'ib^ u THE DOCTRINE AND DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE: fin Ctoo JSDOlts: ALSO THE JUDGEMENT OF MARTIN BUCER; TBTBACHORDON ; AND AN ABRIDGEMENT OF COLASTERION. By JOHN MILTON. WITH Re/erring to Events of deep and pow&'ful Interest at the present Cvisis ; INSCRIBED TO THE EARL OF LIVERPOOL. BY A CIVILIAN " Crede inihi, noii est parvae fiduciat polliceri opein decertantibus, consilium dubiu, Inmcn coecis, spem dejectis, refrigeriiim fessis. Magna quidem h«c sunt, si ftant ;' pArva, si promittantur," PETRARCH :— De Vita Solitaria. itonfton: PRINTED FOR SHERWOOD, NEELY, AND JONES, PATERNOSTER- ROW. 1820. W. Flinf, Printer, Angel Conrt, Skiarier Street. TO THE RIGHT HONOURABLE THE EARL OF LIVERPOOL- MY LORD, The name of Milton requires not the sanction of rank or greatness : But as the subject of the present volume must necessarily engage the deep attention of his Majesty's Government ; and as there is no other work in which that subject is so ably and impartially discussed, I have presumed to inscribe it to your Lordship — and am, my Lord, with profound respect, Yoiir Lordship's most Obedient Servant, THE EDITOR. Digitized by tine Internet Archive in 2007 with funding from IVIicrosoft Corporation http://www.archive.org/details/doctrinediscipliOOmiltrich PREFACE BY THE EDI TOR Public opinion whether founded in truth or falsehood is uncontroulable* The institutions of rehgion and the laws of society may oppose formi* dable barriers to restrain, but they must ultimately yield to its influence. It is the irrevocable law of human nature that the general will consentaneously and firmly expressed shall triumph. Erroneous opinion, the result of ignorance and prejudice, and sanctioned by custom, has ever been mighty for evil, and in the ages that are past has exercised and maintained an almost omnipotent dominion. Against this usurpation of her throne. Truth has modestly ventured to assert her claims ; but he^ voice has been drowned in the loud clamour of popular indignation, and those who with super- human courage have dared to espouse her cause have been vicariously immolated to appease the daemon invested with her awful and high preroga. tives. Many a victim has perished in the gloom vi PREFACE. of a dungeon and expired on the scaffold, and at the stake. The very weapons of truth as well as her advocates have been violently wrested from her defence. It has been deemed high treason against established authority to seek her in the exile to which she has been driven, or to make an appeal in her behalf through the various mediums of public and accredited instruction. The pulpit, the press, and the intercourse of social life have been placed under the severe interdiction of uttering an expres- sion or a thought that would seem to favour the most trivial of her interests. The world has never been her friend nor the world^s law. Whatever she has acquired have been the laurels of dearly purchased victories, achieved by the prowess and sufferings of her champions and martyrs. Like her glorious prototype it has been her lot to be despised and rejected of men. Still, however, in the darkest periods, and amidst the insolent triumphs of her ad- versaries, a few there have been who have sought het sorrowing, who have paid her the homage of their tears, and who have dared though their lives and estates were the instant forfeiture, to proclaim her the sovereign mistress of their destiny. Chival- rous and brave, they have loved persecution for her sake, and her smile, the smile of immortality has irradiated with glory the disgrace which settled upon their tomb. But let it not be imagined that their conflicts and their woes have been wasted in vain attempts to raise a fallen greatness. Not an effort, not aparfg PREFACE. sM has been lost. Error has trembled on her throne and her prophetic soul even now writhes in dread anticipation of her fate. That throne she must abandon ; — -the rightful majesty so long expelled re- turns with a crown of insufferable brightness, too daz- zling for the misty eye-balls of falsehood, and of her impious train to look upon. The mightiest names are enrolled in her list of worthies. Law she has emancipated from the trammels of feudal barba- rism ; science from the restrictions of the schools ; and religion from the manacles of superstition. Self-evident truths, as thev were once deemed, are now denounced as exploded puerilities ; and men whose names were synonymous with infamy, Grali- leo and Milton, and others, are heard with admi- ration and reverence. The minds, even of the common vulgar, are no longer confined within the narrow prejudices which once seemed to be their sad and perpetual inheritance. Bold and singular opinions walk abroad with fearless independence challenging investigation ; — the press is compara- tively free, and nothing but licentiousness, treason, and blasphemy are prohibited or restrained. The present age, thanks to the achievements of the wise and good, may be considered as the commence- ment of the Millenium of truth. Ancient and for- gotten doctrines which were uttered in unheeding ears, or which were heard only to be reprobated, possessing still the vigour of immortahty which obscurity and neglect could never impair, because they were homogenous parts of that tvuth, every particle of which must live for ever, now venture m PREFACE. forth, favoured by the spirit of the age, to plead for themselves ; and though their progress is confessedly slow, and they have still to contend with inveterate prejudice, yet every day enlarges the sphere of their influence, and increases the weight of their authority. It has, also, sometimes happened, in furtherance of the cause of knowledge and consequently of happiness, that the errors and evils which, for cen- turies, have triumphed over the human mind, and perverted the laws and institutions of society, have at length run themselves out ; or circumstances have arisen to expose their absurdity, or to abrogate their power. A great vital question involving the interests of moraHty and religion, and deeply affecting the well being of the community, it is probable will be brought under discussion by the unhappy differences which prevail between the most illustrious person- ages in the realm, and which agitate, in an unex- ampled and most alarming degree, the feelings and passit)ns of the whole nation. It will, perhaps, not be deemed too much to affirm, that if the laws regarding royal marriages had been consonant either with reason or religion, or if the subject of divorce, as it regards the community in general, had been properly understood and embodied , in our canon and civil codes that what we now so deeply deplore, could not have taken place ; and that the two distinguished individuals who occupy a station of such distressing celebrity. PREFACE. ix could never have been obtruded upon the pubHc, under circumstances so agonizing to their feelings, and so injurious to their dignity. If, however, from this lamented and partial calamity, general benefit should arise and the public mind should be enlightened to the right understanding of the nature of the marriage con- tract, and the limits of the obligation which it im- poses, and that public mind so enlightened, should express its will in the high court of Parliament, abro- gating every irrational, impolitic, and anti-Christian canon and statute, the domestic misfortunes of the royal family will have a mitigation and relief which will reconcile the illustrious sufferers to the evils which they endure ; because they will enjoy the generous consolation of knowing that these evils can never again be inflicted, either upon the prince or the people. Alas ! how many thousands, as well as their majesties, are the victims of a barbarism as foreign from the spirit and improvement of the age, as it is repugnant to the mild and equitable requirements of the Christian law-giver. In how many miser- able families, are the greatest and best ends of marriage altogether frustrated ! Yet, can the injured obtain no redress ; and their wretchedness is aggra- vated by the bitter reflection, that it can terminate only with life. The present work of Milton is re-published, because it is the only book on this great and mo- mentous subject, which is at the same time full and X BRl&FACE. compendious ; which argues the whole question with fairness and impartiality, appealing to every principle of reason, and every dictate of scripture ; which is learned, and yet popular ; which cites the best authorities, and refutes the strongest objections ; and which will amply re-pay every reader that sits down to its perusal, if not by making him a convert to its doctrines, yet by enriching his mind with va-» rious knowledge, and delighting his imagination with the charms of wit and eloquence. It was originally addressed to the Parliament of England ; and though it failed in the principal object which its author purposed, yet it was read and approved by philosophers and statesmen. Nor w^as it wholly without effect ; there were not a few who embraced the Doctrine, and obeyed the Disci- pline of Divorce.* * Dr. Symmons, perhaps the most impartial biographer of Mil- ton, says " On the subject of Divorce, he makes out a strong case, and fights with arguments which cannot be easily repelled. The whole context of the Holy Scriptures, the laws of the first Christian Emperors, the opinions of some of the most eminent reformers, and a projected statute of Edward the Sixth, are adduced by him for the purpose of demonstrating that by the laws of God, and by the inferences of the most virtuous and enlightened men, the power of divorce ought not to be rigidly restricted to those causes, which render the nuptial state un- fruitful, or which taint it with a spurious offspring. Regard- ing mutual support as the principal object of this union, he contends that whatever defrauds it of these ends, essentially vitiates the contract, and must necessarily justify its dissolution. PREFACE. xi It was violently attacked by the Presbyterian Clergy ; nor can such a writer as Milton, ever prove acceptable to the bigots of any sect. Whether our senators and the people at large are prepared to meet this great subject, and fear- lessly to act upon the dictates of truth and charity ; or whether, devoted to established custom and ancient institutions, they resolve not to change an iota of things as they are ; yet will the present work, if read with attention, abate certain popular prejudices, and assuage certain irritable feelings which have betrayed a large portion of our people into the expression of something like injustice towards one suffering party, and induced them to give all their sympathy and regret, with an incon- siderate zeal, to the woes and misfortunes of the other. Without venturing to anticipate the topics which form the basis of the following tracts, and without Though his arguments failed, and indeed, they could not reasonably hope to produce general conviction, their effect was far from inconsiderable ; and a party distinguished by the name of Miltonists, attested the power of his pen, and gave conse- quence to his pleading for divorce. The legislature however, coinciding evidently with a large majority of the nation, seem to have considered the evil resulting from the indissolubleness of marriage, as not to be weighed against the greater good ; and their wisdom permitted the abilities of Milton to be exerted in vain against that condition of the tontract, which provided the most effectually for the interest of the offspring, and which offered the best means of intimately blending the fortunes, the tempers, and. the manners of the parents,'* xii PREFACE. offering any very decided opinion as to the practi- cability of the disciphne which the author stre- nuously recommends, it may be fairly presumed, that the general unhappiness of married life pro- ceeds from some grand and fundamental error in the laws and