# LIEU RY OF CONGRESS,! fV'^ ■ fwisMfo _J f — ■ — ~ J^^ t I UNITED STATES OP AMEKIC^ > ffto/ifl-^ * HOME; OR, The Unlost Paradise. BY RAY PALMER. ,^ NEW YORK: ANSON D. F. RANDOLPH AND COMPANY, 770 Broadway. 'kh * ^tpV^A >IV * Entered according to Act of Congress, in the year 1872, by ANSON D. F. RANDOLPH AND COMPANY, In the office of the Librarian of Congress at Wasliington. irtss of JOHN WILSON AND SON, Cavihridge. gini»cru of ROBERT RUTTER, 82 a7id 84 Beekman St., NEW YORK. I TO THE ilot5)£rs anti ©au^Jters of 0ux Coxintrg, ON WHOM CHIEFLY THE REALIZATION OF THE DIVINE IDEA OF THE FAMILY AND HOME MUST DEPEND ; WHOSE HIGHEST DISTINCTION IT IS TO MAKE HUMANITY COMPLETE : TO ELEVATE, PURIFY AND ADORN DOMESTIC LIFE ; AND TO BLESS ALIKE CHILDHOOD, MATURITY AND AGE, WITH SWEET AND TENDER MINISTRIES ; THESE PAGES ARE MOST RESPECTFULLY INSCRIBED BY THE AUTHOR. -4^ 1^ yi% PREFACE. npHIS POEM was conceived and partly executed several years ago ; but through the constant pressure of official labors, it has lain uncomplc-ted till a recent date. Perhaps the delay has been no real disadvantage, since special circumstances have of late given fresh interest, and, if possible, enhanced impor- tance to the theme. The writer has desired to present such a picture of Home as not only may be, but actually has been, sub- stantially realized in instances almost without number. The sketch is supposed to have had its original in New Enp-land, — not because such Homes are not now widely found beyond her boundaries, but because, historically, our American Homes there first exhibited their highest moral power and beauty ; so that it may be fairly claimed that from her, as its source, has flowed the purest and best social life of our country. The early settlers laid the foundations of society in learning and religion ; and it may reasonably be * ^>L. 6 PREFACE. doubted whether there has ever been another' spot of equal extent on the globe, in which so great a number of intelligent and virtuous Homes could have been counted. The healthful influence of New England domestic life now reaches the newdy rising States to the very shores of the Pacific. To those who have known the joys and permanent benefits of well-ordered and happy Homes, the writer trusts that the reading of these pages may afford a tranquil pleasure. It is well to revive and clierish the sweet recollections of childhood and youth, to recall the vicissitudes of after years, and to bring back the dear faces of the loved and honored who have passed away from earth. Such reminiscences tend to make the heart better. If what has here been written shall help, even in the least degree, to elevate in the minds of young men and women the ideal of the family and Home, and to deepen in the hearts of any a conviction of the sacredness and beauty of a pure domestic life and the peril to every interest of humanity involved in the desecration of household sanctities, the author will thankfully recognize the accomplishment of his highest purpose. ■k * CONTENTS. PART I. Prelude — Home Earth's Brightest Spot — Everywhere Dear — Primitive New England— The Pilgrim Fathers — Misjudged and Wronged — In Advance of their Time — Their Descendants — A New England Home and its Sur- roundings — Domestic Life Ordained of God — Edward and Mary, the Newly Married Pair— Humanity Complete only in the Union of Man and Woman — A Home's History Begun ^ ^ PART II. The Joy of Wedded Hearts — Morning, and Waking Nature — Their Charms Heightened by Youthful Sensibility and by Love— Home Not the Abode of Indolence — Its Tasks and Burdens— Woman its Queen — Her Court and Duties — Her Legitimate Aspirations — Hasband and Wife in their Reciprocal Ministries and Influence — The First-born — Father and Mother — Enlargement of the Family Circle— Death of a Child— Christian Faith and Hope 37 W ^ CONTENTS. PART III. Healing Power of Time and Occupation — Delights of Child- hood — Seclusion of Home — Innocent Sports — Parents should Provide and Share Them — Restlessness and Aspiration of Youth — Refinement by Contact — Edith and Alfred — Dawning Manhood and Womanhood — Peculiar Beauty of Youth— Holidays — Thanksgiving — Christmas — New Year's — The Sabbath — Woman's In- fluence — The Time to Love — Edith and Arthur — The Betrothal 67 PART IV. The Bridal — Household Separations — Diverse Tastes and Pursuits — Time Giving and Taking — Pleasures of Ap- proaching Age — Ella and Filial Duty — Womanly Self- Sacrifice and its High Rewards — The Indian Summer ot Life ~ Vital Decay — Mary Translated -- Looking and Longing — Edward Sleeps — Home Scenes concluded — Ella the Heroic — The Christian Home the Hope of Humanity — The Eternal Home, with Christ and the Family of God 90 '^ L ^^ ^ -« Domestic happiness, thou only bhss Of Paradise that has survived the fall ! Cowper. Love is life's end : an end but never ending ; All joys, all sweets, all happiness awarding ; Love is life's wealth, ne'er spent but ever spending. More rich by giving, taking by discarding ; Love's life's reward, rewarded in rewarding. SpeiiseK ^ HOME. PART I. /^~^OME, gentle lyre ! sequestered from the world, Tired of its tumults and its pomps and pride, Thee, wonted solace of my careworn heart, Glad I resume : intent not now to strike With hurried hand thy strings, nor thee to make Loud resonant of numbers strange or wild ; But, with such mood serene and airy touch As best befit soft-breathing harmonies. To wake thy tones on a familiar theme. As whom necessity ordains to tread The arid waste where trackless Libyan sands Reflect the sun, seek not in vain to find, At distant intervals, some friendly spots »ir : ^<^ 12 HOME. Where gurgling waters 'neath overshadowing palms Invite repose ; so, o'er the wastes of life While sent to roam, where pines full oft unfilled Intense desire, and nameless ills beset Us hapless wanderers on an unknown way, We seek and find oases bright and fair. Most fair, most bright, art thou, dear peaceful Home, Of all best earthly gifts by Heaven bestowed Man's pilgrim path to cheer. Ever thou art A refuge from the storm ; from the rough wind A covert. All who may, in each dark hour When sorrows bow the soul, or when of care The lighter burden wearily doth press, Fly to thy bosom, and secluded find In thy sweet influence solace and repose. Who know thee not — alas, that such should be ! — Pine for thee, and still hope, though hope deferred Hath oft made sick the heart, that yet for them Some spot shall bear thy well-beloved name. The wanderer thinks of thee. With him he bears k HOME. 13 A thousand hallowed memories, fondly kept, That waken oft afresh. E'en while he treads. With heedful musings, old historic ground. Rich with the spoils of Time, where crumbling stand The hoary monuments of glories dead ; Or climbs 'mid Alpine wonders, and surveys Rude wilds where Nature all untamed abides; In search of thee his truant thought will stray. Or if he tempt the main, far, far away Swept by the breeze across the heaving deep, Fixed on his lonely watch at midnight hour, The watery waste around, the stars above. Back o'er the flood he roams to visit thee. For thee the captive sighs in the still gloom Of his dim cell. The warrior grim, what time He treads the battle-field where marshalled hosts Await the bloody fray — pride on his brow And glory on his crest — lets Ml a tear, While o'er him steal, like flute-notes faintly heard, Remembrances thick-coming of thy joys. Dear rest and centre thou of faithful hearts, * 14 NOME. Where'er thy seat ; as well 'neath tropic suns As where Arcadian realms boast genial skies, Or arctic winter spreads eternal snows ; O'er the wide world thy magic spell enchains. Not many years have rolled since, where now smile New England's happy Homes, the forest stood, A mighty wilderness. O'er hills and vales Spread virgin groves, where never yet had rung The stroke of woodman's axe, and tangled brakes i\nd thickets dark, that many a covert wove. There prowled the cruel wolf. There undisturbed The bear reared her fierce progeny. The owl Hooted from his lone seat upon the pine. And echo answered back. The eagle soared And screamed, or, pouncing on his quivering prey, Perched on some naked cliff and fed secure. Along the river, gliding broad and slow, Or up the rapid brook, that babbling loud Rushed from the mountain headlong to the plain. The trout and salmon darted unensnared. ■f4 ^ -^ HOME. 15 Of human kind sole tenant of the wild, The lordly savage reigned, and urged the chase, Of useful toil impatient ; or, when war Roused his dark passions, from his ambuscade Treacherous he darted, and, with horrid yell, Vengeful and unrelenting scalped his foe. No peaceful Home was then. The dingy squaw, The menial of her lord, now left to guard The smoky wigwam, now with blows compelled Him vagrant to attend with weary load, Dragged out, a semi-brute, her wretched life. For man, for woman, God all-good ordained A worthier destiny. By sacred ties, In household life and harmony of love He formed them to be joined ; society Made sure by nature's law ; and so decreed That states and kingdoms should successive rise ; That mind with mind in sympathy should wake New energies, the needs of men impel To foster arts, and search creation through ^ ^ ^^ 1 6 HOME. For knowledge of his own eternal thoughts. He meant not the prolific earth should lie Incultivate, but, tilled with patient care, Should smile with flowers as erst an Eden smiled, And yield the culturing hand a rich reward. 'Twas His behest that bade the forest bow, The savage beast retire, and savage men Give place to cultivation, order, laws. A lonely bark came o'er the stormy sea ; Not freighted deep with pelf; it richer bore, What famed Golconda's treasures could not buy, A band of noble hearts. Men trod that deck Who knew that they were men, and freely gave For liberty and truth what else w^as dear. No factious spirits, who, through spleen or pride. Contemned their country's laws and roamed to find What earth's circumference within, for them. Was nowhere to be found, content and peace. Of England's best, to her they fondly clung. Proud of her glorious names and old renown ; HOME. 17 And as her loyal sons their lives had spent, And with her honored dead had peaceful slept • 'Neath hallowed aisles in storied chapels dim, Less had they loved what most ennobles man — Freedom of soul, pure faith, and peace with heaven. Hatred hath called them stern ; their sturdy strength Of principle hath bigotry misnamed ; And levity, with leer and jibe profane. Blasphemed their sanctity and saintly zeal. 