.''■ts^n m^^ r ";y -^i-'t" ^""" ....^.-u^.,^ ^.,...^.... QyV^3-^»0 THE GEORGE ELIOT Birthday Book Til). BOSTON : HALL & WHITING, 1SS2. Copyright, 1S82. By Hall & Whiting. Printed by Wright & Pottsr Printing Company. vri PREFACE. If the students and lovers of George Eliot's works fail to find all their favorite passages in this little volume, let them remember onr "erabarras des richesses " ; and moreover if it pains them to miss loved passages, it has been a pain to us to omit them. Our Birth-Day Book would need to be issued in volumes, did it contain all the noble thoughts of this great writer, which it would be well for us to lodge in our meinories, and ponder in our hearts from day to day. We have tried to introduce those which express our Great Teacher's favorite lessons. We confess to feeling a little audacious in selecting quotations for one hundred and fifty women, especially when George Eliotherself says " Attempts at descrip- tion are stupid : who can all at once describe a human being? " Let those in- clined to criticise our selections reflect that in most instances it is impossible to seize upon more than one point in a character. As women are many-sided, how can we expect in a few lines to describe " that iridescence of character — that play of various, nay contrary tendencies?" Anothei" difficulty has been to And the birth-days of women. We had not thouglit of this as anytliing but a very simple matter. We had supposed it an affair of a few minutes to discover Martha Washington's birth-day, whereas no living person has any knowledge of it. We thought anyone who had stood by Mrs. Browning's grave in Florence must know the day of her birth, but we find recorded there only the day of her death. When Kobert Browning declares that he does not know his wife's birth-daj% and confesses to feeling no curiosity about it, we drop the search, feeling it would be bad taste in us to know more about it than does the great poet himself. In all cases where thei'e is not a reasonable certainty as to any woman's birth- day, we have placed a star against her name in the index. E. S. N. G. Presentiment of better things on earth Sweeps in with every force that stirs our souls To admiration, self-renouncing love, Or thoughts, like light, that bind the world in one ; Sweeps like the sense of vastness when at night We hear the roll and dash of waves that break Nearer and nearer with the rushing tide, Which rises to the level of the cliff. Because the wide Atlantic rolls behind, Throbbing respondent to the fai'-off orbs. A Minor Prophet. January 1. Man can do nothing without the make-believe of a beginning. No retrospect will take us to the true beginning ; and whether our prologue be in heaven, or on earth, it is but a fraction of that all-presupposing fact with which our story sets out. Daniel Deronda. — ^^ — Youth thinks itself the goal of each, old life. Age has but travelled from a far-off time, Just to be read}' for jouth's service. Well, It was my chief delight to perfect 3'ou. A.RMGAUT. January 2. I WILL elect my deeds, and be the liege, Not of my birth, but of that good alone I have discerned and chosen. Our deeds still travel with us from afar, And what we have been makes us what we are. MiDDLEMARCH. January 1. Maria Edgeworth, 1767. January 2. T^^^^^-^vuzr: n^^^ ^'^^ '^^"^ 6j^,&J\!^mZ January 3. Persons attracted him, as Hans Meyrick had done, in proportion to the possibiUt}^ of his defending them, rescuing, telling upon their lives with some sort of redeeming influence. Daxiel Deronda. January 4. Mrs. Glegg chose to wear her bonnet in the house today — untied and tilted slightly, of coui'se, a frequent practice of hers when she was on a visit, and happened to be in a severe mood : she didn't knovv what draughts there m-ight be in strange houses. For the same reason slie wore a small sable tippet, which reached just to her shoulders, and was very far from meeting across her well-formed chest. The Mill os the Floss. January 3. Lucretia Mott, 1793. January 4. January 5. Examine your words well, and you will find that even when 3'ou have no motive to be false, it is a very hard thing to say the exact truth, even about your own immediate feelings — much harder tha,n to say something fine about them which is not the exact truth. Adam Bede. January 6. Her inspired ignorance gives a sublimity to actions so incongruously simple that otherwise they would make men smile. Some of that ardor which has flashed out and illuminated all poetry and history was burning today in the bosom of sweet Esther Lj-on. Feux Holt. January 5. Madame Rc^musat, 1780. January 6. 