LIBRARY OF THE UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA GIFT OF Y. M. O. A. OF U. C, ^Accession 101792 C/oss- HOW TO BE A MAN: BOOK FOR BOYS, CONTAINING USEFUL HINTS ON THE FORMATION OF CHARACTER. UNIVERSITY o II A R V E ? N E W C O M B , AUTHOR OF TIIE "YOUNG LADY'S GUIDE,' 5 ETC. ELEVENTH EDITION. BOSTON: GOULD AND LINCOLN. 1853. Entered according to Act of Congress, in the year 1846, by GOULD, KENDALL, AND LINCOLN, fn the Clerk's Office of the District Court for the District of Massachusetts. STEREOTYPED AT THE BOSTON STEREOTYPE FOUNDRY. PREFACE. " WHO reads a preface ? " Many do not , but jump at once into the middle of a bock But it is well to know something about a book, before reading it; and who so likely to give you information respecting the contents of a book as the Author him- self? I wish to see the youth of my country come forward upon the stage of life, models of excellence, with characters formed for the times in which they are to act. How much influence my book may have, in securing such a result, I cannot tell ; but my design in writing it has been, to contribute something toward forming the character of some of those who are to be our future electors, legislators, governors, * 101792 PREFACE. judges, ministers, lawyers, and physicians, after the best model ; and, from the kind reception of my former attempts to benefit American youth, 1 trust they will give a candid hearing to the few hints contained in the following pages. It is intended for boys, or, if you please, for young gentle- men, in early youth, from eight or ten to fifteen or sixteen years of age. It covers substantially the same ground occupied by a work for girls issued simultaneously with it ; and some of the chapters are identical in the two books, while others are entirely different, and some partially so. It is the hope of the Author, that every one who **eads it, will strive to be a man, in the highest sense of the term. JANUARY, 1847 CONTENTS. I. ON CHILDHOOD AND YOUTH 7 II NATURE AND OBJECTS OF EDUCATION 12 III. PIETY, AS THE SPRING OF ACTION AND REGULATOR OF THE SOUL 17 IV. FILIAL PIETY 24 V. TREATMENT OF BROTHERS AND SISTERS AND OTHERS IN THE FAMILY 37 VI. BEHAVIOR AT SCHOOL 45 VII. BEHAVIOR AT TABLE 51 VIII. BEHAVIOR AT FAMILY WORSHIP 56 IX. PRIVATE PRAYER 59 X. KEEPING THE SABBATH 64 XI. HABITS v 83 XII. EDUCATION OF THE BODY 100 XIII. ON USEFUL LABOR 109 XIV. EDUCATION OF THE HEART 121 XV., EDUCATION OF THE MIND 145 XVI. READING 155 XVII. WRITING 161 1* * O CONTENTS. XVIII. INDOLENCE 165 XIX. ON DOING ONE THING AT A TIME 168 XX. ON FINISHING WHAT IS BEGUN 170 XXI. CHOICE OF SOCIETY AND FORMATION OF FRIENDSHIPS 172 XXII- BAD COMPANY AND MISCHIEVOUSNESS.. 176 XXIII. ON AMUSEMENTS 181 XXIV. GOVERNMENT OF THE TONGUE 192 XXV. ON THE ART OF AGREEABLE AND PROF- ITABLE CONVERSATION 198 XXVI. INQ.UISITIVENESS 206 XXVII. ON THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING ABLE TO SAY No 209 XXVIII. ON BEING USEFUL 212 XXIX. ON BEING CONTENTED 216 XXX UNION OF SERIOUS PIETY WITH HABIT- UAL CHEERFULNESS 220 HOW TO BE A MAN. CHAPTER I. ON CHILDHOOD AND YOUTH. IN one sense, very young persons are apt to think too much of themselves in another, not enough. When they think they know more than their parents and teachers, or other elderly peo- ple, and so set up to be bold arid smart, then they think too much of themselves. It used to be said, when I was a boy, that "Young folks think old folks are fools ; but old folks know young folks are fools." Although I would be very far indeed from calling you fools, because you have already acquired much knowledge, and have the capacity for acquiring much more, yet, with ref- erence to such knowledge as is acquired by ex- perience , and in comparison with what there is to be known, there is " more truth than poetry" 8 THE GREAT ELM. in the old adage. But, when young people sup- pose it is of no consequence what they do, or how they behave, because they are young, then they do not think enough of themselves. Should you see a man riding with a little stick for a whip, you would not think his stick worth your notice at all ; but the biggest tree that ever I saw grew from a little willow stick that a man rode home with, and then planted in his garden. You have sat under the beautiful shade of a great elm-tree ; and when you have looked upon its tall, majestic trunk, and its great and strong branches, with their ten thousand little limbs waving gracefully before the wind, you have been filled with admiration and delight. " What a mighty tree ! " you say; " I wonder how long it has been growing." But the seed of that tree, when it was planted, many years ago, was nc bigger than a mustard-seed ; and if you had seen the little tiny sprout that your grandfather was tying up with so much care, when it was a few years old, you would have wondered that a man should think so much of such an insignificant twig. But, if he had let it grow up as it began, without any care, it never would have been the stately tree it is now. That was the most im- portant period in its life, when it was a little twig. LITTLE THLNGS. It began to lean over, and grow crooked and ugly. If it had not been trained up then, it would have continued to grow worse and worse ; and, after it had grown to be a tree, it could not have been straightened at all. Now, you are, in some respects, like this little twig. You, too, have just begun to be ; and now your character is pliable, like the young tree. But, unlike it, your being is to have no end. Instead of grow- ing a few hundred years, like a great tree, you are to live forever. And every thing that you do now must have an influence in forming your character for your whole being. In this latter sense, you cannot think too much of yourself; for you are the germ of an immortal being. Did you ever stand by the shore of a placid lake or pond, in a calm, sunny day, and throw a little stone into its smooth, silvery waters? Did you observe how, first, a little ripple was formed around the place where it struck, and this was followed by a wave, and then, beyond, another, and another, till the whole surface of the water was disturbed ? It was a very little thing that you did; and yet it agitated a great body of water. So it is with childhood and youjdi ; ihe most insignificant action you perform, in its in- fluence upon your character, will reach through the whole period of your existence. 10 MANLINESS. It will not do for you to say, ' ' It is no matter how I behave now : I shall do differently when I am a man." " But would you have a little boy act like a man?" Not exactly. I would not have him affect the man, and appear as though he thought himself a full-grown gentleman. I would not have him imitate the toad, which undertook to swell to the size of an ox, and in the operation burst open. But, I would have him manly in his childishness. I would have him courageous, to meet difficulties, noble and generous in his feelings and actions, and cour- teous in his manners, always, in all companies, and in all places, behaving in a manner be- coming a person of his age. A well-bred boy, who knows what is becoming and proper, and carries it out in his behavior, is already a gentle- man. But the mischievous, rude, unmannerly lad, who pays no regard to propriety of conduct, will never be a gentleman. And a boy who has the courage to face difficulties, and the energy and perseverance to accomplish what he under- takes, is already a man; while the indolent, cowardly, " / can't " boy, will never be a man. It is my disire, in this book, to lead you to the for- mation of a solid, energetic, manly character, combined with true gentility of manners ; and then you will be both a man and a gentleman. THE FAIRY WORLD. 11 Very young persons sometimes live in an ideal world. What they imagine in their plays seems real. They have a little fairy world in their minds, in which they live more, and take greater delight, than they do in what is real and true. To this I do not object, within certain bounds; but often it becomes a passion, so that they lose all relish for sober, every-day life. For such creatures of fancy real life is too dull, and what concerns realities, too grave. Perhaps they will not like my book, because it treats of things true and real. But I beg them to consider that, through the whole of their being, they are to be concerned chiefly with realities ; and therefore, to do them substantial good, we must speak to them of things real, and not of those airy things that belong to the fairy land. But real things are, truly, more interesting than the creations of fancy. The things of fancy interest you more only because they appear new and less common. A person who has always lived in the country, and is used to sitting under the wide-spreading, shady tree, would be more pleased with the pic- ture of a tree than with a tree itself. But one brought up in the city would cast away the pic- ture, and hasten to enjoy the cool shade of the beautiful tree. A castle in the air may please the fancy ; but you want a real house to live in 12 CHAPTER II. NATURE AND OBJECTS OF EDUCATION. PERHAPS some of my readers, when they see the title of this chapter, will think only of con- finement in school, of books, and of hard study, and so be inclined to pass over it, as a dry sub- ject, which they have so much to do with, every day, that they have no wish to think of it in a moment of relaxation. But I beg them to stop a minute, and not throw me away, among the old school-books, till they have heard me through. I assure them that I use the term education in a far different sense. I think it means much more than going to school and studying books. This is only a small part of education. Mr. Walker defines education, " The formation of manners in youth.'' But this is a very imperfect defini- tion ; and I am afraid there may be found some who would even doubt whether education has any thing to do with manners. Mr. Webster gives a better definition : " Education compre- nends all that series of instruction and discipline *vhich is intended to enlighten the understand- FORMATION OF CHARACTER. 13 ing, correct the temper, and form the manners and habits of youth, and fit them for usefulness in their future stations ; " all, in fact, that is necessary to make a man or a woman a gentle- man or a lady. The original root, from which the word edu- cation is derived, means to lead out, to conduct, to form, to fashion, to beat out, to forge. It was used with reference to the forging of an in- strument out of a piece of metal, or the chisel- ling of a statue out of a block of marble. This furnishes a good illustration of my ideas of edu- cation. It is a process by which a character is formed out of rude or unwrought materials. It is not confined to mere school learning. A per- son may be very learned, and yet not half edu- cated. There are many steps in the process. The ore must first be dug up by the miner; then smelted at the furnace, and the metal sepa- rated from the dross ; then wrought into bars at the foundry; afterwards forged by the smith; and then, finally, polished by the finisher. The marble must first be quarried, or blasted out of the ledge ; then cut into blocks ; then trans- ported ; then wrought with the hammer and chis- el ; and finally, polished. This gives a good idea of education. It is not merely what is done to form the character in school; but it comprises 2 14 FORMATION OF CHARACTER. all the influences which are exerted upon the young, in training them up and forming their characters. Education begins in the family. It is carried forward in the school. It is affected, for good or for evil, by the influence of public worship, lectures, books, amusements, scenery, companions, &c. In all places and circum- stances, something is doing towards the form ation of character. Yet there is one important respect in which education, or the formation of character, differs essentially from the process described in this illustration. The block of marble, or the piece of mot a), is passive; the whole process is per- formed upon it by another. But no person can be educated in this way ; every one that is educated must be active. You may be drilled through all the schools, and have every advan- tage at home and in society ; and yet, without your own active cooperation, you can ne\er be educated. But, if you are determined to be edu- cated, you will turn every thing to some account. Every thing will be a school to you ; for you will make contributions to your stock of knowledge from every object you see ; and by seeking to act discreetly, wisely, and correctly, in every place, you will be constantly forming good habits. Like the little busy bee, you will suck SELF-EDUCATION. 15 honey from every flower. You will commune with your own heart upon your bed, and exercise your powers of thought in useful meditation. You will converse with God in your secret place, and seek wisdom of Him who has promised to give liberally to those that ask. In company, you will be more ready to hear than to speak ; and you will never meet with any so ignorant but you may learn from them some useful les- sons. You will exercise your mind upon every person and object you meet. You will study philosophy in the fields, by the brooks, on the hills, in the valleys, and upon the broad canopy of heaven. It has been well observed, that the difference between a wise man and a fool is, that one goes through the world with his eyes wide open, while the other keeps them shut. You will perceive, then, that your education is continually going on, whether you think of it or not. Your character is constantly forming. It is your business to keep out of the way of bad influences, and submit yourself to the moulding of the good. Keep in mind the great truth that you are forming a character for eternity. Some years ago, there were found on the banks of the Mississippi River the tracks of a human being, deeply imprinted in the solid rock. These tracks were made in the soft clay, which in time 16 FOOT PRINTS. became hardened, and formed into stone; now the impression is immovable. You now re- semble this soft clay. Every thing with which you come in contact makes an impression. But, as you grow older, your character acquires solid- ity, and is less and less affected by these influ ences, till at length it will be like the hard stone, and the impressions made upon you at this sea- son will become confirmed habits. All the impressions made upon your character ought to be such as will not need to be removed. Washington Allston, the great painter, had been a long time at work on a most magnificent paint- ing. He had nearly completed it, when his keen eye discovered some defects in a portion of the piece. He hastily drew his rough brush over that portion of the picture, intending to paint it anew. But in the midst of his plans, death seized him, and his painting remains, just as he left it No other person can carry out the conception that was in his mind. If you allow wrong im pressions to be made upon your forming charac- ter, death may meet you with his stern mandate, and fix them forever, as immovable as it left the rough print of the coarse brush upon Allston's canvass. 17 CHAPTER III. PIETY, AS THE SPRING OF ACTION, AND REGU- LATOR OF THE SOUL. A WATCH, to one who had never seen such a piece of mechanism before, would be a great wonder. It is an object of much curiosity to the natives of savage and barbarous tribes, visited by the missionaries. It seems to speak and move, as though instinct with life. I have read. ' O ' somewhere, of a poor savage, who, seeing a white man's watch lying on the ground, and hearing it tick, supposed it to be some venomous reptile, and, with a stone, dashed it in pieces. A watch is an object of no less wonder to a child. Children are full of curiosity, as my readers well know. They wish to examine every thing they see to take it in pieces, and see how it is made. I dare say my readers remember the time when they sat on their father's knee, and modestly requested him to show them the little wheels of his watch. If I could sit down with my young friends, and take my watch in pieces, I would teach them 2* 18 THE WATCH. a useful lesson. I would show them how a watch resembles a human being. There is the case, which may be taken off, and put by itself, and still the watch will go as well as ever. In this respect, it is like the human body. Death separates it from the soul, and yet the soul re- mains, with all its active powers. It still lives. The inside of the watch, too, resembles the soul. It has a great .many different parts, *all working together in harmony a great many wheels, all moving in concert. So the soul has a great many different powers or faculties, all designed to operate in concert with each other, as the understanding, the judgment, the conscience, the will, the affections, the memory, the passions t desires, &c. ; and each one of these has a part to act, as important for the man as the several wheels and springs of the watch. If every part of the watch is in order, and in its proper place, it will keep exact time; but, if one wheel gets disordered, it will derange the whole. The secret power that moves the watch is un- perceived. If you examine, you will see a large wheel, with a smooth surface, round which is wound a long chain, attached to another wheel, with ridges for the chain to run upon. Inside of the first-named wheel is the main-spring, which, by means of the chain, moves the whole THE BALANCE-WHEEL. 19 machinery. The WILL is the main-spring of the soul. By a mysterious, invisible chain, it ho.ds all the powers of the soul and body at its command. Not only the operations of the mind, but the motions of the body are controlled by the will. But, if there were no check upon the main- spring of the watch, it would not give the time of day. It would set all the wheels in rapid mo- tion, and in a few moments the watch would run down. To prevent this, there is a balance- wheel, which turns backwards and forwards, by means of a fine spring, called the hair-spring, and so keeps the whole machinery in a regular motion. To this is attached a little lever, called the regulator, which, by a gentle touch, works on this delicate spring, so as to move the balance- wheel faster or slower, as the case may be, to make the movement exact and regular. Now, if there were no checks on the will, it would run on impetuously in its course, without regard to consequences. And this we often see in persons called wilful, self-willed, headstrong. Children are often so ; if let alone, their stub- born will would lead them to rush on headlong to their own destruction. Without meaning to be very accurate in these illustrations, I shall call judgment the balance-wheel. This is the 20 THE REGULATOR. faculty which perceives, compares, and decides, keeps the mind balanced, and prevents its run- ning to extremes either way. The hair-spring and regulator of the watch I shall compare with conscience. A very slight touch of the regulator moves the hair-spring, and gives a quicker or a slower motion to the balance- wheel. But, if the watch is out of order, often- times the movement of the regulator has no effect upon it. So, when the soul is in order, a very slight touch of conscience will affect the judg- ment and regulate the will. But often, the soul is so much out of order , that conscience will have no effect upon it. But who touches the regulator of the watch ? There is nothing in the watch itself to do this. The power that moves the regulator is applied to it. So, the conscience is moved. The Word of God enlightens the conscience, and the Spirit of God applies the word. And this brings me to the point which I had in my mind when I began this chapter. What a poor thing a watch is. when it is out of order. It is of no use. A watch is made to keep the time of day ; but, when it is out of order, it will keep no time. Or, if it is in order, and yet not regulated, it will not keep the right time. Now until the heart is changed by the grace THE SPRING OF ACTION. 1 of God, the soul is out of order. It does not answer the purpose for which it was made. The will is wrong ; the judgment is wrong ; the con- science is wrong. And, whatever cultivation may be bestowed upon the mind, it will not act aright. In the very beginning, then, you want piety, as the main-spring of action, and the reg- ulator of the soul. Without this, you are not prepared to- begin any thing aright. Indeed, without it, you have no sufficient motive to action. You seem to be toiling and laboring and wearying yourself for nothing. But piety towards God gives a new impulse to the mind. When you set out to improve your mind, if you have no piety, the object to be gained by it is very small. It can secure to you no more than, perhaps, a little additional enjoyment, for the brief space you are to continue in this world. But piety opens to you a wide field of useful- ness in this life, and the prospect of going for- ward in the improvement of your mind as long as eternity endures. It must, therefore, give a new spring and vigor to all the faculties of the soul. It does more. It regulates the ^ powers of the mind, and the affections of the heart, and gives a right direction to them all. I would persuade you, then, as the first and great thing, to seek God. Remember what 22 THE FOUNDATION OF CHARACTER. Christ has said, " Seek ye first the kingdom o. God and his righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you." Here is the promise that you shall have all else that is needful, if you seek God first. Yield your heart to him, and have his kingdom set up there. Let him rule in your heart, and devote yourself to his service, and he will supply all your need. This, also, will give a right direction to all your facul- ties, arid lay a good foundation of character. But, without it, you will be like a watch without a balance-wheel or a regulator ; you will be fit neither for this life nor that which is to come. And, it is of the utmost importance that you should become pious now, while you are young. If you would form a good character, you must have a good foundation laid at the beginning. Nothing but this can make a good foundation. All your habits ought to be formed and settled upon religious principles. Religious motives should enter into all your efforts to improve your mind and cultivate your affections. And, should you neglect religion now, and afterwards, by the grace of God, be led to devote yourself to him, you will find it hard and difficult to overcome the wrong habits of mind and conduct which you will have formed. Piety, then, is the firsi ^hing to be considered, PIETY THE FIRST THING. ' 23 in the formation of character. And remember, also, that you are forming character /or eternity; and that your whole being, through a never end- ing existence, is to be affected by the character which you form now in your childhood and youth. If you lay the foundation of your character now in the love and fear of God, it will rise higher 7 O and higher, in excellence, beauty, and lovei ; - ness, for ever and ever. But if you lay the foundation in selfishness and sin, and build ac- cordingly, it will forever be sinking lower in degradation and deeper in wretchedness. 24 CHAPTER IV. FILIAL PIETY. NEXT to your duty to God comes your duty to your parents ; and you can never form an excellent, amiable, and lovely character, unless the foundation of it is laid in filial piety, as well as in piety towards God. Solomon says to the young, " Hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother ; for they shall be an ornament of grace unto thy head, and chains about thy neck." Nothing will make you appear so lovely in the eyes of others as a dutiful behaviour towards your parents; and nothing will make you appear so unamiable and unlovely as a disrespectful, disobedient car- riage towards them. No ornament sits so grace- fully upon youth as filial piety; no outward adorning can compare with it. Filial piety calls into exercise feelings to- wards your parents, similar to those which piety towards God calls into exercise towards him ; such as esteem and veneration of his character, love to his person, confidence in his word, sub- GRATITUDE. 25 mission to his authority, and penitence for of- fences against him. When the heart is hab.'tu- ated to the exercise of these feelings towards parents, it is prepared the more readily to exer- cise them towards God. The promises which God has made to those who honor their parents, and his threatenings against those who dishonor them, are similar to those which he has made respecting honor and obedience to himself. You owe it, therefore, to God, to exercise filial piety, because he has required it, and because it is one of the means he employs to cultivate piety towards himself. Gratitude, also, should lead to filial piety, as well as to piety towards God ; for what God is to man, only in a lower sense, the parent is to his child. Your parents are, under God, the authors of your being. The greater part of parents' lives is spent in rearing supporting, and educating their children. For this they wear out their strength in anxious care and toil ; they watch beside the bed of their chLdren when they are sick, with tender solici- tude and sleepless vigilance ; they labor to pro- vide for them. But good parents are, most of all, anxious that their children should grow up intel- ligent and virtuous, pious and happy. There is no being but God to whom children are so much indebted as to a faithful parent; and almost al 3 26 HABIT OF SUBMISSION. the blessings that God bestows upon them come through their parents. Filial piety has great influence on future char- acter. One who has never been in the habit of submitting to others, will always be headstrong and self-willed ; and such a character nobody loves. You cannot always do as you please ; and, if such is your disposition, you will always be unhappy when your will is crossed. You will be unwilling to submit to necessary restraints, and this will irritate, and keep you in misery ; for you will never see the time in your life when you will be so entirely independent of others that you can have your own way in every thing. Even the king on his throne cannot do this. But, if you have always been in the habit of submitting to your parents, these necessary re- straints will be no burden. If, then, you would be respected, beloved, and happy, when you grow up and take your place in society, you must honor your parents. Cultivate the habit of submission to their authority ; of respectful attention to their instructions ; and of affection and reverence to their persons. These are the habits that will make you respected, beloved, and happy. But as God has joined a curse to parental impiety, so he makes it punish itself. And thus you will find that it is generally fol- FEELINGS TOWARD PARENTS. A i lowed with the most dreadful consequences. Of this I might give many painful examples ; but the narratives would swell my book to an im- moderate size. The wnole duty of children to parents, is ex- pressed by God himself in one word HONOR. This word is chosen, with great felicity, to ex- press all the various duties of children toward their parents. There is a great deal of meaning in this little word, honor. Do you ask, " How shall I honor my pa- rents 1 " In the first place, you must honor them in your heart, by loving and reverencing them, and by cultivating a submissive, obedient disposition. It is not honoring your parents, to indulge an unsubmissive, turbulent spirit. To be angry with your parents, and to feel that their lawful commands are hard or unreasonable, is dishonoring them. The authority which God has given your parents over you is for your good, that they may restrain you from evil and hurtful practices, and require you to do what will be, in the end, for your benefit. When they restrain you, or require you to do what is not pleasing to you, they have a regard to your best interests. To be impatient of restraint, and to indulge hard feelings toward them, is doing them great dishonor. If you could read the hearts of 28 HONORING PARENTS IN WORD. your parents, and see what a struggle it costs them to interfere with your inclinations, you would feel differently. But these rebellious feel- ings of yours are not only against your parents, but against God, who gave them this authority over you. Children also honor or dishonor their parents by their words. You honor them, by addressing them in respectful language, and in a tone of voice indicating reverence and submission, giv- ing them those titles that belong to their su- perior station. An example of this we have in the answer of Samuel to what he supposed the call of Eli, " Here am I," a form of speech used by servants to their masters, and implying attention to what was said, and a readiness to execute what was commanded. But parents are dishonored, when their children answer them gruffly, or speak in a sharp, positive, angry, or self-important, tone; or when they neglect to accompany their address with the usual titles of respect, but speak out bluntly, " Yes" or " No." This shows the state of the heart. And I think the reason why it is so difficult, in these days, to teach children to say, "Yes, sir," " No, ma'am," &c., is, that they do not feel in their hearts the respect which these terms imply. You will per- ceive, by this remark, that J have no respect for ATTENTION TO INSTRUCTION. '29 tht notion which prevails, in some quarters, that these expressions are not genteel. Children likewise dishonor their parents, when they answer back, and argue against their com- mands, or excuse themselves for not obeying. It is as much as to say, they are wiser than their parents which is doing them a great dishonor. To speak to them in disrespectful, reproachful, or passionate language, or to speak of them or their authority in such language to others, is also a great offence against their honor. Under the law of Moses, God punished this offence in the same manner that he did blasphemy against himself: " He that curseth his father or his mother shall surely be put to death." This shows what a great offence it is in his sight. Another way in which you honor your pa- rents is, by giving respectful attention to their instruction and counsels. God has committed your instruction and training to them ; and when they teach or advise you according to the Scrip- ture, their instructions are the voice of God to you. If you despise their instruction, you cast contempt upon God, who speaks through them, and who says, " My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy moth- er." It is very natural for children to wish to follow their own inclinations. The impetuosity 30 CONFIDENCE IN PARENTS of youth would hurry them on, heedlessly, in the high-road to ruin. And, often, they despise the wholesome instruction and advice of their pa- rents, as only designed to interfere with their pleasures, and abridge their enjoyments; while, in truth, their parents look beyond mere pleasure, to that which is of greater importance. They look upon these things in the light which age and experience has given them. If you were going to a strange place, in a way with which you were not acquainted, and should meet one that had been that way before, you would put confidence in what he should tell you of the way, and follow his directions. Your parents have passed through the period of life on which you are now entering, and they know the way. You will do well to confide in them, and abide by their instructions. If you neglect to do so, you will be sure to get into difficulty. The path of life is beset, on every side, with by-paths, leading astray ; and these by-paths are full of snares and pit-falls, to catch the unwary, and plunge them into ruin. Your parents have become ac quainted with these ways, and know their dan- gers. If they are good people, and understand their duty to you, they will warn you against them ; and it will be the height of folly for you OBEDIENCE. 31 to disregard their warnings. Multitudes, by doing so, have rushed heedlessly on to ruin. You must honor your parents, also, by a prompt and cheerful obedience to their lawful commands. I say lawful, because no one ought to obey a command to do what is positively wrong. If a wicked parent should command his child to break the Sabbath, to lie, or to steal, or to break any of God's commands, it would be the child's duty to refuse, and meekly submit to the punishment which the parent might in- flict. It is not often that such things happen among us; but our missionaries in Constantinople have related two instances that are in point. Two little Armenian girls had learned to read, and obtained from the missionaries some ideas of Christian morality. A person knocked at the door of their house, and their father, not wishing to see him, told one of them to go and tell the person that he was not at home. " That would be telling a lie," said the daughter. " What then?' 7 said the father; "it is a very little thing. You have only to say that I am not at home." " But, father," she replied, " the Bible says it is wicked to tell lies, and I cannot tell a lie." He was angry, and called his other daugh- ter, and told her to go. She replied, " Father, I cannot, for it is wicked to lie." These children 32 PROMPTNESS. did right in refusing to obey such a command But in no other case, except when told to do what is wrong, will a child be justified in refus- ing to obey. Obedience must be prompt and cheerful. Your parents are not honored, when obedience is delayed to suit your convenience ; nor when you znswer back, or try to reason against your pa- Bents' commands, or plead for delay, that you may ,irst finish your own work. A parent who is honored will never have to repeat the same com- mand. Some children are bent on having their yvvn way, and attempt to carry their point by howing their parents that their way is best ; Khich is the same as saying to them that they * re more ignorant than their children. Neither \ \ sullen obedience honoring your parents. Some children, who dare not disobey their parents, will go about doing what is required of them with great reluctance, with perhaps a sullen expression of the countenance, a flirt, an angry step, or a s T im of the door, or some other show of passion. Such conduct is a grief to parents, and an offe -ce against God, who will not count that as ob^.-'ence, which is not done cheerfully. But if you xruly honor your parents from the heart, yo^ vill not wait for their commands. You wh? I always ready to obey the slightest ABSENCE OF PARENTS. 33 intimation of their wishes. It is a great grief to a parent, when, out of respect to his child's feel- ings, he has expressed his wish, to be obliged to add his command, before the thing will be done. But filial piety never appears so amiable and lovely as when it anticipates the wishes of pa- rents, and supersedes the necessity of expressing those wishes in advice or commands. If you honor your parents in your heart, you will pay an equal regard to their counsels and commands, whether they are present or ab- sent. If you cast off their authority as soon as you are out of their sight, you greatly dishonor them. Such conduct shows that you do not honor them at all in your heart, but obey them only when you cannot disobey without suffering for it. But if you keep their authority always present with you, then you will do them great honor ; for you show that they have suc- ceeded in fixing in your heart a deep-seated principle of reverence and affection for them. If you truly honor your parents in your heart, you will obey them as well when they are absent as present. The parents' authority and honor are always present with the good child. Children, likewise, honor or dishonor their parents in their general behavior. If they are rude and uncivil, they reflect dishonor upon their 34 A RIGHT HEART. parents; for people say, they have not been trained and instructed at home. But when their behavior is respectful, correct, pure, and amia- ble, it reflects honor upon the parents. People will judge of the character of your parents by your behavior. Are you willing to hear your parents reproachfully spoken of 1 No, your cheek would glow with indignation at the person who should speak ill of your father or your mother. But you speak evil of them, in your conduct, every time you do any thing that re- flects dishonor upon them in the eyes of others. The blame of your conduct will be thrown back upon your parents. But the true way to honor your parents, at all times and in all circumstances, is, to have your heart right with God. If you have true piety of heart toward God, you will show piety toward your parents ; for you will regard the authority of his commandment, and delight in doing what will please him. The fear of God, dwelling in your heart, will lead you to reverence all his commands, and none more continually arid con- scientiously than the one which requires you to honor your parents. Every thing that you do for them will be done, " not with eye-seivice, as men-pleasers, but with good will, doing ser- vice as to God, and not to man.' 7 FEELING BIG. 35 Boys of a certain age are frequently disposed to show their importance, by assuming to be wiser than their parents. They call in question the wis- dom of their parents' directions, and seek, in every possible way, to set up their own will. This is par- ticularly the case with respect to the authority of the mother; iheyfeel too big to he governed by a woman ; and if obliged to obey, they will be sullen about it. Instead of requiting her care, by studying to be helpful, anticipating her wishes, they seem to lose all sense of obliga- tion, and regard what she requires of them as an unreasonable interference with their pleas- ures ; and so, they will meet her requests in a snarling, snappish manner, like an impertinent young mastiff, slighting, in every possible way, the thing to be done. And if, in the Providence of God, such boys are left without a father, they take advantage of the widowhood of their moth- er, to resist her authority. I can scarcely think of any thing more unmanly than this. It is mean and despicable. The mother, by all the ties of gratitude, in these desolate circumstances, is en- titled to the kindness, assistance, and protection, of her sons ; and to rebel against her authority, because she may not have strength to enforce it, manifests a very Hack heart. A young man, who, in any circumstances, will treat his mother ill, is 36 TO MAKE A GOOD CITIZEN. to be despised ; but one who will take advantage of the helplessness of her widowhood, to cast ofl her just authority, is to be detested and ab- horred. Nothing has, perhaps, a greater influence upon the future character of the man than the trait of which we are speaking. The boy that is obedi- ent and submissive to parental authority will make a good citizen. He has learned to olcy, from his childhood ; and he will be obedient to the laws of his country ; he will be respected in society, and may rise to posts of honor. But the disobedient boy, who is turbulent and ungovern- able at home, will make a bad member of so- ciety. Never having learned how to obey, he will be disobedient to the laws, and incur their penalty ; he will be found in evil company ; en- gaged in mobs and riots ; making disturbance at fires, &,c., till, perhaps, he will land at last in prison, or be launched into eternity from the gallows. I might easily fill the rest of this vol- ume with the detail of cases, in which a career of crime, ending in prison or on the gallows, has been commenced in disobedience to parents, and in very many cases, disobedience to widowed mothers. * 37 CHAPTER V. TREATMENT OP BROTHERS AND SISTERS, AND OTHERS IN THE FAMILY. THE FAMILY is a little kingdom in miniature. The father and mother are king and queen ; and children, and others residing in the family, are the subjects. I have treated at large, in the last chapter, on your duties to your parents; but I must not pass over your behavior towards the other members of the family. And here, I wish you to keep in mind all I have said about the formation of character. Remember, that the character you form in the family will, in all probability, follow you through life. As you are regarded by your own brothers and sisters at home, so, in a great measure, will you be re- garded by others, when you leave your father's house. If you are manly, amiable, kind, and courteous, at home, so you will continue to be ; and these traits of character will always make you beloved. But if you are peevish, ill-natured, harsh, uncourteous, or overbearing, at home, among your own brothers and sisters, so will you 4 * 5 THE GOLDEN RULE. be abroad ; and, instead of being beloved, you will be disliked and shunned. The best general direction that I can give is, that you carry out the golden rule in your be- havior toward your brothers arid sisters, and all other persons who reside in the family. If you do to them as you would wish them to do to you, all will be well. But I must be a little more par- ticular. Boys are often disposed to assume a dictatorial, domineering air toward their sisters, as though they thought themselves born to rule, and were determined to exercise their dominion over their sisters, because they have not strength to resist their tyranny. But I can hardly think of any thing more unmanly. It shows a very mean spirit, destitute of noble and generous feel- ings, to take advantage of the weakness of others to tyrannize over them. But to do this to those who, by the relation they bear to you, are entitled to your love and protection, is base beyond de- scription. The same is true, though perhaps in a less degree, in regard to the conduct of an elder toward a younger brother. A brother should be kind, tender, courteous, and delicate, in his behavior toward his sisters, never treating them with rudeness or neglect, and stand- ing ready always to protect them from the rude- ness of other boys. He should never speak gruff- BEHAVIOR TO SISTERS. 