^|; , -. X # LIBRARY OF CONGRESS.! ♦ - ■ - f | UNITSD STATES OF AMERICA. | ADDRESS PROFESSOR O. H. TIFFANY, A. M., DELIVERED AT THE OPENING PENNSYLVANIA FEMALE COLLEGE, HARRISBURG, SEPTEMBER 5, 1853. HAMILTON, PRINTER, 75 MARKET ST. HARRISBURG. o i I ■x -4 ADDRESS. Ladies and Gentlemen : — The great objects proposed in the plan of the Pennsyl- vania Female College, have been so ably presented by others, that a brief allusion to them on my part, will suffice. Our object is to prepare pupils for the duties of life — not so much to make them learned, as to supply the mate- rial and afford the impetus for self-instruction. The true idea of education is the discipline and developement of the mind, not the mere preparation of the individual for a par- ticular station or special duties. And the design of the officers of this establishment is to train the understanding of their pupils, so that they may be able to survey the field of knowledge for themselves, to comprehend their own capabilities, and keep them in healthy exercise. Were this an institution for the education of young men, the propriety of this position would be admitted without argument, but the generality of men, though awaking, are not yet wholly alive to the importance of thus educa- ting females. The idea is still too prevalent, that a super- ficial acquaintance with some branches of knowledge, is all that woman requires, if she add to this the gloss and tinsel of so-called accomplishments. Men who think thus, will speak of a radical difference in the sexes, and of the different spheres and positions they occupy, and because the 4 ADDRESS. idea of education I have given is deemed best for the one sex, they pronounce at once its want of adaptation to the other. To meet such objectors, I take the position, that as an intelligent being, woman is not different from man. She has the same faculties, understanding, conscience and will ; admit, if you please, that she has them in less degree ; she still possesses them, and the fact of possession is the ground at once, both of the reason and the duty of exercising them. Why then should her reason be left without nurture or scantily provided with it — her con- science without light — her will without laws ? Will not the admission of these points involve the necessity of de- priving a large majority of the other sex of these advan- tages ? For surely, the mere fact of being a man does not, of necessity, imply the possession of greater powers of conscience, reason and will, than exist in woman. We know, too, that the distinction of sex is only recognized in this world, but education has reference to both worlds ; and we do not believe that God has imposed a permanent and degrading inferiority on the immortal essence of being, merely on account of a temporary physical organization. It is a truth of the deepest import, and involving for woman and for the educators of women, the greatest re- sponsibility — that before and after being maiden, wife or mother, a girl is a human being, and as Richter says : — " Neither motherly nor wifely destination can overbalance or substitute the human, but must become its means and not its end. As the artist while forming his work, does, at the same time form something higher, himself — as above the poet, the painter, the hero, the human being rises lore- eminent — so, in every walk of life, the woman, whether fitting herself for society, or adorning herself to gratify her own eyes or those of others, or discharging the duties ADDRESS. of home and household, of wife and mother — still bears with her an endowed human intellect, and is. still fash- ioning for herself an immortal destiny." The sphere of action to which her constitution adapts her, necessarily occasions a distinction in the character of her intellectual growth, but to justify the idea of denying her an education, the absence of all developement must be established. The mountaineer differs no less in mental characteristics than in physical from the inhabitant of the plain ; and we should naturally expect those whose duties call them to act in the bold scenes of history, amid the difficulties of the rugged world, to differ from those whose peaceful vocations and domestic cares confine them more to the quiet scenes of loveliness and home. But let us inquire into the advantages to be gained by a more liberal policy than has heretofore been pursued, and search for the reasons that justify the establishment of institutions like this. I. An enlarged and liberal Education will develope the true sphere of the sex. — Objectors to the liberal education of women, are apt to refer to examples, which, while they prove the natural endowment and great power of the female mind, have, nevertheless, from the periods at which they have appeared, and the circumstances by which they were surrounded, manifested what they term masculine power, and the conclusion is drawn, that education would misex woman and unfit her for her sphere. But the objec- tors forget that these are unusual cases, the result of a forced growth under adverse circumstances, and that the tendency