'Tis rather bigotry that dares deny Their nobleness, their glory that would" stain. Warm were their hearts ; none warmer e'er did beat In manly breasts ; and humble though their Homes, By hard necessity, yet love and beauty there Found place for sweet unfolding, nor was mirth A stranger at those hearths where nightly blazed The fires that made a fireside worth the name. Knowledge, religion, virtue — wheresoe'er These dwell together, dwell earth's best delights.. Not faultless were they, else were they not men ; Yet less their own the faults than of their time ; -iK -^ ^. ^ ^ 1 8 HOME. Of times long past, when many an error reigned As yet unchallenged, blinding all alike To truths since seen as in the midday blaze. Beyond their fellows, keenly had they pierced Error's thick-veiling mists, and Truth discerned In her diviner forms ; aside had flung Falsehoods long honored, maxims cherished long That mighty ills had wrought; the good, the right. In their great hearts they worshipped; these they sought. As misers search for gold, with deathless love ; Clung to them found, as with the grasp of fate ! What if perchance from ardor so intense Of quenchless earnestness, their zeal o'erglowed At times, and they — their vision not yet clear — There erred where all the world had erred till then ? Ah ! ye who meanly seek to tear away The honors thickly clustered round their brows, Yours — yours the lack of heavenly charity Ye charge on them ; yours with far less defence I On you returned at last shall rest the shame ; * ^ x<^ HOME. 19 And as the sun from the clear mirror wipes The envious vapor that its lustre dimmed, Just Time their names to honor shall restore.* Such were thy sires, New England ; such the men That tamed thy wilds ; thy slopes and valleys robed With waving fields ; made e'en thy rugged hills Look kind ; thy teeming cities with their marts. Their industries and commerce, rise and thrive. Rich among lands art thou in sweet content, In health and plenty, born of patient toil. Rich in thy stalwart sons and daughters fair. That o'er the w^orld, where'er their feet may tread. Bear with them blessing. Known of all are they, Of keen intelligence and purpose firm. About their footsteps truth and freedom spring, And law's firm voice is heard — her word obeyed ; Wide sown are wisdom's seeds, and useful arts. With many a curious, many a rare device, Lend force to labor, or embellish life. * See Appendix, note A. M ^ 2jd^ 20 HOME. Their Mother they forget not ; but from far, Where, ocean-like, the boundless Prairie spreads, Where rock-ribbed mountains lift their frowning forms, And sunset regions kiss the western wave. Their hearts with many a yearning backward turn, True to her still ; and all her scenes recalled Look fairer seen in memory's mellow light. A Holy Land she seems, w^here God abides ; Nor seems alone. Holy well named a land Where lives a faith divine ; where graceful rise Religion's hallowed domes, and close at hand The school-house, fit ally, within whose walls Kind culture early moulds the plastic mind To virtue and to truth ; where stand embowered The mantled cottage and the tasteful Home. Dear tranquil scenes ! Home, o'er the world a name That like a talisman calls to the soul All images of bliss, hath here a spell Of mightiest w^orking.* Other lands may boast More friendly soils ; and blander airs may breathe ♦ Appendix, note B. ^k- * HOME. 21 Upon their spicy beds that odors yield More fragrant far ; and birds of rarer note Among their groves pour richer melodies ; And lordHer dwellings rise. But where hath earth A soil more free, a clime that ministers More vigor to the frame, or fosters more True energy of soul? Where Nature's face A nobler aspect — mountain crests that climb In their blue dimness, reverend forests tall Crowning the hills with majesty and grace, And waterfalls that, with sonorous voice Softened by distance, charm the listening ear? Where doth the rustic dwelling more bespeak Substantial comfort, or with happier art Where Luxury convenience blend with taste? In yon sweet vale that — mingling field and grove In fair confusion — fills the roving eye With images of beauty ; on a slope Gently decUning toward the midday sun, A modest mansion stands ; a rural Home ; k 22 HOME. But one of thousands that New England boasts — The jewels of her crown — her pride and joy. Nor rude, nor splendid, it hath yet a charm, A quiet loveliness. Come, ye who dream That Peace, an exile, dwells with men no more ; Ye who in vain pursue her through the maze Where witching pleasure lures, and oft deceived As oft the eager chase again renew ; Ye who would seek her but in princely halls, With fretted ceiling arched and draperies hung In gorgeous richness, where luxurious couch And orient ottoman invite repose. With harp, or lute, by snowy fingers touched, That soothes and lulls in soft voluptuous strain — Come hither, mark, and muse and grow more wise. Lo, where the hand of taste hath graced the scene ! The charms of nature by judicious skill Are heightened here ; their absence there supplied By quaint device. The grassy plat that spreads In neat simplicity before the door, * HOME, 23 Majestic elms, by some ancestral hand Long years ago transplanted, overhang ; Their arching boughs affording grateful shade To childhood's laughing groups, that gather there In merry mood, on the bright summer day, And with their harmless pastimes fill the hours. The tasteful garden, with neat fence enclosed, Bespeaks attentive culture. Clustering trees, The apple, cherry, pear, the tempting peach And the delicious plum, are set to please The order-loving eye ; and 'mid the shades Of their dark foHage half conceal the bovver. Round which the woodbine creeps and roses twine. Here thickly set the grateful currant grows. And the sweet raspberry. The vine there climbs O'er the arched trellis ; and, when Autumn claims Her offering of fruits, hangs richly out Her purple clusters ; while yon beds of flowers, Of many a name and hue, their incense pay To genial Summer, when they drink her smiles. . Here oft at twilight of a summer's eve, While linger yet, along the glowing west, ^ _^ 24 HOME, Clouds, that like golden islands seem to float Upon an azure sea, or spread afar Like some imperial pavement wrought with art Divine, of precious stones, agate and amethyst, Sapphire and emerald — come, arm in arm. The beautiful and young. The peaceful hour Sheds its sweet influence o'er them. Slowly now, As best befits such converse as they hold. They thread the winding paths, or seek the bower ; And now, as with some sudden transport seized, Burst forth in merry laugh, and glide along. Like tripping fairies, in pursuit and flight Alternate, as capricious impulse moves. But gay, or grave, alike they waken here, 'Mid outward loveliness, pure thoughts, and feel Quick-kindling sympathies their hearts unite. Here, as in earth's first garden, dwells sweet Peace, With joys of innocence and social love ; A Home is here, with all its histories. Its storied past, its present, and to come. O'er it have passed the changing lights and shades, ^ ^ T*-^/ HOME. 25 Or will as years shall run their circles round, Which, since was lost the primal Paradise, Have checkered all the mortal lot of men. Home, 'tis to heaven's wise law we mortals owe Thee and all thine. In the first Home was placed Not Adam sole ; with him the gentler Eve, Woman, man's other self, in whom alone His complement he finds. God called, 'tis said, Not his, but their name, Adam, in the day When He humanity complete had made. E'er since, in thee, O wedded love, are laid The deep foundations of domestic bliss ; With thee, through all the cycles, have been hid Sweet springs of joy whence, like full streams, have flowed Earth's pleasures that are likest those of heaven. For what is heaven save innocence and love Inseparable — in mystic life combined ? — The sympathy of hearts that throb and glow With love's quick impulse , and harmonious beat, 26 HOME, Each vibrating to each, as in the harp To one touched string according strings respond? Eternal Love, intent to make earth blest With all best joys, nor man nor woman made For unrelated life, but each for each ; Each only in the other without lack Of somewhat that, unfound, the restless heart Yearns ever, nor can know a full content. O subtile instinct ! Hidden law deep wrought Into the soul's own texture, by His will Who, Love Himself, man in his likeness framed To dwell in love ; his native element. The vital air, in which to live and move ! God and thy kind both loved with one pure flame, O mortal, thou most like to God shalt be, Blessing and blessed ; and by thy stony paths Shall spring such flowers as Paradise did yield Ere with the reign of love her all she lost. Yon mansion long ago, one summer morn, A morn bright, dewy, fresh with balmy breath 3^ HOME. 27 Of myriad blossoms laughing o'er the fields, Received a youthful pair. Late at God's shrine In holy rite made one, hand joined to hand As heart before to heart, here they begin. Rich in fair hopes and visions, and yet more In fresh affections, for themselves and theirs A Home to found and consecrate. Henceforth, Holy the place shall be through opening years, In all their thoughts ; sacred to wedded love, To tranquil joys, to purity, to peace ; To healthful pleasures with each other shared ; To useful tasks together daily wrought ; To books and culture, and congenial friends ; To piety, and prayer, and heavenward steps ; To all that earth yet yields to faithful hearts Demonstrative that once an Eden was. And proof, by foretaste, that a heaven shall be. Edward and Mary — these the names they bore ; Names, like their story, neither new nor strange. Nor name nor story such as one might choose Who with romantic tale, or legend old. * :^^ 28 HOME. Or startling horror, would the listless rouse ; But suiting well the simple and the true. O happy man ! To whom of God 'tis given To lead, a joyous bride, one who has taught Thy heart — that as in fevered restlessness, Far roving, stayed not till her gentle eye Seized it and fast a willing captive held — To end its rovings and in her to rest ! How like an angel in the robes of heaven She stands beside thee — thine own angel now I How beats with manly pride thy heart, the while Thou lead'st her from the altar to the seat. Her fitting throne, at Home's dear centre placed; Where, as a queen, ruling without command. She, radiant as the morning star, shall shine. Mighty in gentleness, in sweetness strong. It is but meet that on her maiden brow. And in the eyes that kindle at thy glance. Thou shouldst enraptured gaze ; and gazing find Thy soul with nobler manliness inspired. ^JL. * HOME. 29 And high ambitions all unfelt before. Henceforth, for thee shall each returning dawn Wake worthiest thoughts. Not for thyself alone, Thou shalt go forth life's battle-fields to try ; But with chivalric tread and lance in rest, P'or her, to death if need, in gallant strife Thou shalt defend all honor, truth and right ; Win all that may on her true lustre shed ; And shield her from all ills that courage firm, And strength of love, and patience can avert. For God and her ! What impulse canst thou lack To wrestle with all dangers, to withstand Pleasure's seductive call, and Duty's voice With quenchless ardor ever to obey ! Thou too, O woman, of thy kind most blest, Who in thy spring of beauty standest glad Beside thy well beloved and call'st him now Thy husband ! Name so rich to thy fond heart, In promise of best joys that earth can know. To thee no music hke the bridegroom's voice ; ^rr ^% 30 HOME. To that thy tremulous heart instant responds, x\s to the soft west wind the swelling strain Waked on the harp-string breathes its sweetness back. In him thy strength thou seest. The sturdy arm To which thou cling'st confiding, thine shall be In danger's hour for succor and defence ; For kind support when on the toilsome way Thy steps would falter, or thy heart grow faint. His wisdom, courage, manhood, to thy soul More nicely strung, with quicker, keener sense By God endowed, shall healthful reverence wake And restful confidence ; shall teach thy thought In generous rivalry to tempt the heights Of intellectual grandeur and to grasp What best and highest mortal powers may reach, Of knowledge that exalts and gifts that charm. Will he repress thee? Ay, as summer suns Repress the morning rosebud, opening wide Its bosom to the day and calling forth Its sweetest odors and its loveliest hues ! Edward and Mary, each in each complete ! * HOME. 31 Husband and wife, but one Humanity — One conscious life full-flowing — with one heart, One will, one end supreme, one blessedness ! 