canons which respect divorce ; and that this law is perhaps founded on some vital mistake with regard to the institution of marriage itself. Matrimony certainly partakes more of the nature of a civil contract, than of that of a religious obligation ; and is a totally different thing from what either Popish or Protestant Churches in general represent it to be. It is not a necessary and per- mitted evil, as Popery insinuates ; nor is it an into- lerable burthen, and a cleaving curse for life, as some Protestant Churches have decreed, Jeremy Taylor has beautifully observed, that " the first blessing God gave to man, was society ; and that society was a marriage ; and that marriage was confederate by God himself, and hallowed by a blessing. It contains in it all sweetness, and all society and felicity, and all prudence, and all wisdom. For there is nothing can please a man without love. And if a man be weary of the wise discourses of the apostles, and of the innocency of an even and a private fortune, or hates peace or a fruitful year, he hath reaped thorns and thistles from the choicest flowers of Paradise ; for nothing can sweeten felicity itself but love. But when a man dwells in love, then the breasts of his wife are pleasant as the droppings PREFACE. xfii of the hill of Hermon, her eyes are fair as the light of heaven, she is a fountain sealed, and he can quench his thirst, and ease his cares, and lay his sorrow down upon her lap, and can retire home, as to his sanctuary and his garden of sweetness and chaste refreshments. But he that loves not his wife and children, feeds a lioness at home, and broods a nest of sorrows, and blessing itself can- not make him happy. So that all the command- ments of God enjoining a man to love his wife are nothing but so many necessities and capacities of joy ; she that is loved is safe, and he that loves is joyful.'^ But when in the married state there is discovered by the parties a total want of congenia- lity, an absolute incapacity to promote each other's felicity, even the command of Heaven cannot avail to constrain love ; and laws and obligations which make a contract eternal, in which it is impossible for the individuals who have made it to fulfil any of its conditions, can be nothing less than the most odious and oppressive tyranny. A tyranny, which the wise and good governor of the universe could never exercise. Heaven has ordained that they who marry should be a help meet to each other, and Milton, in his immortal Poem, introduces our first parent, thus addressing his Creator. " Hast thou not made rnt3 here thy substitute) •* And these inferior far beneath rne set } ** Among unequal what society •* Can sort, what harmony or true delight ? '• Which must be mutual in prf»porti6n due sir PREFACE. " Giv'n and receivM ; hut m disparity •* The one intense, the other still remiss, " Cannot well suit with either, but soon prove " Tedious alike : Of fellowship 1 speak, ** Such as I seek, fit to participate *« All rational delight."— But it is " the unhappy chance of many men, finding (as Taylor quaintly expresses it,) many inconveniencies upon the mountains of a single life to descend into the vallies of marriage to refresh their troubles ; and there they enter into fetters, and are bound to sorrow by the cords of a woman's |)eevishness ; and the worst of the evil is, they have to thank their own folly." But may we not ask, with some degree of indignation, whether justice or humanity can require such an outrageous punish- ment of mere folly and mistake ? Is it not an in- fliction that we should deprecate falling on the head of the most atrocious criminal ? And may we not hope, that amidst the rapid improvement in politi- cal science and legislation that the counsels of the wise, and the efforts of the benevolent will prepare an effectual remedy for this evil, which, according to present intitutions, is lengthened to the utmost period of the life of man ? Of Milton himself it is no longer necessary to speak either in the language of censure or applause. He has gained the summit of the immortality to which he knew the justice of mankind would one day advance him. But it is impossible to reflect on his noble struggles in the cause of his country with- PREFACE. XV out admiration. He presents to the imagination one of the most subhme and affecting moral spectacles ever exhibited in human nature. "• My mind/' says Coleridge, (and with thie quotation 1 shall close my observations) "is not capable of forming a more august conception, than arises from the contempla- tion of this great man in his latter days ; poor, sick, old, blind, slandered, persecuted ** Darkness before, and Danger's voice behind," in an age in which he was as little understood by the party for whom, as by that against whom he had contended ; and among men before whom he strode so far as to divarf himself by the distance ; yet still listening to the music of his own thoughts or if additionally cheered, yet cheered only by the pro- phetic faith of two or three individuals, he did nevertheless Argue not ** Against heaven*s hand or will, nor bate a jot " Of heart or hope ; but still bore up and steer'd *^ Right onward." From others only do we derive our knowledge that Milton in his latter day had his scorners and detractors ; and even in his day of youth and hope, that he had enemies would have been unknown to us, had they not been likewise the enemies of his country." TO THE PARLIAMENT OF ENGLAND, WITH THE ASSEMBLY. If it were seriously asked, (and it would be no un- timely question,) renowned parliament, select as- sembly ! who of all teachers and masters, that have ever taught, hath drawn the most disciples after him, both in religion and in manners ? it might be not untruly answered, Custom. Though virtue be commended for the most persuasive in her theory, and conscience in the plain demonstration of the spirit finds most evincing; yet whether it be the secret of Divine will, or the original blindness we are born in, so it happens for the most part, that custom still is silently received for the best in- structor. Except it be, because her method is t TO THK PARLIAMENT OF ENGLAND. SO glib and easy, in some manner like to that vision of Ezekiel rolling up her sudden book of implicit knowledge, for him that will to take and swallow down at pleasure ; which proving but of bad nourishment in the concoction, as it was heed- less in the devouring, puffs up unhealthily a certain big face of pretended learning, mistaken among cre- dulous men for the wholesome habit of soundness and good constitution, but is indeed no other than that swoln visage of counterfeit knowledge and lite- rature, which not only in private mars our educa- tion, but also in public is the common climber into every chair, where either religion is preached, or law reported : filling each estate of life and profes- sion with abject and servile principles, depressing the high and heaven-born spirit of man, far beneath the condition wherein either God created him, or sin hath sunk him.- To pursue the allegory, custom being but a mere face, as echo is a mere voice, rests not in her unaccomplishment, until, by secret incli- nation, she accorporate herself with error, who, being a blind and serpentine body without a head, wilhngly. accepts what he wants, and supplies what her incompleteness went seeking. Hence it is, that error supports custom — custom countenances error : and these two between them would persecute and chase away all truth and solid wisdom out of human life, were.it not that God, rather than man, once in many' ages calls together the prudent and religious counsels of men, deputed to repress the encroach- ments, and to work off the inveterate blots and to THE PARLIAMENT OF ENGLAND. 8 obscurities wrought upon our minds by the subtle ' insinuatinor of error and custom ; who, with the numerous and vulgar train of their followers, make it their chief design to envy and cry down the in- dustry of free reasoning, under the terms of humour and innovation ; as if the womb of teeming truth were to be closed up, if she presume to bring forth aught that sorts not with their unchewed notions and suppositions. Against which notorious injury and abuse of man's free soul, to testify and oppose the utmost that study and true labour can attain, heretofore the incitement of men reputed grave hath . led me among others ; and now the duty and the right of an instructed Christian calls me through the chance of good or evil report, to be the sole advocate of a discountenanced truth, if a high en- terprise, lords and commons! a high enterprise and a hard, and such as evei-y seventh son of a seventh son does not venture on. Nor have I . amidst the clamour of so much envy and imperti- nence whither to appeal^ but to the concourse of so much piety and wisdom here assembled. Bringing in my hands an ancient and most necessary,^ most charitable, and yet most injured statute of Moses ; not repealed ever by him who only had the au- thority, but thrown aside with much inconsiderate neglect, under the rubbish of canonical ignorance ; as once the whole law was by some such like con- veyance in Josiah's time. And he who shall en- deavour the amendment of any old neglected griev- ance in church or state, or in the daily course of • B 2 if TO THE PARLIAMENT OF ENGLAND. life, if he be gifted with abilities of mind, that may raise him to so high an undertaking, I grant he hath already much whereof not to repent him ; yet let me aread him, not to be the foreman of any mis-judged opinion, unless his resolutions be firmly seated in a square and constant mind, not conscious to itself of any deserved blame, and regardless of ungrounded suspicions. For this let him be sure he shall be boarded presently by the ruder sort, but not by discreet and well-nurtured men, with a thou- sand idle descants and surmises. Who when they cannot confute the least joint or sinew of any pas- sage in the book ; yet God forbid that truth should be truth, because they have a boisterous conceit of some pretences in the writer. But were they not more busy and inquisitive than the apostle com- mends, they would hear him at least, " rejoicing so the truth be preached, whether of envy or other pi^etence whatsoever -J* for truth is as impossible to be soiled by any outward touch as the sun- beam ; though this ill hap wait on her nativity, that she never comes into the world, but like a bas- tard, to the ignominy of him that brought her forth ; till time, the midwife rather than the mother of truth, have washed and salted the infant, declared her legitimate, and churched the father of his young Minerva, from the needless causes of his purgation. Yourselves can best witness this, worthy patriots ! and better will, no doubt, hereafter: for who among ye of the foremost that have travailed in her behalf to the good of church or state, hath not been often? TO THE PARLIAMENT OF ENGLAND. 