REGULATIONS ARLINGTON-STREET CHURCH LIBRARIES. I. Books can be taken out, or be returned, at the close of the morn- ing-service on each Sunday; and from the Juvenile Library also at the close of the Sunday School. II. No one may lake more than two volumes at the same time; nor may any volume from the Juvenile Library be kept more than two weeks, or from the Parish Library more than four weeks, unless re-entered with the Librarian. III. Every book, either taken out or returned, must be first entered on the Librarian's record. IV. No books can be taken out by those who have not returned or accounted for books already charged against their names, or who have not replaced ouch as they may have lost. V. Any one defacing or injuring a book will be debarred from the privilege of taking out books till the volume so damaged shall be repaired or replaced. VI. Books taken from the shelves should be returned to the place? where they belong. Attention to the III. and VI. rules will prevent much trouble and loss. UBRAJU - S2R8Q. The Boy and the Man. l':^ ->. THE BOY AND THE MAN; EDWARD CLEAYELAND, " A good nae ia rather to be chosen than great riches." Frov. xxii. 1. " Light is sown for the righteous, and gladness for the upright in heart" P. xcviL IL BITTEN FOB THE MASSACHUSETTS SABBATH SCHOOL 8OCIETT, AJTb AFFECTED BY TEX COMMITTEE OF PUBLICATION. BOSTON: MASSACHUSETTS SABBATH SCHOOL SOCIETY, Depository, No. 13 CornliilL Entered, according to Act of Congress, m the year WOO, By M. U. SAKUENT, TKEASURER, In the Clerk's Office of the District Court of Massachusetts THE BOY AND THE MAN. CHAPTER I. HIS EARLY HOME. ]p the reader has taken up this little voli'mc with the expectation of finding here an account of one of those "per- fect children" of whom we hear so much paid, and of whom we so often read, he will be entirely disappointed. It is the intention of the writer, very simply, but truthfully, to sketch some ol the incidents in the life, and give some delineation of the character of one who was known and loved by hundreds of youthful hearts, while living, and whose 4 THE BOY AND THE MAN. memory is fondly and sacredly cherished. And this is done, not merely to beguile an hour of time, but with the wish and earnest prayer that the perusal of these pages may incite the youthful reader to elevate the standard of daily action, and stimulate the mind and soul to more noble and lofty aspirations. As mutual friends let us familiarly *race together these " footprints on the sands of time," and may the labor prove i f a pleasant one, and in the most exalted sense profitable. We will first go to the early home of Edward Clcaveland. It is situated in one of those retired and quiet New England towns, undistin- guished in the annals of fame, and with few if any peculiarities to distinguish it from many sister towns. It is true that at one time the town of THE BOY AND THE MAN. H. was pronounced 4< the banner town of the banner county of the banner State of the Union," for the number of its sons who had gone forth to preach the gospel of peace, and declare great tidings of great joy. But the just occasion for this en- comium passed away during the earlier years of Edward Cleaveland's life. The inhabitants lived in a plain and simple manner, possessing little wealth, but with a good degree of intelligence, and there were among them many worthy examples of devoted piety. They were emphati- cally a church-going community, and for a long series of years all worshipped in the same sanctuary. The soil was but moderately productive, and the scenery diversified with rocks and hills, fertile meadows, and sterile, sandy plains, but every lover of nature could here find much 1* THE BOY AND THE MAN. to encourage and gratify a taste for the beautiful. But it is not with the inhabitants that we have much to do, only as all sur- rounding circumstances exert an influence in the formation of character. Like most retired farming townships in New England, the youthful enterprise of EL seeks a wider field in which to expand, in some more productive portion of our vast country. Possessing few advantages for business, its population, both as re- gards numbers and wealth, has already decreased, and probably will continue to do so in future years. But let us not tarry longer before visiting the birth- place and early home of our youthful friend. It is a quiet, unpretending farm-house, with little in its external appearance to attract the observation of a stranger. THE BOY AND THE MAN. \ But like many another humble home, It is one arom;d which in future years the treasured memories of loving hearts will cling with tendrils strong and enduring as life itself. At the mention of our "early home," what a tide of emotion will flow over the soul from the deep, broad ocean of the past, hiding from our view all the realities of the present. We will first take a survey of the es- terior of the house and its surroundings^ and afterwards, if you please, we will 30 in and make the acquaintance of Mr. Clcaveland, and his fajiily, for he is a pleasant, genial man, and always courteous and hospitable to strangers. Just across the street, and directly opposite the house, is a green hill-side, and midway up the slope a row of trem bliiig poplars, with one beautiful black walnut. On the brow of the hill are a 8 THE BOY AND THE MAN. few peach-trees, whose delicious fruit in autumn gladdens the mouths, if not the hearts, of our juvenile friends at the base of the hill. If we stand a few moments on the summit of this hill, we can almost at a glance take a view of the immediate premises, and the more distant scenery. The first object which claims our atten- tion is a tall, majestic, and graceful elm, which is the pride of all the household, and elicits the just admiration of every beholder. The erect, strong trunk sup- ports with easy dignity the far-spreading branches, towering high above all sur- rounding objects. But it is not alone for its beauty that these good people love this tree, but more especially because it was planted here, when a tender sapling, by the hand of a revered ancestor, and for his sake is a cherished treasure. It was the same hand that reclaimed thes9 THE BOY AND THE MAN. fertile lands from the native wilderness. And it was he also who planted the butter- nut close by^the elm, which yearly furnishes bethels of nuts for youthful hands to crack. In the yard are the indispensable lilies, also damask and the real old-fashioned, fragrant white rose. Along the garden * fence are lilac bushes, currants, raspber- ries, and caraway, with a mingling of sweet primroses. And then come peach-trees, and cherry-trees, and the pleasant gree^ meadow in the rear of the house. And there are apple-trees, bearing luscious pound-royals, seek-no-furthers, round-hoops, and many others, bearing femiliar but a>ore local names. Away to the east of us a few miles, rising against the clear blue sky, stand those twin mountains between whose bases flow the deep waters of the beautiful! Connecticut. A little further to the left 10 THE BOY AND THE MAN. you can catch a glimpse of College Hill, with its far-famed halls of learning. Here and there may be seen a spire glittering in the sunlight, telling us that in this lonely valley the God of nature and of grace is acknowledged and worshipped as the only living and true God. At the back of us are cultivated fields, green pastures, deep forests, and wood-capped hills. And is there nothing in all this varied scene to inspire the youthful mind with an appreciating love and admiration for the beautiful works of tne great Creator? TLese rocks and hills also teach important lessons to the thoughtful nvjad. And here the hidden germ of high- toned, well-directed enthusiasm may spring up and expand, until, in after years, it shall yield choice fruits, and scatter far %nd wide the golden seeds of coble effort, THE BOY AND THE MAX. 11 pure and elevating principles, and the influence of a manly, Christian life. And now we will descend the hill, and enter the house. It is substantially built, after the approved style of the last cen- tury, although it has been remodelled and enlarged at a later date. It is almost entirely sheltered by the protecting branches of the elm, where some of the feathered songsters hang their tiny nests. The house in front has two large square rooms, and a small entry between, with stairs leading to the chambers, the kitchen, pantry, bedroom, and all et ceteras in the rear. There are no tokens of luxury, for we are not to find wealth, or its accompaniments, here, but simp 1 !- city, frugality, and comfort. Mr. and Mrs. Cleavcland are just in the prime of life, with three dear children, two bright, active boys, and a curly-haired little girl. 12 THE BOY AND THE MAN. Edward was the oldest of the three, then George, and Susan the youngest. Mr. Cleaveland is a tall, thin, pale-look- ing gentleman, for his health was always delicate, but he has a fine, dark, thoughtful eye, glossy hair, and an open, pleasant countenance which at once attracts you. His manner is easy and cordial, and there is about him a true native politeness which makes every one feel at home in his presence. He is intelligent and agreeable, and in conversational powers excels most men in his circumstances. His mind is of a superior order, and if he could have enjoyed firm health and greater educa- tional advantages in early life he would have been a man of mark in almost any profession he might have chosen to pursue. As it is, he is known, beloved, and respect- ed by a large circle of friends at home and abroad. Mrs. Cleaveland is a tall, pleasant- THE BOY AND THE MAN. 13 looking lady, and it has been slyly whis- pered in our ear that in her girlhood she was rather beautiful , but whether this be true or false we care but little ; for well has the wise man declared that " Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman that fcareth the Lord, she shall be praised" Mrjs. 0. is a woman of sterling worth, mentally, morally, and socially. T*-aly, and in a broad sense of the passage, " she looketh well to the ways of her house- hold, and eateth not the bread of idle- ness." "And her children will rise up and call her blessed." As we follow Edward in his upward path, we shall often find occasion to notice the influence of early training, and the power of parental precept and example ; and, for this reason, we give greater prominence to these home influences. ID what has been said of this husband and 14 THE BOY AND THE MAN. wife, this father and mother, the most important feature of their character has been scarcely mentioned. Their piety their whole-souled, warm-hearted, active, Bible piety was the corner-stone, the supporting pillar, and the crowning beauty of all this structure. In early life they found the blessed Saviour very precious to their souls, and publicly consecrated themselves to him and his service forever. Each is one of a large family, the child of praying parents, who long ago made a holy covenant with their God, like Joshua of old, promising that, "As for us and our house, we will serve the Lord." Unitedly, these families number sixteen children who reached mature years, and all but one have had their names enrolled with the church on earth, some of whom, we hope, are ;ow with the church in heaven. What richer legacy can a parent be. THE BOY AND THE MAN. 15 qucath to a child than the golden treasure of pious teaching, coupled with a beauti- fully consistent Christian life ? None, surely ; for its price is far above rubies, and more precious than the most costly stones; ''Rather to be desired than gold; yea, than much fine gold." Youthful parents, seek not to lay up for yourselves or your children the treasures of this world, but for yourselves and the precious immortals given you by God, " Seek first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness, and all these things shall be added." These blessed words were the rule oi action for Mr. an4 Mrs. Clcaveland, when they assumed the responsibilities of the united head of a household. Morning and evening the voice of grateful, fervent prayer arises from this family altar. These children have been early consecrated to God by public baptism in his house, and 6 THE BOY AND THE MAN. in the inner chambers of these parents hearts, where none but the eye of Omnis- cience looked upon the offering; but, well pleased, he saw and accepted the sacrifice, even as he has promised. And early they are taught to lisp their evening prayers before they lay their infant forms to rest, and after the morning devotions of the family, these three little ones together kneel, and whisper in the ear that ever listens to the cry of the young. The Tes- tament is one of the first books they are taught to read, and their young minds arc early stored with precious Bible truths which in after years may be of unspeak- able service to them. And here, too, we may see family discipline such as we admire, but so often fail to behold. It is not rigid and severe, but kind, mild, ana affectionate, yet firm and unwavering. An obedience ready and cheerful is required THE BOY AND THE MAN. 17 and expected. The parents' word is not to be trifled with, and no threats are made except such as are designed to be exe- cuted. We would not imply that these- children are always perfectly well-behaved, models of excellence, to such an extent as to cause apprehension that they "will not live long:, for they are too good for earth." Not a bit of all this, for they are very much like other children, subject to like faults and foibles, but they are taught to love, honor, and obey their parents. The will of the child is to yield to the judg- ment of the parents, and the conquest is always on the right side. The rod is seldom used, but, whenever it is necessary, the parents remember and practise the precept of the wise man, so often repeated in his proverbs. We do not hesitate to declare that this wholesome discipline, this farrily government, will be a source of joy 2* 18 THE BOY AND THE MAN", and gratitude to these children so long as they live, and they will regard it as one of the greatest blessings a kind