of a generally diffused education by elevating the whole sex, will be to lessen the number of exceptions, already small. But even if the point should be admitted, it surely affords no pretext for the present low state of (j ADDRESS. female education. As Sydney Smith has well said "it there be any good at all in female ignorance, it is surely too much of a good thing that a woman of thirty should be more ignorant than a boy of thirteen." I am no advocate for a system which can have even the slightest tendency to withdraw woman from the position Providence has assigned her. I believe it worthy of her highest powers. An educated English woman has well expressed my views upon this point, and the sex of the writer, relieving the subject from any imputation my own language might occasion, is my apology for the length of the quotation. "Man," says Mrs. Ellis, "is appointed to hold the reins of government — to make laws — to support systems — to penetrate with patient labor and undeviating perseverance into the mysteries of science, and to work out the great fundamental principles of truth. For such purposes he would be ill-qualified were he diverted from his object by the quickness of his perception of external things, by the ungovernable impulse of his own feelings or by the claims of others upon his regard or sensibility; but woman's sphere being one of feeling rather than of intellect, all her peculiar characteristics are such as essentially qualify her for that station in society she is designed to fill and which she never voluntarily quits without a sacrifice ot good taste, — I might almost say of good principle. Weak Indeed is the reasoning of those who would render her dissatisfied with this allotment, by persuading her that the station which it ought to be her pride to ornament is one too insignificant or degraded for the full exercise of her mental powers. Can that be an unimportant vocation to which peculiarly belong the means of happiness and misery? Can that be a degraded sphere which not only ADDRESS. 7 admits of, but requires the full developement of moral feeling? Is it a task too trifling for an intellectual wo- man to watch and guard and stimulate the growth of reason in the infant mind? Is it a sacrifice too small to practice the art of adaptation to all the different characters met with in ordinary life, so as to influence and give a right direction to their tastes and pursuits? Is it a duty too easy, faithfully and constantly to hold up an example of self-government, disinterestedness, and zeal for that which constitutes our highest good — to be nothing or any thing that is not sinful as the necessities of others may require — to wait with patience — to endure with fortitude — to attract by gentleness — to sooth by sympathy judi- ciously applied — to be quick in understanding, prompt in action, and what is perhaps more difficult than all, firm, yet pliable in will, — lastly, through a life of perplexity, trial, and temptation, to maintain the calm dignity of a pure and elevated character, earthly in nothing but its suffering and weakness, refined almost to sublimity in the seraphic ardor of its love, its faith, and its devotion." Thus writes a sensible woman from the other side of the Atlantic, and yet, in the growing fancy of our own progressive land, it has become common to prate of Wo- mens' Rights. The very men and women whose grand- mothers were perversely ignorant, and stupidly foolish in their opposition to female education, have become the great advocates of the sex, profess a desire to see them exalted to an equal participation in all the privileges and duties now enjoyed and discharged by men, and with scarcely less absurdity than their ancestors would embroil women in politics, and subject them to the merciless war of contention and dispute. Such persons have no true regard for women's interests, and those misguided females 8 ADDKlfeS. who join in their clamor know not what they ask. Start- ing from the fact, that under present circumstances woman is too circumscribed in her opportunities of education, they overleap the true remedy and propose a social disor- ganization as the only resource. They never think that to bring woman from the hallowed precincts of domestic life would be equivalent to tearing down all the venera- tion and high regard which has ever been a protection to her retiring modesty. If it be true, that we all have a higher regard for the other sex than we have for our own; that men seek and prize in woman what they lack them- selves, and women, in turn, admire those qualities in which men excel ; if we seek the society of women and enjoy it the more, because they are not burdened with the ordi- nary cares and duties of our own sex; — if we feel re- freshed by their presence, and invigorated by their purity, and this influence arises from their freedom from the dust with which our own garments are soiled — their seclusion from the turmoil and confusion of the battle-field of life; how can we hope to continue and cultivate this interchange of proper admiration if women fill the stations and pur- sue the vocations of men, and men are made to lose the deferential regard they now willingly pay to woman in the scramble for office, the competition for advancement, and the routine of business engagements? What man would seek a wife among the "politicians" of a bar-room or the wranglers at the polls? Who would take as a companion for life a female jockey ? How soon would the adoption of the platform of Woman's Rights be felt to be the erec- tion of the scaffold for the infliction of Woman' 's Wrongs ! How soon would the usages of society be subverted and the sexes change vocations? Mr. A. must then content himself at home with a dish of scandal and a cup of tea, ADDRESS. 