5 traduced to be the agent of his own by-ends, under pretext of reformation ? So much the more I shall not be unjust to hope, that however infamy or envy may work in other men to do her fretful will against this discourse, yet that the experience of your own uprightness mis-interpreted will put ye in mind, to give it free audience and generous construc- tion. What though the brood of Belial, the draff of men, to whom no liberty is pleasing, but un- bridled and vagabond lust without pale or partitiorr, will laugh broad perhaps, to see so great a strength of scripture mustering up in favour, as they sup- pose, of their debaucheries ; they will know better when they shall hence learn, that honest liberty is the greatest foe to dishonest licence. And what though others, out of a waterish and queasy con- science, because ever crazy and never yet sound, will rail and fancy to themselves that injury and licence is the best of this book ? Did not the dis- temper of their own stomachs affect them with a dizzy megrim, they would soon tie up their tongues, and discern themselves like that Assyrian blas- phemer, all this while reproaching not man, but the Almighty, the Holy One of Israel, whom they do not deny to have belawgiven his own sacred people with this very allowance, which they now call injury and licence, and dare cry shame on, and will do yet a while, till they get a little cordial sobriety to settle their qualming zeal. But this question concerns not us perhaps : indeed man^s disposition, though prone to search after vain cu- 6 TO THP PAHLIAMENT OF ENGI.AND. riosities, yet when points of difficulty are to be discussed, appertaining to the removal of unreason- able wrong and burden from the perplexed life of our brother, it is incredible how cold, how dull, and far from all fellow-feeling we are, without the spur of self-concernment. Yet if the wisdom, the justice, the purity of God be to be cleared from foulest imputations, which are not yet avoided; if charity be not to be degraded and trodden down under a civil ordinance ; if matrimony be not to be advanced like that exalted perdition written of to the Thessalonians, " above all that is called God,'^ or goodness, nay against them both ; then I dare affirm, there will be found in the con- tents of this book that which may concern us all, You it concerns chiefly, worthies in par^ liament ! on whom, as on our deliverers, all our grievances and cares, by the merit of your emi- nence and fortitude, are devolved. Me it con- cerns next, having with much labour and faithful diligence first found out, or at least with a fearless and communicative candour first published to the manifest good of Christendom, that which, calling to witness every thing mortal and immortal, I believe unfeignedly to be true. Let not other men think their conscience bound to search continually after truth, to pray for enlightening from above, to publish what they think they have so obtained, and debar me from conceiving myself tied by the same duties. Ye have now, doubtless, by the favour and appoiatment of God, ye have now in your hands a TO THE PARLIAMENT OF ENGLAND. 7 great and populous nation to reform ; from what corruption, what blindness in religion, ye know well ; in what a degenerate and fallen spirit from the apprehension of native liberty, and true manli- ness, I am sure ye find ; with what unbounded licence rushing to whoredoms and adulteries^ needs not long inquiry ; insomuch that the fears, which men have of too strict a discipline, perhaps exceed the hopes, that can be in others, of ever introducing it with any great success. What if I should tell ye now of dispensations and indulgencies, to give a little the reins, to let them play and nibble with the bait a while ; a people as hard of heart as that Egyptian colony that went to Canaan. This is the common doctrine that adulterous and injurious divorces were not connived at only, but with eye open allowed of old for hardness of heart. But that opinion, I trust, by then this following argument hath been well read, will be left for one of the mysteries of an indulgent Antichrist, to farm out incest by, and those his other tributary pollutions. What middle way can be taken then, may some inter- rupt, if we must neither turn to the right nor to the left, and that the people hate to be reformed } Mark then, judges and lawgivers, and ye whose office it is to be our teachers, for I will utter now a doctrine, if ever any other, though neglected or not understood, yet of great and powerful importance to the governing of mankind. He who wisely would restrain the rea- sonable soul of man within due bounds, must first himself know perfectly, how far the territory and 8 TO THE PARI^IAMENT OF ENGLAND. dominion extends of just and honest liberty. As little must he offer to bind that which God hath loosened, as to loosen that which he hath bound. The ignorance and mistake of this high point hath heaped up one huge half of all the misery, that hath been since Adam. In the gospel we shall read a supercilious crew of masters, whose holiness, or rather whose evil eye, grieving that God should be so facile to man, was to set straighter limits to obe^ dienee, than God hath set, to enslave the dignity of man, to put a garrison upon his neck of empty and over dignified precepts : and we shall read our Saviour never more grieved and troubled, than to meet with such a peevish madness among men against their own freedom. How can we expect him to be less offended with us, when much of the same folly shall be found yet remaining where it least ought, to the perishing of thousands? The greatest burden in the world is superstition, not only of ceremonies in the church, but of imaginary and scare-crow sins at home. With greater weak* ening, what more subtle stratagem against our Christian warfare, when besides the gross body of real transgressions to encounter, we shall be terrified by a vain and shadowy menacing of faults that are not : when things indifferent shall be set to over* front us under the banners of sin, what wonder if we be routed, and by this art of our adversary, fall into the subjection of worst and deadliest offences? The superstition of the papist is, " touch not, taste not," when God bids both ; and ours is, " part not, TO THE PARLIAMENT OF ENGLAND. 9 separate not," when God and charity both permit and command. " Let all your things be done with charity/' saith St. Paul ; and his master saith, *' She is the fulfilling of the law." Yet now a c . il, jand indifferent, a sometime dissuaded law of mar- riage, must be forced upon us to fulfil, not only without charity, but against her. No place in Heaven or earth, except Hell, where charity may not enter : yet marriage, the ordinance of our solace and contentment, the remedy of our lone- liness, will not admit now either of charity or mercy, to come in and mediate, or pacify the fierce- ness of this gentle ordinance, the unremedied lone- liness of this remedy. Advise ye well, supreme senate, if charity be thus excluded and expulsed, how ye will defend the untainted honour of your own actions and proceedings. He who marries, intends as little to conspire his own ruin, as he that swears allegiance : and as a whole people is in proportion to an ill government, so is one man to an ill marriage. If they, against any authority, covenant, or statute, may by the sovereign edict of charity, save not only their lives, but honest liber- ties from unworthy bondage, as well may he against any private covenant, which he never entered to his mischief, redeem himself from unsupportable dis- turbances to honest peace, and just contentment : and much the rather, for that to resist the highest magistrate though tyrannizing, God never gave us express allowance, only he gave us reason, charity, nature, and good example to bear us out ; but in iO TO THE PARLIAMENT OF ENGLAND, this economical misfortune thus to demean our- selves, besides the warrant of those four great direc- tors, which doth as justly belong hither, we have an express law of God, and such a law, as whereof our Saviour with a solemn threat forbid the abrogating. For no effect of tyranny can sit more heavy on the commonwealth, than this household unhappiness on the family. And farewell all hope of true refor- mation in' the state, while such an evil as this lies undiscerned or unregarded in the house: on the redress whereof depends not only the spiritual and orderly hfe of our grown men, but the willing and careful education of our children. Let this there- fore be new examined, this tenure and freehold of mankind, this native and domestic charter given us by a greater lord than that Saxon king the con- fessor. Let the statutes of God be turned over, be scanned anew, and considered not altogether by the narrow intellectuals of quotationists and common places, but (as was the ancient right of councils) by men of what liberal profession soever, of eminent spirit and breeding, joined with a diffuse and various knowledge of divine and human things ; able to balance and define good and evil, right and wrong, throughout every state of life ; able to show us the ways of the Lord straight and faithful as they are, not full of cranks and contradictions, and pit-faUing dispenses, but with divine insight and benignity measured out to the proportion of each mind and spirit, each temper and disposition created so differ- ent each from other, and yet by the skill of wise TO THE PARLIAMENT OP ENGLAND. 11 conducting, all to become uniform in virtue. To expedite these knots, were worthy a learned and memorable synod ; while our enemies expect to see the expectation of the church tired out with depen- dencies and independencies how they will com- pound, and in what calends. Doubt not worthy seaators ! to vindicate the sacred honour and judg- ment of Moses your predecessor, from the shallow commenting of scholastics and canonists. Doubt not after him to reach out your steady hands to the mis-informed and wearied life of man ; to restore this his lost heritage, into the household state ; wherewith be sure that peace and love, the best subsistence of a Christian family, will return home from whence they are now banished : places of prostitution will be less haunted, the neighbour's bed less attempted, the yoke of prudent and manly discipline will be generally submitted to; sober and well ordered living will soon spring up in the commonwealth. Ye have an author great beyond exception, Moses ; and one yet greater, he who hedged in from abolishing every smallest jot and tittle of precious equity contained in that law, with a more accurate and lasting Masoreth, than either the synagogue of Ezra or the Galilaean school at Tiberias hath left us. Whatever else ye can enact, will scarce concern a third part of the British name: but the benefit and good of this your magnanimous example, will easily spread far beyond the banks of Tweed and the Norman isles. It would not be the first or second time, since our ancient. Druids. 13 TO THE PARLIAMENT OF ENGLAND. by whom this island was the cathedral of philosophy to France, left off their pagan rites, that England hath had this honour vouchsafed from Heaven, to give out reformation to the world. Who was it but our English Constantine that baptized the Roman empire ? Who but the Northumbrian Willibrode, and Winifride of Devon, with their followers, were the first apostles of Germany ? Who but Alcuin and Wickliff our countrymen opened the eyes of Europe, the one in arts, the other in religion ? Let not England forget her precedence of teaching nations how to live. Know, worthies ; and exercise the privilege of your honoured country. A greater title I here bring ye, than is either in the power or in the policy of Rome to give her Monarchs ; this glorious act will style ye the defenders of Charity. Nor is this yet the highest inscription that will adorn so religious and so holy a defence as this : behold here the pure and sacred law of God and his yet purer and more sacred name offering themselves to you, first of all Christian reformers to be acquitted from the long suffered ungodly attribute of patronizing adultery. Defer not to wipe off instantly these imputative blurs and stains cast by rude fancies upon the throne and beauty itself of inviolable holiness : lest some other people more devout and wise than we bereave us this offered immortal glory, our wonted prerogative, of being the first asserters in every great vindication. For me, as far as my part leads me, I have already my greatest gain, assurance and TO THE PARLIAxMENT OF ENGLAND. 