Provi- dence could bestow. Have we lingered too long on these preliminaries, and arc you weary of the theme ? Pardon me, then, but it is some- times both pleasant and instructive to trace the relation between cause and effect, and this is one great reason for dwelling thus long around this hearthstone. The home of the child, most generally speak- ing, is the mould in which the character is cast, and eternity will alone reveal the true importance of home influence. There arc exceptions, we know, where noble characters have arisen from miserable, wretched families, but they are the excep- tions. CHAPTER II. HIS BOYHOOD. As we have seen, Edward was tLc eldest of these children. He was a tall and rather slender boy, with fair complexion, dark brown hair, and eyes which were very large and expressive, of a dark blue color, and when animated, as he often was, they darkened and expanded until a casual observer would almost pronounce them black. He was an active child, and seldom still for a moment, unless he had a book in his hand which interested him, and then he was oblivious to all surround- ing sights or sounds. His disposition was affectionate, but cannot be described aa 20 THE BOY AND THE MAN. mild and gentle, but rather as impulsive and impetuous, which led him to do and say many things which a moment's re- flection would have prevented. His move- ments were quick as thought, and he seemed to be a real lover of mischief, and thoughtless of consequences. But, as his kind mother so often said, "Edward does not mean any harm," and, truly, it was only the outgushiog of an ardent active nature, which must have exercise in some way. He loved fun and frolic, and wanted something " going on " constantly, and, though his feelings were kind and tender, he did not always stop to think, and in an instant obeyed the first impulse of his mind. In this way he grieved his more gentle and cautious brother George, who often checked him in his sport. As an example of this, I will give a trifling inci- THE BOY AND THE MAN. 21 dcut that a lady who witnessed it loves often to relate as an illustration of the Iwo brothers. In returning from school . x ne day they spied two beautiful little Bellow birds, perched upon a bush by the oaiteide. Quick as thought Edward picked jp a stone and threw into the bush, just for the fun of peeing the timid birds fly away, and then another stone was thrown to make them fly again, and so he con- tinued to annoy them, George begging him all the time to desist, for he was afraid he would hurt the poor frightened birds. At last the tears began to flow, and, in a beseeching tone, George called out to him, " Edward, I do wish you would come away and let those yellow birds alone." So Edward left them, say- ing, "Why, George, it don't hurt them any." You would ahao&t lhi^s. } to see Edward 22 THE BOY AND THE MAN. sometimes, and watch his varied move- ments, that ho had only studied one pas- sage of Scripture, and intended to obey that literally, viz : " Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might." At school he was behind none in his classes, and in the playground he was first of the band. When he was at work, for he was early obliged to bear his part in the work of the farm, he was as active as in his play. He was, from earliest boyhood, very fond of fishing, and would often say to his brother, when a certain portion of work had been assigned them, " Come, George, let us hurry and finish our task, so that we can go fishing;" and then he would put forth all his strength and energy to complete the labor, and enjoy his favorite sport. When Edward was eight years old his grandparents came to live in the home beneath the old elm. THE BOY AND THE MAN. 23 Old Mrs. Cleaveland was in feeble health, being afflicted with that fatal disease, con- sumption. Ilcr appetite was" very delicate, and a little nicely cooked trout, fresh from the brook, would often be most grateful to her taste ; and Edward would always de- light to catch the shining beauties, and, although very fond of eating them himself, it afforded him much more pleasure to give them to his grandmother. He was not quite ten years old when she died, but many a trout had been caught for her by Edward, with his hook and line. There is one feature in the training of these boys which I would not omit to mention. It was the invariable custom for them, during the two long vacations of school, one in spring and the other in autumn, to spend two hours each day in reading. A fixed hour was assigned for the morning, and another for the afternoon. When the 24 THE BOY AND THE MAN. appointed time arrived, their good mother would call them from their play to engage in reading. A part of this time was always devoted to perusing the Holy Bible, so that before they were ten years old, each had read the whole, both Old and New Testament, entirely through by course several times. This was not regarded by them as a tiresome requirement, but was a present pleasure, and of inestimable benefit to them in after life, and through them to others. After Edward was ten years old he never attended school in the summer, as his services were needed on the farm, but previously to that time, after he was three years of age, he was generally in school from eight to ten months of the year. He read the New Testament through in course before he was five, though he was never regarded as a precocious child, and, in this THE BOY AND THE MAN. 25 matter of reading, did not surpass the younger children. He always loved the Sabbath school, and nearly all his life was, in some capacity, connected with it. In his early boyhood one custom pre- vailed which has long since passed away. Though it is regarded by many as an altogether absurd practice, yet we know there are not a few who love to look back upon it as a time-hallowed custom of theii childhood, and feel truly grateful that they were ever, we might almost say, forced to engage in it. This was the study and reci- tal of the Assembly's Shorter Catechism. There are many children, I fancy, who have pondered over that word Shorter, totally unable to satisfy themselves what it signified. It would not be easy for a child to comprehend the possibility of a longer Catechism, or one more difficult to commit and recite verbatim, for it is not 3 26 THE BOY AND THE MAN. peculiarly adapted to infant minds. But it has been felt to be a real treasure in after-life, by many who sighed over it when children. In the family of Mr. Cleaveland, as in many pious New Eng- land families, it was a regular Sabbath afternoon exercise to hear the children recite a small portion from the primer, which had been committed during the pre- vious week ; and it was, also, the closing exercise of each week in the district ^t school. This latter custom, in particular, could not be reasonably observed at the present day, for there is in every commu- nity such a variety of religious sentiment, that such doctrinal teaching could not be tolerated. But, at that time, it might almost be said of the good people in the town of II., that, in religious matters, they were " of one heart and one mind." There were but very few exceptions for THE BOY AND THE MAN. 27 many years, though now, as in most towns, there is a diversity of opinion upon reli- gious subjects. There was a vacation in the Sabbath Bchool every spring, of a few weeks, before the summer organization took place, and during this interval the children and youth were expected to recite the Catechism in church. The good minister, Mr. G., was a kind friend to all the little folks, and knew every child in his parish by name. He would give notice on one Sabbath that on the next he should question the chil- dren in the Catechism as far as "Effectual Calling;" and such studying of primers as there would be then, by the little girls and boys; for it was a great mortification to make a mistake, and each one was called upon in turn. At the appointed time the children would take their places in the middle aisle, the smaller ones stand 28 THE BOY AND THE MAN. ing in front of the " Deacon's seat," that they might answer the first questions, which were more simple and easy to remember, and then the line of bright faces would extend, on either side of the aisle, almost to the door. The grand- mothers would often take a position in the square pews behind the children, that they might gently prompt the faltering. Mr. G. would then commence by asking the little one at the head of the row, "What is the chief end of man?" If the answer was correctly given he would encourage the trembling child by a word of approbation, aad pass on. Each little heart would beat more quickly as their turn drew nigh, and, unless they were very confident of a perfect recitation, a relief was manifestly felt when the answer had been given. Not a word was allowed to be either omitted or misplaced, and the THE BOY AND THE MAN. 29 articulation must be clear and distinct, to elicit unqualified approval from the good pastor; and to obtain this was the am- bitious desire of every one. Edward Cleavcland's voice would sound forth loud and clear ; for he knew his lesson per- fectly, and was not afraid to speak. He was not a bold boy, neither was he fool- ishly timid ; and when he was called upon to speak, he did not hang down his head, as if ashamed to look up, but, with a sparkling eye and glowing face, he would look his pastor or teacher full in the face, and answer so that all iu the house could hear, and the approving words, "That's right, my boy," were reward enough. This exercise was repeated for three or four Sabbaths every spring, and the whole Catechism was thus yearly recited, and its influence on those youthful minds and 3* 30 THE BOY AND THE MAN. hearts did not pass away when the custo.Ti ceased to be observed, but still lives. We have seen Edward's love of reading, but we would not forget that the facilities for gratifying this taste were much less twenty-five or thirty years ago than at the present day, when " of making books there is no end." The " Youth's Companion " was a constant visitor at Mr. Cleaveland's from its first i.-sue until the children could no longer be counted as such. Its weekly visit was hailed with delight, and its con- tents eagerly read by all the family. The Sabbath School Library did not then afford as great variety of juvenile books as now, but Edward was intensely interested in many volumes which were not altogether adapted to the minds of most children Not that he was a precocious boy, but intelligent, and very fond of reading. There was a social library in the town THE BOY AXD THE MAN. 31 of II., from which all the members, on a given day, once in two months, could draw a limited number of volumes. Mr. Clcavc- land owned a share in this library, but, as the library room was some two or three miles from his librae, and his health was never firm, he could seldom be present at the meetings of the society, which were always held in the evening; but as soon as Edward was old enough, he was almost always there to obtain his share of the books. If for any reason he could not ride, he much preferred walking the two and a half miles, and home again, to the loss of his reading; and then every leisure moment was employed over his books. The hour after dinner, which, in all ordi- nary cases, was allowed for rest and recreation, before returning to the labors of the field, was not often spent in play while he had an unread book. If L, 32 THE BOY AND THE MAN. returned from work five minutes before the meal .was ready, his book was in his hand, and not unfrequently would he bring it to the table, to improve the moment after the blessing was invoked, before his turn came to be helped. If he had en- joyed as much opportunity for reading as many boys of his age now do, I hardly think he would have been quite excusable for taking his book to the table with him, for that is not the most suitable place for reading. But we do not feel inclined to censure him for it. He loved history exceedingly, and books of travels in foreign lands were very attractive to his mind. He had a keen sense of the ridiculous, and possessed a taste for the marvellous, but not to excess, and in his reading it was never indulged to any great extent. He read very rapidly, though he grasped the whole. His memory was both ready and THE BOY AND THE MAN. 33 retentive ; his perceptive faculties quick and strong; and his eyes and cars were always open to learn something new. He would know the " why and wherefore " of everything, and often annoyed and puzzled his elders by incessant questions, upon nearly every conceivable subject. Of read- ing or hearing stories he would never tire, and his large, prominent blue eyes would expand and sparkle, and his whole counte- nance glow with earnestness, as he read, or listened with almost breathless atten- tion. In the winter months Edward was al- ways in school ; for several years at the district school, and afterwards at the academy in his native town. He always boarded at home and walked to school, although the academy was two and a half miles distant. But he cared not for the distance, if he could only enjoy the privi- S4 THE EOY AND THE MAN. Icgc of attending school. He was not a mere " bookworm," although he had a strong desire for knowledge; but he was as ready to enter earnestly into the sports of his playmates, as to engage in his studies in the schoolroom. His thoughts, time, and energy were given, with a right good will, to the occupation before him, whether it was a difficult problem in mathematics, a chapter of history, a les- son in chemistry, or a game of ball on the green. He delighted in experiments in natural philosophy and chemistry, and no study or science was regarded by him as dull or tedious. In the debating club he took an active and prominent part, and in declamation he excelled most of his fellows ; for he had a deep, full voice, and he entered into the spirit of the words he uttered. CHAPTER III. IMPAIRED HEALTH | FIRST EFFORTS IN TEACHING. As I have said, Edward was earr/ obliged to assist in the labor of the farm, and both himself and his brother were accustomed to work more