'Twas so that God ordained domestic bliss. Now, with exultant step, from room to room They wander, and well pleased each trait survey Of this their new abode — their Home, when time And love and joys the place hath sanctified, When sorrow's shade, perchance, has overhung And hallowed it, baptized with holy tears. Till tenderest memories, gathered one by one, Thick clustering, link each object to the heart. Like children, whom new toys or pleasures fill With gushing raptures, they with quick survey Scan each apartment ; try each chair and lounge ; Look from each window on the prospect fair ; Each picture on the garnished walls observe With keenest glance, as if with critic's eye In Angelo, or Raphael, they sought Some touch of grace unnoted e'er before. -^T * fi ^ 1^ 32 HOME. But in each other, chiefly, pleased they see The graces most transcendent ; and the Hght Of love within sufflises each dear face. And glows, as when through some fair vase or globe Translucent softly ^ines the embosomed flame. So passed with silent feet the jocund Hours. Then while this first day of their wedded life Closed over them serene, and twiHght fell, Hand clasped in hand they sat, till daylight died And set love's favorite star; too full their hearts For words ; their silent bliss like some sweet dream. Thus for a time. But when the deepened shade Their faces veiled, it was as if each tongue Gained freedom and each heart, unlocked, Revealed its hidden treasures ; and they talked As ne'er before of all the vanished past, Of present pleasures and of dawning hopes ; Of all that each to each aspired to be In the great life-work. Then at last they kneeled With hearts in true accord before the throne, -k : ■ ^ -=* ^ ^ HOME. 33 Their Fathers throne of pure eternal love, And In His name who bore the bitter cross Forgiveness sought and breathed their praise to heaven. Angels I to whom of God the task is given With loving ministries, though all unseen, to watch And keep, with care unwearied, every hour. The heirs of life whose souls in love abide ; Ye at that hour were nigh. Ye saw them bow And worship ; heard those fervent lips declare That God should be their God ; heard them entreat That He whom heaven itself, the heaven of heavens, Could not contain, would with them deign to dwell. Gladdening their Home and hearts with that same smile That gladdens all above ; would own them His, Them and their household, and in trouble's day, Or when thick perils should beset them round, Such as must come to all, comfort and rest Beneath the shadow of his wings would give. Ye saw — for ye have spiritual vision clear — How rose their warm affections to the throne, * 34 HOME. As when of old the smoke of incense, cast On glowing altars, rose in circling wreaths, And He who dwelt between the cherubim Smelled a sweet savor. Thou thyself didst hear, Thou without whom not e'en the sparrow falls ; The trust Thou didst accept, and didst command Thy blessing ; charge to all good angels Thou Didst give, by night and day, with ceaseless guard All evils to forefend, save such as needs Must be for Virtue's sake, that ever best Thrives while she wrestles, by thy grace made strong. Henceforth, thrice happy pair, although for you Each day new cares may spring and duty set New tasks, with these shall come celestial Peace, And, where God dwells and dear domestic love. Shall nestle and abide. Earth's purest joys, tlnsating because pure, there fresh shall spring As o'er you swiftly pass the fleeting years : Till from this earthly Home ye pass to heaven. -^ ^ 4^ I SAW her upon nearer view, A Spirit, yet a Woman too ! Her household motions light and free, And steps of virgin liberty ; A countenance in which did meet Sweet records, promises as sweet ; A creature not too bright or good For human nature's daily food ; For transient sorrows, simple wiles, Praise, blame, love, kisses, tears, and smiles. Wordsworth. There are smiles and tears in the mother's eyes, For her new born babe beside her lies ; O heaven of bliss ! when the heart o'erflows With the rapture a inother only knows ! Henry Ware, Jr. * PART II. f~\ JOY of joys ! the joy of wedded hearts, That at God's shrine in youthful freshness joined, Are one for ever — mystery of love ! Thenceforth, like two clear fountains side b}^ side, That pour their waters into one bright stream. They blend their free affections, till the tide. In one deep channel, floweth ever on. As in green meadows by some river's side. Spring 'neath the sun daisy and violet. With many a peer, of many a name and tinge. And blossom numberless to grace the scene ; So where that sacred current affluent glides Through the charmed valley of domestic bliss. Shoot forth all virtues that humanity Do most adorn and beauty lend to life. Here sheltered, they may bud and bloom secure ^J JL , — » 38 HOME. From beasts that raven the wide world abroad ; In rich luxuriance grow, and crow^n thee, Home, With graces that most charm the pure in heart. No cynic eye thy secrecy invades, To note, and noting check, love's language true, That half unconsciously, with artless art. And simplest act, some secret meaning tells. A gentle word ; a glance ; perchance a kiss ; Or whate'er slightest ministry may prove Expressive of the fulness that o'erflows Each happy heart — so hours as minutes fly ! In this, his fortress. Love in freedom reigns ; Commands, obeys, nor to distinguish knows Dut}^ and pleasure, since they here are one. Now wakes the morn — Nature's great miracle, Repeated ever, yet for ever new — When start afresh the busy wheels of life, That through night's silent reign awhile stood still Listen ! what mingled sounds swell on the ear, While kindle Nature's slumbers into smiles ! T<\ ""r HOME. 39 The groves, but now so still, grow vocal, and pour forth From thousand tuneful throats such melodies As might e'en Dulness, drowsy maid, herself Awake to ecstasy. June's unmown fields Stand tremulous, all wet with silvery dew, Night's grateful benison. The clouds that hung Like parting curtains when the day awoke, Transfigured, glow as dipped in Tyrian dyes Of hue celestial — ruby, jasper, gold. The chariot of the King of Day they seem. In which, with pomp ascending o'er the heights, He climbs the noonward path. The wreathing mists That hide, and yet reveal, the stream that winds Along the quiet valley, slowly lift, Like beauty's veil, and show the grace beneath. The voice of flocks and herds that hasten forth Eager to taste the pasture blend confused, Yet please the listening ear. The flowery train, With which bright Summer loves at early dawn Her retinue to fill, spread o'er the fields, 1 40 HOME. Entincturlncr with their breath the rovincr wind That wooes them in their sweetness, while they seem, As if in conscious life, to glow with joy. These, Morning, are thy charms ; and ever new, From bounding childhood down to tottering age. To hearts with inborn tenderness endowed, And natures finely tuned, they yield delight. Yet 'tis when hearts most leap with gladsome life, And passion's impulses ; with eager hopes. Imaginations, fancies, visions, dreams. And, born of these, emotions, like pent fires That will not be repressed, but force their way ; 'Tis when youth's throbbing pulses send their blood Swift coursing through the veins, and every sense And sensibility is quick and keen ; 'Tis most of all when love, pure, happy love. So permeates wdth its subtile force the breast. That thought and purpose, sympathy and will, Delighted own its sway ; oh, yes ! 'tis then That most the world enrobes itself in light, ^?r * HOME. 41 With beauty all suffused ; that morn and eve, Sun, moon, and stars, and ocean, lake, and stream, Woods, hills, and fields, and all earth's features fair. Seem as incarnadined with roseate hues. And through the liquid air there seems to float A glory, that intoxicates the soul With dreamy bliss, and to the softened heart Makes Nature's simplest, lowliest work divine. 'Twas thus exultant and elate, that morn. That Edward stood, with Mary at his side. And from the casement gazed, with open heart Drinking all sweetness from the radiant scene, Through every sense ; while in her beaming face He saw reflected his own tranquil joy. To both, on this their wedded life's first day, With omens kind begun, ne'er looked before The world so beautiful ; ne'er God himself, The Infinite Creator, seemed so good. And while, with the ascending sun, went up From off the dewy earth the morning mists, "k — ^ ^ 42 HOME. ^ Rising like incense, from their tuneful lips And hearts o'erflowing, rose their hymn of praise With fervent orisons to listening Heaven, Whither no voice of love ascends in vain. Is then the goal attained? Is this retreat — The dream of many a year at last fulfilled — A bower of ease, in which, with lotus charm, The past may be forgot; the future, veiled In golden haze, be all unquestioned left. And purpose high in pleasure's cup be drowned ? No ! In the blissful shades where primal man Walked innocent with God, 'twas given to dress And keep the garden — toil no natural ill. For use, O mortal, God thy powers hath given, And made their use a joy. In labors meet. Pursued for virtue's ends, in good achieved And triumphs won by sacrifice, by love Enlarged and w4th all generous yearnings filled, Thou shalt such pleasures find as most exalt Thy being and thy restless soul compose. * "^ HOME. 43 Not by ignoble ease, but noble deeds, Thou dost reveal the spirit all divine That in thee lives and makes thee like to God And brother of the angels, who, as winds And flames of fire, are swift to work his will ; For thee, as them, to serve is to be blest. Home hath its tasks. Each day demands anew The thoughtful purpose and the skilful hand. Thou, Mary, now crowned queen of this fair realm, Must wield thy sceptre and with gentle grace, Grace that to thee is power, shouldst wield it well. 