13 inward satisfaction to have done in this nothing unworthy of an honest life, and studies well em- ployed. With what event, among the wise and right understanding handful of men, I am secure. But how among the drove of custom and prejudice this will be relished by such whose capacity, since their youth run a-head into the easy creek of a system or a medulla, sails there at will under the blown physiognomy of their unlaboured rudiments ; for them, what their taste will be, I have also surety sufficient, from the entire league that hath ever been between formal ignorance and grave obstinacy. Yet when I remember the little that our Saviour could prevail about this doctrine of charity against the crabbed textuists of his time, I make no wonder, but rest confident, that whoso prefers either matri- mony or other ordinance before the good of man and the plain exigence of charity, let him profess papist, or protestant, or what he will, he is no better than a pharisee, and understands not the gospel : whom as a mis-interpreter of Christ I openly pro- test against ; and provoke him to the trial of this truth before all the world : and let him bethink him withal how he will fodder up the shifting flaws of his ungirt permissions, his venial and unvenial dis- penses, wherewith the law of God pardoning and unpardoning hath been shamefully branded for want of heed in glossing, to have eluded and baffled out all faith and chastity from the marriage bed of that holy seed, with politic and judicial adulteries. I seek not to seduce the simple and illiterate ; my 14 to THE PARLIAMEJfT OF ENGLAN0. errand is to find out the choicest and the learnedest, who have this high gift of wisdom to answer sohdly, or to be convinced. I crave it from the piety, the learning, and the prudence . which is housed in this place. It might perhaps more fitly have been written in another tongue : and I had done so* but that the esteem I have of my country's judg- ment, and the love I bear to my native language to serve it first with what I endeavour, made me speak it thus, ere I assay the verdict of outlandish readers. And perhaps also here I might have ended name- less, but that the address of these lines chiefly to the Parliament of England might have seemed in- grateful not to acknowledge by whose religious care, unwearied watchfulness, courageous and heroic resolutions, I enjoy the peace and studious leisure to remain, The Honourer and Attendant of their noble Worth and Virtues, John Milton. THE DOCTRINE AND DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE; RESTORED TO THE GOOD OF BOTH SEXES. BOOK I. THE PREFACE. TTiat man is the occasion of his own miseries in most of those evils which he imputes to God's inflicting. The absurdity of our canonists in their decrees about di- vorce. The Christian imperial laws framed with more equity. The opinion of Hugo Grotius and Paulus Fagius : And the purpose in general of this discourse. Many men, whether it be their fate or fond opi- nion, easily persuade themselves, if God would but be pleased a while to withdraw his just punishments from us, and to restrain what power either the devil or any earthly enemy hath to work us wo, that, then man's nature would find immediate rest and releasement from all evils. But verily they who think so, if they be such as have a mind large enough to take into their thoughts a general survey of hu- man things, would soon prove themselves in that opinion far deceived. For though it were granted 16 THE DOCTRINE AND US by Divine indulgence to be exempt from all that can be harmful to us from without, yet the per- verseness of our folly is so bent, that we should never lin hammering out of our own hearts, as it were out of a flinty the seeds and sparkles of new misery to ourselves, till all were in a blaze again. And no marvel if out of our own hearts, for they are evil; but even out of those things which God meant us, either for a principal good, or a pure contentment, we are still hatching and contriving upon ourselves matter of continual sorrow and per- plexity. What greater good to man than that re- vealed rule, whereby God vouchsafes to show us how he would be worshipped ? And yet that not rightly understood became the cause, that once a famous man in Israel could not but oblige his con- science to be the sacrificer ; or if not, the gaoler of his innocent and only daughter : and was the cause ofttimes that armies of valiant men have given up their throats to a heathenish enemy on the sabbath day ; fondly thinking their defensive resistance to be as then a work unlawful. What thing more in- stituted to the solace and delight of man than mar- riage ? And yet the mis-interpreting of some Scrip- ture, directed mainly against the abusers of the law for divorce given by Moses, hath changed the bless- ing of matrimony not seldom into a familiar and co-inhabiting mischief; at least into a drooping and disconsolate household captivity, without refuge or redemption. So ungoverned and so wild a race doth superstition run us, from one extreme of abused DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 17 liberty into the otlier of unmerciful restraint. For although God in the first ordaining of marriage taught us to what end he did it, in words expressly implying the apt and cheerful conversation of man with woman, to comfort and refresh him against the evil of solitary life, not mentioning the purpose of generation till afterwards, as being but a secondary end in dignity, though not in necessity : yet now, if any two be but once handed in the church, and have tasted in any sort the nuptial bed, let them find themselves never so mistaken in their disposi- tions through any error, concealment, or misad- venture, that through their different tempers, thoughts, and constitutions, they can neither be to one another a remedy against loneliness, nor live in any union or contentment all their days ; yet they shall, so they be but found suitably weaponed to the least possibility of sensual enjoyment, be made, spightof antipathy, to fadge together, and combine as they may to their unspeakable wearisome- ness, and despair of all social delight in the ordi- nance which God established to that very end. What a calamity is this, and as the wise man, if he were alive, would sigh out in his own phrase, what a " sore evil is this under the sun !" All which we can refer justly to no other author than the canon law and her adherents, not consulting with charity, the interpreter and guide of our faith, but resting in the mere element of the text ; doubtless by the policy of the devil to make that gracious ordinance become unsupportable, that what with men not c \S THE DOCTRINE AND daring to venture upon wedlock, and what with men wearied out of it, all inordinate hcence might abound. It was for many ages that marriage lay in disgrace with most of the ancient doctors, as a work of the flesh, almost a defilement, wholly denied to priests, and the second time dissuaded to all, as he that reads Tertullian or Jerom may see at large. After- wards it was thought so sacramental, that no adul- tery or desertion could dissolve it ; and this is the sense of our canon courts in England to this day, but in no other reformed church else : yet there remains in them also a burden on it as heavy as the other two were disgraceful or superstitious, and of as much iniquity, crossing a law not only written by Moses, but charactered in us by nature, of more antiquity and deeper ground than marriage itself; which law is to force nothing against the faultless proprieties of nature, yet that this may be colour- ably be done, our Saviour's words touching divorce are, as it were, congealed into a stony rigour, inconsistent both with his doctrine and his office ; and that which he preached only to the conscience is by canonical tyranny snatched into the compul- sive censure of a judicial court ; where laws are imposed even against the venerable and secret power of nature's impression, to love, whatever cause be found to loath r which is a heinous bar- barism both against the honour of marriage, the dignity of man and his soul, the goodness of Chris- tianity, and all the human respects of civility. Notwithstanding that some the wisest and gravest DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 19 among the Christran emperors, who hatl about them, to consult with, those of the fathers their living; who for their learning and hohiiess of hfe are still with us in great renown, have made their statutes and edicts concerning this debate far more easy and relenting in many necessary eases, where- in the canon is inflexible. And Hugo Grotius, a man of these times, one of the best learned, seems not obscurely to adhere in his persuasion to the equity of those imperial decrees, in his notes upor^ the Evangelists ; much allaying the outward rough-^ ness of the text, which hath for the most part been too immoderately expounded ; and excites the dili- gence of others to inquire further into this question^ as containing many points that have not yet beei> explained. Which ever likely to remain intricate, and hopeless upon the suppositions commonly stuck to, the authority of Paulus Fagius, one so learned and so eminent in England once, if it might persuade, would straight acquaint us with a solution of these differences no less prudent than compen- dious. He, in his comment on the Pentateuch, doubted not to maintain that divorces might be as lawfully permitted by the magistrate to Christians, as they were to the Jews. But because he is but brief, and these things of great consequence not to be kept obscure, I shall conceive it nothing above my duty, either for the difficulty or the censure that may pass thereon, to communicate such thoughts as I also have had, and do offer them now in this general labour of reformat ion to the candid c 2 20 THE DOCTRINE AND view both of church and magistrate ; especially because I see it the hope of good men, that those irregular and unspiritual courts have spun their utmost date in this land, and some better course must now be constituted. This therefore shall be the task and period of this discourse to prove, First, that other reasons of divorce, besides adultery, were by the law of Moses, and are yet to be allowed by the Christian magistrate as a piece of justice, and that the words of Christ are not hereby contraried. Secondly, that to prohibit absolutely any divorce whatsoever, except those which Moses excepted, is against the reason of law ; — as in due place I shall show out of Fagius with many additions. He there- fore who by adventuring, shall be so happy as with success to light the way of such an expedient liberty and truth as this, shall restore the much wronged and over sorrowed state of matrimony, not only to those merciful and life giving remedies of Moses, but as much as may be, to that serene and blissful condition it was in at the beginning, and shall deserve of all apprehensive men, (considering the troubles and distempers, which, for want of this insight have been so oft in kingdoms, in states, and families) shall deserve to be reckoned among the public benefactors of civil and human life, above the inventors of wine and oil ; for this is a far dearer, far nobler, and more desirable cherishing to man's life, unworthily exposed to sadness and mistake, which he shall vindicate. Not that licence, and levily, and unconsented breach of faith should DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 21 herein be countenanced, but that some conscionable and tender pity might be had of those who have unwarily, in a thing they never practised before, made themselves the bondmen of a luckless and helpless matrimony. In which argument, he whose courage can serve him to give the first onset, must look for two several oppositions ; the one from those who having sworn themselves to long custom, and the letter of the text, will not go out of the road ; the other from those whose gross and vulgar apprehensions conceit but low t)f matrimo- nial purposes, and in the work of male and female think they have all. Nevertheless, it shall be here sought by due ways to be made appear, that those words of God in the institution, promising a meet help against loneliness, and those words of Christ, " that his yoke is easy, and his burden light,^* were not spoken in vain ; for