39 ly to them, noi in a lordly, domineering, or con- temptuous manner. Such conduct toward other misses or young ladies would be esteemed very unhandsome and ungentlemanly ; and why should it not be so esteemed at home ? Are your own sisters entitled to less respect than strangers? Accustom yourself to make confidants of your sisters. Let them understand your feelings, and know your designs; and pay a suitable regard to their advice. By this means you may be saved from many a snare, and you will secure their affection and sympathy. Never form any design, or engage in any enterprise, which you are ashamed to divulge to them. If you do, you may be sure it will not end well. One rule, well observed at home, among broth- ers and sisters, would go far towards making them accomplished gentlemen and ladies, in their manners : BE COURTEOUS TO EACH OTHER. Never allow yourself to treat your brothers or sisters in a manner that would be considered rude or ungentlemanly, if done to other young persons visiting in the family. Especially, never allow yourself to play tricks upon them, to teaze them, or, in a coarse, rough manner, to criticize or ridicule their conduct, especially in the presence of others. But if you see any thing that you think needs reforming, kindly remind 40 COMPLAINING OF EACH OTHER. them of it in private. This will have a much better effect than if you mortify them, by expos- ing their faults before company. Be careful of their feelings, and never needlessly injure them. Boys sometimes take delight in crossing the feelings of their brothers and sisters, interfering with their plans, and vexing them, out of sheer mischief. Such conduct is especially unamia- ble, and it will tend to promote ill-will and con- tention in the family. Be not fond of informing against them. If they do any thing very much amiss, it will be your duty to acquaint your pa- rents with it. But in little things, of small moment, it is better for you kindly to remon- strate with them, but not to appeal to your pa- rents. In some families, when the children are at home, your ears are continually ringing with the unwelcome sounds, " Mother, John" " Father, Susan" " Mother, George," &c. a perpetual string of complaints, which makes the place more like a bedlam than a quiet, sweet home. There is no sight more unlovely than a quarrelsome family, no place on earth more undesirable than a family of brothers and sisters who are perpetually contending with each other. But I know of no place, this side heaven, so sweet and attractive as the home of a family of brothers and sisters, always smiling and happy, TREATMENT OF DOMESTICS. 41 full of kindness and love, delighting in each other's happiness, and striving how much each can oblige the other. If you would have your home such a place, you must not be selfish ; you must not be too particular about maintaining your own rights ; but be ready always to yield rather than to contend. This will generally have the effect to produce the same disposition in your brothers and sisters ; and then the strife will be, which can be most generous. Be noble and generous in your treatment of domestics. Never be so mean as to domineer over the hired men or women employed about the house, or in the field. Keep out of the kitchen as much as possible. But if you are obliged to go there, remember that you are on the cook's premises. Keep out of her way, and be careful not to put things out of their place, or make litter. Nothing is more annoying to her than such conduct, because it interferes with her efforts to keep things in order, and increases her labor. Never ask servants to help you, when you are able to help yourself. It is very pro- voking to them to be called to wait on the little gentlemen about house. Cultivate independence of character, and help yourself. You will never be fit for any business, if you always depend on others to help you in little every-day affairs. 4* * 42 LOV& OF HOME. Young men and boys should cultivate a love vf home as a defence against the temptations to frequent bad company and places of resort dan- gerous to their morals. A boy or a young man, who is deeply and warmly attached to his mother and sisters, will prefer their society to that of the depraved and worthless ; and he will not be tempted to go abroad in search of pleasure, when he finds so much at home. It is a delusive idea, that any greater pleasure can be found abroad than is to be enjoyed at home ; and that boy or young man is in a dangerous way, to whom the society of his mother and sisters has become in- sipid and uninteresting. When you feel any in- clination to go abroad in search of forbidden pleasure, I advise you to sit down with your sis- ters, and sing, " Home, sweet home." And here 1 may say that the cultivation of music will add much to the attractions of home. It is a de- lightful recreation. It soothes the feelings, sweetens the temper, and refines the taste. In addition to the cultivation of the voice, and the practice of vocal music, you will find great sat- isfaction in learning to play on some instrument of music, to be able to carry your part on the flute or viol. This will greatly diminish the temptation to go abroad for amusement ; and in proportion as you find your pleasure at home, THE ONLY SON. 43 will you be safe from those evil influences which have proved the destruction of so many boys. But perhaps you are an only child. Then you will enjoy the exclusive affections and attention of your parents, without a rival. But you will lose the advantage of the society of brothers and sisters. The former will be no benefit; for parents do not abate their love to their first- born, when others are added to their number. But the exclusive love to an only child often de- generates into excessive indulgence. The so- ciety of brothers and sisters, though it often tries the temper, yet contributes greatly to the happiness of a ehild. It provides a wholesome discipline, and affords the means of learning how to behave among equals ; which an only child cannot learn at home. You will be likely to think too much of yourself, because you will receive the exclusive attentions of your parents, and will not have before you the daily example of your equals. These things you must guard against; and endeavor to make up the defi- ciency, by carrying out the hints I have given, in the society of other children, wherever you meet them. In conclusion, I will give you one little family rule. You may think it a very little one ; but it is able to do wonders. If you will try it one 44 NEVER BE CROSS. week, and never deviate from it, I will promise you the happiest week you ever enjoyed. And, more than this, you will diffuse such a sunshine about you as to make others happy also. My little rule is this : NEVER BE CROSS. * CHAPTER VI. BEHAVIOR AT SCHOOL. MOST of what I have said in the last two chapters will apply to your behavior at school. When you go to school, your teachers take the place of your parents. To them, for the time being, your parents have delegated their author- ity. You are bound, therefore, to give to them the same reverence and obedience which are due to your parents. To disobey, or to dishonor them in any other way, is a breach of the fifth commandment, which, in its spirit, requires sub- ordination to lawful authority; or, as the Cate- chism says, " The fifth commandment requireth the preserving the honor of, and performing the duties belonging to, every one, in their several places and relations, as superiors, inferiors, or equals." You ought, therefore, in the first place, to pay strict regard to every rule of the school, as a religious duty ; and obey your teacher, in all things, with the same promptness and cheerful- ness that you would obey your parents. You should be too careful of your own reputation to 46 HONORING TEACHERS. permit yourself to be reprimanded by your teach- er. If you take up the resolution that you will be so diligent, faithful, and well-behaved, as never to be reproved, you will find it a very whole- some restraint, to keep you within the bounds of propriety. Be careful of the honor of your teachers, remembering that, if you dishonor them, you break God's holy commandment. Never call in question their arrangements; and never indulge feelings of dissatisfaction. Espe- cially, never speak slightingly or disrespectfully of them, nor of their ways. It does not become you to call in question their arrangements, or their mode of teaching. If you are wiser than they, you had better not seek instruction from them ; but if not, then you should be satisfied with the dictates of their superior wisdom. Never attempt to question their proceedings, nor to argue with them, when they require you to do any thing. Be very careful, also, not to carry home tales from school ; because such a prac- tice tends to cultivate a disposition to tattle, and often leads to great mischief. Yet, when your parents make inquiries, it is your duty to answer them. Be diligent in your studies, from principle, not from a spirit of emulation. Remember that you are placed at school for your own benefit. It DILIGENCE IN STUDF. 47 is not for your parents' advantage, nor for the benefit of your teachers, that you are required to study ; but for your own good. Remember how much pains your parents take, to give you this opportunity. They give up your time, which they have a right to employ for their own ben- efit, and they expend money for the support of schools, that you may have the opportunity of ob- taining useful learning. You are bound, there- fore, to improve this opportunity with great dili- gence. You will not think it a task, that you are compelled to study ; but you will regard it as a price* put into your hands to get wisdom. It is all for your own benefit. In school hours, therefore, you should put away all thoughts of play, and all communication with other scholars, and give yourself strictly and closely to your studies. Cut, I suppose you will find the most difficulty in regulating your conduct during the intervals of school hours, and on your way to and from school. When a great many young persons of your own age are together, there is a disposition to throw off restraint. I would not have you un- der such restraint as to avoid all relaxation and innocent hilarity ; for these are necessary to keep your mind and body in a healthful condition. * Prov. xvii. 16. 48 LINGERING BY THE WAY But, here, you will be more exposed to temp- tation. As punctuality is of great importance in school, and a necessary habit to be cultivated, you need to make it a matter of principle to be always in your seat a few minutes before the opening of school. A failure to do this, will rob you of many advantages, and greatly embarrass your teacher. It will, also, give you the habit of tardi- ness, which will be a great injury to you, as long as you live, whatever may be your occupation. But, in order to be punctual, you must not linger to engage in sport by the way. So, likewise, in returning from school, you ought to be equally punctual in reporting yourself at home ; for you know not what your parents may have for you to do. This, also, forbids your lingering for amuse- ment on the way home. But, besides these, there are other reasons why you should not idle away your time on the way. Idle boys are always in the way of temptation ; for " Satan finds some mischief still For idle hands to do." If you linger along on the way, you will be very likely to meet with some bad boys, who will lead you astray, and involve you in some mis- chief that will get you into serious difficulty. A boy was walking along in the streets of Boston, A STORY. 49 and another boy, who knew him oy name, called to him from the other side of the street, saying, " Come, John, come over here, and we'll have some fun." "No, I can't," John replied; "I must go home." " But just come over here a minute." " No, I can't," said John ; " my mutu- er expects me home." But the boy still urged him, and at length prevailed on him to cross the street. They then went into a hardware store ; and the boy who called John over stole some knives and disappeared ; and John was taken for the theft, because he was with the other boy at the time, and put in jail. Thus, by just stopping on the way, and going across the street, he got into jail. If he had made it his invariable rule to go directly on his way, and not linger, and idle his time away, he would have been saved from this suffering, shame, and disgrace. But, if you indulge in the same habit of lingering by the way, you will be exposed to similar tempta- tion and trouble. In all your intercourse with your school-fellows, be kind and obliging. Treat them courteously, and avoid every thing that is rough, coarse, and rude. Endeavor to behave like a young gen- tleman. Avoid the company of boys who are rough and coarse in their manners, or profane or obscene in their conversation. You will inscn- 5 50 BE GENTLEMANLY. sibly imbibe their vulgarity, if you associate with them. In your sports or plays, be conscientiously fair and honorable. The boy, who is unfair or dishonest in his play, when he becomes a man, will drive a hard bargain or be dishonest in his business. If you go where boys and girls are associated in the same school, have a strict regard to pro- priety, in your intercourse with the other sex. Be gentlemanly in your behavior towards them. Avoid all rudeness or roughness of manners and conversation in their presence. Especially, re- frain from rude jests and low buffoonery. You may engage with them in sensible conversation ; but a well-bred girl will be offended if you at- tempt to please her by trying how nonsensically and silly you can talk. Venture no improper liberties ; but maintain your own self-respect by respecting them. Finally, see that you do nothing in school or out of it, which you would be unwilling your pa- rents should see ; and remember that there is One Eye that is always upon you. 51 CHAPTER VII. BEHAVIOR AT TABLE. DID it ever occur to you to inquire why all civilized people have their food prepared at par- ticular hours, and all the family sit at table to- gether? Why not have the food prepared, and placed where every one can go and eat, whenever he pleases, by himself? One great advantage of having a whole family sit together, and partake of their meals at the same time, is, that it brings them together in a social way, every day. But for this, and the assembling of the family at prayers, they might not all meet at once for a long time. But eating together is a mark of friendship ; and it tends to promote social feel- ing. In a well-regulated family, also, it is a means of great improvement, both of mind and manners. It is, in fact, a school of good man- ners. You will perceive, then, how very im- portant it is, that your behavior at table should always be regulated by the rules of propriety. If you acquire vulgar habits here, or practise rudeness, you will find it difficult to overcome 52 BEHAVIOR AT TABLE. them ; and they will make you appear to great disadvantage. I shall mention a few things to be observed, at the table, by one who would maintain a char- acter for good breeding. And, first of all, be not tardy in taking your place at the table In a well-regulated family, the master of he family waits till all are seated before he asks a blessing. Suppose there are five persons at the table, and you hinder them all by your tar- diness three minutes, you waste fifteen min- utes of precious time. To those who set a proper value upon time, this is a great evil. There is no need of it ; you may as easily be at your seat in time as too late. When called to a meal, never wait to finish what you are doing, but promptly leave it, and proceed to your place. Above all, do not delay till after the blessing, and so sit down to your food like a heathen. The table is a place for easy, cheerful, social intercourse ; but some children make it a place of noisy clamor. The younger members of the family should leave it for the parents (and guests, if there are any,) to take the lead in conversa- tion. It does not appear well for a very young person to be forward and talkative at table. You should generally wait till you are spoken TABLE TALK. 53 to; or, if you wish to make an inquiry or a remark, do it in a modest, unassuming way, not raising your voice, nor spinning out a story. And be especially careful not to interrupt any other person. Sensible people will get a very unfavorable impression concerning you, if they see you bold and talkative at table. Yet you should never appear inattentive to what others are saying. Be not so intent on discussing the contents of your plate, as not to observe the movements of others, or to hear their conversa- tion. Show your interest in what is said by occasional glances at the speaker, and by the expression of your countenance ; but be not too anxious to put a word in yourself. Some chil- dren make themselves ridiculous, by always join- ing in, and making their remarks, when older persons are speaking, often giving a grave opinion of some matter about which they know nothing. Be helpf il to others, without staring at them, or neglecting your own plate. You may keep your eye on the movements around you, to pass a cup and saucer, to notice if any one near you needs helping, and to help any dish that is within your reach. By so doing, you may greatly relieve your father and mother, who must be very busy, if they help all the family. By cultivating a close observation, and studying to know and 5* 54 STUDY PROPRIETY. anticipate the wants of others, you will be able to do these things in a genteel and graceful mari- ner, without appearing obtrusive or forward. Study propriety. If asked what you will be helped to, do not answer in an indefinite man- ner, saying, you " have no choice ; " for this will put the master of the house to the inconvenience of choosing for you. Do not wait, after you are asked, to determine what you will have, but an- swer promptly ; and do not be particular in your choice. To be very particular in the choice of food is not agreeable to good breeding. Never ask for what is not on the table. Do not make remarks respecting the food ; and avoid express- ing your likes and dislikes of particular arti- cles. One of your age should not appear to be an epicure. Show your praise of the food set be- fore you, by the good nature and relish with which you partake of it ; but do not eat so fast as to appear voracious. Never put on sour looks, nor turn up your nose at your food. This is un- mannerly, and a serious affront to the mistress of the table. Be careful to use your knife and fork as other people do, and to know when to lay them down, and when to hold them in your hands. Be careful not to drop your food, nor to spill liquids on the cloth. Do not leave the table before the family withdraw from it, unless LITTLE THINGS. 55 it is necessary; and then, ask to be excused. Neither linger to finish your meal, after you per- ceive the rest have done. Besides what I have mentioned, there are a great many nameless little things, that go to make up good manners at table, which you must learn by studying the rules of propriety, and observing the behavior of others. 56 CHAPTER VIII. BEHAVIOR AT FAMILY WORSHIP ALL well-regulated Christian families are as- sembled, morning and evening, to worship God. Seeing we are dependent on him for all things, it is suitable and proper that we should daily acknowledge our dependence, by asking him for what we need, and thanking him for what we receive. That we should do this as a family is highly proper. But if it is our duty to worship God as a family, it is the duty of every one in particular. It is as much your duty as it is your father's. You must, therefore, not only make it a principle to be in your place punctually at the time, but to enter heartily into all the exercises. Some children and youth appear as if they had no interest in what is going on, at this most in- teresting household service. But this is not only showing great disrespect to your parents, but great irreverence toward God. It will help you to right feelings, on these occasions, if you im- agine Christ Jesus present in person. God is present spiritually, and in a peculiar manner, at FAMILY WORSHIP. 57 such times, to bless the families that call on his name. When, therefore, the family are assem- bled for prayers, you should put away all vain or wandering thoughts. When the time arrives, and the family are assembled for devotion, seat yourself, in a serious, reverent manner; and if there should be a few moments' delay, do not engage in conversation, nor in reading news- papers, or any thing calculated to divert your mind ; but direct your thoughts upward to God, and seek a preparation for his worship. Suffer not your mind to be occupied with any thing but the service before you. Let not your eyes wan- der about, to catch vagrant thoughts. Let not your hands be occupied with any thing, to divert your attention or to disturb others. Have your Bible, and take your turn in reading. Be atten- tive and devout, during the reading of God's holy word, endeavoring to apply it to your heart. If the family sing, enter into this sweet service, not only with your lips, but with your heart. When prayer is offered, place yourself in the attitude which is taken by your father and mother. If they kneel, do you kneel also, not sit, nor re- cline, but stand upon your knees ; in a reverent posture. Shut your eyes, and keep your heart. Let your heart embrace the words of the prayer, and make them your own. Remember that the 58 FAMILY WORSHIP. devotional habits you form at the family altar, are the habits that will follow you to God's house, and probably adhere to you through life. And what can be more shocking than to see persons pretending to gentility, who do not know how to behave with propriety before the great God that made them ! If you were in company, and should treat the person that invited you with as much indifference as you treat God by such con- duct, you would be considered a very ill-bred person. He has invited you to come to his mercy-seat to converse with him, and to receive favors at his hand ; and yet, by such conduct as I have named, you show no interest at all in the matter. Family devotion, when rightly improved, is a very important means of grace. If you attend upon it seriously and reverently, you may hope that God will bless it to your soul. It tends, also, to tranquillize the feelings, and prepare you to engage in the duties of the day with serenity and cheerfulness. 59 CHAPTER IX. PRIVATE PRAYER. I SUPPOSE, if my readers are the children of pious parents, they have been taught from their earliest recollection, to retire, morning arid even- ing, to some secret place, to read their Bible alone, and engage in private prayer. This, in very early childhood, is often an interesting and affecting service. But when young people come to a certain age, if their hearts are not renewed, they are disposed to regard this as an irksome duty, and gradually to leave it off. They find the old adage, in the primer, true, "Praying will make thee leave sinning, and sinning will make thee leave praying." It is a sad period, in the history of a young person, when the early habit of prayer is given up. Then the heart becomes like the garden of the slothful, described by Solomon : -r-. " I went by the field of the slothful, and by the vineyard of the man void of understanding ; and lo, it was all grown over with thorns, and nettles had covered the face thereof, and the stone wall thereof was broken down." 60 THE PRAYERLESS SOUL. There are no good plants thriving in the prayerless soul ; but weeds, and briars, and thorns, grow thick and rank, occupying every vacant spot. The stone wall is broken down : there is no defence against the beasts of the field. Every vagrant thought, every vicious passion, find free admittance. The heart grows hard, and the spirit careless. Sin is not dreaded as it once was The fear of God and the desire of his favor are gone. " God is not in all his thoughts." That youth stands on the very edge of a frightful precipice. I would not have you think, however, that there is any merit in prayer ; or that the prayers of one whose " heart is not right with God" are acceptable to him. But, what I say is, that every one ought to pray to God with a right heart. If your heart is not right with God, then it is wrong ; and you are to blame for having it wrong. I will suppose a case, to illustrate what I mean. You see a child rise up in the morning, and go about the house ; and though its mother is with it all the time, yet the child neither speaks to her nor seems to notice her at all. After a while, the mother asks what is the matter, and why her dear child does not speak to her? The child says, " I have no heart to speak to you, moth- er. I do not love you ; and so I think it would EXCUSES. 61 be wrong for me to speak to you." What would you think of such conduct? You would say, " The child ought to love its mother ; and it is only an aggravation of its offence, to carry out the feelings of its heart in its conduct?" " Would you then have it act the hypocrite, and speak with its lips what it does not feel in its heart ? " No ; but I would have it love its mother, as every dutiful child ought to do, and then act out, in its speech and behavior, what it feels in its heart. But I would never have it excuse itself from right actions because its heart is wrong. Now, apply this to the subject of prayer, and you will see the character of all im- penitent excuses for neglecting this duty. And those who go on and continue to neglect it, cer- tainly "have no reason to expect that their hearts will grow any better by it, but only worse. But in attempting to perform a sacred duty, the Lord may give you grace to perform it aright, and then you will have a new heart. If possible, have a particular place of prayer, where you can be secure from all interruption, and particular times for it. At the appointed hours, retire alone, and pijt away all thoughts about your studies, your work, your amusements, or any thing of a worldly nature, and try to real- ize that God is as truly present as if you saw 6 02 HOW TO PRAY. him with your bodily eyes. Then read his word, as though you heard him speaking to you in the sacred page ; and when your mind has become serious and collected, kneel down and acknowledge God as your Creator and Preserver, your God and Redeemer; thank him for the mercies you have received, mentioning particu- larly every good thing you can think of, that you have received from him; confess your sins; plead for pardon, through the blood of Jesus Christ; and ask him to give you such blessings as you see and feel that you need. Pray also for your friends, (and for your enemies, if you have any;) and conclude with a prayer for the coming of Christ's kingdom every where throughout the world. Some young people neglect to pray, because they think they are not able to form their words into prayer. But you need not be afraid to speak to God. If you can find language to ask your parents for what you desire, you can find words to express your desires to God; and he will not upbraid you for the imperfection of your language. He looks at the heart. If that is right, your prayer will be accepted. Let me earnestly entreat you to have your set times for prayer, at least as often as morning and evening ; and never suffer yourself to neglect BENEFITS OF PRAYER. 63 them. And. especially, do not adopt the un- seemly practice of saying your prayers in bed, but give to God the brightest and best hours of the day, and not offer to him the blind and the lame for sacrifice. You will find the regular and stated habit of prayer, thus formed in early life, of great value to you, as long as you live. But let me once more caution you not to trust in your prayers, for they cannot save you ; and do ( not think, because you are regular and ha- bitual in attending to the outward forms of duty, that you must be a Christian. Prayer, if sincere and true, will prepare you for engaging in the duties of the day, or for enjoying calm repose at night. If, for any cause, you neglect prayer in the morning, you may expect things will go ill with you all the day. You can do nothing well with- out God's blessing ; and you cannot expect his blessing without asking for it. You need, also, that calm, tranquil, humble spirit which prayer promotes, to prepare you to encounter those things which are constantly occurring to try the feelings, and to enable you to do any thing well. Therefore, never engage in any thing of importance without first seeking direction of God ; and never do any thing on which you would be unwilling to ask His blessing. 64 CHAPTER X. KEEPING THE SABBATH. SOME people esteem it a hardship to be com- pelled to keep the Sabbath. They think it an interference with their liberties, that the state should make laws to punish them for break- ing it. This disposition very early shows itself in children. Often they think it is hard that they are restrained from play, or from seeking their pleasure, on the holy Sabbath. But God did not give us the Sabbath for his own sake, or because he is benefited by our keeping it. The Bible says, " The Sabbath was made for man." God gave us the Sabbath for our benefit, and for two purposes. He has made us so that we need rest one day in seven. It has been proved, upon fair trial, that men cannot do as much, nor preserve their health as well, by la- boring seven days in a week, as they can by la- boring six days, and resting one day in a week. If there were no Sabbath, you would have no day ot rest. You would grow weary of school, if you were obliged to attend and study seven days BENEFITS OF THE SABBATH. 65 in a week. If you are kept at home to work, you would soon tire out, if you had to labor every day in the week. But, by resting every seventh day, you get recruited, so that you are able to go on with study or work with new vigor. The Sabbath, in this respect, is then a great blessing to you ; and you ought to be so thank- ful to God for it, as to keep it strictly according to his command. Another object of the Sabbath is, to give all people an opportunity to lay aside their worldly cares and business, to worship God and learn his will. The other design of the Sabbath was, to benefit the body ; this is, to bless the soul. If there were no Sabbath, people. that are de- pendent upon others would be obliged to work every day in the week ; and they would have no time to meet together for the worship of God. And, if every one were allowed to choose his own time for worshipping God, there would be no agreement. One would be at meeting, anoth- er would be at work, and others would be seek- ing their pleasure. But, in order to have every one at liberty to worship God without disturb- ance, he has set apart one day in seven for this purpose. On this day, he requires us to rest from all labor and recreation, and spend its sa- cred hours in learning his will, and in acts of 6* 66 THE SABBATH BENEFITS THE SOUL. demotion. The Sabbath thus becomes a means of improving the mind and the heart. It fur- nishes the best opportunity for social improve- ment that could be devised. It brings the people together, in their best attire, to exercise their minds in understanding divine truth, and their hearts in obeying it. And the same object, and the same spirit, it carries out in the family. If, therefore, you ever consider the duties of the holy Sabbath irksome and unpleasant, or feel uneasy under its restraints, you perceive that you must be very unreasonable, since they are de- signed for your good. You will not, then, find feult with me, if I am rigid in requiring the strict observance of the Sabbath. One thing I would nave you remember, If you would receive the full benefit of the holy Sabbath, you must form right habits of keeping it, early in life. To give it full power over the mind, it must be associated, in our earliest recollections, with order, quiet, stillness, and solemnity. If you are in the habit of disregarding it in early life, you lose all the benefit and enjoyment to be derived from these sacred associations. The best directions for keeping the Sabbath, any where to be found, are contained in the thirteenth verse of the fifty-eighth chapter of Isaiah : "If thou turn away thy foot from the HOW TO KEEP THE SABBATH. 67 Sabbath, from doing thy pleasure en my holy day, and call the Sabbath a delight, the holy of the Lord, honorable ; and shalt honor him, not doing thine own ways, nor finding thine own pleasure, nor speaking thine own words " You must turn away your foot from the Sabbath, not trampling on it by doing your own pleasure, in- stead of the pleasure of the Lord. Your foot must not move to perform any act that is con- trary to the design of this sacred day ; and es pecially, must not go after your own pleasure. You must not do your own ways, nor Jind your own pleasure. These things may be lawful on othei days ; but on this day, every thing must have reference to God. You must not even speak your own words. Worldly, vain, light, or trifling conversation is thus forbidden. And, if you may not speak your own words, you may not think your own thoughts. Worldly, vain, trifling thoughts, or thoughts of your pleasure, are not lawful on God's holy day. But you must not only refrain from these things ; the Sabbath "s not properly kept, unless its sacred services are a delight to the soul. If you are tired of hear *ng, reading, and thinking of the things of another world, you do not keep the Sabbath according to these directions. To one who enters truly into the spirit of God's holy day, it is the most 68 PREPARATION. delightful of the seven. You remember, in the memoir of Phebe Bartlett, it is stated that she so loved the Subbath that she would long to have it come, and count the days intervening before it. Such are the feelings of all who love God and sacred things. Having made these general remarks, I will give you a few simple directions for making the Sabbath both profitable and delightful. The evening before the Sabbath, do every thing that can be done, to save doing on the Sabbath Leave nothing to be done in God's time that you can do in your own time. Lay out your Sabbath day's clothing, and see that it is all in order, that you may have no brushing or mend- ing to be done Sabbath morning. Rise early in the morning, and, while washing and dressing which you will do in as little time as possible think of your need of the " washing of regener ation and renewing of the Holy Ghost," and o. being clothed in the clean, white robe of Christ's righteousness. Then offer up your thanksgiving to God for his mercy in preserving your life, and giving you another holy Sabbath, and pray for his presence and blessing through the day. If you are called by your father or mother, for any service of the family, go to it cheerfully ; and as soon as you can retire again, read a portion GOING TO MEETING. 69 of Scripture, and pray to God for such particular blessings upon yourself as you feel your need of, and for his blessing upon others on his holy day. If you attend the Sabbath school, you will need to look over your lesson for the day, and en- deavor to apply it to your own heart ; for I sup- pose you do not put off the study of your lesson till Sabbath morning. Never stay at home on the Sabbath, unless you are necessarily detained. Make it a matter of principle and calculation always to be there. On your way to the house of God, do not en- gage in any unnecessary conversation, especially that which is vain, light, or trifling, to divert your mind, and unfit you for the worship of God. Do not stand about the doors of the meeting- house, to salute your friends, or to converse with your young companions. This practice, I am sorry to say, prevails in the country, among young people of both sexes, to the great annoy- ance of well-bred people. It is a great temptation to conversation improper for the Sabbath. It is very unpleasant for people who are passing, to have the way blocked up, so as to have to press through a crowd. Neither do people like to be stared at, by a company of rude young people, as they pass into the house of God. I am sorry to admit, also, that this unmannerly practice is 70 BEHAVIOR IN THE HOUSE OP GOD not confined to youth; but that many elderly people set the example. Instead of doing so, go directly to your seat, in a quiet, reverent man- ner ; and if any time intervenes before the com- mencement of public worship, do not spend it in gazing about the house, to observe the dress of different persons ; but take the opportunity to compose your mind, to call in all vagrant thoughts, to get your heart impressed with a sense of God's presence, and to lift up your soul in silent prayer for his blessing. Or, if the time be long, you can employ a part of it in reading the Bible, or devotional hymns. But do not carry any other book to the house of worship to be read there. If you have a Sab- bath school library book, it will be better not to read it at such a time, because you will be likely to get your mind filled with it, so as to interfere with the services of the sanctuary. But the Bible and hymn book, being of a devotional character, will tend to prepare your mind for worship. Above all, do not read a newspaper, of any kind, at such a time. Even a religious newspaper would tend to divert your mind from that serious, tender, devout frame, which you ought to possess when you engage in the solemn public worship of the Great Jehovah. But I have often witnessed more serious improprieties, in PUBLIC WORSHIP 71 the house of God, than any of these. I have seen young people whispering and laughing during the sermon ; and it is a very common thing to see them gazing about during the singing, as though they had nothing to do with the service. I have also seen them engaged in reading, in the time of sermon, or of singing. Some, also, are seen, in time of prayer, with their eyes wide open, gazing about. Such conduct would be very un- mannerly, if nobody were concerned but the minister ; for it is treating him as though he were not worthy of your attention. But when it is considered that he speaks to you in the name of God, and that, in prayer, while you stand up with the congregation, you profess to join in the prayer ; and while the hymn is sung, you pro- fess to exercise the devout feeling which it expresses, when all these things are considered, such conduct as that I have described appears impious in a high degree. Instead of being guilty of such improprieties, you will endeavor, from the heart, to join in the sentiments expressed in prayer and praise ; and listen to the sermon with all attention, as a mes- sage sent from God to you. You must not think that the sermon is designed for older people, and therefore you have nothing to do with it ; nor take up the notion that sermons are too 72 HOW TO HEAR. dry and uninteresting to engage your attention. The minister speaks to you, in the name of God, those great truths which concern the salvation of the soul. Can they be of no interest to you ? Have you not a soul to be saved or lost 1 Nor need you think that you cannot understand the sermon. If you give your attention, you can understand a sermon as well as you can under- stand the lessons you are required every day to study at school. If you do not understand preach- ing, it is because you do not give your mind to rt, and hear with attention. Your mind is here and there, " walking to and fro in the earth, and going up and down in it ; " and you only catch, here and there, a sentence of the sermon. This is the reason you do not understand it. En- deavor to examine your heart and life by what you hear, and to apply it to yourself in such a way as to be benefitted by it. And, when you leave the house of God, do not immediately engage in conversation, and by this means dissipate all impression ; but, as far as possible, go home in silence, and retire to your closet, to seek the blessing of God upon the services of his house, on which you have attended. I suppose, of course, that you attend the Sab. bath school. I think it a great advantage to those who rightly improve it. But, like every SABBATH SCHOOL. 