^ ;;: I r MIND YOUll MOTHER. AN OLD MAN'S STOKY. SUNDAY-SCHOOL UNION, 200 MULBEIIKY-8TK?:ET» new YORK, MIXD YOUR MOTHER. Come, boys, here is a story for 3^ou. I want yon all to come close to me and hear every word I say, for it may be of great nse to yon. T was a boy once, and I know very well how boys feel. I am a man now, bnt I have had as much to do 4 MIND YOUR MOTHER. with boys as T liave with men, and 1 alvv^ays Hko to see boys try to do right, and T love to help them do so. God has been very kind to spare yonr mother alive to watch over and care for yon. What I want to tell yon is how to treat lier. Now don't tnrn np 3^onrnose, as mnch as to say, *' that is not worth hearing, it don't concern me." Let me tell yon it does concern yon very mnch. It has to do with what kind of a man MIND YOUR MOTHER. 5 you will make in the world. AVhen I was a boy no larger than you are, my mother used to tell me that she never knew any one to do well in the world that did not treat his mother well. She said that wlieu she was youno- she had known many boys lliat did not treat their mothers well, and tliey all came to some bad end. J know three bovs tliat did not treat tlieir mothers well, and I made np my mind to watch and see G MIND YOUR MOTHER. liow they turned out in the world. That was a good many years ago, for you see I am old and gray now. I will call them Bill, and Dick, and Sam. It is all just as fresh in my mind as if it was only two days ago. They were all in the same class with me at school. I knew their mothers too yery well, for I often went home with them to i)\i\y. Bill was a nice boy when he was among us. lie was always gay and full of life, and very often at the MIND YOUR MOTHER. 7 head of his class. One day I was at his house. We were, it may be, as many as ten of ns pla3nng a fine game of ball on the green in front of the house. By atld by Bill t^ motlier came to the door and called him. At first Bill did not seem to hear it, we were all so busy at play. "Bill.'' said T, "your mother calls rou." Just then he ran close by her, and so he stopped to hear what she 8 MIND rOUU MOTIIEIl. i had to say. " Here, my son, T want you to take this box down to the f ?hop to your tather. lie wants it .before nigh^t." " But I don't wa;it to go^ n70ther." " Well, you must g'o." "But I'm at play and 1 can't go. I'm in tlie game." " I tell 3^ou, you must go at once, and that is all there is about it." Just then the other party who w^ere in the game beat, and set up a loud huzza; and Bill, luilf vexed that MIND YOUR MOTHER. 9 Iho game had gone against liim, picked up a stick and threw it at his mother, saying, "AYell, I won't go, there ! yon may go yourself for what I care," and off he ran. I turned just in time to see the stick fall from her dress, and to see how sad she looked when she went into the house. I never before had seen a bov strike his mother, or throw anything at her, and it made me feel so ])adly that I could play no more. I told 10 MIND YOUR MOTHER. the boys that T did not feel well and ] must go home. Indeed, it made me quite heart-sick. I thought of all my mother had told me about boys tliat did not mind their mother, and I thought I would see how it went with Bill. But I loved Bill, and it made me sad to think that he was the one that would liave such bad things come upon him. Perhaps he would have done bet- ter if his mother had spoken more kindly to him, but that was no ex- MIND YOUR MOTHER. 11 X cuse for his bad actions. T used to talk to him about it, and tell him what I feared for him ; but he would onl}^ laugh at me, or if he tried to do better it was only for a little while. Before he grew up to be a man he % was taken sick. His mother was very kind to him, and he learned to love her better then. But lie never got well. Year after year he lay on his sick bed, or sat in his easy chair, and I often went to see him and talk with him, and at last l>e died. 12 MIND YOUR MOTHER. The next boy was Dick. ITis iiiotlier used to let liira do just as jlie cliose in all things. If he wanted anything she was sure to do it for liim ; but if she wanted anj^thing of him, he was s.^re not to do it for her. T never saw a bo}^ so willful as he was about that. If she even asked jiim to do a thino- that was for his own good, he was very likely not to do it. I think he had much more regard for George Pell, who was the leader of our sports, than he MIND YOUR MOTHER. 