if the knot of marriage may in no case be dissolved but for adultery, all the burdens and services of the law are not so intoler- able. This only is desired of them who are minded to judge hardly of thus maintaining, that they would be still, and hear all out, nor think it equal to answer deliberate reason with sudden heat and noise ; remembering this, that many truths now of reverend esteem and credit, had their birth and be- ginning once from singular and private thoughts, while the most of men were otherwise possessed ; and had the fate at first to be generally exploded and exclaimed on by many violent opposers : yet I may err perhaps in soothing myself, that this 22 THE DOCTRINE AND present truth revived will deserve on all hands to be not sinisterly received, in that it undertakes the cure of an inveterate disease crept into the best part of human society ; and to do this v^ith no smart- ing corrosive, but with a smooth and pleasing lesson, which received hath the virtue to soften and dispel rooted and knotty sorrows, and without enchant- ment, if that be feared, or spell used, hath regard at once both to serious pity and upright honesty ; that tends to the redeeming and restoring of none but such as are the object of compassion, having in an ill hour hampered themselves, to the utter dispatch of all their most beloved comforts and repose for this life's term. But if we shall obsti- nately dislike this new overture of unexpected ease and recovery, what remains but to deplore the frowardness of our hopeless condition, which neither can endure the estate we are in, nor admit of remedy eithersharp or sweet. Sharp we ourselves distaste; and sweet, under whose hands we are, is scrupled and suspected as too luscious. In such a posture Christ found the Jews, who were neither won with the austerity of John the Baptist, and thought it too much licence to follow freely the charming pipe of him who sounded and proclaimed liberty and relief to all distresses ; yet truth in some age or other will fmd her witness, and shall be justified at last by her own children o DISCIPLINE OF DIVOECE. 23 CHAP. I. « The position proved by the law of Moses. That law expound^ ed and asserted to a moral and charitable use, first by Paulus Fagius, next with other additions. To remove therefore, if it be possible, this great and sad oppression, which through the strictness of a literal interpreting hath invaded and disturbed the dearest and most peaceable estate of household society, to the overburdening, if not the overwhelm- ing of many christians better worth than to be deserted of the church's considerate care, this posi- tion shall be laid down, first proving, then answer- ing what may be objected either from scripture 04' light of reason. " That indisposition, uniitness, or contrariety of mind, arising from a cause in nature unchangeable, hindering, and ever likely to hinder, the main be- nefits of conjugal society, which are solace and peace ; is a greater reason of divorce than natural frigidity, especially if there be no children, and that there be mutual consent." This 1 g-ather from the law in Deut. xxiv. 1. ' When a man hath taken a wife and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her, let him write her a bill of divorcement, and ii THE DOCTRINE AMD give it in her hand, and send her out of his house/ &c. This law, if the words of Christ may be admitted into our belief, shall never while the world stands, for him be abrogated. First therefore I here set down what learned Fagius hath observed on this law ; " the law of God," saith he, " per- mitted divorce for the help of human weakness. For every one that of necessity separates, can- not live single. That Christ denied divorce to his own, hinders not ; for what is that to the unregene- rate, who hath not attained such perfection ? Let not the remedy be despised, which was given to weakness. And when Christ saith, who marries the divorced commits adultery, it is to be understood if he had any plot in the divorce.^* The rest I re- serve until it be disputed, how the magistrate is to do herein. From hence we may plainly discern a twofold consideration in this law : first, the end of the law-giver, and the proper act of the law, to com- mand or to allow something just and honest, or indifferent. Secondly, his sufferance from some accidental result of evil by this allowance, which the law cannot remedy. For if this law have no other end or act but only the allowance of sin though never to so good intention, that law is no law, but sin muffled in the robe of law, or law dis- guised in the loose garment of sin. Both which are too foul hypotheses, to save the phaenomenon of our Saviour's answer to the Pharisees about this DISCIPLINE OF PIVORCfi. 25 matter. And I trust anon by the help of an infal- lible guide, to perfect such Prutenic tables, as shall mend the astronomy of our wide expositors. The cause of divorce mentioned in the law is translated " some uncleanness,^^ but in the Hebrew it sounds " nakedness of aught, or any real naked- ness :" which by all the learned interpreters is re- ferred to the mind as well as to the body. And what greater nakedness or unfitness of mind than that which hinders ever the solace and peaceful so- ciety of the married couple ; and what hinders that more than the unfitness and defectiveness of an unconjugal mind ? The cause therefore of divorce expressed in the position cannot but agree with that described in the best and equallest sense of Moses's law. Which, being a matter of pure cha- rity, is plainly moral, and more now in force than ever ; therefore surely lawful. For if under the law such was God's gracious indulgence, as not to suffer the ordinance of his goodness and favour through any error to be feared and stigmatized upon his servants to their misery and thraldom; much less will he suffer it now under the covenant of grace, by abrogating his former grant of remedy and relief. But the first institution will be objected to have ordained marriage inseparable. To that a little patience until this first part have amply discoursed the grave and pious reasons of this divorcive law ; and then I doubt not but with one gentle stroke to wipe away ten thousand tears out of the life of man. Yet thus much 1 shall now insist on, that 26 THE DOC^TRINE AND whatever the institution were, it could not be so enormous, nor so rebeHious against both nature and reason, as to exalt itself above the end and person for whom it was instituted. CHAP. IL The Jirst reason of this law grounded on the prime reason of matrimony. That no covenant ichatsoever obliges against the main end both of itself, and of the parties covenanting. For all sense and equity reclaims, that any law 6r covenant, how solemn or straight soever, either between God and man, or man and man, though of God's joining, should oind against a prime and principal scope of its own institution, and of both or either party covenanting : neither can it be of force to engage a blameless creature to his own per- petual sorrow, mistaken for his expected solace, without suffering charity to step in and do a con- fessed good work of parting those, whom nothing bolds together but this of God's joining, falsely supposed against the express end of his own ordi- nance. And what his chief end was of creating woman to be joined with man, his own instituting words declare, and are infallible to inform us what is marriage, and what is no marriage ; unless we can think them set there to no purpose : ' it is not good,' saith he, ' that man should be alone, I will make him a help meet for him.' From which DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 27 words, so plain, less cannot be concluded, nor is by any learned interpreter, than that in God's intention a meet and happy conversation is the chiefest and the noblest end of marriage : for we find here no expression so necessarily implying carnal knowledge, as this prevention of loneliness to the mind and spirit of man. To this, Fagius, Calvin, Parens, Rivetns, as willingly and largely assent as can be wished. And indeed it is a greater blessing from God, more worthy so excellent a creature as man is, and a higher end to honour and sanctify the league of marriage, whenas the solace and satisfaction of the mind is regarded and provided for before the sensitive pleasing of the body. And with all gene- rous persons married thus it is, that where the mind and person pleases aptly, there some unaccomplish- ment of the body's delight may be better borne with, than when the mind hangs off in an unclosing disproportion, though the body be as it ought ; for there all corporeal delight will soon become unsa- voury and contemptible. And the solitariness of man, which God had namely and principally ordered to prevent by marriage, hath no remedy, but lies under a worse condition than the loneliest single life : for in single life the absence and remoteness of a helper might enure him to expect his own comforts out of himself, or to seek with hope ; but here the continual sight of his deluded thoughts, without cure, must needs be to him, if especially his complexion incline him to melancholy, a daily trouble and pain of loss, in some degree like that THB DOCTRINE AND which reprobates feel. Lest therefore so noble a creature as man should be shut up incurably under a worse evil by an easy mistake in that ordinance which God gave him to remedy a less evil, reaping to himself sorrow while he went to rid away soli- tariness, it cannot avoid to be concluded, that if the woman be naturally so of disposition, as will not help to remove, but help to increase that same God- forbidden loneliness, which will in time draw on with it a general discomfort and dejection of mind, not beseeming either Christian profession or moral conversation, unprofitable and dangerous to the commonwealth, when the household estate, out of which must flourish forth the vigour and spirit of all public enterprises, is so ill-contented and pro- cured at home, and cannot be supported ; such a marriage can be no marriage, whereto the most honest end is wanting : and the aggrieved person shall do more manly, to be extraordinary and sin- gular in claiming the due right whereof he is frus- trated, than to piece up his lost contentment by visiting the stews, or stepping to his neighbour's bed ; which is the common shift in this misfortune : or else by suffering his useful life to waste away, and be lost under a secret affliction of an uncon- scionable size to human strength. Against all which evils the mercy of this Mosaic law was graciously exhibited. DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCB. 29 CHAP. III. The ignorance and iniquity of canon law, providing for the right of the body in marriage, but nothing for the wrongs and grievances of the mind. An objection, that the mind should be better looked to before contract, answered. How vain therefore is it, and how preposterous in the canon law, to have made such careful pro- vision against the impediment of carnal perform- ance, and to have had no care about the unconvers- ing inability of mind so defective to the purest and most sacred end of matrimony ; and that the vessel of voluptuous enjoyment must be made good to him that has taken it upon trust, without any cau- tion ; whenas the mind, from whence must flow the acts of peace and love, a far more precious mixture than the quintessence of an excrement, though it be found never so deficient and unable to perform the best duty of marriage in a cheerful and agree- able conversation, shall be thought good enough, however flat and melancholious it be, and must serve, though to the eternal disturbance and lan- guishing of him that complains ! Yet wisdom and charity, weighing God^s own institution, would think that the pining of a sad spirit wedded to loneliness should deserve to be freed, as well as the impatience of a sensual desire so providently relieved. It is read to