^o v^^ < V « • • 1_> < e • • '^ o \ A * /' ■^> ^^ "^ ^ n"^ J) ^^^^ T' V * ^^ "K o o K • O •s^' '<> '•^^ %"•■ o V TJ- « 1 C,^ r-\ ,j o o *■ ., : o "^ -0 % O • JL A VOICE FROM RICHMOND, AND ®tt)er 5lbbr£00e0 \\] TO CHILDREN AND YOUTH. BY THE LATE. / / REV. ROBERT MAY. It WITH A BRIEF ACCOUNT OF THE AUTHOR. BEVISED BY THE COMMITTEE OF PUBLICATION OF THE AMERICAN SUNDAY-SCHOOL UNION. AMERICAN SUNDAY-SCHOOL UNION. PHILADELPHIA: No. 146 CHESTNUT STREET. / ^' Entered according to Act of Congress, in the year 1842, by Herman Cope, Treasurer, in trust for the American Sun- day-school Union, in the Clerk's Office of the District Court of the Eastern District of Pennsylvania. .<^, Stereotyped by L. Johmon, PhUaddphia. PREFACE. The Rev. Robert May was bom at Woodbridge, in the county of Suffolk, (England,) in 1790; and at the age of sixteen we find him a pupil in the Mis- sionary Seminary at Gosport, (England.) He says of himself, that when he "was about seven or eight years of age he was deeply impressed with his lost state as a sinner, by reading ^ Janeway's Token for Children.' The address at the beginning of the book, and the example in the first part, made a deep impression on his mind.'*' During one of his vacations he joined two of his school-mates in a weekly visit of charity to the parish poor-house, and while there his heart was moved 3 4 PREFACE. with pity for the children who were at play in the yard, and for whose souls none seemed to care. Young May in- vited them to come into the house, and hear what was said to the sick people. They were much pleased with the notice that he took of them, especially as most of them were either orphans or friendless children, and seldom received such atten- tion. Several of them followed him into the house, who were soon joined by others, and they were all very still and attentive to what was said. So pleasant and useful was the impres- sion made on their minds by this exercise, that it was regularly repeated for several weeks. Mr. May was encouraged by the success of this effort to extend his labours, and in the course of the four fol- lowing years his lectures were attended by upwards of three thousand children. PREFACE. 5 In December, 1810, he embarked for India, by way of the United States, and arrived at Philadelphia in March, 1811. He addressed large assemblies of children on two or three occasions, and re-embarked in May, but meeting a heavy gale of wind, which occasioned damage to the ship, he returned to Philadelphia to await a more favourable opportunity for a voyage to India. He soon re-commenced his course of lectures, which were attended by many hundreds of children ; and he continued them until he finally embarked for India, where he arrived in August, 1812. He laboured faithfully for six years in that pa- gan land, and on the 11th of August, 1818, he fell asleep in Jesus, and entered into the rest that remaineth for the people of God. During the closing hours of his severe illness, his mind wandered, but even then 1* 6 PREFACE. his thoughts were evidently turned towards the Saviour ; for when he fancied some one had brought him a rich present of gold and silver, he refused it, saying, " I want none of your gold and silver, it is the Lord Jesus Christ whom I want." He was a man of a truly catholic spirit, and mourned over every appearance of alien- ation and bitterness among Christians. He was also remarkable for his mildness and evenness of temper, which was one cause of the love which children felt for him. The following lectures have been care- fully revised ; the typographical arrange- ment improved, and some embellishments added, under the impression that there are few books better adapted to illustrate and enforce the great principles of religion and moraUty upon the minds of young children. CONTENTS. Lecture Page I. — A Voice from Richmond 9 11. — Divine Arithmetic 33 III. — David's Dying Advice to his Son . . 53 IV. — Advantages of an Early Love to Jesus 73 v.— The Character of the Child's best Friend 101 VI.— Christ in the Temple 125 VII.— The Good Child's Petition .... 149 VIII.— The Way to be Wise 173 IX. — Danger of Bad Company . . . .195 X. — Obedience to Parents . . . . . .215 XL— Duties of the School 235 XII. — A Word in Season ; or, Death and Judgment 255 XIIL— The Missionary's Farewell .... 