constantly and faithfully than most boys of their age. They were generally well, but tall and slender, and less robust than many; still they were as regularly in the field as most men. Mr. Cleaveland, Edward's father, was never strong, and for many years seldom able to be much in the field. But the good old grandfather lived with them, and 36 THE BOY AND THE MAN. was for years their almost constant com- panion in labor. He was a godly man, a faithful and active servant of his divine Master ; ho lived honored and respected by all who knew him, and died universally lamented, at the age of nearly fourscore years. It was a necessary consequence of his own early life and habits, that he should have but a limited degree of sym- pathy with the boyish sports dud wild fancies of his grandsons. In reality, he was never a boy himself, but a man from childhood, and his patience was often taxed by the thoughtlessness of his grand- children, particularly of Edward. For in the field Edward's tongue often kept equal pace with his hands, and sometimes he would quite forget himself, or his work, and the hoc, the rake, or the axe, would be idle in his hand, while his thoughts were busy with some stirring scene in the THE BOY AND THE MAN. 37 revolution, or following Robinson Crusoe, on his lonely island; or, perchance, he was asking how, or why, or when, and where such and such things were done. He was often careless, too, and, in his rapid movements, his clothes were not unfrequently soiled or torn needlessly, and sometimes he would wound himself, when a little caution on his part would easily have prevented it. Several times in his boyhood he was so much injured by using an axe or scythe with too little care as to be disabled for weeks. Edward was very sorry to be laid aside from work, for Iw knew that his services were always needed, as his father did not possess adequate pecuniary means to hire help continually, although they had a hired man part of the year. But these weeks of lameness were not lost to Edward, for they afforded him a fine opportunity to read, and were dili- 38 THE BOY AND THE MAN. gently improved; and he also was fur- nished with an opportunity to cultivate the grace of patience, and this enabled him in after years to endure constant pain with cheerfulness, to such a degree that a looker-on would not suspect that he suf- fered at all. I believe our kind and wise heavenly Father had a merciful design in all these events, trifling though they may appear; but "with the Omniscient' there are no such things as trifles." All have a bearing in accomplishing the infinite plan. If I have spoken of faults and defects in the early character, it is because I wish to speak truthfully, for they really existed, and also to exhibit the success of his eflorts to overcome them. When we sec another, who has been enabled by con- stant striving, aided by promised strength from above, to conquer defects of temper THh BOY AND TflE MAN 39 or of habit, it may encourage us to re- double our own watchfulness and prayer- fulness in the attempt to overcome some besetting sin in ourselves. When Edward was sixteen his grand- father was called home to his eternal rest, as a shock of corn gathered in its season, fully ripe. He left to his children and his children's children the legacy of pious counsels, fervent prayers, and a holy life, and, although he " rests from his labors," yet ' his works do follow him." And now a still larger share of labor and responsibility devolved upon Edward and George, Mr. Cleaveland being often only able to advise with them, although at times he could give them the encourage- ment and assistance of his actual presence. The brothers still continued to attend school during the winter, at the same time discharging the daily labors of a farmer 40 THE BOY AND THE MAN. in winter, with but little extra hired help. Both Mr. and Mrs. Cleaveland possessed rational and practical views of the relative importance of wealth and mental and moral culture. They regarded frugality and in- dustry as Christian virtues, and ever prac- tised them as such, and not merely because their circumstances seemed to require it. They felt it both a duty and privilege to provide a competence for their family, so far as was possible in consistency with duties of a more strictly moral nature. Their first care and anxiety was for the spiritual welfare of their children, and to see them active, useful members of the shurch of Christ. And next to this, and partly blended with it, was the earnest wish to give them all the advantages for mental cultivation which could consistently be allowed. THE BOY AND THE MAN. 41 To accomplish this object they gladly and contentedly denied themselves com- forts and conveniences which they might otherwise have enjoyed. They wanted to see them well-disciplined, intelligent, be- Aevolent Christians, with correct, en- larged views of their relations and obliga- tions to God, and also of their duties and privileges as social beings. The almost incessant labors to which Edward had so long devoted himself, at a time when his physical system was rapidly developing, proved too severe a tax upon his strength. He had a good degree of ambition, unusual energy and perseverance, with an undaunted will. As he advanced in years, his desire for knowledge waxed stronger and stronger still, and, as a student, he became more and more dili- gent, and all his energy was directed, for the time, to the one object of acquiring 4* 42 THE BOY AND THE MAN. the knowledge for which he thirsted. I do not mean by this that he did not care for, or engage in anything else, for he was still the same active, ambitious youth, away from his books. One day, nearly the last term of his school days, he was spending a part of the intermission in pretty lively exercise, rim- ning a race with some of his fellows. He determined not to be outrun, and did n< stop to reflect upon the possible conse- quences of over-exertion, for his ambition was roused. He continued to run, with all the ardor of his nature, until a sudden pain in his side compelled him to relin- quish the race. It was many years after this before that side was free from pain for a single moment; and this one incident, probably, had a powerful influence in de- ciding the course of his after life. It was not this single exertion alone, but a com- THE BOY AND THE MAN. 43 bination of circumstances, and this added to them was the deciding weight in the scale. It was not very apparent at first, but, as time passed on, it became evident that he would be obliged to seek some occupation less laborious than that of a farmer. He longed for a collegiate educa- tion, but this seemed impracticable. Mr. Cleaveland, with his feeble health, had not the pecuniary ability to justify such a course, and Edward had not the physica' strength to warrant the attempt to supply the necessary funds himself. It was noi without a severe and oft-repeated struggle with his own heart, that he could cheer- fully relinquish this ardent wish, and he had not yet learned meekly to say, " Thy will be done." He first turned his thoughts to the avo- cation of a teacher, but with no well- defined plan for the future, only to meet 44 THE BOY AND THE MAM. the emergency of the present, and there- fore sought some district school for the winter. He had reached his twentieth year when he first entered upon the duties of com- mon school teacher, in a retired district, in a neighboring town. His school num- bered not more than twenty scholars, but he could find enough to employ his time and energy in the discipline and instruc- tion of even twenty pupils, varying in age from four to seventeen years. Good order, ready obedience, and thorough recitations, were with him the fundamental rules of teaching. He wished to witness the im- provement of the youthful minds commit- ted to his care, and he knew this would be secured only by the united efforts of both teacher and scholar. He had been a boy himself, and had often suffered from the well-intended but injudicious discipline of 1HE BOY AND THE MAN. 45 his ir <: tructors, and he resolved to profit by past experience. The term passed pleasantly and profitably to both teacher and scholars, and the result gave gratifying evidence that Edward possessed ability and adaptation to instruct youthful minds successfully. The succeeding summer was spent at home, upon the farm, so far as his strength would allow him to labor. In the autumn his services as teacher were sought and obtained for a village school in another adjoining town. This was a larger, and, in many respects, a much more difficult school, than the one of the previous win- ter. There were some strong-willed boys, and, possibly, girls too, who had never learned the beauty of ready submission to a parent's command at home, and, of course, would not cheerfully submit to a teacher's rules at school. 4:6 THE BOY AND THE MAN. But the contest was neither long nor severe, for a few instances of wholesome discipline established beyond a question the supremacy of the teacher. After a little time, a glance fro.n those expressive eyes was, in most cases, all that was required to secure obedience. But he never ruled with " a rod of iron," for there are very few who so entirely win the hearts of pupils as did Edward Clcave- land. He gave *them his sympathy, and manifested a true interest in their highest welfare and improvement, arid in this way secured for himself their most perfect con- fidence. It was then the custom in nearly all districts for the teacher to "board around," and, although this practice is on the whole very undesirable, yet it is not entirely des- titute of advantage to all parties. In the homes of jhe children he became a favorite THE BOY AND THE MAN. 47 with both parents and children. And so the winter wore away, giving mutual satis- faction to the employed and the employers. His name is still remembered by many of those pupils and their parents, as that of a beloved, faithful, and successful teacher. But his labors were suddenly terminated in this school, before the expiration of his engagement, by an event which will be mentioned in our next chapter. CHAPTER IV. A SCENE OP SUFFERING AND SORROW. RE- LIGIOUS IMPRESSIONS. A DARK cloud was hovering over the home and family of Mr. Cleaveland, the details of which may, possibly, seem un- called for in this little volume, but it is so intimately connected with the religious life and experience of Edward, that I think it can scarcely be deemed out of place. I have thus far said almost nothing of the religious character of Edward, for I preferred rather to give it a place by itself, up to this period, although hereafter it will be as a part and parcel of his every day. Although Edward was always a dili THE BOY AND THE MAN. 49 gent reader of the Bible, a lover of the Sabbath school, a constant and attentive listener in the sanctuary, and a conscien- tious, truthful, and strictly moral boy and youth, yet he had reached his majority before his heart was brought to a personal knowledge of salvation through the blood of a crucified Saviour, and the sanctifying influences of the blessed Spirit. "When he was about eighteen years of age, there was a season of special religious interest in the town of H., and some of Edward's young associates were hopefully renewed. Edward was for a time much interested for his own salvation, and for a little season hoped that he had tasted the joys of the penitent, pardoned soul; but he subse- quently relinquished this hope, although I think he was never indifferent to the de- mands of this all-important subject. I have often spoken of the feeble health 5 50 THE BOY AND THE MAN. of Mr. Clcaveland, and for many years he was a victim of pulmonary consumption. Slowly, bat steadily and surely, it was wearing his life away, and for nearly two years previous to the time I have men- tioned, he was unable to do any labor, or attend much to business. It was not until the last six or seven weeks of Mr. Cleave- land's life, that cither himself or family was fully convinced that his stay with them must be short. They had become so much accustomed to the constant cough, the pale, thin form, the sunken cheek, and faltering step, that they scarcely noted the progress of the destroyer. Some closed their eyes to the actual truth, though sometimes reason would show them the falsity of their hopes. It was not because Mr. C. feared to die, or that he shrunk from pass- ing the dark valley, for he felt there was prepared for him a crown of life, which THE BOY AND THE MAN. 51 the Lord would give him at the last day, for the sake of Jesus, in whom he had long trusted for salvation. But he loved and enjoyed life as the gift of God, and he loved the service of his Master, while it was his pleasure to prolong his stay on earth. He was deeply interested in all the great moral and religious movements of the day, thoroughly imbued with a self- sacrificing spirit of Christian benevolence, and earnestly devoted to the interests of the Redeemer's kingdom. For many years he was a successful and laborious superin- tendent of the Sabbath school, and at other times, whenever health would per- mit, an efficient teacher in tne same blessed institution. As an officer of the church he was long beloved and respected. As a citizen he was known and honored for clearness of intellect, sound judgment, and integrity of character. But the work 52 THE BOY AND THE MAN. which now remained for him to accomplish in honor of his God and Saviour, was a work of patient suffering. It is not an easy thing for the heart, in sincerity, to say " Thy will, God, be done," but My grace," says the Holy One, "shall be suffi- cient for thee." On the first Sabbath of the new year, in the winter of which I have spoken, Mr. Cleaveland enjoyed the privilege of com- memorating a dying Saviour's love, with his fellow Christians, and it was the last time he ever entered the house of God. It was a precious season to his soul, and perhaps the more so because for many mouths he. had been seldom alile to enter the sanctuary that he loved so well. Although very feeble, he felt an almost irresistible