'Tis thine this Home to fashion as thou wilt ; To give it thine own impress, till it seems Pervaded by thy spirit — full of thee ! 'Tis thine to guard its order, beauty, health; To keep it ever free from passion's jar And discord's grating tones, nor e'er permit The clamors of the rude and noisy world Its quiet to invade. Here thou hast power, By thine own magic arts, o'er all to shed i 44 HOME. The living air of joy, that whoso breathes Shall seem, as by enchantment, warmed and fillfd With genial gladness. Here, by thee beguiled. The troubled brow shall lose its furrows, deep By cares inwrought ; the heavy heart grow light And gather strength and courage for new toils. Music with sounding string and richest strain, And Poesy with all her visions rare, And kindred arts whose simplest gifts may please, Shall blend their charms to grace thy queenly state, Obedient to thy summons. Nor shall Mirth Withhold her ringing laugh when thou shalt call ; But, with all innocent pleasures in her train, Shall come to visit thee and lend her aid To make thy court earth's fairest, happiest spot. Yet not to Hstless ease, nor pleasure's round. The hfe inane that pampered luxury Elsewhere delights to lead, thy realm be given. This is thy pride. New England, that thy Homes With healthful industries did e'er abound. • HOME. 45 Thy matrons, in the halcyon days of yore, Lived not alone to order well their house And ply the needle, but with vigorous grasp Wielded the loom ; and from the distajff drew With busy hand and foot the flaxen thread ; Carded the wool and twirled the humming wheel. O days of sweet content ! No need was then That commerce rifle every foreign strand From India to Peru, with raiment meet Brought from afar, the household to attire. If of this glory thou no more canst boast As thou wast wont — so times and manners change — Yet are thy dwellings Industry's abode ; Her name is honored there. So let it be, Till Plymouth Rock itself shall waste with years ! Yes, Mary ! If a queen thou hast been crowned, Forget not that with crowns there needs must come Duty and care. Life opens now to thee Its long perspective, and arrayed thou seest, Far stretching on before, its years of toil ; * ^ 46 HOME. ■^ Pleasing, not terrible, the vision seems. Thou wouldst not live a cipher. Thy young heart Throbs with its eagerness a part to bear, Some worthy part, among the good and brave Who live to conquer ill, and love the strifes Whose prize is gladness and whose fruits are Peace. No weak ambition thine to send thy name Resounding, like an echo, through the world; Made common on all lips, sullied perchance By its rude contacts, and its fragrance lost ! Wiser, thou choosest in the tranquil sphere Of (Jear domestic peace, by duty done To grave thine image on the loving hearts That gather round thee, to thine influence sweet Opening, as lilies on the placid stream Bare their fair bosoms to the grateful sun. Nobler thou deem'st the task, that manly heart Now knit to thine, beyond all chance to hold Loyal to thee and restful in thy truth ; To make thyself his ever conscious want. His life's chief joy ; nor, striving, shalt thou fail ■^^ i HOME. 47 O'er him to throw thy spells. Thy morning smile Will sweetly haunt him through the livelong hours. E'en 'mid the din of business, on his ear Will steal thy tones. As thou each day for him, So he for thee, shall think and plan and toil. Wealth, honor, fame — whate'er of either crowns His patient strivings, most of all for thee His thought will prize ; and nightly at thy feet. With noble pride, he will exulting lay The trophies he has won. Or if perchance, In the rough contacts of a restless world. Where thickly, oft, keen shafts of malice fly, He hath been wounded sore ; if on him fall Misfortune's lowering shade, with doubt and dread That tire the soul with watching, and his heart. Firm though it be, half faints ; he then to thee Shall turn for strength and healing ; and thy voice, Thy cheering glance, thy counsels and thy prayer, Shall nerve him all anew ; with ardor fired Shall send him to the battle's front again, New triumphs in heroic strife to win. 48 HOME. 1^ Thou too shalt own his power. As he to thee Shall turn for love's deep tenderness, and warm Each day anew his heart at the pure flame That, as on vestal altars, ever glows Within thy breast ; so thou when burdens press, Or dangers gather thick, in him shall see Thy helper strong ; and ever by his side More surely thou shalt scale the rugged steeps And passes perilous that wait thy feet. In his life thou shalt live, and so become Worthy of high companionship and meet. Sharing his struggles, with him to be crowned. Each year shall thus thy being's measure fill. The treasures hidden in thy soul unlock, And make thee rich in dignity and grace, And all that most exalts ; till thou, the wife, Shalt stand confessed the glory of the man Thy husband, and he thine; by trial each Proved to the other equal, helper, friend. "% >bi , __: ^ HOME. 49 Oh, lightly dance the hours, and swift the day Speeds round its circuit, if the heart be glad ! When with the frequent task and press of care Come many a kindly impulse, born of love. And many a fantasy, that warm the soul With ever fresh delight ; when sympathies Seem e'en, like odors that exhale, to rise Spontaneous, and to breathe themselves abroad As if from sheer exuberance ; and there flits Before affection's eye the image fair Of a dear face that absence cannot hide ; — Then, Time, thou turn'st in vain thy flowing glass, To mark thy flight ; no note the sand receives ! 'Tis so that in that Home days seem but hours. And weeks but days, and months, as weeks, go by. The blithesome wife guides all with patient skill. And taste that seems an instinct ; fain to make Parlor and library, each several room. Each mantle, niche and arch, or deep recess, Fair with chaste beauty, grateful to his eye Whose look approving, oft as he returns, 4 ^r 50 HOME. For her illuminates and gladdens all. Soon gorgeous Summer with light tread has passed ; And Autumn, laden with his fruits and sheaves, Enrobed and garlanded with dying leaves That dolphin-like grow beautiful in death, Has hasted by, and seems a vision gone ; Winter with hoary head and frosty breath Hath let loose all his storms, and the free streams And yielding earth hath fixed as adamant. Fled swiftly all ; yet, in their passing, rich In pleasures innocent and duties done ; In memories that, as treasures of the soul. Shall live unfading down to distant years. When, in life's twihght dim, quiescent age Backward shall turn to wander o'er the past. Then trod again shall be those evening strolls In the still gloaming, or when climbed the moon, While nature's kindliest influence softly stole O'er each fond heart ; lived o'er again shall be Those fireside hours when each by turns or read, Or eager listened to the thrilling tale, ^F" HOME. 51 To some old poet's lay, or ballad wild, Or History's roll of deeds and men renowned. But, blessed Home, these are not all thy joys; Yet undiscovered are thy purest springs, The streams untasted yet of holiest bliss From wedded love by God ordained to flow. Though now, ye favored pair, your cup seem full, A gladder hour is nigh ; a brighter star Than e'er before your watchful eyes did greet Now rises, o'er your path to shed its ray. Hark ! a new sound arrests the quickened ear ! A voice ! a cry ! — the cry of infancy ! Through every room it thrills ; the very walls That echo it, with sympathy seem touched.- A babe is born I Mother — O hallowed name ! Mary, that name is thine ! close to thy heart, Quick beating with a rapture all unknown Till this blest moment, thou dost fold and press Thy first born son ! Thine anguish all forgot, A joy so deep, so pure, so brimming o'er, k 52 HOME. Possesses thy whole being, that to thee It seems a new existence ; ay, so strange Thou almost deem'st it but a bhssful dream From which thou may'st awake. No — no ! Thou art a mother to eternal years I Life of thy life, that helpless one is born Immortal as the angels ; by thy side It shall still live when, as old seers have sung, The ancient heavens have been together rolled. And earth hath perished by devouring tire. 'Tis thine, for immortality, to guard and keep The priceless treasure. Unto thee 'tis given — No work of earth more sacred, more sublime — That trembling spirit to insphere in love," To fashion it by love's sweet ministries, Till faculties yet hidden, full revealed. Declare it fellow of the hosts of heaven ! No marvel if thy heart, at thoughts like these, Doth falter, burdened with the mighty trust. ^ ^ — 5^ HOME. 53 But not alone thou bear'st it. There is j^et Another hoi}" name. Thou, Edward, art A Father ! — name like God's ! a changeless name. Thy manly soul, warmed with paternal love. Calm, deep, and steady as a river's tide, By this new life shall feel its ow^n enlarged. More joyous made and richer. Thou shalt find In this, thy son, what seems another self; Another centre, round which may revolve Thy best affections and thy busy thought. E'en while his infant prattle wakes the smile Of fatherly delight, within thy breast Grave questionings shall rise, with hopes and fears. • " How with thee shall it fare, unconscious child — How wilt thou bear thyself, upon life's field Where foe meets foe and wile encounters wile ; Where hapless thousands fall, or, wounded sore, Survive but wrecks, unfit for noble tasks? What destinies are thine? Wait there for thee The shouts of triumph? or the pang and shame Of final, sad defeat?" So wilt thou ask; ^^ _- ^ ^ ■^ 54 HOME. And then, with impulse new, thy soul will rise To the firm purpose that in thee thy child Shall find a model true, a wisdom pure ; Shall see a life well hved, and with thee walk As one that breathes in virtue's bracing air ; As one divinely led, a child of heaven ! Father and Mother ! holiest names of earth ! Lo ! now, blest Home, thy circle made complete ! Thy pleasures full ! Now, in each throbbing breast, AH sweetest chords, unstruck before, are touched ; Vibrations exquisite, that slept, awake, And the' whole compass of the soul pours forth Harmonious peeans ; as some organ full — Drawn every stop — its perfect volume swells, ^ And with its faultless chorus charms the ear. Yet o'er the world, to each fond parent's eye, A nameless change has passed. A graver hue Now tinges earth and sky, that laughed before In flashing light and beauty ever gay. Not less the light and beauty, nor the bliss X. * ^ ^ ^ HOME. 55 Of those beholding ; but all things seem charged With meanings deeper far, that needs must lend An aspect chastened and a tone subdued To nature's face, softer yet richer too. Emotions now first waked, and loftier aims Than e'er before had stirred the conscious soul Write on each brow new dignity of thought. As when is read some drama, rarely wrought By genius' magic pen, the first act past, That with strange power the attentive mind hath seized, All note of time is lost, or heeded not. While act on act succeeds till comes the last, That disenchants the reader spell-bound long ; So when thy scenes, dear Home, divinely