'Joan of Arc, 1402, January People Avho live at a distance are naturally less faulty than those im- mediatel}' nnder our own ej'es ; and it seems superfluous when we con- sider the remote geographical position of the Ethiopians, and how very little the Greeks had to do with them, to inquire further wh}' Homer calls them " blameless." The Mill on the Floss. January S. Our lives make a moral tradition for our individual selves, as the life of mankind at large makes a moral tradition for the race; and to have once acted greatly seems to make a reason why we should always be noble. ROMOLA. January 7. JANUARY S. January 9. Mr. Lydcatr, — "'Don't you think men overrate the necessity for humoring ever}'- body's nonsense, till they get despised by the very fools they humor? The shortest way is to make your value felt so that people must put up with you whether you flatter them or not." Mr. Farebrother, — " With all my heart. But then j'ou must be sure of having tlie value, and you must keep }'our independence." MlPDLEMAUCli. January 10. In the career of a great public orator who yields himself to the inspira- tion of the moment, tliat conflict of selfish and unselfish emotion whicli in most men is hidden in the chamber of the soul, is brought into terrible evidence ; the language of the inner voices is written out in letters of fire. ROMOLA. 10 January 9. January 10. 11 January 1 1. And young Mr. Lammeter, he'd have no way but he must be married in Janiwar}', which to be sure 's a unreasonable time to be married in, for it is n't like a christening or a burying, as you can't help. Silas Marnek. January 12. It is dreadful to think on, people placing with their own insides in that way ! And its flying i' the face o' Providence ; for what are the doctors for if us are n't to call 'em in? And when folks have got the mone}' to pay for a doctor, it isn't respectable, as I've told Jane many a time. I'm ashamed of acquaintance knowing it. The Mill on the Floss. 12 January 11. January 12. Hdu.(l:^^jcU, ^tr^^. /<^§ 18 January 13. If we want to avoid giving the dose of hemlock or the sentence of banishment in the wrong case, nothing will do but a capacity to under- stand the subject-matter on which tlie immovable man is convinced, and fellowship with human travail, both near and far, to hinder us from scanning any deep experience lightly. Daniel Dejjonda. January 14. After all has been said that can be said about the widening influence of ideas, it remains true that they could hardly be such strong agents unless they were taken in a solvent of feeling. Uqmola. 14 January 13. January 14. 15 January 15. O BUDDING time ! O love's best prime ! Two Lovers. Young delight that wonders at itself And throbs as innocent as opening flowers, Knowing not comment, — soilless, beautiful. The Spanish Gypsy. January 16. A WOMAN mixed of such tine elements That were all virtue and religion dead She'd make them newly, being what she was. The Spanish Gypsy. o^^l^ It is lawful to marry again, I suppose, unless we might as well be Hin- doos instead of Christians. Of course if a woman accepts the wrong man she must take the consequences, and one who does it a second time deserves her fate. Middlemakch. 16 January 15. Margery Fleming, 1803. January 16. Sister Dora (Dorotlay Wiiidlow Pattison). 1832; Mrs. Thrale, 1740, January 1' And it is in the nature of exasperation gradually to concentrate itself. The sincere antipathy of a dog towards cats in general necessarily talvcs the form of indignant barking at the neighbor's black cat which malvcs daily trespass ; the bark at imagined cats, though a frequent exercise of the canine mind, is yet comparatively feeble. Felix Holt. January IS. Mr. Craig was not above tallcing politics occasionally, though he piqued himself rather on a wise insight than on specihc information. He saw so far beyond the mere facts of a case, that realh' it was superfluous to know them. Ada:\i IJkdi;. 18 January 17. January 18. 19 January 19. Here undoubtedly lies the chief poetic energy in the force of imagina- tion that pierces or exalts the solid fact, instead of floating among cloud- pictures. Daniel Deuonda. January 20. There may come a moment when even an excellent husband, who has dropped smoking under more or less of a pledge during courtship, for the first time will introduce his cigar-smoke between himself and his wife, with the tacit understanding that she will have to put up with it. Daniel Deronda. 