9 while his wife attends the ward or district meeting. Mr. B. may hold the delighted children at the open window to watch mamma, as armed cap-a-pie she spurs her charger and brandishes the sword for which she has laid aside the knitting needle. Mrs. C. may deal in stocks, but Mr. C. must darn the stockings ! Gentlemen may then remain at home to receive the calls of their fair friends, and if over-pressed for an answer to an earnest question, flirt their delicate fans with jewelled fingers, and hiding their confusion beneath scented cambric, refer the fair suitor to Mamma. These may be regarded as the extreme points towards which the fanaticism of modern reformers is tending. So far as females are engaged in it, and they form but a small minority of the ultra socialists, it exhibits the result of imperfect and misguided training, and manifests the ex- istence of an urgent necessity for enlarged and liberal educational advantages. To oppose these tendencies by argument is useless ; the excitement in which they origi- nate will not admit of calm discussion, and any one who should hazard an objection would immediately be classed with those who fear the loss of prerogatives. How silently and insidiously such sentiments effect a lodgement in a discontented or disappointed mind ; the natural and neces- sary result of ignorance, or carelessness, or pride, is attri- buted to an imperfection in the organization of society, and forthwith the mortified girl becomes a " strong minded American woman" — shortens her skirts and attends pub- lic meetings at the "Tabernacle." The only considerable good that can result from "Wo- men's Rights Conventions" would be the recognition of the value of labor as such, and the overthrow of the absurd notion, that the same work done by females is not TO ADDRESS. worth its much as if done by men. The results of labor and not the sex of the laborer form a just element in the determination of value. But this will be lost sio-ht of in the conflict of angry emotions, the bitterness of disap- pointed ambition, and the clamor for extended privilege. The quiet influence of educated women and the just thoughts of true men will silently and speedily accomplish all this more surely than the ranting transcendentalism of the socialists, or the indelicate pretensions of female poli- ticians. II. Correct Education will prepare Woman properly to adorn her true position, and to discharge the duties imposed by her constitution. — The influence of Woman in the for- mation of character is not confined to the period in which she may discharge the duties of Mother or Governess, but is felt in the associations of infancy and childhood. The relations of children to each other are close and intimate. The sister, who is competent to do so, may wield an important influence in the formation of a brother's habits and character. If she receives such an education as entitles her to his respect, he will often willingly follow her suggestions when the same advice from Parent or Guardian w r oulcl arouse and irritate his proud self-will, because overshadowed with the consciousness of authority. But true education will not only enable a sister to soften the manners and improve the morals of her brother, it would afford also a stimulus to his intellect. The natural quickness, which distinguishes the sex, facilitates the acquisition of knowledge, and to keep pace with a sister would require exertion in most boys. Similarity of pursuits would draw the children of a family into closer relations and not only add to the strength of influence but prolong the period of its duration, so that ADDRESS. 11 the whole life of a man might be moulded, eontroled and modified by the gentle authority of an educated sister. But the uninteresting character of common conversation shows how defective is the preparation for such duties. Our ordinary schools afford but limited advantages, and the attractions of society do not allow the time to secure even these. The periods of social transition are so rapid that we not only have no boys and girls, but no schools for them. There is but one step from the nursery to the drawing-room, and that is the " Institute for Masters and Misses." The girl who to-day wears pin-a-fores, (aprons having long since become obsolete) and cons her task, is to-mor- row the young lady of fashion, devoted to pleasure and doting on sentiment. In the mean time she has " come out." She now