planned, Have opened as if bathed in silver light, Have cheerily swept on beyond the days Of love's first raptures and the blissful hour When felt the first-born's brow a mother's kiss, The plot fast thickens, and intenser grow The sympathies that fill and hold the heart, * ^ ^ m 56 HOME. Ever yet more content, while through quick years The changeful action hasteth swiftly on. One' charming prattler scarce hath learned to lisp The names most musical to infant tongues, Ere yet another cherub face appears In the pleased household, and in time's full round Yet others still. Come added cares with each. And duties new ; but with such gushing love. Such influx of deep joy, that all forgot Or drowned in ecstasies, or tranquil bliss. The weightier burdens seem. Life richer grows, As, with the years, fair sons and daughters rise In beauty fresh, like olive plants, to stand. Father and mother ! How their hearts expand, As large, and larger yet, becomes the sphere Where sweet affections reign ; where brother blends His rougher vigor with a sister's grace ; Somewhat each borrows and each somewhat lends, And all, as one, true filial honor pay. Home, thou art richer so than piled with gold "k — ^ -k HOME. 57 And rarest gems, yet wanting loving hearts ; Fairer than with all garniture bedecked Of princely halls, with splendors cold, and pride. If matched with thine, all other jewels pale ; E'en God himself with pleasure thine beholds. Brothers and sisters ! what blest concord binds .Congenial souls that breathe in virtue's air ! How are they knit by inborn instincts kind. By common blood and birth, by childhood's sports Together shared in many a shining hour. By transient griefs, and alternations quick Of hope and fear, that each has felt with all, All felt with each. Concord more perfect made By such sHght discords as in all have wrought More watchful tenderness of patient love. More of thy strength, divine self-sacrifice ! Dwells then, O Earth, e'en in thy fairest spot, A perfect bliss? Giv'st thou enduring joys. Where nothing fixed abides? The circling years, That swiftly chase each other in their flight. i^ -^ ¥ ^ 58 HOME. Bring ceaseless change. Lo ! Morning with her dews, And songs and bloom ; still Evening with her shades ; Sabbaths with holy calm, that yield too soon To seasons given to rounds of wearying toil ; Months marked by waxing and by waning moons ; Spring with its waking life, Summer arrayed In robes that fade so soon ; Autumn that strips The teeming fields, and leaves them brown and sere ; Winter that with his storms deep buries all Kind Nature's smiles beneath his chilling snows ! Each comes but to depart, nor long abides. See how like withering grass all beauty fades, And strength to weakness turns ; how the firm rock Slowly, but surely, crumbleth back to dust ; How life's uncounted forms dissolve, O Death, At thy cold touch that blighteth all alike ! Hath earth one spot so sheltered, so secure. That there no change, no pang, no sense of loss. No fear of ill, no sorrow, e'er can come? No: even within thy precincts, sacred Home, Must it at last be known that 'neath the sun No mortal heart can beat and feel no wound. 2^ HOME. 59 Edward, what aileth thee, that anguish sits Where smiles, hke glancing lights, were wont to play ? Mary, thy cheek is blanched ; th}^ restless eye Turns frequent here and there, as if it sought To rest on one with whom might come relief! Ah, yes ! a tender lamb of that fair flock O'er which to watch hath been by day, by night, Thy life's chief joy, now by the wayside droops ; Droops on from hour to hour ; no skill avails To cool the fevered brow, or light again The languid eyes that kindle now no more. In vain, O mother, have thy faithful arms Enfolded him and pressed him to thy heart. No care, nor yearning of maternal love, Nor father's wrestling hope, can stay the step Of Sorrow — awful form ! — too clearly seen Advancing ; in her hands the cup of woe. Of which 'tis given all mortal lips to taste. 'Tis o'er. Hark ! Hark ! soft on the startled ear Music unearthly steals ! celestial notes 60 HOME. And melodies, as from the airy lips Of spirits all unseen, with mingled lyres Touched as by angel fingers, seem to fill The tranquil air. Ye cannot catch the strain, But well ye deem that lovingly it greets The gentle spirit of its clay disrobed. Bear — bear the cherub, angels, to His arms Who in his mortal years such lambs did fold Close on his heart with heavenly grace and smiles. And blessed and called them his, and said, — " Of such Heaven's holy kingdom shall for ever be." He hath its name already on his hands Engraven, and hath watched it as his own ; And with a tenderness surpassing thine, O mother. He thine innocent will meet. Will soothe its fears and win its love with smiles Of sweetness so divine that it shall need No more e'en thy dear ministries, to fill Tfie measure of its bliss to full content. What thou hadst thought to teach it. He will teach, Of wisdom, goodness, beauty, truth, and love; * HOME. 6l His care will guard and train it till the hour When thou shalt come, the blessed day arrived, With thine own ej^es, long waiting, to behold The vision of the Lamb. Back to thine arms Then He the faithful Shepherd shall restore Thy child — still thine — the same o'er which did fall Thy bitter tears when lost to thee he seemed. The same, yet not the same ! more beautiful Beyond compare, e'en as the hyacinth That perfect stands, unfolded every grace, Is lovelier than the bulb that held it once, And hid its purple hues. Ah ! then thy joy The memory of thy grief at last shall drown ; And with all ecstasies of thankful love And praise admiring, shall thy soul o'erflow. He lies upon the bier, pale, silent, cold, Yet beauteous still. Disease hath stolen away But little from the face that late did seem Almost a seraph's. On the marble brow Chiselled so daintily, so calm, so pure, 5^r :^^ ^^ — ^ ^ — — ^ 62 HOME. Lies, as in carelessness, the flaxen hair. In tranquil slumber one might deem he rests, But that the leaden eye a sleep bespeaks Too deep for waking. Folded on the breast, Now motionless, repose the snowy hands With flowers o'er-strown ; strange contrast ! e'en as when Thick clustering violets are seen to spring, Or lilies of the valley, w^here the drifts Of winter part, touched by the vernal sun. Mary, they saw thee come — and stand — and gaze — As if thy soul, wdth anguish wrestling long. At last had mastered its fierce inward strife ; As if a self-command that awful seemed Had changed thee to a statue ; saw thee take Thy last, last look, and heard thy lips pronounce, " My boy — thou'rt mine no more ! I give thee back To God who gave thee ! O farewell I — farewell ! " So triumphed faith when anguish wrung the heart ; And as the rainbow spans the cloud o'erpast, Emblem of peace that waits beyond the storm, HOME. 63 Thou saw'st with tranquil eye dark sorrow's gloom, Irradiate with the glow of heaven's own light, The pledge of days serene beyond these tears, The harbinger of healing, rest, and peace. * k — ^ PART III. * ^ WOULDST thou from sorrow find a sweet relief? Or is thy heart oppressed with woes untold ? Balm wouldst thou gather for corroding grief? Pour blessings round thee like a shower of gold ! 'Tis when the rose is wrapped in many a fold Close to its heart, the worm is wasting there Its life and beauty ; not when all unrolled, Leaf after leaf, its bosom rich and fair Breathes freely its perfumes throughout the ambient air. Carlos Wilcox. There blend the ties that strengthen Our hearts in hours of grief, The silver links that lengthen Joy's visits when most brief! Then dost thou sigh for pleasure ? Oh, do not widely roam ! But seek that hidden treasure At Home, dear Home ! Bernard Barton. ^T * PART III. /^ Sx\CRED spot of earth, where gentle hands Have laid the fragile form, so late suffused With life's first glow, beneath the friendly mould ; To slumber undisturbed where daisies spring Unbidden, and the turf, with every dawn, Seems wet afresh with tears ! There by fond hands Ivv and myrtle have been taught to twine ; The snow-drop spotless and forget-me-not To bloom in simple beauty, emblems meet Of purity and of immortal love. The friendly trees their drooping boughs o'erhang As if in sympathy. The summer birds Chant tender carols through the shining hours ; And mingled lights and shades so softly blend, That neither garish day nor gloom doth reign, But grateful twilight lingers ever there. "^iL. 6S HOME. Dear, oft-frequented scene ! 'Tis not that here The sorrowing heart deems its lost treasure hid. The living spirit that once blithely wore The mortal robe that wasteth here to dust, Dwells far, far hence, it knows, 'neath kinder skies. But memories all undying centre where This dust reposes, quick to stir anew ; Oft as with lingering steps this scene is trod, The past is lived again ; its bliss renewed ; And grief becomes but tenderness and hope, Till o'er the heart there steals a holy calm. And balm from heaven hath healed its bleeding wounds. Toil is no curse to mortals ; nor the cares That make the price for life's best comforts paid. Both have a charm — when on the saddened heart Despondency and griefs, like clouds, have hung Till into starless night day seems transformed — The tide of ever busy thought to turn ; That winding ever farther, farther on. Behind it leaves the dreariness and wastes ; * HOME. 69 And as, by slow degrees, new visions rise, New scenes and aspects woo and win the soul ; Rekindle drooping hope and wake new joy ; Till — how one knows not^- all along life's way Sweet landscapes smile again and days are glad ; Welcome is duty's call, and future years Invite to high endeavor, as they spread Bright vistas opening far ; and every pulse With healthful beating tells the heart is strong. Thou that hast suffered, brood not o'er thy woes. But to thy tasks ! Thy losses and thy pangs Forget in cheerful toil ; thyself forget. There be who love thee yet ; whom thou dost love ; For God and these still be it thine to live ; And, all unwearied, in love's ministries. Go labor on and in thy works rejoice. Edward and Mary ! for you gather yet Around the household board a ruddy band, Like cluster roses that upon one stalk Hang in their sweet luxuriance ; some in bud. \i^ \\ ■ % 70 HOME. Some just revealing a first crimson line ; Some half unfolded, some in their full bloom ; One charming whole, of diverse charms combined. 'Tis vours o'er infancy kirtd watch to keep ; To listen to the words half-formed that fall From ruby lips just stammering to pronounce ; x\nd childhood's shout and laugh, perchance its cries, Since showers and sunshine fill its changeful day. 