little boys and
girls, and Jewish boys and girls should try to be
good, try to obey Father and Mother, to love
Brother and Sister, to be gentle in their speech,
to permit their friends to share their toys, to be
kind to animals ; in fact, to endeavor to please
God in every way. He loves all children, for
thev 'belong to Him. All the world belongs to
God.
The Jewish Home Is a Shrine
With such impressions promptly registering
themselves, a Jewish consciousness is slowly but
surely developing in the child mind, and the little
one, with implicit faith in the words and acts
of his beloved parents, takes much for granted.
Then, too, in their religious life the members
of a Jewish family act in unison, even the little
one soon rejoices in the fact that he is a part of
the whole.
Seated with the family at meals, he hears his
father day after day utter the words, "Blessed
art Thou, O Lord our God, King of the Uni-
verse, who causest the earth to yield food for all."
Words, mere words, are they for several years,
yet so frequently was he wont to hear them, that
they become a needful accompaniment to every
meal, and as time goes on, their meaning is en-
graved upon his heart.
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Is not this home the child's first shrine, the
first akar where, with Father and Mother, he
may worship ? He, too, holds communion with
God ; for in the evening, as the mother tenderly
folds him to rest with loving words and quieting
thoughts, he feels a beautiful something within
him and is encouraged in his desire to speak to
God. This is one child's first prayer : "Dear
God, I love you, and I love my Daddy and my
Mamma. Good-night."
The Mother Talks with Her Little Ones
And now, in the daily contact with her child,
through means of his duties and his play, his
pets and toys, the morning strolls, the loveliness
of Nature, through the beauty of favorite stories,
of pictures and verses, and countless other golden
opportunities, through every benign and beauti-
ful influence which environs him, the thoughtful
mother attempts to satisfy the yearning, out-
reaching tendency of his child nature.
She speaks to him of the goodness of God.
No, we can not see God's face, but we know Him
through His love and kindness. Because God
is kind, mother is kind. Because mother loves
her little boy she does everything in her power
for his good. "I love you, Mother," the child
exclairrrs again and again, and in her wisdom she
tries to have him translate that declaration into
action and conduct, for love must be meaningful.
And when we tell God that we love Him, we
must show our love by our deeds ; we must do
our very best for Him; because He cares for us
and watches over us day and night.
"By slow degrees, by more and more" these
thoughts are given to the child, until he is ready
and eager for this simple prayer :
"I thank Thee, O God, for the blessings of this
day. Thou art my Shepherd ; I shall not want.
Thou dost neither sleep nor slumber, and wilt pro-
tect me all the night. In peace I lay me down to
sleep. Bless my home and all who are dear to me.
Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one.
I am in thy care, O God, when I sleep and when I
wake. Amen."
The Sabbath in the Jewish Home
Every pious Jewisli family hails with delight
the celebration of the Sabbath, and the very
young children, too, are impressed by this day,
if only in respect to its unlikeness to other days;
for the ways of the household are changed. All
activity has ceased, even the "man-servant and
the maid-servant" do no work. All is festive in
appearance and in holiday attire, and though
peace and quiet prevail, the children are happy
and expectant.
On Friday, preceding the evening meal, the
Sabbath is ushered in with a religious service called
the Kiddush, or sanctification. The ceremony is
begun by the kindling of the Sabbath lights and
by a fervent prayer to God that the home may
be consecrated by His light, which signifies love
and truth, peace and good-w'ill. The Sabbath is
welcomed as a messenger of joy and praise, and
while workday thoughts are put aside, a calm,
serene spirit of divine love hovers over all.
In praise of the good housewife and mother,
the father of the family reads from the thirty-
first chapter of the Book of Proverbs that glori-
ous tribute to the good woman "whose price is
far above rubies, in whom the heart of her hus-
band trusteth : who bringeth her bread from afar
and riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth
food to her household. Give her of the fruit of
her hands and let her works praise her in the
gates." The father now lifts the cup of wine
as a symbol of joy, and renders thanks to his
God for the blessings of the past week, for life
and tlie light of love, for home and friendship,
for strength to work and for the Sabbath day
of rest. With these thoughts the cup of wine is
passed around the table and each one in turn
drinks from it. Then they partake of bread
dipped in salt. The beautiful service concludes
as the father lays his hand upon the head of
each child in silent blessing.
At the meal good cheer abounds, each en-
deavoring to please the other, and all waiting and
attending on the guest in their midst.
To suggest that the little child participates in
these ceremonies with more than vague, unformed
impressions were indeed error; for only as the
words and acts and symbols touch him in his
association of ideas, in his daily experience, in
his environment, can they come to be a part of
his thought and feeling, and in time this comes
to pass — a knowledge and feeling of Judaism,
which is a vital thing throughout the years.
Often, indeed, we have heard men in their old
age declare that from the dim past they ever see
the glimmer of the Sahbath lights, and feel the
touch of their father's hand in blessing upon their
head.
The Jewish Passover
Not only is the Sabbath day thus set aside for
worship and prayer, but there are many appointed
days of the year when the members of the family
are united by the bonds of worship and of love,
days devoted to thanksgiving and praise to God,
to quiet enjojTnent and to acts of charity and
kindness.
Especially does the great Feast of Passover
appeal to the children. It is unique. It gives full
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play to all the poetry and heroism of their nature.
How wonderful is the unleavened bread which
they eat and the thoughts it calls to their minds I
There is the little baby alone among the bul-
rushes ! Will no one ever come to the rescue ?
What joy they feel when his own mother clasps
him in her arms ! And then to think of his life
in the palace with the Egyptian princess. Was
it a fairy palace? But on learning more of
Egypt and her cruelty to the children of Israel,
their hearts are filled with pity.
The scene changes, and Moses, their hero, is
a shepherd in the land of Midian. How tenderly
he carries the little lamb back to the flock. And
then the strange beauty of the burning bush,
out of which sounds the voice of God !
For many years the bush is a real bush and
the voice a real voice, just as they should be:
nor does aught of their divine power pass from
them when the Jew comes to feel that the fire
is a fire of holy purpose to save and to serve, and
similarly that the beautiful ceremonials of the
Passover are but object lessons used to tell of
God's mercy and providence, of the return of
Spring, the urge of new life, the birth of free-
dom and liberty.
As the week of the Passover approaches, the
inmates of the home of the pious orthodox Jew
industriously prepare for its coming. All leaven
must be removed and special china and utensils
for cookery brought out. Each child in the fam-
ily proffers his help, with a kindness persistent
though impeding.
Passover eve arrives, the evening which ushers
in the feast of Unleavened Bread, ever observed
as a memorial of God's deliverance of the Israel-
ites from Egyptian bondage. This festival of
Freedom is celebrated by a beautiful and impres-
sive home ceremonial called the Seder service,
one in which the child participates with real joy.
The Seder forms a bond of union not only among
the members of one family, but between every
Jew and his brother Jew throughout the world,
for do not its prayers, its songs, and its tradi-
tions tell of joys and sorrows common to all
Israel?
On this night of the feast, the head of the
household, or one invited to act for him, con-
ducts the service, reading in both Hebrew and the
vernacular.
The table presents an unusual appearance, for
not only is it in holiday dress, with flowers,
sparkling glass and silver, but upon it appear the
articles peculiar to the Seder. There are pieces
of unleavened bread, or matcaJi, as it is called,
a roasted bone of lamb, an egg, also roasted, a
dish of bitter herbs (horseradish), some parsley
or watercress, wine (an unfermented concoction
of raisins), and charoscth, a mixture of minced
almonds, apples, and raisins.
"With song and praise, and with the beautiful
symbols of our feast, let us renew the memories
of our wonderful past, and take to heart its
stirring lessons," says the father. They drink
of the festive cup and sing their songs of glad-
ness.
All are given a bit of parsley or watercress,
and they partake of it saying, "Blessed art Thou,
O Lord, Creator of the fruit of the earth."
The reader raises the plate of unleavened
bread: "Lo, this is the Bread of Affliction, and
though God's providence has freed us, may we
ever be mindful of those who are not free, and
endeavor to aid all who are oppressed. Let those
who are hungry come and eat, those who are
poor, share with us our Passover."
It was written, "And thou shalt tell thy son in
that day," therefore the Seder Service includes
an explanation to the children of the festival and
its celebration.
The Explanation to the Children
"Why is this night different from all other
nights?" asks the young child, as he views the
strange objects on the table.
"This night is God's watch-night over the
children of Israel. He watched over our fore-
fathers in Egypt and delivered them from slavery.
He guards us continually, and to-night we praise
and thank Him for His protecting care. He was
our Redeemer and Deliverer, so that we may be
His messengers unto all the peoples of the earth."
"What is the meaning of the Pesach?" another
child inquires, and he is told that the word signi-
fies Passover: that God passed over and spared
the House of Israel not only in dark Egypt, but
again and again has He saved His people from
destruction.
"And the lamb bone?" calls out another.
"Ah, the Paschal Lamb reminds us of God's
command to Moses to sacrifice a lamb before the
departure from Egypt. The lamb was sacred to
the Egyptians, and when the Israelites obeyed
the words of Moses, they struck the blow for
freedom."
"What is the meaning of the unleavened
bread?"
"The matzah, or bread of affliction, is the sym-
bol of divine help. When our ancestors were
driven from Egypt and forced to depart in haste,
they carried no food but the unleavened dough
in their kneading troughs. They did not starve,
however, for this dough dried into unleavened
bread. Seven days -we. eat of the unleavened
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bread as a sign of God's loving care and of His
power to save.
"The salt water, the bitter herbs, and tlie
charoscth — all are tokens of the hardships en-
dured by the Israelites before their deliverance."
"But the charoscth is sweet," the children say,
and to their minds no hardship, until they are
informed that its appearance suggests the clay
and bits of straw used in the making of bricks
by our forefathers when they toiled in Egypt.
"And the egg?"
"The egg speaks of life and faith in immortal
life."
Fun at Passover Time
At the conclusion of the first part of the ser-
vice, the table is laid and a delicious meal is
served, which is welcomed and keenly relished
by all, for has not the appetite been whetted by
waiting, and has not the wife and mother devoted
much time, thought, and effort to its preparation?
Psalms, poems, quaint folk-songs, and refrains
intersperse the entire service. What a lilt has
this old nursery rhyme:
CHAD GADYA (A KID, A KID)
"A kid, a kid, my father bought
For two pieces of money —
A kid, a kid.
"Then came the cat and ate the kid
That my father bought
For two pieces of money.
Then came the dog and bit the cat.
That ate the kid.
That my father bought,
For two pieces of money, etc.
"Then came the Holy One. blessed be He, and
killed the Angel of Death,
That killed the butcher.
That slew the o.x,
That drank the water.
That quenched the fire,
That burned the staff,
That beat the dog,
Tliat bit the cat.
That ate the kid.
That my father bought
For two pieces of money."
"It is just like 'The House that Jack Built.' or
'The Old Woman and Her Pig,' " whisper the
children, one to the other, as with friendly recog-
nition they join in the refrain.
These young commentators are in agreement
with the learned ones who designate it a Jewish
nursery rhyme modeled after an old French song.
Other there are who affirm it to be a legend show-
ing how Israel (the one only kid) was oppressed
by the other nations of the ancient world, and
how the Holy One came to his rescue.
I shall quote in part from another folk-song
which is written in riddle form. The riddle, as
undoubtedly many recall, was employed as a
means of entertainment at the table of Jewish
families. This song shares popularity with the
"Chad Gadya."
"Who knows One?
I know One —
One is the God of the World.
"Who knows Two?
I know Two —
Two are the Tables of the Covenant.
Two Tables of the Covenant —
One God of the World."
This form is continued through the number
thirteen. It is considered appropriate for the
Seder, as it lays stress upon the fundamental
truth in Judaism, "God is One."
"Who knows Thirteen?
I know Thirteen —
There are Thirteen Attributes of God (Ex 34:6, 7)
Thirteen .Attributes ;
Twelve Tribes ;
Eleven Stars (Joseph's Dream) ;
Ten Commandments ;
Nine Festivals ;
Eight Lights of Hanukah;
Seven days of the week;
Six days of Creation;
Five Books of Moses ;
Four Mothers of Israel;
Three Patriarchs ;
Two Tables of the Covenant —
One God of the World."
"And it Came to Pass at Midnight" is the name
of a hymn recounting instances of divine deliver-
ance from the early days of Abraham to the
great deliverance in the future. The poet Heine
found inspiration in this song:
"Unto God let praise be brought
For the wonders He hath wrought
(Response) At the solemn hour of midnight.
"All the Earth was sunk in night
When God said, 'Let there be light'
(Response) Thus the day was formed from mid-
night.
"To the Patriarch God revealed
The true faith so long concealed
(Response) By the darkness of the midnight.
"But this truth was long obscured
By the slavery endured
(Response) In the black Egyptian midnight,"
etc.
The meal concludes with a bit of pleasantry.
One-half of a bit of matcah. which has been re-
served for the Aphikomon, a Greek word mean-
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ing "after-meal," or dessert, has been slyly drawn
away by one of the children and concealed from
view, the reader all the while feigning ignorance.
Finally, he notes the loss, and not until he prom-
ises a gift, however trifling, does the offender
bring forth the missing cake. "A game of paying
forfeits," you will say.
In this brief account of the Seder service much
has been omitted, but the Jewish child is sure
to cry out, "Remember Elijah !" Many years
will elapse before he can understand that Elijah,
the prophet, the hero of the Passover, represents
the protector of the home, the lover of parents
and children, the messenger of redemption ; but
for the present he awaits the taking of the fourth
cup of wine, and the opening of the door by his
brother. Yes, when he is older, perhaps, he may
be allowed to rise and open the door with the
hope that Elijah may come in. Should a stranger
or a friend enter the room at that time, it is
needless to say that his place at the table awaits
him and that he is most hospitably received.
Little wonder that many a poem has been in-
spired, many a beautiful tale told, because the
door of hope, of love, of religious fervor, is
opened to freedom and to justice that April night.
The Passover ! It is a joyful feast, a week
devoted to memories of the past, praise and
thanksgiving for the present and for the future.
Each day does the house resound with songs,
hymns or psalms :
"O, give thanks unto the Lord, for He is good;
For His mercy endureth forever,"
or this festival-song with its stirring traditional
air:
"God of might, God of right.
Thee we give all glory ;
Thine all praise in these days
As in ages hoary.
When we hear, year by year.
Freedom's wondrous story."
All this the little one receives, and were an
observer to discover an added sense in the Jewish
child, he would find that one to be the sense of
religion.
The Jewish Harvest Festival
In the religious e.xperience of the Jews, history
and Nature unite to form the background of the
great festivals. Just as the Passover developed
from the commemoration of the exodus from
Egypt, and the ripening of the early barley crop
in the land of Canaan into a festival of freedom
and of springtime, so a reminder of the years
when the children of Israel dwelt in booths in
the wilderness, together with gratitude for the
latter harvest in the conquered land, gave rise
to the Feast of Tabernacles, Feast of the In-
gathering, a festival of Autumn.
Can we doubt that the little child glows with
interest and pleasure when, in celebration of
these events, he may spend some time each day
with his dear ones in a leafy arbor or booth
(sHccah), which is erected as an adjoining room
to their home? In this frail structure with its
partly open roof the people of the household
take their meals, study, and receive their friends.
Here, with song and prayer, they give thanks
to God for His wondrous providence. How
supremely happy the little one feels to sit in this
bower of green, red, and yellow leaves, with
clusters of grapes and shining apples here and
there ! Upon seeing the dark sky and twinkling
stars through the roof he asks, "Are the holes
in the top so God can hear our prayers better?"
Some day a thousand meanings for this leafy
tent will come to him: his own frailty, his de-
pendence upon God, the openness that life should
spell, the open hand, the open heart, the open
mind, the upward look, the reverent dismantling
of the structure with a fervent desire to move on
and on, to follow the "cloud by day and the fire
by night." But now he needs to know only that
the loving Father has blessed him with all good
things, and that he in turn should be helpful
and kind to others.
"Little hands be free in giving,
Little hearts be glad to serve,"
thus is he taught to sing in gratitude to Him
"whose kindness endureth forever."
We have seen that though we are concerned
with the commemoration of very significant
events, their observance never fails to create a
place for the little child. "Thou shalt teach them
diligently unto thy children," uttered back in the
dim ages, still sounds a clear, insistent note in
the hearts and homes of Israel's people ; so we
dare to hope that the celebration of the Sabbath,
the Passover, the Feast of Booths, leaves a
marked effect upon the character of our children,
and that Hanukah, a feast of "mirth and joy,"
holds a high place in their hearts.
The Feast of Lights
What is the meaning of Hanukah. do you ask?
It is the feast of Dedication and of Light.
Dedication, because it commemorates the victory
of the Hasmoneans over the Syrians, and a re-
dedication of the Temple at Jerusalem (165 b.c.)
by Judah Maccabee, that brave warrior and loyal
Jew; a feast of Light because of a tradition
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347
surrounding the conquering hero, although, like
Christmas and the Brumalia of the Romans, and
the Yule-tide feast of the Norse people, it had
its origin in Nature as a feast of the winter
solstice; as it were, a feast of the birth of light.
The elements of Nature, histery, and tradition,
like strands of brilliant colors, are woven into a
design of surpassing beauty, and we have Hanu-
kah, the Festival of Lights, different from the
other days, as the events which it commemorates
happened later than those recorded in the Bible.
They are told in the Apocrypha in the first and
second books of the Maccabees.
The little child knows nothing of the origin,
the history, or the literature connected with this
holiday; but the story, the lights, the songs and
the games, these he finds a never-ending source
of joy.
While the young, eager faces are upturned to
hers. Mother tells the story very simply, how the
Syrians (Greeks) through their cruel king. Anti-
ochus Epiphanes, tried to force their idol wor-
ship upon the Jews. But the people of Israel,
faithful to God. held true to the religion of their
fathers. She tells them of the good old man,
Mattathias, who, with his five ibrave sons, raised
a small army and went out to battle against the
enemy ; and that when his strength left him, he
bade his sons fight on and conquer. '"As for
Judah Maccabee, he hath been mighty and strong
even from his youth up; let him be j'our captain
and fight the battle of the people," he said.
They put themselves in God's care, inscribing
upon their banner, "Who, O Lord, is like unto
Thee among the mighty?" and Judah led them
and gave them courage to strike for their religion
and their land. After three years of war he led
them into their beloved city and their Temple
at Jerusalem.
"Oh, they must have been happy," said one
of the children. "What did they do then?" asked
our little one.
"Of course," continues the mother, "they wished
to enter the Temple and worship, to thank God
for His help and protection, but to their sorrow
the holy place was deserted and the altar pro-
faned. Why. they found the gates burnt up and
shrubs growing in the courts as in a forest.
How sad the people were ! 'They rent their
clothes and wept aloud.'
"But Judah gave, them hope and courage.
While some of the men at his command were
building a new altar others were intent upon
cleansing the sanctuary. At last all was purified.
The grateful people were eager to re-dedicate
God's house. But where was the oil for the
sacred lamp?
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"Someone has said that after long searching
a little boy found a tiny cruse of oil and witli
great joy gave it to the hero, to Judah, to the
tall, strong, fine, brave, loving Judah."
"I wish I was that little boy."
"You may be, dear. When you are older you
will understand.
"When the oil was poured into the lamp, it
was feared that there was not enough for one
day's use, but wonder of wonders ! the light con-
tinued to burn for eight days. These were the
days of re-dedication, and so in memory of them
and of God's wondrous power to help those who
trust in Him, we burn the Hamtkah lights in our
home for eight successive nights. Do you re-
member, children, one candle the first night, two
the second night, until, on the eighth evening,
eight lovely tapers are burning?
" 'Kindle the taper like the steadfast star
Ablaze on evening's forehead o'er the earth.
And add each night a luster, till afar
An eight-fold splendor shine above the hearth.' "
"Don't forget the Shammus, Mother."
"What is the Shammus?" asks the littlest boy.
"Mother will tell you, dear. The Shammus is
the taper which kindles all the others. It is the
'Servant of the Lights.' We say it is Israel carry-
ing God's word to all the people in the world."
"I like the Shammus, Mother."
"I am happy to know that. Remember the
little boy who found the cruse of oil.
"Children, are you sure that you know the old,
old Hattukah song?"
They begin to sing:
"Rock of Ages, let our song
Praise Thy saving power," etc.
Then the older children talk about the Hanukah
play to be given at the synagogue, and of the
beautiful pageant of lights that will be shown,
where "Light," a lovely girl, will represent the
light of day, of the stars, of love, of truth and
righteousness, the light of knowledge, of the
home, of charity, patriotism, law, and lastly,
Israel, or the light of faith.
And besides, their kind mother is preparing
a splendid entertainment for them, a real Hanu-
kah party, to which they may invite their friends.
She will teach them some of the old games like
trcndclc, that funny little square top with a
letter on each side.
Does our little one understand all that he sees
and hears ? We know that he does not ; but we
conclude that the joy, the mystery, and the poetry
of the events of his religious year creep into
tlie young heart and mind, and there slowly but
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surely form an armor of pride in race, a true in the little one the impressions begun in the
Jewish consciousness. home ? The mother will yield her treasure to
Soon the parents will place their little boy in the school, hoping that the foundation for the
the Religious School, and the kindergartner may love of Judaism has been well laid, and that her
attempt to share that sweet fellowship which has boy may grow "from strength to strength" under
so closely linked mother and child. Will hers tlie guidance of those dedicated to the sacred
be a sympathetic understanding? Will she deepen task.
The reason a teacher who understands little children occa-
sionally suggests a use of crayon and blackboard or paper is
not alone to vary monotony and thus reawaken interest, but
to afford fingers the opportunity of which lips often are
incapable. For self-expression is such a necessary part of
a child's development, and the vocabulary is so limited and
words so difficult for shy lips to form, that the problem is
frequently solved by handwork. The blue blur is the flower
which makes the child glad, the straight mark the stick which
David used to protect his sheep, the tiny dots the crumbs
with which the child fed the birds, the yellow crosses God's
stars that keep watch when a child sleeps, the green marks
God's carpet for the earth, on which his beasts feed.
"Find all the pictures of kind people," says the teacher,
and the children show what impression of kindness they
have received by touching the Good Shepherd, the good
Samaritan, and possibly the mother in the Sistine Madonna.
"Touch pictures of creatures and things the Heavenly
Father takes care of," she suggests again, and the children
pick out animal and bird and flower pictures, and even
discover these things as details of Bible story pictures.
"I wonder who can find me a picture about the verse,
'Let us love one another,' " she asks, and the pictures illus-
trating helpful love are chosen.
The crirx of the whole matter is this — to develop, not
inform: to draw out, not pour in: and thus give to the child
his opportunity to grow naturally.
— Frances W. Danielson.
FIFTH YEAR
PLAYS AND GAMES FOR THE FIFTH YEAR
LUELLA A. PALMER
The plays of a four-year-old child begin to be
recognized as leading toward games with certain
rules. He is still so immature that he can not
understand any but the very simplest checks to
his free play.
Sense-Plays
Hide the Ball. As a development of the earlier
hiding games, let a child cover his eyes while
someone places a brightly colored ball in some
spot where it is inconspicuous, but not entirely
out of sight. Increase the difficulty of the game
by hiding smaller objects or those of a more
neutral color in more obscure places.
Pictures. Letting a child tell all that he sees
in a picture is good training in observation.
Beads. Boxes of wooden beads, called Hail-
mann beads, of the six prismatic colors and in
three forms — ball, cube, and cylinder — can be
purchased at any kindergarten supply-store.
These can be used for the early color and form
discrimination. After the child has sorted them
and built objects with the different colors and
shapes, they may be strung upon a shoelace.
The stringing of beads is good practice for
the development of the hand. After the first
delight in making a chain for the neck, the beads
lend themselves to combinations which may in-
crease in difficulty. ( i ) The first stringing will
probably be without discrimination of either form
or color. (2) Later the same forms might be
strung together, as all balls, all cubes, all cylin-
ders. (3) All of a certain color might be strung.
(At first, in all probability, red and orange will
be confused, and blue and purple, but color dis-
crimination grows with age.) (4) All balls of
one color, then cubes, then cylinders. Repeat
with other colors. (5) One ball, one cube, one
cylinder, of one color. Repeat with other colors.
(6) Alternating colors all of one form, as one
red ball, one blue ball. (7) Two of same form,
alternating colors, as two blue balls, two yellow
balls. (8) Three of same form, two colors. (9)
Two of each of three different colors, as two red
balls, two yellow, two blue. (10) String balls
in prismatic order. (11) String one ball, one cube,
one cylinder of red, and so on, in prismatic
order. (12) Three of one color and two of an-
other. Children may vary the work of different
chains hy choosing different combinations of
color, using different number combinations, and
stringing the forms in different order.
Difference of Sound. Have several resonant
substances within reach, such as wood, tin, glass.
Strike one of these while a child has his eyes
closed. Let him guess which object was struck.
Increase the number of substances to be dis-
tinguished.
Matching. Partly fill boxes of the same shape,
such as small baking-powder cans, with stones,
shells, beans, canary seeds, etc. Have at least
two of each kind. Let the child shake them and
put in pairs those with similar sound. Let him
test by opening the boxes. Dr. Montessori sug-
gests this type of educative play.
Chin Chopper. Have pieces of apple, pear,
and peach or orange, grapefruit, and lemon. Let
the child close his eyes, then chant:
"Chin chopper, chin chopper, chin chopper chin,
Open your mouth and I'll drop in."
As the words are repeated, the child who stands
with closed eyes opens bis mouth and tastes what
is placed there, then tries to guess what it is.
Movement-Plays
During the fifth year the child makes for him-
self more difficult tests with regard to his con-
trol over balance and various ways of moving.
He hops on one foot, or walks along a crack
in the pavement, or jumps down steps. He skips
at first with one foot and later with two.
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Always encourage a rhythmic repetition of
the exercise.
Tap toes standing; sitting.
Tap heels standing; sitting.
Tap toes together.
Tap heels together.
Fiody up and down on tiptoes.
Walk on line.
Run, on tiptoe.
Skip on one foot.
Hop on two feet, like birds.
Jump down step, land on toes.
Walk on tiptoe, like a fairy.
Body down; up, jumping on toes.
Body bend sideways at waist,, like seesaw.
Knees up when .walking, like high-stepping
horses.
Arms outstretched, fly like birds.
Arms up and down, t)ack and front, twirl.
Hands clap loud ; soft.
Body with arms up, sway like trees in wind.
Ball Plays
In the plays with the ball this year a child
tries to toss and bounce so that he may catch it.
He likes to have an adult play with him because
their aim is accurate and he has a good chance
of success. If several children are playing .to-
gether, they enjoy having the adult toss or
bounce the ball so that any child may catch it
who can.
A child of this age likes to roll a ball back
and forth with a playmate. If there are several
children they like to keep two or more balls roll-
ing at the same time.
Dramatic Plays
The child of four still draws the most of his
material for dramatic interpretation from the
home, but he adds to this the familiar street
occupations seen from his window or doorstep
and also the activity which made a vivid im-
pression when he went on a trip to the zoo or
the beach. From this he will arrange a short plot
and act it out, supplying the details with words.
"I'm making a house. I can make a house. I'm
a carpenter. Here's the door and here's the win-
dow." Then probably the part played by the
four-year-old will change suddenly and he will
say: "This is my house. Come to see me." So
he goes through the day, taking first one charac-
ter and then another, but always playing the
leading part.
Help the child to weave more and more of the
ideas together like incidents in a story. On an
imaginary visit to the park, a child could walk
around the room or garden, step upon the car
(chair or stool), pay his fare, wait for Fifty-
ninth Street, jump off the car, walk to the park,
feed the squirrels, throw bread to the fish, jump
the rope, run lightly on the grass, watch the
birds, and take the trip home again.
The following topics are suggested as pos-
sible subjects for connected dramatic play:
A trip to the seashore.
A walk through the woods.
Frogs and fishes in the pond.
Birds nesting and rearing brood.
The crawling caterpillar going to sleep and
evolving into the fluttering moth.
Playing in the snow.
A visit to a mechanical toyshop and imitation of
the various toys.
Santa Claus' ride and leaving of gifts.
A trip to the zoo.
The circus.
Different trades (as shoemaker, blacksmith, car-
penter).
House-cleaning.
Trees in a storm.
May party.
Picnic.
Plays that are "originated" by all children are
horse, house, train, boat, bird, carpenter, post-
man, policeman, blacksmith, fireman. The child
of four will wish to be engine, engineer, pas-
senger, and whistle, all himself.
The game of "The Sparrows" is much enjoyed
by city children. After a shower they will often
stand at the window and watch the delight of the
sparrows as they splash in the cool water. A sug-
gestion or question at such a time will lead to
spontaneous dramatization.
"See the little sparrows come
Out from under cover
To the water in the street,
Gayly hopping over;
"Now they hop and now they fly.
Huddling in together.
Chasing, chafiSng, chirping gay.
They mind not any weather.
"Now just see — away they fly
Chirping all together.
Now just see — away they fly
Chirping all together."
Actions should accompany the words of the
song and be as good imitations of the sparrows
as the children are able to make.
Simple rhymes can be interpreted dramatically
in the fifth year.
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and the child jumps over it as the words are
repeated. Always let the children choose what
they wish for stage properties. Adults are usu-
ally too realistic.
Jack and Jill. — Two children, one carrying a
pail, take hold of hands and pretend to walk
uphill. At the proper time Jack falls down and
places his hand on his "crown," and then Jill
tumbles headlong, too.
Little Miss Mnffct. — One child sits in a chair,
pretending to eat from a bowl. Another child
creeps up behind her like a spider and "sits down
beside" the chair while Miss Muffet drops her
bowl in her fright and runs away.
Other rhymes much enjoyed at this age are
"Jack Horner," "Tommy Tucker," and "A Little
Boy went into a Barn."
Finger-Plays
A BEDTIME STORY
"This little boy is going to bed;
(First finger of right hand in f'alm nf left)
Down on the pillow he lays his head ;
(Thumb of left hand is pillow)
Wraps himself in the covers tight —
(Fingers of left hand closed)
This is the way he sleeps all night.
Morning comes, he opens his eyes ;
Back with a toss the cover flies ;
(Fingers of left hand open)
Up he jumps, is dressed and away,
(Right index finger up and hopping aivay)
Ready for frolic and play all day."
THE SOLDIERS
"Brave little soldiers, march for me.
Swift little soldiers, run for me.
Stout little soldiers, jump for me."
THE FINGERS
"Ten little men all in a room ;
Ten little men to market go.
Thumbkins go to buy some meat;
Pointers go to buy some wheat;
"Tall men go to carry back
The great big bundles in a sack;
Ring men go to buy some silk;
Babies go to buy some milk."
The play can be repeated, using the first finger
of the left hand for "This little girl."
Social Plays
Yankee Doodle. — To this tune children sing:
"Yankee Doodle is in town,
Tra, la, la, la, la, la.
"First it's up and then it's down,
Tra, la, la, la, la, la."
At the first word one child makes some mo-
tion with hands or feet, such as waving hands
or stamping feet, and the other children imitate.
To the Wall. — Two or more children stand in
a straight row opposite a wall. The first child
goes to the wall and back, hopping, shaking his
head, or making some similar motion. The other
children imitate him. The second child then has
a turn to show how to go, etc.
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Looby Loo (simplified). — Form in a circle, but omit the circle dance at the end of each stanza; four-
year-old children can not control themselves enough to hold hands while moving swiftly. Sing:
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I will put my other hand in, etc.
Then "two hands," "one foot," "other foot,"' "two feet," "one head," "whole self." End each stanza
with "Here we clap [shake or skip], looby, loo," etc.
Tlic IJ'liccl. — All the children join hands and circle around, singing:
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Turn - ing, turn - ing, turn - ing, turn - ing. This is the way the wheel goes round.
This game can be developed further in several ways: by choosing one child to stand in center for
hub ; by reversing the motion of the circle, saying, "Whoa ! back !" by dividing into two and, later,
into four wheels, each with its hub ; by forming concentric rings.
The Carpenter. — Almost any activity with which the children are familiar will fit into the follow-
ing rhythm :
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"The carpenter is sawing, sawing, sawing.
The carpenter is sawing, sawing boards to-day.
The carpenter is hammering, etc.
The carpenter is planing, etc."
End with,
". . . making a house to-day."
All the children while singing imitate the action
indicated.
Spring Game. — Any gardening activity which
the children suggest, such as planting, weeding,
digging, may be dramatized and acted out to the
following rhythm :
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bed.
Dancing Song* — Little children should make up their own steps to the melody, either prancing on
tiptoe or sliding or whirling. Perhaps some of the older children will suggest clapping to the first,
second, fourth, and fifth bars and whirling in the third and sixth.
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Waltz time.
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Let him be a lover of wind and sun
And of faUing rain; and the friend of trees;
With a singing heart for the pride of noon.
And a tender heart for what twihght sees.
—Ethel Clifford: "The Child:
SELF-MAKING *
BY
SUSAN E. BLOW
"To give a child a conception, instead of inducing him to find it, is a zvicl^ed act." — Pestalozzi.
"Let it lie," the vigorous youngster exclaims to
his father, who is about to roll a piece of wood
out of the boy's way; "let it lie; I can get over
it." With difficulty, indeed, the boy gets over
it the first time, but he has accomplished the
feat by his own strength. Strength and courage
have grown in him. He returns, gets over the
obstacle a second time, and soon he learns to
clear it easily. If activity brought joy to the
child, work now gives delight to the boy. Hence,
the daring and venturesome feats of boyhood,
the exploration of caves and ravines, the climb-
ing of trees and mountains, the searching of the
heights and depths, the roaming through fields
and forests.
The most difficult thing seems easy, the most
daring thing seems without danger to him, for his
promptings come from his innermost heart and
will.
I well know how hard it is to resist the fear
which deters us from giving children occasion
to cope with difficulties, conquer obstacles, con-
front reasonable perils. Yet I also know that
if you wish to develop Harold's strength and
manliness you must be ready to let him do and
dare. Now is it less true that if, as he grows
older, you wish to develop his intellect you must
avoid making the path of knowledge too smooth,
broad, and easy, and if you wish to develop his
moral energy you must permit him to grapple
with moral problems.
I should not express myself so strongly on this
point were I not sure that hundreds of children
are ruined because enough is not expected of
them. The keener your realization of this peril,
the more earnestly will you incite your infant
Hercules to strangle while still in his cradle the
twin serpents of sloth and selfishness. In your
efforts to incite and discipline his energies you
mu.st, however, be careful to keep a just balance
between his strength and the obstacles you ask
him to overcome. Will may be paralyzed as
well as dissipated, and through the failures born
of attempts to grapple with overwhelming diffi-
culties the child may be made moody and coward-
ly. Moreover, his affections are repelled from
* From "Letters to Mothers on the Philosophy of Froehel,'
D. Appleton & Company, New York.
the mother or teacher who asks of him what even
with his best effort he can not do, while conversely
the impetuous currents of his love flow freely
toward all those who procure for him that ela-
tion of spirit which is the fine flower of success-
ful achievement. Finally, it is from many small
successes that he wins courage and modesty.
Becoming accustomed to strife and victory, he
learns just what he may venture to attempt, and
in the end grows capable of that "reasoned
rashness" which all great emergencies demand
and all great successes imply.
By many persons Froebel is supposed to be the
avowed champion of two very popular, very
plausible, but very dangerous educational heresies,
against which his whole system is a protest. One
of these heresies has been called sugar-plum
education, the other has been fitly baptized flower-
pot education. Sugar-plum education in its moral
aspect means coaxing, cajolery, and bribery; in
its intellectual aspects it is the parent of that
specious and misleading maxim that the chief
aim of the educator is to interest the child. Like
the theory which wrecks happiness by making
it the aim of life, the effort to win interest re-
sults in methods which kill interest. The end of
life is not happiness, but goodness; the aim of
education is not to interest the child, but to incite
and guide his self-activity. Seeking goodness we
win happiness; inciting self-activity we quicken
interest. Please say to Helen that unless she
wishes her kindergarten to be a wretched parody
of Froebel's ideal she will say to herself, "I must
get and hold their attention." The kindergart-
ner who lashes herself into a dramatic frenzy
when playing the games, and talks herself hoarse
in vain attempts to interest her children in their
gifts, too often remains serenely complacent in
face of their phlegmatic indifiference to her well-
meant endeavors. Has she not done everything
to interest them? They must, she thinks, be
peculiarly unresponsive children ; or perhaps they
have been spoiled at home ! If she would pro-
pose to herself the objective test, and frankly
admit that unless she can hold attention she is
a failure, she would hit upon devices appealing
by Susan E. Blow. Used by permission of the publishers.
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more to the self-activity of the pupils. Striving
for attention, she would win interest. For true
interest can neither be seduced nor compelled;
it must be incited.
These hints will help you to understand sugar-
plum education. Now for the flower-pot. Flower-
pot education means the efforts to make the child
wise and good through the influence of an arti-
ficially perfect environment. You will take your
tender plant out of the common ground and away
from the common air and keep it safe by setting
it in a sunny window of your own room. The
struggle for life may mean something for other
plants, but you will improve on the divine method
in rearing your choice rose. Two false assump-
tions are latent in your procedure: first, the as-
sumption that character may be formed without
effort ; and second, the assumption that evil is
only outside your child, and not at all in him.
Both flower-pot and sugar-plum education are
attacks upon freedom. The former holds that
the child may be molded by environment, the
latter that his blind impulses may be played upon
by the educator. Froebel holds that he is a free
being, and therefore must be a self-making being.
Hence, v^hile sugar-plum education appeals to
the activity of the educator, and flower-pot edu-
cation to the activity of environment, Froebel
appeals first, last, and always to the self-activity
of the child.
CONSTRUCTIVE PLAY*
GRACE L. BROWN
I. The First Handicraft
There are many signs that your four-year-old
is leaving his babyhood behind, and some are
hard for you to accept, but one which appeals
to both your interest and pride is his growing
mastery over materials and tools. From being a
scribbler he is becoming a maker of pictures,
ideas coming thick and fast when he once gets
started. Cutting just for the fun of cutting, when
anything within reach, from the newspaper to
his hair, may fall a victim to scissors, gives place
to efforts to make things — a wagon or boat, a
doll's dress or bed cover.
His chief use of material up to this time has
been experimenting — playing with it — learning
what he could do with it. Now he begins to put
that knowledge to use and his crude, often gro-
tesque efforts should be encouraged, not laughed
at. This is the beginning of creative handwork,
and as such should be respected and helped on
in every way possible.
How to Help
Mother, father, and older sister and brother can
all help: their part is to supply material, give
a suggestion here and a little help there, and,
above all, the sympathetic encouragement which
all children need in their effort to think and do
for themselves. Children a little older often
know better how to help than grown-ups, for
they see more quickly the point of difficulty and
know how to suggest a remedy.
One thing in particular is fatal at this period
in the development of new interest. In your
eagerness to help, do not take the work out of
the child's hands, saying. "I'll do it for you!"
for in your desire to save him from failure —
to have a perfect product — you are denying him
the opportunity to test and develop his own
power of thought and skill, the only way to true
learning. Encourage the little worker to believe
he can do what he attempts, and nine times out
of ten he will measure up to that belief.
Another word of warning: his idea of finished
work and yours will differ widely, for he will
be perfectly satisfied at first with a slight re-
semblance to the real thing. Do not try to im-
pose your standards ; remember he is only four,
and just beginning.
Materials
Many of the most satisfactory materials are
odds and ends found around the house, such as —
wrappmg-paper
newspapers
paper bags
string
cardboard boxes
paper fasteners
paste
berry and grape baskets
cloth
clothespins
buttons
spools
milk-bottle tops
* This article is not only useful for its practical suggestions, but it is interesting as being the first published descrip-
tion of the methods that are in daily use at the kindergarten of the Horace Mann School at Teachers College, the school
which is having a more potent influence on elementary education than any other at the present time. Miss Brown is the
associate of Patty Smith Hill in the direction of this kindergarten, and prepared this paper especially for this {(Ianuai..
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In addition to these, the outdoors makes a
unique contribution of its own, varying with the
season and locality —
sand
shells
pebbles
snow
leaves
seeds
straw
flowers
Every yard where there are little children
should have a sand-pile or sand-box if possiljle,
and an old packing-case makes a wonderful play-
house because so many things can be done with it.
Clay should be included in every list of
materials. If there is a pottery anywhere near,
your source of supply is at hand. Keep the clay
in good condition, by packing together after
using, wrapping well in a heavy, wet cloth and
putting away in a small crock or covered earthen
dish. A piece of white oilcloth is an essential
to protect the table, and children should learn
to wipe it off with a damp cloth after using.
The wardrobe of every girl and boy should
include work apron or overalls of strong material,
to relieve both mother and child of anxiety and
irritation over soiled clothes.
A box or chest for materials and tools is a
real need, and the realization that there is a right
place for everything can not begin too soon.
Tools
Every child is entitled to own a few good tools.
Do not waste your money by buying toy tool-
boxes or cheap tools — get one at a time, if the
cost seems excessive, but select the best. How
can little unskilled hands accomplish anything
with tools which would be useless even in the
hands of a grown-up? ,
The tool-box of your four-year-old should
contain —
medium-size scissors — semi-sharp
No. 3 nail-hammer
flat-head wire nails — }i to 13/ in. long.
The best implements for the sand-pile are a
strong kitchen spoon, small tin dishes, tin boxes,
and a pail, while a funnel and sieve to pour the
sand through give variety.
What to Make
Boys and girls enjoy making the same things
at this a.ge.
Boxes. — A spool or candy-box becomes a wagon
by merely attaching a string, and later a more
realistic one can be made by the addition of
cardboard wheels or milk-bottle tops fastened on
with paper fasteners. Several wagons fastened
together make a train — the engine a box with
cover and a spool glued on for a smokestack.
Baskets. — Berry, grape, and small peach baskets
become beds for the doll family when fitted with
mattress and covers. The mattress can be made
of a salt or flour bag stuifed with cotton or cuj;-up
newspaper, and the covers need no hemming.
Paper. — The fascination of just cutting paper
still holds with the four-year-old, and while it
seems like a destructive tendency, he is really
learning how to handle scissors and make them
work effectively. Supply whatever paper is most
plentiful, and take care of the cuttings by filling
a bag, box, or basket, possibly using them as
suggested above.
Strips of paper, no matter how irregular, can
be pasted in rings and made into chains, and
bright colors add interest and variety.
Efforts to make furniture are helped by cut-
ting out paper dolls to sit in the chairs or lie on
the beds. These first articles of furniture are
legless and satisfy the little maker for a short
time only, then he adds funny wobbly legs, and
so the work improves, adding one detail after
another. Do not try to hurry this growth of
ideas — give them time to come gradually — nat-
urally.
Chiy. — Clay in the hands of a four-year-old
means at first patting and pounding, squeezing
and rolling, and out of it all will gradually come
things which look like little cakes or cookies,
loaves of bread and rolls, plates to put the cakes
on, and so the play begins.