takes her place in society and talks flip- pantly to the elderly gentleman, who but yesterday patted her head and gave her sugar plums ; nay, she even fancies that in conversing with her he may have " serious inten- tions," and concludes not to mortify him, by a positive refusal. Such characters are met with in every assembly ; objects for the affected admiration of the ignorant and vain, but moving the pity of those who love them, and the disgust of the indifferent. Sensible young men whom their gaiety may attract for the moment, would shudder at the idea of their sisters becoming such. And it is all a mistake for such persons to suppose, that the at- tentions of gentlemen are a mark of personal admiration or respect ; for these are as often given to the sex as to its representative. What pleasure can the conversation of such an one afford ? It can yield no improvement, suggest no thought, 12 ADDRESS. quicken no longing lor true greatness, for it is destitute of common sense. But this is not the only defect to be remedied There are some whose heads have been so turned by that dan- gerous thing — a little learning — that their whole conver- sation labors under cumulative epithets and technicalities. Such speak ever of " developements of science," "immu- table laws," "stand points of history," "the me and the not me," "doctrines esoteric and exoteric," " longings for faith," "the eternal no," &c, &c. They are devoted to "isms" and "ologies." They jDronounce decisively upon works whose true position and value history is gradually determining, and ascertain and seal the fate of the study of years, by a glance at a title page. They have learned to talk a little French, and a little German, but it would make a Parisian's ears tingle and excite the rage of the country men of Goethe. They can thrum a little on the piano, scream selections from Norma, draw a few hideous outlines, and mix red lines and yellow in worsted, but they have no education. How insipid and yet how com- mon is such society, and what wonder is it that the usages of civilized life distinguish between gatherings of such char- acters, and assemblies of the more matured and culti- vated. Men love to hear the simplest language and the gravest truths from women competent to use the one and compre- hend the other. The educated woman needs not to parade the course of instruction pursued at the school she has at- tended, to evince her cultivation ; she need not even indi- rectly allude to mathematics or philosophy to convince you of her attention to them ; but she gives evidence of the completeness of her education, by the correctness, ele- gance and readiness with which she selects or pursues the ADDRESS. 1 3 topics of conversation. Old truths acquire a freshness as they fall from her lips, a single suggestion of her bright imagining throws light and beauty over the dullest theme. The grace and elegance which belong naturally to the sex, inhere to sources of thought and forms of expression, and the fable of the girl whose lips dropped pearls and diamonds was only an exaggeration. I have known a student to think the toil of hours am- ply repaid, because it enabled him to understand the allu- sions, relish the wit, and comprehend the philosophic sim- plicity of a gifted woman : and I well remember the absorbing interest with which when a lad I listened to the conversation of Miss Martineau, games were laid aside and all the younger portion of the company gather- ed round her as with peculiar grace and fascination she participated in the evening festivities. There is nothing so charming as the conversation of a well educated woman. "It is a perpetual feast. Her quick feelings and lively imagination enable her to paint what she has seen and experienced in livelier colors and more glowing language than the reserve of the other sex make it possible for them to employ. There are lights and shades in human things, which would pass altogether un- perceived were they not reflected from the clear pure mir- ror of the female mind. The prose of this monotonous life becomes poetry in her lips, and its dullest scenes are illu- minated by her fancy images and illustrations just as the landscape sparkles in the dew." Truth compels the declaration that much of the unhap- piness of married life, arises from circumstances that might be obviated by increasing the number of educated women. The man who is devoted to letters, if he find in his home no other incentive to exertion than the increasing wants 14 ADDRESS. of his family, if lie receive from his wife no sympathy in his pursuits, either seeks companionship with men of kin- dred thought, or buries himself in the seclusion of the study. The man of business who can only spare from active labor, the hours of the evening for intellectual culture, if he have to spend them with an uncultivated woman, who finds in books no enjoyment, except as they minister to a diseased imagination or gratify an appetite tor absurd romance or sickly sentiment, naturally seeks excitement in society. The brother who finds his sisters unprepared to enter into his pursuits, having