73 other privilege, it may be so neglected or abused as to be of no benefit. If you pay no attention to the Sabbath school lesson at home, your mere attendance upon the recitation at school will do you little good. You will feel little interest, and receive little profit. But, if you make it the occasion for the faithful study of the Holy Scrip- tures at home, to ascertain their meaning, and to become acquainted with the great truths of Christianity, it will be of great service to you in forming your Christian character. Having well and thoroughly studied your Sab- bath school lesson, you will then be prepared to engage in the recitation with interest. In the Sabbath school, you will observe the same gen- eral directions for propriety of behavior as in public worship. You are to remember that it is the holy Sabbath, and that the Sabbath school is a religious meeting. All lightness of manner is out of place. A serious deportment is neces- sary, if you would profit by it. Courtesy to your teacher, and to the school, also requires that you should give your attention, and not be con- versing or reading during the recitation, or while your teacher is speaking to you. In an- swering the questions, you should be full and explicit ; not merely making the briefest possible reply, but entering into the subject with interest. 7 74 SABBATH NOON, But be careful that you do not give indulgence to a self-confident, conceited spirit, nor appear as if you thought yourself wiser than your teacher. Such a spirit indulged will have an injurious in- fluence in the formation of your character, and will make you an object of disgust to sensible people. Some young people, when a little past the period of childhood, begin to feel as if they were too old to attend the Sabbath school, and so gradually absent themselves, and finally leave it altogether. This arises from a mistaken notion as to the design of the Sabbath school. It is not a school for children merely ; but a school for all classes of people, to engage in the study of the most wonderful book in the world. I hope you will never think of leaving the Sabbath school, as long as you are able to attend it. If you do, you will suffer a loss which you will regret as long as you live. * If you remain at the house of worship between the Sabbath school and the afternoon service, as many do in the country, you will be ex- posed to temptations to profane the Sabbath. To prevent this, avoid meeting with your com- panions, in groups, for conversation. How- ever well-disposed you may be, you can hardly avoid being drawn into conversation unsuitable STUDYING THE LESSON. 75 for the holy Sabbath. If you take a book from the Sabbath school library, this will be a suitable time to read it, if you are careful not to extend the reading into the afternoon ser- vice, or suffer your thoughts to be diverted by what you have read. But the practice of read- ing the Sabbath school books during divine service, which prevails among children, and even with some young men and women, is not only very irreverent, but a gross violation of good breeding. It is slighting the service of God, and treating the minister as though they thought what he has to say to them not worth their attention. You ought to have a particular time set apart for the study of your Sabbath school lesson. I should prefer that this be taken during the week, so as not to task your mind too severely on the Sabbath with study, inasmuch as it is a day of rest. But, if you cannot do this, I should advise that you study it Sabbath afternoon, and review it the next Sabbath morning. Some portion of the Sabbath afternoon, or evening, you will employ, under the direction of your parents, in repeating the Catechism, which, I hope nuue of my readers will consider beneath their attention. " The Shorter Catechism" next to the Bible, I regard as the best book in exist- 76 LEARNING THE CATECHISM. ence to lay the foundation of a strong and solid religious character. If you get it thoroughly committed to memory, so as to be able to repeat it verbatim from beginning to end, you will never regret it ; but, as long as you live, you will have occasion to rejoice in it. I cannot now give you any adequate idea of the benefit you will derive from it. These catechetical exercises in your father's house will be associated, in your mind, with the most precious recollections of your early years. As I said with regard to your Sabbath school lessons, and for the same reason, I should advise you, if possible, to study the por- tion of the Catechism to be recited, during the week. But if you cannot do so, it should be studied on the afternoon or evening of the Sab- bath. If, however, you study these lessons >n the week time, you will be able to spend the afternoon and evening of the Sabbath, except what is devoted to family worship and repeating the Catechism, in reading serious and devotional books, which will not tax your mind so much. If you are engaged in study all the week, your mind will need rest. Therefore, I would have you prosecute your religious study during the week, and let your mind be taxed less on the Sabbath, reading such books and engaging hi such services as are calculated more to affect REVIEW OF THE DAY. 77 the heart, than to tax the mind. You ought to spend more time than usual, on God's holy day, in your closet, in reading the Scriptures and prayer. But, besides the Bible, I would particularly recommend Religious Biographies, and such works as Bunyan's " Pilgrim's Pro- gress" and "Holy War," D'Aubigne's " His- tory of the Reformation," &c. But secular history, or any books or papers of a secular character, should not be read on the holy Sab- bath. In general, you may safely read, on Sabbath afternoon, the books that you find IB the Sabbath school library ; though it will some- times happen that a book creeps into the library that is not suitable for this sacred day. A por- tion of the evening of the Sabbath, before retir- ing to rest, should be spent in reviewing the day, recollecting the sermons, examining how you have kept the aay, and seeking in prayer the pardon of what has been amiss, and God's bless- ing on all the services in which you have been engaged. A Sabbath thus spent will be a blessing to you, not only for the six days following, but as long as you live. It will contribute to the for- mation of religious habits that you will be thank- Ail for to the day of your death. And when you become accustomed to spending your Sabbaths 7* 78 SABBATH DELIGHTFUL. thus, so far from finding them long and tedious days, you will find them the most delightful of the seven, and will only regret that they are TOO SHORT they come to an end before you have finished all the good designs you have formed. The fact that God has set apart a day to him- self, and commanded us to keep it holy, would naturally lead us to conclude that he would order his Providence so as to favor its observance. We have only need to examine the subject to be con- vinced that he does so. When his ancient peo- ple, the children of Israel, refused to keep his Sabbaths, and trampled his holy day under foot, he emptied them out of the land, and caused them to be carried off into a strange country, and to remain there seventy years. This was threat- ened in Leviticus xxvi. 34, 35: " Then shall the land enjoy her Sabbaths, as long as it lieth desolate, and ye be in your enemies' land ; even then shall the land rest, and enjoy her Sabbaths. As long as it lieth desolate, it shall rest ; because it did not rest in your Sabbaths, when ye dwelt upon it." In 2 Ch. xxxvi. 20, 21, this is referred to as one of the principal reasons why they were carried away to Babylon : " And them that escaped the sword carried he away to Baby.on ; where they were servants to him and his sons, until the reign of the kingdom of Persia, to fulfil THOSE BLEST WHO KEEP THE SABBATH. 79 the word of the Lord by the mouth of Jeremiah the prophet, until the land had enjoyed her Sab- baths ; for as long as she lay desolate, she kept Sabbath, to fulfil threescore and ten years.' ' I can think of no reason why God, in his holy Providence, should not punish Sabbath-breakers now as well as then. I have no doubt that he does. If we could see the design of his Provi- dence, as it is explained in the Bible, no one would doubt it. Sir Matthew Hale, after a long and laborious public life, declared, as the result of his experience, that he found his affairs pros- per, during the week, just in proportion to the strictness with which he had observed the Sab- bath ; and that he had never met with success in any business which was planned on the Sabbath. I might fill this book with narratives of ac- cidents that have happened to young people, while seeking their pleasure on the Lord's day. Scarcely a week occurs, in the summer season, but the papers contain accounts of parties of young people drowned while taking Sabbath ex- cursions on the water, or of young men and boys drowned while bathing on the Lord's day. Many very striking accounts of this kind have been collected and published in tracts. And a great many facts of a more general nature have also been published, in various forms, showing 80 SABBATH-BREAKERS PUNISHED. that it is profitable to keep the Sabbath, and un- prqfitable and dangerous to break it. My ob- ject, in this place, is simply to impress on the minds of my readers the very important influ- ence which the proper observance of the Sab- bath has in the formation of character. And I wish them to follow the youth through life who has been accustomed to keep the Sabbath, and who continues to keep it ; and then follow the course of one who has, in early life, been accus- tomed to disregard God's holy day. And one thought, in particular, I desire you to ponder well, The Sabbath-breaker cannot expect God's protection. And, if God forsakes you, what will oecome of you ? A party of young people set out for a sail, on the Sabbath day. One of the young ladies told her brother that she felt very bad to think she was breaking the Sabbath, and she must return home. But he entreated her not to spoil his pleasure, for he should not enjoy it, unless she went with him ; and to please him she consented to go. The boat was upset, and she was drown- ed. The distracted brother now gave vent to his grief in the most bitter lamentation. He had been the means of her death. There he stood, wringing his hands in agony, and exclaiming, "O! what shall I do! How can I see my fa- ther's face ! " THE YOUNG SABBATH-BREAKER. 81 There was a boy in Boston, the son of respec- table parents, who gave promise of becoming a respectable and useful man. He stood well in school, and had the reputation of being a good scholar. He attended the Sabbath school, and appeared to be a good boy. His mother was en- deavoring to bring him up in the way he should go. But, on one Sabbath, he was persuaded by some bad boys not to go to Sabbath school, but to go with them to Chelsea. This was his first step in the down-hill road. The next thing was, to conceal his conduct from his mother. She asked him if he had been to Sabbath school, and he said he had. Then she asked him for the text. He repeated a text ; and as she was not able to go that afternoon, she could not detect his deception. He also pretended to repeat parts of the sermon, in order to blind her eyes. She was satisfied, supposing he had been at Sabbath school and meeting, secure from temptation. Finding he had succeeded so well in deceiving his mother, he continued to seek his pleasure on God's holy day, and to repeat his deceptions to his mother, making her believe that he had been at Sabbath school and meeting. He went on so for some time, hardening himself in sin, and associating with bad boys, till he became ripe for mischief and crime. He was employed by 82 BOY IN PRISON. the publisher of a paper, as an errand boy. One part of his duty was to bring letters and papers from the post-office. While thus engaged, he learned that money frequently came to his em- ployer in letters. After a while, he left this em ployment. The money in the letters now tempt- ed him. Having hardened his heart by breaking the S.abbath, associating with bad boys, and de- ceiving his mother, he had not strength of prin- ciple to resist. He continued to receive the let- ters, robbing them of their contents. At length he was detected, and sent to prison for two years. The gentleman who related this to me said he went one day to- the prison, and there he saw the boy's mother and sister, talking with him through an iron-grated window, and weeping as though they would break their hearts. All this came upon him by his seeking his pleasure on God's holy day. And if you knew the history of those who have been imprisoned for crime, you would find a great many such cases. If he had turned away his foot from the Sabbath, from seeking his pleasure on this holy day, he might have been sitting with his mother and sister in their own quiet home, instead of being locked up in a filthy prison, with a company of hardened criminals. 83 CHAPTER XL HABITS. BESIDES what I have noticed in several of the foregoing chapters, there are many things of a general nature, which I shall group together under the title of habits. A habit is what has become easy and natural by frequent repetition. People not unfrequently become much attached to practices, which at first were very unpleasant. You will sometimes see men chewing, smoking, or snuffing tobacco, a most filthy and poisonous plant, a little bit of which you could not be per- suaded to take into your mouth, it is so nau- seous ; yet, by long use, people learn to love it. That is a habit. So, likewise, you see persons very fond of drinking intoxicating liquors, which to you would be a nauseous medicine; and which are poisonous and destructive to all. It is practice which has made these drinks so pleas- ant. This is a habit. Habits are both bad and good; and a habit is a very good or a very bad thing, as it is good or bad. Habits are mostly formed in early life ; and a habit, once formed, is difficult to be broken ; once fixed, it may follow you as long as you live. 84 DILATORINESS I shall specify a few of the bad habits which boys of your age are liable to contract, with their opposite good habits. It is very likely I shall fail to notice many others, equally important ; but these may put you upon thinking, and lead you to discover and correct other bad practices. I. DILATORINESS or TARDINESS. The tardy boy is dilatory about rising in the morning. Al- though old Chanticleer is pouring his shrill note of warning into his ear, and the birds are filling the air with their merry song, and the morning rays o. :he sun are peeping stealthily through the half-closed shutter, still he thinks, " There's time enough yet ; " and instead of starting up with the lark, he lingers and delays, saying with the sluggard, " A little more sleep, a little more slumber, a little more folding of the hands to sleep." At length he rises, in a yawning mood, and proceeds slowly to pull on his clothes, ling- ering with every article, looking here and there, and stopping every now and then to play, or to amuse himself in gazing about his chamber. And sometimes he stops, half-dressed, to read a story from a piece of an old newspaper. In this and other ways, he amuses himself until the breakfast bell rings, and he is not ready. Per- haps he has been called half a dozen times to " do his chores," and as often answered, " Well, TARDINESS. 85 /'//; coming;" till, wearied with his delay, his mother or sister has done the work that belonged to him, or his father has been called from his room, or the hired man from his work, to do it for him. At length, he makes his appearance at the table after the blessing, when the rest of the family have begun their meal. But, having just emerged from the foul air of his bedroom, he has no appetite for his breakfast, and feels pee- vish and fretful. A scowl appears upon his brow, and he turns up his nose at the food spread be- fore him, forgetful alike of his obligations to his Heavenly Father for providing, and to his moth- er for preparing it. Or, if he sometimes gets dressed before breakfast, he is not in season to do his chores, or to complete the lesson which he left unfinished the night before. He hears the breakfast bell, but he is just now engaged, and thinks, " There's time enough yet, I'll just Jin- ish what I've begun ; " and so he is not in season for the table. He has either detained the table till all are impatient of waiting, or else he takes his seat after the rest have commenced eating. In consequence of this loss of time, he is left at the table to finish his breakfast, and his seat is for some time vacant at prayers, when he comes in and disturbs the whole family. Or, if at any time, he gets his seat with the rest, he is dilatory 8 * 86 ALWAYS TOO LATE. in finding his place, and is never ready to read when his turn comes. This dilatoriness goes on, till the school hour arrives, and he is not ready ; or he delays on the way to school, and arrives, perhaps, just after his class have recited. Sabbath morning, when the bell tolls, and the family are starting for meeting, he is roused from a reverie, and has yet to get ready. And so in every thing else this dilatory habit follows him. When his father or mother calls him, instead of promptly making his appearance, to serve them, as a dutiful son should do, he answers, " Yes, in a minute," or, " Yes, I'm going to." He must dispose of something else first ; and before he comes, the service for which he was called has been despatched by some one else. He does not seem to know how to start quick. He is always in a hurry when the time comes to do any thing, because he was dilatory in making prepara- tion when he had time. He is always late, always out of time, vexing those that are about him, and injuring himself. He seems to have started too late. You would think that he began too late in the beginning, that he was born too late, and has never been able to gain the lost time. Every thing comes too soon, before he is prepared for it. If he ever becomes a man, and this habit continues, it will always be a source of PUNCTUALITY. 87 vexation and disaster to him. If he is a me- chanic, he will fail to meet his engagements, and disappoint, vex, and lose his customers. If he is a man of business, he will fail to meet his appointments, and thus lose many a bargain. He will suffer his notes to be protested at the bank, and thus injure his friends and destroy his credit. His dilatory habits will be the ruin of his business. And if he carries the same habit into religion, he will ruin his soul, for death will overtake him before lie is ready. Although this seems natural to him, it is only tardiness indulged till it has grown into a habit. But by timely resolution, diligence, and perse- verance, the habit may be broken. The opposites of this are the good habits of promptness and punctuality. When the gray dawn steals in at his window, the prompt lad springs from his bed ; and in a few minutes he is washed and dressed, and on his knees at his morning devotions. Soon he appears at his work; and before breakfast, all his chores are done. Thus he has redeemed the time between breakfast and school, which he has at his own disposal, for his lessons or his sports. He is always in time. He never keeps the table wait- ing for him, and never comes after the blessing. He is never late at prayers never late at school-^ DO SLOVENLINESS. never late at meeting; and yet he is never in a hurry. He redeems so much time by his promptness, that he has as much as he needs to do every thing well and in season. He save? all the time that the dilatory spends in sauntering in considering what to do next, in reading frivo- lous matters, and in gazing idly at vacancy. Do you desire to possess these good habits 1 Only carry out for one day the idea I have given o* promptness, and then repeat it every day, and x in a little time, you have the habit established. II. SLOVENLINESS. A slovenly boy makes himself a deal of needless trouble, and greatly tries the patience of his mother. If you go into his room, you find it always in confusion. His things are scattered about, here and there, some on the bed, some on the chairs, and some on the floor, but none in their places. He either has no particular place for any thing, or else he takes no pains to put things in their places. He leaves a thing where he uses it. Hence, if he wants any thing, he never knows where to look for it, unless he happens to remember where he used it last. He must waste his time in hunting for it. Hence you will often hear him impatiently inquiring if any one has seen his things ; when he ought himself to know where they are. If he goes into another person's room, whatever SLOVENLINESS. b9 article he lays his hand upon is misplaced. And so it is, if he uses any of his father's tools. He never thinks of putting any thing where he found it. He throws it down carelessly wherever he happens to be, or else puts it in the wrong place ; so that, when wanted, it cannot be found. Thus, he not only wastes his own time, but hinders and vexes others. If he goes into the library, and takes down a book, he either puts it in a differ- ent place, and so disarranges the shelves, or lays it down on the shelf in front of other books, for his father or mother to arrange. His school books are torn and dirty - disfigured with pencil marks, blots of ink, grease spots, finger prints, and dog's-ears ; and if he borrows a book from O ' the Sabbath school library, or of a friend, it is returned with some of these his marks upon it. Whatever he undertakes to do is done in the same slovenly style. If he brings in water, he spills it on the floor. His wood he throws down in a sprawling manner, instead of laying it in a neat and handsome pile. Nothing that he does looks neat and finished. Nor does he appear to any better advantage in his person. His clothes are put on in a slouch- ing, uncouth manner ; and he always contrives to have them dirty. He cannot have on clean clothes half an hour without soiling them. He 8* * 90 CARELESSNESS. rubs against whatever dirty thing he passes. If he carries milk, he spills it on his clothes. He drops grease on them at the table. He wallows in the dirt. He contrives to hitch against a nail, or the latch of a door, and makes a rent for his mother to mend. If left, to himself, his face would never come in contact with water, nor his teeth with a brush. You would almost think, sometimes, that you could see the grass grow- ing on his upper lip. He comes into the house with his shoes cov- ered with mud, and never thinks of wiping his feet, but leaves the prints of them on his moth- er's clean floor or nice carpet. He seems to for- get what scrapers and mats are made for, for he passes by without using them. He lays his hat on a chair, or throws it upon the floor, instead of hanging it in its place. Thus he tries the patience of his mother and sisters, and makes himself unwelcome at his own home. And with this habit is generally associated carelessness. He never seems to be thinking what he is about. He does not see things that are in his way, but stumbles over them, break- ing, bruising, or otherwise injuring them, and often hurting himself. You dread to see him ap- proach, lest some mischief should happen. He does not look to see what he steps on, nor wheth- NEAT AND ORDERLY. 91 er his hands have firm hold of the article he takes up. If he passes through a door, he does not mind whether it was open or shut ; and most likely, if he finds it open, in a warm summer's day, he will close it ; but, if he finds it carefully shut, on a freezing day in mid-winter, he will leave it wide open. A careless person will be constantly meeting with accidents and misfortunes, and continually subject to the most vexatious mortifications, which a little thoughtfulness and care would prevent. This habit is a very great fault, and, when confirmed, very difficult to correct. It is therefore the more important, that it should be taken in season, and nipped in the bud. I need not tell you what are the opposites ol slovenly and careless habits. The neat, orderly, and careful boy has an invariable rule, "A PLACE FOR EVERY THING, AND EVERY THING IN ITS PLACE." Go into his room at any hour, and you will find every thing in order. He can go in the dark, and lay his hand on any thing he wants, so that he never runs the risk of setting the house on fire, by carrying a light into his bedroom. He is so much in the habit of putting things in their proper places, that he never thinks of doing otherwise. He never leaves a thing at random, where he happens to be using it; 92 CAREFULNESS. but always puts it where it belongs. When he undresses, every article of his clothing is folded, and laid together in the order that it will be wanted in the morning ; so that he loses no time in hunting for it. His clothes are put on and adjusted so as to show a neat fit, and every button does its office. His shoes are regularly brushed every morning, and the strings neatly tied, so that your eye is never offended with the appearance, nor your ear distressed with the sound, of dirty, slip-shod, flapping shoes. 'I o whatever part of the house he goes, he leaves it in the order in which he found it ; for it is his invariable rule, when he uses any thing belonging to another, to replace it exactly as he found it. When he takes hold of a cup, or a lamp, or any such article, he is careful to get fairly hold, and then to move moderately, and not with a jerk ; and by this means, he seldom meets with any of those accidents which are so annoying to tidy housekeepers. If he goes to the library, he is careful to replace every book or paper he takes in his hand, exactly as he found it. If he takes a book to read, he carries it with care, firmly grasped in his hand, and avoids letting it fall, or hitting it against any thing to bruise the cover. He holds it in such a manner as not to strain the back or crumple CAREFULNESS. 93 the leaves ; and if called away from his rea'ding he puts in a mark, shuts the book, and lays it in a safe place. He never thinks of using a book for any other purpose than that for which it was made. When he has finished reading it, he carefully replaces it in the library, just, where he found it. He does not place it wrong end up- wards, nor the title towards the back of the shelf; but puts it in the place where it belongs, makes it stand straight, and shoves it back even with its fellows. All his school books are kept neat and clean. No blots of ink, nor pencil marks, nor thumb-prints, nor dog's-ears, any where ap- pear. If he passes through a door into or out of a room where others are sitting, he leaves it open or shut as he found it; judging that the persons occupying the room, have adjusted its temperature to their own liking. He is equally careful of his person. He never considers himself dressed, till he has washed his hands and face, cleaned his teeth, and combed his hair ; and he never thinks of sitting down at the table with dirty hands. He learns to keep his clothes neat and clean. At table, he avoids dropping his food upon them. At school, he is careful of his ink, not to be- spatter his clothes with it. And at play, he keeps himself out of the dirt. He will wear his 94 RUDENESS. clothes a week, and have them appear cleaner, v at the end of it, than the sloven's when he has worn them a single day. He has a care, also, of the appearance of the house. He never forgets to use the scraper at the door, to remove the mud from his feet ; and then he makes it an invariable rule never to pass a mat without wiping his shoes. He never says, like the sloven, " I didn't think," to excuse him- self. He would consider it unpardonable in him not to think ; for what is the ability of thinking worth, if it never comes when it is wanted. The neat, orderly boy, makes himself agree- able to his mother and sisters, who are always glad to see him coming; and home is a delight- ful place to him, because he meets with smiles and pleasant words. But the sloven exposes himself to sour looks and chiding, by his dirty habits ; and he finds home a disagreeable place, because he makes it so. III. RUDENESS. This term does not describe any one habit in particular, but a great many little ones. Webster gives the following defini- tion : " RUDE : rough ; of coarse manners ; un- polished ; clownish; rustic." It is not, there- fore, a single habit, but a series of habits. These are so numerous, it can hardly be expected that I should think of them all. The rude boy is COARSE JESTS. 95 rough, clownish, and boisterous, in his manners. He is rude in speech and rude in behavior. He will stalk into the house with his hat on ; and if there is company, he does not notice them. He talks in a loud and boisterous manner, ofte breaking in abruptly upon the conversation of oth- ers. If he hears part of a conversation, and de- sires to know what it is about, he abruptly breaks in, " Who is it? Who is it? What is it?" And, often, he keeps his tongue running continually, like the incessant clatter of a mill. It is rude and vulgar to interlard conversation with by-words, or unmeaning phrases, thrown in at random between the sentences. It is much more so, to throw in little oaths, or low, vulgar expressions. All this shows a disposition to be profane. It is saying, in effect, " I would swear, if I durst." If indulged, this habit will be very likely to lead on to profaneness. Another rude habit, which boys often indulge, is, what is familiarly called " CRACKING JOKES " upon one another. The object seems to be, to see who can say the wittiest thing, at another's expense. But, in such attempts, generally, wit fails ; and the strife is, which can say the silliest thing, in the silliest manner. All such low wit- ticisms may be set down as decidedly rude and vulgar. 96 RUDE HABITS. Rudeness of behavior manifests itself in so many forms, that it is scarcely definable. I can only glance at a few things which indicate a want of good breeding. It is rude to be so for- ward as to treat your superiors as equals, or to take the lead in all companies. On the other hand, it is rude to be bashful to hang down the head, with a leer of the eye, in the presence of company, and refuse to speak when spoken to, or to speak in a confused and mumbling tone, as though you had never seen anybody before. It is rude for a boy to take the best seat in the room, or to take the only seat, while others are standing. Tilting one's chair ; sitting awk- wardly on one side of the chair, or with the feet stretched out at full length ; putting the feet on another's chair ; sitting on two chairs ; rock- ing ; drumming with the fingers or feet ; scratch ing books, furniture, window-frames, or walls, these, and a hundred other things that might be named, are rude habits, which indicate not only the want of good breeding, but the absence of good taste and a sense of propriety. There are other rude habits, which boys often contract, while abroad, that are wholly out of character for one that would be a gentleman; such as hallooing in the streets , jumping on the backside of carriages; calling out to strangers EVIL HABITS. 97 that are passing; collecting in groups about public places, and staring at people. All such behavior is intolerable ; arid those who are guilty of it will be set down by all sensible peo- ple as low, ill-bred, rude boys. IV. EVIL HABITS. I am sorry to say that some boys indulge habits, that are worse than any I have mentioned. Boys may be seen strut- ting through the streets, puffing segars; and even sometimes filling their mouths with that loathsome Indian weed, tobacco, as though they thought such vile habits necessary to make them men. And often you will hear the profane oath issuing from their mouth, along with the foul breath created by this nauseous potion. A disposition to smoke or to chew this filthy, poi- sonous substance, indicates the existence of an intemperate appetite, and the love of low com- pany. You will, perhaps, see the same boys at the shops, drinking beer. But this is only the prelude to something stronger. Tobacco is one of the most active vegetable poisons. It disorders the system and creates an appetite for stimulants. It is dangerous to use it in any form. But when a boy goes so far as to contract a relish for intoxi- cating drinks, his ruin is well nigh accomplished After once giving indulgence to any of these practices, the downhill road is easy and rapid 9 * 98 DRINKING. About the time when temperance societies be- gan to be formed, I was conversing with a me- chanic, who informed me that almost every one of his fellow-apprentices, who were in the habit of occasionally drinking intoxicating liquors, had become drunkards. Many years ago, there were, in one of our large cities, fifty young men, clerks in stores, who used to frequent a particular place, to spend their evenings in a social way, with the wine bottle as a companion of their social cheer. One evening, one of them, after retir- ing, began to reflect upon the consequences of the course he was pursuing. He came to the conclusion, that, if he went on, it would be his ruin. He resolved that he would never go again. The next evening, he found himself on the way to the same place. But as he came to the corner of the street which turned towards the place, he thought of his resolution. He hesitated a moment, and then said to himself, " Right about face ! " He returned, and was never seen there again. That man is now one of the most wealthy, respected, and useful men in the country ; while forty of those who con- tinued their resort to the public house, became intemperate, and I believe have all gone down to the drunkard's grave. Gaming is another evil habit, which leads to EVIL HABITS. 99 all manner of evil company and evil practices, It has proved the destruction of thousands of promising youth. NEVER SUFFER YOURSELF TO BECOME THE SLAVE OF any HABIT. Abstain entirely from intoxicating drinks, tobacco, gaming, and pro- fane language. For when you once begin, with any of these, it is like " the letting out of wa- ters." At first they run very slowly ; but soon they wear away a channel, and rush on with an impetuosity, which defies all attempts to stop them. On the coast of Norway, there is a great whirlpool, called the Maelstrom, which sometimes swallows up great ships. When a vessel comes near this terrible abyss, it is first drawn very gently, with a circular motion. But after it has made one or two rounds, it goes more and more rapidly, and draws nearer and nearer the centre, till finally it reaches the vor- tex, i j swallowed up, and is seen no more. So it is with these bad habits. When one gets fairly within the circle of their influence, his fate 's well nigh sealed. The only safety, with yourg men and boyg, is to keep far away from the very outer edges of the whirlpool. 100 CHAPTER XII. EDUCATION OF THE BODY. THE reader will perhaps laugh at the idea of educating the body. But a moment's reflection will show that no part of man more needs edu- cation than the body. The design of education, as I have already said is, to form the character, and prepare us, in early life, for what we are to do in future. For this purpose, the body needs discipline as well as the mind. An ill body makes an ill mind and a sad heart. The health of the body is necessary to the healthy operation of the mind ; and a healthy body is secured by activity. But the body not only needs health, but discipline. The fingers must be taught all man- ner of handiwork, and exercised upon it, in order to accustom them to the use that is to be made of them ; the feet must be taught to per- form their appropriate duties, in a graceful and proper manner ; and all the muscles of the body must be exercised, in due proportion, to give them strength and solidity. The proper dis- cipline of the several members of the body is CONTROL THE MOTIONS OF THE BODY. 101 necessary, not only to prepare them for useful occupation, but to give them a graceful, natural, and easy motion, and ao promote good manners and a genteel carriage. I shall not be very particular in what I have to say on this subject, but only give a few gentle hints. 1. DISCIPLINE THE BODY TO OBEY THE WILL. You would not think, to see some young folks, that the will had any thing to do with the move- ments of the body ; for it moves in all imaginable ways, with all sorts of contortions. First flies out a foot, then a hand, then there's a twirl or a swing, then a drumming of the fingers, a trotting of the foot, or some such odd figure. This arises from leaving the body to control itself, by its own natural activity, the mind taking no supervision of its motions. Now, if you early accustom yourself to exercise a strict mental supervision over the body, so as never to make any movement whatever, except what you mean to make, you will find this habit of great conse- quence to you ; for, besides saving you the morti- fication of a thousand ungraceful movements which habit has rendered natural, it will enable you to control your nerves, the necessity for which you will understand better hereafter than you do now. Make the will the ruling power 9* 102 EARLY RISING. of your body, so as never to do any thing bu* what you mean to do, and you will never get the reputation of being nervous. 