'Tis yours to note youth's impulses, that swell With passion's rising flood the heaving breast That resteth not, but yearns with vague desire; That needs kind sympathy and wisest skill, To cool the fever of fresh life that throbs # With pulses too intense, and shape aright The forming purpose and aspiring aim. To these high tasks returned, your faces wear A smile of peace again, and hope's bright glow. The missing, not forgot, hath been transformed Into a precious jewel of the soul. That, in the dear fidelity of love, With many a pensive, many a pleasing thought. ^^ ^ . ^ ^ HOME. 71 Is kept with memory's holiest trusts enshrined. Sometimes, perchance, when on the vacant chair, Some childish plaything needed now no more. Or garment laid aside, the eye may rest, A sudden tear, a shaded brow, may tell How in the constant heart still lives the lost. Yet steadily again life's current glides Along the wonted channels, where the banks j Wave, as of old, with woods and summer flowers. And bees hum softly and the west wind plays, And earth and skies once more are robed in light. Childhood ! thy bliss who hath not sung that e'er The harp to tender melodies hath touched? What is thy secret? What thy hidden joys. So pure, so full, that left far, far behind. In memory still they live ; yea, dearer seem. As hoary age through gliding years steals on? E'en thy glad morning is not without clouds That cast their gloomy shades. Not all unwet With tears thy glowing cheeks ; thy heart not free * ^ ^ 72 HOME, From transient disappointments that corrode ; From chafing impulse and oft-crossed desire. Yet art thou happy as the bounding fawn That all day long, beside the lonely lake And 'neath the arches of the forest deep, Gambols at will, nor knows or want or fear. • Thy griefs abide not ; soon the shadows flee That cross thy path, and sunbeams gild again Whate'er thine eye beholds, till all the world For thee in gladness laughs, and sings for joy ! As yet thou canst not know the fretting cares, The toils and weariness and bodeful fears. The buffetings with dark misfortune's tide O'erwhelming w^hen too late for all retrieve. These w^ait on ripened years. 'Tis meet that thou, Dear child, to whom th}^ ignorance is bliss, Shouldst drink the cup of innocent delight Placed at thy lips, nor on the future draw For aught to check thy heart's exulting play. HOME. 73 As in yon garden tastefully inhedged And consecrate to beauty, rarest flowers Of many a name thick clustering fill the place That seems a realm, a kingdom, all their own, Blending in rich variety their charms ; E'en so, O genial Home — secluded, made By Heaven's kind law the nursery of joys Only within thy loved enclosure known — In thee all healthful pleasures, ever fresh, Should spring abundant, and luxuriant grow Filling all days and hours, and months and years, With influences that wake and warm and cheer ; That send exhilaration through the soul. And with refreshment bring a calm content. Father and mother ! yours the task to plan With tireless constancy and thoughtful skill. That boy, nor girl, for lack of joy at home. Shall from the hearthstone turn and wander far To quench at poisoned streams the thirst they feel. Brothers and sisters — let each have their sports By instinct chosen oft, if choice be given ; * 74 HOME. Sports such as best befit each sex and age By nature's steady laws and inborn taste ; With others that together shared shall best Give fresh young hearts delight, and make them bound All joyously with sympathetic bliss. Nor, O ye parents, let your hearts grow old ; As oft your breasts have throbbed with childish glee And youthful ardors, yet remembered well ; Have felt the restlessness of keen desire That seemed a quenchless thirst ; still let them hold Kind fellowship with new-born life and joy. Be ye with childhood, children — youth, with youth; Nor deem that aught of dignity, or grace. Is lost by nursery raptures, heard afar In echoing laughs and shouts from lisping tongues ; Scorn not to tell or hear the thrice-told tales Of Fairies, Giants, and all monsters dire. And chant quaint melodies, tradition's trust. Safe handed down through generations dead ! Fail not when merry girlhood courts thy smile ^ : '■ ^ ^ HOME. 75 With lips carnationed and her locks of gold, To greet the baby house and black-eyed dolls, Dressed and undressed and nursed through blissful hours. Frown not when roisterous boys or toss or strike The bounding ball, or leap, or run, or ride The mastered steed that, as the rider, loves The rushing course ; or when with ringing steel The polished ice they sweep in winter's reign. All pleasing pastimes, innocent delights, That gladden hearts yet simple and sincere, Let love parental gather round the Home, And consecrate by sharing ; let it watch With kind, approving smiles each merry game That quickens youthful blood, and, in the joy That beams from crimson cheeks and sparkling eyes, Its own renew, and live its childhood o'er. So shall the scenes where life's fleet-footed years Glide by with noiseless speed at last become Memory's rich treasure-field, be all o'erspread As with a radiant flood of golden sheen ; ^^ 1 7B 76 HOME. Such as, on cloudless days in eastern climes, With the still, haz}^ air seems interfused, Enrobing with a dreamy loveliness All visible things, transfigured in its glow. 'Tis so that tottering age, with fading e3'e, Still sees thee, childhood, glorious as of old, And of all earth's delights thine last forgets. But childhood's glory fades ; its visions change ; For sweet simplicity and guileless trust. Come youth's unrest, and thoughts that wider sweep, With keener search and washes reaching far ; And yearnings vague that crave they know not what ; Imaginations of all shapes and hues That make earth seem a dreamland, and bright hopes That in all o-ororeous tints life's future limn. Deep in the breast the sense of powers divine Yet slumbering, stirs the eager soul with thirst For wisdom's living streams, impels to curb The impulses by pleasure's luring call Awakened oft, and give to high pursuit HOME. 77 And silent solitude where knowledge dwells, Long years whose disciplines may manhood yield. Yes, Learning, 'tis of Home that thou art born ! Its needs demand thee and its tastes create. Thy schools, thy classic halls and tranquil shades, Haunted with memories of the nobly great. Whose storied deeds and names that cannot die. The pride of ages dead, enchantment lend That seems like perfume breathed on all the air ; Where linger still the echoes ever sweet Of lays renowned that Time's great bards have sung ; Where yet resound the words of fire pronounced By orators who spake when balanced hung On the swift moment destinies sublime ; Where, in fit gallery and alcove ranged. Stand art's grand triumphs, wisdom's treasured lore. All wonckrs most divine by genius wrought. Of centuries the lesson and the light ; — These — these of household culture are the fruit ; Culture that early, as wdth heaven's own fire. Inflames the generous heart; refines, exalts. * 7^ HOME. And with ambition's purest glow inspires The youthful soul, not yet by sense enchained.* O spectacle divine, where, heart to heart, Father and mother, sons and daughters, blend Their inborn sympathies in concert blest ! One body well compact by love's great law ; Each member fit, in its own native grace. To fill the measure of the perfect whole. Envies and jealousies, ye grow not here Indigenous, as hated nettles spring 'Mid rows of marjory and beds of thyme ; Or if ye start — since e en earth's fairest spot Yields still some noxious weeds — are quick subdued, As all unmeet to" root and flourish thus. Oft by attrition in its torrent bed The precious gem may wear its roughness down. Till from its polished surface back the beam That brightl}^ falls is thrown as bright again ; So generous souls in daily contact lose Appendix, Note C. k HOME. The excrescences of nature and the faults That, left unheeded, must ere long become Deformities, of God and man abhorred. As year on year fulfils its circling round, Thou, Edward, no test with a father's pride Thy Edith's maiden charms that ripen fast Toward fairest womanhood. Oft o'er thy heart Steals there a tranquil joy, a deep delight, As 'neath thy watchful eye that wearieth not, New dignity and grace her form invest ; New beauty tints her cheek, new thoughtfulness Sits on her brow and lends her beaming eye A deeper meaning and a milder fire. Thou, Mary, on thy Alfred lov'st to fix With tenderness profound thy earnest gaze. God-given was he in place of thy first-born, That Christ desired and angels bore away ! So doubly dear ; and now that in his face Thou readest thoughtfulness, and seest revealed Reason's calm light, and wakened intellect, 79 j.'k ^ 80 .HOME. Imagination, hope, and purpose high; Now that with quickened heart-throbs thou dost mark His manly form and mien ; whene'er thou wilt, Dost find in him companionship, his arm Thy strong support ; his words a daily joy ; Thy mother's heart exults, nor would exchange Its deep, deep bliss for Ophir's glittering heaps. Or widest fame 'mid noisy contests won. Thy woman's nature rests with full content In these thy household treasures — asks no more. How beautiful art thou, O Youth ! Not lost As yet in thee the sweetness and the grace Of childhood left behind ; but, richer far, Thou wearest graces that are all thine own. More full the sympathies that warm thy breast ; Thy thought more searching ; keener far thy ken — The vision of the soul athirst to know Where hides true wisdom ; larger thy desires Far wandering, like the wanton summer winds That rove o'er regions wide and dalliance hold 2^ HOME.. :^ 8i With all sweet odors, ever restless still ; Loftier thy purpose, more sublime thy thought Than childhood ever knew, or e'er could know. A youthful band — their souls all closely knit In the pure love that of one blood and birth By nature's law^ doth ever richly spring, As from full fountains, in the cloistered Home, A scene present on which e'en Heaven must smile. Nor moves the round of household pleasures on In dull monotony that needs must cloy. Home hath its festal days — its holy times — When fresh delights exhilarate ; when Mirth Seizes the sceptre and asserts her reign. And Laughter, her prime minister, she bids Wake rapturous echoes all her realm around ! When on affection's altar, with one will. The gathered household their fresh offerings lay ; Intent that there, like holy altar fire, Love's quenchless flame may ever brightly burn. 6 ^r^ * 82 HOME. . Dear old Thanksgiving ! How the hallowed word Restores, as in a moment, vanished years ! How back to life the honored dead it calls, Whose hoary heads and venerable forms The bounteous board of old were wont to grace ! They seem to come and sit and smile again, And with their children's children share the joy. How brothers, sisters, all companions dear Of life's unclouded morn, together flow From regions wide remote, and young again, At least in heart, renew the 'scenes of yore I This from the crowded city ; that from where The Prairie's naked bosom tempts the plough ; Perchance another, from beyond the flood Where Mississippi pours his torrent down. Or from fair Florida, beneath whose skies Magnolias spotless open all their charms, And orange blossoms scent the tranquil air. But come they whenceso'er, they come to prove Unlost, unweakened, the old love of Home. Joy ! Joy ! Thanksgiving, that