Play they have a bakery, or play doll's tea-
party, making crude little cups and saucers, and
a plate of cookies or a layer cake (one cookie
on top of another). Small balls, though uneven
in shape and size, can be used for marbles, or
while moist may be strung as beads, using a darn-
ing needle and small twine. Marbles and beads
are much more attractive if gayly painted with
water-colors after the clay is dry. Every child
will discover for himself things to make, and
imagination will make up for all imperfections
in form.
Cloth. — Wrapping a piece of cloth around a
small doll and securing it with a stitch or two
or a pin, regardless of comfort or anatomy, is
the first effort of the doll's dressmaker. Save
from the scrapbasket pieces of bright cloth and
bits of ribbon and lace for this purpose, and
encourage sewing by the gift of a work-basket
fitted with needles, thread, thimble, and a pin-
cushion. A very attractive basket can be made
of a small berry basket covered with gay silk
or cretonne.
If there are no small members of the doll
family, clothespins, rolls of cloth, and even corn-
cobs make very good dolls, especially at this age,
when arms seem to play so small a part in the
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dressing. At first, wrapping the cloth around the
doll is quite satisfactory, then a hole may be cut
for the head to slip through, later the arms will
be freed in the same way, and always the sash
plays an important part.
Boys enjoy this work as well as girls, and in-
stead of being told it is girls' play should be
encouraged to try it out, for everyone should
know how to sew.
Mattress and covers for dolly's bed have al-
ready been referred to; sails can be put on the
box boats, and flags of white or colored cloth
tacked on sticks for a parade.
All the sewing will 'be very coarse and ir-
regular, usually not more than a few stitches,
and that there may be no strain, a coarse needle
and double thread should be used.
Nature Materials. — A sand-pile and a child need
no introduction ; put them together with or with-
out the proverbial shovel and pail, and play be-
gins. The same is true of snow, and the possi-
bilities range from digging and snowballs to the
snow-man and snow-fort of the older boy and
girl.
Some Nature material, such as leaves, has only
a temporary value, as it is perishable, but a great
deal can be gathered in Summer to be brought
out some wintry day in response to the oft-re-
peated appeal, "What can I do?" Gardens supply
a variety of seeds, the fields give their grasses
and straw, trees their leaves and nuts, and the
seashore a fascinating contribution of pebbles
and shells.
Encourage children to collect, or at least assist
in collecting, their own material, for it will give
them a first-hand contact with Nature, which
will be an invaluable background for future na-
ture study. For winter use, save such seeds as
pumpkin, watermelon, beans, and com, drying
them before putting away. A cupful of these
mi.xed seeds will afford much entertainment, the
children themselves finding many ways to play
with them. Where a suggestion is needed, show
how to assort in piles — black beans in one, white
beans in another, and corn in a third, or arrange
in rows, making different combinations of kind
and color. Shells and pebbles may be used in
this same way.
The love of personal adornment is very strong
in children, and the suggestion to make a neck-
lace will meet with a quick response. Seeds,
straw and grass stems, leaves and flowers, supply
the material, together with a strong, sharp needle
and spool of strong thread. If -the seeds are very
dry it may be necessary to soak them in cold
water for a while before stringing. Straw and
large hollow grass stems may be cut in lengths
of about one inch and used to alternate with
seeds, shells, berries, or flowers. Many small
shells can be made into chains, as there is almost
always a thin spot, if not a hole, which can be
pierced with the needle.
What country child has not strung the flowers
of dandelion, daisy, or clover, and been trans-
formed into a king or queen by a garland or
crown of leaves, like the maple or oak, pinned
together with their own or grass stems.
The milkweed when ripe supplies the softest
of down to stuff a doll's pillow, and the empty
pod, when fitted with a tiny sail of leaf or paper
stuck on a toothpick, will sail away with quite
the air of a real boat.
II. Beginnings of Art
Scribbling with pencil, crayon, or paint, and
patting or rolling clay, is where the fine arts
begin. These first efforts seem far removed from
the beautiful things which delight us in art
museums, but that is the way in which every
artist and craftsman started. Knowing this
should make us very patient with the slow prog-
ress and crude work of children.
Materials
Colored wax crayons — 6 or 8 colors.
Water-color paints — semi-moist.
Camel's hair paint-brush — large.
Paper for drawing and painting — manila or
unprinted newspaper, size g x I2 or larger.
Paper for cutting — light-weight wrapping or
unprinted newspaper.
Paste — library or homemade flour paste. (Do
not use mucilage as it is slippery and takes too
long to set.)
Paste brush — ^small bristle.
In the "scribble stage" crayon or paint is used
just for the fun of using, movements of the
hand are experimented with, colors are played
with, the little user knowing and caring nothing
about art. Some day, from a tangle of lines, a
man or animal may emerge quite by accident, and
then be' purposely attempted : from that time on
the discovery that ideas can be put on paper
in this way will carry the little artist along. The
tendency is to draw in outline and to work out
one detail, then another, as the ideas of form
grow more definite.
How to Help
Crayon. — Encourage a great deal of drawing
with colored crayon, because the material is easy
to handle, and the color gives an added interest.
Use large sheets of paper and if possible pin
with thumbtacks to a board which can stand
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against the wall. This encourages large, free
drawing and painting, which is better for both
the child and the art than small, cramped work.
At first the work will be just trying out the
material, probably scribbling; encourage this, but
at the same time watch for good bright color or
some resemblance to an object, and call attention
to it. Gradually picture-making will begin, and
during this stage of funny men and headless ani-
mals be sure to make a child conscious of his
successes rather than his failures. Such ques-
tions as "Where is your man going?"' or "Who
lives in your house?" will often lead to the addi-
tion of new details to the picture.
Small bright spots of color, if repeated across
the paper, are not only fun to make, but are the
beginnings of real decoration, and are especially
interesting if the shapes of the spots are varied.
The best help is encouragement, trying to see
the beginnings of ideas in the making, and draw-
ing quickly and crudely with the child, making
it a game.
Paint. — There is much more interest in paint
as a bright surface-covering than as a means
of expressing ideas, — making pictures, as with
crayon. This is due to the nature of the mate-
rial, as paint and water naturally spread them-
selves out over whatever they touch, and control
is more difficult to acquire.
When painting begins, put a thick newspaper
or oilcloth on the table and have a small dish
of water and plenty of small sheets of paper.
Show how to wet the brush, roll it on the paint
and draw it across the paper instead of scribbling
with it. Encourage experimenting with various
colors and different movements of the brush,
always trying for strong, clear color. Some pic-
ture-making may be attempted, but more of this
will be done wtth crayon. Clay beads, marbles,
and dishes may be painted, also paper baskets,
paper or cloth flags, and anything where color
will give an added interest.
Paper,.— AW uses of paper begin with the snip-
ping stage already described. As skill in handling
material develops, cuttings take more varied
shape. From these pick out a few which suggest
some form — as a boat, tree, flower, man, or ani-
mal, and arranging them on a sheet of darker
paper show how to paste them on, using little
paste. This selecting of pieces with chance re-
semblances can be carried on as a game and will
soon lead to direct cutting of houses, boats, ani-
mals, etc., which will of course be very crude,
but quite satisfactory to the young producer at
this stage in his development.
Encourage the selection and mounting of the
best forms cut and you will find a gradual group-
ing of figures in relation to each other which
later leads on into story illustration in silhouette
or color.
III. Constructive Plays the Fifth Year
Out of the past year's experimentation with
materials and tools you will find growing a desire
and effort to make things with which to play.
Sometimes these things are suggested by the
material itself or the work of another child, some-
times by a play or game, and again it may be
the season which whispers the magic word, kite,
parasol, or sled.
An interesting thing to watch is the source of
suggestion and how it works out, — the 'material
used, the originality put into the making, and
how one thing made and played with leads nat-
urally to another, as a doll's table calls for a chair
and dishes to make the play complete.
What to Expect
Children at this age are too unskilled to do
real toy-making, but the result of their crude
efforts now will soon begin to show and surprise
you. Theirs is the joy of making, and the hours
spent in devising means to reach the desired end
are offset by pride in the crude product because
it is all their own handiwork, li the kite is too
heavy to fly, or the doll's house too small for the
doll, it does not matter seriously to the small
workman, for his mind naturally reaches ahead
to the possibility of success the next time. He
may discard without a qualm what is unsatisfac-
tory to him, and begin all over, with an uncon-
scious faith in the creative power which is the
birthright of each of us.
With some children of five years and over
there is still a fascination in just using — experi-
menting with — materials and tools, especially if
they have had little opportunity or variety before,
but this phase lasts but a short time, while with
the three- and four-year-old it is the characteristic
use.
This period begins to show the distinctive in-
terests of boys and girls, but they should not be
emphasized by those guiding them. Both need
to learn the use of all materials, the boy to sew
and make or dress dolls if he wants to, the girl
to use hammer and saw.
How to Help
One of the best ways to stimulate constructive
work and play is to bring together two or more
children, for work always develops more rapidly
when there is an opportunity for interchange of
ideas. There will be little inclination to co-
operate in working out a common problem if the
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children are about the same age (5 to 6), for the
interest of each is centered in what he wants to
do, but a free helpful give-and-take of criticism
and suggestion will result.
Your largest contributions will be giving
needed suggestions and sympathetic encourage-
ment, helping to find materials and tools, and
being tolerant of the noise and disorder which
is often a necessary part of their work.
Children soon learn to plan their own work,
what they want to do and how to do it, but they
do need your help in learning how to test the
product. The sure, simple test of a cart, whether
crude or finished, is the test of use — does it
work? Does the marble roll? Is the bed the
right size for the doll? Gradually apply this
standard as a suggestion and it will soon be
adopted. This comes after your child has passed
the stage of experimentation when criticism is
only a hindrance.
Do not use specified, detailed directions for
handwork at this age. While this method does
produce a finished product, it tends to block the
original creative side of work and make the
worker dependent on outside ideas and help. If
you want to show your boy how to make a kite,
or your girl a pattern for a doll's dress, let them
watch you start or make one, then do it them-
selves. Adults do too much thinking for chil-
dren, who are naturally courageous in attempting
new things. Even failure is a wise teacher.
Materials
The materials for this year's work will be the
same as last, those found in and around every
home supplying a large part, with the help of
nature, or a nearby store or carpenter shop. Paper
of all kinds, cloth, wood, and clay are the favor-
ites.
There will be a constantly increasing demand
for wood, especially with boys, and it is well
when the home supply gives out to take the child
with you to the store to get discarded boxes, or
to the carpenter's to ask for odd pieces of soft
wood. The first requisite with wood is that it
shall be soft so the nails can be driven in easily,
and the nails should be of the flat-head wire type,
varying from }i to 2 inches in length.
Cloth, old stockings, and bits of ribbon and lace
will be wanted for doll dressing, and a piece-box
which receives contributions from time to time
often proves a fertile source of suggestion.
With a growing skill in using wood will come
the desire to paint or stain the article. Make
this possible if you can by covering the young
painter with a work apron, putting plenty of
newspaper under the work and having it done
where spatters can do no harm. Use any stain
or bright oil paint you may have or can get in
small quantity, being sure the paint is thin enough
to dry quickly.
A great variety of materials for children to use
can be purchased, but none of it has a greater
value than the simple home supply. An occa-
sional gift of some bright-colored paper, a new
box of colored crayons, a jar of paste, a ball of
string all his own, or a pincushion, needles, and
thread for the doll's dressmaker will mean more
to your child than an elaborate outfit if he has
been encouraged to use materials easily procured.
As already suggested, every child should have
a place to keep his possessions and early establish
the habit of putting them away and getting them
out himself.
Tools
The suggestion already made that no childhood
is complete without the ownership of a few simple
good tools will bear repetition. If scissors and
hammer are already a part of your child's play
equipment, he will probably not need anything
more than a pencil, until the end of the fifth
year, when a short crosscut saw, a ruler, and
sandpaper can be added, if wood is being used.
What to Make
Wholesome, purposeful play is naturally the
chief business in life of a five-year-old and a
most abundant source of suggestion in his con-
structive work. The two work wonderfully to-
gether, some play-interest suggesting what he
shall make and something he makes suggesting
more play.
Dolls have many needs, such as furniture,
dishes, and clothes, and the furniture when made
leads to varied plays of home life which may call
for more furniture, more dolls, or a doll-house.
Doll Furniture
The first furniture is usually made of heavy
brown wrapping paper or paper boxes.
For convenience in handling the paper, cut it
in squares and oblongs of from 6 to 12 inches,
then by folding here, cutting there, and pasting
where needed, any article of furniture can be
made. Turn up each end of a narrow oblong
piece, paste on legs, and a bed is ready for white
paper sheets and pillow. A small square or oblong,
with strips for legs, makes a table which may be
set with white paper plates, and cups may be
made by crushing a small circle of paper over
a finger-tip.
Many of these forms may be very crude, but
when arranged in a moderately large box for a
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house, will give great satisfaction for the time
being.
Small boxes can be made into various articles
of furniture, such as a bed, cradle, bureau, piano,
and table. Several little safety-match boxes, fitted
and pasted into a large box, make a bureau with
real drawers, and knobs may be added by making
a small hole in the end of each and pushing
through from the back the metal or wooden
collar buttons which come from a laundry. Shoe
buttons may also 'be used for knobs or handles,
fastening them in place with a bit of cardboard
or stiff paper through the eye. 'Paper fasteners
and glue hold cardboard more securely than
paste.
Boys are especially interested in making wooden
furniture. Any soft wood from V$ inch to }i
inch thick can be used for this, provided some
boards are wide enough for a table-top or bed.
The dimensions of all the furniture will depend
on the size of the dolls who are to use it.
For the first making of wooden furniture the
simplest construction is to use blocks of wood
two or three inches square, instead of attempting
legs. The chair, if made of a 2-inch cube for
the seat, will need a thin strip about 2x4 inches
for the back, and a table to go with it can be
made with a top about 5 inches 'square on one
of the cubes, and on the bottom a base about 3
inches square to make it more steady and to
raise it so the chair will go imder.
A simple, strong chair construction for either
doll or child calls for one piece for the seat, one
for the back which goes clear to the floor, and
two side-pieces in place of legs. The table top
can be put on two pieces like those used for the
chair, only higher, or on four sturdy legs.
The bed needs one board for the bottom, one
each for iiead and foot, and two narrow side
strips may be added to give gre?ater rigidity.
When this furniture has been put together with
wire nails it may be sandpapered wherever rough.
In sandpapering, show your child how to fold a
small piece over a small iblock of wood, which
makes it easier to handle and gives better results.
Doll Dishes
Clay dishe's for the dolls while easily made are
easily broken, but that is no source of discour-
agement to a child; it rather gives the opportunity
to make another and better set.
Be sure the clay is soft so it will model readily
without cracking, and as the pieces are finished,
put them in the sun or any warm place to harden.
When dry, these can 'be made very attractive by
decorating with water-color paints, either a solid
color, a border of gay dots or a few flowers scat-
tered all over. A thin coat of white shellac put
on with a brush over a dry paint will give a
harder surface and bring out the color.
Dolls
Making dolls begins much earlier with some
children than with others, a clothespin, a bottle,
a bag, a roll of cloth and even newspaper being
used to supplement the doll family. Often an
ingenious, imaginative child will find an interest-
ing, original way of meeting this play need.
Clothespin dolls are of necessity the same
height, but the dressing can be varied by using
either cloth or tissue paper and making a face
with pen and ink.
A bottle, with a head of cotton and cloth tied
over the top and then dressed, has the advantage
of standing up, and for this reason lends itself
well to many plays with blocks, the character
changing with a change of clothes.
A paper-bag doll is made with a small and a
larger bag filled with cut up newspaper, the top
of each drawn up. slipped together and tied at
the neck. A crayoned face and hair, and a paper
dress make it complete.
The making of a doll out of a roll of cloth is
of ancient origin. This begins with a single roll
for body and head, a few stitches holding it to-
gether, and later small rolls may be added for
arms and legs, the doll becoming a reality with
the addition of face and dress.
Doll Clothes
The real doll's dressmaker soon passes the point
where she is satisfied with a wrapping for a dress,
and needs your help in learning how to make a
pattern. Lay the doll, whether large or small,
on a piece of wrapping paper, with arms out-
stretched; draw around from the neck to the
knees, cut out, leaving a margin, and lay the pat-
tern on the doll to see if it fits. If the pattern
is not rig-ht, try again. This gives what is known
as the "kimono pattern" and is used in the same
way, by laying the shoulder line of the pattern
on a fold of the cloth. (See page 239.)
Clothes for any of the doll family can be made
from patterns fashioned in this way.
The sewing of the two seams should be done
in the way which is easiest for the child ; it will
be coarse and uneven and hems will not be turned,
but there may be ribbons and pockets, aprons and
caps, to offset that lack.
Outdoor Play
Outdoor play holds suggestions of its own for
constructive work, the most universal interest
centering in the wagon and the play-house.
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I'Vagojts
The mere thought of real wagon-making ap-
peals to all boys and to -most girls, and with a
little help is quite within the range of their
ability.
A two-wheel cart for a doll, or for use in the
garden, can -be made of a small wooden box, a
square axle an inch longer than the width of the
box, two wooden wheels of suitable size and a
long piece for a handle. Nail the axle securely
near one end of the box, then put the handle in
place on the bottom, and after boring j4-inch
holes in the center of each wheel fasten them to
the axle with a strong nail or screw put through
an iron or tin washer to hold the wheel on.
When making a four-wheel wagon, put an axle
close to each end, fix the wheels as described
above, and bore two holes in the front end for a
rope handle.
Playhouse. — City or coimtry, north or south,
much outdoor play centers around some form of
shelter. Stones, sticks, or leaves may outline the
boundary of a house or store ; a blanket thrown
over two chairs or over a hanging branch gives
the desired enclosure, but a large packing-box is
the best of all.
The box house, being more permanent, not only
lends itself to varied plays, but changes its fur-
nishings as any stage is reset : a box counter
makes a store; a window curtain and chair, a
house; while just playing horse transforms the
same into a barn. If it is possible to have a play-
house of this kind out of doors, include it in your
child's play equipment.
Dramatic Play is another source of suggestion
for constructive work. The five-year-old begins
this in a very simple way; a piece of cloth for
a long skirt transforms a small girl into a mother;
a badge or official-looking cap, and the boy is the
train conductor, while a few pieces of homemade
paper money and a small assortment of clay cakes
or other things bring forth the announcement, "I
am Mr. Blank, the baker." When invited, enter
into the plays as father, passenger, or customer
and encourage these early dramatic efforts.
What the Season May Suggest
The time of year always plays its part in tKe
work of children, for who would think of making
a kite when the snow is falling or a sled when the
spring winds blow ?
Spring. — The winds of Spring suggest kite and
pinwheel ; the rains leave small pools and full
streams calling for boats, while marbles are on
the counters of every toy store.
The first kite can be made of an inflated paper
bag with a string attached, which will sail behind
a running child, "but a real kite requires greater
accuracy than is possible at this age.
Gay little tops which really spin need only lyi
or 2-inch wooden button molds, and through the
holes push burnt matches or round sticks about 2
inches long. Color 'these with bright paint or
crayon.
A realistic tug or steamboat is made of a small
oblong piece of wood, with spools glued on for
smokestacks and possibly a little block for a pilot
house.
Clay marbles should be well made by this time
and before painting can be put in the oven to
harden. After painting with gay water colors,
apply a thin coat of white shellac to give a fin-
ished surface. Marbles call for a marble bag, and
the sewing is put to a very practical test, for if
there are large gaps between the stitches, th^
marbles will find them.
The old custom of leaving a May basket at a
friend's door when the first flowers come is worth
reviving. Paper baskets large enough to hold
flowers can be made of drawing paper daintily
decorated or of colored paper. Experiment with
wrapping paper, folding and cutting in different
shapes — square, oblong, or round — and use the
best one as a model.
Summer. — A little girl's summer needs are also
her doll's needs — thin dress, hat, and parasol ; and
boys are always seeking a shelter as a center for
their plays. Vacation trips yield new nature ma-
terials to the bright eyes which have been opened
to their play possibilities as suggested in the
fourth year.
Effective doll's hats are made by crushing over
the doll's head a square of wrapping paper or
cloth of suitable size, and sewing the folds in
place around the crown. When sewed, it should
fit easily over the head and the rim can be cut
any desired width or turned up wherever desired.
A paper hat can be trimmed to suit the maker
with strips of colored tissue paper for ribbons,
crushed bits of the paper for flowers, and small
chicken-feathers for plumes. Bits of real ribbon
and feathers can be used on the cloth hat.
A doll's parasol consists of a circle of stiff
cardboard the right size for the doll, covered with
a bright cambric, lawn, cretonne, or wall-paper,
and for a handle a small round stick six or eight
inches long. Paste the cardboard circle on the
cloth or paper, then cut the cloth an inch larger
than the cardboard, and slash this border to make
a fringe all around the edge. Fasten the top on
the stick with a tack, and the parasol is ready
for Miss Dolly. A child's parasol, twelve to four-
teen inches in diameter, can be made in the same
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way. A cheap lead pencil may furnish the stick
for the parasol.
Autumn. — The coming of cold weather brings
new demands for doll's clothing — a warm dress or
petticoat, a cap, and cape or coat.
The cap is fitted on the doll's head, drawing
the folds to the back of the neck, where they are
pinned in place, then sewed. Strings and perhaps
a bit of trimming give the finishing toucb.
For the coat use the same pattern as for the
dress, only make it larger and open down the
front. Sewing on buttons is usually a new ac-
complishment at this age and slits serve as button-
holes.
Winter.- — With the advent of the shut-in days
of Winter, toys and blocks are used more, and floor
plays often grow quite elaborate, especially if
there is room to leave the work and carry" it on
from day to day.
The supply of blocks is usually limited and
needs to be supplemented by small boxes to com-
plete the village street, the farm buildings or the
railroad center, with which the child plays out
the life of the community in which he lives. A
box becomes a house when doors and windows
are cut and a paper roof and chimney added.
Paper dolls can wait at the railroad station for
the incoming train, paper animals to inhabit the
barnyard can be drawn, cut out and mounted on
a base of stiff paper, and wagons and trains can
be made of small boxes, as suggested in the fourth
year.
With the coming of snow a doll's sled will be
needed, and again there is use for a small wooden
box with a string attached, to which two strips
can be added for runners, if desired.
Gold, silver, and red paper are the best materials
for Christmas-tree decorations. With the gold
and silver paper make dainty chains of J^ x 4-
inch strips, a few small stars of cardboard, and
silver icicles of l-inch strips rolled like the old-
fashioned lamp-lighter. Through a point of each
star and the top of each icicle put a thread loop
to hang on the tips of the branches. Red cornu-
copias, baskets, or boxes for popcorn or candy,
add the touch of holiday color.
IV. Beginnings of Fine Art
Almost all of a child's spontaneous drawings
and paintings up to six or seven years are pic-
torial — pictures of things — real objects in daily
life such as men, women, animals, houses, wagons,
and boats, drawn in outline and sometimes filled
in.
During the fifth and sixth years you can expect
more detail and association of ideas, pictures
which tell stories of things thev have seen or
are doing, as a house with people in or around
it, a horse, wagon and driver, or an automobile
full of people. The house may be transparent,
showing the furniture in each room, but that is
because the young artist is putting down what he
really knows about a house and its contents, not
what he sees — he is drawing from memory rather
than from the object itself. This very realistic
phase is only temporary, but a necessary step in
development.
Another characteristic of this period is the ra-
pidity with which children put their ideas on
paper. The crayon or brush fairly flies and the
picture is declared finished; there is little or no
lingering to perfect details, but a quick moving
on to another idea waiting for expression.
How to Help
With repetition comes an increased skill in
handling both materials and ideas. When a child
holds on to one idea and repeats it, watch for
and encourage the addition of new details, also
improvement in form and color. Slight changes
mean growth, even though the form is still far
from our ideal.
Even young children are not copyists by nature,
but producers, seeking every opportunity to ex-
press their own ideas in their own way. The
great variety in life is due to the fact that the
creative instinct within us gives an individual
touch to everything we do, if we are not forced
into the mold of conventionality by others.
There are many ways of drawing or modeling
a man, a horse, or a flower, and color combina-
tions are innumerable ; so if your boy departs from
your idea of what should be done, do not hold
him to the cold facts of color and form as you
see them, but enjoy his way with him.
The test to apply to a child's picture is how
clearly it tells the story in the mind of the young
artist. If you feel he is not doing his best, say,
"I know you can tell that story better," or "Try
to make a train that is really going." This helps
to center the attention on characteristic points.
Smoke rolling out over a train gives a feeling
of movement and curling straight up from the
engine indicates it is standing still.
An effective way to show a child how his work
is improving is to put away an occasional drawing
or painting to have for comparison with later
work ; this helps him not only to see how much
better his work of to-day is than that of last
month or last year, but encourages further im-
provement by awakening a feeling of pride in his
achievement and your recognition of it. Real
growth in anything can onlv come through desire
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and effort from within, never tlirough compulsion
from without.
Love of color is strong in every one of us, but
all too often children's sense of color values is
untrained because they have little or no opportu-
nity to choose and use the colors they like. A
box of paint or crayon gives the desired variety
from which to choose, and a consultation with a
child as to which hair ribbon or tie shall be pur-
chased or worn gives an every-day training in
color selection.
In working with both crayon and paint, large
sheets of paper encourage larger, freer work,
and a water-color brush twice the size of the one
which usually comes with a paint-box gives far
more satisfactory results.
What to Do
Clay. — If you are watching for the beginnings
of art in children's work with clay, you will begin
to realize how often they try to make the human
figure and animals — fruits, vegetables, and flowers
— even vases and tiles.
When figures are the center of interest you can
help by speaking of some part of the work which
is better than the rest, as "That man's head is
very good," or calling attention to whatever sug-
gests action, as "Your elephant looks as if he is
walking." Show how a slight bending of head,
arm or foot gives life to the figure, even when
the work is very crude.
Small fruits or vegetables colored with water-
color paint can have a clay basket or bowl to hold
them, and flowers can be laid on flat pieces like
a plaque, for stems are seldom strong enough to
stand upright.
Any flat piece (square, oblong, or round) sug-
gests a tile or paper-weight, especially if deco-
rated with a drawing or design sketched with a
match or toothpick and painted. Leaves, shells,
or large seeds pressed into the smooth, soft clay
surface and then removed, leave their own im-
pression, which may be very decorative if done
with care.
Crayon. — By this time the period of experi-
menting with the crayon has largely passed and
storj'-telling is in full swing, crayon stories of
things done and seen, or of such well-loved tales
as "The Three Bears" and "Jack and the Bean-
stalk." The eiifort to put a record of familiar
stories on paper not only gives material for draw-
ing but makes more real the story itself. Some-
times the story-pictures will run on from one sheet
of paper to another, like scenes in a play or a
moving picture ; this shows a growing continuity
of thought.
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Line drawing still predominates, with an occa-
sional filling in with color, for crayon and pencil
lend themselves more naturally to making a line
than a surface covering.
The elements of decoration have probably ap-
peared before this in rows of round or irregular
spots ; these may now be varied by making such
additions as stems to make rows of flowers, or the
alternation of color or form. Use these borders
on paper boxes, baskets, or plates, across the end
of a cloth cover for -the doll's bureau, or around
the edge of doll's parasol or hat.
Paint. — While crayon is largely the picture-
making medium at this age, paint will begin to
come into its own. The painted figures will lack
much of the detail of those done in crayon, but
will gradually show more action and life, every
hit of which should receive favorable comment
from you.
Color is such an outstanding interest in using
paint that color washes are always a delight,
sometimes one or two colors, sometimes many on
one paper blending into new and fascinating com-
binations. The colors may be washed over a
large sheet of paper and then cut into circles for
balloons or balls and flowers or leaves, if their
coloring is suggested, using cardboard patterns;
or the paper may be cut into circles, squares, or
any desired shape, then painted and mounted on
a fresh sheet.
Paint as a medium for decoration is full of
suggestion, the bru.sh itself making several dif-
ferent forms, depending on how it is held. These
brush spots may be combined and varied in color
just for the joy of doing, or used as a border or
in all-over pattern on articles made of paper or
clay.
Paper. — Even in the fifth year paper-cutting
as a means of picture-making gives way to crayon
and paint, but it is well worth while to do this
work with a child in order to get him started, for
it gives one more way of expressing ideas, and
the results are interesting.
Follow the way of beginning suggested in the
fourth year, then try story illustration, using
white paper for cutting the figures, and mount
on a colored sheet — green, blue, or brown. At
first the forms may be cut in parts and put to-
gether, as a man's body, head, arms, and legs, or
a flower with separate stem and leaves, but with
a little help from you they will soon begin to
appear in one piece.
Some children visualize form more quickly than
others and find great joy in this new art.
Small figures, flowers, or conventional forms,
cut several together, or from a pattern, make very
decorative borders, especially if done in color.
THINGS TO MAKE OUT OF NEWSPAPERS
MRS, LOUISE H. PECK
For our fun we need only flour or prepared paste
and the newspapers which have been folded care-
fully away, waiting for us all this long time.
Chains. — Cut the white margins from several
newspapers, very straight and all the same width.
Then cut these in strips five inches long, all ex-
actly the same length and with ends cut straight.
Take one strip and paste ends evenly together to
form a ring, holding for a moment until the paste
catches. Slip another strip through this ring,
paste the ends as before, and now we have two
rings, one linked within the other. Go on in this
way until a long chain has been made. Some-
times brown wrapping-paper strips may be alter-
nated with the white newspaper strips. Later,
make chains that will teach numbers : one brown,
one white; two brown, one white; three brown,
two white ; using all kinds of combinations.
Don't cut" the strips for the children. The
preparation of their own material is a wonderful
part of the lesson.
When several long chains have been made, they
may be swung to music or singing, or used as a
decoration for the playroom.
Pussy Chains. — These are also made from
evenly cut margins, and in as long strips as pos-
sible. Lay the ends of two strips across each
other at right angles, and paste together. Fold
the under strip over across the pasted end of the
upper strip, but do not paste. Keep on folding
one strip over the other at exact right angles
until they are used up. Paste on other strips to
make the chain longer, and paste ends together
to finish. This makes a delightfully "stretch-y"
chain.
These chains are pretty made of two colors,
and may be used as decorations for a Christmas
tree or to hang on the wall.
Paper Sticks. — Now let us make some paper
sticks for laying patterns or pictures on the table
as we would with toothpicks. Cut a strip from
the white margin or from the printed paper half
an inch wide and twelve inches long. Dip one
corner of one end in water and begin to roll
tightly at a slant. Keep on rolling tightly, hold-
ing the tip with the right hand while the left
holds and rolls the strip. When completely rolled
into a paper stick of five or six inches, hold firmly
and fold over the end. No paste is needed. This
makes the old-fashioned lamp-lighter or ''spill.''
Illustrated newspaper sheets make pretty varie-
gated sticks.
When fifty or more of these sticks have been
made, use them for laying pictures of houses,
trees, fences, and other objects. Sometimes we
bend the sticks for roofs, curves, and corners. If
the child wishes to keep a picture, have him make
a penciled drawing of it in a scrap-book prepared
of smooth wrapping-paper. All kinds of geo-
metric figures may be made with paper sticks —
oblongs, squares, circles, triangles, and so on.
The bent sticks are kept in one box, the straight
ones in another. In still another box we have all
kinds of queerly-bent paper sticks. These are
our jackstraws. and we make our wand for lifting
the sticks from a longer strip of rolled paper, bent
at the small end to make the hook.
Paper Pipes. — These are made of whole sheets
of newspaper rolled into long loose cylinders,
measuring three or four inches across the end,
the ends being folded or bent tightly in toward
the center to keep the pipe from unrolling. To
make water-pipes, slip the end of one into the
end of another, and lay as many as are desired,
following the mopboards or anywhere else about
the room.
These rolled sheets may be stood on end for a
stockade fence, or placed across each other to
build a log-house.
Stepping Stones. — Half sheets of paper placed
on the floor a long step apart make good stepping-
stones over a running brook, the floor being the
"water." Care must be taken to step straight and
squarely on the paper to avoid slipping. The
game is a fine one for developing quick balance.
Sometimes we play "Eliza Crossing the Ice," with
the dolls held tightly in our arms.
Castles. — Roll doubled sheets of newspaper into
cvlinders, big short ones, and big high ones. Look
at some good castle picture and see how to pin
the cylinder towers together, with long balconies.
Good drawbridges and portcullis may be made by
skillful fingers, also a moat from brown paper.
The growing castle in the corner of the room
has been known to make a whole family study
pictured castles as never before, and when every-
one helps in the building, there is more than a
castle being built.
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THE BEGINNINGS OF ART FOR LITTLE CHILDREN*
WALTER SARGENT
The human race has built up various means of
■self-expression, Each of these modes of expres-
sion furnishes an outlet for thoughts and gives
them objective form. They also influence the
kind of thinking and feeling and, to a degree,
shape and determine ideas.
The Arts deal with aspects of experience and
reality which language tends to neglect. They
give added mental and emotional experiences,
different in kind from those which come through
other channels. By them this many-sided world
gains new meanings.
In our companionship with little children our
problem is to recognize the most important e.xpe-
riences which art study can give to children, and
to keep these hoped-for results in mind, so that
they will dominate the numerous details of daily
method.
A comparison of drawing with language helps
us to realize how drawing cultivates a new way
of looking at things. Language uses words which
are more or less arbitrary symbols, fitted to dis-
cuss relations, causes, and conclusions. The vo-
cabulary is furnished by society. Drawing uses
lines and color; terms which are suggested by
first-hand experience with reality. Language re-
lates things, drawing individualizes them. It thus
furnishes another way of handling impressions.
Children's Interest in Drawing
There is much discussion as to whether chil-
dren shall be taught to draw in mass or in outline.
What is their interest in drawing? It consists
partly in the fact that drawing is a way of han-
dling and defining things. They are not so much
interested in representing actual appearances as
in presenting ideas. Outline is a convenient way
of cutting objects out of the undifferentiated flow
of impression and setting them forth clearly. The
effect of mass presents really an adult point of
view. It involves a thing in its setting or rela-
tions. In actual practice, children settle the ques-
tion, for unless they are under the closest super-
vision, they draw in outline. Even in silhouette
it is the edge which appears to interest them.
Children's drawings usually present a story.
Attempts to teacii them an exactness which checks
this narrative interest are harmful. On the other
hand, there are times when their symbols fail to
satisfy, and when they need to be guided into
new perceptions of form. Then instruction does
not check the impulses of the children, but rather
reenforces them. The best instruction as to how
to draw is generally given by example.
Design in the Kindergarten
The importance of landscape drawing in the
kindergarten is frequently over-emphasized. His-
torically, the representation of landscape for its
own sake is a late development. Until recently,
landscape was used in. art as the setting for a
story. Probably that is its best use for young
children. A reasonable standard of attainment
in drawing in the kindergarten should include the
establisliment of a habit of using drawing for
narrative purposes, and some definite teaching of
a graphic vocabulary.
Another important result of art-study is that
which design furnishes in giving acquaintance
with rhythmic patterns. Designs are not merely
decorative arrangements. They are also schemes
for seeing and interpreting. A feeling for fine
spacing is seldom developed in young children.
They need suggestive examples in order to give
them good types of arrangement. Highly con-
ventionalized forms, such as Coptic or Aztec
designs, are full of suggestions for children. Con-
siderable material will be found in the reports
of the United States Bureau of Ethnology.
Much design has grown out of playful experi-
mentation with appearances and experiences.
Design should include a decorative interpretation
of stories, games, etc., in much the same spirit
that games and folk-songs often give a playful
or musical interpretation of occupations. De-
sign should be so taught that what children pro-
duce should be in part an evolution from their
own experiences and not simply an adoption of
abstract patterns.
Children's Love for Pictures
In addition to drawing and design, a third art
influence is that of pictures. A picture has two
elements: its story and its form. Young chil-
dren are interested mainly in the story. They
fall in love with some pictures. They talk to
* Fundamental to any endeavor to help little children to express themselves through pictures is such a study as this,
by Professor Sargent, of the kind of drawings and pictures that interest children. Read it carefully, pencil in hand.
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them and live in their scenes. Their imagination
is stimulated and they identify themselves with
the characters in the pictures. These occasional
affections for certain pictures furnish good points
of departure for picture-study.
One secret of developing appreciation of art is
to start with what one likes, and then become ac-
quainted with the best of that type. There is need
of further experiment to discover wh'at good pic-
tures children most generally like. The interest
of children in narrative should 'be taken into ac-
count. Their often-criticised liking for the comic
supplement of the Sunday paper depends partly
on this interest. These pictures generally pre-
sent progressive stages in a story. Illustrators of
children's books should utilize this device.
Conscious interest in fine art comes* much later
than the kindergarten. It is generally awakened
in us not directly by works of art, but by the help
of someone who enjoys art and in whose discrimi-
nation we have confidence and whose enjoyment,
which we realize is genuine but beyond ours, we
would like to share.
Imitation and Initiative
Any teaching of art must take account of the
initiative instincts of children. Some instructors
fear that they may check originality. Conse-
quently they hesitate to draw for children or to
express their own choices in matters of design.
Children's imitative tendencies are not simple
affairs. Many factors are involved, but we can
usually tell by the results w'hether the imitation
is a stimulus or hindrance to originality. Imi-
tation and originality are closely related. In fact,
each i^s necessary to the other. For example, the
dramatic impulse is based on mimicry, but is a
potent factor in self-discovery and development.
There is a sense of power in expanding one's
personality to include that of another. Our ideals
are usually suggested by persons and then imi-
tated. Thus imitation is closely related to the
development of character.
In matters dealing, as esthetics do, with the
emotions, imitation has special significance. Pro-
fessor Josiah Royce says, "With the aid of cer-
tain deep and instinctive tendencies to assume
imitatively the bodily attitudes or the other ex-
pressive functions of our fellows, functions which
may be in part internal as well as external, we
are able to share the emotions of others even
when these emotions relate to matters that lie far
beyond our own previous experience."
Children imitate and therefore absorb not only
the technical habits but also the esthetic attitude
of the instructor. Methods of instruction are
valuable, but esthetic appreciation is contagious.
If we have a genuine love for art, it tends to
awaken a similar emotion in the children with
whom we come in contact.
HOW THE CHILD MAY EXPRESS HIMSELF
THROUGH ART*
PREPARED BY
THE COMMITTEE ON CURRICULUM OF THE INTERNATIONAL
KINDERGARTEN UNION
General Aims
1. To gain better control of the medium.
2. To see objects more clearly and to express
thought more definitely.
3. To use color and arrangement more con-
sciously.
Specific Aims
1. To satisfy the desire for expression and to
develop the creative imagination.
2. To develop a feeling for color and arrange-
ment.
3. To clarify thought.
4. To enable the child to see beauty in Nature
* This valuable statement ties together what is said on th
Brown, and Professor .Sargent, and helps the mother define
she shall expect to attain.
and in works of art from a new point of view,
because he has tried to express himself through
art mediums.
Method in Relation to General Aims
To satisfy the desire for expression and to
develop the creative imagination: — Opportunity
should be given for free expression with paper
and scissors, crayons, paints, and clay. The first
expression of children is from the image and not
from the object. As John Dewey says :
"Even in drawing objects the child will draw
from his image, not from the object itself. As soon
is important subject by Mrs. Leonard, Mrs. Newell, Miss
for herself her aims, just how she is going to work, and what
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as the child has acquired the habit of vivifying and
liberating his image through expression, then a re-
turn may take place to the original form. In one
sense there is no technique up to this time, but there
is the psychological factor corresponding to technique,
the motor expression, its coordination with, control
by, and stimulation of the visible image. This be-
comes through training what is ordinarily called
technique. The first consideration is the doing, the
use; after use comes method, the how of doing.
Now, method must exist not for its own sake but
for better self-expression, fuller and more interest-
ing doing. Hence these two points; technique must
grow out of free imaginative expression, and it must
grow up within and come into such imaginative ex-
pression."
To develop a feeling for color and arrange-
ment. — I. Color: A child's love of color should
be satisfied by giving 'him colored materials with
which to express himself — crayons, water-colors,
and colored papers. It is better for kindergarten
children to use colored crayons rather th.in pen-
cils, because they satisfy the sense of color and
at the same time give broader, softer lines than
the pencil. The first expression of the children
should be free, even if the color combinations are
crude. More estlietic shades and tints should not
be given the child until he has satisfied to some
extent his love for the more brilliant colors. He
often makes barbaric combinations which are as
unconsciously beautiful as primitive art. While
these results may be at first accidental, through
emphasis and selection by the teacher, they may
form the basis for more conscious control on the
part of the child.
The teacher may influence the results, as the
child becomes more familiar with the medium, by
supplying backgrounds of a neutral or harmoni-
ous shade upon which the work is applied, and
by occasionally limiting the choice of colors.
2. Arrangement: In tlie free work of children
we find many examples of unconscious arrange-
ment : for instance, a child makes a succession of
stars and moons across the top of the paper in-
stead of drawing a literal representation of a
night scene. This interest in arrangement may be
developed and made more intelligent by supply-
ing motives for design in the decoration of the
kindergarten room, and by decorating baskets,
plates, paper-doll dresses, etc., which furnish
shapes so suggestive for design.
The use of materials which naturally lend them-
selves to the repetition of a unit or to orderly
arrangement rather than to illustration, such as
peg boards, bead stringing, stringing nature mate-
rials, all develop interest in design.
To clarify thought. — In general, all expression
objectifies ideas, and so tends to clarify thought.
However, if the teacher does not regard the re-
sults that the child attains .as worth while, and
if she fails to provide opportunity for motivation
of work, the quality of the results will not im-
prove and will most likely deteriorate. Too often
teachers impose devices upon the child in the
form of results which may have been suggested
by an exhibit of kindergarten work, or by a visit
to another kindergarten. These "results" have
no value in themselves, but only as they represent
a working out of a problem which is vital to the
group concerned. ^Motive in work makes expres-
sion grow in intelligence. Problems of "how" or
"what" constantly arise in the child's experimen-
tation, and should be made more clear by the
teacher. The more instinctive activity character-
istic of the first use of the material becomes trans-
formed into a process that demands clear think-
ing. "Imitation of the teacher's copy" used too
frequently in art-work with kindergarten and
elementary-school children encourages the child
mechanically to repeat the result which the
teacher has thought out, and not to think his way
through the process, which is one of the chief
values in any kind of expression.
To develop appreciation. — Activity is the child's
key to knowledge. He likes flowers because he
can pick them, but when he has represented their
brig'ht colors, the activity involved in the process
of making a picture gives him a new attitude
toward the object. The interest in the art-result,
because it is the child's own project, carries over
to an interest in the object and so brings about
a more intellectual attitude as a basis for the next
effort. This objectifying of experience makes
other people's pictures more interesting to the,
child. This is one approach to picture apprecia-
tion.
Method in Relation to Specific Aims
To gain better control of the medium. — The
first interest in any material is in manipulation ;
results are secondary. As bas been suggested,
scribbling may be developed into firm lines and
smooth rubbing on of color ; daubing and scrub-
bing may be changed into the application of
washes. When children have passed out of the
experimental stage and have the ability to secure
better results in technique, they may criticise
their own results and those of the class. One
child said frankly tfliat the water in a picture
"looked like mussed-up hair," realizing that the
lines might have been kept parallel.