2. AVOID LATE HOURS. It would seem hardly necessary to give such a direction to young per- sons still under the control of their parents. But facts too plainly show that parents do not always sufficiently consider the injurious effects of late hours upon the fair and healthy develop- ment of the human frame. And the disposi- tion of young people to seek amusement over- comes, with them, the dictates of prudence. But the practice of sitting up late, and especially of being abroad late at night, is a war upon nature. It interrupts the regular course of things. It turns night into day and day into night. If you would be pale-faced, sickly, nervous, and good for nothing, sit up late at night. 3. RISE EARLY. It is said that, to have a fair skin, rosy cheeks, and a fine complexion, one must wash every morning in summer in the dew. Whether there is any virtue in the dew or not, I cannot say ; but I have no doubt that such would be the effect of the practice proposed. To rise early, before the atmosphere has become heated with the summer's sun, and walk abroad, snuffing the cool breeze, listening to the music of the feathered tribe, and joining in the sweet BATHING. 103 harmony of nature, hymning forth praise to the Creator, certainly tends to promote health of body and cheerfulness and serenity of mind ; and these will make a blooming countenance, arid clothe very plain features with an aspect of beauty. The adding of the dew-wash will do no harm. If you make a rule of washing in the dew, it will stimulate you to sally forth before the sun has driven it away ; and you can find no softer water than the dew. 4. USE PLENTY OF WATER. The body can- not be kept in a healthy state, without frequent bathing. It should be washed all over, with cold water, at least once every day, to promote health and cleanliness. One who has never tried it can have no idea of its invigorating effects ; and it seems hardly possible that the human system can keep long in order, while this is neglected, The machinery of a watch, after a while, gets dirty, so that it will not run till it is taken to pieces and cleaned. But the machinery of the human body is vastly more intricate than that of a watch. It is made up of an endless mumber of parts, of various patterns, some of them of the most delicate texture and exquisite workman- ship, but all parts of a great machine that is constantly in motion. And there is provision made for carrying off all the dirt that accumu- 104 CARE OF THE TEETH. lates on its wheels and bands, in little tubes, which discharge it upon the surface of the skin But unless frequently washed off, it accumulates, and stops up the ends of these little tubes, and prevents their discharging, so that the offensive and poisonous matter which they would carry off is kept in the system Let this go on a little while, and it cannot fail to produce disease. Therefore, I say, use plenty of water. 5. TAKE CARE OF YOUR TEETH. The teeth have a very important office to perform in the animal economy that of preparing the food for the stomach. What is not done by the teeth must be done by the digestive organs. There- fore, your health is deeply concerned in the preservation of a good set of teeth. The voice and the countenance, also, plead with you to take care of your teeth. In almost all cases, teeth may be saved from decay, if attended to in time. The best directions I can give for pre- serving the teeth are, to clean them every day with a brush, and pick them after every meal with a pointed quill, so as to remove all the par- ticles of food from between them, and the tartar that adheres to the surface ; cleanliness, as well as the safety of the teeth, requires this. You ought to have your teeth examined and attended to, by a dentist, once or twice a year. Keeping BE ACTIVE. 105 them clean preserves them from decay; and if decay commences, a dentist can stop it, if he can take them in season. 6. BE ACTIVE. The body was made for use. Every part of it is formed for activity. But any thing made for use will suffer injury to lie still. The human body, especially, if suffered to remain inactive, becomes useless. Activity strengthens the parts. If you would have more strength, you must use what you have, and it will increase. The right use of your members, also, must be learned by practice. Much prac- tice is necessary, for instance, to train the fingers to the various uses in which they are to be em- ployed, so as, (to use a homely phrase,) to make them handy. The body, likewise, needs exer- cise, to keep it in a healthy state. The various parts of its machinery have a great work to do^ every day, in turning your food into blood, and sending it a great many thousand times, in a vast number of little streams, to every part of the body. But this machinery will not work, if the body is all the time inactive. It requires motion , to give it power. There is nothing, therefore, so bad for it as laziness. It is like a dead calm to a windmill, which stops all its machinery. 7. LEARN, AT PROPER TIMES, TO BE STILL All nature needs repose. If the human sys* 106 DEFORMITY tern were always kept in the utmost activity, it would soon wear out. For this reason, God has given us periodical seasons of rest a part of every day, and one whole day in seven. There are times, also, when it is not proper to be active; as, when you are at your devotions, or at family worship, or in the house of God. So, likewise, at school, or in company, or when you sit down with the family at home, as well as in many other cases, activity is out of place. Your body, therefore, will never be educated, till you have obtained such control over it, as to be able, at proper times, to be still. And I may say, it is a great accomplishment in a young person, to know just when to be still, and to have self- control enough to be still just at the proper time 8. BE CAREFUL TO KEEP THE BODY IN ITS NATURAL POSITION. This is necessary, not only to preserve its beauty, but to prevent deformity. Sitting at school, or at any sedentary employ- ment, is liable to produce some unnatural twist or bend of the body. The human form, in its natural position, is a model of beauty. But, when bad habits turn it out of shape, it offends the eye. Avoid a stooping posture, or an incli- nation to either side. But sit and stand erect, with the small of the back curved in, the chest thrown forward, the shoulders back, and the TIGHT-DRESSING. 107 head upright. A little attention to these things every day, while the body is growing, and the bones and muscles are in a flexible state, will give your form a beauty and symmetry, which you can never acquire afterwards, if you neglect it at this time of life. And it will do more, a thousand times, to keep you in health, than all the doctor's pill-boxes. 9. AVOID TIGHT-DRESSING, AS YOU WOULD A BLACK SNAKE. You will, perhaps, smile at this. But if you know any thing of the black snake, you will recollect that it assaults not with deadly venom, but winds itself around its vic- tim, stops the circulation of the blood, and, if it reaches high enough, makes a rope of itself, to strangle him. I need not tell you that the effects of tight-dressing are similar. Whatever part of the body, whether neck, chest, arms, hmbs or feet, is pinched with tight covering, is subject to the same strangling process produced by the black snake. It obstructs the free circu- lation of the blood, and produces a tendency to disease in the part so compressed. If you feel an unpleasant tightness in any part of your dress, remember the black snake. 10. DISCIPLINE THE MUSCLES OF THE FACE. You may think this a queer direction ; but I assure you it is given with all gravity. If you 108 BE TEMPERATE. allow every temper of the heart to find a corre- sponding expression in the muscles of the face, you will be sure to spoil the fairest countenance, How would you feel, if you were to see an ac- complished young person, with fine features, and a beautiful countenance ; but on coming near, should discover little holes in the face, from which, every now and then, vipers and veno- mous serpents were thrusting out their heads and hissing at you ? Well, the evil tempers of the heart, such as pride, vanity, envy, jealousy, &c., are a nest of vipers ; and, when indulged, they will spit out their venom through the coun- tenance. How often do we see a proud, scorn- ful, sour, morose, or jealous expression, that has fairly been worn into the features of the counte- nance ! And what is this but the hissing of vipers that dwell within ? Strive to acquire such self-control, as to keep a calm, serene expression upon your countenance; and you cannot tell how much it will add to your appearance. 11. BE TEMPERATE. To be strictly temper- ate is, to avoid all excess. Not only abstain from eating and drinking what is hurtful, but use moderation in all things in eating and drink- ing, m running and walking, in play, in amuse- ment. 109 CHAPTER XIII. ON USEFUL LABOR. I HAVE seen boys who would make incredible exertion to accomplish any thing which they un- dertook for their own amusement ; but who, when called upon to do any thing useful, would demur and complain, put on sour looks, and conjure up a multitude of objections, making the thing to be done like lifting a mountain. Whenever any work is to be done, " there is a lion in the way ; " and the objections they make, and the difficul- ties they interpose, make you feel as if you would rather do it a dozen times yourself, than to ask them to lift a little finger. The real difficulty is in the boy's own mind. He has no idea of being useful ; no thought of doing any thing but to seek his own pleasure ; and he is mean enough to look on and see his father and mother toil and wear themselves out to bring him up in idle- ness. Play, play, play, from morning till night, is all his ambition. Now, I do not object to his playing; but what I would find fault with is 10 110 DISLIKE OF WORK ^ ' that he should wish to play all the time. I would not have him work all the time, for u All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy; " neither would I have him play all the time, for "All play and no work makes Jack a mere toy." There is not a spark of manliness in such a boy ; and he never will be a man, till he alters his notions. There is another boy, who has more heart * a better disposition. When called to do any thing, he is always ready arid willing. His heart dilates at the thought of helping his father or his mother of being useful. He takes hold with alacrity. You would think the work he is set about would be despatched in a trice. But he is chicken-hearted. Instead of conquering his work, he suffers his work to conquer him. He works briskly for a few minutes, and then he begins to flag. Instead of working away, with steady perseverance, he stops every minute or two, and looks at his work, and wishes it were done. But wishing is not working; and his work does not get done in this way. The more he gazes at it, the more like a mountain it appears. At length, he sits down to rest; and finally, after having suffered more from the dread of exertion THE COWARD. Ill than it would have cost him to do his work a dozen times, he gives it up, and goes to his fa- ther or mother, and in a desponding tone and with a sheepish look, he says, " I can't do it I '* He is a coward. He has suffered himself to be conquered by a wood-pile which he was told to saw, or by a few weeds in the garden that he was required to dig up. lie will never make a man, till he gets courage enough to face his work with resolution, and to finish it with a manly perseverance. " I can't," never made a man. Here is another boy, who has got- the notion into his head that he is going to live without work. His father is rich ; or he intends to be a professional man, or a merchant; and he thinks it of no use for him to learn to work. He feels above labor. He means to be a gentleman. But he is very much mistaken as to what constitutes a gentleman. He has altogether erroneous and false views of things. Whatever may be his situation in life, labor is necessary to exercise and develope the muscular powers of his body. If he grows up in indolence, he will be weak and effeminate, never possessing the vigor of a man. And whatever sphere of life he may occupy here- after, he will never possess independence and energy of character enough to accomplish any thing. A man who does not know how to work. 112 DO-NOTHING HABITS. is not more than half a man. He is so aepend- ent upon others, that he can accomplish nothing without help. Nor can wealth, or education, or professional knowledge, supply the deficiency. Wealth is very uncertain. " Riches take to themselves wings ; " and they are especially lia- ble to fly away from men who have been bred up in idle, do-nothing habits. And what will they do when their wealth is gone ? They have never made any exertion, or depended on themselves. They have no energy of character. They have no knowledge of any useful employment. They cannot dig, and to beg they are ashamed. They either sink down, in utter discouragement, to the lowest depths of poverty, or else they re- sort to dishonest means of obtaining money. I have before me a letter, written to a gen- tleman in Boston, from a boy in the House of Correction, who got there by trying to -live with- out work. After telling how bad he felt to be shut up in prison, and how bitter his reflec- tions upon his past life were, he says, " I thought that as long as I could live without work, and get my living dishonestly, I would go ahead; but my high life was soon stopped." Here you perceive that his temptation to be dishonest arose from his dislike of work. But now, he says, he is con- /inced that the best way to get a living is by DRONES. 113 honest labor. And so you will find it. There is no one more exposed to temptation than the idle boy. " Satan finds some mischief still For idle hands to do." One who undertakes to get a living without work will be very likely to fall into dishonest practices, and get shut up in prison. Equally necessary is it for a man of learning, or a professional man, to know how to do with his own hands the most common things. If d e - o pendent on his own earnings for a support, he will not be able to hire every thing done to his hand ; or, if able, he will not always find any one to do it. And as to the merchant, his life, from the very first, is a life of incessant toil and labor. The lazy boy, who goes into a store as a clerk, with such notions in his head about work, will be served as the working bees serve their drones he will be dragged out of the hive. The boy that despises work, sets himself against nature ; and if he succeeds in making any thing of himself, he will contradict the voice of all history. When man fell from his inno- cency, it was determined that he should eat his bread in the sweat of his brow. It is in vain for his posterity to attempt to evade this curse. If they refuse to toil, they will suffer a worse 10* * 114 RESULTS OF SLOTH. disaster, as the penalty of their disobedience Disease, or poverty, or both, will follow the lazy track of the sluggard. This result, Solomon has described, in the most glowing terms : " I went by the field of the slothful, and by the vineyard of the man void of understanding ; and lo, it was all grown over with thorns ; nettles had covered the face thereof, and the stone wall thereof was broken down. Yet a little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to sleep; so shall thy poverty come as one that travaileth, and thy want as an armed man." Many of the ancient nations used to have a law requiring every young man to have a knowl- edge of some branch of labor. There appears to have been such a custom among the Jews. Paul, though belonging to a wealthy family, and bred a lawyer, in the highest school in the na- tion, was yet brought up to a trade. And when he came to devote himself to his Master's service, he found his tent-maker's trade of great use to him. And whatever occupation you design to follow, you will find use for all the practical knowledge of work, of handicraft, or of ?ne- chanical skill, you can acquire in early life. In the empire of China, labor is held in such esteem, that the emperor, on the day of his coro- nation, is required to plough a furrow wi^h his LABOR HONORABLE. 115 own hand. And if you look over the page of history, both ancient and modern, you will find that many of the greatest men that ever lived, were accustomed to follow some laborious occu- pation. David, the poet king, the sweet singer of Israel, whose name has been embalmed in the hearts of the pious in all ages, when a boy, was occupied in keeping his father's sheep. Dr- Franklin was the son of a mechanic in Boston, and was bred a printer. Washington, the father of his country, was a farmer. And the blessed Savior himself has set an example of industry and love of labor, which should put to shame every pseudo-gentleman who despises the labor of the hands. His apostles, also, were called from laborious occupations to preach the gos- pel ; and many of the most eminent of his min- isters and missionaries of the present day have been called from the plough or the workshop ; and some of them have worked their way through a long course of study, bearing the expenses of their education with the labor of their hands. We may safely conclude, then, that, whoever despises labor is a fool; for he despises the only thing that can make him A MAN. But industry is not only necessary to make, you a man ; it is necessary to make you happy. Some boys have such an aversion to labor, that 116 NOTHING TO DO. they would think themselves perfectly happy if they had nothing to do. But they are greatly mistaken. They might like such a life a day or two , but they would soon get tired of it. The children at the Sandwich Islands have nothing to do. Their parents have no employment for them. They grow up in idleness. A mission- ary, writing to the children of this country, says, "Now, does any one say, * Happy, happy children, inhabiting these sunny isles ! Abso- lutely nothing to do, but to seek their own gratification, without fear or restraint ! ' Happy ? No. The goats which graze the sides of their mountains may be happy ; or the kitten which gambols on your kitchen hearth may be happy; but these children are not happy." They often go hungry. Their parents were brought up in idleness, also ; and now they will not work if they can help it. They receive no assistance from their children, and often have no food to give them The children frequently live upon roots, which they dig in the mountains, or upon sugar-cane, which they find in the fields. After spending the day in idleness, they often have to go supperless to bed. In many parts of the islands, also, the chil- dren, who have no disposition to labor and ob- tain clothing, suffer much from cold. They go EFFECTS OF IDLENESS. 117 almost naked ; and when night comes, they lie down on a bare mat, with the dogs and fleas. Would the children of America exchange their warm beds and sweet sleep, for the leisure and hard fare of these young Sandwich Islanders ? But in sickness, their sufferings are much greater. They are destitute of nearly every comfort ; they have no physician; and they receive very little attention from their parents and friends. No kind mother watches over their couch at night. If they suffer, they suffer alone ; if they die, they die unattended. Idleness, also, makes these children vicious. Having nothing useful to do, they are always ready for every evil work. They tempt each other to sin. They rush together the downward road ; and if spared to become men, they are poor and degraded, diseased and miserable. But perhaps you will say, " These Sandwich Islanders are uncivilized heathen; and this is what makes them so wretched." But you need not go to heathen lands, to see the bad effects of the want of useful employment, upon boys and young men. In the Southern States, all the la- bor is done by slaves. It is esteemed disgrace- ful for a white man to work. The consequence is, that the boys grow up in idleness and vice 118 EFFECTS OF INDUSTRY. . They learn every thing that is bad. They grow up with strong and fiery passions, and vicious inclinations unsubdued. Among the young men, gambling, horse-racing, and other social vices, generally prevail. But many of them become poor; and then they are as wretched as the poor Sandwich Islanders. There is, perhaps, no class of persons, in this country, more de- graded than the poor whites in the slave states. And their poverty and wretchedness may be traced to the fact, that it is disgraceful, among them, for white men to labor. There is no country on earth where there is less of squalid poverty, and where the people generally enjoy more comfort and happiness, than in New England. And what is the reason'? There is, probably, no other country in the world where the people are so industrious where all the people are engaged in some useful employment. In New England, boys are set to work as soon as they are old enough to handle a hoe, an axe, or a spade. Every child has something to do, which adds something to the family's comfort. And where, in the wide world, will you find so many smiling, happy faces as among the children of New England ? This is the true reason why they are so much NEW ENGLAND BOYS. 119 happier than the children of the Sandwich Islands. The Yankee boy may sometimes get tired of his work : but if he had nothing to do, ' is J he would be absolutely miserable. It is not in the nature of a son of New England to be happy without employment. And, where you find one of them educated, and risino- to emi- 7 O nence in professional life, if you trace back his history, in most cases, you will learn that, when a boy, he worked on his father's farm, or in his father's shop. And if you could see him seek- ing relaxation and amusement, you would often find him eno-aged in the same kind of labor that O a he used to perform when a boy. When one of the convicts in the state prison has committed an offence, they punish him by shutting him up in his cell alone, and giving him nothing to do. For a little while he is glad to be relieved from his work; but very soon, he begs for it again. Nothing is so hard for him to bear as doing nothing. If, then, you would be virtuous and happy, if you would be qualified to brave the storms of life's troubled ocean, cultivate the love of useful labor. This will give you independence of character. It will give you the ability to take care of yourself. It will make you despise 120 INDEPENDENCE. the fawning sycophant, who would sell his birth- right for a piece of bread. It will save you from the temptation to surrender your inde- pendence, or commit any act of meanness or dishonesty for the sake of a living. 121 CHAPTER XIV. EDUCATION OF THE HEART. Bi the heart, I mean the moral faculties, in distinction from the intellectual. Any action is moral, which can be praised or blamed. The moral faculties are those which determine moral action. These faculties are, the Conscience, Will, and Affections. In this division, I do not attempt metaphysical exactness, but only what I can make my readers understand. When I speak of educating these faculties, I do not mean to separate the process from that of religious edu- cation in general ; for nothing can be well done, in the formation of character, without religiouy principle and motives at the foundation. But my object is, to speak of the specific means by which these faculties may be cultivated. It may be necessary for me to explain what I mean by the Conscience, Will, and Affections. Yet it does not fall in with my design, neither would it suit the age and capacities of those for whom I write, to enter into a philosophical description, 11 V 122 CONSCIENCE. or analysis, of the faculties of the mind, or affec- tions of the heart. I shall only give such simple explanations as are sufficient for my purpose, and as I suppose will be understood by my readers. I. THE CONSCIENCE. This is the faculty which determines whether any action proposed to the mind, or any feeling of the heart, is right or wrong. If you will watch the motions of your own mind, you will perceive, whenever any thing is proposed to be done or not to be done, some- thing within tells you that it is either right or wrong ; if wrong, you find the same something within, urging you not to do it ; or, if right, the same impulse moves you to do it. If you do as you are thus urged, you find the same voice within approving what you have done, or, if you do not obey, condemning you. This something within is CONSCIENCE. You have, doubtless, lived long enough to experience many a conflict, or dispute, between your conscience and your inclinations. You are inclined to do something which your conscience tells you is wrong ; but conscience not only tells you it is wrong, but urges you not to do it. Your inclinations, or desires, urge you in the contrary direction ; and this creates a conflict. If conscience prevails, then it approves your de- cision, and you feel happy. But, if inclination THE SOUL'S EYE. 123 prevails, conscience upbraids, and you feel mis- erable. As I have defined education, you will see the great importance of educating the conscience. It is the leading moral faculty, and must have a great influence upon the moral character. For the conscience itself may be wrong. It is not itself the rule by which you are to determine what is right and wrong. The Word of God is the rule. The office of conscience is, to deter mine whether any thing you propose to do is agreeable to the rule, and to urge you, accord- ingly, to do it or not to do it. Suppose you wish to determine whether any thing is straight ; you lay a rule upon it that you suppose to be straight, and if they agree, that settles the matter. Your eye, comparing the object with the rule, deter- mines whether it is straight or not. But, if the rule applied is crooked, your eye is deceived, and you misjudge. Conscience is the eye of the soul, that compares an action with the rule. The conscience, then, must be well instructed. You must learn the rule of right from the Word of God, and then conscience will always decide right. But, if you adopt false notions of right and wrong, your very conscience will lead you astray. The first thing, then, in ,the education of the heart is, to have it filled with right prin- 124 CONSCIENCE STIFLED. ciplcs ; and these you are to obtain from the study of the Bible, and from listening to the instructions of your parents, teachers, and min- isters. The next thing is, always to obey the voice of conscience If you go contrary to it, and do what conscience te'ls you is wrong, or neglect what it urges upon you as duty, you weaken that faculty, and harden the heart. When you refuse to hearken to the voice of conscience, the next time it will not speak so loud ; and every time this is repeated, the weaker it grows, till at length it is scarcely heard at all, and you may go on and sin almost without restraint. If you will look back a little while in your own experi- ence, you will see the force of what I say. If you have ever fallen into the habit of secretly disobeying your parents, you will find an illus- tration of it. The first time you were tempted to disobey, your conscience was very loud against it; but the temptation, falling in with your in- clinations, prevailed. Then conscience upbraided you with a voice of terror. But you were not discovered, and no immediate evil followed. The next time the temptation presented itself, the re- monstrance of conscience was feeble, and its condemnation light. The next time it was feebler still ; till at length you could do with THE WILL. 125 careless indifference what at first made you shud- der. But when the power of conscience is gone, there is but one step more to ruin. If, then, you would keep your conscience tender, you must always obey its voice Another means of educating the conscience is, the habit of thinking with approbation of what is right, and putting out of the mind with horror all thoughts of what is wrong. The most hateful things, by becoming familiar to the sight, lose much of the horror which they excite at first. A person who had never seen an animal killed would be deeply affected at the sight; but a butcher thinks nothing of it. So, by thinking much of what is wrong, the con- science becomes defiled, and ceases to act with promptness and decision; while, if kept famil- iar only with the good, it would revolt instantly from the bad. II. THE WILL. This is the faculty that chooses or refuses. It is the decisive faculty. It is the power that determines action, whether good or bad. It is the ruling faculty of the soul. I said conscience was the leading faculty, be- cause it goes before the action of the will, and moves it to choose what is right. The will is the ruling faculty, because it determines all action The way to educate the will is, to 11* 126 SUBMISSION. accustom it to submit to the dictates of con- science. The will, in our fallen and depraved state, is turbulent and unsubmissive. It is not disposed to submit to the law of God, nor to those whom God has set over us. Yet there is nothing of more importance to our happiness and usefulness than the early subjection of the will. If you determine that you will always have your own will, you will certainly be unhappy ; for it is impossible that you should always have your own way. But if you early accustom yourself to give up your own will ; to submit to the will of God, as made known to you in his word and Providence, to submit to your parents, as those whom God has set over you, and to your own conscience, as the faithful monitor which God has placed in your own bosom, then you will be as happy as you can be in this imperfect state. This you will not accomplish all at once. It must be the result of experience, trial, and dis- cipline, with the grace of God in your heart. But if you begin to cultivate the habit of sub- mission, in early life, it will save you many a severe struggle and much unhappiness. You have doubtless learned, before this time, that you always get into difficulty at home, when you set out to have your own will. And perhaps you have sometimes, in your impatience at contra- SELF-WILL. 12? diction secretly wished that you were of age, beyond the control of your parents, that you might do as you pleased. But I assure you, both from my own experience and from what I have seen of the world, that you will not find it any easier to have your own will, after you come to act for yourself. You will not succeed in any thing you undertake to do for others, unless you give up your own will ; neither will you succeed in making society agreeable to yourself. Sup- pose you go to a shoemaker, to get a pair of shoes made, and as soon as you begin to tell him how you wish them done, he answers, " I under- stand my business ; if you want a pair of shoes, I'll make them for you, but nobody can teach me how to do my work ? " You would say, " He is a surly creature ; I'll have nothing to do with him." Or, suppose you go into com- pany, and you find a young lady who will con- sent to nothing except what she herself proposes ; you say, " She is a selfish creature; let her enjoy herself alone." But all this comes from mere wilfulness. You never will be comfortable, much less happy, till you are willing to yield to others, when no principle is concerned, but only the mere gratification of your own will. And when one is employed by another, it is per- fectly reasonable that he should be directed by 128 ANECDOTE. his employer, even if what he is directed to do may appear to him unwise. The only way that you can succeed, and be happy, in any thing you may undertake to do for others, is, to submit your will to theirs, and do cheerfully, and with- out objection, what they require provided, only, that they do not require you to do Wrong. If you will look back, you will find that this wilful- ness has been the cause of all the trouble you have got into with your parents, and of nearly all the altercations you have had with your broth- ers, sisters, and companions. And, if you retain this disposition, it will make you miserable, vhatever station in society you may occupy. A little boy, named Truman, lost his own moth- er ; and when he was four or five years of age, his father married again. His new mother was an excellent lady, very affectionate and kind-hearted toward the children. But one day, when she was teaching Truman how to read, she could not make him say his lesson correctly. She therefore used the rod till he submitted, and read as he ought. He was afterwards over- heard talking with himself, about his conduct : " Tru, what made you treat your dear mother so? Hasn't she always been kind to you?" " Yes, I know she has. She loves me, and tries to do me all the good she can. ' " Then THE AFFECTIONS. 129 how could you be so naughty, to treat her so ? '* " I know I have been a very naughty boy, and treated her very bad indeed when she has been very kind to me ; and she was trying then to teach me for my own good." " What can you say for yourself, then? How did you come to behave so?" " I can't say anything for my- self; I know it was very mean. I feel ashamed to think I could treat her so ; and I'll never do it again as long as I live. But I thought I would just try for once, and see who was master." The object of this little boy was to have his own will. He was not willing to submit to his mother, till he had tried his strength, to see whose will should prevail. He got a severe chastisement, and had to submit after all. And so it will always be with you, if you set out with the determination, if possible, always to have your own will. You will be always getting into difficulty, and gain nothing by it in the end. III. THE AFFECTIONS. I shall not undertake in this place, to give a full and complete defini- tion of the affections. It will answer my pres- ent purpose, to say that the affections are tht feelings or emotions of the heart. This may not be philosophically accurate ; but when my readers come, at a more advanced age, to study mental and moral philosophy, they can enlarge 130 RESTRAIN ILL-TEMPER. their views. For all practical purposes, this will answer. And what I mean by educating the affections is, to acquire the habit of controlling the feelings, so as to suppress the bad and culti- vate the good. You hear people talk of good and bad dispositions. But a good disposition is only the preponderance of good feelings ; or in other words, where good feelings arid good tem- pers prevail, we say that person has a good dis- position ; but if bad feelings and evil tempers predominate, we say he has a bad disposition. There is no doubt a difference in natural dis- positions. But with suitable efforts, and espe- cially with the aid of God's grace, much may be done to cultivate and improve them. With these preliminary remarks, I proceed to give some rules for the cultivation of the affec- tions. 1. CHECK THE FIRST RISINGS OF ILL-TEMPER. The smith, who makes an edged tool, an axe, a knife, or any such instrument, first works the iron and steel into the form which he wishes, and then tempers it. While he is working it, he wants to keep it soft, so that he can work it easy ; and this he does by keeping it hot. But after he gets it finished, he heats it in the fire, and dips it in water, so as to cool it suddenly, and that makes it hard. But, if he left it so, it HIGH AND LOW TEMPER. 131 would be so hard that it would break all to pieces as soon as it was used. So he holds it again over the fire, and heats it a little, to take out a part of the temper, and make it just of the hardness that he wishes. An instrument that is very hard is called high-tempered; one that is very soft is low-tempered. This is a good illus- tration of temper as it appears in us. A high temper is one that is easily excited, and that runs so high as to be in danger of doing great mis- chief. A low temper is a disposition easy and indifferent, like a knife tempered so little that the edge will turn the first time it is used. Now you want temper enough not to be indifferent, but not so much as to fly all in pieces. And I know nothing on which your usefulness and happiness more depend, than in the proper reg- ulation of your temper ; and not your own hap- piness alone, but the happiness of all around you. One of the first and greatest moral lessons is, to learn to control your temper. " He that is slow to anger," says Solomon, " is better than the mighty ; and he that ruleth his spirit, than he that taketh a city." But, " He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down and without walls." By indulg- ing an ungoverned temper, you expose yourself to many evils. You show the weak points of EFFECTS OF BAD TEMPER. your character, and lose the good opinion of others, and your own self-respect. You cannot help thinking meanly of yourself after having broken out in a sudden gust of anger, or given indulgence to a peevish, fretful spirit. To be ill-humored, peevish, or cross, is to be unhappy, and to make others unhappy. But a sweet tem- per will not only make you happy, but, like the balmy breezes of a summer evening, it will shed a sweet fragrance all around you. Nothing will render your character more unlovely than ill- temper. Nor, if habitually indulged at home, can it be concealed even from the most careless observer. You will carry the mark of it wher- ever you go. There will be the ill-natured scowl, the knit brow, the distorted features, which no sweet-scented soap can wash out, and no cosmetic hide. It will spoil the most elegant features, and mar the most beautiful counte- nance. But a sweet temper will hide a thousand defects, and render the most ordinary features beautiful and lovely. I do not know any thing that adds a greater charm to the youthful coun- tenance. But, if you would have a sweet tem- per, *you must suppress every ill-natured feeling; never suffer yourself to be angry at trifles, nor get into a storm of passion on any account : neither indulge a peevish, fretful disposition; THE BROOK AND THE RIVER. 