18 had for \m mother. Why, she miglit as well have talked to the bricks in the walk as to have asked him to do an errand. He always acted as if he felt, " T don't care for my mother." When I saw just what kind of a boy he was I gave np going with him. I could not bear to play with him, or sit beside him in class. Well, Dick is dead too. As he grew up he would go out at nights with bad boys, and he soon learned 14 MIND YOUR MOTHER. to drink and swear, and before he was twenty-one he was found dead in the gutter. Sam was worse, if anything, than the other two boys. He not only cared nothing for what his mother said, but he used to make sport of her before the other boys. And wliat do you think became of liim ? His end was worse than that of Dick or Bill. He was sent to State- prison for a very bad crime and died there. I can't bear to think MIND YOUR MOTHER. 15 of it. I can't bear to speak of it. I do not like to tell such bad stories. I have only told these to show how it goes with wicked boys, and to warn you not to do as they have done. I have seen one thing about all such boys. The}^ seldom live long. But those who obev and honor their ft/ parents, have the promise that their days shall be long in the land. I do not suppose this is always so, for some very good boys and girls die IG MIND YOUR MOTHER. 3'oiing, and go home to that better land where they are much more happy than they can be here." I was thinking of one Httle boy the other day tliat used to be so good to his mother. Ilis name was Fred. I do behove he loved his mother better tlian anj^thing or any body else in the world. She was sick a great part of the time, and Fred liked, to stay by her, watcli over and care for her. It was not much of the time that she MIND YOUR MOTHER. 17 was so sick as to keep her bed. She was up and about the house, and did much of the work. Slie was not able to keep a girl, and her little Tot, Fred's sister, was only six years old when they came to live in our plape. Thenther.e was the baby. Tpt was just the right size to rock him to sleepj or to play with him. But when thjB jaaby was cross Fred took care of her. lie would take her out of doors and draw her in his cart; ]iQ woi^ld pi^ll 18 MIND YOUR MOTHER. tlie big dog Ned to play with her; lie would show her the slieep, and the calves, and the hens, and when she was tired he would rock her to sleep in the big arm-chair. Then he would go and bring in wood and water for his mother ; if it ^\\as meal- time he would set the table, and after the meal he would clear it awa\% and wash up and put awa}" tlie dishes. We boys all thought that very odd. I don't think there was one in ten of us that would MIND YOUR MOTHER. 19 liave done it at our homes. And the first day he came to school some ol" the boys got round him at noon- time and called him gal-hoy, and asked him if he could play ball as well as he could wash dishes. You should have seen him pick up the ball-club then. " Yes," said he, "I can play ball with the best of you." AYe did not tease him any more then. We saw that he had a high spirit, and we began to think well of him. After a few days we 20 MIND YOUR MOTHER. found that he was as smart as any of us in play, or in study, or any- thing that was good. He never would take any part in our bad tricks : and when some of the boj^s tried to shame him, and told Iffm }jp was afraid, he said j^es, Iiq was afraid to do anything th^t was wrong, and tl^ey rarely tripd liiii^ again. Whe^i liis sisters grew up lie did not i^ave so much to do in the houge, but Up Wiis jus|; as ki^d l:p {li^ MIND YOUR MOTHER. 21 motlier as ever. I know one night, when he was as much as sixteen, he would not go to skate with ns be- cause his father was away from home, and he would not leave his mother alone. Dick Holt and I went over to ask her if he could not go, and she said, "0 yes," and tried to get him to go, but he would not stir a step. He came to the door with us, and the air was so clear and the moon so bright that I could not help asking liim once again, 22 MIND YOUR MOTHER. and I told over some of the bo3"s that were to be there. "Jim," said he, "I care more for ni}^ mother than for all the boys in town, and I'd give more for one such look from her cyQS as she gave me to-night, when I said I'd stay by her, than I would for a whole day on the skates." When he got to be a man his 'ather died, and he had his mother xive with him, and he taught his children to love her just as he had MIND YOUR MOTHER. 23 loved her, and to love their own mother too. And I thought of it all the other day when I met Mr. Post, for that is his name, with a grandchild on each side of him. He is an old man now, and his hair is white; but it is like a crown of glory to liim. Mr. Post ? Yes, Mr. Post, the dear old man that you love so much. He is the very Fred of my story. All who know him love him. The rich respect him. The poor bless liim. 24 MIND YOUR MOTHER. Children run to meet him, and the very birds of the air seem to sing a sweeter song when he passes by. A long, a happy, and useful life he has led, and now he stands close by the gate of heaven, waiting till till the angel of death shall call him awa}^ to meet his mother in that bright world to which she has gone before him. THE END. L