20 January 19. Sarah Helen Whitman, 180,3. January 20. 21 January 21. But what great mental or social type is free from specimens whose in- significance is both ugly and noxious. One is afraid to think of alt that the genus " patriot" embraces ; or of the elbowing there might be on the day of judgment for those who ranlced as authors, and brought volumes either in their hands or on trucks. Daniel Dekonda. January 22. Mrs. Tl'lliver had lived thirteen years with her husband, jet she re- tained in all the freshness of her early married life a facility for saying- things which drove him in the opposite direction to the one she desired. Some minds are wonderful for keeping their bloom in this way. The Mill ox the Floss. January 21. January 22. ^r^ GoHy^dUL ^CL^Cnle lines Of generous womanhood that fits all time. MiDDLEMARCH. February 6. His veiy faults Avere middling. It was not in his nature to be superla- tive in anything ; unless, indeed, he was superlatively middling, the quintessential extract of mediocrity. Amos Barton. 40 February b. Madame 8evign(:', 1626. February 6. Qneen Anne, of England, 1664. 41 February 7. The deed of Judas has ])een attributed to far-reaching views, and the wish to hasten his Master's declaration of Himself as the Messiah. Perhaps — I will not maintain the contrary — Judas represented his motive in this wa}', and felt justified in his traitorous kiss ; but m}' belief is that he deserved to be where Dante saw him. THEf)PHKASTTTS SuCH. February 8. I HAVE all my life had a sympathy for mongrel, u'lgainly dogs, who are nobody's pets ; and I would ratlier surprise one of them by a pat and a pleasant morsel than meet the most condescending advances of the loveliest sky-terrier who has his cushion l)y m}' lady's chair. Amos Bakton. 42 February 7. February 8. February 9. Neither Luther nor John Bunyan would have satisfied the modern demand for an ideal hero, who believes nothing but what is true, feels nothing but what is exalted, and does nothing but what is graceful. Janet's liEPENTANCic. February 10. But truth-venders and medicine-venders usually recommend swallow- ing. When a man sees his livelihood in a pill or proposition, he likes to have orders for the dose, and not curious inquiries. Feux Holt. 44 February 9. February 10. 45 February 11. Though all the luminous angels of the stars Burst into cruel chorus on his ear, Singing " We know no merc^'," he would cry " I know it " still, and soothe the frightened bird And feed the child a-liungered, walk abreast Of persecuted men, and keep most hate For rational torturei's. Thk Spanish Gypsy. February 12. Second sight is a flag over disputed ground. But it is matter of knowledge that there are persons whose yearnings, conceptions — nay, travelled conclusions — continual!}' take the form of images which have a foreshadowing power : the deed they would do starts up before them in complete shape, making a coercive type ; the event they hunger for or dread rises into vision with a seed-like growth, feeding itself fast on un- numbered impressions. Danikl Dekonda. 46 February 11. Lydiii Alalia Child, 1802. February 12. February 13. But my liiisbaiurs tongue 'ud have been a fortune to anybody, and there was man}' a one said it was as good as a dose of pliysic to liear him talk ; not but what that got liini into trouble, but he always said, if the worst came to the worst, he could go and preach to the blacks. But he did better than that, Mr. Lyon, for he married me. Felix Holt. February 14. Young love-making — that gossamer web ! p]ven the points it clings to — the things whence its subtle interlacings are swung — are scarceh' perceptible ; momentary- touches of finger-tips, meetings of rays from blue and dark orbs, unfinished phrases, lightest changes of cheek and lip*, faintest tremors. The web itself is made of spontaneous beliefs and indefinable joys, yearnings of one life toward another, visions of completeness, indefinite trust. MlDDLKMARCH. 48 February 13. February 14. 49 February 15. I 'vE no opinion o' the men, INIiss Gun — 1 don't know wliat you \\ix\Q. And as for fretttng and stewing aljout what they 'II think of you from morning till night, and making your life uneasy about what thej' 're doing when the}' 're out o' your sight — as I tell Nancy, it 's a foil}' no woman need be guilty of, if she 's got a good father and a good home ; let her leave it to them as have got no fortin' and can 't help themselves. Silas Mauneu. February 1G. There is no sense of ease like the ease we felt in those scenes where we were born, where objects became dear to us before we had known the labor of choice, and where the outer world seemed only an extension of our own personality ; we accepted and loved it as we accepted our own existence and our own limbs. Thk Mill ox tue Floss. 