desire to speak once more to the beloved Sabbath school. Most kindly and affectionately he spoke a few words THE BOY AND THE MAN. 53 of loving admonition, and then he spoke pleasantly and cheerfully of death, as of going home, after a long and weary ab- sence. To the child of God death was but the entrance to his Father's house, an eter- nal home of happiness and joy, where the treasures of his heart would be enjoyed forever. He alluded to the physical suffering that might be experienced before we could enter those shining portals, and said, " If we had been absent a long time from our home, and the dearest ones of our hearts, and we were about returning to this beloved place, to dwell with the joyous circle who would there welcome us with delight, would not our hearts be filled with pleasant anticipations ? If some one should tell us that just before we reached this home we should step upon a thorn, that would pierce our foot and cause us 5* 54 THE BOY AND THE MAN. momentary pain, would it lessen our joyful hope, or darken our bright anticipations ? No, we should -scarcely give it a passing thought. And the pains of death are only as a little thorn in our way to our heav- enly home, where we shall live forever before the throne." It was no ordinary thorn on which he was called to tread as he neared his Jerusalem home, but he leaned upon the arm of Jesus, the Great Physician, and he bound up each wound with the holy oint- ment of Christian patience, and cheered every pain with the light of his loving countenance. It was a pleasant diversion for Mr. Cleaveland, in his retirement and debility, to watch the changes of the weather, as indicated by the thermometer ; and it was his custom, on first rising in the morning, to step out upon the piazza and look at THE BOY AND THE MAN. 55 the little instrument. One morning, soon after the sacred season to which I have referred, when the dampness of a winter fog had frozen upon the floor, he stepped out, as usual, on to the piazza, cautiously, as ho thought, to avoid the ice, but at the iirst step from the threshold his foot slipped, and he fell violently upon the floor. There was no apparent local injury, but the severe shock to his general system was more than his feeble frame could endure, and he never recovered from it; and from that hour his strength wasted, and his sufferings became intense. For two or three weeks he continued to take his meals with the family^ as usual, and to lead the devotions at the family altar ; but the cough was more and more troublesome, and the difficulty of breathing was, at times, distressing, until, at length, he could leave his room no more. And 56 THE BOY AND THE MAN". that sick-room was a place where God made rich and glorious displays of his power and loving -kindness. There was manifested the sweet submission of a stricken child, and the holy joy of the dying believer. The heart of that wife and mother was sorely trijd as she saw the loved com- panion of her youth about to leave her, but she bowed her will to the Supreme. In bitter tears would she ask herself, " Who will take his place at the family altar? Who will offer the morning and evening sacrifice ? " For as yet the in- cense of humble, penitent prayer went not up from the heart of one of her three children. And must the sacrifice hence- forth be offered by a priestess in this household, which, from generation to gen- eration, had enjoyed the ministry of God's chosen servants ? Yes, surely, rather than THE BOY AND THE MAtf. 57 that the altar be destroyed. But is not the covenant " to them and to their chil- dren?" But we will turn to that sacred room again. That pious father believed in God, and knew in whom he had believed. No doubts of acceptance dimmed the bright- ness of his spiritual vision. Not for him- self had he one anxiety, but he remembered perishing souls around him, and the loved church to which he belonged, and earnestly in faith did he pray that the Spirit might descend with mighty power, to arouse slumbering Christians, and bring multi- tudes of the impenitent to the feet of Jesus. He did not forget his own beloved children, yet he seemed to have taken them in the arms of faith and laid them upon God's altar, with an almost perfect trust that the Lord would accept the offering. He said and truly felt that the souls of 58 THE BOY AND THE MAN/ his children were no more precious than the souls of any others. Was it that the father was wholly swallowed up in the Christian, that he seemed to feel as deeply for other sinners as for his own children ? If so, we have good reason to believe that it was well pleasing to God. For days and weeks the watchers by that couch of severe suffering looked almost hourly for the release of the fet- tered spirit, and for himself his prayer was that he might have grace to wait and suffer God's appointed time. It was to minister to the comfort of his dying father that Edward left his school before the close of the term, and, though a mournful one, it was a precious privi- lege to all who were allowed to witness the cheerful trust of the believer. Al- though it caused the bravest hearts to ,iuail, as they saw the contest between THE BOY AND THE MAN. 59 nature and the destroying foe, yet many friends felt that it was good to be there, and not a few precious souls will praise God through eternity for the sanctified lessons of those weeks. Some three weeks before his final de- parture, as the family were for a brief hour left alone, Mr. Cleaveland, feeling that his breath might cease at any moment, desired to take leave of the dear circle. They gathered around his bed, and, while tears which could not be repressed flowed from all other eyes, with eyes that were to weep no more, and a calm and cheerful smile, he gave to each the parting hand, and breathed the word farewell ; and then with a few feebly uttered but earnest words, he commended himself and his precious family to his Saviour's care, and prayed that " we may all meet, a happy family, in heaven." But weeks of weari- THE BOY AND THE MAN. ness and pain were assigned to him before the crown of victory could be given him, all of which were borne without one mur- muring word. At one time he said, " This is a dark cloud of suffering which is now hanging over us, but there is a bright cloud of glory behind it." On a bright and beau- tiful Sabbath morning he said, with a smile, "This is a beautiful world; it is God's world ; but I had hoped to be in a better world this morning." It was with great difficulty that he could converse at all, and was only able to speak a few words at intervals; but the few words of gentle admonition, patient submission, or of glo- rious hope, were as good seed sown and watered by the Holy Spirit, which took root in the hearts of those around him, and afterwards, as we believe, brought THE BOY AND THE MAN. 61 forth fruit to the glory of God in tiie salvation of immortal souls. One morning when his daughter, who was an invalid, entered the room, giving her his hand, he said, with a face radiant with a smile which told of perfect peace, though panting for breath, " Good morning, I am glad to see you looking better to- day ;" then added, most impressively, " I want you should give your heart to Jesus." Her only reply was a silent pressure of the thin, white hand she held, but from that moment she felt that her wprd was sacredly pledged to that dying father, who was almost the idol of her heart, to " seek first the kingdom of God and his righto ousness." And while this cloud of suffering was hanging over our friends, a great cloud of mercy was hovering over this portion of Zion, and before Mr. Cleaveland closed 62 THE BOY AND THE MAN. his eyes in his last sleep, he had the sweet pleasure of knowing that the Spirit of God was moving the hearts of the impeni- tent around him, and that many were turning to the Lord. It would almost seem that his life had been unexpectedly prolonged, that he might witness on earth the answer to his long-continued, earnest prayers for a blessing. But he did not live to hear the song of praise for pardoning mercy from the lips of his own children, though we hope it was not long before he rejoiced, in com- pany with the angels in heaven, over those repenting souls. And, finally, the day arrived when this ransomed soul exchanged its frail, ema- ciated tenement of clay for a " mansion not made with hands, eternal in the heavens." He was almost the first to notice the signs of immediate dissolution, THE BOY AND THE MAN. 63 and each hour he watched the progress of death. But death came to him only as a welcome friend, and he felt no fear, for he leaned upon the arm of his Beloved. When his sight was wholly obscured, and he knew his release was very near, he called for his family, and, one by one, they received the last kiss from those icy lips, and heard his last farewell. Then, quietly folding his hands upon his breast, he breathed the words, " Come, Lord Jesus, come quickly." " Into thy hands I commit my spirit." These were his last words. Short and shorter was each breath, each pulse more feeble, until the heart ceased to beat, and he was free. And he went not " as one lies down to pleasant dreams," but as one enters on unspeakably bright and sure realities. It was at evening, just as the last red light was fading from the sky of early spring, 64 THE BOY AND THE MAN. that this ransomed spirit was borne to the courts of the New Jerusalem, to be robed in spotless white, and with the heavenly choir to sing the praises of the Lamb that was slain, to ^o no more out forever. "AND THERE SHALL BE NO NIGHT THERE." And two days after, while the clouds dropped rain, and tears flowed from many eyes, they bore his sacred form to its last silent resting-place, and beside the open grave they sang that beautiful hymn com- mencing, "Unveil th7 bosom, faithful tomb," and heard those blessed words, " I am the resurrection and the life." And there l hey laid him, to await the trump of the last great day, and left him alone with his God. And there vre, too, will leave him, and return to the lonely home, and to our friend Edward; but let us carry with THE BOY AND THE MAN. 65 us from this scene a hallowed influence for good. And now all offices of love and atten- tion were at an end for the loved one who had so long engrossed the thoughts and time of this family circle, and it only remained for them to make a wise and spiritual improvement of this dispensation, and the lessons it so forcibly taught them. For one short week that afflicted moth- er's voice was heard amid her tears, plead- ing importunately from that altar, whose priest had been raised to a more exalted service, that these afflictions might be sanctified to them all by the blessing of the gracious Spirit. All felt that now was the time to seek the Lord, that this was, indeed, a day of grace. The mercy-drops were falling around them; meetings for conference and prayer were solemn and impressive, and preaching services deeply 66 THE BOY AND THE MAN. interesting. But to the hearts of those three children the still small voice from that sick-room was most intensely power- ful. Their education had been eminently religious, and this they now saw and felt increased their guilt in the sight of a righteous God. They knew there was none other name or way than that of the blessed Jesus and his blood, by which they could hope for salvation, and each silently resolved to rest not until they should find peace beside the cross of Calvary. A sol- emn stillness pervaded the house : little was said; but the Spirit was working pow- erfully and effectively in each heart. A few days after the death of Mr. Cleaveland, as Edward was present at a little meeting for social prayer, the forty- second psalm, most beautifully commencing, " As the hart pantcth after the water brooks, so panteth my soul after thee, ( 5 THE BOY AND THE MAN. 67 God ; my soul tlrirsteth for God, for the living God," was read. While he listened intently to those words, he felt them to be the earnest utterance of his own longing soul. And God was not far from that troubled sinner, but very near, even in his heart. It was then that the glorious Sun of Righteousness dawned, with a healing light, upon his sin-sick soul. There he laid his burden down beside the cross, and calmly raised his trusting eyes to the beanwng face of a crucified and forgiving Saviour, and, with humble confidence, said with the Psalmist, " Why art thou cast down, my soul? why art thou disquieted in me ? Hope thou in God, for I shall yet praise him who is the health of my countenance and nay God." In just one week after the remains of the father were consigned to their kindred dust, Edward knelt beside that family 68 THE BOY AND THE MAN. altar, and breathed forth the prayer of his contrite and believing soul; and ero another week had passed, his brother George had a new song put into his mouth, and he was ready to bear his part in the ministrations of the altar; and from that time, while both remained at home, these brothers alternated morning and evening in the performance of this beautiful and delightful household duty. In less than two weeks from the hour when they had heard the last farewell from the lips of that fondly loved husband and father, each member of that bereaved circle was hopefully trusting in God as their Father, in Jesus as their blessed Redeemer, and the Holy Spirit as their Sanctifier and Comforter. That mother's heart was made to leap for joy in the midst of the " valley of Baca," and the days of her first great sorrow were light- THE BOY AND THE MAN". 