When children draw, they seem instinctively
to use line instead of mass drawing, but as rub-
bing on of color strengthens technique, mass
drawing may be suggested in connection with
line drawing. For instance, boats are drawn in
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outline, but the water is rubbed in. Soldiers or
sailors may be drawn unsubstantial and stick-
like, but uniforms are sug'gested, and again there
is need for broad, smooth, strokes. A book filled
with illustrations may 'have a cover decorated
with units in massed color.
When there is group instruction in art-work,
the children should be classified by their ability
in using a particular medium, and nof by age
or the length of time they have been in the kin-
dergarten. In this way the children w'ho are still
in the e.xperimental stage will work very freely
with the medium, while those who are tending
to repeat themselves or who desire a better form
of expression. may have the benefit of instruction.
To see objects more clearly and to express
thought more definitely. — Many children of kin-
dergarten age are too immature to draw from
olijects and should first live through the more
imaginative stage of art expression. There are
some children of kindergarten age, however, who
can draw with a considerable degree of accuracy
and a grasp of details. They are able to study
a flag and to reproduce it in the right colors and
with the right relationship of the field to. the
stafif and of the stripes to the field. Children in
this stage of development can draw clocks with
some sense of proportion, and they show their
maturity by making some kind of symbol around
the face of the clock instead of merely making
marks as do the young children. This kind of
drawing would seem to have some relation to the
ability to write. It is also the beginning of me-
chanical drawing and the drawing of still life.
It should never take the place of the more im-
aginative drawing, but there are subjects in the
kindergarten curriculum which lend themselves
to this form of expression, such as the drawing
01 trains, houses, etc. In the Spring, branches of
pussywillows, wildflowers, and hyacinths that the
chHdren have planted may be drawn with some
regard to correct form and color. When chil-
dren, however, look indifferently at the spray to
lie drawn and then make a flower growing out of
the ground, and even use green and red indiscrim-
inately for flower or stem, they are not in the
stage to draw from an object. A group of chil-
dren whose teacher had given them a spray cf
bitter-sweet to study and represent merely took
the berries as a suggestion and worked out a
variety of arrangement in spots and lines which
were very decorative, but which merely suggested
the berry and had no resemblance to the actual
growth.
To use color and arrangement more consciously.
— As was suggested in a previous section, provid-
ing a motive tends to make the work more
thoughtful. For instance, the younger children
scatter all kinds of objects over a page with no
thought of selection or arrangement. To make a
book with a picture on each page brings about
orderliness of thought and arrangement. When
the subject-matter of the curriculum has made
thought more clear, the children's illustrations
will reflect this quality, and the teacher's em-
phasis will be along the lines of the relationship
among objects in a picture.
When the problem is a decorative rather than
an illustrative one, the objects to be decorated
will control the use of appropriate color and de-
sign ; for example, orange and brown at Hallow-
e'en and red and green at Christmas-time applied
to plates, baskets, and other objects associated
with the festivals. The doll-house presents ex-
cellent problems in combinations of harmonious
color and design applied to wall paper, rugs, etc.
Attainments
1. Attitudes. Interests, Tastes. — Eagerness and
willingness to express ideas and emotions through
the mediums of graphic art. More intelligent
interest in pictures. Feeling for color, form, and
arrangement.
2. Habits, Skill. — Orderly habits in using mate-
rials. Ability to handle art mediums with some
degree of skill.
3. Knoidedge, Information. — Some idea of
form in relation to expressing thought to others.
Clearer idea of subject-matter in the curriculum
through having expressed thought through art
mediums.
Nobofly can be a useful mother without having some sort
of fun every day. — George Hodges,
Pictures for the home*
JULIA WADE ABBOTT
What arc some of the problems of wall decora-
tion? We have learned to hang our pictures low
and nearer the level of the children's eyes. We
often dull children's perceptions by having all the
large pictures before them all the time. If the
pictures have not been talked about or hung in
different positions in the room, it is an interesting
experience to take the children out of the room
and question them to see if they have noticed the
pictures at all.
Do you remember Penrod's attitude toward the
pictures in his room at school?
"Roused from perfect apathy, the boy cast
about the schoolroom an eye wearied to nausea
by the perpetual vision of the neat teacher upon
the platform, the backs of the heads of the pupils
in front of him, and the monotonous stretches of
blackboard, threateningly defaced by arithmetical
formulse and other insignia of torture. Above the
blackboard, the walls of the high room were of
white plaster — white with the qualified whiteness
of old snow in a soft-coal town. This dismal ex-
panse was broken by four lithographic portraits,
votive offerings of a thoughtful publisher. The
portraits were of good and great men, kind men
— men who loved children. Their faces were
noble and benevolent. But the lithographs offered
the only rest for the eyes of children fatigued by
the everlasting sameness of the schoolroom. Long
day after long day, interminable week in and in-
terminable week out. vast month on vast month,
the pupils sat with those four portraits beaming
kindness down upon them. Never while the chil-
dren of that schoolroom lived, would they be
able to forget one detail of the four lithographs :
the hand of Longfellow was fixed, for them, for-
ever, in his beard. And by a simple and uncon-
scious association of ideas, Penrod Schofield was
accumulating an antipathy for the gentle Long-
fellow and for James Russell Lowell and for
Oliver Wendell Holmes and for John Greenleaf
Whittier, which would never permit him to peruse
a work of one of those great New Englanders
without a feeling of personal resentment."
We have improved somewhat since that day
and we are all familiar with the carbon prints of
good paintings that are found in -almost every
house. Yet one grows a little tired of "Sir Gala-
had," "The Children of Charles the First," "Ma-
dame Le Brun and Her Daughter," "The Sistine
Madonna," etc. We must remember that in de-
veloping art-appreciation in children, the form
presented, whether it be poem, story, song, or
picture, must have some element that appeals to
the immediate interests and instincts of the child.
But in addition to this, there must be elements of
permanent beauty that will help transform the
naive interest of the child into real appreciation.
Color makes its appeal to all children, and the
fact that billboards and comic supplements use
this appeal in such a flamboyant fashion, makes
it all the more important that we use colored
prints.
What subject shall we select? It is more usual
to find pictures of people and animals than land-
scapes. If the element of color were not present,
landscapes would not appeal to children, but I
have found that broad, pure color, found in the
landscape more often than in other pictures,
makes a distinct appeal. I have tested the ap-
preciation of groups of children by taking them
to an art-store, and having placed before them,
on a large easel, picture after picture, without
comment. In Minneapolis, these Middle-West
children were particularly interested in pictures
of the ocean, a commentary on the practice of
literally-minded people who would confine the
curriculum to the child's immediate environment.
One especially lovely landscape had bright blue
sky, floating white clouds, green grass with a few
red poppies scattered here and there, and the
atmosphere of summer permeating it all. When
this picture was put on the easel, one little girl
gave a sigh of delight and threw her arms wide
in a gesture of abandonment more significant
than any words could have been.
What should be the general character of the
large, framed pictures? From the art stand-
point the landscapes should be decorative in char-
acter and broad and simple in effect. In pictures
containing figures, the drawing should be good
and the positions restful. Some pictures which
* A Report prepared by Miss Abbott as Chairman of the Graphic Arts Committee of the International Kindergarten
Union and presented to )>be Union. Used by permission of the President, Miss Caroline D. Aborn, and of the author.
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are merely illustrations and which are very good
in a small-sized picture do not bear enlargement
and are not decorative enough for a wall picture.
Whether the subject is landscape or figure, the
picture should make an appeal to the child's
imagination. Just as all stories about children
are not for children, so all pictures with children
as the subject do not interest children. "The Age
of Innocence" is charming to us as a delineation
of childhood, but to children it is just a passive
little girl. But Baby Stuart awakens that feeling
for little, young tender things that many boys
and girls of five have to a large degree, though
they themselves have so recently ceased to be
babies ! I saw a little colored boy run up and
kiss the picture and say ''Dear little baby!" the
first morning that the picture was hung low in
the room in relation to the family idea.
The Knaus Madonna appeals to little children
because there are so many pretty, charming babies
in the picture. The attitude of the mother and
child enters into the children's appreciation of
pictures of madonnas, and I imagine the Sistine
Madonna seems cold and strange to them. At
Thanksgiving time, I used to show the children
Millet's "Sower" until one little boy, more frank
than the rest, said, "He looks just like a burglar I"
And then, for the first time, I saw the picture
as the child had seen it. and the slouch hat and
undefined dark face were for the moment more
striking than the fine action of the figure as a
symbol of the satisfaction of human needs. We
must strike a happy medium 'between pictures
that are too classic for little children and the
very ordinary pictures that one may find in maga-
zines and too often in children's picture-books.
But very good pictures appear on the covers
of some of our magazines, and we can make very
valuable collections from many sources. We
should remember, however, that we use pictures
for two purposes : for the giving of information
and for the development of appreciation, and the
same kind of picture will not serve both purposes.
Pictures of fruits and vegetables from a seed
catalog might be very appropriate when the in-
terest is in naming all the kinds of things the
farmer has planted in his field, but when we ap-
proach Thanksgiving and the interpretation of
the Harvest, we should want a picture that con-
tained the beauty of the fields in Autumn and the
human activities of reaping the grain as Dupre
and Breton represented them.
The development of art appreciation in young
children depends upon the presentation of the
right art form in relation to an immediate, emo-
tional experience.
LEARNING TO USE LANGUAGE*
ADAPTED FROM A REPORT BY
THE COMMITTEE ON CURRICULUM OF THE
INTERNATIONAL KINDERGARTEN UNION
In language, the wealth of learning and aspira-
tion of the race have been stored up, ready to be
unlocked when the child has found the key of
some actual experience which will give him the
power to enter into his inheritance. Words are
symbols ; that is, they suggest and represent
meanings. John Dewey says, "Words should be
signs of ideas, and ideas spring from experience."
General Aims
I. To provide a means of communicating with
others. — The kindergarten period is the one
during which a child should become thoroughly
grounded in colloquial, conversational English.
He should gain in the ability to grasp the mean-
ings of others as interpreted in language.
2. To aid in the clarification of ideas; to crys-
tallise a meaning zvhich the child has discovered
in his e.vperiencing, so that such meaning, may be
used in thinking. — As the child realizes finer dis-
tinctions in his experience, he seeks for a word
that will fix his idea. If it is supplied to him
or if he coins one for the situation, he can make
easy reference to that situation in his later
thoughts; the word gives him a new basis for
discrimination.
Specific Aims
I. Improvement of the technique of oral c.r-
prcssion. — Increase of vocabulary due to wider
experiences and finer distinctions.
Better grammatical construction, sentences
* Select from tliis practical article at least one teaching-device to try to-day. and another for to-morrow. But do not
rlepend on scattered devices. Read the article over and over, to remind yourself of the aims you have in mind with your
methods.— W. B. F.
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371
more complete and following each other in se-
quence without loss of spontaneity in expression.
Clearer enunciation; correct pronunciation;
pleasing, expressive tone of voice.
2. Organisation of thought. — In striving for
adequate expression of his ideas, a child learns
to emphasize the more significant phases of his
experience, to relate these to his former experi-
ences, and to define them in terms of former ex-
periences. In social intercourse he interprets the
thoughts and feelings of others in the light of his
own, and so enlarges and modifies his own.
3. Freedom of expression. — A child should be
led to feel that he has something to say which
is worth saying. A child should be led to feel
that he has an interested listener. A child should
be led to feel that he will be encouraged to com-
municate his ideas.
Method
Conversation should not be limited to certain
periods of the day set apart for that purpose;
for in such a case it becomes formal and forced.
Throughout the day the child should have
freedom of expression. He should ask questions
of other children as well as of his mother; he
should ask their help in work and play ; he should
express his opinions, and thus test his ideas by
the knowledge of others who may sanction or dis-
approve. It is only when a situation does not
provoke energetic thought that a little child's talk
becomes silly.
Wrong Methods. — It is almost impossible to
give model outlines for conversations because
of their inherent nature. Conversation is a give
and take, modified by the mental attitudes of the
people taking part. It is easier to show what
the so-called conversation periods should not be
like.
1. Question and answer method : The mother
may start by asking, "What did we talk about
yesterday?" If little impression was made the
previous day, no answer may be forthcoming or
perhaps a random guess. "It was a tall man who
carries a flag." "Yes, a soldier." "What did we
say a soldier did?" This method rouses a half-
hearted interest because the child gives informa-
tion only.
2. Monologue method: The mother may tell
the child all about some experience. The child is
passive, may not be interested in the topic, and
has no opportunity for expression. Children
should usually gather information from some
direct experience.
3. Over-organized method: The mother may
say, "Yesterday we talked about where the squir-
rel lives; to-day we will talk about what he looks
like." A little child is not ready for concentra-
tion on such minute details, pigeonholed under
headings. A child must respond to a whole situa-
tion if his language is to flow freely and fully.
4. Poor method of using pictures : "Here is
a picture; what do you see in it?" is often a way
that a conversation is started. Such a question
is unnecessary if the picture illustrates experi-
ences familiar to the child. The picture itself
will suggest interesting conversation. But if the
picture shows objects or activities entirely for-
eign to the child, he may guess at its meaning, but
there is little language value. The child may
learn to speak the words which the mother uses
in describing the picture, but as there is no con-
tent to the words, these will drop from the
vocabulary.
Right Methods. — I. Recall of an experience:
A vivid experience, such as watching the carpen-
ter at work, playing in the wind, planting in the
garden, is a good starting-point for a general
conversation. "Language will become vigorous
and effective when there has been reaction to-
ward elemental things." The child himself must
use correct language form. "Nothing but per-
sistent oral repetition of the correct form will
overcome the habit of using incorrect, ungram-
rnatical, and inelegant expression in daily speech.
These are matters of ear-training and motor-
habits as well as of knowledge."
If the child describes an experience in a desul-
tory, disjointed way, the mother may ask a few
suggestive questions and at the end may com-
bine the child's ideas in a sequence of events,
an interesting summary.
2. Experience of the child told to others:
\\'hen the child's contribution is of such a nature
that it is of significance for others, the mother
should help the child to tell the experience. The
responsibility for interesting a group because one
has something worth while to say is an attitude
that should be encouraged in a social situation.
3. A social situation which calls for organiza-
tion of oral expression: Invitations to celebra-
tions, letters to absent friends or other children,
etc., are excellent opportunities for the formulation
of ideas in written form.
4. Good method of using pictures : A question
which leads to picture-interpretation complies
more with the spirit of art than one that suggests
picture-analysis.
The following stories were told by some five-
year-old children as interpretations of Millet's
"First Step":
The father is saying to the baby, "Come over
here," And the mother is holding the baby. "Come
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over here, come over here, and I will put you on
the car."
Once a man was in his garden picking up wheat
and putting it all in his wagon. His mother and his
haby came in to see how it was in the garden, and
he put out his arms to lift up the baby, and he
wanted to lift the baby, too, but he had too mucli
work ; he couldn't. Then, after he was done with
that, he planted some seeds. So many trees are
there! All the people came from all over the coun-
try to see how nice it was. He had fences so that
nobody could come in to touch his stuff. He took
his wheat to the miller, who made it into flour so
that we'd have something to eat.
After a few stories about a picture have been
told by the child, the mother can draw attention
to different parts of the picture which have been
misinterpreted. For instance, the above stories
show that the wheelbarrow in the "First Step"
is an unfamiliar object. Conversation will then
center on these unfamiliar objects in familiar
surroundings. Sometimes it is the activity, the
meaning of the picture, which is misinterpreted.
In such cases the mother will question about the
detail which gives the clue to the rightful mean-
ing.
This method of studying a picture develops
imagination and gives a unity to a picture and to
the ideas about it. When questions lead to the
mere naming of different parts of the picture,
observation is developed, but it is not true picture-
study ; that is, a consideration of the idea, the
underlying meaning as expressed through the
relations between the various parts.
Aids to oral language. — Language-work is
greatly aided by drawing, handwork, dramatiza-
tion. Any communication of ideas is really lan-
guage, because the hand and the bodily gesture
have a language of their own which really carries
over into verbal language and enriches it.
Dramatization, drawing, and language bear a
close relation to one another. A child of kinder-
garten age strives to fix and clarify an idea, first,
by dramatization, then by oral language, then by
drawing. The younger child dramatizes the dif-
ferent parts of the experience without much
regard to the sequence in which the events hap-
pened. His subsequent oral expression is still dis-
jointed, but is more related than his actions. His
drawing illustrates isolated parts of tiie experi-
ence. As the child grows, his ideas become better
organized; his dramatization shows an attempt
to relate different incidents, his oral expression
contains incidents woven into an embryo story,
and his drawing represents several objects in
some relation. Dramatization is composition in
primitive language form; drawing is composition
in picture-writing form. Both should be used by
the teacher in conjunction with language to aid
in the organization of thought.
Attainments
No absolute standard can be set, for home
conditions exercise great influence upon the lan-
guage-development of children. Training should
result in increased control, power, and desire in
the following directions :
1. Control over tone of voice, enunciation, pro-
nunciation, and grammatical construction.
2. Power to put ideas into language, either in
asking questions or in making statements.
3. Ability to understand simple conversation
and to respond to directions which have been
stated once.
4. Desire to find proper and adequate verbal
expression for vague ideas and to add to the
vocabulary.
The vocabulary should include the names of
the most familiar objects in the school, home,
and neighborhood ; also such qualities and activ-
ities of these objects as are necessary for a child
to understand in order to carry on his life and
play-projects, or the qualities and activities con-
cerning which he is curious.
Habits of courteous response and intercourse
should be developed. "Please," "Thank you,"
"Excuse me," "Yes, Mother," should come nat-
urally at the appropriate time. Replying when
spoken to and waiting until others have finished
speaking should be one result of training.
Education in language is not measured by the
number of words which a child can pronounce,
but by the clearness of his ideas about a number
of selected experiences, as shown through his
adaptable, usual vocabulary.
Nothing can so sap the intere.st and destroy the educative
value of play so quickly as to discover everything for the
child. — Luther H. Gnlick.
MOTHER, FATHER, AND CHILD— PARTNERS THREE
MAUD BURXHAM
Kate Douglas Wiggin says, "How inexpressibly
tiresome is the everlasting 'Don't' in some liouse-
holds. Don't get in the fire, don't get in the water,
don't tease the baby, don't interrupt, don't con-
tradict, don't fight with your brother, and don't
worry me NOW, while in all this tirade not one
word has been said about something to do."
Froebel, the founder of the kindergarten,
studied to give the children something to do. If
a mother's and father's demands are such that
they can not take time for study, they may at least
share the interests and pleasures of their chil-
dren in ways that constantly suggest themselves.
By doing tliis they will enter into a paying part-
nership with their boys and girls, and later on they
will have less reason to complain that the chil-
dren seek other homes for diversion.
When a mother allows little daughter or son
to use the tiny board and rolling-pin at cookie-
making time, or permits the toy broom, dust-pan
and brush, washtub, or little iron to serve a pur-
pose, she is not only beginning a partnership,
but laying a foundation for real usefulness later.
Enjoying carefully restricted play with cup,
pint and quart measures, or even the scales, helps
the child to practical knowledge. There are times
when he may even play with the fireless cooker
and demonstrate to his satisfaction that he can
fit the right cover in the right compartment and
place one utensil within another.
Fortunate the small boy or girl who is allowed
to play "train" with chairs or use them for cages
in the zoo; who may appropriate the waste-
paper basket for a hen-coop and use the clothes-
basket for a boat.
One mother I know shows the spirit of part-
nership as she sits in her rocker sewing. She
calls the following, "rocker" games:
1. The tea-bell is placed on the floor. From
a given spot the children roll marbles to hit it.
2. Mother is the kitty and the children are mice.
Kitty's dish is placed back of the rocker, where
Mother can not see it, and then from a corner
farther back a mouse comes on tiptoe to try to
pick up the dish without kitty's knowing it. If
ever so little noise is heard, kitty cries, "Meow,"
and the mouse runs to the corner, to give another
mouse a turn.
3. The "groceryman" knocks at the door.
Mother gives orders which are written down in
make-believe. Then the goods are delivered.
4. The "iceman" calls with wooden blocks.
A father has ample opportunity to be a partner
with his children. There may be a chance to
share in the care of animals, and carpentry and
garden tools offer unlimited possibilities for
cooperation.
A certain professor allowed his boys to assist
in making their sand-box. Those who could not
use tools smoothed the rough boards with sand-
paper. These same boys helped to make a won-
derful stationary horse out of a barrel.
Instead of forbidding his child to touch the
typewriter, one father taught him the alphal)et
on it. As the boy grew up he used it for certain
school work and letter-writing.
Xora A. Smith suggests the keeping of a diary
to help in cementing the family partnership. In
this is recorded each evening the events of the
day. the weather, and so on.
One of the most delightful pleasures to be
shared in the home is reading aloud.
But oh, if the toys were not scattered about.
And the house never echoed to racket and rout;
If forever the rooms were all tidy and neat,
And one need not wipe after wee muddy feet;
If no one laughed out when the morning was red.
And with kisses went tumbling all tired to bed;
What a wearisome, work-a-day world, don't you see.
For all who love wild little laddies 'twould be.
—Kate M. Cleary.
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THE HOME PLAY-YARD
BY
MRS. DORA LADD KEYES
Note — The gist of this article is in the sentence: "Social training is the biggest contriljution of
the kindergarten. The child needs to play with other children." The writer tells how she cultivated
this social opportunity by developing the home play-yard into a "Neighborhood Fun Club."
My husband and I feel that the eight dollars we
invested in a fence for a play-yard for our two
boys were well spent. The play-yard is fifteen
feet square and contains a little cherry-tree, some
grass, and a large space from which grass has
long since disappeared. Here we put a big sand-
pile which, when wet, supplies dough for all
sorts of delectable bakery products, and when
dry affords opportunities for constructing bridges
and mysterious tunnels.
The play-yard is the place for tea-parties in
the "hungry middle of the afternoon." It has
not only supplied the needs of our own children,
but is quite the social center of the neighbor-
hood — too much so, one mother sometimes thinks !
Songs, stories, hand-work, and nature study
are important lines of kindergarten activity which
a mother can pursue at home with the help of a
few good books and her own resourcefulness.
The child deprived of kindergarten is not so likely
to suffer for want of these activities as for the
lack of the social training which, to me, is the
biggest contribution of the kindergarten. The
child needs to play with other children. "Here,"
says Jean Paul, "the first social fetters are woven
of flowers." And therein lies the unique value
of the little play-yard. Children learn there to
give and take, to adjust themselves to each other
and to cooperate. They also develop the initiative
that makes for leadership.
Play in the play-yard is undirected so long as
harmony prevails.
The neighborhood is the next larger natural
group after the family, and prepares the child
for a conception of the larger school group and
the community. In the Summer I invite the
children of the neighborhood— about sixteen in
all — to come to our big lawn twice a week and
join in our "Twilight Play Circle." During the
Winter I also invite them to come once a week
to play indoors. We call the winter meetings our
"Neighborhood Fun Club." I took my neighbor-
hood as I found it, and the children vary from
three-year-olds to two eighth-grade girls. One
of the latter plays the piano for us and the other
helps in numberless ways. I serve no refresh-
ments.
Last Winter we learned three simple folk dances
and a number of the beautiful games that are
so deeply rooted in the early social experiences
of the race, such as "London Bridge," and "Here
we go 'round the mulberry bush."
We also played other games suitable for a large
number of children indoors, and learned about
thirty riddles. Children who could read prepared
special contributions, such as child poems of
Eugene Field and Robert Louis Stevenson. Two
little girls sang duets for us, and one day we had
a little guest who taught us some charming solo
dances based on Mother Goose rhymes.
The children's love of the dramatic was shown
by their fondness for guessing pantomimes. A
child usually planned a pantomime beforehand
and then invited others to help him work it out
for the rest to guess. Our pantomime material
was drawn largely from Mother Goose, yEsop's
Fables and well-known fairy-tales.
Our "Fun Club" takes some of my precious
spare time, as well as a considerable amount of
energy, but I feel that it pays for myself as well
as for the children. It makes me realize what
Froebel's friend meant when he said, "It is like
a fresh bath for the human soul when we dare
to be children again with children."
The central interest in child life is not what nature is
doing, but what man is doing. — Patty Smith Hill.
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PLAYTHINGS WHICH THE FATHER CAN MAKE
BY
WILLIAM A. McKEEVER, LL.D., AND JEAX LEE IIUXT
The Stilts
Stilts are very attractive to children if made
to fit the age and development of the player.
For the four-year-old begin with broomsticks.
Pierce these with a gimlet a few inches from the
larger end. With a piece of old garden hose
make a loop large enough for the child's foot
to slip in easily. Pierce the lap-ends of this loop
and pass a long stove bolt through the rubber
and the hole in the broomstick.
For older children use a stouter staff and raise
the loop higher gradually, by having a series of
holes for adjustment. After due practice boys
may walk on stilts four feet from the ground.
Bring a group of these together and have a stilt
parade.
The Sliding-Board
The sliding-board has proved its worth as a
popular plaything, although some have con-
structed it carelessly and used it unintelligently.
For the smaller child at home, a trough of wood
may be easily constructed as follows :
Obtain for the bottom a smooth 14-inch board.
10 to 14 feet in length, and use i x 2-inch stuff
of the same length for the sides. Decide as to
the upper end of the board in accordance with the
direction of the grain, and so avoid splinters.
Rub the trough down well with sandpaper and
with a full coating of ordinary floor wax.
Secure the upper end of the slide to the edge
of a platform or box, allowing a slope of about
45°. Arrange a ladder or cheap stairway for
reaching the top of the slide, placing banisters
and supports where needed. At the lower end
of the trough there may be a shallow sand-pit
or some other provision for a soft landing.
Teach the little ones to take their turn here
and to assist one another.
The Climbing-Rope
Children are not strong enough in the arms
to climb a vertical pole or rope, but they may
develop much vigor from ascending a rope
stretched diagonally. Therefore secure one end
of a j4-inch rope to a post or tree at a point
just within reach of the child. Now draw taut
as possible and fasten the other end similarly
but considerably higher, say at a slope of 45°.
Rub the rope down with wax or oil in order
to give the hand a secure hold and to prevent
the fibers from pricking. There is little danger
of falling. However, the ground below may be
padded with some soft material in order to en-
courage the beginner or -the timid child.
This climbing exercise is an excellent lung-
developer.
The Turning-Bar
To develop the muscles of the arms and chest
and send the red blood outward from the heart,
turning on the bar is scarcely to be excelled.
If started upon this exercise in mere babyhood
a child grows especially fond of it.
Ordinarily half-inch gas pipe makes a good
bar for children. Obtain a four-foot piece from
the plumber and have him attach flanges at the
ends for nailing the bar up between the posts. It
must be perfectly firm and must not turn in the
hands. Hang barely within tiptoe reach of the
child.
A trapeze of the same material and swung at
the same height is also good. The swinging
motion adds to the charm. Hang also a gas-pipe
hoop about thirty inches in diameter. This lends
itself to several extra turns and contortions.
The Seesaw
Board — Straight grain lumber, 1%' x 9" x
I2'-o".
Two cleats ij4" x 9" bolted to the under side
of the board to act as a socket on the hip of the
horse.
Horse — Height 25". Length 22j4". Spread
of feet at ground 20". Legs built of 2" x 3"
material. Hip of 2" x 3" material. Brace under
hip of %" material.
Note — All figures given are for outside meas-
urements. Apparatus, except seesaw board and
sliding-board, should be painted, especially those
parts which are to be put into the ground.
The Trapeze
Two Uprights — 3" x 3" x 6'-io".
Top Piece — 3" x 3" x 2'-io".
Ends of top piece secured to uprights by being
mortised or halved and bolted together.
Uprights rest on bases of 2" x 3" material, 3'-7"
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long, connected by a small platform in the form
of an H.
Bases and uprights are bolted to dogs or pieces
of wood 2" X 4" X 5-8" set in the ground about
3'-o"-
Adjustable bar (round) l^s" diameter.
Three holes bored in each upright provide for
the adjustable bar. The first hole is 3'-o" above
ground, the second 3'-5", the third 3'- 10".
Swing bar (round), i}i" diameter, is 20" long.
Should hang about 16" below top piece.
Two holes 5^" diameter bored in the top piece
receive a continuous rope attached to the swing
bar by being knotted after passing through holes
(^" diameter) in each end of the bar.
The Swinging-Rope
Upright — 3" x 3" x 6'-9".
Top Piece — 3" x 3" x 2'-g".
Upright and top piece are mortised or halved
and bolted together.
Bracing at top (3" x 3" x 20^" at long point
of miter cuts) is nailed to top piece and upright
at an angle of about 45°.
Upright rests on a base measuring 3'-o". This
is mortised together and braced with 2" x 3" ma-
terial about 20" long, set at an angle of about 60°.
Unless there are facilities for bracing at the top,
as shown in the cut, the upright should be made
longer and buried about 3' in the ground.
The swinging rope (}i" diameter) passes
through a hole bored in the top piece and held in
place by a knot. Successive knots tied 8" to 9"
apart and a big knot at the bottom make swinging
easier for little folks.
The Ladder and Support
Ladder — 14" x io'-2".
Sides of 13^" X 1/2" material. Rungs %" di-
ameter set ioj4" apart.
At upper ends of the sides a U-shaped cut acts
as a hook'for attaching the ladder to the cross bar
of the support. These ends are reenforced with
iron to prevent splitting.
Support — Height 4'-6". Spread of uprights at
base 4'-2".
Uprights of ij^" X 23/2" material are secured
to a foot (l>4" X 4" X 20 >4") with braces (n^-^"
X 2V2" X 12") set at an angle of about 60°
Tops of the two uprights are halved and bolted
to a cross bar 1%" x 2J/2" x 10" long.
The uprights are secured with diagonal braces
I'yi" X ^y/' X 3'-9" fastened together where they
intersect.
The Parallel Bars
The two bars are 2" x 234" x 6'-io" and are
set 163^" to iSyi" apart. The ends are beveled
and the tops rounded.
Each bar is nailed to two uprights (2" x 3" x
5'-o") set 5' apart and extending 34" above ground.
An overhang of about 6" is allowed at each end
of the bar.
The Cave or Den
Children delight in an underground retreat of
their own. Boys especially pass through an age
of burrowing. A miniature "robbers' den" is
what they want.
A quantity of loose brick, some good-sized
dry-goods boxes to be torn down for the lumber,
and some utensils for digging, are the requisite
here. Lay off the plan roughly, give a few sug-
gestions, and turn the boys loose to do the work
for themselves. Now, watch them imitate prim-
itive man as they proceed to make a place to
live and hide their plunder. Some toy weapons,
fortifications, and other evidences of the defensive
instinct may be expected to develop here.
The Play-House
An outdoor playhouse may be constructed
without any considerable expense of time and
money. Such a structure soon becomes a popular
place of sociability and play for all the little ones
of the neighborhood. Make the house as follows :
Frame up a sand-box as directed above for
outdoor use and consider this as the foundation
of the house. Nail firmly to this the necessary
number of 2 x 4 uprights 6 or 8 feet long. Frame
up above as for an ordinary comb roof. Brace
the corner uprights. Cover the roof with sheath-
ing and with one-ply tar paper to keep out the
sun and the major part of the rain.
Leaving a space for the door or entrance,
cover the sides all round with heavy-strand woven
fencing-wire having the square mesh. This wire
lets in- the light, keeps out the "enemy," and is
good for climbing (for the children) and for
the trailing vines which may be grown on the
outside.
The floor of the house is covered with four
to six inches of sand. Seats, blocks, a hammock,
a chair, a swing and other childish bric-a-brac
may all serve .as furnishings. Here the story-
hour may be enjoyed, or the mother may sit with
her handwork while the little ones play.
^ 5 SIXTH YEAR .S 5
PLAYS AND GAMES FOR THE SIXTH YEAR
LUELLA A. PALMER
When a child has passed his fifth birthday he
begins to enjoy games that have very simple rules.
Help him to play fair. If he does not seem to
follow the rules of a game, make them simpler
so that he will understand them.
Sense-Plays
Hide the Ball. — The previous hiding-plays
should be made more difficult. The object may
be colored so that it will be almost indistinguish-
able or it may be very small. If several children
are playing, the one who sees the object must
not show where it is but must sit down. When
all are seated, the child who first saw the object
gets it and hides it again.
One from the Ring. — Have several different
objects or balls of the six prismatic colors placed
in a small ring on the floor. One child hides his
eyes while another takes away one of the objects.
.'\fter opening his eyes the child tries to guess
which object has been removed. To make the
game more difficult, increase the number and
similarity of the objects.
Hiding a Child. — A game similar to the above
is played by a ring of children. One child closes
his eyes and another leaves the ring. Then the
one who closed his eyes tries to guess the name
of the one who is hidden.
Mask Game. — Several children hide their eyes
while one child puts on a brownie or Jack-o'-
Lantern mask, which can easily be made by the
children with paper and crayon. As the children
guess the name of the masked child, they whisper
it to the leader and then take their seats. When
all are seated, the first one to give the correct
name has a chance to hide his eyes. Increase the
difficulty of the game by covering the clothing also.
Who Stoops Last. — Several children walk up
and down the room. A march is played on the
piano and stopped suddenly in the middle of a
phrase. When the music ceases the children must
stoop ; the last one to do so must return to his
seat. Continue until only one child is left stand-
ing.
Put Hands On. — This game helps a child to
follow the spoken word in opposition to his im-
pulse to imitate an action seen. The children
first practice putting both hands on wrists, toes,
hips, etc., as the leader directs. Then, after ex-
plaining that the children must do as she says
and not as she does, she will direct them to
"Place hands on knees," and at the same time
will put her hands on her head. After a few trials,
any child caught following the action rather than
the word must sit ; the one who remains standing
longest wins the game.
What am I Doing? — One child closes his eyes
while another walks, runs, knocks on floor, or
makes a noise in some familiar way. The blind-
folded child tries to guess what has been done.
What is It? — Supply a bag containing miscel-
laneous articles, such as spools, balls, buttons,
blocks, etc. Let the children stand in a line with
their hands behind them. One of their number
places an object drawn from the bag in each
child's hand and he must guess what it is by feel-
ing of it without looking at it.
Daffodils. — Let a child close his eyes. Hold
a flower over his head or nearer if the perfume
is faint. Then sing:
"Daffodils and violets,
Roses, sweet and fair,
Tell me, pretty maiden,
What have you in your hair?
"Oranges, or grapes or plums,
Apple, peach, or pear.
One I place within your hand,
Guess what you have there."
This last stanza can be repeated for either a
touching, tasting, or smelling game.
Night Game. — Fear of the dark can be lessened
if Mother will, once in a while, go with the child
into a rather empty, dark room. Let Mother
stand in the center while the little one goes a
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short distance away, ringing a small bell. When
the ringing stops Mother must find where the
child is. Let the two take turns at this play.
Movement-Plays
A child of five tries to jump the rope, to slide,
to whirl around, to hop a certain distance on one
foot. Previously it has been a great feat to
perform the act, now he begins to set a certain
limit as a goal.
Imitations become more exact and varied. The
horses may walk, trot, gallop, and high-step. The
birds may fly high up into the sky or low down,
be large birds with widespread wings or tiny ones
with small, quickly moving wings. The running
may be done lightly, as a ball bounces. The
hopping may be done on two feet and with body
bent to imitate a frog. Arms can be waved up
and down for windmills, while the body is held
more rigid than for seesaws. The whole body
can sway to represent the trees .blown by the
wind. The adult should direct the child's atten-
tion to the ways in which the plays can "be varied
and woven together to form a tiny drama.
Walk slowly; fast; like ponies.
Walk with body bending forward, like horses
drawing heavy load.
Walk with long steps ; on tiptoe ; tall, like
giants.
March like soldiers.
March with hands on head for caps; on shoul-
ders for epaulets; waving for flags; imitating
difl'erent band instruments.
Run on line on tiptoe.
Skip with two feet.
Hop on one foot, then on other foot.
Gallop like horses.
Jump over low stick, like hurdle.
Tramp like horses.
Body down slowly ; up quickly.
Body bent front and back at waist, hands on
hips.
Feet slide from side to side, like skating.
Stretch hands up, pick apples from trees.
Stretch hands down, pick apples from ground.
Stretch up to take hold of rope ; pull far down.
Clap hands quickly; slowly.
Clap hands back ; front ; above head.
Twirl hands quickly, slowly, like wheel.
Arms extended, one up, other down, like wind-
mill.
Arms extended, push back, like rowing with
oars. (This is reverse motion to actual rowing,
but in this form is excellent exercise to expand
the chest.)
Twirl arms out, up. back, down, like wheels.
(Give in this exact order; the reverse motion
does not develop the chest or waist muscles.)
Head bent up, down like toy sheep.
Head sideways bend.
Head roll sloivly.
Ball-Plays
Bounce or Toss Ball. — Bounce or toss the ball
to music or to simple counting, limiting the win-
ning point to small numbers at first. Counting
eight to the descending scale gives a simple
rhythm.
Hoop Ball. — Toss the ball through a suspended
hoop to a child on the other side of the room.
Hot Ball. — The children are seated on the floor
in a ring. A ball is rolled back and forth. The
children must not grasp it, but push it away with
the palms of their hands, not allowing it to touch
them. A later development is to push the ball
away with the back of the hand. Another varia-
tion is to keep two balls rolling, one large and
one small.
Balls in the Ring. — Chalk a three-foot ring on
the floor. Let the children, one at a time, try to
roll their .balls so that they will remain in the
ring ; or place several balls in the ring and let
the children roll the balls to knock out those that
are in the ring.
Ball and Bell. — Suspend a bell from 3, small up-
right standard. Let children stand in a row a
short distance from the bell, each one with a
ball, and at the signal "One, two, three, roll,"
they try one at a time to strike the low-swung bell.
Ninepins. — Place six of the ninepins so that they
form a triangle. Each child in turn has three
balls and tries to roll them so as to throw down
all the pins. Those who succeed have another
chance ; those who do not must await their turn
to try again.
Dodge Ball. — The children form a ring with
five or six in the middle. The children on the
outside try to roll a large ball so that it will touch
one of those in the center, who keep dodging it.
As soon as touched, each one must return to his
place in the ring. Continue until all have been
sent back. When the children have become expert
at dodging, use a smaller ball or let the large
ball be tossed instead of rolled.
Dramatic Play
In the sixth year more incidents should be
woven together in the plots and told more con-
nectedly, with more descriptive language and ac-
tion. The same subjects interest as the previous
year, but the postman must have a bag, and the
horse a pair of reins. Adults should not inter-
FROM THE THIRD TO THE SIXTH BIRTHDAY
m
fere by insisting on too complete a costume. In-
terests will now be wider; other plays acted out
may be fireman, farmer, teacher, storekeeper, ex-
pressman, milkman, coal man, artist. The play
of "train" may be so extended that stations are
required, also ticket sellers, conductors, and engi-
12. And then the wheat is threslied.
13. 'Tis ground into the flour.
14. The flour makes good bread.
This is a long story and the children will prob-
ably not care to reproduce the whole of it. It
is given here as a suggestion.
FINGERS AT PLAY'
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neers. The passengers may leave the train at a
country station and drive a^way to visit friends
and return to the city later.
The Wheat. — The story of the wheat may be
set to the familiar tune of "Farmer in the Dell."
The verses might be
1. The farmer in the field —
2. The farmer takes a horse —
3. The farmer takes a plow —
4. The farmer plows the ground —
5. The farmer sows the seed —
6. The rain comes falling down —
7. The sunbeams help to grow —
8. The wheat grows up so tall —
9. The farmer cuts it down —
10. He ties it into bundles —
11. He takes it to the barn.
Longer Mother Goose rhymes may be acted
out this year.
Little Boy Blue.—Ont boy sits down under a
table and pretends to sleep while two or three
children wander around one part of the room
(the "meadow") and eat grass while others eat
"corn" in another corner. At a blast from "Little
Boy Blue's" horn the "sheep" and "cows" run to
some cover designated as the pasture or barn.
Other Mother Goose rhymes are good, such as
"Bo-peep," "Four and Twentv Blackbirds," "Baa,
Baa, Black Sheep," "Hey Diddle, Diddle," and
"Boys and Girls, Come Out to Play."
Good stories for dramatization are "The Three
Bears," "The Night Before Christmas," "Little
Red Apple," and "The Shoemaker and the Elves."
* From
Company.
'Ring Songs and Games," Lucy Wheelock Training School. Compiled by Flora H. Clifford. Milton Bradley
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Finger-Plays
THE WEATHER VANE
From north and south and east and west
The merry wind comes blowing ;
And what its name and whence it came
The weather vane is showing.
THE MICE
See the round mousehole !
Who is at home?
Ring at the doorbell,
Will anyone come?
Yes, one comes creeping
On his tiptoes.
Number two follows.
How soft he goes!
Three chases after.
Then four, then five.
Off they all scamper.
Then down, down they dive.
COUNTING OUT
Here, there; this, that;
High, low ; stood, sat ;
Red, blue ; whisper, shout ;
This finger goes out.
THE PLANT
First a seed so tiny
Hidden from the sight.
Then two pretty leaflets
Struggling toward the
Soon a bud appearing
Turns into a flower.
Kissed by golden sunshine.
Washed by silver shower,
Growing sweeter, sweeter,
Every happy hour,
Kissed by golden sunshine.
Washed by silver shower,
light;
Social Plays
Lads and Lassics.-
Rye."
-Tune : "Comin" Thro' the
"Lads and lassies out a walking chance some day to
meet.
First they bow, then clasping hands, dance with
fairy feet.
Tra, la, la, etc.
"Lads and lassies, home returning, gayly wave good
day.
Hoping soon to meet again for a happy play.
Tra, la, la, etc."
The children walk in different directions as
though on the street. At the words "First they
bow," they bow to each other and then all join
hands in one large ring. They dance to the right
during the chorus. If desired, the chorus may
be repeated while all dance to the left. At the
beginning of the second verse the children sepa-
rate and walk away, waving good-by. During the
second chorus all clap hands to the music.
Wind up the Fagot* — The children form a line
with a large child at the head. Holding hands,
the players wind slowly around the head child as
a pivot, singing, "Wind up the bush fagot, and
wind it up tight ; wind it all day and wind it all
night," until all are wound up tight. Then all
sing, "Stir up the dumplings, the pot boils over,"
singing faster and faster and jumping up and
down, keeping time, until all are in a general
mix-up.
This game can be varied by having the head
child lead the line into a smaller and smaller ring
until he stands in the center. A more orderly
way of dispersing — without the rollicking fun —
is to have the head child reverse his steps and
lead the line out into the large circle again.
Little Boy and Playmates. — The children form
in two rows facing each other, with one child
halfway between them near one end. This child
goes up and down between the rows, showing the
action which all are to imitate.
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This song is repeated while the two sides ad-
vance to the middle and return to their places,
imitating the action of the leader. This child
then chooses another to -be the leader.
Fanner in the Field. — Tune: "Farmer in the
Dell." One of the children is chosen for the
farmer, and he, in turn, chooses a horse, cow,
sheep, dog, hen, etc.