280 VOICE FROM RICHMOND. LECTURE I. A Voice from Richmond. Rom. vi. 21. — " For the end of those things is deaths My DEAR yOUNG FRIENDS, You are come, this afternoon, to im- prove the awful calamity which happened about five weeks ago at Richmond, in Virginia,* with the particulars of which * The following brief narrative of the calamity is authentic : It took place on the night of the 26th of Decem- ber, 1811. The theatre, which was built entirely of wood, and otherwise badly constructed, stood upon the brow of Shockhoe hill, and upon the very spot which is now the site of what is called the Monumental Church. On this night, particu- 9 10 A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. you are but too well acquainted. Would to God they were less mournful, and the young and lovely sufferers less numerous. In the long list of the dead and missing larly, a new play and pantomime had been got up, and a large and brilliant crowd of gentlemen and ladies, of the very flower of the population, em- bracing the newly elected governor of the Common- wealth, and many citizens of wealth and fashion, were assembled at an early hour to enjoy the enter- tainments of the evening. It was truly a brilliant display ; and, for some time, all went on gayly and happily enough. The play was over — the first act of the pantomime had passed by — the second and last was now begun — and all eyes were intently fixed upon the actor, who had come forward on the stage towards the lights, and was moving, to the music of the orchestra — when suddenly a bustling noise was heard from behind the scenes, towards the rear of the building. This, it seems, was oc- casioned by the fact that a servant who had been ordered to hoist up a chandelier, in doing so had got the rope entangled, and jerking to clear it, had swung it against one of the painted scenes, which instantly caught fire, and sent up a sheet of flame to the roof. This was not plastered, but consisting only of rafters covered with light pine A VOICE PROM RICHMOND. 11 we find no less than thirty-six young persons, in the prime of life, lovely as morning rose buds, and fair as the flowers of spring. And to this list, I believe, may boards and shingles, very dry, it kindled at once ; and the actors, with their assistants, were trying to tear down the scenes, to put out the fire. This movement, however, was not immediately seen by the spectators, being hidden from their view by the interposing scene; and they were still watching the progress of the piece, when they saw a shower of sparks and burning matter fall upon the actor before them. At this some were startled, while others apparently thought that it might be only a part of the show. A moment afterwards, some one exclaimed, "There is no danger," and only forced the sense of it more strongly upon their fears ; when one of the per- formers rushed forward to the front of the staore, and cried, " the house is on fire," — pointing at the same time to the ceiling, where the fire was now seen running like lightning along the roof. In- stantly, all was horror and dismay. The cry of " fire !" " fire !" rang through the building, mingled with the shrieks of women and children, in frantic consternation. Husbands looked for their wives — mothers for their children — while some, almost 12 A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. be added, six dear little children, who perished in the flames. The exact num- ber of persons, young and old, will per- haps never be ascertained, but it is sup- frenzied by the sense of danger, thought only of themselves. There was, of course, a general rush of all at once to escape out of the house as fast as possible, by the nearest way. Those in the pit easily got to the outer door, which was not far off. Those in the galleries also, or most of them, flying down the stairs, soon passed into the street. But the spec- tators in the boxes were not so fortunate. Some few of them, indeed, had leaped into the pit, and got out with the rest from that part, and a few others had been helped on to the stage, and hurried oflf the back way; while a small number still bravely kept their seats, only to meet the fate which they hoped to avoid ; but the great mass of them, crowding tumultuously into the narrow lob- bies, in the wildest disorder, stopped each others' progress towards the door, while the suffocating smoke, which soon filled the house, extinguished the lights and stifled its victims ; and the flames, which now flashed in lurid sheets, as they ran along the light wooden work of the boxes, caught the clothes of the fugitives in the rear, and wrapped A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. 13 posed to be nearly two hundred ! Let us pause Is it true? Or did 1 only dream, that thirty-six young persons perished in the flames? Did I read that them at once in palls of fire and death. Happy now were those who had reached the windows, where a stream of fresh air from without revived their failing senses, and enabled them to hurry on for their lives, or to escape perhaps to the ground. For by this time, many of those who had got out from the pit and galleries were seen gathered in crowds below, stretching out their arms, and calling on those within to leap into them for safely. Some did so from the first, and some even from the second story ; and a number escaped in this way, while a few were either killed, or shockingly mangled by the fall. Those, in the meantime, who had succeeded so far as to clear the lobbies, found themselves again stopped, and straitened in the narrow angular stairs that ran from the landing of the boxes into the common entry, or pent up in the small passage at the bottom, where the only door which opened inwards had been shut to by the rushing crowd, and