69 ened by a new and grateful gladness. The Lord was better to her than she feared, and her faith in him and his promises was strengthened. But it was not in the family alone that the voices of these young Christians was heard in prayer, for at once they began to take an active part in the social meet- ings, and the influence of these early labors was never lost upon themselves, whatever the effect may have been upon others. It is so much easier to take up the cross in the service of Christ when his love is first shed abroad in the heart, and the glow of devotion is new to the soul, than to delay until silence has become habitual. I am not one of those who believe that every one should be made to speak or pray in public, or be unreason- ably urged to do so ; but I do think that their efforts to do so should be encouraged 70 THE BOY AND THE MAN. by elder Christians. I have heard pro- fessors of religion say that they did not wish to hear young converts speak or pray in meetings when there were more expe- rienced Christians present, for it was not their place, they could not do it to edi- fication, and it was only the same thing over and over again. It was tiresome to listen to them. Is it tiresome to listen to the voice which tells of the joy of par- doned sin, and the love of Christ ? Has not the heart of many an advanced disciple been melted, his love quickened, his faith strengthened, and his good resolutions re- newed, as he has listened to the trembling, yet earnest words of some new-born soul? And is not the youthful soldier better pre- pared to take a bold stand in the army of the Lord for each judicious effort to bear a humble part in the Christian warfare ? Let us, then, be careful not to offend one THE BOY AND THE MAN. 71 of these little ones, who are precious in the sight of the Lord. In a few mouths Edward Cleaveland, with his brother and sister, in company with nearly fifty of the recent hopeful converts, publicly professed their faith in Christ and entered into solemn covenant to be the faithful servants of the Lord. In reference to this occasion Edward said to his brother and sister that it was pleasant to think of uniting with the visible church in company with so many, but, if he should consult his own personal feelings merely, he should prefer to come alone and conse- crate himself publicly; for it seemed to him that the solemn sense of individual responsibility, both toward God and his fellow-men, would be greater. Edward was always strictly moral in all his habits and deportment, so that there was less change in his external character 72 THE BOY AND THE MAN. than may be seen in many, or, perhaps, most young men. He always loved the truth, and was obedient to his parents. He ever respected religion, and admired the examples of piety with which he was familiar, and some portions of the Bible possessed great attractions for him, espe- cially the historical part of it. But the change of heart was none the less real, and none the less needed because of this morality and integrity ; for the motive was not love to God, and he had not until now a saving faith in the atonement of Jesus Christ. But now he truly loved those truths which before he only respected, and de- lighted in the performance of those ser- vices which had been, in a great degree, matters of habit and early education. His heart was now deeply interested in that which formerly only reached his intellect THE BOY AND THE MAX. 13 He was, indeed, a new creature in Christ Jesus, and he saw the necessity of watch- fulness and prayer to overcome a host of easily besetting sins. Christian principle now governed his conduct, and controlled his naturally impul- sive and somewhat impetuous disposition. Grace modified, purified, and strengthened the more noble and elevating elements of his character, and subdued and softened less desirable traits, thus forming a beau- tiful and symmetrical whole. His aspira- tions were lofty, but not ambitious, only as he coveted earnestly the best gifts. His standard for moral and intellectual attain- ments was high, and constantly ascending as he progressed onward and upward. And then came renewed longings of soul for superior advantages and a more thor- ough educational training. But there were even additional reasons why these earnest 4* 74 THE BOY AND THE MAX. desires could not be gratified, and reluc- tantly but cheerfully he yielded, following the dictates of conscience rather than inclination. He could now trust his heav- enly Father's guidance, and fully believe that, although he could not at present understand the reason for this chain of opposing circumstances, yet all was or- dered by unerring and infinite Wisdom and Love, and would result in his highest good. CHAPTER V. HOME DUTIES. GOES ABROAD TO TEACH. AFTER the death of liis father, Edward felt that, for a time at least, his place was at home, to minister to the comfort of his widowed mother, and superintend and assist in the general business of the farm ; as his brother was not yet qualified by age to take charge of such affairs legally. It is almost invariably the fact, when a man in moderate circumstances leaves an estate to be settled by others, the amount of property remaining after settlement is less than was expected; so it proved in the case of Mr. Cleaveland. He was conscious that his pecuniary 76 THE BOY AND THE MAN. affairs were somewhat embarrassed ; still, he left his family with the assured feeling that a pleasant home, and means for a comfortable subsistence would remain for them, after all liabilities were discharged. But the result did not fully realize this expectation. Yet he left them a legacy far richer and more to be desired than houses or lands, or millions of gold and silver, which perish with the using. Edward did not improve in health as the months passed away, and the effort of watching and tending his father in his last distressing illness greatly increased the difficulty in his side, so that it was more than ever apparent that he could never endure the severe practical life of a farm. He consequently decided to leave home as soon, as suitable arrangements could be made, and devote his energies to teaching, The year following the death of his father THE BOY AND THE MAN. 77 he procured a situation in one of the Mid- dle States, and there he labored for four years acceptably and successfully, gaining for himself the warm-hearted affection of his pupils, and the sincere friendship and enduring respect of the community. A large circle of friends gathered around him, who admired his native talents, refined tastes, and high mental, moral, and social character. The flattering attentions he received, and the high position in society which was at once given him, instead of fostering a foolish and vain pride, which is both disgusting to others, and destructive to the continued progress of its possessor, only stimulated Edward Cleaveland to higher attainments, that he might become more truly worthy of the confidence al- ready reposed in him. To the noble mind and heart of one who seeks cultivation and improvement from a correct sense of moral 5* 78 THE BOY AND THE MAN obligation, success will induce a gena.~ a and healthy gratitude, that leads to still more ardent endeavors for future growth; and such was the effect upon our friend. He regarded himself as a creature of God, endowed with powers and faculties capa- ble of endless improvement and expansion. It was to him a holy joy that upward progress would be eternal, and he looked upon it as a sacred duty which he owed to his God and Saviour, to himself and to his fellow-men, to cultivate and enlarge these immortal powers, and, at the same time, it was to him a source of the purest enjoy- ment. And he wished to bless others to the extent of his ability, and for this reason it was a real pleasure to him to impart instruction, and here lay one great element of his success as a teacher. He loved his work, and gave himself to it THE BOY AND THE MAN. 79 enthusiastically. It was not to him a task, but a delightful occupation. Although Edward ' Cleaveland had gone forth from his early home, he carried with him a truly filial heart, and felt that, as the eldest son, he was henceforth to be the stay and support of his widowed mother ; and for this he labored, and to fulfil this mission was a fixed and abiding purpose of his life. Nor was it simply in the relation of a son that the more beautiful and lovely traits, of his character were displayed ; for his generous affection and self-sacrificing devotion were not less apparent in the brother than the son. I have scarcely mentioned Edward's only sister Susan, nor would I here speak of her, did I not feel that the omission of it would do injustice to the subject of this little sketch. Susan was the youngest flower in the little home garden of Mr 80 THE BOY AND THE MAN. Cleaveland. The bud was lovely and beautiful, giving to those tender parents fair promise for the full and bright devel- opment of their cherished plant. Those brothers, too, loved her most ten- derly, and when she was a wee bit of a baby, Edward, though a very little boy, would sit in his little chair, and entreat his mother to let him hold his dear sister, and when she placed her in his arms he would hold her most carefully, and gaze admiringly on her chubby, round face, and bright black eyes. And, to his vision, at least, she was exceedingly beautiful. But scarce six summers had passed over her curly head when the blighting breath of disease swept over her. The rose faded from her cheek, and never blossomed there more, and the blooming flower was changed to the pale, white lily. Those sparkling eyes were dimmed, and, at times, the win- THE BOY AND THE MAN. 81 dows of her little soul -were almost blot- ted out. For many years a deep green shade at all times screened her eyes from the glad light of the sun, and almost covered her pale face. Although she dearly loved to read and study, it was only with her ears that her desire for knowledge could be gratified. But kind friends often read to her, and during their vacations her brothers used daily to devote an hour or two to reading her lessons in geography, history, and other primary studies, and then question her on what they had read. In this way she learned a little without using her eyes. She was always the pet of the house- hold, but a new element entered into their hearts as they beheld the stricken child. The loving pride which was awakened by the beautiful bud, gave place to a more 82 THE BOY AND THE MAN. tender, sympathizing, watchful love. Not that they ever failed to love her truly, but they afterwards felt that too much of pride had been indulged, and they saw the goodness and mercy of their kind heavenly Father in thus testing their love to him by laying his hand upon their little idol. Although after many years of suffering, medical treatment, under the blessing of God, availed to remove in a great measure the effect of disease, yet she was never fully restored, but was ever a fragile plant, that those tender friends believed could never endure the rougher duties of life, and most lovingly they sought to shield her from each rude blast. Edward Cleaveland always loved his . sister with the strength of his warm, gen- erous, noble heart, and when that beloved, affectionate father was taken away, ho cherished for her not only a brother'? THE BOY AND THE MAN. 83 constant affection, but there was also added to and blended with it something of a father's watchful care. When she was able to attend school, which was not until after the death of her father, Edward from his own salary de- frayed her expenses, and was never weary of contributing to her comfort and im- provement. It was not without self-denial that these offices of love were performed by him, for he had only a moderate salary. But the more he cared for her wants and ministered to her necessity, the more closely was his heart bound to her, until their very lives seemed blended together. Her school friends used playfully to tell Susan that they were "much more like lovers than brother and sister, nor was their attachment less strong, deep, and abiding, though, of course, different in its nature, from the affection of two hearts 84 THE BOY AND THE MAN. bearing to each other the relation of lovers. One who knew Edward Cleaveland well for the last five years of his life said, in alluding to this brother and sister, " They are my beau ideal of what a brother and sister should be to each other." And, certainly, there are very few whose char- acter as a brother shines brighter than did that of Edward Cleaveland; and he was honored and respected for it while living, and by many has bis name been praised for it since he passed away to the better land. There are not a few young men who seem to feel that their manliness and dig- nity are compromised by any polite and affectionate attentions to their sisters, especially if any other young ladies are present ; and more particularly is this feel- ing manifested by those brothers who nave THE BOY AND THE MAN. 85 enjoyed greater social and educational ad- vantages than their sisters. But such young men never win for themselves the respect of the truly noble in society. And the same remark may apply with equal force to many a " would be " accomplished young lady, who treats with marked indifference, or even disrespect, her worthy but less favored brother. Alas ! such foolish, short- sighted creatures realize little the injury they are thus doing to both themselves and others. The truly cultivated and refined brother or sister may be of incal- culable service to other members of the home circle without any sacrifice of real good, but, on the contrary, will reap a rich reward in their own hearts. Self-denial, when exercised from right motives, and for the real good of others, yields some of the choicest fruit, and is the source of the sweetest joy that this world affords. 