This can be changed into a contest game by
choosing but three of the animals — horse, cow,
sheep. The farmer goes home, leaving the gate
open, the animals all run out, and the farmer has
a hard chase to catch them all. He inay need
to select a helper. With this form of the game
the verses of the song would be:
1. The farmer in the field, etc.
2. The farmer needs a horse, etc.
3. The farmer needs a cow, etc.
4. The farmer needs a sheep, etc.
5. The farmer opens the gate, etc.
6. The animals all run out, etc.
• From George Ellsworth Johnson, "Education by Plays
and Games." Used by permission of Ginn & Compaily.
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After the animals are caught and the farmyard
gate closed, sing:
7. The animals all are home, etc.
Seven. — The children stand in a ring. One
child starts counting, beginning with himself, and
when he has reached the seventh child, that child
"La, la, la," etc. Both children then stand in
front of partners and the game begins again.
Race. — Two children start from a given point
in front of the leader and run in opposite direc-
tions around the circle until they reach the leader
again. This game can be varied in numberless
ways. A chair outside of the circle may be the
starting-point and goal. The children may start
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group counts seven. The second child then starts Playmates. — The children stand in a circle
counting from his former position, and the game with one child seated in a chair in the center,
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Skipping. — One child faces a partner and sings
the following song. At the end they cross hands
and skip together while the melody is repeated to
middle suits his actions to the words of the song.
At the end of the last line he extends his right
hand to some child who comes forward, shakes
hands, and then sits in the chair.
Over the Lea. — The children dance around
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Lightly.
while one child .stands blindfolded in the center
of room. At the close of the song all the chil-
dren stoop. The one in the center then turns
and walks until he can place his hand on some
child's head. This child then becomes the one
blindfolded.
Dance
Children stand in two concentric circles, part-
ners facing each other.
Clap to two measures.
Dance with hands on hips to two measures.
Repeat.
Take partner by hands and circle in place to
end.
Bow, and inner circle moves one place to left
for next partner.
Repeat as often as desired or imtil each child
meets his first partner.
Children like to clap their hands, to dance in
front of a partner, and to whirl around with their
playmate. There are no steps in this dance which
need to be taught. It can be suggested in what
order the activities which they enjoy might come,
but further than that an adult need not interfere
with the child's free expression.
PLAY WITH DOLLS
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'The doU is [tcrhaps as significant as the' statue,, the gargoyle, the coin." — .\lice Meynell.
"The doll." Sully tells us, "takes a supreme place
in the fancy realm of play." The complete adapt-
ability of the doll makes it an ideal means for
dramatic play. "A good, efficient, able-bodied
doll, like the American girl's," says Joseph Lee,
"is at home in any situation in life, from princess
to kitchen maid, to which she may be called. And
one doll in her time plays many parts. She has
to, or lose her job." Besides this, so perfectly
does the doll mingle with the child's own person-
ality that it produces and maintains a complete
feeling of oneness. Says Sully : "The dolly must
do all and be all that I am ; so the child in his
warm attachment seems to argue. This feeling
of oneness is strengthened by that of exclusive
possession, the sense that the child himself is
the only one who really knows dolly, who can hear
her cry when she cries, and so forth."
A most thorough study of the interest of chil-
dren in dolls was made several years ago at Clark
University by A. Caswell Ellis and G. Stanley
Hall. They found that the age of doll-play was
chiefly from 4 to 14, with a rapidly increasing
interest between 7 and 10, and with two years
of greatest enthusiastn at 8 and 9. The great
majority of little children prefer baby-dolls,
larger children like child-dolls, and in general all
children prefer dolls which represent an age some-
what near but perhaps a trifle less than their own.
The Educative Value of Doll-Play
A questionnaire as to whether they believed
doll-play had any effect upon their own moral and
intellectual development when they were children
was sent to a number of adults Forty-four
thought such an influence was "good;" forty-one
thought it helped in the preparation for future
parenthood ; thirty-eight thought it helped to fit
for domestic life; thirty-nine thought that it de-
veloped morals; thirty-five thought it developed
taste; thirty-five thought it furnished training in
sewing.
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3S3.
One or two miscellaneous facts are of interest.
The investigators found that boys play with dolls
as eagerly as do girls, but not for so long a time.
It was their conviction that boys, if not ridiculed,
would play with dolls more generally, and that
they ought to have the profit which comes from
such pleasure. As to whether doll-play is to be
interpreted as an early outcropping of mother-
love among girls, their judgment was negative,
since they found that many women who were
excellent mothers had never played with dolls,
and that many girls who were extremely fond of
dolls did not become especially domestic. They
rather interpreted the apparent maternal tenden-
cies as largely imitative.
Dr. Ellis and Dr. Hall both would impress us
that doll-play is of very great value, both as a
means by which we who are parents may learn
to understand our children and as a means of their
part of self-education. In playing with dolls the
childish instincts are open for observation. To
their dolls the children whisper their most sacred
confidences ; they f ee^ them their favorite foods
and even project upon them the symptoms of on-
coming maladies. What they are with, and feel
toward, their dolls is what they most largely are
and feel themselves. Doll-play has very great
educative value. Young children have been known
to learn to read so as to teach their dolls. They
construct miniature villages for them and thus get
valuable handicraft training; they take them upon
imaginary journeys and thus learn to know about
the outer world. These investigators go so far
as to say that doll-play could aid in teaching
everything that is being taught in the kindergar-
ten, and that therefore dolls ought to be a cen-
tral educational appliance in that institution.
If these things are true, it behooves the mother
to observe most carefully the play of her children
with dolls. By its use she may learn to un-
derstand them better than in any other way, and
by skillfully directing such play she may do more
for their mental and moral awakening than by
any other process. The bright mother needs only
a suggestion to apply this thought. Through a
doll-supper or a doll-party a little child may learn
table manners; in doll-discipline she may learn
to discipline herself; in the making and care of
the doll's clothing and in doll housekeeping she
may learn the simpler housewifely arts ; while
playing with other girls in a doll community she
may learn lessons of sharing and generosity.
The doll has a special value in developing the
child's love for his home. The next interest with
babies after ball-play is in their home surround-
ings. The doll becomes the personality around
which play with home things and home occupa-
tions may most readily center. So, as Patty Rod-
man tells us, "dolls that can be dressed and un-
dressed are best, for they give the little hands
something to do. The child is a doer of deeds,
and will imitate all the acts and sayings of those
about him. He learns to do by doing; so a whole-
some suggestion and good example from the
mother are necessary to direct activity. The
mother's task is to conserve this energy."
We have in play with dolls. Miss Meredith
Smith says, an important method of moral influ-
ence. "One example,"' she continues, "may per-
haps make this more clear. At one time, when a
group of kindergarten children were playing with
their dolls, a number of them laid the dresses just
taken off on the floor. After some remark about
teaching children to take care of their clothes, I
noticed a child quickly pick up his doll's dress
and say to himself. 'I'm not going to teach my lit-
tle girl to throw her things on the floor.' The
interesting thing about it was that teaching his
little girl meant doing it himself, for it did not
seem to occur to him to make any pretense of
playing the doll was picking them up.
"Is it not true, though this is what zve would
call play, that there is a strong element of reality
in it to children? In such absorbing occupation
they are really living. Dolls are to them other
people. And if it be true that children become
like what they imitate, we must believe that char-
acter will be influenced and modified for the bet-
ter in this reproduction of human life through
play."
How to Make the Doll the Center of Play-
Activities in the Home
A mother entered her five-year-old son in a
kindergarten. She took him there every day,
and once in a wliile staj-ed with her three-year-
old daughter to visit. Noticing that the chil-
dren were happy .because they were busy with
work which appealed to them, and that the doll's
house was frequently the center of attraction,
she decided to allow her little ones to make a
house at home. For twenty cents two wooden egg-
boxes were secured from the grocer, amid much
excitement on the part of the children.
The boxes were taken straight to the children's
corner, and it was decided that work should be
done on them on rainy days only, and that the
children were to do all of the work if possible.
At their dictation. Mother made a list of the
things they intended to do: paint the outside of
the boxes white; make a curtain across the front;
have a kitchen, dining-room, sitting-room and
bedroom; paper the rooms; make rugs for the
floors, and make furniture for the different
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rooms. The next thing to do was to prepare a
list of the various materials needed: paint, paper,
scissors, thumbtacks, cardboard boxes, spools,
glue, scalloped-edged tissue-paper napkins for
window curtains, white oilcloth, japalac, and so
on. These lists were not completed at once, but
added to as the children fliought of things, or as
new things were made for the kindergarten doll-
house, which served as their model.
All this was splendid training in memory and
in concentration, for it kept the attention di-
rected toward one object, and at the same time it
was sufiiciently varied work not to become mo-
notonous. It also developed skill in the use of
the hands. Mother, who was just as enthusi-
astic as the children, would occasionally suggest
something of which they had not thought, and
sometimes in their walks they would stop at
shop-windows to play a new game which this
occupation had suggested, "finding treasures for
the doll-house."
The children were allowed to ask the shop-
clerks for the material, and sometimes they paid
for it with their own money, for Mother knew
that, like "grown-ups," they would prize things
more if they bought them with money of their
own than if the things were given to them. In
this way the boy learned to count, and both real-
ized, to a slight degree at least, the relation be-
tween value and price ; also that they could buy
only what they could afford.
For example, one day they planned to buy a
paint-brush with five pennies they had saved
together. When they reached the store they
noticed first a large attractive brush, but found
it was ten cents. There were smaller five-cent
brushes, but it would take more than they had
to get one for each. Little Daughter wanted
Mother to give them the extra five cents needed,
and Son wished her to lend it to them, but both
these suggestions were finally ruled out, with in-
calculable value to both children. There was
quite a long debate and a hard struggle in each
little head before the final decision was reached
— to buy one five-cent brush and each take turns
using it.
Materials were kept in a covered box on top
of the doll's house. The children returned every-
thing to this box when they were ready to stop
play for the day, including their aprons, which
Mother had made large enough to cover them
completely, and sheets of a newspaper, which
were used to spread on the floor to protect the
rug from stains.
It took a number of days to paint the outside
of the house, as little children can not remain at
one occupation long, and many articles were made
for the rooms during this time. The wall-paper
was cut from a sample book given by a neighbor-
ing wall-paper firm — blue and white tiled paper
for the kitchen, flowered paper for the other
rooms. Rugs were cut from mail-order catalogs
and pasted on stiff cardboard. Tables, chairs,
and bed were made of paper boxes with spool
legs. The kitchen sink was made of a small tin
box fastened to the wall with two square brass
hooks, inverted, to represent hot and cold water
faucets.
This house was kept for several years, but the
interior was constantly changed as the children
became more efficient in handwork. There was
no whining, "What shall we do?" They would
play for long periods at this favorite occupation
while Mother sat by and mended and made their
clothes. She, for her part, never became irritable
when they interrupted for legitimate assistance,
for she realized the wonderful lessons they were
constantly learning.
AN INTRODUCTION TO NATURE STUDY.
BY
JESSIE SCOTT HIAIES
The mere turning of children loose in Nature is
not enough. They want you to go with them, if
possible ; and they certainly want your interest.
As Tom grows older he begins to ask questions.
"How does the water go through the pipes?
How did it get into the pipes? Where is the
reservoir? How does the water get into it?
Where do the streams start?"
"Hath the rain a father?
Or who hath begotten the drops of dew?"
You know all about this endless questioning.
It has driven you to your wits' end many a time,
but did you ever think that when you are driven
into a tight corner you might say something like
this?
"I don't know how that is, but we will try to
find out together. Everything has a secret to tell
about itself, a secret that those who ask can find
out by watching the thing itself, by experimenting
and thinking. Only those who are patient enough
FROM THE THIRD TO THE SIXTH BIRTHDAY
385
to ask over and over find out the great secrets,
but we will try together."
In this word together lies courage and promise
of success. A child's interests are apt to be ca-
pricious ; so it is Mother's interest and encourage-
ment that keeps the boy's instinctive curiosity
going until it gains results to the point, and then
it is her enthusiasm which leads him on in col-
lecting material and experimenting with it until
a habit of intelligent observation is formed.
Mother and Tom and the Frogs' Eggs
For example, Tom is curious about frogs' eggs.
The other boys dip the white jelly-like masses
out of the pond into tin cans and keep them in
the backyard. Tom does the same, but after
watching them for a few days for signs of change,
he finds a bluish-white coating forming on all the
tiny black balls of the jelly mass and the odor of
the water offensive, demanding that it be thrown
away. If Mother is then consulted about the
project, she points out that the cans have been
left in the hot sun a part of the day, the water has
become too warm, and has thus caused the decay
of the eggs. She helps Tom to think of the con-
ditions prevailing where the eggs were obtained,
so as to know how to provide an artificial home
for them as comfortable as possible. Water shut
into a tin can or even a glass jar becomes warm
and stale. A broader surface exposed to the air
makes aeration possible, more as it is in the pond,
so the next batch of frogs'-eggs- jelly is placed
in a large pan containing the pond's own water
with perhaps a little of its mud and a few of its
green growing plants. It is set in a light place
but in a north exposure, where there is no danger
of sunlight overheating it. There the tadpoles
flourish and develop in fine style, and Tom, find-
ing that partnership with Mother yields good
returns, will share his next venture with her.
The Place of Books in Nature Study
•
However, Tom's growing confidence in Moth-
er's wisdom may give rise to some anxiety on her
part lest she be not always prepared as a helper.
Then it is that she will appreciate the Book-
shelf volumes on Nature and Outdoor Life for
her own reference and for inspiration to first-
hand study. Only let her never feel it necessary
to cram zvith facts from hooks. Nature study was
never meant'to be a mere accumulation of facts,
never primarily book work, not even a course in
biology, but rather an opportunity to develop,
through actual contact, "a sympathetic acquaint-
ance with Nature." and "to learn to see the things
that one looks at." according to Dr. Bailey of
Cornell, who has been one of the leaders in the
great movement for nature study in this country.
So
"Bring not the fancies found in books.
Leave authors' eyes and fetch our own."
The one most important thing is that the chil-
dren have the actual contact with Nature together
with Mother's fellowship in their interest.
Sample Questions and How to Get Answers
Why do dandelions spread their leaves out like
a wheel lying flat to the earth in Fall, Winter, and
early Spring, but hold them up straight in the tall
grass? How can they hold their seed balloons
up so high above the lawn in the morning when
Father cut the grass the night before and all the
dandelions, supposedly, were mowed down ? Let
us watch and see.
How can a baby robin eat so many worms, more
than his own bulk? Do birds have any work to
do? How long does it take to dig 152 worms for
a baby robin's daily food? Try it and you will
know.
How did the stream happen to take such a
crooked course through the town ? Experiment
with water in a sand-pile, using also a few pieces
of rock.
What became of the pollywogs' tails? How did
Mr. Toad change his coat? He srvaUowed it!
Oh, the millions of fascinating, curious things
that the out of doors holds !
If the children discover wonders for them-
selves, well and good. If they have queries, en-
courage them to pursue them to their solution.
Make excursions with them to see the gathering
of the harvest of fruits, vegetables, and grain.
Call attention to the need of man's care for do-
mestic animals in contrast to the wild creatures'
care for themselves. Notice their adaptability
for this and the many devices for protection in
coloring and habits that Nature has given them.
Gather berries for food, for home decoration,
and for the little ones to string with reeds or
grasses cut into short lengths. Gather branches
of gay leaves and autumn wildflowers; collect
seed-cases and examine the scores of curious
means of seed-scattering. The children did not
know that the burrs that clung to their stocking
legs or to the cows' tails were seeking a ride to
a new home. Even seeds have their own indi-
viduality and their own curious habits.
Everything has its story and every day out of
doors is a puzzle picture.
How to Study the Habits of Plants
The children will enjoy getting acquainted with
the various plants and trees. The first step, of
course, like a favorable introduction to a person,
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is to stand face to face with the plant and to hear
its name distinctly pronounced. A little child is
athirst for just such experiences. In the period
of acquirement of language the names of things
and of attributes of things are sweet food to a
voracious child-mind. The oft-repeated "What's
that?" or "What is its name?" give us the clue
to this interest. So make the most of your chance
to introduce the children to as many flowers, trees,
shrubs, grasses, and ferns as possible.
It will not be long before they will discover
that each has its own place to live and its own
manner of growth. We do not realize that chil-
dren are thinking about these things until some
day even the five-year-olds surprise us by saying
that apple, cherry, and pear blossoms are tree
flowers, that lilacs, roses, and peonies are bush
flowers, that yellow violets, trilliums, and adder
tongues are woods flowers, that tulips and pan-
sies live in gardens, blue violets and strawberry
blossoms grow in the meadow, and white clovers
and dandelions on the lawns and roadsides. Then
it will be great fun to make long lists of these
various classes on a blackboard — if you 'have a
large one- — or on sheets of paper pinned to the
wall or in a notebook. See which list will be the
longest. It will be a motive for observation
through many happy days in fields and woods and
will amount to a sort of inventory of one's ac-
quaintance with plant life.
There are other games of classification for the
very little children. They love to handle the
flowers, and can enjoy selecting and arranging
them. Let them have a plenty of empty bottles
or small glass jars, enough so that each variety
of flower can be placed by itself. Then the vari-
ous small bouquets may be arranged according
to color, fragrance or the lack of it, size of blos-
som, variety of stem — that is, woody or tender —
length of stem, or according to any other basis
that seems interesting.
After the children have discovered the places
where various flowers like best to live, it is only
a step further to learn that they like to live in
family or neighborhood groups. There are trees
and shrubs, low-growing plants and mosses that
can always be found living near each other in
the woods. If you see one you can be fairly sure
that the others are close by. There is an entirely
different group in the swamp-land and another in
the open sandy spaces. To get acquainted with
the various members of each group is an interest-
ing study for the older children, who will enjoy
reading about the reclamation of desert land in
the west and the transference of plant families
to suit the changed conditions of soil and ex-
posure.
Sometimes the same plant will show difference
of growth according to its environment, lying
in a flat rosette in one spot and stretching its
leaves in long upright fronds in a shadier place.
This way of looking at plants as real, living
things, affected by conditions very much as peo-
ple are, is one secret of helping children to know
and love them. Froebel says,
"Because he lives himself, the child
Oft thinks that all things live,
And pours his little heart upon
That which no love can give.
"But when his life, outreaching, meets
With answering life around.
His wistful eyes are lit with joy
That comrades he has found."
This represents the child's attitude, but it is
al.so a matter of science that all plant life is "an-
swering life," responding to conditions and being
modified thereby. Each kind of plant has its own
distinctive character and a reason for all its being
and doing. For example, take the dandelion,
whose cheerful, aggressive, never-say-die char-
acteristics have led it to the place of conqueror
in all too many grass plots.
How to Know the Dandelion
It is a child's flower, with blossoms enough
to satisfy the desire of all, and in possibilities
as play material excelling most plants. To begin
with, let it "tell if Mother wants you" or "tell
the time of day." Make chains and curls, wreaths
and whistles, but do not let its acquaintance drop
there. Discover its persistence, its cleverness in
adaptation by some such pathway as follows :
Select for observation a single well-developed
dandelion plant. Mark it and watch it day after
day to discover its
I. Habits.
• Where it lives.
Who are its plant neighbors.
Who are its visitors.
How it keeps warm.
How it keeps clean.
How it drinks.
How it sleeps.
What it does on rainy days. Sunny days.
How it takes care of its buds, as to protec-
tion and food.
How it makes blossoms.
How it makes seeds.
How it scatters seeds.
Later, select other plants in varying locations
and compare them with the first.
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2. How the plant is made :
( 1 ) Shape and arrangement of leaves.
(2) Placuig of buds in relation to leaves.
(3) Kind of stem.
(4) Structure of bud cup.
(5) Structure of the blossom. Many sepa-
rate flowers. Count them.
(6) Seeds and their sails.
3. How each part helps the whole — that is,
relation of structure to habits:
(1) The leaves protect and feed the whole
plant. They lie close to the earth for warmth
and they spread in a rosette to get the most
light possible.
They surround the buds and flowers so as to
feed them most easily.
(2) The roots help to feed and water the
whole plant.
They hold the plant in place.
Note the difficulty of removing the whole root
from the ground.
(3) The stem is cylindrical for strength and
economy. Being hollow, it serves its purpose of
raising the flower or seed-vessels quickly, with
least expenditure of food and force.
(4) The bud cup holds together the large group
of flowers and makes it possible for scores to
mature as easily as one. It holds the seeds and
protects them while they are ripening.
(5) The blossom calls the bees and furnishes
honey and pollen to them.
(6) When the seeds are ripe, the bud-cup turns
downward and lifts the little white circle that the
seeds stand on, thus spreading the seed-balloon.
(7) The tiny parachutes carry the seeds away
to new homes. They need new homes because
there are too many of them to find food in a
single spot of earth.
4. Who the dandelion's friends are — the bees
in particular:
(i) What they do for it.
(2) What it gives them.
(3) How the bees use flower dust.
(4) How the flowers use it to make seeds.
5. What dandelions are good for:
(i) Food for people.
(2) Food for cattle.
(3) Medicine.
(4) Beauty, cheerfulness, and to teach many
wonderful secrets to those who have
eyes to see and minds to think.
By skillful questioning help the children to dis-
cover for themselves if possible all of this mate-
rial. Make it a part of the game to find the
story directly from the plant itself and do not
use books e.xcept as a last resort.
This general procedure may be followed in get-
ting acquainted with any form of plant life.
Everything has its story and every day out of
doors is like a puzzle picture.
The Care of Pets
One of the best means of learning to take re-
sponsibility and thoughtful care for others lies
in the care of pets, because their appeal is so
strong. Pretty as the garden's bloom may be,
interesting as it is to watch the growth of plants,
and satisfying as it may be to eat their fruits,
the companionship of friendly animals is worth
more to the average child.
Pansies may dry up in silence, but if Rover
needs a drink he has a way of telling his little
master of his neglect and of winning sympathy
as well as water. If he is well and promptly fed,
the friendly wagging of his tail speaks his pleas-
ure and gives approval to the thoughtful child.
His happiness lies in fellov^fship with the chil-
dren, his care of them is watchful and efficient,
and his affection for them may call out their
kindest care. Yet children are so used to re-
ceiving care and never giving it that they may
be careless and naughty to a friend as patient
and unfailingly loyal as a dog. It is the appeal
of the helplessness of little things that wins the
best from all of us. The soft, furry balls of
kittens who can not yet see, the straggling, weak-
kneed puppies, the baby rabbits shivering with
the cold before their fur has grown — all these
win the tenderness of a child. Is it because he,
too, knows what it is to be helpless? At any
rate, there is no better way to teach a child to
value a mother's care than to let him see the
mother rabbit pulling out her own soft fur to
warm her little ones: the mother bird nestling
her fledglings, ugly little cry-babies though they
are, is busily searching for food for them; the
mother hen clucking her chickens to safe shelter
under her wings; the mother cat dressing her
kittens with never-ceasing care for their clean-
liness. Thus the children are prepared to know
and understand somewhat of their own mother's
devoted care. So gratitude springs.
Some parents are finding that the care of pets
makes a suitable opportunity for introducing chil-
dren to the laws of reproduction. It is true that
from three to five or six years of age children
are in a condition of innocent teachableness that
especially prepares them to learn from Nature's
object lessons in all purity, and surely this is
preferable to having children learn things that
should be sacred from the lips of playmates that
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may have been polluted, ever so little. One can
never tell how early such whisperings of evil
may begin. Therefore, it is advisable that before
the school age, certainly, there should be some
home teaching about the origin of life and the
mother care of little ones before their birth. Ob-
servation of the life of pets may well be the
occasion for such instruction, which should be
given in such a way as to make the children
free to come again with any similar questions
that might arise. It is advisable to speak of such
things quite simply and naturally, and yet to teach
the children that they are only to be talked over
with Mother or Father, like certain other private
affairs of life, not for general conversation.
To leave the children to learn from Nature
alone is not likely to be satisfactory, for curiosity
will enter in, and imless confidence between par-
ents and children is established so that children
feel free to ask questions, more harm than good
may be done.
Inasmuch as human life is in reality far differ-
ent from all other life, it is probably quite as well
for the mother to tell the story about the human
baby in the first place, whenever the child shows
by questioning that he is wondering about such
things. That story, more than any other, can
quicken tenderness and gratitude in a child's
heart, if it is simply and reverently told.
It is a good plan to let children have some pets
for their very own, for which they alone are
responsible, as soon as they are old enough to
give the necessary care. But it is also well to be
prepared to entertain, for a few days at a time,
other animal visitors — a wild rabbit, a tame duck
or hen, a pair of pigeons, a turtle, or a toad. In
such case the first thought should be for the
comfort of the visitor, and a place should be
provided as near like the natural habitat as pos-
sible. An "animal house," so-called, may be made
of galvanized wire netting, about ^-inch mesh.
It should be about 30 x 18 inches, with a zinc
bottom and a roof of netting. In the middle of
one long side there should be a door about ten
inches square with hinges and a hasp lock. There
should be legs one inch high at the corners.
This is light enough to be moved about easily,
open to the view, and adaptable to many kinds
of occupants.
Sawdust, straw, or sand can be put in the bot-
tom when occupied by fowls; half of it may be
carpeted for a rabbit, and he will sleep and rest
there. The bottom of the cage can be covered
with soft mud and moss for a toad, and the mud
should be kept moist. A toad does not drink but
absorbs moisture through its skin, and to that
end buries itself in wet earth. For frogs, sala-
manders, and turtles, a photographer's black ba-
sin, or any pan, can be set in and filled with
water to make a pond. Mud, mosses, and grasses
may be set around it and a stone large enough
to project out of the water may be placed in the
tiny "pond."
When the visitors go, and they should never
be kept long enough to suffer discomfort, the
house can be washed with a hose and made per-
fectly sanitary for the next occupant.
A case for cocoons can be made of wire net-
ting of the same kind, in shape suitable to be set
outside a window and fastened to the ledge. This
keeps them in natural conditions of moisture and
temperature, and thus prevents shriveling and
drying of the imago.
The door of the animal house can be left open
after the visitor has made himself at home. If
he has been fed in the house and otherwise made
comfortable, he will return to it — a rabbit, toad,
or pigeon, at least, will do so.
Toads like to have their heads stroked from
front to back and will become quite tame. They
are such very useful creatures, and j'et so often
misunderstood and subject to injury, that every
child should be assisted to make intelligent ac-
quaintance with them. It is well to have a re-
serve of handkerchiefs or similar soft cloths with
which to handle toads and frogs. Though they
really can not harm one, it is more agreeable to
use a cloth.
How to Know a Pet Animal
The children will spend many happy hours
watching these various visitors. The mother's
part will be the establishment, by example, of
an attitude of friendly consideration for them all.
For successful results later, "early attitude is far
more important than early teaching." and yet,
doubtless, some direction of the child's thinking
will be helpful. One might outline a plan of
procedure like this:
1. Purpose.
The one main purpose of developing, through
experience, a sympathetic acquaintance with
Nature, should dominate all that is done.
There may well be secondary aims in the
parent's mind, such as to encourage
( 1 ) Intellectual curiosity.
(2) Freedom and accuracy in language ex-
pression.
(3) Self-control for the sake of timid crea-
tures.
(4) Nurture of helpless things.
2. Method.
An acquaintance involves a certain degree
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of knowledge gained through contact. For
it to be sympathetic there must be some ap-
preciation of the creature's relation to one's
own life, his home, his manner of life, his
friends, the conditions of his well-being, his
pleasure, or his trouble.
These facts underlie method. With these in
mind the following suggestions for teaching
are made :
(i) Informal observation with children's
questions answered by themselves as far
as possible.
(2) A\'hen a question is raised which the
children can find out for themselves by
continued observation, but have not yet
solved, it should be re-stated concisely
'by the parent as a definite problem to
be pursued together.
3. Questions that may be asked.
What is it?
Would it hurt you ? How do you know ?
Where does it live ?
Who takes care of it?
Can it take care of itself? How?
What does it eat?
How does it eat? Try it.
What does it drink ?
How does it drink? Experiment.
Is it happy now? What makes you think so?
Is it frightened?
What makes you think so?
What can it do that you do ?
What can it do that you can not do ?
How is it dressed?
What has it that we have ?
What has it that we have not?
How can we make it comfortable ?
Does it like you ? How can you tell ?
4. Encourage the children to tell their father
or other children what they have discovered.
5. The importance of the parent's use of con-
cise English must be emphasized. The use
of many words blurs the thought. Nature
study should not involve much talking by
parent or teacher.
The interest in dress and habits of such crea-
tures, and the response of their helplessness to
one's care, make ample reward for the trouble
they cause. However, one can not be too em-
phatic in warning against the discomfort or death
of such visitors. Better far never to take them
from their home than to let them come to grief.
So also in gardening. Too often plant culture in
the house is a failure. Plants in egg-shells or
small jars lack sufficient moisture and die. Care-
lessness in providing necessary conditions for
bulb culture for early spring blooming means
blighted growth, and often no blossoms at all.
This is a case where learning by experience is
too hard for any child. Successive failures would
probably result in total loss of interest, so it is
well for Father and children together to consult
Mrs. Higgins' garden guide in the Bookshelf
(vol. IV, page 135), or some other equally good
manual.
It is true that in many cases parents may well
"keep silence even from good words," while the
children listen to Nature's secrets at first hand,
but yet Mother's interest should always stand
ready in the background to give needed guidance
or approval, to help to hold curiosity to a definite
track of observation, to assist in experiment, to
encourage one to patience in awaiting results or
in the making of records, until out of nature
study grow the careful habits that make for
scientific investigation.
How came there to be an Edison but by such
persistent study and experimentation ? How came
Marconi to find the wondrous power of the air
to serve man's intercourse? How came an Au-
dubon to understand the life of birds and know
their haunts ? How came Muir to explore the
secrets of our American glaciers?
Yet it is not that we may have a greater race
of scientists that we encourage nature study, but
that children may be enriched by the training of
their own power to appreciate and enjoy life, to
know their own resources and to exult in them.
It is to teach them to appropriate riches that
will not take unto themselves wings and fly away,
but which will stand by one, increasing with the
years, proving a rest and a refreshment to the
wearied man or woman of middle life.
Who Are the Blind?
Nature is full of beauty — beauty free to all.
Shall we throw it aside or close our eyes, refus-
ing to look and be made glad because it is free?
Shall we underestimate its value because we do
not pay a paltry dime to behold it? There is
an entrance requirement which is worth infinitely
more than any fee to a box seat. It is the ability
to enjoy, the power to appreciate.
I was walking along Canal Street in New York
on a late winter afternoon. Pushcarts had been
pulled aside and the street was fairly open. One
could in places look into the squalid habitations
of men, and dark and dirty, smelly and unwhole-
some they all were, surely, but the western sky
was aflame with sunset tints, deep red and glow-
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ing gold, and silhouetted against it the stately
outlines and towers of those great lower New
York buildings. It was a glorious picture, beauty
free to all, and yet I saw not one response in a
human face, though I looked curiously and eag-
erly at them as they walked to and fro. Their
sense of appreciation had not been quickened.
Their hearts* occupation with sordid, material
things had shut their eyes to a picture unequaled,
in its way, by any the Metropolitan Museum of
Art could show. There was refreshment to be
had for an upward glance, but the hurrying crowds
of people were blind: perhaps, because their
mothers had never taught them to see. How
could a mother teach her child to see beauty?
Learning to See
First of all, in just, the way she teaches him
other things, by enjoying it herself so he could
learn by imitation. He sees his mother enjoying
a sweetmeat and he wants to taste and enjoy it
too. He sees his father smoke, perhaps, and he
must have a make-believe pipe. It is a child's
way of understanding things, and it gives an
easy clue to ways of teaching. No method is so
potent as example.
Well do I remember rousing from sleep in the
early hours of a clear winter night, feeling my
mother's gentle arms lifting me up and wrapping
me in a great blanket shawl and then carrying
me to the piazza or open window where we could
look at the stars. I don't remember what she
said. There was something about Mars or Jupi-
ter and a conjunction. I suppose I looked at what
she showed me. but the particular thing learned
was of no consequence. It was what I felt
through or in her. Those stars in their clear
brilliance in the blue-black sky were a deep joy
to her, and because she was happy she wanted to
share it with her children. So we looked and
felt also, and the influence of those silent nights
has lived with us ever since. When we are
weary or restless the stars have a peculiar charm.
Curiosity led us as we grew older to find out
about those mysterious planets, orbits, and con-
junctions that Mother found so interesting. Im-
itation was the earliest response, but it issued in
intelligent understanding and pleasure.
There is beauty in sound, and we learned to
enjoy that by imitation also.
"Hark!" Mother would say on the still Sun-
day evening in Summer. "Listen, children !" and
then, stopping for a minute to see what she meant,
we would hear the sweet sound of a bell far
away. "It is the Lansing church bell," she would
say, but though we ran off again to our play
there was a light in her face as she listened that
had some deep meaning in it, and we would often
stop again, saying to ourselves :
"It is the Lansing church bell. Listen !" And
as we listened, the stillness of the summer night,
the near chirping of crickets, katydids, and other
little garden creatures, the sweet fragrance of the
fields in bloom, and the far-off chime of the little
church bell in the village over the hill, which we
had never seen, were all mingled in our thought
with the light in Mother's face, and so we learned
to care for the music in night sounds.
On a warm, moist March morning Father re-
marked as he came from the barn, "We can
smell the Spring in the air to-day."
"What is the smell of 3pring?" we asked.
"Oh, it is the smell of the earth growing bare,
the smell of swelling buds, or the moist sweetness
of the south breeze." So we little folks went
trudging about, sniffing of bare earth to learn
the secret, or holding our faces up to the soft
wind like young deer learning life through their
noses.
The summertime brought new-mown hay, the
dainty fragrance of white clover with the bees
in it, apple bloom and roses, and the fragrance of
fruits and burning leaves made Autumn sweet.
So, through teaching us to enjoy, our lives were
stored with treasure. Sometimes it was the
moonlight making patterns on our floor or the
frost decorating our windows ; sometimes it was
the beating of the rain on the roof or the croon-
ing of the wind in the pines; sometimes it was
the howling of the wind about the house on wild
nights, rattling window-blinds and doors, ruffling
the hair on our brows as it came in the open
window, even shaking the house on its founda-
tions ; all, somehow, were for us, we felt.
"Did you hear the wind howl in the night?"
Mother asked. "It makes one feel very snug and
warm in his bed." We loved it for its power
and its sweet breath. We cared a good deal to
learn about it as we grew older — what made the
wind, how the weather-man could tell, by com-
paring the various barometric readings, what the
weather would be. We learned of cloud forma-
tion, how to know the signs of rain or of clear-
ing weather. Every day was different from the
otliers, each with its own interest and cheer, and
not until years after, when we went away from
home, did we learn that some people fret about
the weather and hate the sighing of the wind;
that the dripping of the rain can make one nerv-
ous and the falling of the leaves bring depression.
Oh, open the eyes of your children to see that
every season has its own glory and every day
its own gladness.
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"In rose time or in berry time.
When ripe seeds fall or buds peep out.
When green the grass or white the rime,
There's something to be glad about."
So it is that children's minds are prepared to
understand and enjoy the imagery of literature,
and nature poetry becomes a familiar language.
So, also, a child is led to know the great Creator
and to love Him for His gracious benefits, as
one of His little ones said in her evening prayer
of spontaneous thanksgiving, "Dear God, thank
you for the apples, the plums, the pears, and the
bread and milk. I love you. Good-night."
To be awake to all the wonders of our daily
experience makes one reverent of life. With daily
miracles before our eyes we have no need for
doubt of miracles, past or future. With eyes
opened to behold the glory of each passing season
one's heart is tuned to Nature's hymn:
"Honor and majesty are before Him: strength and
beauty are in His sanctuary."
BETTY'S NATURE FRIENDS*
BY
MRS. ELIZABETH HUBBARD BONSALL
fuzzy hairs and gum, to protect them from injury
from the winter rains and melting snow. And
after the leaves fall their usefulness is not over,
for they decay, forming leaf-mold, which is valu-
able for the soil.
The Birds
There is a noticeable stillness in the woods
and bushes now, for most of our birds are gather-
ing in groups, preparing to fly to the south.
Their colors are not so bright as in the spring,
and sometimes it is hard to recognize our friends.
It seems strange to have them disappear without
even saying "good-by" or thanking us for the
care we have taken of them, or telling us that
they hope to see us next Spring ! One by one
our winter friends — the chickadees, juncos, and
others — come back, and it is a good plan to put
down the dates when they are first seen, for com-
parison from year to year.
The birds' nests are more conspicuous now that
the leaves are gone, and we are always surprised
to find how many birds are living right near us
that we never knew about ! Betty has quite a
collection of vacant nests that she has gathered
in the Fall. Such a difference there is in them !
Some are beautifully woven and carefully secured
to the adjacent twigs, while others we have
picked up from the ground are ready to fall to
pieces. One nest we discovered had some tiny
* Mrs. Bonsall furnishes here material enough for home nature-study for a family for several years. Every one of
these observations is accessible to a mother who will keep her eyes open. Indeed, those that Mrs. Bonsall has taken with
her two little children were all made in and about a suburban home near a large city.
The criticism was made of this series by one of our associate editors that many of these studies were imposed upon
these children rather than suggested spontaneously by them. Perhaps the point is well taken, for Mrs. Bonsall, before and
even since her marriage, has carried on extensive biological studies in a university: but if this enables her to qualify as
an expert, then the rest of us have the advantage of her wisdom. Certainly it is better to impose a hobby of our own
upon our children, especially if it is so valuable a one as this, rather than to let their minds grow entirely unwatched
and untended. I am fortunate in an intimate acquaintance with Betty and Ann, and I_ have no hesitation in saying
that, whether imposed or not. the nature-enthusiasm has already "caught on" with these little children. .\s I have fol-
lowed Betty about through her garden, visited with her the family bird-houses, and studied the bird-pictures on Betty's
walls. I have wished that all children might have a mother so enthusiastic, so faithful, and so assiduous in her love of
Nature.— H'. B. F.
Fall
This is the time when nearly all of our Nature
friends are making their preparations for Win-
ter, and the woods and fields are full of interest.
Think of the changes that Winter brings, and how
we must have food and means of warmth if we
are to live till springtime. The children love
in their little way to help meet these needs. We
gather the dead wood that breaks from the trees
and pile it high in the cellar for use in the fire-
places in the cool autumn evenings. The children
are so interested that they work like little Tro-
jans, and take great pride in their accomplish-
ment. Then we collect a few nuts, and wild
grapes for jelly, so that the little folks feel that
they are helping with the food, too. And I think
it gives them a more sympathetic feeling for the
animals as they lay up their stores or hunt out
some snug little hole where they can keep warm.
The Leaves
Ordinarily T do not think that we consider the
leaves as doing any work, but in reality they
have been very busy all Summer making food for
the tree and forming next year's buds. And now
they send their nourishment back into the twigs
and branches. Long before the leaves fall you
can see the baby buds, wrapped away so care-
fully with their little scaly coats and sometimes
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little bones in it, and we wished that we could
have fed the little birds ourselves, if anything
had happened to their parents. Bird-houses may
now be opened and their contents removed. How
neatly the little wrens have kept their home !
There was a small crack at the back of one of
our boxes, and the birds had carefully padded
leaves against it till it was waterproof. Another
box was tilted forward a little, and the birds had
painstakingly filled it up level.
The Garden
Although we had carefully weeded our garden
before leaving for our vacation, the grass was
high in it when we returned. Probably our beets
and carrots were not so big as they otherwise
would have been, but they were fair-sized, and
King Midas himself, when he first received the
gift of the golden touch, could not have been
more delighted than were my children when they
pulled their own golden carrots from the ground
and had them creamed for lunch ! And then
Betty was convinced of the wisdom of having
thinned them last spring, for in a few places
several of them had been left together, and were
consequently small, while the ones off by them-
selves were much larger.
Indoor Plants
We have a plant-shelf in our hall window up-
stairs which the children keep filled with their
very own things. It is a queer and not altogether
artistic collection that we have, but it is our very
own, and we prize it more than anything that
we could buy. Our ferns we dig from the woods.
It is hard to place them evenly in the pot, for it
seems as if the largest ones persist in going to
one side instead of staying in the middle. But
then they are growing finely and there are lots
of little new fronds coming up, and we eagerly
watch their little rolled heads uncoil so beauti-
fully.
Then we -have slips of ivy which we keep in
water till the roots grow enough so that we can
plant them. It seems very strange to the chil-
dren that we can cut a little piece from the plant
and have it form a whole new one, but the hardy
way in which the ivy grows shows that it was
intended to have that sort of treatment. I have
found ivy one of the most satisfactory plants for
children, for it grows so quickly and is so hardy.
It is easy to measure its growth as it twines up a
stick. While it has no flowers, the leaves are
smooth and glossy, and the children love them
nearly as much as flowers.
Seeds of all sorts may 'be planted. Orange,
grape-fruit, and lemon seeds grow into beautiful
little plants, but so slowly that it takes a great
deal of patience to wait for thcni.
The Wind
This is the best season for observing the wind,
except possibly in March., Let your child make
a weather-vane himself by taking a hatpin and
punching it through a cardboard arrow so that
it swings easily. It will take a little experiment-
ing to get it just right. He will discover that
the arrow points in the direction from which the
wind is coming. Teach the terms North, South,
East, and West and also that between north and
east is northeast, and so forth. If the pin is
placed in a cardboard circle upon which are
marked the various points, it will make it easier
to see just in what direction the wind is blowing.
The Animals
We have not been very fortunate in discover-
ing animals hiding in their winter quarters, with
the e.xception of cocoons and spiders. But one
day late in the Autumn when raking the leaves we
uncovered a very fat toad which had hidden
away for the Winter. He was so sleepy that he
paid no attention to uS. so we put him back into
his hole and covered him up again.
Winter
Perhaps it seems as though Winter were not
a good time to start in to become acquainted with
Mother Nature, for everything outside appears
to be dead, or at least asleep, and it is impossible
for children to be out of doors all day long, as
in the summertime. But in many ways it is the
best time to begin to know her. There is not
the confusion and wealth of beauty crowding in
upon all sides as in the Summer, and one by one
the trees, birds, and flowers can be watched as
they change their form or make their appearance,
and each one can become a real friend. Then,
too, on stormy days and in the evenings children
love to look at nature pictures and colored plates,
like those in the Boys and Girls Bookshelf,
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learning many of the names, so that later it is
much easier to identify them.
Trees
The trees are always with us. Birds and
animals come and go, and the flowers have their
seasons, but the trees are among our most faith-
ful friends. And to recognize a tree in the win-
tertime, without leaves, flowers, or fruit, is to
know it indeed.
Shape. — At this time the shape of a tree is
one of its most conspicuous features. How
straight are the poplars and evergreens, with
their branches tapering to a point at the top !