could not be forced back for some time, even by the help of hands from without. Here, then, some were crushed to death by others, who, even less happy, escaped at last over their 2 14 A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. five or six children lost their lives in the burning ruins of the theatre at Richmond? What must their parents feel ? I think I see their burnt and mangled bodies, dead bodies, through the door now opened, but horribly scorched or burnt, and only to die in the arms of their shuddering friends. By this time, (although only six or seven mi- nutes had passed,) the whole house was in a light blaze, that brightened the windows of the houses far and near with its dismal light; the bells were tolling with most appalling sound ; and hundreds of citizens, roused from their beds, and alarmed for the safety of their relatives and friends, were rushing to the scene, but too late to save, or find them. The rest may be imagined, but cannot, and perhaps ought not to be described. There was no sleep in Richmond that night; but the voice of weeping was heard from many dwellings. The day after this awful occurrence, the Com- mon Council of the city convened, and passed a resolution prohibiting all public amusements within the limits, for four months ensuing ; and a meeting of citizens was held in the capitol, at which it was resolved, that the remains of the dead should be collected and buried together on the spot where they had expired ; and that a monument should be A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. 15 wrapped carefully up, and carried to their houses of mourning from the house of mirth. I see them but in part. Their half burnt bodies and their smoking bones ! I pity them, but they are now beyond my pity I I could weep with weeping parents, and sympathize with sorrowful brothers and sisters, but they cannot see my tears. " may our sympathizing breasts That gen'rous pleasure know, Kindle to share in others' joy, And weep for others' wo." Their remains are now deposited in the house appointed for all living. Their ashes rest in peace, within the silent tomb. There they will be undisturbed, till that trump shall sound which shall call the dead to arise and come to judgment. raised over them to record the remembrance of their fate. And it was also determined, that a day should be set apart for fasting, humiliation, and prayer, in commemoration of an event, in which all who had any sense of piety could not but see and acknowledge, that the hand of God had been most strikingly and affectingly displayed. 16 A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. Hark ! from the eternal world, I hear a voice ! To you, my dear young friends, that voice is directed. Methinks the de- parted spirit of one of those dear children is now before me : — Attend to the solemn admonition. " I have a message from God unto you. Shun the theatre: avoid the haunts of Satan, the destroyer of your souls. Seek for real pleasure. Do not pursue the phantom of imaginary happiness, which will at last deceive you. It may seem to be delightful, it appeared the same to me, but I now find that I have been fatally mistaken. My sun went down while it was yet day. How awful the change ! From the meridian splendour of a noon- day sun, to be suddenly enveloped in midnight darkness ! Yes, with the black- ness of darkness forever ! Five weeks ago, I was in life, blooming, healthy and gay. I thought, like many others, that there was no harm in attending on the amusements of the theatre, and from per- suasion and example I was confirmed in A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. 17 my opinion. That very afternoon, I laughed at a young lady for saying that * the theatre was a very improper place ; that many had been ruined, body and soul, by attending at such places of amuse- ment.' Ah, my young friends, I wish I had felt the force of her observation. I went. I expected pleasure, and for a short time I joined the laugh of those around me, and mingled my smiles with their shouts of applause. The whole scene was before us ; all around was mirth and pleasure; but in two minutes after, I was surrounded with cries of anguish and despair. Suffocated with smoke, I fainted and fell, blazing, into the pit, and was crushed and covered with the burning ruins. I was unprepared for death, and hurried unexpectedly into eternity. My state is now unalterably fixed forever." Attend to the warning. Behold the dis- pleasure of a holy God. Profit by the warning thus awfully given, and remem- ber that "the end of these things is death." 2* 18 A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. " See the short course of vain delight, Closing in everlasting night; In flames that no abatement know, Though briny tears forever flovi^." Let us inquire, or rather speak of those things, the end of which is sometimes death. It is not necessary what things those are, in particular, that the apostle means. It is sufficient to say, that he means all kinds of sinful pleasures in general : all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eye, and the pride of life. These things are not from God, but from man, from the world. 