50 February 15. Susan Anthony, 1820. February 16. 51 Agatha. February 17. Dear As all the sweet home things she smiles upon, The children and the cows, the apple-trees. The cart, the plough, all named with that caress "Which feigns them little, easy to be held, Familiar to the e3'es and hand and heart. February IS. That 's what I jaw m}' old mother for. I sa3-s " ^-ou should ha' sent me to a school a bit more," I says — " an' then I could ha' read i' the books like fun, an' kep' my head cool an' empty." The Mill ox the Floss. 52 February 17. Rose Terry Cook, 1827 February 18. 53 February 19. Hek body was so slight, It seemed she coidd have floated in the sky, And with the angeUc choir made s^'mphouy, But in her cheek's rich tinge, and in the dark Of darkest hair and eyes, she bore a mark Of kinship to her generous Mother Earth, The fervid land that gives the plumy palm-trees birth. How Lisa Loa'ed thk Kino. <#;>|o Welly laike a linnet, wi' on'y joust body anoof to hold her voice. Mh. Gilkili;.s Love-story. February 20. (), horrible To be in chains ! Why 1, with all ni}' bliss, Have longed sometimes to tt}' and be at large ; Have felt imi)risoned in my luxury AVith servants for m}' jailers. O my lord. Do 3'ou not wish the world were ditlbreut? The Spanish Gyps v. 54 February lu. Adelaide Fatti, 1843. February 20. Angelina Giinike Weld. 65 February 21. I 'vE ;x strange feeling about the dumb things as if they wanted to speak, and it was a trouble to 'em because tlicy couldn't. I can't help being sorry for the dogs always, though perhaps there 's no need. But they ma^' well have more in them than tliey know how to make us under- stand, for we can't say half what we feel, with all our words. Adam Bkdk. February 22. The greatest gift the hero leaves his race Is to have been a hero. Say we fail ! We feed the high tradition of the world. .... I will not count On aught 1)ut being faithful. Tun Spanish Gypsy. .56 February 21. February 22. 57 February 23. She is a royal changeling : there 's some crown Lacks the right head, since hers wears naught but braids. Fi:li\- IIoi.t. However, she had the charm, and those who feared her weie also fond of her ; the fear and fondness being perhaps both heightened by what may be called the iridescence of her character — the play of various, nay, contrary tendencies Daniel Deuoxda. February 24. Loud men called his subdued tone an undertone, and sometimes im- plied that it was inconsistent with openness ; though there seems no reason why a loud man should not be given to concealment of anything except his own voice unless it can be shown that Holy Writ has placed the seat of candor in the lungs, MiODLKMAKCU. 58 February 23. Mrs. Emma Wilkird, 1787. February 24. r>\) February 25. Mrs. Bulstrode's naive Avay of conciliating piety and woiidliness, tlie notliingness of tliis life and the desirability of cut glass, the con- sciousness at once of filthy rags and the best damask was not a sufficient relief from the weight of her husband's invariable seriousness. MiDDLEMARCn. February 26. Bright February da3-s have a stronger charm of hope about them than any other days in tire year. One likes to pause in the mild rays of the sun, and think th.at tiie beautiful 3'ear is all before one. The birds seem to feel just the same : their notes are as clear as tlie clear air. Adam Bkde. GO February 25. February 26. 61 February 27. Oh, there's pleasure in knowing one's not a fool, like half the people one sees about. And managing one's husband is some pleasure ; and doing all one's business well. Wh}', if I 've onl3'got some orange-flowers to candy, I shouldn't like to die till I see them all right. Felix Holt. February 28. Think you I felt myself a prima donna ? No, but a happy, spiritual star Such as old Dante saw, wrought in a rose Of light in Paradise, whoseonly self Was consciousness of glory wide-diffused, Music, life, power — I moving in the midst With a sublime necessity of good. Armgart. 62 February 27, February 28. Racbel, IS.'l. 63 February 29. When I was young, Mr. Lydgate, there never was any question about right and wrong. We l