no companionship at home with his restlessness of thought, rejects their society and resorts to the lyceum, or under pretence of so doing, seeks worse society. Now, however beautiful or accomplished such wives or sisters may be, they are in danger of losing the respect of husband or brothers, and with respect, goes love attention — everything. It is only the educated wo- man who can make home what it ought to be, the centre of all affection and all hope, the mainspring of all energy and all enterprise ; she is the genius under whose benign protection, " A charm from the skies seems to hallow as there, Which seek, though we may, is not met with elsewhere," Accomplishments are esteemed too often as externals to be put on — instead of being regarded as just branches of edu- cation to be drawn out of the mind. And hence the low standard of taste that prevails to so great an extent. If the hand and not the soul draws colours, or embroiders, the result must be meager and common place, and the high and elevating object of culture must be unrealized. It the fingers touch the keys of the musical instrument with- out awaking the harmonies of the soul, it is no wonder that practice is wearisome, and the instrument unopened after marriage. ADDRESS. 15 The true idea of education embraces the culture of all the powers of the soul, and, when carried out, makes draw- ing and music ennobling and elevating employments, in- stead of mere instruments of vanity, or means of spend- in j>- time and wasting money. Woman needs culture to possess herself of these ideas and realize their truth. There is a limit to the period when the attractions of mere accomplishment will influence, and the duration of that period is shortened by the character of the education. — The clay will come when personal charms must fade, when beauty will leave the form and grace no longer control the actions, when the attentions these have attracted will decline, when intellectual treasures will be the only re- source. Sad and lonely must the woman be who has no store of knowledge upon which to draw. Dark is the night that sets in about her. But the cultivated mind enjoys a long twilight, and the night comes with stars and beauty. The dignity which is the proper ornament of age, belongs only to the truly educated. Intellectual endowments and cultivation add brilliancy to the beauty of youth, stability to riper years, and smooth the steps of the aged drawing near to the end of lifes pilgrimage ; they kindle the torch of memory and light up the stars of hope. Madame Campan when asked by Napoleon " what is necessary that the youth of France be well educated, " replied " Good Mothers ;" and in this brief answer are em- bodied the results of history and experience, whose lessons always accord with sound philosophy. The necessities of life place the care of infancy in the charge of the mother, and the instincts of nature render the duty joyous. How srrong are these instincts. Love manifests itself in no 1G ADDRESS. form so pure and so enduring as in the affection of a Mother. It is lavished with the same tenderness upon the deformed and helpless cripple as upon the child of grace and beauty. " The only love, which on this teeming earth, Asks no return from Passions wayward birth ; The only love, that, with a touch divine, Displaces from the heart's most secret shriae, The idol self. " No misfortune, no degradation can eradicate it. It lives through all things. A mother cannot forget her babe, though she may like to prove, " How sharper than a serpent's tooth it is To have a thankless child." She still yearns for its love, and would win back its affec- tion. But the educated woman only is capable of fully ap- preciating all the demands that flow from this divinely implanted feeling ; she alone can rightly direct the ener- gies of the young intellect, and satisfy the longings of the young heart. Few joys can compare with the delight it must afford a mother to impart instruction to her own offspring. When the expanding mind gropes for intelligence as the young vine shoots forth its tendrils, what gladness there must be in the heart of one who is conscious of ability to direct the enquiries of the spirit around which there still linger the recollections of immortality. Next to the joy of Heaven is the thought, that she may guide the young immortal and direct its gaze so truly, that were death to interrupt her labors its flight would still be upward, and its eye still on the sun. And how sad must that Mother ADDRESS. 