133 but, on the contrary, cultivate and cherish good- nature, in every possible way. Strive to be pleased with every thing around you, unless it is positively bad ; and never suffer the ill-humors of others to disturb your own tranquillity. The noisy cataract comes splashing its muddy waters over the side of the mountain, leaping from rock to rock, now shouting, now murmuring, now scolding, now rushing on in the wildest fury, till it plunges into the great river ; but the river rolls quietly on its majestic way, undisturbed by the babbling waterfall, which only makes a mo- mentary ripple upon the surface of its placid waters. But, suppose the river should stop its course, to quarrel with the noisy waterfall, what would be the consequence ? The whole country would be inundated with the fury of its pent- up waters. You cannot afford to get angry with every one that is disposed to treat you ill. It costs too much. Did you ever see a dog bark- ing at the moon ? And what did the moon do ? It went right straight on, and minded nothing about it. The moon can't afford to stop and quarrel with the dog that barks at it. " I know it is very foolish to be angry," per- haps you will say; "but how can I help it? I am suddenly provoked, and fall into a passion before I have time to think of it." The best 12 134 CONSIDERATION". remedy I can recommend is, that you make it a rule never to be angry till you have had time to consider whether you have any thing to be angry about. And, in making inquiry, do not ask whether the conduct that provoked you was bad ; but, in the first place, try if you cannot find some apology for it, or some palliation ; and, second, whether, admitting it to be as bad as it seems, it is really worth so great a sacrifice of feeling, on your part, as you will have to make, if you indulge your passions. And, among other considerations, ask yourself how this thing will appear a hundred years hence, when both your- self and the person who has provoked you, will be in eternity: " If I indulge my passions in this thing, shall I then be able to look back upon it with pleasure ? " Some such reflections as these will tend greatly to cool your anger ; and most likely, before you have thought upon the matter many minutes, you will conclude that it is not worth while to be angry. So likewise, if you are given to fretfulness and ill-humor, consider whether there is any suf- ficient cause why you should thus make your- self miserable ? And you will probably find that all your trouble is imaginary. Remember that every thing that concerns you is ordered by the providence of God ; and think how much ENVY AND JEALOUS if. 135 cause of thankfulness you have, every day, for his goodness. And what has he done that you should fret against him ? He has perhaps suffered your will to be crossed ; but he has done it for your good. Think, also, how this will appear a hun- dred years hence ? " How will my fretfulness appear, when I look back upon it, from another world ? " And if there were no sin in it, is there not much folly? for "why should I make myself miserable ? " 2. NEVER GIVE THE LEAST INDULGENCE TO A JEALOUS OR ENVIOUS SPIRIT. To be jealous, is to suspect others of being unfriendly to us, or of a design to injure us. To be envious, is to be displeased with the prosperity of others, especially if they are likely to excel us. The effect of these two passions upon the disposition is very similar. If you are jealous of any per- son, you will be always looking for some evil design in his conduct ; and your imagination will conjure up a thousand things that never had any existence, except in your own mind. This passion, habitually indulged, very often settles down into a kind of monomania, or partial in- sanity. I have known persons, whose imagin- ings, through the influence of jealousy, became realities to their minds, and they would roundly assert as facts, the things that they had imag- 136 LAURA WILLIAMS. ined respecting others. Such persons are per- petually in trouble, because they fancy some one is plotting against them. Your own comfort, therefore, depends on your suppressing the first motions of this evil affection. While you should be on your guard against imposition, and never confide implicitly in strangers, nor put your- self in the power of any one whose character has not been proved, yet you should presume others to be friendly till they show themselves otherwise, and always give their conduct the best construction it will bear. Let me give you an example. There is Lauri Williams, she is always in trouble, for fear some one does not like her. If any of her companions seem to take more notice of some other one than of herself, she begins to be jealous that their professions of friendship are not real ; and if any one happens not to notice her for once, she considers it a slight ; and so her feelings are perpetually disturbed. She is never happy. Sometimes she will weep, as if her heart would break, for some fancied slight ; when, in reality, she has no occasion for trouble, and might just as well laugh as cry. She will be unhappy as long as she lives, and perhaps crazy before she dies, if she does not overcome this passion. Envy is a more depraved passion than jeal- MEANNESS OF ENVY. 137 ousy ; but the effect upon the character is nearly similar. You will find a melancholy illustration of the nature and effects of envy, in the story of Haman, in the Book of Esther. Though exalted to the second place in the kingdom, he could not enjoy his elevation, so long as Mordecai the Jew sat in the king's gate. He could endure no rival. But you will find examples enough of this pas- sion among your own companions. There are those that cannot bear a rival ; and if any of their companions excel themselves, they hate them. But consider how mean and ignoble such a feeling is. A truly generous spirit will rejoice in whatever is excellent will love ex- cellence wherever it appears ; but a mean and selfish spirit would monopolize every thing to itself, and be offended, if excelled by others. Every noble sentiment revolts at the spirit of envy ; so that this base passion always defeats itself. The envious person would be exalted above all ; but envy debases him below all, and renders him despicable and miserable. 3. ACQUIRE THE HABIT OF REGARDING EVERY ONE WITH FEELINGS OF GOOD-WILL. There are some persons, who accustom themselves tc look upon others with a critical eye, and seem to take pleasure in detecting and exposing their 138 GOOD-WILL. failings. This leads to misanthropy ; it makes people ill-natured. It leads them to look upon almost every one as an object of aversion. If this disposition begins in early life, and continues to be cultivated, it will grow and increase, till it settles at last into a sour, morose, malignant temper, that can never look with pleasure or satisfaction upon any human being. Instead of indulging such a temper, you should look with feelings of good-will upon every one. Do not regard others with a critical eye. If they are not incorrigibly bad, so as to render them dangerous associates, overlook their faults, and study to find out some redeeming qualities. Consider that they belong to the same great family that they are as good by nature as yourself that they have immortal souls, to be saved or lost. Try what excuses or apologies you can find for their faults in the circumstances in which they have been bred. And though you may not see fit to make choice of them as your friends, yet feel kindly towards them. But es- pecially, do not forget that you are not faultless yourself. This will exert a softening influence upon your own character; and you will find yourself much more happy in studying the good qualities of others, and exercising feelings of charity and good-will toward them, than you will GENEROSITY. 139 in criticising and finding fault. The one course will make you amiable and happy, the other, unlovely and miserable. 4. GiVE FREE INDULGENCE TO EVERY NOBLE AND GENEROUS SENTIMENT. Rejoice when VOU see others prosperous. Why should you be un- happy, that another is more prosperous than your- self, if you are not injured by it ? If you love your neighbor as yourself, his prosperity will be as grateful to you as your own. Rejoice, also, in the excellence of others. A truly noble heart loves excellence for excellence's sake. A gen* erous heart is forgetful of self; and when it sees excellence, it is drawn toward it in love. It would scorn to put little self between it and a worthy object. This disposition should also be carried out in action. A generous and noble spirit will not al- ways be contending for its own rights. It will yield rather than contend. Contention, among companions and associates, for each other's rights, is a source of great unhappiness ; and when it becomes habitual, as it sometimes does among brothers and sisters at home, it spoils the dispo- sition. "That is mine," says one. " No," says the other, " it is not yours, it is mine." And without waiting quietly to look into the matter, and investigate the question of right, they fall 140 GENTLENESS. into a sharp contention. The matter in ques- tion was a mere trifle. It was not worth the sac- rifice of good-nature which it cost. How much better both would feel, to keep good-natured, and give each other the reasons for their claims, and if they cannot agree, for one or the other to yield ! Or, rather, how much more noble, if the contention be, which shall be allowed the privi- lege of yielding ! There is more pleasure in one act of generosity than in all that can be enjoyed by selfish possession; and nothing will render you more lovely in the eyes of others than a noble and generous disposition. 5. BE GENTLE. Gentleness is opposed to all severity and roughness of manners. It diffuses a mild, bland, amiable spirit through all the be- havior. It has much to do with the cultivation of the affections. Where this is wanting, none of the amiable affections will flourish. A gentle spirit will show itself in a gentle behavior, and a gentle behavior will react upon the spirit, and promote the growth of all the mild and amiable affections. You can distinguish the gentle by the motion of the head, or the sound of their footsteps. Their movements are quiet and noise- less. There is a charm in their behavior which operates to secure for them the good opinion of all. KINDNESS. 141 6. BE KIND. Every kind act that is per- formed increases the kind feelings of the heart. If you treat your brothers and sisters kindly, you will feel more kindly toward them; while, if you treat them with harshness and severity, or ill-treat them in any manner, it will seal up your affections toward them, and you will be more inclined to treat them with coolness and indifference. If you are habitually kind to every one, embracing every opportunity in your power to perform some office of kindness to others, you will find your good-will toward all increasing. You will be universally beloved, and every one will be kind to you. See that little girl ! She has run back to assist her little brother, who has lost his shoe in the mud. How kindly she speaks to him, to soothe his feelings and wipe his tears ! Some sisters that I have seen would have been impatient of the delay, and scolded him in a cross and angry manner for the tiouble he made. But with a heart full of sympathy, she forgets herself, and is intent only on helping him out of trouble, and quieting his grief. But she has hardly got under way again, before she meets a little girl, who has just fallen down and spilled her berries, crying over her loss. Without once thinking of the trouble it would give her, she speaks kindly to the little girl, helps her pick up 142 DISINTERESTEDNESS. the lost fruit, and then assists her to pick enough more to make up her loss. Every where she is just so, always glad of an opportunity to show kindness to every one she meets. And she gets her pay as she goes along. The happiness she feels, in thus being able to contribute to the comfort of others, is far beyond any thing she could receive from mere selfish enjoyment. And, in addition to this, she gets the good-will of others, which makes them kind to her in re- turn. 7. KEEP SELF OUT OF VIEW, AND SHOW AN INTEREST IN THE AFFAIRS OF OTHERS. This will not only interest others in you, but it will tend to stifle selfishness in your own heart, and to cultivate disinterested feeling. * Sympathize with others ; enter into their feelings ; and en- deavor, in heart and feeling, to make their inter- est your own ; so that there may be a soil for disinterested feeling to grow in. If you see others enjoying themselves, rejoice with them. Make the case your own, and be glad that they have occasion to rejoice. " Rejoice with them that do rejoice." If you have truly benevo- lent feelings, it will certainly be an occasion of joy to you to see them prosperous and happy, whoever they are. On the other hand, sympa- thize with misery and distress. " Weep with DISINTERESTEDNESS. 143 them that weep." Wherever you see misery, let it affect your heart. And never fail, if it is in your power, to offer relief. And, often, you can afford the best relief to those of your own age, your companions, but especially your in feriors, by showing that you are affected with their troubles, that you sympathize with them Cultivate the habit of feeling for others. When you see or read of the sufferings of the poor, when you read of the condition of the heathen, who know not the way of salvation, let your sympathies flow forth toward them. Learn to feel for others' woe, and it will improve your own heart. But, besides this, you will find yourself rewarded with the affections of others. Thus I have given you a few brief hints, to show how the affections may be cultivated. I must leave you to apply them in practice to every-day life, and to carry out the principle, in its application to all the circumstances in which you may be placed; which principle is, as much as possible, to repress and refrain from exercisinor every bad feeling or affection, and to cherish and cultivate the good, bringing them into exercise on every fit occasion, that they may grow into habits. You will see, by what I have said under the various heads of this chapter, that the idea o* 144 EDUCATING THE HEART. educating the heart is no mere fgure of speech, but a reality, of great importance to your char- acter and well-being through life. Your pa- rents and teachers will, of course, pay attention to this matter ; but they cannot succeed in it without your cooperation. And with you it must be an every-day work. You must carry it out in all your conduct and feelings, and seek the grace of God to aid you in so difficult a work. Without an educated heart, you will never make a GENTLEMAN. The fine feelings and good tempers which I have described are indispensable to good breeding. You cannot have polished manners with a rough heart. You may put on the gentleman ; but it will ap- pear out of place. You cannot change the nature of &pig. You may wash him over and over again, and make him ever so clean ; you may even dress him up in white linen gar- ments but he will immediately return to his wallowing in the mire. 145 CHAPTER XV. EDUCATION OP THE MIND. THE term Mind is often employed to signify all the faculties of the soul. But I shall use it in application to the intellectual faculties, in dis- tinction from the moral; as I have employed heart to denote the moral, in distinction from the intellectual. I shall not undertake to give a strictly philosophical distinction of the mental faculties, but shall comprehend them in the following division, which is sufficient for my purpose, to wit: Perception, Reason or Under- standing, Judgment, Memory, and Imagination. PERCEPTION is the faculty that receives ideas into the mind ; as, when you look at a tree, im- mediately the idea of a tree is impressed on the mind through the sense of sight; or, when you touch an object, the idea of that object is im- pressed on your mind through the sense of touch ; or, you may receive the idea of a spirit, from the explanations which you hear or read. The REASON or UNDERSTANDING, is the fac- ulty that considers, analyzes, and compares ideas 13 146 MENTAL FACULTIES. received into the mind, and forms conclusions concerning them. For example, suppose you had never seen a watch : one is presented to you, andj as soon as your eye rests upon it, you form an idea respecting it. Perhaps this idea is no more than that it is a very curious object. But, immediately, your understanding is employed in considering what it is, the perceptive faculty still being occupied in further discoveries. From the fact that there is motion, you conclude there must be some power within it ; for motion is not produced without power. Here is consider- ation and conclusion , which is a regular opera- tion of reason. But, to make further discoveries, you open the watch, to examine its parts. This is analyzing. You examine all the parts that you can see, on removing the case. You still see motion all the wheels moving in regular order; but the cause of the motion, the power that moves, is yet unseen. You perceive a chain wound around a wheel, and attached to another wheel, around which it is slowly winding itself; and this chain appears to regulate the whole movement. You conclude that the power must be in this last-named wheel. Here is a con- clusion from analyzing, or examining the parts separately. The JUDGMENT is the same as what is popu- COMMON SENSE. 147 larly styled common sense. It is that faculty which pronounces a decision, in view of all the infor- mation before the mind, in any given case. For example if you wish to determine what school you will attend, y~u first obtain all the informa- tion you can respecting the different schools that claim your attention. You consider and com- pare the advantages of each ; and you decide according to your impression of their compara- tive merits. The faculty which forms this de- cision is called the judgment. You will readily perceive how very important this faculty is ; for a person may be very learned, and yet a very great dunce in every thing of a practical nature, if he fails in judgment or common sense. His learning will be of very little use to him, be- cause he has not sense to use it to advantage. The MEMORY is the faculty which retains the knowledge that is received into the mind. It is a wonderful faculty. It may be compared to an immense closet, with a countless number and variety of shelves, drawers, and cells, in which articles are stored away for future use, only one of which can be examined by the proprietor at the same time, and yet so arranged that he knows just where to look for the article he wants. It is supposed that no impression, once made upon the memory, can be obliterated; and yet the im- 148 IMAGINATION. pression may not be called up for years. It lies there, till some association of ideas brings it up again ; the faculty not being able to present more than one object distinctly before the mind at the same instant. The IMAGINATION is that faculty which forms pictures in the mind of real or unreal scenes. It is the faculty that you exercise in your fanciful plays, and when your mind runs forward to the time that you expect to be engaged in the busy scenes of life, and you picture to yourself pleas- ures and enjoyments in prospect. It is the fac- ulty chiefly exercised by the poet and the writer of fiction. You will, perhaps, be tired of this explanation ; but it was necessary, in order to prepare the way for what I have to say on the education of the mind. From the definition of education already given, you will perceive that my ideas differ very much from those entertained by most young people. Ask a young person what he is going to school for, and he will answer, " To learn" And his idea of learning is, simply, to acquire knowledge. This, however, is but a small part of the object of education. And this idea often leads youth to judge that much of what they are equired to study is of no value to them ; be- cause they think they shall have no use for the OBJECTS OF EDUCATION. 149 particular science they are studying, in practical life. The chief objects of mental education are, to cultivate and discipline the mind, and to store it with those great facts and principles which compose the elements of all knowledge. The studies to be pursued, then, are to be chosen with reference to these objects, and not merely for the purpose of making the mind a vast store- house of knowledge. This may be done, and yet leave it a mere lumber-room. For without the capacity to analyze, and turn it to account, all the knowledge in the world is but useless lumber. It is of great importance that young people should understand and appreciate this principle, because it is intimately connected with their success in acquiring a good education. To this end, it is necessary that they should coop- erate with their parents and teachers. This they will never be ready to do, if they suppose the only object of study is, to acquire a knowledge of the particular branches they are set to learn ; for they cannot see the use of them. But, under- standing the design of education to be, to dis- cipline the mind, and furnish it with the elements of knowledge, there is no science, no branch of learning, but what is useful for these objects ; and the only question, where education cannot be liberal, is, What branches will best secure these ends ? 13* 150 MENTAL DISCIPLINE. This understanding of the objects of educa tion is also necessary, to stimulate the young to prosecute their studies in the most profitable manner. If their object were merely to acquire knowledge, the more aid they could get from their teachers the better, because they would thus obtain information the more rapidly. But the object being to discipline the mind, call forth its energies, and obtain a thorough knowl- edge of elementary principles, what is stud- ied out, by the unaided efforts of the pupil, is worth a hundred times more than that which is communicated by an instructor. The very effort of the mind which is requisite to study out a sum in arithmetic, or a difficult sentence in language, is worth more than it costs, for the increased power which it imparts to the faculties so exercised. The principles involved in -the case will, also, by this effort, be more deeply impressed upon the mind. Such efforts are also exceedingly valuable, for the confidence which they inspire in one's power of accomplishment. I do not mean to commend self-confidence in a bad sense. For any one to be so confident of his own power as to think he can do things which he cannot, or to fancy himself qualified for stations which he is not able to fill, is foolish and vain. But, to know one's own ability to INDEPENDENT EFFORT. 151 do, and have confidence in it, is indispensable to success in any undertaking. Arid this confi- dence is inspired by unaided efforts to overcome difficulties in the process of education. As an instance of this, I recollect, when a boy, of en- countering a very difficult sum in arithmetic. After spending a considerable time on it, with- out success, I sought the aid of the school teacher, who failed to render me any assistance. I then applied to several other persons, none of whom could give me the desired information. Thus I was thrown back upon my own resources. I studied upon it several days without success. After worrying my head with it one evening, I retired to rest, and dreamed out the whole pro- cess. I do not suppose there was any thing supernatural in my dream ; but the sum was the absorbing subject of my thoughts, and when sleep had closed the senses, they still ran on the same subject. Rising in the morning with a clear head, and examining the question anew, it all opened up to my mind with perfect clear- ness ; all difficulty vanished, and in a few mo- ments the problem was solved. I can scarcely point to any single event, which has had more influence upon the whole course of my life than this. It gave me confidence in my ability to succeed in any reasonable undertaking. But 152 OVERCOMING DIFFICULTIES. for this confidence, I should never have thought of entering upon the most useful undertakings of my life. But for this, you would never have seen this book, nor any other of the numerous works which I have been enabled to furnish for the benefit of the young. I mention this cir- cumstance here, for the purpose of encouraging you to independent mental effort. In prosecut- ing your studies, endeavor always, if possible, to overcome every difficulty without the aid of others. This practice, besides giving you the confidence of which I have spoken, will give you a much better knowledge of the branches you are pursuing, and enable you, as you ad- vance, to proceed much more rapidly. Every difficulty you overcome, by your own unaided efforts, will make the next difficulty less. And though at first you will proceed more slowly, your habit of independent investigation will soon enable you to outstrip all those who are still held in the leading-strings of their teachers. A child will learn to walk much sooner by being let alone, than to be provided with a go-cart. Your studies, pursued in this manner, will be much more interesting; for you are interested in any study just in proportion to the effort of mind it costs you. The perceptive faculty is developed first of SYMMETRY OF MIND. 153 all. It begins to be exercised by the child be- fore it can speak; or even understand language. Reason and judgment are more slow in their development, though they begin to be exercised at a very early period. Memory is exercised as soon as ideas are received into the mind. The imagination, in the natural course of things, is developed latest of all ; but it is often forced out too early, like flowers in a hot-bed, in which case it works great injury to the mind. You will perceive the great importance of brincrinor out the several faculties of the mind in o o their due proportion. If the memory is chiefly cultivated, you will have a great amount of knowledge floating loosely in your mind, but it will be of very little use. But the proper culti- vation of the memory is indispensable, in order to render your knowledge available. Nor will it do for you to adopt the notion that nothing is to be committed to the keeping of the memory which is not fully understood. The memory is a servant, which must consent to do some things without knowing the reason why. The imagi- nation is the beautiful flower that crowns the top of the plant. But if forced out too early, or out of due proportion, it will cover the stalk with false blossoms, which, in a little time, will wither, and leave it dry and useless. The per 154 INTELLECTUAL CULTURE. ception, reason, and judgment, require a long course of vigorous exercise and severe training, in order to lay a solid foundation of character. I shall leave this subject here, without sug gesting any particular means of cultivating the mind, leaving you to apply the principles here laid down to your ordinary studies. But in several subsequent chapters, I shall have so*ne reference to what I have said here. 155 CHAPTER XVI. READING. READING occupies a very important place in education. It is one of the principal means of treasuring up knowledge. It is, therefore, highly necessary that a taste for reading should be early cultivated. But a mere taste for reading, un- controlled by intelligent principle, is a dangerous appetite. It may lead to ruinous consequences. The habit of reading merely for amusement, is a dangerous habit. Reading for amusement fur- nishes a constant temptation for reading what is injurious. It promotes, also, an unprofitable manner of reading. Reading in a hasty and cursory manner, without exercising your own thoughts upon what you read, induces a bad habit of mind. To profit by reading depends, not so much on the quantity which is read, as upon the manner in which it is read. You may read a great deal, in a gormandizing way, as the glutton consumes food, and yet be none the better, but the worse for what you read. If you would profit by reading, you must, in 156 DANGER OF BAD BOOKS. the first place, be careful what you read. There are a multitude of books, pamphlets, periodicals, and newspapers, in circulation at the present day, which cannot be read, especially by the young, without great injury, both to the mind and heart. If any one should propose to you to associate with men and women of the lowest and most abandoned character, you would shrink from the thought you would be indignant at the proposition. But it is not the mere bodily presence of such characters that makes their so- ciety dangerous. It is the communion which you have with their minds and hearts, in their conduct and conversation. But a great portion of the popular literature of the day is written by such characters. By reading their writings, you come into communion with their minds and hearts, as much as if you were personally in their company. In their writings, the fancies which fill their corrupt minds, and the false and dangerous principles which dwell in their de- praved hearts, are transferred to paper, to cor- rupt the unwary reader. Here are, likewise, glowing descriptions of evil conduct, more fasci- nating to the youthful heart than the example itself would be, because the mischief is artfully concealed behind the drapery of fine literary Vste, and beautifp 1 language. There are, like- OBJECTS OF READING. 157 wise, many such writings, the productions of persons of moral lives, but of corrupt principles, which are equally dangerous. You would not associate with a person whom you knew to be an unprincipled character, even though he might be outwardly moral. He would be the more dangerous, because you would be less on your guard. If it is dangerous to keep company with persons of bad character or bad principles, it is much more so to keep company with bad books. I have treated at large on the subject of novel- reading, and other objectionable writings, in my " Young Lady's Guide ; " and to that I must refer you, for my reasons, more at length, for condemning such reading. I shall here only suggest, for the regulation of your reading, a few simple rules. 1. ALWAYS HAVE SOME DEFINITE OBJECT IN VIEW, IN YOUR READING. While pursuing your education, you will be so severely taxed with hard study, that reading merely for diversion or amusement does not furnish the relaxation which you need. It keeps the body idle and the mind still in exercise; whereas, the diversion which you need, is something that will exercise the body and relax the mind. If your object is diver- sion, then it is better to seek it in useful labor, sprightly amusements, or healthful walks. I can 14 15$ READING FOR AMUSEMENT. think of nothing more injurious to the young than spending the hours in which they are re- leased from study, bending over novels, or the light literature of our trashy periodicals. Not only is the health seriously injured by such means, but the mind loses its vigor. The high stimulus applied to the imagination creates a kind of mental intoxication, which renders study insipid and irksome. But reading is an important part of education, and some time should be devoted to it. Instead of mere amusement, however, there are higher objects to be aimed at. These are, 1st, to store the mind with useful knowl- edge; 2d, to cultivate a correct taste; 3d, to make salutary impressions upon the heart. For the first, you may read approved works on all the various branches of knowledge ; as his- tory, biography, travels, science, and religious truth. For the second, you may read such works of imagination and literary taste as are perfectly free from objection, on the score of religion and morality, and these but sparingly at your age ; for the third, such practical works of piety as you will find in the Sabbath school library. But, for all these purposes, the Bible is the great Book of books. It contains his- tory, biography, poetry, travels, and doctrinal and practical essays. Any plan of reading will MORAL INTOXICATION. 159 be essentially defective, which does not contem- plate the daily reading of the Bible. You ought to calculate on reading it through, in course, every year of your life. 2. BE EXCEEDINGLY CAREFUL WHAT YOU READ. Do not take up a book, paper, or periodical, that .happens to fall in your way, becausS you have nothing else to read By so doing, you will expose yourself to great evils. But, though a book be not decidedly objectionable, it may not be worth reading. There are so many good books, at the present day, that it is not worth while to spend time over what is of little value ; and it is better to read the Bible alone, than to spend time over a poor book. Avoid, especially, the fictitious stories that you will find in news*- papers and popular magazines. They are gen- erally the worst species of fiction, and tend strongly to induce a vitiated taste, and an appe- tite for novel-reading. If you once become ac- customed to such reading, you will find it pro- duce a kind of moral intoxication, so that you will feel as uneasy without it, as the drunkard without his cups, or the smoker without his pipe. It is much the safer way for young people to be wholly directed by their parents, (or their teach- ers, if away from home,) in the choice of their reading. Make it a rule never to read any book, 160 THINK AS YOU READ. pamphlet, or periodical, till you have first ascer tained from your parents, teachers, or minister that it is safe, and worth reading. 3. THINK AS YOU READ. Do not drink in the thoughts of others as you drink water ; but examine them, and see whether they carry convic- tion te your own mind ; and if they do, think them over, till they become incorporated with your own thoughts, part and parcel of your own mind. Lay up facts and principles in your memory Let the beautiful thoughts and striking ideas that you discover be treasured up as so many gems and precious stones, to enrich and beautify your own mind. And let your heart be im- pressed and benefited by the practical thoughts you find addressed to it. 4. REDEEM TIME FOR READING. Although it would be improper for you to take the time appropriated for study, or to rob yourself of needful diversion, yet you may, by careful econ- omy, save some time every day for reading. A great deal of time is thrown away by the indul- gence of dilatory habits, or consumed in a care- less, sauntering vacancy. If you follow system, and have a time for every thing, and endeavor to do every thing with despatch, in its proper sea- son, you will have time enough for every thing that is necessary to be done. 161 CHAPTER XVII. WRITING. WRITING, or COMPOSING, is one of the best exercises of the mind. It is, however, I am sorry to say, an exercise to which young people generally show a great aversion. One reason, perhaps, is, that, to write well, requires hard thinking. But I am inclined to think the chief reason is, that the difficulties of writing are magnified. There is, also, a want of wisdom in the choice of subjects. Themes are fre- quently selected for first efforts, which require deep, abstract thinking ; and the mind not being able to grasp them, there is a want of thought, which' discourages new beginners. The first attempts should be made upon subjects that are easy and well understood ; such as a well-studied portion of history, a well-known story, or a description of some familiar scene ; the object being to clothe it in suitable language, and to make such reflections upon it as occur to the mind. Writing is but thinking on paper ; and 14* 162 DIRECTIONS. if you have any thoughts at all, you may commit them to writing. Another fault in young beginners is, viewing composition as a task imposed on them by their teachers, and making it their chief object to cover a certain quantity of paper with writing ; and so the sooner this task is discharged the better. But you must have a higher aim than this, or you will never be a good writer. Such efforts are positively injurious. They promote a careless, negligent habit of writing. One well-written composition, which costs days of hard study, is worth more, as a discipline of mind, than a hundred off-hand, careless pro- ductions. Indeed, one good, successful effort will greatly dimmish every succeeding effort, and make writing easy. You will do well, then, first to select your subject some time before you write, and think it over and study it, and have your ideas arranged in your mind .before you begin. Then write with care, selecting the best expressions, and clothing your thoughts in the best dress. Then carefully and repeat- edly read h over, and correct it, studying every sentence, weighing every expression, and making every possible improvement. Then lay it aside awhile, and afterwards copy it, with such im- LETTER-WRITING. 163 provements as occur at the time. Then lay it aside, and after some days revise it again, and see what further improvements and corrections you can make, and copy it a second time. If you repeat this process half a dozen times, it will be all the better. Nor will the time you spend upon it be lost. One such composition will conquer all the difficulties in the way of writing; and every time you repeat such an effort, you will find your mind expanding, and your thoughts multiplying, so that, very soon, writing will be- come an easy and delightful exercise ; and you will, at length, be able to make the first draught so nearly perfect that it will not need copying. But you never will make a good writer by off-hand, careless efforts. Letter-writing, however, is a very different af- fair. Its beauty consists in its simplicity, ease, and freedom from formality. The best rule that can bo given for letter-writing is, to imagine the per- son present whom you are addressing, and write just what you would say in conversation. All at- tempts at effort, in letter-writing, are out of place. The detail of particulars, such as your corre- spondent would be interested to know, and the expression of your own feelings, are the great excellences of this kind of writing. Nothing 164 LETTER-WRITING. disappoints a person more than to receive a let- ter fall of fine sentiments, or didactic matter, such as he might find in books, while the ver) information which he desired is left out, and perhaps an apology at the close for not giving the news, because the sheet is full. In a let- ter, we want information of the welfare of our friends, together with the warm gush of feeling which fills their hearts. These are the true ex- cellences of epistolary writing. 165 CHAPTER XVIII INDOLENCE. THERE is no greater enemy to improvement than an indolent spirit. An aversion to effort paralyzes every noble desire, and defeats every attempt at advancement. If you are naturally indolent, you must put on . resolution to over- come it, and strive against it with untiring vigi- lance. There is not a single point, in the pro- cess of education, at which this hydra-headed monster will not meet you. " The slothful man saith there is a lion without, I shall be slain in the street." There is always a lion in the way, when slothful spirits are called upon to make any exertion. " / can't," is the sovereign arbi- ter of their destiny. It prevents their attempt- ing any thing difficult or laborious. If required to write a composition, they can't think of any thing to write about. The Latin lesson is dif- ficult ; this word they can't find ; that sentence they can't read. The sums in arithmetic are so hard, they can't do them. And so this lion in the way defeats every thing. But those who ex- 166 INDOLENCE AND ACTIVITY CONTRASTED. pec* ever to be any thing, must not suffer such a word as can't in their vocabulary. It is the same with labor. The indolent dread all exertion. When requested to do any thing, they have something else to do first, which their indolence has left unfinished ; or they have some* other reason to give why they should not attempt it. But if nothing else will do, the sluggard's excuse, " / can't" is always at hand. Were it not for the injury to them, it would be far more agreeable to do, one's self, what is desired of them, than to encounter the painful scowls that clothe the brow, when they think of making an effort. Solomon has described this disposition to the life: "The slothful man putteth his hand in his bosom : it grieveth Mm to take it out again.' 1 But indolence is a source of great misery. There are none so happy as those who are al- ways active. I do not mean that they should give themselves no relaxation from severe effort. But relaxation does not suppose idleness. To sit and fold one's hands, and do nothing, serves no purpose. Change of employment is the best re- creation. And from the idea of employment, I would not exclude active and healthful sports, provided they are kept within due bounds. But to sit idly staring at vacancy is intolerable IDLENESS A WASTE OF LIFE. 167 There is no enjoyment in it. It is a stagnation of body and mind. An indolent person is, to the active and industrious, what a stagnant pool is to the clear and beautiful lake. Employment contributes greatly to enjoyment. It invigorates the body, sharpens the intellect, and promotes cheerfulness of spirits ; while indolence makes a torpid body, a vacant mind, and a peevish, dis- contented spirit. Indolence is a great waste of existence. Sup- pose you live to the age of seventy years, and squander in idleness one hour a day, you will absolutely throw away about three years of your existence. And if we consider that this is taken from the waking hours of the day, it should be reckoned six years. Are you willing, by idle- ness, to shorten your life six years ? Then take care of the moments. Never fritter away time in doing nothing. Whatever you do, whether study, work, or play, enter into it with spirit and energy ; and never waste your time in saun- tering and doing nothing. " Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might ; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in the grave, whither thou goest." 