And the willows leaning, with their branches
drooping, are often broader at the top than at
the bottom. And the gnarled oak spreads its
mighty branches, twisting and turning in all direc-
tions. Sometimes trees do not have a fair chance
to grow as they should, and have to change their
shape accordingly. We know of a tree growing
against a rock which has flattened out where it
is in contact with the rock. Another small tree
in our own yard has branches only one side, be-
cause a larger tree is in its way, and yet it keeps
right on growing as best it can. If you have a
chance, notice that the trees in a thickly wooded
place are straight and tall, and then, when one
has plenty of room, how beautifully and evenly
it develops ! Little sketches of trees can be made
on winter walks, or less preferably from the
window, to be colored later and bound into a
tree-book.
Bark. — In Winter, too, we study the bark, not-
ing how it protects the parts underneath from colJ
and injury. How rough it is on the chestnuts,
how smooth on the beeches, and how easily it
peels off the birches and cherry ! Of course, we
never take off large pieces, for fear of injuring
the trees. Then we note the difference between
the bark of young trees and older trees of the
same kind. It seems too bad that the older trees
have to wear such tattered garb — their over-
coats are in shreds in places ! Later in the season
we watched the gum come through the bark of
the cherrj' and spruce trees.
Age. — If a freshly cut stump is available it
will show how the bark protects the tree, and
the little fingers will enjoy counting the rings
of growth — one for each year — to see how old
the tree is. A moderate-sized tree we found
was sixty-four years old, and many trees live
to be over one hundred years.
Evergreens. — Naturally, in Winter the ever-
green trees are our favorites. How glad we are
to see the deep green of their branches and to
smell their fragrance ! Every child should know
and love the pine with its long needles, the spruce
with shorter needles, and the cedars with flat
branching leaves. Of these the pine needles may
be strung into necklaces and chains by carefully
pulling out one needle of the pair, and tucking
the point of the other end in the vacant socket.
Twigs. — Cut twigs from as many different
kinds of trees as you can and put them in water
by a sunny window, watching the new buds
come out.* The horse-chestnut with its sticky
bud. made so carefully to keep out the water; the
tulip tree with its beautiful smooth leaves, and
the peach with the lovely pink blossoms coming
out before the leaves, should surely be among
those collected. Notice, too, if there are any
leaf-scars from previous years on the twigs.
These show how much the tree has grown during
the year.
Birds
If you live in a suburb or near a park you will
be surprised to find how many different kinds
of birds are in your neighborhood all Winter.
This year in January we saw ten different birds
and in February six, and many of these were
unlike the ones we saw in the same months last
year. And that is the interesting feature about
watching birds. Except for the most common
ones, you never know which you are going to
see, and often you have a real surprise.
On the first of January each year we start a
border around Betty's room of pictures of birds
which she has seen, putting them up one by one
by means of clips on the picture molding. "The
Mulford Bird Pictures" are the ones we used
but if the pictures from the Bookshelf (vol.
VIII) are traced and colored carefully an added
interest is given. Of course we always start off
the first day with the English sparrow, and usu-
ally we can add the junco, with his slaty back
and white feathers at the side of his tail. Then
we saw a flock of chickadees with their little
black caps, and heard their cheery voices as they
hung upside down to get insects from under
sides of twigs. Next came the nuthatch, going
down a tree head first, and uttering his queer
little "yank, yank."
Every time we see a bird we try to notice every-
thing we can about him — his plumage, his song,
how he flies, whether he walks or hops, what
he eats, whether he is shy or friendly, whether
he likes to go in flocks or by himself, and whether
he stays with us all the time and whether he likes
cold or warm weather.
The winter birds were mostly rather somber
* If the end is cut off each day, buds and blossoms may
come in the house long before they appear out of doors.
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in color, till one day we saw a cardinal (our
eighth bird), and how glad we were to be able
to add his picture, with his brilliant plumage, to
our gallery. This year, too, we were very for-
tunate in seeing a hawk hovering over a meadow,
poising over one s-pot, keeping his position by
flapping his wings and suddenly swooping down
to carry off his prey. Another time we saw a
pair of kinglets, tiny little birds with an exquisite
song, who were flitting constantly from one
branch to another, brimful of energy.
Stormy days afford a splendid chance for mak-
ing bird-houses. The little wren seems to be the
easiest bird to attract in the region around Phila-
delphia. This year he occupied our bluebird and
robin houses as well as his own. The house need
not be large, and a circular opening an inch wide
allows the wren to enter easily, and also keeps
out the English sparrow and other troublesome
visitors. The houses should be put up facing the
south and not too close together. If the top is
made with a hinge, it can easily be cleaned each
year and used again and again.
Stars
No friends are more faithful than the stars,
for they follow us on land and sea wherever we
may go. Only daylight and stormy weather hide
them from us, and even then we are sure that
they are there. We know that as long as we live
they will remain unchanged, so that a little time
spent in getting acquainted with the stars is well
worth while, for i-t will be a constant pleasure
afterwards.
There is no time that the stars are more
brilliant than in Winter, and it is dark early
enough for even the four- and five-year-olds to
stay up and see them. When it begins to grow
dark Betty and I watch to see who will discover
the first star and where it appears. One by one
as they appear I tell her the names of the in-
dividual stars, and before long she is able to tell
them herself.
Together we look over the star maps and try to
learn the most prominent stars and constellations,
or groups of stars. The Great Dipper forms the
best starting-point, as it is familiar to nearly every-
one and is seen all during the year in the north.
Did you know that what appears at first to
be a single star, next to the end of the handle of
the Dipper, is in reality two stars apparently
near together? See if you can distinguish them
when it is dark and clear. The Indians call these
stars the little papoose on the mother's back,
and it is considered a test of line eyesight to dis-
tinguish them.
Following along, almost in line with the two
stars of the Dipper, farthest from the handle, is
the Pole Star, which is almost above our North
Pole and keeps nearly in the same place all the
time.
Following the two stars making the rim of the
Dipper, we come very close to a beautiful star,
Capella, meaning a little she-goat. Early in the
winter evening it is to be seen high up toward
the northeast. Betty loves to think that the
beautiful yellow star is sometimes called the twin
star to our own sun, which is really a star too,
but is so very much nearer to us than the others
that it seems larger.
On the other side of the Pole Star from the
Dipper is a queer-looking constellation made up
of several groups like an M or W, depending
on its position in the sky. This is Cassiopeia,
or the Chair of Cassiopeia (an Ethiopian queen)
as it is sometimes called. Early in the Winter
evenings it may be seen almost overhead.
On the west and almost sinking below the
horizon are three very bright stars forming a
large triangle — Vega, the falling eagle ; Deneb,
the tail, and Altair, the bird. Deneb is at the
head of a group of stars forming a sort of cross.
Altair is the middle star of three in a row, and
Vega is the one that sets first in the west.
The Milky Way with its host of stars stretches
overhead, and we like to pretend, as did little
Hiawatha, that we see "the broad white path in
Heaven, crowded with ghosts — the shadows."
In February, looking toward the south, appear
the -most beautiful stars: Orion, the mighty
hunter, attended by his two dogs, com'bating the
Bull with the red eye, who is sheltering the
Seven Sisters, crowded together behind him.
These form the most imposing spectacle in the
whole sky. The giant Orron is our favorite con-
stellation. We love to look at the three bright
stars in a row forming his belt, with the fainter
stars forming his sword. Sirius, the big dog,
to his left, is the brightest star in the whole sky
and is easy to discover on that account. A little
farther to the east and north comes the little dog
star, Procyon, in reality a magnificent star, but
quite overshadowed by Sirius. Toward the west
of Orion is the beautiful red star, Aldebaran,
the eye of the Bull who is attacking Orion, and
just a little farther to the west is the faint little
group of stars called the Seven Sisters, or the
Pleiades.
These are merely a few of the stars and con-
stellations that every child could easily learn.
Every pleasant winter evening before supper we
watch the stars come out one by one, and then
after supper, when Betty is ready for bed, I carry
her around from window to window to see our
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friends in all their glory as they shine out in
the black sky. We gaze in silence and wonder
at their beauty, and with this peaceful scene to
conclude the day my little girl drops quietly off
to sleep.
The moon and the planets also are interesting,
because they keep changing their position among
the stars. Unlike the stars or suns which twinkle,
the planets shine with a steady light. Venus is
the brightest of these, sometimes visible in full
daylight, and Jupiter is the largest. We never
find Venus except in the east or west, while
Jupiter is found in the south as well. Saturn is
much fainter than the other two, and Mars may
be distinguished by its reddish color. The other
planets are less easily located.
The moon moves so rapidly that even children
can see the change — one night below a star, the
next above it — and are enthusiastic about watch-
ing it. Where do you look for the new moon ?
Which way is the crescent facing? Does it al-
ways face the same way ? How long does it
take the crescent to become a half moon? a whole
moon? Is there ever no moon in the sky? Why
do you suppose the moon changes its shape ?
Children of five can hardly understand a full
explanation of how the light of the moon is
simply reflected from the sun, but they will
enjoy the many legends about the shape of the
moon, how it was supposed to be eaten every
month, or how it is a sorrowful woman drawing
a veil over her face — legends which had to satisfy
men for ages. Does the moon give us heat ?
What are the markings on the moon? Here
again there are many legends, but if your child
really wants to know what they are you can tell
him the wonderful true story, that they are
enormously high mountains, much higher than
those on the earth, and great plains, perhaps the
bottoms of former great seas. Once there may
have been living things on the moon, but not now.
for everything is cold and we can discover no
air or water there.
On rainy days we sometimes copy the strange
signs that have been used for ages to tell the
location of the sun every month. These signs
are to be found in the Bookshelf (vol. IV,
pages 268-279), in the upper left-hand corner of
"A Year with Dolly," and we have included them
in the little monthly calenda-r we keep. Leo, repre-
sented by the lion's ta>il, and Taurus by the horns
of the Bull, are Betty's favorites.
Rocks
On winter walks we bring home any interesting
or pretty pebbles that we come -across to put in
our mineral collection. Perhaps you think that
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all the stones are alike in your neighborhood, but
unless you live in a most unusual place you will
be astonished at the variety you -will find. In
the first place, notice where the rock came from:
did it come from a near-by cliff, or was it carried
by a stream or river? Has it rough edges or
smooth? How do you suppose it came to be the
shape it is? The hard white quartzi-te pebbles
and those containing mica are generally the easi-
est to find and recognize. Note how hard the
quartz is, how difficult it is to scratch, but how
it can make a scratch on almost any other rock.
Perhaps you will find a calcite pebble, in appear-
ance very much like the quartz, but much softer
and more easily scratched. See if you can find
both the white mica (muscovite) and the black
mica (biotite).
How do you think rocks are made ? It is easy
to see that many are being broken up all the
time into small pieces and finally becoming sand
or crumbling into earth; but it is not so easy
generally to see the formation of new rocks.
If you find a piece of slate or s'hale, you can
think of it as part of a mud flat long ago that
has become hardened. Sometimes in these rocks
we find fossils. The sandstone was a sandy beach
which was buried deep and hardened. There
are also the crystalline rocks — granite, once
molten rock, which solidified slowly deep down
in the earth, and which contains large crystals.
Prol)a:bly you will find pebbles with quartz or
calcite veins running through them, or if you are
fortunate, some dark reddish garnets or some
iron pyrite crystals. Above all, do not be dis-
couraged if you do not know what kind of a
rock you have. I have heard learned professors
discussing at length as to the name of a very
plain little piece of rock.
Pebbles containing mica are fascinating to
children. The white mica (muscovite) is the
commonest, next comes the* black, or biotite.
Both micas are found in flat, six-sided forms,
and are soft, being easily scratched. Children
love to pull the mica apart into fine layers, but
the thinnest leaf we can make still contains many
more layers. This feature of splitting into layers
is called cleavage.
Fragments of granite are also plentiful in most
localities. It is used so much for building that
pieces of it can be easily procured if it is not
to be found in the ground naturally. This rock
differs from the quartz pebbles in being com-
posed of several minerals, the crystals of which
may be clearly seen. The glassy mineral is quartz,
and feldspar is the one which gives the dis-
tinctive color — pink, gray, or white. Usually
there is a little mica present, and sometimes horn-
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blende, a dark mineral in needle-shaped crystals.
Because of the large crystals, we know that
granite was long, long ago a very hot molten
mass, cooling slowly, deep down in the earth.
So whenever we pick up a bit of granite we
think how very old it must be, for all the earth
on top of it must have been worn away before
it could be brought to light.
Another common rock is gneiss (pronounced
like "nice"). It resembles granite in being made
up of feldspar, quartz, and mica, but contains
more mica than granite, and is arranged slightly
in layers. It is less valuable for building, as it
is likely to split along the layers.
Probably your children will find some mica
schist. This contains a much greater amount of
mica than the gneiss, and consequently is of little
value for building. Betty has found mica schist
so soft that it would easily crumble to pieces in
her hands.
The porphyries are interesting rocks. The
basis of the rock is fine-grained substance contain-
ing large crystals which stand out distinctly. It
may be of different colors, but the famous Roman
porphyry was a reddish purple with crystals of
white feldspar.
All of the rocks mentioned previously are made
up of individual crystals, and are called igneous
rocks. There is another important group of
rocks, made up of small fragments of other rocks,
which have settled under water and are called
sedimentary rocks.
Sandstone is a rough, hard, gritty stone, in
which frequently the grains of sand may be
clearly seen. The brown and red sandstones
generally contain a little iron, which gives them
their color. This rock must once have been a
sandy beach.
Slates and shales are easy to obtain, the most
striking difference between them being that the
slate cleaves into narrow layers, and is therefore
used for roofing, while the shale breaks irregu-
larly. If you breathe upon them it is easy to
recognize the strong odor of clay. This rock
must have been part of a mud flat or deep-sea
deposit long ages ago, becoming covered deeper
and deeper till it finally solidified.
Limestone is not uncommon, especially in the
form of marble. It is a soft rock, easily scratched
with a knife, and a little crumb put in strong
vinegar will make a fizzing sound. It may be
in color, red, blue, white, black, or yellow, and
was probably formed under water from pieces
of shell compressed together, or from coral
deposits.
A piece of coal may be included among the
specimens, and the story told of how long ago
immense forests became covered with water and
buried deep under sand and mud till the trunks
and leaves of the trees were compressed into coal,
which we dig from deep in the earth.
To complete the collection, you ought to have
a piece of conglomerate, or pudding-stone. As
the name implies, it is made up of a conglomer-
ation of pebbles held in place by sand, which
forms a natural cement. It is easy to imagine
that this must once have been the rocky coast
of a lake or ocean. There is a legend that this
rock was once a Giant's pudding, but it was
turned into stone, the pebbles being plums. Read
"The Dorchester Giant," among the early poems
of Oliver Wendell Holmes.
If possible, try to collect all of the rocks named
above and as many more of interest as you can
find. If you are able to, get fair-sized specimens,
at least large enough to bear a small label giving
the place where it was found and its name as
well. Probably you will find some pebbles with
quartz veins running through them, and some
with little holes where a mineral weathered out.
Sermons in Stones
Once Betty and I had to wait nearly an hour
in a little city vestibule during a rainstorm, so
we amused ourselves by trying to see how many
different kinds of rock we could locate near us.
The vestibule was marble, and the outside of the
building was granite, in which we could distin-
guish the various crystals. Near-by was a build-
ing of gneiss and another of sandstone, with a
slate roof. The others were more distant but we
tried to make intelligent guesses as to what they
were, and in this way the time passed very
quickly.
Spring
And now comes the beautiful weather when
we are out of doors all day long, and there is
more than enough to keep our eyes, ears, and
hands busy. Everything is awaking from its
long winter's sleep ; the migrating birds begin to
arrive, the insects and reptiles come forth from
their winter quarters, and out of the ground
spring up the most marvelous things.
Gardening
The digging fever is strong now, so start in
with the gardens. Do not begin with too big a
one, for in my experience several small ones,
well kept, are preferable. Betty has no less than
four — a little strip against the house in front for
garden flowers; another strip at the side for wild-
flowers; a shady corner at the back for ferns
and jack-in-the-pulpits, and a little sunny bed for
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vegetables. These gardens Betty has managed
entirely herself, except for the original breaking
of the ground and the transplanting of some rare
specimens from the woods.
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was large enough for a little path in the middle
and easy to weed and water. As we are away
in the middle of the Summer, we are limited in
our choice of seeds. But we finally decided upon
peas, lettuce, and radishes for early use, and car-
rots and beets to last over until we returned from
our vacation. Betty watched me crumble the
earth in my garden and helped me put in stakes
on opposite sides, joining them with a string, and
then she did the same in hers all by herself. We
had some difficulty at first in keeping the baby
away from the garden, for she was as much inter-
ested as Betty, but by giving her a corner of her
own and a trowel she was perfectly contented,
putting the seeds in first and digging and raking
it afterwards.
Every day we watered the garden carefully and
eagerly watched for the first signs of green above
ground and noticed the different appearance of
the sprouting seed. It was a hard day when we
started to thin out the little plants, for it broke
Betty's heart to throw away any of them. But
she realized that they could not all grow in the
garden together, and when we decided to give the
little plants pulled up to some chickens to eat,
it helped matters considerably. One morning was
happily spent in gathering stakes to support the
peas, and we were delighted when we found that
the tendrils actually clung to them. It was a red-
letter day when the lettuce was large enough
to eat, and Betty's eyes fairly danced when it
appeared on the table.
Our Wild Flower Garden
Along the side border of our yard we have an
ideal place for planting wildflowers, as there is
both sun and shade there. We have had unusual
success in transplanting, and I think it is because
we have taken up plenty of earth around the
roots and have placed them in the ground within
an hour or so, trying to reproduce the natural
conditions. We have hepatica, bloodroot, spring
beauty, bellwort, amaryllis, blue-grass, star of
Bethlehem, mint, Solomon's seal, spikenard, and
violets of various kinds. Some of them have
come up year after year. In this way we can
study the plants in all their stages, watching their
seeds and changes in growth. It seems much
more worth while to me to come back from ram-
bles in the woods with a few flowers to transplant
and watch day by day afterwards than loaded
down with wildflowers, only a few of which can
be used, and these wither within a few hours.
These flowers may be identified by the articles
and pictures in vol. VII of the Bookshelf.
We love to watch the way the different plants
push their way out of the ground. The skunk
cabbage pierces the ground with a sharp point.
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The beans make a little loop, which straightens
out after it is well out of the ground. The ferns
are rolled into a little ball when they first appear,
and the May apple seems actually like a little
umbrella.
Soil
While digging in the garden, stop for a few
moments to look at the soil. Dump a spadeful
upon a newspaper and let your child look it over
to see what it contains. He will easily find some
gravel, and let him make a little pile of it. Take
a spoonful of what is left, and see what is next
in size. It is not so easy to remove the sand, but
perhaps you can secure a few grains and feel how
hard and gritty it is. Breathe upon a small quan-
tity of the remaining soil, and you will be able to
detect the odor of clay. Besides these you will
probably find rootlets, seeds, and little white eggs.
Where do you suppose all these things came
from? If you can find a piece of rock which is
crumbling to pieces perhaps it will give you a
clue. If you find mica in the rock, and mica in
the soil near by. it is easy to imagine that the
mica might have come from the rock. And sand
is nothing but quartz broken into small grains.
Feldspar breaks up in time, forming clay. The
little rootlets and leaves when they decompose
form the dark rich carbon matter in the soil.
And so much of the earth in our gardens was
long ago hard, solid rock ! But trickling water,
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Jack Frost, and even the air have slowly been
working to break it up into soil.
Bird-Study
Now is the time when bird-study is the most
exciting. Get up early in the morning and you
will see new birds nearly every day. Remember
that the birds are going to help with your garden
by eating injurious insects. As their plumage is
most brilliant at this time and they are exuber-
ant in song, it is easier to identify them than at
any other season.
We had a splendid opportunity this year to
watch a pair of robins. They came together and
looked over one of our pear trees close by the
house for several days before deciding to build
in it. We imagined that they were looking to
see if we had a cat, and if there was water near
by and a good food-supply. Finally they started
to build, and in two days they finished the nest.
Betty hung some strings on a branch near by,
hoping that they would use them in building. But
the robins paid no attention to them. However,
a pair of cedar waxwings came very soon and
carried off every piece of string which we had
put out. It was a charming sight to see how
carefully the cedar birds wound the strings
around their little bills to leave no ends dragging.
But to return to our robins: the father bird
watched faithfully while the mother bird .sat on
her nest. When she flew off for a few minutes
he would frequently come and peer over the edge
of the nest at the eggs till the mother bird hurried
back again. A pair of cat-birds, that came to
our tree with apparently harmless intentions, were
promptly driven off by father robin, who was
taking no chances with quarrelsome neighl)ors.
After we saw our first wren we kept watching
our bird-house to see whether it would be occu-
pied. And what an exciting day it was for both
the wrens and ourselves when a pair of these
little birds discovered it and kept hopping in and
out. How delighted we were when we found
that they had pieces of grass in their mouths and
were actually building their home ! And did you
know that a wren can sing with grass in his
mouth? While Mrs. Wren was staying inside
of the house keeping the eggs warm, Mr. Wren
would sing to her from a neighboring twig, and
every once in a while she would look out the little
door as if to encourage him.
Make a note of when the different birds are
seen and what they are doing. How many differ-
ent kinds of birds there are ! In our own neigh-
borhood Betty saw over forty different kinds of
birds before Summer, and I saw many more.
The woodpeckers are easy to distinguish, for
they are never seen on the ground — except the
flickers — and are always upright on the trees, sup-
porting themselves by their tails. Their bills are
long, and they are often seen tapping and ham-
mering away. We were fortunate enough this
Spring to see the downy, the hairy, the red-
headed, and the flicker.
The chimney-swifts go racing by in tireless
flight, high overhead, uttering their almost con-
stant twittering, and we wonder how they can
get enough to eat when they are constantly on
the wing.
The fly-catchers, which include the pewee and
the phoebe, generally sit motionless for a long
time on a conspicuous perch, then suddenly fly
in a circle, coming back to their resting-places
again.
Then there are the little wrens, tiny birds with
long, slender beaks, full of life and constantly
bobbing their tails saucily into the air.
The cat-bird is the only mocking-bird of the
Northern States, but he is well worth watching.
He is just as much interested in you as you are
in him, and he peers at you from imder the cover
of near-by leaves. His catlike call deceives many
a child, and it seems quite astonishing that he
has a beautiful song besides.
The birds of prey, such as the hawks and buz-
zards, are particularly interesting to watch, espe-
cially if they are poising high in the air or
swooping down upon their prey.
In addition to these there are many others^ — •
the blackbirds, the jays, the grosbeaks, the spar-
rows, thrushes, and warblers, to say nothing of
the swimming birds, as the ducks; and the waders,
the herons, and others. There are so many birds
that there is no danger of seeing them all in one
season. (In your bird-study, use the descriptions
and color-pictures in Vol. VIII of the Boys and
Girls Bookshelf.)
The Trees
If you have been in doubt of the name of any
of your tree friends during the Winter, now that
the leaves are appearing you will have additional
help. Watch carefully to see the flowers. A
friend of mine once asked, "Do trees have flow-
ers?" Of course the peach, horse-chestnut and
magnolia blossoms are familiar. But how many
persons know the flower of the maple, the oak,
and the birch? Collect as many different kinds
of leaves as you can and trace their outlines in
color and bind into a book on rainy days. Get
some with a smooth edge, some saw-toothed, some
rounded at the top and some pointed, some jagged
like the maple, some in which the incisions reach
all the way to the stem, like the horse-chestnut.
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Notice the veins, wliethcr they are parallel or
feather-veined.
Have you ever noticed that certain trees have
LEAF-FOKMS
different kinds of leaves on the same branch?
The sassafras tree has three kinds of leaves,
which resemble a sock, a mitten, and a glove.
LEAVES OF THE SASSAFRAS
And the mulberry tree has an even greater
variety. Betty has enjoyed greatly making blue-
prints of them.
Ani)nals
As we are only eight miles from Philadelphia
we do not expect to find many wild animals in
our neighborhood, so it is an unusual treat when
we discover any. Early in the Spring we noticed
a mole-track across the yard. We followed it in
all its turns and twists, but were unable to dis-
cover the little fellow. One beautiful day, when
we were walking through a little woody stretch
beside the creek, a woodchuck hurried across our
path and darted under some rocks. When trying
to get some duck-weed from a little stream for
our aquarium, we saw a water-rat glide under
some roots, and we caught a small turtle, which
we took home with us. We made a little rock
house for him in a shady corner of our garden,
and gave him little pieces of meat to eat, but he
deserted us in a day or two. However, he was
with us long enough for the children to see him
withdraw into his shell and come out again many
times, and to note how awkwardly he walked.
Every year we collect specimens for our large
glass globe, which we call our "aquarium." We
always have tadpoles, and this year we added a
little minnow which Betty herself caught in a
sieve, after trying for a long time. Then there
were a couple of shell-less snails and a couple of
land-snails, which we found on a fern one day
and placed on a rock with some ferns in the
middle of our globe. To our surprise these land-
snails began to swim, shell and all, across the
water and climb up the side of the globe, so
that we had to put a netting over the top. We
had a splendid chance to watch how they length-
ened and contracted their bodies, and also to see
the eyes on the ends of their feelers, or anten-
nae. For a few days we had some special ex-
citement, when we caught some water-beetles and
put them in our globe, for they raced back and
forth over the surface of the water, not seeming
to care how hard they bumped into the sides of
the globe ; but for the most part the creatures in
our aquarium seemed to lead a very peaceful life,
paying little attention to one another.
Quite frequently we have seen a pair of cot-
ton-tail rabbits come into our garden and nibble
our lettuce. They were so beautiful that we
never had the heart to drive them away, but used
to watch them from a hiding-place. One time,
when they were frisking around, a dog suddenly
ran by, whereupon they immediately became as
still as statues till the dog was well on his way.
While it is more exciting to study animals in
their natural surroundings, we had so little op-
portunity for doing so that we had to be content
with watching tame animals, pets, and farm ani-
mals. We have tried to notice their teeth and
feet particularly — how they resemble each other
and how they differ ; which had cloven hoofs and
which not; how cats and dogs differ, especially
their paws, eyes, and whiskers, and which makes
the more noise in walking; which can run faster,
which longer. We study the Bookshelf plates
(volume VIII) to learn the different kinds of
dogs, and try to identify every one we see. Usu-
ally the owners know what kind of dogs they
have, so we have the satisfaction of knowing
by asking if we have guessed correctly, which
was not always the case with trees and birds.
Summer
During the long hot days there is plenty of
opportunity for first-hand study of the forms of
outdoor life around us. Try to know your own
community thoroughly. See if you and your chil-
dren can make friends with every tree, flower,
and bird in your neighborhood. A friend of mine
once told me of the wonderful birds and flowers
that she had seen on her vacation, and until I
convinced her she wouldn't believe that many of
them flourished right near her home. So learn
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with your children all that you can of your sur-
roundings, and you will be all the more able to
enjoy traveling later.
T]ic Sun
The center of attention on hot days is the sun ;
in fact, the plans for the whole day frequently
are made with the understanding that if it is too
hot they will be changed. How long the days
are ! Notice where the sun comes up and sets,
and compare with wintertime. How short our
shadows are at noon ! Children enjoy making a
sort of crude sun-dial for themselves by sticking
a pin upright in a piece of cardboard, placing it
in the open, and drawing the shadow every hour
or so. Where the shadow is the shortest marks
the noon, and the direction in which it is pointing
is the north. If you have a thermometer, your
child will enjoy watching how the mercury rises
and falls each day, going higher the hotter it is.
Tell all the myths and legends you know about
the sun, and also, if questions are asked, give the
scientific answers as far as possible. What is the
sun made of? How far away is it? How big
is it? These are common questions with chil-
dren, and while dry facts as answers mean very
little to a child, if you show a tennis ball and a
pin and say that the earth would be the size of
a pin-head if the sun were the ball, the child gets
some little idea of the enormous size of the sun ;
and if you place them about twenty-eight feet
apart, you will get their relative distances. Betty
loves to look at pictures of the sun, showing the
spots and flaming projections.
Insects
The fields and meadows are fairly teeming with
life. The hotter it is the harder the insects seem
to be working. Just watch the bees as they go
from one flower to another, gathering pollen and
nectar. They do not seem to mind the heat at
all. The flowers are glad to have the bees visit
them, for the bees help them in forming their
own seeds, so they shower them with pollen.
Notice how the different flowers try to attract the
bees by their bright colors or delicious odor.
And some of them, like the butter-and-eggs, even
have a cushion for the bee to sit on !
There are always countless grasshoppers and
crickets, which are so easy to catch that even my
little two-year-old Ann can furnish plenty of
specimens for us. Notice the long pair of an-
tennae which Mr. Grasshopper uses for feeling,
and perhaps for smelling. How many legs has
he, and how does he use them in walking about ?
Watch how he jumps: he braces himself with
the front pair, and pushing with the long pair in
back, he can leap high into the air. What queer
e^-es he has — a pair of big ones on each side of
his head and three small ones in the middle of
his forehead. And yet with all these eyes poor
Mr. Grasshopper can see only a few feet away !
As Autumn approaches, more and more butter-
flies and moths appear. They can generally be
distinguished without difiiculty, for butterflies
have slender antennae with little knobs at the
ends, while the moths do not have the knobs, and
sometimes the antennae resemble feathers.
The beautiful dragonflies or darning-needles
the children love to watch. We have noticed their
fondness for being near the water, but did not
know till recently that the reason is because of
their food, — the mosquito. So now we like them
more than ever, and feel that they are our par-
ticular friends, as we watch them steer in and
out of the cat-tails with their long, slender abdo-
mens. Perhaps you have seen one bursting his
skin. Many insects, when they grow, split their
skins along the back and shed them. The cast-
off skin of the cicada, or harvest-fly, is very
common, and if you have a good specimen it is
easy to see the different parts of the outer cov-
ering.
Flowers
There is no scarcity of summer flowers. Every-
where the fields are luxuriant with chicory, gold-
en-rod, asters, daisies, wild carrot, and thistles.
These are all tall flowers, for unless a flower grew
fairly high it would have little chance of receiv-
ing its share of the sunshine. How fast the
flowers grow on hot days ! It is said that the
morning-glory grows so rapidly that the move-
■ment can actually be seen, as the growing tip
completes a circle in two hours. While we were
never quite sure that we could see it grow our-
selves, we have often marked its height and in a
few hours have been able to see considerable
change.
Birds
On account of going away in the Summer, we
have never been fortunate enough to follow a
pair of birds from the time they started their
nest till the little ones had flown. We watched
our robins for nearly three weeks, but the mother
bird was sitting faithfully upon the eggs when
we had to leave, and upon our return, two months
later, there was not a sign of them, except the
empty nest. Our wrens, too, were disappointingly
slow. They came early in May, and by the middle
of June we could hear the baby wrens peeping
inside their little home, and once in a while when
I lifted Betty she could see a tiny bill through
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the opening. We eagerly waited for the day to
come when their mother would take them out and
teach them to fly, but the days passed and we left
without seeing any more of our little friends.
But one of , our neighbors had a pair of robins
whose eggs hatched before ours, and we saw the
mother and father birds gathering worms all day
long without a moment's rest. The hungry babies
didn't seem to have a bit of pity for their busy
parents, but with wide-open mouths kept clam-
oring for more.
While we were away we had an unusually good
opportunity to watch a mother oriole teach her
babies to fly. They had come from somewhere to
the vines by our porch, and there they stayed.
The mother kept flying a little way ahead, but it
was a long time before the babies would leave
the vines and follow her. But at last her coaxing
or threatening was successful, and down they
went, hopping and flapping their wings.
It is interesting to see how unlike the parents
the young birds sometimes are. The little robins
had spotted breasts, resembling the wood thrushes,
and the baby orioles were much less brilliant in
color than their parents.
One day we heard a great commotion in the
yard, and hurrying out we saw a pair of cat-
birds, a flicker, a robin, and numerous sparrows
all flying around in an excited way, and scream-
ing so that they paid no attention to us till we
were close upon them. We surmised that a cat
had been making trouble, and we were correct,
for hidden in a near-by thicket was a gray cat,
preparing to take a nap. Apparently she had
eaten some baby cat-birds, for the parents in a
broken-hearted manner kept flying to their empty
nest and looking in as if they could hardly realize
what had happened.
We were surprised to find how the different
kinds of birds had united against their common
enemy, the cat.
Clouds
When resting under the trees on hot summer
days we particularly enjoy looking at the clouds.
How quickly they change their shape and move
to different parts of the sky! Just think how
the wind must be blowing up there ! Of course,
we like to look for all sorts of shapes in them;
some are like animals and others are like ships,
and we have real pleasure in watching their
beauty; but aside from this we try to find out a
little about them. There are the layer clouds,
called stratus, generally seen early in the morn-
ing. Then there are the beautiful fleecy clouds,
called cumulus, and the lighter, more feathery
clouds, called cirrus. The heavy low gray rain-
clouds are called nimbus. Generally the sky is
composed of a mi.xture, but when starting in to
learn the types, try to choose a day when it is
fairly simple to tell which type of cloud is the
predominant one.
PLAY WITH NEGLECTED SENSES
BY
THE EDITORS
The part that odors play in the life of a child is
interesting. In infancy the youngster shows a
bluntness to bad smells which not only protects
him from much that is disagreeable, but which
helps explain why we find it hard to make him
care about keeping clean.
But the chief use of the nose to the young is
in the creation of memories. Alice Meynell
thinks that it may be because the child is smaller,
and therefore nearer than we grown-ups to the
wild and homey scents of the moss, the under-
growth, and the wildflowers ; that the smells of
earth mean more to him. His going barefoot
also may bring the ground more near, because
he touches it with two senses instead of one.
Noses Are Gates to Joy
The nose, the pioneer of the human face, is
intended to enrich our lives. You would not
show a child California without its roses. New
England without its pines, Italy without its
oranges, or Brittany without its sea air. It is
possible, we verily believe, so to select a child's
sense-memories in advance that his manhood's
associations shall be purely fragrant. He might
perhaps be spared the staleness of tobacco, the
pungency of wine, and the fetor of late assem-
blies.
In their places we could give him "incense-
breathing morn," wildflower air, and the smell of
salt spray and heather.
It is told of St. Francis that once he "ordered
a bed of flowers to be laid out, that all who be-
held them might remember the Eternal Sweet-
ness." The gentle saint's example might well
inspire all who have a love for children.
There is a familiar Greek saying, "Let him that
hath two loaves sell one and buy flowers of the
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narcissus, for bread feeds the body only, while
the narcissus feeds the soul."
Impressions, as we -know, do not lie in the
mind like separated valuables in the disconnected
boxes of a storage vault. They are, rather, like
beads on William Blake's golden string wound
into a ball. Start to unwind, and presto, you
run down the whole string to the very last bead !
The best strand on which to string memories is
human affection! "The purely sensuous pleasures,
because -of .their" impermanence — a taste, a smell,
a physical contact — tuilcss accompanied by some
\\nman on social association," says the author of
'■Religio Doctoris," "have little or no power of
(revival." That is, attach to a lovely sight or
sound or odor the sympathy of an understanding
friend, and years afterward the sensuous and
the spiritual memory will survive together. "The
scent of the roses will cling to it still." It would
seem, then, that we may consciously and deliber-
ately, through the thoughtfulness of our affection,
not only quicken the attention of a child to sense-
experiences but embalm them in his memory.
We may patiently and richly store the chambers
of the soul.
In .the Woodcraft League there is a deliberate
effort to lay up happiness. At the initiation
ceremony they burn red willow and white cedar
together on the central fire and they say:
"And because the power of smell to store and
hold memories is greater than the other senses'
power, we know that henceforth ye who smell
this smoke will ever after conjure up pleasant
thought and reverent mood of this our Council
Ring."
Utilizing the Common Odors
A simple suggestion for developing the sense
of smell by the use of plants is to endeavor to
find a source of their odors. Sometimes they
emanate, as in wallflowers, from the petals; some-
times from the pollen, as in daisies; from the
nectar, as in clover: from the leaf, as in mint;
from the roots, as in primroses.
Odors are particularly serviceable because they
are so democratic. The common plants — clove
pinks, geraniums, herbs — are most delicious,
while the precious orchid is a flower without a
soul ; in fact, flower odors are generally evanes-
cent, while it is the costliest leaf odors that are
permanent.
Children should learn to love the humble
odors: fir cones, toadstool, rocks, and lichen, the
dry leaves, bonfires, strawberry leaves after the
frost appears, fresh bread, upturned soil, grass
freshly cut, the garden after a shower.
It is important to learn to discriminate among
odors. If children could learn to do so. teachers
would be less annoyed later by the extravagant
use of ten-cent-store perfumes in the schoolroom.
Nature's flower odors are usually inoffensive.
Let us revive some of the old-country customs.
Let little girls wear ladslove, rosemary, or laven-
der in their bosoms when they go to church on
stifling summer Sundays.
Odors in Hospitality
In New England, silk scent-bags were placed
on tlie hacks of chairs and potpourris were opened
when guests entered. Offerings of sweet odors
are so integral a part of beautiful hospitality that
they may be used by mothers who wish to instill
the more gracious part of hospitality. Let us
teach our little girls how to perfume the bed-
sheets, make the chairs fragrant by scent-bags,
gather potpourris, and even mix pomanders or
fill vinaigrettes.
"Hospitality -mats," as made in the East, are
produced by placing bags of lime leaves, orange
leaves, or lemon grass under the doormats.
"Hospitality bags" for chairs are made, so says
Mrs. Earle, in her "Potpourri from a Surrey
Garden," by placing dried leaves of verbena,
lavender, and sweet-scented geraniums in silken
bags. They are put under and behind the
cushions.
Odors in Worship and Service
In a certain household the father brought home
one day a copper incense-holder that he had
bought in the Turkish quarter, though it held a
Christian cross. With it was some dried frank-
incense. The children were deeply impressed by
its odor when burned, and seemed to receive a
religious impression from it. Again, another
member of the same family was shown in a
Sunday-school class a bit of medicinal manna,
such as is sold by some pharmacists. His sus-
ceptibility to the pilgrimage stories of Israel was
much deepened. One wonders why greater use
has not been made of such sense-impressions
from the Holy Land. We can recall no others
that have been used except the unsatisfying
pressed flowers. In the Chapel Royal, St. James's
Palace, gold, frankincense, and myrrh in silk bags
are still presented on Twelfth Day. Why not do
the same in church or Sunday-school ? Then
there was the "precious ointment" of the New
Testament, which was a compound of olive oil,
myrrh, cassia, cinnamon, sweet calamus, etc.,
all common enough ingredients, but never used
of old in this combination except for sacred
purposes. Why not let incense and ointments
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be produced and presented at family worship
upon high religious holidays, or Good Friday?
The sense of smell is not only of all the senses
the most difficult to define, it is also the one
most impossible to control. We may avoid see-
ing, or tasting, or touching, and to some extent
hearing, but alas ! we can not long preserve our
noses from the subtle influences of their sur-
roundings. The question rises whether, if we
endeavor to make any educative uses of this
sense, we may not redouble the discomforts as
well as the pleasures it may afford us. We do
not, of course, succeed in marking the sense more
keen ; we cause the mind to be more attentive to
this source of sensation. The net result would
seem to be that we may develop such repugnancies
as shall remove the nuisance or cause removal
from it. A community with fully educated noses,
for instance, would suppress many previously
endured annoyances. The education of the nose
might thus have even a social outcome. This
most democratic of senses might even stimulate
a democratic revolt against the sources of foul
odors.
The Joy of Sounds
Has your child noticed the different notes of
the wind in the various kinds of trees? "Oak
leaves," says Mary Webb, "on their firm, stiff
stems, brush one another roughly ; long, pendent
willow leaves move with a sleepy whisper: chest-
nut leaves lip one another consolingly; the con-
tinual motion of poplars sounds like running
water, and in a quiet place you can hear it across
a wide field. The wind fans in the maple, harps
in the needles of a pine, sighs in silver birches,
and rolls like an organ in the cedar."
The majority of children have never heard
an echo. An echo requires some flat, unbroken
wall and distance. Wherever there are many
walls there is usually little space for distance.
The most hopeful combination is a country barn
and a meadow. The writer, though once a farm-
boy, will never forget the first time, when quite
a sizable lad, too, that he ever stopped long
enough to hear an echo. It was, as a forgotten
writer says, "as if a spirit lay in that distant
valley, and laughed shrilly at you, repeating itself
brokenly as its voice grew less and less."
Plays with Other Senses
It is in the contest for the Degree of Colonial
Housekeeper ("Gaiat") in the Woodcraft League
that most pleasant and varied use of sense-plays
is made. These are some of the suggested points :
"i. Gather bayberries and make four candles
dipped or molded, each six inches, for the Four
Fires (the Fire of Fortitude, the Fire of Beauty,
the Fire of Truth, and the Fire of Love).
"5. Make a lavender box, i.e., grow, gather,
dry, and use the lavender in a clothes-chest.
Same for lemon verbena (tripoliiini).
"6. Potpourri — Make enough to measure one
quart when dried and spiced.
"/. Make one pint of elderflower water.
"8. Gather and make marigold salve and pru-
nella salve, or witch-hazel salve.
"9. Make cherry balm of 'black cherry bark.
"11. Gather the sap and make of it a pound
of sugar, either from -maple or ash-leaved maple.
"16. Brew sage tea, mullein tea, boneset tea,
camomile tea, and ginger tea.
"17. Gather and make half a pound of candied
sweet flag (calamus), mint leaves, rose leaves,
or violets.
"30. Make, decorate, and stuff a hop pillow."
A Day of Sense-Impressions
To show how we might enrich the lives of our
little children as well as our own, if we would
more constantly open the gateways of our senses,
let us imagine a wholly practicable day of sense-
impressions.
Morning
Sunrise
The clarion of the distant train
Bird-songs
The factory whistles
The rustle of leaves beneath the feet (in Autumn)
The splashing of the brook in the woods
The color of leaves held up against the light
The goldfish in the dining-room bowl
The smell of baking
Aftcr>won
Leaves seen at the bottom of a roadside pool
The smell of bonfires
The footbeats of horses over a rustic bridge
Late afternoon shadows
Smells of the harvest field
Sunset light
Evening
Crackle of flames in the fireplace
The lighted room seen from outside
Moonlight seen from the window
Piano-playing heard across the lawn
The rustle of silken garments
The taste of apples, and their smell
Hydrangea blossoms ghostly in the moonlight
Street cries and sounds
How easy it would be to make a fresh list for
every new day, and to extend and enrich our
experiences, simply by listening, watching, and
waiting !
Two little children were seated on a doorstep in an Eng-
lish city, holding something tightly grasped in their small
hands and gazing with nuich eagerness toward the head of
the street. Half an hour later they were seen again, still
there, by a lady who was repassing. "I wonder whether
you would tell me what you are doing?" she asked in sur-
prise. One of them answered: "We are waiting for the
barrer."
It seems that once a week a flower-cart was driven through
this narrow way, and that on a few red-letter days a flower,
a sprig, or even a root had sometimes fallen out of the back
of the cart. And here were these two children sitting in
eager hope, with their hands full of soil, ready to plant any-
thing which might by some golden chance fall their way.
The parable is so obvious that I need not pound on it.
The hands were small, but they were full of soil, they were
outstretched, they were buoyant. — William Byron Forbush.