8 86 THE BOY AND THE MAN. The consciousness of being a comfort and blessing to others will compensate for the loss of many more selfish pleasures, and this joy gladdened the soul of Edward Cleaveland ' for many years of his life. The promise is sure, " The liberal soul shall be made fat; and he that watereth shall be watered also himself." To be sure, it is not always that the riches of this world are granted as the reward of true benevolence, but there are riches far more precious than the golden treasures of earth, which often " take to themselves wings and fly away," but these shall abide forever. And here I would mention a very rare but strikingly beautiful instance of filial and fraternal affection, overruling all other emotions and wishes, strong and tender as those other natural and reasonable long- ings of the soul might be. It was a high THE BOY AND THE MAN. 87 and noble but secret resolve that Edward Cleaveland made, and pledged himself to his own heart and his God to perform. He solemnly determined that his first duty was to provide for his mother and sister, and firmly resolved that he would never seek a home of his own, or allow his heart to fix its purest and holiest affections upon another, who might be the sunlight of such a home and the sharer of all his joys and sorrows, until his pecu- niary resources should be such that he could do so without any infringement upon what he regarded as his first duty. And faithfully did he execute his pur- pose, despite the earnest remonstrance of friends who could not read his heart, for he boasted not of his noble motive, and revealed it to very few. His sensitive spirit was often grieved as the thoughtless jest or the words of ridicule were turned 88 THE BOY AND THE MAN. against him, by those who did not under- stand and could not appreciate the circum- stances. He had the consciousness of right intent and the approval of his own heart, and, he fully believed, the blessed sanction of his Friend above. He was ever cheerful and happy, enjoying the many pleasures which surrounded him, without making himself unhappy by fruitless re- pinings for other joys. CHAPTER VI. HIS HEALTH FAILS. HE IS OBLIGED TO LEAVE TEACHING FOB A TIME. THE months and years passed very pleasantly to Edward Cleaveland, for he loved his work, and rejoiced in the visible improvement of his pupils, and the -in- creasing favor and respect of his patrons. But he labored too constantly, and allowed himself too little time for recreation and rest. He had not yet learned to exercise that care and attention to his physical well-being which experience taught him were indispensable to the preservation of his health. With the exception of a yearly visit to his home friends, he scarcely allowed him- 8* 90 THE BOY AND THE MAN. self a week of relaxation for four years, and his duties were often very arduous. At the expiration of his fourth year of teaching he was so much debilitated as to render rest, or, at least, a change of occu- pation absolutely indispensable, unless he was willing to incur the guilt of commit- ting slow, but certain suicide. It was not from choice, but necessity, that he bade adieu to his pupils and many friends in the delightful village of M. and its vicinity, and turned his face northward, expecting to return no more to his beloved charge. The pain in his side had been constant, and often very severe, and yet, so bright and cheerful was his spirit, and his face always so animated and pleasant, that no one would ever suspect that he experi- enced aught of pain. It is a blessed power which is given to some people to rise above the sufferingi of the physical THE BOY AND THE MAN. 91 nature, and maintain a habitual and un- feigned cheerfulness under the most trying experiences of a diseased system. It is an attainment well worth striving after most earnestly and prayerfully, for it often adds very essentially to the comfort of those about us, and tends in a high degree to hasten the recovery of the sufferer. It is an occasion of gratitude to our kind Father in heaven, if ever such self-control is granted, and such perfect submission to all his dealings, that we can truly " rejoice in the Lord at all times," and " count it all joy," when we are passing through the various trials or " temptations " we experience here below. Edward left with the best wishes of many true friends, and their unfeigned regrets. He returned home much en- feebled, and many fears were entertained that he would never be fully restored to 92 THE BOY AND THE MAN. health; and, indeed, he could not expect to be strong and robust, for his constitu- tion was greatly impaired. He passed some weeks very pleasantly wit*h the home circle, and spent a part of the summer in travelling through the Green Mountain State, and the north- eastern portion of New York. He pos- sessed, in a remarkable degree, an eye and taste for whatever was beautiful or sub- lime in nature or art. His soul would seem filled with delight as he gazed upon a charming landscape, and it would be so indelibly painted upon his mind that it wag ever after a source of pleasure to him; and the true and rational happiness ho experienced from a ramble over the hills and vales of our beautiful New Eng- land contributed very essentially to the promotion of physical health. He looked upon the beauties of this world as the gift THE BOY AND THE MAN. 93 of our kind Creator, and regarded it as ingratitude to him not to love, admire, and appreciate these tokens of his power and loving care, and wherever he went ho endeavored to cultivate this refining and elevating taste, both in himself and others. He was not a man of " one idea," and never sought to excel in one particular merely, but he labored to attain a high standard in mental, moral, social, and reli- gious excellence ; and he was ever on the watch for some opportunity to gain useful knowledge, and was quite as ready to im- part to others what he had acquired. He was a keen observer of men and things, and therefore his travels were not in vain. Life to him was not simply existence, nor was it a weary toil, but a noble, God-given blessing. To quote his own words, " Oh, forsaken of God and despised by man must he be who has no eye for beauty, no 94 THE BOY AND THE MAN. ear for music, no band for toil, no head for thought, and no heart for love." For more than a year Edward Cleave- land passed his time principally in the pursuit of health, partly at home, partly in travelling and other temporary occu- pations. And very delightful to the mem- ory of some of his friends is the remem- brance of those weeks and months when they enjoyed his presence. Those pleasant'social readings, the rides and walks, the quiet talks and cheerful hours of those days, are precious treasures of the heart. The rest and change were beneficial to his health, the pain in his side entirely left him, and he once more returned to his loved employment of teach- ing. He was called to take charge of a grammar school in one of the most beau- tiful villages in Massachusetts, and soon THE BOY AND THE MAN. 95 the place grew to be a prosperous inland city. His health was so far restored that he thought best to accept the offer, nor did he ever regret the decision. For eight years he labored in the same school, and there hundreds were brought under his influence, who have since gone forth into the wide world, many of them bearing in their characters the impress of his mould- ing hand. He did not feel that he was laboring merely for a present good, or that the effect was to cease with time and the life of the pupil here below. He looked beyond the fleeting hours, and the eventful scenes even of this world, and remembered that he was training minds not only to bear the responsibilities of the present life, but also for immortality. CHAPTER VII. " HIS OWN IDEAS OP A TEACHER'S RESPONSI- BILITIES. WE can best understand his aim and success as a teacher of youth by glancing at some of his own written opinions on the subject; and, hoping the influence upon the reader may be one of practical good, I will venture to quote some passages addressed to his fellow-teachers. It will be seen that he regarded tbe parent and teacher as coworkers in the high and holy calling of training the youthful mind, and that they were mutually dependent upon each other for success, " The physical, mental, and moral growth and development of a child should be THE BOY AND THE MAN. 97 watched and guarded with the most care- ful attention by every parent and teacher. There is no employment on earth which carries with it such heavy responsibilities, and which is so endless in its consequences as the moulding of the character and tastes, and, in a great measure, control- ling the happiness and destiny of an im- mortal being. This work has been com- mitted almost wholly to the parent and the teacher. The trust is most assuredly theirs. " Plans for breaking up bad habits, such as idleness, carelessness, profanity, and lying, should be mutually discussed, and when adopted, should be carried to. a successful result by the earnest and hearty cooperation of both parent and teacher. The first thing to be secured is the habit of obedience, without which nothing can be accomplished. This is of vital importance, and no child 9 08 THE BOY AND THE MAN. can be well educated without it. It is tho corner-stone in the character of an intelli- gent, moral, and noble-minded man. Diso- bedience has filled our reform schools, our prisons, and our penitentiaries, and has brought and is bringing incalculable misery upon the human family. " Mobs are headed, riots instigated, laws trampled upon, and governments over- thrown, by those, and those only, who were accustomed to disobey their parents and teachers. Here should be the most perfect unanimity of feeling and action. If the rules and regulations of a school are just, obedience should be uncom- promisingly maintained, by both parent and teacher. A misunderstanding on this point may prove fatal to progress, and forever ruin the child. " The health of the young should be an object of special attention. 'A souud THE BOY AND THE MAN. 99 mind in a sound body,' is a maxim full of meaning. Habits which debilitate the body and impair its vigor should be broken up, a stooping posture changed to an erect one, awkwardness of manner to case and grace, roughness and vulgarity to gentle- ness and purity. The mental powers should be harmoniously developed and judiciously directed. Thoroughness of in- struction is also a matter of great im- portance. Many, it is to be feared, are too superficial in their instruction ; forcing the child through a great number of pages, without his deriving any available knowl- edge, or permanent power. " The habits, passions, and morals of the young should be watched and guided with ceaseless vigilance. Habits may be formed which shall make the individual a disagreeable, disorderly, and unendurable member of society, or a pleasant, amiable, 100 THE BOY AND THE MAN. and ever-wclcorae visitant at every fireside. Passions, which, if left uncontrolled, may prompt the blasphemous oath, and delight in scenes of wickedness and cruelty, may, if rightly directed, make heroes as brave as Washington, philanthropists as perse- vering as Howard, or preachers as earnest and powerful as Baxter and Whitefield. " The morals of a child may become so depraved that virtue cannot breathe in its presence, and goodness shall shrink back at its approach as from a leper's touch, and its effect upon society may be more dreaded than the breath of a pestilence; or its principles may be so correct, and its life so pure, as to exert an elevating and ennobling influence over all with whom it comes in contact. " Thus we see that the most weighty responsibilities rest upon parents and teachers, and to train the young aright THE BOY AND THE MAN. 101 demands unwearied diligence, an enlight- ened view of what true education is, and a conscientious discharge of every duty. What is time for, unless it is given us to prepare ourselves, and those over whom we have an influence, for usefulness here and lasting happiness hereafter ? Shall the decaying body receive the most careful attention, and the imperishable mind no watchful care and assiduous culture ? Far better would it be for a man to leave a hovel, with intelligence and virtue, as an inheritance to his children, than the riches of Astor, with ignorance and depravity. " When parents and teachers shall look upon the subject of education in its true light, faithfully discharge every duty, and conscientiously fulfil every obligation to the young, a new era will be ushered in. Then, indeed, we may hope with assurance < that our sons may be as plants grown up 9* 102 THE BOY AND THE MAN. in their youth ; and our daughters may be as corner-stones, polished after the simili- tude of a palace.' " And again, he says, " Let the teacher forget that he is engaged in a vexing, thankless, and life-exhausting profession, and laboring for an unrcquiting remunera- tion ; but let him remember that deathless minds are given him to cultivate, and with a resistless energy, an ardent zeal, and an all-absorbing love, let him devote himself to doing good to his pupils. Let his soul burn within him as he meets their smiling and intelligent countenances, and witnesses the daily development of their growing minds. Let his eye brighten as he reads their destiny in the future. One may yet guide the helm of state like Washington, or, like him, lead the armies of his country to battle. One, like Franklin, may yet represent the wisdom of his country at THE BOY AN'D THE MAN. 103 foreign courts. One may preside on the cc ?<;!?. like Marshall ; or lead iu the coun- cils of state, like Webster: or sway the Hind* f the masses, like Clay; or deliver a. message from the Most High, like White ^eld. Or there may be some who l shall tread the fiimament with a Newton's step, or strike the harp of song with a Milton's baud.' And, higher and nobler than all, they ars candidates for the society of augiJs au'l glorified spirits at the court of the K^ng of kings. " Let us icoio.niber that there is a pur- pose to be aocGinpl'sbed in living, and that life is too short, Its mc'iip.uto too precious, and the consequences which hang upon it arc too momentous, to hare i*. spent in idleness and inactivity. We have minds to be cultivated, and hearts to oe iniriiicd. 