168 CHAPTER XIX. ON DOING ONE THING AT A TIME. WHAT is worth doing at all, is worth the undivided attention ; but John can never be satisfied to do but one thing at a time. By attempting to read or play while dressing, he consumes double the time that is necessary. He reads at the table, and, in consequence, keeps the table waiting for him to finish his meal. He turns his work into play, and thus his work is slighted, and frequently left half done. When he goes to his lesson, his attention is arrested by something else before he has fairly commenced, and he stops to look or listen. Or perhaps he insensibly falls into a reverie, and is engaged in building " castles in the air/' till something happens to call back his spirit from the fairy land. The consequence is, the lesson is ac- quired but imperfectly, while twice the need- ful time has been spent upon it. At the same time, nothing else is accomplished. This is what I call busy idleness. SYSTEM. 169 The true way to accomplish the most, and to do it in the best manner, is to confine the atten- tion strictly to the thing in hand, and to bend all the energies of the mind to that one object, aim- ing to do it in the best possible manner, in the least possible time. By adopting this principle, and acting upon it, you will be surprised to find how much more expeditiously you will accom- plish what you undertake, and how much better it will be done. It is indispensable to success in any undertaking. Closely connected with this subject, is the systematic division of time. Where there is no system, one duty will jostle another, and much time will be wasted in considering what to do next ; all of which would be avoided, by having a regular routine of duties, one coming after the other in regular order, and so having a set time for each. This cannot be carried out perfectly, because there will every day be something to do that was not anticipated. But it may be so far pursued as to avoid confusion and waste of time. 15 170 CHAPTER XX. ON FINISHING WHAT IS BEGUN. BEGINNING things and leaving them unfinished, exerts a bad influence in the formation of char- acter. If it becomes a habit, it will make you so fickle that no one will put confidence in you. There is James Scott. If you go into his room, you will find his table strewed, and his drawer filled, with compositions begun and not completed ; scraps of verses, but no poem fin- ished ; letters commenced, but not completed. Or, if you go to his play-house, you will find a ball half wound ; a kite half made ; a boat begun ; one runner of a sled ; one wheel of a wagon ; and other things to match. He wants energy and perseverance to finish what he begins; and thus he wastes his time in frivolous pursuits. He is very ready to begin; but before he has completed what is begun, he thinks of something else that he wishes to do ; or he grows weary of what he is upon. He lives to no purpose, for he completes nothing; and he might as well do noth ing, as to complete nothing. FINISH WHAT YOU BEGIN. 171 If you indulge this practice, it will grow upon you, till you will become weak, irresolute, fickle, and good for nothing. To avoid this, begin nothing that is not worth finishing, or that you have not good reason to think you will be able to finish. But when you have begun, resolutely persevere till you have finished. There is a strong temptation, with the young, to abandon an undertaking, because of the difficulties in the way ; but, if you persevere, and conquer the difficulties you meet with, you will gain confi- dence in yourself, and the next time, persever- ance in your undertakings will be more easy. You may, however, make a mistake, and begin what you cannot or ought not to perform; in which case, perseverance would only increase the evil. 172 CHAPTER XXI. CHOICE OF SOCIETY, AND FORMATION OF FRIENDSHIPS. CHARACTER is formed under a great variety of influences. Sometimes a very trifling circum- stance gives direction to the whole course of one's life. And every incident that occurs, from day to day, is exerting a silent, gradual influ- ence, in the formation of your character. Among these influences, none are more direct and pow- erful than that exerted upon us by the com- panions with whom we associate; for we insen- sibly fall into their habits. This is especially true in childhood and youth, when the character is plastic, like soft wax, easily impressed. But we cannot avoid associating, to some ex- tent, with those whose influence is injurious. It is necessary, then, for us to distinguish society into general and particular. General society is that with which we are compelled to associate. Particular society is that which we choose for ourselves. In school, and in all public places, you are under the necessity of associating some- INTIMATE FRIENDSHIPS. 173 what with all. But those whom you meet, in such circumstances, you are not compelled to make intimate friends. You may be courteous and polite to all, wherever and whenever you meet them, and yet maintain such a prudent reserve, and cautious deportment, as not to be much exposed to contamination, if they should not prove suitable companions. But every one needs intimate friends ; and it is necessary that these should be well chosen. A bad friend may prove your ruin. You should therefore be slow and cautious in the formation of intimacies and friendships. Do not be sud- denly taken with any one, and so enter into a hasty friendship; for you may be mistaken, and soon repent of it. There is much force in the old adage, " All is not gold that shines." A pleasing exterior often conceals a corrupt heart. Before you enter into close intimacies or friendships, study the characters of the per- sons whom you propose to choose for compan- ions. Watch their behavior and conversation ; and if you discover any bad habits indulged, or any thing that indicates a want of principle, let them not become your companions. If you discover that they disregard any of the com- mandments of God, set them down as unsafe associates. They will not only be sure to lead 174 FORMATION OF FRIENDSHIPS. you astray, but you can place no dependence upon their fidelity If they will break one of God's commands, they will another ; and you can put no confidence in them. But even where you discover no such thing, ask the opin- ion of your parents respecting them before you choose them as your friends. Yet, while you are in suspense about the matter, treat them courteously and kindly. But when you have determined to seek their friendship, do not im- pose your friendship on them against their will. Remember that they have the same right as yourself to the choice of their friends ; and they may see some objection to the formation of a friendship with yourself. Be delicate, therefore, in your advances, and give them an opportunity to come half way. A friendship cautiously and slowly formed will be much more likely to last than one that is formed in haste. But let the number of your intimate and con fidential friends be small. It is better to have a few 'select, choice, and warm friends, than to have a great number, less carefully chosen, whose attachment is less warm and ardent. But you must not refuse to associate at all with the mass of the society where you belong; espe- cially, if you live in the country. You must meet them kindly and courteously, on all occa- BE COLKTEOCS TO ALL. 175 sions where the society in general in which you move is called together. You must not affect exclusiveness, nor confine yourself to the com- pany of your particular friends, at such times. But be careful that you do not expose yourself to evil influences. You ought not, at present, to form any in- timate friendships with the other sex. Such friendships, at your age, are dangerous; and if not productive of any serious present evils, they will probably be subjects of regret when you come to years of maturity ; for attachments may be formed that your judgment will then disapprove. 176 CHAPTER XXII. BAD COMPANY. MISCHIEVOUSNESS. THERE are some boys, who carelessly go any where that they can find amusement, without regard to the character of their company. They not only associate indiscriminately in genera) society, where they are obliged to go, as at school ; but they seek the company of bad boys, or permit themselves to be enticed into it, be- cause it affords them some momentary enjoyment A bad boy is one who has a bad disposition, which has never been subdued ; or one of cor- rupt principles and bad habits. A boy with a bad disposition will be rough, quarrelsome, ma- licious in his temper, fond of mischief, and rude and unmannerly in his general behavior. A boy of corrupt principles is one who will not scruple to break the commands of God, when they stand in the way of his own gratification He acts from the mere selfish desire of present enjoyment. A boy of bad habits is one who is in the habit of disobeying his parents, breaking the Sabbath, using bad language, lying, stealing, MORAL CONTAGION. 177 gaming, drinking, or doing wanton mischief. Any of these habits shows a character thoroughly corrupt. If you go into the company of persons that are sick with the measles, hooping-cough, small- pox, or any contagious disorder, in a short time you will be taken with the same disease. The very atmosphere of the room where they stay is full of contagion, and you will draw it in with your breath. So, likewise, moral diseases are contagious. There is an atmosphere of moral contagion and death surrounding persons of vicious habits. " Evil communications cor- rupt good manners." The sight of evil deeds, or the hearing of bad language, hardens the heart, and diminishes the abhorrence of sin, which is felt by those to whom vice is not fa- miliar. If you consent to go into bad company, you will soon find yourself falling into their habits. And if you keep company with bad boys, you will soon have the reputation of being a bad boy yourself. Bad company will lead you into practices that will end in your ruin and disgrace. If you could read the history of those who have been sent to prison or otherwise punished for their crimes, you would be surprised to find how many of them were led, insensibly, into the evil courses 178 AN EXAMPLE. which ended in their ruin, by frequenting bad company. I will give you a single example, which is only one among thousands that might be set before you, to show the dangerous influence of evil companions. There was a boy in Stockport, (England,) who went to the Sabbath school, and was esteemed a very good boy ; so that he was appointed a teacher of one of the classes. But about this time his father died ; and his mother, being poor, was obliged to send him to work in the factory. There he met with bad boys, who were addicted to evil practices. They gradually led him into their own evil courses, till, at length, he lost all the good impressions he had received in the Sabbath school. He began to drink, and drinking led him to committing petty thefts. He became so dissolute that his mother could do nothing with him. He was turned out of his employment, and obliged to enlist as a soldier. He was sent into Spain. There he indulged his evil courses, and supplied himself with the means of gratifying his evil desires, by plundering the inhabitants. At the close of the war, he returned home. Soon after landing, he and his evil companions began to break into people's houses and commit robberies. He was detected > tried, and condemned to death, at the age of twenty-one. * MISCHIEVOUS BOYS. 179 Let me especially caution you against indulg- ing a mischievous disposition, or joining with others in any schemes of mischief. I know of nothing more likely to get you into serious dif- ficulty, or to lead you into vicious habits and dissolute practices. A few years ago, a young man was hung, in one of our seaport towns, for piracy. He was one of the bad boys of whom I have been speaking. He had a bad disposition, which had never been subdued. At home, he was turbulent and unsubmissive ; abroad, he was a ringleader in mischief; at school, he was disobedient to his teacher, and set himself to work to organize the boys to resist the authority of their teachers. At length, he went to sea; and there he carried out the same disposition. He headed the sailors against the authority of the captain. After he had been some time at sea, he persuaded the rest of the crew to set the captain and mate of the vessel upon the ocean in an open boat. They then took possession of the vessel, and turned pirates, robbing every ves- sel they could find. They were captured; and this young man was brought home, tried and condemned, and hung for his crime. This was the result of a turbulent and ungovernable boy giving up himself to be a ringleader in mischief. Boys who go from the country to the city are 180 BOYS GOING TO THE CITY. very apt to be drawn into bad company. Cities abound with boys who are old in mischief and crime. They take great delight in leading astray the simple-hearted ; and if boys from the coun- try come within the reach of their influence, they are almost sure to be ruined. The great number of boys found in the houses of correc- tion and reformation, and in the city prisons, are so many beacons to warn the unwary of the danger of shipwreck on the rocks and shoals of evil company. In conclusion, let me commend to you the wholesome warning and advice of Solomon " My son, if sinners entice thee, consent thou not." " Enter not into the path of the wicked, and go not in the way of evil men. Avoid it, pass not by it, turn from it, and pass away. For they sleep not, except they have done mischief; and their sleep is taken away, unless they cause some to fall." 181 CHAPTER XXIII. ON AMUSEMENTS. THE human system is formed for alternate labor and rest, and not for incessant activity ; and to provide for this, the night follows the day and the Sabbath the six days of labor. But not only is rest necessary after labor, but activity in a different direction. When you are carry- ing a burden of any kind, you find relief in a change of position. A poor boy was employed in turning a wheel, by which he was enabled to do something for his mother. A lady, observ- ing him steadily employed at what appeared to be a very laborious occupation, inquired whether he did not get tired. He replied that he was often very tired. "And what do you do when you are tired ? " she further inquired. " O," said he, " I take the other hand." He had learned that a change of position gave him rest. Neither the mind nor the body is capable of being incessantly exerted, in one direction, with- out injury. Like the bent bow, they will lose their elasticity. The body, after labor, and the 16 J82 RELAXATION NECESSARY mind, after study, need unbending, especially in youth, while the muscles of the body have not acquired maturity or solidity, and the powers of the mind are yet developing. At this period of life relaxation and amusement are especially ne- cessary ; and those young persons who eschew all play, and confine themselves to books and la- bor, must, in the natural course of things, suffer both in health and spirits. Healthful play is natural to the young, throughout the whole ani- mal creation. The lamb, that emblem of inno- cence, is seen sporting in the fields, blithely bounding over the hills, as if desirous of ex- pressing a grateful sense of its Creator's good- ness. There is no more harm in the play of children than in the skipping of the lambs. It is necessary to restore the bent bow to its natu- ral elasticity. It is the voice of nature, which cannot be hushed. But having said so much, it is necessary to guard against improprieties and excesses in amusements. And yet, to determine what amusements are to be allowed, and what con- demned, is no easy matter ; for, while some kinds of amusement are evil in their own nature, and necessarily injurious, others are evil and injurious only on account of their excess, or of the manner in which they are pursued, or of the TESTS OF AMUSEMENTS. 183 evils that are associated with them. My object is, not so much to point out what amusements are wrong, as to give you some rules by which you can judge for yourself. I. Never engage in recreation at an unsuit- able time. To neglect duty for the sake of amusement is not only wrong, but it will exert a bad influence upon your character. It tends to produce an immoderate love of amusement, and to break up all orderly and regular hab- its. Let your invariable rule be, " BUSINESS FIRST, AND THEN PLEASURE." Never suffer any kind of amusement to break in upon the time appropriated to labor or study. II. Never do any thing that is disapproved by your parents or guardians. They desire your happiness, and will not deprive you of any enjoyment, unless they see good reason for it. They may see evil where you would not per- ceive it. They regard your highest welfare. They look beyond the present, to see what influ- ence these things will have on your character and happiness hereafter. They are also set over you of the Lord ; and it is your duty not only to submit to their authority, but to reverence their counsel. III. Engage in no amusement which is dis* approved by the most devoted and consisted 184 TESTS OF AMUSEMENTS. Christians of your acquaintance. I do not mean the few cross and austere persons, who always wear an aspect of gloom, and cannot bear to see the countenances of youth lighted up with the srnile of innocent hilarity. But I mean those Christians who wear an aspect of devout cheerfulness, and maintain a holy and consist- ent life. Their judgment is formed under the influence of devotional feeling, and will not be likely to be far from what is just and right. IV. Do nothing which you would be afraid God should see. There is no darkness nor secret place, where you can hide yourself from his all-searching eye. Contemplate the Lord Jesus Christ as walking by your side, as he truly is in spirit; and do nothing which you would be unwilling that he should witness, if he were with you in his bodily presence. V. Do nothing the preparation for which un- fits you for religious duty. If an amusement in which you are preparing to engage so takes up your mind as to interfere with your devotional exercises ; if your thoughts run away from the Bible that you are reading to anticipated pleas ures ; or if those pleasures occupy your thoughts *n prayer; you may be sure you are going too far. VI. Engage in nothing on which you cannot TESTS OF AMUSEMENTS. 185 first ask God's blessing. Do you desire to engage in any thing in which you would not wish to be blessed and prospered ? But God only can bless and prosper us in any undertaking. If, there- fore, your feelings would be shocked to think of asking God's blessing on any thing in which you would engage, it must be because your con- science tells you it is wrong. VII. Engage in no amusement which unfits you for devotional exercises. If, on returning from a scene of amusement, you feel no dispo- sition to pray, you may be sure something is wrong. You had better not repeat the same again. VIII. Engage in nothing which tends to dis- sipate serious impressions. Seriousness, and a sense of eternal things, are perfectly consistent with serenity and cheerfulness. But thoughtless mirth, or habitual levity, will drive away such impressions. Whatever you find has this effect is dangerous to your soul. IX. Reject such amusements as are generally associated with evil. If the influences which surround any practice are bad, you may justly conclude that it is unsafe, without stopping to inquire into the nature of the practice itself. Games of chance are associated with gambling and dissipation ; therefore, I conclude that they 16* 186 TESTS OF AMUSEMENTS. cannot be safely pursued, even for amusement. Dancing, also, is associated with balls, with late hours, high and unnatural excitement, and dis- sipation ; it is therefore unsafe. You may know the character of any amusement by the com- pany in which it is found. X. Engage in nothing which necessarily leads you into temptation. You pray every day, (or ought to,) " lead us not into temptation." But you cannot offer up this prayer sincerely, and then run needlessly in the way of temptation. And if you throw yourself in the way of it, you have no reason to expect that God will deliver you from it. XI. If you engage in any recreation, and re- turn from it with a wounded conscience, set it down as evil. A clear conscience is too valua- ble to be bartered for a few moments of pleas- ure ; and if you find your conscience accusing you for having engaged in any amusement, never repeat the experiment. XII. Practise no amusement which offends your sense of propriety. A delicate sense of propriety, in regard to outward deportment, is in manners what conscience is in morals, and taste in language. It is not any thing that we arrive at by a process of reasoning, but what the mind as it were instinctively perceives It re- A SENSE OF PROPRIETY 187 sembles the sense of taste ; and by it one will notice any deviation from what is proper, before he has time to consider wherein the impropriety consists. There is a beauty and harmony in what is proper and right, which instantly strikes the mind with pleasure. There is a fitness of things, and an adaptation of one thing to another, in one's deportment, that strikes the beholder with sensations of pleasure, like those experi- enced on beholding the harmonious and beauti- ful blending of the seven colors of the rainbow. But when propriety is disregarded, the impres- sion is similar to what we might suppose would be produced, if the colors of the rainbow crossed each other at irregular angles, now blend- ing together in one, and now separating, en- tirely, producing irregularity and confusion. The sensation produced upon the eye would be unpleasant, if not insufferable. Among the amusements which come under this rule are the vulgar plays that abound in low company, especially such as require the payment of for- feits, to be imposed by the victor. In such cases, you know not to what mortification you may be subjected. Frolics, in general, come under this head, where rude and boisterous plays are practised, and often to a late hour of the night, when all sense of propriety and even of courtesy is often forgotten. '88 THINGS OF DOUBTFUL PROPRIETY. XIII. Engage in nothing of doubtful propriety. The apostle Paul teaches that it is wrong to do any thing the propriety of which we doubt ; oecause, by doing that which we are not fully persuaded is right, we violate our conscience It is always best to keep on the safe side. It you were walking near the crater of a volcano, you would not venture on ground where there \vas any danger of breaking through, and falling into the burning lake.' You would keep on the ground where it was safe and sure. And so we should do, in regard to all questions of right and wrong. Never venture where the ground trem- bles under your feet XIV. Do nothing which you will remember witH regret on your dying bed. It is well al- ways to keep death in view; it has a good effect upon our minds. The death-bed always brings with it pains and sorrows enough. It is a sad thing to make work for repentance at such an hour. That is an honest hour. Then we shall view things in their true light. Ask your- self, then, before entering into any scene of amusement, how it will appear to you when you come to look back upon it from your dy- itig bed. XV. Do nothing in the midst of which you would be afraid to meet death. When prep ar- RIDING WITH A CORPSE. 189 ing for a scene of pleasure, how do you know out you may be cut down in the midst of it 1 Sudden death is so common that it is folly to be in any place or condition in which we are not prepared to meet it. Many persons have been cut down in the midst of scenes of gayety, and the same may occur again. A man in Ger- many was sitting at the gaming table. His card won a thousand ducats. The dealer handed over the money, and inquired how he would con- tinue the game. The man made no reply. He was examined, and found to be a corpse ! Simi- lar scenes have occurred in the ball-room. In the midst of the merry dance, persons have been called suddenly out of time into eternity. A gentleman and lady started in a sleigh, to ride some distance to a ball, in a cold winter's night. Some time before reaching the place, the lady was observed to be silent. On driving up, the gentleman called to her, but no answer was re- turned. A light was procured, and he discov ered, to his amazement, that he had been riding with a corpse ! At no moment of life are we exempt from sudden death. He who holds us in his hand has a thousand ways of extinguish- ing our life in a moment. He can withhold the breath which he gave; he can stop the vital pulsation instantly ; or he can break one of the 190 THE JUDGMENT. thousand parts of the intricate machinery o f which our mortal bodies are composed. No skill can provide against it. We ought not, therefore, to trust ourselves, for a single moment, in any place or condition where we are unwil. ling to meet death. XVI. Do nothing for which you will be afraid to answer at the bar of God. There every se- cret thing will be revealed. What was done in the darkness will be judged in open day. " Re- joice, O young man, in thy youth ; and let thy heart cheer thee in the days of thy youth ; and walk in the ways of thine heart, and in the sight of thine eyes : but know thou that for all these things God will bring thee into judgment." A young man, on leaving home to enter the army, was supplied with a small Bible, which, though a thoughtless youth, he always carried in his pocket. On one occasion, after a battle, he took out his Bible, and observed that there was a bullet hole in the cover. His first impulse was, to turn over the leaves, and read the verse on which the ball rested. It was the passage just quoted. It brought before his mind all the scenes of mirth and sinful pleasure in which he had been engaged, and pressed upon him the fearful truth, that for all of them he was to be brought into judgment. It was the means of TESTS OF AMUSEMENTS. 191 awakening him to a sense of his condition, and led to a change of heart and life. And why should not the same solemn impression rest upon your mind, with respect to all scenes of pleasure, and lead you carefully to avoid what- ever you would not willingly meet at that awful tribunal ? If you apply these tests to the various amuse- ments that are in vogue among young people, you may readily discern what you can safely pursue, and what you must sternly reject. It will lead you, especially, to detect the evils of all theatrical performances, balls, cards, and dan- cing parties, country frolics, and all things of a like nature. But it will not deprive you of one innocent enjoyment. A girl, ten or twelve years old, made a visit to a companion about her own age. Both of them were hopefully pious. On returning home, she told her mother she was sure Jane was a Christian. " Why do you think so, my daughter?" inquired the mother " O," said the daughter, " she plays like a Christian" In her diversions she carried out Christian principles, and manifested a Christian temper. This is the true secret of innocent recreation ; and it cuts off all kinds of amuse- ment that cannot be pursued in a Christian-like manner. 192 CHAPTER XXIV. GOVERNMENT OF THE TONGUE. THE apostle James says, the tongue is an unruly member, and that it is easier to control a horse or a ship, or even to tame wild beasts and serpents, than to govern the tongue. And, though a very little member, it is capable of doing immense mischief. He even likens it ;to a fire. A very small spark, thrown into a heap of dry shavings, in a wooden house, in a great city, will make a terrible fire. It may burn up the whole city. So a very few words, carelessly spoken by an ungoverned tongue, may set a whole neighborhood on fire. You cannot, therefore, be too careful how you employ your tongue. It is of the highest importance to your character and usefulness, that you early acquire the habit of controlling this unruly member. For the purpose of aiding you in this, I shall give a few simple rules. RULES FOR GOVERNING THE TONGUE. I. Think before you speak. Many person*, open their mouths, and set their tongues a-going TALKING NONSENSE. 193 like the clapper of a wind-mill, as though the object was, to see how many words could be uttered in a given time, without any regard to their quality, whether sense or nonsense, whether good, bad, or indifferent. A tongue, trained up in this way, will never be governed, and must become a source of great mischief. But accustom yourself, before you speak, to consider whether what you are going to say is worth speaking, or whether it can do any mischief. If you cultivate this habit, your mind will speedily acquire an activity, that will enable you to make this consideration without waiting so long before answering your compan- ions as to be observed ; and it will impose a salu- tary restraint upon your loquacity ; for you will find others often taking the lead of conversa- tion instead of yourself, by seizing upon the pause that is made by your consideration. This will be an advantage to you, in two ways. It will give you something better to say, and will diminish the quantity. You will soon perceive that, though you say less than some of your companions, your words have more weight. II. Never allow yourself to talk nonsense. The habit of careless, nonsensical talking, is greatly averse to the government of the tongue- It accustoms it to speak at random, without 17 194 JOKING regard to consequences. It often leads to the utterance of what is not strictly true, and thus insensibly diminishes the regard for truth. It hardens the heart, and cherishes a trifling, care- less spirit. Moreover, if you indulge this habit, your conversation will soon become silly and insipid. III. Do not allow yourself in the habit of JOKING witli your companions. This tends to cultivate severe sarcasm, which is a bad habit of the tongue. And, if you indulge it, your strokes will be too keen for your companions to bear ; and you will lose their friendship. IV. Always speak the truth. There is no evil habit, which the tongue can acquire, more wicked and mischievous than that of speaking falsehood. It is in itself very wicked ; but it is not more wicked than mischievous. If all were liars, there could be no happiness ; because all confidence would be destroyed, and no one would trust another. It is very offensive to God, who is a God of truth, and who has declared that all liars shall have their part in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone. It is a great affront and injury to the person that is deceived by it. Many young persons think nothing of deceiving their companions, in sport; but they will find that the habit of speaking what is not SPEAKING THE TRUTH. 195 true, even in sport, besides being intrinsically wrong, will so accustom them to the utterance of falsehood, that they will soon lose that dread of a lie which used to fortify them against it. The habit of exaggeration, too, is a great enemy to truth. Where this is indulged, the practice of uttering falsehood, without thought or con sideration, will steal on insensibly. It is neces- sary, therefore, in detailing circumstances, to state them accurately, precisely as they occurred, in order to cultivate the habit of truth-telling. Be very particular on this head. Do not allow yourself so little an inaccuracy, even, as to saf you laid a book on the table, when you put il on the mantel, or on the window-seat. In re- lating a story, it is not necessary that you should state every minute particular, but that what you do state should be exactly and circumstantially true. If you acquire this habit of accuracy, it will not only guard you against the indulgence of falsehood, but it will raise your character for truth. When people come to learn that they can depend upon the critical accuracy of what- ever you say, it will greatly increase their confi- dence in you. But* if you grow up with the habit of speaking falsehood, there will be very little hope of your reformation, as long as you live. The character that has acquired an habit- 196 TALE-BEARING. ual disregard of truth is most thoroughly viti- ated. This one habit, if indulged and cherished, and carried with you from childhood to youth, and from youth upwards, will prove your ruin. V Remember that all truth is not to be spoken at all times'. The habit of uttering all that you know, at random, without regard to times and circumstances, is productive of great mischief. If you accustom your tongue to this habit, it will lead you into great difficulties. There are many of our own thoughts, and many facts that come to our knowledge, that prudence would require us to keep in our own bosom, be- cause the utterance of them would do mischief. VI. Never, if you can possibly avoid it, speak any thing to the disadvantage of another. The claims of justice or friendship may sometimes require you to speak what you know against others. You may be called to testify against their evil conduct in school, or before a court of justice ; or you may be called to warn a friend against an evil or designing person. But, where no such motive exists, it is far better to leave them to the judgment of others and of God, and say nothing against them yourself. VII. Keep your tongue from tale-bearing. There is much said in the Scriptures against tattling. " Thou shalt not go up and down as a TALE-BEARING 197 tale-bearer, among the children of thy people." " A tale-bearer revealeth secrets." " Where no wood is, the fire goeth out ; and wh'ere there is no tale-bearer, the strife ceaseth." Young peo- ple are apt to imbibe a taste for neighborhood gossip, and to delight in possessing family se- crets, and in repeating personal matters, neigh- borhood scandal, &/c. But the habit is a bad one. It depraves the taste and vitiates the char- acter, and often is the means of forming for life the vicious habit of tale-bearing. And tale-bear- ers, besides the great mischief they do, are al- ways despised, as mean, mischievous, and con- temptible characters. If you will attentively observe and follow the foregoing rules, you will acquire such a habit of governing the tongue, that it will be an easy matter ; and it will give dignity and value to your character, and make you beloved and es* teemed, as worthy the confidence of all. 17* 19S CHAPTER XXV. ON THE ART OF AGREEABLE AND PROFITABLE CONVERSATION. THERE is, perhaps, no accomplishment which will add so much to your character and influ- ence, as the art of conversing agreeably and well. To do this, however, requires a cultivated mind, richly stored with a variety of useful in- formation ; a good taste ; a delicate sense of pro- priety; a good use of language; and an easy and fluent expression. The most of these requisites can be acquired; and the rest, if naturally deficient, can be greatly improved. An easy, fluent expression is some- times a natural talent ; but, when not joined with a good understanding and a cultivated mind, it degenerates into mere loquacity. But, in order to be prepared to converse well, you must not only have your mind well stored, but its con- tents, if I may so speak, well arranged; so that you can at any time call forth its resources, upon any subject, when they are needed. One of the principal difficulties, in the way of HESITANCY. 199 conversing well, is a hesitancy of speech a difficulty of expressing one's ideas with ease and grace. This may arise from various causes. It may proceed from affectation a desire to speak in fine, showy style. This will invariably defeat its object. You can never appear, in the eyes ol intelligent and well-bred people, to be what you are not. The more simple and unaffected your style is, provided it be pure and chaste, the bet ter you will appear. Affectation will only make you ridiculous. But the same difficulty may arise from diffidence, which leads to embarrass- ment ; and embarrassment clouds the memory, and produces confusion of mind and hesitancy of speech. This must be overcome by degrees, by cultivating self-possession, and frequenting good society. The same difficulty may, like- wise, arise from the want of a sufficient com- mand of language to express one's ideas with ease and fluency. This is to be obtained by writing; by reading the most pure and classic authors, such as Addison's Spectator ; and by observing the conversation of well-educated peo- ple. In order to have a good supply of well- chosen words at ready command, Mr. Whelpley recommends selecting from a dictionary several hundred words, such as are in most common use, and required especially in ordinary conver- 200 ART OF CONVERSATION. / sation, writing them down, and committing them to memory, so as to have them as familiar as the letters of the alphabet. A professional gentle- man informs me, that he has overcome this dif- ficulty by reading a well-written story till it becomes trite and uninteresting, and then fre- quently reading it aloud, without any regard to the story, but only to the language, in order to accustom the organs of speech to an easy flow of words. I have no doubt that such experi- ments as these would be successful in giving a freedom and ease of expression, which is often greatly impeded for want of just the word that is needed at a given time. There is no species of information but may be available to improve and enrich the conversation, and make it interesting to the various classes of people. As an example of this, a clergyman recently informed me that a rich man, who is engaged extensively in the iron business, but who is very irreligious, put up with him for the night. The minister, knowing the character of his guest, directed his conversation to those sub- jects in which he supposed him to be chiefly interested. He exhibited specimens of iron ore, of which he possessed a variety ; explained their different qualities ; spoke of the various modes of manufacturing it; explained the process of ART OF CONVERSATION. 201 manufacturing steel, &c. ; interspersing his con- versation with occasional serious reflections on the wisdom and goodness of God, in providing so abundantly the metals most necessary for the common purposes of life, and thus leading the man's mind " from Nature up to Nature's God." The man entered readily into the conversation, appeared deeply interested, and afterwards ex- pressed his great admiration of the minister. The man was prejudiced against ministers. This conversation may so far remove his prejudices as to open his ear to the truth. But all this the minister was enabled to do, by acquainting him- self with a branch of knowledge which many would suppose to be of no use to a minister. By conversing freely with all sorts of people upon that which chiefly interests them, you may not only secure their good-will, but greatly in- crease you own stock of knowledge. There is no one so ignorant but he may, in this way, add something to your general information ; and you may improve the opportunity it gives to impart useful information, without seeming to do it. RULES FOR CONVERSATION. I. Avoid affectation. Instead of making you appear to better advantage, it will only expose you to ridicule. 202 RULES FOR CONVERSATION. II. Avoid low expressions. There is a dialect peculiar to low people, which you cannot imi tate without appearing as if you were yourself low-bred. III. Avoid provincialisms. There are certain expressions peculiar to particular sections of the country. For example, in New England, many people are in the habit of interlarding their con- versation with the phrase, " You see." In Penn- sylvania and New York, the same use is made of " You know. " And in the West and South, phrases peculiar to those sections of the country are still more common and ludicrous. Avoid all these expressions, and strive after a pure, chaste smd simple style. IV. Avoid all ungrammatical expressions. V. Avoid unmeaning exclamations, as, "O my!" "O mercy!" &c. VI. Never speak unless you have something to say. "A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver." VII. Avoid prolixity. Make your language concise and perspicuous, and strive not to pro- ] ong your speech beyond what is necessary, re- membering that others wish to speak as well as yourself. Be sparing of anecdote ; and only re- sort to it when you have a good illustration of some subject before the company, or when you STORY-TELLING. 