TOM AND SARAH DURING THE KINDERGARTEN YEARS
BY
WILLIAM BYRON FORBUSH
"What do you all think is the most noticeable
thing about the twins?"
It was their grandfather who asked the ques-
tion. The whole family were out on the porch.
"Speed," was their father's instant response,
as they both went tearing past on their kiddie-
cars.
"Joy," said the grandmother.
"Temper!" was the verdict of grandfather,
who had had a recent collision with them both.
"Or," he added, remembering another sort of
episode, "maybe it is curiosity."
"What does their mother think?" grandma in-
quired.
"I was trying to find a word to put it into, but
I guess there isn't one. The thing I notice con-
stantly is that they seem to be busy collecting
experience."
"Getting exposures," murmured Frank. "That's
not bad. I suppose that must be what this per-
petual motion all means. What do we do about
it ? Or, as the soldier boys say, 'Where do we
go from here ?' "
"Do you know what Dr. Dewey's definition of
education is?" asked Mrs. Howard with apparent
irrelevancy.
"We will now listen to the Gospel," confidently
her husband asserted. "Nobody here knows but
you. Out with it."
"Education, Dr. Dewey says, is 'to find out
how to make knowledge when it is needed.' "
"Then the twins are getting educated all right.
There is nothing they need to know that they
don't discover on the spot."
"And some things they don't need to know,"
their grandfather added, referring to their experi-
ence with the beehive.
"What are you driving at. Mother?" asked
Frank, returning to the subject.
"The twins are already getting educated, as
you say, and they are getting their education in
just the way John Dewey believes children ought
to get it, by making their own knowledge right
on the spot. What I am wondering is, whether
we are helping them in the way we ought."
"Nobody neglects them, I am sure," their
grandmother said stoutly. "Certainly they get
helped enough."
Smothering with a Grandparent
"Too much, perhaps," replied their mother.
"That's just what I am worrying about. How
can a child 'make' any knowledge when every-
body hands it to him all ready-made?"
"What do you mean?"
"I think we give them too much help. With
apologies to all present, the twins, in my judg-
ment, are suffering from too much grandfather
and grandmother" — here the older people visibly
stiffened — "as well as too much mother and
father. Dorothy Canfield Fisher says that, from
the time a child emerges from babyhood, he
usually has to fight constantly to get chances to
help himself. She says that a dozen times a day
we spring to serve a child in things that he can
learn in five minutes how to do himself. Then
she adds : 'There is no surer beginning for the
habit of self-help than the consistent training
of the capacity for it.' "
"So you think we are spoiling our grandchil-
dren?" Mr. Spencer asked in a hurt tone.
"I wouldn't say that for worlds. You are just
the dearest people on earth. I am not a bit better
or wiser than you are, but since I noted what
Mrs. Fisher says I am convinced that, while we
are giving our children the best surroundings,
we are all so afraid that they will get hurt or
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drop something that they aren't getting the best
they might out of what is about them."
"For instance?"
"They have too many mechanical toys, and not
enough chances to build playthings for them-
selves."
"But they would pound their fingers," suggested
grandma.
"There we go again," her daughter answered.
"What if they do? Won't that help teach them
how to handle a hammer so they won't get
pounded?''
"Their hands are not skillful enough to make
anything that would hold together," father added.
"What of that, too? They are not critical of
their own handiwork. Don't you suppose tliey
would take heaps more pride in a shack that
they shaped up out of rough blocks or that they
remodeled from a grocery-box than they do now
in the painted doll-house and garage we bought
them for Christmas?"
"Well, I confess I would have done so when
I was a boy. How about it, Frank?'' was Mr.
Spencer's acknowledgment.
]\Ir. Howard nodded his head.
Home Kindergarten for Four-Year-Olds
From that time onward the father and mother
looked on with pleased curiosity at the self-edu-
cation of their children through play. They saw
how the dolls became the center of a varied con-
structive activity in the way of homes, furnish-
ings, and clothing, carts and cars, barns and
stock, all devised out of the homely materials,
such as boxes, cardboard, blocks, and old pieces
of wood and cloth that were about the house.
They were amazed to see how paper became
transformed into scrapbooks, doll's dresses, cylin-
ders, boxes, and baskets. Most of all, they were
surprised to find how the load of builders' sand
dumped in the backyard was both the scenery
of the fairyland of play and the material for
equipping that land with its castles and dungeons,
its dug-outs and fortresses.
"A hint at the right moment often keeps them
in motion for an hour," their mother testified.
"We never have to furnish motive-power,"
their father corroborated. "All we do is to keep
the barnacles off the boat."
These two were, as I hope you are beginning
to see, average parents who were unusual only
in the fact that they agreed in having some plan
in their parenthood. With a carefully thought-
out system they were making the most of the
means and materials within their reach. There
was no kindergarten in Hometown.
"I am sorry, of course," Mrs. Howard was
saying to her husband one day, "but at least four
of the five essentials of the kindergarten we can
supply right in our own neighborhood."
"What are they?"
"Play, nature, handiwork, stories (including
song-stories of course). The fifth is sociability.
We haven't the social circle of the kindergarten,
and of course we older folks don't quite make
up for it."
"The twins seem to be company enough for
each other," their father suggested.
"H they didn't quarrel quite so terribly. But
what I was going to tell you, Frank, is how much
I believe you can help in our little home school
with a certain 'stunt' of your own. And that,"
she hastened to add, "is nature study."
"Oh, pshaw !" exclaimed Frank Howard. "I
don't know a genus from a genius and I never
dissected anything in my life."
"I am so thankful 1" was the surprising reply.
"They don't teach children that way nowadays.
It is with Nature just as it is with other things,
just as we have been learning it is with their
play — stimulate their curiosity, put them into real
situations, and they will do the rest. Of course,
you have only Sundays, but you can at least pick
out a tree and watch it with them during a season,
note down the birds when they arrive, buy them
a pair of rabbits and let them take care of them,
and — but why should I talk ? You know far
better than I what to do."
Father Becomes an Amateur Nature-
Teacher
As a matter of fact Frank Howard, being a
countryman, had a farm-boy's keenness of ob-
servation, and as soon as his attention was called
to the opportunity, he made his Sunday afternoon
walks with the "kids'' twice as profitable as
before. He developed considerable originality in
method. For instance, he conceived the idea of
classifying the birds and flowers simply by their
colors, thus developing the twins' color-sense and
giving them always a definite goal for their atten-
tion. He found that they were both like magpies,
already making random sorts of collections, so
he got them to hunt for various shapes and sizes
of nuts and seeds and to search for abandoned
birds' nests.
A year rolled round before he made any re-
port, but the result was as astounding to himself
as to the family.
Five-Year-Old Nature Students
"Tom and Sarah," he affirmed, "recognize
twenty birds and they know at least thirty other
animals. They can tell the names of over fifty
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flowers, grasses, and shrubs. They have a whole
lot of facts about the sun and the stars and the
weather, fog, snow, and ice. They can tell time,
and read the thermometer and the barometer,
and," he finished, "they have raised a dozen hills
of corn and some pease and radishes, and they
have 36 cents in their toy bank."
"Is that last nature study?" asked their grand-
mother.
Stories Told with Rhythm and Song
Perhaps you will be interested in some of Marj'
Howard's experiences in telling stories.
The children's first stories had been from
Mother Goose, thus from the very beginning they
associated rhythm and rhyme with story, as all
children ought to do always. They never tired
of this association. The\' loved to chant aloud
about little Gustava, who
"Wears a quaint little scarlet cap.
And a little green bowl she holds in her lap,
Filled with bread and milk to the brim.
And a wealth of marigolds round the rim"
and Riley's "Man in the Moon." who
"Jes' dreams of stars, as tlie doctors advise —
Mv !
Eyes !
But isn't he wise —
To jes' dream of stars, as the doctors advise?"
and the Peddler, whose
"Caravan has windows too.
And a chimney of tin that the smoke comes through;
He has a wife with a baby brown,
And they go riding from town to town."
They loved song-stories too, "words that sing,"
Sarah called them, like the funny-sad tale of
"Tit-willow," the jolly motion of "Jingle Bells."
and their hereditary national air. "The Wearing
of the Green." Mary was much pleased with this,
because she had the feeling that song, as much
as speech, is meant to be a child's native language.
The little folks began to croon wordless tunes
before they were three years old, but now they
made up short musical phrases of their own.
Like the little girl whom Josephine Preston
Peabody tells of :
"I sing about the things I think.
Of almost everything.
Sometimes I don't know what to think
Till I begin to sing."
Mary found much help in associating pictures
with stories. The children liked to nestle, one
on each side, while she opened the big picture-
books, and look at them together. Sometimes
they would follow the incidents by scanning the
pictures closely, often interrupting to ask her
questions. Sometimes they would talk about the
characters on the pictured page, adding supple-
mental incidents and quaint fancies of their own.
Often they would insist that she make up stories
to go with pictures, the accompanying tales of
which were too mature to read to the children.
Mary did not believe in teaching reading too
early. She preferred that her little ones shou'ld
learn first to read the great Book of Life, but she
did permit them to make little folded-paper book-
lets, and paste in the pictures of animals and
children, under which .she would print titles in
script, so that they learned to recognize a num-
ber of words before they entered school.
Mrs. Howard felt that fairy-stories are of the
greatest moral value. They picture a friendly
world, the kind of life that we dream of living,
a condition in which kindness and thoughtfulness
are rewarded and in which dragons and witches
get what belongs to them. She was increasingly
pleased to notice that there is hardly any child-
problem or any childish virtue that has not been
wrought out simply and convincingly in these
old tales of the race. "Fairy stories and Bible
stories," she used to say to her husband, "are
my moral stock-in-trade."
Tom and Sarah, Mother's Helpers
But since none of us gets far on tow-ard
heaven while sitting still, even while listening to
or reading about goodness, this mother kept up
her emphasis on the action-side of goodness by
continuing those regular practices in home-help-
fulness that were described in a previous chapter.
Tom as well as Sarah never questioned the
propriety of tidying up his room and putting
away his playthings, learning manfully to dress
himself, and answering to the call to be "Mother's
little helper." Mrs. Howard made this part of
the routine a pretty definite program. That is,
she did not, like some mothers, call the children
carelessly from their play to run miscellaneous
errands or cause them to feel that their duties
were constantly unexpected and never really over.
She thought out each morning what she would
require of them that day. their tasks were done
within a time limit and after that they were free.
Needless to say, they did most of their work
together and in her company.
Shall Mother Arbitrate?
This practice had its difficulties. Mention has
been made that the twins were quarrelsome.
They were by no means angels. To he perfectly
frank, they were sometimes like barking, and
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even biting, dogs. Sarah was a natural tease,
and Tom quite shocked his father by his total
lack of chivalry. Mary, however, quoted book
and chapter to prove that self-control is not in-
born and that temper is simply "high spirits
joined to nerves and will." She also had G.
Stanley Hall on her side to prophesy that even
childish anger might be so handled as to become
"a great and diffused power in life, rising to
righteous indignation." She found some evidence
that he was right, in the fact that already what
the children quarrelled about generally was, after
all, justice.
"Is is always safe to interfere?" she queried.
"Why should we ?"
"For the sake of the neighbors, at least."
"I do think that we ought perhaps to tell the
children that if they can not quarrel quietly they
shan't be allowed to quarrel at all. But often
when we interrupt we simply stop the noise, while
the real grievance keeps on smoldering."
"That strikes me as a queer doctrine," Frank
acknowledged. And I think this was a matter
that they never quite agreed upon. Other parents
have found it so. It is hard indeed to be sure
that adult arbitration really helps, yet it is equally
hard to believe that a running fire of exasperation
does any children good. They did discover that,
after all, each case of irritation has to be taken
on its own merits, and that, in this as other things,
the Yankee adage is wise, "When you don't know
what to do- — don't do it."
Imaginativeness in the Sixth Year
"I shouldn't think you would dare to tell the
children so many fairy-stories," her neighbor,
Mrs. Walton, remarked to Mrs. Howard one
afternoon. "They are only lies. And I think
they teach children to tell wrong stories."
"I am not so sure that fairy-stories are 'lies,' "
Mrs. Howard responded. "Sometimes I think
they are the truest truth there is."
"But your children do tell lies, don't they?
Tom was' over at our house the other morning,
and he reeled off a regular whopper about how
he went out into the woods and hunted for a
golden bird and how he brought it home to you
and a lot of other nonsense of that sort."
"He got that out of one of the Grimm brothers,
that I have been reading to them," Mrs, Howard
recollected.
"There! what did I tell you?" Mrs. Walton
exclaimed, triumphantly.
"In one sense," Mrs. Howard explained, "chil-
dren tell the truth better than we do, because
they report faithfully all that they dream and
fancy as well as what they see and experience.
But their imaginations are among their most
precious possessions, and it is not so very hard
after all to help them disentangle the fanciful
from the real. I sometimes simply say to Tom
and Sarah, 'Now, children, let us think quietly
for a moment. We won't "play" any longer now.
Just separate out the true part from the "made-
up" part, and tell Mother what really happened.'
I have never known them to fail, then, to be
truthful and e.xact."
Mrs. Walton no doubt went home unconvinced.
But Mrs. Howard was right. Her children
learned gradually to move consciously from the
world of fancy to the world of facts, and in later
years these fancies grew into creative imagina-
tion, which made them resourceful, inventive, and
courageous in their life-work.
Reviewing Their Little Past
"Somehow I don't feel like writing to-night,"
said Mary Howard on the eve of the twins' sixth
birthday.
"No 'inventory' this time?" inquired her hus-
band.
"It's a cold word, isn't it? Sounds like a list
of what's in a garret. Couldn't we think of
something more human? Something active, I
mean."
"Muster-roll, if it isn't too warlike," suggested
Mr. Howard.
"You remember the time we were all together
on the porch, and the family could not decide
whether it was Joy, Speed, or Temper that was
the twins' watchword? What one word would
you put them in, to-night?"
"It seems to me we need all those three — and
then some. Have you got the right word at your
tongue's end? Something comprehensive-like,
such as 'honorificability,' perhaps?"
"If you should ask me the one thing that Tom
or Sarah has been becoming this last year, or
these last three years for that matter, I would
say, 'Tom is becoming an individual.' For the
first time, he is a distinct person. Of course,
we think he has always been distinctive, and bet-
ter than the average, and all that, but as I think
him over, it seems to me that we can now see,
even in his photographs, in his way of walking,
in the way he holds things in his hands, in the
way he makes up his mind, in his 'will' and his
'won't,' that he is not merely a little boy who
lives at Number 171 Lincoln Avenue; he is, for
the first time, •To)n Hoivard. .'Xnd so it is with
Sarah."
"And how do you like the picture?"
"It scares me a little. That's the reason I
didn't want to write things down. He's a pretty
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good boy — now, but if you were to ask me to make
a list of all his tendencies, I am afraid I should
be too frightened to do so."
"You don't happen to see a rope's end in his
horoscope?"
"No. You know what I mean. It is the
thought that he is just beginning to get 'set' —
isn't that what they say of molten metals when
they start to harden? — and I'm wondering if we
have been making the right mold for him."
"It does get one to thinking, doesn't it? But
we don't have to know it all in advance, or do
it all at one time, you know."
"No, that comforts me. It is day by day that
he is living, and day by day that we can help
him. I'm so glad we started early."
WHAT SHOULD A CHILD KNOW WHEN HE ENTERS
THE FIRST GRADE?
BY
H. G. WELLS
When a child is five or six months old it will
have got a certain use and grip with its hands,
and it will want to handle and examine and test
the properties of as many objects as it can.
Gifts begin. There seems scope for a wiser
selection in these early gifts. At present it is
chiefly woolly animals with bells inside them,
woolly balls, and so forth, that reach the baby's
hands. There is no reason at all why a child's
attention should be so predominantly fixed on
wool. These toys are colored very tastefully, but
these tasteful arrangements are simply an appeal
to the parent. Light, dark, yellow, perhaps red
and "other colors" seem to constitute the color
system of a very young infant. It is to the
parent, too, that the humorous and realistic quality
of the animal forms appeal. The parent does
the shopping and has to be amused. The babyish
parent, who really ought to have a doll instead
of a child, is sufficiently abundant in our world
to dominate the shops, and there is a vast traffic
in facetious baby toys, facetious nursery furni-
ture, "art" cushions, and "quaint" baby clothing,
all amazingly delightful things for grown-up
people. These things are bought and grouped
about the child, the child is taught tricks to com-
plete the picture, and parentage 'becomes a very
amusing afternoon employment.
Necessary Tools
I think it would be possible to devise a much
more entertaining set of toys for an infant than
is at present procurable, but, unhappily, they
would not appeal to the intelligence of the aver-
age parent. There would be, for example, one
or two little boxes of different shapes and sub-
stances, with lids to take off and on, one or two
rubber things that would bend and twist about
and admit of chewing, a ball and box made of
china, a fluffy, flexible thing like a rabbit's tail
with the vertebrse replaced by cane, a velvet-
covered ball, a powder-puff, and so on. They
could all be plainly and vividly colored with
some non-soluble inodorous color. They would
■be about on the cot and on the rug where the
child was put to kick and crawl. They would
have to be too large to swallow and they would
all get pulled and mauled about until they were
more or less destroyed. Some would probably
survive for many years as precious treasures,
as beloved objects, as powers and symbols in the
mysterious secret fetichism of childhood — con-
fidants and sympathetic friends.
With speech humanity begins. With the dawn
of speech the child ceases to be an animal we
cherish, and crosses the boundary into distinctly
human intercourse. There begins in its mind the
development of the most wonderful of all con-
ceivable apparatus, a subtle and intricate key-
board, that will end at last with thirty or forty
or fifty thousand keys.
The next phase of our inquiry, therefore, is
to examine how we can get this mental plant,
this foundation substance, this abundant mastered
language, best developed in the individual, and
how far we may go to insure this best develop-
ment for all the children born into the world.
Tools of Speech
From the ninth month onward the child begins
serious attempts to talk. In order that it may
learn to do this as easily as possible, it requires
to be surrounded by people speaking one language
and speaking it with a uniform accent. Those
who are most in the child's hearing should en-
deavor to speak — even when they are not ad-
dressing the child — deliberately and clearly. All
authorities are agreed upon the mischievous effect
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of what is called "baby talk," the use of an ex-
tensive sham vocabulary, a sort of deciduous milk
vocabulary, that will presently have to be shed
again. Froebel and Preyer join hands on this.
The child's funny little perversions of speech are
really genuine attempts to say the right word,
and we simply cause trouble and hamper develop-
ment if we give back to the seeking mind its
own blunders again. When a child wants to
indicate milk, it wants to say milk, and not
"mooka" or "mik," and when it wants to indi-
cate bed, the needed word is not "bedder" or
"bye-bye," but "bed." But we give the little thing
no chance to get on in this way until suddenly
one day we discover it is "time the child spoke
plainly." There comes an age when children
absolutely loathe these adult imbecilities. When
a child says to its mother, "Me go nome," it is
doing its best td speak English, and its remark
should be received without worrying comment ;
but when a mother says to her child, "Me go
nome," she is simply behaving stupidly and losing
an opportunity of teaching her child his mother-
tongue.
We have available now for the first time, in
the more highly evolved forms of phonograph
and telephone, a means of storing, analyzing,
transmitting, and referring to sounds, that should
be of very considerable value in the attempt to
render a good and beautiful pronunciation of
English uniform throughout the world.
If a few men of means and capacity were to
produce very cheaply, advertise vigorously, and
disseminate widely, a small, clearly printed,
clearly written book of pithy instructions for
mothers and nurses in this matter of early speech,
they would quite certainly effect a great improve-
ment in the mental foundations of the coming
generation.
An important factor in the early stage of
speech-teaching is the nursery rhyme. A little
child, toward the end of the first year, having
accumulated a really very comprehensive selec-
tion of sounds and noises by that time, begins to
imitate first the associated motions, and then the
sounds of various nursery rhymes — "pat a cake,"
for example. In the book I imagine, there would
be, among many other things, a series of little
versicles, old and new, in which, to the accom-
paniment of simple gestures, all the elementary
sounds of the language could be easily and
agreeably made familiar to the child's ears.
His Speech Attainments
And the same book I think might well contain
a list of foundation things and words and certain
elementary forms of expression which the child
should become perfectly familiar with in the first
three or four years of life. I think it would be
possible to trace through the easy natural tangle
of the personal brier-rose of speech certain neces-
sary strands, that hold the whole growth together
and render its later e.xpansion easy and swift
and strong. Whatever else the child gets, it
must get these fundamental strands well and
early if it is to do its best.
At the end of the fifth year, as the natural
outcome of its instinctive effort to experiment
and learn acting amidst wisely ordered surround-
ings, the little child should have a vast variety of
perceptions stored in its mind and a vocabulary
of three or four thousand words, and among these
and holding them together there should be cer-
tain structural and cardinal ideas. They are
ideas that will have been gradually and imper-
ceptibly instilled, and they are necessary as the
basis of a sound mental existence.
His Conscience Attainments
There must be, to begin with, a developing
sense and feeling for truth and for duty as some-
thing distinct and occasionally conflicting with
immediate impulse and desire, and there must be
certain clear intellectual elements established
already almost impregnably in the mind, certain
primary distinctions and classifications.
His Sense Abilities
The child at five, unless it is color-blind, should
know the range of colors by name and distinguish
them easily, blue and green not excepted; it
should be able to distinguish pink from pale
red and crimson from scarlet. Many children,
through the neglect of those about them, do not
distinguish these colors until a very much later
age.
I think also — in spite of the fact that many
adults go vague and ignorant on these points —
that a child of five may have been taught to
distinguish between a square, a circle, an oval,
a triangle, and an oblong, and to use these words.
It is easier to keep hold of ideas with words than
without them, and none of these words should
be impossible by five. The child should also
know familiarly — by means of toys, wood blocks,
and so on — many elementary solid forms. It is
a matter of regret that in common language we
have no easy, convenient words for many of
these forms, and instead of being learned easily
and naturally in play they are left undistinguished
and have to be studied later under circumstances
of forbidding technicality. It would be quite
easy to teach the child in an incidental way
to distinguish cube, cylinder, cone, sphere (or
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ball), prolate spheroid (which might be called
"egg"), the pyramid, and various parallelepipeds,
as, for example, the square slab, the oblong slab,
the brick, the post. He could have these things
added to his box of bricks by degrees, he would
build with them, and combine them, and play with
them over and over again, and absorb an intimate
knowledge of their properties, just at the age
when such knowledge is almost instinctively
sought and is most pleasant and easy in its acqui-
sition. These things need not be specially forced
upon him. In no way should he be led to em-
phasize them or give a priggish importance to
his knowledge of them. They will come into his
toys and play mingled with a thousand other
interests, the fortifying powder of clear general
ideas, amidst the jam of play.
His Power with Numbers
In addition the child should be able to count,
it should be capable of some mental and experi-
mental arithmetic, and I believe that a child of
five might be able to give the names to notes and
sing these names at their proper pitch. Possibly
in social intercourse the child will have picked
up names for some of the letters of the alphabet,
but there is no great hurry for that before five
certainly, or even later. There is still a vast
amount of things immediately about the child
that need to be learned thoroughly, and a pre-
mature attack on letters divides attention from
these more appropriate and educational objects.
His Art Attainments
He should be able to handle a pencil and amuse
himself with freehand: and his mind should be
quite uncontaminated by that imbecile drawing
upon squared paper by means of which ignorant
teachers destroy both the desire and the capacity
to sketch in so many little children. Such sketch-
ing could be enormously benefited by a really
intelligent teacher who would watch the child's
efforts, and draw with the child just a little above
its level.
The child will already be a great student of
picture-books at five, something of a critic (after
the manner of the realistic school), and it will be
easy to urge it almost imperceptibly to a • level
where copying from simple outline illustrations
will become possible, .'\bout five, a present of
someone of the plastic substitutes for modeling
clay now sold by educational dealers, plasticine.
for example, will be a discreet and acceptable
present to the child — if not to its nurse.
His Imagination
The child's imagination will also be awake and
active at five. He will be living on a great flat
earth — unless some officious person has tried to
muddle his wits by telling him the earth is round;
amidst trees, animals, men, houses, engines, uten-
sils, that are all capable of being good or naughty,
all fond of nice things and hostile to nasty ones,
all tbumpable and perishable.
And the child should know of Fairyland. The
beautiful fancy of the "Little People," even if
you do not give it to him, he will very probably
get for himself; they will lurk always just out
of reach of his desiring, curious eyes, amidst the
grass and flowers and behind the wainscot and
in the shadows of the bedroom. He will come
upon their traces; they will do him little kind-
nesses. Their affairs should interweave with the
affairs of the child's dolls and brick castles and
toy foundlings. Little boys like dolls — prefer-
ably masculine and with movable limbs — as much
as little girls do, albeit they are more experi-
mental and less maternal in their manipulation.
At first the child will scarcely be in a world
of sustained stories, but very eager for anecdotes
and simple short tales. At five I suppose a child
might be hearing brief fairy-tales read aloud.
At five it is undesirable that the child should
have heard horrifying things and he should not
be afraid of the dark. It is, I am sorry to believe,
very difficult to eliminate the horrors of fear
absolutely from a child's life. Vulgarly illus-
trated toy books should be guarded against.
Pictures of ugly monsters will haunt imaginative
children for years. An intelligent censorship
may do much to ward off these sufferings until
this passion of fear — so needless in the civilized
life — begins that process of withering which is
its destiny under our present and future security.
Cowardly mothers and nurses who scuttle from
cows and dogs and prancing horses may do in-
finite harm to a child by confirming this vestige
of our animal past. The simple and obvious
fearlessness of those about him should wean
the child steadily from his instinctive dread of
strangers and strange animals and strange, un-
expected objects and sudden loud noises.
This is the hopeful foundation upon which, at
or about the fifth year, the formal education of
every child in a really civilized community ought
to begin.
K.N.— 28
AT THE SCHOOLHOUSE DOOR*
ELIZABETH J. WOODWARD
The door of the schoolroom grows larger and
more portentous to the mother's vision as she
realizes that it must soon open to the touch of
her own child. Behind it she sees whatever her
study and observation, her memory and her hope
together, place there. She knows that it will
open to a broader education than is outlined in
books ; that the child clinging to her hand as
the two set out on the eventful autumn morning
when school begins, is taking his first step on
the road that leads him far beyond where she
will follow. She knows that a jury of his peers
awaits him, for "even a child is known by his
doings, whether his work be pure and whether
it be right ;" and that through him she herself
will be judged. She thinks of the old Persian
standard of a boy's readiness for life — "to shoot,
to ride, to tell the truth," and of the transition
of it into the twentieth-century ideal — "brave,
active, and joyful." Taking heart of joy, they
cross the threshold, and the mother's dream —
and dread— come true — her baby goes to school.
The teacher greets the elders with cordial
welcome, but on this first morning, she does not
ask them to stay; and after they see "everything
happy, progressive, and occupied," the mothers,
sympathetic and critical, reluctantly leave; the
door closes; teacher and class face their New
Year and each other. School has begun.
The air tingles with expectancy; the thrill of
the unknown touches the newcomers, the love
of little children and the sense of vicarious
motherhood stir anew in the teacher. "Teacher"
looks to the new pupil very like still another of
the smiling aunties who have met him on so many
thresholds during his short existence. She seems
to like jolly little girls and boys. The room looks
as if she knew how to play with them. The
teacher scans the class for the shining morning
face, for the healthy, happy child who has al-
ready recognized the idea of obedience; for find-
ing him she finds the nucleus of goodwill that is
to become the morale of the class, the goodwill
that holds within it the desire for at least the
willingness to learn and the possibility of making
learning popular.
What the Teacher Seeks: Attitude
A healthy little body the teacher wants to see
settling itself with shy confidence into the un-
familiar seat before her, a visible guarantee of
nourishing food, long, regular hours of sleep,
healthful activities ; a sound animal, whose ears
and eyes, teeth and tonsils are normal and well
cared for; whose illnesses are watched, without
his knowledge, for after-effects on heart or head
or kidneys ; the child of a home that, however
slender the purse sustaining it, is rich in peace
and in interests and in "steadfast purpose for
service."
She wants the attitude of healthy, happy
children, willing, eager, and trustful, without self-
consciousness, unafraid. Such children are truth-
ful, for they have never been laughed at or
frightened. The child who is mentally and physi-
cally healthy is happy, trustful, bidable, all traits
that help toward the self-control that is a part
of early social education. If the love and wis-
dom of his mother and father have kept and
fostered confidence in the sincerity of grown-ups,
he obeys his teacher and follows the impulse of
social conformity, stands when the class is told
to stand, places his work as others place theirs,
is prompt and ready. But if he has been un-
justly punished by an unthinking mother, or if
Father has forgotten the gift he promised, if
he has been deceived, the serpent has crept into
his Eden and the little Adam loses confidence
in the world about him, and with lost trust goes
unconscious disobedience.
The will to obey should have become habitual
long before the schoolhouse dawned on the
horizon of the child's world. Prompt, unquestion-
ing obedience is an element of his safety. The
child who obeys first and then asks, "Why?" has
gone far on the road toward sane as well as safe
living. "Stop, look, listen," are words not of
arbitrary authority but of guardian wisdom. The
man who refuses to heed the warning message
crosses no more railways. Obedience is not the
result of breaking a child's will, but of patience
in teaching him how to become master of himself.
* This inspiring article may well^ form the goal for all the home kindergarten activities of the fourth to eixth years.
It should be read in close comparison with the preceding one.
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The disagreeable habit of boasting is likely
to become firmly established almost as soon as
the young performer can say, "See me do this !"
If it is not uprooted, the child goes on to the
chronic stage of "stumping" other children and
of taking their indiscriminate "dares," legiti-
mate or foolhardy. If he can be shown that it is
not brave and manly, but cowardly and silly, to
be disobedient and rashly venturesome, he will
be given stones of strength for building a char-
acter that men will trust and admire.
The teacher asks that the child have a budding
sense of responsibility for his personal world.
She would have him keep his coat on his own
hook, not on some other boy's hook, to the con-
fusion of the dressing-room and as an occasion
for the boy who is spoiling for a fight ; she would
like to have him recognize his own desk, keep
his own pencil off the floor, and to understand
that what is given him to do is his to do.
With th' young obedience and responsibility
she would seek for imagination. This she will
develop in three ways : as fancy, that Land of
Promise, where the child of five or six still lives
and which may remain a source of joy however
long one stays in this world ; as an element in
construction, concrete and mental, though this
looks far ahead through childhood into youth;
and as the "put-yourself-in-his-place" quality,
which is that kindly side of curiosity that leads
to sympathy. Self-control, sense of responsibility,
and imagination are essentials of learning to
study.
The teacher longs for the pupil who is eager,
who has been held in the atmosphere of bigness
of the world, in the joy of discovery. She would
like to find him content with simple joys and toys,
not fed upon change, uncertainty, and excitement.
Her spirits sink or her ire rises when she must
deal with the blase child who "did that last year;"
he is apt to be "fresh" in situations where angels
proverbially tread in fear. She hopes to find that
her new pupil has been taught to think gener-
ously and to play fair — the foundation upon
which she is to build the democracy of life with
his contemporaries.
What the Teacher Seeks:
Mental Equipment
Attitude is far and away the most important
requisite, the breath of life to the healthy school-
room. After that moral atmosphere is secured,
the teacher looks to the furnishing of the minds
she is to live with until their next birthdays come
around. She would- like each child to have some
elementary acquaintance with the social topog-
raphy of his world : his name — all of it — age.
his birthday, where he lives, his father's name
and occupation. This last item of economic in-
terest is apt to be vague or even lacking in his
store of knowledge, unless the father's work is
manual or is otherwise indicated by tangible
signs. A whole class of five-year-olds, whose
fathers represented all the learned professions,
business, big and small, and various active forms
of public service, were asked, in New England
idiom, "What does your father do?" They an-
swered to a man, "Runs the automobile !" "Goes
to the store," is another reply that covers a mine
of ignorance as to what Daddy really does.
"Father says he is the Governor" (w'hich was
the fact), "but he jokes so much that I don't
know if it is true."
Some physical standards and habits of cleanli-
ness and order the teacher assumes to be estab-
lished : the fresh handkerchief — and its use, —
healthful breathing habits, good standing and
sitting positions, regularity of toilet needs. Of
the healthy child she expects a firm handclasp,
yet also the delicate use of the finger-tips which
should be a result of his kindergarten training.
Chubby hands should have become dexterous in
dealing with buttons and shoelacings, and pur-
poseful as to neckties.
His new teacher would like to find that home
has given him the sense of beauty, the habit of
seeing the lovely rather than the ugly side of
objects and actions. He should recognize color,
and have simple but accurate names for standards.
Form he should know through both eye and
touch. Weight, bulk, form, "feel" of surface,
these are natural material for baby discrimina-
tion. This simpler knowledge is stored away in
the brain of the normal child before he is three
years old. He has taught himself, we say, but
it is Mother Nature who sets the lessons to his
hand, in stick and stone, kitty's fur and mother
cat's tongue. Mother's gown and Father's coat.
The teacher hopes that the mother has told
stories to the little folks at home, enlarging the
strained vocabulary and beginning the valued
training of a good listener. The more familiar
Bible characters should be at least bowing ac-
quaintances, and he should know as much about
them as he knows of his aunts and uncles.
Mother Goose and all her community he should
know intimately, as the most congenial and con-
temporaneous of his classical friends-to-be.
His Real and Unreal Life
His home life, the world of make-believe, his
kindergarten experiences, his tours of observa-
tion and exploration, independent and personally
conducted, should have stored his mind with in-
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terests — the singing kettle, the kite, the active
pump, the trembling scales, "the wind in the
willows," young growing things, the garden,
chickens, kittens, and baby-birds. Sky and sea,
trees and brooks, the ways of birds and animals,
she would have him love "the friendly cow all
red and white," even "Piggy Wig and Piggy
Wee." Without some of this mental furnishing
his early reading lessons are likely to be a dreary
waste of pointless effort.
His teacher would like to find that Christmas
is already connected with the blessedness of giv-
ing. This is possible and natural even if the few
Christmases the child has seen have formed a
blissful haze of trees and stockings, carols and
toys, Santa Claus and the Christ Child. The
Fourth of July, the birthdays of Washington and
Lincoln, need not have exact location in the
calendar of seasons, but should be associated in
the child's mental storehouse with the vague con-
ception of "My Country, 'tis of thee." The pass-
ing flag should mean "Hats off" even when the
infantile under-the-chin elastic makes the tribute
of respect an affair of some effort.
The farmer and the blacksmith, two of his
kindergarten circle of friends, bring to even the
city child the idea of dependence upon life outside
his home. It is the lamplighter who introduces
to him the idea of civic service. Stevenson again
shows the eternal childhood of his heart in "The
Lamplighter," verses that the city child continues
to love long after his own particular lamplighter
may have been disclosed as an unpoetic and per-
haps unreliable person. The fireman is a hero
of romance, the snow-shoveler is to be envied,
but too often a child is taught to think of the
policeman as the bogeyman. The policeman is
the friend of children, not their enemy; he makes
the crowded street safe for unsteady lines of
little scurrying feet, he can find the way home
when one turns a wrong corner following the
organ-man with the monkey, he tells boys which
way the procession is coming, and he takes care
of little girls as if he had little girls of his own
at home. The children should follow Father
and Mother in saying, "Good-morning, Mr.
Officer," to the patrolman who is the especial
guardian of his home or school, and to count him
within the enlarging group of friendly grown-
ups. The city child should know before he goes
alone to school that the many questions a curious
young person who is new to this world naturally
wishes to ask must be saved for Mother or
Father, or asked of policeman or fireman, never
of the pleasant stranger. The civic service and
the uniform explain this rule, so that no seed of
distrust need be sown by the distinction.
A Normal Development
Even well-meaning parents sometimes exploit
the child's quick response and keen eye. Reading
and arithmetic are such definite, measurable
means of communication between mature and
imm.ature minds that it is a temptation to begin
to teach these early subjects. But the little per-
sons need the before-school days for making
acquaintance with the material side of this world.
His every sense is keen for satisfaction, eye and
ear, taste and touch, and sensitive little nose.
These delights should have the first chance.
The mathematical knowledge can be sound only
so far as the child knows by actual touch and
grasp the combination of numbers. The num-
bers that he can grasp seldom are larger than
the small figure that marks his age when school
begins; yet too often the teacher is obliged to
dispossess some proud mother of the idea that her
son is already advanced in arithmetic because
he can count to loo ! Nursery blocks and Christ-
mas picture-books have usually made familiar
the general appearance of most of the letters of
the alphabet. This acquaintance is far from a
necessary qualification for primary-school life,
but it is desirable unless it has encouraged an
ambitious mother to drag the reluctant beginner
through the Primer. If reading has come by
nature, at the child's own urgent wish, as if by
instinct, it is a blessed gift. A child should be
helped to read as soon as he really wants help,
but to lead the reluctant little colt to water be-
fore he is thirsty is to sacrifice to an artificial
accomplishment the precious time and evefi more
precious avidity that belongs to other interests.
The child who begins school at five or six is
still in the period of infancy; the transition to
childhood is only in sight. Yet the teacher knows
that the unformed mind is pondering — a heavy
word for the fleeting thought-deep questions; she
knows that it is the mother who is ignorant when
she says that her child is "innocent as a baby"
of any interest in the origin of the baby; the wise
mother, in the sacred confidence of the tie that
keeps the growing child her own, will have begun
the necessary telling before he goes to school.
She and his father will be so intimate with their
children that son or daughter will come to them,
not to other boys and girls, for further facts. A
child who takes each new word to Mother or
P'ather learns to avoid profanity, and to despise
the "dirty" word as beneath his self-respect.
Respect is the daughter of reverence ; the little
primarian should already know the quiet due
tlie reading or speaking of holy things, the at-
tention even if he can not take part when teacher
'•AXD THE THOUGHTS OV lOLlH
Lu.Xu. LONG THOUGHTS."
— Longfellow.
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415
and class are talking to God in the morning
prayer.
Fortunate it is if home has given the little
mimic clear enunciation, and a vocabulary that
keep pace with his developing mind. The listen-
ing teacher knows by his speech the place where
he really lives — in the kitchen, in the nursery,
or— happy child— with Father and Mother. Is
it too much to ask that the child should sing?
The kindergarten mother will have sung to and
with her child from, "Here's a ball for baby,"
through a carefully chosen sequence of simple
words and melodies of intimate relations, of home
and Nature, folk-lore, industrial life, patriotism,
and religion, not scorning a judicious sprinkling
of popular songs, since he must hear even the
injudicious variety. If he could bring this
precious beginning of song, along with the new
shoes and the cherished lunch basket, he would
contribute much to the morale as well as to the
music of the schoolroom.
Mother and Teacher
Prevention is not only better than cure, it is
infinitely easier to manage and — American atti-
tude ! — an almost infinite saving of time. So
when the teacher asks that certain states and
habits be established in the child before he says
his first school "Good-morning," she is not think-
ing of herself, but of the mother of the child.
For, most of all, the child needs a good and wise
mother, who, at least in spirit, comes with him
to school.
By the light of each little face held up to hers,
the clear-eyed teacher reads the problem the child
presents, but she is not sure of full and correct
data until she knows the child's mother. It is
inconceivable to her that any mother should
choose not to come to school, should not wish to
know the woman who for five days in the week
is hostess to her child.
Teacher and mother need each other. The
teacher needs the help of the motherhood that
is hers only in spirit. The mother needs the help
of the technical training and broad outlook that
her own absorbing profession has left her no time
to acquire. The teacher needs all that home can
tell her of the child's brief history, physical, men-
tal, and moral; what heredity holds to help or
hinder; what especial help or hindrance lies in
environment. She wants to be told if scarlet-
fever has left Mary with impaired hearing, if
fiery little Tom is being shown at home how to
control his too-ready fists and heels, if Amy
dreams of the strange creatures in the reading
book she so dearly loves. Jack is weak and
weepy by the middle of the forenoon, but his
state of mind and body is explained when teacher
is told that breakfast is never attractive to his
uncertain appetite.
The teacher of little children recognizes that
the father's character, a largely determining ele-
ment in children's education, she is to feel only
as it is translated by mother and child; yet if she
is to give her fullest measure of help, she must
use both translations to their utmost value, lest
the coming generation should be brought up as
children of women, rather than in the broader,
more inclusive, world of the children of men.
The mother needs the teacher as well. The
teacher is not only a wholesome, conscientious
woman, she is the link connecting mother and
child with the long chain of education. She em-
bodies "the American passion for childhood."
Seeing the ideal that the best minds hold for the
child, she is educated and trained as guide on
the path toward that ideal. The mother sees her
child as the one clearly defined central figure
in a group (otherwise nebulous) of other chil-
dren. To her heart and mind, her own ewe lamb
is, and rightly, the one crowning achievement
of the universe. The teacher sees the child
against a clear background of all children of
the same age whom she has taught and from
whom she has learned, and her picture is lighted
by the lamp of professional impartiality.
They need to confer in sympathy and confi-
dence. The teacher respects the mother's in-
timate and continuous knowledge of the child
and looks to the mother for corresponding
recognition of her professional equipment and
resources. If the welcomed mother comes in the
spirit of helpfulness and cooperation, of desire
to learn, of entire readiness to give and to re-
ceive all needed confidence, their child's first
year of school has auspicious beginning. But it
takes courage and a dropping of the barrier of
parental pride to invite frankness from the
teacher's lips, for even the exceptional child is
not always in the right.
When the day comes that Mother and Father
confer frankly with teacher as with a "reserve
parent," the combination will be strong for good
to the child they are sharing. There will be no
conflict of authority, fewer uncertain steps, and
together they can save him from the "confusion
of education."
Between the bookcase and the wall
Is raised a castle, gray and tall,
The desk top is a wooden moat.
The rocking chair's a pirate boat, —
My little boy, turned six to-day.
Has fierce adventures in his play.
ye who never knew the life
Of dragon-hunting, golden strife
Of pirates on a windy sea
Returning meekly home for tea;
[Who never heard the black knight's call —
1 fear ye have not lived at all !
— Annette Wynne.
SUPPLEMENTAL ARTICLES
HOME CORRECTIVES FOR THE KINDERGARTEN
MAXIMILIAN E. P. GROSZMANN, Pd.D.
It has been, in a measure, a misfortune for the
kindergarten that it has succeeded so well in
this country. In its own native home it has never
been fully recognized in the public-school system;
and private initiative, adapting itself to local and
special needs, kept the kindergarten idea freer
from formalism that was possible here. As soon
as the kindergarten became a feature of public-
school education, in the American system, it par-
took of the faults characteristic of that system.
It ceased to be a kindergarten and became a
classroom arrangement. It imprisoned the chil-
dren indoors and became a matter of chairs and
tables and order and discipline and quiet and co-
ordination. However, the young child is repeat-
ing in his life-instincts, his games, his experiments
with the world about him, the experience of early
race-history. He wants to play on the floor, not
to sit orderly for any length of time on a chair ;
he wants to play in a sand-heap, not on a sand-
table; he wants to be dirty, not neat; he wants
to play with water, and wade, and throw, and
climb, and drop things, and play hide-and-seek,
and use a stick, and do all sorts of primitive
things. The child who easily conforms to the
routine of an orderly kindergarten is either ab-
normal or subdued.