'It is not all of life to live.' E\:s:^nce is 104 THE BOY AND THE MAN. not life. Breath is not life, the life of the mind and soul. " The existence of the grazing ox, of the condemned criminal, or the ignorant Hin- doo, or the degraded Hottentot, is not the life we covet. It is not the joyous and happy existence of the intellect. It is not the refined and elevated enjoyment of a cultivated mind. It is not the hallowed bliss of a noble, pure, and Christian heart. " ' We live in deeds, not years ; in thoughts, not breaths ; In feelings, not in figures on a dial. We should count time by heart-throbs, when they beat For God, for man, and duty. lie most lives Who thinks most, feels noblest, acts the best ; And he whose heart beats quickest lives the longest, Lives more in one hour than in years do some, Whose blood sleeps as it slips along their veins.' " THE BOY AND THE MAN. 105 And in these passages may be read the great and noble principles and feelings which ruled the conduct and life of Edward Cleavcland, in the various relations he sustained, as teacher, friend, citizen, and Christian ; for he was an earnest man, and, in the noblest sense, enthusiastic. It was his custom to spend the vacations in travelling, or in some active rural em- ployment which would be both healthful and pleasant; for he had learned lessons of wisdom from past experience. But whether he was climbing the rugged ascent of Mount Washington, or feasting his eyes upon the beautiful scenery around the base of Catskill, or camping out in the forests about Moosehead Lake, or gazing with rapture upon the unspeakable grandeur and sublimity of Niagara, listening to the melody of its falling waters, he did not fail to remember his beloved and loving 106 THE BOY AND THE MAN. charge. But lie always treasured in his retentive memory the brightest scenes, the fairest sights, and most instructive inci- dents, to relate to his pupils on his return. And he possessed such a power of descrip- tion, and such vividness of expression, that it would seem to his eager listeners as an almost present and visible reality. They always expected a rich treat whenever he returned to them from any such excursion. One of his pupils once said, " I wi.-h Mr. Cleaveland could travel round the globe, and then come back and describe it to us." He was exceedingly fond of poetry, and his mind was a rich storehouse of beautiful extracts, expressing the loftiest thoughts of the choicest writers of ancient and modern times. And he inculcated the habit in his pupils of committing to mem- ory such passages as were worth pre- THE BOY AXD THE MAX. 107 serving, and then they might be ever- present and available sources of pleasure and profit to themselves and others. And he not unfrequcntly read to them selections from some of the most gifted authors, to cultivate and improve in them an appre- ciative taste for the truly beautiful in prose and poetry. And sometimes, too, he would grant them a little salutary relaxation and amusement by reading some humorous or ludicrous description or inci- dent, and allowing them all to join with him in a genuine, hearty laugh, together. They regarded it as a special favor when he would comply with the earnest request, (< Do please read us something this after- noon, Mr. Clcavcland." And sparkling eyes would beam upon him from a hundred deeply interested and grateful counte- nances as he read, while his own eye would kindle, and his whole face glow in 108 THE BOY AND THE MAN. full sympathy with the spirit of the author he was reading. If there was one point in which Mr. Cleaveland excelled above all others as a teacher, it was in his discipline. The most perfect order and obedience were always maintained, and rarely can a school be found where such quiet regularity prevails. But there was no display of authority, and no severity exercised. If punishment was needful, it was judiciously and thoroughly administered, but with such calmness and force of reason that the delinquent would invariably feel and acknowledge the justice of the discipline. His pupils, it might well-nigh be trutn- fully said, without a single exception, loved and almost adored him. It is true, they feared to displease him; but it was the fear of love, and no slavish feeling. At recess, or out of school, they would gather THE BOY AND THE MAN. 109 about him with all the familiarity of a child with a loving father: and well he knew how to amuse and interest them; often proposing some question or quoting some maxim that would long be treasured for good. But the instant the pointer of the clock indicated the hour for study, they would quietly and almost noiselessly resume their seats. Mr. Cleavelaud also excelled in illustra- tions of any truth or principle, and conse- quently the recitations in his school were attractive and pleasant, as well as thor- oughly practical, and clearly understood by the scholar. But it was not in the public school alone that Mr. Cleaveland's influence was felt and appreciated. From the first, he was, in some capacity, connected with the Sab- bath school, in the church to which he removed his relation in the city where he 110 THE BOY AND THE MAN. resided. He was, for a little time, a pupil in a class of young men, for I have said before that he always loved the Sabbath school. He was soon invited to take charge of a class of young ladies, and he complied with the request. And here, as in the day school, he was beloved and respected, and his memory is still very dear and pleasant to the members of that class. We have seen that in his boyhood he became familiar with the pages of Iloly Writ, and years increased his knowledge of the Scriptures, and grace gave him a true heart-appreciation of the truths there- in revealed, while his refined taste de- lighted in the unsurpassed beauty and sublimity of those inspired pages. lie was afterwards chosen to fill the office of superintendent in the school, which position he occupied for several THE BOY AND THE MAN. Ill rears, until he found the tax upon his physical strength too great an addition to the duties of the week to justify its jontinuancc. This relation was a pleasant }nc to both superintendent and the school, for he possessed the respect and confi- dence of the older members, and the affectionate regard of the children. He was always, and in every place, a great favorite with the little folks ; for he knew them all, and never met them without a j-leasant word, or, at least, a kindly smile of recognition. Mr. Cleavcland interested himself and others particularly in the exercises of the Sabbath-school concert, until it became the most delightful and fully attended evening meeting of the church. Old and young seemed equally interested in the return of this anticipated monthly meet- ing. The children claimed it as thci 112 7HE BOY AND THE MAN. meeting, in a peculiar sense, and the older members, not only of the Sabbath school, but of the whole congregation, looked upon the "children's meeting" as best of all. While Mr. Cleaveland was superinten- dent of the school, which was for several years, he felt that much of the responsi- bility of this meeting rested upon him. It is true there were other able, willing, and efficient helpers, but he was expected to take a leading part in the exercises. He never went without previous thought and preparation, and always endeavored to bring with him some new and instructive story to relate to the children, and, with a few well-chosen words, seek to enforce the moral which the story was calculated to inculcate ; and he was ever listened to with eager attention. Although years have passed away since THE BOY AND THE MAN. 113 bis voice was hushed by the angel of death, there are now members of that church who never enter one of those meetings, and mingle in the pleasant exercises, without remembering the tall, slender form, the pale, expressive countenance, the large, 11 thought-speaking " eye, and clear, deep voice, and impressive manner of the former beloved superintendent. And thus, though dead, he yet speaks to them in words of earnest and heartfelt instruction, urging them onward in life's great work. And he was also a regular attendant of the other weekly meetings of the church, for social conference and prayer. Often has his voice been heard in that conse- crated chapel, in words of supplication and fervent thanksgiving, as well as earn- est exhortation, and mingling in the songs of praise. He was ever a welcome guest at the 10* 114 THE BOY AND THE MAN. fireside or in the social circle, and he possessed a rare power of entertaining all, both old and young. And so bright and cheerful was he that sadness would flee away in his presence, though his heart was ever full of tender sympathy for the sorrowing. But he was in an eminent degree hopeful, both for himself and others, and looked more upon the bright than the dark side of life. He seemed to carry sunlight in his heart, and shed a glad ray of it wherever he went. This cheerfulness was not so much the effect of his natural disposition as the result of an active Christian principle, and confiding trust in the kindness and wisdom of his heavenly Father. lie looked upon what arc often termed the trilling events of life as no less under the guidance of Providence than great events. CHAPTER VIII. HIS MARRIAGE, AND OTHER INCIDENTS. I HAVE already spoken of the reason why Mr. Cleave land remained single so long; and still those same dear friends were, in a great measure, dependent upon him for pecuniary assistance. And cheer- fully and heartily was it always given, and the " Lord loveth the cheerful giver." Al- though his brother had a willing heart, he was so situated that he could do no more than care for the wants of his own family. And there is one thing worthy of men- tion with reference to his care and faithful kindness for his mother and sister. During 116 THE BOY AND THE MAN. the many years in which he supplied their wants, they were rarely ever obliged to call upon him for what they needed. Their wants were almost invariably anticipated by him, and, when their present need was supplied, he always added, " If you need anything more let me know, and it will give me pleasure to furnish it." This may appear a thing of no consequence, but it contributed not a little to the happiness of that dear mother and sister, and is recorded for imitation by others. But at length he felt that the Lord had prospered him in such measure that he might add another to the family circle, without curtailing his kind offices t<5 its present members. "With continued health And prosperity he might now look forward to a home of his own, " with a loving heart to cheer him." He was well fitted to enjoy domestic THE BOY AND THE MAN. 117 life, and also to make home a happy place to others, and he would appreciate home comforts none the less for the years of boarding he had experienced, although he was richly favored in finding pleasant homes as a boarder, for he was always recognized as a member of the family and a valued friend. But this did not satisfy the longings of his warm and loving heart, for there was a void which common friends, or tenderly attached friends, could never fill. He wanted one to love and call his own. And God blessed him in the wish, and gave him a fair and lovely bride, with a faithful, loving, trusting heart, in whom he might safely repose all the wealth of his strong, deep, constant, and overflowing affections. And it was no common heart he offered her; but a manly, noble, and truly sincere and affectionate soul. And she was will- 118 THE BOY AND THE MAN. ing to share and encourage his kindly attentions to those he loved. When he brought her to his temporary home his heart seemed full of grateful joy, and he often expressed the hope that they might live many years, and " grow old together." Swiftly and happily the months glided away, and he seemed fully to realize his bright hopes and visions of bliss. He was not ambitious to make a display, or to "live in style," as it is so often termed, but was willing to conform to his circum- stances, fully believing that those friends who were worthy to bear that sacred name would love and respect him none the less for consistently pursuing the course he thought best. It is true that wealth and station have far too great an influence in forming the opinions of society, in individual cases, and, perhaps, with the THE BOY AND THE MAN. 119 masses; but true worth, and purity of character, with a cultivated intellect, will generally be eventually respected and ap- preciated for its own sake, by the better portion of any community. And most certainly is this true in the city where Mr. Cleaveland resided. Quietly, but very pleasantly the year passed away, with no event of unusual interest to our friend. It was doubtless to him the happiest year of his life, and this is saying much, in his case, for in other years he had enjoyed more real happiness than most of the human family. It was a favorite saying with him, that he believed he "had lived longer than Me- thusaleh did in his nine hundred and sixty- nine years, counting its length by what really constituted true life on earth." And not less happy was the young wife he had chosen, for her fondest hopes were 120 THE BOY AND THE MAN. realized in the tender, thoughtful, consid- erate kindness of her husband. Precious, very precious to her now lonely and deso- late heart is the memory of those glad days, so full of deep and quiet joy. Just at the close of the second winter of their union God gave them a fair and beautiful rosebud to cherish and nurture with loving care. A lovely little daughter nestled closely to that young mother's heart, and a new fountain of love was opened in that father's soul. Their cup of joy seemed filled to the brim, and they gave God thanks. They received the treasure as a gift from God, bringing with it new responsi- bilities, and new joys. It was an im- mortal being, and must be trained for the glory of the Creator. And each morning and evening, as the father knelt at the family altar, his hear* The Boy and the Man. Page 120. THE BOY AND THE MAN. 121 gave utterance to words of fervent prayer for the richest of Heaven's blessings to rest on the little one committed to their care; that she might grow up to be a useful member of Christ's church below, and finally, through the washing of regen- eration in the blood of a crucified Saviour, be permitted to dwell in the presence of God, angels, and glorified spirits for- ever. Could he have foreseen the sudden and dreadful blow which was soon to smite that beloved band, he would scarcely have been more earnest in his petitions at the throne of grace, or more tender and urgent in his words of