203 have a piece of information of general interest. To tell a story well, is a great art. To be te- dious* and prolix in story-telling, is insufferable. To avoid this, do not attempt to relate every minute particular ; but ' seize upon the grand points. Take the following specimen of the relation of the same incident by two different persons: "You see, I got up this morning, and dressed myself, and came down stairs, and opened the front door ; and O, if it didn't look beautiful ! For, you see, the sun shone on the clew, the dew, you know, that hangs in great drops on the grass in the morning. Well, as the sun shone on the dewdrops, it was all sparkling, like so many diamonds ; and it looked so in- viting, you see, I thought I must have a walk. So, you see, I went out into the street, and got over the fence, the fence, you know, the back side of the barn. Well, I got over it, and walked into the grove, and there I heard the blue jay, and cock-robin, and ever so many pretty birds, singing so sweetly. I went along the foot-path to a place where there is a stump, the great stump, you know, James, by the side of the path. Well, there, O, my ! 'what should I see, but a gray squirrel running up a tree ! '' How much better the following: " Eaily this morning, just as the sun was peeping over 204 RULES FOR CONVERSATION. the hill, and the green grass was all over spar- kling with diamonds, as the sun shone upon the dewdrops, I had a delightful walk in the grove, listening to the sweet music of the birds, and watching the motions of a beautiful gray squir- rel, running up a tree, and hopping nimbly from branch to branch." Here is the story, better tolf 3 , in less than half the words. Never specify any particulars which would readily be understood without. In the relation of this incident, all the circumstances detailed in the first specimen, previous to entering the grove, are superfluous ; for if you were in the grove early in the morning, you could not get there without getting out of your bed, dress- ing yourself, opening the door, going into the street, and getting over the fence. The mo- ment you speak of being in the grove early in the morning, the mind of the hearer supplies all these preliminaries ; and your specifying them only excites his impatience to get at the point of your story. Be careful, also, that you never relate the same anecdote the second time to the same company ; neither set up a laugh at your own story. VIII. Never interrupt others while they are speaking. Quietly wait till they have finished what they have to say, before you reply. To RULES FOR CONVERSATION. 205 interrupt others in conversation is very unman- nerly. IX. You will sometimes meet with very talk- ative persons, who are not disposed to give you a fair chance. Let them talk on. They will be better pleased, and you will save your words and your feelings. X. Avoid, as much as possible, speaking of yourself. When we meet a person who is always saying /, telling what he has done, and how he does things, the impression it gives us of him is unpleasant. We say, " He thinks he knows every thing, and can teach every body. He is great in his own eyes. He thinks more of himself than of every body else/' True po- liteness leads us to keep ourselves out of view, and show an interest in other people's affairs. XI. Endeavor to make your conversation useful. Introduce some subject which will be profitable to the company you are in. You feel dissatisfied when you retire from company where nothing useful has been said. But there is no amusement more interesting, to a sensi- ble person, than intelligent conversation upon elevated subjects. It leaves a happy impression upon the mind. You can retire from it, and lay your head upon your pillow with a quiet conscience 18 206 CHAPTER XXVI INQUISITIVENESS. THE inhabitants of New England have the reputation of being inquisitive to a fault; and perhaps with some justice. This disposition grows out of a good trait of character, carried to an extreme. It comes from a desire after knowledge. But this desire becomes excessive, when exercised with reference to matters which it does not concern us to know. When it leads us to pry into the concerns of others, from a mere vain curiosity, it becomes a vice. There are some people who can never be satisfied, till they see the inside of every thing. They must know the why and the wherefore of every thing they meet with. I have heard an amusing anecdote of this sort. There was a man who had lost his nose. A Yankee, seeing him, desired to know how so strange a thing had happened. After enduring his importunity for some time, the man declared he would tell him, if he would promise to ask him no more questions ; to which the other agreed. " Well " said the man, " it INQUISITIVENESS. 207 was lit off." "-Ah," replied the Yankee, "I wish I knew who bit it off ! " This is a fair specimen of the morbid appetite created by ex- cessive inquisitiveness. When inquisitiveness goes no farther than a strong desire to obtain useful information, and to inquire into the reason of things, or when it desires information concerning the affairs of others from benevolent sympathy, then it is a valuable trait of character. But when the ob- ject is to gratify an idle curiosity, it is annoying to others, and often leads the person who in- dulges it into serious difficulty. And the more it is indulged, the more it craves. If you gratify this disposition till it grows into a habit, you will find it very difficult to control. You will never be able to let any thing alone. You will want to look into every drawer in the house; to open every bundle that you see , and never be satisfied till you have seen the inside of every thing. This will lead you into temptation. It can hardly be supposed that one who is so anx- ious to see every thing should have no desire to possess the things that are seen. Thus, what began in curiosity may end in coveting and thieving. But if it does not lead you so far astray as this, it will bring you into serious diffi- culty with your parents, or your friends whose 208 INQUISITIVENESS. guest you are ; for they will not be satisfied tc have their drawers tumbled, packages opened, and every nice article fingered. This disposi- tion, too, will lead you to inquire into the secrets of your friends ; and this will furnish a temp- tation to tattling. What you have been at such pains to obtain, you will find it difficult to keep to yourself. You will want to share the rare enjoyment with others. And when the story comes round to your friend or companion, whose confidence you have betrayed, you will, to your great chagrin and mortification, be discarded. A delicate sense of propriety will lead you to avoid prying too closely into the affairs of others. You will never do it from mere curiosity. But if any of your friends so far make you a con- fidant as to lead you to suppose that they need your sympathy or aid, you may, in a delicate manner, inquire farther, in order to ascertain what aid you can render. You may, also, make some general inquiries of strangers, in order to show an interest in their affairs. But beyond this, you cannot safely indulge this disposition 209 CHAPTER XXVII. ON THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING ABLE TO SAY NO. IT often requires great courage to say NO. But by being able promptly, on occasion, to utter this little monosyllable, you may save your- self a deal of trouble. If mother Eve had known how to say no, she might have saved herself and her posterity from ruin. And many of her children, who have lost their character and their all, might have been saved, if they had only had courage promptly to say NO. Your safety and happiness depend upon it. You are importuned by some of your com- panions to engage in some amusement, or to go on some excursion, which yozl know to be wrong. You resolutely and promptly say NO, at the outset, and there is the end of it. But if you hesitate, you will be urged and impor- tuned, until you will probably yield ; and hav- ing thus given up your own judgment, and vio- lated your conscience, you will lose your power of resistance, and yield to every enticement. 18* 210 SAYING NO. Joseph has cultivated decision of character He never hesitates a moment when any thing wrong is proposed. He rejects it instantly. The consequence is, his companions never think of going to him, when they have any mischievous scheme on foot. His prompt and decisive NO they do not wish to encounter. His parents can trust him any where, because they have no fears of his being led astray. And this re- lieves them of a load of anxiety. Reuben is the opposite of this. He wishes to please every body, and therefore has not courage to say no to any. He seems wholly unable to resist temptation. He is, therefore, always getting into difficulty, always doing something that he ought not, or going to some improper place, or engaging in some improper diversions, through the enticement of his com- panions. His parents scarcely dare trust him out of their sight, they are so fearful that he will be led astray. He is thus a source of great anxiety to them, and all because he cannot say NO. Now, let me beg of you to learn to say NO. If you find any difficulty in uttering it, if your tongue won't do its office, or if you find a "frog in your throat," which obstructs your utterance, go by yourself, and practise saying no, NO, NO ! * SAYING NO. 211 till you can articulate clearly, distinctly, and without hesitation ; and have it always ready oa your tongue's end, to utter with emphasis to every girl or boy, man or woman, or evil spirit, that presumes to propose to you to do any thing that is wrong. Only be careful to say it respect- fully and courteously, with the usual prefixes and suffixes, which properly belong to the persons to whom you are speaking. 212 CHAPTER XXVIII. ON BEING USEFUL. CAN you find any thing, in all the works of Nature, which is not made for some use? The cow gives milk, the ox labors in the field, the sheep furnishes wool for clothing, and all of them provide us with meat. The horse and the dog are the servants of man. Every animal, every little insect, has its place, and its work to perform, carrying out the great design of its Creator. And so it is with the inanimate crea- tion. The earth yields its products for the use of man and beast; and the sun, and the air, and the clouds, (each in turn,) help forward the work. And to how many thousand uses do we put the noble, stately tree ! It furnishes houses for us to live in, furniture for our convenience, fuel to make us warm, ships to sail in, and to bring us the productions of other lands. It yields us fruit for food, and to gratify our taste. And so you may go through all the variety of animal and vegetable life, and you will find every thing designed for some use. And, though ALL THINGS FOR USE. 213 there may be some things of the use of which you 'are ignorant, yet you will find every thing made with such evidence of design, that you cannot help thinking it must have been intended for some use. Now, if every thing in creation is designed for some use, surely you ought not to think of being useless, or of living for nothing. God made you to be useful ; and, to answer the end of your being, you must begin early to learn to be use- ful. " But how can I be useful ? " you may ask. " I wish to be useful. I am anxious to be qual ified to fill some useful station in life, to be a missionary or a teacher, or in some other way to do good. But I do not see what good I can do now." Though you may not say this in so many words, yet I have no doubt that such thoughts may often have passed through your mind. Many people long to be useful, as they suppose, but think they must be in some other situation, to afford them the opportunity. This is a great mistake. God, who made all crea- tures, has put every one in the right place. In the place where God has put you, there you may find some useful thing to do. Do you ask me what useful thing you can do ? Y ju may find a hundred opportunities for doing good, and being useful, every day, if you watch for them. You 214 BEING USEFUL. can be useful in assisting your mother ; you can be useful in helping your brothers and sisters; you can be useful in school, by supporting the authority of your teacher, and by being kind and helpful to your playmates. If you make it the great aim of your life to be useful, you will never lack opportunities. I have seen young persons, who would take great delight in mere play or amusement; but the moment they were directed to do any thing useful, they would be displeased. Now, I do not object to amusement, in its proper place ; for a suitable degree of amusement is useful to the health. But pleasure alone is a small object to live for ; and if you attempt to live only to be amused, you will soon run the whole round of pleasure, and become tired of it all. But if you make it your great object to be useful, and seek your chief pleasure therein, you will engage in occasional amusement with a double relish. No one can be happy who is not useful. Pleasure soon satiates. One amusement soon grows gray, and another is sought; till, at length, they all become tasteless and insipid. Let it be your object, then, every day of your life, to be useful to yourself and others. In the morning, ask yourself, " What useful things can I do to-day '{ What can I do that will be a last- BEING USEFUL. 215 ing benefit to myself? How can I make myself useful in the family? What can I do for my father or mother ? What for my brothers or sisters? And what disinterested act can I per- form for the benefit of those who have no claim upon me?" Thus you will cultivate useful habits and benevolent feelings. And you will find a rich return into your own bosom. By making yourself useful to every body, you will find every one making a return of your kind- ness. You will secure their friendship and good will, as well as their bounty. You will find it, then, both for your interest and happiness to BE USEFUL. 216 CHAPTER XXIX. ON BEING CONTENTED. THE true secret of happiness is, to be content- ed. " Godliness," says the apostle Paul, " with contentment, is great gain." These two are great gain, because, without them, all the gain in the world will not make us happy. Young people are apt to think, if they had this thing or that, or if they were in such and such circum- stances, different from their own, they would be happy. Sometimes they think, if their parents were only rich, they should enjoy themselves. But rich people are often more anxious to in- crease their riches than poor people are to be rich; and the more their artificial wants are gratified, the more they, are increased. " The eye is not satisfied with seeing, nor the ear filled with hearing." Solomon was a great king, so rich that he was able to get whatever his heart desired. He built great palaces for himself; he filled them with servants ; he treasured up gold and silver; he bought gardens, and vineyards, and fields ; he bought herds of cattle, with horses BEING CONTENTED 217 and carriages ; he kept men and women singers, and players on all sorts of instruments; what- ever his eyes desired he kept not from them ; he withheld not his heart from any joy ; but with it all he was not satisfied. He called it all " van- ity and vexation of spirit." So you may set your heart at rest, that riches will not make you happy. Nor would you be any more happy, if you could exchange places with some other per- sons, who seem to you to have many more means of enjoyment than yourself. With these things that dazzle your eyes, they have also their trials; and if you take their place, you must take the bitter with the sweet. But young people sometimes think, if they were only men and women, and could manage for themselves, and have none to control them, then they would certainly be happy, for they could do as they please. But in this they are greatly mistaken. There will then be a great increase of care and labor; and they will find it more difficult to do as they please than they do now. If they have none to control them, they will have none to provide for them. True, they may then manage for themselves ; but they will also have to support themselves. Those who have lived the longest, generally consider youth the happiest period of life, because it is com- 19 218 BEING CONTENTED. paratively free from trouble and care, and there is more time for pleasure and amusement. But there is one lesson, which, if you will learn it in youth, will make you happy all your days. It is the lesson which Paul had learned. You know that he suffered great hardships in travelling on foot, in various countries, to preach the gospel. He was often persecuted, reviled, defamed, beaten, and imprisoned. Yet he says, " / have learned in whatsoever state I am, there- with to be content." There are several things which should teach us this lesson. In the first place, God, in his holy providence, has placed us in the condition where we are. He knows what is best for us, and what will best serve the end for which he made us ; and of all other situations, he has chosen for us the one that we now occupy. Who could choose so well as he? And then, what can we gain by fret- ting about it, and worrying ourselves for what we cannot help 1 We only make ourselves un- happy. Moreover, it is very ungrateful and wicked to complain of our lot, since God has given us more and better than we deserve. It is better to look about us, and see how many things we have to be thankful for ; to look upon what we have, rather than what we have not. This does not, indeed, forbid our seeking to improve our BEING CONTENTED 219 condition, provided we do it with submission to the will of God. We ought to use all fair and lawful means to this end; but not in such a spirit of discontent and repining, as will make us miserable if we are disappointed. If you desire to be happy, then, BE CONTENTED. CHAPTER XXX. UNION OF SERIOUS PIETY WITH HABITUAL CHEERFULNESS. IT is a mistake often made by young people, to associate religion with a downcast look, a sad countenance, and an aching heart. Perhaps the mistakes of some good people, in putting on a grave and severe aspect, approaching even to moroseness, may have given some occasion for this sentiment. I do not know, indeed, how prevalent the sentiment is among the young. I can hardly think it is common with those who are religiously educated. As for myself, I well remember that, in my childhood, I thought true Christians must be the happiest people in the world. There is no doubt, however, that many pleasure-loving young people do look upon re- ligion with that peculiar kind of dread which they feel of the presence of a grave, severe maid- en aunt, which would spoil all their pleasure. And, I do not deny, that there are certain kinds of pleasure which religion spoils ; but then it first removes the taste and desire for them, after CHEERFUL PIETY. 221 which the spoliation is nothing to be lamented. It is true, also, that there are some things in religion which are painful. Repentance for sin is a painful exercise ; self-denial is painful ; the resistance of temptation is sometimes trying ; and the subduing of evil dispositions is a difficult work. But, to endure whatever of suffering there is in these things, is a saving in the end. It is less painful than the tortures of a guilty conscience, the gnawings of remorse, and the fear of hell. It is easier to be endured than the consequences of neglecting religion. If you get a sliver in your finger, it is easier to bear the pain of having it removed, than it is to carry it about with you. If you have a de- cayed tooth, it is easier to have it extracted than to bear the toothache. So it is easier to repent of sin than to bear remorse and fear. And the labor of resisting temptation, and of restraining and subduing evil dispositions, is not so great an interference with one's happiness as it is to carry about a guilty conscience. There is, however, nothing in true piety in- consistent with habitual cheerfulness. There is a difference between cheerfulness and levity. Cheerfulness is serene and peaceful. Levity is light and trifling. The former promotes even- ness of temper and equanimity of enjoyment 19* CHEERFUL PIETY the latter drowns sorrow and pain for a short time, only to have it return again with redoubled power. The Christian hope, and the promises and consolations of God's word, furnish the only true ground of cheerfulness. Who should be cheerful and happy, if not one who is delivered from the terrors of hell and the fear of death, who is raised to the dignity of a child of God, who has the hope of eternal life the prospect of dwelling forever ' in the presence of God, in the society of the blessed, and in the enjoy- ment of perfect felicity ? But no one would as- sociate these things with that peculiar kind of mirth, which is the delight of the pleasure-lov- ing world. Your sense of propriety recoils from the id^i of associating things of such high im- port with rudeness, frolicking, and mirth. Yet there is an innocent gayety of spirits, arising from natural vivacity, especially in the period of childhood and youth, the indulgence of which, within proper bounds, religion does not forbid. There is a happy medium between a settled, severe gravity and gloom, and frivolity, levity, and mirth, which young Christians should strive to cultivate. If you give unbounded license to a mirthful spirit, and indulge freely in all man- CHEERFUL PIETY. 223 ner of levity, frivolity, and foolish jesting, you cannot maintain that devout state of heart which is essential to true piety. On the other hand, if you studiously repress the natural vivacity of youthful feeling, and cultivate a romantic kind of melancholy, or a severe gravity, you will destroy the elasticity of your spirits, injure your health, and very likely become peevish and irri- table, and of a sour, morose temper ; and this will be quite as injurious to true religious feel- ing as the other. The true medium is, to unite serious piety with habitual cheerfulness. Al- ways bring Christian motives to bear upon your feelings. The gospel of Jesus Christ has a remedy for every thing in life that is calculated to make us gloomy and sad. It offers the par- don of sin to the penitent and believmg, the aid of grace to those that struggle against an evil disposition, and succor and help against temptation. It promises to relieve the believer from fear, and afford consolation in affliction. There is no reason why a true Christian should not be cheerful. There are, indeed, many things, which he sees, within and without, that must give him pain. But there is that in his Christian hope, and in the considerations brought to his mind from the Word of God, which is able to bear him high above them all. 224 CHEERFUL PIETY. Let me, then, earnestly recommend you to cul tivate a serious but cheerful piety. Let your religion be neither of that spurious kind which expends itself in sighs, and tears, and gloomy feelings, nor that which makes you insensible to all feeling. But while you are alive to your own sins and imperfections, exercising godly sorrow for them, and while you feel a deep and earnest sympathy for those who have no interest in Christ, let your faith in the atoning blood of Jesus, and your confidence in God, avail to keep you from sinking into melancholy and gloom, and make you cheerful and happy, while you rest in God. And now, gentle reader, after this long con- versation, I must take leave of you, commend- ing you to God, with the prayer that my book may be useful to you, in the formation of a well-balanced Christian character ; and that, after you and I shall have done the errand for which the Lord sent us into the world, we may meet in heaven. GOD BLESS YOU! DIVERSITY . CATALOGUE OF VALUABLE WORKS PUBLISHED BY GOULD AND LINCOLN, ND. 59, WASHINGTON STREET, BOSTON. THE attention of the public is invited to an examination of the merits of tht vorks described in this Catalogue, embracing valuable contributions to General Literature, Science, and Theology. Besides their own publications, they have a general assortment of books ix the various departments of literature, and can supply every thing in their line of business on the lowest terms, wholesale and retail. PRINCIPLES 9F ZOOLOGY; Touching the Structure, Devel- opment, Distribution, and Natural Arrangement of the EACES OF ANIMALS, living and -extinct, with numerous illustrations. For the use of Schools and Colleges. Part I., COMPARATIVE PHYSIOLOGY. By Louis AGASSIZ and AUGUSTUS A. GOULD. " The design of this work is to furnish an epitome of the leading principles of the science of Zoology, as deduced from the present state of knowledge, so illustrated as to be intelligible to the beginning student. No similar treatise now exists in this country, and indeed, some of the topics have not been touched upon in the language, unless in a strictly technical form, and iu scattered articles." " Being designed for American students, the illustrations have been drawn, as far as possible, from American objects. * * * Popular names have been employed as far as possible, and to the scientific names an English termination has generally been given. The first part is devoted to Comparative Physiology, as the basis of Classification ; the second, to Systematic Zoology, in which the principles of Classification will be applied, and the principal groups of animals briefly characterized." Extracts from the Preface. MODERN FRENCH LITERATURE ; By L. RAYMOND DB VERICOUR, formerly lecturer in the Roval Athenceum of Paris, member of the Institute of France, &c. American edition, brought down to the present day, and revised with notes by WILLIAM S. CHASE. With a fine portrait of LAMARTINE. 5 arvi uii aim i onsideration 01 me jroiiucai JLenuencies or x ranee, as uiey may be traced in the writings of authors equally^ conspicuous as Scholars and uence in ranee, nis lamuiarity witn its literature, ana oy a personal ac- quaintance with many of these authors, to introduce the work of De Vericout to the American public. "Thisi is the only complete treatise of the kind on this subject, either ir Freuch or English, and has received the highest commendation. Mr. Chase if well qualified to introduce the work to the public. The book cannot fall to t bctii useful and popu^as " New York Evening Poet. RELIGIOUS PROGRESS; DISCOURSES ON THE DEVELOPMENT OF THE CHRISTIAN CHARACTER. BY WILLIAM R. WILLIAMS, D. D. 12mo., Clotii ; price, 85 Cents. Prom H. J. Riplcy, D. Z>., Prof of Sacred Rhetoric, #c., Jfewton Theol. 7C Strong conceptions, suggested by earnest conviction, arrest the reader** attention in this volume, no less than the author's characteristic beauty of thought and language. Historical and other illustrations of senti- ments are apt and abundant ; every page almost betraying the wide com- prehension of knowledge which distinguishes the author. These Di- courses cannot fail to make the heart better, while they inform the under- standing and gratify a cultivated taste. " This book is a rare phenomenon in these days. It is a rich exposition of Scripture, with a fund of practical, religious wisdom, conveyed in a style so strong and so massive, as to remind one of the English writers of two centuries ago ; and yet it abounds in fresh illustrations drawn from every even the latest opened field of science and of literature." Methodist Quarterly. " His power of apt and forcible illustration is almost without a parallel among recent writers. The mute page springs into life beneath the magic of his radiant imagination. But this is never at the expense of solidity of thought or strength of argument. It is seldom indeed that a mind of so much poetical invention yields such a willing homage to the logical ele- ment. He employs his brilliant fancies for the elucidation and ornament of truth, but never for its discovery." Harpers 1 Monthly Miscdla'rxj. " With warm and glowing language, Dr. Williams exhibits and en- forces this truth, every page radiant with 'thoughts that burn,' and leave their indelible impression upon the candid and intelligent mind." JV. Y. Com. Advertiser. " The strength and compactness of argumentation, the correctness and beauty of style, and the importance of the animating idea of the dis- courses, are worthy of the high reputation of Dr. Williams, and place them among the most finished homiletic productions of the day. We could wish their judicious thoughts and animated periods might secure the study of every Christian." JV*. Y. Evangelist. " This work is from the pen of one of the brightest lights of trre American pulpit. We scarcely know of any living writer who has a finer command of powerful thought and glowing, impressive language^ lhan he. The present volume will advance, if possible, the reputation which his previous works have acquired for him." Albany Evening Adas. " Dr. Williams has no superior among American divines, in profound and exact learning, and brilliancy of style. He seems familiar with the literature of the world, and lays his vast resources under contribution to illustrate and adorn every theme which he investigates. We wish tha volume could be placed in every religious family in the ccuntry" Phila. Chr. Chronicle. We venture to predict that this work will take its place at once among the classics of American literature." JV*. Y. Recorder. " These sermons are certainly able and eloquent productions ; a valuable contribution to those efforts which are making, in various di- rections, to prevent the self-sufficiency of the nineteenth century fron forgetting its allegiance to God and his Christ, and to wake up the true church to the duty, even as it has the power, to extend over the world its spiritual government." JV. Y. Chr. Inquirer LIFE AND CORRESPONDENCE 0? JOHN FOSTER, AUTHOB OF "DX.JISIOIC OF CHARACTER," " JCSSAYi," *C BY J. E. RYLAND. With Notices of Mr. Foster as a Preacher and a Companies, by JOHN SHEPARB, author of " Thoughts on Devotion." &c. Two Vols. in one. 714 pp., 12mo, cloth, $1,25 'In simplicity of language, in majesty of conception, in the eloquence of that conciseness which conveys in a short sentence more meaning than the mind dares at once admit, his writings are unmatched." North British Review. "It is with no ordinary expectations and gratification and delight that we have taken up the Biography and Correspondence of the author of the * Essays on Decision of Character,' &c. The memoir of such a man as John Foster must, of necessity, possess very peculiar attractions. "We are glad to find ourselves in possession of so much additional matter from the well-nigh inspired pen of this great master in English composition." Christian Review. "A book rich in every way in good sense, vivacity, suggestiveness, liberality, and piety." Mirror. " The letters which principally compose this volume bear strongly the impress of his own original mind, and are often characterized by a depth and power of thought rarely met with even in professedly elaborate dis- quisitions." Albany Argus. " This work, from the character of its subject, must constitute the choice book of the season, in the department of correspondence and biography. We all wish to know what he was as a friend, a husband a father, and as a practical exponent of what is enshrined in the immortal productions of his pen. All who appreciate the subject of which these volumes treat will rejoice in the opportunity of adding this treasure to their libraries." Watchman Sf Reflector. " John Foster was one of the strongest writers of his age." Christum Register. " In this large volume, of over 700 pages, the publishers have pr sented the reading public with the memoir and correspondence of one of the most profound and eloquent writers of the age. In vigor and majesty erf conception and thought, and in simplicity of language, the writings of John Foster are unrivalled. It is almost superfluous to speak of their merits for they have been read and appreciated extensively on both sides of the Atlantic. We wish to see a great man at home and in the biography and letters comprised in the volume before us, this rational curiosity is gratified. The reader is introduced to the intellectual giant in the relations ami every-day scenes of private life." Christian Observer. " Though a great, Mr. Foster was not a voluminous, writer. Few men ever wrote with more care or more thoroughly elaborated their work* than he." Western Literary Messenger. " John Foster was an extraordinary man. The life and correspondence of one who possessed the masterly powers of Mr. Foster must have miicH in them to instruct and improve all who are fortunate enough to have tlia volume that embraces them. Christian Witness. "John Foster was one of the greatest thinkers, and most vigorous and impressive writers of the present day. We are glad to see this work placed in the react of all, at a very reasonable price.' Christian Herald WAYLAND'S UNIVERSITY SERMONS. SERMONS DELIVERED IN BROWN UNIVERSITY. BY FRANCIS WAYLAND, D. D Second Edition. 12mo. Price, $1 00. " Few sermons contain so much carefully arranged thought as these bj Of Wayland. The thorough logician is apparent throughout the volume, and there is a classic purity in the diction unsurpassed by any writer., ano equalled by very few." New York Commercial Advertiser. 11 They are the careful production of a matured and powerful intellect, and were addressed to a thinking and well-informed audience, and arc wpocia.Iy adapted for the educated and thoughtful man." Chr. Alliance " No thinking man can open to any portion of it without finding hit attention strongly arrested, and feeling inclined to yield his assent to those Belt-evincing statements which appear on every page. As a writer, Dr. Wayland is distinguished by simplicity, strength, and comprehensiveness* Headdresses himself directly to the intellect more than to the imagination ; to the conscience more than to the passions. Yet, through the intellect and the conscience, he often reaches the depths of our emotive nature, and rouses it by words of power. We commend these sermons to all students of moral and religious truth, to all lovers of sound thought conveyed in elegant diction." Watchman $f Reflector. " The discourses are characterized by all that richness of thought and elegance of language for which their talented author is celebrated. The whole volume is well worthy of the pen of the distinguished scholar and divine from whom it emanates." Dr. Bawd's Christian Union, SACRED RHETORIC: Or Composition and Delivery of Sermons. BY HENRT J. RIPLET, Professor in Newton Theological Institution. Including Ware's Hints on Extemporaneous Preaching. KJmo. Price, 75 cents. * An admirably prepared work, clear and succinct in its positions and recommendations, soundly based on good authority, and well supported by a variety of reading and illustrations. It is well adapted for a healthy dis- cipline of the faculty, and there are few preachers who might not with profit revise their practice by its pages. It is worthy, too, of being a com- panion to Whately, in the general study of Rhetoric." JV. Y. JLaferarg World. " Prof. Ripley possesses the highest qualifications for a work of this kind, His position has given him great experience in the peculiar wants of theo- logical students." Providence Journal. " This work belongs among the substantials of our literature. It is man* Ifestly the fruit of mature thought and large observation ; it is pervaded by a manly tone, and abounds in judicious counsels ; it is compactly written, and admirably arranged, both for study and reference. Tt will become & text-book for theological students ; it deserves to be read by all ministers who can avaii themselves of it, and especially by all young ministers." - AT. F. Recorder REPUBLICAN CHRISTIANITY: OR TRUE LIBERTY; At exk oited in the Life, Precepts, and early Disciples of the Great Redeemer BY E. L. M AGO ON. 12mo. Price, $1 25. " ll is adapted to the spirit of the times. It meets and answers the great ti^niry of the present day. It describes clearly the corruptions of past t!V*s t the imperfections of the present, and the changes that must be Bilvxiterl in the forms and spirit of religion, and through religion, upon the Bta^Cj ta secure to us better and brighter prospects for the future. The autho r is n^t afraid to expose and condemn the errors and corruptions., either f thv church or state." Christian Watchman. " It M a vtry readable, and wo think will prove a useful book. The ar- k purnent is clear and well sustained, and the style bold and direct. The tone and epirt of the entire work are that of an independent thinker, and of a man whuse sympathies are with the many and not with the few, with no privileged class, but with the human race. We commend this book to all lovers of true liberty and of a pure Christianity." Providence Journal. " Mr. M 7 agoon thinks boldly, and speaks frankly, and with a variety and freshness of illustration that never fail to command attention." JVcw York Tribune. " He considers Christianity in 'ill its parts as essentially republican. Ha has maintained his position with great tact. It is a clear, striking, attrac- tive presentation of his views, and tbe reasons for them. It will excite attention, both from the subject itself, and from the manner in which it ia handled." Philadelphia Chronicle. "This book is one which the masses will read with avidity, and its pe- rusal, we think, will fire up the zeal of some Christian scholars." Baptist Memorial. PROVERBS FOR THE PEOPLE: Or Illustrations of practical Godliness, drawn from the Book of IVisd&m. BY E. L. MAGOON. 12m0. Price, 90 cents. 1 He is quaint, sententious. He has indeed the three great qual.'itie* 'pith, point, and pathos j' and always enforces high and noble sentiments. ' JVeto York Recorder. 4< It is a popular manual of great practical utility. " Ch. Chronicle, Fhilm* " The subjects are so selected as to embrace nearly all the practical d'uties of life. The work, in consequence of this peculiar character, vrilj ae found extensively useful." Rochester Democrat. " The work abounds with original and pithy matter, well adapted to erv gage the attention and to reform the life. We hope these discourses will be extensively read." Morning Star, Dover. " It is an excellent book for young people, and especially for young men. wnidst the temptations of business and pleasure." Albany Express THE WORKS OF JOHN HARRIS, D D. THE PRE-ADAMITE EARTH: Contributions to Theological Science. 12mo. Price 85 cents. "It is a book for thinking men." It opens new trains of thought to the reader puts him in anew position to survey the wonders of God's works; and compels Natural Science to bear her decided testimony in support of Divine Truth." Philadelphia Ch. Oberver. MAN PRIMEVAL ; Or, the Constitution and Primitive Condi* tion of the Human Being. A Contribution to Theological Scl ence. With a finely engraved portrait of the author ; 12mo cloth, price $1.25. V This is t\\t second volume of a series of works on Theological Science. The first was received with much favor the present is a continuation of the principles which were seen holding their way through the successive kingdonn of primeval nature, and are here resumed and exhibited in their next higher application to individual man. " His copious and beautiful illustrations of the successive laws of the Divine Manifestation, have yielded us inexpressible delight." Lond. Eclectic Review* THE GREAT COMMISSION ; Or, the Christian Church const! tuted and charged to convey the Gospel to the World. A Prize Essay. With an Introductory Essay, by W. R. WILLIAMS, D.D. Sixth thousand. 