o'er all the land, To-day a Nation's benison thou art. ir. ^ ■ '■ ^ HOME. 83 And thou too, ancient festival, whose name A word of joy through centuries hath Hved — Christmas ! thou com'st with carols as of old When angels chanted 'neath the midnight sky, "Glory to God on high, good will to men ! " Methinks angelic choirs beyond the stars Still warble round Messiah's throne the strain. Earth well may lift her voice in jubilant praise And all true hearts exulting greet the day That tells the world anew the Christ is born ! Let holly, box, and fir tree lend their boughs, Symbols of life imrriortal, to adorn Each Christian temple. Ring, ring out, ye bells, Sweet chimes that shall afar glad echoes start ! Then while the very air with love and peace Seems all surcharged, within thee, happy Home, Childhood and youth and hoaiy age may tell. With many a gift and many a token kind, With chastened merriment and generous cheer, How beat in holy unison all hearts. O Babe of Bethlehem ! to Thee we owe * ^ 84 HOME. Home's dearest ministries and purest bliss. Not less with mortal pleasures innocent, Than mortal pains and tears, thy loving heart Hath sympathy, for Thou art Goodness' self! Next for the household comes the opening year With greetings fervent, wishes true and kind, From each to each, of countless happy da3's I With the old year deep buried all neglects. Now friendship's record, as on a fresh page Unsullied, the New Year once more begins. As with a chastened tenderness, farewell Is said to the departed months, whose round. On Time's great calendar, has been fulfilled. Age, ripe in piety, with faith confirmed, All thankfulh^ recalls the past, yet still Looks onward to the Father's House on high. Well pleased the golden gates more near to see. Childhood and youth, exultant, note how fast Years bear them forward to the longed-for scenes So gorgeous to their thought, of life's broad stage. "7^ f^ . ^ HOME. 85 On which parts all heroic, as they dream, Wait for their entrance, pre-ordained for them ! Nowhere, as where abides domestic love, So richly " Happy " dawneth the New Year. But best and dearest to the household comes The day of holy rest ; God's sabbath day ; From the world's early morning consecrate To piety and peace, to prayer and praise. And all the sanctities of worship paid ; To pleasures such as days of toil know not ; To love, the grace that the whole law fulfils — Mother of virtues — of all thoughts and deeds That to the pure in heart divinest seem, And e'en to earth some semblance lend to heaven. With the fresh morn, while grateful stillness reigns — Stopped the great treadmill of the world awhile — Parents and children meet with greetings kind Around the wonted altar. The calm hour No haste demands ; and first to heaven ascends In one sweet harmony, from joyful lips, :^^ * 86 HOME, The Hymn that to the ear of Love divine Tells of each heart's deep, fervent thankfulness, More welcome than frankincense. Then the sire, Priest of the family by God ordained, From prophet old, or Psalmist, words of life Reads reverently, as if afresh they came From God's own lips to gladden trusting hearts ; Or lessons from His mouth who, Light of men, Spake as no mortal tongue e'er spake besides ; Or from the story of his mighty deeds, His lowliness, and grace that reached to all. His shameful cross and wondrous sacrifice ! Then at the mercy-seat together bowed. One tender voice, the worship of all hearts Pours forth in utterance simple and sincere : Forgiveness asks for common faults confessed, x\nd praise heartfelt, for blessings shared, presents To Him without whom not a sparrow falls ; Life, health and comfort, all most dear, commit. For coming days, to his o'er-watching care ; And 'neath the shadow of his wings to dwell ^ -^ — ^« HOME. 87 Entreats, one brief request including all. So pass the peaceful hours. From morn till eve Pleasures succeeding pleasures fill the day. When the glad bells up to God's temple call, With one consent the household join the throng That tread the hallowed aisles, their hearts the while Drawn to each other closer, while they rise Godward in prayer and song, and hear the word That life eternal tells. Then home returned, With books and cheerful talk and songs that stir All pure affections, the loved day they close. Of sabbaths such as this the memories kept Among the heart's best riches, shall remain Till earth's last week shall end and brightl}^ dawns The endless sabbath, the sweet rest of heaven. A time for all things — thus the wise man spake, And — beautiful in its own time is each. Not always, Edward, round thy bounteous board Will greet thee youthful faces wreathed in smiles ; Not always, Mary, will thy quick ear hear J:^ 88 HOME. Mother ! — earth's dearest word — from morn till eve Fall lovingly from many a coral lip. Ye have been sowing long. With line on line, Lessons of wisdom and of heavenly trutn, No season lost, it hath been yours to pour Into fresh opening souls, that to receive What from your lips distilled were ever fain. Have ye not sought to form for virtue's tasks, To shape to some true life-work, these the sons And daughters given from God, your highest trust? Draws nigh the reaping time. What most your hearts For many a year have wished, your eyes shall see — Your children, girded for life's contests high, By Providence led forth. For this ye prayed. Arrows not always in the quiver rest ; Fledged birds, not in the nest for ever stay ; Arrow, or bird, each at its hour must fly. Onward — still onward — is the call divine That all of mortal birth must hear and heed. 'Tis so that pleasures ever new are born Out of new issues and oft-shifting scenes ; * HOME.. 89 E'en things that most delight, unchanged should sate From sheer monotony. Thy pleasures, Home, Can only live through never-ceasing flow ; As brooks that hasten leaping, babbling on, x\re pure as crystal ever; but pent up. Forbid their course to run, do stagnate soon. And with green ooze breed noisomeness and death. Ay, parents, send them forth, as God shall call — Your best and dearest — not with fainting heart And tears regretful, at what Home must lose; But thankfully, since unto you 'tis given To God and man offerings so rich to bring. The gentle Edith ripe in maiden charms Yet more and more the magic power reveals Of cultured womanhood. Not wholly lost The witching artlessness of childish years, The airy freedom, the instinctive grace. So winsome, till by fashion's hateful code To chilling stiffness changed. Radiant she moves Amid Home's cheerful band, in beauty's light, )^ ^ , ^ 90 HOME. . As floats a planet in the evening sky, Bright and still brightening as it higher climbs. No bird of Paradise of plumage gay, In thought or wish she seems ; no trifler weak, With vain conceit inflate, self-conscious, quick With fluttering pulse to note each watchful glance Of kindling admiration. Such as these. Ye who would find may seek in fashion's halls, Where dwell not Home's simplicity and truth. Yet on her brow she wears, all clearly writ, Intelligence ; and in her beaming eyes, The joyousness that tells a guileless breast And yet unsounded depths of hidden love. Parental hearts grow warm at sight of her. And brothers look and worship. ' Oh, there's naught Can touch so tenderly the restive soul. Of youthful impulses o'erflowing full. And urged by uncurbed will and passion's power The tempter's voice to heed and choose the .wrong. As a fond sister's love, that wooes and wins, Attempers what is wayward unto good. * i HOME. 91 And by its own pure effluence maketh pure. Thou, Edith, art e'en as the warm south wind, That, from the Hps of Spring breathed o'er the fields, Whate'er is loveHest waketh into Hfe With silent Power, till all are robed in bloom. While Home thou blessest, thou thyself art blest. Goodness, to beauty joined, is like the flame That from the light-house on some towering clift^ O'er the wild waters throws its beams afar At nightfall, welcome to the wanderer's eye. Its glory streams abroad, nor can be hid ; But many an eye beholds it and admires. Ah ! maiden, thou that in thy freshness wear'st With modesty and gentleness and grace The charms that nature gave and goodness lends, With power these charms invest thee — power per- chance Beyond thy utmost thought — to scatter wide Influence that light and guidance both shall be To many a heart sincere, that so inspired ^— ^ * 92 HOME. Shall be by thee to nobler virtue won. The power to bless by charming — wondrous gift ! How rich who hath it ! How made like to God ! Woman, this most exalts thee and adorns ; Gives thee a sovereign sway, if so thou wilt, And makes thee as a spirit of ihe skies. To all, such Edith seemed. But most to one, Young Arthur, from her childhood playmate, friend, Sharer of frolic hours, and o'er the fields And thro' the shadowy woods, when summer glowed, Leader of many a ramble. Always kind. Homeward from school her satchel oft he bore, And through the winter snow her pathway trod ; Or cross the swollen brook, with friendly hand. By the rude stepping-stones, he safely led. With changing years advanced to manhood now, Transformed he seems, yet not another made. In manners courteous, almost distant grown. Yet is he near her oft, with calm content On his fair face clear written, and an eye ^ HOME. 93 That back reflects her glance, as she for him And he for her some secret fain would guard ; As if by some keen instinct each did read I The other's thought, to words not trusted yet — Not uttered in full phrase — yet half expressed Perchance not seldom, by some act or look, Some pressure of the hand, some opening bud Given to adorn the hair and meekly worn ; Some book together read, or some soft strain In the still twilight by two voices sung ! There is a time to love ! — a holy time When from deep well-springs in the throbbing breast Gush forth affection's purest, richest streams. And flow unchecked, bearing through all the soul Mysterious happiness ; when fleet-winged thought, As finished occupation sets it free, To the loved being flies and lingers long — As the wild bee, tasted the nectared cup. Delays, and yet delays, its homeward flight — Or, all impatient, in the busy hour. ^t- ^ ^ -•- ^ 94 HOME, Full oft it plays the truant and escapes ; Forgets all time and distance and afar Seeks the secluded walk, or well-known bower. O blissful season when the unfolding soul Puts forth all sweet affections ! w^hen bright shapes And visions, of imagination born. And yearnings vague, and hopes, and wishes, blend With a deep restlessness, that is not pain, But rather seems a rapture ; and all things. The heavens, the earth, life's many shaded scene, Past, present, future — future most — appear Glorious, enchanting, in love's aureate light. So in some grand cathedral, when the sun, Through the stained windows, his full lustre flings On priest and altar and the reverent throng Of worshippers that crowed the solemn aisles, 'Tis as a new Shekinah filled the place. And heaven's own splendors threw^ o'er all the scene. She is betrothed ! The changeless word is said ! Two souls are each to each for ever bound ! ^ -!?