1. There are sports in which the young engage, which sometimes prove, in the end, to be both temporal and eternal death ; I mean those which employ the leisure hours of the thoughtless and wicked child. At this season of the year, when you are in the habit of skating on the weak ice, it breaks under you, and you have no time or warning to escape from being buried in a watery grave. Sailing on the water in a boat, conducted by unskilful managers : A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. 19 swinging, when the rope is not well se- cured on the beam, or on the branch of a tree, nor sufficiently strong: climbing a lofty tree : walking on the roof of a house &c., in many such ways you may receive a fall, the end of which may be death. A few months ago, a little boy fell from the roof of a house, and was killed on the spot. Bathing is extremely healthy, only you should take care not to go in too far, for fear of being out of your depth ; you should not stop in the water too long at once, and never bathe when you are warm. Balancing upon a plank laid across a tree or piece of timber sometimes proves dan- gerous, for when the plank slips, the ba- lance is lost ; and the child that is hoisted up may fall and hurt himself. The plea- sures of the dancing-room are also dan- gerous. Let me ask you why you learn to dance ? It may be answered, " that I may know how to behave in a polite com- pany, that I may know how to enter a room and leave it in a suitable manner ; 20 A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. that I may be able to make an elegant courtesy, or a graceful bow.'' Cannot these be learned without spend- ing so much time ? " But where is the harm of dancing ?'' The only harm that I can see in the thing itself is, that time is wasted which might be much better employed. It is not the dancing only, but it is the time it consumes, the company to which it leads, the health which it destro^^s ; it is that the mind is taken from things of greater importance. 2. The follies of the card table. There are different kinds of cards. There are playing cards, and these are most general- ly used. There are conversation cards. There are geographical, and puzzling cards; and there are Scripture cards. You may not be acquainted with all these different kinds of cards, but I have seen them all. Playing cards are those used in card parties in general, and they are the cards which are the most useless, waste the most time and the most property. A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. 21 " Well, but there is no harm in them, if we do not play for money ?" Yes, there is harm ; it is a kind of silent gaming, which has often ended in pover- ty, misery, shame and death. There are conversation cards, but there are different kinds of them ; some of which are more fit for the fire than for the amusement of the young. Some of them contain useful and entertaining questions, which are answered in such an interesting manner as to give pleasure to all who use them. 3. There are geographical cards, which are very useful and improving to the young. For example, a geographical card contains a geographical question, and this is answered by a card which gives a short description of the country, extent, bound- aries, rivers, population, capital, curiosities, &c. Puzzling cards are sometimes very amusing and entertaining indeed, as eacli card contains an emblem or representation, and is the name of some animal, flower, country, nation, or trade. There are Scrip- ture cards, which are suitable for those 22 A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. children who love their Bibles, and who love their Saviour and their Maker. They contain some interesting questions or pas- sage of Scripture. All these kinds, except the first, will improve your minds, extend your knowledge, and promote useful con- versation; while, at the same time, you are amused and entertained in a delightful manner. But how persons who have souls to be saved can spend so much time in throwing down and taking up pieces of painted paper, is indeed truly wonderful. What conversation passes at the card table, how insignificant, how trifling, how non- sensical, how sinful and wicked, when the same time might be usefully employed ! 4. Theamusementof the theatre. — Here, my young friends, I shall have reason to rejoice if I can but prevent one of you from attending at this destructive place. 0, to save one soul from infamy and ruin would give me more pleasure than to gain ten thousand worlds ! It has been said, that the theatre is a useful school, in which persons may learn A VOICE FROJr RICHMOND. 