Again, the young child is not naturally a social
being. He is individualistic, just as his remote
ancestors were who saw in every other individual
a competitor. True, this independence must be
converted into a realization of the social con-
science. But this is a growth which can not be
forced, or else it will be an artificial thing, and
the child so constricted will harbor an everlasting
resentment against a social order which curtails
his freedom. No wonder that we have so little
community spirit among our grown-up popula-
tion. The time comes naturally when the child,
seeking companionship for the projection of his
own personality into other lives and enlarging
his own personality by making others a part of
his own emotional and mental being, will socialize
himself. Then the rights and privileges of com-
munity life, as well as the duties and functions
involved in it, will enter into his consciousness.
What Montessori Taught Us
It is here where the so-called Montessori
methods have hit the kindergarten hard. These
methods and suggestions are by no means origi-
nal, having been used for a long time in a pro-
gressive reconstruction of school and kindergarten
systems. They have characterized our work for
the exceptional child in particular, and had been
formulated long before we heard of Montessori.
It is, however, interesting to note how the Ameri-
can public, as soon as a foreign voice was raised
in iconoclastic enthusiasm, immediately clamored
for the recognition of principles which it had so
long considered with distrust. Now, all of a
sudden, teachers discover that it is really possible
to have a group of children under much greater
individual freedom than had been thought feas-
ible.* In the light of these principles the teacher
is first of all an observer. She studies the situa-
tion and acts accordingly; she does not approach
the child with a preconceived idea of system.
She realizes that obedience is a sacrifice of self
on the part of the child, a sacrifice that will be
made more readily when the child, not knoivs — ■
for that is impossible at that stage — but feels the
necessity for it, through the confidence his edu-
cational leader and his comrades inspire in him.
* Compare this statement with Dr. Kilpatrick's on page 433.
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This is certainly the manner in which a normally
vigorous child in the Iiome is educated. Force and
punishment, fear, and even an artificially stim-
ulated desire to please will never develop a child's
best, innermost faculties. He may become a con-
former, a pattern, a hypocrite, a coward, a prig,
an "average" child, but never a character.
It is almost superfluous to add that further
adjustments of the daily routine must be made
to suit the needs of individual types of mind. It
is essential to make distinctions at the early age
so as to start the child right on his career. I
admit that the finer individual differences, such
as represent an accumulation of family traits,
imitations of environmental conditions, and special
endowments and preferences, manifest themselves
fully only at the period of adolescence. Yet even
in the baby difference of type is clearly recog-
nizable.
Even Little Children Differ
There is, first, the difference in physical and
mental growth-rate. Not all children of three
of four can wear garments of the regulation size
or react upon stimuli in a uniform manner.
Their sense perceptions and reactions will show
wide differences: their motor coordination, their
balance, their initiative and constructive ability
will vary within wide limits. Their endurance,
their concentration, their ability to learn from
errors will show a multitude of differences. They
will progress with a very great diversity of speed.
Some will still need the large gifts and to work
in their occupations on a large scale, when others
will have proceeded far enough to cope with
rather minute adjustments. Some will still be
satisfied with the symbol when others will want
realities. There are similar differences in the
older ages. Age is a very relative thing. The
condition of a child at any given chronological
age is determined by a number of growth factors
— physiological, psychological, and mental.
Further, there are distinct differences in mental
attitude and aptitude. Some children are born
individualists, born leaders; others are naturally
conformists and want to be led. There is the
child who is afraid of nothing; and the other
who shrinks from publicity and competition.
There is the one who is always original and in-
ventive and who hates merely to imitate; others
have no spark of originality and depend absolutely
upon models and patterns. Should you not con-
sider these differences, among many others?
You will surely not say that it is one of the first
duties of the kindergarten to curb the forward
child, to check the impulse of leadership, to mold
the heretic thought and nonconformist method
into the form of conventionality. The history of
the race is so full of bloody struggles against
orthodoxy of all kinds that we should guard
against the stifling of souls in the beginning of
their growth. Not oppression, but wise guidance,
on the basis of a real understanding and appre-
ciation of underlying motives and conditions, is
what is needed. It is only too often the bright
child, the child of initiative, that is made the
victim of the leveling efforts of the school and
kindergarten, so that his career is hazarded from
the first. So few of us have the faculty, or the
patience, to enter into the intentions of little
children. Their actions are often gravely mis-
understood, their motives unappreciated, their
minds and morals undervalued, their emotions
misrepresented. A gulf will then open between
the teacher, or parent, and this budding soul, a
gulf difficult of bridging; and the young heart
will shut itself in, and the young mind will be
warped.
The Average Kindergartner Overdevelops
Imitation
To illustrate, I will refer to a very common
practice. The kindergarten teacher will draw
houses, tables, cats, and other things on the black-
board or show these forms in the way of stick-
laying; or develop sequences with the building
gifts, illustrating steps, bridges, and other struc-
tures ; or punch holes in sewing-cards for the
sewing-out of conventional and life forms, etc. ;
and the children are expected to imitate these
things in the regulation way. This presupposes
that they see the things represented in the same
symbolical form the teacher sees them, which
form is intended to contain all the essential
features of the objects thus delineated. But a
study of the spontaneous drawings and structures
of children shows that this is a mistake. Chil-
dren do not see things in the regulation way.
To them, features quite different from what the
teacher thinks should be shown in the reproduc-
tion seem essential.*
The blackboard forms of houses, cats, etc., are
nothing but pictographs, picture-writing, hiero-
glyphics, as it were, symbols of the real things,
and the child uses them as such. In the ordinary
practice, whenever he is asked to draw, or lay
with sticks, or build with blocks, or what not, a
certain object first so presented, he will always
reproduce the original symbol without any free-
dom of deviation, or any attempt to express what
is really in his mind. Thus, a conventional
method is introduced which counteracts the nat-
'Compare tliese statements with the earlier articles on art-
expression.
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419
ural instinct of the child to represent things in
his own way. The ordinary exercises perpetuate
this conventionalization. Individual attitudes and
visions are entirely lost sight of, and much op-
portunity is lost to study and understand what
is really in the child's mind or where his aptitude
lies.
Imitation is said to be one of the fundamental
instincts of the child at early stages. True
enough; but imitation rightly understood. As
said before, there are children who can do little
more than imitate; but they must not set the pace
for all. As soon as the teacher leads the child
into stereotyped form, she is on the wrong track.
She must always first appeal to the child's own
method and merely assist him in expressing him-
self. In this connection, I am, as often, reminded
of the paradoxical declaration of the lata Dr.
Harris: "Of course, the teacher must be an
example ; but she must take care that no one fol-
lows it." In other words, while she should be
an inspiration to the child to find the right path,
she must never be a pattern after which he molds
his own individuality.
The Ideal Kindergarten is Like a Home
A kindergarten should have the wide scope
of a well-regulated home in which each child
may live his own life and share the life of his
fellows. There should be presiding over it a
motherly spirit of large sympathies and of fine
discriminative power, with large resources, as
to self-adjustments to ever-changing situations.
There must be the atmosphere of freedom and
encouragement. There must be readiness of a
true interpretation of all manifestations of the
budding infantile minds. There must be open-
air work, in a garden, in a yard, with sand-piles.
flower-^beds, climbing-ladders, swings, and pud-
dles. The room of the kindergarten must be a
paradise of toys and activities. Add the work-
bench and the multitude of really educational
toys and occupations which are so abundant
nowadays to the traditional gifts of the kinder-
garten. Break up the monotony and the routine
of the orthodox program and introduce the child
into a world of real life. There are numberless
songs and games that can be safely adopted into
the system. Let the children express their own
feelings in free rhythm, in dance, and in song.
Do not tarry over the songs of the shoemaker,
blacksmith, and carpenter, but take the children to
the workshops to see the men at work. Take
them on excursions to the country instead of
merely singing and -talking about the farmer and
sowing and reaping and threshing. Let them
have miniature garden-farms and shops of their
own, with real tools and spades and wheelbarrows
and work that will give their growing bodies
exercise such as mere calisthenics never will
provide. There should be more virility in the
kindergarten, not merely girlish notions of butter-
flies and dandelions and chickadees. Do not for a
moment forget that even very little boys are real
boys, after all. Then there will soon be a won-
derful activity and bustle, and individual aptitudes
will manifest themselves for you to observe and
study and make use of — use. not for the individ-
ual child alone, but for the child community,
which will profit by this sharing. And the shar-
ing will react in a socializing way upon the in-
dividual. Break up the lockstep in the kinder-
garten and set the ■ example for our elementary
and high schools, so that they also may set the
child free and give the different types oppor-
tunity to grow unfettered but wisely guided.*
THE KINDERGARTEN YEARS t
IRVING E. MILLER
Physical Development
At the beginning of the period he has a good
deal of difficulty with such processes as button-
ing his clothes, lacing and tying his shoes, putting
on his mittens and rubbers, and in many of the
rhythmic exercises in marching and dancing. His
use of the pencil and brush results in the crudest
of scrawls. Cutting with scissors is a difficult
problem of manipulation. In all constructive
work he fumhlcs and blunders and is lacking in
accuracy. His activities are highly spontaneous.
Mental Development
The most marked mental characteristic of this
period is the rapid development of the imagina-
* Compare these closing sentences with G. Stanley Hall's article on rage 429.
t From "Education for the Needs of Life," by Irving E. Miller. Published by the Macmillan Company, New York.
Used by permission of the publishers.
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tion. The mind is capable of reading more mean-
ing into what is seen, heard, and felt. This is
the golden era of the child's spontaneous imagi-
nation. It transforms everything that he does.
This is reflected in the eager questioning of the
child, which goes beyond what is given to the
senses, and wants to know what is coming next?
what is this for? where are you going? what for?
and a host of other things, the answers to which
are not apparent to the senses. Ideas which
appeal are carried out into action. Play is trans-
formed and becomes dramatic in character. The
chair is not something to be pushed about for the
mere pleasure of physical control; it has become
a train of cars, a delivery wagon, a fije-engine,
or something else for which the child has a vivid
image that is pressing for release.
The activity of the imagination widens the field
of control. The mind reaches out actively to
enrich and correlate experience. The fact that
the fire-engine passed an hour ago, vomiting
smoke and flame and making a most exciting din,
does not remove it from the sphere of the child's
present interests and activities. In play he can
bring it back ; he can clothe the chair which is
at hand with all the interesting characteristics
of the fascinating engine. In imaginative play
everything in heaven above and in the earth be-
low is brought under the mental control of the
child. He is monarch of all he surveys; time and
space fix no bounds to his empire. There is
nothing which he can not have if he will — drums,
soldiers, stores, engines, and the wild animals of
desert and jungle. There is nothing that he may
not be, from the coal man to the king. Every-
thing yields to his control. The world is free
and plastic, to be molded to his will. In his
imagination and dramatic play he can satisfy to
the full his natural impulse for power and
control.
Social Development
On the social side, this is the period in which
the child gets control of the fundamentals of
social adjustment. In his wider contact with
children and adults in the school and the neigh-
borhood, the basic things in manners, morals,
ideals, and the forms of speech are assimilated
and put to use in the control of his own behavior.
Hence there is very great importance to be at-
tached to an enriched and vital social life in the
school. And it must reflect in a dramatic way
the interests and activities of the real world in
so far as they touch the lives of children. That
has been one of the most significant things about
the kindergarten, and the primary grades have
become infected with the same spirit and point
of view. The enrichment and development of
social experience is a very important task.
Individuality and Personality
This whole period of the child's life is marked
by great freedom, spontaneity, and impulsiveness.
The inner life of thought and feeling flows nat-
urally out into action with little constraint. The
child is frank and innocent and trustful. His
natural credulity and ignorance on the one hand
and his natural spontaneity on the other make
him very suggestible. He can be turned easily
from one state of feeling or emotion to another,
or from one line of action to another. His will
is likely to be fluctuating and unstable ; but in
the line of his instincts and most absorbing in-
terests he is likely to display considerable con-
centration and tenacity. This should be respected
and guided as the basis of training in work and
conscious effort and will. With the growth of
control over the more complex muscular activ-
ities, his power to achieve is widened in range.
When to this is added the growing power to
direct his activities by images or ideas, he comes
to feel his own power and to realize himself
as a cause, a center of power on his own account.
This new consciousness of power is enjoyable,
perhaps as subtle and far-reaching a source of
satisfaction as it is to the normal adult. It is
not to be wondered at if he sometimes exagger-
ates it, to get the heightened effect which comes
from the setting of his own will up against that
of others. The development of a certain amount
of aggressiveness and self-assention is normal to
this period and is a sign of progress in self-
control and social adjustment.
Principles of Interpretation of the Child's
Imagination
The whole mental life of the child of this
period is markedly subject to the law of motor
flow of consciousness. This accounts for the
spontaneity and irrepressibility. His attention is
mobile and fluctuating, caught first by one thing,
then another. To have an image or an idea is
to act. It is something on the go. It is not held
back and checked up by considerations and orderly
control of the adult mental process. This is seen
in the infinite variety and fluctiicition of his play,
corresponding to the rapid shifting of imagery
and interests. There is a strong tendency in
such school exercises as drawing and construc-
tion work not to wait for completed directions
but to plunge in and do something at once, to
express the first image that arises in response to
the words or the acts of the teacher. In drama-
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tization and other forms of school work the same
principle applies.
He tends to act upon his image at once. The
more interesting it is, the stronger the motor
pressure for expression. He doesn't question its
validity, he lets it go. This is well seen in the
child's early drawings. Their crudity and lack
of conformity to reality doesn't bother him at
all. He is very naive in the matter. He under-
takes with equal readiness to draw birds, animals,
machinery, landscapes — a few scratches of the
pencil or crayon and the magic is accomplished.
I watched a boy of pre-kindergarten age draw
an "electric factory," then lightning striking it,
and upon suggestion he didn't hesitate to draw
the thunder, too ! He was all excitement, aflame
with the idea, and never raised any question of
possibility or impossibility. The pressure of the
idea had to be released in crayon and in talk.
The child who is asked to draw the picture of
an apple with a stick thrust through it makes
the stick show full length, instead of the two
ends which are actually visible. He is not both-
ered by the fact that the picture of the man
standing beside the house is taller than the house,
or that the furniture shows right through the
walls. His images are vague and fleeting; move-
ment, go, expression, is the main thing. It is the
image that is interesting, the fact is subordinate.
This is seen in the tendency for him to tell as
true things which have only occurred to his mind.
Widening and Unifying of Experience
Through the function of imagination the child
is reaching out for a wider and more unified
experience. Fairy-stories bring things together
in fanciful unities that are emotionally satisfying.
Hero-stories give organizations of experience
analogous to those of real life and illustrate the
virtues in a setting of concrete relationships.
Stories of plant and animal life bring together
from a wide range of sense-perception, experi-
ence involving wide gaps of time and space, many
facts into one meaningful and satisfying whole.
From the point of view of meeting the insistent
needs of this period for the organization of ex-
perience, no teaching instrument is superior to
the story.
When we try to give to the ideas of the child
of this period a finished scientific form, we do
violence to the plastic, spontaneous, and emotional
nature of his imagination. This should not mean,
however, that fictitious things are to be preferred
to those which are real and true. The real and
the true in Nature and in life may have a per-
sonal value to the child and a warmth of interest
just as strong as the fanciful and the fictitious.
Hero-stories and nature study meet his needs
side by side with myths and fairy-stories.
Kindergarten-Primary Period as a
Transition Age
Our whole discussion of this period has tended
to emphasize the fact that it is the era of greatest
physical and mental spontaneity in the life of the
child. But this spontaneity is not a fixed and
final characteristic. There is significant progress
made in the direction of higher types of control.
Transitions are under way. In meeting the needs
of this period, of course it is necessary to un-
derstand the mobility and spontaneity of the
entire life of the child. But it is also necessary to
keep in mind the line of development and prog-
ress, in order that the activities of the child
may be guided into the most fruitful channels.
Dominant Point of Viewf in Instruction
The ideal of instruction for this period is that
of the growth and enrichment of experience
through the pupil's own immediate activities,
physical and mental. In the enriched e.xperience
of this plastic age are to be found the roots of
all further knowledge, skills, aptitudes, traits
of character, dispositions, interests, and ideals.
Hence we must extend the number and the range
of kindergarten and primary activities and
materials. His experience should include an
acquaintance with such fundamental materials as
earth, fiber, fabric, wood, and metal: with funda-
mental tools and their uses — knives, scissors, saws,
and other cutting tools, hammer, screw-driver,
auger, and the various simpler carrying, prying,
and lifting tools: with fundamental processes of
the life of the home and the neighborhood; with
the fundamental social relationships of the home,
the school, the playground, the church, and the
community; with the fundamental ideals of the
rights and obligations of persons, of unselfish-
ness, kindliness, service, etc. Utilize his curiosity,
imagination, and love of the story and the pic-
ture to quicken the outreach of his mind and to
supplement his familiar experience.
Enrich his moral and religious life with every-
thing appropriate to his age, rather than teach
forms, symbols, and creeds. Cultivate his spon-
taneous feelings, attitudes, and impulses toward
the good, the beautiful, and the true until they
become inherent and the trend of his life is set
in these directions. Give abundant experience in
self-expression — in play, dramatization, drawing,
paper cutting, pasting of pictures, rhythmic exer-
cises, singing, and the various forms of con-
structive work with the hands.
In construction, drawing, music, reading, and
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writing, let the emphasis be put on self-expres-
sion and the satisfaction of the child's natural
impulses rather than on the finished products.
Get children to loz'e what they are doing, really
to Ik'e in the school and its activities. This is
the big thing in the kindergarten and primary
grades as compared with skill or the objective
worth of the product that is produced. It is not
the time for great stress upon technique. The
story and the zest of the pursuit is more important
at the beginning than phonics ; drawing and the
delight in the creative and expressive powers
transcend in value the ability to make straight
lines or lifelike reproductions of e.xterna! realities.
Neither motor nor mental processes are suffi-
ciently developed and brought under control to
justify strong pressure on the child for fine, de-
tailed, and exact work. This does not mean that
all sorts of crudities are to be tolerated perma-
nently in the progress of children through these
years, but rather that the emphasis shall be kept
constantly on function, self-expression, enrich-
ment of experience, and that the technical ele-
ments shall be brought in gradually, as it becomes
evident that the child needs them as means for
improving his growing powers of understanding
and appreciating finished products.
Outside of the constructive activities, the story,
with its appeal to tlie imagination, is the funda-
mental teaching-instrument. The moral and so-
cial value of stories does not consist in the use
of them as a ba.sis for a series of homilies or as
a means of moralizing, but rather in whatever
they have of truths and of ideals that are vital
and palpitating with spirit, life, and emotion. On
account of the mobility of the child's attention
and the unreflective character of his thought, the
same theme must be approached from a variety
of directions if it is to get its full grip upon the
life of the child. Stories to be effective, either
in the impressing of ideals or of fundamental
facts of nature and of life, need to be grouped
carefully about a central theme, so that the im-
pression is renewed and impressed repeatedly.
In the disciplinary control of the child of this
age the principle of suggestion is fundamental.
He is exceedingly responsive. The attention may
stray easily, at the same time it is easily caught
again. He is naturally trustful and wishes to be
liked. The teacher should call forth his faith
and confidence, lead and inspire, rather than drive
by authority and force. Discipline of little chil-
dren is almost wholly a matter of conducting the
work in such a way as to make repeated appeals
to attention, not requests or demands for atten-
tion.
FREEDOM OF EXPERIMENT IN THE KINDERGARTEN*
BY
FRANK M. McMURRY, Pn.D
The learning process demands things in activity.
Consequently when we enter a kindergarten and
see on every hand evidences of formal work, as,
for instance, borders of flowers "gradually de-
veloped" from half-inch rings, or children follow-
ing the directions of the teacher in their block
building, the entire class repeating certain "units
of form," "selected" either by the teacher or
through her influence, or see these children
struggling away with the square tablets to "in-
vent" a beauty-form to be reproduced in par-
quetry, or make a picture which will gain her
approval, we know that the teacher has inter-
preted the child from above down, that she has
not taken him as he is but as she wishes him to
be. Such a method is not conducive to the learn-
ing process.
Accept the Child's Play Ideas
The teacher of young children who can sit
down with them, accepting any play suggestion
that they may give and still make sure that they
find a real discovery, or result, the one who could
work with any material, even though it isn't ex-
actly right, and still carry out a principle, this is
the teacher who commands method. There is
no one method, but a perfect blend of Teacher,
Pupils, and Material. It is evident that this would
give just opportunity for the activity of all three
factors, opportunity to try a variety of ways of
going about things to arrive at certain ends—
in other words, freedom to experiment, which
is not possible in kindergartens where the product
is of more value than the learning process. Many
* Dr. McMurry is one of the leaders of the experimental work at Teachers Colle(?e, CoKimhia University, New York
City, and we liave here an authoritative statement of the principles that are being worked out there.
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people still think that the experimental method
is impossible, for they believe that "ends" are
necessarily imposed, or that once they are either
originated or imposed, the "means" becomes so
fixed that opportunity for experimentation is
annihilated. Is this true of the adult problem?
Should not the problems of the child be as vital
to him as those of the adult are to him? If we
watch children of all ages in their undirected use
of materials at home and out-of-doors, we find
they are either experimenting, discovering what
they can do with them, or working with a purpose,
making something definite. Modern psychology
has proved the fact that there is no difference
in the mind-process of the adult and that of the
child. The only difference is in the character
of the problem. Common sense would show that
this does not prohibit a legitimate place for imi-
tation, for suggestion, and even for direction.
No — there must be no tyranny of mind over
mind. Tolerance and respect for individuality
must be shown by the teacher, for is not a six-
year-old child as worthy of respect as a man?
Back of all work with children there must be
faith in their worth. Therefore above all must
the teacher place the center of gravity upon them,
must she allow them to attack the problem for
themselves, giving them first the material for free
experimentation, that they may discover for
themselves the possibilities and limitations of
each. This is the only sane approach. In fact
the "experimental method" which develops nat-
urally into the "problematic method," — thus giv-
ing every opportunity for the development of
technique which comes through the growth in
the situations themselves — IS the "perfect blend"
of all methods of which I have already spoken.
Outside Interests
Let us now consider the outside interests of
children, which furnish motive for their hand-
work. There is the house, garden, community,
making of toys, dressing dolls, making paper dolls,
the seasonal interests which bring the need for
kites, marbles, tops, boats, snow-shovels, sleds.
Then there are festivals and parties. These
natural conditions set the majority of children's
problems. For instance, dolls create conditions
out of which the problems arise. The doll needs
a dress, hat, cap, muff, and tippet ; she needs a
swing and a rug, a set of dishes and linen for
table. Her house must be furnished with beds,
chairs, and tables, the windows must be curtained
and the beds supplied with pillows, a mattress
and sheets, and blankets. In fact, the doll's needs
are as great as her mistress-mother's. Therefore
if we had doll families and doll communities in
the kindergarten and primary, many problems
would arise naturally and bring about creative
and constructive work.
Toy animals are almost as great a help in
giving opportunity for natural childish problems
as the doll. There must be barns, sheds, and
fences for the toy horse and cow, pens for the
rabbits, a fold for the sheep, etc. There must
be wagons, carts, racks, etc., roads made and
bridges built, for wagons open a whole field of
possible activities, as well as trains, brooms, tubs,
washboards, stoves, flatirons.
Materials Suggest Problems
Materials suggest problems to young children
whose interest is more immediate. With them
the mastery of the material is in itself a problem.
As ideas grow out of the using, they in their turn
suggest other ideas, with the result that there is
growing definiteness, which is really the begin-
ning of purpose. Therefore the kindergartner
must select carefully for emphasis such material
as can be shown to have the greatest significance.
Children should be encouraged to experiment
freely with paper and scissors. Old newspapers
cut up, fringed, and folded, are excellent for this.
The children may use these freely and not feel
hampered, thus gaining power easily over tools
and material.
Outline cutting should be used very little, as
its only value is in the technical training of eye
and hand. Accuracy is needed most certainly,
but not at the continual expense of creativity.
There is no reason why original cutting should
not give sufficient opportunity for growth in
technique.
A few uses of paper, which will develop from
the child's needs or dolls', are: paper dolls, soldier
caps, hats, flowers, pinwheels, fans, Christmas-
tree decorations, scrapbooks. The use of paper
in construction should be carefully watched, as
it is with this medium that much insincere work
has been done. Furniture that will not stand
after it is made, and wagons which will not hold
anything, encourage children in a deplorable use
of material.
Chalk and Crayon
With chalk and crayon the teacher's part is
to aid in the elimination of scribble and thus
avoid an arrest of development caused by the
child's falling into some one conventional repre-
sentation. The range of subjects is as wide as
the child's experience, and will include human
figures in action, events in literature and in the
child's own life, local occurrences, such as fires,
parades, circuses, excursions, home-life, etc.
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Bold work should be striven for, using the side
of the chalk for mass representation. Children
should be given opportunity every day for large,
free drawing. Crayons and large paper either
fastened to the wall or used on the floor will
give the added enjoyment of color. With the
crayons some definite art work may be attempted,
such as simple borders in flowers and conven-
tional design to be applied to Industrial Arts
work, that is, to the decoration of doilies and
sideboard cover, rugs, wallpaper and curtains for
the doll-house, bookcases, sun-bonnets, parasols,
etc.
I have heard many kindergartners say that
they would have more drawing if it were not for
the chalk dust. I would advise putting black-
boards out of doors. The children will not take
cold, as they are exercising, and the opportunity
to work outdoors will give an added pleasure.
Nature Materials and Textiles
Chains of nature material may be made. There
is an almost endless variety of them, including
berries, nuts, seeds, reeds, hollow stems of many
plants. Melon seeds may be dipped in various
dyes and beautiful colors secured. Macaroni
may be painted in the long strips and broken up
to string between the berries. Painted bright
orange, it makes a beautiful harmony with the
brown of acorn cups. These strings should be
first made for the child's own personal decoration.
The decoration of the room comes later. Many
mistakes have been made in this, and the child
soon tires of such a waste of effort. If the work
is not for him it does not count, and as there
is no real interest, the work is consequently
mechanical and spiritless.
Sewing and weaving come under the head of
textiles. The process of sewing is interesting to
all children, but its possibilities in kindergarten
are restricted by the fine muscular coordination
it ordinarily demands. Whenever it is used the
materials should be coarse, in order to insure,
so far as possible, large, crude work. A box of
scraps of cloth and a rag or stockinet doll for
each child offer an excellent opportunity for
experimentation. At first the garments are sewed
on the dolls — ^the stitches are large and inexact — ■
but later the need for better garments is felt and
a pattern is necessary, in order, as a child told me,
"that we may not waste the cloth." Dresses are
then made that can be put on and taken off. Win-
ter weather suggests the need of blankets for the
dolls" beds and cradles and the ends may be over-
cast with worsted. Many Christmas presents, as
sachet-bags, pincushions, dust-cloths, and holders,
can be easily made. There are costumes to be
planned and made for the children's plays, such
as an Indian costume, fringed and decorated, a
knight's costume for a tournament, which in-
cludes a cape, shield, and plumed hat. Funny
costumes may be developed for Hallowe'en, thus
encouraging the children to work out something
grotesque. Every opportunity for initiative,
choice of materials, taste in color, and originality
in design should be given. The projects will in-
clude, besides those mentioned, marble bags, work
aprons, rag and yarn dolls. Then there are the
doll's rugs and hammock, hats, scarfs, muffs, to
be woven on cardboard looms. As in the case
of sewing, it is questionable whether much weav-
ing should be attempted in the kindergarten on
account of the prolonged effort which most
projects require, and also because the nature of
weaving is such that execution must be much
more accurate than is required in any other form
of children's work. Because of this, paper weav-
ing should be mostly omitted.
These are a few of the possibilities of hand
work with young children, meeting the require-
ments of child psychology and hygiene which,
near to the learner's need, demand of him his
interest, effort, and reflective thought.
It is not so much what a child knows that
testifies to the efficiency of a kindergarten, but
what he is prepared to do. He must be able to
produce real effort and power, must be able to
carry into the school :
First : A habit of joyous but orderly activity
and liking for employment, and good-
humored cooperation with the activities
of others ;
Second : Habits of obedience and promptness,
and acceptance of community regulation.
Third : A little skill in planning combinations
and inventions with materials.
The place of conscious direction in education ia to fur-
nish the time, place, and materials which will draw out the
best interests of children. — Luther H. Giilick.
THE TREND OF THE KINDERGARTEN TO-DAY*
BY
PATTY SMITH HILL
The atmosphere of freedom has inspired a num-
ber of experiments during the last decade,
especially along the line of better uses of kin-
dergarten materials, the results of which we now
submit to the public for criticism. In these we
do not claim to have solved the problem for other
people, or even for ourselves; but each experi-
ment has been of great value in clearing our
vision, in freeing ourselves from blind tradition,
and in paving the way for other experiments.
What Does the Child Teach Us?
In all of the experiments the following prob-
lems have been more or less prominently in mind :
Among the apparently aimless and valueless
spontaneous activities of the child is it possible
to discover some which may be used as the point
of departure for ends of recognized worth? Are
there some of these crude expressions which,
if properly directed, may develop into the begin-
nings of the fine and industrial arts? How far
does the preservation of the individuality and
freedom of the child demand self-initiated activ-
ities? Is it possible for the teacher to set prob-
lems or ends sufficiently childlike to fit in with
the mode of growth and to inspire their adoption
with the same fine enthusiasm which accompanies
the self-initiated ones? Or, better still, if the
activities and surroundings of the kindergarten
were more like those in real life, would problems
arise spontaneously out of these more lifelike
situations as they do in life? In other words,
this problem has been studied from initiation on
the level of impulse and spontaneity to culmina-
tion in ideas embodied in good form.
Using Play as Motive Power
In our effort to answer some of these questions,
experiments have indicated that the play-motive,
when utilized in the production of toys, has
seemed to offer problems which the children im-
mediately recognize as their own, thus meeting
the standard of worth from the standpoint of
the child and the teacher. With the older chil-
dren it has made a very happy transition from
the more or less haphazard and short-lived pur-
suit of ends which is characteristic of play, pure
and simple, to the voluntary persistence in solv-
ing more distant problems required in the begin-
nings of creative work and industry. Here the
motive of the child is to meet his own play-needs,
but the process of production involves the recog-
nition of a problem which to be solved requires
persistent experimental attempts to discover ways
and means related to the end desired. The self-
effort of the children is marked, and their atten-
tion unwavering. It might be described as the
attitude and processes of creative work permeated
with the spirit of play.
Doll-Play Imitates Real Life
In this way the child's introduction to industry
corresponds with that of the race, in that he is
learning to produce through his own efforts the
objects which promote the welfare of his social
life. The dolls and doll families are of inesti-
mable value, as the children voluntarily center
their productions around the needs of the doll
families and communities. The needs of the
dolls, while "make-believe" from our adult point
of view, are to the children almost identical with
those in real life — food, clothing, shelter, etc.;
and the ways and means of supplying these in
play-life offer the same motives and opportunities
for creative work which they inspired under the
grim and more pressing conditions in the race.
The children became so absorbed in the reality
of this motive that they voluntarily planned a
series of occupations for themselves, not only
for the day, but in some cases for a week in
advance.
At other times their own out-of-door play
necessities have furnished the motive for the
production of marbles, tops, kites, wagons, etc.
Or, again, some real need in the kindergarten or
the home has suggested the type of production ;
for example, making crude little work-aprons
to protect their clothes when modeling, painting,
or when washing the kindergarten dishes.
The Teacher as Welder
In occupations of this nature, the teacher's
problem is in guiding the children's productions
through an ascending scale of difficulty which will
* Miss Hill, who gave her cordial permission to the condensation of her article, is no doubt the leading American
kindergartner to-day. Her statements as to the ways in which Play is being used as a motive-power in the Horace
Mann School kindergarten are most significant. *
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insure continuous progress in technique or con-
trol over materials. While kindergartners of an
early day were enslaved by a narrow conception
and scheme of sequence which was utterly foreign
to the nature of the child and to life, the ideal is
an important one, and may easily be overlooked
or undervalued. If a teacher recognizes the im-
portance of a continuous advance in the mastery
of technique and materials, she will find that if
the children are thrown upon their own resources
in discovering solutions for themselves they will
probably produce a fairly good attempt, repre-
senting their maximum skill; or they become
conscious of their need for guidance or sugges-
tion, which ofifers her the opportunity for leading
them to better ways and means, or to a more
adequate form of expression.
The "What" and the "How"
These points have been kept in the foreground
of our consciousness through one and all of the
experiments, namely, that there must be free-
dom somewhere. — ample room left for choices,
and provisions made for the child to make his
own judgments and decisions. For example, if
the child initiates the "what" of his production,
the teacher's part may be to hold herself in readi-
ness to offer suggestions as to the "how," the
best ways and means; or, if the teacher has sug-
gested the problem, aim, or end, she must throw
the children on their own resources to discover
ways of arriving at the end. It has often been
evident that when the children are intelligent as
to what end they are striving to accomplish, they
are set free from any undue dependence on the
teacher for either dictation or detail of direction.
The problem to be solved, the end to be attained,
dominates them, and the teacher falls into the
background.
Froebel Not InfalHble
While Froebel's materials and methods have
been respectfully studied to find the best in them,
the materials used have not been limited to these
or in any way bound by them. Careful studies
and experiments have been made with a variety
of educational materials, including not only those
of Froebel and Montessori, but any good toys
and play materials, including those from Nature
and those of recognized merit in the field of the
fine and industrial arts. The results of these
experiments have been compared, and those
materials selected, irrespective of tradition, which
have proved of greatest worth.
Froebel Forgot Dolls
Free use has been made of the doll and doll
families, as they seem to furnish one of the most
natural motives to work and play with materials.
In the simplest sense of the word, the doll is the
symbol of humanity, and as man and man's needs,
aesthetic, domestic, and industrial, have been the
incentive to all good production in the domestic,
fine, and industrial arts in society, past and pres-
ent, so the dolls, which represent humanity in the
play life of the child, have proved to be a most
natural incentive to production. It seems strange
that the doll has been so largely overlooked or
undervalued in the kindergarten, when its neces-
sity and importance in the play life in the home
is as old as childhood and motherhood. Froebel,
who was the first to see the educational value
in otlier toys of universal significance — such as
balls and blocks, — at one time seemed on the eve
of recognizing the doll in his scheme of play
materials. However, his own personal absorp-
tion in geometry and mathematical relations
crowded it into the background, so that instead
of being central in the play-materials in the kin-
dergarten, it has been an adjunct, an afterthought,
or an occasional visitor. In one place, he seems
to see the doll as the symbol of humanity in
child life, as he poetically refers to it as a "play
child." Fortunately, it is not only a play child,
but it is equally effective as a play mother, a play
father, a play baby, symbolizing in turn all mem-
bers of the human family.
Blocks to Build Backgrounds
We have introduced some blocks, which are
much larger than those of Froebel or Montessori,
for use on the floor and in group work. These
are related as far as being based upon a unit of
measurement is considered. They provide boards
— a long-felt need in the constructive materials of
the kindergarten — with which the children can
construct bridges, floors, and houses sufficiently
large for the children to get in, play "Lady-come-
to-see" or store, to their heart's content.
It is sincerely believed that the time has come
when all materials and methods must be carefully
investigated and those selected which prove to
be of actual worth in the development of the
kindergarten child, whether they be those planned
by Froebel, Montessori, or their follov;ers, many
of whom are striving to hold fast to that which
is good, while pressing forward in the endless
quest for the better — the best — the ideal.
THE KINDERGARTEN AT HORACE MANN SCHOOL,
TEACHERS COLLEGE*
BY
JOHN WALKER HARRINGTON
ImacixK yourself going to scliool and being asked
what you would like to do. The old way was to
tell the pupil what he must do. and especially
what he must not do. But it is the natural way
to learn by doing, even if one does try something
at first rather beyond his powers.
"Why," replied a youngster in one of the pre-
primary grades at the Horace Mann School, "I
think I would like to build a Woolworth Build-
ing."
"Would you like to begin to-day?" asked the
teacher.
'■Right away, if I can do it before lunch."
The boy was directed to a large pile of wooden
beams, each four feet in length and about three
inches square. They had interlocking devices to
hold them together. As the schoolroom was only
fifteen feet high, the tower which was soon being
reared was not a full-scale skyscraper to the
adult mind. It was the real thing, though, to the
youthful architect. He soon found that he needed
help, and he was joined by four or five other
lads of that impossible school. Foot by foot the
fabric was reared, and once in a while the teacher
strolled up to see how the construction was
progressing. The first story was as high as the
builders, and so, after a good deal of talk, they
left a hole in its roof, which was the floor of
the second story that was to be, so they could
crawl up through the aperture and lay the courses
for the rising walls.
The third floor meant a dizzy height for the
age of five or six, and it required a firm will to
work in those upper airs. At last came the peak
of a tower where slanting beams were raised
high aloft. Down among the tables stood a boy
who had been a timid spectator. He was strug-
gling with a great purpose. At last he screwed
his courage to the sticking point and crawled
into the awesome structure and wriggled to the
very top floor. There he sat down with a sigh of
triumph and relief. He had done it. His fear
of high places had been trampled under foot.
In the erection of that pile there had been also
the building of character. First there had been
instilled in the mind of the pioneer a spirit of
initiative. He had thought that he would like
to do something on his own account. Finding
that his own strength was not equal to the task,
he had sent forth his call for aid, and those who
joined him thus learned the value of cooperation.
The youngster who followed in their wake, like
some young Hercules, had strangled the serpeiit
of timidity.
The foundation stones of the new education
and of the good citizenship which this youngest
generation is expected to reach by the new method
are just such qualities as these, which are con-
sidered of far more account than anything which
can be learned from books or worked out by rule
of thumb. The youngsters who built the sky-
scraper had first of all learned the properties of
things: they had mastered the social ideals of
cooperation, and had developed personal self-
reliance. They had made plans and had executed
them.
But what of the "Three R's" ? You may say
that the boys and girls of Do-As- You-'Please-
Hall are really not learning anything. Fourth
in importance in the scale of the new education
come the "school arts," such as reading, writing,
arithmetic. Let us go back to the skyscraper and
perhaps we may find them somewhere in the
cornerstone.
The architect and his helpers, in order to get
the stories the same height, were obliged to count
the timbers of the wall. They absorbed arith-
metic without knowing it. It was necessary to
have the name of the building put upon its front.
But these youngsters, much as they wished to
have the inscription, were weak in orthography
and chirography. Over in one corner was a tray
filled with A B C's, little and big, carved on
printing blocks. The entire crew, with a little
help from the teacher, assembled the name in
a line of type. The first attempt lacked an "o"
in the first syllable, but the final tablet pasted
to the building just above the imposing entrance
was correctly spelled.
Reading, writing, and arithmetic had come to
those youngsters in the heat of achievement.
Now that the building was done, why not make
* From The New York Times.
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some more lobels ? There were so many things
about the room that had interesting names, such
as chalk, pencils, brushes, paints. These were
more convenient to use if each kind were kept
in a box by itself. It would be best, in that case,
to have a label on each box. Therefore, more
scrambling among the type, more reading and
spelling, and the labels were duly made.
Although, at first blush, one might think that
this school is a haphazard institution, the teacher
is at every point directing and overseeing the
tasks which the pupils have chosen for them-
selves. The child, on reaching the classes in the
morning, is permitted to help itself to whatever
material it wishes. It may model in clay or nail
a box or make a wagon or paste up a scrapbook.
Whatever it does has in it the 'urge of a personal
interest. Some of us may remember periods in
our lives when we took up the flying of kites, or
the hunting for Indian arrowheads in the fields,
and in the kindling enthusiasm of that time we
grasped the principles of aeronautics, archc-eology,
and of geology, sciences with mouth-filling names
of which we did not even hear until later years.
If the boys and girls who go to this school
of the new order are guided aright in their build-
ing of houses and in the making of automobiles
and fire engines out of wooden beams and wheels,
the theory is that they will develop correct and
accurate habits of thought.
The more formal things required in an educa-
tion can be added. There is no laborious drilling
in the alphabet ; nothing is said about the multipli-
cation table : and there is no endless repetition
of words and phrases which the child-mind can
not grasp. When the youngster makes houses,
airplanes, submarines, or tea, he is acquiring skill
in the use of tools and paste and dishes.
These children get their own meals. The
teacher does not tell them about it, but along
about noontime they begin to feel hungry, and
someone says, "Let's get lunch." The ones who
like domestic duties the most attend to that.
They spread the tables and bring out the dishes
and see that the chairs are placed. Initiative,
cooperation, and a desire for service all have
their places in this play, and the school arts come
in when the bill of fare is printed and there is
a counting of knives and forks and spoons.
For the last two years there has been much
discussion in educational circles about the dis-
continuance of the word kindergarten. The old
name still appears in the catalogue of Teachers
College, of which the Horace Mann School is a
division. The new movement in juvenile educa-
tion is radically different from the Froebel idea
of the kindergarten. It harks back to the original
conception of the brilliant French-Swiss thinker
Rousseau.
When Froebel served with Pestalozzi, when
that distinguished educator was working out the
ideas of Rousseau's "Emile," he grasped com-
paratively little of the spirit of the work. His
kindergarten, as he called it, meant literally a
garden in which children were raised like plants.
He invented his ponderous system of gifts and
of applied play. The children were taught to
act and to think in unison. In the average kin-
dergarten the pupils are assembled about the table
at the same time, and each child is set to work
cutting or pasting or modeling in the same way
that every one else is doing. The system at
Horace Mann, as put into practice by Miss
Patty Smith Hill, in charge of these pre-primary
grades, gives scope to the talents of every pupil.
Instruction in some of the pre-primary grades
begins with the age of four years.
No one would think, on entering the school-
room where this kind of instruction is given, that
he was in a schoolroom. He sees a group of
children, each one of whom is earnestly doing
what he likes. It takes some time to realize that
these youngsters who are playing games of their
own choice are teaching themselves reading, writ-
ing, and arithmetic through occupations for which
they have a natural aptitude.
In this way, modern education removes the old
obstacles which blocked the path of self-deter-
mination, and gives to every child a full oppor-
tunity to develop its individuality.
A good part of kindergarten education should be devoted
to the gaining of new experience through first-hand contact
with nature, and with human activities. We are often guiUy
of singing about these, dramatizing them, relating stories of
them, or expressing them through hand work, when what is
needed is not the expression of these but the actual experi-
ence itself. — Patty Smith Hill.
FROEBEL AND THE KINDERGARTEN OF TO-DAY*
BY
G. STANLEY HALL, LL.D.
What, now, are some of the great ideas which
the educational world owes in whole or in part to
Froebel ? I think they may be listed as follows:
Froebel's Nine Great Ideas
1. He was the first to teach that the child re-
peats the history of the race, recapitulating its
stages.
2. Feeling and instinct are the germs of intel-
lect and the will.
3. Froebel taught self-activity and spontaneity,
and that play was one of the great revealers of
the direction of inherent interest and capacity.