12mo. Price $1.00. g " Of the several productions of Dr. Harris, all of them of great value, that now before us is destined, probably, to exert the most powerful influence in forming the religious and missionary character of the coming generations. But the vast fund of argument and instruction comprised in these pages will excite the admiration and inspire the gratitude of thousands in our own land as well as in Europe. Every clergyman and pious and reflecting layman ought to pos- sess the volume, and make it familiar by repeated perusal." Boston Recorder. THE GREAT TEACHER; Or, Characteristics of our Lord's Ministry. With an Introductory Essay, by H. HUMPHREY, D.D. Tenth thousand. 12mo. Price 85 cents. '* The book itself must have cost much meditation, much communion on the bosom of Jesus, and much prayer. Its style is, like the country which gave it birth, beautiful, varied, finished, and everywhere delightful. But the style of this work is its smallest excellence. It will be read it ought to be read. It will find its way to many parlors, and add to the comforts of many a happy fireside. The reader will rise from each chapter, not able, perhaps, to carry with him many striking remarks or apparent paradoxes, but he will have a sweet im- pression made upon his soul, like that which soft and touching music makes when every thing about it is appropriate. The writer pours forth a clear and beautiful light, like that of the evening lighthouse, when it sheds its rays upon the sleeping waters, and covers them with a surface of gold. We can have n eympathy with a heart which yields not to impressions delicate and holy, which the perusal of this work will naturally make." Hampshire Gazette. MISCELLANIES ; Consisting principally of Sermons and Essaya, With an introductoiy Essay and notes, by J. BELCHER, D.D. 16mo. Price 75 cents. " Some of these essays are among the finest in the language ; and the warmth and energy of religious feeling manifested, render them peculiarly the treasure of the closet and the Christian fireside." - Bangor Gazette. MAMMON ; Or, Covetousness, the Sin of the Christian Church, A Prize Essay. 18mo. Price 45 cents. Twentieth thousand. ZEBULON ; Or, the Moral Claims of Seamen state<} and en* forced. 18mo. Price 25 cents. THE ACTIVE CHRISTIAN; Containing "The Witnessing Church," etc. 32nn. Price 31 cents. THE WORKS OF JENKYN CHURCH KEMPIS. THE EXTENT OF THE ATONEMENT, in its relation to God and the Universe. By THOMAS W- JENKYN, D.D. 12mo. cloth. Price 85 cents. 11 We have examined this work vith profound interest and become deeply impressed with its value. Its style is lucid, its analysis perfect, its spirit and tenilenc,as eminently evangelical. We have nowhere else seen the atone- ment so clearly defined, or vindicated on grounds so appreciable." New York Recorder " As a treatise on the grand relation of the Atonement, it is a book which may be emphatically said to contain the ' seeds of things,' the elements of mightier and nobler contributions of thought respecting the sacrifice of Christ. than fimy modern production. It is characterized by highly original and dense trains of thought, which make the reader feel that he is holding com- munion with a mind that can ' mingle with the universe.' We consider thi volume as setting the long and fiercely agitated question, as to the extent of tnfe Atonement, completely at rest. Posterity will thank the author till the latest ages, for his illustrious arguments." New York Evangelist. THE UNION OF THE HOLY SPIRIT AND THE CHURCH, in the Conversion of the World. By THOMAS W. JENKYN, D.D. 12mo., cloth. Price 85 cents. " The discussion is eminently scriptural, placing it8 grand theme, the union of the Holy Spirit and the Church in the conversion of the world, in a very clear and affecting light." Christian Watchman. " A very excellent work upon a very importa,nt subject. The author seemP to have studied it in all its bearings, as presented to his contemplation in the sacred volume." London Evangelical Magazine. " Fine talent, sound learning, and scriptural piety pervade every page. It is impossible that it can be read without producing great effects. Mr. Jenkyn deserves the thanks of the whole body of Christians for a book which will greatly benefit the world and the church." London Evangelist. ANTIOCH ; Or, Increase of Moral Power in the Church of Christ. By Rev. P. CHURCH. With an Introductory Essay, by BARON "STOW, D.D. 18mo., cloth. Price 50 cents. "It is a book of close and consecutive thought, and treats of subjects which are of the deepest interest, at the present time, to the churches of this country The author is favorably known to the religious public, as an original thinker, ftud a forcible writer." Christian Reflector. " By some this book will be condemned, by many it will be read with pleasure, because it analyzes and renders tangible, principles that have been vaguely conceived in many minds, reluctantly promulgated, and hesitatingly believed. We advise our brethren to read the book, and judge for them- selves." Haptist Record. *It is the work of an original thinker, on a subject of great practical interesl to the church. It is replete with suggestions, which, in our view, are emi- nently worthy of consideration." Phila. Christian Observer. THE IMITATION OF CHRIST. By THOMAS A With an Introductory Essay, by T. CHALMERS, D.D. A new and improved edition. Edited by H. MA.LCOM, D.D. 18mo., cloth. Price 38 cents. THE PERSON AND WORK OF CHRIST. By ERNEST SARTORIUS, D. D. Translated from the German, by Rev. 0. S. STEARNS, A. M. Cloth. 42 cents. " A work of much ability, and presenting the argument in a style that will be new to most American readers, it will deservedly attract atteu tion." J\T. Y Observer. CHURCH HISTORY. POLITY AND MEMBERSHIP. THE APOSTOLICAL AND PRIMITIVE CHURCH ; Popular in its government and simple in its worship. By LYMAN GOLEM AN. With an introductory essay, by Dr. AUGUSTJ NEAICDER, of Berlin. Second Edit. 12mo. cloth. Price $1.25 From the Professors in Andover Theological Seminary. ** The undersigned are pleased to hear that you are soon to publish a new edition of the ' Primitive Church,' by LYMAN COLEMAN. They regard thii volume as the result of extensive and original research ; as embodying very important materials for reference, much sound thought and conclusive" argu- ment In their estimation, it may both interest and instruct the intelligent layman, may be profitably used as a Text Book for Theological Students, and should especially form a part of the libraries of clergymen. The intro- duction, by NEANDEB, is of itself sufficient to recommend the volume to the literary public." LEONARD WOODS, BELA B. EDWARDS, RALPH EMERSON, EDWARD A. PARK. THE CHURCH MEMBERS HAND BOOK. A Guide to the Doctrines and Practices of Baptist Churches. By Rev. WILLIAM CROWELL. 18mo. Cloth. Price 37 cents. " We have never met with a book of this size that contained so full and complete a synopsis of the Doctrines and Practice of the Baptist, or any other church, as this. Mr. Crowcll is one of the ablest writers in the denomination, and if there is a subject in the whole range of Christianity which he is pre-eminently qualified to discuss, it is the ouo before us. The 'Hand Book ' is not an abridgment of the ' Church Member's Man- ual,' by the same author, but is written exp'ressly as a brief, plain guide to young mem- bers of the church. It appears to have been prepared with much care and labor, and is just such a book as is needed by every young church member; we might safely add, and by most of the older members in the denomination ; for there is a vast amount of Information in it that will be found of practical use to all." Christian Secretary, " It is concise, clear, and comprehensive ; and, as an exposition of ecclesiastical prin- ciples and practice, is worthy of careful study of all the young members of our churches. We hope it may be widely circulated, and that the youthful thousands of our Israel may become familiar with its pages." Watchman and Reflector, THE CHURCH IN EARNEST; By JOHN ANGELL JAMES. 18mo. cloth ; price 50 cents. * A very seasonable publication. The church universal needs a re-awakening to its high vocation, and this is a book to effect, so far as human intellect can, the much desired resuscitation. " N. Y. Com. Adv. " We are glad to see that this subject has arresied the pen of Mr. James. We welcome and commend it. Let it be scattered like autumn leaves. We believe its perusal will do much to impress a conviction of the high mission of the Chris- tian, and much to arouse the Christian to fulfil it." JVT Y. Recorder. " We rejoice that this work has been republished in this country, and we can- not too strongly commend it to the serious perusal of the churches of every name." Christian Alliance. 44 Air. James's writings all have one object, to do execution. He writes under tLe impulse Do something, do it. He studies not to be a profound or learned, but a practical writer. He aims to raise the standard of piety, holiness in th heart, and holiness of life. The influence which this work will exert ontlxe thurch must be highly salutary." Boston Recorder. THE CHURCH MEMBER'S GUIDE, By Rev. J. A. JAMES. Edited by Rev. J. 0. CHOULES. New Edition ; with an Intro- ductory Essay, by Rv. H. WINSLOW. 18mo. cloth. Price 88 cents. A pastor writes "I sincerely wish that every professor of religion in the land may possess this excellent manual. I am anxious that every^ member of my church should possess it, and shall be happy to promote its circulation still more extensively." The spontaneous effusion of our heart, on laying the book down, was, may every church-member in our land soon possess this book, and be blessed with all the happiness which conformity to its evangelic seixtiruents and directions is calculated to confer." Christian Secretary. PHILOSOPHY AND PHILOLOGY. ANCIENT LITERATURE AND ART; Or, Essays on'Cla* sical Studies, with, the Biography and Correspondence of Eminent Philologists. By BARNAS SEARS, of Newton; B. B. EDWARDS, of Andover ; and C. C. FELTOX, of Cam- bridge. 12mo. Cloth. Price, $1 25. " The object of the accomplished gentlemen who have engaged in its pipa- nation has been, to foster and extend among educated men, in this country, tho already growing interest in classical studies. The design is a noble and geuerous one, and lias been executed with a taste and good sense that do honor both to the writers and the publishers. The book is one which deserves a place in the library of every educated man. To those now engaged in classical study It cannot fail to be highly useful, while to the more advanced scholar, it will open new sources of interest and delight in the unforgotten pursuits of his earlier days." Providence Journal. GESENIUS'S HEBREW GRAMMAR. Translated from the Eleventh German Edition. By T. J. CONANT, Prof, of He- brew and of Biblical Criticism and Interpretation in the Theol. Institution at Hamilton, N. Y. With a Course of Exercises in Hebrew Grammar, and a Hebrew Chrestomathy, prepared bv the Translator. 8vo. cloth. Price $2.00. " * + * Special reference has been had in the arrangement, illustrations, the addition of the Course of Exercises, the Chrestomathy, &c., to adapt it to the wants of those who may wish to pursue the study of Hebrew without the aid of a teacher. LIFE OF GODFREY WILLIAM VON LIEBNITZ. On the basis of the German Work of Dr. G. E. Guhrauer. By JOHN M. MACKIE. 16mo. cloth. Price 75 cents. " The peculiar relation which Liebnitz sustained during his life to Locke and Newton may partly account for the fact that a biography of this great man has been so long wanting in the English language. . . . We commend this book, not only to scholars and men of science, but to all our readers who love to contemplate the life and labors of a great and good man. It merits the special notice of all who are interested in the busiqpss of education, and deserves a place by the side of Brewster's Life of Newton, in all the libraries of our schools, academies, and literary institutions." Christian Watchman. " There is perhaps no case on record of a single man who has so gone the rounds of human knowledge as did Liebnitz : he was not a recluse, like Spi* noza ami Kant, but went from capital to capital, and associated with kings and pllmiers. All branches of thought were interesting to him, and he seenn In pursuing all to have been actuated not by ambition, but by a sincere desire to promote the knowledge and welfare of mankind. Christian World. LIFE OF ROGER WILLIAMS, The Founder of the State of Rhode Island. By WM. GAMMELL, Prof, in Brown University. With a Likeness. 12mo. cloth. Price 75 cents. "Mr. Gammell's fine belles-letters attainments have enabled him to present Ms distinguished subject in the most captivating light. So far as the^work touches controversies which reach and influence the present times, it is our privilege as well as duty to read it as a private citizen, and not as a public ,our- nalist. Its mechanical execution is in the usually neat style of the respectable publishers." Christian Alliance. " This life has many virtues - brevity, simplicity, fairness. Though written by a Rhode Island man, and warm in its approval of Roger Williams, it ia not unjust to his Puritan opponents, but onlv draws such deductions as were unavoidable from the premises. It is the life of a good man, and we read with grateful complacency the commendation of his excellences." Christian World. HISTORY OF AMERICAN BAPTIST. MISSIONS, IN ASIA, AFRICA, EUROPE, AND NORTH AMERICA^ Cinder the care of the American Baptist Missionary Union BY WILLIAM GAMMELL, A. M. With seven Maps. 12mo. Price, Seventy-five cents. " We welcome with unfeigned pleasure this new contribution to th Bterature of Christian Missions. The author relates the history of the several missions in his own words, presenting a concise and luminous nar- rative of each. The volume is written \n an easy anJ elegant style, and ia worthy of the high station and name of the author." Baptist Magazine. " The need for such a work has long been felt. It is trad that the matter here presented has been acceptable in other forms. But it needed to ba condensed, arranged, and presented to .the reader in an attractive form. To all who wish to comprehend the present position of our stations, by a knowledge of their past history, it will be an invaluable aid. Indeed, a copy should be in every family. Pastors and others who wish to urge for- ward the home work of foreign missions, would do well to circulate it as v/idely a? possible in the churches." Philadelphia Chronicle. " Prof. Gammell is a writer of rare taste. The preparation of such a work could not have fallen into better hands. The reader is borne along from chapter to chapter with a narrative which, while it fully satisfies his desire to know, commends itself as entirely truthful and trustworthy. The facts recorded are as carefully stated as the style of the work is chastened and pure. That it will greatly promote the missionary spirit, and serve to increase the missionary zeal of our churches, we have no question. In reading we have been struck with the difference between a knowledge of our missions, gathered from magazines and newspapers scattered through successive years, and that which is obtained from a compact and authori- tative narrative, bringing the whole before the observer at a single view. Let pastors, friends of missions, agents, and colporteurs, scatter it by thou* sands. Like bread cast upon the waters, it will come back in prayers and blessings. No BaptiA family should be without it." JV*. Y. Recorder. " This work is the result of great labor and research, and presents an exceedingly satisfactory view of the missionary operations of the Baptists in this country. It is well that it has fallen into the hands of a man whose extensive knowledge and good judgment and candid Christian spirit qualify him so eminently for such a service." Albany Argus. " Emanating from such a source, and under such auspices, the vc.uma before us is a valuable contribution to American literature, as well as to the history of Christian missions. Prof. Gammell has executed his task with singular success. The style, always clear and correct, is graceful and flowing, and in many a passage, descriptive of the toils and adventurei of missionary life, is full of eloquence and beauty." Providence Journal. " Prof. Gammell has exhibited evidence, in this volume, of deep research ind great fidelity. He has not merely furnished us with statistics, but hai (iirown around his subject almost the attraction of romance. It will be tead with much interest, we think, by laymen, and will be especially useful jo clergymen as an authoritative reference book. We heartily commend this volume to our readers." Baptist Memorial. $*f The work is printed in handsome style, and sold at the very low price of 75 cents per copy. Pastors, agents, and others who may engage in it circus latio-n, wili be supplied on very liberal terms t iy the dozen or hundred WORKS ON MISSIONS. THE MISSIONARY ENTERPRISE ; A Collection of Discourses on Christian Missions, by American Authors. Edited by BARON STOW, D.D. 12mo., cloth. Price 85 cents. "If we desired to put into the hands of a foreigner a fair exhibition of th Capacity and spirit of the American church, we would give him tins volume. You have here thrown together a few discourses, preached from time to time, by different individuals, of different denominations, as circumstances have demanded them ; and you see t^e stature and feel the pulse of the American Church in these discourses with a certainty not to be mistaken. " You see the high talent of the American church. We venture the asser- tion, that no nation in the world has such an amount of forceful, available talent in its pulpit. The energy, directness, scope, and intellectual spirit of the American church is wonderful. In this book, the discourses by Dr. Beecher, Pres. Wayland, and the Rev. Dr. Stone of the Episcopal church, are among the very highest exhibitions of logical correctness, and burning, popu- lar fervor. This volume will have a wide circulation." The New Englander. " This work contains fifteen sermons on Missions, by Rev. Drs. Wayland, Griffin, Anderson, Williams, Beecher, Miller, Fuller, Beman, Stone, Mason, and by Rev. Messrs. Kirk, Stow, and Ide. It is a rich treasure, which ought to be in the possession of every American Christian." Carolina Baptist. THE GREAT COMMISSION ; Or, the Christian Church consti- tuted and charged to convey the Gospel to the world. A Prize Essay. By John HARRIS, D.D. With an Introductory Essay, by W. R. WILLIAMS, D.D. Sixth thousand. 12mo., oloth. Price $1.00. " His plan is original and comprehensive. In filling it up the author haa interwoven facts with rich and glowing illustrations, and with trains of thought that are sometimes almost resistless in their appeals to the conscience. The work is not more distinguished for its arguments and its genius, than for the spirit of deep and fervent piety that pervades it." The Dayspring. *' Its style \s remarkably chaste and elegant. Its sentiments richly and fer- vently evangelical, its argumentation conclusive." Zion's Herald, Boston. " To recommend this work to the friends of missions of all denominations would be but faint praise ; the author deserves and will undoubtedly receive* the credit of having applied a new lever to that great moral machine which, by the blessing of God, is destined to evangelize the world." Christian Secretary, Hartford. " "We hope that the volume will be attentively and prayerfully read by the whole church, which are clothed with the " Great Commission" to evangelize the world, and that they will be moved to an immediate discharge of its high and momentous obligations. N. E. Puritan, Boston. THE KAREN APOSTLE ; Or, Memoir of Ko THAH-BYU, the first Karen convert with notices concerning his Nation. By the Kev. FRANCIS MASON. Edited by Prof. H. J. RIPLEY. Fifth thousand. 18mo., cloth. Price 25 cents. " This is a work of thrilling interest, containing the history of a remarkabl* man, and giving, also, much information respecting the Karen Mission, here- tofore unknown in this country. It gives an account, which must be attrac- tive, from its novelty, of a people that have been but little known and visited by missionaries, till within a few years. The baptism of Ko Thah-Byu, in 1828, was the beginning of the mission, and at the end of these twelve years, twelve hundred and seventy Karens are officially reported as members of the churches, in good standing. The mission has been carried on pre-eminently by the Karens themselves, and there is no dotX from much touching evi- dence contained in this volume, that they are a teople peculiarly susceptibly to religious impressions." MEMOIRS OF DISTINGUISHED MISSIONARIES. MEMOIR OF ANN H. JUDSON, late Missionary to Burmah. By Rev. JAMES D. KNOWLES. With a likeness*. 12mo., nn Edition, price 85 cents. 18mo. Price 58 cents. " We are particularly gratified to perceive a new edition of the Memoirs cents. " Our acquaintance with the excellent brother, who is the subject of thit Memoir, will be long and fondly cherished. This volume, prepared by a tody, of true taste and tafent, and of a kindred spirit, while it is but a just tribute to his worth, will, we doubt not, furnish lessons of humble and practical piety, and will give such facts relative to the mission to which he devoted his life, as to render it worthy a distinguished place among the religious and missionary Viography ^ hies, has so much enriched the family of God." - Watchman. fUPLEY'S NOTES. CEUDEN'S CONCORDANCE. TOE FOUR GOSPELS, WITH NOTES. Chiefly Explanatory intended principally for Sabbath School Teachers and Bible Classes, and as an aid to Family Instruction. By H. J. KIPLEY. With a Map of Palestine. Eighth thousand. 12mo^ half morocco. Price $1.25. " The undersigned, having examined Professor Ripley's Notes on the Go^ pels, can recommend them with confidence to all who need such helps in the tudy of the sacred Scriptures. Those passages which all can understand ai% lift * without note or comment,' and the principal labor is devoted to th explanation of such parts as need to be explained and rescued from the per- Tensions of errorists, both the ignorant and the learned. The practical sug- gestions at the close of each chapter, are not the least valuable portion of th work. Most cordially, for the sake of truth and righteousness, do we wish foi thase Notes a wide circulation." BARON STOW, 31. H. NEALK, R. TURSTBULL, DANIEL SHARP, J. W. PARKER, N. COLVER, WM. HAGUE, R. W. CUSHMAK, J. "W. BOSWORTH. THE ACTS OF THE APOSTLES, WITH NOTES. Chiefly Explanatory. Designed for Teachers in Sabbath Schools and Bible Classes, and as an Aid to Family Instruction. By Prof. H. J. Ripley. \Vith a Map of Paul's Travels. Third Thousand. 12mo., half morocco. Price 75 cents. " On examining the contents, we are favorably impressed, first, by the won- derful perspicuity, simplicity, and comprehensiveness of the author's rtyle j secondly, by the completeness and systematic arrangement of the work, in all its parts ; thirdly, by the correct theology, solid instruction, and consistent explanations of difficult passages. The work cannot fail to be received with favor." Christian Iteflector, Boston. CRUDEN'S CONDENSED CONCORDANCE. A Complete Concordance to the Holy Scriptures ; by ALEXANDER CRU- DEN, M.A. A New and Condensed Edition, with an Introduc- tion ; by Rev. DAVID KING, LL.D. Fifth Thousand. Price, in Boards, $1.25 ; Sheep, $1.50. V This edition is printed from English plates, and la a full and fair copy of all that is valuable in Cruden as a Concordance. The condensation of the quotations of Scripture, arranged under their most obvious heads, while it diminishes the bulk of the work, greatly facilitates the finding of any required passage. " Those who have been acquainted with the various works of this kind now in use, well know that Cruden's Concordance far excels all others. Yet we have in this edition the best made better. That is, the present is better adapted to the purposes of a Concordance, by the erasure of superfluous references, the omission of unnecessary explanations, and the contraction of quotations, &c. : it is better as a manual, and is better adapted by its price to the means of many who need and ought to possess such a work, than th former larger and expensive edition." Boston Recorder. " The new, condensed, and cheap work prepared from the voluminous and ostly one of Cruden, opportunely fills a chasm in our ,Biblicnl literature The work has been examined critically, and pronounced complete and acc;> rate." Baptist Record, Philadelphia. "This is the very| work of which we have long felt the need, and we ar much pleased that its enterprising publishers can now furnish the student of the Bible with a work which he so much needs at so cheap a rate." Advent Herald. Rostov, ** We cannot see but it is, in all points, as valuable n book of reference, & ministers and Bible students, as the larger edition." Christian K^/lec-t,nr. FOR SABBATH SCHOOLS. MALCOM'S BIBLE DICTIONARY. A Dictionary of the most important Names, Objects, and Terms, found in the Holy Scriptures; intended principally for Sunday Schooi Teachers and Bible Classes. By H. MALCOM, D.I). Illus- trated by Engravings. 18mo. half morocco. One Htudreth thousand. Price 50 cts. " All who for a moment recur to the fact, that large folios would not suffi- ciently elucidate the subjects which are brought to view in the Bible, will at Once see the difficulty which the author must have felt, in compressing all the Information which he has so judiciously condensed. If any should inquire, Why have we not more, the themes being so numerous? let'such an one look again, and, perhaps, in his surprise, he will exclaim, How is it, that, in a book no completely portable, we have so much ? to have made a larger book, aa could have been done with far less labor than this cost, might have placed it beyond the reach of many, to whom it will now be useful. All who know the allusions to ancient customs, and Jewish usages in Eastern countries, with which the Bible abounds, will discover something of the worth of this volume, "ft is very neatly printed on handsome type and fine paper, and will, w doubt not, meet, as it deserves, a ready sale." Christian Watchman. HAGUE'S GUIDE TO CONVERSATION on the New Testament Designed for the Use of Bible Classes and Sabbath Schools. Vol. I. Matthew, Vol. II. John. By Rev. WM. HAGUE. Price 17 cents each. SABBATH SCHOOL CLASS BOOK. Comprising copious Exercises on the Sacred Scriptures. By E. LINCOLN. Revised and improved by an eminent Clergyman, and a Superinten- dent. Price 12 y z cents. " Having examined your Sabbath School Class Book, it gives us pleasure to express our satisfaction with its design and execution. The great benefit which a good class book accomplishes, consists in guiding the mind of the scholar in the study of his lesson, and in suggesting topics of conversation to the teacher. To this end we think your work is well adapted ; having avoided in a great degree, the evils of extreme redundance or conciseness. WM. HAGUE, II. MALCOM, E. THKESHEK, BARON STOW. LINCOLN'S SCRIPTURE QUESTIONS, With the answers annexed, giving in the language of the Sacred Volume, interest- ing portions of the History, and a concise view of the Doc- trir.as and Duties exhibited in the Bible. Price $1.00 per doz. %* Where Bibles cannot be furnished to each scholar, the Scripture Quw lion* may be used with convenience, as the u.r>Rwers are printed. THE SABBATH SCHOOL HARMONY; containing appropri- ate Hymns and Music for Sabbath Schools, Juvenile Singing Schools, and Family Devotion. By N. D. GOULD. Price Viy z cents. SCRIPTURE NATURAL HISTORY, Containing a Descriptive Account of Quadrupeds, Birds, Fishes, Insects, Reptiles, Ser- pents, Plants, Trees, Minerals, Gems, and Precious Stones, mentioned in the Bible. Bv WM. CARPENTER, London ; with improvements, by Rev. G. D. ABBOTT. Illustrated by numer ens Engravings. 12mo. cloth. Prise $1.00. CRUDEN'S CONDENSED CONCORDANCE. A COMPLETE CONCORDANCE TO THE HOLY SCRIPTURES. BY ALEXANDER CRUDEN, M.A. A NEW AND CONDENSED EDITION, WITH AN INTRODUCTION, BY REV. DAVID KING, LL.D. Fifth TJiousand. Price, in Boards, $1,25 ; Sheep, $1,50. OPINIONS OF THE PRESS. From the Boston Recorder. Those who have been acquainted with the various works of this kind now In use, well know that Cruden's Concordance far excels all others. Yet we have in this edition of Cruden, the best made better. That is, the present is better adapted to the purposes of a Concordance, by the erasure of super- fluous references, the omission of unnecessary explanations, and the con traction of quotations, &c. ; it is better as a manual, and is better adapted by its price to the means of many who need and ought to possess such a work, than the former larger and expensive edition. From the Christian Mirror, Portland. The condensation effected on this edition, leaves the book even more perspicuous, and a readier help than before. From .the Albany Argus. The present edition, in being relieved of some things which contributed to render all former ones unnecessarily cumbrous, without adding to the substantial value of the work, becomes an exceedingly cheap book. From the Albany Religious Spectator. Tha work has lost nothing of its value from being condensed, KB we flnd it, in the present edition. From the Christian Reflector, Boston. We cannot see but it is, in all points, as valuable a book of reference fo ministers and Bible students, as the larger edition. From the Christian Watchman, Boston. All in tho incomparable work of Cruden, that is essential to a concordatite, J-3 presented in a volume much reduced both in size and price. From the Baptist Record, Philadelphia. The new, condensed and cheap work prepared from the voluminous ac J costly one of Cruden, opportunely fills a chasm in our Biblical literature. The work has been examined critically by several ministers, and others, and pronounced complete and accurate. From the Advent Herald, Boston. This is the very work of which we have long felt the need. We obtained a copy oT the English edition some months since, and wished some one would publish it ; and we are much pleased that its enterprising pubiisnera can n)w fnrnish the student of the Bible with a work whic'H Ke so much needs, at so cheap a rate. REV HARVEY NEWCOMB'S WORKS. HOW TO BE A LADY; A Book for Girls, containing usefti. hints on the formation of character. Fifth thousand. gilt cloth. Price 50 cents. / * Having daughters of his own, and having been many years employed ia writing for the voting, he hopes to be able to ofter some good advice, in an entertaining way, for girls or misses, between the ages of eight and fifteen. His object is, to assist them in forming their characters upon the best model that they may become well-bred, intelligent, refined, and good ; and then they will be real ladies, in the highest sense." Preface. " They are full of wholesome and judicious counsels, which are well fitted to preserve the young from the numberless evils to which they are exposed, and to mould them to virtue and usefulness. There is a directness and earnestnesi pervading the whole, which must secure for it a ready access to the youthful mind and heart." Albany Argus. HOW TO BE A MAN; A Book for Boys, containing useful hints on the formation of character. Fifth thousand. ISmo., gilt cloth. Price 50 cents. "My design in writing has been to contribute something towards forming the character of those who are to be our future electors, legislators, governors, judges, ministers, lawyers, and physicians, after the best model. It is intended for boys or, if you please, for young gentlemen, in early youth; from eight or ten to fifteen or sixteen years of age." Preface. " They contain wise and important counsels and cautions, adapted to the young, and made entertaining by the interesting style and illustrations of the author. They are fine mirrors, in which are reflected the prominent linea- ments of the Christian young gentleman and young lady. The execution of the works is of the first order, and the books will afford elegant and most prof- itable presents for the young." American Pulpit. ANECDOTES FOR BOYS ; Entertaining Anecdotes and Narra- tives, illustrative of principles and character. 18mo., gilt cloth- Price 42 cents. " Nothing has a greater interest for a youthful mind than a well-told story, and no medium of conveying moral instructions so attractive or so successful. The influence of all such stories is far more powerful when the child is assured that they are true. The book before us is cpnducted upon these ideas. It ia made up of a series of anecdotes, every one of which inculcates some excel- lent moral lesson. We cannot too highly approve of the bool recommend it to parents." Western Continent, Baltimore. ANECDOTES FOR GIRLS ; Entertaining Anecdotes and Narra- tives, illustrative of principles and character. 18mo., gilt cloth. Price 42 cents. " There is a charm about these two beautiful volumes not to be mistaken. They are deeply interesting and instructive, without being fictitious. The anecdotes are many, short, and spirited, with a moral drawn from each, some- what after the manner of Touu ; and no youth can read them without finding tomething therein adapted to every age, condition, and duty of life. We commend it to families and schools." Albany Spectator. " He desires to instruct rather than to dazzle ; to infuse correct principle* Into the minds and the heart of the young, than cater to a depraved appetite for romantic excitement. We cordially commend these volumes to aH parents and children." Christian Alliance. CHRISTIANITY DEMONSTRATED in four distinct and indft. ?enden* series of proofs ; with an explanation of the Types and 'rophecies concerning the Messiah. 12mo. Price 75 cents. V Tb? obj*st of the writer has been to classify and condense the evidence, Kiat the whc.e force of each particular kind might be seen at one view. H* has also airbed to render the work 'practical, so as to hive It a book to be read as well a? rt*di*d. The Types and Prophecies furnish an important specief tf evidrjc**, und are rich in instruction upon the way of Salvation. MOTHERS OF THE WISE AND GOOD. BY JAEEZ BURNS, D. J), FROM REV. J. ANGELL JAMES. * ; It ia a useful and valuable work, replete with instruction and en Couragement, and will have, I hope, as it deserves to have, a wide cir- culation. I make much use of it in my periodical meetings, among Uiis interesting and important class." FROM REV. DR. BEAUMONT. u l am constrained to say that it is full of interest, and that of th rwost pleasing and useful kind. It presents to the reader a bouquet of charmed names a cabinet of charming reminiscences a tissue of facts and morals, of incidents and principles, at once delightful and edifying. And as a gallery of 4 elect ladies' and their sons, it would be a profiita- ble study for all who fill the important relations of son and mother." FROM REV. W. W. ROBINSON, M.A, " I earnestly hope that this little volume, which is a suitable present 10 the Mothers of England, will have a wide circulation ; and that iti perusal will be accompanied by the powerful aid of the Holy Spirit." FROM REV. HENRY GREY, D.D. " It has afforded pleasure to Mrs. Grey and myself. It \ppears to me a valuable selection of specimens of the success attending the faithful performance of an important class of duties ; and will, I trust, prove instructive and encouraging to many mothers, showing in so many in- stances the happy effect of their prayers and exertions." FROM REV. J. P..DOBSON. Would that all mothers young mothers especially had such a Tolume in their possession, and could be prevailed upon to make it a 9&de mecum, in the training of t'heir infant charge. I rejoice to speak of 11 wherever I can, and shall be ready and glad to avail myself of every opportunity of recommending it, because I can recommend it conscr tJMiously and earnestly." FROM THE FREE CHURCH MAGAZINE. " "We have lingered over the pages of this most attractive bocir, with feelings of interest, and tenderness, and affection, which we cannot ex- press. Many remembrances of youth arose, and took full possession ok' our heart, while in some instances we scarcely knew whether we read the pages of the work before us, or those of memory. It is well that instances of the precious influences of maternal piety, prudence, and love, should be recorded ; but who can tell their inestimable value J The mothers of the wise and good ! yes, were there more such DC others, we might confidently expect more such sons," ELEGANT MINIATURE VOLUMES. Gilt Edges and beautifully Ornamented Cavers. Price 31>^ cent* each. DAILY 31 ANNA for Christian Pilgrims. By Rev. B. STOW.D.D THE ATTRACTIONS OF HEAVEN. Edited by the Ro? H. A. GRAVES. THE YOUNG COMMUNICANT. An Aid to the Right Under standing and Spiritual Improvement of the Lord's Supper. THE ACTIVE CHRISTIAN. By JOHN HARRIS, D.D. THE BIBLE AND THE CLOSET; Or, how we may read the Scriptures with the most spiritual profit. And Secret Prayer successfully managed. Edited by Rev. J. 0. Choules. THE MARRIAGE RING, or how to make Home Happy. From the writings of J. A. JAMES. LYRIC GEMS. A Collection of Original and Select Sacred Poetry. Edited by Rev. S. F. SMITH. THE CASKET OF JEWELS, for Young Christians. By JAMES, EDWARDS, and HARRIS. THE CYPRESS WREATH. A Book of Consolation for those who Mourn. Edited by Rev. R. W. GRISWOLD. THE MOURNER'S CHAPLET. An Offering of Sympathy for Bereaved Friends. Edited by JOHN KEESE. THE FAMILY CIRCLE. Its Affections and Pleasures. Edited by the Rev. H. A. GRAVES. THE FAMILY ALTAR. Or the Duty, Benefits, and Mode of conducting Family Worship. Sets of the above, in neat boxes, and forming a beautiful " Minia- ture Library" in 12 Vols. Price $3.75. THE SILENT COMFORTER. A Companion for the Sick Room By Mrs, LOUISA PAYSON HOPKINS. OLDEN GEMS ; for the Christian. Selected from the writings of Rev. JOHN FLAVEL, with a Memoir of the Author, by Rev JOSEPH BANVARD. DOUBLE MINIATURES. PRICE 60 CENTS EACH. THE WEDDING GIFT : Or, the Duties and Pleasures of Do mestic Life. THE YOUNG CHRISTIAN'S GUIDE to the Doctrines and Duties of a Religious Life. THE MOURNER COMFORTED. THE CHRISTIAN'S PRIVATE COMPANION. CONSOLATION FOR THE AFFLICTED. THE SILENT COMFORTER. DAILY DUTIES. VALUABLE SCIENTIFIC WORKS PUBLISHED BY GOULD AND LINCOLN, 59 WASHINGTON ST., BOSTON LAKE SUPERIOR, Oft PHYSICAL CHARACTER, VEGETATION, AND ANIMA3.S, COM- PARED WITH OTHER AND SIMILAR REGIONS, BY L. AGASSIZ. W TH A NARRATIVE OF THE EXPEDITION AND ILLUSTRATIONS, BY J. E. CABOT. One Volume, octavo. Cloth, price $3,50. " The character of these scientific labors of Prof. Agassiz is eminently philosophic and suggestive ; and the grand idea of the work is the demand for the recognition in nature of the agency of a personal God, as a scien- tific fact, above and beyond all the conditions of physical cause.'* Literary World. " A work rich and varied in matter pregnant of lofty suggestions and comprehensive truths. We commend it to all intelligent readers, whether scientific or otherwise, and whether lay or clerical." Christian Register. " The results of this remarkable expedition have been carefully written out by different members of the party. It is a work full of interest and fnstruction to all who have given even the slightest attention to the Natural History of the United States, and will undoubtedly be regarded as one of the most important contributions which this country has ever made to that most fascinating science." Providence Journal. THE ANNUAL OF SCIENTIFIC DISCOVERY; Or, Year-Book of Facts in Science and Art, exhibiting the most im- portant discoveries and improvements in Mechanics, Useful Arts, Natu- ral Philosophy, Chemistry, Astronomy, Meteorology, Zoology, Botany, Mineralogy Geology, Geography, Antiquities, &c. ; together with a list