23 much, if they please. Much of what? Much of evil ; much of vice. Tell me what the lessons are that are taught in a theatre ? Is not the holy name of Jehovah trifled with, blasphemed and profaned ? Tell me of one rake reformed in a theatre, and I will tell you of a thousand who have been made the most abandoned rakes bv it. Tell me of one drunkard who has been made sober at the theatre, and I will tell you of a thousand who have been made drunkards there. Tell me of one spend- thrift who has been taught at the theatre to be careful of his character, his time, and money, and I will tell you of many who have been taught to be careless of their time and their property. Tell me if at the theatre the heart is made better, or the mind improved, and I will tell you that many learn their worst vices in a theatre, that hearts have been more depraved there than they were before, and the mind is polluted there by poison the most deadly. It has been said, that many good senti- ments may be heard at the theatre ; but 24 A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. for one good one that you hear, there are hundreds, nay, thousands of sentiments that are evil. The sentiments contained in plays are either immoral or impure. That there are some few good sentiments, I do not deny ; but the heart is so depraved that it is prone to that which is evil and averse to that which is good. Some say, it is a harmless diversion ; an innocent amusement. This I deny. The scenes and amusements of the theatre are not so. When the play is over, you are unfit for serious reflection, the mind is dejected, weakened, relaxed and injured. Are there not amusements more rational, better suited to an immortal mind, and less expensive too ? " But," says one, "you call the theatre a bad place, and endeavour to persuade us not to go. I have heard that a person may learn as much by seeing a good play, as by hearing a good sermon. '^ A good play, did you say ? There are none good, no, not one. Virtue is painted in an angel's form and Vice wears the A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. 25 shape of the devil. ReUgion is ridiculed, and serious things treated with mockery and contempt. Can you learn at a theatre that the heart is deceitful ? That your natures are depraved ? That man is not what he was when he came from the hands of his Creator ? Did you ever hear at a theatre that you were poor, lost and guilty sinners ; that without a Saviour, without pardon of sin and holiness of heart, you must be miserable forever ? " But," says another, "it is a place of di- version, and we are not always to.be think- ing about religion ; we should be poor, moping, melancholy creatures, if we were always thinking on that which is good." True, it is a place of diversion, a place of sinful pleasure and of guilty joy, where you feast your eyes with evil, your ears with profaneness, your hearts with impu- rity and sin. All your depraved passions are excited to the uttermost. Are there no pleasures equal to those of a theatre ? Can an immortal soul be satisfied with such vain delights ? There 3 26 A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. are no pleasures equal to those which religion and early piety can give. These are suitable, solid, innocent and lasting. They will bear repeating, they will endure forever. " I do not go often to the theatre.'' But why go at all ? A play is such a bewitching, captivating thing, that when you have been once, you will want to go again. The eye is never satisfied with seeing, nor the ear with hearing. " If I do go, I will take care to sit where I can easily escape." But however good your situation may be, you may be prevented from escaping. Where you think yourself most secure, you may be in the greatest danger. "But there are no less than 'sixteen ways' of escape, if the theatre should take fire ; the doors open 'outward and inward,' so that there would be no danger." Notwithstanding all these doors and windows, you may be in danger. You do not consider, that upon the alarm of fire, what confusion, what agitation of A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. 27 mind follows on such occasions. If all these means of safety could be employed, yet such would be the state of mind, that amidst the bustle they would be forgotten. Drury Lane theatre, in London, was burnt, notwithstanding every means used to pre- vent it. It would be almost a miracle if all these doors could be opened, and amidst the crowd and hurry of escape some were not beaten down, and trodden under foot. Who so likely as the fainting female, or the little boy ? and if one life were lost, can you tell that it would not be yours ? " But my parents, my companions go ; they think there is no harm, no danger in attending the theatre, why should I ? I shall be as safe as they; do you think they would go if there Avas any harm or dan- ger !" Too many persons think only of the pleasure, and forget the pain ; if they can taste the sweet of a play, they run the hazard of swallowing the bitter with it. So intent were the inhabitants of Rich- mond on the pleasures of the theatre, that 28 A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. they forgot those means of safety which might have been provided. They were thoughtless of the danger. They