He first saw that if the play instincts are turned
on as the great motive power in school, far more
can be accomplished, and that more easily .and
with less strain.
4. He was in the true apostolic succession of
those great souls whose lives were expanded
and directed by a sense that in God we live,
move, and have our being.
5. He believed in the original soundness and
wholeness of human nature, and hence abhorred
all interfering, or radically reconstructing, meth-
ods of education, but thought the latter should
be always developmental.
6. Almost as a corollary of the first statement,
he exhorted that every child should be at each
stage of his life all that that stage called for.
7. We must all live for and with the children.
Indeed, what else is there in all this world worth
living, working, dying for?
8. The child, he said, is a seed in the ground,
which does not see the sun or feel the rain di-
rectly, but is not unresponsive to every change
of temperature, moisture, or light. "The un-
consciousness of a child is rest in God." This
saying alone shows that Froebel's standpoint was
not inferior to that of Wordsworth in his famous
Ode, and that he dimly foresaw the work that
has been done lately on that part of the soul
which lies below the threshold of consciousness,
but from its unfathomable depths rules all our
life.
9. Lastly, I shall mention Froebel's belief in
health. The child is a plant, a vegetable, and
must, as I said above, live out of doors or in as
nearly out-of-door conditions as possible. He
realized that health was the basis and test of all,
and was one of the morning stars of the new
hygiene.
Again, Froebel was the morning star of the
child-study movement, and would have rejoiced
to see its day.
The Mistake of Literally Imitating Froebel
The most decadent intellectual new departure
of the conservative American Froebelists, how-
ever, is the emphasis now laid upon the mother-
plays, as the acme of kindergarten wisdom.
These are represented by very crude poems,
indifferent music, and pictures — the like of which
were never seen in any art exhibit — illustrating
certain incidents of child life believed to be of
fundamental and typical significance. I have read
these in German and in English, have strummed
the music, and have given a brief course of lec-
tures from the sympathetic standpoint, trying to
put all the new wine of meaning I could think
of into them. But I am driven to the conclusion
that, if they are not positively unwholesome and
harmful for the child, and productive of anti-
scientific and unphilosophical intellectual habits
in the teacher, they should, nevertheless, be super-
seded by the far better things now available.
Another cardinal error of the conservative
kindergarten is the intensity of its devotion to
the gifts and occupations. In devising these,
Froebel showed much sagacity ; but the scheme
as it left his own hands was a very inadequate
embodiment of his educational ideas, even for
his own time. He thought it a perfect grammar
of play and an alphabet of industries; and in this
opinion he was utterly mistaken. Play and in-
dustry were then relatively undeveloped: and
while his devices were no doubt beneficent for
the peasant children in the country, whom he
taught, they lead, compared to the interests of
the modern city child, a very pallid, unreal life.
For the symbolic method that finds everything
in everything, any random selections could readily
be made the center of an imposing set of ex-
planations.
• From "Educational Problems, by G. Stanley Hall. Used by permission of the publishers, D. Appleton and Company,
New York.
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There Are Better Materials than Froebel's
The great faults of the gifts and occupations,
however, are not only that there are hundreds
of other things that would do as well ; but I am
convinced that two or three score could easily
be found that possess great natural advantages
over most, if not all, of these. Moreover, they
deal with inanimate objects and too mathematical
conceptions, while this is the age when the child's
interest in animals culminates, and when his
character is pregnant with moral suggestions as
well as with scientific interests. They are also
over-emphasized; and idolatry of the ball, cube,
slats, pricking, peawork, and the rest makes the
kindergartner not only indifferent to new de-
partures in the rapid development of recent times,
but so suspicious of novelties that new gifts or
occupations have to overcome a great presump-
tion against them. The schemes of analyzing to
a point and then developing from it are fantastic
and superficial ; and it is persistently forgotten
that the meanings, seen or claimed, exist solely
for the teacher and not at all for the child.
Much of the work involves a great waste of
teaching, with great effort to inculcate early
what will later come naturally and better of
itself. The drawing of the kindergarten children
thus tends to be wooden ; and its introduction
into the curriculum is to invert the order of Na-
ture, which prompts the child to draw complex
scenes, with animals and men in motion first, with
never a straight line, circle, or mathematical
angle until much later. The sins of this intro-
duction of regular mathematical forms against
both the artistic sense and power of execution,
which can be laid to the door of the kindergarten,
are many and great. Moreover, as administered,
the occupations tend to overwork the children,
to interest them and the parents in the products
of the little school factory, and to lay too great
stress on sedentary activities and the finer and
later developed accessory muscles.
Kindergartens Should Have More Outdoors
In direct contradiction to all this, Froebel be-
lieved the child should live out of doors; would
give each child a flower-bed that he might have
access to Mother Earth; emphasized the need of
abundant and healthful activity for the whole
body, and understood the hygienic necessities of
leisure. We forget that the very definition of
school means leisure; that the child must have
it in great abundance ; and that he must be pro-
tected and shielded from the activities of the
great world; so that Nature and heredity — an
ounce of which is worth tons of education — can
get in their work. Quiet, rest, sleep, lethargy,
and, above all, day-dreaming, are essential ; and
he must have a strong cause who would interfere
with Nature's operations.
The nursery element, now often so abhorred,
must be greatly emphasized in our kindergartens.
Some factors of the now admirable education
of nurses should be introduced by a competent
medical instructor in all the training-schools.
Great improvements are entirely practicable.
Desirable Kindergarten Activities
A few things I shall venture to indicate. The
body must be strengthened. The activities should
involve more body movements, and the strain
upon the hand and eye should be reduced. The
very high educational value of dancing should
be exploited even more than it is. It cadences
the soul as almost nothing else does. Building
should be done with much larger blocks. Catch-
ing, throwing, and lifting plays and games should
be selected from Mr. Johnson's or some other
convenient repertoire. Imitation, or "do-as-I-do"
activities, should have a larger place. Bean-bags,
and, if there were room, perhaps the hoop, the
jumping-rope, and the kite may have some place.
Certainly the doll, with all its immense educa-
tional power, should be carefully introduced.
Much might be said in favor of the color top.
peg board, soap bubbles, and such old plays as
jackstraws and knuckle-bones. All the contents
of the toy shop should always be studied and
used. Sorting out heterogeneous blocks and
cards, and laying like to like, might be tried;
while play with chalk, shells, spools, and pictures
should be carefully developed; always remember-
ing that the child's interest in animals culminates
before its interest in flowers or trees, and that
the latter reaches its apex before interest in in-
animate things.
Emphasize Language
The kindergarten should do much more for
language, on the basis of what we now know
of child linguists, not only for the voice in train-
ing to speak freely and well, but for the vocabu-
larv. It is important that the teacher's voice be
attractive, well modulated, her words well chosen,
her English correct, her linguistic resources ample
and fertile; but still more important is it that the
child should here be taught expression. The
over-voluble may occasionally need repression ;
but most children do not talk enough in the kin-
dergarten. Again, whenever practicable, living,
foreign languages should be taught in the upper
grades of kindergartens by a native teacher to
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those children who are likely to study them later
in connection with every activity.
Everything that is done or seen should, in
short, be reflected in language. It should not,
however, be the stupid concert work common in
the kindergarten, but free personal conversation
with each child. To see a picture or handle an
object while talking about it greatly aids the
power of expression, not only in our own but in
a foreign language ; so that it should be a rule
to confine such conversation as closely as pos-
sible, word for word, at least to the picture, if
not to the object and to the act.
Standard stories with myths should be told
more; and perhaps this ought to be the central
thing, or, at least, next to activity. Not only
Grimm and ^sop, but some of the Old Testa-
ment tales, tales from Homer, etc., can be told
at the kindergarten age in a most effective way by
a sympathetic teacher. Story-telling ought to be
a profession ; and if I could examine kinder-
garten teachers I should regard the test in this
respect as second to none in importance. The
same story can be repeated. This is the primeval
way of education; thus all culture was trans-
mitted before books. Animal tales, perhaps acted
out, stories of savage life, of fancy, something
of the fairies, with games like hide-and-seek —
and a vast amount of such work in great variety
— should be included.
Emphasize Music
Music should be looked upon as indispensable
and made even more prominent. Most of the
new music I believe to be cheap and unworthy
of the child. The old ballads and songs of Na-
ture, God, home, and country educate the senti-
ments in ways we have never known. There is
much to be said in favor of the violin instead of
the piano. The teacher should sing and a great
deal of music should be heard. Froebel's stand-
ard can here be greatly transcended. Occasional
whistling would, of course, be admirable. Songs
with action are important here — bad as they are
later — for the development of the voice. There
is something in the cake-walk — which seems to
be the very apotheosis of human love antics —
that could be utilized for older children, who
might be encouraged to act a part and begin to
indulge that great instinct of assuming an alien
personality with the aid of costumes, disguises,
and masks. Children appreciate poetry with
alliteration and even slang in it, which has its
partial justification; and the sequence and con-
tinuity, identity and contrast, which are so much
insisted on, are utterly alien as principles to the
child mind at this animistic age
Effective Building Activities
Among other things, it would be quite germane
to an ideal kindergarten to have a stone and a
woodyard, where many stones of as diverse kinds,
shapes, color, qualities, etc., as possible, should be
accumulated, including a load of smooth, varie-
gated pebbles from the beach; and from these
up to sizes that the children would have to exert
themselves to lift or even to roll. There should
be a level space for them to pile the stones into
tiny chairs or cromlechs. There should be also a
generous collection of small boards, large wooden
blocks, slats, etc., etc., but entirely without slivers.
Here children might indulge their primitive in-
stincts to construct, using material heavy enough
to exercise the larger muscles. They could assort
them by size, color, shape, smoothness, etc. It
would be well also if there were characteristic
bits of ore and minerals — marble, glass wdthout
too sharp edges, and even coal, and a few
of the more common or easily obtainable fossils
and arrowheads. The children might occasionally
be shown the many clever things that can be
done, and not too much protected so that there
would never be any bruises or petty accidents.
Thus the propensity to build, classify, exercise
the esthetic taste, work, develop the strong mus-
cles, learn something about minerals, mines,
rocks, mountains, could be gained and developed
by talks and model exercises. Some stones could
be named and tales told of the Mythic and Stone
Ages, and some rudiments of what will later be-
come of interest in lithology could be developed by
lessons from the rocks. Such a stone and wood-
yard in a school could teach many invaluable
lessons and stimulate tendencies. For the older
children, there could be joined framework, boards,
and other material to be put together without
nails into houses large enough for the children
to get into and enjoy, and then taken down and
reconstructed. There should, of course, also be
bricks for building as well as stones.
Snow as Plastic Material
Snow in its season is as valuable for construc-
tive play as sand and clay, and is more plastic.
Young children should be insured a good deal
of experience with molding snowballs and vari-
ous other figures, making snow-men, fortsi im-
printing their own figure in it, making pictures
and letters, mapping out cart-wheels and other
patterns for games, digging and tunneling in
drifts, rolling and leaping in it, etc. Snow has
pedagogic possibilities that are not yet realized.
The kind of play it prompts is under the very
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best conditions, for the ground is padded and
cushioned and so incites to new motor activities.
The analysis of snow air shows it to be the purest
from germs, most prophylactic and stimulating,
while the cold adds its wondrous tonic, sending
the blood inward to stimulate all the vital organs,
and then by reaction bringing it to the surface
again in the most healthful way. Thus a snow
field is on the .whole a better environment for
play, and a more tonic kind of play than even
a grassy lawn.
Base All on Child Study
Froebel said, "Wouldst thou lead the child . . .
observe him and he will show thee what to do,"
and yet we can not and must not forget that a
dark cloud of ignorance hangs over the kinder-
garten age. Some scores of individual studies
have been made upon infants from liirth on. often
up to the third year, and collective studies of
children from the beginning of the school age
on are far more common. But the child of from
about two and a half or three to five or six years
of age is relatively unknown to science. Of no
stage of human life do we know so little. The
most sagacious and practical kindergartners in
this country now base their views upon native,
wpmanly intuition into the nature and needs of
this metamorphic age. But none of us can prove
ourselves right by citing more than two or three
studies of this period. Till there are such data
we must go on by the same methods of tact and
sympathy that have prevailed ever since savagery
in the training of children, with only the addi-
tional light that progress in other fields reflects
into this obscure region. With so much ability
and enthusiasm and so many methods now in
operation it would seem that it needs but a touch
of intelligent direction to redeem this rank, rich
field for scientific pedagogy, for none is so in-
viting, so ripe, so certain of yielding, under
proper cultivation, such precious results both for
science and for education.
WHAT HAS THE AMERICAN KINDERGARTEN TO
LEARN FROM MONTESSORI?*
BY
WILLIAM HEARD KILPATRICK, Pii.D.
Madam Montessori allies herself most commend-
ably with the scientific aim and attitude as the
only rule of educational faith and practice. Her
practice is not so praiseworthy. In the opinion
of those competent to judge, her biology is gen-
erally bad, while her psychology, as we shall
later say, is not abreast of the best. Montessori
has, then, the spirit but not the content of mod-
ern science.
In the matter of "practical life" activities, these
are already found in many kindergartens. Mon-
tessori stresses this idea, and modern education
would approve her emphasis. An adaptation to
American conditions is, however, necessary in
the utilization of her activities.
For many years the proper curriculum for the
young child has been much discussed. Froebel
expected some geometry and arithmetic, but little
or no reading or writing. The kindergarten has,
as a rule, taught no reading and writing, and but
little of number or geometry. Madam Montes-
sori. however, expects her work to culminate in
the three R's; and her apparent success has been
widely discussed. In arithmetic, it may be dog-
matically stated, there is no contribution for
America. Her reading-method depends on the
phonetic Italian language ; and when separated
therefrom has no new suggestion for us. The
writing is beautiful, and may contain suggestions
of value to us, though the matter is not certain.
It is quite another question whether the kinder-
garten should wish to take up the three R's.
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tnnltv ^n cn„ne.H^^ un vers.ty to . cont.nuc her studies ,n philosophy and pedagogy. In 1907 she was given the oppor:
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svmn.iheHc bn^f iT n;r^r„'r c"*^^ P u ^P^'^.. ^'\,^'^ ^'■''^ ^ocke to Montessori." To the layman the most useful
sympathetic book is Dorothy Canfield Fisher's "A Montessori Mother."
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There is, at present, no scientific basis for a final
answer. A school without books is Froebel's
everlasting glory.
Her Doctrine of Liberty
The doctrine of liberty is the most interesting
of the Montessori doctrines. Froebel professed
it, but in practice we have too often had dicta-
tion instead. The kindergartner has a detailed
program; and the children have been directed
therein by suggestion, seldom by force. The
freedom has been narrow, limited to the exi-
gencies of the teacher-made program. Montes-
sori, on the other hand, has no such detailed
program. During the long period set aside for
the use of the apparatus, the child chooses, practi-
cally ad libitum, how he will spend the time.
The director keeps herself distinctly in the back-
ground. Yet there is no anarchy; on the con-
trary, there is vigorous activity along the proper
lines.
The social cooperation and conformity in the
kindergarten are mainly secured by the teacher's
interposition and direction. In the Montessori
school, however, they are secured by the volun-
tary action of the children. The freedom in the
Montessori schools presents a definite challenge
to most American kindergartens. The child must
be given a chance to exercise real choice and real
self-direction. While Montessori allows freer in-
dividual choice than Froebel, the range of choice
is much more limited. Play as such is little en-
couraged. In particular, there must be no playing
with the didactic material. Games are not much
in evidence, and those found are inferior to those
of the American kindergarten. Stories have no
place — a lamentable defect. There is little utili-
zation of the imagination. Drawing and model-
ing play but small part. The freedom of the
Montessori school, to prove most useful, must be
united with the variety of the kindergarten.
As a guide to the freedom allowed. Madam
Montessori seeks to utilize the principle of auto-
education — a scheme whereby the school exer-
cises set their own problems and themselves
correct all errors. The aim is admirable, but as
here presented, the practice is limited in both
scope and value. So mechanical an auto-educa-
tion can have value only on some theory of formal
discipline.
Her Scheme of Sense-Training
Perhaps even more than the liberty of the
Montessori system has its scheme of sense-train-
ing found praise. An adequate discussion of
this topic is not easy. There are at least three
positions as to sense-training. The first says
that the sense-organ as such can be improved
so that one sees with a better eye, for example,
much as one might look through an improved
telescope. To this theory, two other groups say
no. These agree that the eye sees more things
because fuller meanings have been attached to
distinctions all the while optically visible.
Which theory is correct? Has Cooper's In-
dian a better eye than the scholar? Or is it that
the former has learned to note significances in
the things of the forest that lie out of the latter's
experience? To test whether it be eye or attached
meaning, bring the Indian into the scholar's
library. Show him these two pages, one of
French, one of Latin. What says the Indian?
"They are both alike, meaningless marks," but a
glance tells the bookman that he sees different lan-
guages. They see and note different significances.
So far theories two and three agree, and they
are right as opposed to the first. But now they
differ. Number two says that the eye trained
to discriminate in one line will discriminate
wherever seeing is needed. The child trained
to observe birds will, for that reason, observe
the finer trees and styles of houses. In other
words, number two believes that the child has
general powers or faculties of discrimination, of
observation, of memory, etc. ; and that any train-
ing in any of these fields trains the faculty so
that it may be used anywhere else. To this
position, number three says no. There are no
such general powers or faculties; training is
specific, not general, and modern psychology
decides in favor of number three.
Consider now the application of these three
theories. If one believed in either of the first
two, he would be more concerned in the exercise
of the organ or faculty than in the value of the
content thereby gained. The third theory, how-
ever, would ask, Is this child making distinctions
that are going to prove useful? Is this child
getting desirable sense-qualities?
Where now stands Madam Montessori? "It
is exactly in the repetition of the exercises that
the education of the senses consists : their aim
is not that the child shall know colors, forms,
and the different qualities of objects, but that he
refine his senses."
The slightest examination of the didactic ap-
paratus and the most casual reading of the ex-
position of its use shows that Madam Montessori
meant to base t-he usefulness of the apparatus
predominantly upon an erroneous theory of sense-
training, whether of the first or second is not
always clear. We accordingly reject the didactic
material as being practically worthless; and de-
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nounce its preferred sense-training as largely a
snare.
Summary and Lessons
To summarize:
1. We fear the introduction of reading and
writing into the kindergarten period. There is
no real need for them. They may do harm. At
any rate, we can hope for little or no help in the
matter from Montessori.
2. In the utilization of play, of the constructive
interests,' of stories and the' imagination, we feel
that Froebel and the best American kinder-
gartners are far superior to the Montessori theory
and practice.
3. Montessori's systematic sense-training through
the didactic material we reject as being based on
an indefensible psychology. Montessori's theory
was rejected on sufficient grounds, both in America
and in Germany, years before she had entered
our horizon.
4. But a curriculum for the kindergarten period
based on concrete experiences we most heartily
approve. We think, however, that certain Ameri-
can writers (notably Dr. Dewey), have given
us ideas far superior to those of both Froebel
and Montessori.
5. The "practical life" activities of Madam
Montessori — with appropriate modifications — we
welcome. It is a fight we have for some years
been waging.
6. The real, individual freedom in the Montes-
sori schools we recognize as their best achieve-
ment. If we can so utilize the extraordinary
publicity given to the working of these schools
to loosen the joints of our school practice from
the kindergarten upward, we shall willingly ac-
knowledge the service.
MAKING THE ORIGINAL NATURE OF THE CHILD
INTO SOMETHING ELSE*
EDWARD L. THORNDIKE, Pn.D.
As THE potter must know his clay, the musician
his instrument, or as the general must know the
raw recruits out of whom he hopes to make a
disciplined force, so education has to reckon with
unlearned tendencies. To change men's wants
for the better, we must heed what conditions
originally satisfy and annoy them, since the only
way to create an interest is by grafting it on
to one of the original satisfiers. To enable men
to satisfy their wants more fully, the crude
curiosity, manipulation, experimentation and ir-
rational interplay of fear, anger, rivalry, mastery,
submission, cruelty, and kindliness must be modi-
fied into useful, verified thought and equitable
acts.
Problems in Making Human Pottery
The task of education is to make the best use
of this original fund of tendencies, eradicating
its vicious^ elements, wasting the least possible
of value that Nature gives, and .supplying at the
most useful time the additions that are needed
to improve and satisfy human wants. If the
response is sought too early, effort is wasted; if
it is sought too late, the effort may fail altogether.
It is further complicated by the discords between
the behavior to which original nature prompts and
the behavior which the welfare of man in his
present civilized state requires. Man's original
equipment dates far back and adapts him, directly,
only for such a life as might be led by a family
group of wild men among the brute forces of
land, water, storm and sun, fruits and berries,
animals and other family groups of wild men.
But man has created a new world, in which his
original nature is often at a loss and against which
it often rebels.
Making Over to Fit Life
Some original tendencies should be cherished
almost as they are. Some must be rooted out of
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cuuiduondi practice is proDaniy greater than that of any other mdividua This orieinal nature thesi- "nrioinal «at;«fi^r« "
as be calls them elsewhere, are, as he says in this .section, what the clay is t. the noUe original satishers.
What we parents wish to knnw is, what to dn with this human clay, how much of it
must dLscatd, and in what forms to mold it. This brief article sums up his philosopby,-
we can use, how much, if any, we
-PV. B. F.
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children — by withholding the situations that would
call them forth, so that they die a natural death
from lack of exercise ; or by making their exer-
cise result in pain and discomfort ; or by substi-
tuting desirable habits in place 'of them. The
great majority of original tendencies, however,
should neither be preserved in their exact origi-
nal form nor be altogether annihilated, but should
he so modified and redirected as to further the
improvement and satisfaction of men's wants
under the conditions of humane and rational
living.
Thus the indiscriminate manipulation of ob-
jects is modified into instructive play with sand-
piles, blocks, or ball ; and later into the intelligent
use of tools — pencil, pen, typewriter, engine,
printing-press, and the like. Thus the "satis fy-
ingness" which originally accompanies notice and
approval by anybody is redirected to form special
attachments to the approval of parents, teachers,
one's own higher nature, and heroes, living and
dead, who are chosen as ideal judges. Thus the
original incitement of "another trying to get the
food or victory or admiration which we crave"
is replaced gradually by rivalry with others in
all work or play, then by rivalry with our own
past records or with ideal standards. Thus out
of "collecting and hoarding at random whatever
is handy and attractive to the crude interests in
color, glitter, and novelty," habits of intelligent
scientific collecting and arranging may be formed,
and the interest in collecting may be made a
stimulus to getting knowledge about the ob-
jects collected. Thus the original interests, the
tendencies to be satisfied and annoyed, to like
and dislike, are turned into acquired interests in
efficient workmanship, kindly fellowship, the wel-
fare of one's family, friends, community, and
nation, and finally into the love of truth, justice,
and the happiness of mankind as a whole.
Building on the Foundations of Nature
It has been a common error in education to
try to make such changes all at once — to demand
rationality and morality offhand: to stick ideal
considerations and motives into children in a few
large doses ; to expect them to work, study, be
just and be wise because we tell them to. Nothing
but harm comes from expecting such miracles.
Little more is gained by telling a man to think,
or to be accurate, or to have good taste, or to
honor truth and justice, than by telling a tree to
bear fruit or a duck to keep out of the water.
The eventual nature which is desired for man
has to be built up from his original nature.
The strengthening, weakening, and redirecting
of original nature begins soon after birth, so that
by the time a child enters school he is already
in many respects a product of our complex
environment of clothes, furniture, toys, tools,
language, customs, and ideas. School education
starts from acquired as well as from original ten-
dencies. But the original roots of intellect, char-
acter, and behavior are still potent. Education,
which works with rather than against them —
which conserves their energy while modifying
them into more desirable forms — will have a
tremendous advantage. Merely to let children
act out what they are to read, and make what they
are to understand — that is, to enlist their original
tendencies to bodily activity and manipulation in
the service of knowledge-getting — enormously
facilitates school work. Recognition of the origi-
nal strength, in boys, of the interest in things and
their mechanisms, and of the original strength,
in girls, of the interest in the thoughts and feel-
ings of persons, will similarly increase the effec-
tiveness of high-school management. The first
necessity in education everywhere is to know
what man will be and do, apart from education.
WHAT IS THE VALUE OF PLAY?
LUELLA A. PALMER
Little children must play; it is a necessity of
childhood. Normal mental and physical growth
will never be attained unless the free exercise
of both ideas and muscles is allowed what is com-
monly called play.
The interests and desires of little children are
very different from those of grown people. Their
ways of looking at life are different: it is difficult
for them to understand the reasoning of adults.
They must be supplied with experiences that will
help them to grow to an appreciation of the older
person's point of view. These experiences come
mainly through play.
A child's brain must be developed so that he
may gain the power to reason. It is through
physical activity, at first spontaneous and later
purposeful, that the brain is developed. There
are certain centers in the brain for mere sight
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and hearing. These are in all brains, even in
those of the imbecile type, but their presence
does not indicate that the person understands
what he sees and hears. Around these centers
are generally other embryonic nerve cells. If
these latter cells are developed, a person will
understand what is presented to his senses; if
they are not developed, he will not comprehend
what object his eye is gazing at nor what the
sounds mean that his ear receives. It is these
latter cells that are stimulated to grow when
the body is active and it is in connection with
these cells that is developed the power called
mind.
It is when the far-reaching influence of physi-
cal exercise in the development of brain power
or mind is comprehended that the importance of
early movement-play is realized. Exercise which
does not overtax the muscles strengthens them,
gives them more power to exercise again, and if
this exercise calls for thought expression as well
as skill, it develops the brain power also. Rhyth-
mic movement tends to give a control which is
steady and balanced; if it calls for effort not too
strenuous, it trains the will power, and if it is
pleasurable, there is a tendency to repeat it.
How Early Play Helps
"To play" and "to educate" may mean the same
activity if the right conditions are provided for
the child. A little child is happiest when he is
busy about something. If it is true play, he is
not idling his 'time away, he is expending some
effort and enjoying the activity all the more be-
cause it calls for exercise of the will power. If
it is true play, he is storing up knowledge. Dur-
ing playtime the mind is unhampered and not
only grasps with ease and quickness but retains
the impressions made ; the imagination plays
around them and brings them into relation with
other experiences in life. The ideas formed in
moments of play acquire an attractive power
which urges the child to repeat them and enlarge
upon them. Playfulness is of value in giving
richness to the present moment and in determin-
ing the direction of the attention and the indi-
vidual's attitude toward the world. Education
can be provided- by supplying the child with such
experiences that he will keep himself busy storing
up useful knowledge.
Playfulness which is directed in this way de-
velops gradually into the ideal attitude toward
work. Pleasurable activity is playful activity.
It may be called play when the result bears no
direct relation to what is necessary for living;
it is called work when it is something that must
be done. The ideal attitude toward life is enjoy-
ment of the activities that one must perform.
The play attitude should gradually pass into the
right work attitude. A child, after very many
repetitions, tires of the purposelessness of his
play and demands results more like that which
the adult achieves. If he grows normally, he
must expect of himself more difficult acts, and he
must accomplish these if he is to keep "the feel-
ing of power which we find to be the chief source
of satisfaction in almost all play."
"To be playful and serious at the same time
is possible, and defines the ideal mental condi-
tion." If to the little child his world has an aspect
of play combined with its earnestness, he will
form a habit of mind which will develop a self-
activity that means freedom under the law. The
best education is given when right habits are
nourished through the encouragement of play
and playfulness.
EXPERIMENT, IMITATION, REPETITION AND
PURPOSE
THE PLACE OF EACH IN A LITTLE CHILD'S EDUCATION
BY
LUELLA A. PALMER
Each method named in the title above has some
value. None should be omitted in the kinder-
garten, none used exclusively.
I. If experiment is never allowed in the use
of materials, the children will not learn how to
investigate, they will be helpless when confronted
with any new problem, they will never advance
beyond their companions, but will lose the ex-
quisite joy of discovery and contribute nothing
to the knowledge of their own world. If no
other method were used, there would be only
slow progress. A tendency would be formed to
be governed by the moment's interest and not to
sum up or connect. Respect might be lost, for
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437
material and effort would lie dormant if no prod-
uct could be conceived better than the one chanced
upon.
2. If a child never imitated a good copy or
followed dictation, he would miss some of the
uses of the material which he was capable of
appreciating but not discovering for himself. If
this method were used exclusively, it would de-
velop a habit of following blindly and the idea
of taking the initiative would never be formed.
3. Where there is no repetition for the sake
of improvement, there is a tendency to be satis-
fied with results that have not demanded a child's
best effort ; many things are attempted but nothing
done well. A child can measure himself and gain
fresh impetus for further effort when he sees
two similar products placed side by side, one
the result of to-day's work and the other of
last week's. If this is the only method employed,
the child uses each material for itself, never in
relation to any other. It gives him a discon-
nected view of his environment ; he will not feel
the unity of thought underlying its various ex-
pressions in material.
4. If the purposive method is never used, the
materials will never be organized upon the high-
est basis. A desirable end in view demands a
child's best efifort ; right stimulation will not only
call forth self-activity to conceive that end, but
also require that in its accomplishment control
shall be gained over the particular material used
and its relation shown to other materials through
thought. If this method should be used ex-
clusively, it would defeat its own object; the chil-
dren would become discouraged and effort para-
lyzed because they would be tasked to arrive at
a result before they could control the means
through which to attain it.
The factor which determines the particular
kind of method used in each lesson is the degree
of control which the child has gained over the
material placed in his reach. Opportunity should
be given for instinctive response toward new
material. The next periods might be devoted
to the improvement of some form previously
made very crudely. When a fair amount of con-
trol has been acquired, the child may seek to
express some idea that has been roused through
other material. Imitation may be used at any
time that the kindergartner feels that the child
is ready for some use of the material which he
would miss or be slow in discovering. Dictation
can take the place of imitation, but it must be
remembered that "come" guides a child better
than "go." Dictation is excellent as a playful
test of what a child has learned.
The function of the kindergartner in the child's
organization of materials is simply to adapt the
environment so that it will provide proper ma-
terial. This material should respond to some
desire of the child and yet stimulate toward higher
attainment than he would reach alone.
TEN USEFUL PURPOSES IN KINDERGARTEN
TRAINING
BY
LUELLA A. PALMER
The three aspects of mental activity, investigat-
ing, testing, and arranging, represent the normal
process of a child's mental growth. There are,
therefore, three general purposes in the use of
material: (i) To discover its possibilities: {2)
to apply this knowledge, get a rich variety of
experiences in connection with it, and ("3) to
choose some end which will bring order and con-
secutiveness into these suggestions.
With these general purposes in mind, the
specific purposes of different lessons might be
as follows :
I. To investigate, to discover properties of the
material, its characteristics and possible uses.
2. To formulate some purpose, possibly sug-
gested by the sight of the material, and to con-
trol material to carry it out.
3. To observe and follow another's use of
material.
4. To formulate a purpose in line with some
past experience which has been vivid, and to
control material to express it.
5. To follow another's use of material because
it is well adapted to express some idea about past
experience.
6. To discriminate between the values of the
material in order to choose the kind best suited
to express an idea.
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7. To exercise memory liy repeating some form
which has heen made at a previous time.
8. To express the beauty or scientific facts
which he has discovered can be shown through
the material.
9. To show control of the technical naming of
the material by following a dictation.
10. To cooperate with others in the use of
material, by adding to some large form, or by
building a smaller form which is needed to ex-
press an idea which has been decided upon by the
group.
Points 3 and 10 emphasize the social aspect;
points 2. 4, 5, 7, emphasize the psychological ;
points I, 8, 9, emphasize the material; point 6,
both the material and the individual.
How would lessons given in these ways help
to organize a child's mind?
To Become Alert
1. If given in the right way a lesson, with in-
vestigation as its object, would help a child to
gain an attitude of trying to learn the possibilities
of any new material and of trying to interpret
or use them. He would become alert to situations
and eager to find problems. Kindergartners have
allowed too little for investigation, they have felt
it necessary to tell children many things which
they could find out. Even the facts which we
have thought necessary to tell children about the
gifts have not been the most important ones for
them.
A child must build up a variety of experiences
before he can discriminate those things which
adults feel are values.
To Formulate a Purpose
2. When material with which he has already
experimented is placed in a child's hands, he
ought to be able to formulate such a purpose
for expression as can be carried out through
the material ; in other words, he ought to adapt
his ideas to bring them somewhat in line with
the possibilities of the material and then have
perseverance enough to arrive at his self-deter-
mined end.
To Observe What Others Do
3. It is good practice for a child to follow
others sometimes and particularly when someone
has discovered a very good use of the material.
It not only gives the child a good mode! but it
spurs him to strive himself for better interpreta-
tions of the material.
To Achieve
4. A lesson which lead-s a child to formulate a
related purpose and then express it, will develop
reasoning and perseverance, and calls for creat-
ivity of the highest kind. A child must be in-
spired to want to express a certain idea; he must
think of many different possible ways in which
he could express it, select the best, and then
persevere to the end to carry it out.
To Copy the Success of Others
5. A lesson where the children copy another's
model, because that other has been able to plan
a purpose which is connected with what they are
trying to express, has the same kind of social
value as the third type of lesson, except that the
purpose is a little more organized ; it is the con-
trolling of material, not to make some irrelevant,
incidental object, but to follow some connected
line of thinking.
To Choose the Best Values
6. When children choose the material which
is best adapted to express some idea, good reason-
ing ability is developed. Such a lesson calls for
some vivid idea to be expressed (in order to
give some purpose for expression), then, a con-
sideration of many possible ways in which it
can be carried out; next, the selection for definite
reasons of that material which is best adapted
to (has greatest number of possibilties for) ex-
pressing the idea; and. lastly, the sustaining of
the effort until the completion of the idea.
To Exercise Memory
7. Repeating a form is a play which the child
likes to have with his own mental control ; he likes
to test his power of recalling some act which it
gave him particular pleasure to accomplish. He
re-lives the joy, just as an adult does when he
repeats the story of some happy experience.
To Find the Best Way
8. Through the use of the material a child will
discover that it is beautiful when placed in cer-
tain ways, or that there are certain numbers, size,
and form relations between dififerent parts. If
a problem is set before him, as, for instance, to
lay the longest possible sidewalk with the bricks,
he will be elated over the solving of his problem.
Care must be taken in the presenting of problems ;
only a few should be given in which the accom-
plishment of the deed is the sole end sought; this
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439
is not a high aim. Activity which has a purpose
heyond that of its own realization is the kind
which is of most benefit to mankind.
To Clarify His Ideas
9. Through playing with the material a child
will discover that certain possible uses of material
are accompanied by certain similarities in form,
as, for instance, that it is best to choose an object
with a flat surface if it is desired to have a form
which stands still, or that objects with long sides
make higher houses than those with short sides.
These characteristics linger on the borderland
of knowledge unless they are given a name. It
makes them more definite to provide a term which
the child feels will cover the facts which he has
discovered, and which will be intelligible to his
associates. A technical term should be given in
order to "preserve a meaning" or to make it
possible to "transfer a meaning" which a child
has found in his use of materials. A dictation
lesson should not be one in which the teacher has
done all the thinking for the child and he has
merely followed directions. A dictation lesson
should be a playful test of a child's grasp of the
terms which show the definiteness of his discrimi-
nation with regard to the material. Such a lesson
should help him to make his ideas clearer. The
word should always come after experience with
the material.
To Cooperate with Others
10. A lesson with the purpose of cooperating
with others in the use of material would demand
quite a degree of social control, a willingness to
subordinate one's individual preference for the
sake of making the group-result more complete.
This could only be done with older children in the
kindergarten. The results in the material, there-
fore, should show a good understanding of its
characteristics and of selection of the best means
to get the result. Such a lesson as this would
show the degree to which a child had been led
to organize his ideas of the material and of him-
self as an individual in the group. It would call
for reasoning, perseverance, creativity, cooper-
ation.
Lessons of all these different types are needed
in order to appeal to the whole nature of a child,
yet those which organize his powers on the higher
planes should be given as soon as he is ready
for them. The kind of material used, the ease
with which it can be controlled, and the number
of times it has been used, will govern to some
extent the type of lesson, although the first use
of any material would probably be that suggested
under i.
Beauty and solitude — these are still the shepherd kings
of the imagination. To go into solitary places, or among
trees which await dusk and storm, or by a dark shore; to
be anerve there, to listen to, inwardly to hear, to be at one
with, to be as grass filled with, as a wave lifted before, the
wind; this is to know what can not otherwise be known; to
hear the intimate, dread voice; to listen to what long, long
ago went away, and to what now is going and coming, com-
ing and going, and to what august airs of sorrow and beauty
prevail in that dim empire of shadow where the fallen leaf
rests unfallen, where Sound, of all else forgotten and for-
getting, lives in the pale hyacinth, the moon-white pansy,
the cloudy amaranth that gathers dew. — Fiona Macleod.
Heavy my heart is, hea\y to carry,
Full of 8oft foldings, of downy enwrapnients.
And the outer fold of all is love,
And the next soft fold is love.
And the next, finer and softer, is love again.
And were they unwound before the eyes
More folds and more folds and more folds would unroll
Of love — always love,
And, quite at the last.
Deep in the nest, in the soft-packed nest.
One last fold, turned back, would disclose
You, little heart of my heart.
Laid there, so warm, so soft, so soft.
You, little heart of my heart. — E. Pilesbit.
INDEX TO SUBJECTS
From the Third to the Sixth Birthday
Animal life, 399
Art, 198, 224. 357, 362, 365, 366
Astronomy, 394
At the schoolhouse door, 412
Attainments of fourth to sixth years, 181, 265, 368, 372
Attainments of the third year, 181
Autumn, 240
Bible, The, 336
Birds, 393, 398, 400
Books of reference, 205
Catholic religious education, 338
Chart of child development, 258
Chart of child study, 256
Child studies, 183, 231, 256, 419
Child-voice, The, 201
Chimes, 323
Church-goine:, 337
Clay, 190, 222, 363
Color, 225, 270, 300, 367
Companionship, 184, 373
Conscience, 410
Dallving. 256
Dawdling, 269
Design, 365
Destructiveness, 254
Development, Child's, 183, 231
Experiment in the kindergarten, 436
Father as nature-teacher, 406
Festivals, 243
Fifth vear. 210, 268
First grade, 409
Five-vear-old's day, A, 267
Flower life. 400
Fourth vear. 183, 285
Froebel, 426, 429
Geometrical insets, 195
Governing children, 251
Habits, 229
Holidays, 243
Home correctives for kindergarten, 417
Horace Mann kindergarten, 427
"House of Childhood," 192
Humor, 268
Imagination, 269. 408. 411
Imitation. 271, 284, 366, 418
Independence, 274
Individual stage. 182
Initiative, 186. 366
Jewish religious education, 341
Kindergarten, The. 417. 422, 425, 427, 429, 432, 437
Kindergarten years. 419
Language, 204, 370
Language-training, 188, 228
Literature for children, 203
Lying, 254, 272
Materials for play, see Playthings
Mischief, 254
Montessori principles, 192, 417, 432
Motherhood. 186, 212, 228, 373, 415
Movement plav, 183, 185
Music, 305. 308
Musical instruments, 316, 319, 324
Nature material, 295, 424
Newspapers. 364
Obedience. 252
Orderliness. 229
Outdoor life, 229
Passover, 343
Personality, 268
Phonograph records, 309, 310, 313-318
Physical examinations, 273
Physical life. 183, 210
Pictures, 224
Pictures for the home, 369
Plant-life. 230, 385
Play as choice, 184
Play, Value of. 435
Plavthings. 189, 193, 211, 289, 292, 375, 423
Play-yard. 374
Poems, List of, 330
Pond life. 243
Prayer, 208, 334
Prayers for little children, 209
Program, 260
Question-answering, 206, 210
Records. Day's, 261, 267
Reference-books. 205, 265, 309-318. 428
Regularity. 229
Religion of a little child. 208
Religious nurture. 208, 332, 338, 341
Responsibility, 272
Rocks. 394
Sabbath, 343
School, 412
Self-help, 294, 351
Sense-training, 433
Sex-information, 331
Sixth year, 231, 271
Social development, 420
Spring, 242
Stars, 394
Stories. List of, 328
Sunday School. 337
Supplemental readings, 180
Tabernacles, Feast of, 346
Teachers, 412
Temper, 252
Thrift, 272
Tom and Sarah, 405
Tools, 215, 356, 359
Tree life, 241, 393, 398
What an average child may do, 260
Whining, 251
Winter, 242
INDEX TO OCCUPATIONS
From the Third to the Sixth Birthday
Autumn occupations, 362, 391
Ball -play, 286, 350, 378
Bead-stringing, 198, 298
Blocks, 187, 212, 290, 292, 426
Blueprints, 251
Bricks, 188
Building plays, 187, 212
Buttoning-fraraes, 192
Caves, 212
Change of plays, 184
Choosing. 184
Christmas gifts, 221, 262
Clay-modeling, 189, 222, 291, 363
Climbing, 183
Collecting, 197, 295
Coloring, 198, 292, 301, 302, 357, 363
Color-play. 200
Constructive play, 185. 231, 243, 287, 355
Cornstalk furniture. 234
Cutting pictures, 199
Dances, 281. 320. 353. 382
Doll-clothing. 239, 360
Doll-furniture, 232, 359
Dolls, 382
Dramatic play, 184, 188, 271, 286, 350. 378
Drawing, 198, 224, 291
Fairyland, Making a, 298
Finger play, 285, 310, 351, 380
Folk-dances, 280
Gardening, 229
Grocery store. Playing, 212
Group-games, 273, 282
Gymnasium, Homemade, 277, 375
Gymnastic plays, 278, 282
Hammer and nails, 215
Handwork, 272, 288, 297, 355
Hearing, 193, 403
Helping, 228, 407
Imitative plays, 284
Ladders, 183, 283
Marching, 201
Match-box plays, 217
Memorizing, 338
Modeling, 189, 222, 240, 293
Montessori activities, 283
Movement plays, 285, 349, 378
Music, 200, 270
Nature study, 240, 295, 384, 391
Painting, 291, 358, 363
Paper-cutting, 218
Paper-folding. 218
Paper-play, 216
Pets, 229, 387
Pictures, 270, 273, 340
Pictures and music, 315
Pictures and painting, 224
Plasticine, 291
Plays for fifth year, 211, 268, 349
Plays for fourth year, 184
Plays for sixth year, 243, ill
Poems, 205, 273
Program, 'Round-the-year, 260
Raffia. 249
Religious activities, 208, 334
Rhythm, 200, 270, 319
Sailboats, 215
Sand-plav, 191. 223. 278
Self-directed play, 189. 192. 197. 214
Sense-plays, 193, 285, 349, Zll , 401
Sight, 194
Smell, 194, 401
Social plays, 186, 351, 380
Song-singing. 202. 306, 309, 313, 324
Spools, 216
Spring occupations. 396
Stars, Studying, 394
Stories, 203, 213. 273, 327, 330, 341
Summer occupations, 361, 399
Swings, 183, 283
Talking, 228
Touch, 193, 194
Wagons, 215. 217, 361
Walks, 197, 240
Weaving, 236
Wildflower garden, 396
Winter occupations, 361, 392
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