\ ^ HOME. 95 Is freedom then abjured — for bonds exchanged? Arthur and Edith, each once free as air, In thought, word, feeling, purpose, aim, and end — Sold each a royal birthright when the}^ sware* Henceforth to have one name, one life, one lot? Or hideth seeming loss some priceless gain? By somewhat yielded is it Heaven's great law That the young heart, with conscious need disturbed. Must find its fulness, what it restless craved? Bound ! Bound ! Ah ! thou that doubting askest — know That unto thee love's mystery as yet Is all unopened ; thou art but a child ! Thou hast not learned how, in the blissful sphere Where love triumphant reigns, a soul gains most When most it loses ; that when giving all It takes all and is blest. Two hearts made one In mystic unity of trustful love. Constraint know not, nor liberty e'er lack ; With full consenting wills as one they choose ; Or differing aught, for this alone contend. ^ 1<^ 96 HOME. How each to other first and most may yield ! No bonds like thine do bind, O heaven-born love, Yet as the angels free are loving souls ! Edith and Arthur, be the vernal days Of your betrothal arched w^ith azure skies And glad with melodies of warbling birds ! Enchanting be the twilights, and the sheen Of silvery moonlight on your evening paths ! Taste the dear joys of early love, and wait In ecstasy delicious for the hour When at the bridal altar blest ve stand. ^ , i^ Oh, hush the song, and let her tears Flow to the dream of her early years ! Holy and pure are the drops that fall. When the young bride goes from her fathers hall ; She goes unto love yet untried and new — She parts from love that hath still been true. Mrs. Henians. How happy he who crowns, in shades like these, A youth of labor with an age of ease ! Onward he moves to meet his latter end. Angels around befriending virtue's friend ; Sinks to the grave with unperceived decay. While resignation gently slopes the way ; And, all his prospects brightening to the last. His heaven commences ere the world be past, Golds7nith. * yf PART IV. ^ I ^HE bridal came. The holy vows were said. As on some April morn the changeful sky Lets fall, e'en through the sunshine, fitful showers, As each contending which the hour should rule ; So on that day alternate smiles and tears On each face came and went. O Edward, thou Thy struggling heart in vain dost strive to still ; Nor canst thou, Mary, when the sudden flood Of gushing tenderness o'erflows thy breast, Repress its heaving, or the quivering lip At once compose, or dry the moistened cheek. To-day a priceless jewel ye resign, That has adorned your casket, flashed for you ! A heart that made sweet music in its beat Of harmony with yours ; an eye whose glance. To you, like light from heaven, bore only joy ! -.- . — Jck lOO HOME. Brothers and sisters, from your blissful bower The full-blown rose ye loved is borne away, Elsewhere to shed its fragrance. Yet grieve not, As those who miss some treasure gone for aye. Love chooseth ever what the loved shall bless, And e'en in sacrifice finds sacred peace. Edith but goeth, at the will of Heaven, To kindle for herself a household flame Whose light afar shall shine. Herself on all Who in her bliss are blest, not less henceforth, With Arthur at her side, shall gladness shed, And to the Home she leaves shall not be lost. As some prolific tree whose boughs with fruit Bend earthward, yet through months of glowing suns Keeps all its treasure till the harvest hour Hath come at last; and, ripening once begun. The process hastens till there naught remains Save a bare gleaning on the plundered boughs That look all lonely ; so the Home where long Young hearts have lingered, clinging each to each J- * t HOME. lOI And to the hearthstone where they first drew breath, Must see them parted at the appointed bound. When comes the day of ripeness and the spell That held them one is broken, soon — ^ ah ! soon The bands seem loosened all, and one by one, Mature for life's high calling, goeth forth With many a backward look and secret pang ; Till where but now there stirred a cheerful throng Reigns the hushed quietness of emptied halls ! 'Tis so, O Time, that thy resistless hand With scene on scene the mortal drama fills.* Alfred and brothers twain too soon are missed When meet the household band. One burning heart Hath kindled into generous passionate love At Learning's shrine, by names illustrious fired That, shining as bright orbs through ages gone, Lit up the darkness, and for coming time Together blended form a milky way Glorious as that which spans night's ebon vault. * Appendix, Note D. V / ^^^ ' ^ ^ 1 02 HOME. In cloistered halls he hides for toilsome years, Youth's passion curbs, its restlessness subdues, And e'en as if to Learning's self betrothed, Life's busy throng forsakes with her to dwell. Another to the marts of hurrying trade His steps hath turned ; eager to tread where sweep, Now this way and now that, the surging tide Of rivalries that chafe and ventures high ; Where men for gain in life-long wrestlings strive, Now win, now lose, and oft, ere manhood's prime. Its sturdy strength w^ear out and die too soon. Thrice happy they whose hearts die not, nor lose All sweet humanities, though years be long And crowned with rich successes all unstained ! Turns fondly to his mother earth a third, By some deep impulse urged ; and far away Toward sunset regions he hath wandered forth To fix his dwelling where beyond the flood Broad Iowa her billowy bosom spreads. There, 'neath his hand, the virgin soil shall soon Grow genial, opened to the mellowing sun ; HOME. 103 Quicken the scattered seed, and in its time Reward the sower with the reaper's joy. Around the new-made Home his tasteful hand New beauties shall create. Well pleased his ear Shall note the voices, echoing far, of flocks And herds that 'mid abundance graze content ; Nor need he envy here the city's din As glide, in healthful toil, the peaceful years. Ah ! Time, at once giver and robber thou ! Ere life hath reached its noon, each year beholds Some gift possessed made richer, or some grace, Some power, or pleasure, all anew bestowed. But high noon passed, each year shall filch away Somewhat of beauty's charm, of manhood's strength, Of lustre from the eye, and from the ear Of quickness to perceive the subtile thrill. Thou stealest from the agile limb and step, Elastic beyond art, the lithesome spring ; From golden locks, or raven, their bright hues Thou plunderest silently, till all are gone ; >fr — ^ I04 HOME. And keen desire and love of high pursuit And buoyancy of hope and courage firm And aspiration restless evermore — Whatever life's great tasks made seem but play — So stealthily thou takest, that the robbed Scarce note their loss, or noting half believe. Yes, Edward, thou and Mary, yet thine own. Still dear, far dearer, than when thy young heart Felt love's first pulses beat, are not the same In thought, wish, purpose, taste, or mien and air, As when around you glowed the bridal morn. The brows then fresh and fair, with deeper lines Are furrowed by that skilled engraver Time ; Then life lay all before you, like some scene Of rarest beauty to the eye made clear And magnified by telescopic glass ; Now, through the glass inverted, ye behold Reduced to littleness what once seemed great, And dimmed, by half, the glory that did charm. Grown calmer and more wise, ye, well content, Resign your old ambitions, pleased to dwell * ^ ■ ^ HOME. 105 Amid Home's peacefulness, and with such tasks As here the tranquil days may best beguile, To wait till evening shadows gently fall. Home hath not lost its sweetness — its content, Though missed the cheerful voices, heard of old Echoing through hall and chamber ; though the night Descend in solemn silence, where so oft At close of day, for many a year, did float On the still air enchanting harmonies. No lonely hearts here dwell, that do but live In sad, submissive patience, and earth's joys For them all vanished deem, to come no more. No — no ! Not such the transformation wrought By Time and Change, though wondraus be their power. While creepeth stilly on life's closing scene. And with the hoary head and trembling hand Come signs of weariness, and for itself Toil seems no more a pleasure ; yet 'tis left On the fled past to muse ; and still to find Companionship in books, or friends, around it— ■■ M ^ Io6 HOME. The evening table where the loved were wont Nightly to gather ; or at will to 'sit Beneath the old familiar trees that hang O'erarching by the door, as long ago, And seem of all things least to have changed with years. Ay more — 'tis given to greet the oft return Of children who, to filial duty true And childhood's fresh remembrances, come back To tread again the haunts for ever dear ; To hear grand-children's prattle and to watch Their childish raptures as on grandsire's knee They drink in, all attent, the well-told tale. These are the tranquil pleasures left to age When towards the sunset verges life's long day. With these, deep in the trustful, loving soul That 'mid life's turmoil walked by faith with God, And, far above earth's ever shifting sands, Builded on solid rock immortal hopes ; There come, as night draws nearer, glimpses oft, x\nd blest anticipations, of the realm ^f '. M '^Z- HOME. 107 For ever fair, beyond the rolling spheres, Where years no more shall ravish youth away, Nor love be parted from its loved again. Edward, thy Mary's voice for thee has lost Naught of its sweetness ; it delights thee still. Like old familiar music. On that brow, Mary, that in its manliness did charm Thy girlhood's eye, not less thou lovest still To gaze, though o'er it age hath spread his snows. Ah ! richer now, in either breast, the flow Of love's pure current, than when ye did sptak With trembling ecstasy the marriage vow Before God's altar. Then that current welled From confidence and hope ; from knowledge now, And mutual virtues tested, till, like gold Fresh from the crucible and proved by fires, They shine with lustre that no doubt can dim ; Blest in each other, ye are doubly blest. ifei * ^ 1 08 HOME. Nor are ye lonely left. One daughter still, Fair Ella, youngest of the household band, Like some bright minister of heavenly love. Each morning greets you, fresh herself as morn, And watches, all the day, if she may read, In look, or motion, even your rising wish ! Or with some sweet surprise may light a smile On your calm reverend brows, perchance provoke To merry laughter, never hard the task. A kind good-night she says when silent hours Call you to tranquil sleep. Good-morrow sweet She bids you with each dawn. For you she lives ; Herself forgets ; forgets the brilliant halls Where Fashion holds her court, ever best pleased With acts of filial duty done^she seems. Nor till her eyes shall see you pass the gates Of life eternal, shall aught else divide Her constant heart, whose every beating pulse Tells that for you her very life-blood flows ! O faithful love ! that, self-devoted, deems T