17 be, who, when her child asks bread, must from ignorance or incompetency give it a stone ; or if it ask fish, a ser- pent ; how that stone must weigh upon her memory and that serpent bite into her heart. For the proper discharge of these sacred duties, the truly educated mother will seek Divine aid, Her own experi- ence and reflection will teach her, that no subject is so important as religion — none so expanding in its tenden- cies — so ennobling in its influence. Her own life and character if formed upon the purest models will be radiant with piety; her presence will diffuse light as well as know- ledge. Impiety is the offspring of ignorance. Right edu- cation teaches the need of prayer, and as the child kneels by the mother's side and with folded hands repeats "Our Father who art in heaven," a benison from heaven will rest upon them both. The surest pledge of remembrance, the truest bond of love, is cemented in the united prayer of a mother and her child. "Never, never has one forgotten a pure right-educating mother; on the blue mountains of our dim childhood, towards which we ever turn and look back, stand the mothers who marked out to us from thence our life." How great, then, is the responsibility which the social position of woman forces upon her. ■ She must prepare the cup for infant lips; but if she carelessly allow poison to mingle with the draught, or in weakness withhold a neces- sary ingredient, she must herself wring out the dregs in bitterness. If she soil the purity of the cherub, or taint with spot of earth its golden plumage, she may rob heaven of its treasure and fill earth with groanings. But if she direct aright the tender growth of childhood, she may in old age be sustained by the ministering of the angel who in infancy nestled in her bosom; or if this be denied her, hS ADDRESS. and she must in sorrow yield up her child to God who> gave it " "When that mother meets on high The babe she lost in infancy, Hath she not then for pains and fears, The day of woe — the watchful night; For all her sorrows, all her tears, An overpayment of delight?" With a well directed. education a mother may anticipate* even this great joy, for life is but a point in existence, and education begun here is finished only when " tongues - shall cease," and " knowledge be done away." III. Such views of Female Education accord with the- teachings and influence of Christianity. — We look in vain--; over the records of antiquity to find traces of the true position of women. Greece with her cultivation did not discover it. Rome, with her practical enlightenment,, never perceived it. The annals of Heathendom contain no page gilded with the acknowledgment of her rights, or lightened with a glimpse of her privileges. In all hea- then lands she is to this day the household drudge, the slave of caprice ; the loom and the wheel are recog- nized as her true position ; to suffer, her true destiny. Min- istering comfort and furnishing happiness, she is never ministered to or her happiness consulted ; torn from her offspring, maternal tenderness never ripens in her bosom.. In none but Christian lands does women mingle freely even with her own sex, nowhere else are her natural in- stincts allowed their true developement. Elsewhere her babe must be cast upon the Ganges, her body burned upon her husband's funeral pyre. Even when intellectual supe- riority displays itself there is no surer barrier from sym- pathy; she is separated from her sex and kindred by more than menastic seclusion. It required a charm more ADDRESS. 19 potent than mere intellectual culture to break her bonds, for however romance may gild, or poetry may burnish them, they are but fetters still. To break up the deep seated evils of polygamy, to •change the whole structure of society, to give woman ■all that endears, all that ennobles her, required the power that has been found in Christianity, and only in its teachings.. Christ ministered to her, and though rebuked by his disciples, and ridiculed by the world, he received her offerings and granted her requests. She followed him as he went through the world relieving its suffering, healing its sorrows; and learned from his hallowed example and his burning lips, the first lessons of humanity and love. She wept sorrowing "last at his cross," and the breaking dawn of the third morning found her waiting at his tomb. His last expiring voice •committed his aged mother to the care qf his best loved -disciple; and the listening ear of Mary, in the Garden, heard his first words when he rose from the dead. Wherever Christianity has spread, there the position of woman has been elevated, her influence been acknow- ledged, and her true position recognized. The false prophet assigned her no place in Paradise ; but Heaven would scarce be home to the christian without a mother's smile. Her influence has extended under the fostering care of Christianity, until it is entwined in every enter- prize of charity and love. Her form is associated with all that ennobles, all that blesses earth. She sanctifies the hearth-stone, ministers to infancy, strengthens the maturity of manhood, and sustains the tottering steps of age ; and the green spot in memory is the hour en- deared by a mother's love and gladdened by a sister's -smile. 20 ADDRESS. We demand then, for woman, an education broad in its basis, complete in its details, enduring in its influence ; an education that will qualify her to reform social abuses and fully meet the demands of her position as wife and mother, and which, above all, will prepare her as a human being for the vicisitudes of time and the joys of Eternity. LIBRARY OF CONGRESS 019 646 458 A t r-^StSS. W.-3 ■ I T- : .-■ .A..