delayed to open new doors, to make the narrow winding staircase, open, straight, and wide : they "trusted and were ruined !" They pe- rished at last, as they think, by their own neglect; but it was the hand of God alone. " But to suppose the worst, and I should lose my life and perish in the flames, I am safe after all. I shall go to heaven. I read these words, written by a gentleman at Richmond — 'Yes, all Rich- mond is in tears ; children have lost their parents, parents have lost their children. Yesterday, a beloved daughter gladdened my heart with her innocent smiles. To- day she is in heaven. God gave her to me, and God — yes, it has pleased Almighty God to take her from me. sir, feel for me ; and not for me only. Arm yourself with fortitude, whilst I discharge the mournful duty of telling you, that you have to feel also for yourself Yes, for it must be told, you also were the father of A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. 29 an amiable daughter, now, like my be- loved child, gone to join her mother in heaven. moment of inexpressible hor- ror ! Nothing I can say can paint the awful, shocking, maddening scene. The images of both my dear children were before me ; but I was removed by an im- passable crowd from the dear sufferers. The youngest, with gratitude to Heaven I write it, sprang towards the voice of her father, reached my assisting hand, and was extricated from the overwhelming mass that soon choked the passage by the stairs; but no efforts could avail me to reach, or even gain sight of the other. And my dear, dear Margaret, and your sweet Mary, with her companions. Miss G * * * * and Miss G ***** *, passed together and at once into a happier world.' " Whatever influence these expressions may have upon your minds, it is my duty to remove them. The young persons here spoken of are unknown to me ; but if they were like other young persons who generally attend the amusements of the 3* 30 A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. theatre, however beautiful or lovely in their person, however amiable in their dis- position, and moral in their conduct, yet, if they were strangers to the grace of God; if their hearts were not renewed and their sins pardoned ; if they were lovers of pleasure more than lovers of God, my Bible tells me, they are not in heaven. The fondness of a parent's love may think, or rather wish them there, but if they were not beloved by their heavenly Father, as well as their earthly parents, they are not the inhabitants of that place, where " there is fulness of joy, and where there are pleasures for evermore." They might be ignorant of the danger of attending a theatre ; but I think no pious parents would permit their children to attend at a place so dangerous and injurious to their morals, their reputation, and their souls. It is the duty of parents to put their children in mind of these things. I would much rather meet death in any other place than a theatre. Therefore, my young friends, take heed ; be not carried away A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. 31 with the hasty expressions of mourning, affectionate parents : " Be not deceived ; whatsoever a man soweth, that he shall also reap ; for he that soweth to the flesh, shall of the flesh reap corruption ; and he that soweth to the Spirit, shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting." And now, my dear young friends, let me earnestly exhort you to seek such amusements as are healthy, innocent, and useful: but avoid, as you would a serpent, the amusement of the theatre. The haunts of the theatre lead down to the gates of eternal death ; but the ways of religion " are ways of pleasant- ness, and all her paths are peace." then, my dear young friends, be not partakers in the sins of others, lest God, in his awful displeasure, should make you partakers in their punishment. Remem- ber that, whatever you may think, the word of God says *'the end of these things is death." It has been so in the awful experience of many — death to the body, and eternal death to the soul. 32 A VOICE FROM RICHMOND. "Children, awake, nor slumbering lie Amidst the gloomy haunts of death ; Perhaps the awful hour is nigh That takes away your parting breath. " That awful hour will soon appear ; Swift on the wings of time it flies : When all that pains or pleases here Will vanish from your closing eyes. " Death calls your friends, your parents hence, None can resist the fatal dart ; Continual voices strike your sense, And shall they fail to reach your heart 1 ** Shall gay amusements rise between, When scenes of horror spread around 1 Death's pointed arrows fly unseen, But ah, how sure, how deep they wound ! "Think, dear young friends, how much depends On the short period of a day ; Shall time, which Heaven in mercy lends, Be negligently thrown away 1 " Insure your nobler life on high, Life from a dying Saviour's blood! Then, though your minutes swiftly fly, They bear you nearer to your God." DIVINE ARITHMETIC. 33 LECTURE IL Divine Arithmetic. Psalm xc. 12. — "