us in the Liturgy, that " we must not marry to satisfy the fleshly appetite, like brute beasts, that 30 THE DOCTRINE AND have no understanding :" but the canon so runs, as if it dreamed of no other matter than such an appe- tite to be satisfied ; for if it happen that nature hath stopped or extinguished the veins of sensuahty, that marriage is annulled. But though all the faculties of the understanding and conversing part after trial appear to be so ill and so aversely met through nature's unalterable working, as that neither peace, nor any sociable cor^tentment can follow, it is as nothing ; the contract shall stand as firm as ever, betide what will. What is this but secretly to instruct us, that however many grave reasons are pretended to the married life, yet that nothing indeed rs thought worth regard therein, but the pre- scribed satisfaction of an irrational heat ? Which cannot be but ignominious to the state of marriage, dishonourable to the under- valued soul of man, and even to christian doctrine itself: while it seems more moved at the disappointing of an impetuous nerve, than at the ingenuous grievance of a mind unrea- sonably yoked ; and to place more of marriage in the channel of concupiscence, than in the pure in- fluence of peace and love whereof the soul's lawful contentment is the only fountain. But some are ready to object, that the disposition ought seriously to be considered before. But let them know again, that for all the wariness can be used, it may yet befal a discreet man to be mis- taken in his choice, and we have plenty of exam- ples. The soberest a«d best governed men are least priictised in these affairs ; and who knows not that DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 31 the bashful muteness of a virgin may ofttimes hide all the unliveliness and natural sloth which is really unfit for conversation ; nor is there that freedom of access granted or presumed, as may suffice to a perfect discerning till too late ; and where any indisposition is suspected, what more usual than the persuasion of friends, that. acquaint- ance, as it increases, will amend all ? And lastly, it is not strange though many, who have spent their youth chastely, are in some things not so quick-sighted, while they haste too eagerly to light the nuptial torch ; nor is it therefore that for a mo- dest error a man should forfeit so great a happiness, and no charitable means to release him ; since they who have lived most loosely, by reason of their bold accustoming, prove most successful in their matches, because their wild affections unsettling at will, have been as so many divorces to teach them experience. When, as the sober man honouring the appear- ance of modesty, and hoping well of every social virtue under that veil, may easily chance to meet, if not with a body impenetrable, yet often with a mind to all other due conversation inaccessible, and to all the more estimable and superior purposes of matrimony useless and almost lifeless ; and what a solace, what a fit help such a consort would be through the whole life of a man, is less pain to con- jecture than to have experience. 38 THE DOCTRINE ANU CHAP. IV. The second reason of this law, because without it^ marriage at it happens oft is not a remedy of that which it promises, as any rational creature would expect* That marriage, if we pattern from the beginning, as our Saviour bids, was not properly the remedy of lust, but the fulfilling of conjugal love and helpfulness. And that we may further see what a violent cruel thing it is to force the continuing of those together, whom God and nature in the gentlest end of mar- riage never joined ; divers evils and extremities, that follow upon such a compulsion, shall here be set in view. Of evils, the first and greatest is, that hereby a most absurd and rash imputation is fixed upon God and his holy laws, of conniving and dispensing with open and common adultery among his chosen people ; a thing which the rankest politician would think it shame and disworship that his laws should countenance : how and in what manner that comes to pass I shall reserve till the course of method brings on the unfolding of many scriptures. Next, the law and gospel are hereby made liable to more than one contradiction, which I refer also thither. Lastly, the supreme dictate of charity is hereby many ways neglected and violated ; which I shall forth- with address to prove. First, we know St. Paul saith. It is better to marry than to burn. Marriage therefore was given as a remedy of that trouble ; but what might this burning mean ? Certainly not the mere motion of carnal lust, not the mere goad of DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 3S a sensitive desire : God does not principally take care for such cattle. What is it then but that desire which God put into Adam in Paradise, before he knew the sin of incontinence ; that desire which God saw it was not good that man should be left alone to burn in, the desire and longing to put off an unkindly solitariness by uniting another body, but not without a fit soul to his, in the cheerful society of wedlock ? Which if it were so needful before the fall, when man was much more perfect in himself, how much more is it needful now against all the sorrows and casualties of this life, to have an intimate and speaking help, a ready and reviving associate in marriage ? Whereof who misses, by chancing on a mute and spiritless piate, remains more alone than before, and in a burning less to be contained than that which is fleshly, and more to be considered ; as being more deeply rooted even in the faithless innocence of nature. As for that other burning, which is but as it were the ve- nom of a lusty and over-abounding concoction, strict life and labour, with the abatement of a full diet, may keep that low and obedient enough : but this pure and more inbred desire of joining to itself in conjugal fellowship a fit conversing soul (which desire is properly called love) " is stronger than death/' as the spouse of Christ thought ; " many waters cannot quench it, neither can the floods drown it." This is that rational burning that marriage is D B4 THE DOCTRINE AND to remedy, not to be allayed with fasting, nor with any penance to be subdued : which how can he assuage who by mishap hath met the most unmeet and unsuitable mind ? Who hath the power to struggle with an intelligible flame, not in Paradise to be resisted, become now more ardent by being failed of what in reason it looked for ; and even then most unquenched, when the importunity of a provender burning is well enough appeased ; and yet the soul hath obtained nothing of what it justly desires. Certainly such a one forbidden to divorce, is in effect forbidden to marry, and compelled to greater difficulties than in a single life ; for if there be not a more humane burning which marriage must satisfy, or else may be dissolved, than that of copulation, marriage cannot be honourable for the meet reducing and terminating lust between two : seeing many beasts in voluntary and chosen cou- ples live together as unadulterously, and are as truly married in that respect. But all ingenuous men will see that the dignity and blessing of marriage is placed rather in the mutual enjoyment of that which the wanting soul needfully seeks, than of that which the plenteous body would joyfully give away. Hence it is that Plato, in his festival dis- course, brings in Socrates relating what he feigned to have learned from the prophetess Diotima, how- Love was the son of Penury, begot of Plenty, in tJie garden of Jupiter. Which divinely sorts with DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. $5 that which in effect Moses tells us, that Love was the son of Loneliness, begot in Paradise by that sociable and helpful aptitude which God implanted between man and woman toward each other. The same also is that burning mentioned by St. Paul, whereof marriage ought to be the remedy : the flesh hath other mutual and easy curbs, which are in the power of any temperate man. When therefore this original and sinless penury, or loneliness of the soul, cannot lay itself down by the side of such a meet and acceptable union as God ordained in marriage, at least in some proportion, it cannot conceive and bring forth love, but remains utterly unmarried under a formal wedlock, and still burns in the proper meaning of St. Paul. Then enters Hate, not that hate that sins, but that which only is natural dis- satisfaction, and the turning aside from a mistaken object : if that mistake have done injury, it fails not to dismiss with recompence ; for to retain still, and not be able to love, is to heap up more injury. Thence this wise and pious law of dismission now defended, took beginning : he therefore who lack- ing of his due in the most native and humane end of marriage, thinks it better to part than to live sadly and injuriously to that cheerful covenant (for not to be beloved, and yet retained, is the greatest injury to a gentle spirit,) he, I say, who therefore seeks to part, is one who highly honours the married life and would not stain it : and the reasons which D 2 36 THE DOCTRINE AND now move hitn to divorce, are equal to the best of those that could first warrant him to marry ; for, as was plainly shown, both the hate which now diverts him, and the loneliness which leads him still powerfully to seek a fit help, hath not the least grain of a sin in it, if he be worthy to understand himself. CHAP. V. The third reason of this law, because without it, he who hat happened where he finds nothing but remediless offences and discontents, is in more and greater temptations than ever before. Thirdly ; Yet it is next to be feared, if he must be still bound without reason by a deaf rigour that when he perceives the just expectance of his mind defeated, he will begin even against law to cast about where he may find his satisfaction more complete, unless he be a thing heroically virtuous ; and that are not the common lump of men, for whom chiefly the laws ought to be made ; though not to their sins, yet to their unsinning weak- nesses, it being above their strength to endure the lonely estate, which while they shunned they are fallen into. And yet there follows upon this a worse temptation : for if he be such as hath spent his youth unblameably, and laid up his chiefest earthier comforts in the enjoyments of a cbntented DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 3^ marriage, nor did neglect that furtherance which was to be obtained therein by constant prayers; when he shall find himself bound fast to an un- complying discord of nature, or, as it oft happens, to an image of earth and phlegm, with whom he looked to be the co-partner of a sweet and gladsome society, and sees withal that his bondage is now inevitable ; though he be almost the strongest chris- tian, he will be ready to despair in virtue, and mutiny against Divine Providence : and this doubt- less is the reason of those lapses, and that melan- choly despair, which we see in many wedded per- sons, though they understand it not, or pretend other causes, because they know no remedy, and is of extreme danger : therefore when human frailty surcharged is at such a loss, charity ought to ven- ture much, and use bold physic, lest an overtossed faith endanger to shipwreck. CHAP. VI. The fourth renton of this latOy that God regards, hve and peace in the family , more than a compulsive performance of marriage, which is more broke by a grievous continuance, than by a needful divorce. Fourthly; Marriage is a covenant, the very being whereof consists not in a forced cohabitation, and counterfeit performance of duties, but in un- feigned love and peace : and of matrimonial love, SR THE DOCTRINE AND no doubt but that was chiefly meant, which by the ancient sages was thus parabled ; that Love,, if he be not twin-born yet hath a brother won- drous hke him, called Anteros ; whom while he seeks all