counsel to the wife he loved so devotedly, to train the little one aright, and especially entreat- ing her to secure the obedience of the child. May we not believe that our loving 11 122 THE BOY AND THE MAN. heavenly Father, all unseen and unfelt at the time, prepares the way, in a measure, for the events which he sees we are soon to meet? CHAPTER IX. THE CLOSING SCENE. WE must now turn from the brighter scenes and joyous hopes of past pages, and look at the darkness and sad desola- tion which so suddenly came upon the family and friends of Edward Cleaveland. The night of sorrow closed over them with little warning, though to him, we firmly believe, it was but the glorious dawning of an endless day. There were some who had watched the thin, pale face of Mr. Cleaveland through the winter with solicitude, for they feared he was taxing his strength too much. But he was so happy and hopeful, so active, 124 THE BOY AND THE MAN. and so fully confident that he was not only quite as well, but even much better than usual, that his home friends were satisfied. A week before the close of his winter term in school, and when his infant daugh- ter was but three weeks old, he was attacked with a severe cold. For the first few days little apprehension was felt, although he had some fever, and he seemed more prostrated than he usually did from attacks of illness. Still, it was thought to be partly exhaustion from the labors of a long term, rather than the effect of dis- ease. Medical advice was promptly called, and his physician attended him with all the faithfulness and care of a friend and brother. Although the affectionate wife was unable to minister to his wants, other careful hands and loving hearts nursed him most tenderly. He seemed from the first THE BOY AND THE MAN. 125 unlike his former self, for his elasticity and buoyancy of spirit, which ever char- acterized him, even in sickness, was gone, though he fondly expected to be with his dear pupils again before the close of the week. On the sixth day of his illness, when the physician and friends indulged the hope that he was better, the disease suddenly and unexpectedly became seated upon his lungs, where the seeds of destruction had long been working, silently, and all un- known to himself and friends, save his physician. He was from that hour delirious, and never for one moment realized his situa- tion in the least. He recognized his friends, and manifested a thoughtful care for their health and comfort, but was wholly unconscious of the anxiety and sorrow which filled their almost bursting 11* 126 THE BOY AND THE MAN. hearts, but which they strove to conceal from him. Could he have known and realized the numberless expressions of love and sym- pathy given by a multitude of anxious friends, his warm heart would have melted with tender gratitude, and he could not have desired a dearer place in the hearts of any people than he held in the community where he lived and labored for so many years. If he did not understand these proofs of love, they were not unnoticed by Him who has said, " Inasmuch as ye have done it unto the least of these, ye have done it unto me." And if the daily prayers of that afflicted circle avail anything before the Throne, then, indeed, will the friends of those dark and bitter hours be richly blessed of heaven's great King. And many were the fervent prayers THE BOY AND THE MAN. 127 which went up from scores of hearts, that the great Physician would graciously re- store to health and active duties this beloved man ; for they felt that " he could not be spared." All that tender love and medical skill could do for him was faithfully done, and then, in faith, they sought to leave the result with a faithful, covenant-keeping God, asking for submission to his righteous will, whatever it might be. " My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts." The Most High had need of this servant in an upper sphere, and he saw, too, that it was needful to try the hearts of this household band, and many friends, and test their love and confidence 128 THE BOY AND THE MAN. in him, by taking from them " the strong stay and beautiful staff" on whom they had so lovingly and confidingly leaned. It was not in anger, but in tender love that he sent this arrow from his quiver. It is in mercy that " He comes and takes the heart, and lays it On his hard anvil, minded so Into his own fair shape to beat it, With his great hammer, blow on blow." And rapidly, very rapidly, his system yielded to the power of disease. The ninth day of his illness, being the third after his more critical attack, was the holy Sabbath, and it was a Sabbath never to be forgotten by that circle of weeping friends, for it was the last day that the eyes of their loved one opened on earth. Through the long hours of that day hope and fear kept them in fearful suspense. THE BOY AND THE MAN. 129 He was constantly delirious, and had no suspicion of the change before him. No parting words were left, as precious lega- cies of a dying hour, but in youth and health he had made his peace with God, and committed his soul to his Saviour's care and keeping. His work on earth was ended. At evening he seemed to fall asleep, but it was the sleep of death. For two hours he lay all unconscious of those about him, and then his spirit soared away to be forever with the Lord. He had no share in the bitterness and anguish of parting, but was kindly spared it all. It would have been very hard for him thua to leave his beloved and helpless family, though we fully believe grace would have been granted, that would enable him to say heartily, "Thy will, O God, be done." In life, he delighted in pleasant sur- THE BOY AND THE MAN. prises, and was it not a glad surprise that broke upon his raptured soul, as he beheld the glory of tho celestial city, and entered its pearly gates? "Why should we grieve that to him 'tis given To tune his lyre in the courts of heaven ? " But those loving hearts were rent with anguish. The blow, so sudden and so heavy, had well-nigh crushed them. They could not murmur, for they knew and felt that God docth all things well. It was "well " that the young, affection- ate wife should be left in early widow- hood, with the care of a tender infant, that she might claim the promise, " Thy Maker is thy husband, the Lord of Hosts is his name." It was " well " that the precious daughter of only one short month should thus early be left with no father THE BOY AND THE MAN. 131 to guide and protect her, save him who has said, " I will be a Father unto thee." It was " well " that the widowed mother, in her declining years, then at a distance from the sorrowing circle, should receive the sudden intelligence which fell upon her almost as a thunderbolt from a clear eky, that the darling son on whom she leaned had passed away from earth, that ehe might listen to the words, " Call upon me in the day of trouble, I will deliver thee, and thou thalt glorify me." And again, I will never leave thee, nor for- sake taee." "Feai not, for I am with thee." l will hold thee." It was ''well" that the bereaved brother, who had relied on the dear departed one for counsel, should obey the voice which jays, " If any man lack wisdom, let him ask of God* who gfteth t alt 'men liber- 132 THE B07 AND THE MAN. ally, and upbraideth not, and it shall be given him." It was "well" that the stricken sister, whose very life seemed bound with that of this brother-father, should learn to look to the " Elder Brother " more entirely, and remember " There is a Friend who sticketh closer than a brother." And it was " well " that the hundreds of pupils and friends should "cease from man, whose breath is in his nostrils," and heed the warning which loudly said to them, " Prepare to meet thy God." All this was well, for the Lord had done it. And now let us turn for a moment to the words of this dear friend, which he addressed to a bereaved friend, for it may show us from whence he derived consola- tion in sorrow, and may apply to the stricken ofrttfc fi^Mcluifie. j4cf ^ 'IJ4 .is a sed thing, when all other sources of THE BOY AND THE MAN. 133 consolation fail, to feel we have a Friend above, who is ever present, and ever ready to minister to us in the day of affliction. Like David, we should ' trust in the Lord at all times.' If our friends, whom we so dearly love, are taken from us, we should be thankful that they have been spared to us so long, and that we have been permit- ted to enjoy so much in their presence, and to be so happy with them while they lived. " I know what it is to stand by the sick bed of those I loved, and watch for the approach of the destroying angel. " I know what it is to receive the dyin blessing of a fond father, and to have heart stricken, and my home made dc late, and the world look dark covered, as it w foi , and 12 134 THE BOY AND THE MAN. afforded, and I could rejoice in him who doeth all thkgs well. "Kind friends can do much to assuage our grief, and it is very pleasant to know that others sympathize with us. But nothing is so efficacious as prayer. We can pour our petitions into an ear that is ever open, and know, if we pray aright, we shall be comforted. " It is a blessed thing that we are per- mitted to feel that Jesus has prepared mansions for us, where sickness and sor- row shall never enter, and where we shall never be called to part with those we love. It is a blessed thing that when our trials greater than we can bear, we can feel 'verlasting arm underneath us, and ni v voice whispering 'peace* trust, is THE BOY AND THE MAN. 135 Jehovah let the sorrowing ones find rest. As Mr. Cleaveland lay shrouded for the tomb, many of his former pupils and friends came to gaze, through fast-falling tears, on the pale, still face of him they loved so well, and who so lately was among them in life and health. The swol- len eyes, the suppressed or bursting sob, and the sad, downcast expression, told most plainly that a much-loved friend had left them, though few were the words they uttered. One smart, intelligent Irish lad, whom he had encouraged, said, as he looked upon him for the last time, while lears rolled down his cheeks, "He was ny friend, and never can a man be found to fill his place." A poor colored woman came with some who had been members of his school, and, in the fulness of her heart, she said, " He was a good man, and 136 THE BOY AND THE MAN always treated black folks just as he did white ones." The rich and poor, the old and young, all united in the expression of affectionate and sincere respect. It was an April day when that manly form was borne to its final home. The morning was bright and pleasant, but clouds soon gathered in the sky, and the close of day was dark and rainy, in sad harmony with the smitten hearts who could see for themselves no light on earth, only loneliness and sorrow. A few friends gathered with the pas- tor at an early hour in the house of mourning, and there the dear fatherless babe was consecrated in baptism, and commended to the tender care of a cove- nant-keeping God. It was a touching sight to see that fair bride of just sixteen months before, now THE BOY AND THE MAN. 137 tfn the garb of widowhood, thus early bringing her firstborn to the altar, alone. And we believe there was One who looked down from the throne, and with tender compassion accepted the offering, and will ever care for and bless this precious lamb. And then those dear remains were car- ried to the church, and placed upon the platform, where, in months and years that were past, he had so often stood before the Sabbath school. And now .-- "Fragrant flowers in wreaths lay near him, In this saddened scene of death," wreaths that were woven by loving hands for a teacher's burial. In almost hushed and softened strains the organ poured sweet melody, and the choir touchingly sung that beautiful hymn, 12* 138 THE EOT AND THE MAN. "Why lament the Christian dying? Why indulge in tears or gloom? Calmly on the Lord relying, He can greet the opening tomb. "What if death, with icy fingers, All the fount of life congeals ? Tis not there thy brother lingers, 'Tis not death his spirit feels. * Though for him thy soul is mourning, Though for him thy heart is riven, While to dust his flesh is turning, All his soul is filled with heaven. " Scenes seraphic, high and glorious, Now forbid his longer stay; See him rise o'er death victorious; Angels beckon him away. "Hark! the golden harps are ringing; Sounds . celestial fill his ear; Millions now in heaven singing, Greet his joyful entrance there.'* THE BOY AND THE MAN. 139 And then the ninety-first Psalm was read, which had long been a precious favorite with the deceased. Ilumble, fervent, and appropriate prayers were offered, and, at the close of the exer- cises, the many hundreds who had gathered to pay this tribute of affection to the be- loved friend, teacher, citizen, and Christian brother, gave one last look at those famil- iar features, then turned away, with tearful eyes 'and sorrowing hearts. In the afternoon, a faithful band of oiourners accompanied his precious dust to his native town, and then, in the church where he first professed his faith in Christ, the last sad services were held, and there were assembled many who had known and loved the boy, the youth, and the man. Then all that was mortal of Edward Gleaveland was carried to the quiet rest- ing-place of his fathers, there to repose 140 THE BOY AND THE MAN. till the last great day. And there we will leave him, for God will guard that sacred dust. Is there no influence for good to be derived from these few pages? no high resolve for upward progres's strengthened and encouraged to active, persevering ef- fort? Is there no wish to imitate what was noble and Godlike ? If a single good seed has been sown, cherish and nurture it carefully, that it may bring forth fruit a hundred-fold. " But look not back 1 Oh, triumph in the 'strength Of an exalted purpose 1 Eagle-like Press sunward on. Thou shalt not be alone. Have but an eye on God, as surely God Will have an eye on thee, press on ! press on ! " The fear of the Lord is a fountain of life, to depart from the snares of death. JS8&6 LIBRARY