about, his chance is to meet with many false and feigning desires, that wander siiigly up and down in his likeness ; by them in their bar.? , rowed garb, Love, though not wholly blind, as poets wrong him, yet having but one eye, as being born an archer aiming, and that eye not the quickest in this dark region here below, which is not Love's proper sphere, partly out of the simplicity and CFe- duhty which is native to him, often deceived, emr braces and consorts him with these obvious and suborned striplings, as if they were his mother's own sons ; for so he thinks them, while they sub- tilly keep themselves most on his blind side. But after a while, as his manner, when soaring up into the high tower of his Apogaeum, above the shadow of the earth, he darts out of the direct rays of his then most piercing eye-sight upon the impostures, and trim disguises, that were used with him, and discerns that this is not his genuine brother as he imagined; he has no longer the power to hold fellowship with such a personated mate; for straight his arrows lose their golden heads, and shed their purple feathers, his silken braids untwine, and slip their knots, and that original and fiery virtue given him by fate all on a sudden goes out, and leaves DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 39 him undeified and despoiled of all his force ; till finding Anteros at last, he kindles and repairs the almost faded ammunition of his deity by the reflec- tion of a co-equal and homogeneal fire. Thus mine author sung it to me : and by the leave of those who would be counted the only grave ones, this is no mere amatorious novel, (though to be wise and skilful in these matters men heretofore of greatest name in virtue have esteemed it one of the highest arcs that human contemplation circling upwards can make from the globy sea whereon she stands :) but this is a deep and serious verity, showing us that love in marriage cannot live nor subsist unless it be mutual ; and where love cannot be, there can be left of wedlock nothing but the empty husk of an out- side matrimony, as undelightful and unpleasing to God as any other kind of hypocrisy. So far is his command from tying men to the observance of du- ties which there is no help for, but they must be dissembled . I f Solomon's advice be not over-frolic, " live joyfully,'' saith he, " with the wife whom thou lovest, all thy days, for that is thy portion.'^ How then, where we find it impossible to rejoice or to love, can we obey this precept ? How miserably do we . defraud ourselves of that comfortable portion, which God gives us, by striving vainly to glue an error to- gether, which God and nature will not join, adding but more vexation and violence to that bhssful so- ciety by our importunate superstition, that will not 40 THE DOCTRINE AND hearken to St. Paul, I Cor.vii. who, speaking of marri- age and divorce, determines plain enough in general, that God therein " hath called us to peace, and not to bondage." Yea, God himself commands in his law more than once, and by his Prophet Malachi, as Calvin and the best translations read, that " he who hates, let him divorce,'^ that is, he who cannot love. Hence it is that the rabbins, and Maimonides fa- mous among the rest in a book of his set forth by Buxtorfius, tells us, that " divorce was permitted by Moses to preserve peace in marriage, and quiet in the family." Surely the Jews had their saving peace about them as well as we, yet care was taken that this wholesome provision for household peace should also be allowed them : and this must be denied to chris- tians ? O perverseness ! that the law should be made more provident of peace-making than the gospel I that the gospel should be put to beg a most necessary help of mercy from the law, but must not have it ; and that to grind in the mill of an undelighted and servile copulation, must be the only forced work of a christian marriage, oft times with such a yoke- fellow, from whom both love and peace, both na- ture and religion mourns to be separated. I can- not therefore be so diffident, as not securely to conclude, that he who can receive nothing of the most important helps in marriage, being thereby disenabled to return that duty which is his, with a clear and hearty countenance, and thus continues DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 41 to grieve whom he would not, and is no less grieved ; that man ought even for love's sake and peace to move divorce upon good and liberal con- ditions to the divorced. And it is less a breach of wedlock to part with wise and quiet consent betimes, than still to foil and prophane that mys- tery of joy and union with a polluting sadness and perpetual distemper : for it is not the outward con- tinuing of marriage that keeps whole that cove- nant, but whatsoever does most according to peace and love, whether in marriage or in divorce, he it is that breaks marriage least ; it being so often written, that " Love only is the fulfiUing of every commandment." CHAP. VII. Theffth reason, that nothing more hinders and disturbs the whole life of a christian^ than a matrimony found to be in- curably unfit, and doth the same in effect that an idolatrous match. Fifthly ; As those priests of old were not to be long in sorrow, or if they were, they could not rightly execute their function ; so every true chris- tian in a higher order of priesthood is a person dedicate to joy and peace, offering himself a lively sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving, and there is no christian duty that is not to be seasoned and set off with cheerishness ; which in a thousand outward 4t% THE DOCTRINE AND and intermitting crosses may yet be done well, as in this vale of tears : but in such a bosom afflic- tion as this, crushing the very foundation of his inmost nature, when he shall be forced to love against a possibility, and to use a dissimulation against his soul in the perpetual and ceaseless duties of a husband ; doubtless his whole duty of serving God must needs be blurred and tainted with a sad unpreparedness and dejection of spirit wherein God has no delight. Who sees not therefore how much more Christianity it would be to break by divorce, that which is more broken by undue and forcible keeping, rather than " to cover the altar of the Lord with continual tears, so that he regardeth not the offering any more,^^ rather than that the whole worship of a christian man's life should languish and fade away beneath the weight of an immeasur- able grief and discouragement ? And because some think the children of a second matrimony succeed- ing a divorce would not be a holy seed, it hindered not the Jews from being so ; and why should we not think them more holy than the offspring of a former ill-twisted wedlock, begotten only out of a bestial necessity, without any true love or content-! ment, or joy to their parents? So that in some sense we may call them the " children of wrath" and anguish, which will as little conduce to their sanctifying, as if they had been bastards : for nothing more than disturbance of mind suspends us from approaching to God ; such a disturbance especially, as both assaults our feith and trust i^ DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 43 God's providence, and ends, if there be not a mira- cle of virtue on either side, not only in bitterness and wrath, the canker of devotion, but in a des- perate and vicious carelessness, when he sees him- self, without fault of his, trained by a deceitful bait into a snare of misery^ betrayed by an alluring ordinance, and then made the thrall of heaviness and discomfort by an undivorcing law of God, as he erroneously thinks, but of man's iniquity, as the truth is : for that God prefers the free and cheerful worship of a christian, before the grievance and exacted observance of an unhappy marriage, besides that the general maxims of religion assure us, will be more manifest by drawing a parallel argument from the ground of divorcing an idolatress, which was, lest he should alienate his heart from the true worship of God : and what difference is^ there whether she pervert him to superstition by her enticing sorcery, or disenable him in the whole service of God through the disturbance of her unhelpful and unfit society ; and so drive him at last, through murmuring and despair, to thoughts' of atheism ? Neither doth it lessen the cause of separating, in that the one wilhngly allures him from the faiths the other perhaps unwillingly drives him ; for in the account of God it comes all to one, that the wife loosea him a servant : and therefore by all the united force of the Decalogue she ought to be disbanded, unless we must set marriage above God and Charity, which is the doctrine of devils, no less than forbidding to marry. i 44 THE DOCTRINE ANB CHAP. VIII. That an idolatrous heretic ought to he divorced, after a coit' venient space given to hope of conversion. That place of 1 Cor. vii. restored from a twofold erroneous exposition; and that the common expositors flatly contradict the moral law. And here by the way, to illustrate the whole ques- tion of divorce, ere this treatise end, I shall not be loth to spend a few lines in hope to give a full re- solve of that which is yet so much controverted ; whether an idolatrous heretic ought to be divorced. To the resolving whereof we must first know, that the Jews were commanded to divorce an unbelieving Gentile for two causes : First, because all other na- tions, especially the Canaanites, were to them un- clean. Secondly, to avoid seducement. That other nations were to the Jews impure, even to the sepa- rating of marriage, will appear out of Exod. xxxiv. 16. Deut. vii. 3, (), compared with Ezra ix. 2. also chap. X. 10, II. Nehem. xiii. 30. This was the ground of that doubt raised among the Corinthians by some of the circumsicion ; whether an unbeliever were not still to be counted an unclean thing, so as that they ought to divorce from such a person. This doubt of theirs, St. Paul removes by an evangelical reason, having respect to that vision of St. Peter, wherein the distinction of clean an unclean being abolished, all living creatures were sanctified to a pure and Christian use, and mankind especially, DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 4& now invited by a general call to the covenant of grace. Therefore saith St. Paul, " The unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband ;" that is, made pure and lawful to his use, so that he need not put her away for fear lest her unbelief should defile him ; but that if he found her love still towards him, he might rather hope to win her. The second reason of that divorce was to avoid seducement, as is proved by comparing those two places of the law to that which Ezra and Nehemiah did by divine warrant in compelling the Jews to forego their wives. And this reason is moral and perpetual in the rule of Christian faith without evasion ; therefore saith the apostle, 2 Cor. vi. "Misyoke not together with in- fidels,'* which is interpreted of marriage in the first place. And although the former legal pollution be now done off, yet there is a spiritual contagion in idolatry as much to be shunned ; and though seduce- ment were not to be feared, yet where there is no hope of converting, there always ought to be a cer- tain religious aversation and abhorring, which can no way sort with marriage : Therefore saith St. Paul, *' What fellowship hath righteousness with unrighte- ousness ? What communion hath light with dark- ness ? What concord hath Christ with Belial ? What part hath he that believeth with an infidel ?" And in the next verse but one he moralizes, and makes us liable to that command of Isaiah ; " Wherefore, come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord ; touch not the unclean thing, and 1 will receive ye." And this command thus gospel- 46 THE DOCTRINE AND lized to us, hath the same force with that whereon Ezra grounded the pious necessity of divorcing. Neither had he other commission for what he did, than such a general command in Deut. as this, nay not so direct ; for he is bid there not to marry, but not bid to divorce, and yet we see with what a zeal and confidence he was the author of a general divorce between the faithful and unfaithful seed. The gos- pel is more plainly on his side, according to three of the Evangelists, than the words of the law; for where the case of divorce is handled with such seve- rity, as was fittest to aggravate the fault of unbounded licence ; yet still in the same chapter, when it comes into question afterwards, whether any civil respect, or natural relation which is dearest, may be our plea to divide, or hinder or but delay our duty to religion, we hear it determined that father, and mother, and wife also, is not only to be hated, but forsaken, if we mean to inherit the great reward there promised. Nor will it suffice to be put oflP by saying we must forsake them only by not consenting or not com- plying with them, for that were to be done, and roundly too, though being of the same faith they should but seek out of a fleshly tenderness to weaken our Christian fortitude with worldly persuasions, or but to unsettle our constancy with timorous and softening suggestions ; as we may read with what a vehemence Job, the patientest of men rejected the desperate counsels of his wife ; and Moses, the meekest, being thoroughly offended with the pro- phane speeches of Zippora, sent her back to her DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 47 father. But if they shall perpetually, at our elbow, seduce us from the true worship of God, or defik and daily scandalize our conscience by their hope- less continuance in misbelief; then even in the due progress of reason, and that ever equal proportion which justice proceeds by, it cannot be imagined that this cited place commands less than a total and final separation from such an adherent ; at least that no force should be used to keep them together: while we remember that God commanded Abraham to send away his irreligious wife and her son for the offences which they gave in a pious family. And it may be guessed that David for the like cause disposed of Michal in such a sort, as little differed from a dismission. Therefore against reite- rated scandals and seducements, which never cease, much more can no other remedy or retirement be found but absolute departure. For what kind of matrimony can that remain to be, what one duty between such can be performed as it should be from the heart, when their thoughts and spirits fly asunder as far as Heaven from Hell ; especially if the time that Hope should send forth her expected blossoms, be past in vain ? It will easily be true, that a father or a brother may be hated zealously, and loved civilly or naturally ; for those duties may be per- formed at distance, and do admit of any long absence : biit how the peace and perpetual co- habitation of marriage can be kept, how that bene- 48 THE DOCTRINE ANU volent and intimate communion of body can be held with one that must be hated with a most ope- rative hatred, must be forsaken and yet continually dwelt with and accompanied ; he who can distin- guish, hath the gift of an affection very oddly divided and contrived : while others both just and wise, and Solomon among the rest, if they may not hate and forsake as Moses enjoins, and the gospel imports, will find it impossible not to love other- wise than will sort with the love of God, whose jealousy brooks no corrival. And whether is more likely, that Christ bidding to forsake wife for reli- gion, meant it by divorce as Moses meant it, whose law, grounded on moral reason, was both his office and his essence to maintain ; or that he should bring a new morality into religon, not only new, but con- trary to an unchangeable command, and danger- ously derogating from our love and worship of God ? As if when Moses had bid divorce absolutely, and Christ had said, hate and forsake, and his Apostle had said, no communication with Christ and Belial ; yet that Christ after all this could be understood to say, divorce not, no not for religion, seduce, or seduce not. What mighty and invisible remora is this in matrimony, able to demur and to contemn all the divorcive engines in Heaven or earth ! both which may now pass away, if this be true, for more than many jots or tittles, a whole moral law is abo- lished. But if we dare believe it is not, then in DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 49 the tnetliod of religion, aod to save the honour and dignity of our faith, we are to retreat and gather up ourselves from the observance of an inferior and civil ordinance to the strict maintaining of a general and religious command, which is written, ' Thou shalt make no covenant with them,' Deut. vii. 2, 3 : and that covenant which cannot be lawfully made, we have directions and examples lawfully to dissolve. Also 2 Chron. ii. 19, ' Shouldest thou love them that hate the Lord V No, doutless : for there is a certain scale of duties, there is a certain hierarchy of upper and lower commands, which for want of study- ing in right order, all the world is in confusion. Upon these principles I answer, that a right be- liever ought to divorce an idolatrous heretic, unless upon better hopes ; however, that it is in the be* liever's choice to divorce or not. The former part will be manifest thus first, that an apostate idolater, whether husband or wife seducing, was to die by the decree of God, Deut. xiii; 6, 9 ; that marriage therefore God himself disjoins : for others born idolaters, the moral reason of their dan- gerous keeping, and the incommunicable antagony that is between Christ and Belial, will be sufficient to enforce the commandment of those two inspired reformers Ezra and Nehemiah, to put an idolater away as well under the gospel. The latter part, that although there be no seduce-* ment feared, yet if there be no hope given, the E 60 THE DOCTRINE AND divorce is lawful, will appear by this ; that idolatrous marriage is still hateful to God, therefore still it may- be divorced by the pattern of that warrant that Ezra had, and by the same everlasting reason : Neither can any man give an account wherefore, if those wfcom God joins no man can separate, it should not foUow, that whom he joins not, but hates to join, those men ought to separate. But saith the lawyer, " That which ought not to have been done, once done, avails/^ I answer, " this is but a crotchet of the law, but that brought against it is plain Scrip- ture." As for what Christ spake concerning divorce, it is confessed by all knowing men, he meant only between them of the same faith. But what shall we say then to St. Paul, who seems to bid us not divorce an infidel willing to stay ? We may safely say thus, that wrong collections have been hitherto made out of those words by modern divines. His drift, as was heard before, is plain ; not to command our stay in marriage with an infidel, that had been a flat renouncing of the religious and moral law ; but to inform the Cornithians, that the body of an unbe- liever was not defihng, if his desire to live in Christian wedlock showed any hkelihood that his heart was opening to the faith ; and therefore advises to forbear departure so long till nothing have been neglected to set forward a conversion : this I say he advises, and that with certain cautions, not commands, if we can take up so much credit for him, as to get him DISCIPLINE OF DIVOfiCE. ol believed upon Iiis own word : for what is this else but his counsel in a thing indifferent, " to the rest speak I, not the Lord ?'^ for though it be true, that tlie Lord never spake it, yet from St. Paul's mouth we should have took it as a command, had not him- self forewarned us, and disclaimed ; which notwith- standing if we shall still avouch to be a command, he palpably denying it, this is not to expound St. Paul, but to outface him. Neither doth it follow, that the Apostle may interpose his judgment in a case of Christian liberty, without the guilt of adding to God^s word. How do we know marriage or sin- gle life to be of choice, but by such like words as these, *'I speak this by permission, not of command- ment ; I have no command of the Lord, yet I give ttiy judgment." Why shall not the like words hare leave to signify a freedom in this our present ques- tion, though Beza deny? Neither is the Scripture hereby less inspired, because St. Paul confesses to have written there in what he bad not of com- mand ! for we grant that the spirit of God led him thus to express himself to Christian prudence, in a matter which God thought best to leave uncom- manded. Beza therefore must be warily read, when he taxes St. Austin of blasphemy, for holding that St. Paul spake here as of a thing indifferent. But if it must be a command, I shall yet the more evince it to be a command that we should herein be left free ; and that out of the Greek word used in tlie E 2 62- THE DOCTRINE AN0 12 ver. which instructs us plainly, there must be s joint assent and good liking on both sides : he that will not deprave the text must thus render it ; " If a brother have an unbelieving wife, and she join in consent to dwelt with him ^^ (which cannot utter less to us than a mutual agreement) let him not put her away from the mere surmise of judaical un- cleanness : and the reason follows, for the body of an infidel is not polluted, neither to benevolence, nor to procreation. Moreover, this note of mutual complacency forbids all offer of seducement, which to a person of zeal cannot be attempted without o^reat offence : if therefore seducement be feared, this place hinders not divorce. Another caution was put in this supposed command, of not bringing the believer into ' bondage ' hereby, which doubt- less might prove extreme, if Christian liberty and conscience were left to the humour of a pagan slaying at pleasure to play with, and to vex and wound with a thousand scandals and burdens, above strength to bear : If therefore the conceived hope of gaining a soul come to nothing, the.n charity commands that the believer be not wearied out with endless waiting under many grievances sore to his spirit ; but that respect be had rather to ' the present suffering of a true Christian, than the uncertain winning of an obdurate heretic. The counsel we have from St. Paul to hope, cannot countermand the moral and evangelic charge we DISCIPLINE OF DIVORCE. 58 have from God to fear seducement, to separate from the misbeliever, the unclean, the obdurate. The Apostle wisheth us to hope, but does not send us a wool-gathering after vain hope ; he saith, *' How knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife ?" that is, till he try all due means, and set some reasonable time to himself, after which he may give over washing an Ethiop, if he will hear the advice of the gospel ; " Cast not pearls before swine/' saith Christ himself. " Let him be to thee as a heathen. Shake the dust off thy feet." If this be not enough, " hate and forsake" what rela- tion soever. And this also that follows must ap- pertain to the precept, " Let every man wherein he is called, therein abide with God," v. 24, that is, so walking in his inferior calling of marriage, as not by dangerous subjection to that ordinance to hinder and disturb the higher calling of his Chris- tianity. Last, and never too oft remembered, whether this be a command, or an advice, we must look that it be so understood as not to contradict the least point of moral religion that God hath formerly commanded ; otherwise what do we but set the moral la\V and the gospel at civil war toge- ther ? and who then shall be able to serve these two masters ! 94 TUB BOCTHIVE AND €HAP. IX. That adultery is- not the greatest breach of matrimony : that there may be other violations as great. Now whether idolatry or adultery be the greatest violation of marriage, i£ a»ay